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00:16:07.000And even though they might be working on themselves, she in her head has determined that that's the man she's going to do whatever she has to do to eventually be the wife.
00:29:50.000All right, what is one skill or quality about you that would be beneficial to a relationship and one characteristic about you that you need to work on before a relationship?
00:30:28.000So the question is again, What is one skill or quality about you that would be beneficial to a relationship and one characteristic about you that you need to work on before a relationship?
00:30:39.000So one thing you do good and one thing that you need to work on.
00:38:11.000All I'm saying is, like, I mean, just you got to use a little bit, like, just some logic, right?
00:38:15.000So, like, if you're only losing value as you get older, why wouldn't he consolidate you when you're at your peak versus he's going to wait around until you figure out how to control your emotions?
00:38:26.000But wait, who said I was losing value?
00:38:38.000Men that have money and status and power typically go for more younger, more attractive women.
00:38:42.000So if you're going to only get older and lose value, and from a dating marketplace, that doesn't mean your personal value as a human being.
00:38:48.000It means your dating value, his is going to continue to accrue and go up as he gets older and makes money.
00:45:54.000So, I show, like, loyalty, but I also love hard, and that, like, I notice it plays a factor back as a weakness.
00:46:01.000Like, sometimes I'll push somebody away when I, like, love hard, or, like, when I'm constantly, like, texting and, like, trying to show all my love and appreciation, and then, like, it pushes them away.
00:46:11.000So, I realize, like, when I back off, like, it's better.
00:47:09.000Not even, just like, yeah, clingy, like, texting a lot, like, always showing that they're my top priority when I'm probably not their top priority.
00:47:19.000Alright, so your strength is you're supportive?
00:48:56.000Because I've been dancing 12 years and I feel like it has ruined all my serious relationships.
00:49:01.000Not ruined, but like it makes it hard to have a serious relationship because the biggest downfall of being a dancer is that people see you with men all day long.
00:49:09.000You're showing your body, dancing in front of people.
00:49:21.000This is what paid all my bills as a single mom.
00:49:22.000Put me through real estate school, everything.
00:49:24.000So I'm not going to stop because somebody else.
00:49:26.000But if a man did come along and value me enough and say, hey, I'm going to take care of you, you don't have to dance no more, then yeah, but I'm out here going to get it myself.
00:49:32.000So in the day, yeah, I don't have serious relationships.
00:49:35.000And the serious relationship I do have, either one, you got to accept what I do or move on.
00:52:53.000What if I told you there's a bunch of studies that show that once a woman hits a certain body count, her ability to stay in a long-term marriage goes down dramatically?
00:53:00.000But that's because she's admitting to that.
00:53:36.000If she wanted to, like, really be in the family, like, she's gonna have to prove me a bunch of things about, like, the fact that he's real, like, you really, like, want him to know what he has.
00:53:46.000And, like, you know, and to be sure, like, they're really into this love.
00:53:51.000I don't want to judge anyone here, but I'm really like, I feel like if you're on this world, what you want to, like, come to my son, who's really successful, and, like, has everything for him, and he could find someone really better, if I can say that.
00:54:05.000And, like, if you're going to find someone, like, was dancing, doing some show, like, why?
00:54:29.000Because I feel like Yes, people can change, but personally, my son, no, because at the end of the day, if that's what you chose to do in your past, then who says that later on down the line, you won't switch up and start adding to your body count while you dating my son?
00:55:19.000Personally, me, at the end of the day, I will have a say, but I will not force my son to not marry someone that he loves.
00:55:30.000At the end of the day, I don't share the emotion that he shares with that individual.
00:55:34.000But me, if you ask me, if my son comes to me and be like, hey, mom, like, you know, she used to be a stripper, 100 bodies.
00:55:40.000And again, I'm not judging the people that are here, but personally, me, if my son comes to me like, hey, mom, you know, she used to be a stripper, she got 100 bodies, I'm like, me, no, but if that's what you want to do, then proceed.
00:55:51.000And at the end of the day, as a mother, I'm going to watch this woman and I'm going to let him know, like, hey, like, She moving a certain type of way and I'm not cool with that.
