Girl Asked AB If He Paid Child Support And THIS Happened!
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In this episode, we introduce ourselves and talk about where we grew up, what we do for a living, and what we are looking for in a significant other. We hope you enjoy this double header and stay tuned for part 2 of the double header! (Part 1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) (12) (13) (14) (15) (16) (17) (18) (19) (20) (21) (22) (23) (24) (25) (26) (27) (28) (29) (30) (31) (32) (33) (34) (35) (36) (37) (38) (39) (40) (41) (42) (44) (45) (46) (47) (48) (49) (50) (51) (52) (1) How long have you been dating? How old are you?? What do you do for work ? Do you have a relationship status ? What are you looking for a job ? Is your relationship status? Is it single ? Are you in a relationship ? Can you be single or married ? Does your partner like you? And so on and so on. Thank you so much for listening to this episode of The Friendship Podcast! We really appreciate you guys. We really do appreciate all the support we ve gotten from all of you. We are looking forward to the next episode and we hope you ll give us a listen to this one. We lllllllll. We will see you next week! XOXO, Kristy, Katie, Jerilee, Rosely, Diamond, and Kaitlyn. Cheers! Kristy and Rosely - Kristy Rosely & Kaitlynn Katie, Kae, Jenelle J.J., Jerilee , Kassy & Kae Cheyenne and Kaelyn . We hope y'all enjoy this episode! We ll see ya soon! xoxo, Kristie, Kaelynn, Jenelle, , and Kacy Love ya! Love you!
Transcript
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After our district, we're enjoying the full house in AB. Let's get into it.
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It's going to be rumble.com slash FreshFit, because you guys know that's the home base for FreshFit, and also check us out on castleclub.tv.
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So if we ever get banned, you know exactly where to find us, because we make controversial stuff.
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And then my highest education is I am currently in school for my bachelor's in marketing.
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Last time you were here, did you do OnlyFans last time?
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I'm from Baltimore, Maryland, but I've been in Miami for a minute now.
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I dropped out of college my senior year for biomedical engineering.
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So high school was the highest completed, right?
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And then I graduated from college last year and then I'm planning to go to...
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Did you go to college here or back in Colombia?
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So you're looking for a job, I'm guessing, because you just graduated.
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You're looking for a job because you just graduated?
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I'm from Pennsylvania, but I live down here now.
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Okay, I have a question, but we're in a time crunch here.
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I have a bachelor's in advertising and public relations.
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Graduated Eastern Washington University with a certified nursing assistant.
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Did you go to high school in Arizona or Washington?
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I recently moved here from Scottsdale like two months ago.
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You know it's bad when I'm already writing this stuff for her.
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Are you still doing your podcasting stuff or what?
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Yeah, you can catch me at one of 3.5 at Beat in Miami.
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Oh, it's only like, it's only like day 12, right?
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To be an L. To be an L. To be an L. To be an L. Complicated.
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Okay, so you went to high school here and everything?
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So you were born in Cuba but you came here when you were like 15?
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So it's the same girl that I talked about last time, remember?
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My name is Jordan River or Juden River on Instagram.
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You said Juden River, so I was like, wait, what?
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Previously I worked in sales and I teach yoga occasionally.
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Alright, how does your education level complete it?
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It's actually cute, it's beautiful, and it's funny.
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So he's in a community that I'm not allowed to say on here.
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So he's in here, and my friend was like, hey, there's this guy.
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I need someone creative around me to spark my creativity.
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He's been here for a month, and he's definitely more successful than people that I know, that have been here for years.
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Well, if you keep his ass up, where it don't go?
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Did you meet him in Mississippi or did you meet him there?
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Well, hopefully when this is all over, together you can cross a river.
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If you want to be a nurse, I'll be a nurse too.
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Of all the hats that you wear, which one is your predominant form of income?
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Okay, what kind of content do you make on Kick?
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I do it with my nephew and we be talking about OnlyFans and laughing about it.
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High school, just high school diploma, whatever it's called.
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I was gonna say, like, you graduated high school when you were 20 or what's going on?
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No, I started school late because I'm, like, my family came from Cuba, like, super late and shit.
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Well, I was born and raised here, yeah, but my mom, you know, my mom, like, with the whole Cuba shit, she had to go back and forth and stuff.
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So before the show, we actually had the girls write down some questions that they might have.
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So AB, these are from the girls for you, right?
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Yeah, I used to get ahead in the car, they call it Uber Eats.
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Okay, we have up next, and by the way, if you want to say who it was, you can just raise your hand if you want to say who it was.
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Yeah, the questions are anonymous, but you can, if you want to raise your hand.
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Okay, somebody asks as well, it says, AB, have you ever fingered someone with that ring?
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Okay, so they're asking Latinas, black, or white girls.
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So they want to know, white girls, Spanish, or black girls?
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White girls are going to suck at sloppy, you know.
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To be honest, that was my paper in Reading, right?
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Would you rather marry the person you lost your virginity to or work the first job for the rest of your life?
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What is your most recent investment or something you want to invest in?
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It can't be worse than a chance to play questions.
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Alright, they said, I'll ask it, but I don't know why, I don't even know who they're talking about here, but they said, are you going to do a DNA test for Jewel's little girl?
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And the last one here, what's your celebrity crush?
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What's the lady who's seen the milkshake to the yard?
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So, we'll do some chats real quick and then get into the questions.
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Okay, so Farber says, Ladies, if a famous person did a heinous crime to you, would you file charges against them and they'll go to prison or sue them for a large sum of money?
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I guess if someone did something crazy to you with a crime, would you file a charge against them or sue them for a large sum of money?
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You think I can tell a white doctor I got blue balls?
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Okay, what's the other option if they would go to prison?
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So if someone does something to you, you just walk away?
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Because I don't believe in sending black men to jail.
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So, if you're white or anybody else, you can ask and go.
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I'm probably going to try to sue them if I can afford a lawyer because they're going to probably have a better lawyer than me.
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Would you not rather get sued than go to prison?
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To sue someone for financial compensation, then put them in jail so they don't do that to somebody else.
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Oh, so that means I got good character then, because I said I'm sitting there ass to jail.
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I was like, wait, he committed an heinous crime against You don't want to put him in prison so he doesn't do it to someone else.
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You'd rather sue him and let him do it to somebody else.
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And y'all get mad at me when I say women shouldn't vote bro.
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I think a woman's vote should be half of a man's vote is what I think.
00:26:13.000
Because not only did you say, okay, I'm going to let you bitches vote, but it just definitely don't matter as much as mine is a man.
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Yeah, I don't think so because women don't have to join in selective service.
00:26:36.000
What's the likelihood of that happening in our day and age now?
00:26:41.000
Do you not know that we're in two wars right now?
00:26:51.000
So with Israel, with Russia and Ukraine, and then right now with Yemen, yeah, we're probably going to be at World War III very soon.
00:26:58.000
See, this is why a woman's vote should be high.
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Don't be an asshole, but this is why I think a woman's vote should be 50% of a man's, bro.
00:27:10.000
That's not a good enough point to just say we should be at the vote.
00:27:15.000
Because you're literally just saying that women shouldn't vote because we don't go to war.
00:27:22.000
If I'm not mistaken, you said earlier that you would blackmail the guy, right?
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I said she shouldn't blackmail because she's going to go to jail too.
00:27:42.000
You're just conforming to the idea and endorsing it.
00:27:47.000
That's all sexist because men and women are different.
00:27:50.000
So you really just don't think that women are entitled to vote?
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No, they should vote, but I think their vote should be 50% of a man's.
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If you don't have to serve in the military, and you don't have obligations to the government, then you should not get a full vote.
00:28:14.000
It's not like we're not pulling the weight here.
00:28:16.000
Someone needs to impregnate you for that to happen.
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50-50 though, I'm saying we're pulling the weight still.
00:28:33.000
We live off men, because we do need their money.
00:28:40.000
As a female that's done construction, I'm gonna say that that's not 100% true.
00:28:44.000
I would listen to what a man say if he's paying me.
00:28:46.000
What percentage of women actually work in construction?
00:28:53.000
I really like that you said that, because they'd be at 7-Eleven.
00:28:57.000
I count out how many women there are and how many men there are.
00:29:07.000
The job can get done without that female there, is my point.
00:29:10.000
Okay, so if we give up our right to vote, do we get to give up our right to pay taxes?
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My thing is, if you don't have to join the military, and you don't have to go into selective service, I don't think you should have a full vote.
00:29:26.000
You're not giving birth to new American children.
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A woman carries a child for nine months, though.
