Fresh & Fit - FreshandFit Take Over Las Vegas!

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00:00:48.000 Welcome, guys.

00:00:49.000 Welcome to the weekly show that we do here.

00:00:51.000 It's so great to have everybody.

00:00:52.000 Could everybody turn the volume down on your phone?

00:00:54.000 Because somebody's got it all the way up.

00:00:56.000 Guys, we're here for Access Vegas.

00:00:58.000 My man, Rolo Tomasi, is in the house.

00:00:58.000 We've got a special one.

00:01:00.000 And we've got our brothers that came all the way down from Miami.

00:01:03.000 Fresh and fit.

00:01:03.000 What's going on, guys?

00:01:04.000 What's up, man?

00:01:06.000 What's up, man?

00:01:07.000 We're back, man.

00:01:07.000 We are here.

00:01:09.000 We are here.

00:01:10.000 This show I didn't think was going to happen this week.

00:01:12.000 Yeah.

00:01:13.000 Yeah, last minute we came out for a Rumble event, Power Slap event, so we just came from there.

00:01:18.000 It was a good time.

00:01:19.000 Hung out with Sneeko for a bit and Academics and Bradley Martin.

00:01:22.000 All those guys were there, so it was a good time.

00:01:25.000 Yeah, guys, rumble.com slash Fresh Fruit.

00:01:27.000 You guys know where to find us if we get canceled.

00:01:30.000 And CastleClub.tv.

00:01:31.000 So we'll go ahead and, without further ado, introduce the ladies, right?

00:01:34.000 So ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course.

00:01:39.000 Your body count.

00:01:41.000 And we're gonna start right here.

00:01:43.000 So Lady in Red. 0.99

00:01:44.000 My name is Jen Garcia.

00:01:44.000 Hello everyone.

00:01:46.000 I am 49, 50 in two months.

00:01:48.000 I'm an actress, a writer, a podcaster.

00:01:51.000 I do On the Block with Jen and also Sisterhood Sips all week long.

00:01:55.000 And what else did you need?

00:01:57.000 Where did you from originally?

00:01:58.000 Bronx, New York originally.

00:02:00.000 Now I'm a Las Vegas local.

00:02:02.000 Okay.

00:02:02.000 What's your highest education level completed?

00:02:05.000 Some college is what I put down on applications when I'm filling out an application.

00:02:09.000 Do you have your associates or?

00:02:11.000 Okay.

00:02:11.000 Associates.

00:02:12.000 In?

00:02:13.000 Hotel hospitality management.

00:02:14.000 Okay.

00:02:15.000 And then relationship status?

00:02:16.000 Single. 0.99

00:02:17.000 Damn still? 1.00

00:02:17.000 All right. 1.00

00:02:19.000 No, not still.

00:02:21.000 What about you?

00:02:21.000 All right.

00:02:21.000 What's your name?

00:02:22.000 Lana Terries.

00:02:23.000 Okay.

00:02:24.000 How old are you?

00:02:26.000 I'm going to be 34 in January, so 33.

00:02:28.000 Okay.

00:02:28.000 Where are you from?

00:02:29.000 Originally L.A., but I live here.

00:02:31.000 Okay.

00:02:32.000 What do you do for work?

00:02:33.000 I am an engineer here at Sticky Paw Studios, and I'm a comedian, and I'm a podcast host for Laughing with Lana.

00:02:41.000 Okay.

00:02:41.000 When you say engineer, like a sound engineer?

00:02:43.000 No, well, I engineer the podcast here, and that's why I knew how to move the mic.

00:02:50.000 And then, highest education level completed?

00:02:50.000 Okay.

00:02:52.000 She's our big mo. 1.00

00:02:53.000 Some college, like we said.

00:02:55.000 You have an associate's, or...?

00:02:58.000 I almost finished associates for psychology, but then I went into medical and I did a technical class, I guess you can say, for cardiology.

00:03:09.000 So I was a cardiology tech in the ER for almost nine years.

00:03:12.000 Okay.

00:03:13.000 And then, relationship status?

00:03:17.000 Happily!

00:03:17.000 Single!

00:03:18.000 Alright, what about you?

00:03:20.000 What's your name?

00:03:20.000 I am Carly.

00:03:21.000 I am 28.

00:03:23.000 Where are you from?

00:03:24.000 Born in North Carolina, but I grew up here.

00:03:26.000 What part of North Carolina?

00:03:27.000 Charlotte.

00:03:29.000 And then what do you do for?

00:03:30.000 I am a costume designer and a model manager.

00:03:33.000 Okay, and then highest education level completed?

00:03:37.000 High school.

00:03:38.000 Okay, relationship status?

00:03:40.000 All right, cool.

00:03:40.000 Single.

00:03:41.000 Single train.

00:03:42.000 Keep going.

00:03:43.000 My name's Domo.

00:03:45.000 Domo?

00:03:46.000 Okay, how old are you?

00:03:46.000 Domo.

00:03:47.000 I'm 34.

00:03:48.000 Okay, where are you from?

00:03:49.000 I'm originally from LA and I live here now.

00:03:52.000 Okay, what do you do for it?

00:03:54.000 I'm an adult entertainer, podcaster, and I do many things.

00:04:01.000 Are we talking like OF or are we talking like... 0.94

00:04:04.000 No, I'm a mainstream porn star. 0.92

00:04:05.000 Mainstream, okay. 0.70

00:04:06.000 Cool.

00:04:07.000 And then highest education level completed?

00:04:09.000 Some college.

00:04:10.000 Okay.

00:04:11.000 Like associates or...?

00:04:12.000 No.

00:04:14.000 So high school then, I guess?

00:04:15.000 Completed.

00:04:16.000 I completed high school.

00:04:17.000 Okay.

00:04:17.000 Yeah, I went to school at LA Recording School for sound engineering music production, but I didn't finish.

00:04:22.000 Okay.

00:04:22.000 And then relationship status?

00:04:23.000 Single.

00:04:24.000 All right.

00:04:25.000 What about you?

00:04:26.000 Hi, I'm Nellie.

00:04:28.000 I am originally from Toronto, but I just moved to Beverly Hills from Miami.

00:04:33.000 I was there for 10 years.

00:04:34.000 I am 28 years old, single but looking.

00:04:38.000 What do you do for it?

00:04:40.000 So I own a matchmaking and dating coaching business.

00:04:43.000 I also am a television personality and a content creator.

00:04:48.000 Okay.

00:04:48.000 And then high school, highest education level completed?

00:04:51.000 So I have a certificate from Harvard Business School and a master's degree from Columbia University.

00:04:57.000 Oh, wow.

00:04:58.000 Okay.

00:04:58.000 And what?

00:04:59.000 In conflict resolution, negotiation, and I'm trained in mediation.

00:05:03.000 Nice! 0.94

00:05:04.000 That's great for dating. 0.99

00:05:05.000 So garbage. 1.00

00:05:07.000 That's great for dating modern women, yeah. 1.00

00:05:09.000 Well, it's all that you bring to the table, right?

00:05:11.000 That's a negotiation.

00:05:12.000 Terrorist negotiation, I think that would be helpful. 1.00

00:05:16.000 And then relationship status?

00:05:17.000 So I'm single.

00:05:18.000 Single, okay.

00:05:19.000 And looking, yeah.

00:05:20.000 Okay, single and looking.

00:05:21.000 And then you said you run a matchmaking service.

00:05:22.000 Do you matchmake women with men or do other way around? 0.75

00:05:25.000 I actually have male and female clients, so I matchmake both, yes.

00:05:30.000 Okay.

00:05:30.000 What about you?

00:05:32.000 I'm Lady Maso.

00:05:34.000 Lady what? 0.99

00:05:35.000 Maso?

00:05:35.000 Lady Maso.

00:05:36.000 Maso, okay.

00:05:38.000 How old are you?

00:05:39.000 36.

00:05:40.000 Where are you from?

00:05:41.000 I'm from Miami.

00:05:42.000 Okay.

00:05:43.000 I'm from Colombia, but I live in Miami now.

00:05:45.000 Okay.

00:05:45.000 Paisa?

00:05:49.000 What do you do for work?

00:05:51.000 I'm a painter and sometimes acting.

00:05:55.000 Do you actually live in the city of Miami or where are you at?

00:05:58.000 Yeah, I live right there in downtown Brickell.

00:06:01.000 If anything I was supposed to go to you guys.

00:06:04.000 The irony.

00:06:06.000 You got scared?

00:06:10.000 I got so scared.

00:06:12.000 They told me that you guys were going to treat me so bad.

00:06:14.000 And I was like, I'm literally shaking right now. 0.97

00:06:19.000 I was like, damn, I tried not to go with them, and they're here. 0.97

00:06:23.000 Well, you could have just not come. 0.98

00:06:25.000 No, you know what?

00:06:26.000 I was looking at the little baby, and I was like, he looks so familiar.

00:06:29.000 I was like, oh.

00:06:30.000 And I was asking my friends, like, do you guys think he looks so familiar?

00:06:33.000 And they're like, because they're from here, they're like, no. 0.92

00:06:35.000 And I was like, oh, okay.

00:06:36.000 But now I notice when you say that you're from Miami, I was like, oh.

00:06:39.000 Okay, that's the story you're going to say.

00:06:41.000 What's your highest education level completed?

00:06:44.000 Some college, hotel management, and high school.

00:06:46.000 You have an associates?

00:06:47.000 No.

00:06:48.000 Okay, so I'll just put high school.

00:06:49.000 Ladies, remember, it's completed, not I kind of did it, and then I left.

00:06:51.000 Oh no, I completed it, but yeah.

00:06:54.000 Okay, and then what's your relationship status?

00:06:56.000 I just got single.

00:06:57.000 You just got single.

00:06:59.000 Okay.

00:06:59.000 He doesn't want to get back with me.

00:07:00.000 I tried.

00:07:01.000 He broke up with you?

00:07:02.000 I say, I'll give you my code of my phone and I'll let you go through.

00:07:05.000 He's like, no.

00:07:06.000 I'm like, alright.

00:07:07.000 But why though?

00:07:08.000 What'd you do?

00:07:09.000 He broke up with you?

00:07:10.000 It's just randomly just like things just like, you know how it is sometimes just like...

00:07:14.000 No, I don't know.

00:07:15.000 Tell me.

00:07:17.000 It's just like, I don't know.

00:07:18.000 It's just like the way this world is.

00:07:22.000 It's just like I was traveling a lot to Vegas.

00:07:25.000 You cheated, right?

00:07:27.000 We both did it.

00:07:30.000 Wow.

00:07:31.000 But it was because we weren't like communicating or anything.

00:07:34.000 It was like a little jealousy thing.

00:07:36.000 Not to me, because I've never been jealous, but there are no small betrayals.

00:07:39.000 Generally when you cheat, you don't communicate.

00:07:42.000 We literally stopped communicating, and then it's not really called cheating because we already were not like...

00:07:47.000 Broken up?

00:07:48.000 Yeah.

00:07:48.000 So it's not really like cheating.

00:07:50.000 So he got dumped.

00:07:52.000 But he left you though, is what happened.

00:07:54.000 Can you believe that?

00:07:56.000 Yes.

00:07:57.000 Viviana, I agree.

00:07:58.000 I believe everything you're saying.

00:07:59.000 Myra.

00:08:00.000 What?

00:08:00.000 Talking to the mic.

00:08:01.000 They're saying that the audio.

00:08:03.000 There you go.

00:08:04.000 For us, yeah.

00:08:05.000 Yours is a little quiet.

00:08:05.000 Okay.

00:08:07.000 What about you?

00:08:07.000 What's your name?

00:08:08.000 Hi.

00:08:08.000 My name is Ashley.

00:08:09.000 I'm 33 years old.

00:08:11.000 I'm a fitness and health specialist at Nevada National Security.

00:08:14.000 Where are you originally from?

00:08:15.000 California in the Bay Area.

00:08:17.000 Okay.

00:08:18.000 And then you said you're a fitness coach?

00:08:21.000 I'm a fitness specialist at Nevada National Security.

00:08:24.000 I do ergonomics as well as I make sure that all the people that protect the site are up to fitness code.

00:08:33.000 Okay, so you're the fitness coordinator for Nevada National Security.

00:08:38.000 Is that a government agency?

00:08:39.000 So you know Area 51?

00:08:41.000 I work Area 23 in a mine that's like a thousand feet down.

00:08:44.000 Okay, so are you employed by the state or is that federal?

00:08:49.000 Okay.

00:08:49.000 Department of Energy?

00:08:50.000 Oh.

00:08:51.000 You got a queue clearance?

00:08:52.000 No, unfortunately I'm unclear, but I get escorted everywhere.

00:08:56.000 Okay.

00:08:56.000 They don't trust you yet.

00:08:57.000 Alright.

00:08:58.000 It's because I just started working there in February, so it takes a really long time, about two years.

00:09:02.000 Oh, yeah, yeah.

00:09:03.000 So yeah, it's going to take you probably six to seven months to get that clearance.

00:09:05.000 Alright.

00:09:06.000 And then highest education level completed?

00:09:08.000 Bachelor's.

00:09:08.000 Kinesiology is my major.

00:09:10.000 Okay.

00:09:10.000 Where'd you get it from?

00:09:11.000 San Diego State.

00:09:12.000 Okay.

00:09:13.000 And then relationship status?

00:09:15.000 I'm taken.

00:09:16.000 How long have you been together?

00:09:19.000 Three months now.

00:09:20.000 How did you guys meet?

00:09:22.000 Bumble.

00:09:25.000 Who can deadlift more, you or him?

00:09:27.000 Me.

00:09:30.000 It's only because he has a back injury.

00:09:32.000 He's still strong, but I can deadlift more.

00:09:35.000 What about you?

00:09:36.000 Rosie Fisher, originally from Colorado City and Healdale in Utah, and now I live in St.

00:09:41.000 George, Utah.

00:09:42.000 And I'm in Vegas a lot for work.

00:09:43.000 I do some apparel modeling, expo modeling for trade shows.

00:09:49.000 How old are you?

00:09:50.000 30.

00:09:51.000 Okay.

00:09:52.000 And then highest education level completed?

00:09:54.000 GED. Okay.

00:09:56.000 And then relationship status? 1.00

00:09:58.000 Taken as fuck. 1.00

00:09:59.000 Okay. 1.00

00:09:59.000 How long have you been? 1.00

00:10:00.000 Five years.

00:10:01.000 Alright.

00:10:01.000 How'd you guys meet?

00:10:03.000 We actually, so we both got out of like a cult, polygamous cult. 0.96

00:10:10.000 We were sneaking around like in secret because nobody's supposed to date.

00:10:13.000 Like it's all separation, boys and girls.

00:10:16.000 And then I left.

00:10:17.000 Did you grow up Mormon?

00:10:18.000 It was Polygamous Mormon, so FLDS Mormon. 0.98

00:10:20.000 Okay.

00:10:21.000 The Warren Jeffs group.

00:10:23.000 He's in prison now for like government fraud, tax fraud, pedophilia.

00:10:27.000 Holy!

00:10:28.000 There's your new Fed topic for you.

00:10:31.000 We were sneaking around in the cult, but like, I mean, nothing physical, because obviously that's like hella bad.

00:10:39.000 And then I left, I got into college, I went to college for business and accounting, but I never finished my degree because I got freaked out by the debt.

00:10:47.000 So I dropped out.

00:10:48.000 And then I went back to college for surgical assisting.

00:10:51.000 I was a surgical assistant for four years.

00:10:53.000 And I left after COVID. Didn't want the jab.

00:10:55.000 That type of stuff.

00:10:56.000 And I started doing in-home CNA for patients.

00:10:58.000 So that's what I do now.

00:10:59.000 As well as the apparel modeling.

00:11:01.000 And modeling for trade shows and expos.

00:11:03.000 He left a year after I did.

00:11:05.000 And we just kind of picked up where we...

00:11:08.000 I mean, I went to lunch and stuff with guys.

00:11:10.000 But it just...

00:11:10.000 I don't know.

00:11:11.000 I was super closed off.

00:11:12.000 So it hasn't been five years on continuous.

00:11:14.000 It was like...

00:11:14.000 So we were doing kind of long distance for a year, so it's been like this is year five for us like living together.

00:11:21.000 Okay, all right.

00:11:22.000 What about you?

00:11:24.000 Hi, my name is Natalie.

00:11:26.000 How old are you Natalie?

00:11:27.000 I am 29.

00:11:28.000 Okay, where are you from?

00:11:30.000 I am originally from California, Central Valley.

00:11:33.000 What do you do for work?

00:11:34.000 I am a model, actress, comedian, content creator.

00:11:38.000 You said you're a model?

00:11:39.000 What kind of content do you make?

00:11:42.000 I do a lot of weed stuff.

00:11:44.000 Okay, so it's not OnlyFans?

00:11:46.000 I do have an OnlyFans.

00:11:47.000 You do have an OnlyFans?

00:11:47.000 Okay.

00:11:49.000 And then, highest education level completed?

00:11:52.000 I didn't finish college, but I went to a vocational school, a trade school.

00:11:56.000 Okay, what did you get your trade in?

00:11:58.000 I was a nail tech for 10 years.

00:12:00.000 Okay.

00:12:01.000 And then, relationship status?

00:12:03.000 I am in a relationship.

00:12:04.000 How long have you been together?

00:12:09.000 It's only been a few months.

00:12:12.000 You've only heard ten other girls go before you. 0.95

00:12:14.000 We're together, we lose time.

00:12:17.000 Six months.

00:12:19.000 I had to count.

00:12:20.000 It hasn't been a whole year yet.

00:12:21.000 Six months.

00:12:22.000 What about you?

00:12:25.000 Hi, I go by Summer.

00:12:26.000 I'm 28 years old.

00:12:27.000 I'm originally from San Diego, California.

00:12:30.000 I got my Associates in Biological Sciences dropped out before Biochemistry Masters or Bachelors, whatever.

00:12:39.000 Relationship status?

00:12:40.000 I am taken.

00:12:41.000 Okay, and what do you do for work?

00:12:43.000 I am a dancer.

00:12:44.000 I own a food truck.

00:12:45.000 I'm also a TV entertainment personality.

00:12:49.000 Yeah, you are.

00:12:50.000 Yes, you are.

00:12:50.000 Tell us what show.

00:12:52.000 It's the brand new show on Paramount Plus called Strip.

00:12:55.000 Right now it's out in the UK and it's going to be coming out in the US. Which I may or may not have a cameo in.

00:13:02.000 That's what I was actually going to ask.

00:13:03.000 Were you like a stripper? 1.00

00:13:05.000 Okay, fair enough.

00:13:06.000 Yes, sir.

00:13:07.000 Okay, and then how long you all been together?

00:13:09.000 Six months.

00:13:10.000 Okay.

00:13:11.000 Hey, does your food truck ever sit outside the strip club that you work at?

00:13:14.000 You know what?

00:13:14.000 They did tell me I can bring it over there.

00:13:17.000 That would be the most ingenious vertical integration I've ever heard in my entire life.

00:13:21.000 What kind of food?

00:13:22.000 Thank you.

00:13:23.000 It's Hawaiian shaved ice.

00:13:24.000 So it's really good for the summertime, but we just shut it down for October.

00:13:29.000 And guys, to get your Super Chat on the show, it's fnfsuperchat.com or your Rumble Rants.

00:13:34.000 Quite a good disc came in as well.

00:13:35.000 Yeah, we'll read them through the phone.

00:13:36.000 Or you can do it on our channel.

00:13:38.000 Or on Rolo's.

00:13:40.000 Either or.

00:13:41.000 But yeah, either or works.

00:13:42.000 But yeah, guys, fnfsuperchat.com or Super Chat through Rolo's channel or Mike's.

00:13:47.000 We're multi-streaming it right now, but in probably about 40 minutes, we're killing it.

00:13:50.000 Just go to YouTube and Rumble.

00:13:51.000 And last but not least.

00:13:52.000 So, yes, gentlemen, go ahead.

00:13:54.000 Oh, how are you doing, guys?

00:13:55.000 My name is Michael Sarté, and I'm a cat dilf. 0.69

00:13:57.000 I rescue him.

00:13:59.000 I have a podcast that pisses a lot of people off because I tell people numbers that really, really make them angry because apparently people don't like math.

00:14:06.000 And yeah, I do Access Vegas with Rolo.

00:14:09.000 We do this crazy show in Las Vegas, don't we?

00:14:12.000 Yeah.

00:14:12.000 Hi, I'm Rolo Tomasi, the author of the multi-international best-selling book, The Rational Male, who will soon be in Kenya, Nairobi, Kenya very soon.

00:14:24.000 Ooh! 0.96

00:14:25.000 And we do this little show called Access Vegas.

00:14:27.000 Oh, by the way, I also go by that red pill guy, too.

00:14:30.000 I answer to that red pill guy.

00:14:32.000 So just those red pill guys, yeah, that's who they're talking about.

00:14:34.000 And he's a rocker.

00:14:35.000 Yes.

00:14:36.000 I try.

00:14:37.000 I do my best.

00:14:38.000 Okay.

00:14:39.000 So we'll kick off the first question here, ladies.

00:14:41.000 So most of us have been on dates already.

00:14:42.000 Of course, we're a bit older, been on multiple dates.

00:14:45.000 But what disqualifies a guy for you on a date?

00:14:47.000 For example, it could be hygiene, it could be how he looks.

00:14:49.000 What does it disqualify for you on a first date?

00:14:51.000 I guess we'll start, like, right here.

00:14:54.000 Absolutely, it's gonna be your hygiene. 0.99

00:14:55.000 You have to know how to brush your teeth, kind of wipe your own ass, right? 0.99

00:14:59.000 Things of that sort. 0.99

00:14:59.000 Things I shouldn't have to tell you you need to do, right? 0.99

00:15:03.000 All right, what about you? 1.00

00:15:04.000 Have you encountered many men who don't know how to wipe their ass? 1.00

00:15:10.000 Wait, how'd you find out, though? 1.00

00:15:13.000 When I do their laundry.

00:15:15.000 Okay, there you go.

00:15:16.000 Thanks, Mom.

00:15:18.000 If you give them enough GHB, they just poop on themselves.

00:15:20.000 Isn't that right?

00:15:21.000 Isn't that what you told me?

00:15:22.000 Isn't that what you told me, Summer?

00:15:24.000 What about you?

00:15:27.000 Hygiene is a big one for me.

00:15:28.000 Rose, give her that mic and Summer, take that mic. 1.00

00:15:31.000 Okay, when you say hygiene, can you tell us an example from a date?

00:15:36.000 Yeah, like, brush your teeth, please.

00:15:40.000 Always brush your teeth.

00:15:41.000 What if they smell like weed?

00:15:41.000 That's fine?

00:15:42.000 Yeah, that's totally fine.

00:15:43.000 I don't mind that.

00:15:45.000 Okay.

00:15:46.000 What about you?

00:15:47.000 So for me, I think it would be, like, poor communication skills and social skills.

00:15:51.000 Like, how does he communicate with his peers and other people?

00:15:55.000 But how would you get to know that if you don't go on a first date with him?

00:15:58.000 Well, I've been on a first date with some important communication skills.

00:16:02.000 Yeah, but you won't know until you're on a date with them, right?

00:16:04.000 Yeah, true.

00:16:05.000 Okay.

00:16:05.000 So what disqualifies them from the first date then?

00:16:09.000 Let me come back to you.

00:16:10.000 What about you?

00:16:11.000 Question, are we already on the first date?

00:16:13.000 No, like you're not even going to give them a chance.

00:16:16.000 Oh, that's hard because I usually...

00:16:20.000 Okay.

00:16:21.000 He can only squat four plates.

00:16:23.000 No.

00:16:24.000 What's an automatic disqualifier that first thing that comes to mind?

00:16:28.000 Um, sometimes if they're a little too sexual at first without...

00:16:31.000 Okay.

00:16:32.000 Yeah.

00:16:32.000 Okay.

00:16:32.000 Yeah, I think the same.

00:16:33.000 If he tries to kiss you...

00:16:34.000 And sexual with a little bit of, like, too much, like, being demanding a little bit of, like, disrespect.

00:16:39.000 Okay.

00:16:40.000 Yeah.

00:16:40.000 What about you?

00:16:41.000 If he tries to kiss you, like, no.

00:16:46.000 They usually want to.

00:16:47.000 Wait, wait, wait.

00:16:48.000 That implies that you're on the first date already.

00:16:50.000 We're talking about before you...

00:16:51.000 Yeah, no.

00:16:51.000 In our first date, they will, like, try to...

00:16:53.000 No, no, no.

00:16:53.000 Before the first date.

00:16:54.000 Let's clarify.

00:16:55.000 Before you even get on the date, the guy won't ask on the date, how do you just say no, disqualified, not even going on a date at all?

00:17:02.000 Yeah, I mean, if they start asking about, like, your friends, like, oh, can you bring a friend?

00:17:08.000 Okay.

00:17:09.000 Then you'll be like, bye.

00:17:10.000 So bringing two girls...

00:17:11.000 They usually always do.

00:17:12.000 Yeah.

00:17:13.000 Talk about their friends.

00:17:14.000 They tell you to bring a friend?

00:17:15.000 Yeah.

00:17:16.000 Oh, can you bring friends?

00:17:17.000 Now, hold on, hold on.

00:17:18.000 Is it to bring a friend so that they can bring a friend too and it's a double date?

00:17:22.000 Or bring a friend so he can take you and your friend out?

00:17:24.000 Maybe.

00:17:25.000 But, you know, guys try to just ask that.

00:17:28.000 Which one is it though?

00:17:30.000 Whichever one.

00:17:31.000 I mean, I don't really go on first dates like that.

00:17:33.000 I don't do blind dates, but I think if it was like that, usually guys, when you're texting and stuff, they're like, oh, and you have friends or something like that, and it's like, that's it.

00:17:43.000 You just stop talking to them.

00:17:45.000 Okay.

00:17:45.000 Hey, lady, I have a question.

00:17:47.000 What about if he doesn't like it when you rip his shirt off in the middle of a nightclub?

00:17:50.000 Okay, you have to bring that up.

00:17:52.000 I don't do that anymore.

00:17:56.000 What about you?

00:17:57.000 What about biting random people in a nightclub?

00:18:00.000 I was a little wild.

00:18:01.000 She was famous. 0.99

00:18:03.000 She'd go out in the clubs and just rip dudes shirts off and just fucking run. 1.00

00:18:05.000 I had like this wheel power. 0.97

00:18:08.000 That's hilarious.

00:18:10.000 It was amazing.

00:18:12.000 And I always used to pick the ones that had the most expensive shirts.

00:18:16.000 Funny thing is, that's not a deal breaker for the guys.

00:18:21.000 Yeah, they'll be like, please.

00:18:22.000 But no, they like it.

00:18:23.000 All right.

00:18:24.000 What about you?

00:18:25.000 So, immediate disqualifiers.

00:18:28.000 If I'm looking on a dating app at someone, it's going to be image-based, most likely.

00:18:33.000 So, it's going to be someone who's either really out of shape or someone who has, you know, a lot of balding going on and someone who probably doesn't have...

00:18:41.000 You don't have to have a ton of swag, but if you don't know how to dress yourself, you look like you haven't left your mom's house in several years, it's a disqualifier.

00:18:50.000 That's what I was going to say is physical fitness.

00:18:52.000 I don't like to paint a broad stroke over all people because I think some people, you know, might have certain things that are stronger in some aspects.

00:19:11.000 And so if someone was a liberal, hypothetically, I'm not, but and they were really strong in other areas.

00:19:15.000 For example, they're really successful or really high achievers or very good looking.

00:19:20.000 Potentially, I'd give them a chance.

00:19:21.000 So I wouldn't say that's an immediate disqualifier.

00:19:23.000 It's not a green flag.

00:19:26.000 But yeah, image-based.

00:19:27.000 And then in person, it just made me think I was walking my dog the other day.

00:19:30.000 Hold on, hold on.

00:19:31.000 This is just the first disqualifier.

00:19:32.000 What about you?

00:19:33.000 For me, it would have to be like overly bragging about themselves.

00:19:38.000 On their bio?

00:19:40.000 Yeah, or even when you're communicating with them.

00:19:42.000 Text, phone call, try hard.

00:19:44.000 Yeah, it's always about just them and their story.

00:19:47.000 Being a porn star, do you get that a lot?

00:19:49.000 I do. 0.96

00:19:50.000 I do.

00:19:51.000 Well, it's, you know.

00:19:53.000 They want to prove to you.

00:19:54.000 They want to prove that they're that guy.

00:19:57.000 Okay.

00:19:58.000 Okay.

00:19:58.000 Understandable.

00:19:58.000 What about you?

00:20:00.000 I think that personality is a big thing.

00:20:02.000 Like, if they come across way too strong, that's kind of a big withdrawal.

00:20:07.000 Describe strong.

00:20:08.000 Like, I'm just overexcited to talk to you and try to take you out and stuff like that.

00:20:14.000 All right.

00:20:14.000 Too much interest.

00:20:15.000 Yeah.

00:20:15.000 All right.

00:20:16.000 What about you?

00:20:17.000 No sense of humor.

00:20:18.000 No sense of humor?

00:20:19.000 Okay.

00:20:21.000 So are you gonna like, like if you make a joke and they don't like laugh or something like that?

00:20:24.000 No, they need to make jokes.

00:20:26.000 They need to make the jokes. 0.97

00:20:27.000 I like when they're funny.

00:20:28.000 But you're a comedian, right?

00:20:28.000 Yeah, so I need to laugh too.

00:20:30.000 Are you funny?

00:20:31.000 Sometimes.

00:20:32.000 Depends on the person.

00:20:33.000 Some people think I'm funny, some people think I don't.

00:20:35.000 I'm not.

00:20:36.000 What about you?

00:20:36.000 Okay.

00:20:37.000 I'd say basic, bad grammar, too skinny, gang of kids, and how many women they follow in their follow list. 1.00

00:20:44.000 Damn! 0.99

00:20:45.000 Bad grammar, kids, and follow ratio. 1.00

00:20:48.000 Roll off and Sartain real quick.

00:20:52.000 What are them for you?

00:20:54.000 Disqualifiers.

00:20:55.000 Disqualifier for me would be just like sort of... 0.98

00:20:58.000 It's so funny because it's like the girls I'm friends with are exactly the girls I would never fucking date. 0.62

00:21:02.000 I love them. 0.97

00:21:03.000 I love having them on my show.

00:21:03.000 They're hilarious.

00:21:04.000 They make a great show. 0.98

00:21:05.000 But, you know, just like full of fucking red flags, like bragging about levels of independence and necessity to not have... 0.99

00:21:12.000 Not need a man at all. 0.99

00:21:13.000 Being independent is fine, but it's just like one of these things where like men are useless or something like that. 0.99

00:21:17.000 Or just basically when you have a conversation with them about like, hey, you know, you're more likely to cheat if you fuck more guys before you got married. 0.99

00:21:23.000 And they disagree. 0.99

00:21:24.000 They start yelling at you because of that. 1.00

00:21:25.000 Like that type of shit. 1.00

00:21:26.000 I think that's a huge disqualifier. 1.00

00:21:28.000 Just they don't bring any peace.

00:21:29.000 All right.

00:21:30.000 She's overweight. 1.00

00:21:37.000 Physical fitness?

00:21:37.000 Well, I think it's funny because people always say, oh, you can't judge a book by its cover, but it's like, yeah, but you've got to see what the cover is, right?

00:21:45.000 I hate to say it, but I'm just being honest.

00:21:47.000 You can judge its caloric intake by the cover.

00:21:49.000 Exactly.

00:21:50.000 Because it says a lot about your habits, too.

00:21:52.000 If you're in shape, that tells me that you have some sort of dedication and perseverance.

00:21:56.000 Especially today, it's like 75% of the population is overweight.

00:22:01.000 All right.

00:22:01.000 I got a question for the ladies.

00:22:02.000 Real quick, she didn't answer.

00:22:04.000 So I would say at first glance, physical fitness.

00:22:07.000 Are you going to be healthy?

00:22:08.000 Are you going to live long?

00:22:09.000 Are you going to protect me?

00:22:10.000 Ah, you just like me.

00:22:11.000 Okay, we can start hearing their work our way back.

00:22:15.000 Assuming the guy checks all your boxes and he's attractive and you would see yourself going on a first date with him, does it matter where he takes you?

00:22:22.000 Yes or no?

00:22:24.000 Yes.

00:22:25.000 Why?

00:22:26.000 Because I think...

00:22:28.000 You're representing what you're going to be in the long run.

00:22:32.000 I don't like the coffee date.

00:22:35.000 I don't like dates that are basic, unimaginative.

00:22:38.000 You don't have to take me to the most expensive restaurant, but you should think about it.

00:22:46.000 I don't like a man that looks like he's just playing numbers.

00:22:48.000 Okay.

00:22:49.000 Assuming you find the guy attractive.

00:22:51.000 Chili's is okay. 0.79

00:22:53.000 Applebee's?

00:22:53.000 Chili's?

00:22:54.000 I hate Applebee's.

00:22:56.000 Real quick, assuming you like the guy and he checks your boxes, he's funny, he's witty, he's charismatic and all these things in conversation, does it matter where he takes you on the first date?

00:23:06.000 Yes.

00:23:07.000 Okay, why? 0.99

00:23:09.000 Well, if you're talking like restaurant-wise, no, not necessarily, but I just don't like to be like hanging out in the front seat of a fucking car. 0.87

00:23:15.000 Okay, assuming it's not him telling you to come over to his house or let's hang out, you know, doing something strange that puts you in a safety situation.

00:23:23.000 To be completely honest, not really.

00:23:24.000 Okay, then it doesn't matter.

00:23:26.000 Yeah, let me make sure I add that caveat.

00:23:28.000 If he's attractive and you find everything about him to be up to standard, etc., and he invites you on a date and it's nothing weird where your safety is at, you know, risk, doesn't matter where he takes you.

00:23:37.000 I definitely don't think it does.

00:23:38.000 Okay, what about you?

00:23:40.000 I do, I do.

00:23:41.000 Okay, why does it matter?

00:23:42.000 I like an adventure and I like something, you know, exciting.

