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00:03:05.000From getting your credit on point all the way to closing the house and finding tenants and putting people in place, we got y'all and then getting another deal.
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00:14:17.000I started as a cameraman for Nelk, moved out to Miami to work for Steve, and then Celine the Dream asked me to come on his channel, and I got known as the Loverboy.
00:14:25.000I'd fall in love with every city we went to with a new girl.
00:14:30.000And then I eventually started my own channel, and I started doing a lot of that on there.
00:14:36.000And now, you know, lately we've been taking rappers to colleges, we've been doing a lot of different things, a lot of lifestyle things, but that's kind of, you know, we're on the road to a million.
00:15:37.000Alright, so guys, every single chat that came in before, we'll read it from this point forward, but from now on here on out, it's going to be 20 and up, and then it's going to go up as the show continues and more people come in.
00:16:10.000Oh, so, boundaries, you know, like, if a person likes the space and time, you have to give it to that person, so your relationship will, you know, grow and be respectful.
00:16:25.000If you don't respect the boundaries, if you don't respect people's time and place and everything, I think it's gonna be...
00:16:33.000Give us one boundary that people don't, like, respect, you'd say.
00:17:05.000Basically, if they call you and ask you for advice and stuff and they listen to you, sometimes they ask you the same question like one million times and you already answer it.
00:17:14.000So if you tell them, yeah, if they respect your time or you tell them like, I don't know, so you monetize that situation, they probably will be, you know, more focused and they will never do it again.
00:18:19.000Could you tell the audience what that means?
00:18:22.000It's when, for example, they do all these things for you, like buy you flowers, tell you all these things, and then once they feel like you're secure enough and feel comfortable with them, those things start to deteriorate and they start to take advantage of you in other ways.
00:18:38.000Would you say that sometimes it's because the girl isn't worth it?
00:19:38.000If you're in a relationship, your man should trust that while you're out, yeah, there are going to be people who try and, you know, mess with you.
00:19:44.000But it's up to you and if he trusts you, if that makes sense.
00:19:48.000He is very solid in himself and what he believes.
00:19:56.000I'm saying like, Okay, speaking of that, I think when you're in a relationship, you shouldn't be going out acting like you're single.
00:20:03.000You shouldn't be doing things like that.
00:20:05.000But I think that if you're gonna go out, your man should be able to trust you enough to where he's like, you know what, I know people are gonna try and hit on her.
00:20:12.000At the end of the day, I know she's being loyal to me.
00:20:15.000And I don't have to project my anxiety onto her, if that makes sense.
00:22:06.000For example, I guess multiple partners, free lifestyle...
00:22:09.000I don't think so, because I feel like with each partner or, like, with each experience you have, you kind of learn and grow as a person, and I feel like you're always going to come out of something as, like, a better version of yourself, and you can kind of use, like, what you learn to make your next relationship or, like, next experience better.
00:22:24.000So why it doesn't matter to you at all?
00:22:27.000I feel like it just depends on the person, to be honest.
00:22:39.000I feel like it's understandable why men think body count matters.
00:22:43.000I do believe as a female that it does matter because, for example, if someone has a very, you know, a lot of partners in their past, they are more likely to cheat.
00:22:55.000But with that being said, I judge body count mattering on if that person, when they get in relationships, if they're faithful to that person or not.
00:23:15.000But if you're not, then I feel like it doesn't really apply.
00:23:20.000If you're being faithful to the person you're with and you're stuck with that person, then I feel like we can all learn from past experience like she's saying.
00:23:33.000I feel like if they're a cheater it does matter about their body count but I feel like if you're with someone and you know and you have proof that they've never done you wrong they've given you no reason and I feel like in my opinion it doesn't matter but that's just me and I'm always willing to learn things you know so my opinion may change you know all right so you kind of gave two answers here is it yes or no in general No,
00:24:31.000Yes, it does matter, but at the same time, like, you're a grown adult, you should get that test done and not even be intimate with anyone else, because that's just being selfish at the end of the day.
00:24:40.000So, yes in that sense, but no if we're just leaving that out of the equation.
00:24:45.000But yes, health is important, so you should definitely take care of yourself.
00:25:40.000I think the past does define you as a person and whether you should be in a relationship with someone who you're willing to present your full self and they'll be able to accept you no matter what.