00:56:51.000You know, everything I do, like, everything in my life right now is just so that they could have a good life and, like, I don't know, it's so much deeper than profession and stuff, but I don't know how I would feel about that.
00:57:01.000I don't even have kids at all to know, like, am I going to be, I don't know.
00:57:06.000Yeah, so, I mean, if you had to say yes or no, like, would you, he comes to your mom, I want to marry this girl, you find out her past, what are you doing?
00:57:16.000I mean, at that point, once you're already coming to me about the girl, you already feel the type of way about her.
00:57:20.000Like, I'll just accept my kid, but at the same time...
00:58:08.000There's nothing wrong with, you know, people have said before, like, hey, do as I say, not as I do.
00:58:12.000And sometimes you have to do stupid shit to make money and then you gotta, you know, tell the people that come after you, hey, you probably don't want to go down this road.
00:58:19.000So wouldn't it be kind of, I mean, obviously as you get older, you get some wisdom, etc.
00:58:23.000Would you want to tell your son, like, hey man, listen, mom did this, but you don't want to deal with a girl like this in the future.
00:58:28.000Or is it that you're kind of ego invested and you don't want to tell your son, hey, people like mommy aren't necessarily the best wives.
00:58:36.000That's the thing, like, I've seen both sides of this world.
00:58:40.000Like, I've seen some women who are in these industries and are, like, horrible people.
00:58:44.000And I've seen some women who are in these industries and are actually, like, way better women than some people who just had a typical 9-to-5 or even have degrees and got good jobs.
00:58:52.000So, I just feel like, in general, like, I don't know, you have to guide your kids to have that type of judgment because sometimes people have a good job and whatever, but they actually will lead you into making your life hell.
00:59:22.000Yeah, I was a lot of word salad I Think I would be okay with it you'd be okay with him getting with a girl like that Not every part that you said.
00:59:43.000What part would you not be okay with then?
00:59:45.000The body count, I don't think I'd have a problem with it.
00:59:48.000The stripped in the past, I don't think I'd have a problem with it.
00:59:51.000You mentioned something like if she did porn in the past, that might be like a lot.
00:59:57.000Okay, so you have an issue with her doing it on camera, not necessarily doing it behind closed doors.
01:00:02.000Well, just for the fact that my great kids, it's something that's always online, and they'll be able to see.
01:00:09.000But, again, if this is in this person's past, and if at the point that my son is telling me about this person, they're completely in love, this is who they choose, and this person makes them happy, my whole thing is going to be like, does she love you?
01:00:42.000So yes, of course, we always think about Mike and my son had a lady who did exactly what I was doing.
01:00:50.000Honestly, I would be accepting of it because how could I look at somebody else that's doing exactly what I'm doing and look at them in any negative way and down them or look at them bad?
01:01:00.000Another thing is that I do also do porn.
01:01:08.000At the end of the day, if my son were to try to get with somebody, first off, it's none of my business who his girl's body count is or any of that.
01:01:19.000At the end of the day, as my son, my son has a right to keep certain information to himself.
01:01:23.000If he gets a girl, wants to marry a girl, and she used to be a stripper, she used to be a porn star, I would just hope that when they're getting together that she's gone past that.
01:01:31.000In my personal experience, the reason why I do what I do is because I'm a single mom and I have to get it how I got to get it for me and my bills and my finances.
01:01:49.000Fucking January is their birthday, so I get slammed in the holiday.
01:01:53.000So at the end of the day, I'm going to be a stripper.
01:01:54.000I will show my ass if I got to put the food on the table.
01:01:57.000So I know that I will actually respect even more so, listen, I don't want my son to date anybody that doesn't have no money, that's not doing shit, sitting home, being a fat, lazy bitch.
01:02:23.000Would you prefer your son get with a girl that was a dancer and made her own money over a girl that was a virgin but grew up with her family?
01:02:42.000Yeah, but let's say there was an option between the two.
01:02:45.000Everything was equal between them besides their life experiences.
01:02:49.000Would you prefer him to get with the girl that comes from the dancing background or the girl that comes from the stable household?
01:02:56.000As far as looking out and what society teaches us that we want or should have, yes.
