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00:07:02.000Alright, so you fulfill Airbnbs for landlords, you do real estate, and then you also do concierge helping people get yachts and or jet skis.
00:20:34.000Oh, um, Myron, I hear you talk a lot about high-value men, and I've heard you talk a little bit about your opinions on, like, quote, high-value women, but I want to know what exactly you would consider a high-value woman to be.
00:20:49.000A woman that could lock down a high value man.
00:20:52.000I think women's value in the sexual marketplace is dictated, again, not their personal value as a human being, but their value within the dating marketplace, within relationships, right, are typically determined by the caliber of man they can attract.
00:21:07.000I think that's why women put such a concerted effort into putting their looks into a certain, you know, trying to look as good as they can.
00:21:14.000Women prioritize relationships, typically, over men.
00:21:18.000So, I think a girl's value, a lot of the times, from a relationship standpoint, her measurement of success is, do you have the best guy that you can get?
00:21:26.000Versus a man is, how many hot chicks can you attract?
00:21:53.000Versus you look at someone like Nina Agdal, the woman that's with Logan Paul right now, who's getting embarrassed all over the internet, I would consider that's like a lower value woman that got lucky.
00:22:03.000Actually, she's suing Dylan Dennis now.
00:24:09.000We're seeing it in the most vicious way, obviously, with Dylan Dennis, because they have this boxing promo or whatever.
00:24:14.000But, yeah, I mean, this happens all the time, whether you're in high school and people ridicule you for being with a girl that's, you know, hooked up with some football player or in college, you know, wifing up some girl that's a sorority, 304.
00:24:25.000Men have always kind of shit on each other for taking women seriously that don't necessarily deserve that position.
00:24:31.000And I would argue even more so, women lose respect for you, too.
00:24:35.000Like, girls make fun of 304s more than men do.
00:24:38.000Because, like, with girls, y'all still shame even more.
00:27:01.000They'll never say, oh, you know, I never committed to you because, you know, you kind of dress a little too provocatively when I'm not around.
00:27:06.000Some guys might, but they'll just be like, eh.
00:27:08.000I think they're trying to come out about it.
00:27:47.000How does that have to do with anything?
00:27:49.000Because men get with women that they want to be in this certain criteria, and then those same women get cheated on with the people who are not fit to be of a high value.
00:28:02.000I don't know them, so I can't speak on it.
00:28:04.000The woman he cheats on her with, he likely doesn't care about her.
00:28:08.000I think when a man cheats on his woman, and by cheating I mean it was in the contract that we're to be exclusive.
00:28:16.000If a man cheats on his woman, it doesn't always mean he doesn't love his woman, and it usually means he doesn't care about the other woman, especially if she's a hoe.
00:28:26.000Well, that's the difference between, like...
00:28:33.000If a man cheats on his woman, he just lacks self-control.
00:28:38.000It doesn't mean that he doesn't care about her, and it doesn't mean that he cares about the...
00:29:39.000For the contract, and I totally believe in contracts when it comes to relationships, because that's how open communication is.
00:29:46.000Okay, so if, let's say this guy makes a certain amount of money, he's going to, and he's taking care of you, you don't have to pay no bills, you're basically just being taken care of, right?
00:32:09.000But that's, again, what I was trying to go back to with the contract thing.
00:32:12.000If y'all both understand the roles, so if he's taking care of everything and he decides he wants to plant his seed or whatever he wants to do, you know, that's kind of hard because he does have full control.
00:32:24.000So that's why I brought up my situation because of the fact I didn't take, like, I did not care about what he had going on because I was taking care of everything.
00:32:33.000So, you have to have a contract and understand what is allowed, what is not allowed.
00:33:28.000It's just, I don't think it's tit for tat.
00:33:30.000What I'm saying is, it's just like, I don't think we should put other people value down just because it's not what a man value thinks it should be.
00:33:40.000Who gives out the relationships though?
00:34:00.000I'm saying that it's the men that give out the relationships, so wouldn't it be fair to say that the women should kind of know and understand what men want?
00:34:07.000I agree, but at the same time, do men know what they want?
00:35:27.000There's a lot of estrogen, and they're nurturing a human life.
00:35:30.000They want a man who's masculine to protect them.
