Fresh & Fit - Married TradCon Woman Debates Independent Black Queens!

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00:00:34.000 F*** out. 1.00

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00:00:53.000 Alright, we are back.

00:00:54.000 What's up, guys?

00:00:55.000 Welcome to the Fresh Fit Podcast after our edition, man.

00:00:57.000 Quick analysis before we get into the show.

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00:02:04.000 200K on the way.

00:02:05.000 And guys, we're going to open up CEO Network on May 1st for more connections and value.

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00:02:42.000 Hopefully we don't get canceled.

00:02:43.000 We're going to see.

00:02:45.000 Oh, go ahead and get my book.

00:02:48.000 I forgot about this thing.

00:02:49.000 Why Women Deserve Less, guys. 1.00

00:02:51.000 I got it on paperback, okay, on hardcover, so make sure to go ahead and get it.

00:02:55.000 It's an Amazon bestseller. 0.99

00:02:57.000 She's like, hell no, nigga! 1.00

00:02:59.000 I already read it. 0.99

00:03:00.000 Oh, you did?

00:03:00.000 Yeah.

00:03:01.000 Oh, shoot.

00:03:01.000 Okay, she read the book.

00:03:03.000 Amazon bestseller, guys.

00:03:04.000 Check it out, man.

00:03:05.000 And I also got it on Audible, so if you guys want to hear me yell at you, because I do yell in the book, go ahead and check it out on Audible as well.

00:03:12.000 What about you, Chris?

00:03:21.000 Nope!

00:03:35.000 Alright.

00:03:36.000 Awesome.

00:03:37.000 Okay, ladies on the panel, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, and we'll start right here.

00:03:46.000 Welcome back.

00:03:47.000 Hi, my name's Kim.

00:03:48.000 I'm 18.

00:03:49.000 I resell vintage clothing.

00:03:53.000 Highest level of education is high school.

00:03:55.000 Dating status?

00:03:56.000 I like someone.

00:03:58.000 How's that going?

00:03:59.000 Good.

00:04:00.000 Awesome.

00:04:01.000 Welcome back.

00:04:03.000 Thank you.

00:04:03.000 We know who you are, but just tell them.

00:04:05.000 Icy.

00:04:06.000 Hi.

00:04:07.000 How are you?

00:04:09.000 28.

00:04:10.000 I work for a small local radio station in downtown Miami.

00:04:14.000 Yes, sir!

00:04:15.000 That's funny.

00:04:16.000 She unplugged the mic.

00:04:18.000 Genius! 1.00

00:04:19.000 Stupid! 1.00

00:04:21.000 I will do that after this. 1.00

00:04:23.000 Anyways, excuse me.

00:04:26.000 Relationship status is retarded? 0.97

00:04:28.000 Oh.

00:04:29.000 Is that a status?

00:04:31.000 I don't know.

00:04:32.000 I'm just...

00:04:33.000 I'm here.

00:04:35.000 I'm trying to figure it out.

00:04:37.000 Guys, I don't know about you, but this is not that Icy met a couple months ago.

00:04:42.000 So you transformed, Icy.

00:04:43.000 Shout out to you.

00:04:44.000 I mean, fresh really?

00:04:45.000 Because last week...

00:04:46.000 I don't know who that was.

00:04:49.000 If you know what I mean, guys, it's on Locals, just so you know.

00:04:52.000 I don't know who that was.

00:04:53.000 I don't know what y'all talk about.

00:04:54.000 Anyways, yeah, just go follow my Twitch.

00:04:57.000 I do behind the scenes for everybody.

00:04:58.000 I just uploaded a video, so go check that out in here.

00:05:02.000 Cool.

00:05:03.000 Shout out to you.

00:05:04.000 What about you?

00:05:05.000 Hey, everyone.

00:05:05.000 My name's Chanel.

00:05:06.000 Hey, y'all.

00:05:07.000 Hey.

00:05:08.000 I'm 22.

00:05:10.000 I'm a licensed massage therapist, a hustler, and I am studying to become a yoga instructor.

00:05:17.000 Nice.

00:05:18.000 So, yeah, I'm single, vibing, just living life, yeah.

00:05:22.000 Where are you from?

00:05:23.000 I'm from Jersey.

00:05:24.000 Jersey?

00:05:24.000 South Jersey.

00:05:26.000 Okay.

00:05:26.000 But I live in Broward County now.

00:05:28.000 Dangerous.

00:05:29.000 Okay.

00:05:29.000 Good to know.

00:05:30.000 It's the hood, ain't it?

00:05:31.000 Yeah.

00:05:32.000 Highest education level completed?

00:05:34.000 Some college, yeah.

00:05:37.000 Associate's degree?

00:05:38.000 No.

00:05:39.000 You said you have a massage therapy cert?

00:05:41.000 So I started college, I didn't like it, and then I chose to get a license.

00:05:46.000 Okay, so I put massage therapy.

00:05:48.000 I gotta ask though, do you give happy endings?

00:05:50.000 No, that's illegal, and I could lose my license for that.

00:05:53.000 Wow, okay, good to know.

00:05:55.000 She has to say that.

00:05:55.000 No, no, no, for me, the chat.

00:05:57.000 The chat doesn't even want to know.

00:05:58.000 Not me, man.

00:05:59.000 How about Avail's niche?

00:06:01.000 No, I'm not into prostitution.

00:06:03.000 Sorry.

00:06:04.000 W. What about you?

00:06:06.000 Hello, I'm Isabella.

00:06:07.000 I'm 24 years old.

