Fresh & Fit - Fresh&Fit Taking These Girls To Therapy

00:02:20.000 Guys, I'm here.

00:02:22.000 We have Jeff on the panel.

00:02:23.000 Welcome to the Henny Therapy podcast with the live ladies on the panel.

00:02:27.000 Let's make it happen.

00:02:28.000 Let's go!

00:02:29.000 *music* *music* What did you do?

00:02:44.000 *music* How many cars bro?

00:02:49.000 Get out! 0.98

00:02:50.000 *music* *music* In the night, no control F*** out 0.88

00:02:50.000 Get out! 0.88

00:03:00.000 Put your shoes on outside.

00:03:01.000 You don't have to put them on in here.

00:03:19.000 Alright, guys, I know you're wondering right now, where the fuck is my words fresh?

00:03:23.000 Blah blah blah.

00:03:24.000 Listen, niggas, I walked in, right? 1.00

00:03:26.000 Got the girls ready.

00:03:27.000 You know, Jeff is in the house.

00:03:29.000 Shout out to Jeff.

00:03:30.000 He's uh you know a well-known therapist, and then he has his uh own podcast going on.

00:03:33.000 And apparently these niggas are sick. 1.00

00:03:36.000 So uh two options for you niggas, alright. 1.00

00:03:39.000 Either a cancel show and all the ladies are gone and you guys got no show, or you can have uh tequila or vodka Chris, I don't know what the fuck I'm drinking right now.

00:03:48.000 I have vodka, you know.

00:03:49.000 Tito's what have uh Tos?

00:03:52.000 Yo, I walked in, it was a bottle of Tito, it was just sitting there waiting for me.

00:03:55.000 You know what?

00:03:55.000 The show goes on!

00:03:56.000 Hey, guys, show goes on, man.

00:03:58.000 The world mind will turn on.

00:04:01.000 Uh fresh works hard, so let's have the show already, right?

00:04:04.000 And then we have Jeff, he's watch Balkans.

00:04:05.000 So look listen, guys, it's gonna be a different format.

00:04:07.000 I know the special going on and stuff like that.

00:04:10.000 It is what it is, man.

00:04:11.000 So anyways.

00:04:13.000 Um announcements.

00:04:15.000 We I have none personally, just follow me in my socials.

00:04:18.000 Oh yeah, but go away. 1.00

00:04:18.000 Oh yeah. 1.00

00:04:27.000 So anyways...

00:04:28.000 Yo, you know what I'm saying?

00:04:30.000 So hard, bro.

00:04:34.000 So anyways, uh yeah, shout out to the supporters, you guys, uh the haters, lovers, and everything.

00:04:34.000 Hey!

00:04:39.000 So, with that being said, you know, I'm gonna go over the intro with the ladies, starting with a few questions, alright?

00:04:45.000 Your name, age, where you from, your status, what do you do for work?

00:04:49.000 And uh Ethnicity and your body count, ladies, okay. 1.00

00:04:52.000 So starting with you.

00:04:54.000 So what's your name?

00:04:55.000 Ivana.

00:04:56.000 Ivana, speaking to Mike, please.

00:04:58.000 Ivana.

00:04:58.000 Okay, where are you from?

00:05:00.000 Like, where am I born?

00:05:01.000 Yeah, where you're born in a Miami.

00:05:03.000 Miami?

00:05:04.000 No, like what's your background?

00:05:05.000 Oh, I'm Dominican.

00:05:06.000 Dominican.

00:05:07.000 All right.

00:05:07.000 How old are you?

00:05:08.000 Twenty-eight.

00:05:09.000 Twenty-eight?

00:05:10.000 Oh, are you single?

00:05:12.000 No.

00:05:13.000 Single?

00:05:13.000 Okay.

00:05:14.000 We do for work?

00:05:15.000 I sell health insurance.

00:05:17.000 Huh?

00:05:17.000 I sell health insurance.

00:05:18.000 Health insurance.

00:05:19.000 So you're not a stripper. 0.97

00:05:20.000 No.

00:05:21.000 Because uh, you know, uh, I caught her a ladder, you know what I'm saying?

00:05:24.000 Or Jasmine.

00:05:25.000 She walked in with the thing.

00:05:27.000 What's that thing you had by the way?

00:05:28.000 Like, what's like what's that for?

00:05:29.000 Is it a fight statement?

00:05:30.000 It's just how I felt today.

00:05:31.000 I felt like wearing it, so you felt.

00:05:34.000 That's what I'm saying.

00:05:35.000 I like switching it up sometimes.

00:05:36.000 Okay, high level education you completed.

00:05:39.000 College.

00:05:40.000 College?

00:05:41.000 Okay.

00:05:41.000 Yeah.

00:05:41.000 So which college you been to?

00:05:43.000 I went to FSW.

00:05:45.000 Okay, that's where?

00:05:47.000 Fort Myers.

00:05:48.000 Okay, that's not bad.

00:05:49.000 And uh, what's your body count?

00:05:51.000 That's my business.

00:05:53.000 I mean, hey, listen.

00:05:54.000 Is that high?

00:05:55.000 No, it's just my business.

00:05:56.000 Is it because normally if it's lower, you would actually say, you know what?

00:06:00.000 I would still say it's my business.

00:06:02.000 Oh, okay.

00:06:02.000 All right, all right.

00:06:03.000 I mean, are you married?

00:06:05.000 I'm not married, no.

00:06:06.000 Alright, well, let's see what happens.

00:06:08.000 All right, next.

00:06:08.000 How'd she say she?

00:06:09.000 She's 28.

00:06:11.000 So, you know, she has a you know, she's she's not married, she has about two years. 1.00

00:06:15.000 Jeff, what do you think?

00:06:16.000 I will not comment on that yet.

00:06:18.000 Okay.

00:06:19.000 I want to get through the intros at least.

00:06:20.000 Alright, let's go.

00:06:22.000 How about you?

00:06:23.000 What's your name?

00:06:24.000 Tamzin. 0.91

00:06:25.000 Chanzen?

00:06:26.000 Tamzin. 0.91

00:06:27.000 Tomzin.

00:06:28.000 Okay.

00:06:29.000 What's your age?

00:06:30.000 I'm 20.

00:06:31.000 20.

00:06:31.000 Okay, okay, okay.

00:06:32.000 I I love that accent.

00:06:33.000 Where are you from?

00:06:34.000 I'm from London.

00:06:35.000 Oh, yeah, which part of one then?

00:06:36.000 Bombard! 0.99

00:06:39.000 I'm from West London.

00:06:41.000 West London.

00:06:42.000 Is that is that the ghetto side?

00:06:43.000 She's from Brixton?

00:06:44.000 Brixton?

00:06:45.000 No, that's South.

00:06:46.000 Oh.

00:06:47.000 Well, maybe not.

00:06:48.000 Oh yeah?

00:06:49.000 South pro kind of ghetto, yeah.

00:06:50.000 Okay.

00:06:51.000 Um, what's your status?

00:06:52.000 Relationship status?

00:06:53.000 Single.

00:06:54.000 Oh, single?

00:06:55.000 And uh, okay.

00:06:56.000 I mean single, ready to mingle, or not really.

00:07:01.000 Oh, sorry, sorry.

00:07:02.000 So you're not fucking?

00:07:03.000 No.

00:07:04.000 So, okay, you know what?

00:07:05.000 What's your body count?

00:07:06.000 I'm gonna get right into it.

00:07:07.000 Seven?

00:07:08.000 At 20.

00:07:09.000 Yeah.

00:07:10.000 Damn, you was fucking early, huh?

00:07:11.000 16.

00:07:12.000 So 6C?

00:07:14.000 Allegedly.

00:07:16.000 Allegedly.

00:07:17.000 Moving on, Smart.

00:07:18.000 Is that early?

00:07:19.000 Yeah, it's early, man.

00:07:20.000 Like I'm younger Virginia.

00:07:22.000 I was up on Virginia at 21.

00:07:25.000 Yeah, I was a nervous.

00:07:26.000 I was doing my thing.

00:07:28.000 I play football.

00:07:28.000 I ran track.

00:07:29.000 Yes.

00:07:30.000 Um, yes, niggas, I used to run track, I don't play football, okay? 1.00

00:07:32.000 Right, you know, whatever it is, what it is.

00:07:34.000 Um, but okay.

00:07:36.000 And yeah, so uh Ivana.

00:07:39.000 Also, are your parents together?

00:07:41.000 Are my parents together?

00:07:42.000 Yes.

00:07:43.000 Thank you, Mo.

00:07:44.000 Uh, what do you do for work?

00:07:46.000 You.

00:07:47.000 Who me?

00:07:48.000 Yeah.

00:07:48.000 Oh, I just work in a bank.

00:07:49.000 Oh, you work in a bank?

00:07:50.000 Mm-hmm.

00:07:51.000 Okay, which bank do you mind?

00:07:52.000 HSBC.

00:07:53.000 I have no idea.

00:07:55.000 One's in the UK.

00:07:56.000 Okay, alright, cool.

00:07:56.000 I mean, so far, no strippers on the panel.

00:07:58.000 Wait, raise your hand if you're a dancer. 0.90

00:08:01.000 Because I'm I'm a no one's dancing on this on this.

00:08:03.000 You sure?

00:08:04.000 Dancer, like South Sun?

00:08:06.000 No, I just no, I saw the poll on a trip hole.

00:08:08.000 Like, I mean vote.

00:08:10.000 Only fans?

00:08:12.000 Is that a big boat?

00:08:13.000 Okay, we got one.

00:08:13.000 Damn, she ruined it.

00:08:15.000 Okay, um.

00:08:19.000 Ethnicity.

00:08:20.000 I'm just British.

00:08:22.000 So you're not white, uh black. 0.97

00:08:24.000 You don't know your ethnic background?

00:08:25.000 Yeah.

00:08:26.000 I'm just white.

00:08:28.000 You just wet?

00:08:29.000 White. 0.81

00:08:29.000 What? 0.81

00:08:29.000 Oh, okay. 0.81

00:08:30.000 So you're just wet.

00:08:32.000 That's what I heard.

00:08:33.000 Her accent went when ham just now.

00:08:34.000 So I don't know.

00:08:36.000 So are you on birth control?

00:08:38.000 Birth control?

00:08:39.000 Implant.

00:08:39.000 Yeah.

00:08:40.000 Realize.

00:08:41.000 And Ivana, you two are you on birth control?

00:08:44.000 No.

00:08:47.000 So uh what's your body count?

00:08:51.000 Me?

00:08:52.000 Seven.

00:08:52.000 Yeah.

00:08:53.000 Seven?

00:08:54.000 What are you copying paste from her?

00:08:55.000 She said seven.

00:08:56.000 She said that she didn't answer.

00:08:58.000 Oh, okay.

00:08:58.000 I thought she said seven.

00:08:59.000 He's right.

00:09:00.000 See, he's losing this.

00:09:03.000 Alright, well, she's paying attention.

00:09:05.000 That's why Jeff is her, niggas. 1.00

00:09:05.000 And you so are you. 1.00

00:09:07.000 Uh um, well, not you girls and niggas. 1.00

00:09:09.000 She's on nigga here and Jeff, but the chat. 0.99

00:09:11.000 Alright, how about you?

00:09:12.000 My name is Gigi.

00:09:12.000 What's your name?

00:09:13.000 Gigi.

00:09:14.000 Okay.

00:09:14.000 What's your age?

00:09:15.000 I'm 20 as well.

00:09:16.000 Birthdays in three days, baby last year.

00:09:18.000 Yeah.

00:09:18.000 In three days?

00:09:19.000 That's why we're here.

00:09:20.000 So what sign is that though?

00:09:21.000 Duggo.

00:09:22.000 Oh, Virgo.

00:09:22.000 Yeah.

00:09:23.000 Oh, no wonder.

00:09:25.000 Okay.

00:09:26.000 No one.

00:09:28.000 Virgo are great.

00:09:29.000 Uh uh, no, that's fine.

00:09:30.000 My ex was a Virgo.

00:09:31.000 Alright, so where are you from?

00:09:32.000 I'm from Bristol, England, but I live in Gibraltar.

00:09:34.000 I have done a god.

00:09:37.000 Is that like ghetto? 0.69

00:09:39.000 It's a lot of Jamaicans of niggas? 1.00

00:09:42.000 Yeah.

00:09:43.000 Oh, so you say you say fuck black guys.

00:09:45.000 Yeah.

00:09:46.000 Okay, alright.

00:09:47.000 Are you single?

00:09:48.000 I am.

00:09:49.000 Alright.

00:09:49.000 Okay.

00:09:50.000 What do you for work?

00:09:51.000 Um a safer gambling officer.

00:09:53.000 Oh, what?

00:09:54.000 Safer gambling officer.

00:09:55.000 A safer gambling officer?

00:09:57.000 Yes.

00:09:58.000 Like the the safer side of gambling, the financial side of gambling, just making sure that people don't spend too much money.

00:09:58.000 What is that?

00:10:04.000 Oh, so like do they hate you?

00:10:08.000 Like gambling.

00:10:09.000 Yeah, they hate us.

00:10:10.000 Yeah, they hate us.

00:10:11.000 I work I work for a specific company.

00:10:14.000 So how's that work?

00:10:14.000 That people just say, hey, look, I'm trying to gamble, but I'm not trying to get conned.

00:10:18.000 No, no.

00:10:19.000 If they spend a certain amount of money, then a trigger pops up and I would check their their account, their financial situation, and just make sure they're not spending above their means.

00:10:28.000 Yeah, but do they go to you first for help, or do you just like see what's going on with the bank?

00:10:34.000 They can.

00:10:34.000 They can come to us.

00:10:36.000 Okay, so she worked at a bank, right?

00:10:37.000 So you two were together?

00:10:38.000 No.

00:10:39.000 Oh, okay.

00:10:40.000 Do I have money?

00:10:41.000 Okay, so it's like it's one of the things where clients have to come to you, girls and have to come to you and then not necessarily.

00:10:47.000 I've got all the information.

00:10:48.000 So if they've spent over 600 pounds, 600, um, their account will flag, so I'll look through their account and just make sure that their activity is you know.

00:10:56.000 Oh, so you're the one that calls my phone every every fucking uh spending too much money. 0.54

00:11:02.000 Oh, it's okay.

00:11:03.000 So um oh, sorry, so you're not a scam then.

00:11:05.000 It's not it's not a scam.

00:11:06.000 Oh, because like just call me randomly.

00:11:08.000 Talk about money.

00:11:09.000 I'm thinking you're a scam, you know.

00:11:10.000 No, 100%.

00:11:11.000 It would seem like a scam, but it's not.

00:11:12.000 It's not.

00:11:13.000 But we will ask you very invasive questions.

00:11:15.000 I mean, if if if you would call me and talk to me, I'll be like, yeah, what's up, Eric?

00:11:20.000 Talk to me slowly, right quick.

00:11:22.000 Um what's your your ethnicity?

00:11:25.000 Um English, Gibraltarian. 1.00

00:11:27.000 Okay, that's that's um That's interesting.

00:11:30.000 Yeah, it's interesting.

00:11:31.000 I don't I don't know how first.

00:11:32.000 Do you guys know where Gibraltar is?

00:11:34.000 No bless you, no idea.

00:11:35.000 No blessed.

00:11:36.000 No.

00:11:36.000 It's like the south of Spain, and it's English territory.

00:11:40.000 Oh yeah, not a lot of people know.

00:11:42.000 Alright, so are your parents together?

00:11:44.000 No, they're not.

00:11:45.000 Divorced?

00:11:47.000 Divorced.

00:11:47.000 Passed away.

00:11:48.000 Okay, all right, cool.

00:11:49.000 I mean your body count?

00:11:51.000 Eight.

00:11:52.000 So it's it's going up one by one.

00:11:53.000 So nine?

00:11:56.000 No.

00:11:57.000 Oh, you're like, I was in a seven-year-old.

00:12:00.000 So?

00:12:01.000 Okay, you know what?

00:12:01.000 What's the name?

00:12:02.000 Nara.

00:12:03.000 Nara.

00:12:04.000 23.

00:12:04.000 Okay.

00:12:04.000 What's your age?

00:12:06.000 Seven years.

00:12:08.000 So since I was 15.

00:12:10.000 15.

00:12:11.000 How old was he?

00:12:12.000 18.

00:12:16.000 Freshman senior.

00:12:16.000 Oh.

00:12:19.000 Sophomore.

00:12:20.000 Yeah, I mean, I think I guess he just pre-ordered off for yeah, pre-ordering from pre-order.

00:12:25.000 Um fucking um elementary and shit.

00:12:28.000 No, so just graduated.

00:12:30.000 Oh also, um, Gigi, are your parents together?

00:12:33.000 No, they're not.

00:12:34.000 Thank you.

00:12:35.000 Yeah.

00:12:36.000 Okay, so where are you from?

00:12:38.000 Uh Dominican Republic.

00:12:39.000 Oh, so is she, right?

00:12:40.000 Yeah, she's my cousin.

00:12:41.000 Oh, your cousin?

00:12:42.000 Yeah.

00:12:43.000 Well, well, like French will say, Who's the baddest?

00:12:43.000 Okay.

00:12:46.000 Well, she is bad.

00:12:47.000 No, you were seven years, she's single the whole life.

00:12:50.000 Um not single.

00:12:52.000 Oh, you're not single?

00:12:53.000 No, no.

00:12:54.000 Okay, well, she paused like this.

00:12:56.000 So I thought she was maybe.

00:12:58.000 I don't know.

00:12:59.000 I can pause.

00:13:00.000 Okay, I'm I'm just saying, if it's a situation ship, that's cool.

00:13:03.000 No.

00:13:03.000 Alright, so when you for work.

00:13:05.000 I'm an account executive for a ship major shipping company.

00:13:09.000 In the US.

00:13:10.000 Oh I uh thought you did uh OF.

00:13:12.000 I do.

00:13:13.000 Part-time.

00:13:14.000 Or okay.

00:13:16.000 I mean, so which job will you like you like the most?

00:13:20.000 Um not really on my OF.

00:13:23.000 I don't manage it.

00:13:24.000 Oh, so it's like no money, you're broke.

00:13:26.000 No, it makes money.

00:13:27.000 Oh I'm just not on it.

00:13:28.000 I don't need to be on it.

00:13:29.000 Oh, so it's like uh thing you just set up and forget it?

00:13:32.000 Do you have news on it and everything?

00:13:32.000 Yeah.

00:13:33.000 Are you like fucking girls? 1.00

00:13:35.000 No, no, no, no, no.

00:13:36.000 Nothing like that.

00:13:37.000 No.

00:13:37.000 Just nudes.

00:13:38.000 Yeah.

00:13:38.000 Well, uh, can you do like a background check on that?

00:13:40.000 I'm joking.

00:13:41.000 Um verify.

00:13:43.000 Highest level of um education?

00:13:44.000 Uh associates and sonography.

00:13:46.000 So like babies and shit?

00:13:47.000 Uh scanning diagnostic medical sonography.

00:13:50.000 So echocardiographic heart.

00:13:53.000 Like um EKG and shit, right?

00:13:53.000 Oh, the heart.

00:13:55.000 Yes.

00:13:56.000 Okay.

00:13:56.000 Umpleted.

00:13:59.000 Associates and sonography.

00:14:00.000 Okay.

00:14:01.000 Are you parents together?

00:14:02.000 Divorced.

00:14:04.000 Damn.

00:14:04.000 So no parents are together on this panel?

00:14:06.000 My parents are together.

00:14:08.000 Her parents have been married for a long time.

00:14:10.000 Shout out to her.

00:14:10.000 You know, she's uh holding herself properly.

00:14:13.000 All right.

00:14:13.000 Um what's your body count?

00:14:15.000 Uh two.

00:14:17.000 It is.

00:14:18.000 Come on, Jeff.

00:14:19.000 Do you believe that shit?

00:14:20.000 I'm in a rel Wait, how old are you again?

00:14:23.000 I'm 23.

00:14:24.000 I just got out of my relationship.

00:14:25.000 And I'm in another relationship right now.

00:14:27.000 Well, she says she's got in a relationship at 15.

00:14:29.000 And she just got out of this relationship.

00:14:31.000 So on paper.

00:14:32.000 She may be right.

00:14:33.000 On paper is right.

00:14:34.000 Yeah.

00:14:35.000 But math is the math is math.

00:14:37.000 But she's outside though.

00:14:38.000 No, I have a man.

00:14:40.000 I have a boyfriend.

00:14:41.000 I mean So you've only been in two relationships?

00:14:44.000 Since 15.

00:14:45.000 Yes.

00:14:46.000 Okay.

00:14:47.000 Like I had like little childhood like relationships, like in middle school.

00:14:50.000 I mean, don't say all that.

00:14:51.000 You know, I don't go pre, you know, 18, but um, because like once again in Miami my personal experience, many girls are, you know, they be fucking and sucking. 1.00

00:15:00.000 Um, and all of a sudden they got a ring.

00:15:03.000 They're married.

00:15:04.000 Whole whole other nigga. 1.00

00:15:05.000 So because you got a man doesn't mean you're you like you're loyal, but we're on a podcast, so I understand that, you know, trying to you know put airs, but um how many dicks you sucked in?

00:15:15.000 What?

00:15:20.000 Actually, that's a good question.

00:15:24.000 It can be a quickie, guys.

00:15:26.000 That's a good position.

00:15:26.000 You know what I'm saying?

00:15:28.000 Uh I got a man, but got you know what I'm saying?

00:15:31.000 No, like someone driving you home on this nice car, you know.

00:15:34.000 No, I don't I don't do that.

00:15:36.000 You've never sucked a dick on car before.

00:15:39.000 That's private.

00:15:41.000 No, I'm saying I've been in obviously if you're in a relationship, you're gonna do fun things.

00:15:41.000 So yes.

00:15:46.000 All right, well, she she was trying to hold on her uh, you know, her heiress. 0.99

00:15:50.000 All right.

00:15:50.000 Um skipping Jeff for uh best for less.

00:15:53.000 GG, your highest education.

00:15:57.000 I I just finished school and that was it.

00:16:00.000 I got just got straight into welcome.

00:16:02.000 Um are you b on birth control?

00:16:04.000 No.

00:16:06.000 Okay.

00:16:06.000 All right.

00:16:07.000 All right, next.

00:16:08.000 Um, what's your name?

00:16:09.000 Sammy.

00:16:10.000 Sammy?

00:16:11.000 All right, what's your age?

00:16:12.000 I am 24.

00:16:14.000 24?

00:16:14.000 Okay.

00:16:15.000 Uh I was born in Boca, but I'm Albanian.

00:16:15.000 Where are you from?

00:16:18.000 Oh, Boca.

00:16:19.000 Okay.

00:16:20.000 You're born in Boca though.

00:16:21.000 That's a funny.

00:16:22.000 Born in Boca, but over there in Vero Beach area, Melbourne.

00:16:26.000 Oh, so you're bougie then. 0.89

00:16:27.000 She rich.

00:16:28.000 I wish.

00:16:29.000 She's the goal.

00:16:31.000 Vera Beach is a nice place though, right?

00:16:32.000 It is a nice place, yeah, for sure.

00:16:34.000 Smaller town, definitely trying to move at some point.

00:16:37.000 Yeah, uh I I went there for um uh Bible school.

00:16:40.000 Did you?

00:16:42.000 It's like in Vero or in Fort Pierce.

00:16:44.000 In Vera Beach.

00:16:45.000 Uh IRSC.

00:16:46.000 Yeah, that's where I went to.

00:16:48.000 We went in the in the cabins.

00:16:49.000 Uh I don't know the area.

00:16:50.000 I was like in high school.

00:16:51.000 I didn't care.

00:16:53.000 No, it was like churches.

00:16:55.000 But um so are you single, right?

00:16:57.000 Uh I'm single.

00:16:59.000 Highest level of education?

00:17:01.000 Uh college.

00:17:01.000 I I went to cosmetology school.

00:17:03.000 So I have uh I'm a certified cosmetologist.

00:17:07.000 Which uh college?

00:17:08.000 IRSC in Fort Pierce, Indian River State.

00:17:11.000 Okay.

00:17:12.000 Um so what did you fork again?

00:17:15.000 To the X?

00:17:16.000 Honestly, for work, I don't do much besides modeling.

00:17:19.000 Okay, so you so you're bougie.

00:17:21.000 So sugar daddy's and sugar. 0.98

00:17:22.000 No sugar daddies.

00:17:23.000 Come on, no sugar daddy. 1.00

00:17:24.000 Yeah.

00:17:25.000 I can put me as soon as we get to the introductions, I'll tell you which ones which of the ladies I believe in which ones I don't. 1.00

00:17:32.000 I'm being as cool as possible.

00:17:34.000 I wish that was the case.

00:17:36.000 Speaking of blunt, do you smoke weed?

00:17:37.000 Obviously.

00:17:40.000 I have back pain.

00:17:41.000 So like back pain.

00:17:43.000 She can't hell yet. 0.98

00:17:46.000 What's the cause of this back pain?

00:17:48.000 Um, honestly, I feel like I look down all the time.

00:17:51.000 So like all the minute.

00:17:53.000 But I do what I do like when I'm at work at the salon, like I'm constantly like looking down, like makes sense.

00:17:58.000 Getting the chemicals and color out of the hair.

00:18:00.000 She gets her back blown, that's what it is. 1.00

00:18:02.000 You know, I mean, I'm too small for that.

00:18:04.000 What's your body count?

00:18:06.000 Uh small.

00:18:07.000 I'd like to keep it like around six.

00:18:10.000 I'd say on one hand, but I think there's a lucky.

00:18:15.000 All right.

00:18:15.000 The girls from UK understand, you know, UK, I don't know that area too well.

00:18:19.000 Uh bunker at on you and Miami.

00:18:21.000 Don't tell me you you don't be outside Miami in clubs.

00:18:23.000 Definitely not 100%.

00:18:24.000 What do you say?

00:18:25.000 110%.

00:18:26.000 I'm not.

00:18:26.000 But all right, niggas.

00:18:27.000 If if you know her, hit me up, alright?

00:18:29.000 Some screenshots.

00:18:30.000 You need an investigation.

00:18:31.000 I'm a hidden gem.

00:18:32.000 Hidden gem?

00:18:33.000 Hidden gem.

00:18:34.000 Are you single?

00:18:35.000 Yes, I am.

00:18:36.000 I I recently got out of a relationship.

00:18:38.000 And why is that?

00:18:39.000 It was really abusive in certain ways.

00:18:42.000 Well, actually, who uh just left our relationship uh seven years or someone?

00:18:46.000 Okay, why did you and him break up?

00:18:49.000 Um, so it was it's a lot, honestly.

00:18:53.000 But the main reason is uh we both grew like we both want different paths.

00:18:58.000 Grew apart.

00:19:00.000 Wait, so who said, Yeah, I'm tired.

00:19:00.000 Interesting.

00:19:03.000 I'm you know, um like the sex stopped.

00:19:06.000 So who said no to sex first? 0.97

00:19:08.000 I never said no to sex.

00:19:10.000 I never said no to sex.

00:19:12.000 He didn't.

00:19:13.000 Oh.

00:19:14.000 He was depressed.

00:19:15.000 Oh, he was depressed.

00:19:16.000 What was you doing to him?

00:19:16.000 Yeah.

00:19:18.000 No, it wasn't me.

00:19:19.000 We go we're gonna we're gonna revisit this.

00:19:21.000 Let's just finish the intro.

00:19:22.000 So I'm I'm gonna remember that piece.

00:19:24.000 All right, all right.

00:19:26.000 So uh what's your are your parents together?

00:19:29.000 No, they die they got divorced when I was probably 12, maybe 13.

00:19:29.000 They are not.

00:19:34.000 Okay, so so far we're one and what, four or five?

00:19:38.000 All right.

00:19:39.000 Um Sammy and Nara.

00:19:41.000 Are you birth control?

00:19:42.000 No, not on breath control, no.

00:19:44.000 Not currently, no.

00:19:45.000 Oh, so we can show up the club then.

00:19:48.000 Not me, that's a we mean like in general.

00:19:50.000 What wait we?

00:19:51.000 What did you say?

00:19:52.000 Who's weak?

00:19:53.000 And uh you too.

00:19:54.000 And uh Sammy, right?

00:19:56.000 Yes.

00:19:57.000 Um Ethnicity? 0.68

00:19:59.000 I'm Albanian.

00:20:01.000 Alright.

00:20:03.000 All right, next.

00:20:04.000 Uh welcome back.

00:20:05.000 What's your name?

00:20:06.000 Um Jasmine.

00:20:07.000 I'm 22.

00:20:08.000 I'm a nail tech, hairstylist, a mom, a model.

00:20:11.000 I do a lot.

00:20:12.000 Um what's the next question?

00:20:14.000 You're probably closer.

00:20:16.000 Come a little closer.

00:20:17.000 Um, I'm still at like eight to nine.

00:20:20.000 I really like.

00:20:21.000 Well, you still?

00:20:22.000 I'm still at eight and nine.

00:20:23.000 I haven't been active.

00:20:25.000 I don't have a boyfriend.

00:20:26.000 I've been single for a while.

00:20:27.000 Um, I'm on a 90 day, so I'm not really partying, not outside.

00:20:31.000 Yeah.

00:20:33.000 It's like she's like, wait, are you in therapy right now?

00:20:34.000 Chris, I'm not sure.

00:20:35.000 Yeah, I am in therapy.

00:20:38.000 Right before they came with a podcast, all of a sudden.

00:20:41.000 Okay.

00:20:41.000 It's like like the way she was talking, I'm like, that's supposed to be in therapy right now because she sound like she's like, it's counting the days.

00:20:47.000 The days like she's like, hey, my name is Jasmine, wherever I'm like, I'm trying to get it out.

00:20:52.000 She's getting it out.

00:20:53.000 Okay.

00:20:53.000 Shout out to you for being well, how are you?

00:20:55.000 I'm 22.

00:20:56.000 22?

00:20:56.000 Shout out to you for being on therapy.

00:20:58.000 Some girls are just uh 30 years old and they still think they don't need therapy. 1.00

00:21:00.000 You know what I'm saying?

00:21:02.000 You said you have one child.

00:21:03.000 Yeah, I have one child.

00:21:04.000 How old?

00:21:05.000 He's three.

00:21:06.000 Okay.

00:21:07.000 Um your body count is eight to nine, so I mean it's over nine children.

00:21:12.000 She does therapy.

00:21:13.000 I I believe it, man.

00:21:14.000 Some girls be like delugial as fuck. 1.00

00:21:16.000 Okay.

00:21:16.000 Um, Mo, do you need anything else?

00:21:18.000 Um how is the level of education?

00:21:20.000 Um, I have a G E D. Oh, J D. Okay.

00:21:23.000 Umicity.

00:21:24.000 Um Haitian. 0.96

00:21:25.000 Hey, hey! 0.96

00:21:27.000 Oh! 0.60

00:21:28.000 *laughter*

00:21:30.000 All right.

00:21:31.000 All right.

00:21:31.000 Uh you answered everything, huh?

00:21:33.000 Um are your parents together?

00:21:36.000 Um, no, my mother passed, and my I just have my back.

00:21:39.000 I was raised by him.

00:21:40.000 I ain't playing it.

00:21:42.000 Don't do it.

00:21:42.000 Nah, go ahead, play it.

00:21:45.000 I'm trying to there it is.

00:21:49.000 I didn't know y'all, bro.

00:21:50.000 Why would you do that?

00:21:51.000 Why would you do that?

00:21:52.000 Oh man.

00:21:53.000 No, I don't think.

00:21:54.000 Rumble, it was not me.

00:21:55.000 Okay, no, because I wonder how y'all would feel if y'all said y'all parents died and somebody did that.

00:22:01.000 That's fine.

00:22:01.000 Like we are niggas saying.

00:22:03.000 Well, y'all niggas, I'm a female.

00:22:04.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:22:04.000 I mean, it's fine.

00:22:05.000 You know, like I know you can hold it.

00:22:07.000 What?

00:22:07.000 I know you can't hold it.

00:22:09.000 Okay.

00:22:10.000 Like you said, do it.

00:22:11.000 So you said not to not to do it.

00:22:13.000 Next question.

00:22:15.000 Oh.

00:22:17.000 Yeah.

00:22:18.000 Um, listen, guys.

00:22:20.000 It's fine.

00:22:20.000 It's it's it's it's what it is.

00:22:21.000 It's move on.

00:22:23.000 But you know, I'm sorry for that to happen, but you know, it's one of those things where um, you know, it's it's a podcast, you know.

00:22:29.000 Um you find that funny?

00:22:30.000 It's not well, it's not funny.

00:22:31.000 It's a podcast that finds things like that.

00:22:33.000 All right, listen.

00:22:34.000 Uh it's not funny that parents pass away.

00:22:36.000 But end of the day, it's like that.

00:22:38.000 Yeah, of course.

00:22:39.000 No, no, well, like the town effect.

00:22:41.000 Okay, so I do apologize if it's if it took it seriously.

00:22:44.000 My bad.

00:22:44.000 You know, if if because some girls say some girls, whatever, it's cool.

00:22:47.000 I pass moved on.

00:22:49.000 But for me to you, I do apologize if you took it, you know, if if if if it hurt your feelings, right?

00:22:54.000 So I'm I'm just being straight up here, okay?

00:22:55.000 So if mean to you, that's fine, but other girls take us up away. 1.00

00:22:58.000 But you know, I drink Kenny, I talk I talk here, okay?

00:23:01.000 You're good.

00:23:02.000 Cool?

00:23:02.000 Thank you.

00:23:03.000 Alright, next.

00:23:04.000 What's your name?

00:23:05.000 My name is Summer.

00:23:06.000 Your age?

00:23:07.000 I'm 21.

00:23:08.000 What are you from?

00:23:08.000 I'm from New Jersey.

00:23:09.000 Just recently uh relocated to Florida.

00:23:12.000 Okay.

00:23:13.000 Um are you single?

00:23:15.000 Yes.

00:23:15.000 Alright, what do you do for work?

00:23:17.000 What do I do for work?

00:23:18.000 I'm a model, and that's pretty much what I do.

00:23:23.000 So you're broke.

00:23:24.000 A model, and that's pretty much what I do.

00:23:26.000 So who takes over your bills?

00:23:27.000 Myself, my savings.

00:23:30.000 How do you make money though?

00:23:31.000 Like, how do you So you model with money?

00:23:32.000 I model.

00:23:33.000 Like what?

00:23:34.000 Uh are you in Vogue?

00:23:35.000 No.

00:23:36.000 Like Drake said, if you're not a you know.

00:23:39.000 If you're not a vogue, you're not a model.

00:23:41.000 Well, it's how we met and we know each other because we both do modeling together.

00:23:45.000 This is my best friend.

00:23:46.000 So you two make money together.

00:23:48.000 You do modeling what and what venues casinos.

00:23:52.000 Casinos.

00:23:52.000 Just marketing, rawboards.

00:23:55.000 So you have billboards?

00:23:57.000 Yes.

00:23:57.000 Nice.

00:23:58.000 Only fans?

00:23:59.000 No.

00:23:59.000 Nude.

00:24:00.000 I'm very godly, no.

00:24:01.000 Golly?

00:24:02.000 Yes.

00:24:02.000 We both are.

00:24:03.000 Yes.

00:24:04.000 Very, very conservative.

00:24:06.000 So like do you show your body?

00:24:07.000 Like do you model like dresses, you know?

00:24:09.000 Yeah, some of them, some of them are bikinis that I do. 1.00

00:24:12.000 Some shoots are very um sexualized, but at the end of the day, it's for work and so can guys jack off to your b your photos.

00:24:18.000 If they want to, they jack off to feet or anything that they see that gets them up.

00:24:22.000 Oh my god.

00:24:24.000 Yeah.

00:24:25.000 People are weird.

00:24:26.000 Have you been paid for feet pics yet?

00:24:28.000 Never.

00:24:29.000 I don't do any of that stuff.

00:24:31.000 Oh.

00:24:31.000 I mean, uh, how old are you guys?

00:24:33.000 I'm 21.

00:24:34.000 Okay.

00:24:34.000 I mean, not yet, at least.

00:24:35.000 You wouldn't do that then?

00:24:37.000 I don't think so.

00:24:38.000 You wouldn't?

00:24:38.000 You get paid to models.

00:24:40.000 I literally am like, I've had like these weird messages come in saying that people wanted to buy like my youth socks, and I just think that's so weird.

00:24:46.000 Well, like my wallet?

00:24:48.000 I feel like I couldn't do that.

00:24:49.000 Wait, how much do they know?

00:24:51.000 I don't I don't even know.

00:24:55.000 I'm thinking about it.

00:24:56.000 I don't know.

00:24:56.000 I mean I don't want to know.

00:24:58.000 Would you do it though?

00:25:00.000 No.

00:25:00.000 I'm just very respectful of myself.

00:25:03.000 Say yeah.

00:25:04.000 Wait, you know what?

00:25:05.000 I mean, uh I I would do feet feet modeling.

00:25:09.000 I would not gonna lie.

00:25:12.000 Okay, by feet modeling, you mean just like the just the picture?

00:25:15.000 You mean like people putting stuff on your feet?

00:25:17.000 Man, I'll drip some honey on my regular name.

00:25:21.000 I got a couple friends that say cute stuff, man.

00:25:24.000 Shit!

00:25:24.000 This little piggy.

00:25:25.000 If you think you either love it or hate it.

00:25:28.000 I'll take care of your feet, because uh the only thing I mean, beauty is is your top factor, right, ladies? 1.00

00:25:34.000 Because if you can't take care of your body or you know what like what do you have?

00:25:37.000 Like no, if you have money, you ain't you ain't taking care of niggas. 1.00

00:25:40.000 Amen.

00:25:41.000 Correct?

00:25:42.000 Raise your hand if if you'll take care of uh a guy in relationship.

00:25:45.000 Oh no, you want to be single.

00:25:47.000 I mean depends on the guy.

00:25:51.000 All right, you know what?

00:25:52.000 If he couldn't work his whole life, right?

00:25:53.000 It's like you know what?

00:25:55.000 Like if he had like you know, if like 30k, he's working stably, and you make at least I want to say 80k, right?

00:26:01.000 Would you take care of him?

00:26:02.000 No.

00:26:03.000 What does he do?

00:26:04.000 Nothing like he doesn't do nothing.

00:26:05.000 He doesn't do anything.

00:26:06.000 Does he cook?

00:26:07.000 Does he clean?

00:26:08.000 He's uh he's uh teacher.

00:26:12.000 Okay, he's a teacher, but what I don't like to do in the house.

00:26:14.000 What can he bring to the table?

00:26:16.000 Hold on.

00:26:16.000 This is the first time in the history I've ever heard somebody say they don't like teachers.

00:26:21.000 Why?

00:26:22.000 Not for me, like in a relationship, I wouldn't want my guy to be a teacher.

00:26:25.000 Why not?

00:26:26.000 I mean, I want to learn as much as I can from him, but like I just don't like it.

00:26:34.000 No, it's just the teacher thing for me.

00:26:36.000 No public teachers.

00:26:39.000 Oh, so she's a free.

00:26:42.000 She's a roleplay.

00:26:42.000 It means like, yeah, students.

00:26:46.000 And meet me after this class.

00:26:48.000 I have to teach you, or you want to extra grade?

00:26:50.000 Uh you want that a yeah, yeah.

00:26:53.000 Sometimes you have to bring the apple.

00:26:54.000 See, I thought she's a free. 1.00

00:26:56.000 So ladies, having heard all of your introductions, first off, welcome.

00:27:00.000 One of the things, and I know y'all might have some questions for me as well.

00:27:03.000 Wait, before you begin, um the audience may not know you.

00:27:07.000 Oh, yeah, yeah, you're right.

00:27:08.000 Go ahead.

00:27:08.000 Uh Before that, some sunshine.

00:27:11.000 Yes.

00:27:12.000 Um, sorry, aka my n my nickname is sunshine.

00:27:15.000 I do prefer to be called sunshine.

00:27:17.000 Are your parents together?

00:27:18.000 Um, yes.

00:27:19.000 Ethnicity.

00:27:20.000 I'm East European.

00:27:22.000 Which one?

00:27:23.000 I don't know.

00:27:24.000 I took a DNA test, my heritage.

00:27:26.000 Oh, that's cat, bro.

00:27:28.000 Um, your body count?

00:27:30.000 I prefer not to talk about that.

00:27:31.000 Sunshine, right?

00:27:32.000 That sounds like a dancer's name.

00:27:34.000 And no, I actually just got the sunshine.

00:27:36.000 She's my sunshine.

00:27:37.000 Who?

00:27:38.000 My only sunshine.

00:27:40.000 Oh, so you know her?

00:27:42.000 I know her from now.

00:27:44.000 All right.

00:27:45.000 She's uh she she wants to take feet papers to you, you know. 1.00

00:27:48.000 I'm gonna send her the weirdest.

00:27:49.000 I like to do that.

00:27:50.000 I'm gonna send her the weirdest on my phone.

00:27:51.000 I told her.

00:27:52.000 Oh, so you're calling them like um got to a weird weirdos.

00:27:55.000 Yeah, whoever wants the whatever gets them all.

00:27:59.000 Okay, all right.

00:28:00.000 Um guys, um Jeff, you mind the audience?

00:28:05.000 Yeah.

00:28:06.000 All right, one go through.

00:28:08.000 Fresh and fit um fans, people in the chat.

00:28:11.000 My name is Jeff St. James.

00:28:13.000 I'm a host of Ask a Brother Podcast.