00:23:47.000 Okay.

00:23:49.000 Alright, what about you?

00:23:51.000 So it's not a deal breaker, but I'm taking notes.

00:23:55.000 For example, I had that exact situation happen a few weeks ago.

00:23:59.000 A great guy took me to Benihana, which was fun and cute, not super expensive, and it was not a deal breaker.

00:24:07.000 But it told me a little bit, I think, about maybe his socioeconomic status or his level of investment in me or what kind of, you know, restaurants he likes to frequent.

00:24:16.000 And that indicates to me lifestyle compatibility.

00:24:19.000 So it's not a deal breaker, but I'm taking notes.

00:24:21.000 You're bougie, huh? 0.99

00:24:22.000 Sorry?

00:24:23.000 You're bougie. 0.99

00:24:26.000 I mean, you're a matchmaker, so you understand the male perspective.

00:24:29.000 Wouldn't it be fair to say that a lot of women go out for certain experiences and that's a screening tactic to get rid of women that are there just for an experience versus to get to know the guy? 0.97

00:24:37.000 I certainly, from a man's perspective, could see that.

00:24:39.000 You know, if a man does not want a gold digger, he might test her that way.

00:24:43.000 But from a woman's perspective, it's a test too.

00:24:45.000 Because I want to see how much you want to impress me as a man.

00:24:50.000 I don't think men think that deeply.

00:24:54.000 I don't think they think that deeply to, oh, let me do this to screen her. 1.00

00:25:01.000 The majority are looking for the fastest way to the vagina. 1.00

00:25:05.000 I don't think they're thinking, well, let me do this and see. 0.99

00:25:08.000 They're hoping that she likes them no matter what he does.

00:25:13.000 That's what they're hoping.

00:25:15.000 I'm not suggesting that men are testing women.

00:25:18.000 I'm just saying if that's the case, for myself, So it's not a disqualifier.

00:25:22.000 You'll go out, but you're going to be observing what goes on.

00:25:25.000 I'm taking notes.

00:25:26.000 And I also look at it holistically.

00:25:27.000 You know, if someone, if that's the best that they can do and I see potential in them and they're ambitious, maybe I will give them a chance.

00:25:34.000 Interesting.

00:25:35.000 Okay.

00:25:37.000 I disagree with you on that point because the guys that women want are going to absolutely employ that test that you don't think is a test. 0.92

00:25:43.000 But that's fine.

00:25:44.000 No, no.

00:25:44.000 The women will.

00:25:45.000 I'm saying the men.

00:25:47.000 No, I'm talking about the guys will employ the test where they take her to somewhere that isn't necessarily as expensive or luxurious to see how she responds. 0.98

00:25:53.000 What tax bracket is he in, though?

00:25:54.000 Because I think a regular average...

00:25:56.000 A regular average working guy will ask, hey, let's do coffee, and he's hoping that she likes him enough.

00:25:56.000 No, I'm serious.

00:26:02.000 But that's why I qualified it by saying the men that are attractive, that women want, that have the net worth and the status, a lot of the times they'll test women by taking them somewhere that isn't expensive to see how they react.

00:26:10.000 Well, that I agree with.

00:26:11.000 If he's in a certain tax bracket, I'm talking about the guy that...

00:26:14.000 But you'll never know.

00:26:15.000 You'll disqualify that guy.

00:26:16.000 And you'll be like, oh, you tried to offer me the coffee, I'm not going.

00:26:19.000 Well, I've been lucky enough to date guys that don't play games.

00:26:22.000 That's a game.

00:26:22.000 That's not a game.

00:26:23.000 No, it's a game.

00:26:24.000 It's literally a game.

00:26:25.000 It's the definition of a game.

00:26:27.000 It's literally a game.

00:26:28.000 Wouldn't it be fair to say that women are the ones that play the game because the man has to attract her to some degree for the game to even begin? 1.00

00:26:33.000 I would say that women play a lot more games than men, yes, but that's a game. 1.00

00:26:37.000 I date guys that are like, this is what I'm worth, this is what I'm coming with.

00:26:43.000 Either you like it or you don't.

00:26:44.000 I feel like it's more of a self-preservation tactic than a game.

00:26:47.000 Maybe he's protecting himself from being taken advantage of or used for their own reasons.

00:26:51.000 No, but what's the point of a date though?

00:26:53.000 Again, I asked, what's the tax bracket?

00:26:55.000 Because men of means are not going to play this game. 0.81

00:26:59.000 They're just not. 0.97

00:27:00.000 Benny Hanna is fucking awesome. 0.96

00:27:02.000 Benny Hanna is great. 0.97

00:27:04.000 I love Benny Hanna.

00:27:05.000 I hate Benny Hanna.

00:27:06.000 I've never heard of it.

00:27:08.000 To me, it's a king restaurant.

00:27:12.000 Guys, guys, guys.

00:27:13.000 One microphone at a time.

00:27:15.000 Because anytime you're speaking and there's other people speaking, it hurts the quiet of the show.

00:27:18.000 And the audience gets really annoyed.

00:27:20.000 So if someone's speaking, please be quiet.

00:27:21.000 So real quick.

00:27:22.000 A date.

00:27:23.000 What's the point of a date?

00:27:25.000 To get to know the person.

00:27:26.000 So is that a game?

00:27:27.000 No, it's not a game.

00:27:28.000 It doesn't have to be a game.

00:27:29.000 You said it's a game.

00:27:30.000 Listen, I didn't say it's a game.

00:27:32.000 I said someone that's pretending to be something they're not to test you, that is a game.

00:27:37.000 That's like me showing up to a date.

00:27:38.000 I'm showing up in a bonnet and slippers to see if he really likes me.

00:27:41.000 That's a game.

00:27:42.000 I'm playing a game.

00:27:43.000 The point is to get to know someone on a deeper level, right?

00:27:46.000 So whether it's at Starbucks or at Fontainebleau, does it really matter?

00:27:50.000 If he's pretending that he can only afford Starbucks, that is a game, sir.

00:27:55.000 But he's not pretending because he can afford both.

00:27:55.000 That's a game.

00:27:57.000 He can afford both.

00:27:59.000 But if he's doing it with the intention to test her, that is a game.

00:28:03.000 It's simple math.

00:28:04.000 No, no.

00:28:04.000 I understand that.

00:28:05.000 But what I'm saying is that women play the game, too. 1.00

00:28:08.000 Absolutely.

00:28:09.000 Okay, so for someone to play chess with you, you need an opponent, correct?

00:28:13.000 Yes.

00:28:14.000 So therefore, women play the game, so men play the game as well. 1.00

00:28:16.000 It's just that women don't like it when men play the game as well, if not better than themselves. 1.00

00:28:20.000 That's why women don't like that. 1.00

00:28:22.000 Well, I mean, it doesn't matter to me.

00:28:24.000 It's not gender specific.

00:28:26.000 Women and men play games.

00:28:27.000 Yeah, but women play games the majority of the time. 1.00

00:28:30.000 It's just that very few men can actually compete and play the game back and better yet at them.

00:28:34.000 I agree with that as well.

00:28:35.000 So what I'm saying is that the reason why guys will employ a tactic like that, especially high net worth individuals, because I know them and I know that they do this, is because there's a lot of vulturous women out there that are just looking for a bag or looking to get an experience, etc.

00:28:46.000 So let me test this chick. 1.00

00:28:47.000 Let's go to get some coffee and see how she responds. 0.93

00:28:49.000 And if she says, no, I'm good.

00:28:50.000 I don't want that. 1.00

00:28:51.000 Fuck you. 1.00

00:28:51.000 That's how they move. 1.00

00:28:52.000 Yeah.

00:28:52.000 But you know men of means are not a monolith because I know wealthy men as well and they're like, hey, I don't give a damn.

00:28:57.000 I want someone that looks good on my arm.

00:28:59.000 You got a six pack.

00:28:59.000 You got a nice round booty.

00:29:01.000 I'm good with that.

00:29:01.000 I know you're here for the money and I'm here because you look good.

00:29:04.000 Then they're just smashed.

00:29:06.000 That's an L for you as a female anyway. 1.00

00:29:07.000 What's not an L, if all she wants to do is smash, there's this theory that men don't just, that women don't just want to smash. 0.70

00:29:13.000 Newsflash guys, lots of women just want to smash and they want a guy that's going to take them to really nice places while they're smashing! 1.00

00:29:20.000 While they're smashing!

00:29:22.000 I want to smash!

00:29:23.000 Because here's the thing, the majority of men aren't running rampant looking for wives. 0.89

00:29:29.000 The majority of them are looking to smash.

00:29:31.000 So women are like, I don't mind smashing, but I'd rather smash after no boo than after Starbucks. 1.00

00:29:36.000 Yeah, so you just defeated your own argument, because women treat sex as a value-loaded exchange, not an equal value exchange like you're trying to say. 1.00

00:29:42.000 It's not an equal value exchange.

00:29:43.000 It's, I need something in return for the sex, and a lot of times that means I need more energy and effort than I put in to get the sex.

00:29:49.000 What I'm saying is that, cool, that guy could put that effort in or whatever, and if he has the means and the money to do so, but you're just going to be put in a sex-only category and never get the relationship that you want.

00:29:56.000 Right, but again, women are not a monolith. 1.00

00:29:59.000 Some women don't care. 1.00

00:30:00.000 A lot of women don't care, especially today. 1.00

00:30:02.000 Especially today.

00:30:03.000 Most women want a long-term relationship with a man of substance to some degree. 0.99

00:30:06.000 The recreational sex, there's always a time clock on it.

00:30:10.000 So, I mean, what you're saying, cool, will some girls employ that tactic for a period of time? 1.00

00:30:15.000 Yes, but it's always periodic.

00:30:17.000 I do agree that women, they exchange, like, I'm going to give you this because I want that. 1.00

00:30:21.000 I do agree.

00:30:21.000 And here's the funny part, too.

00:30:23.000 The very man that you said that you would disqualify for the coffee date, that's the guy that more than likely is probably looking for something serious because he wanted to screen a woman out from the beginning versus the guy that you mentioned, I'm going to be a baller and spend money.

00:30:32.000 He's clearly looking for sex and be just saying, let's go to no, blah, blah, blah, blah.

00:30:35.000 And that's not what most women are looking for. 1.00

00:30:37.000 I'm not most women, plus I'm older than a lot of these girls. 0.91

00:30:42.000 These girls are probably looking for husbands and long romances. 1.00

00:30:44.000 I'm like, can you smash?

00:30:45.000 Is it going to be good?

00:30:46.000 Are we going to be in expensive places?

00:30:49.000 Let's rock and let's get it over with.

00:30:50.000 We have to consider, too, what phase are these women in? 1.00

00:30:53.000 How many of you want to get married?

00:30:54.000 Most women don't want to be single at 50. 1.00

00:30:58.000 That's a terrible strategy.

00:31:00.000 But I do.

00:31:00.000 A majority of women don't, though.

00:31:02.000 What you want is an anomaly, and most women are not looking for that. 1.00

00:31:06.000 That's a recipe for disaster.

00:31:07.000 I disagree.

00:31:08.000 I think women in my age bracket are not looking for long-term romance and looking to take care of a man and looking to wash drawers like you mentioned that have Hershey streaks in them. 1.00

00:31:17.000 You think that most women want to be single at 50? 1.00

00:31:20.000 At my age, I think we're pretty much...

00:31:22.000 But you're starting at your age.

00:31:23.000 I'm saying most women in general. 1.00

00:31:25.000 Ladies, raise your hand if you want to be single at 50. 1.00

00:31:27.000 No, no, no.

00:31:27.000 Most of them want to get married because at this age, that's what they're thinking.

00:31:31.000 You know what?

00:31:32.000 That's what they're thinking in their 20s.

00:31:33.000 I'm 46.

00:31:34.000 Over the course of my life, I would like to maybe get married at some point and have kids.

00:31:38.000 But to the point, what you're saying, if you're starting at 50, yeah, for sure.

00:31:41.000 But in general, these women want to get married. 1.00

00:31:43.000 We don't have time like you do, Michael.

00:31:44.000 But that's why I just said most of these women are looking for long-term relationships and romance and what have you. 1.00

00:31:49.000 Absolutely.

00:31:50.000 At your guys' age, I was there.

00:31:52.000 I respectfully disagree with you.

00:31:54.000 I respectfully disagree with you with the notion that women who are childless and single at 50 are happy that way because one quarter of childless women regret not having kids.

00:32:06.000 Okay, but I'm not childless.

00:32:07.000 Okay, well...

00:32:08.000 And I'm happy.

00:32:10.000 Okay, well I also work with a lot of single moms. 1.00

00:32:12.000 Okay, but you don't work with me.

00:32:14.000 I understand.

00:32:14.000 I'm just, I'm just, but you're making blanket statements.

00:32:16.000 Okay.

00:32:17.000 So I'm going to, well you can say, here's the thing, on my podcast, on the block with Jen, I literally hold up a sign, some, not all, to make everyone comfortable.

00:32:26.000 Because I make a blanket statement and everyone says, hey, but, you know, that's not all women. 0.64

00:32:29.000 So I literally hold up a sign that says, not all.

00:32:32.000 Okay, well, you did make a blanket statement about women your age being very happy and wanting to be single.

00:32:38.000 No, no, no.

00:32:38.000 I said I'm happy and I'm single.

00:32:41.000 I said a lot of older women are not worried about the things that younger women are worried about.

00:32:46.000 When I was that age, I was thinking that way.

00:32:49.000 Okay, I hear that, but that's not what you said.

00:32:51.000 What I heard you say was women who are 50 at your age do not want or want to be single.

00:32:59.000 Right?

00:33:00.000 Yes.

00:33:00.000 And I disagree with that point.

00:33:02.000 You're saying most women at 50 want to be single.

00:33:04.000 Most older women, they're filing for divorce, right? 1.00

00:33:08.000 Because they're tired of taking care of men. 1.00

00:33:10.000 Absolutely, yes.

00:33:11.000 And they're depressed.

00:33:12.000 I think we've established that most women are not like you. 1.00

00:33:15.000 You're a one special unicorn here at the end of the fucking table. 1.00

00:33:19.000 Can I bring up something? 0.99

00:33:21.000 I should also point out the fact that just because it's affecting you does not mean you are the banner wearer for all the women.

00:33:28.000 I totally agree.

00:33:30.000 It's not the majority.

00:33:31.000 Most women who are pushing 50 right now, they're in menopause right now. 0.99

00:33:37.000 They do not look like you. 0.96

00:33:39.000 They do not live the same lifestyle as you.

00:33:41.000 Again, walk from the TSA at Las Vegas airport, go to your gate, and look at the people on the way.

00:33:47.000 Put your phone away.

00:33:48.000 That's the average person.

00:33:50.000 Not you.

00:33:52.000 That's the average person.

00:33:53.000 Let me say something real quick.

00:33:55.000 So for those of a lot of guys, Myron and I were talking about real estate right before this.

00:33:59.000 A lot of guys trying to stack their money and try to leave generational wealth for their family.

00:34:03.000 This is one of the best books I've ever read.

00:34:05.000 It's called The Millionaire Next Door.

00:34:06.000 And one of the things they talk about is for men who end up gaining that amount of money, one of the most common indicators is if the wife is actually more stingy than the husband. 0.63

00:34:15.000 So if I want generational wealth, having a woman who ends up being a sieve on my finances is not the way to do it. 1.00

00:34:22.000 So me wanting to find a woman who's more stingy than I am, which I have one now, that's actually a huge plus for me. 1.00

00:34:28.000 And I still want to take care of her.

00:34:30.000 I would spend more money on her if she wanted me to, but I don't because she's more stingy than I am. 1.00

00:34:34.000 So that's actually a huge way for men to keep their wealth.

00:34:39.000 And so again, I highly recommend one of the best books I've ever read, The Millionaire Next Door.

00:34:42.000 It's really, really great when it goes over the socioeconomic status of people who become millionaires.

00:34:48.000 Where else?

00:34:49.000 We're moving on.

00:34:50.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:34:50.000 So if you like the guy and everything actually matches up and you're attracted to him, doesn't matter where he takes you on the first day, assuming there's no safety risk.

00:34:59.000 I like nice, pretty places from the first date, so...

00:35:03.000 So it doesn't matter?

00:35:05.000 But I do like good places, like I'm not gonna go...

00:35:08.000 I mean, I want some excitement if it's the first time, you know?

00:35:11.000 But it doesn't matter, you can get excitement anywhere though, so it doesn't matter where it takes you is my question.

00:35:17.000 I think I would rather go to a nice place.

00:35:20.000 Would you sleep with him after, Mushy Mushy?

00:35:22.000 I don't know.

00:35:23.000 Mushibushi is a nice place.

00:35:24.000 How do you not know Mushibushi?

00:35:26.000 Hold on.

00:35:26.000 Hold on, hold on.

00:35:27.000 I got you.

00:35:28.000 Komodo or Kiki on the river?

00:35:29.000 Both.

00:35:31.000 Oh, Kiki on the river.

00:35:31.000 Which one?

00:35:32.000 Yeah, I love it.

00:35:33.000 Which one?

00:35:36.000 Kiki.

00:35:37.000 Komodo or Booby Trap?

00:35:39.000 W. Booby Trap.

00:35:43.000 So if you liked the guy and you found him attractive, you would still want to go somewhere nice.

00:35:47.000 So where you go does matter.

00:35:49.000 Okay.

00:35:49.000 What about you?

00:35:51.000 It does matter in the sense of I'd rather a coffee date a drink or like a dinner rather than somebody saying hey I have a table at a club because I've had that before like hey I have this table at the club if you want to come through I don't like that okay I want to be able to talk to the person okay so for you it's not it's more of a logistical situation not necessarily a financial situation no yeah no I don't care about the finances we can go to Starbucks for all I care okay I agree.

00:36:18.000 So for you, it's a yes, but it's around the premise of being able to speak to the individual.

00:36:24.000 Yeah, it's my first date.

00:36:26.000 I want to get to know him.

00:36:27.000 It doesn't matter.

00:36:28.000 I don't think it matters.

00:36:29.000 Okay.

00:36:30.000 What about you?

00:36:30.000 Assuming the guy is attractive and everything is met requirement-wise and it's not going to be unsafe, does it matter where he takes you?

00:36:38.000 No, it doesn't matter for me.

00:36:39.000 No?

00:36:40.000 Okay.

00:36:41.000 I should say no, but I will say yes, it does matter.

00:36:44.000 If we're gonna go eat, it has to be something that fits my diet.

00:36:48.000 I'm not gonna sit there and eat something that is...

00:36:50.000 What is your diet specifically?

00:36:51.000 Clean food.

00:36:52.000 No fast food.

00:36:54.000 Nothing that's like processed foods, right?

00:36:56.000 So I might give a suggestion that's within the same budget realm, right? 0.99

00:36:59.000 But I'm not just gonna go eat shit just to please you. 0.90

00:37:04.000 Okay, let's assume he didn't suggest something with food. 0.99

00:37:12.000 Does it matter?

00:37:13.000 No.

00:37:14.000 It only matters if it's a restaurant that you can't eat at.

00:37:21.000 And then also no nightclubs, something of that sort, right?

00:37:23.000 What if it's Chuck E. Cheese?

00:37:25.000 Something that fits within our normal lifestyles.

00:37:27.000 I don't have any children, but if he does have children, right, and you want to take your kids, I think that would be a fun first date.

00:37:32.000 Then I also get to meet your kids.

00:37:33.000 With the kids?

00:37:34.000 I get to meet your kids.

00:37:35.000 First date at Chuck E. Cheese?

00:37:37.000 Seriously?

00:37:38.000 If you want to go there, and let's say we become friends. 0.99

00:37:41.000 I'm not fucking you. 0.97

00:37:42.000 I'm not doing any of that on the first date, right? 0.99

00:37:44.000 On the first date, you would go to Chuck E. Cheese?

00:37:45.000 This is my situation.

00:37:47.000 You're laying it all right out there for me.

00:37:49.000 It's my decision if I want to continue on with that after that, but you're not hiding.

00:37:55.000 That is my next question.

00:37:57.000 So, mall food court is okay.

00:37:59.000 If you don't mind.

00:38:02.000 So, based off of that, Does location matter to you, and where should a first date be?

00:38:06.000 I don't think his mic is working on it.

00:38:07.000 I don't think his mic is working on it.

00:38:09.000 Can we work on that?

00:38:10.000 Thank you.

00:38:10.000 So, based off of that answer, what is a good location for a date?

00:38:15.000 You'd say a first date.

00:38:16.000 Good location.

00:38:17.000 I think a really good first date might be nothing secluded like a park, because that's almost too mushy-mushy, right?

00:38:24.000 You don't need to be doing anything like that.

00:38:26.000 But somewhere in a public setting, not too loud, but also something to where if it does go awkwardly, you have distractions around you, right?

00:38:35.000 Not a movie theater.

00:38:36.000 So you can escape?

00:38:39.000 This is assuming that you like the guy and he's attractive and safety isn't an issue.

00:38:52.000 What would the ideal first date be?

00:38:53.000 Still these things with the whole escape situation?

00:38:57.000 No.

00:38:58.000 My best first date was actually at a casino.

00:39:02.000 We were able to meet up, go gamble, and if we wanted to, still have the option to eat.

00:39:06.000 There's so many options at the casinos here in town.

00:39:09.000 Who paid for the gambling? 0.60

00:39:10.000 I paid for my own and he paid for his own.

00:39:13.000 And then I just matched whatever he was able to play to not make him feel uncomfortable.

00:39:17.000 Wait, you're a semi-pro poker player.

00:39:19.000 I am.

00:39:19.000 Oh yeah, I'm also a professional poker player.

00:39:21.000 Nuh-uh.

00:39:22.000 Okay.

00:39:23.000 So you play poker against him.

00:39:25.000 I did not.

00:39:26.000 We actually played blackjack in Baccarat.

00:39:29.000 What about you?

00:39:31.000 Assuming you like the guy and safety is an issue, what would the ideal first date be?

00:39:36.000 Ideal first date?

00:39:37.000 I want to go on a hike and I want you to bring a picnic and bring me some, you know, a joint.

00:39:42.000 Grapes.

00:39:43.000 Ideal.

00:39:44.000 And what would you bring to the hike?

00:39:47.000 I definitely would have the joint.

00:39:52.000 My ideal first date, I don't want to bring something.

00:40:00.000 My ideal first date, I want to be taken somewhere beautiful.

00:40:04.000 I want to be able to have a conversation.

00:40:07.000 Hikes are nice.

00:40:09.000 On a cool experience.

00:40:10.000 What about you?

00:40:13.000 Ideal first date, assuming you like the guy.

00:40:15.000 Let's go to like a house party or a pool party.

00:40:17.000 Let me see who you hang out with, meet friends.

00:40:19.000 I'll cook something and bring it like a potluck.

00:40:21.000 That would be really fun.

00:40:22.000 Okay, cool.

00:40:25.000 I guess with my boyfriend right now, how we met.

00:40:28.000 Or not how we met.

00:40:29.000 Our first date was just at a Golden Tiki here in Vegas.

00:40:33.000 It's just like a cool dive bar.

00:40:35.000 And we got to talk and just hang out.

00:40:38.000 And then we decided if we want to persist, keep going with the date.

00:40:42.000 Did he pay for it?

00:40:43.000 Or did you guys put it?

00:40:45.000 I can hardly wait.

00:40:46.000 Actually, he paid for it, which was very sweet.

00:40:48.000 If he would ask to split...

00:40:49.000 Actually, it depends on how he asks to split.

00:40:53.000 I actually don't mind splitting.

00:40:55.000 Because I understand, like, making money these days is kind of hard, especially for men, so it's like...

00:41:00.000 But would you actually like that, though, if he split the bill with you, to be honest?

00:41:03.000 Well, I used to be a sugar mama, so, like, I'm not...

00:41:06.000 Sugar mama? 1.00

00:41:07.000 Yeah, so I'm not too upset with it, but I know he's a gentleman, so he probably wouldn't like it.

00:41:11.000 I bring you all types, gentlemen.

00:41:13.000 I bring you all types.

00:41:15.000 What about you?

00:41:16.000 Where would an ideal first day be with someone that you actually like and find a track of?

00:41:20.000 My place.

00:41:21.000 Just kidding.

00:41:21.000 Ha ha ha!

00:41:23.000 Why are you staring at me? 1.00

00:41:25.000 Don't get me in your shit. 1.00

00:41:26.000 No, because I know you always have something funny to say about me. 0.99

00:41:30.000 But, anyways, just like a nice restaurant, a nice place.

00:41:35.000 Maybe romantic, too.

00:41:37.000 Does it have to be five-star?

00:41:39.000 No, no, but it has to just be, like, nice.

00:41:42.000 You know, there is, like, other...

00:41:43.000 Give us an example, because your nice might not necessarily be...

00:41:46.000 Okay, well, there is not very expensive restaurants that, like, holes in the walls, but they're, like, nice, like...

00:41:53.000 Okay, how about this?

00:41:54.000 Give me an example of a restaurant in Miami so I can let the audience know.

00:41:59.000 Let's think about Miami.

00:42:01.000 That you'd be okay with?

00:42:03.000 Maybe like a Colombian restaurant that would be okay.

00:42:07.000 Las Vegas?

00:42:08.000 No, you know in Sunny Isles there is this like little small restaurants, places like that.

00:42:14.000 So, a hole in the wall.

00:42:15.000 Interesting.

00:42:16.000 But they're nice inside.

00:42:18.000 Like, in all sunny aisles, like, in front of, like, porch building, there is, like, little, like, squishy places, like, stuff like that.

00:42:24.000 Like, it could be anywhere.

00:42:25.000 But as long as it's nice and, like...

00:42:27.000 I kind of like those little mom and pop shops.

00:42:29.000 There's like one in the world, and they're in a corner, and the food is so authentic and so good.

00:42:34.000 Because it's intimate, but safe.

00:42:36.000 And it's not very spendy, but it's an amazing experience.

00:42:40.000 I love that.

00:42:41.000 Yeah, but that contradicts what you said a second ago when I asked, and you said, when I said if the guy was nice and everything, and you found him attractive, you said it needed to be a nice restaurant.

00:42:49.000 Now you're saying, if it was first date, it could be a hole in the wall.

00:42:53.000 I mean, I'm not saying like a ghetto place, but like, that's what I'm telling you in front of Sunny Isles.

00:42:58.000 It's like nice places, but it's like...

00:43:00.000 A nice hole in the wall.

00:43:01.000 But yeah, a nice five-star hole in the wall.

00:43:03.000 Can I ask you a question?

00:43:05.000 I realize that you are also in a relationship.

00:43:09.000 Where did you take your girlfriend on your first date with her? 0.87

00:43:12.000 That's a good question.

00:43:13.000 I will answer that after we get through our line of questions.

00:43:18.000 I'm totally cool with answering that.

00:43:22.000 But I don't want to influence answers.

00:43:24.000 What about you?

00:43:25.000 So I'll preface this by saying my answer is based on the fact that I've been taken on some really beautiful, wonderful dates to some amazing places, but I'm not a snob in the sense that I'll reject someone who doesn't take me to this kind of place.

00:43:39.000 But my ideal is probably Nobu Malibu or Soho House Malibu or Catch Steak, something like that.

00:43:45.000 Somewhere very nice.

00:43:46.000 What about Mastro's?

00:43:47.000 I like Mastro's too.

00:43:52.000 Any guy who goes there is cheating on you. 1.00

00:43:54.000 You just know that, right?

00:43:55.000 I haven't gone on a first date to Mastro's. 1.00

00:43:59.000 Any guy who's gonna take you to Mastro's in fucking Malibu is fucking cheating on you. 1.00

00:44:06.000 Tell me I'm wrong. 0.99

00:44:08.000 Put it in the chat. 0.94

00:44:09.000 One example where I'm fucking wrong. 0.93

00:44:10.000 That is the truth. 0.94

00:44:12.000 It's like, Huntington Beach, Mastros. 1.00

00:44:14.000 He's like, literally there trying to pick up hookers. 0.93

00:44:16.000 Like, what are you talking about? 0.98

00:44:16.000 Oh, sorry. 0.98

00:44:17.000 I love Mastros, but you know, whatever. 1.00

00:44:19.000 Alright, what about you?

00:44:20.000 I'm a little bit more down to earth.

00:44:23.000 I would like an ideal date would be to a music event or doing something like an activity, ice skating, going to an event.

00:44:31.000 Assuming you like the guy, right?

00:44:31.000 Assuming I like him, yes.

00:44:34.000 So some kind of activity.

00:44:35.000 Sports event.

00:44:36.000 Okay.

00:44:37.000 What about you?

00:44:38.000 I think that an ideal first date should be something that that person finds really intriguing or something that he thinks that I would find really intriguing.

00:44:46.000 So it would basically give me a cue into my ideal?

00:44:50.000 Yeah, but it's your ideal.

00:44:52.000 Give us an example.

00:44:53.000 Something that tells me more about him.

00:44:55.000 So if he is really into, let's say, a music event and he wants to take me to a festival, then cool, I know that he loves music.

00:45:01.000 If he wants to go on a food tour, cool, I know he loves food, stuff like that.

00:45:04.000 So you want to see his world, basically.

00:45:05.000 Yeah.

00:45:06.000 See what it's about.

00:45:06.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:45:07.000 Okay.

00:45:07.000 What if it's something like...

00:45:09.000 I don't know, a Warhammer event.

00:45:11.000 I knew that was coming!

00:45:12.000 You know, realistically, if that's what he's into and I like him, I'm interested in Warhammer.

00:45:17.000 I knew that was coming.

00:45:21.000 What is it?

00:45:21.000 Okay, never mind.

00:45:22.000 Only if he plays Tauri.

00:45:24.000 Don't make him know what this is.

00:45:27.000 Immediate same night lay with Warhammer.

00:45:30.000 Because I don't know what that is.

00:45:31.000 What is that?

00:45:32.000 It's okay.

00:45:32.000 None of the ladies here are going to know.

00:45:34.000 What about you?

00:45:36.000 I mean, now that I think about it, Chuck E. Cheese sounds really fun.

00:45:39.000 I would go to Chuck E. Cheese.

00:45:41.000 I just like fun stuff.

00:45:45.000 Assuming you like him.

00:45:46.000 Okay.

00:45:46.000 What about you?

00:45:47.000 Assuming you like him.

00:45:49.000 Where's the ideal first place for you?

00:45:50.000 If I like him already, I'm open to whatever.

00:45:55.000 I think that's, you know...

00:45:56.000 Even a coffee date?

00:45:58.000 But see, every man doesn't qualify for that.

00:46:01.000 Listen, every man... 1.00

00:46:03.000 I thought the same shit. 0.99

00:46:07.000 Listen, can I be frank without hurting feelings? 1.00

00:46:10.000 Castle.

00:46:11.000 Okay.

00:46:12.000 So, initial meeting, right?

00:46:14.000 I like what I like.

00:46:15.000 I'm attracted.

00:46:16.000 Let's just say I'm just going to use two of you as an example.

00:46:19.000 What's your name again?

00:46:19.000 I'm sorry.

00:46:21.000 Fresh?

00:46:21.000 Okay, so I'm just chilling somewhere on a park bench.

00:46:26.000 Michael walks up.

00:46:27.000 You walk up five minutes apart.

00:46:29.000 Michael can say, hey, I'm not really familiar with this place.

00:46:32.000 You want to grab a cup of coffee?

00:46:33.000 I'm going.

00:46:34.000 Look at the body. 1.00

00:46:35.000 What the fuck? 1.00

00:46:40.000 So check this out. 1.00

00:46:42.000 I think that the men that don't qualify for the yell, take the coffee, get mad, but everybody doesn't qualify for anything.

00:46:50.000 So yeah, some guys have to work a little harder, they have to impress a little bit more, and some guys just come in, and you guys do it too with women.

00:46:57.000 If a woman's very attractive, you'll give her more of a pass, and if she's not, you're like, well kind of prove yourself, because you're not really my type. 0.91

00:47:05.000 But I'm willing to work with you because you're a nice person.

00:47:07.000 You're probably a very nice person.

00:47:09.000 But I'm like, you're gonna have to work.

00:47:10.000 You don't have to take me somewhere nice.

00:47:11.000 Physical attraction is big and we ignore that.

00:47:14.000 I'd be like, let's go to Starbucks.

00:47:15.000 I'll do that.

00:47:16.000 I'm physically attracted to this Rolls Royce.

00:47:20.000 Because I asked this earlier.

00:47:21.000 I said, assuming you're attracted to the guy and he checks the boxes, you know, what would be unacceptable when you set a coffee date?

00:47:27.000 But now you're saying you'd be okay with a coffee date if the guy...

00:47:29.000 You're contradicting yourself.

00:47:31.000 No, no.

00:47:31.000 Then I misunderstood.

00:47:34.000 Because when you first asked, I thought that you were like, okay, you're just meeting someone initially.

00:47:38.000 You're meeting someone initially.

00:47:40.000 However, I'm about, you know...

00:47:42.000 Okay, so the man's attractiveness directly influences where he can and can't take you.

00:47:48.000 110% for me.

00:47:50.000 So in this case, what's an ideal first date for you?

00:47:55.000 Could be coffee?

00:47:58.000 Yo mama, whoever said that. 0.98

00:48:01.000 What's an ideal first date for you?

00:48:02.000 Ideal first date.

00:48:03.000 Just somewhere we can have fun and get to know each other.

00:48:06.000 Somewhere where it's not too loud.

00:48:08.000 Not too much physical activity. 1.00

00:48:10.000 But I like weird shit. 0.99

00:48:12.000 There's a bouncy house coming to Vegas. 1.00

00:48:14.000 I would do that as long as a guy got good news. 0.93

00:48:15.000 That thing was fucking awesome. 0.92

00:48:16.000 You guys seen that? 0.99

00:48:16.000 It's like four football fields of bouncy houses. 0.99

00:48:18.000 Yeah, I would do that.

00:48:20.000 You're going to all get Legionnaire's disease, but man, that was so much fun.

00:48:23.000 I would do that.

00:48:24.000 I have one follow-up question.

