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00:14:52.000Decided we were going to, well, Miguel Munoz and I decided we were going from Dollar Cost Crypto, decided we were going to do something here in Vegas about this time two years ago.
00:16:31.000And I'm now officially partnered with MOA, which is Men of Action, which is Mike's group.
00:16:36.000My group is now called Reignite, and we are specifically talking to guys who are 45 to 65 years old, which is the prime demographic for self-deletion.
00:16:46.000Well, you've got to figure out guys are like three and a half to four times as likely to kill themselves, and it's always around that time because it's when they go through a divorce, which, by the way, according to Jim Sexton, a divorce attorney, as we know, You're eight times more likely to off yourself after a geyser,
00:17:28.000Everybody wants to say if the red pill doesn't do anything, all we do is just sit here and bullshit and talk and complain and all this other stuff.
00:17:33.000And it's like, when we do something tangible, nobody says shit.
00:17:36.000When we do something, when we do outreach and we're actually doing these starting communities, we have Zoom calls, we have events that we go to, we have activities and things like I want to start getting these guys out and doing things like going to a gun range or going deep sea fishing or going golf or whatever it is.
00:17:51.000Because men communicate better when they have a project or they have something that they can unite over, something they can share, like a shared problem to solve or a shared interest.
00:18:02.000And one of the things I picked out when I was deciding to do this group is female therapy doesn't work for men.
00:18:11.000Everybody wants to think, oh, mental health and all this stuff.
00:18:13.000It's not like sitting on the fucking couch and talking about your feelings is bullshit.
00:18:18.000Guys have communications when they're actually doing things.
00:18:20.000And so we're adding that to the program as well so that guys can get together.
00:18:25.000And it's not just going out to Zouk or the strip clubs or something like that.
00:18:28.000You can go, there's a place here in Vegas, I want to go do this, where you can go drive a tank.
00:18:33.000And you can go shoot automatic weapons if you want to, or you can go to the track that's down in South Vegas and just drive fast cars.
00:18:39.000Whatever it is, whatever your thing is, guys tend to have conversations and tend to make friends and they tend to form networks and tribes as a result of some sort of shared interest or some sort of shared project that they're working on.
00:18:52.000And so that's going to be integral to what we're doing with Reignite as well.
00:18:55.000But I'm now officially partnered with MOA and that's going to be my new thing and it's outreach and it's actually something concrete and something tangible.
00:19:04.000I like that you're going after that 45 to 60 demographic because a lot of guys feel isolated at that point.
00:19:18.000When they come out of, like, say they've been in a 20-year marriage and they've been in a sexist marriage, they get out of it and now suddenly they're like, it's like a stranger in a strange land.
00:19:27.000Could you imagine you get married in the year fucking 2000 when Britney Spears was sane?
00:19:32.000You come back here in 2024 and she's dancing with knives and she's fucking crazy and now you're single and you're trying to talk to a chick at the bar in 2024 versus in 2000.
00:19:41.000You were like, you know, you could do that.
00:22:10.000They don't know what works best for them.
00:22:12.000And mysteries to teach that, like a number of clothes was good.
00:22:14.000A number of clothes was a metric of success back in the mid-2000s.
00:22:22.000And now it's basically meaningless because it's all, follow me on Instagram, let me see if you're cool enough for me to want to hang out with you.
00:22:43.000You have to get multiple bases of contact.
00:22:46.000I've told guys before, you not only need to get a number, you need to get an Instagram...
00:22:51.000And you damn near need to frame a date when you meet her right then and there because women are so fucking flaky in 2024 because they just have too many options.
00:22:58.000Girls actually used to respect and admire male attention in the early 2000s.
00:23:05.000The other thing too I think guys need to understand, especially for the older guys, 45, 60 that are in your group, when you text girls now on iPhones, there's this feature where if it's not a recognized number or whatever or they haven't had communication, a lot of times it'll just go into a random spam box and she might never check it.
00:23:19.000Yeah, I don't go into your hidden messages or something like that unless you're actually actively looking at those things.
00:24:59.000So he's coming out, and the mafia's afraid he's going to take over, like, the New York thing, so they keep him in Tulsa, Oklahoma, and now he basically takes over Tulsa.
00:25:08.000And the first thing he does is he goes to like a weed dispensary in Tulsa and he thinks it's still illegal.
00:25:14.000So he thinks it's like this backroom kind of like operation.
00:25:17.000So he's like punching guys and like taking over.
00:25:19.000Then he's like, no, sir, it's legal now.
00:25:21.000You don't have to worry about anybody.
00:25:25.000And so he takes over sort of the drug trade of Tulsa, but it's all legal drugs, right?
00:25:30.000Well, even the drug trade has changed significantly.
00:25:32.000And so what was funny to me is he plays a character who is like 76 or 70, yes, which is exactly how old Sylvester Stallone is right now, right?
00:25:42.000And so the humor in the show is he went away for 25 years, and now he's sort of like thawed out of cryo-freeze kind of thing.
00:25:51.000And I thought about this and I go, you know, that's kind of like a lot of guys when they go and they've been married for...
00:25:55.000I've been married for 28 years, right?
00:25:57.000I'm in the red pill space enough to know, you know, what's going on.
00:26:01.000And you're around women all the time for me.
00:26:02.000So you know what the fuck's going on here.
00:26:18.000They don't know how the sexual marketplace has changed because when they got married 25 years ago, it was a global sexual marketplace or a local sexual marketplace.
00:26:28.000They come into 2024 and it's globalized.
00:26:43.000I think the global sexual marketplace is literally one of the biggest precipitators of the failure of relationships in modern-day society.
00:26:49.000Yeah, because it's choice paradox is what it is.
00:26:53.000I remember when somebody put Fresh on the spot and said, how many girls do you think at colleges or something like that are actually getting flown out to yacht parties in Miami?
00:27:05.000And he said something like 30%, which was crazy.
00:27:08.000But the thing is, what he should have said is it doesn't matter what the percentage is.
00:27:14.000So if one of these girls sees one single girl that gets flown out, that's all that it matters to affect the sexual marketplace for that girl.
00:27:22.000Because I'm hotter than that bitch and she got flown out.
00:27:25.000And fuck, that means that I'm at least as valuable as that.
00:27:28.000And I don't want to have anything to do with everybody that's in my local sexual marketplace.
00:27:31.000If the possibility exists that I could get flown out to a yacht party by somebody who's rich and famous and has Lamborghini.
00:27:38.000And this is why I get so mad when guys try to say, and women too, like, oh, that's just Miami girls or whatever the fuck.
00:27:45.000And I'm like, look, you fucking idiots.
00:27:48.000We're starting to get that now too here.
00:27:52.000I think men need to understand, and this is a very uncomfortable reality that we need to just put out there.
00:27:59.000A girl that's mildly attractive or very attractive, there's a high likelihood that she's doing something that monetizes off of her beauty, right?
00:28:53.000I would argue 50% of girls have participated in some form of casual sex work that are hot.
00:28:59.000And then one in five I think of regular chicks.
00:29:01.000And then the other thing too I don't think people understand is like they'll sit there and say, oh, well, that's just Miami girls or that's just Vegas girls.
00:29:27.000Where do you think That's where they want to be.
00:29:30.000There used to be this concept, and I think it was Tom Likas who actually came up with this, was that we should have regional ratings for girls.
00:29:39.000Like a girl who's like an 8 or a 9 in Butte, Montana is like a 6 or a 7 in Vegas kind of thing.
