On this episode of the Freshman Podcast, we have special guest Casey in the house. We talk about optimizing your dating for 2024 and some examples of how to do so. We also introduce a new segment called "After Hours" where you will get some exclusive content from the FreshFit channel where you get to see more of the after-hours content that is coming soon. We also talk about how to optimize your online dating for the 21st century and how to make sure you re ready for the new decade. We have a special guest in the House, Casey, who has been a long-time friend of the show and has been with us for a long time. He is a content creator, host, and host of the podcast "Freshman Podcast" and is one of the biggest influencers in the podcast world. We discuss how he started his career and how he got his start in the business and why he is the best at what he does. We hope you guys enjoy this episode and stay tuned next week for our new segment "The After Hours" coming soon! Stay tuned for the After Hours with Casey and I will be back with more content from this show next week. Stay tuned to the show next Monday for another episode of Freshmen Podcast! Cheers, Cheers! Cheers. - The Freshman Crew! - Cheers - Derek Videll and Cheers Cheers - Derek and the Fresh Fit Crew. - Derek & The FreshFit Crew. The Fresh Fit Podcast. CHEERS! CHECK OUT THE EPISODE! CHECKOUT OUR FACEBOOK AND SUBSCRIBE TO OUR INSTAGRAM! CHEAT AND FOLLOW! & CHAT WITH ME AND GIVE US YOUR PODCAST AND GOT A FRIENDS THE MOST AMAZING LINKS AND SUPPORT US ON INSTA AND GOOGLE AND OTHER LINKS TO FOLLOW US IN OUR INSTA & TALK ABOUT OUR SOCIAL MEDIA AND OTHER SOCIALS AND TALK TO ME AND OTHER THAN THAT'S WHAT'S UP AND MORE! CHAT AND OTHER MEETING AND LINKS WE HAVE A FACEBOOK GROUP AND PODDS AND LINKED TO SOCIAL SUPPORTED ON SOCIAL AND SOCIAL CHAT TO OTHER THOUGHT AND OTHER PLACE AND PUT US IN A SOCIAL MESSAGE AND POTENTIAL LINKS BELOW! AND YESTERDAY WE WILL BE TALKING ABOUT SOMETHING LIKE THAT AND MORE IN OUR MOST RELATIONSHIP!
00:10:05.000I'm a content creator as well, we'll get into that, but it's known we love to create content, it's known that we love to suit us beautiful women, but the one thing we may love even more than that is talking shit to one another.
00:13:24.000It's very important to, you know, not forget about the people that came up with you, and then always, like, you know, make sure you bring them up with you.
00:15:24.000But real quick, I'll say, and I have a video about this.
00:15:29.000Studying like cold approach pickup, a.k.a.
00:15:31.000just the art of like walking up to women and trying to seduce them, being fun, charismatic, make conversations with people, women especially, but strangers, nightclubs, whatever.
00:15:39.000It's a skill set I built a long time ago, and you never know where that's going to take you, right?
00:15:43.000So, for instance, I saw Walter out on Lincoln Road, and the same social skills and just kind of being fun, interesting, charismatic, walking up to strangers and bringing value that I use on women, you can use on guys.
00:16:19.0002,500 subscribers and counting on YouTube, not a complete nobody, but usually 2,500 subscriber YouTubers do not get on Fresh and Fit.
00:16:26.000And when I came on the first time, I had no YouTube channel.
00:16:28.000Just the power of networking and building their social skills by doing cold approach pickup, even though I think online dating is much better.
00:18:25.000So I can see why so many guys transition.
00:18:27.000Because there's a lot of guys that are good, and they kill it here in the States, then they go abroad, and they're like, well, it's a lot better, and it goes further, so I'm just going to go internationally.
00:18:36.000And we can talk about that, too, because you're in Brazil now, so things have changed significantly.
00:18:41.000I would say you're probably the best guy when it comes to Colombia, teaching guys how to navigate Colombia from a safety perspective, how to get girls, how to network, everything else like that.
00:20:10.000And this nerdy white boy with a fucked up hairline and transparent skin is stunting on all your fucking faces.
00:20:19.000So listen up because class is about to be in session because, again, if a corny nerdy white guy can date legitimate fucking tens and y'all chat ninjas aren't, listen the fuck up because, like I said, class is in session.
00:20:54.000Trend setting will make you rich, successful, all that stuff.