00:28:15.000 Uh my podcast went viral.

00:28:20.000 I think I had 130 subscribers in July, and now it's at like 25,000.

00:28:28.000 Yeah, man.

00:28:29.000 So things are happening.

00:28:30.000 I think people are really gravitating towards the new uh content.

00:28:33.000 I just cover obviously psychology and mental health, but I also give my actual opinions about a whole host of things.

00:28:39.000 Not everything people love or are a fan of.

00:28:41.000 Um it seems like when whoever I'm talking to, the other group likes it.

00:28:45.000 When I'm talking to women about things I think they can improve on, the men seem to be happy about that.

00:28:49.000 When I'm talking to the men about things they can get better at, the women are like, yeah, tell them. 1.00

00:28:53.000 Yeah, tell them so.

00:28:55.000 What I'm learning and realizing is that um, you know, I think there's a lane for all of us to get better, and my goal is to play my small part to play and try to help us get there.

00:29:04.000 Yes, sorry.

00:29:04.000 All right, and guys, once again, if you're tuning in uh on tonight's show, uh once again, Myron is jacking off and he's you know, guess he broke his dick.

00:29:12.000 And uh fresh is uh he had some bad food and taking a shit.

00:29:16.000 So uh he's what yeah, yeah, I don't know, but the first time in Fresh First History that I'm hosting solo on after hours.

00:29:24.000 So and then the Jeffrey and Henny show.

00:29:26.000 No, well the Jeffrey.

00:29:29.000 I like that word.

00:29:32.000 Henny and Jeffrey or the henny and therapy show, because he's a therapist, you know, personally.

00:29:36.000 Um but yeah, guys, uh, we're here um instead of counseling the show or whatever, and we're having a good time so far.

00:29:41.000 Um and it's you know, it's one of those things where it's my first solo um hosting with uh with Jeff.

00:29:47.000 How do you feel?

00:29:48.000 So how do I feel?

00:29:50.000 Listen, uh disclaimer the more I drink, if I say any coherent shit incoherent, don't mind me, guys.

00:29:56.000 You know, I'm just having a good time.

00:29:57.000 All right, uh, but I feel good, you know, and everyone's having a good time.

00:30:01.000 Super chat.

00:30:02.000 So um so do you want to ask questions first, or do you want to read chats first?

00:30:07.000 Let's do chats first, knock those out.

00:30:09.000 Alright, cool.

00:30:09.000 Let's uh re chats first.

00:30:12.000 Um all right, cool.

00:30:13.000 So Jeff, you wanna read it?

00:30:14.000 Oh, go ahead.

00:30:15.000 All right, so Chase uh the man that's 6'6, 50 bucks.

00:30:19.000 Shout out to you.

00:30:19.000 What the ladies date a man that's uh five foot seven and makes 50k a year, or date a six foot that makes hundred K a year.

00:30:27.000 So ladies, would you date a guy who's five foot seven? 1.00

00:30:29.000 Is this guy blue?

00:30:32.000 That was not agree.

00:30:33.000 So listen, I think they should have mixed the the heights.

00:30:37.000 Let's flip the heights.

00:30:38.000 Alright, guys, so flip the heights.

00:30:39.000 So guys who uh well he he's five foot seven and he makes a hundred K a year, or he's six foot tall and he makes 50k a year.

00:30:47.000 So which one would you date?

00:30:48.000 So raise your hand if you would date the guy who makes who is five foot seven and who makes 100k a year.

00:30:53.000 So he's a short he's a short king.

00:30:55.000 So you would if he's five foot seven and makes a hundred K a year, would you would you date him?

00:31:02.000 No, you won't date him.

00:31:03.000 Damn.

00:31:04.000 So you do you would who are?

00:31:06.000 Okay.

00:31:07.000 Alright, cool.

00:31:07.000 Uh and then other girls are you know, just like dating tall guys.

00:31:11.000 That's broke.

00:31:13.000 Damn.

00:31:13.000 That's crazy, man.

00:31:14.000 I just think it's a stupid question.

00:31:16.000 I'm not gonna lie.

00:31:16.000 Oh, how's it stupid?

00:31:18.000 What do you mean?

00:31:18.000 What's his personality?

00:31:20.000 Doesn't all right, so like like it's a good uh good question.

00:31:24.000 Um the guy who's short and the guy who saw it doesn't matter.

00:31:28.000 He's he's a good guy.

00:31:30.000 He took care of you.

00:31:31.000 You know, uh all things how about this?

00:31:33.000 All things are equal.

00:31:35.000 But how do we get along?

00:31:37.000 Like I can't just you know, damn.

00:31:39.000 She's talking about it.

00:31:40.000 Oh, yeah, she's one of those. 1.00

00:31:42.000 What's going on?

00:31:43.000 What am I dealing with?

00:31:44.000 There's gotta be something.

00:31:46.000 Well, what you I think what they were dealing with was just the height and the salary.

00:31:49.000 That's it.

00:31:50.000 But that's not that's not the truth.

00:31:52.000 That's only part of the thing.

00:31:53.000 You're not gonna date this man actually.

00:31:54.000 I think it's I think it was just uh um I mean hypothetical.

00:32:00.000 Um I'm five three, so anything that's taller than me is like oh, okay, and and heels though in heels.

00:32:07.000 Um I wear like three inch heels, so uh they're still gonna be taller than me regardless.

00:32:11.000 It doesn't matter.

00:32:12.000 Oh, okay.

00:32:12.000 Yeah.

00:32:13.000 So then what?

00:32:14.000 By the way, have you ever dated a man that's shorter than you?

00:32:17.000 No.

00:32:18.000 Wait, I don't think there's I mean, wait, wait.

00:32:21.000 You think they don't exist?

00:32:23.000 Damn!

00:32:24.000 I'm sure they do.

00:32:25.000 That's what she said.

00:32:26.000 Yeah, so short men, shorter men than her don't exist.

00:32:31.000 I can't see them.

00:32:32.000 Wait, wait, wait.

00:32:32.000 So you're your currently, is he black?

00:32:35.000 Huh?

00:32:35.000 Is he black currently?

00:32:36.000 Like you're mad?

00:32:37.000 Or yeah, is he is he Haitian?

00:32:41.000 No, he's not Haitian.

00:32:42.000 Oh that's my business too.

00:32:46.000 Okay.

00:32:48.000 She date a secret agent.

00:32:50.000 That's what's going on.

00:32:51.000 I like that.

00:33:07.000 Alright, so real quick before I know I'm sure that you ladies may have a couple questions in mind, but I did have a particular question.

00:33:13.000 Um obviously my lane being a therapist, been working in the field for over a decade.

00:33:18.000 I don't know how many men, women, and couples I've dealt with over the course of this time.

00:33:23.000 Uh, but I've noticed some interesting themes, especially in light of like social media and a lot of the complaints on social media about different sexes.

00:33:31.000 So for all you ladies, I want to know the simple question with the state of the current dating market here and in the UK, or just in Western countries in general, with how bad things are and how much everybody's complaining.

00:33:44.000 I want you all to tell me who you think is ultimately at fault and why.

00:33:50.000 If it's men, you say I believe it's men, and this is my reason why.

00:33:54.000 If you think it's women, this is your reason why. 1.00

00:33:57.000 So who would like to start first?

00:34:00.000 I'll start.

00:34:00.000 Um can I say both?

00:34:02.000 Uh sure.

00:34:03.000 You can just lean in a little bit more.

00:34:04.000 Okay.

00:34:05.000 I'll say both because um this generation has a hard time.

00:34:11.000 Well, people in this generation have a hard time understanding each other, even in like deep conversations.

00:34:16.000 Um they don't know how to communicate.

00:34:18.000 Oh, my bad.

00:34:19.000 They don't know how to communicate.

00:34:21.000 And I don't know.

00:34:24.000 Females, females nowadays think that they have to be even with men. 1.00

00:34:28.000 So like if a dude cheat on a female, she'd be like, oh, let me go get my gig back. 1.00

00:34:31.000 I'm gonna go, you know, it's wrong boy.

00:34:33.000 But like everybody's at fault.

00:34:35.000 Everybody has to, you know, participate for things not to go right.

00:34:39.000 If one person wants it to go right and the next person don't want it to go right, remove yourself.

00:34:43.000 But you you get what I'm saying.

00:34:45.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:34:46.000 Anybody else?

00:34:48.000 I agree.

00:34:48.000 I think both at fault.

00:34:50.000 I feel like now gals, we like will come together and say if I stop talking to a guy, I'll show my I'll show him to my friends, and they're like, like, no, you could do way better, you know, girls we just think that.

00:34:59.000 And and the same as guys, they always think they can get but uh girls think we can get about a so I would say I would say both. 0.91

00:35:06.000 Interesting.

00:35:07.000 Okay.

00:35:07.000 Now for future uh responses, no more both.

00:35:11.000 You gotta choose.

00:35:11.000 Thank you.

00:35:12.000 Because everybody's gonna say, I think it's a little bit of both.

00:35:14.000 I'm gonna crash out, man.

00:35:15.000 Go ahead.

00:35:17.000 I was gonna say both.

00:35:18.000 I feel like both have to take accountability at the end of the day.

00:35:21.000 All right, well, so which one you gonna lean more towards?

00:35:25.000 So go ahead, Sunsha.

00:35:26.000 But that's what I was gonna say.

00:35:27.000 So my thoughts if you had to choose, who would you say you would lean a little bit more towards is probably contributing to the things being such an issue?

00:35:36.000 I would lean towards the men, for sure.

00:35:39.000 I feel like they're the aggressor.

00:35:40.000 They're like the alpha, they're supposed to be the alpha, you know.

00:35:43.000 I mean, at the end of the day, like they're supposed to be that alpha male, they're supposed to be the one like guiding you, doing all these things for the woman at the end of the day.

00:35:51.000 You know, if you want a traditional man, it just depends on what you're looking for, honestly.

00:35:55.000 But I feel like based on like how today is, it's just like not You're not gonna look for that traditional man because there's hardly any out there.

00:36:03.000 Okay.

00:36:03.000 So men aren't traditional.

00:36:05.000 They're supposed to be alphas and a lot of them are not acting like it.

00:36:07.000 Yes.

00:36:08.000 Cool.

00:36:09.000 It's the birth control in the water.

00:36:11.000 Yeah, the catazine.

00:36:13.000 It's in the water.

00:36:14.000 Anyone else?

00:36:15.000 Oh.

00:36:15.000 Go ahead.

00:36:16.000 I feel bad saying mine, because okay, I feel like I have a I'm around a lot of single women. 1.00

00:36:21.000 So I feel like the women are single-minded women because of the lack of the more income a woman makes the less she feels like she needs to compromise to be with a man. 1.00

00:36:32.000 So it's like if you're not able to compromise, you can't have a relationship.

00:36:36.000 It's more like a s most women have a single mindset instead of having a relationship based mindset. 1.00

00:36:41.000 So I mean, uh like for instance, my aunt and uncle, they're both married.

00:36:45.000 She makes a good income, but she has a relationship minded mindset.

00:36:48.000 She still comes home and cooks like two times out of the week. 0.71

00:36:50.000 So they have like that compromise.

00:36:52.000 But most women, the more money they make, the less they're willing to compromise. 1.00

00:36:54.000 So that's gonna make it difficult to find a man who's gonna be willing to be in a relationship with you.

00:37:00.000 Interesting.

00:37:01.000 Interesting.

00:37:01.000 Okay.

00:37:02.000 Different various different opinions.

00:37:03.000 Anybody else?

00:37:06.000 Go ahead.

00:37:06.000 I know you want to say something.

00:37:08.000 So yeah, I was kind of thinking about it.

00:37:10.000 I would say women too. 1.00

00:37:12.000 Um because men are born from a woman.

00:37:18.000 I feel like it starts from when you're little.

00:37:22.000 So a lot of women, they kind of treat their kids like a mama's boy or something, like they favor I don't know. 0.99

00:37:31.000 They it's the teaching that women give their children. 1.00

00:37:35.000 And then also um if a woman wants an alpha male, she has to figure out how to get that. 1.00

00:37:46.000 You know, you can you don't need to say yes to everyone that comes around.

00:37:52.000 You can say yes to the one that's actually showing their alpha status, and everybody else can just you know, hit whatever, kick the the curb or whatever.

00:38:03.000 Cool, you know.

00:38:04.000 May I actually say something?

00:38:06.000 Um, so actually the man didn't come from the woman, the man created the woman, uh God, the our savior, you know, at the end of the day, like he's the one who made this world at the end of the day.

00:38:19.000 The man, the god made the woman. 0.82

00:38:21.000 Oh, I'm just saying that's we came from from where it all said.

00:38:30.000 I'm not talking religion, but you came from men. 0.98

00:38:33.000 And what about what about you?

00:38:35.000 I mean, I'm not gonna talk religion, but that is a fact.

00:38:39.000 Um, you know, us women are the rib. 1.00

00:38:42.000 I'm talking about who you blame.

00:38:44.000 So I blame okay, I'm not gonna get deep then.

00:38:46.000 I I don't blame anybody at the end of the day.

00:38:48.000 I feel like just the generation in society is just messed up all kinds of values and who we used to be, what woman was, what man was, and now it's all a combustion.

00:38:59.000 I feel like um, so for me i it could possibly be a solid like 60 40, 60% on the woman, you know, and then 40% on the men.

00:39:10.000 Why do you give the 60 a little bit more on the women's side? 1.00

00:39:13.000 Because I feel like women are trying to play catch up. 1.00

00:39:16.000 With what or with who?

00:39:17.000 With the with the men.

00:39:19.000 Like beyond that not equal status, but even above because of how much pressure we have nowadays.

00:39:25.000 That's just my opinion.

00:39:26.000 Interesting.

00:39:27.000 Yeah, we do.

00:39:27.000 So all of you are under 30, correct?

00:39:30.000 Yes.

00:39:30.000 Wait, I'm 30?

00:39:31.000 Under 30.

00:39:32.000 And not married yet?

00:39:33.000 And all of you are unmarried, under 30.

00:39:35.000 Damn.

00:39:36.000 And what'd you say damn for her? 0.78

00:39:38.000 I mean, hey, listen, I mean, if these girls w want to be married, correct? 0.93

00:39:42.000 I don't know that.

00:39:43.000 I don't know that all right.

00:39:45.000 You do not want to be married.

00:39:46.000 Do not.

00:39:47.000 All right, there you go.

00:39:48.000 Umbody wants to be married at some point.

00:39:51.000 At some point.

00:39:52.000 When like what is the point?

00:39:55.000 When you find the right person.

00:39:57.000 All right, so how do you find the right person?

00:39:58.000 I don't know.

00:39:59.000 That's what I was talking about.

00:40:02.000 I don't know.

00:40:03.000 You should know.

00:40:04.000 How?

00:40:04.000 Why should I know?

00:40:05.000 Okay.

00:40:06.000 So all right, shout out to Frost for 10 subs.

00:40:08.000 Well, wait, who's getting subs? 0.60

00:40:13.000 All right, because either modify uh gifting subs.

00:40:16.000 They give this subs to the toilet, bro.

00:40:20.000 Anyways, all right, so yeah, so you want to be married eventually, right?

00:40:24.000 And you don't know how to get married. 0.54

00:40:28.000 That's scary.

00:40:30.000 We don't know how to get married.

00:40:32.000 Yeah, like you know, well, her. 0.79

00:40:35.000 Well, I'm I'm not in a relationship.

00:40:36.000 Yeah, but you but at least you just have uh the certain steps how to learn how to get married, right?

00:40:41.000 Well, yeah, but get in a relationship, find a man, settle down.

00:40:46.000 All right, so raise your hand if you know how to get married or how to uh keep a man. 1.00

00:40:51.000 No, you lost your man.

00:40:53.000 You lost your man, so you know what fine, you know what top two things.

00:41:00.000 Um compromise and also respect his wishes and know what yeah, learn him.

00:41:08.000 Learn him, learn what makes him happy.

00:41:09.000 Okay, all right.

00:41:11.000 I feel like just be yourself, respect is you.

00:41:16.000 Don't be yourself.

00:41:17.000 Um Yeah, be my like my my angel on my left shoulder.

00:41:21.000 Yeah, I'm a model I'm with Sunshine.

00:41:24.000 Alright, no, what go ahead?

00:41:25.000 No, really, all seriousness.

00:41:26.000 I feel like with a with a man with a man, not a boy, but with a man, respect is number one.

00:41:31.000 I mean, it's a boy.

00:41:32.000 I mean, is it he's over 21, so he's a man either way.

00:41:35.000 Uh classify it how's however you want.

00:41:39.000 I feel like there's a difference between a boy and a man. 0.85

00:41:42.000 Oh, yeah.

00:41:42.000 Yeah.

00:41:43.000 Not me.

00:41:44.000 No, like there's there's guys that are older than us that are more boys than men.

00:41:48.000 Children.

00:41:49.000 I mean, you know what?

00:41:50.000 You know what?

00:41:51.000 Like, she's saying that because she's fucked them and they're and that same guy left her hanging, bro.

00:41:55.000 Because like it's why she's mad right now.

00:41:57.000 That's for the year babies.

00:41:59.000 I'm not mad at all.

00:42:00.000 Yeah, she is, bro.

00:42:01.000 Like you are you were invested in a nigga who was six foot three, who who hit yeah, baby girl, I'll I'll give you the world, and all of a sudden he did you're wrong, and now you're trying to call him shit. 0.99

00:42:10.000 Yeah, and uh now you're talking shit about him.

00:42:12.000 Not really.

00:42:13.000 You call him a baby.

00:42:14.000 That's your opinion.

00:42:15.000 That's my fact.

00:42:16.000 I mean, I've seen a lot of different types of people I'm an observer.

00:42:19.000 So you call a 40-year-old man a baby.

00:42:22.000 If they act like children, I'm gonna call it out.

00:42:24.000 That's what they are.

00:42:26.000 So then listen, in my experience, right?

00:42:30.000 Girls who like actually, yeah, he's a baby and he's and you're smiling right now.

00:42:33.000 Currently, right now you're smiling.

00:42:35.000 So you're holding your rage in right now.

00:42:36.000 I see the eye.

00:42:37.000 I'm really not.

00:42:39.000 No, you're just funny.

00:42:40.000 Like I'm gonna do it.

00:42:42.000 All right, so just to clarify, the reason why I asked that question is because it always sets the tone for the foundation of where it is I think everybody is in terms of how they're seeing the date market.

00:42:51.000 I it was actually pretty balanced.

00:42:53.000 Some people got away with the whole both.

00:42:55.000 Um some of you put it on a little bit on the men, and some of the other ladies put it on the women. 1.00

00:43:00.000 If I had to give my humble opinion, now mind you I'm a guy.

00:43:03.000 Obviously, I get the fact that you know I'm gonna be biased to a degree, but when I look at what's happened, at least in the States specifically, I can't really speak to the other countries.

00:43:12.000 And you're married.

00:43:13.000 Oh, well that that's true.

00:43:14.000 Yeah, um my opinion is it's probably closer to 80 20.

00:43:20.000 Oh for what side?

00:43:22.000 80 woman.

00:43:23.000 Oh, what side do you think?

00:43:25.000 Yeah.

00:43:26.000 I was just hoping it has a little hope.

00:43:28.000 Yeah, now the reason why I say this, of course.

00:43:30.000 Wait, you didn't let him say it.

00:43:32.000 Yeah, the 80% is definitely I'm gonna put on the women as of today. 1.00

00:43:35.000 Now the reason is not all your fault, but I think it was a trajectory of how we got here.

00:43:41.000 So for starting points, when feminism happened, right? 1.00

00:43:46.000 What shifted when feminism came into the picture? 1.00

00:43:49.000 We got right the power role, the power dynamic.

00:43:52.000 Rights to do what?

00:43:54.000 Work.

00:43:56.000 Have money.

00:43:56.000 Okay, dependency, independency.

00:43:59.000 So independence.

00:44:00.000 You said the ability to work and make money.

00:44:02.000 What else changed?

00:44:04.000 To have your own fat household dynamic.

00:44:06.000 Uh you said what?

00:44:07.000 Equality.

00:44:09.000 Equality.

00:44:10.000 And what else?

00:44:12.000 You can have kids on your own without men.

00:44:14.000 How uh donations?

00:44:17.000 But I mean men.

00:44:19.000 IBM, you know, IBM.

00:44:22.000 Wait, but how many of us my parents can't have kids.

00:44:25.000 Cool.

00:44:25.000 So just to clarify, some of the things that maybe came with feminism potentially were very positive, right?

00:44:32.000 Could get the vote.

00:44:33.000 You could purchase property.

00:44:35.000 You could uh have a bank account.

00:44:37.000 You could have a credit card, right?

00:44:38.000 These were positive, I'm assuming, right?

00:44:39.000 Now I don't know about how y'all spending these credit cards.

00:44:41.000 That may be a different discussion.

00:44:43.000 But what changed between men and women when feminism came in? 0.98

00:44:49.000 Respect was lost, probably.

00:44:51.000 The power dynamic.

00:44:52.000 In what way?

00:44:54.000 As in now the woman can be the head of household and the male feels like he's undermined his potentially.

00:45:01.000 That's I don't think that happened always, but that's a possibility.

00:45:04.000 But his leadership was undermined, basically, by the woman. 0.95

00:45:08.000 Okay.

00:45:09.000 What else?

00:45:09.000 What else changed?

00:45:11.000 Between men and women. 0.99

00:45:12.000 Go ahead.

00:45:12.000 No, I'm sorry.

00:45:13.000 I'm just I just think it's funny.

00:45:15.000 You think feminism's funny? 1.00

00:45:17.000 No, I just I'm listening to the responses, and I just think things are funny.

00:45:20.000 I'm sorry.

00:45:21.000 I mean, what what's funny though?

00:45:22.000 Like, let's know.

00:45:24.000 It's podcasts.

00:45:25.000 Like her answer or yeah, her answer.

00:45:29.000 Well, okay.

00:45:30.000 So we heard her answer.

00:45:31.000 I'm just it's a conversation.

00:45:33.000 Yeah.

00:45:34.000 What did you find funny about what she said?

00:45:36.000 No, I just think it's funny that people would even feel undermined just because someone is elevating themselves.

00:45:44.000 I feel like you know, we should be proud of each other.

00:45:48.000 Oh, I get you.

00:45:49.000 Actually, I actually get where you're coming from, right?

00:45:51.000 The idea that somebody could feel undermined or the fact that you're getting right, so why would you be undermined by that kind of thing?

00:45:57.000 Right.

00:45:57.000 Fair.

00:45:57.000 Fair fair.

00:45:58.000 We elevate as a family.

00:46:00.000 Yeah.

00:46:00.000 Um, what do you think changed sexually between men and women after post-feminism?

00:46:06.000 There's more bi girls now. 1.00

00:46:09.000 More what?

00:46:10.000 More bisexual girls. 0.56

00:46:12.000 Okay.

00:46:13.000 Okay.

00:46:15.000 What changed in terms of women's views towards sex with men when feminism came? 1.00

00:46:25.000 Sure.

00:46:25.000 It became less the baby.

00:46:27.000 All right, sexual liberation.

00:46:28.000 Oh, shit, right?

00:46:29.000 Yep.

00:46:30.000 Like masturbation.

00:46:32.000 No, like today's okay.

00:46:34.000 Pre Oh.

00:46:37.000 You could do what you want.

00:46:38.000 Okay, okay, okay.

00:46:39.000 You could do what you want.

00:46:39.000 Right.

00:46:40.000 You can have sex with who you want. 0.91

00:46:41.000 You can have children with who you want.

00:46:42.000 Right?

00:46:43.000 That's you know, like it was socially in most other cultures not acceptable for women to be able to just sleep with different guys. 0.92

00:46:50.000 And then in modernity, when feminism came, sexual liberation, you had the right to be able to have sex with whomever.

00:46:57.000 We're just talking about Western culture though, right?

00:46:59.000 Yes.

00:47:00.000 Yes, uh, specifically.

00:47:01.000 Um, where feminism occurred. 1.00

00:47:03.000 Um so my my issue, or my contention, is I think that feminism in the quest of giving you all and pushing for you all to have certain rights and certain really positive things, they told you all the things that you can get, but I don't think that they told you all the consequences that comes with it.

00:47:20.000 Ooh, bars.

00:47:22.000 All right.

00:47:23.000 So the first one, you all mentioned it.

00:47:26.000 Money.

00:47:27.000 Being able to make your own money, right?

00:47:30.000 Remember that question we saw from the from the uh super chat?

00:47:33.000 Where they was asking about who you whether you're gonna date a guy that makes 50K or 100K thing.

00:47:39.000 Some of you may date the guy that's that makes the 50k.

00:47:42.000 Um, you mentioned it, right?

00:47:43.000 You you would you'd be open to dating a guy that makes 50?

00:47:46.000 No, I didn't.

00:47:48.000 Who was it?

00:47:49.000 Was it you?

00:47:50.000 I mean, uh the average income in the United States is around $50,000 a year.

00:47:56.000 And then you combine the income.

00:47:57.000 What you date them though.

00:47:58.000 What you did.

00:47:58.000 Yeah.

00:47:59.000 I dated my ex made less than 50k a year.

00:48:02.000 Yeah, but you left them.

00:48:03.000 Yeah, but you wouldn't have been forever.

00:48:07.000 I was I was young when I was with him, so I mean, how old are you getting 28?

00:48:10.000 I'm 23.

00:48:11.000 23.

00:48:11.000 Oh, I thought you're 28.

00:48:12.000 So the reason why I'm bringing that up is because of all the different things that you gained.

00:48:18.000 What happens when women start making money and their views of the men that are trying to date them in regards to how much he has to make? 1.00

00:48:25.000 Oh, their standards go up.

00:48:27.000 They start.

00:48:28.000 Yeah, they're not.

00:48:28.000 They start getting insecure.

00:48:30.000 Whoa, whoa, whoa.

00:48:31.000 No.

00:48:32.000 What happens to the women? 1.00

00:48:34.000 Oh, and their view of the men that's trying to pursue them when their money goes out.

00:48:39.000 They don't want anybody that makes any lesser money than them.

00:48:43.000 A lot of women, that's the thing. 1.00

00:48:46.000 A lot of women, that's the thing. 1.00

00:48:48.000 Not all.

00:48:48.000 There will be exceptions to the rule.

00:48:50.000 And you said you're 23?

00:48:52.000 23, yeah.

00:48:53.000 I envision that when you turn 28 or 32, what you were satisfied with at 21 of how much he can make is probably not gonna be the case.

00:49:03.000 That's exactly why I left my relationship.

00:49:05.000 Oh wait a minute.

00:49:06.000 No, wait a minute.

00:49:08.000 It's not the overall It's not the only reason.

00:49:10.000 You can't go and tell her it's a pussy, bro. 1.00

00:49:13.000 Come on, calm now.

00:49:13.000 I'm sure she got multiple reasons.

00:49:17.000 Like for me, when I was 15, I was just like movie dates made me happy.

00:49:22.000 Getting food made me happy.

00:49:23.000 Now that I'm an adult, I'm like, wait, we have to plan out our lives.

00:49:26.000 When y'all were 16, that's why I'm saying I had to leave.

00:49:28.000 What was the standard that you was expecting as a 16-year-old from this man?

00:49:31.000 Go out to movies, right?

00:49:33.000 And eat food.

00:49:34.000 He maybe at best he had to have a car.

00:49:37.000 And yeah, and then we got off our later.

00:49:40.000 That was kind of it, right?

00:49:41.000 Yeah.

00:49:41.000 Like car, he could take you on a date.

00:49:43.000 Exactly.

00:49:44.000 Occasionally, you know, well, maybe get you some flowers every now and then.

00:49:48.000 Exactly.

00:49:48.000 Bare minimum.

00:49:49.000 Yeah.

00:49:49.000 Oh, When you turn 18, 19, 20, was that enough anymore?

00:49:54.000 Probably not.

00:49:54.000 No.

00:49:56.000 So with feminism, one of the things that kind of came with that is higher expectations. 1.00

00:50:04.000 So when feminism keeps pushing you all to keep making money, boss be a boss babe, killing it, you know, do handling your own. 1.00

00:50:14.000 But if your standards keeps going up, what will happen by around 30 years old?

00:50:20.000 You're fucked.

00:50:21.000 Burnt out.

00:50:23.000 But it's more so this is the issue.

00:50:23.000 Maybe.

00:50:25.000 And this is what I'm seeing in the counseling sessions.

00:50:27.000 This is what I'm seeing in the trends.

00:50:29.000 The ladies that don't figure it out before 30 have a substantially more difficult time post-30. 1.00

00:50:36.000 Why do you think that is?

00:50:39.000 Because they're stuck in their ways.

00:50:40.000 Now they're not like they're not 50 or 60 yet.

00:50:44.000 It's more so because they've spent a decade plus as an adult building up their income.

00:50:51.000 So if you've spent all this time building up your income, and now you're like, I'm making 80,000.

00:50:57.000 I'm making a hundred thousand.

00:50:59.000 I'm making a hundred and twenty thousand.

00:51:02.000 What are a majority of women in the West saying when they make that much money? 1.00

00:51:07.000 Do they want the guy that makes 50,000 anymore?

00:51:10.000 A lot of them don't.

00:51:12.000 So the guys who make that much money, what is he looking for?

00:51:15.000 What does he want?

00:51:17.000 But why because he makes 50,000 does that make him like less successful.

00:51:22.000 First of all, you gotta ask women that you gotta ask a lot of people.

00:51:24.000 No, but yeah, that doesn't make sense.

00:51:26.000 Because for us a 30,000 dollar tax bracket difference.

00:51:29.000 Yeah, for us as guys, we can acknowledge two incomes and how they can come together.

00:51:34.000 But a lot of ladies, when they're first being pursued by the guy, they're not thinking about two. 1.00

00:51:40.000 They're thinking about his income.

00:51:42.000 And number two, if she hasn't had kids yet or they want kids, my one of my beliefs, it's not for all women, but I believe it's a lot of women. 1.00

00:51:52.000 Most of y'all ain't built to th to work 30, 40 years.

00:51:56.000 You may like your career, you may like your degree.

00:51:59.000 The truth is, most of y'all want to be work optional.

00:52:04.000 You want to work when you want to work.

00:52:06.000 You want to be in a relationship where you can take off when you need to.

00:52:09.000 When you do need a break.

00:52:10.000 You want to take off a kids, you just overworked, and the bills still get paid and nothing falls apart.

00:52:16.000 Isn't that everyone though?

00:52:17.000 No.

00:52:19.000 Believe it or not.

00:52:20.000 No.

00:52:21.000 A lot of a lot of men have no problem working the course of their lives taking care of their families.

00:52:26.000 That's that's how we're hardwired.

00:52:28.000 Work smarter, not harder.

00:52:30.000 A lot of ladies would prefer they want to be able to work when they want to, but they want to be work optional. 1.00

00:52:36.000 But if you keep pushing the needle further and further financially bracket for yourself, and then you keep raising your standards as well, the pool of men that you like that you think will qualify for you is they get bigger or smaller.

00:52:53.000 Smaller.

00:52:54.000 So if you get to 30, and then you focusing on all the guys at the top, the guys that's making 120, 150, 200,000.

00:53:04.000 Hey.

00:53:07.000 Question.

00:53:08.000 All the guys that's making that and more, who they signing up to date and deal with?

00:53:14.000 Younger, hotter, tighter.

00:53:16.000 What age?

00:53:17.000 Uh probably in the 20s.

00:53:18.000 18 to 23.

00:53:21.000 23, 24.

00:53:23.000 Yeah.

00:53:24.000 So that window, that's the first issue.

00:53:28.000 Financially.

00:53:30.000 So I'm not saying y'all cook yet.

00:53:32.000 Y'all still got time.

00:53:34.000 But wait, wait, wait.

00:53:35.000 I mean, I mean paddle.

00:53:37.000 24.

00:53:38.000 Wait, who's the old? 0.97

00:53:39.000 Who's the oldest?

00:53:40.000 And you're 20.

00:53:40.000 Oldest one.

00:53:41.000 28.

00:53:42.000 Oh, and you're in a relationship.

00:53:43.000 Yes.

00:53:44.000 Alright, she got she got time.

00:53:45.000 She crowded. 0.62

00:53:46.000 She got some equity.

00:53:49.000 She got a little equity.

00:53:50.000 How long you've been together?

00:53:51.000 Oh, yeah.

00:53:52.000 For a while.

00:53:53.000 But how long?

00:53:55.000 A while.

00:53:55.000 Well, listen, I don't need to know where he's from.

00:53:58.000 I don't need to know his age.

00:53:58.000 I don't need to know a lot of things.

00:53:59.000 Have you been together at least a year?

00:54:01.000 In a relationship.

00:54:03.000 For a while.

00:54:03.000 Listen, stop being fake because I'm not gonna.

00:54:09.000 Some girls will like what what some women are watching this podcast, right? 1.00

00:54:13.000 And if you're being fake and then you're being on whatever, how can I learn from you?

00:54:17.000 Like, you're not sending a good example for the girls or women who are watching the podcast.

00:54:22.000 So sh by keeping my business to imagine.

00:54:26.000 They want to learn from you.

00:54:27.000 Just ask the hey, listen, a few uh less than a year.

00:54:30.000 Over a year.

00:54:30.000 Yeah.

00:54:31.000 Like, is it like it's even great?

00:54:33.000 Alright, cool.

00:54:33.000 Okay.

00:54:33.000 So it's fine.

00:54:34.000 If it's one month, it's fine.

00:54:36.000 So that's issue number one.

00:54:39.000 That was a change as a result of ladies. 1.00

00:54:42.000 You you listen to your mothers.

00:54:44.000 You may even listen to your fathers, who told you to make sure you, you know, get this education and get this degree.

00:54:50.000 But your standards are adjusting with your your income is going up as well.

00:54:56.000 The issue number two is the sexual liberation issue.

00:55:00.000 Now my question is this.

00:55:02.000 If the patriarchy was about kind of dictating who you could have sex with and who you could marry, that was the patriarchy, right? 0.88

00:55:12.000 Well, what will what's the opposite of that?

00:55:17.000 Who's deciding who you get to sleep with and who gets to sleep with you, and who gets who's choosing and picking who you giving kiss to? 0.79

00:55:27.000 I'm confused about that question.

00:55:29.000 You all are doing it.

00:55:32.000 So my question is if other people outside of yourself and outside of your feelings and outside of your emotions was able to not have feelings attached to it and look to see if this is a good fit, if they come from a good household, if they're gonna be able to handle certain things, if they have certain traditions, and you're deciding I don't need anybody to make this decision for me.

00:55:53.000 I can figure this out at 16, 15, 14.

00:55:59.000 If you're 22 or 23 right now, and you started at 414, 15, 16 having sex with different guys, and we went from then till 22, you already have six years of evidence that you don't know what the hell you're doing.

00:56:16.000 If you're not in a relationship and you're not married, and you've been having sex, you don't know what the fuck you're doing.

00:56:25.000 Fraternity.

00:56:26.000 That's a fact.

00:56:28.000 That's not that's not a judgment thing.

00:56:29.000 That's on all of us.

00:56:30.000 So when I was in my 20s and I'm picking and choosing, I know what the hell I was doing.

00:56:34.000 I'm going off of vibes and whether we like each other.

00:56:38.000 My my warning to all of you is this.

00:56:41.000 If you go from let's say 15 to 30, that's a 15-year track record if you do not end up married by that point of taking the same test and failing.

00:56:55.000 Multiple times.

00:56:58.000 Now, this is the issue with the ladies. 1.00

00:57:00.000 If you hang around the wrong uh uh single women who keep telling you all the issues are just the men, everything that's wrong in life is just the men, and you've gone 15 years of failing the test, you don't get to keep failing the tests and then tell everybody you a star athlete. 0.79

00:57:17.000 Oh, shit.

00:57:18.000 Or that you a star student.

00:57:21.000 You ain't getting A's.

00:57:22.000 You could convince yourself you got A's and all your exes are the are the narcissists.

00:57:28.000 But 15 years, 10 years, 15, 20 years of trying to do the same thing and still failing.

00:57:33.000 That's gonna be a lot of people's future if they don't reevaluate what they've already started doing.

00:57:41.000 So that was the reason why I asked that initial question.

00:57:44.000 So I posed out two ideas.

00:57:46.000 Obviously, they're my opinions, but I want to know what each of you think about those two initial things that I'm putting out there.

00:57:51.000 You don't have to agree, you can disagree.

00:57:53.000 But what do each of you think about those two things I just put out there?

00:57:57.000 The economic part, and then also the sexual liberation part.

00:58:01.000 Is that contributing heavily to why women are making a lot of the decisions or mistakes that they're making right now? 1.00

00:58:07.000 What do y'all think?

00:58:11.000 I mean, if if if the uh IQ is kind of low, because like I don't know, girls do you want to send this question? 1.00

00:58:16.000 Or like can he say it repeat the question again in the simpler terms?

00:58:21.000 So I mean, well, what do you think?

00:58:22.000 Sunshine.

00:58:24.000 I knew you were gonna call me.

00:58:25.000 Um I feel like it's reasonable.

00:58:30.000 Honestly.

00:58:32.000 I don't know what else to say.

00:58:34.000 I feel like I do agree in some parts.

00:58:36.000 It does take an effect on to like today's world and what we've come to as uh individual.

00:58:42.000 Yeah, okay.

00:58:43.000 Which which part you you um agree on?

00:58:46.000 Both of them the economic and the sexual liberation.

00:58:48.000 Yeah, yeah, no, but it's uh that's what he said, like five seconds ago.

00:58:53.000 What do you agree on though?

00:58:55.000 Like exactly.

00:58:57.000 Uh that it's just both of them take a role into the effect of the females being potentially the bigger percentage of the issue in this world compared to the men. 0.99

00:59:08.000 Okay.

00:59:09.000 What about you?

00:59:09.000 Like he said.

00:59:12.000 Into the mic, please.

00:59:15.000 Sorry.

00:59:16.000 Like closer louder.

00:59:17.000 Okay, wait.

00:59:18.000 Give me some damn time.

00:59:19.000 Well, I mean, I mean I'm trying, nigga. 1.00

00:59:22.000 Hey, three times told you to go on the mic.

00:59:25.000 Um, well, damn.

00:59:26.000 Come closer.

00:59:28.000 You give me attitude?

00:59:29.000 Why?

00:59:30.000 You about to catch it.

00:59:31.000 I do agree.

00:59:33.000 I agree with both.

00:59:34.000 No, like catch one though.

00:59:36.000 The attitude.

00:59:37.000 Yeah, because you're pushing it.

00:59:37.000 The attitude?

00:59:38.000 Sorry, but no, it's not Russia, but we told you three times speaking to the mic.

00:59:42.000 Okay, well, let me move up.

00:59:44.000 I'm literally sitting back while everyone's talking, so let me move on to the city.

00:59:47.000 What do you sloth?

00:59:48.000 What are you sloth?

00:59:51.000 I do agree with both of both sides of what you were saying.

00:59:56.000 You see?

00:59:57.000 Like, okay, um, I do agree with both what you were saying.

00:59:57.000 I'm sorry.

01:00:02.000 I do feel like women and men well, I from what I understand, I feel like women and men kind of did switch places.

01:00:10.000 Um with being financial and who's taking care of who and who's making the the rules or whatever.

01:00:16.000 Yeah.

01:00:16.000 And then sexually I I agree with all of that.

01:00:19.000 You just said I agree with everything.

01:00:21.000 All right.

01:00:22.000 Does anybody does anyone thinking of what of those two things that I kind of put out there?

01:00:28.000 Is it is it something that you never really thought about how important it was that could be can contribute to maybe why things are so bad or even maybe personally when you look back and reevaluate.

01:00:39.000 Damn, I didn't realize that.

01:00:40.000 Yeah, that was for me because I was in a seven year relationship, and I feel like um he was he proposed to me um in December of last year.

01:00:51.000 And after six years.

01:00:53.000 After six years, yes.

01:00:54.000 Oh, no.

01:00:56.000 Well, like I said, he proposed to me more so um because I guess my brother also was proposing to his fiancee at the time too.

01:01:05.000 So he probably felt like, okay, I need to do something right.

01:01:08.000 But within himself, he was battling a lot of things eternally.

01:01:12.000 Um also, like I said, when I was 15, my standards or my things of what I wanted in a relationship was not what I wanted now as a grown woman.

01:01:21.000 So those are things that at the end of the day, me making him feel like he needs to grow up faster was also make making him feel demasculated.

01:01:29.000 Oh, so you're nagging.

01:01:31.000 No, I wasn't nagging, I was trying to You were nagging.

01:01:35.000 You're like, come on, grow up faster and that what's up, like that at all.

01:01:42.000 You know what I'm saying?

01:01:42.000 Like trying to be like you were you were nagging.

01:01:44.000 No, he told he told me that my brother he told me that my brother told him that he was gonna do it.

01:01:48.000 Yeah, but he knew what you wanted though.

01:01:50.000 Like guys are stupid.

01:01:51.000 Did you want that at that time for him to propose?

01:01:53.000 No.

01:01:53.000 Yeah, you didn't because by six years, we by the fifth year of the relationship, I had already came to senses that maybe this is not something that I see in my future.

01:02:02.000 But it was hard for me to leave because I was trauma bonded to him after being together for so many years.

01:02:07.000 Okay.

01:02:07.000 Wait, what the fuck is trauma bonded?

01:02:10.000 People mean different things when they mean it.

