Fresh & Fit - Feminist Calls Us M1s0gynists & HEATED Debate Ensues!

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00:00:40.000 Ryan, we are back.

00:00:53.000 What's up, guys?

00:00:54.000 Welcome to the Freshier Podcast, After Hours edition.

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00:02:06.000 All right, and check me out, guys, on FedReacts.

00:02:09.000 You guys know I break down criminal cases.

00:02:11.000 I am going to be covering the Trump-Georgia-RICO indictment tomorrow.

00:02:15.000 I'm going to actually live stream at 7 p.m.

00:02:16.000 I'm going to give you guys probably the most thorough breakdown on that RICO case.

00:02:20.000 You guys know I used to do RICO cases when I was on the job.

00:02:22.000 So I'm going to go ahead and cover...

00:02:24.000 They actually indicted...

00:02:24.000 Very ironic.

00:02:26.000 They indicted Rudy Giuliani, who actually was one of the first prosecutors to successfully indict RICO against the mafia.

00:02:32.000 That's insane.

00:02:33.000 How the tables have turned.

00:02:35.000 Forget about it.

00:02:36.000 Yeah, seriously, bro.

00:02:36.000 Real talk.

00:02:37.000 He went ahead and put them in jail.

00:02:39.000 Now they're putting him in jail. 1.00

00:02:40.000 Fuck crazy. 0.99

00:02:41.000 But anyway, guys, I'm going to cover that tomorrow at 7 p.m. 0.96

00:02:43.000 So if you guys want the most thorough breakdown on that case, I'm going to go ahead and give it to y'all tomorrow.

00:02:46.000 Live pause.

00:02:47.000 Is he guilty?

00:02:47.000 I'm Trump.

00:02:48.000 Rudy Giuliani?

00:02:49.000 No, but he got indicted with Trump. 1.00

00:02:51.000 Damn. 1.00

00:02:51.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:02:52.000 So this is his fourth indictment, guys, in the past years.

00:02:55.000 You guys know New York State indicted him for the stupid business record stuff, the classified documents case, the January 6th interference, election interference, and now the state of Georgia hit him and I think like 18 other defendants with a RICO conspiracy. 0.99

00:03:10.000 Damn, bro. 1.00

00:03:11.000 Yeah, it's bullshit, man. 1.00

00:03:12.000 You know, we fought with Trump over here on this side of the internet, so it's a bunch of bullshit. 1.00

00:03:17.000 Oh yeah, my bad. 0.99

00:03:19.000 I got wrapped up in the political stuff.

00:03:21.000 Guys, go get my book, Why Women Deserve Less, in stores right now on Amazon.

00:03:24.000 Let's go, ladies! 1.00

00:03:25.000 An Amazon bestseller.

00:03:26.000 Yeah!

00:03:27.000 She's like, hell no! 1.00

00:03:29.000 I got a hardcover, softcover, Kindle, Audible, everywhere that you guys like.

00:03:34.000 If you can't read and you're illiterate, don't worry.

00:03:35.000 You can listen to an Audible where I yell at you.

00:03:37.000 And Chris, what about you?

00:03:38.000 Yeah, so, girls.

00:03:40.000 Aaron C. Poxon on IG. Shout out to the girls for coming on to the panel. 1.00

00:03:43.000 We got all new girls, by the way.

00:03:44.000 Hey! 0.99

00:03:45.000 Yes, good job, Chris.

00:03:47.000 Shout out to the team.

00:03:49.000 Chris appreciation.

00:03:51.000 Yeah, facts, right?

00:03:52.000 Anyways, guys, once again, we do not pay anybody to come onto the show, right?

00:04:00.000 Emails, we don't do emails.

00:04:01.000 We don't pay dues, you know, for after hours.

00:04:04.000 So if you're not sure, ladies, let's DM you and R.C. Parks in and let's make it happen. 0.99

00:04:09.000 Yeah, guys, there's been some guys scamming, like sending emails and stuff out.

00:04:13.000 We will never email you guys.

00:04:14.000 If you want to get on the show, you message either Chris, Aaron C. Poxon, or underscore she saw ICTV. Those are pretty much the main people that run that side.

00:04:23.000 So you got to talk to them.

00:04:24.000 And also, we mainly film on Monday, Wednesday, Friday, not Tuesday, Thursday, Saturday.

00:04:28.000 Exactly.

00:04:29.000 So, yeah, man, we're never going to email you to come on the show.

00:04:29.000 Yeah.

00:04:32.000 So that person's a scammer.

00:04:33.000 He's stealing people's Facebook stuff.

00:04:34.000 And we're not even on Facebook like that, so what is it?

00:04:36.000 2010?

00:04:37.000 Like, what the hell's going on here? 1.00

00:04:38.000 Crap on! 1.00

00:04:39.000 But anyway, it is what it is. 0.99

00:04:41.000 Cool, so introduce the lovely ladies. 1.00

00:04:43.000 We don't further ado, ladies, if you don't mind.

00:04:44.000 Give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course...

00:04:49.000 Your body count.

00:04:50.000 And we're going to start right here.

00:04:52.000 Welcome.

00:04:53.000 Hi, I'm Carmen.

00:04:55.000 I'm from Holland.

00:04:56.000 I work as a chef.

00:04:58.000 I study international law, bachelor's level.

00:05:00.000 So, undergrad.

00:05:01.000 How old are you, Carmen?

00:05:03.000 I'm 20.

00:05:04.000 And you said you're from Holland?

00:05:05.000 Yeah.

00:05:06.000 And you're a chef?

00:05:06.000 Okay.

00:05:08.000 Okay.

00:05:08.000 I'm a chef.

00:05:09.000 And you're pursuing your bachelor's degree right now?

00:05:12.000 Yeah.

00:05:12.000 International law.

00:05:13.000 Okay.

00:05:14.000 What's your best dish to make?

00:05:17.000 I really like meat, like different kinds of combining cuisine, so different spices and marinades.

00:05:24.000 What's that called, your best dish?

00:05:26.000 I have some kind of steak.

00:05:28.000 I don't have a name for it.

00:05:29.000 Okay.

00:05:30.000 I have my own culinary side, so I do my own recipes.

00:05:33.000 Did you go to school for that too, or no?

00:05:35.000 No, but I've been working for five years now.

00:05:37.000 Okay.

00:05:38.000 Do you want to be a lawyer, I'm guessing?

00:05:41.000 International law?

00:05:42.000 Or going to diplomacy, maybe.

00:05:45.000 Okay.

00:05:45.000 And then what's your relationship status?

00:05:47.000 Single, married?

00:05:49.000 In a relationship.

00:05:50.000 Okay.

00:05:51.000 How long have I been together?

00:05:53.000 Almost a year now.

00:05:54.000 Okay.

00:05:55.000 Is he from America?

00:05:57.000 No, he actually, he lives in Tunisia.

00:06:00.000 Wow.

00:06:01.000 That was random.

00:06:01.000 Oh, wow.

00:06:03.000 Wait, how'd you set your location to Tunisia?

00:06:10.000 Wait a minute!

00:06:11.000 They have phones out there?

00:06:12.000 Wait a minute!

00:06:13.000 Yeah, it's in North Africa, so...

00:06:18.000 He said his location in Holland?

00:06:20.000 I guess he was looking for a chef or something.

00:06:22.000 They all got no food over there to do so, I'll tell you that!

00:06:24.000 No, I'm just kidding.

00:06:25.000 It's very similar to Sudan.

00:06:28.000 A lot of them speak Arabic, you know, Muslim country, etc.

00:06:30.000 Hey man, BBC game, we went in. 0.95

00:06:35.000 Nigga, okay. 1.00

00:06:36.000 We can't hear you.

00:06:37.000 I'm over here talking on the side, guys.

00:06:38.000 Sorry.

00:06:39.000 Say what you want to say.

00:06:40.000 At the time, you were able to swipe anywhere for free during the pandemic.

00:06:44.000 Okay.

00:06:45.000 He knows.

00:06:46.000 Have y'all met a person yet?

00:06:47.000 No, but he's going to come and visit me.

00:06:50.000 But I met his family, his friends.

00:06:52.000 No.

00:06:52.000 Oh, wow.

00:06:53.000 You are dating yourself right now.

00:06:55.000 Hey, when that meat meets the meat, this is nothing happening right now, okay? 1.00

00:07:01.000 Damn! 0.99

00:07:02.000 That's like that, what's it called? 1.00

00:07:04.000 Catfish?

00:07:04.000 That show on MTV? Man!

00:07:08.000 This man's all family set up, man.

00:07:10.000 He sent some actors to meet you.

00:07:13.000 They're gonna meet you, all right?

00:07:14.000 All right.

00:07:15.000 Fantastic.

00:07:17.000 The wrong accent, Chris. 0.99

00:07:18.000 I think it's actually...

00:07:19.000 All right, what about you?

00:07:21.000 What's your name?

00:07:22.000 My name is Haley.

00:07:23.000 I'm 20 years old.

00:07:24.000 I'm a part-time CAVA tender and I'm a student at FAU. So I live in Boca, but I'm from Orlando.

00:07:31.000 Okay.

00:07:31.000 And then you, what do you do for work again?

00:07:34.000 I'm sorry.

00:07:34.000 I'm a CAVA tender, part-time.

00:07:36.000 CAVA tender?

00:07:37.000 CAVA. Is that CAVA? K-A-V-A. What's a CAVA tender?

00:07:40.000 So CAVA... It's a root from the South Pacific.

00:07:45.000 Basically, it's just it interacts with your GABA receptors the same way that alcohol does, except it doesn't impair your cognitive skills.

00:07:52.000 So it's like a really good replacement for alcohol.

00:07:55.000 So you get let off cava?

00:07:57.000 Yeah.

00:07:58.000 I need some of that.

00:08:05.000 It tastes like dirt.

00:08:07.000 It's like mud water.

00:08:08.000 It's gross.

00:08:09.000 So what's the benefit that you can get the effects of being drunk without Ruining your health?

00:08:17.000 I mean, yeah, it's like good for people who are like alcoholics and don't want to avoid alcohol or if like alcoholism runs in their family.

00:08:24.000 Isn't it like a mushroom type of thing?

00:08:25.000 Is it kratom or something?

00:08:27.000 Well, we do serve kratom as well.

00:08:28.000 Kratom?

00:08:29.000 Yeah.

00:08:29.000 Does it still have like the same negative health situation like alcohol or no?

00:08:33.000 Yeah, similar, but I guess not as bad.

00:08:36.000 Okay.

00:08:36.000 But I mean, at the end of the day, like it's supposed to be a healthier option, but I don't know.

00:08:40.000 It's like a nicotine patch.

00:08:43.000 It's not as bad as the original habit, but it gets you through.

00:08:48.000 What's your highest education level completed?

00:08:50.000 I'm studying right now.

00:08:51.000 I'm a criminal justice major, so high school right now.

00:08:55.000 Do you want to drop where you go to school?

00:08:56.000 It's up to you.

00:08:57.000 Oh yeah, I said it earlier.

00:08:58.000 F-A-U. F-I-U. F-A-U. Oh, okay. 0.97

00:09:02.000 Sorry, I'm writing this down too.

00:09:04.000 And then, relationship status?

00:09:06.000 I'm single.

00:09:07.000 Single?

00:09:07.000 All right.

00:09:09.000 Cool.

00:09:09.000 What about you?

00:09:10.000 I'm Helene.

00:09:12.000 Chris.

00:09:13.000 I mean, she's over 30. 0.99

00:09:13.000 Come on, man. 0.99

00:09:14.000 All right.

00:09:14.000 Sorry.

00:09:15.000 What's your name?

00:09:15.000 I'm Helene.

00:09:16.000 Helene.

00:09:17.000 Yeah.

00:09:17.000 Okay, cool.

00:09:17.000 And Penelope and I were co-founders of Step It Up.

00:09:20.000 It's a weight loss company.

00:09:21.000 Okay.

00:09:22.000 And I'm 47.

00:09:24.000 47?

00:09:24.000 Okay.

00:09:27.000 Yeah.

00:09:27.000 Hey, Matt Mills, man.

00:09:30.000 Well, do you have children?

00:09:34.000 Penelope.

00:09:34.000 Yeah.

00:09:35.000 Okay.

00:09:35.000 That's my girl.

00:09:36.000 So she wouldn't know.

00:09:54.000 I live in Los Angeles.

00:09:59.000 Okay, cool.

00:10:01.000 And then you said that you guys have a fitness business together.

00:10:04.000 It's food, fitness, and mindset.

00:10:05.000 So it's all three.

00:10:06.000 And it's all three because all three are required to create sustainable weight loss and improve health outcomes.

00:10:14.000 And I have a master's degree in nutrition.

00:10:16.000 Nice.

00:10:17.000 Okay.

00:10:17.000 Where'd you get it from?

00:10:18.000 I got it from Clayton and I studied food as medicine internationally.

00:10:22.000 So I speak fluent French and German and Penelope was born in Switzerland.

00:10:26.000 And so we've looked at healing traditions throughout the world.

00:10:31.000 Gotcha.

00:10:31.000 Bonjour.

00:10:32.000 And then where'd you get your undergrad from?

00:10:34.000 My undergrad, I started at Hunter in New York City.

00:10:38.000 Okay.

00:10:38.000 Yeah, and both at Clayton.

00:10:40.000 What degree did you get in Hunter?

00:10:42.000 I started a marketing degree.

00:10:44.000 Okay.

00:10:46.000 And then relationship status?

00:10:47.000 I'm in a long-term committed relationship.

00:10:50.000 Nice.

00:10:50.000 Is it with the father?

00:10:53.000 No, we're divorced.

00:10:54.000 My dad and I are divorced.

00:10:55.000 Okay, so divorced, but in a relationship now.

00:10:57.000 How long have you been together?

00:10:58.000 Four years.

00:10:59.000 Nice.

00:11:00.000 Okay.

00:11:01.000 What about you?

00:11:05.000 Hi, my name is Jen.

00:11:07.000 I have my doctorate in pharmacy and integrative health.

00:11:11.000 Okay.

00:11:12.000 How old are you?

00:11:13.000 I'm 45.

00:11:15.000 Where are you originally from?

00:11:16.000 I'm originally from Chicago.

00:11:17.000 Grew up in California.

00:11:19.000 I live in Miami, currently.

00:11:22.000 I work as an integrative women's health pharmacist.

00:11:26.000 I studied neuroscience at Harvard, so I kind of like to integrate that in with my practice.

00:11:32.000 I also teach yoga, Pilates, and I am doing my postdoctoral fellowship in anti-aging and metabolic medicine right now through the American Academy of Anti-Aging Medicine.

00:11:44.000 So that's kind of what I'm asking.

00:11:45.000 Are you guys friends?

00:11:46.000 No, we're just the two older ones.

00:11:49.000 Hey, Cooper's in the house!

00:11:50.000 Let's go!

00:11:52.000 Yeah.

00:11:53.000 Okay, so I'm trying to write it.

00:11:54.000 Okay, 45 Chicago.

00:11:56.000 You're a pharmacist, but also a yoga instructor.

00:11:59.000 Would it be fair to say that a pharmacist is your primary profession?

00:12:01.000 Yeah.

00:12:02.000 Okay.

00:12:02.000 And then...

00:12:04.000 It sounds to me like you're a PhD candidate, you said?

00:12:06.000 No, I already have three doctorates, but I'm going for, I'm in a fellowship, so I'm going for my board certification in anti-aging metabolic medicine right now.

00:12:15.000 I'm a PhD.

00:12:16.000 And just to be clear, you said, is one of those PhDs in Harvard neuroscience, you said?

00:12:21.000 No, no, no.

00:12:22.000 I studied neuroscience in Harvard, but my doctorates are from University of Florida.

00:12:27.000 Okay.

00:12:28.000 All of them?

00:12:29.000 Yes.

00:12:29.000 Okay.

00:12:30.000 And undergrad too?

00:12:30.000 Yep.

00:12:31.000 Okay.

00:12:32.000 Microbiology undergrad.

00:12:33.000 Okay.

00:12:34.000 And then relationship status?

00:12:36.000 I'm technically, legally married.

00:12:39.000 Okay, married but separated, I would say, right?

00:12:42.000 Probably? 0.99

00:12:42.000 No, you're single, nigga. 0.99

00:12:43.000 No, no, no, no. 0.99

00:12:46.000 It's a long story.

00:12:47.000 It's a long story.

00:12:48.000 Married but divorce coming soon.

00:12:50.000 All right.

00:12:51.000 You're coming to a team near you.

00:12:53.000 Complicated.

00:12:54.000 Okay.

00:12:55.000 Complicated.

00:12:55.000 Let me write that down here, too, in my notes.

00:12:57.000 All right.

00:12:58.000 What about you?

00:12:59.000 Hi, my name is Penelope.

00:13:01.000 I am 18.

00:13:03.000 I am a co-founder with my mom for Step It Up, our weight loss program.

00:13:08.000 You were born in Switzerland, right?

00:13:10.000 I was born in Switzerland, yes.

00:13:11.000 Where'd you go to school?

00:13:12.000 All around the world.

00:13:14.000 No, I went to school in Maryland, Florida, California.

00:13:18.000 Okay, if you had to pick, because you're young, if you had to pick a home state, which one would you, or a home city, where would you consider it?

00:13:23.000 Oh, that's so hard.

00:13:24.000 Maybe Maryland.

00:13:25.000 Okay.

00:13:25.000 What part of Maryland?

00:13:26.000 Baldwin is where I lived.

00:13:28.000 Northern Baltimore.

00:13:31.000 Alright, and then I guess you work with your mom.

00:13:36.000 And then what's your 18?

00:13:39.000 High school, right?

00:13:39.000 High school diploma, not going to college.

00:13:42.000 Smart move.

00:13:43.000 Smart.

00:13:43.000 It's a waste of money a lot of times.

00:13:45.000 And then what's your relationship status?

00:13:48.000 I'm in a monogamous long-term relationship.

00:13:51.000 Okay!

00:13:52.000 High school sweethearts, I'm guessing?

00:13:54.000 Uh, no.

00:13:55.000 No.

00:13:56.000 No.

00:13:57.000 How long have you been together?

00:13:58.000 Almost eight months now.

00:14:00.000 Okay.

00:14:00.000 How'd you guys meet?

00:14:01.000 We met at a leadership retreat in Las Vegas.

00:14:04.000 Wow.

00:14:05.000 That's cool.

00:14:05.000 In Las Vegas?

00:14:06.000 Yeah.

00:14:07.000 Okay.

00:14:07.000 All right.

00:14:07.000 I'm assuming he's older than you?

00:14:09.000 Yeah.

00:14:09.000 Okay.

00:14:10.000 All right.

00:14:10.000 What about you?

00:14:12.000 Me?

00:14:12.000 Yes.

00:14:13.000 My name is Leandra.

00:14:14.000 I'm 23 years old.

00:14:16.000 I'm from Queens, New York, but I live in California.

00:14:19.000 New York!

00:14:21.000 She's from New York.

00:14:24.000 Okay.

00:14:25.000 And then what's your highest education?

00:14:27.000 Sorry, what do you do for it?

00:14:28.000 I'm an actress and a model and I have my own fashion line.

00:14:32.000 It's called Single Till I'm Rich.

00:14:33.000 Okay.

00:14:35.000 Wait, wait, wait.

00:14:36.000 It's called Single Till You're Rich?

00:14:37.000 Yeah.

00:14:39.000 Why is that funny?

00:14:40.000 No, no, no.

00:14:42.000 Until you become rich or until you find a rich guy?

00:14:44.000 Single till I'm rich.

00:14:45.000 Well, you can find a rich guy then.

00:14:47.000 Yeah.

00:14:48.000 Well, I want to be rich myself.

00:14:49.000 Go queen. 0.99

00:14:50.000 You got that.

00:14:50.000 She's an independent, man.

00:14:51.000 Come on.

00:14:52.000 Because there's many ways for women to acquire wealth, and one of them is through a male. 1.00

00:14:57.000 Let's be honest here.

00:14:58.000 Most women, female millionaires... 1.00

00:15:00.000 Divorce.

00:15:00.000 Get it through divorce.

00:15:02.000 Okay, what about...

00:15:03.000 Okay, so fashion line, actress model, highest education level completed?

00:15:08.000 I went up to my senior year in college and then I dropped out, actually, probably right before.

00:15:16.000 I had 30 credits left and then I dropped out because I was at Buffalo State College as a party school.

00:15:22.000 But then COVID started and then it was just really hard to continue and my life just got really lit. 0.99

00:15:31.000 So I was like, fuck school. 0.99

00:15:34.000 Alright, fair enough. 0.99

00:15:35.000 What did you major in when you were there?

00:15:37.000 Theater.

00:15:38.000 Are you in any major roles?

00:15:42.000 I've just done background for now.

00:15:45.000 On the way, on the way.

00:15:47.000 And then relationship status?

00:15:49.000 Independent boss, babe, man.

00:15:54.000 Theater school, college, party school.

00:15:56.000 Alright, what's your body count? 1.00

00:15:58.000 God damn! 1.00

00:16:00.000 Whatever you want it to be. 1.00

00:16:02.000 She's sassy with it too. 0.79

00:16:03.000 Okay, Chris.

00:16:05.000 She judoed that one. 1.00

00:16:08.000 What about you?

00:16:10.000 Hello, my name is Katerina, but you guys can call me Kate.

00:16:13.000 I'm from Europe.

00:16:14.000 I'm half Italian.

00:16:16.000 How old are you?

00:16:16.000 I'm 20.

00:16:17.000 20?

00:16:18.000 Okay, where in Europe are you from?

00:16:19.000 In Europe, so I was born in Italy, Venice, but my mom is Estonian, like next to Russia. 0.95

00:16:25.000 So I lived there for a long time as well.

00:16:27.000 And I moved to, I live in California now.

00:16:29.000 I moved to California two years ago, and I'm studying in college there in San Diego State University.

00:16:34.000 Would it be fair to say you're like ethnically Estonian or Russian, but you, I guess your nationality would be Italy?

00:16:41.000 I have both nationalities, but I would say...

00:16:45.000 What passport do you carry?

00:16:46.000 Estonian and Italian.

00:16:48.000 But your family's roots are Estonia?

00:16:52.000 Yeah, so my mom's side is in Estonia.

00:16:55.000 Your dad's Italian?

00:16:57.000 And then what do you do for work?

00:17:02.000 So, I'm working right now at a student financial center at the STSU. I'm an international student, so I kind of have to work on campus, but yeah, I go to college there.

00:17:10.000 I'm studying marketing.

00:17:12.000 She's the person denying your FAFSA. That's fact.

00:17:17.000 That is me.

00:17:19.000 She's the one denying y'all.

00:17:22.000 Okay.

00:17:22.000 So, okay.

00:17:23.000 Student financial aid department.

00:17:24.000 Okay.

00:17:25.000 And then you said you're in school right now, right?

00:17:27.000 Pursuing your bachelor's probably?

00:17:28.000 Yeah, doing my bachelor.

00:17:30.000 Marketing, but I want to go to law school after.

00:17:33.000 Okay.

00:17:33.000 Do you want to drop where you go to school?

00:17:35.000 Up to you.

00:17:36.000 Yeah, I go to San Diego State University.

00:17:39.000 Okay.

00:17:41.000 Alright, and then relationship status?

00:17:42.000 I'm in a relationship.

00:17:44.000 My boyfriend lives in California as well.

00:17:46.000 Yeah, we met through Instagram.

00:17:48.000 And I think we've been together for eight months, also something around that.

00:17:52.000 Does he go to school with you?

00:17:53.000 So he went, yeah, he goes to, it's also in San Diego, but it's in Point Loma.

00:17:58.000 It's like Point Loma University.

00:18:00.000 Okay.

00:18:00.000 And since you got your Estonian and Italian, I'm assuming you're here on an F1 visa?

00:18:05.000 Yeah, that's correct.

00:18:06.000 Okay.

00:18:06.000 All right.

00:18:07.000 What about you?

00:18:08.000 Okay, hi.

00:18:09.000 My name is Maria, but everybody knows me as Zabella Safed on social media.

00:18:13.000 Okay, how old are you?

00:18:15.000 I'm 20.

00:18:16.000 Okay, where are you from?

00:18:17.000 I'm from Venezuela.

00:18:18.000 Okay.

00:18:19.000 Yeah, I was born in...

00:18:20.000 What part of Venezuela?

00:18:21.000 Caracas.

00:18:22.000 Okay.

00:18:22.000 Yeah.

00:18:23.000 Wait, is that Chama? 0.97

00:18:25.000 Chama, oh yeah.

00:18:26.000 Chama, yeah. 0.98

00:18:26.000 Okay. 0.98

00:18:28.000 What do you do for work?

00:18:30.000 Right now I'm working as a customer service in a furniture store.

00:18:33.000 Okay.

00:18:34.000 Just chilling there.

00:18:35.000 What's that like? 1.00

00:18:36.000 Yo, this couch sucks. 0.99

00:18:37.000 Like... 0.99

00:18:38.000 Yeah, I have people calling me like, after five years, yo, my bed broke.

00:18:41.000 I'm like, I mean...

00:18:42.000 Warranty?

00:18:43.000 No, there's no warranty.

00:18:45.000 Okay, fair enough.

00:18:47.000 They'd get out of business, I guess, if they did that, right?

00:18:49.000 Like, oh yeah, warranty on the bed.

00:18:51.000 People would just go crazy.

00:18:52.000 All right.

00:18:53.000 Customer service, furniture store.

00:18:55.000 Okay, and then how is your case level completed?

00:18:57.000 I'm right now, I'm a college student.

00:19:00.000 I'm studying business.

00:19:01.000 Okay.

00:19:02.000 You're pursuing your BA business.

00:19:06.000 Do you want to drop where you go to school?

00:19:08.000 I mean if my life gets better like on social media or if I find something like besides college, I would love to drop out.

00:19:14.000 No, no, no, no.

00:19:15.000 Do you want to say where you go to school is what I'm saying?

00:19:18.000 Yeah, Miami Dade College.

00:19:20.000 And that's a nice shirt you have on by the way.

00:19:23.000 Thank you.

00:19:24.000 It's a real problem.

00:19:26.000 And then relationship status?

00:19:28.000 I'm single.

00:19:30.000 All right.

00:19:32.000 And last but not least.

00:19:34.000 All right.

00:19:34.000 My name is Elanice.

00:19:36.000 I'm 19.

00:19:36.000 I'm also a student at FAU and I'm currently studying linguistics.

00:19:41.000 What's your name?

00:19:42.000 Elanice?

00:19:43.000 I also go by E. Yeah, E. That's way easier.

00:19:43.000 Elanice.

00:19:46.000 Come on, man.

00:19:46.000 No worries.

00:19:47.000 Okay.

00:19:48.000 Where are you originally from?

00:19:49.000 I went to high school in Jacksonville, but I currently live in Orlando, like Lake Mary area.

00:19:53.000 Okay.

00:19:55.000 And you said you do what for work one more time?

00:19:58.000 So I actually work at Prest.

00:20:01.000 It's normally like a company like New York, Boston, California.

00:20:03.000 It's like a juicery, like a fresh fruit juicery.

00:20:07.000 But I also work as an orientation leader at my university.

00:20:10.000 Okay.

00:20:10.000 Do you live in Jackson?

00:20:11.000 You said you live in Orlando, right?

00:20:12.000 Yeah, I live in Orlando.

00:20:13.000 Okay.

00:20:14.000 And then highest education level completed?

00:20:16.000 I'm currently a student studying linguistics.

00:20:19.000 Okay, so you're actually pursuing a BA in linguistics.

00:20:21.000 Yes.

00:20:22.000 What language?

00:20:23.000 Currently, I think Arabic or Farsi.

00:20:26.000 I haven't really decided yet as my minor.

00:20:28.000 Are you trying to get into military or some type of government work?

00:20:31.000 I am.

00:20:31.000 I'm trying to go to the Air Force.

00:20:33.000 Okay.

00:20:35.000 What in the Air Force are you trying to do particularly?

00:20:38.000 So I'm trying to decide between either intelligence or a psychological language.

00:20:44.000 So basically interpreting other languages and having to translate on the spot.

00:20:49.000 Okay.

00:20:50.000 Okay.

00:20:51.000 Cool.

00:20:51.000 Then, I mean, yeah, do Intel or do OSI. Okay, and then just keep your record clean and don't smoke weed.

00:20:58.000 Yeah.

00:20:58.000 It's coming from someone that came from that line of work.

00:21:00.000 He would know.

00:21:01.000 And then what's your election status?

00:21:02.000 Single.

00:21:03.000 All right.

00:21:05.000 Cool.

00:21:06.000 And don't make an OnlyFans. 0.99

00:21:07.000 That'll fuck you up. 0.96

00:21:08.000 Getting a clearance. 0.99

00:21:10.000 Yeah.

00:21:11.000 Okay.

00:21:12.000 Okay, and today, guys, is special.

00:21:16.000 So, guys, you don't know this, right?

00:21:18.000 But we started Fresh and Fit two and a half years ago with me, Myron, and my boy, Chris.

00:21:25.000 And today, it's Chris Aaron C. Pogsons.

00:21:31.000 Appreciation Day!

00:21:32.000 And I gotta say, good job, Chris.

00:21:35.000 For all you've done, bro.

00:21:37.000 Chris is that guy who does his work behind the scenes.

00:21:40.000 He goes for the show.

00:21:42.000 And as well, he's the number one producer that's always drunk.

00:21:45.000 But, without further ado, Chris, thank you, brother, for coming on the show.

00:21:49.000 Alright, thank you.

00:21:50.000 Yeah, he's a special guest. 0.98

00:21:52.000 I can't wait for him to fuck up this show. 0.99

00:21:55.000 My mic is so my head's off. 1.00

00:21:59.000 He's deaf. 0.90

00:22:01.000 Alright, so ladies, we're going to open it up.