00:48:25.000 So all of you guys, very interesting.

00:48:27.000 All of you guys have pretty lower standards when it comes to if you're attracted to the guy, what you're willing to go out on a date, assuming you like the guy.

00:48:36.000 But the only person that had something fancy with the five-star is you, with the Nobu, etc.

00:48:41.000 My question is, are you, assuming you're on a date with a guy like that, are you okay with him not being monogamous?

00:48:49.000 I shouldn't say this on air.

00:48:51.000 I mean, let's be realistic.

00:48:52.000 You're a matchmaker, you know.

00:48:53.000 Sure, yeah.

00:48:54.000 So I personally try to date men who are at an age range where they've already had their fun.

00:49:03.000 Now, I understand the more options a man has, the more likely he has to exercise those options.

00:49:09.000 So I have some rules when it comes to cheating.

00:49:12.000 And that is, if you're going to cheat, be discreet.

00:49:17.000 I don't want to know about it.

00:49:18.000 You better not embarrass me.

00:49:19.000 You better not father kids.

00:49:20.000 Don't bring any STDs.

00:49:22.000 I don't want to know about it.

00:49:23.000 If I know about it, that's going to cause problems.

00:49:26.000 So someone's fairly realistic.

00:49:28.000 That's like the most Los Angeles thing I've ever heard.

00:49:34.000 Because it seems like we have three bougie girls here at the panel. 1.00

00:49:37.000 Are you willing to accept the guy that cheats?

00:49:37.000 What about you?

00:49:39.000 Yeah, I'm not jealous at all.

00:49:41.000 I never felt any type of jealousy, even if I find out.

00:49:45.000 I'm like, okay, whatever.

00:49:47.000 So, yeah, I think it doesn't bother me because when you know you have that person and they come into you and it's just like the love and you feel it, nothing could break it.

00:49:56.000 Would have you accepted cheating ten years ago?

00:49:58.000 Yeah.

00:49:59.000 What about you?

00:49:59.000 You would have?

00:49:59.000 Okay.

00:50:00.000 Yeah.

00:50:02.000 I already know someone in a certain tax bracket is going to have lots of options.

00:50:06.000 I'm not going to go into it delusional at all.

00:50:08.000 I know what it is.

00:50:09.000 So even putting like rules, those rules are great, but I think they're on real estate.

00:50:21.000 Men aren't thinking that when they're with other women.

00:50:24.000 They just want to smash.

00:50:25.000 The thing I want to emphasize though is, like I said, I better not find out about it.

00:50:29.000 I don't want chicks in my DMs. 1.00

00:50:30.000 I don't want to know.

00:50:31.000 For me, ignorance is bliss.

00:50:34.000 I'm not promoting it.

00:50:36.000 I live in reality though.

00:50:37.000 But let me ask you something.

00:50:39.000 Reality, when you say there's going to be problems, you're dating a guy who's worth $50 million, what problems are you going to give him?

00:50:44.000 He's going to say goodbye next.

00:50:46.000 You said, if I find out, there's going to be a problem.

00:50:50.000 What problem are you going to give a man worth $50 million?

00:50:53.000 The problem is it's going to create emotional issues in the relationship.

00:50:58.000 Okay, and then you get too emotional and he's like, he's worth $50 million.

00:51:02.000 What problems are you going to cause him is my question.

00:51:05.000 I love this New York, LA discussion.

00:51:08.000 It's very different there.

00:51:10.000 Women trying to date men at the top. 0.99

00:51:12.000 It's true.

00:51:13.000 It's an honest question. 1.00

00:51:14.000 Men make money like that to tell women to fuck off that piss them off. 1.00

00:51:17.000 That annoy them. 1.00

00:51:18.000 They literally tell them fuck off. 1.00

00:51:20.000 It sounds good. 1.00

00:51:21.000 There's going to be trouble.

00:51:23.000 I'm worth 50 million.

00:51:25.000 Yeah.

00:51:25.000 I mean, once you go up the social ladder as a female, you literally have less and less leverage with what you can impose on the man.

00:51:33.000 Even if he tells you, oh, no, baby, it's okay, he's still going to keep doing what he does.

00:51:36.000 So it's like, women want successful men, but they don't want to deal with successful problems a lot of times. 0.96

00:51:40.000 Can I ask a question, Nellie?

00:51:41.000 You said, what's the age group that you were saying passed his fun phase?

00:51:45.000 What was that?

00:51:45.000 Well, 85.

00:51:48.000 The reason why I'm asking is if the guy just gets on TRT. Like, he's 55 and he's still...

00:51:55.000 Testosterone replacement therapy.

00:51:57.000 Okay, so here's the thing.

00:51:58.000 Let's talk about...

00:51:59.000 Actually, I have an example of this.

00:52:00.000 So my sister is 25 years old, 26. 0.68

00:52:04.000 She's married to a 65-year-old.

00:52:07.000 Okay.

00:52:08.000 Who is worth almost a billion dollars.

00:52:10.000 Okay.

00:52:11.000 Sounds normal. 0.99

00:52:12.000 He's at an age where he ain't fucking around with other girls. 0.98

00:52:14.000 It's not happening. 0.98

00:52:15.000 Now, I'm not trying to date a 65. 1.00

00:52:18.000 For myself personally, my sweet spot is like 38 to 45.

00:52:23.000 Okay.

00:52:23.000 That's my idea.

00:52:23.000 Is the guy in shape?

00:52:25.000 Yeah.

00:52:25.000 He's cheating on your sister.

00:52:27.000 Yeah, he's probably smashing on your sister.

00:52:28.000 He's cheating on your sister. 0.98

00:52:30.000 I've got, I've got, here's the thing.

00:52:32.000 When you live at a country club and there's no one around.

00:52:34.000 He's cheating on your sister. 0.98

00:52:35.000 Absolutely he is.

00:52:36.000 That's crazy.

00:52:37.000 You're living on the country club.

00:52:38.000 I will tell you, I'm not going to say I've ever been like someone else's other woman, but just because you live on a country club, I've lived on a country club and I've seen people smashing on the golf course.

00:52:48.000 This is probably not their wife.

00:52:49.000 Now, that's something that has to be realistic.

00:52:52.000 Well, their wife probably doesn't look like myself. 0.98

00:52:54.000 That's something that just needs to be realistic, right?

00:52:57.000 When someone is worth almost a billion dollars, your sister is a dime a dozen. 1.00

00:53:02.000 I'm sure she's very attractive when you say, she doesn't look like my sister.

00:53:05.000 She's a dime a dozen to him.

00:53:06.000 Pretty girls are common. 1.00

00:53:07.000 I don't want to digress from the topic.

00:53:12.000 Fresh, did you want to hit me up?

00:53:13.000 Fresh, you can use your old mic now, too.

00:53:15.000 Okay.

00:53:16.000 And then also, yeah, we got a picture that we're gonna show you guys here.

00:53:21.000 Wait, I got one question for you.

00:53:23.000 Where'd you go on your first date, brother?

00:53:25.000 Yes, yes, yes.

00:53:28.000 Well, hold on.

00:53:28.000 Is that gonna interrupt the...

00:53:29.000 It will fuck with the... 0.99

00:53:32.000 You can hold off to the next one. 0.99

00:53:34.000 I know what Fresh is going to be.

00:53:36.000 Fresh, you do your thing first, and then Myron, go ahead.

00:53:38.000 I'll answer it after.

00:53:41.000 But I will answer.

00:53:42.000 I'm transparent.

00:53:43.000 Let's show the image on the screen.

00:53:45.000 This is the meme that's been going viral for a couple days here.

00:53:47.000 It's still not working.

00:53:48.000 Okay, so let's do this.

00:53:49.000 Gray Mike goes to Fresh, and then could you two share, Lana and...

00:53:53.000 Rolo, read your chats, and then we'll read our chats after.

00:53:56.000 We'll read chats, then we'll get into the picture and get the lady's thoughts on it. 0.96

00:54:00.000 You want me to do mine?

00:54:01.000 Yeah, go ahead.

00:54:01.000 Okay, so I have a couple here.

00:54:03.000 First off, let me say thank you to Andy Correa.

00:54:07.000 Thank you for the super chat there.

00:54:09.000 Also, Anejo.

00:54:10.000 Ask her if it was Warren Jeff's cult.

00:54:12.000 Is that Warren Jeff's cult?

00:54:13.000 Yes, that's the cult.

00:54:14.000 That was the one you were in?

00:54:15.000 Okay, cool.

00:54:15.000 Yeah, because there's a Netflix documentary on it.

00:54:17.000 Yes, it came out last year.

00:54:18.000 Okay.

00:54:19.000 Black Ronin, IS Myron, and Rollo, I want Michael's perspective as well.

00:54:23.000 I'm leaving.

00:54:24.000 I'm 25, leaving for the Air Force in a month.

00:54:25.000 How do I become more dominant when I used to be walkover?

00:54:28.000 The military is going to help you with that, man.

00:54:30.000 But I don't know if you're an officer.

00:54:31.000 Just hit me up on DM, and I'll give you some info.

00:54:34.000 Study command presence.

00:54:35.000 Anybody who's joining the military, if you want advice from me, just hit me up.

00:54:39.000 I'll definitely help you guys out.

00:54:40.000 Also, Siege D, I know you prefer books, but you have seen three identical strangers.

00:54:45.000 I don't know what this is.

00:54:46.000 Nature vs.

00:54:47.000 Energy Dynamic.

00:54:48.000 Intel Wild, is Outback on the first date.

00:54:51.000 Is that good enough, ladies? 0.99

00:54:52.000 Outback Steakhouse.

00:54:53.000 Give it a thumbs up or a thumbs out.

00:54:54.000 That was my first date.

00:54:56.000 Who's a thumbs down for Outback Steakhouse?

00:54:57.000 Anybody have a thumbs down? 1.00

00:54:59.000 That Bloomin' Onion's a motherfucker, isn't it? 0.99

00:55:03.000 Cool, I'm done. 1.00

00:55:03.000 Go ahead. 1.00

00:55:05.000 Sage D, thanks to you.

00:55:07.000 The more genetically gifted a guy is, the lazier he can be.

00:55:11.000 God, I got some good ones.

00:55:12.000 As two slightly above average guys, we can't ease off of the acceleration.

00:55:18.000 Thank you very much.

00:55:20.000 Let's see.

00:55:21.000 Who was the brokest man you were with and why?

00:55:27.000 Jen has got a grand slam. 1.00

00:55:32.000 She's the only one that needs to be... 0.96

00:55:34.000 Jen was digmatized by a homeless guy. 1.00

00:55:37.000 No one is gonna beat me.

00:55:41.000 I actually was, I was in love with a guy who very quickly, yeah, that's what I used to think about it back then.

00:55:48.000 Wait, wait, stop, stop, stop.

00:55:49.000 Continue.

00:55:53.000 I was in love with a man when I was a lot younger who was in a home and then very quickly ended up homeless.

00:56:03.000 And I took him into my home.

00:56:06.000 So I was with a hobosexual. 1.00

00:56:09.000 You said he fucked you like his rent depended on it? 1.00

00:56:13.000 Oh fuck yeah. 1.00

00:56:14.000 They always do though. 1.00

00:56:16.000 Because that's all they have.

00:56:18.000 I got this one.

00:56:19.000 Rational Trucker says, Rolo, please explain to the ladies what the hoop earrings and the color red mean. 1.00

00:56:25.000 Women of all backgrounds wear hoops.

00:56:28.000 Okay, so here's the deal.

00:56:29.000 This is the explanation for why we say the bigger the hoop, the bigger the hoe. 1.00

00:56:35.000 I was explaining it to Domo off-camera here before.

00:56:38.000 If you go and you look at any porn movie right now, Odds are, the women are wearing hoop earrings. 1.00

00:56:43.000 The reason for that is because there's a study by Dr.

00:56:46.000 Marty Hazelton, who was an evolutionary psychologist, and she was studying sexual ornamentation.

00:56:54.000 That means when women are in their ovulatory phase, they tend to dress in red, they tend to show more skin, they tend to sexualize themselves that much more, and they tend to wear what? 0.84

00:57:05.000 Hoop earrings.

00:57:07.000 It wasn't about a race issue.

00:57:09.000 It wasn't about anything else.

00:57:10.000 Just clarifying that for the field right now.

00:57:14.000 I appreciate you clarifying that.

00:57:16.000 Because culturally, Latin women and black women, we wear hoops culturally. 0.99

00:57:20.000 I hate hoops.

00:57:21.000 Thank you for clearing that up.

00:57:22.000 You make me look so Latina. 0.96

00:57:24.000 What were you saying, Ashley?

00:57:27.000 Ashley, I can't even see your hoops. 1.00

00:57:29.000 You can even barely see the hoop earrings.

00:57:32.000 Your Honor, the prosecution rests.

00:57:39.000 A question for Myron.

00:57:42.000 When you read Rolo's book, The Rational Male, what statement of fact has stuck with you since reading it?

00:57:50.000 What was the most significant thing out of my book?

00:57:52.000 That's a good question.

00:57:53.000 I would say that women love opportunistically. 1.00

00:57:54.000 Yeah.

00:57:55.000 And I quote that all the time, and I always give you your credit.

00:57:59.000 That's a good one.

00:57:59.000 But yeah, I mean, 100% women love opportunistically.

00:58:02.000 Excellent.

00:58:02.000 Is Outback on the first date okay, ladies?

00:58:05.000 And then the last one I got here is, this is Fresh's Big Dickum Cider.

00:58:10.000 Okay.

00:58:11.000 What?

00:58:12.000 I have no idea.

00:58:13.000 Alright, here we go.

00:58:15.000 Okay, ladies, it's time for the real reason me and Big Homie Fresh came to town.

00:58:22.000 We came here to do two things.

00:58:25.000 Chew bubblegum and clappeth thine cheeks. 1.00

00:58:27.000 And I just ran out of bubblegum.

00:58:29.000 Take it away, Big Homie Fresh.

00:58:31.000 Go for not-so-hot Donna next to Myron. 1.00

00:58:36.000 Thank you very much.

00:58:37.000 Fresh's Big Dick Insider. 1.00

00:58:38.000 Yeah, so your penis has its own YouTube. 1.00

00:58:42.000 It has its own zip code, yes. 0.99

00:58:45.000 It's its own account.

00:58:47.000 That's it.

00:58:47.000 I'm good.

00:58:48.000 Cool.

00:58:48.000 So what we'll do is, guys, come on over to Fresh to Fit on YouTube and Rumble.

00:58:53.000 We're going to kill the other streams.

00:58:54.000 Yeah, and come on over.

00:58:55.000 We've got almost 20,000 y'all watching, so come on over.

00:58:58.000 Let's hit and break the 20.

00:58:59.000 And thank you for each of us.

00:59:01.000 We have war equipment.

00:59:03.000 And subscribe to Rational Mail and Michael Sartain on YouTube, guys.

00:59:06.000 Subscribe to them before we go to the streams.

00:59:07.000 He says, where's Warquette?

00:59:08.000 When will he be on the Graham Stephan show?

00:59:10.000 And when will we see him slap Zerka? 0.53

00:59:14.000 David Stark says, ladies, if your man loved his career, but it didn't pay enough to provide to your dream lifestyle, would you accept it, leave, or tell him to change his occupation?

00:59:24.000 We'll do that after the topic at hand, guys.

00:59:27.000 We'll do that after.

00:59:27.000 Dr.

00:59:28.000 Roberto says, all you're missing is CGA FNF for life.

00:59:31.000 Shout out to you, bro.

00:59:32.000 Inspector says, recyclable use only, I mean ladies, what's a red flag from a guy you secretly like? 0.93

00:59:39.000 We'll have that after as well.

00:59:41.000 Cam2Time says, question ladies, has a man ever made you cry?

00:59:46.000 If so, what's the reason if not Myron and Fresh make him cry?

00:59:50.000 If y'all can't, call Zerka. 0.81

00:59:52.000 Come on, bro.

00:59:53.000 Ivan Lilo says, from, so 220 pounds down from 245 pounds, 165k yearly in Vegas, one home with 250k equity, focusing on fitness and leveling up.

01:00:04.000 Broke up with my feminist girlfriend last year, thank Jesus. 1.00

01:00:07.000 What advice would you give to me?

01:00:08.000 Thanks Myron Fresh Roller Michael for helping men.

01:00:11.000 She buckled his girlfriend last year. 0.91

01:00:15.000 Understand the RP and get aware, man, and keep losing the weight.

01:00:19.000 Okay, we got that one.

01:00:20.000 Question for the ladies. 0.99

01:00:21.000 Are you more attractive at your current age?

01:00:24.000 Okay, hold on.

01:00:25.000 Question for the ladies. 0.99

01:00:26.000 Are you more attractive at your current age or when you were at 18 years old?

01:00:30.000 No retard answers, please. 1.00

01:00:32.000 18?

01:00:33.000 Maybe 23.

01:00:34.000 I'm definitely hotter now.

01:00:36.000 I'll just answer that.

01:00:37.000 All the girls are going to say hotter now. 1.00

01:00:38.000 I look like Well, any girl here can seem to admit that they were more attractive at 18 than they are now.

01:00:46.000 No, but 90s babies, you know our makeup and all that stuff used to be weird?

01:00:51.000 It's fine, it's fine.

01:00:53.000 You didn't have the funds then.

01:00:55.000 It's fine.

01:00:56.000 All right.

01:00:57.000 Granny, go ahead and retire already. 1.00

01:00:58.000 The streets ain't calling your name no more.

01:01:00.000 Get a cat and stay at the crib.

01:01:01.000 Oh man, that's from Fresh's Dog.

01:01:04.000 He's talking about you, but that's fine.

01:01:06.000 Will you connect Warcut with Dave Rubin and Graham Stephan?

01:01:09.000 I don't know about that, I dubs.

01:01:11.000 Ams the Don goes, ladies, say you meet a guy that qualifies for a date and it goes really well and you feel him.

01:01:17.000 He is the one, but he's a highly wanted guy, high status.

01:01:20.000 What are you willing to do to get a second date with him?

01:01:22.000 Way into that one after, because that actually will go right into our thing.

01:01:25.000 And guys, from this point forward, we got over 10,000 of y'all watching, so we're going to go ahead.

01:01:30.000 And rumble real quick.

01:01:33.000 It's just two or three, right?

01:01:34.000 It's a...

01:01:35.000 Oh, man.

01:01:36.000 Okay.

01:01:37.000 So he says, DJ Longer says, how cold is it in there?

01:01:40.000 And then from this point forward, we're going to go...

01:01:42.000 Guys, from this point forward, we're going to go 50 and up.

01:01:45.000 50 and up from this point forward.

01:01:46.000 So he says, how cold is it in there?

01:01:48.000 The chat is wondering.

01:01:49.000 If you know what that means, then you're smart.

01:01:52.000 Joka Jam says, Hey guys, just recently started watching this podcast with my girl.

01:01:56.000 She agrees with these 304s with capping. 0.71

01:01:58.000 Didn't expect that, but we're showing our support by bringing you a female that understands her role.

01:02:03.000 Okay?

01:02:05.000 Someone01 says, Hey, I'm in St.

01:02:07.000 George 2, lived here for 23 years.

01:02:10.000 Is FLDS girl related to any just-ups?

01:02:13.000 Jessups.

01:02:14.000 I'm dating a Jessup. 1.00

01:02:15.000 Not related.

01:02:17.000 Hoping to visit Vegas for F1, WFNF. And then DJ Lauder again says, These 304s want an expensive date. 1.00

01:02:23.000 What do they bring to the table?

01:02:25.000 Okay.

01:02:27.000 Press 1 to cast a little 304 in red.

01:02:31.000 Oh my god.

01:02:32.000 Already.

01:02:33.000 Already.

01:02:33.000 Carlos says, make up masks.

01:02:35.000 What percentage of first dates get second dates with you?

01:02:40.000 What percentage of first dates land a relationship with you?

01:02:42.000 More than a month.

01:02:43.000 Who are they talking to?

01:02:44.000 The same questions from the last one.

01:02:47.000 Masterman says, Gen X and Millennials hung out in a car on a first date.

01:02:51.000 We find a place to park and just talk. 1.00

01:02:53.000 What the fuck is with these women? 1.00

01:02:54.000 Many of them are Gen X and Millennials. 1.00

01:02:56.000 Yet they want the red carpet treatment. 0.84

01:02:58.000 That is a statement. 1.00

01:03:01.000 Punisher says, Ugly Betty in Red, please shut the fuck up. 1.00

01:03:05.000 Aren't the same. 1.00

01:03:06.000 You're old as fuck. 1.00

01:03:07.000 These are the Rumble ones. 1.00

01:03:08.000 So we men don't give a shit about what you old bitches have to say. 1.00

01:03:10.000 Not talking to me. 1.00

01:03:11.000 I don't do incel.

01:03:12.000 I don't talk incel.

01:03:13.000 Half your bones probably just dust by now. 1.00

01:03:15.000 What the fuck? 1.00

01:03:16.000 Not talking to me. 1.00

01:03:17.000 I think Fantasy says, Sugar Mamas are real? 1.00

01:03:19.000 I think that's you.

01:03:21.000 Yes.

01:03:21.000 And then last few here.

01:03:23.000 Alcazara says, The grandma's ideal's first date is bingo night.

01:03:32.000 When a woman is not attracted to you, no pickup line will work. 1.00

01:03:36.000 She'll make it difficult, but a girl with high attraction and high interest will open doors and make it easy for you. 1.00

01:03:41.000 That's true.

01:03:42.000 The last one here says, Chris Povlowski, when Rumble app is going to be updated?

01:03:47.000 Very soon, my friend.

01:03:48.000 It's going to get updated.

01:03:49.000 So guys, from this point forward, it's going to be 50 and up because we want to keep the show going.

01:03:52.000 FNFSuperChat.com or Rumble ran it in.

01:03:54.000 But we read all the ones that came through, so thank you for your support.

01:03:56.000 And now we have a picture to look at.

01:03:58.000 It's going viral.

01:03:59.000 So it's a meme that's been going around on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and TikTok.

01:04:03.000 And basically, it's the first date knows for girls in this century. 0.51

01:04:09.000 Cheesecake Factory.

01:04:10.000 So we have a list of don'ts.

01:04:12.000 Oh my god.

01:04:13.000 The first dates.

01:04:14.000 Well, first off, don't use Facetune to snatch her waist. 1.00

01:04:18.000 What the fuck is that? 1.00

01:04:19.000 Yeah. 0.99

01:04:19.000 That's not real. 0.99

01:04:21.000 It kinda is, though.

01:04:22.000 Have you seen her?

01:04:23.000 Women don't want to go on first dates. 1.00

01:04:24.000 Bitch, fine as fuck. 1.00

01:04:25.000 So the first one's Cheesecake Factory, Applebee's, Chili's, Chipotle, Olive Garden, the movies. 1.00

01:04:40.000 I would totally go on a first date.

01:04:47.000 Ladies, 50-yard line for the Raiders game. 1.00

01:04:50.000 Raise your hand if you would go to that. 1.00

01:04:52.000 That right there is fucking cow. 1.00

01:04:54.000 The rest of it I told you. 1.00

01:04:56.000 Ladies, real quick. 1.00

01:04:57.000 Who wants your opinion on this?

01:04:59.000 Do you agree with this list?

01:05:00.000 Wait, first off, that was one woman's list. 0.89

01:05:04.000 And you guys were saying that it was every woman who said that.

01:05:07.000 It's not true.

01:05:08.000 They're asking.

01:05:09.000 If you agree with the list.

01:05:11.000 I think there's a handful of things on there that I definitely...

01:05:14.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. 0.98

01:05:15.000 Let's have some fucking order here. 1.00

01:05:16.000 Let's start here. 0.99

01:05:17.000 So we're going to go one by one.

01:05:19.000 Ladies, this list went viral, so clearly a bunch of women are resharing and retweeting it, so a bunch of them agree with this, and they're sharing it.

01:05:26.000 So what we're asking is, do you agree with this list? 0.90

01:05:29.000 Are some of the things on there ridiculous? 0.94

01:05:31.000 Are they appropriate? 0.95

01:05:32.000 Etc.

01:05:33.000 Just your general take on it from the locations seen.

01:05:37.000 We can start here.

01:05:39.000 I don't remember the list exactly, but I remember saying some of them were...

01:05:43.000 Can we pull it back up and keep it up on screen the whole time? 0.96

01:05:45.000 Yeah, some of them are absolutely ridiculous.

01:05:48.000 I mean, they left you nowhere to go. 0.96

01:05:50.000 That list left you nowhere to go. 0.96

01:05:52.000 So some of them were silly, very silly, and some of them were like, uh, I agreed with some of them. 0.95

01:05:58.000 What's the most ridiculous and the most legit one? 0.99

01:06:01.000 I can't see. 0.98

01:06:02.000 I'd have to see it.

01:06:02.000 I have it on my phone.

01:06:03.000 Too old?

01:06:04.000 I can't see from there.

01:06:05.000 Oh my god, bro.

01:06:06.000 Well, the jokes are going to come in for that one.

01:06:10.000 Can you see that one?

01:06:11.000 I can't.

01:06:13.000 Yeah, I can see it.

01:06:14.000 Cheesecake Factory, Applebee's, Chili's, Chipotle, Olive Garden, the movie.

01:06:18.000 Is there any way that we can put it behind you guys?

01:06:21.000 No.

01:06:21.000 Personally, I agree with some.

01:06:25.000 I don't agree with all of them.

01:06:26.000 I would love to go to church on the first date.

01:06:29.000 So you don't agree with that one?

01:06:30.000 No, I agree with that.

01:06:32.000 No, no, I'm saying you don't agree with that being on the list.

01:06:34.000 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, sorry.

01:06:35.000 Yeah, and then what is the, which one is appropriate, would you say, the most appropriate?

01:06:38.000 Waffle House.

01:06:39.000 Waffle House, you wouldn't want to go there?

01:06:40.000 I would go there.

01:06:42.000 Oh, you would.

01:06:43.000 What is appropriate as in, like, being on the list?

01:06:45.000 No, family function.

01:06:45.000 I wouldn't go to a family function, not on the first date.

01:06:47.000 No, that's weird.

01:06:48.000 Okay. 0.99

01:06:49.000 Like, meeting the kids and mom, shit, that's weird. 0.99

01:06:51.000 Yeah, I wouldn't have that first date. 0.99

01:06:52.000 Assuming you, the guy was attractive. 0.99

01:06:54.000 I don't give a fuck. 0.99

01:06:55.000 That's weird. 0.99

01:06:55.000 I don't care. 0.99

01:06:56.000 You know what?

01:06:57.000 If I was into him, I would accompany him to a wedding.

01:07:00.000 Hell no, bro. 1.00

01:07:02.000 No, fuck no. 1.00

01:07:03.000 Weddings? 1.00

01:07:04.000 That's scary. 1.00

01:07:05.000 That made me sweat, bitch. 1.00

01:07:07.000 Remember, it's a first date. 1.00

01:07:09.000 If I was into him, I'd go to another world. 1.00

01:07:11.000 Family function is scary as shit. 0.99

01:07:14.000 Okay, what about you? 0.99

01:07:15.000 What is valid on there and not valid?

01:07:17.000 I think that the general dislike would probably be church or a fast food restaurant.

01:07:22.000 And I think pretty much the others are like, we could have fun for sure.

01:07:26.000 Okay, so are you not religious at all?

01:07:30.000 No, not really.

01:07:31.000 Okay, so church and what was the other one you said no to?

01:07:33.000 Church and fast food.

01:07:35.000 I would not do fast food.

01:07:37.000 Okay.

01:07:38.000 What if that was how you got to know him, because he was really into eating McDonald's?

01:07:42.000 Yeah, see, I'm not going to relate with somebody that's really eating McDonald's.

01:07:45.000 Yeah, but like he's a professional eater or something.

01:07:48.000 That's not going to fit my lifestyle.

01:07:50.000 No, so it doesn't matter.

01:07:51.000 Hey, somewhere that requires a long drive, none of you guys would do that.

01:08:06.000 What about you on that list?

01:08:11.000 Can we keep that list up?

01:08:13.000 What was valid and what was not valid?

01:08:15.000 What was valid?

01:08:16.000 I would say a sports event.

01:08:19.000 I would go to a sports event.

01:08:20.000 Okay, so you agree with that?

01:08:22.000 But church and the gym are kind of...

01:08:26.000 No gym?

01:08:27.000 I think you should have already done your work in the gym.

01:08:31.000 I don't want to go to the gym with you.

01:08:36.000 I would totally do that.

01:08:38.000 Do you work out yourself or no?

01:08:40.000 I do.

01:08:40.000 You do.

01:08:41.000 So wouldn't it be fair to say that something you guys could do together?

01:08:43.000 I mean we could, just not on the first date.

01:08:46.000 Okay.

01:08:47.000 What about you?

01:08:48.000 What is appropriate and not appropriate on the list in your opinion?

01:08:51.000 So, appropriate, absolutely Cheesecake Factory.

01:08:54.000 I live near one.

01:08:55.000 It's convenient.

01:08:56.000 It's closed.

01:08:56.000 Everything always tastes good, I think.

01:09:00.000 Inappropriate, I wouldn't be into the church date either.

01:09:04.000 I don't like worship areas personally, especially for dates.

01:09:11.000 I don't...

01:09:12.000 Red lobster would not probably be it.

01:09:15.000 What?!

01:09:16.000 The biscuits?!

01:09:18.000 I'm not a lobster person, but a guy asked me to go to In-N-Out recently, and even though I said no, I still like In-N-Out.

01:09:25.000 So if I was really hungry and really lazy, I maybe would say yes.

01:09:28.000 Were you attracted to that guy?

01:09:31.000 I was figuring it out.

01:09:32.000 Were we attracted enough to him to go to In-N-Out and get it in?

01:09:36.000 Ladies, none of you would do an ice cream date? 1.00

01:09:39.000 I would totally do an ice cream date.

01:09:41.000 Yeah, I've done an ice cream date.

01:09:42.000 That's worked out well.

01:09:43.000 Ice cream date's been really good, yeah.

01:09:44.000 I think it really comes down for me to, am I lazy?

01:09:48.000 Is it on the fly?

01:09:48.000 Is it close by?

01:09:50.000 And are the calories going to be worth it?

01:09:53.000 All right, hold on.

01:09:53.000 So you said red lobster was unacceptable.

01:09:55.000 What was the other one?

01:09:55.000 I don't like lobsters, so that's why.

01:09:57.000 I wouldn't want to go to church.

01:09:59.000 Church is a no for me.

01:10:00.000 I don't like, yeah, that's not it.

01:10:02.000 That's not a fly for me.

01:10:03.000 And the rest of it was okay with you?

01:10:05.000 Again, if I was really hungry and kind of lazy and it was close by, maybe, yeah.

01:10:10.000 I was into the guy, yeah.

01:10:11.000 But no church, no church.

01:10:12.000 So fast food is a no as well.

01:10:13.000 No church?

01:10:14.000 Maybe.

01:10:14.000 They got good donuts at church.

01:10:16.000 What about you?

01:10:17.000 What about you?

01:10:18.000 What else do you know?

01:10:19.000 No Applebee's, no Chilis, maybe Chipotle, no Olive Garden.

01:10:23.000 Maybe Chipotle? 1.00

01:10:24.000 Chipotle's the shit. 1.00

01:10:26.000 No Wingstop, no Red Lobster, no Buffet, no Denny's. 1.00

01:10:30.000 Okay.

01:10:30.000 No church?

01:10:31.000 I don't know.

01:10:34.000 Okay, so pretty much you agree with the whole list.

01:10:37.000 What if I took you on a hike?

01:10:39.000 Want to go hiking?

01:10:41.000 Outdoors?

01:10:42.000 She's from Miami, no. 0.98

01:10:44.000 I'll go to the beach.

01:10:45.000 What about deep sea fishing?

01:10:46.000 Would you go on a chartered deep sea fishing boat?

01:10:47.000 No, I get really sick.

01:10:49.000 That's an adventure.

01:10:51.000 Okay, what about you?

01:10:52.000 What's a...

01:10:53.000 My least favorite on here is my house for safety, obviously.

01:10:58.000 We'll take that one out. 0.51

01:10:59.000 If you take that one out, then it will be church and nightclubs.

01:11:03.000 She's not a Christian! 1.00

01:11:05.000 I am a Christian, but the problem with church is I can't talk to him.

01:11:09.000 So my first date, I actually want to get to know the person.

01:11:11.000 So my favorite would be like food truck and the gym.

01:11:14.000 But if the gym, if we get to work out together.

01:11:16.000 Okay, so church and nightclub are the ones that you definitely would say no to, right?

01:11:21.000 Yeah, because the church, I love the church.

01:11:22.000 We can do a second date on the church, but I want to get to know you and actually talk to you on the first date.

01:11:26.000 Alright, what about you?

01:11:28.000 Can you pass that to her so she can look at it?

01:11:32.000 The long drive I might be a little afraid of.

01:11:36.000 Exactly what I said.

01:11:38.000 Things went really bad on the day.

01:11:40.000 What would you not do on there, assuming the guy met all your requirements?

01:11:40.000 Let's assume you liked the guy.

01:11:45.000 Nightclubs, hookah bar, because I don't smoke, but I actually would go with him if he's into it, maybe.

01:11:49.000 I don't know.

01:11:50.000 They have good food.

01:11:51.000 So the hookah and what was that one?

01:11:52.000 I've never been to one, but I don't know, it doesn't sound too short.

01:11:54.000 So nightclubs, we can't really get to know each other at nightclub, a first date.

01:11:58.000 Like, I don't know.

01:11:59.000 So you're cool with everything there except for nightclub, assuming you like the guy?

01:12:02.000 Okay, what about you?

01:12:02.000 Yeah.

01:12:03.000 I might even go with him to a nightclub.

01:12:05.000 Assuming you like the guy, what do you not do on that list?

01:12:09.000 I feel like this list is a little unrealistic.

01:12:11.000 It really left nowhere for anyone to, I mean, like, normal people to go.

01:12:16.000 Okay.

01:12:18.000 Um...

01:12:19.000 If it's someone I like, they could literally take me to any of these places.