00:29:36.000
I feel like I lost a brain cell from hearing this conversation.
00:29:40.000
You have not been able to back up your stance at all.
00:29:45.000
Whoever said I lost a brain cell, you have not been able to back up your stance.
00:30:00.000
I mean, there's so many things that apply to politics than war.
00:30:07.000
War is just a portion of what's all of politics.
00:30:17.000
I mean, it's just a small portion of politics, do you know what I mean?
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Like, there's so many other factors in politics than war.
00:30:24.000
Right, and the likelihood of it being a selective service type of situation is kind of...
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But if you're just playing on war, it's such a...
00:30:47.000
How much you gonna charge your old man for that pussy, though?
00:30:52.000
That's a question you're probably better suited to answer.
00:30:56.000
Can I go around the table with that one, please?
00:31:00.000
I don't want to make this political or whatever.
00:31:46.000
That nigga gave her 50 shekels and said, fuck Hamas!
00:32:49.000
Why does all that matter if he's just fucking him all night?
00:33:48.000
No, I don't do collabs with strangers, but, like, sugar daddy situations, yeah, 15k to 20k.
00:33:55.000
But they also have to take care of, like, my amenities.
00:33:57.000
Right, but again, y'all are misreading the card.
00:34:00.000
He said if y'all want to fuck somebody for a night.
00:34:08.000
I mean, like, I'm happily taken, so I don't really see a world where I'm hooking up with an old man.
00:34:15.000
Oh, um, probably, like, 50k, probably around there.
00:35:09.000
I either fuck for love or for money, and currently it's been for money.
00:35:23.000
No, because you were saying that you did it for free, so I'm like, let me defend you.
00:35:25.000
No, I did that shit for 20K. And you can go watch the video on OnlyFans.
00:35:35.000
I swear to God, if you fuck Baby Alien, nigga, You got no soul.
00:36:38.000
I had to bring it up because I saw it and I was hoping it wasn't going to be read up.
00:37:09.000
There's nothing but fucking girls selling themselves in Medellin, man.
00:37:29.000
Yeah, so I actually, like, when I moved here to Miami, they reached out for me for, like, an opportunity, because, like, I'm an all-sender.
00:37:46.000
It's only through, like, FanBus, and it's only, like, two videos that...
00:38:04.000
Yeah, well, these hoes are fucking broke men, so...
00:38:08.000
A lot of girls don't have creams, a lot of girls don't have cars.
00:38:15.000
All right, so I have no feelings for this person at all?
00:38:27.000
I got offered a quarter million when I was dancing and said no.
00:38:40.000
If I were to do that, I'd have to be able to at least take a couple months off of work from it.
00:38:55.000
I guess I don't give a fuck how much money women make.
00:38:57.000
Well, listen, that's my price, and if it's not met, I have no interest.
00:39:06.000
You ain't gonna pay that much even for a dowry for a virgin from the Middle East.
00:39:27.000
Because sex is a big energy exchange and I'm very protective of my energy and until I vibe with somebody and I'm willing to give them my energy, I hold off.
00:39:37.000
But have you ever been celibate like when you were younger?
00:39:39.000
I was celibate for three years, a couple years ago.
00:39:44.000
Because usually girls that become celibates because they're big thots, right?
00:39:50.000
I've had sex less than 30 times in my entire life.
00:39:58.000
So, are you of the opinion that if a girl says that she's celibate, it means that she did some whole shit before?
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I feel like if I say I'm celibate, it's because I probably fucked like 30 niggas before.
00:40:06.000
Or you met a man that made you want to go celibate.
00:40:09.000
If I made a man that made you want celibate, then you're not a man for me.
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That's something that made you agree on, I guess.
00:40:29.000
She's all over Twitter saying that I'm going to be Selva until the right guy comes along.
00:40:39.000
She's over here, but she's posting almost naked photos on the internet every day.
00:40:45.000
She can get her money without a man, that's why she's doing that.
00:40:55.000
I don't know about y'all, but I like getting digged down.
00:41:12.000
She said that she wants to be celibate and she's going to make the next guy wait.
00:41:14.000
However, she's posting photos of herself damn near naked on the internet every single day.
00:41:19.000
So all that's proving is that she has no other skill sets or values to bring to the world outside of posting almost naked photos of herself, but she wants a guy to take her seriously.
00:41:31.000
Well, you don't really have to know someone personally if they want you to take them seriously in the confinements of a relationship when men take a big stake in a woman's image.
00:41:53.000
If I build my body like that, it's the point every day I show it off.
00:41:56.000
I think as a woman, it's your job to preserve your value through modesty.
00:42:01.000
And if you want men to respect you, you must first respect yourself.
00:42:09.000
Is it disrespectful to take like booty pics on the internet?
00:42:13.000
I mean, if you want a man to take you seriously, you're going to have a very difficult time doing that.
00:42:18.000
Or you're going to get a guy to be like, hey, you got to stop doing this shit, and then you're going to stop doing it.
00:42:22.000
But what if you met them and you know that they're not just hoeing around, they're just normal girls?
00:42:27.000
Can you imagine if I see a girl's page, I see booty pics, what I'm going to think, only smash.
00:42:31.000
So I'll meet you, but that's a perception I see of you right away.
00:42:36.000
What if you see me in person and I'm wearing a really tight, long dress, With the thing on my head and I'm just showing my eyes.
00:42:50.000
The point I'm trying to make is that if you want men to take you seriously, you have to present yourself in a certain manner.
00:42:55.000
And for her to demand celibacy from men while simultaneously behaving like a whore is counterproductive.
00:43:02.000
Because the man that would actually wait for her wouldn't actually wait for her.
00:43:06.000
That guy's going to want something back in return.
00:43:10.000
Like, you're in a relationship, and you know how guys be making you do that?
00:43:13.000
That means he gives a shit about you, you should be happy.
00:43:17.000
Because you know couples be doing, like, OF? And they be, like, collabing and, like, doing the most swingers?
00:43:24.000
I don't think a guy really loves this chick if he's, like, fucking around the internet for everybody to see.
00:43:29.000
I don't think a man really loves you unless he puts boundaries on you because women do dumb shit.
00:43:36.000
I say all the time I ain't never met a bitch that don't need a little guidance.
00:43:39.000
We all need some guidance for us motherfuckers.
00:43:43.000
Life and death, honestly, I'm anywhere between $3,000 to $5,000.
00:43:52.000
Y'all be capping in just $10,000, $20,000, $50,000, $500,000.
00:43:56.000
First of all, somebody ain't even never gave y'all $5,000.
00:44:16.000
Question ladies, if it was up to you, how many nights a week would you make love with your man?
00:45:19.000
I mean, yeah, yes, my man, I can fuck my man every day.
00:45:22.000
But I'm just saying, I was on a mission that day because I wanted to see how many times I can actually fuck him.
00:45:45.000
Well, kind of three times a day, but whenever he wants, pretty much, honestly.
00:45:54.000
Do you think a girl is useless if she doesn't give her guy sex?
00:45:59.000
How many of you think that she's not useless if she doesn't give sex to her guy?
00:46:12.000
I don't like those kinds of- She's probably gay and she doesn't know it.
00:46:47.000
If you really like your man, you can literally fuck him every day.
00:46:49.000
If you have a connection, real connection, you can do it every day.
00:47:00.000
Well, you could sell it for five years, but like, if you had to.
00:47:03.000
If I was, yeah, if I was with somebody at least once a day, probably.
00:47:07.000
And if they need more than that, I'd also give them a hall pass.
00:47:13.000
If he wants more than I'm down for, then fuck it, yeah.
00:47:16.000
I would never, like, I don't know, I just feel like guys have needs, and most guys that I've been with had a higher sex drive than me, so I let them, you know.
00:47:26.000
Yeah, if they're wanting to do more than me, I understand that they got needs.
00:47:50.000
I don't want to just suck your dick because I'm going to want to fuck.
00:47:59.000
So recently, Larsa Pippen and Michael Jordan's son were on a talk show.
00:48:05.000
I don't know why this is relevant, but they put it everywhere on social media.
00:48:08.000
They were saying that they fuck five times a day.
00:48:21.000
No, with Michael Jordan's son, five times a day.
00:48:27.000
And to give you a little rundown, Larsa Pippen dated, obviously, Hall of Famer Scottie Pippen.
00:48:32.000
You know, championships with the Bulls six times with Michael Jordan.
00:48:39.000
She's in her 40s or 50s now, if I'm not mistaken.
00:48:45.000
I think when he made the Gucci flip-flops songs, he was talking about her, actually.