01:03:00.000Everybody wants to have a woman who's pure, clean, hasn't experienced that at the end of the day, hopefully.
01:03:06.000Anybody that I would get serious with would accept me and their mother would accept me in the same form for what I've done and know that I do what I do.
01:03:13.000It's about your son and being able to find a beautiful wife.
01:03:15.000So what do you think would be a better woman that has her own money that got it through that means or a girl that has no money but comes from a stable family?
01:04:10.000Yeah, to be honest, I feel like everyone makes their own decisions and you can't really judge people for what they do because they do what they do for whatever reason they have to.
01:05:55.000So at the end of the day, that is also what matters too.
01:05:57.000And I would hope that my son or my sons, because I've got two, I've got twin boys.
01:06:02.000So I would hope that one day when they get married or decide to get serious with a woman, and even if she was a stripper or if she did porn, that at the point in which they're getting married, that she's passed that or she used that to her advantage to get onto something else.
01:06:16.000For me, as a single mom, I would have never became a realtor if it wasn't for the fact that I was a stripper.
01:06:21.000No one else was paying that shit for me.
01:06:24.000Do you think a man, men in general, and I'll go around the table on this, do you think men would prefer a woman that has a career and money, but a body count or a girl that doesn't have a career but no body count?
01:06:36.000What do you think men prefer in general?
01:06:38.000If I line up 100 guys, would they prefer the girl that has a high body count, but a career in the past, or a girl with no money, but no body count?
01:06:46.000Probably the second one, because even like I said before, men like women that aren't really independent because they feel like they need one that...
01:09:08.000That says more than knowing the actual number.
01:09:10.000I go to trapeze so tell me then how do you keep track of that?
01:09:14.000So the question once again because we went there on a little bit of a tangent the question is do you think men would care more about the girl that has her career and money with the body count or a girl that has no money broke but has no body count which one do you think men would prefer?
01:13:01.000So the thing that women fail to realize is that that same gut feeling of feeling like you got duped or finessed or whatever, paying full price for a vehicle, that's how men look at marriage and relationships with women.
01:13:10.000Because men don't ask for much from women.
01:13:12.000All you have to do is bring some beauty, some cooperativeness, etc.
01:13:16.000And most importantly, not be a hoe, which I find funny because women are in control of that.
01:13:22.000Men are insecure on a woman's body count, but if you were to buy a brand new car, aka marriage, and that car was used, you would feel duped.
01:14:21.000A high body count doesn't disqualify a man from a relationship, but a high body count will definitely disqualify a woman from a relationship.
01:16:48.000So altogether, if you met a guy and he said, hey, I have a body count.
01:16:51.000If you met your dream guy and you didn't know what his body count was, and then for some strange reason, you guys are about to get married, you guys are on vacation somewhere, you know, magical, right?
01:17:02.000Like maybe fucking Turks and Caicos and shit.
01:17:04.000Y'all been together for 5-10 years and you guys were anniversary.
01:17:07.000And then you find out That he was doing porn and he fucked seven girls on set and you find out the day before and the day after he proposes to you, you're not calling off the wedding, dude.
01:17:44.000Girls aren't going to disqualify a dude from a relationship for having sex.
01:17:47.000And they've done studies on this where they've literally done it with chimpanzees, which are the closest human beings, by the way.
01:17:52.000When a male chimpanzee is by himself, the female chimpanzees don't give a fuck.
01:17:55.000When he has a female chimpanzee by him, the females are attracted.
01:17:58.000This has been proven throughout time that having women makes you more attractive and the ability to attract and have sex with a lot of women makes you attractive.
01:21:13.000Like, if a man has money, has everything going for him, you know, did everything right, like, he probably would aim for the girl that has a lower body count because he doesn't need her money.
01:21:24.000But, you know, a lot of partners pick a partner that's more ideal for them.
01:21:28.000So someone who maybe, like, needs more help in life will gravitate more towards a person that could help them more.
01:21:35.000Okay, so you're saying a more desirable man would opt for the girl with the lower body count.
01:21:43.000Okay, so you're saying the guy of lower status would prefer the girl that has the body count?
01:21:48.000Yeah, like, you need a partner that's gonna help you more in life.
