Fresh & Fit - February 11, 2026


Dating is Cooked but This is How You Can Win


Episode Stats


Length

1 hour and 3 minutes

Words per minute

154.93071

Word count

9,882

Sentence count

921

Harmful content

Misogyny

76

sentences flagged

Hate speech

62

sentences flagged


Summary

Summaries generated with gmurro/bart-large-finetuned-filtered-spotify-podcast-summ .

In this episode, I talk about how the dating scene in Vegas is cheap compared to the rest of the country and why it's better than having a girlfriend. I also talk about why you should invest your time and energy in a relationship with a woman instead of chasing a girl.

Transcript

Transcripts from "Fresh & Fit" are sourced from the Knowledge Fight Interactive Search Tool. Explore them interactively here.
Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:07:28.000 All right, y'all, boys.
00:07:29.000 We're live on the podcast.
00:07:30.000 Today we're going to do it solo.
00:07:31.000 Your boy Fresh covering today.
00:07:33.000 What Dan's cooked?
00:07:34.000 What you can do to win?
00:07:35.000 Let's get into it.
00:08:14.000 All right, we're back.
00:08:15.000 Yo, fellas, it's been a long week.
00:08:20.000 A long couple weeks.
00:08:21.000 And it's crazy because at the same time, I was in Vegas with some good people.
00:08:26.000 I went to a bunch of podcasts and then LA as well.
00:08:30.000 And I found something very peculiar about the dating scene in Vegas.
00:08:34.000 And I was like, hold on a second here.
00:08:35.000 I put this together with Miami, Vegas, New York, LA.
00:08:38.000 And it was like, wow, this is so important.
00:08:41.000 And also, I spoke to a big dating coach over there.
00:08:44.000 You guys probably know who I mean.
00:08:45.000 He spoke about how dating nowadays is so transactional that even at the lowest level, if you're an average guy trying to make it out of life and you want to have a girlfriend, it's going to cost you a lot of money.
00:08:57.000 And not only that, is we're fighting a battle where we have to actually have all these things in check, which is, again, you guys know the 6-6 is six feet tall, six-figure income, and of course, six inches.
00:09:11.000 That's the standard for most girls. 1.00
00:09:12.000 But the requirements now are so upscale and so transactional that even if you could afford to take care of a chick and have done long term, is she even worth, you know, doing this for?
00:09:27.000 And then not only that, is that they've been with many guys before you.
00:09:31.000 So it's kind of like you're damn if you do that, damn if you don't.
00:09:35.000 So I mentioned this before on other podcasts.
00:09:37.000 A lot of my friends that I know just, quite frankly, just to be real, you guys, this is paper box.
00:09:43.000 Now, I used to be like, oh, you guys are weird.
00:09:46.000 Why are you doing that?
00:09:47.000 That's fucked up.
00:09:48.000 Is it not kind of like, you know, cringe?
00:09:50.000 But the more I'm into this scene, I see what's happening clear as day.
00:09:54.000 And it may so crazy, guys.
00:09:55.000 I know it sounds crazy.
00:09:56.000 Like, fresh, we talking about.
00:09:58.000 But at the same time, you got to remember this.
00:10:01.000 What is the ROI on your time?
00:10:05.000 What's the ROI on you making all the because guys, 2030 is around the corner.
00:10:09.000 We got what?
00:10:10.000 Four more years before AI is in full effect.
00:10:12.000 And then I wonder, like, okay, if we're going to put time and energy into women, you know, what is real ROI on this? 0.89
00:10:19.000 Because I get it.
00:10:20.000 You know, you want a baddie, you want a 10 out of 10, if you can.
00:10:24.000 But the maintenance on these hoes, bro, it's bad. 1.00
00:10:27.000 Like, like, dude, like, I was doing some stuff with some friends, and we just talked about like, you know, our lives, we got going on.
00:10:36.000 And the ones that have girlfriends, I look at their actual, like, I see, yo, bro, just keep her a beam, bro.
00:10:41.000 How much you spending like to maintain your girl?
00:10:44.000 And when I heard the numbers, I was like, yo, bruh.
00:10:46.000 Like, because, guys, I've been over 2,000 dates now at this point, over 2,000.
00:10:51.000 I can say this without a shadow of a doubt.
00:10:54.000 It is cheaper for me, for me personally to do this than have a girlfriend.
00:10:58.000 I'll tell you why.
00:10:59.000 Because I'm getting free access to things.
00:11:02.000 Shout out to good people here in Miami.
00:11:04.000 Free access in Vegas.
00:11:05.000 Shout out to Michael Sartain.
00:11:07.000 And I'm able to create an environment where we have everything that I can ask for.
00:11:13.000 Not because of me paying, but because I've made connections.
00:11:17.000 Now, in that environment, I'm able to thrive and do well and have my frame there because I'm living into the scenario, my good people that I know through and through.
00:11:29.000 So companies have to tell you guys that like, you know, I'm able to do things a certain way.
00:11:32.000 But for the average guy, you go out for some drinks with a girl, you're going to spend minimum 50 bucks.
00:11:39.000 And that's not terrible.
00:11:41.000 But let's say you get two, three drinks with your girl on the date.
00:11:44.000 That's maybe $200, $300 right there.
00:11:47.000 So on this cost alone, I just wonder, like, what's the ROA?
00:11:51.000 Because, yeah, okay, you get to smash.
00:11:53.000 Then what?
00:11:54.000 Now, this is where I say you have to understand what you want.
00:11:57.000 Now, as men, as we go about our daily day tasks, we want to optimize and be better at what we do through and through.
00:12:05.000 And then maybe on 2000 dates, I realize, yes, I get a lot of information for you guys on the podcast, obviously behind the scenes.
00:12:12.000 Obviously, you know, Mario's focused on politics, but nothing has improved at all.
00:12:20.000 When I say prove, I mean the actual worthiness of a date.
00:12:24.000 Because girls have the mindset of, okay, from TikTok and from other friends, bare minimum is you paying and at the bare minimum, taking care of her needs. 1.00
00:12:35.000 And obviously comfort is actually going to help you guys as well.
00:12:38.000 If the girl's comfortable, she's more easy to, you know, I want to say, be part of your program and of course follow your lead. 0.95
00:12:44.000 But here's where the issue comes.
00:12:46.000 There's a dating app called Court Courting.
00:12:50.000 And on the app, girls have a fee that you have to pay to take them on a date. 1.00
00:12:55.000 Nigga. 1.00
00:12:57.000 I'll say this again.
00:12:58.000 On the courting app, here's a fee that they put for their makeup, their hair, their nails.
00:13:03.000 And that's the requirement fee for you to even take them on a date.
00:13:07.000 Now, this is a U.S. thing and a Western thing for the most part.
00:13:12.000 Because I've been to DR Fellas and there is some money involved there for sure because a lot of the American guys are going over there, fucking it up.
00:13:20.000 You know what I'm saying?
00:13:21.000 Another one.
00:13:22.000 But some girls over abroad are just focused on a good experience. 0.80
00:13:27.000 And that could just involve you just going to dinner, which is cheap over there.
00:13:30.000 It's like 10 bucks.
00:13:32.000 Or you just go into a nice walk on the beach.
00:13:35.000 I was in DR Fellas in my steel network guys.
00:13:37.000 Shout out to them.
00:13:38.000 I love you guys.
00:13:39.000 By the way, if you're seeing network guys, you got a coin to buy.
00:13:42.000 It's going to change your fucking life.
00:13:44.000 You know, I got you guys in there.
00:13:46.000 And we were on a retreat over there, just the boys.
00:13:49.000 And obviously, you know, we did our activities.
00:13:51.000 We did the speech engagements.
00:13:52.000 We did the talk, brothers being brothers.
00:13:56.000 And then we went, you know, we had a good time.
00:13:58.000 We're going to go out and get some girls. 0.99
00:13:59.000 We go out, goes to the guys are doing their thing.
00:14:02.000 I meet a girl that works at a sports bar we had some food at.
