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00:02:52.000So this is his fourth indictment, guys, in the past years.
00:02:55.000You guys know New York State indicted him for the stupid business record stuff, the classified documents case, the January 6th interference, election interference, and now the state of Georgia hit him and I think like 18 other defendants with a RICO conspiracy.
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00:08:09.000So what's the benefit that you can get the effects of being drunk without Ruining your health?
00:08:17.000I mean, yeah, it's like good for people who are like alcoholics and don't want to avoid alcohol or if like alcoholism runs in their family.
00:08:24.000Isn't it like a mushroom type of thing?
00:11:22.000I work as an integrative women's health pharmacist.
00:11:26.000I studied neuroscience at Harvard, so I kind of like to integrate that in with my practice.
00:11:32.000I also teach yoga, Pilates, and I am doing my postdoctoral fellowship in anti-aging and metabolic medicine right now through the American Academy of Anti-Aging Medicine.
00:12:04.000It sounds to me like you're a PhD candidate, you said?
00:12:06.000No, I already have three doctorates, but I'm going for, I'm in a fellowship, so I'm going for my board certification in anti-aging metabolic medicine right now.
00:13:14.000No, I went to school in Maryland, Florida, California.
00:13:18.000Okay, if you had to pick, because you're young, if you had to pick a home state, which one would you, or a home city, where would you consider it?
00:17:02.000So, I'm working right now at a student financial center at the STSU. I'm an international student, so I kind of have to work on campus, but yeah, I go to college there.
00:22:13.000I'm going to start right here with Miss Farsi, linguist.
00:22:15.000And then we're going to work our way back around whether, yeah, question, comment, disagreement on something that we've talked about before, etc.
00:27:28.000And the reason why is if I ghost a girl 9 out of 10 times she did something that I didn't appreciate, approve of, or I don't see anything potential with her.
00:27:38.000And surprisingly, right, it's not if she has sex with me the first time.
00:28:06.000Yeah, so if she exemplifies certain characteristics where I don't think I can elevate her to any type of serious status, I'm like, alright.
00:28:20.000But normally, the girl's really gotta mess up for me to ghost her.
00:28:23.000I could put her in the sex-only category where I talk to her to be casual.
00:28:28.000But for me to play up ghost her, she had to have messed up.
00:28:31.000And then as far as a hoe, well, it depends on what role I'm going to put her in.
00:28:34.000A girl that's in a casual slot, I'm going to have a little bit more tolerance for her having a promiscuous past than a girl that is what I would consider a main girl.
00:28:43.000A main girl is going to have higher requirements than a casual girl.
00:28:47.000So that leads into my second question, which is for me.
00:28:52.000When you're dating a guy that could be seen as, like, you know, a guy that makes more money than you or a guy that can provide more than you can, what can you provide as a female?
00:29:03.000You know, because, like, what can you provide to a man that has it all?
00:29:54.000So, I mean, for the most part, just fill in what he needs because at the end of the day, guys, you know, they fight the world every day and when they come home, then you're like, they're fighting this bitch.
00:30:03.000Not you personally, but the girl next to them is like, what the fuck?
00:30:32.000And if you can actually add value to his life, which means, let's say he has a business, like Chris was saying earlier, you make sure you add in a lot of value to his business, or for example, what he needs, it'll be a headache, it'll be a bother or a nag, then he's like, you know what?
00:30:44.000She's cool, it's great times with her, and it's no stress, I have peace, I'm gonna keep her around.
00:31:22.000I see gaps here, et cetera, just like Chris was saying.
00:31:24.000And it's your job to basically figure it out and do it without him telling you.
00:31:29.000Like, there's something crazy about a girl that can, like, figure out what a problem is and make your life easier so you don't have to think about certain things so that you can go from, like, maybe 90% performance to 93% performance or 95%.
00:31:41.000Or if he was already at 100, like a guy that you're talking about that has everything, he's performing at 101 or 102.
00:31:45.000And when you get to the highest levels, that one or two percentage means a lot.
00:31:50.000So I think that's where it comes in, where the more successful the guy, the more he has, the harder you have to work to figure out what he doesn't have.
00:31:57.000And I think if women did that more often, they'd be able to keep men around.
00:32:02.000But the problem is that a lot of girls come into a relationship like, okay, what can this guy do for me?
00:33:07.000It's a sucky double standard, but it's a double standard that actually benefits women more because at least you get the value up front and it's up to you how you choose to spend it.
00:33:17.000Men have to get that value down the road and it's not even guaranteed.
00:33:22.000So if the guy has to work to earn that value, He's not going to want to have one girl.
00:33:26.000Most successful men almost always have multiple women.
00:33:29.000Maybe they'll have one main chick and a couple mistresses.
00:33:38.000It's up to you if you want to go out with the umbrella and get wet or not.
00:33:42.000But I'd rather arm women with the facts and let them know that if you want a successful man, nine out of ten times, you're going to have to share him.
00:33:48.000So can I ask you a question kind of going off of that?
00:33:51.000Is it possible for a guy to say that he loves his girlfriend, this, that, and a third?
00:33:56.000Y'all been, well, I wouldn't say girlfriend, but let's say like y'all are really connecting and you kind of get to that level of like, oh, I love you.
00:34:03.000But let's say y'all are ready to really commit to that.
00:34:06.000Is it possible for a guy to say, I love you to a girl, but still go and fuck other bitches?