00:20:57.000If you can spot trends, financial trends, what stocks about.
00:21:00.000Imagine if you bought Bitcoin early on or crypto, and then there could be other trends.
00:21:04.000Like, for instance, in this case, let's go for cultural trends, right?
00:21:07.000Why did I leave the U.S.? I was one of the first people to see this, like, toxic masculinization of women becoming more entitled, becoming more and more uncooperative.
00:21:18.000Everyone kind of jumped on the back when and realized, hey, wait a minute, like, dating kind of fucking sucks, and these women are, like, super, super entitled, and they don't behave like women, and they're all hoey and super difficult to deal with.
00:23:13.000I mean, granted, you were in L.A., and what I will say, too, is that this isn't any major American city, whether it's New York City, Miami, L.A., where the hottest girls are concentrated in major cities.
00:23:26.000Unfortunately, this is how they tend to behave.
00:23:28.000What I've noticed, though, what I will say this, is Midwestern girls are typically very mannerly.
00:23:33.000Yeah, they're better, just in general.
00:23:36.000Every girl that I've met, not every, but a good amount of them, better than half, are pretty good.
00:23:44.000Down to earth, not on some bullshit, not entitled, not like girls from LA. Girls from LA are some of the worst chicks, too, by the way.
00:23:50.000Of course it's not all, but in general.
00:24:01.000My friends send me videos where people generally say the same thing, you know, Midwestern girls or in general small town girls.
00:24:06.000Because think about it, girls even, let's say a city like Sao Paulo, that's still, Brazil's like, you know, second world, third world, whatever, but that's still a foreign country.
00:24:13.000You would think like, oh, I go to Sao Paulo and they're going to line up for me because I'm a gringo.
00:24:45.000The small town strategy, the girls there, let me make an extreme version of the small town.
00:24:51.000I hope I can say this on YouTube, but an extreme version of the small town strategy would be, let's say, for instance, and this is a Google-able fact, anybody can fact check me on this, men today, to this very day, in small cities in the coastal parts of Colombia, say a little bit outside of Barranquilla,
00:25:06.000a little bit outside of Cartagena, The men is a normal practice.
00:25:10.000Still, to this day, they fornicate with animals.
00:25:12.000Before they have sex with women, they practice on animals.
00:25:20.000So my point being, even if I'm not the most good-looking guy, even if I'm not the tallest guy, Even if I don't have the best hair, I can go to one of these smaller towns and how, you know, for me to out-compete the yacht owner in Miami might be a little difficult.
00:25:34.000But for me to out-compete, you know, Juan Carlos and the small pueblo outside of Barranquilla who's fornicating with animals, it's pretty easy for anybody to roll up and be the rock star in that city.
00:25:48.000I mean, the way women behave is directly tied to their options.
00:25:51.000So as you as a man, if you come in and you're exceptional and everyone else is below you, then yeah, you're able to just do better in general.
00:27:48.000Because obviously, you're not going to be coaching and helping out RSD if you don't know what the fuck you're doing and you can't close.
00:27:54.000And obviously you said that you had experience in L.A., you were bringing girls to Dan Bilzeri before he became famous in 2013, etc.
00:27:59.000Because I think he actually blew up in 2014, so a year prior or whatever.
00:28:04.000And then I guess you went to Costa Rica and kind of got a glimpse of what it was like to be international.
00:28:09.000What made you say, alright, I'm pulling the trigger, I'm getting the fuck up out of here?
00:28:12.000Yeah, because let's just say, for instance, I had, you know, a whole bunch of options here, and then, like, physically-wise, I had the same options in another country.
00:28:25.000Flirting in the U.S., it depends on the girl, depends on a lot of situations, but at times, it can feel like you're verbally sparring with them.
00:30:06.000So I made an Instagram reel on this saying that bringing flowers on a first date is a big L for you.
00:30:12.000I had a bunch of fucking bimbos commenting under my shit, talking shit like, that's not true, and you're bringing the wrong, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:30:18.000And they don't understand that, like, they've probably gotten flowers from a fucking guy before, and where did that guy end up?
00:31:28.000So it's like, how many girls post on their Instagram stories of flowers from a guy, but they never show the guy?
00:31:34.000That should tell you what I'm trying to say.
00:31:36.000Girls love getting flowers, but when you talk about it and say you shouldn't buy girls with flowers, they get angry because in their mind, because they always have this bad habit, they assume that The guy's attractive.