00:35:32.000So women want one man, and they want a masculine man.
00:35:36.000And then men, they can impregnate whoever they want, whenever they want.
00:35:41.000So that's what they're biologically hardwired to want as a species, because that's how you get the best quality and the most quantity of your own offspring as possible.
00:35:52.000And you will stay with someone like that.
00:35:55.000I mean, the only reason I marry him is because of the type of person he is and the type of relationship we have.
00:36:06.000So if I thought he was the type of person that would go behind my back...
00:36:10.000But you're saying that he biologically wants to put his offspring in everybody, so that means you would be with someone like that.
00:37:57.000So listen, if you find out your man cheated on you, why are you going to leave?
00:38:02.000Well, I feel like that would be a discussion that we would have before even getting in a relationship.
00:38:07.000And obviously, what I was going to ask when you guys were talking about it, I was going to ask if a relationship, like this, who's, like for example, you and I are in a relationship, let's say, right?
00:40:29.000I went on a date with a guy and he was making a lot of money and then we were about to settle down and he asked me, would you be down for it?
00:42:00.000Because I know that he wouldn't want, again, with Logan Paul thing, you want your girl to represent you.
00:42:08.000And then you don't want to be, as a high-value man, you don't want a girl that's working at a club, going out, and then be represented by that.
00:42:16.000So you kind of shielded him from the shame you were going to put him through.
00:42:42.000And then for you, if you had a man, because I didn't forget about you, he cheated on you, would you stay?
00:42:50.000It's hard because I feel like I value loyalty so much, but if it's a relationship like she's explaining, I could maybe do it, but I don't want to accept it.
00:42:58.000But I know in reality that's what you have to accept.
00:43:13.000But because of the type of relationship where we're super open and honest and there isn't really any arguing, and I can be certain because there's no lies that if he says he loves me, then he does.
00:43:26.000And if he says he's going to be monogamous with me, then he'll stick to his word.
00:43:32.000Since we have that relationship, that's why I say I would stay with him if that happened.
00:43:37.000It's unlikely, but I would stay with him.
00:43:43.000And I think, going back to the contract thing, if in the beginning you made the deal that it's exclusive and he goes behind your back...
00:43:54.000Then that's disrespectful, but it also says something about you because as I was saying earlier, if you don't want to be lied to, you can't punish the truth.
00:44:02.000So if he felt like the truth was going to be punished and he couldn't come to you with the truth or even come to you with the fact that he was interested in other girls, that's because you have created that type of dynamic where he doesn't feel like he can be honest with you.
00:44:17.000Or it's because of his family upbringing and having to tiptoe or walk on eggshells.
00:44:51.000Well, yeah, obviously, but people who know me well tell me the truth because I make it very clear the truth isn't going to make me emotional.
00:46:37.000When you're arguing, there's so much emotion that's happening and yelling and people get offended and you can't really get down to the truth.
00:46:45.000Right now, I would consider what we're talking about a debate.
00:46:47.000I wouldn't say that's an argument because I don't think we're...
00:47:00.000So it's not that I wouldn't talk to him about it, and it would be an honest discussion, but I'm not going to scream at him, and I'm not going to disrespect him and make him feel like he has a reason to lie to me.
00:48:58.000What we're biologically hardwired to be.
00:49:00.000So when a woman is pregnant and she's extremely emotional, she needs a man who can be rational to be someone she can lean on and someone she can look to.
00:49:50.000So we expect them to, you know, not cheat instead of realizing, like, that is an individual who is constant to change.
00:49:57.000Like, yes, we're supposed to stand on our word, but...
00:50:00.000Things will happen and being arrogant enough to think that that person will never change or something won't happen could lead to that anger.
00:50:12.000Ego causes you to not be able to understand or put yourself in their shoes.
00:50:18.000When I say ego kills relationships, I would say in a healthy relationship, both partners are focusing on their own flaws and the other person's strengths.
00:50:27.000Because when you're doing that, when I'm focusing on my flaws, I can work on them.
00:50:30.000And when I'm focusing on my husband's strengths, I can pour myself into him and make him feel good about being in the relationship.
00:50:39.000But if I'm so focused on what I'm doing right and I'm not thinking about what I'm doing wrong, I'm thinking about what he's doing wrong, I'm going to nag at him.
