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00:07:30.000Ladies on the panel, give us your name, your age, what we do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, we'll start right here.
00:21:16.000Yeah, I was trying to give me a pee, and then he wanted to take me out to dinner, and I'm just like, well, thanks for the greens, but no, thank you.
00:21:27.000What's the most the guys ever spent on you and got no sex?
00:21:32.000I don't know if it counts, but, like, this one guy, he was kind of stalking me, because, like, I talked to him for, like, a while, and then he was, like, No.
00:21:42.000And so, I stopped talking to him, like, blocked him, and he sent, like, this huge bouquet of, like, flowers and stuff to my apartment.
00:22:36.000Like, friend as in, like, y'all went to school together and you're just friends on him, or like, just some dude you met at one random place?
00:22:41.000Yeah, so he wanted to get with me, and I didn't, and I really needed a new laptop.
00:24:10.000And during the date, yeah, he bought me a first class ticket to New York.
00:24:16.000So he told me he wanted me to go out to New York, put me up in a bomb ass suite overlooking the, you know, over the city, Times Square, the whole works, everything.
00:24:26.000And when he was there, it looks like he actually had another girl that he flew out at the same time.
00:34:42.000Yo, you guys kill me when you make these government agency ones, bro.
00:34:55.000Remember that girl that said that she was scamming so that she can go to Spain and then and then some nigga made the Spanish like customs and like made a comment like we're not letting How do they do that so fast?
00:36:49.000I mean, I'm going to generalize nurses and, like, CNAs because that shit, like, with toxicity and they be cheating on each other with co-workers.
00:39:18.000No, no, no, but I'm just saying, like, I just find that hilarious how girls will have, like, a bad habit or something, and they'll just blame it on the...
00:42:45.000You don't seem like the type to, like, just have a fun time, meet a guy, and, like, you have the confidence to, like, fuck him and then ghost him the next day.
00:48:59.000You think a guy really goes out on a date to like hear your opinions and thoughts Like can you tell us three of your hobbies?
00:49:08.000Oh Exactly my point Here's the thing like women really be thinking that dudes go on dates with that till I get to know them and shit bro fuck No.
00:49:29.000But women, honestly, are boring as hell and don't have many interesting things to say.
00:49:33.000And this is why he wrote the book, my ladies.
00:49:37.000Listen, man, I've interviewed almost 2,000 girls on this show, bro.
00:49:40.000There's no one that spoke to more girls than me, and I'm saying, like, the reality is, if you're an attractive young female, why are you going to build yourself up and become interesting when guys are going to give it to you regardless?
00:49:50.000All of you guys were able to describe dudes simping on you with giving them nothing in return.
00:50:02.000Like, if I was getting laid or getting attention from bad bitches all the time just for existing, I would never go to the gym or make money or care.
00:50:08.000Why would I feel a need to self-improve?
00:51:46.000So, you really think if you were to be pissing in public, assuming the police don't stop you, and a girl walked by and saw your dick, you could look her in the eye with your dick in your hand, pissing.
00:52:00.000If I'm wearing some shit you're wearing, probably not.
00:52:03.000But if I got on some shit that's drippy as fuck, and I'm looking clean as fuck, and my dick is looking pretty and clean, and I'm a bag of bitch, I know how to do it, Unless you're R. Kelly, what's happening?
00:52:15.000So you would be pissing in your mirror jeans out in public and a girl would walk by and you would just be like, hey, ma, you want to suck this dick?
00:54:05.000What differentiates you, the way you think, from other females?
00:54:08.000The fact that I already know what men are thinking.
00:54:11.000They come to me for advice because they know what I'm going to give them is what a man would not give them because that is actually the truth.
00:54:48.000Okay, so the three things you would do is you would piss in public, while pissing in public, get a girl to suck your dick, and then run a train.
00:57:45.000My son's father does a really dangerous job, like a really dangerous job.
00:57:49.000So of course he's going to get paid more than me, but because I wouldn't do that job, a lot of women wouldn't do that job.