00:48:48.000
Matter of fact, I just smashed a bitch with Gucci flip-flops.
00:48:51.000
And then now she's with Michael Jordan's son, who's, I don't know how old he is.
00:49:03.000
Honestly, if that was my mom, I probably wouldn't talk to her as much.
00:49:10.000
Especially with all the history between the Pippins and the Jordans.
00:50:02.000
Well, basketball player's son, and I was dating him.
00:50:07.000
I don't know the details between that, but she's fucking him now five times a day.
00:50:19.000
I think since she's a woman, you guys are more likely to shit on her, but if it was a man doing it regularly, which happens all the time, it wouldn't be even talked about or something to have a take on in general.
00:50:42.000
She probably got more experience than younger girls.
00:50:44.000
Would you leave your husband of multiple years with kids to go fuck a younger guy?
00:50:57.000
She divorced him to run around Hollywood and have her fun.
00:50:59.000
And then she ended up getting with her ex-husband's teammate's son.
00:51:14.000
She probably just became super unhappy and decided to leave.
00:51:21.000
Fear of missing out, you think, is what it was?
00:51:25.000
Do you think fear of missing out is a tool of happiness or destruction for women?
00:51:33.000
Think really hard about this one, ladies, because we're going to have a deep discussion on this one.
00:51:54.000
My thing with her is, because I don't mind her being older and fucking on younger guys, because, you know, it's fun, right?
00:52:02.000
But, I wonder how much does she do it out of actually want to, because she's just telling her, telling us this whole story about how Scottie Pimmie used to make her fly in places just because he had to have sex with her.
00:52:12.000
So now I'm like, okay, well, you were emotionally abused so bad in that relationship, so you think that's regular now.
00:52:19.000
So it's like, so I don't know, like, I don't really care.
00:52:23.000
Y'all like, you know, keep me a little 20-year-old in my pocket every now and again, too.
00:52:28.000
She should have just cheated and I left her husband.
00:52:36.000
I don't know if she cheated on him, but I know that she divorced him.
00:52:41.000
I honestly, I don't agree with what she did, because if it was me and I was married and had children, I would never leave my man, no matter what.
00:52:52.000
I would be faithful, even if he cheated, whatever I'd say with him.
00:52:55.000
Because if I'm going to settle down and do something as grandiose as have children, that's a blessing from God.
00:53:01.000
And honestly, that should never be broken up family.
00:53:36.000
But she's not getting paid for that, though, right?
00:53:46.000
Because, you know, I don't know who that is, but I mean, there's nothing wrong.
00:53:51.000
Like, there's nothing wrong if you want to leave your partner for whatever reason.
00:53:54.000
You got to think, like, put yourself first, you know?
00:54:01.000
Like, you know, you can see your kids later on.
00:54:13.000
I think you don't know what goes on behind the scenes.
00:54:22.000
And I feel like there are communities in Hollywood.
00:54:28.000
And when you have someone fresh, untouched, there's a dominant role there as well.
00:54:55.000
If they've been broken down and they don't know what a good man is, they want to feel more empowered.
00:55:09.000
She should have just like done her thing on the side.
00:55:38.000
I don't care if you're cheating on me, congrats.
00:55:42.000
I'm sure I could pull something too on the side.
00:55:48.000
Now, the question that I said before, do you think fear of missing out is a tool for women to be happy or a tool of destruction long term?
00:56:03.000
Do you think fear of missing out, FOMO, girls always say it, and girls always have it, do you think it's a tool of destruction, long term, or a tool of happiness?
00:56:16.000
I believe if your man is giving you a good life, and it is a man who's working to become better, there's no FOMO. I mean, if you're relying on your man, but if you create, you should live your life before you decide to be in relationship.
00:56:36.000
FOMO to me could be different than what FOMO is to anyone in the room.
00:56:42.000
Traveling, experiencing different cultures, being in certain parts of nature.
00:56:50.000
No, but some women are with men who cannot afford the lifestyle that they dream that they want.
00:57:03.000
Okay, you gave a couple different things there.
00:57:05.000
Okay, so is it a tool of destruction or happiness in your opinion?
00:57:15.000
I think it starts out as happiness because we're doing it to figure things out.
00:57:22.000
So we're looking for that happy place, but you just end up running yourself down a rabbit hole and you end up sad and even more depressed.
00:57:30.000
I think it depends on what we're getting FOMO over.
00:57:33.000
Because some stuff might be like you see people doing luxurious things and you're like, I got to get my money up so I can do this too.
00:57:40.000
But then your job obviously doesn't afford you those nice luxurious things, so now you have to figure out how do I make more money to be able to even do these luxury things.
00:57:48.000
I'm an entrepreneur, so if I see something that I want to do, I figure out how to get it.
00:57:51.000
Right, and that's amazing because you're an entrepreneur, but we're talking about everybody else.
00:57:56.000
And also, you've got to understand that being that entrepreneur might disqualify you from other opportunities in life, because let's be honest here, most girls, when they become entrepreneurs, what do they do?
00:58:25.000
Now it's my time to do me and travel, grow as a person, figure out who I am.
00:58:42.000
So you think it's good because it can create opportunities for you to become resourceful and make money?
00:58:49.000
Even if getting that money comes at the cost of...
00:58:52.000
I mean, we never said how people were getting money.
00:58:57.000
But I mean, as long as you're doing it in a positive way, then yeah.
00:59:00.000
Generally, when women make large sums of money to get a luxurious lifestyle, they're doing it through sex work.
00:59:07.000
I'd say that's probably the norm right now, but that's not always what it is.
00:59:26.000
I've made hundreds of thousands in all of those.
00:59:29.000
Then why didn't you stick with the construction then?
00:59:34.000
I'm just not hands-on anymore because my time is worth more if I'm doing content and working on that.
00:59:47.000
I'm just saying, like, I have a lot of different...
00:59:49.000
There's a celebrity girl when you work in sex...
01:00:01.000
You don't have to fuck on camera to be doing sex work.
01:00:05.000
Well, remember, you don't necessarily have to have sex for it to be sex work.
01:00:15.000
Anytime you sexualize yourself for monetary compensation, whether it's stripping, OnlyFans, you can even make the argument maybe even being a bottle girl or any of this other stuff, that is considered sex work to a degree.
01:00:27.000
Whether it's hardcore pornography all the way over to just go-go dancing.
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It's like you're selling a dream or a possibility of it happening, the person's paying for that interest in you.
01:00:37.000
Everyone has different levels to it, but I would say conservatively, Porn star all the way to, you know, being a stripper, that's all considered sex work.
01:00:48.000
Because those girls that have full-on careers are sugar babies, too.
01:00:52.000
Okay, FOMO. Anybody else want to comment on this?
01:00:55.000
The question was, does FOMO cause long-term destruction or long-term happiness?
01:01:10.000
I mean, let's say yesterday I had a little argument with my girl because I'm trying to go to Cancun next month.
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And she's a bartender at a club, but right now she's not making enough money.
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And also she's going to school, so she can't go with me.
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And I feel sometimes that I can't do things that I want to do.
01:01:31.000
Like right now I gotta wait for her to finish school like four more months if I want to travel because she wouldn't let me go with my friends.
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Like she didn't let me go to a club with my friends or like go have lunch.
01:01:48.000
Out of curiosity, if you were with a man, would you tolerate any of this?
01:01:52.000
Let's say that the girl that you were with was a man and she couldn't afford to go with you on vacation or anything else like that.
01:02:01.000
Not even from a girl, I feel like that's jealousy.
01:02:04.000
I feel like she's so toxic because she's a girl.
01:02:09.000
My question is, clearly she's not financially adequate.
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Would you tolerate that from a man is my question.
01:02:16.000
Would you tolerate a man that can't take you on trips and stuff like that?
01:02:20.000
Would you tolerate that from a dude, what she's doing right now?
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Because in your brain a man is supposed to do this and you're giving her a pass because she's a girl.
01:02:36.000
And you're actually fucking yourself because...
01:02:39.000
Conclusion, women can be useless in relationships.
01:02:43.000
They don't got to bring nothing to the fucking table, bro.
01:02:45.000
I want to do so many things with her, and I tell her, and she is not financially stable right now.
01:02:54.000
So it's kind of hard, and she's like, oh, if you want to go, just go, but don't be with me.
01:03:09.000
I'm telling you right now, that won't last too long.
01:03:24.000
What if he was successful, rich, and she liked him?
01:03:29.000
If he was successful, good looking, you like him, connection is there.
01:03:32.000
I actually have options, and I haven't done it.
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So if I haven't done it, we've been dating for seven months.
