Fresh & Fit - Fake Lawyer Walks Off Pod After Being EXPOSED!

00:00:00.000 Guys, welcome to the Fresh Effect Podcast after our edition.

00:00:01.000 We're joining a bunch of lovely ladies. 1.00

00:00:03.000 Let's get into it.

00:00:03.000 I'm independent.

00:00:04.000 I don't need no woman. 1.00

00:00:22.000 Nobody cares, bro. 0.63

00:00:25.000 Get out.

00:00:36.000 Put your shoes on outside. 1.00

00:00:36.000 F*** out. 1.00

00:00:37.000 You don't got to put them on in here. 0.99

00:00:55.000 And we're back.

00:00:56.000 We're back, guys.

00:00:57.000 Welcome to the Freshier Podcast.

00:00:57.000 What's up?

00:00:58.000 After our edition, we're joined with a bunch of lovely ladies. 1.00

00:01:00.000 I don't know what that was by Fresh earlier, but anyway, yeah.

00:01:04.000 I guess we'll just cut him along. 0.98

00:01:05.000 I'm a bad nigga. 0.96

00:01:07.000 Bro, we just started. 0.55

00:01:10.000 Sorry, sorry, sorry.

00:01:11.000 No, because that's the team, you know?

00:01:12.000 I'm independent.

00:01:13.000 You go, King.

00:01:15.000 You go, King.

00:01:16.000 Keep it clean, man.

00:01:17.000 We just got out of YouTube, Joe.

00:01:18.000 You are, you are, you are.

00:01:19.000 All right.

00:01:19.000 Anyway.

00:01:21.000 Guys, pretty much when we get into the show.

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00:01:26.000 We were in jail for two weeks, but now we're out.

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00:01:38.000 Let's get to 500k followers on there.

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00:01:47.000 And you got Big S on the way coming to the platform. 0.87

00:01:49.000 Who?

00:01:50.000 Big S on the way.

00:01:50.000 Wait, what?

00:01:51.000 When?

00:01:53.000 Come in soon, bro!

00:01:54.000 Can you tell me about it or something else?

00:01:55.000 Oh, okay, okay.

00:01:56.000 Wait, who?

00:01:58.000 Can't say, can't say.

00:01:59.000 You know what, I'll give you a hint. 0.98

00:02:00.000 He's as black as me. 0.99

00:02:02.000 Okay. 0.97

00:02:03.000 That's actually a pretty good tip. 0.98

00:02:05.000 There's not many people blacker than him. 0.97

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00:03:18.000 You know, we travel a lot for podcasts and for other events.

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00:03:50.000 Two Fed, one state.

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00:04:29.000 Yes.

00:04:30.000 And then, Chris?

00:04:31.000 Yes, girls, DM me to RNC Poxon on IG. Make sure your page is not private.

00:04:35.000 Once again, I'm going to say this once again.

00:04:37.000 Once again, we don't send you emails.

00:04:39.000 We don't pay out any girls on the panel, is what it is. 1.00

00:04:42.000 If you're not sure, ladies, send me a DM on RNC Poxon to come out to the show. 1.00

00:04:47.000 And once again, ladies, I don't know what the fuck we're doing in December. 0.98

00:04:50.000 Stop asking me to come out on the show December and next year. 1.00

00:04:52.000 Do not do that shit, okay? 1.00

00:04:54.000 If you want to fly into Miami... 1.00

00:04:54.000 Wait. 1.00

00:04:57.000 Do it in the month, okay?

00:04:58.000 So as simple as that, okay?

00:04:59.000 Yeah, Chris will ignore you if you hit him up.

00:05:01.000 Yeah, definitely.

00:05:02.000 Say, I want to come in two months.

00:05:04.000 Like, bro.

00:05:05.000 We don't know where we're going to be.

00:05:07.000 We're not even going to cancel, bro.

00:05:08.000 Who knows?

00:05:10.000 December 1st, are you free then?

00:05:12.000 I'm like, I don't know, man.

00:05:13.000 Why be canceled, assassinated, like in jail?

00:05:16.000 Like, who knows, bro?

00:05:17.000 Guys, y'all know.

00:05:18.000 We're pushing an envelope over here.

00:05:20.000 I'll still be independent.

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00:05:33.000 And we're going to start.

00:05:35.000 That is business.

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00:05:38.000 Welcome back.

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00:05:40.000 Oh, hi.

00:05:41.000 My name is Virginia.

00:05:42.000 I'm 18 years old.

00:05:44.000 What is it?

00:05:44.000 I'm sorry.

00:05:44.000 Virginia.

00:05:45.000 Virginia, okay.

00:05:46.000 Yeah, like the state.

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00:05:47.000 I just graduated high school, but I'm about to start.

00:05:52.000 18.

00:05:52.000 You're how old?

00:05:53.000 Where are you originally from?

00:05:54.000 I'm from here, but I moved around a lot.

00:05:56.000 Okay.

00:05:57.000 What did you do for work?

00:06:07.000 Hey! 0.99

00:06:22.000 Sister! 0.62

00:06:22.000 What is your current relationship status? 0.62

00:06:26.000 Single, relationship?

00:06:27.000 I'm single.

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00:06:30.000 What are you saying?

00:06:32.000 I'm sorry?

00:06:32.000 What are you saying?

00:06:33.000 I stay here in Hollywood.

00:06:35.000 My family's from here, but I had a family member up in North Carolina where I graduated from.

00:06:41.000 So a question, what do you do to OnlyFans?

00:06:45.000 I post content just of myself.

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00:06:51.000 I mean, just everything. 0.98

00:06:55.000 Like rituals and shit? 0.99

00:06:56.000 No. 0.99

00:07:07.000 What about you?

00:07:09.000 Don't do that.

00:07:12.000 What's your name?

00:07:13.000 Tia.

00:07:14.000 Okay.

00:07:14.000 How old are you, Tia?

00:07:15.000 I'm 21.

00:07:16.000 Bia.

00:07:16.000 Where are you from?

00:07:17.000 I'm from Jamaica, but I was raised here.

00:07:28.000 I came up when I was like six or seven.

00:07:31.000 Okay, but so, but where'd you, where'd you go to high school?

00:07:34.000 I went to high school Pembroke Pines Tarter.

00:07:36.000 All right, so you're from the Pines.

00:07:40.000 All right, cool.

00:07:41.000 Um, and then what, uh, what do you do for it?

00:07:44.000 I'm a server.

00:07:45.000 Okay.

00:07:46.000 And then, what is your highest education level completed?

00:07:49.000 I'm in school right now.

00:07:50.000 Okay.

00:07:51.000 Associates.

00:07:52.000 You have an associate's degree?

00:07:53.000 I'm getting it.

00:07:54.000 What are you going to get in?

00:07:54.000 Oh, you're getting it.

00:07:54.000 Okay.

00:07:56.000 Computer science.

00:07:57.000 Oh, nice.

00:07:57.000 Nice.

00:07:59.000 Probably the only girl in there. 0.97

00:08:00.000 Okay.

00:08:01.000 And then, what's your relationship status?

00:08:04.000 Single.

00:08:05.000 We can tell.

00:08:06.000 I need to mingle.

00:08:09.000 What about you?

00:08:11.000 I am Mikayla.

00:08:13.000 Okay.

00:08:13.000 I'm 24.

00:08:15.000 Okay.

00:08:16.000 And I'm from far away, which is Lithuania.

00:08:20.000 I'm from Europe.

00:08:21.000 I'm just visiting here.

00:08:22.000 Okay.

00:08:23.000 You went to high school and lived there your entire life?

00:08:26.000 Yeah, I live in Lithuania.

00:08:28.000 Okay.

00:08:30.000 So are you here on vacation?

00:08:32.000 Yeah, it's just a vacation.

00:08:34.000 Okay.

00:08:35.000 Wow.

00:08:35.000 That's super cool.

00:08:36.000 What do you do for work?

00:08:38.000 I am a student full-time.

00:08:40.000 I study medicine.

00:08:43.000 What's your highest education level completed?

00:08:47.000 What do you mean by that?

00:08:49.000 So in America, we have like, you know, you go for four years, you get a bachelor's degree, then you could pursue a master's, that's another one to two years, then you go to med school, then you can go to med school or pre-law.

00:08:57.000 No, it doesn't work like that.

00:08:58.000 In Lithuania, you finish high school, and then you have six years of medical school.

00:09:02.000 Okay, so you get your degree and then you just immediately go into medical school.

00:09:07.000 Okay, so you're in medical school right now.

00:09:13.000 And you're studying to be a doctor?

00:09:14.000 Yes.

00:09:18.000 Yeah, dermatologist.

00:09:19.000 So you're in med school.

00:09:20.000 So her highest completed is probably an equivalent of a bachelor's degree in the United States.

00:09:23.000 My highest?

00:09:24.000 No, I mean, it's like a PhD.

00:09:27.000 Well, no, I'm saying when you finish, but I'm saying completed.

00:09:29.000 The question is completed.

00:09:30.000 So you have your BA now, you're completed, and then you're pursuing your doctorate.

00:09:34.000 Yes.

00:09:35.000 All right.

00:09:36.000 And then what's your relationship status?

00:09:38.000 I'm single.

00:09:39.000 Okay.

00:09:39.000 She belongs to the streets.

00:09:42.000 I mean...

00:09:44.000 What kind of medicine are you going to pursue?

00:09:46.000 Dermatology.

00:09:47.000 Okay.

00:09:48.000 Mark it for that.

00:09:49.000 What's your lashes status?

00:09:51.000 My what?

00:09:52.000 Lashes status.

00:09:53.000 They're looking crazy.

00:09:54.000 What is that? 0.99

00:09:54.000 What the hell? 0.99

00:09:55.000 Lashes. 0.94

00:09:56.000 My lashes status?

00:09:57.000 Yeah, eyelashes.

00:10:12.000 What about you?

00:10:14.000 What's your name?

00:10:14.000 I go by Pecan.

00:10:15.000 My real name is Tisha.

00:10:17.000 They call me Pecan.

00:10:18.000 Hey y'all!

00:10:22.000 I'm 23, turning 24, September 15th. 1.00

00:10:25.000 Okay, talk your shit. 1.00

00:10:26.000 I'm an artist. 1.00

00:10:28.000 Where are you originally from?

00:10:30.000 I'm from Nassau, Bahamas, but I was raised in Fort Lauderdale.

00:10:34.000 Okay, so you're a Bahamian, but you were raised in...

00:10:36.000 Okay.

00:10:37.000 Yeah.

00:10:37.000 I went to school in Bahamas for a little bit, but no.

00:10:40.000 Okay.

00:10:42.000 And then, sorry, you're saying you're a musician?

00:10:45.000 No.

00:10:46.000 What do you do for work?

00:10:48.000 I'm a tattoo artist and I paint canvases.

00:10:51.000 That's why I said I'm an artist.

00:10:52.000 Oh, okay.

00:10:53.000 When she said artist, I automatically...

00:10:54.000 I thought music artist.

00:10:55.000 No, a little bit for fun, but...

00:10:58.000 But your real profession is you're a tattoo artist.

00:10:58.000 Okay.

00:11:00.000 All right.

00:11:01.000 And then what's your highest education level completed?

00:11:03.000 High school.

00:11:04.000 Okay.

00:11:05.000 And then what's your relationship status?

00:11:07.000 Married.

00:11:08.000 How long have y'all been married?

00:11:08.000 Cool.

00:11:10.000 Well, one year.

00:11:11.000 We've been together for two years.

00:11:14.000 Is he Bahamian too?

00:11:15.000 He's Jamaican.

00:11:24.000 Tell the people where you got all this energy from all of a sudden.

00:11:26.000 Listen, man.

00:11:27.000 I came up today with some Gorilla Mine.

00:11:30.000 Listen, let me tell you this, Brian.

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00:11:33.000 I was out of it.

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00:11:36.000 Use the code FRESH when you check out, guys.

00:11:39.000 And more importantly, I'm independent.

00:11:41.000 You go, King!

00:11:43.000 Yes, sir!

00:11:44.000 You put on the table, bro.

00:11:48.000 Shout out to Derek for more plates, more dates.

00:11:50.000 Let's go!

00:11:51.000 Okay, what about you?

00:11:53.000 Welcome back.

00:11:55.000 Oh, yes.

00:11:55.000 My name is Alondra.

00:11:57.000 I'm 23.

00:11:59.000 I am in a relationship.

00:12:01.000 Where are you originally from?

00:12:02.000 I am from Puerto Rico originally, but I'm local.

00:12:05.000 Okay.

00:12:05.000 You went to high school in Puerto Rico or here?

00:12:07.000 In Orlando.

00:12:09.000 Orlando might as well be Puerto Rico too.

00:12:11.000 Yeah.

00:12:11.000 Might as well.

00:12:12.000 Yeah.

00:12:13.000 I know.

00:12:13.000 I just unlocked the memory in your mind.

00:12:15.000 So how's it going with your guy now?

00:12:18.000 It's going great.

00:12:19.000 I'll be relocating to Orlando in a couple months.

00:12:22.000 We love that for you, girl.

00:12:23.000 I'm confused.

00:12:25.000 Remember, she was on a show before.

00:12:26.000 And her... 1.00

00:12:26.000 She was on here. 1.00

00:12:28.000 You made more than him, right?

00:12:30.000 No, no, no.

00:12:30.000 Or was it...

00:12:31.000 You were more dominant than him.

00:12:33.000 Yes, at some point.

00:12:34.000 And then we broke up for a little bit.

00:12:36.000 We got back.

00:12:37.000 He started listening to the podcast.

00:12:40.000 And we started applying some of the things that he learned on the podcast.

00:12:44.000 And then we got back together and it's been great ever since.

00:12:49.000 For himself.

00:12:51.000 And it benefited us.

00:12:53.000 And so, here we are.

00:12:56.000 As you guys know, I've been more active on my Instagram.

00:13:00.000 I've been posting reels.

00:13:01.000 And one of the clips that I posted was like, you don't become high value for a girl.

00:13:03.000 You do it for yourself.

00:13:04.000 A woman benefits as a byproduct of you becoming better. 1.00

00:13:07.000 I'm really happy to hear that.

00:13:07.000 So, awesome.

00:13:09.000 What do you do for work?

00:13:11.000 I work in sales.

00:13:12.000 Okay, sales.

00:13:13.000 Okay.

00:13:13.000 What's your highest education level completed?

00:13:15.000 High school.

00:13:16.000 Cool.

00:13:16.000 And then you said you're in a relationship.

00:13:17.000 How long have y'all been together now?

00:13:19.000 Five years.

00:13:20.000 Cumulatively?

00:13:20.000 Off and on.

00:13:21.000 Yeah.

00:13:21.000 He better put a ring on that.

00:13:26.000 But that's really great.

00:13:33.000 Hearing those stories actually is really inspiring.

00:13:36.000 What about you?

00:13:36.000 What's your name?

00:13:41.000 Alright, so my name's Leigh-Anne.

00:13:44.000 I'm Haitian.

00:13:49.000 Yo, how old are you?

00:13:55.000 I'm 22.

00:13:56.000 I don't know why, bro.

00:13:57.000 I was in Jamaica, right?

00:13:59.000 And people were like, yo, where are you from?

00:14:00.000 Are you from Haiti?

00:14:01.000 I'm like, no!

00:14:02.000 Stop saying that!

00:14:04.000 Don't look Haitian! 1.00

00:14:19.000 Where are you originally from?

00:14:22.000 Well, I'm Haitian, but I was raised in Broward, sorry.

00:14:28.000 What part of Broward are you from?

00:14:34.000 Are y'all, I'm assuming y'all two are friends?

00:14:36.000 Yeah.

00:14:38.000 For the audience that might not be familiar with Florida geography, that's like 30-40 minutes.

00:14:42.000 Yeah.

00:14:44.000 I used to live there when I first came to America.

00:14:46.000 Yeah.

00:14:47.000 I was actually in Towngate.

00:14:50.000 Where are you from?

00:14:51.000 Barbados.

00:14:51.000 Barbados, okay.

00:14:53.000 Big man.

00:14:56.000 Fun fact, all the federal agencies, they all live in Pembroke Pines.

00:15:01.000 Hell yeah, they do.

00:15:02.000 When I was on the job, most of them all had a house in Pembroke Pines.

00:15:05.000 Better school system, Broward County in general.

00:15:08.000 Clean.

00:15:09.000 More family-oriented.

00:15:10.000 I taught there.

00:15:11.000 FBI, HSI, DEA, they all have houses there.

00:15:15.000 So you're from the Pines.

00:15:20.000 What's your highest education level completed?

00:15:23.000 Sorry, what do you do for work?

00:15:24.000 I'm a cashier, my highest education, I have an AA, and I'm studying to be a medical lab technician.

00:15:24.000 My bad.

00:15:31.000 Okay, so you're pursuing your AA and being a medical technician?

00:15:35.000 Well, I already have my AA. I just have like two more years to go.

00:15:38.000 Okay, for your bachelor's?

00:15:40.000 But you have your AA and doing what?

00:15:40.000 Yes.

00:15:42.000 Med technician, you said?

00:15:43.000 Big up!

00:15:44.000 In medical lab.

00:15:46.000 Okay, like what kind, like are we talking like philobotomy?

00:15:49.000 What specifically?

00:15:50.000 No, like, the people who just basically control, like, blood work and all of that. 0.89

00:15:55.000 Like, the tests and shit. 0.60

00:15:56.000 Sorry. 0.99

00:15:56.000 That's a phlobotomist. 0.99

00:15:57.000 Yeah, phlobotomist, yeah.

00:15:58.000 Okay, so you drop people's blood and stuff.

00:16:01.000 Yeah.

00:16:01.000 Okay, alright, so you're a phlobotomist.

00:16:03.000 What's your relationship status?

00:16:03.000 Alright.

00:16:06.000 I'm single.

00:16:07.000 Alright.

00:16:08.000 And body count?

00:16:09.000 Okay.

00:16:10.000 Ain't nobody outside that question.

00:16:12.000 What's going on?

00:16:13.000 What's going on?

00:16:13.000 Too far, Chris.

00:16:15.000 Too far.

00:16:16.000 What about you?

00:16:16.000 Too far.

00:16:19.000 Last but not least.

00:16:20.000 My name is Lexi, also known as the Biggest Flexer, because I stay flexing on sh-period.

00:16:26.000 Okay, Lexi.

00:16:27.000 Wait, why should I look out fresh like that? 0.95

00:16:32.000 You can't see me, I'm too black, man. 0.88

00:16:37.000 I'm an independent.

00:16:39.000 How old are you?

00:16:40.000 I'm 23.

00:16:42.000 Alright, where are you from?

00:16:44.000 from north carolina bull city shout out to y'all okay period bull city it's called yeah because we run over new okay what's your profession so um right now i'm studying to go to law school but So you're a full-time student?

00:17:08.000 No, I already graduated.

00:17:10.000 I have a Bachelor of Science in Criminal Justice, and I work at the Miami-Dade State Attorney's Office.

00:17:14.000 Period.

00:17:15.000 Period.

00:17:16.000 B.A. and C.J. All right, where'd you get that from?

00:17:19.000 Florida International.

00:17:20.000 Shout out to y'all and family alumni!

00:17:24.000 And then you said you work at the State Attorney's Office.

00:17:28.000 Uh, uh, uh.

00:17:29.000 Yeah, you said prosecutor.

00:17:30.000 No, I'm a defendant attorney.

00:17:32.000 Period.

00:17:34.000 Get that right, baby boy.

00:17:37.000 Let's clarify this real quick.

00:17:39.000 This is, don't forget where you're at.

00:17:42.000 You're on my podcast as a guest.

00:17:44.000 You're not going to speak to me like that.

00:17:45.000 Oh, I'm sorry.

00:17:46.000 My apologies.

00:17:48.000 So, because normally when you say a state attorney, they're going to assume prosecutor.

00:17:52.000 So you work for a public defender's office?

00:17:54.000 Public defendant's office?

00:17:55.000 Yes.

00:17:56.000 Okay.

00:17:57.000 Because the state attorney would be the state attorney, which would be the prosecutor nine out of ten times.

00:18:00.000 Because the state is the person that prosecutes.

00:18:03.000 Period.

00:18:04.000 Poo.

00:18:06.000 Okay, y'all.

00:18:07.000 So you work for a public defender's office?

00:18:14.000 Look, I don't even know.

00:18:14.000 Um...

00:18:19.000 Stupid. 1.00

00:18:21.000 You don't know where you work? 1.00

00:18:23.000 No, I work at a state attorney's office, but I don't know if it's prosecutors or defense attorneys.

00:18:31.000 Okay, when you go to court, what side are you sitting on?

00:18:34.000 Are you sitting with the defendant?

00:18:35.000 I don't work in the courthouse.

00:18:37.000 I work in the attorney's office as a victim witness coordinator.

00:18:43.000 Okay, so you set up the interviews with the witnesses that are victims?

00:18:47.000 Yes, yes.

00:18:49.000 So different.

00:18:50.000 That sounds more like prosecution.

00:18:52.000 Prosecuting?

00:18:53.000 Yeah, because if it's a witness, most of the time, the burden of performance is on the state to prove the person guilty.

00:18:53.000 Okay.

00:18:59.000 They're the ones that have to bring the witnesses.

00:19:00.000 Yeah, you're right.

00:19:01.000 So therefore, more than likely you work for the state.

00:19:03.000 Yeah, you're right.

00:19:04.000 From the prosecution side.

00:19:05.000 I don't support them people. 0.98

00:19:06.000 Get it right, nigga. 1.00

00:19:07.000 I don't support them people. 0.99

00:19:09.000 LAUGHTER Period.

00:19:17.000 That's the independent for me.

00:19:18.000 I'm sorry.

00:19:19.000 I don't really know what to say right now.

00:19:21.000 I'm just like, I'm so...

00:19:23.000 Yo, listen, man. 1.00

00:19:26.000 Can't make this shit up. 0.99

00:19:27.000 Yeah, because if you're coordinating with witnesses who are victims, there's a high likelihood you're probably on the prosecution side. 0.99

00:19:34.000 You know, I never knew this, y'all.

00:19:37.000 I never knew that until you mentioned it.

00:19:40.000 That's crazy.

00:19:41.000 I literally thought I was working for defense attorneys. 0.99

00:19:44.000 But now that you say that, I'm like, damn. 1.00

00:19:47.000 Damn. 1.00

00:19:48.000 Get it together, girl. 1.00

00:19:49.000 Get it together, girl.

00:19:51.000 Okay, stop playing.

00:19:53.000 The way the legal system normally works is the person's presumed innocent until proven guilty in a court of law.

00:19:58.000 Correct.

00:19:58.000 And the burden of performance is on the prosecution to prove the person is guilty.

00:20:02.000 The defense doesn't have to produce any witnesses.

00:20:03.000 They just have to sit there and defend.

00:20:05.000 So since you're dealing with witnesses who are victims, the high likelihood is probably the prosecution that you're working for.

00:20:10.000 And he would know.

00:20:11.000 And then he says state attorney's office, which automatically said, okay, it's a state attorney, which means it's a...

00:20:15.000 Well, maybe we should hire you, Myra. 0.99

00:20:18.000 I'm not a lawyer.

00:20:19.000 I did the opposite side.

00:20:21.000 So, okay.

00:20:22.000 So I'll just put stated.

00:20:23.000 So you're probably like a paralegal.

00:20:23.000 Okay.

00:20:26.000 No, I'm a victim witness coordinator.

00:20:29.000 Oh, victim witness coordinator.

00:20:30.000 Yeah.

00:20:30.000 Okay.

00:20:31.000 So that's your official title.

00:20:32.000 Yeah.

00:20:33.000 Okay.

00:20:34.000 And then you said you have a B.A. and C.J.A. from FIU. No, a B.S. Bachelor's of Science.

00:20:39.000 Oh, I thought it was bullshit. 1.00

00:20:41.000 Me too. 1.00

00:20:42.000 Me too. 1.00

00:20:44.000 Sounds like bullshit. 0.99

00:20:46.000 Okay, so say victim coordinator and then what's your relationship status? 1.00

00:20:53.000 Single, but I got a husband.

00:20:56.000 It's complicated.

00:20:56.000 Wait, what?

00:20:57.000 It's complicated! 0.99

00:21:00.000 So a situation shit. 1.00

00:21:01.000 Yeah, a situation shit. 1.00

00:21:03.000 I'm gonna smack a bitch about mine. 1.00

00:21:05.000 Does he also work in law? 1.00

00:21:08.000 No, he's a YouTuber.

00:21:11.000 Wait a minute.

00:21:13.000 What's your name again?

00:21:16.000 Lexi.

00:21:18.000 You don't know me, love.

00:21:19.000 You don't know me.

00:21:21.000 You ever been in one of those videos or no?

00:21:24.000 No.

00:21:29.000 I'll be right back.

00:21:33.000 Normally we ask this question whenever it grows into situationship.

00:21:39.000 Who is it that's reluctant to commit?

00:21:41.000 You or him?

00:21:44.000 I mean, ladies commit more than men.

00:21:48.000 Okay, so you want the commitment?

00:21:49.000 Yeah.

00:21:50.000 Okay, so he doesn't want to commit.

00:21:51.000 That's why it's a situation.

00:21:53.000 It's mutual.

00:21:55.000 No, it's not.

00:21:56.000 Okay, you have it.

00:22:01.000 We'll hit the chats.

00:22:05.000 We just went through the whole thing.

00:22:06.000 We talked about state attorney's offices, tattoos, med school in Lithuania.

00:22:14.000 Very interesting panel.

00:22:16.000 The first panel today.

00:22:18.000 Captain Times.

00:22:19.000 Captain Times.

00:22:20.000 Please always assume if a man don't respect women that he don't respect his mom.

00:22:23.000 A man could have a great mom and no respect for the women around them because they're no good and don't respect themselves. 1.00

00:22:28.000 True.

00:22:29.000 Oh, people always assume.

00:22:29.000 Okay, yeah, I see what you mean.

00:22:31.000 Machaka goes, shout out to Fresh's Balls. 1.00

00:22:34.000 He's a real G. What the? 0.78

00:22:36.000 Okay.

00:22:37.000 What the?

00:22:38.000 What the?

00:22:38.000 Ladies, what characteristics do you think you have to have for a strong relationship?

00:22:43.000 That's not bad.

00:22:45.000 Yeah, so...

00:22:47.000 Yeah, keep it simple.

00:22:48.000 So we'll start here and then work our way back.

00:22:49.000 Top two traits, characteristics you have to have for a strong relationship.

00:22:55.000 Or situationship.

00:22:55.000 Just name two.

00:22:57.000 I say communication.

00:22:59.000 A man loves a woman that can communicate. 0.91

00:22:59.000 Okay. 0.91

00:23:02.000 If you can communicate, you can keep your relationship together.

00:23:05.000 And that's just period.

00:23:06.000 Okay.

00:23:07.000 Comms and what else?

00:23:07.000 Is that what you do?

00:23:08.000 Hmm.

00:23:09.000 Because it's not together right now.

00:23:11.000 But, oh baby, but we're still going.

00:23:13.000 Okay.

00:23:14.000 Next one.

00:23:15.000 Alright, so communication, what else?

00:23:16.000 Period, Pooh.

00:23:17.000 What's the second one?

00:23:20.000 Hold on, next one.

00:23:22.000 It's two.

00:23:23.000 It's two.

00:23:27.000 What's the next one?

00:23:29.000 Trust.

00:23:30.000 Okay.

00:23:31.000 So communication and trust.

00:23:33.000 Alright.

00:23:34.000 What about you?

00:23:36.000 I say motivation and honesty.

00:23:41.000 What does motivation mean?

00:23:43.000 Like, pushing him to be better within himself as opposed to just focusing on just you.

00:23:49.000 So you gotta push your man to become better?

00:23:51.000 Yeah, and we should grow together instead of growing apart.

00:23:55.000 But, I mean, wouldn't you want him to be already motivated by himself?

00:23:59.000 I would hope so, but some people just don't come built like that.

00:24:04.000 So if you gotta push your man to be better and become successful, is that gonna be hard on you?

00:24:10.000 No, because we're supposed to grow together.

00:24:13.000 Even if he's not successful when I found him, as long as he's trying to get himself to that place in life, you don't got to be put together when you first come up.

00:24:22.000 But if you're still pushing yourself and trying to grow as you go, as opposed to sitting down and being a bum and not doing nothing for yourself, that's a whole different story.

00:24:31.000 Like Chris, yeah.

00:24:33.000 Are you a queen?

00:24:34.000 What about you?

00:24:36.000 Top two characteristics for a successful relationship.

00:24:39.000 I would say loyalty and understanding.

00:24:44.000 What about you?

00:24:46.000 I'll say communication and understanding.

00:24:48.000 This is from personal experience.

00:24:51.000 What does understanding mean?

00:24:51.000 Okay.

00:24:54.000 Okay, you can communicate, but guess what?

00:24:56.000 They probably don't understand where you're coming from or don't understand you.

00:25:01.000 Yeah, I don't understand her at all, but...

00:25:04.000 But if you have both communication, when you tell them what you want and what you need, and vice versa, and you guys understand each other, then you guys can come to a mutual ground.

00:25:16.000 Yeah, because sometimes communicating doesn't mean you're listening.

00:25:19.000 Yeah, it doesn't mean you're listening or it doesn't mean that you're willing to compromise for me.

00:25:24.000 Understood.

00:25:25.000 Understood.

00:25:25.000 You know what I'm saying?

00:25:27.000 I got it.

00:25:29.000 What about you?

00:25:32.000 I would say confidence.

00:25:34.000 The first one.

00:25:35.000 The next one would be belief in God.

00:25:38.000 Amen!

00:25:40.000 Do you believe in God for real?

00:25:42.000 As you should.

00:25:43.000 What's your religion?

00:25:45.000 Well, I cannot put myself in one religion, but I do believe in God and energy.

00:25:50.000 So you're spiritual?

00:25:51.000 Yes, I am.

00:25:53.000 Okay, so you don't subscribe to any religious ideology?

00:25:56.000 I do, to some.

00:25:58.000 Which one?

00:25:59.000 Oh, so multiple.

00:26:00.000 I'm not going to name them, but I have some that I do.

00:26:03.000 Okay, so you practice multiple religions?

00:26:06.000 I like Buddhism and Hindu.

00:26:09.000 Okay, so two religions that you follow.

00:26:11.000 I grew up on Christianity, so it's like a mix, you know?

00:26:14.000 I can't say it's just one.

00:26:15.000 It's all about being spiritual, not religious.

00:26:18.000 I guess you take parts from different religions.

00:26:21.000 She's not religious, she's spiritual.

00:26:23.000 Tomorrow, Charmander.

00:26:26.000 It's a difference between religious and spiritual.

00:26:30.000 Yeah, because I know some people that go to church and still text underage girls. 0.91

00:26:35.000 That's insane.

00:26:37.000 The church may be the worst.

00:26:41.000 Okay, so basically you believe in God.

00:26:45.000 Maybe not through the framework of a religion, but you believe in that there is a higher power or powers.

00:26:52.000 What about you?

00:26:54.000 Loyalty and willing to grow, not being closed-minded.

00:26:59.000 Okay.

00:27:00.000 What about you?

00:27:02.000 Connection and respect.

00:27:07.000 Big on respect.

00:27:08.000 Respect is...

00:27:10.000 You better stand on it.

00:27:13.000 Seems like you guys have a lot to say about respect.

00:27:16.000 Who do you think requires respect more, the man or the woman in a relationship?

00:27:20.000 Both.

00:27:21.000 It's even.

00:27:22.000 You think it's even?

00:27:23.000 Yeah.

00:27:24.000 It should be.

00:27:26.000 We should respect each other.

00:27:29.000 Realistically speaking, who do you think needs to have more respect for the relationship to work?

00:27:33.000 We'll start hearing that work our way.

00:27:34.000 I just want to get you guys taken care of.

00:27:36.000 I mean, like in a relationship, you should be just as respectful with your partner as they are with you.

00:27:42.000 Yeah, but there has to be a higher level of respect for one party because one party typically has, you know, needs to Every relationship, there's one person that cares more than the other about the relationship.

00:27:51.000 That's how relationships are formed.

00:27:53.000 So, who is it that needs to respect more for the relationship to be successful?

