Fresh & Fit - Heated Debate On Men Vs Women Leading In Relationships...

00:07:34.000 And we are live.

00:07:35.000 What's up, guys?

00:07:35.000 Welcome to Fresher Podcast.

00:07:36.000 We got some lovely ladies. 1.00

00:07:37.000 Let's get into it.

00:07:38.000 Let's go!

00:07:50.000 Let's get into it.

00:07:58.000 Come on in here, bro.

00:07:59.000 Get out.

00:08:10.000 Put your shoes on outside.

00:08:11.000 You don't got to put them on in here.

00:08:29.000 Alright.

00:08:29.000 And we are live.

00:08:30.000 What's up, guys?

00:08:30.000 Welcome to Fresh Up Podcast after our audition.

00:08:32.000 We got some lovely ladies in the house. 1.00

00:08:33.000 A quick announcement we get into the show.

00:08:35.000 Rumble.com slash Fresh Up.

00:08:37.000 As you guys know, that is our home base.

00:08:38.000 Also, guys, we're not going to be streaming on YouTube anymore.

00:08:41.000 Alright, we're going to be streaming on Rumble and Twitch only.

00:08:43.000 We're only going to be posting clips on YouTube.

00:08:47.000 So, the main platforms are going to be Rumble and...

00:08:50.000 Twitch to get the streams live, and then we're going to be posting clips after the fact on YouTube, which to be honest with y'all is the best way to do it anyway.

00:08:56.000 It's better.

00:08:57.000 But that's what we're going to be doing. 0.81

00:08:58.000 So we're not going to be streaming on YouTube anymore because, you know, policies and guidelines and all that bullshit that they have.

00:09:05.000 So we're just going to go ahead and put clips on there that we know are YouTube safe for the guidelines because, you know, we always get banned and censored and, you know, because of our takes.

00:09:14.000 So it is what it is.

00:09:15.000 I still think we're...

00:09:17.000 Not even, I think.

00:09:18.000 At this point, we are by far the most raw podcast on YouTube right now.

00:09:22.000 For sure.

00:09:23.000 Huh?

00:09:25.000 What was that, Chris?

00:09:25.000 I said no condom.

00:09:29.000 Yeah.

00:09:30.000 Anyway, yeah.

00:09:31.000 So, yeah.

00:09:32.000 So, anyway, you have anything for us?

00:09:34.000 Honestly, man, we've done a lot on YouTube.

00:09:38.000 We've given them a lot of time, energy, and look, time to move on.

00:09:41.000 Bigger, better things, and we're still here, so don't worry.

00:09:43.000 Yeah, we're still going to be on YouTube.

00:09:44.000 Don't worry.

00:09:44.000 Like, we're still just going to post clips on there.

00:09:46.000 And that's what y'all want anyway, man.

00:09:47.000 That's what people want.

00:09:47.000 They want clips and shorts.

00:09:49.000 So, you know, especially in this TikTok economy we got going on.

00:09:51.000 So, live streams are going to be Rumble Twitch.

00:09:54.000 And we're going to do a subathon on Twitch on Tuesday.

00:09:56.000 So, it's going to be a good time.

00:09:57.000 We're going to react to news, pop culture, whatever may be going on.

00:10:01.000 So, check us out over there.

00:10:02.000 Twitch.tv slash Fresh Fit Podcast.

00:10:04.000 That's going to be a Twitch exclusive.

00:10:05.000 We're going to grow the audience over there.

00:10:07.000 And also, we're doing our first meetup pretty soon as well in Tampa.

00:10:09.000 We got to figure out our dates, but we're doing it pretty soon.

00:10:11.000 All right.

00:10:12.000 Yes.

00:10:14.000 So, Chris, go ahead.

00:10:15.000 How long do you think we'll be on Twitch?

00:10:18.000 I mean, we have bets going on.

00:10:20.000 Chris is asking the wrong questions here.

00:10:22.000 How long do you think we're going to last?

00:10:24.000 I mean, someone said three weeks.

00:10:25.000 I'm like a month.

00:10:26.000 You know, who knows?

00:10:28.000 But, you know, we'll see, man.

00:10:29.000 You think we're going to get banned?

00:10:30.000 No, not really.

00:10:31.000 Because we spoke to, you know, our boy.

00:10:33.000 And he said that we have to follow certain guidelines.

00:10:35.000 So, we should be good.

00:10:36.000 Who's our boy?

00:10:36.000 Oh, my God.

00:10:37.000 Anyways, shout out to the chat.

00:10:39.000 Shout out to you guys.

00:10:42.000 We got seven girls on the panel. 1.00

00:10:44.000 Let's make it happen.

00:10:46.000 Diversity, you know, all over the world.

00:10:48.000 Maybe not Australia, but follow me on Twitch, Aaron Parkson.

00:10:53.000 I won't be banned, by the way, hopefully.

00:10:55.000 And let's make it happen.

00:10:56.000 What are you doing on your Twitch, Chris?

00:10:58.000 Yeah, what are you doing on Twitch anyway?

00:10:59.000 A game. 1.00

00:11:00.000 And talk shit. 1.00

00:11:01.000 Andrew Kenny. 1.00

00:11:02.000 It's fun.

00:11:03.000 If you've ever seen one of his clips, right, it's him literally...

00:11:06.000 Oh! 0.60

00:11:08.000 Oh! 0.99

00:11:09.000 Oh, you killed me! 0.99

00:11:09.000 Oh, no! 0.99

00:11:11.000 On Twitch Blade.

00:11:12.000 What's that game again?

00:11:13.000 Fortnite.

00:11:14.000 Fortnite, yeah, yeah.

00:11:15.000 And then there's Once Human and there's League, which you played before.

00:11:18.000 I'm gonna leave, bro. 0.99

00:11:19.000 Oh, you're pretty trash, Tryndamere Top. 0.99

00:11:20.000 No, bro. 1.00

00:11:21.000 I'm a beast. 1.00

00:11:22.000 No, you suck. 1.00

00:11:23.000 I've hit all critical traits for Blood Craze and as well other traits that you don't even have, bro. 1.00

00:11:28.000 I'm telling you right now.

00:11:29.000 What?

00:11:29.000 Anyways, I played a Marvel Rival suit.

00:11:31.000 It's like Overwatch, but a little bit better.

00:11:33.000 You know?

00:11:33.000 Yeah, I should have a guy, so, you know.

00:11:35.000 Okay, buddy.

00:11:36.000 In the beta.

00:11:37.000 I believe you.

00:11:38.000 And I play the Punisher too.

00:11:39.000 He's just like Soldier.

00:11:42.000 Alright.

00:11:42.000 Yeah, Samara, you should play.

00:11:44.000 That's what everybody's been telling me.

00:11:45.000 You should play Overwatch?

00:11:46.000 I haven't played in a while.

00:11:48.000 Like a month now.

00:11:49.000 I can tell.

00:11:50.000 Alright, ladies! 1.00

00:11:51.000 If you don't mind, don't mind our game talk here, Nerd Talk.

00:11:54.000 Give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, we'll start right here.

00:12:01.000 Welcome to the show.

00:12:02.000 Name, age, what you do for a living.

00:12:03.000 Thank you.

00:12:04.000 I'm Stacey.

00:12:05.000 Anastasia, I'm from Russia.

00:12:07.000 I couldn't tell.

00:12:10.000 And I'm in Miami for one month, and I'm 29 years old.

00:12:16.000 What do you do for it?

00:12:17.000 I'm a personal trainer.

00:12:19.000 29, you said? 1.00

00:12:20.000 Damn! 1.00

00:12:20.000 Yeah, 29. 1.00

00:12:22.000 And you're a personal trainer?

00:12:23.000 Yeah.

00:12:24.000 Okay.

00:12:25.000 Highest education level completed?

00:12:29.000 It's completed.

00:12:32.000 No, I mean, like, did you go to college?

00:12:34.000 Did you...

00:12:35.000 I have master's degree in economics and here I did...

00:12:40.000 In Russia?

00:12:40.000 No, no, no, in Czech Republic.

00:12:41.000 I lived in Czech Republic for eight years and I'm relocated from Czech Republic here.

00:12:48.000 Okay, so master's degree in economics from Czech Republic?

00:12:51.000 Yes.

00:12:52.000 Originally from Russia.

00:12:53.000 Okay, so did you like live in Czech Republic before you came here?

00:12:59.000 It's pretty different because, I mean, Europe and United States, it's different.

00:13:09.000 I mean, it's another word here.

00:13:12.000 And for me, it's the second month in America and it's everything new.

00:13:17.000 Okay, I'm confused.

00:13:18.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

00:13:18.000 I'll make it simple.

00:13:20.000 Before you came to America, where were you living?

00:13:23.000 In Russia or in Czech Republic?

00:13:24.000 Czech Republic.

00:13:24.000 Okay.

00:13:25.000 I like it.

00:13:25.000 Okay, so that's where you were for like seven years?

00:13:28.000 Eight years.

00:13:29.000 Okay, to get your math degree.

00:13:31.000 Yes, study and then I worked.

00:13:35.000 Are you Czech citizen too?

00:13:37.000 You have one passport, Russia?

00:13:39.000 Yeah, one passport, Russia, and just permission in Czech Republic.

00:13:44.000 Okay.

00:13:44.000 And here.

00:13:44.000 You're not a spy, are you?

00:13:48.000 She didn't say no.

00:13:54.000 They've been arresting people left and right for Farrah.

00:13:57.000 Oh, what?

00:13:58.000 She said she can't say nothing.

00:14:00.000 Are you relationship status?

00:14:02.000 Do you have a boyfriend?

00:14:03.000 Are you single?

00:14:04.000 Are you married?

00:14:04.000 I'm married.

00:14:05.000 How long have you been married for?

00:14:07.000 It's one year, but we met like nine years ago.

00:14:11.000 Nice! 0.94

00:14:11.000 How did you guys meet? 0.94

00:14:13.000 Actually, we first meeting in the school and then just came.

00:14:20.000 Actually, it's why I moved to the Republic from Russia.

00:14:24.000 It's because of my boyfriend.

00:14:26.000 Got it.

00:14:26.000 And now it's my husband.

00:14:28.000 He's Czech, I'm guessing?

00:14:30.000 No, no, no.

00:14:30.000 He's Russian too?

00:14:31.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:14:32.000 Okay.

00:14:32.000 He's Russian too, but he moved first.

00:14:35.000 Where is he now?

00:14:38.000 Where's he now?

00:14:41.000 Home?

00:14:42.000 In Miami?

00:14:44.000 You came to Miami together?

00:14:46.000 Yeah.

00:14:47.000 That's good.

00:14:49.000 Are your parents still together?

00:14:51.000 Sorry?

00:14:51.000 Are your parents still together?

00:14:53.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:14:54.000 Jail.

00:14:55.000 And then fresh, your favorite question.

00:14:57.000 Birth control.

00:14:59.000 Birth control?

00:15:00.000 Like, you know, the pills?

00:15:02.000 No, no.

00:15:04.000 You gotta ask her if she's on it.

00:15:08.000 She's not on it.

00:15:09.000 Okay, she was a little confused by her question.

00:15:12.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:15:12.000 That's how I said it.

00:15:13.000 Because you just said birth control.

00:15:14.000 She's like, wait, what the hell are you talking about?

00:15:15.000 She's not from here, so.

00:15:16.000 Yeah.

00:15:17.000 Okay.

00:15:17.000 Alright, so she's not on it.

00:15:18.000 Alright.

00:15:18.000 What about you?

00:15:20.000 My name's Angel.

00:15:21.000 I'm from Brooklyn.

00:15:22.000 Hey, y'all!

00:15:24.000 How old are you?

00:15:25.000 I just turned 25 a couple days ago.

00:15:27.000 And you said you're from New York City, Brooklyn, if I'm not mistaken?

00:15:30.000 Yes, Brooklyn.

00:15:31.000 Do you live here in Miami now or are you just visiting?

00:15:33.000 No, I'm actually a travel agent for my company.

00:15:35.000 I'm going to be re-looking out here.

00:15:37.000 We need some discounts, man.

00:15:38.000 She belongs to the streets. 0.92

00:15:40.000 What's good?

00:15:40.000 Travel agent as far as health care and stuff like that.

00:15:43.000 Oh, never mind.

00:15:44.000 Are you a traveling nurse?

00:15:45.000 No.

00:15:46.000 I do health insurance and insurance.

00:15:48.000 Okay, okay.

00:15:49.000 So you travel on behalf of a health insurance company?

00:15:52.000 Yeah, Blue Cross Blue Shield.

00:15:53.000 Y'all got dental?

00:15:54.000 Oh, okay.

00:15:55.000 You got dental?

00:15:56.000 Hey, baby.

00:15:58.000 Okay.

00:15:58.000 You let them know they need that dental.

00:16:01.000 All right.

00:16:02.000 Yeah, that's actually what I had when I worked for the government.

00:16:04.000 Me too.

00:16:04.000 All right.

00:16:05.000 Yeah, you like us?

00:16:06.000 Yeah, not bad.

00:16:07.000 You're okay.

00:16:07.000 Okay.

00:16:08.000 Never used it, though.

00:16:09.000 What?

00:16:09.000 Never got sick.

00:16:10.000 Okay.

00:16:11.000 Yeah.

00:16:11.000 All right.

00:16:12.000 So, how is education level completed?

00:16:14.000 High school, some college.

00:16:16.000 Do you have your associates?

00:16:18.000 Didn't finish, no.

00:16:18.000 Oh, okay.

00:16:19.000 Relationship status?

00:16:20.000 I am in a relationship right now.

00:16:22.000 How long y'all been together?

00:16:23.000 About a few months.

00:16:26.000 How'd you guys meet?

00:16:27.000 Three months?

00:16:28.000 Four months?

00:16:30.000 Two months?

00:16:31.000 Six.

00:16:32.000 Oh, okay, alright.

00:16:33.000 How'd you guys meet?

00:16:34.000 We met in Atlanta, and I was outside getting food.

00:16:41.000 You know, like that.

00:16:43.000 How did he approach you?

00:16:44.000 He said, you want some food?

00:16:45.000 No, he asked me what I was doing over there.

00:16:47.000 And I was like, who are you?

00:16:48.000 Like, who is this guy?

00:16:49.000 Talking to me. 0.99

00:16:50.000 Who you is, nigga? 1.00

00:16:51.000 She's like, you gotta have insurance. 0.99

00:16:53.000 I got you.

00:16:54.000 So he literally said, what are you doing here?

00:16:56.000 Is that how he started the conversation?

00:16:57.000 Yeah, he literally started it just like that.

00:16:58.000 I was like, who is this?

00:17:00.000 Asking me what I'm doing.

00:17:01.000 Was it like during the day?

00:17:02.000 Yeah, it was during the day.

00:17:03.000 So you were at a restaurant and he asked you, what are you doing here?

00:17:05.000 Yeah, he was like, what are you doing?

00:17:06.000 Like, he knew me already, you know?

00:17:08.000 What was your response to him on that one?

00:17:10.000 I'm like, who are you? 0.97

00:17:11.000 Nigga, who are you? 1.00

00:17:12.000 Right.

00:17:13.000 Okay.

00:17:13.000 That's what I thought.

00:17:14.000 It's a unique way to approach things.

00:17:15.000 All right.

00:17:15.000 Yeah.

00:17:17.000 Are your parents together?

00:17:18.000 It ended up working.

00:17:19.000 They were married when I was little, but they're no longer together now.

00:17:21.000 They're divorced now? 0.77

00:17:22.000 Okay.

00:17:23.000 Birth control for you?

00:17:25.000 No.

00:17:25.000 No?

00:17:26.000 Okay.

00:17:26.000 I'm not birth control over him.

00:17:27.000 Okay.

00:17:28.000 And what's your racial background?

00:17:30.000 Just full black?

00:17:32.000 Black, Indian, yeah.

00:17:34.000 Indian?

00:17:35.000 You don't see my arms.

00:17:38.000 Oh, wow.

00:17:40.000 Don't say it.

00:17:42.000 What'd you see there?

00:17:42.000 Hair.

00:17:43.000 It's a hairy arm.

00:17:46.000 Luckily, there's no...

00:17:47.000 Wait, was that...

00:17:50.000 I don't think that was the intention for showing you her arm.

00:17:54.000 It was.

00:17:55.000 It showed the hair.

00:17:56.000 Oh, was the show the hair?

00:17:57.000 I can't see that.

00:17:58.000 Well, my vision sucks, so.

00:17:59.000 Yeah. 0.96

00:17:59.000 It's a lot. 0.96

00:18:00.000 It's very hairy.

00:18:00.000 When you say Indian, are we talking Native American or like Indian?

00:18:03.000 Native American.

00:18:05.000 Okay, please say that because that would tell me a lot more about your background.

00:18:10.000 I never heard of Indian.

00:18:12.000 I never thought Native Americans, like the stereotype is that they're hairy.

00:18:15.000 I never heard that either.

00:18:16.000 Yeah, that's like a...

00:18:18.000 Aren't Indians hairy in general? 1.00

00:18:19.000 Yes, they are. 0.96

00:18:20.000 Are we talking about Native Americans or are we talking about Indians?

00:18:23.000 Both of them. 0.97

00:18:23.000 Both of them niggas, man. 0.97

00:18:25.000 Exactly. 0.95

00:18:25.000 That's not really the stereotype, though. 0.95

00:18:26.000 Oh, wow.

00:18:27.000 For Native Americans. 0.95

00:18:28.000 I've seen them as hairy.

00:18:30.000 Me too.

00:18:32.000 Me three.

00:18:33.000 I haven't really seen hairy ones, but that's fine.

00:18:35.000 You haven't seen hairy ones?

00:18:37.000 Like hairy Native Americans? 1.00

00:18:39.000 Yes.

00:18:40.000 Not like a thing where it would be like a defining feature.

00:18:44.000 It doesn't like define you, but it's just like typical.

00:18:47.000 Because real Indians, you can smell them. 1.00

00:18:49.000 Can you smell me?

00:18:51.000 You can smell curry for a mile, by the way.

00:18:53.000 I know, I know.

00:18:54.000 That's why I'm Indian.

00:18:55.000 I don't smell you at all.

00:18:56.000 You know what I'm saying?

00:18:57.000 To her defense, that's why I was saying she can't be Indian. 0.97

00:19:00.000 Exactly.

00:19:02.000 The curry smell?

00:19:03.000 That's why we're not on YouTube anymore.

00:19:05.000 They could come again?

00:19:06.000 Yeah, but that's not what she was trying to refer to.

00:19:09.000 No, but I thought she was looking at her hand at first and I couldn't smell her.

00:19:12.000 So I was like, you're not Indian, but Native American is different. 1.00

00:19:17.000 I'm just saying, bro.

00:19:19.000 There is a difference.

00:19:20.000 What tribe?

00:19:21.000 Do you know?

00:19:21.000 I don't know.

00:19:21.000 Oh, man, you're black, bro.

00:19:22.000 Just stop. 1.00

00:19:24.000 Come on, man.

00:19:25.000 I need to do one of those.

00:19:26.000 What tribe? 0.96

00:19:27.000 The black tribe. 0.53

00:19:28.000 Yeah, yeah. 0.95

00:19:29.000 Black tribe.

00:19:29.000 We was Kangs.

00:19:30.000 Yeah, that tribe.

00:19:31.000 What about you?

00:19:32.000 What's your name?

00:19:33.000 My name is Sea, like the ocean.

00:19:35.000 Okay.

00:19:36.000 Is that how you spell it?

00:19:37.000 S-E-A, yeah.

00:19:38.000 Is that your real name, or is that like a nickname?

00:19:40.000 It's my first, middle, and last name.

00:19:42.000 But my name is C the Light, so people call me C. Wait, your government name is actually C the Light?

00:19:47.000 No, it's Sarah.

00:19:49.000 Oh, okay.

00:19:50.000 Thank you, Sarah.

00:19:51.000 I'll put C here, though.

00:19:53.000 How old are you?

00:19:53.000 Yeah, C, like the ocean.

00:19:54.000 I'm 23.

00:19:55.000 Where are you from?

00:19:57.000 I'm from Atlanta.

00:19:59.000 Okay.

00:20:00.000 What do you do for work?

00:20:02.000 I'm a music entrepreneur and professional makeup artist.

00:20:05.000 Nice.

00:20:05.000 Okay.

00:20:06.000 When you say you're from Atlanta, you live here now or you're just visiting?

00:20:10.000 I live here now.

00:20:11.000 I live in Florida now.

00:20:13.000 Miami or...?

00:20:14.000 Well, Fort Lauderdale.

00:20:18.000 Oh, okay.

00:20:19.000 All right.

00:20:19.000 Right next door.

00:20:20.000 Yeah.

00:20:20.000 All right.

00:20:21.000 How long have you been here?

00:20:23.000 Four months.

00:20:25.000 Okay.

00:20:25.000 Four months, yeah.

00:20:27.000 Corrupted.

00:20:27.000 I'm assuming you guys know each other?

00:20:29.000 Mm-hmm.

00:20:29.000 Okay.

00:20:30.000 All right.

00:20:31.000 So you said music entrepreneur.

00:20:33.000 What does that entail specifically?

00:20:35.000 I'm a singer and I write music as well.

00:20:37.000 Okay.

00:20:39.000 And then you say makeup artist.

00:20:40.000 Yes.

00:20:40.000 Has your kids level completed?

00:20:42.000 High school.

00:20:43.000 Alright.

00:20:44.000 Relationship status?

00:20:45.000 Single.

00:20:46.000 Still?

00:20:47.000 Single, yes.

00:20:48.000 Very single.

00:20:49.000 Newly.

00:20:51.000 I love that.

00:20:52.000 Okay.

00:20:52.000 No, no, no.

00:20:52.000 That's fine.

00:20:53.000 Don't tell my business.

00:20:54.000 I was confused.

00:20:55.000 You said still.

00:20:56.000 Have you guys met before?

00:20:56.000 No, I'm just kidding.

00:20:58.000 Okay.

00:20:59.000 You said single and newly.

00:21:00.000 What happened?

00:21:02.000 I'm just single.

00:21:04.000 You don't want to talk about it?

00:21:05.000 Mm-mm.

00:21:06.000 Who hurt you?

00:21:07.000 Nobody.

00:21:08.000 What's his name?

00:21:09.000 How about this?

00:21:10.000 Just to have fun with this.

00:21:11.000 Name one thing he did wrong in the relationship and then one thing you did wrong in the relationship.

00:21:14.000 Ooh, that's a good one.

00:21:17.000 Yo, that was a sign.

00:21:19.000 That was God.

00:21:19.000 That was a sign.

00:21:21.000 Don't lie.

00:21:22.000 I'm watching right now.

00:21:23.000 Don't put the energy out there.

00:21:25.000 Just one thing.

00:21:27.000 This one thing he did wrong and then one thing you did wrong, you think.

00:21:30.000 Thundercats.

00:21:30.000 One thing.

00:21:32.000 Um...

00:21:33.000 Don't lie.

00:21:34.000 I mean, I feel like I just want to focus on myself.

00:21:37.000 That's it.

00:21:38.000 Oh, okay.

00:21:38.000 She wanted to...

00:21:39.000 She belongs to the streets! 1.00

00:21:40.000 Okay.

00:21:41.000 No, no.

00:21:42.000 That's okay.

00:21:42.000 So your mistake is you wanted to focus on yourself.

00:21:44.000 What did he do wrong then?

00:21:47.000 Um...

00:21:47.000 She was being too nice.

00:21:48.000 I don't want to talk...

00:21:48.000 I'm not...

00:21:49.000 I don't want to talk about that.

00:21:50.000 He was a nice guy.

00:21:51.000 This is a dating podcast.

00:21:53.000 Just give a short, like, you know.

00:21:56.000 Yeah, you could say he wasn't attentive.

00:21:57.000 I don't know.

00:21:58.000 I don't know.

00:21:58.000 I just feel like telling the truth is a great thing.

00:22:01.000 That's it.

00:22:02.000 So he lied.

00:22:03.000 Telling the truth, yeah.

00:22:04.000 All right.

00:22:06.000 Okay.

00:22:06.000 Are your parents still together?

00:22:08.000 Um, no.

00:22:10.000 They aren't.

00:22:11.000 Okay.

00:22:12.000 And then birth control for you?

00:22:14.000 No.

00:22:15.000 Yeah.

00:22:16.000 Okay.

00:22:17.000 No birth control.

00:22:19.000 No.

00:22:19.000 Okay.

00:22:19.000 And then what's your ethnic background?

00:22:21.000 West Indian.

00:22:28.000 I was raised in Barbados.

00:22:30.000 My parents are from the islands.

00:22:35.000 I'm from Barbados.

00:22:40.000 You are?

00:22:40.000 I heard your accent.

00:22:42.000 I heard your accent.

00:22:43.000 Cheese on bread!

00:22:51.000 But how does she not have an accent, though?

00:22:53.000 She probably wasn't born in Barbados.

00:22:54.000 No, I wasn't born there.

00:22:55.000 She said she was raised there, though.

00:22:56.000 I was raised there until I was, like, six years old.

00:22:58.000 And then I came straight.

00:23:00.000 Did you go to high school, man?

00:23:01.000 You went to high school here in Atlanta?

00:23:02.000 Yeah.

00:23:02.000 You went to high school in Atlanta?

00:23:03.000 In Atlanta.

00:23:04.000 Yeah, she fought niggas. 1.00

00:23:05.000 Damn! 1.00

00:23:07.000 I mean, you went to ACL, man. 1.00

00:23:08.000 There's niggas over there. 1.00

00:23:11.000 Well...

00:23:11.000 Chris, you're funny.

00:23:13.000 But I was there in August for Cropover.

00:23:15.000 Really?

00:23:16.000 Yeah.

00:23:16.000 Rihanna was there, too.

00:23:17.000 It was lit.

00:23:17.000 I know.

00:23:18.000 I saw her.

00:23:19.000 She looked real good.

00:23:20.000 Yeah, I look good, too.

00:23:21.000 Yeah.

00:23:22.000 Ow! 1.00

00:23:24.000 All right.

00:23:25.000 What about you?

00:23:25.000 What's your name?

00:23:26.000 Mia.

00:23:27.000 Hey, y'all!

00:23:28.000 Just like Miami.

00:23:29.000 Okay.

00:23:30.000 How old are you?

00:23:31.000 27.

00:23:32.000 Where are you from?

00:23:32.000 Philly.

00:23:33.000 But I lived in Charlotte, like, the last 10 years.

00:23:35.000 So, from Charlotte.

00:23:37.000 Okay.

00:23:37.000 Billy.

00:23:39.000 So...

00:23:39.000 Born and raised.

00:23:40.000 Okay.

00:23:41.000 Don't play with me.

00:23:42.000 What part of Philadelphia are you from?

00:23:43.000 Born and raised.

00:23:44.000 Southwest.

00:23:45.000 Alright.

00:23:47.000 64th and L. What are y'all watching?

00:23:48.000 What's good?

00:23:49.000 No, I'm joking.

00:23:49.000 I'm joking.

00:23:50.000 What do you do for work?

00:23:51.000 I am a pole dance instructor.

00:23:54.000 Say something.

00:23:55.000 She belongs to the streets. 0.92

00:23:56.000 I do.

00:23:58.000 I am a Best Small Business Winner, pole dance instructor, choreographer, author, big me.

00:24:06.000 Okay, so you've written a book or two?

00:24:10.000 I've written one book and it is called The Entrepreneur's Mom's Guide to Survival.

00:24:16.000 That's fire.

00:24:18.000 Thank you.

00:24:18.000 Can you spell entrepreneur?

00:24:19.000 Yes.

00:24:20.000 I mean, no.

00:24:21.000 Not alphabet.

00:24:22.000 Maybe I can.

00:24:22.000 I'm really smart.

00:24:23.000 E-N-T-R-E-P. Don't put me on the spot. 1.00

00:24:29.000 What's up, y'all?

00:24:29.000 I don't know.

00:24:30.000 Maybe if I write it down.

00:24:31.000 Okay.

00:24:32.000 All right.

00:24:32.000 Cool.

00:24:33.000 But yes, it's on Amazon.

00:24:36.000 It's on my Amazon storefront.

00:24:37.000 So wait, author, pole dance instructor, and then what's the other thing?

00:24:41.000 Choreographer.

00:24:42.000 I own Millionaire Social.

00:24:45.000 It's a dinner theater where you can see dinner and a show.

00:24:50.000 That's hard.

00:24:51.000 It's in Charlotte.

00:24:53.000 Were you ever a stripper before or no?

00:24:57.000 For like three days and my family found out and they ridiculed me and then I left.

00:25:02.000 Good.

00:25:02.000 And then I put a pole up in my room and I got really good at it and I opened up a pole studio and I became a badass person that travels all over the world and teaches girls pole.

00:25:12.000 Creative.

00:25:13.000 Yeah, it's on the back of my leg too.

00:25:15.000 So how many shifts did you do before your family found out?

00:25:17.000 For those three days?

00:25:18.000 Yeah.

00:25:19.000 Like, you know, normal shift.

00:25:21.000 You know, you walk in, they look at you just like they did on Players Club, and they tell you to go to the back.

00:25:25.000 And I was like, okay.

00:25:27.000 And I was really shy.

00:25:28.000 It didn't really go good.

00:25:29.000 I called my mom.

00:25:31.000 So you worked maybe 24 hours?

00:25:32.000 Probably about 36. 0.98

00:25:34.000 Dammit, three days? 0.96

00:25:35.000 You did like three, 12-hour shifts? 1.00

00:25:37.000 It's probably like eight-hour shifts, like nine-hour shifts and a 10-hour shift.

00:25:41.000 You know, you go in at like six and you don't leave until like four.

00:25:44.000 Okay.

00:25:44.000 I mean, that was like a long time ago, so I don't know, you know.

00:25:48.000 So you did maybe around 30, 36 hours, and then your family found out, they shamed you, and you said, all right, I'm done, and then you decided to teach them.