01:12:23.000 It doesn't really matter.

01:12:24.000 It's more about who you're with than what you're eating.

01:12:26.000 And how good the kind bud is.

01:12:28.000 What about you?

01:12:29.000 What would you...

01:12:30.000 Take me to the dispensary.

01:12:32.000 I would love the cheese pancake factory.

01:12:34.000 But knockout, Applebee's, Chili's, I like Chipotle, Olive Garden, no.

01:12:38.000 Movies, yes.

01:12:38.000 Your house, absolutely not.

01:12:40.000 Any of the fast food chains, probably.

01:12:41.000 So even if you like the guy, you'd still say no to all these things?

01:12:44.000 Yes.

01:12:45.000 And Buffalo Wild Wings.

01:12:47.000 Like I said, I'm not going to eat something that can be microwaved and then served to me on a plate.

01:12:47.000 I am a picky eater.

01:12:51.000 I don't even believe in microwaves.

01:12:53.000 Period.

01:12:53.000 Wow.

01:12:54.000 I eat clean, but I would do shake and fries with the guy I was into.

01:12:58.000 Oh, yeah.

01:12:58.000 I mean, I probably won't do the fries, but I'll do the shake.

01:13:01.000 That'll be like my one.

01:13:02.000 Real quick, for you.

01:13:04.000 So, assuming you like the guy, you would still say no to all those places?

01:13:08.000 No, I... Let's go back with, assuming you like the guy.

01:13:13.000 Can we pass it back to her?

01:13:15.000 I'm not going to go there.

01:13:16.000 You're still not going to go to those places?

01:13:17.000 I don't like it.

01:13:20.000 Okay.

01:13:21.000 And then for you guys, I guess, yeah.

01:13:23.000 So pretty much, even if you like the guys, those places are still, you're not going to go, right?

01:13:27.000 I would go.

01:13:28.000 I would go.

01:13:29.000 Except for my two or three.

01:13:31.000 Which were, were those two or three again?

01:13:33.000 My church.

01:13:34.000 Church?

01:13:34.000 We can pass the list if you want to.

01:13:36.000 Because you couldn't see it anyway from the beginning.

01:13:37.000 I can't see it.

01:13:38.000 So yeah, assuming you like the guy and he meets all your requirements, what are the ones that are still not, you would not go to?

01:13:43.000 Outside of house, that's obvious.

01:13:45.000 If I like him, I'll put up with the crappy places like Applebee's.

01:13:49.000 If I like him, I'll put up with it.

01:13:51.000 But church, definitely not.

01:13:54.000 What about you?

01:13:57.000 Assuming you like him, where would you not go?

01:13:58.000 Is it still the same thing for you, church and gym?

01:14:01.000 Or no, church and fasting?

01:14:02.000 I've gone to church.

01:14:03.000 Or no, you said family function.

01:14:04.000 I wouldn't go to the gym.

01:14:06.000 I wouldn't do the family function.

01:14:07.000 I wouldn't go to his house.

01:14:09.000 I wouldn't let him go to my house.

01:14:10.000 Well, we said house is not on the list.

01:14:12.000 That's fine.

01:14:14.000 Family function, gym, what else?

01:14:15.000 Assuming you like him.

01:14:16.000 Something cool everywhere else. 0.99

01:14:17.000 I don't give a fuck. 0.99

01:14:18.000 So just two things. 0.99

01:14:19.000 Oh, and church, right?

01:14:20.000 Yeah.

01:14:21.000 Okay, what about...

01:14:21.000 No, I like church.

01:14:22.000 I go to church.

01:14:22.000 Oh, you go to the church.

01:14:23.000 Yeah.

01:14:24.000 Just not the family function.

01:14:25.000 No.

01:14:25.000 All right, what about...

01:14:25.000 And then for you, you said church and gym...

01:14:27.000 No.

01:14:28.000 Church and fast food.

01:14:29.000 But is this still on a first date?

01:14:30.000 First date, but you like the guy.

01:14:32.000 He's absolutely attractive.

01:14:32.000 It's probably going to be the same thing.

01:14:34.000 Yeah.

01:14:34.000 And then for you, would it be the same thing, assuming you like the guy?

01:14:37.000 If I like the guy, I would go to any of these places.

01:14:40.000 Oh, to include even the church and the gym?

01:14:42.000 Well, you know, church...

01:14:45.000 You might burn it. 0.72

01:14:46.000 Maybe. 0.81

01:14:47.000 It depends what religion. 0.53

01:14:48.000 You might burn it there.

01:14:50.000 But that's a weird one.

01:14:51.000 That's a weird one.

01:14:52.000 But if I like him, I'll go to any of these.

01:14:55.000 Okay.

01:14:56.000 Interesting.

01:14:57.000 Did you have a follow-up question for us?

01:14:59.000 Yeah, actually, so the date purpose is to get to know somebody on a deeper level.

01:15:03.000 And I think on some level, whether the guy's looking or ugly, obviously you have your preferences.

01:15:09.000 But the guy's your type, the date location may not matter as much.

01:15:13.000 So I think on some level, we can agree that the date matters if the guy looks good to you or not, I would say.

01:15:18.000 You're way nicer about it than me.

01:15:20.000 This is why guys need to give women less. 0.90

01:15:23.000 I wrote a book, Why Women Deserve Less, and you guys kind of proved my point here. 1.00

01:15:27.000 What I've come to realize is the way a woman treats you, the things that she's gonna put you through, how much she's gonna put you through the ringer, is directly related to how attractive she is to you.

01:15:35.000 And the reality is men need to focus on themselves more, make more money, become more attractive, et cetera, so they don't have to work as hard with impressing girls and taking them to lavish areas that the women are not gonna appreciate for them anyway.

01:15:46.000 They're gonna try to get an entertainment experience.

01:15:48.000 And the reason why I asked those questions was, hey, if you like the guy, are you going to really, you know, stress him out and say, I want to go here and I want to do this or whatever?

01:15:55.000 And I've come to realize that girls make certain guys work hard and then other guys not work so hard.

01:15:59.000 So my question is this, why should a guy go through the trouble of taking you on a fancy ass date and everything else when there's other men that can clearly take you to just get some coffee or something regular?

01:16:08.000 Why should he spend extra time and money to take you even though you wouldn't do that to another guy?

01:16:12.000 Because we're spending extra time trying to pretend liking you.

01:16:16.000 I prefer...

01:16:17.000 Let's go around the table on this one.

01:16:19.000 So why is it that you're going to make some other guys pay full price for something that other guys are getting for free and or paying little to nothing for?

01:16:26.000 Start here.

01:16:28.000 oh my gosh can you say that one more time so why is it that you would make some guys you know go through the whole rigmarole to take you on a date but other guys not and should they still do take the make the effort to take you on these dates honestly i'm going to tell you straight out whether i want to go on the date with you or not and chances are if i don't i'm going to tell you i'm very very busy i'm working everything i'm doing is making money and if i'm not making money then i'm kind of upset right So if I'm going to do something that I enjoy and I want to go on a date with you,

01:16:57.000 I'm not going to make you pay that much because it's something that I actually want to do and enjoy with my own time.

01:17:02.000 So have you never been on a date with a guy that you really like that much but it was a really nice restaurant or a cool experience?

01:17:08.000 I mean, not really.

01:17:10.000 Not really.

01:17:11.000 So it's a yes, just not often.

01:17:13.000 I mean, every blue moon, but it has to be something nice, right?

01:17:17.000 And they know that they have the carrot in front of my face like a horse.

01:17:20.000 They're like, come on, I'll take you somewhere nice or X, Y, and Z, right?

01:17:24.000 Okay.

01:17:25.000 And then I've already told them no.

01:17:29.000 Okay.

01:17:29.000 So since you said no and they don't get the hint, you're going to make them pay for it?

01:17:34.000 They put the carrot in front of my face in the first place.

01:17:36.000 I didn't ask for it.

01:17:37.000 I want to know what the carrot is.

01:17:39.000 The nice dinner.

01:17:41.000 I want to know what the carrot is.

01:17:45.000 Because she's talking about, well, it depends on what it is.

01:17:48.000 The nice dinners, the shopping, the shows.

01:17:51.000 Let me see if I can rephrase this a little bit.

01:17:54.000 Would any of your answers have changed if the guy you worked wanted to take you out to any of these places? 0.57

01:17:59.000 Applebee's or some shit like that.

01:18:00.000 But the dude was like...

01:18:02.000 Your absolute physical ideal you really wanted to get with this guy.

01:18:05.000 You knew he laid down the good D. He was like, he was yoked.

01:18:08.000 He just turned you on no matter what.

01:18:11.000 Would you have changed your answer at all?

01:18:13.000 Would you have put up with going to Applebee's or what? 0.99

01:18:17.000 Olive Garden, for fuck's sake! 0.99

01:18:19.000 Olive Garden's great! 0.99

01:18:20.000 Would you go to Olive Garden with a guy if he looked like Henry Cavill or he looked like Jason Momoa or he was just like your physical ideal that you were just like, man, I'm going to go through this because I know what's coming at the end of the date.

01:18:32.000 You know what?

01:18:32.000 I might go and just watch him eat, right?

01:18:35.000 And I would not even enjoy my time as much. 0.84

01:18:38.000 And just because he looks pretty and the fact that he's putting that kind of garbage into his body, chances are I probably won't like him. 0.92

01:18:45.000 I got a question for the girls. 1.00

01:18:46.000 Gotcha, bitch! 1.00

01:18:48.000 So, throughout this podcast, we've pretty much established that women will absolutely punish certain guys if they're not attractive enough and force them to pay for expensive dates or extravagant experiences, whatever, while other guys might not have to do any of that crap. 0.99

01:18:58.000 Knowing what you know now, where would you tell your son to take a first date?

01:19:02.000 That was exactly my question.

01:19:04.000 Cheesecake factory!

01:19:05.000 Hold on, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, one at a time.

01:19:07.000 We can start here.

01:19:09.000 Where would you tell your son to take a girl on a date knowing that women date predatorily? 0.64

01:19:13.000 Cheesecake Factory, right?

01:19:14.000 Or if you're a teenager, maybe like Family Fun Center or Boomers, somewhere fun and outgoing, right?

01:19:21.000 If you're a kid, but an adult, Cheesecake Factory is just fine.

01:19:24.000 How old is our son?

01:19:27.000 Let's say he's 25 years old, making 50k a year, average guy.

01:19:31.000 What about you?

01:19:34.000 I was still gonna go with the whole picnic and do something romantic and cute.

01:19:40.000 That would be the advice that I would give to my son.

01:19:43.000 Planet 13.

01:19:45.000 Jardine.

01:19:46.000 So a picnic or a hike is what you're saying?

01:19:50.000 Yeah.

01:19:50.000 Okay.

01:19:51.000 How much would you tell him to spend?

01:19:54.000 As a matter of fact, yeah.

01:19:57.000 Where should your son take the girl and how much should he spend?

01:20:00.000 Okay.

01:20:01.000 25, 50k?

01:20:02.000 Hold on, hold on.

01:20:03.000 Yeah, he makes 25.

01:20:04.000 Yeah, 50k a year.

01:20:05.000 Like 30, 40 bucks on like some snacks to pack up to make their lunch.

01:20:10.000 What about you?

01:20:11.000 What's the budget for Cheesecake Factory?

01:20:13.000 You, I mean, it depends if there's alcohol involved, right?

01:20:16.000 Realistically, if there's no alcohol involved, it can definitely stay below like $75.

01:20:20.000 If it's over, you're going to be paying close to $150, but you got to be knowing that if you're walking into a date.

01:20:26.000 Okay, so $150 max?

01:20:29.000 Thanks, Mom.

01:20:29.000 I mean, there's no max.

01:20:30.000 You're a grown boy.

01:20:31.000 I'm not going to micromanage you as a mother.

01:20:33.000 Grown boy?

01:20:34.000 Yeah, 25 years old.

01:20:35.000 25 years old.

01:20:36.000 You should know how much you do or do not want to spend.

01:20:38.000 But do not spend $500 on your first date. 0.80

01:20:41.000 Like, that would be just ridiculous for a 25 year old. 1.00

01:20:43.000 But mom, I really want to tap that ass. 1.00

01:20:45.000 Go buy her a nice purse and do it. 1.00

01:20:48.000 Hold on, hold on.

01:20:48.000 But with all due respect, I find that interesting because you're in the profession of finessing guys out of money.

01:20:53.000 You act in a predatory sense to get the most money out of guys.

01:20:56.000 You wouldn't advise your son on how to defend himself against women that want to do that? 1.00

01:20:59.000 Because you might do it from a pole, but let's be honest here.

01:21:02.000 A lot of girls do that and finesse just in regular day life. 1.00

01:21:05.000 So you want to prepare yourself for that?

01:21:06.000 I also don't associate with these type of women most of the time. 1.00

01:21:09.000 I don't find myself in the predatory space, especially in my space.

01:21:12.000 I actually don't.

01:21:13.000 I put on a very good pole show.

01:21:15.000 I'm probably one of the top 10, 15 pole dancers in all of Las Vegas.

01:21:19.000 Yeah, that's fantastic and all.

01:21:20.000 But at the end of the day, your job is absolutely contingent upon selling a dream and or image to men to get money for so.

01:21:26.000 And a lot of the times that comes in with faking attraction, faking arousal, faking that you want to talk to and faking that you care, etc.

01:21:33.000 I guarantee that's a part of the reason why they say, I'll take you here and there because they're so infatuated with your behaviors.

01:21:39.000 Fantastic.

01:21:39.000 Yes.

01:21:39.000 When you walk into a strip club, you know it's fake.

01:21:42.000 I'm also an anomaly.

01:21:43.000 Most people like me for me and want to spend time with me knowing that my time is money.

01:21:49.000 Oh my god, bro.

01:21:50.000 Okay.

01:21:50.000 Come and see me at work.

01:21:52.000 Can I say something?

01:21:53.000 Do I have to wait to go around the table?

01:21:54.000 Come, come, come.

01:21:55.000 Is it in direct relation to this?

01:21:57.000 Absolutely.

01:21:57.000 Yeah, go ahead.

01:21:58.000 I just, I want to say, like... 0.94

01:22:01.000 I'm sure you're an anomaly, but all women are predatory. 1.00

01:22:04.000 So when you say, I don't hang with women like that, even the nice women are predatory because we're hypergamous. 1.00

01:22:09.000 All women are predatory. 1.00

01:22:10.000 All of us. 0.99

01:22:11.000 It doesn't matter what age.

01:22:12.000 And I'm sure you're a nice person.

01:22:13.000 That doesn't take away from you're a nice person.

01:22:15.000 As far as what I would tell my son, my son's life is not...

01:22:19.000 You know, it's not predicated on what a woman is doing. 1.00

01:22:21.000 I come from a long line of bodybuilders, men that make good money, men that own property.

01:22:25.000 That's what I would tell my son.

01:22:27.000 Make sure you are the elite, the top choice, the one that has the options.

01:22:31.000 The women will come. 0.72

01:22:32.000 That's what I'm going to tell my son.

01:22:33.000 I'm not going to tell my son, hey, there's predators out there.

01:22:35.000 Only take her to Applebee's and see what...

01:22:37.000 No, you be the best that you can be, and you'll never have a problem with women coming to you and wanting you.

01:22:42.000 And if...

01:22:43.000 And I'll land the plane here.

01:22:44.000 And if it's going to hurt your pocket to take a woman out, don't do it. 1.00

01:22:49.000 And second, if you just want pussy, go buy it. 1.00

01:22:51.000 That's what I would tell my son. 1.00

01:22:53.000 That's what I would tell my son.

01:22:54.000 Let's stop playing a game. 1.00

01:22:55.000 If it's that you want pussy, son, go buy it. 1.00

01:22:58.000 This is why fathers are so important, man. 1.00

01:23:00.000 I mean, that's a great recipe, but what's going to end up happening is women are going to look at him as a mark. 0.81

01:23:07.000 Hey, he has money, etc.

01:23:08.000 He's the best option, but he never understood female nature.

01:23:10.000 He gets used by girls.

01:23:11.000 And that's it.

01:23:11.000 But here's the thing.

01:23:12.000 He has a woman that's going to school him on female nature, and that had a very good father.

01:23:17.000 He was...

01:23:18.000 Very good father.

01:23:19.000 Which is why I know a lot of game from both sides.

01:23:21.000 But I'm not gonna raise my son to be some sort of victim.

01:23:24.000 Be the best that you could be.

01:23:25.000 Yes, women are predatory, but common sense. 1.00

01:23:27.000 If it's gonna hurt your pocket, don't do it. 1.00

01:23:29.000 And if you only want her for ass, go buy it. 1.00

01:23:31.000 What's wrong with that? 1.00

01:23:31.000 It's common sense. 1.00

01:23:32.000 I get that, but what I'm saying is that what's gonna end up happening is just gonna end up being a trick.

01:23:37.000 Wait, do you mean go buy it as in like you can take her to... 0.99

01:23:40.000 Prostitution. 0.99

01:23:41.000 No, literally, literally, a lot of men... 1.00

01:23:43.000 Like going to Hong Kong.

01:23:44.000 Right, a lot of men are pissed off about spending...

01:23:47.000 You gotta go to Hong Kong.

01:23:47.000 A lot of men...

01:23:48.000 Let's go Hong Kong?

01:23:50.000 Listen, a lot of men get mad that they're spending money on women with no return, right? 1.00

01:23:53.000 The return is usually the vagina. 1.00

01:23:55.000 So I'm like, why are we playing this game? 1.00

01:23:57.000 Go buy the vagina. 1.00

01:23:58.000 Let's stop the rigmarole of the BS. So you're telling your son to go pay for pussy. 1.00

01:24:02.000 In reality, when you do that, you become a hater of women. 1.00

01:24:05.000 You know that, right? 1.00

01:24:07.000 But they hate women anyway when they take them out on a date and don't get the vagina. 1.00

01:24:11.000 They end up hating women even more. 1.00

01:24:14.000 Is it not true?

01:24:14.000 Can I piggyback on that?

01:24:16.000 Okay, hold on, hold on, hold on.

01:24:16.000 This is a whole other conversation here.

01:24:20.000 Let's just stick with the questioning and then we can go ahead and have discussion on paying for sex and everything else like that.

01:24:25.000 So, yeah, knowing...

01:24:27.000 Oh, you answered it.

01:24:28.000 Go ahead.

01:24:29.000 Where would you tell your son to go ahead and take her on a first date? 0.94

01:24:31.000 Knowing what you know now about how women make some guys work really hard and some other guys not. 0.98

01:24:35.000 I would tell my son, if she isn't willing to go get ice cream or coffee with you, she's not into you.

01:24:41.000 And if she says yes, take her to the fair and get ice cream.

01:24:45.000 Do something more fun.

01:24:46.000 What's the max you should spend?

01:24:48.000 Um, I don't know.

01:24:49.000 $100?

01:24:50.000 $200 maybe.

01:24:51.000 Alright. 0.99

01:24:51.000 Goddamn, that's expensive ice cream. 0.99

01:24:53.000 Alright, what about you? 0.99

01:24:55.000 That's a really hard question.

01:24:55.000 What would you tell your son as far as where he should take a girl knowing what you know now about how women make some guys work really hard and others not?

01:25:04.000 My son's bad now.

01:25:05.000 Well, I don't have kids, so maybe this would change if I actually did have a son and I'd get a little bit more terrified.

01:25:10.000 That's why I'm asking this question.

01:25:11.000 Or your brother, if you have a brother.

01:25:14.000 I do have a brother.

01:25:15.000 I have two brothers.

01:25:15.000 Okay, there you go.

01:25:15.000 What would you tell them?

01:25:17.000 But okay, so I guess I can use the best for my cousin.

01:25:20.000 He's a boy.

01:25:21.000 Whatever.

01:25:22.000 So he asked me, and I asked him what his budget was, and I was like, and how do you think that this girl feels about you? 0.75

01:25:28.000 Or, how do you feel about this girl? 1.00

01:25:29.000 Do you want to just have sex with her? 1.00

01:25:32.000 Or do you actually want to date her? 0.95

01:25:35.000 And then I say to, like, justify it based off of that and what your budget is.

01:25:39.000 So if you just want to have sex with her, then, to be honest with you, I wouldn't spend too much, but try to make it look like you're spending a lot.

01:25:47.000 And then if you actually... 0.83

01:25:48.000 Where should you take her and how much should you spend? 0.89

01:25:50.000 Give us to her.

01:25:50.000 Okay, so he lives in Idaho and...

01:25:53.000 Idaho? 1.00

01:25:53.000 Goddamn. 1.00

01:25:54.000 I didn't, I mean... 0.99

01:25:55.000 Yeah, it's my like white square side.

01:25:57.000 Okay, alright.

01:25:58.000 Yeah, so they have this like really nice, really nice restaurant that's kind of like a cheesecake factory and I was like, well just take her there.

01:26:05.000 And then, they're 25, so he wasn't 25 at the time, he was like 20.

01:26:11.000 But I was like, just take her somewhere like there and then just see how the conversation goes.

01:26:15.000 Oh.

01:26:16.000 So don't even spend the money?

01:26:18.000 I just wouldn't.

01:26:20.000 Unless you're really vibing with the person, you're like, okay, I know that I'm gonna get this girl and I really like her.

01:26:26.000 I wouldn't tell them to split the check, though.

01:26:28.000 I would tell them to just pay, but just stay in your budget range.

01:26:31.000 Okay.

01:26:31.000 What about you?

01:26:32.000 What would you tell your son knowing that girls make some guys work hard and others not?

01:26:37.000 No, it's just, I mean, if he's 25 years old, he should know what she will be worth or what he wants from her.

01:26:45.000 So he will spend, if he's making 50k, I'm sure he could afford from $100 to $300 dinner.

01:26:51.000 It depends.

01:26:51.000 It's whatever he feels about her.

01:26:54.000 Man, women have no concept of money. 1.00

01:26:56.000 You know how much a guy that makes 50k a year is making a month?

01:27:01.000 I mean, if he really likes her, he's gonna save her and just take her and impress her.

01:27:05.000 Like, it depends how much he likes her.

01:27:07.000 Yeah, but remember, it's a first date.

01:27:09.000 We're asking you, like...

01:27:10.000 Yeah, but sometimes first dates are the most important because that's where it starts.

01:27:14.000 Yeah, but you know clearly now that some women, like, just make guys pay extra and other guys not. 1.00

01:27:19.000 So he'll have to make his own decision if she's just a game or, like, a real first date for love.

01:27:26.000 How about this?

01:27:27.000 What would you do if you were a guy and you knew how women operated? 1.00

01:27:30.000 Where would you take her on the first date and how much would you spend?

01:27:32.000 I think it's all about the connection.

01:27:34.000 So if you think it's the first date and I'm really like...

01:27:35.000 You're dropping 300 and you make 50k a year?

01:27:37.000 If I really like her and I want to take it more serious and I think I'm like, take it for love and like just trying to like figure it out.

01:27:43.000 Love is very expensive.

01:27:44.000 On a first date?

01:27:45.000 No.

01:27:46.000 I date women and I've done that before. 1.00

01:27:48.000 It all starts from that special moment.

01:27:50.000 The first date.

01:27:51.000 Yeah. 0.75

01:27:52.000 I date women as well and I actually date women before I dated men and like I was dumb and I used to take girls out on like these extravagant dates and buy them a lot of shit and then I'm an idiot and I'm like why did I do this because I'm not with them right now and they're somewhere else.

01:28:08.000 So I wouldn't tell them to spend a lot. 0.95

01:28:11.000 You wouldn't tell...

01:28:12.000 I wouldn't tell my son to spend a lot.

01:28:14.000 Okay, okay, okay, okay.

01:28:14.000 Yeah.

01:28:15.000 Now that you put it that way like I... Max a hundred.

01:28:18.000 Interesting.

01:28:19.000 And here's the funny part.

01:28:20.000 You do realize that you dating girls was on easy mode, right?

01:28:22.000 Because a woman that is bisexual is almost always going to have a lower standard on women that she deals with versus men. 0.93

01:28:28.000 Yeah, especially because I'm the more dominant one.

01:28:30.000 I mean, you're bisexual. 0.82

01:28:31.000 You probably have higher standards for the men that you date versus the women that you would go and date. 1.00

01:28:36.000 Yes, she can be dumb, just pretty. 1.00

01:28:39.000 Yeah, see, versus like, man, there is a burden of performance. 0.99

01:28:41.000 Alright, alright, alright.

01:28:43.000 Okay, so for you, okay.

01:28:46.000 Alright, so you would still spend $300 even though...

01:28:49.000 Like, that's 7% of your income.

01:28:52.000 It's just all about, like, it's just the way I see it, it's all about, like, the connection and, like, the energy and what I think I'm gonna take it from there.

01:28:59.000 Like, how much I really like them.

01:29:02.000 Have you ever paid for a first aid before?

01:29:02.000 Like, it's just like...

01:29:04.000 Yes, of course.

01:29:05.000 For a guy?

01:29:06.000 Yes.

01:29:06.000 How was that?

01:29:08.000 It's just, like I was saying, it just all depends how much I really think I like him and how...

01:29:12.000 What happened with that relationship with that guy?

01:29:14.000 I didn't really like him.

01:29:17.000 Okay, what about you?

01:29:20.000 What would you tell your...

01:29:21.000 Well, actually, you are a matchmaker, right?

01:29:23.000 So what do you tell men that go on first dates with women knowing that a lot of women are predatory on first days trying to get experience? 0.58

01:29:29.000 Yeah, and I also have two younger brothers.

01:29:32.000 So if someone was 25, for your hypothetical example, making 50 grand a year, I would say either take her to the movies on half-off Tuesday, or, like one of my brothers, I said, take her to this aquarium.

01:29:43.000 You guys can walk around.

01:29:44.000 It's an experience.

01:29:45.000 That way it's a little more exciting.

01:29:46.000 But don't break the bank on a first date.

01:29:49.000 Also, go for girls who... 0.95

01:29:52.000 You know you're going to be able to impress.

01:29:54.000 Don't try to go above your pay grade and get with a girl like me, hypothetically, right?

01:29:59.000 Because you're just setting yourself up for disaster.

01:30:02.000 It's going to be a waste of money.

01:30:03.000 I think at that age, if you're trying to build and grind, have a good girl by your side who's going to support you through that.

01:30:08.000 And then once you get to that peak financial point in your career, if she's still by your side and you want to either upgrade or wife her, then you can make that decision with her or by yourself.

01:30:17.000 But first date, 50 grand a year, 25 years old, don't break the bank.

01:30:22.000 You know, it's interesting.

01:30:23.000 Most men, if they're with a girl and they grind and they become successful, they probably keep that girl by the side or marry her and then have another chick on the side.

01:30:30.000 But if a woman upgraded, she would never keep that guy by the side. 0.96

01:30:33.000 Potentially, but there are also a lot of guys who once they do hit that point, then they want the super hot girl.

01:30:38.000 If they're in a big city like Miami or LA. Yeah, they'll fuck her and make her the side chick. 1.00

01:30:41.000 They'll have that main girl that was there with them from the beginning. 1.00

01:30:43.000 What I've realized is that men tend to be loyal when they become successful and there was a girl stuck by them.

01:30:47.000 But if a girl makes more money and becomes successful, she's dropping that guy. 1.00

01:30:50.000 That's true.

01:30:51.000 That's true.

01:30:52.000 But not always either.

01:30:53.000 If they're high school sweethearts, sometimes they'll stick it out.

01:30:57.000 That's the one exception to the rule that I've seen.

01:30:58.000 Or if they're really religious.

01:31:01.000 Sometimes, but rarely.

01:31:03.000 What about you?

01:31:04.000 What would you tell?

01:31:05.000 So I am a mother, and I do have a child.

01:31:08.000 I have a daughter, but also as a stepmom to a son.

01:31:12.000 And what I would tell them, if he likes her and he really wants to go for it.

01:31:16.000 Wait, you're in a relationship?

01:31:17.000 No, I'm not.

01:31:19.000 I'm a single mother.

01:31:20.000 Yeah, but you said you're a stepmom, which means you have...

01:31:22.000 I had...

01:31:23.000 My baby daddy had a son, so I still had a relationship with him.

01:31:27.000 Okay, you said stepmom as if it's current, like it's still...

01:31:29.000 Well, I mean, you know, he grew up...

01:31:32.000 I was with my baby daddy for a long time, so I still have a...

01:31:36.000 I consider him, you know, like family.

01:31:39.000 But what I would tell him, if he likes her, really wants to go for her, no matter if he's working, making that much...

01:31:48.000 At least $100 to $200.

01:31:50.000 Okay, where should you take her then? 0.99

01:31:52.000 You should take her to a nice date, go to dinner, and then maybe a music show.

01:31:56.000 So despite being 25, still spend that money on a first day on a girl that might be just trying to get an experience?

01:32:02.000 Sure.

01:32:02.000 I think it's like $1,000 every two weeks.

01:32:07.000 It's roughly $4,166 a month.

01:32:11.000 $4,166.

01:32:13.000 $50,000 divided by 12.

01:32:15.000 Okay, what about you?

01:32:17.000 What would you tell your son knowing that women date predatory on first dates?

01:32:21.000 I think knowing that women that do that, I think it's definitely not smart to spend more money because then the woman is going to look at them differently and kind of more go towards being predative towards that person. 1.00

01:32:34.000 So I think like some of my favorite dates with like People that don't necessarily know if they want to spend that money yet is kind of just going to a cool lounge or a cool restaurant or something like that.

01:32:45.000 Just not fast food, right?

01:32:46.000 Like Evil Pie, for example.

01:32:48.000 It's a step up.

01:32:49.000 You know what I mean?

01:32:50.000 It's like a pizza place.

01:32:51.000 I'm saying fast food is like McDonald's, Burger King, Wednesdays.

01:32:54.000 They don't know what Evil Pie is.

01:32:56.000 It's a sit-in restaurant, but it's not fast food.

01:33:00.000 Somewhere like there where you can just get to know the person and it's And how much did they spend?

01:33:04.000 20 bucks, okay.

01:33:05.000 I would say maybe at the most like 50 if you don't really have the budget, you know, drinks, some pizza, cool.

01:33:10.000 What about you?

01:33:11.000 What would you tell your son knowing that women date this way? 1.00

01:33:13.000 Well, I personally think that women and men both are predatory whether you're going on a date.

01:33:19.000 If you're going on a date, you're both being predatory.

01:33:22.000 Okay, how's a man being predatory in your opinion?

01:33:23.000 Because he's either looking for sex or a relationship.

01:33:26.000 Okay.

01:33:26.000 Wait, that's predatory to give a girl a relationship, which is what she wants?

01:33:29.000 Yeah, but then they're both being predatory towards the same thing, which is great.

01:33:33.000 Interesting.

01:33:34.000 If you're both being predatory towards the same thing, it's great.

01:33:36.000 But that's why my advice to him would be, do you...

01:33:40.000 I'd say it's predatory because the man doesn't get anything back out of taking a girl on a nice date.

01:33:45.000 He might get a relationship. 1.00

01:33:47.000 He might get pussy. 1.00

01:33:48.000 Keep it a thousand with y'all. 1.00

01:33:49.000 Men really don't enjoy talking to you guys like that.

01:33:51.000 He's getting the time and energy.

01:33:53.000 No, but hold on.

01:33:54.000 Sex is reciprocal. 0.69

01:33:55.000 Both of you are getting something versus when he takes you on a nice date, he's not really getting anything.

01:33:59.000 Well, what about the people at the restaurant who see him with a pretty girl and maybe that's elevating his status?

01:34:05.000 Not necessarily.

01:34:05.000 Depends on who thinks you're pretty or not.

01:34:07.000 Everybody thinks you're pretty.

01:34:08.000 If he doesn't care, then why is he wasting his time?

01:34:10.000 Because he wants to get laid.

01:34:12.000 Sure, sure.

01:34:13.000 But also for her, she should have standards.

01:34:15.000 I mean, you should know this.

01:34:16.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

01:34:17.000 You're in the sex industry, correct? 0.95

01:34:18.000 I am.

01:34:19.000 And you know that men are the predominant consumers of pornography significantly, right?

01:34:22.000 Absolutely.

01:34:23.000 If women were the ones that consume porn, your industry would go down literally in 24 hours. 1.00

01:34:27.000 So what I'm trying to say is that since men want...

01:34:29.000 Women do consume porn. 1.00

01:34:31.000 Hold on, hold on. 0.98

01:34:31.000 Yeah, but what I said... 0.98

01:34:32.000 You didn't hear what I said.

01:34:33.000 If women were the predominant consumers of porn, your industry would crash literally within hours. 1.00

01:34:38.000 Sure, but that's not what's going on.

01:34:40.000 What?

01:34:41.000 Why is there only fans and not only mans?

01:34:44.000 I understand what you're saying. 0.99

01:34:46.000 I said that to illustrate how important sex is for men, where they will sit there on a date with a girl they don't like, endure stupid conversation with her, and talk to her for the potential of getting sex immediately. 0.98

01:35:00.000 To include spending money and spending time in something that isn't guaranteed. 0.99

01:35:04.000 If that doesn't prove that men want sex to a higher degree, I don't know what else does.

01:35:09.000 But that was the point.

01:35:11.000 If a woman... 1.00

01:35:12.000 He's looking for something, which is probably sex, and if he's going on a first date and he's not looking to actually be in a relationship with her, all he wants is sex, then he has to pay for that.

01:35:23.000 But the woman has the leverage and she's the one that's taking his time and money, so she's in a predatory situation.

01:35:27.000 Then pay for it.

01:35:29.000 Then pay for it.

01:35:30.000 Pay for what?

01:35:31.000 The date, the leverage, or whatever it is.

01:35:34.000 Are you listening to anything I'm saying?

01:35:35.000 No.

01:35:35.000 Not necessarily, really.

01:35:38.000 If we're going to have a conversation, you're going to try to rebut my points.

01:35:42.000 You need to listen to what I'm saying so you can actually respond properly.

01:35:46.000 It doesn't matter what you're saying unless you're listening to what I'm saying so you can respond properly.