01:02:12.000 Sorry, but like yo, like I'm a dude, bro.

01:02:15.000 What the fuck is trauma bonded?

01:02:16.000 And and he's like, you know, he's hurt.

01:02:18.000 Like, I don't know, like what does it mean?

01:02:19.000 Like what happened?

01:02:20.000 Like, basically.

01:02:21.000 If you don't go into details, it's fine.

01:02:23.000 I understand people who have personal issues, but I want to know, like, for the audience.

01:02:26.000 We have over I think uh 21, like uh 22 uh 22k people watching right now.

01:02:32.000 People have to know the shit, ladies. 1.00

01:02:33.000 So stop being vague about shit.

01:02:34.000 You know what I'm saying?

01:02:36.000 Like be like be oh, just say the facts, and it's what it is.

01:02:40.000 Go ahead.

01:02:40.000 Okay, yeah.

01:02:41.000 So trauma bonded, I would say is like you're I was with that person every single day.

01:02:46.000 So we need each other to function in order to regulate our emotions when I'm around him.

01:02:50.000 I feel wait, so your emotions, because it like he's a dude, like dudes don't really call duty, we jerking off.

01:02:58.000 He doesn't play any video games or anything like that.

01:03:00.000 He is very emotional because he's a Caribbean man.

01:03:02.000 I feel like most men are like Caribbean men are like more emotional. 1.00

01:03:05.000 Mm-hmm.

01:03:07.000 Yeah, we spaz out.

01:03:08.000 Well, based on how you described it, that sounds more like codependency.

01:03:11.000 Exactly.

01:03:12.000 So I would say it was more codependency.

01:03:14.000 Okay.

01:03:14.000 And I didn't know how to do things like put gas.

01:03:17.000 I didn't know.

01:03:17.000 I never put gas for seven years.

01:03:19.000 I didn't like spoilers.

01:03:20.000 Oh wow.

01:03:21.000 So he had you though.

01:03:22.000 Mm-hmm.

01:03:23.000 All right.

01:03:23.000 He didn't make a lot of money, but he did the other.

01:03:27.000 But that's still it was still things in the relationship that it doesn't like yeah.

01:03:34.000 Now the dope thing is is that you're 23.

01:03:37.000 Now reimagine if you had given another man if you if you hadn't experienced a seven-year relationship at 15.

01:03:44.000 Exactly.

01:03:45.000 What if you had started at 25?

01:03:47.000 Oh and gave some no, because a lot of ladies do it. 1.00

01:03:51.000 Oh wow.

01:03:52.000 A lot of ladies give years and years and years to a guy that they've already seen signs and red flags. 1.00

01:04:00.000 And then when it finally I I I I literally have a friend.

01:04:04.000 Who uh don't do that.

01:04:06.000 Don't do that.

01:04:07.000 Had a friend where I, you know, came to know her through my through my wife and getting to know her.

01:04:12.000 I got I was cool with the guy as well.

01:04:15.000 And over time I kind of learned and observed, and they were like, oh, they've been together for 10 years, and then they broke up.

01:04:21.000 And this was like well into like her early 30s.

01:04:24.000 And I'm like, did it take 10 years?

01:04:28.000 Ten years?

01:04:29.000 Ten years to realize this wasn't the guy.

01:04:32.000 So my question is is like, yeah, I kind of have to start doing the the the wheels in your head now.

01:04:38.000 Is that if you've been practicing trying to figure it out on your own the last two, three, four, five, eight years, and it's not and it hasn't led to the outcome you're wanting today.

01:04:48.000 Perhaps just your thoughts, your thinking, and your feelings is not sufficient in order to screen the guy.

01:04:57.000 How do we know this?

01:04:59.000 Because ain't nobody here batting a hundred.

01:05:02.000 What do we mean?

01:05:05.000 No, no.

01:05:06.000 I mean in terms of guys.

01:05:07.000 Nobody's been with just one guy.

01:05:09.000 She's close.

01:05:10.000 That's capped up.

01:05:10.000 She's been with two.

01:05:11.000 If she's lying or not, we don't know.

01:05:13.000 I'm gonna leave it real.

01:05:15.000 But if all of you have been with three, four, five, six, seven, eight guys, and that's just the ones that you're telling us.

01:05:22.000 Facts.

01:05:23.000 Let alone the ones that you did the situationships with, or the one nice stands with, or the guys who you're entertaining, realize that the longer this goes, the more difficult it's gonna become.

01:05:36.000 So, although that may be a little a little rough to hear, it's actually because I'm we're actually coming from a place of genuine care.

01:05:43.000 We don't want y'all to be the 42-year-old talking about, well, I deserve you, don't deserve shit.

01:05:49.000 You had your run.

01:05:50.000 You had your on.

01:05:51.000 Your run was in your 20s, in your 30s.

01:05:55.000 You can't be 42 trying to compete compete with y'all.

01:05:58.000 Right.

01:05:59.000 You know what I'm saying?

01:06:00.000 That that's crazy work.

01:06:01.000 Because if if I'm a guy and I have to choose between the 42, she could look good, she could keep herself fit.

01:06:06.000 But if I gotta choose between her and y'all, it's a very easy choice.

01:06:11.000 If all things are equal, one's 42 and one's 22.

01:06:15.000 Who you think I'm going with?

01:06:16.000 Especially if I want to start a family.

01:06:18.000 The younger one.

01:06:19.000 Yeah.

01:06:19.000 All right.

01:06:19.000 There you go.

01:06:20.000 So if y'all at the age where we want those things, this is why you have to be a little bit more serious.

01:06:27.000 So you want to do some more uh super chats?

01:06:29.000 Yep, chats.

01:06:30.000 Uh we have uh chats pond up uh 20 plus.

01:06:32.000 So Mo, uh we the chats because I'm too late to read.

01:06:34.000 I got you.

01:06:35.000 My eyesight spine as the fuck, so um cat catch him a cholge. 1.00

01:06:43.000 I don't care.

01:06:44.000 You girls are retarded, very simple. 1.00

01:06:47.000 You girls are retarded. 1.00

01:06:49.000 You you want to marry a high value man, go to the gym, don't be a bitch, then exchange your virginity for a wedding ring. 1.00

01:06:58.000 You girls are single because you hoes don't deserve a good man. 1.00

01:07:01.000 Oh shit.

01:07:02.000 Oh damn.

01:07:03.000 Somebody came a little bit.

01:07:07.000 I mean, yeah, sure.

01:07:08.000 Let's find out.

01:07:09.000 So I've got this before, and I don't get offended because I'm very yeah, you do it because uh like you're mad right now, you're triggered.

01:07:15.000 Yeah, just saying I used to be a personal trainer, I'm a bikini model as well.

01:07:19.000 I have a very good physique.

01:07:20.000 No, you do.

01:07:21.000 Um I'm getting comments in the chat saying that I'm manly or I have a penis or something.

01:07:26.000 I absolutely do not.

01:07:27.000 I'm 100% woman.

01:07:29.000 You know what?

01:07:29.000 Uh I don't think she does.

01:07:30.000 Can you like set up and do a twirl?

01:07:32.000 Yeah, yeah, here.

01:07:32.000 Yeah.

01:07:33.000 Like, like the little toir.

01:07:33.000 Come on.

01:07:34.000 All right, there we go.

01:07:36.000 Yeah, sure, sure, sure, you can.

01:07:37.000 Alright, alright, all right, all right.

01:07:39.000 Let me do a flex.

01:07:40.000 Come on, do a flex.

01:07:41.000 Alright, go ahead.

01:07:42.000 Wait, right there.

01:07:42.000 There you go.

01:07:43.000 Clap, clap, clap.

01:07:43.000 Oh, okay.

01:07:45.000 Well, clap.

01:07:47.000 Sunshine.

01:07:48.000 See that yo.

01:07:49.000 I caught her a model, okay? 0.99

01:07:51.000 Cap.

01:07:51.000 Oh, she got biceps too.

01:07:53.000 Okay.

01:07:54.000 All right.

01:07:57.000 Go to the gym today.

01:07:58.000 Damn.

01:07:59.000 Oh shit.

01:08:00.000 Wait, wait.

01:08:00.000 So you have one tattoo right here?

01:08:02.000 I have like a bunch, actually.

01:08:03.000 They're all hidden though.

01:08:04.000 They're like low-key.

01:08:06.000 Can you show me afterwards?

01:08:07.000 This is love you were by J. Cole.

01:08:08.000 I'm joking.

01:08:09.000 I'm joking.

01:08:10.000 Yo.

01:08:10.000 Alright, go ahead.

01:08:11.000 So what?

01:08:11.000 No, no, no.

01:08:12.000 Next up.

01:08:13.000 That's the means of her, like the camera. 0.73

01:08:14.000 Like, go ahead.

01:08:15.000 So what?

01:08:16.000 The tattoo by J. Cole, love yours, because I really think about the song like loving your life and putting your life first and just valuing yourself.

01:08:24.000 Huh.

01:08:25.000 Alright.

01:08:27.000 Well, yeah, they are not complaining, apparently.

01:08:30.000 So I think they believe you.

01:08:31.000 Okay, yeah.

01:08:31.000 I just wanted to say I do not have a penis, okay?

01:08:35.000 I mean I'm getting, you know, you know.

01:08:37.000 What?

01:08:37.000 Well, uh oh, the boobs on the book.

01:08:39.000 Yeah, I'm getting my book.

01:08:40.000 Yeah, I know you're spawned.

01:08:41.000 But um But um gosh so fucked up, right?

01:08:43.000 Yeah.

01:08:44.000 What?

01:08:44.000 Like, yeah, like God's so fucked, right?

01:08:47.000 Yep.

01:08:48.000 Like, yeah, oh, this is more titties.

01:08:50.000 Yep.

01:08:52.000 You know, I love my pergy titties.

01:08:54.000 I am not gonna lie, I'm uh I'm definitely a little like selfish right now, getting rid of them, but they're gonna get some work.

01:09:00.000 Listen, in my opinion, like don't do it.

01:09:02.000 I'm sorry, but it's already deposited.

01:09:04.000 Oh, damn.

01:09:05.000 It's going down.

01:09:06.000 Here, here or abroad.

01:09:08.000 Why does every man say not to do it?

01:09:10.000 Like every man I have her hands.

01:09:15.000 All right, you know what?

01:09:15.000 Because um Like do they hate it or do they love it?

01:09:18.000 Alright, so if a guy has a girl, right? 0.85

01:09:21.000 And he's like, all right, you know what?

01:09:22.000 Like, it's my girl, right?

01:09:24.000 A guy don't want his girl being awkward about other guys.

01:09:27.000 Like, yo, yeah, she has a big titties. 1.00

01:09:29.000 She's she's like per and the thing is like a girl only gets uh a tit job like the majority of the time is because she wants attention from other guys. 1.00

01:09:37.000 Um this is what all men say. 0.95

01:09:38.000 Let me say this real quick.

01:09:39.000 Same posting every day.

01:09:42.000 They say we post for attention, we do everything for attention.

01:09:45.000 Do you want to be married?

01:09:46.000 But what if her many?

01:09:48.000 So listen to what I'm saying.

01:09:49.000 Shut the fuck up. 1.00

01:09:50.000 Okay?

01:09:51.000 Because you're not married, right?

01:09:52.000 If you're married, then yes.

01:09:56.000 So listen.

01:09:57.000 You're interrupting him.

01:09:59.000 Do not get a fucking tit job, whatever, a boob job. 1.00

01:10:02.000 Her husband wants her to get a boob job. 1.00

01:10:04.000 He's a cuck.

01:10:05.000 Why?

01:10:06.000 He should love being good.

01:10:07.000 Oh yeah, baby, yeah.

01:10:08.000 Being OnlyFans or be like, listen, that guy that wants to get a tit job, you don't want him.

01:10:15.000 No, I'm paying for it, and it's an insecurity.

01:10:17.000 No, no, no, no, no.

01:10:18.000 You don't want to, bro.

01:10:19.000 If if you I do.

01:10:22.000 Look, like well, I'll can I phrase it differently.

01:10:24.000 I look very younger without them.

01:10:26.000 Would do you think do you think that a guy do you think that you would feel differently about a man that was satisfied and want you for who you are today?

01:10:38.000 Versus versus a man that would prefer you to after the procedure.

01:10:42.000 A hundred percent, natural, but I feel like this is a self-thing.

01:10:45.000 It's for myself at the end of the day, and I'm very open and transparent about my life and cosmetic changes.

01:10:50.000 Yeah, yeah.

01:10:51.000 And you know, so we're carry on.

01:10:54.000 Yeah.

01:10:54.000 Nah, nah, personal respect.

01:10:56.000 Go ahead.

01:10:56.000 We have the fear in the...

01:10:58.000 The fear in the...

01:10:58.000 The fear is in.

01:11:02.000 Hey, hey, yeah, that's fine, man.

01:11:04.000 Yo, yo, uh, I carried this, man.

01:11:05.000 So yeah, yeah.

01:11:06.000 No, you didn't.

01:11:07.000 That's why I'm here, nigga.

01:11:08.000 All right, nigga, whatever. 0.99

01:11:08.000 God damn. 0.99

01:11:09.000 Fuck it, man.

01:11:10.000 Okay.

01:11:11.000 Um, I'm listening.

01:11:11.000 Go ahead.

01:11:12.000 Continue on what you guys are talking about.

01:11:13.000 I was listening into some of the discussion earlier, so cool.

01:11:16.000 Mari, nice to meet you all of you.

01:11:18.000 So, boob job. 1.00

01:11:19.000 We get it.

01:11:20.000 Um, I understand you say you're in the future.

01:11:22.000 These girls have wonderful boobs so far, besides just girl and a hoodie, I can just tell. 1.00

01:11:25.000 I'm jealous.

01:11:26.000 Who has a um dumb best boobs? 1.00

01:11:30.000 I think my bestie Sammy's got me natural.

01:11:34.000 Like, minus her though.

01:11:36.000 Um I can't see her as I got mommy.

01:11:40.000 I like it.

01:11:40.000 I need implants at the end of the day.

01:11:42.000 Right here or across from me.

01:11:44.000 Sorry, Jeff.

01:11:44.000 All right, go ahead.

01:11:45.000 Go ahead.

01:11:46.000 I don't know where you were going with that boo job. 1.00

01:11:48.000 The boob comparison part.

01:11:50.000 What?

01:11:51.000 They said which one's.

01:11:52.000 No, I know he answered.

01:11:53.000 I was confused at why he was.

01:11:55.000 I was just answering the question.

01:11:56.000 Understood.

01:11:57.000 I understood.

01:11:58.000 Alright, so um the other thing that I wanted to do was I know that you all had some potential questions.

01:12:03.000 Right?

01:12:04.000 Do y'all remember them?

01:12:06.000 I think they have.

01:12:09.000 All right, before we do that, let me just collect some information because I was going through trying to get all your guys' stuff.

01:12:14.000 Um we'll start with uh I'll go with this way and then work that way.

01:12:18.000 What's your name?

01:12:19.000 Real quick.

01:12:19.000 Summer.

01:12:20.000 Alright, how old are you, Summer?

01:12:23.000 Um, I'm 21.

01:12:24.000 Where are you from?

01:12:25.000 I'm from New Jersey.

01:12:27.000 From uh South Jersey.

01:12:29.000 Okay.

01:12:30.000 Do you live here in Miami or you just visiting?

01:12:32.000 Um no, I live about three hours north.

01:12:34.000 Mike.

01:12:34.000 Okay.

01:12:34.000 All right.

01:12:35.000 I live about three hours north.

01:12:36.000 Cool.

01:12:36.000 What do you do for work?

01:12:37.000 Um I'm a model and I also personal train, and um I'm also a pole dance instructor.

01:12:44.000 Oh, okay.

01:12:45.000 Like, like close.

01:12:46.000 So she knows, right?

01:12:48.000 Close.

01:12:49.000 She did not mention that ship like that.

01:12:50.000 I need to say that because people are sending videos of me on the poll in there from the pregame and they think I'm a stripper or something, but I'm not.

01:12:58.000 I do it for an exercise.

01:12:59.000 You train the strippers.

01:13:01.000 Yeah, you train.

01:13:01.000 Uh actually a lot of the girls just go in there for classes to do day classes.

01:13:05.000 Jeff.

01:13:06.000 Some of them do go in who strip for like strength. 0.62

01:13:08.000 Like an artist.

01:13:09.000 Strength endurance.

01:13:09.000 And then it's good training.

01:13:10.000 Uh did you go to college or no?

01:13:12.000 Um, yes.

01:13:13.000 I have my associates in health services.

01:13:15.000 Okay.

01:13:15.000 And then relationship status?

01:13:16.000 Um, I'm single.

01:13:18.000 Are your parents together?

01:13:18.000 All right.

01:13:19.000 Uh yes.

01:13:20.000 Okay.

01:13:21.000 They're back in Jersey?

01:13:22.000 Uh, yes.

01:13:23.000 And then birth control for you or no?

01:13:23.000 All right.

01:13:24.000 Uh no.

01:13:25.000 And then you're white? 0.69

01:13:26.000 Uh I'm East European, but yes, white. 0.59

01:13:28.000 What country?

01:13:29.000 Uh Ukrainian. 0.99

01:13:31.000 Oh, okay.

01:13:32.000 All right.

01:13:33.000 Are you were you born there or you or you lived here your whole life?

01:13:36.000 No, I've lived in New Jersey my whole life.

01:13:38.000 Do you speak Ukrainian or Russian or no?

01:13:38.000 Okay.

01:13:40.000 Okay.

01:13:40.000 No.

01:13:41.000 What about you?

01:13:41.000 Real quick.

01:13:42.000 Um, I'm Jasmine.

01:13:42.000 What's your name?

01:13:43.000 All right, Jasmine.

01:13:44.000 How old are you?

01:13:45.000 Twenty-two.

01:13:45.000 Where are you from?

01:13:46.000 Um I'm Haitian, but I'm from Broward.

01:13:49.000 Okay.

01:13:51.000 What do you do for work?

01:13:52.000 I'm a nail tech slash aerosolist, and I'll model. 0.71

01:13:55.000 Okay.

01:13:56.000 And then highest education level?

01:13:58.000 G E D. Alright. 0.99

01:14:00.000 Uh relationship status?

01:14:02.000 Alright.

01:14:02.000 Single.

01:14:04.000 And are your parents together or no?

01:14:07.000 No.

01:14:08.000 Uh book control for you or no?

01:14:10.000 Okay.

01:14:10.000 And then I think I got most of the other girls' stuff.

01:14:10.000 No.

01:14:13.000 I watched back the show.

01:14:14.000 Yeah.

01:14:14.000 Yeah, so we didn't go through the whole thing again.

01:14:16.000 Alright, cool.

01:14:17.000 Um, all right, cool.

01:14:17.000 So do we have the questions for the girls?

01:14:19.000 For the Chris, they're behind you.

01:14:22.000 Chats. 0.99

01:14:22.000 Oh, no, sorry, sorry. 0.99

01:14:23.000 We gotta do that.

01:14:23.000 Oh, you gotta do chats?

01:14:24.000 Yeah, yeah.

01:14:25.000 Yeah, it's all up.

01:14:25.000 Oh, okay.

01:14:26.000 Frank, cool.

01:14:27.000 No, we're not restarting a show, chat.

01:14:28.000 I uh went back and got some of the stuff.

01:14:30.000 Uh we got ghetto Jafar on the panel. 1.00

01:14:30.000 All right. 1.00

01:14:33.000 She comes out when you rub three uh backwards three times. 0.95

01:14:36.000 Three wishes my nigga.

01:14:38.000 Three the wishes.

01:14:39.000 What?

01:14:39.000 What is it?

01:14:41.000 What is it?

01:14:43.000 Okay.

01:14:45.000 With you, I noticed that you don't want to disclose how long you've been in a relationship with your guy.

01:14:49.000 Um that's a little strange.

01:14:51.000 Uh why well, normally anytime I've seen girls like in a very happy relationship, they're very, you know, happy to disclose that.

01:14:57.000 Oh, we've been together for five years, been together for ten years.

01:15:00.000 So it's either one of two things.

01:15:01.000 Either A, you guys are at a crossroads where you're deciding if you still want to be with them.

01:15:05.000 B, it's been too damn long and he hasn't proposed.

01:15:07.000 No has to be.

01:15:07.000 Or C, um, something else that we're not aware of.

01:15:11.000 Like, like it's my business.

01:15:13.000 Like she's a friend of chicken.

01:15:15.000 It's uh one of those then.

01:15:16.000 Okay.

01:15:19.000 Fantastic.

01:15:19.000 Yeah.

01:15:20.000 Because girls love to the thing I've noticed with women is if they're in a relationship and they're super happy about it, they want to make sure everybody fucking knows. 1.00

01:15:26.000 Um when girls don't want to disclose the length of their relationship, something's off typically. 0.72

01:15:29.000 But that's fine.

01:15:30.000 Is it possible?

01:15:31.000 No.

01:15:32.000 So like family.

01:15:34.000 Important people.

01:15:36.000 Okay.

01:15:36.000 I mean, all right, so niggas about you niggas.

01:15:39.000 Yeah, that works on everybody else.

01:15:40.000 But after you've talked to almost 4,000 girls like we have, that that just doesn't fly.

01:15:44.000 We know what it is.

01:15:44.000 It's fine.

01:15:45.000 It is.

01:15:46.000 Uh hey Sunshine, you said you are godly.

01:15:49.000 You just said you can have kids without men. 1.00

01:15:53.000 Necessarily against your conservatism.

01:15:54.000 So I'm being a lying, oh, who's he talking about?

01:15:56.000 Um that that's me.

01:15:57.000 I'm not saying that personally, I would never have kids just by myself.

01:16:01.000 I'm just saying that people have the rights to do that.

01:16:04.000 I'm, you know, but I'm not for that.

01:16:06.000 I at the end of the day, that doesn't follow the religion, but I didn't know if this is like you can talk about religion or not.

01:16:12.000 Yeah, you can.

01:16:12.000 Yeah, yeah, well, right, yeah, we're sure.

01:16:14.000 So but yeah, you Christian Catholic?

01:16:16.000 I'm Christian.

01:16:16.000 Um, but I go to a non-dominant church just strictly just strictly about God, you know.

01:16:22.000 But I choose non-dominancy because they don't get off track and they don't get like subsided into certain like bad categories.

01:16:27.000 Okay.

01:16:27.000 But yeah, church every Sunday.

01:16:29.000 Did you uh Are you familiar with Charlie Kirk?

01:16:31.000 Yes.

01:16:32.000 Okay.

01:16:32.000 Yeah.

01:16:33.000 No, obviously uh craziness went down with their I'm not political at all.

01:16:37.000 I have no political opinion.

01:16:38.000 I'm not even registered to vote or nothing.

01:16:39.000 I know nothing about really what's going on with the policy.

01:16:42.000 Oh, so just strictly like when it comes to conservatism, religious, not politically.

01:16:46.000 No.

01:16:46.000 Okay.

01:16:47.000 No.

01:16:48.000 Fair enough, I don't think women should vote anyway. 1.00

01:16:50.000 Um that's fine.

01:16:52.000 Uh ladies, the 19th Amendment is misogynistic. 1.00

01:16:54.000 Should we take it away?

01:16:56.000 Okay.

01:16:56.000 You do any of you guys know what the 19th Amendment is?

01:17:00.000 No.

01:17:00.000 That's why you guys shouldn't have it.

01:17:03.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:17:03.000 It's the right to vote.

01:17:04.000 Okay.

01:17:04.000 Damn.

01:17:05.000 All right.

01:17:05.000 That's crazy.

01:17:06.000 For the uh mud trucks on a panel.

01:17:07.000 This is your future.

01:17:08.000 Make sure you pull out.

01:17:09.000 Oh, damn.

01:17:09.000 All right.

01:17:10.000 Who here likes black guys? 1.00

01:17:12.000 One, two, three, four, five, six.

01:17:15.000 No, you two.

01:17:16.000 I don't have a preference.

01:17:18.000 I just are you.

01:17:19.000 It's okay.

01:17:20.000 We don't like black guys at home. 1.00

01:17:20.000 No? 1.00

01:17:22.000 Okay.

01:17:23.000 Wild.

01:17:23.000 We.

01:17:24.000 All right.

01:17:25.000 What else do we got here?

01:17:26.000 Um.

01:17:28.000 Yeah, this guy.

01:17:29.000 Pull up Sunshine's Insta.

01:17:29.000 Okay.

01:17:31.000 Guarantee she's a hoe. 1.00

01:17:32.000 Pull up my Instagram right now.

01:17:33.000 Pull up my Instagram right now.

01:17:35.000 Cool.

01:17:36.000 Me?

01:17:38.000 Alright.

01:17:38.000 Cash says, uh, for the multiple obese girls on the panel, let me guess.

01:17:41.000 Thyroid. 0.90

01:17:43.000 Alright, so um, an insane insult.

01:17:48.000 Was that you, Chris?

01:17:50.000 So who's beast on a panel?

01:17:52.000 Um, so who's fat?

01:17:53.000 I mean, I'm pretty fat.

01:17:55.000 Uh chubby, you know.

01:17:56.000 Who else?

01:17:57.000 I'm pretty chubby.

01:17:58.000 Yeah, all right.

01:17:59.000 You know, come on.

01:17:59.000 Who else?

01:18:00.000 I don't capture all right.

01:18:02.000 You who else?

01:18:03.000 I'm on the dick chat.

01:18:04.000 I'm chubby.

01:18:04.000 All right, cool.

01:18:05.000 So, like, what's the problem?

01:18:08.000 What do you mean?

01:18:09.000 So I'm sorry.

01:18:10.000 I was 200 pounds, but then I I lost 50 pounds.

01:18:13.000 So I'm still on my weight loss.

01:18:15.000 And then you?

01:18:15.000 All right, cool.

01:18:16.000 Good food.

01:18:17.000 Good food.

01:18:18.000 And you?

01:18:18.000 Same at my food.

01:18:20.000 British food sucks.

01:18:21.000 I don't know what y'all talking about, bad.

01:18:23.000 English food sucks.

01:18:24.000 English food does suck.

01:18:25.000 It does suck.

01:18:26.000 There's a reason why you guys have to travel the world looking for spices, babe.

01:18:30.000 No, you're right with that.

01:18:31.000 Oh, man.

01:18:33.000 Yeah, bro.

01:18:34.000 Shit terrible.

01:18:36.000 Uh, unlike those legends, uh, this new boy don't go out the sauce R.I.P. Kevin Samuels.

01:18:41.000 Okay.

01:18:42.000 What else do we got here?

01:18:43.000 Uh oh.

01:18:44.000 They're making fun of her with uh with the full dancing. 0.98

01:18:47.000 Oh, she's an expert.

01:18:48.000 Oh, okay, okay.

01:18:50.000 Damn.

01:18:50.000 But you on the ground, your knees.

01:18:52.000 Okay.

01:18:52.000 All right, just like.

01:18:57.000 No, no, no, it's fine, bro.

01:18:58.000 But like, don't like don't get a boobs or something. 0.74

01:19:00.000 I didn't actually know that I was playing a live.

01:19:03.000 Like, don't cut me up when I'm talking, okay?

01:19:05.000 So if if if you want to be married, right?

01:19:07.000 Don't cut me up on talking, okay?

01:19:09.000 Ready?

01:19:10.000 Alright, go ahead.

01:19:11.000 Go ahead.

01:19:13.000 Wait, did you want to say something?

01:19:14.000 But like yo, your ass is nice, though. 1.00

01:19:14.000 No, no, no. 1.00

01:19:17.000 It is telling you right now.

01:19:21.000 He ain't lying.

01:19:22.000 The right guy would marry you, right?

01:19:23.000 If you don't get a boop job.

01:19:24.000 I so listen, I've been trying to look for the right guy, and they uh every single issue is either they're crazy.

01:19:31.000 They're crazy what?

01:19:32.000 Or like they put your hands on domestically violent.

01:19:35.000 Stop being niggas, right? 1.00

01:19:36.000 Hold on.

01:19:37.000 And then the other one is they say I'm too masculine and I'm very powerful to that for them.

01:19:41.000 Too powerful.

01:19:42.000 Stop.

01:19:42.000 Don't talk over guys, and don't be like, eh, all right, relax, all right.

01:19:46.000 Well, I'll just be honest and no other podcasts admit this.

01:19:49.000 Normally if a guy hits you, you've done some shit.

01:19:52.000 Most guys don't wake up and say I'm gonna punch chicks. 0.98

01:19:54.000 Like it's very frowned upon.

01:19:55.000 There's a lot of social stigmas against it.

01:19:58.000 So most guys don't do it.

01:19:59.000 I'm not saying women deserve. 1.00

01:20:01.000 Oh.

01:20:01.000 Mama.

01:20:04.000 Have you have you put your hands on a man?

01:20:04.000 Question for you.

01:20:07.000 Never.

01:20:08.000 I would never put my hand on a man or a woman.

01:20:10.000 Have you thrown anything at a man?

01:20:12.000 No, never.

01:20:12.000 Stab the nigga.

01:20:14.000 No.

01:20:15.000 I would never hurt anyone.

01:20:16.000 Listen, I'm not saying that I I presuppose it.

01:20:19.000 I'm just wondering, like Myron said, some usually just more than that enough.

01:20:24.000 Yeah, usually just more like, did he just wake up on a Tuesday and they just put their hands on you?

01:20:24.000 Yeah.

01:20:28.000 They're just aggressive.

01:20:29.000 Oh, you know what?

01:20:30.000 You like aggressive guys.

01:20:32.000 Huh.

01:20:33.000 Alright, you know what?

01:20:34.000 Interesting.

01:20:34.000 What's wrong with you?

01:20:36.000 Well, also keep in mind too.

01:20:37.000 Girls like her typically date guys that are on gear.

01:20:39.000 They tend to have, you know, less patience, get angry, etc.

01:20:42.000 The thing is this, right?

01:20:43.000 Fitness girls don't date guys that don't go to the gym. 0.86

01:20:46.000 So in order for you to go to the gym and have physique and keep her in check, a lot of these guys, you know, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

01:20:51.000 She sh she has a uh belly pressing. 1.00

01:20:54.000 Chris, what the fuck?

01:20:55.000 Okay, look, let me continue on what I'm saying.

01:20:56.000 No, no, but it's obvious.

01:20:58.000 Bro, you totally just divert me for no reason.

01:21:00.000 So the point I'm trying to make is is that um what I've seen normally with girls that are fit that go to the gym, they get out with guys that are hyper high testosterone that are on drugs or on gear, these guys tend to have less emotional control, tend to be violent, but at the same time, you probably antagonize too.

01:21:16.000 Because a lot of times when I see girls get hit, they antagonize a good portion of the time. 1.00

01:21:20.000 Not every time, but they do antagonize a good part.

01:21:21.000 And no one talks about this because you know women are above reproach, we can't criticize your bad behavior. 1.00

01:21:25.000 But women absolutely antagonize bad uh violence for men a lot. 1.00

01:21:29.000 And I'm saying that's you every time, but I see you nodding along.

01:21:32.000 So and in terms of like domestic violence, the rates are actually pretty comparable between men and women.

01:21:37.000 Um and because men are usually the ones that go on unreporting it or underreporting it, I wouldn't be shocked that ladies are usually doing far more than it than actually meets the eye. 0.68

01:21:46.000 Um I don't know if you've seen this study, but like when it's one when it's uh one direction, it's typically woman to man.

01:21:52.000 Um almost always when one party's beating on the other, it's or never just the guy beating on the chick.

01:21:52.000 Almost always.

01:21:56.000 That rarely happens.

01:21:57.000 He's gonna go to jail some point, right?

01:21:58.000 But for the for when it's one direction, it's the woman to the man, but overwhelmingly, domestic violence, it's uh b uh bi-directional. 0.92

01:22:05.000 They're beating each other up.

01:22:07.000 Right?

01:22:07.000 Not saying I'm not condoning it, but I am saying that I think it's important that we analyze domestic violence is never one way, and if it is, it's typically female to male, because the guys are gonna report it.

01:22:15.000 Right?

01:22:16.000 Doesn't want to look like a bitch or whatever. 1.00

01:22:17.000 So Sunshine, please stop throwing plates. 0.98

01:22:19.000 If you I wouldn't have no, no, but no, no, no.

01:22:19.000 Yeah.

01:22:23.000 She's uh Loki um on the cover, so but yeah, also I can already tell it's from the type of men that she's picking too.

01:22:30.000 She's gonna wanna wanna uh she's going to want to fitter. 1.00

01:22:32.000 What these guys tend to be on drugs, and then you know, when they're on drugs, you know, niggas on T on some bullshit. 1.00

01:22:39.000 So yeah.

01:22:39.000 Yeah.

01:22:40.000 Yeah, that's what I'm just gonna girls that go to the gym, bro. 0.98

01:22:45.000 Like, they don't they don't they don't date guys that don't go to the gym.

01:22:47.000 Wait, wait, yo, yo, uh Bill's as uh that on stream or no?

01:22:50.000 No, no, bro.

01:22:51.000 Fuck man.

01:22:52.000 No, no, no, no, no, yo, he's mad yo.

01:22:56.000 Fucking cut's club, man.

01:22:57.000 Uh all right, what else we got?

01:22:58.000 Uh Slate's birth control, also chick next to Chris, you look familiar.

01:23:02.000 Oh.

01:23:02.000 Well, Chris, uh fresh air here, man.

01:23:04.000 He dies somewhere.

01:23:05.000 Um, he's very sick, guys.

01:23:06.000 Uh well lessons, uh, if shit too.

01:23:10.000 Well, listen, do you hope the next generation of boys and girls won't have to unlearn.

01:23:15.000 Okay.

01:23:16.000 Um Jeff?

01:23:18.000 Won't have to unlearn.

01:23:20.000 I mean.

01:23:21.000 What lessons do you hope the next generation of boys and girls won't have to?

01:23:24.000 Oh, okay.

01:23:25.000 Um, well, for one, my hope, and even when our discussion that we had earlier um during this podcast, my hope is A, that women don't believe that they have to go through a million experiments to find the guy that they want.

01:23:36.000 That they could be open to not assuming and trusting just their own emotions and feelings is gonna get them there.

01:23:41.000 That maybe the leadership of actually your male cousins, brothers, uncles, fathers, grandfathers, or even older male mentors, they may be able to see things that you don't because they don't have your feelings when analyzing the guy.

01:23:56.000 Uh for men, my hope is actually that they don't all have to go through divorces to realize and be able to judge women better.

01:24:03.000 A lot of times men typically get really, really good at screening out women after they go through really bad heartbreaks.

01:24:09.000 Um the problem is not all men make it out on the other side of that.

01:24:12.000 Many of them end up getting depressed, they end up deleting themselves, they end up losing so much, and many of them aren't able to recover.

01:24:20.000 So my hope is that a lot of guys don't get to that point, and that a lot of y'all don't have to sleep with too many guys that get too traumatized to get to the end goal of actually being able to get into a successful relationship.

01:24:29.000 I think that's crazy.

01:24:31.000 Because I just feel like it's uh it's a cycle that that can and does happen where men like you said, they go for younger women.

01:24:46.000 Um they'll get hurt at a young age, and then they be they delete themselves, they become someone completely different because they got hurt and now whenever they go towards younger women, sometimes they don't realize that they have learned behaviors from being hurt, and then they attack it on to the woman.

01:25:11.000 So it's just like Yeah, we become savages.

01:25:14.000 Yeah.

01:25:15.000 We we we uh you know the women start doing the thing where they think like, okay, well now I'm gonna do the same thing. 1.00

01:25:21.000 Yeah, we we become all savages.

01:25:24.000 Y'all don't learn, and then y'all keep going for the bad boys until you age out.

01:25:28.000 So it it is a vicious cycle.

01:25:31.000 And unfortunately, I'm realizing um both as a clinician and just watching the stuff on social media, that like um if you don't kind of slow down and really realize and get help, and be self aware.

01:25:41.000 You're gonna end up being a part of the cycle where you're gonna be jaded and hating men, or you're gonna be saying, uh all men ain't this, all men is shit.

01:25:49.000 When in reality is you're not single by choice.

01:25:52.000 You're single because of your choices.

01:25:54.000 Correct.

01:25:55.000 That's the truth.

01:25:55.000 That's the reality of it.

01:25:57.000 So my hope in terms of the future generation is that we kind of learn a lot sooner from other people's mistakes than having to feel like we gotta keep doing it on our own.

01:26:05.000 You know, um I think that's some pretty wishful thing.

01:26:09.000 I think it's gonna get worse.

01:26:10.000 It probably way worse.

01:26:11.000 Um, you know, uh the reality is that most men can't even make it to get married nowadays or get a girlfriend.

01:26:17.000 A lot of guys just unfortunately are just not attractive to majority of women.

01:26:21.000 Yeah.

01:26:21.000 I think we're gonna see more single people.

01:26:24.000 It's already going up now, but I think we're gonna see more single people than ever before.

01:26:28.000 And the problem is that the women don't have a problem with finding a guy. 1.00

01:26:32.000 It's that their standards are too damn high, right?

01:26:34.000 Um you were talking about this earlier with income, and you're explaining to them how you know the higher your standards go on the more money you make, and the more money you want your partner to make, the less men qualify.

01:26:44.000 But the problem with that is, you know, as you get into this up echelon of men, like you're asking him before, what does that guy want back in return?

01:26:50.000 Yeah.

01:26:51.000 Ladies, do you know what that guy wants back in return? 1.00

01:26:53.000 I don't think anyone really answered.

01:26:54.000 I was listening.

01:26:54.000 No one gave what who wants in return.

01:26:56.000 That higher earner, what does he but want back in return?

01:26:59.000 Just respect to be pleased.

01:27:03.000 Alright, let's go through well uh what do you think is the most important thing they want back in return?

01:27:07.000 We'll go here and then work our way around.

01:27:08.000 Someone who listens and is easy to deal with.

01:27:11.000 Alright, what about you?

01:27:14.000 Okay, what about you?

01:27:17.000 Loyal, someone that listens to him, younger hotter.

01:27:21.000 Alright, what about you?

01:27:22.000 He wants his investment back in return.

01:27:26.000 Okay.

01:27:26.000 What about you?

01:27:27.000 I just feel like being a woman, being from your most feminine, some submissive to your man and respect.

01:27:35.000 Alright.

01:27:35.000 Goes a long way.

01:27:36.000 What do you think?

01:27:37.000 I think peace.

01:27:38.000 A man uh a woman needs to bring peace and value into the man's life. 1.00

01:27:43.000 Okay.

01:27:44.000 So if you guys what do any of you guys have one of these guys?

01:27:48.000 No.

01:27:48.000 You do?

01:27:49.000 She's she says she does.

01:27:51.000 Cool.

01:27:52.000 A peaceful man?

01:27:53.000 Well, well, no, but like uh like our higher earner, one of these like top one percent.

01:27:56.000 Yeah, my man, Mitch underscore the one exotics.

01:27:59.000 He works at Rolls Royce, Miami right now.

01:28:01.000 Okay.

01:28:01.000 So you can get a car from him.

01:28:02.000 Um, he's awesome.

01:28:04.000 Um you caught him with another woman, what would you do?

01:28:07.000 Nothing.

01:28:08.000 Why?

01:28:08.000 You stay?

01:28:09.000 Hell yeah.

01:28:10.000 He I I set him up with females, he do his thing. 0.96

01:28:12.000 Like, me and him have an understanding.

01:28:14.000 Okay.

01:28:15.000 And it's closed on your and open on his?

01:28:17.000 Closed on my yes.

01:28:18.000 But it's not open on his either.

01:28:18.000 Okay.

01:28:20.000 All right.

01:28:21.000 What?

01:28:22.000 Uh that means you're saying two different things.

01:28:24.000 Meaning like he does car sales, so he needs to be around women. 0.97

01:28:24.000 Yeah. 0.97

01:28:27.000 He w I met him when he was a general manager of a strip club.

01:28:30.000 So we were already dating.

01:28:31.000 He like there's an understanding.

01:28:33.000 Okay, so is it if he fucked another chick, you'd be pissed off then?

01:28:37.000 Because it's not open.

01:28:38.000 I would be upset at him.

01:28:40.000 Okay.

01:28:40.000 But I'm not gonna leave him.

01:28:41.000 But you wouldn't leave.

01:28:42.000 Okay.

01:28:43.000 Fair.

01:28:43.000 Um what about the and and you guys the rest of you said that you don't have one of these guys right now, right?

01:28:48.000 Okay.

01:28:50.000 Now, would you guys be willing to like change who you are to get this guy right now?

01:28:55.000 I'm not changing who I am.

01:28:57.000 I am already the package that I'm gonna be.

01:28:59.000 Fair.

01:29:00.000 Anyone else agree with that sentiment?

01:29:02.000 Um I'd be willing to change for like the right man.

01:29:05.000 Okay, all right.

01:29:06.000 Yo, yo, uh W. Let me ask you guys let me we'll kinda go through this.

01:29:11.000 Are you willing to give up your girlfriends, not go out?

01:29:13.000 No more girl strips, no more entertaining or talking to men, deactivating your Instagram, not dressing provocatively unless you're around him.

01:29:19.000 Would you be willing to give up these things?

01:29:21.000 Being isolated?

01:29:22.000 Yes, basically, yeah, to a degree.

01:29:23.000 If those are the things he values in the relationship, yeah.

01:29:25.000 I would.

01:29:26.000 You would I know you wouldn't.

01:29:27.000 Or you wouldn't.

01:29:27.000 What about you?

