On this episode of the Third Five Podcast, we are joined by Brandon Carter, King Keto, and Dom to talk about how to pick up girls and how to win on dates. We cover how to be confident, how to approach girls, and how you should approach girls.
00:16:48.000You get used to like rejection, it happens, but you got to know which ones to pick out that you can like minimize the rejection, especially like if you're in clubs.
00:17:31.000I think for obviously doing dates as well, if you double book dates, for example, let's say it's a Thursday and you got four girls lined up.
00:17:39.000If two flake, you got two to go on dates.
00:17:42.000Versus one flakes, then you're fucked.
00:17:45.000Anyhow, ladies on the panel, this is your turn here.
00:17:47.000So from your expertise in the dating world in Miami, of course, how would you say a guy should pick up a girl in terms of like getting her phone number and then possibly if he's good enough, getting it to smash later on?
00:18:00.000So we'll start with the first approach, get her phone number.
00:18:04.000Like, are we in like in a club setting?
00:19:57.000If she's on some powerlifting shit in between putting a chalk on her hand about the like get a PR or some shit, then maybe you want to back off.
00:20:07.000But if she's chilling, it depends on the vibe, you know?
00:20:09.000Also, Miami is a weird place because here's like a day club at the gym.
00:20:46.000Like, let's say we're at the grocery store.
00:20:49.000If we're at the grocery store, and if I look at you and I kind of look at you a little bit, like three seconds, I would want you to come up to me.
00:23:27.000I don't know, like, like, from my point of view, I don't like pickup lines, but I'd rather have someone just be simple and just be like, hi, how are you?
00:23:34.000And nowadays, from your, I guess, point of view, you get approached a lot in the street, yes, um, but mostly like at clubs.
00:23:43.000Is it white guys, black guys, Asian guys, Hispanic guys?
00:27:01.000Just before you start, I just want to explain why we girls want to hear when men say order whatever you want, because it's like show his generous way.
00:27:11.000And the second, you know, when you expect the big laugh from the woman, you need to also give something big.
00:27:16.000No, it's hard to explain, but we a woman below it.
00:27:20.000They're gonna fuck the bottom of the food.
00:30:27.000I'd be like longing for his attention, probably after that.
00:30:30.000So, Brandon, real quick, if I'm approaching a girl in the gym and that happens, he's saying to go to leave that gym, go to another gym, never come back.
00:30:41.000Walking away would definitely, and maybe like a couple days go by, you see her again, you say something, or you don't, but you say something again.
00:30:48.000So I think him planting the seed, come back later on might work.
00:31:09.000Main thing I keep them wondering, that always really works.
00:31:12.000Planting a seed works a lot for women just because they like to do the be the direct, but at the same time, they don't expect you to walk away.
00:31:17.000So it keeps you interested at the end of the day.
00:31:19.000She's going to think about that one that walked away, think what she's lacking.
00:31:22.000How can she improve it on the next interaction?
00:32:56.000So, I mean, you know, I don't know why in our days, especially in Miami, all the people concentrated about the body, about how you look, but people forgetting to appreciate the soul.
00:36:25.000Let me just say yes, or just like confidence, and he's just being thoughtful.
00:36:27.000Like, oh, well, like the fact that he wanted to continue to spend time with me instead of elsewhere, even with his plans he already had.
00:36:36.000So, she's describing, fellas, an insta-date.
00:36:39.000And if you don't know what that is, it just means you meet a girl for the first time and she has time available.
00:36:43.000You say, Listen, let's go over here, let's do this, let's do that.
00:36:46.000And she follows your plan because it's a good plan.
00:36:48.000Her day isn't set up already, and then she follows your plan.
00:36:51.000So, instantate just means you meet her person for the first time, call approach, and you plan that date right there and then, and you execute life.
00:36:58.000Sometimes I've noticed, bro, that they like when you already have plans.
00:37:00.000Like, yeah, uh, back in the past, like, probably before being a creator, I would ask women like if they want to go out, but now you know, you give off a better like vibe of having motion.
00:37:10.000If you say, I'm doing this tonight, do you want to come join me?
