In this episode of the Frustrated Podcast, the boys talk about the best and worst things that have ever happened to them, and how they got away with it. Also, we talk about how bad it is to drive a Lamborghini in the middle of the night and get pulled over by the police for speeding. Also, the guys talk about what it's like to be the king of freeloading and how to deal with it, and why it's a bad idea to have a party on a boat with no one to pay for it. And of course, we have a special guest on the show to talk about a recent car accident that happened to one of the boys and how he almost got into a car accident and how it could have been avoided if he would have done what he should have done instead of going to jail. Enjoy the episode and tweet us with any questions or comments! Timestamps: 0:00 - What's the worst thing you ve ever done with your car? 6:30 - What do you do with your license? 9:00 - How do you deal with speeding? 11:40 - What kind of car do you drive? 16:30 - When do you get caught? 17:00- What s your license plate number? 18:20 - How much money do you pay? 19:15 - How many cars do you own? 22:15 23:30- What are you driving? 26:00 Is your license suspended? 27: What are your car license plate? 29:40 30:00 + 32: What s the worst car you ve you got? 31:30 + 35:00 After Hours? 35:30 After Hours Podcast? 36:00 | After Hours After? 37:30 | Who do you like to drink? 39:00 & 40:00 Do you have a problem? 42:00 Can I drink more than one glass of wine? 45:00 How do I know someone else? 47:00 Should I have a glass of coke? 44: Is it too much? 46:30 & 45:30 Do I need to drink more? 51:00 Let me know what you would like to order another glass of water? 56:00 I d love to give me a tip? 57:00 If you like it?
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00:16:09.000So just five years straight, you go, when you go to, so you finish high school and then go five years straight, you can become a dentist in Brazil?
00:21:10.000So like Jordan Belfort, Wolf of Wall Street, SEC was going after him and the FBI. SEC handled it on the administrative side because he was doing the penny stocks and all that bullshit.
00:21:18.000Then the FBI came after him criminally.
00:21:20.000She does, think of it, the Canadian functional equivalent to the SEC, but on the civil side is what she does.
00:21:25.000So she goes after Canadian Jordan Belfort is what she does.
00:37:41.000We were together for a year, and I let him move into my apartment, and I was paying everything, driving him to and from work, and all that.
00:38:31.000John May goes, what do you think of the women on Instagram and TikTok that teach women how to get men to spend money on them with expensive dates, gifts, etc.?
00:38:39.000Lady from Cheesecake Factory video was using these talking points.
00:38:42.000Curious what the women say versus the men.
00:38:44.000Alright, we can go around the table on that one real fast.
00:38:46.000What are your thoughts on, I'm sure, I don't know if you guys have seen this, but there's women on TikTok and Instagram that give girls dating advice.
00:38:52.000Hey, this is how you finesse guys on dinners.
00:39:50.000What are your thoughts on that with girls putting out content to teach women how to finesse dudes?
00:39:55.000I feel like you should just go out with somebody that you genuinely have an interest with, because why not just buy yourself your own meal and your own dinner?
00:40:03.000Like, why spend time with somebody you don't even like, to be honest?
00:40:07.000Well, apparently, it didn't work out for you last time.
00:40:08.000I know, but I was actually trying to get him to get his shit figured out, and I was trying to help him.
00:40:14.000He said he wanted you to pay for yourself.
00:40:26.000I don't think you should be trying to finesse a man.
00:40:29.000I think you should get a guy that you genuinely like, that genuinely likes you.
00:40:34.000And when you bring what you need to bring to the table, he's going to want to provide for you and he's going to want to do those things for you anyway.
00:40:42.000So I don't necessarily agree with that word finesse or putting out content to try to finesse a guy.
00:40:49.000I do agree with what you guys said, that men have it hard.
00:42:32.000I mean, 50-50, like, sometimes you buy dinner or whatever, you make something, and sometimes he takes you out, but not forced, but, like, you know, have a balance with each other.
00:42:44.000So you're saying you wanted to split with you most of the time?