00:57:54.000So what he's saying is that they don't factor in the danger of the job.
00:57:59.000They don't factor in like a lot of things when they talk about the wage gap.
00:58:02.000Now, that's something I got to do more research on, but I see where he's going with it, that there's other factors that contribute to this wage gap.
00:58:10.000Women make less because they deserve less.
01:05:17.000There's plenty of girls that look good in a bikini and they never go to the gym.
01:05:20.000But you ain't gonna catch a guy looking good with his, you know, board shorts with visible abs and muscular physique without going to the gym.
01:06:34.000They don't have the same experience levels.
01:06:35.000They don't work the same career fields, etc.
01:06:37.000You cannot categorize every woman to that statistic.
01:06:42.000There's always exceptions to the rule.
01:06:44.000But the exception doesn't make the rule.
01:06:46.000When it's equal on both sides, women make more.
01:06:49.000If you have a man and a woman that works the same amount of hours and the same amount of, you know, Gifts or skills or whatever it is, the woman makes more.
01:08:17.000Actually, what you're doing right now is what a lot of women do.
01:08:19.000A fact will be stated, they'll get offended, they'll attribute facts to themselves, say, this fact doesn't apply to me, let me make an argument for myself.
01:08:27.000Because you constantly make opinions about most women based on your facts.
01:11:53.000If one of your, let's say your best friend or friend, right, knew your man in person, but never met them privately, then you start following your man on Instagram.
01:15:53.000I don't think that that's weird because if they hit it off, I would think it's weird if we all hung out and they didn't talk to each other in any way, then I'd be like, okay, why'd you do that?
01:16:03.000But if it was like a vibe between all of us, yeah, I don't see what would be the issue there.
01:17:53.000No, I'm gonna go no, because if it's my man, I know I'm talking about my best friend to him all the time, and if he wants to keep up with me, I mean, following her probably makes sense, because I'm gonna be on her story, I'm gonna be out at the club with her, he's gonna see it, so unless he's DMing her, it's not a red flag.
01:18:10.000Okay, would you admit that on Instagram, things happen?
01:18:13.000Like, people post stories, people react to it, and over time, you do a like, emoji, people start DMing out of the blue.
01:18:22.000Well, if that happens, then that's not my friend and that's not my man.
01:19:30.000And then probably goes off the grid for a couple days and then just comes back.
01:19:37.000If you're talking to someone and you're like about them, you'll be able to respond at least once a day unless you're like, oh, I'm going on vacation for two days, whatever.
01:19:46.000If you just kind of dip off the grid, what you doing?
01:19:49.000Yeah, what you doing in that spare time?
01:20:54.000But I think, like, if they're not working all day or, like, you know, when they don't respond when they're done with work and they kind of go ghost for a couple days.
01:21:31.000I would say definitely one is the response, like text messages, especially if you have, like, if you both have iPhones and it has, like, the read receipts on and you see that they read it, but then they don't respond.
01:21:51.000I would also say, like, their response to, like, if they see an attractive person in public while you're with, like, your boyfriend or whatever the case may be.
01:22:04.000Okay, what is the response to watch out for?
01:22:07.000Like, if they make, like, comments like, oh, he's, like, good-looking, but you're sitting right next to your boyfriend and you're saying that, like, out loud, that's kind of rude.
01:23:58.000If they don't show you off a lot, and then if they have social media and they don't allow comments on any of their pictures or anything, I feel like that's for the sly people.
01:24:10.000Why is that sly to not allow comments?
01:24:14.000To me, it's like you're doing something wrong.
01:24:17.000Like, why don't you want people commenting?
01:26:32.000Well, they're Colombian, and they're super Spanish, and I'm very Americanized, and she doesn't like that I don't speak Spanish, and she just doesn't like that I'm shy.
01:27:50.000She sees that he ain't a priority in your life and he's kind of just a placeholder boyfriend, so that's why she don't want him to fuck with you.