00:31:45.000They always assume attraction whenever you talk about male and female dynamics.
00:31:48.000They don't talk about the other 90% of guys that they see invisible.
00:31:50.000That's a terrible habit that I've noticed from talking to girls on the podcast.
00:31:55.000Casey, could you make a comparison between Brazilian women and Colombian women?
00:32:12.000The main one, and a lot of people may already know this, and I'll do a whole video at some point where I break the whole thing down, but I got famous for doing parties.
00:32:19.000Bills, if you want, maybe, or Moe, if you can bring up my Casey Redbeard Instagram, and then there's a story called PH Party for, like, Penthouse Party, if we can maybe...
00:32:30.000KC became the notorious party thrower in Columbia.
00:32:34.000We should let the audience know real fast.
00:32:36.000One of the things that you did, and you were very well known in Medellin for doing this, is you would be probably the only guy that would have parties in Medellin where a bunch of the American expatriate guys would go, and you would not bring escorts or hookers in.
00:32:52.000You would throw huge parties, fantastic ratios, 2 to 1 easily, right?
00:33:19.000One thing about America that we have to understand is, like, I grew up around, like, sitting next to me there was a Japanese kid, and maybe across from me there was an Arab kid, Mexican kid.
00:33:27.000In Colombia and a lot of other countries, not just Colombia, they're like, oh my god, your skin color and you're a foreigner!
00:33:33.000You come from a different part of the world!
00:34:43.000Yeah, like three to one, four to one, five to one penthouse parties.
00:34:47.000And because I had the idea one day, why would I make plans with one flaky girl that, you know, has a 50% chance of even showing up anyway, and my whole Saturday night might be ruined if she doesn't show up, when I could meet 30, 40, 50 girls in a single night, and network and meet cool friends, and get amazing content out of it,
00:35:03.000and make money doing it at the same time, and build my following, and do this, and do that, right?
00:35:08.000And so I throw these amazing parties, and I was using Instagram ads was a big part of it to find the girls, right?
00:35:14.000I would just, you know, show a vertical video like this, and I'd say, like, you know, fiesta este fin de semana, like, envÃame un mensaje si quieres llevarme fiesta, right?
00:35:34.000And these are the type of women, like if you look at their previous Twitter posts, they would say things like, hating men is a personality type, and it's my personality type.
00:35:41.000Or how can we organize to kick all the men in Medellin?
00:35:43.000So this is the type of person we're dealing with, right?
00:35:48.000And they basically just made up a lot of lies.
00:35:50.000They said, oh, all the girls that go to his party are underage, and he's a pimp, and he's prostituting all these girls to his gringo friends.
00:35:57.000There was even a TikTok about me where it didn't even lie and say I was a pimp or anything, but it had this somber music, this dramatic music, and they were saying, there's this gringo.
00:36:06.000Looks like all these girls are being forced to party, man.
00:38:57.000What started it was Roosh, no offense.
00:38:59.000Yeah, Roosh V. Roosh V wrote a book called Bang Colombia, which is fucking banned, by the way, and they banned him from Colombia for writing that book because he wrote a couple of books.
00:40:50.000Medellin would be like, I go to the cell phone place and bring all the proper documents to open up the cell phone contract that they told me I can upload to open the cell phone plan.
00:40:59.000Then I get there and say, oh, actually, you also need this and this.
00:41:02.000And this one's where I'm like, motherfucker, I got exactly what you said.
00:41:04.000Then you go to the next door, you go to a restaurant, you order the burger, you say, no cheese.
00:41:08.000There's fucking cheese all over that motherfucking burger.
00:41:10.000Then you have a point with your lawyer to do some immigration thing.
00:41:13.000Your lawyer just spaced out the appointment.
00:41:15.000You're just waiting in his office for hours.
00:43:51.000Because there's so many other places that people rave about.
00:43:52.000Yeah, let's talk about Brazil real quick and then get in some of the online dating stuff, the juice.
00:43:56.000But yeah, Brazil, why did I pick Brazil?
00:43:58.000Brazil is if Colombia and America had a baby and it took after like the good parts, the good qualities of both parents, right?
00:44:06.000In terms of the education, the intelligence, the higher IQ, but also they're Latinas, they're feminine, they treat their man well, they're very, what's the word, appreciative, feminine, cooperative, all those qualities.
