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00:07:25.000We went to school together, but we didn't know each other in school.
00:07:33.000We went to the same schools together growing up, but we just didn't, like, we weren't in the same friend circles, so we didn't kind of connect with each other until after the fact, but yeah.
00:08:54.000Did you like teaching for America first or did you just like go straight into being a teacher with your bachelor's degree?
00:09:00.000So my bachelor's degree is in English and then I got my master's in teaching so I could teach and then I went straight into my English master's.
00:09:26.000Alright, because I know some states it's like you need to have it, like they'll let you in with a bachelor's, but you need to be pursuing your master's as you're a teacher.
00:11:47.000Unique, but yeah, I guess in that situation, see, I've been broken up for a while and then you just happen to live together and stuff like that.
00:22:37.000It's a wetland conservation area, so during a certain time of the year, which was about last month, we have this huge flight of ducks that come through, and then that's what we do.
00:22:45.000We feed the ducks, and it's a whole duck club.
00:23:02.000So what that means is that there's an easement there, so technically any time people can come in, but it's a duck club, so you have to have a membership.
00:23:09.000I actually don't really work with the crop side.
00:23:11.000I'm an equestrian, so I work with the horses.
00:35:16.000Please let me finish with her real fast.
00:35:18.000Single about a week ago, why did he want to break up with you?
00:35:21.000Because men rarely, you know, all jokes aside, they rarely initiate breakups.
00:35:24.000He has a very avoided attachment style.
00:35:26.000I tried to, like, be there for him emotionally in, like, some hardship, and he just kind of dipped because he was not feeling like being emotional at all.
00:35:34.000Which, I mean, makes sense, you know, because, you know, men think with their brains, not their hearts.
00:45:00.000What is your opinion on a guy not wanting to commit to his girlfriend because he doesn't have a certain amount of money but doesn't want her dating or talking to anyone else?
00:45:11.000It's actually a pretty thought-provoking one.
00:45:13.000So I'll read it one more time because it looks like a two-parter.
00:45:16.000What is your opinion on a guy not wanting to commit to his girlfriend because he doesn't have a certain amount of money but doesn't want her dating or talking to anyone else?
00:45:34.000Yeah, so obviously here the guy wants to go for himself and he's probably working on becoming more successful, making more money, but currently he doesn't have that.
00:45:42.000But he's exerting dominance because he wants to make sure that she knows, hey, I'm a leader in certain instances.
00:45:47.000But not the money to take that pace of relationship.
00:45:51.000It's kind of tough because if you're broke, you can't really tell her what to do because you're not providing for her as well.
00:45:55.000So it's kind of hard to make that dominant stance.
00:45:58.000But I mean, honestly, he wants to control her, but without any type of resources, it might be tough.
00:46:08.000It could be actually him just being embarrassed for being a brokie and not wanting to get in a relationship because he knows he won't be able to provide.
00:46:13.000But on the other hand, it could be there's something about you that he doesn't like that he just doesn't want to disclose.
00:46:18.000And what he wants to do is he just wants to keep you on what I call the sex hamster wheel.
00:46:41.000If I had more information, I'd be able to answer this more accurately, but I'll just give two scenarios.
00:46:44.000It's either A, it's true, he just doesn't have money and doesn't want to commit because he doesn't want to feel like a broke and he can't actually support you.
00:46:49.000Or B, which I'm starting to lean a little bit more towards, maybe 60-40, leaning more towards this.
00:46:56.000He found something out about you that he doesn't like that has him extremely concerned with wifing you up.
00:47:02.000Maybe he finds out that you banged the guy he knows.
00:47:05.000Maybe you had a whore past or something.
00:47:08.000Something has him very uncomfortable, but he wants to keep you around for sex.
00:47:12.000So he might keep you in the sex zone only category.
00:47:14.000But she's still there waiting to see what happens next.
00:48:29.000The thing with that is guys aren't going to commit to girls that have an open sexual situation going on.
00:48:37.000So like, no offense to you, but like you're on OnlyFans.
00:48:38.000So for a guy, right, to commit to you is going to be, even if you build them up and everything else like that, Your profession and your status hurts his profession and status.
00:50:01.000And, uh, so, okay, you were a dancer for a year in college, you met him, you had stopped at that point, and I'm assuming you probably displayed some behavioral changes from living that lifestyle for him to commit to you, I'm guessing, to some degree.