00:42:47.000Not split the bill, but, like, you either pay for it, and then he pays for it the other time, you know?
00:43:05.000I'm saying, like, one day you go and you pay for the dinner or wherever you guys are going, and then the next time that you go out, he goes and pays for it.
00:44:53.000Jaleel goes, ratings, oh no, guys, remember, 20 and up is being read on air, so we'll show it on screen, but we're only going to read 20 and up.
00:45:02.000Fresher Samuta goes, wow, that kneecap with an eyebrow was early today?
00:51:20.000So if he's paying for the child and everything, that should be your...
00:51:22.000Well, I don't want the father of my child to be an alcoholic.
00:51:27.000For me, my mindset when I left him is that if I don't want to have a son that I can be proud of if he was exactly like you, I don't want to have a child with you.
00:52:16.000Come on, niggas, how's that work, man?
00:52:19.000Your girl's like, you right now, you probably, you know, walking around Miami, and the girl's hitting on you, and he's, like, walking around, like, what the fuck?
00:52:26.000Stop looking at my bitch, you know what I'm saying?
00:55:01.000I just, my sexual health is really important to me.
00:55:04.000And when you're getting cheated on, the statistics, it makes it much more probable that you're going to catch something and that they'll bring something home.
00:55:10.000And I'm just naturally very monogamous.
00:59:09.000Okay, so monogamy, it started back when the Neanderthals existed, and that started because humans had sex with Neanderthals, and that created STDs.
00:59:22.000So that's why humans evolved to become, you know, become monogamous because STDs exist and that's evolution saying, hey, you shouldn't be sleeping with multiple people because bacteria spreads.
00:59:36.000Because what they've done is they've found that countries that have a lot of polygamy, where small minority men have all the women, there is less stability.
00:59:46.000Because one of the fastest ways to tame a wild young man is having a family and children.
00:59:52.000But when guys are running around and they don't have...
00:59:55.000A family or a woman or anything like that, they start violence a lot of times.
01:00:00.000So if you look at countries that practice polygyny, they're less stable, Middle Eastern countries, unfortunately.
01:00:05.000Didn't they create certain STDs in the lab?
01:00:32.000And monogamy also, I think it blunts the negatives of both genders, so men want a bunch of variety.
01:00:38.000Monogamy allows them to kind of keep that away, and it keeps the high-status men from having all the women, and then it also gives women the ability to build a family with someone, even though he might not necessarily check all the boxes, it allows them to do it.
01:00:52.000With feminism, it's kind of changed things, where it's like, women have all the options now, I make my own money, so why am I going to get with a regular 540 guy making 50k per year?
01:01:00.000When I make that amount of money, let me go for a guy that makes 200k per year.
01:01:03.000But the problem is that that guy is more than likely not going to be monogamous.
01:01:07.000So I think monogamy definitely stabilizes society.
01:01:10.000I think that's why, like, if you look at a lot of the first world English-speaking countries that are Judeo-Christianity, which is big on monogamy, they're more stable.
01:01:18.000And that's because it gives all the men sexual access to...
01:01:23.000It gives regular guys a fighting chance to have sexual access to a woman and be able to build a family which will stabilize them and make them less crazy.
01:01:30.000I don't know, but anybody else have anything on...
01:05:21.000I would just say one where the girl feels special, feels that she's the one for you, and also the, like, She knows that you're her priority, but also you don't cheat in her face.
01:05:35.000So that's the best relationship where she's special, she's the one, you don't put it in her face, you just tell her what she wants to hear.
01:07:08.000Yeah, so I guess you could say sister wives or whatever, but I think having multiple girls and having them be friends with each other works out the best because what ends up happening is if you're a guy and you've got a strong frame and you're picking the right girls, they're all going to have similar interests anyway.
01:07:24.000What I've come to realize about women that aren't hoes is they tend to have similar interests.
01:07:28.000They tend to like to do things inside.
01:07:31.000They tend to like more simpler things.
