Donoivan Sharpe & Black "Queen" Get in HEATED Argument!
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On this episode of Fresh Fit Podcast, we have our first guest, Daniella Morris, join us to talk about dating, college, and what it's like being in a relationship with someone of color. We also introduce a new segment called "How old are you?" where we get to know the ladies a little bit better and ask them about their dating life and what they do for a living. We hope you guys enjoy this episode and don t forget to subscribe to Fresh Fit on your favorite streaming platform so you never miss an episode. Fresh Fit is a community of likeminded people who are willing to share their stories and opinions on anything and everything going on in the world. We are here to help you become the best version of yourself and help you live your very best life! Thank you so much for being a part of this community and we hope you enjoy this new episode! xoxo, Chris and the Fresh Fit Crew! "Rumble Rants" - Chris & the FreshFit Crew (feat. Aaron C. Parkson, Donavan Sharp & Troy T. ( ) Don and Troy ( ) Join us on FB: & FNF Super Chat ! Thanks for listening and supporting the podcast! . We love y'all! - The Fresh Fit Family! , - and . . . & , and . , , & , And with , Thank you for listening to this podcast. - Cheers, Love ya'll! Cheers! - - Chris and Troy, - CHEERS! - Rachel & Daniell :) CHEFS! ( ) - , MALAY, & DANIELLA, , DANYNN ( ) and , EJ ( ) & MULAN ( ) . , AND KEVIN ( ) ( ) , and MALAN ( ), AND KELLY ( ) ! , CHEERIE ( ) !! THANK YOU! & KEVYLLA ( ) AND MALYNN & DANIYLE ( )!!! WELLY ( ) ( , BABYLYNN ( , ) & KAREN ( )!! , KAYLE ( ), and KARRY ( ) ...
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After our edition, man, we're joined with a bunch of lovely ladies and Donovan Sharp and Troy.
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Quick announcement so you guys know, rumble.com slash freshfitman.
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You guys know exactly where to find us if we ever do get canceled.
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I think we already got a bunch of y'all waiting.
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Alright, so guys, from this point forward, we're going to read 20 and up, but if you got something in before, we'll go ahead and read it for you, so don't worry.
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That goes for Rumble Rants and for FNF Super Chat.
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Again, FNFSuperChat.com, or you can Rumble Rant it in.
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But yeah, Chris, you have something to say, right?
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Aaron C. Parkson on IG. Make sure if you send me a DM to come on to our show, just give me some time, a day or two.
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We got a bunch of new girls and hopefully no one gets friend canceled.
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Ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course.
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I sell health insurance for a living and I am in a relationship this time.
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We ain't gonna speak on that, but I'm in education.
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For the little pole, I can do a little bit of that.
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Bachelor's of Science in Interdisciplinary Studies.
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University of Houston downtown, but I started at Preview at HBCU. And then relationship status?
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I'm single, meaning like, you know, I have friends, but I'm single.
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I traveled a lot, so I had to think about which one like To Dubai?
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So you said your profession is you're an esthetician.
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I'm actually the owner of Danny Stahl's Beauty Studios.
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So you're an esthetician but you own a beauty studio.
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Yeah, I'm a beauty specialist, so full specialist.
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I do everything beauty, nails, skin, makeup, everything.
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I'm trying to get a BBL. Highest education level completed?
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High school, and then I furthered my education in beauty.
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Okay, you have like your esthetician license, I'm guessing, or something like that?
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Alright, and then what's your relationship status?
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I'm a lash tech, I have my own business called Night Lashes.
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My highest education, I went to college but I didn't finish.
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Did you get like an associates or a trade or something like that or no?
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No, I actually just got my esthetician license like her too.
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What did you do wrong and then what did he do wrong?
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No, we wasn't focused on our goals and we have two babies too, so...
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Okay, so people pull permits through you for roofing?
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Would that mean you work for, like, the city or the county or something like that?
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It's like the building department, it's like the city.
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Okay, so you do the permitting for roofing specifically.
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What is your highest education level completed?
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No, I lived on 8th Avenue, like above a pizzeria.
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So you've been in Miami the past 10 years or so?
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When you say content creator, are we talking YouTube?
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We're talking about OnlyFans, modeling, but I'm also an entrepreneur, so now I own a production company.
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We provide the study cards for artists, like mentions, PJs, and everything that has to do with production.
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So you provide the resources to shoot music videos, cars and everything?
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I'm going to guess, does it matter what type of music or is it mostly reggaeton or what?
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And then, so OnlyFans and Modeling Agency, no, sorry, you said Production Agency, right?
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I used to like my natural body, but I don't regret having plastic surgery.
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And at the end of the day, people are always going to have something negative to say.
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We're only on this planet for a short period of time.
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You might as well just fucking make yourself the best possible.
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He wasn't focusing on his goals means he wasn't making enough money fast enough.
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And to the guy in the chat who asked about how it feels for FNF to be demonetized, this one's for you.
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It's funny, we got demonetized, we got a better studio, upgraded all the equipment, and we're doing pretty well, man.
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And then, what is your highest education level completed?
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I said some college, just some college, and I've gotten some courses as well.
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You can match people randomly around the world.
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Some people use it for a dating app and other people use it for live stream.
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It's a fusion of TikTok, Tinder, live streaming.
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Okay, I think it's basically seeking arrangements featuring content.
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He's actually downstairs and cold approach waiting for me to...
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And then what's your highest education level completed?
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I do it full-time online, so I'm at University of Phoenix, yeah.
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Okay, and then what's your relationship status?
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I just- I knew him through mutual people, so like, one day he stood on me and it's just- Okay.
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My name is Keish Mary, I'm 32, and I'm from Massachusetts.
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Hold on, it's Keisha married 32, and then what do you do for?
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I'm also a case manager for adolescents experiencing homelessness and pretty much just trying to get back on their feet.
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Who's the most famous fighter out of Lowell, Mass.?
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I did high school, and then I just did courses.
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Were you raised in Cuba or were you raised here in Miami?
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I didn't believe it was real until I was out there and I'm riding my bike and I'm like, holy fuck, it's fucking real.
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You guys want to introduce yourself real quick to the people?
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Yeah, follow me on YouTube, at RealTroyFrancis.
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Because, I just, I mean, man, we'll get into this, but I don't think marriage is a good idea for dudes these days.
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Also, I'm a dating coach and I travel the whole time, but it's hard to, you know, my base is London.
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But it's hard to sort of like have a relationship doing what I do because I go around a lot.
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Obviously, we're meeting different people and being social, you know, stuff like that.
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Like, you're not going to go to Burger King and order the same fucking thing every time, are you?
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Sometimes you might fancy- You don't like love, then.
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You know when you're in Vegas and you're staying in those fucking hotels and they've got all of those different cuisines?
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You're not going to eat the one cuisine every time, are you?
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Maybe sometimes you fancy Italian, maybe you want a bit of Mexican, maybe you want a little bit of like...
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The reason I'm in Miami is because I'm having the third conference of masculine excellence.
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It's going down October 13th through October 15th.
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On October 15th, that is when I will be tying the knot to the lovely and talented Devin.
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We're going to do everything but sign the papers.
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If things go sideways, I have contingencies in place to where she's been with me from the start, from the beginning of the business, so I'll make sure I break her off.
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But if she decides to leave me, she's not getting shit.
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You know, like, not give her anything, like, you know.
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I bought her a Range Rover for her birthday last year.
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Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, keep going.
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What she's talking about is the material possession without the material possession.
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The reason why she said, why would you do that to her, what she's really asking, why would you give a woman commitment and not tie anything to it?
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Well, because I don't want her to be able to leave with half of my shit.
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Now, she's been with me for seven and a half years, so she deserves to be called a wife, but I am not about to be in a contract between myself and the state and her.
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I think you had a question for the ladies that you wanted to kick off, right?
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Yeah, so the first question is, and I was asking this to girls in Mexico City last week, got some interesting answers.
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And we're going to start here with the question and then go around.
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So ladies, just so you know, typically we'll start here, then go back here, and then we'll just keep doing it that way.
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Alright, is it ever acceptable under any circumstances for a woman to cheat on her man?
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Troy, how detailed, do you want to say yes or no, and a why?
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No, I mean, coming from experience, loyalty is everything.
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Or there's nothing we can't add on to the equation.
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So your answer is no, because loyalty is everything, correct?
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I would definitely say no, but I mean, everyone's relationship, like you understand whatever terms you're on, or it's not considered cheating if you're open and you guys like met like this, you know, like everyone understands their relationship.
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So we're going to go around the whole panel now.
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We do it the most because we get away with it best.
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Do you think that women are able to conceal it better than men?
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You don't know how to be consistent with your woman.
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If you're cheating and someone else gets your attention, you still have to remember that you've got to pay attention to shorty back home.
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Now, you've got to be consistent with everyone.
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Now, she's going to know if something's going on if she's not getting the same love and attention and all this stuff.
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No, but I think women are crazy, too, because they'll just blow up your phone, show up at your house.
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You're saying no, but if you need to cheat, you would cheat.
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No, I'm saying, all right, in a serious, in a respectable relationship, like where you've respect me, I respect you, and it's actually a serious relationship.
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His question was, is it ever acceptable for a woman to cheat in a relationship?
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No, I don't think it's acceptable for a woman to cheat.
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Yeah, if you guys agree on exclusivity, then there should be no reason for it.
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So you had a relationship since what, like 18 or something?
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If you want to cheat, just leave the relationship.
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You're going to say that, but she's just said women cheat more.
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I know you're me, but somebody here is capping.
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If we're all going to go around the whole fucking thing and everyone's going to say no.
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But the thing is, when a woman cheats, it's emotional.
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Is cheating ever acceptable by a female to you?
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I don't think that it's acceptable for a woman to cheat.
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I'm not a cheater, and I don't think that it's okay for a woman to cheat.
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Because if that's not what you wanted, you shouldn't stay single.
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If I'm not happy in the relationship, I just leave.
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They will have a backup plan, and then when they want to leave their main guy, they'll sort of secretly start, like, kind of, you know...
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Because then the girl just goes to her main guy and says, yeah, sorry, it's over.
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And then two weeks later, she's seen the new dude.
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But of course, really, you know, secretly, she's been like dealing with him, you know, under the surface.
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So I think that a lot more cheating happens here.
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And then the woman just moves on to the next guy and says, oh, yeah, it just kind of happened.
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But actually, really, she cheated in order to get out of the relationship.
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Do you think cheating is ever acceptable by a woman?
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Girls or guys, I don't think anybody needs to hurt anybody.
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Everybody here believes in their partner, and that's not a thing you should break.
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I'll leave if he wants to do that and that's on him.
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But do you know for a fact that you're going to leave and you're not coming back?
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If I'm spinning the block and whatever, toxic, whatever not, I'm sorry.
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Yeah, I'm gonna be a weak bitch for the right one.
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One microphone at a time because when you guys are all talking over each other, no one can hear what you're saying.
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So you were saying something and you were saying something.
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So you said, you know your worth, and then she said, if it's the right guy, she's staying, right?
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But at the end of the day, you need to know what you deserve.
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And regardless if you love him or not, he hurt you and he disrespected you.
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Listen, in life, you're not going to get someone perfect.
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Maybe he's not amazing or doesn't have the best job, but I can help you get a better job.
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Certain things, you have to pick who it is that you're going to invest in.
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Listen, if he's gonna be him, you know who it is that you're getting into a relationship with.
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Say you met him on the streets or he's super flirtatious.
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And you thought that you was gonna be the one shorty?
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And the thing is that in a relationship, you're still getting to know them.
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And you don't technically know anyone until you're with them in the relationship and something goes left.
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Because that's when they show you their true colors.
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I know who it is that I'm going to stick with, if anything.
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I can't believe more in you than you believe in yourself.
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But if I see the potential and you're actually working towards it, we could do it.
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Just out of curiosity, do you think it's worse of a man cheats or a woman cheats, in your opinion?
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It hurts a woman if a man does it and it hurts a man like if it's a woman he actually loves and is about her and the girl does it it'll hurt him emotionally.
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Which one do you think is a bigger act of betrayal?
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I say the man on a woman because a woman is, you know, like all about her heart and her emotions.
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So you're saying it's worse when a man cheats on a woman, right?
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And then you're saying it's worse when a woman cheats on a man?
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I'm saying it's worse when a woman cheats on a man.
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But you think it's worse when a man cheats on a man.
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And then real quick, how many of you agree with her?
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She's saying if you've got a good relationship with a guy and he cheats, hey, it might be better for you to just stick it out versus leaving immediately.
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When you say true colors though, isn't it the case that men are just programmed to spread their seed to one variety?
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So every man's true colors, in theory, is to cheat.
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Let me know when you find the one that don't cheat.
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I think that it's easier for a woman to stay after her man cheat than a man to stay after the woman cheat.
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It's different when a man cheat than when the woman cheat.
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Listen, I'm telling y'all right now, I mean, the death of a relative, the death of a loved one, the death of a pet, nothing crushes a man's soul like a woman cheating on him.
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Then learning that your woman has slept with another man.
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That is the one thing that will destroy a man psychologically, at least temporarily.
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Does anyone else agree with her that it's worse when a man cheats on his girl?
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Well, you took the opposite stance a second ago.
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So who agrees that it's worse when a man cheats?
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I only kind of agree just because I'm super emotional.
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It's not easy for women to get guys because it's already what they want.
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So you're saying a man has to put in more effort?
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So if you're in a relationship, at least in my relationships, with my guy, when he stepped out, he had to put in work with this girl.
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Yeah, because it's like, damn, you're putting in all this work over here.
