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00:03:17.000But he was able to kind of delay the prosecution for a bit, so we'll see what happens on this second go-around trial.
00:03:23.000But yeah, oh yeah, get my book, Why Women Deserve Less, in stores, right now, Amazon bestseller, hardcover, audible, pretty much in all different, in every single medium that you guys like to read books, go ahead and get it.
00:03:35.000Why Women Deserve Less, the book's only about 86 pages because, well, women deserve less.
00:04:06.000Besides that, though, ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, your body count.
00:05:43.000So, and you said you're a full-time student, you do day training and dropshipping, and then I'm assuming you're a full-time student in college.
00:24:49.000So, guys, we'll hit the Rumble rants and then we already got 14 or 15k you guys in here, so I will read the rants that came up before, but from this point forward, we'll probably go 20 and up.
00:25:48.000And then part two says, Exodus 22, 16 says, if a man seduces a virgin who is not engaged and lies with her, he must pay a dowry for her to be his wife.
00:25:58.000This is the Old Testament, by the way.
00:28:31.000Well, I'm very big on loyalty, so, I mean, like, it's kind of hard because, like, at some point, I do agree on their perspective because it's like, okay, like, obviously you're not giving what he wants, so it's kind of like, okay, but at the same time,
00:28:48.000it's like, It depends on how long the relationship is.
00:32:25.000Within the confinements of human rights and everything else like that, but within the confinements of a relationship, men and women are not the same at all.
00:32:31.000Different doesn't mean unequal, though.
00:32:33.000Apples and oranges are different, but they're both fruit.
00:34:18.000I mean, it's the reality that for a man to mate, he has to bring significantly more accomplishments to the table to have the same options and the ability to get with the opposite gender that a woman has.
00:34:27.000By the time a woman's 18 years old, she's able to...
00:34:30.000If she's attractive enough, she can align herself with some of the top-tier men.
00:34:33.000A man has to become top-tier to even be able to get the chance a lot of the time to...
00:34:36.000So why does that mean, though, that you should be able to act on that?
00:34:38.000I know you make the argument that it's easier for women, but if something's wrong, it's wrong.
00:34:44.000It's easier for you to kill me than it is for me to kill you, but murder is so wrong.
00:34:58.000I'm going to explain the analogy here.
00:34:59.000The reason why is because you had to go through a lot more trials and tribulations to earn your title versus the paralegal went through a fraction of the schooling that you did.
00:35:38.000Not every single relationship is traditional.
00:35:40.000However, a majority of women, you might not be it, but I'm just making an argument for the majority.
00:35:44.000A majority of women prefer and would enjoy a traditional relationship where the man is the breadwinner, the protector, and the provider.
00:35:51.000Women typically, when they work, don't want to pay the majority of the bills.
00:35:54.000Most of them want to work, what I say, electively versus the man must work from a mandatory standpoint.
00:35:59.000I think if I land up 100 women, they'll prefer the guy to be the breadwinner and she could work on her own terms.
00:36:04.000So you think being the breadwinner automatically gives you that authority because you're earning the money and whatever she's providing to the relationship is not as valuable in a traditional way.
00:36:13.000I'm saying that as the breadwinner, that is just one of many components that puts the individual in the authority position, which I would argue the man needs to be in that position for attraction to be maintained.
00:36:23.000But you're assuming that the breadwinner role gives somebody that authority.
00:37:05.000What I am saying, though, is that for us to even be able to have the child in a safe space, as in a family, I need to make sure that I'm on point for us to be able to have that child to thrive.
00:37:13.000I mean, we forget about all this because we're in a modern day society with, you know, technology and all these modern conveniences.
00:37:19.000But, you know, you got to remember that human beings are, you know, a progression of A bunch of different, a bunch of conditioning.
00:37:25.000So before, we didn't have all the modern conveniences we did now.
00:37:28.000So the man had to be the leader and the protector and the provider to ensure that his wife was safe and the children were safe.
00:37:33.000So he was the head of the household for that purpose.
00:37:35.000But we're not in hunter-gatherer times anymore.
00:37:51.000You need to withstand rational inquiry.
00:37:53.000So if you have a belief of yours, it has to withstand rational inquiry for the time.
00:37:57.000So you can't be like, well, this is how it is because it's evolutionary reason that I'm saying if it doesn't make sense in 2023, then you're stupid for following that.
00:38:07.000So let's go ahead with some rational inquiry.
00:38:08.000Why is it that women still prefer men that are stronger than them, taller than them, make more money than they do, are superior to them in almost every regard, even though they're able to create their own security with their own jobs, get their own education, protect themselves through the police state?
00:38:19.000Why do women still screen for all these factors if they don't need it and we live in this modern world?
00:38:26.000So yes, women still, because it's still recent, especially if we look If you look at our evolutionary trajectory, it's still recent that women have been able to get these opportunities and since then, if you look every single year, more women are okay with making or their partners making less and less than before.
00:39:24.000Then you say, oh, college-educated women are more likely to get divorced.
00:39:26.000They're actually way less likely to get divorced.
00:39:28.000One of the best things you can do to actually prevent divorce is to get married to a college-educated woman, especially if you're looking at longevity.
00:39:34.000A college-educated woman is 80% likely to have a marriage that lasts at least 20 years.
00:39:38.000A woman without a college degree is only 40% likely.
00:39:41.000But you guys conflate that because you're like, they're more likely to initiate a divorce.
00:39:44.000So when two people are getting divorced, yeah, a woman that has more resources is going to be more likely to initiate and leave a shitty situation.
00:39:51.000But those women are actually less likely to marry people or get into circumstances where they're going to divorce in the first place.
00:39:56.000One of the number one things you should look for if you're looking to make sure your marriage lasts is to marry a college educated woman.
