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00:07:06.000So basically I buy leads and then I work them until either somebody says yes and then I go through the demo and give them the three options between different companies that they can choose from.
00:12:10.000I mean, sometimes as a dancer, you just go out and instead of doing a normal job interview, you just go and audition and give them your resume.
00:12:19.000They do a dance and they pick three people and they're like, alright, we want you in this next performance event or whatever.
00:15:00.000Alright, so guys, go ahead and I guess we can hit some of these chats and then we're going to go ahead and have, yeah, because guys, on Friday, just so you guys know, we're going to have a couple show on Wednesday.
00:15:09.000Probably we'll have Roland Tomasi on the panel as well when we do it.
00:16:59.000I think the biggest thing is you just have to treat your main girls differently than other girls so that they can feel special.
00:17:06.000Yeah, it's just to be number one priority.
00:17:08.000Yeah, they got to feel like they're getting certain privileges that other girls don't so that they, you know, the whole thing is like women are ruled by their emotions, so you have to make them feel a certain way.
00:17:16.000But they might still give you headaches and shit.
00:17:19.000I've noticed you don't deal with as many headaches when you're honest, but you lose a lot of girls from being honest.
00:17:44.000But the main thing is, like you said before, making sure that she's a priority and that she feels like she's special over all the other girls.
00:17:49.000Because I'd be fucking up by bringing them to other spots, too.
00:22:14.000I didn't really know anything, and then I found out the name of it, and then I told some of my friends, and then they were like, holy shit, fresh and fit, and I was like, I don't know what that is.
00:22:22.000Was it your guy friends or your girlfriends?
00:23:11.000Like, not going to the club, or for example, putting your private...
00:23:15.000I guess, like, Instagram on private, shit like that, I guess you could say.
00:23:19.000Okay, what is the boundary that they didn't want to follow, but yeah, okay, so ladies, what is the boundary that you didn't like, but you followed it because you were in a relationship?
00:25:16.000You didn't want to, but you gave up because you were in a relationship with a guy.
00:25:18.000Okay, the first thing that comes to my mind is when somebody likes a post or something, like a DM, responds to a DM, I'm sorry, responds to a post with a heart on a DM, and I cannot like it back to, like, acknowledge the story.
00:25:34.000Ah, okay, that's a very nuanced one, but okay, alright, alright.
00:26:31.000What is a boundary that you Gave up that you didn't really want to but you did it for your man anyway?
00:26:37.000I don't think I really have I mean in general I can never been with a man I respected to the point to do that for I've taken care of every man I've been with So, at the end of the day, why would I give up something for you if you aren't benefiting me?
00:26:52.000Since you were self-sufficient and you were taking care of them and you were basically the breadwinner slash almost damn near boyfriend energy, why were you with them?
00:27:03.000I guess in a sense that if I really like somebody's personality, I get fixated on the good factors about them, and I try to bring those out, and I try to uplift them in a sense.
00:27:13.000So I really try to make their life better in a sense.
00:27:16.000I push them to do the things they don't want to do.
00:27:19.000So, like, genuinely, I've always been, like, a caretaker in every single role.
00:27:46.000But I'm saying before, no, I mean, you're fine being single now, but like, you know, usually when a girl takes on a guy like that, where she's like taking care of him, paying the bills, etc., and they're a bum, like, did he not contribute anything?
00:29:34.000And in this aspect, like, you got the girl, she was there, but you didn't give up anything that you were doing prior because you didn't feel the need to.
00:31:32.000No, it's just, like, if you can sit there and treat somebody that shitty and, like, deliberately use them to that extent, like, I'm never gonna go back to you and I'm never gonna talk to you again.
00:31:45.000Isn't it interesting how when girls get used, they're smart enough to walk away and never talk to a person again, but if a guy gets used, he's fucking stupid and will let that girl come back and continue to use him?
00:35:20.000Let's say they're a lawyer, but they're employed by a firm.
00:35:22.000I mean, yeah, that's, like, at that point, like, that's fine.
00:35:25.000But, like, if you have the drive and the motivation and the work ethic, then, like, yeah, I'm fine being with you.
00:35:29.000But if you don't, then, for the most part, no.
00:35:32.000And I feel like people in the fast food space and things along those lines, some very small portion may have the drive and the motivation to try and get out of that situation.
00:35:40.000Well, let's say they're a regional manager making $100K a year.
00:36:48.000And actually, to add about the fast food manager, if you can be a manager at a fast food place, why would you not go maybe somewhere better?
00:36:57.000Why are you just staying in a fast food place?
00:37:00.000Well, depending on the chain, you can make a lot of money as a manager.
00:37:05.000If you're an operations manager, a district manager, you could be making $100,000, $200,000, $300,000 a year.
00:37:11.000Their argument is, go somewhere else with a better, I want to say, reputation.
00:37:21.000I feel like if you can make it to that level, then you should be able to push yourself to go outside of that, like what you're already doing.
00:37:27.000What if their skill set is within dining?
00:37:31.000Then I mean you can go to a five-star restaurant and do something else.