00:34:14.000Yeah, and I know for a lot of women, it's very difficult to fathom because for you guys, your sexuality typically is tied to some type of emotional connection.
00:34:21.000Most of the time, some girls can sport fuck, but most women can't.
00:34:24.000So for you guys, it's like you can't fathom, like, how can I tell this man I love him and go fuck another guy?
00:34:29.000Men are capable of doing that because we can separate...
00:34:33.000Sexual desire and lust with emotional connection with one woman.
00:34:36.000We can absolutely separate it because we're physical.
00:35:28.000You have man and you have sides and you have, yeah, that's just how it goes.
00:35:31.000Wait, so if you're in a relationship for like, let's say like you started dating junior year of high school and you're going into your like sophomore, junior year of college, like you together for real, for real.
00:35:41.000But your girl is expected to be okay if your oncologist is fucking these bitches in the dorm or doing whatever, and then you go back and like, oh no, but I still love you.
00:35:51.000Oh no, I'm not telling you to tolerate this from any guy.
00:36:06.000You need to be irreplaceable, unlike the other girls who are interchangeable components.
00:36:10.000And then you need to accept the fact that he's probably going to want to go ahead and exercise the options that he's worked so hard to attain.
00:36:15.000If he's broken, not a leader, if he's just going to be a regular average guy, then obviously you don't want to make that serious because it won't last anyway.
00:36:21.000But I tell women too, average guy's going to cheat on you as well a lot of the times.
00:37:00.000So even though she's like sexually more appealing and more like fun to be around, they'll never take out in public like, oh, this is my girl.
00:37:07.000So that level of like sexuality and level of like, I guess like lust is great to just have fun with, but never take serious.
00:37:30.000Yeah, but I think the biggest thing is to understand that, you know, what a guy commits to versus what a guy finds sexually arousing and what he deals with sexually are two different things.
00:37:37.000A lot of the times you're better off being on the I'm getting committed to side and the component I'm getting to get on the committed side is having some type of sexual temperance.
00:37:45.000If a guy can bring you around his family or his friends and not be embarrassed, that's a good sign.
00:37:48.000But if you do all this freaky shit in the bedroom and you don't want to bring you around his friends or he doesn't claim you publicly...
00:37:53.000Now, I am curious, though, to hear the older women speak on this.
00:37:57.000So, from your experience, what do you think?
00:37:59.000Do you think guys are going to be faithful to you at a higher level, or not really, from your experience?
00:39:47.000If you can't do those two things, then you're worthless to me.
00:39:50.000And so I'm not going to put up with you, like, fucking around.
00:39:53.000So, I'll give you my controversial take of what I'm about to say right now, and especially as an educated woman like yourself, you might not like what I'm going to say.
00:40:01.000I genuinely don't think there's such a thing as a high-value woman, because all women have value, so therefore it would be kind of ridiculous to say that there's high-value women out there.
00:40:12.000And what I mean by that is, a woman can only claim she's high-value if she has a high-value man that cosigns her.
00:40:17.000She can only become high value by taking a high value man's last name.
00:40:21.000Because becoming high value is very difficult to attain.
00:40:23.000And I argue that all women have value.
00:40:31.000But all women to some degree have value.
00:40:33.000Because a woman that's average can absolutely bat five levels above her and get a high value man.
00:40:38.000But it can't work the other way around.
00:40:40.000Since those sexual dynamics are so polarized, I don't think there's such thing as a high-value woman unless there's a high-value man cosigning her.
00:45:52.000Jeffrey Epstein on paper is a high value man.
00:45:54.000Even though he's a deplorable individual, he is a high value man on paper.
00:45:58.000Because when we're talking about high value, we're not talking about morality.
00:46:02.000And that's arguable or whatever, but when you look at status, income, even though he got his status through some bullshit, and money, you can argue on paper that he is so like, not to liken Drake or Tate to him, but I'm just showing that as an extreme example of like, high value really doesn't have to do with morality.
00:46:19.000Because you're going from an opinion standpoint, I don't like Andrew Tate, or I don't consider him a high value man because I might not like his views.
00:46:26.000But Drake and Tate are both high value.
00:46:28.000And I would argue Tate has more of a positive impact on the world than Drake does.
00:46:33.000I mean, Drake hasn't really saved guys from offering themselves or anything like that.
00:46:36.000If you notice, it's how he makes her feel.
00:46:38.000So that's what Drake and her values status.
00:46:41.000Yeah, but objectively speaking, both Drake and Andrew Tate are high value men, but I would argue that Tate has more impact from a positive standpoint than Drake does.
00:47:05.000I mean to a degree but he's creating more impact on the world overall.
00:47:10.000Yeah, but somebody who has money and donates it and is charitable, right?
00:47:15.000I would consider that more of a high-value man who just takes all of his money and doesn't, I guess, share it or put it towards anything positive.
00:47:23.000Yeah, and that's why I said it's arguable.
00:47:30.000Even though it was all kind of a scheme to get the money back, he donated to charities.
00:47:33.000Chris, who would you consider to be a high-value man?
00:47:36.000I mean, a man who actually creates value into the world, he can raise his family properly and just make sure that his lifestyle is on point.
00:47:46.000Because at the end of the day, if you're struggling paying bills as a man, then are you really high value?
