Fresh & Fit - Husband Wants 50-50 & Wife Has BPD?! He Married For A Greencard?! Couple Intervention!

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00:04:51.000 Yes.

00:04:52.000 Guests of Honor, welcome to the podcast.

00:04:55.000 This couple's intervention.

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00:04:58.000 Please tell the audience who you are.

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00:05:00.000 Hi, everyone.

00:05:01.000 My name is Bianca.

00:05:02.000 I have been on the podcast before.

00:05:05.000 I love this podcast.

00:05:06.000 I am not an OnlyFans girl.

00:05:10.000 I'm actually a college student, and I'm also an assistant.

00:05:15.000 So, without further ado, I will pass it on to my- How old are you?

00:05:18.000 And where are you originally from?

00:05:19.000 I am 23 years old.

00:05:20.000 I'm originally from Ecuador.

00:05:23.000 I came here when I was five, so I feel like I can say that I'm a Miami girl, pretty much.

00:05:28.000 Gotcha.

00:05:29.000 Yes, they are.

00:05:29.000 Are your parents still together?

00:05:31.000 Okay.

00:05:32.000 And do you live in Miami now?

00:05:34.000 Yes, I do live in Miami.

00:05:36.000 And I gotta say, good job for no OnlyFans, because being in Miami...

00:05:36.000 Okay.

00:05:39.000 Yeah, seriously.

00:05:40.000 It's hard to find out.

00:05:41.000 And then, did you go to college?

00:05:43.000 No, you said you're in school right now.

00:05:44.000 I'm in school, yeah.

00:05:45.000 What are you studying?

00:05:45.000 I'm studying health administration, so I'm going towards that route.

00:05:49.000 But I also started my own social media management agency, and that's been kicking off.

00:05:54.000 Okay.

00:05:54.000 So...

00:05:55.000 Okay, so you are a student and you have a social media management thing, which I'm assuming you take on accounts and you help them with posting and stuff like that, whether it's a small business that wants to get more reach on Instagram or something like that?

00:06:08.000 Yeah, I feel like we're really good at that.

00:06:11.000 He taught me a lot that I know about social media, and then it's kind of when I hopped on and started my own ventures on it.

00:06:18.000 So what do you predominantly manage?

00:06:18.000 Okay.

00:06:20.000 Is it like small businesses?

00:06:21.000 Is it...

00:06:22.000 Everything, really.

00:06:23.000 I do small businesses, like influencers.

00:06:25.000 I do help OnlyFans girls. 1.00

00:06:28.000 Okay.

00:06:28.000 But I don't...

00:06:29.000 Myself, I don't work in OnlyFans, no.

00:06:31.000 Okay.

00:06:32.000 All right, then.

00:06:33.000 All right, cool.

00:06:35.000 What about you, bro?

00:06:36.000 Welcome.

00:06:37.000 Thank you for everything.

00:06:37.000 Thank you.

00:06:38.000 I'm Valentin.

00:06:40.000 Ah, sorry.

00:06:41.000 Not closer to the mic.

00:06:42.000 How old are you?

00:06:43.000 I'm 24 years old.

00:06:45.000 All right.

00:06:45.000 Where are you originally from?

00:06:46.000 I'm from Argentina.

00:06:47.000 So, yeah.

00:06:48.000 It's my first year in the United States.

00:06:51.000 And...

00:06:53.000 Gracias, boludo.

00:06:55.000 And yeah, I'm with her since last year.

00:07:00.000 And yeah, we are having some issues that we would like to discuss further on.

00:07:06.000 And what do you do for work full time?

00:07:08.000 What I do, I do social media marketing.

00:07:10.000 I do have my clients on that.

00:07:12.000 I do a little bit of trading also.

00:07:16.000 I do a little bit of everything.

00:07:18.000 When you say trading, what do you mean specifically?

00:07:20.000 I basically hold just coins.

00:07:23.000 Oh, okay.

00:07:24.000 So you trade crypto?

00:07:25.000 Yeah, just buy and sell.

00:07:26.000 Okay.

00:07:27.000 And yeah, pretty much I have services.

00:07:30.000 I have blogs.

00:07:31.000 So you said you do social media marketing.

00:07:33.000 Is it the same company that she has or you do it separately yourself?

00:07:36.000 Yeah, myself.

00:07:37.000 Like I have my own clients.

00:07:38.000 Okay.

00:07:39.000 So she has her clients and you have yours.

00:07:41.000 Yeah.

00:07:41.000 And the same thing where you manage other potential influencers and businesses and everything else and you run their Instagrams for them?

00:07:47.000 Yeah.

00:07:47.000 Okay.

00:07:48.000 I mean, I don't like to run Instagram.

00:07:49.000 Yeah.

00:07:50.000 I don't like to run Instagrammers.

00:07:53.000 I help them with promotions and stuff.

00:07:57.000 Okay.

00:07:58.000 Alright, so you'll help promo their businesses.

00:08:00.000 Yeah, I have an army of influencers.

00:08:02.000 I'm working on my own app, actually.

00:08:04.000 Okay.

00:08:05.000 Alright, cool.

00:08:06.000 And you've been here for a year?

00:08:07.000 Yeah, for a year.

00:08:08.000 And you guys are married, right?

00:08:09.000 Yeah, we are married.

00:08:10.000 When did you get married?

00:08:11.000 We got married... 1.00

00:08:12.000 Oh, shit! 1.00

00:08:13.000 Oh, shit! 1.00

00:08:14.000 Bomb drop real quick. 1.00

00:08:15.000 That's what I thought.

00:08:16.000 We got married in March...

00:08:19.000 Yeah, so we've been married.

00:08:20.000 And you guys have known each other for a year?

00:08:23.000 Yeah, so through the map.

00:08:25.000 That's pretty quick, man.

00:08:27.000 Yeah.

00:08:27.000 Okay.

00:08:28.000 How'd you guys meet?

00:08:29.000 We met at Mandrake in Miami.

00:08:31.000 Like a lounge.

00:08:33.000 Yeah, can you describe to the audience what that is?

00:08:34.000 Yeah, it's like a sushi place lounge area.

00:08:38.000 Yeah.

00:08:39.000 Used to be popping before COVID, but it's okay now.

00:08:39.000 Yeah.

00:08:43.000 Okay, so you guys met at Mandrake.

00:08:44.000 It's a sushi lounge.

00:08:45.000 Yeah.

00:08:46.000 Okay.

00:08:47.000 Did you guys meet through friends?

00:08:48.000 Did he come up to you?

00:08:49.000 Or how'd that...

00:08:51.000 Some girl cut her foot in the bathroom. 1.00

00:08:54.000 It was a funny situation.

00:08:56.000 Some girl cut her foot in the bathroom. 1.00

00:08:57.000 We went to her aid.

00:08:59.000 And then we kind of just like, we're like, hey, what's up?

00:09:02.000 And then we originally started out as friends.

00:09:05.000 And then it kind of progressed into more.

00:09:07.000 Like, it's a very, like...

00:09:08.000 Okay, so like a girl cut her foot at the club, or sorry, at this place, and then you guys were helping her at the same time.

00:09:14.000 Yeah.

00:09:14.000 You know like in a movie, when it's band-aids, and they both drop it, look up like, you're the one!

00:09:20.000 Exactly.

00:09:21.000 That's an interesting way to meet.

00:09:22.000 So, and then I guess through you guys helping this girl out, you guys became friends first, and then, okay, when did you guys go like on your first date or whatever?

00:09:22.000 Alright.

00:09:22.000 Okay.

00:09:30.000 My birthday.

00:09:31.000 So like it was kind of just like I invited him to the club because I had my birthday party at the club and then we've I mean we were just friends like we didn't really like think of anything plus and then I don't know we just got each other alone and then just clicked immediately we talked for like four hours we talked for like eight hours like just talking How did you know that she was the one you wanted to go out with?

00:09:56.000 I didn't know at the beginning.

00:09:57.000 That was the thing.

00:09:59.000 At the beginning, I was actually, I don't know, flinching.

00:10:04.000 Just having fun?

00:10:05.000 Yeah, having fun.

00:10:07.000 Like any other single guy at the club talking with women. 0.62

00:10:13.000 And she was at the bathroom.

00:10:14.000 I didn't notice anything, like, special, to be honest, at the beginning.

00:10:18.000 Like, we were friends, like, at the beginning.

00:10:23.000 I was, like, hooking up with girls and stuff, and she was, like, around.

00:10:27.000 And the thing is, I got to know her, like, on the, I don't know, deeper.

00:10:36.000 And I realized, like, she has something that I can, like, work on, you know, like wife material, you know?

00:10:42.000 Okay, so certain qualities that you liked for a wife. 0.89

00:10:45.000 Yeah, for like, I don't know, like, being together, you know?

00:10:50.000 Like, not only just being a girl.

00:10:53.000 Just a smash?

00:10:54.000 Yeah, just a smash.

00:10:55.000 She wanted more.

00:10:55.000 Okay, cool.

00:10:56.000 Okay.

00:10:57.000 You saw qualities in her that were wife material that you liked.

00:11:00.000 All right.

00:11:00.000 Exactly.

00:11:01.000 And then, what did you see in him?

00:11:03.000 Let me just say, you know what, I want to take this more serious, because one year, marriage is crazy.

00:11:08.000 Yeah, it really is.

00:11:10.000 I feel like even at the age that we're at, it's even harder just to be married so young.

00:11:15.000 But, I mean, originally from him, he was like, off the bat, like one of my really good friends, and I think Any relationship that starts off as friends is something that you treasure and you should hold because then you really get to know the person without any ulterior motives and I never had any ulterior motives with him.

00:11:36.000 I mean it's just like we automatically clicked and everything was completely like so magical like it was like super romantic and everything and I just I fell in love with that and um Did you friendzone him first?

00:11:49.000 No, I mean, we never really friendzoned each other.

00:11:52.000 It just never got past a certain point, you know?

00:11:55.000 Oh, okay.

00:11:55.000 Was he in the scene same time as you?

00:11:58.000 You all see him around.

00:11:59.000 You never, like, talked to him before?

00:12:01.000 No, I just, I literally, like, was walking over to the sushi place and I saw him in a Camaro with, like, three other friends who looked like they did TikTok and I was like, they look like an interesting crowd.

00:12:11.000 I'm gonna join them.

00:12:12.000 So you saw him for the first time when they were in the car, but then you didn't actually get to speak to him until the girl cut her foot.

00:12:18.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:12:19.000 And I think that was like, immediately I was like, okay, all of these guys have like some kind of aura that I'd like to discover.

00:12:24.000 Oh, you didn't know?

00:12:25.000 Okay, there you go.

00:12:26.000 I think we're going to figure out a lot of stuff that we don't know on this podcast.

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00:12:31.000 Okay, so...

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00:12:47.000 However, we're only going to read the ones that are 20 and up.

00:12:49.000 And I think we made that announcement earlier, right, Bill's Moe?

00:12:51.000 All right, cool.

00:12:52.000 I'm smelling green here, but okay.

00:12:54.000 For the panel, I want to know as well because they want to know, I'm pretty sure too, what's the main issue here with you guys right now?

00:13:00.000 For you and then for you, the main issue.

00:13:02.000 I think our main issue is just like a lot of like communication and like foundational issues.

00:13:08.000 Like I feel like he has a long way into like learning what it is to become a man, like truly become a man, like a high value man.

00:13:17.000 Can you lower the AC a little bit?

00:13:19.000 Yeah, we got you.

00:13:21.000 Yeah, Bill's is...

00:13:22.000 It's freezing.

00:13:24.000 Sorry.

00:13:24.000 And then ultimately, my battle is becoming a high-value woman.

00:13:29.000 That is what I want to do.

00:13:30.000 And I want to be in a traditional relationship where I have a high-value man and I'm a high-value woman.

00:13:36.000 And I think...

00:13:38.000 My definition of a high-value man is just someone that is a leader, is very intuitive with his girl.

00:13:46.000 I don't know how you feel on the topic of 50-50 and splitting bills, but I'm still figuring out exactly what I like.

00:13:54.000 Is it happening right now?

00:13:56.000 50-50?

00:13:56.000 Yeah.

00:13:57.000 Yeah.

00:13:59.000 And you don't like that?

00:14:00.000 I'm not the biggest fan of it, no.

00:14:03.000 So let me get this straight.

00:14:04.000 You guys live together?

00:14:05.000 Yes.

00:14:06.000 You guys live here in Miami?

00:14:09.000 Yeah, like Fort Lauderdale.

00:14:11.000 So I asked you earlier what you saw in him for long term, but you kind of call him not a man.

00:14:19.000 What's up with that?

00:14:21.000 Because he, I feel like, I think, I don't know, I feel like he presented himself a different way at the beginning, too.

00:14:28.000 And just, like, over time, it just got, like, less and less.

00:14:32.000 And I just, I really would love to fix that.

00:14:35.000 And, I mean...

00:14:36.000 Give us an example of something.

00:14:37.000 Yeah, one example of that happening.

00:14:40.000 Something that was present in the beginning but isn't present anymore.

00:14:44.000 Just a lot of respect is the biggest issue, I feel like.

00:14:48.000 I mean, I feel like both ways we don't respect each other as much as we should.

00:14:54.000 And I mean, I really would like to get to the bottom of that because I feel like what drives me insane or what drives me crazy and turns me into this crazy girl is just disrespect I don't like.

00:15:04.000 I don't like it.

00:15:05.000 Can you give us an example?

00:15:06.000 One example of disrespect so we could just put it into an actual...

00:15:10.000 Just getting into a fight and then insulting that person or something like that.

00:15:14.000 What does he call you?

00:15:16.000 Truncleta? 1.00

00:15:17.000 Stupid. 1.00

00:15:18.000 Stupid? 1.00

00:15:19.000 He says I'm stupid sometimes. 1.00

00:15:21.000 Is that the worst thing he calls you? 1.00

00:15:24.000 No, I definitely say the word.

00:15:27.000 The big word?

00:15:28.000 Yeah, I mean, I just started speaking in Spanish.

00:15:33.000 And when she gets mad, I mean, she talks with me in Spanish, but when she gets mad, she starts talking in English and insulting me in English. 0.89

00:15:42.000 Real quick, so you gave your issues, right?

00:15:44.000 That you want a traditional relationship, you want to be a leader, be more intuitive, understand things about you that doesn't have to necessarily be said, and you don't like the 50-50 split.

00:15:52.000 What are your problems with her?

00:15:54.000 What are my problems with her?

00:15:55.000 Yeah, because I want to be fair if we just asked her what her problems are and what are yours. 0.91

00:15:58.000 Well, I think my problems with her are like, I think she lacks a lot of maturity when it comes to, you know, a lot of situations.

00:16:10.000 Okay, can you give us like kind of an example so we're able to contextualize it?

00:16:14.000 Yeah, I mean, she seems like a kid in a lot of situations, like just regular situations, like getting up, I don't know, coming home, going out, I don't know, like behave.

00:16:27.000 So she still goes to the club?

00:16:29.000 No, we go to the club once a month, let's say.

00:16:33.000 Okay, together.

00:16:34.000 So what do you mean when you say by, like, give me an example of how she is immature or coming home. 1.00

00:16:39.000 What do you mean by that?

00:16:40.000 I don't know.

00:16:42.000 It's like a, I don't know, a childish behavior.

00:16:45.000 I don't know.

00:16:45.000 I can't give you like a...

00:16:47.000 Is it the arguments?