00:29:47.000And I think the principle is sound in that the most beautiful women from those localized areas, just sort of like the Midwest or something like that, They will congregate in Vegas, New York, Los Angeles, Miami, Dallas, wherever.
00:30:02.000They either move here or at least they come and visit here.
00:30:05.000And then that's where they do their dirt.
00:30:07.000And I don't think men understand this.
00:31:36.000Is it like because women are smarter and they want to go to school or whatever?
00:31:39.000No, it's because women tend to be more spontaneous and adventurous and like want to get experiences.
00:31:44.000So like they want to go away from home and do that shit.
00:31:46.000I think a lot of that has to, I think one of the reasons why you see more women in the workplace now, more women in college, more women in Making more money these days is simply because they've been sold this bill of goods that says you can't trust any guys.
00:32:01.000Guys are inherently untrustworthy because you can't trust a guy for your long-term security.
00:32:06.000And to their defense, a lot of men are bums.
00:32:12.000It's like this self-defeating negative feedback loop.
00:32:15.000It just keeps coming back all the time.
00:32:17.000And so what happens is if women are taught from a very early age that they can't trust men for their long-term security, They have to go do and generate it for themselves.
00:32:25.000So that's why you get like, I'm an alpha female.
00:32:27.000That's why you get women who want to go to college.
00:32:29.000I'm not saying there's anything wrong with wanting to go to college, but I'm just saying that the thing is, you should ask yourself, why am I doing this?
00:32:36.000Is it because I have some inherent fear that I'm going to not be able to take care of myself because I can't trust no man?
00:32:43.000Either maybe you have an absent father or no father at all, or have a sort of a weak father.
00:32:49.000And then you've got the idea that if you can't trust men for your long-term security, the only person you can trust is yourself.
00:32:56.000And so whenever I see some of these, I see some women say, like, how do I find, like, I'm 35 years old, Rolo, how do I find a guy?
00:33:25.000It was, some women are becoming the men that they wanted to marry.
00:33:28.000And now here we are in 2024, and we're still saying the same thing.
00:33:31.000I've been on your show, and I have listened to 19-year-old girls say, repeat and parrot back lines I know came from Gloria Steinem, Betty Friedan, and late 70s militant feminists.
00:33:47.000And for those that are wondering, Gloria Steinem is like the fucking spear, like tip of the spear when it comes to feminism.
00:33:53.000Yeah, back in the day, she was our bodies ourselves in feminine mystique.
00:34:04.000And I always was wondering, and I've tried this on a couple of occasions where I'm talking to women who are between like 19 and say 20, 24, somewhere around there.
00:34:12.000And I'm like, where did you hear that?
00:34:14.000Where did you hear that particular quote?
00:35:40.000Was the tip of the spear to all the degeneracy and all the fucked up stuff in society going on right now?
00:35:46.000Whether it's the alphabet community, it's the communist, socialist values, a lot of the Democrats that we got.
00:35:54.000It's no coincidence that in, what was it, Seneca Falls was the Seneca Falls Convention of 1849, which is really where you kind of pegged the beginning of modern-day feminists.
00:36:04.000It's where the suffragettes started, right?
00:36:05.000Seneca Falls, I think it was New York or something like that.
00:36:08.000And that's when they had sort of like the list of grievances and everything.
00:36:10.000And from that point on, right up until August 1920, when the 19th Amendment was ratified, you had that for about 50 or 70 years of the suffragettes and everything else that was going on at that time.
00:36:25.000And it's no coincidence that it was at the same time that Karl Marx and the communists came up right about that time as well.
00:37:34.000Now we've got to keep going from that point.
00:37:37.000And really, there's never been any waves of feminism.
00:37:41.000It's just the same thing, but it's been broken up by two world wars, Vietnam, Korea, civil unrest, the Bolsheviks, wherever you are, you happen to be in the world.
00:37:52.000Whatever sort of Civil unrest that interrupted that particular stream of feminism right up until 1965.
00:38:02.000And that one piece of technology was the catalyst, I think, for what we know of as sort of like, I call it militant feminism, but like modern day feminism right now is the result of- So you wouldn't make a delineation from- Pre-pill to after-pill?
00:38:19.000Well, the reason I wouldn't make it pre-pill, I would say the sexual revolution, which came in the wake of hormonal birth control.
00:38:27.000Because what happens is, and I've done this, I'm actually considering writing a small book about this, which is The decade between 1965 and 1975.
00:38:37.000And if you look at all the things where it comes with the decline of marriage, right now we are at the lowest marriage rate in recorded history in the United States.
00:38:44.000We are at 6.1 per 1,000 people right now.
00:38:47.000And that goes all the way back to mid-1800s.
00:38:52.000And so when they're tracking it, this is the lowest it's ever been.
00:38:56.000If you look at 1965 to where we are right now, The baby boom generation, the marriages went up, and then 65 came, and then they drop off a cliff, and at the same time, divorces go up.
00:39:08.000At one point, when hormonal birth control is introduced in a popularized sense in Western culture, then you've got the sexual revolution, then you've got Woodstock, then you've got the boomers, then you've got no-fault divorce to facilitate all of the new divorces that are coming as a result of the pill.
00:39:37.000So now women are coming into the workforce and we don't have to worry about giving women credit cards or bank accounts anymore because we're in a fiat currency.
00:39:50.000So now we have, like, his fast, safe, you know, elective abortions.
00:39:56.000Then you've got Title IX, get more women into college, more women come into the workplace because they're divorcing their husbands and they're single.
00:40:04.000And if you also look at, like, the GDP at that time, you will see gross, you'll see wage earnings flatline.
00:40:12.000But productivity goes to the roof because you have so many women that are now coming into the workplace, but they're not making any more money than the guys are.
00:40:23.000I'm surprised they even stay the same.
00:40:26.000If anything, I would think it would go down.
00:40:28.000They go up a little bit with inflation and everything.
00:40:31.000But if you compare it to productivity, productivity goes up to the roof and mean wages stay the same.
00:40:37.000And then you just go through, I think the golden era for feminism was really about the mid-90s because we didn't have the internet, we didn't have communication, we didn't have the kind of mass communication that we have right now.
00:40:49.000And right around 2000 to the mid-2000s, what happens when we have mass communication worldwide?
00:40:55.000Now we're globalizing that much more and it's not just the economy that globalizes, it's the sexual marketplace that globalizes right around, you know, right through 2000 through 2010.
00:41:06.000That's where you see the rise of the seduction community.
00:41:08.000That's when it's no coincidence that the pickup artists in the forum eras, when we're on So Suave or Alt-Fast Seduction or the Venusian Arts, that's when all of that stuff came up.
00:41:17.000The game, the book with Neil Strauss and Mystery Method, that comes out in 2005, right in between all of that.
00:41:23.000And the reason for that is because now we can compare notes and now we have a new technology that allows men to sort of get together and collectively talk about this stuff.
00:41:31.000You want to know where the rational male came from?
00:41:33.000It came from about 10 or 12 years of me being on the SOSWA forums and having all of these conversations with these guys and then collecting all of that, putting it into cohesive blog posts and essays.
00:42:24.000So you mentioned pre-1965 and after 1965.
00:42:28.000Would it be fair to say that Pre-pill, women more and more concerned with civil rights, equality in the workforce, being taken seriously in general, right?
00:42:38.000And then after 1965, it was more about sexual autonomy?
00:42:43.000And because of one invention, you've got to remember just the impact of a chemical divide, because I think it's James Sexton calls it a technology, and it is.
00:42:55.000It's a chemical technology that allows a woman To have sex without having to worry about, relatively speaking, we're worried about pregnancy.