00:14:06.000 So talking to Shorty, whatever, get your Instagram.
00:14:09.000 Obviously, guys, as I said before, Instagram is the new dating app.
00:14:14.000 Sorry, the biggest dating app in the world because that's your social credit score and as well your digital footprint.
00:14:19.000 So she saw my page, of course.
00:14:21.000 Instantly, you know, she was ready to go.
00:14:24.000 And of course, that night we didn't hang out because we were all tired.
00:14:27.000 Next day we hang out, go to the beach.
00:14:30.000 You know, she told me in Spanish, because obviously, you know, niggas, I don't speak that much Spanish on translator. 1.00
00:14:35.000 She was like, I enjoy walking on the beach.
00:14:39.000 Thank you for this date.
00:14:40.000 I was like, oh, that is so sweet, man.
00:14:42.000 That is so sweet, man.
00:14:43.000 I was like, I have not heard that in the U.S. For decades, bro.
00:14:50.000 All I hear is, I want to go here.
00:14:52.000 This is what I expect.
00:14:53.000 This is what a man needs to do.
00:14:54.000 No, like, Where do we get so lost in society where women are just so entitled, bro? 1.00
00:15:01.000 And of course, you guys see the show we do every night pretty much, and it's just like, bro, what is the saving of grace here?
00:15:06.000 But here's my point: she was happy to just go walking on the beach with me, and that was it.
00:15:15.000 No money involved, just time, and of course, some effort with energy.
00:15:20.000 Then it's like, okay, I'm in America.
00:15:25.000 And just to even think about this on a real level with you guys, the average date nowadays, fellas, here's average date numbers, is a minimum 150.
00:15:36.000 Just minimum.
00:15:37.000 That's just food, possibly drinks, if you're lucky.
00:15:42.000 But then I say to myself, okay, women nowadays are more transactional than ever before because, obviously speaking, they want to make money off of guys. 1.00
00:15:51.000 But then if I do the math for a period of time, actually, there's a very good book that Aaron Clay wrote about this topic.
00:15:56.000 You guys should go check it out.
00:15:59.000 You're going to spend so much money and effort and time.
00:16:03.000 So use the box.
00:16:05.000 And I'm like, bro.
00:16:09.000 What is the ROI here?
00:16:10.000 And then it hit me when I went to Vegas, California, is right now, fellas, we're in a situation where there's no going back.
00:16:19.000 There's no like, oh, we're going to change women's minds and we're going to make sure we're good old America again, fellas. 1.00
00:16:29.000 We're cooked.
00:16:30.000 So here is my resolution for you guys, man.
00:16:32.000 After this, we'll do a Zoom call.
00:16:34.000 I'm going to show you guys some videos behind the scenes on Castle Club, Premium, and of course, Castle Club, of what I've been doing to get her up about this issue.
00:16:43.000 A lot of my friends do as well.
00:16:45.000 And this is something I was seeing in real time.
00:16:48.000 I told myself as well.
00:16:49.000 It's excuse.
00:16:50.000 I agree with you, brother.
00:16:51.000 Is right now we have an epidemic of escorts.
00:16:59.000 Now, you may say, Fresh, bro, dude, this has all been going on for generations, for years, like this is nothing new.
00:17:06.000 But then you have to realize, fellas, it is not only the women that you see that sell box online.
00:17:11.000 It is the college girls and the girls that you know, they're doing this same exact thing. 1.00
00:17:16.000 And then it's like, hold on, my girl would never do that.
00:17:19.000 You, Fresh, are you talking about?
00:17:20.000 My girl will never do that. 1.00
00:17:21.000 My sister, my auntie.
00:17:23.000 But then, you know, I hate to break it to you guys, but like this is something called Pretty Privilege.
00:17:32.000 And it goes as far as, you know, you're getting free drinks for yacht party, dinner.
00:17:39.000 You get as well gifts, wink wink, if you know what that means.
00:17:44.000 But then there's a level where it goes, for example, past that, where I'm going to keep it real with you guys.
00:17:50.000 There's girls that I've met.
00:17:54.000 I've told you guys some stories before in the past.
00:17:56.000 Here in Miami, traveling from maybe Ohio, maybe from Texas, come here for some fun, with boyfriends, by the way.
00:18:04.000 And their instant reaction to Miami is, wow, this is eye-opening.
00:18:10.000 This is amazing.
00:18:11.000 I'm in a whole new place.
00:18:14.000 I'm going to have some fun.
00:18:16.000 But then, here's my, I guess, conclusion to this statement.
00:18:21.000 Once they're here with the fun, pretty privileged, you know, and is happening.
00:18:25.000 They'll meet a guy.
00:18:27.000 And I know a bunch of them here in Miami.
00:18:29.000 Some scammers, some tricks.
00:18:32.000 They will splurge on these girls so much that now they're fucked up in the head.
00:18:38.000 And then you may say, oh, bro, I'm in all the way in Arkansas.
00:18:41.000 Like, this is not going to be how I'm going to be.
00:18:43.000 Well, fellas, there's internet.
00:18:45.000 There's TikTok.
00:18:46.000 There's X. Fellas, this shit spreads so fast.
00:18:51.000 And, you know, China.
00:18:52.000 China, by the way, bro.
00:18:53.000 China.
00:18:55.000 Them niggas are so smart. 0.97
00:18:57.000 They said, you know what, I'm not going to fight America head on.
00:19:01.000 I'm going to fight America from Wolfin, you know, them boys as well, with an app called TikTok. 0.99
00:19:08.000 And I'm going to brainwash the masks to say, you know what?
00:19:13.000 Fuck love.
00:19:14.000 I want some money.
00:19:16.000 Give me some money.
00:19:17.000 Just give me some money.
00:19:18.000 I'll be happy for women. 0.98
00:19:20.000 And that is the result we have today where women are entitled to the max. 1.00
00:19:23.000 Now, I said, I'll give you guys some solutions here, of course.
00:19:27.000 And this is some things I found on the go, thinking about it obviously all day, but I thought to dating coaches as well, my friends.
00:19:35.000 And we've been able to, I want to say, skip past some bullshit on this end because dating is definitely cooked.
00:19:42.000 But there is a hope you have, fellas, that is not going to make sure you're cooked, make sure you can survive and thrive in this escort economy.
00:19:51.000 Now, if you're broke, fellas, this is not going to work for you because you got to work on your money.
00:19:54.000 That's going to be number one.
00:19:56.000 Getting your money up.
00:19:57.000 That's going to be key for you because, fellas, any day, fellas, drinks of dinner.
00:20:02.000 It's more for you than her because, honestly speaking, fellas, that is not important.
00:20:06.000 You don't need to do all that stuff.
00:20:08.000 You can go for a nice walk, you know, nice date without having to pay for dinner or drinks or something very small.
00:20:14.000 Like, you know, some tacos, whatever.
00:20:16.000 Nothing crazy.
00:20:18.000 But if you're not where you want to be financially, you're still grinding, which most of you are, I guarantee you are because nobody is.
00:20:25.000 You know what I thought about, fellas, is that like, you have to make money for the rest of your life.
00:20:31.000 And look at it that way.
00:20:32.000 Like, okay, you might be balling now, but things can go down.
00:20:36.000 You can get fucked up financially.
00:20:38.000 You can get sued.
00:20:39.000 You never know what could happen.
00:20:41.000 So my point is, is that like your money has to be there working for you day in and day out.
00:20:48.000 But there's a sad tale here as well where I want to bring you guys attention is a lot of women, guys I met here in Miami especially, they've been balling. 1.00
00:20:56.000 They've been balling for years.
00:20:57.000 They've been going around town.
00:20:59.000 And I'm not going to lie.
00:21:00.000 Them niggas are on a different level. 1.00
00:21:02.000 But some of them get caught up in a trap where, you know, these women are very calculated, very conniving. 1.00
00:21:09.000 And I'm able to see it because I'm looking for an outside in.