00:22:02.000 We're going to turn it to y'all if you guys have a question for us.

00:22:07.000 Maybe it might have been a rumor or maybe something you heard about the show or whatever.

00:22:11.000 So I'll open it up to y'all.

00:22:13.000 I'm going to start right here with Miss Farsi, linguist.

00:22:15.000 And then we're going to work our way back around whether, yeah, question, comment, disagreement on something that we've talked about before, etc.

00:22:24.000 I'll turn it to y'all.

00:22:27.000 Um, disagreements, comments, questions, concerns, I'm pretty, like, I'm chill, I'm straight, I'm just here to have a good time, really.

00:22:33.000 What did you hear about the show before you came on?

00:22:35.000 It's okay if it's negative, tell us the truth.

00:22:35.000 Yeah.

00:22:38.000 I mean, like, obviously you hear a bunch of girls talking about, oh, they're misogynistic and it's not a third. 1.00

00:22:42.000 No way!

00:22:43.000 Really?

00:22:45.000 Yeah, I know.

00:22:46.000 Crazy, crazy idea.

00:22:48.000 But, like, me personally, from what I've watched, I can agree with, like, a grand portion of what y'all say to an extent.

00:22:55.000 There are just some times where it gets too heated and I get myself pissed off and I'm just like, okay, we gotta cut it off.

00:23:00.000 Because I know, like, if I'm getting heated in a conversation I'm not in, I got better things.

00:23:06.000 What side frustrates you more, us or the girls?

00:23:09.000 Be honest.

00:23:10.000 You can keep it real.

00:23:11.000 But the girls, I'm not gonna lie.

00:23:11.000 Both.

00:23:16.000 Some of the girls on your show, you dumb as fuck. 1.00

00:23:20.000 You don't say. 1.00

00:23:21.000 She ain't lying though.

00:23:24.000 Can I have some Hennessy and Coke please?

00:23:26.000 If I'm being on the panel.

00:23:30.000 Today's Christmas day.

00:23:32.000 Today's Christmas day.

00:23:33.000 Alright, cool.

00:23:34.000 Fair enough.

00:23:35.000 So the girls piss you off a little bit more than we do.

00:23:38.000 Fair enough.

00:23:38.000 I'll take that.

00:23:39.000 What about you?

00:23:42.000 Javier has had like a fight before in the studio with some random girl like fighting. 0.89

00:23:47.000 I would love to watch that.

00:23:49.000 I don't know.

00:23:50.000 We have actually posted on my G like a couple of days ago.

00:23:52.000 Tell me about it.

00:23:53.000 Yeah.

00:23:54.000 Oh, oh, like you mean like a full on fist fight where they fought back?

00:23:57.000 Yeah.

00:23:58.000 Okay.

00:23:58.000 Never mind.

00:23:59.000 A girl hit me and Chris one time.

00:23:59.000 Yeah.

00:24:01.000 Yeah.

00:24:02.000 We ain't hit her back.

00:24:03.000 I mean, for obvious reasons.

00:24:04.000 I don't want to, but no.

00:24:05.000 You should never hit a girl.

00:24:06.000 Yeah, you should never do it.

00:24:07.000 Never do it.

00:24:08.000 But yeah, we just don't do it.

00:24:10.000 But one time a girl attacked a guest and he full on...

00:24:14.000 I stopped her if you watched the clip back.

00:24:19.000 I had to hold it back because I knew what was going on. 0.99

00:24:21.000 She slapped him or some shit. 1.00

00:24:23.000 She hit him. 1.00

00:24:25.000 She got upset.

00:24:27.000 He believes in equality.

00:24:30.000 He's a true feminist. 0.99

00:24:32.000 He believes in equality.

00:24:33.000 Just kidding.

00:24:34.000 Anything else?

00:24:35.000 No, that's all.

00:24:36.000 I just wanted to know that.

00:24:37.000 Fair enough.

00:24:39.000 For me, so my boyfriend and my brother are big fans of you guys.

00:24:43.000 So I watched a little bit.

00:24:45.000 I heard a little bit.

00:24:45.000 I haven't watched too much, though.

00:24:47.000 I just often see like them scrolling on TikTok or something on your videos.

00:24:50.000 And I mean, it looks crazy, but I don't know.

00:24:53.000 I'm I really love debates and discussing different topics.

00:24:57.000 So I find you guys show really cool and interesting.

00:25:00.000 So I'm excited to see.

00:25:01.000 You can say you hate us.

00:25:03.000 I'm not hating on you.

00:25:04.000 I think I agree with a lot of...

00:25:06.000 You wanted me to hate you guys?

00:25:09.000 Nah, I just...

00:25:09.000 It just makes more sense.

00:25:11.000 I just wanted the girls to be honest.

00:25:12.000 Okay, fair enough.

00:25:13.000 You have a brother and a dad?

00:25:15.000 A boyfriend.

00:25:17.000 You said your boyfriend and who else watches?

00:25:20.000 My brother.

00:25:22.000 Fair enough.

00:25:24.000 Miss actor.

00:25:26.000 I have two questions.

00:25:29.000 The first one is asking for a friend.

00:25:31.000 She wants to know, when you guys ghost women, do you feel remorseful after? 0.96

00:25:37.000 That's actually a damn good question. 0.95

00:25:39.000 Wait, is this a personal experience? 0.95

00:25:41.000 No, that's from my friend Sophia back there.

00:25:51.000 You want to take this first, Fresh?

00:25:54.000 We've never been asked this before. 0.98

00:25:55.000 Chris, you start, nigga. 1.00

00:25:57.000 We need close girls. 1.00

00:26:00.000 Do you feel bad about it, Chris?

00:26:03.000 Um...

00:26:08.000 I got what I wanted.

00:26:09.000 I smash.

00:26:11.000 She had a great time.

00:26:12.000 Why feel bad about it?

00:26:14.000 I mean, she wanted to see me and stuff like that.

00:26:18.000 She did the work.

00:26:20.000 So she had a great time.

00:26:21.000 I always treat girls right, more or less. 0.53

00:26:24.000 And yeah, man, if you date with me, I ghost them. 0.54

00:26:26.000 We smash. 0.86

00:26:28.000 Simple as that. 0.98

00:26:29.000 But if I like them, I hit them back up.

00:26:32.000 Hey, what's up?

00:26:33.000 What's going on?

00:26:34.000 But if she's like, you know what?

00:26:35.000 I'm being a little weird, then I ghost them.

00:26:38.000 Alright.

00:26:39.000 Fair enough.

00:26:39.000 Fresh?

00:26:40.000 Oh, man.

00:26:41.000 Chris, that was a great answer.

00:26:43.000 I would say I don't ghost girls, per se.

00:26:47.000 I just, like, step away.

00:26:50.000 I come back every now and then.

00:26:52.000 So, like, you know, like, when you do, like, a vacation, come back to work.

00:26:57.000 It's like that.

00:26:57.000 You know, I just said, well, for a little bit, come back.

00:26:59.000 Oh, so you want those guys.

00:27:00.000 Gotcha.

00:27:02.000 Don't worry.

00:27:03.000 My dad taught me well.

00:27:04.000 My dad taught me very well.

00:27:05.000 Yo, where is he now?

00:27:06.000 He's gone.

00:27:08.000 My dad's gone.

00:27:09.000 He taught me very well, but he'll come back soon.

00:27:12.000 It's been, like, what, 30 years?

00:27:15.000 31.

00:27:15.000 31 years ago?

00:27:16.000 Okay, never mind.

00:27:16.000 Go on.

00:27:18.000 Wow, okay, this dynamic is hilarious.

00:27:22.000 Like the audience is like, what the hell is going on?

00:27:24.000 Okay, so it depends.

00:27:27.000 In general, no.

00:27:28.000 And the reason why is if I ghost a girl 9 out of 10 times she did something that I didn't appreciate, approve of, or I don't see anything potential with her.

00:27:38.000 And surprisingly, right, it's not if she has sex with me the first time.

00:27:42.000 That's actually not a disqualifier. 0.68

00:27:44.000 One of the biggest disqualifiers is if I find out that, like, she's a hoe, I find out she's annoying, she's rambunctious. 1.00

00:27:50.000 What is a hoe to you? 1.00

00:27:52.000 I see we're getting deep here.

00:27:53.000 Chris, what is a hoe? 1.00

00:27:55.000 I'm looking at one.

00:27:56.000 I'm talking.

00:27:56.000 Oh!

00:28:06.000 Yeah, so if she exemplifies certain characteristics where I don't think I can elevate her to any type of serious status, I'm like, alright.

00:28:20.000 But normally, the girl's really gotta mess up for me to ghost her. 0.77

00:28:23.000 I could put her in the sex-only category where I talk to her to be casual. 0.81

00:28:28.000 But for me to play up ghost her, she had to have messed up.

00:28:31.000 And then as far as a hoe, well, it depends on what role I'm going to put her in. 1.00

00:28:34.000 A girl that's in a casual slot, I'm going to have a little bit more tolerance for her having a promiscuous past than a girl that is what I would consider a main girl. 1.00

00:28:43.000 A main girl is going to have higher requirements than a casual girl. 1.00

00:28:47.000 So that leads into my second question, which is for me.

00:28:52.000 When you're dating a guy that could be seen as, like, you know, a guy that makes more money than you or a guy that can provide more than you can, what can you provide as a female? 0.99

00:29:03.000 You know, because, like, what can you provide to a man that has it all?

00:29:07.000 Hmm. 1.00

00:29:07.000 Because in a man and like your guys' situations, you guys might have a lot of like pussy being thrown at you. 1.00

00:29:12.000 There's BBLs, there's prettier faces, you know? 0.99

00:29:15.000 So like what can a girl do to like secure her spot as the main girl? 1.00

00:29:19.000 That's a good question.

00:29:20.000 Very good question.

00:29:21.000 And I wish more women asked that, dude. 0.99

00:29:22.000 I really do wish more women asked that. 0.98

00:29:25.000 She asked really good questions.

00:29:27.000 Chris, you want to take it first?

00:29:28.000 Special guest of honor?

00:29:29.000 Yeah, I mean, just know what the guy does, man.

00:29:31.000 Know what he likes and just fill in the gaps.

00:29:34.000 Don't be annoying.

00:29:35.000 For example, if he streams, hey, listen, do you need some coffee for your stream?

00:29:39.000 Do you need some tea?

00:29:40.000 What do you need?

00:29:41.000 Do you need to order some products?

00:29:43.000 Just be that Girl who fills in the gap, right? 1.00

00:29:46.000 Some girls, what they like to do is, you know, oh, you stream too much or you do this too much and they want to be... 1.00

00:29:52.000 They complain.

00:29:53.000 They complain a lot. 1.00

00:29:54.000 So, I mean, for the most part, just fill in what he needs because at the end of the day, guys, you know, they fight the world every day and when they come home, then you're like, they're fighting this bitch. 1.00

00:30:03.000 Not you personally, but the girl next to them is like, what the fuck? 0.99

00:30:07.000 You know what I'm saying? 0.99

00:30:07.000 So, at the end of the day, if we already fucked you, then what else can you do to provide that niche? 0.99

00:30:15.000 Yeah, so Chris brought up a very good point. 0.99

00:30:17.000 I think after sex, how do you maintain the guy other than just that?

00:30:20.000 And for the most part, I think girls think, well, you know what? 1.00

00:30:23.000 I gave him pussy, so I'm good to go. 1.00

00:30:24.000 However, like you said earlier, if you have an ounce of care or consideration, what's he doing? 1.00

00:30:30.000 What's his business?

00:30:31.000 What is he about?

00:30:32.000 And if you can actually add value to his life, which means, let's say he has a business, like Chris was saying earlier, you make sure you add in a lot of value to his business, or for example, what he needs, it'll be a headache, it'll be a bother or a nag, then he's like, you know what? 1.00

00:30:44.000 She's cool, it's great times with her, and it's no stress, I have peace, I'm gonna keep her around.

00:30:50.000 So, I would say that goes a long way.

00:30:52.000 And then Myron Gaines.

00:30:57.000 So, the biggest thing is to differentiate yourself from other women. 0.99

00:31:00.000 Most women are what I call interchangeable components to a man's spoke wheel. 1.00

00:31:04.000 Your goal is to become an indispensable spoke in the cog wheel that's irreplaceable by another part.

00:31:09.000 And what I mean by that is, yeah, sure, if you try to put another piece in there, it might work, but it won't work at the same optimality.

00:31:15.000 And I think that's on the woman to come in and have those critical thinking skills and be like, okay... 1.00

00:31:20.000 This guy needs this done.

00:31:22.000 I see gaps here, et cetera, just like Chris was saying.

00:31:24.000 And it's your job to basically figure it out and do it without him telling you.

00:31:29.000 Like, there's something crazy about a girl that can, like, figure out what a problem is and make your life easier so you don't have to think about certain things so that you can go from, like, maybe 90% performance to 93% performance or 95%. 0.98

00:31:41.000 Or if he was already at 100, like a guy that you're talking about that has everything, he's performing at 101 or 102.

00:31:45.000 And when you get to the highest levels, that one or two percentage means a lot.

00:31:49.000 Right?

00:31:50.000 So I think that's where it comes in, where the more successful the guy, the more he has, the harder you have to work to figure out what he doesn't have.

00:31:57.000 And I think if women did that more often, they'd be able to keep men around. 1.00

00:32:02.000 But the problem is that a lot of girls come into a relationship like, okay, what can this guy do for me?

00:32:05.000 And guys will play that game.

00:32:07.000 They'll offer you the world.

00:32:07.000 I'll fly you out, blah, blah, blah.

00:32:09.000 Get what they want.

00:32:10.000 Boom.

00:32:10.000 Rug pull you and just leave.

00:32:13.000 But if you're able to come in, add value, it's like, damn, I can't really operate at optimality without this chick by my side. 0.92

00:32:19.000 That's how you get brought on the trips.

00:32:20.000 That's how you get introduced to his friends.

00:32:22.000 That's how you get put into certain networks, etc. 1.00

00:32:24.000 And another thing, too, you gotta accept that he's gonna fuck other bitches. 1.00

00:32:28.000 That's a dark one that no one wants to accept. 1.00

00:32:30.000 So not only do you have to be an interchangeable piece and irreplaceable, you now have to share him with women that are replaceable. 1.00

00:32:35.000 But why, though?

00:32:37.000 Why?

00:32:37.000 Yeah.

00:32:39.000 Because men don't climb the ladder of success to have sex with one girl.

00:32:43.000 That's just an unfortunate reality.

00:32:45.000 It's very difficult for a man to earn his value, and once he does, the last thing he wants to do is have it to just one girl.

00:32:50.000 But then when you do the same thing, you lose value in his eyes.

00:32:54.000 Yeah, because women's value comes from sexual temperance and preserving their value, not giving it to a bunch of random guys. 1.00

00:33:01.000 That's where women's value comes from. 1.00

00:33:05.000 And here's the thing.

00:33:06.000 I've said it before.

00:33:07.000 It's a sucky double standard, but it's a double standard that actually benefits women more because at least you get the value up front and it's up to you how you choose to spend it. 1.00

00:33:17.000 Men have to get that value down the road and it's not even guaranteed. 0.66

00:33:22.000 So if the guy has to work to earn that value, He's not going to want to have one girl. 0.99

00:33:26.000 Most successful men almost always have multiple women.

00:33:29.000 Maybe they'll have one main chick and a couple mistresses. 1.00

00:33:31.000 Maybe they'll have multiple wives. 1.00

00:33:32.000 But men almost always, when they're successful, have multiple women.

00:33:35.000 So I tell girls, look, it's raining outside.

00:33:37.000 Here's an umbrella.

00:33:38.000 It's up to you if you want to go out with the umbrella and get wet or not.

00:33:42.000 But I'd rather arm women with the facts and let them know that if you want a successful man, nine out of ten times, you're going to have to share him. 0.99

00:33:48.000 So can I ask you a question kind of going off of that?

00:33:51.000 Sure.

00:33:51.000 Is it possible for a guy to say that he loves his girlfriend, this, that, and a third?

00:33:56.000 Y'all been, well, I wouldn't say girlfriend, but let's say like y'all are really connecting and you kind of get to that level of like, oh, I love you.

00:34:03.000 But let's say y'all are ready to really commit to that. 1.00

00:34:06.000 Is it possible for a guy to say, I love you to a girl, but still go and fuck other bitches? 1.00

00:34:10.000 Yes. 1.00

00:34:11.000 A thousand percent.

00:34:12.000 Unfortunately, yes.

00:34:14.000 Yeah, and I know for a lot of women, it's very difficult to fathom because for you guys, your sexuality typically is tied to some type of emotional connection. 0.99

00:34:21.000 Most of the time, some girls can sport fuck, but most women can't. 1.00

00:34:24.000 So for you guys, it's like you can't fathom, like, how can I tell this man I love him and go fuck another guy? 1.00

00:34:29.000 Men are capable of doing that because we can separate... 0.99

00:34:33.000 Sexual desire and lust with emotional connection with one woman.

00:34:36.000 We can absolutely separate it because we're physical.

00:34:39.000 You guys are more emotionally sound.

00:34:41.000 Like, you know, they always say, you know, women fall in love through the ears, men fall in love with their eyes.

00:34:45.000 That's why women wear makeup and men lie. 1.00

00:34:47.000 That's just how it is.

00:34:48.000 So for men, we're very visual. 0.97

00:34:50.000 We can have sex with a girl and literally go back to our girlfriends. 0.71

00:34:52.000 I mean, I'll be honest, I'm in an open relationship. 1.00

00:34:54.000 I appreciate my girl more when I go fuck other bitches. 1.00

00:34:59.000 I genuinely appreciate my main girls way more when I come back to them because I'm like, damn, these other girls are fucking useless. 1.00

00:35:08.000 How many girls do you have? 1.00

00:35:10.000 Confidential classmate.

00:35:13.000 I have a question.

00:35:15.000 Why don't you make her the main one then? 1.00

00:35:18.000 Like, make it official if you appreciate her that much.

00:35:22.000 No, she is the main one. 0.60

00:35:23.000 It is official. 0.99

00:35:24.000 But you said you're already fucking on other girls. 0.99

00:35:27.000 That's what I'm trying to say. 0.99

00:35:28.000 You have man and you have sides and you have, yeah, that's just how it goes.

00:35:31.000 Wait, so if you're in a relationship for like, let's say like you started dating junior year of high school and you're going into your like sophomore, junior year of college, like you together for real, for real. 0.99

00:35:41.000 But your girl is expected to be okay if your oncologist is fucking these bitches in the dorm or doing whatever, and then you go back and like, oh no, but I still love you. 1.00

00:35:51.000 Oh no, I'm not telling you to tolerate this from any guy. 1.00

00:35:53.000 Oh, okay.

00:35:54.000 I was just- Yeah, you gotta tolerate this from a guy that's worth tolerating it from.

00:35:59.000 That's why her specific question was like, how do you deal with a guy that has it all?

00:36:02.000 Well, number one, be an entertainer.

00:36:05.000 Interchangeable part.

00:36:05.000 A non-interchangeable part.

00:36:06.000 You need to be irreplaceable, unlike the other girls who are interchangeable components. 1.00

00:36:10.000 And then you need to accept the fact that he's probably going to want to go ahead and exercise the options that he's worked so hard to attain.

00:36:15.000 Yeah, pretty much.

00:36:15.000 If he's broken, not a leader, if he's just going to be a regular average guy, then obviously you don't want to make that serious because it won't last anyway.

00:36:21.000 But I tell women too, average guy's going to cheat on you as well a lot of the times.

00:36:24.000 Yeah, regardless.

00:36:24.000 Like, men are typically only as faithful as their options.

00:36:29.000 What if your options are better than the main girl? 0.77

00:36:31.000 Let's say your main girl has it all, like everything you're looking for, and she provides everything to the table, like fills in the gaps. 0.94

00:36:39.000 Men don't care about that. 1.00

00:36:39.000 However, but then what if the other girl that you're fucking eats ass, and the other bitch don't eat ass? 1.00

00:36:44.000 You feel me? 1.00

00:36:45.000 You like the side bitch because she eats ass, but the main bitch don't. 1.00

00:36:49.000 That's a stretch, you lady. 1.00

00:36:50.000 That's not a stretch. 1.00

00:36:51.000 Guys like freaky bitches. 1.00

00:36:53.000 So if your side bitch is freakier than the main bitch. 1.00

00:36:55.000 You made a good point. 1.00

00:36:56.000 Guys will cheat with the freaky bitch, but the wife, the quiet bitch. 1.00

00:36:59.000 Right? 1.00

00:36:59.000 Pretty much. 1.00

00:37:00.000 So even though she's like sexually more appealing and more like fun to be around, they'll never take out in public like, oh, this is my girl.

00:37:07.000 So that level of like sexuality and level of like, I guess like lust is great to just have fun with, but never take serious.

00:37:13.000 Wait, question. 1.00

00:37:14.000 Do you eat ass? 1.00

00:37:15.000 No, I would never eat ass. 1.00

00:37:15.000 What? 1.00

00:37:18.000 I know a lot of girls that eat ass, though. 1.00

00:37:22.000 I can't compare to a bitch that eats ass, you feel me? 1.00

00:37:26.000 That's what he likes. 1.00

00:37:28.000 Yeah.

00:37:30.000 Yeah, but I think the biggest thing is to understand that, you know, what a guy commits to versus what a guy finds sexually arousing and what he deals with sexually are two different things.

00:37:37.000 A lot of the times you're better off being on the I'm getting committed to side and the component I'm getting to get on the committed side is having some type of sexual temperance.

00:37:45.000 If a guy can bring you around his family or his friends and not be embarrassed, that's a good sign. 0.97

00:37:48.000 But if you do all this freaky shit in the bedroom and you don't want to bring you around his friends or he doesn't claim you publicly... 0.97

00:37:53.000 Now, I am curious, though, to hear the older women speak on this. 0.98

00:37:57.000 So, from your experience, what do you think?

00:37:59.000 Do you think guys are going to be faithful to you at a higher level, or not really, from your experience?

00:38:03.000 I think it's how you train them.

00:38:05.000 Oh, wait, wait, wait, wait, what?

00:38:06.000 Train them?

00:38:07.000 I mean, I think it's what you tolerate.

00:38:09.000 Misogony.

00:38:11.000 So, you train your men?

00:38:12.000 I mean, I don't train them, but I mean, I'm not going to...

00:38:17.000 I mean, she's older, so she...

00:38:19.000 I am older, yeah.

00:38:20.000 A lot older.

00:38:20.000 In my experience, what you allow proliferates.

00:38:27.000 And, I mean, if you cut off certain behaviors, they stop.

00:38:34.000 So, I guess the question is, what would you say would allow you to say, you know what, alright, I'll look past that.

00:38:41.000 Or is that a non-negotiable?

00:38:43.000 Is sexual fidelity a non-negotiable for you?

00:38:46.000 It's a non-negotiable if that's what the deal is.

00:38:48.000 Like, if we came into the deal, this is the deal. 0.98

00:38:50.000 Like, I'm not fucking around, you're not fucking around, this is the deal. 0.95

00:38:54.000 But then you break the deal, the deal's over. 0.98

00:38:56.000 But if you come into it and say...

00:39:00.000 You're not gonna be the only one.

00:39:02.000 And I agree to that.

00:39:03.000 Well, then, you know, don't get mad at that.

00:39:05.000 Understandable.

00:39:06.000 That's fair.

00:39:07.000 Okay, okay.

00:39:08.000 And I agree with that, right?

00:39:10.000 I do agree that men should be honest enough.

00:39:12.000 I'm not gonna be monogamous.

00:39:14.000 That's how we approach it.

00:39:15.000 But most men are not gonna do that.

00:39:18.000 Like, it's just not gonna happen.

00:39:19.000 Because girls can't handle the truth. 1.00

00:39:20.000 They can't, yeah.

00:39:21.000 But I do agree with what you said about, you know, it gets thrown around a lot, the term high-value men.

00:39:30.000 But I think if you're a high-value woman, if you, you know, let's face it, a man is there to protect and provide.

00:39:36.000 If you don't need the provide, if you can provide for yourself, and I'm not talking about, like, a Gucci bag, Chanel bag.

00:39:42.000 I'm talking about, like, provide me safety, provide me something biologically I need.

00:39:46.000 Yeah.

00:39:47.000 If you can't do those two things, then you're worthless to me. 1.00

00:39:50.000 And so I'm not going to put up with you, like, fucking around. 0.99

00:39:53.000 So, I'll give you my controversial take of what I'm about to say right now, and especially as an educated woman like yourself, you might not like what I'm going to say. 0.98

00:40:01.000 I genuinely don't think there's such a thing as a high-value woman, because all women have value, so therefore it would be kind of ridiculous to say that there's high-value women out there.

00:40:12.000 And what I mean by that is, a woman can only claim she's high-value if she has a high-value man that cosigns her.

00:40:17.000 She can only become high value by taking a high value man's last name. 0.95

00:40:21.000 Because becoming high value is very difficult to attain.

00:40:23.000 And I argue that all women have value. 0.61

00:40:26.000 Not like men.

00:40:27.000 There's a lot of low value men.

00:40:28.000 There's some like mid-level men.

00:40:29.000 And then there's some high value men.

00:40:31.000 But all women to some degree have value. 1.00

00:40:33.000 Because a woman that's average can absolutely bat five levels above her and get a high value man. 1.00

00:40:38.000 But it can't work the other way around.

00:40:40.000 Since those sexual dynamics are so polarized, I don't think there's such thing as a high-value woman unless there's a high-value man cosigning her. 0.99

00:40:48.000 I disagree.

00:40:49.000 Okay, sure.

00:40:50.000 Because some people think that Andrew Tate is a high-value man, but I wouldn't consider him to be a high-value man.

00:40:55.000 So if he was to cosign me as a high-value woman, it would mean nothing to me because I don't see him in that light.

00:41:00.000 Okay.

00:41:01.000 Hurrah!

00:41:02.000 Fair assessment, but this is where I disagree with you.

00:41:06.000 Being high-value doesn't necessarily deal with morality.

00:41:10.000 Does he have status?

00:41:11.000 Does he have respect from peers?

00:41:12.000 Does he have respect?

00:41:13.000 I mean, in this case, he has respect worldwide.

00:41:15.000 He has financial success, right?

00:41:18.000 We can take it a step further.

00:41:19.000 Train martial artist, four-time kickboxing world champion.

00:41:21.000 On paper, he's absolutely high value.

00:41:24.000 Now, and any woman that gets with him is going to acquire the take last name and be high value as a byproduct of it. 1.00

00:41:31.000 So though he might not be your cup of tea, it's pretty irrefutable that he is a high value man.

00:41:38.000 I'm just curious.

00:41:39.000 Because he's high value in the metrics that make a man have value in the world.

00:41:44.000 So a man's value is 1000% determined by the impact that they create in the world. 0.63

00:41:50.000 A man's last name only carries value if he's able to change other people's lives to some degree.

00:41:55.000 That's why people that are lawyers, doctors, celebrities to a degree, etc.

00:41:58.000 They have value and status from their accomplishments and that is where their value comes from.

00:42:03.000 We respect them, etc.

00:42:05.000 So men, we acquire value much differently than women do.

00:42:07.000 We acquire it through status.

00:42:09.000 You guys acquire it through beauty.

00:42:10.000 And then being able to get a man that has status.

00:42:12.000 Now, some women are able to go ahead and get status on their own. 1.00

00:42:15.000 You have three PhDs, if I'm not mistaken, right?

00:42:18.000 Educated, etc.

00:42:20.000 But unfortunately...

00:42:21.000 That's the equivalent to a man being extremely metrosexual, extremely good-looking, but broke.

00:42:26.000 Because even though he's attractive and he's beautiful, that is not a commodity that women seek.

00:42:32.000 Just like a woman that has education, status, and income, that is not a commodity that men generally seek. 0.99

00:42:37.000 No, you're right.

00:42:38.000 Because in Miami, I just moved to Miami.

00:42:40.000 I mean, literally, you can go to any store in the mall.

00:42:43.000 Forever 21, H&M, Zara.

00:42:45.000 The women working at the cash register literally are, like, the most beautiful women you've ever seen in your life. 1.00

00:42:49.000 I'm like, are you, like, a Victoria's Secret, like, Brazilian supermodel?

00:42:52.000 She's high value.

00:42:53.000 She's not educated.

00:42:54.000 Well, she's not high value unless she gets a high value man. 1.00

00:42:56.000 Well, she will, though, looking like that. 0.67

00:42:58.000 Yeah, if she can. 0.99

00:42:59.000 If she can land him and get his last name, because they could get fucked. 0.99

00:43:01.000 But can she get his last name? 0.99

00:43:02.000 Yeah.

00:43:03.000 And here's the thing.

00:43:09.000 Trust me, no.

00:43:24.000 We're good to go.

00:43:43.000 It's gonna be tough.

00:43:44.000 So then how does that add value to the 21-year-old model?

00:43:47.000 Because you said the other guy has to, like, co-sign for her.

00:43:50.000 So if that's who he chooses, but yet she doesn't have, like, no IQ or no education, then how does that make her a high-value woman? 0.85

00:43:57.000 Well, he can make her into his woman and make her the best girlfriend for him. 0.98

00:44:02.000 That's why leadership is so important for men.

00:44:05.000 Like, Donald Trump.

00:44:05.000 Look at it this way.

00:44:07.000 Everyone been know who Donald Trump is.

00:44:09.000 But who...

00:44:11.000 Did we know Mrs. 0.93

00:44:12.000 Trump until this man was president?

00:44:13.000 Like, let's be real.

00:44:15.000 You know what I'm saying?

00:44:16.000 But kind of like...

00:44:17.000 I'll take it a step further.

00:44:18.000 Real quick.