00:43:06.000And if you look at all of the social changes that cascaded down from one invention, and you look at how men like now suddenly during the 70s, you don't want to be a macho man anymore.
00:43:18.000And that's like, you want to get in touch with your feminine side and all this Jungian psychology comes to anima, animus.
00:43:25.000And all of this emotionalism, like the emotionalism that I talk about all the time, because I always talk about the difference between like empiricism and emotionalism.
00:43:32.000That emotionalism started right after the sexual revolution because guys wanted to get in touch with their feelings.
00:43:58.000It's a guy who's in touch with his feelings.
00:44:00.000And we still have, again, we still have that legacy today.
00:44:03.000When I go and I look at like Justin Baldini's site and the rest of these guys who are, they're redirecting my traffic and your traffic too right now.
00:44:09.000It's like man bun, you know, masculinity sites and it's the same shit that...
00:44:16.000Seriously, you can track the same words that they're talking about in 2024 all the way back to the mid-70s with guys trying to sort of go to their drum circles and burn patchouli oil and shit like that and just get in touch with their feminine side.
00:44:29.000And a lot of that emotionalism is a direct result of the fact that these guys, men knew too, like the boomer generation.
00:44:36.000We keep going back to the Woodstocks and all that other shit.
00:44:39.000The boomer generation of men, they were on board.
00:44:42.000Fuck yeah, what pill that you can take?
00:44:44.000No one's been able to do that in the history of humanity to be able to fuck and not have to worry about getting pregnant.
00:44:57.000Now, prior to that, my mother-in-law is a prostitute Yeah.
00:45:17.000And that was a scandal prior to the sexual revolution because if you had a child out of wedlock before 1965, in the 50s, early 60s, and it doesn't matter what religion you are.
00:45:43.000Which meant she would either have to go have the baby and put it up for adoption or the baby would be had and then it would be parented by the grandparents.
00:47:19.000Maybe they're dark websites or web 2.0 sites.
00:47:22.000But these guys basically will give you a donation of sperm.
00:47:25.000And there's certain individuals that are so popular that they keep getting chosen over and over and over again.
00:47:31.000The problem with that is the guy is siring dozens and dozens of kids with random women.
00:47:36.000And that can be a problem if those kids end up meeting each other and getting together in the future kind of thing.
00:47:43.000So it's this inbreeding that goes along with that.
00:47:46.000And so, like, that is a modern-day contemporary problem that we have right now as a result of one invention that was amplified by technology later on.
00:47:58.000And you talk about that, too, how, you know, these guys in 1965 with this birth control, right?
00:48:04.000Like, the women's rights movement was more about, like, civil liberties, voting, all this other stuff.
00:48:09.000Then after 1965, it's sexual autonomy.
00:48:11.000And I think, like, I mean, you've talked about this before.
00:48:14.000The guys thought, yes, we're all going to get laid.
00:48:53.000When I make the distinction between pre-sexual revolution and post-sexual revolution, I don't think it's so much about the...
00:49:03.000I don't think it's so much about the sexual permissiveness as it is the fact that you have to look at the root technologies that allowed for that mentality to exist in the first place.
00:49:11.000So when people want to blame baby boomer men for not being able to keep their dicks in their pants, it's like, well, yeah, you would have done the same thing because it's brand new.
00:49:21.000It's something that you've never had in the history of mankind.
00:49:24.000If a technology came out today, right?
00:51:01.000I think that as far as sexual permissiveness is concerned, I think it's just the natural outcome of a technology that humanity wasn't ready for.
00:52:17.000In my fourth book, The Rational Male Religion, in the introduction, I was actually, I think it was the first introduction, the first section of it.
00:52:26.000I said, look, every so often in human history, there comes a technology that we are not, we're completely unprepared for, like nuclear weapons.
00:52:36.000Like when we drop the bombs on Hiroshima and everything, we can do this.
00:52:43.000And there's ethical implications, but not even so much that.
00:52:48.000That one technology fundamentally changed geopolitics forever.
00:52:53.000And it's what I call every now and then, remember in the Bible how it's like there's the tree of knowledge and Eve eats the apple from it.
00:53:01.000I look at that sort of as like sort of an allegory or metaphor for every now and then there's a technology or there's some new thing that drops from the tree of knowledge and we have this and now we have the responsibility to do something with this, right?
00:53:27.000It also caused wars between the Protestants and the Catholics back then because now everybody could read the Bible and they could say, you guys, there's some chicanery going on here with the Catholic Church and so now we're going to be the Protestants.
00:53:40.000Martin Luther knocks the stuff to the door there.
00:53:43.000As a result of one technology, the Gutenberg Press, movable type.
00:54:03.000The internet is just as big a deal as the Gutenberg Press.
00:54:08.000And so when I talk about these new technologies that drop off the tree of knowledge, it's sort of, like I said, it's a metaphor for what's known as evolutionary gap.
00:54:19.000And it means that technology advances way faster than our evolution and our instincts are.
00:54:27.000Can process that and see ahead of the game.
00:54:30.000So, for instance, like one of the Wright brothers start flying 1906 or 1910 or something like that.
00:54:37.000By the 50s, we have jet engines and we've got Sabre jets and we've got Phantom jets in the 1970s in less than a hundred and under a hundred years, right?
00:54:47.000We did put a man on the moon in the 60s from, you know, but we were flying in 1910, right?
00:54:56.000If you look at the computers of, say, the mid-80s to this right now, you have the access to all the world's information on this one device right here.
00:55:07.000If I was to take this back to the 70s, people would think I was the devil.
00:56:25.000I love Twitter, but, you know, I gotta say, you know, it's social media in general because, and I think it was another quote I did in the religion book, Zuby said, I'm going to paraphrase Zuby here, but human beings were never, never evolved to have the kind of communication that we have today.
00:56:41.000We evolved to be in hunter-gratherer tribes of 100, 150.
00:56:45.000And that was our local sexual marketplace.
00:56:48.000That was who you knew everybody in your group.
00:57:37.000So 18 to 29% 63% of men, males of 18 to 29, they identify as being single.
00:57:47.000Not in a relationship, but being single.
00:57:49.00037% of women in that same demographic identify as being single.
00:57:54.000So you're looking at at least 67% of those women Identify as being in a relationship, but they're not being in the relationship with their peers.
00:58:05.000They would have to be at least 30 or more.
00:58:08.000They would have to be outside of that, or else they're all fucking the same guy in 18 to 29, which might be the case.
00:58:15.000So they're either dating older or they're dating the same guys in that same age cohort right there.
00:58:19.000That is a direct result, once again, of the technology because now we have the, like when in human history did women have the ability to talk to, like a 22 year old, to talk to a 46 year old, like Kylie, which is Mike's girlfriend, 22, he's 46.
01:01:30.000I think as backwards as it sounds, because of how uncomfortable and awkward it was with this person, I didn't know what to do other than stay and suck it up.
01:01:39.000I didn't want to make the other person feel more uncomfortable, so I tried to appease the situation and make it better because staying and being miserable somehow felt easier than pissing someone off and getting in this fight and leaving and acknowledging how awkward it was.
01:01:57.000And since he wasn't saying anything, I was not going to say anything.
01:02:01.000Maybe only women will understand that, but it is confusing, and yet it's not confusing at all.
01:02:07.000I feel like we've all been there, where we're like, I didn't really want to do that, or I wasn't really into it, but then I didn't know how to get myself out of the situation, and I'm in an apartment with these two men, and he had already been being snappy.
01:02:44.000Women will say shit like this and wonder why the entire planet and every major religion has imposed strict social restrictions on their sovereignty since the dawn of time in every place humans have ever lived.