00:47:59.000You got one of the guys here approving it.
00:48:01.000Only Gentile still doing that nasty thing, bestiality, drinking blood, and deleting defenseless as a sacrifice must be still happening since Casey cleared the air on facts.
00:48:07.000We could have easily lived a good life not knowing.
00:56:56.000I paid off my 17K debt from your advice, getting at least two jobs.
00:56:59.000Got two jobs on my own business, trying to get training from you.
00:57:01.000Myron sent DM WFNF. Shout out to you, my friend.
00:57:06.000And yes, guys, I didn't, I mean, you prompted it.
00:57:09.000I wasn't going to announce it yet, but yes, guys, I'm going to open up Fitness Coaching.
00:57:13.000I'm going to take 20 guys and get you guys from shit to fit over 16 weeks.
00:57:18.000But I ain't going to lie to y'all, man.
00:57:19.000It's going to take four months, and I'm going to need, you know, you need to be serious, and it's going to cost about, you know, I'll say just have 3K ready.
00:57:26.000So you have two options, either DMU Fit on Instagram or FNF Reach.
00:59:51.000Sorry, even though she's a district attorney, remember, the case is being handled by an assistant district attorney, so probably won't do anything.
01:00:07.000We're going to talk about that here in detail.
01:00:09.000Maestro goes, what should be the first thing I should say when hitting up a girl on social media and not shit or desperate or sim saying, hey, it doesn't work anymore?
01:02:25.000So yeah, my whole branding, what my basically whole YouTube channel is about, what my whole message is about is that for all you chat ninjas, at one point, hopefully, if you've done things right, you learned how to flirt with women in person, right?
01:02:37.000You learned how to be charismatic, use your voice, use your eye contact, flirt with them, make them laugh, seduce them, etc.
01:02:43.000However, for better or worse, dating has now evolved from a primarily in-person activity to a primarily online activity.
01:02:51.000And if you refuse to adapt and evolve with the times, what happens?
01:02:55.000You go extinct, just like the fucking dinosaurs.
01:02:58.000Fresh, if you see the women that he dates, all super top-notch bad bitches, right?
01:03:17.000Maybe you guys watched YouTube channels or you had an older brother or, I don't know, somebody to kind of teach you how to spit game in person, but nobody ever handed you the book, the manual of how to do this activity online.
01:03:38.000Myron, we were just talking about this.
01:03:40.000One of the best ways, let's say it's the 90s, the early 2000s, whatever it is, to get women maybe would be to go to the gym and build up your body.
01:03:48.000Maybe it would be to study game, get some old school RSD material and learn game or whatever.
01:04:35.000Certain cities, especially overseas, they're really good.
01:04:38.000So my way of doing this, my way of bringing guys into this 21st century, right, of learning online dating and, you know, in person, not so much.
01:04:53.000Number one is you must cultivate a social media profile, Instagram dating app profile that is attractive and magnetic to women.
01:05:00.000When they look at your profile, they need to see from your branding, from how you've done your content, that you are a Fun, interesting, exciting, well-traveled, high-status person, ultimately.
01:05:12.000And we told you guys, from day one, get an online brand going for yourself, for dating.
01:05:18.000Because nowadays, guys, it's going to be the haves and the haves-nots.
01:05:30.000Second thing is, once you have, and that's tough to do, the majority of this masterclass that we're going to teach is going to be focused on getting that content, because without the content, none of this other shit matters, right?
01:05:39.000But let's say you've done that, so that's checked.
01:05:41.000You're traveling, hang out with friends, you're well-dressed, you're well-groomed, you're at luxurious locations, you're doing high-value stuff, you're giving speeches, a room full of people, whatever it is.
01:05:51.000The next thing is you're gonna get all these matches with all these girls and you start getting responses on the girls you DM now that you have this high status profile.
01:05:57.000You gotta know what the fuck to say to these girls.
01:05:59.000You gotta know how to quickly cut out the time wasters and how to turn texting into dates.
01:06:06.000And then the last thing is volume, volume, volume, right?
01:06:09.000So most of these guys watching, most men in general, especially if you're a higher value guy, which what these gentlemen teach you how to do on the show is how to be a higher value guy, is you're going to have a very specific type.
01:07:08.000And let me tell you guys the importance of volume, because I've stressed this out so many times, and people don't get it, right?