00:16:48.000 I think the biggest thing also, I should probably mention this, and I guess you can turn this into a mental illness episode if you would like. 0.99

00:16:56.000 No, she's crazy. 0.99

00:16:57.000 No, let me explain. 0.80

00:16:59.000 I have borderline personality disorder. 1.00

00:17:02.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:17:04.000 Wow. 1.00

00:17:06.000 Okay, so you have BPD. How'd you find out, by the way?

00:17:08.000 I got diagnosed.

00:17:10.000 Can you give us an example of how that, um, how it, uh, comes out?

00:17:15.000 Like, like, give us an example of how that would come out.

00:17:17.000 Um, I just have, like, severe attachment issues, like, anxious attachment issues, and just, like, the fear of abandonment is, like...

00:17:25.000 I see a little red flags.

00:17:27.000 If he leaves for, like, work, do you get, like, antsy?

00:17:30.000 A little bit.

00:17:31.000 Like, not really, but, like, a little bit.

00:17:33.000 Like, that's another thing that I would like to, like, establish is more, like, trust and, like, communication.

00:17:37.000 Like, trust and communication is something that I feel like we need, like, more in our relationship.

00:17:41.000 But you said you were friends first, which you built a connection, and that's an understanding.

00:17:46.000 And you got married.

00:17:47.000 So wouldn't the trust be already be there at that point because you know him very well?

00:17:51.000 Yeah, but I mean, I feel like there's things that we can, like, work on, you know?

00:17:54.000 Like, I feel like trust is, like, a slope, and sometimes it goes down, and then sometimes it's up.

00:18:00.000 I feel like she got obsessed with me at the beginning, and that is, like, a good thing, and also a bad thing.

00:18:06.000 Like, I don't know.

00:18:07.000 Everything has, like...

00:18:08.000 Good and bad.

00:18:09.000 Yeah, good and bad.

00:18:10.000 Everything is a jinjang for me.

00:18:11.000 So, yeah, like being here, I'm in the United States, and I came here alone.

00:18:15.000 Like, I made my new friends, and, you know, I made my own money here in the United States.

00:18:21.000 And, yeah, everything has—it's good and bad.

00:18:26.000 So you mentioned that she lacks maturity.

00:18:27.000 Yeah.

00:18:28.000 You told us, I guess, in a way, coming home and certain things that she does.

00:18:32.000 Anything else that you want to bring up that she does— Yeah, anything else she does that shows immaturity?

00:18:37.000 You dislike, yeah.

00:18:38.000 Because she voiced out what she doesn't like about you.

00:18:40.000 I can give you a specific example.

00:18:42.000 It's just like, it's unnecessary.

00:18:44.000 It's just like, I don't know, getting dressed, I don't know.

00:18:49.000 I guess it's not a big deal.

00:18:53.000 I mean, there's just small things that bother me.

00:18:56.000 But like...

00:18:58.000 She's good.

00:18:59.000 I mean, she's doing good.

00:19:00.000 The only thing I would like her to change is her opening her mind or her possibilities to do new things.

00:19:07.000 She's very close-minded in terms of, I don't know, she likes to work on a nine-to-five, I don't know, and not being an entrepreneur or not working on that or being super negative about a lot of things.

00:19:21.000 And I'm super positive about everything in life in general.

00:19:26.000 She doesn't like taking risks.

00:19:28.000 Entrepreneurial risks.

00:19:29.000 You don't like that.

00:19:30.000 She wants the stability of a 9 to 5.

00:19:32.000 You want to be a little bit more fluid with entrepreneurial ventures.

00:19:36.000 And also, your lifestyle requires you to be outside a lot.

00:19:39.000 Sometimes for work, for clients.

00:19:41.000 So her thing might be, she doesn't want you to go outside like that often.

00:19:45.000 Yeah, sometimes.

00:19:46.000 Is that real?

00:19:47.000 No, I don't have an issue with him doing what he does.

00:19:51.000 Just, I think sometimes it's a little weird.

00:19:54.000 Why is it weird?

00:19:56.000 One time we went to a business meeting at a strip club.

00:19:59.000 I think that's enough.

00:20:01.000 A business meeting at a strip club.

00:20:03.000 Well, you'd be surprised.

00:20:04.000 A lot of entrepreneurs and influencers and actually people of celebrity status have meetings in some of the strangest places possible.

00:20:12.000 That includes strip clubs, clubs, lounges, cigar bars, off the golf course, you know, parties.

00:20:18.000 It can be a funny situation, but I was telling her, hey, this is a business meeting.

00:20:23.000 I'm actually talking with a developer that is helping me with my app.

00:20:27.000 We were at the street club, whatever, but I was with her.

00:20:30.000 I got mad about that.

00:20:33.000 There's a world of people that actually do business in these places, just so you know.

00:20:40.000 Yeah, that is very true.

00:20:42.000 Because you're saying that she lacks maturity and haven't really been able to give us an example.

00:20:46.000 So let me give a scenario and you tell me if it's correct so that I can understand.

00:20:50.000 Let's say you do something that irritates her.

00:20:54.000 Is she likely to just lash out and just be emotionally erratic versus being calm? 1.00

00:20:59.000 Is it very hard for her to control her emotions?

00:21:01.000 Yeah, I think that's an example.

00:21:02.000 For example, she gets mad and she can't get past that situation.

00:21:07.000 Gotcha.

00:21:08.000 I mean, I'm really like, let's say I learned a new skill or I learned something from a situation.

00:21:13.000 And I get past that and I know.

00:21:16.000 And I learn from the situation and I keep going.

00:21:20.000 And I feel like she learns from something and she doesn't stick.

00:21:23.000 Let it go?

00:21:24.000 Yeah.

00:21:25.000 Does she bring up things that you did in the past that pissed her off?

00:21:30.000 Yeah.

00:21:30.000 Okay.

00:21:31.000 So...

00:21:33.000 Emotionally erratic and then brings up things from the past.

00:21:36.000 When you guys argue, what is it normally about?

00:21:39.000 Not most of the time.

00:21:41.000 A lot.

00:21:44.000 What's the most common?

00:21:45.000 Top two.

00:21:46.000 Yeah, give us top two or three.

00:21:48.000 That is an arguing point.

00:21:49.000 Is it bills?

00:21:50.000 Is it chores?

00:21:52.000 Because there's typically...

00:21:54.000 A root cause for most arguments is it is it maybe he's not doing enough chores.

00:21:57.000 Maybe you're splitting bills.

00:22:00.000 I feel like I do everything around the house like cleaning and cooking and stuff like that and I kind of just expect I feel like I feel like fifth in my foundational basis I feel like 50 50 isn't a hundred percent fair because I have to do like the housework you know like I feel like I'm basically paying to do the housework at this point and Like,

00:22:19.000 I have to pay for my cleaning supplies and just, like, pay to get the housework while he kind of sits on his PlayStation and I have to cook and clean and do stuff, you know?

00:22:29.000 So you do all the homemaking duties while also paying half the bills?

00:22:33.000 While paying the bills, yeah.

00:22:34.000 Okay.

00:22:35.000 So that's one arguing point.

00:22:37.000 What else is another one?

00:22:40.000 Another point of argument?

00:22:41.000 Yeah.

00:22:42.000 Let's say, no, sometimes I'm, like, emotional about certain things, let's say, but nothing is a big deal for me, and I don't really care about, like...

00:22:52.000 When you argue with her, what is it mostly about?

00:22:54.000 So she has her issue with going 50-50 and doing housework. 0.99

00:22:57.000 What's your problem with her if there's an argument? 1.00

00:22:59.000 Oh, dude.

00:23:01.000 Pfft.

00:23:04.000 When it comes to maturity, let's say a situation comes in.

00:23:07.000 I can't think of an example.

00:23:09.000 Let's say, I don't know, the light cuts off.

00:23:13.000 We have to do something about it.

00:23:16.000 Let's figure it out.

00:23:19.000 Where's the candles?

00:23:20.000 Let's stand up. 1.00

00:23:22.000 It's a stupid example. 1.00

00:23:24.000 She deals with the situations in the... 1.00

00:23:29.000 The wrong way, like she gets stressed, she cries, I don't know, she doesn't find solutions to the problem, you know?

00:23:36.000 Gotcha.

00:23:36.000 So that is lack of maturity.

00:23:39.000 So has the light ever cut off or you're just giving a random example? 1.00

00:23:41.000 It's a stupid example. 0.93

00:23:43.000 Okay, but your light hasn't cut off, but in general, if a problem comes, she responds emotionally to it and becomes very difficult to deal with. 1.00

00:23:43.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 1.00

00:23:50.000 You're looking for a solution and she's not helpful. 1.00

00:23:52.000 She's crying and being emotional.

00:23:54.000 Basically, you're trying to solve the issue, you're nonchalant, she's more emotional.

00:23:57.000 Yeah, I literally said that.

00:24:00.000 I feel like he just kind of stonewalls me and builds a gigantic wall that I just can't cross.

00:24:08.000 Let me preface this.

00:24:11.000 I think this man is the love of my life.

00:24:13.000 I love him so much.

00:24:15.000 I would do anything for him.

00:24:17.000 I'm so serious.

00:24:18.000 I would do anything for him.

00:24:20.000 You already did.

00:24:21.000 Yeah, he did.

00:24:23.000 You married him.

00:24:23.000 Okay.

00:24:25.000 But I love him so much and I would do everything for him and I just wish he was a little bit more appreciative of it.

00:24:31.000 I don't feel like my energy is being matched in terms of what I do.

00:24:35.000 Okay.

00:24:36.000 How can you match your energy, you think?

00:24:36.000 Alright.

00:24:38.000 How would you solve your issue by...

00:24:40.000 Just, like, being there for me a little bit more.

00:24:43.000 Like, I ask him for, like, flowers, and I haven't, like, received that.

00:24:46.000 Like, I just, like...

00:24:47.000 Like, you know, just, like, basic things, you know?

00:24:49.000 Like, holding the door for me.

00:24:52.000 Like, driving.

00:24:54.000 You know, kind of doing stuff that is, like, nice.

00:24:57.000 Making sure that I'm on the right side of the street.

00:24:59.000 Like, just, like, small things that you've, like...

00:25:02.000 Question for you.

00:25:03.000 You said you grew up in a two-parent household.

00:25:05.000 Was your father the primary breadwinner?

00:25:06.000 Yes, he was.

00:25:07.000 Did your mom work?

00:25:09.000 Yes, she did.

00:25:10.000 But did she do so, like, maybe in a way where it was elective? 0.77

00:25:10.000 She did? 0.77

00:25:13.000 Like, she didn't need to work, but she did anyway?

00:25:14.000 It was elective, yeah.

00:25:16.000 My mom, my dad is, like, he always has, like, he's always instilled in me, like, this provider mentality of, like, you know, men need to be protectors and providers, and I feel like my definition of a man, or, like...

00:25:30.000 Based off of your father.

00:25:31.000 Yeah, just based off of my father is someone who is a protector and a provider.

00:25:35.000 I don't know if you guys agree with that, but at least what other women are teaching me as well is that, you know, men need to be protectors and providers.

00:25:44.000 That's what you should search in a man. 0.66

00:25:46.000 So, with your dad, your mom worked, but she worked a side job, nothing serious.

00:25:52.000 He paid the majority of the bills.

00:25:53.000 Your mom could have quit at any time and been fine.

00:25:55.000 Yeah.

00:25:55.000 And he would have been able to take care of it.

00:25:56.000 Yeah, and he did, because my mom, she got diagnosed with a terminal illness.

00:26:02.000 So, you know, my dad held it down from there.

00:26:02.000 Okay.

00:26:05.000 Okay.

00:26:05.000 Right now, could you currently, I want to say, your current job, pay all the bills, if you wanted to?

00:26:11.000 Yeah, of course.

00:26:12.000 Why don't you?

00:26:14.000 This is your wife, right?

00:26:15.000 Yeah, it is.

00:26:16.000 Why not?

00:26:16.000 She is.

00:26:18.000 I'm just curious.

00:26:19.000 I mean, I just like to have my comfort zone.

00:26:26.000 I don't know.

00:26:28.000 I just like to keep working.

00:26:30.000 In Argentina, when couples are together, is it the man that normally takes care of the household?

00:26:36.000 Here's the thing.

00:26:36.000 No.

00:26:37.000 In Argentina, where I come from, if a guy meets a girl and they're boyfriend and girlfriend, they can split 50-50 everything and there's no issue about it.

00:26:48.000 I respect the hustle of a girl, and I respect the hustle of a guy. 1.00

00:26:51.000 I mean, I don't care if, for example, she always criticizes OnlyFans, like, oh, OnlyFans is this, like, bad thing.

00:26:58.000 And, you know, my ex-girlfriend was, like, a huge OnlyFans girl. 0.98

00:27:02.000 Oh, okay.

00:27:03.000 Yeah, I think I always, like...

00:27:06.000 I'm not going to lie, and I'm saying this publicly, I feel like I have to not compete with her, but I'm always like, what does he see in me if his last girl...

00:27:15.000 I'm a traditional woman.

00:27:16.000 I don't have any plastic surgery.

00:27:19.000 I'm a normal girl. 1.00

00:27:22.000 But his ex, and I don't want to seem insecure about it at all, but his ex is this girl with huge tits and a big ass and does OnlyFans, and I just feel like that is so... 1.00

00:27:31.000 Wait, is she blonde? 1.00

00:27:32.000 Yeah.

00:27:33.000 Yeah.

00:27:34.000 Beach blonde. 0.97

00:27:35.000 Is she from Argentina?

00:27:36.000 Yeah.

00:27:36.000 She's like, top zero.

00:27:37.000 Bro! 1.00

00:27:39.000 What the fuck? 1.00

00:27:40.000 What? 1.00

00:27:41.000 Are you subscribed?

00:27:43.000 No!

00:27:43.000 Okay, okay, okay.

00:27:44.000 I know her.

00:27:46.000 Oh, you probably...

00:27:47.000 Do you? 1.00

00:27:49.000 Oh, shit, nigga. 1.00

00:27:50.000 Top zero. 1.00

00:27:51.000 Yo, okay.

00:27:52.000 Continue, continue.

00:27:54.000 Okay, all right.

00:27:55.000 Oh my god, what did this turn into?

00:27:57.000 Black twist! 1.00

00:27:58.000 Wait, so you probably seen my dick. 1.00

00:28:01.000 No, definitely not, bro. 1.00

00:28:03.000 I've seen other stuff. 0.99

00:28:04.000 Okay, so she's a porn star then, clearly. 1.00

00:28:06.000 Yeah, she's a porn star. 1.00

00:28:08.000 She was making, let's say, I'll give you this example. 0.64

00:28:10.000 She was making a lot of money, much more than me at the moment in Argentina.

00:28:14.000 So I got used to the idea of, like, you know, a girl... 0.98

00:28:19.000 Earning a lot of money.

00:28:20.000 Okay, and we splitting the bill 50-50 even though she earned more than me.

00:28:24.000 Okay, okay.

00:28:25.000 So you would say like this...

00:28:27.000 Did that relationship make it solidify in your head like it's okay to split bills with women? 1.00

00:28:33.000 I mean, yeah.

00:28:34.000 And where I'm from, to be honest, it's common to split the bill 50-50.

00:28:39.000 I mean, I can take her out to dinner.

00:28:41.000 I understand that.

00:28:42.000 But that relationship, 50-50, why did that relationship end then?

00:28:46.000 She was really manipulative. 0.60

00:28:50.000 I don't know.

00:28:50.000 She controlled me.