00:44:19.000 Just because you just mentioned a good point. 1.00

00:44:22.000 Monica Lewinsky became famous off of sucking a high-value man's dick. 1.00

00:44:26.000 Think about that for a second. 1.00

00:44:27.000 Think about that for a second.

00:44:29.000 That happened almost 30 years ago.

00:44:31.000 We still know her name to this day.

00:44:33.000 Intern, 18 years old. 1.00

00:44:35.000 She got her status simply from sucking a high-value man's dick. 1.00

00:44:37.000 If that does not prove that women acquire status through men, I don't know what else does. 1.00

00:44:41.000 To add to your point, Kim Kardashian.

00:44:43.000 Ray J. I hate it first.

00:44:45.000 Famous.

00:44:46.000 And real quick, you considered Andrew not high-value.

00:44:49.000 So who would you consider high-value?

00:44:52.000 I like Drake.

00:44:53.000 Wait, wait, wait.

00:45:03.000 So why do you like Drake though?

00:45:05.000 Drake?

00:45:06.000 No, I feel like I relate to his music.

00:45:08.000 So the things that he says, even if he doesn't write it, you know, but I feel like I relate.

00:45:12.000 He's a Scorpio, I'm a Scorpio.

00:45:15.000 Drake?

00:45:16.000 You fuck with him being high value because you like him. 1.00

00:45:21.000 That's a very opinionated statement. 1.00

00:45:23.000 Back to the Andrew Tate thing, this is not shame, keep in mind.

00:45:27.000 Anyone can go anywhere and say, oh yeah, Andrew Tate. 0.99

00:45:30.000 It may be shit, it may be really good, but if I were to go to the streets of Orlando and say, who the fuck is that? 0.99

00:45:37.000 So that's kind of what he's saying, like, high value. 0.99

00:45:39.000 In other words, it doesn't mean people have to like him.

00:45:41.000 It doesn't mean people have to hate him.

00:45:42.000 Like, that's what he's known for. 0.99

00:45:44.000 Whatever he's known for is putting his fucking name out and getting him paid. 0.98

00:45:48.000 Extreme example, and I really hate to say this. 0.99

00:45:50.000 It actually pains me to say this.

00:45:52.000 Jeffrey Epstein on paper is a high value man.

00:45:54.000 Even though he's a deplorable individual, he is a high value man on paper.

00:45:58.000 Because when we're talking about high value, we're not talking about morality.

00:46:02.000 And that's arguable or whatever, but when you look at status, income, even though he got his status through some bullshit, and money, you can argue on paper that he is so like, not to liken Drake or Tate to him, but I'm just showing that as an extreme example of like, high value really doesn't have to do with morality.

00:46:19.000 Because you're going from an opinion standpoint, I don't like Andrew Tate, or I don't consider him a high value man because I might not like his views.

00:46:26.000 But Drake and Tate are both high value.

00:46:28.000 And I would argue Tate has more of a positive impact on the world than Drake does.

00:46:33.000 I mean, Drake hasn't really saved guys from offering themselves or anything like that.

00:46:36.000 If you notice, it's how he makes her feel.

00:46:38.000 So that's what Drake and her values status. 0.94

00:46:41.000 Yeah, but objectively speaking, both Drake and Andrew Tate are high value men, but I would argue that Tate has more impact from a positive standpoint than Drake does.

00:46:49.000 Drake is a musician.

00:46:50.000 Cool.

00:46:50.000 Yeah, okay.

00:46:51.000 Yeah, you got me.

00:46:51.000 I'm in my feelings.

00:46:53.000 But Andrew Tate's keeping guys from killing themselves.

00:46:55.000 Yeah.

00:46:55.000 I like them both.

00:46:56.000 Isn't that morality though?

00:46:58.000 He's doing stuff somewhat moral because you're saying a positive impact.

00:47:02.000 So it is moral in a sense.

00:47:05.000 I mean to a degree but he's creating more impact on the world overall.

00:47:10.000 Yeah, but somebody who has money and donates it and is charitable, right?

00:47:15.000 I would consider that more of a high-value man who just takes all of his money and doesn't, I guess, share it or put it towards anything positive.

00:47:23.000 Yeah, and that's why I said it's arguable.

00:47:24.000 It is debatable.

00:47:25.000 Epstein donated to charities.

00:47:28.000 Unfortunately, he didn't.

00:47:30.000 Even though it was all kind of a scheme to get the money back, he donated to charities.

00:47:33.000 Chris, who would you consider to be a high-value man?

00:47:36.000 I mean, a man who actually creates value into the world, he can raise his family properly and just make sure that his lifestyle is on point.

00:47:46.000 Because at the end of the day, if you're struggling paying bills as a man, then are you really high value?

00:47:49.000 So if you have a family and you're...

00:47:52.000 It depends on what goals you have.

00:47:55.000 If you're actually acquiring those goals and you're happy, making six fakes, able to feed those you care about, Isn't that high value to you?

00:48:05.000 You got some girls, like, for example, some girls go, you know, my high value guy is, he makes six figures a year.

00:48:11.000 And then some girl down on South Beach can say, oh, high value guy is a millionaire, you know?

00:48:16.000 You know what I'm saying?

00:48:17.000 So it all depends on what's going on.

00:48:19.000 But if you're high value, man, you got to be able to take care of your circle.

00:48:23.000 Yeah, and I think a big part of being iValue also is having respect from your peers.

00:48:26.000 That's a big one, right?

00:48:28.000 Do other men want to be you?

00:48:30.000 Do other men respect you?

00:48:31.000 Are your accolades known to others without you having to say it?

00:48:35.000 Does your reputation speak for itself in a positive way to a degree?

00:48:38.000 I'm curious real quick though, would you consider your current guy high value?

00:48:41.000 I would.

00:48:42.000 And it's based on morals and values.

00:48:44.000 We have really aligned morals and values.

00:48:47.000 Where is he now?

00:48:48.000 He's in LA. Okay, doing what?

00:48:51.000 Right now, he's probably...

00:48:52.000 I don't know.

00:48:54.000 Question for you.

00:48:55.000 If that's the premise and you're happy with this, and I think you are, can he cheat?

00:49:01.000 I would hope that he wouldn't.

00:49:03.000 But if he cheated, would you leave?

00:49:05.000 I would strongly consider it.

00:49:07.000 I mean, we'd have to renegotiate our arrangement.

00:49:09.000 I mean, okay.

00:49:11.000 And I think that intimacy is precious, and it's sacred, and I think that... 0.99

00:49:18.000 Oh, he's fucking... 0.98

00:49:19.000 Sorry, it's a daddy and everything, but he's out in LA. That's not her dad, bro. 1.00

00:49:25.000 That's not her dad, bro.

00:49:26.000 Oh! 0.60

00:49:27.000 Her dad was in Paris, yeah.

00:49:33.000 Does that answer what you had before?

00:49:36.000 Yeah, that's it.

00:49:37.000 And Andrew does donate to charity too.

00:49:40.000 He does.

00:49:42.000 Ukraine, other charities as well.

00:49:45.000 Full disclosure, he's a friend of ours, which is why we're a bit biased, but he's a personal friend of ours.

00:49:50.000 Shout out to the Tate brothers. 0.99

00:49:51.000 We all know those charges of bullshit. 0.99

00:49:53.000 Any questions, comments? 0.99

00:49:54.000 Do you want to break it at the very beginning or not really?

00:49:56.000 I don't have any, except for the fact that preaching and showing fitness, it's called Fresh and Fit, right?

00:50:03.000 And people say, oh, it's so terrible. 0.75

00:50:05.000 They hate women. 1.00

00:50:06.000 It's like, oh, that's so stupid. 1.00

00:50:07.000 I mean, they never say that, ever. 1.00

00:50:09.000 I was on another podcast yesterday, and they were like, oh, that show is crazy.

00:50:13.000 And I'm like...

00:50:14.000 Well, does it have to be?

00:50:15.000 Like, don't you control that?

00:50:17.000 You know, I think you control your own emotions.

00:50:18.000 But I love that you guys actually talk about fitness because it's one of the most important things in the world and health is wealth.

00:50:26.000 And, you know, I actually used to be 300 pounds.

00:50:29.000 Wow.

00:50:31.000 I've lost over 100 pounds now.

00:50:33.000 Wow.

00:50:34.000 What are your thoughts?

00:50:35.000 I saw, excuse me, I saw a study like a couple days ago that there's more obese women than obese men.

00:50:41.000 What are your thoughts on that? 0.99

00:50:41.000 Damn. 0.99

00:50:42.000 Oh, it's 100% true. 1.00

00:50:43.000 And I also, did you know that when women get into relationships, they stop trying. 0.99

00:50:47.000 And when they get married, most women actually are the ones who end up gaining weight. 1.00

00:50:52.000 I believe you.

00:50:53.000 When they get married, they just stop trying.

00:50:56.000 What are the reasons for that, in your opinion?

00:50:58.000 Oh, because they're comfortable.

00:51:00.000 Oh, now I've got the money.

00:51:02.000 Now I'm in the contract.

00:51:03.000 He can't leave me and he has to be loyal to me so I can go around eating junk food and not trying.

00:51:10.000 Have they admitted this to you when they come over to...

00:51:12.000 Obviously, I don't want you to name names or anything, but have you heard these confessions when they come to you?

00:51:16.000 Oh my gosh, yes.

00:51:17.000 I have heard these things.

00:51:18.000 I hear them all the time.

00:51:20.000 In school, they would even be like, Penelope, you should keep eating junk food.

00:51:23.000 You're beautiful.

00:51:24.000 I keep eating pizza and ice cream.

00:51:26.000 It's so good for you. 0.97

00:51:27.000 Like, they knew I was disgusting and ugly, yet they still told me to eat ice cream. 0.99

00:51:31.000 You have bad friends. 0.97

00:51:32.000 I'm sorry.

00:51:32.000 You know why?

00:51:33.000 They want you to lose.

00:51:34.000 They want me to lose and they didn't want me to have, like, they wanted to be bisexual.

00:51:37.000 They wanted me to be transgender. 0.92

00:51:39.000 It was crazy. 0.99

00:51:40.000 What the heck?

00:51:41.000 Let me ask you, would it be fair, because this is a controversial point that we've talked about on the podcast, but it'd be good to get your perspective on this. 0.84

00:51:49.000 Would you say that women have a really bad habit of enabling self-sabotaging behavior in their peers? 1.00

00:51:55.000 Yes.

00:51:55.000 And they do a really great job of enabling other women to do terrible things so that they don't get their men.

00:52:03.000 Women sabotage each other so they don't get high-value men. 1.00

00:52:06.000 When I got into a really healthy relationship, that's more on the traditional side, all the women hated me and stopped being friends with me. 0.99

00:52:13.000 They were like, this is terrible for you.

00:52:15.000 Get out of this.

00:52:16.000 This is toxic.

00:52:16.000 And I'm like...

00:52:17.000 I mean, I'm like literally waiting for marriage.

00:52:19.000 So excited about my future.

00:52:20.000 What are some of the terms that they told you?

00:52:22.000 They told me he was toxic.

00:52:23.000 They told me I was being weird and trad.

00:52:26.000 I was trying to be trad and that I was a bad girl and I shouldn't fall for that.

00:52:31.000 What happened to my career?

00:52:33.000 Why am I not being a boss, babe?

00:52:36.000 And I was like, what do you mean?

00:52:37.000 They're like, you've lost a lot of weight.

00:52:39.000 I don't know if that's good for you.

00:52:41.000 Maybe you should try to gain the weight back.

00:52:43.000 I was like, oh my gosh, who are you guys promoting this?

00:52:48.000 Gaining the weight back is crazy.

00:52:49.000 You look great, by the way.

00:52:51.000 You look amazing.

00:52:52.000 Congratulations on that because obviously weight loss is always very difficult.

00:52:57.000 We live in a very...

00:52:58.000 Especially for women, it kind of sucks because we rarely tell women the truth, especially when it comes to their body because of their feelings.

00:53:03.000 We have this whole...

00:53:04.000 Body positivity movement for females. 0.99

00:53:07.000 And I think it's very destructive, which makes sense as to why there's more fat women than fat men. 0.98

00:53:11.000 Yep. 0.88

00:53:12.000 Because at the end of the day, a fat woman can still find a guy. 1.00

00:53:14.000 And they fall.

00:53:15.000 They're emotions.

00:53:16.000 They are so easily emotionally manipulated.

00:53:18.000 The body positivity movement almost killed me.

00:53:20.000 I literally would go on my phone.

00:53:22.000 It's all women preaching, love your body. 1.00

00:53:25.000 You're beautiful just the way you are.

00:53:26.000 It doesn't matter if you're fat.

00:53:27.000 You're healthy being overweight.

00:53:28.000 Don't lose weight.

00:53:29.000 If you lose weight, you have an eating disorder.

00:53:31.000 And I fell for it.

00:53:32.000 And I stayed in my bed and I ate junk food.

00:53:34.000 Isn't it crazy?

00:53:35.000 One of the biggest advocates, Lizzo, got caught fat shaming her own dancers! 0.96

00:53:40.000 And I was like, Shawty is fat too! 0.99

00:53:44.000 She's crazy! 1.00

00:53:47.000 If Lizzo's watching this, I want to help her. 0.54

00:53:50.000 I really want to help her lose the way and inspire millions of her fans to do the same because she's not inspiring them to do that and I want to inspire them. 0.96

00:53:57.000 Lizzo, if you're watching, get off the couch, you fat.

00:54:00.000 Okay, never mind. 0.93

00:54:01.000 I have a question, actually, for kind of like...

00:54:04.000 For us?

00:54:05.000 Okay.

00:54:05.000 Before you do, because I just have one more thing for her.

00:54:08.000 If you can name, and your mom can jump in on this too, because you guys probably are dealing with hundreds of women at this point. 0.99

00:54:14.000 What would you say are the three biggest contributors as to why women are obese in today's day and age? 0.64

00:54:19.000 The three biggest.

00:54:20.000 First, I'll say body positivity movement.

00:54:22.000 Plays a massive role.

00:54:23.000 You can give the other one.

00:54:24.000 Emotional dysregulation.

00:54:27.000 Can you go deeper on that?

00:54:31.000 Women have feelings and we express them in destructive ways. 1.00

00:54:36.000 We don't have tools to channel that feeling.

00:54:39.000 What's the name of that term again?

00:54:41.000 Emotional dysregulation.

00:54:42.000 We don't understand how to regulate our emotions.

00:54:45.000 To actually use them for good or to channel them through physical fitness, for example.

00:54:52.000 Different types of mindset techniques, even spiritual techniques, finding God.

00:54:56.000 Whatever it is that's going to work.

00:54:58.000 We have to find ways to empower ourselves with tools to regulate our emotions so they don't tangle our lives, our relationships, and our health.

00:55:07.000 Question on that.

00:55:08.000 Would you say that you've noticed less emotional dysregulation with women that have positive masculine influences in their life? 1.00

00:55:16.000 Let's say a father, a brother, or a couple of brothers to tell them you're being fat as fuck. 0.99

00:55:20.000 What are you doing? 1.00

00:55:21.000 Yeah, absolutely.

00:55:22.000 Okay.

00:55:22.000 Do you notice?

00:55:22.000 I do.

00:55:23.000 Unless there's an overbearing father who's just doting all the time, then there's another tangle there.

00:55:28.000 Okay.

00:55:29.000 That's like an emotional incestuous thing.

00:55:30.000 So does that mitigate, I guess, the risk of obesity a bit by having that masculine authority in there?

00:55:35.000 I believe so.

00:55:35.000 A little bit?

00:55:36.000 Yeah.

00:55:36.000 I don't have enough anecdotal evidence to say yes definitively, but I think so.

00:55:42.000 Okay.

00:55:43.000 I've noticed brothers tend to be more honest with their sister if she's obese versus like a sister. 0.95

00:55:49.000 And then what's the third one?

00:55:51.000 What would you say the third one is?

00:55:52.000 I think people don't know how to eat.

00:55:54.000 Doctors don't tell them.

00:55:55.000 Parents aren't teaching them.

00:55:56.000 Schools are also not teaching them.

00:55:58.000 So people are putting their health in the hands of prepared foods in restaurants and the salts and the oils and genetically modified foods and the herbicides, fungicides, pesticides.

00:56:06.000 It's a problem.

00:56:07.000 We have an issue within the industrial food complex and we're in the addictive brain.

00:56:12.000 So it's an issue.

00:56:14.000 And my last question, and then we'll turn it to you.

00:56:16.000 With the body positivity, you said that's the number one contributor to women being obese. 1.00

00:56:19.000 Yes.

00:56:20.000 What is the average woman overweight by? 1.00

00:56:23.000 10 pounds, 20 pounds, 30 pounds, 40 pounds?

00:56:26.000 35.

00:56:27.000 Was that?

00:56:27.000 35.

00:56:28.000 Oh, wow.

00:56:28.000 Yeah, that's what I read.

00:56:30.000 The average American woman weighs 170 pounds, right? 1.00

00:56:33.000 Yeah.

00:56:34.000 That's correct.

00:56:35.000 I thought it was going to be cheeseburgers.

00:56:36.000 But the girls that are coming to you, 35, you would say on average? 0.97

00:56:38.000 Oh, no.

00:56:39.000 The girls that are coming to us have more.

00:56:40.000 Way more.

00:56:41.000 75 or more.

00:56:42.000 80 to 100 pounds.

00:56:44.000 Okay.

00:56:44.000 So 35 is over, but what's coming to you is like way above double.

00:56:49.000 Way above.

00:56:50.000 Way above.

00:56:51.000 And I will have to say the body positivity movement, also family component with that.

00:56:55.000 Because family will encourage the eating behaviors.

00:56:58.000 Brothers, sisters, mothers, fathers, grandmas.

00:57:00.000 Oh, it's okay, sweetie.

00:57:02.000 Eat all the food.

00:57:03.000 And they kind of like join it.

00:57:04.000 Like it's almost like a cult.

00:57:07.000 It's almost like a cult.

00:57:07.000 Your medical doctor, your psychotherapist.

00:57:09.000 Oh, don't talk about it.

00:57:11.000 Oh my gosh.

00:57:12.000 Okay, I gotta say this then.

00:57:13.000 I gotta ask this.

00:57:14.000 What is the number one motivating factor for them to come to you?

00:57:16.000 Obviously, they're double the average overweight number. 0.99

00:57:20.000 What is the number one contributing factor to them coming to you guys finally?

00:57:23.000 Double chin.

00:57:23.000 They're 30 plus?

00:57:25.000 Double chin.

00:57:25.000 Is it age?

00:57:26.000 Is it maybe they're sitting back on the market?

00:57:28.000 No, they're scared.

00:57:28.000 They're scared they're going to die.

00:57:30.000 They've got diabetes.

00:57:31.000 It's impending doom.

00:57:33.000 Really?

00:57:33.000 Yeah.

00:57:34.000 I mean, my mother died, her third cause of death, severe obesity at age 59.

00:57:38.000 And it's quite serious for us.

00:57:41.000 Okay.

00:57:41.000 We really want to end this generational eating compulsion.

00:57:44.000 Okay.

00:57:45.000 Okay, so for you guys, it's okay.

00:57:46.000 I thought it would maybe be vanity reasons, but it's literally impending death is the primary reason they come to hell.

00:57:53.000 What's the average age that they're coming to you guys?

00:57:55.000 Oh, um, 35?

00:57:57.000 35?

00:57:57.000 Yeah.

00:57:58.000 Wow.

00:57:59.000 I told you, right, man.

00:58:01.000 I told you.

00:58:01.000 Hail Mary's, man.

00:58:02.000 The wall.

00:58:02.000 I just said, bro, this is good for people to ask on this, because I've always talked about female obesity, but it's great to have women that deal with that every day.

00:58:10.000 I thought it was just like cheesy burgers that made them fat, but I guess more than that.

00:58:13.000 It's Uber Eats, man, because now it's Uber Eats, there's stuff that you can order, so these girls, they're boss babes, they have money, and they don't have time to cook, right? 1.00

00:58:21.000 More or less.

00:58:22.000 They don't have time to cook. 0.99

00:58:23.000 And so they order Uber Eats, and then they're like, oh, okay, you know what?

00:58:25.000 Let me just order some, you know what I'm saying, though?

00:58:27.000 Another follow-up.

00:58:27.000 Are these higher-earning women that are this obese?

00:58:29.000 Yeah.

00:58:31.000 Okay.

00:58:31.000 Nope.

00:58:31.000 And it costs money to be fat.

00:58:33.000 Like, it's really expensive to be fat.

00:58:35.000 It's really expensive.

00:58:36.000 I mean, you rack up a bill.

00:58:37.000 Like, I used to charge your bill.

00:58:39.000 I'm like, Penelope, it's 600 bucks.

00:58:40.000 I'm like, what are you doing?

00:58:41.000 And I hid pizzas under my bed and my closet and the trash.

00:58:45.000 I spent hundreds of dollars per week on junk food that I hid from you. 1.00

00:58:48.000 Damn. 0.99

00:58:49.000 That's awesome, man, that you guys are doing that. 0.99

00:58:51.000 Hey, Christine, it's your program.

00:58:59.000 Yeah, so I'm kind of going back. 0.99

00:59:03.000 Yeah, kind of going back to like the beginning of this conversation when it comes to like these married women like you see all over social media like Stereotypically, skinny guys like bigger girls or bigger girls like skinny guys because of the dick. 1.00

00:59:22.000 I'm being so dead ass, you know what I mean? 0.99

00:59:24.000 Because skinny guys like... 0.99

00:59:26.000 They're gonna like the booty wave.

00:59:30.000 You know what I'm saying?

00:59:30.000 They're hitting it from the back.

00:59:31.000 There's a lot happening.

00:59:33.000 You know what I mean? 0.99

00:59:33.000 So a lot of guys find it so sexually appealing that you always see these big women in happy relationships and I'm single as fuck. 0.99

00:59:40.000 Let me explain that to you. 0.99

00:59:44.000 Like I said before, men are only as low as their options. 0.79

00:59:46.000 Men also like their options. 0.99

00:59:49.000 And what I mean by this is, if you take those same skinny guys, and I gave them a Lamborghini, $2 million, and some fame, they'll be fucking models tomorrow, and they will never talk to a fat girl again. 0.99

00:59:58.000 Look at Moneybag, yo. 0.99

01:00:00.000 Google his prom date, guys, and then look at the women that he's dealing with now. 0.97

01:00:04.000 Men's taste changes and adapts and improves as their value improves.

01:00:09.000 So men typically say they like, because it's a cope, The type of women that they can attract. 0.99

01:00:14.000 But the reality is if they can get a more attractive woman, they will.

01:00:17.000 Men universally prefer not to be with fat women in most situations. 1.00

01:00:22.000 You ever heard that saying, women fuck who they want, men fuck who they can? 1.00

01:00:25.000 That's pretty much the same thing for your example. 1.00

01:00:28.000 But also, I'll say this though. 0.97

01:00:30.000 African niggas are different. 1.00

01:00:33.000 They love hippos, man. 0.66

01:00:36.000 That might be a slow Tuesday, but like, bro, in general, they're going to take the model.

01:00:39.000 Like, they're going to take the model to be more consistent with, to show around their friends and stuff.

01:00:43.000 You might get the fatty on a slow Tuesday and no one sees.

01:00:47.000 But yeah, men typically will sit there and cope and say, oh, I like this type of girl, but you'll see directly that that woman aligns with what he can actually attract. 0.91

01:00:54.000 So guys left you for a fat girl? 1.00

01:01:01.000 My ex left me. 0.98

01:01:02.000 He cheated on me with my ex best friend. 0.98

01:01:05.000 And she was fat. 1.00

01:01:07.000 She was fat. 1.00

01:01:09.000 Like, bro, I'm 117. 0.77

01:01:11.000 She's like legit like 150, 160. 0.98

01:01:14.000 You didn't go hard enough, man. 1.00

01:01:16.000 She had a fat ass? 1.00

01:01:17.000 What's the difference? 1.00

01:01:18.000 I'm sorry. 0.76

01:01:19.000 Well, I hate her. 1.00

01:01:19.000 And like, if you say this, you look like a fucking fridge. 1.00

01:01:22.000 I'm sorry. 1.00

01:01:24.000 No, bro.

01:01:25.000 I don't know.

01:01:25.000 We don't support bashing women, okay?

01:01:28.000 Fast shaming for us.

01:01:29.000 Yeah, no, but she's different, bro.

01:01:31.000 I mean, she got deported to Colombia.

01:01:34.000 Oh, so she's Colombian. 1.00

01:01:36.000 Yeah, yeah.

01:01:38.000 No, no, no, no, no.

01:01:40.000 She doesn't look Colombian.

01:01:41.000 When I broke up with him, I called her.

01:01:42.000 I was like, yo, we broke up.

01:01:44.000 And then she went to his house, gave him chocolate, and they just started dating.

01:01:49.000 Chocolate?

01:01:51.000 She was looking only for the papers because he's white. 1.00

01:01:54.000 Damn. 1.00

01:01:54.000 She got the papers though. 1.00

01:01:56.000 Congratulations.

01:01:57.000 Oh, she did?

01:01:58.000 Huh?

01:01:58.000 She got papers from homeboy?

01:02:00.000 Yeah, from my ex.

01:02:01.000 Yeah, because she got deported to Colombia. 0.52

01:02:03.000 She had to go in like six months.

01:02:04.000 Wow.

01:02:05.000 Yeah.

01:02:05.000 So she's back?

01:02:07.000 Yeah, she's still here.

01:02:08.000 I don't know where I'm at.

01:02:09.000 Yo, your boyfriend's an L, bro. 1.00

01:02:11.000 I'm saying. 1.00

01:02:12.000 Nigga cheated with the fat one. 1.00

01:02:13.000 I get papers? 0.99

01:02:14.000 Yeah. 0.99

01:02:16.000 Tell this nigga what he is, bro. 1.00

01:02:18.000 What, him? 0.99

01:02:18.000 Yeah, him. 0.99

01:02:20.000 We're on Twitch and shit, so I can't really say it, man. 0.95

01:02:23.000 You're on Twitch. 0.99

01:02:23.000 You're on Facebook and Twitter. 0.99

01:02:26.000 Let's see on Rumble for now.

01:02:28.000 No, man. 0.78

01:02:28.000 He is a simp. 0.78

01:02:31.000 Sorry Mo, but at the end of the day, man, he just, you know, should probably get a good head.

01:02:36.000 Good attention.

01:02:38.000 So, something that you probably wasn't giving him. 0.99

01:02:40.000 Oh shit. 0.99

01:02:40.000 Because at the end of the day, if a guy is looking elsewhere for sex, and you're like, you know what, I'm doing this, because how long have you been dating before you two? 0.99

01:02:47.000 I didn't fuck him. 0.99

01:02:47.000 We lasted a month. 0.99

01:02:48.000 Exactly.

01:02:49.000 That's right.

01:02:50.000 I didn't really like him.

01:02:52.000 Yeah, so...

01:02:52.000 Nah, hold on.

01:02:53.000 He liked him or you...

01:02:55.000 Okay, he was my best friend, and I was like, okay, we can try it.

01:02:58.000 The friend zone.

01:02:59.000 Okay, okay.

01:02:59.000 Yeah, we can try it, because I liked him.

01:03:01.000 So, your fat friend needed the green card, so she tried all right the first day.

01:03:05.000 Yeah, she thought she was talking about... 0.80

01:03:06.000 So, she's like, hey...

01:03:06.000 Yo, she said chocolates?

01:03:07.000 Yeah, chocolates?

01:03:08.000 No! 1.00

01:03:09.000 She knows how to use the pussy. 1.00

01:03:11.000 She knows how to use that. 1.00

01:03:12.000 Well, she's in America, so she definitely does.

01:03:14.000 But at the end of the day...

01:03:15.000 See, that makes sense now, because you didn't even smash the dude.

01:03:18.000 She's like, yo, she's smashing me?

01:03:19.000 All right.

01:03:20.000 I mean, listen...

01:03:21.000 He was a virgin, too, though, so I don't know.

01:03:23.000 If a girl... 1.00

01:03:23.000 It doesn't matter, virgin. 1.00

01:03:24.000 Yeah.

01:03:25.000 I mean...

01:03:26.000 So, imagine...

01:03:26.000 Okay, that makes sense then.

01:03:28.000 Because, once again, in the version, chocolate... 1.00

01:03:31.000 Hey, what's a pussy too? 1.00

01:03:32.000 For sure! 1.00

01:03:33.000 Let's do it!

01:03:34.000 A man has to eat.

01:03:35.000 You know what I'm saying?

01:03:36.000 So, if he sees a dying hippo, you know, a fat hippo, he's going to eat it. 0.80

01:03:41.000 Wow.

01:03:41.000 You know, it's a nice gazelle, you know, like your gazelle, like you're in shape, you know?

01:03:44.000 And if the hippo is like almost dying, he's going to eat it.

01:03:47.000 He's a lion.

01:03:48.000 He has to eat something.

01:03:49.000 Wait a second.

01:03:50.000 You want to roll it loud?

01:03:51.000 Yeah.

01:04:12.000 What about you?

01:04:14.000 Any assumptions, questions, comments you want to bring up at the beginning?

01:04:18.000 No, I don't really have any.

01:04:19.000 What were you told before coming on the show then?

01:04:21.000 I just got a message yesterday night because I teach yoga and do these nutrition and integrative health podcasts all the time.

01:04:29.000 I just glanced at it like Fit and Fresh.

01:04:32.000 He said number one podcast.

01:04:34.000 I'm like, okay.

01:04:38.000 They're going to ask me about yoga, Pilates, fitness, anti-aging, something, whatever.

01:04:43.000 And I'm like, okay.

01:04:44.000 Then I go to bed, wake up, and I'm like, well...

01:04:46.000 I asked him, you know, like, do I need to prepare?

01:04:48.000 Like, what topic do you want me to speak to?