00:21:12.000 Obviously, you know, obviously, my boys warned him, bro, bro, this is a bad look.
00:21:16.000 Don't do this.
00:21:17.000 But they still do it sometimes because they're horny, whatever, they're in the feelings.
00:21:22.000 So I know a guy, Haitian guy.
00:21:25.000 He started a business during COVID.
00:21:27.000 He sold medical products and accessories to hospitals and, of course, people that needed the assistance.
00:21:34.000 Guys, he made a bunch of money.
00:21:37.000 Now, he was on a spree, trip clubs, throwing 20, 30k a night.
00:21:45.000 And I'm like, nigga, what is going on here?
00:21:48.000 Mind you, I'm still watching because I'm just like, it's a good time, bro.
00:21:52.000 This is free table.
00:21:54.000 I'll take this shit.
00:21:55.000 But I'm like, yo, bro, you sure you want to spend 20, 30k a night in the club?
00:21:59.000 I mean, just impress some hoes. 1.00
00:22:01.000 I mean, you know what I'm saying?
00:22:02.000 This is a better use of your money.
00:22:03.000 You could put it into cars if you want to, or maybe investing or something.
00:22:08.000 And he said, fuck that.
00:22:09.000 I'm going to enjoy my life.
00:22:10.000 Which he did.
00:22:11.000 But then he met some girls in Miami that I've seen about multiple times with different guys.
00:22:18.000 And I'm like, brother, this is going to be bad for you, bro.
00:22:21.000 This is going to be bad for you.
00:22:24.000 Not because, you know, they weren't bad looking, but it's because they were calculated.
00:22:30.000 They were very, very sinister in their tactics.
00:22:34.000 So what happened is he started dating this girl from the strip club.
00:22:38.000 And guys, you know where this is going, right?
00:22:40.000 You know where this is going.
00:22:40.000 It's going very down the dark path.
00:22:43.000 Speaking of dark and very dark myself.
00:22:45.000 And they dated for like six months.
00:22:50.000 Kind of find out at the sixth month, Mark, he was in Crypto Heavy.
00:22:55.000 He was doing very well in crypto.
00:22:57.000 He put the money from the COVID apparel and accessories into Bitcoin.
00:23:04.000 And his girl got his login.
00:23:09.000 One day, he left his phone open.
00:23:12.000 She was there.
00:23:13.000 She already packed her bags.
00:23:14.000 She had his planned out for a while.
00:23:16.000 Saw his passcodes.
00:23:20.000 And she drained his wallet.
00:23:22.000 That's right.
00:23:23.000 Another one.
00:23:23.000 Drained his wallet.
00:23:26.000 Now, you could say, well, fresh, bro.
00:23:29.000 I mean, that was just dumb.
00:23:31.000 He should have known better by keeping his phone locked.
00:23:34.000 But when you live with somebody, or they're around you all the time, they see your phone constantly.
00:23:39.000 They may look at how you're putting your passcode.
00:23:42.000 They may even look at your pattern, how you move your fingers to figure out where your code is.
00:23:46.000 Now, he's bragging about his success and his Bitcoin portfolio, crypto portfolio, obviously his gains.
00:23:57.000 And she basically left him and went on a plane back to, you guessed it, Columbia. 0.99
00:24:10.000 Now, at the same time, you know, it's fucked up.
00:24:16.000 They're still trying to find her.
00:24:17.000 And, you know, this is not a one-off story.
00:24:21.000 This happens a lot.
00:24:22.000 You'd be surprised.
00:24:24.000 Where women see what you have to offer. 1.00
00:24:27.000 They'll take it.
00:24:28.000 They'll sell you a dream.
00:24:29.000 And then just go because they can.
00:24:33.000 Now, oh, what up, Rolo?
00:24:36.000 Good to see you, brother.
00:24:37.000 I was in Vegas, man, with Rolo.
00:24:38.000 Rolo's a good role model, man.
00:24:41.000 Married for a couple years.
00:24:42.000 Sorry, a lot of years.
00:24:44.000 Very good person.
00:24:45.000 And I will say that, you know, he's been telling me behind the scenes, Fresh, you got to chill on some stuff.
00:24:51.000 And he's been right.
00:24:52.000 You know, he's right about the red pill itself, people in it.
00:24:55.000 And shout out to you, Rolo for supporting.
00:24:57.000 As usual, good person.
00:24:59.000 So that story is definitely hurtful.
00:25:03.000 But here's the point of the story as well.
00:25:06.000 Is that's a one-off in itself, but it does happen.
00:25:11.000 But I want you to imagine, like, what was the ROI of that relationship with the girl and him?
00:25:16.000 The ROI was, yeah, he got the smash.
00:25:19.000 He had a fun time.
00:25:21.000 But the women of today, for the most part, are not here for you.
00:25:26.000 They're here for a good time and for your resources.
00:25:29.000 Which leads me to say to you guys, what do you want out of life?
00:25:33.000 Because I'll tell you this, fellas.
00:25:35.000 Again, I've been on over 2,000 dates.
00:25:41.000 And I've had an amazing time with women. 0.69
00:25:44.000 But the ROI I've gotten wasn't worth the squeeze.
00:25:50.000 You guys saw some debacles, you know, the girls on the podcast, the whole shit with the aging.
00:25:56.000 I didn't want to go there.
00:25:58.000 But they will see the opportunity and try to take it.
00:26:01.000 So this is why I say fellas at certain levels.
00:26:04.000 And we'll start from like, let's say you're getting your money up.
00:26:06.000 Let's say you make it like 5K.
00:26:08.000 Let's say 3K a month.
00:26:10.000 Let's do the math here.
00:26:11.000 3K a month.
00:26:11.000 That's going to be like what?
00:26:13.000 That's nothing, fellas.
00:26:14.000 I'm not going to lie, that's nothing.
00:26:15.000 So let's say like 4,000, right?
00:26:17.000 4,000 by 50K roughly a year.
00:26:22.000 You have no rights dating.
00:26:25.000 That's right.
00:26:26.000 Said it.
00:26:28.000 Unless your girl is very simple and she's willing to work as well. 0.61
00:26:32.000 But how things are going, fellas, by 2030 is going to be extremely hard.
00:26:36.000 Actually, it's going to be worse than 2008 from what I've hearing from people above me.
00:26:40.000 Worse in 2008.
00:26:41.000 It's going to be expensive to live.
00:26:44.000 And you should own nothing and be happy.
00:26:46.000 That's the end result of it.
00:26:47.000 You have nothing and be happy because you can't afford it.
00:26:50.000 Real estate is going up, also as well.
00:26:52.000 Um, yeah, a lot's going up, which is why I say, like, you got to focus on what's important to you and to your friends and your family and to your livelihood because the ROI just isn't there.
00:27:04.000 The ROI women is not there by any means possible. 1.00
00:27:07.000 And here's the worst part: it's not getting any better, and it won't be.
00:27:13.000 So, at that level, where you're at, 50k a year is not enough, but a girlfriend is gonna drain you for sure. 1.00
00:27:22.000 Now, the reality is, most men don't make a lot of money.
00:27:28.000 Women are making a lot of money now more than ever. 1.00
00:27:30.000 So, here's a video I want you guys real quick where it's actually on the podcast.
00:27:35.000 Actually, watch the video, guys, and tell me what you think after the see, real quick.
00:27:40.000 It's our boy right here.
00:27:42.000 There we go.
00:27:42.000 When women make more money, the last thing they want to do is support a man.
00:27:45.000 Last thing they want to do is support a man. 1.00
00:27:47.000 Believe it or not, no, when women make good money, when women make good money, they don't. 1.00
00:27:52.000 When women make money, they don't need a man because they make enough money. 1.00
00:27:56.000 They have somebody.
00:27:57.000 Okay, repeat that sentence again.
00:27:59.000 When women make enough money, they don't really need a man. 1.00
00:28:02.000 Okay, say that one more time again.
00:28:04.000 When make enough money, when women make what did you say? 1.00
00:28:07.000 When they make enough money, they really don't need a man. 0.54
00:28:11.000 You do understand your sentence just defeated your entire argument, right?
00:28:14.000 No, it didn't.
00:28:15.000 It didn't.
00:28:16.000 But that's what I'm saying.
00:28:18.000 You said, you said women can't, you said women cannot be able to fight off or fan.
