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00:06:48.000Okay, ladies, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, education level, and if you want to, of course, your body count.
00:15:46.000So ladies, just so you guys know how it's going to go is if it starts here the first time, it's going to go back this way and just hot potato it back, right?
00:27:41.000And I don't want to just say America as a whole, but it's like Miami has its own culture within this country that for me personally, I don't want to be involved.
00:27:59.000Before we go on, I just want to point out something.
00:28:00.000The reason why I asked the ethnicity question, there's a book called Datacalism, which was written by the CTO from eHarmony.
00:28:06.000And one of the things they showed in the book that I thought was pretty amazing is that when men wrote on there that they dated women of any race, they really did date women of any race.
00:28:14.000When women wrote on there that they dated men of any race, they picked one race and that was the only person that they dated.
00:28:33.000So there's some really interesting stuff on that book if you guys check that out.
00:28:36.000But I just thought it was interesting from you guys saying that about I've always said it that, like, if a guy's bisexual, he's really probably homosexual.
00:28:42.000Because why would you go and deal with women when you can get sex from dudes way easier?
00:28:46.000Why would you deal with the bullshit that women give you?
00:28:48.000Real quick, ladies, if you would date a guy that's bisexual, raise your hand.
00:32:10.000And if they can make me laugh, I'm okay with it.
00:32:14.000Let me clarify, because let's be honest here.
00:32:20.000If that guy is going to sit there and provide you that relationship energy, like he's giving you that personality, you're going to go fuck somebody else.
00:32:32.000If that guy that's bisexual that you're dealing with, right, he fulfills you personality-wise, right, you're probably gonna go ahead and get your sex from someone else.
00:32:42.000I mean, if he has that good good, then that's awesome.
00:33:24.000What I'm saying is anecdotally, you know, I used to manage a strip club back after college and what I've seen is that women have gone through some kind of like sexual trauma or something like that.
00:33:31.000They'll pick like a super unaggressive man not realizing she's dating a gay man.
00:33:44.000And they don't believe it or they don't see it.
00:33:46.000I see that happen very, very frequently.
00:33:48.000It's not to knock them or whatever, but I just see so often it's either that or they go the other direction.
00:33:53.000It's this hyper-masculine, super-muscled-up, roided dude that they'll end up dating to try to make up for the fact that there was some kind of trauma in their past.
00:34:37.000So when we look at the distribution of what women's preferences are on dating apps, it goes 6'3", and then 6'3 is like the highest.
00:34:44.000Then it goes 6'2", 6'1", 6'0", and at 5'11", it just drops off a cliff.
00:34:48.000Whereas the normal distribution would look like this, it goes like this, and then it drops off a cliff once it gets to 5'11", and then 5'3", it's like nobody who selects that.
00:35:15.000But height is so important to so many women, right?
00:35:17.000So the percentage of men that are over 6 feet tall in North America, does anybody want to take a guess at what percentage of men are over 6 feet tall?
00:35:50.000It's really interesting that even the girls who think that 4% of the men are over 6 feet tall and still want men over 6 feet, it's like you think that you're a statistical anomaly or something.
00:35:59.000That's two standard deviations outside the norm.
00:39:21.000Now, the second part is, can you get this guy to, one, have sex with you, two, be in a relationship with you, three, be in a relationship with you and not cheat?
00:39:28.000Now, those numbers get even progressively lower, right?
00:39:32.000I'm not trying to make you guys depressed.
00:39:34.000I am trying to let you guys know the reason why these numbers seem so out of skew.
00:42:07.000Yes, and it's funny because I knew what you were going to say because you work in bottle service, and the hosts that you work with have all been with hundreds of women, and you think that's representative of women, but you forget that the guy who gave you your drive-thru, the 5'5 Filipino dude who gave you your drive-thru, is also a man,
00:42:23.000The cashier at Walmart is also a man, but in your mind, if I were to take you to Walmart and point to the guy stuck in the shelves, I'd be like, who's he fucking?