01:07:33.000They tend to be higher IQ. They tend to be interested in learning and developing themselves to a degree.
01:07:38.000And when you bring these girls together, they're like, oh my god, what the hell?
01:07:41.000And they have similar interests and similar mindsets and most importantly, similar worldviews.
01:07:45.000And they end up becoming really good friends.
01:07:48.000I mean, to this day, some of the girls...
01:07:52.000One, is still friends with Angie and they hang out and shit like that.
01:08:28.000But I think making them friends and introducing them, it actually works out.
01:08:32.000I know some girls can't put their ego to the side or whatever, but it actually does work out and they end up being friends with it and they end up really getting along because they have a common interest and then from there they could build upon a friendship.
01:11:00.000But, to answer your question, the reason why I think that works is because, right, when we look at relationships, right, between men and women, we typically only look at the female perspective.
01:12:24.000I think women should work electively, and they could work and do some side job or whatever it may be, but I think the man should be the predominant breadwinner, and the woman should work from a position where I want to work and I can do it on the side, but the kids come first.
01:12:35.000So, yeah, if I was to do this, I would have a house for each wife or each girl, Kids there.
01:12:41.000And then I'd come in and out every now and then.
01:14:31.000Not you personally, but if you're trying to have a lot of girls and have a family with a lot of girls, you're just putting yourself in a situation when you're going to have a lot of headaches.
01:14:41.000Another thing too I want to bring to attention, because you mentioned what if she gets fat and old or whatever and you're wrinkly and you don't want to be with her no more.
01:14:48.000Statistically speaking, that is just not common.
01:14:50.000It's women that actually initiate the majority of the breakups and divorces.
01:14:52.000Men rarely ever break up with their women.
01:15:25.000I get what you're saying, but realistically speaking, if a dude's in a relationship with a chick, he's not going to leave a lot of times, especially if she has kids.
01:15:33.000It's the women that initiate the breakups.
01:19:04.000Okay, I say women because women always look to date up, right?
01:19:09.000With social media, you're always looking for the next best thing.
01:19:15.000You could have something great in front of you, and now with social media, you're seeing now guys are messaging you and saying, I can provide this, this, and this for you more than your man can, right?
01:20:22.000Let's say Hinge Guy, for example, right?
01:20:25.000Do you think to yourself, okay, this motherfucker cheated on me, I'm out, and did the abundance on social media kind of make it easier for you to make that decision to leave him?
01:20:34.000I know he crossed the boundary regardless, but did it make it easier for you to enact on that boundary?
01:24:14.000Do you think it made it easier for you to walk away from your guy a little bit knowing that the sheer amount of options thanks to the internet?
01:25:04.000Knowing that there's options over there, out here, and people are going to take better care of you, treat you the way that you want to get treated, and I think it's easier.
01:25:14.000To answer your question, I would say yes.
01:26:56.000If one party had to have more options than the other, so whether the man has to have more options than the woman or the woman having more options than the man, what do you think, what party do you think needs to have more options for the relationship to last?
01:32:14.000Yeah, I agree 100% that the man needs to have more options.
01:32:18.000And the reason for that is because women get bored in relationships easier.
01:32:21.000This has been proven pretty much on every metric that women end relationships faster and they get bored in relationships quicker than men do.
01:32:26.000So the only way that you're going to keep a woman preoccupied and interested in you is she needs to feel like she's replaceable, unfortunately.
01:32:33.000And the only way you do that is by letting a girl know that other women want you.
01:32:36.000And, you know, they've done studies on this where they take a male chimp and, you know, the male chimp is by himself and they put him in front of female chimps, the female chimps curve him.
01:32:43.000But when he has female chimps with him, then the females want him.
01:32:46.000You know, you go into a nightclub, you know, where all the women concentrated in the section with all the guys that have the bottles, right?
01:32:52.000There's 20 girls and two guys in there.
01:32:54.000So, unfortunately, women respond very favorably to men that have other women.
01:32:59.000And women respect men that have other women and pick them.