00:50:50.000And if he did that with me, if he was so focused on everything I was doing wrong, it would be the same thing.
00:50:56.000So yeah, it's kind of like, I don't know if I disagree with either one of y'all because I see both points and that's why I'm just like, maybe it's just ego.
00:51:08.000I know from my experience, things that should have gotten an emotional outburst from me obviously made me very emotional, but in order to cope with it, I have to analyze the situation and kind of distance myself from it so that I don't feel so emotional towards it.
00:51:29.000And that actually helps me not be so emotionally affected by it.
00:51:33.000I think that's something that anyone can use.
00:55:03.000I wanted to go back to your original statement about the ego.
00:55:06.000I honestly truly believe that it's worse when the man has the ego than the female, only because of the, I don't know if I'm saying this term properly, but like the biology difference, like he is naturally stronger.
00:55:19.000So with that being said, like, if that woman does something wrong, it could be like, I mean, a death sentence for her.
00:55:27.000You're speaking from a physicality standpoint?
00:55:47.000I guess maybe, well, on the physical side, I feel like he would, you know, want to make her obey, so he's going to be more aggressive with her.
00:55:53.000But if we're talking about a man of a certain stature, yeah, he'll just get another woman if he wants to.
00:57:04.000Just because, like as she was saying, I feel like if a woman has a really big ego, she's just going to be like, oh, okay, well, I'm pretty, I'm beautiful, I got this, I got that, so I can have any guy I want, I can just go out, so I think.
00:57:20.000Did you peg your value as higher than the guy that you were with that had the money?
00:59:36.000But you think it's the woman because, or the specific reason you gave a lot there?
00:59:42.000Why do you think it's worse when a woman has an ego in a relationship?
00:59:45.000Because, like she said, men are prone to cheat.
00:59:49.000So if you think that you're going to find another man that just doesn't cheat, you're going to miss out on your last relationship because that man cheated too.
01:02:16.000I mean, not if I'm trying to find a man organically.
01:02:19.000If you're prone to dating online and that's what you think you're going to find the love of your life, you got to get your passport, travel, meet people outside.
01:02:26.000But realistically speaking, wouldn't it be fair to say that if you got a thousand DMs from men, that's going to affect your in-real-life interactions with men?
01:02:37.000If that girl responds to all those DMs, or she's opening and waiting, or she likes attention, then yeah, it would definitely feed into that.
01:03:31.000Yeah, because women tend to look at men.
01:03:33.000When I talk about men to y'all, you guys assume he's attractive.
01:03:35.000But you're not thinking about the guy that's 5'6", that might be stocking shelves at Walmart, or a guy that's a plumber that's 5'9 or 8, or a guy that's a regular-looking guy with a mustache.
01:03:45.000Like, y'all don't think of these men when I talk about them.
01:03:47.000I actually do, because I am a regular, average woman from Michigan in a town that no one knows even exists.
01:04:10.000Okay, so I know most of the girls here are from Miami, and I do feel like sometimes...
01:04:17.000When you are talking about the most girls, I do feel as though that Charles talking about girls that are in Miami and not girls that actually don't.
01:04:25.000No, even other city, major cities, other places, like...
01:04:29.000I mean, women are fairly delusional, thanks to Instagram.
01:04:31.000I mean, you guys admitted it, that do you think Instagram plays a role in women's egos?
01:05:09.000Yeah, and they're going to be on a yacht or whatever if they're going to come to Miami.
01:05:12.000So it's like, women just have certain opportunities that opens up situations that makes them not necessarily value other situations that they might come into in real life.
01:05:24.000Like, maybe before Instagram, before online dating, I was like, oh, man, this guy really approached me with a bouquet of flowers and said I'm attractive.
01:05:30.000I mean, he's not the most handsome, but that was a really nice gesture.
01:06:27.000Yeah, but that doesn't change the fact that you picked this guy or whatever, but you still went to a party with a bunch of streamers, right?
01:10:15.000No, no, we're saying the business in general that you partake in is male-dominated for funds because they spend the money for experiences...
01:14:43.000Because of the fact that I actually went to college and I am also going to be a flight attendant, which is something I've wanted to do for a while.
01:14:56.000But also for the fact that I'm not just, I'm just being myself.