00:43:37.000So it's really interesting when I hear women say this because a lot of times when women are exposed to very high status men consistently, they start believing all men are like that.
00:43:44.000And then they walk by the guy in the grocery store and don't even notice, not even that he's sexually viable, that he's even a man or that he exists at all.
00:44:35.000I'm saying if you take the average, let's say 25-year-old woman, right, unmarried, went to college and maybe has a career or whatever, what do you think her body count is?
00:44:41.000We could start hearing their work our way.
00:44:43.000Average 25-year-old woman, single, no kids, unmarried.
00:47:46.000Did you stop having sex with him and then you guys came to this mutual agreement?
00:47:51.000Okay, so we were together for eight years and it was just kind of like toxic in the end, but we were still having, we weren't together, but we were still having sex because he was the only sexual partner I had at the time.
00:48:02.000So I just like didn't want to have sex with him.
00:48:58.000Ladies, now that you guys know the reality of what your standards, how much of those guys are actually out there, are you going to change and or lower your standards to find that guy?
00:51:11.000Is there like a contract you can like sign?
00:51:14.000I feel like if a conversation is had then yeah you can definitely you know have the best of both worlds but as long as I'm you know well taken care of and I have The crown on my back.
00:52:12.000You do realize that there's a lot less of him than you, so would you actually leave and just realize, okay, now I've got less than a 1% chance to find this guy again?
00:54:28.000Let me just go quick lightning round here.
00:54:31.000If you found your ideal guy and you found out he was in prison or he was a criminal and was a convicted criminal, but he's out of jail right now, would you get with him?
00:54:40.000We'll start here and then work our way this way.
00:54:43.000So, the question is, would you get with a convicted felon if he was your ideal man?
00:58:08.000Donald Trump goes, uh, the reason for high gas prices is all our petroleum had to be used to make enough Vaseline for freshers ass your feet.
01:00:53.000Here's what I've heard the science would say.
01:00:55.000When a man gets pregnant, or when a woman gets pregnant, the man who she's living with, he starts developing what's called prolactin, which causes him to take on more body fat.
01:01:04.000You understand what I'm talking about.
01:01:06.000That dad bod look is the look of a man who's staying home with the wife, so that's a comfort-building look.
01:01:14.000And so, and often when we see dad bods, what are we looking at?
01:01:25.000When we look at that, he already has status, right?
01:01:28.000And then he has dad bod, which builds him comfort.
01:01:31.000But I refuse, I'm sorry, this is just me.
01:01:34.000I refuse to believe that women are physiologically stimulated, like sexually stimulated by dudes who are pasty and white with fucking blubber around their waist.
01:01:42.000I think you guys are Well, their answers right now are literally contradictory.
01:01:45.000I made a mental note of the girls that said nice body, but prior they said dad bod's okay.
01:01:49.000We literally had a girl on our show say the whole dad bod thing, and then her ex-boyfriend is a fucking male stripper, bro.
01:01:55.000It was just like, I'm sorry, this dad bod thing.
01:01:57.000What I think it is, is that you guys would like, it comes off as a very comfortable, submissive man who's going to stay at home with you, and I think you find that very comfortable and maybe attracting, but it's not alluring.
01:02:07.000I just have a hard time believing that you guys are set, like your vaginas get wet for a dude who's pasty and muffin top.
01:02:13.000It's attractive, but it is not arousing, which I've come to realize those women are two completely separate things.
01:02:18.000Girls will be attracted to that, maybe, but they're not aroused by it.
01:02:22.000Another thing, too, I love that you mentioned it's typically tied to someone's status because that guy's mediocre physique is compensated through their extremely high status.
01:03:07.000And ladies are telling them to go get a fucking dad bod.
01:03:10.000You know how hard it is for me as a performance coach?
01:03:12.000I have to sit there and deal with this shit when women are saying this.
01:03:14.000And I'm like, no, dude, you've got to get in shape.
01:03:17.000Seriously, you have to fucking get in shape.