01:35:51.000 I was listening to what you were saying.

01:35:53.000 What did I say then?

01:35:53.000 I'm telling you that if a woman goes on a date, she's looking for a...

01:35:59.000 No, excuse me.

01:36:00.000 What did I say?

01:36:01.000 I don't know.

01:36:02.000 I'm forgetful.

01:36:04.000 It's a literal problem.

01:36:06.000 If you're forgetful, that's your problem, not mine necessarily.

01:36:10.000 If you can't engage in a conversation properly, then maybe I should just move on to someone that can engage in a conversation properly.

01:36:16.000 Can I respond to your point?

01:36:17.000 Can I say something really quick?

01:36:19.000 Please pay attention, because if you're going to hurt the quiet of the show like that...

01:36:21.000 I wasn't trying to.

01:36:23.000 Well, you are.

01:36:23.000 I was trying to answer, and then you went and spoke to somebody else, so I lost train of thought.

01:36:27.000 Well, yeah, she was trying to come in and defend you, and she didn't do too much. 0.92

01:36:29.000 So my thing is, if you're going to come in and you're going to be engaged in a conversation, like, this isn't a, oh, let me just listen to myself talk.

01:36:35.000 I apologize.

01:36:35.000 Like, listen to what I'm saying so that you can respond properly.

01:36:37.000 Stop interrupting me when I'm speaking, please.

01:36:39.000 Well, I apologize.

01:36:40.000 Okay.

01:36:40.000 Well, stop talking now.

01:36:42.000 Can I respond to your point?

01:36:43.000 About what?

01:36:44.000 About how women are, like, punishing men by using them on first dates, and then they're not getting anything out of it. 1.00

01:36:51.000 Yeah, a lot of times, yeah.

01:36:52.000 Well, once a woman sleeps with a man, he has the power. 1.00

01:36:55.000 Yes.

01:36:56.000 So if you look at it through that lens and that dynamic, women need to hold on to the power that they do have in those early stages. 1.00

01:37:03.000 And they need to be scrutinizing.

01:37:05.000 Because if they go on a first date and they're like looking at it through a man's lens of, oh, well, he just spent a hundred bucks and I'm going to, you know, I feel bad, so I'm going to sleep with him.

01:37:14.000 She loses.

01:37:15.000 I understand that.

01:37:16.000 So that's what I would say to your point.

01:37:18.000 So modern dating is basically a situation of a hostage negotiation.

01:37:21.000 But you're missing the whole point that overwhelmingly men are the ones that put their nuts on the line, their time on the line, their money on the line, their energy, their resource on the line to deal with women that don't necessarily like them and or even care to want to get to know them, whatever.

01:37:35.000 What I'm trying to say is guys will do all that in the pursuit of sex and hang out with a girl that they don't even like.

01:37:40.000 So here's what I think women need to do a better job at, because I know quite a few women who are dinner daters, and they will go on multiple dates with a guy. 1.00

01:37:47.000 It's never going to change.

01:37:48.000 But, well, what I think they should do, which I do, is if you know off the bat that you're not into someone, don't go on a second or third date.

01:37:54.000 Now, also, though, with men, if you feel like this is the best girl you could possibly get with, and you want to impress her because you think that that will elevate your status, you like her femininity, then I think testing her and cheaping out on a date might be shooting yourself in the foot.

01:38:10.000 Because if you see her value, you're going to want to spend money on her.

01:38:13.000 Wouldn't it be better for him to level up his game so she's not the best?

01:38:17.000 No, no, no.

01:38:17.000 Hold on, hold on.

01:38:18.000 Most women don't have as much value as you're trying to purport, to be honest with you. 1.00

01:38:21.000 The reality is men bring value to relationships, not women.

01:38:23.000 Women are a diamond dozen. 1.00

01:38:25.000 Most of them are attractive to a degree, and most of them are fairly similar.

01:38:28.000 The problem is that a lot of girls think that they're special, and they think, I'm a diamond dozen, I'm so special, blah, blah, blah. 0.99

01:38:31.000 The reality is you guys are not as special as you think you guys are. 0.95

01:38:34.000 The things that you bring to the table that you think make you special, like status in a career no one gives a fuck about. 0.96

01:38:38.000 And the things that men actually look for in women are scarce. 0.99

01:38:40.000 Not being a whore, not being annoying, not being loud and obnoxious, not being all over the internet showing your body off, etc. 0.96

01:38:46.000 This is what's actually rare, but women go ahead and cover things that men don't really value that much and they think that's what makes them special. 1.00

01:38:51.000 And it doesn't.

01:38:52.000 So can I say something?

01:38:53.000 It sounds like when she was saying what she was saying, you were like, never going to happen, not going to happen.

01:38:57.000 Yeah.

01:38:57.000 Because women have the leverage and they're not going to concede it.

01:39:00.000 Right, right.

01:39:00.000 But it sounds like you're trying to save men from nature.

01:39:04.000 Predatory behavior is not gender specific.

01:39:06.000 He wants something.

01:39:07.000 That's his nature. 1.00

01:39:08.000 It is a high level of I want vagina. 1.00

01:39:11.000 With her, it's a high level of I want protector, provider. 0.99

01:39:14.000 That is the nature.

01:39:15.000 And life isn't fair.

01:39:17.000 We've all seen, we all watch Discovery Channel.

01:39:19.000 There's that bird that spins for three hours trying to get the attention.

01:39:22.000 Of that ladybird.

01:39:23.000 And the ladybird says, uh, maybe, yeah, no.

01:39:26.000 But it seems like humans are the only ones that don't understand.

01:39:29.000 Sometimes you win.

01:39:30.000 Sometimes you lose.

01:39:32.000 Keep it pushing.

01:39:33.000 But instead, you want to change the nature of the thing.

01:39:35.000 Women will never change. 1.00

01:39:36.000 Men will never change.

01:39:37.000 It is not gender specific.

01:39:39.000 The bird knows it and he spins for three hours.

01:39:41.000 And sometimes he doesn't get laid.

01:39:42.000 But he spins again.

01:39:43.000 The problem is that he's spinning for a female who isn't going to be useless to what she's supposed to do. 0.99

01:39:50.000 Women, right? 1.00

01:39:51.000 Human women, a lot of times, don't necessarily deserve the type of man that they think that they deserve and they don't bring to the table the thing that men used to be able to get for all these things that you guys cherish and want in men. 0.74

01:40:02.000 We used to be able to get a dutiful, submissive, good girl that wasn't a whore that we could be rest assured that more than likely she had less than three body count by the time we married her or a virgin. 1.00

01:40:12.000 Yes, you're saying that since the beginning of time, that's how it's been and everything else like that, but it's not a fair deal for men anymore.

01:40:17.000 Here's the thing.

01:40:18.000 Women have a worse product. 1.00

01:40:20.000 They're more worse. 1.00

01:40:21.000 They're fatter. 1.00

01:40:22.000 They're uglier. 0.99

01:40:22.000 They're ruder, etc. 0.99

01:40:23.000 And they're still demanding the top tier guys.

01:40:26.000 So what I'm saying is like, yo, this is a losing war for you.

01:40:28.000 You need to go ahead and come in and date more defensively and understand that women have changed and they're not necessarily going to give you what you think you want or deserve. 1.00

01:40:36.000 So I'm telling guys what it really is.

01:40:37.000 Isn't it a losing war?

01:40:38.000 Well, I want to comment on the submissiveness.

01:40:40.000 And the last thing I'll say real quick, and I'll turn it to you, is... 0.99

01:40:44.000 Fuck, I lost my train of thought. 0.99

01:40:46.000 Go ahead with the submissiveness. 1.00

01:40:47.000 Okay, so women have been submissive, and they'll care. 1.00

01:40:52.000 Wait, what did you say?

01:40:52.000 Excuse me?

01:40:53.000 Didn't you tell me to keep up when I lost my train of thought?

01:40:55.000 I'm saying a million things right now.

01:40:56.000 Running a show, answering questions, dealing with 11 girls plus. 0.99

01:41:00.000 Just get the fuck out of here, dude. 1.00

01:41:01.000 Just get out. 0.99

01:41:01.000 Just leave. 0.99

01:41:02.000 Can I say something?

01:41:04.000 We're not going to lower the IQ of the podcast for you.

01:41:06.000 What are you saying?

01:41:08.000 So, on submissiveness...

01:41:09.000 Just leave. 0.99

01:41:10.000 I don't know what the fuck you think this is. 1.00

01:41:13.000 Women have catered to men. 0.99

01:41:15.000 Women have catered to men and sometimes the women don't get treated the same for even doing all these things. 1.00

01:41:23.000 So why should women just effortlessly give it to this man who supposedly has value and brings something to the table? 0.96

01:41:32.000 Sure, you want to comment on that?

01:41:33.000 Well, I was gonna say, everybody, like, I've heard this thing, women have catered to men for years and years, but listen, okay, when women... 0.94

01:41:42.000 But those men were also responsible for everything she did.

01:41:44.000 Why, when a woman misbehaved or created, like, a family feud or something at 1800s, why did the men have to go fight a duel? 0.61

01:41:51.000 They were the ones who shed blood for her actions.

01:41:54.000 Like, the men were responsible.

01:41:57.000 I mean, yeah, the women catered to the men, but also the men were held responsible for what they did. 0.98

01:42:04.000 And...

01:42:06.000 That's the old school prize.

01:42:08.000 I know what I'm trying to say, but I'm just saying, with the rise of femininity and where it's gone, though, with feminism and stuff, I feel like it's important for people like Myron, who gives a voice to men that are in a hopeless situation.

01:42:21.000 Like, where feminism is going, it leaves men in a hopeless world. 0.60

01:42:25.000 But what about women who get trauma?

01:42:27.000 They have trauma.

01:42:29.000 There's domestic violence.

01:42:30.000 There's abuse.

01:42:32.000 We get that, but we've overcorrected for feminism now where women have all the leverage. 1.00

01:42:36.000 There's nothing wrong with that.

01:42:37.000 It's almost about revenge now.

01:42:39.000 In dating, women have all the leverage. 1.00

01:42:40.000 And that's what I was trying to say.

01:42:42.000 The guy will go out on a date with the girl.

01:42:43.000 He's still expected to adhere to his masculine duty of paying for the date, leading the date, planning the date, all this other stuff, right?

01:42:48.000 But the woman isn't necessarily adhering to her feminine duties and responsibilities. 1.00

01:42:52.000 He can rest assured that he's going to get a girl that's probably masculine to a degree. 0.99

01:42:55.000 They didn't even know Yeah, a lot of girls don't even know what they're supposed to do and how they're supposed to behave. 1.00

01:42:59.000 He's going to go ahead and fight tooth and nail and be chivalrous to a woman that isn't necessarily a lady back. 0.98

01:43:05.000 She's going to have bodies on her. 1.00

01:43:07.000 She's going to be involved in maybe a profession or a career. 0.99

01:43:10.000 She's going to be masculinized. 1.00

01:43:11.000 She's going to have maybe a child, etc.

01:43:13.000 These are all things that guys didn't have to deal with 50, 60, 70 years ago.

01:43:16.000 I think the problem is most women expect the same treatment of a traditional treatment. 0.99

01:43:21.000 But they don't want to be traditional themselves, and I've seen it a lot. 0.99

01:43:25.000 Like, I mean, maybe it's the social media, like, saturating my brain with it, but you see it all over, where it's like, a woman's like, I'm a bad bitch, I'm independent, like, he better give me this, he better give me that, but I don't know how to cook, I don't know how to clean, you know, I really actually don't want to have sex with you unless the dick is going to be to my satisfaction, 0.99

01:43:40.000 but I do deserve this, I do deserve that, I deserve this, I deserve this. 0.99

01:43:44.000 You guys had a video when I was on there at one point, Fresh, when it was...

01:43:48.000 I forget which one it was.

01:43:49.000 It was an Instagram reel, I think is what it was.

01:43:53.000 And it was this exchange between this woman and this man.

01:43:55.000 And the man was talking to the woman.

01:43:56.000 He was saying, well, I'm not going to be the feminine, submissive, traditional 20th century ideal woman for you until you measure up to my expectations.

01:44:08.000 And then I'll do that.

01:44:09.000 I forget which one that was.

01:44:11.000 But the guy was like, so I have to be...

01:44:13.000 Husband material first for you to even want to be wife material for me. 1.00

01:44:19.000 For you to think about if you're going to.

01:44:21.000 If you can find that video for me, I would love to analyze this.

01:44:24.000 I don't feel like all women have to be the traditional women.

01:44:26.000 You can be a career.

01:44:27.000 Here's the thing.

01:44:28.000 What you were describing is old school patriarchy.

01:44:32.000 Patriarchy is not a bad thing. 0.98

01:44:35.000 There's a side to it that's not talked about a lot.

01:44:39.000 There's a difference between Androcentrism and patriarchy.

01:44:43.000 Patriarchy is a much more balanced system than anybody wants to give it credit for because in an ideal state, patriarchy implied masculine responsibility. 0.51

01:44:52.000 A man is responsible for his kids and for his family and for his wife and for the home and to keep the lights on and everything else and to bust his ass and to sacrifice himself as your masculine duty is to sacrifice things and make sacrifice for that family.

01:45:08.000 But there also came a commensurate authority that was along with that.

01:45:12.000 So if he said, this is where we're going, this is where the job is, this is where the kids are going to go to school, this is what we're going to do, that masculine authority was implied because he had that responsibility.

01:45:23.000 Today, guys are confused because they have, we say, well, we can save the West and we can make men better men now if we just took more responsibility and guys just man up and took more responsibility.

01:45:32.000 But the problem is, is they don't have the authority to affect All of the things that that responsibility requires of them right now.

01:45:40.000 So women are like, and women on the other side of this say, well, I'm not going to be that submissive, wonderful woman that you want me to be until you're that guy who takes that responsibility.

01:45:49.000 I guess that's what I'm trying to say.

01:45:50.000 And you have no authority in the first place to be that guy.

01:45:52.000 There just can't be equal rights without equal responsibility.

01:45:55.000 Equal responsibility.

01:45:57.000 And I guess what I was trying to say is, yeah, women were... 1.00

01:46:00.000 There's no equality. 0.97

01:46:01.000 But yeah, men and women are not...

01:46:02.000 There's no equality. 0.97

01:46:03.000 They have different roles.

01:46:05.000 And that's the way women want it, is they don't want equality. 1.00

01:46:07.000 You were trying to say something before, right?

01:46:08.000 I was.

01:46:09.000 I just wanted to say that I think that we are fighting nature.

01:46:12.000 I don't think anybody's traditional anymore.

01:46:14.000 I think that men are having a very difficult time with the quote-unquote modern woman. 1.00

01:46:19.000 Life is not fair.

01:46:20.000 You have to work harder for something you're not qualified for.

01:46:23.000 Men and women have to do that. 1.00

01:46:25.000 There are women that are not as attractive, and a man will make her jump through hoops or only want her for sex. 1.00

01:46:30.000 Be that bird that keeps spinning. 0.98

01:46:32.000 I am out.

01:46:32.000 Thank you so much.

01:46:33.000 On the block with Jen all week I disagree with you on that, and the reason why I disagree with you on that is that average women have more access to higher status men than they've ever had before, whereas men, on the other hand, are struggling to get average women. 0.91

01:46:44.000 The average guy cannot attract the average woman right now, and the average woman, quite frankly, is useless and delusional and doesn't offer much value to men. 1.00

01:46:51.000 Because here's the problem. 0.95

01:46:52.000 We're still expected to play by rules from 1953 while women are playing by rules in 2023. 1.00

01:46:56.000 Guys are expected to be traditional, masculine, strong, do all these things for them, but what are they fighting for?

01:47:01.000 They're fighting for a woman that isn't coming to them pure like it would have been seven years ago.

01:47:05.000 So my thing is men have to play by a certain set of rules that women want, but the women aren't bringing something back of reciprocal value. 0.95

01:47:13.000 Well, we'll agree to disagree.

01:47:15.000 Thank you guys.

01:47:16.000 Good night.

01:47:16.000 Nice meeting you.

01:47:17.000 Good night.

01:47:17.000 I mean, that's an absolute fact that...

01:47:19.000 Okay, I mean, if you gotta go, you gotta go.

01:47:21.000 I feel like...

01:47:22.000 We can agree to disagree.

01:47:23.000 Thank you guys.

01:47:24.000 Have a good night.

01:47:25.000 Good night.

01:47:26.000 Bye.

01:47:26.000 I feel like there are wholesome, good girls...

01:47:29.000 Can you come sit over here? 0.98

01:47:30.000 There are wholesome good girls, but men, and I'm not denying what you said, but I have observed that a lot of men will pick the insta-thought, the girl who's showing off her small waist and her fat ass, and who's posting bikini photos, 0.88

01:47:45.000 over the good girl who's not bearing at all, and maybe is wifey material, because there's so much of that out there, too. 0.71

01:47:52.000 I hear what you're saying, but I also think a lot of men, that's why we have a lot of men who have Peter Pan syndrome right now, too.

01:47:58.000 And they don't want to commit to a great girl who is wifey material because they are so caught up in the instant gratification.

01:48:04.000 Explain Peter Pan syndrome to me real fast.

01:48:06.000 I know what you mean, but I want you to, like...

01:48:09.000 Well, Peter Pan implying men who don't want to grow up.

01:48:12.000 How old are they?

01:48:13.000 I would say I've seen this in mid-40s.

01:48:17.000 Mid-40s.

01:48:17.000 I've seen mid-40s to 50s.

01:48:19.000 Okay.

01:48:20.000 Do you think it's really Peter Pan or is it intelligent?

01:48:34.000 Michael, are you in Wonderland?

01:48:45.000 Well, I think you're talking about a certain group of women, and I think even though that might represent perhaps the majority, there is a minority of women who are going to be, to your point, more in their feminine energy, more submissive, more naturally whitey material. 0.82

01:48:58.000 Is it worth the risk?

01:48:58.000 Are you going to risk your money for that minority then?

01:49:01.000 And everything you worked for?

01:49:03.000 I think if you have already exercised a lot of your options and you find someone who checks enough of your boxes and you want to start a family with them, Then it might be worth it.

01:49:14.000 Name one benefit that a man gets from marriage that he wouldn't get in a regular relationship.

01:49:18.000 Just one.

01:49:19.000 Well, you, I think, as a woman...

01:49:21.000 I'm asking you as a man, since you're attacking men for being Peter Pan.

01:49:25.000 I think a lot of men...

01:49:28.000 Who choose to get married are incentivized by the fact that they are able to claim that woman is theirs.

01:49:33.000 But name one benefit that they would get in a marriage that they wouldn't get in a regular relationship.

01:49:37.000 Well, I think even though it's not a hundred percent, there's peace of mind that that woman is not.

01:49:41.000 The answer is there's none.

01:49:42.000 You're dancing around it.

01:49:43.000 There is none.

01:49:43.000 So my thing is this.

01:49:44.000 I think it's in a man's best interest.

01:49:55.000 I think it's also setting a good example to children that you have a family nucleus.

01:50:12.000 And I think there's something to be said about that.

01:50:14.000 Well, you can do that without the state getting involved in getting married. 0.99

01:50:17.000 You know what?

01:50:17.000 I think it shows your children that there is a higher level of commitment between the mother and the father when there's the marriage as the union.

01:50:26.000 Get married privately without the state involved.

01:50:29.000 Well, you need to stay involved then.

01:50:31.000 I agree with that.

01:50:31.000 I'm not saying that, you know, there's obviously more incentive for women to get married than men.

01:50:35.000 Obviously.

01:50:36.000 Way more.

01:50:36.000 But what I'm suggesting is there's also benefits to men getting married.

01:50:40.000 Name one.

01:50:41.000 I just told you.

01:50:42.000 That he wouldn't get outside of a regular relationship.

01:50:44.000 I just told you.

01:50:46.000 Knowing that your woman is perhaps going to be more loyal to you when she's your wife versus your girlfriend. 0.63

01:50:51.000 She should be displaying that anyway. 0.99

01:50:55.000 So a title changes her loyalty to you?

01:50:57.000 He shouldn't marry her if that's in question.

01:50:59.000 To be honest, if a man is dating a woman for 10 years and she is giving him an ultimatum, I'm either going to get the ring or I'm going to walk, I think if he sees her value, he'll put a ring on it.

01:51:15.000 I think that's the worst thing you could do because now she controls the frame because she just literally bullied you to do something that you don't want to do. 1.00

01:51:20.000 She spent 10 years of her life with a man who didn't see her as wifey material.

01:51:23.000 He did.

01:51:24.000 My thing is, marriage, I get it, is a benefit for the woman, but ultimately for the guy, what's the benefit for him?

01:51:31.000 And once again, if you're with somebody long term, you're with them regardless.

01:51:34.000 Why do I need to put a title on it to make it serious?

01:51:36.000 Well, perhaps, maybe there are people who are religious too, who marriage represents something between them and God.

01:51:41.000 Perfect.

01:51:42.000 Let's get married in a church.

01:51:43.000 No government involved, just a church.

01:51:46.000 Yeah, I mean, but that's still marriage.

01:51:47.000 Here's the thing.

01:51:48.000 It's interesting.

01:51:49.000 You have a matchmaking business.

01:51:50.000 You're in TV and everything.

01:51:51.000 You're probably a high-end worth individual, right?

01:51:54.000 Yeah.

01:51:55.000 Okay.

01:51:55.000 Would you get with a guy, right, and let's say you get with him and everything else like that when there's a high likelihood that he's going to divorce you and take half your assets and the kids?

01:52:04.000 Would you put everything you work for on the line like that, realistically speaking?

01:52:07.000 If he was earning less than me?

01:52:09.000 Let's say you guys are making equal, just to make it, just so that your sexual attraction is there.

01:52:12.000 I believe in a prenup.

01:52:13.000 I believe in a prenup.

01:52:14.000 I do too as well.

01:52:15.000 And I, by the way, let me tell you something else.

01:52:17.000 It's amazing how when her money's on the line, there's prenuptial agreements. 0.96

01:52:19.000 No, no, no, no.

01:52:19.000 I'll say this too.

01:52:20.000 If a man made money and I was not bringing as much to the table, I would gladly sign a prenup because I would want him to believe that I was there for the right reasons and I would hopefully be there for the right reasons.

01:52:30.000 That's funny.

01:52:31.000 That's exactly what James Sexton was saying. 0.99

01:52:33.000 Because women are making more money these days, you're going to see more prenups that are initiated by women because guys are broke ass. 1.00

01:52:41.000 And the guys will agree to it because they want the pussy. 1.00

01:52:45.000 Only fans prenups. 1.00

01:52:46.000 My thing is, because women love to say guys are going through a midlife crisis, guys are Peter Pans, they don't want to grow up, blah, blah, blah. 0.99

01:52:53.000 But my thing is, You guys live life on easy mode.

01:52:56.000 You get all your value at 18 years old.

01:52:57.000 Your life is great.

01:52:58.000 You're on yachts.

01:52:59.000 Millionaires are talking to you.

01:53:00.000 You're getting DM'd on Instagram.

01:53:01.000 On dating apps, you can swipe right and everyone's going to match with you.

01:53:04.000 Women live life on easy mode when they're in their 20s and even into their 30s. 1.00

01:53:08.000 So a man doesn't really gain his value into his 30s and 40s.

01:53:10.000 And then I find it funny.

01:53:11.000 Women say he's going through a midlife crisis.

01:53:13.000 No, I call it an awakening that most girls, quite frankly, don't deserve a relationship long term. 0.96

01:53:17.000 And that's just the God honest truth.

01:53:19.000 I totally understand that if a man has spent his entire life working and grinding and struggling and then he reaches 35 or 40 and he's finally peaking, I get it.

01:53:29.000 Have your fun.

01:53:30.000 But what I'm saying is by 50, if you're still like Leonardo DiCaprio syndrome, I don't see that as attractive in a man, personally.

01:53:37.000 Why didn't you get married at 18?

01:53:40.000 I think I wanted to feel like I was a full, well-rounded individual before I made a commitment to someone.

01:53:47.000 But that was your peak in all argumentative stance here?

01:53:49.000 I don't think so.

01:53:50.000 I think I'm kind of at my peak right now.

01:53:52.000 At 28?

01:53:52.000 You're on your decline, respectfully speaking.

01:53:55.000 Well, I think aesthetically I look better now than I did when I was 18.

01:54:00.000 I was a little chubbier when I was 18.

01:54:02.000 Okay.

01:54:03.000 Well, women's peak year is between 18 to 23. 0.98

01:54:06.000 I would agree with that.

01:54:07.000 Like, that's just what it is biologically.

01:54:09.000 You know, I know you say, I feel like I look more attractive, but what you feel and what's real are two different things.

01:54:14.000 You're going to have the most sexual market pull as a female between 18 to 23. 1.00

01:54:18.000 It's funny that you weren't married or really pushing for a guy at that time.

01:54:21.000 You focused on your career, making money, which is where you're at now.

01:54:24.000 But I find it interesting how when you were at your peak, it was okay for you to focus on yourself.

01:54:28.000 But when a man's at his peak, he should settle down and should find a woman at 50. 0.78

01:54:32.000 I'm not saying that that's what he should do.

01:54:34.000 I'm not here to tell people how to live their life.

01:54:37.000 Well, I think that would be, in my opinion, the right thing to do, but I'm not going to tell people how to live their life.

01:54:42.000 You're saying you would not find that attractive if a man was in his 50s.

01:54:45.000 Yeah, I'd see that as a red flag.

01:54:47.000 Okay.

01:54:48.000 I'm getting attacked.

01:54:49.000 I see that as a red flag when a woman's 28. 1.00

01:54:50.000 I'm just getting attacked everywhere.

01:54:52.000 That's fine, and you're allowed to.

01:54:53.000 But you can date the 18-year-olds just like I can date people, or 23-year-olds, just like I can date people who I find are more age-appropriate and looking for something significant.

01:55:03.000 I don't think...

01:55:04.000 Here's another point.

01:55:05.000 If a man is 45 and still a bachelor, does he want to be 55 and just starting to change diapers?

01:55:14.000 Well, at that point, that's when he has money.

01:55:16.000 He gets a younger wife. 0.90

01:55:17.000 The funny thing is, we have a guy right here in that same demographic.

01:55:22.000 Can I just say something?

01:55:23.000 I'm being completely serious here.

01:55:25.000 I'm 46 years old, and I can still beat most guys off the dribble.

01:55:29.000 I do think that with modern medicine and with hormone replacement, you can be 55, 60.

01:55:34.000 Hormone optimization.

01:55:35.000 Yeah, exactly.

01:55:37.000 I really don't think it's that big of a deal.

01:55:38.000 I know.

01:55:44.000 Shout out to Colonel Spencer. 1.00

01:55:46.000 We had this one colonel in my unit, and he had his first kid at 59, and he was happier than a motherfucker. 0.99

01:55:51.000 Had three houses paid off, had plenty of net worth, and had his beautiful 32-year-old wife, and he was happy as shit. 0.99

01:55:57.000 I'm not saying it's ideal. 0.97

01:55:58.000 I understand.

01:55:59.000 At some point, I'd probably be better if I did it when I was younger, but I just think things have changed for men from a health standpoint where I do think there are things you can do now to Especially for men to elongate that.

01:56:11.000 I was saying, you know, on the comment of women from 18 to 23, they don't have a lot of life experience. 1.00

01:56:20.000 So I don't really see that a woman at 28 is going to decline.

01:56:23.000 I don't really know why men care about the life experience.

01:56:26.000 Life experience is important.

01:56:27.000 How is she going to handle challenges?

01:56:31.000 The reason why women get very upset when they see a 45-year-old guy with a 21-year-old girlfriend is because it is a... 0.75

01:56:40.000 That's true, but I think that one of the reasons why whenever Leonardo DiCaprio cycles out a new girlfriend, and we know how he does that...

01:56:49.000 Women get very upset about that because it reminds them that the man can live a different way than that woman can. 1.00

01:56:55.000 So a woman who is 50 some odd years old is in menopause and is not going to be able to live the same way that a man does. 0.57

01:57:03.000 The problem is that we've conditioned the last four generations of women to believe that they can do anything a man can. 1.00

01:57:11.000 And so we've masculinized women and we've feminized men during this entire process.

01:57:16.000 So women still think in this terms of this blank slate equalism that, well, I can do anything a guy does. 1.00

01:57:21.000 And then they realize that they can't actually do that because that guy who is a high value guy at 45, 55, 64, whatever it is, and he's dating much younger women, on average, statistically speaking, that's a Very rare anomaly for women to be able to do something like that.

01:57:36.000 And that's only if she maintains really, you know, she looks good at like, say, 50 years old.

01:57:41.000 Maybe.

01:57:41.000 But even then, she still has to fight with the stigma of dating a younger guy.

01:57:47.000 Absolutely.

01:57:47.000 So I'm actually going to agree with you on this, Rolo.

01:57:50.000 Women are just given access to things sooner in life, and men are given them later in life. 0.97

01:57:55.000 Slow earn.

01:57:56.000 Yeah, slow earners.

01:57:58.000 Only if they do the work.

01:57:59.000 Yeah.

01:57:59.000 Exactly.

01:58:00.000 They have to earn it.

01:58:02.000 But once they earn that access to certain status or things in life, trust, whatever it is, ability to reach money, things like that, they maintain that access so much longer.

01:58:15.000 Women are on a gradual or fast decline with their value and men have to create it. 1.00

01:58:21.000 Men must become, women just are. 1.00

01:58:23.000 Men, okay, kings can make any woman a queen. 1.00

01:58:27.000 A queen cannot make any woman a king. 1.00

01:58:30.000 I think I'm the guy who said that.

01:58:32.000 Is there any truth?

01:58:32.000 Right?

01:58:34.000 A queen can make a man a queen consort. 1.00

01:58:36.000 You mentioned earlier that men want, you know, a 23-year-old doesn't have experience, etc.

01:58:41.000 So I'm going to ask you a few questions here.

01:58:43.000 Do you want a man with ambition?

01:58:45.000 Of course.

01:58:46.000 Do you want a man with strength?

01:58:48.000 Do you want a man with some facial hair? 0.92

01:58:48.000 Of course. 0.92

01:58:51.000 No.

01:58:52.000 Not really, yeah.

01:58:52.000 Now you don't care about for sure?

01:58:53.000 Okay.

01:58:54.000 Do you want a man with confidence?

01:58:55.000 Yes.

01:58:56.000 Masculinity?

01:58:57.000 Yes.

01:58:58.000 Height?

01:59:00.000 Taller than you, preferably.

01:59:01.000 Yeah, it's taller than me, yes.

01:59:03.000 Okay, and do you want a man with experience, competence?

01:59:07.000 Sure.

01:59:07.000 Yeah.

01:59:08.000 What if I told you that men don't give a shit about any of these things you just mentioned? 0.99

01:59:11.000 I'm sure they don't. 0.98

01:59:12.000 So that includes experience, which is what you tried to argue.

01:59:15.000 Okay.

01:59:17.000 I'm just saying that.

01:59:19.000 Yes, I get what you're saying, but it's like a woman at 1823, how are you going to have a conversation with her if you're older than her?

01:59:29.000 Men in general want a girl that they can... 0.99

01:59:33.000 That they can mold.

01:59:33.000 Mold.

01:59:34.000 Because the thing is that if you don't mold her, either more than likely the man before you molded her and you don't want that.

01:59:42.000 Or social media molded her, etc.

01:59:42.000 Social media.

01:59:45.000 Luckily, if you're lucky, you get a girl that was molded by her father. 1.00

01:59:48.000 Her father wasn't a piece of shit. 1.00

01:59:49.000 He was a winner. 1.00

01:59:50.000 He was a masculine guy.

01:59:51.000 And he taught her what it's like to be a lady and then you take her from him. 0.91

01:59:54.000 But the reality is you're not going to get that.

01:59:56.000 She's going to be molded by someone else and you've got to pray to God that she isn't molded by him too much.

01:59:59.000 But the point I'm trying to make is this.

02:00:01.000 Men don't value experience. 0.73

02:00:03.000 But women tend to think that men and women are the same.

02:00:03.000 Women do.

02:00:06.000 And we want a girl that's experienced. 0.96

02:00:07.000 No, we want a girl that's experienced only for sex. 1.00

02:00:10.000 No offense to your career. 0.99

02:00:11.000 Sure.

02:00:12.000 But when it comes to a relationship, a girl that we're going to take seriously, we don't want her to have any experience. 1.00

02:00:18.000 I've met a lot of men who are older right now.

02:00:21.000 I speak to them.

02:00:22.000 They're 40, 50.

02:00:24.000 And them talking to younger women is really difficult.

02:00:27.000 Where do you speak to them?

02:00:29.000 Strip club.

02:00:31.000 Or it may not be in the strip club.

02:00:33.000 It may even be out with friends.

02:00:36.000 You gotta understand that who you are and the context under which you speak to the men matters a lot. 0.96

02:00:41.000 They know that you're a porn star. 0.99

02:00:42.000 They know that you're a sex worker. 1.00

02:00:43.000 So they're gonna tell you what you want to hear. 0.83

02:00:44.000 Ladies, I'm gonna give you the biggest thing.

02:00:46.000 Yes, I don't care what you say.

02:00:47.000 That's the reality.

02:00:48.000 No.

02:00:49.000 This is what it is, women. 1.00

02:00:51.000 Men are going to say and do anything to get sex. 1.00

02:00:55.000 That includes to appease to your ego and your ego investment.

02:00:57.000 So if you're highly educated, you got a master degree or whatever, for example, you went to Columbia, oh, I have a friend that went to an IV too.

02:01:04.000 Oh, maybe I've been to Harvard before, blah, blah, blah. 0.90

02:01:06.000 They're going to figure out what you do or what your background is, and they're going to go ahead and try to fucking chameleon way they're in there. 0.99

02:01:12.000 Because as you guys can tell, it's very difficult for men to get sex. 0.98

02:01:15.000 That's why your industry is popping right now.

02:01:16.000 That's why some girls here can have an OnlyFans and make a bunch of money doing it. 1.00

02:01:19.000 Because men are struggling to get sex, so they're going to say and do anything they can to do so. 0.77

02:01:23.000 So that includes to appease your ego.