00:25:56.000 Yeah, I care what my family thinks.

00:25:57.000 Absolutely.

00:25:57.000 What?

00:25:58.000 I know.

00:25:59.000 What do you mean when my family called me?

00:26:02.000 I mean, they say, hey, what are you doing?

00:26:03.000 No, I called my mom.

00:26:04.000 I said, mom, I'm in a club dancing.

00:26:06.000 I want to make some extra money. 1.00

00:26:08.000 And she said, have you lost your fucking mind? 1.00

00:26:10.000 And then she told my brothers and they called me and told me I was blacklisted. 1.00

00:26:13.000 Don't ask for anything.

00:26:15.000 But I wanted to ask for stuff.

00:26:16.000 So I didn't.

00:26:17.000 I'm going to need them again.

00:26:19.000 You know, so I cut that out.

00:26:21.000 Yeah.

00:26:22.000 Yeah, I was in school, too. 0.99

00:26:24.000 So it's that typical, you want to pay for school and not ask your parents type shit. 0.97

00:26:28.000 So I tried to do it on my own, and it just didn't go. 0.98

00:26:31.000 And I ended up making a career out of it.

00:26:33.000 W shame.

00:26:34.000 Yeah.

00:26:35.000 All right.

00:26:36.000 Highest education level completed?

00:26:37.000 Associate's degree in business management.

00:26:40.000 I'm a small business winner.

00:26:42.000 Shout me out.

00:26:43.000 All right.

00:26:44.000 And then relationship status?

00:26:45.000 I just broke out with my boyfriend three days ago and I just moved to Miami.

00:26:48.000 Why?

00:26:49.000 What do you do?

00:26:51.000 What do I do?

00:26:52.000 I'll tell you what I did.

00:26:54.000 I'm actually a nun.

00:26:55.000 But that's probably what.

00:26:57.000 But no, I moved to Charlotte September 1st.

00:27:00.000 I moved from here from Charlotte September 1st.

00:27:02.000 So four days I've been here.

00:27:04.000 My sister is to my left.

00:27:06.000 I call her after my breakup and I was like, I've been wanting to come to Florida where I've been seeing, you know, before I even saw her, this has been on my bucket list for like five years, I wanted to bring my company here.

00:27:17.000 But I saw my sister take the leave and leave everybody behind and just come. 1.00

00:27:21.000 My boyfriend broke my heart and I packed up a suitcase and I moved here.

00:27:25.000 Okay, what is one thing he did wrong and then one thing you did wrong in the relationship in your opinion?

00:27:30.000 He stayed out until 4 a.m.

00:27:32.000 every single night and he was for the streets.

00:27:35.000 I don't think he cheated. 0.99

00:27:36.000 I will not say that, but he just is a fun guy and he just was addicted to alcohol and I just don't fuck with it. 0.98

00:27:44.000 Okay, so he would party every night? 1.00

00:27:45.000 Every single fucking night. 0.99

00:27:47.000 What do you do for work? 1.00

00:27:49.000 He's huge.

00:27:49.000 You guys might have known him.

00:27:50.000 I don't want to say who he is, but he was his...

00:27:53.000 Like what profession?

00:27:55.000 A rapper.

00:27:57.000 No, he's a rapper from Charlotte.

00:28:01.000 Well, he's from New York, but he lives in Charlotte.

00:28:06.000 Don't worry about it.

00:28:07.000 It could be so many people?

00:28:07.000 Yeah, it could be so many people.

00:28:09.000 Let's keep it there.

00:28:10.000 What I did wrong was not stand up for myself.

00:28:14.000 They will never.

00:28:15.000 I didn't stand up for myself, no.

00:28:18.000 He wanted an Ike and Tina relationship and I'm not Tina.

00:28:22.000 I'm Ike.

00:28:24.000 What's Ike and Tina's relationship?

00:28:27.000 Falcon!

00:28:28.000 Pawns! 0.86

00:28:30.000 No, he said that.

00:28:32.000 He actually has an interview where he speaks about that.

00:28:35.000 And he says how Ike came into Tina's life and she was singing in a church and he elevated her and gave her a name so much that when they went to have a divorce, at the end of it, all she wanted was that name that he gave her.

00:28:48.000 And he felt like he wanted to do that with a woman.

00:28:51.000 I got my own name.

00:28:53.000 So you're Ike?

00:28:54.000 I'm Ike.

00:28:55.000 You my Tina.

00:28:56.000 Not you.

00:28:57.000 So he's below you then?

00:29:00.000 No, nobody below me.

00:29:01.000 But I'm not below anybody either.

00:29:03.000 But if it was a Game of Thrones, I'm going to be Ike.

00:29:06.000 I wouldn't be Tina.

00:29:07.000 But Ike elevated Tina. 0.99

00:29:09.000 And I elevated him.

00:29:10.000 But he's more famous than you.

00:29:12.000 Not even.

00:29:13.000 Who said that?

00:29:15.000 Yeah, who said that?

00:29:16.000 No, no, but you're saying he's a famous rapper, right?

00:29:17.000 He's really known, but that happened during my run because of who I am.

00:29:23.000 So, I mean...

00:29:23.000 You made him poppin'.

00:29:29.000 Fuck yeah. 1.00

00:29:31.000 How? 1.00

00:29:32.000 What the fuck? 1.00

00:29:33.000 I make you poppin' too. 1.00

00:29:34.000 How?

00:29:35.000 You want me to upgrade you?

00:29:36.000 No, no.

00:29:36.000 How?

00:29:38.000 After the show, we'll talk about it.

00:29:39.000 And then you come back to the show and then you gonna tell them about it.

00:29:41.000 You can't even spell entrepreneur! 0.99

00:29:43.000 I don't give a fuck if I can spell entrepreneur. 0.99

00:29:46.000 I can build your soul. 0.99

00:29:46.000 How about that? 0.99

00:29:47.000 I know, Fresh.

00:29:48.000 Nigga, I got one soul.

00:29:49.000 It's traumatic.

00:29:49.000 Don't worry.

00:29:50.000 And I turn all the bad boys good and I make them go crazy.

00:29:54.000 He going crazy right now too.

00:29:56.000 Why'd he leave then?

00:29:57.000 He didn't leave.

00:29:58.000 Nobody leave me.

00:30:00.000 No, she left right. 0.97

00:30:01.000 Nobody ever left me.

00:30:03.000 And I'm a stand-on.

00:30:03.000 I'm on live TV. No man's ever left me.

00:30:05.000 Stand on business.

00:30:06.000 Yeah.

00:30:06.000 Because you said he broke your heart.

00:30:08.000 He definitely broke my heart.

00:30:09.000 So I had to leave him.

00:30:10.000 Because he kept coming home.

00:30:11.000 He doesn't think he broke my heart.

00:30:12.000 Because he kept coming home late.

00:30:13.000 Yeah, he yelled too much.

00:30:20.000 You can't yell at me.

00:30:22.000 I'm a very sensitive soul.

00:30:23.000 I talk like this all the time.

00:30:25.000 Watch your tone.

00:30:26.000 Was it Petey Pablo?

00:30:28.000 Yeah.

00:30:29.000 Whoa! 0.71

00:30:30.000 No.

00:30:32.000 You know what?

00:30:33.000 He the biggest.

00:30:34.000 I'll give him a shout out.

00:30:35.000 I don't think Petey Pablo is from New York though.

00:30:37.000 Charlotte, though?

00:30:39.000 I don't know.

00:30:40.000 He's from New York, but he doesn't Charlotte.

00:30:42.000 Yeah, that's what she said.

00:30:44.000 He's from New York, but he doesn't Charlotte, so I can't think.

00:30:46.000 You know what?

00:30:47.000 My sister said, don't even give him no clout to the interview.

00:30:48.000 No, I'm saying they're going to find out in the chat, but they're going to find out.

00:30:52.000 But I'm just a little confused, because you said this whole Ike and Tina thing.

00:30:58.000 Yes.

00:30:59.000 So you're saying that he wanted to give you a name, but you don't need that because you build your own name.

00:31:06.000 I already had a name, so when he first met me, that was one of the first things he said.

00:31:10.000 But in the beginning, I let him know I was already who I was, so you don't have to do that for me. 1.00

00:31:15.000 You just fuck with me. 0.99

00:31:16.000 You don't have to try to think you're gonna build me up. 1.00

00:31:19.000 Sometimes when a person thinks they build you up, they think they can pop it and bring you back down.

00:31:23.000 So I don't give anyone that much power to think they built me up.

00:31:26.000 You know what I mean?

00:31:27.000 Okay.

00:31:30.000 Alright, and then are your parents together?

00:31:33.000 No.

00:31:34.000 Okay, and then birth control for you?

00:31:36.000 I'm a nun.

00:31:38.000 No birth control.

00:31:40.000 Okay.

00:31:40.000 He didn't smash?

00:31:43.000 Yeah.

00:31:44.000 So you're not a nun then?

00:31:45.000 Now I am.

00:31:46.000 I'm a new age nun.

00:31:47.000 This is the new kind.

00:31:49.000 The 2024 nuns.

00:31:52.000 We can dress like this and we can be nuns. 0.99

00:31:54.000 I don't want no penis right now. 1.00

00:31:56.000 The nuns that I know don't get nothing, period. 0.99

00:31:57.000 I don't want nothing, period, right now. 0.99

00:31:58.000 I think you guys, every time I talk to one of y'all boys, y'all fuck up my algorithm. 0.99

00:32:05.000 Emotional damage! 0.99

00:32:07.000 Okay, what's your background? 0.92

00:32:09.000 Full black?

00:32:11.000 Yeah, I'm a full black girl from Philly.

00:32:13.000 Okay.

00:32:13.000 Alright, body count.

00:32:16.000 Well, I've been in all relationships, so I don't got no virgin before I met you, baby.

00:32:23.000 I never had nobody.

00:32:26.000 Right now I'm a virgin, so I don't got no bodies.

00:32:29.000 If I'm done with you, I don't got no bodies.

00:32:32.000 Alright, gotcha.

00:32:33.000 You can't reverse or retract bodies.

00:32:37.000 I definitely retract bodies.

00:32:38.000 Oh.

00:32:39.000 Who are you?

00:32:40.000 Who are you?

00:32:41.000 Exactly.

00:32:42.000 I'm Mia, but I'm saying after I finish with you, who are you?

00:32:45.000 You what?

00:32:46.000 We were never anything.

00:32:47.000 Exactly.

00:32:48.000 Not you, but we could be.

00:32:50.000 Can I see the way you keep throwing it over here?

00:32:52.000 I know what's going on.

00:32:53.000 What the?

00:32:57.000 Let's just move on, bro.

00:32:59.000 This is crazy.

00:33:00.000 Yeah, sorry.

00:33:03.000 All right.

00:33:04.000 What about you?

00:33:05.000 What's your name?

00:33:05.000 Tiffany.

00:33:06.000 All right, Tiffany, how old are you?

00:33:08.000 28.

00:33:09.000 All right, where are you from?

00:33:11.000 Miami.

00:33:12.000 All right, what do you do for it?

00:33:13.000 So I'm a lawyer.

00:33:15.000 Okay.

00:33:17.000 So you have your highest education, obviously you went to law school, and yeah, so you're a JD. What kind of law do you practice specifically?

00:33:28.000 So currently I do business immigration.

00:33:31.000 Oh really?

00:33:32.000 That's a unique niche.

00:33:33.000 Yes.

00:33:34.000 When you say business immigration, are we talking about getting employees documents?

00:33:41.000 So basically like work visas or investment companies that want to start their companies here in the U.S. from other countries.

00:33:47.000 Okay, so H-1B visas and then people that are foreigners that want to start businesses here.

00:33:51.000 EB-2s, EB-5s, a lot of O-1 visas, which is like talents, artists, producers.

00:33:56.000 Extraordinary ability.

00:33:57.000 Yeah, exactly.

00:33:59.000 Okay.

00:34:00.000 Actually, fun fact.

00:34:01.000 Mr.

00:34:01.000 O-1 Pizza, the owner came from O-1 Visa.

00:34:04.000 That's what he called Mr.

00:34:05.000 O-1.

00:34:06.000 Oh, that makes sense.

00:34:07.000 Yeah.

00:34:08.000 It's not the easiest visa to get, but yeah.

00:34:10.000 Really good story.

00:34:11.000 Yeah. 0.98

00:34:11.000 Celebrities and shit like that get that. 0.98

00:34:13.000 Yeah.

00:34:13.000 Okay, so you basically do a combination where you're helping people get work visas to come here and also foreign entrepreneurs to start businesses here.

00:34:22.000 Correct.

00:34:23.000 Okay.

00:34:24.000 So where did you go to law school?

00:34:25.000 I went to St.

00:34:26.000 Thomas.

00:34:27.000 Here in Miami, actually.

00:34:29.000 Okay, where's that again?

00:34:30.000 It's a little more up north.

00:34:32.000 Broward.

00:34:33.000 Broward?

00:34:33.000 Around there, like, um...

00:34:34.000 Kind of near Hollywood-ish?

00:34:36.000 No.

00:34:36.000 But closer.

00:34:37.000 Yeah.

00:34:38.000 I live around there.

00:34:39.000 How long have you been a lawyer?

00:34:41.000 What, probably two, three years?

00:34:43.000 Because you're 28, so...

00:34:44.000 So, I was barred last year.

00:34:47.000 Okay.

00:34:48.000 So, it's been, like, roughly a little over a year.

00:34:52.000 How long were you in law school for?

00:34:53.000 Three years.

00:34:54.000 Okay.

00:34:55.000 Alright.

00:34:55.000 And then where'd you do your undergrad?

00:34:57.000 FIU. Okay.

00:34:59.000 And what'd you major in there?

00:35:00.000 So I did criminal justice.

00:35:02.000 Criminal.

00:35:03.000 Criminal justice.

00:35:03.000 Alright.

00:35:05.000 She's fire. 0.97

00:35:07.000 Relationship status?

00:35:08.000 Single.

00:35:09.000 Okay.

00:35:10.000 Are your parents still together?

00:35:11.000 No.

00:35:12.000 Okay.

00:35:14.000 Birth control for you?

00:35:15.000 No.

00:35:16.000 Okay.

00:35:17.000 And then what's your ethnic background?

00:35:19.000 I'm Colombian.

00:35:21.000 Full?

00:35:22.000 Yeah, through both sides.

00:35:24.000 All right.

00:35:25.000 And I'm assuming you were born here though, right?

00:35:26.000 Yes.

00:35:27.000 I have dual citizenship, but I was fully born here.

00:35:30.000 Okay.

00:35:30.000 All right.

00:35:31.000 What about you?

00:35:33.000 Hello.

00:35:33.000 Welcome back.

00:35:34.000 Thank you.

00:35:35.000 My name is Katerina.

00:35:36.000 I'm originally from Europe, Estonia, but I live in California now.

00:35:41.000 Wait, how old are you?

00:35:41.000 I'm 21.

00:35:43.000 All right.

00:35:43.000 And you said you're from California?

00:35:44.000 No, no.

00:35:45.000 I'm from Europe, Estonia.

00:35:47.000 Oh, Estonia.

00:35:47.000 Okay.

00:35:47.000 But I live in California now.

00:35:49.000 But you live in California now.

00:35:50.000 Okay.

00:35:52.000 What part of California are you living in?

00:35:54.000 San Diego.

00:35:54.000 I go to San Diego State University there.

00:35:57.000 Okay.

00:35:58.000 All right.

00:35:59.000 What do you do for work?

00:36:01.000 I work at a student financial center, like, talking about FAFSA, you know.

00:36:06.000 Oh, okay.

00:36:07.000 I remember now.

00:36:08.000 You, like, deny and accept aid, and you're in admissions, right?

00:36:11.000 Yes, yes.

00:36:12.000 Okay.

00:36:12.000 That's a good memory.

00:36:13.000 That's a really good memory.

00:36:15.000 I mean, I remember people by, like, their work, kind of.

00:36:17.000 Not by their face.

00:36:19.000 Because that's a unique thing, because I, like, yeah. 0.67

00:36:22.000 Because you don't really deal with people that, like, deal with, like, FAFSAs and shit like that.

00:36:26.000 So, um...

00:36:27.000 I'm surprised you remembered that.

00:36:29.000 That's interesting.

00:36:29.000 You got a foreign national handling something that's like government aid.

00:36:34.000 America, my friend.

00:36:35.000 That's interesting.

00:36:36.000 America.

00:36:36.000 That is interesting because people always complain, oh, why don't you guys give me more money?

00:36:40.000 And I'm like, I don't get any money.

00:36:42.000 You know, I don't need it as well.

00:36:43.000 Yeah.

00:36:44.000 Yeah, so it's like, wow.

00:36:45.000 It is interesting that they hired me.

00:36:46.000 But I do it good.

00:36:47.000 But it's work-study, right?

00:36:48.000 It's through the school?

00:36:49.000 It's work-study, financial aid, billing, everything kind of.

00:36:52.000 Okay.

00:36:53.000 So, okay, so you do work-study, you work in a student...

00:36:56.000 You do admissions and aid, right?

00:36:58.000 Yes.

00:36:59.000 So you're pursuing your bachelor's degree right now, I'm guessing?

00:37:03.000 What are you majoring in?

00:37:05.000 Marketing, professional selling and sales.

00:37:08.000 I also have a minor in psychology, but I plan to go to law school after as well.

00:37:15.000 Relationship status?

00:37:16.000 I'm in a relationship.

00:37:17.000 How long have I been together?

00:37:18.000 Year and a half.

00:37:19.000 Nice.

00:37:20.000 Still the same one.

00:37:21.000 Yeah, I was in a relationship last time as well.

00:37:23.000 How did you meet again?

00:37:24.000 We met in the same city, different schools, kind of through friends.

00:37:28.000 Cool.

00:37:30.000 Oh, so you guys met in San Diego?

00:37:32.000 Yeah, we met in San Diego.

00:37:33.000 He goes to a different school, though, into Point Loma University, but he's from Orange County.

00:37:38.000 Okay, he's American.

00:37:40.000 Are your parents still together?

00:37:42.000 No, they're divorced, but they're really good friends still.

00:37:47.000 All right.

00:37:48.000 Breath control for you?

00:37:49.000 No.

00:37:50.000 No?

00:37:50.000 Okay.

00:37:51.000 And then, yeah, you're Caucasian, right? 0.52

00:37:54.000 Yes.

00:37:54.000 From Estonia.

00:37:55.000 Basic bitch. 1.00

00:37:56.000 Estonia. 1.00

00:37:58.000 Chris.

00:37:59.000 I mean she's basically white, right? 0.93

00:38:01.000 She's like a European though. 0.90

00:38:02.000 She's not from LA. How many languages do you speak?

00:38:08.000 That's a foreign woman. 1.00

00:38:08.000 I speak four. 1.00

00:38:10.000 Most Europeans.

00:38:12.000 Yeah, more than two.

00:38:15.000 Alright, your body count.

00:38:17.000 Is that a part of the USSR? There's a big Russian influence, that's why.

00:38:26.000 I speak Russian, Estonian, French, but it's a little broken, and English, of course.

00:38:33.000 Okay.

00:38:34.000 Is Estonian, like, Slavic language, like, similar to Russian?

00:38:37.000 No, it's not, actually.

00:38:38.000 A lot of people think that, but Estonian is more similar to Finnish.

00:38:41.000 It's a different type of language.

00:38:43.000 It's not Slavic language.

00:38:44.000 Oh.

00:38:45.000 It's really different.

00:38:46.000 They don't sound the same at all.

00:38:47.000 Okay.

00:38:48.000 Mm-hmm.

00:38:48.000 So Estonia was a part of the USSR. Okay.

00:38:50.000 Yeah.

00:38:50.000 All right.

00:38:51.000 Learn something new every day.

00:38:52.000 What was that, Chris?

00:38:53.000 All right, body count.

00:38:55.000 I have to say?

00:38:56.000 I mean, you don't have to say.

00:38:57.000 I'm just...

00:38:58.000 I can say.

00:38:59.000 It's three.

00:38:59.000 Okay.

00:39:00.000 300?

00:39:02.000 No, three, actually.

00:39:04.000 Y'all believe her?

00:39:05.000 I believe you.

00:39:06.000 You know your poom poom. 0.95

00:39:08.000 Good.

00:39:09.000 Thank you.

00:39:10.000 Thank you.

00:39:11.000 Were you there?

00:39:13.000 Yes, girl. 1.00

00:39:17.000 You suck that man's dick. 1.00

00:39:19.000 Never did we. 1.00

00:39:21.000 I believe you.

00:39:22.000 Fantastic.

00:39:24.000 Okay.

00:39:24.000 What about you?

00:39:25.000 What's your name?

00:39:26.000 Hi, I'm Irene.

00:39:28.000 Konnichiwa.

00:39:30.000 Konnichiwa.

00:39:30.000 Chris, we don't even know.

00:39:32.000 How old are you from?

00:39:33.000 I'm 22 years old.

00:39:34.000 22?

00:39:34.000 Where are you from?

00:39:36.000 Well, I was born in Dallas, Texas.

00:39:39.000 Alright.

00:39:40.000 Thank God.

00:39:41.000 What's your ethnic background?

00:39:42.000 I'm South Korean.

00:39:44.000 Thank God.

00:39:44.000 Chris is wrong.

00:39:46.000 I was getting nervous, don't worry.

00:39:48.000 We're getting worried.

00:39:48.000 Oh.

00:39:49.000 You thought she was Chinese? 1.00

00:39:50.000 Deja vu.

00:39:52.000 What?

00:39:52.000 Oh my God.

00:39:53.000 I don't want to see another one, man.

00:39:54.000 Are you first generation?

00:39:57.000 I'm second generation.

00:39:59.000 Okay, so your parents were born and raised here, too?

00:40:02.000 No.

00:40:04.000 Okay, so you were the first one born in the United States?

00:40:06.000 Yes.

00:40:06.000 Oh, so you're a first generation, then.

00:40:08.000 American, is what I mean.

00:40:08.000 Oh, wait.

00:40:09.000 Yeah, your first generation.

00:40:10.000 First generation.

00:40:11.000 Yeah, first generation.

00:40:12.000 Yes.

00:40:13.000 Do the math.

00:40:13.000 Oh, my gosh.

00:40:14.000 Okay.

00:40:16.000 What?

00:40:17.000 Yo! 1.00

00:40:18.000 I'm not being raised.

00:40:19.000 She's good at math.

00:40:20.000 Yeah, clearly not.

00:40:21.000 Hey, stereotype is bad.

00:40:23.000 She's actually not good at math.

00:40:25.000 Yeah, so if you were the first one born in the United States and your family immigrated here, then you're first generation.

00:40:32.000 Thank you.

00:40:32.000 Like me, I'm first generation as well.

00:40:34.000 Like my parents came from Sudan, so your parents came from South Korea.

00:40:37.000 Are you a spy?

00:40:38.000 No.

00:40:39.000 Okay, good.

00:40:40.000 They're not known for that.

00:40:42.000 So you said you're from Dallas.

00:40:44.000 Okay, highest education level completed?

00:40:47.000 Bachelor's degree.

00:40:48.000 Okay, and what do you do for work?

00:40:50.000 Currently, I am working on building my own business.

00:40:55.000 I am a tarot reader, and I'm also working towards pursuing...

00:41:00.000 Wait, what's a tarot?

00:41:02.000 Tarot cards?

00:41:03.000 Tarot cards.

00:41:04.000 Isn't that scary?

00:41:05.000 Such a spiritual.

00:41:06.000 So, no doctor.

00:41:07.000 Well, there's a controversial opinion surrounding tarot and oracle and divination, I feel.

00:41:15.000 She's really good, too.

00:41:17.000 How do you know?

00:41:17.000 She read me some cards.

00:41:18.000 Thank you.

00:41:19.000 She always checks up on me.

00:41:21.000 Oh, that's scary.

00:41:22.000 Okay, so wait, so you're a tarot card reader?

00:41:25.000 Yes.

00:41:26.000 Yeah.

00:41:26.000 Okay.

00:41:27.000 And you said you have a bachelor's degree in what?

00:41:29.000 Psychology.

00:41:30.000 Okay.

00:41:31.000 So I'm assuming you graduated recently?

00:41:33.000 Yes.

00:41:34.000 Okay.

00:41:35.000 Are you guys going to school together?

00:41:36.000 No, we actually met in Dallas.

00:41:38.000 I was on an internship there.

00:41:40.000 Oh wow, that's random.

00:41:41.000 So wait, do you live in Dallas and you're just visiting right now?

00:41:44.000 Yes.

00:41:44.000 Do you see that?

00:41:46.000 Are your parents together?

00:41:49.000 Yes.

00:41:50.000 What do they think about your tarot reading?

00:41:53.000 Well, honestly, I feel that there's a stereotype surrounding Asian parents, and you know how they're strict, or they want you to be a doctor or lawyer.

00:42:02.000 But my parents are actually very open-minded, in my opinion, and honestly they do support whatever creative ideas or projects.

00:42:12.000 What does your family do?

00:42:15.000 What's their profession?

00:42:17.000 Right now they are retired, but before...

00:42:19.000 Oh.

00:42:20.000 What did they do before that?

00:42:21.000 They own their own business.

00:42:23.000 Okay.

00:42:23.000 Oh, okay.

00:42:24.000 Did they have like a restaurant or a store?

00:42:25.000 It was more of like a clothing business.

00:42:27.000 A clothing business.

00:42:28.000 Okay.

00:42:28.000 So they retired and then sent you to school and then you majored in psychology and then now you're starting a tarot.

00:42:34.000 You said you're starting your business, right?

00:42:35.000 Yes.

00:42:36.000 Okay.

00:42:37.000 Did you see the movie Tarot?

00:42:39.000 I did.

00:42:40.000 I did.

00:42:40.000 Thoughts on it?

00:42:41.000 Is it real?

00:42:41.000 Is it like, what do you think about it?

00:42:43.000 I think it, honestly, I didn't want to watch it because I feel that it was going to make me mad because it's just so, like, corny and... 0.84

00:42:56.000 Wait, is it horny? 0.97

00:42:57.000 Corny or horny? 0.99

00:42:58.000 Corny. 0.92

00:42:58.000 The movie was very corny and it just overemphasizes on the stereotype of Nero. 0.92

00:43:05.000 So it's not actually how it happens?

00:43:09.000 Yes.

00:43:09.000 Okay.

00:43:12.000 You said your parents are together.

00:43:14.000 Birth control for you?

00:43:15.000 No.

00:43:16.000 I had another question, but I forgot it.

00:43:21.000 Body count?

00:43:23.000 Did you grow up religious at all?

00:43:26.000 What religion?

00:43:27.000 Are your parents Christian, Catholic, Buddhist?

00:43:29.000 My parents are actually not religious at all.

00:43:35.000 You didn't go to church or anything growing up?

00:43:37.000 I was kind of sent to church because they had to work and people who babysat us were religious, so we would follow them to church, Christianity.

00:43:51.000 I guess it didn't work.

00:43:53.000 Well, there's so many opinions I have about spirituality.

00:43:57.000 Yeah.

00:43:57.000 Isn't reading cards, like, wouldn't that be considered, like, um...

00:44:00.000 Spirituality.

00:44:01.000 Like, that's against the...

00:44:02.000 Yeah.

00:44:03.000 It's against most major...

00:44:04.000 It's considered, like, witchcraft?

00:44:05.000 Pretty much.

00:44:07.000 Blathomists?

00:44:07.000 Yes, it is.

00:44:08.000 It's blas... 0.93

00:44:08.000 okay. 0.93

00:44:10.000 Uh...

00:44:11.000 Yeah, in Islam it is, too.

00:44:12.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:44:13.000 Yeah, in Saudi Arabia, they execute people for that shit. 1.00

00:44:15.000 Good thing she's in America. 1.00

00:44:15.000 No, don't go to Saudi Arabia. 1.00

00:44:17.000 Haram!

00:44:17.000 Stay here.

00:44:18.000 Yeah, don't go to Saudi Arabia.

00:44:19.000 Stay here.

00:44:20.000 It's literally a capital offense. 1.00

00:44:21.000 Chop your head off. 0.99

00:44:22.000 Yeah, okay, okay. 0.99

00:44:24.000 All right, cool.

00:44:25.000 So what, we can read some chats?

00:44:26.000 Some chats real quick.

00:44:27.000 Yeah, we'll read some chats.

00:44:28.000 All right, guys, get your questions in now.

00:44:29.000 And then we'll go to the...

00:44:30.000 Or do you want to hit the topic question first?

00:44:32.000 We'll talk first.

00:44:33.000 Alright, go ahead.

00:44:34.000 Ladies on the panel. 0.99

00:44:35.000 So guys, get your chats in now and then we'll ask after.

00:44:37.000 Dating nowadays is tough.

00:44:39.000 We understand it's a culture shock.

00:44:41.000 People are worried about dating.

00:44:42.000 And the biggest thing is they don't want a toxic man, right?

00:44:45.000 They want a man that's stable, not toxic, that loves them.

00:44:48.000 But in your experience, how do you tell if a man's toxic or not at the very beginning?

00:44:53.000 We'll start here.

00:44:56.000 Give us one or two signs to tell us if he's toxic or not.

00:45:00.000 How would you know?

00:45:02.000 This is honestly like an example that I saw recently that stuck out to me.

00:45:07.000 I don't really like whenever men are very...

00:45:14.000 I mean, who likes an arrogant man?

00:45:15.000 But I think when you overemphasize, I guess, what you have or what you can do, it is a bit icky, in my opinion.

00:45:23.000 And I feel it shows like a lack of what you have rather than what you genuinely have.

00:45:28.000 So, for example, like bragging about like followers or...

00:45:34.000 I'm famous!

00:45:36.000 One million followers!

00:45:37.000 Look at me!

00:45:38.000 Yeah, like, but the more like...

00:45:39.000 I have a dog.

00:45:41.000 Do you know who I am?

00:45:42.000 Yeah, kind of like that.

00:45:44.000 I'm cool.