01:04:17.000And then they try to go ahead and insinuate that that's sexual assault or something.
01:04:22.000And this is, I think, why every single religion in all different types of societies at the beginning of time, they've placed super strong barriers on female sexuality and sovereignty and, most importantly, also female hypergamy as well.
01:04:36.000If you look at all the religions, Whether it's Christianity, Islam, whatever, it's like women were severely punished for exercising their hypergamy.
01:04:56.000You have to remember why those proscriptions existed in the first place.
01:05:01.000For men, in general, unless you're both white and the baby comes out black, You're not 100% sure if the baby's going to be yours.
01:05:12.000So that's why we have institutions like marriage to ensure paternity for guys.
01:05:18.000So that's why you're saying, well, if women practiced or were in any way granted some sort of unfettered freedom with hypergamy, The possibility that the child is not yours or you could get cuckolded is that much higher as a result of that.
01:05:41.000So when you look at certain, like, rituals and you look at certain, like, even prearranged marriages, for example, those prearranged marriages, the thing that gets me is every time I talk about marriage or, like, what's the purpose of marriage, Rolo?
01:05:55.000It's because aristocrats and the noblemen wanted to, you know, form alliances back in Western Europe.
01:06:30.000Okay, let's go get in front of all of our families and our friends and God himself, and we're going to make these vows.
01:06:35.000And not only are our family and our friends and everybody that knows, I'm going to put this ring on you to say that, you know, this is official kind of thing.
01:06:43.000Now, this is before there's, you know, this is before the state gets involved.
01:06:47.000You know, we're talking in like medieval Europe and whatever.
01:06:52.000Those marriages were really a formalization of monogamy.
01:06:58.000There's no marriage certificates or anything, unless it was an official treaty between France and Spain or something like that.
01:07:10.000Yes, that's my husband, that's my wife.
01:07:11.000We all got married together on this particular day, and now we are officially man and wife.
01:07:17.000Okay, so that's just simply a formalization because everybody agrees upon it and all your friends do.
01:07:23.000And if one of you breaks that agreement, then you have this sort of social institution that's there to buffer between the man and the woman cheats.
01:07:32.000You got your family and your friends and you got the church and everybody else involved.
01:07:39.000Now, that's one way of ensuring that the baby that comes out of that woman is the husband's baby that comes out of that woman, at least as best a policy as they can arrange at that time.
01:07:51.000And then if you look at pre-arranged marriages, for example, And it stabilizes society, too.
01:07:55.000Monogamy keeps men from doing crazy shit.
01:07:57.000In the 21st century, I don't think that prearranged marriages are something that is tenable today, but I do understand why they've been a thing over the course of history.
01:08:07.000And again, it wasn't, oh, I'm going to trade my daughter for 50 shekels and 30 heads of sheep or something like that.
01:08:14.000It was more about, for instance, I'm the father of a daughter.
01:08:20.000And if I wanted, if there's a formal, my son-in-law came to me before they were going to get married and he asked for permission to marry my daughter.
01:08:29.000And of course, I'm Rola Tomasi, so I got to chew his ear off for two hours, right?
01:09:38.000If you look at it, one marriage causes ripple effects and a cascade effect around those two people that affects the lives of everybody from the children to your fucking dogs, man.
01:09:49.000And so I told him, I said, what you're asking me is, is my family cool enough to be with your family?
01:09:53.000And the answer to that was yes at the time, of course.
01:09:56.000So it's not just about, that's why when a couple eloped, that's why that was so frowned upon back then.
01:10:06.000Because what it was, it was basically giving the finger to both sides of the family and say, we're going to go off and elope and we don't care what you have to say.
01:10:13.000Because we don't care about the two families co-mingling and becoming one family as a result.
01:10:19.000You know, I think the other thing, too, why arranged marriages were such a thing, and going back to female sovereignty when it comes to sexual autonomy, I think, controversial take, I think female sexual autonomy is a problem.
01:10:30.000And the reason why is that women make really bad decisions with partners most of the time.
01:10:34.000What do they look for when they're at their highest value and they're young and hot?
01:10:36.000They want a bad boy that's good-looking, has a bunch of money, and, you know, commitment-phobe, right?
01:10:43.000What'll end up happening is like her need for excitement overrides her need for security.
01:10:57.000She's less able to get it when she's younger and more attractive, less able to afterwards.
01:11:02.000And this is why I say all the time, I think the father or at least a brother or an uncle, someone close to that woman needs to be involved in the mating process because the brother or one of these guys, like they don't have a sexual interest in her.
01:11:13.000So they're going to be able to size that guy up and be like, no, this guy's fucking bad for you.
01:11:16.000This guy is here in a Harley with a leather jacket.
01:11:19.000He just wants to have sex with you and never take you seriously.
01:11:21.000I'm here to protect you from yourself, you dumb bitch.
01:11:23.000Make sure you don't make bad decisions.
01:11:24.000I don't want you to lose value because if you lose value and you're not able to find a mate, I'm still responsible for you, right?
01:11:32.000That's why women never left the house.
01:11:34.000The dad knew, if I don't marry her off, I'm going to be responsible for her.
01:11:38.000So if I have to keep giving her resources and paying for this, well, I'm going to have a stake in who the hell she marries and who she gets involved with.
01:11:44.000And then you can't finesse another dude because the guy's going to ask the real questions.
01:12:40.000Me and Eric Clary will just get together.
01:12:42.000Well, he's already part of the yarmulkes crew.
01:12:46.000What I was going to say is that I had to talk to these guys quite a bit.
01:12:50.000A lot of the men in Islam, they line up exactly with what you're talking about.
01:12:57.000That's why I said I understand the want for it because if you have an older man who understands the nature of men in general, for instance, I think it was Abu Amir, he was telling me He has sons and he has daughters.
01:13:15.000He says, I don't want my sons to be with ugly bitches.
01:13:18.000I'm going to find them good-looking women that I would want in my family.
01:13:22.000He's making a family decision, not only that, but also to find out what the best interest of his son is, as well as his daughters.
01:13:31.000He doesn't want his daughters to be with some bums or some fat dudes either.
01:14:05.000Scars on a woman are not fucking good.
01:14:07.000And, like, if you shatter a piece of glass, right, or a glass cup, right, and then you try to put water, you tape it back and everything, you try to put water in it, it's always going to leak, right?
01:14:16.000That's why I always say, like, girls that are former sex workers or girls that were, like, super promiscuous in the past, they'll never be good to you because...
01:14:56.000And you're going to see, the past is going to come to haunt a lot of these girls, man.
01:15:00.000And going back to what I was saying about the father being involved, etc., Like, this girl right here, she doesn't know what the fuck she's talking about.
01:15:10.000She's just a bunch of fucking word salad.
01:15:11.000She couldn't, like, make a conclusive decision because, like, because the guy is clearly attractive, right?
01:15:18.000But she knows he's not good for her to some degree, but she doesn't have the ability to, like, make a decision because there wasn't a man in there to help her with, like, figuring this out.
01:15:40.000Where is a responsible adult male to say, no, bitch, you're not getting on this fucking airplane with this dude you just met 45 minutes ago on fucking Tinder.
01:16:12.000Multi-millionaire, etc., Jet, all this shit.
01:16:15.000They're like, oh my god, finally it's here!
01:16:18.000And let's be honest, a lot of these girls were probably 304s when they were younger, and they know they don't qualify for this type of guy, but they're like, oh my god, he's here.
01:16:25.000That one girl took out nine bank loans for this guy.