01:03:39.000
If I haven't done it yet, I won't probably do it.
01:03:42.000
You won't leave her, but you've had sex with other guys, so...
01:04:05.000
The reason why we don't believe it is because women are not that interesting where we're going to sit there and hang out with you and pay you to hang out with you.
01:04:19.000
They might not have the balls to tell you I want to smash, but the point is this.
01:04:26.000
But the thing is that they might not be able to execute it, but that does not change my bottom line that they want to have sex.
01:04:30.000
And the reason why is because most women are simply not that interesting.
01:04:32.000
At that moment, you're getting paid to hang out.
01:04:41.000
That's what they want to do, but they just don't have the balls or the charisma or the charm to be able to do it.
01:04:53.000
But that does not refute my point that they want to have sex.
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Whether they can accomplish it or not is null and void.
01:05:07.000
Just out of curiosity, what does that have to do with the conversation?
01:05:17.000
What's the longest relationship you've been in?
01:05:26.000
I know exactly what that means when they say, do you have a relationship or do you have a girlfriend?
01:05:29.000
You're trying to see if I'm qualified to speak on this.
01:05:33.000
No, when's the longest relationship you've been in?
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And it's going to make sense when I bring a full circle.
01:05:52.000
What if I told you I'm the one that picks who gets a relationship and I'm selective on who I commit to?
01:06:02.000
Like you asking me if I'm in a relationship is like me asking you if you have sex.
01:06:08.000
It's a stupid question because you control who fucks, I control who gets a relationship.
01:06:13.000
Okay, but what's the longest relationship you've been in?
01:06:19.000
That's like me asking you, what's the longest you've gone having sex?
01:06:23.000
It's about having a relationship and building something with someone and connecting with someone.
01:06:27.000
Do you not see the logic of what I'm trying to explain here?
01:06:29.000
No, I understand, but it's irrelevant to my question.
01:06:32.000
Like you're saying, if you want to be with her, she'll be with you.
01:06:51.000
Would you prefer a guy get down on one knee and marry you or you get down on one knee and marry you?
01:06:59.000
Anyway, see how your logic is getting destroyed all over the place?
01:07:03.000
So what I'm trying to say is that for you to ask me, oh, are you in a relationship and how long has it been?
01:07:08.000
That's like me asking you, do you have sex and what's the longest you've had sex?
01:07:10.000
That's a ridiculous question because you pick who fucks.
01:07:14.000
No, I do, actually, if you want to go down that road.
01:07:17.000
And she's prettier than you, if you want to have that conversation.
01:07:22.000
I think she helped you serve you some drinks already.
01:07:34.000
Because I know when women ask that question what they're trying to get at.
01:07:46.000
I'm never going to allow a girl to ever cheat on me.
01:08:07.000
And she's interesting because she just, yeah, she's an interesting girl.
01:08:17.000
So you just don't agree with, like, traditional relationships?
01:08:23.000
Well, I come from a background where the men have multiple women.
01:08:27.000
So, yeah, I don't think, you know, monogamy is not a lie.
01:08:32.000
Most guys don't want to be monogamous to one girl.
01:08:33.000
Even if you're a Jewish guy right now, he probably wants multiple girls.
01:08:45.000
No, I was just curious because you have a business and a background and you talk about relationships and things and it was just like, what is yours?
01:08:54.000
There's a difference between being a man and talking about it and a woman talking about it.
01:08:58.000
It's not about qualifications and experience you have.
01:09:00.000
Well, I would say the man's opinion is more important because women are trying to get relationships and men are the one that give out relationships, so therefore you must adhere to what the man wants.
01:09:08.000
For example, if you go to a bank, you have to be qualified to get a loan.
01:09:12.000
You can't go in there with a fucking 400 credit score and say, I want a nice interest loan.
01:09:16.000
They're going to be like, get the fuck out of here.
01:09:20.000
The different caliber of man, the better the bank and the better the interest rates, depending on where you qualify.
01:09:25.000
If you have a shitty credit score, aka you're a slut, you might not qualify for the man that you want.
01:09:33.000
The bank picks you and gives you the loan, not the other way around.
01:09:48.000
One of the mistakes that women make a lot, which is why so many women stay chronically single, is they think they have more power in a relationship than they really do.
01:10:00.000
And it's your job to identify that guy and then adhere to his thing and make his life easier so that he actually wants to keep you around.
01:10:08.000
And what I mean by game is, can you keep a guy after you fuck him?
01:10:20.000
Well, it goes back perfectly to what I said before, FOMO, right?
01:10:22.000
So I asked you guys earlier, fear of missing out.
01:10:25.000
Is it a tool to long-term happiness or long-term destruction?
01:10:28.000
I think it's a tool to long-term destruction because girls look on Instagram.
01:10:32.000
They see these girls living this yacht lifestyle.
01:10:36.000
They see these girls with YSL. They see these girls in nice cars, et cetera.
01:10:39.000
And they're like, damn, I want a guy like that.
01:10:42.000
My boyfriend can't provide me that life or I can't travel, whatever.
01:10:46.000
Either A, I'm going to go get it myself, which to get that kind of luxurious lifestyle without skills, you're going to have to do sex work, let's be honest here, right?
01:10:53.000
Or B, I'm going to find a guy that could provide it to me.
01:10:56.000
They find that guy, but what ends up happening is they just end up being on his sex roster versus never getting committed to.
01:11:02.000
And, you know, or maybe they end up a sugar baby, whatever it may be.
01:11:05.000
But the reality is I think the grass is always greener on the other side.
01:11:07.000
And then Oh, I deserve a guy that's a millionaire.
01:11:11.000
And the next thing you know, you're just on a sex rotation.
01:11:12.000
You can't land this guy and keep him long term because you don't qualify.
01:11:20.000
And that's where a lot of women find themselves.
01:11:22.000
Perpetually single going from bank to bank to bank to bank trying to get a fucking loan in the camp.
01:11:27.000
But you can become successful through other ways other than sex work.
01:11:35.000
Maybe the girls you talk to, but the women I know are business owners and they're killing it.
01:11:40.000
But very few women are actual business owners that are high-earning.
01:11:44.000
Most of them that are super, super high-earning, making $100K a month, all this other shit, they're doing it through sex work, man.
01:11:50.000
Maybe in Miami, but there are very successful women who have successful businesses.
01:12:11.000
But ultimately, let's be real here, generally, if a woman wants to make money, what's she going to do?
01:12:22.000
The richest women in the world, they all got it through a divorce.
01:12:27.000
They got it through divorce or getting it given to them by a husband dying or something like that, but it wasn't self-made, man.
01:12:34.000
So I'm not saying that to shit on women, but what I am saying is that FOMO definitely hurts women.
01:12:39.000
And then I'll argue with social media and the internet being put in their face and all the guys and men DMing them, whatever.
01:12:46.000
They forget that the guy that they have is a good guy.
01:12:52.000
Maybe he doesn't have sparkling white teeth and good looking.
01:12:59.000
And then they go fuck with that NBA player, and next thing you know, he never talks to her again.
01:13:05.000
But it's like, no, you're picking a guy that you don't qualify for.
01:13:10.000
You can fuck one of these dudes for a night, but can you keep him?
01:13:18.000
Like, yo, it's easy for a girl to fucking get dudes easily.
01:13:21.000
Every single one of you here on the panel can get a date with a multi-millionaire tomorrow.
01:13:25.000
But my question is, can you get him to get down on one knee and marry you?
01:13:28.000
I feel like it's better to be with a brokie and build him than be with someone who's rich.
01:13:46.000
How many of you agree it's better to get with a guy that's a brokie and build him up?
01:13:57.000
I wouldn't say like a full out brokie but I've definitely been with guys that were starting their business that were doing okay and I've helped them build their business like I've brought in big big deals and stuff like a three million dollar project like I've definitely helped people.
01:14:15.000
They're still on my phone proposing and telling me they want to have a baby with me.
01:14:33.000
Ask her, would she get with a guy and stay with it?
01:14:35.000
Like, would she get with a brokie and build him up?
01:14:54.000
There are two types of women that will never build with you.
01:15:01.000
Russians and Colombians, they want you pre-assembled, baby.
01:15:04.000
They're not fucking gonna sit there and build with you.
01:15:13.000
Well, I'm getting my license to teach Pilates, so...
01:15:19.000
She's gonna be married, like, by the end of the year, baby.
01:15:31.000
She turned it right because she knows she's full of shit, man.
01:15:42.000
So I used to have a boyfriend, but we broke up.
01:15:51.000
When she says she's single and I'm free, stress-free, that's what she meant.