02:01:25.000 Now, generally, from a relationship standpoint, most guys will not take you seriously.

02:01:28.000 No offense. 1.00

02:01:29.000 But to get sex, they're going to say dumb shit like, I want a girl with experience, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

02:01:33.000 And of course they're going to say that at a strip club. 1.00

02:01:35.000 Come on, man.

02:01:36.000 Yeah, so I have a friend.

02:01:38.000 I was at a party.

02:01:39.000 And I heard him ask a girl what her Zodiac was.

02:01:42.000 And I about spit out my drink. 1.00

02:01:44.000 Because he thinks that it's bullshit. 1.00

02:01:47.000 Go get it. 1.00

02:01:48.000 I know how he is.

02:01:49.000 He's always talking like that.

02:01:50.000 I can't imagine anyone doing that. 1.00

02:01:52.000 I cannot imagine anyone realizing it's bullshit. 0.99

02:01:54.000 I was like, he's not. 0.99

02:01:55.000 It is so hard for the average guy. 0.94

02:01:58.000 It is so hard for the average guy to get girls that men have to employ ridiculous, ludicrous concepts and strategies to attract women. 0.95

02:02:07.000 I mean, think about it.

02:02:08.000 You guys all said, oh yeah, if I don't like the guy, he's got to do X, Y, Z, he's got to jump through hoops, blah, blah, blah.

02:02:14.000 Like, clearly there's guys that are jumping through hoops.

02:02:17.000 If you guys are able to do that.

02:02:18.000 Just take the L and walk away.

02:02:20.000 Just take the no.

02:02:21.000 Just take the L. Or let us have the W and spend the money. 0.89

02:02:25.000 I think it's natural for women to want to figure out if they can pull the best possible guy they can. 1.00

02:02:31.000 And that's the dating process, right?

02:02:33.000 And we as women are driven by status. 0.99

02:02:36.000 And so a man who's higher status is very appealing, just like a beautiful woman who's malleable, to your point, is very appealing to men.

02:02:44.000 But you have to realize that some pros also come with some cons.

02:02:48.000 What's more common, a beautiful woman or a high-status man? 0.96

02:02:51.000 A beautiful woman.

02:02:53.000 And that's where women... 1.00

02:02:54.000 Hold on, hold on. 1.00

02:02:54.000 That's where women fuck up. 1.00

02:02:55.000 They think that they're special and I'm pretty and I have XYZ and the reality is... 1.00

02:03:00.000 You're a matchmaker.

02:03:00.000 You've got to know this.

02:03:01.000 How hard is it to deal with so many girls that have ridiculous standards that don't necessarily qualify for the man that they think they are? 1.00

02:03:07.000 What do you tell them? 0.91

02:03:08.000 I usually tell them you have two choices.

02:03:11.000 You either self-improve or you lower your expectations.

02:03:14.000 Those are the choices.

02:03:15.000 And we know chicks aren't going to self-improve because they're special. 1.00

02:03:17.000 Well, not always.

02:03:18.000 I mean, for example, for me, and I do say some things that are kind of controversial and a lot of women don't like it, but I had a client I spoke to today.

02:03:25.000 Indian girl, single, wants a nice Indian guy. 0.99

02:03:28.000 Currently talking to a doctor.

02:03:31.000 Indian doctor makes 300 grand a year.

02:03:33.000 That's a rarity right there.

02:03:33.000 But she paid for the first date.

02:03:36.000 She put out, and she's also just lost her job, and she is 5'3 and 180 pounds.

02:03:42.000 I said to her babe, we're going to look at the BMI chart.

02:03:45.000 You need to be losing 60 pounds in the next 12 months if you want this kind of man.

02:03:51.000 As an anecdotal guy to wife you, right?

02:03:54.000 Otherwise, he's not going to take you seriously.

02:03:55.000 You are the easy chick.

02:03:57.000 And that is the reality.

02:03:58.000 Can't pull the body positivity card.

02:04:00.000 You know what, listen.

02:04:00.000 And the Raiders need help at right tackle.

02:04:03.000 So, like, maybe she could help.

02:04:04.000 So, I'm straightforward that way.

02:04:06.000 But that's part of you either self-improve or you lower your expectations.

02:04:11.000 Those are the options.

02:04:12.000 But here's the thing.

02:04:13.000 Here's the problem.

02:04:14.000 It took a professional matchmaker to tell her, you need to self-improve. 0.93

02:04:19.000 See, this is what I'm trying to say.

02:04:20.000 Because her mom didn't teach her. 0.72

02:04:23.000 But here's the thing. 0.98

02:04:23.000 This is why women are delusional. 0.98

02:04:26.000 She had to get a professional to tell her that she's fat. 1.00

02:04:29.000 You want to know how men know that they're fat or they're losers? 0.99

02:04:31.000 They just go outside. 1.00

02:04:32.000 Hey, you're a fat slob. 1.00

02:04:34.000 Girls don't want to talk to you. 1.00

02:04:35.000 You don't get calls returned.

02:04:36.000 People don't respond, etc.

02:04:38.000 Men get real-time reflection of where they stand in the sexual marketplace.

02:04:42.000 Women don't. 1.00

02:04:43.000 Well, and we're actually getting the opposite. 0.97

02:04:44.000 We're getting the opposite because we have a society that panders to women and tells them, you don't have to change a damn thing and you can get something you've never gotten before. 1.00

02:04:53.000 Can we also mention that he smashed her and she's a fatty? 1.00

02:04:59.000 So what's even worse is like when a girl is fat like let's say let's say we're sitting on this right now like somebody writes like I'm a fucking fat slob like most girls be like but girl you got a fat ass So don't worry, 1.00

02:05:22.000 don't care what they say. 1.00

02:05:23.000 They lie to each other all the time instead of just being like... 1.00

02:05:28.000 A girl saying she has a fat ass when she's 200 pounds is like saying I have a fast car because I just ramped it off the edge of the Grand Canyon. 1.00

02:05:35.000 Yeah, it fell down fast. 1.00

02:05:37.000 My car's so fast, man.

02:05:39.000 What's that?

02:05:40.000 Because either you have sabotaging friends or you have friends that don't want to be mean and tell them, like, yeah, yo, you getting a little bit big.

02:05:48.000 Like, you might want to fix that. 0.99

02:05:49.000 Or, hey, your standards are a little high and you're saying you're a bad bitch and you're a boss bitch, but you're 200 pounds and 5'3". 1.00

02:05:55.000 That's crazy. 1.00

02:05:57.000 But their mamas have told them ever, ever since.

02:06:00.000 Okay, we have some chats here as well.

02:06:02.000 Yeah, we can hit some chats.

02:06:02.000 Did anyone else have anything?

02:06:03.000 I want to make sure everyone has a voice and gets to say what they want to say before.

02:06:06.000 Okay, so you guys all think Hoflation is real too.

02:06:08.000 Okay, cool.

02:06:11.000 Okay, so we'll read some of these chats.

02:06:13.000 And I think we did have some, one of the guys asked a pretty good question here.

02:06:18.000 If you met a guy and he was the guy, etc., what would you do to ensure that second date, ladies? 1.00

02:06:25.000 Assuming the first date went well and you checked all your boxes off, etc.

02:06:28.000 What would you ensure to get that second date?

02:06:30.000 Start here.

02:06:31.000 I mean, there's really no way of ensuring it.

02:06:33.000 I'm not going to be the one to ask you, but I initiate it saying, would you like to go do something on Wednesday, right?

02:06:39.000 Or like set an actual day, time.

02:06:41.000 Well, outside of you actually asking him, what would you do from your actions and your behaviors to ensure?

02:06:46.000 Act as myself.

02:06:48.000 I'm not going to portray myself to be something that I'm not.

02:06:51.000 And either you like me or you don't.

02:06:53.000 That's it.

02:06:54.000 And I'm not going to fake myself just to get a second date with you and then later on I'm gonna...

02:06:59.000 So essentially you would do nothing.

02:07:00.000 You would do nothing to get a second date.

02:07:02.000 She's the number one pole dancer in Vegas. 1.00

02:07:04.000 I think that's enough.

02:07:06.000 Should that not be enough?

02:07:07.000 That should seal the deal for the second date for sure.

02:07:10.000 Could you imagine if we just told guys, just act yourself, man!

02:07:14.000 Just act yourself!

02:07:16.000 What should you do to keep the girls? 0.99

02:07:18.000 Nothing.

02:07:19.000 Act yourself, man.

02:07:20.000 She should just know.

02:07:20.000 I really would just act myself.

02:07:22.000 And if you don't like me, then that's okay.

02:07:25.000 There's plenty of other men who will come and probably ask me on a second date who are just as handsome.

02:07:30.000 There you go.

02:07:31.000 Dude, that is so important.

02:07:32.000 I think guys need to understand that girls don't feel the need to impress you or go super hard because there's so many other guys that will be there right behind you.

02:07:41.000 Yeah.

02:07:42.000 And they're constantly reminded.

02:07:42.000 Okay.

02:07:43.000 Well, until they get a bit older, like right over here.

02:07:46.000 Yeah.

02:07:48.000 I would probably do.

02:07:49.000 I'm sorry.

02:07:50.000 I gotta go, but nice to meet you guys.

02:07:52.000 Thank you for the invite.

02:07:55.000 Thank you.

02:07:56.000 Dropping like flies.

02:07:57.000 Hey, just so the girls know, if you leave early, we're taking your name off the thing.

02:08:00.000 FYI. We don't play that shit, but it's fine. 0.99

02:08:02.000 Go ahead. 1.00

02:08:03.000 You made your decision.

02:08:04.000 It's fine.

02:08:05.000 But we move different here at Fresher Fit, man.

02:08:09.000 I would probably do something maybe uncharacteristic of myself if I knew that it was something that would impress him or something that he would... 0.99

02:08:18.000 So, for instance, I've been so fucked over by religion. 0.98

02:08:22.000 I'm kind of done with religion at this point. 0.99

02:08:24.000 But if I knew he was religious, I would probably be open to hearing about his religion.

02:08:30.000 Maybe even, like, if I wanted to be his wife, maybe even joining or going with him to church.

02:08:34.000 Like, something that would probably be very uncharacteristic, like, against maybe...

02:08:39.000 You would acquiesce to him.

02:08:40.000 Yes.

02:08:40.000 What about you?

02:08:41.000 What would you do?

02:08:42.000 To ensure a second date.

02:08:45.000 So, to ensure my second date?

02:08:48.000 Yeah.

02:08:48.000 So, I usually know when I'm on my...

02:08:53.000 I usually know on the first date even like before the first date if I like would actually vibe with the person vibe whatever the word if I click with the person but if I end up clicking with them and I actually want the second date I would usually probably just ask like hey we're gonna meet up again let's go that take that okay yeah like I'm actually not like opposed to being the person even asked to go on the first date or to be like okay hey when are we gonna do this or When you go out with women, 0.97

02:09:19.000 are you the more dominant one?

02:09:21.000 Yeah, I'm the more dominant.

02:09:23.000 I would like to be the more submissive with men, but sometimes I end up jumping the gun.

02:09:29.000 Because I usually know what I want.

02:09:30.000 No, that's fine.

02:09:31.000 What about you?

02:09:33.000 Start off by being appreciative of the date, which I always am, but I think just really reinforcing that, like, I had a really lovely time with you.

02:09:40.000 Thank you so much.

02:09:41.000 Would love to do this again.

02:09:42.000 I think that's an important thing because then it signals to him that, like, you're open to meeting up.

02:09:46.000 I also think maybe an active physical touch, either a kiss or like a light, you know, hand, because that also just confirms to him that you're willing to be a little bit more intimate.

02:09:57.000 Okay.

02:09:57.000 Key though, are you going to initiate that keynote or are you going to have him do it?

02:10:02.000 I think if it's something like I had such a great time, then that's more initiating.

02:10:06.000 But if it's a kiss, I'd be receptive to it.

02:10:08.000 Okay.

02:10:08.000 And then the third thing I would do is if I was still unsure and I really liked him, I would definitely send him a text, which is a little unconventional for me to text men first because I always like to see, you know, if they have that willingness to lead.

02:10:21.000 But I would send him a text.

02:10:22.000 I would just reinforce that I'd love to see him again.

02:10:24.000 Okay.

02:10:26.000 Or, you know, try to maybe send him like an Instagram DM of some sort.

02:10:30.000 You mentioned touch.

02:10:30.000 I agree with those tips.

02:10:31.000 Those are good tips.

02:10:32.000 Very good tips.

02:10:32.000 You mentioned touch, right?

02:10:33.000 Question for you. 0.99

02:10:34.000 What if you had sex with him? 0.99

02:10:35.000 Would that be a part of that guarantee? 0.92

02:10:37.000 On a first date?

02:10:37.000 Yeah.

02:10:38.000 Oh, you're talking to the wrong person.

02:10:41.000 What if?

02:10:42.000 I mean, I don't live in that world, but...

02:10:46.000 I suppose, hypothetically, if I were to.

02:10:49.000 I actually think if I really liked a guy, I wouldn't.

02:10:51.000 Not that I do that in general ever, but I would really want to make sure, if that was my nature, that I didn't, because I think, why buy the cow when you're going to get the milk for free?

02:11:02.000 But if I did sleep with him on the first date, I would probably think that that was conveying to him that I liked him.

02:11:11.000 Yeah.

02:11:14.000 That's fair.

02:11:14.000 Very much so.

02:11:16.000 I agree with that.

02:11:16.000 What would you do to ensure a second date?

02:11:19.000 For me, I would definitely be appreciative of the date, let him know, reassure him.

02:11:24.000 How would you go about that specifically?

02:11:27.000 I would say it.

02:11:28.000 I would say thank you very much.

02:11:30.000 I would text him after the date.

02:11:32.000 Let him know I had a good time.

02:11:34.000 And I would continue to engage with him.

02:11:36.000 Communicate with him.

02:11:38.000 So he obviously knows.

02:11:40.000 Give him a signal that yes, I'm available.

02:11:43.000 Alright.

02:11:43.000 What about you?

02:11:44.000 I also agree.

02:11:46.000 Be appreciative.

02:11:47.000 Physical touch would be awesome.

02:11:48.000 And then just kind of be a good listener.

02:11:50.000 Alright.

02:11:52.000 I feel like I'm pretty forward and I would just...

02:11:56.000 Tell him. 1.00

02:11:57.000 Take me out again, motherfucker. 1.00

02:11:59.000 Or start planning something already. 1.00

02:12:01.000 Like, if you see something while you're together, start talking about it.

02:12:05.000 We should do that.

02:12:05.000 Oh, we should go there.

02:12:06.000 We should do that.

02:12:07.000 I feel like for you, you give him a blunt.

02:12:09.000 You know what?

02:12:11.000 I like you.

02:12:12.000 That's her love language.

02:12:14.000 Can we go to the dispensary this time?

02:12:16.000 Don't get them too high.

02:12:18.000 All right, so we'll read some of these chats.

02:12:20.000 Yes.

02:12:21.000 And then, oh, I was going to say, did any of you ladies have a question?

02:12:25.000 We got one.

02:12:26.000 Yeah, we know.

02:12:27.000 Okay, I'll answer while he pulls this up.

02:12:29.000 It was 50 and up, by the way.

02:12:30.000 Yeah, cool.

02:12:32.000 You ain't getting out of it.

02:12:33.000 No, no, no.

02:12:34.000 I'll answer it.

02:12:35.000 Because I want to know.

02:12:36.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:12:37.000 No worries.

02:12:37.000 As you guys know, Angie's my main girl.

02:12:40.000 But we're in an open relationship.

02:12:41.000 Open only on my end, of course.

02:12:42.000 Closed on her end.

02:12:44.000 But she gets certain benefits that other girls will never get. 0.99

02:12:46.000 She's a great girl.

02:12:47.000 And we went on our first date to North Italia.

02:12:50.000 So for the people that are wondering what that is, I would consider it like a mid-tier Italian spot.

02:12:55.000 Nothing too fancy.

02:12:56.000 It's right there in the middle.

02:12:58.000 And yeah, that's where we went on our first date.

02:13:00.000 Did you smash on the first date? 1.00

02:13:02.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

02:13:03.000 Or before. 1.00

02:13:06.000 Uh-oh.

02:13:07.000 Well, the answer is yes.

02:13:10.000 But Angie has a bunch of other redeeming qualities where I said this girl is...

02:13:16.000 Because my thing is this.

02:13:18.000 Getting late isn't important.

02:13:19.000 That's not what it is. 1.00

02:13:20.000 Because once you get to a certain level, you hook up with girls, you realize you're fucking useless. 1.00

02:13:24.000 You're a pain in the ass. 1.00

02:13:25.000 I don't like you that much, etc. 1.00

02:13:27.000 She added value way outside of that stuff. 0.86

02:13:30.000 I don't even care about that.

02:13:32.000 I mean, not to get too personal.

02:13:33.000 We don't even hook up like that that much.

02:13:35.000 She adds value outside.

02:13:36.000 She helps me with my true crime channel, FedReacts.

02:13:39.000 She helps with the researching.

02:13:41.000 She cooks.

02:13:41.000 She cleans.

02:13:43.000 When I go to Columbia, she packed my condoms and shit. 1.00

02:13:47.000 You're not going to find a girl like that. 1.00

02:13:50.000 She has a strong father.

02:13:51.000 Comes from a strong family.

02:13:54.000 She's the opposite of Cardi B. There you go.

02:13:58.000 Yeah, she's here with me now.

02:13:59.000 She's a great girl, and I really can't think of anything bad to say about her besides she's a midget. 1.00

02:14:04.000 She walks really short, but she walks really slow, but other than that, she's a great girl, man.

02:14:10.000 That's awesome.

02:14:10.000 It wasn't supposed to be anything like a curveball.

02:14:13.000 It was just me being a little bit more naffy.

02:14:14.000 I asked people uncomfortable questions.

02:14:15.000 I needed to answer them as well, but yeah, no, I'm proud of her.

02:14:19.000 That's why I say the things that I say.

02:14:19.000 Fresh, where did you take your girl?

02:14:21.000 Thank you.

02:14:22.000 Where'd you take your girl for the first time? 1.00

02:14:24.000 Well, actually, I brought her into my frame.

02:14:28.000 So we had a party for YouTube hitting 1 million subscribers.

02:14:32.000 I invited her to the party.

02:14:33.000 We talked for the first time there.

02:14:35.000 Obviously, you know, things happened.

02:14:37.000 And it was a great time.

02:14:38.000 She enjoyed it.

02:14:38.000 That was a date.

02:14:39.000 That's really cute.

02:14:40.000 And typically, she doesn't go on dates with people she doesn't like.

02:14:43.000 So, for example, the whole party itself, she would never go on if she didn't like me at all.

02:14:47.000 So, I asked the question earlier.

02:14:49.000 Michael Sartain.

02:14:53.000 I'm hosting a bikini competition with 70 women and I meet her there and we end up hooking up in Mexico at the resort.

02:15:01.000 In Cabo?

02:15:05.000 Cancun.

02:15:06.000 Foam Cannon party.

02:15:09.000 And then from there, I was just like, hey, listen, I want to make plans for you to come back and visit me in Vegas.

02:15:14.000 And I don't even know if she took it seriously at the time, and then she flew out to see me.

02:15:17.000 But, I mean, that was our first...

02:15:19.000 It wasn't really a date.

02:15:20.000 We're on an inclusive resort on the beach for an entire week, and that's kind of how it worked out.

02:15:25.000 And I want to say this too, because a lot of girls tend to have this misconception that if a guy hooks up with me too quickly, he's not going to take me seriously or whatever.

02:15:33.000 What I've come to realize and what I tell a lot of girls is if you're going to hook up with a guy quickly, you need to make sure that you add value quickly where you distinguish yourself from other girls. 0.99

02:15:42.000 Because if he just hooks up with you and you're just like a regular girl and you don't do shit, you don't cook, you don't clean, you don't add value right away, that guy's like, man, this girl's fucking useless. 1.00

02:15:49.000 What the fuck? 1.00

02:15:50.000 But if you do something after the fact that he hooks up with you and he's like, whoa, what the hell? 0.99

02:15:54.000 And it's memorable.

02:15:55.000 Right?

02:15:56.000 He's going to be like, okay, I need to keep this girl around. 0.99

02:15:58.000 So just because a guy has sex quickly with you doesn't necessarily mean that you're disqualified from the race. 1.00

02:16:02.000 It's just that you need to add value quickly, and I think that's where women fuck up. 1.00

02:16:05.000 Yeah, that's exactly right. 0.99

02:16:06.000 Real quick, Rolo, for you, you've been married for quite some time.

02:16:10.000 27 years.

02:16:10.000 Where was your first date, brother?

02:16:12.000 Let's see, I met my wife at a gig, of course, and then I think our first date was at a Mexican restaurant in Lake Tahoe, actually.

02:16:19.000 Okay, tacos?

02:16:20.000 A little more than that.

02:16:22.000 But that was our first date and the first time I kissed her, actually.

02:16:25.000 In the parking lot.

02:16:27.000 She knows that.

02:16:27.000 Okay.

02:16:28.000 You were trying to say something before?

02:16:31.000 Oh, I was going to say, yeah, I slept with my boyfriend on the first date.

02:16:34.000 And I would think that I would wait.

02:16:37.000 But it's like, if you like somebody, you like somebody.

02:16:39.000 And I added a lot of value to him because I work actually longer days than him.

02:16:42.000 But I work one day less.

02:16:44.000 I have four tens.

02:16:45.000 But it takes me an hour and a half to get to work there and back.

02:16:48.000 And then I still come home and I don't want him to touch a pot or a pan.

02:16:51.000 Like, let me cook for you and it's going to be a fresh meal every single night with your lunch the next day.

02:16:57.000 I understand.

02:16:58.000 Oh, wow.

02:16:58.000 And here's the other thing, too, I want to say.

02:17:01.000 Women don't understand that most guys go through life and they never really get real, genuine, good treatment from women. 0.98

02:17:07.000 Most guys have never even gotten a gift from a girl.

02:17:11.000 Absolutely. 1.00

02:17:12.000 So little gestures, if you give it to a guy, he's going to remember that shit, man. 1.00

02:17:16.000 Compassionate. 1.00

02:17:17.000 The girls before me were 22, 23, 21, but none of them did anything for him but just give him great sex. 1.00

02:17:24.000 It's like, okay, yeah, you can have great sex. 0.97

02:17:26.000 It's not bad for me, but I'm going to give you also a lot more than that. 0.87

02:17:30.000 All his stuff is ready in the morning.

02:17:32.000 I don't complain about my day to him and say, I'm going to come home angry.

02:17:37.000 It's very peaceful in our house.

02:17:39.000 It always is clean.

02:17:40.000 He always has food in his stomach.

02:17:42.000 And he has a place to vent every single time.

02:17:44.000 But it took me a long time to get to there.

02:17:46.000 And actually, it was kind of because of him.

02:17:49.000 He was my first red pill podcast that I listened to.

02:17:53.000 Didn't know what red pill was.

02:17:54.000 Wasn't a feminist. 0.99

02:17:55.000 But at the same time, I think I was more raised to be an independent woman more than a wife.

02:18:01.000 And I didn't understand the difference.

02:18:03.000 And then I started watching him, and then I watched a little bit of you guys, and I'm like, oh man, I am being very masculine and deterring.

02:18:12.000 Being the man that I want, but I'm being the man also with a man.

02:18:17.000 Gotcha.

02:18:18.000 You're being the man that you're attracted to.

02:18:18.000 If that made sense.

02:18:20.000 Yeah, and I was being too dominant, and I was actually like...

02:18:23.000 I was pushing really good men away.

02:18:27.000 Although I did date a lot of terrible people that were mean to me, but I really was not doing the best I can as a woman, and I started to realize, man, I need to chill out, listen, understand, I need to provide peace, and do a little bit less. 0.95

02:18:40.000 And I'm really glad that you woke up, because a lot of girls don't realize this until it's too late, and it's like, damn, it's way past the time. 0.84

02:18:40.000 That's good, man. 0.84

02:18:47.000 And I've always said, girl game, Guy game is being able to attain the girl and get the sex. 1.00

02:18:51.000 Girl game is being able to retain the guy after you fuck him. 1.00

02:18:54.000 And I would argue that's where most girls fail, is they're not able to keep the guy after they have sex with him. 1.00

02:18:59.000 Absolutely.

02:19:00.000 Because, I mean, even like when we...

02:19:01.000 So, let's say he messes up, we get in a fight. 0.99

02:19:04.000 My friends are giving me advice of like, oh, fuck that. 1.00

02:19:08.000 I would never accept that. 1.00

02:19:09.000 You did it.

02:19:10.000 I'm like, no, no, no.

02:19:11.000 I have gotten that so much from my friends.

02:19:13.000 And I've also gotten like...

02:19:14.000 Well, how do you know if you haven't tried more guys?

02:19:18.000 And I'm like, it's good and I'm happy.

02:19:21.000 Why do I need to try everybody?

02:19:23.000 There's a prime example of that today.

02:19:25.000 Tyrese and his wife.

02:19:26.000 So Tyrese married this woman, right?

02:19:28.000 Gave her everything.

02:19:29.000 Gave her the world.

02:19:30.000 And her friends got in her ear and said, hey, listen.

02:19:34.000 He's not doing enough.

02:19:35.000 You know, you could do better than him.

02:19:36.000 He's not really your type anyway.

02:19:38.000 She'll leave him. 0.84

02:19:39.000 She left him and she's come back now saying, you know what?

02:19:41.000 I messed up.

02:19:42.000 Messed up.

02:19:43.000 He was a great man.

02:19:44.000 I don't know why I left.

02:19:45.000 She said, I felt like my friends were telling me the truth and listen to them.

02:19:48.000 And she regrets it.

02:19:49.000 Totally not.

02:19:49.000 Let me ask you this question as a matchmaker.

02:19:51.000 As a matchmaker, how much do you have to tell women to not listen to their vultuous friends? 0.99

02:19:58.000 Vulturism.

02:19:59.000 I'm stealing that.

02:20:00.000 That's a good word.

02:20:01.000 I don't have to tell them that too often because they pay me for that to give them that good advice.

02:20:07.000 But on my social media page, a lot of the things I do...

02:20:10.000 But do their friends tell them advice that contradicts what you tell them?

02:20:14.000 Of course.

02:20:14.000 And family sometimes too.

02:20:16.000 So do you have to give them almost a pep talk like don't listen to what people say, listen to what the fuck I tell you. 0.99

02:20:22.000 A lot of it, yes. 0.99

02:20:23.000 And a lot of it is also don't listen to what big...

02:20:26.000 Dating advice influencers tell you, which is usually you don't have to change yourself for a man.

02:20:31.000 You're perfect as you are.

02:20:32.000 The right person is going to just show up and come and, you know, cross your fingers and close your eyes and say these affirmations.

02:20:40.000 That might help you with your confidence internally, but that's not necessarily a roadmap to success in your love life.

02:20:46.000 And I tell women, and I know this is like, I've had a lot of pushback with this because it's like, oh, we already hear the biological clock.

02:20:52.000 But I think women should be scared shitless to be childless. 1.00

02:20:55.000 And I think that should be the driver in your dating decisions.

02:20:59.000 You should be looking for men who you could see as the father to your future children. 1.00

02:21:03.000 Make motherhood cool again. 1.00

02:21:05.000 It's absolutely cool.

02:21:07.000 Put a baby in her.

02:21:11.000 Now they're saying, I can be a single mother, I can go to a sperm bank, and it's like, who wants to raise a child without an actual male to help them out?

02:21:20.000 Successful women.

02:21:22.000 I work with a lot of very successful alpha boss babe women, educated. 1.00

02:21:27.000 And that's why they like me, because I'm kind of those things on paper, I suppose.

02:21:30.000 Yeah, they're not awful.

02:21:31.000 So I had one client, for example.

02:21:33.000 She sold her business for $20 million.

02:21:35.000 She is extremely out of shape, almost 300 pounds. 0.64

02:21:39.000 And she had two baby daddies.

02:21:43.000 And for her, it was literally just, I want to have a child with any guy, but those men are absent.

02:21:49.000 And there's good things that come with having a child, but look at your men as, could this man be the father of my child?

02:21:56.000 Right?

02:21:56.000 Because then it does turn into single motherhood and statistics show that the kids are impacted by that.

02:22:01.000 Girls need dads. 1.00

02:22:03.000 Well, two-parent households are statistically shown to improve the child's performance in school, childhood obesity.

02:22:11.000 Loneliness epidemic is huge right now, too.

02:22:13.000 One in four adults are lonely right now.

02:22:15.000 And so we need to also make being in relationships cool again.

02:22:19.000 And I think what the problem is, is a lot of women have unrealistically high expectations and standards. 1.00

02:22:26.000 Like I was talking to one of my girlfriends today and she said to me, we were talking about this podcast, she said to me, You need to go on there and say men need to be more successful.

02:22:35.000 That's what she wanted me to say. 0.99

02:22:36.000 They need to be taller and have larger penises. 1.00

02:22:39.000 All of them. 1.00

02:22:39.000 Just get richer. 1.00

02:22:40.000 All of you.

02:22:41.000 Men, why can't you step up and just be richer and better looking?

02:22:44.000 And I said to her, you know, but women also need to provide value to those types of men because those types of men have, you know, the pick of the litter. 1.00

02:22:53.000 There's 50 other women vying for that position. 1.00

02:22:56.000 Is he going to turn him down?

02:22:57.000 No.

02:22:58.000 He doesn't have to.

02:22:58.000 And that's what...

02:23:00.000 A lot of girls don't realize. 1.00

02:23:02.000 I also think a lot of women I've coached and worked with in matchmaking overestimate their sexual marketplace value because of their education and the money that they've made. 1.00

02:23:11.000 And a lot of it, they need to put more focus on, and I know it sounds superficial, but they need to put more focus in their nurturing abilities and their appearance.

02:23:21.000 I hate to pick on you, and I really appreciate you being here because we have such opposite opinions of things, so thank you.

02:23:27.000 But honestly, You mentioned way earlier about the Peter Pan effect on men right now, but that's what actually attracted me to the man I was with, was the fact that he was so fun and outgoing, and I don't want to control him,

02:23:43.000 I don't want to change him, as long as he's respectful to me, does what he needs to do at the end of the day, but he still wants to act, not so much immature, but wants to just have fun and be lively.

02:23:53.000 I love that.

02:23:54.000 I think that would be great for...

02:23:56.000 Maybe a father one day, right?

02:23:58.000 Because then he's wanting to have that same type of relationship with potentially kids in the future.

02:24:04.000 How long have you guys been together?

02:24:05.000 We've been together...

02:24:06.000 Yep, six months.

02:24:06.000 Six months.

02:24:07.000 How old are you again?

02:24:08.000 I'm 28.

02:24:09.000 Okay, so we're the same age, right?

02:24:11.000 But we're also really different in the sense that, you know, I think there are two types of people when it comes to dating.

02:24:11.000 Right.

02:24:19.000 There are people who are like, I'm just looking for someone to love me as I am.

02:24:23.000 And then there are people who are like, I'm looking for someone who...

02:24:26.000 I am who is going to provide status and who is going to elevate me and who we're going to elevate each other.

02:24:34.000 And I look at a lot of times marriage, for example, as and this sounds bad, but I do look at it as like a business in a lot of ways, because that's someone who you're going to be making those decisions with.

02:24:34.000 Right.

02:24:44.000 And that's all it was in like for history, dynasties and like empires, everything.

02:24:51.000 Marriage was a contract, a business contract.

02:24:54.000 It was a tax-free transfer of wealth between families.

02:24:57.000 And it was to create alliances and strategy.

02:25:00.000 I'm not disagreeing with that.

02:25:01.000 Take that with a grain of salt, though, because I know that's the first thing anybody says, this is what marriage was really about.

02:25:06.000 But you've got to remember, you're talking about the Medici family and the high renaissance, and we're making all of these power plays.

02:25:14.000 Aristocrats. 0.97

02:25:14.000 That's true. 0.97

02:25:15.000 You know what? 0.99

02:25:15.000 The commoners and the serfs and the peasants and the schmucks working in the mud, they got married too. 0.99

02:25:20.000 That's true. 1.00

02:25:20.000 They still did the same damn thing. 1.00

02:25:22.000 So it wasn't just that. 0.95

02:25:23.000 Well, I think the point you're trying to make though is like you're in love with your boyfriend, right?

02:25:27.000 That's like what I gauged from that.

02:25:29.000 You guys love each other?

02:25:30.000 Yes.

02:25:31.000 We actually just moved in together this week. 1.00

02:25:34.000 Oh shit. 1.00

02:25:34.000 Yeah. 1.00

02:25:35.000 And it took us, and I will say this.

02:25:37.000 Have you guys had to talk yet?

02:25:38.000 About children?

02:25:39.000 In the future?

02:25:40.000 No, about like...

02:25:41.000 Cheating?

02:25:42.000 No.

02:25:42.000 Pole dancing?

02:25:43.000 Yeah.

02:25:43.000 That talk is going to come.

02:25:45.000 Actually, no, no, no.

02:25:45.000 That talk is coming, trust me.

02:25:46.000 And it's totally okay, and I don't want to give away too much because it's a very, very small industry.

02:25:53.000 But he was actually involved in more of the adult film industry of things.

02:26:00.000 And so when he meets me, he's like, not to say that anything else was bad because he had relationships for five, six years with other women who were in the industry that he absolutely loved.

02:26:13.000 But when he meets me, he's like, you're an absolute angel, comparatively.

02:26:19.000 Okay.

02:26:20.000 To other things, right?

02:26:22.000 And I don't want to say that women who are in the sex industry are not, right?

02:26:26.000 Do not bring value, because that's not true.

02:26:29.000 There's a reason why he stayed with those women.

02:26:33.000 Idealism.

02:26:33.000 Thinking that it would work, but it normally never does.

02:26:36.000 It took us about two and a half, almost three months before we even slept together.

02:26:42.000 Is he older?

02:26:43.000 He is.

02:26:44.000 How much older?

02:26:45.000 He's 40s.