01:21:51.000Sounds shockingly resembling to the car analogy.
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01:23:06.000And it's nice, thin profile, man, so it's not going to bulge out and be all weird and shit like that with all your stuff.
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01:23:35.000Girl, high body count, but a career and money, independent, or girl with no body count, with lower body count, but no money broke as a guy?
01:25:37.000Do you think a man that's more average, maybe 5'8", 30k, 40k per year, loses his mom, do you think he deserves a bad bitch or a couple of them?
01:27:55.000Do you think a man that's kind of dad bod, 30 years old, 30k per year, little with his mom, does he deserve a bad bitch or a couple of them?
01:28:03.000Well, who's to say that because he's living with mom that he's not doing other things on the side to make a better person himself?
01:28:09.000Just because somebody makes 30k and living at home with mom, his mom might be elderly and need some help.
01:28:13.000You don't know what the situation is, but that's why you find out.
01:28:16.000Then that's when it makes a difference.
01:31:24.000Yeah, so, you know, a marriage is a committed relationship.
01:31:28.000If you're a hoe, you're a hoe, and you're always going to be a hoe.
01:31:31.000But like she said, if you want to change, if you're looking at yourself as a hoe because of whatever you're doing, like, for example, a lot of people want to call me a hoe because I do OnlyFans, I'm a stripper, but...
01:33:43.000But yes, if you're going to be a hoe, and if I continue to do what I do that makes me a hoe, then no, I wouldn't expect somebody to think, oh, I'm going to get married.
01:35:19.000So, I kind of agree with her in the sense of, like, it also depends on, like, why you're referring to them as a hoe.
01:35:25.000If they're a hoe because they just, like, have no control over their sexual desires and they're running around, like, You can't change that.
01:35:47.000I think there's a lot of women who end up in these industries for reasons that people don't realize and that there's a lot of solid women, but it's obviously not for everyone.
01:35:54.000But wouldn't it be fair to say that you made that conscious decision to get into that industry and you could have done something else?
01:37:01.000I just found it interesting because you said earlier, well, you know, yeah, if she has a bunch of sex and stuff, like, no, because she's choosing to do that.
01:37:08.000But on the same side, the profession, they're choosing to do that, too.
01:37:30.000It's a lack of temperance on both ends.
01:37:33.000Because one side, you're actually having sex, right?
01:37:36.000You're actually having sex and you chose to do that.
01:37:38.000Then on the other side, you may or may not be having sex, but it creates the optics that you could potentially be doing it.
01:37:46.000So either way, you're lacking the ability to exercise some kind of temperance to understand that, okay, well, this is going to be viewed negatively no matter how I do it.
01:38:34.000So therefore, they no longer get the privilege, which it is a privilege, of getting given the benefit of the doubt.
01:38:40.000I mean, overall, I would agree, but, like, there's so many exceptions to it that it's, like, hard to just be, like, no, you can't wipe a hoe.
01:38:49.000Like, I know some girls who are, like, you know, they're good people or have good jobs or, you know, are not hosed by definition or don't pursue, like, The sex industry in any shape or form.
01:39:00.000And if they have a verified person in their DM messaging, they're hopping on to whatever.
01:39:22.000Yeah, but realistically speaking, how many girls would give me a chance if I actually wore heels on Saturdays and expected to have one and take me seriously?
01:39:28.000I understand the stereotype, and I agree with it.
01:39:30.000I agree with the stereotype, and there's a right for there to be a stereotype, but I can't say that overall you can't ever wife a hoe because there's a lot of good hoes out there.
01:40:03.000No, not marrying them, but like, I don't know.
01:40:06.000I think I've just been exposed to so many different people from so many different walks of life, and I actually feel like a lot of women who are in the sex industry are like really good women behind the scenes.
01:40:15.000There's a lot of them who are not, and they're, like, trouble, and they're, you know, but I've met a lot of people who've had normal careers or normal lifestyles who are actually, like, really scary behind the scenes.
01:40:25.000But you're aware of the fact that, like, when a woman dates a man, she's gonna put on a different, like, image and behave differently around a man.
01:40:33.000I watch behind the scenes, and that's why I vouched that.