00:37:40.000So you guys are more, I mean, and that's fine.
00:37:42.000I'm just asking some critical questions here.
00:37:44.000So for you guys, it seems the title is more important than the income, which is fine.
00:37:47.000No, so if you're a regional manager at Chick-fil-A, and you would be only manager somewhere else, like, yes, stay at Chick-fil-A. But if you compare the same position, regional manager at Chick-fil-A, or you could be regional manager at Ritz-Carlton, it doesn't exist regional manager there,
00:38:03.000but if you could be at a more reputable company like that, then why would you stay with a fast switch?
00:40:49.000Would you prefer being a sewage removal person making $100,000 a year or would you rather be a flight attendant making $30,000 per year with being able to travel and shit like that?
00:43:40.000I think women in general are fairly lazy.
00:43:42.000And what I mean by that is like women don't really like to go into laborious jobs that are taxing.
00:43:47.000They prefer to work a, you know, an office job that's nice and air conditioned that pays a 50k a year versus being a construction worker or a power lineman making $100,000 to $150,000 a year.
00:44:41.000Okay, but, like, that doesn't, you know, people don't have to have a certain job to call them lazy, you know, like, how many men do you see as hairstylists?
00:45:00.000If you look at any type of infrastructure job where things are being built, it's dominated by men and not women.
00:45:05.000Yeah, but like I said, the point is like sometimes because of our biological status, we cannot complete these activities that men do with much more ease.
00:45:16.000So why are we going to break our butt?
00:45:49.000Calling it lazy to me is a little out there.
00:45:53.000It is lazy because they have the capacity to make more money, but they choose not to and they'll take a pay cut because they don't want to work harder physically.
00:46:00.000Even though they're capable of doing so, it might be a little bit harder.
00:46:03.000They can do it though, but they choose not to.
00:46:13.000I just made a statement and you were just like shaking your head.
00:46:16.000I was saying that women in general tend to be lazier when it comes to working laborious jobs like construction or any type of infrastructure type job.
00:46:25.000I mean, yeah, in a sense that is true.
00:46:27.000Women are lazier with physical jobs and a lot of things along those lines because it's a lot more strenuous activity that they don't really want to do at the end of the day.
00:46:58.000I mean, even just in our own example here, all of you opted for the lower-paying job that is less physically strenuous over the higher-paying, more physically strenuous job.
00:47:09.000Even though it was over three times as much money earned, all of you opted for the lower-income job.
00:47:15.000But if I asked that question to a bunch of men, all of them would have probably said the sewer job.
00:47:22.000So, you know, I think men are far more willing to sacrifice themselves and put their dreams to the side or do something that they like less to make money versus women are not necessarily willing to do that.
00:47:35.000Women are more likely to chase their passions even if it pays them less than men are.
00:47:39.000But the reason for that is because women aren't assessed on their ability to create income, really.
00:47:46.000No guy's ever gonna come to you and be like, oh, you make 20k per year?
00:48:23.000It happens very often where girls will hear what I got to say and their feelings take over and they're like, I don't like this, but it's the truth.
00:48:30.000And the reality is that women in general dominate the most useless jobs, the most useless professions.
00:49:10.000You're doing really easy jobs yourself.
00:49:13.000So, for example, top 10 jobs for women.
00:49:15.000Preschool, kindergarten teachers, executive secretaries, childcare workers, regular secretaries, dental assistants, medical records specialists, receptionists, information clerics, medical assistants, dieticians, nutritionists, hairdressers, and cosmetologists.
00:49:26.000All these job fields are dominated by women better than 89%.
00:49:30.000Versus you look at the top ten for men, plumbers, pipefitters, steamfitters, electricians, carpenters, auto mechanics, supervisors of construction and extraction workers, construction laborers, firefighters, industrial mechanics, aircraft mechanics, machinists, 95, and all those are 90 plus percent men.
00:49:44.000Well, the latter, these jobs are critical for infrastructure to run society.
00:51:16.000I get it that your circumstance might have sucked and you didn't have that opportunity, but what I'm saying is for things to be optimal, the mother should be at home with the kids during their child-rearing years, and it shouldn't necessarily be, you know.
00:51:29.000And the other thing, too, is that women just pick really bad men that they shouldn't be having kids with.
00:52:21.000If I go on a date with a girl, and I think she likes me, and I spend $1,000 at Kiki and the River taking her out for a dinner date, and she goes to me the next day, whose fault is that?
00:52:33.000How is that relevant to what I'm speaking about?
00:52:38.000If I went on a date and I thought she liked me, and I spent $1,000 on a date, and the next thing you know, she don't call me back, whose fault is it?
00:52:47.000No, it's my fault for being an idiot, not identifying her as a con artist.
00:52:51.000That's not how it works, though, that you're trying to get to know people.
00:52:53.000People have relations sexually because it's a human desire, and sometimes...
00:52:58.000But it's on me to be able to assess that individual before I invest a substantial amount of money into that individual, like $1,000 on a dinner date.
00:53:06.000Just like a woman, it should be on her to invest a little bit of, you know, like, understand the individual she's probably going to have a kid with.