00:27:56.000 I mean, I believe the answer you're going for is a man, but I really believe that you just respect them as much as they respect you.

00:28:08.000 You know, I respect my man.

00:28:11.000 He should respect me.

00:28:12.000 That's all I see it as.

00:28:12.000 That's about it.

00:28:13.000 Yeah, but who requires more respect if you had to pick?

00:28:18.000 For the relationship to work, keyword.

00:28:19.000 I mean...

00:28:20.000 Words.

00:28:22.000 I can't...

00:28:23.000 No, to me, it's mutual.

00:28:26.000 It's 50-50 to me.

00:28:27.000 Are relationships ever 50-50, though?

00:28:29.000 No.

00:28:31.000 It doesn't have to be.

00:28:33.000 I mean, you can still respect each other as much, you know?

00:28:41.000 We'll come back to you.

00:28:43.000 Please come with a decision.

00:28:45.000 It's not rocket science.

00:28:46.000 What about you?

00:28:47.000 Jamaica!

00:28:48.000 I mean, I do agree with her, like the 50-50, but I will say that personally, I believe, honestly, the female should. 0.72

00:28:56.000 You know, hold on, real quick.

00:28:57.000 Let me just get a...

00:28:59.000 How many of you think relationships are actually 50-50?

00:29:01.000 Raise of hands.

00:29:02.000 Raise your hand up if you think relationships are 50-50 between men and women. 0.56

00:29:06.000 Okay, then none of y'all should be saying 50-50 with respect then.

00:29:08.000 So, we're going to go back to you.

00:29:10.000 What do you think...

00:29:11.000 Who do you think requires more respect for the relationship to work?

00:29:13.000 The woman.

00:29:14.000 The woman, okay. 1.00

00:29:16.000 Now, coming back to you, who do you think needs the relationship more?

00:29:19.000 Sorry, the respect more, the man or the woman?

00:29:21.000 Just because of gender. 0.92

00:29:22.000 I mean...

00:29:24.000 I'm saying this on my own terms, like females, because it's usually the female that dominates the relationship. 0.99

00:29:30.000 Okay, that's fine.

00:29:31.000 No, it is.

00:29:32.000 What about you?

00:29:35.000 Who requires respect more for the relationship to work?

00:29:39.000 Women should get more respect. 1.00

00:29:40.000 You think the woman should? 1.00

00:29:41.000 Yeah.

00:29:42.000 What about you?

00:29:45.000 Being my natural self, I would usually say women.

00:29:48.000 But due to my experience in my relationship, I would say men because they provide the most. 1.00

00:29:55.000 Really, they have to deal with more shit. 0.99

00:29:59.000 They have to deal with our emotions. 1.00

00:30:02.000 All of that.

00:30:03.000 So you have to put all of that into play.

00:30:05.000 And sometimes they might be like, one day, F this.

00:30:10.000 You feel me?

00:30:11.000 Just because, okay, we're on our period.

00:30:12.000 We have to go through the emotions and we take it out on our men sometimes.

00:30:17.000 Sometimes?

00:30:18.000 A lot of times.

00:30:19.000 Okay, there you go.

00:30:20.000 I'm going to come back to you because I don't want you to influence the girls' answers, but I'm going to come back.

00:30:25.000 I have a follow-up question specifically for you.

00:30:27.000 What about you?

00:30:28.000 Who do you think requires respect more for a relationship to work?

00:30:30.000 Men.

00:30:31.000 The men?

00:30:32.000 Yeah.

00:30:32.000 Okay.

00:30:33.000 I'll come back to you as well and ask that.

00:30:35.000 What about you?

00:30:35.000 Oh, she knows.

00:30:36.000 The woman.

00:30:37.000 The woman? 0.87

00:30:38.000 Okay.

00:30:39.000 Why?

00:30:41.000 Honestly, I feel like...

00:30:43.000 Merch? 0.84

00:30:44.000 I feel like, as a woman, if a man disrespects you, you're more quick to be like, yeah, it's time to go.

00:30:51.000 Like, you ready to dip.

00:30:52.000 But if a man...

00:30:53.000 If you disrespect a man, I feel like they're more tolerant.

00:30:57.000 Like, okay, maybe I should...

00:30:59.000 They're gonna stay.

00:30:59.000 Yeah, like, try to communicate with her, try to do a little something to try to...

00:31:03.000 Okay, let me ask you a follow-up question.

00:31:04.000 Who do you think responds more favorably to disrespect, men or women?

00:31:10.000 See...

00:31:10.000 Who's aroused more by disrespect?

00:31:13.000 I would say...

00:31:15.000 Yeah, a woman responds more to disrespect as we'll sue. 1.00

00:31:23.000 So who requires respect then?

00:31:26.000 I guess a man. 1.00

00:31:27.000 Gotcha, bitch! 1.00

00:31:29.000 Too easy. 1.00

00:31:30.000 Alright, what about you?

00:31:32.000 I agree with Pecan.

00:31:35.000 You think it's a man?

00:31:36.000 Yeah.

00:31:36.000 Why?

00:31:39.000 Because men do more for women, you know.

00:31:43.000 We just sit back and get treated.

00:31:47.000 Okay.

00:31:48.000 Yeah, we just sit back and get treated, you know.

00:31:51.000 Okay.

00:31:53.000 The guy that you're with now, do you think you respect him to the full capacity?

00:31:56.000 We're not together.

00:31:57.000 Well, it's a situation.

00:31:58.000 She wants to be with him, but he don't want to be with her.

00:32:00.000 Yeah.

00:32:00.000 So do you think a part of the reason why he doesn't want to commit might be because of lack of respect?

00:32:04.000 No, I respect him to the fullest.

00:32:06.000 I motivate him.

00:32:07.000 You don't talk back to him or anything like that?

00:32:08.000 No, we treat each other equally.

00:32:12.000 It's nothing like that.

00:32:14.000 Right now, we're just both focusing on God and we're preparing ourselves for marriage.

00:32:18.000 Is that what he told you?

00:32:21.000 That's what we told each other.

00:32:22.000 While you were in our business.

00:32:24.000 Dang, fresh.

00:32:25.000 I didn't pull it up, but... 1.00

00:32:27.000 Well, damn. 0.99

00:32:28.000 Did you pull up what you was looking for? 1.00

00:32:30.000 Did you find what you were looking for?

00:32:32.000 All I'm going to say is YouTube is awesome.

00:32:34.000 You found it?

00:32:36.000 Can I see?

00:32:37.000 No, no, no.

00:32:38.000 Okay, whatever.

00:32:38.000 Let's continue.

00:32:39.000 He'll expose it later, I guess.

00:32:42.000 For you, would you say that one of the things that led to you getting married and being in a marriage was understanding that the man requires more respect?

00:32:51.000 i would say that's one of the things yeah and um do you think if you had stuck to that with the female needs more respect you would still be married to this day or would have been able to get the ring No. 1.00

00:33:02.000 Profound.

00:33:02.000 No.

00:33:03.000 Because one thing that females don't understand, well, most females, just talking from female to female. 1.00

00:33:11.000 You don't got to qualify.

00:33:12.000 Say what you want to say.

00:33:14.000 Just talking to other females, they don't understand that men have emotions too.

00:33:19.000 You get what I'm saying?

00:33:20.000 And they feel disrespected.

00:33:22.000 They feel hurt just as well as we do, but they don't vocalize it.

00:33:27.000 They don't.

00:33:28.000 Real men are not out here crying about disrespect.

00:33:32.000 Yeah, about disrespect.

00:33:33.000 You get what I'm saying?

00:33:34.000 They try to be strong for both of us.

00:33:37.000 We're much more emotional, vulnerable.

00:33:40.000 We're supposed to be nurturers, so it's natural for us to be more emotional, more vulnerable.

00:33:47.000 For you, would you say what flipped the script and helped you get in a more healthy relationship was understanding that your man requires more respect than you?

00:33:56.000 100%.

00:33:57.000 Yeah, because before it was the other way around, right?

00:33:59.000 It was always me, me, me.

00:33:59.000 Right, right.

00:34:01.000 And then when it was, you know, it had to change in order for the relationship to improve.

00:34:06.000 Because if he's always worried about me and my feelings, you know, my feelings change all the time.

00:34:11.000 I'm on my period.

00:34:12.000 I'm on my feelings, you know.

00:34:14.000 And here's the other thing, too.

00:34:15.000 And I wanted the girls on the panel that were married in a long-term relationship to kind of let the other girls know that might be single, etc., that think that women require more respect. 0.95

00:34:23.000 The reality is that a man requires more respect, and I'll tell you why.

00:34:27.000 As a female, right, if you feel disrespected or you feel a certain way, it's okay for you to be emotional about it and, like, talk to your guy to a degree.

00:34:34.000 He's not going to lose attraction for you for being emotional.

00:34:37.000 However, if you disrespect a man, right, A guy that you actually like, that's attractive, that's fairly stoic, etc. 1.00

00:34:43.000 He's probably just going to be like, man, fuck this bitch. 1.00

00:34:46.000 And he's just going to end up giving you less attention and not even vocalize how he feels about it. 1.00

00:34:50.000 Because men typically, especially the guys that you like that are traditionally masculine, they typically keep their emotions held.

00:34:54.000 And they're just going to say something, they're just going to see you less, give you less attention, and not take you seriously.

00:35:00.000 They're going to put you in what I call the invisible sex-only category. 1.00

00:35:03.000 So at least with men, we have the benefit of being rejected overtly.

00:35:07.000 Oh, I'm not interested.

00:35:08.000 Oh, I have a boyfriend.

00:35:09.000 We get immediate feedback, right? 0.98

00:35:11.000 With girls, though, y'all might not know because you're still seeing a guy, you're still fucking a guy, but you don't know in the back of his mind he's already bringing you off as recreational use only. 0.65

00:35:20.000 So I think with women, that respect needs to be to a higher degree because that's what men respond to the most favorably. 1.00

00:35:26.000 If a man feels disrespected by a woman, he's going to be like, fuck this chick. 1.00

00:35:30.000 If she doesn't respect me, she doesn't want to follow my lead. 1.00

00:35:33.000 If she can't follow my lead, we can't build anything.

00:35:35.000 If she thinks she's equal to me, it's not going to work.

00:35:37.000 And if I can add, because that's the way that I used to think before, I understand what perhaps most of us are coming from.

00:35:44.000 Like, absolutely, I want respect in the sense of like, you know, no, I think we know like the premises that we're all discussing as far as respect goes.

00:35:53.000 But I think when you want like a successful dynamic in the relationship, if your man is always trying to chase you and respect you and basically bow down to you, you're going to get bored.

00:36:03.000 I don't know how I feel about my man always trying to cater to me all the time.

00:36:07.000 I'm like, go do something.

00:36:08.000 It's not only that, but after a while, they're going to get tired. 0.98

00:36:13.000 They're going to get bored of, oh, damn, I have to keep doing this and keep chasing you and keep chasing you. 0.98

00:36:18.000 It's never enough for you. 0.99

00:36:19.000 You get what I'm saying?

00:36:21.000 A lot of people who, you know, oh, I have this standard, a man have to do this and this and this for me, you feel me?

00:36:28.000 If not, then I'm not going to date them or they're just not good enough for me.

00:36:32.000 That's why a lot of them are single now.

00:36:34.000 That's why you ain't got no marriages. 1.00

00:36:37.000 Because you expect things from a man that you can't even give to them. 0.98

00:36:44.000 Yeah.

00:36:44.000 Okay.

00:36:45.000 And that's kind of why I was, like, pushing back when you guys were trying to say it's 50-50, because realistically speaking, relationships are never 50-50.

00:36:52.000 I'll give you an example of what I mean by this.

00:36:54.000 If you're dressed provocatively, etc., and you want to go outside, your man has the authority, right, to tell you, hey, I don't like that outfit, go change.

00:37:02.000 But if you wore something and you don't like it, and you tell him to go change, it'd be more attractive for him to say, no, I'm not listening to you.

00:37:10.000 Because women don't like men that they can control. 1.00

00:37:12.000 That's just an unfortunate reality.

00:37:14.000 So by default, the woman has to have more respect for the man because his word goes, hers doesn't necessarily go.

00:37:19.000 So that's why I always laugh when women say, oh, equal respect or equal, not really, realistically speaking. 1.00

00:37:24.000 The men that women are attracted to always have a power dynamic where the man is in a leadership role. 0.98

00:37:29.000 If a man's a leader, by definition, you are not equal. 0.88

00:37:32.000 Yeah, that's true.

00:37:33.000 You know, that's like walking into your job and telling your boss, oh, I'm the boss today too.

00:37:38.000 Like, no, he tells you when to show up.

00:37:39.000 He gives you the hours.

00:37:40.000 You're getting a paycheck from him.

00:37:41.000 He has some level of authority over you.

00:37:43.000 You guys are not equal.

00:37:44.000 You know, and I'd look at a relationship the same way.

00:37:46.000 The man is the boss and you follow him.

00:37:48.000 You're a subordinate.

00:37:48.000 That's just how it is.

00:37:49.000 And that's what women want, even though we live in this crazy feminized world where we'd say men and women are equal. 1.00

00:37:53.000 Go ahead.

00:37:54.000 Like, why is that the case?

00:37:57.000 Like, are you going off, like, of the Bible or the Quran?

00:38:00.000 Well, okay.

00:38:02.000 I like that you brought religion.

00:38:03.000 Religion typically adheres to biological realities, right?

00:38:07.000 The reason why every, you know, major religion puts men in leadership roles is because since the beginning of time, women aren't really capable leaders over men. 0.98

00:38:15.000 And attraction isn't built when a woman is leading a man. 0.98

00:38:17.000 It's the other way around from a biological sense.

00:38:19.000 Religions realize this, and they say, okay, for society to thrive and be optimal, We need to put men in leadership roles and women follow them because the women are going to respect the men. 0.97

00:38:28.000 They're going to have sex with the men. 1.00

00:38:29.000 We're going to go ahead and be able to spread our offspring.

00:38:32.000 But if it's the other way around, it doesn't work.

00:38:34.000 So religion, a lot of times, adheres to biological realities.

00:38:38.000 No woman really wants to be with a guy she could push over and lead. 1.00

00:38:41.000 Women typically want to be able to just be pretty and sit back. 1.00

00:38:43.000 So the reason why I come to the conclusion I come to a lot of time is because it's rooted in biological reality between the two genders, that men and women inherently are not equal.

00:38:52.000 Physically, we're not equal, but we all have the same mental capacity.

00:38:55.000 I disagree.

00:38:56.000 No, we don't.

00:38:57.000 The way women perceive certain things versus how men perceive things are completely different.

00:39:02.000 Well, I mean, if that's the case, why can a female be a doctor? 1.00

00:39:07.000 It's just because we're emotionally different that doesn't completely differentiate how we are as people, what we can understand mathematically, with science, with everything in general.

00:39:16.000 Let me ask you this.

00:39:18.000 If I had 20,000 male soldiers and 20,000 female soldiers and I was going to send them to war, which group would you send? 0.99

00:39:25.000 The men or the women? 0.89

00:39:26.000 I mean, obviously the men.

00:39:27.000 Why?

00:39:28.000 Because physically we're different.

00:39:30.000 But today it's in a society.

00:39:31.000 We're not going to war.

00:39:32.000 We're not attacking each other.

00:39:34.000 We're not in a primal state.

00:39:36.000 You missed what I did there.

00:39:37.000 What I'm trying to say is that just because someone is capable of doing something doesn't mean they're optimal at doing something.

00:39:42.000 So just because women can become doctors and can get into science, technology, engineering, and math doesn't mean that they're optimal for it. 1.00

00:39:49.000 And the majority of women prefer not to go into these job fields.

00:39:52.000 Most women want to work, you know, comfortable office jobs, you know, air conditioning, etc. 1.00

00:39:56.000 Women typically don't want to work laborious jobs with their hands. 1.00

00:39:59.000 There's some women that want to do it, right? 1.00

00:40:01.000 We have one here at the panel.

00:40:02.000 But even looking to the profession that she's going into, dermatology is female-dominated. 1.00

00:40:06.000 But if you talk about brain surgeons, anesthesiologists, etc., the more...

00:40:12.000 Not to knock what you're trying to do, but like the more sensitive work that requires like precision and...

00:40:18.000 Cardiologists.

00:40:19.000 You know, split-second decisions, etc., It's male-dominated. 0.91

00:40:22.000 And there's a reason for that.

00:40:23.000 And the reason why is because pattern recognition in men and women are different.

00:40:26.000 Men are more rationally sound, more logically sound, and a lot of times this helps with getting into certain career fields.

00:40:31.000 And they're stronger too.

00:40:32.000 So just because women can do something doesn't mean that they're optimal at doing something. 1.00

00:40:35.000 I'm not saying women aren't capable. 0.98

00:40:36.000 I'm saying men are optimal.

00:40:39.000 I can't disagree.

00:40:41.000 Alright, fair enough.

00:40:42.000 Alright.

00:40:42.000 Anybody else have anything that want to add to that or disagree?

00:40:48.000 Alright.

00:40:48.000 Cool.

00:40:49.000 Smooth.

00:40:50.000 Y'all want us to disagree so bad.

00:40:53.000 No, it's not that.

00:40:54.000 I just want to make sure everybody gets a chance to say what they want to say.

00:40:58.000 IRS. Do you believe most women have a whole face? 1.00

00:41:08.000 Raise your hands if you think.

00:41:09.000 Yes, ladies. 1.00

00:41:10.000 Most women have a whole face in their lifetime. 1.00

00:41:13.000 I'm not saying you.

00:41:14.000 I'm saying most women. 1.00

00:41:14.000 See, they don't want to admit it, but they know. 1.00

00:41:16.000 Not saying you.

00:41:17.000 Okay, so only girls in Lithuania don't have whole faces? 0.96

00:41:19.000 I don't know about other girls, but I know about myself.

00:41:23.000 The question was specifically about other girls, not you.

00:41:26.000 Yeah, not yourself.

00:41:27.000 It was impossible.

00:41:27.000 But I base on myself, so...

00:41:29.000 I base other people on myself.

00:41:32.000 What's your sign?

00:41:34.000 Sagittarius.

00:41:35.000 No.

00:41:36.000 That makes a lot of sense.

00:41:37.000 Does it really?

00:41:38.000 Does it really make a lot of sense?

00:41:40.000 I'm just showing.

00:41:41.000 Oh, I don't know what that means either.

00:41:41.000 I don't know what that means.

00:41:43.000 I was concerned.

00:41:44.000 So wait, you said you base how other people behave off of yourself?

00:41:44.000 That's very interesting.

00:41:48.000 That's my perception.

00:41:50.000 I mean, if I'm like that, if I'm a good person, I think other people are good too.

00:41:50.000 Yeah.

00:41:54.000 I mean, having a whole face doesn't mean you're a bad person.

00:41:56.000 I don't think that was the point of the question.

00:41:59.000 No, she just used an example, but do you think that's a good way to perceive the world, like kind of comparing yourself to others when human beings typically tend to be vastly different?

00:42:08.000 Yeah.

00:42:10.000 To a degree?

00:42:13.000 I'm not sure how to answer that, actually.

00:42:16.000 But if you're asking me if every girl has their whole face, I don't think so. 0.95

00:42:22.000 You don't think so?

00:42:23.000 No, I don't think so.

00:42:24.000 Maybe in Lithuania.

00:42:25.000 Is it not a thing in Lithuania?

00:42:27.000 I don't know.

00:42:28.000 Probably it is.

00:42:30.000 Let me tell you this example, because I'm in Miami and I can tell the differences.

00:42:36.000 People here are more likely to do something wild.

00:42:43.000 While in Lithuania, everyone's closed down.

00:42:46.000 It's like Scandinavia.

00:42:47.000 People don't really talk too much to each other.

00:42:50.000 Reserved.

00:42:51.000 Yeah, very reserved.

00:42:52.000 It's not like you guys in here are so friendly.

00:42:55.000 It's a cultural difference.

00:42:57.000 Yeah, it's very different, actually, when I think about it.

00:43:00.000 Okay, so if I'm going to summarize what you said, are you saying people are more promiscuous here than back home?

00:43:05.000 Just keep it a thousand.

00:43:06.000 I don't wanna...

00:43:08.000 Say it.

00:43:09.000 Say it.

00:43:10.000 That's what I've seen.

00:43:12.000 Okay.

00:43:13.000 Not wrong with that.

00:43:13.000 Alright.

00:43:14.000 It is Miami.

00:43:17.000 Okay.

00:43:18.000 Blackest Panther goes, the most wicked and heartless thing a woman can do to another woman is to tell the woman that her man is cheating. 0.99

00:43:24.000 If she was genuinely happy, it destroys her innocence and naivety. 1.00

00:43:26.000 If she would never find out, shut the fuck about it. 1.00

00:43:30.000 Okay. 1.00

00:43:30.000 Let me ask y'all a question. 1.00

00:43:33.000 If you found out...

00:43:34.000 Okay, if you found out that your girl's boyfriend was cheating on her, would you tell her?

00:43:42.000 All of you guys would?

00:43:42.000 Yes.

00:43:43.000 Yes.

00:43:44.000 There you go.

00:43:44.000 All right.

00:43:45.000 Fair enough.

00:43:47.000 It's the lawsuit behind it.

00:43:48.000 Even if she was in a happy relationship and everything was great.

00:43:51.000 That is fine.

00:43:52.000 I don't mind being the bad guy.

00:43:54.000 But at least you know.

00:43:56.000 I didn't hide this information from you.

00:44:00.000 And then when you found out on your own, you come back and tell me, you knew this all alone?

00:44:03.000 Exactly.

00:44:05.000 Okay.

00:44:07.000 That's funny because next one sounds like I'll get mad at them for telling them the truth, which is hilarious.

00:44:07.000 Okay.

00:44:11.000 Alright, and then the last one here is...

00:44:15.000 Sorry.

00:44:16.000 Guys, we already got 8,000 plus y'all in here on YouTube alone, and then we got another...

00:44:20.000 Mo, give me a number. 0.98

00:44:22.000 Shout out to Evan F for always keeping it real.

00:44:23.000 Y'all have helped me out with my finances, relationship, and be a better member of society.

00:44:27.000 P.S. Chris is still a bum. 0.79

00:44:28.000 Yes, we're going to go 20 and up, guys, because...

00:44:28.000 Shout out Big Mo.

00:44:30.000 Yeah, because we got about 16, almost 20,000 y'all watching about 16k right now.

00:44:34.000 Ladies, do y'all think, okay, you know, that was going to be the topic of the show.

00:44:39.000 Okay, Sean Don goes, ladies, who all think Tory actually shot Megan? 1.00

00:44:44.000 This will show who critically thinks on the panel.

00:44:46.000 So we'll go ahead and start, I think, here.

00:44:49.000 Do you think Tory Lanez shot Megan the stallion or not? 0.61

00:44:54.000 I mean, I'm not a detective right now.

00:44:57.000 I really don't know much about the situation.

00:44:59.000 Like, what exactly happened?

00:45:01.000 Yeah, I know nothing about it.

00:45:01.000 Okay, well...

00:45:02.000 Who actually knows the case?

00:45:04.000 Yeah.

00:45:04.000 I know someone.

00:45:05.000 Only two?

00:45:05.000 Yeah.

00:45:06.000 I know somebody that knows them.

00:45:09.000 And they said they were just all drunk. 0.96

00:45:12.000 And basically, Megan started popping shit on Tory, and then that's how it all happened. 0.58

00:45:17.000 Because he... 0.98

00:45:19.000 Megan was mad that Tori was actually sleeping with Megan's best friend, which is Kelsey. 1.00

00:45:25.000 So that's how it happened.

00:45:26.000 And Megan's like, oh, Tori, you were sleeping with Kelsey behind my back, this and that. 1.00

00:45:32.000 And then her and Tori got into it.

00:45:36.000 And then that's when Kelsey jumped in. 1.00

00:45:38.000 And then I guess Tori pulled out a gun and then it went from there.

00:45:44.000 So...

00:45:45.000 I mean, he didn't do it on purpose, but I think he shot the girl, and that's why he's facing 10 right now.

00:45:51.000 So that's just what it is, you know?

00:45:54.000 Do you think he shot her?

00:45:54.000 I don't know.

00:45:56.000 We'll go with you.

00:45:57.000 I don't think so.

00:46:00.000 No.

00:46:00.000 Well, I was asking her.

00:46:01.000 Oh, her? 0.83

00:46:02.000 Yeah.

00:46:03.000 Honestly, I don't really know nothing about them.

00:46:05.000 I have no idea what's going on.

00:46:05.000 Me either.

00:46:07.000 They don't know.

00:46:09.000 This is like front press news on social media.

00:46:12.000 I knew they wouldn't know.

00:46:13.000 I told y'all.

00:46:18.000 You're familiar.

00:46:19.000 Do you think you shot her?

00:46:22.000 I don't think so.

00:46:23.000 You don't think so?

00:46:24.000 What makes you think he didn't shoot her?

00:46:24.000 No.

00:46:26.000 I just feel like, you know, as they said, they were all drunk and everything, you know.

00:46:31.000 I've heard that same, you know, story that she just said.

00:46:35.000 And from everything that I've heard, it just sounded like everybody was just into it and it just seemed like, you know, the gun went off.

00:46:46.000 So I don't think it was purposely...

00:46:49.000 But I feel like now that she, you know, has attention and everything, now that she's dragging it in, you know, to the certain extent that it got.

00:46:59.000 And I don't think that he deserved 10 years for that.

00:47:03.000 You feel me?

00:47:05.000 Because everybody makes mistakes.

00:47:06.000 This is his first time, from my understanding, shooting somebody.

00:47:10.000 I mean, I would hope so, too.

00:47:13.000 So you don't think he did it?

00:47:15.000 I don't think so.

00:47:16.000 Or not purposely.

00:47:18.000 What about you?

00:47:18.000 Okay.

00:47:20.000 I mean, like, if you're sentenced 10 years, like, you being an ex-FBI agent, you did that, right?

00:47:26.000 Homeland, but yeah.

00:47:27.000 Okay, so then you should know that, I mean, you can't sentence somebody without concrete evidence or some sort of evidence.

00:47:27.000 Same thing.

00:47:34.000 I mean, he must have done it.

00:47:37.000 There must have been some evidence linked to it.

00:47:38.000 Maybe the same gun, maybe some DNA, or maybe, like...

00:47:42.000 You know, fingerprints, the situation, cameras.

00:47:45.000 It was a lot of circumstantial evidence.

00:47:46.000 And also on top of that, you had witness testimony that kind of changed.

00:47:51.000 So, and I mean, I would say that the defense did a pretty good job of creating reasonable doubt, which is all they have to create to be able to get someone off.

00:47:58.000 So, you know, it is what it is. 0.95

00:48:00.000 It kind of sucks, but Yeah. 0.67

00:48:03.000 I mean, if he did do it, I believe he, I mean, deserves the amount of time. 0.99

00:48:07.000 I mean, like, imagine getting shot in the foot. 0.66

00:48:09.000 Yeah. 0.99

00:48:09.000 That would suck. 0.99

00:48:10.000 I don't think he shot her. 0.98

00:48:11.000 I think her foot shot her. 0.91

00:48:12.000 So, look, as an upcoming lawyer.

00:48:14.000 10 years, though?

00:48:15.000 10 years.

00:48:16.000 Yeah, like, as an upcoming lawyer, I do feel like they were all drunk.

00:48:21.000 I do feel like maybe it could have been Kelsey. 0.98

00:48:24.000 You know, like, she were trying to break them up because you was f***ing this girl, man. 0.87

00:48:29.000 So, maybe you were trying to get in, like, oh, no, No, no, no, no. 0.92

00:48:33.000 And then you grab the gun and the gun went off.

00:48:36.000 So I do feel like it could have been Kelsey.

00:48:39.000 Let's tell you that.

00:48:40.000 Just know that I know people and I'm not saying that it is Kelsey, but I'm just saying she trying to play her hand, you know, trying to be all innocent, but it really could have been her because she don't want to get sentenced. 0.96

00:48:52.000 So that's why she trying to really be on some hiding type shit. 1.00

00:48:56.000 I'm confused because you said a second ago that you think Tori shot her. 0.97

00:48:59.000 No, I'm saying, I do think it could have been either one.

00:49:02.000 I don't know who it could have been.

00:49:04.000 It could have been either one.

00:49:05.000 From what I heard, that Megan and Tori was arguing.

00:49:09.000 So, it could have been either one.

00:49:10.000 You know, maybe Tori did shot her, or maybe Kelsey jumped in, she grabbed the gun, and the gun went off. 0.97

00:49:17.000 I don't think it was purposely. 0.99

00:49:18.000 Shoot her. 1.00

00:49:19.000 Not shot. 1.00

00:49:20.000 Shoot her. 1.00

00:49:21.000 You know what I mean? 1.00

00:49:22.000 What upcoming lawyer are you going to be?

00:49:24.000 Are you going to be on the prosecution side or the defense side?

00:49:26.000 No, I want to be...

00:49:29.000 Y'all are trying to play me.

00:49:30.000 Bye.

00:49:32.000 Bye, bye, bye, bye, bye.

00:49:33.000 Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha.

00:49:35.000 But I will say you did have a good take on it, and you too as well, because it's more like, you know what, critical thinking versus like, oh, I feel like I'm team Meg, whatever, so.

00:49:43.000 Yeah, I'm not on nobody's side.

00:49:45.000 Yeah.

00:49:45.000 Okay.

00:49:46.000 Fair enough.

00:49:46.000 More of a base look.

00:49:47.000 We do it live, right?

00:49:48.000 Do it live.

00:49:49.000 Okay, and then guys, Yeah, we'll keep going.

00:49:52.000 Okay.

00:49:54.000 Sharmuta detector.

00:49:55.000 Beep, beep, beep, beep, beep.

00:49:56.000 Appreciate that.

00:49:56.000 All right.

00:49:57.000 Natalie goes, ladies, as a woman in her early 30s, I am telling you, listen to Myron.

00:50:03.000 Shout out to you, Natalie.

00:50:03.000 I appreciate that.

00:50:04.000 I think he knows everything, but yeah.

00:50:07.000 We'll listen to him, girl.

00:50:09.000 What do you disagree with that I've said?

00:50:11.000 Tell him.

00:50:13.000 I don't know.

00:50:13.000 I just...

00:50:14.000 My girls were on the last podcast and I just watched it and you were just seeing a lot of...

00:50:20.000 Wait, hold on.

00:50:21.000 Weren't you friends with the sisters?

00:50:24.000 How do you know?

00:50:25.000 How do you know?

00:50:26.000 Oh, because you were on a yacht with them, right, recently?

00:50:30.000 Oh.

00:50:31.000 Why you? 1.00

00:50:31.000 Damn. 1.00

00:50:32.000 Damn. 1.00

00:50:36.000 You said, hey, my friend, try to, you know, want to be on the podcast, all right? 1.00

00:50:40.000 Very good.

00:50:40.000 Thank you.

00:50:41.000 All right.

00:50:41.000 So, question for you.

00:50:43.000 So, you said you didn't like some of the stuff.

00:50:46.000 What did you disagree with in particular?

00:50:48.000 Um...

00:50:52.000 I don't want to get into it.

00:50:54.000 I don't have a problem with people disagreeing with me whatsoever.

00:50:59.000 Like, you were degrading women and I didn't like it. 1.00

00:51:02.000 Like, you were like, oh, if a man takes a girl on a date, she gotta fuck after. 1.00

00:51:07.000 And I'm like, damn. 1.00

00:51:09.000 It's like that. 0.99

00:51:10.000 I never said that.

00:51:12.000 He didn't physically say that, but in his words, he said that. 1.00

00:51:17.000 What the fuck? 1.00

00:51:18.000 Wait, wait, wait. 1.00

00:51:19.000 Is it clear?

00:51:20.000 He didn't say that.

00:51:21.000 No, but it was...

00:51:23.000 That was maybe her interpretation.

00:51:25.000 Yeah, that was my interpretation.

00:51:27.000 That's still not what he said.

00:51:28.000 Understood.

00:51:28.000 That's what you understood, right?

00:51:29.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:51:30.000 That's what I took away from it.

00:51:32.000 Understanding, see?

00:51:32.000 Understanding, yeah.

00:51:34.000 Understanding.