01:03:19.000And then when they do that, and then all of a sudden more women are attracted to them, I'm like, do you see how what you heard from Disney And these women on these TV shows and all this shit was one thing, and then now you have more women in your DMs when you have six-pack abs.
01:03:36.000I just saw, I think it was Chris Williamson was talking about this, saying that the reason why women are more attracted to dad bods is because those guys are less likely to cheat.
01:03:45.000They're less likely to be like a flight risk, I guess, as far as that goes.
01:03:50.000And I thought that was kind of laughable because, again, there's arousal and there's attraction.
01:03:54.000If you ask the average woman, like, what do you want in a guy?
01:06:17.000Well, I think that could go back to our stats.
01:06:19.000I think the reason why she's not divorcing is because she's at that point now, 43, where if she gets back on the market, the streets are cold.
01:06:45.000You do realize that if your mom does get back on the market at 43 years old, she's going to be competing with girls that are 23 years old, right?
01:07:32.000So you're telling me that not only another dude came and helped...
01:07:36.000It was married to her after she had kids with someone else that she's now going to leave him and then go back to someone else that she used to be sleeping with?
01:07:44.000No, I said, what if she was to go back to someone from the past?
01:07:47.000That would assume that the person that she's going back to would want her back, which if she broke it off, they might not.
01:09:47.000From the very beginning, the foundation is, hey, he's just that dad listened to him, but if that doesn't happen, there's no respect, and it's never going to work out.
01:12:23.000I think men get it worse because, like I said, I feel like they can't even voice their own opinion without being said, you're a homophobe, you're this and that, so...
01:12:31.000So, okay, let me try to, I guess, make sure I have that correctly, because you're kind of all over the place.
01:12:37.000Yeah, so you're saying that men experience social media negatively more in relationships because they can't be honest?
01:12:45.000I feel like, yeah, because women doesn't know how to take honesty straight up.
01:17:31.000Just seeing a certain girl's like on her man's picture, like she builds this scenario in her head that her man's sleeping with this so-and-so girl.
01:18:04.000Because women, we could choose who we want to be with.
01:18:06.000Like, we could go out and pick a person to sleep with.
01:18:08.000Men, they have to look around for someone who is willing to sleep with them.
01:18:12.000So I feel like men, it affects men negatively.
01:18:14.000Because they're like, you're competing with men and you know like, if the girl you're with is attractive, you know that there's a bunch of men who's trying to...
01:18:21.000You know, I think it's interesting because she sleeps with women that she understands that.
01:18:24.000I think that's part of the reason why.
01:18:26.000Guys, it's unassailably men that are getting destroyed because of social media.
01:18:31.000The reason why you guys are saying what you're saying is because the men you sleep with are attractive to you.
01:18:36.000When we've asked these questions before, we're asking for overall statistical surveys or whatever your opinion is, and you guys are giving anecdotal experience.
01:19:44.000Do you guys understand what I'm saying?
01:19:45.000And so because of that, Your anecdotal experience from Brock the bartender, you know what I'm saying, or Sam the male stripper, that's what you think of men.
01:19:53.000Those men may hurt you or make you feel jealous, and I totally understand that.
01:19:56.000But overall, the 5'5 guy, remember, the average North American male is 5'9", has seven sexual partners, and one-third of them have no sexual partners at all.
01:20:39.000The likelihood of you finding 10 men that would be willing to have sex with, you don't actually have sex with them, but would be willing to have sex with you tonight, the likelihood of that is what?
01:21:08.000Again, that comes back to women think that dating is as easy for them as it is for men.
01:21:12.000So even if you take a guy that's extremely attractive, tall, $10,000 in their pocket, Lamborghini parked outside, he goes into a club, he's still going to have to put in work to get a woman to some degree.
01:21:20.000Versus you can go into that same club with nothing in your pocket, make a weird, strange noise, some guy will stop sex with you.
01:23:07.000You could get, especially with social media, that you could get guys to immediately commit, date, go on a date with you, have sex with you, whatever, compared to men, most men.
01:23:15.000I'm talking about the 5'5 Filipino cashier at Walmart.