00:40:01.000These stats have been replicated year after year after year.
00:40:43.000All I'm saying, because this all started with me saying that just because we have modern conveniences does not necessarily mean that women have changed their mating practices.
00:40:52.000Women still want a man superior to them in almost every way if given choice.
00:41:02.000I don't know about that because even though women are more educated now than ever before and they have all the opportunities, all the same rights and privileges, they still want a man that's better than them.
00:41:10.000I would argue hypergamy goes up as women are educated because women are less likely to settle when they are higher earners.
00:41:16.000Well, I mean, technically, yeah, but these women don't have to settle because you're around other high earners.
00:42:09.000And again, I don't know what, maybe in new money world, it's different, but lawyers and doctors, they're not marrying girls like the work of CVS. It's just not a thing.
00:42:16.000And they're not marrying hot girls off Instagram.
00:43:14.000You know, I like to argue I'm a lawyer.
00:43:15.000Yeah, no, I know that, but, like, the whole point about, like, you were saying rational inquiry, like, women, times have changed, and women have changed, and evolved in it, but I would argue women have not evolved, because women still want a man that's over six feet tall.
00:43:26.000Do you know I don't know how long it takes for evolution.
00:43:27.000So the fact that women have been able to work...
00:43:30.000I get that, but my argument is simply that women haven't really changed that much as to what they're attracted to.
00:45:53.000Just like that same 2018 graph that all the incels, like you guys, not saying you guys are, but you guys use, that's not been replicated in 2019, 2020, 2021.
00:46:02.000That actually shows more women are having less sex than men are.
00:46:06.000And though even that one was at a third, I don't know where you guys are getting majority.
00:46:24.000Most guys have a very difficult time getting dates, getting any type of intimacy from a female, and being able to be successful in their dating ventures.
00:46:40.000A lot of guys have issues with being able to go up to a girl and talk to her.
00:46:43.000I'm sure plenty of you guys have experiences where a guy comes up to you and he's awkward, he's stammering, he can't necessarily say what he wants to say.
00:46:50.000The reason why pornography is exploding in popularity is because so many guys struggle with women and so many guys are socially awkward and aren't able to convey attraction through the way that they behave or the way that they speak.
00:47:00.000I don't think pornography is just, like, some of us, like, I mean, even when I'm in a relationship and I'm horny, I masturbate, I look at porn, like, sometimes even if you're happy in your sex life, those men still look at...
00:47:20.000Yeah, but just because they can't do it as easily as I can doesn't mean that every time they're watching porn is because they don't have sex with anyone ever.
00:47:32.000I mean, maybe you guys are going to say upwards of 90 percent of men are all struggling and they're desperate.
00:47:35.000Men don't have the same sexual access and ability to attract the opposite gender that women do.
00:47:40.000So even if they are getting laid with maybe one girl or maybe a girlfriend that no longer fucks them or takes them seriously, whatever, does not necessarily mean that they're still not struggling with females in general, especially if they have a female or they have a girlfriend.
00:50:59.000But what I'm saying is that the bottom line is that men struggle with women and a way to deal with struggling with women and being able to get the variety or the sexual access that they want is they revert to pornography.
00:51:08.000That's one way, but there's also, if you look at the people that watch porn, that's one reason someone might watch porn, but there are a multitude of other reasons.
00:51:32.000I'm sorry if you said just because if you didn't, but I don't even think it's a huge component.
00:51:36.000What I'm saying is that your industry literally is a majority of men and as a result, these men are lazy.
00:51:43.000Some men, of course, don't want to go out and Yes, it's a percentage of them, yes, but I don't even think that's a big percentage, and that's where we disagree, and unless we have evidence for either of our claims.
00:51:54.000Regardless, men do watch you, and the majority of your audience is men.
00:52:00.000Yeah, the majority of my audience is men, correct, but that doesn't mean they're all lonely men, or that they're all lazy men, or that they can't get girls, or any of those claims.
00:52:42.000Yeah, but I don't see how that relates to that.
00:52:44.000That absolutely relates, because since women find most men as unattractive and not good candidates, they're not going to give them a chance, and those guys struggle.
00:56:52.000I don't care how much money you make because I can pay my own bills.
00:56:57.000You can say that, but I would say if you were to take the guy seriously and do something, go with him in a direction where it's going to be a more serious relationship, how much he makes absolutely will play a factor in it.
00:57:11.000Yeah, men may not care as much about how much money a woman makes, but they do care about intelligence and education, especially educated and intelligent men.
00:57:20.000Look up the necessities and luxuries of mating.
00:57:26.000It's a great study they just did where they look at when choices are constricted, restricted, men do look for physical attractiveness, women look for financial security, so these are necessities, but they also found researchers found that intelligence is one of those.
00:57:36.000Now when people have an abundance of options, then they usually have a threshold like, okay, she has to be this attractive, then they look for comforts.
00:58:37.000So for you, the chat was basically saying if your man wanted to step out because he didn't want to have sex, we asked a question, do you agree yes or no?
00:58:47.000Yeah, I mean, like, every partner has, like, two different needs.
00:58:52.000So, like, if my man that I'm with right now has needs to have sex, like, all the freaking time, like, three times a day, five times a day, I don't even know.
00:59:00.000Like, if that's his needs, if I have chosen to be with him, I have chosen to be with, like, all of him.
00:59:10.000I'm not cool with it because me personally I wouldn't I could love him like he could be the best boyfriend in the world the best partner like the best person in the world but for me it's a such a big thing I wouldn't be comfortable with that so I couldn't I would probably still want to be like friends or something like it sucks to say that because it never works out probably usually but like me personally it wouldn't work you know what's crazy?