01:16:10.000
But like we were talking about before, if someone does something to you and then you take it to court like that, I had the opportunity with him,
01:16:50.000
He just, like, walked in the house and fired off on you?
01:16:59.000
So, at 36, I wouldn't, but I did it in the past.
01:17:06.000
Well, I have kids and stuff, so I can't be with no broke guy.
01:17:30.000
When I met my ex, he didn't have money like that.
01:17:37.000
Could you be with someone that you make more money than them?
01:17:44.000
Yeah, when you get older, you're gonna understand.
01:17:47.000
I think broke boys are more loyal, and so I'd rather...
01:17:53.000
That's the only thing you said correct on this podcast.
01:18:11.000
They might still cheat, but I'll hire somebody who's really, really rich and has a status.
01:18:18.000
True, but they're going to cheat anyway, so what's the point of having a brokie?
01:18:21.000
If you're gonna get cheated on, you might as well get cheated on by a rich guy.
01:18:32.000
Would you rather create a Rolls Royce or a Toyota Corolla?
01:18:35.000
And I know this is very difficult to fathom, but I can tell you that I care for my woman very much, but I've hooked up with other girls, but I care about my girl the most.
01:18:48.000
But I'd rather stick with the more loyal one and try to build a life together and think that they're going to be more loyal.
01:18:54.000
Hold on, go back to why you say you think broke guys are more loyal.
01:18:56.000
Because they're giving you everything they got.
01:19:04.000
Guys with status, they have girls throwing themselves at them.
01:19:15.000
No, I feel like the brokies are like the beta men in this world.
01:19:21.000
I mean, there's a bunch of beta rich dudes too.
01:19:32.000
But like I said, I have in the past, and no, I wish I would.
01:19:38.000
I have also, and I feel like you're building up a man for somebody else.
01:19:45.000
I also feel like you get screwed more ways than once, like emotionally, mentally, and then your time is wasted and you can never get it back.
01:19:56.000
I'd rather be cheated on whatever with a rich guy than be with somebody who's broke that you spent so much blood, sweat, and tears trying to make this man a better person for him to go off with another woman.
01:20:20.000
Did you build him up and then he made a lot of money?
01:20:36.000
You know one thing I don't like is when you teach somebody how to have sex with you?
01:20:40.000
Like, the perfect way, and then you gotta break up with them.
01:21:20.000
I know I make more money than her, but she's not broke.
01:21:24.000
You know when you work at a club, it's like high season, you know?
01:21:28.000
It's a little fucked up out here in these streets right now.
01:21:40.000
My first boyfriend, he was broke, and he didn't have that mentality, because you can be broke, but you can have a vision, you know?
01:21:47.000
And if you don't have that, I cannot wait for you, baby, you know?
01:22:00.000
All right, so that's a no for you, but she could be a broke bitch, though.
01:22:07.000
Actually, she was the one that brought this conversation.
01:22:22.000
Have you dated a broke guy before and built him up?
01:22:34.000
Because I actually have high expectations and I want to help my family and help myself.
01:22:44.000
It's not that love doesn't pay the bills, because I feel like if you find someone that's right for you, they will do what they have to do.
01:22:50.000
But, like, I'm not going to build someone up, hype them up, gas them up, or what, so they could use that against me.
01:22:56.000
I have to build myself up and put my self-love and put self-love in me so I can meet the right person in the future.
01:23:03.000
I guess I'll just ask this question, and we won't go on it too much, because this is a dead horse here, but I might as well ask...
01:23:20.000
I mean, if he wants me to stay loyal, like, I'll stay loyal.
01:23:27.000
I don't even think she knows how to spell loyal.
01:24:28.000
This is the one thing that me and him disagree on.
01:24:30.000
I don't believe in numerology at all or astrology.
01:24:33.000
He's made so many crazy points on so many different things and have you seen how he gambles?
01:24:50.000
Okay, you said that you'll build a guy up so you don't have to worry.
01:24:55.000
If you got with a guy that had money and everything and you didn't have to build him up, would you be okay with him having other women?
01:25:24.000
Since you don't want to build a man up, are you okay with him having other women?
01:25:42.000
Are you going to go through his phone and try to find it or not?
01:25:47.000
Yeah, as long as I don't see it, I don't really care.
01:25:59.000
Well, you said you're okay with a guy that's a little bit more average.
01:26:15.000
Men and women are okay with calling themselves average.
01:26:17.000
Women have a serious problem with the word average.
01:26:21.000
You know average, that's the most of the population, right?
01:26:37.000
Are you okay with him having other women since you don't want to build them up?
01:26:41.000
I'm not okay with it, but I think it's going to happen regardless.
01:26:49.000
Okay, so he doesn't smash her and be like, hey baby, look at this.
01:26:53.000
So for you, you're like them, out of sight, out of mind?
01:26:56.000
It's not what I would agree with, but I just think it's going to happen regardless.
01:27:30.000
As long as there's honesty, I consider that loyalty.
01:27:35.000
As long as you're being honest, I'm cool with anything.
01:27:41.000
She just said honesty is loyalty, so I'm cool with that.
01:27:46.000
But didn't you just say a second, you don't want to see it?
01:27:51.000
Okay, so he's going to tell you, I ain't going to be a monogamous, but you just don't want to see it.
01:27:54.000
Because there's a right way to do the wrong thing.
01:27:56.000
The wrong way to cheat on me is to be lying to me and say, hey baby, I'm over here, I'm doing this and this, but you're over here doing this.
01:28:02.000
If you're just not saying shit, you ain't lying.
01:28:15.000
And then also I would love to join in on the fun.
01:28:21.000
Yeah, I don't think guys should ever do a threesome with their main girl, though.
01:28:26.000
Something that I learned, like, I promise if a guy really likes you, like, as sexually fluid as I am, like, they're like, no, we're not doing that.
01:28:34.000
I'm like, damn, they're like bitches, damn, but they will not do it.
01:28:40.000
Yeah, well, the reason why is because it opens, because you asked me why, right?
01:28:46.000
Once your girl, like, visually sees you have sex with another girl, that's when the questions are going to come.
01:28:56.000
But be honest, though, no matter how you love, you'll love all your heart.
01:29:00.000
Matter of fact, there's an That's kind of like saying water is wet.
01:29:10.000
I mean, look, all of you have a full face of makeup on, hair done, clothes on, etc.
01:29:37.000
Okay, let's go ahead and get the makeup remover.
01:29:49.000
I got makeup remover for the girls that are confident enough, but my point I'm trying to make is simply this.
01:30:02.000
My point is simply that women are naturally insecure and there's a billion dollar industry, multi-billion dollar industry that profits from it.
01:30:08.000
Plastic surgery, makeup, heels, clothing, waist trainers.
01:30:13.000
There's an entire industry backed on women spending money for beauty.
01:30:24.000
Do you really think that men spend a fraction of the amount of money that women do on beautification?
01:30:39.000
You're talking about a small demographic of metrosexual men.
01:30:43.000
Metrosexual men that might or might not be homosexual as well.
01:30:46.000
But the reality is the beauty industry exists and thrives because of women, not because of men.
01:30:53.000
Do you think it's just because we're taught at a young age that women are supposed to do their makeup?
01:30:59.000
No, it's because women understand that their inherent value stems from their beauty.
01:31:04.000
Well, actually, isn't it because we give birth and that we could have children?
01:31:11.000
Well, I'm saying the value of women is that we...
01:31:23.000
Okay, what needs to occur before the sex happens?
01:31:53.000
You just said every girl can go home with a guy tonight.
01:31:59.000
You just said every girl can go home with a guy tonight.
01:32:01.000
I said the girls on this panel are attractive and they can all go with a multi-millionaire tomorrow.
01:32:08.000
Yes, I mean, a more average woman would have a harder time.
01:32:11.000
I bet if you go out on the street, you could get a guy, any one of the girls in here, or even the ugly girls.
01:32:20.000
However, she's going to have a hard time attracting a man when a beautiful one is next to her.
01:32:30.000
Hence, why girls compete with each other and it's through the beauty industry.
01:32:37.000
There are women that you have to identify that are confident and want to look better than they already do.
01:32:45.000
It's an ROI. You're telling me right now, if a man that you love leaves you for a blonde girl, you're not going to go blonde?
01:33:00.000
Is there serious disagreement that the beauty industry is not rooted in females insecurity and that's how they profit?
01:33:07.000
There are a lot of insecure girls, but there's some confident girls that want to be more beautiful than they already are.
01:33:14.000
You're making it seem like everybody's insecure.