00:25:54.000And if you feel like you have to hide yourself or feel shame in your relationship, then you shouldn't be in that relationship.
00:26:00.000But yes, I think your past does define you because that is who you are today and that's how you got there.
00:27:15.000Learn to present myself better to people around me because I feel like the way my behavior, my behavior reflects the man that I'm with and I think that, as you guys always say, your girl is a reflection of you and so I internalize that and I try to always present myself in a way that I want to feel proud and...
00:27:42.000So, I don't really present myself as an OF girl because I've already done other things, and that kind of just was a bag to run up, so I was like, F it, let's do it.
00:27:54.000Well, to run up a bag on OF, you have to present yourself in a certain way to make the most money, to being honest.
00:27:59.000Yes, so I started social media when I was like 14, super sexualized since a really early age.
00:32:31.000I've always been in love with myself and I've been comfortable with myself and I was trying to grow every time so I didn't have that problem.
00:35:16.000I mean, I've never technically been in a relationship.
00:35:19.000I don't really count high school, so I just self-reflect and say, okay, if I'm reacting negatively, then maybe this isn't working and move on.
00:35:30.000Do you have a lot of options right now in men?
00:37:26.000Because girls lie on this podcast all the time, and we kind of want to hear the guy's perspective, because y'all be coming on here saying some bullshit.
00:37:33.000No, we're in a relationship, or no, he's in a relationship, I'm not, blah, blah.
00:41:10.000One thing you've done to improve for your guy?
00:41:13.000Working on my mental self-love, specifically meditation, because I feel like you have to be in touch with yourself and your mentality to really give someone your all and be the best person you can be.
00:41:32.000What I was going to say, you know, as a guy, I think when you date a girl, and I haven't dated a girl in a very long time, to my recent girlfriend, I think the thing I've had to learn the most is to be patient.
00:41:42.000I feel like, I'm sorry, girls are emotional, they need attention, you got to be there for them, you have to reassure them.
00:41:48.000For me, I'm like this dude, I'm like, I'm doing my thing, I'm chasing this dream, I'm trying to hit my goals.
00:41:53.000But now I'm like, alright, I gotta be here for her, what she needs, reassure her.
00:43:13.000If she's in her 20s and wanted to act like a hoe, by the time she reached the age of 30, she'll be the first to ask, where'd all the good men go?
00:43:30.000Okay, TreyJS1 goes, ladies, what would be a reason you would date a guy who is not your ideal type, ethnicity and or height, and fresh and fit?
00:43:38.000If a girl does date a guy who's not her ideal type, does that make him a placeholder?
00:47:22.000And I see where you're going with this.
00:47:24.000I think if the mom did it and the dad was a part of it, I think the mom would teach her from her past and kind of show her, like, here's the issue with that, here's the problem with that.
00:47:59.000A girl is respected and loved based on who they are and who they are to you.
00:48:05.000Personally, for my girl, I know everyone has their opinions, but for me, that's just not how it was.
00:48:11.000This girl was there for me in a time of need, and she supported me, and she's a friend to me, and I think that's how relationships should be built off that.
00:48:20.000I don't think you ever need to send your body off to anybody, in my opinion.
00:48:24.000I don't know how you guys all feel, but...
00:48:25.000And that's what I was saying was, I wasn't saying if I found out that I wouldn't go to her, but I would definitely spend serious time trying to figure out the root of why she's doing it.
00:48:34.000But I still wouldn't approve of it, if that makes sense.
00:48:49.000I would say she's worth more not to do that and probably to take away her phone and delete whoever she's talking to, whatever media is on that.
00:49:29.000She's obviously devaluing herself and she's never gonna be fulfilled in that sense.
00:49:35.000But especially with kids, you tell them not to do something and they're gonna do it even more.
00:49:39.000So I would just try to find a way to where I'm not punishing her necessarily because then she's gonna want to go back to it.
00:49:45.000Just kind of just tell her straight up like you're worth more and you're not only Devaluing yourself, but you're devaluing what could be and what you could be putting that energy towards.
00:50:00.000If I find out that, I would ask her first why, so then I will understand her point and be her friend and be on her side and bring value to her so she will move on from that.
00:50:17.000So you would tell her why and you would be her friend and bring value and you think that will make her stop?