00:45:45.000 Yeah.

00:45:46.000 Okay, I got you.

00:45:47.000 All right.

00:45:49.000 So, you only want them to name one thing, right?

00:45:50.000 Yeah, one thing.

00:45:51.000 Okay.

00:45:52.000 That signifies toxicity in a man. 0.97

00:45:54.000 So, arrogant, bragging. 0.78

00:45:55.000 Yeah. 0.96

00:45:56.000 All right, what about you?

00:45:57.000 I will say in the opposite way.

00:46:00.000 I think what shows me that someone is not toxic is consistency and that you can rely on them.

00:46:04.000 Like if they're saying, oh, this is the plan, then we're doing it.

00:46:07.000 I'm really straightforward, so for me it's important.

00:46:09.000 Do you want to give the opposite?

00:46:10.000 Yeah, we need a toxic trait.

00:46:12.000 We need the opposite of the opposite.

00:46:14.000 Inconsistency.

00:46:16.000 Yeah, inconsistency.

00:46:18.000 How do you see that play out?

00:46:21.000 Give us one example.

00:46:23.000 Well, for example, I don't like people in general like that.

00:46:29.000 They like people?

00:46:30.000 Your job is working with people.

00:46:33.000 I don't like people like that who are generally inconsistent.

00:46:36.000 What I mean by that is, let's say people are like, oh yeah, let's do it, that's the plan, we're doing it for sure.

00:46:42.000 I take it really seriously, and then once it's time to go, then they're like, oh, I'm not actually doing it, or I can't, or let's reschedule.

00:46:49.000 I'm really punctual, so it's important for me that plans are consistent.

00:46:54.000 Okay.

00:46:55.000 For everyone in general, for me.

00:46:57.000 Did you ever fleck on a date?

00:47:00.000 Not exactly flake, but keep rescheduling.

00:47:03.000 You're one of those, huh?

00:47:05.000 Gotcha.

00:47:06.000 Not me, not me.

00:47:07.000 I thought you meant another guy.

00:47:09.000 He's asking if you flake on it.

00:47:11.000 Oh, no, I don't.

00:47:11.000 I'm really punctual.

00:47:12.000 If I say I'm doing it, I'm doing it.

00:47:14.000 I believe you.

00:47:15.000 I believe her as well.

00:47:17.000 I'm just kidding.

00:47:18.000 What about you?

00:47:18.000 I mean, it's a weird question in my opinion because I'm big on, like, vibes.

00:47:23.000 Energy.

00:47:24.000 Yes, so I can read the room very well and I have a very good character of like judgment, like judgment of character, sorry.

00:47:31.000 So I can just easily tell by like talking to a person whether we click or we don't.

00:47:36.000 Alright, so give us one of these.

00:47:37.000 So the toxicity comes.

00:47:38.000 Yeah, what's one trait of the toxicity then since you're a good judgment of character?

00:47:42.000 Yes, tell us.

00:47:42.000 Like, basically, when...

00:47:44.000 Well, if they cut you off, if they're just so self-centered into their own thing, like, just not present in the moment and just, you know, I don't know if it makes sense.

00:47:54.000 Ghosting makes a lot of sense.

00:47:55.000 Yeah, just not...

00:47:58.000 I didn't understand at all.

00:48:00.000 That's what I'm going to clarify right now.

00:48:02.000 When you say cut you off, you mean as in your mid-sentence and he just stops you abruptly?

00:48:07.000 Is that what you mean?

00:48:07.000 Well, yeah, like being disrespectful, being rude, or just not present in the conversation.

00:48:12.000 Because if you're saying how you can meet someone toxic immediately, it's because it's like the first impression of them and it's the first moment.

00:48:18.000 Right.

00:48:19.000 So something like that.

00:48:20.000 And then you can just kind of feel it, you know?

00:48:22.000 So being abrupt.

00:48:23.000 Yeah, or just not present.

00:48:25.000 I don't know.

00:48:26.000 Okay, so I'm assuming these are two different things, right?

00:48:29.000 Abrupt and, yeah.

00:48:31.000 Yeah, because I would argue if they're interjecting in what you're saying, they're very present because they know what you're about to say or they're, like, not interested.

00:48:37.000 So they're, like, moving it to something else.

00:48:39.000 And just, like, their body language, like, you can tell when someone's, like, more toxic.

00:48:43.000 All right, so you name two things.

00:48:44.000 One is cutting you off when you're speaking, and the second is not being present in conversation.

00:48:48.000 I would say the second one is, like, way bigger than the first one.

00:48:52.000 Okay, not being present.

00:48:53.000 Okay.

00:48:53.000 This is very telling, how women perceive this question, but I will continue.

00:48:58.000 What about you?

00:49:00.000 Insecurities.

00:49:01.000 You know, one of my first, one of the first things I noticed with my past relationship is that the first date, he went through my phone.

00:49:09.000 No way!

00:49:10.000 Yeah, like, I went into the, I don't drink, and I got out the car to go into the store, and I left my phone to play music, and he went through it.

00:49:19.000 And when I got out, he told me, when I came back in the car, he told me that he went through it.

00:49:23.000 And to me, that was a red flag because that was like our entire relationship.

00:49:26.000 Like, there were multiple times that that happened.

00:49:30.000 You said this was the first date this happened?

00:49:31.000 Our very first date, yes.

00:49:33.000 And you stuck with him after?

00:49:34.000 Yeah.

00:49:38.000 Listen, bro, that's crazy. 1.00

00:49:40.000 What the fuck? 0.99

00:49:41.000 Okay, what was his assessment when he looked through your phone the first time? 1.00

00:49:45.000 Like, what did he tell you?

00:49:46.000 He said, hey, I went through your phone.

00:49:48.000 I saw that you were texting a few guys.

00:49:50.000 And it was our first date, so I felt like I was in the dating field at the time.

00:49:54.000 So I didn't have any loyalty to anyone. 0.97

00:49:56.000 But one particular text message, it was like a dick pic.

00:50:02.000 And he was like, why did he send you this? 0.96

00:50:05.000 But I'm going to tell you, that guy was in jail.

00:50:07.000 And he had a jail phone, and he texted me.

00:50:09.000 And he just sent it.

00:50:10.000 I didn't even respond.

00:50:11.000 How did he get your number?

00:50:12.000 He was my friend before.

00:50:14.000 We knew each other since high school.

00:50:15.000 He was a friend?

00:50:16.000 He was my friend.

00:50:17.000 Like, we were like, you know, neighborhood friend.

00:50:19.000 You grow up with a person, like, we never had sex.

00:50:20.000 We never chilled.

00:50:21.000 He was in jail.

00:50:23.000 He just wanted attention.

00:50:24.000 And I would just not, like, be rude to him. 0.99

00:50:27.000 So he saw the dick pic. 0.99

00:50:28.000 Hold up, hold up, hold up, hold up, hold up, hold up. 0.99

00:50:30.000 What?

00:50:30.000 Listen.

00:50:31.000 Red flag.

00:50:31.000 I'm not gonna hold you.

00:50:33.000 That is crazy.

00:50:33.000 Because, listen, attention is one thing.

00:50:36.000 But dick pics and responding is two different things. 0.99

00:50:38.000 I didn't respond to the dick pic. 0.99

00:50:40.000 So you just opened it? 0.97

00:50:41.000 No, I never opened it.

00:50:42.000 He opened it.

00:50:43.000 No, but when he sent you the...

00:50:45.000 Chris, put the camera on you, man.

00:50:46.000 Like when your friend was in jail, right?

00:50:47.000 Yes.

00:50:48.000 He sent you, hey, how you doing?

00:50:50.000 No, he said, good morning, beautiful.

00:50:51.000 I hope you have a good day.

00:50:53.000 Dick pic.

00:50:54.000 And I actually, to be honest, I think every girl at the table can agree. 1.00

00:50:58.000 We all hate dick pics. 0.99

00:51:00.000 And if we don't respond, that's cringy. 0.99

00:51:02.000 That's like super like icky. 0.99

00:51:04.000 We don't like dick pics. 1.00

00:51:05.000 If your girl responds to the dick pic picture... 0.99

00:51:09.000 We never asked for them.

00:51:10.000 Why did you keep them?

00:51:12.000 I didn't ever open it.

00:51:14.000 Why did you keep them?

00:51:15.000 I didn't know that it was that he opened it.

00:51:17.000 Let me get this straight.

00:51:18.000 So he met you for the first time.

00:51:20.000 Yes. 1.00

00:51:20.000 First thing he saw was someone else's dick? 1.00

00:51:23.000 I never looked at it like that. 1.00

00:51:24.000 You guys just said that. 1.00

00:51:25.000 That shit, great, bro. 1.00

00:51:27.000 And you stay with this nigga? 1.00

00:51:28.000 We just broke up. 0.97

00:51:29.000 Yeah, I just broke up.

00:51:30.000 Oh, that's the one.

00:51:31.000 That's the same one you stay with.

00:51:32.000 How long were you together?

00:51:35.000 14 months.

00:51:37.000 I mean, Clark Carey's man.

00:51:38.000 And they say women are more mature than men.

00:51:40.000 No, no, no, no.

00:51:41.000 I felt like he had a reason because of who he was and maybe he thought like, let me make sure she's not trying to do a drop before I take her to my house. 0.99

00:51:49.000 So I'm thinking maybe he's looking at my phone to make sure I'm not staring at a location or doing some weird stuff with my homegirls because of who he was.

00:51:55.000 So I let that slide.

00:51:57.000 But then throughout the relationship, the 14 months...

00:51:59.000 Did he say that that's why he looked through?

00:52:01.000 No.

00:52:01.000 Similar to it, but not those words.

00:52:03.000 He was like, I just gotta make sure I'm who I'm with.

00:52:05.000 I had to make sure you're who you are kind of thing.

00:52:08.000 Okay.

00:52:08.000 So I kind of just gave it to him like, okay, maybe he's like that weird kind of guy who, like we were just talking about, like who thinks they're somebody and, and you know, so I'm, I gave, maybe it was that, but to me that's insecure.

00:52:18.000 If he was an average guy without the fame, would you let that slide?

00:52:22.000 No.

00:52:24.000 Okay.

00:52:26.000 Makes sense.

00:52:26.000 Okay.

00:52:27.000 So insecurity is your biggest red flag.

00:52:29.000 I think it should be every girl's red flag because then they begin to... 1.00

00:52:32.000 That's how insecure guys control you. 1.00

00:52:35.000 Type shit. 1.00

00:52:35.000 Yeah, they pull you out of clubs. 1.00

00:52:37.000 They pull you out of, like, your happiness.

00:52:39.000 They just...

00:52:40.000 Insecurity's real.

00:52:42.000 And you think that's a bad thing?

00:52:43.000 I think it's awful, especially if you're a good-looking girl.

00:52:45.000 Like, if...

00:52:47.000 Everyone at the table is pretty.

00:52:50.000 We know how it feels to have a jealous guy.

00:52:52.000 And you see that in the beginning, and it just progressively gets worse.

00:52:55.000 Just out of curiosity, who agrees with her that insecurity is a toxic trait and them pulling you out of clubs and stuff like that is a problem?

00:53:01.000 Raise of hands.

00:53:02.000 Who agrees with that?

00:53:03.000 Okay.

00:53:04.000 Everybody.

00:53:05.000 Insecurity.

00:53:06.000 All of you agree that it's a problem.

00:53:07.000 Period.

00:53:09.000 Period, Pooh.

00:53:10.000 What about you?

00:53:12.000 One toxic trait that you've seen.

00:53:14.000 The number one.

00:53:17.000 I really agree with everything that was already said.

00:53:24.000 No no we need your unique take on this.

00:53:27.000 Good thing it's water.

00:53:30.000 Definitely inconsistency is the biggest thing that popped out for me like ghosting or just definitely inconsistency just it doesn't make sense.

00:53:42.000 Could you define what ghosting is and an example of it?

00:53:47.000 Someone who's there one day and then not there the next day, you know?

00:53:53.000 Has that happened to you?

00:53:54.000 Or somebody who, like, would say all these things and then you don't see it.

00:53:59.000 So they give you promises and they never show up?

00:54:01.000 Yeah.

00:54:02.000 Okay.

00:54:03.000 What about you?

00:54:06.000 I pay attention to how fast somebody, not necessarily does something for me, but if I ask you for something small, I want to see a sense of urgency, if that makes sense.

00:54:18.000 So if they don't move with a sense of urgency for this thing, it's a red flag for you?

00:54:22.000 Not even for a specific thing, but it could be something like, oh, can you go grab this?

00:54:27.000 It's like a real tedious small thing.

00:54:29.000 Got what though?

00:54:30.000 But it's like, sense of urgency is like big to me.

00:54:33.000 Like, if you don't have a sense of urgency about what I'm asking you for, if it's a thing or like something that I need done, I don't like that.

00:54:40.000 As far as like, you're a man.

00:54:41.000 Like, if I ask you to take the trash out and you take a day to take the trash out, that's a red flag for me.

00:54:47.000 Not saying like, oh, he would be at my house or nothing like that.

00:54:50.000 Taking out trash already.

00:54:52.000 Okay.

00:54:53.000 Alright.

00:54:53.000 So, you're not listening to...

00:54:55.000 A request, I guess.

00:54:57.000 Yes.

00:54:58.000 And not moving quickly with it.

00:54:59.000 Yeah, like, I want somebody to have a sense of urgency when it comes to me.

00:55:02.000 Like, I want somebody to be quick on their feet for, like, what I need.

00:55:06.000 You want to be a priority?

00:55:07.000 Yeah, a priority.

00:55:07.000 Basically, every female that deals with somebody wants to be a priority.

00:55:10.000 Who do you think, okay, and I guess that's, I guess my next question is, like, from male and female dynamic, who do you think needs to be the one that's, like, more in charge?

00:55:19.000 Both.

00:55:20.000 Both.

00:55:20.000 It's equal, but the man leaves, even in the Bible.

00:55:22.000 The man leaves.

00:55:23.000 Okay, so then it's not equal.

00:55:25.000 I mean, it depends.

00:55:27.000 It depends.

00:55:28.000 It depends on what?

00:55:30.000 It depends on like...

00:55:31.000 You do understand that if it's equal, then that means that there's no one in charge.

00:55:36.000 But if there's someone in charge, by definition, that means they're not equal.

00:55:39.000 Well, if we're talking about sense of urgency, then it would be that.

00:55:43.000 It would be equal.

00:55:44.000 Because if any one of the partners are asking for anything, it should be done with the quickness.

00:55:50.000 Yeah, but one person, you just admitted one person's in charge.

00:55:53.000 Yeah, in the Bible the man is supposed to lead, but nowadays...

00:55:56.000 Nowadays the females... 1.00

00:55:59.000 If they're supposed to lead, then can you really dictate the urgency at which a request is made if they're the ones that are leading?

00:56:06.000 Oh, that's a good question, but you still can.

00:56:09.000 Because if they value you to a certain amount, or a certain state, not a mouse, excuse me, but they value you to a certain extent, right, they would have a sense of urgency when you ask them for something.

00:56:20.000 So that puts you in the authority chair then?

00:56:20.000 Still put you on priority, still have you on that pedestal.

00:56:22.000 So that means that you're put in the authority position then?

00:56:26.000 I guess so.

00:56:27.000 It just depends on what's being asked.

00:56:29.000 Are you okay with that?

00:56:30.000 Yeah.

00:56:31.000 So you're okay with being the leader in a relationship then?

00:56:33.000 Sometimes that's okay.

00:56:35.000 It depends.

00:56:35.000 It's a time and a place, but really, the man is supposed to lead.

00:56:38.000 So I have no problem letting a man lead. 1.00

00:56:40.000 But it's just like, you know...

00:56:41.000 Kind of contradicting yourself, but is this fine?

00:56:43.000 I guess.

00:56:44.000 Could you imagine?

00:56:45.000 Let's say we're dating, and we're in the house, and your priority is... 0.99

00:56:50.000 Nigga, take out the trash! 1.00

00:56:51.000 And I say, listen, I gotta go to work real quick, but I'll do it later.

00:56:56.000 In that example, I hear what you're saying, but the priorities work to pay the bills.

00:57:01.000 Yeah, that's fine, but at least you're letting me know what you have going on and not sitting there, like, just sitting there.

00:57:06.000 I have something to say about that, because that's so funny that a man would say that.

00:57:09.000 Here we go.

00:57:09.000 You say your priority is to work and pay the bills.

00:57:15.000 But what if she pays her own bills? 1.00

00:57:16.000 No, no, no.

00:57:16.000 That's not what I was going to say.

00:57:17.000 What I was going to say was, as a woman, our priority is to also pay the bills and also cook and also raise the children and also we can take out the trash and we can change a diaper. 0.98

00:57:29.000 Who are you dating?

00:57:30.000 I'm just saying.

00:57:31.000 I'm not dating anyone right now by choice.

00:57:33.000 But as far as handling the responsibility, I feel as though that's a cop-out.

00:57:38.000 You can still take the trash and handle the responsibility.

00:57:40.000 That's a five-second job.

00:57:41.000 Don't give me that excuse when you come and say, I gotta go.

00:57:43.000 How can I remember? 1.00

00:57:45.000 I'm gonna give you shit when you come home. 1.00

00:57:46.000 I'm gonna be like, but babe, you could've took that trash out. 1.00

00:57:49.000 It was five seconds.

00:57:51.000 Because you know what?

00:57:51.000 On the way out to school or work or to work out or to take the kids to school, I took the trash out.

00:57:58.000 And I still did something else.

00:57:59.000 Who was the leader in your prior relationship?

00:58:01.000 Like, who was the shotcaller, you or him?

00:58:02.000 I let him be the shotcaller.

00:58:04.000 You let him?

00:58:04.000 Yes.

00:58:06.000 She let him, brother.

00:58:07.000 And I said that word on purpose.

00:58:08.000 She let him.

00:58:08.000 I let him.

00:58:09.000 Because that is not my husband.

00:58:11.000 So it was my choice to let him lead.

00:58:13.000 I see why I came along late. 1.00

00:58:15.000 Yo, I kid you not, that's your trash. 0.99

00:58:18.000 That's not my trash. 1.00

00:58:19.000 It is your trash. 1.00

00:58:20.000 If you live in my house, that's our trash. 1.00

00:58:22.000 Because if I'm the leader, and I'm guiding the households, that's your job. 0.99

00:58:26.000 Says who? 0.65

00:58:27.000 Says me.

00:58:28.000 Oh, maybe.

00:58:30.000 What's going on here?

00:58:31.000 What they're both trying to say is they want to be in their feminine state, right? 0.92

00:58:34.000 Yes.

00:58:35.000 And they, a man will be, don't men want to have their masculinity?

00:58:40.000 Yeah.

00:58:41.000 Don't, isn't that what men want, right?

00:58:43.000 Yeah.

00:58:43.000 So by women being in their feminine state, it's letting the man dictate and just Take control of the situation.

00:58:48.000 It's not necessarily, oh, you do this, take this out.

00:58:51.000 It's not really the actual act of what we want you to do.

00:58:58.000 It's more of just us being in that feminine energy and letting you be the man of the house.

00:59:05.000 And that's what we mean by, we're both equal, yeah, obviously, but...

00:59:09.000 You're moving the goalposts and you're trying to save them.

00:59:11.000 What they were saying is, do what I say, nigga, now, or else. 0.99

00:59:14.000 That's what they were saying.

00:59:15.000 No, they're saying what I'm saying.

00:59:16.000 I never said that at all.

00:59:17.000 I've never treated my man like that. 0.89

00:59:18.000 You quite literally said, move with a sense of urgency when I request something, which does translate to do this, nigga, now, do this, nigga. 0.97

00:59:23.000 For example, if I'm sorry.

00:59:24.000 No, no, no.

00:59:25.000 Let me give y'all an example.

00:59:27.000 If I'm somewhere and I tell you, okay, come pick me up or something and my car is not around, I expect you to get there as fast as you can.

00:59:34.000 I don't expect you to prioritize and do other things before coming to get there.

00:59:36.000 Yeah, yeah, that's fine.

00:59:37.000 Stuff like that.

00:59:38.000 Interesting.

00:59:39.000 But I've also dated men who feel like that.

00:59:41.000 What is this place that, let's use this example, what is this place that you're at that you need to urgently be picked up at?

00:59:45.000 The gym.

00:59:46.000 The gym.

00:59:47.000 The gym.

00:59:48.000 Yeah. 0.99

00:59:48.000 You better get an Uber, nigga. 0.99

00:59:50.000 I would never date a guy like you. 1.00

00:59:51.000 No, see? 0.88

00:59:52.000 I would never date a guy like you.

00:59:54.000 Well, how did you get to the gym in the first place then?

00:59:57.000 Let's just say my boyfriend dropped me off.

01:00:00.000 Okay, but then wouldn't it have made arrangements like you would pick you up then and you don't need to call him?

01:00:05.000 Yeah, we could say that.

01:00:15.000 I expect anybody I'm dealing with to move a certain way with me, or it's just not going to be that.

01:00:20.000 Listen, you know what I'm hearing?

01:00:21.000 I am hearing you're the priority, and nigga, whatever you got going on needs to stop for me. 0.98

01:00:27.000 And that is a problem, because now, as the man leading the household...

01:00:30.000 Not all the time.

01:00:31.000 That's interesting.

01:00:32.000 Not all the time?

01:00:33.000 So when would I know I need to stop to please you?

01:00:35.000 When it's getting to the point where it's overwhelming or something like that.

01:00:39.000 But if I'm not overwhelming you, if I'm bringing you peace, and I'm asking you for small things out of whatever your daily tasks are or whatever, it doesn't matter.

01:00:47.000 No, granted, I understand.

01:00:48.000 I'm not talking about money.

01:00:49.000 I'm talking about time and stuff like that.

01:00:51.000 Time is money.

01:00:53.000 Time is money, but just certain things, not just time or anything like that.

01:00:58.000 I think that's all acts of kindness and love languages, stuff like that.

01:01:04.000 And one of my love languages is I want somebody to have a sense of urgency about me.

01:01:07.000 Like I do.

01:01:08.000 You mean acts of service?

01:01:09.000 No.

01:01:10.000 Love language.

01:01:11.000 Have a sense of urgency.

01:01:12.000 That's not a language.

01:01:13.000 How do you know that?

01:01:14.000 Because it's only five.

01:01:16.000 There's not five love languages.

01:01:17.000 There's so many.

01:01:18.000 How many are there?

01:01:19.000 There's five.

01:01:20.000 There's plenty other love languages.

01:01:21.000 That you made up?

01:01:22.000 Yeah.

01:01:23.000 That I made up.

01:01:24.000 Yo! 1.00

01:01:25.000 Okay, you know what?

01:01:25.000 We can move on.

01:01:26.000 We can move on from here.

01:01:27.000 You want to say something and then we go back to the lawyer.

01:01:29.000 What are you going to say?

01:01:30.000 Yeah, I wanted to address how you view that and saying that I demand or she demands or a woman demands you to stop everything.

01:01:39.000 If my man calls me right now, if I was in a relationship, if I'm dating him or you, and I'm having lunch with my homegirls, this is how inconvenienced you guys can be sometimes.

01:01:49.000 I've dated them.

01:01:50.000 And I'm having lunch with my homegirl, and you say, babe, I got something going on.

01:01:54.000 I need you to go over here and pick this up or go do this.

01:01:56.000 You know what?

01:01:56.000 I'm going to tell you right now, I'm such a for-my-man type of person.

01:02:00.000 Baby, can you get rid of my tab?

01:02:02.000 I got to go handle something for my man.

01:02:03.000 I'm not going to question.

01:02:04.000 I'm not going to ask him.

01:02:05.000 I'm going to go do exactly what he called me to do.

01:02:07.000 That's good.

01:02:07.000 Because that's the kind of girlfriend I am.

01:02:09.000 So if I am outside and I'm stuck at the gym, whether you drop me off or my car just lost its battery, and I say, babe, can you pick me up?

01:02:17.000 And you say, I'm with the boys right now drinking.

01:02:19.000 Hell yeah, I'm going to fill away because every time you call me, I'm going to stop.

01:02:22.000 Or maybe you're just like, oh, babe, we're playing a game right now.

01:02:26.000 Or, babe, I just pulled up to the car light and I'm looking at a car and I'm like, okay, cool.

01:02:30.000 How long do you think you're going to be?

01:02:32.000 Oh, bro, you can't rush me.

01:02:33.000 I'm going to be like, whoa.

01:02:34.000 That's rare, though.

01:02:35.000 Not every day.

01:02:36.000 It's not every day.

01:02:37.000 Wait, wait, hold on. 0.99

01:02:37.000 That's fucked up. 0.99

01:02:38.000 So no, I get what you're saying because it should be respectful. 0.99

01:02:41.000 Yeah, that's all I'm saying.

01:02:43.000 You got my back, I got your back.

01:02:44.000 That's it.

01:02:44.000 I'm that kind of person.

01:02:45.000 But granted though, let's say the guy actually has like a business deal going on.

01:02:49.000 Oh, I understand.

01:02:50.000 His business going on. 1.00

01:02:51.000 I can't just dip and say, oh, deuces buddy, I got to deal with this shit. 0.99

01:02:53.000 So on some level, I get it, but I understand also men's activities are something more important. 0.99

01:02:59.000 So, to me, it sounds like their authority is reciprocal on both ends.

01:03:03.000 Yeah.

01:03:04.000 You know what?

01:03:04.000 Sometimes you deal with a boss female, so sometimes a boss is going to ask you to do something.

01:03:08.000 Okay, so you agree?

01:03:09.000 Okay, hold on real quick so I can make sure I understand the temperature of the room here.

01:03:12.000 Even if it's taking out the trash and you can't be scheduled.

01:03:14.000 Okay, do all the ladies here think authority is reciprocal between the two genders? 1.00

01:03:17.000 Raise of hands if you agree with that.

01:03:19.000 I do.

01:03:19.000 You, too.

01:03:20.000 Anybody else agrees with that?

01:03:22.000 Authority is reciprocal?

01:03:22.000 Three?

01:03:23.000 Anybody else agree with that?

01:03:24.000 You're just a running lawyer.

01:03:26.000 Do you agree with that?

01:03:26.000 Yeah, lawyer.

01:03:27.000 Yeah, lawyer.

01:03:28.000 You do, too?

01:03:29.000 Authority is reciprocal between the genders?

01:03:30.000 Okay, what about you?

01:03:31.000 She got caught up.

01:03:32.000 Can you explain that a little bit?

01:03:34.000 Yeah.

01:03:35.000 Okay.

01:03:36.000 So they're basically saying, if he asked me to do something, I move with a sense of urgency.

01:03:40.000 Okay.

01:03:41.000 But if I ask him to do something, he should move with the same exact sense of urgency as essentially what they're saying.

01:03:46.000 I mean, it really depends on the situation.

01:03:49.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:03:49.000 So do you think that that authority is reciprocal between the two?

01:03:52.000 It depends.

01:03:54.000 Relationships are two ways.

01:03:56.000 It depends on the situation.

01:03:59.000 My man never has to worry with me.

01:04:01.000 And I'm talking about to the point that any man who's ever...

01:04:04.000 Okay, so you agree.

01:04:05.000 It don't matter if I could have a man.

01:04:06.000 Do you agree with them too?

01:04:07.000 I think it's...

01:04:08.000 That's a clarify.

01:04:09.000 Let's assume it's not a safety situation because you guys are using a safety situation to rationalize your argument.

01:04:14.000 Let's assume it's not a safety situation.

01:04:16.000 It's just move the trash or hey, do this for me or something.

01:04:19.000 Let's assume it's not safety-based.

01:04:21.000 Is the authority reciprocal?

01:04:23.000 Yes.

01:04:23.000 Still.

01:04:24.000 Okay, all of you agree.

01:04:25.000 I'm a bust too.

01:04:26.000 That's interesting.

01:04:26.000 I'm always, and I'm always going to do that.

01:04:29.000 He could say, babe, go get my laundry from the laundromat and then fold it.

01:04:33.000 And you could tell him the same.

01:04:34.000 Yeah, and he wouldn't even have to ask me twice.

01:04:36.000 I'm going to fold him.

01:04:37.000 What do you think?

01:04:37.000 No, no, I specifically said, no safety involved.

01:04:41.000 Is the authority reciprocal?

01:04:42.000 You gave the example of moving the trash when you want.

01:04:45.000 Yeah.

01:04:45.000 So to you, because you're the one that actually started this discussion.

01:04:48.000 I did.

01:04:48.000 So you do think it's reciprocal?

01:04:50.000 And you just said a second ago, it's because I'm boss girl energy.

01:04:53.000 Or a girl can have boss girl energy. 1.00

01:04:54.000 Yeah, not just me, whoever.

01:04:56.000 Sometimes some females are, like, you know, I'm not saying they necessarily are the only breadwinners or something like that, but sometimes Ben do deal with breadwinners.

01:05:02.000 That's fine.

01:05:03.000 I'm just trying to see the temperature here so you guys think it's equal.

01:05:06.000 In the Bible, though, it does say that too.

01:05:09.000 No, no.

01:05:11.000 Who made more? 0.98

01:05:12.000 You or your man?

01:05:13.000 In the beginning, I made more.

01:05:15.000 And then towards the end of the relationship, his career had already started to skyrocket, so then he made more.

01:05:20.000 But the reason that he was able to balance out because I came in a relationship, yeah.

01:05:25.000 Who made more? 0.98

01:05:26.000 Who makes more? 0.98

01:05:26.000 You or your boyfriend? 0.98

01:05:29.000 Me.

01:05:30.000 That makes sense now.

01:05:31.000 Okay.

01:05:32.000 Well, okay, well, with the other girls, because all the girls think, does everyone agree that authority is reciprocal, right?

01:05:37.000 Oh, you don't think so, it's now.

01:05:38.000 But I think it's the situation.

01:05:40.000 It's the situation, but the man is supposed to leave.

01:05:43.000 I literally said there's no safety involved.