01:40:35.000So, by your own accord, they lie, and they do this stuff, so wouldn't it behoove the man to be even more selective and careful of who he deals with?
01:40:42.000Yeah, and I totally get that, but Again, I'm just talking from behind the scenes of what really goes on.
01:40:47.000A lot of men are women who are doing them dirty behind their back, but then they're overlooking the woman who's the hoe who actually would have been the best choice for them.
01:41:48.000But if initially if someone comes to you and be like, oh, she's a hoe, the first thing you're going to think of is an individual that fucks a lot of men.
01:41:54.000You're not going to think like, oh, well, maybe she's a hoe, but she's a good woman.
01:42:20.000Like, someone can just come back to your life and, like, create a big mess.
01:42:25.000Or, like, your husband can talk about it the whole time.
01:42:28.000Or you can, like, one time just, like, just talk with someone else, like, again.
01:42:32.000And, like, I really feel like the past is always coming after you even if you want to change.
01:42:39.000Like, even if it's not about you, it's going to be about the people you used to be surrounded by.
01:42:43.000So, like, and I feel like your kids can find something, like, something really disgusting on social media or someone can talk about what she did and, like, what are you going to say?
01:43:21.000But we're just saying the likelihood is way higher because they have a pass of dealing with guys and she might be with you right now, but it may not be her first pick.
01:43:28.000It would have been the last pick, you know?
01:43:30.000And it's like, I'm not saying that a hoe does not deserve, like, in a sense of, but the thing is, like, no one is going to get into the technicals of, oh, if she's a hoe, she's a good woman, she deserves to get married.
01:43:42.000Like, I'm not, like, I don't want to offend nobody at the table that had a different opinion than me, but that's just the reality of it.
01:44:39.000Oh, probably the one that got it given to all of them because they don't, like, know how to work for it.
01:44:46.000So wouldn't it be fair to say that it's kind of weird how you're saying that the bum doesn't deserve bad bitches, but he has to work to get there versus the girl gets her value up front and she just decides to be a hoe and lose it?
01:44:59.000Because that's, once again, a title thing.
01:45:01.000We know you're a bum if you clearly don't have no bread.
01:45:05.000Yeah, but the point I'm trying to make is that he's got to work to get his value versus the girl who's giving her value up front and tarnishes it.
01:45:17.000Yeah, because I feel like it's about beauty and stuff with women and intelligence too, but with men, you better bring something to the table like bread.
01:47:13.000So, I just find it interesting how, see, most of y'all have no issue with a bum not getting no bad bitches, but when I say, alright, well, let's flip it, does a hoe deserve her dream man?
01:49:03.000Tell me, from your experience or your opinion, something you can say to turn a guy off or an action like a girl's trip or maybe going to a party.
01:49:14.000For example, one thing you can say to turn him off and one thing you can do to turn him off.
01:50:30.000I didn't understand the question, so I need you to like...
01:50:33.000So, one thing you can say or do to turn a guy off.
01:50:42.000I would say like to talk about something like we already talked like I'm like I would say like I'm the one like right I'm gonna give an example like I'm gonna say oh talk about like your last relationship and the guy is gonna talk about it and two days after I'm gonna say hey Talk about your last relationship again.
01:52:44.000So it's apparent to me that women don't know what turns men off wholeheartedly, and they do stuff without knowing that they turn the guy off.
01:52:51.000I just find it funny because most girls can't answer the question because they don't know how to turn guys off, but it happens all the time.
01:53:12.000You guys want to act like hoes without being held accountable for it.
01:53:16.000And my thing is, is like, listen, man, you could do whatever you want.
01:53:19.000Like, you can do OnlyFans, you can be a stripper, you can show your ass to other random guys, you can do all that, but you can't get mad when men don't take you seriously.
01:53:27.000And that's what happens a lot of times with girls that are involved in any type of sex work.
01:53:30.000Like, you might get a guy DMing you, you might get people willing to fly you out, whatever, and I always say, and you might make a lot of money, but fast money typically comes with slow problems.
01:53:39.000And the other thing, too, I wanted to say, which is why I asked you guys if you found out a girl had a hundred body count, would you allow your son to marry?