00:50:14.000Yeah, that really changed your lifestyle, I feel like.
00:50:22.000Okay, so that's, I mean, that's much different than, you meet a girl, she's already on OF, doing that type of thing, and then she builds you up.
00:50:28.000A lot of guys will just use that as a stepping stone, like, alright, I'm gonna play my cards here, whatever it may be, but I'm never gonna take this girl seriously.
00:50:34.000Some guys do that, conniving, it's kinda fucked up.
00:50:36.000But, um, in general, if you're with a guy, you're cute, you help out, you help him build up, he'll typically stick by you once he gets up.
00:50:49.000No, he's gonna fuck other bitches, but you'll be his main.
00:50:52.000That's the thing, because a lot of girls conflate him having other women as like him getting rid of you, but the reality is, let's say y'all get together, right?
00:50:59.000He's a broke you when you met him, he builds himself up, makes more money, becomes successful.
00:51:04.000I'm not gonna lie to y'all, he's gonna go fuck other girls, but that doesn't mean that you're not gonna be the main girl.
00:51:08.000Because you were there from the beginning.
00:51:15.000You're never going to be the only girl, period.
00:51:17.000No matter what, if you bring him up or you don't bring him up, you're never always going to be the only girl.
00:51:21.000It's just that he's going to have the ability to cheat more and have more leverage.
00:51:25.000So what I'm saying, because women tend to think, oh, he want to have sex with someone else, so it's over.
00:51:29.000No, you're still the girl that he cares about because you were there from the beginning.
00:51:32.000But a lot of women look at a man's infidelity the same way as a man looks at a female's infidelity and it's not the same.
00:51:37.000Especially when that girl helped build you up.
00:51:40.000But your scenario, because you were mentioning bringing guys up, whatever.
00:51:44.000If you're already on OnlyFans or you're already in a profession where the guy is going to be like, eh, this is questionable, he might just use you to get the money, resources, whatever, build himself up, then leave.
00:51:53.000But it's different if he meets you, then you start the sex work under his authority, etc., He's going to more than likely stick around, especially if he's getting benefits of that.
00:52:01.000I'm assuming you probably share your funds with your guy, right?
00:52:04.000You're saying all this, but I don't think that you have a lot of education in this because I'm getting with Alexis on the sense of like, she's right.
00:52:13.000Because I didn't have an OnlyFans when I started dating my ex-fiance.
00:52:17.000And when I was under his authority thinking I was going to marry him, I started an OnlyFans and built his career.
00:54:57.000You know, being single, spending my money, going out with his friends.
00:55:01.000So in that situation, I just elevated you, I put you in a situation, I taught you everything, taxes, how to get an LLC. Now I just raised him up.
00:55:11.000And then it can all just go, well, what is he going to do now?
00:55:53.000This is my life I'm gonna be who I want to be I want to experience we live one life Why am I gonna stay tied to one person?
00:56:00.000I think more people actually think have this mindset that they want to please themselves versus the other person Rather than hey, she was a good girl to me.
00:56:10.000She put me in this position Let me be good to her There's way more of a percentage that the man that's gonna choose himself over being good to the girl who brought him up Alright, so this is a unique situation because you're not going to find data and studies on this.
00:56:22.000This is just kind of like a very anecdotal slash, you know, unique, nuanced situation.
00:56:48.000When women say, because typically women make money and earn a degree and get some status, first thing they say is, I'm strong and independent.
00:58:21.000I feel like a lot more women are understanding that if the man is providing or whatnot and he's successful, some of us are understanding that new is good.
00:58:32.000And I understand that if I love my man, I want him to have the most experiences of his life and be happy and do everything that he's ever dreamed of.
00:59:50.000Okay, but realistically speaking, knowing that there's a 90% chance that the parachute is not going to deploy, would you jump out the plane?
00:59:59.000I'm not gonna tell my girl and be honest with her that I want to have other women knowing that I only have a 10% success rate because most women are not okay with it.
01:00:07.000So if you know that you're one of those guys who would want to jump out the plane, then find a girl who's gonna give you the 90% instead of the 10%.
01:00:13.000I'm telling you, a majority of women don't.
01:00:15.000Majority, yeah, we're talking about majority.
