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00:14:27.000Yeah, kind of going through a breakup, trying to like...
00:14:30.000Recover and cleanse, spiritual cleansing.
00:14:33.000Yeah, it's just taking too much of my time and energy up and I'm not focusing enough on my goals and my finances and trying to cater to someone else's needs.
00:14:42.000Alright, how long ago did you guys break up?
00:15:02.000There was some things that were said to me that I didn't I feel like it was appropriate for him to say them to me, and I'm not going to take on...
00:30:06.000So my wife that went to a 30th party, she went up to a hotel, done coke with some guys, been married two years with kids, been together 14 years.
00:31:40.000I mean, honestly, drugs are drugs at the end of the day.
00:31:43.000If the roles were reversed, though, right, and that was your husband, you know, he went to a hotel with a bunch of women and did coke, would that make you feel some type of way if you guys do have children together?
00:32:00.000There's a possibility that there could have been something that happened there without you knowing, because who's going to admit to that?
00:32:05.000I mean, it's bold enough to even admit that you went to a hotel and did coke with somebody, let alone if you're actually, you know, fucking.
00:34:32.000Because, I mean, you could be upset about someone doing coke.
00:34:35.000You could be upset about someone Having conversations with the different gender or you can be upset about someone going to an event that you didn't know about.
00:34:46.000Because you don't know if he does coke either.
00:34:47.000You don't know if they met at a club 25 years ago in the bathroom doing coke.
00:34:52.000I think it depends on what he's upset about.
00:34:54.000It's all the above because on our podcast, one of the biggest things we tell guys is to avoid girls that are alcoholics and avoid girls that do drugs.
00:35:01.000I mean, I think that goes for both genders though.
00:35:03.000A woman doesn't really want a man that is an alcoholic or does drugs and vice versa.
00:35:08.000Don't you want a relationship where you both have freedom to do whatever you want and you still come back and love each other?
00:35:14.000I just don't think it should only be a boyfriend.
00:35:16.000Well, the problem is that when girls are alcoholics or do drugs, they typically are whores.
00:35:23.000You need to know your non-negotiables.
00:35:25.000Like, doing the drugs inhibits your ability to use a little bit of discernment and critical thinking and women are already emotional and it highlights emotions and it makes them do stupid shit.
00:35:36.000If a guy goes ahead and has a bunch of sex on drugs, it's not the same as a woman having sex on drugs.
00:36:54.000It could be he has money, but he's extremely unattractive physically, or he's just a pussy and soft, and she needs that assertive attitude to get her aroused.
00:37:03.000Or it could be he's very attractive, but he's a brokie.
00:37:06.000So whenever a girl says she wants an open relationship, it means that her man is severely lacking something that's required.
00:37:11.000So what does it mean if a man is requesting an open relationship?
00:39:28.000A lot of girls will sit there and say, oh, I like this and I agree with this, etc., but you're not actually attracted or respected or aroused by it.
00:39:37.000And I've always said this, like, women lie about what they really like.
00:39:39.000Like, what you really want is a guy to tell you, shut up, that's dumb, yo, we're gonna do this, I don't care what you think, we're gonna do this.
00:39:45.000Women want assertive, dominant men because if I can stand up to you, that means I can stand up to the world.
00:39:49.000That means I can actually protect you because I don't let a woman influence what I do.
00:39:53.000If I, as a man, I'm supposed to be the leader in a relationship, I'm letting my girl have sex with other men, that effectively shows that I am a bitch.
00:39:59.000And I am willing to let people walk all over me because your woman is the one thing that you are going to be the most territorial about.
00:40:06.000Hyper-masculine, dominant men don't let their women have sex with other dudes.
00:40:53.000I mean, I'm just speaking fairly objectively here.
00:40:56.000It's not a knock on your guy, but men that I've seen that allow their women to have sex with other men almost always exhibit feminine tendencies.
00:42:42.000Because at the end of the day, women, on a generalization level, that's what we do, right?
00:42:47.000So I think that the men should actually love the woman a bit more.
00:42:50.000I feel like as he sees a flower that's beautiful, if he doesn't want to pick it to kill it, he can take a picture of it.