01:05:44.000 Okay, well, the man is supposed to leave.

01:05:46.000 The man is supposed to leave.

01:05:47.000 So the authority is not reciprocal in your opinion.

01:05:49.000 I'm still really not understanding.

01:05:51.000 When you say authority, it's like demanding something or asking them to do something for you?

01:05:55.000 It means both parties have the same amount of urgency.

01:05:57.000 Or same amount of authority.

01:05:59.000 And they can delegate to each other commands.

01:06:01.000 I mean, it's a partnership, isn't it?

01:06:04.000 It's supposed to be equally yoked.

01:06:06.000 Okay, so I know you guys already think it's equal.

01:06:08.000 I'm asking her, do you think it's the same?

01:06:10.000 That's the wrong...

01:06:11.000 Do you think it's the same or not?

01:06:14.000 I know what you're talking about.

01:06:15.000 I'm asking her in the corner, do you think it's the same or not?

01:06:18.000 Men are supposed to lead. 0.97

01:06:20.000 Men are supposed to lead. 0.97

01:06:21.000 I agree with the man is supposed to make certain demands.

01:06:26.000 So it's not reciprocal.

01:06:26.000 Yeah, because we need men to guide us.

01:06:30.000 Okay, do you think it's reciprocal?

01:06:31.000 But there's not enough men.

01:06:33.000 Let's get that.

01:06:33.000 Okay, what about you?

01:06:34.000 Do you think it's reciprocal?

01:06:36.000 I think men should guide too.

01:06:38.000 You think it's reciprocal as well?

01:06:39.000 I understand both.

01:06:41.000 I understand both perspectives.

01:06:43.000 Genuinely, I do.

01:06:45.000 Ladies, what is your stance?

01:06:46.000 Is authority reciprocal between the two genders outside of safety urgency?

01:06:49.000 Yes.

01:06:50.000 Where she can dictate to him, I need you to do this, and he can do the same to her.

01:06:53.000 Yeah, in 2024, maybe back in the days, but in 2024, it's the same.

01:06:58.000 Who agrees with this?

01:06:59.000 Raise of hands, please.

01:07:00.000 Raise of hands so I can see.

01:07:02.000 Raise of hands.

01:07:03.000 I know you agreed.

01:07:04.000 Raise your hand.

01:07:16.000 I'm asking you guys a simple question.

01:07:21.000 Hey, do you agree or disagree with this stance?

01:07:26.000 Half of you are like, ah, ah!

01:07:27.000 This is precisely why you guys shouldn't vote.

01:07:30.000 You guys shouldn't be leaders of anything.

01:07:32.000 You guys shouldn't have authority in relationships, et cetera.

01:07:34.000 Women are communitarian and you guys are followers.

01:07:36.000 You guys are not born leaders.

01:07:37.000 And this proves my point.

01:07:39.000 We've interviewed almost- Hold on, hold on, hold on.

01:07:42.000 No, I'm gonna finish what I'm saying.

01:07:43.000 I've interviewed almost 4,000 girls on this show now, and it's incredible to me, whether where they're from, education level, background, status, it doesn't matter.

01:07:51.000 Women have a very difficult time making concrete answers and standing on something, and they're not sure. 1.00

01:07:57.000 And I've noticed, as you guys are trying to make an answer, you guys are looking around at each other.

01:08:03.000 I didn't look at nobody.

01:08:05.000 So just because you might be a little bit braver than the others doesn't refute what I'm saying.

01:08:10.000 I'm a leader.

01:08:10.000 I ain't never follow nobody.

01:08:13.000 He's saying in general.

01:08:14.000 I don't care.

01:08:15.000 In general, the theme is typically women have an issue with standing on a certain viewpoint and there's a bunch of biological reasons for that. 1.00

01:08:24.000 But this literally proves right now, hey, do you think authorities are reciprocal between the two?

01:08:29.000 Uh, I don't know.

01:08:30.000 Uh, well, I made an argument to the defender, but I don't know if I stand on it.

01:08:34.000 Like, come on, guys.

01:08:36.000 Listen, listen.

01:08:37.000 Can I say something?

01:08:39.000 If you are in a relationship with a man, you can't just say, oh, you need to do this, you need to do that.

01:08:46.000 It's more like, hey, bae, can you please do this for me?

01:08:49.000 Can you please do that?

01:08:50.000 It's not like that.

01:08:51.000 I don't know what kind of girls y'all know. 1.00

01:08:52.000 Y'all must date men.

01:08:54.000 We know you girls.

01:08:55.000 That's your conclusion?

01:08:56.000 I'm telling you.

01:08:57.000 I mean, who's a hard girl like that that talks to their man like that? 1.00

01:09:01.000 Who sits and talks to their man like that? 1.00

01:09:03.000 We asked you the scenario and your friend told us, it's trash. 1.00

01:09:06.000 Take out the trash, nigga. 1.00

01:09:06.000 That's my sister. 1.00

01:09:08.000 I don't say it like that, though.

01:09:10.000 It's a way to say it.

01:09:11.000 It's not what you But piggybacking on what he's talking about, this young man here saying that proves his point of how women are followers.

01:09:20.000 You gotta choose your words wisely because that's a broad statement.

01:09:24.000 No, I've never been a follower.

01:09:26.000 That's actually something that's very known.

01:09:27.000 I'm a leader. 0.99

01:09:28.000 If I tell a motherfucker to eat a cookie, the whole world gonna eat a cookie. 1.00

01:09:30.000 You heard it. 1.00

01:09:31.000 So, I never followed nothing. 0.99

01:09:33.000 On the playground, I was the fuckin' leader. 0.99

01:09:34.000 I was the white Power Ranger, the pink Power Ranger, the fuckin' president, everything. 0.99

01:09:38.000 Everybody follows suit. 0.99

01:09:39.000 You see the fuckin' chain on my neck, I say, boss lady. 1.00

01:09:42.000 The ring on my finger probably cost, I don't even gotta talk about it, but it is to say, I've been a boss. 0.99

01:09:47.000 And nobody ever made me do shit, and I listen to my man. 0.99

01:09:49.000 That stereotype talk about men like you, men like you give little dick energy. 1.00

01:09:54.000 Like, I would never give a hit to a nigga like you, and I give a great hit. 1.00

01:09:57.000 But I would never suck your dick because of how you talk to women saying they can't be no leaders. 1.00

01:10:01.000 A little boy would say that. 1.00

01:10:03.000 Like, you know the type of shit that women created? 1.00

01:10:06.000 Like, I created you. 1.00

01:10:07.000 What did they create?

01:10:09.000 What did they create?

01:10:11.000 A lot of things.

01:10:12.000 Women created hair care products. 0.98

01:10:14.000 Women created diet regimens that became worldwide that people like Oprah have done Oprah. 0.97

01:10:22.000 Let's talk about Beyonce. 0.99

01:10:23.000 Let's talk about leaders.

01:10:25.000 Let's talk about Michelle Obama who helped President Obama become president.

01:10:29.000 I don't know if y'all read her book but she talks about how Obama was in a restaurant that her ex-boyfriend owned and he looked at her and said, if you didn't marry me, you would have been the owner's wife.

01:10:39.000 She said, if I didn't marry you, you wouldn't have been a president of the United States.

01:10:42.000 You gotta know the type of woman you're dealing with. 1.00

01:10:44.000 Y'all deal with weak-minded women. 1.00

01:10:46.000 A weak-minded woman to follow Lee. 1.00

01:10:48.000 You can't make me follow shit. 1.00

01:10:49.000 I'd own this podcast if I wanted to. 0.99

01:10:52.000 You can't make me do nothing.

01:10:55.000 You gotta watch your mouth when you tell somebody they a follower.

01:10:58.000 A follower is a person who do a podcast like everybody else.

01:11:02.000 Do something different.

01:11:03.000 We started our own genre.

01:11:05.000 I don't care.

01:11:05.000 It's not a genre.

01:11:06.000 Y'all do everything that every other guy do.

01:11:07.000 Y'all bash girls. 0.99

01:11:08.000 Why are you getting personal with it though?

01:11:09.000 Move along from that comment.

01:11:11.000 Don't live on that.

01:11:12.000 Move along from that comment.

01:11:13.000 And then you're getting personal with it.

01:11:15.000 I'm not personal.

01:11:15.000 Let me ask you a question.

01:11:16.000 No, y'all taking it personally.

01:11:18.000 No, we're not.

01:11:19.000 Y'all don't live on this comment.

01:11:21.000 Do you think, because I made a general comment that you have, I made a general comment that women are typically followers and not leaders.

01:11:27.000 You didn't say typically.

01:11:28.000 I literally just said that the majority of women are followers, not leaders. 0.99

01:11:31.000 And you had a point of contention with that.

01:11:33.000 That's what I hate the guys do.

01:11:34.000 What they do is say, I say it and then we heard them and you didn't say that.

01:11:37.000 I did say that.

01:11:38.000 That's not, run a tape back, that's not the words.

01:11:40.000 I'm speaking in generalities.

01:11:41.000 You even admitted just a second ago, you're speaking in generalities.

01:11:44.000 And I was like, yes, I am speaking in generalities.

01:11:46.000 Most women are followers. 0.77

01:11:48.000 And would you not agree with that?

01:11:50.000 I do not agree that most women are followers.

01:11:54.000 Okay.

01:11:55.000 Do you think men find it attractive when women are bosses and leaders and dominant and aggressive as you claim? 0.94

01:12:00.000 No.

01:12:02.000 No, I feel like they like it, but then they're intimidated once they get around.

01:12:05.000 They want it, but then they don't want it.

01:12:07.000 Every guy says, I want a boss girl. 1.00

01:12:08.000 You're hearing all the raps, but then when you get a boss, you don't want her. 1.00

01:12:12.000 Do you think they actually want that?

01:12:13.000 Clearly, I just said no.

01:12:15.000 Until they get her, yeah.

01:12:16.000 So, if men aren't attracted to that, and they don't find, and like, wouldn't it make sense that...

01:12:23.000 They're all type of men not attracted to it.

01:12:24.000 I know a few men is attracted to it.

01:12:27.000 Okay.

01:12:28.000 Men that are attracted to women that are masculine?

01:12:30.000 I don't know who masculine over here. 0.70

01:12:32.000 You just described masculine tendencies.

01:12:36.000 Being a leader, being a boss.

01:12:37.000 That's not masculine.

01:12:38.000 Who said being a leader is a masculine thing?

01:12:41.000 You know what the word masculine stands for?

01:12:43.000 Why is being a leader masculine?

01:12:45.000 What does masculine stand for?

01:12:46.000 It stands as, are you a man?

01:12:48.000 That's where the text comes from.

01:12:50.000 Naturally, there's masculine and feminine energy. 0.98

01:12:53.000 No, I just answered it.

01:12:55.000 What does it mean?

01:12:55.000 You're relating it to you.

01:12:56.000 What does it mean to you?

01:12:58.000 No, I'm asking you.

01:12:58.000 I'm asking you.

01:12:59.000 The definition itself.

01:13:00.000 Masculine.

01:13:01.000 Masculine.

01:13:01.000 You can't relate that to a woman.

01:13:03.000 Like, stop. 1.00

01:13:04.000 What the fuck is going on here? 0.99

01:13:06.000 So, again, like I was saying, my original argument was that women in general... 1.00

01:13:11.000 Can you please stop interrupting me when I'm speaking?

01:13:12.000 Yes.

01:13:13.000 Because I've let you speak.

01:13:14.000 Yeah, we did.

01:13:14.000 So, what I'm saying is, in general, most women follow men, and that's what they want to do.

01:13:19.000 Now, if you don't align with that, that's great.

01:13:21.000 But you're an exception to the rule.

01:13:23.000 A majority of women would prefer a man that's a leader. 1.00

01:13:25.000 Hell, matter of fact, you even admitted in your relationship, you let your man lead.

01:13:29.000 I didn't say I didn't want no leader.

01:13:30.000 I don't know where you're getting that from.

01:13:31.000 I never said that.

01:13:32.000 Okay, cool.

01:13:33.000 So you want a leader?

01:13:33.000 I definitely want a leader.

01:13:34.000 Okay, so...

01:13:35.000 But you're not going to tell me I'm not a leader either.

01:13:38.000 Just because I want a leader don't mean I'm not a leader.

01:13:40.000 Okay, well, you do understand.

01:13:42.000 I'm a leader of my women.

01:13:43.000 That's cool.

01:13:43.000 But you do understand that if you want a leader, by definition, that means you must be a follower.

01:13:47.000 100%.

01:13:48.000 I'm not following you.

01:13:49.000 All leaders are followers first.

01:13:51.000 All leaders are great followers.

01:13:53.000 I'll follow my man, but when you're saying women are followers... 1.00

01:13:56.000 So women are followers in general! 1.00

01:13:58.000 That proves my point!

01:13:59.000 You even admitted it!

01:14:00.000 All great leaders are followers first.

01:14:02.000 Do you not see your logic?

01:14:03.000 I said, hold on, hold on, hold on.

01:14:05.000 I literally said...

01:14:08.000 In general, most women are followers and want to be followers.

01:14:11.000 And then you say, well, I'm not, Dan.

01:14:13.000 You went on a whole tirade about, I'm not a follower.

01:14:15.000 I'm a boss.

01:14:15.000 I'm a leader.

01:14:16.000 My pinky ring, this, blah, blah, blah.

01:14:18.000 I'm a boss, etc.

01:14:19.000 It's this ring.

01:14:19.000 It's not a pinky ring.

01:14:19.000 Fantastic.

01:14:20.000 Whatever it is.

01:14:21.000 Yeah.

01:14:21.000 Right?

01:14:22.000 And then I go on and say, well, don't you want a leader?

01:14:25.000 Yeah, I do.

01:14:26.000 Well then, by definition, that makes you a follower, which was my point.

01:14:28.000 No, it doesn't.

01:14:30.000 It can't be two leaders.

01:14:31.000 No, it definitely cannot be two leaders in a relationship.

01:14:34.000 You can follow your man without being a follower. 0.99

01:14:38.000 And I can kill people and not be a murderer. 0.99

01:14:41.000 That makes sense. 0.99

01:14:44.000 I can follow my man without being a follower.

01:14:46.000 That's just the man making that right wrong.

01:14:48.000 I could follow my man without being a follower.

01:14:50.000 You said women are followers.

01:14:52.000 They are.

01:14:52.000 That's a general statement.

01:14:53.000 Following, meaning, if she says right now, let's all get up and go.

01:14:57.000 The way you said it was, we all looked at each other when you asked us a question.

01:15:01.000 So we're followers.

01:15:02.000 But you're also relating it to saying, if your man is a leader, you follow him.

01:15:07.000 That's two different things.

01:15:08.000 I can follow my man without doing something that these people tell me.

01:15:12.000 No, what I'm saying is that...

01:15:13.000 You said we all looked around, so we're followers.

01:15:15.000 Yes, a bunch of the girls, as you guys were trying to make an opinion, we're looking around.

01:15:19.000 And here's the thing, you don't even notice it because it's a subconscious female trait to want to be accepted. 1.00

01:15:24.000 It's literally biology.

01:15:25.000 But by who?

01:15:26.000 That's where you're wrong.

01:15:27.000 Huh?

01:15:27.000 By who?

01:15:28.000 What do you mean by who?

01:15:29.000 Who do we want to be accepted by?

01:15:30.000 Society.

01:15:31.000 Other women. 1.00

01:15:31.000 Society? 1.00

01:15:32.000 Yes.

01:15:32.000 But the thing is, just because we looked at each other...

01:15:33.000 Matter of fact, let's have fun with this. 0.95

01:15:35.000 How many men have you had sex with? 0.99

01:15:36.000 How many men have I had sex with? 0.99

01:15:38.000 Yeah. 0.98

01:15:38.000 It's none of your business. 0.98

01:15:39.000 Oh, okay.

01:15:40.000 Perfect answer.

01:15:41.000 Why do you not want to say it?

01:15:42.000 Because that's none of your business.

01:15:44.000 Good.

01:15:44.000 Okay.

01:15:44.000 That's none of anybody.

01:15:45.000 Okay.

01:15:45.000 No, no, no, no.

01:15:46.000 That's like a society question that people ask now.

01:15:49.000 Okay.

01:15:49.000 I need you to not.

01:15:49.000 Okay.

01:15:49.000 Okay, go ahead.

01:15:50.000 I'm listening.

01:15:50.000 Now, I want you to tell me, societally, why do you not want to answer that question?

01:15:54.000 Not you personally, but like, why do women have an issue answering that question? 1.00

01:15:57.000 Because that's not like a question that, like, it's not no shame in what I have going on, but it's like, that's not a question I would ask. 0.98

01:16:05.000 Would it be fair to say that people would judge you and that's fucked up and it's a fucked up reality? 0.95

01:16:08.000 No, I don't think y'all would judge me for what I would tell y'all. 0.98

01:16:10.000 I mean, in general, people would judge.

01:16:13.000 Yeah, sure, but y'all not that.

01:16:14.000 Now, would it be fair to say that women are secretive about certain things that they do, especially sexually, because they can be judged? 0.94

01:16:21.000 Not you, but in general, women. 0.98

01:16:22.000 No, it depends on how comfortable I am to tell you.

01:16:25.000 No, no, not you.

01:16:26.000 I'm sorry, in general.

01:16:27.000 Women in general.

01:16:28.000 They don't want to disclose their body counts because of society judging them.

01:16:34.000 I don't really care about being judged.

01:16:37.000 Not you.

01:16:39.000 Most females. 0.91

01:16:39.000 Other women. 0.91

01:16:40.000 Other women, of course they care. 1.00

01:16:42.000 Social media has everybody's heads wrapped around a certain lifestyle.

01:16:45.000 Stuff like that.

01:16:48.000 It's very difficult when I try to put them in a situation because they'll internalize it.

01:16:55.000 Women are easier to get in line through shame. 1.00

01:17:01.000 Okay?

01:17:02.000 That's why, for a very long time, what would people do to get women in line? 1.00

01:17:06.000 Oh, you're a whore, you're a slut, scarlet letter, etc. 1.00

01:17:08.000 This is why women a lot of the times need more acceptance from society. 1.00

01:17:13.000 Because women don't have the ability or capability to physically defend themselves to the same extent as a man. 1.00

01:17:20.000 My father shamed you, right?

01:17:22.000 Your father shamed you?

01:17:23.000 Your family shamed you, right?

01:17:24.000 No, first of all.

01:17:25.000 Let me just finish what I'm saying.

01:17:27.000 So, every revolution that's been fought has been fought by who?

01:17:30.000 By men.

01:17:31.000 Because a man had an idea.

01:17:32.000 He said, I don't like this.

01:17:34.000 You guys are taxing me too much.

01:17:35.000 I don't like these laws.

01:17:36.000 They picked up a sword and fought for their ideas.

01:17:38.000 Women don't start revolutions. 1.00

01:17:39.000 Men do.

01:17:40.000 So, with that said, since this is the truth.

01:17:44.000 So, Harriet, tell me they do nothing.

01:17:45.000 That's one woman. 1.00

01:17:46.000 That's one woman. 1.00

01:17:48.000 Okay, so does it have to be more than one for change?

01:17:51.000 Okay, did women lead the civil rights movement? 1.00

01:17:54.000 It was men. 0.70

01:17:56.000 Anyway, so to continue on.

01:17:57.000 Nice try.

01:17:57.000 But the point I'm trying to make is that men lead revolutions and men don't need the same societal protection that women do.

01:18:04.000 Women must acquiesce to social norms and social standards because they understand Holy shit! 1.00

01:18:10.000 Me, being a whore, will hurt my ability to find a man and get taken seriously and get resources from said man. 1.00

01:18:16.000 You gotta remember that feminism, this whole thing about being a boss and making your own money, it's a relatively new thing in the past eight years. 1.00

01:18:21.000 Yeah, it is.

01:18:21.000 For centuries, women have depended upon the security of a man.

01:18:27.000 And they understood that if I'm a whore and I have a certain reputation, it's gonna be hard for me to get married and find a man. 0.99

01:18:32.000 So women are far more susceptible to shame. 1.00

01:18:35.000 She proved it through her story.

01:18:36.000 She danced for 36 hours. 1.00

01:18:38.000 Her family said, we're cutting you the fuck off. 1.00

01:18:40.000 And her brothers told her that there's gonna be consequences. 1.00

01:18:42.000 What did I say?

01:18:42.000 I wanted the money.

01:18:43.000 That's fine.

01:18:44.000 I wanted the help. 0.94

01:18:45.000 I didn't give a fuck about the shame. 0.97

01:18:46.000 But the shaming was what helped. 0.92

01:18:48.000 No, the shame didn't help.

01:18:50.000 The money.

01:18:51.000 Notice my mom said, did you lose your mind?

01:18:53.000 I was gonna go back.

01:18:54.000 My mom did not make me stop by shame.

01:18:57.000 The help from my family made me stop.

01:18:59.000 Regardless, shame comes with a cut.

01:19:01.000 I still do it.

01:19:02.000 I still did it.

01:19:03.000 Okay, shame comes with different consequences, whether it's family ostracization, financial ostracization.

01:19:09.000 Nobody can't shame me.

01:19:10.000 Shame comes in different forms.

01:19:12.000 Nobody can't shame me.

01:19:12.000 That's fine.

01:19:13.000 Awesome.

01:19:13.000 The point I'm trying to make is that they were able to use that tool of shame, and in your case, financial restriction, to get you in line.

01:19:20.000 Now, financially, you can get me.

01:19:21.000 Okay, but that's what I'm trying to say.

01:19:23.000 I like money.

01:19:23.000 Okay, so by a woman doing certain things, her ability to find a man and get money is hurt by that to a degree.

01:19:31.000 Okay, of course you can be a boss or whatever, but girls typically want to be accepted by society. 1.00

01:19:35.000 This is biology.

01:19:36.000 I never want to be accepted.

01:19:38.000 How did this get into us being wanted to be accepted by society if we were asking relationship questions?

01:19:42.000 Because when I asked you guys to give your opinion on this topic, a lot of you were reluctant to raise your hands and actually stand on an opinion because it comes back to what I've said.

01:19:51.000 Females in general are high-minded. 1.00

01:19:53.000 Women in general are high-minded and they want to be accepted by society and they're less likely to voice out their views or stand on something. 1.00

01:20:02.000 It's not even that.

01:20:03.000 I think we voice our views perfectly.

01:20:06.000 It's just your question generally was Yeah.

01:20:08.000 All of you?

01:20:10.000 My question was pretty specific.

01:20:11.000 Your question wasn't that clear.

01:20:12.000 Yeah, it wasn't that broad.

01:20:14.000 Is authority reciprocal between the two parties?

01:20:17.000 And does the man have the same amount of authority to tell the man to do what he's got to do and the woman to tell the guy what he's got to do? 0.73

01:20:23.000 And I don't think there's a yes or no answer to that.

01:20:25.000 That was extremely clear.

01:20:26.000 But there's no yes or no answer to that.

01:20:28.000 Even outside of safety, it's still so situational.

01:20:30.000 So give your opinion on what you think it is.

01:20:31.000 That's it.

01:20:32.000 That's what we've been doing.

01:20:33.000 No, you haven't.

01:20:34.000 You won't!

01:20:34.000 They won't give!

01:20:35.000 I don't know!

01:20:36.000 You said an opinion, but...

01:20:37.000 And a matter of fact, hold on, hold on, because you were arguing on their behalf, trying to clarify, and then I asked a question, and you couldn't even raise your hand fully up.

01:20:43.000 Because I also see the other side of it.

01:20:45.000 Exactly.

01:20:46.000 Are you a lawyer?

01:20:47.000 Yes.

01:20:48.000 I am.

01:20:48.000 She is.

01:20:49.000 She is.

01:20:50.000 That's crazy.

01:20:51.000 Which is suiting.

01:20:51.000 I mean, you gotta see all perspectives, no?

01:20:53.000 Yes, you do.

01:20:54.000 But make a choice, though.

01:20:55.000 Listen, I've...

01:20:56.000 Yeah, I made a choice if it's a very...

01:20:57.000 But the thing is...

01:20:58.000 You need to be able to make an argument for a side.

01:21:00.000 Just because...

01:21:01.000 Oh, I can make one when I need to.

01:21:03.000 Pop it.

01:21:04.000 Listen, I'm convinced...

01:21:05.000 But just because we're still seeing the different perspectives of it, doesn't mean, like, we cannot make a choice.

01:21:11.000 Look, if I ask this question to a group of men...

01:21:14.000 Hold on.

01:21:15.000 Keep it simple.

01:21:16.000 If I ask this question to a group of men, it would be simple.

01:21:19.000 Yeah, I agree.

01:21:19.000 I don't agree.

01:21:20.000 Men don't think that much.

01:21:22.000 They're not that logical.

01:21:23.000 They're not that rational.

01:21:24.000 They're actually far more logically sound than women are. 1.00

01:21:26.000 Far more.

01:21:27.000 Men are more logical.

01:21:28.000 I'm going to say this.

01:21:29.000 I will 100% agree.

01:21:31.000 Men are more logical in certain situations, but these new age men, y'alls, all of y'all, y'all are all boy lovers. 0.98

01:21:39.000 And y'all sit around each other and stroke each other's egos and jack each other's dicks off. 0.82

01:21:43.000 And so y'all be agreeing to what y'all say, like y'all doing right now and broing it up. 0.54

01:21:48.000 So when we do it though, it's like we're, we don't know how, we're not leaders, we're following each other.

01:21:52.000 No, I wish you guys would agree with each other when we would have this conversation.

01:21:55.000 It's actually the opposite.

01:21:59.000 This conversation started because you guys couldn't agree on something.

01:22:01.000 I wasn't looking for anybody collectively for me to make a decision.

01:22:05.000 I was making it make sense in my mind.

01:22:08.000 And if you know, real women, we don't look to our friends to make our decisions. 1.00

01:22:11.000 I don't.

01:22:11.000 We do not look to our friends.

01:22:13.000 Y'all might go to y'all homeboys and be like, so bro, you think I should talk to her?

01:22:16.000 Bro, you think I should go pick this new sneaker up?

01:22:19.000 Bro, you think I should start this?

01:22:20.000 We'd be like, girl, I'm about to go do this.

01:22:22.000 I'm about to go buy these shoes.

01:22:23.000 We don't ask our friends.

01:22:23.000 We do it and then we pop it to our friends.

01:22:25.000 And I ask your opinion.

01:22:27.000 And even if you tell me, I'm still going to go do what I want to do.

01:22:30.000 That's actually not true at all.

01:22:31.000 Women actually seek way more acceptance from peers when they're making a mating selection. 1.00

01:22:37.000 Y'all slap each other butt when y'all play basketball. 0.97

01:22:40.000 How does that refute my... 0.98

01:22:42.000 I don't know.

01:22:42.000 That's how random you are with these conversations right now.

01:22:45.000 No, because you made the argument saying, we do what we want, we don't need approval.

01:22:49.000 Right?

01:22:49.000 That's your argument.

01:22:50.000 That's literally what you just said.

01:22:51.000 Women don't need approval to do what they want to do. 1.00

01:22:54.000 From each other.

01:22:55.000 Okay.

01:22:55.000 We don't need it from each other.

01:22:57.000 And I'm telling you that's incorrect.

01:22:58.000 Do you call your homegirls when you want to color your hair?

01:23:04.000 No.

01:23:04.000 I'm talking about a guy.

01:23:06.000 Because you had mentioned we don't need approval for dealing with men.

01:23:10.000 Oh, no.

01:23:11.000 If I want to ask my man if I should wear this, I'm going to ask him.

01:23:14.000 I do want approval from my man.

01:23:15.000 No, no.

01:23:17.000 You made the argument you don't need approval from your girlfriend or your female peers when making a decision on a guy.

01:23:23.000 No.

01:23:24.000 And I'm saying that's not true.

01:23:27.000 On whose behalf?

01:23:28.000 Mine or theirs.

01:23:29.000 Women in general.

01:23:30.000 That's not true.

01:23:31.000 At all.

01:23:32.000 Women absolutely need approval from their peers. 1.00

01:23:36.000 I just need approval from... 0.96

01:23:38.000 Girls do not listen. 1.00

01:23:39.000 And that's about it.

01:23:40.000 No girl listens. 0.99

01:23:41.000 That's like a girl code. 0.99

01:23:42.000 Do you know how weird females are out here for me to care about their approval? 1.00

01:23:44.000 It's subconscious, though.

01:23:45.000 You don't even see it happening.

01:23:46.000 You're doing it subconsciously with action.

01:23:48.000 You don't even see it.

01:23:48.000 We see it because we thought it goes all the time.

01:23:50.000 Matter of fact...

01:23:50.000 Y'all doing it right now.

01:23:51.000 You're bouncing off of him.

01:23:52.000 Like, right, bro?

01:23:52.000 Right, bro?

01:23:53.000 Y'all doing it, too.

01:23:53.000 You are, and we're not either.

01:23:55.000 I'm just as offensive as you guys are.

01:23:57.000 I'm not doing it either.

01:23:58.000 I'm the same way you guys are.

01:23:59.000 Okay, let's use your own example that you gave.

01:24:01.000 You said on the first date that you met your guy, he went through your phone and you didn't like that.

01:24:05.000 But, given who he was, you made an exception, correct?

01:24:07.000 Absolutely.

01:24:07.000 Okay.

01:24:09.000 Let's peel the layer back.

01:24:10.000 And you even admitted, had he not been who he was, you would not have accepted that, correct?

01:24:13.000 Y'all throwing it up right now with the ha-has, but go ahead. 0.98

01:24:16.000 What?

01:24:16.000 Okay, you're trying to deflect.

01:24:18.000 Going back to what I was saying.

01:24:19.000 Hard.

01:24:19.000 You admitted that had he not been the individual that he was, you would not have accepted that behavior.

01:24:23.000 Fair?

01:24:24.000 Absolutely.

01:24:24.000 Okay.