01:07:15.000People just want girls to come to them and everything else like that, but what they don't understand is that you have to work volume to get women.
01:08:05.000You've got to use every single avenue to meet women nowadays.
01:08:08.000And not only do you have to leverage every avenue, you have to leverage every avenue to the highest level to get the most leads in because each of those leads, you're going to need to funnel it through your system.
01:08:18.000Can we mention how hard it is to start a business, have a business, maintain that I mean, I do think that every guy should learn how to do it on their own.
01:08:34.000You need to learn how to swipe properly, how to get a profile, how to do all that, and you gotta understand the system, and then you can outsource it after the fact.
01:08:41.000Because at the end of the day, they're gonna pass it back to you to set up the date.
01:08:44.000So you still gotta know what the fuck you're doing.
01:08:47.000Like, within the first week of us officially starting of you outsourcing your dating apps to us, we got you laid, I believe, twice within the first week of starting.
01:16:23.000And then, actually, Bills, can we put up, even if it takes a second, that quick video?
01:16:27.000If we can get audio on it, if you guys don't mind, I want to show it.
01:16:29.000It's a 55-second video that shows a Tinder experiment where I take his old photos, I make a brand new Tinder gold, I swipe for 30 minutes with his four bad photos, and then I wait two hours, and three matches came in.
01:16:45.000Then after that, I put the new photos, the higher quality photos, swipe for 30 minutes, waited another two days, and we had on the bad photos, three matches come in versus 19 matches on the goods.
01:16:56.000Is Sound going to play for the stream and stuff too?
01:17:01.000So, as you can see here, I got Ben a Tinder Gold subscription, and now I'm just showing the photos once again for the profile with the low-quality photos.
01:17:10.000Then I began swiping for exactly 30 minutes, and I only swiped right on girls that I considered to be roughly at least a 7 out of 10 or better.
01:17:18.000Okay, so here I am showing the results for Ben's first profile with the low-quality photos.
01:17:23.000After exactly 30 minutes of swiping and then waiting for two days for the matches to come in, he got a total of three matches.
01:17:30.000Okay, time to see the results on the new profile with the higher quality photos.
01:17:35.000So, just like last time, after I finished swiping for 30 minutes, I waited two days for all the matches to come in, and these were the results.
01:17:42.000He now has a total of 22 matches, which means 19 of them are from this new set of photos, as he already had three matches from before with the lower quality photos.
01:17:52.000And, like I said before, I only swiped right on girls that I perceive to be roughly at least around a 7 out of 10 or better.
01:17:59.000So that just goes to show the power of good photos.
01:20:00.000Like, you need good photos, otherwise it's going to fuck everything up.
01:20:03.000Because your photos are going to be on your dating profile, and they're also going to be on your Instagram.
01:20:06.000And you're going to need these photos where you basically have two different avenues, because either you get the girls over from Instagram, sorry, from online dating, into your Instagram, or you just DM straight from your Instagram and go from there.
01:20:17.000But the point is that you need a good, marketable profile.
01:21:11.000Because the other way is you're going to the club all the time and you're doing night game all the time, which can be extremely taxing, extremely expensive, extremely draining.
01:22:16.000Yeah, we could bring up some of the photos I took today just to show you guys an example.
01:22:19.000And we'll give you guys kind of the...
01:22:22.000The mindset as to why we took the photos the way we did, where we took them, the outfits we chose, et cetera, so that you guys can replicate this, okay?
01:22:29.000So let's go ahead and pull up some of these things.
01:22:31.000Damn, nigga made a PowerPoint that fast!
01:23:42.000White pants, guys, by the way, the reason why I went with white pants is that it's a symbol of financial success because typically when you wear white pants, it shows, okay, this nigga is on some business type shit.
01:24:26.000If you're a black dude, bro, give it a thousand with y'all.
01:24:28.000Having photos with people outside of your race is actually a DHV. And the reason why it's a DHV is the show is like, okay, he's not just one of these dudes that hangs out with hood names all day.
01:25:07.000A lot of girls that might have never dated a colored person before or never dated a black guy before, one of the biggest things they're worried about is, is he going to be a hood guy or some shit like that?
01:25:17.000And what you're able to do is you're kind of able to penetrate that and show, no, I hang out with everybody, baby.
01:27:57.000But yeah, I think you always got to look smacks, man.