01:33:21.000
I just put on makeup when I go in social circle settings, social settings, because I know I... It's a good...
01:33:33.000
The reality is that women are insecure to a degree, which is why they go through the painstaking amounts of surgery, BBLs, breast augmentations, lipo, lips injections, etc.
01:33:47.000
They put themselves through a ridiculous amount of pain, spend a ridiculous amount of money, etc.
01:33:54.000
If that is not proof of insecurity to a degree, I don't know what else is.
01:34:05.000
So you're saying because women want to look better than they look, that means they're insecure?
01:34:13.000
If you're self-improving, right, to a degree, you have a level of insecurity that's just rooted in you.
01:34:18.000
So self-improvement just equals insecurity is what you're saying.
01:34:21.000
But what I would argue is that for women, it's even more so from a beautification standpoint.
01:34:26.000
I'm talking about insecure in your looks, right?
01:34:29.000
Because women are naturally designed to compete with one another to get the highest status man.
01:34:36.000
And they go ahead and they're able to compete by being the most attractive that they can be.
01:34:41.000
There's no such thing as competing with yourself.
01:34:47.000
Men compete by entering the workforce, making more money, trying to be more successful.
01:34:52.000
We're all put on earth to have sex and have children.
01:34:56.000
And we understand the best way to get a mate is different for men.
01:34:58.000
For men, you must acquire status and resources.
01:35:01.000
And to get that beauty, a lot of times it's surgery, makeup, dressing better, heels, etc.
01:35:06.000
Like, I mean, I don't know why you guys have an issue with this, but it's the truth.
01:35:09.000
Women are insecure to a degree, and there's a billion dollar industry that profits from insecurity.
01:35:22.000
I feel better when I have my hair done, makeup done, nails done, eyebrows done, lashes done.
01:35:30.000
Yeah, for the real confident girls, who wants to take their makeup off?
01:35:38.000
Those that are saying that you're not insecure, you better take that makeup off.
01:35:45.000
Because I prefer to not put chemicals on my face.
01:36:17.000
Yeah, but again, like I said, you guys will have to agree with me, but like I said, the numbers don't lie.
01:36:22.000
The number and the statistics are there, but just to say that everybody that does it is insecure, that's wrong.
01:36:28.000
There's a level of insecurity if you are doing the things that a lot of women do to improve their aesthetics.
01:36:36.000
You know what makes me sad about women that wear makeup?
01:36:38.000
The ones that get up in the morning to put on makeup.
01:36:42.000
You don't like your face that much that you wake up and before 1pm you got a full face of makeup on.
01:36:49.000
Now me throwing makeup on because I'm about to be in front of a half a million fucking people.
01:36:56.000
Like why would I cover this motherfucker lips dry, eyebrows dry.
01:37:12.000
Men don't spend a fraction in beautification that women do.
01:37:16.000
But y'all spend money on diamonds and other things that do the same thing.
01:37:22.000
What percentage of men are wearing jewelry and diamonds?
01:37:30.000
Okay, even if they're not getting the real shit, they're wearing fucking plastic CZs, probably.
01:37:35.000
You, again, you're speaking from a very skewed perspective as a female that only deals with men that have money like a lot of other girls from Miami.
01:37:42.000
The reality is most men don't have the ability to buy jewelry.
01:37:44.000
However, even the poorest chicks are getting their nails done and makeup done.
01:38:02.000
I just don't think it's part of being secure or not.
01:38:23.000
I don't normally touch stuff that's not edible.
01:38:26.000
I don't know why you guys are taking your makeup off.
01:38:31.000
That's the only reason why I don't take makeup off.
01:38:40.000
But yeah, that's why I think this whole conversation started because she asked me that question.
01:38:44.000
But yeah, the reason why is because women are insecure in general and you having sex with another girl in front of her might make her feel a certain type of way.
01:38:52.000
Some people went from, like, hot to mid just now.
01:38:56.000
But I feel like women are insecure because men aren't good with just one.
01:39:09.000
I feel like women become insecure because men can't stick to just one.
01:39:14.000
They want so many options, so women start comparing themselves to other women because of men's actions.
01:39:21.000
Like if a man was adequate, like content with one woman.
01:39:28.000
So then they wouldn't feel the need to be so insecure and to change this and this.
01:39:33.000
Well, what if I told you that that's important for the woman to maintain attraction?
01:39:37.000
Yeah, but you think men cheat because they're a woman gets unattractive over the years?
01:39:41.000
Well, I'm not saying that's the reason why, but what I'm saying is that for the relationship to last, the girl needs to feel insecure.
01:39:51.000
But do you like when a girl argues with you for being insecure?
01:39:56.000
I feel women are inferior to me, so I don't argue with that.
01:40:05.000
I mean, I'll argue on a podcast, but in a personal relationship or whatever, I don't argue with women.
01:40:10.000
Because if I argue, that means that I'm an equal to you, and I look at it like men and women are not equal.
01:40:17.000
If you don't like it, then you can get off the ship, and that ship won't be as nice as this one.
01:40:24.000
I'm simply saying that women need to feel some level of insecurity in a relationship for her to feel fulfilled in their relationship.
01:40:39.000
I'll give you an example that all the ladies here can understand.
01:40:57.000
I don't really like wasting my money on this one.
01:41:09.000
So, let's say you're at the Van Cleef store and you buy a bracelet, right?
01:41:28.000
All the other girls you know had to buy it for $10,000, right?
01:41:33.000
Would you go back to the store and get pissed off that you got the best deal?
01:41:43.000
Then you found out your girlfriend only paid $7,000 because she had that coupon.
01:42:02.000
You paid $10,000, but your girlfriend paid $7,000.
01:42:06.000
No, but would you go back to the store with the coupon that she gave you and get that $3,000 back?
01:42:14.000
Okay, but would the ladies here go back and get it?
01:42:21.000
You'd go back and get that 3K? I'll get it three times, yeah.
01:42:25.000
So, in the first scenario, you had the best deal, so you didn't go back, right?
01:42:28.000
Okay, that's how women operate when it comes to dealing with men too.
01:42:32.000
If you feel like you got the best man, you feel satisfied, you don't need to go back to the store.
01:42:37.000
But if you feel like you don't got the best deal, you're gonna trade up for the better deal.
01:42:42.000
So what I mean by this is, the woman needs to feel some level of insecurity and feel like, I can't do better than this guy.
01:42:58.000
That sounds tackler and so many people are like, I got to sit here and play a mental game, like what?
01:43:03.000
No, because what I'm trying to explain is that women always want the bigger, better deal.
01:43:09.000
Just like the same situation, you want the best deal with the Van Cleef that you can get.
01:43:12.000
If you got the best deal, you ain't going back to the store.
01:43:14.000
But if you feel like you didn't get the best deal, you might go back to the store.
01:43:17.000
In your situation, you were like, you know what, maybe it's not worth it.
01:43:20.000
But if you could save $5,000 or get the bracelet for even less, you'll go back.
01:43:30.000
And they only stick with that man if they truly feel like they got the best deal.
01:43:34.000
What's the most honest way that you feel like you got the best deal?
01:43:44.000
So you're satisfied because it's like, I know I got the best that I can do.
01:43:49.000
Yeah, I want my men more when I know other people want him.
01:43:55.000
We don't want a bunch of dudes wanting our chick.
01:43:58.000
If our girl is beautiful to us, that's all that matters.
01:44:01.000
We don't give a fuck about your Instagram following, how much clout you have, how much status you have.
01:44:07.000
Men want a girl that's hot that no one knows about.
01:44:10.000
Women, though, they need a dude that's hot, attractive, other women want, has some status, has money, all this other shit.
01:44:16.000
So women need to feel like they got the best deal.
01:44:18.000
That's why, for us, We don't give a shit if our girl has clout.
01:44:26.000
That's why I always say the girl needs to like the man more.
01:44:29.000
But why do you need to sleep with other people?
01:44:36.000
I'm not saying you actually have to do it, but your girl absolutely needs to think that you can do it.
01:44:49.000
If you're a sucker and she knows that you can't get other girls, then that's when the disrespect comes in.
01:44:55.000
Oh, you're a bitch, you're a loser, blah, blah, blah.
01:44:57.000
But if you can look her dead in the eye and say, cut that shit right now or else you're out the fucking house.
01:45:07.000
But a tenement of masculinity is not taking bullshit from females.
01:45:12.000
And the only way that you're not gonna take bullshit from females is if you have other options.
01:45:41.000
And chimpanzees are the closest to human beings.
01:45:43.000
They took a male chimp with female chimps, and then they took a male chimp with no female chimps.