00:06:08.000 I am married with a baby on the way, and I host a daily show on LFA TV on Rumble, and I do a weekly show on Censor.TV, and some may call me a right-wing extremist.

00:06:18.000 That's probably true.

00:06:19.000 Oh, wow.

00:06:20.000 Welcome.

00:06:21.000 Okay.

00:06:23.000 Where are you originally from?

00:06:24.000 Originally from Connecticut.

00:06:26.000 I live in Yeehaw, Texas now.

00:06:28.000 Yeehaw! 0.92

00:06:29.000 What part of Connecticut are you from?

00:06:31.000 Brooklyn, Connecticut, which no one's ever heard of.

00:06:33.000 I know, I know.

00:06:34.000 I went from Brooklyn, Connecticut to Brooklyn, New York, and now I live in Texas.

00:06:37.000 Where is Brooklyn, Connecticut?

00:06:39.000 It's right by Yukon.

00:06:40.000 No one's ever heard of it.

00:06:41.000 You're out there by stores, that's why.

00:06:43.000 Yes, exactly.

00:06:44.000 Okay, I'm from New Britain, so.

00:06:45.000 Oh, cool, cool.

00:06:46.000 Okay, so, and you said you're married?

00:06:48.000 Yes.

00:06:49.000 How long have you been married for?

00:06:49.000 Six months.

00:06:50.000 Okay.

00:06:51.000 Nice.

00:06:51.000 Yeah.

00:06:52.000 And you're 24.

00:06:53.000 You said you do like podcasting with like conservative talk show?

00:06:56.000 Yeah.

00:06:57.000 Yep.

00:06:57.000 Sweet.

00:06:58.000 And then you're originally from CET. You live in Texas now.

00:07:00.000 Yep.

00:07:01.000 And then highest education level completed?

00:07:03.000 Some college.

00:07:04.000 I dropped out a month before graduating because I got, I was sick of it. 0.83

00:07:07.000 I was fully for college and then I thought it was stupid during COVID and I was going to go to law school.

00:07:12.000 And then I realized I just wanted to go to get, I really didn't want to be a lawyer.

00:07:16.000 I just wanted to start my career in politics that way.

00:07:18.000 And I realized, I'm like, I'm just going into this elitist education BS. And so my dumb ass dropped out a month before graduating. 0.99

00:07:25.000 And I was like, you know what? 1.00

00:07:26.000 I'm not going to do law school.

00:07:28.000 I'm going to do TikTok.

00:07:29.000 And then now I'm here.

00:07:31.000 So I'm happy though.

00:07:33.000 How many months are you?

00:07:34.000 I am four months.

00:07:35.000 You must be hungry.

00:07:36.000 Yeah.

00:07:36.000 Well, I brought wheat thins just in case.

00:07:38.000 I'm telling you, they get hungry.

00:07:40.000 Yeah, that's true.

00:07:40.000 It's true.

00:07:41.000 Okay.

00:07:41.000 Cool.

00:07:42.000 And then, so you didn't finish.

00:07:44.000 You dropped out.

00:07:44.000 Where'd you go to do your undergrad before you decided to leave?

00:07:46.000 University of Massachusetts Amherst. 0.99

00:07:48.000 Oh shit, Zoomass? 1.00

00:07:49.000 Yes, Zoomass. 1.00

00:07:50.000 Zoomass, yeah. 0.54

00:07:51.000 Alright, cool.

00:07:53.000 What about you?

00:07:54.000 Hi, Lori.

00:07:56.000 I am 25.

00:07:58.000 I'm sorry, what was your first name?

00:07:58.000 I'm Lori.

00:07:59.000 Lori Harvey.

00:08:01.000 I'm 25.

00:08:02.000 I'm a business analyst.

00:08:04.000 Where are you originally from?

00:08:05.000 I'm from Boston.

00:08:06.000 Okay.

00:08:07.000 So I've been living here for a while now though.

00:08:09.000 Are you actually from Boston or are you from like a suburb?

00:08:12.000 No, I'm from the greater Boston area, like Malden.

00:08:16.000 Malden's not Boston.

00:08:18.000 It's like 15 minutes, right there.

00:08:20.000 You're in the area, but okay.

00:08:22.000 So you're from Malden, okay.

00:08:23.000 And then, what's your...

00:08:25.000 Excuse me.

00:08:26.000 So, what do you do for work?

00:08:27.000 I'm a business analyst.

00:08:29.000 Business analyst, okay, cool.

00:08:30.000 High certification level completed?

00:08:31.000 I got my bachelor's.

00:08:33.000 I'm currently studying to my master's in data analytics.

00:08:36.000 Data analytics?

00:08:37.000 Okay.

00:08:38.000 And where'd you get your bachelor's from?

00:08:40.000 FAU. Okay.

00:08:42.000 You didn't want to go to school in Boston, huh?

00:08:44.000 It's too cold.

00:08:45.000 Fair enough.

00:08:46.000 What's your relationship status?

00:08:48.000 I'm dating someone.

00:08:49.000 All right.

00:08:50.000 How long have I been together?

00:08:51.000 A year and four months.

00:08:53.000 Cool.

00:08:54.000 All right.

00:08:55.000 And you said you're pursuing your master's right now, right?

00:08:57.000 You're in grad school?

00:08:58.000 Mm-hmm.

00:08:58.000 Okay.

00:08:58.000 You said a year and a half?

00:09:00.000 A year and four months.

00:09:01.000 Is he a boyfriend?

00:09:02.000 Yeah.

00:09:03.000 Okay.

00:09:03.000 You just said dating.

00:09:05.000 But, like, it's dating...

00:09:06.000 Okay, I'm just curious.