01:15:04.000I'm not trying to fit into any stereotype.
01:15:06.000I'm just Just here, just existing and experiencing life.
01:20:46.000She looked like she wanted to fight me.
01:20:48.000With that being said, though, I'm a girl's girl, so if somebody's man thinks he's going to pick me up, I'm actually going to fight him now.
01:20:56.000No, I might not win, but I'm not going to sit there and hold on to...
01:24:50.000I think it's not only that, it's just because I apply all of the morals and values that he preached to me when growing up.
01:24:57.000He's a very wise man, very well articulated, and he cares about his children deeply, so he puts in a lot of effort in making sure they get raised the right way, and I applied all the things that he taught me, so I don't think he'd have any reason not to be proud of me.
01:25:11.000Let me ask the ladies on the panel that aren't married.
01:25:13.000Do you think your dad would be more proud of you if you were married to a man?
01:27:17.000He doesn't want me to have a boyfriend.
01:27:19.000But if you were married to like a guy that you actually wanted to be with that took care of you, would he be more proud of you or less proud of you?
01:29:44.000Well, actually, one, she stole a guy's hat and ran, and he was a worker for a shoe store, and he whipped her with this metal pole that used to get things from up high.
01:38:08.000Okay, so, no, I don't believe that means she's cheating because if we're taking it back to an actual traditional relationship, if you're dealing with a loyal woman, more than likely she, or, let's take it this way,
01:38:24.000if she's in her ego, she might stay with him just so that no one knows that Like, so that everyone knows that she's still in a relationship.
01:38:34.000Now, if we're taking it away from ego and we're going tradition, the woman may stay and not react because she wants to keep the family together.
01:38:40.000She doesn't want the children to see what's going on.
01:38:42.000So that could be also another reason why she's not reacting.
01:46:08.000So in order for my husband, my companion, my leader, my inspiration to be that, I also have to be able to take a step back out of that masculine energy.
01:47:58.000To answer your other question, too, but yeah, if you're being honest with me, straightforward, like, okay, I can do this, I can do that, right?
01:49:17.000Farhan goes, men have the right to the final say in decisions generally because they are required to put their life on the line to protect their wife.
01:49:24.000A wife isn't assigned that ultimate role.
01:50:57.000Even if you look at girls that are involved in, whether it's OnlyFans or being a whore or whatever, the women that are the best at what they do, whether it's a good wife or Or a whore?
02:01:50.000He definitely plays something because for her to give him a shot, he's got to play some kind of college ball at some acceptable level for her to take him because he don't got money, right?
02:07:07.000You gave a lot of different reasons on what you bring to table that could make you a prize girl, but in the relationship, just because you're bringing those to the table doesn't make you the prize.
02:07:18.000If you have a high-value man who deserves all of that treatment, then he's high-value making him the prize.
02:07:26.000You might be a prize woman, but you're not the prize, which is what they were arguing.
02:10:05.000Girls that are on the internet, girls that are looking to stream, girls that are looking to do anything on Instagram, get clad up, blah, blah, blah.
02:10:10.000Y'all are one DM away from cheating on your boyfriends.
02:10:56.000And it's really easy to get it off of Instagram.
02:10:58.000And so if you're getting all that validation and praise off of men off of Instagram, you're going to start looking at Instagram instead of, You're a man for validation and for praise, and you're going to stop working for his validation and for his praise and start working for it on the internet by posting your body, which is disrespectful.
02:11:13.000Actually, why would you do that if you're in a relationship?
02:11:37.000Girls want to have an Instagram up whilst having a guy so they can get a better option.
02:11:43.000And what I would argue with someone like you, because you're saying to yourself, like, well, why would you have that relationship?
02:11:47.000Well, if you're a streamer, or if you're a content creator as a female, you have to maintain an internet profile to continue to keep yourself out there from a business perspective.
02:11:55.000And I argue that you keeping yourself out there from a business perspective could potentially hurt the relationship.
02:12:00.000That's why, personally, I don't fuck with girls and take them seriously.
02:33:25.000What wreck body do you have to have a guy be loyal to only you?
02:33:29.000To be honest, I don't think I have, like, a rare quality because there's so many options in the world, but I just feel like it just depends on the connection we have between me and the guy.