01:29:28.000 I would if I was having not fun with him then.

01:29:30.000 Do you know?

01:29:31.000 I mean, if I'm not gonna do it.

01:29:32.000 Okay, so you would need to get your party fixed through him.

01:29:34.000 Well, yeah, if I'm having a good time with him.

01:29:36.000 What if he doesn't drink, go out?

01:29:38.000 Go out right.

01:29:39.000 I'd be doing I'm not one about clubs, but still going out doing nice stuff, going to the beach.

01:29:43.000 No, no, no, no, no.

01:29:44.000 Alright, so she's still all right.

01:29:44.000 Okay.

01:29:45.000 So you want some semblance of being a girl.

01:29:47.000 Okay, what about you?

01:29:48.000 I would I think.

01:29:50.000 Okay, you would okay, and then I don't know, and then you're in the I asked her if she would change her behaviors. 1.00

01:29:57.000 She said, but she says I would I think.

01:29:59.000 Alright, cool.

01:30:00.000 Dick.

01:30:01.000 You should.

01:30:04.000 All right, what about you?

01:30:05.000 Well, well, you got you said I was gonna say that there's always something that you can do better.

01:30:10.000 As in bettering yourself to build with someone.

01:30:16.000 So as long as it's not something that's demoralizing, tearing me down, tearing the other person down.

01:30:26.000 So you know what's interesting, right?

01:30:27.000 From the time we're little boys, we're taught go to school, make money, be a provider, because at some point you're gonna want to have a family, you're gonna want to have a woman rely on you, right? 0.96

01:30:36.000 We kind of kinda are conditioned from this.

01:30:38.000 Right?

01:30:39.000 Be a gentleman, be a nice guy.

01:30:40.000 You know what I've realized?

01:30:41.000 Little girls are never taught how to treat a man. 1.00

01:30:44.000 Like from it from an age.

01:30:45.000 Like they're never taught this is how you treat a boy, this is what you want to do when you get older.

01:30:50.000 What you know, never Hispanic as well.

01:30:52.000 Um day one.

01:30:54.000 Yeah, but we're talking about Western culture.

01:30:55.000 Oh Western Western host.

01:30:58.000 Oh, yeah, but yeah, but then but then they also that comes with that that but that also comes with the caveat of like you can be a raging bitch too, an attitude, and that's unacceptable. 0.99

01:31:08.000 That's true, to be fair.

01:31:10.000 So yeah, it's it's more about like being able to do it, but like you notice how like with young young boys, little boys, like we're taught to behave a certain way towards women pretty much all the time.

01:31:19.000 But with women, you guys are not taught how to treat men at all. 0.93

01:31:22.000 Some men are taught just like some women are taught.

01:31:26.000 Some boys, little boys are taught the right way.

01:31:32.000 And then she thinks for the other thing.

01:31:33.000 What I'm trying to explain is that a majority of boys are taught how to treat women, but a majority of women are definitely not taught how to treat boys.

01:31:41.000 Is that an actual statistic?

01:31:43.000 Well, unfortunately, we can't we can't go ahead and make that into statistic, but what we can say is we can look at the you know, destruction of the family unit and the destruction of relationships, and we can pretty much figure out that feminism has created this air where a majority of women simply don't respect the majority of men. 0.98

01:31:57.000 And this is shown in relationships, high divorce rates, women's dissatisfaction with males in general.

01:32:01.000 Like, I mean, we have a plethora of other data to show that women in general s in the West, where feminism is strong, simply don't respect male authority. 0.83

01:32:09.000 We don't.

01:32:10.000 Okay.

01:32:10.000 And I mean it was shown just a second ago.

01:32:12.000 What did I say?

01:32:12.000 If you found this guy, which is top tier guy, would you change?

01:32:15.000 I didn't hear now.

01:32:16.000 One emphatic yes except for her.

01:32:17.000 The rest of you kind of thought about it.

01:32:18.000 No, I said But if I had this conversation seven years ago and I said, Would you change for that man?

01:32:22.000 All of you would say, Yes, I would.

01:32:24.000 Yes, I want to be married.

01:32:25.000 See the difference?

01:32:26.000 In fact, I would even add to that they wouldn't have had to change.

01:32:30.000 They would have already been trained and taught and shown how to move in that direction, often by their like you said, their their mothers or some matriarch in the family. 0.98

01:32:40.000 They there's not this changing that they would have had to do.

01:32:43.000 All these behaviors that they gotta get rid of.

01:32:45.000 They would have already been kind of walking as a future wife. 0.99

01:32:48.000 Right.

01:32:48.000 So that's where things are so skewed and so off nowadays, it's because he's literally telling the truth.

01:32:56.000 What used to happen naturally in terms of training and teaching ladies, that now we call that finishing school. 1.00

01:33:03.000 Right.

01:33:03.000 Where now we have classes that people have to take to be taught how to fold napkins, how to do this, how to do that.

01:33:09.000 That was just that was like a normal thing in in household, and now it's foreign. 1.00

01:33:15.000 So the reality is, you know, Myron is unfortunately telling the truth, and what you're saying, well, the guys do it too.

01:33:21.000 Um, yeah, but of the things that you all are expecting from us, most men do know how to do it.

01:33:27.000 I'll put it this way every man is expected to be a gentleman.

01:33:30.000 Yeah, women are not expected to be ladies. 1.00

01:33:32.000 Right.

01:33:33.000 I'm expected to hold the door for you.

01:33:35.000 You're not expected to say thank you.

01:33:37.000 I'm expected to be polite and be nice at all times.

01:33:40.000 Ladies first, right, pay the bill, etc. 1.00

01:33:42.000 These norms are still very strong on the male side, but you're not necessarily expected to respect me or my authority or what I think or you know, defer to my uh to my authority or my leadership.

01:33:52.000 Women are not taught that if anything, I would argue it's the other way around. 1.00

01:33:55.000 Women are taught you're independent, be strong, don't listen to a man and you don't need a man. 1.00

01:33:59.000 Queen.

01:34:00.000 So in other words, my roles are static.

01:34:00.000 Right?

01:34:03.000 I always have to be a man.

01:34:04.000 Your roles are negotiable.

01:34:06.000 You can pick and choose when you want to be a lady. 1.00

01:34:07.000 That's a problem.

01:34:09.000 Because I look at it like why the fuck am I gonna sit here, make money, acquire status, acquire resources, and then deal with a chick that doesn't want to do her job when I have to do my job all the fucking time.

01:34:18.000 That's not a fair deal for me, right?

01:34:19.000 But if you're doing your jobs, what the fuck, man?

01:34:26.000 Uh that's fine.

01:34:27.000 Go ahead.

01:34:28.000 What are you gonna say?

01:34:28.000 I was gonna do that.

01:34:30.000 If you're doing your job as a man, then it shouldn't be hard to find a woman that wants to do her the job for you.

01:34:38.000 Here in this country?

01:34:43.000 She's basically saying like you you know, if you're If you got your shit together, it should be easy to find this woman, which I see her perspective.

01:34:48.000 Yeah.

01:34:48.000 But the point I'm trying to make is is that you need to become a top one percent man, get fifty percentile results.

01:34:54.000 Does that make sense?

01:34:55.000 Like this should be like the basics.

01:34:58.000 I guess it's because I think differently.

01:34:59.000 I don't know.

01:35:01.000 I just I just feel like as long as you show consistency in what you want to be, so what you say is what you do, regardless of if you're starting here or you're in the middle or you're already up here.

01:35:16.000 Like as long as you're consistent and what you say is what you do, then you should be able to So be a man of my word.

01:35:26.000 Yeah.

01:35:26.000 Right?

01:35:27.000 Do what's do the right uh do the right thing.

01:35:30.000 Correct.

01:35:30.000 Okay, well, how's that fair when women are taught do what's right for you?

01:35:33.000 If I'm supposed to do what's right, but you do what's right for you, who's gonna take an L every single time?

01:35:39.000 I mean, he said that that women should Okay, let me answer it for you. 0.96

01:35:44.000 I'm gonna take the L every single time.

01:35:46.000 Because I'm doing what's right because I'm held to this high standard, you're doing what's right for you because society tells you you should always be happy.

01:35:51.000 This is why the marriage rates are plummeted.

01:35:53.000 What is that?

01:35:54.000 What is happiness?

01:35:55.000 That's the problem.

01:35:56.000 No one can define it because women always change it. 1.00

01:35:58.000 And it's unachievable for you guys.

01:36:00.000 That's well I'll just let you know.

01:36:03.000 Well, from a free that women are perpetually unhappy. 1.00

01:36:06.000 Well, I was gonna say, add adding to this from the mental health perspective, one of the biggest challenges that I'm realizing in therapy sessions is ladies are going to therapy, talking to therapists, counselors, about their issues and ills of the relationship that they're in, and they're walking out being told the most important thing is your happiness. 0.73

01:36:25.000 So when you have people who are giving oaths, who are making promises on their wedding day, and then you know, life happens, things change, feelings change, he's still thinking through the lens of I'm not going anywhere.

01:36:42.000 Things are hard, things suck, I'm not getting sex as much as we used to get.

01:36:46.000 She may put on some pounds.

01:36:48.000 Yeah, fat.

01:36:49.000 Yeah, like whatever it is, the his initial impulse isn't to leave.

01:36:56.000 Oftentimes ladies are being indoctrinated in the therapy session that they can and should. 1.00

01:37:03.000 So there is this element of I'm sorry, do you give that advice?

01:37:09.000 Do I do what?

01:37:10.000 Do you give that advice to leave?

01:37:12.000 Rarely.

01:37:13.000 Okay.

01:37:13.000 Rarely.

01:37:14.000 But the instances that I do, it's it's it's usually abuse.

01:37:17.000 Right.

01:37:18.000 Um, uh chronic cheating, where there wasn't an agreement at some point in time between both parties, because you gotta remember at even as guys, they're like, Oh, you just letting guys get away with it.

01:37:28.000 You gotta realize you're putting her at risk.

01:37:30.000 Go ahead.

01:37:30.000 You're putting her health at risk.

01:37:32.000 You're you know, you're putting your finances at risk by doing all of this stuff.

01:37:35.000 You you really want to get in the habit as a guy of trying to establish with ladies what's the agreement. 0.61

01:37:41.000 But you also gotta remember that therapy is a female dominated field, so like psychology and psychiatry, etc. 0.83

01:37:47.000 And with women coming in and dominating this field, they're giving advice that is more towards the woman's happiness. 0.79

01:37:55.000 Right?

01:37:55.000 We don't tell again, we don't tell women do the right thing, we tell them do what's right for you, which a lot of times is to leave, because it's like, oh, I can find something better.

01:38:02.000 Right?

01:38:03.000 We we um you know, the whole, you know, women will destroy where you water it. 1.00

01:38:07.000 I'll put it simple.

01:38:08.000 Uh uh you say what the grass greener where you water it?

01:38:10.000 Yeah.

01:38:10.000 Yeah, but most of you bitches don't have enough water is a problem.

01:38:14.000 There's another girl said the same exact thing.

01:38:16.000 Oh, the grass is greener where you water.

01:38:19.000 It's it's it's hilarious because the problem is that you guys think that your water is filtered and fantastic and you got a lot of it.

01:38:25.000 The problem is that you don't.

01:38:26.000 And a lot of times you guys can't afford the wand that you're trying to water.

01:38:29.000 If we're gonna be honest, you can't.

01:38:30.000 You guys want to go ahead and get to have the palatial grass and it's all great and all this other stuff.

01:38:35.000 You don't qualify for the men that you think that you have the value to water the grass of.

01:38:40.000 And when you leave matters too, you don't have enough water.

01:38:43.000 But when you leave matters as well.

01:38:45.000 And that's the other thing.

01:38:46.000 Y'all are waiting until after two kids.

01:38:49.000 After five, eight, ten years, and being like, all right, now I'm unhappy, now it's time for me to leave.

01:38:55.000 And when you're coming back out there at 35, 38, 44, what do you think is out there waiting for you?

01:39:01.000 If if everybody's in their twenties complaining about the dating market now, what you think the dating market is gonna be for you twenty years from now?

01:39:10.000 So the reality is is everything he's saying is like I'm actually seeing it.

01:39:14.000 And it's the field is dominated by seventy five percent women, and a whole bunch of the feminine uh men who's also using the same talking points, and the field has kind of moved into a place where they're trying to validate everything.

01:39:27.000 Also, they may have more money.

01:39:28.000 The more therapy sessions you get, the better.

01:39:30.000 There's divorce attorneys, there's divorce courts, there's an entire family court system that's designed to take resources from the man and give them to the woman. 1.00

01:39:38.000 So there's an entire infrastructure to keep men and women apart from a financial perspective. 1.00

01:39:42.000 So I'll just say it like this, right?

01:39:45.000 Men, right, will sacrifice their happiness for their family.

01:39:47.000 Women will sacrifice their family for their happiness. 1.00

01:39:50.000 Women initiate 80% of the divorces, they take the majority of the alimony, they're incentivized to break up relationships because there's a financial backing to do it, and you can kind of do it with you know, uh fault uh fall-free divorce. 1.00

01:40:02.000 Wait, so um so the reality is like when I say all these things, I'm not saying this to say, oh my god, relationships are in the shitter, but let me ask you a question, because you've been the one that questioned me the most, which is fine.

01:40:12.000 I I like the inquisitiveness.

01:40:14.000 If I gave you a million dollars, right?

01:40:16.000 I give you one million dollars, and you go ahead and you buy a real estate property, right?

01:40:21.000 And they tell you this property is gonna be prosperous, it's gonna make you a bunch of money, you're gonna be able to get double your money in ten years, right?

01:40:29.000 Five years passes, and it's lost 50% of value.

01:40:32.000 How'd you feel about that investment?

01:40:34.000 Well, what did I do to make it better?

01:40:38.000 Well, here's the thing.

01:40:39.000 You thought that the neighborhood is gonna grow, you thought, you know, Jews were gonna move in, ended up blacks coming in, properties, real estate went down, etc.

01:40:46.000 Shit you couldn't foresee in other words.

01:40:47.000 Yep.

01:40:48.000 Goes down half 50%.

01:40:49.000 What would you do?

01:40:50.000 They would be pretty pissed off, right?

01:40:53.000 What an analogy.

01:40:54.000 Come on.

01:40:55.000 I feel like I I don't know.

01:40:56.000 I just feel like there's work that has to be put in.

01:40:58.000 Like, did I not do anything?

01:41:00.000 Is it just because there are certain things that you just can't control, right?

01:41:03.000 The place becomes a crime-ridden area, a bunch of black people move in, they fuck it up, it turns into the hood, it is what it is. 1.00

01:41:08.000 You thought the Jews are gonna move in, blacks moved in, cooked. 1.00

01:41:11.000 Property value goes down.

01:41:12.000 It is what it is.

01:41:13.000 So I had to keep it the whole time.

01:41:14.000 So I at one point You held on to it because you don't want to sell it at a loss.

01:41:18.000 But it goes down 50%.

01:41:20.000 How would you feel about that?

01:41:23.000 I just feel like you can I don't know.

01:41:25.000 I I don't want to say what I think actually.

01:41:28.000 Okay, you're you're taking the analogy way too literally.

01:41:30.000 The point I'm trying to make is is that why are men gonna bust their asses to become super successful, make this money, right, and invest in two properties that they know are gonna depreciate and create headaches for them later, which is modern women. 0.98

01:41:41.000 They don't want to obey them, they don't want to serve them, they don't want to be good wives, they want to go to the club and party, they still want to act like they're single, but they have a man. 0.96

01:41:48.000 That's where we are as men nowadays in 2025, unfortunately.

01:41:52.000 Girls are more interested in having a lit Instagram than having a lit relationship. 1.00

01:41:56.000 Yep.

01:41:57.000 Even down to late in in in if you want to know how close you are to what he's describing, think about when it is you want to have kids and when you want to get married.

01:42:08.000 20, 30, 50 years ago, you would have probably been saying 20, 18.

01:42:14.000 Now a lot of you are thinking 28, 30, so you've already kind of got those seeds planted in you to delay family, delay being a wife, all the things that would make you attractive to men, you're pushing those things off because you want to have your fun and kind of get that run in.

01:42:32.000 So this is this is the stuff of like the indoctrination is not just like there was a class of feminism, it's just all around you. 0.99

01:42:40.000 You you're you when you when you look at social media and you see all your girlfriends, the homegirls traveling, purchasing stuff, going on all these trips, that requires time and resources.

01:42:50.000 You most people aren't doing that at 16, 17, 18.

01:42:53.000 They're going to college, they're coming out, and then they're seeing social media, and it's like I want to experience that.

01:42:59.000 So, what do you think's happening?

01:43:00.000 You're now trying to experience those things as well, and all the while, the time that you were supposed to be focused on the things we're talking about, time's passing you by.

01:43:10.000 So, girls, uh, do you agree?

01:43:12.000 It's a great idea.

01:43:13.000 I disagree.

01:43:13.000 Because um I know you've been in the therapy.

01:43:16.000 Uh, I don't know if you want to share it or like if he's right.

01:43:19.000 Someone said they disagree, who disagrees?

01:43:20.000 Go ahead.

01:43:21.000 Only with the beginning portion of what you said.

01:43:23.000 Sure.

01:43:23.000 What do you disagree with?

01:43:24.000 What part?

01:43:24.000 Um, about pushing back kids, because I feel like with inflation and everything that's going on, like even child care costs, and I feel like when you're in a relationship with your man, like my man, my husband is before my kids.

01:43:36.000 It's like me and my husband against these kids.

01:43:38.000 So it's like if he's if he's being overworked and feels like he needs to make more money, because I think the average, every time you give birth to a baby, it's like the average cost to raise a child is like more than a hundred thousand dollars.

01:43:49.000 I think it's like three hundred thousand dollars.

01:43:51.000 I think that was maybe on an earlier conversation.

01:43:52.000 So go ahead.

01:43:54.000 I'm sorry, I don't mean to cut you off.

01:43:55.000 Go ahead.

01:43:56.000 No, no, go ahead.

01:43:57.000 So two things.

01:43:57.000 Number one, the reason why the cost went so crazy is because who doubled the workforce and increased and stagnated the wages in the first place.

01:44:06.000 Women did. 1.00

01:44:08.000 Number two, women that talk about the cost of kids, don't talk about the ability to adjust their life to the what a man's life can afford in terms of a lifestyle. 1.00

01:44:20.000 Well, I'm saying as a couple, like, okay, like a partnership, because that would be like a conversation that you would have with your man, like, hey, hey, baby, when do you think is a good time for us to have children?

01:44:28.000 Because if we do have kids right now, you're probably gonna have to pick up more hours at work. 0.88

01:44:32.000 And then so it's just like a conversation.

01:44:33.000 Most households, the man is not just working, now the woman has to work too to be able to afford a comfortable life. 0.85

01:44:39.000 And what I'm suggesting is because you were born in this era, you're you presuppose that your income means something to a fancy way of saying it is reimagine you couldn't get a job.

01:44:52.000 Okay, but you do you know you both want kids at some point.

01:44:56.000 Is that how what would type what would your life how would your lifestyle shift and change so that you could have kids?

01:45:03.000 What ends up happening is because you don't want to change the lifestyle.

01:45:06.000 Now you feel like, well, now we gotta send the kids to daycare.

01:45:09.000 Now we gotta send now we gotta pay for a nanny. 1.00

01:45:11.000 Wow.

01:45:11.000 Now we gotta do this, now we gotta do that.

01:45:13.000 Well, that's what I was talking about.

01:45:14.000 Like now, I'm just saying the reflection of now because honestly, the best situation would be for the mom to stay at home and the dad to go to work, but that's just not the reality with a lot of American families right now.

01:45:22.000 And what I'm suggesting again is if you maybe I'm saying it different, saying I'm not sorry, maybe I'm not saying it correctly.

01:45:31.000 Rather than adjust your lifestyle to what he can afford so that he can afford being able to do that and provide for the kids, you would rather continue to work at just to maintain So you're saying downsize.

01:45:46.000 So you're suggesting, oh, okay, okay.

01:45:47.000 I get that.

01:45:48.000 So baby, like okay, I get that.

01:45:49.000 I understand.

01:45:50.000 So instead of having two cars, you downsize to one.

01:45:52.000 You could instead of that makes a lot of people.

01:45:54.000 The cost of the car, the cost of the mortgage, where we're living in the country.

01:45:57.000 Like it's an example.

01:45:58.000 As an example, it makes sense.

01:45:59.000 That'll make it work.

01:46:00.000 That'll make it work.

01:46:01.000 Like Jerry, like me and my wife live in Jersey.

01:46:03.000 Right.

01:46:03.000 We're one of the most expensive states in the entire country.

01:46:06.000 Our property taxes, our mortgage.

01:46:08.000 New Jersey and Connecticut go back and forth.

01:46:09.000 Our tax, our taxes are the cost of some people's mortgages per I mean, or our rent per month.

01:46:14.000 Sorry, she wired the black your wife. 1.00

01:46:16.000 Black. 0.93

01:46:16.000 Right, go. 0.93

01:46:17.000 So the point I'm making is if we really, really had to adjust and was like, yo, we want a second kid, but I feel like Jeff, you're gonna have to pick up more hours, or my wife's gonna have to pick up more hours.

01:46:30.000 I'd be like, or we could just adjust our lifestyle and live better within our means so that we can afford a second kid even if it's just on my income.

01:46:40.000 We may have to leave Jersey.

01:46:41.000 But that my thing is like when he and my man, for instance, he works at Rolls Royce, so he's very flashy.

01:46:47.000 I just Mitch, his name is Mitch underscore the one.

01:46:50.000 Real quick before you go into this, I kind of know where it's gonna go.

01:46:52.000 But I do want to talk, I talk about I talk about this in my book, Why Women Deserve Less, right? 1.00

01:46:55.000 It's a hundred pages because women deserve less. 1.00

01:46:57.000 But uh the point is that Amazon bestseller, by the way, you guys go ahead and get it.

01:47:01.000 But and I'm gonna write a second one.

01:47:02.000 It's called the White Women Deserve Even Less. 1.00

01:47:04.000 Not even kidding around.

01:47:05.000 Second book on the way can I see it?

01:47:07.000 Uh sure.

01:47:08.000 Um, but I in the book I talk about um the doubling of the workforce now.

01:47:12.000 And how feminism uh came in, double the workforce, and that was able to effectively increase inflation, lower wages, etc. 1.00

01:47:18.000 Yeah.

01:47:19.000 Now I do want to say this because I already know we're gonna go.

01:47:21.000 Well, we don't want to downsize, right?

01:47:22.000 And that is exactly what they want because women have a problem with consumerism. 1.00

01:47:27.000 Women have a problem with that, women have a problem with living a certain lifestyle. 1.00

01:47:31.000 Most of them want to live would rather live a certain lifestyle, right?

01:47:35.000 Than um then cut back.

01:47:37.000 And that's probably for me and him though.

01:47:38.000 He's used to the flashy lifestyle.

01:47:40.000 I grew up in Wellington, so I'm not used to like designer this, this is a good thing.

01:47:44.000 That's so upper middle class area.

01:47:45.000 But well, but he no, but he is like he likes like him for him, it's like we have to have a high rise with the water view.

01:47:54.000 And for me, I'm like, oh, I don't care about that.

01:47:55.000 That's fine.

01:47:55.000 But this is a rare situation where it's a man that's wanting to be the um, but he just likes to be like Sue.

01:48:01.000 But most of the time, when it's them buying the nice house and everything else, it's the woman pressuring it. 0.99

01:48:05.000 Oh, I want the car, it's the woman pressuring it. 1.00

01:48:06.000 The materialistic stuff, it's a woman. 1.00

01:48:08.000 There's a reason why, like, when you guys look at commercials, commercials.

01:48:10.000 Have you guys noticed that commercial gotten way more woke recently?

01:48:13.000 Yes, they're less Gillette.

01:48:14.000 Have you guys thought about why?

01:48:17.000 Consumerism, well higher, But who's buying?

01:48:20.000 The women are buying more. 0.96

01:48:21.000 Who's more likely to be woke?

01:48:23.000 The women. 0.81

01:48:24.000 There you go.

01:48:24.000 That's why cars are made differently now as well.

01:48:27.000 Like if you see every single car, now they're made more feminely because women are purchasing more. 0.99

01:48:30.000 But that's just internal.

01:48:32.000 So and and women make, you know, most of the consumer decisions, 80% of the debt, you know what I mean? 1.00

01:48:37.000 They create a lot of the consumerism.

01:48:39.000 So advertisers understand this, and that's why they've marketed their um geared towards that.

01:48:43.000 Towards women. 0.99

01:48:43.000 Exactly. 0.99

01:48:45.000 But that's what I mean when I say like we have a problem with consumerism in America where women would refuse would rather work a job they hate to buy things they don't need. 0.99

01:48:53.000 To impress people that don't give a fuck about them.

01:48:55.000 Yes, boss.

01:48:56.000 This is just downsizing.

01:48:57.000 We're boss and having more kids and having a family.

01:48:59.000 Hello, boss.

01:49:00.000 And now we have birth rates that are through the roof.

01:49:02.000 I'm sorry, that are low, right?

01:49:04.000 We have really low birth rates, and we gotta import more immigrants to replace that birth rate. 1.00

01:49:08.000 I mean, I don't know about you guys, but I don't want more fucking Mexicans and Indians and uh people from you know third world countries coming in here and fucking shit up that don't want to acclimate and you know, learn uh the English language. 1.00

01:49:19.000 You know, immigration, I think we need to be at a point now where we need to cut that shit back. 1.00

01:49:22.000 Now obviously this isn't a political podcast if you guys don't have to go into that.

01:49:25.000 But look at the UK.

01:49:26.000 You guys are overrun right now with immigration problems.

01:49:29.000 Look at Canada.

01:49:30.000 Toronto's filled with nothing but stinky ass jeats now.

01:49:32.000 It doesn't even look like uh a a first world western country.

01:49:35.000 We I don't want that in America.

01:49:36.000 And the only way we're gonna be able to replace uh to fight that is by having families and getting the uh birth rates up, but we can't do it.

01:49:42.000 So what do they do?

01:49:43.000 They bring in more immigrants.

01:49:44.000 This is a very big problem.

01:49:45.000 And you guys are already suffering with it in the UK.

01:49:48.000 Uh you guys just had a big ass riot not too long ago.

01:49:50.000 Uh hundreds of thousands of people on the streets.

01:49:52.000 Do you guys hear about that?

01:49:53.000 Yeah.

01:49:53.000 Yeah, a little bit.

01:49:54.000 In London.

01:49:55.000 A little bit.

01:49:56.000 You guys didn't hear about it.

01:49:57.000 I live in Spain.

01:49:59.000 Uh okay.

01:49:59.000 Well, oh, well, you guys have immigration problem in Spain too.

01:50:02.000 Yeah.

01:50:03.000 Like all of Western Europe is cooked.

01:50:05.000 So I see what's going on.

01:50:06.000 I'm like, damn, we don't need this.

01:50:07.000 So the only way we're gonna fight that is we need to have nuclear families here of Americans. 0.95

01:50:11.000 So you're saying that the more nuclear families that we have, the less problems it affects immigration.

01:50:16.000 Or the less or the more economically So you're saying that the more children that we have in households, that's going to make people make so the replacement rate we're not replacing.

01:50:27.000 Okay.

01:50:27.000 Right?

01:50:28.000 So what ends up happening is when you're not able to replace, you have to import immigrants. 1.00

01:50:32.000 Immigrants come in and they have way more kids. 0.90

01:50:34.000 But with the problem is that they come in, they bring their fucked up backed up culture, their fucked up culture. 0.99

01:50:39.000 They don't want to acclimate, they don't want to learn an English language, etc.

01:50:41.000 And you run into problems.

01:50:42.000 And if you guys don't believe me, go to the southwest border, right?

01:50:44.000 Right in Texas, and you'll see everyone's masking, no one speaks English, doesn't feel like you're in the United States.

01:50:49.000 I spent several years there, and I'm like, damn, we can't have this in the rest of the United States.

01:50:53.000 And this is slowly happening in a lot of major cities.

01:50:55.000 So um that's how you um and if we don't, then we have to bring in more immigrants, and that's a problem.

01:51:01.000 You know.

01:51:01.000 Understood.

01:51:02.000 Uh chats?

01:51:03.000 Yep.

01:51:03.000 Yeah.

01:51:04.000 Yep.

01:51:04.000 So does anyone else have anything with uh saying like the nuclear family and birth rates are super important?

01:51:04.000 Okay, yeah.

01:51:12.000 So chats, uh questions, and then we uh we end the show.

01:51:16.000 Uh I show tits and somewhat photoshopped fresh into that gold, Mr. Pobo hat. 1.00

01:51:20.000 What?

01:51:21.000 Yeah, yeah.

01:51:24.000 Uh yeah, okay.

01:51:28.000 All right, that's not making fun of fresh because uh fresh is so black. 1.00

01:51:30.000 Okay.

01:51:31.000 Capsclub got it.

01:51:32.000 Okay, yeah, someone's gonna definitely do that.

01:51:34.000 Ask all the girls to see if they want to be a wife and have a family. 1.00

01:51:38.000 Let's see their Instagram and determine where whether they're.

01:51:40.000 Does everyone here want to be married with kids one day and be a wife?

01:51:43.000 Everybody.

01:51:45.000 Of course.

01:51:46.000 Bill's cra uh Mo, you guys know what to do.

01:51:48.000 All right, yeah.

01:51:49.000 You guys know what to do.

01:51:50.000 Um girls name three countries.

01:51:52.000 Let's see if they of these horse lets have any intelligence.

01:51:57.000 Spell check your shit, bro, if you're gonna call them stupid.

01:51:59.000 Yeah, yeah.

01:52:00.000 All right, three countries.

01:52:01.000 Uh we'll start here with um Miss Ukraine.

01:52:04.000 Um you can name uh where you're from or where she's from, or whatever.

01:52:07.000 And uh are your parents like from Ukraine, or are you like uh second generation or third generation American?

01:52:15.000 I'm adopted.

01:52:17.000 Oh, okay.

01:52:17.000 Oh.

01:52:18.000 But let's not get into that.

01:52:20.000 But yeah, I'm not sure.

01:52:21.000 So that's what an ancestors does.

01:52:23.000 Okay, all right.

01:52:24.000 No, that's fine, bro.

01:52:25.000 All right, uh, all right, name three countries.

01:52:27.000 You can't name Ukraine.

01:52:28.000 Okay, or Russia.

01:52:29.000 Or a word.

01:52:30.000 Or United States or Mexico or any other country that's named.

01:52:32.000 What?

01:52:33.000 Yeah.

01:52:34.000 Yeah, you got it.

01:52:34.000 There's still like a hundred ninety.

01:52:36.000 Hungary.

01:52:37.000 All right.

01:52:38.000 Um, she's fucked.

01:52:47.000 So China and Asia. 0.72

01:52:50.000 Oh, China.

01:52:51.000 Asia.

01:52:52.000 Asia.

01:52:54.000 Or are they continents?

01:52:55.000 That was a continent.

01:52:57.000 You live named the same continent and country as a child.

01:52:59.000 We'll go to uh place.

01:53:02.000 Sorry.

01:53:02.000 I didn't pass geography in school.

01:53:05.000 Alright.

01:53:06.000 Alright, you're go.

01:53:06.000 Go ahead.

01:53:07.000 You're up next.

01:53:08.000 Three countries, please.

01:53:10.000 Iraq.

01:53:11.000 Alright.

01:53:12.000 Move up quickly.

01:53:13.000 Hello, my board!

01:53:14.000 Iraq.

01:53:20.000 Come on, girl. 1.00

01:53:21.000 Got it, man.

01:53:22.000 I already said on the station.

01:53:24.000 I was trying to say Haiti.

01:53:25.000 Um.

01:53:26.000 Damn.

01:53:26.000 Nope.

01:53:27.000 China.

01:53:28.000 She said to me.

01:53:29.000 Oh shit.

01:53:30.000 Do more, you got this.

01:53:34.000 I really don't know that you're going to be a good thing.

01:53:35.000 I'm gonna be able to do that.

01:53:35.000 Girls.

01:53:36.000 You want to get married, girls, alright? 0.87

01:53:37.000 So like this is your man watching right now, right?

01:53:40.000 Not me or him or this nigga, right? 1.00

01:53:42.000 So like you have to like put out there.

01:53:45.000 Like you live on Earth.

01:53:45.000 Come on.

01:53:46.000 You got this.

01:53:47.000 Two more.

01:53:48.000 Like you live on Earth.

01:53:49.000 You got this.

01:53:50.000 Come on, you got it.

01:53:51.000 Like you're the only black girl on the panel.

01:53:51.000 Like you got it.

01:53:55.000 Black girls are watching right now. 1.00

01:53:56.000 Punch in the hair.

01:53:57.000 Black girls, I don't know what we're doing. 1.00

01:53:59.000 One more.

01:54:00.000 That's all I have.

01:54:00.000 I got two.

01:54:01.000 I normally don't count in Zero, but that's fine.

01:54:04.000 Yes, we do more.

01:54:04.000 One more.

01:54:05.000 Um vacation.

01:54:11.000 Come on, you got it.

01:54:12.000 I don't know.

01:54:15.000 Damn.

01:54:16.000 Okay, damn.

01:54:17.000 I could only name like fucking cities and state right now.

01:54:20.000 Alright.

01:54:21.000 Name like one.

01:54:23.000 I think it's cooked.

01:54:24.000 Hollandale.

01:54:26.000 Alright.

01:54:30.000 Somebody's cooked for that other country. 0.98

01:54:34.000 Go ahead.

01:54:34.000 Three countries.

01:54:34.000 You got it.

01:54:35.000 Greece, Turkey, Italy.

01:54:38.000 Alright.

01:54:40.000 Go work.

01:54:43.000 Come on.

01:54:44.000 I love you, Bestie.

01:54:45.000 You know, it gets it gets harder as you go on.

01:54:48.000 Because you get like, you know, you get all the countries in the beginning.

01:54:48.000 Right?

01:54:51.000 You had the easiest one.

01:54:52.000 But that's fine.

01:54:54.000 Alright, what about you?

01:54:55.000 Uh Paraguay, Bolivia, Colombia.

01:54:58.000 Crazy.

01:54:59.000 Spain, Poland, Morocco.

01:55:01.000 Spain doesn't count.

01:55:02.000 Because you're living in the middle.

01:55:03.000 Okay.

01:55:05.000 Vietnam.

01:55:06.000 Alright.

01:55:07.000 No.

01:55:09.000 Ghana, Somalia, and Belgium.

01:55:14.000 Alright.

01:55:15.000 Oh, she's from she smashed this.

01:55:18.000 That's what it's.

01:55:19.000 Somali niggas were Somali pirates. 1.00

01:55:22.000 I'm the first.

01:55:23.000 Yeah.

01:55:24.000 Ethiopia niggas dirty. 1.00

01:55:26.000 Alright, what about you?

01:55:28.000 Brazil, Honduras.

01:55:32.000 Oh, Brazil, Honduras.

01:55:35.000 I was gonna say Maraca, but she took mine.

01:55:37.000 Alright, so I heard.

01:55:41.000 I'm on the spot right now.

01:55:44.000 Okay.

01:55:46.000 Greece.

01:55:48.000 She's in a great set.

01:55:49.000 Damn it.

01:55:52.000 It's Dubai.

01:55:54.000 I don't even know.

01:55:56.000 India.

01:55:57.000 So Arabia. 0.99

01:55:59.000 What's your final answer?

01:56:00.000 Is it India or Dubai?

01:56:00.000 I wanted to say.

01:56:02.000 Which one are you gonna go with?

01:56:03.000 Alright, fair enough.

01:56:03.000 India.

01:56:04.000 Okay.

01:56:04.000 No, it came close.

01:56:05.000 It came close.

01:56:07.000 It's a city in the UAE, United Arab Emirates.

01:56:10.000 Okay.

01:56:11.000 Alright, so who lost?

01:56:12.000 A couple girls lost.

01:56:13.000 You and you.

01:56:14.000 Oh my god, too, yeah.

01:56:15.000 I can name more now.

01:56:19.000 Two more less options.

01:56:20.000 Wait, you know what?

01:56:21.000 No, no.

01:56:21.000 Oh, you know what?

01:56:22.000 Since you fucked up, okay.

01:56:23.000 Russia or Ukraine.

01:56:24.000 Who you wrong?

01:56:24.000 Who are you supporting?

01:56:28.000 That's a mix of it.

01:56:31.000 No, I'm asking you.

01:56:32.000 I'm asking you.

01:56:33.000 Since you failed the three question thing and you said I'm ready now.

01:56:35.000 Okay, here's a nice here's a redeeming question.

01:56:37.000 Yeah, fuck it.

01:56:38.000 What are your thoughts on Ukraine Russia?

01:56:42.000 Alright, so your thoughts?

01:56:43.000 What?

01:56:43.000 Wow.

01:56:44.000 I don't know.

01:56:45.000 That's why I'm asking.

01:56:46.000 But did I hear something about them before?

01:56:48.000 Yeah, but what are your thoughts?

01:56:49.000 So you don't know at all?

01:56:50.000 She said recently in the country.

01:56:50.000 I don't know anything.

01:56:51.000 I think everybody's gonna be a little bit more.

01:56:52.000 Oh recently.

01:56:53.000 She said it was.

01:56:55.000 She said it was a good one.

01:56:59.000 Pretty much.

01:57:01.000 I don't keep up with the wars.

01:57:03.000 The wars.

01:57:04.000 I live in the presence.

01:57:05.000 Oh, your presence?

01:57:09.000 I don't got nothing to do with that.

01:57:11.000 All right.

01:57:11.000 Yeah.

01:57:16.000 Most girls from Ukraine don't give a fuck. 1.00

01:57:18.000 Like, yo, she's not really like she's like, most girls are like her like ties. 0.98

01:57:24.000 She did a she did a 23 meeting.

01:57:27.000 Oh my god!

01:57:32.000 This is so cute!

01:57:34.000 Like, what's that?

01:57:35.000 You guys gotta show a picture of Mr. Popo.

01:57:37.000 So she's quick slap. 1.00

01:57:38.000 No, no, that's what she means.

01:57:40.000 Because it looks like Mr. Gotta show a picture of Mr. Popo.

01:57:42.000 Alright, so anyway, what's crazy is nobody said Palestine, which is insane.

01:57:46.000 Oh, yeah.

01:57:47.000 Well, most people don't even rest in peace.

01:57:50.000 Yeah.

01:57:51.000 To who?

01:57:55.000 How you finish that question is crazy.

01:57:58.000 That's crazy.

01:58:00.000 Yo, you're you call it fuck.

01:58:01.000 Like, like soon we go into you like, yo, confusion about Russia and Ukraine, but not about Palestine as wow.

01:58:08.000 That's crazy, bro.

01:58:09.000 You know a little bit about geopolitics, apparently.

01:58:11.000 Alright, what do you know about Palestine?

01:58:12.000 Tell us about what you know about Palestine.

01:58:14.000 Everyone like rushed to another country from there or something because they were getting like in war or something.

01:58:14.000 I don't know.

01:58:19.000 That's all I know.

01:58:20.000 I sound like a dummy.

01:58:21.000 I don't even want to embarrass myself right now.

01:58:23.000 Too late.

01:58:24.000 All right.

01:58:25.000 Okay.

01:58:26.000 Fantastic.

01:58:27.000 Um, what country passed?

01:58:30.000 I don't know if it's a law or I don't know what it was, but there's a country that don't allow women, women to show any parts of their body but their eyes.

01:58:39.000 Well, there's no country that has that as a woman. 1.00

01:58:42.000 You're thinking of Saudi Arabia.

01:58:44.000 Okay, yeah.

01:58:44.000 Yeah, Saudi Arabia.

01:58:45.000 You know, Saudi Arabia is a very safe country because women couldn't drive until 2018. 1.00

01:58:49.000 But now they can drive.

01:58:50.000 So it's not safe no more.

01:58:51.000 It's not safe no more because women can drive inside Arabia. 1.00

01:58:54.000 Um, the fear is here, oh fuck a slash.

01:58:57.000 I appreciate you, sir.

01:58:58.000 Um, okay.

01:58:59.000 Uh let's say well, bro, we're not on fucking YouTube, man.

01:59:02.000 It's so great that I can like say what I want to say.

01:59:04.000 It's comedy skip.

01:59:05.000 Oh man.

01:59:06.000 It's terrible.

01:59:06.000 We're comedians.

01:59:07.000 Why did they do that?

01:59:08.000 Why did they do what?

01:59:09.000 Oh, oh, the Barney?

01:59:10.000 Oh shit.

01:59:12.000 You're not looking at it.

01:59:13.000 Hey, yo, I didn't even see that.

01:59:15.000 Come on, I'm gonna go.

01:59:16.000 Damn it, you guys are fucked up, bro.

01:59:19.000 Let's thank Barney for taking I love you.

01:59:23.000 You love me.

01:59:25.000 Let's go.

01:59:26.000 What the fuck?

01:59:27.000 All right, you have anything you want to say back to this guy?

01:59:29.000 Well, you can't just say this.

01:59:31.000 Okay.

01:59:32.000 Hey, kids.

01:59:33.000 All right.

01:59:34.000 Uh K24 Lopez says, So the one next to Myron, get that boob job, but guy will want to try other boob sizes. 1.00

01:59:40.000 Help out, Myron.

01:59:41.000 You explain it better.

01:59:43.000 I I mean.