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Mentally and emotionally, she got your attention.
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That's the one that I didn't take back because I didn't see any potential in him.
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You give him a pass if he actually has potential or ambitious to be greater.
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Overall, you can't really be shitty in every aspect.
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If your value is high enough, your girl will forgive your cheating.
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Just like the hotter a woman is, the more we tend...
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If you're worth ten figures, you can have your wife and your side bitch sleeping in the same bedroom.
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If you're worth seven figures, you can have a side chick.
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If you're worth up or six figures, your woman can know about the side chick, as long as she doesn't know too much.
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If you're not making six figures, you ain't cheating.
00:35:41.000
So what it really comes down to is, what does he provide for me?
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Okay, so he's stuck his dick in another chick, which, by the way, is nothing for us.
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That's why it's worse when a woman cheats, because we know there was emotion involved.
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How I always say is, cheating is a rich mess for her.
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No, no, but women, it's worse when women cheat, because women tend to cheat emotionally.
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And so women are okay with men cheating, because they're taking care of them.
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No, but dudes, it's like, to have sex, it's just a physical act.
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Because I'm going to make sure he's well taken care of.
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So you think you can satisfy your man by yourself?
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No man is going to be perfect, but let me ask you this.
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Describe your perfect man in 15 seconds or less.
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Respect, being able to have a conversation with you, mutual agreement.
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I'm all about being open, but I'm also all about- Let me stop you right there.
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There are millions of men out there, yet you're single.
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You're looking for a man who can take care of you, and that's okay.
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Look, the men that you say you want, you won't want.
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Listen, there are many loyal men who are open to having conversations who are short and fat and don't have any game and don't have anything going for themselves.
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If I cheat on my girl, that's me buying another girl a fucking car for Christmas.
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That's me putting up another girl in some apartment somewhere so I can go and smash her when the wife isn't home.
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You see, when men cheat, men, we provide loyalty through provisioning.
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And this is why cheating doesn't hurt women as much, is because you guys, not to say that if you find out your man cheats, you're not hurt.
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But in your hindbrain, you're thinking, okay, is this girl, like, are there any diseases?
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That's what you're thinking about your bottom line.
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Yes, there's the emotional, there's the emotional scars that come with that, but you know, at the end of the day, it's like taking a piss for us.
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So, and I think a lot of women like to pretend that cheating is a much bigger deal to them than it really is as an excuse to just say, well, he's not the man for me.
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They got women chasing them around because those women, no one understand there's going to be inherent risk with any situation.
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And he's also going to exercise an STD. That's disgusting.
00:38:44.000
When's the last time you fucked with a guy with an STD? Yeah, no.
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The point is, STDs are not nearly as prevalent as everybody says they are.
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What it really comes down to, and she nailed it, depending upon the value your man gives you and the way he makes you feel, the way he provides for you, you're going to have to put up with certain things.
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If I want to go fuck another bitch, I'm going to go fucking do it.
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If she wants to fucking leave, I got 12 other bitches that are waiting to take her place.
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I love my woman, and if she were to leave me tomorrow, it would break my heart for about ten minutes, and then I'd be right back on the horse.
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So I don't want to see here, and guys, this is bad advice.
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We want girls who look good, cook good, suck good, and give us sex at the end of the night, and don't give us a bunch of fucking lip.
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If you do that for us, we'll fucking give you the world.
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Have you noticed as well, though, when there's an infidelity, then the guy is always like, oh, so did you fuck him?
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What's the first girl you ask your man if he cheats?
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But that proves the fucking point because it's about the provisioning.
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And look, there are guys who've come on this show before and they have argued, very high value guys, and they will say, listen, my woman is my fucking top priority of my life.
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I'm a man, and what that means is that sometimes I want to have a little bit of variety.
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And if I fuck the waitress, if I fuck the barista, if I fuck some random girl in Mexico or something like that, does it really fucking matter in the wider context of that relationship?
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But, as he said, when a woman does it to a man, he's fucking destroyed because it's the biological reaction to that act which is just intolerable.
00:41:08.000
It's emotional, and that's the thing that fucks it up.
00:41:15.000
If a man loves you, he won't let you find out he's smashing other books.
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And the more you mean to him, the more covert he will be with his extracurricular affairs.
00:41:27.000
There's the other way of doing it, which is that he's up front with you straight away.
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So, from the beginning, he's like, listen, babe, you're fucking awesome.
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What that means is that I like variety, and maybe occasionally I'm going to step out.
00:41:48.000
If I told you that from the very beginning, would you still be upset?
00:41:51.000
No, because I know what I was getting myself into.
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So if you lay the cards out on the table, then I'm good with that because I have an option.
00:42:01.000
So basically what we're saying, she's lying, she's full of shit.
00:42:12.000
Listen, if you're living that kind of lifestyle, if you're that fucking dude, your girl knows you're going to be fucking other bitches any goddamn way.
00:42:19.000
There's no need to have that conversation with her.
00:42:22.000
When a man and a woman gets together, there is an unwritten understanding.
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You provide me with the exclusive sex, I provide you with the provisioning.
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Any deviation from that means the end of the relationship.
00:42:31.000
She doesn't have to know about the other side bitches.
00:42:34.000
Donovan, I don't disagree with what you're saying.
00:42:37.000
I mean, I've seen Justin Waller make this argument.
00:42:42.000
Sorry, there's another content creator I've seen who's made this argument for radical honesty.
00:42:55.000
I get where you're coming from as well, though.
00:43:01.000
If you're a fucking high-value dude, in all of the metrics that that means, you probably can have that conversation.
00:43:13.000
If you are working in Publix, and you're fucking five foot four, and you've got a fucking dab board, can you have that conversation?
00:43:23.000
So, you guys look for value in men, because ultimately you want provisioning, and that's fucking fine.
00:43:34.000
If your man said to you today, you know what, babe?
00:43:43.000
Because he's been good to me in every other area that I need.
00:43:52.000
I didn't want to interrupt that train of conversation, but you were saying you're going to be enough for your guy.
00:43:57.000
Who else on the panel thinks that they can sexually satisfy their man by themselves?
00:44:08.000
Raise your hands nice and high if you think you can sexually satisfy your man by yourself.
00:44:12.000
Okay, that's a majority of the women on the panel.
00:44:15.000
Okay, so a couple of you don't think you can do it yourself.
00:44:36.000
For those same girls that think that they can sexually satisfy their man by themself, is that why you don't think that men should cheat?
00:44:47.000
I believe because a lot of girls not even flexible.
00:44:57.000
Being a dance instructor, a lot of girls are stiff as hell, so they don't even know what they're doing.
00:45:07.000
I'm just saying in real life, a lot of girls are stiff as fuck.
00:45:15.000
Okay, so are you saying that the more flexible woman is, the less likely she'll be cheated on?
00:45:23.000
I'm just saying, a lot of girls are stiff as hell, so they don't even know how to have sex for real.
00:45:35.000
You think quality sex is what will keep men from cheating?
00:45:41.000
I mean, I really don't know what he's meant from cheating.
00:45:47.000
I've only been in two real relationships my whole life.
00:45:50.000
But you said you can sexually satisfy a man by yourself, correct?
00:46:00.000
When it comes to fuck your man, he will still go shit.
00:46:05.000
Because look, there's one thing that a single woman cannot give to a man, however fucking flexible she is, whatever, it doesn't matter.
00:46:15.000
That's the fucking problem that you've all got.
00:46:23.000
And that's why you get these couples who try and, like, fucking spice things up.
00:46:35.000
And it probably is for the first, like, I don't know, three months, six months, a year, whatever.
00:46:42.000
And then we all know it starts to get a little bit fucking boring.
00:46:51.000
If you don't give it to her, he's going to look for her.
00:46:53.000
I'd rather give it to her so he don't do it behind my back.
00:46:59.000
No, but for the guy, not only is the sex getting boring, but also he's programmed to want to fuck other women.
00:47:06.000
So, you know, there's no wonder that this is happening.
00:47:09.000
So a single woman, however great she is in bed, however amazing a person she is, she cannot fully sexually satisfy a guy, particularly over the long term.
00:47:18.000
Men and women both have to work for what they want.
00:47:20.000
Men, we want to get paid and we want to get laid.
00:47:24.000
If you want to get paid and get laid, you have to be competent.
00:47:30.000
The ultimate goal for women is to belong to a high-status, high-value man.
00:47:34.000
And the way to do that is not to be fucking around.
00:47:37.000
The way to do that is to be as sexually chaste as possible.
00:47:42.000
A lot of people think we just come on here and talk shit about women.
00:47:46.000
You can't be a fucking loser living in your basement at your mom's house talking about, I need a dime piece.
00:47:51.000
But by the same token, you can't be some fat hoe with a bunch of tattoos talking about, I need my man to be 6'6 with a 6 foot dick.
00:48:00.000
At the end of the day, you get what you deserve.
00:48:02.000
And if you're a man, if you don't have the woman that you deserve, that means you haven't earned it yet.
00:48:06.000
If you're a woman who doesn't have the man that you deserve, it means you haven't earned it yet.
00:48:09.000
Ladies, I have one question for you on the panel, if you don't mind.
00:48:21.000
The best sex you'll ever have with a woman is the first time he has sex with her.
00:48:27.000
This is going back to Troy's original question.
00:48:29.000
But I also was going to say, if you want a variety, why don't you just stay single?
00:48:37.000
I think there's an issue with dudes getting married and then, you know.
00:48:40.000
Well, the reason why I don't stay single is because life with my woman is better than my life without it.
00:48:47.000
I would live a great life without my woman, there's no doubt.
00:48:56.000
Dude, my woman, oh my god, dude, my woman cooks, she cleans, she runs the whole back half of my business.
00:49:01.000
So you would only be sad for 10 minutes if you lost all of that?
00:49:05.000
You would only be sad for 10 minutes if you lost all of that.
00:49:22.000
Every woman can cook and clean, but guess what?
00:49:39.000
Just because you can't doesn't mean she will care.
00:49:42.000
Why do you think it's unacceptable for women to cheat under any circumstances?
00:49:52.000
So I would say that some people could justify it by like, oh, he cheated on me first, but...
00:50:00.000
And then some people would be like, okay, I'll cheat back.
00:50:03.000
But in my personal opinion, I really think that...
00:50:15.000
If that's how you're feeling, like, that didn't sit right with you, don't cheat back and stoop to a level or anything like that.
00:50:25.000
I think a lot of women really need to talk to the wives and girlfriends of high-status men.
00:50:30.000
I think you guys can learn a lot from those women.
00:50:32.000
I think they could give you some pretty good perspective on the reason why cheating for a man really ain't that big a deal.
00:50:38.000
It's not as big a deal as you guys make it out to be.
00:50:47.000
I don't think that men cheat is because of sex.
00:50:51.000
I think that sometimes men cheat because of the stress that they have at home.
00:51:02.000
I think it's because of the stress that they have a home too.
00:51:05.000
Because some women, the first thing they do when they get back home is fucking fine.
00:51:13.000
Men don't want to hurt that shit when they get back home.
00:51:16.000
They want to get their dicks out when they get back home.
00:51:19.000
That might be a mitigating factor, but the fun They want me to wait for them with a hot meal at home.
00:51:29.000
The main reason why men cheat is because they like fresh pussy.
00:51:36.000
It's not about if the fucking washing machine breaks.
00:51:41.000
I agree to that too, because who the fuck wants to eat the same shit every day?
00:51:51.000
Listen, don't, and listen, ladies, ladies, please, please, don't, I'm telling you right now, from the bottom of my heart to all of your future boyfriends who are going to cheat on you, don't, listen, listen, listen, don't take it personally.
00:52:07.000
Men, we just cheat because we see a hot girl and we want to fuck her.
00:52:11.000
Dude, if I have ever cheated on my woman, dude, the thing is, is we, our feelings for our women does not increase or decrease when we have sex with other women.
00:52:21.000
It does happen from time to time, but most of the time, when there's a guy who knows what he wants and he has his woman, he's got the woman he wants.
00:52:27.000
Sometimes it can increase your feeling for the main chicken.
00:52:30.000
It don't matter how good she suck your dick, how good she fuck you, it don't matter how.
00:52:45.000
Is it ever acceptable for a woman to cheat on her guy?
00:52:54.000
I just feel like cheating on both sides is not acceptable.
00:52:57.000
Like, if y'all loyal to each other, just be loyal.
00:53:16.000
This is my first black guy, so give me a break.
00:53:23.000
You came in here with braids last time, baby girl.
00:53:25.000
Don't you know that's the reason I asked that question?
00:53:32.000
We could continue on the same theme, and we could ask...
00:53:45.000
We can start on the couch and then work our way backward.
00:53:53.000
Everybody's gonna say men, but it's obviously women.
00:53:56.000
I don't know, women just, they get unhappy at home and then they go looking for other things.
00:54:04.000
I think men, because a lot of men think with their penis.
00:54:15.000
Is it as easy for a man to cheat as for a woman to cheat?
00:54:18.000
I'm around men, I'm sorry, I'm around men that party a lot.
00:54:23.000
Just the status, not even like that, but just the status that they have, a lot of women are on them.
00:54:30.000
Listen, ladies, hold on, not to cut you off, I'm about to change all of your lives.
00:54:34.000
The reason why you guys think men cheat more is because 95% of men are invisible to you sexually.
00:54:41.000
She just sat here and told you, I'm around men all the time.
00:54:48.000
Only the top 10% of men are regularly getting pussy.
00:54:52.000
Those are the only men that are visible to the naked eye from the average rank and file woman.
00:54:56.000
And so when you ask a woman who cheats more, men or women, you're not thinking about 100% of men.