00:42:56.000I feel like as we are, because mind you, because I've seen a few clips, so scientifically based, after you have a child by a man, there is something that goes down within their body.
00:43:07.000I think it's like vasperation or something like that.
00:43:10.000It's something that goes down with their attraction level.
00:43:12.000So if they don't love you a thousand times more than they do before you're married, it's never going to work.
00:43:18.000And that's why we see all these women dying on the tables of BBLs or mommy makeovers because we're allowing them to, let's say, feel this, like, I don't know.
00:43:49.000Well, you gave the specific example of a guy being on a date with a woman, right?
00:45:09.000And I'll explain why here in a second.
00:45:11.000For the guy to get the date in the first place, for the guy to even be able to impregnate her, he has to accomplish certain things and be attractive to even get this opportunity.
00:45:18.000Women, on the other hand, are the ones that are approached.
00:45:20.000Women are the ones that the guy comes up to them.
00:45:34.000So even with weight, you can say, oh, she lost 40 pounds.
00:45:37.000Do you not think that that was inherently valuable for your appearance when you approach me?
00:45:42.000The prerequisites required for a woman to get a date versus the prerequisites required for a man to get a date are vastly different and the prerequisites of men are far higher and harder to achieve than women, period.
00:45:53.000They're different, but I don't think that they're a bit more weight because at the end of the day, it calls for discipline, whichever.
00:45:59.000An 18-year-old woman can be on a yacht with multi-millionaires versus an 18-year-old man will never get the opportunity.
00:46:08.000An 18-year-old child with her frontal lobe not developed?
00:47:27.000I feel like men are saying, hey, we have to address our ego and make money, but women have to address their appearance and, let's say, make sure that they're Do you remember what the original argument was?
00:47:47.000Yes, that men and women, that men have a stronger or powerful way to create themselves.
00:47:53.000No, the conversation was that it's harder for men to get that date before a woman could.
00:47:59.000This is the problem, and this is why I've been cutting you off, because you don't even remember what you're arguing anymore.
00:48:05.000What we're arguing is why the woman needs to like the man more.
00:48:11.000That was a long time ago, I feel like.
00:48:13.000But no, we've had conversations after that.
00:48:15.000The conversation- No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:48:17.000That was the original point, and then you went off on a tangent when I tried to stop you because you went off on a tangent.
00:48:21.000See, this is why I need to interrupt you, right?
00:48:23.000And now, why it's so important to be a podcast host, whatever, because if I let you just drone on, everyone forgets what the hell we were talking about.
00:48:30.000What I was saying was, the woman needs to like the man more, and the reason why the woman needs- Women, girls and girls, what are you talking about, you?
00:48:39.000What I was saying was, the woman needs to like the man more because the man needs to get to a point where he's even able to get the girl to nurture him.
00:48:48.000Because you made the argument, oh, he opened a door on a date, get a kid with him, blah, blah, blah.
00:48:51.000I'm saying the man needs to get to a certain point before she even does these things with him.
00:48:55.000The man needs to be attractive enough to even get the woman.
00:49:13.000So knowing that women get bored in relationships and are more willing to end the relationship, who needs to be more fulfilled in the relationship?
00:49:21.000For a woman to feel fulfilled in a relationship, she must like the man more and feel like she has the best options she can get so she doesn't go anywhere.
00:50:03.000I mean, if you're looking at it even with animals, though, if you're looking at it from an animalistic point of view, say it's like lions or some shit, or even like peacocks.
00:50:13.000Peacocks have to have their big, beautiful feathers in order to attract...
00:50:16.000And then men actually have the feathers.
00:50:49.000It's women, overwhelmingly, they get bored in relationships more.
00:50:52.000The reason why you guys might have never heard this is because we live in a very feminist-centric world where we tell women they need to be happy any means necessary.
00:51:00.000They deserve the best man that they can get, blah, blah, blah.
00:51:03.000And then we also tell women that the grass is green on the other side.
00:51:06.000So women are very selective on men and they get bored easily.
00:51:09.000So guys need to be the best version of themselves to keep the girl around this.