00:28:24.000 What a dope edit.
00:28:25.000 Yo, what a dope edit.
00:28:26.000 That is a really good edit.
00:28:29.000 Whoever made that edit, don't market for you, brother.
00:28:31.000 So, look, look, look, this is the point of that video, right?
00:28:35.000 Men are making less money.
00:28:36.000 Women are up and right coming into college, university, getting degrees, and getting their education on point to make more money than most men. 1.00
00:28:44.000 Which means, here is the issue: if men are not making more money like they used to, women are coming more dominant and in power with money. 1.00
00:28:55.000 And it will not be the man that makes less than them, unless you got some good dick, which pause, which is few far between from what I understand with women. 1.00
00:29:04.000 And if you do happen to be in that scenario, she's the boss, you're not. 0.98
00:29:08.000 So you still lose.
00:29:09.000 So even if you do get a woman that has more money than you to like date you, this is where I say, What is the ROI?
00:29:16.000 Is it worth being insulted, being laughed at, being put down just to survive?
00:29:23.000 I don't think so.
00:29:24.000 But again, that's your prerogative.
00:29:26.000 Go for it.
00:29:27.000 Now, here's my issue.
00:29:32.000 I've had chances to have girlfriends long term.
00:29:35.000 If you get married, and you know why I didn't have a girlfriend long term, I get married.
00:29:39.000 Not because I'm a degenerate.
00:29:41.000 I mean, but because I've realized I'm here in Miami, we're still grinding, we're still working hard as hell.
00:29:52.000 And I used to think, okay, you know what?
00:29:54.000 I'm just gonna have one girl, settle down, and run this shit up as much as possible. 0.99
00:30:00.000 I'm gonna go out to Barbados and chill, sip some football on the beach or some coconuts, and just relax, you know?
00:30:09.000 But then it hit me real, real quick.
00:30:11.000 It hit me really hard.
00:30:12.000 It's like the woman I'm meeting here in America, and also, by the way, in Europe, overseas, I can't put my finger on it, but I just had this feeling where, like, the ROI is just not there.
00:30:27.000 Now, is that every girl?
00:30:28.000 No, there's something I did mess up on that.
00:30:30.000 I guarantee you were definitely amazing women, amazing wives as well. 1.00
00:30:35.000 But fellas, look at it this way: we're all in the same boat.
00:30:40.000 Whether you got money or not, you're a billionaire millionaire.
00:30:44.000 By the way, guys, I got billionaire friends that call me all the time on the phone.
00:30:47.000 We talk about this shit a lot and what's coming in next for the society.
00:30:51.000 And they have issues too.
00:30:53.000 They still get beat on.
00:30:54.000 They still get talked down to.
00:30:57.000 They still get cheated on.
00:30:58.000 No one's really that important to say that you're better than all this shit.
00:31:04.000 You're not.
00:31:06.000 And if you guys watching the show, especially, I want you guys to win.
00:31:11.000 Not because it helps me, but because if you guys win, you can change the next generation of guys as well.
00:31:18.000 Because, guys, where this is going is really bad because entering AI, sex robots, and oh, there's an app called Clara that's helping to build about AI girlfriends for people.
00:31:33.000 We showed it on 35 podcast last night.
00:31:36.000 I can show you guys again if you want to.
00:31:37.000 But this is kind of like where we're going.
00:31:41.000 Now, I'm not going to lie to that, bro, fellas.
00:31:44.000 I need some real, real life women. 1.00
00:31:46.000 I can't do the AI stuff that I will not do.
00:31:50.000 But some guys have no choice.
00:31:51.000 And actually, there's a study that just came out, actually.
00:31:53.000 Bring you guys real quick up to speed.
00:31:56.000 Where more virgin men are being found as we pass this by.
00:32:01.000 Hold on one second here.
00:32:03.000 Where is it?
00:32:03.000 Oh no, this one's actually.
00:32:04.000 Here we go.
00:32:04.000 Oh, yeah.
00:32:06.000 This one was from today, actually.
00:32:08.000 So this is actually a real study.
00:32:09.000 And it's crazy because this has been going on, well, going viral for a while on Instagram and X for a little bit.
00:32:15.000 Here we go.
00:32:17.000 So one sec.
00:32:20.000 Here we go.
00:32:23.000 So we have here this post.
00:32:27.000 It says, news.
00:32:29.000 More women are proposing to men.
00:32:31.000 And it's not a trend.
00:32:32.000 It's a revolution.
00:32:35.000 It says here, now women are increasingly proposing to men, but this is still a minority practice, not a mass trend.
00:32:40.000 In heterosexual couples, most engagements are still initiated by men, even though surveys show that the majority of people generally considering it normal when a woman proposes.
00:32:50.000 Key reasons for this rise in women's proposals, a desire for equal 50-50 relationships, and a rejection of old gender stereotypes. 1.00
00:32:58.000 Women's growth financial and social independence, frustration with a partner's positivity, which is men being weak and not being leaders, and a wish to take the lead themselves.
00:33:08.000 At the same time, many women still fear breaking the rules or hurting their partner's ego. 1.00
00:33:12.000 So the share of those who actually propose remains small, usually just a few percent.
00:33:18.000 Shout out to James Devont as well supporting and commenting there.
00:33:22.000 But this is where I say, fellas, can you imagine, right?
00:33:26.000 We have more women proposing because they're the boss ladies. 1.00
00:33:30.000 They're the boss babes saying, well, men ain't shit. 0.99
00:33:33.000 I'm making money then, niggas. 1.00
00:33:34.000 So I might as well be the man in this relationship.
00:33:37.000 And you know the worst part?
00:33:39.000 All my black guys out there, white guys, Hispanic, even Jewish niggas, we all are under the same fucked up society. 0.75
00:33:51.000 And women's, I want to say, hate and anger towards men. 1.00
00:33:55.000 Because women don't like men, bro. 0.99
00:33:56.000 Honestly, women don't like most men. 0.98
00:33:58.000 So can you imagine?
00:34:01.000 Why someone like this that's gonna try to say we're 50-50 and she has the utmost respect for you, just kidding, she has no respect for you because she's gonna propose to you first, bro. 0.94
00:34:12.000 It's cooked.
00:34:13.000 And if any man takes this deal of proposing to you, nigga, you just lost right there, bro. 1.00
00:34:18.000 No one is safe.
00:34:20.000 And even me being black, bro, I get, yo, fellas, shout out to Kanye West.
00:34:25.000 Shout out to Kim Kardashian and that whole show, giving up with Kardashians.
00:34:29.000 That shit made intersectional couples mainstream. 0.98
00:34:31.000 Okay, fuck about it.
00:34:32.000 Nobody says that made that shit mainstream where you have an upper hand as a black man.
00:34:36.000 I tell you, bro, you do.
00:34:39.000 Fuck these hoes. 1.00
00:34:40.000 It is what it is, bro.
00:34:43.000 Can I bring it to you?
00:34:44.000 All right, guys, later any guys, it is what it is.
00:34:46.000 But here's where I say we can win as a group of guys, as guys that are smart and not dumb, and have common sense, common sense gang in the building, where we can say we can still win this game.
00:35:02.000 By the way, guys, I'm gonna do a Zoom call for you guys, Castle Club, and as well.
00:35:05.000 Uh, premium after this, Mario's just gonna go live around 8:15, 820, I believe.
00:35:10.000 We'll do after our show after that, uh, with you guys for the girls on after hours.
00:35:15.000 But this is the issue now.
00:35:18.000 Sorry, the solution.
00:35:19.000 So, we get we highlighted the issues that we're going through.
00:35:22.000 Girls are definitely not, you know, respecting men, of course. 0.99
00:35:25.000 You guys see the layout, and also, there's more here as well.
00:35:29.000 I want to show you guys before we get into the solution.
00:35:31.000 One more thing.
00:35:32.000 So, what's coming up close to you guys?
00:35:34.000 Uh, you guys know for February is Valentine's Day.