01:28:00.000Because some girls, here's the thing, there's girls that might have not fucked with me that I didn't know didn't fuck with me because of my hair.
01:31:16.000We're supposed to show the knowledge gap.
01:31:18.000But it's really like angles, lighting, good lighting, good angles, because you could take this camera and give it to somebody else to use it.
01:31:51.000Some of y'all think this is AI. Bro, and those photos aren't edited.
01:31:55.000FYI. I think what we did, we just tainted the tint because the ISO? I think he color graded it slightly, but yeah, I mean, like, there's no...
01:36:15.000So, four outfits, multiple locations, get a good photographer, high quality pictures, good location, like we were shooting, we shot all this in Brickle, guys.
01:37:08.000So once you have this amazing high status social media profile like we talked about, better to pick up girls on Instagram than dating apps, but you can do both.
01:37:27.000These girls, every guy, every chat ninja can relate to this.
01:37:29.000How many times have you been chatting with a girl and they will just eat up all the attention, the validation, they watch all your stories, they comment to them, but when it comes to actually you want to promote as a meetup, they disappear.
01:38:25.000So anyway, what I like to do is straight off the bat, and I do this pretty much every time, is I call them a series of ever-escalating compliance tests, right?
01:38:35.000These are little hoops to make them jump through to see, like, is this the type of chick that will flirt with me, watch my stories, respond to me, but then when it comes time for a meetup, she was just going to flake and never meet up with me anyway, for who knows why.
01:38:45.000She's already dating a guy, who knows what, right?
01:38:47.000So the first one, I'm big on voice notes, right?
01:38:50.000You can use the inflections in your voice, show a lot of confidence, show a lot of humor, and communicate in a thousand times better way than you can over texting, which is dry.
01:38:57.000So I'll send a bunch of voice notes, and I'll say, hey, I sent you a bunch of voice notes for myself.
01:39:01.000I'm just curious to see what you sound like.
01:40:13.000The FaceTime or the video call might be like, I might send her a picture of her Instagram.
01:40:18.000I might screenshot or just use the share button, share a photo of her own photo on Instagram and say, hey, by the way, this is my favorite photo of you from your Instagram.
01:40:37.000Stop what she's doing, open up your Instagram, analyze, look at all your photos, pick one, and then write a little essay on why she chose that one as her favorite photo.
01:40:47.000You're asking her for a little bit of work, for it to take 30-35 seconds or whatever to do this work.
01:40:52.000A chick that was just using you for validation, a chick that never wanted to flirt with you, or sorry, that never wanted to go out with you but just flirt with you, will not do this stuff, right?
01:41:00.000So it's a series of, like, these little escalating compliance tests that I kind of go, like, check these boxes to see if they're, like, legit, you know, not time wasters.
01:41:07.000And then also the obvious stuff, right?
01:41:08.000The thoughtfulness of her responses and the speed of her replying back.
01:41:13.000If I say something witty and kind of, I won't say long, long, but, you know, a good two, three, four sentences, and it's a really witty observation or something about her, and she writes back, thanks!
01:42:39.000I'm pretty good, pretty good, but something weird just happened to me.
01:42:42.000I came back from the gym, and I normally use Uber, but I decided to hop in a taxi today, and it was really weird.
01:42:47.000This guy only took me like three or four minutes down the road, and he tried to charge me 60 mil for taking me like three or four minutes, and then we argued for a bit.
01:42:53.000What is that in the U.S. for the audience real quick?
01:43:00.000He tried to charge me 60 mil for only taking me like three or four minutes down the street, and so we argued for a bit, but in the end I made him give me the fair price of about 15 mil.
01:43:33.000And now I've communicated those things through a generic story, and now I'm building attraction by kind of just showing personality traits without having to be like, it'd be weird to just say, by the way, you should know I am an alpha male who does not take shit from people.
01:44:23.000Not only do you need to get a girl to fucking talk to, you need a girl to comply with your test because I'm telling you this, if you don't do the work up front and get her to pass compliance test, I'm telling you, you're gonna feel the pain later on.
01:44:34.000That's when you end up on a fucking date where she doesn't kiss you.
01:44:36.000That's where you end up on a date where she says, let's just be friends.
01:44:39.000That's how you end up with a girl that never liked you in the first place and just wanted a free dinner.
01:44:42.000Anytime I see a guy get used by a girl, I know off rip.