01:45:48.000
When he had no female chimps with him, the other female chimpanzees didn't want him.
01:45:51.000
But when he had female chimps with him, the other females wanted him.
01:45:56.000
Women want men that have other women, unfortunately, yeah.
01:45:58.000
I mean, and this is all across the animal kingdom.
01:46:05.000
But it's sexy when they turn them down and like, you know, it's...
01:46:11.000
Women want to feel like they're being the one that's picked.
01:46:24.000
Women only respect men that can kick them to the curb.
01:46:33.000
When you're an asshole as a man, you're displaying to her, you are not that important.
01:46:37.000
And that's very rare because women get their asses kissed throughout their entire life.
01:46:40.000
From the time they hit puberty to the time they get into Larsa Pippen into 49, they get their ass kissed by men.
01:46:47.000
For a guy to come in and say, I'm not going to fucking take your shit.
01:46:54.000
Lord Jesus Christ, when somebody act like them, there's a difference in getting attractive later and being attractive your whole life.
01:47:00.000
A lot of these people like to act like that's a foreign concept, but some of us actually were attractive our whole fucking lives.
01:47:17.000
Because we talked about the cheating or whatever, but it's way deeper than the cheating.
01:47:21.000
The man needs to be in a position of dominance and power, and the woman needs to be chasing him.
01:47:29.000
Because when the guy's chasing a girl, she loses respect for you.
01:47:39.000
I think you downplayed the role that masculinity plays, and not necessarily from a financial stance, because I knew a guy who was broke as the fuck, right?
01:47:53.000
So I was like, God damn, you're sexy, but you're broke as shit.
01:47:57.000
Like, you shouldn't be talking like that, because you broke, but it's still sexy, because it's like, ooh, I'm still a man buying attention, because I'm a man.
01:48:04.000
That there's broke guys that are betas, and I said there's rich guys that are betas, too, when she said that.
01:48:09.000
I never said that you have to have money to be a dominant guy.
01:48:11.000
There's plenty of broke guys that are dominant.
01:48:25.000
The problem is that most guys can't pull it off because it's very difficult to be confident and tell a girl what it is when you're a brokie because women need to feel like they can defer to your authority and they need to feel safe around you and feel secure.
01:48:37.000
And unfortunately, money is a component of that.
01:48:38.000
But there are guys that are gifted with the gab and can do it.
01:48:41.000
Because women want to feel safe and secure, and if you know it, this guy doesn't have a car, how is he going to take care of me?
01:48:53.000
Guys from prison, they come home broke, they're in shape, they're alpha, why are they with girls?
01:48:58.000
Because they feel like he's a masculine man, but still he's broke.
01:49:02.000
You can be dominant and have these characteristics while being broke, for sure, but having money helps you, for sure.
01:49:12.000
You got to be in shape, you got to be confident, you got to have some accomplishments under your belt.
01:49:15.000
There's a bunch of these young boy streamers that don't have any confidence, even though they're multi-millionaires because they haven't accomplished anything.
01:49:20.000
When you haven't accomplished anything as a man, you also don't have that confidence.
01:49:23.000
I always say competence leads to accomplishments, which then leads to confidence.
01:49:32.000
Because as an older man, you are more likely to have these things in line.
01:49:51.000
And that girl on the couch, how was Aiden's stream in Charleston White?
01:50:13.000
And yeah, Convy's my nephew and he did allow me here.
01:50:22.000
JBS says, ladies, name a profession that has an automatic red flag for you with men and dating.
01:50:29.000
We talked about red flags for women, so you know what?
01:50:40.000
Well, owner or promoter, because they're drastically different.
01:51:24.000
Maybe they're like little Derek's barber or something.
01:51:53.000
I love EDM. I love EDM, but a DJ, like, don't do it.
01:53:16.000
Why did you pick the profession that you picked?
01:53:20.000
I work a lot with photographers, and I just would not want to have one as my boyfriend.
01:53:26.000
They're around females too much, but they're also like, how would I say it?
01:53:40.000
Well, I mean, I was mostly joking with the podcaster, but I just had to throw a little joke in there.
01:53:59.000
Out of all the eyes in the medical field, why you chose that?
01:54:19.000
You can see my girl in here, what the fuck man?
01:54:37.000
There ain't that many Mexicans in Spokane, man.
01:55:01.000
Like I said, I was in a five year relationship until I was 22.
01:55:14.000
I was with one guy for five years until I was 16.
01:55:16.000
Like 16 to 22 is I was with the same guy for that time.
01:55:33.000
If you go to FanBus, you're gonna fuck your porn star, nigga.
01:56:05.000
I was just kind of riding the bandwagon with everybody, but I just, yeah.
01:56:18.000
Let me give you an L. Alright, go ahead, use the bathroom.
01:56:25.000
Why'd you pick, um, you said, oh, DJ, ED, oh, okay, why'd you pick them?
01:56:30.000
Because they just have girls, like, always trying to get backstage.
01:56:37.000
Would you agree that it's a red flag if a guy is dating a girl and she's in the back of a DJ's booth and posts on Instagram?
01:56:46.000
Like, if a girl's posting stories and she's always behind a DJ booth, she's a whore.
01:56:59.000
You think men really want to be friends with women?
01:57:02.000
The EDM world is different than the club world, though.
01:57:04.000
I do media, so I get sent to these festivals, and I go backstage for media purposes.
01:57:29.000
I don't go anymore, though, for certain reasons, but I've been at EDC, I've been to Ultra, I've been to Electric Zoo, I've been to all of them, and yeah, girls that are backstage are whores, 9 out of 10 times.
01:57:44.000
You don't sweat on stage, but I thought you'd sweat in the bedroom.
01:57:49.000
Or just, like, not take Bali, and you won't sweat so much, but okay.
01:57:58.000
Fitness trainer just because, like, I had a trainer before who had a girlfriend.
01:58:06.000
And immediately, literally after, like, my second day training with them, messaged me in my Instagram DM saying, like, yo, we should get some, like, extra training sessions in.
01:58:16.000
Like, liking my, like, just, you know, liking my shit.
01:58:19.000
Was this when you were, you know, doing the spicy movies?
01:58:22.000
No, this was before I was like a bottle girl at the time.
01:58:47.000
And you knew that his chick would probably come after you.
01:58:51.000
Bro, they're always showing people like houses and empty bedrooms and shit and like taking them to like...
01:59:01.000
But there are some fine ass motherfucker like...
01:59:12.000
Well, because all the big booty hoes got to go get their little son's haircut.
01:59:26.000
Usually a people person, like the really good ones.
01:59:31.000
Are we talking about barbers or celebrity barbers?
01:59:36.000
I'm talking about just regular, like, you go to your average city and, like, the lit barber in the city knows all the hoes, knows all the waitresses, knows all the ladies.
01:59:55.000
Oh, because trainers are just fucking douchebags, man.
01:59:59.000
They just completely inappropriate a lot of the times, like for no reason.
02:00:32.000
But if you do OF, most likely you're going to be taking pictures of your butthole or your penis for gay men.
02:00:46.000
That's true, by the way, but how do you know that?
02:00:54.000
Did you see the Fly Soldier video with his brother?
02:01:08.000
Aside from him just doing incest with his brother, like he literally spread his cheeks.
02:01:20.000
I was going to tattoo him and I was like, I'm sorry.
02:01:44.000
That's what you want to do, that's what you want to do.
02:02:02.000
Anytime a guy has a pop and OnlyFans, it's going to be G4P or Gay4Pay.
02:02:24.000
I think porn star, because obviously you gotta fuck other girls.
02:02:31.000
And also, I wanna add, like, any position at a strip club.
02:02:51.000
Why not just date a man instead of, like, a girl who's a feminine?
02:03:07.000
She's gonna turn you on going to Cancun by herself, nigga.
02:03:50.000
You said DJ? Promoter or DJ? No, yours was club promoter, I believe.
02:04:03.000
Because, no offense to anyone that goes to festivals, but I feel like the type of people...
02:04:07.000
I used to go, but now I've realized the type of people that go to festivals...
02:04:14.000
And there's something about a DJ that's captivating.
02:04:17.000
You know, they're kind of in a masculine position because they're controlling the crowd.
02:04:26.000
And the drugs involved and the clout that the DJs feel.
02:04:30.000
I was the only sober person at these events, bro.
02:04:33.000
Yeah, when you're sober and you go, you have a different perspective.
02:04:38.000
I do too, but there's a point where it's like...
02:04:47.000
There's one that's called Afterlife, which is fire.
02:04:56.000
I've seen a lot of artists, but now that I'm becoming more established in business and building myself,
02:05:13.000
I see a different perspective for people that go to festivals.