01:00:19.000I would wish for the cheating or him doing something with someone else to happen way before, like, now, today, or, like, yesterday, than if it does, like, in a year or two years or five years.
01:06:37.000Because we were talking about sex as a woman's job.
01:06:39.000What I'm saying simply is that men in general would not deal with women if it were not for sexual access.
01:06:44.000However, women would deal with men if they didn't have sexual access because men have to bring far more utility to deal with the opposite gender.
01:06:52.000A guy's got to be charismatic, funny, have money, be attractive, etc.
01:08:36.000Now, is that in your situation with your boyfriend, if he wanted sex and you didn't give it to him and he stepped out to go get another girl, you'd have a problem with that?
01:12:26.000Some girls on the panel might not like me saying this, but I think if you're a sex worker as a female, you can't tell your guy to be monogamous to you.
01:12:33.000You've lost that privilege and ability to do so.
01:12:37.000We wouldn't date you, so it doesn't matter what you say.
01:12:46.000And what I'm saying is that if a woman's gonna forfeit her modesty, right, and put it out there for the internet to see, right, I would be stupid as a man to take her serious and give her monogamy.
01:12:57.000So if I'm going to be with a woman that shows her goods out to everybody else, because that is effectively cheating from a female frame, Cheating is just violating boundaries.
01:13:05.000So unless there's no boundaries, there can't be any cheating.
01:13:07.000But what if he's fucking me on camera?
01:13:09.000So we're both making money at the same time.
01:13:15.000If he's fucking me on camera, he can have all the money.
01:13:17.000Under the authority of your man is different.
01:13:19.000But what I'm simply saying is that a woman that's involved in certain trades, and I would say sex work, whether she's a stripper, OnlyFans, porn star, any type of industry where she's monetizing her sexuality to a degree, I don't think she really has the authority to tell her man that you need to be monogamous to me because she's pretty much forfeited that because when a woman exposes her sexuality to other strange men for monetary compensation,
01:13:42.000that is the equivalent to me fucking another girl because women search for attention and validation from opposite gender, men search for sex, so the functional equivalent is a woman sexualizing herself.
01:13:52.000I would advise all the women that do that, that don't, because some men agree with you, but there's a lot of men that don't, and they should date those men, not you.
01:13:59.000Well, men that have options that are attracted that women actually want, think the way that I do.
01:14:23.000Well, guys that understand their value and aren't morons and understand how the sexual marketplace really works would understand where I'm coming from with this because it's a bad trade for you to be monogamous to a woman that is constantly showing her sexuality and putting herself out there for other strangers.
01:14:37.000That's not a good deal for you as a man.
01:16:03.000The bottom line is men don't like sluts and men don't like women that behave like sluts and a lot of the times why guys don't do this is because it's an embarrassment to them and their last name.
01:16:13.000So what I'm saying is that if a woman forfeits her modesty to go ahead and make money through her sexuality, fantastic!
01:16:23.000But you are no longer in a leveraged position to demand monogamy from a man.
01:16:28.000And a lot of guys will feel that way whether they tell you to your face or not.
01:16:31.000Maybe they'll step out and go fuck another bitch and tell you about it and say, I'm going to go smash some other girls because you're being on OnlyFans.
01:16:36.000Or they're going to do it and not tell you.
01:16:37.000The point is, is that men are going to feel some type of way about their woman being involved in sex work, period.
01:16:44.000Okay, well that's, so I'm going back to the original claim.
01:16:46.000The stats do not show that women who are sluts or have high body counts are less likely to get married.
01:16:51.000That means men are just as likely to marry you if you're a slut than if not, maybe not each individual man.
01:17:43.000This is a multifaceted situation where marriage rates are plummeting.
01:17:48.000But I would argue that feminism, women being sexually empowered, women being more promiscuous than ever been before, women acting more like men than they ever have before, all these things contribute to the degradation of the institution of marriage.
01:18:34.000This is I'm saying, like, if you sleep with a lot of people and you're with somebody, he's not going to want to be with somebody that's fucked everybody.
01:18:41.000So that's why he says women initiate the divorces anyway.
01:19:39.000This is something you guys say on your show, and I don't understand how, like, do people just not check?
01:19:43.000Women fare off far worse financially, lower standard of living, more likely to be in poverty, more likely to seek government assistance, less likely to re-partner.
01:19:51.000However, men fare off far worse psychologically, more likely to get cancer, more likely to get depression, more likely to have drug and alcohol issues.
01:19:58.000Like, just, this is, this is established.
01:20:02.000If it's so negative, then why are women, like, just running to get divorced?
01:20:05.000I think women want to get divorced when they have, like, an economic, like, when they have resources, they're more likely to get divorced.
01:20:52.000So there's one thing that's really determinant of a long-term relationship.
01:20:55.000It's something called positive self-delusion.
01:20:57.000So positive self-delusion is how much you believe that the person you're with is the only person, even though it's not true, that can bring about the feelings of love, warmth, attachment you feel.
01:21:05.000The more you believe that that person is the only person that can bring it, it's called positive self-delusion.
01:21:28.000Well, from the stats, it looks like for both people, the more positive self-delusion you have, the more likely you are to be with your partner.
01:21:34.000But if you have to choose one gender...
01:21:35.000Why do I have to choose one gender if that's not true?
01:21:37.000We're just staying for the argument's sake.
01:22:23.000Drugs and alcohol can contribute to that.
01:22:25.000So a lot of times people who are hooking up a lot, they also consume more drugs and alcohol.
01:22:28.000But this idea that oxytocin depletes, one of the biggest releases of oxytocin for women is childbirth.
01:22:34.000So unless you're saying that a woman loves each subsequent child less, it wouldn't make sense to say that your oxytocin depletes because you've been with multiple people.