01:23:19.000He does not have 10 women in his DMs trying to have sex with him.
01:23:23.000So I'm telling you guys, if you look at all men and all women, social media has decimated relationships for most men.
01:24:59.000We were looking at, like, on our show, we've looked at, like, professional soccer players, where you've got the soccer player and his very gorgeous, like, supermodel girlfriend, like Ronaldo, and I forget what her name is, but they were doing side-by-side comparisons, and if you look at the soccer players,
01:25:15.000his Instagram, they're on vacation, same beach, everywhere.
01:25:19.000You go and you look at the girls, it's like, even that Ronaldo is not in the pictures, right?
01:25:51.000To lose that, I think women in particular are far more conscious of that than men are because they see social media as their fail-safe, as their insurance policy.
01:26:02.000So if it doesn't work out with this dude, at least I got Instagram.
01:26:05.000At least I got something, at least I got some backup program here in case I blow it with you.
01:26:10.000I don't want anybody to think I'm not saying Instagram is the same.
01:32:02.000It also, especially in the social media age, it creates what's called the choice paradox, meaning that you think you have actually more choice than you actually do.
01:32:11.000I mean, we'll get to the Super Chats here, but I was going to add, I think this is a good time to ask right now, is if you found your ideal man, you guys, we went around here and you guys described what the ideal man was.
01:32:20.000If you found that guy, the needle in the haystack, if you found that guy, would you give up your Instagram to get with that guy?
01:33:45.000Okay, so the majority of women, and you know, it's actually funny, ladies, we've asked this question quite a bit, and shockingly enough, the majority of women refuse to give up their social media.
01:33:53.000And I'll be honest with y'all, a lot of guys would prefer their girl not be on social media.
01:33:58.000And I know a lot of girls are like, oh, well, that's insecure and that's toxic.
01:34:02.000Well, not really, because we already went over the fact that even average to mediocre women have more choice and selection in men than the top tier guys.
01:34:10.000So men know this inadvertently, that women have way more options on social media.
01:34:14.000So most guys are like, yo, if I'm your man, why do you need to keep posting pictures of yourself on the internet, be on social media, etc.?
01:34:21.000Put yourself in a position where other men can go ahead and try to proposition you for sex or some kind of courtship when I'm here.
01:34:26.000So a lot of guys, they won't admit this, but it's extremely disrespectful for you to still maintain a social media profile, right?
01:34:33.000Especially when you're showing your body off when you're with a man.
01:35:18.000That does not mean that you have less value than him, but you're trying to go ahead and say it's a 50-50 partnership with a man who's supposed to be better than you in every regard and be the leader.
01:36:21.000I think what's interesting is the whole control side of things.
01:36:24.000I want to stay with my Instagram because it gives me control.
01:36:27.000And that's why it's like Russia and the United States saying, we're going to de-escalate our nuclear arsenal and you de-escalate yours too.
01:36:36.000And then we'll have this sort of like, we'll wait till you delete Instagram.
01:43:43.000You need to explain to me, if we're out and someone grabs your purse, do you need to explain to me that I need to go ahead and do something to go ahead and retrieve that purse for you and protect you?
01:43:52.000Well, personally, I would tell you not to go after it.
01:43:55.000But do you need to explain to me to protect you as your man?
01:45:12.000Most women, but, you know, there's exceptions to everybody and everything.
01:45:15.000You can't make an argument for an exception to the rule.
01:45:17.000In general, women have very high standards.
01:45:21.000Most of the women here describe the guy in the top 1% or less than 1% of men.
01:45:25.000So literally your own peers around you here describe a rare guy that they want.
01:45:30.000Even the guy that you want is above average.
01:45:31.000So what I'm saying is that most women demand quite a bit and expect the guy to understand, but they don't necessarily understand or comprehend on their end.
01:45:38.000And worse yet, they're unwilling to change.
01:45:40.000I mean, but that's what we say we want.
01:45:42.000But how many of us have dated broke men?