01:04:51.000 He's like, no, no, nothing.

01:04:52.000 Just, you know, men-women dynamics. 0.61

01:04:54.000 I'm like, okay.

01:04:56.000 Easy.

01:04:56.000 What should we get into?

01:04:58.000 No, but one thing I do want to say, just being the older person on here, I do feel like this whole, like, being bigger, okay thing is a generational thing.

01:05:06.000 Like, back in my day, I grew up in Southern California. 0.98

01:05:08.000 You didn't fucking go to the beach with a bikini on if you were fat. 0.99

01:05:11.000 You didn't do it. 1.00

01:05:11.000 No one did it. 1.00

01:05:12.000 It was not acceptable. 1.00

01:05:14.000 Keep the shit covered. 1.00

01:05:15.000 It wasn't cool. 1.00

01:05:16.000 Like, my mom was a model.

01:05:17.000 I grew up like, you know, literally, and I'm not saying this is right or wrong, but she, like, if I went to eat something that wasn't, you know, in fifth grade, she'd be like, no, not cool.

01:05:27.000 Don't eat that.

01:05:28.000 You know, you already had pizza this week.

01:05:29.000 Chill it out.

01:05:30.000 And I feel like today that's just not, you know, the way it is.

01:05:33.000 Like every, you go to South Beach, it doesn't matter if you're 300 pounds, you have a bikini on. 0.96

01:05:37.000 No one gives a shit, you know, and it's like, I feel like it's numb. 0.98

01:05:41.000 It's like a callus. 0.99

01:05:42.000 I'm so used to seeing everyone being so fat. 0.99

01:05:44.000 I'm not trying to be an asshole about this. 0.98

01:05:48.000 We've gotten to this point where it's literally okay to just walk around 300 pounds. 1.00

01:05:54.000 In the end, they're going to drop dead and not even know they did anything wrong because they didn't even know they were that fat.

01:06:01.000 They didn't know it was that dangerous. 0.82

01:06:02.000 They know.

01:06:04.000 They know.

01:06:06.000 There's a...

01:06:07.000 Since you guys want to get acknowledged so much, there's an influx of guys that are basically leaving the United States and going to other countries abroad to find women, right?

01:06:14.000 They call themselves Passmore Bros, which I understand.

01:06:16.000 It's a viable solution to the problem here in the United States where a lot of women aren't, you know, feminine. 1.00

01:06:22.000 It's a viable one, though, but they're not feminine, they're not attractive, and the obesity problem. 0.70

01:06:27.000 And it's funny because whenever these guys, because we're friends with a couple of these guys, they leave the United States for six months, maybe a year at a time, and they come back and they're always shocked.

01:06:34.000 And how many fat women they see. 1.00

01:06:36.000 They're literally shocked. 0.99

01:06:37.000 They're like, what the hell?

01:06:38.000 Now I remember why I left in the first place.

01:06:39.000 And it's like, nonstop.

01:06:41.000 They leave, gone for six months, come back to do a podcast with us or something. 0.99

01:06:45.000 Dude, what's up with all the fat women? 1.00

01:06:47.000 And I keep forgetting too. 0.98

01:06:48.000 And it hits me too, a little bit, being here in Miami.

01:06:51.000 Because Miami I wouldn't consider as like the United States.

01:06:53.000 It's kind of like a Latin America light, right? 0.65

01:06:54.000 Because we have a strong Hispanic culture here.

01:06:57.000 Hispanic women tend to keep themselves in better shape a lot of the times, especially from Colombia, Venezuela. 1.00

01:07:01.000 Because they understand that their beauty...

01:07:03.000 Is their main commodity, etc.

01:07:05.000 But once you leave South Florida, you know, you leave Miami, especially you go to Central Florida, etc.

01:07:10.000 You go to Texas. 0.98

01:07:11.000 You see that obesity rear, it's ugly, and even me, I'm like, God damn, give me back to Miami. 0.99

01:07:15.000 This is terrible. 0.98

01:07:16.000 But yeah, I mean, it's really bad, especially it's okay if you're like, I still think it's unacceptable if you're a fat guy, but you can at least make up with it if you may have money and status. 0.80

01:07:27.000 As a female, if you're fat, it's like, dude, you're literally shooting yourself in the foot. 1.00

01:07:33.000 March. 0.97

01:07:39.000 March.

01:07:40.000 March.

01:07:43.000 Merch.

01:07:44.000 It's okay, just say you think.

01:07:45.000 Yeah, I guess.

01:07:47.000 So, let's say you go to France, for example, and you order a large Coke. 0.99

01:07:53.000 They're going to look at you sideways like, the fuck is a large? 0.99

01:07:55.000 You know what I mean? 1.00

01:07:56.000 Even in Europe, you go there and it is very rare to see obese people.

01:08:01.000 I went on a date with this guy from...

01:08:04.000 I don't know, somewhere in the UK. It wasn't even just the fact that the date itself was so culturally different.

01:08:14.000 Bro's eating fries and a burger with a knife and fork, but he's like, oh, I don't want a water.

01:08:19.000 I don't need something to drink.

01:08:20.000 And like, oh yeah, maybe I'm a little thirsty, and this man gets a cup this size. 1.00

01:08:23.000 And he's like, the fuck is wrong with you Americans? 0.99

01:08:25.000 And I'm like... 0.99

01:08:26.000 You can't even say, like, it's just Americans. 1.00

01:08:28.000 It's just so socially acceptable because I feel like America is sensitive as fuck. 0.99

01:08:34.000 Because, like, decades ago, literally, like you were saying, like, generationally, you're not going to want a fat-ass wife, respectfully. 1.00

01:08:41.000 Like, it was so normal to have no ass. 0.99

01:08:41.000 You know what I mean? 0.99

01:08:44.000 And now it's like everyone wants wide hips. 1.00

01:08:46.000 Everyone wants a fat ass. 1.00

01:08:48.000 And then people are like, oh, I'm going to eat more. 1.00

01:08:50.000 It's going to go straight to my thighs.

01:08:51.000 Yeah.

01:08:52.000 Okay, period. 1.00

01:08:54.000 I think you mean you want the slim waist with the fat ass, but a lot of girls kind of cheat it and they just get fat and then they get a fat ass as a byproduct. 1.00

01:09:01.000 And they glorify it and they glamorize and they're like, you're beautiful, girl. 1.00

01:09:04.000 Like, you're gorgeous.

01:09:05.000 Every guy loves a little tummy. 1.00

01:09:08.000 No, I'm not saying now.

01:09:09.000 I'm talking about, like, we're speaking in, like, 60s, 70s, 80s.

01:09:12.000 You know what I mean?

01:09:13.000 Like, now, that's what I'm saying is very normalized.

01:09:15.000 And people, like, like you were saying, the body positivity movement, it's like, oh, yeah, we need to accept everybody. 0.95

01:09:20.000 Inclusivity and all this shit.

01:09:22.000 So it's like, They're monetizing words and they're doing things to accommodate everybody. 0.98

01:09:27.000 But at the end of the day, you're a comedy. 0.90

01:09:29.000 What the fuck is it benefiting besides people's emotions? 0.99

01:09:31.000 You have people dying. 0.99

01:09:32.000 You have people with health issues.

01:09:34.000 You have people killing themselves. 1.00

01:09:35.000 You have all this shit happening, basically. 0.99

01:09:38.000 And it's like, what are you getting from it besides people being happy that they can live how they want? 0.99

01:09:42.000 Well, it's just promoting laziness.

01:09:44.000 Like, just overweight people are just lazy.

01:09:46.000 I was lazy when I was 300 pounds.

01:09:47.000 I was just sitting on the couch.

01:09:48.000 I didn't have to work out.

01:09:50.000 I didn't have to improve my beauty.

01:09:51.000 I didn't have to do anything.

01:09:52.000 Well, you haven't even had kids yet, have you?

01:09:53.000 How old are you?

01:09:54.000 No, I'm 18.

01:09:55.000 Okay, so, I mean, I have four kids in four years.

01:09:57.000 If you are fat at 20 and you haven't had children, I've got news for you. 1.00

01:10:02.000 Shit's going to get a lot harder once your hormones get screwed up and you have kids. 1.00

01:10:07.000 I always feel really bad when I see young people fat. 1.00

01:10:11.000 I'm like, you haven't even hit the hard part yet.

01:10:13.000 What's going on here?

01:10:15.000 Obesity in children is growing at a very fast rate.

01:10:18.000 It's an epidemic.

01:10:20.000 It's terrifying because you have a lot of young women being like, you're beautiful, you're beautiful. 0.90

01:10:24.000 They're 300 pounds, 400 pounds, 500 pounds.

01:10:26.000 I mean, even, like, 8-year-olds now are, like, really, really overweight.

01:10:31.000 And it's scarier.

01:10:32.000 Like, you think that kid is, like, 10 and he's, like, 6.

01:10:35.000 I think what people don't acknowledge is that, like, a lot of these people that struggle with weight are dealing with a lot of mental health issues.

01:10:43.000 And they might be depressed.

01:10:45.000 But back in, like, during the Victorian days, being fat was showed that you had money.

01:10:50.000 Mm-hmm.

01:10:50.000 So it's crazy to see how times have changed like back then if you were thicker that means you have some type of wealth and now it's like if you're fat it's like you're lazy but it's like you don't take into account that they might just be dealing with things and like the majority of the world just likes to brush off mental health and doesn't like to address it.

01:11:11.000 They want to medicate and pills don't build skills.

01:11:14.000 You know, it's one thing.

01:11:16.000 I kind of like how you address, like, you know, like, before, like, being fat was, you know, like, this, that, and a third.

01:11:23.000 But you also have to understand that our worlds are very differently. 1.00

01:11:26.000 Like, back then, all a man had to worry about was how many bitches he was gonna fuck. 1.00

01:11:30.000 Does he have land? 1.00

01:11:31.000 Can he eat?

01:11:32.000 Like, literal basics.

01:11:33.000 Like, am I wrong?

01:11:35.000 Like, if we really go back to where, like, society wasn't really a thing.

01:11:35.000 You know what I mean?

01:11:39.000 Like, your cars aren't even cars.

01:11:40.000 You feel me?

01:11:42.000 So, like, a man only had but so much to worry about.

01:11:45.000 Women had to do everything. 1.00

01:11:47.000 You know what I mean?

01:11:48.000 Don't get me wrong, like, men worked and, like, did their thing, but, like, if they're up there, like, in royalty and status, they literally, they're living the dream that the men today want. 0.96

01:11:57.000 They're not doing shit. 0.76

01:11:58.000 They're sitting on a throne. 1.00

01:11:59.000 So what is there to worry about when, like, they were saying, high-value men, they have money, they have status, pussies being thrown to them. 0.99

01:12:07.000 This isn't a new thing. 0.98

01:12:08.000 This is an old thing with new patterns and new habits and new lifestyles, basically.

01:12:15.000 And going back to what you said about being sensitive, if you're too sensitive, it's like you are harming your own emotional well-being.

01:12:22.000 Oh, 100%.

01:12:23.000 People are too sensitive.

01:12:23.000 And it's true.

01:12:25.000 Emotional eating shouldn't be accepted just because you have mental health issues, which, by the way, 90% of your mental health issues, you can actually fix yourself with eating right, working out, and taking accountability of your own life.

01:12:37.000 You know, everyone goes through hard things and if you just let that soak in your own pain for the rest of your life, you will be miserable and you will be fat and you will hate your life.

01:12:45.000 So you have to take accountability.

01:12:47.000 You can't just blame food and other people for your problems because that's how I got fat and that's how fat people get fat and they have control.

01:12:54.000 And so this lie that we like to tell them like, oh, it's okay.

01:12:57.000 You know, it's okay to eat emotionally eating.

01:12:59.000 It's okay.

01:13:00.000 Is harming them to an extent we don't even see on the surface.

01:13:00.000 It's okay.

01:13:06.000 Well said.

01:13:07.000 I was going to say, because you said that people might be fat because they're going through something, mental health, depression, etc.

01:13:13.000 Controversial take.

01:13:14.000 Actually, your favorite person, Andrew Tate, actually talks about this, and I agree with him 100%, and I'll take it a step further.

01:13:22.000 Depression, long-term depression, isn't real.

01:13:25.000 And what I mean by that is...

01:13:27.000 I think?

01:13:47.000 If some guy comes up to me and tells me, I'm depressed, I just look at the individual.

01:13:52.000 Do you go to the gym?

01:13:53.000 Most likely not.

01:13:54.000 Are you working on something like keeping yourself preoccupied, right?

01:13:57.000 Because idle hands do the devil's work. 0.87

01:13:59.000 Do you have goals?

01:14:00.000 Most of the time, it's no.

01:14:00.000 Do you have goals?

01:14:02.000 If I ask a female, are you depressed? 1.00

01:14:03.000 It's because maybe she's obese. 1.00

01:14:05.000 Maybe she's been traumatized by being promiscuous.

01:14:09.000 She's made bad decisions that potentially led to her being in that state. 0.85

01:14:12.000 But a lot of the times, it's self-inflicted and it comes from long-term failure.

01:14:16.000 But, again, we live in a very pussified society where, like you said before, pills are no skills.

01:14:21.000 ADHD, ADD, all these, like, attention deficit disorder things, prescribing people Adderall, etc. 1.00

01:14:27.000 It's all a bunch of bullshit. 1.00

01:14:29.000 Whatever happens to just telling people that they're fucking stupid? 1.00

01:14:32.000 What about telling people, how about you need to just focus harder because it might be a little bit harder for you to focus. 1.00

01:14:36.000 Stop being stupid. 1.00

01:14:37.000 I guarantee if I went to a psychiatrist right now and said, I have ADD, they'll give me Adderall. 1.00

01:14:42.000 If I said, yo, I have ADHD, they'll give me Adderall. 0.99

01:14:44.000 They wouldn't even care because it's so easy to get the shit nowadays because Big Pharma makes money on prescribing you meds. 1.00

01:14:50.000 So they're 1,000% incentivized to give you medication for this ailment that you have, which a lot of times just stems from you being a fucking loser and not being adequate. 0.99

01:14:58.000 So Mainstream media will never talk about this, but I genuinely think a lot of these diseases, I don't want to say they're made up, but we give people an out and tell them, no, there's something wrong with you mentally. 1.00

01:15:09.000 What about you're just fucking stupid and you need to work harder than the next person? 1.00

01:15:12.000 Well, I have a question. 1.00

01:15:13.000 So, when you say, like, If you ask a woman why she's feeling supposedly depressed long-term and you said maybe she had a promiscuous past or something like that, what do you tell that woman to do to better her life? 0.99

01:15:28.000 You can tell a man to get off his ass and go do something. 1.00

01:15:31.000 For women, it sucks more because a woman's past will always come back to haunt her a lot of the time. 1.00

01:15:37.000 With women, this is why I say self-preservation is so important. 1.00

01:15:40.000 Women, I look at them as like glass. 1.00

01:15:43.000 If it's shattered, It's very difficult to pick up the pieces and put it back together.

01:15:48.000 And even if you do put it back together, whenever you pour water in it, it's always going to leak to a degree.

01:15:52.000 So that's why it's so important for women to preserve their value. 1.00

01:15:55.000 But with women, yeah, it's not as repairable a lot of the times. 1.00

01:15:59.000 For the man, it's like you're a loser. 0.99

01:16:01.000 You can fix it and figure it out. 0.99

01:16:03.000 You have time to figure it out.

01:16:04.000 But with women, it's like you get the value up front. 1.00

01:16:06.000 So if you spend your, you know, millions that you got given to you, you're kind of fucked. 0.99

01:16:10.000 And I think one of the major reasons why women are depressed nowadays in 2023 is because of social media. 0.98

01:16:16.000 Because girls want to compare themselves to other girls. 1.00

01:16:18.000 And all of a sudden, they're like, oh my gosh, you know what?

01:16:22.000 I'm doing well.

01:16:23.000 All of a sudden, they see a girl with a husband or wife. 0.98

01:16:25.000 I'm like, damn, where am I? What's going on? 0.98

01:16:27.000 Because I've met girls who don't on social media, and they're happy as fuck. 0.99

01:16:31.000 They're humming, doing certain things. 0.99

01:16:35.000 They're just happy individuals.

01:16:37.000 Yeah, nothing to compare it to, but as soon as a girl wakes up out of bed, she starts scrolling on her Instagram first thing in the morning, and then fucks up the whole day. 1.00

01:16:45.000 She's like, oh, fuck! 1.00

01:16:46.000 Now I have to sit here and... 1.00

01:16:48.000 And then you see a girl, you see these hot girls? 1.00

01:16:52.000 Just watch how they fucking move in the mornings. 1.00

01:16:54.000 They're like zombies. 1.00

01:16:55.000 Yo, Chris, you made a good point, bro.

01:16:57.000 Social media.

01:16:58.000 Dating apps.

01:16:59.000 What's with these chicks? 1.00

01:17:01.000 I'm not posting their whole bodies.

01:17:03.000 It's a close-up only. 0.94

01:17:04.000 I'm like, nigga, you catfish me. 0.92

01:17:06.000 You catfish me. 0.93

01:17:07.000 I really follow my mental so much.

01:17:12.000 I think that's a really good point that you brought up social media.

01:17:15.000 Social media, and then also I think a big one, Is that we lie to women, dude.

01:17:20.000 Like, you guys were alluding to it with the body positivity thing.

01:17:23.000 That's one component that we lie to women. 1.00

01:17:24.000 Another component that we lie to them is telling them that chasing a career, making a lot of money, being successful, and taking the masculine path is going to lead to long-term fulfillment and happiness.

01:17:32.000 And for a man, he's going to get fulfillment and happiness from achieving success because that's going to increase his sexual options.

01:17:40.000 Right?

01:17:40.000 Men are determined, our values are determined by what we create.

01:17:43.000 Both women, their values are determined by creating children. 1.00

01:17:46.000 Unfortunately, having a career and education a lot of times is counterproductive to having children.

01:17:52.000 It'll hurt your ability to do so.

01:17:53.000 And not only that, it'll hurt your ability to do so with the best compatible mate for you. 0.83

01:17:57.000 Because women have a finite amount of time to find the best guy. 1.00

01:18:01.000 We have the body positivity situation.

01:18:02.000 We tell women to chase a career. 1.00

01:18:03.000 We tell women to chase money. 1.00

01:18:05.000 We tell women to go after these things. 1.00

01:18:07.000 And then you have Instagram, where they're comparing their life to the Instagram model that isn't even happy because she can't land a guy because she's on OnlyFans showing her butthole for $3.99. 0.77

01:18:14.000 They're comparing their life to them.

01:18:15.000 They're comparing their everyday to a woman's highlight reel that they might not necessarily even want that lifestyle because they don't see the negatives that comes from sexualizing yourself on the internet.

01:18:25.000 So you compound all these things together, right?

01:18:28.000 Then you got the music industry telling women they're strong and independent.

01:18:31.000 You're single.

01:18:31.000 Go ahead and bisexualize yourself, etc.

01:18:33.000 All these things working in tandem to fuck up their mind. 0.99

01:18:36.000 They chase these things. 0.77

01:18:37.000 35 comes.

01:18:39.000 What the hell am I doing?

01:18:40.000 I'm single.

01:18:41.000 I don't have any guy taking me seriously.

01:18:43.000 I have a body count of 91.

01:18:45.000 What's going on here?

01:18:46.000 No guy wants to take me seriously.

01:18:48.000 Yeah, it's really 182.

01:18:49.000 Right?

01:18:50.000 And it's like, what the hell is going on here?

01:18:52.000 And then they're like, yo, I'm depressed because I thought this was going to bring me happiness.

01:18:57.000 It hasn't.

01:18:59.000 I was lied to.

01:19:00.000 And being deceived will cause quite a bit of anger. 0.79

01:19:03.000 And for women, it sucks because you can't get that time back. 1.00

01:19:05.000 Well, and that's what I'm curious about.

01:19:07.000 What do you say to that woman who might be 35 and regretting her life?

01:19:13.000 Yeah.

01:19:19.000 To avoid that long-term depression, what do you say to that woman who feels like she's ruined her life?

01:19:27.000 It's too late.

01:19:28.000 I'll add a second part to that.

01:19:31.000 It's too late to get your dream, man.

01:19:33.000 That sucks because we tell women that there's sugar and spice and everything nice. 1.00

01:19:40.000 They deserve the best, etc. 0.98

01:19:41.000 We tell women that are 300 pounds that they don't need to change. 1.00

01:19:44.000 So it's very difficult for women to accept that their actions have negative consequences because we tell them that they can do no wrong a lot of the times, right? 0.59

01:19:54.000 Yeah.

01:19:55.000 It's over.

01:19:56.000 Yeah, it's too late for your dream man. 0.99

01:19:59.000 You're going to have to settle with an average guy that isn't the best looking, that isn't charming, that's socially awkward, that might not necessarily be able to send us together charming like fucking Christian Grey. 0.98

01:20:09.000 He's not going to seduce you. 1.00

01:20:10.000 He's not going to give you the best dick. 1.00

01:20:12.000 You might be embarrassed to bring him around to family functions, but this is what you did. 0.99

01:20:17.000 Because...

01:20:18.000 What women do a lot of times is they're really bad gamblers. 1.00

01:20:20.000 They get a million dollars.

01:20:22.000 They go to the casino.

01:20:23.000 They stay there all night.

01:20:25.000 Gamble away, gamble away.

01:20:26.000 I'll find a better deal here.

01:20:27.000 I'll keep going, keep going.

01:20:27.000 No, I'm going to keep going.

01:20:28.000 Next thing you know, it's 5 o'clock in the morning.

01:20:31.000 Casino closed in the hour, and they're down to $1,000.

01:20:34.000 What are you going to do with that $1,000?

01:20:37.000 Some girls would rather just sit in the casino and let it close and leave with the money that they have, a.k.a. 1.00

01:20:41.000 stay single.

01:20:42.000 But I say, leave when you're up.

01:20:45.000 I have a question.

01:20:46.000 Do you guys believe that there are any women that didn't need a cosign from a high-value man that you guys consider to be a high-value woman?

01:20:54.000 Yeah, there's one.

01:20:55.000 No one.

01:20:55.000 Who?

01:20:57.000 Not even your mother?

01:21:00.000 Not even an example of a high-value woman that I think more girls should aspire to be. 1.00

01:21:05.000 Derek Jeter's wife.

01:21:07.000 Derek Jeter's wife is a fantastic example.

01:21:09.000 If you look at her Instagram, all her pictures are with him.

01:21:11.000 Nothing sexualized.

01:21:13.000 I think it's like two or three pictures.

01:21:16.000 Low key.

01:21:17.000 Out the media.

01:21:19.000 No attention-seeking.

01:21:20.000 What about Messi's wife?

01:21:22.000 Who?

01:21:23.000 Messi, the soccer player.

01:21:25.000 I consider him a high-value man.

01:21:28.000 Absolutely.

01:21:28.000 Of course he is.

01:21:29.000 I don't know.

01:21:30.000 He's awesome.

01:21:31.000 Of course he is.

01:21:32.000 What about his wife, though? 1.00

01:21:33.000 I never heard, like, oh, yeah, he's shitting on him, like... 0.99

01:21:38.000 I mean, look at the person that's behind the family and then look at what's being put out there. 0.96

01:21:45.000 I've never heard anything bad about his wife or anything that would demise or his career.

01:21:50.000 So, I mean, look at Will Smith.

01:21:53.000 Look what his wife did to him. 1.00

01:21:53.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:21:55.000 That's true.

01:21:56.000 Destroyed because of one allocation, which was true.

01:21:59.000 And then, it comes up by now, it was August Alcina taking down his wife.

01:22:06.000 Are you asking about single women?

01:22:09.000 I would say maybe like Zendaya.

01:22:12.000 No one's ever heard anything bad about Zendaya.

01:22:18.000 Zendaya was the pinnacle of getting to that point.

01:22:22.000 However, This is Tom Holland's fault.

01:22:50.000 That's his fault because his leadership should have told her, you're not doing that role.

01:22:54.000 Because even if it's acting, you represent me now.

01:22:59.000 So he should provide the bag that she doesn't get from that movie role though.

01:23:03.000 If she's getting like two mil off that role, he should provide two mil then.

01:23:08.000 That's what I'm saying.

01:23:09.000 She already has money. 1.00

01:23:11.000 That's fine, but you're stopping my bag now because of your feelings.

01:23:14.000 If I'm acting with two guys that isn't even a real sex scene, I'm just kissing them for like a acting role and I don't actually love them. 0.99

01:23:22.000 Like how you said you can like fuck women and not feel anything. 0.99

01:23:26.000 As an actress, we can separate our emotions and feelings. 1.00

01:23:30.000 Absolutely.

01:23:31.000 So it's like, why should she be a low value woman because she's just doing her job? 1.00

01:23:35.000 If we're going to use that logic, then what's the difference between a porn star and an actress then? 0.90

01:23:41.000 A porn star is booked for actual sex. 1.00

01:23:44.000 They actually fuck. 1.00

01:23:45.000 I think, like, actors, they just do not fuck. 1.00

01:23:48.000 It's a job, though. 0.99

01:23:48.000 It's just a scene. 0.99

01:23:49.000 It's only a job.

01:23:50.000 Yeah, because by your logic, you're saying, hey, they're just acting.

01:23:54.000 Well, a lot of female porn stars are just actresses as well. 1.00

01:23:57.000 They're just acting a scene. 0.98

01:23:58.000 What's the difference between kissing someone in a film versus having sex with someone in a neurotic film? 1.00

01:24:03.000 Zendaya's not getting multiple dicks inside of her, though. 1.00

01:24:10.000 She isn't? 0.99

01:24:10.000 How do you know? 0.99

01:24:11.000 What is the image being sent to people since they are on the TV screen?

01:24:15.000 But that's the beauty of movies, to make you feel like it's real. 0.99

01:24:18.000 A man at home that cares about you, that movie director, he can fuck about you. 0.99

01:24:22.000 He'll pay you and say, okay, awesome job. 0.99

01:24:24.000 By the end of the day, he'll find me at home waiting for you.

01:24:26.000 Why would you disrupt your family over some money?

01:24:28.000 Tell me that.

01:24:30.000 Well, not only that, I think women need to understand That a lot of the times, the bag is going to come at the cost of dignity. 1.00

01:24:37.000 And you have to ask yourself, what's more valuable to you?

01:24:41.000 Dignity or a bag?

01:24:43.000 I would argue, for women, your value is 100% determined, when it comes to mating, on your dignity. 1.00

01:24:50.000 This is why so many women that make money that have a bag that you're talking about, we know girls, you know what? 1.00

01:24:54.000 Yeah.

01:24:55.000 Be honest here, Fresh.

01:24:56.000 Let's just keep it a thousand.

01:24:58.000 You know a lot of women that make a hundred thousand, two hundred thousand, half a million to a million dollars a month on OnlyFans. 1.00

01:25:04.000 Allegedly.

01:25:05.000 Please tell me how they're doing when it comes to their day-to-day and how they're coping.

01:25:10.000 Yeah, so, you know, I dabble in the arts of, you know, gifts.

01:25:15.000 I'll just say that.

01:25:16.000 No, but I think for them, it's more like they obviously have a goal of making money, being successful.

01:25:24.000 And at what cost?

01:25:26.000 The morals.

01:25:27.000 Now, at that cost, though, comes relationships.

01:25:30.000 And as a result, they might find guys that they actually like because they're passing their current status of a job.

01:25:37.000 They can't find true love because they want love.

01:25:38.000 Obviously, they want love as well, but their profession, their whole acting, their whole scenes that they do results in guys saying, you know what? 0.98

01:25:46.000 Damn, she's hot, but wifey taking her home to mom, I just can't do it. 1.00

01:25:51.000 Now, they'll play the part for a little bit and say, nah, you got to stop. 1.00

01:25:53.000 Or they say, you know what?

01:25:54.000 I have fun, but I got to dip.

01:25:54.000 I'm out.

01:25:56.000 And what makes this worse for Zendaya is that she already has money. 0.97

01:26:00.000 She's in a privileged position where she's able to decline roles. 0.99

01:26:04.000 But she's not married to Tom Holland, though.

01:26:06.000 That's the difference.

01:26:07.000 Okay, hold on, hold on.

01:26:08.000 Fair enough.

01:26:09.000 Good argument.

01:26:11.000 Let me ask you this.

01:26:14.000 If you work at a job and you want to get promoted and elevated at that job, wouldn't it be fair to say that you need to display the traits for the elevated position prior to being elevated?

01:26:23.000 Yes, but what if Tom...

01:26:25.000 Okay.

01:26:25.000 Hold on, stop right there.

01:26:26.000 If he wants to elevate her to wife, wouldn't it be fair to say that she needs to display wife characteristics to be elevated? 0.99

01:26:32.000 What if he doesn't believe that the things that she does is not...

01:26:35.000 Please answer no to that question.

01:26:35.000 Okay, yes, yes, yes.

01:26:37.000 That's my point.

01:26:38.000 If she wants to be elevated, remember, men are the ones that give out relationships. 0.94

01:26:42.000 That is a job application to a degree.

01:26:44.000 And I would argue someone like Tom Holland would be the equivalent to a very...

01:26:51.000 He's a prestigious law firm.

01:26:53.000 Let's use an example.

01:26:54.000 He's a prestigious law firm and there's a bunch of people that are applying to this law firm.

01:26:57.000 She needs to go ahead and show exemplary performance to get elevated to wife because he could replace her easier than she could replace him. 1.00

01:27:04.000 But for some people, he may have gave her the green light to do that.

01:27:08.000 She probably asked him first.

01:27:09.000 Just like how Adam-22 and his wife, you feel me?

01:27:12.000 Notice how I blamed him, though, for that.

01:27:14.000 But she also should have not taken it, but she should have not taken it, and he should have stopped her from taking it.