00:28:51.000 She had a camera on my apartment.

00:28:53.000 We have different apartments.

00:28:55.000 So she put a camera in your apartment? 1.00

00:28:57.000 Because she thought you were cheating? 1.00

00:28:57.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:28:59.000 Exactly.

00:29:00.000 I wasn't.

00:29:00.000 Were you actually?

00:29:01.000 You weren't?

00:29:02.000 I swear to God.

00:29:03.000 Did you discover the camera?

00:29:05.000 She was cheating on you. 1.00

00:29:08.000 This is my theory.

00:29:10.000 She was so insecure about herself.

00:29:14.000 She was making good money.

00:29:18.000 She is still making a lot of money.

00:29:21.000 I'm going to sip my tea.

00:29:24.000 Yeah, she was a lot of things. 1.00

00:29:26.000 She was really insecure about like, I don't know, the relationship.

00:29:29.000 Me cheating on her.

00:29:31.000 And she put a camera on my apartment. 0.84

00:29:33.000 In your apartment.

00:29:34.000 And you didn't know about.

00:29:35.000 No, I knew about.

00:29:36.000 Oh, you knew it?

00:29:37.000 Yeah, it was in front of my face.

00:29:39.000 Why'd you allow it?

00:29:40.000 Yeah, I think it was my problem.

00:29:44.000 I mean, I agree to that.

00:29:46.000 You agree to it?

00:29:47.000 Yeah, just to stay with her.

00:29:48.000 So she gave you an ultimatum.

00:29:50.000 If you don't put this camera in your apartment, we're done.

00:29:53.000 Yeah.

00:29:53.000 Okay, and you agreed to it.

00:29:55.000 Who broke up the relationship?

00:29:56.000 You or her?

00:29:57.000 No, I ran away, dude. 0.98

00:29:58.000 She was crazy.

00:29:59.000 So you ran away?

00:30:00.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:30:01.000 So were you out together and then you just said, fuck it, bought a ticket and came to the United States? 1.00

00:30:06.000 Something like that. 0.99

00:30:07.000 So you never even called her and said, we're done?

00:30:09.000 No, no, no.

00:30:12.000 We were definitely done.

00:30:15.000 Is that her?

00:30:16.000 No, it's not her.

00:30:18.000 I feel like the only way out for me was the United States.

00:30:22.000 Because if I stayed in Argentina, I can go to every party.

00:30:27.000 Because in Argentina we only go to, let's say, elite parties, the best parties.

00:30:31.000 They're private events.

00:30:33.000 And every weekend.

00:30:35.000 In Argentina they party a lot.

00:30:37.000 She will be there every weekend to every party, so I can't have fun in this country, you know?

00:30:42.000 It's like in Buenos Aires, it's like the capital.

00:30:45.000 Yeah, she was at every party. 0.89

00:30:46.000 Did that piss you off that she was at every party?

00:30:49.000 Yeah.

00:30:50.000 I couldn't have fun. 0.99

00:30:53.000 And everybody was hitting on her and shit like that. 0.99

00:30:56.000 Yes, but she was with me, so she was very respectful. 0.96

00:31:00.000 Okay, let me ask you this then.

00:31:02.000 Was she doing pornography when you met her? 1.00

00:31:04.000 Yeah, of course. 0.70

00:31:04.000 She already was? 0.70

00:31:05.000 Yeah.

00:31:06.000 Did that bother you?

00:31:07.000 Not at all.

00:31:07.000 I mean, I respect 100% the hustle of a girl.

00:31:10.000 If a girl wants to make money, she can do anything she wants as long as she's not doing anything with a guy. 1.00

00:31:17.000 But pornography is with a guy.

00:31:19.000 Thank you.

00:31:20.000 Please tell him.

00:31:21.000 I don't like to change people.

00:31:25.000 I'm all for not changing people's mentality, but I have tried to tell him this.

00:31:30.000 Can you agree that doing pornography with your couple is fine, but I mean, the difference for me is you're not doing anything in person with another guy.

00:31:44.000 But you're chatting with them, right?

00:31:47.000 That's not cheating for me.

00:31:49.000 But you also don't know if she was shooting content with other guys before you came in.

00:31:53.000 And also, OnlyFans, you sent private videos.

00:31:55.000 Yeah.

00:31:56.000 So, she could be sending other stuff that you don't know about.

00:31:59.000 Yeah, I mean, she was, I mean, the thing is, her OnlyFans was so big that she had people working on, their OnlyFans, like, she wasn't, like, in charge of selling.

00:32:08.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:32:09.000 Okay, okay.

00:32:09.000 You get this.

00:32:10.000 Okay, very, very interesting.

00:32:12.000 Are your parents together still?

00:32:13.000 No, no.

00:32:14.000 They're divorced?

00:32:15.000 Yeah, I mainly grew up with my mom.

00:32:18.000 Do you know your father?

00:32:18.000 Okay.

00:32:20.000 Did you ever meet him?

00:32:21.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:32:22.000 How old were you when they divorced?

00:32:24.000 I was a kid.

00:32:27.000 I was like five.

00:32:28.000 Okay.

00:32:29.000 Do you talk to your dad often or no?

00:32:31.000 No, I don't talk with my dad.

00:32:32.000 You don't have a relationship with him at all?

00:32:33.000 No.

00:32:34.000 Okay, so your mom raised you.

00:32:35.000 Yeah, 100%.

00:32:36.000 Did your mom tell you, did she instill values that men are supposed to provide and protect? 0.81

00:32:43.000 Or was she more like, hey, equal 50-50, partnership?

00:32:47.000 That's why this is the thing.

00:32:49.000 I really respect my mom.

00:32:51.000 She raised me.

00:32:53.000 She's really proud of me because I'm here.

00:32:55.000 I'm successful and everything.

00:32:57.000 She does split 50-50 with her husband at the moment, and I respect that. 0.99

00:33:03.000 She got fired of her job recently, and she's doing things as an entrepreneur, and I'm glad.

00:33:14.000 She's helping her husband, and they're working together, they're making money together, and they're paying the bill together.

00:33:21.000 So your mother's relationship now is more like equal partnership and that's kind of what you've been used to?

00:33:27.000 Yeah, my whole life.

00:33:28.000 I mean, I get the thing.

00:33:30.000 I'm not stupid.

00:33:31.000 I came to Miami and all of the sudden is like, hey, here's how we do it.

00:33:37.000 The man has to pay the bills and the woman has to stay home and raise the children. 1.00

00:33:42.000 And you don't believe in them?

00:33:43.000 You don't like it?

00:33:44.000 I mean, I respect, I mean, that can be, and if both, I mean, they both and the couple agree, I don't see any problem with that.

00:33:51.000 There's a saying, hold on, real quick.

00:33:53.000 So, you understand and you acknowledge it, but you don't believe in it?

00:33:57.000 I mean, I believe in that.

00:33:58.000 I just like a woman who works for her money. 1.00

00:34:01.000 I just don't like a woman. 1.00

00:34:02.000 So even though you acknowledge that the traditional relationship is okay, you don't disagree with it, it's not what you do.

00:34:09.000 Yeah.

00:34:09.000 Okay, fair.

00:34:10.000 So there's a saying, what the Romans do.

00:34:13.000 Now in this case, this is your wife.

00:34:14.000 Yeah.

00:34:15.000 Why her though?

00:34:16.000 Because she is the opposite opinion.

00:34:20.000 Yeah.

00:34:20.000 I mean, that's what I'm saying.

00:34:22.000 Everything is good and the bad.

00:34:24.000 I mean, her mom always tells her, like, your man has to pay everything.

00:34:30.000 And I'm like, okay, this is it.

00:34:33.000 I mean, I can pay for everything, but, like, that will not, like, let you progress in life.

00:34:38.000 Like, you have to do something for your own.

00:34:40.000 Like, as little as, you know, making $1,000, $2,000 a month, you have to do that.

00:34:45.000 You know what I mean?

00:34:46.000 Do you want it to work?

00:34:46.000 Hold on.

00:34:48.000 Work?

00:34:49.000 I mean, I don't...

00:34:49.000 I mean, I'd rather her not working, but like...

00:34:52.000 No, no.

00:34:52.000 Do you want this to work together?

00:34:53.000 Like, this relationship?

00:34:54.000 Yeah.

00:34:54.000 I mean, that's why I'm here.

00:34:56.000 So, question for you.

00:34:57.000 Yeah.

00:34:58.000 This might sound mean, but did you marry her for a green card? 1.00

00:35:01.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:35:02.000 No. 1.00

00:35:03.000 No, but like, that helps.

00:35:04.000 I mean, she was actually one that proposed me to marry.

00:35:08.000 Oh, so you brought it up.

00:35:08.000 Yeah.

00:35:09.000 Yeah.

00:35:10.000 Because you want him here to stay.

00:35:11.000 Yeah.

00:35:12.000 That's what I'm saying.

00:35:12.000 She got obsessed.

00:35:15.000 Just out of curiosity, did you come on a visa or did you come on a non...

00:35:19.000 Because Argentina, if I'm not mistaken, is a visa waiver.

00:35:21.000 You didn't need a visa to come, right?

00:35:22.000 No, I had to get a visa.

00:35:24.000 You did get a visa.

00:35:25.000 Yeah, I had to get a visa in the United States consul, whatever, in Argentina, to stay here.

00:35:32.000 But did you enter with a visa is my question.

00:35:34.000 Yeah, I entered with a visa.

00:35:35.000 You entered with a visa.

00:35:36.000 A B1B2? Yeah.

00:35:37.000 A B1B2. Alright then.

00:35:39.000 And then, obviously, you probably had to go back and you were like, hey...

00:35:43.000 I don't want you to leave.

00:35:44.000 I love you.

00:35:45.000 And you guys got married.

00:35:46.000 I mean, I didn't propose, by the way.

00:35:46.000 Yeah.

00:35:49.000 Let me just straighten that out.

00:35:50.000 I did not propose.

00:35:52.000 I don't believe in that.

00:35:53.000 That's obviously like...

00:35:54.000 What he meant by that I proposed is that I kind of told him like, hey, I know your situation and then I want to help you.

00:36:02.000 Like, you're the love of my life.

00:36:03.000 I can't have a relationship with the love of my life being in a different country.

00:36:08.000 I don't believe in like...

00:36:10.000 Long distance.

00:36:11.000 Like, I just...

00:36:11.000 Long distance.

00:36:12.000 I don't think...

00:36:13.000 You proposed the idea of getting married.

00:36:15.000 Yeah, I did.

00:36:16.000 But he proposed in his own time and everything.

00:36:19.000 It's a genuine marriage.

00:36:21.000 Trust me, we've seen fake marriages.

00:36:23.000 Clearly you guys actually are together.

00:36:25.000 You guys actually do love each other.

00:36:27.000 Usually it's the other way around where the girl is using the guy to get in or whatever. 1.00

00:36:31.000 But in this case, you love him, you care about him, you propose the idea, you propose to you.

00:36:34.000 So I understand it's definitely legit in that regard.

00:36:36.000 And just fact check, Argentina is not a visa waiver country.

00:36:38.000 Thanks, Moe.

00:36:39.000 I don't want to add as well.

00:36:40.000 They did mention they want to do couples therapy before they came to the show, which means they actually want to actively work on this themselves.

00:36:40.000 What?

00:36:47.000 Yes.

00:36:47.000 Outside of Fresh and Fit.

00:36:48.000 That's actually a good thing.

00:36:48.000 Yeah, they're going to do it.

00:36:49.000 They're going to go to therapy, which I think is actually a good idea.

00:36:51.000 Yeah.

00:36:52.000 Depending on who you go with.

00:36:54.000 I have some questions.

00:36:55.000 No, please keep going.

00:36:56.000 No, let's do some chats first.

00:36:57.000 I am actually shocked at that answer, by the way, that he gave earlier about the green card.

00:37:02.000 What?

00:37:05.000 We'll get to that here in a second.

00:37:07.000 Okay, go ahead.

00:37:09.000 Okay, Fresh.

00:37:10.000 I have a buddy, 22, who's dating and taking serious a 42-year-old woman who's a nurse with two baby daddies.

00:37:17.000 He moved in with her, and I tried to put him on to you guys.

00:37:20.000 He wasn't with it.

00:37:21.000 It really shows a lot of men aren't RP aware.

00:37:24.000 Yeah, man.

00:37:25.000 Some guys aren't.

00:37:26.000 Yeah.

00:37:27.000 Okay, what else do we got here?

00:37:29.000 I am Davey, 50 bucks goes, WFNF, 24 years old, going to hit 50K in the bank by January.

00:37:33.000 How can I grow up more, keep up the work, boys?

00:37:35.000 Keep that money on the side, bro, and then go ahead and start saving more money to invest into.

00:37:40.000 That's your emergency fund, my friend.

00:37:43.000 Taj goes, Myron, I have my oral board interview for the police department tomorrow morning.

00:37:47.000 Are there any last minute tips, advice you can give me, excluding suit slash tie and doing research on a department I feel very confident right now, but I would love your expertise.

00:37:55.000 Um...

00:37:56.000 Bro, just be calm, go in there, get a good night's sleep, and then they're going to ask you questions about your moral character and everything else like that.

00:38:04.000 Be okay with telling the truth, like, hey, there was this one time where I was conflicted, etc., but I wanted to do X, but I ended up doing Y. That's very important, because they are probably going to ask you a question that is integrity-based like that.

00:38:15.000 So just have a story ready to go in your head, where you were tempted to do something and you didn't.

00:38:21.000 Free Truman Show.

00:38:22.000 It should be required for newly married couples to watch RP content after marriage.

00:38:26.000 You get a year to divorce without losing anything.

00:38:28.000 Women would still be up to trickery. 1.00

00:38:30.000 At least a man would have a true chance. 1.00

00:38:35.000 People aren't ready for the RP, bro.

00:38:36.000 Trust me.

00:38:37.000 Do you guys have a prenup?

00:38:39.000 No?

00:38:39.000 No.

00:38:40.000 What is that?

00:38:41.000 Like a...

00:38:42.000 He doesn't even know what it is.

00:38:44.000 So basically, it's a document that you can write up with a lawyer.

00:38:46.000 It kind of has like a protection for each party.

00:38:48.000 So if you have like real estate or assets, they're protected in a way.

00:38:53.000 Interesting.

00:38:53.000 No, we don't have it.

00:38:54.000 I don't have it.

00:38:55.000 Who makes more money? 0.99

00:38:57.000 I do.

00:38:58.000 You do?

00:38:58.000 Okay.

00:38:59.000 Okay.

00:39:02.000 Approximately 50% of marriages are sexless.

00:39:04.000 Would be interesting to see episodes regarding this issue as many men are quietly suffering.

00:39:08.000 Dad Starting Over would be a good YouTube channel to interview.

00:39:10.000 Thanks for what you all do.

00:39:12.000 Appreciate that, Tregona.

00:39:14.000 Yeah, maybe we could do that.

00:39:15.000 Mo, can you pull up that channel and save it on the side?

00:39:21.000 What up, FNAF gang?

00:39:22.000 I'm an average Asian male and making 55k a year, 55 foot 8, 35 years old, 180 pounds, body count of 3, happily married with our 4 biological kids.

00:39:33.000 Where are we at here?

00:39:34.000 To an average Asian woman whose body count of 3, 33 years old, 5 foot 240 pounds. 0.99

00:39:39.000 Alright.

00:39:39.000 That's very detailed, bro.