01:45:44.000How many of us have dated men that we've had to build up to have our standards raised?
01:45:48.000But I think that's partially because of the delusional calculator.
01:45:51.000Like, it's because those men that you were looking for didn't exist.
01:45:54.000The men that you thought were ideal, and that's what you ended up with.
01:45:56.000But I want to bring up one thing really quick.
01:45:58.000Do you understand, as a woman, you can have average IG, average IG, and you will get a ton of attention.
01:46:03.000If a man does not have an excellent Instagram, like pictures of his paddock watch and his Rolls Royce, where he's traveling and all this kind of stuff, he looks like a human trafficker.
01:51:30.000They wake up every morning, go to their DMs, these requests, blue check marks, athletes, celebrities, like, wait a second, guy on the street talking to me?
01:51:43.000Yeah, I think because you guys, a lot of you guys said like, you know, Instagram hurt both and jealousy and all this other stuff.
01:51:50.000If I'm gonna be honest, I think social media hurt women more because what happened is all the power goes to the top percentage of guys that are never gonna take you seriously anyway.
01:51:59.000They're just gonna have sex with you and pass you on to the next dude.
01:52:01.000And then a lot of girls, on top of that, get an over-inflated sense of self-worth.
01:52:05.000A lot of you guys think you're special when you're really not.
01:52:08.000A lot of women are very average, and they think they deserve above-average and top-shelf men, and the reality is you can fuck those guys, but you don't necessarily deserve them as a husband or a serious boyfriend.
02:00:49.000Let me ask you, so let's try this again.
02:00:51.000You have a son, and your son is telling you, I want to date this girl, that this girl's been with like two, three hundred guys, maybe on OnlyFans, did porn or whatever, and he's very, very attracted and says, I want to marry this woman.
02:01:04.000What would you feel like if that was your son?
02:01:07.000My son is going to do whatever he wants to at the end of the day.
02:01:10.000I would warn him, but at the end of the day, people can change.
02:01:17.000Do you understand that possibly a man who would wipe up a woman who's been with 500 Dudes might not be a high-value man to begin with, might not have a ton of options to start with, and then that may cause a problem in the relationship later.
02:02:16.000So actually, at what point do you think, if you have men and women, and they have a certain number of sexual partners, at what number of sexual partners do you see it causing them to be less likely to affect the first marriage?
02:04:00.000And it doesn't affect our relationship at all.
02:04:02.000Which, by the way, is the second part of the study.
02:04:03.000They looked at the same study with men and it had no effect.
02:04:06.000A dude could have 100 sexual partners and would not affect his ability to stay in a relationship because neurologically we're different.
02:04:12.000Wait, but why is it that after six partners, they can't be fulfilled in their marriage?
02:04:15.000Because what happens is, after six partners, you mentally can see other options, and if one of those six partners was better than the person that you're with now, then I'll, like for us, the quality of sex for us mostly depends on how physically attracted we are to a woman.
02:04:31.000And the same thing, if you're with a dude, and then like, Partner number three and partner number seven were better than the guy that you're currently with now.
02:04:38.000Once there starts to be trouble, then you're going to remember three and seven.
02:04:42.000You're what he would call alpha widowed.
02:05:20.000It's not, because some men, once they have a woman, they're like, okay, she's wifed up, she's my wife, and they stop doing the things they didn't before.
02:05:29.000At first, they'll get you flowers, take you on dates, and then later, once you're already locked in, they're like, oh, she's already my girl, she's my wife, so I don't have to do all that, but you do have to.
02:05:38.000But this is why communication is important.
02:05:40.000If you just say, you know what, oh, you just changed, I'm out, versus, you know what, babe, what happened?
02:05:45.000No, yeah, of course, you're supposed to communicate that.
02:07:11.000So with all of these things in place, that's why I say women are like tape.
02:07:14.000So they're going to remember the best surface that they were stuck on at some point.
02:07:18.000And if you don't measure up, you're the third table, right, that they've been stuck on.
02:07:22.000They're going to remember that first table, the mahogany, that was nice, that they were going to stick on really well.