01:59:43.000 Help me out.

01:59:46.000 Okay, so your main cause I wasn't a part of that conversation.

01:59:49.000 Your purpose of getting a boot job is because men complain? 1.00

01:59:52.000 No, I said it was a self-insecurity I've had for a while.

01:59:55.000 I feel like I look a little younger, like without uh upper breasts.

02:00:00.000 I feel a little, you know, I work my chest out in the gym, so I have like very good pec muscles and having a bigger chest.

02:00:07.000 Not too big, guys.

02:00:08.000 It's not it's gonna very look very natural.

02:00:10.000 Yeah, but guys guys will still fuck you though.

02:00:13.000 I'm not looking for that though.

02:00:14.000 I'm not seeking sexual attention sexual attention off of me getting my boobs.

02:00:18.000 I'm still gonna be who I am.

02:00:19.000 I'm not gonna sexualize myself.

02:00:21.000 Sexual attention, though.

02:00:22.000 Yeah, you will.

02:00:24.000 And significantly more.

02:00:25.000 Yeah.

02:00:26.000 You know you want to.

02:00:28.000 So be it.

02:00:30.000 I mean, she said it wasn't gonna be that much of a difference.

02:00:32.000 All right, you're talking the jasmine.

02:00:34.000 No, no, no, let her come on, be let her be a girl's girl. 1.00

02:00:37.000 I was just saying sometimes she already took you.

02:00:40.000 You know what a girl's girl is? 0.99

02:00:41.000 That's like grim code watching credit.

02:00:44.000 Oh, girls' girl is translation.

02:00:44.000 What is a girl's girl?

02:00:47.000 You are a girl's girl. 1.00

02:00:48.000 Let me enable a woman to have a delusional belief system that is not gonna serve her in the long term. 1.00

02:00:53.000 She said she wasn't, she said she wasn't gonna do it.

02:00:53.000 That's the one.

02:00:56.000 That's not what I'm saying.

02:00:58.000 That is not a girl's girl. 0.90

02:01:00.000 That is not a girl's girl. 0.90

02:01:01.000 That's cool.

02:01:01.000 That's not.

02:01:02.000 A girl at all. 1.00

02:01:03.000 Okay, give me an example of what a girl's girl says. 1.00

02:01:06.000 Like a girl's girl would be like, okay, like let's say you have a girlfriend and she's asking you, like, does this outfit look good? 0.79

02:01:13.000 You're gonna tell her the truth.

02:01:15.000 Really?

02:01:17.000 You're not gonna let her go out crazy.

02:01:19.000 You're gonna be a girl's girl, you're not gonna let her go out crazy.

02:01:21.000 So we're gonna tell her, hold on, hold on, hold on.

02:01:22.000 Are you gonna tell her, look, you're fat, we're not gonna get into this club.

02:01:25.000 You need to wear this, or we can't go to the game.

02:01:27.000 Right now, I can call my friend right now, and I can put her on speaker and I can be like she will lie to you.

02:01:31.000 No, she won't.

02:01:31.000 She'll be like, dude, you're fat as fuck.

02:01:33.000 You was eating.

02:01:33.000 You was breaking your diet earlier today.

02:01:35.000 Notice how she said her friend.

02:01:36.000 I'm talking about these girls don't know each other. 1.00

02:01:38.000 They're not friends.

02:01:39.000 Is she saying a girl's girl?

02:01:40.000 Because here's the thing.

02:01:41.000 She said, Oh, I'm gonna get my boobs because XYZ. 1.00

02:01:45.000 He correctly points out, well, you're gonna get more sexual attention or sexualization.

02:01:48.000 Oh, I'm not doing it for sexual stuff, but you're gonna get that.

02:01:50.000 Oh, well, and then you go ahead and you're like, oh, well, you know, it's whatever.

02:01:53.000 And you're trying to get it.

02:01:54.000 But I wish you're delusional.

02:01:56.000 No, what I was saying is she already said she's not trying to do it in an exaggerated way.

02:02:02.000 And a lot of times women's bodies fluctuate anyways. 1.00

02:02:06.000 So it changes.

02:02:07.000 I understand that.

02:02:08.000 But regardless, right?

02:02:10.000 She is going to be more sexualized regardless, is what I'm trying to what we're trying to say compared to what she has now if she increases her boob size no matter what. 1.00

02:02:17.000 Anytime a woman accentuates like sexual features, she is gonna be sexualized more. 1.00

02:02:22.000 It's just a good idea.

02:02:23.000 But men naturally like that.

02:02:24.000 Men like the opposite of what they are.

02:02:27.000 For what though?

02:02:28.000 For sexual purposes.

02:02:30.000 We're not disputing that though.

02:02:31.000 We're just saying, like, if you dress a certain way or put your portray yourself in a certain way, you're gonna be sexualized.

02:02:37.000 Yeah.

02:02:37.000 Look, ladies, okay.

02:02:38.000 You guys want a big red pill here, women? 1.00

02:02:40.000 You guys might not like saying this, but men can't objectify you unless you objectify yourself first.

02:02:45.000 So when you're a dumbass, what's on that tight dress and says, Oh, I look so good.

02:02:48.000 You've actually objectified yourself.

02:02:50.000 Then you walk outside, don't get mad when objectify you guys when men objectify you in response. 0.97

02:02:54.000 The problem is that women don't like taking accountability for their actions because you guys are stupid. 1.00

02:02:58.000 And you guys don't normally take accountability for your actions because no one tells you the truth.

02:03:01.000 Hey, if you get your boobs done, men are going to start to look more at your boobs. 1.00

02:03:05.000 If you get your ass done, guys are gonna look more at your ass.

02:03:07.000 If you're dressed in a provocative way, men are gonna look at you in a provocative manner.

02:03:11.000 That's understood, though.

02:03:12.000 That's common sense.

02:03:16.000 Do you think that's common sense?

02:03:18.000 Do you think social media clothes?

02:03:20.000 You're going to be cat called.

02:03:21.000 If you wear it.

02:03:22.000 Yeah, then why do women complain and say I'm being cat called and also the shirt? 1.00

02:03:25.000 Because they're just delusional.

02:03:26.000 Oh that's only the way.

02:03:29.000 What would you want your ideal woman to look like? 1.00

02:03:32.000 Really nigga. 1.00

02:03:33.000 Okay, uh, when we're like outside and stuff, or what do you mean by this?

02:03:36.000 No, just like organically, naturally.

02:03:38.000 Are you okay with cosmetics surgery and stuff like that?

02:03:41.000 Like what do you seek if it's so No?

02:03:43.000 I mean, I pr I prefer her to be natural.

02:03:45.000 I mean, look, you want to do surgery, do it.

02:03:46.000 But I'm just saying, like, don't be delusional, think that you're not gonna get sexual more sexual attention.

02:03:50.000 That's fine.

02:03:50.000 That's all I'm saying.

02:03:50.000 I'm not saying do your boobs, it's fine.

02:03:52.000 But just understand that um you are gonna be objectified more so as you accentuate your looks.

02:03:57.000 This is just an uncomfortable reality of being a female. 0.56

02:03:59.000 And you know what?

02:04:00.000 I kind of do feel bad for you guys, because you guys aren't really ever respected on your merit a lot of the times.

02:04:05.000 You guys are respected on your looks.

02:04:06.000 Yeah, right?

02:04:07.000 No one really cares about a woman's opinion or intelligence or anything like that. 0.98

02:04:09.000 It's like, is she hot or not?

02:04:11.000 That's what men care about.

02:04:12.000 And that kind of sucks.

02:04:13.000 But, you know, it's a weapon that you guys could use to your advantage, which many of you do.

02:04:17.000 Um, but I don't think you guys use it the right way.

02:04:20.000 I think most girls use it to party, meet attractive men, get flown out, whatever, and then don't use it to find a husband and lock him down long term. 1.00

02:04:28.000 So it's like, hey, look, if you want marriage.

02:04:30.000 Yeah, yeah.

02:04:30.000 Sure, what's wrong with marriage?

02:04:31.000 Yeah.

02:04:32.000 So it's like don't get your boobs on.

02:04:34.000 What?

02:04:35.000 Don't know, I get your boobs on. 1.00

02:04:36.000 I don't think it'll keep her from getting married.

02:04:37.000 Uh-huh.

02:04:38.000 I think I think the thing is the gosh you want, so you want to do the calculator?

02:04:42.000 Yeah, do it.

02:04:43.000 Let's do the calculator real quick.

02:04:44.000 Um, okay.

02:04:45.000 Do you have high standards?

02:04:47.000 Um, no.

02:04:49.000 I don't believe that.

02:04:50.000 All right.

02:04:50.000 Pull the calculator real quick.

02:04:52.000 And then also have the Instagram's right to the girls. 1.00

02:04:54.000 Yeah.

02:04:54.000 Yeah, yeah.

02:04:55.000 That's right.

02:04:57.000 Instagram, please.

02:04:58.000 Yeah, well, and we'll have all the Instagrams too.

02:05:00.000 Um, okay, let's pull up the calculator real quick.

02:05:02.000 This is the um dating calculator, ladies. 0.90

02:05:04.000 And this calculator is the most accurate assessment of men in the United States accounts uh for the U.S. Census Bureau, the um CDC, National Health and Uh Nutrition Examination Survey.

02:05:14.000 So, uh, what is the minimum age that you want your guy to be in maximum?

02:05:19.000 Talking to me?

02:05:19.000 Yes.

02:05:21.000 Um the maximum?

02:05:23.000 No.

02:05:24.000 Minimum maximum.

02:05:25.000 Oh, minimum?

02:05:25.000 Yeah.

02:05:26.000 Minimum would be uh twenty-five to like 45.

02:05:30.000 Minimum height?

02:05:30.000 Cool.

02:05:31.000 Uh minimum height would be 5'10.

02:05:34.000 All right.

02:05:35.000 Race.

02:05:36.000 Uh white, Hispanic. 0.99

02:05:38.000 Black. 0.93

02:05:39.000 No.

02:05:40.000 Good, nigga. 1.00

02:05:41.000 All right.

02:05:42.000 All right.

02:05:42.000 Uh, education.

02:05:44.000 Um, I have associates.

02:05:46.000 What does he have to have?

02:05:47.000 Oh, oh, um, a no degree.

02:05:50.000 They don't need a degree.

02:05:51.000 Education is bullshit.

02:05:53.000 Okay.

02:05:53.000 All right, good.

02:05:53.000 You're facts.

02:05:54.000 All right.

02:05:54.000 Facts.

02:05:55.000 Uh all right, minimum income for you per year.

02:05:57.000 Uh 80K.

02:05:58.000 Okay.

02:05:58.000 A year?

02:05:58.000 Okay.

02:05:59.000 You sure?

02:05:59.000 Yeah.

02:06:00.000 Positive?

02:06:00.000 Yeah.

02:06:01.000 Uh, can you be married?

02:06:01.000 All right.

02:06:03.000 Can he be married?

02:06:05.000 Absolutely not.

02:06:06.000 Okay.

02:06:06.000 Can he be obese?

02:06:07.000 Sorry, man.

02:06:07.000 Um no, you have to.

02:06:08.000 If you can't take care of yourself, you can take care of a woman. 1.00

02:06:11.000 Sorry, Mo.

02:06:12.000 Thank you, Chris.

02:06:13.000 Alright.

02:06:13.000 Let's uh let's see how prevalent this man is in America.

02:06:16.000 Let's go.

02:06:16.000 And uh, we shouldn't get away.

02:06:19.000 Can you get the stuff, Chris?

02:06:21.000 Uh congratulations.

02:06:22.000 Uh one percent of men meet your requirements.

02:06:24.000 Oh god.

02:06:25.000 Um percent, that's a big range though.

02:06:27.000 Uh you score um you scored four out of five cat bags.

02:06:31.000 Yes.

02:06:32.000 So what was that?

02:06:32.000 Four?

02:06:33.000 Four out of five cat bags, yeah.

02:06:34.000 The 80k saved her.

02:06:35.000 It was the 80k.

02:06:36.000 It was the 80k.

02:06:37.000 And any education.

02:06:39.000 So um, let me ask you this.

02:06:40.000 So since this guy um is one percent of the population.

02:06:45.000 You said earlier, right?

02:06:46.000 That you wouldn't change for a man, right? 0.96

02:06:47.000 Uh no.

02:06:48.000 Do you would you change for this man?

02:06:50.000 With the one percent?

02:06:52.000 Well, that's what you want.

02:06:53.000 Clearly, we've seen that you're where do they get that one?

02:06:55.000 This calculator is bullshit because it's a Facebook there.

02:06:57.000 I'll give you a big ass. 1.00

02:06:59.000 I just told you, right?

02:07:00.000 It's like this, though.

02:07:01.000 So this is this is this is the um this is uh this is actually really good to see because this is perfectly encapsulates what I said about women. 0.94

02:07:08.000 Women have a gross overestimization of attractive men that are available to them. 1.00

02:07:14.000 Okay.

02:07:14.000 Yep.

02:07:15.000 We put the filters in of age, height, income, race, etc.

02:07:20.000 Can't be fat, not married.

02:07:22.000 There's not that many of those guys around in America.

02:07:25.000 In Miami.

02:07:26.000 That's making 80.

02:07:27.000 No, no, this is America.

02:07:28.000 Yeah, America.

02:07:29.000 This is in America.

02:07:30.000 This is America.

02:07:31.000 So you're so you're one the man that you want is one percent of the population.

02:07:34.000 Now you said earlier at the show that you would not change yourself for a man.

02:07:40.000 Knowing now that your guys literally 1% of the population, would you change?

02:07:44.000 No, I would just change my standards.

02:07:46.000 That's it, not change who I am.

02:07:48.000 Would you lower your standards then?

02:07:49.000 Yeah, potentially.

02:07:50.000 What would you lower it too?

02:07:53.000 That's not uh personality.

02:07:55.000 She's laughing, how he walks, how you're talking about.

02:08:00.000 And like you said before, this doesn't account for him looking good.

02:08:02.000 This doesn't account for him being in shape or going to the gym.

02:08:04.000 It's probably even less talks, yeah.

02:08:06.000 Visible abs and shit, which is what girls like you typically want. 0.98

02:08:08.000 So, yeah, this guy.

02:08:09.000 If his biceps are smaller than mine, absolutely not.

02:08:12.000 Yeah, then you're cooked.

02:08:12.000 This guy's less than one percent of the population, bro.

02:08:15.000 That's your job, though.

02:08:16.000 Just to clarify this, if y'all saw, if y'all saw this example for a second, he's one percent of the population.

02:08:22.000 He's not even a six-figure earner.

02:08:24.000 He's one percent of the population.

02:08:26.000 That's why I said earlier that the $50,000 made more sense.

02:08:29.000 And that's why I was saying that that's actually the average income in most households.

02:08:32.000 It is.

02:08:33.000 So we cannot base things off of what we think are.

02:08:36.000 Like that's the average.

02:08:38.000 My only suggestion.

02:08:39.000 My only suggestion is for y'all to actually realize what just happened.

02:08:42.000 If you have this vision in your head of what it is that you want, and you are saying that you're not going to adjust for that man.

02:08:50.000 You're cooked.

02:08:52.000 You're cooked.

02:08:52.000 Done.

02:08:53.000 And you won't realize it till the wall smacks you in the face.

02:08:56.000 It it it the wall is undefeated.

02:08:58.000 It will be here.

02:08:59.000 Or dick.

02:09:01.000 So that's the thing is like you kind of have to realize like you want water too?

02:09:05.000 I'm not saying make really drastic decisions tomorrow.

02:09:08.000 But what I am saying is it's like you kind of have to take this seriously.

02:09:11.000 Of like, yeah, the guy that you say you want, when you've come across him or find him, uh outside of him like telling you something crazy, you better get on his timetable and program.

02:09:21.000 Yeah.

02:09:22.000 Because there's guys aren't just everywhere.

02:09:23.000 Well five for ten, eighty K per year.

02:09:26.000 Um, you know, white or Hispanic, which is the majority of the population would say anyway, between those two gen those two races.

02:09:33.000 Um not married, not obese.

02:09:34.000 I mean, yeah.

02:09:35.000 Cut out the black guys, cut out the black Asian guys. 1.00

02:09:37.000 It wouldn't even go much.

02:09:39.000 Yeah, and we wouldn't even it wouldn't even go much if we had a black or Asians anyway, they're minority. 1.00

02:09:43.000 Um, and this already one percent of the population.

02:09:45.000 Like, I don't think women understand like how rare the guy they want is. 1.00

02:09:50.000 Now, I'll be honest with you.

02:09:51.000 There's millions of women in America that look like you have your build, you know, are in shape, etc. 1.00

02:09:56.000 Maybe have bigger boobs, but look just like you.

02:09:58.000 That will change.

02:09:59.000 So how are you gonna compete with these women? 1.00

02:10:02.000 I don't compete with anyone at the end of the day, it's just me versus myself.

02:10:05.000 All right, go ahead.

02:10:06.000 Nothing, come on, Queen. 0.99

02:10:06.000 You got it. 0.99

02:10:08.000 The right person's gonna be.

02:10:11.000 No, no, no, no, no, you're good.

02:10:12.000 And uh nothing's worse.

02:10:15.000 Nothing's worse than watching a race and seeing one or two people at the starting line that didn't realize the way he started.

02:10:21.000 Oh, oh, I oh I should raise life is a topical life.

02:10:26.000 Life is a copy.

02:10:26.000 And guess what?

02:10:27.000 Can you imagine a man walking around?

02:10:29.000 A man Walking around and saying I'm not in competition with other men.

02:10:33.000 He that that's insanity.

02:10:36.000 But at the end of the day, like I know my value in life and where I'm at very content.

02:10:41.000 The va the value that you that what's on the screen.

02:10:44.000 I don't need a man. 0.99

02:10:44.000 Fuck what that screen is. 0.99

02:10:45.000 Oh no, there we go.

02:10:46.000 Now it all makes sense.

02:10:51.000 I'm just loving most guys.

02:10:55.000 I feel like that only applies to the 1% though.

02:10:57.000 No.

02:10:57.000 And I'll tell you and I'll personally tell you why.

02:11:00.000 Because most of you won't come across or know where to even find a 1% man, and you're actually going to be fighting for the top 20% man.

02:11:07.000 Yep.

02:11:08.000 That's actually much more your exp that's actually much more your speed.

02:11:08.000 But that's the same.

02:11:11.000 You got lucky.

02:11:12.000 No, you don't have to be a good idea.

02:11:15.000 Here's how it is.

02:11:16.000 So I've been.

02:11:16.000 I'm his personal assistant.

02:11:18.000 We just started dating, but I'm his personal assistant.

02:11:21.000 So I I rent we just started dating though.

02:11:23.000 Well, not dating, but you know, we've been together from almost a year.

02:11:26.000 Oh, so he's a fucking I mean he can do whatever he wants with my baby.

02:11:29.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:11:30.000 Yeah, yeah.

02:11:30.000 That's fine.

02:11:30.000 Go ahead.

02:11:31.000 But um that's okay.

02:11:34.000 Um, no, but I feel like the competition aspect the competition.

02:11:34.000 He's late.

02:11:40.000 She's smiling.

02:11:41.000 Look at that.

02:11:41.000 Bro, just like talk, bro.

02:11:42.000 Alright, I'll find the competition aspect comes when you're competing for the 1%.

02:11:46.000 Most guys are losers.

02:11:47.000 They're going to accept anything from a woman. 1.00

02:11:48.000 If you literally cook and clean for a guy and do the most bare minimum, most men will actually like want a relationship with you.

02:11:56.000 Most men can't even get pussy accessible to them anymore because of all of the stuff that's going on, like with women, you know. 1.00

02:12:05.000 So you so you're effectively saying most men are not attractive to most women.

02:12:09.000 So what I'm saying is it's like easy to gain a husband.

02:12:12.000 It's easy to get a man because most men are not.

02:12:14.000 It's not easy to gain a husband if it's not the man you want to marry.

02:12:17.000 It's not easy to you're not getting away.

02:12:19.000 Why does his looks matter?

02:12:20.000 Why does this looks like that?

02:12:21.000 Well, you gotta ask the ladies why the looks matter. 1.00

02:12:22.000 You gotta ask the ladies why the height matters. 1.00

02:12:24.000 You gotta ask the ladies why the matter is. 1.00

02:12:25.000 None of those things matter though.

02:12:26.000 To you.

02:12:27.000 It does matter to all the women around you.

02:12:29.000 Wait, wait, wait, wait.

02:12:30.000 Girls, salary, uh, his build. 0.84

02:12:30.000 Height. 0.84

02:12:34.000 I'm not arguing with him.

02:12:35.000 His masculinity.

02:12:35.000 I'm listening to him.

02:12:36.000 Et cetera, et cetera.

02:12:37.000 There's a whole host of things that most women have standards for. 1.00

02:12:40.000 Okay.

02:12:40.000 That disqualifies most men.

02:12:42.000 So whereas for you, you're comfortable in your set.

02:12:45.000 Most women today are not. 1.00

02:12:47.000 And when they get post 30, it actually gets harder.

02:12:50.000 So when we're saying yet absolutely it is a competition.

02:12:54.000 And here's the other thing.

02:12:54.000 Because y'all don't want y'all don't want all the men that's out there.

02:12:57.000 See, so she's lucky because she's got a guy out of her league.

02:12:59.000 That's why she's satisfied and happy. 0.99

02:13:01.000 So it's on you to keep him, right?

02:13:03.000 She rolled her eyes, bro.

02:13:04.000 He's better than you in every way.

02:13:05.000 No, no, no.

02:13:08.000 Let me be honest with you, girls.

02:13:08.000 That's nothing too.

02:13:10.000 Stop for two seconds.

02:13:11.000 Let me be very blunt with a lot of you women. 1.00

02:13:14.000 A lot of you girls are fucking replaceable. 1.00

02:13:16.000 Okay.

02:13:16.000 The things that women bring to the table that men actually want are very easy to find.

02:13:21.000 Very replicable.

02:13:23.000 Don't be a pain in the ass.

02:13:24.000 Be quiet.

02:13:24.000 Don't argue with me.

02:13:25.000 Don't be a whore, etc. 0.51

02:13:27.000 Submit to me.

02:13:28.000 A lot of women can do this. 1.00

02:13:30.000 Okay?

02:13:30.000 But the problem is that the things that you guys are looking for are not easy to find.

02:13:33.000 Decisive.

02:13:34.000 Confident.

02:13:35.000 Good shape.

02:13:35.000 Tall.

02:13:36.000 Money.

02:13:37.000 Competent.

02:13:38.000 Can teach you something?

02:13:38.000 Cloud.

02:13:38.000 Right?

02:13:39.000 Maybe Cloud with some degrees.

02:13:40.000 Right?

02:13:40.000 In her sh in her case, in good shape.

02:13:42.000 So this is very hard to find.

02:13:44.000 So the problem is that there's way more of you than him.

02:13:48.000 Kanye West famously said this, right?

02:13:50.000 Here's a million views, there's only one of me.

02:13:52.000 Right?

02:13:53.000 There's a thousand uses, there's only one of me.

02:13:54.000 And he was very right about that.

02:13:55.000 Because even Kim Kardashian is famous as she thinks that she is.

02:13:59.000 Guess what?

02:13:59.000 There's a lot of bitches that look like her that aren't whores that didn't have sex on camera that he could go and get a younger version that isn't a whore and be fine.

02:14:05.000 Okay?

02:14:06.000 Because the reality is Kanye West carries more sexual market value in the dating marketplace than Kim Kardashian does.

02:14:12.000 How many Chris Jenners are there?

02:14:13.000 What?

02:14:14.000 Her mom.

02:14:16.000 How many people?

02:14:19.000 Yeah, who's this list of things?

02:14:20.000 So there's a man's mom.

02:14:21.000 You're saying that women should just be able to do that. 1.00

02:14:23.000 I was just asking you to care.

02:14:24.000 I'm not gonna do that.

02:14:25.000 That's a nonsensical question.

02:14:26.000 That's nothing to do with the topic at hand.

02:14:27.000 The topic at hand is simply this.

02:14:29.000 Men's standards are lower than women, so therefore we could replace you guys easier. 1.00

02:14:32.000 So the higher standards, the more you gotta get in line and shut the fuck up and acclimate to the man.

02:14:32.000 Yeah.

02:14:37.000 You want a one percent guy, but let's be honest.

02:14:39.000 You are a 90%ile woman. 1.00

02:14:41.000 What should I change?

02:14:42.000 What would you say?

02:14:43.000 Your advice would be to change that into a bigger percentile for me to expand to potentially find the man.

02:14:50.000 Well, I'll I'll tell you this.

02:14:51.000 Uh so okay.

02:14:52.000 Uh uh I'll do a fitness example with you, right?

02:14:55.000 Let's say you wanted to cut and do a show, right?

02:14:57.000 What would you need to do?

02:14:59.000 Um Uh clean diet, you know, um low cow, low carb diet, high protein.

02:15:06.000 Perfect.

02:15:06.000 You'd have to put yourself in a calorie deficit, right?

02:15:08.000 If you don't put yourself in a calorie deficit, you are not gonna lose a weight.

02:15:08.000 Yes.

02:15:11.000 Correct.

02:15:12.000 Now, what would you do to get to that calorie deficit?

02:15:14.000 Would you do whatever was required to hit that goal for that shoot or whatever, maybe?

02:15:19.000 100%.

02:15:19.000 You need to make weight.

02:15:20.000 Can you drink?

02:15:21.000 Perfect.

02:15:21.000 Can you drink?

02:15:22.000 Yeah.

02:15:22.000 No, you have to sacrifice.

02:15:24.000 Fuck.

02:15:25.000 Okay.

02:15:25.000 So you would do what's required.

02:15:27.000 You would you because you would need to do it, right?

02:15:29.000 Yes.

02:15:30.000 Now, let me ask you this.

02:15:31.000 If you didn't need to do all that stuff, would you do it?

02:15:33.000 If you could have lost the weight without putting yourself in a calorie deficit, would you make yourself suffer like that?

02:15:38.000 If I didn't need to.

02:15:39.000 If you didn't need to.

02:15:40.000 And a hypothetical.

02:15:41.000 Obviously, we know scientifically you do.

02:15:42.000 You wouldn't, right?

02:15:42.000 No.

02:15:43.000 No.

02:15:43.000 So let me ask you this.

02:15:44.000 Why would you bother to be attractive to get a guy if you don't need him like you claimed? 0.96

02:15:52.000 See where I'm going with this?

02:15:53.000 If you only want to do it.

02:15:54.000 I feel like they're two different categories though.

02:15:55.000 You're comparing two different catalogues.

02:15:57.000 But that's what I'm trying to explain to you.

02:15:58.000 If you're not, if you if you don't need it, you're not gonna work hard enough to achieve it.

02:16:02.000 Like if you need to get cut weight by a certain day, right?

02:16:05.000 You know I need to be in a carrier deficit.

02:16:07.000 I must do this, otherwise I'm not gonna get it.

02:16:08.000 Same exact thing with a man.

02:16:10.000 If I want a higher status guy, 1% that's attractive, I need to acclimate on his schedule.

02:16:15.000 But the problem is that women think that they're gonna, in your situation, I'm gonna eat in a calorie surplus, but still lose weight. 1.00

02:16:20.000 It's impossible, right?

02:16:21.000 Right.

02:16:21.000 Same exact thing with getting a more attractive guy.

02:16:24.000 You must eat, you must uh you must by definition eat in a carry deficit to a degree to get that guy.

02:16:28.000 You have to make sacrifices to get that guy.

02:16:30.000 But women think I can have it all. 1.00

02:16:32.000 I could be a raging bitch, a feminist, rude, obnoxious, keep my standards high, and still get my man. 1.00

02:16:37.000 It's not happening.

02:16:38.000 It's not fucking happening.

02:16:39.000 I'll tell you this.

02:16:39.000 I can't get no fucking Instagram model, bitch, and be a broke nigga working at 7 Eleven, right?

02:16:44.000 Or outside pan handling.

02:16:45.000 You sure?

02:16:46.000 What if I told you guys?

02:16:46.000 Yo, you know what?

02:16:47.000 Fuck it.

02:16:48.000 I'm not changing.

02:16:49.000 I'm gonna be outside of 7-Eleven, homeless, with a fucking thing saying, give me some money, I want to get an IG model.

02:16:55.000 Would you guys say I'm delusional?

02:16:56.000 Yeah.

02:16:57.000 Right?

02:16:57.000 I'm homeless and I want to get a bad bitch.

02:16:58.000 You guys will all laugh at me.

02:16:59.000 So why is it that women think I'm gonna be myself, be a raging bitch, be annoying as fuck, and still get a top tier guy? 1.00

02:17:05.000 True.

02:17:07.000 Right?

02:17:08.000 Isn't it kind of wild?

02:17:09.000 Okay, so just brought him off to that's what never mind.

02:17:13.000 Do you wanted the Instagram model?

02:17:15.000 Yeah, I'm saying like if I wanted to get a very attractive girl.

02:17:17.000 Yes.

02:17:17.000 Okay.

02:17:18.000 And I'm homeless.

02:17:19.000 Homeless.

02:17:20.000 All right, so you would laugh at me, right?

02:17:21.000 If I said I want that baby.

02:17:22.000 Earlier, he's he said that the woman would have to lower her standards, lower how she wants to live or whatever. 1.00

02:17:32.000 So if she did that just to be with you, then would she still be an Instagram model? 1.00

02:17:39.000 I'm almost and would you still want her?

02:17:41.000 I'm gonna clarify something real quick.

02:17:43.000 A lot of ladies that are hearing lower their standards, what that actually is making what's going on. 1.00

02:17:49.000 Yeah, what I'm saying is actually it's about making your standards actually realistic for who you are and what you bring to the table.

02:17:56.000 So lowering your standards is usually because it's too high for who you are and what you bring to the table to begin with.

02:18:02.000 So that's so that's the starting point.

02:18:04.000 So if I'm an Instagram model and I have created something for myself.

02:18:09.000 Okay, and what is what is that?

02:18:11.000 Whatever I have created.

02:18:12.000 I'm just speaking in general.

02:18:14.000 Is that a huge following?

02:18:15.000 Is that a lot of money?

02:18:17.000 My lifestyle, the lifestyle that I have.

02:18:19.000 So I make enough to where I can get my nails done, or I can get my hair done.

02:18:23.000 Or I can buy whatever.

02:18:25.000 Yeah, exactly.

02:18:26.000 So if I'm there already, right?

02:18:31.000 And somebody w like I I want to get with someone or someone wants to get with me in a relationship.

02:18:39.000 Why would I expect less than what I'm already getting?

02:18:42.000 Okay, you you read way too deep into my analogy.

02:18:44.000 All I'm simply saying, because she wants a 1% guy. 0.79

02:18:47.000 So I told her.

02:18:48.000 What is a 1% woman? 1.00

02:18:49.000 Female.

02:18:50.000 Uh no.

02:18:51.000 Doesn't exist really.

02:18:53.000 It doesn't really exist.

02:18:54.000 And the reason why I say that is because I'm the hidden gem, and so is the guy I'm trying to find, so.

02:18:59.000 Well, why are you that?

02:19:00.000 Alright, so what wait, oh my gosh, dumb conversation.

02:19:04.000 Literally, majority of it.

02:19:09.000 It makes you different though.

02:19:10.000 From all the time.

02:19:11.000 I'm just independent.

02:19:12.000 I really don't need a man unless you're not.

02:19:14.000 These girls are penalty. 1.00

02:19:15.000 This is such a dumb thing.

02:19:16.000 Like, I feel like a lot of these girls like want a man, but I don't actually strive for a man.

02:19:20.000 I want the man to come to me.

02:19:22.000 Like, you know what I'm saying at the end of the day.

02:19:23.000 Like, I'm not out here searching for a man or being like, I need to be married by this age.

02:19:27.000 I understand actually put it in better perspective when he kind of explained it.

02:19:30.000 You're wasting those 15 years on this.

02:19:32.000 And I'm like, okay, well, maybe like I do if I'm not married by 25, this plan B is like, you know, I'd be open to fostering kids at the end of the day.

02:19:41.000 Oh, really?

02:19:42.000 Okay, so one of your um one of your I guess things that you said makes you special is that you're independent.

02:19:47.000 Yeah.

02:19:48.000 Do you think men care about that? 0.99

02:19:49.000 Yeah, well, they care because they want you to be codependent on them.

02:19:52.000 They want to take over the guide you.

02:19:54.000 They want to fuck you and your ass and your pick together. 1.00

02:19:57.000 Alright, let's go back.

02:19:57.000 Let's go back to sorry real fast and we'll address this.

02:19:59.000 Okay.

02:20:00.000 Let's go or her. 0.99

02:20:01.000 Chris.

02:20:01.000 Chris probably.

02:20:03.000 Come on, man.

02:20:07.000 Let me run this shit, bro.

02:20:07.000 Just leave your sleep.

02:20:09.000 Um, let's go to you first.

02:20:12.000 So you read way too much into my analogy when I'm talking about the Instagram situation.

02:20:16.000 Well, I wasn't just talking about the Instagram.

02:20:18.000 I was just saying you're trying to peel a black to explain it. 1.00

02:20:21.000 I all I'm saying is like if I'm a homeless man and I'm a bum, I cannot expect to get a bad bitch.

02:20:26.000 That's what I'm saying.

02:20:27.000 I use the Instagram model just as a placeholder term.

02:20:29.000 No, yeah.

02:20:29.000 But I'm talking about a very attractive young woman.

02:20:31.000 No, I cannot attract her.

02:20:33.000 Because my sexual market value is too low.

02:20:35.000 That is the equivalent to a woman like her, no offense, that might be physically attractive, however, has very bad characteristics that are not conducive to a good long-term relationship. 0.99

02:20:44.000 Okay?

02:20:45.000 Because guys that are in the 1% are gonna want something in return from their woman, not just looks. 0.73

02:20:53.000 Yes.

02:20:54.000 I feel like it's a good thing.

02:20:54.000 Beauty fan for women though.

02:20:57.000 Well, I mean, I don't know.

02:20:58.000 I feel like it's the same for women. 0.89

02:21:00.000 What's the same for women? 1.00

02:21:01.000 That women don't just want looks, they want something else. 1.00

02:21:04.000 Precisely want to be a good idea.

02:21:05.000 No, no, no.

02:21:06.000 That both people want to be free.

02:21:07.000 Precisely.

02:21:08.000 So has higher requirements?

02:21:08.000 Okay.

02:21:10.000 Men or women.

02:21:11.000 Facts.

02:21:12.000 Depends on the person.

02:21:14.000 In general, who has higher requirements?

02:21:14.000 Okay.

02:21:16.000 Women or men? 0.99

02:21:17.000 Do you want me to answer what you're doing?

02:21:18.000 Yes, Jasmine.

02:21:20.000 Just in general.

02:21:22.000 Who has higher requirements?

02:21:23.000 Men or women? 0.78

02:21:24.000 Come on, Jasper, I think you'll do it.

02:21:26.000 I can't answer that question, I guess.

02:21:29.000 You don't know that it women. 1.00

02:21:31.000 For the rest of you, who has higher requirements in general, men or women. 0.57

02:21:34.000 Women, men would fuck anything, men would do anything. 1.00

02:21:36.000 Women have higher standards, right? 1.00

02:21:38.000 Women have higher standards. 1.00

02:21:39.000 Oh, okay, good job.

02:21:40.000 So since women have higher standards, right? 1.00

02:21:40.000 Okay. 1.00

02:21:43.000 Men have to bring more to the table, right? 1.00

02:21:45.000 Yes.

02:21:46.000 Yes.

02:21:49.000 Don't let the sequel and change.

02:21:53.000 I don't know why we're not going to be able to do that.

02:21:58.000 People should just be of their words.

02:21:59.000 I'll make it even simpler for you.

02:22:00.000 The most selective men don't even come close to women that aren't as selective.

02:22:04.000 The pickiest guys don't even come close to girls that aren't that picky.

02:22:08.000 That just goes to show the big difference between a man's selection and a woman's selection. 1.00

02:22:12.000 Men fuck what they can, women fuck what they want. 1.00

02:22:14.000 God fuck you, you, you, you, you, you, and you. 1.00

02:22:18.000 So th this whole situ like you don't uh believe it or not, another way to look at another way that I think can be really effective to look at it, and I've actually used this in in different discussions with folks, is is is it's kind of how it relates to like when you when you go for a job.

02:22:34.000 Right?

02:22:35.000 When you go on for a job, what do you bring with you?

02:22:38.000 Your You're selling yourself.

02:22:39.000 Yeah, your job description, you know, you wear it apart.

02:22:42.000 Yeah, your portfolio, your resume, right?

02:22:46.000 And imagine if you slid over your resume and the job that you wanted and everything that's on the resume had nothing in common.

02:22:56.000 Completely irrelevant.

02:22:57.000 Are you listening to that?

02:22:58.000 Like you just said, completely irrelevant to what it takes to get the position.

02:23:02.000 Yo, Mar.

02:23:03.000 You got Oh, but I I I did I did three years.

02:23:06.000 Can you say that one more time for her because she didn't listen at all?

02:23:08.000 Yeah, no, no.

02:23:09.000 I got distracted when you slide your resume over for a job position that you say claim to want.

02:23:15.000 Okay, and then the person looks at the job desc not job description, your resume.

02:23:19.000 Okay, and they look at it, and they're like, Well, this is a pretty interesting resume, but this has nothing to do with the position that I'm trying to hire you for.

02:23:26.000 And you're going off about wait, uh I I I worked three years at Chuck E. Cheese and I worked at Chick-fil-A and I've done this and done that, and they say, ma'am, this is a job for accounting.

02:23:36.000 You would be like, Okay, but I want the job.

02:23:40.000 And they were like, Yeah, but you don't you're not qualified for this position.

02:23:44.000 None of the prerequisite things that we're looking for in terms of experience in terms of what you bring to the table, in terms of your credentials, warrants me picking you over the other candidate whose job to whose resume does show those things.

02:23:56.000 So if you want a now, you claim as of right now, and in your early twenties, I don't care about this.

02:24:02.000 This isn't something that I want.

02:24:04.000 Unless you can project this out for the next 60 years, at some point in time, you may actually feel differently.

02:24:10.000 So if you do want the position of being a wife, it would behoove you to actually get out of your head and thinking, I don't need to care about this, I don't need to change anything, I don't need to adjust anything.

02:24:21.000 Because when people get on the other side, it's insane.

02:24:25.000 It's really, really difficult.

02:24:27.000 So what's on the what's on the resume of a woman who's ready to fill the position of a wife? 0.99

02:24:35.000 Are we talking about an algae woman or a traditional woman back? 0.99

02:24:39.000 Of all of all civilizations at all periods of time, there were things that they had to have known that the man that they want would want.

02:24:39.000 Period.

02:24:48.000 So if you don't know that, I'm not shitting on you.

02:24:50.000 That just means, all right, I gotta put a little bit more time into me.

02:24:54.000 Spend some time with wives. 0.98

02:24:56.000 Spend some times with older women.

02:24:58.000 Well, I'll tell you this, she's already fucked, and I'll tell you, you're being way more polite about it. 1.00

02:25:01.000 See, you said I'm independent.

02:25:03.000 By being a wife, by definition, it means you're all that wifey shit before. 1.00

02:25:06.000 I'm I'm just gonna go.

02:25:07.000 Okay, be quiet for two seconds.

02:25:09.000 Be quiet for two seconds.

02:25:09.000 Okay.

02:25:10.000 You need to listen because you have a very hard head, and it's very obvious that you've dealt with retards, and and uh no one told you that you're not as smart as you think that you are. 1.00

02:25:17.000 So let me be very clear about this.

02:25:20.000 The first thing that you put out there was saying I'm independent.

02:25:23.000 That is fundamentally antithetical to being a wife. 0.99

02:25:26.000 By being a wife, by definition, that means you are dependent. 0.99

02:25:29.000 So if you want to be a wife and find a guy, you need to shut the fuck up and be dependent. 1.00

02:25:33.000 Being independent will keep you independent in perpetuity.

02:25:36.000 You gotta pick one.

02:25:37.000 And I'm telling you guys, telling you this, as a guy that's a higher earner.

02:25:40.000 We don't want bitches that talk back to us. 1.00

02:25:42.000 Multi-millionaire, I'm gonna tell you, all of us think this way.

02:25:44.000 We don't want women that talk back to us that tell us I'm independent. 1.00

02:25:47.000 None of this bullshit.

02:25:48.000 Because I could go get a girl that's 21 that's gonna shut the fuck up when I tell her to. 1.00

02:25:51.000 And she could put the prize in a bag and she'll gotta do it no more. 1.00

02:25:53.000 I'm gonna shock y'all with what I'm about to say.

02:25:55.000 We don't care about independent women. 1.00

02:25:56.000 Going to shock y'all about this.

02:25:57.000 He doesn't have to be a millionaire to feel that way either.

02:26:00.000 Exactly.

02:26:00.000 Higher earnest.

02:26:01.000 I'm not, I'm not.

02:26:03.000 I'm not a millionaire yet.

02:26:05.000 But way before I could get to that point, I feel the same functional way.

02:26:10.000 Same functional way.

02:26:11.000 And I learned with time that when I started to respect myself more and prioritize the women that just get it, it's way better than trying to mold a woman into being the one that I'm looking for.

02:26:23.000 Why would I Well I had the time for that?

02:26:25.000 Why don't I just deal with somebody who just gets it, likes me, treats me well, respects me, changes and adjusts the things that she was doing on her own without me when she's realizing the scene why I want to do life with him, it makes sense for me to adjust these things.