00:50:21.000Yes, I would ask her why did she do it.
00:50:24.000So she will tell me the situation and I will hold in this situation together with her and I will understand what she's missing in this situation.
00:51:04.000But do you think the attention that you and the father give are going to be the same as guys telling her, oh, you're so hot, blah, blah, blah?
00:52:52.000I don't know, like she's trying, but she definitely have different qualities in her that I will bright up for her that she will pay attention at.
00:54:58.000You're gonna fuck yourself up long term.
00:55:00.000Like, bro, this is why fathers do a better job of, single fathers do better than single mothers, statistically speaking, because of shit like this.
00:55:07.000Women don't know how to properly discipline their children.
00:56:41.000You know shame is still a thing and women understand that there's you know boundaries and consequences for being a whore like this is unacceptable behavior Because what what ends up happening is when she does this dumb shit is gonna Effectively limit her ability to find a boyfriend or a husband in the future It's setting herself up for long-term failure.
00:56:59.000Any guy that's self-respecting isn't going to take her serious if he knows that she was sending nudes to half the neighborhood.
00:57:24.000So, how about the situation as if you meet a girl and they have nudes on the internet, but they didn't send them out themselves, it was revenge.
01:02:51.000It sounds like she's a businesswoman, but also in a relationship where she really likes the guy, and they have their thing, and I'm sure there's a lot of emotions in there.
01:03:03.000You gotta admit, on some level, your girl can do things to kind of like, okay, she's the one, this is crazy, I ain't never had this before, she's dope.
01:07:43.000I'm not going to go into detail, but I'm going to say studying his body, studying what he likes more of, what makes him moan more, shit like that.
01:11:32.000I've seen everything there possibly could be and I think it would affect me If it was true, you know, you hear cuck, you hear this, you hear that.
01:11:40.000Like, for me, I'm like, I don't give a fuck because it's not true.
01:11:52.000Everything you guys say that a girlfriend should be, should be loyal, should root for you, should support you, should ride for you, everything.
01:13:13.000I drove every day from OC to LA, and I don't want to talk about it too much, but she would literally be in my arms being like, I regret all this.
01:15:54.000And I think everyone deserves a second chance.
01:15:57.000And it was hard for me, but, you know, I got to a point where we're a couple months in a relationship, and I had to ask myself, like, Is this what I want?
01:17:14.000I mean, I think that's where me and you disagree, where, you know, you think second chances are appropriate, and I can see how people come to that, but me, I think there's certain behaviors that if a woman exhibits it, she disqualifies herself for life from a serious relationship.
01:17:28.000And then given, like, the caliber of, like, She wasn't just, like, doing that.
01:17:31.000She's, like, huge, you know, in the industry.
01:17:53.000This might be a one-of-a-kind situation.
01:17:54.000And that's why you can't listen to anybody.
01:17:57.000Sure, you can take your friends' opinions in and everything, and there's the whole internet.
01:18:01.000But at the end of the day, I'm going to listen to myself.
01:18:03.000And I think you guys would agree with this.
01:18:05.000Is it very, very hard to find someone who is loyal to, that you love, that you see eye to eye, you can take on life with in this world today, in this society today?
01:18:47.000I think she got the wool over your eyes a little bit if I'm going to be all the way a million.
01:18:49.000And I think, like, you being a lover boy and being that romantic, like, you're seeing things in her that might not necessarily be there in full HD, but you see it that way and you're operating from an idealistic lens versus a realistic lens.
01:19:03.000And what I've come to realize is that girls that come from certain backgrounds are very good at putting out a certain persona to attract the man and then the claws really sink into you after they got you married or after you guys are cohabitating or whatever and you might see the other side because once a girl gets in a certain industry or a certain background There's certain traumas that exist in them that won't rear their ugly head until there's altercation or conflict.
01:19:27.000And it might come and you might not expect it.
01:19:29.000And I think you being an idealistic guy, being a lover boy, being pure-hearted, you see the good in her, but you might not see the dark side because you haven't seen it yet.
01:19:37.000And I mean, I'm not hoping for anything.
01:19:40.000But girls that come from that industry, bro, they have demons that they're fighting all the time and it's very difficult for them to get them out.
01:20:02.000I think it does make me more understanding.