00:47:55.000If you're actually acquiring those goals and you're happy, making six fakes, able to feed those you care about, Isn't that high value to you?
00:48:05.000You got some girls, like, for example, some girls go, you know, my high value guy is, he makes six figures a year.
00:48:11.000And then some girl down on South Beach can say, oh, high value guy is a millionaire, you know?
00:51:41.000Let me ask you, would it be fair, because this is a controversial point that we've talked about on the podcast, but it'd be good to get your perspective on this.
00:51:49.000Would you say that women have a really bad habit of enabling self-sabotaging behavior in their peers?
00:51:55.000And they do a really great job of enabling other women to do terrible things so that they don't get their men.
00:52:03.000Women sabotage each other so they don't get high-value men.
00:52:06.000When I got into a really healthy relationship, that's more on the traditional side, all the women hated me and stopped being friends with me.
00:52:13.000They were like, this is terrible for you.
00:52:58.000Especially for women, it kind of sucks because we rarely tell women the truth, especially when it comes to their body because of their feelings.
00:53:47.000If Lizzo's watching this, I want to help her.
00:53:50.000I really want to help her lose the way and inspire millions of her fans to do the same because she's not inspiring them to do that and I want to inspire them.
00:53:57.000Lizzo, if you're watching, get off the couch, you fat.
00:54:58.000We have to find ways to empower ourselves with tools to regulate our emotions so they don't tangle our lives, our relationships, and our health.
00:55:58.000So people are putting their health in the hands of prepared foods in restaurants and the salts and the oils and genetically modified foods and the herbicides, fungicides, pesticides.
00:58:02.000I just said, bro, this is good for people to ask on this, because I've always talked about female obesity, but it's great to have women that deal with that every day.
00:58:10.000I thought it was just like cheesy burgers that made them fat, but I guess more than that.
00:58:13.000It's Uber Eats, man, because now it's Uber Eats, there's stuff that you can order, so these girls, they're boss babes, they have money, and they don't have time to cook, right?
00:59:03.000Yeah, kind of going back to like the beginning of this conversation when it comes to like these married women like you see all over social media like Stereotypically, skinny guys like bigger girls or bigger girls like skinny guys because of the dick.
00:59:22.000I'm being so dead ass, you know what I mean?
00:59:49.000And what I mean by this is, if you take those same skinny guys, and I gave them a Lamborghini, $2 million, and some fame, they'll be fucking models tomorrow, and they will never talk to a fat girl again.
01:00:36.000That might be a slow Tuesday, but like, bro, in general, they're going to take the model.
01:00:39.000Like, they're going to take the model to be more consistent with, to show around their friends and stuff.
01:00:43.000You might get the fatty on a slow Tuesday and no one sees.
01:00:47.000But yeah, men typically will sit there and cope and say, oh, I like this type of girl, but you'll see directly that that woman aligns with what he can actually attract.
01:02:40.000Because at the end of the day, if a guy is looking elsewhere for sex, and you're like, you know what, I'm doing this, because how long have you been dating before you two?
01:04:58.000No, but one thing I do want to say, just being the older person on here, I do feel like this whole, like, being bigger, okay thing is a generational thing.
01:05:06.000Like, back in my day, I grew up in Southern California.
01:05:08.000You didn't fucking go to the beach with a bikini on if you were fat.
01:05:17.000I grew up like, you know, literally, and I'm not saying this is right or wrong, but she, like, if I went to eat something that wasn't, you know, in fifth grade, she'd be like, no, not cool.
01:06:07.000Since you guys want to get acknowledged so much, there's an influx of guys that are basically leaving the United States and going to other countries abroad to find women, right?
01:06:14.000They call themselves Passmore Bros, which I understand.
01:06:16.000It's a viable solution to the problem here in the United States where a lot of women aren't, you know, feminine.
01:06:22.000It's a viable one, though, but they're not feminine, they're not attractive, and the obesity problem.
01:06:27.000And it's funny because whenever these guys, because we're friends with a couple of these guys, they leave the United States for six months, maybe a year at a time, and they come back and they're always shocked.
01:07:16.000But yeah, I mean, it's really bad, especially it's okay if you're like, I still think it's unacceptable if you're a fat guy, but you can at least make up with it if you may have money and status.
01:07:27.000As a female, if you're fat, it's like, dude, you're literally shooting yourself in the foot.
01:08:54.000I think you mean you want the slim waist with the fat ass, but a lot of girls kind of cheat it and they just get fat and then they get a fat ass as a byproduct.
01:09:01.000And they glorify it and they glamorize and they're like, you're beautiful, girl.
01:10:32.000Like, you think that kid is, like, 10 and he's, like, 6.
01:10:35.000I think what people don't acknowledge is that, like, a lot of these people that struggle with weight are dealing with a lot of mental health issues.
01:10:50.000So it's crazy to see how times have changed like back then if you were thicker that means you have some type of wealth and now it's like if you're fat it's like you're lazy but it's like you don't take into account that they might just be dealing with things and like the majority of the world just likes to brush off mental health and doesn't like to address it.
01:11:11.000They want to medicate and pills don't build skills.
01:11:48.000Don't get me wrong, like, men worked and, like, did their thing, but, like, if they're up there, like, in royalty and status, they literally, they're living the dream that the men today want.
01:11:59.000So what is there to worry about when, like, they were saying, high-value men, they have money, they have status, pussies being thrown to them.