01:00:21.000Oh, it's possible that I'll find a guy that's six foot five, multi-millionaire with nice straight teeth that's not gonna cheat on me and love me for life.
01:00:38.000I tell my girl I'm gonna have sex with other girls, but most girls can't accept it.
01:00:42.000Most men aren't gonna tell the truth, and that's just what it is.
01:00:45.000But to Alexis' situation here, we found from the show as well, we've seen girls come on, the OnlyFans, most guys will prey on girls with money.
01:00:53.000And for example, you have a lot of money and status.
01:00:56.000So guys are like, oh, she's popping, she makes money?
01:00:58.000Alright, I'm going to get with her so she can take care of me.
01:01:01.000And obviously, you care for your guys, you take care of them.
01:01:05.000I can ride this wave and then hop off the train.
01:01:08.000So it's kind of like that, I guess, lifestyle and that providing for men, It can backfire on you because you're giving them what they want and then they just dip.
01:01:15.000It's almost the opposite when girls use guys for money.
01:01:17.000They use you for your money, basically.
01:04:11.000I can't get wet for you because I don't think that you're a man.
01:04:15.000And that's something that I have come to learn that I feel that I need to be with someone who makes more money than me, that I respect, that I can learn something from.
01:04:22.000Even though it is great making money, but that's probably why I'm single right now because of that same situation.
01:04:40.000And when you're with a guy that doesn't have that, yeah, you're going to start to resent him a little bit and then the bitchiness is going to come out and it just doesn't work.
01:05:42.000Because once a man reaches a certain level of status, they understand, oh, if I wife up a girl of a certain profession, it's going to hurt my status.
01:06:35.000I'm sure some guy, it was probably a man who dropped that information to you.
01:06:38.000There's a man that knows more than me.
01:06:39.000And you'll find that one that will then teach you how to make that money in a different way and not through OnlyFans.
01:06:43.000I wouldn't say she's a sapiosexual because a sapiosexual will just be happy with someone that can converse with them and keep them intellectually.
01:06:50.000But she needs finances and stuff too, so that's not a sapiosexual.
01:06:53.000Well, typically when you're dealing with someone who's a higher intellect, you're also dealing with someone who usually will make a higher amount of money.
01:11:42.000When you were at the peak and you guys were at the, you know, when you loved them the most, did you look at other men and have sex with other men?
01:12:05.000So, you love them very much, you don't want to see other women.
01:12:08.000I guarantee you, if I brought him in here right now and I asked him, hey man, at the peak of your marriage with your wife, your ex-wife, did you still want to have sex with other women?
01:15:35.000Okay, alright, so when you hit the news, okay, he hit the news too because, alright, and then basically his job let him go and then now he works for you.
01:16:35.000I would want to know because, like, I think...
01:16:40.000We have like an open communication thing so I communicate with him and let him know things and he communicates with me so I feel like if that's the basis that we've already established that that should keep being established and transparent like if you just shut the door on me randomly and then stop telling me things that's gonna make me feel a certain type of way and it's gonna go a very negative like side of things like the emotions will go negative Okay.
01:20:38.000Do you think this guy, like hypothetically speaking, let's say you found a guy here in Miami and you hooked up with him and you went back to Missouri and said, hey, I hooked up with a guy in Miami.
01:21:21.000And then I'm going to question myself the next day.
01:21:23.000Do I really like the man I'm with if I just let some other boy swoon me?
01:21:29.000That's a conversation I'm going to have afterwards.
01:21:32.000If I'm swooned by some little boy, then I didn't like the guy I was with.
01:21:39.000Alright, so to me it sounds like you've got a guy now, but if something better comes along, you're going to entertain it and you're not going to miss out on that opportunity.
01:22:35.000If you absolutely hate me after this conversation, awesome, but at least I feel good on my conscience that I came and talked to you about it.
01:22:42.000If you decide to leave me because of me coming to you and being straight about it, then that is what it is.
01:22:48.000That's your decision to make as a person.
01:22:51.000Just like I have my decision to make too.
01:22:53.000And my decision was to be straight with you.
01:23:43.000If the shoe was on the other foot and he found a job that he could travel and he started traveling and he was doing the same thing you were doing, How would you feel about that in that situation?