00:09:08.000 What about you?

00:09:10.000 My name is Valerie.

00:09:11.000 I was born in New York.

00:09:13.000 I'm from Miami.

00:09:14.000 My family's from Columbia.

00:09:16.000 Are you from the city or part of New York?

00:09:19.000 New York, Queens.

00:09:21.000 Okay, so you're from the city.

00:09:22.000 Cool.

00:09:22.000 And how old are you?

00:09:23.000 18.

00:09:24.000 Okay.

00:09:25.000 So you were saying you're from New York City or Columbia descent.

00:09:29.000 What do you do for work?

00:09:31.000 I work on sales.

00:09:32.000 Okay.

00:09:40.000 I sell something.

00:09:42.000 I sell something that gets you in a good mood.

00:09:46.000 Happy. 0.95

00:09:47.000 I got the sauce for you, nigga. 1.00

00:10:01.000 The team's on. 0.76

00:10:02.000 Fantastic.

00:10:04.000 What's your highest education level completed?

00:10:06.000 High school.

00:10:07.000 And then what's your relationship status?

00:10:13.000 Are you in a relationship?

00:10:14.000 Talking stage.

00:10:15.000 Alright.

00:10:16.000 Let me guess, you're a celibate?

00:10:19.000 No.

00:10:20.000 Oh.

00:10:21.000 She belongs to the streets! 1.00

00:10:23.000 A bit.

00:10:26.000 That was terrible.

00:10:27.000 That was actually creative, though.

00:10:29.000 That was actually very creative.

00:10:31.000 Genius!

00:10:32.000 Genius!

00:10:33.000 What about you?

00:10:35.000 My name is Dina.

00:10:36.000 I'm 19.

00:10:38.000 I'm from Florida, a small town called Titusville.

00:10:41.000 Nobody knows.

00:10:41.000 It's like 30 minutes from Cape Canaveral where the shuttles and rockets go off.

00:10:46.000 I knew a girl from Titusville.

00:10:48.000 Really?

00:10:49.000 Yeah.

00:10:49.000 You guys have a lot of cruise ships coming.

00:10:56.000 I am a monitor tech right now, so I watch people's heart rate in the hospital.

00:11:02.000 I used to be a CNA and a medical assistant, and now I'm just kind of having a chillax job. 0.93

00:11:07.000 Wait, nurse? 0.80

00:11:08.000 No.

00:11:09.000 Wait, certified nursing assistant, but...

00:11:11.000 Is that Borderline nurse? 1.00

00:11:14.000 Yeah, Borderline.

00:11:15.000 I'm under a nurse.

00:11:17.000 Okay.

00:11:18.000 What's your...

00:11:21.000 I have a general AA. Oh, I'm also a full-time student and I'm working to get my BS in.

00:11:28.000 Don't do the noise.

00:11:32.000 You're pursuing your bachelors, but you have your associates right now.

00:11:34.000 Yeah, bachelors in nursing.

00:11:36.000 Okay.

00:11:38.000 What's your relationship status?

00:11:40.000 Very taken.

00:11:41.000 Cool.

00:11:41.000 How long have I been together?

00:11:43.000 Technically six years, but like, I mean, technically three, but six at the same time.

00:11:47.000 Wow.

00:11:48.000 Was it like on and off again?

00:11:50.000 Yeah, but not because of me or him. 0.84

00:11:53.000 It was more of crazy parents. 0.93

00:11:57.000 Oh, okay.

00:11:59.000 Alright, so six years total, but three years consistently as of recently.

00:12:03.000 Correct.

00:12:04.000 Alright, cool.

00:12:06.000 What about you?

00:12:06.000 Don't start.

00:12:07.000 Hey, I'm Ada.

00:12:09.000 I come from Spain.

00:12:10.000 I'm 23 years old.

00:12:11.000 I'm sorry, what was your first name again?

00:12:12.000 Ada.

00:12:13.000 Ada?

00:12:14.000 Ada.

00:12:15.000 People call me Ada here, but it's Ada.

00:12:17.000 Okay.

00:12:18.000 And then how old are you?

00:12:19.000 I'm 23 years old.

00:12:20.000 Okay.

00:12:20.000 You're from Spain?

00:12:21.000 Yeah, from Barcelona.

00:12:23.000 Okay.

00:12:24.000 And I did three years of med school, but I didn't finish.

00:12:27.000 I have to finish it.

00:12:28.000 Wait, nurse? 0.80

00:12:29.000 Okay.

00:12:30.000 No, it was for being a doctor.

00:12:32.000 Wait, medical?

00:12:33.000 Yeah.

00:12:35.000 Okay, so you have your bachelor's degree then?

00:12:38.000 Yeah.

00:12:38.000 Okay, so you have a bachelor's degree from Spain or from the United States?

00:12:41.000 From Spain.

00:12:41.000 I'm actually going back tomorrow.

00:12:42.000 It's my last day here.

00:12:43.000 Oh, wow.

00:12:45.000 Green Cardinal?

00:12:46.000 Oh, wow.

00:12:49.000 That's for now.

00:12:50.000 Okay, Chris.

00:12:53.000 All right, so you have your bachelor's degree in Spain.

00:12:56.000 What's your relationship status?

00:12:58.000 I'm meeting someone.

00:12:59.000 Okay.

00:13:00.000 Oh, you're seeing someone?

00:13:01.000 Yeah.

00:13:02.000 Okay, how long have you been seeing each other?

00:13:03.000 A couple of months, I would say.

00:13:05.000 Okay.

00:13:05.000 Nice.

00:13:07.000 Is he in Spain or America?

00:13:09.000 America.