00:39:40.000 Yeah, that's very detailed. 1.00

00:39:41.000 But, bro, you're fat as fuck at 180 pounds and 5'8", man. 0.99

00:39:44.000 You need to lose way some weight. 1.00

00:39:45.000 Black Nazi goes, someone tell her, you can only be a high-value woman if you can lock down a high-value man. 1.00

00:39:51.000 This... 0.99

00:39:52.000 This nigga Tony Hawk better run while he can. 1.00

00:39:55.000 What the fuck? 1.00

00:39:56.000 That's so funny. 1.00

00:39:57.000 They call him Tony Hawk because he's a skater.

00:39:59.000 I do skate.

00:40:01.000 That's funny, bro.

00:40:02.000 Skateboard?

00:40:02.000 That's so funny.

00:40:03.000 That's funny. 0.99

00:40:04.000 Igrunt goes, yo, that alien looking ass 304 has a five head, a huge nose. 1.00

00:40:08.000 Hope you're paying extra rent for all the space that empty container is taking up. 1.00

00:40:10.000 God damn. 1.00

00:40:12.000 Bear goes, narcissist BPD. These are extremely rare disorders are used by women every day to excuse bad behavior. 1.00

00:40:18.000 You were diagnosed by a psychiatrist using a DSM-5, receiving therapy, meds.

00:40:23.000 Yes, yes, and yes.

00:40:24.000 Okay.

00:40:25.000 Did you know this before you married her?

00:40:27.000 Uh, no.

00:40:29.000 Yes.

00:40:29.000 It was a trap.

00:40:30.000 No.

00:40:32.000 It was literally...

00:40:33.000 You triggered my trap card!

00:40:34.000 Wait, you didn't tell him?

00:40:35.000 It was the first thing I told him.

00:40:37.000 It was the first thing, literally.

00:40:39.000 Literally, first date.

00:40:40.000 Well, you gotta make it, I wanna say, repetitive because...

00:40:44.000 I made it repetitive.

00:40:45.000 He doesn't understand what it is.

00:40:48.000 He thinks it's all in my head and that I've crafted this. 0.96

00:40:51.000 But no, obviously my upbringing kind of fucked me up a little bit. 0.95

00:40:54.000 And now I have a personality disorder. 0.86

00:40:56.000 But at the same time, I don't excuse my bad behavior with what I have.

00:41:01.000 I just kind of, you know, I treat it.

00:41:04.000 Question, and you guys don't have to be super accurate about this, but what is total yearly income between the two of you?

00:41:14.000 Probably like 70 to 100k.

00:41:19.000 Okay, it fluctuates that much.

00:41:20.000 Yeah, 70 to 100k.

00:41:22.000 A year.

00:41:22.000 Okay.

00:41:23.000 And you guys are young, so that's not bad.

00:41:25.000 And he's the predominant breadwinner?

00:41:26.000 Yeah.

00:41:27.000 Now, if needed, and you asked this before, he could take care of both of you.

00:41:32.000 However, I'm assuming you said it wouldn't be comfortable.

00:41:34.000 It would be like, you know, pretty much...

00:41:36.000 Too much. 0.99

00:41:37.000 You'd be able to do it, but y'all would be basically like paycheck to paycheck, that type of shit. 0.99

00:41:41.000 Yeah, I don't want to do that. 0.97

00:41:42.000 I mean, I want to just save a little bit of money.

00:41:44.000 Okay.

00:41:45.000 You'd be able to do it, but you wouldn't be able to save.

00:41:47.000 Yeah, probably.

00:41:47.000 And you're renting, right?

00:41:48.000 Yeah, we rent.

00:41:49.000 Okay.

00:41:50.000 Okay.

00:41:50.000 And they're Fort Lauderdale.

00:41:52.000 Just so the audience understands, Fort Lauderdale is about 30 miles from here.

00:41:56.000 Similar cost of living to Miami.

00:41:58.000 It's not cheap.

00:41:58.000 It's not cheap either.

00:42:01.000 You guys have a one or two bedroom apartment, I'm guessing?

00:42:04.000 Yeah.

00:42:04.000 Two bedroom?

00:42:05.000 One bedroom, yeah.

00:42:06.000 One bedroom, let me guess, 3K? Something like that a month?

00:42:08.000 2K, yeah.

00:42:09.000 2.2.

00:42:11.000 2.2?

00:42:11.000 Yeah.

00:42:12.000 Oh, that's actually pretty good.

00:42:13.000 Yeah, 2.2, yeah.

00:42:14.000 We wanted to move to more close to Miami, like Sunny Isles, and pay like $2.5, like $300 more, and we're living in Sunny Isles, much better, I think.

00:42:26.000 Okay.

00:42:27.000 You're closer to the beach, are you?

00:42:29.000 Go ahead, Mo.

00:42:30.000 You look closer to the beach?

00:42:32.000 For a lot of the area?

00:42:33.000 Yeah, I like the beach.

00:42:36.000 Okay, alright then.

00:42:38.000 So, I mean, okay, so you guys could live on one income, it's just that you would have to bring down your quality of life.

00:42:44.000 You wouldn't be able to save money.

00:42:46.000 You'd have to maybe not, you wouldn't be able to do certain things that you guys normally do?

00:42:50.000 Yeah.

00:42:51.000 Okay.

00:42:51.000 I just bought a new car also.

00:42:53.000 Okay.

00:42:54.000 What car is it?

00:42:54.000 I just bought a BMW C4 2020.

00:42:58.000 Cool.

00:42:58.000 It's not relatively new.

00:43:00.000 Is it Lisa or...

00:43:01.000 No, I just paid it off.

00:43:02.000 Paid off cash?

00:43:03.000 Yeah.

00:43:03.000 Nice, man.

00:43:04.000 Thank you.

00:43:05.000 Okay, question real quick.

00:43:06.000 So your ex, because I don't mean to go into this deeper, but I actually do know her.

00:43:11.000 You do know her?

00:43:12.000 Yeah, I know her. 1.00

00:43:13.000 Shut up. 1.00

00:43:13.000 No way. 1.00

00:43:14.000 That's so funny.

00:43:15.000 I'm in the circles that, you know...

00:43:17.000 Yeah, yeah, probably.

00:43:20.000 So what if, right, she didn't have, like, issues mentally?

00:43:25.000 Would you have married her?

00:43:28.000 What?

00:43:28.000 I'm sorry, again?

00:43:29.000 For example, she's crazy. 1.00

00:43:31.000 100%. 1.00

00:43:31.000 No, no. 1.00

00:43:32.000 Her.

00:43:33.000 Oh, my ex? 1.00

00:43:33.000 Yeah, she's crazy. 1.00

00:43:34.000 Oh, yeah, she is. 0.99

00:43:35.000 What if she was, like, sane?

00:43:37.000 Would you have married her?

00:43:40.000 Yes.

00:43:41.000 Yeah?

00:43:42.000 Yes.

00:43:43.000 Okay.

00:43:43.000 So question.

00:43:44.000 With her.

00:43:45.000 What made you choose her? 0.98

00:43:46.000 Because I should have made this like a baseline here because obviously speaking, she's definitely crazy. 1.00

00:43:51.000 But for you, like you're doing things that like she doesn't want you to do.

00:43:55.000 And I asked you a question earlier.

00:43:57.000 Do you want to make it work?

00:43:58.000 So if you want to make it work, why not do what she wants you to do?

00:44:01.000 I'd be a man.

00:44:02.000 For her.

00:44:03.000 Yeah, you're absolutely right.

00:44:04.000 Because she's your wife. 0.88

00:44:05.000 Yeah, you're right.

00:44:05.000 I mean, I want to make this work, so I guess we have to find our right balance.

00:44:10.000 That's why I always talk about the Jinjang. 1.00

00:44:12.000 I always have a title on my skin.

00:44:15.000 And, yeah, we have to find our right balance.

00:44:18.000 I mean...

00:44:19.000 It's hard.

00:44:20.000 I mean, it's hard to be a housewife, you know?

00:44:22.000 I mean, I love the single life.

00:44:26.000 I love, you know, to go out every nightclub, you know, flirt with every girl.

00:44:32.000 That's a really good lifestyle for me.

00:44:34.000 It was for years, but, like, I was looking for a girl to, you know, to get married and just to have, like, a quiet life, not to get out, you know, to party every day.

00:44:45.000 Do you think you're happy right now with Bianca?

00:44:49.000 Or do you miss partying, having fun?

00:44:51.000 Be honest.

00:44:52.000 No, no, no.

00:44:53.000 I am happy.

00:44:55.000 I am happy and I want to be more happy.

00:44:59.000 So my way to make it work is like, you know, stop arguing.

00:45:05.000 She having more mature like behavior. 0.98

00:45:09.000 She having more like an open mind.

00:45:13.000 And I'm doing more things that she likes.

00:45:15.000 She wants me to open her door every day.

00:45:18.000 I mean, sometimes I'm working on my phone 24-7.

00:45:21.000 I literally work on my phone every time, and I have to do everything.

00:45:27.000 Sometimes I can't drive because I have to work.

00:45:29.000 There's like a 40-minute drive to Miami, and she has to drive.

00:45:33.000 And I'm like, okay, you don't even have a job right now.

00:45:36.000 You don't do nothing.

00:45:37.000 At least you cook, drive.

00:45:41.000 I mean, the minimum.

00:45:42.000 This is before when she didn't have a job. 0.94

00:45:44.000 What?

00:45:44.000 This is before when she, because she has a job now, but you're saying like back before when she didn't have a job.

00:45:48.000 Yeah.

00:45:49.000 Okay.

00:45:49.000 I mean, and yeah, pretty much I have to work on my phone, so literally, if she wants me to, you know, be more kind, buy her little flowers or whatever, I can do that.

00:46:00.000 I mean, I know she loves me and I love her, but like, it's hard when you like live together for months, you know?

00:46:09.000 Also, I'd like to mention, and you guys are, everyone in the chat's gonna, like, the chat's gonna blow up.

00:46:15.000 We moved in three weeks of dating.

00:46:19.000 Okay.

00:46:19.000 Like, we moved in together, like, after three weeks of dating.

00:46:22.000 Okay.

00:46:22.000 We went to New York with her parents.

00:46:23.000 Yeah, we, like...

00:46:25.000 Bruh.

00:46:25.000 I feel like we hit the ground, like, running, because, like...

00:46:29.000 We met.

00:46:29.000 Our first date, he asked me to be his girlfriend.

00:46:32.000 Like, literally, our first date.

00:46:33.000 Wait, what?

00:46:34.000 First date, he asked me to be his girlfriend.

00:46:35.000 On your birthday?

00:46:36.000 On my birthday, yeah.

00:46:37.000 Okay.

00:46:39.000 Tony Hawk, what's going on, bro?

00:46:40.000 I don't know.

00:46:41.000 I like to do tree flips and kick flips.

00:46:44.000 I don't know.

00:46:44.000 And, okay, so he asked me out.

00:46:46.000 And then I was like, do you want to come to, like, my family trip with my parents?

00:46:51.000 Like, two weeks.

00:46:53.000 Like, literally, like...

00:46:54.000 What does your father do, by the way?

00:46:56.000 My father has his own construction company.

00:46:58.000 Okay.

00:46:59.000 So your family's well off?

00:47:01.000 Middle class.

00:47:03.000 I mean, if he owns a construction company, he ain't no middle class, bro.

00:47:05.000 He has his own carpentry company.

00:47:08.000 He does everything, though.

00:47:11.000 He has employees and stuff?

00:47:12.000 Yeah, he has two employees.

00:47:14.000 Two employees, but they do contracting and everything else like that?

00:47:16.000 Yeah.

00:47:17.000 Okay.

00:47:19.000 He's well off.

00:47:20.000 Yeah, he's well off.

00:47:21.000 He's able to provide a situation where your parents...

00:47:24.000 To this day, he's always like...

00:47:26.000 My dad is one of the number one people in my life.

00:47:29.000 I respect him so much.

00:47:30.000 I look up to him beyond belief to this day.

00:47:33.000 Where do your folks live?

00:47:34.000 Here in Florida or are they up in New York?

00:47:35.000 Yeah, here.

00:47:36.000 They live five minutes away from us.

00:47:37.000 Okay.

00:47:38.000 Alright.

00:47:39.000 But it was just a family trip to New York then?

00:47:41.000 Yeah.

00:47:41.000 Okay.

00:47:42.000 It was a family trip to New York.

00:47:43.000 He came and he left a good impression and then in New York we had an Airbnb together for like a week and we were just like I wanted to get out of my parents house I was just eager to get out of my parents house and he was like I need a place to live and I was like It's convenient.

00:47:58.000 Okay, it's convenient.

00:47:59.000 Like, let's do it together.

00:48:01.000 And originally, the agreement was that he was going to pay a little more rent than I was.

00:48:05.000 But it just turned, like, split.

00:48:10.000 You know how I mentioned, like, she just got out of her parents' house, you know?

00:48:16.000 So when you guys met, you were living with your parents?

00:48:19.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:48:20.000 Okay.

00:48:21.000 So she's experimenting the life, you know, of being independent and living alone.

00:48:26.000 Is this the first time that you've lived alone?

00:48:27.000 Yeah.

00:48:28.000 By the way, or lived not under your parents' house?

00:48:30.000 Yeah.

00:48:30.000 Did you live in dorms when you were in college before?

00:48:32.000 I did not, no.

00:48:33.000 You lived at home and you commuted to campus?

00:48:35.000 Yeah.

00:48:36.000 How many, because you're 23, so how many more years do you have left in school?

00:48:41.000 I have like a year left.

00:48:42.000 I took a gap.

00:48:43.000 I was going to say you took a break?

00:48:44.000 Yeah.

00:48:45.000 I also started later because, remember, I'm the military girl.

00:48:50.000 I was in the Navy.

00:48:51.000 Do you remember that?

00:48:53.000 It was a while ago.

00:48:54.000 It was a while ago.

00:48:55.000 It was last year.

00:48:56.000 But I was in the military, but I had an injury and I couldn't continue my service.

00:49:02.000 How long were you in?

00:49:04.000 I think six months.

00:49:06.000 Okay.

00:49:06.000 You got a medical discharge?

00:49:07.000 Yeah, I got a medical discharge and...

00:49:10.000 So I started college a little later.

00:49:13.000 Okay.

00:49:13.000 Yeah, that's why.

00:49:14.000 It's taken a while.

00:49:16.000 Sorry, you were saying something?

00:49:16.000 No, the thing is, for me, I've been hustling for literally years.

00:49:20.000 And I've been making my own money, let's say, eight years and living alone in Argentina.

00:49:26.000 And I have my own story in progress.

00:49:30.000 And yeah, I just feel a little bit more mature in terms of living.

00:49:35.000 Yeah, you've been on your own for longer.

00:49:36.000 Yeah, I have my own career, let's say.

00:49:40.000 And...

00:49:40.000 Yeah, I don't know.

00:49:41.000 So, I have my notes, everything in my head of what's happening here.

00:49:46.000 Do you?

00:49:46.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:49:47.000 You can go ahead and you want to take it first?

00:49:50.000 Yeah.

00:49:50.000 Or should we read the chats first?

00:49:52.000 Mo, you call it.

00:49:53.000 The chat?

00:49:54.000 Before...

00:49:54.000 It's just one?

00:49:56.000 Okay, I see it right here.

00:49:57.000 Aaron Carter has risen from the dead and started dating Peyton Manning's forehead.

00:50:00.000 Man, y'all niggas, man. 1.00

00:50:02.000 Okay.