02:07:26.000They're like, yo, this dude's a fucking bum, and they're going to go on another piece of plastic or whatever, thinking it's going to be better, and it's not.
02:07:31.000Myron, are you saying women are on tape?
02:07:48.000Typically, the less you give women, right?
02:08:28.000Like you were willing to have sex with him and not, and I'm not exaggerating, you guys look up the photo, him and nine other girls, and he would tell, he was talking about this in some of the interviews, like these guys would have to go to therapy.
02:08:36.000I had a situation where a girl that I was seeing before, I was not tied down to a monogamous relationship.
02:08:42.000I could see whoever I wanted, and then her current My partner is obsessed with me.
02:08:46.000The guy fucking lies about me, goes crazy, says insane shit.
02:08:51.000It's one of these situations that happens.
02:08:53.000And when he talks about being alpha widow, that's essentially what he's referring to.
02:08:57.000You're going to, when all of a sudden things get hard in this relationship, you're going to imprint on that two-time felon But in that situation, I think it's men seeking male validation.
02:09:09.000Like, why did you do that with him, but you can't do it with me?
02:10:11.000How would it make you feel paying full price for the purse knowing that other people paid significantly less, maybe one or two paid more, but in general, most people paid less than you.
02:10:35.000That's how men feel about being told to wait for four dates, five dates, three months, six months, knowing that you fucked other guys the first time you met them.
02:10:56.000I'm friends with those two people, but I would never be able to shoot them.
02:11:00.000Okay, so one of the things that I've seen is women who will say, I was having threesomes with guys that I didn't really like, but now you're my boyfriend and I won't do that with you.
02:11:08.000Gentlemen, if I'm out there just a piece of advice, I would never fucking accept that.
02:11:12.000Under no circumstance would I accept this idea that you were bringing other women home.
02:11:17.000I married a whore who fucks like a prude.
02:11:49.000Then there's a guy who's like, oh, I'm going to make him wait for it.
02:11:51.000He's going to have to earn this pussy because I've got all these rules for him because I want to do it the right way this time.
02:11:58.000When that guy finds out that you're probably on Instagram or probably on whatever your digital footprint happens to be, he's going to go back and find out about that anyway.
02:12:08.000He can go see it live in real time because you took video of when you were on spring break or whatever, and that's the guy that that you were really hot for at that time and he's not getting that that level of like interest from you he gets sort of this mitigated kind of like oh you know he's not as hot he's not fun as the guys i met on on spring break and it has nothing to do with validation it has to do with the fact that there are things that you were willing to do with that guy that you would not do it no i was
02:12:39.000saying for his face like when he said he was obsessed he was obsessed with your validation Just real quick.
02:13:41.000Real quick, I need to educate you guys because the other day we had the discussion about misogyny and then misandry, which means hatred towards men.
02:13:49.000There's also another word called misanthropy, misanthropy, which means hatred towards people.
02:13:54.000So the term, someone was confused, polyamory means multiple men, multiple women.
02:14:00.000Polyandry means multiple men, a single woman.
02:14:03.000Polygyny, which is what I am, means multiple women, one man.
02:14:06.000Okay, so for those of you who don't understand how to read Greek, that's what those words mean.
02:16:05.000The only guy that will sit there and actually wait for you a lot of times is a simp, which is a guy that you don't respect in the first place anyway.
02:16:11.000So it's kind of a double-edged sword because girls like to flex on Instagram in their lifestyle so they can make other girls look jealous?
02:16:54.000Well, again, you're making the fatal mistake of attributing what we're talking about to yourself.
02:16:59.000What I'm saying is that in general, when a man sees that, he doesn't like it.
02:17:02.000And I would argue that women are the worst culprits of judging a book by its cover.
02:17:06.000If a guy's shoes don't fucking match his clothes, a girl will decline him.
02:17:10.000If his socks don't match, women get rid of men for the most minuscule of reasons.