01:23:53.000Because right now it seems like because he can't go anywhere and he's in the middle of nowhere, as you put it, that you're taking advantage and you're like, okay, I'm going to do what I want.
01:24:00.000But if the shoe was on the other foot, your feelings would be fucked.
01:25:19.000I will because I can say this because I've had both and I was happier with the good boy who was shitty and bad who wasn't like the bad boy saying all these things.
01:26:08.000Because with the other person, with the bad boy, if I think about what he's saying and all these nasty races, all these things, and I have been with someone just like this, and I could really say, I'm not going to feel that way about him in bed.
01:26:20.000I'm not going to want to please him because he's a mean person outside of the bedroom.
01:32:30.000There's a multitude of reasons, yes, I was going to say that.
01:32:32.000There's a multitude of reasons why we can blame feminism, we can blame fatherless households.
01:32:36.000There's a bunch of reasons why women behave the way that they do, but I'm just identifying how they currently behave.
01:32:41.000And I'm just saying that given the fact that so many women don't grow up with a traditional masculine father, fatherless households, not a strong two-parent household, lack of religion, lack of shame, social stigmas, etc., and feminism, it's why women behave the way that they do.
01:32:55.000So what I'm saying is that as a man going out there in the world and meeting women that are westernized...
01:33:00.000They have bad habits that you have to train out of them.
01:33:14.000That's the difference because when men will build up a woman into something they love, women will build a guy into something they resent because whenever a woman builds a man up, she is the authority.
01:33:23.000If a woman has authority over you, she cannot respect you.
01:33:26.000And if a woman does not respect you, she can't have sex with you and like you.
01:33:29.000Women must respect you first, and that respect stems from fear.
01:33:46.000They can be with a beautiful woman that's subservient, and that can be everything that they need, and they have their own insecurity because of the way that they were raised and brought up.
01:35:25.000Say it in a coherent manner so we actually understand what's going on.
01:35:28.000I'm okay with you contributing to the show, but right now you're hurting the quality of the show because I don't know what you're on, but you need to think before you speak.
01:35:36.000I apologize, but as I say, if a woman brings to the table equivalent to a business...
01:39:44.000Looking at friends or looking at other people kind of living their life and having a certain lifestyle, did that, like, kind of, I guess, invigorate the FOMO even more so?
01:41:21.000We come from a very conservative area.
01:41:24.000What I... I don't have regrets, but if I had one, the thing that I missed out on most was, like, the college experience with sports, right?
01:41:32.000Like, I was a cheerleader for a very long time.
01:41:34.000Like, that's the only thing that I, like, I wasn't a club owner.
01:42:13.000I had a lot of love and a lot of happiness in my 20s, but I also had a lot of You know, identity and, like, suicidal thoughts and, like, just crisis inside of myself that whole decade as well that I'm trying to fix right now.
01:42:28.000Like, I'm in therapy to fix right now.
01:49:22.000I want it to be that, okay, so if I'm giving up my phone, I have nothing to prove, but if I'm giving up my phone, then you're giving up your phone too.
01:49:52.000I'm just challenging your opinion, because you're using the basis of equality to substantiate your argument, and I'm saying, well, you don't even believe in equality in a relationship until it doesn't benefit you, which is this situation with the phone.
01:50:57.000And you're saying I, because I have my master's degree, would only be attracted to somebody who has their master's degree or makes enough money.
01:51:08.000But I'm also, again, you got to think about my upbringing.
01:51:11.000It's always going to come into play of I come from a dual income household.
01:51:16.000Law enforcement, they don't make crazy-ass money, so I'm still going to come to the mindset of, okay, as long as you can provide in some form or fashion, I don't necessarily think that you need to make more money than me.
01:52:26.000Because they want you to be all successful and shit a lot of times, better than them, and then they want to sit there and say, I'm equal to you.
01:54:46.000And that's why we have all these women doing OnlyFans, because there's only 1% of men who are actually leading.
01:54:50.000You know, men don't have that alpha male, and they put us women in that alpha male situation.
01:54:56.000I get that, but I'm trying to get guys to have this mindset so that they understand that they're the authority in their relationship.
01:55:00.000Like, if a girl said to me, oh, we need to give your phone too, I'd look her in the face and laugh and say, that's not how this works, baby girl.