01:24:25.000 How about if I told you the only reason you accepted that from him is because he had social proof, he was a rapper, he had some people behind him, he had some money, he had some status, so therefore, he was able to do certain things that other men can't do.

01:24:33.000 He didn't have money, he didn't have status, he didn't have people behind him.

01:24:37.000 He did not.

01:24:38.000 It wasn't happening when you met him?

01:24:39.000 No, he was just trying to get it started.

01:24:41.000 He had a big viral video and it blew him up.

01:24:43.000 Boom, thank you.

01:24:45.000 That was six months into the relationship.

01:24:47.000 That wasn't in the beginning.

01:24:49.000 That was six months into the relationship.

01:24:50.000 Why did he get a pass then?

01:24:52.000 Why did he get a pass?

01:24:53.000 Because I knew what he was going for.

01:24:54.000 He didn't have anything.

01:24:56.000 That man probably had $300 in his pocket.

01:24:58.000 He probably had maybe less.

01:24:59.000 He had social status.

01:25:01.000 No, he had no social status.

01:25:02.000 You just said he had a viral video.

01:25:04.000 It happened after I met him, six months into our dating relationship.

01:25:08.000 I recorded a video.

01:25:09.000 If he was a regular guy, you said no.

01:25:11.000 He wasn't a regular guy.

01:25:13.000 That's the point!

01:25:14.000 He still didn't have that status that he has.

01:25:16.000 No, hold on, hold on.

01:25:17.000 Real quick.

01:25:18.000 You know what you do?

01:25:18.000 What?

01:25:19.000 People confront you of a topic, and you deflect it totally.

01:25:22.000 That's exactly what I'm doing.

01:25:23.000 I'm marrying you guys right now, because you guys just did that to us.

01:25:25.000 This is why that guy probably showed up, because he's like, yo, this is frustrating.

01:25:28.000 Talking to you, you deflect all day.

01:25:29.000 Yeah, all day.

01:25:30.000 All day. 0.71

01:25:32.000 I'm like the worst girl you guys can ever talk to.

01:25:35.000 You will never break my...

01:25:36.000 You can't give it to me.

01:25:37.000 No, we've seen worse.

01:25:37.000 It's literally up here.

01:25:39.000 Maybe, and I think you guys are wrong.

01:25:41.000 That's your opinion, and I think you guys are wrong.

01:25:43.000 Okay.

01:25:44.000 And I think you guys are bouncing it off of each other. 0.99

01:25:46.000 I don't give a fuck if everybody was watching. 0.98

01:25:48.000 It's very simple. 0.98

01:25:49.000 The whole worker get against me.

01:25:51.000 You gotta know me.

01:25:51.000 I'll stand by myself and still say what I'm gonna say.

01:25:53.000 That's cool.

01:25:54.000 The fact is this.

01:25:55.000 You're not gonna be mean to girls.

01:25:56.000 The point is this.

01:25:58.000 You're not gonna be mean to girls.

01:25:59.000 Who's being mean?

01:26:00.000 You guys are just...

01:26:01.000 You guys are followers.

01:26:02.000 You guys don't...

01:26:02.000 That's the truth.

01:26:04.000 That's a biological truth.

01:26:05.000 Women follow men lead. 1.00

01:26:07.000 She's probably smarter than both of you guys put together. 0.88

01:26:10.000 You know what's funny?

01:26:10.000 You do marketing, right?

01:26:11.000 Yes.

01:26:12.000 Who do companies target to sell products mainly?

01:26:14.000 Men or women? 0.78

01:26:15.000 To women. 0.64

01:26:15.000 I have to agree with what you're saying. 0.64

01:26:18.000 Listen, this is facts.

01:26:19.000 This is not how we feel.

01:26:19.000 This is facts.

01:26:20.000 If you don't accept it, that's not you.

01:26:21.000 If you agree, it's okay.

01:26:22.000 It's true.

01:26:23.000 You can agree, and I'm still going to hold on to what I feel.

01:26:26.000 That's fine.

01:26:26.000 You can deflect and be disagreeable.

01:26:28.000 The fact is this.

01:26:30.000 Women want men with social status and money and the ability to provide resources. 1.00

01:26:34.000 Cool.

01:26:35.000 So therefore, a man's status and his background matters.

01:26:39.000 Other people respecting him and other women want to be with him.

01:26:42.000 So women definitely do, whether you want to admit it or not, need social proof from a man. 1.00

01:26:46.000 Men, however, don't.

01:26:48.000 If I see a girl and I find her attractive, it doesn't matter what people think about her.

01:26:51.000 That's you.

01:26:53.000 Please stop interrupting me.

01:26:54.000 In general, men don't need approval of a girl socially to find her attractive.

01:26:59.000 I don't care if a girl's lit on Instagram. 0.93

01:27:01.000 If she's attractive and I like her, that's all that matters.

01:27:04.000 Matter of fact, I would argue men want women that have less status. 0.98

01:27:07.000 Women, on the other hand, you guys need status. 1.00

01:27:10.000 You guys need a background.

01:27:11.000 You need money.

01:27:12.000 You need these things.

01:27:12.000 So women absolutely care about social status from a guy.

01:27:15.000 You're saying, oh, we can make independent decisions on our guy without approval.

01:27:19.000 Actually, no, because that man has to be approved by society for you to even give him a chance.

01:27:23.000 That's my point.

01:27:24.000 Men don't need social... 1.00

01:27:26.000 I fuck with a lot of bums. 1.00

01:27:28.000 And where are they now? 1.00

01:27:29.000 They're gone. 0.93

01:27:29.000 They're still bums. 0.93

01:27:30.000 Thank you! 0.89

01:27:31.000 That's the only point!

01:27:32.000 They're gone!

01:27:32.000 So that don't mean I stayed with them for seven years.

01:27:35.000 Yo, you are the queen of refuting your own arguments.

01:27:37.000 Yeah, literally.

01:27:38.000 Queen, you've contradicted your own arguments three or four times.

01:27:41.000 I ain't a leader, but I want a man that's a leader.

01:27:43.000 Or I'm a leader.

01:27:44.000 No, I'm a leader.

01:27:45.000 I am a leader.

01:27:46.000 But I want a man that's a leader.

01:27:47.000 I absolutely do want a man that's a leader.

01:27:48.000 Okay, well that makes you a follower.

01:27:49.000 No, I'm not a follower.

01:27:49.000 I can follow.

01:27:50.000 I'm not a follower.

01:27:51.000 I'm not a follower of people.

01:27:52.000 You literally said.

01:27:53.000 You're trying to make it broad.

01:27:54.000 Say it real clear.

01:27:55.000 Say, do you follow your man?

01:27:56.000 Yep.

01:27:57.000 Do you follow people?

01:27:57.000 No.

01:27:58.000 So by definition, you're a follower.

01:27:59.000 No, you're trying to make me a follower.

01:28:01.000 You want to make a point?

01:28:01.000 You're a follower.

01:28:02.000 I think what she means is there's like certain parts in life where you can be a follower and some parts of life where you can be a leader.

01:28:07.000 Maybe in her relationship she's a follower, but with random people she's a leader.

01:28:11.000 I do everything my man do.

01:28:12.000 I follow the leader.

01:28:13.000 Maybe she goes to work.

01:28:14.000 So you're a follower?

01:28:15.000 Of my man.

01:28:16.000 Yes, I'm a follower of my man.

01:28:18.000 You just made a whole argument.

01:28:19.000 I'm not a follower, nothing else.

01:28:21.000 That's what he's saying.

01:28:22.000 You're contradicting yourself the whole time.

01:28:24.000 Chats even annoyed listening to you. 1.00

01:28:25.000 They're like, yo, this chick is crazy. 1.00

01:28:27.000 I don't grab the chats. 0.96

01:28:27.000 I'm not even looking at the chats. 0.96

01:28:28.000 I do this on TikTok all day long.

01:28:30.000 I irk people all day long.

01:28:32.000 All day long.

01:28:33.000 You just don't make sense.

01:28:34.000 Is there another question?

01:28:36.000 She admitted she don't make sense.

01:28:40.000 I'm not mad at all.

01:28:41.000 I'm not mad at all.

01:28:43.000 Yes, you are.

01:28:43.000 I'm not mad at all.

01:28:44.000 Yes, you are.

01:28:45.000 You know what?

01:28:45.000 How much is your ring cost?

01:28:47.000 $2,500.

01:28:49.000 Just for the ring.

01:28:50.000 And it's a custom.

01:28:51.000 You mean the comments saying that, like, that ring costs more than what we had?

01:28:55.000 No, I was going to say these microphones.

01:28:56.000 That one microphone you holding.

01:28:57.000 But it don't matter.

01:28:58.000 How much does this cost my ring?

01:28:59.000 You want me to keep working?

01:29:00.000 Y'all can keep going.

01:29:01.000 Y'all that's not going to work.

01:29:02.000 Why you don't ask nobody else questions?

01:29:04.000 Don't let me make your show.

01:29:06.000 Don't let me make your show.

01:29:07.000 But probably not my bag and my chain and everything together in this Chanel belt on me.

01:29:11.000 Don't play with me, little boy. 1.00

01:29:12.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:29:13.000 This costs more than your whole collection right there. 1.00

01:29:15.000 Stop playing with me.

01:29:16.000 I'm definitely walking in with like 10 racks on me.

01:29:18.000 Which is funny because...

01:29:20.000 Why you want to make this a money conversation?

01:29:21.000 You being a man, you want to overpower me.

01:29:25.000 You want to hover me.

01:29:26.000 And nobody can ever stun me.

01:29:28.000 No man ever did it.

01:29:30.000 No man ever did it.

01:29:32.000 This is custom.

01:29:33.000 I went here and picked it.

01:29:34.000 Your ring's fake and that bracelet's fake and it's moist tonight.

01:29:37.000 Stop playing.

01:29:38.000 It's too white.

01:29:38.000 It don't even light up in the dark.

01:29:40.000 What are you talking about?

01:29:40.000 Stop playing.

01:29:40.000 You got that moist night ass.

01:29:42.000 It is light right now. 1.00

01:29:42.000 Stop with your moist night ass stuff. 1.00

01:29:44.000 Y'all so mad at him. 0.99

01:29:44.000 Anyhow, you're doing the collection? 0.99

01:29:46.000 Man, that's crazy, man.

01:29:46.000 Nothing you can say.

01:29:47.000 Maybe at least 5k.

01:29:48.000 Nothing you can say.

01:29:49.000 Nothing you can say. 0.99

01:29:50.000 I'm so good at tuning shit out. 0.98

01:29:51.000 This mic costs money in your collection. 0.99

01:29:53.000 Maybe. 1.00

01:29:53.000 My whole shit costs money. 1.00

01:29:55.000 Everything in here. 1.00

01:29:55.000 Keep it to yourself. 1.00

01:29:56.000 No, everything in here. 1.00

01:29:56.000 Your shit is... 1.00

01:29:58.000 Everything. 1.00

01:29:58.000 This is more than anything. 1.00

01:29:59.000 And this shit slide up in a dump. 1.00

01:30:00.000 That ain't bronze, man. 1.00

01:30:01.000 Everybody knows this shit, bro. 1.00

01:30:03.000 You know what the fuck it's hitting for. 1.00

01:30:05.000 No, that shit's probably fake. 1.00

01:30:05.000 Yeah, and like your bracelet. 1.00

01:30:07.000 You know fake because you wear fake shit. 1.00

01:30:08.000 This is actually real. 1.00

01:30:09.000 And what kind of shit you got on? 1.00

01:30:10.000 Jordans? 1.00

01:30:10.000 This is real. 1.00

01:30:11.000 What you got on Jordans?

01:30:12.000 No, McQueen's.

01:30:12.000 Thank you.

01:30:12.000 What you got on Jordans?

01:30:13.000 The real queen.

01:30:14.000 What you got?

01:30:15.000 Yeah. 0.91

01:30:15.000 You mad? 0.91

01:30:16.000 You mad? 1.00

01:30:17.000 No, I'm happy as fuck. 1.00

01:30:18.000 Y'all be mad. 1.00

01:30:20.000 Everything's real on me.

01:30:21.000 Y'all be mad because you can't get no girl mad.

01:30:23.000 Your vibe is fake.

01:30:23.000 Everything's fake.

01:30:24.000 And guess what?

01:30:24.000 And it paid a lot.

01:30:26.000 And guess what?

01:30:26.000 Guess how you're trying to go?

01:30:28.000 You're mad that you tried to compare his ways.

01:30:32.000 You know how I know you're insecure.

01:30:33.000 I said you got nice ways.

01:30:34.000 You had to include yourself.

01:30:35.000 I was trolling.

01:30:36.000 No, and I'm trolling.

01:30:37.000 And I'm trolling.

01:30:38.000 And I'm trolling.

01:30:39.000 And I brush.

01:30:40.000 I've been even before.

01:30:40.000 It don't matter, baby.

01:30:42.000 It's nothing you can ever say to make me mad.

01:30:43.000 I never could be mad.

01:30:44.000 You can't make me mad. 1.00

01:30:46.000 I'ma just keep talking shit. 1.00

01:30:47.000 I'm a shit talker. 1.00

01:30:49.000 I'm from Philly. 1.00

01:30:49.000 You can't stop me. 1.00

01:30:51.000 I don't want to hear nothing you're saying in your eyes. 1.00

01:30:53.000 I know what the fuck I got on. 0.99

01:30:54.000 I know what my money like. 0.99

01:30:56.000 I know what it's like.

01:30:57.000 I'm just going to keep picking.

01:30:59.000 Move along.

01:31:00.000 You're making me the star of the show.

01:31:02.000 Move me.

01:31:03.000 Move me along.

01:31:04.000 You're making me the star of the show.

01:31:07.000 Keep being an editor of the show, still being a star, but I'm giving you your most content right now.

01:31:11.000 There's nothing you can say.

01:31:12.000 I can keep going until you can't end it.

01:31:14.000 We can talk about this just like this.

01:31:16.000 We can keep going back and forth.

01:31:17.000 I'm never going to stop talking.

01:31:18.000 I'm never going to stop talking.

01:31:19.000 There's not nobody capable of making me.

01:31:20.000 So what you going to do?

01:31:21.000 What you going to do?

01:31:22.000 What are we going to keep talking?

01:31:23.000 Y'all going to focus all on me.

01:31:25.000 Y'all going to focus all on me.

01:31:26.000 If I wanted to.

01:31:26.000 I'm just going to keep irritating y'all.

01:31:28.000 We're just going to move on.

01:31:29.000 Yeah, move on to the next person.

01:31:31.000 Because I want to, not because you want to.

01:31:32.000 No, because I want to.

01:31:34.000 I'm stopping.

01:31:34.000 Let me stop talking.

01:31:35.000 Talk again.

01:31:36.000 That's what I thought.

01:31:38.000 Okay.

01:31:38.000 I'm online.

01:31:40.000 Toxic for me is selfish.

01:31:43.000 I think that more toxic, can you say, it's selfish.

01:31:49.000 Because you start to feel uncomfortable.

01:31:52.000 You can feel stressful.

01:31:54.000 And...

01:31:56.000 We can feel it now, actually.

01:31:59.000 Because for me, when people just thinking about yourself, it's more toxic than you can feel safe or something.

01:32:13.000 So the toxic trait being selfish?

01:32:14.000 Can you give us an example of being selfish?

01:32:16.000 Yeah, selfish.

01:32:17.000 Yeah, give us an example real quick.

01:32:19.000 If you want to do something, first, you need to think about yourself.

01:32:28.000 I mean, if I want to do something, first, it's...

01:32:34.000 I mean, my first thing, it's not how it...

01:32:40.000 what we'll think about my husband or someone, I mean, my friend.

01:32:46.000 And...

01:32:48.000 If in the end, I need to ask someone for doing something, because, I mean...

01:32:54.000 You're not selfish.

01:32:55.000 Yes, yes.

01:32:56.000 When...

01:32:58.000 When it's relationship, it needs to go to both sides.

01:33:04.000 Both sides?

01:33:05.000 To respect each other?

01:33:06.000 Yes, yes, yes.

01:33:07.000 And if I can do something because of some reason for someone told me something.

01:33:15.000 You think about it.

01:33:15.000 Yes, yes, yes, yes.

01:33:16.000 So you're not selfish?

01:33:17.000 For me, for me, no, I mean not by my side, but...

01:33:23.000 I got you.

01:33:26.000 So she's saying that your relationship is both sides.

01:33:30.000 So if she wants to do something outwardly, she'll say, you know what?

01:33:33.000 What does he think?

01:33:35.000 Exactly.

01:33:37.000 She's not selfish, basically.

01:33:39.000 She's not selfish at all.

01:33:40.000 Yeah, but her argument is like the toxic trait is the guy being selfish.

01:33:43.000 Yeah, which means he does whatever he feels like without asking her for any input at all.

01:33:47.000 So he needs to ask you for your opinion on what he does.

01:33:50.000 At least think about it.

01:33:52.000 Before you act on it, selfishly.

01:33:54.000 Like for example, let's say they're going to, I don't know, a game, and he just says, we're going, I don't care what you're doing, just come.

01:34:01.000 So he needs to consult with her.

01:34:03.000 Do you guys agree with that, that the man needs to consult with you when he does things?

01:34:07.000 Yes.

01:34:08.000 Yes, I do.

01:34:09.000 Raise of hands, please.

01:34:10.000 Can we do this nice and concretely?

01:34:11.000 All of you agree?

01:34:13.000 Okay.

01:34:14.000 Interesting.

01:34:16.000 Do you have another question that you want to ask?

01:34:18.000 Well, no.

01:34:19.000 I got this video to play.

01:34:20.000 Alright, let's play the video.

01:34:21.000 This was very telling. 0.92

01:34:23.000 And I gotta say, man, you're big mad. 0.94

01:34:25.000 Let's go. 0.96

01:34:26.000 I'm not even talking about y'all. 0.99

01:34:28.000 I'm talking about my titties. 0.98

01:34:29.000 Why am I now? 0.92

01:34:30.000 Sorry, we have a third more chance to refresh. 0.95

01:34:32.000 What titties? 1.00

01:34:34.000 Yo, why are you mad at me? 0.98

01:34:37.000 Because I got an opinion, bro.

01:34:38.000 I'm messing with you.

01:34:38.000 Yeah, I love you.

01:34:40.000 I'm quiet now.

01:34:40.000 I love you too.

01:34:41.000 I'm quiet.

01:34:42.000 Listen, we both flat.

01:34:44.000 We good.

01:34:46.000 See, I'm nice, y'all.

01:34:48.000 I love you.

01:34:49.000 No, I just watched the show and I know what it's about.

01:34:51.000 I had to do this.

01:34:51.000 Sorry, sorry.

01:34:52.000 I'm back to normal, guys.

01:34:54.000 You watched the show and you didn't come with an actual argument?

01:34:57.000 I had to give y'all some content.

01:34:59.000 Love me later.

01:35:01.000 That's why we over here laughing about you guys.

01:35:03.000 No, we laugh at you.

01:35:06.000 I love you.

01:35:07.000 I'm sorry.

01:35:08.000 We got some chats here, man.

01:35:09.000 Oh my God.

01:35:09.000 I mean, we've done it for four years, man.

01:35:11.000 Stereotypes are confirmed. 1.00

01:35:12.000 Just feeling like an asshole. 1.00

01:35:14.000 What is this? 1.00

01:35:15.000 Just feeling like an asshole. 1.00

01:35:16.000 Pause. 1.00

01:35:16.000 So here we go, Mo. 1.00

01:35:17.000 You look like first form Boo if you use the power in himself.

01:35:21.000 Because you look like shrunken voodoo doll. 1.00

01:35:23.000 Fresh, you look like a shadow demon. 1.00

01:35:24.000 You look like Bin Laden, less successful cousin Trash Loud. 0.98

01:35:27.000 And Chris, next time you go to the sewers... 0.98

01:35:29.000 To get out the rain, don't bring the rats on the show. 1.00

01:35:32.000 What the fuck? 1.00

01:35:36.000 That's crazy, bro. 1.00

01:35:37.000 Black Zero, 94, appreciate that. 0.98

01:35:39.000 Shout out to my brother, Lyrical Detox in the building for making shit happen for the after hours. 1.00

01:35:43.000 Question for the ladies, do y'all want a man who flexes their lavish lifestyle on social media? 1.00

01:35:46.000 Okay, that's a good one.

01:35:47.000 We could do this with a raise of hands, yes or no?

01:35:49.000 Who wants a man that shows their lifestyle on social media? 1.00

01:35:51.000 Like Instagram?

01:35:53.000 Just raise of hands if it's a yes?

01:35:55.000 Oh, that's a no all around.

01:35:56.000 All right.

01:35:58.000 I don't believe in it though.

01:35:58.000 Yeah, facts.

01:36:00.000 Because they're going to see it and say, okay, he's somewhat competent.

01:36:03.000 If you're doing good in life, I'll go for a date.

01:36:05.000 Versus not going at all.

01:36:07.000 You know, it's interesting because everything you guys, and I'm going to reveal this later, but everything you guys have said that you want is actually counterproductive to being attractive.

01:36:16.000 Counterproductive.

01:36:17.000 Yes.

01:36:17.000 Everything that you guys say that you want during the course of this podcast, you know, egalitarianism, equal rights between the two, authority both sides, a man being insecure, being bad, all of these things that you guys are saying, it's actually like counterproductive for a man to be attractive.

01:36:33.000 But we'll talk about that later.

01:36:34.000 I just, it's, I mean, it's very common.

01:36:38.000 Alright, what else do we got here?

01:36:39.000 We got, uh...

01:36:42.000 I did some research on social psychology in my class. 0.66

01:36:45.000 The majority of FBA or ghetto black girls have the lowest acceptance rate, nothing new, in the dating market due to their masculine personality. 1.00

01:36:52.000 That girl in the middle is a perfect example, and her level of narcissism is palpable. 0.97

01:36:55.000 It is understandable that most black athletes prefer a feminist submissive woman, not black. 0.99

01:36:59.000 I see why I only date Asian and Latin women who are none. 1.00

01:37:03.000 Then I'm Elon Musk, WFNF Al Lingling. 0.78

01:37:07.000 Do you have anything you want to say back to him?

01:37:08.000 Do you want to respond to him?

01:37:09.000 No, guys.

01:37:10.000 It's all love.

01:37:12.000 Okay.

01:37:12.000 Alright.

01:37:13.000 Who do we got next?

01:37:14.000 Okay.

01:37:16.000 I can smell a Frank Castle in here.

01:37:18.000 Alright?

01:37:18.000 I don't know.

01:37:19.000 What does that mean?

01:37:20.000 Don't worry.

01:37:20.000 You might find out.

01:37:21.000 Never ask a girl if she's single because if she likes you enough, she will and shall become single. 0.99

01:37:25.000 True.

01:37:26.000 Because every single woman in her 20s has a little bit of door to explore because they love going out and charming a new and better Cobras. 1.00

01:37:32.000 Okay.

01:37:32.000 Oh my god.

01:37:33.000 That is not true.

01:37:35.000 You guys disagree with that?

01:37:36.000 That's not just about on.

01:37:37.000 You guys are just trying to say something. 0.99

01:37:39.000 Who disagrees with that or somebody was saying something stupid or they disagree? 0.99

01:37:42.000 Go ahead. 0.99

01:37:43.000 Why?

01:37:44.000 Everybody is not out here looking for a person.

01:37:47.000 Some people are waiting for it to just come.

01:37:50.000 Do y'all believe that or not?

01:37:51.000 Waiting?

01:37:52.000 How would you see them coming if you're not looking?

01:37:54.000 Because you're just supposed to let them come to you.

01:37:56.000 Yeah, but you gotta see them coming to you though.

01:37:58.000 Because when you look, you find the wrong thing.

01:37:59.000 When you look, you find the wrong thing though.

01:38:02.000 Okay.

01:38:04.000 So you don't think women bear any responsibility with finding a man?

01:38:07.000 It's the man to find her.

01:38:08.000 Yeah, yeah.

01:38:09.000 I guess you could say that.

01:38:11.000 You guys find each other, but really the man finds her.

01:38:14.000 I'm just trying to figure out.

01:38:15.000 So the woman bears no responsibility.

01:38:17.000 The man has to find her, in your opinion.

01:38:22.000 Come on.

01:38:22.000 It's okay.

01:38:23.000 Yeah, but no, at the same time.

01:38:26.000 Bro.

01:38:27.000 Okay, alright, alright.

01:38:28.000 Email.

01:38:32.000 See, she can't even... 1.00

01:38:34.000 The woman has to go somewhere for the man to find her. 1.00

01:38:39.000 We'll do this with a raise of hands again.

01:38:42.000 Ladies, do you think the woman has to bear any responsibility with the man finding her, or is it all in a man to find her? 0.95

01:38:48.000 Raise of hands if you think there's some responsibility on the woman. 0.50

01:38:52.000 Raise of hands.

01:38:54.000 Oh, okay.

01:38:55.000 You just...

01:38:58.000 I'm not looking, though.

01:39:00.000 I'm not looking.

01:39:00.000 I want them to find me.

01:39:02.000 You gotta be kidding me, bro.

01:39:03.000 I'm in a relationship, though, so this does not apply to me.

01:39:05.000 The responsibility is actually being out there, I guess.

01:39:07.000 But, you know, not really being like, oh, where my man at? 0.97

01:39:11.000 Yeah, like, where the nigga is. 1.00

01:39:13.000 Understandable. 0.79

01:39:13.000 But there's some effort. 0.79

01:39:15.000 There's effort.

01:39:16.000 Like, you must go out and you...

01:39:18.000 Must look good, smell good, take care of your body.

01:39:22.000 It's not for the man, it's for yourself.

01:39:24.000 No, it's for the man.

01:39:25.000 It's not for the man.

01:39:26.000 Okay.

01:39:26.000 That's where I get it messed up.

01:39:28.000 Oh, so you do it for yourself?

01:39:29.000 Yeah, I get myself together for myself.

01:39:31.000 I keep myself together for myself.

01:39:33.000 I keep my nails done, my feet done, all of that.

01:39:35.000 Drake said, you don't do it for the men.

01:39:37.000 Men never notice.

01:39:38.000 You just do it for yourself. 1.00

01:39:39.000 You the fucking coldest. 1.00

01:39:40.000 That's what Drake said. 1.00

01:39:42.000 Exactly. 1.00

01:39:43.000 And then Drake fucked girls like you. 1.00

01:39:45.000 Who said that? 1.00

01:39:45.000 He does. 1.00

01:39:46.000 I know.

01:39:46.000 Single blowers.

01:39:47.000 Yeah, I love Drew.

01:39:48.000 He can do whatever.

01:39:50.000 Well, I'm not talking, though.

01:39:51.000 I'm done.

01:39:51.000 I find that most men, they like women when they're not really all...

01:39:55.000 This is just like indoctrination to a whole other level.

01:39:58.000 They don't want to be saved.

01:39:59.000 Don't save her.

01:40:00.000 Ladies do realize that these musicians say things because they know that women are going to buy it hook, line, and sinker even though they don't agree with it or believe in it. 1.00

01:40:10.000 Kamala Harris, for example.

01:40:12.000 She literally admitted that marketers market to women more because women are consumers and women are more likely to buy.

01:40:18.000 So if I know that my target demographic is easier to sell to if I say certain things, wouldn't it make sense to behoove me to say those things to make sales?

01:40:27.000 That's why Meg went on with the Kamala. 0.88

01:40:32.000 Does that make sense?

01:40:33.000 No?

01:40:34.000 Yeah?

01:40:37.000 Let's critically think about this for a second.

01:40:41.000 Would you guys all agree that men have gone soft within the past 15 years?

01:40:43.000 Yes.

01:40:44.000 I agree with the statement.

01:40:45.000 Do you guys all agree with that?

01:40:46.000 Some of them.

01:40:47.000 Not all of them.

01:40:48.000 But a majority?

01:40:49.000 Yes.

01:40:50.000 Okay.

01:40:50.000 Would it be fair to say that during this same time we've pushed out music that is extremely feminine and emotional and one of the leaders of this was someone like Drake.

01:41:02.000 I'm in my feelings and all this other shit. 0.97

01:41:06.000 W Marketer. 0.98

01:41:07.000 Like, um, Loverboy and all of that, yeah.

01:41:09.000 Yeah.

01:41:09.000 Even though, when you look at his personal actions behind the scenes, he doesn't actually do what he says in his songs.

01:41:15.000 No, he doesn't.

01:41:15.000 A lot of rappers don't.

01:41:17.000 Oh. 0.98

01:41:18.000 So he says this shit about, oh yeah, we don't know this and blah blah blah, but what is he doing on the side? 0.99

01:41:22.000 Hiding kids? 1.00

01:41:24.000 Fucking bitches? 1.00

01:41:25.000 All this stuff. 1.00

01:41:26.000 He's a loverboy?

01:41:27.000 Hiding kids is crazy.

01:41:28.000 He does all the things.

01:41:29.000 Amen.

01:41:30.000 Hiding kids is crazy.

01:41:31.000 He does all the things that are contrary to what he says in his songs.

01:41:33.000 Have you guys caught on to that yet?

01:41:34.000 No. 0.98

01:41:37.000 So he lies to y'all, feminizes the men because they think it's okay to be on their feelings and shit like that. 0.99

01:41:43.000 It's all propaganda. 0.98

01:41:45.000 It's good marketing.

01:41:46.000 It's definitely marketing.

01:41:48.000 Everything's marketing, though.

01:41:49.000 Yeah, but if I didn't point it out just now, y'all would have been still quoting Drake.

01:41:52.000 I didn't quote Drake.

01:41:53.000 I'm going to always quote Drake because I like his lyrics.

01:41:56.000 I don't say anything about Drake.

01:41:57.000 I like the lyrics.

01:41:58.000 I wrote that part, thought about us, and I relate to that part. 0.96

01:42:02.000 Yeah, I thought about y'all because you guys are easier to fool. 0.98

01:42:05.000 You guys are way easier to fool. 0.96

01:42:07.000 This is why, if you look at the advertisers... 0.99

01:42:09.000 I fool y'all every single day. 0.98

01:42:10.000 So I think y'all are easier to fool. 0.97

01:42:12.000 Y'all give us the money.