00:55:00.000
You're thinking about the 10% of men you pay attention to, which is only the top 10% of men.
00:55:05.000
So anytime there is a data set, understand your data set's flawed because you're only thinking about the men you want to fuck.
00:55:13.000
He asked before, do you think it's easier for men or women to cheat?
00:55:20.000
Men that they think may have something, they don't really have anything.
00:55:32.000
You said before they have status and or purported status, right?
00:55:38.000
But is it easy to have status and or even purport status?
00:55:43.000
So therefore, wouldn't it be fair to say, logically sound, that it's not easier for men to get laid like you think it is?
00:56:09.000
Leonardo DiCaprio does not have as many people sliding in his DMs as maybe you, you, or even you.
00:56:20.000
That's why when we get to the point where we can start getting laid, we don't want to stop getting laid.
00:56:26.000
I didn't work all this time and make all this money to just be fucking one chick.
00:56:33.000
And look, if my woman wants to be ego-invested, and I can't believe you cheated on me like you, you've got an ego problem, fine.
00:56:39.000
You can leave the car keys, you can go off and find you a loyal man who's not going to do shit for you.
00:56:44.000
But if you want to live the life you live, if you want to walk into any department store and not have to check your fucking bank account when you want to buy something, come and see me.
00:57:01.000
I honestly want to say I don't know, but I would probably say...
00:57:19.000
Honestly, throughout this chat as well, it's kind of considered nothing for a man, right?
00:57:28.000
Because they don't have the same mental reservations?
00:57:38.000
And, like, they can't keep their dick in their pants.
00:57:40.000
Like, every time they go out, ooh, titties, ass.
00:58:01.000
Okay, I'll say woman because we have more oceans and we're more slick about it.
00:58:10.000
Men barely find out, but women always find out.
00:58:18.000
So, initially I was going to say men, but I'm going to keep it on filter with you guys.
00:58:23.000
So women, like she said, sneakier, better at lying, better at hiding things.
00:58:30.000
So they'll do it for the revenge, they'll do it because they're mad at you, they'll do it because you didn't take out the trash three nights in a row.
00:58:45.000
Because I worked at Hooters for like seven years with 80 other girls listening to them talk about cheating on their men all the time.
00:58:53.000
Do you think the hormonal cycle changes things as well?
00:58:55.000
Definitely, that has to do with the emotional part.
00:59:13.000
I just think that he has the ability to kind of be able to do what he wants.
00:59:19.000
And the woman's going to deal with it, especially if he's taking care of her.
00:59:22.000
Remember, he asked the question, who do you think cheats more, men or women?
00:59:30.000
But the ones who don't, they're not getting laid.
00:59:38.000
If they are probably not because they probably know.
00:59:47.000
I also think that men like it's easier for them to make the decision.
00:59:53.000
Whereas like a woman's gonna contemplate it more before she actually does it.
00:59:57.000
But women, I mean, I was asking before about who's more sexual, men or women, and my suspicion is actually it's women.
01:00:03.000
Like, I reckon actually women are, you guys are kind of horndogs under the nice, polite surface.
01:00:08.000
And it's sort of like, you know, I think women are acting on that because they've got a fuckton of opportunities as well, right?
01:00:19.000
So you said you think men cheat more if they have money.
01:00:27.000
Yeah, and the other 90% I mean if they even have a girlfriend or have a you know a significant other I think that women cheat more because We No,
01:00:53.000
No, and also because you have the guy that pays for your nails.
01:01:06.000
Like, right now, the way that all these females are moving, the way that everyone's moving, everyone's trying to capitalize off someone.
01:01:14.000
Females that don't have the money that are trying to come up.
01:01:21.000
You got the friend that's over here cash-apping you for your nails.
01:01:28.000
But even with sex, you think they're just gonna put out?
01:01:38.000
I worked at a bar, so I saw all the girls, and I just saw how they moved.
01:01:44.000
And then with the guys, you see all the guys, they're quick to move in, and it's the girl that has to choose.
01:01:56.000
There are guys that literally, oh my god, you have beautiful feet.
01:02:02.000
Can I just say, by the way, I like the way everyone on this panel has been like, so, yeah, some women cheat.
01:02:07.000
Oh, because I worked in a bar, because I talked to these other girls.
01:02:10.000
Nobody on the panel is like, nobody on the panel is like, yeah, I fucking cheat.
01:02:24.000
No woman on this panel has ever done anything wrong.
01:02:35.000
Because I think women will sometimes go to the next guy.
01:02:40.000
So to summarize, you think women cheat more because they're able to put men in compartmentalized roles where they're benefiting?
01:02:50.000
I think that women, for sure, cheat more than men.
01:02:56.000
I think that women are a little bit selfish sometimes because our man, you know, we could have everything in front of us in the sense of we have him working, he's paying the bills, he's doing all these things, but we're out here chasing the things that we shouldn't be chasing.
01:03:14.000
Excitement, because it gets a bit fucking worried, doesn't it?
01:03:20.000
A little bit undercover, but we're just a little sneakier.
01:03:23.000
It's not only that, women mistake stability for boredom and end up fucking up really good relationships.
01:03:30.000
And for all of you women who think men cheat more, let me ask all of you a question.
01:03:34.000
If me and, I don't know, you, if somebody came in here and said, I will give you a million dollars if you can go out there and fuck more guys, Whoever gets laid most gets a million dollars.
01:03:55.000
Yeah, men are looking to the strip club, to the club, anywhere.
01:04:00.000
For men, you guys have to put a little bit more work.
01:04:07.000
What would you say is the percentage of men you find unattractive?
01:04:17.000
Listen, just because women, look, here's the deal, guys.
01:04:19.000
I don't, like, I've come to figure, I've come to sort of figure this out.
01:04:24.000
Are there good, and I said this on the last podcast, there are some inherently good women and some inherently bad women.
01:04:30.000
Most women and men fall somewhere between high risk or low risk.
01:04:35.000
The more risk she is, the more you have to mitigate it.
01:04:38.000
The less of a risk she is, the less you have to mitigate it.
01:04:42.000
It's just, you know, don't be fucking at the niggas.
01:04:47.000
And then I think one of the ladies might have had a question for the panel.
01:04:50.000
Yeah, we'll come back around for the ladies if they had a question.
01:04:53.000
Alright, so Trigona goes, Ladies, on a long-term committed relationship, what's the longest you've gone without giving it up to your man?
01:05:01.000
Okay, we can go around the panel on that one real fast.
01:05:05.000
What's the longest you've went without giving it up to your guy in a relationship?
01:05:10.000
It was a guy that you were seeing somewhat seriously.
01:05:19.000
If he's not my boyfriend, I'm not having sex with him.
01:05:23.000
Are you saying you've never had sex with a guy that wasn't your boyfriend before?
01:05:30.000
What's the longest that you ever made a guy wait then?
01:05:39.000
Me and my boyfriend right now, we've been together four months, but we got together a month after actually knowing each other.
01:05:55.000
What's the longest you actually made a guy wait?
01:06:22.000
After we started going on dates, I waited three months.
01:06:30.000
Are we talking about somebody that we're in a relationship with or somebody that's trying to pursue us?
01:06:38.000
Okay, so somebody that I've been in a relationship with, I get my period for six days, so six days.
01:06:42.000
And then somebody trying to pursue me, I've waited up to three months as well.
01:06:51.000
So in a relationship, we're not allowed to say no.
01:07:09.000
This pursuing thing, though, is a little bit of a grey area, because I guess what we're talking about more is if you're, like, sort of, your date...
01:07:14.000
Like, if it's some guy and you met him and he's messaging you and he's going backwards and forwards and he's taking a while, that's slightly different.
01:07:21.000
I guess what we're more interested in is if you guys are actually fucking seeing each other.
01:07:25.000
And it's like, right, we're dating, you're meeting up every week, going for drinks, and he's, like, trying to make the moves, and you're like, no, no, no.
01:07:40.000
Who are these guys who are waiting fucking three months?
01:07:42.000
I'm gonna be honest with you, it depends on the guy.
01:07:43.000
The 90% of men that women are not attracted to...
01:07:50.000
In that period of time, are you fucking anybody else?
01:08:02.000
Were you smashing somebody else when you made him wait those three months?
01:08:22.000
Because that's how you'll know what a guy's intention is.
01:08:26.000
I have to try to make him put in a little word, chase a little bit.
01:08:32.000
Were you saying anybody else when you were making the guy wait for three months?
01:08:36.000
Yes, but that was when we are talking and going on dates.
01:08:43.000
But in total, a lot of guys that chased me for three years.
01:08:46.000
What about the guy in the bathroom on the airplane?
01:08:51.000
What about the guy in the bathroom on the airplane?
01:09:14.000
Have you heard the rumors about the girls that go to Dubai?
01:09:37.000
Were you seeing someone in that three months that you made someone that made him wait?
01:09:44.000
So that three months you didn't see anyone else you're only seeing him.
01:09:56.000
I mean, if you're exclusive to that person, you guys are going back and forth dating, no.
01:10:06.000
So you made the guy wait three months and you weren't seeing anyone else?
01:10:18.000
No, I'm a little Delulu, so if we talking, you're already my boyfriend.
01:10:25.000
What I've come to realize is if a girl makes you wait more than a couple of weeks, nine out of ten times she's talking to someone else and you're potentially hooking up with someone else.
01:10:35.000
And she wants to see if you're going to beat him in most aspects.
01:10:39.000
I know some of you guys here are kind of trying to be nice about it, but I guarantee some of you girls here are saying you made a guy wait two, three, six months, whatever.
01:10:49.000
And the only reason why I made him wait three months was because I wanted to get to know him better.
01:10:55.000
But while you were getting to learn him better, you were talking to other guys.
01:11:09.000
Don't you get to know him better by smashing though?
01:11:21.000
So for you to date someone, you need to know that person.
01:11:24.000
If not, I would have let her smile on the first night.
01:11:29.000
The guy that's going to do something has to wait.
01:11:35.000
But fresh, fresh, that's a fucking super important red pill point, isn't it?
01:11:41.000
What she's saying is basically the player, who she's just gonna, you know, she's just gonna have a bit of fun with, she'll smash on the first night.
01:11:49.000
If you're presenting as the serious boyfriend, you're gonna have to wait fucking three months to get a, you know, blowjob on the plane.
01:11:53.000
Because she doesn't care if the player or whoever is around or not around.
01:12:07.000
If it's a one-night stand, I don't see why I gotta make the guy wait.
01:12:13.000
If it's a one-night stand, that's kind of what it can do.
01:12:17.000
How long did you make the guy that you're currently with wait?
01:12:27.000
How long did he have to wait until he hooked up with you?
01:12:44.000
He asked me if he could have kidnapped me for two days.
01:12:59.000
Alright, from this point forward, guys, we're going to go 50 and up because we want to make sure that we keep pushing the show along.
01:13:05.000
Cam two times goes, if she uses her looks and beauty to pay her bills, she's not the type of girl that has much skill and you best believe she's getting passed around like a basketball drill.
01:13:34.000
He goes, hey, Minor Fresh, I asked this question on Monday's show, but we never came back to it.
01:13:38.000
A question of ladies, which one do you think a man would choose?
01:13:55.000
So what do you think is a better option for the guy?
01:14:02.000
So raise your hands if you guys think the girl with the OnlyFans is a better choice.
01:14:07.000
How many of you that think the single mom is a better choice?
01:14:20.000
A girl that has an OnlyFans or a single mom for a man to take seriously in a relationship?
01:14:36.000
The other seven think it's better for the single mom.
01:14:39.000
And then Myron and Fresh, what do you think is best?
01:14:48.000
I mean, I'm going to have to go with neither, to be honest.
01:14:51.000
For a serious relationship, I don't want to be in a serious relationship with somebody who's already got a kid.
01:14:56.000
No offense, it's just, you know, that's not what I'm about.
01:15:01.000
I also don't want to be in a serious relationship with her.
01:15:05.000
But it probably wouldn't be somebody I would consider for something longer term.
01:15:17.000
So who would I have a serious relationship with?
01:15:22.000
The reason is because I think when you're taking on someone else's child, you're taking on a child, that's a fucking big deal, right?
01:15:28.000
The OnlyFans think, look, everybody's got fucking OnlyFans these days.
01:15:48.000
Because if a man's only two options were an OnlyFans model and a single mom, that means his value is not high enough.
01:16:05.000
Ladies, what do you think if age for sex work is raised to 21?
01:16:13.000
And guys, no offense, but some of the questions I've...
01:16:16.000
We've got some questions that people don't like, so if it's not a good question for the panel, we'll just move on, but we'll acknowledge you and thank you so much for the support.
01:16:30.000
Spiral Bomber says, didn't Gianna get Frank Castle before?
01:16:49.000
Gentlemen, you guys have reached a very important point.
01:16:52.000
You guys are forgetting girls that you have Frank hassled.
01:17:11.000
Good to see the chick that asked Myron if he was Arabic anyways.
01:17:17.000
To pay IRS. To pay IRS. Also fresh, what you call a black priest.
01:17:25.000
If divorce was illegal, would you still want to get married?
01:17:27.000
Myron and Fresh, I've noticed when you highlight previous questions, y'all never go back to them.
01:17:31.000
Last show, someone asked, is it worse to date a single mom or wife girl?
01:17:35.000
You guys gotta keep in mind, man, that we have to obviously keep the show at a certain cadence, and then when there's questions that might not necessarily align with the topic, sometimes we have to skip it, or we don't have time to go back to it.
01:17:44.000
It's very difficult to run a live show like this.