00:51:35.000 Okay, just so I can clarify here, so I can properly address this.

00:51:37.000 So you're saying that I degrade women, and I do so because I said that if a girl goes on a first date, she needs to sleep with a guy. 1.00

00:51:46.000 Allegedly.

00:51:48.000 Yeah, so I felt like that was kind of degrading.

00:51:50.000 No, but that's what you're saying?

00:51:52.000 Summarizing what I said?

00:51:55.000 You want to take it that way, yeah.

00:51:58.000 I'm literally asking you, I mean, clarify for me.

00:52:00.000 Was it in particular that you did?

00:52:03.000 That podcast just blew me because I didn't really quite understand it.

00:52:08.000 I didn't.

00:52:09.000 It was the last podcast y'all had last Friday.

00:52:12.000 So how can you disagree with something you don't understand?

00:52:16.000 Okay, well maybe you need to get more into it.

00:52:18.000 So maybe I can get an understanding.

00:52:20.000 Since we're talking about understanding.

00:52:22.000 So what is it that you didn't understand?

00:52:26.000 What do you want to be?

00:52:28.000 I want to be independent.

00:52:33.000 I don't need no woman in my life. 1.00

00:52:35.000 I understand everything.

00:52:37.000 You're gonna be lonely as hell then.

00:52:39.000 Just like you.

00:52:51.000 No, let's not get into it.

00:52:53.000 It's okay.

00:52:54.000 I mean, if you're going to make a statement like, I disagree with this because you're degrading women. 1.00

00:52:58.000 No, because it was something you were saying, like, you know, men spend the most money and, like, if a man takes a woman out at the end of the night, you know, she should...

00:53:11.000 Give us some cheeks or whatever. 0.99

00:53:13.000 See, I was there.

00:53:14.000 He was there.

00:53:15.000 Okay, so explain.

00:53:17.000 No, but you watched it, so you understand, right?

00:53:19.000 I didn't watch the whole thing.

00:53:20.000 Oh, you didn't watch the full thing!

00:53:23.000 I stayed on for like 30 minutes.

00:53:26.000 So as a lawyer, the context has to be reviewed in full detail.

00:53:30.000 Yeah, you're right.

00:53:31.000 I wasn't on from 9.30 to 12.

00:53:34.000 I feel like I joined...

00:53:35.000 I think I joined at like...

00:53:37.000 10.30 and then I stayed on to like 11.15 and then I took a shower because I was waiting on the girls.

00:53:43.000 What'd you eat?

00:53:44.000 I was like in and out.

00:53:46.000 What'd you eat though?

00:53:47.000 The food you ate though?

00:53:49.000 I'm babes.

00:53:49.000 I'm vegan.

00:53:50.000 I ate vegetables.

00:53:53.000 So my thing is if you want to be an upcoming lawyer, right?

00:53:57.000 You need to be able to summarize what the opposition says.

00:54:01.000 You're right.

00:54:02.000 Okay.

00:54:02.000 Understand it.

00:54:03.000 Have a counter argument.

00:54:05.000 And debunk what they said.

00:54:06.000 And I still haven't heard that from you.

00:54:08.000 So I'm still trying to figure out here.

00:54:09.000 You're saying, oh, you think you're always right.

00:54:11.000 I disagree.

00:54:12.000 Okay, what do you disagree with? 0.93

00:54:13.000 Oh, you degrade women. 1.00

00:54:14.000 Okay, how do I degrade women? 1.00

00:54:15.000 Oh, well, my understanding was you said guys should have sex with a girl after the first date because he paid. 0.84

00:54:21.000 I was like, I never said that.

00:54:22.000 Okay, so what did you say?

00:54:24.000 So you're making an argument for something you don't even know.

00:54:26.000 Go ahead and explain to the people, your fans here.

00:54:30.000 No, because you're the one.

00:54:31.000 If you're going to disagree with a point, then it's on you.

00:54:35.000 I didn't disagree with the point that you said women had to always after the first date. 0.98

00:54:41.000 That's the point that I didn't like.

00:54:43.000 Myron, she's the gritting man.

00:54:43.000 Stop it.

00:54:45.000 Myron.

00:54:46.000 If you're going to take a stance, you do realize if you're going to take a stance, you need to be able to, one, to support your claim.

00:54:53.000 Okay, the claim that, like, I don't agree with that.

00:54:57.000 I don't think women should have to... 1.00

00:54:58.000 I never said that, though.

00:54:59.000 But I don't think, at their first date, women should always have to bust it open, like, you know?

00:55:05.000 I never said that.

00:55:05.000 You're getting to know each other, you know?

00:55:08.000 Nobody said that.

00:55:09.000 Nobody said that.

00:55:10.000 That's just what it gave me.

00:55:11.000 I'm just saying that's what it gave me.

00:55:13.000 So you misinterpreted the information.

00:55:14.000 Okay.

00:55:15.000 Misinterpretation.

00:55:15.000 Sorry, fans.

00:55:17.000 Sorry, YouTube, and all these...

00:55:20.000 Whose fault is it if you misinterpret the information?

00:55:21.000 Whose fault is it if you misinterpret the information?

00:55:35.000 Hey, hey,

00:55:51.000 hey, hey! 0.96

00:55:54.000 Hey, when I'm speaking, you need to be quiet.

00:55:55.000 You had a chance to speak.

00:55:56.000 You couldn't defend your points.

00:55:58.000 You didn't even know what was said.

00:55:59.000 So please be quiet while I'm speaking.

00:56:01.000 What was illustrated was she didn't like what I said and made her feel some type of way.

00:56:06.000 She interpreted a certain way and came on here and gave me her interpretation, which was absolutely incorrect.

00:56:12.000 This is one of the biggest differences between men and women.

00:56:14.000 Women analyze how the information is conveyed. 1.00

00:56:16.000 Men analyze what information is conveyed. 0.99

00:56:18.000 This proves my point that women are emotional thinkers first. 1.00

00:56:21.000 She's going off how I made her feel when she saw that segment versus what I actually said.

00:56:26.000 This is literally a quintessential example of how men and women interpret information differently.

00:56:31.000 This is why men need to be in leadership roles.

00:56:33.000 She's not the speaker for all women, though.

00:56:35.000 No, but I'm just giving you an example real-time that just happened in front of you.

00:56:38.000 How women interpret information. 1.00

00:56:40.000 You gonna take that from her? 0.97

00:56:41.000 No.

00:56:42.000 I don't really care.

00:56:44.000 And here's the other thing, too.

00:56:45.000 I'm just here.

00:56:46.000 Let's make this even funner.

00:56:48.000 She wants to be a lawyer, which typically you're going to need to debate. 0.98

00:56:52.000 And I will be.

00:56:53.000 And I will be.

00:56:54.000 Can you please stop interrupting?

00:56:56.000 Please stop interrupting.

00:56:57.000 So what I'm saying is that she's going into a field where you need to be able to debate your points, be logically sound and rational, and she would even revert it back to female nature. 1.00

00:57:05.000 I'm not knocking her for it, but this is just how women in general tend to interpret information. 1.00

00:57:08.000 If they don't like how it makes them feel, they kind of run with that feeling and they might misinterpret the information that was said because it made them feel an incorrect way.

00:57:16.000 I mean, like I was trying to say, what her behavior is, it doesn't speak for all of us.

00:57:21.000 Like, there's some women that can keep their composure that are good at analytical thinking. 1.00

00:57:26.000 Yes.

00:57:27.000 Just overall, like, you know.

00:57:29.000 Well, here's the thing.

00:57:30.000 I never said all.

00:57:31.000 But a considerable amount of women lead with how information makes them feel versus what's real. 1.00

00:57:38.000 That's my point.

00:57:40.000 She can definitely fix the way she's thinking.

00:57:44.000 You're not going to be that way permanently when it comes to wanting to be a lawyer.

00:57:48.000 You're definitely going to improve.

00:57:50.000 You're going to study more.

00:57:52.000 I think you're missing the point here.

00:57:55.000 What I'm saying is that women tend to interpret information based on how it's said versus what it's said. 0.98

00:58:01.000 And they'll have an emotional response to it.

00:58:04.000 That's why when I asked her to please articulate what offended you or what was incorrect, she said something that wasn't even said because it made her feel a certain way.

00:58:11.000 That's what I'm trying to establish here.

00:58:12.000 Basically, he's saying that she interpreted with her feelings instead of with her brain.

00:58:19.000 Basically.

00:58:20.000 Instead of the logic behind it.

00:58:21.000 So what was he actually trying to say?

00:58:23.000 Since you're a married woman.

00:58:25.000 I didn't watch the podcast.

00:58:27.000 The last podcast that you watched to interpret it for you.

00:58:30.000 I'll tell you what he said. 1.00

00:58:31.000 He said in a nutshell, make on dates to fuck. 0.99

00:58:37.000 Now, ultimately, hold on, when the connection is there, things happen, it's natural. 0.99

00:58:43.000 But from the standpoint of men, we go into it, you know what, I like the girl, I want to see what happens.

00:58:48.000 Girls go on dates and they say, oh, you know what, free dinner, I'm going to see what this guy's about, maybe I might like him, maybe I might not.

00:58:54.000 We're just saying, in that setup right there, men go into it looking for more.

00:58:57.000 Girls are like, you know what, I'll see what happens on a date. 1.00

00:58:59.000 That's it.

00:59:00.000 Yeah, nowhere did we say she has to.

00:59:01.000 She never has to do anything.

00:59:03.000 At all.

00:59:03.000 We're just saying that when a man goes out with a woman, it's typically for sexual reasons.

00:59:07.000 When a woman goes out with a man, it's a multitude of other reasons. 1.00

00:59:10.000 Because women get value out of a first date, regardless of whether they sleep with the guy or not. 0.99

00:59:14.000 The guy, a lot of times, doesn't get value unless he gets some kind of intimacy.

00:59:17.000 So basically, every day a guy goes out expecting to meet at the end of the night.

00:59:24.000 First night, he wanted to smash.

00:59:26.000 Guarantee you.

00:59:27.000 We didn't though.

00:59:29.000 That's not the point.

00:59:30.000 He wanted to though.

00:59:31.000 How long did it take?

00:59:34.000 We didn't do it till like three times in.

00:59:40.000 He's struggling over here.

00:59:44.000 It's the head on the mic for me.

00:59:50.000 Yeah, I think we'll just move on.

00:59:52.000 You got it, though.

00:59:52.000 You got it.

00:59:53.000 We'll just move on.

00:59:54.000 What's wrong?

00:59:57.000 Where are we at here?

00:59:57.000 We're gonna move on.

00:59:58.000 Yeah.

00:59:59.000 Fresh look like he closed the fridge with his lips.

01:00:03.000 With his hips. 0.54

01:00:09.000 Ladies, if you met a man that's making a little above average salary, he says he could provide for you and children, but we have to move to a smaller city.

01:00:20.000 Would you be cool with that?

01:00:24.000 You're going to Oklahoma.

01:00:27.000 Kansas.

01:00:28.000 Missouri.

01:00:29.000 Arkansas.

01:00:31.000 I mean, I'm already kind of private when it comes to my relationships.

01:00:36.000 But, I don't know.

01:00:39.000 I mean...

01:00:40.000 We'll make it simple.

01:00:42.000 How many of you, by raising hands, would move to a smaller city if you're provided for?

01:00:47.000 I come from a small city, so...

01:00:49.000 So, only three girls on the panel? 0.74

01:00:50.000 The rest of you wouldn't move?

01:00:52.000 I would move if I loved the person.

01:00:55.000 Well, yeah, that's the question.

01:00:56.000 Yeah, if you're in love and being provided for.

01:01:00.000 Well, I mean, there can be a difference between just like you just want to be with somebody that provides for you versus just being with somebody you love.

01:01:07.000 I want to be with somebody I love, not just because they're going to provide for me.

01:01:10.000 I want that connection.

01:01:11.000 Would you be with someone?

01:01:13.000 The question is based on you.

01:01:14.000 So would you even be with someone that took care of you if you didn't love them, though?

01:01:19.000 I would move for them as long as I love them.

01:01:24.000 Why would you be with them if you don't love them?

01:01:27.000 Well, then if that's the point, then yeah, I would move.

01:01:30.000 Got it.

01:01:31.000 So, yes.

01:01:32.000 Alright.

01:01:34.000 We got here.

01:01:35.000 Where are we at?

01:01:37.000 DJ Troy, one of the greatest blessings a woman can give a man without being married to that man? 0.93

01:01:42.000 I think that's the question he's asking.

01:01:43.000 What is the greatest blessing a woman can give a man without being married to him? 1.00

01:01:47.000 We can start with you.

01:01:48.000 Go ahead.

01:01:53.000 Loyalty.

01:01:54.000 You just, you know, you keep to yourself and to this person and even though you're not fully committed, you just show them you're about it and you'll be faithful.

01:02:03.000 I mean, that's a good one.

01:02:05.000 Okay.

01:02:06.000 For you?

01:02:08.000 I'd say children, because that's a whole other responsibility.

01:02:13.000 You're bringing a new life into the world that's basically saying, like, I'm willing to communicate with you for the next 18 years, honestly, for the rest of the life of this child.

01:02:20.000 Do you want to have kids without marriage?

01:02:22.000 No, no.

01:02:23.000 That's the question.

01:02:24.000 Without being married to that man.

01:02:26.000 Yeah, I'm saying that's the biggest blessing I could give you.

01:02:31.000 Without being married?

01:02:32.000 Yeah.

01:02:33.000 That's what he's saying.

01:02:35.000 You're cool with that.

01:02:38.000 Real quick, guys.

01:02:39.000 We're going to go ahead and we just passed the one hour mark. 0.97

01:02:41.000 We're going to kill the Facebook, Twitch, and Twitter.

01:02:44.000 Come on over to either Rumble or YouTube, guys.

01:02:46.000 Fresh Fit on YouTube or on Rumble.

01:02:48.000 Come on over, guys.

01:02:49.000 Come on over right now.

01:02:50.000 Come on over from Twitter and Twitch.

01:02:52.000 Sorry, continue on.

01:02:54.000 So she's saying kids basically is her blessing.

01:02:57.000 Kids?

01:02:58.000 Before marriage?

01:02:58.000 Okay.

01:03:00.000 Her presence.

01:03:03.000 Presence?

01:03:04.000 Yeah, her presence.

01:03:05.000 Her being there.

01:03:07.000 Isn't that like, I mean, he's there too.

01:03:12.000 Yeah, but a woman's there too and her time is more valuable, biologically speaking, because she has a time limit to get pregnant. 1.00

01:03:20.000 So your time is better than my time?

01:03:22.000 Yeah, biologically speaking, yes. 1.00

01:03:24.000 Damn. 0.99

01:03:25.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:03:25.000 That's crazy. 1.00

01:03:26.000 I have eggs that are gonna expire.

01:03:28.000 Tick tock.

01:03:29.000 You know what I mean?

01:03:30.000 And it's not gonna expire by when you're 35, you know?

01:03:34.000 Thank God.

01:03:35.000 Well, you're a man, you know?

01:03:36.000 Thank God, right?

01:03:37.000 Okay.

01:03:37.000 So you think that women have more value up front because of the biological time clock?

01:03:44.000 Yes.

01:03:44.000 Because the milk expires.

01:03:46.000 Okay.

01:03:47.000 I see that perspective.

01:03:47.000 Yeah.

01:03:48.000 Milk.

01:03:48.000 Yeah.

01:03:50.000 Expires.

01:03:51.000 I'll have to disagree with those two, but not to, you know, give me a light over here or anything, but just because you give a child to a guy doesn't mean that he's going to stay or think that that's a blessing to him,

01:04:06.000 you get what I'm saying?

01:04:06.000 So that's how you see it, but that's not how they see it, you get what I'm saying?

01:04:10.000 Depends on the person.

01:04:12.000 I'm going to leave the country.

01:04:15.000 Who said that?

01:04:16.000 But, um...

01:04:18.000 I would think it's basically loyalty, honestly, because it's hard to come by that these days, especially living in these times with females being city girls and yeah, so I'll say loyalty. 0.96

01:04:37.000 Trust, basically.

01:04:39.000 That goes hand in hand.

01:04:41.000 Loyalty and trust.

01:04:43.000 I second third that.

01:04:47.000 Loyalty and trust without being married.

01:04:50.000 That's big.

01:04:52.000 For you?

01:04:53.000 I would say support.

01:04:57.000 Support?

01:04:58.000 Okay, that's good.

01:05:19.000 Do you really think that's a gift or isn't that supposed to be a requirement?

01:05:27.000 I mean, I couldn't think of another gift.

01:05:32.000 Don't you want me to be faithful, nigga?

01:05:34.000 Yeah, but shouldn't that be a requirement? 0.83

01:05:37.000 Yeah, of course.

01:05:38.000 Versus, you know, something that is a gift?

01:05:42.000 Because a gift is kind of like elective, right?

01:05:45.000 Versus mandatory?

01:05:46.000 Yeah.

01:05:47.000 Yeah, I don't...

01:05:48.000 What gift?

01:05:50.000 I mean, what gift could you give a man?

01:05:53.000 I mean...

01:05:54.000 Okay, this is great.

01:05:57.000 All right.

01:05:58.000 Question for you real quick, because you said that a woman's time is more valuable from the biological perspective. 1.00

01:06:03.000 So, real quick, who do you think the prize is in a relationship, a man or a woman?

01:06:07.000 Here we go, right?

01:06:09.000 I think a woman.

01:06:10.000 Okay, why do you think so?

01:06:12.000 Well, she gives the kids, first of all.

01:06:15.000 Okay.

01:06:16.000 And she's making... 0.91

01:06:18.000 Well, a man is only doing anything in life. 1.00

01:06:23.000 It's because of a woman. 0.99

01:06:24.000 Okay.

01:06:25.000 What do you mean by that?

01:06:26.000 Well, I mean, why are you going to job?

01:06:28.000 Why are you trying to accomplish something if it's not for a woman? 1.00

01:06:32.000 Okay.

01:06:33.000 So, I think the woman is the prize here. 1.00

01:06:35.000 Because you're doing it for her, for the prize.

01:06:38.000 Okay.

01:06:39.000 Interesting.

01:06:40.000 But wouldn't it be fair to say that once the man does all that and accomplishes himself and gets in the gym and acquires the status, the money, the fitness, etc., that he actually inadvertently turns himself into the prize?

01:06:54.000 He becomes high value, but a woman still is the prize. 1.00

01:06:58.000 You think so?

01:06:58.000 Yes.

01:07:00.000 Would a woman be the prize if beautiful women are still pretty common versus a high-value man? 1.00

01:07:05.000 Well, that's a high-value man would not cheat and be loyal.

01:07:08.000 You think a high-value man would be loyal?

01:07:09.000 Because he has discipline and emotional intelligence not to do so.

01:07:13.000 Interesting.

01:07:14.000 Discipline.

01:07:14.000 So you think a component of being high-value is being disciplined with his sexuality?

01:07:21.000 Yes.

01:07:22.000 Controlling your urges and basically putting your energy into something that makes you grow more.

01:07:27.000 Interesting. 1.00

01:07:28.000 Do you like my penis? 1.00

01:07:29.000 Let me ask you this. 1.00

01:07:31.000 Are you picky with men?

01:07:32.000 Absolutely.

01:07:33.000 You are.

01:07:33.000 Okay.

01:07:35.000 What's your preference?

01:07:36.000 Do you want a guy over six feet tall, I'm guessing?

01:07:37.000 No, I don't think that it's going to be mostly the looks.

01:07:41.000 What are you selective on, then, particularly?

01:07:44.000 Well, it's many things.

01:07:46.000 Energy.

01:07:47.000 Yeah, it's one of those as well.

01:07:50.000 It needs to be good energy.

01:07:52.000 It needs to have morals, first of all.

01:07:54.000 Such as?

01:07:55.000 Such as, well...

01:07:57.000 No cheating.

01:07:58.000 Yeah, one of those.

01:08:00.000 Respecting.

01:08:01.000 Not just women. 0.67

01:08:02.000 People around him as well.

01:08:04.000 What are your preference?

01:08:05.000 Do you want him to be physically strong?

01:08:07.000 Yes, I would prefer my man to, let's say, protect me if I need to be protected.

01:08:13.000 Yeah.

01:08:15.000 So I just find it interesting because you want the guy to be disciplined with his desires, but you're not necessarily disciplined with your desires.

01:08:23.000 Why not just go with a nice guy that's homeless?

01:08:25.000 How am I not disciplined?

01:08:26.000 Or more average.

01:08:27.000 Why not just get with a more...

01:08:28.000 How am I not disciplined?

01:08:31.000 You see what I did there?

01:08:33.000 What you want in a man, right? 0.99

01:08:35.000 If I tell you, oh no!

01:08:37.000 Peel it back a bit.

01:08:38.000 Take it easy.

01:08:38.000 Why are your standards so high?

01:08:41.000 Just have some discipline.

01:08:42.000 Get with a more normal, average guy.

01:08:44.000 You're like, no. 1.00

01:08:45.000 What the fuck? 1.00

01:08:45.000 So I just kind of find it interesting that women expect men to be disciplined after a man has to work to gain his value, but women are never disciplined and lower their standards with the type of man that they want. 1.00

01:08:57.000 Why is that women can ask the world of a man But a man can't ask a girl, hey, I want to have multiple partners. 0.97

01:09:03.000 I've worked myself to have a certain point.

01:09:05.000 Like, why does he have to exercise discipline?

01:09:07.000 Well, she's disciplining herself too. 1.00

01:09:08.000 She's not giving away herself to any men.

01:09:12.000 That's the thing as well.

01:09:13.000 I mean, not having a whole phase, I think that's a...

01:09:16.000 Understandable, but realistically speaking, are women virgins? 0.99

01:09:19.000 Yes, there are some.

01:09:20.000 Who?

01:09:21.000 There are some.

01:09:22.000 Are you?

01:09:22.000 I know a couple.

01:09:23.000 There are some.

01:09:24.000 Okay, but the vast majority of women, are they virgins? 1.00

01:09:27.000 No.

01:09:27.000 There are some.

01:09:28.000 Okay, but the vast majority are they?

01:09:31.000 Well, because men manipulate women. 1.00

01:09:33.000 Okay, we gotta have some accountability here, because women are the ones that pick who fucks. 1.00

01:09:38.000 You see what I'm doing? 0.99

01:09:39.000 Because you're saying, okay, I want a man that's disciplined sexually, right?

01:09:44.000 Like, he should suppress his urges and wants.

01:09:47.000 But when I ask you, are you gonna...

01:09:48.000 Not suppress.

01:09:49.000 Why suppress?

01:09:50.000 Quite literally what you just said a second ago.

01:09:52.000 No, just...

01:09:52.000 Suppress it, control it.

01:09:54.000 No, no, no.

01:09:54.000 This is energy, right?

01:09:56.000 You're talking about sexual energy.

01:09:57.000 You could convert it into something that's more...

01:10:01.000 So therefore, he's suppressing it and putting it into something else, which is literally what I just said.

01:10:04.000 I wouldn't say suppress.

01:10:05.000 It's just shifting the energy to something more.

01:10:08.000 Okay.

01:10:09.000 Well, that's how you go to gym. 0.73

01:10:10.000 You just put your sexual energy to gym. 0.58

01:10:12.000 That's how you do it.

01:10:13.000 It doesn't fully go away, though.

01:10:15.000 It's still there.

01:10:16.000 Well, yeah.

01:10:16.000 That's why you have a woman, right?

01:10:18.000 Oh, man.

01:10:19.000 How about this?

01:10:19.000 What if I say you suppress your need to be with a man that makes more money than you?

01:10:22.000 Just get with a more average guy.

01:10:23.000 Why not be alone then?

01:10:26.000 That's discipline.

01:10:27.000 You guys see what I mean here?

01:10:31.000 When you put the shoe on the other foot, women aren't going to go ahead and settle. 1.00

01:10:34.000 Why would I waste my time and energy on someone I don't think that's valuable? 0.94

01:10:37.000 Okay, so why should a man waste his time and energy on a girl that expects monogamy from him when he's busted his ass to get to a certain point and he wants to have multiple women? 0.91

01:10:43.000 Okay, so if he got to his point, he's now eligible to be able to cheat because he has money now and he's able to cheat? 0.98

01:10:53.000 Is that what you're saying?

01:10:54.000 I think once a man reaches a certain status and makes a certain amount of money, and if he wants to have multiple women, I think he should be able to do so without any type of shaming or anything.

01:11:06.000 Because the problem is this, men are apologetic for being men.

01:11:09.000 And with all due respect, the way I view women is women are trustful babies.

01:11:13.000 Men are self-made millionaires from a sexuality standpoint.

01:11:16.000 When you turn 18, you basically get a big endowment of a million dollars.

01:11:20.000 That's your youth, your beauty.

01:11:22.000 Men that are millionaires and successful will go ahead and want to date you even though you really don't bring that much value to the world.

01:11:26.000 You just turned 18.

01:11:27.000 Men, on the other hand, they have to pay for the yachts. 0.94

01:11:30.000 They have to pay for the nice cars.

01:11:31.000 They have to pay for the lifestyle.

01:11:32.000 They have to go to the gym and get in shape.

01:11:34.000 They have to learn how to fight.

01:11:35.000 They have to become competent.

01:11:36.000 Men have to work way harder.

01:11:37.000 Yeah, because you have more.

01:11:39.000 Hold on, let me just finish.

01:11:39.000 Men have to work way harder to attract the opposite gender.

01:11:41.000 So, it doesn't make sense to me that women will sit there and try to police your dick When they never worked hard enough with having a dick. 1.00

01:11:48.000 That's my point. 1.00

01:11:49.000 Women are trust fund babies. 1.00

01:11:50.000 Men are self-made millionaires.

01:11:52.000 Trust fund babies can't tell self-made millionaires how to spend their money. 1.00

01:11:54.000 So I find it ridiculous when women try to say, a high-value man does X, Y, Z. No, a high-value man doesn't listen to women. 0.98

01:12:01.000 Bars. 0.86

01:12:02.000 Period.

01:12:02.000 I have a question.

01:12:03.000 Go ahead, sure.

01:12:05.000 Do you think all rich men cheat?

01:12:08.000 A standard and majority do.

01:12:09.000 Majority.

01:12:10.000 You should know.

01:12:12.000 But we're focusing on the majority, not the few.

01:12:18.000 If I had a daughter, or my sister, I told her this, if you want to get with a man that earns a lot of money, be prepared to share him.

01:12:27.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:12:28.000 Holding out for that 1% man is delusional, stupid, and not in your best interest. 1.00

01:12:33.000 Especially since you've made it yourself. 1.00

01:12:35.000 You're on a biological time clock, right?

01:12:37.000 So that's how you would raise your sense?

01:12:40.000 Oh, what do you mean?

01:12:41.000 Raise him in what way?

01:12:42.000 Just, if you know that he's cheating on his wife, let's say.

01:12:45.000 Would you say that he's doing a good job?

01:12:46.000 I would tell him to be honest and let women know up front that he wants multiple women.

01:12:49.000 And that's the most important thing.

01:12:51.000 But, let's be honest here.

01:12:53.000 Are most men going to be honest and tell women, oh, I want to have multiple chicks?

01:12:56.000 No, because, I mean, look at your response.

01:12:58.000 You have an issue with a man being polygamous, which is cool.

01:13:01.000 A lot of women do, but The reality is once men reach a certain stature, they're going to do it whether you like it or not.

01:13:06.000 So if I'm telling you it's raining outside and I give you an umbrella and you walk outside and you get wet and you didn't open up the umbrella, whose fault is that?

01:13:12.000 It's your fault, right?

01:13:13.000 Because I told you it's raining outside and I even gave you the umbrella.

01:13:15.000 So why be in a relationship then?

01:13:18.000 Why step outside?

01:13:19.000 Yeah, why?

01:13:20.000 Because at some point the sun's going to come out.

01:13:22.000 So just for that one moment?

01:13:24.000 You see what I did there?

01:13:25.000 At some point the sun's going to come out.

01:13:26.000 It might rain, but in general the weather's always nice.

01:13:30.000 But that women got to be able to weather that storm, and they don't want to weather it. 1.00

01:13:33.000 That's what comes with the territory when you're a high-value man.

01:13:35.000 We don't want a high-value man without dealing with high-value man problems.

01:13:37.000 That's not a high-value man problem.

01:13:39.000 Can I put in?

01:13:41.000 Fresh.

01:13:42.000 Yeah, sure.

01:13:42.000 And then I'll rebut what she just said.

01:13:44.000 My thing, it all depends on the individual and how well they communicate with whoever they're talking to.

01:13:53.000 And it also depends on the female as well. 0.99

01:13:57.000 Now...

01:14:00.000 If you reach a certain caliber in life or whatever, and your success, you get to cheat or whatever.

01:14:06.000 That depends on if you talk to your person about that, who you're with.

01:14:11.000 If you're in a community relationship, you have to communicate that.

01:14:14.000 Okay, hey babe, at this point, I think we should have an open relationship.

01:14:19.000 Now, if they agree to that, give me the option to agree with you or disagree with you.

01:14:24.000 Yeah.

01:14:24.000 So I get to choose whether I want to stay or leave.

01:14:27.000 I agree.

01:14:28.000 That's the only thing.

01:14:29.000 That's where I, you know...

01:14:31.000 I agree.

01:14:31.000 Are you cool with your man seeing other girls?

01:14:34.000 Am I cool with it?

01:14:35.000 Yeah.

01:14:37.000 No.

01:14:37.000 Hold on.

01:14:38.000 He wants to communicate with you and say, you know what, babe?

01:14:40.000 Because guess what?

01:14:41.000 The only reason I disagree is because I gave him a chance to go do that.

01:14:46.000 Oh, you gave him a chance?

01:14:48.000 But you still call the shots because if you're not okay with it, you can't do it.

01:14:54.000 No, here's the thing.

01:14:56.000 Let's hear your thing.

01:14:57.000 Because at the end of the day, regardless of the fact, a man is going to cheat regardless.

01:15:04.000 It depends.

01:15:06.000 Not every man cheats.

01:15:07.000 I'm not saying that.

01:15:08.000 So you know it's coming.

01:15:09.000 But majority of the men cheat.

01:15:11.000 If you find that he got cheated on you tomorrow, what would you do?

01:15:13.000 What would you do?

01:15:15.000 Honestly, I've been through a lot with my person, so I can only speak for myself.

01:15:19.000 I would stay.

01:15:20.000 But would I constantly take the disrespect?

01:15:24.000 No.

01:15:25.000 I wouldn't if it's like, you know.

01:15:27.000 So you would stay, but he'd be like the nice.

01:15:29.000 It's my thing is the lying.

01:15:32.000 You want honesty.

01:15:33.000 I want honesty.

01:15:34.000 So if you get to do what you want to do, that means I can go.

01:15:37.000 I don't mean, okay, I'm not going to throw myself on every dude.

01:15:42.000 I'm not going to sleep with every dude.

01:15:43.000 But if I decide, hey, I want to stay with you while you're doing this, then that's my choice.

01:15:48.000 But if I don't want to stay with you while you're doing this, then I get to leave.

01:15:52.000 I get to keep my options open.

01:15:54.000 Just let me be able to keep my options open if you want to be able to do what you want to do.

01:15:59.000 See, she wants to honestly react to it.

01:16:01.000 Which is fine, but once again, that means, oh, you can see other people?

01:16:04.000 So can I? Which is not cool, though.

01:16:06.000 Yeah, so how would men feel about that?

01:16:08.000 Yeah, how is it not cool if you guys...

01:16:10.000 I'm not saying I'm going to go throw myself and sleep with every dude.

01:16:14.000 No, I'm not going to sleep with anybody else and degrade myself.

01:16:17.000 Just one or two.

01:16:18.000 No, I'm not going to degrade myself while I'm with you. 0.99

01:16:20.000 Because that fucking lessens my value. 0.99

01:16:25.000 So she knows. 0.99

01:16:26.000 You know what I'm saying?

01:16:27.000 So, yeah.

01:16:28.000 Alright, so you even know subconsciously that going out and dealing with other men to try to maybe get a get back is a bad move for you as a female. 1.00

01:16:36.000 Yeah.

01:16:37.000 Okay.

01:16:38.000 You had something?