01:20:04.000It makes me more understanding and more patient.
01:20:07.000We had this discussion with Neon, you know, and I'm a little bit older than you guys, so I'm speaking from experience and also from law enforcement background where I would interview people that were extremely manipulative and extremely conniving and cunning and would be able to sell, you know, a certain persona, people that are sociopaths,
01:20:22.000And unfortunately, I hate to say it, women that are involved in sex work typically always score very high in all these traits and they're able to sell a dream or a persona to a guy that might not be aware.
01:22:18.000I don't know if everyone else is, but me personally, when you're exchanging energy with someone during sex, you're not only sleeping with that person, but you're also receiving all of the energy from the other people that they've had sex with as well.
01:22:41.000I just feel like there's an amount of self-respect that comes with it, and I just need someone to be on the same level as me when it comes to self-love and self-respect.
01:25:32.000Can we get the ladies and guys to react to viral videos of a wife telling her husband she has the potential to cheat on him but will not put herself in compromising situations?
01:26:35.000Because if I'm only worried in my 20s about male validation, male attention, and if I'm going to get a boyfriend, then I just wasted a whole decade worrying about something that I can't control.
01:27:06.000If I met him, how would I know what he wants?
01:27:09.000Generally speaking, if you want to marry a man, you should prepare for it, right?
01:27:15.000Okay, so I'm preparing it by being the best version of myself and being successful and creating business for myself and going about life being happy.
01:27:31.000So, my initial attack when I meet somebody that I'm interested in, I present myself and I'm like, I want to be the perfect girl for you, so what can I do in order to be your ideal woman?
01:28:32.000Well, going back to her, you said you want to take your 20s to like build success and everything else like that, right?
01:28:39.000Question for you, when do you think a woman is the most attractive?
01:28:43.000When do I think she's the most attractive?
01:28:46.000Yeah, in general, when do you think most women reach their peak as far as like being the most attractive to men?
01:28:52.000I feel like it doesn't come with age in my opinion because I know I have friends that are my age and I have friends that are in their 30s and my friends that are my age that are in healthy relationships are way more stable, have their priorities in line and I feel like that's why they are in relationships whereas my friends that are like...
01:29:11.000But when did they attract their partner?
01:30:21.000Okay, but wouldn't my man want me to just be doing myself then at this age where I'm still maturing and learning about how to go about life so that I'm mentally prepared?
01:31:04.000Do you think I'm gonna be an attractive partner for a girl to take me seriously if I'm just like a pretty boy that doesn't have anything else together?
01:32:28.000In your opinion, if you're giving me advice at 22 years old, what's your advice to me on how to prepare for that?
01:32:35.000All I'm simply saying is that women tend to think that they have the entire, you know, they have a lot of time to go ahead and find their guy.
01:32:42.000What I'm saying is that a woman's attraction is perishable.
01:32:44.000Like, you know, you go ahead and you have your career and you make your money and 10 years passes by and you're 32.
01:35:28.000But I just find it funny how when I reverse the roles and I take the analogy and I say, I'm going to focus on my beauty as a man, you would never accept me.
01:35:35.000But then you expect the guy to accept you for focusing on something we don't give a fuck about.
01:35:41.000So at this age, if all those things, like men my age can't provide that for me, like say I make more than them at this point in time, what if I'm like, okay...
01:35:50.000Why are you looking at 22-year-old men?
01:35:55.000I'm saying I ideally don't think that in the future my husband's going to be 10 years older than me.
01:36:00.000But at this point in time, men my age are still growing.
01:36:03.000They're still finding ways to be successful at ETC. So in my opinion, I feel like it's going to happen in my late 20s, early 30s, whenever men my age are more financially stable.
01:36:15.000Why not just date a guy that's older than you now?
01:36:17.000The average age of marriage anyway is 7 to 10 years.
01:36:20.000So you're telling me just get married?
01:36:53.000If you find a guy that has these traits that you want, chivalrous and, you know, a leader and dominant, whatever, he's gonna want a traditional woman back in return a lot of times.
01:37:00.000He's not gonna want some, you know, feminist babe boss that's 31 years old looking for a dude.
01:42:44.000Would you ladies rather date the man of your dreams who lets you live very comfortably, but has only flaws he loves women for real, or date an average man and be single forever?