01:27:21.000 But the thing also is, like, y'all are forgetting, Zendaya is a Disney Channel star.

01:27:26.000 You have little kids watching this chick. 0.81

01:27:28.000 So, like, let's say you have, like, these 9, 10-year-olds. 1.00

01:27:31.000 Like, fuck that shit. 1.00

01:27:32.000 I watched Zendaya growing up, and I didn't even know about this until just now. 1.00

01:27:37.000 So hearing this is like, bro, I used to, like, look up to her.

01:27:40.000 Like, let's be for real.

01:27:41.000 This is a little light-skinned, curly-headed chick. 1.00

01:27:44.000 Like, damn, she looked kind of like me. 0.98

01:27:45.000 I'm like, you know what I'm saying? 0.99

01:27:46.000 Like, I'm fucking with that already. 0.97

01:27:48.000 My bad. 0.99

01:27:49.000 I ain't as fine as her, respectfully.

01:27:51.000 But, like, let's be for real. 0.94

01:27:56.000 Like, you see all these Disney Channel stars doing all this shit, and you see Bella Thorne, who was literally her co-star. 0.98

01:28:02.000 What is she doing now? 1.00

01:28:04.000 Looking like a fucking slut. 1.00

01:28:05.000 And now you have Zendaya, who people look up to her. 1.00

01:28:07.000 Like, it's not just about the money.

01:28:09.000 Like, they said she already has...

01:28:11.000 They can't be little forever.

01:28:13.000 It's not about being little.

01:28:15.000 It's not about age.

01:28:15.000 It's not about maturity.

01:28:16.000 It's literally about how you present yourself to the public.

01:28:18.000 Who taught you all this?

01:28:18.000 Because you seem like you're aware of everything.

01:28:20.000 I'm just not...

01:28:21.000 I grew up in a very traditional household as it is.

01:28:28.000 I was already raised with a certain mindset.

01:28:30.000 What do you mean?

01:28:31.000 Ethnically? 0.52

01:28:32.000 Both of my parents are from the Virgin Islands, but my mom is Puerto Rican and my dad is Trini.

01:28:37.000 So, like, obviously, but no, for real, like, it's like, we can use freaking Dora.

01:28:44.000 You see Dora as this little Hispanic chick running around, like, where is the banana? 1.00

01:28:49.000 You know what I'm saying? 1.00

01:28:49.000 And then you see these crazy parody videos of Dora fucking boots, like, that shit's crazy. 1.00

01:28:54.000 Wait, wait, [... 1.00

01:29:06.000 Well, I think the real problem here is there's no purity.

01:29:10.000 Like, the purity's gone.

01:29:11.000 You have these OnlyFans models making all this money off of their bodies, and I really look at it to the family. 0.96

01:29:17.000 Like, all these women, like, you're right, they're gonna be 35 years old one day and miserable and sad, and some of the people who end up actually having families that do OnlyFans are gonna harm their future children. 0.99

01:29:28.000 And that's what I see.

01:29:30.000 It's already starting. 1.00

01:29:31.000 There's already kids, like, you know, offing themselves because kids are teasing them on the playground, like, hey, dude, look, your mom's sucking dick on OnlyFans. 1.00

01:29:37.000 Of course they are. 1.00

01:29:37.000 That makes perfect sense. 1.00

01:29:39.000 No kid should have to go through that.

01:29:41.000 And so all these women putting their families through these horrible situations is very harmful for children. 1.00

01:29:47.000 Like you just said, they're oofing themselves.

01:29:49.000 It's terrible.

01:29:50.000 It's very sad.

01:29:51.000 Yeah.

01:29:52.000 And again, like I said before, it's a multitude of situations, right?

01:29:56.000 Like I said before, it's a lie with pursuing money.

01:29:58.000 It's a lie with pursuing status.

01:30:00.000 It's a lie with pursuing a career and pursuing masculine endeavors in general, not prioritizing family. 0.91

01:30:07.000 The body positivity movement.

01:30:09.000 They're all working in tandem to brainwash women into not pursuing the things that are going to fulfill them long term until later. 0.96

01:30:16.000 You can have a family later on.

01:30:16.000 Oh, it's okay.

01:30:18.000 The problem with that is that the guy that you want isn't going to want you when you're in your 30s life.

01:30:24.000 Therapy plays a really big role.

01:30:25.000 You were talking about mental health earlier, and therapy plays a massive role in what we tell women today.

01:30:29.000 In society, when I went to therapy, they told me it was okay, and that they tried to give me a pill for my depression, a pill for my anxiety, a pill for my obesity, instead of being like, oh, just fix your own health.

01:30:39.000 All of the therapists lied to me, and most people that go to therapy are actually women. 0.97

01:30:44.000 When you look at the statistics.

01:30:46.000 And a lot of them are obese and a lot of them never get their problem fixed because the therapy system wasn't built for the client to succeed.

01:30:53.000 It's built for the therapist to succeed because that's how they make their money.

01:30:57.000 So when you think about it, don't go to therapy.

01:30:59.000 Just don't go to therapy because the therapist is making money off of you.

01:31:02.000 I was in therapy for 10 years.

01:31:04.000 Wait, 10 years?

01:31:05.000 10 years.

01:31:05.000 And my problems weren't fixed until I left.

01:31:07.000 Wait, you're 18 though.

01:31:08.000 I'm 18. 1.00

01:31:09.000 Damn. 1.00

01:31:10.000 No, no, no. 1.00

01:31:11.000 That goes to show that Big Pharma gets involved in therapy, all this mental health crap. 0.97

01:31:16.000 I'm not saying that mental health isn't to be taken seriously. 0.67

01:31:19.000 But what I will say is that Big Pharma has a large incentive to make a lot of money on you early on and turn you into a lifelong customer.

01:31:29.000 What are they selling?

01:31:30.000 Hope through therapy a lot of the time.

01:31:31.000 People need to get educated.

01:31:32.000 They need to take responsibility.

01:31:34.000 It's been so important and it's so important today.

01:31:37.000 Absolutely.

01:31:39.000 They brainwash you.

01:31:40.000 Guys, we are aware of the lag.

01:31:41.000 Okay, so this is what we'll do.

01:31:42.000 We'll refresh StreamYard.

01:31:44.000 Give us one second, guys.

01:31:45.000 We're going to refresh the stream real fast.

01:31:48.000 Stand by real fast.

01:31:50.000 Give us one second.

01:32:03.000 We're back.

01:32:06.000 I'm on the panel right now.

01:32:08.000 I don't know.

01:32:11.000 Can we say Elmo for now?

01:32:14.000 Let's see.

01:32:15.000 Is it good now?

01:32:16.000 Did it come back?

01:32:17.000 We'll see.

01:32:18.000 I'm still seeing it.

01:32:19.000 It's fine.

01:32:20.000 That's right there.

01:32:22.000 Yeah, no, no, but that might not necessarily refresh.

01:32:25.000 Okay, let's see.

01:32:26.000 Let's read the chat for now. 1.00

01:32:29.000 We're hitting the fucking numbers. 0.99

01:32:30.000 Alright, we can hit chat. 0.99

01:32:32.000 Let me go back and check the connection real fast.

01:32:36.000 Chris, or Walt, one of y'all, you guys got this.

01:32:39.000 This is actually a dream.

01:32:40.000 Chris, go right ahead, bro.

01:32:42.000 Alright, let's go.

01:32:43.000 I can't even see, man.

01:32:44.000 Let's see.

01:32:46.000 Why is it that when women break their vows, turn down, or disobey their husbands, men is blamed for neglecting her emotions, but when men break his vow to find intimacy elsewhere, he is also blamed for being unfaithful?

01:33:01.000 That's a very good question.

01:33:02.000 I like that one.

01:33:04.000 Okay, next one.

01:33:05.000 I mean, answer the question.

01:33:07.000 No, this is your show, bro.

01:33:08.000 Go ahead.

01:33:09.000 So, ladies, the question is there.

01:33:11.000 So, why is it when a woman breaks their vows, turn down orders to pay their husbands? 1.00

01:33:17.000 Men are blamed for it, more or less.

01:33:20.000 But when a man breaks his vows to find sex elsewhere, he is also blamed for being unfaithful.

01:33:26.000 So, we're blamed no matter what happens.

01:33:28.000 So, let's go with her.

01:33:30.000 What do you think about this?

01:33:31.000 You.

01:33:32.000 Well, I think that's a weird double standard, of course.

01:33:35.000 I think a woman is also being unfaithful, breaking their vows. 0.84

01:33:40.000 But I think it's also very weird to just differentiate women and men, the role of them, like that, distinctively.

01:33:48.000 Because I think, coming back to the high value women, the high value men, if I don't see any high value of the person, then I do not consider them to be a high value woman or a high value man.

01:34:00.000 I agree.

01:34:01.000 I don't think one is better than another.

01:34:04.000 They're both bad.

01:34:05.000 So they should both treat it badly, you know?

01:34:07.000 It doesn't matter which one you do, you're still in wrong.

01:34:10.000 So I think they both should be blamed in that situation.

01:34:13.000 Okay.

01:34:14.000 Okay.

01:34:15.000 I think we're good with the lag here as well.

01:34:17.000 So anyone else wants to do input?

01:34:19.000 Yeah.

01:34:20.000 Yeah, guys, I don't know what it is, man.

01:34:22.000 Our internet's fine.

01:34:23.000 It's a stream yard, bro.

01:34:24.000 It's 100% stream yard because our internet is, we're getting like 700 up and then what for down?

01:34:29.000 Like 50 or 60?

01:34:30.000 Yeah.

01:34:31.000 Okay.

01:34:32.000 Count two times?

01:34:32.000 Yeah.

01:34:34.000 This is a Bible verse here.

01:34:35.000 Mark 10, 12.

01:34:36.000 KGV says, And if a woman shall put away her husband and be married to another, she committeth adultery.

01:34:42.000 That's true.

01:34:43.000 All right.

01:34:45.000 Ice513.

01:34:45.000 Can you ask the girls if their son came to them and told them that their girl said, if you get a paternity test, I'm leaving you.

01:34:51.000 What would be their advice to their son?

01:34:53.000 That's a good one.

01:34:54.000 Wait.

01:34:55.000 Like, if she got pregnant... 0.98

01:34:56.000 So he's saying, if his girl, if your son's girl came to them and said, hey, you know what?

01:35:00.000 I don't do your test.

01:35:01.000 I'm going to leave you if you ask me to do a test.

01:35:03.000 What would you say to your son?

01:35:04.000 Girl, you're going to be single. 1.00

01:35:06.000 Let's start here.

01:35:07.000 Sorry.

01:35:09.000 You can ask the girl to sign me.

01:35:10.000 So your son is going to tell his girl...

01:35:14.000 No, actually, hold on.

01:35:16.000 If your son was in an issue where he told her, you need a paternity test, but he said, I'm going to leave you, what would you do? 0.98

01:35:26.000 Nigga. 1.00

01:35:26.000 Yeah, like, be for real. 1.00

01:35:28.000 Like, you just put yourself in the fucking hole. 1.00

01:35:32.000 Like, oh, I'm gonna leave you. 1.00

01:35:33.000 Because a secure man don't give a shit. 0.99

01:35:36.000 Like, realistically, if you know you got nothing to hide, like, what is you scared for? 0.99

01:35:40.000 Like, you're only doing the most if you have something to hide in the first place.

01:35:43.000 You're just taking that extra step and be like, oh, you don't trust me.

01:35:47.000 Like, that's where the manipulation and toxicity comes in.

01:35:49.000 You don't trust me.

01:35:50.000 Like, you think that... 1.00

01:35:51.000 Like, I was like, bullshit, basically. 1.00

01:35:55.000 Okay. 1.00

01:35:56.000 Yeah, he gotta leave because that's not his son.

01:35:58.000 Like, why she's scared of him taking the paternity test?

01:36:02.000 That's a rare flag.

01:36:04.000 Yeah.

01:36:04.000 Yeah, if you say something like that, like, doesn't...

01:36:07.000 Aren't you kind of like proving that you already did something wrong?

01:36:11.000 Like, you wouldn't say it otherwise, you know?

01:36:13.000 So you wouldn't have a problem with it yourself?

01:36:15.000 Me?

01:36:15.000 I wouldn't ask that.

01:36:16.000 I mean...

01:36:18.000 But let's say your boyfriend asked you to do it.

01:36:19.000 Yeah.

01:36:20.000 Would you have a problem with it?

01:36:20.000 What if?

01:36:21.000 No.

01:36:22.000 No?

01:36:22.000 You sure?

01:36:24.000 So you sound kind of nervous.

01:36:27.000 What about you?

01:36:28.000 I wouldn't have an issue taking a paternity test.

01:36:30.000 Forget about it! 0.55

01:36:32.000 You would?

01:36:32.000 No, I wouldn't.

01:36:33.000 You wouldn't?

01:36:33.000 I would take it and then I'd be like, ha, I told you, it's your kid.

01:36:36.000 What would you tell your son?

01:36:37.000 Your son, the girls, telling him, if you ask me that, I'm going to leave. 0.98

01:36:42.000 Oh, well.

01:36:43.000 Bye.

01:36:43.000 Have fun raising the kid by yourself.

01:36:45.000 Okay.

01:36:47.000 Turn into Goku.

01:36:50.000 I would take the paternity test. 0.93

01:36:52.000 No, but what would you tell your son in this scenario?

01:36:54.000 His girl gave him the ultimatum.

01:36:55.000 If I take the paternity test, I'm leaving you.

01:36:59.000 Oh yeah, 100%.

01:37:00.000 Leave?

01:37:01.000 Yeah.

01:37:02.000 Okay.

01:37:03.000 What about you?

01:37:03.000 Leave?

01:37:04.000 Leave. 0.99

01:37:05.000 Okay, are the rest of you guys agree?

01:37:07.000 Leave?

01:37:08.000 Not really.

01:37:09.000 I don't think so.

01:37:10.000 You don't think you should leave?

01:37:10.000 I think a relationship is more...

01:37:13.000 To the mic.

01:37:13.000 I think a relationship is about emotions and a bond and a connection.

01:37:18.000 And if the girl really feels like the guy is for him, in this case my son, and their relationship is above and beyond of...

01:37:26.000 Who had sex with who and who is the real father of the kid, biological father, then I believe that it should be like that. 0.76

01:37:36.000 So you think that he should be willing to take care of somebody else's kid, possibly?

01:37:40.000 Yes.

01:37:41.000 Yes, I do think that.

01:37:42.000 What age range are we speaking here?

01:37:45.000 Like a grown man taking care of another grown man's kid, possibly.

01:37:49.000 Just because he loves this woman.

01:37:51.000 Are we talking about, like, in our...

01:37:52.000 Like early adulthood?

01:37:54.000 Like early 20s?

01:37:55.000 Or are you talking about like later in life when you're settled?

01:37:58.000 I don't care really about the age range.

01:38:00.000 I think that it doesn't really...

01:38:02.000 So you would stay with your man if he cheated?

01:38:04.000 Yes, I would.

01:38:05.000 Why?

01:38:07.000 Because our connection is an emotional bond and it's not really about... 0.99

01:38:15.000 So, are you okay with your man being emotionally connected to you and he's telling you all this great shit like, I love you, I'll never leave you, I won't spend the rest of my life with you, but he's telling another bitch the same script. 0.99

01:38:28.000 Because then... 0.99

01:38:28.000 If it's a script, if I feel like it's personal to me... 0.99

01:38:32.000 What makes it personal to you?

01:38:34.000 Like, he said he likes your eyes or something?

01:38:36.000 Maybe.

01:38:37.000 If he likes the way I think, if he likes the way...

01:38:40.000 It's just my mind works.

01:38:42.000 You know what's crazy? 1.00

01:38:45.000 Him say the same shit to... 1.00

01:38:48.000 Bro, everyone knows how to get into a woman's head. 1.00

01:38:51.000 You know what I'm saying?

01:38:53.000 You know what I mean?

01:38:56.000 It's so common we know what girls want. 1.00

01:38:59.000 They want that emotional security.

01:39:00.000 They want to know...

01:39:02.000 You're always going to be here for me and you're going to be here when I have a shoulder to cry on. 1.00

01:39:07.000 Anybody can do that shit. 1.00

01:39:09.000 Who hurt you? 1.00

01:39:11.000 Hold on, we just glossed over something really important.

01:39:16.000 Just so I make sure I understand this correctly.

01:39:20.000 You're okay with your potential daughter-in-law cheating on your son.

01:39:26.000 Yes, I am, if I really do believe that the relationship is more than that.

01:39:32.000 If they've been together for years, for example.

01:39:35.000 Okay, so in this instance, right?

01:39:37.000 So clearly, if the son is saying, I want you to take a paternity test, it clearly matters to him that he is the father of the child, which is why he's willing to risk the relationship to ask him, would you still have that same mindset like, hey, you should still raise that kid even though it's not yours?

01:39:53.000 Yes, I would still say that to my son because I would think that he would also need a second look at that.

01:39:59.000 What makes you think that that's like the solution to the situation is to accept infidelity, accept raising a child, which is a big responsibility, by the way, that you're on the hook for financially, emotionally, etc.

01:40:10.000 What makes you think that, like, where does that mindset come from?

01:40:13.000 If my son, for example, has always dreamt of raising a kid with the perfect partner.

01:40:19.000 She ain't perfect.

01:40:20.000 That's subjective.

01:40:22.000 To you, she's not perfect.

01:40:25.000 Let's let her fully speak and get her thought out. 1.00

01:40:27.000 Please go ahead.

01:40:30.000 Maybe the girl is really more to him and maybe I see that the relationship is more than that and he should take into consideration that maybe it's worth it.

01:40:42.000 Maybe it's worth it to raise another I think what she means is she doesn't believe in physical cheating, but she believes in emotional cheating.

01:40:58.000 So if you're emotionally only connected to one person, but you're physically with others, I think that's what she's okay with.

01:41:06.000 Does it matter to you if it's physical or emotional or no?

01:41:12.000 Yes, it does.

01:41:13.000 And relationships can be both monogamous and not.

01:41:16.000 Do you care that it's emotional?

01:41:19.000 In the case, I believe that the question just assumed that the relationship between them was monogamous.

01:41:27.000 And in that case also, I do feel like my son should really consider taking a paternity test and staying with the woman. 0.98

01:41:38.000 And I would give him that advice.

01:41:39.000 Regardless of if the child's his or not?

01:41:41.000 Yes.

01:41:42.000 So let me ask you this.

01:41:43.000 You said that emotional cheating is worse, right?

01:41:45.000 Yeah.

01:41:46.000 Well, let me...

01:41:47.000 Let's go a step further.

01:41:49.000 Wouldn't it be fair to say that for a woman to cheat on her man, she needs to be emotionally invested into other individuals to a significant degree? 0.99

01:41:56.000 Yes.

01:41:57.000 Okay.

01:41:57.000 So wouldn't that be one of the highest forms of treachery and betrayal when we know that for men it's just strictly physical, but for women they need a physical component and an emotional component, which kind of contradicts what you said?

01:42:10.000 How does it contradict what I said?

01:42:12.000 Because you're saying that...

01:42:13.000 In one hand, you're saying, yeah, emotional cheating is not acceptable.

01:42:16.000 But what I'm arguing is that when women cheat, it must be emotional to a significant degree because women are emotional lovers more generally than men are.

01:42:25.000 So for a woman, let me make it simple.

01:42:27.000 The threshold for a woman to cheat requires emotional investment. 1.00

01:42:34.000 Versus for men, we don't need emotional investment.

01:42:36.000 I'll do it.

01:42:36.000 Oh, she hot?

01:42:37.000 For women, they need cognitive stimulation. 1.00

01:42:39.000 They need emotional stimulation.

01:42:40.000 They need to feel a certain way.

01:42:42.000 So that's why cheating for women has been generally unacceptable since the beginning of time. 1.00

01:42:47.000 Because for women, it's harder for them to cheat than it is for men in general. 0.62

01:42:52.000 Maybe I just don't really agree with that.

01:42:54.000 I see sex as separate to what emotions are to both genders.

01:42:59.000 And I don't think it just applies to men.

01:43:00.000 But for women in general, emotions always tie into sex. 1.00

01:43:04.000 Not always.

01:43:05.000 I'm a woman.

01:43:06.000 Okay. 1.00

01:43:08.000 So do you just fuck anybody then? 1.00

01:43:10.000 I'm a female and I don't feel like I need to have an emotional connection with a person. 1.00

01:43:16.000 But do you just fuck anybody though, is my question. 0.99

01:43:19.000 I don't need an emotional connection for that. 1.00

01:43:21.000 That means you're popping pussy. 1.00

01:43:26.000 Don't try to devalue her as a woman though. 1.00

01:43:28.000 If she wants to do that, that's not devaluing. 1.00

01:43:31.000 You could pop your pussy for your husband. 1.00

01:43:32.000 Let me ask this then. 1.00

01:43:35.000 Okay, so you're okay with just having casual sex then. 0.74

01:43:37.000 Okay, what about the rest of the women on the panel? 1.00

01:43:39.000 Do you need some type of emotional investment before you have sex with a guy in general? 0.72

01:43:42.000 Yes, definitely.

01:43:43.000 Can we get a raise of hands just to show?

01:43:45.000 Okay, so that's the majority of women. 1.00

01:43:46.000 So you might be an outlier.

01:43:47.000 You might not need it.

01:43:48.000 But what I'm saying in general is that the reason why cheating for women is generally unacceptable is because it takes more of a threshold for a woman to have sex.

01:43:57.000 That's right.

01:43:58.000 In general.

01:43:59.000 You should be married if you do that. 0.64

01:44:01.000 Take it a step further.

01:44:03.000 Wait, what's sex?

01:44:04.000 I respect that. 0.96

01:44:05.000 I'm so horny that I couldn't wait for elective marriage. 0.89

01:44:09.000 There's different thresholds for different women, but I think the bottom line here is that women need an emotional connection in general to have sex. 1.00

01:44:16.000 So since they need an emotional connection, for a woman to cheat on a man is a higher form of treachery than for a man to cheat on a woman. 0.94

01:44:23.000 Because for men, it's physical.

01:44:24.000 For women in general, it's emotional and physical. 1.00

01:44:27.000 Well, we can tell from her prior answers about the question about her dating status.

01:44:31.000 I mean, she's okay with not even seeing homeboy and being in love.

01:44:37.000 Yeah, I mean, hold on.

01:44:37.000 Wait, but Fresh...

01:44:38.000 That's actually a good point.

01:44:39.000 Thank you.

01:44:39.000 Thank you, Fresh.

01:44:40.000 You're in a relationship right now where there's no physical contact, but you're emotionally invested.

01:44:44.000 Ooh.

01:44:45.000 Like I've never been before.

01:44:46.000 But does that not prove my point that women need emotional stimulation to be aroused by an individual to some degree? 0.91

01:44:53.000 Even though you're saying on one end, right?

01:44:55.000 Okay, I can just do it physical.

01:44:56.000 Right now, you're in a non-physical situation that's still highly interested in this male.

01:45:00.000 Yeah.

01:45:02.000 Yes, but it's just a case that you described for a guy.

01:45:08.000 Like, I can love a guy.

01:45:11.000 She's emotional.

01:45:12.000 It's just purely emotional.

01:45:14.000 But that's a female trait is what I'm trying to say. 1.00

01:45:16.000 Men don't love the way that you do.

01:45:19.000 No, that's your main chick. 1.00

01:45:21.000 That's your main chick that you love, you know?

01:45:22.000 And your side chicks that you just kind of don't care about.

01:45:25.000 But they would never be a main chick if I was just talking to them emotionally.

01:45:30.000 Okay, I'm just going to say it. 1.00

01:45:33.000 The guy at his age is probably fucking other girls. 1.00

01:45:35.000 Let me just keep it a million with you. 1.00

01:45:36.000 He's probably having sex with other girls because men don't get the same fulfillment from emotional stimulation that women do. 0.92

01:45:43.000 For you, you can go ahead and be sexless and be like, you know what, maybe I'll just finger myself to you or something like that because the cognitive stimulation is enough for you, for women. 1.00

01:45:52.000 For him, he's going to still need some type of, he needs some buses, not physically somehow. 0.73

01:45:56.000 So since you're not there to fulfill that, he's probably getting it done either through porn or through other women.

01:46:01.000 I'm actually comfortable with that.

01:46:03.000 And that's fine, but you're missing my point.

01:46:05.000 And I know he would also be.

01:46:06.000 But you're missing my point.

01:46:07.000 Of course he would.

01:46:09.000 You're missing my point that you are able to be fully fulfilled through just emotional stimulation while he needs physical stimulation.

01:46:16.000 Facts.

01:46:17.000 No, I don't see that, actually.

01:46:19.000 I see it as equal.

01:46:21.000 Both me and my partner.

01:46:22.000 You don't see that, but he's back home decking off someplace. 0.99

01:46:26.000 Or having sex with another girl. 0.99

01:46:27.000 Sure. 1.00

01:46:28.000 Now you guys gotta put all that negativity on her man. 1.00

01:46:31.000 Maybe he's really loyal and he's... 0.99

01:46:34.000 You didn't fuck a guy for a month, right? 1.00

01:46:37.000 And you're horny as fuck all the time. 1.00

01:46:39.000 So, which one was it? 1.00

01:46:41.000 No, that was like a while back when I was a virgin.

01:46:46.000 Beyond that, going back to the question, I think that because your son did not sign up to make that commitment, hypothetically speaking, Yeah,

01:47:02.000 I mean, it's a commitment.

01:47:03.000 It is a big thing to have a kid.

01:47:05.000 Yeah, maybe he wants a kid, but did he want a kid then?

01:47:07.000 Were they trying for a kid?

01:47:08.000 You know what I mean?

01:47:08.000 You don't know.

01:47:09.000 In that situation, if he's asking for a paternity test, you would hope that it would be because maybe he had some sort of strange feeling or things have been off.

01:47:18.000 So regardless, he did not commit possibly to having that kid.

01:47:22.000 And I feel like nobody should be put in that position.

01:47:25.000 And kind of like literally branching off of the conversation that we were having earlier of a high-value man, a woman's common agreement of like a high-value man is someone who like risks Like, holds himself a certain way, acts a certain way.

01:47:40.000 Like, obviously, there's, like, you know, these standards for a high-value man.

01:47:44.000 So, like, my question to you is, would you kind of consider your man to be high-value?

01:47:48.000 Because, for me, what...

01:47:50.000 This is not shame you keep in mind.

01:47:51.000 This is kind of what I'm seeing is, like, I feel like for you within...

01:47:55.000 With you within your relationships, you don't value respect to be one of your standards.

01:47:55.000 My God.

01:48:00.000 Because me, personally, if a man thinks it's okay to... 0.65

01:48:04.000 If we made an agreement, like...

01:48:06.000 Yeah, this is what we are.

01:48:07.000 We're together.

01:48:08.000 We're exclusive.

01:48:09.000 This, that, and a third. 1.00

01:48:10.000 If he thinks that it's cute to go and fuck other bitches because he wants to satisfy himself, that's disrespecting me. 1.00

01:48:15.000 That's disrespecting my wishes. 1.00

01:48:16.000 That's disrespecting me as a woman because I'm holding myself to a certain stance of I am not going to cheat.

01:48:22.000 I'm not going to do this, that, and a third with other people.

01:48:25.000 So I expect it from you.

01:48:26.000 And I guess that's kind of like what you were saying. 0.99

01:48:29.000 Like, oh, if he goes in and has sex with other girls, that's fine because I can go having sex with other guys. 0.89

01:48:34.000 So is that kind of your way of saying like, Your relationship is basically like an open relationship?

01:48:41.000 No, you just have different moral standards for your partners, probably.

01:48:46.000 If my partner would be talking to other people, like he talks to me, he'd be on the phone call.

01:48:52.000 Is your guy Muslim?

01:48:53.000 No, no.

01:48:55.000 Is he Arab?

01:48:56.000 Yes.

01:48:57.000 Okay.

01:48:57.000 Makes sense.

01:48:58.000 Do you think...

01:49:00.000 And let's be honest here.

01:49:01.000 Do you think if you guys were in a relationship and you got pregnant by another man that he would stick around?

01:49:09.000 I'll answer it for you.

01:49:10.000 The answer is no.

01:49:11.000 I'm from that part of the world.

01:49:12.000 The answer is profound.

01:49:13.000 Haram!

01:49:14.000 He would absolutely leave you in an instant.

01:49:16.000 Because everyone in his family would make fun of him.

01:49:18.000 Everyone ridicule him.

01:49:19.000 There'd be a shame on the family. 1.00

01:49:21.000 He would absolutely leave you.

01:49:22.000 I believe that the relationship is really personal and intimate, and it's between two people and another...

01:49:28.000 Yeah.

01:49:29.000 Yeah, but see, here's the thing, you're from Holland.

01:49:31.000 Holland's a very liberal country, very leftist, you know, egalitarian, very equal.

01:49:36.000 The part of the world that he's from isn't like that.

01:49:39.000 So even if he might have some of these beliefs or whatever, the way he's raised, his cultural background...

01:49:45.000 I mean, I'm from that part of the world.

01:49:47.000 He's absolutely going to leave you because it's going to bring big shame to him and his last name.

01:49:51.000 Maybe his mom wouldn't let him do that.

01:49:52.000 What was that?

01:49:53.000 I said maybe his mom wouldn't let him do that.

01:49:55.000 No, his mom wouldn't even let him do that.

01:49:56.000 Like, if she was saying, what the hell are you doing to Hamada, like, what are you doing?

01:49:59.000 But I feel like...

01:50:02.000 But my thing, all I'm trying to say is that, and I've talked about this before, maybe a controversial take.

01:50:07.000 If a girl cheats on you, it's over. 1.00

01:50:09.000 The relationship no longer exists because men don't ask for much from women.