01:23:04.000I'd like to know where you're getting that.
01:23:05.000Okay, well, studies show that women lose attraction to men and they lose attraction way faster than men lose attraction to women.
01:23:13.000So in other words, if a woman is far more likely to be less happy in a relationship and have that attraction drop off significantly versus a man, it's slower.
01:24:26.000I mean, if you can't even agree on that basic concept that women lose attraction faster than men do, then I don't know.
01:24:32.000So you're saying if two people are like madly in love and they're hanging out all the time and they're having a great time, you're saying the woman in that situation is more likely one day to wake up and be like, eh, than the guy?
01:24:40.000Women lose attraction faster than men do.
01:24:42.000I honestly haven't looked at the studies on this and I'm willing to...
01:24:46.000I mean, it's simple if you look at it from a logically sound standpoint.
01:24:50.000Who requires more to be attracted to the opposite gender?
01:24:53.000Women require more of a man to be attracted to him.
01:24:56.000You guys only care about these young, fertile women.
01:24:59.000But a lot of men, like lawyers, I can tell you, they want to actually have conversations with women.
01:27:55.000Can you have your premises and your conclusion, please?
01:27:58.000What he's simply saying is that by your logic that women have to be interesting, that would not make sense because you have a bunch of people watching your OnlyFans and they don't give a shit about your personality.
01:28:07.000Yes, but some men like to date women that are also interesting and I would say a lot of men do that.
01:28:30.000How far in the relationship are you going?
01:28:31.000Are you talking about marriage or are you talking about a simple relationship?
01:28:33.000Well, I'm saying if you're hanging out with each other, if you're going to dinner with each other, first of all, a lot of the guys I date, they don't want to sit around a girl that's just 18 sitting there like, hey.
01:28:42.000You guys seem okay with that, but a lot of men aren't, especially men that are more educated and intelligent.
01:28:46.000They don't want to hang out with 20-year-olds.
01:28:49.000They also don't want to sit across the table and argue with a chick all day either.
01:34:13.000Yeah I think guys like make plans and then like you're thinking about it and then they forget.
01:34:19.000I think people I think when people get me they're just like they hold me to this value where like they won a prize they're like oh my gosh I got her attention blah blah blah blah and then like they don't take me serious after that.
01:34:43.000So, pretty much the majority of the women, whatever girl hair is flaked on a guy, and a majority of the women have been flaked on less than they flaked on men.
01:34:50.000My next question now is being a little bit more concrete here.
01:34:54.000Have you ever stood someone up on a date?
01:34:57.000Which means they showed up and you didn't.
01:35:00.000We'll start right here and then work our way.
01:35:02.000Or actually, no, we'll start right here with you.
01:40:28.000You know, it's interesting because a lot of the girls, if you are reading through this, you know, find better, you'll be fine, on to the next, she ain't the one, stop talking to her, keep going.
01:40:39.000Women have a natural abundance mindset.
01:40:41.000I don't know if y'all caught on to that, but with their answers, you know what I mean?
01:44:19.000So in that perspective, it makes sense.
01:44:21.000But at the same time, it's that push and motivation that they need to ensure that they are confident in themselves because then they think that they're not good enough.
01:44:32.000And sometimes they're actually more good enough than they think.
01:44:38.000Someone said he ate two plates and dessert.
01:46:42.000There's not a lot of men like you're right there are a lot of men who get stood up that feel disappointed but I honestly you asked me my thoughts as the video went on he's different something he I would say he has some underlying mental health condition.
01:46:54.000Yeah here's the thing they call him a retarded Wow!
01:48:24.000He's, I'm not trying to, like, what I mean is you guys just admitted two minutes ago, this is more common with women doing, and especially getting on camera for, I said, if he stopped it earlier, but as time went on, I think he actually has some type of underlying issue.
01:49:57.000Alright, what are your thoughts on this?
01:49:58.000It's the same thing as if a guy like I know he probably puts in more effort like in a way of like getting flowers so like maybe like make the dinner reservation whatever but girls like you should like dress up more like put on the makeup hair do whatever like different things they put in to the date but whatever like it would suck I would probably not like cry and get the video if it happened to me but yeah it would suck for me too.
01:50:26.000I think what he did was adorable and I feel bad for him.
01:50:29.000Yeah, but you won't fuck him though, so.
01:50:30.000No, I wouldn't, but I'm so cute because nobody does that nowadays.
01:54:45.000I think you're missing the overall concept that that guy that you're talking to that's a lawyer has more options in the open dating marketplace.
01:54:56.000I'm simply saying that this lawyer that you said that you're talking to has more options in the open sexual marketplace because he isn't constricted to women within his own socioeconomic level like you are.
01:57:16.000Men will say and do a lot of things for sexual access to include making a woman feel better about her ego investments, even though they're contradictory to the male sexual vetting process.
01:57:36.000Don't like women that are hoes or have an image of being hoes.
01:57:41.000So even though you might not necessarily be promiscuous, your job title, the way you present yourself, et cetera, creates an aura that you might be and or are promiscuous.
01:59:14.000Now, I would also say that you, by getting on a podcast 12 hours a week talking about how women are inferior, a lot of women, you're lowering your ability to get women too.
01:59:22.000A lot of women don't want anything to do with that.
01:59:23.000That's embarrassing to a lot of women.
02:00:21.000There are some men who want nothing to do with me because I'm on OnlyFans and some do.
02:00:24.000You can find a woman that's going to be okay with all this, but some women that are very attractive that we may otherwise have been attracted to you might think that this is fucking abominable.