01:42:58.000Would you guys rather be with a loyal, average guy, 5'9", making 50k per year, 30 to 50k per year, or a guy that is attractive, but he's going to have other women?
01:44:46.000A loyal average guy or rich guy that's gonna have multiple women?
01:44:49.000I'm going to go with the rich guy that has other women because I don't get jealous I could share, but as long as they're taking care of me, I'm going to get bored with the normal guy.
01:47:01.000Because I doubt any of the girls here on the panel are going to switch their lifestyle up and listen to any of the advice that we can give.
01:47:50.000Like, I'm in a relationship, like, there's always, you know, temptation, like, it's tough to think, you know, dating, I get that as a man.
01:47:57.000But you don't think eventually, you know, you just want that one girl that you have that thing with?
01:48:03.000Okay, the reason why, and there's a psychological reason for why you have to have multiple women, but if I'm going to simplify it, and ladies, don't get offended by what I'm going to say, but what I'm saying is based in biology and how women operate.
01:48:15.000Women are very selfish, and what I mean by that is they're always looking for the bigger, better deal.
01:48:19.000They're looking for the best guy that they can get with their beauty.
01:48:22.000And the only way that you can really ensure that the woman feels like she's getting the best deal is she needs to know that you're valued by other women.
01:48:28.000And the best and most honest way to display that is by having other women in play because it keeps women on their toes and it keeps them competitive and it lets them understand that their place isn't necessarily secure.
01:48:38.000Once a woman feels secure with you and she feels like, oh, this guy's not going to go anywhere, that's when disrespect begins, that's when she starts to wonder, do I really have the best guy here?
01:48:46.000He's kind of letting me run around him and whatever, but when you have other women in place, she understands that her position isn't secure and she's going to behave and act the best way that she can.
01:48:54.000And you have to do that to deal with female psychology where they always want the bigger, better deal.
01:48:59.000I have a question also, because I feel like the women that...
01:49:04.000Maybe it depends on man-to-man, different men.
01:49:08.000I do agree with you that other girls, when they come up to you, they validate you, because I've been out, and girls will come up, and then the hottest girl in the room wants to talk to you, and I get that.
01:49:50.000It's going to be you and me, and that's that.
01:49:52.000No, the reason why she won't talk to other guys is because when a girl's chasing your validation and she knows that she's competing with other girls, she won't have time to talk to other guys.
01:49:59.000That's true, but that's one way of going about it.
01:50:16.000Yeah, and it works because what ends up happening is I vet the girl for a period of time and then I introduce her to another girl I'm dealing with.
01:50:22.000Well, they have similar ideals because I'm dealing with them.
01:50:29.000Do you think long term that's going to work out?
01:50:32.000Or do you think you're going to go find a whole new pair of girls after that crashes?
01:50:36.000You know, the thing is Is it always going to last forever?
01:50:40.000No, nothing ever lasts forever, but the point is that it's a system that works, and it keeps girls on their toes, it keeps girls loyal to you, it keeps girls submissive, it lets them understand that their place isn't necessarily secured, and that's when people tend to work the best.
01:50:52.000If you have a company, right, and you have a sales company, right, and you have a bunch of salesmen working for you, and it's a competitive nature where everyone is competing, well, They know that their place isn't necessarily secure and they perform the best.
01:51:04.000But whenever people know that they're tenured and they can't be fired, that's when they behave poorly.
01:51:07.000This is why women, a lot of times after they get married, they stop giving their husbands sex, they gain weight, they get fat, they get loud, bitchy, crass.
01:51:13.000The only way that you, as a man, you have to maintain the leverage with women.
01:51:16.000Because when the woman has the leverage, she's going to punish you for it.
01:51:19.000If you maintain the leverage, you can at least control and dictate how things go because men tend to love idealistically versus women love opportunistically.
01:51:26.000So you need to be the best opportunity for her.
01:52:20.000But most men, if given the option, would you rather have one girl or two girls, they're always going to go with two girls if there was no consequence.
01:52:27.000Most guys are monogamous because they have to be.
01:52:41.000If that's what works, that's good for...
01:52:43.000I've noticed it's the best for keeping girls attracted to you, keeping them in line, keeping them submissive, keeping them in their feminine.
01:54:47.000It's like working at a company, you know what I mean?