00:51:16.000And I think that a lot of it comes down to a man's willingness to stay committed to growth and evolution because a lot of men choose to stay in the comfort zone.
00:51:25.000And you have to choose growth and evolution if you're with a woman that has that mindset.
00:53:34.000So at the table, did we think, did we lay our importance on sex?
00:53:38.000I mean, I understand that it's important to men, but are we as women, are we accepting that sex is the only thing that's most important to men?
00:55:31.000As it continued to develop, I was like, I really don't need other men, but he did need other women because I can't fulfill all of his sexual needs by myself.
00:55:40.000It's too time consuming for me to fulfill all your sexual needs.
00:55:43.000I'm wondering if this guy actually liked you like that.
00:55:45.000Because it seems to me like he was just saying you're his girl but doing what he wants to do.
00:56:22.000Yeah, where it's not like, I'm not gonna, like, break up with you to do with him, but, like, I kinda like you more than him, or, you know, like...
00:56:30.000I mean, there's, like, there's guys that I'm attracted to and that, like, I wanna talk to and get to know and be friends, but I really, like, I just don't...
00:56:37.000But, like, how do you be friends with someone...
00:56:38.000If you know he lay in the good though, how are you just friends with him when you know he's doing something good and you still got you to get home?
00:57:47.000But the most important for a man is to comprehend stuff and be able to provide, right?
00:57:50.000So if a woman, back to my point, I'm not going to talk too much, but back to my point, if a woman allows herself to go through the trials and tribulations to be attractive, why isn't that as respected as a man going through trials?
00:58:03.000Well, you could be a loss for one second.
00:58:05.000Why isn't it the same trials and tribulations that a man going to build money?
00:58:57.000But what I'm saying is that you have the privilege, whether you take it or not, of not working and finding a man that could take care of you, if you wanted.
01:02:48.000I'm telling you what the man wants and how men think.
01:02:50.000I'm telling you, you're not gonna lose any dates by not being educated.
01:02:56.000As far as keeping the guy long term, etc., of course you're going to need to have some semblance of being able to hold a conversation, being attentive, being a good listener, being charming, all these things.
01:03:37.000And the more money a man makes, the less he cares.
01:03:39.000But what about introducing them to your mom and stuff?
01:03:42.000If I'm a server and I date a high value man or whatever, don't you think their family is going to be like, this gold digger or whatever?
01:03:49.000Put it this way, most guys would take a girl that is broke and not a hoe over a girl that has a career and smart and ambitious that's a whore.
01:06:12.000I genuinely think like most guys, right, their dream is to have one main girl or two main girls and then be able to have sex with other girls on the side.
01:06:20.000It's just that most guys can't pull it off.
01:06:22.000But I think in general, like if a girl finds a guy that That is attractive and meets all her requirements.
01:06:27.000Understand that other women are probably going to want that too because that guy is rare.
01:06:30.000And he's going to want to have sex with other girls.
01:07:47.000I always had the rule of like, okay, that's fine.
01:07:49.000You can fuck the other one, but no, like you have to wait a week or at least three days to fuck me again because I don't want that energy exchange from my other woman.
01:07:58.000First of all, because whatever he just fucked...
01:10:16.000Do you want the next generation that comes from you to be multi-millionaires, and then you'd be like, you know what, fucking do your thing.
01:10:21.000What are the parameters for you to allow him to cheat?
01:10:59.000To save Myron time and hear, ladies, if you want a man that makes more money than you, is stronger than you, smarter than you, and attractive than you, ask him for a superior.
01:12:03.000Because at the end of the day, as a man, you're going to look at her and in some way either want to fuck her, or you're just going to like...
01:13:44.000Okay, so you're saying the same things that okay, so is there anything that you can name that he would that he could get That he can't get from a guy cuz you mentioned a bunch of things that he can get from a guy friend Yeah, we're female specific are there any things you could think of she said like a female perspective if he wants one Sorry the same thing that she said okay female perspective Who do you think would give better advice,
01:14:09.000a man or a woman, when it comes to dealing with females?
01:17:19.000You're saying that she's a medium and she's tapping into certain things.