00:50:03.000 So, before we start to close this off a little bit here.

00:50:06.000 So, in this case...

00:50:08.000 You both know what you need to do, right?

00:50:10.000 Now, you mentioned being more of a man, buying flowers, opening the door.

00:50:15.000 It sounds easy to do, but you're not doing it for some reason, right?

00:50:18.000 You mentioned, I guess, being less emotional, being more, I want to say, understanding yourself.

00:50:25.000 Anything else you think you could do to make it better yourself?

00:50:29.000 Yeah, for sure.

00:50:30.000 I would say the biggest thing that I need to work on, and I express this to him all the time, I don't think the problems in our relationship are one-sided. 1.00

00:50:41.000 I'm not that type of girl to be like, it's your fault, you're a piece of shit. 1.00

00:50:45.000 I'm not like that. 1.00

00:50:46.000 You do say that when you're arguing, right?

00:50:48.000 What?

00:50:49.000 You say that when you're arguing, right?

00:50:50.000 No, like, I guess like being disrespected a little bit kind of just like pushes you to say that because I feel like a lot of the reason why girls act, why they act or why women act very emotional is just I feel like they're being pushed to that point.

00:51:07.000 That's toxic.

00:51:08.000 Oh my god. 1.00

00:51:08.000 So he's, but your biggest thing is that you didn't, I wrote this down earlier, is that he calls you stupid or he belittles you. 1.00

00:51:14.000 Yeah, I don't like that. 1.00

00:51:15.000 What does she say that makes you say that she's stupid? 1.00

00:51:18.000 Is it valid? 1.00

00:51:19.000 Pendejo.

00:51:19.000 It's not about what I say, it's about what I do.

00:51:22.000 Okay, what does she do that makes you say you're stupid? 1.00

00:51:24.000 Like, I'll like drop some keys and he'll be like, you're stupid. 1.00

00:51:27.000 Uh, I don't know. 1.00

00:51:28.000 Pendeja.

00:51:28.000 I don't remember specifically, but yeah, something like that probably.

00:51:31.000 Payasa.

00:51:32.000 Payaso.

00:51:33.000 Okay.

00:51:34.000 Sorry, continue on first.

00:51:35.000 No, no.

00:51:35.000 Okay, so what can you do as well to make this work?

00:51:41.000 One more thing.

00:51:42.000 Yeah, I mean, thank you.

00:51:43.000 I mean, thank you for, like, honestly trying to make this work because it ends up, like, helping us.

00:51:50.000 And, yeah, I mean, I can be more of a man for her, like, buying her flowers, doing more details for her.

00:51:57.000 Hold on, do you want to be, though?

00:51:59.000 Because, see, this premise here, this foundation has to be from the very beginning.

00:52:03.000 Because if it's not in you...

00:52:06.000 Are you going to do it now?

00:52:07.000 Probably not.

00:52:08.000 You might do it for a little bit, and you stop.

00:52:10.000 Because I'm sure at the beginning, things weren't as like, I want to say flat out how they are now.

00:52:14.000 Let me ask you a question.

00:52:15.000 Let's say, or you guys.

00:52:17.000 If you want to impress a girl, let's say, for the first time, let's say, and you take the girl out, you buy everything for her, obviously. 0.84

00:52:25.000 If you want to be like, you know.

00:52:28.000 I know where you're going with this, but go ahead.

00:52:31.000 Yeah, like, you date her for a week.

00:52:35.000 You go all out.

00:52:36.000 What?

00:52:37.000 You go all out for the girl.

00:52:38.000 Yeah, you know what I'm saying?

00:52:40.000 So, yeah, I think that after the time, it fades a little bit, but you can get to a mutual agreement of, you know, the respect and, you know, the interest about the other person.

00:52:53.000 So, basically, you love-bombed her for like a week or two and said, okay, I got her now.

00:52:57.000 I'm about to get married. 1.00

00:52:58.000 Fuck this shit, nigga. 1.00

00:52:59.000 I'm in. 1.00

00:52:59.000 I'm already in this. 1.00

00:53:00.000 Locked in.

00:53:01.000 Okay.

00:53:02.000 So, again, I bring this to you because, honestly speaking, bro, it happens to most guys. 0.80

00:53:07.000 You put in the work at the beginning, you get her, you relax, it gets complacent, and then she's like, damn, nagging you a little bit, nudging you, like, hey, could you do this, could you do that?

00:53:16.000 Do you agree with that, what he just said? 0.97

00:53:18.000 Yeah, I feel like naggy wife is kind of the role that I've taken up and I don't like it. 1.00

00:53:23.000 What is that naggy wife? 1.00

00:53:24.000 She keeps telling you things back to repeating herself like, hey, can you do this for me? 0.98

00:53:28.000 Do that for me?

00:53:29.000 Oh, just do this.

00:53:30.000 Change this.

00:53:31.000 It's always coming back the same thing over and over again.

00:53:35.000 Yeah, probably.

00:53:36.000 Yeah.

00:53:37.000 So, again, I just think here, in this situation, you guys did it too early.

00:53:42.000 Because, for one, you don't know who she is, and you don't know who he is.

00:53:47.000 Because he portrayed a picture of himself.

00:53:49.000 As you can see, he either gave you some hints of who he is as a person, but I think it's time.

00:53:54.000 I'm moving in, in three weeks, it's crazy, dawg.

00:53:57.000 Like, yo, like...

00:53:58.000 Yo, I bought a dog.

00:54:00.000 They didn't live with me, but he was outside the first four weeks.

00:54:04.000 I couldn't imagine another human being.

00:54:09.000 Off rip, I will say this.

00:54:10.000 I'm glad you guys are together.

00:54:12.000 Thank you.

00:54:13.000 But you have a lot of work to do, as you guys know.

00:54:15.000 But more importantly...

00:54:17.000 As an individual, you need to understand him, you need to understand her.

00:54:21.000 But that only comes with time.

00:54:23.000 And being together that close at the very beginning, you can't possibly learn somebody, you know, the right way.

00:54:29.000 Because what's happening here is, you're seeing her for who she is, but you're not ready for her.

00:54:33.000 Because, I'll tell you this.

00:54:35.000 As a leader, as a man, being someone that's married to a woman, you have to understand that you have to be that guy who's going to take care of the family, be there for her.

00:54:42.000 And yes, I get you're from Argentina.

00:54:44.000 It's not the same over there.

00:54:45.000 But you're in Rome, bro.

00:54:46.000 You're in the U.S. You've got to conform to something.

00:54:48.000 Now, as a man, if you don't want to do that, then she's not for you.

00:54:52.000 And as a woman, if you want your man to be along those lines of a leader and be an actual high-value man, then you chose the wrong person because if he doesn't want to change, then what'd you do?

00:55:02.000 So I think on some level, You guys have a love there, but the understanding and the foundation is rocky.

00:55:08.000 And if you don't change now, it won't get any better for the future.

00:55:12.000 And to be honest with you, I think he's comfortable where he's at.

00:55:15.000 You want him to do better, but is he going to change?

00:55:17.000 Probably not.

00:55:18.000 Thank you.

00:55:18.000 Yeah, I want her to step on, you know, and be on my level.

00:55:21.000 And, you know, if I make, let's say, I make a thousand dollars a day, she needs to, you know, be motivated by that and say, okay, I can do like 200, 500, let's say. 0.87

00:55:30.000 No, no, but you're seeing the point.

00:55:31.000 I didn't say that.

00:55:32.000 I'm sorry.

00:55:32.000 She needs to come on your level.

00:55:32.000 I was saying that you don't understand her.

00:55:34.000 That's the problem.

00:55:35.000 I got it.

00:55:35.000 And she doesn't understand you.

00:55:36.000 So you want her to do better, but she wants you to do better by two different things.

00:55:40.000 So, I'm saying in a nutshell, that right now, you both want different things that you can't give each other.

00:55:46.000 And as a result, what's gonna happen is, more arguments, more toxic environments, and if you don't fix it now, I wanna say the foundation, it's never gonna work out.

00:55:55.000 Question, you said you bought that BMW, right, cash?

00:55:58.000 Yeah.

00:55:58.000 How much did it cost you?

00:55:59.000 40.

00:56:00.000 So you paid 40k cash?

00:56:01.000 Yeah.

00:56:02.000 Okay.

00:56:03.000 Alright.

00:56:04.000 Do you have anything else for it?

00:56:05.000 Or no, you were trying to say something, right?

00:56:06.000 I don't think so.

00:56:09.000 I just want to hear your take on what I just said.

00:56:11.000 Does that make sense?

00:56:13.000 Yeah, I mean, I think the biggest thing is, like I said, it's not a one-sided thing.

00:56:18.000 I just think we both, it's not him he needs to change.

00:56:21.000 I think we both need to change.

00:56:22.000 I need to make strides towards being a more high-value woman.

00:56:25.000 I want to, you know, control my emotions.

00:56:29.000 Just be more in my feminine energy, but it's hard to be in your feminine energy when he's not in his masculine energy.

00:56:37.000 And I just feel like it's not a criticism.

00:56:39.000 I just feel like, you know, he can do more strides to do that.

00:56:42.000 I feel like, as a woman, I feel like when you're in a relationship, the man should be a leader.

00:56:48.000 He's the alpha.

00:56:49.000 He should, but nowadays, are most men that way?

00:56:51.000 No.

00:56:52.000 Alright, let me give my take on it.

00:56:54.000 Please.

00:56:55.000 So I'm just going to be very, very blunt here.

00:56:58.000 I don't mean to be offensive here, but I'm going to be very honest about the situation from going through everything here.

00:57:08.000 She's looking for a provider. 1.00

00:57:09.000 You're looking for a partner.

00:57:10.000 The two don't coincide.

00:57:12.000 You're looking for someone who's equal to you or someone that's going to also be a potential breadwinner.

00:57:16.000 She's looking for someone to take care of her and that's going to be a masculine leader. 1.00

00:57:20.000 And the problem is that you...

00:57:24.000 You're not ready, at this point, just from some of your behaviors, you're not ready to really take on a woman as a husband.

00:57:32.000 You still have some party stuff that you want to do.

00:57:36.000 You're just not really responsible.

00:57:38.000 You spend $40,000 on a BMW cash when you're in a marriage with a girl. 0.71

00:57:41.000 And the thing is, too, is that she's taking an enormous risk on you.

00:57:45.000 She married you.

00:57:46.000 She's helping you with your immigration status.

00:57:49.000 She's basically deferring to your authority. 1.00

00:57:51.000 And the reason why she's so... 1.00

00:58:00.000 We're good to go.

00:58:15.000 Whenever you look at a woman and she's frustrated or she's in a situation and she's nagging or whatever, a lot of the time it's because the man isn't doing his job.

00:58:23.000 Now, does that mean that she's off the hook?

00:58:24.000 No, she has some things that she has to work on as well with the BPD and everything, but your inadequacies are bringing you out even more so because you're not doing your job, so it's heightening her instability.

00:58:36.000 I feel like I can't be a completely feminine woman and just be in my feminine energy of just mothering something or being...

00:58:44.000 Because how am I going to mother something if I have to constantly worry about, oh, how am I going to pay this bill?

00:58:50.000 How am I going to pay this?

00:58:51.000 It's not about being a gold digger.

00:58:53.000 I hate gold diggers. 1.00

00:58:54.000 I'm not a gold digger.

00:58:56.000 But as a woman, I feel like you need to know your value and your worth.

00:58:59.000 And I feel like...

00:59:01.000 Being a woman of in itself is a job. 1.00

00:59:03.000 You have to be a nanny. 1.00

00:59:04.000 You have to be a cleaner. 0.96

00:59:06.000 You have to be a psychologist.

00:59:07.000 You have to be there for your man.

00:59:09.000 And providing for her financially is not a burden.

00:59:13.000 It's not a gold digging thing.

00:59:14.000 You're supplying and you're supplementing all of these things.

00:59:18.000 You're paying for all these things.

00:59:19.000 I understand your perspective 100%.

00:59:20.000 But the thing is that you guys are looking for different things.

00:59:23.000 You're looking for a traditional man. 0.96

00:59:25.000 Unfortunately, he's not a traditional man.

00:59:26.000 At least not yet.

00:59:27.000 He's looking for a 50-50 partnership.

00:59:31.000 And the other telling thing, too, is that you want to be able to save money, and you don't really want to be a breadwinner yourself.

00:59:37.000 You want to be able to kind of make money, save as much of it, and then have her chip in with the bills, which I understand, but that's not what she wants. 0.99

00:59:44.000 So you guys are looking for two different things.

00:59:46.000 She's looking for a traditional masculine figure, and you're more of like a more modern man, which, unfortunately, I'm going to give you some advice here.

00:59:55.000 Most women, even the most liberal women, believe what she believes.

00:59:58.000 Even a girl that has a career that makes a bunch of money, she's still going to want you to make more money, bro. 0.98

01:00:02.000 Let's get something straight.

01:00:03.000 I still want a career, and I'm still trying to push in that direction of being a career.

01:00:08.000 That proves my point.

01:00:09.000 Even with you being someone who's more modern, you still want a man to provide for you. 0.99

01:00:13.000 He also expects me to just have this millionaire mentality of just having a million dollar business.

01:00:21.000 And I feel like I'm being pressured to do that instead of being pushed in that direction.

01:00:25.000 See, you guys start a company together?

01:00:28.000 No.

01:00:28.000 Wait, no, no, hold on, hold on.

01:00:29.000 This is like an analogy here.

01:00:32.000 Two of you start a company with two different mission statements.

01:00:36.000 Yours is 50-50. 0.83

01:00:38.000 Yours is, he's the CEO. But as a result, the business is shaky because it's two different statements.

01:00:45.000 So I'm just saying to say, like you said earlier, you're on two different playing fields here.

01:00:49.000 And if you don't catch up to each other or make a compromise, it won't work.

01:00:53.000 Well, yeah, I mean, it's just very, very simple.

01:00:56.000 I mean, bro, I'm just being a thousand percent with you.

01:00:58.000 Like, you're not really mature right now.

01:01:00.000 You're like a kid, bro.

01:01:01.000 You're like a kid, dude.

01:01:02.000 Which is fine.

01:01:03.000 Thank you for the...

01:01:05.000 I mean, I was listening the whole time.

01:01:06.000 Thank you for the perspective, and I think you're absolutely right about, like, what you say.

01:01:11.000 I thought about it.

01:01:12.000 And...

01:01:14.000 Yeah, I mean, we had, like, a rocky, like, beginning.

01:01:20.000 And we found out, like, we have different, like, mindsets.

01:01:25.000 Her mom, like, taught her about, like, you know, having, like, a marriage where the guy pays everything.

01:01:31.000 And I came from, like, an entrepreneur, like, group where, like, everyone...

01:01:37.000 Aaron's money.

01:01:37.000 I don't care if you're a woman or a guy.

01:01:39.000 You can make money.

01:01:40.000 She sometimes makes, for example, excuses about, hey, I'm a woman.

01:01:43.000 I can't make that money.

01:01:45.000 And I'm like, dude, are you kidding me?

01:01:48.000 I don't say that, but thank you.

01:01:51.000 I don't think I've ever said that in my entire life.

01:01:54.000 This is an example.

01:01:56.000 She's getting excuses like, hey, I'm a woman. 0.56

01:01:59.000 I can't make that money.

01:02:00.000 Never said that.

01:02:01.000 She did.