01:28:01.000When mothers look at the girlfriend that their son is dating, anything that she's deficient in, they're immediately going to point it out, and they're going to make you feel very uncomfortable if you don't rise up to a certain level.
01:28:13.000You probably don't cook, you don't clean, you don't have certain traits that she might want her son to have in his woman, and that's probably why she's doing that.
01:28:19.000You guys are gonna make me break up with him again.
01:30:00.000I mean, so he's the type of person, he's very, like, financially responsible, and he won't take care of himself or buy him things he wants or needs.
01:31:05.000You could have brought a gringo in and if she did things right, she would respect her.
01:31:10.000You're doing something that you probably don't want to admit that's fucked up.
01:31:13.000Or you probably broke it off for insignificant reasons last time and broke his heart and the mom saw that shit and was like, fuck this bitch.
01:31:19.000That's probably why she don't like you.
01:31:20.000I mean, if you want to be real, though.
01:39:53.000Yeah, like things that women can do that men don't have.
01:39:56.000But I do see the point about the youth and the beauty because, yeah, I don't know, you can negate the facts all day, but men, for many reasons, I don't agree with it.
01:40:04.000I'm not saying that I agree with it, but for many reasons, men really do prefer younger women.
01:41:12.000I actually agree with you that men prefer younger women.
01:41:15.000Some reasons I do agree with, like the one I just stated, which is that a younger woman that hasn't been through as much in life is bound to be a little bit softer, more caring, more vulnerable in relationships versus a woman that's 30, ran through, then been through two different baby daddies.
01:41:31.000And I'm not pointing nobody out here either because I don't want to start another cat fight.
01:41:34.000I'm just saying that that reason I do agree.
01:41:37.000I can see why a man would Go towards a younger woman in that sense.
01:41:41.000Because that younger woman has more emotionally to give than someone who's 34 and done been through mad shit, has seen it all, thinks she knows it all.
01:42:57.000That there's a low IQ conversation because I have to explain that exceptions don't make the rules.
01:43:02.000Somebody said they're going to call the FBI. I literally say that men universally prefer younger women and she goes and takes from that, oh, five-year-olds.
01:43:45.000You don't even know what we're talking about.
01:43:48.000It started with you trying to say a 34-year-old woman, right, is the same as a 34-year-old guy that's single, and I'm telling you it's not.
01:43:54.000At 34 years old as a woman, you've pretty much exhausted most of your value versus a guy that's 34 years old that's still building his value if he's doing the work and has more time.
01:44:02.000Again, women are given their value by Mother Nature, and father time takes it away.
01:45:14.000That's where the misconnection is coming in because he is talking about something and stating facts and then you're coming in and saying, okay, but I did this and I did this and oh, but me is this and oh, but I did this.
01:45:24.000So when they ask us a question, is it personal?
01:46:35.000Since I've talked to a bunch of them, and you're only talking from your experience versus I can talk about talking with a bunch of them, they don't have the same command on the dating marketplace that they used to have when they were 24 versus being 34.
01:47:04.000Just because you don't experience something and you think, yo, your statistics and your facts, just because it doesn't apply to you doesn't mean it's not true.
01:48:03.000I would say one of them would be if you've guys been in a relationship for a while and she wasn't like a person that would go out a lot and now that's all she wants to do.
01:48:39.000I think a lot of the times some single women can have a feeling of jealousy when their friend is thriving in a relationship and then comes to them with a problem.
01:48:49.000And the first thing is like, oh, dump him.
01:48:52.000Or, oh, I've seen that happen way too many times in my own friendship groups.
01:49:20.000I think a lot of women are people pleasers and they want to stay with their friend group and they say whatever they want to hear.
01:49:27.000But behind your back, they're going to talk shit.
01:49:29.000So going out seeking advice, what's the last one?
01:49:30.000Going out seeking advice and I would say another a third red flag in a relationship would be if you're going through a rough time and it's like the first time in your relationship that y'all are going through a rough time financially and she's like immediately starts checking out that's a huge red flag and I'm not saying if it's been like persistent some guys are really bums but I think if it's like the first time and you can't provide it's like dang what have you been here this whole time so that's a red flag okay What about you?