00:37:13.000So, that's something I've learned that really helps a lot with women: is just already have something set.
00:38:45.000But she said she was a hoe, so it'd be working for nikkas, you know.
00:38:52.000A completely wrong thing when you're thinking about approaching the number one goal of how you start the conversation is to simply start the conversation.
00:39:01.000One way to do this is with a respectful compliment, especially if it's on something that she consciously chose.
00:39:07.000This can be her hair, this can be her shirt, this can be the book that she's reading.
00:39:11.000All you got to do is start the conversation.
00:39:13.000If compliments just aren't coming into your mind, this can be a context question.
00:39:18.000Now, I go over pickup lines that relate to context questions and just how to keep conversations going in my workshop, which can grab from the top of my page.
00:39:26.000These are things like you're at a club, you ask, Oh, where have you been out tonight?
00:39:33.000Typically, this sort of conversation works better with a younger crowd, whereas the compliment will work better with a slightly older, more mature woman because they, you know, would appreciate a guy with balls.
00:39:44.000All right, she's selling a program, but here's the thing, right?
00:39:46.000Like, this is a simple thing you can do, fellas, as an icebreaker that covers all races, all nationalities, all, well, one gender.
00:39:55.000And if you say this one line, fellas, this will start a competition at a good pace.
00:40:00.000All it is, is, hey, where are you from?
00:40:48.000Well, listen, I think picking up girls isn't that hard because obviously we're experienced here, but guys watching may not have that experience of confidence.
00:41:15.000And what happens is, if you look at their lives, they're probably like breaking a lot of promises they make to themselves on a consistent basis.
00:41:21.000Like, oh, I'm supposed to go work out or I'm supposed to work on this business or I'm supposed to not goon today or whatever it is, you know.
00:42:48.000So having a confidence when you make a choice, bro, is 100% because you put in your calendar, you make it a point to go to that event or that occurrence.
00:42:56.000Yeah, you know, you just want to, you know, the problem with like doing shit you're not supposed to do, breaking promises or not to yourself or other people acting out of integrity.
00:43:07.000The problem is, even if you like, get away with it, like inside, you know what I'm saying?
00:43:13.000And you can't fake and everything else would just be a facade that you're putting on, you know?
00:43:19.000I owe Justin Waller one because I'm not going to lie, man.
00:44:35.000If you're gonna like make a boss move when you're at dinner, you have to make sure that you already pre-put your card down before you go in.
00:51:47.000And this is why, like, dom, I think if they, okay, if women, especially black women, want to date men that are their race or even black men, this right here just makes it worse.
00:51:59.000Because now it's kind of like, okay, I see this stuff online.
00:52:02.000I never even met a black girl or been around black girl.
00:52:20.000The odds are against us when being minorities, though, man.
00:52:22.000I mean, not to just like be in victimhood, but it really is because black people, we stand out in all parts of Europe and America.
00:52:29.000So if we're standing out and you're in like a spot like six flags, you just see one set of black people, which is the minority of the minority at somewhere like six flags.
00:52:38.000If they get into a fight, it appears a much, it appears more drastic just because the contrast between black and white, you see all these white people appear to be assimilated into society and people appear as animals because they already look different.
00:52:50.000Because at the same time, when you see a white man and they're able to be teachers and they're able to have all of these different type of jobs around kids, no one really thinks about how many white people actually kidnap children, how many of them are actually in charge of human trafficking rings.
00:53:05.000They're in charge of human trafficking reach pretty much entirely.
00:53:08.000It's all by mainly majority of white men and white women.
00:53:11.000Yet throughout America, we don't see white people and feel like we need to hold our kids any tighter.
00:53:16.000But I think it's the contrast because white people, they are majority.
00:53:19.000So anything that we do, it has a higher light on it.
00:53:22.000I don't think it's necessarily worse with other races, but it's the unfortunate reality of being minorities in America or Europe.
00:53:29.000If you're in Africa and a white man in South Africa starts cutting up around a bunch of blacks, he looks like an animal.
00:53:35.000He looks like a baboon because like you got all these black people acting right and you just got this one white person here.