01:50:12.000 Sexual exclusivity is the number one thing that men require in a relationship from most women.

01:50:18.000 And then on top of that, to raise another man's child is unacceptable because not only are you on the hook financially and emotionally, the woman can leave you and take the kid and you have no rights to the kid. 0.82

01:50:30.000 Also...

01:50:30.000 I mean, matter of fact, I'll take it a step further.

01:50:32.000 Do you guys know why men hate hoes? 1.00

01:50:35.000 Why, Mar?

01:50:36.000 Why do men hate hoes? 1.00

01:50:37.000 Why?

01:50:38.000 Because it's for this very situation.

01:50:40.000 Not her, not her.

01:50:41.000 It's because a man's biggest fear...

01:50:43.000 Well, you know what?

01:50:43.000 Let me equate it so that the women really understand.

01:50:46.000 What is your deepest, darkest fear?

01:50:48.000 You.

01:50:49.000 Um...

01:50:50.000 I can't say it.

01:50:52.000 You know what?

01:50:53.000 Let me go ahead.

01:50:53.000 I think I'll go anywhere.

01:50:55.000 All right.

01:50:55.000 Go switch over to Rumble real quick, guys.

01:50:57.000 We're going to go over to Rumble.

01:50:58.000 I'll read the rest of the chats there.

01:50:59.000 Let's go to Rumble.

01:51:00.000 Because I'm going to give a functional equivalent here.

01:51:02.000 You can say no, though.

01:51:02.000 Yeah.

01:51:03.000 Hold on.

01:51:04.000 Go ahead.

01:51:04.000 Come on over to Rumble, guys.

01:51:06.000 Come on over.

01:51:07.000 All right.

01:51:07.000 You can say no.

01:51:08.000 You're good.

01:51:08.000 And I think I can speak for all the ladies at the table.

01:51:10.000 Getting raped in an alley by a weirdo in a mask, maybe some horror movie type shit. 1.00

01:51:13.000 That's exactly what I was going to say. 1.00

01:51:14.000 Not even just me, but my nieces, like the young girls in my family.

01:51:20.000 But I mean to you, to physically, to you, that probably would be that, right?

01:51:23.000 In an alley by some weirdo in a Jason mask, whatever, right?

01:51:26.000 Fair enough. 1.00

01:51:27.000 And I would argue that's most women's fear in general, some serial killer shit. 1.00

01:51:30.000 Cool. 0.99

01:51:32.000 Every man's deepest fear, that's the functional equivalent, Is raising a kid that they find out later on isn't theirs.

01:51:40.000 Just like you.

01:51:41.000 Let that sink in!

01:51:42.000 Let that sink in!

01:51:44.000 Because women need to understand the same pain. 1.00

01:51:47.000 Just like you don't want to get raped and killed in an alley by some dude in a fucking Jason mask on Friday the 13th at midnight. 1.00

01:51:54.000 What? 1.00

01:51:56.000 No?

01:51:57.000 Okay.

01:51:59.000 Just like you don't want that to happen to you, a man doesn't want to raise a kid that he thought was his and finds out that kid isn't his.

01:52:08.000 That's our biggest fear.

01:52:09.000 That's just a dumb fear, honestly, because there's bigger things in the world like dying. 1.00

01:52:14.000 You can die and you're worried about another bitch having a kid on you. 1.00

01:52:19.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on. 1.00

01:52:21.000 All I'm doing is giving you a functional equivalent. 1.00

01:52:23.000 Would I say that you're stupid for being scared of a man that's bigger? 1.00

01:52:27.000 I didn't call you dumb. 1.00

01:52:28.000 I said that's dumb. 1.00

01:52:29.000 Not you're dumb. 1.00

01:52:29.000 No, but that's dumb. 1.00

01:52:31.000 What I'm saying is that what if I said that your fear of a man that's stronger, more powerful than you, etc., killing you and you can't do anything about it? 0.98

01:52:39.000 Would that be...

01:52:41.000 I'd sound ludicrous if I said that, right?

01:52:43.000 Because that's a very rational fear for you.

01:52:44.000 You're entitled to your opinion.

01:52:46.000 Okay.

01:52:46.000 No, no.

01:52:46.000 It's not an opinion.

01:52:47.000 It's a general...

01:52:51.000 When a guy holds you down and rapes you and kills you, you can't do anything because he's physically superior to you. 0.96

01:52:57.000 When a woman, okay, has a child and someone else inseminates her and then she makes me raise that kid and I'm on the hook to pay for that kid, I'm being raped because I can't do anything about it. 0.99

01:53:09.000 Unlike you, you know the kid is yours. 0.92

01:53:11.000 I don't know if the kid is mine.

01:53:12.000 Do you understand?

01:53:14.000 I don't think that's the same equivalence, but maybe.

01:53:17.000 I don't know.

01:53:18.000 That's your biggest fear.

01:53:20.000 That is most men's biggest fear.

01:53:22.000 Because the thing I'm trying to do is I'm trying to give you a functional equivalent because men and women are not equal. 0.94

01:53:26.000 We view the world differently.

01:53:28.000 We have different viewpoints.

01:53:29.000 We have different experiences.

01:53:31.000 What's scary to me might not be scary to you.

01:53:33.000 You're scared of men attacking and killing you.

01:53:35.000 We aren't necessarily scared of that to that degree because I'm capable of defending myself.

01:53:39.000 However, I'm not capable of defending myself against a vindictive woman that might have sex with another individual and now I'm on the hook for raising that kid and I did not know.

01:53:48.000 It's not the same.

01:53:49.000 Hold on, hold on.

01:53:50.000 I need you to exercise a little bit of critical thinking and understand that men and women are not the same. 0.95

01:53:55.000 I'm giving you an analogy so you understand.

01:53:57.000 I have to give you the female equivalent so you feel the pain so I can give you the male equivalent because we have different viewpoints.

01:54:03.000 That's fine, but she could raise her son to be such a noble man that regardless if his wife or whatever did cheat and he wanted to take the responsibility of raising that kid, that is a high value man to me.

01:54:17.000 He had no choice.

01:54:18.000 No!

01:54:19.000 You always have a choice.

01:54:20.000 You always have a choice.

01:54:21.000 You were held down and things happened to you.

01:54:24.000 No, no, no, no, no.

01:54:26.000 Noble, right?

01:54:27.000 Yeah.

01:54:28.000 Do you have high standards in men?

01:54:29.000 Yeah.

01:54:30.000 What kind of guy do you want? 0.78

01:54:33.000 I want a man that can teach me things.

01:54:35.000 Okay.

01:54:36.000 You want a man that makes more money than you? 1.00

01:54:37.000 Yep.

01:54:37.000 It doesn't matter.

01:54:39.000 I would hope so.

01:54:40.000 Shorter than you?

01:54:41.000 Yeah.

01:54:42.000 You said teach you things, so more competent than you?

01:54:43.000 Yeah.

01:54:45.000 Okay.

01:54:46.000 More status than you?

01:54:47.000 That doesn't matter.

01:54:48.000 Stop the cap. 0.94

01:54:50.000 Either way, you want a guy that's better than you in most metrics, correct?

01:54:54.000 How about you be noble and go date the homeless guy downstairs?

01:54:57.000 I could.

01:54:58.000 That's not a problem.

01:54:59.000 Hold on, hold on, but why don't you do it, though?

01:55:01.000 I don't have the time right now to do that.

01:55:03.000 Oh, and I don't have time to raise kids that aren't mine.

01:55:06.000 That's a choice, exactly. 1.00

01:55:08.000 I'm tired of this shit because women will sit there And shame you for having standards and certain parameters on female behavior, but you guys will never take that same stupid nobility that y'all talk about. 1.00

01:55:20.000 A woman will say, be noble, raise a kid that's not yours, but you ain't dating no homeless guy. 1.00

01:55:24.000 And that's why men and women are different, like you said. 1.00

01:55:26.000 You're not helping out these fucking weirdos that are schizophrenic, that are weirdos, that need to get sex. 1.00

01:55:30.000 You're not helping out these school shooters that don't get laid. 1.00

01:55:32.000 You're not helping out these motherfuckers out here. 1.00

01:55:34.000 That literally are virgins at 30 years old. 1.00

01:55:36.000 You're not being noble and giving them some female attention, but you expect me to sit there and give my provisioning, my security, and all my capabilities that I work my ass off to some bitch that wants to be a hoe? 1.00

01:55:46.000 Where's your nobility? 0.98

01:55:47.000 So you mentioned choice, right?

01:55:50.000 Like you said earlier, what was the choice?

01:55:52.000 You're getting held down, things happening to you.

01:55:54.000 You don't have a choice.

01:55:55.000 Her lying to me and not telling me the truth, I don't have a choice either.

01:55:58.000 Because I can't walk away if I don't know the truth.

01:56:00.000 So there's no choice there.

01:56:01.000 At all.

01:56:02.000 Let's put it in this perspective.

01:56:03.000 We never tell women to be noble and look the other side and get with a guy that's lesser than them.

01:56:07.000 We never tell women to be noble and go ahead and get with a guy that's less attractive or makes less money.

01:56:11.000 No, we tell women, you deserve the world. 1.00

01:56:13.000 But if a guy comes in and says, I don't want to marry a fucking hoe and I bust my ass to get to this point to have the standard. 1.00

01:56:17.000 No! 1.00

01:56:18.000 Be noble.

01:56:19.000 Man up.

01:56:20.000 Raise that kid as it is in New York. 1.00

01:56:22.000 Wife up that whore. 1.00

01:56:24.000 Take her seriously. 1.00

01:56:24.000 Give her a wedding ring even though she made poor decisions in the past. 1.00

01:56:27.000 No, fuck that shit. 1.00

01:56:28.000 Just like you are not going to settle with a loser, I'm not going to settle with a hoe. 1.00

01:56:32.000 And I think it's perfectly acceptable for men to have standards as well. 0.99

01:56:35.000 But we demonize male standards and shame them and tell them to be noble and accept female fuckery. 0.99

01:56:39.000 No! 1.00

01:56:40.000 Absolutely not.

01:56:41.000 Here's the change of perspective, though.

01:56:43.000 Instead of using the word raped or whatever, let's use the word ripped, okay?

01:56:48.000 Why do men do that? 0.95

01:56:50.000 Why do men do that to women? 0.99

01:56:51.000 Why do men rape women? 1.00

01:56:52.000 It literally is like a turn-on for them. 0.99

01:56:55.000 They find pleasure out of it, obviously, because that's their strength.

01:56:59.000 As a male, they're Their strength is their physical strength, their mentality. 0.58

01:57:06.000 There are a lot of things that men have that women don't, and they take advantage of it. 1.00

01:57:11.000 That gets them off. 0.95

01:57:13.000 So when women get raped, they're ripped of their vulnerability because that's what women have. 1.00

01:57:20.000 Think about it. 0.98

01:57:21.000 The...

01:57:22.000 Not vulnerability, but women bear children. 1.00

01:57:25.000 Men can fuck that up. 1.00

01:57:27.000 They can fuck up their uterus, right? 1.00

01:57:28.000 So you're taking away the quote-unquote prize of women bearing children. 1.00

01:57:35.000 Men can't bear children on their own. 0.97

01:57:36.000 It's the same as women doing that to men, making them raise their kid. 1.00

01:57:41.000 They're literally put on this pedestal of, oh, now you have to be a fucking father. 0.99

01:57:45.000 And you're like, okay, now I have to step up. 0.99

01:57:47.000 I have to be a father.

01:57:48.000 I have to...

01:57:48.000 Change my career plans.

01:57:49.000 I have to change what I'm doing with my life.

01:57:51.000 I have to change where I put my money to.

01:57:52.000 You're changing your entire life.

01:57:53.000 Let's say we're talking about, like, mid-20s, right?

01:57:55.000 So you have to change your entire life to surround your now woman, your now kid. 1.00

01:58:00.000 Like, this is a huge responsibility. 0.99

01:58:02.000 Like, this is a family that you're basically trying to build by your damn self because that's what you're expected of a man. 0.99

01:58:07.000 So come, like, three years later, not even, three months later. 0.98

01:58:11.000 That means that I'm letting the plan finish the point.

01:58:15.000 That's what that sounds like.

01:58:16.000 Okay.

01:58:16.000 The kid isn't yours, so now all of that that makes you worthy is stripped of you.

01:58:21.000 Basically what she's saying is she's agreeing with our point.

01:58:26.000 It was a long-winded way of saying it, but she's saying a woman loses her vulnerability, a man loses her resources, and both parties are being raped of their commodity, is what she's trying to say.

01:58:33.000 But it still doesn't take away the choice, though.

01:58:36.000 It still doesn't take over the choice.

01:58:37.000 If you want, you can leave her.

01:58:39.000 If you want, you can help her with the kid.

01:58:41.000 Most of the time, the guy doesn't know the kid is there.

01:58:45.000 If you tell me the truth, I can make a choice.

01:58:48.000 If I don't know the truth, I can't.

01:58:50.000 I agree with that. 0.99

01:58:53.000 At the end of the day, a man doesn't bust his ass, right? 0.99

01:58:56.000 Make money, right? 1.00

01:58:57.000 To fucking pass on his legacy to a kid who's not his. 0.98

01:59:02.000 Because if I'm like, you know what? 1.00

01:59:03.000 I'm gonna die one day and have, like, you know, shit going on for me. 0.99

01:59:07.000 You know what I'm saying? 1.00

01:59:08.000 All of a sudden, if my girl tells me, yo, this kid's not yours, then who the fuck am I gonna pass this shit on to? 1.00

01:59:13.000 You know what I'm saying? 1.00

01:59:14.000 Because I want to make sure as a man...

01:59:17.000 That this kid is mine, so he has the same ideals, the same values that I have, more or less. 1.00

01:59:22.000 So if you're fucking around, let some random guy put his penis inside your vagina and squirt on that shit, you're allowing him to do that to you. 1.00

01:59:32.000 You're trying to say something? 1.00

01:59:33.000 Go ahead.

01:59:33.000 Yes, the child gains their values based on how you raise them, so...

01:59:38.000 Still, you would have influence on how the child would develop to be.

01:59:42.000 Also, would your opinion change on that if the woman did get raped? 0.96

01:59:46.000 If my son's girlfriend did get raped? 0.95

01:59:48.000 No, no, no. 0.96

01:59:48.000 Hold on, hold on. 0.96

01:59:49.000 Hold on, hold on.

01:59:50.000 Ladies, ladies. 0.99

01:59:51.000 The rape scenario was strictly to demonstrate how men feel when they raise a child that isn't theirs.

01:59:58.000 I asked you what's your deepest fear. 0.99

01:59:59.000 Most of you agreed, being sexually assaulted by a weirdo.

02:00:02.000 Okay, a man's deepest fear, most of the time, is raising a kid that they thought was theirs and finding out it's not. 0.93

02:00:08.000 That's the functional equivalent.

02:00:10.000 That's all I illustrated that for.

02:00:12.000 I think some ladies here on the panel understand.

02:00:14.000 But I had to do that so you can feel the pain.

02:00:18.000 Yeah, I understand your point.

02:00:19.000 But I was saying, what if my son's girlfriend did get raped and the truth was just too painful for her to able to tell him?

02:00:26.000 Well, then she needs to tell him the truth.

02:00:28.000 Tell the truth.

02:00:59.000 Sorry about that, guys. 0.91

02:01:02.000 You were saying that what if the daughter got raped?

02:01:06.000 That's where she's got to be honest.

02:01:07.000 That's where I would say that's one exception to the rule.

02:01:10.000 Let's be honest here.

02:01:11.000 Rates account for only about 3% of pregnancies.

02:01:14.000 I feel like that's very similar, though, to men taking in women that already have children, because if you're over the age of 25, it's most likely that you have a child, whether you're a man or a female.

02:01:24.000 So whether you go and date that person, you have to take the accountability of knowing this guy has a six year old daughter or this girl has a two year old son.

02:01:33.000 So it's like, what's the difference, really?

02:01:35.000 We're talking about they're in a relationship.

02:01:36.000 It was presumed to be monogamous.

02:01:38.000 He says, yo, I want a paternity test.

02:01:40.000 She says, I'm leaving.

02:01:41.000 And she's saying, well, it's okay.

02:01:42.000 You should accept the kid, even if it's not yours.

02:01:44.000 And I'm arguing that's not in the man's best interest.

02:01:47.000 That's not what men want. 0.98

02:01:48.000 And I would argue that that's the functional equivalent to being raped, raising a kid that isn't yours. 0.99

02:01:52.000 Mm-hmm. 0.88

02:01:52.000 Because men and women are very different in how we view things. 0.88

02:01:55.000 Now, what you said about raising a child going into a relationship, I tell guys all the time, don't take single mothers seriously. 1.00

02:02:03.000 Like, it's not in your best interest as a man.

02:02:05.000 And when you look at it from a pragmatic standpoint, right, if you come in, you're responsible for taking care of that child, you're responsible for raising that child, protecting that child, provisioning for that child, etc.

02:02:13.000 You have all the responsibility without any authority. 0.98

02:02:17.000 I can't even slap that kid if he fucks up. 0.97

02:02:18.000 It's not my kid. 0.99

02:02:19.000 It's not my kid.

02:02:20.000 So what is the responsibility without authority?

02:02:25.000 It's slavery. 0.97

02:02:26.000 I'm responsible for this kid, but I can't even exert what I want on that child.

02:02:30.000 Now I get what you're saying.

02:02:31.000 No, it's not like that. 0.99

02:02:32.000 But most women, if the child isn't yours, and you come into the relationship, and you smack that kid for being an idiot, she's going to say, don't hit my kid, and I can't discipline the kid the way that I want. 1.00

02:02:41.000 And that's a problem. 0.99

02:02:42.000 Because I'm responsible for the kid, but I can't even raise him the way that I want.

02:02:45.000 So it's slavery.

02:02:46.000 So I tell guys, it's not in your best interest to raise a child that isn't yours.

02:02:49.000 Well, and another thing is, like, I've read, like, statistics on that, and, like, I believe that it's most households where there's child abuse is a single-parent household where another parent has stepped in.

02:03:04.000 Yeah.

02:03:05.000 That doesn't even account for all the issues with stepfathers, etc.

02:03:08.000 Well, that's including stepfathers.

02:03:10.000 And also, if the kid doesn't like you, he can say, Mom, he hit me!

02:03:13.000 You ain't my dad!

02:03:15.000 Uncle...

02:03:15.000 Chris hit me, Mom!

02:03:17.000 You weren't home! 0.99

02:03:18.000 Damn right! 0.98

02:03:19.000 Hold on, she was trying to say something. 0.98

02:03:20.000 You were trying to say something.

02:03:21.000 Go ahead.

02:03:22.000 No, I believe that a step-parent would also have to size authority over the kid.

02:03:27.000 Assuming the original biological parent allows it.

02:03:31.000 Yes, and they would allow it if the relationship is truly...

02:03:33.000 You say that, right?

02:03:35.000 Have you ever dated a single mother?

02:03:38.000 I have friends that have.

02:03:41.000 I'll tell you this right now, right?

02:03:42.000 I don't know what you call it.

02:03:44.000 Maybe call it mother instinct, but whenever a child is with a different person that's not their parent, instinctively, the woman says, you know what?

02:03:53.000 This is my kid.

02:03:55.000 They go into flight mode.

02:03:56.000 If the other person, in any form or fashion, wants to punish that kid, and it doesn't align with their values, instantly she's like, no, stop it.

02:04:05.000 Don't talk to my kid because that's her value. 0.94

02:04:07.000 I would just say, you say that now, but in the moment of it happening, she's going to want to protect her kid at all costs.

02:04:12.000 Most women that are with a stepfather are going to have an issue with that father displaying the kid in certain ways, unfortunately. 1.00

02:04:19.000 That's just how it is.

02:04:20.000 It's an innate reaction.

02:04:23.000 Yeah, I mean...

02:04:24.000 I mean, I'm sure her stepfather can't do certain things that her biological father can do.

02:04:29.000 100%. 1.00

02:04:29.000 Damn. 1.00

02:04:33.000 100%. 1.00

02:04:34.000 Imagine a bear and her cup.

02:04:40.000 You think she's going to let some random person touch her cup? 1.00

02:04:42.000 No!

02:04:42.000 That's what it is.

02:04:44.000 A bear would also protect the cup from the biological mother. 0.57

02:04:49.000 But even more so, not the parent.

02:04:52.000 Imagine that.

02:04:53.000 No, it's not even more so actually.

02:04:55.000 A mother would protect their child or also their husband or the biological father of the kid. 0.88

02:05:00.000 She's taking your example literally.

02:05:03.000 He made that example to illustrate that it's the mother bear tendencies to protect the child at all costs.

02:05:09.000 Yes, but the example is ridiculous actually because it doesn't... 1.00

02:05:11.000 Oh shit, ridiculous. 0.98

02:05:14.000 I mean, because I could relate, like, my parents were divorced, but my dad had, like, I had a stepmom, and she put her hands on me, and my mom was not okay with that. 0.99

02:05:21.000 She wanted to go to the cops and stuff, but I told her, like, at the time, I was only, like, 16, I was like, don't go to the cops, because that's just going to be more drama for me, you know?

02:05:30.000 Like, so, my mom had to take that pain of knowing that her daughter was getting hit by, like, a stepmom, and my dad didn't care.

02:05:37.000 My dad was like, you deserve to be hit, you know?

02:05:40.000 So, it's different. 0.97

02:05:42.000 So, why did your mom hit you?

02:05:43.000 He was right.

02:05:45.000 I'm just kidding.

02:05:47.000 Well, you got it from the opposite angle, which is a rare situation.

02:05:52.000 But it's normally the other way around.

02:05:54.000 Because the thing is that the mother typically isn't Supposed to be the disciplinarian. 0.94

02:05:59.000 Supposed to be the father's job. 0.86

02:06:00.000 My voice said that fathers keep daughters off stripper poles and sons out of jail. 0.72

02:06:04.000 It's a dad's job to discipline their child a lot of times.

02:06:07.000 So when you bring in a stepfather, they're effectively stripped of one of their predominant roles as a dad. 0.99

02:06:11.000 What the fuck would you do, man? 0.99

02:06:12.000 Yeah. 1.00

02:06:13.000 Like twerking?

02:06:14.000 Yeah, yeah. 1.00

02:06:14.000 What the fuck do you do? 1.00

02:06:16.000 What the fuck do you do? 1.00

02:06:17.000 I ain't no mom to hit your ass. 1.00

02:06:19.000 Yeah, like... 1.00

02:06:20.000 What are you doing?

02:06:21.000 Tell me.

02:06:22.000 I invited a boy over to the house.

02:06:28.000 That's not my mom. 1.00

02:06:31.000 My dad has the okay to hit me, but not a woman that didn't push me out her vagina. 1.00

02:06:38.000 Hold on, hold on. 1.00

02:06:39.000 She made the right move because as a woman, she knows that your value is tied to your sexuality. 1.00

02:06:44.000 So she was right to smack your ass. 1.00

02:06:45.000 But I was a virgin at the time. 1.00

02:06:47.000 That don't matter. 1.00

02:06:50.000 You deserve to be slapped even more. 0.98

02:06:54.000 She's right because guess what? 1.00

02:06:55.000 She was a virgin at the time.

02:06:56.000 That's not her mom though.

02:06:59.000 I get it. 0.99

02:06:59.000 She deserved to get slapped. 0.99

02:07:01.000 But it's not her mom. 0.96

02:07:04.000 So now you guys pick and choose who gets to put hands on children.

02:07:08.000 No, no.

02:07:09.000 That's a good point, me.

02:07:10.000 Yes!

02:07:11.000 Hey, listen.

02:07:12.000 You're a hoe, you know, like, you know, growing up, right? 1.00

02:07:14.000 So your mom was like, yo, listen, you're a virgin, right? 0.74

02:07:16.000 And you were fighting boys over.

02:07:18.000 Listen, I used to be a teacher.

02:07:21.000 So it's like, it starts from there, you know what I'm saying? 0.98

02:07:23.000 Like, you can't be out here and find the boys, like, to your house and shit like that because your mom knew better. 0.98

02:07:28.000 Because she was a hoe, well, what's up, mom? 1.00

02:07:30.000 She was a hoe back in the day, so she's like, you know what? 1.00

02:07:32.000 Like, let me be like the, you know, like, step up and, you know, and not...

02:07:37.000 Make you be the person that she was.

02:07:41.000 You guys have two different stances here.

02:07:46.000 He's saying that the stepparent isn't going to have the same authority to discipline the child from a physicality standpoint.

02:07:50.000 And then he's saying that your stepmother was right in disciplining you in a physicality standpoint because you were potentially going to have sex and lose your virginity, which would lower your value to a potential mate in the future.

02:08:04.000 That's why your stepmother acted in the way that she did, knowing that you're a virgin. 1.00

02:08:08.000 It's like, what the fuck are you doing? 1.00

02:08:09.000 You're potentially throwing your future away, and you're hurting yourself. 1.00

02:08:12.000 That's why she slapped you physically. 0.85

02:08:14.000 And also, put it in reverse.

02:08:16.000 Which I think was valid, by the way.

02:08:17.000 If it was a guy that hit her, he would go to jail.

02:08:22.000 Because he hit you.

02:08:24.000 In that instance right there, any step-parent could be liable for like...

02:08:28.000 Get in trouble.

02:08:29.000 Just because they're a step parent. 1.00

02:08:30.000 Even though it's right because you're fucking up. 0.99

02:08:32.000 I think that overprotective parents create hoe children though. 1.00

02:08:37.000 I feel like I came into my I was doing crazy things because of how sheltered I was growing up.

02:08:45.000 There's a saying where a pastor's daughter or son always ends up being the worst because they're too coddled and too sheltered. 0.99

02:08:52.000 So once they get outside, they're like, oh shit, I'm going to go crazy. 1.00

02:08:55.000 You got a point there. 0.99

02:08:56.000 I don't know if I agree.

02:08:58.000 I don't know if I agree because I know people that have been raised super conservatively and they've turned out amazing.

02:09:04.000 I think this is an excuse.

02:09:06.000 But generally, look at pastors' sons and daughters.

02:09:09.000 I mean, I know a pastor's daughter.

02:09:10.000 No, no, you know one.

02:09:11.000 But generally, how do they act?

02:09:14.000 That's one family.

02:09:15.000 That's a lot of kids.

02:09:16.000 Look at the general population of pastor's daughters and sons.

02:09:20.000 My mom raised me, right?

02:09:23.000 And she raised me as a single mom.

02:09:24.000 And I was not raised like a pastor's daughter.

02:09:27.000 I mean, you raised me well.

02:09:28.000 But she exposed me to some crazy stuff. 0.52

02:09:30.000 And I turned out the complete opposite from her beliefs.

02:09:33.000 I mean, therapy at 10?

02:09:35.000 But I mean, I have very conservative beliefs in certain ways.

02:09:39.000 And so you didn't raise me that way.

02:09:40.000 You didn't raise me to believe in purity or any of these things.

02:09:43.000 I actually just took it from observation of what was going on outside.

02:09:46.000 I'm like, oh my gosh, I'm scared of what these kids are doing.

02:09:49.000 And I don't want that life.

02:09:51.000 I would argue, though, that you have high critical thinking skills.

02:09:53.000 So you were able to kind of be like, mm-mm, sun's off here.

02:09:56.000 And environment plays a role too, right?

02:09:57.000 Like a lot of times when these people live in like...

02:10:00.000 With restrictive parents that don't let them do certain things, but all their friends are doing it, then they want to do it.

02:10:05.000 But if you're like in an Amish community and you don't know any better, you're like, hey, electricity, what is this? 1.00

02:10:10.000 You're just chilling, but you don't see nobody else with iPhones.

02:10:13.000 You're going to appreciate it a little bit more. 0.91

02:10:15.000 I mean, the whole thing with the Password Bros is like, yo, you have a girl in Columbia, you ain't bringing her to the United States because feminism and all this other shit.

02:10:22.000 They're going to indoctrinate her and she's going to lose the values that made her attractive to you in the first place. 0.99

02:10:26.000 I tell y'all, if you guys are going to go foreign, you better stay your ass over there foreign. 1.00

02:10:28.000 Because environment does play a role. 0.96

02:10:30.000 Did anyone else have anything on this topic before?

02:10:33.000 I have one last thing.

02:10:35.000 Keep it surface level.

02:10:37.000 When it comes to discipline, it also comes out of love.

02:10:40.000 You can't really look at your step-parent disciplining you as a sense of, I'm just trying to control you.

02:10:46.000 That step-parent is trying to earn your love and earn it through your biological parent as well. 0.98

02:10:53.000 That biological parents see that you don't give a fuck about what my child does. 0.99

02:10:57.000 They lose their relationship and you already lose that stepfather. 0.99

02:11:00.000 I don't feel like you need to put your hands on a child to show them you love them.

02:11:04.000 I'm not saying that at all.

02:11:06.000 My parents never put their hands on me, but it's a sense of discipline.

02:11:09.000 I think kids need to be beat.

02:11:10.000 I genuinely think children need to be beat. 0.96

02:11:12.000 And the reason why is because there's no better... 0.81

02:11:16.000 There's no better teacher of bad behavior than violence, unfortunately.

02:11:20.000 If you look at the civilized world that we're in right now, right?

02:11:25.000 It's a monopoly of power.

02:11:26.000 The military, the police, etc.

02:11:27.000 You behave and follow laws because you know that there's physical consequences if you choose not to do so. 0.99

02:11:32.000 I think parents need to be that monopoly of power and almost behave that way as if they're the police or military and get their children in line because pain is one of the best reinforcements That you're fucking up, unfortunately. 0.97

02:11:44.000 I hate to say that. 0.98

02:11:45.000 It's even in the Bible. 1.00

02:11:48.000 I'm not saying beat the shit out of your kids. 1.00

02:11:51.000 What I am saying is that sometimes they need to be smacked. 1.00

02:11:53.000 Sometimes they need to know, hey, this is not acceptable.