01:16:28.000After the first two, you're going to...
01:16:30.000But when you get to the third one, where's dad?
01:16:47.000She isn't a man to come step in and do anything for her.
01:16:49.000I'm like, the whole fucking show is about this guy taking this girl to the cleaner for fucking nine fucking bank loans.
01:16:57.000And had one responsible dude, a friend, I don't care, some positively masculine motherfucker steps in and says, no, you're going to get killed if you go on this plane to go to, I don't know, Mykonos, where the fuck they were going, right?
01:17:40.000To say, no, I'm going to physically restrain you from going and getting on this private jet and flying off to who knows where to get sold into white slavery or whatever the fuck it is.
01:19:00.000Because you're going to have this cognitive dissonance between I don't need no man to protect me and oh my god, people are running around New York cold cocking random women and it's men's fault for not being masculine machismo men to come out and defend us.
01:19:18.000Oh, here's one and he went to jail for a result of it.
01:19:20.000So it's this Like I said, this cascade effect.
01:20:26.000Like, you can go ahead and put yourself in a very precarious, dangerous situation where you end up the victim of sexual assault, or you regret the sex after the fact, and then like, you know, now you're going ahead and making a bullshit me too accusation, no one believes you, whatever.
01:20:38.000So it's like, The thing that's interesting is she will do this solo.
01:20:57.000She doesn't know which way to go with it because if she goes one direction, it contradicts going the decisions that she made for the other direction.
01:21:06.000And so she's there trying to sort this out for herself and wondering why she's in this precarious...
01:21:11.000And of course, it's all men's fault, right?
01:21:13.000But the reason why she's having this is because she's trying to sort out cognitive dissonance for herself.
01:21:19.000And there's one very simple cure for that.
01:22:31.000You've probably heard of, like, mate guarding as a mate guarding behavior, right?
01:22:34.000That's when a man and a woman, the guy's like, you know, wants to keep his bitch and, you know, doesn't want her to go out on him or anything like that.
01:23:10.000And I see them, actually them both, protect the other from like, my niece will protect my nephew from like, don't get with that bitch because she looks like she's a slut.
01:23:20.000And then there's How old are they dating itself?
01:23:47.000To have the baby of somebody else's baby, some other tribe's baby, some other clan's baby that I don't want to be associated with for the rest of my fucking life.
01:23:56.000Because now we have this kid, we don't believe in abortion, and so therefore we're going to keep the kid.
01:24:00.000And it hurts our abilities to get with the Klan that you might want in the future.
01:24:05.000And so what you're doing is, it's really that kind of guarding, you can call it patriarchal, whatever you want, but it's a parental instinct, a parental instinct for guarding.
01:24:15.000Well, mostly fathers and daughters, obviously, because women are the incubators of the next generation, right?
01:24:20.000So, if an intruder comes in from outside, an outside tribe comes in, impregnates your daughter, and then takes off, well, now you have the burden of a daughter that, back then, of course, there's a stigma on the social side that goes to it, but now that becomes a resource drain for you as well.
01:24:38.000So, now you have another child, and there's no...
01:25:18.000And it's like, it doesn't come from a...
01:25:22.000A motivation or an impulse for wanting to control.
01:25:26.000It comes from wanting to protect, wanting the best for my family and my friends too.
01:25:33.000Because again, I don't want any of the girls that I know as friends of the shows or something like that, if they're going through some bullshit like that that I can help them avoid, I'm going to help them because then I don't have to hear the bullshit.
01:26:25.000By the way, if you're paying taxes, you're actually paying to be delimited and blacklisted and shadow banned and have your traffic redirected to state-approved masculinity sites right now.
01:26:36.000Well, there was a country, it was England or Australia, like, they're trying to make it a crime.
01:27:02.000And of course, it's very ambiguously defined.
01:27:05.000About two weeks ago, they put the proposal on the books that they can extradite influencers that in any way influence the civil unrest or whatever in the UK, which of course they were dealing with at that time, right?
01:27:17.000So they want to say, well, if you're talking shit about us and you're in the United States or you're in another country and you're an influencer...
01:27:23.000We have the right to extradite you and bring you into the country and prosecute you under our laws, which I don't know how they make that stick.
01:27:29.000Yeah, because we have First Amendment laws here, freedom of speech.
01:29:09.000You know, and it's crazy because, you know, I love how they try to paint Because what ends up happening is they try to paint sexism as misogyny.
01:29:18.000I think sexism is good because sexism basically distinguishes that there's polarity between genders and we're different, right?
01:29:24.000It's what keeps the bathroom separate.
01:29:26.000So don't want to have weirdos abusing our little boys or little girls.
01:29:30.000It's how we protect women from weirdo guys in sports that want to compete as women.
01:29:35.000Nature and evolution has a sexist bias.
01:29:40.000It's just like, if I go ahead and I'm a gentleman to a woman, I pay for the bill, I treat her well, I pick her up, and I do, you know, I practice chivalry.
01:30:21.000And there is only the aspects of masculinity that are approved and complement the female imperative.
01:30:27.000And then there's the parts that don't.
01:30:29.000Anything that benefits a man exclusively, that's toxic.
01:30:33.000But anything like when the floodwaters rise and you need somebody to save your ass off the top of a fucking roof, then suddenly masculinity is no longer toxic anymore.
01:30:46.000But the thing is, when you're looking at those aspects of masculinity, the same masculinity that causes a guy or fireman to run into a burning building and save a baby is the same masculinity that those guys on Jackass have when they go and do stupid stunts.
01:31:01.000I see these guys on Instagram where these guys jump off these huge cliffs into the water down below.
01:31:43.000And they'll say things like, well, I just want a guy that's like...
01:31:47.000Pays for the bills, super masculine, goes to the gym, has a beard, but at the same time cries all the time, super in touch with his feelings, like, you know, can get dressed with me.
01:36:42.000Hot girls or attractive girls don't have to have personalities and be funny and interesting because they don't have to.
01:36:47.000If you've gotten everything that you wanted, like, oh yeah, I get laid every day by a hot girl and I got a bunch of money and shit like that, but I never had to develop myself.
01:36:55.000Why am I going to go to the gym or learn stand-up or learn how to be interesting?
01:37:47.000I was on Access Vegas like two weeks ago, and I brought up this point to Mike Sartain.
01:37:53.000I said, any new technology, especially when it comes to media technology, The success or the failure of that technology is how it is applied to pornography.
01:38:04.000How it is applied to this human sexual response, right?
01:38:07.000So, if you go back and you look at, say, VHS and Beta, the reason why VHS won out is because more porn was shot and recorded to VHS than it was to Beta, right?
01:38:17.000Bill, have that timestamp because we'll have to probably clean that part up.
01:38:24.000And if you look at, say, old school photography, like one with black and white with a big old flash thing that would come up like that, the first images they shot was naked chicks or guys getting their dicks sucked by their wife or their girlfriend, right?
01:38:36.000Or if you go back in time to like the...
01:38:46.000We know about those famous guys, right?
01:38:48.000But what you don't know about is all the other painters whose names you don't need or lost to history who were painting chicks with big hooters and, you know, it was, oh, it's the Madonna and the child.
01:39:01.000And you go back to, like, Greco-Roman statuary.
01:39:04.000Maybe they were gay, but they were still, like, you know, doing very realistic, you know, sculptures as far back as, like, you know, Athenian Greece, right?
01:39:12.000And so you go all the way back and pretty much all the way back to, like, cave drawings, like, you know, cavemen on the case.
01:39:19.000And somebody sent me This image of this picture.