02:17:14.000So I think it's 100% valid for a guy to disqualify a woman because he thinks she's a slut versus a woman disqualifying a guy because his socks don't match.
02:17:45.000But there's a bunch of data that shows the more promiscuous a woman is, the less likely she is to be a stable partner in a long-term relationship.
02:18:11.000Men since the beginning of time have had problems with female promiscuity when it comes to a relationship in a serious marriage or in some kind of serious courtship.
02:18:18.000Okay, I'll just say something to add to that.
02:18:20.000Well, that's another reason why women don't want to be open about their sexual partners because you guys are so quick to rule them out.
02:19:14.000I don't think women understand that, you know, what you do now, right, when you're at your peak, youth and beauty, right, when you're in your 20s, will come back to haunt you later on.
02:19:31.000And if you're okay with either being single or landing a lower value man, then cool.
02:19:36.000But most guys that have some semblance upon them and something to lose or have some kind of status are typically not going to be caught dead with a woman that has a past.
02:22:12.000Rolo, regarding the study you referenced comparing body count and martial satisfaction, it drops off significantly after marrying a virgin, but relatively speaking, it stays within a similar percentage after that.
02:22:22.000Having said that, yes, the women that have the highest likelihood to stay in a marriage, ladies, you know, unsurprisingly, are women that have no partners.
02:22:27.000If you don't know what you're missing, you're probably going to stick with it.
02:22:54.000Because she's had other men, as soon as you guys get into an argument, she thinks about that one, that swinging dick that she met in Jamaica.
02:23:28.000Her being who she is, those habits, they're going to come back.
02:23:30.000Women believe that they have more options than men believe that they have more options.
02:23:36.000So when you get into a breakup situation like that, it's the woman that's going to say, well, I've got Instagram, I've got all this other stuff going for me.
02:23:43.000A guy, the average guy, is not going to think anything like that.
02:23:47.000It's like, well, I've got an Instagram, now what the fuck am I going to do?
02:23:50.000Most guys live in a state of sexual scarcity, whereas women believe that they live in a state of sexual abundance because of Instagram, because of social media.
02:25:28.000Yeah, a lot of guys are stupid about that.
02:25:30.000The second greatest evolutionary psychologist in the world is David Buss, but the greatest evolutionary psychologist in the world is a guy from Memphis, Tennessee named Project Pat.
02:26:07.000That's why I tell y'all, don't wipe up hoes, because girls that are hoes have certain behavioral tendencies that they're going to revert right back to when you do something that they don't like.
02:26:16.000And hoes, unfortunately, don't do well with male authority.
02:26:19.000They don't do well being cooperative, and they don't like instruction and this whole bullshit about, I don't like being controlled.
02:26:25.000If you leave a woman to her own devices, she's inherently self-destructive.
02:26:29.000Every religion is the beginning of time.
02:26:31.000Islam, Christianity, Judaism, put men in the leadership role.
02:29:25.000It's what's called the triune mind theory is what it is.
02:29:28.000So you have instinct, which is like, we all have instincts, like, you know, with self-preservation, we've got to breathe, like our autonomous breathing, that's instinctual.
02:30:18.000The anger is so you will go out and kill something and bring it back to the camp and cook it and eat it.
02:30:23.000So you need that kind of aggression to go and get that.
02:30:26.000So you're feeling that or you're feeling love for your children, like a maternal instinct.
02:30:31.000You're feeling those emotions because that helps you pair bond with the child and therefore you're going to raise the child because we need to invest in our kids.
02:30:37.000Then there's reason, which is I need to learn how to do things because if I don't learn how to do them and override my instinct and override my emotions, then I could possibly die.
02:30:48.000So I always use the illustration of like, say, martial arts, okay?
02:30:52.000Nobody wants to put their face in front of somebody's fist.
02:30:55.000But if you learn and you practice it and you say, okay, if I do this and I commit this to memory, it's not about my feelings.
02:31:03.000I have to override all of that with my mental cognition and I have to train myself so I can be a black belt in jujitsu or something like that.
02:31:10.000Then I can survive a life-threatening situation.