01:16:40.000 What's the point of being in a relationship if you're not going to be monogamous?

01:16:43.000 I mean, the point traditionally of a relationship is to be that person's other half.

01:16:47.000 To grow with that person in sickness and in health.

01:16:52.000 And if a woman can't be Have multiple partners, just like the men. 1.00

01:17:00.000 I mean, how...

01:17:00.000 the majority of men, you know...

01:17:02.000 Okay, let me ask you a question.

01:17:05.000 Okay, yes. 1.00

01:17:06.000 If you were with a man that you truly loved and admired and respected, would you want to fuck another guy? 1.00

01:17:10.000 No. 1.00

01:17:10.000 Okay, now let's flip it. 1.00

01:17:12.000 If a guy was with a woman that he loved and admired and respected, would you want to fuck another girl? 1.00

01:17:16.000 The answer is yes, in general. 0.99

01:17:17.000 Would I want...

01:17:18.000 No, would he want...

01:17:20.000 Yeah. 0.71

01:17:21.000 Going back to the question again, I asked you, if you're with a man you love, admire, and respect, would you want to have sex with other men?

01:17:25.000 You said no.

01:17:26.000 Now, let's flip it, right?

01:17:28.000 Because you're saying, why not be monogamous?

01:17:29.000 Now, let's flip it.

01:17:30.000 If a man's with a woman that he loves, admires, respect, is he going to have sex with other women? 0.96

01:17:33.000 The answer, 90 plus percent of the time, is yes.

01:17:36.000 But that's, why be in a relationship if that's the point?

01:17:40.000 If it's for religious reasons, I believe that's fine. 0.92

01:17:42.000 Because you're looking at a relationship from a female perspective. 1.00

01:17:44.000 Only.

01:17:45.000 Because I think it's messed up to just be disloyal.

01:17:50.000 Yeah, because, I mean, that's my opinion.

01:17:51.000 I mean, why be in a relationship if you're not going to be loyal to that person, be that person's other half? 0.94

01:17:56.000 I mean, unless it's for religious reasons, I understand it more, but you're trying to influence, like, or just trying to tell us, like, oh, we worked for it.

01:18:06.000 The majority of guys are cashiers at CVS. How are you working?

01:18:11.000 Just because you were born with different genitalia than I? Here's the thing.

01:18:16.000 Men have to work harder in general than women in almost every endeavor in life. 0.97

01:18:21.000 I find it very interesting and funny that women that are given their value try to tell a man who has to earn their value how to spend their value.

01:18:30.000 You understand?

01:18:31.000 But we're not like assets.

01:18:33.000 We're not like something at a grocery store that you say, oh, I'm this price, I'm this price.

01:18:39.000 How do you know how much value you have?

01:18:40.000 We're just people at the end of the day.

01:18:42.000 That's all we are.

01:18:43.000 Alright, so in dating, in relationships, there's hierarchies.

01:18:47.000 Whether people want to admit it or not, we're all competing with each other to some degree.

01:18:50.000 Women are competing for the best mates, men are competing for the best mates. 0.94

01:18:53.000 The metrics that make us attractive are different.

01:18:56.000 The metrics that make a woman attractive, in general, youth, beauty, chastity, right? 1.00

01:19:02.000 And fertility.

01:19:03.000 It's what men have wanted since the beginning of time.

01:19:04.000 Women want security, provisioning, strength, competence, etc. 1.00

01:19:07.000 But the things that a woman wants in a man take time to acquire. 1.00

01:19:11.000 The things that a man wants in a woman don't take time to require. 1.00

01:19:13.000 So therefore, our values are different.

01:19:17.000 And since our values are different, that heavily influences how we deal with each other.

01:19:22.000 Hold on.

01:19:23.000 You just said we're not price tags or we don't have certain values.

01:19:26.000 You sell yourself online.

01:19:28.000 OnlyFans.

01:19:29.000 How much do you charge for your You're taking it out of context.

01:19:42.000 I'm talking about in a relationship.

01:19:43.000 I'm not, at least me on OnlyFans, I'm not messing around with other people.

01:19:47.000 I let my partner know, yo, this is a good way for me to make some additional money.

01:19:52.000 I've had a lot go on in my life, right?

01:19:55.000 And I'm not getting any support anymore from anybody.

01:19:58.000 I've had it really...

01:20:01.000 I hear what you're saying.

01:20:02.000 I'm just saying everyone has a level of, I want to say, authority, price, for example, or value on some level.

01:20:10.000 Because there's competition between you, her, her, her, and her. 1.00

01:20:14.000 There is?

01:20:15.000 100%.

01:20:15.000 In what way?

01:20:18.000 I'll give you an example.

01:20:19.000 Let's say a guy's going to choose a girl in here. 1.00

01:20:22.000 He's going to look at what she does for a living.

01:20:24.000 How hot she is? 1.00

01:20:26.000 Is she feminine? 1.00

01:20:27.000 Is she going to help me with my business?

01:20:29.000 All these factors are going to determine what he's going to do with you.

01:20:32.000 So there's a level of competition being set up between all the girls here at all times.

01:20:38.000 I mean, like, there's always going to be a guy like, oh, like, she's better looking, she's cooler.

01:20:43.000 I mean, like, does it matter at the end of the day?

01:20:44.000 It does, if you want...

01:20:46.000 I mean, like, you know, you're always going to find, like, go on shitty dates, go on good dates.

01:20:52.000 You just got to find that person you connect with.

01:20:54.000 It doesn't even have to be.

01:20:55.000 See, you're speaking from a privileged perspective because you're the one that's choosing.

01:20:59.000 You're not competing.

01:21:00.000 No.

01:21:00.000 Like, you're not overtly competing where you're acquiring status and money and all these other things.

01:21:04.000 Like, with all due respect, women live life on easy mode, which is kind of makes you guys delusional about how the world really works. 1.00

01:21:09.000 Mm-hmm.

01:21:09.000 It takes two to tango.

01:21:10.000 I mean, like, we have sometimes, like, we can't...

01:21:14.000 No, it takes one to initiate the dance, and that's the man.

01:21:18.000 That's the difference. 0.99

01:21:19.000 It doesn't take two to fucking tango. 0.99

01:21:20.000 It takes the man to initiate the dance, and the woman follows. 0.99

01:21:23.000 Yep.

01:21:24.000 That's how dancing works. 0.99

01:21:27.000 And if you've got a good leader, any woman can dance with him.

01:21:32.000 So it doesn't really take two to tango.

01:21:34.000 Man, you go overpriced, man.

01:21:36.000 12 bucks? 1.00

01:21:37.000 Goddamn. 1.00

01:21:37.000 And that's the thing, and I say this with all due respect, but the reality is that women are very replaceable when it comes to beauty. 1.00

01:21:44.000 And I get what you're saying.

01:21:45.000 Well, I have a biological time clock, etc.

01:21:47.000 Well, you're an attractive young woman.

01:21:48.000 That's cool.

01:21:49.000 But this is Miami.

01:21:50.000 There's a bunch of attractive women just like you that... 1.00

01:21:52.000 Pretty much are going to be similar to...

01:21:55.000 Here's the thing.

01:21:57.000 The level of high-value men in comparison to beautiful women aren't even close.

01:22:01.000 It's different.

01:22:01.000 It's very different.

01:22:02.000 It's very different because they can look good, but they can be not sugar honey iced tea.

01:22:09.000 Okay?

01:22:10.000 So...

01:22:11.000 What do you mean by that?

01:22:12.000 From the men or the female perspective?

01:22:13.000 The men.

01:22:21.000 High quality men that are attractive are very rare, but beautiful women are everywhere.

01:22:25.000 Exactly, but it's more common for a man to put up with females that have less than them than a female that has more than a man to put up with a man that has less than them. 0.54

01:22:37.000 You get what I'm saying?

01:22:38.000 If a female makes more than a man, it's more like... 1.00

01:22:42.000 Difficult for her to like that man.

01:22:44.000 Difficult for her to accept that man for making less.

01:22:46.000 You get what I'm saying?

01:22:47.000 I understand.

01:22:49.000 Most women don't want to be in a breadwinner position. 1.00

01:22:52.000 To me, it looks like you, in particular, you would want a guy that's very picky, so you're probably going for a higher value guy, right?

01:23:00.000 I'm a high-value woman.

01:23:02.000 I pick a high-value man, yes.

01:23:03.000 Yeah, we know you do.

01:23:04.000 Okay, well, controversial take.

01:23:06.000 I don't think there's such a thing as a high-value woman that's single, but that's my take on it. 1.00

01:23:10.000 And I can explain that.

01:23:14.000 What'd you say, Mo?

01:23:16.000 Her Instagram is a high-value.

01:23:18.000 Mo said...

01:23:21.000 She's pretty bad, man.

01:23:23.000 Oh, it's bad?

01:23:23.000 Yeah, it's bad.

01:23:24.000 I mean, it's just modeling.

01:23:26.000 No, it's not modeling.

01:23:27.000 It's just modeling.

01:23:29.000 No, that is modeling.

01:23:31.000 I don't have naked pictures in there.

01:23:33.000 I'm going to have to get my boots on.

01:23:36.000 Okay, so I'll explain why and I'll explain why I have this belief and then you guys can agree or disagree.

01:23:44.000 I don't think there's such thing as a high value woman on her own and the reason why is that typically women are evaluated on the strength of their relationships. 1.00

01:23:52.000 Men are evaluated on the strength of their success, which then builds relationships, right?

01:23:56.000 So when two men meet, they shake hands.

01:23:58.000 What do you do for work?

01:24:00.000 You know, etc.

01:24:01.000 That's how they measure each other, by status, income, influence.

01:24:04.000 Women, on the other hand, judge each other by how beautiful are you and do you have a man? 1.00

01:24:08.000 Do you have a relationship?

01:24:09.000 When two women meet, it's like, oh, are you single?

01:24:10.000 Blah, blah, blah.

01:24:11.000 So...

01:24:12.000 A girl that makes $100,000 a year, or let's say a million dollars a year, doesn't have the same equivalent power as a guy that makes a million dollars a year. 1.00

01:24:19.000 That man is going to command more attention in the dating marketplace because women are more interested in income and status. 1.00

01:24:24.000 Men, on the other hand, are not interested in that, right?

01:24:26.000 So a millionaire man is not the same as a millionaire woman. 0.62

01:24:28.000 Now, with that said, since women's value comes typically from their relationships, if a woman doesn't have the last name of a high-value man, she's not high-value. 1.00

01:24:36.000 Because then any girl can run around and call themselves high-value. 1.00

01:24:39.000 A woman's value typically is determined by the caliber of man that she can attract and, most importantly, retain, not just fuck. 1.00

01:24:46.000 It's why women aspire to get married and walk down the aisle in a white dress and they dream about that. 1.00

01:24:50.000 Women typically want a relationship with a higher status guy. 1.00

01:24:52.000 So I would argue a woman is in high value unless she has a high-bodied man last name to co-sign her. 1.00

01:24:57.000 Because women acquire status through men, not the other way around. 1.00

01:25:01.000 You have anything for that?

01:25:02.000 Yeah, I don't agree with that.

01:25:04.000 Why do you not agree?

01:25:05.000 Because I think women's value first starts with her... 1.00

01:25:11.000 Age, then her beauty, and then her brains, and then her beliefs, and then her respect to herself, and then her hobbies, and then her time investing into what she does, into hobbies.

01:25:23.000 Let me ask you this then.

01:25:24.000 If a girl has all these things in line, wouldn't it be easier for her to find a happy man? 0.85

01:25:28.000 Yes.

01:25:29.000 Okay.

01:25:29.000 So, if she has those things in place, it should be easy for her to find a guy.

01:25:32.000 Yes. 0.99

01:25:33.000 So, if she can't find a guy, whose fuck up is that? 0.99

01:25:36.000 When it's easy to find a guy? 0.99

01:25:38.000 I mean, it's the woman.

01:25:40.000 There you go.

01:25:41.000 So, if you have all these things in place, it should be easy for you to get a man. 0.73

01:25:44.000 But if you don't do it...

01:25:46.000 But there's not as much high-value men as there is high-value women.

01:25:52.000 Oh, so they're scarce.

01:25:53.000 That's what he was saying.

01:25:54.000 You basically disagree with.

01:25:56.000 Yeah, but there is, though.

01:25:58.000 I'm not saying that there isn't at all.

01:26:00.000 You triggered my trap card!

01:26:01.000 You learned this way of arguing for me that I said earlier.

01:26:04.000 I'm not saying that there isn't at all, though.

01:26:06.000 Yeah, but they're scarce.

01:26:07.000 But they're still manageable to find.

01:26:10.000 If I wanted to, I would find one today, but I don't want to.

01:26:13.000 Yeah, you can find one, but ladies, let's not conflate getting sex in a relationship or two different things. 1.00

01:26:19.000 I'm not talking about sex.

01:26:21.000 No, the game is, can you actually keep the man long term?

01:26:26.000 Just because you can attract a guy and go on a date with him, doesn't mean that you can keep him long term.

01:26:32.000 You can.

01:26:33.000 And here's the thing.

01:26:34.000 It's very interesting because you're aware of your biological time clock.

01:26:37.000 You're aware of this.

01:26:39.000 You can't sit there and tell me, oh, I'm just having my fun, etc.

01:26:41.000 You're keenly aware of the fact that you have a limited amount of time to find the best guy.

01:26:44.000 So if you really were with the best guy, or you've been dating him, or you can get him, as you say, you'd be in a relationship with him right now.

01:26:50.000 But why are you single?

01:26:52.000 Not necessarily.

01:26:53.000 Maybe I don't want to right now.

01:26:56.000 I think that's a cope.

01:26:57.000 No, you know, studying medicine isn't an easy thing.

01:27:00.000 You know what I mean?

01:27:02.000 Hey man, she's green car ready.

01:27:03.000 Bro, she's... 1.00

01:27:04.000 I think that's a cope, man.

01:27:06.000 I mean, do you think you're gonna have more value now or when you're done with your medical degree?

01:27:10.000 Not necessarily like till I finish everything.

01:27:13.000 Maybe this year I'm not ready.

01:27:15.000 You know, why do I need to chase someone?

01:27:18.000 Why do I need to look for someone?

01:27:19.000 By your own admission, high-value men are scarce.

01:27:23.000 So, by default, you have to chase them.

01:27:25.000 No, I don't.

01:27:25.000 They need to chase me.

01:27:27.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:27:28.000 She's independent, bro. 1.00

01:27:30.000 She got this, man.

01:27:33.000 I'm fine being alone, you know?

01:27:34.000 I don't mind being alone.

01:27:37.000 Some women are scared to be alone. 1.00

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01:28:31.000 There you go.

01:28:32.000 Go ahead and get it, guys.

01:28:33.000 Real quick question.

01:28:34.000 And I mean, I just got it.

01:28:35.000 Okay.

01:28:36.000 Miss Lithuania, do you think, because I see you have high standards, do you think you deserve a high volume in?

01:28:40.000 Yes.

01:28:41.000 Okay.

01:28:42.000 Do you think you present yourself as wife material? 0.55

01:28:46.000 I do.

01:28:47.000 Let's pull up that Instagram.

01:28:48.000 There we go!

01:28:49.000 Oh, okay.

01:28:50.000 Let's go!

01:28:52.000 Okay.

01:28:53.000 Commercialize me.

01:28:54.000 Mayu, she said she's a woman of God.

01:28:55.000 Mayu, she said she's a woman of God.

01:28:57.000 Mayu, she said she's a woman of God.

01:28:58.000 A woman of God.

01:29:00.000 Commercialize me.

01:29:01.000 Thank you.

01:29:02.000 Free clout.

01:29:02.000 Thank you.

01:29:02.000 We got you.

01:29:03.000 We got you.

01:29:04.000 Yeah, okay.

01:29:04.000 Give me that clout.

01:29:05.000 Yes, make sure you follow her while you're at it.

01:29:08.000 Give me that clout.

01:29:09.000 Yes, it's giving wifey. 1.00

01:29:10.000 It's giving wifey. 1.00

01:29:11.000 It's giving what?

01:29:12.000 It's not even that bad.

01:29:14.000 It's giving paid for.

01:29:16.000 No, it's even YP material.

01:29:19.000 You have your high class.

01:29:20.000 Whose car is that?

01:29:22.000 Whose car is that?

01:29:23.000 That's a modeling thing.

01:29:25.000 Okay, cool.

01:29:26.000 Whose boat is this?

01:29:27.000 Actually, you know, I actually wanted people to know how this happened.

01:29:31.000 I was traveling with my mom at Lake Como.

01:29:34.000 Okay, anyways.

01:29:37.000 It's a boat that he runs. 1.00

01:29:40.000 Okay, she's in a fucking Ferrari. 1.00

01:29:42.000 That's a Lamborghini. 1.00

01:29:43.000 Oh, Lambo. 0.97

01:29:47.000 No, no, no.

01:29:48.000 Hold on.

01:29:48.000 Whose car is that?

01:29:49.000 It's a modeling thing.

01:29:51.000 I go to Miami and model.

01:29:52.000 That Green Lambo is a modeling thing? 0.92

01:29:53.000 Yes.

01:29:54.000 They use props.

01:29:55.000 They rent cars as props and stuff.

01:29:57.000 Props, hotels, late nights.

01:29:59.000 I was with my mom in Italy.

01:30:02.000 Wow, that's beautiful.

01:30:03.000 You're so beautiful.

01:30:04.000 You look so cute.

01:30:05.000 Oh my gosh.

01:30:06.000 They're hating, girl.

01:30:07.000 Wait, wait, hold on.

01:30:08.000 So your mom's all these?

01:30:10.000 They feed you too?

01:30:11.000 She did that, actually.

01:30:12.000 After the photo shoot, we went together to eat dinner.

01:30:15.000 So where's your mom? 0.65

01:30:16.000 Is she here?

01:30:17.000 I don't see her at all.

01:30:17.000 Oh, yeah.

01:30:18.000 She has Instagram as well.

01:30:19.000 No, no, no.

01:30:20.000 I mean, on your page.

01:30:21.000 Of course she's not going to put her on my IG. That's your mom. 0.99

01:30:27.000 What was that?

01:30:28.000 Okay.

01:30:30.000 Sis, you're so pretty. 0.60

01:30:32.000 I was expecting worse.

01:30:33.000 Yeah, like, y'all were trying to comfort her like she was just some run down or something.

01:30:38.000 No, no.

01:30:38.000 You girls don't know.

01:30:40.000 I mean, I know what you mean, but I thought it was worse.

01:30:43.000 This is actually, really, this is very interesting to see the female's perspective on this Instagram versus the guys.

01:30:51.000 What's the first thing that comes to your mind when you see this Instagram?

01:30:55.000 We'll start hearing their work our way.

01:30:56.000 First, one word, if you had to describe it.

01:30:58.000 About her business.

01:31:00.000 Okay.

01:31:00.000 Well, that's a few words, but okay.

01:31:02.000 That's fine.

01:31:03.000 What about you?

01:31:03.000 She looks good.

01:31:04.000 She looks nice.

01:31:05.000 Okay.

01:31:05.000 What about you?

01:31:06.000 Do I really have to?

01:31:08.000 Yeah, sure.

01:31:08.000 Yeah, go ahead.

01:31:09.000 Keep it a thousand.

01:31:12.000 It just gives, like, in some pictures, very promiscuous vibe.

01:31:17.000 What makes you think that?

01:31:18.000 I mean, she looked good, and everybody on Instagram can see that.

01:31:24.000 Thank you.

01:31:25.000 What about you?

01:31:26.000 And single.

01:31:27.000 I would have to say, the first thing that comes to my mind, you know, I grew up with my brother, so my perspective is going to be a little different.

01:31:34.000 I don't know.

01:31:35.000 Okay.

01:31:35.000 But I think high class, like, she's high maintenance.

01:31:40.000 You get what I'm saying?

01:31:41.000 And, you know, if you're a dude trying to talk to her, you would have to, you know, maintain her.

01:31:46.000 Come with the bread.

01:31:47.000 Yeah, come with the bread.

01:31:48.000 Bring the bag with you.

01:31:50.000 Okay.

01:31:51.000 What are your thoughts?

01:31:53.000 She looks like a model. 0.99

01:31:54.000 Thank you, girls.

01:31:57.000 What about you?

01:31:58.000 Iconic.

01:31:59.000 Thank you, girls.

01:32:02.000 You know what I see from this, man?

01:32:04.000 I see a woman of value.

01:32:07.000 When I say value, I don't mean...

01:32:08.000 Great value.

01:32:09.000 I mean, low value.

01:32:11.000 But to be honest, her page has a lot of travel, a lot of lifestyle, which I understand.

01:32:17.000 Obviously, you want to showcase where you're at, what you're doing, your model.

01:32:19.000 But a guy's going to see up front who she with, who's taking those pictures, and why is she always alone? 0.94

01:32:27.000 That's the question he's going to think.

01:32:28.000 And then it's like, okay, cool.

01:32:29.000 If I don't know who's taking the pictures, I'm going to assume it's a guy she's smashing or multiple guys on different trips.

01:32:35.000 So by default, I'm thinking she's like, for the streets.

01:32:38.000 But why do guys think that?

01:32:40.000 No, no, and Fresh, I've noticed she doesn't have a modeling agency here. 0.96

01:32:44.000 She's a mad student and that's all she has. 1.00

01:32:46.000 So, if you're a model, what is your agency?

01:32:50.000 And then...

01:32:51.000 No, no, no, no, what?

01:32:52.000 Sorry, go ahead.

01:32:53.000 Who do you model for? 0.75

01:32:54.000 It's in my country.

01:32:56.000 Okay, what is the name?

01:32:58.000 You want to write it down?

01:32:59.000 No, no, yeah, say it.

01:33:02.000 It's going to be difficult because it's Athleanian. 1.00

01:33:05.000 Okay, look at you.

01:33:07.000 Alright, go ahead, Maren.

01:33:09.000 No, she was going to say it.

01:33:10.000 Were you going to say it? 1.00

01:33:11.000 No, she was bullshit. 1.00

01:33:12.000 No, she was about to say it. 0.99

01:33:14.000 There's pictures that has tagged me in there.

01:33:20.000 So, let me get it straight.

01:33:21.000 You model and you post it.

01:33:22.000 Do they pay you per post?

01:33:24.000 Yeah, they do.

01:33:25.000 Bro, you have three rows.

01:33:27.000 That's all I see.

01:33:28.000 And one photo shoot.

01:33:30.000 Two, three.

01:33:31.000 Yeah, but I have so many.

01:33:32.000 I don't post all of them.

01:33:33.000 Yeah, okay.

01:33:36.000 Okay, so it's very interesting how women interpret photographs versus how men interpret photographs.

01:33:41.000 If a man was to look at this, right, and he thought about taking you seriously, etc., he might have some doubts.

01:33:48.000 Like, okay, hmm, how's she in these expensive locations?

01:33:51.000 Who's taking the photographs?

01:33:53.000 Why is she in foreign cars, right? 0.98

01:33:55.000 Expensive foreign cars.

01:33:56.000 Like, men in the back of their mind know that women typically don't pay for these things. 0.95

01:34:00.000 So they're going to assume, is she a sugar baby?

01:34:02.000 Sugar daddy.

01:34:03.000 Is she an escort? 0.99

01:34:04.000 Does she have her parents?

01:34:06.000 Do you ever assume that?

01:34:08.000 That's the least I'm going to assume.

01:34:09.000 That's really rare.

01:34:12.000 Remember, we're talking about, see, here's the thing, like, if I was a loser, right, and I was ugly or whatever, you wouldn't care about how much, you wouldn't give me the opportunity, right?

01:34:20.000 Like, I wouldn't have to talk to you and introduce myself.

01:34:23.000 I could have a million in the bank. 1.00

01:34:23.000 You wouldn't give a shit. 1.00

01:34:24.000 You'd be like, oh, you're not attractive. 1.00

01:34:25.000 You don't want to get to know me.

01:34:26.000 You judge a book by its cover.

01:34:27.000 That's cool.

01:34:27.000 That's totally acceptable.

01:34:29.000 Oh, you don't?

01:34:30.000 Men do too.

01:34:31.000 But the difference is that men judge a book by its cover differently than women do.

01:34:34.000 Women just openly reject you. 1.00

01:34:36.000 Men reject you from a relationship.

01:34:38.000 Does that make sense?

01:34:39.000 So when a woman puts herself out in a certain way, he'll still talk to you. 0.96

01:34:42.000 He'll still take you on a date.

01:34:43.000 He'll still sell you the dream.

01:34:44.000 But he'll be like, I have my reservations.

01:34:47.000 What's she doing at this foreign location here? 0.99

01:34:48.000 What's she doing in this Lamborghini? 1.00

01:34:50.000 It's always going to be in the back of their mind.

01:34:52.000 He's using Instagram.

01:34:52.000 He's a red flag, first of all.

01:34:55.000 Y'all take social media too serious.

01:34:58.000 Hold on.

01:34:59.000 I think a man shouldn't use Instagram.

01:35:01.000 I think it's not...

01:35:02.000 I don't understand the point of a man using Instagram.

01:35:06.000 So you think it's a red flag if a man uses Instagram?

01:35:10.000 If he's following many people that are...

01:35:14.000 I mean...

01:35:15.000 But isn't that a majority of your followers probably?

01:35:17.000 Or men?

01:35:18.000 Well, I think if a man is following a lot of bikini models... 0.99

01:35:22.000 It's weird?

01:35:24.000 Yeah, I think that's weird.

01:35:25.000 What's a big red flag?

01:35:26.000 A woman that's putting herself out there on the internet, you know, dressed a certain way, or a man that follows a lot of women?

01:35:34.000 I think that a man who's using Instagram is a red flag.

01:35:42.000 Who do you think Instagram is more, men or women in relationships?

01:35:48.000 I think men are able to cheat more while they have Instagrams.

01:35:56.000 Who hurt you?

01:35:57.000 I mean, I've just seen many, many texts.

01:36:02.000 So you actually think that men have more opportunities because of Instagram?

01:36:07.000 Yeah.

01:36:07.000 Than women do?

01:36:08.000 Yeah.

01:36:09.000 Really?

01:36:10.000 Yeah.

01:36:11.000 How many guys do you DM versus how many guys DM you?

01:36:14.000 I don't DM anyone.

01:36:15.000 Oh, thank you.

01:36:16.000 Now how many men DM you?

01:36:17.000 A lot.

01:36:18.000 So who actually has more options on Instagram?

01:36:20.000 Men do.

01:36:21.000 Yes, men.

01:36:23.000 No, we do because they're sitting there and we don't even pay attention to them.

01:36:26.000 We DM us more than we DM. Women are more reserved. 1.00

01:36:32.000 If you go on your DM, it's right there.

01:36:34.000 I have a plethora of men that hit me up on that.

01:36:38.000 The most a girl does is heart, maybe a story. 1.00

01:36:42.000 That's the most you'll do.

01:36:44.000 A guy's going to DM you, yo, where you at?

01:36:45.000 Pull up to this spot.

01:36:46.000 Come to here.

01:36:47.000 We keep liking until you send the message.

01:36:50.000 On the beach tomorrow.

01:36:52.000 Or keep replying to your story until you reply to them and it's like, you don't get the hint by now? 0.98

01:36:58.000 Nigga? 0.99

01:36:59.000 I don't want to.

01:37:00.000 Of a woman, the percentage of women in Instagram is bigger. 1.00

01:37:03.000 But you do have, but I can say...

01:37:05.000 No, usage across Instagram is about 50-50 at this point.

01:37:08.000 Yeah.

01:37:08.000 Right now at this point?

01:37:10.000 Yeah.

01:37:10.000 Okay.

01:37:12.000 Do you really think men have as many options as women on Instagram? 0.98

01:37:16.000 Do you genuinely believe that?

01:37:20.000 It's iffy for me.

01:37:22.000 There's a huge disconnect.

01:37:24.000 The reality is that women actually have far more options. 1.00

01:37:27.000 They've done studies on this.

01:37:29.000 Girls that are lower than average looking get more messages than the top 1% of guys. 0.71

01:37:34.000 They've replicated this on dating apps, Instagram.

01:37:36.000 Like, women get way more messages and attention on social media than men do. 0.70

01:37:39.000 I will agree.

01:37:41.000 If guys don't talk dancing and stuff like that, it's kind of weird.

01:37:43.000 But Instagram, I think, is business, you know, lifestyle.

01:37:46.000 It's a little bit more different.

01:37:47.000 But TikTok, it's kind of weird.

01:37:49.000 Yeah.

01:37:49.000 So, I mean, you can say that, but at the end of the day, right, when a man looks at a girl's Instagram, they're going to assume certain things.

01:37:56.000 And here's the thing that sucks.

01:37:58.000 They're not going to look at you as a med student. 0.98

01:38:00.000 They're going to look at you and be like, is this a sugar baby?

01:38:02.000 Is this girl an escort?

01:38:04.000 How is she in these foreign locations? 0.99

01:38:05.000 They're going to assume certain things based off your pictures.

01:38:08.000 That's just the world that we live in.

01:38:09.000 We judge a book by its cover.

01:38:10.000 I haven't seen one medical photo there.

01:38:13.000 You in scrubs.

01:38:14.000 We don't know what you're doing.

01:38:17.000 What are you studying, man?

01:38:20.000 Yeah.

01:38:22.000 I get it.

01:38:23.000 Like, hey, it is what it is.

01:38:24.000 But the thing is that women want all the attention without dealing with the consequences of that attention. 1.00

01:38:27.000 When you put yourself out in a sexual way, unfortunately, a lot of guys aren't going to respect you.

01:38:32.000 That's just how it goes.

01:38:33.000 And they will never tell you to your face why they rejected you.

01:38:35.000 They'll respect you, but they won't wipe you up.

01:38:38.000 You're saying, oh, I have all these high-value men, etc.

01:38:40.000 Yeah, they're hitting you up probably for sex based on your profile.

01:38:43.000 But how many of them are getting down on one knee and committing to you that you actually like back?

01:38:47.000 Man, I shouldn't get started, Ian.

01:38:49.000 No, I am not.

01:38:50.000 You're, like, putting me on the spot right now because you're talking, like, you are talking only about me.

01:38:57.000 So it's like...

01:38:58.000 Because we're...

01:38:59.000 Yeah, I understand what you're trying to do and say that I am this and that.

01:39:05.000 But you guys never...

01:39:06.000 I didn't say you're anything.

01:39:07.000 I said this is how it looks.

01:39:09.000 There's a big distinction there.

01:39:10.000 I'm telling you, this is what it looks like.

01:39:12.000 Don't gaslight now.

01:39:13.000 Okay.

01:39:14.000 That's how it looks, but that's not what it is.

01:39:16.000 And that's fine.

01:39:17.000 But what I'm saying is that we live in a judge, a book by its cover society.

01:39:20.000 Yeah, we're going by optics.

01:39:21.000 So they're going to go off the optics and be like, ah, nah.

01:39:24.000 I mean...

01:39:26.000 Females, we do, so we should understand that we go by looks. 1.00

01:39:29.000 Yeah, women judge a book by its cover more than men do, but when men go ahead and repeat it, but when men reciprocate and judge a woman by looks, it's an issue.

01:39:38.000 Women could reject you all day judging a book by its cover, but if a man tells you the same thing, you're picking on me.

01:39:44.000 No, I'm just telling you optically how it looks and how men think when they look at pictures like this.

01:39:47.000 Yep.

01:39:48.000 No, I truly understand what he's saying because people didn't know, like, I mean, I was truly in law until I posted me with my graduate, you know, me graduating. 0.83

01:40:00.000 And then just like a few weeks ago, I posted me at the law office and they like, oh, damn, like, she's really working at the state attorney's office.

01:40:09.000 Like, you know, because people only judge you by what they already see on your page.

01:40:14.000 So, yeah.

01:40:15.000 They don't see you in a doctor's coat, you know, in the lab working on school.

01:40:21.000 Because we only share a certain amount of things.

01:40:23.000 They only see you in your little model outfit with your Lamborghini drop top, baby. 0.79

01:40:27.000 You know what I'm saying?

01:40:28.000 So I truly get where he's coming from.

01:40:31.000 Well, if you've seen me on Instagram, then I don't want him anyways.

01:40:33.000 Because I don't want a man who's using this.