01:17:21.000What I'm saying is that if a girl meets a guy and he's over here talking about star signs and moons and all this other bullshit, you should run the other way as a female.
01:17:29.000And the reason why is because that man is going to have a problem with taking accountability for his deficiencies.
01:17:35.000See, we give women the privilege of, no offense, being morons when it comes to astrology and saying, I didn't do this.
01:17:42.000I'm sorry, I'm a bitch because I'm a Gemini.
01:17:44.000Could you imagine if a dude walked around and said, oh, sorry, I didn't mean to slap you there.
01:18:38.000But, I mean, objectively speaking, if I went on a date and I told the girl, look, man, you gotta understand, I can't pay this bill because, you know, the galaxy is filled.
01:18:49.000Yeah, but what if you just don't know shit about it?
01:18:52.000Maybe you haven't learned much about it.
01:18:54.000So how can you speak on something that you know nothing about?
01:18:58.000I'm saying that if a man has this mindset, you need to run the other way.
01:19:05.000I feel like a lot of the men that I know that talk about astrology and shit, they just learn the basics of it so that they get the woman interested.
01:19:13.000Yeah, they're doing it because they know that women are suckers for that stupidity.
01:19:38.000No, mind you, I feel like even in our relationships...
01:19:41.000Even in relationships, they may have not known that they were manifesting, but the story of how they became wealthy was all manifestation.
01:19:49.000It was all like, let's say, bartering on yourself, mind over matter.
01:19:54.000The conversations and the stories that I've heard on multimillionaires and billionaires, and mind you, I'm in those circles certain times, not all the time, but certain times where I'm able to hear how people got their startup.
01:20:05.000They still had to work for it, though.
01:20:06.000No, they worked for it, but guess what?
01:20:08.000No, no, no, definitely not, but I'm saying that nine out of ten times their story aligned with manifestation before they even knew what it was.
01:20:14.000So they may have not said, oh, the stars, blah, blah, blah, but certain things within that realm All I'm saying is I'm giving the women here a tip.
01:20:26.000If a dude is talking about astrology on a first date and he actually takes it seriously, you should probably run the other way.
01:20:33.000Actually, I would run the other way if he wasn't into it at all.
01:21:36.000I don't think you understand that, like, what we're trying to explain here is that having this mindset leads to other personality traits that you're not going to find attractive as a female in general.
01:22:05.000You just don't know anything about it.
01:22:10.000What we do know is that you're single, and every time you get a man, you leave.
01:22:14.000So ultimately, your own experiences tell you that it doesn't work.
01:22:17.000Because a man is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.
01:22:21.000If you're getting with guys that believe in stars and astrology, etc., which is a feminine characteristic, by the way, and you're leaving all of them, You should do some deductive problem solving and figure out, okay, all the guys that I like that I'm going out on dates with that I should be attracted to, I can't stay with them because what's going on here?
01:22:39.000If they're not into any of it, I'm going to be bored as fuck because we're going to have nothing to talk about because consciousness is sexy to me and I want to talk about consciousness.
01:22:48.000Well, they could talk to you about other things that are real.
01:22:50.000Like about history, what's going on in the world, maybe the stock market, real estate.
01:22:53.000Yeah, maybe if I find that interesting, but if it's not, then I'm just going to be bored.
01:22:57.000Like, I'm going to leave and I'll be bored because I'm into certain things.
01:23:03.000Yeah, anyway, I mean, I'm just giving advice to the rest of the girls here so they don't end up in a situation where they're single in their 30s.
01:23:10.000If a guy is into astrology, etc., that's a big red flag because that is dipping the pool into a lack of self-accountability.
01:23:19.000Guys that I know that are successful, they get it under any circumstances, regardless of when fucking month they were born or numerology, any of that bullshit.
01:23:59.000It's delivered to you in a black packet, totally hidden, to your doorstep with any type of medication needed or, for example, doctor notes.
01:24:08.000And once again, once you take blue chew, you get harder each and every time.
01:27:32.000I was diving way too much into conspiracy theories.
01:27:37.000What conspiracy theory were you diving into?