00:13:10.000 That makes sense.

00:13:10.000 Did you come to visit him?

00:13:11.000 Yeah.

00:13:11.000 Okay, cool.

00:13:13.000 And then do you work right now or are you a full-time student?

00:13:17.000 I'm a full-time student.

00:13:18.000 I used to be a personal assistant, but not anymore.

00:13:21.000 Not anymore.

00:13:23.000 I have an accent, I know.

00:13:25.000 That's beautiful.

00:13:26.000 Okay, and you're working on, you said you're working on becoming a doctor, right?

00:13:28.000 So you're pursuing being a doctor.

00:13:30.000 I stopped like one year ago, and I may go back.

00:13:33.000 I'm doing broadcasting now, studying broadcasting online.

00:13:36.000 Oh, broadcasting.

00:13:37.000 Broadcasting.

00:13:37.000 Okay.

00:13:38.000 What are you broadcasting?

00:13:39.000 No, like, it's a course to know how to talk, how to be on camera.

00:13:45.000 Okay, so you're, like, learning, I guess, how to be on camera.

00:13:48.000 Communication skills, yeah.

00:13:49.000 It's useful for media training.

00:13:50.000 News reporting, media training.

00:13:52.000 Do you not want to be a doctor anymore?

00:13:54.000 I don't know.

00:13:55.000 I'm not sure.

00:13:56.000 I'm not sure.

00:13:57.000 I started on Twitter, like, some months ago, so that's growing pretty fast.

00:14:02.000 Okay.

00:14:03.000 Let's see what happens.

00:14:05.000 Alright, I'm gonna go ahead and play Audible here.

00:14:07.000 I got a question for you guys.

00:14:09.000 I saw this coming.

00:14:10.000 I'm gonna start here and then work my way back.

00:14:12.000 I'm gonna switch it up a little bit.

00:14:14.000 What were you told about this podcast before you came?

00:14:17.000 And what were your thoughts?

00:14:19.000 Misogony!

00:14:21.000 I actually never heard about this podcast.

00:14:24.000 I'm so sorry.

00:14:25.000 So, I have no expectations.

00:14:27.000 So, how'd you hear about it and what made you come?

00:14:31.000 So, my friend got invited.

00:14:33.000 She wanted to come.

00:14:34.000 She was like, maybe you want to come?

00:14:35.000 I was like, okay, let's do it.

00:14:38.000 Simple.

00:14:39.000 To the point.

00:14:40.000 You didn't do any research before?

00:14:41.000 No one told you, don't go or go or anything?

00:14:44.000 No, honestly.

00:14:46.000 I saw some clips on Instagram.

00:14:48.000 Okay, what were your thoughts when you saw the clips?

00:14:49.000 And ladies, I'm not going to attack you. 0.84

00:14:52.000 I'm just literally going to write down what you're saying.

00:14:54.000 I want to see what your impression was before you came.

00:14:57.000 So I thought I'm going to have so much fun telling my thoughts to the girls and maybe having some discussion about some topics.

00:15:10.000 I love controversy.

00:15:12.000 Nice.

00:15:13.000 So you thought it'd be fun because it's controversial?

00:15:14.000 Uh-huh.

00:15:15.000 Drama.

00:15:22.000 What about you?

00:15:24.000 What were your thoughts before the show and before coming on?

00:15:28.000 Okay, so I heard from you guys...

00:15:29.000 You're getting to us wrong.

00:15:30.000 No one's gonna...

00:15:31.000 No, yeah, I'm going to.

00:15:32.000 So my boyfriend started watching you.

00:15:34.000 I have no clue how he found you guys.

00:15:36.000 And he showed me a video one day while we were laying in bed, and I was so pissed. 0.99

00:15:41.000 I was like, turn this shit off. 0.99

00:15:42.000 We got into a huge argument about it. 1.00

00:15:44.000 And then I kept watching you guys, and I was like, I actually kind of like these people.

00:15:48.000 But then I was scared coming here, and I'm still scared now because my boyfriend thinks I'm gonna get kicked off.

00:15:52.000 But I'm not like that.

00:15:53.000 He's just...

00:15:54.000 Weird. 1.00

00:15:55.000 Just out of curiosity, what was it that made you say, turn this shit off and got you angry? 0.99

00:16:02.000 And then what made you say, you know what? 0.99

00:16:03.000 I like this.

00:16:04.000 When did you have that turning point? 1.00

00:16:06.000 What made you say, fuck this shit first? 1.00

00:16:09.000 I don't know, because I don't even know which video it was. 1.00

00:16:12.000 I don't know. 0.98

00:16:13.000 You guys just started talking crap about them. 0.60

00:16:15.000 Do you remember in particular? 0.96

00:16:17.000 No.

00:16:18.000 But afterwards, when I kept listening, I was like, you know what?

00:16:21.000 He's right.

00:16:22.000 They're right.

00:16:23.000 And I was like, I know what I really want, but I know also what I've been taught.

00:16:28.000 So I just kind of feel like sometimes...

00:16:28.000 I don't know.

00:16:31.000 It's all a lie.

00:16:33.000 Like, what I was taught versus what you guys were, like, bringing to reality.

00:16:37.000 Like, I don't know, because you're taught, like, as a woman, don't do this. 1.00

00:16:41.000 And, like, you know, you need to be independent, blah, blah, blah.

00:16:43.000 But then I was like, but I really want to be, like, a stay-at-home mom.

00:16:46.000 You know what I mean?

00:16:47.000 So, I was just like...

00:16:49.000 So, you were mad at first, and then what, I guess, was the turning point for you that you made to say, you know what, I should watch this stuff more?