01:42:13.000 Who?

01:42:15.000 Who?

01:42:16.000 I fool men every single day. 1.00

01:42:17.000 So I think y'all are the clowns. 1.00

01:42:20.000 Y'all pay us. 0.99

01:42:21.000 Y'all pay us for OnlyFans, for videos, for dancing, for food.

01:42:29.000 There's a difference.

01:42:30.000 Same for women and girls. 0.99

01:42:32.000 The argument I was making was not for women who fools who more. 0.99

01:42:36.000 It's simply that advertisers target you guys because you guys are easier to sell. 0.97

01:42:40.000 No, you didn't switch it.

01:42:42.000 No, you didn't.

01:42:43.000 Because I was keeping it to advertisers and females, then you said, well, I fool a bunch of dudes. 0.99

01:42:47.000 What does that have to do with what I said?

01:42:48.000 I was piggybacking off of it, but it's okay.

01:42:49.000 I don't want to go back and forth.

01:42:51.000 Doesn't make sense.

01:42:52.000 It had nothing to do with the argument at hand.

01:42:53.000 I apologize.

01:42:55.000 Like, that's like saying, oh, the sky's blue.

01:42:58.000 Well, you know what?

01:42:59.000 It's actually gray some days.

01:43:01.000 That didn't have anything to do with what I was saying.

01:43:04.000 But, alright.

01:43:06.000 I'm losing brain cells.

01:43:07.000 Yeah.

01:43:08.000 Okay.

01:43:09.000 Next one. 0.99

01:43:10.000 Take the trash out, nigga. 1.00

01:43:12.000 Okay. 0.98

01:43:12.000 I said that. 0.98

01:43:13.000 She said that.

01:43:14.000 Fresh updates.

01:43:15.000 That wasn't me.

01:43:16.000 If you met a man who had his life more together than anyone you've ever known, someone you didn't teach a thing to, but could make you better in every way, your health, your money, your thinking, would you submit and follow his lead, or would you still try to lead him?

01:43:28.000 Yes, I'm submitting.

01:43:30.000 Sorry.

01:43:32.000 Would all of you follow a man?

01:43:34.000 Absolutely.

01:43:36.000 I thought you weren't a follower.

01:43:38.000 I said I follow my man.

01:43:40.000 So that's where you keep switching words.

01:43:43.000 Exactly, I follow my man.

01:43:45.000 What you do is just like men do. 0.99

01:43:48.000 Y'all twist words, y'all hear what y'all want to hear. 0.98

01:43:50.000 You heard me very clearly, but you're going to do this thing like you didn't fucking hear me. 0.97

01:43:54.000 Watch this back when this is over. 0.96

01:43:55.000 Yeah, and I said I want to follow my man, not people.

01:43:59.000 So you're a follower.

01:44:00.000 If my man was this, I'm going to follow him.

01:44:02.000 So you're a follower?

01:44:03.000 My man, yep.

01:44:04.000 So by definition, that makes you a follower?

01:44:06.000 No.

01:44:07.000 Because the way you're trying to use it.

01:44:08.000 The context was in relationship, not in general.

01:44:11.000 Yeah, if you follow your man, by definition, you're a follower.

01:44:14.000 Yeah.

01:44:15.000 Yeah, in context.

01:44:16.000 We never said work or anything else.

01:44:19.000 This is crazy.

01:44:20.000 Holy.

01:44:21.000 Can you imagine living with her?

01:44:22.000 One on one.

01:44:23.000 Yo, it's about her man came home late, man. 0.99

01:44:25.000 That's why the nigga was drinking. 1.00

01:44:26.000 Yeah, he was drinking hot. 1.00

01:44:27.000 He was like, fuck it, bro. 1.00

01:44:28.000 I need a break. 1.00

01:44:29.000 He's like, I need a penny, man.

01:44:31.000 Niggas out till 4 a.m. 1.00

01:44:33.000 I'm out of here.

01:44:34.000 Why are you home late? 1.00

01:44:35.000 I don't care, fuck, man. 1.00

01:44:37.000 I don't care, fuck, man. 1.00

01:44:37.000 I don't care. 1.00

01:44:37.000 I took my dick, man. 1.00

01:44:39.000 Bro, hi, nigga. 1.00

01:44:40.000 Yo. 0.94

01:44:40.000 I don't get drunk, too. 0.94

01:44:41.000 He became an alcoholic. 1.00

01:44:42.000 Yo, what the fuck? 1.00

01:44:43.000 He was stressed out. 1.00

01:44:44.000 He was.

01:44:45.000 Yeah, I stand on business.

01:44:46.000 Hey, listen.

01:44:47.000 All right, queen. 0.99

01:44:48.000 That nigga next. 1.00

01:44:49.000 I hate guys who call girls queens. 1.00

01:44:51.000 Y'all are the biggest abusers. 1.00

01:44:52.000 Okay. 1.00

01:44:53.000 What the fuck? 1.00

01:44:55.000 That is actually true, though. 1.00

01:44:56.000 That is a fact. 0.98

01:44:57.000 Ain't calling nobody a fucking queen. 0.99

01:44:59.000 Manny Hernandez says, the question is for a woman in the middle. 1.00

01:45:02.000 Or that question.

01:45:03.000 They love me.

01:45:05.000 I told y'all this was my show today.

01:45:07.000 All right.

01:45:07.000 Sampson says, Thank you for the content.

01:45:09.000 You guys got me through the scandemic when I got divorced and I had to live in my truck for a year.

01:45:13.000 So I got back on my feet.

01:45:14.000 I'm a truck driver and started a YouTube channel.

01:45:16.000 I'm tracking my fitness while I get back in shape on the road.

01:45:19.000 Thank you for the inspiration.

01:45:20.000 YouTube at Iron and Steel on 18 wheels.

01:45:22.000 Good job, bro.

01:45:23.000 Good job, man.

01:45:24.000 That's great.

01:45:24.000 That's really good.

01:45:25.000 Sampson Atlas, good job. 1.00

01:45:27.000 That lawyer is dumber than a box of rocks. 1.00

01:45:29.000 Cozy comfort. 1.00

01:45:30.000 What the fuck? 1.00

01:45:32.000 You want a response to this nigga? 1.00

01:45:33.000 Don't say nothing. 0.99

01:45:34.000 Don't say nothing.

01:45:35.000 Don't say nothing.

01:45:35.000 Well, she practices a law that's very, uh, nebulous.

01:45:39.000 She's fucking smart. 0.98

01:45:41.000 She's an immigration lawyer. 1.00

01:45:41.000 He only took one dollar. 1.00

01:45:42.000 She richer than you. 0.99

01:45:43.000 Let me shut up. 1.00

01:45:44.000 Let me shut up. 1.00

01:45:44.000 Chaos Wax says, Coastal Club Miami provided so much value. 1.00

01:45:48.000 Shout out to the best mobile detailer down south.

01:45:51.000 Downsold detailing.

01:45:56.000 How do you spell it?

01:45:57.000 That's kind of...

01:45:58.000 Yeah, it says, First of all, there definitely needs to be Castle because the Queen is wilding out. 0.60

01:46:03.000 Second, Myron, there's a vocal translator on Amazon for Club 100 for all the foreigners that Chris keeps bringing on.

01:46:10.000 Vocal translator?

01:46:12.000 They can't understand Russia. 0.60

01:46:13.000 I mean, I thought she was good, bro, but I don't know, man.

01:46:14.000 I got tough skin.

01:46:15.000 The man cloud. 1.00

01:46:16.000 He said, oh, the black bitch in the middle is trying to get... 1.00

01:46:19.000 trying everything to get a good argument. 1.00

01:46:21.000 Yeah, she's in the family.

01:46:23.000 Yeah.

01:46:23.000 Never ask a girl if she's single because she likes you.

01:46:26.000 Oh, we read that one, Cam, two times.

01:46:28.000 Anything else?

01:46:29.000 WFNF, thank you so much.

01:46:30.000 I sent you a DM on Twitter, fresh update.

01:46:33.000 Okay, ladies, you think men or women are more privileged in 2024?

01:46:36.000 And how are they more privileged?

01:46:37.000 All right, this is actually a good one.

01:46:39.000 Last this one real fast.

01:46:41.000 Are men or women more privileged in 2024?

01:46:42.000 We can start here.

01:46:43.000 Yeah.

01:46:47.000 Comrade, do you understand?

01:46:50.000 Not a lot.

01:46:52.000 So who gets more benefits, men or women?

01:46:57.000 Men.

01:46:58.000 Men?

01:46:58.000 Sure.

01:46:59.000 In America, not Russia. 0.80

01:47:02.000 We are not talking about Russia.

01:47:04.000 America.

01:47:05.000 It's simple here, yeah, but in America, I think it's the same.

01:47:09.000 Like, not the same, but men have more power.

01:47:13.000 More privileges.

01:47:14.000 Yeah, more privileges.

01:47:15.000 All right, what about you?

01:47:18.000 Who has more privileges in 2024, men or women? 0.89

01:47:23.000 I'll have to say...

01:47:25.000 Women. 0.81

01:47:32.000 Women? 1.00

01:47:33.000 Okay.

01:47:33.000 What about you?

01:47:35.000 Woman.

01:47:37.000 Alright.

01:47:37.000 What about you?

01:47:38.000 Women. 0.81

01:47:40.000 Alright.

01:47:40.000 Period.

01:47:41.000 Women. 1.00

01:47:42.000 You fucking with me? 1.00

01:47:43.000 Right now? 1.00

01:47:44.000 Oh no, I'm just saying general. 1.00

01:47:45.000 Type shit. 1.00

01:47:46.000 What about you? 1.00

01:47:47.000 I agree, women. 0.88

01:47:48.000 But, I mean, the thing, why I think that is because women have the ability to choose kind of what they want to do. 1.00

01:47:54.000 As for man, he always has to work, you know, to get that status and everything.

01:47:58.000 But for me personally though, I want to work on myself.

01:48:01.000 So I think it depends what you want to do.

01:48:03.000 Whether you want to be in your feminine or masculine energy.

01:48:06.000 Period.

01:48:06.000 But you still think women have more privilege?

01:48:08.000 Yeah, I do think.

01:48:08.000 In general, for sure.

01:48:09.000 What do you think?

01:48:10.000 Women. 0.81

01:48:11.000 Alright, why do you guys think women?

01:48:13.000 You gave your answer, but why do you think women? 1.00

01:48:15.000 For me, I think, objectively speaking, society does...

01:48:23.000 Acknowledge a woman based off their physical beauty. 0.99

01:48:27.000 I feel that that's just what society expects.

01:48:30.000 So because of that reason, women do have pretty privilege. 1.00

01:48:34.000 And that's just something that you don't really, like you can't really deny that.

01:48:38.000 Even if you were to believe something else, like if you have other core values or ideals, that's still what society does expect.

01:48:47.000 So I do feel that.

01:48:51.000 A woman's looks does get them some sort of access to certain things and I'm not gonna lie and say men don't have their own privileges, but in that way... 1.00

01:49:02.000 What privilege do we have over women? 1.00

01:49:03.000 Yeah.

01:49:10.000 You said in the last one, the fact that you guys can...

01:49:15.000 No, no, let her answer.

01:49:17.000 Think about this.

01:49:18.000 Can you think of a privilege that men have?

01:49:19.000 If you can't, it's okay.

01:49:20.000 That women don't? 1.00

01:49:21.000 I can only think of one.

01:49:24.000 It's not even really a privilege.

01:49:27.000 Can I come back after?

01:49:28.000 Sure, sure, sure.

01:49:29.000 It's a tough one, I know.

01:49:30.000 We'll give you two hours.

01:49:31.000 Okay, she already gave her reason.

01:49:33.000 Why do you think women have more privileges than men in 2024? 1.00

01:49:37.000 I mean, especially in Miami, too.

01:49:39.000 Let's make it not as easy.

01:49:41.000 No, let's not say Miami.

01:49:43.000 Well, what about generally speaking?

01:49:44.000 Why do you think women have more privilege? 1.00

01:49:46.000 If you want to go into Miami, then go extrapolate that into the rest of the world.

01:49:50.000 That's fine.

01:49:50.000 But why do you think so?

01:49:51.000 Extrapocate.

01:49:52.000 Wait, what?

01:49:53.000 I just repeated the way he said it was funny.

01:49:55.000 Wait, say it again?

01:49:56.000 No, I was just being funny.

01:49:57.000 No, no, no.

01:49:58.000 I want to hear it.

01:49:59.000 He is.

01:50:00.000 Sorry, no, no.

01:50:01.000 I didn't hear it.

01:50:02.000 Extrapocate.

01:50:03.000 Extrapocate.

01:50:04.000 That's not what I said.

01:50:07.000 I know.

01:50:07.000 I was just being funny.

01:50:09.000 I was just being funny.

01:50:10.000 I was just repeating.

01:50:14.000 When I hear big words, I just repeat it so that I can use it one day.

01:50:18.000 Coconuts and Barberos.

01:50:26.000 What about you?

01:50:28.000 Why do you think women have more privilege? 1.00

01:50:30.000 I just feel like sometimes it's easier for us to get stuff like naturally without really trying just kind of like piggybacking on like what she was saying like as a female like sometimes it's just easier all right you know why do you think it's women have more privilege Me? 0.99

01:50:49.000 Yeah.

01:50:50.000 Just by what you require these days.

01:50:52.000 If you're dealing with someone who, for me, like she said, if you want to work, you don't.

01:50:57.000 If you want to work on yourself, I just feel like we have more leisure to do those things than men. 0.77

01:51:02.000 Like, we don't necessarily require those to have to work like you guys do.

01:51:08.000 Alright, what about you?

01:51:10.000 Didn't I already answer that?

01:51:11.000 No, you just said women have more privilege, but I'm asking why do you think that? 0.99

01:51:15.000 Um, the societal things, like pretty, we get indoors easier, we can, you know, just stuff like that, because we're pretty.

01:51:24.000 Okay, what about you?

01:51:26.000 Yeah, I feel like as far as, you know how they say, like, face card never declines.

01:51:30.000 It would have to be, like, when they first see you, it's definitely, like, pretty privileged.

01:51:34.000 That's the thing, like she said.

01:51:36.000 But I feel like, honestly, women, they have it easier because we can, there's other ways that we can get, like, what we need as far as, like, we can just be nice to somebody and we can get something.

01:51:47.000 Guys, you guys have to get a career, get a job, like, Have nice shoes.

01:51:50.000 Yes, you have to have nice shoes for somebody to want to deal with you, you know, like stuff like that as far as like image and stuff like that.

01:51:56.000 What about you?

01:51:57.000 You're the only one that disagrees.

01:51:58.000 You think men have more privilege.

01:51:59.000 What about getting job?

01:52:00.000 I mean, higher position, it's more about men.

01:52:04.000 Oh, that is true.

01:52:05.000 It's actually not.

01:52:08.000 Well, she's from Eastern Europe.

01:52:10.000 In the United States, you're far more likely to get a job as a female than as a male. 1.00

01:52:15.000 Well, she's talking about levels of the job, though.

01:52:18.000 They're most likely going to give the position to a man. 0.84

01:52:20.000 I would argue women could promote easier than men, especially if it's male-dominated. 1.00

01:52:23.000 I don't know.

01:52:24.000 She has a different outlook because she comes from an Eastern European world where they don't, like, you know, they kind of acknowledge gender differences there more realistically.

01:52:33.000 So I can see why she came up with that answer.

01:52:35.000 But we're talking about the United States.

01:52:36.000 Oh, okay.

01:52:37.000 But in Europe it's the same situation in Europe.

01:52:41.000 It's like...

01:52:43.000 No, it's not.

01:52:44.000 In Russia?

01:52:45.000 It's Russia and... 0.84

01:52:47.000 No, I'm not talking about Russia.

01:52:49.000 Yeah, in the Czech Republic it's not either.

01:52:51.000 I mean, feminism is a thing, but you guys aren't as far ahead as we are. 1.00

01:52:55.000 Which is why you have that belief.

01:52:56.000 Yeah, yeah.

01:52:57.000 Did you come up with the privilege?

01:52:59.000 I did.

01:52:59.000 Okay, what's the privilege that men have that women don't?

01:53:01.000 So, I have two.

01:53:03.000 Go ahead.

01:53:04.000 I feel that men have the privilege of feeling more safe than women.

01:53:09.000 I knew she was going to say that.

01:53:11.000 Okay, and number two...

01:53:12.000 You're wrong on that, but it's fine.

01:53:13.000 I'll let you keep going.

01:53:14.000 So, for the second one, I do believe that, especially like you mentioned, in a more male-dominated field or where these, I guess, traditional views of men and women do exist...

01:53:28.000 Women are not taken seriously than men are, and I feel that that is a privilege that men do have.

01:53:34.000 Yes.

01:53:35.000 Okay, so your two things that you think men have experienced privileges, one, feeling safer, and then two, being taken seriously in the workforce.

01:53:45.000 Okay, the first one is wrong because men are overwhelmingly the victims of violent crime, not women, it's men.

01:53:50.000 Like where you're like 10 times more likely as a man to be the victim of violent crime versus a woman. 0.95

01:53:55.000 And then the second thing you mentioned about being taken seriously.

01:53:59.000 All right, you can make that argument, but I would argue that women get more opportunities at least so they can at least be taken seriously. 1.00

01:54:06.000 So you can go ahead and get into certain rooms that I can't because you're a woman, and then you at least get the opportunity to prove yourself that you're not a bimbo. 1.00

01:54:14.000 But whereas the man doesn't even get the opportunity.

01:54:15.000 So yes, you might not be taken seriously in the beginning. 1.00

01:54:18.000 They're like, oh yeah, she's probably just a hot piece of ass. 1.00

01:54:20.000 We brought her in here for looks. 1.00

01:54:21.000 But then if you actually show that you're competent, you can do shit. 0.99

01:54:23.000 They're like, oh wow, okay. 0.99

01:54:25.000 You know, they'll change their minds.

01:54:27.000 So, I would argue, if a woman doesn't get taken seriously, that's her fault for being incompetent. 1.00

01:54:35.000 But she at least gets the opportunity to show her prowess. 1.00

01:54:38.000 And get in the room.

01:54:39.000 I disagree.

01:54:41.000 Why do you disagree?

01:54:42.000 Tell them.

01:54:43.000 Well, first I'm going to begin with the safety.

01:54:47.000 Okay.

01:54:47.000 I think you mentioned earlier how men, I mean, we can acknowledge that men are physically more stronger than women.

01:54:55.000 Yes.

01:54:55.000 So, therefore, I think it is way more understandable that a woman would feel less safe and a man should.

01:55:04.000 Yes, there are men against other men.

01:55:06.000 Okay, you said an important word just now.

01:55:07.000 You said feel.

01:55:09.000 Right?

01:55:10.000 You do understand that you can feel something, but it's not real.

01:55:13.000 I'll give you an example.

01:55:15.000 I can feel unsafe, but the reality is you're very safe.

01:55:20.000 So feelings doesn't necessarily represent reality.

01:55:24.000 But a lot of the times women tend to think that their feelings do represent reality.

01:55:29.000 So just because you feel, I feel unsafe, statistically speaking, you're far less likely to be assaulted than I would be walking down the same dark street that you're worried about, statistically speaking.

01:55:40.000 Wait, what statistic?

01:55:41.000 I just explained it.

01:55:43.000 Men are far more likely to be the victims of violent crime than women.

01:55:46.000 Okay.

01:55:46.000 Way more.

01:55:47.000 Okay.

01:55:48.000 I was about to say.

01:55:49.000 I feel that also with femininity or like masculine feminine energy, feminine represents emotions, intuition, feeling.

01:55:58.000 So I feel that intuition is associated with feeling and that in a lot of situations can keep you safe.

01:56:06.000 I mean that's cool but like what does that have to do with like I would say that that you just made my argument stronger by saying that women have more privileges. 1.00

01:56:17.000 The goal here is you're supposed to show how men have more privilege.

01:56:20.000 There are two things that men have a privilege that women don't. 0.98

01:56:22.000 I'm saying those two things you mentioned aren't true.

01:56:26.000 Much.

01:56:28.000 Because the two arguments you gave was women aren't as safe, because you don't feel that safe, but I'm saying that it's not true, because men are more likely to be assaulted physically, victims of violence.

01:56:38.000 The second one is being taken seriously, but I'm making an argument that you at least get the opportunity to be taken seriously.

01:56:46.000 I just feel that the only reason that a man would feel unsafe is against another man.

01:56:52.000 So I do feel that it's more privilege for a man to feel safe because it's only against their own gender, whereas a woman does have to worry about a man because of the physical, 0.94

01:57:07.000 I guess, strength difference.

01:57:09.000 I get that.

01:57:10.000 You can worry about it, but it doesn't mean it's real.

01:57:13.000 You can feel unsafe, but be completely safe.

01:57:15.000 You understand it, right?

01:57:16.000 It's a threat, but...

01:57:16.000 So, like, if I'm in my house, right, and I'm scared of ghosts, and I hear a sound, right?

01:57:21.000 Like, I can...

01:57:22.000 Oh, my God!

01:57:23.000 I feel unsafe!

01:57:24.000 Casper's here!

01:57:25.000 But, realistically speaking, I'm perfectly safe.

01:57:28.000 I just feel unsafe, because I think a ghost is there, but it's not true.

01:57:32.000 And this is kind of the difference between men and women.

01:57:34.000 It's like, you guys tend to interpret your reality through your feelings.

01:57:36.000 It's actually an inherent flaw in female nature. 1.00

01:57:38.000 I hate it. 1.00

01:57:39.000 Oh, damn. 0.99

01:57:40.000 Thank you. 0.99

01:57:41.000 Like damsel in distress vibes.

01:57:42.000 I don't like it.

01:57:43.000 No, I was going to argue more low IQ vibes.

01:57:46.000 But like, it's women interpret the world around them based on their feelings. 1.00

01:57:51.000 You just made an emotional argument that's not true, factually speaking.

01:57:53.000 I feel that.

01:57:56.000 I like to say feel.

01:57:57.000 That's the problem.

01:57:59.000 Emotional intelligence is also a form of intelligence to me.

01:58:03.000 Can you define emotional intelligence first?

01:58:04.000 What is that?

01:58:05.000 I'm curious.

01:58:05.000 Emotional intelligence is when you're able to utilize your self-regulation as skills by understanding your emotions and allowing that to help you understand the world around you and people around you.

01:58:19.000 Would it be fair to say that that boils down to interpreting the world through your feelings?

01:58:23.000 Yes.

01:58:24.000 That's precisely why I just said it's a fault of yours.

01:58:27.000 Interpreting the world through your feelings is a flaw.

01:58:30.000 You know what?

01:58:31.000 I'll give you an example.

01:58:32.000 I feel like you make orange chicken.

01:58:35.000 Do you?

01:58:36.000 I can.

01:58:37.000 I can air fry it.

01:58:38.000 But do you?

01:58:39.000 I have.

01:58:41.000 And I bet you it's good, right?

01:58:43.000 Period.

01:58:44.000 You might feel like I like chicken.

01:58:46.000 Fried chicken.

01:58:47.000 But is it true?

01:58:48.000 What?

01:58:49.000 No, is it true?

01:58:51.000 What is true?

01:58:52.000 I said you might feel like I like fried chicken.

01:58:54.000 Is it true?

01:58:55.000 I'm not sure.

01:58:56.000 But it's a feeling, right?

01:58:57.000 Yes.

01:58:58.000 But does it make it true?

01:59:00.000 No.

01:59:01.000 That's all he's saying right now.

01:59:02.000 She does like fried chicken, so you'd be feeling right.

01:59:04.000 But the reality is that your feelings are not, like, how you feel versus what's real are two different things is what I'm trying to explain.

01:59:12.000 I agree.

01:59:13.000 I think what she's saying is there should be a healthy balance between logical thinking and also, like, intuition.

01:59:18.000 Yes.

01:59:18.000 You know what I mean?

01:59:19.000 Masculine.

01:59:20.000 Yeah, it has healthy balance with everything.

01:59:22.000 No, it should all be logically sound thinking.

01:59:24.000 No, definitely.

01:59:25.000 But that's, you're a man.

01:59:26.000 What in life is balanced, though?

01:59:28.000 Yes.

01:59:28.000 That's a good thing.

01:59:29.000 And that's why we're better decision makers than you guys and we're better leaders.

01:59:31.000 This is why 90 plus percent of the inventions in the world were created by men and the civilization that we live in was created by men. 0.99

01:59:38.000 I don't want to sound like an asshole, but women don't really contribute much to society. 1.00

01:59:43.000 A lot of men became successful off of having a great woman in their life. 0.99

01:59:53.000 Have you guys read Think and Grow Rich?

01:59:56.000 Chapter 11 talks about this.

01:59:58.000 Yeah, like really, really.

02:00:01.000 Same for Michelle Obama's book, same for Trump's book.

02:00:04.000 And you're also forgetting how many men's downfall came from one woman as well.

02:00:08.000 Exactly.

02:00:08.000 So it's a give and take.

02:00:09.000 It's a give and take.

02:00:10.000 How many women's downfall came from a man as well? 1.00

02:00:13.000 Look, I don't know too many.

02:00:14.000 You said how many what, downfalls?

02:00:17.000 What was that?

02:00:18.000 You can ignore her.

02:00:19.000 I'm asleep.

02:00:20.000 Please don't yell at me again.

02:00:21.000 I don't want to talk.

02:00:22.000 I just had an opinion.

02:00:23.000 I mean, I don't want to go back and forth.

02:00:24.000 I don't want to go back and forth.

02:00:26.000 I just had an opinion.

02:00:28.000 Are you okay?

02:00:28.000 Yes, I just don't want to go back and forth.

02:00:30.000 She doesn't want to have her opinion challenged? 1.00

02:00:32.000 No, I don't want to make it about me.

02:00:36.000 We can go on all night.

02:00:38.000 Anyway, so with the whole thing about a woman being behind a man, look, I understand that a woman can come in and accentuate a man's success, but I'm under the firm belief, and I think we have evidence to kind of show this nowadays especially, 0.85

02:00:55.000 women don't really build, they move in. 1.00

02:00:58.000 And what I mean by that is, the man has to be in his position where he's established, where the girl is even going to give him a chance.

02:01:03.000 Or, at least beyond the trajectory, to be established.

02:01:08.000 Ambition.

02:01:09.000 At least.

02:01:09.000 Okay.

02:01:10.000 I could go ahead and marry a girl and turn her into a millionaire. 0.99

02:01:14.000 Right?

02:01:15.000 A chick that's a millionaire ain't going to look my way if I'm not one already. 1.00

02:01:18.000 That's the difference.

02:01:19.000 Women marry up. 1.00

02:01:21.000 Or they date up.

02:01:22.000 We are okay with dating down and raising a woman up to our level. 0.93

02:01:26.000 So women don't build. 1.00

02:01:27.000 That's what I'm trying to say.

02:01:28.000 So when you make that argument, oh, she could come in and help and whatever.

02:01:32.000 Cool, she can. 0.99

02:01:33.000 She could accentuate what he has going on.

02:01:35.000 That's all that I'm saying.

02:01:36.000 Yeah, but he would be successful regardless is my point.

02:01:39.000 That's okay.

02:01:39.000 Maybe not reach the same level, but he would still be successful.

02:01:42.000 I was only saying that a woman comes in and accentuate. 1.00

02:01:44.000 I wasn't disagreeing with you.

02:01:45.000 No, but you're trying to...

02:01:46.000 See, women love to... 1.00

02:01:47.000 This is the thing, because I've talked to so many of you.

02:01:49.000 You guys love to try to trivialize the man's struggle and success and say that it's attributed to a female.

02:01:54.000 And my argument is that it's not attributed to the female at all.

02:01:56.000 She kind of made it a little bit better.

02:01:58.000 That's all I'm saying.

02:01:59.000 Look, a good cake is a good cake whether you put a cherry on top of it or not.

02:02:02.000 The cherry on top is the female.

02:02:04.000 The man is the base of the cake is my argument.

02:02:06.000 That's okay.

02:02:07.000 I agree with that.

02:02:10.000 So you're literally like, and I'm agreeing with you.

02:02:13.000 Okay, so by definition, you're not significant.

02:02:15.000 Well, I am significant.

02:02:17.000 I'm very significant.

02:02:19.000 You just agreed that you're the cherry on the cake.

02:02:21.000 Yeah.

02:02:22.000 Yo, Terry.

02:02:23.000 So you're insignificant. 0.93

02:02:24.000 You're replaceable.

02:02:25.000 To the man, is my argument.

02:02:27.000 Can I ask a question?

02:02:28.000 Look, simply put, I don't think a woman's presence in a man's life Is as significant to their success as many women try to propose. 0.92

02:02:38.000 Okay.

02:02:38.000 That's what I'm saying.

02:02:39.000 Because had the man not been in a certain position or have a certain level of ambition or not have a certain stature, he would have never gotten the woman in the first place.

02:02:47.000 The woman was just intelligent enough to understand that he was on the path to success and she's like, I'm going to jump on this because I can help accentuate this.

02:02:55.000 Right.

02:02:56.000 But that's my point.

02:02:57.000 You're fairly insignificant to the process.

02:02:59.000 Can I ask a question?

02:03:00.000 I agree with you.

02:03:01.000 That's fine.

02:03:02.000 We are.

02:03:02.000 But how are you insignificant to the process if that's what the man wants?

02:03:07.000 Because he would have reached that level regardless whether or without you.

02:03:09.000 A man is going to do what a man is going to do. 0.89

02:03:11.000 Maybe not as far, but he would have reached 90%, maybe not 100%.

02:03:14.000 How much money do you make a year on paper?

02:03:22.000 You asked us, what's our body count?

02:03:24.000 Why can't we?

02:03:24.000 How much money you make of your own paper?

02:03:27.000 On paper.