02:26:37.000 One of the things that should be on your resume is the ability for you to be teachable.

02:26:42.000 Here's the other thing too, I will say, ladies. 0.99

02:26:44.000 Yes, all men feel this way, whether they make $50,000, $100,000, $200,000, it doesn't matter.

02:26:50.000 Their ability to be honest about it is contingent about how much money they make.

02:26:53.000 So once he makes $50K, he can't really tell you to shut the hell up.

02:26:56.000 Because he needs you to make money and work with him.

02:26:59.000 100K?

02:26:59.000 Hey, you know what?

02:27:00.000 Cut the hours back, you know, chill out.

02:27:02.000 200k, 300k, that's when he starts telling you shut the fuck up.

02:27:05.000 Over that, he's not even gonna tell you to shut up no more.

02:27:07.000 He's gonna go get another girl and divorce you or leave you or whatever it may be. 1.00

02:27:10.000 So I think women need to understand that a man's honesty, a lot of times with what he wants is contingent upon his income and his status, right?

02:27:18.000 And the more status income he has, the less he's gonna talk to you.

02:27:21.000 So I'm telling you guys now, I'm warning you.

02:27:23.000 You want a guy that makes a certain amount of money, he's gonna expect something in return.

02:27:26.000 You're gonna want 80k per year, that's gonna be a guy that's higher earner, that's probably gonna make more than that in the future.

02:27:31.000 He'll listen to your back talk for a year, two years, three years.

02:27:34.000 At some point, he's like, Man, fuck this shit, bro.

02:27:36.000 He's gonna get rid of you.

02:27:37.000 That back talk shit is not hot.

02:27:39.000 Seven years.

02:27:40.000 Men hate it.

02:27:41.000 If you don't get this, if you don't get this 10, 15 years from now, you're gonna be talking about the man you're gonna be sharing.

02:27:50.000 Okay.

02:27:51.000 Because that's what's next on the list.

02:27:53.000 If you think, oh, that that'll never be normal in America.

02:27:55.000 Oh, we didn't think OnlyFans was gonna be normal.

02:27:58.000 Now it is.

02:27:59.000 We we didn't think a lot of the industries and things that's going on 10, 20 years ago that we have now, we didn't even know that men and women not being able to get along and have conversations without disrespecting each other was what it turned into right now.

02:28:11.000 In the future, unless you're planning on being single in perpetuity or dating women, if you don't get this lesson now while you still had the youth on your side, you're going to the option is gonna be you reaching out, hey, hey, sis, how you feel about a sister wife?

02:28:28.000 How do you feel about can I be number two, Number three, because that's what's next.

02:28:32.000 Because a lot of women would rather stay alone than end up with a guy that they really didn't want. 1.00

02:28:37.000 She's laughing, but I'm being she he's dead ass.

02:28:39.000 I'll tell you guys, I'm never gonna be monogamous again.

02:28:41.000 Every single girl I do it, I tell her I'm I'm having multiple women. 0.99

02:28:44.000 Well, I don't like that.

02:28:45.000 Well, that's too I don't give a fuck.

02:28:47.000 What do you like?

02:28:48.000 15 years from now, marriage won't be on the table, is what I'm basically saying for most of y'all.

02:28:52.000 I can say that because there's only one of me, and there's thousands of millions of you, so I can say that.

02:28:56.000 Oh, I'm telling you, ladies. 0.99

02:28:57.000 That's why my guys are super conceited like you.

02:29:00.000 You guys are so concealed.

02:29:02.000 Hold on, hold on.

02:29:04.000 I mean, hold on.

02:29:04.000 Hold on, hold on.

02:29:06.000 Hold on.

02:29:06.000 He's in middle.

02:29:07.000 He is male.

02:29:07.000 Hold on, hold on.

02:29:08.000 I had to earn.

02:29:09.000 I don't care.

02:29:10.000 Hold on, stop for two seconds.

02:29:12.000 Stop, stop.

02:29:13.000 I had to earn this ability to be conceited.

02:29:15.000 I had to earn this confidence.

02:29:16.000 Competence leads to accomplishments, which leads to confidence.

02:29:19.000 It's different.

02:29:20.000 Women, you guys are born with your confidence because you guys, you know, maybe a Maybelline, whatever the fuck makeup titties, whatever. 0.96

02:29:25.000 Men, we have to fight for our confidence.

02:29:28.000 We have to fight for our ability to be accomplished.

02:29:30.000 And once we do get the title, people say, damn, other guys want to be like us, other women want to be with us.

02:29:35.000 So yes, I am gonna be conceited because we have to earn that.

02:29:38.000 Women don't earn their conceitedness. 1.00

02:29:39.000 You're 22, you haven't done anything.

02:29:41.000 But you're very conceited, right?

02:29:42.000 So you on other uh What are you saying?

02:29:44.000 You're gonna say something?

02:29:45.000 Well, I was gonna say so.

02:29:46.000 Then what was the point of feminism if we didn't have to earn our conceitedness? 1.00

02:29:51.000 Women never had to earn her conceitedness. 1.00

02:29:53.000 And that's I I would argue female casiness is a problem. 1.00

02:29:56.000 It's a big reason why a lot of you guys stay single.

02:29:58.000 It's a big reason why you guys don't uh perpetually can never stay happy with a guy.

02:30:01.000 Because you guys think you're worth more than you really are.

02:30:03.000 But the reality is there's a lot of women like you. 1.00

02:30:06.000 You guys don't see that.

02:30:06.000 That's the problem.

02:30:07.000 You all want a one percent guy, but you guys are all 99%ile checks. 0.77

02:30:10.000 Yeah.

02:30:11.000 If I have to do it, sorry, zero percent checks.

02:30:13.000 A high value manager.

02:30:16.000 That's a gay, that's a gay term.

02:30:17.000 I hate that term.

02:30:18.000 I I I think you can never call yourself that.

02:30:21.000 That's what other people might attribute to you.

02:30:22.000 But what I am saying is that men that are conceited, men that are uh that people say are cocky, whatever, nine out of ten times, they've done something to create that cockiness or cassittiness because we must become.

02:30:31.000 At 18 years old, I'm useless.

02:30:33.000 Ain't nobody inviting me to a fucking yacht party, right?

02:30:35.000 Ain't nobody invited me to a magic party.

02:30:37.000 But 99% of women don't want you because you want multiple women. 1.00

02:30:42.000 And women don't know. 1.00

02:30:43.000 You know what's interesting?

02:30:44.000 Actually, most women will break that rule for the right guy. 1.00

02:30:47.000 Yeah, they break that fucking role all the time.

02:30:49.000 What about you breaking that rule?

02:30:51.000 You just said you you you're with multiple women, like that's what you do, right?

02:30:55.000 Yeah.

02:30:55.000 So if the right wom woman were to come into your life, you would break that cycle.

02:30:59.000 Okay, then.

02:30:59.000 No.

02:31:00.000 So why should she?

02:31:02.000 Because there's way more of her than me.

02:31:04.000 It's very simple.

02:31:05.000 Supply and demand, ladies. 0.86

02:31:06.000 So, ladies, if it's numbers, right? 1.00

02:31:08.000 But like financially, like, where's your value?

02:31:10.000 Like, what's your value?

02:31:12.000 What do you mean by that?

02:31:13.000 You say there's only one of you network.

02:31:17.000 Why is there only one of you?

02:31:18.000 Because I've seen billions and billions of the same you.

02:31:22.000 Yeah, all billions?

02:31:22.000 Really?

02:31:24.000 Billions?

02:31:25.000 Okay, thousands.

02:31:26.000 We saw one person on the screen.

02:31:29.000 We saw one person on the screen.

02:31:31.000 Okay, so let's be let's be honest here.

02:31:32.000 Do you think there's more attractive men or attractive women?

02:31:38.000 Well, why is it all about attraction at the end of the day?

02:31:41.000 Beauty phage.

02:31:42.000 Like you're talking about.

02:31:43.000 No, no, no, no.

02:31:44.000 But here's the thing.

02:31:45.000 That's the problem.

02:31:45.000 See, thank you for proving my point.

02:31:47.000 Beauty is your main commodity.

02:31:49.000 Thank you for proving my point even further.

02:31:50.000 Beauty is a woman's main commodity. 1.00

02:31:52.000 That's not true.

02:31:54.000 Yes, it is true.

02:31:54.000 Because you're a model, you're a model.

02:31:56.000 I don't think it's a good idea.

02:31:57.000 You get paid to like topic.

02:31:59.000 That's not true because you have it.

02:32:02.000 You're a poop job. 0.90

02:32:03.000 Why?

02:32:04.000 I think you guys are definitely.

02:32:08.000 What about you?

02:32:09.000 Hold on one second.

02:32:10.000 Hold on a second.

02:32:11.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

02:32:12.000 Hold on one second.

02:32:17.000 Nobody cares that look the same.

02:32:19.000 Yo, look.

02:32:19.000 Nobody cares.

02:32:20.000 Look.

02:32:21.000 And that's why there's a lot of things.

02:32:21.000 Here's the difference.

02:32:22.000 Here's the difference.

02:32:23.000 Let me be very honest with you.

02:32:23.000 Okay.

02:32:25.000 You're a cute girl.

02:32:26.000 If you worked at McDonald's or you did the cosmetology that you do, no one would care.

02:32:30.000 You'd still be able to get dates.

02:32:32.000 If I worked at McDonald's or I did what I did, it would really affect the way for me to get dates.

02:32:36.000 I think that's cat.

02:32:37.000 That is my point.

02:32:38.000 I think that's cap.

02:32:39.000 Because he's an attractive guy.

02:32:40.000 I would struggle with girls. 1.00

02:32:42.000 He's a cute guy.

02:32:43.000 I appreciate that.

02:32:43.000 Cute?

02:32:44.000 I appreciate that.

02:32:44.000 I try.

02:32:46.000 I appreciate that.

02:32:46.000 But ladies, ladies, ladies, ladies.

02:32:50.000 Stop.

02:32:51.000 I don't know what ethnicity are you, but you know I'm not into black guys. 1.00

02:32:55.000 He has 10 different girlfriends, so you can't even try it anyway.

02:32:58.000 Ladies, ladies, ladies, that's not not sort of important.

02:33:00.000 Okay.

02:33:01.000 Because here's the thing.

02:33:02.000 A male attraction, let's go with that.

02:33:03.000 Oh, you're handsome.

02:33:05.000 A male attraction.

02:33:07.000 Male attraction does not go as far as female attraction.

02:33:10.000 I'm never going to get into a club for free because I'm handsome.

02:33:13.000 I'm never going to get invited on the yacht party because I'm handsome.

02:33:15.000 I only get invited on the yacht party if I know the right people.

02:33:17.000 I make a certain amount of money.

02:33:18.000 I have a network.

02:33:19.000 You on the other hand can get into that y'all party or get into certain social social situations because of your beauty.

02:33:24.000 A woman's beauty burns brighter and stronger, shorter period of time, but it goes way further. 0.99

02:33:30.000 A man's handsomeness doesn't get him anywhere, unfortunately. 0.94

02:33:33.000 So it's not the same.

02:33:34.000 I mean, I met a lot of male, but I got it.

02:33:36.000 But no, no, no.

02:33:37.000 Bathroom.

02:33:38.000 Uh oh, wait.

02:33:39.000 The black chick is leaving. 0.99

02:33:41.000 Oh, yeah.

02:33:42.000 The glue was getting into her head.

02:33:43.000 Yeah.

02:33:44.000 So I mean, like it's a good thing.

02:33:45.000 So real quick, ladies, because I I between what Myron's saying, what I'm trying to communicate saying with Chris, I have a very, very short story, and I hope it could be helpful.

02:33:54.000 Yeah, go ahead.

02:33:55.000 When I was twenty-nine, about thirty.

02:33:59.000 I uh had to fly to Chicago.

02:34:01.000 My family lives out there.

02:34:02.000 Love Chicago.

02:34:03.000 And when I um got my layover, well, from leaving.

02:34:06.000 I had a layover in Atlanta.

02:34:09.000 And it was only for like an hour, hour and a half.

02:34:12.000 Flew from Philly, Atlanta, from Atlanta to Chicago.

02:34:17.000 I had a dating app on my phone.

02:34:20.000 BLK. 0.62

02:34:21.000 Black. 0.93

02:34:21.000 Oh, black? 0.93

02:34:22.000 Yeah, it was it was on it was popping, right?

02:34:25.000 When I when I was black.

02:34:27.000 When I left Philly, I forgot that the app was on and tracking my location.

02:34:32.000 When I got to Atlanta, it picked up the fact that I was in Atlanta, and then when I got to Chicago, I turned my phone back on.

02:34:40.000 Had seventy women that had initiated contact with me.

02:34:45.000 Why?

02:34:46.000 Which of those 70 women do you think would get to dictate and tell me what I can do with women in the market? 1.00

02:34:54.000 I have been in one city for an hour and a half and I had landed and got in the car in Chicago.

02:35:02.000 That was six years ago.

02:35:05.000 What makes you think the overwhelming majority of women have any leverage over telling me what to do? 1.00

02:35:11.000 And again, I'm not a millionaire.

02:35:14.000 So if all almost eighty women are matching with me, choosing to initiate contact with me just by me getting on a plane and landing and then getting on another plane and landing with having no married. 0.87

02:35:27.000 Yes.

02:35:28.000 But the point that I'm trying to make is I don't think that y'all understand what this young lady, um uh Sunshine was struggling with this is why it's so important to not kind of go off of just that initial feeling of I'm gonna do what I want, I don't have to need a man, I don't need to change anything.

02:35:45.000 Because when we say your leverage is effectively gone at 24.

02:35:49.000 That's what I was trying to explain to her.

02:35:51.000 It's like the leverage is gone.

02:35:52.000 Like the beauty is common, and that's what men care about.

02:35:56.000 Okay.

02:35:57.000 Men only care about beauty only. 1.00

02:35:59.000 That is a m that is the main commodity that men care about to start with. 0.77

02:36:03.000 Who's gonna push your wheelchair? 1.00

02:36:04.000 Like, let's say you get paralyzed.

02:36:06.000 I mean, I like make a one of the ten bitches that you're you're seeing. 1.00

02:36:09.000 No, just yes.

02:36:13.000 So you have to think wrong, but who's gonna push your own?

02:36:15.000 Actually, statistically speaking, what yes, what one will.

02:36:17.000 But the point I'm trying to make is is that the main thing that men look for is beauty.

02:36:21.000 That's common.

02:36:22.000 That's what I'm trying to explain to you.

02:36:23.000 The things that you guys look for are harder to find because women's standards are higher. 1.00

02:36:26.000 But you're saying Okay.

02:36:28.000 You're saying that the main thing that men look for is beauty.

02:36:30.000 Yes, starting with it.

02:36:31.000 But then we were just talking about attractiveness for men.

02:36:35.000 So are we also talking about the physical attractive our handsomeness does not go as far, okay?

02:36:40.000 Here's the thing.

02:36:41.000 If I'm an ugly man or look or average looking or whatever.

02:36:46.000 This is what I'm trying to explain to you.

02:36:48.000 But that Chris, stop, bro.

02:36:48.000 Fresh.

02:36:51.000 I mean an ugly man, right, can make up for his ugliness in other ways.

02:36:55.000 He can make money, he can be charming, he can be charismatic, he could be funny, he can be famous, he can be a good person, he could be polite, he can be charitable.

02:37:03.000 There's many ways that a man can make up for being ugly.

02:37:05.000 But if a woman's ugly, it's over. 1.00

02:37:07.000 He she's not even gonna the guy's not even gonna want to talk to her if she's not if she's not attractive first. 1.00

02:37:12.000 At least a man can make up for his lack of low sexual marketing. 0.60

02:37:12.000 You understand? 0.60

02:37:17.000 No, but I mean, I've seen women that are not the best looking being. 1.00

02:37:21.000 Is that why are you making that?

02:37:24.000 Is that common is that the exception?

02:37:26.000 I never said I mean I never said it's common, but it's it all goes back to the natural buttons.

02:37:32.000 I don't know, you just told her not to get them.

02:37:34.000 I think it is more common for an average woman to be with a high earner. 1.00

02:37:37.000 An average looking woman to be with a high earner because she's gonna take more than what a supermodel pretty girl. 1.00

02:37:43.000 Well, I tell girls all the time.

02:37:44.000 I mean I tell you more.

02:37:45.000 I tell men that are higher earners to get more average girls. 1.00

02:37:48.000 Six to sevens.

02:37:49.000 You don't want to get like an eight, nine ten because these girls tend to come with problems. 1.00

02:37:53.000 But yeah, but they're gonna have side chicks that are eight, nines, and six. 1.00

02:37:56.000 You're just a side chick. 1.00

02:37:56.000 But those don't matter. 1.00

02:37:57.000 You're not benefiting.

02:37:59.000 You're if you're anyway.

02:37:59.000 Who cares?

02:38:04.000 No, no, no, no.

02:38:05.000 No, I'm just telling you what it is.

02:38:06.000 Like, look, if you want a guy that's gonna be more faithful, that's only that's gonna have no other women, get a more average man. 0.84

02:38:11.000 That's fine.

02:38:12.000 Yeah, not wrong with that.

02:38:13.000 That's not true.

02:38:14.000 You can have a completely high value man higher than yourself.

02:38:18.000 Who?

02:38:19.000 My ex, for example.

02:38:21.000 You're single.

02:38:21.000 Yeah, I said my ex.

02:38:23.000 Yeah.

02:38:23.000 So aren't you all together then?

02:38:25.000 Yeah, why?

02:38:26.000 To be honest, domestic violence, and I told you that in the beginning.

02:38:29.000 Because he like he wasn't high value.

02:38:30.000 I'm sorry.

02:38:31.000 He wasn't high value because it was domestic violence.

02:38:34.000 He punched the shit out of you or like some like verbally shit.

02:38:37.000 Yeah, I wouldn't see.

02:38:38.000 I don't want to get into it, but as far as being I'm not gonna tell you like what he did to me, but it wasn't high value.

02:38:44.000 Yeah, if you're punching chicks, bro.

02:38:45.000 I don't think you should down at the end right place to be doesn't put it in or screen.

02:38:51.000 You are a friend, all right?

02:38:52.000 Any dude that's punching girls is not higher status, bro.

02:38:54.000 Or uh so you don't higher value.

02:38:56.000 Look, look, I I don't see respecting women. 1.00

02:38:59.000 Yeah, I don't.

02:39:00.000 Uh and I'll explain what I mean by this.

02:39:02.000 Exactly.

02:39:02.000 Yeah, I don't.

02:39:03.000 And here's the thing.

02:39:04.000 This is precisely what you're saying.

02:39:05.000 Like I said, nobody's gonna push your wheelchair. 1.00

02:39:07.000 Um here, here's the thing.

02:39:08.000 You need to listen for two seconds before you just like respond.

02:39:10.000 You just talk to you just listen to respond.

02:39:12.000 When I say I don't respect women, I don't respect women as equals, and that's precisely how you want it. 1.00

02:39:17.000 Because if I respected you as an equal.

02:39:19.000 Listen.

02:39:20.000 That's not how I want it at all.

02:39:22.000 Well, you everybody just needs to go back to the traditional way of a woman being a woman and a man being a man. 0.98

02:39:28.000 But you want ten women at once. 0.97

02:39:30.000 So if you're not strapping, hold on, hold on, hold on.

02:39:32.000 Okay, you just said you want a traditional relationship, right?

02:39:35.000 Correct.

02:39:36.000 You do understand that a traditional relationship is inherently unequal.

02:39:39.000 Yes.

02:39:40.000 I do understand that.

02:39:41.000 Okay.

02:39:42.000 I am not trying to be able to.

02:39:43.000 So I don't respect women as equals. 1.00

02:39:44.000 Why?

02:39:44.000 Because I understand traditional relationship dynamics.

02:39:46.000 I am the leader.

02:39:47.000 I am the dominant force.

02:39:49.000 Understood.

02:39:49.000 But you said you don't respect women.

02:39:51.000 You didn't.

02:39:51.000 Let me finish what I was saying.

02:39:52.000 I said I don't respect them as equals because that's not what they want.

02:39:55.000 You guys don't want to equal, and you just said it yourself. 0.93

02:39:57.000 You admit it.

02:39:58.000 I want a traditional relationship.

02:39:59.000 A traditional relationship by definition is not equal.

02:40:02.000 Because I have far different burden than you do.

02:40:05.000 So we are not equal by any means of the str uh of the wheel.

02:40:07.000 I wouldn't want to be equal either. 0.98

02:40:09.000 What do you matter?

02:40:11.000 I don't respect women as equals. 1.00

02:40:12.000 That's what you want to do.

02:40:13.000 You say you you disrespect women, but you got to be able to do that. 1.00

02:40:15.000 No, I said I don't respect them as equals.

02:40:17.000 That's what I said.

02:40:18.000 But I get yeah, I get the status of the whole like.

02:40:21.000 That's not disrespecting them.

02:40:22.000 That's actually respecting them even more so because I understand their limitations.

02:40:25.000 If me and you were dating and someone broke into the house, I would be disrespecting you by saying, hey, I need you to go fight them with me.

02:40:31.000 I wouldn't be with you because you got ten bitches, which means you're not a good man. 1.00

02:40:35.000 Yes, it's a hypothetical.

02:40:37.000 Can you can you use your brain for two seconds and like get out of it?

02:40:39.000 It's not hypothetical.

02:40:40.000 Get out of your emotions for two seconds.

02:40:42.000 It's not real.

02:40:43.000 Hypothetically, again.

02:40:44.000 It is.

02:40:45.000 It's not.

02:40:46.000 Oh yeah?

02:40:47.000 No woman wants to be in that position where they're competing against ten different other women. 1.00

02:40:51.000 You guys are so fucking dumb.

02:40:52.000 You can't even go into the hypothetical world.

02:40:53.000 We're not talking about ten women.

02:40:54.000 I'm talking about I'm listening to the city.

02:40:56.000 Listen for two seconds.

02:40:57.000 You guys are so goddamn triggered about ten women.

02:41:00.000 Let's assume I'm monogamous to you.

02:41:02.000 Okay.

02:41:03.000 So then let me have ten girls. 1.00

02:41:04.000 Okay, no, no, no.

02:41:05.000 Let's assume that makes you a whore. 1.00

02:41:08.000 Anyway, let's assume.

02:41:09.000 Let's assume we're in a monogamous relationship.

02:41:11.000 Use your brain, ladies, and think for two seconds, not and just think and listen. 1.00

02:41:15.000 Monogamous relationship, traditional relationship.

02:41:18.000 I'm the breadwinner, you're at home.

02:41:20.000 So motherfuckers break in. 1.00

02:41:21.000 I tell you, I need you to come fight with me.

02:41:24.000 That's not fair to you as the female. 1.00

02:41:26.000 That is not your job.

02:41:27.000 I'm gonna tell you to go hide in the fucking closet.

02:41:29.000 I'm gonna go get the guns, and I'm gonna go deal with the problem.

02:41:31.000 You're gonna call 911 and stay in a safe area.

02:41:33.000 Lock yourself in a room.

02:41:35.000 It would be unfair.

02:41:36.000 It would be irresponsible.

02:41:38.000 It would be evil of me to tell you to come fight with me.

02:41:41.000 Because that is not your job.

02:41:42.000 Guess what?

02:41:43.000 That's not me treating you like an equal.

02:41:44.000 And that's precisely what you want.

02:41:46.000 You want me to be the one that's gonna be on the front line and deal with the problem while you stay in safety.

02:41:50.000 We are not equal.

02:41:53.000 That's what you want.

02:41:53.000 That's not what I want.

02:41:54.000 Oh, you want to go out and fight with me?

02:41:56.000 You want to go out and shoot these motherfuckers with me? 1.00

02:41:58.000 Yeah.

02:41:59.000 Hell no.

02:42:01.000 Where men got drafted, not women. 0.65

02:42:03.000 So then I'm giving you the inequality that you want.

02:42:06.000 That's fine.

02:42:07.000 I don't want to be equal with you.

02:42:08.000 So what?

02:42:09.000 So what the fuck are you bitching about? 1.00

02:42:10.000 I'm not bitching about anything.

02:42:11.000 You're just not a top tier mainland with 10 girls.

02:42:15.000 You're still stuck on a 10 girl shit. 0.99

02:42:19.000 That's that's way we're that's we're way better.

02:42:21.000 You keep talking about women and respect woman, honestly.

02:42:23.000 I have nothing left to say.

02:42:24.000 Look, he's rich as fuck, he can do whatever he wants.

02:42:26.000 Thank you.

02:42:27.000 It's not a yeah, I mean it's not a good thing.

02:42:32.000 I don't care.

02:42:36.000 Look, I'm just I'm just telling you, like, this is just how these guys think.

02:42:39.000 Like, you're so stuck on like 10 women or whatever.

02:42:41.000 Look, guys that have money a lot of times or have status, they're gonna have multiple women. 1.00

02:42:44.000 I'm just being honest about it.

02:42:45.000 Most guys are not monogamous and never happened to me.

02:42:48.000 Uh you think your guy never cheated on you? 0.91

02:42:50.000 Never never, baby.

02:42:52.000 You can put him on this camera right now, never.

02:42:54.000 Why would he have a reason to cheat on me?

02:42:56.000 I never.

02:42:56.000 Yeah, listen, let's trust the guy that beats on women.

02:42:58.000 His word matters, right?

02:42:59.000 Oh, you never cheated on me.

02:43:02.000 If you just punching me, I promise you're fucking other bitches. 1.00

02:43:05.000 Yo, you promise you single.

02:43:07.000 That's not a person of a good higher moral character.

02:43:09.000 That's not a person of high moral character.

02:43:11.000 If you're punching women, bruh, you are absolutely on some other bullshit.

02:43:14.000 Yeah, sorry.

02:43:15.000 If you think he was being, oh, you know what?

02:43:16.000 I draw the line of cheating.

02:43:19.000 But come over here.

02:43:21.000 Get the fuck out of here, man.

02:43:22.000 Then they're gonna write you and Ken at once.

02:43:24.000 Listen, paint her with the Hadoukins and all that. 0.99

02:43:26.000 Hold on, but I'm holding the bitches. 1.00

02:43:30.000 Like just be real, man.

02:43:32.000 Be real, bro.

02:43:33.000 Like, come on, man.

02:43:34.000 Oh, what?

02:43:35.000 You uh triggered or what uh are you talking to me?

02:43:35.000 What?

02:43:38.000 Yes, but I'm not triggered.

02:43:40.000 I'm like, I'm just looking for a time check.

02:43:42.000 Oh, Tom Because you're triggered.

02:43:42.000 That's all.

02:43:44.000 I'm not triggered, honey.

02:43:45.000 You told me 1230 and we drove three hours.

02:43:48.000 Oh, 1230.

02:43:49.000 You know what, girls? 0.99

02:43:50.000 It's two o'clock almost.

02:43:51.000 Is it really?

02:43:52.000 Yeah, leave.

02:43:53.000 I'm missing the club tonight.

02:43:54.000 Oh, yeah.

02:43:56.000 All right, who else?

02:43:56.000 Look, you look, honestly, you guys are gonna get you guys getting the best advice ever.

02:44:01.000 Yeah, right now.

02:44:04.000 Oh, you know what?

02:44:05.000 Ben?

02:44:05.000 Okay, Ben.

02:44:06.000 Oh, yeah, that's what we're supposed to do before, right?

02:44:08.000 All right, fine.

02:44:08.000 You know what?

02:44:09.000 Girls, um, Maren, finish. 0.93

02:44:10.000 And then girls.

02:44:11.000 No, I'm good.

02:44:12.000 She just like stuck at the 10 girls thing. 1.00

02:44:12.000 I'm good. 1.00

02:44:14.000 Like, that's what triggered her.

02:44:15.000 Not you.

02:44:15.000 You're your buddy over here.

02:44:16.000 It's fine, bro.

02:44:17.000 She's so mad about the 10 girl things.

02:44:19.000 I'm not mad about anything.

02:44:20.000 You live your life.

02:44:21.000 I I think um she's gonna be like, You couldn't even listen to any knowledge.

02:44:24.000 She didn't understand it.

02:44:27.000 I think it was a miscommunication because she did not when you you didn't say monogamous.

02:44:34.000 Yes.

02:44:34.000 Correct.

02:44:35.000 When she still kept bringing up these ten guys or ten girls, whatever.

02:44:39.000 Yep.

02:44:39.000 And she didn't know that you were just talking about an individual.

02:44:42.000 She wasn't trying to understand that it was probably just an individual and not ten people.

02:44:45.000 She needs to take the 10 person out of the consideration. 0.96

02:44:48.000 Well, no, and the other way.

02:44:49.000 The premise is basically I'm not gonna be monogamous to one woman.

02:44:52.000 I'm just not doing it.

02:44:53.000 But are you treating them?

02:44:55.000 Like, are they when they're with you?

02:44:56.000 Are you treating them out?

02:44:57.000 No, no, no.

02:44:59.000 Okay, the dungeons are happy.

02:45:01.000 So then they're happy.

02:45:03.000 Yeah.

02:45:03.000 Yes.

02:45:04.000 So you want to know why they're even more happy because I'm up front.

02:45:06.000 I tell them I'm not sure.

02:45:07.000 So are you a sugar daddy?

02:45:08.000 What the fuck?

02:45:08.000 No.

02:45:09.000 No.

02:45:10.000 I thought you didn't want a sugar daddy. 1.00

02:45:10.000 Never. 1.00

02:45:10.000 No. 1.00

02:45:12.000 Yeah, I yeah, it's not a big thing.

02:45:13.000 How do you keep up with 10 women then? 1.00

02:45:17.000 Put that on the shirt.

02:45:22.000 Look, look, look, look, I don't have I don't have like 10 girlfriends like you guys think.

02:45:27.000 I have girls that I deal with, whatever.

02:45:29.000 If if uh she passes her vetting phase, then I date her seriously for a bit.

02:45:32.000 Most girls don't make the vetting phase, so I don't take them seriously like that. 1.00

02:45:35.000 They just say, Oh, okay, so you haven't found the person that you want to deal with and actually make the change for either.

02:45:41.000 Yeah, but I'm not gonna change for a woman ever.

02:45:44.000 Ever.

02:45:45.000 That's the worst thing you can do, is change for a woman. 1.00

02:45:47.000 I mean, what if you say this now?

02:45:48.000 I mean, you don't first of all, you don't change for a woman.

02:45:53.000 Okay.

02:45:54.000 You change to become a better version of you.

02:45:56.000 Okay.

02:45:57.000 I'm doing that by myself, right?

02:45:58.000 Right.

02:45:58.000 So that's why she was attracted to me in the first place.

02:46:01.000 But then, but then what if you find someone?

02:46:03.000 You're saying this now, right?

02:46:05.000 And you're not you're not married, right?

02:46:07.000 Nope.

02:46:08.000 Okay, so what happens if you find someone along the path that inspires you to change?

02:46:16.000 What change for what?

02:46:18.000 Have like not have multiple girls?

02:46:19.000 Yeah.

02:46:20.000 I don't know.

02:46:21.000 Something that happened.

02:46:21.000 Yeah, I guess not have multiple girls or to change.

02:46:24.000 Alright, let me be very blunt about this.

02:46:26.000 Yeah.

02:46:26.000 We don't negotiate with terrorists.

02:46:28.000 We don't negotiate with women over here. 1.00

02:46:30.000 I don't look at women as equals. 1.00

02:46:31.000 I look at them as subordinates.

02:46:33.000 Oh the boss doesn't listen to what the employee thinks. 0.99

02:46:36.000 Your employee, you work for me or not.

02:46:38.000 This is a prestigious law firm.

02:46:39.000 You do what I say.

02:46:40.000 This is my code of conduct.

02:46:41.000 I don't fucking change for women ever.

02:46:43.000 But most women are turned on by that. 1.00

02:46:44.000 That's why they want the one person.

02:46:45.000 Precisely, thank you.

02:46:46.000 Yeah.

02:46:47.000 That is why I will never change.

02:46:49.000 That's why we want the one percent you see me. 0.69

02:46:51.000 I don't negotiate with women. 1.00

02:46:53.000 Negotiating with women is futile. 1.00

02:46:55.000 It will lead you to problems.

02:46:57.000 Like she sits here and says, Oh, you shouldn't have 10 girlfriends, blah, blah, blah.

02:47:00.000 But the reality is she doesn't want this equality that she's claiming.

02:47:04.000 And I don't mean to blame you.

02:47:05.000 To insult you.

02:47:06.000 But this is a female paradigm. 1.00

02:47:07.000 Did you notice that she was arguing for equality, but at the same time, I was making points that she doesn't want to be equal?

02:47:12.000 Do you notice that during that conversation?

02:47:14.000 Facts.

02:47:15.000 She literally got mad at me for practicing.

02:47:17.000 She said, You I said, I don't respect women as equals. 1.00

02:47:19.000 She went into a whole argument about why she thinks she's equal. 1.00

02:47:22.000 And then I said presented facts where you actually don't want to be equal.

02:47:24.000 She's like, You're right.

02:47:25.000 I don't want to be equal.

02:47:25.000 I'm like, so what are you arguing then?

02:47:27.000 That is female mindset. 1.00

02:47:28.000 Okay, so the reason why I'm asking is I have I like to read.

02:47:32.000 Like I like to read comments, I like to read in general.

02:47:35.000 Okay.

02:47:36.000 So good book is called uh my struggle.

02:47:38.000 In German.

02:47:38.000 Yeah.

02:47:40.000 call um Jeff.

02:47:47.000 We're comedians.

02:47:47.000 How do you feel about what he's saying?

02:47:50.000 Comedians.

02:47:50.000 Jeff.

02:47:51.000 Jeff, you're not referenced.

02:47:54.000 No answer.

02:48:00.000 Oh my god.

02:48:00.000 We're comedians.

02:48:02.000 No, because we have like a chance to do that.

02:48:04.000 I'll actually I'll actually answer that.

02:48:06.000 We have a happily married man.

02:48:07.000 Yeah, I'll and then a single man that has a lot of women that he deals with. 1.00

02:48:10.000 Yeah, I'll actually answer.

02:48:12.000 Number one, he's absolutely right that it's important for a man not to continually try to change and adjust for a woman because she a lot of times they actually end up losing respect for that man.

02:48:21.000 Okay.

02:48:21.000 Because they start to see he's malleable.

02:48:24.000 That I can make him do what he wants.

02:48:26.000 I can make him do what I want based on my feelings and emotions.

02:48:29.000 They want a man that's going to be a leader, even when her emotions are good or bad, he's he knows what to do.

02:48:36.000 So that's the first issue.

02:48:38.000 Number two, that story that I gave in regards to the 70 plus women that were matching with me when I was just traveling.

02:48:45.000 Okay.

02:48:46.000 That's the that's the reality of the market.

02:48:49.000 That's the reality of the market.

02:48:50.000 And it was created like that because as women started to continue to work, there's their their their uh their uh desires and expectations for men went up.

02:48:59.000 Now you have ladies like Sunshine over here saying they want a 1% man. 1.00

02:49:04.000 And a lot of you are talking and behaving as if you want a top one five, 10% man.

02:49:11.000 You all are effectively in the 90%.

02:49:13.000 But what just to clarify, just hear me clearly.

02:49:16.000 Yeah.

02:49:17.000 The person that's in the 90% doesn't have a lot of negotiating power over the person that's in the 1%.

02:49:23.000 Have you ever men and men how do we know that?

02:49:26.000 How do you know that?

02:49:28.000 Are you talking about the people here or just in general?

02:49:31.000 Okay, the people here and the people in general.

02:49:33.000 And what if how do we know this?

02:49:34.000 Because of the attraction triggers.

02:49:36.000 What you want and what I want are two totally different things.

02:49:39.000 You want someone generally, or maybe not you specifically, but everybody else at the table want somebody that's taller than them.

02:49:45.000 I would ideally want somebody that's shorter than me.

02:49:48.000 You may want somebody that's stronger than you.

02:49:50.000 I don't want to be dating with female bodybuilder. 1.00

02:49:52.000 You may care about his money.

02:49:54.000 I don't care about your money.

02:49:55.000 So the reality is when you keep trying to have these, well, well, what about men and equal this and equal that?

02:50:01.000 Nothing, nothing that we're looking at, nothing that we're before you respond, because you're as you're listening, instead of trying to engage to get ready to say the next part, realize what's what's being said.

02:50:16.000 Every point that's being made from here, here, and here, is often about how things aren't equal and how things aren't fair.

02:50:23.000 Right.

02:50:24.000 The entire time, no matter how Myron is trying to explain it, even if I've said it in my professional way, there's a reason why it's not equal, and it feels that way.

02:50:33.000 It wasn't equal five, eight years ago when you were getting more attention than you ever could, and I could barely get any.

02:50:39.000 Dick.

02:50:40.000 Okay.

02:50:41.000 So you have a run where things are going to be more in your advantage.

02:50:47.000 Okay.

02:50:48.000 That happens for us after 30.

02:50:50.000 Yep.

02:50:51.000 So everything you're attracted to and I'm attracted to are often the opposite.

02:50:55.000 Why does it happen before you're 30?

02:50:57.000 And also Because the opposite, but I'll pause right there and slow down right there.

02:51:03.000 Why would I say that?

02:51:03.000 Why?

02:51:04.000 Because an 18-year-old female and an 18-year-old male does not get the same attention in the dating market.

02:51:10.000 Right?

02:51:11.000 Everybody is if you ask why, it's it's quite obvious.

02:51:14.000 Because your main uh product that's being offered to the market is what?

02:51:20.000 Your youth and your beauty.

02:51:23.000 A 18-year-old man for most women in society, 25, 35, 45, 55, do they want an 18-year-old man? 0.95

02:51:31.000 No.

02:51:32.000 No.

02:51:34.000 Even if he's handsome.

02:51:35.000 Flip it.

02:51:36.000 Take the same exact example.

02:51:38.000 Uh an 18-year-old woman.

02:51:41.000 Would a 25-year-old want to deal with her? 0.62

02:51:44.000 Would a 35-year-old potentially want to deal with her? 0.88

02:51:46.000 So what we're saying is our attractions are different, different.

02:51:49.000 What we're drawn to is different.

02:51:51.000 Everything that we're looking for in each other.

02:51:53.000 So when you're talking about your money, what's equal, what's fair, it ain't.

02:51:58.000 And that's why.

02:51:59.000 And the women who get it, the women who understand the difference.

02:52:03.000 They were taught, they were trained, or they did what you said you were so good at earlier, the ability to observe and adjust.

02:52:09.000 Right.

02:52:10.000 If you have great observation skills, you should start screening out and looking at the women in your life, the women you follow on social media, and seeing are they having the outcomes I want versus the women who are wives or like many of you have said, This is what I want. 0.66

02:52:27.000 I would suggest you surround yourself with those types of women and start being influenced with them. 0.90

02:52:32.000 Because rather than go are if you're arguing with men on a platform about what men want, that lets you know how far off you are.

02:52:40.000 Yeah.

02:52:41.000 I'm not arguing about it.

02:52:43.000 And I'm saying that I'm not saying that as a direct shot to any of you.

02:52:46.000 I'm saying if you're going back and forth with men about what men want, and if a millionaire is telling you, and a non-millionaire is telling you.

02:52:54.000 I mean, like we all think the same.

02:52:56.000 Okay, regardless of income level.

02:52:57.000 Okay.

02:52:57.000 We really do all think the same.

02:52:58.000 That's it.

02:52:59.000 I think that everybody, everybody wants different things.

02:53:03.000 And I think majority of women want a man that's taller than them.

02:53:07.000 A majority of women want a man that makes a good amount of money. 1.00

02:53:09.000 A majority of men, majority of women want a man that's very charismatic that can hold a conversation.

02:53:14.000 So although everybody may want unique specific things, there's general things that both sexes tend to want.

02:53:19.000 The majority of men want a woman that's attractive.

02:53:22.000 Majority of men want a woman that's not gonna keep talking back. 1.00

02:53:24.000 That's not gonna keep trying to get the last word.

02:53:27.000 Look, I think you see.

02:53:30.000 People are looking for the same general things in the apartments.

02:53:32.000 Okay, can I say what I'm trying to say?

02:53:34.000 What I'm trying to say is Yes, things are not equal, but they can complement each other.

02:53:41.000 Agreed.

02:53:42.000 If a man wants a woman that's shorter, the woman probably wants a man that's taller. 1.00

02:53:48.000 Yeah.

02:53:50.000 And other things like that that you already mentioned, the woman is gonna want the opposite or something that complements that. 1.00

02:53:57.000 So what are we looking for?

02:53:59.000 Are we looking for just looks?

02:54:01.000 Are we like what are we in relationships for?

02:54:04.000 Looks is just the starting point.

02:54:05.000 I think what are we in relationships?

02:54:07.000 But in the first place, looks like the initial trip relationship.

02:54:10.000 The look, the looks is just the it's just what gets your foot in the door.

02:54:13.000 I think the conversation actually got diverted.

02:54:15.000 I think the whole point of this conversation is if you're looking for a husband, then you're not looking for the one percenter.

02:54:20.000 You're looking if you're looking for a man to marry, then stop looking for the one percenter. 1.00

02:54:24.000 Because if you're looking for a one percenter, you're gonna look to deal with certain things that you're just not ready to deal with. 0.52

02:54:28.000 Look for a man that you want to marry. 1.00

02:54:30.000 Look, find what is in your range that you're willing to deal with and that you want.