02:01:41.000But the way that it's used broadly on the internet nowadays, when people refer to someone as a cuck, etc., it is a man that either A, enjoys watching his girl have sex with other men, or B, allows it to happen.
02:01:53.000So, with those two definitions now, right, for the context, so that we can completely understand here, it's either A, they allow it to happen and are okay with it, okay?
02:02:07.000So, once again, ladies, now that we know what a cuck is, now that we know what a cuck is, I can't.
02:02:14.000Is there any way that this doesn't have to be a cook, but maybe an emotionally intelligent man that wants to experience everything and wants to see his girl enjoy himself?
02:02:23.000There's men that, I mean, when you're honest kind of with yourself, if you're honest with yourself and you think about it, like we're all humans and we're here to experience, maybe there is a man who just wants to see his girl just like...
02:03:55.000Here's the reality, and Alexis, no offense to what you said, but if a man's giving in to his desires like that, he's not really that dominant in himself.
02:04:03.000Like, if he's saying, like, baby, I want you to go give in to all your desires, that's weak.
02:08:09.000So, like, of course, there's going to be enhancements, right, based on was there premeditation or whatever, but the bottom line is you killed someone, you're a murderer.
02:08:15.000It's like me giving Brie a peanut and her having an allergic reaction and dying and say, oh, well, you're a murderer now.
02:10:01.000When I see the way a woman behaves and the way she speaks about her man, that...
02:10:05.000That behavior that she's exhibiting is a mere reflection of that man's masculinity.
02:10:09.000I can tell when a girl's with a pussy or when a girl's with a strong guy.
02:10:12.000If she's with a pussy, she behaves however she wants, she does whatever she wants, she shoots first, asks questions later because there's no consequences.
02:10:19.000But when I see a girl that's with a strong man, she shuts the hell up, she's quiet, she's docile, she's feminine, she watches what she says, she makes sure to never embarrass him because she understands that her behavior directly reflects her man's personification and masculinity.
02:10:31.000Like, women behave differently when they're with a dominant strong man versus being with a loser.
02:10:35.000No offense, but the guy that you're with is more than likely a loser.
02:12:03.000And so whenever he has told me what he is comfortable with for me to do on OnlyFans versus what he is not comfortable with, I have made those concessions because that's what he told me to do.
02:12:12.000That this is what he's comfortable with.
02:12:14.000He is not comfortable with these things.
02:14:24.000Do you think it's okay, like, if it was role reversed, if your man was being like, hey, I'm just slinging it like that, and then I'm just saying, okay?
02:14:36.000So, my new man is in my content with me.
02:14:42.000And, like, I'm completely okay with that.
02:15:40.000I would be completely fine if he wanted to do that.
02:15:42.000Dudes can't make money on OnlyFans like girls can.
02:15:45.000If I'm going to be completely honest, and I've already said this today, if he came to me and he's like, I want to fuck somebody else, I'd be like...
02:16:22.000She literally just explained that her current guy that she's with now exhibits more dominant alpha traits than her ex-husband, which is why she is kind of with him.
02:18:28.000Well, given my life or whatever and the opportunity being presented, it was the easiest way and...
02:18:36.000Well, not the easiest way, but I felt that I could...
02:18:38.000Definitely succeed in this so I definitely went this route but I am aware that there is major cons to being in the OnlyFans industry and I personally would have preferred meeting my dream man who could have just taken care of me and I didn't have to go this route because I believe that I will have problems finding a man and of course I would have loved to just you know Do that other route.
02:19:04.000But here I am now, and I'm still happy in my choosing my life, and it's still exciting and fun.
02:19:11.000So you did it because you kind of gave up on finding a man that would take care of you?
02:20:24.000I'll take a girl that's a brokie that won't embarrass me over a girl that is wealthy but on OnlyFans any day because my status is decreased by what my woman does.
02:21:13.000Because you're never gonna be able to buy a strong, assertive, dominant man that has these traditional qualities that's gonna want you back.
02:21:19.000And you become a target from week-end, by the way.
02:25:30.000So I'm the one that's going to make the money because I know no matter what girl I get with, she's going to expect me to pay the bill anyway.
02:25:36.000So why do I care how much money you bring to the table?
02:25:38.000She's going to expect me to be competent and be experienced.
02:25:40.000Why the fuck do I give a shit about her experience?