02:00:55.000No, because you're making arguments in bad faith and you're trying to say that I can attract all these lawyers, etc., If there are two versions of you, there's a version that you have right now and then a version of you where you aren't on OnlyFans and you have a body count of zero.
02:01:09.000I guarantee you the men would go ahead and prefer the body count of zero version of you versus the version of you now.
02:01:54.000You want a guy that's going to sit there and be equal to you and someone breaks in, hey babe, it's your time to deal with the burglars this time.
02:02:01.000Guys, tell me what lawyers are going to bring her out in public and actually say, this is my girlfriend, my wife.
02:05:26.000What you have to do is you have to isolate the variable and look at people who are married and look at people who get, and you have to isolate and see that this is going to be more likely.
02:05:35.000So, for instance, a lot of the things you guys say increase your likelihood of divorce.
02:06:02.000But to get married to, you'd be very smart.
02:06:04.000Not only just to care about that because of divorce outcomes, but because your childhood success and childhood cognitive development is highly...
02:07:00.000Do you really think that they're going to sit there and be honest and say, I prefer a woman that, you know, is not only fans, is a promiscuous, blah, blah, blah.
02:07:07.000You really think they're going to tell you that?
02:08:18.000I'm not, but I'm using it as an example.
02:08:21.000Yes, but I'm not saying it's not been, like I just said, I can give you many examples in beginning of time.
02:08:25.000Now, if you want to move it finally, because I've always been annoyed that you could say in the beginning of time, because that's not true.
02:08:29.000But if you want to say however many years ago, pick your year, and now it's changing.
02:08:35.000You're stepping over dollars to pick up quarters.
02:11:26.000Again, stop stepping over dollars to pick up quarters.
02:11:30.000The point I'm trying to bring here is that if I line up 100 men from different religions, different backgrounds, different racial, different ages, different socioeconomic status, etc.
02:11:38.000And I ask them, would you prefer a woman that was more promiscuous or a girl that's less promiscuous?
02:11:43.000Almost all of them are going to say...
02:13:48.000Obviously, the United States is the most in English-speaking countries, but we have a lot of people from the Middle East We got a lot of people from Europe, all over South America.
02:16:29.000Miss Lawyer, please explain to me how she grew up in an egalitarian society where everything was equal, yet she's still here in the United States, and she wasn't programmed with any of the chivalry or whatever, and she prefers the chivalry that's enjoyed here.
02:16:39.000The way to explain that is, yeah, because she's getting, like, yeah, if I went to a country and men were just, like, bringing me cake every day, I'd like that, too.
02:17:35.000So if this man who opened your door, but one of the byproducts of him opening the door was that he wanted, like that example earlier, where he expects sex, otherwise he leaves.
02:17:44.000Otherwise, he leaves and he comes back.
02:17:58.000What it simply is is that Given all the totality of the circumstances, in Sweden versus the United States, she prefers a man from America that gives her more traditional treatment, which contradicts what you said before.
02:18:11.000What I'm saying, attraction and arousal is biologically rooted in females to look for a man that has certain qualities regardless of how they're raised.
02:18:20.000Men and women are not equal, even though you're trying to say they are, because women are hardwired for traits in a man that make the man unequal to her.
02:18:29.000Women want a man who's superior to them in every way.
02:18:31.000So what about, you just said looks, she's supposed to be more attractive than you, so she's not superior in looks, is she?
02:18:38.000Because you guys want, if you're saying like a 40-year-old man wants like a 19-year-old hot chick when he's hot and he's rich and he's successful, but she's still more attractive than him, no?
02:18:59.000Well, you picked one of the many things that I mentioned.
02:19:00.000No, no, but I don't think it's superior in every way.
02:19:02.000You're just selecting for different traits.
02:19:03.000If it's some 55-year-old man and it's an 18-year-old girl, she's giving up being with an attractive man because he has status resources and, I guess, opens doors for her.
02:20:05.000You come over to the United States and you get a taste of a traditional relationship where the man is a leader, he's giving you chivalry, he's treating you like a lady, you're able to be and you're feminine and you're more happy.
02:20:13.000That proves my fucking point that I've been trying to say the entire time.
02:20:20.000If everything was, the reality is, men and women aren't equal, women want a man who's better than men in every regard, and they want a man who can give them chivalrous treatment regardless of their education.
02:20:41.000But what I'm trying to say is that it proves my point that biological hardwiring trumps You know, evolutionary, what you're trying to say, adaptations, just because we have modern conveniences, whatever.
02:20:51.000Women are still attracted and aroused by what they're attracted and aroused by, regardless of time.
02:20:55.000No, our ability to reason as human beings does move.
02:20:57.000So racism is something that, racism is evolutionary.
02:21:02.000Neither is in-group bias, neither is kin selection, neither is group selection, yet we use the moral insight to not be racist came from our ability to think rational.
02:21:11.000You have your primitive brain, you have your conscious reasoning brain.
02:21:13.000Your conscious reasoning is there to check your primitive brain.
02:21:15.000You may be like, oh, I just want an acquiescence to my apehood, but a lot of men don't like that.
02:21:19.000A lot of men don't think, like, that's not critical thinking, in my opinion.
02:21:22.000That's all I'm saying, and that's not actually my opinion.
02:24:35.000You just said that because men are stronger, and I just told you, yes, I want someone stronger than me and taller than me, but I don't need somebody that makes more money than me.
02:24:42.000I don't need somebody that has higher status.
02:24:44.000Okay, just because you don't want it doesn't mean a majority of women don't want it.
02:24:47.000And just because she said something doesn't prove your point either.
02:24:49.000You're looking at one example, one example.
02:26:09.000No, a lot of women, if they have a choice between, like, what you say of, like, this is masculinity, this is what you're choosing between this, I'm protecting, I'm providing, but then we're not equal and I can go fuck around and you can't.