02:26:47.000 40s.

02:26:48.000 Like I said, I don't want to give away way too much.

02:26:53.000 No, he was very, very respectful.

02:26:58.000 We were together day and night every single day.

02:27:00.000 We had so much fun.

02:27:01.000 We enjoyed each other's company.

02:27:03.000 We got to know each other through and through with everything.

02:27:06.000 He actually came with me on three, four trips that I went on for.

02:27:10.000 And you guys never hooked up?

02:27:11.000 We never hooked up.

02:27:13.000 He got to know me like through and through to my soul and now we've moved in together and I couldn't imagine almost a better partner in life.

02:27:24.000 Alright, well that talk is still gonna come though.

02:27:27.000 We split the bills.

02:27:29.000 Happily.

02:27:30.000 So I think that's the key, right?

02:27:32.000 Because I think you started off basically trying to disagree with what I was saying, right?

02:27:36.000 Because you have a different perspective.

02:27:38.000 And the reason I think you have a different perspective is because you have different expectations.

02:27:42.000 I would never be with a man where we were splitting bills because I'm already paying my own bills.

02:27:47.000 So for me, I want a guy who...

02:27:50.000 Is superior to me.

02:27:52.000 I don't know if that's the case with you.

02:27:55.000 That's why you're going to be single for the rest of your life.

02:28:00.000 I don't think that's the case.

02:28:02.000 I'm confused.

02:28:05.000 It's the same thing.

02:28:07.000 No, but you're saying she wants someone superior to her.

02:28:09.000 Yeah, I know.

02:28:10.000 On this show, we do the delusion calculator all the time.

02:28:13.000 Oh, I see what you're saying.

02:28:14.000 Okay, now I get it.

02:28:15.000 And I think I even asked you this on the very first show that we did.

02:28:19.000 It's the same thing he said to CJ last time.

02:28:21.000 CJ as well, right?

02:28:22.000 Women are making money, especially in OnlyFans and in the sex industry. 1.00

02:28:26.000 Did you put her through the calculator?

02:28:28.000 I do.

02:28:28.000 Not her, but we do it all the time on this show.

02:28:32.000 And so when we do it about the calculator...

02:28:35.000 Let's get the link.

02:28:36.000 Women tend to want a guy that is making more money than them, is superior to them physically. 1.00

02:28:42.000 He was just asking all the questions.

02:28:44.000 Six feet tall, six-pack abs, six-figure income, blah, blah, blah.

02:28:47.000 The problem is that women are becoming the men that they want to marry in the first place. 0.99

02:28:52.000 So, you're like, I want a guy who's superior to me.

02:28:54.000 Okay, well, how much money do you make?

02:28:56.000 I make six figures.

02:28:57.000 He's got to make at least six figures and then half again as much as I made, right?

02:29:01.000 Or he's got to be, he has to be somewhat, he's got to be somewhat, do you want me to call it up?

02:29:05.000 No, no, no, yeah, we are going to pull up our calculator right now, but just to make things nice and easy, how tall, what's the bare minimum height for your guy that you want, your ideal guy that you want?

02:29:13.000 That you would want to have kids with my marriage, too.

02:29:15.000 I would ideally like at least 5'11".

02:29:17.000 Okay.

02:29:18.000 Income?

02:29:19.000 Per year?

02:29:19.000 Annual?

02:29:20.000 Go ahead, just keep it $1,000.

02:29:22.000 You said it's got to be more than yours, again, and probably buy an extra 20% or 50%.

02:29:28.000 I have attracted millionaires before, dated millionaires before, so I would say that's probably, but you know what, let's, bare minimum, I would say at least $400,000.

02:29:38.000 $400,000 a year, bare minimum, okay.

02:29:41.000 Ooh, yeah.

02:29:41.000 Okay, and then, does it matter what race he is?

02:29:44.000 White, black, Hispanic? 0.52

02:29:45.000 Okay, what do you want?

02:29:47.000 Caucasian.

02:29:47.000 Okay, white.

02:29:49.000 And age.

02:29:50.000 Age.

02:29:51.000 Minimum age and max age.

02:29:53.000 Listen, I know it's a small dating pool.

02:29:55.000 I know it's a very small dating pool.

02:29:58.000 We're just curious.

02:29:58.000 I know, I know.

02:29:59.000 I know I'm so delusional.

02:30:00.000 Minimum age and max.

02:30:00.000 I know.

02:30:02.000 Minimum age, 36.

02:30:05.000 Maximum age, 49, 50, 50, 50. 0.69

02:30:11.000 Okay.

02:30:12.000 Do you care about his education level?

02:30:13.000 You're an Ivy League grad.

02:30:14.000 No.

02:30:14.000 You don't?

02:30:15.000 No.

02:30:15.000 Doesn't matter.

02:30:16.000 Because there are a lot of self-made men who dropped out of college.

02:30:18.000 You care who's obese? 0.96

02:30:21.000 Obese is different than overweight.

02:30:23.000 So I would like someone who's not overweight, but I would say overweight, you know, you can lose the weight.

02:30:31.000 Can he be obese is the question.

02:30:34.000 The answer is no, probably.

02:30:36.000 And obviously he can't be married, right?

02:30:39.000 No.

02:30:40.000 We got our calculator?

02:30:43.000 Tell me how delusional I am.

02:30:45.000 How delusional do you think you are?

02:30:46.000 What percentage of men do you think that is?

02:30:48.000 I think it's the 1% of the 1%. 0.78

02:30:50.000 I know it's a small, small dating pool, but I also believe and have worked on bringing value myself.

02:30:57.000 It's the 2% of the 1%. 0.99

02:30:58.000 Roll your eyes.

02:31:00.000 Yeah, it's the 2% of the 1%.

02:31:02.000 It is.022% of men.

02:31:05.000 Wait, which calculator?

02:31:05.000 Do you have the...

02:31:06.000 I got the standards, bro?

02:31:08.000 Yeah.

02:31:09.000 We have a more accurate one.

02:31:10.000 Okay.

02:31:10.000 So the one we have actually goes off the U.S. Census Bureau and from the National Health Survey.

02:31:14.000 So all men in the United States. 0.64

02:31:16.000 So we can go ahead.

02:31:17.000 You got the link?

02:31:19.000 You did it.

02:31:19.000 Send it to me.

02:31:20.000 Just call it out.

02:31:21.000 Actually, you know what?

02:31:23.000 We could put it on our phone.

02:31:25.000 We're going to plug in these numbers.

02:31:27.000 This is based on ideals.

02:31:28.000 I know it's like, want what you want, get what you get.

02:31:31.000 Go back.

02:31:32.000 You guys were discussing something.

02:31:33.000 I want you guys to go ahead and finish your discourse.

02:31:35.000 Go ahead.

02:31:35.000 So, like I was just saying, I enjoy the fact that he is fun and lively and a little bit on the wild side because so am I. There's a reason why people call me spicy.

02:31:46.000 And he doesn't want to control that in me.

02:31:48.000 He says, you know, as long as you're okay, you're respectful in life, you do what you need to do, I love you just the way that you are.

02:31:56.000 And that's really hard to find in a lot of people who don't want to change you.

02:31:59.000 Are you guys monogamous?

02:32:00.000 We are, actually.

02:32:01.000 But I wouldn't be opposed to him if he wanted to step out later on in our relationship and the life and everything, like in 10-15 years.

02:32:10.000 Because I understand that love...

02:32:12.000 Can become very complicated.

02:32:14.000 I'm texting him now and telling him that.

02:32:15.000 I'm letting him know right now.

02:32:17.000 I'm sure he is.

02:32:19.000 All your boyfriends watch my show.

02:32:21.000 I have no doubt.

02:32:23.000 What's the point?

02:32:25.000 What do you guys disagree on?

02:32:26.000 You disagree because you want a guy who's like...

02:32:28.000 You want a provider.

02:32:29.000 You want a traditional provider that's going to...

02:32:31.000 I would never wait a man.

02:32:33.000 More the money aspect of things.

02:32:35.000 You said that you would not be okay with splitting the bills and you need a man who's a little bit more of a high earner.

02:32:40.000 And honestly, I do make a really large sum of money for my age bracket and it's unrealistic.

02:32:46.000 I get it.

02:32:47.000 For most people.

02:32:47.000 I get it.

02:32:48.000 But here's the thing that I will say that maybe is going to insult you.

02:32:51.000 I would not date a man who was ever involved in the sex industry.

02:32:55.000 I am in the sex industry myself.

02:32:57.000 Yeah, and I would also never become that type of woman myself.

02:33:00.000 So that is the difference.

02:33:01.000 And I know that might sound insulting, and it's not to insult or put you down.

02:33:05.000 It's just when I say we're different, the types of men I'm going for are not going to look at, respectfully, someone who is a pole dancer as wifey material.

02:33:13.000 And the men that I'm going for are definitely not going to have any sex industry work.

02:33:18.000 That is like an, I just will not.

02:33:19.000 It's just their ideals and their values are going to be quite some different.

02:33:23.000 More wholesome, yeah.

02:33:24.000 Got the stats?

02:33:26.000 He's pulling it up right now.

02:33:31.000 Describe an alpha female. 0.62

02:33:33.000 An alpha female? 0.94

02:33:35.000 I've heard other people say this and you're like, not alpha.

02:33:38.000 I want to hear this.

02:33:40.000 Alright, so let me explain something.

02:33:44.000 When women say, I'm an alpha female, they're really not an alpha female. 1.00

02:33:48.000 What they're doing is they're using a male context for what they think alpha is and what they think beta is.

02:33:53.000 When I think of women who call themselves an alpha female, it's usually somebody like Sheryl Sandberg.

02:33:59.000 She used to be the CEO of Facebook. 0.97

02:34:01.000 One of these Fortune 500 bad bitches who's the top 10 richest females in the world. 1.00

02:34:07.000 When women call themselves alpha females and they're running their business and they make their own damn money and everything else, they're basing their understanding of alpha on an alpha male. 1.00

02:34:20.000 From the position of, I've got a good job, I've got my shit together, I've got my education together, I've got the money, I've got the bag, everything else, where's my man? 0.78

02:34:32.000 Well, the problem is, you're a woman, and you've become the man that you wanted to marry, and so all the guys that you would possibly even consider are never going to measure up to the level of achievement that you've gotten as, by following an alpha male sort of,

02:34:49.000 you know, tract in your life.

02:34:52.000 It's the opposite.

02:34:53.000 So from an evolutionary biological sense, an alpha female is a woman who is probably a sex worker. 1.00

02:35:00.000 Someone who has big breasts, a nice hourglass figure. 1.00

02:35:05.000 I'll take that. 0.63

02:35:07.000 There's a woman who can outclass other women in sexual prowess, in the sexual marketplace, who has the thing, who maximizes femininity rather than masculinity, because the way that women see alpha, their examples are alpha males, 1.00

02:35:24.000 and they want to be like that because, like I said before, we've conditioned four generations of women right now to think that the best thing to be is just like the men that they wanted to marry. 0.99

02:35:35.000 And by the way, when I say women have become the men that they wanted to marry, I'm not the one that coined that term.

02:35:41.000 It was Gloria Steinem in 1970 during the militant feminism years that keeps getting repeated today on 2023. 1.00

02:35:54.000 So all of this rhetoric that got started during the late 60s and early 70s, we're still repeating it over and over and over again right now. 0.94

02:36:01.000 So when we say alpha female, it's the bad bitch, but it's based on a male archetype, not on a female archetype. 1.00

02:36:07.000 The female archetype would look like a hot swimsuit model. 1.00

02:36:11.000 Well, consider a man who is alpha, let's just say an alpha male, he would be more desirable financially, so somebody you'd want to hire, you know, the NFL quarterback or the linebacker.

02:36:28.000 We're good to go.

02:36:35.000 Then applied to a female would make her less attractive. 1.00

02:36:38.000 Do you see what I'm saying?

02:36:39.000 So it's like his alphaness makes him more attractive and more competent.

02:36:43.000 Her literally desiring those things in and of itself is a catch-22 situation because she becomes less attractive in that she wants to become alpha or that she does become alpha. 1.00

02:36:53.000 I do not want a woman who is a leader of men that does not turn me on. 1.00

02:36:56.000 So alpha female would be the female who can pull the most men. 1.00

02:37:01.000 I don't know that the term doesn't fit.

02:37:04.000 Does that make sense? 1.00

02:37:05.000 It's like the biggest penis on a woman. 1.00

02:37:07.000 How does that work? 1.00

02:37:08.000 How does the biggest penis on a woman work? 1.00

02:37:10.000 Alpha doesn't apply to women, you're saying. 1.00

02:37:10.000 I don't get that. 1.00

02:37:11.000 That makes sense.

02:37:12.000 I see that.

02:37:13.000 Okay.

02:37:13.000 I think when I used to say that, I used to be like, oh, I'm an alpha female.

02:37:15.000 I did used to use that all the time.

02:37:17.000 But I have felt that way when I was dating women because I'm like, I used to take my girlfriend out.

02:37:22.000 You took charge.

02:37:22.000 I took her out for $10,000 shopping sprees.

02:37:26.000 I feel like even the most alpha, alpha, whatever, female self-proclaimed by others will still defer to a man. 0.99

02:37:33.000 Sugar mama to women, not men. 0.89

02:37:35.000 That's what I'm saying.

02:37:38.000 And this is interesting because she's talking about even in a homosexual relationship, there's still a dominant and a submissive.

02:37:44.000 There's still a masculine and a feminine, even in same-sex couples.

02:37:47.000 And then my first time dating a guy, or not dating a guy, but I really wanted a serious relationship with a guy, I still kind of treated him like a woman.

02:37:54.000 And then when I wanted him to be a man, I realized how hard it was to be a man.

02:38:00.000 I'm like, man, if I get pregnant and this house burns down, Who's gonna save me?

02:38:06.000 Not him.

02:38:07.000 I gotta put everybody, my dog and him on my back and I gotta save us all.

02:38:11.000 So I started realizing I don't actually want to be with a woman. 0.97

02:38:14.000 I want to be with a real man.

02:38:16.000 But I just want to have...

02:38:17.000 What is it called when you want women together? 0.98

02:38:22.000 Polygyny.

02:38:22.000 Yeah.

02:38:23.000 Yeah, so that's what I would like.

02:38:25.000 I would give the functional equivalent.

02:38:27.000 Like, a woman that says, you know, I'm an alpha female, that's like me, you know, going and getting manicures and wearing heels on Saturdays and saying, oh yeah, I'm a super pretty boy. 0.99

02:38:35.000 Like, you'd be like, what the fuck? 0.99

02:38:36.000 I'm a feminine man. 1.00

02:38:38.000 I'm a feminine man.

02:38:39.000 That doesn't make sense.

02:38:40.000 Like, It's very unattractive.

02:38:42.000 And I don't think women grasp how unattractive it is when she's loud, she's rambunctious. 1.00

02:38:47.000 That's like me wearing heels and coming up to you and saying, oh, let's go on a date. 1.00

02:38:50.000 You'd be like, what the fuck? 1.00

02:38:51.000 Ew. 1.00

02:38:52.000 That's how men feel when women act. 1.00

02:38:54.000 Apply the alpha term to female. 1.00

02:38:56.000 Not to sound racist, but there's a reason why African-American women score low on dating apps in general as far as approval ratings. 1.00

02:39:01.000 And the reason why is because they have a bad stigma, and I can say this is a black guy, They have a bad stigma for being masculine, unfortunately.

02:39:08.000 And masculinity is not something that men in general find attractive.

02:39:11.000 So my mom is black and I only grew up with my mom and my two older brothers.

02:39:19.000 But like I told you before, my mom only taught me how to be an independent, strong woman because she struggled and she doesn't want me to struggle.

02:39:26.000 So she said, don't rely on a man.

02:39:28.000 Go get what you gotta get.

02:39:30.000 And so I never understood, oh hey, this clock is ticking.

02:39:34.000 Hey, you wanna actually have kids.

02:39:36.000 Or hey, this is the family dynamic you want.

02:39:39.000 I'm thinking, I don't wanna be left behind.

02:39:41.000 I don't wanna be broke like my mom.

02:39:42.000 I don't wanna be struggling. 0.99

02:39:43.000 So I need to get my own, get my own, be a bad bitch, be this, be that. 1.00

02:39:47.000 And then my mom's cheering me on like, yeah, go to college, yeah, F these guys. 1.00

02:39:51.000 And then as soon as I get a boyfriend, let's say the boyfriend does something stupid. 0.99

02:39:55.000 Let's say he didn't take out the trash. 0.99

02:39:57.000 This is why I tell you, you don't need a man. 1.00

02:40:00.000 And that's a very, you know, so many women are indoctrinated by that, especially in the black community where there's no fathers, so you have women basically acting like men and like women, and they tell them, and they say, fuck men, niggas, and shit, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

02:40:13.000 We know what it is, right? 1.00

02:40:15.000 So it's just...

02:40:17.000 We teach women fear, that's why. 1.00

02:40:19.000 We teach women, like I said, the last four generations, we've taught women to distrust men, period. 0.99

02:40:25.000 They're either Homer Simpson, they're like, you know, doofy dad that mom has to save them from themselves, right?

02:40:32.000 And then you've got the guy who's Then there's the guy who's the borderline abusive guy.

02:40:36.000 He's gonna send you to the women's shelter kind of thing. 1.00

02:40:39.000 We can't trust that guy either. 0.97

02:40:41.000 And then there's the new millennial slash Zoomer guy who is incompetent. 0.97

02:40:45.000 He can't drive a stick shift, doesn't know how to tie a tie. 0.85

02:40:48.000 I'm finding a lot of feminine men these days. 0.99

02:40:49.000 A lot of very men that allow so many things to affect them.

02:40:55.000 I dated somebody that I really liked, and I thought he was a very masculine man, and then something happened at his job.

02:41:01.000 He had just had a scolding, a talk to, a write-up, and he was about to walk out of his job and cuss everybody out and break down and cry on the phone.

02:41:10.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:41:11.000 And it was like the weirdest thing.

02:41:13.000 He was probably raised by a woman.

02:41:14.000 And that's the thing is that unfortunately we tell men to get in touch with their feminine side. 1.00

02:41:18.000 It's okay to be emotional, blah, blah, blah.

02:41:20.000 And the reality is there's no place for emotional men.

02:41:22.000 There really isn't.

02:41:23.000 And women aren't attracted to it. 1.00

02:41:25.000 Society doesn't want it. 1.00

02:41:26.000 Emotional men end up shooting schools and doing really stupid things. 1.00

02:41:28.000 If you look at prison, it's filled with emotional men. 1.00

02:41:31.000 Emotional men are the ones that hate women.

02:41:32.000 Emotional men are the guys that act on emotion, right?

02:41:34.000 They're erratic.

02:41:35.000 They behave on how they feel at the moment.

02:41:37.000 Because women cannot trust men for their long-term security, they then have to... 1.00

02:41:42.000 Like your mom, you have to do it yourself. 0.90

02:41:44.000 You can't trust men because you got to get the bag and make sure you have this insurance policy so when he fucks up, you're going to be okay.

02:41:51.000 And then what that does is that...

02:41:52.000 It turns you into the man that you wanted to marry because now you have to take over the conventionally masculine responsibility of provisioning, protection, and parental investment. 0.55

02:42:03.000 But that's such a struggle.

02:42:04.000 Why wouldn't you just raise your kids and allow your husband to be their dad? 1.00

02:42:09.000 They don't have a husband though.

02:42:10.000 That's the problem.

02:42:11.000 Either they leave or they push them away or something.

02:42:14.000 You have a 56% divorce rate.

02:42:16.000 Or they never get there.

02:42:16.000 Okay, what's the stat?

02:42:17.000 Did you get the stats? 0.99

02:42:18.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

02:42:20.000 We have it. 1.00

02:42:20.000 What is it? 1.00

02:42:22.000 Oh, shit. 0.99

02:42:23.000 She scored a.0208%. 1.00

02:42:27.000 So, yeah.

02:42:28.000 Perfect.

02:42:28.000 Well, I'll invite all of you to my wedding one day.

02:42:33.000 She said less money than I thought.

02:42:35.000 $400,000 puts the guy in the top 1%-ish?

02:42:38.000 Like, top 5%.

02:42:40.000 Top 1% I think is $600,000.

02:42:43.000 Wait, what's the average income?

02:42:48.000 $39,000.

02:42:49.000 I thought it was like 40.

02:42:50.000 Did you say 39?

02:42:52.000 Household income in America.

02:42:53.000 No, it's not household, just a single man.

02:42:55.000 The reason why is you always have to average in Little Rock, Arkansas and Tulsa, Oklahoma.

02:43:02.000 When you do that, it comes out to about 39.

02:43:04.000 It's not 39 in Los Angeles.

02:43:07.000 Yeah, so that's why it makes it different.

02:43:08.000 Again, going back to what you said, so like 400,000, that used to be the top 1%, like 454,000.

02:43:13.000 Now it's like maybe that's the top 8% or whatever.

02:43:16.000 Being 5'11", I think, puts in the top 17% of men as far as how tall they are.

02:43:20.000 And so these things, they just become, they compound because it's not 17%.

02:43:23.000 It's the top 1% of the 17%.

02:43:26.000 Do you guys understand?

02:43:27.000 That's how you get two tenths And here's the scary part.

02:43:29.000 We haven't even accounted for him being good-looking, being charming, being clean.

02:43:33.000 I know a lot of you girls said hygiene, same religion. 1.00

02:43:35.000 By the way, making $400,000 a year, a software engineer, also autistic, possibly.

02:43:40.000 That's the other thing that you have to deal with. 0.95

02:43:41.000 And so those things kind of disqualify men, and it just gets more and more ridiculous.

02:43:45.000 Whereas if she sleeps with one of the guys who's in that category... 0.99

02:43:48.000 And the ones who are normal already have 12 girlfriends.

02:43:50.000 Yes, and that's exactly where I was going with it.

02:43:52.000 Because everybody's changing the top one.

02:43:54.000 What I will say though is, even though to the people watching and listening right now, that seems like a very small, and it is a very small percentage of the total population, in the zip code that I live in, I have a lot more access to that percentage of people,

02:44:10.000 and I actually do go on dates with men who make well over 400 grand a year.

02:44:15.000 Now, there are things, and then you might wonder, well, why haven't you decided to settle down with one of them?

02:44:19.000 Because they cheat.

02:44:19.000 You also live in the zip code where the people cheat more than anywhere else in the United States.

02:44:23.000 I mean, she's kind of allowed for that a little bit, though.

02:44:27.000 That's why I appreciated when she said that.

02:44:29.000 Because it's so unrealistic to think anybody who lives anywhere near Mulholl in Bel Air or anywhere near the Hollywood Hills is just not being totally inundated by men who have options to cheat.

02:44:38.000 I used to go to the Playboy Mansion all the time, and I'd go there, and these men, it was obvious that that was going on, and the woman accepted it. 0.56

02:44:44.000 I'm not saying it's right or wrong.

02:44:46.000 I'm saying in certain options, women cheat because I believe women cheat. 1.00

02:44:49.000 The studies have shown this.

02:44:51.000 Buss has done some in the GSS survey.

02:44:51.000 Dr.

02:44:53.000 Women cheat because of previous sexual partners. 1.00

02:44:54.000 Men cheat because of options.

02:44:56.000 And the more options they have to exercise, if you end up marrying a drummer from a huge band, he may have had more sexual options beforehand.

02:45:03.000 He's going to have tons of sexual options during the marriage, and that's why he's going to cheat.

02:45:08.000 Women don't have to want to have sex. 1.00

02:45:10.000 When women want sex, sex manifests. 1.00

02:45:12.000 It just shows up. 0.99

02:45:13.000 Ladies, if you wanted to have sex tonight, how hard would it be for you? 1.00

02:45:15.000 Ladies, would you be able to have sex tonight? 1.00

02:45:17.000 Natty, would it be able to happen? 0.99

02:45:18.000 Yeah?

02:45:19.000 Okay, that's the thing.

02:45:20.000 A lot of men can't cheat.

02:45:22.000 A lot of men can't cheat.

02:45:24.000 Under the age of 30, you have 26% of men that are virgins.

02:45:29.000 Under the age of 30, you have 63% of men not in a relationship.

02:45:32.000 Did you say 26%?

02:45:32.000 Wait, hold up.

02:45:34.000 Men with zero sexual partners in the last year.

02:45:36.000 That's crazy.

02:45:37.000 Yes.

02:45:38.000 34% of men under the age of 30 with no sexual partners in the last year.

02:45:43.000 I wonder why these bros are so thirsty.

02:45:45.000 That's why there's so many mental health issues.

02:45:47.000 Let me see if I can tie this up.

02:45:51.000 I'm not trying to insult you.

02:45:53.000 I'm going to see if I can soften the blow a little bit.

02:45:55.000 How do you go up from you'll be single forever?

02:45:59.000 Here's what I'm saying.

02:46:00.000 I, honest to God, have sympathy for you because I deal with enough women who are in that exact same position right now. 0.94

02:46:06.000 I can't find a guy who is better than me, makes all this.

02:46:11.000 And you just, like earlier on, you gave the solution to this just a minute ago, which is you're going to have to lower your standards.

02:46:18.000 Expectations.

02:46:19.000 Or your expectations, or you're going to have to do what?

02:46:21.000 Self-improve.

02:46:22.000 Self-improve.

02:46:23.000 How much self-improvement do you have left to do to get that guy that's at the status that we just did the stats for?

02:46:30.000 So do you think that lowering your standards is the only option that's left for you?

02:46:35.000 Well, I'll say this.

02:46:37.000 For myself personally, because it's a personal question, I moved to Los Angeles in February.

02:46:42.000 I was in Miami before.

02:46:44.000 I was very focused on filming the TV show, getting a visa because I'm Canadian, getting my degree because that was important to me because then I knew I could sit at a table like this and say that and I could hold my own a little bit more one day.

02:46:59.000 For me, those things were important.

02:47:00.000 I've only really been aggressively dating for a few months now.

02:47:04.000 And I feel that within a year, I will be able to find that.

02:47:10.000 And self-improvement, I could probably lose five more pounds, five to ten more pounds.

02:47:13.000 Don't do it.

02:47:15.000 Well, listen, the thinner the girl, the bigger the rock. 1.00

02:47:18.000 Oh, my God.

02:47:19.000 Bad advice.

02:47:21.000 He wants at least something.

02:47:23.000 He didn't want to break you.

02:47:24.000 I'm not trying to promote eating disorder.

02:47:27.000 I'm talking about myself.

02:47:29.000 She's tiny.

02:47:31.000 I'm still aware.

02:47:33.000 Going back to what he says before, there's a male over-perception bias.

02:47:39.000 Women tend to like Brad Pitt in Fight Club, but men think that men should look like Arnold Schwarzenegger, and women think that other men like Twiggy when actually they like girls with a little bit more athleticism or curves, like what Fresh is trying to say.

02:47:52.000 I was going to say, build a bigger booty, don't lose weight.

02:47:56.000 Well, I work out for two hours every day already, so I'm doing squats and lifting weights.

02:48:01.000 I think for me right now, what I can do to get that kind of guy we talked about is go on as many dates as I possibly can to get to know as many men in that caliber as I can.

02:48:13.000 Spam approaches.

02:48:16.000 I don't like to waste people's time, so I'm not gonna give a man a chance if he asks me on a nice date if I don't think off a dating profile that he's my guy.

02:48:22.000 Out of respect to him, respect to myself, and respect to the person I'm meant to be with.

02:48:26.000 But I will go on entertain as many possible men as I can in early stages of dating.

02:48:32.000 To see if I have a connection with any of them.

02:48:34.000 That's what I can do.

02:48:36.000 I also can continue to maintain my appearance.

02:48:38.000 And I know for men, maybe you guys don't realize how much money and time goes into looking a certain way for us women.

02:48:43.000 But it's a lot.

02:48:45.000 It's a lot more than a first date.

02:48:47.000 Nellie, you have to stay in Los Angeles too? 1.00

02:48:49.000 Well, right now I'm trying to pitch new TV shows.

02:48:52.000 So I'm very focused on selling a new show.

02:48:55.000 I would tell you, like, move to Texas.

02:48:56.000 Like, you probably have a better job. 1.00

02:48:57.000 I mean, you're living in, like, the cheating capital of the fucking planet. 0.99

02:49:00.000 Yeah, so I'm trying out Los Angeles. 0.99

02:49:03.000 I'm open to moving back to Miami one day.

02:49:04.000 I really like Miami.

02:49:05.000 You know what's awesome about Los Angeles?

02:49:06.000 Nothing.

02:49:07.000 Like, absolutely nothing. 1.00

02:49:08.000 It's just a fucking terrible place. 1.00

02:49:10.000 This place exists. 1.00

02:49:11.000 Well, there are mountains.

02:49:12.000 There's the ocean.

02:49:14.000 We have a beach.

02:49:14.000 Yeah, we have mountains.

02:49:14.000 You have no ocean in Nevada.

02:49:15.000 We have a beach.

02:49:16.000 We have tons of beaches.

02:49:17.000 You have a lake?

02:49:18.000 Hey, what was that?

02:49:20.000 Wait, hold on.

02:49:21.000 I can't hear you over that no state income tax.

02:49:23.000 I can't hear what you're saying.

02:49:24.000 I'm still a Florida resident.

02:49:26.000 Okay, there you go.

02:49:27.000 We gotta wrap.

02:49:28.000 We're almost at a time.

02:49:29.000 Someone had a question, and then we'll read our chats and close out.

02:49:32.000 Someone had something?

02:49:33.000 Yeah, I was just going to ask you what your last TV show was about and what the new one is that you're pitching.

02:49:37.000 So my last show was about matchmaking.

02:49:39.000 It was like selling Sunset, but instead of real estate, it was for matchmakers.

02:49:42.000 So I was one of the lead matchmakers on it.

02:49:44.000 And we would set people up and follow them on their dating experience and there'd be some office drama.

02:49:48.000 And the shows that I'm pitching are all about dating coaches and matchmaking.

02:49:51.000 Okay.

02:49:52.000 Yeah.

02:49:52.000 Alright, so we'll read some of these chats real quick here.

02:49:55.000 And guys, we're reading 50 and up, and then we'll close this out because, you know, we're in someone else's house, so we can't stay here too, too long, like we normally do.

02:50:02.000 So, Cat and Cow says, where is St.

02:50:05.000 Decent?

02:50:05.000 Oh yeah, where's St.

02:50:06.000 Decent?

02:50:07.000 Yeah, he's in Vegas.

02:50:08.000 We're going to make something happen, but we just couldn't line it up.

02:50:11.000 We couldn't get the studio.

02:50:11.000 We didn't even know you were coming until the day of the war, man.

02:50:14.000 Hey, listen, listen.

02:50:15.000 If you want to get him and Zerka here at the same time, I just talked to Zerka a couple days ago.

02:50:19.000 Why don't we do that?

02:50:20.000 If they want to debate, is Zerka not...

02:50:22.000 Then I get long.

02:50:23.000 Let's put the cross with each other. 0.97

02:50:24.000 I'll bring ten girls in here. 1.00

02:50:25.000 Let's do a debate in here.

02:50:26.000 I'll do it. 1.00

02:50:27.000 And then Rollo will be security with his big fucking arms. 0.99

02:50:30.000 Rollo will be security for it. 0.99

02:50:31.000 I'm the only one who can put him in a headlock, that's why.

02:50:33.000 Zerka and take the center. 1.00

02:50:34.000 Let's do it.

02:50:35.000 My girlfriend loves Zerka.

02:50:36.000 Okay, Fresh's Dog says, ratings from Fresh's Dog.

02:50:39.000 Fresh's Dog.

02:50:40.000 Ran through Abuela.

02:50:41.000 He gave her a two.

02:50:43.000 Fake Mo for...

02:50:44.000 Fake Mo. 0.63

02:50:45.000 Clownface 2, which is the girl on the left, the engineer.

02:50:48.000 I don't know who these names are.

02:50:50.000 Wait, are these like ratings right now?

02:50:51.000 They're making up names. 0.98

02:50:52.000 It's like a dick rating. 0.97

02:50:55.000 Clownface 2. 0.78

02:50:56.000 Who's who though?

02:50:58.000 No, no, no, he's referring to her.

02:50:59.000 She's 3. 0.58

02:51:00.000 So you call her clownface. 0.80

02:51:03.000 Throter. 0.99

02:51:03.000 Goat. 0.99

02:51:04.000 Because she's a porn star. 1.00

02:51:06.000 Bougiehole. 0.99

02:51:06.000 3. 0.99

02:51:07.000 FNF Dodger.

02:51:09.000 3.

02:51:10.000 Oh, that's the Spanish code I was there.

02:51:12.000 Area 51 Ilion.

02:51:14.000 3.

02:51:15.000 She deserves way more than that.

02:51:17.000 Mini-Me.

02:51:17.000 5.

02:51:18.000 And Constipated Face 1, Closet of Lesbian 3? 1.00

02:51:30.000 Zuma says, it seems South Americans expect the man to lead, which is a good thing, but this also comes with expectations of the man going full blue pill into marriage. 0.63

02:51:39.000 Signing his life away and making her the focus of his life, are Latinos more blue pills? 0.99

02:51:46.000 Are Latinas more blue pill? 1.00

02:51:48.000 Latinas? 0.87

02:51:49.000 Latinas? 0.87

02:51:50.000 I think it means Latinos. 0.99

02:51:51.000 A lot of them are blue pills, bro.

02:51:52.000 But being blue-pilled is a whole worldwide thing, bro.

02:51:56.000 Okay.

02:51:56.000 Alright, what else do we got?

02:51:56.000 This is our boy Big Mo.

02:51:57.000 He says, Hey, Rolo.

02:51:59.000 Hi, Mike.

02:51:59.000 Hi, Myron.

02:52:00.000 Hi, Fresh. 0.99

02:52:00.000 With all these girls giving dog shit advice, I don't think they even deserve a small local radio station as a first date. 0.99

02:52:06.000 Rolo, you know why I eat spinach and kale. 1.00

02:52:10.000 I do.

02:52:10.000 Kale?