02:25:42.000Men want girls that don't have experience.
02:25:45.000We want to be the first one to show them certain things.
02:26:16.000The lower a woman's body count, there's studies that show this shit, the higher the likelihood that the marriage will last and that she will not cheat.
02:26:22.000But the higher her body count, the higher the likelihood that she's going to cheat.
02:26:25.000But at least you know with me that I know what I want, I've experienced it all, and obviously I'm choosing you.
02:26:34.000No, you don't know what you want because you just made an argument for a cuck, but then on the other side you said that you want a controlling man.
02:27:04.000Well, the main reason why is because whenever a woman is injured by a man, and not our mouths, like our actual pussies over here, so there's a chemical that gets released, and every single time that we connect with a man, it makes us further away from the man that we actually end up with at the end of the day.
02:27:22.000So, like, we're not gonna be able to make that amazing connection with our husband if you've got 20 people on your body versus 10 people.
02:29:27.000She was out here fucking doing some dumb shit.
02:29:29.000For someone who's a prince in England that has the type of status that he has, the higher status, the more sensitive you have to be about the women that you bring in to set status.
02:29:37.000So he literally was ostracized from his own Family, because of the woman that he decided to bring in.
02:29:43.000If that does not prove my point, that a man's status can be decreased by his female's past behaviors, I don't know what else proves it.
02:29:48.000Well, actually, I was bringing up the point that you said a man with status would never be with a girl like that.
02:33:57.000Anywho, what I was trying to say, I get that, but all of the marketing and stuff that you put into that and that effort, you could have done that where you were.
02:34:07.000You just chose to intentionally do that elsewhere.
02:34:11.000The same work and effort, the marketing, all of that stuff.
02:34:15.000You could have applied with your real estate.
02:34:42.000I don't care what I said, the quickest.
02:34:43.000It was a way that I felt that I could be strong in.
02:34:47.000I felt that I knew, not because I'm beautiful, because there's many beautiful girls on OnlyFans that are not successful at it.
02:34:52.000But if you don't have consistency, if you don't have much more than just all the, like, you're thinking, shaking your ass, it's not just that.
02:35:47.000Well, she's talking to dermatologists right now about skin, so let her talk, if you want to use that doctor analogy.
02:35:51.000Anywho, but I get that, and I get it, and you said you wanted to feel like, that's probably a terrible way to say that you should feel powerful about your body, selling yourself technically to people, strangers on the internet, but I personally think that you could have done a lot more effort with that,
02:36:11.000because you're putting in the same effort, you just chose to do a different path.
02:36:26.000But what I'm saying is, even if you were to do real estate, you could have still been a real estate investor, honey.
02:36:31.000That does not mean that you selling yourself and being naked and doing OnlyFans and all that stuff was the only route to become an investor.
02:37:37.000Because everything that I've been asking you from the standpoint, you yourself, the answers that you're giving me is telling me that you're bothered.
02:37:44.000You didn't like the fact that I asked you that question.
02:37:46.000I don't care if it hurts your feelings.
02:37:48.000What I'm telling you is the honest truth.
02:37:49.000You could have chosen a different way.
02:37:51.000You chose the easy out because you wanted fast money.
02:37:53.000You're just like and no different than any other person that decides to get on a fucking pole, go do anything else with their fucking life.
02:38:00.000You could have chosen other routes to do that, and you chose to do that, and now you're trying to make an excuse.
02:38:08.000You're trying to make an excuse, and then on top of that, you're trying to double back and try and point fingers at me like as if I don't make money or whatever.
02:38:15.000You're making assumptions about me to try and deflect from yourself because what I'm saying is hurting your feelings.
02:38:19.000No, no, no, baby, first of all, I will tell you that your feelings are hurt.
02:40:04.000And the man that she's looking for, I'm telling you, those types of guys don't commit to girls that are in your profession.
02:40:10.000The only guys that are going to settle a lot of times with a girl that is big on OnlyFans is guys that you typically don't want.
02:40:15.000Guys that are pushovers, softer, not as attractive, not assertive, and not as dominant.
02:40:20.000Because if a guy has the option to get other women, he's going to go with a girl that doesn't have a past because he doesn't want to be embarrassed.
02:40:27.000You mentioned working really hard, being creative, promo, making content, having six assistants, etc.