01:53:44.000And all of you guys were saying, yeah, I mean, well, some of you said no, some of you said yeah, but most of you said yeah.
01:53:50.000They've done studies and they've found that once a girl has sex with six partners or more, her ability to be in a marriage or a long-term relationship drops off significantly.
01:58:07.000And, you know, non-surprisingly, women that have the highest retention rates in marriage typically are virgins and or only had one sexual partner.
01:59:02.000So if a woman derives more pleasure from children and a family, does it really matter having that FOMO with, you know, career and everything else like that when that's going to typically lead you to being more depressed?
01:59:17.000There's more women now on antidepressants than ever before.
01:59:19.000As women have become more and more liberated and earned more and more money and become more free than they've ever been, the prescriptions for antidepressants and anti-anxiety have gone up alongside it.
02:00:35.000I'm a lover, and there's a lot of reasons why I give a lot of love to everybody.
02:00:38.000You do realize that single mother households is one of the biggest precipitators of someone being a criminal, a degenerate, a rapist, a violent felon, etc., drug addict, alcoholic.
02:01:21.000So, anyway, going back to what I was saying.
02:01:25.000So, knowing that, like, women typically derive more pleasure from family and children, I mean, wouldn't it be better to just...
02:01:30.000Get with a guy, even if he, you know, you have a lower body count, you don't know what's out there, but wouldn't it be in your best interest for overall long-term happiness?
02:01:37.000Well, I didn't, like, we didn't break up because of that.
02:01:42.000We broke up because he was treating me like shit.
02:01:45.000So I decided to go elsewhere, and then I found that out.
02:04:03.000Jamal Adam goes, ladies, can you give one lesson your father gave you and one lesson your mother gave you in dealing with guys, relationship-wise?
02:04:19.000The Kashmir thinker goes, Myra, y'all should discuss Derek Jackson file for divorce, a viral pic of his wife, fully clothed in a pool, and him with another chick with less clothes on and see what the women say.
02:04:30.000I mean, bro, Derek Jackson's the biggest capper ever, man.
02:04:33.000I've always said that men are only faithful as their options.
02:11:56.000You know, you could tell when a girl's never been told to shut up before, when they just keep talking after you tell them, like, what the fuck?
02:12:01.000This is probably one of the few times where she's been told, yo, you talk too much, stop.
02:15:18.000Massiem goes, always hilarious seeing the looks on these women's old and ran through faces when you tell them men prefer women that are young and haven't been ran through.
02:15:25.000Yeah, that girl has definitely been through it.
02:20:01.000I'm going to have all of you close your eyes.
02:20:03.000You're going to throw up your number with your hands.
02:20:04.000That way you don't feel judged or you don't feel some kind of weird pressure that you have to give a crazy number based on what another girl said.
02:20:10.000That way you can be completely independent on what you say.
02:22:45.000For me, yes, but what other opinion is of me doesn't matter.
02:22:50.000Okay, what if I walked around and said, I'm a billionaire and I deserve bad bitches, but I lived at home with my mom and I was 5'6 and fat.
02:22:55.000If that's what you feel you deserve, then by all means.
02:22:58.000But wouldn't I be delusional to give myself a score?
02:23:33.000But with girls, it's like, oh, well, I feel like I'm this number because I feel like even though reality might not necessarily dictate that.
02:23:40.000We're held to standards of being in actual reality, women or not.
02:23:44.000Because you gave yourself a very high rating.
02:26:30.000Because if I took a guy that likes big women, I gave him a blue check on Instagram, $3 million, a couple sports cars, he'll be fucking models the next day, and he would never go back to fucking fat girls.
02:28:54.000It proves the point that women will arbitrarily give themselves a value significantly higher than where they really stand, because they feel that way, but how they feel versus what's real are two different things.
02:36:11.000I love doing this exercise because it literally proves that women are delusional, bro.
02:36:16.000No offense, ladies, but all of you guys gave far-fetched answers that don't necessarily reflect reality.
02:36:21.000If y'all were as high as you guys, the only girl that gave an accurate, real assessment is her.