01:12:25.000Emotional eating shouldn't be accepted just because you have mental health issues, which, by the way, 90% of your mental health issues, you can actually fix yourself with eating right, working out, and taking accountability of your own life.
01:12:37.000You know, everyone goes through hard things and if you just let that soak in your own pain for the rest of your life, you will be miserable and you will be fat and you will hate your life.
01:12:47.000You can't just blame food and other people for your problems because that's how I got fat and that's how fat people get fat and they have control.
01:12:54.000And so this lie that we like to tell them like, oh, it's okay.
01:12:57.000You know, it's okay to eat emotionally eating.
01:14:37.000I guarantee if I went to a psychiatrist right now and said, I have ADD, they'll give me Adderall.
01:14:42.000If I said, yo, I have ADHD, they'll give me Adderall.
01:14:44.000They wouldn't even care because it's so easy to get the shit nowadays because Big Pharma makes money on prescribing you meds.
01:14:50.000So they're 1,000% incentivized to give you medication for this ailment that you have, which a lot of times just stems from you being a fucking loser and not being adequate.
01:14:58.000So Mainstream media will never talk about this, but I genuinely think a lot of these diseases, I don't want to say they're made up, but we give people an out and tell them, no, there's something wrong with you mentally.
01:15:09.000What about you're just fucking stupid and you need to work harder than the next person?
01:15:13.000So, when you say, like, If you ask a woman why she's feeling supposedly depressed long-term and you said maybe she had a promiscuous past or something like that, what do you tell that woman to do to better her life?
01:15:28.000You can tell a man to get off his ass and go do something.
01:15:31.000For women, it sucks more because a woman's past will always come back to haunt her a lot of the time.
01:15:37.000With women, this is why I say self-preservation is so important.
01:16:37.000Yeah, nothing to compare it to, but as soon as a girl wakes up out of bed, she starts scrolling on her Instagram first thing in the morning, and then fucks up the whole day.
01:17:12.000I think that's a really good point that you brought up social media.
01:17:15.000Social media, and then also I think a big one, Is that we lie to women, dude.
01:17:20.000Like, you guys were alluding to it with the body positivity thing.
01:17:23.000That's one component that we lie to women.
01:17:24.000Another component that we lie to them is telling them that chasing a career, making a lot of money, being successful, and taking the masculine path is going to lead to long-term fulfillment and happiness.
01:17:32.000And for a man, he's going to get fulfillment and happiness from achieving success because that's going to increase his sexual options.
01:18:05.000We tell women to go after these things.
01:18:07.000And then you have Instagram, where they're comparing their life to the Instagram model that isn't even happy because she can't land a guy because she's on OnlyFans showing her butthole for $3.99.
01:18:15.000They're comparing their everyday to a woman's highlight reel that they might not necessarily even want that lifestyle because they don't see the negatives that comes from sexualizing yourself on the internet.
01:18:25.000So you compound all these things together, right?
01:18:28.000Then you got the music industry telling women they're strong and independent.
01:19:41.000We tell women that are 300 pounds that they don't need to change.
01:19:44.000So it's very difficult for women to accept that their actions have negative consequences because we tell them that they can do no wrong a lot of the times, right?
01:19:56.000Yeah, it's too late for your dream man.
01:19:59.000You're going to have to settle with an average guy that isn't the best looking, that isn't charming, that's socially awkward, that might not necessarily be able to send us together charming like fucking Christian Grey.
01:20:46.000Do you guys believe that there are any women that didn't need a cosign from a high-value man that you guys consider to be a high-value woman?
01:25:27.000Now, at that cost, though, comes relationships.
01:25:30.000And as a result, they might find guys that they actually like because they're passing their current status of a job.
01:25:37.000They can't find true love because they want love.
01:25:38.000Obviously, they want love as well, but their profession, their whole acting, their whole scenes that they do results in guys saying, you know what?
01:25:46.000Damn, she's hot, but wifey taking her home to mom, I just can't do it.
01:25:51.000Now, they'll play the part for a little bit and say, nah, you got to stop.
01:26:14.000If you work at a job and you want to get promoted and elevated at that job, wouldn't it be fair to say that you need to display the traits for the elevated position prior to being elevated?
01:26:54.000He's a prestigious law firm and there's a bunch of people that are applying to this law firm.
01:26:57.000She needs to go ahead and show exemplary performance to get elevated to wife because he could replace her easier than she could replace him.
01:27:04.000But for some people, he may have gave her the green light to do that.
01:29:11.000You have these OnlyFans models making all this money off of their bodies, and I really look at it to the family.
01:29:17.000Like, all these women, like, you're right, they're gonna be 35 years old one day and miserable and sad, and some of the people who end up actually having families that do OnlyFans are gonna harm their future children.
01:29:31.000There's already kids, like, you know, offing themselves because kids are teasing them on the playground, like, hey, dude, look, your mom's sucking dick on OnlyFans.
01:30:25.000You were talking about mental health earlier, and therapy plays a massive role in what we tell women today.
01:30:29.000In society, when I went to therapy, they told me it was okay, and that they tried to give me a pill for my depression, a pill for my anxiety, a pill for my obesity, instead of being like, oh, just fix your own health.
01:30:39.000All of the therapists lied to me, and most people that go to therapy are actually women.
01:30:46.000And a lot of them are obese and a lot of them never get their problem fixed because the therapy system wasn't built for the client to succeed.