02:05:16.000
Okay, so you don't like it because you don't like the crowd of people it attracts?
02:05:22.000
Just because club promoters, I feel like they're friendly and they're always hitting up just girls.
02:05:27.000
And, like, they're always around girls giving alcohol so they have an easier chance to hook up with them.
02:05:35.000
I don't feel like they don't have it like that.
02:05:39.000
Yeah, I mean, yeah, most club promoters are brokies.
02:05:42.000
So, like, I feel like they don't have it like that to have the advantage to get a girl messed up and, like, be able to have that, like...
02:05:50.000
So your thing is, if you're gonna do that, you better be a fucking somebody.
02:06:00.000
Just club promoters, I feel like they're too friendly.
02:06:31.000
We need to have another sandwich making contest.
02:06:35.000
You're gonna be a Spanish girl, you better ask her for some hot meals.
02:06:38.000
I love, you know, I love, I love like arroz, frijoles, pechua de pollo, you know.
02:06:48.000
We're doing a quick little musical chairs here, guys.
02:06:51.000
Shout out to the squad for making it happen and being so professional about it.
02:06:54.000
Don't worry, they'll got you out with some H2O. Water break.
02:07:07.000
Alright, so what I'll do is I'll turn it to the ladies if they have a question, and then we'll get last thoughts, I guess, going here soon.
02:07:34.000
Do you have any questions or disagreements on...
02:07:40.000
Okay, let me finish reading the chats while we get this thing fixed.
02:07:46.000
I got injured, so now I'm retiring from the army.
02:07:47.000
I'll get a check for life, but not sure what to do next.
02:07:57.000
And we'll talk about that more on the next episode.
02:08:04.000
Shout out to Antonio Brown, who proves that men will always be more impacted than women.
02:08:08.000
Also, AB, look out for Megan, the male horse, next year.
02:08:11.000
She ain't as trustworthy a horse like Tom Brady's ex-baby.
02:08:26.000
Would you all have sex with the Austrian mustache man if you were six feet tall and alive today?
02:08:36.000
Cam Two Times goes, a woman will try to sell you her purity because on her Instagram bio, she will be writing scriptures of the Bible verses.
02:08:42.000
But behind closed doors, she is slurping D for purses.
02:08:45.000
When girl says she has morals, but can't spend moral without oral.
02:08:52.000
I'm like, yo, I'm already going to church, man.
02:09:03.000
My Instagram, wildashxo, theashgirlwild, either of those.
02:09:52.000
I just always wonder what the guys that are rating us look like.
02:09:59.000
Day two of asking the girls to try to pick up the guys.
02:10:04.000
I don't know if the girls would be able to do it, bro.
02:10:07.000
GK Rock goes, ladies, if your man tells you that he's hungry, what would that mean to you other than he wants food?
02:10:19.000
Oh, I thought that was going to mean he wants to eat in the kitchen.
02:10:22.000
If he's hungry, that means that you cook him food, give him a blowjob, and then feed him.
02:10:50.000
Homeless and Jewish should not be in the same sentence.
02:10:55.000
He didn't want to get a place by himself because he's new to Miami and he wanted to meet people.
02:11:02.000
So friends were all in the same business, in the same industry.
02:11:05.000
Listen, boo-boo, I've met good talkers before too.
02:11:07.000
They're like, man, I got this and this and this.
02:11:13.000
He wanted to be with people and I had extra space.
02:11:15.000
So why would he ask you for money then if he was money?
02:11:23.000
If they say I'm hungry or I want food, what does that mean?
02:11:29.000
I misunderstood the question, but he wanted somewhere to stay.
02:11:49.000
My nigga said, I'm trying to smash for the free-free.
02:12:11.000
Nigga went from Israel has a right to defend itself to Israel has a right to finesse itself.
02:12:25.000
I thought you were about to say your dog is Jewish.
02:12:34.000
So that makes sense why she just took him in, because they're both Jewish.
02:13:05.000
Yeah, then he can play it on the saxophone, play the soccer.
02:14:01.000
Yeah, y'all clearly have a lot of white guys watching this shit, because ain't no way y'all keep giving me them little ass numbers.
02:14:07.000
I can always tell when it's like black guys watching and white guys watching.
02:14:29.000
Okay, up syndrome two, and then use dirt bike voice four.
02:14:41.000
Waylo goes, sure, next to Mara, I got them fat auntie arms.
02:14:51.000
Ladies, you think women are entitled to a man's time without sex?
02:14:54.000
Shorty next to us, have you ever had BBC before?
02:14:57.000
It just so happens, Fresh has a dick like a fire horse and it's insured for one million dollars.
02:15:02.000
You'll see what it's all about later when we get acquainted after we take you out for dinner.
02:15:08.000
I'm trying to dig till she busts a shout out to Dog Ben Martin.
02:15:17.000
It's fresh as balls, so he's talking about her.
02:15:41.000
Okay, Fresh as Balls wants to hang out with you.
02:16:38.000
You guys thought it was funny the day that girl was here, huh?
02:16:50.000
Guys, actually, this is not financial advice, but right now, Rumble Soccer is low.
02:16:58.000
And also by Invest in Chewy, because these girls are going to be single.
02:17:09.000
Because he was a legend, and as well, he put his life on the line for us.
02:17:35.000
When he came on with two girls, she looks like one of them.
02:17:41.000
Shout out to the left of AB is the definition of uncanny valley.
02:17:47.000
Ladies, name three countries and not the one you're from.
02:17:57.000
Let's talk about voting and ask them if they actually voted without relying on any falsehoods.
02:18:03.000
Top Shea goes, fire content my jest to my black folks.
02:18:26.000
I knew exactly where the audience was going to be.
02:18:35.000
If you want clicks, you put a midget in a video, you're getting views.
02:18:47.000
Oh, is that why he be running around with all these midgets, man?
02:18:51.000
And then they go check and fuck the midget by paying for your OnlyFans.
02:18:59.000
Who on the panel has a retirement account, IRA, 401, and savings account, especially you old hags, want us men to divide or are you worth enough to multiply, pull up accounts, improve your credit score, too?
02:19:10.000
Myron, I swear I'm going to stop watching you because of these stupid hoes.
02:19:30.000
I thought I was going to be harassed for my opinions.
02:19:34.000
What do you think we're going to harass you about, particularly?
02:19:40.000
Yeah, I had a great time and I definitely had a different view on the show, but now that I'm on it, I love it.
02:19:50.000
How many creators have you been on your streams?
02:20:02.000
Well, I stream with him here and there, like I'm one of their friends.
02:20:42.000
You don't want to know your IQ. You still want to say something like, you said I was dumb.
02:21:31.000
Because first of all, you already know he's about to wrestle with this motherfucker.
02:22:04.000
Maybe we'll just all end up doing our things together.
02:22:27.000
You actually really shocked me because I thought you were going to be super annoying.
02:22:48.000
You thought I was going to be arguing with people and shit?
02:22:56.000
Waves don't swim, you got the little brush and shit.
02:23:31.000
I enjoy being here every single time, so thank you.
02:23:33.000
You, the woman's vote, should be 50% of Amanda.
02:23:38.000
No, we're human, so I think we should have the right to vote for our rights.
02:23:50.000
Yeah, I like to hear everyone's opinions on this generation's relationship ideals and all that shit.
02:24:01.000
I thought you guys were going to be scary and belittle us and be mean and kick us off.
02:24:08.000
I thought it was really fun and I liked the topics.
02:24:11.000
I will say this because a lot of girls see the clips and think I just kick girls off.
02:24:14.000
I only kick girls off, and actually Kat's been here for a bunch of them.
02:24:16.000
I only kick girls off when they're being super annoying and it's been hours of them being annoying.
02:24:21.000
Yeah, it's like the clips when they get kicked out.
02:24:23.000
It ain't like that y'all just sit down and be like, all right, bitch, get out.
02:24:26.000
It's like you sat here and just did a bunch of stupid shit and we all like, what?
02:24:28.000
Also, thank you for coming because you drove from Delray Beach to come here, which is quite far.
02:24:37.000
Thanks for coming, and yeah, we're glad you had a good time.
02:24:39.000
But yeah, we don't kick girls off just to kick them off.
02:25:34.000
Do y'all think, um, who the hell asked AB why he don't pay child support?
02:26:27.000
And I love AB. He's a fucking awesome, amazing man.
02:26:41.000
Yeah, we'll catch you guys on Monday for a Money Monday episode.
02:26:59.000
This was a precursor to another guest coming on the show.