01:02:02.000 She said, men make more money than women. 1.00

01:02:05.000 I'm like, dude, she had tits. 1.00

01:02:06.000 She can do OnlyFans and make a lot of money. 1.00

01:02:08.000 But she doesn't want to do that.

01:02:10.000 I don't want to do that.

01:02:11.000 I don't want to do that.

01:02:12.000 I love...

01:02:13.000 I'm all for women who do OnlyFans. 0.99

01:02:15.000 That's not what I want to do.

01:02:17.000 That's not something I want to do.

01:02:18.000 I respect that.

01:02:19.000 Look, look, look, man.

01:02:20.000 I'm just going to be, again...

01:02:23.000 You need to man up. 1.00

01:02:25.000 You're kind of a bitch. 1.00

01:02:27.000 I'm not gonna lie. 1.00

01:02:28.000 I'm just gonna tell it like it is.

01:02:30.000 You got a girl.

01:02:31.000 She's married to you.

01:02:32.000 She's helping you stay in the country.

01:02:33.000 She is petitioning for your green card.

01:02:36.000 She's taking an enormous amount of risk on you, and what she wants in return is a leader, a guy that's gonna take care of her, a guy that's gonna be dominant, a guy that's gonna be assertive.

01:02:43.000 Looking at your girl and saying, hey, keep up with me, make money with me, Do you want another dude? 0.89

01:02:49.000 I mean, you're the man, bro.

01:02:50.000 That's what I'm saying.

01:02:50.000 You're the man.

01:02:51.000 You're the leader.

01:02:51.000 You dictate everything.

01:02:53.000 You should be telling her what it is.

01:02:54.000 You should be the breadwinner.

01:02:55.000 You should be taking care of her. 0.99

01:02:56.000 I mean, bro, spending 40K on a BMW when you have a wife at home is ridiculous. 0.99

01:03:00.000 That's crazy, bro. 0.95

01:03:01.000 Thank you.

01:03:02.000 Thank you for your advice.

01:03:03.000 You're living like you're single.

01:03:04.000 And then the other thing, too, is that you're responsible for her now. 1.00

01:03:07.000 You're a fucking man, bro. 1.00

01:03:08.000 You need to behave like a man. 1.00

01:03:10.000 I feel like girls have this thing where they like to turn their brain off when they're with their man because they know their man has got it. 1.00

01:03:18.000 He's got it.

01:03:19.000 He knows where to go.

01:03:20.000 He has everything planned.

01:03:21.000 I feel like I have to take on that role of knowing where I have to go, having everything planned, and it's exhausting.

01:03:29.000 I feel like I'm doing everything.

01:03:30.000 I understand that.

01:03:31.000 Sometimes.

01:03:32.000 And that's why, dude, that's why she's nagging you. 1.00

01:03:34.000 She's nagging you because you're not doing your job as a man.

01:03:36.000 Like, I get it.

01:03:36.000 When you're dating, you guys want to go 50-50 feeling it out.

01:03:39.000 That's cool.

01:03:39.000 But, dude, you just literally, y'all got married.

01:03:42.000 It's now, it's changed.

01:03:44.000 Now you have to step up.

01:03:45.000 And it's up to you, bro.

01:03:45.000 Like, if you don't want to step up and you're like, okay, you know what?

01:03:47.000 Nah, I kind of want to do this 50-50 thing. 0.55

01:03:49.000 Then be prepared for her to be nagging you, to be mad all the time, not be fulfilled, etc.

01:03:53.000 But women want a dominant leader and you might not be that guy yet. 1.00

01:03:56.000 Let me give you the forecast, right?

01:03:57.000 Because obviously speaking, there's a lot to take in.

01:03:59.000 Yeah, yeah.

01:04:00.000 We're just being honest with you, bro.

01:04:01.000 I'm a dude.

01:04:01.000 You're a dude.

01:04:02.000 You know, we're all dudes here, bro.

01:04:03.000 We understand the struggle, bro.

01:04:04.000 We want to live our life.

01:04:05.000 Thank you.

01:04:06.000 Get lit.

01:04:06.000 Have fun.

01:04:07.000 So, here's the forecast, bro.

01:04:08.000 Right?

01:04:09.000 Yeah, I made bad decisions.

01:04:11.000 Hold on.

01:04:12.000 A year pass.

01:04:13.000 Two years pass.

01:04:14.000 You know, hopefully you're still together.

01:04:16.000 And, you know, she's still nagging you.

01:04:18.000 You're still doing anything.

01:04:19.000 And you break up.

01:04:20.000 But now you're in the country.

01:04:21.000 You're good to go.

01:04:22.000 You leave.

01:04:23.000 You do your thing.

01:04:24.000 Or you make a change here and you say, you know what?

01:04:28.000 I'm going to be the man that she wants me to be or for myself.

01:04:31.000 Just be that man.

01:04:32.000 And you stay together.

01:04:33.000 So again, it's up to you, bro, as a man, if you want to say what you want to do.

01:04:36.000 But if you really love her, you make a change.

01:04:38.000 If you don't, then...

01:04:39.000 And here's the thing.

01:04:40.000 You need to make the change.

01:04:41.000 And I'm going to tell you why.

01:04:42.000 Yeah.

01:04:42.000 It's not even about doing it.

01:04:44.000 Of course, you should do it.

01:04:45.000 You guys are together.

01:04:45.000 You should do it, like, you know, for the betterment of the marriage.

01:04:48.000 But the point I'm trying to make is you need to change anyway, because let's say you leave her.

01:04:52.000 Next girl you get is also going to want you to be a leader. 1.00

01:04:54.000 And I know you're saying like, oh, I want a girl that's a hustler that makes money. 0.99

01:04:57.000 That's fine.

01:04:58.000 Guess what happens when a girl becomes a hustler and makes money? 1.00

01:05:00.000 She wants you to make even more money. 0.99

01:05:02.000 I mean, you were in that relationship with that porn star. 0.88

01:05:04.000 She was bossing you around. 1.00

01:05:05.000 She put a camera in your fucking house and you sat there and said, hold on. 1.00

01:05:07.000 She was bossing me around. 1.00

01:05:08.000 Yeah, she was bossing you around. 0.83

01:05:09.000 But you know why she was bossing you around? 1.00

01:05:10.000 Because she made more money than you, bro. 0.99

01:05:11.000 Yeah.

01:05:12.000 And anytime a girl's able to boss you around, she loses attraction for you. 1.00

01:05:14.000 So the point I'm trying to make is this.

01:05:15.000 Let's say you find this girl that's a go-getter that motivates you, that makes money, etc. 0.97

01:05:18.000 She's going to still expect you to make more money.

01:05:20.000 So you need to man up regardless. 1.00

01:05:22.000 Because if it doesn't work out with her, the next girl's going to want the same shit. 1.00

01:05:24.000 Yeah, and I tell him, all girls are like that. 1.00

01:05:27.000 You know what he says?

01:05:28.000 You know what he says indiscreetly?

01:05:30.000 And I don't mean to call you out, but he thinks being a provider and being a provider for a man is prostitution.

01:05:38.000 No, I don't think so.

01:05:39.000 No, he says this all the time. 0.75

01:05:40.000 He's like, oh, you want a man that, like, being a man that pays everything for his girl, that's prostitution because you're exchanging sex for money, which is, it's not that. 0.59

01:05:50.000 It's not, I don't feel like it's that.

01:05:51.000 I mean, no, it can be different.

01:05:53.000 I mean, if a guy pays everything for a girl and a girl is using the guy for that, for me, it's like paying for it.

01:05:58.000 But I'm not using you.

01:05:59.000 I'm not using you.

01:06:01.000 No, no, you're not.

01:06:02.000 See, I get what you're saying, because most girls, I'm not gonna lie, bro.

01:06:05.000 But she's your wife, bro. 0.99

01:06:05.000 I'm not paying shit. 0.99

01:06:07.000 This is actually your girl. 1.00

01:06:08.000 This is your wife.

01:06:09.000 You know, granted, your ex-girl, bro, I actually know her.

01:06:12.000 And it's funny because you said you were with her, right, bro?

01:06:14.000 But you know what's funny about that whole scenario?

01:06:16.000 She was controlling you. 0.99

01:06:17.000 Yeah, 100%.

01:06:18.000 I believe that.

01:06:19.000 She felt like she deserved it.

01:06:20.000 You know why?

01:06:21.000 She made more money than you. 0.99

01:06:23.000 Yeah.

01:06:23.000 So in that reality right there, even though she's paying half and half with you, she's trying to control you.

01:06:27.000 And in that sense right there, what does that mean? 1.00

01:06:30.000 If you leave her, like he said before, next girl is going to do the same shit. 1.00

01:06:34.000 Bro, all girls want the same... 1.00

01:06:36.000 Like, they'll sit there and say, I'm a boss babe or whatever, but they all want you to be a leader. 0.99

01:06:39.000 So you might as well figure this out now and understand that I'm the fucking man, I'm the leader, etc. 0.99

01:06:43.000 You just got to be more mature. 0.99

01:06:44.000 I mean, it's crazy to me that you spent 40k cash...

01:06:47.000 On a car when you have a wife at home, bro. 1.00

01:06:49.000 Like, that money should have been saved as an emergency fund.

01:06:52.000 Like, you just gotta move smarter and be more intelligent.

01:06:54.000 Like, do you really need a BMW? Do you really need a car like that?

01:06:57.000 Well, thank you.

01:06:57.000 Thank you for that.

01:06:58.000 I mean, I just wanna have fun a little bit and then save.

01:07:01.000 I mean, I just wanna have the mentality of, you know, I spent 40K, I can make 40K. Bro, fuck your fun, man. 1.00

01:07:06.000 Yo. 1.00

01:07:06.000 In your 20s as a man, you should be sacrificing and grinding. 1.00

01:07:09.000 You shouldn't be drinking.

01:07:10.000 You shouldn't be partying.

01:07:11.000 You shouldn't be running around.

01:07:11.000 You know what I was doing when I was 24 years old?

01:07:13.000 I was arresting terrorists.

01:07:14.000 I was working every day.

01:07:16.000 I was working 70, 80 hour weeks.

01:07:17.000 I was kicking doors in, arresting some of the worst people of the worst.

01:07:20.000 I was putting pedophiles away.

01:07:22.000 At 24, I had to decide, okay, I'm either going to become a man or I'm going to continue to be a boy.

01:07:26.000 And I forced myself to mature.

01:07:28.000 And that's what you have to do, man.

01:07:29.000 You need to literally take your 20s and grind. 1.00

01:07:32.000 Like, fuck having a car, fuck partying, fuck drugs, fuck all this other dumb shit. 1.00

01:07:36.000 You should literally be at home, working with your wife, building a legacy, right? 1.00

01:07:40.000 Because you decided to get married, and she took an enormous amount of risk on you, getting you a green card, letting you stay here, right? 0.65

01:07:46.000 Where there's more opportunity than in Argentina.

01:07:49.000 And you gotta pay it back, man.

01:07:51.000 You gotta step up and be a man, bro.

01:07:52.000 You need to sacrifice your 20s as a man.

01:07:54.000 You're not a woman. 1.00

01:07:55.000 You need to build your legacy now while you're young and you're able-bodied.

01:07:58.000 And I feel like being married to him this young...

01:08:01.000 I want to reiterate that we did not get married for the immigration thing.

01:08:06.000 We just genuinely have a lot of love for each other.

01:08:09.000 And we have connected on a different level.

01:08:11.000 And that's the real reason we got married.

01:08:14.000 But...

01:08:16.000 I think the roles have kind of interfered.

01:08:21.000 And I feel like that's why I can't be...

01:08:22.000 Well, there is no role.

01:08:23.000 That's the problem.

01:08:23.000 There's no defined roles here.

01:08:25.000 Exactly.

01:08:25.000 I feel like as a woman, I have my roles and I have my responsibilities.

01:08:29.000 For me to be in my feminine energy, I need to complete those roles and responsibilities.

01:08:34.000 But I can't do that if I'm constantly thinking about where to get money from.

01:08:40.000 Okay, let's play this out real quick.

01:08:42.000 If he doesn't change, would you leave?

01:08:45.000 I want to say no, because it's been an issue for, like, ever.

01:08:49.000 And I've never left.

01:08:50.000 I mean, we've both done a lot of things to each other, and none of us have left.

01:08:55.000 And I think that shows, like, commitment to the relationship and just making it work.

01:08:59.000 If she doesn't change, would you leave?

01:09:03.000 Here's the thing.

01:09:04.000 I want this to work, right?

01:09:07.000 So, if she wants me... 1.00

01:09:12.000 What's your favorite color?

01:09:13.000 Blue.

01:09:14.000 Green.

01:09:14.000 Go ahead.

01:09:16.000 For Rumble?

01:09:17.000 Okay, rumble.com.

01:09:19.000 Yeah, I want a change for her, and I want her to change for me. 0.91

01:09:24.000 So, I want to make this work.

01:09:26.000 I mean, I'm going to be honest.

01:09:29.000 I mean...

01:09:31.000 I have always been honest with her.

01:09:33.000 I mean, it's not like, hey, I'm a scammer.

01:09:34.000 I'm like, hey, I want you for your green card, so I'm not going to behave that way for a certain amount of time until I get my green card and then I'm gone.

01:09:42.000 No, I'm transparent and I'm always going to be honest with her.

01:09:47.000 And I'm the way I am.

01:09:49.000 And yeah, for the 50-50 thing, I think it's fair. 0.99

01:09:52.000 And...

01:09:53.000 Well, look, we spoke about it on the show.

01:09:55.000 You guys have your both, I guess, issues you brought up.

01:09:58.000 We found a several line here where you can make a change for each person, but ultimately it's up to you.

01:10:03.000 50-50 is unacceptable, bro.

01:10:05.000 I think it's unacceptable.

01:10:07.000 You think so?

01:10:07.000 If you want her to do what she's supposed to do, you want her to be your wife, you want her to stay, like, you know, cook and clean for you, et cetera, while you play PlayStation, it costs to be the boss, man.

01:10:16.000 You can't sit there and play PlayStation and then go 50-50 with her and then expect her to do what she's supposed to do. 0.61

01:10:22.000 You need to do your job and then that allows her to do her job. 0.97

01:10:24.000 Okay.

01:10:25.000 Let's say, okay, I'm going to say that.

01:10:27.000 I'm going to say this.

01:10:28.000 If she expects me to change that way, I can do that.

01:10:32.000 I can do that.

01:10:33.000 But I expect her to change as well in terms of maturing and, I don't know, being more professional about her life.

01:10:43.000 Well, here's the thing, bro.

01:10:44.000 She's not going to flip out as much if you're doing what you need to do.

01:10:46.000 Naturally.

01:10:47.000 It's just natural.

01:10:48.000 Like, she's going to be in her feminine state, and she's going to be less likely to nag you or whatever when you're doing what you're supposed to do. 1.00

01:10:53.000 If you're paying all the bills, you take care of her.

01:10:54.000 She's sitting at the house.

01:10:55.000 She's chilling.

01:10:56.000 She's taking care of your stuff.

01:10:57.000 She's washing your underwear. 1.00

01:10:58.000 She's cooking and cleaning. 0.98

01:10:59.000 You're going to have everything ready for you when you show up.

01:11:01.000 She's not in a position. 0.94

01:11:01.000 She can't argue with you. 0.94

01:11:02.000 And if she does, you can tell her, shut up. 1.00

01:11:04.000 What are you talking about? 0.99

01:11:05.000 And that's the thing.

01:11:06.000 You need to have that...

01:11:08.000 You need to have that leverage with your woman. 0.81

01:11:10.000 The problem is that you don't have any real leadership skills right now.