02:11:55.000 Voices need to be raised, etc.

02:11:57.000 I mean, I was beat as a kid and it taught me a lot.

02:11:59.000 It kept me away from doing drugs. 1.00

02:12:01.000 It kept me away from being an alcoholic, being a loser, doing any of this stupid shit. 1.00

02:12:05.000 Listen, bro, I'm from the Caribbean, bro. 1.00

02:12:07.000 You get your ass beat. 1.00

02:12:08.000 You're messing up. 0.99

02:12:16.000 I think, you know, just like the military and the police have the monopoly of power, the parents need to be the same.

02:12:23.000 Because if your parents don't exercise being a monopoly of power on you early on, well, the police are going to do it for you, and then it's too late.

02:12:29.000 Now you've got a criminal history.

02:12:30.000 Now you're in jail.

02:12:31.000 Now you're in and out.

02:12:33.000 Now you can't get a real job, etc. 0.99

02:12:34.000 If your father is in that first front line of defense smacking the shit out of you, who's going to smack you next? 0.99

02:12:39.000 A police officer. 1.00

02:12:39.000 And then you're going to jail. 1.00

02:12:41.000 And then there's no coming back from that.

02:12:43.000 There's no criminal history record.

02:12:44.000 No FBI number generated.

02:12:46.000 Rolling your fingerprint when your dad slaps you.

02:12:48.000 But there definitely is one when the police get you.

02:12:54.000 We have Leprecoon.

02:12:56.000 He says, please send this to Chris.

02:13:01.000 Shout out to Chris and I'm our producer Let Chris Henny.

02:13:07.000 Are you sober?

02:13:10.000 Tipsy.

02:13:12.000 So you're on the way.

02:13:14.000 What?

02:13:15.000 Go ahead, read.

02:13:16.000 I can't understand what you're saying.

02:13:17.000 No, fine.

02:13:18.000 Awesome.

02:13:19.000 Okay.

02:13:20.000 Love Inc.

02:13:21.000 What's good, fellas?

02:13:22.000 To the Angry Beavers, what body type would you prefer for your dream man?

02:13:26.000 In shape, make a 30k per year.

02:13:28.000 Dad bod, make a 70k a year. 0.95

02:13:30.000 Or an obese piece of ish. 1.00

02:13:33.000 Well, you mean shit. 1.00

02:13:34.000 Make a 100k. 1.00

02:13:35.000 Then, based on your pick, do you think you'll be an asset or burden?

02:13:39.000 Let's go.

02:13:40.000 Okay, ladies, real quick. 1.00

02:13:41.000 What would you pick?

02:13:42.000 Starting from you.

02:13:43.000 30k a year.

02:13:44.000 In shape.

02:13:45.000 Dad bod, 70k.

02:13:46.000 Fresh.

02:13:46.000 Or obese, 100k.

02:13:48.000 Every time Maren is not on a panel, you always start over here, okay?

02:13:51.000 Let's start over here so Maren can get enough chance, you know, to sit over here, okay? 1.00

02:13:55.000 Just as a producer.

02:13:56.000 This is your show.

02:13:57.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:13:58.000 So it's over here.

02:14:00.000 Thank you, Mo.

02:14:01.000 Six.

02:14:01.000 I mean, two?

02:14:02.000 No, six.

02:14:04.000 Okay.

02:14:05.000 Let's start here.

02:14:06.000 Thank you.

02:14:06.000 What would you choose?

02:14:09.000 These don't mean a lot to me.

02:14:11.000 I make my own money, so I don't really see the value.

02:14:14.000 If you had to make a choice, which one would you choose?

02:14:16.000 Generally.

02:14:19.000 One emotionally available for me.

02:14:21.000 Okay, out of these three, which one?

02:14:23.000 Let's say they're all emotionally available for you.

02:14:28.000 Um...

02:14:29.000 Today.

02:14:29.000 Yeah, 30k per year.

02:14:31.000 30k?

02:14:32.000 Yeah.

02:14:33.000 Maybe they're really happy with themselves.

02:14:35.000 You know, take care of themselves.

02:14:37.000 Okay, I guess you're independent.

02:14:38.000 Well, with all due respect, you're 20, right?

02:14:42.000 Yeah.

02:14:42.000 20 years old.

02:14:44.000 Would it be fair to say that you're a liberal?

02:14:45.000 Yeah.

02:14:46.000 Egalitarian.

02:14:47.000 She's from a very liberal country.

02:14:49.000 Makes her own money.

02:14:50.000 It will change when she gets... 0.65

02:14:51.000 She'll get more conservative when she gets older. 0.91

02:14:53.000 With time.

02:14:54.000 30k won't be enough.

02:14:55.000 When she's 25, it's gonna be, ah, you know, I'm tired of making all the money. 1.00

02:14:58.000 This shit sucks. 1.00

02:14:59.000 Well, those emotions will pay the bills, you know, so... 1.00

02:15:01.000 I'm a socialist.

02:15:02.000 Shout out to emotions.

02:15:03.000 You're what?

02:15:04.000 So...

02:15:04.000 Oh, okay.

02:15:05.000 Even worse.

02:15:06.000 Even worse.

02:15:07.000 Socialist.

02:15:07.000 Okay.

02:15:07.000 What about you?

02:15:08.000 Wait, do you want to stay in the United States?

02:15:10.000 Do you plan to stay here or are you going to go back to Holland?

02:15:12.000 I'm just traveling.

02:15:13.000 Yeah.

02:15:14.000 I'm going to go back in two weeks.

02:15:16.000 Okay.

02:15:16.000 All right.

02:15:16.000 So you don't plan to stay in the United States or a capitalistic country long term?

02:15:20.000 Maybe in the future.

02:15:23.000 Traveling alone.

02:15:24.000 Nice.

02:15:25.000 Alright, what are you?

02:15:26.000 I literally hate this question because I don't want any of these men.

02:15:30.000 But if I had to choose, I guess, dad bods.

02:15:36.000 Dad bod making 70k a year.

02:15:39.000 But I always say I hate that.

02:15:41.000 Middle of the road in all aspects.

02:15:43.000 I guess.

02:15:44.000 I don't know.

02:15:45.000 Well, you want a 645 Chad with a great body and a millionaire?

02:15:49.000 No, I take it back.

02:15:50.000 I take it back.

02:15:50.000 If I'm going to be settling, I guess just do it all the way.

02:15:53.000 And then, like, obese guy.

02:15:56.000 Unfortunately.

02:15:58.000 If I'm going to be settling either way, then at least give me, like, more money, I guess.

02:16:07.000 Who's kicking the back? 0.89

02:16:09.000 It's Chris!

02:16:10.000 It's Chris!

02:16:16.000 There's a switch in the back.

02:16:17.000 Stop kicking it.

02:16:25.000 What?

02:16:37.000 It's a switch.

02:16:38.000 What about you?

02:16:39.000 Oh, I want to pass.

02:16:40.000 You can't pass.

02:16:41.000 You gotta choose one.

02:16:42.000 I gotta stay obese guy.

02:16:50.000 The need for security overrides all.

02:16:53.000 Okay.

02:16:53.000 For women, dude.

02:16:56.000 I'll let all the girls go and then I'll give my quotes here. 0.87

02:16:59.000 Synopsis?

02:17:00.000 Yeah.

02:17:00.000 Okay.

02:17:00.000 For you?

02:17:02.000 I'd probably have to go dad bod.

02:17:05.000 I don't think I could.

02:17:07.000 Stomach.

02:17:07.000 The other stomach.

02:17:09.000 But, I mean, yeah, $30,000, that's...

02:17:12.000 That's pitiful.

02:17:13.000 That's not going to get us this far.

02:17:14.000 Obviously, he doesn't have the ambition to do anything about it, so he's probably not going to be able to keep that body as he ages, so... 0.79

02:17:20.000 Yeah, he's a bum. 0.50

02:17:21.000 Like Chris. 0.74

02:17:22.000 I don't know.

02:17:22.000 I just couldn't physically get past the obese thing.

02:17:25.000 I don't think I could do it.

02:17:26.000 Okay.

02:17:27.000 Sorry, Mo.

02:17:28.000 I'm gonna save the obese man.

02:17:30.000 The obese man?

02:17:31.000 I'm gonna save him.

02:17:32.000 I'm gonna make him lose weight.

02:17:34.000 Okay.

02:17:34.000 What if he doesn't want to lose weight?

02:17:35.000 I'm gonna make him.

02:17:36.000 How?

02:17:37.000 You can't make somebody do something that they don't want to do.

02:17:39.000 I want to work out every day in front of him. 0.98

02:17:43.000 I was originally going to go with the obese man as well but then once I realized that if you help him get skinny and he's making that amount of money he might cheat on you so I'm going with the dad bod because the dad bod you can help him get like thinner but then you can also help him make a hundred thousand and then if you help him increase his like revenue and you help him lose weight he might just fuck with you forever all right Beyonce I get it, 0.97

02:18:11.000 but nobody's safe.

02:18:13.000 Did you say you want a guy that can mentor you?

02:18:17.000 Wouldn't it be kind of contradictory to be with a man that needs your help to make more money?

02:18:23.000 You can't only provide value through money, though.

02:18:26.000 You can provide value spiritually, emotionally, mentally.

02:18:33.000 Because most guys don't believe in God, so I like a guy that talks to me about God and stuff like that.

02:18:38.000 No, they believe in God.

02:18:39.000 They just don't believe in Scorpios and crystals and star signs.

02:18:41.000 I'm a Scorpio, so I don't know what that means.

02:18:44.000 What's my sign?

02:18:46.000 You're a Libra. 1.00

02:18:48.000 What the fuck? 1.00

02:18:49.000 Are you? 1.00

02:18:49.000 I am a Libra. 1.00

02:18:50.000 I'm a psychic, so...

02:18:51.000 No way.

02:18:54.000 She said I'm a psychic. 1.00

02:18:56.000 What the fuck? 1.00

02:18:58.000 That's funny. 1.00

02:18:59.000 I'm a Libra rising.

02:19:00.000 Oh, you're my soulmate then?

02:19:02.000 No, not at all.

02:19:03.000 I'm just kidding.

02:19:04.000 Just kidding.

02:19:05.000 Okay, it's scary.

02:19:06.000 Okay, no, no, no.

02:19:06.000 Hold on, hold on.

02:19:07.000 Yo, she got your ass. 1.00

02:19:09.000 What is he? 1.00

02:19:10.000 Yeah, what is he?

02:19:12.000 He might be an Aquarius.

02:19:15.000 Oh! 0.60

02:19:17.000 Is he?

02:19:19.000 That's wild.

02:19:20.000 Is he an Aquarius wolf?

02:19:22.000 Nah, that's wild.

02:19:25.000 Look, man.

02:19:27.000 I'm just trying to understand.

02:19:29.000 He is?

02:19:30.000 I knew it.

02:19:31.000 Aquarius is my moon.

02:19:32.000 So that's the toxic, and that's the, like, I don't know.

02:19:36.000 So then, what's the Pluto?

02:19:42.000 He already said what he was.

02:19:43.000 He said he's a Taurus.

02:19:45.000 What's Moe in the back?

02:19:48.000 Moe, where are you?

02:19:51.000 What's Moe?

02:19:54.000 He might be an Aries. 1.00

02:19:55.000 No?

02:19:56.000 Or a Cancer.

02:19:58.000 Nope.

02:20:00.000 Two out of three.

02:20:03.000 So she was wrong on Moe.

02:20:04.000 There you go.

02:20:06.000 Um...

02:20:07.000 What I was trying to get at was, if you want a guy, I'm trying to understand how the spirituality and everything else would help them earn more money.

02:20:16.000 It wouldn't help them earn more money, but...

02:20:18.000 That was specifically what you said.

02:20:20.000 You said, I would get a guy in this bracket because I'd help him make more money.

02:20:25.000 That's specifically what you said.

02:20:26.000 Yeah, and then you were saying, don't you like a guy that could teach you things?

02:20:29.000 But I didn't say a guy who could teach me how to make more money, just a guy who could teach me things, period.

02:20:33.000 So although he might not be educated on finances, he can provide value in other aspects, and then I can provide the value for the finances.

02:20:41.000 Do you realistically want that, though?

02:20:43.000 I don't mind.

02:20:46.000 It's not about, do you mind?

02:20:48.000 Would you realistically want to be with a man that you make more money than you're teaching him how to make money?

02:20:56.000 Unless we're making, like, a business together and it makes sense, then yeah.

02:21:00.000 But if he's not really...

02:21:01.000 I don't know.

02:21:02.000 It's harder when they make less money than you because I feel like you're providing more, you know?

02:21:06.000 Yeah.

02:21:07.000 I'm sure.

02:21:09.000 What I'm saying is that basically...

02:21:12.000 You know what?

02:21:13.000 We'll continue on because...

02:21:14.000 Go ahead.

02:21:16.000 With all due respect, you said a bunch of nonsensical things that don't necessarily align with how the world works.

02:21:21.000 Spirituality isn't gonna make you more money.

02:21:23.000 If you look at...

02:21:24.000 You said that you're psychic earlier.

02:21:26.000 What if I walked around and said I was a warlock? 0.97

02:21:27.000 You would look at me like I'm a retard, right? 0.79

02:21:29.000 No, not at all. 1.00

02:21:30.000 There's witches and shit like that that exists. 1.00

02:21:33.000 You know what? 0.99

02:21:33.000 You got this! 0.99

02:21:34.000 Cast that spell! 1.00

02:21:34.000 Let me go on a date and tell girls I'm a fucking warlock. 1.00

02:21:37.000 They might think you're a little bit cooler now. 1.00

02:21:41.000 But this goes to show.

02:21:43.000 46? 0.99

02:21:43.000 That female lunacy is absolutely acceptable in society. 0.99

02:21:47.000 If I went around and said, I'm a warlock, everyone would laugh at me, ridicule me, I wouldn't get any dates, rightfully so, and I would have limited dating options. 0.88

02:21:55.000 But women go around and say, oh, what's your moon sign? 1.00

02:21:58.000 I'm a psychic, blah, blah, blah.

02:21:59.000 And we accept it.

02:22:01.000 Better yet, men sit there and play along. 1.00

02:22:03.000 They just were fucking what you say. 1.00

02:22:04.000 Oh, what's the sun sign to say? 1.00

02:22:14.000 We don't give a fuck about your star signs. 1.00

02:22:16.000 We don't believe in any of this shit. 1.00

02:22:17.000 You want to know why? 1.00

02:22:18.000 Because star signs and saying that we're warlocks isn't going to get us pussy. 0.99

02:22:21.000 It's not going to help us make more money because men have to live in a fact-based reality. 0.99

02:22:24.000 My competency is the only thing that stands between me and mediocrity.

02:22:29.000 One more time.

02:22:30.000 My competency as a man is the only thing that stands between me and mediocrity.

02:22:34.000 Women can afford to be mediocre because your looks can get you a guy that's competent. 1.00

02:22:38.000 We can't afford to do that.

02:22:39.000 So we have to live in a fact-based reality where performance matters.

02:22:43.000 And I'm not saying this to make fun of you, but the reason why you can have a loony belief system like that is because you're a fairly attractive woman and... 1.00

02:22:51.000 Attractive women don't have to live in reality, unfortunately. 1.00

02:22:52.000 A guy can come in and save you.

02:22:54.000 We don't get that privilege. 0.99

02:22:55.000 So I can't sit here and say I'm a fucking warlock. 0.98

02:22:56.000 Well, I will say one thing, though. 0.99

02:22:59.000 There's something called Star Sang Game.

02:23:01.000 So if you can match the Star Sang with the girl that you're dating, it might give you a better chance because you're just going to troll her the whole time, though.

02:23:07.000 You know what?

02:23:09.000 I'm going to do an experiment.

02:23:10.000 I'm going to walk around and start telling girls I'm a warlock. 0.99

02:23:12.000 I want to see what happens.

02:23:13.000 Yeah, do it.

02:23:13.000 You know what?

02:23:16.000 It's not what you say, though.

02:23:17.000 It's how you say it.

02:23:17.000 Okay, you know what?

02:23:18.000 We can play a game.

02:23:18.000 I'm going to say I'm a warlock.

02:23:19.000 You say you're a psychic.

02:23:21.000 Let's see who gets more of the opposite gender. 1.00

02:23:23.000 I'm going to say I'm a lawnmower.

02:23:24.000 She's absolutely going to destroy me. 0.99

02:23:25.000 I'll be a lawnmower.

02:23:28.000 How dare you, Myron? 0.57

02:23:29.000 I'm anorexic. 0.52

02:23:30.000 Yeah, yeah.

02:23:30.000 Yeah, you're fantastic.

02:23:32.000 So, yeah.

02:23:33.000 So, yeah.

02:23:33.000 No, you're absolutely going to...

02:23:34.000 Does that not show...

02:23:37.000 Think about this. 0.98

02:23:39.000 I'm not even saying this shit to, like, brag or whatever, but, like, international podcaster, famous, right? 0.99

02:23:45.000 If I went around and told girls I'm a warlock, and then you, right, like, maybe not the same social media presence, whatever, you walked around and said, you're a psychic, you're going to absolutely smoke me and still get more dates than me. 0.99

02:23:55.000 Like, let that sink in!

02:23:57.000 Like, we both play the lunacy game, I have more status, etc., the things that women find attractive, but I'm still gonna limit myself by saying I'm a warlock. 0.84

02:24:06.000 Does that not prove that men have to live in reality? 0.77

02:24:09.000 I'm not actually a psychic, so I don't know.

02:24:20.000 About me?

02:24:21.000 What would I choose?

02:24:22.000 Yeah, what would you choose?

02:24:23.000 I would choose the dad bod as well.

02:24:25.000 So, I think I'm pretty conservative.

02:24:28.000 Like, I believe in, you know, monogamous relationships and I have a boyfriend and stuff like that.

02:24:35.000 But I also want to be a lawyer and I want to make my own money.

02:24:38.000 So, I feel like if he's making $70,000 a year, and let's say I make about the same, we make a good living, and at the same time, of course, I will be helping go to gym just like everyone else said, but...

02:24:48.000 Yeah, I really believe that you can balance both as a woman.

02:24:52.000 I don't think high-value women necessarily means that you just have to look good. 0.99

02:24:57.000 I think you can balance the things, you can make a career, and you can start an awesome family.

02:25:01.000 All right, so you're what, 20?

02:25:03.000 20, yeah.

02:25:04.000 20?

02:25:04.000 Okay.

02:25:05.000 I mean, as a lawyer, you do have to work long hours, you know, being in a courthouse or whatever.

02:25:11.000 So can you really think that you can be a lawyer, study and everything, and still raise a family?

02:25:17.000 Yes, I believe so.

02:25:19.000 Well, let me ask you a better question. 0.97

02:25:20.000 Are you more comfortable being a mediocre lawyer or a mediocre mom? 1.00

02:25:25.000 Good question. 0.98

02:25:29.000 I don't know, actually.

02:25:31.000 Okay.

02:25:32.000 Well, that's a very important question because you're going to be one of them if you choose to be a lawyer.

02:25:35.000 I'm telling you that right now. 0.61

02:25:37.000 You're going to have to either be a mediocre mom or a mediocre lawyer. 1.00

02:25:41.000 That's the truth. 0.99

02:25:43.000 Yeah, you can't.

02:25:45.000 Let me tell you why.

02:25:47.000 You're going to go to the law firm.

02:25:49.000 There's going to be men that don't have to go home at 5 o'clock.

02:25:52.000 There's going to be men that are trying to make partner.

02:25:54.000 There's going to be men that are willing to do whatever's required to become better.

02:25:58.000 And then there's going to be single women that don't have kids that are going to be willing to do whatever's required. 1.00

02:26:02.000 So you've got to ask yourself, do you want to be a great lawyer who's going to put the hours in to make partner and be a shitty-ass mom because you're not home? 0.97

02:26:09.000 Or are you going to be a great mom but be a shitty-ass lawyer that's got to leave at 3 o'clock because you've got to pick up the kids from daycare? 1.00

02:26:14.000 Hmm. 0.99

02:26:15.000 Does it also apply to men?

02:26:16.000 Huh?

02:26:17.000 Does it also apply to men?

02:26:19.000 No, it doesn't because a man isn't...

02:26:23.000 A father, right?

02:26:26.000 The need to be there as a father isn't as high as for a mother, especially in the children's formative years.

02:26:33.000 Yeah, depends, I guess.

02:26:35.000 Like, a mother's a superior nurturer than a father in the formative years as a child. 0.83

02:26:39.000 Like, you want the mom there over the father.

02:26:43.000 Like, the father has to go out there and earn the money.

02:26:45.000 Yeah.

02:26:46.000 But then the first thing that people say whenever, like, girls are acting up when they start getting into their teen years is, like, you must not have a dad.

02:26:52.000 That's true.

02:26:54.000 Oh, what did I say before?

02:26:55.000 The dad comes in as a disciplinarian.

02:26:58.000 That's true.

02:26:58.000 That's why fathers are critical in the teenage years.

02:27:01.000 Yeah.

02:27:01.000 So do you think that even if a girl does have a present father, but he doesn't put his hands on her, that that changes that relationship?

02:27:11.000 Well, I think the mom needs to be the shit out of the daughter. 1.00

02:27:16.000 The dad could maybe slap here or there or whatever, but I think Zaman has got to step in and slap her once she becomes a teenager or whatever. 1.00

02:27:24.000 Or tag-team that chick. 1.00

02:27:26.000 Tag-team my sister.

02:27:31.000 You're next!

02:27:35.000 She's a doctor now.

02:27:36.000 She's successful.

02:27:37.000 She figured it out.

02:27:38.000 Is she happy, though?

02:27:39.000 No, she is.

02:27:41.000 But yeah, she got a guy, so she figured it out.

02:27:44.000 But yeah, so which one?

02:27:46.000 Pick one. 0.96

02:27:46.000 Mediocre mom or mediocre lawyer then? 0.96

02:27:48.000 I can't. 0.91

02:27:48.000 I mean, see, I think that... 0.91

02:27:50.000 Pick one.

02:27:51.000 I can't pick one. 0.99

02:27:52.000 I hope it's mediocre lawyer, man. 0.97

02:27:54.000 Yeah. 1.00

02:27:54.000 Goddamn. 1.00

02:27:55.000 I mean, human life is obviously more valuable than a job, so I guess I gotta say mediocre lawyer. 0.99

02:28:02.000 But I do think that I can take, like, I can maybe for two years help the kid and then come back to be a lawyer again.

02:28:11.000 Why does it have to be one another?

02:28:12.000 Yeah, you can, but all the people that you came in with are going to have lapped you. 1.00

02:28:15.000 Laugh at me?

02:28:16.000 Laughed.

02:28:18.000 Laughed.

02:28:19.000 You're not gonna have as much experience.

02:28:22.000 You're not gonna have as much court, you know, litigate.

02:28:24.000 Here, the reason why I know this so intimately is because I used to be an agent.

02:28:26.000 I used to deal with lawyers.

02:28:27.000 The best prosecutors were always the single people.

02:28:30.000 Every time.

02:28:31.000 Like, it just never failed. 0.99

02:28:33.000 All the AUSAs, all the prosecutors that had families that were females, that had a husband, they were fucking gone by three o'clock, bro. 0.99

02:28:40.000 They wouldn't take no fucking cases. 1.00

02:28:41.000 They wouldn't do shit. 1.00

02:28:42.000 They were lazy as fuck. 1.00

02:28:44.000 The best prosecutors were always either men that were single or women that were, you know, career-oriented and didn't have children like that or didn't have young children. 1.00

02:28:53.000 Top doctors, too.

02:28:54.000 Yeah, which is how it goes.

02:28:55.000 I have a question.

02:28:56.000 Yeah.

02:28:57.000 So if you're saying that she'd be a mediocre lawyer, but, like, if her husband is providing, well, at 70K, I don't know, with kids. 0.98

02:29:07.000 I don't know.

02:29:08.000 But I'm just wondering, like, is it a problem to, like, in a mediocre, when you say mediocre lawyer, do you mean not helping the clients to the fullest extent or not excelling in the career?

02:29:18.000 Because apparently that doesn't matter anyway.

02:29:20.000 If I was a defendant and I needed to defend myself in a penalty case, I would absolutely not hire a female attorney that had young children. 1.00

02:29:28.000 Okay.

02:29:29.000 And me as an agent, when I wanted the best prosecutors, I had a serious conspiracy case, I wouldn't go to a prosecutor that had young children.

02:29:37.000 I would always go to the single guy or to the older AUSA that has older children that are in college.

02:29:43.000 Then I'd be like, okay, she can do it.

02:29:44.000 I'm not saying women aren't capable of the job. 1.00

02:29:45.000 Some of the best AUSAs have worked with women, but they never had young children.

02:29:49.000 That's fair.

02:29:52.000 Cool.

02:29:52.000 Anything else?

02:29:54.000 Okay, mediocre lawyer. 0.94

02:29:55.000 What was the question? 0.97

02:29:57.000 What?

02:30:00.000 No, 30k, 70k, and 100k.

02:30:06.000 I mean, in shape, I guess the skinny guys.

02:30:10.000 I love skinny guys.

02:30:11.000 They do be having third legs, so that's awesome.

02:30:15.000 But 30k, and at some point they're going to be having that body, so I guess I'm choosing that one.

02:30:23.000 Sorry, Mo.

02:30:24.000 What about you? 0.99

02:30:27.000 I would say dad bod 70k kind of for like the expected reason like you can work your way towards making more and like you can work off the dad bod and like it's really cut you're honestly like a dad bod isn't really a turnoff as long as you like you're not dad bod like flappy and disgusting like your tone you're doing something with your life you're just let's say your metabolism is just slow some dumb shit Byron doesn't believe in slow metabolism. 0.98

02:30:56.000 That's apparent. 0.96

02:30:59.000 You don't control your calories properly.

02:31:01.000 Leandra, do you prefer length or girth?

02:31:03.000 It just so happens Fresh has both.

02:31:05.000 Yes, sir!

02:31:07.000 That's me.

02:31:09.000 Oh, the psychic. 0.96

02:31:12.000 Do you predict you and Fresh fornicating later?

02:31:16.000 Fresh?

02:31:17.000 Who's Fresh?

02:31:18.000 Tammy! 0.99

02:31:19.000 Tammy! 0.99

02:31:24.000 You're darker than me! 0.79

02:31:27.000 I don't want you either!

02:31:30.000 You wear glasses inside!

02:31:33.000 You're insecure!

02:31:34.000 I don't want to see your eyes!

02:31:37.000 Thank you for wearing the glasses! 0.99

02:31:40.000 If that was a question, I like thick dicks. 0.99

02:31:46.000 Not skinny ones. 0.99

02:31:48.000 Fresh, if I was you, I would not take that at all.

02:31:52.000 Come on, Fresh.

02:31:53.000 If I was you, I would not take that at all.

02:31:56.000 As a man of God, bro, I'm just going to...

02:31:59.000 Fresh.

02:32:03.000 Fresh is a man of God who donates to the church.

02:32:05.000 Exactly.

02:32:07.000 That escalated quickly.

02:32:11.000 What is your type then, if you don't like Fresh?

02:32:14.000 Drake. 0.95

02:32:16.000 Light-skinned niggas. 1.00

02:32:18.000 No, no, no. 0.97

02:32:19.000 It doesn't matter.

02:32:20.000 But I like Drake, but I also...

02:32:22.000 I already said I like guys that can teach me things.

02:32:24.000 But I think Fresh is a misogynist.

02:32:27.000 I think all these men on these podcasts are misogynists. 0.88

02:32:32.000 All of you guys are misogynists.

02:32:34.000 Me? 0.96

02:32:34.000 Him too? 0.96

02:32:34.000 Okay. 0.96

02:32:35.000 Me too?

02:32:36.000 What about Moe?

02:32:38.000 I don't think Moe is.

02:32:42.000 Moe is behind the scenes.

02:32:43.000 Real quick, real quick, real quick.

02:32:46.000 You triggered my trap card!

02:32:48.000 What is the definition of misogyny? 0.99

02:32:50.000 That is a man who hates women.

02:32:53.000 What have we said that exemplifies hatred towards women today?

02:32:58.000 Please tell us.

02:33:01.000 I just think it's the viewpoints that you guys have when you guys say hoes and stuff because I don't think that anybody could say what a hoe really is.

02:33:12.000 That's just subjective. 0.87

02:33:15.000 By definition, a hoe is a promiscuous woman. 1.00

02:33:19.000 But it's based on what you believe promiscuous to be.

02:33:25.000 Well, I mean, here's the thing. 0.82

02:33:26.000 Having indiscriminate sex... 0.99

02:33:28.000 But, like, are you Muslim? 1.00

02:33:30.000 So your views are different.

02:33:30.000 Yes.

02:33:32.000 But I'm not necessarily a good Muslim.

02:33:34.000 Right.

02:33:34.000 I want to make that very clear.

02:33:35.000 You're, like, a non-conventional Muslim because you have multiple women that you...

02:33:39.000 Well, in Islamic faith, you can have multiple wives.

02:33:41.000 But that's a whole...

02:33:42.000 I'm not a good Muslim. 1.00

02:33:43.000 I don't claim to be.

02:33:43.000 So I will not, you know, use religion as an excuse.

02:33:48.000 But, sorry, what were you saying?

02:33:50.000 That was it.

02:33:51.000 But I'm still trying to figure out how are we misogynist?

02:33:53.000 What if we said that shows that we hate women? 1.00

02:33:55.000 I just think that you guys don't value women the way that...

02:33:58.000 I feel like no one should judge anybody.

02:34:01.000 So for you to say that a woman is a hoe is already you judging them. 0.99

02:34:05.000 And that's a fault in your character because you should just love and accept everybody for who they are.