01:50:00.000One, I would say multiple baby daddies.
01:56:33.000I feel like when you make yourself more readily available all the time, whether it's always saying yes to things or always being around, never knowing when to cut it and go home.
01:58:11.000Well, the thing is, is that, and I think this is something kind of like with modern girls in general, is that like a lot of women don't know how to keep a man, realistically speaking.
01:58:18.000They just know how to like get a guy and attract the guy, but they don't know how to keep one after they fuck, especially.
02:00:00.000I would say the best piece of advice I've given or I've gotten from someone is that when someone shows you their true colors, don't try and paint a different picture.
02:01:01.000I mean, I get what you're saying, but there are times where the person dispensing the advice is giving you good advice, but it's just not practical for them to take it.
02:04:22.000To be honest, there's a difference between men when she was saying that, oh, like, don't forget how you make people feel, blah, blah, blah.
02:04:29.000In my head, all the times I got the best advice, I always felt like shit.
02:04:45.000And you're like, damn, okay, I need to change.
02:04:47.000But with girls, it's like, oh, no, I gotta feel good to take the advice.
02:04:50.000And I think that's the big difference between men and women is that, Women can't handle the truth in general is what I've come to realize from interviewing almost 2,000 of you guys.
02:04:58.000Girls refer comforting lies over uncomfortable truths.
02:05:02.000We don't tell women that they're fat, obnoxious, or annoying.
02:05:05.000We tell them that they're strong queens that love your curves.
02:05:09.000But men don't get that same benefit at all.
02:08:30.000Myron, the type of guy to write with his left hand just to be a part of the small percentage who do a fresh favorite meal to order from Wendy's is a four to four.
02:09:04.000Fresh and Fit, thank you for getting on my ass about fitness, working on bringing up my value and status, and putting myself above these silly 304s.
02:11:40.000I think right now I don't have a clear picture of what that man looks like because I need to get clear on what I need to be at the moment for myself to make myself happy.
02:11:50.000I won't make myself happy in this state.
02:11:52.000And then once I'm happy and I'm clear-headed, I'll know what's next in the picture for me.
02:11:57.000Once I get clear on my career, once I get clear on myself, my self-worth, then I can start to nitpick And choose what I want in my life.
02:12:06.000So right now the door is closed for a lot of things.
02:13:15.000If you want to find a guy, you might want to work on it sooner than later.
02:13:18.000And these things that you mentioned, finding myself, having my career in line and all this other stuff, men don't really care about any of that stuff.
02:13:24.000No, I wasn't talking about career-wise and finding myself.
02:16:52.000Then why did you ask, are you in a marriage or relationship?
02:16:55.000That doesn't have anything to do with the question.
02:16:56.000Because I'm saying you're trying to down talk me for being single at 34 when I'm telling you I already had kids and been married and it didn't work out.
02:17:04.000So what I'm saying is that I've reached a point in my life where I'm happy being sustained by myself.
02:17:09.000And I could fuck whoever the fuck I want and still provide for myself and take care of my kids.
02:18:35.000What I'm saying is that you are very in your masculine energy, and I know a woman cannot thrive and be happy in her masculine.
02:18:43.000And based on your life choices of you leaving your husband, etc., you put yourself in a position where you have two children and you have to be a mother and a father, and that puts you in your masculine energy, which has been shown throughout the podcast.
02:18:54.000So I already know that you're not happy because you have to be in masculine energy constantly.
02:18:58.000What if I love being in my masculine energy?
02:22:14.000So do you suggest that women just go into dating like as they are?
02:22:18.000You don't think that there's a period, especially knowing that that gap is closing, you don't think that there's a period where a woman should really lock in and focus up?
02:22:26.000No, because a girl should get married and find a man when she's at her peak.
02:22:57.000The United States is a clown world because here the divorce rate is high and women are incentivized to initiate breakups.