01:54:49.000Like, if you want to get promoted to a certain position, you have to have those job qualities and those job requirements in place for me to elevate you.
01:54:57.000Right, so is your future goal to have one superior?
01:55:31.000Yeah, girls are not naturally polygamous like we are.
01:55:36.000Anytime I've seen a girl and she has multiple dudes she's talking to, each of those guys is missing something critical.
01:55:42.000Maybe one guy has money, but he's really boring and annoying.
01:55:44.000Maybe one guy is extremely charming and charismatic, but he's broke all the time.
01:55:48.000Maybe another guy is really funny, but he's ugly.
01:55:50.000So anytime I see a girl dating multiple guys or dealing with multiple men, those men all have something that she likes and she has to compartmentalize them in a degree.
01:55:59.000But preferably, most girls would want one guy that has all those traits in one so she can sleep with and get the emotional stimulation from one guy.
01:56:37.000Girls who truly respect themselves and, you know, they're virgin and all that, they're not going to even want to talk or look at a guy who's out being with multiple women, who's in front of their face, like, I'm going to talk to other girls, you're going to sit and do what I say, and if you stay here longer, I'm going to marry you, so just deal with it.
01:56:53.000And those girls' parents won't even allow her to have a conversation with, like, men like that.
01:57:00.000And the reason why you're incorrect is because women have different attraction requirements than men do.
01:57:06.000A guy that's out there and dealing with women has experience is attractive.
01:57:10.000I feel like you're talking more on like different forms of relationships and almost more like religion than you are a monogamous relationship.
01:57:25.000So, you think that a family with a good little innocent girl is just gonna hand her off to a man that's like, I'm gonna fuck bitches, stay home, and do what I say.
01:57:37.000If you're successful enough and you have the status, they will.
01:57:44.000Well, I mean, that might be a requirement for her family to give her over, but regardless, if you have enough money and status, a lot of people are going to just shut the hell up and accept it.
01:57:54.000Well, where are the guys with money and status, where are they going to find girls?
01:59:26.000I always laugh when girls say real men put their desires to the side, etc.
01:59:30.000Like, I mean, can you really, I mean, this is a perfect time for the candy store analogy, but I don't think women are in a position to tell guys to put their desires to the side.
01:59:54.000What about all the stress it took for me to become attractive in the first place for her to find me attractive?
01:59:59.000The stress of building a business, the stress of earning money, the stress of going to the gym all the time, the stress of getting my masculinity on point and being a confident, ambitious leader.
02:00:08.000What does you putting your thing and other girls equate to that?
02:00:13.000Because I had to go through an enormous and tremendous amount of stress to be attractive for you in the first place to even give me a chance.
02:00:20.000So you did all of that and you still need to go have sex with other girls to feel accomplished?
02:00:54.000So therefore, you can't dictate to someone who lives life on hard mode how to enjoy the fruits of their labor when you got everything handed to you just for being a female.
02:01:02.000So that's why I always laugh at women that say, oh, well, put your desires aside, blah, blah, blah.
02:01:08.000Well, you're not putting your desires aside for what type of man that you want and what type of man you demand.
02:01:49.000I think a man has goals, wants to work out, has their career.
02:01:53.000I don't think anyone should have any say.
02:01:56.000And them not doing that and focusing more on them.
02:01:58.000If that's what they have going on, they gotta do that.
02:02:01.000I've been in relationships before where a girl has told me, hey, like, oh, if you go chase your dream in L.A. or do this, like, how am I gonna...
02:02:59.000And be on a yacht with a couple millionaires and maybe you might meet a guy that might take you seriously and give a relationship and marry one day.
02:03:08.000We have to have some kind of status to get invited.
02:03:10.000Like you're able to get into clubs for free, etc.
02:03:12.000What women don't understand is that these social situations that you get into for free just for being a female creates enormous opportunity for you to better yourself.
02:03:20.000We don't get these opportunities unless we are the best version of ourselves.
02:03:40.000I feel like there's a man who cheats and doesn't let his girlfriend find out, and then there's a man who cheats and lets his girlfriend find out.
02:03:45.000But both parties have to become competent to some degree to be able to cheat in the first place.
02:04:45.000Like you being able to sleep with multiple women?