02:34:10.000 And then if you want to figure out why you believe they are a hoe, figure out what happened to them for them to be that way. 0.99

02:34:18.000 A man can love a woman, like, regardless of that.

02:34:21.000 It doesn't matter, like, loving a hoe. 1.00

02:34:24.000 It's what benefits them in the long run.

02:34:26.000 So, I'm curious.

02:34:27.000 Have you ever called a woman a hoe?

02:34:29.000 No. 1.00

02:34:30.000 Or a bitch? 1.00

02:34:30.000 Or a slut? 1.00

02:34:31.000 People call me, like, a hoe and a slut. 0.99

02:34:33.000 So that's why I guess I'm so passionate on it. 0.98

02:34:35.000 But I don't believe that I am one.

02:34:38.000 Okay, if you're not at home, then what's your body count?

02:34:40.000 Whatever you want it to be.

02:34:42.000 Exactly.

02:34:43.000 And that's what makes you guys misogynistic because it shouldn't matter what my body count is because regardless of whether I have one body or a million bodies, right, for example, that doesn't take away from who I am as a person.

02:34:58.000 Hold on, hold on.

02:34:59.000 I'm going to break the fourth wall here.

02:35:00.000 Go ahead.

02:35:01.000 The reason why you don't want to disclose your body count is because you know deep down in the back of your brain...

02:35:06.000 No, I just don't know it.

02:35:08.000 I forgot it after like 25, honestly.

02:35:11.000 Let's keep it a stack.

02:35:13.000 That's fine.

02:35:14.000 What is your estimate then on it?

02:35:16.000 I don't know.

02:35:17.000 I don't even want to think about that, honestly.

02:35:19.000 It's less than 100, that's for sure.

02:35:21.000 Well, look, the point I'm trying to make is the reason why you don't want to disclose it or you're hesitant to disclose it or it's an uncomfortable topic for you is because women know deep down in the back of their brains that their value with finding a mate, not their human value, but their value with finding a mate, two different things, okay?

02:35:35.000 And I'm not saying your personal value.

02:35:36.000 Your value with finding a man Is intimately tied to your sexual partner account.

02:35:41.000 This is why women have an issue disclosing it, because women know that their value is tied to that. 1.00

02:35:45.000 So with that said, we can sit here and say, people shouldn't be judged, hoes are great too, etc. 0.96

02:35:51.000 But the reality is biology never lies.

02:35:54.000 Just like you want a man to be tall, to be competent, to have money, to have status, to have certain things in place, men want something in return.

02:36:01.000 A lot of the times, that's a non-promiscuous woman. 1.00

02:36:03.000 So my question is this.

02:36:06.000 Would it be fair for me to call you a misandrist? 0.96

02:36:10.000 That I hate men? 0.95

02:36:11.000 Oh, you don't even know what misandrist means. 0.57

02:36:13.000 I know. 0.67

02:36:13.000 It means the hate of women. 0.67

02:36:15.000 It's the complete opposite.

02:36:16.000 Would it be fair for me to call you a misandrist?

02:36:18.000 No, I don't hate women. 1.00

02:36:20.000 No, men. 0.51

02:36:21.000 Oh, okay, yeah, that's what I said, if I hate men.

02:36:23.000 Yeah, no, I don't hate men.

02:36:24.000 But you have standards that ostracize a bunch of men from dating you by your standards. 0.89

02:36:30.000 But she doesn't hold double standards. 0.96

02:36:32.000 Right, I've dated men that were bums, like the majority of the guys still in the same place being bums. 0.91

02:36:38.000 But they're not with you, correct?

02:36:39.000 Yeah, because...

02:36:40.000 So would it be fair to say that your standards filtered those guys out?

02:36:46.000 Yeah, but it's not based on sexuality.

02:36:48.000 It's just based on characteristics and goals and motivation and stuff.

02:36:53.000 Fair.

02:36:53.000 Characteristics and motivation, etc.

02:36:55.000 Which is what your standards are aligned with, right?

02:36:58.000 Okay.

02:36:59.000 What if a man's standards are different than yours?

02:37:01.000 Then I don't want that man.

02:37:03.000 Because I'm talking to this one guy right now and he has like more bodies than me. 0.99

02:37:07.000 He has like 135 or something, but he's confident in his sexuality and he fucks with me. 0.99

02:37:12.000 You feel me? 0.98

02:37:12.000 So I feel like a confident man is going to, regardless of whether society believes they're a hoe or not, they're going to... 0.98

02:37:19.000 Hold on.

02:37:19.000 Do you not just...

02:37:20.000 You know you just made my point for me, right?

02:37:22.000 What?

02:37:23.000 You didn't even see it.

02:37:25.000 What happened?

02:37:26.000 You literally just made my point for me.

02:37:27.000 What happened?

02:37:28.000 What's the point?

02:37:30.000 Did anyone else here in the chat just prove my point for me?

02:37:34.000 You didn't get it?

02:37:35.000 He has a lot of bodies.

02:37:36.000 That proves my point that men and women value different things.

02:37:41.000 A man with a high body count is not the same as a woman with a high body count. 1.00

02:37:45.000 That guy having sex with 130 women prepared him to be attractive to attract you.

02:37:51.000 Guys that can have sex with a lot of women have traits and are doing things correctly. 0.99

02:37:55.000 Men must have value to get sex. 1.00

02:37:56.000 Women lose value when they have sex. 1.00

02:37:58.000 Like, do you not understand that there is a double standard that exists, and men and women have different standards, and his sexuality doesn't matter to you, but your sexuality definitely matters to him?

02:38:06.000 This specific guy doesn't, though, because he's talking to her as well.

02:38:09.000 Right. 0.77

02:38:10.000 For sex only. 0.99

02:38:11.000 Yeah, for sex only. 0.97

02:38:12.000 No, not for sex only. 0.50

02:38:13.000 No, because we didn't have sex for, like, two weeks. 1.00

02:38:15.000 I mean, he was fucking all the girls, man, for, like... 0.99

02:38:19.000 We're not in a relationship, so that's okay. 0.99

02:38:21.000 Yeah, it's okay for him.

02:38:28.000 Hold on.

02:38:30.000 We gotta stop the cap, and this is why I love to ask this at the top of the show.

02:38:33.000 At the top of the show, I asked you what your relationship status was, and you emphatically said single.

02:38:38.000 I am single.

02:38:39.000 If you ask him, he says he's single, too.

02:38:41.000 But we're talking.

02:38:42.000 Talking to get to something. 1.00

02:38:44.000 You're fucking. 1.00

02:38:45.000 We are fucking. 1.00

02:38:46.000 We fucked right before this, and it was great. 1.00

02:38:48.000 Period. 0.99

02:38:49.000 Did you...

02:38:50.000 Oh, man.

02:38:54.000 Does everyone else see what's going on here?

02:38:57.000 Am I the only...

02:39:00.000 No, no, no.

02:39:00.000 Do the ladies here see what's going on here?

02:39:02.000 Yes.

02:39:04.000 I know she does.

02:39:05.000 She does. 0.99

02:39:06.000 The guy is selling you a dream to continue to have sexual access to you. 0.98

02:39:10.000 No.

02:39:11.000 I just think that he's different from you guys.

02:39:13.000 Why are the only women on the panel agreeing with what I'm saying?

02:39:15.000 Wait, what makes him different?

02:39:18.000 Because he doesn't have the same mindset that they believe.

02:39:24.000 You know what's funny about this, right?

02:39:29.000 Is that guys think like us, but they will never tell you this to your face.

02:39:33.000 He's just a different man, though.

02:39:35.000 I don't believe that he's the same to you guys.

02:39:38.000 I don't know.

02:39:39.000 I don't know.

02:39:41.000 No one knows I do this show.

02:39:42.000 I get what I want.

02:39:46.000 How old is this guy?

02:39:51.000 He's 26.

02:39:53.000 I'm 23.

02:39:57.000 I'm about to give you so much game right now. 0.94

02:39:59.000 Do you understand, for him to be at 26 years old with 130 plus sexual partners, he has to understand unflattering realities about female nature and understand, accept them, and sell a certain dream to be sexually attractive and be able to market himself to a way that you will not see him as a fuckboy? 0.89

02:40:14.000 Do you not see that? 0.90

02:40:16.000 I have a question.

02:40:18.000 I really want you to grasp this concept.

02:40:21.000 The average guy that's 18 to 30 years old hasn't had sex in a year or is a virgin.

02:40:26.000 If a man is able to have sex with 130 plus women at 26 years old, he's pretty damn good at selling the dream and telling girls what they want to hear. 0.86

02:40:34.000 Do you not think that you're another woman that he's telling what they want to hear so he's not labeled as a massager and get sexual access to you? 0.99

02:40:41.000 I feel like if I say no, you're going to call me dumb. 0.97

02:40:43.000 But I believe no.

02:40:57.000 And I want all the ladies here at the panel to take this. 0.96

02:41:03.000 If a man has over a hundred sexual partners He's going to have what you might deem misogynistic or toxic traits. 0.98

02:41:12.000 That's what makes him sexually arousing in the first fucking place. 0.98

02:41:14.000 That's not true. 0.99

02:41:15.000 It's about what you go through.

02:41:17.000 So question, what does he do for work?

02:41:19.000 I'm sorry?

02:41:20.000 What does he do for work?

02:41:22.000 Oh, he's a videographer.

02:41:23.000 He does music videos for people. 1.00

02:41:25.000 Yeah, he fucks. 1.00

02:41:27.000 He fucks. 1.00

02:41:30.000 Sorry to say it, man. 1.00

02:41:32.000 Wait, you're all right.

02:41:35.000 Yeah, baby girl, you know what?

02:41:37.000 I'm mad with God.

02:41:38.000 Wait, no, no, no.

02:41:41.000 This letter.

02:41:42.000 This letter.

02:41:43.000 It don't even matter.

02:41:45.000 This letter.

02:41:46.000 I don't think so.

02:41:47.000 It's a T. It's not L. It's T? It's a T. Does he do rap videos?

02:41:55.000 Yeah, Drew.

02:41:57.000 Drew filmed it?

02:41:58.000 No, no, no!

02:42:00.000 I said T, you're gonna say D? Oh, I think...

02:42:04.000 No.

02:42:06.000 Does he know Drew filmed it?

02:42:08.000 I don't know.

02:42:09.000 I just met him like two weeks ago.

02:42:12.000 Wait, wait, wait.

02:42:14.000 You said you met the guy that you're talking to two weeks ago?

02:42:17.000 Yeah.

02:42:17.000 Oh, girl.

02:42:18.000 I'm sorry.

02:42:19.000 Get out of there.

02:42:20.000 In any case, this is funny because you call a misogynist, but...

02:42:26.000 Your own life shows that you like misogynists.

02:42:28.000 I live a wild life, but I've met enough men that I know that this guy is the one.

02:42:34.000 No, maybe not the one, but he's different from all the other men that I've met.

02:42:38.000 I do want a relationship with him.

02:42:40.000 If we didn't do this show, you wouldn't know anything about us.

02:42:43.000 You assume off of clips that you've seen about us.

02:42:45.000 I've actually really never watched the podcast, to be honest.

02:42:47.000 But you have an idea of us from what you've seen.

02:42:49.000 You've never seen this guy before in your life.

02:42:51.000 You met him two weeks ago.

02:42:52.000 Which means, he can be lying to you right now, you won't even know.

02:42:55.000 I flew out here.

02:42:56.000 I flew out here to see him.

02:42:57.000 So that's why I'm out here. 1.00

02:42:58.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

02:42:59.000 Wait, wait, wait, wait. 1.00

02:43:00.000 Did he pay for my flight?

02:43:02.000 Yeah, he did.

02:43:02.000 Okay, at least.

02:43:03.000 Listen, I play tweets all the time.

02:43:06.000 Listen, bruh, bruh, bruh, bruh.

02:43:08.000 I'm going to tell you this right now.

02:43:10.000 Have fun.

02:43:11.000 Thank you.

02:43:12.000 But it is what it is.

02:43:14.000 That's all I'm going to say.

02:43:15.000 It's my world.

02:43:16.000 I mean, he won't tell you the truth, but I'm going to tell you how it is what it is.

02:43:20.000 I told her at the top of the show.

02:43:22.000 And here's the thing.

02:43:22.000 She asked me.

02:43:23.000 What do you do for a guy that has everything?

02:43:25.000 I'm willing to bet that she's probably describing this guy right now.

02:43:28.000 She flew her out here to Miami.

02:43:32.000 I mean, she's not bad looking, but come on, man.

02:43:35.000 Okay, he has 153 bodies.

02:43:37.000 How your sex is going to stand out?

02:43:39.000 How you can even make that possible? 1.00

02:43:42.000 153 females riding you, sucking your dick. 1.00

02:43:45.000 He has experience. 1.00

02:43:47.000 How would you make the sex stand out?

02:43:49.000 Tell me.

02:43:51.000 I don't think she knows.

02:43:55.000 That's why she asked the question.

02:43:56.000 No, no, no, but I'm curious about her.

02:43:57.000 I mean, I'm more of like personality, but I mean...

02:44:08.000 At a certain level, it is a connection, though.

02:44:11.000 Like, all the moves, whatever, it's cool, but it's a connection at a certain point. 0.97

02:44:15.000 At that point, knowing that you have 153 bodies, I wouldn't just be, like, all sex, because, damn, you have a lot of experience, and, like, I will, like, stand out, like, with personality. 0.99

02:44:24.000 Like, you know, but I don't know if he's gonna say, like, damn, 153 bodies. 1.00

02:44:28.000 Nah, nigga, you lost. 1.00

02:44:29.000 It's kind of my question. 0.98

02:44:30.000 I just want to say this real fast, because, look, man...

02:44:48.000 You have to have misogynistic traits.

02:44:58.000 That's what women are turned out by. 1.00

02:44:59.000 There's a reason why a nice guy is finished last.

02:45:01.000 Women don't respect chivalry anymore. 1.00

02:45:03.000 They want bad boys. 0.51

02:45:04.000 He's a nice guy though.

02:45:06.000 He's nice to you, right? 1.00

02:45:08.000 In certain regards, and he's selling you a dream that there might be something there, but you're just a chick that he flew out to fuck, man. 1.00

02:45:14.000 Like, I can't believe that you don't... 1.00

02:45:16.000 I mean...

02:45:17.000 Wait a minute, wait a minute.

02:45:21.000 Where do you live?

02:45:22.000 I live in LA, yeah.

02:45:22.000 You don't live here.

02:45:24.000 So this is your first time meeting him?

02:45:25.000 No, I met him in LA. Well, we met in February.

02:45:29.000 I was booked for a music video that he was doing videography for.

02:45:33.000 And then we followed each other on social media, I guess, in February.

02:45:38.000 And then in July, he hit me up.

02:45:41.000 Okay, wait.

02:45:43.000 I'm sorry not to cut you off, but that's kind of fading away from my question.

02:45:46.000 No, I'm getting there.

02:45:47.000 So then in July, he hits me up.

02:45:49.000 He's like, hey, I'm going to be in LA. I do YouTube.

02:45:51.000 Let's do a YouTube video.

02:45:52.000 So I invite him over.

02:45:53.000 And that day, we just hit it off really well.

02:45:56.000 Wait, hit it off like in...

02:46:01.000 That's when I found out he had 130 bodies.

02:46:03.000 We were doing an interview.

02:46:05.000 He was asking me crazy questions.

02:46:08.000 What I'm saying is that your boyfriend, sorry, this guy, you called us misogynists.

02:46:14.000 I promise you, he agrees with 99% of the things that we say behind closed doors.

02:46:18.000 He just will never tell you.

02:46:19.000 Because the very reason why he was able to get those women is by having mindsets like us.

02:46:24.000 Do you not understand that?

02:46:26.000 Guys that are good with women inherently have certain traits. 0.99

02:46:30.000 And one of the biggest ones, spoiler alert, they don't think women are equals. 1.00

02:46:34.000 That's what makes them attractive.

02:46:36.000 They take leadership.

02:46:37.000 They're assertive.

02:46:37.000 They're dominant.

02:46:38.000 They exemplify all the traits that show the polarity that women are attracted to. 0.99

02:46:43.000 The reason why these guys that you call are misogynistic, the reason why guys that are misogynistic are attractive is because they don't believe in equality.

02:46:51.000 He doesn't treat you like equal, which is why you're attracted to him.

02:46:55.000 Like, I'm gonna say this right now.

02:46:58.000 I wish you the best, but let us know how it goes, okay?

02:47:02.000 That's it, because we can't say it.

02:47:04.000 No, because my thing is, like, if you're gonna call us a misogynist, like, prove it.

02:47:08.000 Like, how are we misogynist when the guy that you're with...

02:47:10.000 Did you get offended by me calling you that, though?

02:47:13.000 No, it's just like, if you're gonna make an accusation like that, and a assertion...

02:47:16.000 You gotta back it up.

02:47:17.000 Back it up.

02:47:17.000 I just feel like you guys go so hard to prove that a woman is a hoe or whatever the case is and it's like you guys aren't open to...

02:47:24.000 I mean, no. 1.00

02:47:25.000 No, we fuck hoes too. 1.00

02:47:27.000 I don't think she's a hoe or she's a hoe because I see them here. 1.00

02:47:30.000 They're covered up.

02:47:32.000 They're modest, whatever.

02:47:34.000 And I see you.

02:47:35.000 You have a piercing here, a piercing here, a piercing here.

02:47:37.000 Why does that make me a hoe though? 1.00

02:47:38.000 Because most girls that I fuck on one I said... 1.00

02:47:41.000 You guys are generalizing and that's what makes you a misogynist. 0.99

02:47:44.000 I mean, if you ask me a question, then it's what it is.

02:47:46.000 Okay, go ahead.

02:47:47.000 I'm born on Race County Day, though, right?

02:47:48.000 This a hood, ain't it?

02:47:49.000 Yeah, it's a hood.

02:47:50.000 Hey, listen. 1.00

02:47:51.000 I fuck girls like you all the time, all right? 1.00

02:47:53.000 So, at the end of the day, I see you. 1.00

02:47:56.000 You just said you don't want your body count.

02:48:00.000 What is your body count?

02:48:02.000 See?

02:48:03.000 Tell me.

02:48:04.000 Zero.

02:48:05.000 Zero.

02:48:07.000 Good.

02:48:07.000 Yours?

02:48:08.000 That's great.

02:48:08.000 Under 10.

02:48:09.000 Alright, so then, I'm sorry to say, like, we let you talk all the time.

02:48:13.000 You're like, you know, I like cats.

02:48:15.000 Whatever you want to be. 1.00

02:48:16.000 Listen, I love girls like you to fuck. 1.00

02:48:18.000 And probably afterwards is fine. 1.00

02:48:20.000 But at the end of the day, you are setting yourself up for a reason.

02:48:23.000 That's fine.

02:48:24.000 I just feel like...

02:48:25.000 I'm sorry.

02:48:26.000 Wait, wait, wait.

02:48:27.000 Sorry, Fresh.

02:48:28.000 Do you have any tats?

02:48:29.000 No.

02:48:30.000 None.

02:48:32.000 I just wouldn't take what you're saying seriously because you're not even a guy that I would pursue anyway.

02:48:39.000 So it's like what you're saying holds no weight.

02:48:44.000 I just want to address the main point that she made here that she said that we hate hoes. 1.00

02:48:54.000 We've never said that we hate hoes. 0.99

02:48:56.000 We've never said that we hate women.

02:48:57.000 All I'm simply saying is that There's studies, there's literally statistics that show that promiscuous women are not good long-term partners for marriage. 0.86

02:49:06.000 That's all I'm saying.

02:49:07.000 So they're not the best bet to commit to.

02:49:09.000 I'm not saying don't hook up with them.

02:49:10.000 I'm not saying don't show them attention.

02:49:12.000 I'm not saying don't spend time with them.

02:49:13.000 But when it comes to marriage or something very serious...

02:49:17.000 They're just not the best candidates, unfortunately.

02:49:19.000 And that's a statistical fact that is not my opinion, that is not misogynistic, that is realistic.

02:49:26.000 To be real, we love holes for fun.

02:49:28.000 And you're hot!

02:49:29.000 That's all I gotta say.

02:49:30.000 Do you have another point to show that we're misogynist then?

02:49:34.000 No, that's it.

02:49:35.000 It seems to me like standards to you are what's misogynistic, but I would argue that you're misogynist by that standard, because You have standards that disqualify a bunch of men.

02:49:42.000 If we have standards that disqualify women that are promiscuous, that doesn't make us misogynistic.

02:49:48.000 That makes us have standards.

02:49:49.000 She mentioned, I feel like, from what you guys preach, she has no concrete evidence.

02:49:55.000 Fair enough.

02:49:56.000 We got some more chats here, right?

02:50:01.000 Chris will be happy and owe nothing.

02:50:05.000 Are you telling me the hot chick sitting on Chris's left was 300 pounds? 1.00

02:50:09.000 Get the fuck out of here. 1.00

02:50:10.000 Get out the lie detector. 1.00

02:50:12.000 FNF. Gang, we don't like frosters, but it's true. 1.00

02:50:15.000 I applaud you.

02:50:16.000 Girls come on the show. 0.85

02:50:17.000 Lie, shame, cope, or claim a JD degree while they do what?

02:50:20.000 Well, I mean, that's not really a flex to say I used to be 300 pounds.

02:50:25.000 Ben or the offender?

02:50:26.000 I'm 23, 6 foot, 125 pounds.

02:50:28.000 How many pounds of muscle should I put on to be an ideal weight?

02:50:31.000 My friend, you need to 6 feet.

02:50:33.000 I mean, you can look good anywhere between 170 to 200.

02:50:37.000 Uh, John goes, uh, have you heard of Tom Holland in The Crown of Rome?

02:50:41.000 That boy's no longer a high-value man. 0.58

02:50:43.000 Yeah, I mean, again, yeah, that was a gay scene, but whatever. 0.98

02:50:48.000 Zendaya got millions to live out her slave play fantasy. 1.00

02:50:51.000 Most black women do it for free. 1.00

02:50:53.000 We've seen that when Nick was on the show. 0.91

02:50:55.000 She chose money over her relationship.

02:50:56.000 Do you have anything you want to say to that, Ms.

02:50:58.000 Actress?

02:50:59.000 Do you agree or disagree?

02:51:00.000 Um, I have no comment.

02:51:03.000 Okay.

02:51:04.000 And then last but not least...

02:51:06.000 Shout out to you, bro.

02:51:10.000 And then...

02:51:10.000 Rumble Rants?

02:51:11.000 Yes.

02:51:12.000 And then we'll get the last thoughts from the ladies. 0.99

02:51:14.000 We're going to close it out here.

02:51:18.000 We need a special edition live stream with text-to-speech enabled so that the chat can get their input in real time.

02:51:25.000 That'll hurt the quality of the show, bro.

02:51:27.000 Significantly.

02:51:28.000 Talk to...

02:51:28.000 If we did it, rumble only anyway.

02:51:31.000 Yeah, it would be rumble only if we did it.

02:51:34.000 Imagine 90% of women could only mate with 40% of men. 0.92

02:51:36.000 You have to pick one sister wife at this table to share your man with for life. 1.00

02:51:41.000 Which girl would you pick and explain why you can't pick a friend? 0.99

02:51:43.000 Okay, this is actually an indecent one to end the show with.

02:51:45.000 Alright, ladies. 1.00

02:51:46.000 You can mate with only 40% of... 0.98

02:51:50.000 Okay, you can have one sister wife at the table and you gotta share one guy. 1.00

02:51:53.000 Okay.

02:51:54.000 Who would you pick, ladies? 1.00

02:51:56.000 And why?

02:51:57.000 I'd pick her, the mom, because she would probably be a great wife and mother and all of the above. 1.00

02:52:04.000 I mean, she is a wife and mother.

02:52:07.000 We'll start here.

02:52:09.000 What was that, Mo?

02:52:10.000 She's just a mother. 0.61

02:52:14.000 I would pick Penelope because I know I don't gotta go worrying about if she's gonna... 1.00

02:52:24.000 I don't know.

02:52:25.000 I don't know any of these people except Haley.

02:52:28.000 But anyways, moving on.

02:52:29.000 I will pick Penelope because I don't have to worry about, okay, we have to be sister-wise.

02:52:32.000 I don't have to think twice about if I'm gonna, you know, if she's gonna be dirty. 1.00

02:52:36.000 I don't have to think twice of her disrespecting me because I can already see we have very similar morals.

02:52:43.000 She has, like, good head on her shoulders when it comes to her health, when it comes to, like, society and standards for herself.

02:52:48.000 What about you?

02:52:50.000 Penelope as well.

02:52:51.000 I think you have a good role model that it's your mom, so I wouldn't be worried about you.

02:52:56.000 So yeah, I will pick you.

02:52:57.000 What about you, Miss Estonia?

02:53:00.000 I think I would pick you too, honestly.

02:53:03.000 Yeah, I think you would be great at that.

02:53:05.000 I mean, if I had to do that.

02:53:07.000 Would you all pick her?

02:53:10.000 Would all of you pick her?

02:53:12.000 Raise your hand if you have something different.

02:53:17.000 If you would not pick Penelope as your sister would.

02:53:21.000 I said her mom.

02:53:23.000 I know, I can't choose Penelope.

02:53:25.000 I probably would choose Jen. 0.59

02:53:28.000 Okay.

02:53:28.000 She's really into health.

02:53:29.000 Wait, hold on, hold on, real quick.

02:53:32.000 All the girls pick the girl with the low body count. 1.00

02:53:34.000 Are they misogynists too? 1.00

02:53:35.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

02:53:37.000 Um... 1.00

02:53:39.000 I'm a microbiologist.

02:53:40.000 I don't know.

02:53:43.000 I've had girls stop being my friends because they're like, oh, you have high body count. 1.00

02:53:48.000 So that means if guys look at us, they're going to think we're hoes too.

02:53:50.000 And I think that's the most insecure thing I've ever heard in my entire life.

02:53:54.000 Because if you don't have the confidence to be friends with a hoe or something, then you just don't. 1.00

02:53:59.000 So you are a hoe. 1.00

02:54:00.000 If we're going to call myself a ho, then you...

02:54:03.000 Hey, you're fresh!

02:54:03.000 Not us!

02:54:04.000 We love hoes! 1.00

02:54:05.000 We didn't call you hoes! 1.00

02:54:05.000 You're fresh! 1.00

02:54:06.000 Yo, we love hoes, alright? 0.99

02:54:09.000 Let's confirm what I've said a million times.

02:54:11.000 I've said it before, and I'll say it one more time. 0.99

02:54:13.000 There is no bigger slut shamer than women themselves. 0.99

02:54:16.000 Thank you. 1.00

02:54:17.000 It is the women that slut shame other women, not men. 1.00

02:54:20.000 Who would you be a sister wife? 1.00

02:54:23.000 When it comes to their situation, what they got going, girls don't want to associate with promiscuous women because it brings problems. 1.00

02:54:29.000 It's girls that discriminate the most against hoes. 1.00

02:54:32.000 It's not men.

02:54:33.000 Bro, most guys are doing what your dude is doing. 0.83

02:54:35.000 Shutting their mouth, flying you out, come out, let's hang, yeah, solo dream. 0.98

02:54:39.000 It's the women that shame girls for being hoes. 1.00

02:54:41.000 We're gonna have a good vibe, good energy, you know.

02:54:43.000 But I think that's for selfish reasons, like, that women do that. 1.00

02:54:46.000 I feel like sometimes they think they're in competition with each other, so they don't...

02:54:49.000 They might think that Penelope is not a threat to them, you know what I'm saying?

02:54:53.000 Like, Penelope might not steal your man, but she might be like a good friend.

02:54:59.000 Y'all are sister wives. 0.74

02:55:01.000 There's nothing to steal.

02:55:02.000 That's why this question was so good.

02:55:03.000 The point I'm trying to make is, even when women are given a choice, they don't pick hoes. 1.00

02:55:08.000 Are they misogynists too?

02:55:11.000 Misogony.

02:55:12.000 Checkmate, man.

02:55:14.000 With that said, we will go ahead and end the show, guys.

02:55:17.000 It's 12.30.

02:55:18.000 We gotta get the ladies out of here. 1.00

02:55:21.000 That's all of it.

02:55:22.000 Guys, all ladies' Instagrams are below. 0.99

02:55:24.000 Feel free to send them A dick pic, I think. 0.98

02:55:27.000 Some of them are single. 0.99

02:55:30.000 We'll catch you guys on the next episode of Fresh to Fit.

02:55:32.000 On Friday, we're going to have Psych Hacks in the house.

02:55:35.000 Red Pill Psychiatrist.

02:55:36.000 We're going to have him on.

02:55:37.000 It's going to be lit.

02:55:38.000 Next week, we're going to have Jackson Hinkle and maybe another special guest for y'all, man.

02:55:42.000 We're going everywhere, man.

02:55:43.000 Psychology, geopolitics.

02:55:45.000 Chris, where can I find you, bro?

02:55:47.000 Merch gang. 0.83

02:55:48.000 On IG, man.

02:55:50.000 Just follow me.

02:55:50.000 I'm posting constantly.

02:55:52.000 Shout out to the girls on the panel. 1.00

02:55:55.000 You guys have been a good panel, diverse, very lit, very intuitive.

02:55:59.000 I've been reading the chat. 1.00

02:56:00.000 Other than that, man, fuck it, man. 1.00

02:56:03.000 Tennessee. 1.00

02:56:04.000 Thank you for niggifying the podcast for us. 0.96

02:56:08.000 We appreciate it.

02:56:09.000 We'll catch you guys.

02:56:10.000 Peace.

02:56:12.000 I ran, I ran so far away I just ran, I ran all night and day

Fresh & Fit - August 17, 2023

Feminist Calls Us M1s0gynists & HEATED Debate Ensues!

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