01:40:36.000 And that's another thing, but that's a society we live in.

01:40:39.000 Everybody just lives by social media.

01:40:41.000 That's kind of double standards right there.

01:40:42.000 But you use Instagram.

01:40:42.000 But you use it.

01:40:43.000 So you can't really come for a brand name.

01:40:45.000 If you look down on people that use it.

01:40:48.000 It's super critical right there.

01:40:50.000 You're contradicting yourself because if you don't, it's like, what's the difference between you being on Instagram and a man being on Instagram?

01:40:59.000 Mm-hmm.

01:41:00.000 Get her. 0.58

01:41:01.000 Okay, guys, we're going to rumble.

01:41:03.000 I would argue a girl being on Instagram is more destructive to the relationship than a man being on Instagram. 0.56

01:41:08.000 We see more options.

01:41:10.000 Women get more options on Instagram. 1.00

01:41:12.000 If anything, the girl's got to taper down her profile, not the guy. 0.96

01:41:15.000 That's true, because I had to dot out a lot of things being married due to my relationship, and it's kind of disrespectful to my husband, so I had to realize that, comprehend, and understand that.

01:41:29.000 It's all about, like I said, communication and understanding.

01:41:33.000 I think...

01:41:34.000 We'll go to Rumble real quick.

01:41:35.000 Guys, come on over to Rumble real quick.

01:41:36.000 Come on over.

01:41:37.000 We're going to switch over to Rumble.

01:41:38.000 I think I'm making an important point here.

01:41:41.000 And then I'll turn it to the ladies. 1.00

01:41:42.000 I don't mean to pick out...

01:41:44.000 Lithuania, obviously, is triggered.

01:41:45.000 But look...

01:41:46.000 This isn't about her.

01:41:48.000 This is about...

01:41:49.000 No, no.

01:41:51.000 This is about Instagram in general.

01:41:53.000 Not just her.

01:41:54.000 This is Instagram in general.

01:41:56.000 I think... 1.00

01:41:57.000 Kill the... 1.00

01:41:59.000 Let me make my point. 0.92

01:42:03.000 I think Instagram is somewhat handedly one of the biggest contributing factors to the degradation of relationships between men and women in the modern day age.

01:42:17.000 And the reason why I say that is because what Instagram allows women to believe and think is that the grass is always greener on the other side. 0.90

01:42:26.000 And what I've realized is that when women have an abundance of options, they tend to behave in a manner that isn't conducive to a good long-term relationship, unfortunately. 1.00

01:42:39.000 When women think that the grass is green on the other side, they always think that they can do better. 1.00

01:42:43.000 They think that there's another guy out there.

01:42:44.000 There's a prince charming.

01:42:45.000 And then Instagram, a lot of the times, sells a dream to females. 1.00

01:42:48.000 Right?

01:42:49.000 And I think that's very damaging for females because since women aren't the ones that actually go out and pursue men, men pursue them, just by a woman putting herself out there on the internet, it allows a flurry of options and situations to come in that can absolutely fuck up the relationship she has. 1.00

01:43:06.000 Mm-hmm.

01:43:08.000 So, a woman being on Instagram and showing her body or putting herself out there isn't the same as a man doing it.

01:43:14.000 I can use her, for example, she probably gets more DMs than A-list celebrity guys.

01:43:18.000 Yeah, she does.

01:43:19.000 And she only has 7,000 followers.

01:43:20.000 If that doesn't show to scale the immense disparity between males and females when it comes to options, especially on an app like Instagram...

01:43:28.000 I don't know what it is.

01:43:29.000 So I think it's a big contributor to the issues that we deal with in modern dating.

01:43:33.000 And we know guys that only DM girls with low followers. 0.99

01:43:36.000 On purpose.

01:43:36.000 Yeah.

01:43:37.000 Right.

01:43:37.000 Yeah, that's true.

01:43:38.000 Low 10k is perfect.

01:43:39.000 You look at her Instagram, I guarantee you there's probably some big celebrities that are in her DMs. 0.58

01:43:42.000 Verified.

01:43:43.000 And tell me, and not to use her as an example.

01:43:45.000 She's smiling as well.

01:43:46.000 Yeah, she's smiling, right?

01:43:47.000 But here's the thing.

01:43:49.000 She knows.

01:43:49.000 And if you guys notice, very confident, a little arrogant, etc.

01:43:54.000 I got these high-value members.

01:43:56.000 So you get this kind of...

01:44:01.000 Inflated sense of self-worth because of the caliber of men that are approaching you and talking to you.

01:44:05.000 But does that mean that these men are going to commit to you?

01:44:09.000 No.

01:44:09.000 Probably not.

01:44:10.000 They're simping.

01:44:11.000 But women go off perception. 1.00

01:44:14.000 Oh, this guy's hitting me up.

01:44:15.000 This is the caliber of guy that I deserve.

01:44:17.000 I got NFL players, soccer players, this A-list slab hit me up, blah, blah, blah.

01:44:21.000 But women think just because they can attract that caliber of guy that they can marry that caliber of guy. 1.00

01:44:25.000 Yeah.

01:44:25.000 The reality is that attraction and retention are two different things.

01:44:33.000 But I think modern day women make the big mistake of assuming that they're the same. 1.00

01:44:37.000 They're not.

01:44:39.000 So, anyway.

01:44:39.000 I don't know if y'all agree or disagree.

01:44:41.000 Don't like what I said.

01:44:42.000 I agree.

01:44:43.000 Time to rumble, people.

01:44:44.000 I ain't gonna lie, y'all.

01:44:46.000 Tonight I'm agreeing with him.

01:44:49.000 But first, how you know she have a... 0.99

01:44:52.000 You know, more males in her DMs. 0.52

01:44:55.000 I mean, look what she's posting.

01:44:58.000 I just want to know from your point of view.

01:45:01.000 I like to learn, you know, men's perspective as well.

01:45:05.000 Because I grew up with my brothers.

01:45:07.000 So, you know, I like to...

01:45:08.000 So, I'll give you a little tip here.

01:45:10.000 If she's posting her location where she's traveling to, there's going to be Jill tagged on certain posts.

01:45:14.000 So, she's going to end up on people's explore page and then, oh, wait, who's that?

01:45:18.000 Send her DM. Pull up here. 0.90

01:45:20.000 Come here.

01:45:21.000 So it's just naturally she's going to end up in people's seats.

01:45:22.000 No, I believe you.

01:45:23.000 I asked you that question just to understand more.

01:45:26.000 But me being...

01:45:27.000 I post my husband, you know, and everything, and I still get DMs on the daily.

01:45:33.000 Oh, for sure.

01:45:34.000 You know what I'm saying?

01:45:35.000 And a lot of times, it's kind of opposite for women. 0.99

01:45:38.000 Once a man gets in a relationship too, you know, more women hit him up because there are things that they cannot have. 1.00

01:45:46.000 Or they see the way that a man treats their significant other and they think they're going to get the same treatment.

01:45:53.000 You know what's crazy?

01:45:54.000 I know girls that go after guys with wedding rings. 1.00

01:45:57.000 Yes!

01:45:59.000 But I do know some married women that's the same way. 1.00

01:46:04.000 Pecan, I see your IG, man.

01:46:06.000 You are not married.

01:46:07.000 I am married.

01:46:08.000 My husband is in some of those pictures.

01:46:10.000 If you slide to the last slide, go ahead.

01:46:13.000 Go ahead.

01:46:15.000 And guess what?

01:46:15.000 He took some of those pictures, too.

01:46:17.000 He took a lot of those pictures, baby.

01:46:19.000 All right, Pecan.

01:46:21.000 He was there for that photo shoot.

01:46:22.000 That was a And he was there and we took photos together.

01:46:27.000 Where is he?

01:46:28.000 All right.

01:46:28.000 Oh, okay.

01:46:29.000 Go to the pictures.

01:46:30.000 All right, Chris, switch to Rumble.

01:46:32.000 Guys, come on over to Rumble.

01:46:34.000 Guys, come on over to Rumble.

01:46:35.000 Come on over to Rumble right now.

01:46:37.000 But guess what?

01:46:38.000 Guess what?

01:46:39.000 Chris, she says she posts her mando.

01:46:40.000 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

01:46:41.000 Chris, she says she posts her mando.

01:46:42.000 Okay, look on the outfit. 0.97

01:46:43.000 Look, in different slides, if you scroll to the last...

01:46:46.000 Wait, it's on the slide?

01:46:47.000 Listen, it's multiple pictures posted.

01:46:49.000 I have to work?

01:46:51.000 Listen.

01:46:52.000 Okay, because if you go to his page, I'm on there too.

01:46:54.000 But guess what?

01:46:55.000 It's set up the same way.

01:46:56.000 I don't see him.

01:46:57.000 We have understanding.

01:46:58.000 In the gray.

01:46:59.000 In the gray.

01:47:00.000 Look in the gray.

01:47:01.000 That's my tattoos.

01:47:02.000 Okay.

01:47:03.000 Are you tatting him up, sis?

01:47:04.000 Yes.

01:47:05.000 Oh, let us see that one.

01:47:06.000 Hold on.

01:47:06.000 Wait.

01:47:07.000 No, go to the gray.

01:47:08.000 Because the black dress is a photo shoot. 0.59

01:47:10.000 The tan is a photo shoot.

01:47:13.000 And rolling loud, with the yellow hair, we went together.

01:47:17.000 I didn't say that one.

01:47:17.000 Where is he?

01:47:19.000 I said the one with the gray.

01:47:20.000 Oh, that was him right there.

01:47:22.000 That was a photo shoot.

01:47:23.000 Wait, who did this?

01:47:23.000 Oh, who said Jesus is your little beautiful?

01:47:25.000 That was just a meme that I posted.

01:47:27.000 Oh, no.

01:47:41.000 I said the grey outfit.

01:47:45.000 They're going to everything but the grey outfit.

01:47:47.000 You don't see the one piece right there?

01:47:52.000 Which one is this?

01:47:54.000 I don't even remember.

01:47:58.000 Go to the last one.

01:48:00.000 Go back up to the top, Chris.

01:48:04.000 If you look under all those posts, my husband is under all of them.

01:48:08.000 Click the one where the tattoo there and then click his profile.

01:48:14.000 Let's look at his pictures versus hers.

01:48:15.000 Which one is him?

01:48:16.000 That's not him.

01:48:17.000 That's my tattoo client that I shared.

01:48:20.000 So this isn't your husband then?

01:48:22.000 No. 1.00

01:48:24.000 He's under all my fucking pictures. 0.99

01:48:27.000 Okay, let's click a picture and find him then. 0.99

01:48:29.000 Not this one, Chris.

01:48:30.000 Go back to the top.

01:48:31.000 It's right there.

01:48:32.000 It's right there.

01:48:33.000 Okay, go back.

01:48:33.000 Let's find him.

01:48:34.000 Click this.

01:48:35.000 Which one is he?

01:48:36.000 Lil' Smoke, right there.

01:48:37.000 Okay, click the Lil' Smoke, Chris.

01:48:39.000 600. 0.99

01:48:39.000 Oh, shit. 0.99

01:48:40.000 Oh, he says slime. 1.00

01:48:41.000 He trying to slime hot.

01:48:43.000 All right, let's see.

01:48:45.000 Oh, he don't got pictures of you either.

01:48:47.000 Right there.

01:48:47.000 Hold up.

01:48:48.000 Oh, no, he does.

01:48:48.000 Okay, okay.

01:48:49.000 There you are.

01:48:50.000 Okay, so at least he has you on his profile.

01:48:51.000 Let us see the picture.

01:48:52.000 No, but my heart...

01:48:53.000 But I have him...

01:48:54.000 Okay, he's in my highlights as well.

01:48:56.000 You looking at his highlights, but you ain't looking at mine as well.

01:48:59.000 He is on my page, but you guys decided not to scroll through me.

01:49:03.000 I mean, you're way easier to find on his page.

01:49:05.000 You know what happens, right?

01:49:07.000 People go to your page, they swipe up and down. 0.96

01:49:09.000 Okay, I was sitting there on the chat, nigga. 0.97

01:49:10.000 Sit down. 0.92

01:49:19.000 I ain't gonna lie, I did take him off my page.

01:49:24.000 I'm talking about the picture that I had of both of us on our page on the first slide.

01:49:30.000 I took him off because of a situation that happened.

01:49:33.000 I didn't take you off.

01:49:37.000 No, it's not because of that.

01:49:39.000 Bro. 0.99

01:49:40.000 Listen, he didn't take me off because I didn't do anything to this fucking night. 0.99

01:49:44.000 Wait, so, is it P or you and your twin? 0.99

01:49:46.000 Huh?

01:49:47.000 Bess? 0.73

01:49:49.000 We're twin.

01:49:50.000 You're a man?

01:49:50.000 Is there or no?

01:49:52.000 Listen, man.

01:49:52.000 No, I said the gray one.

01:49:54.000 They said you're single, sis.

01:49:55.000 I'm not single.

01:49:56.000 If you go to my highlights right there, if you go on there, you're not even on the picture I told them to click on, they're not even clicking on.

01:50:03.000 Chris, click the one that she asked us.

01:50:04.000 Which one?

01:50:05.000 Which one, sis? 0.98

01:50:06.000 The last one.

01:50:07.000 With the gray outfit.

01:50:08.000 The gray outfit.

01:50:09.000 The gray jumpsuit.

01:50:11.000 The gray.

01:50:13.000 Are you colorblind?

01:50:14.000 Are you colorblind?

01:50:15.000 Are you colorblind? 1.00

01:50:16.000 That's fucking brown. 1.00

01:50:17.000 Chris, go on. 1.00

01:50:18.000 Colorblind.

01:50:19.000 Yeah, Chris. 0.99

01:50:19.000 Like, he's doing what the fuck he wants to. 0.99

01:50:22.000 No, I said, great, that's black and white. 0.99

01:50:25.000 Right there.

01:50:25.000 This one?

01:50:26.000 Chris, yes, yes, that one.

01:50:26.000 That one?

01:50:27.000 I said the last one.

01:50:30.000 Just digging it, bro. 1.00

01:50:31.000 No, you don't know how to fucking face shit. 1.00

01:50:34.000 What? 1.00

01:50:34.000 Who's fucking this shit? 1.00

01:50:37.000 She covered the face, y'all. 1.00

01:50:39.000 She broke, wow. 0.81

01:50:40.000 That was bad for you, man.

01:50:47.000 I have my man on my Instagram. 1.00

01:50:50.000 No, but you can't show your damn face because bitches will be choosing. 1.00

01:50:56.000 We talk about women, bro. 1.00

01:50:59.000 No, bitches will be choosing on your makeup. 1.00

01:51:01.000 She has three gray outfits. 1.00

01:51:03.000 By the way, isn't that them busters?

01:51:05.000 Huh? 1.00

01:51:06.000 Damn. 1.00

01:51:06.000 Yes, it is. 1.00

01:51:07.000 Oh, that's right around my corner.

01:51:08.000 I know my place.

01:51:10.000 Okay, you know that song?

01:51:13.000 I'm not single.

01:51:14.000 You see him under all my photos.

01:51:16.000 I'm under all his photos as well.

01:51:18.000 It does not matter.

01:51:19.000 You look thirsty.

01:51:20.000 You look like thirsty.

01:51:21.000 Who?

01:51:22.000 Him?

01:51:22.000 No.

01:51:22.000 Because I comment back under his shit.

01:51:24.000 I don't comment to every nigga under my post. 1.00

01:51:26.000 I don't comment to no nigga under my post. 1.00

01:51:28.000 Let me just keep it very simple.

01:51:31.000 From the outside looking in, we had to do significantly more work to find your husband on your profile versus finding But guess what?

01:51:38.000 Guess what?

01:51:39.000 The only reason that is, I had him on there.

01:51:41.000 But guess what?

01:51:42.000 He embarrassed me, so I took him down.

01:51:44.000 But I did not do anything to embarrass him, so that's why I'm still on his face.

01:51:48.000 I understand that.

01:51:49.000 Thank you.

01:51:49.000 But once again, just like you said with her, right?

01:51:52.000 Image is everything.

01:51:53.000 We don't know that.

01:51:54.000 So again, at face value, it was significantly easier to find him on your profile than the other way around.

01:52:02.000 Even with your direction, it was still kind of hard to find.

01:52:05.000 Hey, but guess what?

01:52:07.000 I'm sliding them DMs, man.

01:52:09.000 But guess what?

01:52:10.000 Are you going to get an answer, though?

01:52:11.000 No.

01:52:12.000 It's a lot of niggas that's sitting there still. 1.00

01:52:14.000 You know what's funny, though? 0.64

01:52:16.000 It doesn't matter if I'm doing it because you look single.

01:52:19.000 From the outside looking in, objectively speaking, you look like you're single on your profile.

01:52:23.000 You don't give off married woman vibes at all on your profile. 0.92

01:52:26.000 I don't see no wedding ring.

01:52:30.000 Yep.

01:52:30.000 Guess what?

01:52:31.000 Do you see one on his, though?

01:52:33.000 Doesn't matter.

01:52:34.000 You don't see no wedding rings.

01:52:35.000 Okay, but guess what?

01:52:37.000 But it doesn't say anything about our relationship.

01:52:39.000 That's a canvas that we collaborated on.

01:52:41.000 That's not anything to do with our relationship.

01:52:43.000 You're playing against yourself, though.

01:52:46.000 You're playing against yourself.

01:52:47.000 I'm not.

01:52:48.000 That might be her man's.

01:52:49.000 Maybe.

01:52:50.000 Yeah, that's the girls. 1.00

01:52:53.000 I kind of look a little tomboyish on there.

01:52:55.000 I could look like somebody's little homegirl on that post, you feel me?

01:52:59.000 I look a little tomboyish on there.

01:53:01.000 Yeah, but the point is that you're there and you're easy to find.

01:53:03.000 It's not the same on yours.

01:53:05.000 That's what we're trying to illustrate.

01:53:06.000 I get what you're saying.

01:53:07.000 I'm not saying you're wrong.

01:53:08.000 Yeah, so it's just, you know...

01:53:10.000 Yo, Instagram, man.

01:53:12.000 Yo, Instagram is a different relationship. 1.00

01:53:14.000 I try to find that shit. 1.00

01:53:14.000 It's a great outfit. 1.00

01:53:16.000 Definitely not single.

01:53:17.000 We have some chats here as well.

01:53:19.000 It's crazy, bro.

01:53:21.000 Yeah, that's funny.

01:53:23.000 Yo, I got a man's! 0.97

01:53:24.000 Yo, man. 1.00

01:53:25.000 Your girl needs to put her shit on private, man. 1.00

01:53:27.000 If you're in a relationship with a chick, yo, her shit needs to be on private. 1.00

01:53:30.000 No, married. 1.00

01:53:31.000 I see a guy with a girl.

01:53:32.000 I'm a tattoo artist.

01:53:34.000 I'm like, well done.

01:53:36.000 What tattoos?

01:53:37.000 That's by yourself, man.

01:53:38.000 Sam the Pilot.

01:53:40.000 I'm an artist, so you have to represent your artist.

01:53:43.000 Do that one.

01:53:44.000 Hold on, hold on.

01:53:45.000 We got you.

01:53:46.000 I have clients.

01:53:47.000 You guys got me grinding.

01:53:49.000 Went from eating Cheetos in my mom's basement to making $5-7k a month, and now I'm making $25-30k a month.

01:53:53.000 Good job, bro.

01:53:54.000 Thank you guys for everything you guys do.

01:53:56.000 FNF, Tate, Jay Waller, and Sneeko.

01:53:59.000 Freshest Dog. 1.00

01:54:00.000 Damn, Chris. 1.00

01:54:01.000 Really went to the WIC office for this one, huh? 0.99

01:54:08.000 Question for the ladies. 0.99

01:54:09.000 Do you believe your wife material?

01:54:11.000 If so, what qualifies you, baby?

01:54:13.000 Bring to the...

01:54:14.000 Bring to the what?

01:54:17.000 The table.

01:54:18.000 The table.

01:54:19.000 Oh, he's stuttering.

01:54:21.000 Ladies on the panel, like the video. 1.00

01:54:22.000 He's doing a lot, you know, like the...

01:54:24.000 IRS? I think... 0.53

01:54:28.000 I mean, we've already shown two girls' Instagrams.

01:54:31.000 They were fun.

01:54:32.000 I mean, he asked the question.

01:54:34.000 He didn't say based off Instagram, though. 1.00

01:54:36.000 Nigga, you're dumb, bro. 1.00

01:54:37.000 Guess what? 1.00

01:54:41.000 As long as my man is happy, it doesn't matter what y'all think.

01:54:44.000 I keep him happy, so it don't matter what y'all think. 1.00

01:54:58.000 That's fucked. 1.00

01:55:00.000 Yeah, man. 1.00

01:55:02.000 This panel looks like a cast to set it off, too.

01:55:07.000 And then we used to make sure they don't have a weapon. 0.99

01:55:09.000 What the fuck? 1.00

01:55:10.000 Maybe I got a Glock 40. 1.00

01:55:11.000 Go check it.

01:55:12.000 Ben, they're the offender.

01:55:14.000 Question for the whole panel.

01:55:16.000 Do you think that mothers in today's society are more selfish and less concerned about their child's future?

01:55:20.000 I believe so.

01:55:21.000 Hell yeah, bro.

01:55:22.000 Going through personal experiences.

01:55:23.000 Anybody here with kids?

01:55:25.000 No.

01:55:26.000 Oh, okay.

01:55:26.000 That's a first.

01:55:27.000 First time.

01:55:28.000 I'm surprised.

01:55:28.000 All right.

01:55:29.000 Honorable 1000 goes, bro, I don't know about y'all, but if I hear period one more time, I'm going to throw my phone across the room.

01:55:36.000 Period.

01:55:36.000 Annoying as hell.

01:55:37.000 Come on, girl. 1.00

01:55:38.000 Say it.

01:55:38.000 I only said it once, so they didn't talk about it.

01:55:41.000 All right.

01:55:42.000 509, Tucker, 20 bucks.

01:55:43.000 Appreciate that.

01:55:43.000 Shout out to you, bro.

01:55:44.000 Waylo goes, shorty next tomorrow with the big ass shoulders. 0.99

01:55:47.000 Definitely going to get Frank Castled. 0.99

01:55:48.000 Wait, wait.

01:55:49.000 What did that mean?

01:55:50.000 He said you have big shoulders.

01:55:52.000 Do you have anything you want to say?

01:55:52.000 I am, because I'm strong.

01:55:55.000 I'm fit.

01:55:56.000 Strong and independent, right? 1.00

01:55:57.000 Knock the bitch out. 1.00

01:55:58.000 Yep. 1.00

01:55:59.000 Beat the bitch up. 1.00

01:56:00.000 Yep. 1.00

01:56:00.000 Do you like lift weights? 1.00

01:56:01.000 What do you do?

01:56:02.000 I don't do anything.

01:56:03.000 I'm just vegan as hell.

01:56:05.000 I just eat healthy.

01:56:07.000 So you don't go to the gym?

01:56:07.000 I don't go to the gym.

01:56:09.000 I don't work out.

01:56:10.000 I don't do nothing.

01:56:11.000 His body is bodyin'.

01:56:13.000 Sorry.

01:56:13.000 You said you're fit, though.

01:56:16.000 I'm fit.

01:56:17.000 The arms fit, the waist fit.

01:56:20.000 Find the waist! 0.99

01:56:21.000 This is going to be a great case.

01:56:22.000 Okay, so what?

01:56:23.000 I still have fun.

01:56:24.000 I still enjoy myself.

01:56:26.000 Period.

01:56:27.000 Period.

01:56:28.000 Period.

01:56:28.000 I'm messing with you, boo.

01:56:29.000 Okay, boo. 0.76

01:56:30.000 So when you become a lawyer, what kind of lawyer are you going to become?

01:56:33.000 Criminal justice.

01:56:36.000 What?

01:56:38.000 If I don't do criminal justice, I want to do entertainment law.

01:56:41.000 Look, baby! 0.75

01:56:42.000 I want to work for you!

01:56:44.000 When you say criminal justice, are you talking about prosecuting attorney?

01:56:50.000 I want to be a defense attorney.

01:56:52.000 Do you know what defense attorneys are really underpaid?

01:56:58.000 That's why I'm still considering!

01:57:01.000 I'm trying to figure it out.

01:57:03.000 Seriously.

01:57:04.000 I'm trying to figure it out.

01:57:06.000 Okay.

01:57:07.000 Fair.

01:57:07.000 So you're going to figure out which one you want to do?

01:57:09.000 Yeah.

01:57:10.000 Okay.

01:57:10.000 All right.

01:57:10.000 Defense attorneys are just really under...

01:57:12.000 Well, if you're going to be a public defender, unless you're going to be like a high...

01:57:14.000 I mean, when you're starting off, you have to start somewhere.

01:57:18.000 You can't start as a private attorney.

01:57:21.000 Yeah, you got to litigate.

01:57:22.000 Regardless, you got to work for the court system, gain the clients from them, take their clients, and then you can become a private attorney.

01:57:31.000 So that's just what it is.

01:57:33.000 Okay.

01:57:34.000 But you want to do whether it's prosecuting or defense.

01:57:37.000 You want to do something with criminal justice. 0.99

01:57:40.000 That's the first option, but I honestly really want to do entertainment law because I've been talking with a lot of people that work in my office and they said that shit is stressful. 0.99

01:57:53.000 It's stressful. 0.99

01:57:54.000 It can be.

01:57:55.000 Okay.

01:57:55.000 So I might want to do attorney.

01:57:57.000 I want to work for LaBaby. 0.98

01:57:59.000 LaBaby, I want to work for you.

01:58:00.000 LaBaby.

01:58:03.000 Yeah, I mean...

01:58:05.000 Here we go, 509 Trucker.

01:58:06.000 All right. 1.00

01:58:07.000 Short and next tomorrow with the big ass... 1.00

01:58:09.000 No, we got that one, Chris. 1.00

01:58:10.000 Not twice.

01:58:11.000 509 Trucker, appreciate that.

01:58:13.000 And then we got here, Brady.

01:58:14.000 Myron, do you agree hurt men learn to read red flags and hurt women become red flags?

01:58:19.000 When a man gets hurt, he looks to become better.

01:58:21.000 When a female gets hurt, she stops caring. 1.00

01:58:24.000 Okay.

01:58:26.000 Okay, I see your perspective. 0.99

01:58:27.000 I think it's important for guys to, you know, you gotta get fucked over by a female at some point to understand that she'd become better. 1.00

01:58:36.000 I always thought Marilyn Mason had more energy. 1.00

01:58:46.000 I called you Marilyn Manson.

01:58:49.000 Who's that?

01:58:50.000 That's way before her time.

01:58:53.000 She's 18.

01:58:55.000 She don't know who that is.

01:58:56.000 Yeah.

01:58:58.000 You know, I think he went and saw the head guy of the Church of Satanism and he made him a pastor.

01:58:58.000 Okay.

01:59:05.000 He made Marilyn Manson an honorary pastor.

01:59:07.000 I read that somewhere.

01:59:09.000 That's what I love.

01:59:11.000 What was that? 0.99

01:59:12.000 Baby, in my corner, but you, like, y'all don't know that they say girls with a big forehead have the best pussies, so that's what it is, you know? 0.99

01:59:21.000 It's just tsunami. 0.99

01:59:22.000 Who said that?

01:59:23.000 It's just tsunami. 1.00

01:59:24.000 That shit just flood the whole studio. 1.00

01:59:27.000 Who said that? 1.00

01:59:33.000 Who the hell said that?

01:59:34.000 I have never heard that either.

01:59:37.000 Y'all never heard that.

01:59:39.000 In the Caribbean, they say, well, I know in the Caribbean, they say females with a little bit of peach fuzz got the best poom poom. 0.97

01:59:47.000 Okay, that is true.

01:59:47.000 Fresh?

01:59:48.000 I never heard it before anyone.

01:59:50.000 Okay.

01:59:50.000 That said, no, I've heard that the pretty girls always have a big forehead.

01:59:55.000 That's what I heard.

01:59:55.000 I don't know about a poom poom.

01:59:58.000 So, read it fresh.

02:00:00.000 Girl next to Myron got a plan runaway for a forehead. 1.00

02:00:03.000 You can land a Boeing 747 on that sector.

02:00:09.000 Blame your plan, baby.

02:00:12.000 The U.S. is something else. 1.00

02:00:13.000 Girl Next to Myron has a four-year degree and still manages to make black people, especially black women, look ignorant. 1.00

02:00:18.000 Bitch, you don't have shit. 1.00

02:00:20.000 You don't even have a fucking high school diploma. 1.00

02:00:23.000 You paid $20 and that was your last $20. 1.00

02:00:28.000 You spilled the drink again.

02:00:31.000 Clean up an aisle.

02:00:36.000 304.

02:00:37.000 There's definitely a Frank Castle coming tonight.

02:00:39.000 My money is on the chick next to Myron.

02:00:41.000 Keep RPing these 304s. 1.00

02:00:43.000 It's interesting to see them short circuit whenever they can't rebut a point with logic over their feelings.

02:00:48.000 Well, I mean, guys, you got to understand men and women think differently.

02:00:50.000 This isn't...

02:00:51.000 I don't think any of the women are going to leave this podcast and change their mind.

02:00:53.000 No.

02:00:54.000 It's really for y'all to just kind of learn.

02:00:55.000 I mean, she did it.

02:00:57.000 Who's going to...

02:00:58.000 Oh, well, yeah, actually, yeah.

02:00:59.000 She did.

02:01:00.000 That's one out of, like, I can count.

02:01:02.000 I'm fairly understanding.

02:01:03.000 I love learning.

02:01:04.000 She won't either.

02:01:06.000 Yeah, I mean, of what, we've interviewed almost 2,400 girls now at this point?

02:01:10.000 I could think of, like, maybe 20 girls that, like, took in our vice seriously and found a guy.

02:01:17.000 Yeah.

02:01:19.000 2360 is the official number?

02:01:20.000 Okay, 2300.

02:01:22.000 Almost there.

02:01:23.000 2360.

02:01:24.000 Shout out, Wayne, for 20 YouTube memberships.

02:01:26.000 I appreciate that, my friend.

02:01:28.000 We should change the color of the wedding dress from white to brown for modern women. 1.00

02:01:35.000 I think he means that because they're not virgins, but I see what you did there.

02:01:42.000 Who cares?

02:01:42.000 Is anybody here on the panel a virgin?

02:01:46.000 I'm married, so...

02:01:47.000 Virgin Maddie!

02:01:50.000 No, I was not.

02:01:52.000 I'm not even going to sit up here and cap.

02:01:54.000 My name is Virgin.

02:01:56.000 All right.

02:01:57.000 Who cares about Megan Thee Stallion? 0.99

02:01:59.000 She's just a 304 that makes terrible music for other 304s with terrible music taste. 1.00

02:02:02.000 I don't even listen to Meg like that.

02:02:03.000 Any of you guys fans of Megan Thee Stallion's music?

02:02:05.000 Cool.

02:02:07.000 The only thing I listen to is Hot Girl Summer, to be honest.

02:02:10.000 So no one's really, like, a big fan?

02:02:11.000 No.

02:02:12.000 No disrespect, but no.

02:02:14.000 Name three mega songs.

02:02:17.000 Top three.

02:02:17.000 Um, Hot Girl Summer.

02:02:20.000 That's the only one.

02:02:21.000 Uh-huh.

02:02:24.000 Right now, I can't even think off the top. 1.00

02:02:26.000 Damn! 0.99

02:02:26.000 See? 0.99

02:02:27.000 No!

02:02:28.000 Stop! 1.00

02:02:29.000 I'm a little tipsy.

02:02:31.000 Yeah.

02:02:32.000 And you're my lawyer? 1.00

02:02:33.000 Fuck that shit. 1.00

02:02:35.000 Put me to jail, nigga. 1.00

02:02:36.000 Okay. 0.98

02:02:40.000 Yeah, that was...

02:02:41.000 Why y'all always put me on the back?

02:02:43.000 I ain't never coming on...

02:02:45.000 I'm never coming on fresh and safe no more.

02:02:49.000 Oh, man.

02:02:50.000 It's fine.

02:02:51.000 It's fine.

02:02:52.000 We don't want you back.