00:16:55.000 What was that aha moment?

00:16:57.000 My boyfriend was really into you guys, and like, I don't know, he agreed with a lot of the stuff you guys said, so I was like, okay, this is what he's looking for in a woman, and this is what he really likes, and I need to be that woman he's looking for.

00:17:13.000 Okay.

00:17:14.000 Question for you, because I've noticed a trend of this.

00:17:16.000 Was he playing the podcast out loud while you were around and you would just hear it?

00:17:20.000 Yeah, so he's like a gamer, so he would always be on YouTube.

00:17:24.000 When I'd be cleaning the house or home and stuff, I would just hear it.

00:17:27.000 And I used to be like, what are you watching?

00:17:28.000 Who are all these females that you're watching? 1.00

00:17:30.000 Because you just hear the argument.

00:17:33.000 And I was like, what are you watching?

00:17:34.000 He's like, oh, this podcast.

00:17:35.000 And I would just ignore it.

00:17:36.000 And then I just kept hearing other controversial stuff.

00:17:39.000 And I was like...

00:17:40.000 And then finally one day he decided to put it on right in front of my face.

00:17:43.000 Listen man, he's smart.

00:17:46.000 He wanted us to do his dirty work.

00:17:48.000 He's a smart man.

00:17:49.000 I noticed that.

00:17:51.000 Alright, what about you? 1.00

00:17:54.000 Again, be brutally honest, you could say I heard you guys were fucking dickheads, blah blah blah. 1.00

00:17:57.000 Don't cap B. What did you hear about the podcast prior to coming on? 1.00

00:18:02.000 What did you see or what did you hear?

00:18:04.000 I didn't hear nothing.

00:18:05.000 Kim invited me.

00:18:06.000 Okay.

00:18:07.000 I did speak about it to some people at work, and they told me you guys were like an Andrew Tate part two.

00:18:13.000 Okay.

00:18:14.000 Like a version of Andrew Tate.

00:18:16.000 Okay.

00:18:17.000 And what was your reaction to that?

00:18:20.000 Haram!

00:18:22.000 Obviously shocking.

00:18:24.000 Okay.

00:18:25.000 In what way?

00:18:26.000 In what way, how people think the society.

00:18:29.000 Okay.

00:18:30.000 So you disagree with his viewpoints?

00:18:32.000 Not really.

00:18:33.000 Some things, no.

00:18:33.000 And some things, yes.

00:18:34.000 Okay.

00:18:35.000 What is your main contention, you would say, with his viewpoints?

00:18:40.000 You want me to come back to you?

00:18:42.000 Sure.

00:18:42.000 Yeah.

00:18:43.000 Think of it and let me know.

00:18:44.000 What about you?

00:18:45.000 I actually was supposed to go to dinner.

00:18:47.000 Okay.

00:18:48.000 And someone came up to me and my cousin and said, hey, would you like to come to this podcast?

00:18:53.000 But I have seen you guys on Instagram, but it wasn't like a negative light within like racism or talking about girls.

00:18:59.000 So I wasn't really...

00:19:01.000 Like with it at all, but it's like you have to give everyone an opportunity to explain their viewpoint.

00:19:06.000 So this is why I came here to understand exactly what you guys think and analyze.

00:19:10.000 Wait, hold on.

00:19:11.000 You missed dinner for this?

00:19:13.000 Mm-hmm.

00:19:14.000 I thought it was an opportunity.

00:19:15.000 W in the chat.

00:19:16.000 Most girls what? 1.00

00:19:17.000 Dinner?

00:19:17.000 Oh, I'm there.

00:19:18.000 So W for you.

00:19:20.000 So question.

00:19:21.000 So you said a negative light with racism.

00:19:23.000 What in particular did you see that made you think that?

00:19:26.000 I think this is a very viral clip that you guys had.

00:19:29.000 It was on the shade room.

00:19:30.000 And it was about girls of my complexion or darker.

00:19:34.000 And I was like, okay, wow, they don't like me and they're like me. 0.71

00:19:38.000 But in a sense, it's just a short little clip.

00:19:40.000 I didn't watch the whole entire thing to get to the conclusion of why you guys said that.

00:19:45.000 Like I said, everything in social media is not what it really can seem.

00:19:49.000 So it's better to come here and understand exactly what you guys said.

00:19:52.000 See, common sense.

00:19:54.000 Yeah.

00:19:55.000 For some critical thinking skills.

00:19:57.000 All right.

00:19:57.000 Yeah.

00:19:58.000 Cool.

00:19:58.000 Yeah.

00:19:59.000 All right.

00:19:59.000 Fair enough.

00:20:00.000 I know what clip she's talking about.

00:20:02.000 It was when we said we don't dabble in the dark.

00:20:03.000 Dabble in the dark, yeah.

00:20:04.000 About the dating app.

00:20:05.000 The app itself.

00:20:05.000 Yeah.

00:20:06.000 So, yeah.

00:20:07.000 We could talk about context of that.

00:20:09.000 We love our Black Queens. 1.00

00:20:10.000 Somebody actually super chatted that and they just read it out loud.

00:20:13.000 But that's hilarious. 0.98

00:20:14.000 So, we have an interactive show where people put chats in and shit and we were reading it and they were laughing about that shit and then we made a joke and then they took that clip and made it sound crazy. 0.98

00:20:14.000 Yeah. 0.98

00:20:22.000 Shout out to all the Black Queens, man. 0.75

00:20:24.000 So I'm here visiting, well actually just going to the beach before I have the baby with my husband and I know Ada and her friend from Twitter because we're all on Twitter and so she was like I'm going on this podcast.