01:27:39.000That the world was gonna end, like some bomb or explosion was gonna happen in America, like something crazy, so I literally had to leave the country.
01:27:51.000Yeah, but I thought something imminent was gonna happen.
01:29:27.000I said you should conquer yourself as a man.
01:29:29.000You shouldn't partake in those things.
01:29:31.000Anyway, I think as a guy, we don't get the benefit of like, you know, being able to do drugs and ayahuasca or whatever and still being able to get the opposite gender.
01:29:42.000Like, as a guy, you got to be on point.
01:30:51.000Mind you, I'm not an advocate for drugs, but ever since I did acid maybe four years ago, I look at trees in the universe differently.
01:30:59.000And mind you, I feel like, yeah, you're like, oh, druggy, but it's like, no, I isn't.
01:31:04.000We're talking about the psychedelics and how it's able to open your mind and expand your consciousness.
01:31:09.000All I'm simply saying is that as a female, you have the privilege of doing these things and it's not really gonna hurt you from finding a man.
01:31:20.000But as a man, you doing these things is absolutely gonna hurt you because it's gonna decrease your ability to be competent, it's gonna decrease your work capacity, it's gonna decrease your ability to be focused, and all of these things are critical to you being successful.
01:31:33.000So, like I said before, Being successful as a female is elective.
01:31:37.000Being successful as a man is mandatory.
01:31:40.000You can still get a date with a millionaire as a female being a bum.
01:31:47.000I literally know a guy that did ayahuasca, big influencer, Connor Murphy, you guys know who I'm talking about, did ayahuasca fucking ruin his life.
01:33:17.000Most things in spirituality can be tied to quantum physics.
01:33:22.000And I don't know how much you've learned about quantum physics, but most spiritual concepts can be linked to a quantum physics, like quantum entanglement.
01:33:32.000Why not just study quantum physics then?
01:33:43.000I love being able to bridge the gap for people because there's some science-based minds like men are logical-minded based and so being able to bridge the gap between science and spirituality is something beautiful that I love to bring to people and something I would also like to say is I don't know you asked me about my third eye but what is the third eye is the pineal gland and you know what the pineal gland is it's actually a crystal that's inside of your brain and this has been studied by science And crystals...
01:35:12.000Okay, ask the ladies, who is one strong female character from any movie or TV show that inspires them, and what characteristics display strong feminine behavior?
01:38:54.000Well, we have more educated people now than ever before, the most college graduates ever, but the economy isn't the worst that it's ever been.
01:39:01.000So does education really save the world?
01:39:15.000You failed earlier when we gave your critical thinking skill situation with why a woman needs to like a man more.
01:39:19.000How did I fail when I allowed you guys to just continue with the conversation because everyone didn't miss my point or everyone missed my point?
01:39:38.000You're saying that it helps with critical thinking skills, and what I'm saying is that what I've come to realize is that with educated women, their critical thinking skills don't necessarily go up.
01:39:48.000I mean, just now, you try to make that argument, and I explain to you why the woman needs to like the man more, and you're still like, oh, but I gave you a logically sound explanation as to why the woman needs to like the man more for the relationship.
01:40:02.000Okay, here's a critical thinking thing.
01:40:06.000I would argue it's more along the lines of a fact because everything that I stated was statistics that back up why I came to that conclusion.
01:40:14.000Everything is purely subjective in any point of view.
01:40:17.000And even if you're going to add statistics, if you want to put the best one, who is the happiest and healthiest subgroup of our population?
01:40:36.000Because then there's other studies that show that women that are unmarried and single for a long period of time also are the highest users of anti-anxiety medication, anti-depression medication.
01:40:55.000He actually quoted by saying, if a woman decides to get married, then she probably should think twice, but a man that he should because women who aren't married, who have children, actually live longer and are happier than our subgroups who are married.
01:41:07.000I'd be pacified a kid and I wasn't married.
01:41:38.000No, what I was saying was, we know that one of the biggest, you know, predeterminers on female happiness and fulfillment is children and a family, not necessarily a career.