00:35:38.000 And Valentine's Day is very important because that's the day that you show love to people you care about, Wink, Wink, women, for the most part.
00:35:45.000 It's called V-Day for a reason. 1.00
00:35:49.000 Get a V vagina. 1.00
00:35:50.000 But this is the reason why I say all the time before V-Day, break it with your girl.
00:35:58.000 Hold on, hold on, hear me out.
00:35:59.000 Hear me out, hear me out because you want to see you want to see certain things for her to deserve a gift.
00:36:07.000 Because I'll be real, you guys.
00:36:09.000 V-Day itself is a psyop.
00:36:11.000 You focus on V-Day to give her a gift.
00:36:14.000 You'll let everybody else.
00:36:16.000 You know what you do?
00:36:18.000 If you're a real G, you say, you know what? 0.98
00:36:20.000 Fuck V-Day.
00:36:22.000 I'll get you if what I feel like.
00:36:25.000 Okay, hold on.
00:36:26.000 Simply go, guys.
00:36:27.000 You got to do it a certain way.
00:36:28.000 I'm not saying to break out with her just because I'm saying because you want it a certain way.
00:36:32.000 So what I'm saying is, be like a G. Listen, babe. 1.00
00:36:36.000 I know V-Day is coming up, but you know what?
00:36:39.000 We celebrate every day of life the same way.
00:36:43.000 I got shit.
00:36:44.000 You're going to give it to her two days later.
00:36:47.000 Not to make her mad, but because you want to see her reaction.
00:36:50.000 And you know what's crazy about this, fellas?
00:36:53.000 If your girl gets mad, you know, I'll give you a gift on V-Day.
00:36:55.000 You know what that really is?
00:36:57.000 Especially from other women, from the posts on Instagram, from the stories, because they feel like they're being left out and FOMO.
00:37:03.000 That's what it really is.
00:37:04.000 You didn't give a fuck about gifts on one day.
00:37:06.000 No.
00:37:07.000 I mean, obviously, that gifts, but like the point is that one day is because everyone in society is saying, buy gifts now.
00:37:16.000 There's a video you guys can see real quick.
00:37:16.000 So hold on.
00:37:18.000 One second here.
00:37:20.000 Someone you think.
00:37:23.000 Where is it?
00:37:25.000 What's up, Instagram, man?
00:37:26.000 This should be loading mad weird.
00:37:28.000 Okay, here we go.
00:37:32.000 This is actually a girl that lives in Miami.
00:37:34.000 I've seen her a bunch of times.
00:37:36.000 And I'll just say, you guys probably know who she is.
00:37:42.000 This shit not loading.
00:37:44.000 Let me try a different browser.
00:37:44.000 One second, guys.
00:37:46.000 But yeah, bro, this is.
00:37:48.000 I promise you, man, this is kind of like oh, this is weight.
00:37:54.000 This is like a browser issue.
00:37:56.000 One sec.
00:37:57.000 Let me use Brave browser.
00:37:58.000 Shout out to Brave.
00:38:00.000 Brave's lit.
00:38:03.000 Here we go.
00:38:04.000 This is for my young ladies.
00:38:06.000 If you are intimate with anybody and they don't have enough common sense to get you something for Valentine's.
00:38:12.000 Oh, common sense.
00:38:16.000 Valentine's Day.
00:38:17.000 You better be celibate for the remainder of the year.
00:38:22.000 Because even if you guys aren't in a committed relationship, all women love little sweet somethings.
00:38:28.000 Okay?
00:38:29.000 And if he doesn't have enough common sense to say, let me go to Trader Joe's and maybe get her some $12 again.
00:38:34.000 Common sense is not common anymore, fellas.
00:38:36.000 This shit is rigged.
00:38:39.000 It's all a side up, bro.
00:38:40.000 It's all a side up.
00:38:42.000 Flowers at the minimum.
00:38:45.000 You have no responsibility giving that man that box.
00:38:51.000 Okay.
00:38:52.000 Common sense would tell him to get you some chocolate or something.
00:38:55.000 You know, some women like, bitch, I wish, yo, I wish a shorty would, bro. 1.00
00:38:59.000 She belongs to the American. 0.96
00:39:00.000 I wish a shorty would just because you didn't get a gift.
00:39:03.000 Nigga, where are we? 1.00
00:39:04.000 Antarctica?
00:39:05.000 Video games.
00:39:06.000 Get me a video game.
00:39:07.000 Get me a new controller.
00:39:08.000 Different women like different things. 1.00
00:39:09.000 He knows exactly what you like.
00:39:10.000 He knows what you're into because he be inside you.
00:39:13.000 Do not allow a man to act like Valentine's Day is only for relationships.
00:39:18.000 If he's intimate with you, he should be able to comprehend to get her a little sweet something for Valentine's Day.
00:39:25.000 Now, if you allow it to not be that way, because you're like, oh, I don't care about Valentine's Day.
00:39:30.000 No, all women care. 1.00
00:39:31.000 We all care, especially from the right guy.
00:39:33.000 We all care.
00:39:34.000 But we'll use a coping mechanism.
00:39:36.000 I don't care about Valentine's Day.
00:39:38.000 I've said it.
00:39:38.000 I love Valentine's Day.
00:39:40.000 I love Valentine's Day.
00:39:41.000 Of course, she does.
00:39:42.000 It's because that is the day everyone validates women to say, Here's a gift. 0.99
00:39:47.000 Here you go.
00:39:48.000 Here's a gift.
00:39:50.000 And I'm just like, bro, what if I don't feel like giving you a gift that day?
00:39:53.000 Am I a bad person because of that?
00:39:55.000 So now I got no box because of that?
00:39:56.000 Bro, miss me with that bullshit, bro.
00:39:58.000 This is why I'm all for being single with these women out here. 1.00
00:40:02.000 Look, look, niggas like, Fresh, you're 33 with no women, no wife, and no kids. 1.00
00:40:06.000 Yeah, nigga, obviously want kids one day, but bro, you see this shit, bro. 1.00
00:40:10.000 This is like every day.
00:40:11.000 Yo, bro, this is what I'm around every day, bro.
00:40:12.000 I'm in Miami.
00:40:14.000 Nigga, this is crazy. 1.00
00:40:15.000 By the way, this is everywhere, by the way.
00:40:17.000 Not just mine.
00:40:17.000 This is California.
00:40:19.000 This is Texas.
00:40:20.000 This is Dubai.
00:40:22.000 This is also in the Colombian DR, by the way.
00:40:25.000 This is not just like Miami, by the way.
00:40:29.000 So you get my point here.
00:40:32.000 The point is, fellas, VA Day is not important to them personally.
00:40:36.000 But at the collective level for women, it's important because they feel special as a community, as a group of people that say, you know what?
00:40:44.000 We deserve something this day because we're women. 1.00
00:40:47.000 That's what it really is, fellas.
00:40:52.000 So, again, this is where I always come into play and just say, you know what?
00:40:58.000 I've been single for a long time.
00:41:02.000 Since my first marriage, I've been single since then.
00:41:06.000 And I'm the happiest I've ever been in my life.
00:41:09.000 Fellas, I can't tell you, look, I don't think it's hate on me, bro.
00:41:11.000 Niggas talk shit about me or whatever, but my life is amazing.
00:41:15.000 If you are here, Miami, you see me in Miami.
00:41:18.000 I am having an amazing life, good friends, good people, and I have zero stress from fucking women. 0.99
00:41:25.000 Not because I'm better, but because I just realized what is the ROI?
00:41:30.000 And guys, I've been on more dates than your dating, your favorite dating coach, your favorite artist.
00:41:34.000 I've been on more dates myself than most niggas could imagine.
00:41:38.000 Not because I'm better, because I just have more time on my hands.
00:41:41.000 And all these, you know, for research purposes, did as well.
00:41:45.000 And I've realized there is no silver lining in this game.
00:41:50.000 All you have is what you get out of it in real time, and that is it.
00:41:55.000 And I just say, what is the end result here?
00:41:59.000 Kids in a family?
00:42:01.000 Child support?
00:42:01.000 Fucked up.
00:42:02.000 Divorce?
00:42:04.000 Alimony?
00:42:06.000 No, I'm good.
00:42:07.000 I'll have fun being me, enjoying life without any of that bullshit.
00:42:12.000 Hey, because you're fresh.
00:42:14.000 You should be doing better as a Christian.
00:42:16.000 Well, to realize you guys, I'm trying to get there.
00:42:18.000 I'm not perfect.
00:42:19.000 I'm definitely going to move towards that.
00:42:21.000 I'm going to alter.