01:17:47.000
Fielding questions while keeping y'all entertained and educated.
01:17:58.000
Been following Freshly Fit and CGA and a few others ever since.
01:18:03.000
What was the question from the last one before?
01:18:07.000
He's asked when girls get fucked for IRS. Come on, man.
01:18:12.000
Oh, if divorce was illegal, would women still get married?
01:18:16.000
How many of you would still get married if divorce is legal?
01:18:33.000
The chains of habit are too weak to notice until they're too strong to break.
01:18:50.000
Just so I can get a visual, we got only four girls that cheated on the panel?
01:19:05.000
I'm assuming when we say cheat, they're thinking just sexually, like I hooked up or kissed a guy.
01:19:09.000
Have you ever sexualized yourself on the internet and or to other men while you were in a relationship with a guy?
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That means putting sexy pictures of yourself on the internet.
01:19:30.000
So raise your hands if you've done that before in a relationship.
01:19:49.000
I think that we act a certain way or that you think that we capping like I'm not capping like I'm not like that Well, what you have to understand...
01:20:05.000
The question actually was, have you ever sexualized yourself while in a relationship with a guy?
01:20:12.000
You can't always judge a book by its cover, but you can most of the time.
01:20:22.000
It's easy for a girl to be celibate compared to guys.
01:20:25.000
Yeah, because he was also saying, like, have you ever gone out with a guy friend or posted a sexy picture?
01:20:32.000
That means that if you work in the cloud, you're totally fast just cheating.
01:20:36.000
With all due respect, you're sexualizing yourself right now.
01:20:41.000
You're on a public podcast with 20-30,000 people watching.
01:20:43.000
So technically right now, you'd be in violation of what I just asked.
01:20:46.000
But again, this is what I mean when I say women a lot of times can't connect how men perceive cheating versus how women perceive cheating.
01:20:52.000
If you sexualize yourself while you're in a relationship with a man, that is cheating to a lot of guys.
01:21:05.000
The question was, have you ever sexualized yourself while in a relationship with a guy?
01:21:12.000
If your man lets you leave the house like that...
01:21:18.000
If your man lets you leave the house dressed like her or her, he's not in you.
01:21:26.000
You look great, but I would never let my woman leave the house looking like that unless she were with me.
01:21:49.000
I was saying, whenever you go out, I mean, let's say you're looking at other women.
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Are you looking at someone that is completely covered?
01:22:02.000
So, why is it not okay for a woman to look good?
01:22:08.000
Because I'm not her father, I can't tell her what to do.
01:22:10.000
But if she leaves the house looking like that, I will have her bags packed and on the front porch.
01:22:15.000
The question is like why is it that you feel that she is like going out looking for something if she looks good when she goes out or is it that you don't feel secure with your woman if she is dressed in a certain way?
01:22:34.000
Ladies, ladies, ladies, ladies, I really need you to listen here.
01:22:39.000
I said that she can do whatever it is she wants to do.
01:22:44.000
And listen, you look great, but if my woman wants to leave the house looking like that, I'm not going to tell her, you can't do X, Y, and Z. I'm not her fucking father.
01:22:54.000
That put my relationship at risk, then we are no longer in a relationship.
01:23:05.000
If your woman leaves the house looking like this without you, then she's clearly looking for some sort of attention.
01:23:16.000
What if she just dressed like this just to be innocent to go out and sell little candy bars?
01:23:23.000
Look, I'm never ever going to control my woman.
01:23:27.000
You can't control women, but you can influence their behavior by what you do.
01:23:34.000
You can either refrain from activities that put our relationship at risk, or you can be in a relationship with me.
01:23:43.000
Right, but if your woman respects you, she's gonna make the right choice.
01:23:47.000
I think that your woman, as your woman, she should know what is okay with you and what is not okay with you.
01:23:59.000
I asked him if he wanted me to wear this outfit or another one and he chose this one.
01:24:07.000
If he's okay with that, I mean, that's all good.
01:24:12.000
If he were a coaching client of mine, I'd be like, well, look, man, that's not something I would tolerate, but hey, do you.
01:24:18.000
You sure know why your man likes, what he's okay with, and what he's not.
01:24:24.000
Women know the behaviors that put their relationship at risk.
01:24:27.000
Like, I'm not going to sit here, well, just because I'm wearing a bikini and heels out on Sunset Boulevard doesn't...
01:24:46.000
Amir, would you rather marry and be loyal to one of these girls or marry fresh?
01:24:55.000
Those are the kinds of questions we're talking about.
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For the first question, while in a long-term relationship, how long have you gone without giving your boyfriend sex?
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Ladies, do you think if a woman is not giving it up to her man, then it's okay for him to seek other options?
01:25:09.000
Okay, so it's while in a long-term relationship.
01:25:12.000
Okay, how long have you gone without giving your boyfriend sex?
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Alright, we can start here with this nurse and then work our way around.
01:25:17.000
What's the longest you want in a relationship with a guy?
01:25:21.000
No, the longest you went without giving your man sex in a relationship.
01:25:27.000
Or maybe you just weren't feeling it, I don't know.
01:25:58.000
Yeah, he thought I was cheating while I was waiting at the Panera line getting him his lunch.
01:26:06.000
What's the longest you went without giving your guy sex?
01:26:10.000
Honestly, sex is something that we don't take away in a relationship.
01:26:30.000
My last relationship was five years and I didn't hold back.
01:27:05.000
But you remember, this was the side of the table that said, hey, look, I mean, if he's going to cheat...
01:27:12.000
You know, you're going to have to learn to deal with that stuff.
01:27:14.000
But what these two understand is that the only reason why we're in relationships with women, well, the number one reason, is because we get sex.
01:27:23.000
So when women withhold sex from their men, that's the equivalent of a man saying, you know what, I don't feel like paying the mortgage this month.
01:27:29.000
If that ever happened, girls would lose their fucking minds.
01:27:31.000
But then they want to know why we feel some type of way when they close their lives at night.
01:27:39.000
What's the longest you've made your boyfriend go without banging?
01:27:53.000
What's the longest you've went withholding from your boyfriend?
01:27:58.000
When I'm on my period, but I was still getting hit.
01:28:03.000
For you three, you guys were like saying like, never, never, never.
01:28:08.000
But I mean, obviously work comes up or maybe you guys just didn't have time.
01:28:13.000
It could be like just you didn't see him for a few days.
01:28:16.000
My man travels for work and I'll still have phone sex with him while he's gone.
01:28:22.000
I'm talking about actual real sex, not phone sex.
01:28:26.000
She says, my man's gonna get it anywhere he is.
01:28:29.000
I guess now that we know what it is, what's the longest?
01:29:03.000
She says this nigga's getting this pussy whether he likes it or not.
01:29:48.000
She don't let travel get in the way she flies out to him.
01:29:58.000
A few days when we don't see each other or when I'm on a period.
01:30:03.000
Alright, is it ever appropriate to withhold sex from your guy?
01:30:34.000
Is it ever appropriate for a girl to withhold sex from her man, in your opinion?
01:30:41.000
I mean, women have feminine issues and stuff like that.
01:30:45.000
Things come up or, you know, period, whatever it may be.
01:30:50.000
Okay, outside of periods or I guess maybe a feminine situation.
01:30:55.000
Yeah, but like in general, is it outside of, you know, normal body functions?
01:31:09.000
I do kind of want to say yes, but I'm also like...
01:31:21.000
Do you think it's appropriate to withhold sex from your man?
01:31:23.000
No, unless you just found out you're cheating, then you want to see the my chart.
01:31:42.000
I'm not in the mood to pay your car insurance this month.
01:31:44.000
I want to say something, because they told the period it was serious.
01:31:48.000
Me saying that me being on my period is not an excuse for me to not please my man.
01:32:10.000
Okay, so the question, do you think it's ever appropriate to withhold sex from a guy?
01:32:20.000
Is it ever appropriate for you to withhold sex from your guy?
01:32:33.000
Because he's going to go get us somewhere else.
01:32:41.000
If you don't give it to him, he's going to find somebody who will.
01:32:54.000
If you're being a little bit too disrespectful, you ain't getting nothing tonight, homie.
01:33:01.000
Like if I come home and I was like, bitch, where's my dinner?
01:33:07.000
So you're gonna watch me do something else, but I ain't gonna give you nothing.
01:33:16.000
I want to give my take and I'll give you guys here a chance to respond.
01:33:20.000
I genuinely believe that if a woman doesn't give you sexual access, she's useless.
01:33:26.000
And the reason why is because men really don't deal with women for anything else except for sexuality.
01:33:32.000
Maybe we care about your personality to talk to you, but the sexuality and your looks come first and if you can't provide that, you're effectively useless.
01:33:48.000
Because I know why you're asking that question because I know women better than they know themselves.
01:33:59.000
That a woman's useless if she doesn't give sexual access?
01:34:05.000
If I give my man everything else he desires for me.
01:34:10.000
Let me say this one more time, because some of you guys didn't hear.
01:34:14.000
I said if a woman doesn't give her man sexual access, she's effectively useless.
01:34:23.000
Because I don't want to be looked at as just a sexual object.
01:34:31.000
So I want to be looked at for my other qualities.
01:34:40.000
I'm a good video game player, but women don't tend to care about that.
01:34:43.000
Right, but maybe women will look like, oh, well, he's a good provider.
01:34:53.000
Do you think men value education and provisioning like women do?
01:35:08.000
So, since they don't, wouldn't it be in your best interest to operate in what men actually like?
01:35:19.000
So you disagree because you think you should be valued in your education, whatever, but you know men don't typically value that.
01:35:25.000
I disagree because there's a lot more to a partner than just hooking up.
01:35:34.000
But what is the predominant reason that men deal with women?
01:35:39.000
I'm not going to generalize all men because I have a good one and he's a lover boy.
01:35:54.000
You know, he likes, like, if I, you know, cook, carino, like, he's not all, like, that's not the only thing he cares about.
01:36:01.000
Yeah, but what is the predominant reason that men deal with women?
01:36:07.000
How about you stop giving your guys sex for three months and see if he sticks around?
01:36:19.000
I don't know why all of y'all think that your men are like, I need to give it, if not, you know, like, he'll hook up other girls.
01:36:29.000
And you guys said that they cheat anyway, so if you don't want to give it to him that night...
01:36:45.000
Don't give him sex for three months and see what happens.
01:36:55.000
I'll come back on the podcast for three months and I'm going to be like...
01:37:06.000
Because you said it shouldn't be that way, but men deal with women predominantly for sex.
01:37:20.000
So you don't even know what you're disagreeing with?
01:37:43.000
It's not that your personality traits are not important to us, but you could be the kindest, most feminine, submissive woman who can cook and clean and believes in traditional values, but if you're 400 pounds with two chins and a mustache, I'm not going to find out.
01:38:00.000
So what you guys have to understand is that, yes, listen, men, we objectify you.
01:38:16.000
That's why we pursue women, because if I'm living with a woman and she's doing everything for me except for having sex, we're just roommates.
01:38:22.000
And I'm not gonna pay my roommate's bills, so yeah, I gotta get the sex.
01:38:27.000
And if I decide not to pay the bills that month, then my woman's gotta have a right to be like, yo, what the fuck?
01:38:45.000
If they're not objectified in quite the same way, but they're still objectified.
01:38:48.000
Who else disagreed with me saying that women are useless if they don't give you sexual access?
01:38:54.000
You raised your hand when I said who disagrees.
01:39:07.000
I said, if a woman doesn't give her man sexual access, she's useless.
01:39:18.000
I disagree because there is times where your woman is your partner and that can be in business.
01:39:27.000
That could be someone that contributes creative ideas.
01:39:40.000
Like, sometimes your partner is sure, in bed, whatever.
01:39:44.000
Well, look, this is a fallacy that women love to run around.
01:39:52.000
Okay, that's fantastic for you, but most women don't want to do that.
01:39:55.000
Most women want a guy to be pre-assembled and come pre-packaged.
01:39:59.000
Another thing, too, is that if a man needs his girl for motivation, he already failed.
01:40:08.000
So if he doesn't need you, then you're expendable.
01:40:13.000
Okay, but then you could say the same thing about a woman that doesn't need a man, right?
01:40:21.000
Women's happiness is very contingent upon being in relationship with a man.
01:40:26.000
Women get pleasure from being in a relationship with a man, typically.
01:40:32.000
There's a reason why every girl wants to walk down an aisle in a white dress or have children or play house, right?
01:40:37.000
When you look at little girls, when they play games, what they do, those games are typically social.
01:40:52.000
Like, when men, when boys are growing up, they play with other boys and it's about competition.
01:40:58.000
Like, men strive for status and income and being the best.
01:41:03.000
Women, on the other hand, are trying to get the best guy.
01:41:06.000
So a man derives pleasure from success and changing the world.
01:41:08.000
A woman derives pleasure from being with a man that changes the world.
01:41:11.000
But wouldn't it depend on the caliber of the man?
01:41:12.000
Because right now we're not all dealing with a man that has money, that has high status and all this stuff.
01:41:19.000
I understand that, but if a woman has the beauty and the ability to do so, she will get the best man that she can get.
01:41:25.000
But that's what I'm trying to say is that men and women look for different things in opposite gender.
01:41:32.000
It's just that when you're young, you can say stupid shit like that because there's a bunch of guys coming up to you.
01:41:36.000
But as you get older and you age, you realize, damn, a career and money doesn't really give me the same satisfaction as I thought it would.
01:41:53.000
I used to be one of those females that used to say, I don't need a man.
01:42:05.000
I think what women need to understand is that women need men whether you realize it, know it, like it, or not.