01:39:22.000They just discovered this in Germany or some cave somewhere.
01:39:27.000And it's basically some chick that's bent over.
01:39:46.000I think the reason why we have innovation, the reason why we have cameras, the reason why we have the technology base that we have, all but my men who wanted to get laid.
01:39:55.000Yeah, and this is why men are better than women at everything.
01:40:47.000And so I think you and I have both seen sort of the paradigm shift in the Red Pill and the Manosphere over the course of just three fucking years.
01:41:06.000And I didn't say it wouldn't, but I said, I hope it didn't because you're going to have a lot of people and a lot of these bad actors who are going to come in and they're going to either like I don't think we've said anything that's really over-the-top crazy or anything like that.
01:41:47.000Now, if I look at Chris Williamson, Chris Williamson at one point when he was at 500,000 subs, he did this like celebration, you know, Q&A, AMA on his channel.
01:41:58.000And everybody in that fucking damn near everybody in that stream said, you need to get Rolo on the show.
01:42:42.000He will take anybody except for me and anybody except for you.
01:42:45.000He's yet to have you on there as well.
01:42:46.000But that doesn't preempt them from talking shit about us, either indirectly or directly, and say, oh, it's those red pill poets, these horrible...
01:42:55.000By the way, you and I are degenerates.
01:43:36.000It's girl talk with fucking Cindy and Lindsay, and all they do is talk about their one-night stands and what happened, blah, blah, and this is the position that I like, and if you tried it to do this way, I know of no, even the most degen, autist,
01:45:09.000My thing is why I don't eat box and why I don't think guys should do it is because it puts you in a subservient position to someone who's inferior to you, which is a female.
01:45:18.000You mentioned that probably like once or twice on a show or something.
01:46:48.000They can't argue with it because you can't sit there and be like, well, yeah, I want to be able to work electively or not work at all.
01:46:53.000So you're looking at it from like just a logistical, like a logical perspective because you're making a comparison between like making money providing in one realm and then you're taking the logic from that realm and you're putting it into the sexual realm is what you're doing.
01:47:10.000I'm giving a functional equivalent because like with since like because we there's no movie there's no t-shirt because i missed the t-shirt about don't eat pussy uh oh yeah what was it we have like mo no not november so we should have let's see uh you know no no cunnilingus yeah june or so yeah and here's the thing like when i say this right obviously i'm saying this like somewhat sarcastically right like like as a guy if it's your main girl like you should you know want to make her come right if it's your main girl if it's some random bimbo then that But if it's like your
01:47:45.000But honestly speaking, and the reason why I say this too, and you're going to agree with me on this, because it's a self-fulfilling prophecy, is that If you get off, a lot of times girls get off on you getting off.
01:47:57.000If she actually likes you, and you don't have to do all this extra shit.
01:48:00.000If she actually has burning genuine desires, you say all the time, she's going to get off more on you getting off because that's her validation, is being able to get you off as the guy if she truly likes you.
01:48:10.000Now, if you're a fucking loser and shit, and she don't like you like that, yeah, you're going to have to eat her box and do all this other disgusting shit because she don't like you that much.
01:48:17.000You've got to make up for lost ground, fat boy.
01:48:19.000When you and I... When you and I... It's true.
01:48:24.000It's always the fat niggas that eat box, right?
01:48:26.000It's always the ugly, fat motherfuckers that are the grossest.
01:49:20.000When you and I had this conversation last time, and I told you this, I said, because we were talking about, I think we were talking about female orgasm or something.
01:49:56.000It's usually to keep you interested enough to have sex with you so that when she's not on shark week that the possibility of you inseminating her is higher.
01:50:13.000So they're trying to say, okay, if a behavior exists, whether it's sexual or not, but if a behavior exists, that's the praxeology of the red pill, okay?
01:50:23.000Write down these types of studies, Bill.
01:50:25.000So, praxeologically speaking, there has to be, if a human being is engaged in a particular behavior, there's probably a function for it.
01:50:32.000They're not just randomly doing it, right?
01:50:34.000Usually, it's survival or it's reproduction.
01:50:36.000In this case, obviously, it's reproduction, right?
01:50:38.000So, what getting head is, or eating kitty is, is a mate retention process.
01:50:44.000And so when you say, well, fat guys eat pussy, you're probably right in that sense.
01:50:49.000I would say that maybe there's more of a predisposition for guys who are lower value to eat pussy because if they do and they get the girl off, then that girl has the oxytocin flush after orgasm and everything and probably says, okay, well, he eats pussy pretty good.
01:51:03.000And here's other things, too, I will say.
01:51:04.000Obviously, I'm being funny here and making some jokes and shit, trying to keep myself awake because I'm delirious.
01:51:09.000But what I will say also that's really important, what I've noticed is the nastiest guys, whether they're doing things with the butt or vagina or whatever, the nastiest dudes, They're almost always lower sexual market value.
01:51:25.000Of course you're going to get guys in there that are chads and got their shit together or whatever that still do that weird shit, but hyper-masculine dominant men that are attractive and have options don't do that shit, bro.
01:51:36.000There's a difference between doing something to a girl and then doing it like you're right there in the moment doing it.
01:51:45.000It's guys who have something to prove.
01:55:07.000And again, it's low-value guys trying to do mate retention and trying to prove that they have some sort of value added as a result of being into this weird shit.
01:55:19.000And it's like, oh, well, if it's some sort of like...
01:55:22.000Esoteric refinery or something like, oh, it's fine wine.
01:55:26.000I like shoes and I like watching girls walk around in little teeny tiny feet or some shit like that.
01:56:49.000Here's the thing, too, like, with Chris Williamson, because I met him in person.
01:56:51.000I hung out with him in Miami one time, and I'm really, like, disappointed that, like, you know, he's going to put everybody, like, in this box.
01:56:57.000It's like, dude, interview the fucking top guys in the sphere, then come to these conclusions.
01:57:01.000Like, don't, you know, make a blanket statements like this.
01:57:04.000Like, oh, yeah, you know, they're fucking talking about this.
01:57:07.000And by the way, he's not the only one that does this, but he's got a big platform for it.
01:57:12.000You talk about intersexual dynamics all the time.
01:57:15.000It's like, bring the top guys that talk about the shit.
01:57:36.000So the thing, and Mike Sartain told me this, he said, don't sweat these guys right now, he says, because we're just going to keep going and keep doing what we're doing until it becomes so blatantly obvious, because it becomes weird that we haven't been on the show yet.
01:57:51.000Yeah, I mean, I've talked to him before.
01:58:11.000But it's like, I'm like, in my head, I'm like, A lot of your content, a substantial amount, is literally intersexual dynamics, and you're not talking to the top guys in this field.
01:58:21.000And when they do bring us up, it's indirectly, and it's some snarky, stupid remark that's going to be the clip.
01:58:39.000Bringing a guy on like me, I'm completely aware that might hurt opportunities that you have in the future with my political views, whatever.
01:59:59.000Probably one of the best blends of the analytical data side while also simultaneously having contemporary data.
02:00:06.000One of the reasons he said he wouldn't bring me on, remember I told you he did his 500,000 AM? One of the reasons he said he didn't want to bring me on is because he was afraid of losing half of his audience.
02:00:16.000If he brought me on, the chicks would flee.
02:01:45.000yeah i think you're probably one of the best because here's the thing i like dr bus but he's a nerd and he's not really in the sexual marketplace like cool he gives you like you know human evolution and how it is and etc it gives you like the kind of the the the mechanical functions an interesting interview yeah he gives you the mechanical functions but how is he going to be able to apply that to the sexual marketplace today not really when i watch his interviews he has zero real world application um examples to give He'll talk about mating,
02:02:14.000primates, all this bullshit, but he can't tell you how that applies today.