00:42:23.000 But right now, where I'm at, it is looking bleak, very bleak.
00:42:28.000 But there's more.
00:42:29.000 There's actually more, fellas.
00:42:30.000 There's actually more.
00:42:31.000 I'll show you guys real quick because this is bad.
00:42:34.000 All right.
00:42:35.000 Here we go.
00:42:36.000 Oh, it's not.
00:42:37.000 See, now it's not loading.
00:42:39.000 Bro, I hate, bro.
00:42:40.000 What's on with Google Phone, bro?
00:42:41.000 Come on, man.
00:42:43.000 So, guys, remember back in the day, I was focused on getting first date lays and focusing on, like, you know, you got to smash on the first date, which I guarantee you, within the first three dates, you should smash just because that's the ideal, you know, time period because you don't want to waste your time.
00:43:00.000 But the more I've been on dates, the more I realize, fellas, this shit is fucked up.
00:43:08.000 Watch this video because you tell me what you think about this after.
00:43:12.000 Think about this.
00:43:14.000 Here we go.
00:43:18.000 Care with me?
00:43:19.000 I ain't gonna lie.
00:43:20.000 I gotta work tomorrow.
00:43:21.000 I will drop you off.
00:43:23.000 I'm on my period.
00:43:24.000 You always on your fucking period. 0.89
00:43:26.000 I feel like you're lying to me, dude.
00:43:27.000 But I got you next time.
00:43:28.000 Like, all right.
00:43:29.000 All right, bro.
00:43:33.000 Hey, I'm glad you finally pulled up on me, though.
00:43:35.000 I missed you.
00:43:37.000 I low-key missed you, too.
00:43:37.000 I ain't gonna lie.
00:43:39.000 You missed me.
00:43:40.000 You said, you said next time we do something, but I'm trying to get enough.
00:43:40.000 So, what's up?
00:43:46.000 No, the fuck.
00:43:47.000 No.
00:43:48.000 No, nigga. 1.00
00:43:49.000 Why are you acting like that?
00:43:50.000 I'm sorry, fellas.
00:43:52.000 I'm sorry.
00:43:53.000 I'm very sorry.
00:43:55.000 If a girl says to me, nigga, bro, dude, it just turns me off.
00:44:02.000 Bro, I was with this girl from Argentina, right?
00:44:06.000 And we were on a date.
00:44:08.000 We're going out.
00:44:09.000 Obviously, you know, your boy already smashed.
00:44:13.000 She's very comfortable right now at this point.
00:44:14.000 She's very comfortable.
00:44:15.000 She's like chilling, whatever.
00:44:16.000 We're in the car.
00:44:17.000 She says to me, Oh, have a great time.
00:44:21.000 I'm like, Yes, what's up?
00:44:22.000 She's like, You are my nigga. 0.99
00:44:25.000 I was like, Oh, I smacked that head so hard.
00:44:28.000 I was like, First of all, I was laughing because I was like, What the fuck?
00:44:32.000 Then I was like, That is cringe.
00:44:35.000 Not because of the word, but because you're saying it's cringe.
00:44:38.000 It's funny because you said it, but it's like that's not sexy.
00:44:42.000 That's that's that's cringe.
00:44:44.000 But then I was like, hold on.
00:44:46.000 Why are you saying that to me about people?
00:44:50.000 And you know what it is?
00:44:52.000 Imagine if I was like a raging, like FBA and I was like, yo, that's not cool.
00:44:58.000 And I get it, you know, the word offends on people.
00:45:01.000 But it's because I think it's cute.
00:45:05.000 It is just, it's not cute because, bro, that is like, we're not, you're not a dude.
00:45:05.000 It's not cute.
00:45:11.000 You're not, you're not a guy.
00:45:12.000 I get it.
00:45:13.000 It's funny, but it's not cute.
00:45:14.000 It's kind of like, ugh.
00:45:16.000 Fellas, I'm telling you, bro, if you've ever been with a girl and she's like, yeah, you're my.
00:45:21.000 All right, well, what are we doing?
00:45:23.000 What are we doing here?
00:45:24.000 But I just find that's kind of weird.
00:45:25.000 Oh, yeah, you're my.
00:45:26.000 All right, bro.
00:45:28.000 It's cool.
00:45:29.000 Because I ain't shaved.
00:45:30.000 Okay, I'm brooding as fuck.
00:45:32.000 Bro, let's just watch the movie.
00:45:34.000 Trisha.
00:45:35.000 Girl, y'all let him come over yesterday.
00:45:36.000 He keeps trying to get in my pants.
00:45:38.000 But I got two more days of these BV pills.
00:45:40.000 And after that, he can fuck.
00:45:42.000 Yeah, I'ma let him fuck after that.
00:45:49.000 Yo! 1.00
00:45:50.000 Y'all caught that?
00:45:51.000 Yo, yo, yo. 0.99
00:45:52.000 You did all the way.
00:45:53.000 Guys, guys, guys, guys.
00:45:54.000 I know it's a skit.
00:45:56.000 Oh, first is not real.
00:45:57.000 Fellas, this happens every fucking day. 0.89
00:46:00.000 Bro, bro.
00:46:02.000 She just said, he's going to wait because I have BV.
00:46:06.000 Another one.
00:46:08.000 Another one.
00:46:09.000 You know what's crazy, fellas?
00:46:11.000 I've been on dates where I'm like, you know what?
00:46:13.000 She's feeling me.
00:46:14.000 The vibe is there.
00:46:15.000 Wink, wink.
00:46:16.000 This is a slam dunk, my nigga.
00:46:16.000 We're good to go.
00:46:18.000 Woo! 0.99
00:46:21.000 This is like, oh, we can't.
00:46:24.000 I'm like, all right, you know what?
00:46:25.000 No pressure is what it is.
00:46:27.000 I respect that.
00:46:28.000 We'll run this back a different day.
00:46:33.000 Then finally, I get the box.
00:46:36.000 But there's a little whiff going on.
00:46:38.000 There's a little like scent.
00:46:40.000 Like where are we?
00:46:45.000 A land, a land dump, a garbage, mine?
00:46:48.000 And i'm like this is what I waited for.
00:46:51.000 Nigga, some used up dirty box, yo bro. 1.00
00:46:56.000 I'm like what's going on?
00:46:59.000 So so so fellas, I know this is like funny or like you know, it's not real.
00:47:04.000 This happens a lot.
00:47:05.000 Uh, it could even be worse, could be even std, which Thank the Lord that I've been able to survive without anything serious happened to me.
00:47:14.000 Because, bro, it's data here.
00:47:16.000 That's why I slow.
00:47:17.000 Fellas, I've slowed down a lot, man.
00:47:19.000 I've been slowing down a lot.
00:47:20.000 I've been like, you know what?
00:47:22.000 I'm good off this a little bit, bro.
00:47:24.000 I'm just going to chill, make money, network, and, you know, keep things chill.
00:47:33.000 And guys, by the way, I am not banned from the club.
00:47:38.000 I'm going out still.
00:47:39.000 If you're on my Instagram, you guys will see me going out.
00:47:43.000 But here's the silver lining here.
00:47:46.000 There's no, oh yeah, bro, we're going to make women better and change the landscape. 1.00
00:47:51.000 No.
00:47:52.000 It's only going to be how you mitigate losses and move forward in your best interest.
00:47:59.000 We got some super chats here on Rumble Shout, you guys, for supporting the show.
00:48:03.000 Yes.
00:48:04.000 Women expect men to jump through hoops like a performing monkey and waste their money on them only for at best mediocre used pussy. 1.00
00:48:11.000 See, brother, you got it, bro.
00:48:13.000 He got it.
00:48:15.000 He has got it.
00:48:16.000 Tony in the chat, man.
00:48:19.000 Guys again says, if she doesn't allow you to vigorously clap her cheeks, then you send her stupid ass back to the streets. 1.00
00:48:27.000 That is the quote, my friend, of the day.
00:48:30.000 Yeah, listen.
00:48:32.000 That's 35 podcast chat.
00:48:35.000 So, listen, I believe that we can do better as men for ourselves.
00:48:41.000 But when it comes to helping women out and making them better people and hoping for a better solution, fellas, it's not happening.
00:48:50.000 All you can do is focus on yourself and get what you want.
00:48:56.000 Now, here's my solution for you guys.
00:48:58.000 The solution is basically going to be this.
00:49:00.000 It's going to be, understand what the ROI is for you.
00:49:05.000 Obviously, we all want to smash.
00:49:06.000 That's guaranteed.
00:49:07.000 Niggas want to smash. 1.00
00:49:08.000 It is what it is.
00:49:09.000 That's not me trying to, oh yeah, you guys want to smash.
00:49:12.000 However, is she worth the smash?
00:49:16.000 And I can say this because, bro, I've been there, right?
00:49:19.000 And I'm like, you know what?
00:49:22.000 This is not worth the smash.
00:49:24.000 Like, the Asian girl wasn't worth the smash. 1.00
00:49:27.000 I did it anyway.