01:42:22.000
But as far as the way the world works, if somebody were to snap their fingers and all men would disappear, the world would go to shit in about 10 minutes.
01:42:31.000
If they did the same and women would disappear, the world would go to shit, but it would take a little bit longer.
01:42:37.000
That just goes to show that men and women, we value different things.
01:42:43.000
Because she's a feminist and that's what she has to do.
01:42:49.000
Because I feel like with men, you're always trying to be the best.
01:42:57.000
I believe that it would turn into a war a little bit quicker than women.
01:43:07.000
You know when you get a bunch of women working together?
01:43:09.000
You know when you get a bunch of women working together?
01:43:18.000
The other thing, too, you've got to understand is that men control like 95% plus of infrastructure type jobs.
01:43:23.000
So like electricity, sewage, all the things that you've come to learn and love in the modern world.
01:43:27.000
Like those things would go like that if men were disappeared.
01:43:30.000
But if women disappeared, we wouldn't be able to continue in society.
01:43:38.000
Let's say you were the leader of a country and you got mad at the president from another country.
01:43:45.000
Listen, you laugh and chuckle and roll your eyes, but women are never chemically identical from one day to the next.
01:43:59.000
Because men, if we're not doing drugs, we are chemically the same every single time.
01:44:04.000
Yes, there are certain situations in our lives where our emotions fluctuate.
01:44:09.000
Typically, a man's emotions fluctuate like this.
01:44:12.000
You don't want the leader of the free world to be here.
01:44:14.000
You want the leader of the free world to be like that.
01:44:17.000
It doesn't make men better than women or women better than men.
01:44:26.000
The reason why I say women are useless outside of sex is because women don't offer much utility to men outside of sex.
01:44:32.000
Women only respect and give the best to men that they're sexually involved with.
01:44:36.000
So that's why I always say a woman can only serve two masters.
01:44:41.000
If she submits to her man, she's simply going to be happier and she's going to give that guy the best.
01:44:46.000
This is why guys that are in the friend zone with women don't get good treatment from them.
01:44:49.000
They still end up having to be a good friend and give her that masculine energy without getting anything in return.
01:44:54.000
So what I'm saying is that in general, women are fairly useless if they're not giving you sexual access.
01:44:58.000
Because, I mean, if I'm going to be honest, women suck at most endeavors in human pursuit.
01:45:08.000
I disagree because all of you came out of a woman.
01:45:15.000
When I said that women suck at most human pursuits, I mean as in things that both genders can actually do.
01:45:23.000
For example, if you look at men's sports versus women's sports, women's sports suck.
01:45:29.000
Men can't have children, so therefore that's not an even plan.
01:45:39.000
In research, it says that men mature later than women.
01:45:45.000
Well, you said a little while ago, like, education doesn't matter for you.
01:45:53.000
Yeah, female competence isn't important, which is why women suck at so many things.
01:45:58.000
Men typically don't care for it when it comes to picking a partner.
01:46:17.000
During the course of this conversation, you had to re-ask questions, you don't necessarily know what's going on, you can't articulate an argument, and it's fine, but you're still able to get sexual access and get men.
01:46:26.000
Matter of fact, you said earlier that I'm around a bunch of guys that have status.
01:46:29.000
But you're not a very competent person, but you're only able to do that because you're a female, which proves my point.
01:46:37.000
But when you're around a whole bunch of people that are just saying, like, random stuff...
01:46:47.000
You have not said one profound thing during the course of this podcast.
01:47:04.000
Please pay attention to specifically what I'm saying.
01:47:07.000
What I am saying is that in human endeavor, women suck at most things.
01:47:12.000
Men are superior to women in almost every human endeavor.
01:47:20.000
If you look at all modern day creations, they're created by men.
01:47:22.000
The world that you live in, that you get to enjoy, was created by men, not women.
01:47:27.000
And get this, as far as education is concerned, just because you're educated doesn't mean you're smart.
01:47:32.000
There are a lot of people out here with two degrees that's dumb as a fucking flat tire.
01:47:39.000
They absolutely dominate the most useless majors and they dominate the most useless professions that don't necessarily benefit society.
01:47:49.000
I would argue, I don't think women should be in combat positions in the military at all.
01:47:52.000
I don't even think they should be police officers.
01:47:54.000
And the reason why is because you're only as strong as your weakest link.
01:47:58.000
So if a woman, right, is weaker and she can't carry a 200 pound soldier to safety, well, guess what?
01:48:06.000
Or, when a woman gets injured because men have a natural protector instinct, he's gonna put himself in a compromising situation to protect that girl.
01:48:13.000
That's why for the longest time, women weren't allowed in infantry, and I think it should stay that way.
01:48:17.000
And then on top of that, they're captured, God forbid, what's gonna happen to them.
01:48:26.000
I was just saying that because of what you said earlier about the carrying the...
01:48:34.000
I literally articulated to you why women shouldn't be in common.
01:48:44.000
Why is it so important for you guys to be doing masculine activities?
01:48:53.000
Why don't you want to do what women have to understand, and this is the greatest lie feminism has told women, is that feminism has told women that femininity is a weakness.
01:49:03.000
That's why everybody wants to be a fucking bodybuilder and join the military and be a boss babe.
01:49:19.000
Oh, you said that women can't do the same as men, and she was just saying.
01:49:26.000
Actually, I'm saying everything that a man can do, a woman can actually do.
01:49:31.000
They don't do it at the same level that a man does.
01:49:36.000
So if you take female sports and male sports, female sports suck.
01:49:43.000
No one really gives a shit about women competing or doing anything because that's not what men care about.
01:49:50.000
They don't care about your competence, clearly.
01:49:52.000
So, I mean, realistically speaking, women suck at everything because they don't have to be good at anything.
01:49:59.000
Listen, women don't even care about women's sports.
01:50:02.000
You think Kim Kardashian is at LA Sparks games?
01:50:10.000
So anyway, do you guys see what I'm trying to say now?
01:50:12.000
When I say women are useless in a relationship if they don't provide sexual access, it's because...
01:50:19.000
That's mainly your main commodity, and people get angry at me for this, but the reality is the reason why men deal with women is for sexual access.
01:50:24.000
We don't care about your money, your competence, your accomplishments.
01:50:29.000
Because women are actually not incentivized to be competent in social situations.
01:50:34.000
I mean, some of the girls I've dated, even this fucking year, I mean, you go out with some fucking girls and they are just...
01:50:40.000
They're fucking dumbasses, and the kind of shit that they do in public, because they can get away with it because they're pretty, and they've been allowed to get away with it, and they don't have to follow any kind of fucking decorum or anything.
01:50:54.000
The higher a woman's IQ, the lower likelihood that she'll get married.
01:50:57.000
The higher IQ. For every point it goes up, the ability for her to get married goes down, the chances.
01:51:03.000
But for a man, the higher IQ, the higher chance of getting married.
01:51:08.000
I know correlation is a causation, but the reality is that men don't value competence in women.
01:51:13.000
That's why a dumb girl can be on a yacht with a millionaire, but it's not going to operate the other way around.
01:51:18.000
And the reason why is because women aren't necessarily incentivized to produce.
01:51:21.000
We all have our roles to play, but yeah, honestly speaking, guys don't really care about all the other activities.
01:51:32.000
That is why if a female doesn't give you sexual access, she's useless.
01:51:37.000
And she can't really provide you anything else as a man.
01:51:43.000
I can save your life tomorrow and it doesn't mean anything.
01:51:53.000
You can come into a hospital tomorrow and I will save your life.
01:51:57.000
It's actually a doctor that's going to do it, not you.
01:52:02.000
Oh, you're one of those nurses that think you're smarter than doctors.
01:52:07.000
I'm not, but I'm an ICU nurse who's gotten a little bit of experience.
01:52:13.000
And I'm with you because that is a very nurture.
01:52:20.000
So I work with my physicians, not against them, but I want to be, you know, validated as a woman that's a little bit smart.
01:52:30.000
Listen, listen, listen, listen, listen, listen.
01:52:31.000
Women don't want to be valued for their intellect.
01:52:36.000
Because if you're not desired, nothing else is possible.
01:52:43.000
Because if he doesn't want to fuck you, he'll never love you.
01:52:56.000
Your femininity is the most powerful force in the fucking universe.
01:52:59.000
And so many women throw it away trying to act like men.
01:53:03.000
39 years old with fucking three law degrees, they wonder why they don't have a man.
01:53:10.000
Being a stay-at-home mom is not even hard these days because all of the chores are pretty much done for you.
01:53:18.000
Think about how much more attractive you'll be if you just act like a lady and do feminine things.
01:53:25.000
But also, we want to keep the focus on sexual selection right.
01:53:33.000
But in the context of sexual selection, do guys give a fuck about that?
01:53:41.000
And I've been out with some actually very intelligent women.
01:53:44.000
And the level of intellect, it hasn't made a great deal of difference in terms of my enjoyment of that relationship, if that makes sense.
01:53:56.000
Personally, for me, I like to have an intelligent conversation as much as anybody, but it doesn't make a massive difference.
01:54:03.000
What makes a difference for me is the vibe and the chemistry.
01:54:05.000
If the chemistry is there, I don't really give a fuck if she's got a degree or if she's fucking working in Walmart.
01:54:12.000
I think the only time, I think a woman's education and utility and usefulness, I think it comes into play when you're in a solid relationship, right?
01:54:22.000
If a man is looking for a relationship, if he's looking for those things, yes, looks and sex, they do matter.
01:54:28.000
But, you know, there are other things that we want and need from you.
01:54:32.000
You just have to understand that it just doesn't always work out the way you want it to.
01:54:37.000
I think for a guy, if you want a girl to be with you long term, he's going to want to obviously have looks, sex on the table, but it's more like, okay, I have a program, are you going to follow my program?
01:54:49.000
If you want to be in a long term, the shorter term relationship you're looking for, the hotter the girl can be.
01:54:55.000
So if you're looking for a girl that's going to be your ride or die...
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Guys gotta quit looking for eights, nines, and ten.
01:55:00.000
You need to look in the five, six, seven range.
01:55:07.000
No, but I'm saying these guys need a little bit more of realistic expectations.
01:55:11.000
Okay, so besides looks and says, what else is a man looking for in a woman?
01:55:20.000
And honestly, we can't get mad if they say that we're useless because that's what it is that they're looking for.
01:55:27.000
The same way bitches are talking about, if you can't provide for me, keep it pushing.
01:55:31.000
So why is the double standard you get mad at men?
01:55:34.000
If we only go for sex, y'all shouldn't get mad at us because we look at y'all as an ATM. If your man stop paying your bills tomorrow, are you staying with him?
01:55:45.000
Hey, if your man stop paying your bills tomorrow, are you staying with him?
01:55:55.000
If your man stops paying your bills by choice because, oh my god, I'm the king of whatever the fuck, you're leaving.
01:56:05.000
The same way if you're not fucking him, you're useless to him.
01:56:08.000
We just have different shit that we're looking for.
01:56:13.000
And a lot of guys like to talk shit about sex workers, OnlyFans, strippers, pee stars, etc., etc.
01:56:18.000
Listen, man, I would never wife those women up, but those women save lives.
01:56:22.000
Those women save lives because, guys, listen, I don't know if you guys know this, and I'm not a big stats guy, what is it, like, only 40% of men throughout world history has ever reproduced.
01:56:38.000
What that means is that you guys are making the selections based on genetics and all these other kind of things.
01:56:46.000
Real quick, because you mentioned education and being smart and that type of thing.
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I think education only matters to men if it benefits them.
01:56:54.000
But the reality is education and a career typically is an obstacle.
01:56:57.000
Because if I make a lot of money or I'm successful and you have a career as well, well, we're both going to be really busy.
01:57:02.000
You're not going to necessarily have time to wait on me and do what I need.
01:57:06.000
You're not going to necessarily fill that assistant role, which a lot of guys want their girl to be, to be like a companion and help them.
01:57:11.000
Because you're going to be more focused on your stuff and men don't want that.
01:57:15.000
That's the relationship that I... Well, you know I've had the relationship with Devin for a while.
01:57:22.000
We're basically Tony Stark and Pepper Potts, only Tony Stark is a little bit richer than I am, and I'm black.
01:57:37.000
But I would not have gotten with her if she were not sexually attractive and did not give me sex.
01:57:44.000
Because obviously the situation, the setup you've got with Devin is obviously a great example of how a woman's intelligence and her competency and everything else is a huge asset in your relationship.
01:57:56.000
If you're looking at hookup culture, if you're looking at guys just out there wanting to get laid, or even date casually, the intelligence, it doesn't fucking mean anything.
01:58:03.000
And to be honest, for me, the main fucking thing, really, it's not even so much intelligence.
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Is she going to give me a hard time about shit?
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And the more we're compatible on that level, the better.
01:58:21.000
Her level of intellect, I don't really care about that.
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Let me put a perspective for the ladies so they can really understand and grasp how little men give a fuck about this shit.
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Most men would take a girl that has one or two bodies, dumb, Follows his lead over a girl that has 10 bodies, college educated, and is opinionated.
01:58:48.000
Most guys will take a girl that has one or two bodies, is dumb, but follows his program over a girl that's 10 bodies, educated, and opinionated.
01:58:59.000
Men don't give a fuck what you think like that.
01:59:13.000
You guys want to hear a dirty little secret on why men don't care about your opinions?
01:59:23.000
A girl can open up an OnlyFans and make 10k a month, and since giving her money, women live life on easy mode.
01:59:30.000
If you play chess, the queen can move in a million different directions any amount of spaces she wants.