01:30:53.000It's built for the therapist to succeed because that's how they make their money.
01:30:57.000So when you think about it, don't go to therapy.
01:30:59.000Just don't go to therapy because the therapist is making money off of you.
01:32:46.000Why is it that when women break their vows, turn down, or disobey their husbands, men is blamed for neglecting her emotions, but when men break his vow to find intimacy elsewhere, he is also blamed for being unfaithful?
01:33:32.000Well, I think that's a weird double standard, of course.
01:33:35.000I think a woman is also being unfaithful, breaking their vows.
01:33:40.000But I think it's also very weird to just differentiate women and men, the role of them, like that, distinctively.
01:33:48.000Because I think, coming back to the high value women, the high value men, if I don't see any high value of the person, then I do not consider them to be a high value woman or a high value man.
01:38:07.000Because our connection is an emotional bond and it's not really about...
01:38:15.000So, are you okay with your man being emotionally connected to you and he's telling you all this great shit like, I love you, I'll never leave you, I won't spend the rest of my life with you, but he's telling another bitch the same script.
01:39:37.000So clearly, if the son is saying, I want you to take a paternity test, it clearly matters to him that he is the father of the child, which is why he's willing to risk the relationship to ask him, would you still have that same mindset like, hey, you should still raise that kid even though it's not yours?
01:39:53.000Yes, I would still say that to my son because I would think that he would also need a second look at that.
01:39:59.000What makes you think that that's like the solution to the situation is to accept infidelity, accept raising a child, which is a big responsibility, by the way, that you're on the hook for financially, emotionally, etc.
01:40:10.000What makes you think that, like, where does that mindset come from?
01:40:13.000If my son, for example, has always dreamt of raising a kid with the perfect partner.
01:40:30.000Maybe the girl is really more to him and maybe I see that the relationship is more than that and he should take into consideration that maybe it's worth it.
01:40:42.000Maybe it's worth it to raise another I think what she means is she doesn't believe in physical cheating, but she believes in emotional cheating.
01:40:58.000So if you're emotionally only connected to one person, but you're physically with others, I think that's what she's okay with.
01:41:06.000Does it matter to you if it's physical or emotional or no?
01:41:49.000Wouldn't it be fair to say that for a woman to cheat on her man, she needs to be emotionally invested into other individuals to a significant degree?
01:41:57.000So wouldn't that be one of the highest forms of treachery and betrayal when we know that for men it's just strictly physical, but for women they need a physical component and an emotional component, which kind of contradicts what you said?
01:42:13.000In one hand, you're saying, yeah, emotional cheating is not acceptable.
01:42:16.000But what I'm arguing is that when women cheat, it must be emotional to a significant degree because women are emotional lovers more generally than men are.
01:42:25.000So for a woman, let me make it simple.
01:42:27.000The threshold for a woman to cheat requires emotional investment.
01:42:34.000Versus for men, we don't need emotional investment.
01:43:48.000But what I'm saying in general is that the reason why cheating for women is generally unacceptable is because it takes more of a threshold for a woman to have sex.
01:44:05.000I'm so horny that I couldn't wait for elective marriage.
01:44:09.000There's different thresholds for different women, but I think the bottom line here is that women need an emotional connection in general to have sex.
01:44:16.000So since they need an emotional connection, for a woman to cheat on a man is a higher form of treachery than for a man to cheat on a woman.
01:45:33.000The guy at his age is probably fucking other girls.
01:45:35.000Let me just keep it a million with you.
01:45:36.000He's probably having sex with other girls because men don't get the same fulfillment from emotional stimulation that women do.
01:45:43.000For you, you can go ahead and be sexless and be like, you know what, maybe I'll just finger myself to you or something like that because the cognitive stimulation is enough for you, for women.
01:45:52.000For him, he's going to still need some type of, he needs some buses, not physically somehow.
01:45:56.000So since you're not there to fulfill that, he's probably getting it done either through porn or through other women.
01:46:41.000No, that was like a while back when I was a virgin.
01:46:46.000Beyond that, going back to the question, I think that because your son did not sign up to make that commitment, hypothetically speaking, Yeah,
01:47:09.000In that situation, if he's asking for a paternity test, you would hope that it would be because maybe he had some sort of strange feeling or things have been off.
01:47:18.000So regardless, he did not commit possibly to having that kid.
01:47:22.000And I feel like nobody should be put in that position.
01:47:25.000And kind of like literally branching off of the conversation that we were having earlier of a high-value man, a woman's common agreement of like a high-value man is someone who like risks Like, holds himself a certain way, acts a certain way.
01:47:40.000Like, obviously, there's, like, you know, these standards for a high-value man.
01:47:44.000So, like, my question to you is, would you kind of consider your man to be high-value?
01:50:09.000The relationship no longer exists because men don't ask for much from women.
01:50:12.000Sexual exclusivity is the number one thing that men require in a relationship from most women.
01:50:18.000And then on top of that, to raise another man's child is unacceptable because not only are you on the hook financially and emotionally, the woman can leave you and take the kid and you have no rights to the kid.
01:51:59.000Just like you don't want that to happen to you, a man doesn't want to raise a kid that he thought was his and finds out that kid isn't his.
01:52:31.000What I'm saying is that what if I said that your fear of a man that's stronger, more powerful than you, etc., killing you and you can't do anything about it?