02:26:19.000Or it's 50-50, especially women who have the ability to take care of themselves.
02:26:22.000The whole thing of me going out and fucking around, that's my specific situation.
02:28:38.000Goose says, men can't show emotion when my grandpa died.
02:28:42.000I happened to be drunk, I guess, and broke down crying.
02:28:46.000My wife taught she was the boss and taught until I had to check her ass.
02:28:50.000Never show emotion in front of a woman.
02:28:52.000I think your grandma's a little bit messed up here, but he's just saying, for example, he cried when his dad died and then I think she took it as weakness.
02:28:59.000You already said Mike says, make the girls call their guy best friends and test their loyalty.
02:29:06.000Nah, we don't have time for that right now.
02:29:09.000Colin, I want to say y'all changed my life.
02:29:12.000I'm 5'7", 220 pounds, fat soldier in Korea, during COVID, depressed, no 180, 10k a month, DOD contractor, 50k in checking accounts, love y'all, no homo.
02:29:24.000J10 says, save this question, minor, fresh, rate the girls strictly off looks, have both of you pick two that are worth material and one that's for the streets.
02:30:18.000Show the previous one, if you don't mind.
02:30:20.000It says, save this question, mind refresh, rate the girls' awful looks, and both of you pick two that are wife Ontario and one for the streets.
02:30:33.000FNF, 20 years old, 200k income, 140 weight, 5% body fat in the process of diversifying my income, and building an empire, and still get shit on by women because I'm 5'5".
02:30:50.000Once it says, remember Kevin Samuels died at 53 of heart-related issues, sipping Red Bull and staying up to wee hours of the morning, hurting his brain with nonsense.
02:38:03.000In general, women know that their body count reflects their value in the dating marketplace, which is why women keep that number close to their chest.
02:38:31.000My main point I'm trying to make here is that your body count absolutely matters to a man that's going to want to take you seriously in the future.
02:38:39.000Does it go on the birth certificate or something?
02:38:42.000You're trying to say it doesn't matter?
02:40:24.000It's because women know deep down being a whore is socially unacceptable and if they reveal a number, whatever it may be, it might make them look like a whore so they'd rather just not do it.
02:40:33.000No, I just don't have to answer a question to some dude behind a computer asking me that.
02:40:39.000Why don't you want to intrude into my personal sex life?
02:42:56.000But they're going to go ahead and try to ascertain on their own what your body count is based on your behavior, the way that you act, your past, etc.
02:43:02.000They're going to go ahead and do their homework and figure out where you stand.
02:43:05.000Whether they overtly ask you or not, they're going to do their own independent investigation and figure out, okay, I want to commit to this girl, make her my girl.
02:43:11.000Let me make sure that she's not a fucking slut.
02:43:56.000I don't and you're saying if it's a woman he wants to settle down with you answered it what because he won't get laid But if it's a woman he wants to settle down with and it's a woman that he believes shares her values like she's a virgin, right?
02:44:06.000I think if a guy went on a date with you and they're like, hey, I have None of us know who she is.
02:49:22.000I mean, the thing is, you know, actually speak louder than words.
02:49:26.000I would say that your behavior throughout the podcast is adds credence to what they were saying that you're coming here to argue because you have made a bunch of bad faith arguments.
02:50:56.000Okay, well, I'll just say, based off your behaviors, I would say that I would...
02:51:00.000I think they might be telling the truth, honestly, because your behaviors are indicating on what they're saying that you came here to argue.
02:51:06.000I came here to combat your rhetoric and to grow my OnlyFans.
02:51:09.000I didn't even know I was going to argue with you.
02:56:41.000Other than that, other than that, I feel like...
02:56:43.000Everything other than that has been fine, but I just feel like for people to talk about how, like, women are this and that, you guys should, like, read and use proper grammar in English.
02:59:36.000So two girls on the panel don't want to.
02:59:38.000What I've come to realize is that typically most women do want to get married unless like there's some extraordinary life circumstance that hurts their ability to do so and they kind of just cope with it, whether it's being involved in sex work or being older.
03:01:26.000You're saying they do want to smash, and now it's just up to the metaverse.
03:01:28.000I would say you would have a serious long-term boyfriend if they didn't just want to fuck you.
03:01:33.000Yeah, and I've had serious long-term, like not like lifelong, I don't even believe in lifelong, but I'm saying that- You would have a guy now is my point.
03:01:42.000If you were as high, if you were as attractive and as marketable as a long-term girlfriend as you claim, like I get lawyers, blah, blah, blah, and they want me, all this other stuff, you would have a guy.
03:04:01.000What I'm saying is that your options of men drops off precipitously as you get older, and more than likely, the man that wants to marry you at 38 isn't the man that you want back in return.
03:04:39.000So, okay, a man may want them young and whatever, with no kids and no baggage, but they're actually going to marry someone with kids and baggage and bullshit.
03:04:56.000But instead, you're in a relationship with a guy that you're not aroused by, you don't respect him, you don't like him like that, and you're tolerating him for financial security.
03:05:04.000You're in a relationship right now with a man that you don't even like, and you're dealing with that because you don't have the same level of options in the sexual marketplace due to your age.
03:05:13.000When you were younger, would you have been in a similar circumstance?
03:05:16.000I wish I would have been in this circumstance.
03:05:30.000Their life decisions put them in a certain predicament, and then they'll go ahead and cope off of what's going on, off that predicament, off of their life decisions.
03:05:37.000In other words, a girl will be involved in some type of behavior or action or profession that hurts her ability to find a man.
03:05:42.000Oh, I don't want to get married anyway.