02:02:53.000 Yeah, it's fine.

02:02:53.000 You don't?

02:02:55.000 No, no, no.

02:02:56.000 Neck!

02:02:57.000 Hey, listen.

02:02:57.000 Okay, uh...

02:02:58.000 So far, you've been nice, respectful, but goddamn, you stupid as fuck. 1.00

02:03:01.000 Fuck! 1.00

02:03:02.000 What are you? 1.00

02:03:03.000 What's your degree? 1.00

02:03:05.000 Bitch, you're behind a computer. 1.00

02:03:06.000 Fuck out of here. 1.00

02:03:07.000 I press buttons and... 1.00

02:03:09.000 Yeah, you don't got shit. 1.00

02:03:10.000 You don't got shit. 1.00

02:03:12.000 You don't got shit. 1.00

02:03:13.000 You don't got shit. 1.00

02:03:14.000 All right, forehead. 1.00

02:03:14.000 Yeah, all right. 1.00

02:03:15.000 But you want to lick this forehead. 0.97

02:03:17.000 Come put your tongue on it. 0.95

02:03:18.000 That's a whole lot of licking right there. 1.00

02:03:21.000 I should be dry as fuck. 1.00

02:03:23.000 But I tell my... 1.00

02:03:24.000 I fucking reach the top. 0.98

02:03:27.000 Hey, yo. 0.99

02:03:28.000 Who hurt you, man?

02:03:32.000 I'm not even hurt!

02:03:34.000 Girl, all these niggas is hurt. 1.00

02:03:36.000 Your fucking neck piece is like a broken heart. 1.00

02:03:38.000 Okay. 1.00

02:03:40.000 Okay, Faith, what's up?

02:03:41.000 Hold on, are you going to say that from him?

02:03:42.000 Don't say that from him.

02:03:45.000 Come on, come on. 0.99

02:03:47.000 Hey, listen. 1.00

02:03:49.000 I'm behind this shit dealing with your ass. 1.00

02:03:51.000 I have to listen to your ass. 1.00

02:03:52.000 Don't say that from him. 1.00

02:03:53.000 All right, go ahead.

02:03:54.000 How dare you talk to me like that?

02:03:55.000 You're a queen! 0.99

02:03:56.000 You're a queen! 0.99

02:03:58.000 Don't take that from him!

02:03:59.000 Queens don't argue with peasants sometimes. 1.00

02:04:06.000 So where is your king now?

02:04:09.000 My king is at his house, at home, praying to God right now. 1.00

02:04:12.000 I know, he's jacking off because your ass is here right now. 1.00

02:04:13.000 He ain't jacking off! 1.00

02:04:16.000 She finally left! 0.95

02:04:18.000 She turned my boner off! 1.00

02:04:25.000 I mean, hey, hey, you know what?

02:04:27.000 Like, you know what? 1.00

02:04:28.000 Your ass is pretty nice. 1.00

02:04:29.000 I won't lie to you. 1.00

02:04:30.000 Why are you looking at that?

02:04:31.000 You showed it!

02:04:33.000 Yeah, girl, you kind of stood up there on camera.

02:04:36.000 Oh, you was looking too?

02:04:37.000 Of course, we all did, baby.

02:04:38.000 Of course.

02:04:39.000 I did it.

02:04:40.000 Show that thing.

02:04:41.000 All right, you done?

02:04:43.000 Are you done?

02:04:45.000 I mean, yeah, I'm pretty much done. 1.00

02:04:47.000 Okay, shut the fuck up. 1.00

02:04:48.000 It's my room for me right now. 1.00

02:04:50.000 You can't even turn me on right now, so...

02:04:53.000 Oh my gosh.

02:04:55.000 But like, when you talk, I'm like, oh man, this girl again, man, bro.

02:05:00.000 Really, you want to be a lawyer in real life.

02:05:02.000 Like, seriously.

02:05:03.000 It doesn't matter what I want to be.

02:05:05.000 If you're not supporting my career, don't you worry about me.

02:05:08.000 No.

02:05:08.000 And that's just it.

02:05:09.000 Period.

02:05:09.000 I want to support your career.

02:05:10.000 Okay, I don't need you to support anything I do.

02:05:14.000 Okay.

02:05:15.000 Are you okay?

02:05:17.000 Yeah, I mean, I need you to hold.

02:05:35.000 We've been giving her water too.

02:05:41.000 We've been giving her water.

02:05:43.000 Did you drink before you came?

02:05:44.000 I don't know.

02:05:47.000 She didn't.

02:05:48.000 She didn't.

02:05:49.000 How did she get tipsy here?

02:05:56.000 No, she only gave her three. 0.90

02:06:02.000 Three?

02:06:03.000 She had two.

02:06:06.000 She also said she hadn't eaten anything.

02:06:18.000 Okay, we'll get you out of here.

02:06:20.000 Yeah, so hurry up, because I'm ready to go.

02:06:22.000 I gotta work in the morning. 0.92

02:06:24.000 Y'all ain't got shit to do, but lay in y'all bed. 1.00

02:06:26.000 Yeah, because then with your ass, man. 1.00

02:06:29.000 I mean, if you want to leave, you're free to leave at any point. 1.00

02:06:32.000 I make my own schedule, but I feel attacked.

02:06:35.000 If you want to leave, you're free to leave.

02:06:36.000 All right, leave.

02:06:37.000 Frank Castle!

02:06:38.000 Yeah, I'm on leave.

02:06:41.000 You said you have stuff to do, right?

02:06:42.000 And we don't have anything to do.

02:06:43.000 We're going to just go lie in our bed.

02:06:44.000 I mean, you got stuff to do.

02:06:46.000 Feel free to leave.

02:06:47.000 The door's right there.

02:06:49.000 I think that was a little jokey joke. 1.00

02:06:51.000 No, we're dead ass. 1.00

02:06:54.000 Come on. 0.99

02:06:56.000 Alright, so two options. 0.96

02:06:58.000 These grown ass men that are 30 plus. 0.97

02:07:03.000 Here we go. 0.99

02:07:03.000 Okay, what else? 0.99

02:07:04.000 I'm literally just responding to what you said.

02:07:06.000 You said, hey, I have stuff to do.

02:07:07.000 I got to go to sleep.

02:07:08.000 And I was like, alright, cool.

02:07:09.000 Well, you're free to leave at any time.

02:07:10.000 How was that?

02:07:11.000 I mean, I would say we're being pretty mature about it.

02:07:14.000 Yeah.

02:07:15.000 Unless you were saying that and you were just lying or trying to get a rise.

02:07:19.000 There's a saying that goes, put your shoes on outside?

02:07:22.000 Not in here.

02:07:24.000 Is that just a saying?

02:07:25.000 I've never heard of it.

02:07:28.000 Have you heard of it?

02:07:31.000 We should let the chat decide.

02:07:33.000 Just reminded me of that meme.

02:07:35.000 We should let the chat decide.

02:07:36.000 Have you ever had a dream that you...

02:07:38.000 This is what we're gonna do.

02:07:43.000 Chris, can you enlarge the chat real quick so we can see it?

02:07:45.000 Alright, so guys, if you want her to leave, put a one in the chat.

02:07:50.000 If you guys want to say, give her a two. 0.99

02:07:51.000 Bye.

02:07:53.000 They called it a long time ago, bro.

02:07:56.000 We didn't even push for it.

02:07:59.000 Alright.

02:08:01.000 Are they giving a bunch of ones?

02:08:03.000 Yep. 1.00

02:08:03.000 Shit, it's fucking fun. 1.00

02:08:05.000 How many of you got watching, man? 1.00

02:08:07.000 How many people are on you?

02:08:09.000 21,000 people.

02:08:11.000 I love ones.

02:08:13.000 Ones are angel numbers.

02:08:15.000 I love that for me.

02:08:16.000 It looks like it's a...

02:08:18.000 What is the consensus?

02:08:21.000 Does Rumble let you do polls?

02:08:23.000 No. 1.00

02:08:24.000 Damn. 0.99

02:08:24.000 I would have loved to do a poll on this. 0.99

02:08:25.000 Not you want to do a poll on me.

02:08:26.000 I'm seeing some twos, though.

02:08:28.000 That's what I'm saying.

02:08:28.000 I'm seeing twos.

02:08:29.000 I see twos.

02:08:30.000 That's my magical number.

02:08:31.000 Two is my magical number.

02:08:33.000 I mean, act sure, man.

02:08:35.000 But you was pressing.

02:08:36.000 Wait, wait.

02:08:36.000 I'm saying act two.

02:08:37.000 Are you here?

02:08:39.000 How far are you? 1.00

02:08:40.000 Like, please shut the fuck up. 1.00

02:08:41.000 Can you put on the headphones, please? 0.99

02:08:43.000 No. 1.00

02:08:43.000 Can you shut the fuck up? 1.00

02:08:45.000 If you want to hear me, put on the headphones. 1.00

02:08:47.000 That's why we have them in the first place.

02:08:49.000 Alright, well, then you can't hear me.

02:08:49.000 I don't want to hear you.

02:08:50.000 Stop yelling across the fucking studio. 1.00

02:08:53.000 It's literally like 50-50 right now. 1.00

02:08:55.000 It is kind of 50-50.

02:08:57.000 Put your headphones on, girl. 0.99

02:09:00.000 Put your headphones on, girl. 0.99

02:09:02.000 You got a spam lawyer.

02:09:04.000 If you don't put your headphones on, girl, I'm not eliminating myself.

02:09:07.000 I don't like people coming for me.

02:09:09.000 Oh, so right now you're good.

02:09:11.000 The more you feed it to the energy, the more it is.

02:09:14.000 So right now you're good.

02:09:15.000 I don't know how you're...

02:09:17.000 You're blessed.

02:09:19.000 Yeah, it's literally 50-50.

02:09:20.000 Yeah, it's 50-50.

02:09:21.000 So we'll move on.

02:09:24.000 There's got to be a poll option on Rumble, bro. 0.99

02:09:27.000 Damn. 0.99

02:09:27.000 Come in soon. 0.99

02:09:28.000 That would have been lit.

02:09:29.000 My Myra wanted to do a poll on me, y'all.

02:09:33.000 He don't like me for real.

02:09:34.000 He hate me.

02:09:35.000 Nobody hates you.

02:09:36.000 Nobody hates you.

02:09:38.000 Okay, Nick says Nancy's taking a mess of L right now. 1.00

02:09:41.000 Holy.

02:09:42.000 Nancy is taking a mess of L right now. 1.00

02:09:43.000 Holy.

02:09:44.000 Be respectful.

02:09:45.000 Listen to what they say.

02:09:47.000 Get out your feelings.

02:09:48.000 Worst lawyer ever.

02:09:49.000 Worst lawyer ever. 1.00

02:09:51.000 Bitch, you only got $20. 1.00

02:09:53.000 That was your last. 1.00

02:09:54.000 Oh, boo-hoo. 0.99

02:09:56.000 Hope you go buy like four four four fours with that, babes. 1.00

02:09:59.000 To survive.

02:10:02.000 You got these real quick. 1.00

02:10:04.000 I'm going to be short to send these women a dick pic after the show. 1.00

02:10:07.000 Please don't, because last time they delivered and I was unhappy. 0.99

02:10:13.000 No, but just know that they will.

02:10:16.000 They will, unfortunately. 0.95

02:10:19.000 So we have your freshest balls. 0.97

02:10:20.000 Yes, sir! 0.99

02:10:22.000 Yes, sir!

02:10:23.000 Fresh is a gigolo with lots of dough.

02:10:26.000 Even though he looks like a big-ass toe, he's always surrounded by a thorough force.

02:10:30.000 First of all, I'm not a ho.

02:10:32.000 We're not going to be a rhyming.

02:10:33.000 It was from Nick Cannon's song, Gigolo.

02:10:37.000 Sam Combo says, Myron, the Scandinavian statistic you state also regarding women staying in medical and social career fields despite being in an egalitarian society is absolutely true. 1.00

02:10:48.000 I witnessed this in Norway when I visited Salute.

02:10:51.000 There you go. 0.96

02:10:52.000 Rams, women with tattoos, new spirituality, or love for all black makeup and fashion tend to be highly feminist and likely bisexual. 0.96

02:11:00.000 Do you agree or disagree? 0.92

02:11:02.000 I'm actually all three.

02:11:02.000 Disagree?

02:11:03.000 Because I'm all three!

02:11:05.000 And it's the...

02:11:06.000 Well, actually, I lied.

02:11:07.000 I don't wear makeup like this.

02:11:08.000 This is, like, the only time if I'm out and about doing something, like, unexpected, then I'll throw on my makeup or if I'm gonna be on camera or whatever, but...

02:11:19.000 I have one that's hidden.

02:11:22.000 Okay, yeah, I don't want to say it.

02:11:23.000 It's a pentagram.

02:11:24.000 I do text, actually.

02:11:26.000 It's a cross.

02:11:27.000 Two Rock says, glad you guys are back.

02:11:29.000 Show to Nick...

02:11:35.000 Shout out to NC. Shout out to NC. Shout out to NC. That's actually pretty good. 0.54

02:11:44.000 Yeah.

02:11:45.000 What's the discussion in FNF Discord?

02:11:47.000 Fresh Hair?

02:11:48.000 No, no.

02:11:49.000 Three books.

02:11:50.000 Fresh Hair.

02:11:50.000 Morrow is gone.

02:11:51.000 Oh, okay.

02:11:52.000 Three books.

02:11:53.000 That are not fiction.

02:11:55.000 Non-fiction?

02:11:56.000 Yeah.

02:12:00.000 Shiloh.

02:12:01.000 The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog.

02:12:05.000 Wait, what?

02:12:07.000 The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog, it's a psychological book I read in a treatment center.

02:12:14.000 Do you need treatment?

02:12:16.000 I'm a treatment kid.

02:12:19.000 I mainly read fictional books.

02:12:21.000 Emotional damage!

02:12:24.000 One more book.

02:12:25.000 One more book.

02:12:28.000 He said non-fictional.

02:12:29.000 I read Harry Potter all the time.

02:12:32.000 That's not real life.

02:12:33.000 Yeah.

02:12:35.000 Oh, wait.

02:12:35.000 Gus, you got two.

02:12:36.000 Oh, no, no.

02:12:37.000 Never mind.

02:12:38.000 Okay, three books.

02:12:40.000 Non-fiction?

02:12:40.000 Non-fiction.

02:12:42.000 I'm not gonna lie.

02:12:43.000 I didn't read a lot of non-fiction.

02:12:44.000 I was more of a fiction.

02:12:45.000 The only one I can think of was...

02:12:47.000 I don't remember.

02:12:48.000 It was like something like Heaven Sent, Sent to Heaven, about a kid who died and then came back.

02:12:53.000 They made a movie about it.

02:12:54.000 Non-fiction?

02:12:56.000 Oh, I know exactly what you're talking about.

02:12:58.000 I can't remember the name.

02:12:59.000 Yeah, I can't remember the name.

02:13:00.000 I just know she's not lying.

02:13:03.000 I mean, I can't confirm or deny that, so...

02:13:05.000 Alright, what about you?

02:13:06.000 Three books that are not fiction.

02:13:08.000 Well, You're the Placebo.

02:13:11.000 Okay.

02:13:12.000 Truth Works.

02:13:15.000 And...

02:13:15.000 You should read that book again.

02:13:17.000 You don't know what it's about.

02:13:19.000 True.

02:13:21.000 I can't really say.

02:13:21.000 Okay.

02:13:22.000 Last book.

02:13:23.000 And I really love Robert Greene.

02:13:27.000 I think you know him, no?

02:13:29.000 What's your favorite book from Robert Greene?

02:13:29.000 Yep.

02:13:31.000 Because you've read it, right?

02:13:33.000 I love his book.

02:13:39.000 48?

02:13:39.000 It's...

02:13:40.000 No, not the 48.

02:13:42.000 Me, actually.

02:13:43.000 Out of Seduction.

02:13:44.000 That's a good one.

02:13:46.000 Cool.

02:13:47.000 Interesting.

02:13:47.000 Three books.

02:13:48.000 Non-fiction.

02:13:49.000 I would have to say House of Leafs.

02:13:55.000 Would the Bible count? 0.67

02:14:01.000 I can't remember the name of the book, but it's also a poetry book.

02:14:07.000 It's about her life experiences.

02:14:09.000 I can't remember exactly, but it's something Rhapsody, something like that.

02:14:15.000 I can't remember the exact name.

02:14:16.000 Y'all don't read no books, man.

02:14:17.000 I do read books.

02:14:20.000 How to Win Friends and Influence People, Rich Dad, Poor Dad, and The Power of Now.

02:14:25.000 W. For you?

02:14:28.000 Honestly, I can't really think of three books right now, but I've read The Secret by Shonda Rhimes.

02:14:35.000 Okay.

02:14:36.000 And then you?

02:14:37.000 Three books?

02:14:39.000 I don't know the names, but one of them that I'm reading right now is Juicing and Learning to Detox for Life.

02:14:47.000 I'm really big on health.

02:14:48.000 I'm vegan.

02:14:49.000 So yeah, I read a lot of books that helps me with my health.

02:14:53.000 But you don't go to the gym though.

02:14:53.000 I don't need to go to the gym.

02:14:56.000 I eat really healthy.

02:14:57.000 I eat fruits and vegetables every day.

02:14:59.000 That's why my shoulder is so strong.

02:15:01.000 You see this?

02:15:03.000 I ain't gotta go to the gym, baby. 1.00

02:15:05.000 This body is a motherfucking ape. 0.99

02:15:07.000 Any books you read about law? 1.00

02:15:10.000 Yeah.

02:15:11.000 I've read a lot of criminology.

02:15:14.000 I've read ethics books.

02:15:17.000 I've read...

02:15:20.000 It's just been, like, I don't know the names of them, but I've read a lot of genres, like ethics, criminology.

02:15:26.000 Okay.

02:15:27.000 So you read a lot?

02:15:28.000 Yeah, I do.

02:15:29.000 Of course, with law, you have to read a lot.

02:15:31.000 That's just what it is.

02:15:32.000 That is scary.

02:15:33.000 Alright, let's move on.

02:15:34.000 Alright. 0.92

02:15:35.000 You're scary.

02:15:36.000 Thank you.

02:15:37.000 You scare me.

02:15:39.000 I should scare you.

02:15:41.000 Alright!

02:15:42.000 So I got a new chick and my boundaries are known to her and I don't put up with anything I don't like.

02:15:46.000 She is super cool but 21 years old. 0.99

02:15:47.000 I'm 31.

02:15:48.000 I've been cheated on so I don't trust women in general. 1.00

02:15:50.000 How can I trust again?

02:15:54.000 That's very difficult to answer, my boy.

02:15:56.000 You want to go around the table and have the girls answer this one? 1.00

02:15:59.000 Sure.

02:15:59.000 See what their answers are?

02:16:00.000 Sure.

02:16:01.000 All right.

02:16:01.000 How should he go about this?

02:16:02.000 He's 31 years old.

02:16:03.000 He's with a 21-year-old, but he's been cheating on before and he doesn't trust women in general.

02:16:06.000 How should he go about this?

02:16:07.000 Like, I just say you shouldn't put your problems on everyone.

02:16:11.000 You know, you should give her a chance.

02:16:12.000 Just see what her vibe is like, you know, how she acts, how she carries herself, you know.

02:16:18.000 Okay.

02:16:18.000 Because trust comes with time.

02:16:20.000 So you have to give her time to see, you know, how it works for you, you know?

02:16:25.000 How long do you give her time for? 0.92

02:16:29.000 I'll say at least like five to six months because trust builds over time.

02:16:34.000 It doesn't build quickly.

02:16:36.000 Imagine what it is.

02:16:37.000 Okay.

02:16:38.000 What about you?

02:16:43.000 I just feel like you can't compare all your past situations to your current situation.

02:16:52.000 You never know who's going to be a different person or how they're going to treat you.

02:16:55.000 Like she said, give them time, see how it goes for maybe a couple months or so and then see how you feel.

02:17:02.000 What about you?

02:17:06.000 Yeah, I mean, it varies, I would say.

02:17:10.000 As far as how can I trust again, you kind of have to have a clean slate with each partner, but you obviously learn from experience, so don't do the things that...

02:17:23.000 You know, perhaps as a man that, you know, or allow certain things that could have put you in that position.

02:17:28.000 Also, I think that the fact that she's a lot younger does help the dynamic because, you know, there seems to be like a pretty good age gap there.

02:17:38.000 And that may be a different situation overall.

02:17:41.000 What about you?

02:17:44.000 You can't really put A stigma on everybody due to what you went through in your past.

02:17:52.000 But you can also be on the lookout for those behavioral patterns and things like that.

02:17:59.000 So it's also about learning the person that you're talking to as well.

02:18:02.000 You can't expect to learn somebody in like three months.

02:18:05.000 That's not enough time.

02:18:07.000 Okay.

02:18:08.000 How long should they wait?

02:18:09.000 I'll say at least six months to really get to know a person.

02:18:13.000 I honestly didn't really know my husband until we moved in together.

02:18:18.000 You never really know anybody until you move in with them.

02:18:22.000 You never really know them at all.

02:18:23.000 How long were you guys together before you guys got married?

02:18:28.000 A year.

02:18:29.000 And then how long did you guys live together before you guys got married?

02:18:32.000 Six months.

02:18:34.000 So a year total, six months living together.

02:18:36.000 What about you?

02:18:37.000 What do you think you should do?

02:18:38.000 Well, I think he should communicate to her about this situation.

02:18:43.000 What should she say specifically?

02:18:44.000 Well, if she says that she doesn't feel like she's comfortable not cheating, then I mean, it's obvious.

02:18:52.000 So I think that he should say what happened.

02:18:56.000 And if she does the same thing, then I guess that's what she wanted.

02:18:59.000 So tell her what happens to me in the past so she can do it again.

02:19:03.000 No, exactly.

02:19:05.000 That's what I was getting to say.

02:19:06.000 Because if you tell certain people about your past, they just learn how to not get caught.

02:19:10.000 That's the wrong people, though.

02:19:12.000 It is, but you never know.

02:19:14.000 You're going to find out eventually.

02:19:15.000 You never know.

02:19:16.000 Wait, hold on.

02:19:16.000 I want to get her opinion before it's...

02:19:18.000 But then you guys can challenge...

02:19:19.000 Just so I understand this correctly.

02:19:21.000 Communicate what happened to you in the past...

02:19:24.000 Yeah, you tell her that you were cheated on and then you don't trust women.

02:19:29.000 That is so bad!

02:19:32.000 Oh my god! 1.00

02:19:35.000 That nigga's gonna die! 1.00

02:19:37.000 Communicate and let her know that you don't trust women in general. 1.00

02:19:40.000 No, not trust women in general, just that you've been hurt before.

02:19:45.000 You just said a second ago, don't trust women.

02:19:47.000 Well, you've been hurt before.

02:19:48.000 Well, you could say that you've been hurt before and then he just needs some time to be able to trust her.

02:19:56.000 There's a term for this advice.

02:19:58.000 Okay. 1.00

02:19:59.000 Dog shit advice. 1.00

02:20:01.000 Well, then he should go see. 1.00

02:20:02.000 Well, let me ask you a question.

02:20:04.000 Do you think a woman is more likely to find a man attractive after saying this or less attractive?

02:20:10.000 It depends on the woman. 1.00

02:20:11.000 It does.

02:20:12.000 It does.

02:20:13.000 Do you think it would make the man less attractive or more attractive if he communicated to her that he's hurt and he's been hurt before by a woman and cheating, etc.?

02:20:22.000 It's hard for me to answer this question.

02:20:23.000 I think it depends on the woman, as I said.

02:20:26.000 Yeah, it does.

02:20:26.000 I'm curious to know how you would feel about it.

02:20:28.000 How would you feel?

02:20:29.000 How would you feel about it?

02:20:30.000 Well, then I would try my best to prove that I'm not...

02:20:33.000 I wouldn't hurt him.

02:20:38.000 You wouldn't lose a little bit of respect for him?

02:20:41.000 No.

02:20:41.000 At all?

02:20:42.000 No.

02:20:46.000 Interesting.

02:20:47.000 That's her and her feelings, so you can't...

02:20:49.000 How many of you, raise of hands, would lose respect for a man if he admitted that to you, realistically speaking?

02:20:54.000 Keep it a thousand.

02:20:55.000 One?

02:20:56.000 Only one of you?

02:20:58.000 Because I don't want to judge you by that.

02:21:00.000 No, I can honestly speak from personal experience.

02:21:03.000 In this scenario, I'm telling you right now, you're going to feel the type of way.

02:21:07.000 It's like a week.

02:21:08.000 I can only speak from what I went through.

02:21:11.000 Like I said, the person that I'm dealing with, the person that I'm dealing with right now, my husband, he's admitted that to me.

02:21:20.000 And I understood what he went through.

02:21:21.000 Now, that doesn't mean that he was a week behind man.

02:21:25.000 You feel me?

02:21:26.000 It just means that...

02:21:27.000 Hey, this person got one up on him.

02:21:31.000 And this is why you didn't post him.

02:21:32.000 Okay, that's not why.

02:21:35.000 Because I post him on a daily.

02:21:36.000 On my story, I post him on a daily.

02:21:38.000 You're about to trigger her again.

02:21:40.000 I'm not triggered.

02:21:41.000 I'm just saying what's facts and what's not.

02:21:43.000 Stories disappear.

02:21:45.000 So...

02:21:46.000 Only one girl admitted it.

02:21:48.000 I've also had...

02:21:50.000 Like, I've had this happen in my relationship.

02:21:53.000 He had a previous partner that did cheat on him.

02:21:56.000 And in the beginning, he did share...

02:22:01.000 Like, he shared it with me in a way that I almost felt bad for him.

02:22:06.000 And it's like...

02:22:08.000 You know, now, when we talk about it, which we don't, but when it does come up, the topic of cheating, I just know it's a boundary and that's it.

02:22:16.000 There doesn't need to be all the extra.

02:22:18.000 And I don't want him to tell me, oh, I was so hurt. 0.99

02:22:21.000 And, you know, and it sounds fucked up. 0.98

02:22:24.000 You know, it sounds fucked up for me to say that because it's not that I don't care about his feelings, but I just I don't want my man crying to me. 0.99

02:22:30.000 You know, about what happened to him. 0.96

02:22:32.000 Like, we can talk about it. 0.99

02:22:34.000 And I used to, it kind of, like, again, it sounds fucked up. 0.97

02:22:38.000 But at the reality, like, really respecting my man, I just don't want to hear him cry. 0.97

02:22:42.000 You know?

02:22:43.000 I don't want to have to feel like I have to fix your days.

02:22:46.000 You know?

02:22:46.000 Again, it sounds bad, but at the end of the day, the dynamic, let me finish, the dynamic is that Whether you realize it or not, that's kind of what it ends up being.

02:22:57.000 It's not necessarily a conscious thing.

02:22:59.000 Like I said, it's kind of different for me and everybody else's opinions.

02:23:03.000 We're just sharing our ideas.

02:23:05.000 I'm not disagreeing with you.

02:23:07.000 I didn't say you were wrong for feeling how you feel.

02:23:10.000 I'm speaking on my feelings and why I think the way I think is because I grew up with my brothers.

02:23:16.000 Yes, I have sisters.

02:23:17.000 Mind you, I have over 13 siblings.

02:23:21.000 Majority of them are females, but I grew up with my brother.

02:23:25.000 So I understand both sides of each individual is what I'm saying.

02:23:29.000 So my point is different from anybody else's on this.

02:23:34.000 I didn't grow up around my sisters.

02:23:36.000 I grew up around my brothers.

02:23:37.000 And my brother was one of my best friends growing up.

02:23:41.000 So that's why I empathize with both sides.

02:23:43.000 I understand my side as a female and I understand his side because he dealt with different things growing up with different females so I understand.

02:23:53.000 Alright.

02:23:54.000 Interesting point because a lot of you guys said that...

02:23:57.000 We got two more.

02:23:58.000 It doesn't...

02:23:59.000 Okay.

02:24:00.000 Alright, that's fine.

02:24:00.000 I'll come back to it.

02:24:01.000 Go ahead.

02:24:03.000 What did you tell him to do from the post?

02:24:06.000 What did you tell him to do?

02:24:07.000 He's 31, she's 21 and he's been hurt in the past.

02:24:12.000 I would say I'd agree with her with the communication, but you did make a good point how people do tend to, like, learn from, I guess, other people's mistakes, like, you know, like, they'll keep in the back of their mind.

02:24:23.000 But I'd say, like, a relationship is all about risk, you know, so if you're willing to really just, like, you're just gonna have to honestly just take that step.

02:24:32.000 I mean, I understand where you're coming from, too, where you say you don't want your man to cry to you.

02:24:36.000 Like, you know, like, you can communicate about it, talk to you, you know, but not all the time wanting to, and I get that.

02:24:41.000 Right.

02:24:42.000 But, um, like I said, just risk.

02:24:44.000 Like, you're really just gonna have stuff.

02:24:45.000 Every day is risky.

02:24:47.000 I mean, everything is risky.

02:24:48.000 I know what you're saying.

02:24:49.000 Alright.

02:24:50.000 For you?

02:24:53.000 Um...

02:24:56.000 If you believe your judgment is correct and adequate, then you should give her the benefit of the doubt and have faith in her.

02:25:03.000 Because, I mean, naturally, if you like her, there's a reason why you like her.

02:25:06.000 However, if you're not confident enough in becoming serious with her, then I would recommend going with a woman that's a bit older because there's definitely a mental differentiation between you two, being 31, 21.

02:25:19.000 The girl, she's, you know, just, you know...

02:25:23.000 Barely legal to drink and the guy, you know, he more than likely you have yourself set up.

02:25:29.000 So, I mean, that's everything you have to take into consideration.

02:25:31.000 But if you really believe she's the type of individual you want to have around, then you know what?

02:25:36.000 Just take that risk.

02:25:38.000 All right.

02:25:39.000 I just had a few questions based on because she said that you should communicate that you don't trust women and, you know, kind of go from there.

02:25:48.000 Um, What is bigger treachery?

02:25:52.000 A man cheating on a woman or a woman cheating on a man? 0.64

02:25:55.000 Start with you.

02:25:57.000 It hurts just as bad.

02:25:58.000 What's worse though? 1.00

02:26:00.000 I think they both suck. 1.00

02:26:03.000 Okay, just choose one that's more painful you think. 1.00

02:26:06.000 For which gender?

02:26:09.000 I believe it's more painful for the female because, you know, we have psychological differences. 1.00

02:26:15.000 Okay, so you think it's worse if the man cheats on her? 0.98

02:26:18.000 Yeah, because we tend to feel worse about it.

02:26:22.000 That's fine.

02:26:22.000 What about you?

02:26:23.000 What's a bigger form of treachery?

02:26:24.000 A man cheating on a woman or a woman cheating on a man? 0.64

02:26:26.000 I'd say, honestly, a woman.

02:26:28.000 Because I feel like men cheating is normalized now.

02:26:30.000 It's just something that I wouldn't be as surprised about.

02:26:33.000 What do you think?

02:26:34.000 I agree with her.

02:26:36.000 It's worse when a man cheats on a woman?

02:26:39.000 Okay.

02:26:40.000 What about you?

02:26:42.000 Um...

02:26:44.000 Honestly, I feel like women because we're more emotional. 1.00

02:26:48.000 It's worse when a woman cheats? 1.00

02:26:50.000 No.

02:26:50.000 Or worse when a man cheats?

02:26:51.000 When a man cheats because we're more emotional.

02:26:53.000 We feel it more emotional.

02:26:54.000 A man feel it logically. 0.83

02:26:56.000 I feel like.

02:26:57.000 Well, both ways.

02:26:59.000 What about you?

02:26:59.000 Could you repeat the phrasing of the question?

02:27:01.000 What is a bigger betrayal or more treacherous?

02:27:04.000 A woman cheating on a man or a man cheating on a woman? 0.99

02:27:06.000 A woman cheating on a man. 0.98

02:27:07.000 Okay.

02:27:08.000 What about you?

02:27:09.000 A man cheating on a woman.

02:27:11.000 Okay.

02:27:12.000 So it's worse.

02:27:13.000 Okay.

02:27:13.000 What about you?

02:27:15.000 Um, man cheating on a woman.