01:44:45.000He didn't employ any compliance tests.
01:46:29.000Like a lot of Mike, like Steven, will say girls are intimidated to come out with him because it looks like he's the CEO of a fucking Fortune 500 company.
01:46:35.000He's given speeches in a room full of people, always super well dressed.
01:46:38.000It's kind of like Drake doesn't have to sell himself to a woman.
01:46:42.000Drake's attraction is built on his reputation.
01:46:45.000In a similar way, when you have that high status content on your social media, Girls just build up an idea of who you are and the social media does the work for you.
01:47:31.000So, like, yeah, guys, like, you gotta have these things in place.
01:47:34.000So we talked about compliance, and then you mentioned something else about the stories.
01:47:37.000Yo, It is so important, guys, where you guys can tell DHV stories without necessarily being overtly braggy, right?
01:47:44.000Like, it's always better for a girl to kind of find things out versus you telling her.
01:47:48.000And by you telling her a story, she's able to come to those conclusions by herself.
01:47:51.000When I was an agent, right, working for the government, right, we were always taught, write the report objectively and then let the reader come to their own conclusions.
01:50:20.000Like, no, this is not how this is, bitch.
01:50:22.000The moment you fold, Everybody knows, and then, you know, message flows quick.
01:50:29.000But this is why when you DM a chick, she'll respond to you.
01:50:33.000She saw your page, looked at it and said, nope, not even close.
01:50:37.000This is why, like, on a dating app, like Hinge, that's like, marketers, like, the relationship app, and it has these things called prompts, which if you don't know how to describe that, it just, like, reveals interesting things about you.
01:51:18.000He made a post, I believe, or I think it was a video, where he did a test where he, like, DM the girl, like, just W. W, yeah, I remember that.
01:52:58.000Listen, bro, coming with some money saved up, 100%.
01:53:01.000And for Miami, bro, you gotta understand, it's a lifestyle.
01:53:04.000So, if you come to Miami, you need to be focused.
01:53:07.000Because if you're not focused, what's gonna happen to you?
01:53:09.000You're gonna see this lifestyle, see the environment, and it's gonna turn you either to a good person, doing the right thing, building yourself up, or, on a path of partying, drugs, and women.
01:53:19.000So, understand that, like, coming here, gotta be focused, have things in place where it keeps you grounded, because I'll tell you right now, bro, coming to Miami as a young guy, Can't fuck you up, so be careful.
01:53:29.000Yeah, a lot of people move here and they never, they get into what I call like the Miami hole.
01:53:35.000Next thing you know, they're partying all day, fucking from morning to night, you know, and they just do binges for weeks on end and they don't get nothing done.
01:53:44.000Even girls come in college or in school and they flunk up because they're partying, going on yachts, traveling, and school's finished.
01:53:52.000I was talking to a chick literally the other day.
01:53:53.000She came here and she was just on yachts every fucking day.
01:57:29.000The thing is, when you start posting shit like that, like what I call baller pictures, you on private jets, you in very exclusive areas in maybe Dubai or some shit like that, you're at the fucking pool where you can see the whole Palm Jumeirah or whatever.
01:57:43.000Girls are going to expect you to come a certain way when they meet you.
01:57:46.000And if you're a brokie, that's going to be a problem.
01:57:48.000Because what's going to happen is, it's not that you're broke that's the problem.
01:57:53.000The problem is that you're incongruent.
01:59:57.000Y'all niggas come here and be on some jet skis in Miami, and you be renting a Lambo or whatever, and you go back to your fuck town in Dubuque, Iowa, and bitches think you study, you got some money.
02:00:05.000I think I used you to save it for seven months, working at Macy's, selling some fucking true religions, trying to make a commission.
02:00:13.000You're taking these bitches out on dates and they're like, oh yeah, I got a Lambo, blah, blah, blah.
02:01:34.000So whether it's Instagram or a dating app, the best, most, what do you call it?
02:01:42.000Highest probability to get her to respond and get a good conversation going after the opener is to find something based on her content, right?
02:02:48.000We have a technique called qualification, which means giving the girl compliments or legitimate reasons why you guys are a good fit that have nothing to do with her looks.
02:02:56.000And if you do that, you can lower flaking a lot because it shows that we have a special connection that's not just based on him wanting to put it inside of me.
02:03:28.000Giving y'all a lot of sauce right now.