01:11:14.000 And she's frustrated from that.

01:11:15.000 And that's why I manifest...

01:11:16.000 Again, you got some issues that you got to deal with as well.

01:11:19.000 Of course, yeah.

01:11:19.000 With going to therapy and everything else to help that.

01:11:21.000 But at the same time, the woman is the representative of her leader.

01:11:24.000 And right now she doesn't have one.

01:11:25.000 Bro, no matter what girl you date, 50-50 won't work. 0.71

01:11:28.000 And it's crazy because that chick that you were talking to before... 1.00

01:11:31.000 Yeah.

01:11:31.000 I've seen her before.

01:11:33.000 Multiple times.

01:11:33.000 Really?

01:11:34.000 In Argentina?

01:11:35.000 No.

01:11:35.000 Oh, in OnlyFans.

01:11:36.000 What are in social media?

01:11:38.000 Social media.

01:11:39.000 Oh, yeah.

01:11:40.000 Translation, she was talking to other men when she was with you because you weren't doing what you're supposed to do.

01:11:43.000 DMs.

01:11:44.000 No.

01:11:44.000 No way.

01:11:45.000 Yes.

01:11:46.000 And that's what happens when you're not the guy.

01:11:49.000 That's impossible.

01:11:50.000 I believe that because I had her account the whole time in the whole relationship in my phone and she had my Instagram account.

01:11:56.000 But when you broke up?

01:11:58.000 What?

01:11:58.000 You still have it now?

01:12:00.000 What?

01:12:00.000 You still have it now?

01:12:01.000 No, obviously not.

01:12:03.000 I don't care what she did after we breaking up. 0.89

01:12:06.000 Well, you broke up before, way before, but you just didn't know.

01:12:10.000 Bro, I had her Instagram.

01:12:11.000 You're talking for the cloud.

01:12:14.000 But yeah.

01:12:14.000 Alright, man.

01:12:15.000 Whatever you say, bro.

01:12:16.000 But yeah, I mean, the relationship was really, like, controlling.

01:12:20.000 Like, I had her Instagram.

01:12:21.000 She had my Instagram.

01:12:22.000 I had her location on 24-7.

01:12:24.000 She had my location.

01:12:25.000 She had a camera on me. 0.91

01:12:27.000 I didn't have a camera on her apartment.

01:12:28.000 But, like...

01:12:30.000 And here's the other thing too, bro.

01:12:31.000 I gotta tell you.

01:12:32.000 Men and women are not equal. 1.00

01:12:33.000 You have this mindset of men and women are equal.

01:12:35.000 I have your location.

01:12:36.000 You have mine.

01:12:37.000 You make money.

01:12:37.000 I make money.

01:12:38.000 That's not how it goes, bro.

01:12:39.000 You need to be the leader.

01:12:42.000 Your way or the highway.

01:12:43.000 We don't negotiate with women. 1.00

01:12:44.000 You need to learn the skill set.

01:12:45.000 And I get it.

01:12:45.000 You're young.

01:12:46.000 You grew up in a single mother household. 0.96

01:12:49.000 You've seen equality work to some degree maybe with your mom.

01:12:53.000 But that's not how it works in general, man.

01:12:55.000 Most of them want a breadwinner.

01:12:56.000 So, like, whether it's with her or with another woman, regardless, every girl, regardless how much money they make, always wants a breadwinner, wants a leader. 1.00

01:13:02.000 I'm just realizing this, and yeah, thank you.

01:13:05.000 The thing is, when I was in Argentina, let's say, living a single life, when I paid everything for a girl, I was like, in my mindset, it was like, okay, I'm impressing this girl, I'm paying for the apartment, I have... 0.84

01:13:17.000 I used to rent like the luxurious apartment in Argentina and I had a really nice car in Argentina and I was like if I pay everything for a girl it's for me to impress that girl for like temporary time and then I kick her out and I keep going with my work and that's how life is and that's that's here's the thing bro I'm not telling you to pay for every girl like don't do that shit I'm saying this is your wife Yeah. 0.96

01:13:40.000 This is different, bro. 0.92

01:13:41.000 This isn't like a random bimbo or whatever. 1.00

01:13:43.000 This is your wife and she's taking some pretty serious steps to be together.

01:13:46.000 Also, the mindset is, do it for yourself.

01:13:49.000 Like, if you're gonna be a leader, you're gonna be a man, you want control, you gotta pay the price.

01:13:58.000 I think I lack some leadership skills.

01:14:03.000 You're young.

01:14:04.000 It's going to take time.

01:14:05.000 Bro, we were there.

01:14:07.000 I'm 10 years older than you, pretty much.

01:14:08.000 How old are you?

01:14:09.000 I'm 33.

01:14:10.000 I remember when I was 24, right? 1.00

01:14:13.000 I had to fight being immature and doing stupid shit. 1.00

01:14:16.000 Luckily, my job forced me to mature, but you might not necessarily have that right now, but you just need to do it, bro. 1.00

01:14:21.000 Because the thing is that you decided to marry her.

01:14:23.000 Now you have responsibilities.

01:14:25.000 Yeah.

01:14:25.000 You know, you have someone that you need to take care of because that's what you committed to.

01:14:29.000 And I can tell you, bro, I got married young.

01:14:31.000 Well, pretty young.

01:14:31.000 You got married?

01:14:32.000 22. 1.00

01:14:33.000 Oh, shit. 0.99

01:14:33.000 I was married, and I realized it wasn't for me, and I left. 0.99

01:14:36.000 But again, that was me being mature, so you know what?

01:14:39.000 I made a mistake here.

01:14:40.000 You know, granted to her, she wanted me to do better as well, but it wasn't in me.

01:14:46.000 So I had to step away and say, you know what?

01:14:47.000 I can't do this.

01:14:48.000 I gotta bounce.

01:14:49.000 I mean, that's fine.

01:14:50.000 That's a smart move also.

01:14:51.000 I mean...

01:14:52.000 But for you, leaving probably is an option because she's actually genuinely there for you.

01:14:58.000 I'm positive.

01:15:00.000 It doesn't matter what I do, she won't leave me.

01:15:04.000 She's obsessed.

01:15:07.000 I can do anything.

01:15:09.000 That's why I'm relaxed.

01:15:12.000 I'm chill.

01:15:13.000 Yeah, that's the issue.

01:15:16.000 Yeah, I mean, I think she's scared of being alone.

01:15:19.000 That's why.

01:15:21.000 But, like, that's a good thing for me because I can do anything and she will still be there.

01:15:24.000 No, that's not how it works.

01:15:26.000 Actually, now that you say that, that actually makes me want to not, like, I'm so mad that you said that, actually.

01:15:33.000 I'm fuming that you're mad, actually.

01:15:36.000 I'm fuming at that, actually.

01:15:38.000 Well, it's better to talk it out and hear it.

01:15:41.000 But, I mean, dude, you know what you got to do, bro.

01:15:43.000 You have to change.

01:15:44.000 Not even just for her, but for you as a man in general.

01:15:47.000 And then you're going to become a better partner.

01:15:49.000 You have to think about...

01:15:50.000 Because here's the thing.

01:15:52.000 As a man, you don't make money...

01:15:54.000 For yourself, you make money to take care of the people around you that you love. 0.99

01:15:58.000 I'm sorry, but that was so fucked up. 0.99

01:15:59.000 And I think everybody in the audience is like, literally freaking out about that. 0.99

01:16:03.000 I don't know why you just said that, brother.

01:16:04.000 Not that she was hilarious to me, but not to her. 0.99

01:16:05.000 Yo, by the way, just so you know, like, dude, she could fuck your life up, bro. 1.00

01:16:10.000 She really could. 1.00

01:16:11.000 How?

01:16:12.000 Oh.

01:16:13.000 You ever heard about Scorn Woman? 1.00

01:16:14.000 No, what is that? 0.98

01:16:15.000 Are you going to find out, nigga? 1.00

01:16:17.000 You better change, man! 0.98

01:16:19.000 Anyhow, this was a great show, man.

01:16:22.000 No, bro, you need to change, man.

01:16:24.000 I'm telling you, you need to change.

01:16:25.000 All jokes aside, everything else like that, you got to change.

01:16:29.000 And I would suggest, do you go to the gym and lift weights?

01:16:32.000 No, but I want to do that.

01:16:33.000 You should start doing that.

01:16:36.000 He gets mad at me about me not going to the gym, but he doesn't go to the gym either.

01:16:41.000 So I feel like for me to actually take initiative and stuff like that, I feel like I need a leader and a partner to do those kinds of things.

01:16:48.000 There's little things like walking the dog out.

01:16:51.000 You have to take responsibility.

01:16:53.000 Yeah, I do that.

01:16:55.000 Yeah.

01:16:56.000 You gotta lead by example, my man, is really what it comes down to.

01:16:58.000 I think, yeah.

01:16:59.000 I mean, you should be going to the gym regardless.

01:17:01.000 You're a woman.

01:17:01.000 Come on, man.

01:17:02.000 Your looks are everything.

01:17:02.000 You need to go to the gym anyway.

01:17:04.000 You need to stop being lazy bimbo. 1.00

01:17:05.000 But for you, I would say a lot of the problems are stemming from you not doing your job.

01:17:12.000 I, you know, and I'm very hard on women on this podcast. 1.00

01:17:15.000 I'm sure you guys see all the clips or whatever.

01:17:16.000 But when it comes to, you know, a man in a relationship with a woman, the man bears most of the responsibility. 0.99

01:17:21.000 If the woman's acting crazy, a lot of times it's because the guy doesn't have his shit together. 1.00

01:17:26.000 Isn't it crazy? 0.99

01:17:27.000 We've seen a bunch of couples here, right?

01:17:29.000 Yeah.

01:17:29.000 More often than not, it's the guy not being the man he needs to be.

01:17:32.000 Yeah.

01:17:33.000 I'm seeing a patting here.

01:17:35.000 Please go ahead.

01:17:36.000 Yeah, I'm sorry.

01:17:37.000 Let's say I present myself as this man who comes from Argentina who had a different mindset and now I realize in this country everything works differently.

01:17:48.000 It's a process for me to change and I'm willing to do the change.

01:17:53.000 I know in a lot of countries, you guys are from here, right?

01:17:57.000 United States?

01:17:58.000 Yeah.

01:17:59.000 I was born in the United States.

01:18:00.000 Okay, okay.

01:18:01.000 Barbados.

01:18:02.000 But my family's from North Africa.

01:18:04.000 Same situation like her.

01:18:05.000 My dad and parents are still together.

01:18:07.000 I understand and I respect that there's a lot of traditional families that work in a different way.

01:18:15.000 Blame Argentina.

01:18:17.000 Blame Argentina.

01:18:18.000 It's weird because I feel like Hispanic countries are the ones that have the most role.

01:18:23.000 You know what's crazy about this too?

01:18:26.000 Messi would be disappointed in you, bro.

01:18:28.000 No.

01:18:28.000 Messi would be like, my guy!

01:18:31.000 No bueno! 1.00

01:18:33.000 Come on, man!

01:18:34.000 He got a family?

01:18:35.000 He's a leader?

01:18:36.000 He's taking charge?

01:18:37.000 What you doing?

01:18:37.000 He's also like a billionaire.

01:18:40.000 So yeah, if I were a millionaire...

01:18:41.000 Hey, you want to be there, right?

01:18:42.000 Successful.

01:18:43.000 Entrepreneur.

01:18:44.000 Yes.

01:18:44.000 That's part of the process.

01:18:46.000 Yeah.

01:18:47.000 If I were in that level, yeah, I would be paying everything.

01:18:51.000 But it starts now, though.

01:18:52.000 It starts right now.

01:18:53.000 Yeah.

01:18:53.000 With her, if you wanted to make it work.

01:18:55.000 Yeah, I want to make it work, so yeah, we will figure it out, like, slowly.

01:19:00.000 Alright, uh, some more chats here?

01:19:01.000 Yeah, I'll read the chats, and then, um, uh, okay, what do we got here, and then we'll close this thing out.

01:19:07.000 This guy is a baludo? 1.00

01:19:10.000 What the hell does that mean? 1.00

01:19:12.000 He's calling him like an idiot. 1.00

01:19:15.000 Like friendly. 1.00

01:19:19.000 He's young, guys.

01:19:20.000 He's 24, bro.

01:19:21.000 There's still masculine dudes here.

01:19:23.000 It's just the city boy.

01:19:23.000 Buenos Aires are feminine, just like the USA. Love from Cordoba, Argentina.

01:19:28.000 Cordoba.

01:19:29.000 Okay, Cordoba.

01:19:30.000 Is that like the rural area?

01:19:33.000 It's like another state of Argentina.

01:19:36.000 Most chorizo... 0.99

01:19:38.000 Baby girl, this Timothy Chalamet looking dude ain't the one for you.

01:19:43.000 After the pod, you should come over to our place for a Haitian vacation.

01:19:48.000 The B&W, I'll hit you with the BBC. No era show.

01:19:52.000 What the fuck? 1.00

01:19:53.000 That's wild. 1.00

01:19:54.000 No era show.

01:19:56.000 Okay.

01:19:56.000 No era show.

01:19:57.000 No era show.

01:19:59.000 No era show.

01:20:00.000 The B&W says...

01:20:18.000 I see it as a motivation.

01:20:22.000 I see it with the AP also with the watch.

01:20:24.000 Oh yeah, but I have 16 properties, bro.

01:20:27.000 I bought this with passive income.

01:20:29.000 I didn't buy this with earned income.

01:20:31.000 You definitely want to always live way below your means.

01:20:34.000 Dude, I still drive around my 2002 Honda.

01:20:36.000 And what you're not seeing is...

01:20:37.000 Hold on.

01:20:38.000 He's also a leader, takes charge, has someone that follows and respects him, and the nagging is to very minimum, if at all.

01:20:47.000 Because he made the right choices.

01:20:49.000 The foundation is there.

01:20:51.000 Okay.

01:20:52.000 And there's nothing wrong with delayed gratification, man. 0.99

01:20:54.000 Like, you know, designer, buying BMWs, all this shit, man. 0.99

01:20:57.000 Bro, I'm a multimillionaire. 1.00

01:20:58.000 I don't drive around that shit. 1.00

01:20:59.000 I drive my 2002 Honda. 1.00

01:21:01.000 But see, I'm single.

01:21:01.000 I don't wear a designer, you know what I mean?

01:21:03.000 Like, save your money, bro.

01:21:04.000 I get what you're saying, bro.

01:21:06.000 I'm single, and like, legit, like, I'm doing what you want to do, but I don't have a wife.

01:21:13.000 So it doesn't make me want to change because I'm just doing me. 0.98

01:21:16.000 But you got a wife, nigga. 1.00

01:21:17.000 You got to do something. 1.00

01:21:18.000 What the fuck? 1.00

01:21:19.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:21:20.000 When you make a decision, bro, you got to think of not just yourself, but you also have to think, okay, I have a wife at home.

01:21:25.000 How's this going to affect her? 0.71

01:21:26.000 Because you're responsible for her now, bro.

01:21:28.000 Yeah, that's another thing.

01:21:28.000 He literally flat out tells me that he does not care about my opinion.

01:21:32.000 I do care.

01:21:35.000 Like, flat out tells me, I don't care what you say, I do what I want. 1.00

01:21:39.000 But I'm paying for my shit, bro. 1.00

01:21:45.000 You can only say shit like that when you're paying all the bills, bro. 1.00

01:21:49.000 You can't tell her I don't care about your opinion and y'all are going 50-50, bro. 1.00

01:21:53.000 You can only have that authority when you have all the responsibility.