02:03:27.000 You could pull up your taxes right now.

02:03:29.000 Let's just say we do very well.

02:03:31.000 No, let's just say that's so vague because you made her say she was in bed.

02:03:35.000 That was a rhetorical question.

02:03:38.000 I wasn't actually going to have her answer.

02:03:40.000 No, you said social status requires us not to announce those things because we don't want to be judged.

02:03:50.000 But a man won't answer me right now because you don't want to be judged.

02:03:54.000 No.

02:03:54.000 What do you make?

02:03:55.000 What did you make on paper, honestly?

02:03:58.000 Man.

02:03:59.000 Exactly.

02:04:00.000 No, no, no.

02:04:00.000 I don't want to talk about no more.

02:04:01.000 It's okay.

02:04:01.000 He said it before.

02:04:02.000 I hear him.

02:04:04.000 Look.

02:04:04.000 So I'm asking right now.

02:04:05.000 What did he say?

02:04:06.000 Did y'all hear what he make a year?

02:04:07.000 Look.

02:04:09.000 Exactly.

02:04:10.000 So you're trying to complain.

02:04:10.000 So you're trying to tell me right now, and if I dated you and you came into the store, this is outside of the podcast, I just saw you coming to Publix.

02:04:16.000 You're a tall, attractive man, okay?

02:04:19.000 I'm gonna be like, hey, I don't care what you do.

02:04:22.000 I don't care how much you make.

02:04:23.000 I like the vibe you just gave me.

02:04:25.000 The vibe.

02:04:26.000 I like the energy you just gave me.

02:04:27.000 You probably looked handsome.

02:04:29.000 You probably gave me a compliment about the color I was wearing.

02:04:31.000 I'm like, okay, so let's switch numbers.

02:04:33.000 And then you're going to take me on a date.

02:04:34.000 I've definitely gone on dates with guys who have made less than me, and I've liked them still.

02:04:39.000 If I didn't date them anymore, it's probably because they did some...

02:04:42.000 No, I stayed with a guy for seven years, and I don't want to put his business out there.

02:04:47.000 No, that's not why I left him.

02:04:49.000 I left him because it was something very serious.

02:04:51.000 He got someone else pregnant, and he wanted to stay. 0.93

02:04:54.000 He wanted to work it out, but I didn't want to stay. 1.00

02:04:56.000 And I felt bad because I was like, did I stay with his broke ass for seven years? 0.99

02:04:59.000 And that's the reason I will not stay and help build a man again, because after I did that, it was pointless. 0.98

02:05:04.000 So that's not true.

02:05:05.000 All women don't do that. 1.00

02:05:06.000 Some women just like you. 1.00

02:05:07.000 I'm a woman...

02:05:08.000 I know my sister is.

02:05:09.000 I know she is.

02:05:09.000 Sometimes we just like the guy.

02:05:11.000 It's not about the money, the social status.

02:05:13.000 I just like you. 0.95

02:05:14.000 Like, I would date a poor, I would date a regular working guy who worked in fucking Target that was nice to me, who came home every night, who respected my family. 0.98

02:05:22.000 And you know what you would do? 0.97

02:05:23.000 I would never.

02:05:23.000 Boss him around.

02:05:24.000 I never bossed him around.

02:05:25.000 No, I let him boss me around.

02:05:26.000 I let you drive my car.

02:05:28.000 I let you.

02:05:29.000 I split my money with you.

02:05:32.000 See, but you know what you're doing?

02:05:33.000 You're saying, I let him.

02:05:35.000 No.

02:05:35.000 I'm sorry for just saying that, because I did say that.

02:05:37.000 It's true, though. 0.82

02:05:38.000 It's true.

02:05:38.000 But I only said that because you're like, oh, you wouldn't let him.

02:05:43.000 No, I would.

02:05:44.000 If you want to drive my car, I don't mind.

02:05:46.000 So, question. 0.99

02:05:46.000 If he was rich and fucked my other girl, would you have stayed? 0.99

02:05:50.000 No, because he did this time and I still left. 0.99

02:05:53.000 So then, why'd you stay with a guy for seven years who was broke?

02:05:55.000 I learned my lesson. 1.00

02:05:56.000 That's pretty stupid. 1.00

02:05:57.000 That was very stupid of me. 1.00

02:05:58.000 And most girls will learn that the hard way. 1.00

02:06:01.000 I learned the hard way, but I'm only pointing that out to say I dated someone when I was making six figures and they were making $35,000 a year.

02:06:08.000 And I never made him so bad.

02:06:10.000 He made one mistake.

02:06:11.000 Yeah.

02:06:12.000 Cool.

02:06:12.000 So I guess now you're saying it's a mistake, but then you're saying I only choose people who are up.

02:06:16.000 So is it my mistake for just loving someone?

02:06:18.000 You said it was a mistake.

02:06:21.000 So what's a mistake?

02:06:22.000 You said he did a bum.

02:06:23.000 You gotta understand that when we speak in generalities, it might or might not reflect what's going on with you, but it does not refute the fact that it's still true.

02:06:33.000 Yes.

02:06:33.000 So when I made the comment that women don't build, they move in, what I mean by that is a majority of women would prefer to not build a man up.

02:06:41.000 They'd rather kind of either get on a guy that's on his way up or already is up and then accentuate that.

02:06:45.000 I believe that.

02:06:46.000 They don't want to sit there and build a man up. 0.82

02:06:48.000 Now you even admitted in your own situation that you built guys up and it was frustrating and you had issues with it.

02:06:53.000 I definitely did.

02:06:54.000 So I wouldn't want to do it again.

02:06:56.000 And you won't do it again.

02:06:57.000 Because I learned my lesson.

02:06:58.000 Absolutely.

02:06:58.000 So that's my point.

02:06:59.000 Yeah.

02:07:00.000 Even in your own experience, you will never do it again.

02:07:02.000 But you can't say a woman won't do it because we will until we learn our lesson. 1.00

02:07:06.000 Absolutely.

02:07:07.000 We will until we learn our lesson.

02:07:08.000 So we will do it.

02:07:09.000 But you learn your lesson.

02:07:11.000 So it's not the right lesson then.

02:07:12.000 It doesn't matter, but we will do it.

02:07:14.000 It doesn't matter because it's not right.

02:07:15.000 And you also got to understand that different women have different tolerance levels for men ineptitude.

02:07:21.000 So you...

02:07:21.000 Have a higher tolerance for it.

02:07:23.000 I dated a guy that made 35k and I tried to build him up.

02:07:26.000 There's other girls that won't even give a guy a date that makes that kind of money. 1.00

02:07:28.000 Exactly, and that's why I say there's an exception to women that you put in this broad bucket. 1.00

02:07:33.000 You do understand when you make general statements, the exception doesn't make the rule.

02:07:36.000 Yes.

02:07:37.000 Okay, so I made a general statement.

02:07:39.000 Now, going back to the whole thing because you asked me about my money or whatever, I think it's important to note that With men, we have many metrics of what we can be attractive by.

02:07:48.000 You guys only have one, really.

02:07:50.000 Your looks and then your sexual past.

02:07:51.000 That's really the two main things that men look for.

02:07:54.000 Men, on the other hand, we can be charming, funny, make money, have status, have charisma, be good looking.

02:08:00.000 We have many different things that we can bring to the table.

02:08:02.000 You guys really only bring two things to the table. 0.99

02:08:03.000 Not be a whore and be attractive. 1.00

02:08:05.000 That's what men look for. 0.99

02:08:07.000 So, I would argue that what you guys bring has a lot more weight because it's only two things.

02:08:13.000 Those two things have a lot more weight.

02:08:16.000 So, to try to conflate a man's status to a girl's sexual past, I see what you're trying to do there, but they're not the same.

02:08:22.000 No, no, I just had to bring up that topic.

02:08:24.000 I really wanted to know how much you make.

02:08:28.000 I don't understand how that, I mean, I'd be happy to tell you that off air, but I'm not going to say it off air.

02:08:32.000 Exactly, because that's a part, that's something that you care about.

02:08:33.000 I mean, I've been pretty transparent about it.

02:08:35.000 No, but remember we were talking earlier.

02:08:36.000 Because I have real estate and then how much I make on paper versus how much I actually earn.

02:08:40.000 Give me an average of what you make a year.

02:08:47.000 Are you the feds?

02:08:48.000 No, no, no, because I can go get my phone right now and pull up my tax papers and mine say 175 last year.

02:08:53.000 So I just wanted to know what you're saying.

02:08:56.000 And when we leave here, I'm going to go get my tax papers so I can show you.

02:08:59.000 That's crazy.

02:08:59.000 Yeah, so I wanted to just know what you made.

02:09:03.000 You was talking shit about how much money we make earlier. 0.91

02:09:06.000 I just want to know. 1.00

02:09:08.000 Are we a pair of penises here? 1.00

02:09:10.000 I guess y'all can say that, but still never drop the number. 0.99

02:09:13.000 To me, I just think y'all broke.

02:09:15.000 I just think y'all broke. 1.00

02:09:17.000 Well, you fuck broke, niggas. 1.00

02:09:19.000 That's why I think that y'all broke. 1.00

02:09:21.000 I can smell one because I'm used to them.

02:09:24.000 I can smell one.

02:09:27.000 Y'all do this because y'all don't want to answer how much y'all make, so y'all making it about me again.

02:09:33.000 Nobody does.

02:09:35.000 But no, the guy in there, the other guy in there showed me what he made.

02:09:39.000 The other guy in there showed me what he made.

02:09:40.000 He didn't mind.

02:09:41.000 He opened as soon as he'd known me for two minutes.

02:09:43.000 Yeah, I'm broke.

02:09:44.000 No, y'all broke.

02:09:45.000 I just think y'all broke.

02:09:46.000 And I'm a hoe. 1.00

02:09:47.000 And I fuck broke niggas and I'm a hoe. 1.00

02:09:49.000 And y'all broke. 1.00

02:09:49.000 I still drive my 2,200. 1.00

02:09:50.000 I'm broke.

02:09:51.000 Y'all broke.

02:09:54.000 Y'all broke.

02:09:54.000 Yo, you broke.

02:09:55.000 It's blacked out.

02:09:55.000 Toyota Corolla game.

02:09:56.000 Y'all probably date girls who got me signs. 0.90

02:10:00.000 Yeah, facts. 0.99

02:10:01.000 Big asses, BBLs from Niggas Will Pay. 1.00

02:10:05.000 Word. 1.00

02:10:06.000 They do pay for the bodies.

02:10:07.000 They do pay for the bodies.

02:10:10.000 Definitely.

02:10:12.000 The whole building thing.

02:10:16.000 I don't think they build in general.

02:10:19.000 I was explaining that.

02:10:21.000 Anyone else disagree with that?

02:10:23.000 It's fine.

02:10:24.000 In general, yes.

02:10:26.000 What?

02:10:27.000 No, she agrees.

02:10:28.000 I just agreed.

02:10:29.000 In general, yeah.

02:10:30.000 And the whole privilege thing, does anyone else have anything that where a man, I guess, has more privilege than a woman, or you guys think he does?

02:10:37.000 We all said women, except her. 1.00

02:10:40.000 Okay.

02:10:40.000 All right, well, we got some more chats, or you want to do the video?

02:10:42.000 Yeah, chats.

02:10:43.000 I just got one more question.

02:10:44.000 I got one more thing.

02:10:46.000 All of you guys agree that women have things easier than men?

02:10:50.000 Yes.

02:10:52.000 So it's easier to get ahead as a female in 2024? 1.00

02:10:55.000 Yes.

02:10:56.000 We run the world.

02:10:57.000 Eaters.

02:10:58.000 We run the world.

02:10:59.000 They're all here.

02:11:00.000 We're tapping everything.

02:11:01.000 Sports, music, movies.

02:11:03.000 We run the world.

02:11:04.000 Podcasts.

02:11:05.000 I'm talking about the WNBA right now.

02:11:07.000 We made a lot of noise this year, so don't hate on us.

02:11:10.000 Y'all really hate girls. 0.67

02:11:12.000 Let me go around the table and ask you a quick question. 0.50

02:11:14.000 You guys, you're a college graduate, so like...

02:11:27.000 It happens.

02:11:29.000 I mean, I would feel it's very unjust.

02:11:31.000 Okay.

02:11:31.000 What about you?

02:11:32.000 What do you think about that?

02:11:34.000 I agree.

02:11:35.000 I think I know what point you're trying to make, but I agree, yes.

02:11:39.000 What about you?

02:11:39.000 I agree, too.

02:11:40.000 Someone that didn't get their law degree trying to tell you what things are, how the world works?

02:11:44.000 I agree.

02:11:45.000 What about you?

02:11:45.000 What do you think?

02:11:46.000 I agree.

02:11:47.000 You agree with what, specifically?

02:11:48.000 I agree that no one can, like, I agree what you said.

02:11:52.000 Say the sentence again.

02:11:53.000 I can't repeat you, but I agree of your statement.

02:11:55.000 Repeat the...

02:11:56.000 I just asked the question, like, how would you feel if someone...

02:11:59.000 How would I feel if somebody came in that didn't have an agreement?

02:12:00.000 ...that was less competent than you and tried to tell you what to do or how to do things?

02:12:03.000 I would be upset.

02:12:04.000 Alright, what about you?

02:12:07.000 If somebody less with less experience try to tell you something in the same position that you have more experience than them.

02:12:12.000 Oh yeah, like I'm a makeup artist, so if someone who doesn't know how to do makeup came to me and tried to tell me how to do it.

02:12:19.000 Fair enough.

02:12:20.000 I would be like...

02:12:20.000 What about you?

02:12:21.000 Someone knows more about...

02:12:22.000 For sure.

02:12:23.000 They claim they know more about insurance.

02:12:24.000 For sure.

02:12:25.000 For sure.

02:12:25.000 Alright, what about you?

02:12:27.000 Okay.

02:12:28.000 So, I kind of find it interesting when women say that they have the same authority as a man.

02:12:32.000 It's a reciprocal, going back to what we said before.

02:12:34.000 Like, as a man, you have to do...

02:12:36.000 And you guys admitted that it's harder for men, and it's easier for women.

02:12:39.000 So, if it's easier for you guys, why should a man listen to you?

02:12:45.000 I feel that masculine energy and feminine energy differs because you lead with your heart or you lead with your head.

02:12:53.000 And both parties have to be able to rely to take the lead and be able to make that decision on following someone.

02:13:04.000 What's more important, making a decision by the heart or the head?

02:13:09.000 Who makes a more rationally and logically sound decision?

02:13:11.000 Someone that makes a decision with their heart or someone that makes a decision with their head?

02:13:15.000 I'm not gonna say one is better than the other and the reason for that is if you live life only leading with your head you will never truly be able to see what you truly enjoy in life and whenever you lead with your head it's more Yes,

02:13:33.000 it's important for survival skills.

02:13:35.000 Masculine energy is decisiveness, being sure and secure, providing, whereas feminine is more receptive and nurturing, compassionate, intuitive. 0.79

02:13:45.000 So I do feel that those are both equally important in my opinion.

02:13:48.000 Yeah, but who needs to be the leader knowing that the stark difference is between the two?

02:13:53.000 But there are exceptions.

02:13:55.000 Some women, like for example... 1.00

02:13:56.000 Yeah, but I'm asking her.

02:13:57.000 I do feel I agree with her as well because I... She didn't even finish her sentence.

02:14:03.000 What do you agree with?

02:14:04.000 The fact that she said that there are exceptions to the rule.

02:14:07.000 I feel that some women are more in their healthy masculine or wounded masculine energy. 0.99

02:14:13.000 But what's going to be more conducive to a successful long-term relationship?

02:14:18.000 The woman being in her healthy masculine energy as you're trying to claim or the man being in their masculine energy and being the leader?

02:14:23.000 I think all that matters is there is opposing energies.

02:14:27.000 Okay, so how can there be opposing energy if the man's masculine and she's masculine too?

02:14:31.000 That's why she wouldn't go for a masculine man.

02:14:34.000 Yeah, I would go to somewhere more on the feminine side for a guy. 0.95

02:14:38.000 That's not true at all.

02:14:38.000 Masculine women actually prefer hyper-masculine men.

02:14:41.000 That's not always true.

02:14:42.000 For me, I know I couldn't be with a really masculine guy.

02:14:46.000 She's hyper-masculine.

02:14:48.000 Hey, would you prefer a guy that's feminine or would you prefer a guy that's more masculine than yourself? 0.95

02:14:52.000 I don't like feminine guys. 1.00

02:14:54.000 I don't like hot guys.

02:14:55.000 There you go.

02:14:56.000 She accepts her masculinity. 1.00

02:14:57.000 Yeah, I like pretty boys.

02:14:59.000 My boyfriend is really pretty.

02:15:01.000 Who's the decision-maker in your relationship?

02:15:03.000 I definitely make more decisions.

02:15:05.000 Do you think your relationship is going to last?

02:15:06.000 Yes.

02:15:07.000 I promise you it won't if he keeps going that route.

02:15:09.000 It's lasting.

02:15:09.000 Has he ever cheated?

02:15:10.000 She's in college right now, so she doesn't have to deal with it.

02:15:13.000 He hasn't cheated one time.

02:15:14.000 He?

02:15:14.000 No.

02:15:15.000 Me?

02:15:15.000 Either.

02:15:16.000 Nobody has cheated.

02:15:17.000 Where's he right now?

02:15:18.000 He's in San Diego.

02:15:20.000 I know.

02:15:21.000 He's in school.

02:15:22.000 What's he doing right now?

02:15:24.000 I don't know.

02:15:24.000 He's probably in his apartment or with his friends.

02:15:27.000 Look, this is what's going to happen.

02:15:31.000 I'm going to give you a...

02:15:33.000 Don't put that in your head.

02:15:34.000 Don't even create those scenarios.

02:15:36.000 That's why girls become insecure. 1.00

02:15:38.000 This is what's going to happen.

02:15:39.000 I'm going to go ahead and predict what's going to happen.

02:15:42.000 You guys are going to get out of college and you guys are probably going to move in together or you guys are going to live separately.

02:15:46.000 If he doesn't assert masculine dominance over you to some degree where he becomes a leader and a provider and a protector, you're going to look otherwise for another man.

02:15:54.000 Because this only works when you're in college and you have the social confinement of protection, living in your dorm, having a job where it doesn't really matter how much money you make and you have the security of that.

02:16:02.000 But once you get out into the real world and you're no longer in college and that there's real consequence of not being financially adept, You're gonna go ahead and either, A, raise your masculinity and be unbearable to him, or B, he's gonna have to step up and become the leader.

02:16:14.000 So, yes, this is great.

02:16:15.000 I'm a college grad myself.

02:16:16.000 I get it.

02:16:17.000 It works when in college, like, you can both be broke and be like, yeah, we're so happy together. 0.98

02:16:20.000 But once you get out into the world, I promise you, if he does not step up and actually become a man and tell you what the fuck is going on, you're gonna leave him.

02:16:27.000 But I can provide for myself as well, and I can provide for him. 0.95

02:16:29.000 That's true.

02:16:30.000 That's true you can provide for yourself.

02:16:31.000 I agree with that.

02:16:32.000 However, you're not going to provide for him is my point.

02:16:34.000 Yep.

02:16:35.000 How do you know that?

02:16:36.000 Because I know female nature. 1.00

02:16:37.000 Women that provide for themselves. 0.99

02:16:39.000 Matter of fact, you said you make more than your guy, right?

02:16:40.000 Yeah, I do.

02:16:41.000 If he doesn't step up, you're going to leave him too.

02:16:43.000 No, I'm not.

02:16:44.000 Okay.

02:16:44.000 It's not about the money.

02:16:45.000 Oh, really?

02:16:46.000 No, it's about how somebody makes you feel.

02:16:48.000 It's not about the money.

02:16:49.000 That's the thing.

02:16:50.000 I'm making it about money.

02:16:51.000 It's about how somebody makes you feel intellectually, spiritually.

02:16:54.000 You never know what your person needs you for.

02:16:57.000 Sure.

02:16:57.000 You just said it, right?

02:16:58.000 How he makes you feel.

02:16:59.000 Yeah.

02:17:00.000 Guess what feelings are.

02:17:02.000 Okay, we get that part.

02:17:03.000 Not constant.

02:17:04.000 We get that part.

02:17:05.000 We get that part.

02:17:06.000 People change every day.

02:17:07.000 So granted, you probably won't stay then.

02:17:09.000 You don't know if I'm gonna stay.

02:17:10.000 That's not for y'all to decide.

02:17:12.000 That's for me to decide.

02:17:13.000 I'm staying.

02:17:14.000 I'm loyal.

02:17:14.000 He loyal.

02:17:15.000 I haven't had no issues.

02:17:16.000 See, I can't save you.

02:17:17.000 Who cheated on y'all? 1.00

02:17:20.000 First of all, you have problems, so you can't be talking, man.

02:17:23.000 I can talk to myself, man, because I left them.

02:17:25.000 If I was still with them, then I couldn't talk, but I was a woman of two weeks.

02:17:29.000 But you're saying for now, over people's situations, you guys don't know what people have going on.

02:17:32.000 You're living on it.

02:17:32.000 We thought the same thing.

02:17:34.000 You thought, you know what?

02:17:35.000 The feelings are there.

02:17:36.000 No, keep it up.

02:17:42.000 What did we say that makes us hate girls?

02:17:46.000 You've said this comment a few times.

02:17:48.000 I'm just a little confused.

02:17:48.000 I mean, she's watched clips.

02:17:50.000 What have we said that makes us hate girls?

02:17:51.000 Who said I watched the clips?

02:17:53.000 You just said that.

02:17:53.000 No, I just wanted to know.

02:17:55.000 I wanted to put the voice in.

02:17:56.000 I know, I did say that.

02:17:57.000 What makes us hate girls?

02:17:58.000 Can you give us one comment that makes us hate girls?

02:18:00.000 No, I don't want to.

02:18:03.000 So you can't even substantiate your stance?

02:18:05.000 I don't want to do it.

02:18:06.000 Substantiate.

02:18:06.000 So you can't...

02:18:07.000 No.

02:18:09.000 You made an assertion, so I'm asking you, okay, can you substantiate that assertion through facts?

02:18:18.000 Yeah, when I get home and talk to my girls about it.

02:18:21.000 I'm like, y'all remember when they said this?

02:18:23.000 Alright, so what you said is false then.

02:18:25.000 Yeah.

02:18:25.000 So we hate girls and you can't even prove it.

02:18:27.000 She is not single.

02:18:28.000 I'm not single.

02:18:28.000 Y'all ain't married though.

02:18:29.000 Okay, soon come.

02:18:30.000 Alright?

02:18:31.000 Uh-huh.

02:18:32.000 Alright?

02:18:35.000 There's an issue here, right?

02:18:39.000 You remember Noah's Ark in the Bible?

02:18:41.000 The story about Noah, right?

02:18:42.000 About the flood?

02:18:44.000 We're telling you, as messengers, I want to say, prophets of the truth.

02:18:48.000 We're telling you what's coming, which is the rain, but you're saying to yourself, you know what?

02:18:52.000 I got this.

02:18:53.000 I'm in charge.

02:18:54.000 There's no rain coming. 1.00

02:18:55.000 Then when it rains, you're like, damn. 0.99

02:18:57.000 They warned me about the rain, but I was too arrogant and insecure to understand what's happening. 0.99

02:19:04.000 I just want to know, are you married?

02:19:13.000 I was married.

02:19:14.000 Okay, why'd you get divorced? 0.99

02:19:17.000 I don't want to be there.

02:19:19.000 I know, but why?

02:19:20.000 I didn't want to be there anymore.

02:19:21.000 I know, but what was the reason?

02:19:22.000 I just felt like I made a choice where I was following more so religion and it wasn't...

02:19:28.000 Marriage isn't the man's mission though.

02:19:29.000 Wait, I wanted to hear what he said.

02:19:30.000 I wanted to hear what he wanted to say.

02:19:32.000 So I made a choice off of being...

02:19:33.000 So why did you marry her the first time?

02:19:35.000 Religion.

02:19:36.000 So you marry her solely off of this is what I have to do?

02:19:39.000 Yeah.

02:19:39.000 And then why'd you divorce her?

02:19:41.000 Because I didn't want to be there anymore.

02:19:42.000 I would never take advice from you.

02:19:43.000 I need more...

02:19:44.000 Would you ever get married?

02:19:44.000 Hold on, hold on.

02:19:45.000 Are you married?

02:19:46.000 I'm divorced.

02:19:47.000 Exactly.

02:19:48.000 Yes, because I left.

02:19:49.000 He didn't have ambition.

02:19:51.000 Oh, so you're better than me to talk about this?

02:19:52.000 No, you're not.

02:19:53.000 No, that's why I don't give relationship advice.

02:19:55.000 That's why I don't do that.

02:19:56.000 Ladies, hold on one second, because you're trying to disqualify the whole Reign analogy. 1.00

02:20:02.000 Okay, you do understand that men are the ones that give out the relationships, right?

02:20:07.000 That give out?

02:20:08.000 We give out the relationships.

02:20:10.000 In order for you to get married, which is what I think most women typically want, is to be in a secure, long-term relationship, which, you know, pretty much ends up in marriage. 1.00

02:20:19.000 A man has to get down on one knee and give you the relationship. 1.00

02:20:22.000 That is true.

02:20:22.000 Okay.

02:20:23.000 So, since we control relationships, we're telling you guys what men look for for you to get wiped up.

02:20:29.000 So, to tell a man...

02:20:31.000 Are you divorced or are you in a relationship is a faulty premise because we are the ones that give out relationships. 1.00

02:20:37.000 That's like me saying, do you fuck people? 1.00

02:20:39.000 You'd be like, the fuck? 1.00

02:20:40.000 You weirdo? 1.00

02:20:41.000 Why are you asking that? 0.96

02:20:42.000 We're humans.

02:20:43.000 No, you're a girl. 0.77

02:20:44.000 I'm giving an analogy.

02:20:45.000 We're all humans.

02:20:46.000 I'm a girl, you're a boy.

02:20:47.000 No. 1.00

02:20:48.000 Holy shit. 0.99

02:20:49.000 I'm giving an... 0.99

02:20:50.000 You're tracking, right?

02:20:52.000 What I'm trying to do here?

02:20:53.000 I'm giving an analogy.

02:20:54.000 Men give out the relationships. 0.88

02:20:55.000 Women give out the sex. 1.00

02:20:57.000 Correct?

02:20:57.000 Can we agree on that?

02:21:00.000 It's more than just that.

02:21:02.000 Is that all you guys think that girls have to offer?

02:21:04.000 Yes.

02:21:05.000 Okay.

02:21:06.000 The main commodity.

02:21:07.000 What is the main commodity that women offer men? 1.00

02:21:11.000 I mean, we cook.

02:21:13.000 I don't.

02:21:14.000 I said main commodity.

02:21:16.000 Main commodity.

02:21:16.000 Some women can also, like, help a man get, you know, like...

02:21:20.000 Let me make this simple. 0.99

02:21:21.000 The main commodity women provide is sex. 1.00

02:21:23.000 The main commodity men provide is resources and security. 1.00

02:21:26.000 Okay?

02:21:27.000 That's what it is.

02:21:28.000 Back in the day.

02:21:29.000 That's what it still is today.

02:21:30.000 It boils down to those two things.

02:21:31.000 Okay.

02:21:32.000 Okay?

02:21:32.000 Because you want a marriage, right?

02:21:34.000 Everybody would want marriage.

02:21:35.000 Okay, well, marriage is a traditional thing.

02:21:37.000 Back in the day.

02:21:38.000 Okay.

02:21:38.000 So, for a marriage...

02:21:40.000 Sorry. 0.93

02:21:41.000 So, the man wants sex, woman wants a relationship. 1.00

02:21:45.000 So, we're the ones that give out the relationship.

02:21:47.000 So, for her to say, are you divorced?

02:21:50.000 You can't really use that as a sting to us.

02:21:53.000 If you guys aren't married, that's your L. We're the ones that give out the marriages. 1.00

02:21:57.000 Like if I was to say, oh, you're a loser because you're a virgin. 1.00

02:22:01.000 That'd be stupid for me to say that. 1.00

02:22:03.000 You want to know why? 1.00

02:22:04.000 Because you can go get sex anytime you want.

02:22:06.000 So you think when a relationship ends in a marriage, you think that was his wife's fault he chose to leave because he chose the relationship so he also was able to choose to leave? 0.90

02:22:14.000 She failed, yeah, because a woman that isn't married is like the same as a guy that's like a virgin. 1.00

02:22:18.000 They're all losers. 0.98

02:22:19.000 I'm so sorry for all the girls y'all dealt with, because no wonder the guys, I get these guys hell, because I never had that issue. 0.98

02:22:23.000 Okay. 0.99

02:22:24.000 Women are selective with who they fuck, and they can pick who they fuck. 1.00

02:22:27.000 We pick who we marry. 1.00

02:22:28.000 I never had that issue.

02:22:29.000 We pick who we marry.

02:22:31.000 By choice.

02:22:32.000 Okay.

02:22:32.000 Impossible.

02:22:33.000 But no, it never could be impossible.

02:22:35.000 Yes, because... 0.99

02:22:35.000 What the fuck? 0.99

02:22:36.000 Yes, yes, it is. 1.00

02:22:38.000 You're single, because no one likes you.

02:22:40.000 I would never date you.

02:22:41.000 I could never even listen to you talk.

02:22:42.000 Add hominist to text.

02:22:43.000 Relax.

02:22:45.000 I have to.

02:22:46.000 Men dictate who gets married. 1.00

02:22:48.000 Women dictate who fucks. 1.00

02:22:49.000 A woman that's a virgin has kept her value and guys want her. 1.00

02:22:53.000 A guy that isn't married and has status, he has value.

02:22:56.000 Women want to get married to him. 1.00

02:22:58.000 I was a man in my other life, I'm sure.

02:23:00.000 We have different things that we bring to the table.