02:27:17.000 Okay. 0.99

02:27:18.000 Because women become weak. 1.00

02:27:20.000 Interesting.

02:27:20.000 Now, I'm gonna ask the second question.

02:27:22.000 Who loses more respect for being cheated on?

02:27:25.000 A man or a woman? 0.98

02:27:27.000 Start with you.

02:27:30.000 Who loses more respect?

02:27:31.000 Yes, for being cheated on.

02:27:33.000 A man or a woman? 0.98

02:27:36.000 Like, do the woman lose more respect for the man? 0.99

02:27:39.000 Yes, like, who would lose...

02:27:41.000 Okay, just say, like, if your man cheated on you, would you lose more respect for him, or would...

02:27:46.000 If he cheated on you, would you lose more respect for the man?

02:27:48.000 I feel like men would lose more respect for women, because men wouldn't expect you to go do what they did to you.

02:27:56.000 Okay, so the man would lose more respect.

02:27:59.000 Okay.

02:28:00.000 So that contradicts what you said before.

02:28:02.000 Okay.

02:28:03.000 That's fine.

02:28:04.000 What about you?

02:28:05.000 Who loses more status or respect by being cheated on?

02:28:09.000 A man or a woman? 0.98

02:28:10.000 I feel like a woman loses more respect because I feel like we put more of our information out there as opposed to a man. 1.00

02:28:17.000 Like, if he gets cheated on, no one's really going to know about it.

02:28:20.000 No, but if it were to be public, what's worse?

02:28:24.000 I would still say a woman because I feel like that's kind of embarrassing. 1.00

02:28:29.000 Okay.

02:28:30.000 What about you?

02:28:31.000 Man.

02:28:32.000 Man?

02:28:32.000 Okay.

02:28:33.000 You?

02:28:34.000 It's women because we're expected to carry ourselves to high standards and have morals. 1.00

02:28:41.000 So you think the woman would be more embarrassed for having a cheating guy or the guy being more embarrassed?

02:28:47.000 The guy being more embarrassed.

02:28:48.000 Oh, okay, okay, okay.

02:28:49.000 So the man loses more respect.

02:28:51.000 So why you say I'm contradicting?

02:28:53.000 No, because you said...

02:28:54.000 Well, we all said it, so we all...

02:28:56.000 We're all contradicting.

02:28:58.000 Don't just try to come for me, Myra.

02:29:00.000 He's not just coming for you.

02:29:03.000 I don't need the attitude, please.

02:29:05.000 Okay?

02:29:05.000 I really don't need the attitude.

02:29:08.000 So, yeah, because on one end you're saying that it's bigger treachery if a man cheats on a woman, but then some of you guys are saying that on the flip side, the man loses more respect if he's cheated on.

02:29:18.000 See the contradiction?

02:29:19.000 That's what I mean.

02:29:21.000 I was going off the motions.

02:29:23.000 Okay, what about you, Miss Lithuania?

02:29:25.000 Who loses more status for being cheated on, a man or a woman?

02:29:28.000 That's embarrassing to have a man like that.

02:29:30.000 Mm-hmm.

02:29:31.000 Okay, but who lives more status in general, the man or the woman?

02:29:34.000 General, not just your standpoint, but who generally?

02:29:38.000 For me, or like generally, like society, or like if I... Yes, society in general, yes.

02:29:44.000 And then you can give your personal one if you want after.

02:29:46.000 Well, then I cannot answer for society then.

02:29:49.000 Why would I answer for society?

02:29:51.000 I can only answer for myself.

02:29:53.000 Oh my god.

02:29:57.000 Bruv.

02:29:59.000 Are you serious?

02:30:01.000 I mean, that's a narcissistic quality.

02:30:03.000 Which is very interesting because this is like the fifth time now that she's not been able to answer her question in general.

02:30:09.000 She can only put it on herself, which is actually a trait of a narcissist. 0.50

02:30:15.000 And you are in one?

02:30:18.000 No.

02:30:19.000 Of course you would say no.

02:30:21.000 What narcissistic traits have I exuded?

02:30:25.000 You really love to show power.

02:30:29.000 I have a show to run.

02:30:32.000 There's gotta be some semblance of order and authority for the show to run correctly, right?

02:30:36.000 It's the way that you say things.

02:30:37.000 I mean, you date men with power.

02:30:39.000 Well, I don't date men that don't respect women.

02:30:43.000 Oh.

02:30:45.000 That's a whole other thing.

02:30:46.000 Wouldn't it be fair to say that as a man, being a leader and having some level of authority is the utmost respect for a woman because you're putting her in a protected provision under your leadership?

02:30:55.000 Yes, but the way that you're controlling and saying things are not nice.

02:30:59.000 Well, we're not on a date.

02:31:00.000 We're on a podcast where there's got to be an open discussion that's mediated to a degree where people are able to speak in open form and articulate their points without necessarily being interrupted.

02:31:09.000 Well, that's what we think.

02:31:12.000 I mean, how else would you conduct the podcast with a panel of people?

02:31:15.000 I just think that you're being disrespectful towards the things that you say.

02:31:19.000 How am I being disrespectful?

02:31:21.000 Well, just the things that you say.

02:31:23.000 Can you give me an example?

02:31:24.000 Yes, the way that you're calling me a narcissist without having a medical diagnosis presented.

02:31:29.000 I mean, that's a narcissistic trait, an inability to be empathetic.

02:31:32.000 Gotcha.

02:31:33.000 Well, then I have nothing else to say.

02:31:35.000 You know, I mean, you want me to call it solipsism?

02:31:38.000 Basically the same exact thing.

02:31:39.000 Well, you have to be one to see one, right?

02:31:42.000 I wouldn't say that. 0.96

02:31:43.000 I don't have to be a retard to say someone's a retard. 0.91

02:31:46.000 So that's not calling you a retard, but I'm giving you an example. 1.00

02:31:49.000 Like, that's a trait of a narcissist, is that you've had a very difficult time Being able to answer things outside of your own purview and your own perception. 0.89

02:31:57.000 That is a narcissistic trait.

02:31:59.000 Ask any psychiatrist.

02:32:00.000 They will tell you that's a narcissistic trait.

02:32:02.000 Triggered.

02:32:02.000 So, I mean, I'm just telling you something that I didn't say you're like a full-on narcissist, but that is a narcissistic trait.

02:32:08.000 Right, she is.

02:32:09.000 Okay, thank you then.

02:32:10.000 So, but I'm still trying to figure out how I'm being disrespectful by stating something that's...

02:32:14.000 No, you're not.

02:32:14.000 I'm just delusional, right?

02:32:18.000 I'm giving you a chance to explain to me how I'm being disrespectful.

02:32:21.000 I'm saying something that's fairly objectively true here.

02:32:25.000 It's the way that you articulate your sentences.

02:32:29.000 You're putting a woman down without you putting actually a woman down. 0.95

02:32:33.000 How have I done that?

02:32:34.000 Behind the lines of what you're saying.

02:32:36.000 How have I done that in particular?

02:32:38.000 It's how you're saying it.

02:32:39.000 How have I done that in particular?

02:32:41.000 I agree with your colleague here.

02:32:42.000 That's how I said it?

02:32:43.000 That's how you say it.

02:32:44.000 That's how you say things.

02:32:45.000 I understand what you're trying to do, but it's how you say things.

02:32:47.000 Because I speak directly and concisely?

02:32:49.000 Yeah, it's the way that you articulate and the words that you pick is not really nice.

02:32:56.000 And the way that you insult girls.

02:32:58.000 How did I insult any of the girls here?

02:33:00.000 Girl next to you.

02:33:01.000 How did I insult her? 1.00

02:33:02.000 I mean, she's stupid though. 1.00

02:33:05.000 Huh? 1.00

02:33:05.000 How did I insult her? 1.00

02:33:07.000 Y'all are so fucking rude on this show. 0.99

02:33:11.000 I'm asking though, how did I insult her? 0.99

02:33:15.000 So you didn't?

02:33:17.000 I didn't insult her at all.

02:33:19.000 Okay. 0.99

02:33:20.000 I'm dumb. 1.00

02:33:22.000 But y'all ain't got shit. 1.00

02:33:23.000 None of y'all. 1.00

02:33:24.000 I didn't call you dumb. 0.99

02:33:25.000 He didn't. 0.99

02:33:25.000 No, he did. 0.99

02:33:27.000 Back there.

02:33:27.000 Aaron.

02:33:28.000 All right.

02:33:28.000 So I'm asking you, how did I insult her?

02:33:34.000 How did I insult her?

02:33:35.000 I don't have a paper and notes that I'm taking.

02:33:39.000 But I saw how she felt.

02:33:42.000 Well, if you're going to make a claim, then you need to be able to back it up, correct?

02:33:45.000 I'm not writing exactly what you're saying, but I just see how a person is feeling.

02:33:51.000 Oh, so feelings now.

02:33:53.000 Okay, yeah, sure.

02:33:55.000 My thing is, like, if you're going to make an accusation, like, oh, you're being disrespectful, you're putting women down, blah, blah, blah.

02:34:00.000 I don't think I've really said anything that's been putting women down or being disrespectful, whatever.

02:34:03.000 I've been fairly objective and factual in my assessment on saying things.

02:34:08.000 I mean, just because it's direct and concise doesn't necessarily mean that it's rude.

02:34:12.000 It's just a very matter-of-fact way of speaking.

02:34:15.000 Facts don't necessarily care about your feelings.

02:34:17.000 I can't control how you respond to me giving you an objective fact.

02:34:21.000 So whose fault is that?

02:34:23.000 Well, you're calling me narcissist.

02:34:25.000 That's a narcissistic trait, to not be able to empathize with others.

02:34:28.000 I think that's an insult.

02:34:30.000 How do I do that?

02:34:33.000 How do I not empathize with others?

02:34:34.000 I've asked you several questions throughout the course.

02:34:36.000 Just because I don't talk about what society thinks?

02:34:38.000 Throughout the course of this discussion, I've asked you several questions, and I've prefaced it with, in general, and you were unable to answer it, And you continuously went back, I can only answer for myself.

02:34:48.000 I can only answer for myself.

02:34:49.000 I don't understand or care or know how other things go.

02:34:52.000 Like, that is a narcissistic trait.

02:34:55.000 That's a fact.

02:34:56.000 Any clinical psychiatrist will tell you, like, oh, an inability to empathize with others.

02:35:01.000 I don't think you have the degree to diagnose me.

02:35:05.000 I'm not diagnosing you.

02:35:06.000 I'm saying that that's a narcissistic trait.

02:35:08.000 Okay, good.

02:35:10.000 Okay.

02:35:11.000 Can we get your response a little?

02:35:13.000 No, well, hold on.

02:35:14.000 Because, like, my thing is, like, when...

02:35:16.000 Because this is the thing.

02:35:17.000 I'll say something.

02:35:18.000 Women don't like the way it makes them feel, and then they'll make some, you know, claim that isn't true. 1.00

02:35:22.000 No, I just feel like it's the way you come on.

02:35:24.000 No, no, no.

02:35:25.000 Stop interrupting.

02:35:26.000 I'm not going to let you make a claim that isn't true without me challenging you on it.

02:35:32.000 Stand on it.

02:35:32.000 Tell me how I was disrespectful or I did whatever you're trying to claim.

02:35:36.000 You can't.

02:35:38.000 Yep.

02:35:39.000 You just dislike the fact that I'm being objective and concise.

02:35:42.000 Can't get around what I'm trying to say here.

02:35:44.000 And you're like, oh, well, you're putting down women.

02:35:47.000 Am I really putting women down?

02:35:48.000 Is it my fault if you can't necessarily articulate yourself or have a stance that can stand up to what I'm saying?

02:35:53.000 Yeah, you're right, actually.

02:35:54.000 I mean, like...

02:35:56.000 Don't blame your lack of preparation, right?

02:35:59.000 Or lack of whatever it may be, awareness or whatever on me.

02:36:03.000 Like, I'm just telling you, hey, this is what it is.

02:36:05.000 You're actually incorrect.

02:36:05.000 Oh, my feelings!

02:36:07.000 You're putting me down.

02:36:08.000 Am I really putting you down?

02:36:09.000 We're having a discussion here.

02:36:11.000 Well, I'm not claiming that you have narcissistic traits.

02:36:15.000 You are.

02:36:16.000 So, that's not nice of you to say.

02:36:19.000 That's what I'm just saying.

02:36:21.000 That's it.

02:36:22.000 Girl, Miami.

02:36:24.000 Man in Miami.

02:36:26.000 That's just how they built.

02:36:28.000 That's just how their parents built them.

02:36:31.000 To see what it's like.

02:36:32.000 But guys, we've literally been sitting here for two hours and 40 minutes giving our opinions, some of them speaking down on men and we're just listening to each other.

02:36:40.000 I don't think one of the things that we prefaced the podcast with was let's not take anything personal.

02:36:45.000 Opinions are gonna be said.

02:36:46.000 I've heard some things I don't like and I will have to move my body just to not say my comment that's not requested.

02:36:53.000 We're just sharing opinions.

02:36:54.000 You take what you take, you leave what's not for you.

02:36:56.000 Yeah, I agreed, but he still carried on.

02:36:58.000 Because it's kind of his podcast.

02:37:00.000 We kind of put ourselves in this position.

02:37:02.000 So what we don't like, we don't like.

02:37:04.000 And we take what we take.

02:37:06.000 Then why do we still talk about it?

02:37:09.000 That's because we're sharing opinions.

02:37:11.000 Well, because you made a bunch of false claims.

02:37:12.000 That's why.

02:37:14.000 That's why I'm challenging you. 1.00

02:37:16.000 Oh, well, you're being a jerk and you're being assertive on this podcast, blah, blah. 0.99

02:37:20.000 Well, yeah, we have to control the platform to a degree so that we can have thoughtful discussion. 0.99

02:37:23.000 If we didn't, people would just be talking over each other.

02:37:25.000 There'd be no order.

02:37:25.000 There'd be no semblance of what's going on.

02:37:28.000 It would hurt the listeners' ears.

02:37:30.000 It's very interesting how Anyway, I mean, this is a perfect example of emotions right now.

02:37:38.000 In the face of reality and facts, this makes me feel uncomfortable, so I'm going to say this and not be able to prove it.

02:37:44.000 If I can add, I think also keep in mind that some of the insulting things we're reading.

02:37:48.000 It's not him saying it.

02:37:49.000 He's reading it from some of the people that are insulting us behind a screen.

02:37:54.000 So just keep that in mind.

02:37:55.000 It's not necessarily them saying that.

02:37:57.000 That's at least how I... I'm glad you did, girl.

02:38:01.000 You've been here more than once, so you know.

02:38:04.000 Listen, I'm reading with them, so...

02:38:06.000 I mean, you could have watched the show and prepared yourself in your own, too.

02:38:09.000 It's not really an excuse.

02:38:10.000 I did.

02:38:11.000 I watched it last week, and I didn't like it.

02:38:14.000 Just don't read the comments.

02:38:16.000 Yeah, if you paying attention to...

02:38:18.000 Don't pay attention to the screen, and you'll enjoy yourself.

02:38:22.000 Exactly.

02:38:23.000 So going back to what I was saying, so you can answer the question, who's more respected, a man or a woman, when they're cheated on?

02:38:30.000 A woman would lose respect for her man. 0.99

02:38:35.000 Okay, so it sucks more when the guy gets cheated on? 0.99

02:38:39.000 Well, I think it sucks for a woman to get cheated on. 1.00

02:38:45.000 Okay. 0.96

02:38:46.000 Okay, but who loses more respect from society by being cheated on?

02:38:49.000 A man or a woman? 0.98

02:38:50.000 A man would probably applause him, right?

02:38:52.000 I'm asking your opinion.

02:38:53.000 No, I'm just, that's probably what you expect me to say.

02:38:56.000 I don't know.

02:38:57.000 It's not about what I expect.

02:38:58.000 It's about what's your opinion in general.

02:38:59.000 It's about what you think.

02:39:01.000 For me, I think women now are waking up and it would be embarrassing as well. 1.00

02:39:07.000 Okay.

02:39:08.000 What about you?

02:39:10.000 Women lose their respect. 1.00

02:39:12.000 You think the woman loses their respect? 1.00

02:39:13.000 Okay.

02:39:13.000 What about you?

02:39:14.000 I believe the women lose, like, their respect is lost more due to societal standards. 1.00

02:39:21.000 For example, like in this podcast you were talking about, oh, like, men, like, why can't we have more partners?

02:39:27.000 We work for it, right?

02:39:29.000 So, I mean, obviously you didn't like that same idea with females, so naturally if she cheats, she's seen way more negative than the man would because it's more applauded for the man to have multiple partners.

02:39:41.000 So who would lose status more by being cheated on, the man or the woman? 0.86

02:39:46.000 I thought the question was, like, who...

02:39:49.000 The first question was, what's a bigger form of treachery?

02:39:51.000 And then the second one is, who loses more respect for being cheated on?

02:39:54.000 I mean, but society loses respect for the female. 1.00

02:39:57.000 That's what I'm trying to say.

02:39:59.000 Okay, if she cheats on the guy. 1.00

02:40:01.000 To the man.

02:40:03.000 Okay.

02:40:03.000 So...

02:40:07.000 So, this is what I think on this, and I'll turn it to you guys because we've got to end this thing here soon.

02:40:13.000 I think it's way more treacherous when a woman cheats on a man. 1.00

02:40:16.000 And the reason for that is because women aren't designed necessarily to be promiscuous and be hoes. 1.00

02:40:20.000 Some girls choose to do that, but in general, most girls would prefer not to do that if they could. 1.00

02:40:25.000 There's a reason why a woman can only bring one child to term per year, but a man can bring hundreds of children to term per year. 1.00

02:40:30.000 So, I think it's a bigger form of treachery if a woman cheats on a man, right? 0.99

02:40:34.000 And then on top of that, especially since they're not designed to necessarily be hoes. 1.00

02:40:38.000 And then when a guy gets cheated on, he loses more respect because if a man gets cheated on by a girl, he fucked up. 0.99

02:40:46.000 I blame the man when a girl cheats on him. 0.99

02:40:49.000 And I'll tell you why.

02:40:50.000 The man is a leader.

02:40:51.000 If the girl cheated on him, more than likely he wasn't adequate in some kind of field and she went looking for another male to fulfill that. 0.97

02:40:58.000 So the man loses more status, which going back to the original question, Which I disagree with you on.

02:41:03.000 You said a man should communicate that he doesn't trust women.

02:41:06.000 I think that's very bad.

02:41:07.000 Because by him saying, oh, I was cheated on.

02:41:09.000 I was hurt. 1.00

02:41:10.000 What he's telling the woman is, I fucked up in some degree. 1.00

02:41:14.000 She lost respect and attraction for me and she went and fucked somebody else. 1.00

02:41:17.000 That's how women interpret that. 1.00

02:41:20.000 So it's actually very unattractive for a guy to sit there and say, oh, I got cheated on.

02:41:25.000 It's not the same.

02:41:27.000 Naturally, it's unattractive for anybody to say that.

02:41:30.000 But you preach about accountability all the time. 0.99

02:41:33.000 So, I mean, naturally, if she decides to cheat, you know, that's a fucked up thing to do. 0.99

02:41:39.000 That's a whole thing to do. 0.97

02:41:41.000 Yeah, but the man, again, see?

02:41:43.000 It's just the man's fault.

02:41:45.000 And I'll tell you why.

02:41:46.000 The man is the leader.

02:41:47.000 The man is the authority. 1.00

02:41:48.000 So, if the woman is no longer following his authority and his leadership, he fucked up. 1.00

02:41:52.000 No, he didn't fuck up. 1.00

02:41:54.000 If you get cheated on, just leave and it's not your fault. 0.99

02:41:58.000 You can mutually leave each other.

02:42:00.000 And I don't believe anybody has more authority over the other person.

02:42:04.000 If you want to go with a traditional type relationship, I'm all for it.

02:42:08.000 I would do that as well.

02:42:09.000 So you want a traditional relationship?

02:42:11.000 I would.

02:42:14.000 Congratulations.

02:42:15.000 Most women want traditional relationships. 1.00

02:42:17.000 Yeah, but that's what I'm saying.

02:42:18.000 Nobody wants equal partnership like you're trying to argue for right now.

02:42:23.000 No, I mean in the sense of I can still have my career.

02:42:27.000 He does his own thing, I take care of the kids, but I still have my career.

02:42:31.000 That's cool, but you still want him to make more money than you.

02:42:34.000 No, I really wouldn't mind being with a guy that makes less than me.

02:42:39.000 Stop the cap! 0.99

02:42:40.000 I'm serious, I'm serious.

02:42:41.000 You're 18, man.

02:42:44.000 I thought that way.

02:42:45.000 Yeah, you think that way until you start paying the mortgage and you're going to switch your...

02:42:50.000 I think that way until you really start paying all your bills by yourself, no help.

02:42:54.000 I'm not saying it's not that bad. 0.82

02:42:55.000 It's so long, you can show your booty hole. 0.65

02:42:57.000 Yeah.

02:42:58.000 I don't want somebody that's going to make like a thousand a month compared to me making three thousand or four thousand.

02:43:03.000 Like I want at least...

02:43:05.000 So that proves my point, you don't want a guy making less money than you.

02:43:07.000 Or a lot less than you.

02:43:09.000 I want a decent amount, like, of difference.

02:43:12.000 Not too much.

02:43:13.000 You don't know what to want, man.

02:43:15.000 It's okay.

02:43:17.000 It's okay.

02:43:17.000 We're all learning.

02:43:18.000 The point I'm trying to make is that a man absolutely loses more status from being cheated on. 0.99

02:43:23.000 If you look at Will Smith, his reputation is absolutely tarnished because his wife decided to be a slut. 1.00

02:43:27.000 But on the other hand, you look at someone like Kobe Bryant cheated on his wife. 0.99

02:43:31.000 She's applauded to this day.

02:43:33.000 Jay-Z? First digging it through.

02:43:34.000 Jay-Z cheated on Beyonce.

02:43:35.000 Applauded to this day.

02:43:37.000 Women don't lose status for their man cheating on them. 1.00

02:43:41.000 And if anything, if they stay with them, they get respected and applauded even more.

02:43:45.000 But the other way around, when a man is cheated on, they lose an enormous amount of respect. 0.99

02:43:49.000 It's fucked, but it's true. 0.96

02:43:51.000 You made a very good point earlier. 0.99

02:43:53.000 Let people hide themselves.

02:43:54.000 So give them the benefit of the very beginning, but watch them closely, give them time, and they'll tell you who they really are.

02:43:59.000 And then from there, you know what?

02:44:01.000 I'm not cool with this.

02:44:01.000 I'm out.

02:44:02.000 Peace.

02:44:02.000 And not to pick on you, Lithuania, but this is an example of what I mean when I say women typically give very bad advice.

02:44:09.000 Because the right thing to do is say, yeah, communicate, be open, tell her your vulnerabilities, right?

02:44:15.000 But I think that's a very destructive way to go because women can't handle the truth in general. 1.00

02:44:19.000 I mean, think about it.

02:44:20.000 For the most part, yeah.

02:44:21.000 Like, I mean, hold on.

02:44:22.000 Let's stop the show real quick.

02:44:23.000 Think about this, right?

02:44:24.000 Much of you on the panel are extremely uncomfortable at the moment.

02:44:27.000 Why?

02:44:28.000 Because we've had a pretty factual, truth-based conversation.

02:44:31.000 And the reason why it's uncomfortable is because we've talked about some unflattering truths about female nature, how men perceive things, what men really think, and some of you are uncomfortable from it.

02:44:41.000 And I think the reason why is because women rarely get told the truth in general. 1.00

02:44:44.000 So...

02:44:48.000 Yep.

02:44:51.000 Yep.

02:45:01.000 Anybody have anything for that?

02:45:03.000 I don't know.

02:45:03.000 It's just like having the conversation if you haven't like been through it it's difficult to hear but these are things that happen subconsciously in relationships that you want this like Power, dynamic, exchange.

02:45:18.000 You don't need to talk about it with your man.

02:45:20.000 Your man doesn't need to tell you, I'm bigger than you.

02:45:22.000 I'm more important than you.

02:45:23.000 You're of less value.

02:45:24.000 But if it's really something healthy that's going to work and it's something traditional that you're looking for, that dynamic is going to happen naturally.

02:45:32.000 And if that is the man for you, you're going to follow it naturally.

02:45:37.000 You're not going to have to have all these additional conversations that don't feel good to have because they're We don't feel good.

02:45:44.000 It's going to happen naturally if it's really the right person and he really does bring those things to the table and like you do as well.

02:45:52.000 Anything else?

02:45:54.000 No.

02:45:54.000 One thing about it, a female is not going to have a problem compliant or listening to a male that's doing everything that he's supposed to do.

02:46:03.000 Period.

02:46:07.000 Depending on the female, you know, if they're just hard-headed or just want to do what the heck they want to do, then they're just going to do what they want to do. 1.00

02:46:15.000 But if they're ready to be in a relationship and commit and listen and take, you know, heed to authority and let their man lead, then that's just what's going to happen.

02:46:27.000 All right.

02:46:29.000 We got some shots here and then we wrap this up.

02:46:31.000 Yeah.

02:46:32.000 Where we at here?

02:46:36.000 She might not be able to keep him, but the problem is he will want other women too.

02:46:40.000 That's what started the argument.

02:46:42.000 Yeah.

02:46:43.000 Men always want exercise options.

02:46:45.000 I just find it interesting when girls expect monogamy. 1.00

02:46:49.000 Question for the girls later. 0.96

02:46:51.000 If a man were to ask to marry the girl and ask for a prenup and she says no, is it fair for the man to still sleep with other women without any type of drama after?

02:47:01.000 She loves JoJo.

02:47:02.000 YouTube gang, what's good?

02:47:03.000 Great content.

02:47:04.000 Keep it going.

02:47:04.000 Appreciate that.

02:47:06.000 John next to Maren is a nut broad. 0.63

02:47:08.000 And what's the P.O. box to ship these stickers?

02:47:10.000 I hit the DMs on the gram.

02:47:13.000 Calling it now, Ludacris next to Myron getting castled.

02:47:15.000 Hey man, y'all had your chance and you guys voted too.

02:47:19.000 Girl next to Myron on Wick. 1.00

02:47:21.000 What the fuck, bro? 1.00

02:47:22.000 Damn, y'all just talking shit about me. 1.00

02:47:26.000 All the broke niggas talking shit tonight, ain't they? 1.00

02:47:29.000 Ain't got a pot to piss in. 1.00

02:47:30.000 Damn. 1.00

02:47:33.000 Myron Wednesday next to Fresh Eyeball and the fuck out of you. 1.00

02:47:36.000 What? 0.99

02:47:36.000 Oh, Wednesday. 0.99

02:47:38.000 I look like the mother.

02:47:40.000 I don't look like Wednesday.

02:47:42.000 I'm not even that email.

02:47:45.000 We can't tell.

02:47:47.000 I wasn't aware.

02:47:48.000 Ladies, would you rather make 500k a year, be 45, single, no kids, or be in your late 20s with two kids under five with your ideal husband taking care of all the bills? 1.00

02:47:57.000 Also, I should pick you.

02:47:57.000 Alright, so we'll answer the first part.

02:48:01.000 Raise your hands if you would rather be making half a million dollars a year, 45, single, and no kids.

02:48:07.000 Man, that's tough.

02:48:09.000 Okay, and then you would want that?

02:48:11.000 Yeah.

02:48:13.000 Really though?

02:48:14.000 I think so.

02:48:16.000 I'll just adopt a bunch of cats.

02:48:17.000 Man, you don't know what you want.

02:48:19.000 So the rest of you would rather be in your late 20s with two kids?

02:48:22.000 Under five with an ideal husband?

02:48:25.000 Okay, let me ask this one question then to follow up. 0.73

02:48:27.000 Would you rather be rich and ugly or pretty and broke? 0.93

02:48:35.000 As a female. 0.96

02:48:40.000 That's a tough one.

02:48:41.000 That's a very tough one.

02:48:42.000 To me it is.

02:48:44.000 Alright, we'll move on. 0.99

02:48:45.000 Jamaica, pretty and broke or ugly and rich as a female? 1.00

02:48:50.000 I'd say pretty and broke. 0.98

02:48:52.000 I'd say the first one. 0.84

02:48:55.000 Ugly and rich. 0.97

02:48:57.000 That's her answer. 0.99

02:48:58.000 Of course you would say that.

02:48:59.000 Because she's pretty. 1.00

02:49:04.000 I'll say pretty and broke.

02:49:05.000 Pretty and broke.

02:49:06.000 Pretty and broke, yeah. 0.69

02:49:08.000 Pretty and broke.

02:49:10.000 Pretty and broke because I can find a rich man, period. 0.96

02:49:13.000 Okay, what about you?

02:49:15.000 Honestly, I think rich and ugly because, I mean, if I'm rich, I must have gotten to that point somehow.

02:49:21.000 I'm more than just the looks.

02:49:23.000 I'm a personality.

02:49:25.000 I'm intelligent.

02:49:26.000 Well, if I become, you know, have like $500,000 a year, I got it somehow.

02:49:32.000 I got it from a skill, from, you know, just working hard.

02:49:36.000 Remember, that is redeemable in the dating marketplace.

02:49:39.000 You know, that's not what I revolve my life around.

02:49:43.000 Like, if it happens, it happens.

02:49:45.000 You don't revolve your life around men?

02:49:47.000 No.

02:49:48.000 What were you put on earth to do?

02:49:51.000 Chill.

02:49:52.000 I mean, like, I don't...

02:49:53.000 Chill.

02:49:54.000 Chill.

02:49:55.000 Chill.

02:49:57.000 But then again, you have to think about it.

02:50:00.000 He didn't say pretty and broke or ugly and rich. 1.00

02:50:04.000 He didn't say that, you know, that you're ugly and smart or pretty and dumb. 0.99

02:50:10.000 I know, but what I'm saying is if I got rich, naturally, like, there's a reason why. 0.98

02:50:15.000 You know, he didn't say I won the lottery, like...

02:50:17.000 You know, there's more to just being ugly.

02:50:20.000 I mean, like, I worked for what I got, unless, you know...

02:50:24.000 Do you think that money is going to help you with finding a guy?

02:50:27.000 That you want?

02:50:28.000 That's not necessarily my priority.

02:50:30.000 Like, you know, my priority is get somewhere to live, you know, take care of whatever family I got.

02:50:35.000 And then what was your reasoning for being rich and ugly?

02:50:39.000 I mean, I think it's just better.

02:50:43.000 How?

02:50:44.000 How so?

02:50:45.000 You wouldn't be bothered by anyone.

02:50:49.000 True.

02:50:50.000 Okay, that's fair.

02:50:52.000 That's actually a good point. 0.99

02:50:53.000 You're ugly, nobody bothers you, and you enjoy your money by yourself. 0.98

02:50:56.000 So if that's the case, why did you pick a husband and kids? 0.99

02:51:02.000 But you didn't set the age. 0.94

02:51:04.000 I can be young and rich and ugly.

02:51:10.000 It's a little strange.

02:51:12.000 It's a little contradictory because on one side you're saying, oh no, I prefer the...

02:51:16.000 Yeah, but I don't want to be 45.

02:51:18.000 That's what I'm saying. 0.98

02:51:21.000 But if you're rich and ugly, you will almost...

02:51:23.000 It doesn't necessarily mean that... 0.91

02:51:25.000 Ugly doesn't mean old.

02:51:27.000 I mean, that's a component.

02:51:28.000 But it's not necessarily that.

02:51:30.000 A lot of a woman's beauty does come from her youth. 1.00

02:51:33.000 Significantly, actually.

02:51:35.000 I mean, if you look at all the surgeries that women do that are cosmetic, it's all to make it look like you're pushing a clock back. 1.00

02:51:42.000 Whether it's Botox, Lipo, whatever.

02:51:45.000 A lot of these cosmetic surgeries that women endure are for the preservation of youth to a degree. 0.83

02:51:51.000 Okay, so I'm rich, then I can do Botox, right?

02:51:54.000 I thought about it.

02:51:58.000 You have everything, right?

02:52:00.000 You get the money.

02:52:01.000 I think she's just disagreeing and disagreeing.