02:04:48.000Because a component for a man to be sexually attractive to women is to acquire a bunch of different things in place to be sexually attractive in the first place.
02:05:05.000I mean, obviously, yes, there is a point of enjoyment in it, but also the other thing is that it keeps women in line when they can be replaced.
02:05:13.000Is it for you or other people, though?
02:05:16.000What do you mean, is it for me or for other people?
02:05:19.000Because you're like, I accomplished all of this.
02:05:22.000I want to get with all of these girls.
02:05:56.000And I'm not saying that to like shit on you or whatever, but I'm trying to say that there's a clear divide between male-like standards and female standards when it comes to competence.
02:06:07.000No offense to you, right, but you're telling a grown man what he should do with his life.
02:08:34.000Like, I think if a girl's on Instagram showing her body off and stuff like that, like, that's cheating in itself because women don't market themselves the same way men do.
02:08:41.000Women market themselves by making themselves seem available.
02:08:50.000I mean, whatever you want to call it, but I think the threshold for women to cheat is way easier because women are the ones that get approached.
02:08:57.000So if a woman even puts herself in a position where she could be courted by another man, I look at that as cheating.
02:09:03.000Why the fuck are you going to a club when you got a guy?
02:09:04.000Why the hell are you going out on a girl's trip when you have a guy?
02:09:07.000Why do you have these weird pictures of yourself on the internet when you have a guy?
02:09:10.000If a girl even talks to another guy, then they don't like the guy they're in a relationship with.
02:12:42.000So my name is Jose, and I have been wanting to change my name for a while now because there is too many people with that name, and it's annoying.
02:12:48.000I'm 18, so it's better to do it at a young age.
02:12:50.000What are your opinions on changing names?
02:16:09.000Well, you and then you, I guess, because you guys are both on OF. What are you going to do?
02:16:15.000I think PortHub is different than OnlyFans to me.
02:16:19.000So, like, PortHub is more like you could Google it and you're going to see it, but OnlyFans is like you really have to subscribe and, like, really, like, it could be really low-key.
02:16:25.000They can easily leak your stuff, though.
02:16:27.000Well, any of the leaks content isn't supposed to be...
02:16:29.000You can copyright it and get it taken down.
02:16:32.000So you can't just search anyone on OnlyFans?
02:16:34.000You have to, like, have, like, their name or whatever?
02:17:05.000Honestly, I feel like it is really selfish, though, because, like, at the end of the day, whenever you bring a kid into the world, like, it's not about you, it's about your kid, and a lot of kids are affected by their parents' choices, so, in my personal opinion, that's why I would never subject myself to that, because I'm not selfish.
02:19:11.000You know, this is a very interesting situation.
02:19:15.000My whole life I've believed in second chances and I believe a lot of people around me have been in very tough situations that I try to help them with.
02:19:25.000I think I'm going to raise some great kids one day and I think they're going to be very strong and understanding.
02:19:50.000I would argue that we're in an overly...
02:19:53.000We over-sexualized women in 2023, and we don't really know the long-term ramifications of it, but we're starting to see it right now with kids going to school and getting picked on for their mom being on OnlyFans.
02:20:02.000I've seen a couple news articles where kids are maybe wanting to off themselves because kids tease them on the playground with videos of their mom doing deplorable acts, whatever it may be.
02:20:13.000So we won't really know until the next five to ten years how it's going to go, but it's like, God damn.
02:20:18.000I honestly wouldn't have kids unless I could put them in homeschooling or a private school.
02:20:23.000In most of those places, they don't allow phones.
02:20:25.000Yeah, but you can't shield them from reality.
02:20:27.000Like, you're going to have to put your kids in with other children at some point.
02:20:30.000Not shield them, but be with them and, you know, not desensitize them.
02:20:36.000But you need to put them with other children, enroll them in sports, enroll them in activities, and they're going to be, like, the kids are going to find out.
02:20:53.000I don't really look at OnlyFans as a long-term thing for me.
02:21:00.000It's more of something I just did for my fans.
02:21:03.000Also, Like I said, I wouldn't have children unless I could provide everything for them, and I think every parent in the world has something hidden in their past that your children's gonna find out.
02:21:51.000But is it the fact of having OnlyFans or what you're producing on OnlyFans that matters?