02:54:35.000 And I'm don't mean to I know we're running on time, but when you say women don't want to look for the one percenter, they shouldn't. 0.90

02:54:41.000 They don't need to.

02:54:42.000 What she just gave, what Sunshine just gave is a guy that makes 80k. 1.00

02:54:47.000 And it's five foot ten.

02:54:48.000 You're picking one.

02:54:49.000 And that's above the average American income.

02:54:51.000 But what I'm but what I'm saying is is But the man means needs to make more than me, and I make nearly that.

02:54:59.000 So, like I mean, I don't know at least 80K.

02:55:01.000 Yeah, so what happens?

02:55:02.000 No one is shitting on your standards.

02:55:03.000 No, fine, no.

02:55:04.000 He's simply saying, because you're being delusional about this, most women want what she wants. 0.95

02:55:08.000 If her but then you have to, as a woman, you have to tell look at yourself in the mirror and say, is what I'm wanting or asking for even what I want. 0.55

02:55:15.000 Oh, because if you're that's using your brain, and most women don't do that. 1.00

02:55:18.000 Okay, but if you're then you're wasting your time in your life, and it's I wish more of them thought the same thing.

02:55:22.000 Honestly, I but as you can see from during the course of this conversation, but if some women are trying to put the mirror up right now in this conversation, no, but as a high earning woman, more Most men want a high earning like most men who are married, if you look at the medium income in the household, they're married to wives who make almost the same amount of people. 0.91

02:55:37.000 We don't give a fuck about your income, man.

02:55:38.000 Holy shit.

02:55:39.000 So you still got the feminist propaganda plugged in you. 1.00

02:55:41.000 Like, no, no, I'm not saying that.

02:55:42.000 If you lost your job tomorrow, your guy would not give a fuck.

02:55:45.000 I'm not saying as a one percenter you wouldn't.

02:55:45.000 No, no, no.

02:55:47.000 But what I'm saying is a guy who makes 80k, who's an engineer and has a wife who's a nurse who's also making close to the same amount of income.

02:55:53.000 He never made the decision to date her, deal with her, everyone's not.

02:55:56.000 No, no, no, no.

02:55:57.000 I'm not saying that.

02:55:58.000 But that's the point I'm making.

02:55:59.000 So you you almost have to stop referencing women's money to understand men's perspective.

02:56:03.000 Your money means nothing.

02:56:05.000 Take the money out of the question.

02:56:06.000 Yeah.

02:56:07.000 If my wife lost her job today, thank you.

02:56:10.000 That would not change my feelings about her now or six months from now.

02:56:15.000 If I lost my job today, six months from now, she's gonna start scratching. 1.00

02:56:21.000 Really starting to reevaluate if this is the guy for me long term, and that's a totally normal thing.

02:56:21.000 Yep.

02:56:26.000 And healthy too.

02:56:27.000 Just by default of the fact that typically what what you're actually speaking to is couples where both parties tend to make more money, especially the higher up they go in income, the less likely they are to divorce.

02:56:38.000 That that doesn't have any bearing on why it is he chose to stay with her.

02:56:42.000 It just so happens that people who tend to make really great decisions economically, financially, and if they get together and make it past, I think it's five or seven year period, they're statistically much better at staying long term than people where one person's making a certain amount and the other person's making nothing, or both people are broke.

02:57:00.000 But I'm not sure.

02:57:00.000 That's all that means.

02:57:01.000 But the reason why he's staying with her, the reason why he's with her has nothing to do with them her money.

02:57:07.000 As long as we if we can establish that, then that would re-change.

02:57:11.000 Because remember, you're giving advice from something you haven't done and have an experience yet.

02:57:16.000 You haven't counseled married couples.

02:57:19.000 You are not married.

02:57:20.000 So when you're putting things out on the internet over a microphone in front of other women who aren't even having what you have right now. 1.00

02:57:27.000 Yeah.

02:57:27.000 Well, I'm trying to tell the privilege of a higher earner.

02:57:29.000 Yeah.

02:57:30.000 When I'm saying, No, no, no, I'm not speaking out of privilege.

02:57:32.000 I'm speaking out of the origin the origin of the conversation got diverted.

02:57:36.000 So we were talking about basically you women being delusional and wanting a high percent earner and not being able to get that because their standards are all fucked up, and then they're not they're like, oh, I want a high percent earner, but I don't want to deal with what comes with that. 0.92

02:57:48.000 That was like the or that was the basis of the conversation.

02:57:51.000 So I was looking back to that.

02:57:52.000 But in regards to the thing, the conversation got diverted.

02:57:54.000 Yes, and I agree.

02:57:55.000 And but back to your second piece, ladies, you can work if you want to work. 1.00

02:57:59.000 You can get whatever job you want to make, make as much money as you want.

02:58:02.000 But when you saw the calculator that shows you very clearly how hard it is to find that man, I'm just basically suggesting if you find him.

02:58:12.000 I want to know what the one percent woman is. 1.00

02:58:13.000 If it doesn't exist, it doesn't exist.

02:58:17.000 It doesn't exist because you're not a one percent woman unless you're with a one percent man. 1.00

02:58:20.000 Do you do you ladies understand that a woman is trying to take a man's last name? 0.98

02:58:24.000 Your identity doesn't matter. 0.99

02:58:26.000 Your career doesn't matter, your background doesn't matter. 0.99

02:58:28.000 All that matters is can you get an attractive guy and have a family?

02:58:32.000 That's woman's legacy. 1.00

02:58:32.000 Yeah. 1.00

02:58:32.000 That's what matters. 1.00

02:58:34.000 No one says, oh man, what was her career?

02:58:36.000 What did she do? 0.80

02:58:36.000 Nobody gives a fuck. 0.80

02:58:37.000 Nobody cares.

02:58:38.000 A man's last name carries on, not a woman's for a reason. 1.00

02:58:41.000 And you all want to take that man's last name.

02:58:44.000 My mom didn't take my dad's last name, and they've been together and very much in love as I'm not sure.

02:58:49.000 Rare situation almost never fucking happens.

02:58:52.000 How old is your mom?

02:58:53.000 Yes, yeah, 45.

02:58:54.000 Comes from a different era.

02:58:55.000 Women aren't doing that shit no more. 1.00

02:58:57.000 They're not making it work with a guy that, you know, oh, whatever.

02:59:00.000 Like women want a guy who's superior in every way. 1.00

02:59:03.000 Does your guy make does your dad make more money than her?

02:59:05.000 Or at least in the beginning?

02:59:07.000 I just don't ask those questions either.

02:59:09.000 That's gotta be some dynamic as to why they've been lasting for so long.

02:59:13.000 Like in general, uh it look.

02:59:15.000 I've seen that they're very good.

02:59:16.000 Your situation is a rare situation, but women want to typically get married and take a man's last name. 1.00

02:59:21.000 No one cares about a woman's last name. 0.77

02:59:23.000 We don't take women's last names on. 1.00

02:59:24.000 You guys want to take our last name on, which means you need to go ahead and find a guy that's better than you to take on that last name so you can be proud.

02:59:30.000 No one cares about a woman's career. 1.00

02:59:31.000 I'm sorry.

02:59:32.000 It does not affect your ability to find a man.

02:59:34.000 You lose your job tomorrow, Rolls Royce guy ain't going nowhere.

02:59:36.000 Okay.

02:59:36.000 Yep.

02:59:37.000 Guy that you're with, you decide to go and say I don't want to work no more, he's probably not gonna leave you.

02:59:41.000 Done.

02:59:41.000 Right?

02:59:42.000 Your guy.

02:59:42.000 Yep.

02:59:43.000 You ladies, you can work at McDonald's, you work at McDonald's, you guys will still be able to find dates. 1.00

02:59:47.000 Yep.

02:59:48.000 No, it's not changing your ability to find a guy.

02:59:48.000 Right?

02:59:51.000 But ours is.

02:59:52.000 So this whole concept of like I'm uh uh whose question is this one, I don't know.

03:00:02.000 Well, I need to know which one was a black girl so I can get rid of it. 1.00

03:00:04.000 Oh Yeah, that's why I'm that's what I'm trying to.

03:00:08.000 Wait, why would you get rid of it?

03:00:09.000 Of the question.

03:00:10.000 The black girl, she's not here. 0.99

03:00:10.000 She's not. 0.99

03:00:13.000 Aren't they anonymous though?

03:00:15.000 Anyways.

03:00:16.000 Yeah, but some girls like to figure say there it was them after. 1.00

03:00:19.000 They get the answer.

03:00:20.000 We're triggered you so bad that you started a show hating on women.

03:00:20.000 Alright.

03:00:24.000 Yeah, yeah.

03:00:25.000 That question ain't for me.

03:00:26.000 Yeah.

03:00:27.000 Spark the black girl. 1.00

03:00:29.000 Yeah, it's probably that's what I was gonna say.

03:00:30.000 This gotta be the black girl. 1.00

03:00:31.000 Oh, me, oh me.

03:00:33.000 Um here's the thing.

03:00:34.000 Uh the show, us um making fun of women or or doing this nighttime show.

03:00:38.000 This is just a part of what we do.

03:00:39.000 Honestly, I don't really like talking to all that much because I think women are generally stupid. 1.00

03:00:43.000 I do my political show.

03:00:43.000 I enjoy doing that way more than doing this and talking to women, because women are very hard headed and don't understand certain dynamics and they're not logically sound, no offense.

03:00:50.000 But what I've noticed is the prettier that you guys tend to be, the less logically sound you guys are.

03:00:54.000 Like these two, you guys are good looking.

03:00:55.000 Uh, but you guys are not that smart, no offense.

03:00:58.000 But that's okay though.

03:00:59.000 You guys will be fine in life.

03:01:00.000 Um Okay.

03:01:02.000 Have you ever given a female grace or you have hater on everyone?

03:01:05.000 Oh yeah, yeah.

03:01:06.000 Uh um Christ, yeah.

03:01:07.000 Is this your questions?

03:01:09.000 No.

03:01:09.000 No, probably I'm just trying to read it.

03:01:11.000 Um what does your dream girl look like?

03:01:14.000 Um, tight, hot, pretty, quiet, quiet and out of whore. 1.00

03:01:19.000 Yeah.

03:01:19.000 And out of horror.

03:01:20.000 That's a big one, bro.

03:01:21.000 Jeff?

03:01:21.000 My wife.

03:01:22.000 Oh, okay.

03:01:25.000 I love that for you.

03:01:26.000 Um, ladies, keep in mind that us getting married is not the goal.

03:01:31.000 That's your job to get married. 1.00

03:01:32.000 Yeah, facts.

03:01:33.000 I mean, it's your job to lock us down and get us to propose.

03:01:36.000 Not the other way around.

03:01:37.000 Sure.

03:01:38.000 Cause like I've noticed that I don't I don't know if you notice it, like the girls are kind of like, oh yeah, you're married. 0.99

03:01:41.000 That's so great.

03:01:42.000 No.

03:01:42.000 That's his wife that did a good job.

03:01:44.000 He but he's happily married.

03:01:46.000 That's why I'm saying that.

03:01:47.000 But it's not his job to get married, is my point.

03:01:49.000 Yeah.

03:01:49.000 Cause women tend to be like, oh, you're married?

03:01:51.000 Like you because I asked I noticed this a few times.

03:01:53.000 A couple of you guys asked him, Are you married?

03:01:54.000 From a qualifying position, as if his duty is to get married.

03:01:57.000 His duty is not to get married.

03:01:59.000 It's your job to get married.

03:02:01.000 So when you ask a guy, oh, are you married?

03:02:03.000 That's not really uh like I gotcha.

03:02:05.000 Like if a guy says no, I'm not married, good.

03:02:07.000 That's like me, I'm not you.

03:02:09.000 Do you fuck people?

03:02:10.000 Who are you nigga? 1.00

03:02:12.000 Do you fuck people?

03:02:14.000 Retarded question, right? 0.97

03:02:15.000 That's a retarded question, right? 1.00

03:02:17.000 No, no, no, no.

03:02:18.000 Do you agree that that was a stupid question I just gave you?

03:02:20.000 No, Mark?

03:02:21.000 Sure.

03:02:21.000 Retarded, right?

03:02:22.000 Why is it retarded? 1.00

03:02:24.000 Because if I'm in a relationship, then fair.

03:02:28.000 And also, you're a woman, young, fairly attractive.

03:02:31.000 You can get laid whenever you want, right?

03:02:33.000 Fucking the lattice.

03:02:34.000 Exactly.

03:02:34.000 So a woman saying that a woman asking me if I'm married when I can marry a girl easily because girls want to get married to me.

03:02:41.000 Um, that's a retarded question. 0.99

03:02:42.000 Just like me asking you if you're fucking people. 1.00

03:02:44.000 Like, it's not it's my job to get laid, it's your job to get married. 0.74

03:02:47.000 Does that make sense?

03:02:48.000 So it's not a burn if a guy's single, unless he's a loser, of course.

03:02:51.000 So would you say, like, uh out of all the time?

03:02:54.000 A man I'll be honest with you, a man's job is to be in a position where women would want to marry him. 0.92

03:02:59.000 Oh that doesn't mean that he has to.

03:03:01.000 Oh.

03:03:02.000 That's all it is.

03:03:02.000 Like, he just needs to be in the position where women actually want.

03:03:06.000 Don't do the remember, don't do the what about isn't.

03:03:08.000 No, no, no.

03:03:10.000 A woman also has to do the things it that she needs to do in order to be a married woman. 1.00

03:03:15.000 Yeah, but she has to get married. 1.00

03:03:17.000 When all these women brag about all the proposals they got, but you're not going to be able to do that. 0.98

03:03:20.000 That's bragging about a job.

03:03:21.000 Hold on, that's hold on.

03:03:23.000 This is clarify.

03:03:24.000 Hear me out.

03:03:25.000 Okay.

03:03:25.000 Are you a player?

03:03:26.000 The way in which you're judged, it remember we're judged by two totally different screening systems.

03:03:32.000 So from a female perspective, if the goal is to get married and get his last name, and you don't get that, you've effectively failed. 1.00

03:03:41.000 But for us, you judge us totally differently.

03:03:44.000 As an example, when it comes to sex, if I find out you've only been with one man or no man, I'm running to try to lock you down immediately.

03:03:52.000 Yep.

03:03:52.000 If you find out I'm a virgin, you're gonna be questioning what's wrong.

03:03:56.000 Why is he a virgin at 25?

03:03:58.000 Why is he a virgin at 30?

03:04:00.000 What's wrong with him?

03:04:01.000 Why does nobody else want him?

03:04:02.000 Yeah, yeah, no.

03:04:03.000 Oh, that's the thing.

03:04:05.000 The reality is we have two totally different standards.

03:04:07.000 Again, if I had three or four women that all wanted to pursue wanted me to marry them, that's excellent.

03:04:14.000 But if but if no men wants to marry you, that's a reflection of something going on with you.

03:04:18.000 Alright, so why did you want to um marry your wife? 0.51

03:04:22.000 Because she was rare in America.

03:04:25.000 Top three.

03:04:26.000 Uh femininity. 1.00

03:04:27.000 Okay.

03:04:28.000 Um, meaning what though?

03:04:30.000 Softness, uh, the willingness to do some some of the traditional roles.

03:04:34.000 Um I mean, we're in America in 2025.

03:04:36.000 I'm not looking at like I need her to just go.

03:04:39.000 She cooks.

03:04:40.000 Normal stuff.

03:04:41.000 Cooks, cleans.

03:04:42.000 Oh, it's all normal?

03:04:43.000 No, but I'm s yeah, I'm I guess it's not a normal today.

03:04:47.000 But in the sense of like a lot of the things that guys are fighting women to try to get them to do, it was very natural and normal for her.

03:04:54.000 Plus, what?

03:04:54.000 What?

03:04:54.000 Uh?

03:04:56.000 It was very natural and normal for her.

03:04:58.000 Now the real key was I wanted a woman that was very intelligent. 1.00

03:05:02.000 Okay.

03:05:02.000 Because one of the things I think a lot of guys don't think about is they're so interested in how she looks, they don't think about the fact that this is the woman that's going to be raising your child.

03:05:10.000 Exactly.

03:05:12.000 So again, just to clear no, just to clarify, when Myron, uh Chris, myself, and other people are trying to explain, the beauty is just the piece that gets you in the door.

03:05:23.000 We obviously care about more than she's like.

03:05:25.000 She has the same intellect, but she wasn't attractive. 1.00

03:05:27.000 They would not be together.

03:05:29.000 Do you understand that?

03:05:29.000 Like I said to be attracted to her to even get to that.

03:05:33.000 You know what?

03:05:33.000 Let me just fuck it.

03:05:34.000 You're in a relationship that where you don't like your fucking guy.

03:05:36.000 It's very fucking clear right now, and I can see it.

03:05:38.000 Your guy's equal to you in every single way.

03:05:39.000 That's why you have this blank slate equalism problem.

03:05:42.000 I've noticed that you've had on let me let me because I've been studying your ass the whole time. 0.84

03:05:46.000 I love that.

03:05:47.000 You have a flawed logic of equality between men and women. 0.97

03:05:51.000 And this stems from your relationship, which is why you're not actually pleased with your relationship with what's going on.

03:05:56.000 Because you hold your man to the same standard that he holds you to.

03:05:59.000 You guys have some type of weird partnership where you guys are equal.

03:06:02.000 You maybe you brought into the whole partnership bullshit of we're 50-50 partners, whatever, which is a flawed relationship dynamic in the first place.

03:06:08.000 But I'm starting to see here that this sounds like fucking Chinese to you because it's like your guy treats you like an equal.

03:06:14.000 And that is why you don't want to claim that you're in a long-term relationship with that guy.

03:06:17.000 So something is off here.

03:06:19.000 Either you're lying about your relationship, you're not satisfied in your relationship, or a combination of them.

03:06:24.000 Maybe you guys are on a break or whatever.

03:06:25.000 But something is incredibly off here because your dynamic understanding of relationships is completely flawed.

03:06:32.000 And it comes from probably the relationship that you have right now that you're not satisfied with, which is an egalitarian relationship.

03:06:36.000 100%.

03:06:37.000 Everything that you say that you argue comes from blank.

03:06:41.000 Yeah, blank slate theory.

03:06:42.000 And it's and it's the and it's the thing that feminism taught the population, which is every that work that all said anything about equality. 1.00

03:06:50.000 I literally didn't understand.

03:06:51.000 Every talking point has literally been about things not being equal.

03:06:55.000 Things are not equal.

03:06:57.000 And you're the only one that has a problem with that.

03:06:59.000 No, I'm not.

03:07:00.000 Okay.

03:07:01.000 I literally never said I'm not sure.

03:07:02.000 Do you prefer a women to be dominant or feminine? 0.98

03:07:04.000 That's funny.

03:07:05.000 Who asked this one?

03:07:06.000 I gotta know.

03:07:06.000 You asked this one?

03:07:08.000 Sure.

03:07:08.000 No.

03:07:09.000 Black? 0.74

03:07:10.000 No.

03:07:10.000 I feel like it was her mind.

03:07:11.000 I don't know.

03:07:12.000 Yeah, it probably wasn't.

03:07:12.000 No, no, it wasn't.

03:07:14.000 Alright, forever West's question.

03:07:15.000 Let me ask you this.

03:07:16.000 Would you want a guy that gets his nails painted pink every week? 1.00

03:07:21.000 But he still makes money still attractive.

03:07:24.000 Would you guys want that?

03:07:24.000 Okay.

03:07:25.000 We don't want dominant women. 1.00

03:07:26.000 Um what's something most guys wish women understood about men, but never said out loud?

03:07:32.000 This is a damn good question.

03:07:33.000 You want to hit that?

03:07:34.000 Huh?

03:07:34.000 Oh, this is good?

03:07:35.000 Oh, okay.

03:07:35.000 Smartest thing.

03:07:36.000 You said all day.

03:07:37.000 She had to write this one down, though.

03:07:38.000 So I guess it can't be hard.

03:07:42.000 Yeah, Myron.

03:07:43.000 I'll have you um answer this one.

03:07:45.000 What's something most guys wish women understood about them?

03:07:48.000 And you've done a million times.

03:07:50.000 I feel like we've said a bunch of the answers to this already.

03:07:52.000 Yeah.

03:07:52.000 But the number one is the belief that our roles are not the same and we're not equal.

03:07:59.000 Correct.

03:07:59.000 Men would love much of our arguments, much of us clashing, much of us going back and forth, is because of the blank swing theory that convinces you that all things are equal and fair and should be exact.

03:08:11.000 Like that's what most of the competition and arguments in the house, outside the house, on podcasts, is because of this back and forth of you don't understand my role and you don't understand your role.

03:08:23.000 Okay, what is your role?

03:08:24.000 You should know the role.

03:08:26.000 The role should be outlined already before you guys should even step into the relationship.

03:08:30.000 Yeah, so most men would love it if... 0.95

03:08:34.000 If one less thing we gotta argue about is who's supposed to be doing what in the relationship.

03:08:40.000 Wonderful.

03:08:41.000 We we would love it if you kind of just got with pick the guy whose program you already trust and whose leadership you can follow.

03:08:47.000 Right versus undermining constantly challenging it.

03:08:50.000 If that makes sense.

03:08:51.000 Yeah.

03:08:52.000 That's what we want.

03:08:53.000 We want to get with the woman who trusts us, who believes in us, who wants to be led by us.

03:08:59.000 We don't want to get With the woman who acts like that at the beginning, and then once she gets in the relationship or gets the ring or gets the kids, then she wants to do this power dynamic of fighting back and forth of who gets to dictate where we live. 1.00

03:09:11.000 How does it happen?

03:09:12.000 Yeah.

03:09:13.000 Um his weakness of not standing firm on the type of woman that can actually he can actually do life with, and her lying to herself.

03:09:23.000 What about what he said not being what he does?

03:09:28.000 In terms of his actions not matching his words.

03:09:30.000 Correct.

03:09:30.000 I mean, he the um liar.

03:09:32.000 And then I never said anything about being sexual either.

03:09:34.000 Well, what I will say is complimentary.

03:09:36.000 Yeah, answering your question.

03:09:37.000 Very, very few men live a lie very long term.

03:09:42.000 Okay.

03:09:43.000 And that's most people.

03:09:44.000 Most people, after about three to six months, start showing you straight traits and signs of what you end up leaving them for later on.

03:09:51.000 Three, four, five years later.

03:09:52.000 So the red flags that you left the last relationship for, you knew those red flags long before you actually left.

03:09:58.000 Yes, I did.

03:09:59.000 Year five.

03:10:00.000 Yeah, five.

03:10:00.000 Yeah.

03:10:01.000 I I realized it.

03:10:02.000 Yeah.

03:10:03.000 And if me and her was to do a therapy session, I would start to learn even more information about the type of guy he was, uh, different things he was doing, and we'll start realizing, oh, there was even signs even earlier than the five-year mark.

03:10:18.000 Yes, because his household, his mom is the earner, and his dad is not the earner.

03:10:22.000 His dad is a stay-at-home dad.

03:10:23.000 All right, so really weird.

03:10:25.000 He grew up.

03:10:25.000 So he grew up in an environment where he wasn't used to even seeing a man have to provide.

03:10:29.000 What type of dynamics could that play into his view of leadership, initiative, being proactive, being wanting to be the like that thing that's supposed to be born inside of each man?

03:10:41.000 It's this was from the beginning.

03:10:42.000 She she's younger.

03:10:44.000 We didn't really realize that when I was 15.

03:10:46.000 I wasn't even looking at that.

03:10:46.000 I was thinking about that.

03:10:49.000 Uh, here's a good question.

03:10:50.000 Uh, would you prefer a less who asked this crunch?

03:10:52.000 This is actually a good question.

03:10:53.000 Would you prefer a less attractive girl if she was a virgin and just for you, or a 10 out of 10, but she's a hoe? 1.00

03:11:00.000 Good question.

03:11:00.000 Oh.

03:11:01.000 Question.

03:11:01.000 Um the virgin.

03:11:03.000 And I and that, and I and I say that to let you guys know how much men value modesty.

03:11:03.000 Virgin.

03:11:08.000 For a long-term relationship.

03:11:10.000 Oh, whore. 1.00

03:11:10.000 For sex, they don't care. 1.00

03:11:11.000 I love it.

03:11:12.000 But when it comes to like, oh, this is my girlfriend, this is who I'm gonna introduce people to, who's this who I'm gonna introduce is my girlfriend, etc.

03:11:18.000 Modesty matters a lot.

03:11:19.000 Yeah.

03:11:19.000 So that that is how important.

03:11:21.000 I I would say most men will take a five or a six.

03:11:25.000 Yep.

03:11:26.000 That is not a whore that's not gonna embarrass them over a girl that is a 10 out of 10 model, but a three or four. 1.00

03:11:32.000 Yep.

03:11:33.000 That's how important modesty is to us.

03:11:34.000 Yeah.

03:11:34.000 Okay.

03:11:35.000 Next.

03:11:35.000 Uh, okay.

03:11:36.000 Uh, what makes you feel appreciated and seen as a man by a woman?

03:11:40.000 You know what?

03:11:40.000 I'll have you answer that because you could probably give a good more because I can think of what I would, but I think you give a better answer in general.

03:11:46.000 Uh a few, because I I mean there's a million things that I think guys can really appreciate.

03:11:51.000 But number one is the value of his voice.

03:11:53.000 Whose voice matters the most in your relationship?

03:11:57.000 Is it your girlfriend?

03:11:58.000 Right.

03:11:58.000 Is it your family?

03:12:00.000 Right.

03:12:00.000 Is it social media?

03:12:01.000 Right, Jeff, yeah.

03:12:02.000 Well, whose voice matters the most in your relationship or your household.

03:12:06.000 That's a big, big thing to most men because that's often the thing that undermines the relationship.

03:12:11.000 A woman everybody else's input, everybody else's voice above his and his leadership. 0.95

03:12:16.000 That's number one.

03:12:18.000 Number two, his image.

03:12:20.000 Most you just said men ego, the woman by a man's side shapes how society sees him. 1.00

03:12:30.000 There's a reason why there's a reason why uh Will Smith is not viewed and treated as we view and treat Denzel Washington.

03:12:39.000 And it's not because of their acting careers or their accolades or how many blockbusters they sold.

03:12:44.000 It's because of the woman next to him.

03:12:46.000 Yep.

03:12:47.000 Steph Curry is way above in leagues the woman he's with.

03:12:52.000 Way above.

03:12:53.000 Aisha.

03:12:54.000 Aisha Curry.

03:12:56.000 Nah, I don't do that.

03:12:57.000 I'm not gonna call her that.

03:12:58.000 What I will say is what I will say is she clearly isn't aware of where she is in the pecking order of you're an average-looking woman with a mega superstar, one of the most famous people in the planet. 0.99

03:13:12.000 So he's out of the way, and the way in which you conduct yourself and talk about this man and throw him under the bus repeatedly to try to make him look bad.

03:13:19.000 That's all.

03:13:20.000 Will Smith is a multimillionaire, and there's men that's like me that will never trade places with him because of the woman he's with.

03:13:27.000 Yeah.

03:13:28.000 Fantastic point.

03:13:29.000 All the Money that he has.

03:13:31.000 I don't think anybody would want to be But that's the point.

03:13:33.000 It's because of the woman he's with.

03:13:35.000 His image matters.

03:13:37.000 And and I want to add to that real quick.

03:13:38.000 This is how important that is, right?

03:13:40.000 Because you asked that good question.

03:13:41.000 I really want to hammer this home for women. 1.00

03:13:43.000 Kobe Bryant cheated on his wife.

03:13:45.000 She didn't lose any credibility.

03:13:46.000 Vanessa Bryant to this day is still revered as like she stuck by him when he had that whole scandal and he had sex with that girl, like what, 20 years ago now at this point.

03:13:53.000 R.I.P. to Kobe Bryant.

03:13:54.000 Right?

03:13:55.000 Didn't lose any credibility.

03:13:56.000 However, I love that you brought the Will Smith thing up.

03:13:59.000 Will Smith's credibility is tarnished because of his stupid ass wife. 1.00

03:14:02.000 No one remembers Fresh Prince of Belair, nor remembers the rap music number and no one remembers any of that shit.

03:14:08.000 Because I you can make the argument, and I'm glad that you brought up Denzel.

03:14:11.000 You can make the argument that Will Smith has actually had better movies than Denzel Washington who's had more.

03:14:16.000 Bigger blockbusters.

03:14:16.000 You can make that argument, but no one thinks of it that way because of Jada and the red table.

03:14:21.000 There you go.

03:14:21.000 Oh, in other words, a woman can destroy your fucking legacy.

03:14:25.000 You can build it up or you can tear it down.

03:14:27.000 Oh sure.

03:14:27.000 But those are the only two options when it comes to that man.

03:14:30.000 So the way you dress, the way you talk, the way you carry yourself, and what you display on social media is a reflection of his image.

03:14:38.000 Yeah.

03:14:38.000 So factor that in when you think, oh, I'm gonna do what I want, where what I want, act how I want.

03:14:43.000 You should act that way when you're single.

03:14:46.000 When you decide you want to be with a man, you're taking his last name and now a representation of him.

03:14:51.000 Yep.

03:14:51.000 And even what you do when you were single could come back and hurt him if it was fucking crazy.

03:14:56.000 So yeah, I think um, you know, a man's reputation could be destroyed by a woman, but a woman's reputation is never really gonna be destroyed by a man.

03:15:02.000 Cardi B spine, offset looks crazy.

03:15:05.000 Right?

03:15:06.000 So okay.

03:15:07.000 Do you think people actually uh do you think people today actually want success, or do we just want the freedom to live on our own terms?

03:15:14.000 Does success even mean the same thing it used to?

03:15:16.000 So told, yeah.

03:15:18.000 Um it depends on a person.

03:15:20.000 Uh, you know, obviously the cost of living is going up.

03:15:22.000 You know, I would say most people want I I think we've lied to a lot of people.

03:15:25.000 I'll I'll be the first one to tell you guys.

03:15:27.000 I came from the professional world I worked in law enforcement before this.

03:15:30.000 This whole influencer or laptop lifestyle shit, it's all a fucking lie.

03:15:34.000 Yeah, it is.

03:15:34.000 Most people are not gonna be influencers from you know, become millionaire influencers and trade crypto or make all this money.

03:15:41.000 Like, you're gonna need to get a skill set, get a job, yeah, be happy making six figures a year, maybe you know, may maybe you can you know invest in real estate, whatever, and become rich that way.

03:15:50.000 But this whole fast path of wealth, it's it's a fucking lie.

03:15:54.000 And this whole like, I'm gonna be free, it's very difficult to attain nowadays unless you have like some sensational skill set.

03:16:00.000 But there's nothing wrong with working a regular job, and you can become financially free from working a regular job.

03:16:04.000 It might take longer, but this whole lie of a laptop lifestyle or becoming a millionaire through a guru's course, it's not true.

03:16:10.000 It's a lie.

03:16:12.000 Yeah.

03:16:13.000 Um Do you think men are taught how to express emotions the right way?

03:16:18.000 This is a good question.

03:16:19.000 I don't think men should ever express emotions around women.

03:16:21.000 They're not taught how to express it the right way for you.

03:16:24.000 Okay?

03:16:24.000 And I'll tell you what I mean by this.

03:16:27.000 When men express emotions, right? 0.95

03:16:29.000 It comes out raw, weird, awkward.

03:16:30.000 We're not used to doing it, right?

03:16:32.000 There's nothing more disgusting than a man crying in my eyes, right? 0.99

03:16:35.000 It's kind of weird.

03:16:35.000 And I tell you guys all the time, look, don't cry in front of your girl.

03:16:38.000 Avoid it, right?

03:16:40.000 Huh?

03:16:40.000 Why?

03:16:41.000 Because women will look at you differently after that. 1.00

03:16:43.000 They'll always look at you differently.

03:16:44.000 Now, with that said, right, having a little bit of compassion, being sad or whatever, family member dying, whatever, there's you know, obviously exceptions to that.

03:16:53.000 But what I've noticed is like if you like are crying from a position of weakness where it's like, fuck man, I don't got a job, I can't make this all my god, I can't take it anymore.

03:17:00.000 A lot of girls are gonna look at that like, yo, this guy's a fucking bitch. 1.00

03:17:03.000 I can't be with this guy.

03:17:04.000 He look at him, he's breaking down.

03:17:06.000 Like, what the hell?

03:17:07.000 Is it like a multiple?

03:17:08.000 I asked that question, but is it like a multiple time thing?

03:17:11.000 Like, if you break down in front of your significant other one time, is that like a make or break or no?

03:17:16.000 I don't think it's a make or break.

03:17:17.000 I think every guy gets like one or two passes, but I'm I would be lying if I said women are gonna even give you one pass. 1.00

03:17:23.000 There's some girls out there that might see you cry once. 1.00

03:17:27.000 And you and unfortunately, because of that situation is so unique.

03:17:31.000 Men don't know what's what that's going to be for the woman in front of him. 0.75

03:17:35.000 Yeah, yeah.

03:17:36.000 So he could he could cry over anything, have a moment, and it sows seeds of doubt in her about his ability to lead.

03:17:43.000 Because she's like, if he's crying over this, well, what what happens if things get tough or even rougher?

03:17:49.000 What happens if I lose my job?

03:17:51.000 What happens if this happened?

03:17:52.000 So now she spirals with the overthinking, constantly, you know, reevaluating what, and then what happens?

03:17:58.000 She starts to look elsewhere.

03:18:00.000 And at best, she's thinking, I don't know if I can trust him, but at best, I I'm probably gonna be better on my own with another man.

03:18:07.000 So that's actually what what some of this comes from.

03:18:10.000 And here's the scary part too.

03:18:11.000 Though You won't know how the woman doesn't know how she responds to the crying until it happens.

03:18:16.000 Yes.

03:18:16.000 That's the other thing.

03:18:17.000 Like almost sit there, no, I'd accept if he cried, blah blah.

03:18:20.000 You don't know what when your life's in that guy's hands and he's your man and you see a future with him, and then he cries, it's gonna hit you different.

03:18:26.000 You might respond favorably and you might be like, you know what?

03:18:28.000 I understand.

03:18:28.000 His mom died, fine.

03:18:29.000 But it might be his mom died.

03:18:31.000 Oh my god, I don't know how I feel about this.

03:18:33.000 Every woman is different. 1.00

03:18:34.000 And what I tell guys is don't cry in front of her because you don't know how the fuck she's gonna respond.

03:18:38.000 Women are emotional creatures. 1.00

03:18:39.000 There's so many different things that come in where you cry one day, might she might give you a different reaction another day.

03:18:44.000 So I just say don't do it.

03:18:45.000 I I tell guys, yo, show your emotions with your buddies, bro.

03:18:48.000 Like, don't fucking cry in front of your girls.

03:18:50.000 Women are not equipped to handle male emotion, unfortunately. 0.99

03:18:52.000 I don't and that's why one of them say, open up to me.

03:18:54.000 I'm not doing it.

03:18:55.000 Because you guys can't even control your own emotions, let alone control mine.

03:18:59.000 Cried.

03:18:59.000 Yeah, I don't know.

03:19:00.000 I just don't think it's worth it.

03:19:02.000 But what about the what about the women that can control their emotions? 1.00

03:19:05.000 That's a wild card of figuring out who those women are. 1.00

03:19:08.000 Who?

03:19:08.000 Yeah, mostly saying, like he just said, like he just said, the ladies themselves don't know until after it happens.

03:19:14.000 But who?

03:19:15.000 It's far better.

03:19:16.000 It's far better.

03:19:17.000 I'm not saying you can't talk to your woman.

03:19:19.000 I'm not saying you can't share certain things with her.

03:19:20.000 Yeah.

03:19:21.000 What I'm saying is in terms of the breakdowns, in terms of the a lot of the extra weaknesses, it's actually better to go to other men, therapists, life coaches, mentors, uh, uh, uh, um, gym gym uh trainers and whatnot.

03:19:35.000 There's a whole host of even just older male mentors, there's a whole host of men that can they know what you're going through.

03:19:41.000 They may have gone through it themselves and they can help you through that, versus sharing so much of that with a woman who doesn't have your biology or physiology and won't be able to truly conceptually understand it. 1.00

03:19:53.000 A man's life. 1.00

03:19:53.000 Also, the other thing too, I'm glad you brought that up. 1.00

03:19:56.000 We live a completely different life than you guys do.

03:19:58.000 Yeah.

03:19:58.000 Like completely different.

03:20:00.000 There was a woman that did the the she did an experiment, she pretended to be a man for like a year, she killed herself after. 1.00

03:20:05.000 Couldn't fucking understand it.

03:20:07.000 I don't want to sound like an asshole, but women live life on easy mode. 1.00

03:20:09.000 You guys live a different existence.

03:20:11.000 You guys are able to get by with way less than we are, right?

03:20:14.000 If I Okay, I'm gonna sound like a fucked asshole right here.

03:20:17.000 But if I took your guys' brains and I put it in my head, I'd be fucking poor, bro.

03:20:21.000 No offense, right?

03:20:22.000 And I'm not saying that to shit on you guys or whatever, but the burden of performance on women is not the same as us.

03:20:27.000 We must be exceptional to get to the same level as you guys.

03:20:30.000 You guys are just able to get further with less.

03:20:32.000 And that's fine, but that's just the reality.

03:20:34.000 So if I cry to you, or if I tell you about my problems, you'll never be able to conceptualize it.

03:20:39.000 And more importantly, you'll never be able to help me.

03:20:41.000 Because you don't deal with my problems.

03:20:43.000 But I can definitely help you with yours.

03:20:44.000 You want to know why?

03:20:45.000 Because my life is harder than yours.

03:20:46.000 And on top of that, I'm not gonna lose attraction for you if you cry in front of me.

03:20:49.000 You're a girl.

03:20:50.000 That's your job.

03:20:51.000 My job is to be the fucking rock.

03:20:53.000 You can sit here and cry.

03:20:53.000 Oh, I got there.

03:20:57.000 What's that?

03:20:58.000 Like, what am I doing about like I don't know?

03:21:00.000 I'm just gonna go.

03:21:00.000 Here's the difference.

03:21:01.000 A man's job is here's the difference between men and women, right? 1.00

03:21:03.000 If I talk to these guys and I tell them, here's my problem, they're gonna give me solutions.

03:21:06.000 Yeah, men are problem solvers.

03:21:07.000 Women, you guys cry, you guys just want somebody to fucking hear you. 1.00

03:21:10.000 So I can sit there and be like, hey, this is what you gotta do, or you can just sit there and cry.

03:21:13.000 But the key is this.

03:21:15.000 If you cry to me, I'm not losing attraction for you.

03:21:17.000 If you lose your job, I'm not losing traction for you.

03:21:19.000 If you show weakness or emotional instability, I'm not losing attraction for you.

03:21:23.000 I understand that this is part of the game, they're with women. 0.84

03:21:25.000 But you didn't sign up for that with me.

03:21:27.000 If I cry to you, you didn't sign up for this shit.

03:21:29.000 I don't know what I'm gonna do.

03:21:30.000 You didn't sign up for that shit.

03:21:31.000 That's not fair to y'all.

03:21:32.000 I mean, but you can have that moment and say, okay, I don't know what you're gonna what many moments are.

03:21:40.000 The more important question to answer the more important question when you're posing and saying that should happen, is how many times is it allowed to happen?

03:21:48.000 And men's perspectives are the reason why they stop doing it is because they've done it in the past. 0.95

03:21:53.000 Yep.

03:21:54.000 They've tried they have been vulnerable.

03:21:56.000 They have opened up, they have cried.

03:21:58.000 And once, twice or three times when they've seen women aren't built for this, they stop doing it. 0.75

03:22:04.000 Yeah, that's the reality.

03:22:05.000 I mean, tell them in your in your sessions.

03:22:07.000 How many times have women admitted, like, yeah, like he cried and it changed my perception on him?

03:22:11.000 They one of the major things when they're talking about either while they're going through the divorce or after they've divorced, is how their perspective of him changed after he failed at something, after he missed the mark at something.

03:22:26.000 After the thing that he that they just assumed he would always be able to do, he wasn't able to do.

03:22:31.000 And they sh they they just lost attraction for him.

03:22:34.000 It's a very guttural biological hardwiring thing that's built within them.

03:22:39.000 Your biological hardwiring is trying to find a man that can keep you safe and can take care of you.

03:22:45.000 The very things he's talking about triggers and damages that potential thing that you tried to have rooted in him.

03:22:53.000 That's the thing that we're talking about.

03:22:54.000 If you're looking for a man to protect and provide for you, I'm not looking for you to protect and provide for me.

03:22:59.000 That's why I'm okay with you breaking down and having moments.

03:23:02.000 You're looking for that from me.

03:23:05.000 But you would want someone that's nurturing, that takes care of the children.

03:23:09.000 She can nurture, she can nurture when she cooks. 0.97

03:23:11.000 She can nurture when she holds me.

03:23:12.000 She can nurture in a whole bunch of ways. 0.92

03:23:14.000 But what I'm saying is, again, blank slate theory.

03:23:17.000 You're trying to assume that what she can get from me, I'm looking for from her.

03:23:22.000 No.

03:23:23.000 I'm not.

03:23:23.000 What you're saying, which is different things.

03:23:27.000 Yeah, so what you're saying right now is well, he should be able to find that in her.

03:23:30.000 Only a blank slate theorist is talking that way.