02:52:03.000 That's cool.

02:52:04.000 Luda next to Maren. 0.99

02:52:05.000 It ain't nobody drunk but me, but I gotta check Maren's misogyny, and it ain't no sense because it's dumb inside. 1.00

02:52:11.000 That sounds like a song. 0.98

02:52:13.000 The wage gap strikes again.

02:52:15.000 Okay. 0.99

02:52:16.000 Oh, he's trying to say she's ludicrous. 0.98

02:52:18.000 Oh, okay. 0.97

02:52:19.000 I see. 0.87

02:52:20.000 It was a ludicrous joke. 0.92

02:52:23.000 What privileges do your main chicks that were useful get that you're not as useful? 1.00

02:52:29.000 Side chicks did not. 1.00

02:52:30.000 Huh?

02:52:32.000 Referencing your interview with Leia and retaining a man, and what if you had less money?

02:52:37.000 Well, unfortunately, I just got to be painfully blunt about this. 0.87

02:52:40.000 If you're a guy and you don't have your shit together financially, it's going to be very, very difficult for you to maintain multiple girlfriends. 0.98

02:52:46.000 That's just how it goes. 1.00

02:52:48.000 So yeah, you got to have your shit together, guys. 0.99

02:52:51.000 Which bus stop did y'all find this panel at? 0.99

02:52:55.000 Here is a question for the panel.

02:52:57.000 When was the last time you ladies said, I am sorry?

02:52:59.000 This woke culture, the more I noticed, the accountability seems to be a woman's kryptonite. 1.00

02:53:02.000 That's actually a good question.

02:53:03.000 Yesterday.

02:53:03.000 When's the last time you said sorry to a man?

02:53:06.000 Start here.

02:53:10.000 I mean, I really never said I'm sorry.

02:53:12.000 I said I'm wrong.

02:53:15.000 So, I did what it is.

02:53:19.000 You've never said sorry to your guy that you're with?

02:53:25.000 I say I apologize. 0.99

02:53:27.000 What the fuck are you sorry for? 0.99

02:53:29.000 That's the same thing. 0.99

02:53:31.000 No, I apologize.

02:53:33.000 You don't say you're sorry. 0.99

02:53:35.000 You're just, what the fuck? 1.00

02:53:36.000 I mean, same shit. 1.00

02:53:37.000 It's the same thing, honestly. 0.99

02:53:38.000 Saying I'm sorry.

02:53:39.000 It's been a while, y'all.

02:53:41.000 It's been a while.

02:53:43.000 Saying I'm sorry is by definition an apology.

02:53:45.000 Yeah.

02:53:45.000 It's been a while.

02:53:46.000 It's been a while.

02:53:49.000 That you apologize?

02:53:50.000 Yeah.

02:53:51.000 Alright.

02:53:52.000 It's been a while.

02:53:53.000 About what though?

02:53:54.000 Okay.

02:53:55.000 When's the last time you apologized to the guy that you're with now?

02:53:59.000 I'm not with nobody.

02:54:01.000 Oh yeah, she's single. 0.99

02:54:02.000 It's a situationship.

02:54:05.000 Do you think the reason why it's still a situationship is because you don't apologize?

02:54:11.000 No, I do apologize.

02:54:13.000 But I don't say I'm sorry.

02:54:16.000 When's the last time you said...

02:54:17.000 It's been like...

02:54:20.000 Like, three weeks? 0.98

02:54:24.000 Because I don't have shit I'm sorry for. 1.00

02:54:26.000 Fuck I'm sorry for. 1.00

02:54:30.000 Alright. 1.00

02:54:31.000 Bruh.

02:54:32.000 Bruh.

02:54:34.000 That answers everything you need to know, right?

02:54:36.000 I think that, uh...

02:54:38.000 Yeah.

02:54:39.000 I hate y'all here. 0.99

02:54:41.000 I hate y'all. 0.97

02:54:43.000 I'll give you one tip, honestly.

02:54:45.000 If you want that guy to be serious and take you seriously, you need to change your behavior, man.

02:54:49.000 Y'all don't know my behavior.

02:54:51.000 Y'all only know what y'all seeing on this screen.

02:54:54.000 Yeah, I know.

02:54:56.000 How a woman behaves in public around people she doesn't know, on the first impression, tells you a lot about the woman's character.

02:55:03.000 Okay, bet.

02:55:04.000 So, what I'm saying is that you're saying that he's being a little fidgety, it's a situation ship, he's not wanting to commit.

02:55:11.000 I'm willing to bet some of your practices and behaviors is what has him hesitant to commit.

02:55:16.000 So, I mean, you can take that advice or not.

02:55:18.000 I've already been in a relationship.

02:55:21.000 For sex only? 0.88

02:55:24.000 Yeah, for sex only. 0.99

02:55:26.000 Everything's for sex only on Fresh and Fit, you guys. 1.00

02:55:29.000 Everything's for sex only. 0.99

02:55:30.000 Sex only purposes. 0.78

02:55:34.000 What was that, Mo?

02:55:36.000 Go ahead, Mo.

02:55:37.000 She's not going to listen.

02:55:38.000 No, I don't.

02:55:40.000 It's fine.

02:55:40.000 Well, if you want the guy to take you seriously, I think you have to change.

02:55:43.000 Okay.

02:55:44.000 No offense, but yeah.

02:55:47.000 My faith.

02:55:48.000 Yeah.

02:55:48.000 Okay.

02:55:49.000 What about you?

02:55:49.000 I know, Myron.

02:55:50.000 I know.

02:55:52.000 Honestly, it was like a little bit ago, probably the last person I talked to.

02:55:57.000 I apologize because I acted a certain way that I felt like it was very rational.

02:56:03.000 And I was like, yeah, like, I could have handled that situation a little bit better as opposed to doing what I did.

02:56:11.000 So...

02:56:11.000 Okay.

02:56:12.000 Did you, like, break up with you because of it?

02:56:15.000 Well, we wasn't really together.

02:56:17.000 Like, we were just talking, but...

02:56:19.000 Do you think it put a strain on the relationship?

02:56:21.000 Um, not really.

02:56:23.000 Well, I guess you could say it did because he was just like, yeah, like, I didn't like how you reacted, da-da-da, but we both communicated how we felt about the situation and made our comments and whatever, how he felt and how I felt, as opposed to just keeping it to ourselves.

02:56:39.000 How long ago was that?

02:56:42.000 Um, like a month ago or two.

02:56:44.000 Alright.

02:56:45.000 Uh, what about you when the last time you apologized to a guy?

02:56:48.000 Probably yesterday.

02:56:50.000 I don't know.

02:56:51.000 Okay.

02:56:52.000 Okay.

02:56:54.000 What about you?

02:56:55.000 For me, it was yesterday because... 1.00

02:56:57.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

02:56:58.000 What'd you do? 1.00

02:57:00.000 It was really me going off my emotions, honestly, and I had to realize and do some thinking, you know, as to how I would feel if I said the same thing.

02:57:13.000 Well, if he said the same thing to me, you know, and yeah, I had to apologize.

02:57:22.000 Okay.

02:57:26.000 What about you?

02:57:27.000 Today.

02:57:28.000 Why do you want to go another one?

02:57:42.000 Can we go, Kessel?

02:57:45.000 Okay.

02:57:46.000 So, um, you're next?

02:57:48.000 Yeah, she's next.

02:57:50.000 Last time you apologized?

02:57:51.000 Today.

02:57:53.000 To who?

02:57:54.000 To a stranger.

02:57:55.000 I bumped into him accidentally.

02:57:58.000 Okay.

02:57:59.000 When was the last time you apologized, like, a significant other or boyfriend?

02:58:03.000 Oh, that was a long time ago, because I'm not in a relationship for a long time.

02:58:09.000 When was the last time you had a boyfriend?

02:58:12.000 A long time ago.

02:58:14.000 Over a year?

02:58:15.000 I'm not answering exactly what.

02:58:25.000 Did you say you could have a high value mail whenever you wanted earlier?

02:58:27.000 Yeah, but I don't want it now.

02:58:29.000 Who says that I want it now?

02:58:34.000 What was that, Chris?

02:58:35.000 She doesn't choose at all.

02:58:37.000 Many options, right? 0.98

02:58:38.000 No, you don't choose a guy that you want to fucking deal with for the rest of your life. 0.98

02:58:43.000 He chooses you. 0.99

02:58:45.000 Like, who bends down on one knee to propose to you?

02:58:51.000 You or the guy?

02:58:52.000 I'm not looking for anyone, if you're asking that.

02:58:54.000 Yeah, because you don't choose...

02:58:57.000 I don't want to.

02:58:58.000 I'm not into dating.

02:59:00.000 Because you don't choose.

02:59:01.000 I'm not into dating.

02:59:02.000 Basically what he's trying to say is it's the man that chooses who they want to be with.

02:59:06.000 Great.

02:59:06.000 Alright, good.

02:59:07.000 Perfect.

02:59:07.000 I mean, okay, so what are you doing here in Miami then?

02:59:10.000 Wait, sorry.

02:59:11.000 We have a Frank Castle.

02:59:14.000 Okay, she's leaving.

02:59:15.000 Yeah, okay. 1.00

02:59:16.000 Yeah, because apparently niggas ain't shit. 1.00

02:59:21.000 What? 1.00

02:59:22.000 Yeah, her braids aren't tight, man.

02:59:26.000 Don't do my girl.

02:59:27.000 Hey, hey, hey, she wanted to smoke. 1.00

02:59:29.000 Alright, oh, I should buy the fuck right now. 0.99

02:59:34.000 Hey, you gonna take that? 0.99

02:59:36.000 Ms.

02:59:37.000 Lawyer, you gonna take that list, Ms.

02:59:38.000 Lawyer? 1.00

02:59:38.000 Yo, what the fuck, man? 1.00

02:59:40.000 Is she driving? 1.00

02:59:42.000 Yo.

02:59:43.000 Oh, man.

02:59:44.000 Just call Uber.

02:59:45.000 We got it, man.

02:59:47.000 It's fine, man. 1.00

02:59:47.000 Fuck it. 1.00

02:59:48.000 It's fine. 1.00

02:59:49.000 Yo, let's call Uber, man.

02:59:50.000 Yo, she shouldn't drive. 1.00

02:59:52.000 I don't know how tipsy she is.

02:59:53.000 Just get around here, man.

02:59:53.000 Yeah, please.

02:59:54.000 Just get this quick and get around here.

02:59:56.000 No, no.

02:59:57.000 Listen, lawyer, put your shoes on, man.

02:59:59.000 You gotta leave.

03:00:00.000 When you're gonna leave, you gotta leave completely.

03:00:04.000 Just go downstairs, please.

03:00:06.000 That's the rules.

03:00:08.000 You can't sit in the studio when you walk off the set.

03:00:13.000 You gotta leave.

03:00:14.000 Yeah, just leave.

03:00:14.000 Yeah, just kind of rule.

03:00:16.000 That's my guess.

03:00:19.000 We're not gaslighting anything, man.

03:00:21.000 It's a rule.

03:00:22.000 It's a protocol.

03:00:23.000 If you want to walk out and storm out, you've got to leave all the way out, bro.

03:00:28.000 Whatever.

03:00:32.000 Yeah.

03:00:34.000 Haven't been in a relationship for a few years.

03:00:36.000 Okay.

03:00:37.000 I didn't say exactly when.

03:00:41.000 But I've not been in a relationship.

03:00:43.000 For at least a year.

03:00:44.000 For a while, yes.

03:00:45.000 For at least a year.

03:00:46.000 Okay, if not more.

03:00:47.000 So, what about you?

03:00:51.000 Last time, I apologize.

03:00:54.000 Like, almost a year ago.

03:00:58.000 Yeah. 1.00

03:00:59.000 Damn. 1.00

03:01:00.000 What about you? 1.00

03:01:01.000 Okay, so, it was a bit foolish. 0.99

03:01:04.000 Bear with me. 0.73

03:01:05.000 It was yesterday, and I went on a date, and me just graduating high school, I'm used to guys, like, you know, not having too much money, and on the date, he offered to pay, and it was a bit expensive.

03:01:18.000 I was like, I'll go 50-50, and he was like, no worries, and I'm like, are you sure?

03:01:21.000 I'm sorry.

03:01:22.000 It's like a big bill, like, no worries at all.

03:01:24.000 Just, you know, wasn't used to it, so I apologized, but he paid.

03:01:32.000 Last thoughts?

03:01:34.000 Sure, let's do it.

03:01:36.000 We got some more rants, though.

03:01:38.000 Yeah, we do.

03:01:40.000 Okay, fine.

03:01:43.000 Here's a question for the panel.

03:01:44.000 When was the last time you ladies said, I am sorry?

03:01:46.000 I've read that one before.

03:01:48.000 What do you think is the max difference in age a high-value man should date?

03:01:52.000 Leonardo DiCaprio dates young women and he is 48.

03:01:54.000 Do you think that is extreme or the age gap could be higher?

03:01:57.000 I mean, yeah, man.

03:01:58.000 I think you should be dating women under 25 if you can, preferably. 1.00

03:02:03.000 Because once they get older, they kind of get set in their ways and don't want to listen and are feminists and a bunch of bullshit. 1.00

03:02:10.000 The girl next to me sounds like Whitley from the 90s sitcom Different World. 1.00

03:02:14.000 Wow.

03:02:16.000 If the chick has pictures in Dubai on yachts on expensive trips, she's taking more transactions than Bank of America. 0.99

03:02:20.000 Bougie bitches terrify me. 1.00

03:02:21.000 Huge liability. 1.00

03:02:22.000 They want more than length or girth.

03:02:25.000 Fair enough. 0.91

03:02:26.000 Lawyer girl, your eyes look like buttholes. 1.00

03:02:31.000 Those weaves replace the wrinkles in her brain. 0.93

03:02:35.000 Okay.

03:02:38.000 Yujinga, Lithuania girl, they are not saying you are promiscuous.

03:02:41.000 They are saying your Instagram may portray what you are not.

03:02:44.000 Does that make sense?

03:02:46.000 Sure.

03:02:46.000 Yeah, I understand.

03:02:47.000 Okay.

03:02:49.000 Alright!

03:02:50.000 We get last thoughts?

03:02:51.000 Alright, we'll give you ladies the last thoughts. 1.00

03:02:53.000 Go ahead.

03:02:54.000 What are your last thoughts on the show?

03:02:56.000 You just want me to give feedback?

03:02:58.000 Your honest opinion about the show.

03:03:01.000 Just thank you for having me on.

03:03:02.000 It was pretty neat.

03:03:04.000 Thanks for your opinion.

03:03:06.000 You still think we're put on earth to chill?

03:03:08.000 Low key, yeah.

03:03:09.000 I'm chilling right now.

03:03:10.000 I think we're all chilling.

03:03:14.000 Yo! 1.00

03:03:16.000 What?

03:03:16.000 No, no, no.

03:03:17.000 It's just...

03:03:18.000 It's a good attitude.

03:03:19.000 She's relaxed.

03:03:20.000 She's not stressed.

03:03:22.000 Meaning she's not into drama.

03:03:24.000 Yeah, no, no, no, no.

03:03:25.000 At least that is not.

03:03:26.000 It's not about drama.

03:03:27.000 It's just kind of like understanding purpose on earth, why you're here.

03:03:30.000 It's a chill.

03:03:31.000 You make life.

03:03:33.000 You just make it what you want to be.

03:03:35.000 Just manifest it.

03:03:39.000 I think only women can say stuff like that, man. 1.00

03:03:44.000 If you take the things that some of you guys say and have a man say it, it would sound absolutely ridiculous. 0.99

03:03:53.000 I've heard some guys say it like that.

03:03:56.000 They didn't say, yeah, I'm put on, like, I'm just, you know, I'm here to chill.

03:04:00.000 She's 18, man.

03:04:01.000 Come on, man.

03:04:02.000 Yeah, she's 18, bro.

03:04:03.000 Yeah, but like I'm saying, if I asked to do it, why are we put on earth? 0.98

03:04:05.000 And he said to chill, we'll all ridicule him and make fun of him and say he's retarded. 0.92

03:04:09.000 But that's fine. 0.98

03:04:10.000 What about you?

03:04:12.000 Last thoughts?

03:04:14.000 Points?

03:04:15.000 Disagreements?

03:04:15.000 You didn't really say much on the show.

03:04:16.000 Yeah, honestly, I was just listening.

03:04:20.000 My perspective before coming here, honestly, it changed.

03:04:24.000 Misogony!

03:04:25.000 What was the perspective before?

03:04:27.000 Misogony! 1.00

03:04:31.000 Honestly, I thought you were just gonna be an asshole, you know? 1.00

03:04:36.000 But, like, actually listening and hearing that you were able to defend your side, like, speak, coming from, like, you know, logic and intelligence. 1.00

03:04:44.000 Like, it was, I was able to see your perspective, you know?

03:04:47.000 And, like, I was able to understand and, like, see where you're coming from.

03:04:49.000 And, like, it opened, expanded my mind just listening to everyone and also seeing, like, different perspective and what people say and what people think.

03:04:56.000 It allowed me to learn more, too, like, being here, so.

03:04:59.000 Awesome.

03:05:00.000 Appreciate that.

03:05:01.000 What about you?

03:05:03.000 It's actually funny.

03:05:04.000 I really want to thank you for doing this.

03:05:08.000 For putting my Instagram.

03:05:10.000 Because I know what people say.

03:05:12.000 And they say the same thing in Lithuania.

03:05:14.000 So at least I had a chance.

03:05:15.000 Other people have told you?

03:05:16.000 Yeah.

03:05:17.000 I know what you're saying.

03:05:19.000 Why do you fight me so much on it?

03:05:21.000 If people in Lithuania are listening, because we're pretty conservative.

03:05:25.000 We're pretty conservative.

03:05:25.000 It's not like Miami.

03:05:27.000 It's not the cap.

03:05:28.000 So what I told you isn't anything you haven't heard before.

03:05:31.000 What you said, I've heard worse.

03:05:33.000 I study medicine, so it's very hard for me to have an Instagram like that.

03:05:38.000 I understand completely.

03:05:41.000 And I try to balance it.

03:05:42.000 I try to balance it.

03:05:45.000 It's cool.

03:05:47.000 Let her speak. 0.94

03:05:48.000 So anyone who's listening to me and is in Lithuania, I hope you got my point and understand that Who you may think I am, I had a chance to prove that I'm not.

03:06:02.000 So, yeah, thank you for this podcast.

03:06:04.000 She belongs to the streets! 1.00

03:06:07.000 No, she don't.

03:06:08.000 I don't think you disproved anything to me.

03:06:11.000 I don't want you to prove anything.

03:06:12.000 I just wanted to have a voice over what people were saying.

03:06:17.000 You know?

03:06:18.000 I can hear you.

03:06:20.000 I mean, with all due respect, you kind of confirmed some of the stereotypes.

03:06:25.000 I understand what society may think, but I know who I am, and at least I had something to say about that.

03:06:36.000 Okay.

03:06:37.000 Alright.

03:06:39.000 What about you?

03:06:40.000 Last thoughts?

03:06:42.000 How was the show for you?

03:06:43.000 I actually had a good time.

03:06:48.000 Thank you.

03:06:50.000 Like I said, I love learning, so What was the most important thing you learned?

03:06:57.000 Um...

03:06:57.000 Super Saiyan 1.

03:07:00.000 Honestly, it's really about, um...

03:07:03.000 That's one of the main things.

03:07:07.000 I ain't even gonna cap.

03:07:08.000 You're right.

03:07:10.000 You need to post a picture of you and him and pin it at the top.

03:07:15.000 I mean, I have a reel, but it's not on my grid, so I took it off because after the incident...

03:07:20.000 You should have your wedding photo pinned at the top.

03:07:23.000 Okay, but we don't have our wedding photo.

03:07:26.000 It doesn't matter.

03:07:27.000 You're the woman.

03:07:28.000 I understand that.

03:07:29.000 I mean...

03:07:29.000 Niggas DM you.

03:07:30.000 Girls don't DM you. 1.00

03:07:31.000 Yes, they do.

03:07:32.000 And if they do, it's a smaller amount than you.

03:07:35.000 You might get one for every third of you.

03:07:37.000 No, but here's the thing, though.

03:07:38.000 What's up?

03:07:39.000 Here's what you guys don't understand. 0.97

03:07:40.000 It's women out here that's so freaking conniving and wants, like, it's women out here ready to ruin a relationship and don't even want the men. 1.00

03:07:48.000 Trust me. 0.98

03:07:49.000 But if you go and give them attention, they will sit here and, haha, hey, your man did this and this and this and DM'd me.

03:07:55.000 Like, I've had situations where females be like, okay, you feel me? 1.00

03:07:58.000 Like I said, we've had our female disagreements. 1.00

03:08:01.000 I'll leave that in the past.

03:08:02.000 But who has the ring in the title?

03:08:03.000 I do.

03:08:05.000 But it's still embarrassing.

03:08:06.000 So why are you comparing yourself to peasants?

03:08:07.000 I'm not comparing myself.

03:08:09.000 It's no competition regardless, but it's still embarrassing.

03:08:14.000 It's embarrassing when I have a wife and she doesn't have me on her page.

03:08:19.000 Okay, if I, if it's dudes that's DMing me, right?

03:08:23.000 I don't necessarily sleep with them, but if I entertain them, it's still going to be embarrassing for the men, right?

03:08:28.000 100%.

03:08:28.000 Okay, so why, when y'all sleep with females, why is it not, why can't it be embarrassing for us?

03:08:34.000 Because men and women aren't the same. 0.98

03:08:35.000 It does not matter.

03:08:36.000 Like we said, it's still logical thinking.

03:08:40.000 Y'all want someone to be loyal.

03:08:42.000 It's the opposite of logical thinking right now.

03:08:44.000 No, it's really not.

03:08:45.000 Men and women are not the same, so therefore the standards are not the same across all boards, whether it's cheating, infidelity.

03:08:49.000 But it depends on the relationship and the people that's in it.

03:08:52.000 You know what I hear?

03:08:53.000 Copacabana.

03:08:54.000 Copacabana.

03:08:56.000 No.

03:08:57.000 I'm willing to like...

03:08:58.000 Your man loves you.

03:08:59.000 I compromise for my man.

03:09:00.000 Whatever my man wants, I compromise for him.

03:09:02.000 Okay.

03:09:02.000 But I'm not in a relationship with you guys, so whatever you guys want or expect from a female is not the same for my man.

03:09:09.000 Alright.

03:09:09.000 He tells me what he wants.

03:09:13.000 I'm married.

03:09:14.000 I'm still married.

03:09:15.000 Soon a divorce comes in.

03:09:18.000 No, it's not.

03:09:20.000 You can't speak for my relationship.

03:09:22.000 Are you married?

03:09:23.000 Are you married?

03:09:25.000 That's the thing.

03:09:26.000 Thank God.

03:09:28.000 Are you married?

03:09:29.000 The majority of the divorces are, you know...

03:09:33.000 But guess what?

03:09:34.000 He vocalizes what he wants.

03:09:36.000 And guess what?

03:09:37.000 I work with him.

03:09:38.000 Guess what?

03:09:39.000 For now.

03:09:39.000 No, it's not just for now.

03:09:42.000 I've been in a relationship working with him.

03:09:44.000 And despite his mess-ups and everything, guess what?

03:09:46.000 I've still been there.

03:09:48.000 But you said earlier, the reason why I don't have his photos on my page is because of what...

03:09:55.000 Mess ups in the past, yes.

03:09:57.000 I'm not going to continuously be embarrassed by somebody.

03:10:00.000 Embarrassed?

03:10:01.000 Yes. 0.98

03:10:02.000 If you're sitting here doing shit to me publicly and people know that you have followers, if you're messing with your followers or people that have you on Instagram and they follow me, what you guys don't realize is when you do dirt and people know on social media that you guys are together, unless you have a private relationship. 0.97

03:10:18.000 Okay, so he's doing it out in public then? 0.98

03:10:21.000 If it's done in public, you're going to be publicly embarrassed.

03:10:26.000 Yeah, but you still got the ring in the title.

03:10:28.000 It does not matter.

03:10:30.000 You guys are going off what you think, but females, like you said, think totally different. 1.00

03:10:37.000 Hey, it's what we know, man.

03:10:39.000 Okay, you guys are going by masculine energy.

03:10:42.000 He's coming back to you.

03:10:44.000 He loves you, but this is typical female thought process. 1.00

03:10:51.000 I'm going to put myself in the same line as random bitches that hit him up on Instagram when I'm the one that has the title, the relationship, the marriage. 1.00

03:10:58.000 I was the one that walked down the aisle. 0.96

03:11:00.000 I'm his main girl.

03:11:01.000 He loves me. 1.00

03:11:02.000 But depending on the man, it's the same shit. 1.00

03:11:05.000 What? 1.00

03:11:05.000 No, he loves you. 1.00

03:11:07.000 Y'all be hurt by our actions too.

03:11:10.000 Regardless, if y'all want to admit it or not, it's the same thing.

03:11:13.000 Yeah, but you talking to other dudes is not the same as him talking to other girls.

03:11:17.000 Do I talk to other dudes?

03:11:18.000 I'm saying it's not the same because you're trying to equate it as if I'm not doing this.

03:11:22.000 No, all I'm saying is just how you guys try to make it seem like you guys don't have feelings or more like We're more triggered by our feelings.

03:11:32.000 Yes, that's true.

03:11:33.000 But you guys still have feelings regardless of the fact.

03:11:36.000 And you guys are still going to feel disrespected at the end of the day.

03:11:40.000 So why should we keep putting... 1.00

03:11:43.000 Okay, yes, we tolerate more shit. 1.00

03:11:45.000 But why should we keep... 1.00

03:11:46.000 If we get enough of it, we're going to leave.

03:11:49.000 So why keep doing the same thing to us?

03:11:52.000 I can't hear this thing called coke.

03:11:55.000 Copacabana.

03:11:56.000 Let's go on.

03:11:57.000 Anyways. 1.00

03:11:58.000 Goddamn. 0.99

03:11:59.000 I think I learned something. 0.99

03:12:01.000 Alright.

03:12:02.000 We're done.

03:12:03.000 Go ahead.

03:12:04.000 Okay.

03:12:05.000 Okay.

03:12:06.000 So, overall, I really appreciate, like I've said before, the work that you guys are doing, empowering men and really giving them the tools to be men and, you know, show up as men.

03:12:22.000 So, overall, I'm very grateful.

03:12:24.000 Every time I listen to the podcast or I come here, I also learn from the ladies and also always think about... 0.99

03:12:31.000 Learn what to not do?

03:12:32.000 You know, or maybe...

03:12:34.000 Maybe I see my...

03:12:35.000 It's like a mirror.

03:12:36.000 A mirror.

03:12:38.000 I learned from the ladies as far as seeing my past self or my younger self in a mirror.

03:12:46.000 What's the biggest piece of advice you'd give the girls on the panel that you might see in them and yourself in the past that fucked you up?

03:12:56.000 The fact that sometimes when we...

03:13:02.000 Oh god, this is going to sound bad.

03:13:04.000 No, give it to them raw.

03:13:05.000 Go ahead.

03:13:06.000 Just say it.

03:13:07.000 I think more women need to hear the truth from other women, bro.

03:13:09.000 Y'all constantly lie to each other, which is why women are operating in darkness when they deal with men a lot of time. 1.00

03:13:14.000 Darkness!

03:13:17.000 I really think that as women, we need to when we are be realistic about really what we're bringing to the table because I think that you Don't make it harder than it already is to make this statement.

03:13:33.000 We all think that, you know, we're high value women. 0.90

03:13:38.000 This is not, you know, told towards anybody in the table, but we all think that, you know, we're the queens, the prize, the high value and the this, the that.

03:13:49.000 But the reality is that, and I probably realized this the last time I was here, A lot of us just say this because it's what we know.

03:13:57.000 It's what's been put into us to know for our self-worth and our confidence.

03:14:02.000 But sometimes we really need to look into ourselves introspectively, into really who we are, what we're bringing, and what we're really representing or bringing to our relationship as women.

03:14:12.000 Because sometimes we think it's better than what we're actually bringing, if that makes sense.

03:14:17.000 Are you going to take that from her?

03:14:18.000 I just said that it's not directed towards anyone.

03:14:24.000 It's not directed towards anyone.

03:14:26.000 She just said it's not directed.

03:14:27.000 I literally said that before because I saw that.

03:14:31.000 Like I said.

03:14:36.000 Yeah, I would take that.

03:14:37.000 Alright, next.

03:14:39.000 Jesus.

03:14:40.000 Why would you do that?

03:14:43.000 You're instigating right now.

03:14:45.000 That was already so hard to say.

03:14:49.000 I would never.

03:14:49.000 Not him trying to instigate.

03:14:52.000 Hey, y'all. 1.00

03:14:55.000 Man, you would say shit all day. 1.00

03:14:57.000 Goddamn, but you was here? 1.00

03:15:00.000 Can't wait to? 0.99

03:15:01.000 Go ahead.

03:15:02.000 Honestly, I'm more of a listening person, but I enjoy listening to everybody's insight and opinion as opposed to just keeping it within my friend group and my friend's opinion.

03:15:14.000 Because, you know, your friend's always going to tell you what you want to hear.

03:15:17.000 So it was nice to surround myself.

03:15:19.000 Wait, are you saying that women aren't honest with each other? 0.66

03:15:21.000 What?

03:15:22.000 No, she said her friends.

03:15:23.000 No, I'm saying that like...

03:15:25.000 Which are women. 1.00

03:15:27.000 I mean, that's not all women though.

03:15:30.000 But most women are... 1.00

03:15:32.000 Let me just shut up. 0.99

03:15:34.000 Thank God. 1.00

03:15:36.000 I'm just saying like, when it comes to a relationship, nine times out of ten, even if you're dead wrong in the situation, your friend's gonna be like, you know, F that nigga. 1.00

03:15:46.000 Like, you don't need him. 0.98

03:15:48.000 So it's just like...

03:15:51.000 Surrounding yourself by people who...

03:15:52.000 I never met y'all.

03:15:53.000 I don't know you from Canada Pate.

03:15:55.000 I just saw the podcast a couple of hours ago, honestly.

03:15:58.000 Hours?

03:15:58.000 So it's just kind of like...

03:16:00.000 You feel me?

03:16:01.000 You don't really know how other people think unless you surround yourself by different perspectives.

03:16:07.000 Yeah, that's true.

03:16:07.000 That's a good point.

03:16:08.000 I agree with her.

03:16:09.000 Yeah, she has a valid point.

03:16:10.000 And she's Haitian. 0.73

03:16:11.000 Alright.

03:16:11.000 Okay, what does that have to do with anything?

03:16:14.000 How's that right?

03:16:15.000 Kudos to all patients.

03:16:17.000 What does that have to do with anything?

03:16:21.000 She's right.

03:16:22.000 Well, anyway, guys, that concludes this episode of Fresh Fit After Hours, man.

03:16:26.000 We went a little over time, but, you know, we had a good panel here, so even though I lost some hair follicles.

03:16:32.000 One more chat?

03:16:35.000 Alright.

03:16:36.000 I hope you guys enjoyed the show, bro, because that was painful in some points.

03:16:38.000 It was very painful.

03:16:39.000 I can tell you that Blonde is never challenged on her point of views for men, and I can also tell she rarely hears the words, no, definitely walks over a lot of guys that be simping. 1.00

03:16:47.000 Is he correct in his assessment that guys don't really challenge you?

03:16:51.000 Absolutely not.

03:16:52.000 There you go.

03:16:55.000 Maybe she's just strong in her mind.

03:16:58.000 I think he's correct.

03:17:00.000 I think he's correct too, bro.

03:17:03.000 I mean, your responses are very indicative of your experiences.

03:17:10.000 Can't look at things from outside your own perspective.

03:17:13.000 I don't agree with that.

03:17:15.000 And then after I ask you, oh, no way, people have told me this in Lithuania, but I'm going to defend.

03:17:19.000 Like, it's like, oh, come on.

03:17:20.000 Why would I live by society's rules?

03:17:34.000 I ran, I ran so far away.

03:17:39.000 I just ran, I ran so far away.

Fresh & Fit - August 10, 2023

Fake Lawyer Walks Off Pod After Being EXPOSED!

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