02:21:57.000Put it this way, OnlyFans almost lost its payment processor because it's considered pornography.
02:22:02.000Even though there's people on there that don't necessarily do porn, the predominant class of people that make the most money on OnlyFans are all pretty much doing pornography.
02:22:11.000Then what about people who do like Fansly or the other apps?
02:22:15.000Well, those apps don't have the same...
02:22:45.000OnlyFans is just a bad rep in general.
02:22:48.000People are automatically going to assume it's pornography if you have an OF. Even if it's not.
02:22:53.000We know a guy that does strictly financial stuff on there, but people think it's porn.
02:22:56.000You guys have audience, obviously, and you're used to people inputting their opinions, so you know that people are going to think what they think.
02:23:32.000I believe that the new stepping stone of 2023, even versus 10 years ago, like there was just magazines of girls and everything's just on the internet now.
02:25:47.000I found out she said she didn't text him, then blocked him after I trained her good since Housewife G, traditional wife, all that you talk about.
02:26:15.000Maestro, Nick, you said your girl told you she regrets what she's done, but does she regret all the great sexual experiences she gained from it and now uses on in the bedroom?
02:28:07.000Just because, well, I kept talking about like loyalty.
02:28:10.000Like I just, I'm a firm believer in like loyalty and that's definitely not.
02:28:13.000Do you think men and women show loyalty the same way?
02:28:17.000I mean, I'm not a man, so I can't necessarily speak directly from the perspective of one, but I feel like loyalty is a universal fact of like...
02:28:38.000Okay, so wouldn't it be fair to say that since we're different and we view the opposite gender differently, that we would have different standards of loyalty?
02:29:42.000We're way more similar than we care to admit.
02:29:45.000It's just that everyone wants to feel special and say, I'm different, but the reality is you're like every other girl and I'm like every other guy, realistically speaking.
02:29:54.000We're very similar in how we view the world and how we operate, emotions, etc., We have some nuanced differences, but from a biological level, we're very similar.
02:30:02.000So what I'm trying to say is that loyalty is not to show in the same way between the genders.
02:30:05.000You show loyalty by not fucking someone else.
02:30:07.000A man shows loyalty by willing to die to protect you.
02:30:09.000That's how men and women show loyalty.
02:31:47.000Look, I think you're just trying to, you know, not answer the question so that you don't concede your point, but the reality is biology doesn't care about what time we're in.
02:31:56.000Women still want certain things regardless of the time that we're in.
02:32:06.000Regardless of the fact that we live in the safest times ever, women still want a man that's stronger than them.
02:32:11.000Don't you think that's probably from human programming, from thousands of years of human evolution, of needing to be with a stronger man to protect you from animals and other dangerous men?
02:33:02.000If you're going to say you disagree with something, you need to back it up with some kind of fact, and you don't really back it up with any other fact besides, I'm different.
02:35:53.000I've worked on the things that I had to work on, but one thing I never had to work on was my loyalty or my presence when I'm with someone in a relationship.
02:36:16.000No, it's just that I'm a very patient person and when I love someone, I try and work until there's absolutely no way to finish what we have.
02:38:51.000Men, you should be withholding the relationship and make her pursue it.
02:38:55.000Could you talk to a girl for a long period of time and pursue a relationship with her and not have any sexual relations?
02:39:03.000No, and to be honest with you, most girls don't deserve a relationship in general, so that's why I'm very selective on who I give a relationship to.
02:39:10.000Would you rather date a girl who's a virgin and has OnlyFans or has a body count of 100 and doesn't have anything on the internet?
02:39:21.000A virgin on OF would probably be better, statistically speaking.
02:39:54.000But that's what men have to do nowadays.
02:39:56.000The girls gotta ask for the relationship because if I ask her for the relationship, I'm basically telling her, hey, you're fine just the way that you are.
02:40:03.000And that's when girls get comfortable.
02:41:18.000I feel like I had this thing of, oh, when they ask this, I'm going to say this, but when you're right here, and you're under the pressure, and there's people watching, and, you know, there's silence, you might say things that you didn't mean to.
02:41:33.000But I think it's fire what you guys have here, and I think it's awesome.
02:42:30.000Alright, my man, swap out your hat for the one that says, road to penicillin, because you're gonna need that shit after your girl finna destroy that immune system.