02:40:33.000You know, you had your realtor license.
02:40:35.000What she's saying is, with all that mindset you have, you could have taken that and applied it to something else.
02:40:39.000Maybe you might have made a little bit less money or you wouldn't have made the money as quickly, but you would have your dignity, you would have respect, and other men, the man that you want, would take you seriously.
02:40:50.000So, yeah, you make your money, trips and vacations, like, That's fine, but you gotta deal with the consequences of fast money, which is slow problems and men not taking you seriously.
02:40:58.000Yes, but I feel like she was kind of making it seem like...
02:41:02.000I feel like she was kind of making it seem like this is...
02:41:45.000That's all good and dandy when you're young and men are still hitting you up, but when you get older, 30 plus, like when you're trying to get settled down, all you're doing is increasing your bill while bringing less value to the man.
02:41:55.000You're making more money, you're more successful, you're a multi-millionaire, Okay, a guy that's on your level that makes the kind of money.
02:42:01.000Is he going to want a 30-year-old woman that's a multi-millionaire?
02:42:06.000What if you're nurturing, having your family, doing all that, but also doing your sexy side and you're doing your OnlyVans and stuff.
02:42:12.000Okay, that's like saying I'm a smart retard.
02:42:13.000It doesn't coincide because the thing is, for you to be a nurturing woman, etc., And being your most feminine, you're not working and going out and getting a bag.
02:42:23.000Do you realize that I birth animals every single spring?
02:46:01.000Ladies, say you're on a date with a man, you think everything going good and he thinks you've been nonchalant and obnoxious and he asks you to pay half the paycheck.
02:46:08.000Would you do it or fight back his decision?
02:46:11.000No, no, we're taking the whole fucking check and leaving.
02:47:16.000I mean, I've only had to do that maybe once or twice, but yeah, there are girls out there that are extremely rude, and you're just like, you know what?
03:00:03.000Women typically will always criticize me versus what I'm saying.
03:00:07.000Because the thing is, what I'm saying is pretty much mostly factually true when it comes to what men are attracted to versus what women are attracted to.
03:00:14.000What men are aroused by versus what women are aroused by.
03:00:16.000And you guys have confirmed a lot of the things that I've said by your own admissions.
03:00:19.000In 4K. In 4K. I mean, so, I mean, you know, women are always going to say what they're going to say.
03:04:14.000I made my own choices and I have to deal with those consequences.
03:04:18.000Going back to asking Alexis if she regretted the choice and she did not, I 100% do and I've said interviews with that.
03:04:27.000I am a highly educated, double masters having woman and I let that, I let trying to make quick money to pay off some debt Negate 12 years of education.
03:04:53.000I literally have never thought that because Brie did not make these choices for me.
03:04:58.000The only thing we did was support each other over the summer and took one, it was actually an innocent picture of just us from the back on a beach.
03:08:02.000Why don't you spend some of your money to get you a little bit of jubiderm, a little bit of chemical peel instead of coming at me sideways.
03:10:26.000Yo, can I get the 1-3 down from Myron to say all I have in this world is my balls and my word and I don't break up for no one and then dab up fresh?
03:13:10.000We're just here to let you know you're beautiful and that after that, the show, Fresh wants to dig up your guts with his 10-inch ebony love meat.
03:17:12.000Okay, a 30-year-old guy that's only had sex with three girls or a 30-year-old guy that's had sex with 30-plus girls but he paid for them, aka hookers.
03:18:28.000So we've got her talking to one dude and when she wants to swap over to the other one, I pop over to the other one to keep him busy so he doesn't see what's going on.
03:18:35.000Well, at the end of the night, she couldn't decide between which one she was going to bring home, so she brought both of them home.
03:23:50.000I sent a chat earlier, but ignore that.
03:23:51.000All jokes aside, hearing these ladies that came from a small town within the States, USA, I actually am disappointed in them.
03:23:56.000It makes me appreciate being Jamaican trash.
03:23:59.000Making yourself a victim using your mental health, saying you have to figure yourself out, leaving your man to do so, perfect excuse to leave your man so he can't make you feel bad or he's a bad guy at nasty work.
03:24:53.000No, I'm saying the country, things happen in the country.
03:24:56.000Yeah, he's saying like going over there to see a guy from the Middle East.