03:06:40.000Your cope now is a sex work, but before, the guys didn't probably want to date you or take it seriously or commit to you because you might have not been a pleasant woman to be around long term.
03:06:48.000Men typically don't want to be with a girl that's going to argue with them and challenge their authority all the time and try to compete with them, etc.
03:06:55.000I know you're saying, oh yeah, I could get with lawyers, blah, blah, blah, but it's kind of competing and men don't really give a shit about that.
03:07:00.000Men already got to go out to the world and compete.
03:07:01.000Last thing you want to do is compete with your girl.
03:07:31.000And then after the attractiveness, all the other things can come into play.
03:07:34.000But men don't have a priority on IQ and intelligence and education like women have on men.
03:07:39.000It's maybe fifth place for us versus it's like maybe first or second or third place for you guys.
03:07:43.000For IQ? Men don't care about females' IQ to the same degree that women care about men's IQ. Men don't care about competence to the same level that women care about competence.
03:11:25.000The general public would argue that pornography is not ethical.
03:11:29.000So this is an appeal to popular belief, which is a logical fallacy.
03:11:32.000Just because the world doesn't think this, doesn't mean that it's unethical.
03:11:35.000You guys have to base your ethics on something.
03:11:37.000If you're just basing it on what people believe, then what you guys are doing is super unethical because most people don't agree with you guys.
03:11:56.000Versus being able to have uncomfortable conversations and tell people how the world really works, regardless of their feelings, are not the same.
03:12:03.000I understand that, but to corporate America...
03:12:05.000No, the corporate America, if that's the metric, they would much rather hire me.
03:12:10.000We never made the argument that we're ethical.
03:13:59.000The society that we live in, which is one of the most progressive societies, most liberal societies, even in the United States, if you pulled most people, they would say, ah, yeah, pornography is kind of unethical.
03:14:09.000And 15 years ago, if we pulled people on gay marriage, people change.
03:16:19.000What most people believe, just like most people used to believe the earth is flat and it wasn't, that didn't make it true.
03:16:24.000Either things are true or they're not true.
03:16:25.000So if you're talking about ethics, which is different than the earth is flat, right, because that's a different type of fact, then we need to be able to ground ethics.
03:18:46.000Do you have something that you want to say?
03:18:49.000If your daughter, because you're so perfect, if your daughter came up to you and said, hey, let's say she's my age, and she goes, she could choose a wonderful career path,
03:20:14.000So if you care about society, if that's something that doesn't make it unethical, just like being gay, in my opinion, I don't know what you guys think, isn't unethical.
03:20:21.000But if someone was like, oh, I don't know if I should come out.
03:20:23.000And back in the day, it was more stigmatized.
03:20:25.000And I was like, hey, yeah, I don't know if you should come out because there could be negative.
03:20:28.000It doesn't make what you're doing unethical, though.
03:20:30.000That's crazy that you think pornography is ethical.
03:21:20.000You said that because corporate America thinks I'm unethical.
03:21:24.000Having difficult conversations that might have some controversial takes on it because of political correctness is not the same as getting fucked on camera.
03:21:33.000I think getting fucked on camera is unethical because it looks bad on the firm.
03:21:38.000But if you actually ask all the lawyers I worked with, they were like, oh yeah, they don't have an actual moral issue.
03:21:43.000They're women and they're men and they're like Literally, that's what I'm saying.
03:21:47.000They're not going to tell you to your face.
03:21:49.000For instance, I was just on a podcast with two Texas attorneys who found me on the Texas attorney Facebook page and they were like, all the comments were positive.
03:21:57.000They're definitely talking bad about you behind your back.
03:24:26.000For the lawyer girl, how many of her friends who are lawyers know she does OnlyFans, also like Destiny, just saying BS with confidence is still BS to lawyers.
03:24:34.000Second wives won't be in the same field as them.
03:24:37.000Actually, I started OnlyFans because one of the other girls in law school started one.
03:26:44.000Okay, so which other ladies here, if you had a point or disagreement or anything else that you guys want to discuss, feel free.
03:26:50.000Well, we can start here and then work our way.
03:26:53.000Questions, comments, last thoughts on the show?
03:26:56.000I just want to say if there's any females watching this or even guys watching this that are thinking about doing OnlyFans or porn, don't do it.
03:32:15.000And I think you made a lot of arguments in bad faith, in the face of objective fact, Use certain phrases and terminologies to make yourself sound like an authority in situations, even though it was strictly, it was incorrect.
03:32:28.000You know, you tried to say, well, I need studies and stats for, you know, things that are universally known and accepted throughout the world and throughout history, which, let's be honest, it would never be passed as a study because certain things like figuring out a woman's body count, we know women typically under report.
03:32:44.000So wouldn't that be me not making myself an authority?
03:32:48.000I'm saying within the confinement of this discussion.
03:32:51.000And here's the thing, too, because that's very interesting.
03:32:54.000You made a lot of arguments and talking points that a lot of liberal women would make to justify and rationalize certain...
03:33:03.000Life choices, whether it's being promiscuous, getting into sex work, saying that I don't necessarily really want to get married, blah, blah, blah, a lot of rationalizations, a lot of cope.
03:33:10.000And I think it was important for the audience to kind of see because you used a lot of the same talking points that leftists and liberals use to rationalize and justify their actions.
03:34:01.000What gets used, that's what makes the argument.
03:34:04.000My argument is that women typically are not attracted to liberal men that think that men and women are equal and I'm going to do this and you do that.
03:34:11.000Women want a man who's going to be a leader and dominant.
03:34:15.000And even though you came from a very equal, egalitarian society, you came to the United States and you were attracted to a man that shows the traits that you didn't think you'd be attracted to, but you are.
03:35:25.000If the woman wants someone to pay her rent and give her a really lavish lifestyle, then yeah.