00:53:44.000So, men, if you were to get pregnant tomorrow by a guy, and the guy said, yo, please have the kid, but you said, no, I'm not having the kid, whose decision prevails?
00:54:02.000So if you decide to have that kid, and you end up a destitute single mom, whose fault is it?
00:54:15.000But like you can't kind of blame the victim in this Cirque not victim, but you know what I mean No, like you're saying like mistakes happen Howard like how are you?
00:54:44.000I mean, specifically because that's, like, time that they're developing the most and they form, like, connections with their family and that's really what forms, like, how they act and how they, their personality later on in life.
00:54:56.000If they don't have that connection with their mother or father, it's not going to be as beneficial as if they actually did.
00:55:02.000And I'm not saying that you don't work at all, but I think, especially in those formative years, until the kid goes to school, the woman shouldn't be working.
00:55:09.000She should be at home with that child.
00:57:12.000So if she's having, you know, like, something wrong with her mentally at that very moment, you're just going to discard of her, you know, because she's not giving any use to you.
00:57:25.000You know, that's not the context under which the question was asked.
00:57:29.000The question was she's being emotional, which probably he's meaning in like probably within a confinement of an argument or a disagreement or whatever.
00:57:36.000So I'm saying like just don't, I don't believe in arguing with women.
00:57:41.000You don't believe in negotiating, compromising.
00:57:44.000No, they can't negotiate if they're emotional.
00:59:49.000You calm down and then maybe we could talk later, but the thing is that as a man your job is to stay stoic, stay on your purpose and not let a woman take you off track with her emotions because women are emotionally erratic and you can't go ahead and feed into that crap.
01:00:53.000And that's why I tell guys, we're not ladies, I don't want to sound like an asshole, but men, as the man, you're supposed to be superior to your girl.
01:03:50.000You know, women want chivalry, but they don't want to deal with the negatives of chivalry, which is, shut the hell up and listen to the man.
01:05:07.000But yeah, go talk to a family lawyer, bro, and definitely get that handled in your jurisdiction, and then see how you can strategize to get full custody of the children.
01:06:13.000Because at the end of the day, like, I feel like you get more into it with the person the more you actually connect with them and you like them.
01:06:22.000So if you like them to that extent, then you should be into that.
01:07:01.000I mean, if in this exact scenario she's, like, in a very exclusive, like, monogamous relationship, then yeah, it's a red flag, but then it's like, she should think about other options.
01:08:00.000He's a good guy, he's a gentleman, he pays the bills.
01:08:02.000Personally, speaking for myself, I'm not gonna stay in a relationship where the sex is awkward, it's mediocre, it's nasty, not in a way you want it, you know?
01:08:09.000It's just gonna cause just a negative dilemma in the relationship and you resent them, so no.
01:08:27.000I'm not saying that it's not important for you to satisfy your girl, but what I'm saying is that if the girl really likes you, she's already turned on from her head space.
01:08:35.000You turn her on cognitively before everything else.
01:08:38.000That is true, but we know with frame and time, things fade away.
01:08:55.000Ladies, ask yourself if you were to meet that dream man you desire today or when you walk out the door, do you think you would be ready for him?
01:09:02.000Is there anything you need to work on about yourself?
01:10:24.000I get ticked off by small things sometimes, and understandably, that's not how I should react to certain situations, and I know my mindset in certain times.
01:10:36.000I'll get jealous over things that are Basically not relevant.
01:13:48.000It's just confusing because normally what I've noticed is that girls that are bisexual put a way higher standard on the men that they date than the women.
01:13:55.000They'll go out with a girl because she's pretty and cool, but with the guy, he's got to be attractive, he's got to be charismatic, he's got to be charming.
01:14:01.000Men have to bring way more to the table to get a date with a bisexual girl than a woman does.
01:15:40.000Ayo Fresh, I'm not the one that snitches, but that stupid ass dog of yours is back in your bedroom going down on your favorite body pillow you like to cuddle with lock his ass in the kennel where he belongs.
01:16:02.000Okay, Mexican gym muscles goes, ADHD girl screwed herself with her school choice, got accepted by our school, and ended up dancing a tatted whore.
01:16:10.000If she got rejected, she would have ended up being the leader of Germany and ordered the invasion of Poland.
01:16:50.000Trey, ladies, if you're taking slash dating someone and he tells you he was cheated on his previous relationship, would that change the way you look at him?
01:16:58.000And if so, what would you be curious about?
01:17:02.000If he told you he was cheating in his previous relationship, would that change?
01:19:11.000That is true, but once you find out, you got them.
01:19:13.000On one end, with the woman having the child, that's a woman's fault, and then on this end, with the guy picking a girl that cheats on him, I'm blaming the guy.
01:19:19.000Because if you pick a 304, that's on you.
01:19:36.000Because if you put it in a calculator and you flip it upside down, it says the word ho.
01:19:41.000Flacco goes, this liberal OF girl, oh, you keep bringing on sweet and all, but goddamn, hearing her make these leftist arguments make me want to become a white, oh.