03:25:04.000Alright, and then to the girl with the potatoes stuffed in her ass, your face is a graveyard for sperm and it's disgusting and no one respects you.
03:26:17.000Anyways, and then, I don't know, I do understand where you were coming from with the self-respect thing, because personally, like, I have, I mean, I'm struggling financially, not gonna lie, but I have thought, like, oh, it would be really easy to get on OnlyFans.
03:26:30.000Like, easy money, I have people who are already in my DMs asking for it.
03:26:33.000But I'm not going to, like, do that because I feel like that's going to be, like, putting myself at a detriment in the future.
03:35:37.000It doesn't have to mean you're a prostitute.
03:35:39.000It's just only sometimes you know your value.
03:35:41.000You just don't want to be with a guy or something like that.
03:35:44.000So are you trying to tell me that if I make really tasty dishes for people and I cook like I go crazy, Emeril Lagasse, I'm not a chef every now and then.
03:36:34.000Look, we understand that there's survival mode and people do certain things, but that does not change the fact that a title is a title and if you do what that title is defined as, you are that title regardless of why you did it.
03:36:44.000But she didn't really answer the question of, was it an exchange of service?
03:36:48.000Or are you talking about dating men and you're just leveling up with dating men in the sense that you're like, oh, I'm dating this guy and it's not a guy I would normally date.
03:36:55.000Maybe he's not that attractive, but he benefits my life.
03:45:47.000Well, for now, but there will be a federal ban eventually that girls that are doing content and creating content won't be able to get fired from their job.
03:46:16.000No, I'm not talking about government jobs.
03:46:17.000I'm just saying federally, there will be a law that says that you cannot fire your employees based on them doing whatever side incomes they do at home.
03:47:37.000It's still public school, no matter if you're in our city or out of the city.
03:47:40.000It doesn't mean if you're rural fluffs or bum fluffs out there.
03:47:41.000Every school district has different rules and different codes of conducts, different superintendents coming in and putting in rules and regulations.
03:48:28.000It's not going to pass, especially for public service jobs where you're being hired by a county or a government or whatever because you have to go through background checks.
03:48:34.000You have to have a certain level of candor, etc.
03:48:40.000And then if we want to talk about working for the government, you need to have a clearance a lot of times when you work for the government.
03:48:44.000Being a sex worker will immediately get your clearance revoked.
03:48:46.000Well, I wasn't talking about working for the government.
03:48:48.000I said, federally, it will be not banned.
03:48:51.000Like, it won't be a thing that regular jobs can ban you for anymore.
03:48:55.000That's fine, but maybe for some jobs or whatever, but if we're going to talk about being a public servant, whether it's a police officer, a teacher, a firefighter...
03:49:01.000You have a moral code to uphold, of course.
03:49:03.000Okay, so they're not going to allow it.
03:49:04.000But when I said federal, I wasn't talking about having a federal job.
03:49:07.000I was saying there will be a federal ban against...
03:49:11.000Any type of job, taking your job away.
03:49:14.000You used the example of teaching, which is a government job to a degree.
03:49:16.000Well, no, what I'm saying was that her situation, well, her situation as well, and her husband's situation with the union, because they both are union representatives, that they, it's all going federal.
03:49:27.000There's more things in the mix than what you know right now.
03:49:36.000They can pass it out federally, but regardless, jobs have codes of conduct and ethical standards that employees need to adhere to, so they can make as many federal laws as they want.
03:49:46.000At the end of the day, they're going to say, you don't match our code of conduct or our employee ethics, sorry, and they can just decline employment.
03:49:53.000So OSHA is going to require them to get more specific about it, because right now it's very broad.
03:51:30.000I mean, I was invited like, what, two days ago?
03:51:34.000I've never watched the show or seen any of your clips or anything, so essentially my perception was from locals that I was like, you know...
03:51:43.000Meeting and like what people had told me about like what it was gonna happen But I honestly think that it was much more respectful than I thought it was going to be and it's like very I think you guys were respectful.
03:51:58.000I think the cat fighting was embarrassing.
03:52:02.000I think it was embarrassing a lot of times.
03:52:08.000But in all honesty, I actually enjoyed it.
03:52:12.000Funny joke, before the show started, Icy was on Locals, right?
03:52:17.000She walks over and she's like, hey, we're on Locals.