01:52:51.000When a guy holds you down and rapes you and kills you, you can't do anything because he's physically superior to you.
01:52:57.000When a woman, okay, has a child and someone else inseminates her and then she makes me raise that kid and I'm on the hook to pay for that kid, I'm being raped because I can't do anything about it.
01:53:09.000Unlike you, you know the kid is yours.
01:53:31.000What's scary to me might not be scary to you.
01:53:33.000You're scared of men attacking and killing you.
01:53:35.000We aren't necessarily scared of that to that degree because I'm capable of defending myself.
01:53:39.000However, I'm not capable of defending myself against a vindictive woman that might have sex with another individual and now I'm on the hook for raising that kid and I did not know.
01:53:50.000I need you to exercise a little bit of critical thinking and understand that men and women are not the same.
01:53:55.000I'm giving you an analogy so you understand.
01:53:57.000I have to give you the female equivalent so you feel the pain so I can give you the male equivalent because we have different viewpoints.
01:54:03.000That's fine, but she could raise her son to be such a noble man that regardless if his wife or whatever did cheat and he wanted to take the responsibility of raising that kid, that is a high value man to me.
01:55:08.000I'm tired of this shit because women will sit there And shame you for having standards and certain parameters on female behavior, but you guys will never take that same stupid nobility that y'all talk about.
01:55:20.000A woman will say, be noble, raise a kid that's not yours, but you ain't dating no homeless guy.
01:55:24.000And that's why men and women are different, like you said.
01:55:26.000You're not helping out these fucking weirdos that are schizophrenic, that are weirdos, that need to get sex.
01:55:30.000You're not helping out these school shooters that don't get laid.
01:55:32.000You're not helping out these motherfuckers out here.
01:55:34.000That literally are virgins at 30 years old.
01:55:36.000You're not being noble and giving them some female attention, but you expect me to sit there and give my provisioning, my security, and all my capabilities that I work my ass off to some bitch that wants to be a hoe?
01:58:16.000The kid isn't yours, so now all of that that makes you worthy is stripped of you.
01:58:21.000Basically what she's saying is she's agreeing with our point.
01:58:26.000It was a long-winded way of saying it, but she's saying a woman loses her vulnerability, a man loses her resources, and both parties are being raped of their commodity, is what she's trying to say.
01:58:33.000But it still doesn't take away the choice, though.
01:58:36.000It still doesn't take over the choice.
01:59:14.000Because I want to make sure as a man...
01:59:17.000That this kid is mine, so he has the same ideals, the same values that I have, more or less.
01:59:22.000So if you're fucking around, let some random guy put his penis inside your vagina and squirt on that shit, you're allowing him to do that to you.
02:01:11.000Rates account for only about 3% of pregnancies.
02:01:14.000I feel like that's very similar, though, to men taking in women that already have children, because if you're over the age of 25, it's most likely that you have a child, whether you're a man or a female.
02:01:24.000So whether you go and date that person, you have to take the accountability of knowing this guy has a six year old daughter or this girl has a two year old son.
02:01:33.000So it's like, what's the difference, really?
02:01:35.000We're talking about they're in a relationship.
02:01:52.000Because men and women are very different in how we view things.
02:01:55.000Now, what you said about raising a child going into a relationship, I tell guys all the time, don't take single mothers seriously.
02:02:03.000Like, it's not in your best interest as a man.
02:02:05.000And when you look at it from a pragmatic standpoint, right, if you come in, you're responsible for taking care of that child, you're responsible for raising that child, protecting that child, provisioning for that child, etc.
02:02:13.000You have all the responsibility without any authority.
02:02:17.000I can't even slap that kid if he fucks up.
02:02:32.000But most women, if the child isn't yours, and you come into the relationship, and you smack that kid for being an idiot, she's going to say, don't hit my kid, and I can't discipline the kid the way that I want.
02:02:46.000So I tell guys, it's not in your best interest to raise a child that isn't yours.
02:02:49.000Well, and another thing is, like, I've read, like, statistics on that, and, like, I believe that it's most households where there's child abuse is a single-parent household where another parent has stepped in.
02:03:44.000Maybe call it mother instinct, but whenever a child is with a different person that's not their parent, instinctively, the woman says, you know what?
02:03:56.000If the other person, in any form or fashion, wants to punish that kid, and it doesn't align with their values, instantly she's like, no, stop it.
02:04:05.000Don't talk to my kid because that's her value.
02:04:07.000I would just say, you say that now, but in the moment of it happening, she's going to want to protect her kid at all costs.
02:04:12.000Most women that are with a stepfather are going to have an issue with that father displaying the kid in certain ways, unfortunately.
02:05:14.000I mean, because I could relate, like, my parents were divorced, but my dad had, like, I had a stepmom, and she put her hands on me, and my mom was not okay with that.
02:05:21.000She wanted to go to the cops and stuff, but I told her, like, at the time, I was only, like, 16, I was like, don't go to the cops, because that's just going to be more drama for me, you know?
02:05:30.000Like, so, my mom had to take that pain of knowing that her daughter was getting hit by, like, a stepmom, and my dad didn't care.
02:05:37.000My dad was like, you deserve to be hit, you know?
02:07:41.000You guys have two different stances here.
02:07:46.000He's saying that the stepparent isn't going to have the same authority to discipline the child from a physicality standpoint.