00:49:28.000 Lesson learned.
00:49:29.000 But everyone's going to have red flags, fellas.
00:49:33.000 Every girl you meet is going to have red flags. 1.00
00:49:35.000 And this is the point of this whole stream here.
00:49:38.000 Are her red flags worth the risk?
00:49:41.000 Because some are not so bad as others.
00:49:44.000 For example, if she just doesn't like, you know, if she doesn't like to, like, I don't know, make tuna. 0.58
00:49:53.000 She's casserole. 0.99
00:49:55.000 Whatever that thing is that she has is a red flag for you.
00:49:58.000 Could be minuscule.
00:49:59.000 Or it could be, for example, her carmen start to party every night.
00:50:04.000 That's a red flag that you got to understand.
00:50:06.000 There's red flags on each woman. 1.00
00:50:09.000 You got to choose and kind of dissect.
00:50:11.000 Is it worth me even smashing?
00:50:14.000 And then two, is it worth me keeping her own long term?
00:50:14.000 One.
00:50:17.000 Because again, this is where I say I've been done where I've actually said, you know what?
00:50:23.000 It's not that bad.
00:50:24.000 I'll be fine.
00:50:27.000 And, you know, push come to shove.
00:50:29.000 It just showed me that, like, bro, I just wasted my time here.
00:50:32.000 It was not even worth the squeeze.
00:50:36.000 And even the club scene, fellas, like, here, I'm here, my mate, especially.
00:50:39.000 Like, it's like a revolving door of women and guys just smashing and juking and driving. 0.96
00:50:47.000 And, you know, I'm there sober.
00:50:49.000 I'm there sober watching this shit play out.
00:50:51.000 I'm just like, I'm getting over this shit, man.
00:50:56.000 This shit is going nowhere fast.
00:50:59.000 So now, the new culture is gym culture where people have the gym as a club.
00:51:06.000 If you know what that means, you know what it means, but that's the new stomping grounds for guys and girls, the gym.
00:51:12.000 So, 2K, okay, John says, what are 2K red flags?
00:51:16.000 Oh, yeah.
00:51:17.000 So, I'll give you some flags, fellas, you can look out for in real time.
00:51:21.000 And this is where I say red flags are there for a reason.
00:51:27.000 Don't ignore them.
00:51:29.000 Choose the ones you can deal with in real time.
00:51:32.000 And they will tell you up front, guys.
00:51:34.000 Women are so smart. 1.00
00:51:35.000 They will tell you the flags up front.
00:51:38.000 And if you guys use a common sense here, part of the gang here, you realize that the common sense that you have as the man, the logical speaking man that understands rationale and how things work, you come maneuver, you're your best advantage.
00:51:53.000 Now, red flag number one.
00:51:56.000 Actually, you know what?
00:51:57.000 I'm going to do this with videos on Castle Club for more breakdown.
00:52:04.000 But I'll give you guys here the points.
00:52:06.000 But I'll show a video of some girls I've been talking to on Castle Club because I don't put on rubble. 0.99
00:52:12.000 I'll use it, whatever.
00:52:13.000 But you'll see what I mean.
00:52:16.000 And it's funny, me and Dawn went on a double date.
00:52:19.000 Me and Dom Looker.
00:52:20.000 And, bro, I kid you not, it was the most weird experience we've had I've had in my life.
00:52:27.000 Like, me and Dawn were like, what the fuck is this shit, bro?
00:52:29.000 Like, bro, another one.
00:52:30.000 This is like, like, fellas, I'm telling you, this is where I focus on value over the box now.
00:52:38.000 Because, fellas, I've been there.
00:52:40.000 There is, I don't know any dating coach that has been as many dates as me or smash more than me.
00:52:40.000 Trust me.
00:52:47.000 I just keep rolling you guys.
00:52:48.000 I'm not proud of it, by the way, but it is what it is.
00:52:51.000 And again, this is where I say, it's not worth the squeeze, fellas.
00:52:56.000 Now, number one, red flag is she has multiple avenues of attention. 0.99
00:53:06.000 Now, fellas, that's going to be a lot of girls. 1.00
00:53:08.000 Shout out to Galish King for supporting the show with one sub.
00:53:11.000 Shout out to your brother for supporting the show.
00:53:13.000 Gallish King.
00:53:14.000 Thank you, brother.
00:53:17.000 This is where I say most women are going to have this issue because they're validated by their attention online. 1.00
00:53:25.000 And the problem with that is that, like, women don't just get attention. 1.00
00:53:28.000 They get offers.
00:53:30.000 They get hit up in the DMs.
00:53:31.000 Fellas, I might be a culprit as well, just saying, but where they're showing attention.
00:53:37.000 There's no attention by guys.
00:53:39.000 And not only that, but they get offers where they'll get like, come to Dubai or come to Miami.
00:53:45.000 That's my tagline.
00:53:46.000 But this happens because they're posting online.
00:53:52.000 And guys are like, oh, they're single.
00:53:53.000 I'm going to go ahead and shoot my shot.
00:53:57.000 And what have Michael Jordan say about shots?
00:54:00.000 You guys know that quote?
00:54:01.000 I'll bring it for you guys real quick if you don't know the quote.
00:54:03.000 But this is very important because as a guy that's successful or, you know, focused on maximizing his leg count, you're going to shoot your shots.
00:54:14.000 Much as possible.
00:54:16.000 Here we go.
00:54:17.000 So you guys can see on the screen here as well.
00:54:21.000 So we have here the famous quote from Michael Jordan.
00:54:27.000 He says here, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
00:54:35.000 Right?
00:54:37.000 And fellas, even though I say it's a red flag where you have, oh, super chats or guys are on Rumble only.
00:54:46.000 We're still demonizing on YouTube or today.
00:54:48.000 We're still demonetized on YouTube.
00:54:50.000 Also, we're also on We got a chat here as well.
00:54:54.000 Bills, we have a chat from StreamYard, sorry, Streamlabs, I believe.
00:54:59.000 How do I bring it up, please?
00:55:00.000 I need to bring it up chat.
00:55:02.000 But this is why I say, like, okay.
00:55:06.000 Attention itself is bad because you have so many entry points of guys hitting her up or liking her posts. 0.99
00:55:12.000 It's just like you have no filter to negate that.
00:55:16.000 And even though you might be a top-tier guy, there's always better than you out there.
00:55:20.000 So you have to have that shit locked down where she's like into you that much, where it's like, you know what?
00:55:25.000 He's not worth fucking up for this new guy.
00:55:28.000 And that's a whole different podcast in itself to be that guy with frame where she's under your frame and not someone else's frame.
00:55:34.000 That's going to be a more in-depth video, which I've done this multiple times throughout the years.
00:55:42.000 You get to see me real life.
00:55:43.000 But my point is that in this paradigm of attention that they font and they want, they actually end up hurting themselves because now they can't choose the best option because to them, the options are there, but just to smash.
00:55:59.000 It's not real.
00:56:00.000 But that mindset leaves you in a bad spot because now as a guy coming in to make her your girl, what do you get?
00:56:07.000 You get a woman that's focused on attention and gaining it, even though you're a good option for her, you're not seen as a good option because she's so caught up in her options. 1.00
00:56:14.000 So that's why I say red flag is she has a lot of attention on Instagram, Snapchat. 1.00
00:56:14.000 You get what I'm saying? 1.00
00:56:21.000 Twitter is just a no-no.
00:56:22.000 Bro, if a girl has a Twitter, bro, oh man, she's posting like almost new photos in there like bikini pictures, bro, you're cooked, bro. 0.87
00:56:29.000 Like that's, dude, forget it.
00:56:34.000 But also, I'm going to bring this up as well.
00:56:36.000 So regarding actual like shooting your shot as well, just because this is very important, shout out to Michael Jordan.
00:56:42.000 You need to have the aspect or the, I want to say mindset that if you are shooting your shots, you need a full toolback because tool belt because you need all as much tools as possible to get this shit done.