01:59:37.000
So the reality is that since women live an easy life, men don't value your opinion like that, unfortunately.
01:59:43.000
And I'm just telling you guys how men really feel.
01:59:45.000
This whole mansplaining thing, it comes from reality.
01:59:48.000
Men look at it like, whoa, I have a way harder existence than she does.
01:59:52.000
And here's the other thing as well I want to say real quick.
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I feel bad for women that are attractive and smart because you're never going to be taken seriously.
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Because most good-looking girls are sluts, sweetheart.
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Let's go to a meeting or you go to an event where it's businessmen.
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Even if you're smart, you have to prove yourself way harder because you're a woman.
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And even still, we still won't take you that seriously.
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I tell girls, if you're young and hot, lock a guy down because realistically speaking...
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You have the most negotiating power when you're young and attractive.
02:00:33.000
Myron, listen, how many women have thrown away their one chance at true happiness by starting an OnlyFans?
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Dude, there are so many beautiful young women who could be married to a zillionaire.
02:00:46.000
Nope, they want to sell pictures of their butthole for $4.99 per month.
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What does doing elephants or working in the clothes has to do with a girl?
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A high-value man is not going to want to wife up a woman who's done those things.
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They don't care to hear your fucking stories, sis.
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Well, not only that, a woman is a reflection of a man.
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Logan Paul is getting dragged because, well, now everyone knows that Nina...
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And Logan Paul is getting clowned because of it, because his fiancee is a super hoe.
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Once you start OnlyFans, once you start going on boat parties and all that, you guys have to understand you're disqualifying yourself immediately from the kind of men you want.
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I think most women that do OnlyFans are not bad people.
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And the problem as well is, those videos are online forever.
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So let's say you meet a guy, he's actually into Alexa a lot, Here's a video of you getting fucked online.
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If you have kids with that person and then your kids are going to see that.
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And at that point, you're kind of like, yo, this chick's a hoe because she's getting fucked online.
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Even though you might be a good person, the perception is really bad.
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I think that's a really good point for us because it's like, these are bad people.
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And to be honest, you know, if you can make money doing that, I was dealing with a girl.
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Last, the other week, and she was telling me she's just got a small Twitter account, and guys just send her money for, like, pictures and shit.
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If you can make money doing that, I don't blame anyone for doing that.
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But, it is a problem when you're looking for that long-term with the high-value dudes.
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You guys are all attractive women here, at least most of you.
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You guys have been given, seriously, the attractive women, you have been given a lottery ticket.
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There's nothing more powerful than female beauty.
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What you have to understand, ladies, is that you get your lottery winnings up front.
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You don't have to be a rocket science to get the highest value man.
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You can go to school and be a boss babe, but think about most of you guys are in your 20s.
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How much, what percentage of the lottery winnings is left over?
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Some girls, by the time they get to 21, they might have 90%.
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By the time they get to 29, 30 years old, they don't have as much of that sexual currency.
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And when they start to notice the quality of the men hitting on them going down, or what Myron says, they start to buy their drinks, that's when women all of a sudden say to themselves, well, now I need to go out and find the man I need.
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Every time you go out and find a man you want for all the quote-unquote wrong reasons, you're using up a little bit more of your lottery money.
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And a lot of women think that they get lottery on the front and the back end.
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If you're young and hot and you become a P-star, great.
02:03:52.000
If you're young and hot and you get married to a millionaire, a billionaire, great.
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How much you demand for it is really up to you.
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Once you win, you cash that ticket one time, ladies.
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There's one, maybe two opportunities in your life where you meet a man, and a lot of you have met men that you could probably spend the rest of your life with, but because you didn't see them for who and what they really are, you pass them by.
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Think about the men that have come in and out of your life, right?
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And the older you get, you start to think, man, I wonder what happened to Rodney in medical school.
02:04:54.000
Man, I wonder what happened to Thomas in law school.
02:04:58.000
Dude, a lot of women who get to their 30s and 40s, they say, well, the reason I'm not married is because I haven't found him yet.
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No, you met about five of them when you were in your 20s, but you were too stupid to see it because you're going after men that you want instead of men that you need.
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How much of your lottery winnings do you have left?
02:05:13.000
But this is the problem in the whole fucking culture, isn't it?
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Because we want women in particular, you know, want instant gratification.
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You know, the whole cliche about young women like the fucking bad boys.
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They like the fucking, you know, the chap, whatever.
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And then they get to like 29, 30, 31, whatever.
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And then suddenly it's like, yeah, I'm looking for something different now.
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You know, because I'm looking for something different now.
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And Rolo Tomasi, Godfather of Manosphere, calls this the epiphany phase.
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When you have that epiphany and you realise, you're like, fuck, hang on a minute, I need to get serious here.
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I need to, you know, I need to start looking for different things.
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So, I mean, it would be better just to look for those things earlier on.
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But I don't blame anyone for not, because we're all driven by our biology.
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You guys are driven by what you find hot at the time, right?
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Let's not sit here and pretend that being a stay-at-home mom is as exciting as this.
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There's no way being a stay-at-home mom is as exciting as this.
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But you better fucking believe it's more fulfilling.
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I have a question for the ladies, and what I'm going to do is I'm going to ask the question.
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I'm going to have you guys think about it, and then I'm going to come back once I read the chats.
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Does a woman still deserve her dream man after waiting and or making mistakes with men?
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Does a woman still deserve her dream man after waiting and or making mistakes with men before?
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Alright, I'm gonna read these and then hopefully you guys have some good answers here and we'll see what you guys have to say.
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Okay, damn, this panel ready to go swimming with them floaties.
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Bender the Offender goes, all these women belong in a Five and Below store.
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He's trying to say that you guys are not that attractive.
02:07:19.000
Mine, I always say this in Castle Club, but I'm trying to prove this urban legend true.
02:07:23.000
Before and after our show, legend says you spent your time in the bathroom, shadowboxing, in front of the mirror, getting one last pump before taking on these three or fours.
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True or false, by the way, this whole panel castle tonight, except Don and Troy.
02:07:41.000
And guys, if you guys want to get your chat shown no matter what, go on...
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Hey guys, I believe a great way to communicate the difference between men having a high BC versus body count versus women is...
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Body count is when men have sex, they have the same sex with different faces.
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But when women have sex, the experience is different from man to man.
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Damn, these chicks look like they just came from the child support court.
02:08:15.000
Someone said the Dominican has been counseled for.
02:08:17.000
Also, Fresh, do you talk dirty in the bedroom if so or do you still stutter in that moment?
02:08:30.000
How many women want Tinder to create height verification for men?
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Would it be fair if they also created weight verification for women?
02:08:39.000
Well, you'd be surprised at how many girls actually don't use Tinder, my friend.
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Emiliano goes, question ladies, who would you take serious?
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A guy who was in a 10-year relationship with one body count or a guy with 25 body count never in a serious relationship and for the boys, vice versa, WFNF? Okay, you know, I could run around the table on that one real quick.
02:08:59.000
Okay, so ladies, who would you take more serious?
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A guy that's been in a 10-year relationship, but he only has one body count, or a guy that's been with 25 different women, but never in a serious relationship.
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Raise of hands if you would take the guy that was in a 10-year relationship, but he only had sex with one girl.
02:09:19.000
Okay, so the rest of you will go with the guy that had 25 women.
02:09:29.000
No, he was never in a serious relationship, but he's had sex with 25 women.
02:09:32.000
Yeah, but if he's trying to be serious with me or be serious with...
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Okay, it depends on if he's trying to be serious.
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10-year relationship, one girl, or guy that had 25 girls, no serious relationship, but he wants to be serious now.
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So, raise your hands if you want the guy that only has one body and 10-year relationship.
02:10:01.000
The rest of you prefer the guy that has a little bit more experience.
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Yeah, we don't value our girl to be experienced.
02:10:28.000
Why can't a woman's standards come from what their father did, but a man's standards can't come from what his mother did?
02:10:41.000
Donovan and Troy are gracing the new studio, Let's Fun Go, FNF for Life, Mr.
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These Money Monday best credit cards have helped me tremendously.
02:10:49.000
Yeah, guys, I'm going to do another episode for y'all on the best travel credit cards, so stay tuned.
02:10:59.000
Back when it was my yearbook, it was social, but now nothing but a bunch of losers begging for helmet duty.
02:11:17.000
The Asian press of Zamunda and Wakanda Fresh would like to ask you how...
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For tacos and back to the crib where he'll meet our dog, Harold, before bedroom from Getterfresh.
02:11:35.000
You said earlier on the show, the death of a relative or a loved one, nothing crushes a man's soul like a woman cheating on him.
02:11:45.000
Then he goes, are we really pedestalizing women that much that a bitch cheating on us is the number one thing that destroys a man's soul?
02:11:50.000
Losing a loved one is way worse because you're losing a real one.
02:11:56.000
Look, man, we're not pedestalizing women by being honest about them.
02:12:03.000
A lot of people say, well, Donovan, you buy Devin this and you buy Devin that.
02:12:08.000
The definition of simping is giving an undeserving woman access to your time, energy, attention, and resources.
02:12:18.000
Look, I appreciate this guy's super chats, but this is where we get guys who try to be Captain Meathead Red Pill.
02:12:29.000
Gentlemen, women need something out of the relationship too, right?
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You have to understand that, but you don't give it to them unless they deserve it.
02:12:36.000
So no, I'm not pedestalizing women by saying that the worst emotional pain that a man can feel is by getting cheated on by his woman.
02:12:43.000
You've clearly never been in a relationship with a woman who has cheated on you.
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It's not like, oh, I pedestalized this woman so much, so I feel really bad.
02:12:54.000
And the reason you feel that is because of your biological construction, right?
02:13:00.000
If a woman goes and fucks some other dude, right?
02:13:05.000
But that directly affects your parental, you know, if there was any potential child there, right?
02:13:10.000
You can't do a clever red pill argument against the reality of your own fucking biology.
02:13:16.000
It's just, you know, I think this dude's trying to be clever about it, but he's not.
02:13:22.000
It's almost like he's trying to come off as this, I'm so hardcore and I only fuck nines and tens.
02:13:29.000
Bruh, if you only fuck nines and tens, you are paying prostitutes, friend.
02:13:33.000
Alright, shoutout to 3Diglets, I appreciate that.
02:13:48.000
Actually, I think I still spelled it wrong, but fuck it.
02:13:55.000
I've been cheated on, I lost loved ones, and it's not close.
02:14:03.000
Loss of family members means more to him, but it's a different type of pain.
02:14:07.000
I guess what I meant to say was a different kind of pain, but I just don't like it when guys...
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I'm not saying that that's what this guy did, but we have a lot of guys in this community that try to be too alpha.
02:14:17.000
Look, man, look, if you love a woman, that's not pedestalizing her unless you're a simp.
02:14:23.000
I was working with this guy a while back, and he was like, I don't simp for women.
02:14:28.000
And he said, I was with my girlfriend for three years, and I never once told her she looked beautiful.
02:14:47.000
Don't just dictate your life because of something you've read a fucking, you know, article or heard on a video.
02:14:53.000
Real quick, we're going to kill the Twitch and Facebook streams.
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Rumble.com slash FreshFit or, you know, YouTube.com slash FreshFit Miami.
02:15:04.000
We got, like, over 20,000 an hour watch right now between the two different platforms.
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Because we're splitting the audience, but we want to make sure that we hit the algorithm hard.
02:15:14.000
And comment below for the algo, guys, if you don't mind.
02:15:17.000
But a lot of guys, I would just say as well, never dated a girl seriously.
02:15:21.000
So they think it's just one way, but it's multidimensional.
02:15:23.000
You have to be that guy with frame and game, but understand their emotions as well.
02:15:50.000
but for the first time in history, women closed the gap on cheating due to attention from social media and the advent of extreme feminism.
02:16:04.000
If the manager could make you ten times the money, would you work with the manager if you want more info?
02:16:35.000
I'd say that by and large female workers' contributions to society is insignificant.
02:16:41.000
Jobs for women are created primarily to keep them entertained.
02:16:45.000
That was a fancy way of saying women work useless jobs.
02:16:48.000
For the lady that said we came from vagina, if we don't nut on you, you can stay all day long in front of the sun with your legs open and you will only get your pussy tainted.
02:17:04.000
Yeah, because men and women are totally the same.
02:17:06.000
Meaning, like, either way it go, even if you nutty me, I still have to push you out after nine months.
02:17:22.000
No, but without the man's sperm, he can't do anything.
02:17:29.000
Remember how you made the argument that you all came from a woman?
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It's that I'm able to look at the world how it is and understand that in general, women aren't as good at men as men.
02:17:52.000
I said that from looking at the world, I'm not speaking low about women.
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I'm saying that I've noticed, and I think everyone can objectively say this, men are better at almost every human endeavor than women are.
02:18:02.000
You've spoken a little about me because you said that I was incompetent.
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She's talking about he's black and he's fucking...
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Yeah, the beard, mustache, yeah, yeah, you, yeah, yeah, you.
02:19:10.000
Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, sweetheart.
02:19:19.000
What you guys are witnessing is the reason why there's a mass exodus of black men leaving black women.
02:19:28.000
You are literally verifying Every stereotype of the American black woman here in less than two hours.
02:19:48.000
Now you're going to make fun of the way I talk.
02:20:01.000
Anytime you see a black woman on the internet bitching and moaning about why black men don't want them, take her.
02:20:08.000
I never cared about a black man not wanting me.
02:20:17.000
I think I made a fairly true assessment by saying that you're fairly incompetent.
02:20:23.000
I mean, during the course of the podcast, I gave you a few chances to prove me wrong, but you don't understand.