02:07:50.000And then he's saying that your stepmother was right in disciplining you in a physicality standpoint because you were potentially going to have sex and lose your virginity, which would lower your value to a potential mate in the future.
02:08:04.000That's why your stepmother acted in the way that she did, knowing that you're a virgin.
02:08:08.000It's like, what the fuck are you doing?
02:08:09.000You're potentially throwing your future away, and you're hurting yourself.
02:08:12.000That's why she slapped you physically.
02:09:51.000I would argue, though, that you have high critical thinking skills.
02:09:53.000So you were able to kind of be like, mm-mm, sun's off here.
02:09:56.000And environment plays a role too, right?
02:09:57.000Like a lot of times when these people live in like...
02:10:00.000With restrictive parents that don't let them do certain things, but all their friends are doing it, then they want to do it.
02:10:05.000But if you're like in an Amish community and you don't know any better, you're like, hey, electricity, what is this?
02:10:10.000You're just chilling, but you don't see nobody else with iPhones.
02:10:13.000You're going to appreciate it a little bit more.
02:10:15.000I mean, the whole thing with the Password Bros is like, yo, you have a girl in Columbia, you ain't bringing her to the United States because feminism and all this other shit.
02:10:22.000They're going to indoctrinate her and she's going to lose the values that made her attractive to you in the first place.
02:10:26.000I tell y'all, if you guys are going to go foreign, you better stay your ass over there foreign.
02:11:27.000You behave and follow laws because you know that there's physical consequences if you choose not to do so.
02:11:32.000I think parents need to be that monopoly of power and almost behave that way as if they're the police or military and get their children in line because pain is one of the best reinforcements That you're fucking up, unfortunately.
02:12:16.000I think, you know, just like the military and the police have the monopoly of power, the parents need to be the same.
02:12:23.000Because if your parents don't exercise being a monopoly of power on you early on, well, the police are going to do it for you, and then it's too late.
02:17:37.000You can't make somebody do something that they don't want to do.
02:17:39.000I want to work out every day in front of him.
02:17:43.000I was originally going to go with the obese man as well but then once I realized that if you help him get skinny and he's making that amount of money he might cheat on you so I'm going with the dad bod because the dad bod you can help him get like thinner but then you can also help him make a hundred thousand and then if you help him increase his like revenue and you help him lose weight he might just fuck with you forever all right Beyonce I get it,
02:20:07.000What I was trying to get at was, if you want a guy, I'm trying to understand how the spirituality and everything else would help them earn more money.
02:20:16.000It wouldn't help them earn more money, but...
02:20:26.000Yeah, and then you were saying, don't you like a guy that could teach you things?
02:20:29.000But I didn't say a guy who could teach me how to make more money, just a guy who could teach me things, period.
02:20:33.000So although he might not be educated on finances, he can provide value in other aspects, and then I can provide the value for the finances.
02:20:41.000Do you realistically want that, though?
02:21:43.000That female lunacy is absolutely acceptable in society.
02:21:47.000If I went around and said, I'm a warlock, everyone would laugh at me, ridicule me, I wouldn't get any dates, rightfully so, and I would have limited dating options.
02:21:55.000But women go around and say, oh, what's your moon sign?
02:22:39.000So we have to live in a fact-based reality where performance matters.
02:22:43.000And I'm not saying this to make fun of you, but the reason why you can have a loony belief system like that is because you're a fairly attractive woman and...
02:22:51.000Attractive women don't have to live in reality, unfortunately.
02:22:59.000There's something called Star Sang Game.
02:23:01.000So if you can match the Star Sang with the girl that you're dating, it might give you a better chance because you're just going to troll her the whole time, though.
02:23:39.000I'm not even saying this shit to, like, brag or whatever, but, like, international podcaster, famous, right?
02:23:45.000If I went around and told girls I'm a warlock, and then you, right, like, maybe not the same social media presence, whatever, you walked around and said, you're a psychic, you're going to absolutely smoke me and still get more dates than me.
02:23:57.000Like, we both play the lunacy game, I have more status, etc., the things that women find attractive, but I'm still gonna limit myself by saying I'm a warlock.
02:24:06.000Does that not prove that men have to live in reality?
02:24:09.000I'm not actually a psychic, so I don't know.
02:24:28.000Like, I believe in, you know, monogamous relationships and I have a boyfriend and stuff like that.
02:24:35.000But I also want to be a lawyer and I want to make my own money.
02:24:38.000So, I feel like if he's making $70,000 a year, and let's say I make about the same, we make a good living, and at the same time, of course, I will be helping go to gym just like everyone else said, but...
02:24:48.000Yeah, I really believe that you can balance both as a woman.
02:24:52.000I don't think high-value women necessarily means that you just have to look good.
02:24:57.000I think you can balance the things, you can make a career, and you can start an awesome family.
02:25:49.000There's going to be men that don't have to go home at 5 o'clock.
02:25:52.000There's going to be men that are trying to make partner.
02:25:54.000There's going to be men that are willing to do whatever's required to become better.
02:25:58.000And then there's going to be single women that don't have kids that are going to be willing to do whatever's required.
02:26:02.000So you've got to ask yourself, do you want to be a great lawyer who's going to put the hours in to make partner and be a shitty-ass mom because you're not home?
02:26:09.000Or are you going to be a great mom but be a shitty-ass lawyer that's got to leave at 3 o'clock because you've got to pick up the kids from daycare?