02:36:25.000That was fairly humble to some degree of reality, but if any of y'all were 8s, 9s, and 10s, like you guys said, you would be flying around on boats with multi-millionaires, billionaires, you'd know some famous people, you'd be on a red carpet somewhere with some athlete, like, bruh.
02:39:56.000Yo, this exercise proves so much about female nature.
02:39:59.000I don't know if you guys know this, but we've been kind of playing a game here, and you guys have just been consistently proving our stereotypes about women correct every single time, time and again.
02:40:08.000I'm not going to switch anything that I said to her.
02:41:08.000Then I come back later on and bring up, hey, well you said this earlier.
02:41:12.000And you also asked me what would I improve on myself and I said nothing because at the end of the day I said I stand on me being a 10 out of 10.
02:42:38.000This has been a very uncomfortable conversation for a lot of y'all because most of you guys have probably not heard the truth from a man before.
02:42:44.000And we're telling y'all this is what it is.
02:46:36.000I mean, what I would rate, I mean, I'm not going to go ahead and give my personal rating, but objectively speaking, if any y'all were a nine at the table, you guys would be on the cover of a magazine somewhere.
02:52:39.000Although what woman calls herself an elephant and also raises herself nice, she found a loophole in the question to be stupid, she's so stupid.
02:54:03.000I do, but like I'm not gonna I feel like it gives me an indication of who you are, but I'm not gonna base your whole being off of your zodiac sign.
02:58:22.000So, these women, these multiple women that you're with, do you feel like in the status that you're in, do you feel like all those women would still entertain you?
02:58:30.000Like, strip away the money, strip away what you do for a living, strip away the lifestyle that you may have.
02:58:34.000Do you feel like those women would still involve themselves with you?
02:58:37.000Whether it be individually or just all those multiple women all at once.
02:58:41.000Like, just strip away the lifestyle, strip away how much you make.
02:58:44.000Do you feel like those women will still involve themselves with you?
02:58:47.000See, the difference between me and you is I'm not delusional.
02:58:49.000That's not the question that I asked you.
02:59:52.000What you said is very valid, what you said.
02:59:55.000But it's just the way he delivers it that people may think like, oh my God, he's an asshole.
02:59:59.000Which is why I said like your chaos and I feel like your chaos makes a podcast because you ask the questions that technically people don't want to answer.
03:00:13.000At the end of the day, we're all emotional human beings.
03:00:16.000So the way that you deliver it, whether someone agrees, that will take within themselves whether to oppose whether or not they agree with you just because we're emotional.
03:00:36.000The person that is taking on the emotion that's being emotional.
03:00:38.000So, if a fact is stated, it doesn't matter who said it or how they said it, it was stated.
03:00:43.000It was very true, but like I said, there are people that are emotional, the people that do call you an asshole just based on your delivery, but that doesn't take away from the fact that the things that you say are straight facts.
03:00:52.000Alright, so, because you asked if I'm in a relationship and I find that very interesting.
03:00:57.000What if I were to ask you, would it make sense for me to ask you, are you going out and having sex with guys?
03:01:06.000Am I going out and having sex with guys?
03:01:36.000So, when a girl asks me, are you in a relationship, it's always funny because they're trying to be like, oh, well, do you even qualify to be giving advice?
03:01:43.000And the reality is that girls want the relationship.
03:01:46.000I'm the one that gives out the relationship.
03:01:48.000Just like you're the one that gives out sex.
03:03:41.000In that sense of me asking why you would be in a relationship.
03:03:45.000Not the sense of you're disqualifying your advice, but You know, based on your response to the conversation, I would think like, damn, he really found this unicorn that he's looking for based on how I took your responses is what I would say.
03:13:12.000See, so since you don't know what actually defines a higher status guy, it's income, the ability to influence others, being respected by your peers, right?
03:13:22.000Having people respecting you in general, being in shape, these are all things that come into it.
03:13:27.000Being a man is a multivaried analysis.
03:14:40.000If a guy has to say what he is, he's probably not that.
03:14:43.000You should just know about how they move.
03:14:44.000For example, you came here for a clout, which means, for example, on some level, people look up to us to see either guidance or value or maybe for entertainment.
03:14:54.000The point is that you're here for a reason.