01:33:03.000Is that other women want me, but you're my main girl.
01:33:06.000And I think that's what keeps women attracted.
01:33:07.000Now, some girls might not be able to handle a long time.
01:33:09.000They might get annoyed with all the constant anxiety and competition anxiety that they deal with with the guy.
01:33:14.000But I've come to realize that typically when I've seen girls in a relationship where they're satisfied and are happy with their guy, their guy is...
01:33:22.000Heads and shoulders above them in everything.
01:33:23.000He's taller than her, smarter than her, better than her in everything, more social status.
01:33:29.000She knows that he has options with other women, but to her, she's like, I'm content because I'm the main girl.
01:33:34.000And I think that's what's needed for women to truly be satisfied with their guy is they need to know that he picked her for real versus she's his only option.
01:33:43.000But also, women find men with wedding rings more attractive, too.
01:33:46.000Because she knows he can raise a family for the most part, and a woman wants him already.
01:36:10.000So, see how on one end, right, the man doesn't necessarily need approval from his peers to find a woman attractive, but on the other hand, to some degree, you need to not only let your friends know from a safety perspective what you're gonna do, but you also kind of want to get an idea of what they think about your guy.
01:36:23.000Like, that's why girls go to the bathroom a lot of times, is to gossip about the guys that they're talking to.
01:36:27.000Like, I've come to realize that, like, with women, They need social proof to take a guy seriously, but men, we don't need it.
01:36:32.000If I find a girl that's attractive and she has zero followers on Instagram, I'm like, thank God!
01:37:40.000So what I'm trying to say is that women need social proof, men don't.
01:37:43.000So for us, if a girl's bad, she's bad.
01:37:45.000I don't need my friends to tell me that.
01:37:47.000But usually, when guys go on games and they talk about girls, about what they did, and they like to tell their homeboys because they want to flex that.
01:41:08.000I know Irel would be a fantastic guest entertainment side of YouTube, a couple million subs, but his methods to expose the dark side of dating on the streets.
01:46:32.000Anytime Chris says son and we don't know what the fuck this nigga said, I can just picture it in subtitles, ineligible, and, like, no one knows what the fuck this nigga's saying.
01:49:23.000Star Wads goes, female, I got married 170 pounds and gained even more weight.
01:49:28.000Now I have no motivation to lose the weight but desperately want to.
01:49:30.000Husband is not forcing weight loss advice.
01:49:33.000If you really love your husband, you would lose the weight because I'll tell you this, man, being fat as a woman is completely unacceptable.
01:52:57.000Broky is more of like a mindset, like a guy that doesn't want to progress his career, doesn't want to provide for a woman, a guy that thinks 50-50 is a thing.
01:53:08.000Yeah, what is, I think when you have a conversation, you see the guy, what does he think, what does he think about the future, what does he think about the work, you can make sure this guy is a broker or not.
01:53:40.000The 50-50 mindset and kind of what she said too, like if he complains or doesn't want to pay to go to dinner, like basic things and doesn't want to progress where he's at.
01:58:17.000I already know for a fact that if your dad's doing construction and he's buying and acquiring real estate properties, he's a millionaire at least, bare minimum.
01:58:41.000Chris, you have something that you want to say?
01:58:43.000Yeah, so girls, what value do you bring to a guy who actually, you know, for example, if you want a guy who makes 100k a month, what do you bring to a guy like that?
02:01:11.000I try to make my guy's life easier in any way I can.
02:01:17.000So if he's providing, I'm taking care of everything else within the household.
02:01:25.000If we were to have kids, like, again, obviously I would want him to be there and stuff, but I would do majority of, I think I would do majority of the work.
02:07:17.000I know this sounds so silly, but I really do think that he loves everybody and that he shouldn't just exclude somebody just because of what they like.
02:07:25.000Do you know the story of Sodom and Gomorrah?
02:11:46.000Since we're on the topic of marriage, ladies, would you still get married and a divorce if you wouldn't get alimony, child support, and not 100% custody of the kids?