02:23:02.000 Like, you guys want to get married and get in a relationship. 0.99

02:23:05.000 We want to get sex. 0.97

02:23:07.000 I don't want to be married. 0.85

02:23:09.000 Are you saying that that's all men want, though?

02:23:11.000 I don't.

02:23:12.000 That's the main commodity that women bring to the table. 1.00

02:23:14.000 And here's the other thing, too, I find funny when girls say I'm single by choice.

02:23:18.000 That's a lie. 0.98

02:23:19.000 That's like me saying, oh, I'm watching porn all the time in my basement, but I don't have sex with girls out of choice. 1.00

02:23:26.000 No, I can't get laid because my sexual market value isn't high enough and women don't want to fuck me. 1.00

02:23:31.000 I'm an incel, okay? 0.99

02:23:33.000 That is the same as a woman that can't find a husband. 1.00

02:23:35.000 You are a wife cell. 1.00

02:23:39.000 But here's the thing though.

02:23:40.000 Women don't like to take L's and you guys don't want to hear the truth. 0.97

02:23:43.000 If you can't get married as a female, you failed! 1.00

02:23:47.000 You fucking failed. 1.00

02:23:49.000 But we don't tell women the truth, man. 1.00

02:23:50.000 Like, you guys are always winners and princesses and tens. 1.00

02:23:52.000 It's bullshit. 0.99

02:23:54.000 There's a metric of failure for men and there's a metric of failure for women. 1.00

02:23:57.000 The metric of failure for men is I can't get laid. 1.00

02:23:59.000 I am a fucking loser. 1.00

02:24:01.000 I'm an incel. 1.00

02:24:01.000 A woman that can't get married is a wife's cell. 1.00

02:24:04.000 You can't get fucking married. 1.00

02:24:05.000 And I would argue it's even more embarrassing because you guys get thousands of opportunities and you still can't get married. 1.00

02:24:10.000 So that's even more embarrassing. 0.99

02:24:11.000 Damn. 0.99

02:24:12.000 Anyway, mic drop. 1.00

02:24:13.000 Thank God I was married.

02:24:15.000 And you ain't married anymore, it ain't count, but I can still get a ring.

02:24:23.000 And she can get a ring, and she can get a ring, and she can get a ring, and she can get a ring, and she can get a ring. 0.91

02:24:25.000 She can get a ring. 0.99

02:24:26.000 I got time today.

02:24:28.000 Can you keep the ring, though?

02:24:29.000 I can keep my ring.

02:24:31.000 I took the ring off.

02:24:32.000 Look, getting a ring, you gotta get a ring from a man that you actually respect and admire.

02:24:36.000 Why would I like him?

02:24:38.000 I did.

02:24:39.000 Okay, let's use your logic.

02:24:41.000 You can get a ring anywhere.

02:24:42.000 Let's use your logic.

02:24:43.000 Let's say I walked around and I said...

02:24:44.000 The last guy just tried to get me a ring too, didn't want it.

02:24:46.000 I'm gonna use your logic.

02:24:47.000 The guy before him tried to get me a ring, didn't want it.

02:24:49.000 Okay, you can get a ring.

02:24:50.000 Cool. 1.00

02:24:50.000 What if I told you, I fuck hella bitch, I'm very attractive, and I whack off to porn, and I whack off to a new bitch every day. 1.00

02:25:00.000 What would you say to that? 1.00

02:25:02.000 That's kind of like cringy.

02:25:03.000 I don't know if I like that.

02:25:05.000 Why is it cringy?

02:25:06.000 Probably true. 1.00

02:25:07.000 Like, you said you jack off to porn? 1.00

02:25:09.000 Yeah, it's a nude bitch every day. 1.00

02:25:11.000 I don't like that. 1.00

02:25:12.000 Blondes, midgets. 1.00

02:25:13.000 You don't like it, right? 0.98

02:25:15.000 Can you tell me why, bud?

02:25:18.000 Why you feel...

02:25:20.000 I don't feel... 0.72

02:25:21.000 I don't know how anyone else has felt, but to me, I just don't like a man that's into porn. 0.79

02:25:26.000 Okay.

02:25:26.000 I just don't like it.

02:25:27.000 Okay, would it be fair to say that it takes no skill?

02:25:29.000 For porn? 0.68

02:25:30.000 Yeah, for me to whack off to porn, it takes no skill. 0.98

02:25:31.000 I can just whack off to it.

02:25:33.000 I mean, I guess I don't know, you know, how guys, I don't know what turns you, you know, as far as porn, I don't know what you get from me.

02:25:38.000 The reason why you don't like it and you don't respect is because the man doesn't take any skill or work to whack off the porn, right?

02:25:43.000 No, it just, it just...

02:25:44.000 Ow! 1.00

02:25:45.000 No way!

02:25:46.000 No way!

02:25:47.000 Stop the show.

02:25:48.000 We're done.

02:25:49.000 What's going on?

02:25:50.000 He put lotion in his hand.

02:25:51.000 Just Chris.

02:25:53.000 What happened?

02:25:54.000 Cut it. 0.63

02:25:55.000 That's so deep.

02:25:57.000 I don't know about the... 0.99

02:25:59.000 Damn, that kind of threw me off. 1.00

02:26:02.000 The topic was men whacking off to porn. 1.00

02:26:05.000 You don't respect it, right? 0.99

02:26:06.000 No, I don't respect that part.

02:26:08.000 You do understand by you saying, I can get any other guy I want. 1.00

02:26:11.000 That's like a dude whacking off to porn. 0.99

02:26:12.000 Takes no skill. 0.99

02:26:14.000 The skill is getting the man that you actually want.

02:26:16.000 I've got men that I want and I don't like them after a while.

02:26:18.000 Whose fault is that?

02:26:20.000 It's probably theirs. 0.93

02:26:20.000 Why y'all act like that? 0.93

02:26:21.000 Then they're not the guy!

02:26:22.000 That's my point!

02:26:23.000 Probably after a while I get bored fast. 0.99

02:26:24.000 I wanted that bitch too and then I went up and I'm bored now. 1.00

02:26:27.000 I don't like commitment. 0.99

02:26:28.000 I have commitment issues.

02:26:30.000 I just have commitment issues.

02:26:32.000 It's me.

02:26:33.000 It's definitely me.

02:26:35.000 I come to realization issues.

02:26:36.000 No, they love me and then I leave them and then they get hurt.

02:26:39.000 That's why my name is the addiction. 1.00

02:26:40.000 They fuck you and then they leave you. 1.00

02:26:41.000 I've never. 1.00

02:26:41.000 No, no, [... 1.00

02:26:43.000 They love you?

02:26:44.000 No, they love me.

02:26:45.000 They all got my name tatted.

02:26:47.000 I'm all over on their social medias.

02:26:49.000 Their mommies love me because I don't want them.

02:26:51.000 I have commitment issues.

02:26:52.000 It's me.

02:26:53.000 It's never y'all.

02:26:54.000 I'm the problem.

02:26:55.000 I ain't talking your name, baby.

02:26:57.000 I'm a problem.

02:26:57.000 They get obsessed.

02:26:58.000 You missed the entire point of what I was trying to illustrate is that you cannot brag about men wanting to propose to you or be with you if they're not the men that you actually want. 0.99

02:27:06.000 Just like I can't brag about saying I get bitches when I'm whacking off to new girls every day on porn. 1.00

02:27:10.000 It doesn't take skill. 1.00

02:27:11.000 You don't get bitches because if you was getting bitches you would be fucking a bitch every night. 1.00

02:27:14.000 Thank you very much. 1.00

02:27:14.000 That's my point. 1.00

02:27:15.000 That's precisely my point. 0.94

02:27:16.000 It doesn't take skill for a woman to attract a man, and it doesn't take skill for me to whack off to porn. 0.98

02:27:21.000 That's true.

02:27:22.000 That's my analogy.

02:27:22.000 That's true.

02:27:23.000 I'm using an analogy to show how your argument is futile.

02:27:26.000 It doesn't make sense.

02:27:27.000 Yeah.

02:27:28.000 Futile.

02:27:29.000 Fatality.

02:27:30.000 In your mind.

02:27:31.000 In my mind it does.

02:27:32.000 Fatality.

02:27:33.000 We got a lawyer in the house.

02:27:35.000 I mean, does this make sense to you?

02:27:36.000 I'm giving a functional equivalent.

02:27:38.000 I know you understand logic because you have to do it on the bar.

02:27:40.000 I'm giving a functional equivalent to show that your argument makes zero sense because you try to sit there and say, well, you're not married.

02:27:46.000 You're divorced.

02:27:47.000 That's a false equivalent.

02:27:48.000 It's not the same.

02:27:49.000 I didn't say that.

02:27:49.000 I wanted to know if he was because I wanted to see his point of view.

02:27:51.000 It doesn't matter, though.

02:27:52.000 That's irrelevant.

02:27:53.000 I don't take advice from people who don't master.

02:27:55.000 Like, you didn't successfully have a good marriage.

02:27:57.000 I wouldn't give a person...

02:27:58.000 I don't want to be married, though.

02:27:59.000 I wouldn't give anyone marriage advice because I didn't successfully complete that.

02:28:02.000 So I don't sit...

02:28:03.000 I didn't give marriage advice, though.

02:28:03.000 But you talk about relationships.

02:28:05.000 I'm telling you that.

02:28:06.000 He gave you examples of...

02:28:08.000 That was...

02:28:08.000 I'm talking about earlier's conversation.

02:28:10.000 Y'all talking about now.

02:28:11.000 But I'm saying right now.

02:28:11.000 I don't talk about it.

02:28:12.000 Because...

02:28:12.000 You...

02:28:14.000 Said earlier that me being divorced is a cause to not listen.

02:28:19.000 But if you knew how men work, how society is now, being married as a man is an L. So that's why I don't want to be married right now. 0.99

02:28:27.000 It's a huge L. I could lose half my wealth.

02:28:29.000 I could be...

02:28:30.000 They're missing the point that we're the ones that give out the relationship.

02:28:33.000 So to shame a man for saying you're not married is like saying, hey, you're a virgin, woman.

02:28:38.000 When in reality, that woman has high value because she's a virgin. 1.00

02:28:41.000 Because she picks who fucks. 1.00

02:28:43.000 We pick who gets married. 1.00

02:28:44.000 How do you guys not understand this shit? 1.00

02:28:46.000 Like, you're either low IQ... Okay, then what are you arguing? 1.00

02:28:49.000 What are you arguing?

02:28:51.000 You cannot sit there and say, you're not married to a man when we're the ones that give out the marriages. 1.00

02:28:56.000 That's like me saying, you don't fuck! 1.00

02:28:58.000 Yeah, and I'm not a whore. 1.00

02:29:00.000 Stupid. 1.00

02:29:00.000 Yeah. 1.00

02:29:01.000 That was kind of dumb. 0.99

02:29:01.000 And we're not simps. 0.99

02:29:02.000 Stupid. 1.00

02:29:03.000 We marry the girl that we want. 1.00

02:29:04.000 Stupid. 1.00

02:29:05.000 This is crazy to me. 1.00

02:29:06.000 Like, it's common. 1.00

02:29:07.000 Stupid. 1.00

02:29:07.000 This is what I mean. 1.00

02:29:08.000 Logic, facts, giving you an analogy, functional equivalent.

02:29:12.000 Oh, I don't agree with that.

02:29:13.000 And I still disagree.

02:29:14.000 All right, man.

02:29:15.000 You just don't agree with reality.

02:29:16.000 Yeah, that's fine.

02:29:17.000 That's fine.

02:29:18.000 We ain't gonna...

02:29:19.000 Yeah, it's fine.

02:29:21.000 What do we got here?

02:29:22.000 You want to play the video?

02:29:23.000 No, no, no, no.

02:29:23.000 We'll do the chats for now.

02:29:24.000 Okay, the chick in the middle has two brain cells. 1.00

02:29:27.000 Yeah, sound about right.

02:29:28.000 And they both competing for third place.

02:29:30.000 Based on her arguments, you can tell she's sharp as a marble.

02:29:34.000 Sound about right.

02:29:34.000 As intelligent as some of these girls believe they are, somehow they still can't connect the dots as to why they get put in the sex-only category.

02:29:40.000 I've never been in the sex-only category.

02:29:42.000 I've always been wiped up.

02:29:43.000 I don't know.

02:29:44.000 That's what I told you.

02:29:45.000 I guess. 1.00

02:29:46.000 Debbie Meyer for ratio in that trap thought on X. Yeah, she's a whore. 1.00

02:29:49.000 Bro, this shit is crazy. 1.00

02:29:50.000 These women know that there are two multi-millionaire table at the men, bro? 1.00

02:29:53.000 What the fuck? 0.99

02:30:03.000 I just wanna see what y'all is, and that's me by myself. 0.99

02:30:07.000 That's me by myself, and that's on paper.

02:30:09.000 I just wanna see what y'all's are. 0.89

02:30:10.000 I mean shit, and I don't have debt in my credit goods, so I just wanna see what y'all's are. 0.96

02:30:15.000 So I come to the table with no baggage. 0.99

02:30:18.000 I have a lot of debt.

02:30:20.000 Like I literally don't.

02:30:21.000 I have so much debt, you and I believe.

02:30:23.000 You're in real estate.

02:30:41.000 How'd you know that?

02:30:42.000 Alright, what's up next?

02:30:45.000 CO Network, shout out to you, Grizzman.

02:30:48.000 What else do we got here?

02:30:48.000 I'm eating chicken right now, and you can't have none.

02:30:52.000 Why do women believe Harris will protect the right to choose when she doesn't have children of her own? 1.00

02:30:58.000 That is a good question.

02:31:00.000 Let me ask, actually.

02:31:01.000 Alright, who's voting for Kamala Harris? 0.99

02:31:02.000 Raise of hands.

02:31:04.000 She don't want to raise her hand.

02:31:06.000 I can't even vote.

02:31:08.000 For the American citizens here, who's going to vote for Kamala Harris? 0.99

02:31:12.000 Or who's going to vote for Trump?

02:31:14.000 I don't want to vote for anybody.

02:31:18.000 If I'm being honest, I am leaning more towards voting for Trump, and I think it's just less propaganda with Trump.

02:31:33.000 Okay.

02:31:34.000 I think I can't vote, but if I could, I would probably also vote for Trump because he's being upfront on what he's gonna do and also- A leader.

02:31:41.000 I believe he's gonna bring- You see what happened?

02:31:43.000 I don't know if you noticed that it's able.

02:31:44.000 What?

02:31:44.000 They are reluctant to answer the question until the first girl spoke up.

02:31:47.000 Listen, Trump is a businessman.

02:31:50.000 You see that?

02:31:50.000 Yeah.

02:31:50.000 Chat, y'all saw that?

02:31:51.000 Trump is a businessman.

02:31:52.000 Look, politics- No, no, it's fine.

02:31:53.000 We're just noticing how you guys like- Politics is a little- What?

02:31:59.000 Really deep.

02:32:00.000 I mean, who's gonna attack you?

02:32:01.000 No one.

02:32:04.000 Alright, so you said, what about you?

02:32:05.000 You said you're leaning towards Trump too.

02:32:06.000 What about you?

02:32:07.000 Trump, I mean, I really, I didn't raise my hand because I prefer not to vote really, but Trump is a businessman.

02:32:12.000 Okay.

02:32:12.000 What about you?

02:32:13.000 So I'd vote for Trump.

02:32:14.000 You're not voting at all?

02:32:15.000 I don't have a comment about that.

02:32:16.000 Alright.

02:32:18.000 I would just pick...

02:32:19.000 What about you?

02:32:20.000 I don't speak about politics.

02:32:22.000 I'm not going to get into that.

02:32:24.000 Exactly.

02:32:24.000 I don't speak about politics at all.

02:32:26.000 I'm just curious why.

02:32:26.000 I'm not going to get into that.

02:32:28.000 Because...

02:32:28.000 No, if you don't get into it.

02:32:31.000 So many layers.

02:32:32.000 People always end up upset for some reason.

02:32:35.000 We're just asking.

02:32:37.000 That's it.

02:32:38.000 We're not going to actually...

02:32:39.000 This isn't a political podcast.

02:32:40.000 You can just say you're leaning towards Kamala or Trump.

02:32:42.000 I'm leaning towards Trump.

02:32:44.000 Me too.

02:32:45.000 What?

02:32:46.000 Okay.

02:32:47.000 He still made you say it.

02:32:49.000 That's fine.

02:32:50.000 Why were you scared to disclose that, just out of curiosity?

02:32:52.000 No, not to disclose it, just not to get into it.

02:32:54.000 Exactly.

02:32:54.000 I can disclose it, that's fine.

02:32:55.000 Why were you worried about, like...

02:32:57.000 I'm not worried, I just don't like to get into politics.

02:33:01.000 I can disclose that, I mean, I did.

02:33:04.000 You know what's interesting?

02:33:05.000 That I've noticed?

02:33:07.000 Women that are Trump supporters never want to say that they're Trump supporters, or are leaning towards him.

02:33:10.000 I wonder why.

02:33:12.000 Because it's a tight...

02:33:14.000 Wrong.

02:33:14.000 It's a tight thing with that.

02:33:15.000 You do realize you proved my argument that I said way earlier in the show, right?

02:33:19.000 What?

02:33:19.000 You remember?

02:33:20.000 What was it?

02:33:20.000 You are fake news.

02:33:23.000 Who's fake news?

02:33:25.000 Nobody.

02:33:26.000 I made the argument earlier saying that women are communitarian and they're far more likely to go with what other people say and they don't lead revolutions for a reason. 1.00

02:33:35.000 Oh yeah, females. 1.00

02:33:36.000 Yes, and they're followers more than leaders.

02:33:38.000 It depends, again, on that.

02:33:41.000 In a majority of situations since human history women have typically been in follower subordinate positions because of this very thing. 1.00

02:33:49.000 Men follow too.

02:33:51.000 If he's big bro, you're gonna follow big bro.

02:33:53.000 Pop it.

02:33:54.000 Yeah, but men don't follow for the same reasons women follow. 1.00

02:33:56.000 I guess so.

02:33:57.000 Depends.

02:34:00.000 You don't really make any arguments.

02:34:01.000 Did you notice that?

02:34:02.000 I don't want to make an argument with y'all.

02:34:03.000 That's not what I'm making.

02:34:04.000 You respond and you deflect and give a wishy-washy...

02:34:06.000 I didn't deflect, though.

02:34:08.000 You are, because you're like, oh, it depends.

02:34:09.000 It does.

02:34:10.000 On what?

02:34:11.000 It depends on what?

02:34:12.000 It depends on...

02:34:13.000 It's a deflectory comment towards something that is generally true.

02:34:17.000 And then you try to minimize it by saying, well, it depends.

02:34:20.000 It does.

02:34:21.000 It does depend.

02:34:21.000 We live in a day and age where it depends.

02:34:24.000 Times are changing.

02:34:25.000 I promise you, sisters, for real.

02:34:27.000 I see it.

02:34:28.000 No, I mean, she's made a bunch of contradictory statements and stuff like that. 0.98

02:34:31.000 They both deflect.

02:34:31.000 Like, I'm a leader.

02:34:32.000 Okay, cool.

02:34:34.000 It says so in the Bible.

02:34:36.000 It depends.

02:34:37.000 That's not what I said.

02:34:38.000 That's not what the Bible says.

02:34:39.000 No, no, no.

02:34:39.000 That's not what I said.

02:34:40.000 You said, I could be a boss, too.

02:34:42.000 And I can't.

02:34:43.000 We're both leaders.

02:34:43.000 And then I was like, okay, well, one has to be a leader.

02:34:46.000 And you're like, well, I don't know.

02:34:48.000 It does say in the Bible that men are supposed to lead.

02:34:50.000 It does say that.

02:34:52.000 Does it not?

02:34:52.000 So then how can you both be leaders then?

02:34:54.000 I never said that we could both be leaders.

02:34:57.000 You literally said, verbatim, it's 50-50 equal, yes. 0.99

02:35:01.000 Okay, so sometimes a man can lead and sometimes a female can lead because a man can't lead in every single aspect of his fucking life. 1.00

02:35:06.000 Like what? 0.99

02:35:07.000 A female has to fit in somewhere. 1.00

02:35:09.000 You do understand, by saying it's 50-50, that means there's no leader.

02:35:12.000 Okay.

02:35:13.000 Wait, what can't a man lead in?

02:35:15.000 Um, shoot.

02:35:17.000 Some men don't be spiritually, like, together.

02:35:20.000 Like, some people don't be spiritually together.

02:35:22.000 Like, sometimes men need prayer.

02:35:25.000 We don't need to check off.

02:35:26.000 Like, for real, for real.

02:35:28.000 Some dudes really don't be spiritually women. 1.00

02:35:32.000 Yeah, spiritually, like, females do for men. 1.00

02:35:48.000 Men are better than women at almost every single human endeavor that actually matters. 1.00

02:35:59.000 Because you said so?

02:36:00.000 That's a fact.

02:36:01.000 Name one thing that women are better than men at. 1.00

02:36:03.000 I said human endeavors that actually matter.

02:36:06.000 Actually, the best chefs are men.

02:36:08.000 The best chefs in the world are men.

02:36:13.000 I'll say it one more time.

02:36:16.000 Men are better than women at almost every single human endeavor that matters. 1.00

02:36:20.000 There you go.

02:36:23.000 Look, it's the truth, man.

02:36:25.000 Like, are there some women that are exceptional? 0.97

02:36:27.000 Why don't y'all just have an all-man podcast where y'all just sit and talk about women instead of having us on here and to tell us to our face that men are better than everything?

02:36:39.000 Can you refute what I said?

02:36:41.000 Nope.

02:36:41.000 Use it.

02:36:42.000 Probably not.

02:36:43.000 Okay, that's why I bring y'all out, to show how much better we are than y'all.

02:36:46.000 Alright, let's keep on.

02:36:48.000 Alright, first of all, it's $10, yep.

02:36:50.000 Because we need to see it with their own eyes sometimes.

02:36:52.000 Yep.

02:36:52.000 Why do women believe Harris will protect the right...

02:36:54.000 Oh, no, we got that one already.

02:36:55.000 Yep.

02:36:55.000 Most of the girls here actually support Trump, it sounds like.

02:36:58.000 Found this on Instagram, AI No Joke.

02:37:00.000 Okay.

02:37:02.000 Ladies, do you think Lizzo is hot or not?

02:37:06.000 I feel like Lizzo is forced on us.

02:37:08.000 Lizzo is forced on us.

02:37:10.000 Not gonna lie.

02:37:11.000 That was the question.

02:37:11.000 Do you think she's hot or not?

02:37:13.000 No.

02:37:14.000 She's forced on us.

02:37:15.000 Alright, who thinks she's hot? 1.00

02:37:17.000 Nobody?

02:37:18.000 I don't even know how she looks.

02:37:18.000 Okay.

02:37:19.000 I don't even know how she looks.

02:37:21.000 If you think Lizzo is hot, would you be...

02:37:23.000 Oh, no, we already got it.

02:37:24.000 W. Chris.

02:37:25.000 Alright. 1.00

02:37:26.000 What the fuck? 1.00

02:37:27.000 Okay, Big Mo, sing your theme song. 1.00

02:37:29.000 Say this name and he appears.

02:37:30.000 I believe in Mo Hendry.

02:37:31.000 Clap, clap.

02:37:31.000 I believe in Mo Hendry.

02:37:33.000 Alright, move on, man.

02:37:36.000 Yeah, move on, man.

02:37:37.000 Alright, man, let's go.

02:37:38.000 That wasn't gay at all. 1.00

02:37:39.000 What the fuck was that? 0.99

02:37:39.000 I don't know. 0.99

02:37:40.000 The cards see three castles in the near future.

02:37:43.000 Okay.

02:37:45.000 WFNF, WBills, WMO, WChris. 1.00

02:37:47.000 Fuck these hoes. 1.00

02:37:49.000 Oh, is that what it says? 1.00

02:37:49.000 Yeah, probably. 1.00

02:37:51.000 What else?

02:37:52.000 Oh, okay.

02:37:53.000 Forget to send this last week when it was National Dog Day.

02:37:56.000 WFNF, Dogs, Leah, and Hero.

02:37:57.000 Is that real pictures with y'all, with y'all dogs?

02:37:59.000 Yeah.

02:38:00.000 I can't stand both of y'all.

02:38:10.000 I don't even know what that means.

02:38:15.000 I think we've been fairly respectful given the rhetoric that's been said on the podcast.

02:38:19.000 I think we've been extremely patient and respectful.

02:38:22.000 Again, I think y'all should have a whole table of dicks up here. 1.00

02:38:25.000 I mean, we've had dicks. 0.99

02:38:27.000 You've had quite a few dicks. 0.99

02:38:28.000 I just feel like you guys should have a whole table of dicks up here. 0.99

02:38:31.000 What makes you say that? 0.99

02:38:32.000 I just feel like you guys should have a whole table of dicks up here. 0.96

02:38:35.000 What makes you say that, though? 0.99

02:38:36.000 I feel like y'all should have a whole table of dicks up here. 0.98

02:38:39.000 What makes you feel that way? 0.99

02:38:41.000 I'm asking, what makes you feel that way that we should have a table of dicks here? 1.00

02:38:45.000 Because all y'all do is bash girls. 0.99

02:38:47.000 Did we actually bash women, though?

02:38:49.000 Pretty much.

02:38:50.000 What did I say that was bashing, specifically?

02:38:52.000 Don't worry about it.

02:38:54.000 Interesting.

02:38:55.000 You make an assertion.

02:38:56.000 Interesting.

02:38:57.000 I ask you to go ahead and explain said assertion.

02:38:59.000 But you can't.

02:39:00.000 And you can't.

02:39:01.000 So are we actually bashing women?

02:39:02.000 I just don't feel like it.

02:39:03.000 Then tell us how we bashing women. 0.99

02:39:04.000 I don't feel like it.

02:39:05.000 Feel?

02:39:06.000 I don't feel like it.

02:39:07.000 Okay, so you can't prove your point.

02:39:10.000 Maybe.

02:39:10.000 No, it's fine, bro.

02:39:11.000 All right.

02:39:12.000 Because the thing is, if I make a claim, I'm able to explain precisely why I made that claim.

02:39:17.000 And I am, if I feel like it.

02:39:18.000 For you.

02:39:19.000 You actually can't.

02:39:20.000 I guess.

02:39:21.000 Because I'm asking you to, and you can't do it.

02:39:22.000 I can't.

02:39:23.000 Fantastic.

02:39:24.000 That was my point.

02:39:24.000 Hey, for you.

02:39:25.000 I like proving your point.

02:39:26.000 You have been the whole show.

02:39:27.000 Thank you.

02:39:28.000 Shout out to Lingling and Exumiron from Arlington, Texas, WCast Club.

02:39:31.000 Are you from Arlington?

02:39:33.000 No, I'm from Dallas.

02:39:34.000 Oh, sorry.

02:39:35.000 You got it wrong, buddy.

02:39:36.000 Alright.

02:39:37.000 Oh, no, I think he said he's from Arlington.

02:39:39.000 Arlington is like...

02:39:40.000 Yeah, it's right next door.

02:39:41.000 Right there, yeah.

02:39:43.000 Yeah, what else we got here?

02:39:45.000 No, bro, it's not like last time.

02:39:47.000 I swear she's changed.

02:39:48.000 She promised me it'll be different.

02:39:50.000 And then I think we might actually have a future together. 1.00

02:39:52.000 Yeah, that's a clown shit. 1.00

02:39:54.000 What else? 1.00

02:39:56.000 Alright, let's go to the video.

02:40:00.000 Like, we have no time.

02:40:02.000 Men talk, too.

02:40:03.000 What do you mean?

02:40:04.000 It's 1.30. 1.00

02:40:05.000 Chris, go to the fucking video. 0.99

02:40:06.000 Alright, go ahead. 1.00

02:40:07.000 Go to the fucking video, man. 1.00

02:40:08.000 Alright, do it, man. 1.00

02:40:11.000 Can you explain the background on this video?

02:40:14.000 So, basically, toxic men are all over the place, according to women, and they love getting you pregnant. 1.00

02:40:20.000 So, this is the video.

02:40:21.000 Yeah, let's enlarge the video here.

02:40:25.000 When a man says he wants to get you pregnant and he doesn't respect you, you guys aren't happily married, you should view that as a threat.

02:40:35.000 Toxic men love, love, love, love, love to get you pregnant. 0.97

02:40:42.000 And they love to make you have multiple babies. 0.97

02:40:47.000 You gotta understand, a baby for a toxic man is a form of control.

02:40:54.000 A baby is an indication to him that he has you on lock for life, at least for the next 18 years.

02:41:02.000 They think you're going to be stuck.

02:41:05.000 They think they can come back whenever they want.

02:41:08.000 They think that they're going to delay you and ruin your life with the baby.

02:41:15.000 If the man is toxic, I'm telling you that's how he thinks.

02:41:19.000 You really have to protect your womb out here if you are dealing with somebody who is toxic and always asking, when you gonna have my baby? 0.89

02:41:28.000 Never.

02:41:29.000 Please tell him never.

02:41:30.000 Because I'm telling you.

02:41:33.000 Once that baby comes, he's gonna switch up.

02:41:36.000 Sometimes they even wait before the baby comes to switch up.

02:41:40.000 Don't do it.

02:41:41.000 If you're not happily married to somebody, this is why the Bible says be celibate because y'all, it's real out here.

02:41:51.000 They really target your womb, especially if they know you're a good woman or if they're jealous of you in any type of capacity. 0.51

02:42:02.000 Or if they even hate you, oh, they're going to want to keep you pregnant. 1.00

02:42:08.000 Trust me.

02:42:09.000 All right.

02:42:09.000 Interesting take there.

02:42:11.000 Crazy.

02:42:12.000 Guys, come on over to Castle Club.

02:42:13.000 We're going to go ahead and have a deeper discussion on this and then we'll close out there.

02:42:17.000 Ladies, do you think... 1.00

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