00:56:57.000 But what I mean by that, I mean, you need to have Instagram.
00:57:00.000 I think Instagram is probably the number one thing you need to have.
00:57:03.000 That's that stands on.
00:57:04.000 Like, fellas, I can go to your page right now and tell you why you're not getting DMs responded to, why you're not getting business done because your page sucks.
00:57:10.000 That's the reality of it.
00:57:11.000 If your page sucks, bro, you're cooked. 0.98
00:57:14.000 And as you move forward in a more AI society where things are more based off of digital footprints versus like in real life, you want to have a good page built up no matter what.
00:57:23.000 Dating is important, yes, I get it.
00:57:25.000 But like even for business itself, fellas, and for marketing, for exposure, a good page will give you what you need.
00:57:32.000 So you have as well Instagram.
00:57:35.000 That's one source of our tool you can use in your tool belt.
00:57:38.000 You have dating apps, which I think date apps are more of a Chad or Tyrone method.
00:57:43.000 If you're not good looking like that or don't have the lifestyle, it's going to be hard to keep that shit, you know, effective for you.
00:57:50.000 It's going to be really hard.
00:57:52.000 But you cannot do that as well.
00:57:53.000 So Instagram, dating apps, in-person approach.
00:57:58.000 This is more of a skill set you got to learn, of course, fellas, as we say before.
00:58:03.000 You have as well sugar sites.
00:58:05.000 That's more of a high-value DHV display.
00:58:08.000 You have as well, you know, social circle, which shout out to Sartania Vegas.
00:58:14.000 He does that very well with his girls.
00:58:15.000 And you know what?
00:58:16.000 What I realize about that as well, guys, especially when it comes to going out, if I'm with two hot girls, I get massive amounts of like respect and just like love.
00:58:26.000 And it's like, I get more girls just being with two girls.
00:58:29.000 That makes sense.
00:58:30.000 And I do it in a cool, calm way where it's not like in their face, but it's like, yo, what's your Instagram?
00:58:35.000 Boom, right there.
00:58:37.000 It's done.
00:58:38.000 So you can do those things to get, you know, obviously shoot your shot.
00:58:41.000 But my point is that, like, right now, we have the issue of guys aren't sourcing anymore.
00:58:48.000 They're not shooting their shot.
00:58:49.000 And then, two, the quality isn't even there.
00:58:52.000 It's not even there.
00:58:53.000 So that itself is a major issue because, again, you guys want to have some dates and smash all that stuff like that.
00:58:58.000 But like, bro, honestly, speaking, you know, it's going to be hard to because it's cooked.
00:59:05.000 It really is cooked, fellas.
00:59:06.000 And even the top guys in industries, they're successful, billionaires, they have issues too, fellas.
00:59:13.000 No one is actually safe from this totally.
00:59:18.000 You can mitigate the risk.
00:59:20.000 You can mitigate the losses.
00:59:21.000 You can mitigate the issues you have.
00:59:24.000 But no one's safe.
00:59:26.000 No one's safe.
00:59:27.000 Telling you.
00:59:29.000 Number two, red flag.
00:59:30.000 And guys, we'll do the Zoom call right now, actually, as we speak.
00:59:34.000 After this second red flag.
00:59:37.000 One second here.
00:59:39.000 We will do this Zoom call.
00:59:41.000 I'll start up right now.
00:59:43.000 But I'm going to show you guys guys.
00:59:45.000 So I'm going to show you guys behind the scenes shit on some dates.
00:59:49.000 And you guys tell me your experiences as well with your dates and what's going to be going on with you guys.
00:59:54.000 One second here.
00:59:55.000 Making a Zoom call as we speak.
00:59:59.000 But yeah, fellas, I think, just by itself, by and large, we are in a downward spot of downward spiral of dating itself.
01:00:07.000 And we can just focus on ourselves, fellas.
01:00:11.000 For the most part, that's all we can do.
01:00:14.000 Let's make cap actually Zoom call.
01:00:16.000 Limited space in here.
01:00:18.000 Oh, wow.
01:00:20.000 All right, I'm going to send this out right now.
01:00:23.000 So, guys, if you're in Council Club, if you're in the chats and Telegram, you get the link here for the actual Zoom call.
01:00:29.000 Hopefully, we don't get maxed out.
01:00:31.000 Oh, my God.
01:00:33.000 All right.
01:00:34.000 Here we go.
01:00:37.000 Cool.
01:00:39.000 Number two, fellas, is she actually is not available for you.
01:00:46.000 What does that mean?
01:00:49.000 Put it this way: if you're focused on making money, your purpose, your passion, your mission, as you guys know, you should be doing anyway.
01:00:59.000 You're not focused on what she needs in real time.
01:01:04.000 But if she's not focused on you at all, and you're more of an option to her, as in, like, yeah, I'll go with him because I can get some food, or for example, I can get like, you know, gifts or whatever, or I can get even like a good time only and not being to you like that.
01:01:19.000 What are we doing here?
01:01:20.000 And this, this is comes in the form of like them being your friend and playing along, or just even, for example, just stringing you along because they can.
01:01:28.000 This is why I say all the time, guys, before a date, I do a FaceTime call with the girl.
01:01:34.000 10 minutes to 15 minutes FaceTime call, feel her out, feel the vibe, so to speak. 0.93
01:01:39.000 And I get information on that call to say, you know what?
01:01:42.000 I'm going or I'm not going.
01:01:44.000 And usually when I do that call, it goes pretty well.
01:01:48.000 We chop it up.
01:01:49.000 And yeah, fellas, it works. 0.69
01:01:52.000 I want to say 95% of the time it works that way.
01:01:55.000 But the problem is, if you go on a date with a chick, she's not feeling you at all. 0.85
01:01:58.000 She's just there to tick from you and finesse you, then that in itself is going to be your issue.
01:02:05.000 And I met guys that didn't have a clue, goes into them, and they even married them, took them on dates, meeting the girlfriends, and then they're fucking my homeboys in the background.
01:02:17.000 I'm like, dog.
01:02:20.000 If homie only knew he's paying for her, he's paying for rent, paying for a car, paying for insurance, paying for a lifestyle. 0.99
01:02:29.000 Babe, I'm going to go to the gym.
01:02:31.000 I'm going to with my girls tonight.
01:02:33.000 She's in the club with us, smashing one of the homies, bro. 1.00
01:02:36.000 Yo, yeah, this is this is normal, fellas.
01:02:39.000 This is not even like a weird uh occurrence.
01:02:41.000 So, yeah, all right, guys, there's more red flags we could cover as well.
01:02:44.000 But we want to show you guys some more information and more videos on Castle Club and also the Zoom call.
01:02:49.000 Link is posted.
01:02:50.000 I'll see you guys in the Zoom call.
01:02:52.000 Uh, thanks for watching, guys.
01:02:53.000 And Myron will be on later on for after hours.
01:02:56.000 We're gonna do the show with some girls. 1.00
01:02:57.000 I think we have like 10 girls.
01:02:58.000 That's Chris.
01:02:59.000 So, W Chris on that one.
01:03:00.000 10 girls coming up.
01:03:01.000 And then, Friday, we have Jack Morgan.
01:03:04.000 If you don't know who that is, he's a good YouTuber from West Palm, blown blowing up, doing amazing work.
01:03:09.000 Also, RP Aware, which is dope.
01:03:11.000 And good friend of mine as well.
01:03:15.000 He'll be on the show on Friday.
01:03:18.000 We'll do a one-on-one and then girls' show with that good guest. 1.00
01:03:23.000 This is Jack's page right here.
01:03:24.000 If you guys don't know who Jack is, Jack is this guy right here.
01:03:28.000 Very bass guy, dope YouTuber, and good dude.
01:03:32.000 So, yeah, man.
01:03:33.000 W stream.
01:03:34.000 We'll be doing the Zoom call right now.
01:03:36.000 So, guys, hop into Castle Club or hop into you.
01:03:38.000 Um, uh, premium.
01:03:40.000 If you're in there, awesome.
01:03:41.000 If you're not, get in there.
01:03:42.000 I'll see you guys on after hours.
01:03:43.000 If not, for the Zoom call, peace.
01:03:45.000 We're out of here.
01:03:47.000 Let's go.