02:20:26.000
Myron, she doesn't know what incompetent means, dude.
02:20:29.000
Understanding and being comprehensive to things that are going around and saying, yes, I do know what incompetent means.
02:20:36.000
Before I read the Super Chats, I asked all the ladies a question.
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Basically, if a woman's past affects her on dating a man, in so many words.
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You said, does her past or her mistakes with different men affects her from dating a man in the future, basically?
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You got to think before you answer the questions.
02:21:09.000
Like I said, during the course of the podcast, I would argue that you're fairly incompetent.
02:21:32.000
Actually, she did get most of the question right.
02:21:49.000
Yeah, I can show you my transcripts from college.
02:21:54.000
You said that just because a person is educated doesn't make them smart.
02:22:05.000
Just because a person is educated does not mean they're smart.
02:22:08.000
Miss Genius here had a 3.0 at DeVry University.
02:22:16.000
Anyway, but no, it's not that I'm speaking long, woman.
02:22:19.000
You know just stating fact that like it's true, like men are better than women at almost every human endeavor.
02:22:29.000
No, I'm talking about the question that we were on.
02:22:32.000
No, no, no, I get that, but do you agree or disagree with that point that men are better than women at most human endeavors?
02:22:58.000
They all said that they don't mind their men cheating on them.
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They said no, but they said that they will still stay with them.
02:23:17.000
They were acceptive of all men being cheaters, basically.
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Not accepting them in a relationship, but they were acceptive of men being cheaters.
02:23:46.000
I just established so many things, but it's fine.
02:24:10.000
And then we'll do the comments and last thoughts, because...
02:24:17.000
You know, how long it's been since I stayed until 1?
02:24:21.000
I don't usually dabble in the dark, but bet she'll look a lot smarter with my meat stick in her mouth.
02:24:44.000
Hopefully you guys thought about it during the course of this conversation.
02:24:47.000
Does a woman still deserve her dream man after waiting and or making mistakes with men before?
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Because I feel like you passed up your opportunity.
02:25:02.000
If you had a right man that was there for you and gave you everything that you wanted, why would you pass up that opportunity?
02:25:11.000
Like, why are you looking for another opportunity now?
02:25:14.000
Do you still think you deserve your dream, man?
02:25:22.000
You said at the top of the show, you are a man, right, that actually won't cheat.
02:25:33.000
Because I already had it, and it goes back to the question.
02:25:47.000
Like, I can't just be with a man, and this is just bluntly speaking, that wakes up in the morning, and you're not brushing your teeth.
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You're not taking care of what you gotta take care of.
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It's my fault, but it didn't happen until like after the fifth year when they get a little bit comfortable.
02:26:27.000
So since you understand that you passed your prime opportunity to get a guy, do you think you're in a position to negotiate and tell a man that he can't cheat on you?
02:26:36.000
So why do you want a guy that wants you on you then?
02:26:40.000
I can set the expectations high, but I gotta settle for what I gotta settle for.
02:26:53.000
Do you think a woman still deserves her dream man after waiting and or making mistakes with men before?
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She's gonna, at some point, she's gonna have to settle.
02:27:09.000
Because I don't think, like, for me, it's like, I know that the person I'm gonna be with made mistakes too and has a past too.
02:27:21.000
You were saying that because they have, the man's gonna make mistakes too, so it should be fair, like, on both sides?
02:27:27.000
Do you think a man's past matters as much as a woman's past though?
02:27:36.000
Let me ask you, are you more interested in your man's past or his future?
02:27:45.000
Do you really care that he fucked 50 girls, or are you more concerned with him making money and taking care of you in the future?
02:27:52.000
Now, if I were to ask him, without you around, do you think he would care more about your future or your past?
02:28:00.000
Okay, well, I can tell you 99% sure, because men are very similar.
02:28:06.000
He's gonna probably be more concerned with your past than your future.
02:28:43.000
So you said before, yes, a woman deserves, even if she made bad decisions, to still have her dream man.
02:28:50.000
So you're saying because everyone's past doesn't matter?
02:28:58.000
But we just discussed how a woman doesn't care about a man's past, but a man definitely cares about a woman's past.
02:29:07.000
Yeah, I mean, I guess a woman's past is probably more important to a man than a man's past would be to a woman.
02:29:15.000
But I still think that a woman should be able to get her dream man.
02:29:27.000
You're a paralegal and you do business litigation, etc., right?
02:29:32.000
So let's say someone has a 400 credit score and they go into a bank and they say, you know what, man, I want a loan on a house.
02:29:40.000
Do you think they're going to give them a loan on that house?
02:29:52.000
I mean, I feel like I deserve this loan with my 400 credit score.
02:30:03.000
I'll give you a home loan with a 400 credit score and charge you 50 percent.
02:30:10.000
There's a difference between what you can aspire to.
02:30:14.000
Sure, you can still aspire to it, but you've got to be realistic.
02:30:17.000
Again, depending on the nature of the mistakes, you've got to be realistic.
02:30:27.000
Does a woman still deserve her dream man after waiting or making bad mistakes?
02:30:33.000
I think a woman who makes a lot of mistakes definitely has to settle in one aspect or the other.
02:30:52.000
I say yes, because when you're young, you make a lot of mistakes.
02:30:55.000
And sometimes you have to mess around for you to know what you really want.
02:31:01.000
That's like me saying I have to take all the drugs to make sure I like none of them.
02:31:05.000
It's like the guy with one body and the one with 25 body.
02:31:18.000
Do you think men care about experience, though, and a woman?
02:31:22.000
No, because a man makes the woman, and the woman makes the man, too.
02:31:25.000
Obviously, people have to submit and know how to lead, but a woman is only going to submit to a man that properly knows how to lead.
02:31:31.000
Yeah, but I mean, it's actually an advantage for a guy to have a bigger body count, isn't it, really?
02:31:39.000
Women are inherently attracted to men they know get laid.
02:31:43.000
A couple of girls here said that they go with the dude who's only smashed one woman in a tender relationship.
02:31:49.000
But I mean, realistically, most women want a guy who knows what he's doing.
02:31:54.000
There's a lot of good women out there, wife material...
02:31:59.000
That has to do what they have to do to provide for their family, and that doesn't define them as a person.
02:32:08.000
Because you have to work at the club, because you have to, me, a Oliphant doesn't define you as a person.
02:32:14.000
It doesn't mean that you're a whore, that you can be a...
02:32:22.000
But if I were to come to you and try to hit on you, it'd be like, yo, look, like, right now my future's not really looking too bright.
02:32:28.000
I live at my mom and, you know, I play video games.
02:32:33.000
You know, I feel like I should have the woman of my dreams, but, you know, I don't feel like my future should have any impact on the present.
02:32:45.000
So, if you're willing to decline that guy, why should you accept a woman that's a sex worker?
02:32:51.000
I'm gonna be honest, I talked about this actually, I posted this, literally I posted this earlier on my Instagram.
02:32:55.000
I think if a woman decides to monetize her sexuality or go into certain professions, she no longer qualifies or deserves a good man.
02:33:03.000
Because what you've basically done is, when you give up your sexuality or you monetize it, you're giving it out to a bunch of other guys, so you've broken the loyalty rule.
02:33:14.000
We just want you to not be a slut and exercise sexual fidelity to us.
02:33:19.000
So I think if a girl's involved in certain things, I mean, I'll be honest with you.
02:33:22.000
Your guy can go on your OnlyFans and look at you suck a dick on a plane.
02:33:29.000
So, woman in my place, like my case right now, she'll be okay with not getting their treatments.
02:33:37.000
I know what comes with it, and I know what I'm doing.
02:33:45.000
Someone was going off of me on Instagram the other day because I made a TikTok.
02:33:51.000
It was about positions I want my man to put me in.
02:33:57.000
Then it was a house, getting married, getting old.
02:34:00.000
And they're like, you're crazy if you think you're going to get married.
02:34:07.000
Because when I started doing this, I knew what Like, the consequences.
02:34:29.000
She's trying to say that she has a valid reason for doing OnlyFans.
02:34:33.000
However valid that reason may be, I might have a valid reason for being a loser.
02:34:39.000
In other words, we as men, I'm not going to get with a fat chick who's on her weight loss journey.
02:34:53.000
Well, I think she's also saying she's made a considered decision.
02:34:56.000
She knew what the consequences were before she went in, and fine.
02:34:59.000
Whether you'll change your mind on that in the future or regret that, I don't know.
02:35:05.000
But you're saying you decided to do it anyway, regardless of the social consequences, because marriage and stuff is not your goal.
02:35:11.000
Because to me, it's more important to provide for my family, for my two kids.
02:35:17.000
And to have my kids financially, emotionally stable later in the future.
02:35:29.000
Because now your kids are going to have to deal with the consequences of your actions.
02:35:33.000
There's kids right now that are going to school and getting bullied because they're able to see their mom on OnlyFans doing things.
02:35:39.000
Well, I keep what I do for a living separately from my personal life.
02:35:46.000
It depends on the way that you're raising your kids because my kids are going to respect me.
02:35:54.000
You have a big social media following, don't you?
02:35:58.000
I said you have a big social media following, correct?
02:36:00.000
So it's going to be impossible for them to separate your personal life and your business.
02:36:08.000
Okay, but the time that they find out, they're going to understand and appreciate what I did for them.
02:36:12.000
Okay, but you also need to be mindful of what you're doing while you're in survival mode.
02:36:20.000
No, my kids, you should be in control of what your kids are doing on social media.
02:36:38.000
I understand, but men or women, they don't care about the why.
02:36:45.000
If you found out that I made a half a million dollars a year, would it matter what I did?
02:36:52.000
So if a bitch is 300 pounds, does it matter why she's 300 pounds?
02:37:00.000
We don't care about the why, we care about the what.
02:37:03.000
You don't give a fuck why we're rich, you just care that we're rich.
02:37:05.000
We don't care why you were an OnlyFans model, we care that you were.
02:37:09.000
You probably did it for a very noble reason because no woman really wants to have to sexualize.
02:37:14.000
No woman really wants to have to sexualize herself for survival.
02:37:17.000
But sometimes women are put in that position and, you know, listen, we can feel sorry for that.
02:37:21.000
We're just not going to take you seriously for a long-term relationship.
02:37:26.000
We're just not going to mess with you like that.
02:37:30.000
Usually you end up with somebody from, like, three different states that don't...
02:37:33.000
Or you get them from a different country that don't know what's going on.
02:37:43.000
About, let's say, for example, Cardi B? A lot of people say...
02:37:48.000
Cardi B? Yeah, like, a lot of people don't like hip-hop because of what they say, but what is your keys listening to this type of music Maki is not supposed to be on OnlyFans.
02:38:04.000
So you as a parent, you as a mother, you should be in control of what your kids do.
02:38:10.000
But you should be in control of all of the kids that your son or your daughter are friends with at school.
02:38:17.000
You should show them, and it wouldn't even be your fault.
02:38:19.000
Exactly, she can't control everybody's kids owning her own.
02:38:24.000
Like, so you're telling me, that other people's kids, they watch porn, and they be on OnlyFans?
02:38:32.000
Remember, you may watch your kids, they may not.
02:38:35.000
So then when they show your kids, oh look, I'm on OnlyFans, what are you going to do?
02:38:38.000
I'm okay because I know how I'm raising my kids.
02:38:47.000
That's one of the main reasons I've never seen it.
02:38:48.000
I'm not going to know how to handle with it because I know how I'm racist.
02:38:55.000
The question was specifically, does a woman still deserve her dream man after waiting and or making mistakes in the past?
02:39:00.000
And I would argue for girls involved in sex work, whether she's a stripper, OnlyFans, Escort, Sugar Baby, whatever, she no longer qualifies for her dream man.
02:39:13.000
You want a dream man that's successful and ambitious and tall and good-looking, etc.
02:39:16.000
That guy's gonna want something in return, okay?
02:39:19.000
A guy's gonna want a girl that isn't a whore, isn't gonna embarrass him.
02:39:23.000
He can't look her up on the internet and see her sucking dick on a plane.
02:39:27.000
So why is it fair for you to get your dream guy, but he's not getting a dream back in return?
02:39:43.000
Whenever you wife up a whore, she fucks you up.
02:39:47.000
So with all the respect, you don't deserve your dream man.
02:39:59.000
I don't give a fuck how many times you've been proposed to.
02:40:01.000
I don't give a fuck how many guys are in your DMs.
02:40:02.000
I don't give a fuck how many guys ask you on dates.
02:40:04.000
How many men that you actually like back are proposing to you?
02:40:11.000
Because the thing is, you would be married if they did.
02:40:17.000
So I hate it when girls say, well, I get these guys that DM me.
02:40:21.000
That's like stupid hoe OnlyFans logic that guys hit them up.
02:40:25.000
They hit you up to fuck, not to date, or take you seriously, or most importantly, marry you.
02:40:30.000
How many guys are getting down on one knee that you actually fucking respect and want to be with to give you a ring?
02:40:42.000
Because a girl's past, you know, like, it has everything to do with the man that she's gonna get.
02:41:04.000
Girl's always unplugged the XLR. Speaking of the penis.
02:41:27.000
No, because if you're going to be a slut, just stay a slut.
02:41:34.000
What if she just put off all the nice guys though?
02:41:43.000
Does a woman still deserve her dream man after waiting and or making mistakes with men before?
02:41:52.000
If they made mistakes, then no, she doesn't deserve her dream man.
02:41:55.000
Yeah, but the mistake might be putting off the nice guy, so it's not like doing OnlyFans or something.
02:42:08.000
Do you think your dream man is going to want a single mom back in return?