01:41:51.000Not even studies, but the people that I have seen, they're tired, they're worn out, and they're dying a bit more.
01:41:58.000So you think women would prefer to work in the corporate world and make money and be childless and not have a family?
01:42:03.000You think women prefer that over a family?
01:42:05.000I understand that everything has a bit of privilege to it, so if a woman is privileged enough to make her own money, then of course that would be the safest and best option for them to live their life without a man or a child.
01:43:14.000I feel like you are able to have your own opinion about what you're put on this Earth for.
01:43:18.000So if that is to make yourself happy or to make another person happy, whatever you feel like your mission is personally on this Earth is what you should continue to strive for.
01:43:26.000That's a very privileged 2023 explanation.
01:43:42.000So what I'm saying is that when a woman, right, has a career and focuses on making money, that actually hurts her ability to have children in her family.
01:43:50.000But if she's happier within the study, then why does it matter if she's happier in the long run?
01:44:42.000So what I'm saying is that since we know that, because here's the thing, you only have a finite amount of time to have children as a female.
01:46:27.000Whenever there's career women that come on the show, they're like, you know what, I had a great career, it was amazing, travel, all the fun stuff.
01:46:32.000But eventually they're like, damn, you know what, I'm getting older, I'm not enjoying this with anybody but myself.
01:47:43.000Because at the end of the day, I think a lot of parents want to put their characteristics or what they weren't able to accomplish on their children.
01:48:13.000If I want to have a child, I am going to ensure that my life is okay.
01:48:20.000I have essentially created a better life for you as a woman, if you've done your job correctly, as you say, hey, you're going to date up, right?
01:48:28.000But at that point, it's like, are you going to be jealous of your child?
01:48:32.000Are you going to be jealous of your child if they do better than you?
01:48:36.000And if so, then you shouldn't have a child until you, let's say, check off your list.
01:48:39.000So, I got the first part, but not the last part.
01:48:46.000But can you learn something from it, ladies?
01:48:48.000Because this isn't a Barbie, and I want to see Barbie.
01:48:50.000At the end of the day, if you're a woman, and you want to have a fulfilling career, and that's cool and all, but we're just saying, ultimately, the woman wants to have a family at the end of the day.
01:49:00.000I feel like at the end of the day, even if you are, if you say you don't want to have a family, like you said, like, If you are successful and you have a good career at the end of the day, who are you going to leave it to?
01:49:11.000If you're really being successful and having generational wealth and really building something, what's the point of building it and then being here and there?
01:49:20.000We're designed to perpetuate the species, guys.
01:49:59.000Maybe in the future I'll change my mind, but now I'm good.
01:50:03.000So if you met a guy, successful, your average, I want to say ideal type, and you said, you know what, let's get married and have kids, you would say no?
01:53:46.000I mean, a man is not, like, my top priority.
01:53:49.000Like, my top priority isn't, like, let me go get married and, like, you know, find a kid.
01:53:53.000It's really to just, like, build up, like, I have, like, a business and all, like, my career and make sure I'm successful so that when all the successes and the businesses and everything is in line, then I can worry about, you know, having a kid and then, you know, teaching my kid how to do this.
01:54:47.000I want to do things for myself, but not only for myself, but for another person.
01:54:51.000So, if we're together, and we're going to have a child with each other, I would want both of us to be working hard for that child, and I want to feel stable in that relationship.
01:54:59.000I want to make sure that we can both provide or said child or children, depending on how many.
01:55:10.000Well, when do you guys think it's, like, the right time to have a kid with somebody?
01:55:14.000Like, I feel like now, for the most part, I see, yeah, like, now, I feel like in this generation, it's always, like, people get together, and whether it's accidental or on purpose, whatever, they have a kid, and then it turns into the bitter baby mom, baby dad situation where nobody likes each other, and now...
01:56:17.000I'm just saying, like, what do we have to do as men and women?
01:56:20.000As men to, like, change the perspective of women to have children.
01:56:24.000I'm not saying you should, I'm just saying...
01:56:25.000No, I'm saying I feel like, okay, well, maybe my answer was a question or an answer in itself.