02:52:11.000 Tell these bitches to go to hell. 1.00

02:52:14.000 Sorry, I don't have it up right now. 1.00

02:52:16.000 Abe says, I know that girl, Nat, from the 209.

02:52:19.000 Shout out to Fresh and Fit.

02:52:21.000 Less pimping, more pimping.

02:52:28.000 And that's it for Chats. 0.99

02:52:30.000 We have Rumble real quick and then we're done.

02:52:33.000 So for Rumble, we have...

02:52:35.000 And then ladies, get your last questions and or thoughts for the show ready and then we'll close it out. 0.79

02:52:39.000 Or disagreements you might have had. 0.99

02:52:42.000 Metkey says, these women wouldn't tell their son shit. 1.00

02:52:45.000 From my experience, what the fuck? 1.00

02:52:47.000 Mothers eventually choose the sisterhood over their own sons. 1.00

02:52:51.000 They don't even know what they're doing.

02:52:53.000 They can't help it. 1.00

02:52:53.000 Goddamn. 1.00

02:52:55.000 Olu says, matchmaker and stripper have way more in common than they think. 1.00

02:53:00.000 Laugh my ass off. 0.76

02:53:01.000 All the difference is, why are the meat wallets blown out? 0.99

02:53:05.000 And isn't matchmaking kind of part of the sex industry? 1.00

02:53:08.000 I don't know.

02:53:09.000 No, that's a madame. 1.00

02:53:10.000 I'm not a madame.

02:53:11.000 These two spend $50 a second.

02:53:14.000 He said, my meat wallet sounds actually...

02:53:18.000 I'm naming my next band meat wallet.

02:53:21.000 I know, I like that.

02:53:23.000 And last one here says, Hector says, chick with the black flannel, making all kinds of faces. 0.74

02:53:28.000 Wonder what questions she has for the men.

02:53:31.000 Black flannel?

02:53:32.000 We'll come back to that.

02:53:34.000 You've been called out.

02:53:35.000 I got a face, man, what?

02:53:38.000 All right.

02:53:39.000 Last thoughts on the show?

02:53:40.000 Last thoughts, questions, disagreements, last points, whatever.

02:53:42.000 One thing, I had a question for you.

02:53:46.000 We'll start here and then work our way.

02:53:49.000 Not a question.

02:53:53.000 Just more of a comment.

02:53:54.000 Anyone who wants to get a guy a gift, think about something that they use on the daily basis.

02:54:02.000 Something that when he uses it, he's going to think of you every time.

02:54:05.000 I know that my boyfriend smokes every day, so I went out and bought him a really nice Lighter.

02:54:10.000 Patch.

02:54:10.000 Oh, sorry.

02:54:12.000 I wished, but it's okay.

02:54:14.000 So I went out and bought him a really nice lighter.

02:54:17.000 Nothing too expensive.

02:54:18.000 It was like $50 market.

02:54:19.000 Aren't you big on health though?

02:54:20.000 Huh?

02:54:20.000 Aren't you big on health?

02:54:21.000 We smoke weed.

02:54:22.000 We smoke a lot of weed.

02:54:24.000 That's healthy.

02:54:25.000 Interesting.

02:54:26.000 I don't know if it's healthy, but that's a whole other combination.

02:54:28.000 I know that he smokes every day, so every day when he lights his blunts or his joints, whatever it is that he chooses to smoke, he's going to think about me.

02:54:36.000 And he found it really, really appreciative, and it was a very thoughtful gift.

02:54:40.000 Like you said, most men don't even receive gifts from women, ever.

02:54:45.000 That's actually a very good thing, because you looked at his lifestyle and saw what he needs as a man and got it for him.

02:54:51.000 That's really good.

02:54:52.000 Alright, what about you?

02:54:54.000 So my question is, would you, so, how do I say this?

02:54:59.000 Growing old with a woman. 1.00

02:55:01.000 I'm not saying like monogamous or whatever.

02:55:03.000 I'm just saying, would you grow old with a woman or would you only keep one around and grow old with her if you met her young and she helped you build and get where you're at? 0.79

02:55:14.000 Grow old with a few of them.

02:55:15.000 Okay.

02:55:16.000 Yeah, I don't want to have just one.

02:55:17.000 Well, I mean, the other few that were like, you're switching out, right?

02:55:22.000 No, no, no.

02:55:23.000 I would have them... 0.99

02:55:24.000 I've done it before where I'll see them all together and they become friends and shit. 0.92

02:55:28.000 Yeah. 0.90

02:55:29.000 Some of them are friends to this day.

02:55:30.000 Yeah, that makes sense.

02:55:32.000 Yeah.

02:55:33.000 So...

02:55:34.000 I have no questions, but I think this was an awesome panel.

02:55:37.000 For the most part.

02:55:40.000 And we're glad that some of the information stuck and made you a better girl and you got a guy now.

02:55:46.000 When are you going to play in the LFL? Oh my god.

02:55:51.000 Look, Vegas, we need a new left tackle, you know what I'm saying?

02:55:53.000 You know, actually, I was going to do it back in the day before they stopped, and one of my girlfriends, Sydney, was with the, I think, I can't remember where she played, and then they ended up stopping, so I was like, oh, whatever.

02:56:04.000 But I think I'm old now.

02:56:06.000 I'm gonna hurt myself.

02:56:07.000 You said you had something?

02:56:09.000 Oh yeah, I did have a question because we were talking about marriage earlier and how you felt there was very little incentive for men to get married.

02:56:15.000 Yeah.

02:56:15.000 And as we moved on from that conversation, it just came to my mind that I think marriage is still a societal status for a lot of people.

02:56:22.000 If you look at any of the, you know, major CEOs or really successful men, having a wife seems to play into their societal favor.

02:56:32.000 Would you agree with that, that there is societal status that comes with marriage for men?

02:56:36.000 Um, women acquire all the status for marriage because they take the last name, typically. 1.00

02:56:40.000 Well, I look at someone like George Clooney.

02:56:42.000 When he got married, for some reason it seemed he got a lot more respect in the industry than someone like Leonardo DiCaprio who gets continuously trolled for being...

02:56:50.000 Leonardo DiCaprio actually gets a lot of respect.

02:56:52.000 And George Clooney's twice divorced.

02:56:53.000 I'm not saying she doesn't...

02:56:53.000 Well, what about for men in office?

02:56:57.000 Like, isn't it a requirement to have a wife if you're President of the United States or something like that?

02:57:00.000 No.

02:57:00.000 It's not a requirement, but they've all, except one, one of them had a wife die in office and then married a woman that he knew when she was born.

02:57:09.000 It's an image thing for the presidency, but I would say, in general, men don't acquire status from marrying.

02:57:15.000 It's women that acquire status. 1.00

02:57:17.000 I think that used to be the way it is.

02:57:19.000 Certainly not now.

02:57:20.000 Well, like nowadays, like, nah.

02:57:21.000 But yeah, maybe before.

02:57:23.000 That's the 20th century.

02:57:24.000 Yeah, but I would argue it's women by far that gain the majority of the status benefits. 1.00

02:57:28.000 Because if you think about it, women take the man's last name. 0.88

02:57:31.000 Women marry for status, not men. 1.00

02:57:33.000 I hear that.

02:57:34.000 I hear that.

02:57:35.000 I agree with it.

02:57:36.000 But I do think there are certain industries where it still perhaps is...

02:57:41.000 Yeah, I mean, in some situations, like, you know, if you want to be a partner at a law firm or you're a CEO, whatever, is it more...

02:57:47.000 Industrialist.

02:57:48.000 You know, oh yes, I have a wife at home, yes.

02:57:50.000 But the reality is this, who's going to actually work harder and rise up the ranks? 1.00

02:57:53.000 I'll tell you this, it's the fucking single guys. 1.00

02:57:55.000 That's why gay dudes are dominating. 1.00

02:57:56.000 Because they don't, yeah, it's true. 0.99

02:57:59.000 If you look at high levels of government, you look at high levels of corporate America, etc.

02:58:03.000 If you look at all the major cities that are expensive to live in, who dominates it? 0.99

02:58:07.000 It's gay dudes. 0.98

02:58:08.000 And I make the argument all the time. 0.99

02:58:10.000 They don't deal with women, so they have more time. 1.00

02:58:13.000 A lot of times they behave like they're single if they do have a boyfriend.

02:58:17.000 So it's changing, man.

02:58:18.000 It's changing, unfortunately.

02:58:20.000 As the 27-year-old married guy on the panel here...

02:58:24.000 As far as status is concerned, I don't think it's necessarily a status make or breaker anymore.

02:58:30.000 It probably used to be, like I said, I think that's a 20th century way of thinking.

02:58:34.000 However, I'm going to pull a Kiyosaki on you here. 1.00

02:58:37.000 If you have a wife that is an asset, that's great.

02:58:40.000 If you have a wife that is a liability, that's not so good. 1.00

02:58:44.000 Yeah.

02:58:46.000 I forget the guy's name.

02:58:47.000 He works for Valuetainment. 0.99

02:58:48.000 Gay black guy. 0.93

02:58:49.000 After we did our podcast over at PBD, I was talking with him, and I was like, man, it'd be interesting if they did a study to see who has a higher net worth, heterosexual men or gay men. 0.61

02:59:01.000 He was like, no, they did.

02:59:02.000 Yeah, gay men have a higher net worth. 1.00

02:59:03.000 And I was like, what the fuck? 1.00

02:59:05.000 As a percentage of the population, obviously. 0.99

02:59:07.000 Yeah, I definitely agree.

02:59:08.000 Because they generally don't have kids.

02:59:09.000 But that's crazy, though, because...

02:59:12.000 That tells you right then and there that, like, if you take a guy that's, like, married versus a dude that's gay who's going to make more money, and that tells you that, like, just how much of a financial drain it is for men to deal with them in general. 0.83

02:59:22.000 Because most guys, let's be honest, they don't marry women that are assets. 0.94

02:59:24.000 They marry women that are liabilities. 1.00

02:59:26.000 I heard something, and it's historical, but I don't know if it was true, but I heard it somewhere.

02:59:32.000 Like, the Spartans or the...

02:59:33.000 There was, like, a group of warriors that were, like...

02:59:36.000 They were pretty small numbers, but they could defeat numbers of other men who were way larger than them. 0.79

02:59:41.000 They were all gay in partnerships. 0.98

02:59:45.000 No, they actually had sex with each other. 0.85

02:59:47.000 I don't know that that's accurate.

02:59:49.000 You're talking about the battle of Thermopylae in 483.

02:59:51.000 I heard something somewhere.

02:59:53.000 They were legendary for being indestructible, though. 0.99

02:59:57.000 Yes, but I don't know that it was because they were having homosexual sex with each other. 0.92

03:00:00.000 Well, no, but like, I mean, they were, I don't know. 1.00

03:00:04.000 I think that's a fantasy that a lot of people would like to play out, but I think they were just bad motherfuckers. 1.00

03:00:08.000 I think King of Leonidas was just a bad motherfucker. 1.00

03:00:10.000 I think that's pretty much what happened there. 0.99

03:00:12.000 That's the start of a plot, bro.

03:00:14.000 Well, thank you for having me on.

03:00:16.000 It's been fun.

03:00:16.000 I don't have anything to say.

03:00:17.000 I think this was a pretty healthy debate.

03:00:19.000 Thank you for coming.

03:00:20.000 Thanks for being a good sport.

03:00:21.000 Yes, I think I learned a handful of things today, so thanks for having me.

03:00:26.000 What was the biggest thing you learned?

03:00:30.000 How I need to be more of an asset and less of a liability.

03:00:35.000 Carly, that's a big step for you.

03:00:40.000 Carly, you got 10% of Carly, bro. 1.00

03:00:43.000 Last time it was like, had a threesome, cheated on my boyfriend, sucked a guy's dick before I came out here. 1.00

03:00:49.000 That was Carly last week. 1.00

03:00:51.000 I've got a pet python.

03:00:54.000 Bro, this is 10% of Carly right now.

03:00:58.000 Alright, what about you?

03:00:59.000 Last thoughts or disagreements or points or anything?

03:01:03.000 You guys have been talking about how women have become a certain way, but we haven't talked so much about The women that are raised to be the way that men want them, those women are always the most abused.

03:01:18.000 Those are like...

03:01:20.000 Not necessarily, but what do you mean by that?

03:01:23.000 Are you saying women raised to be like the traditional wife or taken advantage of?

03:01:27.000 Is that what you're saying?

03:01:28.000 Or they're more vulnerable to domestic violence and that type of thing?

03:01:32.000 Yes.

03:01:33.000 I grew up in a Hispanic household where you're raised to serve a man.

03:01:42.000 And you're always taught to do everything for these men.

03:01:46.000 You grow up, you do that, and you realize that a lot of these men don't care about you.

03:01:55.000 So why?

03:01:57.000 To be fair, if you're choosing to serve the wrong man, whose fault is that?

03:02:02.000 But what if you don't know any better because that's how you're kind of raised.

03:02:05.000 You're raised to be good to someone.

03:02:08.000 No matter what.

03:02:09.000 Why would you serve a bad person?

03:02:11.000 Yeah, because I grew up in a situation where the women were like property. 1.00

03:02:15.000 They didn't have a choice in their life.

03:02:17.000 I got just a quick question.

03:02:19.000 No, they didn't have a choice in anything.

03:02:21.000 Let's just say for sake of argument that that's correct.

03:02:25.000 Do you think that it's the submissiveness that attracts the abusive guy in the first place? 1.00

03:02:30.000 Or do you meet a great guy and because of that submissive nature that guy then turns into this raging tyrannical asshole? 1.00

03:02:38.000 I feel like it was the second one. 1.00

03:02:40.000 Because they feel like they can do anything to you.

03:02:43.000 I don't think submissive women turn you into a woman-beater. 1.00

03:02:46.000 I don't think that makes sense.

03:02:47.000 What I think might make a little bit more sense is that your radar for a good man may have never been tuned.

03:02:51.000 You're a target for someone who thinks to be an easy prey.

03:02:54.000 I just know too many women who are like, I dated a narcissist and I ask them about their previous three boyfriends and they all turned out to be narcissists. 0.66

03:02:59.000 At some point, we're starting to figure out, no, you're attracted to a certain type and then you're blaming the other person.

03:03:05.000 I'm not saying that's the case in your situation.

03:03:08.000 Sometimes you're young and you just don't know better.

03:03:09.000 But it's like, I just found in several cases, maybe she found a guy who was a woman beater, but I have never, I cannot imagine an idea of a man who wasn't beating women who just, because his wife was submissive, all of a sudden became violent.

03:03:22.000 That doesn't seem to make sense.

03:03:23.000 Another thing too is that, see, this is the thing.

03:03:25.000 Women love to tell themselves little white lies to make themselves feel better for not being a traditional woman. 1.00

03:03:30.000 And one of them is saying that if I be traditional, I'm going to get an abusive guy that's going to steamroll me, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

03:03:35.000 The reality is that even if this guy is abusive, like you say, and is terrible, whatever, well, if he's being a traditional man and getting this submissive woman, well, that means he's probably paying the bills, he's probably taking care of you, probably keeping a household over your head.

03:03:46.000 I was just about to make that point.

03:03:46.000 I would argue he definitely cares about you.

03:03:48.000 It's just that women tend to not look at their own faults or what they do wrong as to why a guy might correct them or might not like their behavior. 0.81

03:03:55.000 Do you think we're taking their masculinity wrong?

03:03:58.000 Where we're thinking that this is a masculine behavior, but it's really abusive?

03:04:02.000 Because I know some girls who think they're picked on if their boyfriend expects cooking, cleaning, basic things. 1.00

03:04:08.000 And they also expect him to provide everything for her.

03:04:11.000 But she shouldn't be required to do those things.

03:04:14.000 And to me, she's not picked on.

03:04:16.000 He's providing everything for you.

03:04:18.000 So are you going to do your part?

03:04:20.000 Because a lot of women, they look at it now. 1.00

03:04:22.000 We live in such a clown world now where women will sit there and say, a guy's abusive if he tells me I shouldn't have an Instagram or I shouldn't be going to the club. 1.00

03:04:30.000 Like restricting...

03:04:31.000 Poor female choices or poor female behavior that might lead to cheating is considered abusive in 2023. 0.99

03:04:37.000 Like, men can't have boundaries and or rules and standards on their women anymore. 1.00

03:04:41.000 And I get what you're saying.

03:04:42.000 Hispanic homes, especially, they are raised to, like, serve, you know, obviously, the father in the household.

03:04:47.000 So, undoubtedly, you are correct.

03:04:49.000 However...

03:04:50.000 We're in 2023 right now.

03:04:51.000 You have choices to make.

03:04:52.000 If he's a bad person, stop.

03:04:54.000 No, I understand that, but that's what I'm saying.

03:04:56.000 That is why women are becoming the way that they are now. 1.00

03:04:58.000 Well, I think abusive should be categorized as something that he does that brings harm to you in some way.

03:05:05.000 And him telling you to not...

03:05:07.000 Go out and be a hoe is not bringing harm to you. 1.00

03:05:10.000 I don't think she's a hoe. 1.00

03:05:13.000 There's actual, physical abuse.

03:05:18.000 It's not abuse that's made women the way that they are. 1.00

03:05:20.000 It's feminism. 1.00

03:05:21.000 Feminism told you guys to go out there and chase a career, make money, be successful, be educated.

03:05:25.000 You can do everything Amanda can do.

03:05:27.000 I'm not a feminist at all.

03:05:29.000 I have had very serious domestic violence.

03:05:33.000 That's fantastic.

03:05:34.000 That's your situation, but what I'm saying that in general is that that's not the norm.

03:05:39.000 That's not good.

03:05:42.000 That's not the norm.

03:05:44.000 Your example doesn't necessarily reflect why women behave the way they do. 1.00

03:05:49.000 Women aren't necessarily, like as you're trying to say, oh, women left men because men are abusive. 1.00

03:05:54.000 No, women left men because feminism has made it to a point where women can get everything that they had with men by themselves. 1.00

03:06:02.000 So why is a woman gonna sit there and get with a guy that's less attractive, isn't charming, isn't charismatic, isn't like a chad if she can make her own money? 0.91

03:06:09.000 She's not gonna.

03:06:10.000 So now women only want men versus needing them. 1.00

03:06:12.000 It used to be women needed men so they would go ahead and get with a guy that was a good provider, he was a good man, he went to church, he was boring as fuck! 1.00

03:06:18.000 But he was a good man. 1.00

03:06:19.000 Nowadays, as women make their own money, I don't need a regular fucking guy anymore. 1.00

03:06:23.000 I want a guy that's 6'3 that makes 400k plus a year. 0.98

03:06:25.000 Women hate beta males so much that they will go to 8 years of college, 10 years of college, take out God knows how many college loans to go and do this, so they can qualify for a 40 to 60 hour a week job that is just soul destroying job because they don't want to marry the beta male guy that they don't trust or they don't like because they they're untrustworthy they're incompetent they're big doofy you know Homer Simpsons or whatever they so what are they going to do they're 0.79

03:06:55.000 going to turn themselves into the men that they wanted to marry and then expect the guy who's higher above them because they're alpha alpha females now they want the guy who's the alpha male to Without alpha the female, and so you've got this vicious cycle that keeps going on because women simply can't trust men anymore.

03:07:14.000 They don't see them as anything viable for their long-term security as they did in the 60s, in the 50s, in the 60s, right?

03:07:22.000 And they're not coming back.

03:07:24.000 It's a result of the legacy of the sexual revolution right now, as you were saying before.

03:07:31.000 It's feminism, man. 1.00

03:07:32.000 It's not abusive men, it's feminism. 1.00

03:07:34.000 And I can sympathize with Natty because what happens is like, well, what if I get with a guy who's, I'm doing what I'm supposed to do and I'm worried that the guy's gonna turn into an asshole and my mom is saying, get your bag, girl, because if you do, he's gonna turn into an asshole and he's gonna, you'll be left with the kids and won't know what the fuck to do with yourself. 0.99

03:07:52.000 Natty, 80% of men on dating apps are deemed unattractive. 0.99

03:07:56.000 That's not because of abuse.

03:07:58.000 80%.

03:07:59.000 The top 10% of men get 63% of the rights wipes. 0.79

03:08:02.000 The top 20% of men get 83% of the rights wipes. 0.79

03:08:06.000 That's not because of abuse. 0.89

03:08:07.000 That's because women, because they're allowed to witness and see all these other options that they have, and they're having their DMs flooded with dick pics and offers from men for sex and all this kind of stuff and all this attention they're getting, what they're doing is they've become delusional as to what attractive men are,

03:08:25.000 And so if 80% of men, if only 20% of men are seen as attractive, then that means eights or fives to women. 0.90

03:08:31.000 I know so many.

03:08:32.000 That means nines or sevens.

03:08:32.000 And the only ten is like Hemsworth and Drake.

03:08:35.000 Like that's it.

03:08:35.000 How common is it that you have like a guy who's a beta male and he's fixated on one nice woman who's very submissive and she seems like she'd be ideal, but he's just this kind of like, he's a simp and he doesn't know what to do.

03:08:46.000 But she's with, why does she keep going to her asshole boyfriend? 1.00

03:08:49.000 Why does she, like he doesn't appreciate her like I would appreciate her. 1.00

03:08:52.000 Brought the bartender, Alex the accountant.

03:08:54.000 I would never do that to you.

03:08:56.000 I would respect you and love you and have children with you and I'd be a great father and I'm just so qualified for that. 1.00

03:09:02.000 But yet she keeps going back to the asshole. 1.00

03:09:04.000 Also, the other thing too, I'm just going to be honest, women are retards when it comes to picking their own partners. 1.00

03:09:08.000 Women positively reinforce abusive behavior because they pick Abusive men. 1.00

03:09:12.000 They pick the assholes. 1.00

03:09:13.000 They pick the jerks. 1.00

03:09:14.000 They pick the men that talk to them like shit. 1.00

03:09:15.000 They pick the men that don't necessarily give them positive attention. 1.00

03:09:18.000 Like women are very bad at make selecting their own partner. 1.00

03:09:21.000 That's why for the longest time, men used to get involved.

03:09:23.000 The father would pick the boyfriend or the husband because he knows what's best for her, not what's attractive to her.

03:09:29.000 The perfect example of that is Khloe Kardashian, right?

03:09:32.000 And I think what she represents is what a lot of women have, which is their picker is off. 1.00

03:09:37.000 They don't know how to pick quality men. 0.97

03:09:40.000 And then you have women who say, there are no good guys.

03:09:42.000 There are good guys.

03:09:43.000 They're all around, but you're not giving them attention.

03:09:45.000 They're boring.

03:09:47.000 They're not attractive enough.

03:09:48.000 They're not tall enough.

03:09:49.000 I think I now know the solution to all these problems.

03:09:53.000 Pre-arranged marriages.

03:09:55.000 That didn't work for my group.

03:09:59.000 No, I think what Natty was asking is, is being submissive and traditional opening yourself up to bigger possibility of being a victim of Domestic violence or something like that.

03:10:09.000 Is that what you were asking?

03:10:10.000 Hey, Natty, going on the yacht with the guy who has all the money, you're also opening yourself up to domestic abuse. 0.85

03:10:16.000 That's what I was about to say.

03:10:17.000 My point is, if 80% of men are deemed unattractive, that's not because of abuse.

03:10:22.000 That's the point.

03:10:23.000 Women have a... 1.00

03:10:24.000 I'm saying the word delusional, but I think it is a delusional belief when she had her preferences, and it was 0.02% of men.

03:10:35.000 I just want to touch on this.

03:10:37.000 I understand that this is a little bit more prevalent maybe in a Hispanic household and you open yourself up to being submissive, right? 1.00

03:10:44.000 And some men might take advantage of that.

03:10:46.000 But I also believe that maybe asking everyone on this particular show right now might not be the exact solution that you're looking for.

03:10:54.000 And this is not meant in any offensive way and no disrespect, but a really good therapist could really help you dig down and maybe find why.

03:11:04.000 If this is a reoccurring pattern for you, right?

03:11:08.000 No, I was trying to actually explain what I meant right now.

03:11:12.000 I meant like maybe that's why there's so many women who kind of Avoid being the submissive. 1.00

03:11:20.000 They've been through that.

03:11:22.000 They've been a good woman to men before, and it gets to the point where it's like, okay, no, now my standards are up here.

03:11:29.000 That didn't work for me.

03:11:31.000 But again, you're choosing the wrong person to serve.

03:11:34.000 Natty, we have a We have a 56% divorce rate in this country. 0.99

03:11:37.000 First divorce, it's 52%. 0.50

03:11:39.000 Second marriage, it's 68%.

03:11:41.000 Third marriage, it's 73% divorce rate. 0.95

03:11:44.000 Hold on.

03:11:44.000 If 70 to 80% of those divorces are initiated by women, and physical abuse isn't even in the top five reasons while they're filing for divorce, and women find 80% of men to be unattractive, the answer is delusion.

03:11:59.000 That is what's happening.

03:12:00.000 It's not because of abuse.

03:12:02.000 It's a minority.

03:12:03.000 I know.

03:12:04.000 I was trying to give a reason for the hoflation.

03:12:06.000 Yes, but that is essentially what it is.

03:12:11.000 The numbers are inescapable.

03:12:15.000 You're correct.

03:12:15.000 It's what he's saying before.

03:12:16.000 It's this belief that you can, again, short-term thinking versus long-term thinking.

03:12:21.000 Short-term thinking, I'm going to have fun when I'm 23. 1.00

03:12:23.000 I'm going to fuck Brock the bartender. 1.00

03:12:25.000 I'm going to fuck Brock the quarterback. 1.00

03:12:26.000 Yeah, Brock the quarterback. 1.00

03:12:27.000 I'm going to have fun and I'm not going to consider what happens down the line to me because it's short-term thinking versus long-term thinking.

03:12:34.000 When you listen to feminism, feminism is this drug that makes you think of short-term thinking. 1.00

03:12:39.000 It's like, yes, I'm just going to have fun now and no one will care later on because body count doesn't matter.

03:12:44.000 I was going to bring up some stats that show body count does.

03:12:46.000 See, but I'm saying I was raised the opposite thinking the opposite way.

03:12:51.000 For sure.

03:12:52.000 So, your entire life you are trying to be this virtuous...

03:12:56.000 That's the right way to think, though.

03:12:56.000 I was raised that way, too.

03:12:57.000 Yeah, but you being virtuous isn't what causes you to get into those situations.

03:13:02.000 But I feel like it's done me more favors than... 0.99

03:13:04.000 What I'm saying is the shitty dude with the Lambo is just as likely to hit you. 0.99

03:13:09.000 That's the point I'm making. 0.99

03:13:10.000 It's like this idea that is your...

03:13:12.000 I feel like he's more likely to hit you.

03:13:13.000 Yeah, but hold on.

03:13:13.000 Your submissiveness is not causing men to become abusive.

03:13:17.000 There's no stats.

03:13:18.000 There's no data that I've ever seen to indicate to that.

03:13:20.000 I don't submit to any men.

03:13:23.000 Apparently.

03:13:24.000 What I'm saying is if we were to look at a statistic, was this person who abused a woman, was he abused when he was a child?

03:13:29.000 I bet we'll find a high correlation, a much higher correlation than whether or not she was submissive.

03:13:34.000 And let me also be blunt here. 0.98

03:13:35.000 If you're not going to be willing to submit to a man, you're only going to date losers. 0.99

03:13:38.000 Because only loser men are going to tolerate women that don't submit to them. 0.97

03:13:41.000 Well, that's why I'm saying it has to be, like, a good man for you. 0.98

03:13:41.000 Right. 0.98

03:13:46.000 I 100% submit to my wife.

03:13:48.000 He's rational when I'm psycho, and I need that.

03:13:50.000 And I know that I need that.

03:13:52.000 Yep.

03:13:53.000 Do you understand what Myron's saying? 0.99

03:13:54.000 If you wouldn't be willing to submit to him, by definition, he kind of is a loser.

03:13:59.000 So the hypergamy algorithm, there must be some algorithm in human evolution by which men and women are able to sort the alphas from the betas.

03:14:08.000 It must exist.

03:14:09.000 We know it in men.

03:14:10.000 We can see men picking women.

03:14:12.000 Some women are more attractive than others. 1.00

03:14:13.000 Women have to have a similar algorithm. 1.00

03:14:15.000 Otherwise, the species would not have continued to procreate.

03:14:17.000 That algorithm is going to say to yourself, why don't I submit to this man?

03:14:22.000 There has to be something wrong.

03:14:24.000 You cheat on him and he takes you back.

03:14:25.000 There has to be this voice in your head that's saying, I am by definition dating a beta.

03:14:29.000 Therefore, I should be moving on.

03:14:31.000 And that's the reason why you'll vocally beg him to take you back.

03:14:35.000 At the same time, having less respect for him for taking you back.

03:14:38.000 If you're a man, the best way to get punished by a woman is to do exactly what she tells you. 1.00

03:14:43.000 the best thing i ever did was when i had a disconnect or a not a fight i don't feel like i've ever fought with my boyfriend but like when we had disagreements or disconnect the best thing i did was go talk to his business partner for insight not my girlfriend's because the one time i confided in a close girlfriend we freaking broke up for like a week okay a week and then i went and talked to his partner and but i i go to his business partner who knows him more than anybody What'd he tell you? 0.96

03:15:11.000 Shut up? 0.96

03:15:12.000 No, but he tells me shit that I don't want to hear, but I need to hear. 1.00

03:15:18.000 Like, that's hard for me to hear, but if I didn't hear it, I wouldn't know how to fix it. 0.99

03:15:23.000 It's a hard pill to swallow, but...

03:15:25.000 You have to be careful what you tell your girlfriends.

03:15:27.000 Yes.

03:15:28.000 Well, you can't confide in your girlfriends with your relationship problems. 1.00

03:15:32.000 Isn't it like you have slutty girlfriends like them that you turn into a slut, too? 1.00

03:15:36.000 You just... 1.00

03:15:36.000 They're gonna say, like, hey, come be a slut with me. 1.00

03:15:38.000 Good girlfriends are invaluable. 0.99

03:15:40.000 I love my good girlfriends.

03:15:41.000 They're there for me, and they do things for me that I... I mean, I can talk to them about things, but not my relationship problems.

03:15:47.000 If it's a problem with me and my boyfriend, don't go.

03:15:50.000 I can't go to my girlfriend.

03:15:51.000 If you do, you gotta talk to a girl that's in a happy relationship.

03:15:54.000 Cool.

03:15:54.000 True, yeah.

03:15:56.000 Yeah, there you go.

03:15:57.000 So, cool, guys.

03:15:58.000 Yo, guys, I enjoyed the show.

03:16:00.000 It was great.

03:16:00.000 We had a good panel for the most part.

03:16:02.000 A couple of retards, but it's fine. 1.00

03:16:03.000 But other than that, guys, we'll be back on Friday in Miami.

03:16:07.000 Mr.

03:16:07.000 Organic.

03:16:08.000 Mr.

03:16:08.000 Organic.

03:16:09.000 A couples therapy show at 6 p.m.

03:16:11.000 for a show.

03:16:12.000 Mr.

03:16:12.000 Organic and then girls after.

03:16:14.000 Yeah.

03:16:14.000 Mike, Rollo, where can people find you, man?

03:16:16.000 Yeah, well, I should also announce that we will be in Miami as well on November 6th through the 11th.

03:16:22.000 Yes.

03:16:22.000 And we will have a divorce attorney, James Sexton, coming with us for that whole week.

03:16:28.000 I've got to watch that.

03:16:28.000 So we will have, we'll be doing at least three, maybe four shows with you guys.

03:16:32.000 And we're going to be doing, well, we'll be on with Adam Sosnick as well on Thursday doing a big panel show.

03:16:38.000 So we'll have Jim Sexton with us.

03:16:40.000 And Mike will be there.

03:16:41.000 I'll be here.

03:16:42.000 And then I'm actually moving on.

03:16:44.000 On the 23rd, I'm going to Kenya.

03:16:47.000 He's going to Africa. 0.85

03:16:49.000 You're moving?

03:16:50.000 No, I'm not moving.

03:16:51.000 He's moving.

03:16:52.000 Roll over.

03:16:52.000 Big announcement.

03:16:55.000 He is moving his family to Kenya.

03:16:58.000 He gave up on America.

03:17:02.000 I'll be in Dubai on the 25th doing a talk in Dubai and then from there I go to Nairobi for 10 days and then I might go to Qatar after that.

03:17:11.000 We'll see.

03:17:12.000 But I will be in Kenya after that.

03:17:13.000 And then our next show here will be the 16th.

03:17:16.000 16th of November.

03:17:17.000 November 16th, Axis Vegas once again.

03:17:19.000 And you already know where to find me.

03:17:21.000 You've been watching this.

03:17:22.000 You got me.

03:17:23.000 November 25th, we're collecting toys for homeless children in San Diego for the Teddy Ball.

03:17:29.000 If you guys are interested in that, hit me up.

03:17:31.000 On the November 30th, we're collecting toys for a homeless shelter in Los Angeles called Babes in Toyland.

03:17:36.000 And then on the 17th of December, my buddy Dan Fleischman is doing the world's largest toy drive.

03:17:42.000 So we're trying to raise money for homeless children.

03:17:43.000 And what are we doing tomorrow night?

03:17:45.000 Tomorrow night, we are...

03:17:46.000 Oh, I'm hosting the $5,000 costume, sexy costume competition at Tower Night Club.

03:17:51.000 And you're going to want to see what I wear.

03:17:52.000 Yeah, he's coming in there.

03:17:54.000 Sexy.

03:17:54.000 My costume wasn't sexy at all.

03:17:57.000 That's fine.

03:17:58.000 You'll still do fine.

03:17:59.000 And guys, all the girls' Instagrams are below, not the girls at LeftFuckThem, and we'll catch you guys on the next episode of Fresh and Fit on Friday.

03:18:04.000 Peace.

03:18:07.000 All right.

03:18:07.000 Bye-bye.

03:18:09.000 If maybe we could talk again It made me think a gift for it

Fresh & Fit - February 08, 2024

FreshandFit Take Over Las Vegas!

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