02:02:18.000I think what's interesting is I get hate from these guys who I'm now calling these gatekeepers of evolutionary psychology like Alex from Datesight or Mac and Murphy.
02:02:28.000I mean, to a lesser degree, maybe even Dr.
02:02:31.000And the thing that I get the most is that one of the reasons they sort of dedicate their fucking lives and their studies and everything else to sort of debunk the red pill is because they don't like the interpretations that I do of the same data that they have.
02:03:10.000One quote that stuck in my head is he said that the last 15 years of pickup artistry has advanced our understanding of intersexual dynamics more than the last 150 years of psychology and social studies because pickup artists don't have the same field restrictions of ethics and everything else that if they're out there doing these experiments which is run by women now the psychology board is all run by females 90 some odd percent and then by the way the teachers We're
02:04:04.00050-50, then we might be able to have a discussion.
02:04:07.000But when we talk about the crisis of replication in psychology, in the social sciences, even in the hard sciences right now, look no further than the implicit biases of those impacted...
02:04:23.000And I will guarantee you, if you're looking at social studies or sociology, if you're looking at psychology, most of the students and most of the teachers in those fields are female.
02:04:34.000That is going to create an implicit bias in those fields.
02:04:38.000So the thing is, even if I'm taking those data, I'm taking data from Steve Stewart-Williams, from Rolf Dengen, from Dr.
02:04:45.000David Buss, Robert Trivers, certainly Marty Hazelton, I mean Hector Garcia from Dr.
02:04:55.000I'm taking their data and I am just connecting dots that these guys are either unwilling or unable to do.
02:05:02.000Just like Nick Krauser says, the pickup artists didn't have the ethical limitations of those particular fields For the last 150 years, but in 15 years of Mystery Method and RSD and pickup artists and stuff, the data that's been collected in the field of like intersexual dynamics,
02:05:19.000guys going and getting dates, getting laid, whatever it is, It has advanced our understanding of intersexual dynamics further than 150 years of sociology and psychology up to this point.
02:05:29.000And you tell that to one of these guys who's in their ivory tower as an evolutionary psychology gatekeeper, they don't want to fucking hear that because you're trying to steal their thunder.
02:05:40.000You're trying to take away their theater of war, right?
02:05:45.000So when I'm collecting data and I'm making those distinctions and I'm connecting those dots, they don't want to answer the questions that those dots create when I make those connections.
02:05:57.000Because in some way, it's going to alienate them.
02:06:01.000And it's not enough For a psychologist to just be a psychologist or a pastor to be a pastor or an influencer.
02:06:09.000Everybody's got to be an influencer today.
02:07:07.000If you're going to make any money and be in any way some sort of celebrity or some sort of personality online now, And I mentioned pastors as well.
02:07:15.000It used to be like, certainly Christian pastors, it used to be you just go to church on Sunday, deliver the sermon, and you go home, right?
02:08:23.000She wants a man that's physically strong and capable, a man that's confident, a man that's ambitious because these are all provider values, security values, whatever.
02:08:34.000Like you said before, they don't interpret the data for you.
02:08:36.000Now, I think the reason why these psychologists and these clean-cut Intersexual dynamic creators like a Chris Williamson, a Jordan Peterson, etc.
02:08:45.000The reason why they don't want to actually take that data and interpret it is because you're going to come to the fucking conclusion.
02:08:52.000A lot of these girls are fucking sluts.
02:09:43.000That's why they dominate the psychology board.
02:09:45.000But they don't like how to deal with their fucked up psychology.
02:09:48.000And guys like me and you are out here telling guys what it is.
02:09:52.000That's why the self-help section of every Barnes& Noble is nothing but female authors and is entirely geared for, like, rebuild your life, girl.
02:09:59.000Because if you tell men what it really takes to get women, right, to really be attractive, to be arousing, it's fucked up.
02:10:08.000Because what it reveals is that women are far more shallow than they want to admit.
02:10:31.000I took your data points, connected these dots, and now I'm misogynist because I connected the dots that you didn't want to because if you had done that, you would lose half of your audience.
02:10:43.000Somebody asked Jordan Peterson, because I went to one of his seminars before, like, Oh, like, how do I get the girl?
02:11:26.000And we tell them step by step, this is what you do.
02:11:29.000We looked at this boring ass data for you motherfuckers and we're telling you A to Z what to do.
02:11:33.000Because the problem with these fucking academics is they're not going to give you real solutions to deal with, most importantly, modern women.
02:11:41.000And the minute you do is the minute they'll say, you're corrupting our data.
02:12:12.000They don't have the real world fucking application on any of this shit because they know the science but they don't know the real science because now you have to actually take this stuff and apply it.
02:12:23.000And that's where they fail because when I went to Peterson's things and when he gives dating advice, it's generic and it doesn't fucking work.
02:12:29.000If anything, He interpreted his own data incorrectly for 2024.
02:13:24.000And these women couldn't get enough of this guy.
02:13:26.000In fact, we couldn't even get enough of watching the damn thing, right?
02:13:28.000And so if I go and I say, well, the Tinder Swindler, that guy was an archetype for these dark triad personality traits.
02:13:34.000I make that connection That shows not that Swindler is being abusive, but the woman as being sort of manipulated by her own fucking nature, right?
02:13:45.000And so if I say it's women's nature to love the bad boy, it's women's nature to love the narcissist, the psychopath, and the Machiavellian guy in varying combinations, and they find that guy irresistible.
02:15:54.000Which is why they will steer research and experimentation away from anything, any kind of data that might imply that or in some way like back that up.
02:16:05.000It's the pickup artists that really have the best, like you said before, 15 years of pickup artistry has blown away the fucking psychology.
02:16:13.000Because here's the thing that these psychologists don't want to fucking admit.
02:16:16.000You fucking dickheads learn from the pickup artists that you're scared to fucking emulate.
02:17:31.000John from MLD in a fucking bubble bath going, fuck all you guys, and he's got a bigger following than you, and then the last four years or five years that you've been fucking around in college, he's been making money hand over fist, talking to the same people that you would be your patients, that you would want them to, I'm going to help these guys,
02:17:49.000Didn't matter because all you had to do was go and create your own Kajabi course or you just got to be a good, interesting, entertaining individual and you would have been able to have been more effective doing what John or me or anybody else has been doing for God knows how long.
02:18:04.000And meanwhile, now knowing that and coming into Instagram, coming onto Twitter, coming onto YouTube and everything, I would say that that would piss me off if I put 10 years of my life Doing the right thing.
02:18:16.000I think me and you're both coming to this.
02:18:18.000I mean, you probably knew this already, but for me, I'm kind of like thinking in my head, I'm connecting dots in my head.
02:18:22.000This is why the academics don't want to fucking talk to us, bro.
02:18:30.000We will take their data and interpret it correctly and dispense what guys really need because they don't care about all this fucking monkey jargon shit like, you know, like, no, they just want, dude, what the fuck do I do?
02:19:39.000If you go ahead and you talk about this stuff that's unflattering of female nature, it's going to put a lot of them off and piss them off because women don't handle the truth well.
02:19:47.000And I think until recently, if you talked about this shit, no one was talking negatively.
02:19:57.000Even pickup artists, they were still like Somewhat nice about female nature.
02:20:03.000They will tell you like what you need to do or whatever.
02:20:46.000Video poker machines and video slot machines and everything, Wheel of Fortune, Buffalo, all this stuff is like, it's just sensory overload, right?