03:14:56.000And I know you don't like the show like that.
03:19:12.000See, once again, you've seen, from your experience, but generally speaking, most women that date guys that are broke break up and say, you know what?
03:19:20.000Look at the people who live in Broward.
03:21:06.000Well, a lot of guys fall in love with women, and those are the guys that end up killing their wives because they find out they cheat on them.
03:21:10.000They're the guys that become obsessive.
03:21:12.000Those are the guys that stalk their girl, etc.
03:21:14.000You don't think that's infatuation and not love?
03:22:34.000So you don't even necessarily know where you stand in the dating marketplace.
03:22:38.000How am I going to come and give you very real-world problems and tell you, yo, this is what I'm going through, and expect you to be able to actually handle them?
03:23:21.000You might get curbed down the road when he finds out what the hell you used to do, but the point is that women don't deal with consequences for their actions often.
03:23:27.000So, what the hell do I look like going to someone that doesn't deal with consequences?
03:24:38.000When women are put in masculine roles or they got to be the breadwinner, they got to be the leader or whatever, they become terrible people.
03:24:44.000They become obnoxious, annoying, crass, loud, masculine.
03:25:54.000The same way money is to guys and beauty is to women, emotions could be the thing that's harder for you, but to us, something in trusting y'all would be not cheating on us.
03:26:07.000I don't really see the connection here.
03:29:28.000Well, the difference is that we actually had to work and build this platform up and give value on the podcast to be able to grow the audience.
03:32:33.000Just like a multi-millionaire, high-value guy, she's trying to say, thinking that there's going to be one chick that doesn't work that way.
03:32:41.000The higher you go up the totem pole, the less leverage you have.
03:32:44.000You want to be a successful guy that makes money?
03:33:07.000Yeah, y'all been contradicting yourselves a lot.
03:33:11.000Married in the future, when girls ask about your relationship, you should say no first and then trap them so they can't bail themselves out like the black girl on All Black just did.
03:35:28.000Another thing, what I wanted to ask when we were asking the questions is if you were to ask the man, what can he provide to a woman other than financial security?
03:35:41.000In society, men are looked as leaders and providers and stuff like that.
03:35:46.000Outside of being a financial provider, what else can you provide?
03:35:49.000Let's say if you were in a committed relationship with one individual, what can you tailor to them outside of being a provider?
03:35:56.000What else are you You know, offering them.
03:40:42.000group of high-value women because y'all just find randomized girls off Instagram or they find you vice versa and then it's like these guys just roast the fuck out of them because it's just like they think that these are all women and it's like this is just a small group of women who live in Miami so I feel like y'all should definitely they're not from Miami neither is she Okay,
03:41:07.000a group of women who live in Miami or are currently in Miami.
03:44:51.000No, I'm just saying, like, You didn't know the definition of massaging.
03:44:55.000Then you said bring on girls of different walks, which we do.
03:44:57.000We have a bunch of different girls here from different walks of life doing different things, different education levels, etc.
03:45:02.000It's just that what I've come to realize is that regardless of a woman's education level or skill set or background, a lot of women tend to think fairly similar.
03:45:11.000The hardware might be different, but the software is almost always the same.
03:46:46.000I'm using opinions because I want to keep, like...
03:46:56.000So we're telling you an objective fact in general and you refuse to accept and you still want to wish for something that is rare to find and or probably doesn't exist.
03:47:08.000So, no, I'm accepting what you're saying.
03:47:36.000No, it's funny because what if I told you, yo, you got a 90% chance of this parachute not deploying, but you should jump out this plane anyway.
03:49:07.000Honestly, because I feel like this podcast really highlights, like, honestly, it really does highlight the differences, like you said, between men and women.
03:49:21.000Girls get mad, like, y'all are misogynistic, whatever, because you're not the first girl to say that.
03:49:24.000And we have a tendency of justifying ourselves.
03:49:27.000And the thing is, like, yeah, and it's funny because the more you justify yourself, The more you contradict yourself.
03:49:33.000So it's like, girls get mad and be like, y'all are massages, whatever, but it's like, bro, all we did was ask y'all questions and then you guys made yourselves look bad.