02:03:30.000By the way, we got 4,300 of y'all watching, but we only got 1,900 likes.
02:03:33.000Guys, when I started the video, we didn't even start the video yet, and it was already 97% like rate, which means we got a lot of fucking Anus and Reach fans in here probably watching themselves.
02:05:24.000In a year, two years, three years, what's going to happen is, remember how around Cough Cough 2020, if you made a certain post, the little text would pop up.
02:05:35.000Our fact checkers have found that this is not factual.
02:05:38.000So the same thing is going to happen with AI. AI is going to get too good.
02:05:42.000Deep fakes and fake photos are going to get too real and too damaging.
02:05:46.000If you post one of these AI Instagram profiles that maybe it's generating good results for you, the Instagram update 5.0 is going to come out and it's going to say, our systems have detected that this is perhaps AI generated.
02:06:00.000This is not a private chat that Jamal is actually on.
02:06:03.000It's actually in the back of a shed in Dubuque, Iowa somewhere by the Macy's store.
02:10:36.000What I've heard from my friends in Medellin who had ran OnlyFans agencies, their biggest pain point is you can get these girls, yeah, making what?
02:10:44.00020, 30, 40, 50k a month, still just lazy, ungrateful.
02:13:10.000So, before we all talked about photos and games like this, I'm about to take it up another level and show how funny content, because the same way that in Cold Approach, even if you're not the most handsome guy talking real face-to-face, you can use humor, personality, charisma, intelligence, stuff like that to attract her in person.
02:13:27.000Now you can do this with content, with shorts, with reels, and use Instagram ads.
02:13:38.000Getting girls to, like, view my profile, like it, comment, and then I reach out to the girls that like the real, and I already have, like, some social capital built up because I made them laugh.
02:13:57.000And actually at the website, I have a promotion going on for the Fresh and Fit fans only until January 15th.
02:14:03.000So we talked about the three things in the dating success formula, which is the photos, the content, the high status profile, the knowing what to text girls, and the volume, volume, volume, aka getting an online dating virtual assistant.
02:14:14.000I have a course to help with all three of these things, right?
02:14:36.000You do not want to be opening up the app, swiping for 30 minutes, close out.
02:14:39.000I have a case to do it, but he's going to charge you a lot more.
02:14:40.000So Casey's going to give you a way to do it way cheaper.
02:14:43.000If someone wants me to do it personally or my buddy Jake, shout out to Jake who's doing it for Myron now, like 100%, you just tell us what girls you like, give us the login to your social media, and we make the dates and appear just fall out of the sky like magic.
02:14:58.000I'm not going to say on stream, but it's a lot.
02:14:59.000If you're that type of person, you know who you are if you're that type of person.
02:15:04.000Go with them directly if that's what you want.
02:15:06.000Yeah, just mention me on Instagram, Redbeard Rants.
02:15:07.000But if not, he'll teach you how to do it for cheap with a VA. Yeah, exactly.
02:15:10.000The VA is the better, cheaper, way cheaper option.
02:15:12.000Yeah, the course is $297 one time, and then you can probably pay a virtual assistant for, I mean, if it's part-time, maybe $200 a month.
02:15:18.000If it's full-time, you know, $350, $400.
02:15:21.000And if you have a good quality content, you know how to screen and text girls, and you have a virtual assistant finding girls, particularly on Instagram, not dating apps, because it's hard.
02:17:19.000Now we gotta learn how to take photos and get content as well.
02:17:21.000Yeah, me and Casey were making jokes about it.
02:17:23.000Like, yo, it used to be, you know, you could just go up to a girl and talk to her, but like, now you gotta fucking sit here and take pictures and people telling you, oh, you can't take pictures here.
02:17:48.000Like, then you end up with girls that don't really give a fuck about you, they don't respect you, and then they suck someone's dick on a fucking Sunday when they're drunk.
02:17:53.000Like, bro, you gotta be the top fucking guy, man.
02:19:18.000And I'm looking at the quality that you guys are bringing and the quality that you guys are bringing to your fans and your subscribers and everything.
02:19:25.000Yo, these guys are investing a lot of money.
02:19:39.000And Myron is dropped, by the way, if you want to come here for the 200K. You're going to walk out of here with 200K. That's how much you care about the people, man.
02:19:47.000It shows you the cameras that's here, this and this.