01:56:30.000So I think if men address their lowest form of ego and their lowest form of self, women would be a bit more open to have children in this day and age.
01:56:41.000I don't know if that's for everyone, but for me.
01:56:43.000Because I think that the ego of men and the, let's say, traits that they're not necessarily willing, generalization, if they're not necessarily willing to approach for themselves, it's hard for a woman to find that attractive.
01:56:53.000Because most of the time, after a certain age, women are emotionally developed.
01:56:56.000So if you don't have any of a bit, like a small ounce of emotional empathy, or even know that you need to expand your emotional empathy, then Why would I take myself off the market and put myself in the form of a mother and a baby mother for a man who hasn't or isn't willing to overcome his lowest points?
01:57:42.000So at the end of the day, if there isn't anything to protect me as a ring or a contract, a marriage contract, then why would I have a child with you if I know right now that I'm not...
01:57:50.000That I am not able to give my child the life that I want to give them by myself.
01:57:56.000Now, mind you, that may be a scarcity mindset or what have you.
01:57:59.000However, I am not going to say I am going to give my older years to be young or have a facelift or do all this and all that for a man to want me after a baby.
02:00:06.000So, what I was going to say was, feminism has fooled you guys.
02:00:11.000You've got to pick one, but what I would say is, I think girls should get married as young as possible, and we're the most attractive so that they can get the highest caliber guy that they can possibly get.
02:00:19.000Because as you get older and you get more educated, etc., you're going to want that guy, you're going to demand that guy, but he might not want you back.
02:00:26.000Because the guys that have options that are attractive that meet these requirements that you want, they might not want an older woman that's career-oriented and masculine and I am educated and I could tell you this and I'm a boss too.
02:02:04.000Because if a woman isn't able to scientifically weigh out her decisions properly...
02:02:09.000And you understand that to a certain extent, because at 24, that cutoff is at 25, don't you think that you're maybe not necessarily mentoring her or teaching her, but praying on her because of her mindset?
02:05:28.000How you guys were saying earlier, like when, you know, you find a girl or whatever, you don't really care about their brains, you don't care about all that, but like, to find a woman...
02:05:37.000Obviously you care, but it doesn't have the same level of importance...
02:05:40.000Hold on, because I want to make sure I clarify this.
02:05:42.000It doesn't have the same level of importance that women put on our brains.
02:05:48.000But I'm saying, like, when it comes for you guys to find your wife or a girl that you want to have your kid, because if you're out here fucking anything, you know, not saying anything, but, you know, if you have multiple partners...
02:06:02.000You're probably not going to want this one bitch you fucked in the club last week to have your kid.
02:06:54.000It's going to depend on each man because everyone has a different, I want to say, take you for life.
02:06:59.000But business-wise, I would say just be assisting me, be my assistant, help me with scheduling stuff, planning stuff, maybe cooking as well.
02:07:06.000Whatever I need done, basically be my assistant.
02:07:08.000So stay at home, basically kind of, like stay at home, but also just helping you.
02:07:21.000Adding value, not being a detriment, not being a liability.
02:07:24.000I think most women are liabilities versus assets, and, you know, it's on you as the guy to identify the assets and get rid of the liabilities.
02:07:29.000So, yeah, I mean, but every man is different, right, in what they need.
02:07:33.000But, yeah, of course, you know, the basics of cooking, cleaning, keeping the house tidy, not being a whore, all these things are extremely important.
02:08:21.000And my thing is, that's the man's job is to put the career over the family because I need to take care of the family so therefore I need to focus on my mission.
02:08:27.000Women on the other hand, their mission is children and a family.
02:08:29.000So you're basically going to have two dudes in a relationship together and it's going to butt heads.
02:08:49.000So back to the original topic of like, if you want to choose your career over...
02:08:54.000So in terms of marriage, you're saying that, you know, women should get married at a young age.
02:09:02.000How long do you think that, you know, somebody should be with another person before they decide to get married?
02:09:08.000Like, what's too soon and what's too long?
02:09:10.000I mean, that depends on the situation.
02:09:13.000But what I'm saying is that I advocate women get married young just because I know when they're young, they're at their prime, and they're going to be able to get the best man that they can get.