00:20:24.000 What about you?

00:20:37.000 I've seen your clips basically when Andrew Tate took over my TikTok feed.

00:20:40.000 You guys' clips took over my TikTok feed and I tend to agree with a lot of the stuff you guys say.

00:20:45.000 The main thing I rail against is feminism and like We're good to go. 1.00

00:20:51.000 We're good to go.

00:21:11.000 I honestly haven't seen stuff.

00:21:12.000 I've only seen clips, but no.

00:21:14.000 Fair enough.

00:21:16.000 And ladies, again, you can be open about it.

00:21:18.000 I ain't going to attack you.

00:21:19.000 I just want to hear what you heard prior to coming on.

00:21:21.000 What about you?

00:21:22.000 Yeah.

00:21:23.000 Not going to lie.

00:21:24.000 I haven't really seen you guys' podcast.

00:21:26.000 And I was just on Instagram one day scrolling through my request and someone invited me.

00:21:26.000 That's fine.

00:21:31.000 It was late.

00:21:34.000 I'm like a week late, but I was like, yeah, let me do it.

00:21:36.000 Because like...

00:21:37.000 I'm like a, you know, Jim Carrey movie, Yes Man.

00:21:40.000 That's how you have to live your life.

00:21:41.000 Like, just say yes, because you never know what blessings you'll miss out on.

00:21:46.000 Guys, you hear that?

00:21:47.000 Just say yes to anything.

00:21:48.000 No, no, no.

00:21:51.000 So, did you do any research before you came on?

00:21:53.000 Well, yeah, I scrolled through.

00:21:54.000 What'd you see?

00:21:54.000 Give us the negative, the positive, whatever it may be.

00:21:56.000 Well, I asked what it was about, like, relationships and all types of stuff. 0.99

00:21:59.000 I seen the clips, and it just seemed like a good way to just talk shit, right? 0.99

00:22:04.000 Yeah. 0.97

00:22:04.000 Okay, so you just saw the clips and your takeaway was, I'm sorry? 0.97

00:22:08.000 It's just a good way to talk shit or, you know, get your point across. 0.98

00:22:12.000 Anything. 0.99

00:22:13.000 I'm like...

00:22:15.000 I have a different mindset than most people, I like to think at least.

00:22:18.000 So I guess we'll find out today.

00:22:19.000 Okay.

00:22:20.000 Interesting.

00:22:20.000 All right.

00:22:21.000 So talk shit. 1.00

00:22:23.000 Do you disagree or agree with some of the points or you're just like, you just saw like random us? 1.00

00:22:27.000 Just random.

00:22:28.000 Yeah.

00:22:28.000 Just random.

00:22:29.000 Just scrolling.

00:22:30.000 I see.

00:22:31.000 Since you've been on the show before. 0.97

00:22:32.000 You guys are misogynists. 0.92

00:22:34.000 No, let me stop.

00:22:35.000 What did you think prior to coming on and then how has coming on changed, I guess, your perspective?

00:22:41.000 And I know that's a lot.

00:22:43.000 If you could summarize it, because I know it's been a long journey for you.

00:22:46.000 Okay.

00:22:46.000 Right.

00:22:48.000 When I first came on, I was a very entitled woman.

00:22:52.000 I lived in my own world.

00:22:53.000 I didn't live in reality.

00:22:57.000 When I came to this podcast, it was more or less a culture shock within myself.

00:23:02.000 I got to learn a lot of things about myself as a woman.

00:23:07.000 Figured a few things that is like, wow, I'm really...

00:23:10.000 I'm cooked.

00:23:12.000 But, you know, it's to a certain extent that it's like I got to really understand everything.

00:23:16.000 I really try to strive my best for my son and for myself.

00:23:21.000 And I don't know, things have just been in a very positive light ever since.

00:23:26.000 I left dancing.

00:23:27.000 I threw away all those clothes.

00:23:29.000 All my horror clothes, they're gone.

00:23:31.000 And yeah, I'm happy.

00:23:33.000 I'm very happy, honestly, living traditionally.

00:23:37.000 Fair enough.

00:23:38.000 And I have a follow-up question for you, which I'll get to later.

00:23:41.000 What about you, Kim?

00:23:42.000 Before you came, the first time, what'd you hear?

00:23:45.000 The first time?

00:23:47.000 Nothing really.

00:23:49.000 I had never heard of you guys, and nobody really told me anything.

00:23:52.000 I just came on. 1.00

00:23:54.000 You said, fuck it, no clips, no nothing. 1.00

00:23:55.000 Yep. 1.00

00:23:56.000 But that was the same thing for me as well, too.

00:23:58.000 Yeah, I didn't really look into it.

00:23:59.000 I just came and then... 0.99

00:24:01.000 I was like, oh, I was gonna come talk shit! 1.00

00:24:03.000 Let me talk about shit! 1.00

00:24:06.000 All right, cool. 1.00

00:24:07.000 Okay.

00:24:07.000 So, very interesting.

00:24:09.000 And as you guys know, it's Friday, so we're going to go ahead and hear some of your guys' questions.

00:24:14.000 But before I hit your guys' questions, because I know it's going to go into a fucking crazy spiral, I'll save you guys for last.

00:24:20.000 What is the question, if you have one, for the show prior to you coming on? 0.83

00:24:25.000 Like, yo, I'm going to fucking ask this question or say this point. 0.88

00:24:28.000 Go ahead. 0.99

00:24:29.000 Oh, God.

00:24:30.000 Or if you have one.

00:24:31.000 Yeah.