02:31:13.000So what happens is you go from instinct, emotion, and reason, and men tend to prioritize instinct, reason, and then emotion.
02:31:40.000And then, oh, how do I solve this situation?
02:31:42.000It's the priority order of how when you're faced with a challenge or faced with a problem, the deductive order that men use is not the same deductive order that women use.
02:31:52.000And so, again, this is triune mind theory.
02:32:09.000You probably heard when young men and young boys can throw a ball, like a baseball or a rock, they can throw it with more accuracy and more force.
02:32:18.000Because that is something that human males are born with an ability and a natural, innate proclivity to do.
02:32:24.000So when we say, you throw like a girl, it's usually like, you know, they're throwing like a girl.
02:32:28.000Can you teach a girl to be a very good little league pitcher?
02:32:35.000You have to condition her to be as good as a guy who already has that natural proclivity.
02:32:40.000And by the way, it works the other way around too.
02:32:42.000Women have a much more natural, fluid way of communication.
02:32:46.000So when it comes to subcommunications and vocal intonations and facial gestures, women get much more information from communication, whereas men are just like, we say what we mean or we mean what we say, and it's all information-based.
02:33:01.000Whereas for women, it's all about, how did I feel about the conversation that I just had?
02:33:06.000So that's, in some cases, that might be an evolutionary advantage.
02:33:10.000In some cases, it might not because it might end up being, you know, why I got to get away from the saber-toothed tiger or I'm going to die.
02:33:17.000So when we're looking at the natural proclivities for men and the natural proclivities for women, can you teach men to be more emotional and more weesh and more pussied and more mangined and everything?
02:33:27.000Yes, you can to go against those natural inclinations.
02:33:30.000In fact, we have an entire society that is dead set on turning generations of men into pussies.
02:33:36.000But that's not their innate proclivity.
02:35:27.000Men organize societies hierarchically.
02:35:30.000So there's a guy who's the, I'm going to butcher this, the guy who's the admiral and the general and then the lieutenant and the corporal and all the way down to the private, right?
02:42:02.000If you guys are interested in being like a club promoter working at nightclubs at all, I would highly recommend read the book Very Important People by Professor Ashley Mears.
02:44:05.000I learned about the hierarchy between men and women in power, which is actually pretty interesting because neurologically it all takes into effect.
02:46:20.000The ability to throw over hand, eat sugar, salt, fat, all these kind of things.
02:46:23.000So it's probably more beneficial for men to be physically competitive and be able to hunt, see, change direction and work as a team.
02:46:30.000It is probably more beneficial for women to be able to nurture children And read facial expressions.
02:46:35.000Remember I said men are more likely to suffer from autism.
02:46:37.000Women are more likely to actually, during certain studies show, they're more likely to be able to read somebody's facial expressions.
02:46:43.000And there's another study I saw that women are able to see hierarchies in a room, like which guy's the alpha male, very quick, quicker than men.
02:46:51.000Men are sometimes like, you know, they can't read the room, they're not funny, they're not charismatic.
02:46:54.000Women immediately can tell which guy's in charge.
02:46:56.000They're not going to click this, but I always say women are socially superior to men.
02:47:00.000I say men are physically superior to women.
02:47:01.000Women are socially superior to men, but they'll never put that on TikTok because, you know, I'm bigging up women for once.
02:47:07.000That's your guys' power is being able to see and read the room, but you need that to be able to assess who the real leader is.
02:47:15.000Yeah, so just imagine if we have sex with the wrong woman, really nothing bad happens from a plasticine, like an ice-aged human.
02:48:10.000And again, it depends on the challenges that you have to meet.
02:48:14.000Sometimes guys are simply not up to a challenge that women would be better at, but then you also have to recognize that men are going to be better at challenges.
02:48:20.000Also, hot women are better at approaching hot women.
02:50:34.000Sweet Zach goes, I didn't include the Black Queens in the official dumb bitch ranking because, for once, you weren't the ugliest woman at the table, except the one in the white tank.