02:09:45.000If you're in a casino and you're up, you want to cash out when you're up.
02:09:49.000You don't want to wait and gamble and wait longer in the casino.
02:09:51.000Next thing you know you're down and you have to leave on a negative profit.
02:09:54.000What I tell women is, as you age, Your chances of finding the most attractive guy go down with it.
02:10:01.000Because men look for different things than women do.
02:10:04.000We don't look for your career and your income, etc.
02:10:06.000And here's the other thing, too, that women don't get.
02:10:08.000As you make more money and you climb the totem pole of status, you're going to require a man that has the same status, if not the same as more as you.
02:11:04.000You gotta deal with a guy that's hyper-masculine, that understands that it is my duty to take care of my family.
02:11:09.000Regardless of my circumstances, I just gotta get it done.
02:11:11.000But there's not enough of these guys to go around.
02:11:13.000And it's even harder as you age to find these guys.
02:11:16.000And I would argue at a certain age, let's say 25, 28 plus, you've met a guy before that could have been that guy for you, but either your ego was involved or maybe you said, you know what?
02:11:30.000And then when you get older, it's like, damn, he was actually the one for me, but I let it pass because I was too much into myself and being selfish, basically, pretty much.
02:11:37.000Listening to this I realize why I like dating older men because they're more self-aware and they have more experience in life and I can tell you guys don't really have like a lot of experience right now.
02:11:49.000May I say have you ever taken a woman on a business lunch with you?
02:11:56.000Have you ever taken a woman on a business dinner with you?
02:12:17.000Yeah, okay, so when a person has a business lunch, meaning that there's going to be two investors meeting for lunch and they're going to sit around and talk about a decision, right?
02:12:25.000However, we understand that men have a logical mind, but women know character, right?
02:12:29.000So have you ever had a woman that say they sat back with a lunch...
02:13:43.000Look, man, I don't think you understand that dudes will say and do anything and get laid on dates to include appeasing to your ego and talking about nonsensical things that you like.
02:13:53.000Yeah, but I like smart men, and smart men like talking to me about smart things, too.
02:15:12.000What's the point you're trying to get at?
02:15:13.000The point I'm trying to make is if these men were so fantastic and you actually had these amazing conversations or whatever the fuck with them, you would have had a ring and you would have been married to one of them and you're not.
02:18:55.000Because earlier with my point about a woman needs to like a man more, I articulated that perfectly and then you went ahead and said, oh, well, I don't know.
02:19:01.000So the fact that I didn't accept your opinion as a fact.
02:19:03.000Can you want to talk, please, like you said?
02:19:12.000I'm going to tell you to fucking shut up because you've been interjecting the entire show and you're hurting the quarter of the show and people are annoyed by it.
02:19:16.000So I'm going to have to tell you in a more stern way, shut up when I'm speaking, period.
02:35:11.000Black Chick is saying the brain doesn't develop until 25 females, so you're basically saying is that women are retards who can't make their own decisions.
02:40:35.000Why should a virgin deserve a high-volume man?
02:40:38.000But at the same time, how are you really supposed to please a man if you've never really done anything?
02:40:46.000Suck harder, grab it harder, grab it harder.
02:41:08.000Thanks for everything quick question on my journey on self-improvement 21 years old and good shit sheep decently good-looking started trucking should I still work on my game with women or completely avoid them still work on your game my friend you don't want to be a fucking bumbling weirdo when you talk to them Alright, how much money do you guys gotta make per year, bare minimum?
02:42:27.000But I understand that, but like, and you said you want 300 or 400, like, that's only like 1% of the population, man, making that kind of money.
02:42:34.000She's trying to find the oldest nigga with the best money.
02:43:21.000Whatever planet you're on, let me know, because that shit's far away.
02:43:26.000Yeah, you do realize if you meet a guy and he makes a million dollars a year and he's actually attractive, he's going to fuck other bitches, right?
02:52:21.000This didn't pop up for us until I was driving in Virginia, North Carolina, and we were on our way down here, and we were like, oh, okay, and that was like, what, yesterday?