02:42:25.000
So you're gonna settle for someone, so you don't...
02:42:29.000
I already have kids, so it doesn't matter if I meet a husband who has kids.
02:42:39.000
My dream man is not someone who doesn't have kids.
02:42:50.000
I already have kids, so I don't care if you have kids.
02:42:53.000
I guarantee you, back in the day, her dream man had no kids.
02:42:56.000
Yeah, before I had kids, but I already have kids, so now it's off the table.
02:43:04.000
I think that depending on how deep a woman has gotten into her mistakes, no.
02:43:11.000
I think that if maybe her mistake was waiting too long, I think that then you do still deserve...
02:43:33.000
What do you think is a woman's peak to men when she's the most attractive to men?
02:43:49.000
I think that women are attractive all the time.
02:43:56.000
The question I asked was, when do you think women are at their peak and most attractive to men?
02:44:15.000
So why do you think a girl didn't have fucked up until 35 if her peak was 25?
02:44:30.000
Whenever a woman is at her peak, she probably has whatever.
02:44:38.000
It doesn't mean that she needs to get married at her very peak, but I think that once you reach a certain age...
02:44:46.000
Wouldn't it make sense to get married when you have your peak value so that you can negotiate for the best terms?
02:44:53.000
I mean, that depends on what her life goals are.
02:45:08.000
Personally, I wouldn't say that ideally at, let's say, when I'm 25, that I would want to be married.
02:45:21.000
Yeah, I mean, when I see myself at 25, I see myself...
02:45:36.000
Listen, you're still young and beautiful, sweetheart.
02:45:43.000
Dude, I've seen so many fucking gorgeous women sitting around talking just like you.
02:45:57.000
She's a beautiful fucking woman who sells pictures of her ass on OnlyFans for $5 a month.
02:46:04.000
A decade ago, she had the same attitude as you did.
02:46:08.000
Listen, man, when you're young and beautiful, it seems like you have all the time in the world until you don't.
02:46:13.000
Ask the 20-somethings on the panel how much time they think they have left.
02:46:16.000
Like, ladies, we've got to be smart about this.
02:46:19.000
Quit denying what you really- Listen, admitting that you want a husband and family doesn't make you weak.
02:46:26.000
But the truth of the matter is, right, every girl who's like in her 20s, whatever, right, has probably met countless dudes that theoretically could have made a great husband.
02:46:43.000
And that's why he's saying this thing about, do you deserve it?
02:46:47.000
If you've passed up all of these dudes, because it's bullshit to say that none of you guys, all of you guys here have probably met dudes that could have made a fantastic husband.
02:47:01.000
And it's like, you know, and you've got to, at some point, you have to accept, well, okay, I've made those choices, and now I'm going to have to take, you know, whatever's left sort of thing.
02:47:11.000
Listen, listen, you don't have to take this advice, but listen, just, you You are entering a time in your life where I would say probably three to four men over the next 10 years are going to be serious candidates for husband material.
02:47:25.000
And you're going to disqualify them for a bullshit reason.
02:47:28.000
When you're 35 years old and not married, you're going to be like, you know what?
02:47:30.000
I wonder what happened to Brian and Todd and Anthony.
02:47:35.000
Make the smart choice, because I'm telling you, time runs out very quickly.
02:47:37.000
If they show husband material, I don't think that I would immediately reject that.
02:47:41.000
If they show husband material, like, there's actually someone in front of my face, and that's like, you know?
02:47:50.000
Husband material is different to the hot guy in the club material, isn't it?
02:48:01.000
They're not going to go for the husband, the sensible accountant who's got a nice button-down shirt.
02:48:07.000
And ladies, you have to understand, when you're young, you go for the men you want.
02:48:10.000
When you're older, you go for the men you need.
02:48:12.000
But when you are at your sexual peak, you can have it both ways.
02:48:24.000
I think it's because our age is harder because most men our age are broke.
02:48:30.000
I don't know what that has to do with anything.
02:48:36.000
I mean, in that same argument, most women are fat, so...
02:48:53.000
If I was looking for somebody, he'll be in his late, probably late 30s.
02:49:10.000
Does a woman still deserve her dream man after waiting and or making mistakes?
02:49:14.000
Well, I feel like a woman deserves whatever she desires.
02:49:20.000
As far as whether it be her dream man, after making mistakes, everybody makes mistakes.
02:49:31.000
Okay, but wouldn't it be fair to say that mistakes have consequences?
02:49:33.000
They do, but it's a lot of successful people that made a lot of bad mistakes.
02:49:39.000
Way worse than anybody on this panel right now, so I don't believe that.
02:49:43.000
So you think you still deserve certain things even if you made mistakes?
02:49:51.000
You deserve to go to jail, but then after you go to jail and you learn from your mistake and you make your life better, you could be a multimillionaire after you rob a bank.
02:50:02.000
You can't, yes, most certainly, but if I'm a multimillionaire after I robbed a bank, I'd change my life around.
02:50:11.000
Did you seriously just say, am I a multimillionaire after I robbed a bank?
02:50:16.000
You are literally the dumbest fucking woman who has ever been on this podcast.
02:50:20.000
Okay, Maya Angelou was a whole prostitute before she became a known poet.
02:50:31.000
I don't care about being Maya Angelou or not, but I know research.
02:50:35.000
Maya Angelou was a whole sex worker before she became a noted poet.
02:50:52.000
Your wife is 47 and you're over here telling us to be young and date young and your wife is 47.
02:51:34.000
You are literally the dumbest person I have ever met in my life.
02:52:32.000
Do you think a woman still deserves a dream man after making bad decisions?
02:52:38.000
If she passed up the good guy, no, because she was looking for the wrong things.
02:52:46.000
Because those mistakes that she made in the past can end up reflecting on her significant other.
02:53:09.000
I would say one-night stands is a pretty big mistake.
02:53:19.000
Love tattoos, but they don't look good on ladies.
02:53:26.000
We got some more chats here than last thoughts.
02:53:49.000
I just be sitting back watching everything go down.
02:53:53.000
I don't have anything negative to say this time.
02:54:05.000
You know what we used to do with the balloons with the helium?
02:54:17.000
I love debating about stuff, so it is what it is.
02:54:26.000
Do you have anything else that you want to say?
02:54:39.000
I think that there's a lot of good back and forth conversation and I like to hear how everyone kind of has their own mindset and their own choices on each thing.
02:54:52.000
I like that there's some questions that were just like moved past and some of them were pretty good so I appreciate it.
02:55:05.000
I think that I really enjoyed hearing people out.
02:55:25.000
I think it was more of my observing and listening rather than me saying, oh wow, I learned this crazy life lesson.
02:55:41.000
And it's interesting because I like to do this experiment.
02:55:44.000
What I've noticed with younger women is they typically don't learn anything and they just go back to doing what they were doing in the first place, which is totally cool and fantastic.
02:55:50.000
But you got four experienced guys telling you how the world really works and, as usual, younger women tend to think that they know better.
02:55:59.000
I would say I learned a little bit about where men kind of prefer their, you know, women and...
02:56:14.000
You see what I mean now when I say that women don't need to have competence?
02:56:18.000
Like, y'all literally, you guys call me an asshole or maybe a massager or whatever, but throughout the course of the podcast, we've been able to pretty much prove through your guys' answers and stuff that the burden of performance for women is pretty low.
02:56:46.000
The only thing I learned was to get a husband now.
02:57:02.000
No, like, I learned that a girl's past can obviously not help her later on in her life.
02:57:14.000
Are you going to argue less with your boyfriend now?
02:57:32.000
You gotta do it even when you don't feel like it, is my point.
02:57:44.000
What about you, G? I had a good time, and I also learned about meng expectation.
02:57:54.000
How I say it was either me being a sloth, a whore, how you guys call us, girls that do elephants, or me being a wifey.
02:58:09.000
I'd rather cry alone on a Roy Royce or on a mansion.
02:58:20.000
I'd rather cry in my own mansion than I own and that I got with my own.
02:58:34.000
I learned don't lose a good man for a dumb reason.
02:58:40.000
I enjoyed hearing everybody's different opinions, everybody keeping it unfiltered, so it was fun.
02:58:52.000
I think it's dope to, like, get a male's perspective on these things and kind of, like, rebuttal your thoughts.
02:58:58.000
Yeah, because it kind of makes sense after you sit there and let it marinate for a little bit.
02:59:14.000
Treat your guy well and he'll be straight married.
02:59:45.000
No, honestly, I was sent some real foul clips of y'all.
03:00:00.000
Everyone needs to know and understand their role and their position, and sometimes you gotta settle for some shit.
03:00:09.000
Alright, so I was told something about an 18-year-old girl, like something about 18-year-old virgins or...
03:00:19.000
No, no, this is just like, they were just telling me like, you know, that you're just creeps, it's just, they don't respond.
03:00:24.000
They said that, you know, they're just creeps that you guys just don't respect women and all this stuff.
03:00:29.000
But honestly, like, a lot of the shit that y'all was saying, like, a lot of shit is factual.
03:00:36.000
And if you don't take anything back from it, like, come on, what are you really doing?
03:00:41.000
Girls that don't know us, they see clips and they judge us all.
03:00:47.000
Nine out of ten times if it's me kicking a girl out or telling a girl she's dumb.
03:00:50.000
It's been like an hour plus of her just being annoying or her in the quiet of the show and I'm like, oh my god, you're a fucking retard.
03:00:57.000
Because there's a lot of dumb girls, unfortunately.
03:01:02.000
Obviously, I don't know everything that goes behind it.
03:01:05.000
So when we just get a little clip, I just see everyone's fired up.
03:01:08.000
You get a 30 second clip from a three hour pod, it's very difficult to put things in context and understand, oh, that's why he was freaking out, because this girl was acting ridiculous.
03:01:21.000
Last thoughts, comments, criticisms, questions?
03:01:30.000
Well, it was my first time on a podcast, so it was a really good experience.
03:01:48.000
I think you guys have been nothing but respectful.
03:01:53.000
You know, I learned how to handle myself as a lady and, you know, the difference between a hoe and a lady.
03:02:01.000
Let's say you find a guy that meets you from time to time.
03:02:06.000
She's about to call that dude from two years ago.
03:02:19.000
She was just telling me in the car, if he don't do what you're talking about, then leave him.
03:02:33.000
I've been telling girls all the time, never take advice from a single girl, bro.
03:02:48.000
I'm gonna start wasting my time and wasting other people's time looking for love I didn't press the button.
03:03:01.000
I'm going to stop wasting my time and wasting other guys' time looking for my dream guy because I see how you guys...
03:03:24.000
Yeah, so at Real Troy Francis on YouTube, on Twitter or X, and on Instagram.
03:03:33.000
I mean, I think, for me personally, variety is the spice of life.
03:03:36.000
I would say, guys, ignore all this Daily Wire shit.
03:03:42.000
If you're staying in Vegas, if you're staying at the hotel in Vegas, you go down to the fucking cafe, you know, the restaurant there.
03:03:46.000
They've got the Chinese, they've got the Mexican, they've got the Italian.
03:03:57.000
But the other thing is as well, actions have consequences.
03:04:00.000
So you do stuff in your life and there's going to be a fucking consequence to that, right?
03:04:03.000
So if you want to be a 304 in your younger years as a woman, that's great.
03:04:09.000
If you want to be a bachelor and want to go around and be, you know, casual or whatever, there's a consequence to that.
03:04:15.000
If you want to get married, there's going to be, you know, trade-offs to that as well.
03:04:25.000
In the end, you know, I know a lot of you guys get, you know, we get bad reputations like we hate women.
03:04:30.000
No, we love women very much, and that's why we talk about you guys so much.
03:04:35.000
Because at the end of the day, man, and Rola says this all the time, we're at odds right now, but men and women, without a doubt, we're better together.
03:04:42.000
And when you have this miscommunication between the sexes on what's important to each other, mainly with women, women are so misguided, you really have to take time and listen to the caliber of men you're trying to lock down.
03:04:57.000
Don't listen to the bum-ass nigga on the block who's always, bitches and shit!
03:05:01.000
Take advice from the men, take advice from the caliber of men that you want.
03:05:05.000
Listen, if you're looking for a high-value man, if you're attracted to lawyers, be a paralegal.
03:05:09.000
If you want a doctor, maybe be a nurse or an LPN. If you want to date a rich golfer, be one of the ballgirls.
03:05:15.000
If you want to meet high-end people, become a server at a suite box at a professional sports game.
03:05:21.000
There are many, many ways to put yourself in front of high-value men.
03:05:26.000
You just have to recognize these men when you see them.
03:05:28.000
And like I said, men and women are better together.
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You know, I lived in Vegas for almost 10 years, and I sampled every kind of buffet there was.
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And as much fun as it was, and I would not trade that experience for the world, my life is infinitely, infinitely...
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It is so much better now that I have one woman to worry about instead of two and three and four.
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No, I knew I was going to settle down, but I knew that in order to have the requisite mentality and skill set to be able to mold a woman into what I needed her and wanted her to be, I was going to have to go out and skin my knees a little bit.
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And he was either going to be Miami or Las Vegas.
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And Donovan, you have a discount on your collection.
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Yes, so I have, like, oh my goodness, I have done, like, 450 hours of exclusive premium content, all kinds of books and courses.
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How to Master the Game, the 49 Laws of Sharp, Relationship Foundation Fundamentals.
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How to build a quality woman from the ground up, and how to stop female manipulation.
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I'm going to lock it in with Ryan and Scott Ritter.
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We're going to talk about the conflict going on in a certain part of the world, which I won't even talk about.
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