02:21:35.000That's red flaming tits in social media right there.
02:21:38.000If you say something that's over the top like that, people will remember that.
02:21:41.000And the reason why they will is because they've been so overloaded by sensory overload by being on social media and become so desensitized to shit.
02:21:49.000It takes you're a dumb bitch to get people's attention.
02:21:53.000Not because you're trying to be an asshole.
02:21:55.000You're just trying to grab attention and say, this is important enough that you need red flaming tits in front of your face.
02:22:01.000Otherwise, you're never going to see this in this morass of...
02:22:05.000To get the attention that's required to change men's minds and deprogram them from the stupidity, you have to risk being so offensive that people won't platform you.
02:22:31.000I know what the fuck I'm talking about.
02:22:34.000You put me in a room with these academics with a bunch of girls there, I'm going to run circles around them because not only do I have their data points and know them, Now I know how to actually interpret it and use it in a modernized sexual marketplace where women have 100% sexual autonomy and they have more options than ever before and it's an ever-changing marketplace.
02:23:25.000There's religion involved in all of this.
02:23:27.000You think of all the ways and all the fields and all the sub-fields where intersexual dynamics reaches, and we have to have some kind of working field knowledge.
02:23:38.000I'm not a fucking brain surgeon, but I do know that men and women's brains are architecturally different because I've read enough of other people's data to make that something that I can go, okay, that kind of locks in with the fact that women want dark triad traits or You mentioned politically.
02:23:53.000See, here's another thing, right, that these academics aren't going to fucking get.
02:23:57.000I mean, you could talk about this forever, right?
02:24:00.000Like, their stuff ends at the academic research show.
02:24:46.000Because they understand that men that are traditionally conservative, Republicans typically tend to have more masculine traits, tend to want to be providers, Can Dr.
02:25:05.000Buss or any of these other fucking idiots interpret that?
02:25:07.000They're not going to be able to tell you, yeah, these bitches on Twitter or on social media or these women that are running around MAGA hats, etc., they're doing it as a part of a sexual fucking strategy.
02:25:15.000You really think they give a fuck about Trump?
02:25:16.000They don't even know any of his policies.
02:25:18.000They're doing it because they know if I align with this tribe, I can find the man that I want.
02:25:24.000And I can go ahead and align myself with these guys because these guys still have the traits that I'm neurologically wanting.
02:25:30.000They have these provider male traits because I'm tired of dating these pussies that are on the left that are super liberal that think it's okay to split a fucking bill.
02:25:37.000And perfect proof of this, there was a woman from LA, like hipster bitch, short hair like this, super liberal.
02:25:44.000She was dressed like a fucking dude, whatever, you know, that weird hipster shit.
02:25:47.000She admitted, yeah, I went out with this guy who was like a dude, bro, right?
02:25:51.000That's more like, you know, conservative, whatever.
02:25:54.000And she was like, he paid for the bill.
02:26:48.000They can tell you, like, women, you know, their sexual strategies to get the best guy that they can, but that ends there.
02:26:56.000They can't explain to you why these bitches are all going MAGA. They can't explain to you, like, why these women are going ahead and getting with these, like, guys that don't align with them politically, but we can, and that's the difference.
02:27:07.000And the minute they do, they align themselves with something ideologically, and then they're put in one tribe or the other.
02:27:15.000So that's why I say they're either unable or unwilling.
02:27:18.000And usually they're unwilling because the moment they say this is best practices, this is what we've discerned from all of this, then suddenly now their ideological bent becomes made aware.
02:27:30.000I always say that when I'm talking about certain aspects of, say, hypergamy or if I talk about ovulatory shift or I talk about dual mating strategy and things like that, I don't think it's going to be evolutionary psychology that proves evolutionary or ovulatory shift or dual mating strategy.
02:27:46.000It's going to be evolutionary biology.
02:27:48.000It's going to be hard sciences that are going to show that.
02:28:14.000Like right now you have certain political years that affect things, right?
02:28:17.000That's why all these women are like in the past two to three years as we led up to this election year, I've seen an explosion in trad thoughts, right?
02:28:24.000You see trends, you see all this stuff.
02:28:25.000So like it's very difficult for an academic to interpret all this information that's coming in rapidly by the way.
02:28:31.000And be able to dispense proper advice on it.
02:29:07.000The fact is, I think what happens is they want so badly To find some way to erase the red pill, to debunk the entire reason for their research is to debunk the red pill.
02:29:21.000If that's not overt, explicit bias, I don't know what the fuck is.
02:29:27.000So when I see stuff like that as explicitly, even if they say, well, we did this as objectively as possible, but then during their explaining the research to, say, a Chris Williamson or something like that, Well, it looks like those red pill guys were wrong.
02:29:42.000Or if they were right, they'd try to downplay it and caveat it in a way, right?
02:29:46.000But the reason why they would even do that in the first place is because there is an ideological explicit bias that's already there.
02:29:55.000You guys will never listen to anything that's confounding to the red pill.
02:29:58.000No, we do all the time, and we also compare it not just to evolutionary psychology, but evolutionary biology, sociology, anthropology, endocrinology.
02:30:49.000I'm not a fucking sociologist or an anthropologist or whatever.
02:30:53.000But I know enough about those fields where I can pull data points from those and I can connect the dots between those data sets and say, this looks like a dynamic to me.
02:31:04.000And just me saying, here's the data that I have and what do you think?
02:31:08.000That means that I'm trying to convince you of something or I'm, again, what did I say?
02:31:13.000You can't give people data without telling them how to feel about it.
02:31:17.000If I've spent my entire life as a research scientist If an evolutionary psychologist and some yahoo with no degree or certainly not in evolutionary psychology comes along and says, hey, I'm taking some of your data and I'm going to use some of your data and I'm going to correlate it with these data points that I have right here,
02:31:37.000you're going to be pretty pissed off because you probably spent the last eight to ten years becoming a doctor in evolutionary psychology.
02:32:20.000There's a difference between research studies where you're putting out questionnaires for people to say, do you strongly agree, agree, somewhat agree, neutral, or disagree, blah, blah, blah.
02:32:34.000Theory and application are two different things.
02:32:41.000But the thing is, there's a difference between filling out questionnaires and And going out into the field and observing the gorillas in the mist, right?
02:32:49.000Like being Jane Goodall or Diane Fossey at, like, I can go to Babes in Toyland and I can, I'm sober, so I'm watching the humans in their natural habitat.
02:32:59.000Is that, is that, is, is, is Diane Fossey and Jane Goodall's, is their research that they did over the course of decades at observational field work, is that less quantitative?
02:33:11.000Quality of less value than a questionnaire you do on Twitter.
02:33:16.000I think it's more valuable because you're there watching it happen live in real time all day long.
02:33:22.000So you're looking at field research versus experimentive research which is, you know, fill out this questionnaire and do you agree or strongly disagree.
02:33:28.000Nothing like these academics and these researchers, right?
02:33:32.000It's completely different to do research and be like, with control variables and shit.
02:33:44.000Phones, them using their phones, making the right timing, figuring out, you know, social, figuring out, like, looking at her body language.
02:34:09.000If the academic were to watch the pickup artists doing what they're doing, the academic would immediately be able to say, oh, okay, this makes sense why he's doing that, etc.
02:37:07.000And then we got Ian says, went to Barnes and Nobles to get the Rational Male Self-Transformation Section dedicated to witchcraft and drugs.
02:37:15.000W, Rolo, Myron, Rolo, Pod, and Moe in the back, working hard.