02:23:02.000But if a girl is with a guy that she loves and mirrors and respects and gets married young, that's the best chance of overall happiness for her.
02:23:08.000Women derive most of their happiness from children and family, not a career.
02:23:14.000So, I mean, if you know that most of your happiness is contingent upon a family, wouldn't it make sense to try to find a family when you have the most chance of getting said family, which is when you're younger?
02:23:24.000I just think that this, like, dating culture here, especially in America, so, like, Then again, that's probably why I have the mentality I have where I feel like you should definitely have your mental right.
02:23:35.000You should definitely try to align yourself as best as possible with the partner that you say you want to have.
02:23:41.000But you keep bringing up the point of men's value, what men bring to the table and what women bring to the table.
02:25:19.000I know above average women, though, that are getting flown out and not getting anything in return.
02:25:24.000But the point I'm trying to make is that average women have access to top tier guys.
02:25:29.000So in other words, women can easily punch out of their weight class.
02:25:32.000But what I'm saying is above average women.
02:25:34.000I'm talking about the women that you're talking about, 18 to 24, have their own money, have their own jobs, no kids, whatever you want to call it, that's above average.
02:25:44.000Those women are getting flown out and getting fucked for free.
02:25:47.000Yeah, because the men have more value than them.
02:27:14.000And the reasons why you have the mannerisms you have is because you've been constantly reaffirmed that your behavior is acceptable, when in reality it's not.
02:28:22.000That's my point that you have lived such a privileged life that you don't even know what disrespect is anymore because it's that common to you.
02:28:29.000My life is based on my choices though.
02:28:50.000And I'm saying that you, your own behaviors show that you have an ego because you've been disrespectful on the podcast, etc.
02:28:58.000And the reason why you do it and you don't even know what you said that was disrespectful is because you've went through life without being checked a significant amount of times.
02:29:04.000And I'm telling you to your face, yes, you're a very masculine, disrespectful woman.
02:31:06.000Suncatcher goes, I'm a 27-year-old immigrant from Eastern Europe, moved to the U.S. five years ago, and now making around $100K a year as an owner-operator, and I'm shocked seeing everyone here complaining about everything.
02:38:13.000I would just say, man, like, you know, helping guys become better because we went through a lot of, like, you know, we took a lot of L's, a lot of losses as well, and then, like, for example, we started taking W's and was like, you know what, let's share our knowledge with people because I think we have a lot to share, and it was helpful.
02:38:27.000People liked it, got results, and then from there, we expanded to, you know, the studio.
02:43:05.000If you see a guy that's successful, or a guy that has a good physique, or a guy that has a lot of money, etc., 9 out of 10 times, there has to be a lot of blood, sweat, and tears to be able to get to that point.
02:43:13.000Like, you're just seeing the end product, but you don't see what it took to create that product.
02:43:17.000So, for men, they must go through adversity to become the best version of themselves.
02:44:26.000So basically I was just saying if there were successful podcasts like yours and then it led to the question of would you collaborate with a group?
02:45:28.000Women are better at, like, short-form content, like a lot of the big TikTok creators on Instagram because, you know, women are able to market their sexuality and their looks, so they're able to get viewers that way.
02:45:38.000But when it comes to long-form content, having conversations, etc., Most podcasts are male-dominated.
02:45:43.000The only one I can think of that's female-run is Call Her Daddy.
02:46:08.000You know, they'll think, oh, well, you know, they'll be ran through, like, you know, did some whole shit in the past and think that some dude's gonna take them seriously when there's, like, videos and pictures of them doing a bunch of fuck shit in the past.
02:48:32.000That's tough, because I don't know enough, but what I do know off of him not proposing to you, and y'all been together for five years, is you're doing something wrong.
02:48:42.000And also his mom not liking you is another big issue as well.
02:48:45.000Would you ever work on the relationship with your boyfriend's mom?
02:54:01.000I actually happened to glance over at the screen when one of the little payment comments came up, and they were like, hey, that girl next to him is Alex.