00:53:40.000It appears as if something is wrong with this entire people because it seems the situation wouldn't existed if a white person wasn't there.
00:53:47.000I just think the fact that we're minorities, we stand out a whole lot more.
00:53:50.000Listen, Nora Cal Papi, if okay, listen, pick her up, give me 200 subs, nigga.
00:59:16.000And when we have periods, we're more emotional than regular.
00:59:18.000And you know, in her age, maybe she has a menopausal.
00:59:21.000Yeah, I don't think she's a and maybe just imagine, maybe she's a millionaire, maybe she's working all her life hard, she making the business, and then she recognized, fuck my life.
00:59:30.000I have money, I have everything, but I have no happiness.
00:59:33.000So it's happening and come on to be emotional is okay.
00:59:36.000What she's recording, you know, sometimes I also feel desperate only for one or two days, Maxim.
01:01:44.000People, especially in America, prefer animals over people because, again, I think people have lost faith in humanity because people are so bad.
01:01:53.000They do bad things, and they're like, you know what?
01:03:43.000Chicago's Democrat Mayor, Brandon Johnson, has sent out a warning to Americans that Chicago finances are at the point of no return if he doesn't get a massive tax hike to replace the dwindling revenue.
01:03:53.000So he's just pretty much saying that the city of Chicago, all of the education, the judicial systems, everything that the government funds is going to pretty much be completely bankrupt and they're going to lose resources for all the residents in the city if they don't increase the taxes.
01:22:05.000He's been charged with assault and disorderly conduct.
01:22:07.000Also, while we've been filming this, the fifth dildo, which is purple dildo, was thrown at a WNBA game.
01:22:12.000Like, while the show has been live, was thrown last tonight.
01:22:15.000So, what's why are people throwing dildos on these people?
01:22:18.000Well, now it's actually a huge money pool.
01:22:20.000So, I don't know if you've seen there's more bets on the dildos being thrown than the actual games, yeah.
01:22:27.000So, and if they aren't, they already said in WNBA, if they can't stop this, this would actually start to become a staple in the WNBA because it's actually getting more views than the games.
01:22:36.000Caitlin Clark is currently injured, so they said this dildo is single-handedly like increasing the uh viewership to where it's like she got hit by it.
01:22:44.000Yeah, he hit her like that, yeah, he was probably the best shooter, so that's why he probably got locked in there because she got touched by it.
01:22:57.000I think it was new, that's weird, bro.
01:22:58.000Uh, listen, I didn't day man, WNBA needs something because them niggas suck, but two attention is everything.
01:23:05.000So, for the marketing, hey, don't sue these niggas or put them in jail, let them let them rock throw toys dicks at hear me out.
01:23:19.000I think without this, bro, we would not be covering this today, right?
01:23:22.000No, you know, so in that sense, having the marketing as this is interesting, I'll watch it.
01:23:28.000However, now I get what is what you're saying, they shouldn't touch people with it, but they just throw it in there, and then that's the marketing.
01:23:36.000Well, they try to keep it family-friendly, so that's why they would never be conservative.
01:23:40.000You be picking and choosing when you're conservative when you want to be conservative, man.
01:23:48.000It's like women shouldn't do this, but it's okay to throw dicks around.
01:25:42.000I feel like from a guy standpoint now, I understand it's a little bit more difficult because girls don't really know what we are really looking for when they're being approached.
01:25:51.000I guess it's just a situational scenario, like on different scenarios.
01:25:54.000Basically, girls just show up, they get attention, guys approach them.
01:25:57.000Guys have to think about things in a totality way, for example, A to Z. Okay, if I meet this girl right now, how do I talk to her?
01:26:04.000Get a phone number, and lead to at some point, you know, date and then smashing.
01:26:09.000You just show up, look pretty, you get taken out.
01:26:11.000So it's pretty simple for you guys, but for guys, way harder.
01:27:43.000I have to argue with that a little bit just because men, I mean, even here, we'll tell, like, we'll get on a lot of women for judging a man for where he is today.
01:27:50.000But none of us on this show has ever been delusional.
01:27:54.000You're going to be judged for where you are, who you are today.