02:26:46.000But then the first thing that people say whenever, like, girls are acting up when they start getting into their teen years is, like, you must not have a dad.
02:27:01.000So do you think that even if a girl does have a present father, but he doesn't put his hands on her, that that changes that relationship?
02:27:11.000Well, I think the mom needs to be the shit out of the daughter.
02:27:16.000The dad could maybe slap here or there or whatever, but I think Zaman has got to step in and slap her once she becomes a teenager or whatever.
02:28:44.000The best prosecutors were always either men that were single or women that were, you know, career-oriented and didn't have children like that or didn't have young children.
02:29:08.000But I'm just wondering, like, is it a problem to, like, in a mediocre, when you say mediocre lawyer, do you mean not helping the clients to the fullest extent or not excelling in the career?
02:29:18.000Because apparently that doesn't matter anyway.
02:29:20.000If I was a defendant and I needed to defend myself in a penalty case, I would absolutely not hire a female attorney that had young children.
02:29:29.000And me as an agent, when I wanted the best prosecutors, I had a serious conspiracy case, I wouldn't go to a prosecutor that had young children.
02:29:37.000I would always go to the single guy or to the older AUSA that has older children that are in college.
02:29:43.000Then I'd be like, okay, she can do it.
02:29:44.000I'm not saying women aren't capable of the job.
02:29:45.000Some of the best AUSAs have worked with women, but they never had young children.
02:30:27.000I would say dad bod 70k kind of for like the expected reason like you can work your way towards making more and like you can work off the dad bod and like it's really cut you're honestly like a dad bod isn't really a turnoff as long as you like you're not dad bod like flappy and disgusting like your tone you're doing something with your life you're just let's say your metabolism is just slow some dumb shit Byron doesn't believe in slow metabolism.
02:33:01.000I just think it's the viewpoints that you guys have when you guys say hoes and stuff because I don't think that anybody could say what a hoe really is.
02:34:43.000And that's what makes you guys misogynistic because it shouldn't matter what my body count is because regardless of whether I have one body or a million bodies, right, for example, that doesn't take away from who I am as a person.
02:35:21.000Well, look, the point I'm trying to make is the reason why you don't want to disclose it or you're hesitant to disclose it or it's an uncomfortable topic for you is because women know deep down in the back of their brains that their value with finding a mate, not their human value, but their value with finding a mate, two different things, okay?
02:35:35.000And I'm not saying your personal value.
02:35:36.000Your value with finding a man Is intimately tied to your sexual partner account.
02:35:41.000This is why women have an issue disclosing it, because women know that their value is tied to that.
02:35:45.000So with that said, we can sit here and say, people shouldn't be judged, hoes are great too, etc.
02:35:51.000But the reality is biology never lies.
02:35:54.000Just like you want a man to be tall, to be competent, to have money, to have status, to have certain things in place, men want something in return.
02:36:01.000A lot of the times, that's a non-promiscuous woman.
02:37:58.000Like, do you not understand that there is a double standard that exists, and men and women have different standards, and his sexuality doesn't matter to you, but your sexuality definitely matters to him?
02:38:06.000This specific guy doesn't, though, because he's talking to her as well.
02:39:57.000I'm about to give you so much game right now.
02:39:59.000Do you understand, for him to be at 26 years old with 130 plus sexual partners, he has to understand unflattering realities about female nature and understand, accept them, and sell a certain dream to be sexually attractive and be able to market himself to a way that you will not see him as a fuckboy?
02:40:18.000I really want you to grasp this concept.
02:40:21.000The average guy that's 18 to 30 years old hasn't had sex in a year or is a virgin.
02:40:26.000If a man is able to have sex with 130 plus women at 26 years old, he's pretty damn good at selling the dream and telling girls what they want to hear.
02:40:34.000Do you not think that you're another woman that he's telling what they want to hear so he's not labeled as a massager and get sexual access to you?
02:40:41.000I feel like if I say no, you're going to call me dumb.
02:43:56.000No, no, no, but I'm curious about her.
02:43:57.000I mean, I'm more of like personality, but I mean...
02:44:08.000At a certain level, it is a connection, though.
02:44:11.000Like, all the moves, whatever, it's cool, but it's a connection at a certain point.
02:44:15.000At that point, knowing that you have 153 bodies, I wouldn't just be, like, all sex, because, damn, you have a lot of experience, and, like, I will, like, stand out, like, with personality.
02:44:24.000Like, you know, but I don't know if he's gonna say, like, damn, 153 bodies.
02:45:08.000In certain regards, and he's selling you a dream that there might be something there, but you're just a chick that he flew out to fuck, man.
02:45:14.000Like, I can't believe that you don't...
02:46:38.000They exemplify all the traits that show the polarity that women are attracted to.
02:46:43.000The reason why these guys that you call are misogynistic, the reason why guys that are misogynistic are attractive is because they don't believe in equality.
02:46:51.000He doesn't treat you like equal, which is why you're attracted to him.
02:48:57.000All I'm simply saying is that There's studies, there's literally statistics that show that promiscuous women are not good long-term partners for marriage.
02:49:35.000It seems to me like standards to you are what's misogynistic, but I would argue that you're misogynist by that standard, because You have standards that disqualify a bunch of men.
02:49:42.000If we have standards that disqualify women that are promiscuous, that doesn't make us misogynistic.