03:35:28.000If that's the thing she's looking for, then yeah.
03:35:30.000But if a woman is just looking for to be taken care of, and that's what she's looking for, and she doesn't have this really extravagant height, she doesn't want this kind of lifestyle, then she's going to look for it.
03:35:40.000She wants guys that are also kind, maybe intelligent.
03:35:42.000I told you, intelligence was actually found in the study to be a necessity for both genders.
03:35:56.000And part of the prerequisites also for men...
03:35:59.000But you're overlooking the difficulty of getting these prerequisites.
03:36:02.000And the reason for that is because you're a female and life is easy for women and you guys don't have to necessarily work to become attractive.
03:36:09.000I would say that people of lower socioeconomic status who don't make a lot of money also may also get married.
03:36:14.000It's not just that these rich, high-status men are the only ones having sex and mating.
03:36:19.000And if your audience thinks that that's the reason they're not doing well, I would implore them to maybe look at other factors that may be causing it.
03:37:14.000And women are not attracted to equality.
03:37:16.000You have someone that comes from an egalitarian society telling you right to your face, yo, I like my new boyfriend in America who does not observe equality in egalitarian belief system.
03:37:40.000But at the same time, Right now here I've seen this side like even before back home in Sweden I was like I was the biggest hater of like men that was telling women that they wanted to have a housewife like I was like you're like the worst people to this earth like I was like I'd be happy but then now when I moved here I see the different side I would be more than happy if I get a man here that's able to provide for me so I can provide my own kids But
03:38:12.000also because it's literally like it's so far left.
03:38:15.000So like in Sweden, no man gets the amount of money and the childcare is a little bit better, but like no man can provide that much money.
03:38:22.000That's why you need both parents need to work.
03:38:26.000But then here, when I see how it is here, if I have a man that could provide for me, I would die to...
03:38:38.000I don't know if y'all just heard what I heard, but all that equality and egalitarianism went out the fucking window as soon as she came here, even though she came from a society where everyone was equal, 50-50, blah blah blah, but then she gets a taste of a man being a leader, a chivalry, etc.
03:38:54.000Her being able to be a woman, to be feminine, she likes that more.
03:40:48.000So for a man, at that case, he's going to work hard, make sure he has his money, and so he can provide for your son or for whatever child you have, right?
03:41:08.000So with that in saying, feminism, and I'm not saying that feminism is wrong, but the extreme that it is today, which I'm sorry, but you side with it more.
03:41:20.000Feminism right now is that it's going so extreme that these...
03:41:26.000Kids don't know what they're learning anymore.
03:41:29.000They're having teachers that are teaching them that all these different things, whether it's gay or if it's being too girly or being able to provide themselves, is taking over.
03:41:41.000And they need to have a parent, they have to have a mother that's in the traditional side taking over and saying, hey, you need to make sure I have provided you this and this, and you need a father that's doing masculinity.
03:42:45.000And going back with what you were saying, the reason why is because feminism has basically lied to women over multiple decades, telling them to chase a career, make money, be sexually empowered, and there will be happiness at the end of it.
03:42:55.000And what we've come to realize now is that as feminism has gotten stronger, women are taking more antidepressants than ever.
03:43:01.000More women are reporting less happiness.
03:45:06.000If I go out with a girl for eight months and she doesn't give me sex and I'm just giving her money and hanging out with her, she doesn't give me sex.
03:45:12.000Whose fault is it that I'm not getting sex?
03:45:58.000You're missing the entire point because you were saying, oh, what if you go with a guy, he has a car, his boat, blah, blah, blah, blah.
03:46:03.000And then I find out later on that he's a broke or whatever.
03:46:05.000I'm saying, I use the analogy, if the guy goes out with you for eight months thinking that he's going to get laid and he doesn't get laid, whose fault is it?
03:46:11.000Is it his fault for being duped or is it your fault for not giving the sex?
03:46:14.000No, it's his fault for being duped because he's an idiot and he doesn't realize that you don't really like him.
03:46:17.000Same exact situation, the functional equivalent, right?
03:46:20.000The woman that can't detect that the guy's a loser from the first place in the face of cars, boats, etc., the facade they can't see besides the smoke and mirrors, is the same thing as the guy that can't get laid for eight months.
03:46:29.000They're both retarded and not being able to understand the opposite gender's goals.
03:46:45.000When you're dating, and everybody's putting their best foot forward, how are you going to know someone's going to be a bum a year into the relationship?
03:46:55.000Until you find out, oh my god, this person is a bum, and yet now we have a child, now we're married, and now I have to be the feminist and take over and take care of the household.
03:47:05.000That's your fault for picking the wrong guy.
03:47:08.000The accountability is on you for picking the wrong guy.
03:47:44.000Any guy that's a go-getter, that's ambitious, that's that fucking guy, right?
03:47:49.000He's going to make sure that he's jobless for a small period of time to get back on it.
03:47:53.000Okay, so if he had something traumatic, like his parent died, a death, something that's traumatic happened to his life that he's no longer that protector, provider, he's not that dude anymore.
03:48:33.000This is why men and women aren't equal because when women are in a leadership role or they're the ones providing or protecting or any of that shit, they immediately get angry and say, fuck this shit.
03:50:16.000And I'm really hoping that, like, especially with...
03:50:20.000I understand woman empowerment and men empowerment, but I really hope that both can teach one another to...
03:50:28.000Men can empower themselves to be more masculine and women can be finally feminine because it's like too much is taking over and it's like even me for being 18 years old it's it's hard to find even other people who think alike because it's like those guys that do this is like as this generation goes by I seem to get more disappointed and disappointed because I'm just like wow like Yeah.