00:24:32.000 When you first saw it, what did you say?

00:24:34.000 You know what? 0.99

00:24:35.000 I want to fucking say this, or I want to ask this, or what the hell? 0.99

00:24:38.000 What is that question? 0.99

00:24:39.000 Go ahead.

00:24:41.000 To be honest, I don't really know exactly, but lately...

00:24:45.000 Well, I want to talk about how people feel about, like, I guess we can't say it, but Transformers and stuff.

00:24:53.000 So the other day, I was watching Uncut, and I was watching about how a lot of people are detransitioning and stuff. 0.97

00:25:02.000 And another reason why I had to stay off certain social media platforms is because I feel like...

00:25:11.000 It's mind controlling in a way.

00:25:14.000 So, you know, I have little cousins.

00:25:18.000 I'm in high school.

00:25:19.000 I'm like one of the youngest in my family, but I have two little cousins and like they're different.

00:25:24.000 Extremely different.

00:25:25.000 Okay.

00:25:26.000 And I don't like, you know, between like sexual stuff.

00:25:32.000 You wanted to touch on that topic.

00:25:34.000 Yeah, I just want to hear people's opinions and stuff like that.

00:25:37.000 What about you?

00:25:37.000 All right.

00:25:39.000 I really wanted to see if there was an OnlyFans girl on the panel and kind of talk about OnlyFans.

00:25:44.000 I just like talking about OnlyFans.

00:25:46.000 It's just fun.

00:25:47.000 You want to talk about OnlyFans?

00:25:48.000 I guarantee you'll probably hit that anyway.

00:25:48.000 Yeah.

00:25:50.000 Okay.

00:25:50.000 Perfect.

00:25:51.000 So you want to talk on OnlyFans?

00:25:53.000 Yes.

00:25:54.000 What about you?

00:25:54.000 Did you have a question or a topic that you were, one, interested in talking to?

00:25:59.000 I mean, you mentioned the race thing.

00:26:00.000 I don't know if that's what it was, but go ahead.

00:26:02.000 Oh no, I would want to know like your mindset.

00:26:05.000 Sorry.

00:26:06.000 I would like to understand your mindset on the intellect and how the world is influencing our young youth.

00:26:13.000 Okay. 0.99

00:26:14.000 Damn. 1.00

00:26:16.000 It got wet. 1.00

00:26:18.000 Red.

00:26:21.000 I don't know anymore.

00:26:28.000 Our viewpoint of the world.

00:26:33.000 In a sense of what we see on TV and the celebrities and people that kids are following.

00:26:42.000 How do you think it's really influencing everyone?

00:26:45.000 What about you?

00:26:50.000 I've gone back to you.

00:26:51.000 What do you disagree with, Andrew Tate?

00:26:54.000 Or our I guess viewpoints.

00:26:56.000 I mean, why are women less? 1.00

00:26:58.000 Okay.

00:26:59.000 Why are women less? 1.00

00:27:00.000 That's a fair question.

00:27:01.000 Do you watch novellas?

00:27:01.000 Shocking.

00:27:03.000 You should know.

00:27:05.000 Younger.

00:27:06.000 That's actually a good question.

00:27:07.000 Okay, cool.

00:27:08.000 And what I'll do is, like, I want to get every girl to get her question out, and then I'll, since some might overlap, and then we'll answer it, and then we'll go to the questions here.

00:27:18.000 What about you?

00:27:19.000 Did you have any comments or questions or something that you wanted to bring up there in the pod?

00:27:24.000 Not that I can remember, but I know that there's definitely something that I feel like you're contradicting yourself on, but I would have to hear and, like, Okay.

00:27:36.000 If it comes to you, please let me know so I can write it down.

00:27:39.000 Okay.

00:27:39.000 And then what about you?

00:27:40.000 So I didn't talk about anything, but I would like to discuss how the woke culture is destroying our generation.

00:27:48.000 Okay.

00:27:48.000 And I'm very curious about what all these girls think.

00:27:52.000 Okay, so how the woke culture is destroying.

00:27:57.000 Let me ask you a question.

00:27:59.000 Is woke culture very common in Spain?

00:28:02.000 Yeah, very common, sadly.

00:28:05.000 Alright, so I guess I'll hit a couple of these real fast and then we can get into the people.

00:28:15.000 Our world viewpoints, I mean, in general, very traditionally conservative.

00:28:19.000 The only thing I disagree with on traditional conservative people when it comes to dating and relationships is that I think women have evolved significantly. 0.85

00:28:26.000 And a lot of women want a traditional man while simultaneously not necessarily being traditional themselves. 0.95

00:28:31.000 And with the way that the marriage courts are set up and the way divorce courts are set up, it's not in a man's best interest to adhere to certain individuals.

00:28:43.000 I just don't think that marriage is a valid institution for men to the same degree that it was like 50, 60 years ago.

00:28:53.000 Now there are women that could potentially make it work and everything. 1.00

00:28:56.000 I think for children to exist and have the best upbringing, you need a two-parent household. 0.78

00:29:02.000 Unfortunately, we live in a society now where it's too risky for the man to get into a situation like that, unless there's some serious situations that can protect them, such as maybe not having to stay involved, maybe a prenuptial agreement that's ironclad, that's updated every couple of years,

00:29:18.000 with fantastic attorneys, with notaries there and everything else like that.

00:29:23.000 But guys have to take a very defensive angle when it comes to marriage.

00:29:28.000 And then...

00:29:29.000 That's like the first point, I guess, with being traditionally conservative, which kind of touches on...

00:29:33.000 Well, I'll address your thing here with why women are less. 1.00

00:29:38.000 But does that kind of answer it to a degree, or were you trying to hone in on something else more specific?