01:21:57.000 So her opinion counts if she's paying half.

01:22:00.000 But if you want to be able to tell her I don't care about your opinion or we're doing it this way, you gotta pay for everything.

01:22:04.000 I can pay for that power.

01:22:07.000 For telling her to shut up, yeah.

01:22:19.000 What else they got here?

01:22:21.000 Yahweh.

01:22:21.000 Yahweh goes, he's not really getting money like that.

01:22:23.000 You can tell that's why he wants 50-50 so bad.

01:22:26.000 The only way he can get money like that is if he's selling his...

01:22:28.000 What? 0.99

01:22:29.000 Dick. 1.00

01:22:30.000 His ass. 1.00

01:22:31.000 Or his girl selling hers. 1.00

01:22:32.000 You can tell he's not a go-getter for seeing his posture.

01:22:35.000 No, he can support both of them.

01:22:36.000 It's just that he doesn't want to do it because he wants to be able to save more money and live a certain lifestyle.

01:22:41.000 I'm not going to lie. 0.99

01:22:41.000 Buying that car 40K, I mean, if you're broke, you're not doing that shit, bro. 0.99

01:22:46.000 Yeah, yeah. 0.99

01:22:47.000 It's just that he just doesn't want to make certain sacrifices lifestyle. 1.00

01:22:51.000 Stop the bullshit. 0.99

01:22:51.000 He did it for a green card. 0.99

01:22:52.000 His visa was expiring and had to marry the first white girl.

01:22:56.000 Either man up and change or go back to Argentina and enjoy your 20s.

01:22:59.000 Three weeks moving in is crazy.

01:23:00.000 She's also crazy for saying yes to all this.

01:23:04.000 Well, she did take an enormous amount of risk on you, my friend.

01:23:07.000 Yeah.

01:23:07.000 You know what I mean?

01:23:08.000 Normally, it's the other way around.

01:23:09.000 Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

01:23:10.000 I feel like I've kind of taken so many risks from him, and I'm not really expecting much.

01:23:16.000 I'm like, okay, whatever, 50-50.

01:23:19.000 I don't care.

01:23:19.000 I'll work, and I'll pay my half of the bills, whatever.

01:23:22.000 I don't really have an issue with that.

01:23:24.000 Well, you kind of do, though.

01:23:25.000 I do, yeah.

01:23:26.000 Don't lie.

01:23:27.000 But being disrespected and my opinions not being held accountable when I'm cooking and cleaning and still paying my half of the bills, I don't like it.

01:23:36.000 You saw what happened here, though?

01:23:37.000 In this whole scenario, you messed up.

01:23:40.000 What?

01:23:41.000 You messed up, big time.

01:23:42.000 Why?

01:23:43.000 And typically, this is what happens to most women. 1.00

01:23:45.000 They fall in love with what they hear, but they choose the wrong guy.

01:23:50.000 I don't think he's the wrong guy.

01:23:52.000 No, no, but for what you want, right now he's the wrong guy.

01:23:55.000 But if he changes, he won't be.

01:23:57.000 You get what I'm saying?

01:23:57.000 So right now on paper, he's not what you want.

01:24:01.000 Do you agree or not?

01:24:03.000 I mean, not 100%.

01:24:05.000 I mean, I just feel like the tradition, we both come from different upbringings.

01:24:11.000 I mean, obviously, you love him.

01:24:13.000 I'm just saying the actual foundation itself for what you want.

01:24:15.000 He's not the traditional man that you want. 0.97

01:24:16.000 Traditional.

01:24:16.000 That was your first complaint.

01:24:18.000 I literally wrote it down.

01:24:20.000 It lacks intuitiveness about what you feel.

01:24:23.000 You're not a leader.

01:24:26.000 He goes 50-50 with you.

01:24:28.000 You don't feel like you can look up to him yet.

01:24:30.000 All these things, which he needs to step up.

01:24:34.000 I feel like even if we get a divorce and he decides to be with another woman, he's going to face these issues again.

01:24:42.000 That's what I'm saying.

01:24:43.000 We're in the middle of a fight, which is something that you should never do.

01:24:45.000 He's always like, I can do better.

01:24:47.000 I can find better.

01:24:49.000 I'm just like, you're going to face these issues.

01:24:52.000 Divorce, though?

01:24:52.000 Let's work towards making it work.

01:24:54.000 That's what I was telling him.

01:24:54.000 I'm always like, we should work on our issues.

01:24:57.000 The grass isn't always greener on the other side.

01:24:59.000 And starting afresh with someone new, you're just going to have the same issues. 0.99

01:25:04.000 Yeah, I mean, the other girl, whatever other girl you get is gonna probably want the same shit, bro. 0.99

01:25:09.000 Yeah, like, love-bombing someone for, like, a month. 0.99

01:25:14.000 I mean, love-bombing someone for, like, a month is, like, I feel like any man that is, like, is a man, like, he provides for his dream girl, you know?

01:25:22.000 Like, I feel like his wife is a trophy, you know?

01:25:26.000 Like, not trophy wife stuff, but, like, I mean, his wife is something that he looks up to, that he respects, and I just...

01:25:32.000 And I also wouldn't be able to make it without her.

01:25:34.000 I mean, she also does a lot of things that are good for me, and I really appreciate her.

01:25:40.000 And also, I don't know how to cook or clean or do anything.

01:25:45.000 And I'll tell you this, bro.

01:25:45.000 These other Miami girls are going to be hoes and not do that.

01:25:48.000 Yeah.

01:25:48.000 Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

01:25:50.000 So that is more expensive.

01:25:52.000 I would love your guys' opinion on this.

01:25:54.000 I would love it.

01:25:55.000 What do you guys think?

01:25:57.000 And maybe even the chat, you know, just leave your opinions on there.

01:26:01.000 What do you guys think about men and just boys in general who act like...

01:26:07.000 A flirtatious on Instagram, you know, like liking girls bikini pictures, DMing them and telling that they're pretty, calling them gorgeous, calling them all that stuff.

01:26:18.000 Is that what he does?

01:26:18.000 Yes.

01:26:18.000 I did that in the past once.

01:26:19.000 He's done it four times and I've called him out on it.

01:26:22.000 No, like two times maybe.

01:26:24.000 And he says it's a normal thing.

01:26:27.000 He says it's a normal thing.

01:26:29.000 Likes are normal.

01:26:30.000 Machismo!

01:26:31.000 Likes are good.

01:26:32.000 Machismo!

01:26:32.000 Oh, man.

01:26:34.000 Look, bro, I mean, if we're going to even get into this part, look, if you want to flirt with other girls and you want to have other women, again, it's going to cost to be the boss, man.

01:26:43.000 Listen.

01:26:43.000 You can't be not a leader and dominant and assertive with your girl and then be out here flirting with other chicks, man.

01:26:48.000 Listen, bro, he is Tony Hawk.

01:26:49.000 He's skating.

01:27:01.000 He's networking.

01:27:02.000 Right?

01:27:03.000 Yeah.

01:27:04.000 Networking.

01:27:04.000 Right now with you guys.

01:27:05.000 Yeah.

01:27:05.000 There you go.

01:27:07.000 Okay.

01:27:08.000 You're funny, man.

01:27:08.000 You're funny, bro.

01:27:10.000 You're a funny nigga, man. 1.00

01:27:11.000 Thank you. 0.84

01:27:22.000 I agree.

01:27:23.000 Guys, even myself, I just realized less is more.

01:27:26.000 And like, yo, bro, the money you make now, man, invest it, bro, because it won't last forever.

01:27:30.000 Yep.

01:27:32.000 Anything else?

01:27:32.000 Yep.

01:27:33.000 Okay, Albois, this dude needs TRT. He's going to go to the gym.

01:27:36.000 You need to start going to gym and lifting, my friend.

01:27:37.000 He's going to teach you a lot of discipline.

01:27:38.000 What's TRT? To stop for replacement therapy, but he doesn't need that.

01:27:42.000 He's only 24.

01:27:43.000 He was raised by a single mom, and he respects his mom's untraditional behavior and has no connection with his dad. 0.72

01:27:48.000 That's a part of it.

01:27:49.000 Yeah.

01:27:50.000 3Diglets, you have a good woman by your side, man.

01:27:51.000 Don't mess it up, sir.

01:27:52.000 Yeah, yeah, you do.

01:27:53.000 Thank you.

01:27:54.000 Oye, guy, no ASO. Oye, I'm Spanish.

01:28:03.000 You're not a man.

01:28:04.000 You're just a tall boy.

01:28:05.000 How do you know I'm tall?

01:28:08.000 Precious advice with those fake teeth. 0.95

01:28:11.000 Actually, they're kidding.

01:28:12.000 It's not fake.

01:28:12.000 Everything's real.

01:28:14.000 He was also saying what type of man makes his wife pay half.

01:28:18.000 He's calling you in Spanish. 1.00

01:28:19.000 This guy is a fucking... 1.00

01:28:20.000 Oh, pussy. 1.00

01:28:21.000 Why is she even with him? 1.00

01:28:23.000 I think he's getting a wake-up call, though, man.

01:28:25.000 Anything else?

01:28:26.000 That's all.

01:28:27.000 That's it.

01:28:27.000 Guys, I think...

01:28:29.000 And here's the thing.

01:28:30.000 There's a lot of relationships that are kind of in the same situation.

01:28:32.000 Very similar. 0.94

01:28:32.000 I don't want anybody in here talking shit because realistically, some of y'all are with a girl right now and you go on 50-50 and she doesn't respect you either. 0.94

01:28:38.000 This is so common. 0.99

01:28:39.000 That's another thing.

01:28:40.000 I wanted to bring something up.

01:28:42.000 Sorry to interrupt you.

01:28:43.000 But I don't want to be that woman that... 0.88

01:28:46.000 He's still building up his legacy.

01:28:48.000 He's still building up something for himself.

01:28:50.000 I don't want to be that woman who builds up a man and has him built up just for another girl to take him or just for him to be with another girl. 1.00

01:28:59.000 I don't like being Bob the fucking builder. 1.00

01:29:03.000 For a man, I'm not gonna, like, you know, like, release hammers on all this shit. 0.99

01:29:08.000 Like, I want him to step up and I want him to realize that what this is is, like, he's, like, trying to adapt to this modern mentality that's not working and that's why men are, like, dying off. 0.99

01:29:22.000 There's no manly men.

01:29:24.000 This is why women wait at the finish line and pick the winners. 1.00

01:29:27.000 But that's the other thing, too.

01:29:28.000 If he builds himself up and he becomes that man and he makes that money, guess what?

01:29:31.000 That's a minority of men.

01:29:32.000 Other women are gonna want him. 0.97

01:29:33.000 Yeah.

01:29:34.000 So be ready.

01:29:35.000 You can't have your cake and eat it too.

01:29:37.000 If he ends up making the amount of money that you want where he's supporting you, taking care of you, etc., more than likely other women are going to like that. 1.00

01:29:44.000 But usually the case is the woman builds the man up and he gets to this luxurious lifestyle where she ends up being super loyal to the man and then she gets cheated on by him by these other girls that are younger. 1.00

01:29:59.000 If you are the one building your man up, that's a problem.

01:30:02.000 Yeah, right.

01:30:04.000 That's a problem.

01:30:05.000 What do you mean?

01:30:05.000 Yeah, right.

01:30:06.000 Why are you agreeing?

01:30:07.000 Why are you agreeing?

01:30:08.000 You're not executing it.

01:30:09.000 No, I think the thing is you have the fear of me leaving and I think if you make it work with me, I won't leave and you're not going to leave also.

01:30:20.000 Smart man.

01:30:22.000 Tell him what you want us to hear.

01:30:23.000 Tell him what you want us to hear.

01:30:24.000 Say it again.

01:30:25.000 Say it again, brother.

01:30:26.000 Tell him what you want us to hear.

01:30:27.000 Oh, man.

01:30:28.000 All right.

01:30:29.000 We're going to...

01:30:30.000 Oh, last one.

01:30:31.000 Okay.

01:30:32.000 My boy, I'm 25.

01:30:33.000 I'm a contractor.

01:30:33.000 Married a five-year son.

01:30:34.000 I provide so my wife will stay at home. 0.65

01:30:36.000 I provide so my wife raises my family and keeps my home in order.

01:30:39.000 She doesn't act because I provide Top G. Okay. 0.94

01:30:41.000 Yeah.

01:30:42.000 Lastly, well, thank you for coming.

01:30:44.000 Thank you.

01:30:44.000 Where can I find you?

01:30:45.000 My Instagram is BiancaChanF.

01:30:48.000 We're going to have no whole pictures on there.

01:30:50.000 No, not at all.

01:30:51.000 Just one.

01:30:52.000 Just one?

01:30:52.000 Yeah.

01:30:53.000 Oh wait, you want a married woman, man. 0.99

01:30:54.000 Okay, fine.

01:30:55.000 I'll archive it.

01:30:56.000 Wait, is he on your page?

01:30:57.000 Yeah.

01:30:58.000 Yeah.

01:30:58.000 Okay, good.

01:30:58.000 We have a picture.

01:30:59.000 It took a while, but...

01:31:01.000 Okay.

01:31:01.000 And then for you, where can I find you?

01:31:02.000 My Instagram is ValentinXV.

01:31:05.000 And I do giveaways on my Instagrams if you guys want to go follow me.

01:31:09.000 Okay.

01:31:10.000 I give away money and stuff.

01:31:11.000 Cool.

01:31:16.000 Save that money, man.

01:31:24.000 That's what I'm saying.

01:31:26.000 He gives money to everyone.

01:31:28.000 Giving away money.

01:31:29.000 Can't pay for rent.

01:31:30.000 2k?

01:31:31.000 Come on, bro.

01:31:32.000 Come on, man. 0.96

01:31:33.000 Yo, you tripping, dawg. 0.61

01:31:33.000 Come on, man. 0.61

01:31:34.000 Get your priorities in order.

01:31:35.000 Thank you.

01:31:36.000 Nick, you single, man.

01:31:38.000 He hasn't given me...

01:31:39.000 He hasn't given me...

01:31:40.000 He hasn't given me...

01:31:41.000 He hasn't given me...

01:31:42.000 He hasn't given me...

01:31:43.000 He hasn't given me...

01:31:44.000 He hasn't given me...

01:31:46.000 He hasn't given You know what?

01:31:49.000 Never mind.

01:31:49.000 Alright.

01:31:50.000 Thank you, guys.

01:31:51.000 You know what you gotta do. 0.95

01:31:52.000 You know what you gotta do, goddammit. 1.00

01:31:54.000 Damn! 1.00

01:31:54.000 Alright, guys. 1.00

01:31:55.000 We'll catch you back here with some girls. 1.00

01:31:57.000 And I think we'll have a special guest pull up, guys.

01:31:58.000 We'll catch you guys on the next episode here in a bit.

01:32:01.000 We'll probably...

01:32:01.000 I'm thinking around 9.30 or 10 o'clock.

01:32:03.000 We'll start.

01:32:04.000 Love y'all.

01:32:04.000 Peace!

01:32:05.000 I ran.

01:32:07.000 I ran so far away.

01:32:10.000 I just ran.

01:32:12.000 I ran all night and day.

Fresh & Fit - November 15, 2023

Husband Wants 50-50 & Wife Has BPD?! He Married For A Greencard?! Couple Intervention!

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