03:23:33.000 And just because you can do it, because you've also noticed that you attribute things to yourself.

03:23:37.000 Yeah.

03:23:37.000 Just because you can do it, doesn't mean the rest of them are gonna tolerate crying to them.

03:23:40.000 No, I never said that.

03:23:41.000 Other people, but just because it's possible doesn't mean it's probable.

03:23:44.000 Most women are gonna have a problem with you crying for in front of them. 1.00

03:23:47.000 And I'll tell you this as a guy because I know how women are, and you don't date women. 1.00

03:23:50.000 This is just what it is.

03:23:51.000 And he's telling you as a therapist.

03:23:52.000 Yeah, when a guy fails, it's a problem.

03:23:54.000 This is why women lose attraction faster. 1.00

03:23:56.000 This is why women initiate breakups. 1.00

03:23:58.000 This is why women uh are more likely to end things with a guy if he doesn't do what he's supposed to do. 1.00

03:24:02.000 They change over a job loss that was out of his control.

03:24:06.000 Okay, they change because he had a momentary emotional breakdown.

03:24:10.000 They change because he didn't do X, Y, and Z. But what kind of woman is the one that changes? 1.00

03:24:15.000 The overwhelming majority of women in the country.

03:24:18.000 Okay, so I like that.

03:24:20.000 And when a man cries and a woman changes her perspective, like, is the man doing something different to be better?

03:24:29.000 Like, okay, you cried.

03:24:32.000 What are we gonna do after that?

03:24:33.000 What this is this is the pre supposed This is the presupposition that you're operating from.

03:24:39.000 Whenever you raise a point about this thing between men and women, there's a benefit of the doubt on the female side with a burden of proof of what the man has to do on his side. 0.89

03:24:51.000 What I'm suggesting is that if you're listening to two men, one of which is in his role and one of which is a clinician, and I am trying to explain to you as a man, you don't date women.

03:25:04.000 Okay, you are not a man.

03:25:05.000 No, you've never experienced what it's like to try to do life.

03:25:09.000 The way in which y'all think y'all say about it?

03:25:11.000 Yeah, the way in which y'all act, y'all don't realize how horrible y'all really are unless you were a man in the relationship with y'all.

03:25:19.000 A lot of y'all would not.

03:25:20.000 If y'all was a if y'all had a brother, y'all wouldn't want your brother to date some of y'all homegirls. 1.00

03:25:26.000 Yeah, because y'all know how y'all get in these relationships when your emotions is not the best.

03:25:32.000 So, what I'm saying is is there's a level of emotional vulnerability that men are more designed to be able to deal with, address, challenge, and help get him back on his right foot.

03:25:44.000 You are great for a whole bunch of supplemental support roles.

03:25:48.000 Him crying all the time, him being depressed all the time.

03:25:51.000 She even said it herself about his depression, right?

03:25:54.000 Correct.

03:25:55.000 And it was ugly.

03:25:56.000 And that was something that I could not fix for him because it was demasculating him.

03:26:00.000 So that makes him feel more inferior.

03:26:03.000 You're being real nice about this.

03:26:04.000 Here's a notice how she said, Oh, he could cry and break down one time, but what if he like, you know, he's gonna fix it, right?

03:26:10.000 What are we going to do?

03:26:12.000 Yeah, together.

03:26:13.000 I get that.

03:26:13.000 But can I help you to be better?

03:26:15.000 But you helping him is gonna break down his.

03:26:18.000 No, no, no, stop.

03:26:20.000 Most women aren't even gonna say, How can I help you fix this? 1.00

03:26:23.000 Do you get do you understand that?

03:26:24.000 Like, some women are gonna not even tolerate it. 1.00

03:26:26.000 That's not true.

03:26:27.000 A lot of women were. 1.00

03:26:30.000 Don't take your perspective.

03:26:31.000 This is this is why I don't like this why I don't like listening to women give their opinions. 1.00

03:26:34.000 That's your perspective.

03:26:35.000 Other women have way less tolerance. 1.00

03:26:37.000 Let me tell you something about the most attractive women. 1.00

03:26:39.000 Attractive women that have options, don't tolerate that fuckery. 1.00

03:26:42.000 You cry one time, out the door.

03:26:44.000 You fucking don't have a job, out the fucking door.

03:26:46.000 Ugly bitches can have more tolerance. 1.00

03:26:48.000 Not saying you guys are ugly, but maybe you guys are just nicer, kinder hearted, fine.

03:26:52.000 A lot of women aren't like that, they're fucking ruthless. 1.00

03:26:54.000 This whole thing about, well, he cries one time, let's figure it out together.

03:26:58.000 I mean, other girls are out the fucking door, And this is the problem with women. 1.00

03:27:01.000 You guys don't date each other.

03:27:02.000 And here's the other ugly part.

03:27:03.000 You guys don't know how you guys operate with other men.

03:27:06.000 You guys know maybe some things, but you don't know the intricate nuances about how they really deal with their guys.

03:27:11.000 You don't know that your girl has seven other niggas that she deals with. 1.00

03:27:13.000 Good one guy Uber, one guy dating, one guy did this, one guy did that.

03:27:17.000 She didn't like it.

03:27:18.000 She left because of this reason.

03:27:18.000 You guys don't know the dark side of how quickly women will cut men off.

03:27:22.000 For any fucking reason.

03:27:23.000 Some of you guys are in here talking other shit.

03:27:25.000 I give a guy a second chance.

03:27:26.000 You probably get uh got rid of a guy because he wasn't attractive enough.

03:27:29.000 You probably got rid of a guy because the shoe didn't match.

03:27:31.000 You probably got rid of a guy because he didn't like McDonald's.

03:27:34.000 I don't fucking know.

03:27:35.000 But the point is is that women get rid of men for fucking nothing. 1.00

03:27:38.000 So for you to sit here and be like 2020 hindsight, like well, how are we gonna work on it together?

03:27:42.000 That is foolish and that is not real about how women move. 1.00

03:27:45.000 So we are saying, because we're men and we know how you guys are, because we have to actually attract you guys, don't even give her the chance.

03:27:50.000 Don't ever cry, don't even fail, don't even let her know about it.

03:27:53.000 You lose your job, don't fucking even let her know.

03:27:55.000 Go find another job immediately.

03:27:56.000 Fix the problem.

03:27:57.000 Don't even know that let her know that there's a problem.

03:27:59.000 Because women don't deal well well with insecurity. 1.00

03:28:03.000 They just don't.

03:28:05.000 Now, just to clarify, me and my wife have talked about this if I lost my job, because I know this about a lot of women. 1.00

03:28:10.000 And she said same thing.

03:28:12.000 Oh, you know, you would have at least a year.

03:28:15.000 At least she told you.

03:28:16.000 No, but again, we have those real legit conversations.

03:28:19.000 That's why I love it.

03:28:20.000 She said at least a year.

03:28:21.000 She said you would have a year to get back on your feet, and and I wouldn't be coming at you crazy.

03:28:26.000 Even if she stuck to her word, how do you think that you're gonna go between us?

03:28:31.000 It's gonna be hard.

03:28:32.000 But you guys have to pull through together as a team.

03:28:35.000 That's why you guys married. 1.00

03:28:37.000 Sadie's 70 to 80% of divorces are initiated by women. 1.00

03:28:40.000 So there's a whole lot of not pulling through.

03:28:42.000 So we have to go off of data.

03:28:44.000 We have to go off to our experience.

03:28:45.000 We have to go off.

03:28:47.000 No, what I'm saying is this a lot of what you're establishing is based off of emotion that can change.

03:28:52.000 Yeah.

03:28:53.000 All right.

03:28:54.000 If you're leaving 70 to 80% of the time, and we're telling you how y'all change even before we get to marriage when we show certain emotional vulnerabilities.

03:29:03.000 I'm not saying as a man, don't deal with the emotions.

03:29:06.000 I'm saying you have to find the right people to go to for to it for.

03:29:10.000 That's the only difference.

03:29:11.000 You can face your emotions, you can address them, you can you can you can even emote them on your own or with other men.

03:29:18.000 With your with your woman, ideally, by the time you're bringing it to her, you're already letting her know what you're doing about it.

03:29:24.000 You know what?

03:29:25.000 That's how men have to do it. 0.96

03:29:27.000 And I know you've probably noticed from being a therapist, but what I've realized is since women uh have an inability to empathize with the male experience. 1.00

03:29:32.000 Let me make it easier for you guys.

03:29:33.000 Let's go into a dream.

03:29:34.000 Dream scenario, ladies, okay? 1.00

03:29:36.000 Not saying any of you guys are hoes, but let's assume you were a hoe in your past life. 1.00

03:29:40.000 Let's say you have a hundred bodies.

03:29:41.000 Okay?

03:29:41.000 Damn.

03:29:42.000 100 bodies.

03:29:43.000 I know.

03:29:44.000 I know, I know.

03:29:44.000 It's crazy.

03:29:45.000 But just hypothetically.

03:29:46.000 I'm not saying you guys are host, but in a past life, you're stripper, sold some ass on the side, whatever.

03:29:51.000 Or or a hooker, whatever. 1.00

03:29:53.000 You find your dream man.

03:29:54.000 Right?

03:29:55.000 Now, you know that it's great.

03:29:57.000 You guys know that you're probably gonna get married, etc.

03:29:59.000 He drops a question.

03:30:01.000 What is your body count?

03:30:02.000 Are you gonna tell him the truth or not?

03:30:04.000 No.

03:30:05.000 You're gonna tell him you got a hundred?

03:30:06.000 Absolutely.

03:30:07.000 Oh, no, no.

03:30:09.000 Okay, okay.

03:30:10.000 Are you the hypothetically?

03:30:11.000 Are you gonna tell him you're a hundred?

03:30:12.000 Oh no?

03:30:14.000 Are you telling him the hundred?

03:30:15.000 If I had a hundred, absolutely not.

03:30:16.000 You okay, sure.

03:30:17.000 No.

03:30:18.000 No.

03:30:20.000 I feel like we should be honest with who we want to be with.

03:30:22.000 Okay, but would you give the hundred, honestly speaking?

03:30:24.000 You wouldn't.

03:30:25.000 If I if I wanted to be with him and he wanted to be with me, like I want to be with the person that can accept me for everything that I am.

03:30:34.000 Okay, so you would take that risk.

03:30:35.000 But the rest of you intelligently would not take that risk, right?

03:30:35.000 So I would tell people.

03:30:38.000 Why are you not taking that risk?

03:30:39.000 You're stupid.

03:30:42.000 Chris, they could fucking hear you, bro.

03:30:44.000 Come on, man.

03:30:45.000 Why would you not uh why would you not why would you not tell them you got a hundred bodies?

03:30:49.000 Because you're gonna keep smiling.

03:30:51.000 Because I know he's not gonna like it.

03:30:53.000 Because he's gonna look at me entirely different.

03:30:53.000 Fair.

03:30:56.000 Fair.

03:30:57.000 Lowers my value at least 80% if not 100%.

03:31:01.000 Just the yeah, your value.

03:31:03.000 Now only one of you would risk it, right?

03:31:06.000 But the majority of you are saying no because you guys are smart enough to know that would completely change the perspective and fuck up what you got, right?

03:31:12.000 Yes.

03:31:12.000 Exactly.

03:31:12.000 That's why we don't cry to y'all.

03:31:14.000 Same situation.

03:31:15.000 Um because we know what women's how women move and what they think. 1.00

03:31:19.000 I mean, and same as accidents.

03:31:21.000 That's what, bro.

03:31:22.000 I gotta do it like that.

03:31:22.000 Cause like that's the only way they get it.

03:31:24.000 Yeah, it's almost still that shit.

03:31:24.000 Almost steal that.

03:31:27.000 That's it.

03:31:27.000 You you gotta do it.

03:31:28.000 But now you guys get it.

03:31:29.000 This is why we can't Open up to you guys.

03:31:31.000 If we open up to you guys like that and cry, that is equivalent to you saying I got a hundred bodies.

03:31:35.000 Will I still marry you?

03:31:36.000 There's always that chance.

03:31:36.000 Sure.

03:31:37.000 Well, why are you gonna risk it?

03:31:39.000 Why?

03:31:39.000 Yeah.

03:31:40.000 So are you saying if a man has ever cried to them, then that man wasn't ever meant for you.

03:31:47.000 Or is it not okay for a guy to show emotions sometimes through crying?

03:31:51.000 I feel like it's okay to cry.

03:31:52.000 It should be rare.

03:31:52.000 Yeah, but uh he shouldn't be sure.

03:31:54.000 No, no, no.

03:31:54.000 You could cry.

03:31:55.000 Uh uh, you know, I'm obviously I wasn't happy with my friend, uh, you know, Charlie got shot, right?

03:31:59.000 But I'm not gonna cry to my girlfriend about problems that I got.

03:32:02.000 Right?

03:32:03.000 I tell men all the time, cry in solitude.

03:32:05.000 Don't fucking do that shit in front of them.

03:32:07.000 Cry in solitude, bro.

03:32:08.000 It is what it is.

03:32:09.000 Yeah.

03:32:10.000 Don't cry in front of your girl.

03:32:12.000 I don't like crying in front of people.

03:32:14.000 Yeah, but you're a woman, no one cares. 1.00

03:32:16.000 If you didn't cry, no, you wouldn't lose.

03:32:17.000 Your point is it wouldn't affect you.

03:32:19.000 Right?

03:32:20.000 I remember there was a situation, I'm just getting flashbacks right now.

03:32:22.000 If me and my ex-boyfriend, we were together for about a year or so.

03:32:26.000 At the beginning of a relationship, I got a phone call while I was working saying that he needed to have a conversation with me, and when I got home, pretty much ended in with I don't want to lose you, like started crying to me.

03:32:37.000 Okay, freeze frame.

03:32:38.000 Did you d at that point did it change how you viewed him forever?

03:32:42.000 No.

03:32:44.000 How much longer in the relationship last after that?

03:32:44.000 No.

03:32:46.000 A whole year.

03:32:47.000 Oh, okay.

03:32:48.000 Yeah.

03:32:49.000 A whole year it lasted.

03:32:51.000 You and your attraction firm stood the same.

03:32:53.000 You still sucked this dick with the same verosity.

03:32:54.000 Come on, man.

03:32:56.000 I'm not gonna talk talk about my sex life on here, but um guarantee you he probably she stopped fucking him as much.

03:33:03.000 I'll tell you that.

03:33:03.000 Vagina was even as wet.

03:33:05.000 Believe it or not, what tends to happen is even if even if you listen, even if consciously you think nothing changed.

03:33:13.000 Three months, six months, a year later, when things finally ended, there that started the clock of now factoring and counting things as strikes against him.

03:33:22.000 This is how it happens.

03:33:23.000 Yeah.

03:33:24.000 And guess what happens?

03:33:25.000 When you finally decide to finally act on the leaving, you most women have already made that mental decision months or years in advance. 0.97

03:33:34.000 So if she left him a year later, when did she actually mentally want to leave?

03:33:39.000 I checked out probably a month into the relationship.

03:33:42.000 Like way before I checked out like months into the relationship.

03:33:45.000 Okay, and then he cried, which didn't help.

03:33:47.000 And then it was RIP for real.

03:33:51.000 But aren't you counting mentally checked out months before we were living together, so it was like a very quick, you know, codependency like we talked about.

03:34:03.000 I didn't I don't really like to talk about my past life because I don't need judgment, but that's just a little bit of sharing from my past experience.

03:34:08.000 That's why I tell guys not to live with girls either. 1.00

03:34:12.000 Um never never I don't advise living with a partner.

03:34:15.000 Have your own space, you know.

03:34:16.000 Even when you're married and you eventually live together, have your own bedroom, you know.

03:34:20.000 I really do see that as like that being beneficial.

03:34:22.000 She hated that nigga, man. 1.00

03:34:23.000 Yo, she hated it.

03:34:24.000 What do you want to say?

03:34:25.000 Uh uh and then we gotta close out because I know you guys well he was boring.

03:34:29.000 We don't even got time for the clerk tonight.

03:34:31.000 Yeah, well.

03:34:32.000 I mean, a clo no, you can still go out. 0.95

03:34:33.000 What time?

03:34:34.000 It's Miami, it's three.

03:34:36.000 Oh, you got hell no there's any.

03:34:39.000 No, it's not that dude's Miami.

03:34:40.000 Y'all can still go out.

03:34:41.000 What the hell?

03:34:42.000 The same West Palmer.

03:34:45.000 Well, I got a 6 a.m. flight.

03:34:46.000 So I get back to the case.

03:34:47.000 Last thing and we gotta close out.

03:34:48.000 Go ahead.

03:34:49.000 Last word.

03:34:50.000 Like if you're checked out or whatever, like there could be things that bring it back.

03:34:54.000 And for m for me, or I feel like for women in general, if you have somebody that's ambitious that wants to do better, yes, they might fall, but how are you gonna get back up?

03:35:07.000 And can I help you get back up?

03:35:09.000 Is there something that I can do?

03:35:10.000 That's it.

03:35:11.000 There's a phrase I always say.

03:35:12.000 All women are gold diggers, some are just better at hiding the shovel. 1.00

03:35:15.000 Some girls say I need a millionaire. 1.00

03:35:17.000 Some girls say he needs to be a high value guy.

03:35:19.000 Some girls say he needs to be ambitious.

03:35:21.000 But notice how it's always the same denominator.

03:35:23.000 His ability to be successful.

03:35:25.000 So everything is contingent upon that.

03:35:27.000 Some girls are overt, I need a millionaire. 1.00

03:35:29.000 Some girls are like, I need you to be ambitious. 1.00

03:35:30.000 They hide the shovel.

03:35:31.000 But the point is always the same.

03:35:32.000 His ability to create resources is always what the basis is found uh the foundation.

03:35:38.000 So I get what you're saying.

03:35:41.000 What?

03:35:42.000 How can you be a provider?

03:35:44.000 Precisely my point.

03:35:46.000 Precisely my point, which is what I'm trying to say.

03:35:47.000 That it always comes back to his ability to earn.

03:35:50.000 Some girls say I want potential. 1.00

03:35:52.000 Some girls say I want ambition. 1.00

03:35:53.000 Some girls say no, he needs to be rich now. 0.84

03:35:55.000 Some girls say he needs to be wealthy in the next year or two.

03:35:58.000 Or he needs to be in med school.

03:36:00.000 But the point is always the same.

03:36:02.000 There needs to be a future.

03:36:03.000 Correct.

03:36:04.000 On both, but I don't know.

03:36:06.000 No, no, not both.

03:36:07.000 Your future doesn't matter.

03:36:08.000 You know what would matter actually more?

03:36:10.000 But remember how you asked the thing?

03:36:11.000 You know what men care more about? 0.75

03:36:12.000 Your past.

03:36:13.000 And your future.

03:36:14.000 You care about my future, I care about your past.

03:36:16.000 That's how it goes.

03:36:17.000 I mean um, but I just bro.

03:36:22.000 Uh we give the girls the last word. 1.00

03:36:23.000 Last word will start here and then work our way around.

03:36:25.000 Michael.

03:36:26.000 What do you have to say?

03:36:28.000 Thanks for having me on the show.

03:36:29.000 I just appreciate Was that necessary?

03:36:34.000 I just appreciate this opportunity to be able to come on here and just be a part of that barcap.

03:36:38.000 Yeah, you can always go to the club another time, ladies. 1.00

03:36:40.000 You get a opportunity to talk about it.

03:36:41.000 I haven't been to the club.

03:36:43.000 I haven't been to the club in months.

03:36:46.000 You guys got life saving information.

03:36:47.000 Yeah.

03:36:48.000 Club is fuck what you're gonna dance with a bunch of fucking black dudes. 1.00

03:36:51.000 Like they wanna like realistically speaking, it's Miami is a bunch of niggas like in chance from Atlanta. 1.00

03:36:56.000 There's no white boys out here. 0.99

03:36:57.000 No.

03:36:58.000 No, it's a bunch of niggas. 1.00

03:36:59.000 Alright, what'd you want?

03:37:00.000 What's up?

03:37:01.000 Oh yes, I'm racist.

03:37:02.000 I forgot to tell you this.

03:37:04.000 What about you?

03:37:05.000 What's your final thoughts?

03:37:06.000 Um I'm just shocked.

03:37:09.000 No, I uh I learned a lot for sure.

03:37:11.000 What'd you learn?

03:37:12.000 Nope.

03:37:13.000 I learned like a lot from the men's perspective.

03:37:16.000 What?

03:37:16.000 What's the number one thing you learned?

03:37:17.000 That you could take away.

03:37:18.000 Ten girls being triggered, maybe.

03:37:20.000 Ten girls.

03:37:21.000 Ten girls.

03:37:21.000 Come on.

03:37:23.000 Um just be uh, you know, more, you know, your your traditional woman's womanly self, you know.

03:37:30.000 Just if you can't create your you can't trash your past, or you can only create your future.

03:37:38.000 And you can't trash your past.

03:37:40.000 But you can only create your future.

03:37:43.000 Okay.

03:37:43.000 So I don't know.

03:37:44.000 I guess I took something out of that.

03:37:45.000 Try that from a fortune cookie.

03:37:47.000 Can't trash your past, but no, I do.

03:37:49.000 I never get fortunes in my fortune cookies.

03:37:52.000 What?

03:37:52.000 I know.

03:37:53.000 Oh.

03:37:53.000 Wait, what?

03:37:54.000 Every time I open one, there's nothing in there.

03:37:56.000 I mean, because never heard that before.

03:38:02.000 Multiple times.

03:38:03.000 Yo, she got a bad omen on it.

03:38:06.000 What's the what's a fortune?

03:38:07.000 Oh shit.

03:38:09.000 No, you're uh apparently.

03:38:12.000 Too soon.

03:38:13.000 Too soon.

03:38:13.000 I'm not as old, apparently.

03:38:15.000 Go ahead.

03:38:16.000 All right.

03:38:17.000 What about you?

03:38:18.000 You're so straight.

03:38:19.000 Well, me?

03:38:20.000 It was nice.

03:38:21.000 Oh, what?

03:38:21.000 It was good.

03:38:22.000 I think it was a lot of things.

03:38:24.000 You ain't going nowhere now with your guy, right?

03:38:26.000 No.

03:38:26.000 Where?

03:38:27.000 You better hold on to him tight.

03:38:28.000 Not your guy that you got.

03:38:29.000 Oh no, I'm as good.

03:38:32.000 But no, but girls are gonna try to take him. 1.00

03:38:34.000 Of course.

03:38:35.000 Alright.

03:38:36.000 But anyway, um, yeah, so good show.

03:38:39.000 Wait.

03:38:40.000 And follow me, Nara curves, because I'm a tax prepared person.

03:38:44.000 Tax prepared?

03:38:45.000 Yeah.

03:38:45.000 Okay.

03:38:46.000 Wait, you said you do some executive accounting, tax, and then OF too?

03:38:50.000 Yo.

03:38:50.000 No, no, no.

03:38:51.000 Yeah, OF.

03:38:52.000 Yeah.

03:38:52.000 I was listening earlier.

03:38:53.000 Sorry.

03:38:54.000 Yeah, I thought you see.

03:38:55.000 My agency controls my OF.

03:38:57.000 I have a social media marketing agency, so hold on.

03:39:00.000 Is he okay with that?

03:39:01.000 Your guy?

03:39:02.000 He didn't want me to quit because he said he's making us money.

03:39:04.000 Oh yeah, cook us.

03:39:05.000 Yeah, cook. 1.00

03:39:08.000 Well, yeah, every guy's different.

03:39:10.000 By the way, why are you clapping though?

03:39:13.000 Because I feel like I don't I don't support the whole selling nudes, but if your man supports you at the end of the day, that's a good thing.

03:39:18.000 My whole family is my whole family.

03:39:20.000 Doesn't support a man. 0.88

03:39:21.000 Look, I don't support the whole thing.

03:39:23.000 Let me give you some game.

03:39:24.000 Hold on.

03:39:24.000 You only been dating for how long again?

03:39:27.000 Eight months.

03:39:28.000 Okay.

03:39:28.000 Once he tells you to take the OF down and start dressing uh differently.

03:39:31.000 It will be down.

03:39:32.000 It will be done.

03:39:33.000 It's it's not about it's not about you.

03:39:34.000 I get that you're gonna do it.

03:39:36.000 But once he starts restricting that, that's when he starts to care about you.

03:39:38.000 He won't because he was the general manager of a strip club.

03:39:40.000 So to him, seeing titties is nothing.

03:39:42.000 It's like literally equivalent to nothing.

03:39:43.000 Yeah, but he doesn't do anything.

03:39:44.000 If you're seriously, though.

03:39:46.000 Yeah, bro.

03:39:47.000 Yeah, license to the young see, stop being a woman. 1.00

03:39:49.000 Listen to the men.

03:39:50.000 Men care about you once they start putting rules on you. 1.00

03:39:50.000 Okay. 1.00

03:39:52.000 Yeah.

03:39:53.000 Restrictions.

03:39:54.000 He does.

03:39:55.000 No, we he does have rules and restrictions on that.

03:39:57.000 No, that's just not one of the things.

03:39:58.000 They're gonna increase.

03:39:59.000 They're going to increase.

03:40:00.000 No, no, they are increasing.

03:40:01.000 You are married.

03:40:02.000 But again, like I said, it's increasing as well speed.

03:40:05.000 You're not married.

03:40:07.000 People um have elevated.

03:40:10.000 You're 28.

03:40:12.000 All right.

03:40:12.000 Yeah, you are.

03:40:13.000 She's 23.

03:40:14.000 I'm 23.

03:40:15.000 She's 28.

03:40:16.000 Oh, sh I'm 20.

03:40:17.000 Oh shit.

03:40:17.000 Yo, Chris.

03:40:18.000 Yo, oh the fuck.

03:40:19.000 All I'm saying is, all I'm saying is just hopefully a good sign.

03:40:23.000 A good sign that he wants to take you seriously, more restrictions are gonna come.

03:40:26.000 A lot of girls see more restrictions and they say, no. 1.00

03:40:28.000 What you should do is if you're seeing A guy and restrictions increase, you should start getting excited. 0.99

03:40:32.000 If he starts selling, you know what?

03:40:34.000 I don't want you going to club no more.

03:40:35.000 I don't like when he works.

03:40:35.000 You know what?

03:40:36.000 He said I'm not allowed to go to the club.

03:40:37.000 Good.

03:40:38.000 Then can let the more, the more um the more authoritarian.

03:40:43.000 I don't have a problem.

03:40:44.000 I mean you like you know the cheat code later.

03:40:46.000 I'm just saying, look, I meant to say this.

03:40:48.000 The cheat code is not waiting for him to say something.

03:40:52.000 I tried to delete it.

03:40:53.000 He told me not to.

03:40:55.000 Let me say it again.

03:40:57.000 Let me say it again.

03:40:57.000 He's stopping you.

03:40:58.000 The cheat code.

03:40:59.000 What do you mean?

03:41:00.000 She can she could shut it down at any point. 0.98

03:41:01.000 No, no, I'm not even on it.

03:41:02.000 It's bots.

03:41:04.000 The cheat code is not waiting for the guy to constantly correct your behavior, which you know is going to be best aligned and makes him look the best.

03:41:10.000 But in our relationship, that's not a good idea.

03:41:15.000 We have our own understanding.

03:41:16.000 You're telling you now.

03:41:17.000 We're both from you now.

03:41:20.000 How he views the strippers that work for him.

03:41:22.000 You're not a kid.

03:41:23.000 It's very different, right?

03:41:25.000 How he views the strippers that works for the first time.

03:41:26.000 That's why I want to say single bro.

03:41:28.000 You don't shut up and listen.

03:41:29.000 Listen, I'll follow it.

03:41:30.000 Yo, yo, sorry, nigga. 1.00

03:41:32.000 He works on strippers all the time.

03:41:33.000 Yeah, what the hell?

03:41:35.000 No, it's not that.

03:41:36.000 It's just that not every guy thing.

03:41:38.000 You're pretty, I uh love your teeth at you.

03:41:40.000 All right, man, let's just move on to another girl that might want to listen.

03:41:42.000 Give us your last thoughts.

03:41:43.000 All right, all right, you're ho. 1.00

03:41:45.000 Next.

03:41:46.000 It ain't gonna get better in my.

03:41:48.000 I've been very quiet, but I've been listening.

03:41:49.000 No, no.

03:41:50.000 I've noticed that.

03:41:51.000 I ended up agreeing with you a lot more than I thought I would.

03:41:54.000 And you made some very good points.

03:41:56.000 Did you think I was just gonna sit here and say women suck and everything else like that, probably? 0.97

03:42:00.000 Yeah, quite literally.

03:42:01.000 I thought that I would have a lot to say back to you, but I ended up not with it.

03:42:06.000 How dare you?

03:42:07.000 Are your parents together?

03:42:08.000 No?

03:42:08.000 No.

03:42:09.000 Uh do you have a relationship with your father or no?

03:42:11.000 No.

03:42:12.000 Do you have a brother or no?

03:42:14.000 I've got two sisters.

03:42:16.000 Do you have a a strong any strong male influence in your life, an uncle, somebody?

03:42:20.000 No.

03:42:20.000 Okay.

03:42:22.000 Yeah, you got lucky.

03:42:24.000 Yo, Jeff Myers.

03:42:24.000 You got free therapy.

03:42:25.000 If uh because normally nah, like I appreciate her reaction and response in light of the lack of male influence that she had. 0.99

03:42:32.000 Like, you know.

03:42:33.000 It's not that you agree with me with everything or agree with mine with everything, but it you just came off with somebody.

03:42:38.000 I would have assumed the opposite.

03:42:39.000 Yes.

03:42:40.000 Okay.

03:42:40.000 Normally, because I I see that you're on the same wavelength as me.

03:42:43.000 When women understand what what the hell we're talking about, most of the time they have a strong dad, a brother, someone's put them all in game. 1.00

03:42:50.000 Because this is a radical way of thinking to a degree.

03:42:52.000 Right?

03:42:53.000 But women that get it, I'm like, all right.

03:42:54.000 Someone in your life taught you about this shit because it's not shocking to you.

03:42:58.000 So okay, but that's rare.

03:42:59.000 I've never I mean, very rarely do a girl like no male influence, but understands the concepts.

03:43:03.000 But what about you?

03:43:04.000 Wait, wait, wait.

03:43:06.000 Sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry.

03:43:08.000 But if um you were to lose weight, like you will kill it.

03:43:13.000 Oh my god.

03:43:13.000 No, no, no, no, no, you will kill it.

03:43:15.000 She looks good.

03:43:16.000 No, no, you no, you me?

03:43:18.000 Oh if I were to lose weight, I would just kill it.

03:43:18.000 Yeah.

03:43:21.000 I I'm gonna try, I'm gonna try.

03:43:23.000 When I agree when I get back to the UK.

03:43:30.000 This week?

03:43:31.000 I mean, I'm in America.

03:43:32.000 I want to try the the worst possible.

03:43:34.000 Dick, no, not do that.

03:43:36.000 Alright, Chris is fat too, don't worry about him.

03:43:37.000 All right, what about you?

03:43:38.000 But it's mad, man.

03:43:39.000 I said I said the same thing as her.

03:43:41.000 Dick?

03:43:41.000 Okay, do you talk about it?

03:43:43.000 Alright, bro.

03:43:44.000 Um Do you have a strong father figure in your life or a strong male?

03:43:47.000 I do, my dad, yeah.

03:43:47.000 No.

03:43:49.000 Okay.

03:43:49.000 Do you guys hang out a lot?

03:43:51.000 You know, we live in different countries, but we've been friends since FaceTime though, but I'm just trying to figure out how you because again, when women understand this stuff, okay.

03:44:00.000 So you have a strong you said dad or brother?

03:44:02.000 Dad.

03:44:03.000 And he taught you where's your dad from?

03:44:03.000 Okay.

03:44:05.000 UK.

03:44:07.000 Like uh is it white?

03:44:08.000 Yeah.

03:44:09.000 Uh and your parents are still together or no.

03:44:09.000 Okay.

03:44:11.000 Did you live with him or with your mom?

03:44:13.000 I grew up like partially with my mom, and then I moved with my dad.

03:44:16.000 Okay.

03:44:17.000 Were you with your dad in your teenures?

03:44:19.000 Yeah.

03:44:20.000 Yep.

03:44:21.000 Yeah.

03:44:22.000 If it was ever the most critical times.

03:44:24.000 If she it was reverse, she'd have been cooked. 0.97

03:44:27.000 It was actually good that your mom did that.

03:44:29.000 Yeah.

03:44:30.000 For boys and girls, it's really good after about 10 years old.

03:44:34.000 10 to 12 years old that they actually have a period of time where they're primarily with their father.

03:44:38.000 If they're if they were too much.

03:44:39.000 Who were you pointing at?

03:44:40.000 You two.

03:44:41.000 That's fine.

03:44:42.000 Why?

03:44:43.000 Yeah.

03:44:43.000 Why?

03:44:44.000 Did you guys have uh grow up in a two-parent household or no?

03:44:47.000 Yeah.

03:44:48.000 You did okay, you did.

03:44:49.000 Yeah.

03:44:49.000 Okay.

03:44:50.000 We both grew up with parents.

03:44:51.000 Sorry.

03:44:52.000 Like I thought he knew something I didn't.

03:44:54.000 Okay.

03:44:55.000 I was just trying to figure out okay.

03:44:56.000 Did you impart this wisdom on her?

03:44:57.000 Or I'm trying to figure out how she knows.

03:45:00.000 she knows what.

03:45:01.000 Because you guys have you guys both agree on the whole male dynamic.

03:45:04.000 Like, did you impart this on her?

03:45:06.000 You guys talk about this?

03:45:07.000 I'm shocked.

03:45:07.000 I came here with the the idea that I would disagree with absolutely everything.

03:45:12.000 So I'm shocked.

03:45:13.000 I'm shocked that I agree.

03:45:14.000 Because I've seen some clips, and you know, online I guess things that are edited on TikTok and stuff.

03:45:20.000 So no, that's why I've been pretty much silent because I was listening.

03:45:23.000 Um I was shocked to be fair.

03:45:25.000 I did say to you as well.

03:45:26.000 I said like no, he's probably gonna lie.

03:45:29.000 He's dance, he's that, he's that.

03:45:31.000 Wait, wait, wait, he's who most girls think I'm just gonna come in here and say you know bitches are stupid and kill the blacks and shit. 1.00

03:45:39.000 Yeah, true.

03:45:40.000 So and the Jews are control of the world. 0.99

03:45:42.000 Which a lot of that is true, but yeah, so but uh put him in jail.

03:45:47.000 Alright.

03:45:48.000 Uh thank you for that.

03:45:49.000 I appreciate that.

03:45:49.000 That makes sense.

03:45:50.000 Okay.

03:45:50.000 What about you?

03:45:51.000 What's your uh final thoughts?

03:45:52.000 I mean, I like the whole conversation.

03:45:55.000 How dare you?

03:45:56.000 No, I love the channel.

03:45:57.000 Did you learn anything at all or no?

03:45:59.000 I listened to everybody's point of view.

03:46:03.000 Okay.

03:46:03.000 And I take everything into account.

03:46:07.000 Okay.

03:46:07.000 All right.

03:46:08.000 Uh how long you been in a relationship with your guy?

03:46:10.000 You wanna tell us now?

03:46:12.000 Long enough.

03:46:13.000 Okay, that's not good.

03:46:16.000 Long enough.

03:46:17.000 Bro, I give it two weeks up.

03:46:19.000 I thought she said eight months.

03:46:21.000 That nigga's on probation. 1.00

03:46:22.000 Yeah, I'm telling you, bro.

03:46:23.000 Bro, like, yo, she's like like uh fed up.

03:46:27.000 Like, you like yo, yo.

03:46:29.000 Let's say, um then um when you're okay.

03:46:31.000 I hope that it lasts until we both are done, like living kind of I give it two weeks.

03:46:39.000 Yeah, the spiritual connection.

03:46:41.000 Jeff if your wife will like, yeah, Jeff, nah, he's cool, whatever.

03:46:45.000 Like, he's alright, you know, like all I know is I've never met a woman who's happy about the relationship she's in that won't tell you far more information that you need to know.

03:46:55.000 All right, never experience that.

03:46:57.000 Bragg about him.

03:46:58.000 I love him, he's the best.

03:46:59.000 He's a like, yeah, that's it.

03:47:01.000 That's a that's a thing.

03:47:02.000 But but I will give him I will give her this.

03:47:04.000 All right, so I will give her.

03:47:06.000 You say what?

03:47:07.000 I'm wearing his grandfather's ring.

03:47:09.000 And that's it.

03:47:09.000 So where is he right now?

03:47:11.000 That ain't enough.

03:47:11.000 That's not enough.

03:47:13.000 Where?

03:47:13.000 Home?

03:47:14.000 I'll be honest with you.

03:47:15.000 That just means you like jewelry.

03:47:17.000 That doesn't mean that doesn't mean what you think it means.

03:47:21.000 That's like it was ugly, you might not be wearing it.

03:47:24.000 So like the reality is like that's cool that you're wearing it and all.

03:47:28.000 But like when you're really you're more proud of letting us know the information about the ring than the fact that you're with him.

03:47:35.000 The weight that the ring holds for him.

03:47:40.000 And only reason I'm saying is because we've been asking very direct questions that you wouldn't give.

03:47:44.000 Oh, but then you volunteered information about something we never asked about.

03:47:47.000 Because it's something that matters to him.

03:47:51.000 I know this is weird to say what I'm about to say, but like I've been doing this for like 10 plus years.

03:47:56.000 So something that matters to him, not that piece.

03:47:56.000 Okay.

03:48:00.000 I'm sure that it matters to both of you.

03:48:02.000 What I am suggesting is I do wonder what it is about him that you feel uncertain about.

03:48:09.000 What?

03:48:10.000 Don't ask what.

03:48:14.000 He's a professional been doing this for a long time.

03:48:16.000 I've talked to a lot of women. 1.00

03:48:17.000 We just kind of pick up on trends and I know what her man does.

03:48:20.000 I know where he worked.

03:48:22.000 I don't know.

03:48:22.000 Mitch underscore the one exotics rolling.

03:48:26.000 You know what I mean?

03:48:28.000 Shut out your big.

03:48:28.000 Stop.

03:48:29.000 I've heard about exes.

03:48:30.000 I've heard about I know more information about exes of people you're not even in relationships with anymore.

03:48:30.000 Okay.

03:48:35.000 So that's you nine times out of ten.

03:48:38.000 And I'm not e that's not for you to tell us.

03:48:40.000 But that's a reflection on if you so choose to, if there's things that you feel he needs to step up on, communicate it with him.

03:48:47.000 That's all.

03:48:48.000 That's all.

03:48:50.000 A lot.

03:48:52.000 Shit ain't working.

03:48:53.000 That's why she might be.

03:48:55.000 What's going on?

03:48:56.000 All right.

03:48:56.000 Um read the last chats.

03:48:58.000 Okay, DBG, uh, learn the ways of your great grandma, ladies and generations cook, get a man, keep a man, start a family, and stop trying to tell him how to lead it maybe over for you, but you have a chance.

03:49:07.000 We'll see what happens.

03:49:09.000 Alright, I'll see you, man.

03:49:10.000 Uh Chase says, here is some good advice to become a marriage material for a guy.

03:49:14.000 Suck his dick every day, make him love every day, clean cook, and massage him every day. 0.99

03:49:18.000 Yeah, they don't give a fuck, bro.

03:49:19.000 We're we're gonna end the show.

03:49:19.000 Alright.

03:49:20.000 Uh love you guys.

03:49:21.000 I'll be on tomorrow at like uh what?

03:49:24.000 Alright, never mind.

03:49:24.000 Yeah, that's never mind.

03:49:25.000 Now you're gonna do more.

03:49:26.000 Was there more chats?

03:49:27.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

03:49:29.000 You sure?

03:49:30.000 Yeah, yeah.

03:49:30.000 No, no, alright.

03:49:31.000 No, no, chat, chat.

03:49:32.000 Come on, well, how much are like bro?

03:49:35.000 It's like uh the black girl is a nigger and needs to be deported back to Africa. 1.00

03:49:40.000 Damn, bro, okay.

03:49:41.000 I agree with you though.

03:49:42.000 All right, let's see if the Albanian girl knows her her history. 0.87

03:49:45.000 Does she know the history of Albanian Serbia history?

03:49:47.000 I highly doubt she does.

03:49:48.000 Slut. 1.00

03:49:48.000 Okay. 1.00

03:49:49.000 You want to prove that?

03:49:50.000 Yeah, Serbia took over Albania with the Ottoman Empire.

03:49:52.000 I know every everything when it comes to Albania.

03:49:56.000 Are you Muslim or Christian?

03:49:58.000 I I just recently baptized as Christian.

03:50:00.000 I was raised Catholic.

03:50:01.000 Okay.

03:50:03.000 That's it.

03:50:03.000 Is that it?

03:50:04.000 Alright, cool.

03:50:04.000 Guys, I'll be on live tomorrow.

03:50:06.000 We're gonna talk about um uh sorry Charlie Kirk uh assassination updates, obviously.

03:50:10.000 Um we're gonna talk about the news, we're gonna talk about Israel, uh Palestine, and uh I'll see you guys tomorrow.

03:50:15.000 Love you guys, peace.

03:50:16.000 Peace.

03:50:18.000 I ran so far away.

03:50:21.000 I just ran.

Fresh & Fit - September 17, 2025

Fresh&Fit Taking These Girls To Therapy

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