00:29:43.000 My question to you for that answer is, do you think it's hard for women to be traditional in society? 1.00

00:29:48.000 No.

00:29:49.000 That's a good question.

00:29:50.000 I think it's not that it's hard, it's that there's too many temptations and not enough rewards for women to be traditional. 0.99

00:29:58.000 I'll give you an example.

00:29:59.000 You can look at, and this kind of will tie into the woke culture, etc.

00:30:02.000 You look at someone like Kim Kardashian, right?

00:30:05.000 If you look at her career, a lot of women try to emulate that nowadays. 1.00

00:30:09.000 She had sex on camera, did a bunch of Things, pornography, etc. 1.00

00:30:14.000 And she was wildly rewarded for it. 0.98

00:30:15.000 She's basically a billionaire now.

00:30:17.000 And, you know, they have this saying now that nice girls or quiet girls don't get put in history books.

00:30:24.000 So I think nowadays women, you know, from being masculine, thanks to feminism, etc., they want to write a legacy.

00:30:29.000 And the easiest way to write a legacy as a female, unfortunately, is by being promiscuous, being open about your sexuality, doing things that are against traditional grain, shock value, etc., And what women don't realize is that as you write your legacy, you're writing it with the wrong ink. 1.00

00:30:44.000 That ink is going to be red, and it's going to leave red on your family for generations to come.

00:30:49.000 Because unfortunately, women that leave a legacy, especially through promiscuity, are remembered for the wrong reasons. 0.95

00:30:55.000 So, that's what I think it is.

00:30:56.000 I think it's that being traditional as a woman nowadays is almost a thankless job.

00:31:01.000 And women look at it like, why am I going to be traditional and have to rely on a man, right, that honestly I don't even like that much, when I can earn my own money, get my own education, get a higher status guy, and be able to just get it on my own. 1.00

00:31:13.000 Yeah, it's also how you were raised.

00:31:15.000 For example, you're raised, you're given ideas, you're given a perspective from your parents, from your school, from your friends, from TikTok, Instagram, and that leads to yourself becoming, I want to say, thoughtful.

00:31:26.000 Get it?

00:31:27.000 Thoughtful?

00:31:27.000 So, society itself is prone to make you go in a certain direction, and the agenda is full in foot, so...

00:31:33.000 Yeah, and then if you look at it like with feminism in general, it's kind of been put in place to... 1.00

00:31:37.000 It's done a couple of things.

00:31:38.000 I talk about this in detail in the book.

00:31:40.000 The book isn't just about why women deserve less.

00:31:41.000 I actually go into detail about how feminism kind of created a rift between the two genders. 1.00

00:31:46.000 But if we're going to summarize it, women entering the workforce, what they're able to do is double the labor force. 1.00

00:31:50.000 When you double the labor force, you're able to pay less wages.

00:31:53.000 When you pay less wages, obviously that's going to create some economic situations.

00:31:57.000 And that's why...

00:31:59.000 We need two income households nowadays to even survive.

00:32:03.000 It used to be a man could take care of a family on one wage, but nowadays the only way you're going to be able to do that is you've got to be an extremely high earner in the top 1%.

00:32:09.000 And that women having careers, et cetera, as women make more money, typically they want to get on their level. 1.00

00:32:14.000 So it's kind of like one thing happens and then it creates a chain reaction that might create negative impacts that were unforeseen.

00:32:21.000 And I'm sure you know about the detriments of feminism and you went to school, you kind of bought it. 1.00

00:32:27.000 No, I never bought it.

00:32:29.000 So you were against feminism even going into college? 1.00

00:32:31.000 Always, always.

00:32:32.000 I've always been a woman.

00:32:33.000 My life's only been easier as a woman.

00:32:35.000 I don't understand what all these women are crying and bitching about. 1.00

00:32:38.000 And to your point about the women not really getting a legacy, I would say that women need to understand that you don't need a legacy like a man.

00:32:44.000 Your legacy is your family and your family that you raise and your children.

00:32:49.000 That's the legacy that women need to understand is important. 1.00

00:32:52.000 You don't need to have a legacy like a man.

00:32:54.000 Women need to stop trying to become men because they can't become men and they're only going to fail at it. 1.00

00:32:58.000 And when they try to become men, they become OnlyFans whores, sell their bodies online, And guess what? 1.00

00:33:03.000 One day you're going to get old, you're going to get wrinkly, you're going to become like an old miserable hag like Chelsea Handler and be childless, husbandless. 0.99

00:33:10.000 You eventually will want a husband. 0.98

00:33:11.000 You will.

00:33:12.000 And one day you're not going to be able to have kids and you're going to wish that maybe I didn't spend my whole life trying to be a boss babe and maybe I should have just, you know, done what society tells me not to do and got married and actually found a man.

00:33:23.000 Like serve your daddy husband and not your corporate boss.

00:33:26.000 And that's how you'll be happy.

00:33:27.000 That's your legacy.

00:33:28.000 I'm sorry.

00:33:29.000 Can I say one thing?

00:33:30.000 What would you say to women who can't have babies? 1.00

00:33:33.000 They don't have any value?

00:33:35.000 It's such a small minority.

00:33:38.000 The amount of women that's out here in this world, it's a very small minority of women that can't give birth. 1.00

00:33:44.000 But I understand that.

00:33:45.000 I'm saying she's basically saying that as women, our legacy is to procreate. 0.98

00:33:49.000 Also to serve your husband.

00:33:51.000 Serve your husband.

00:33:51.000 You can adopt.

00:33:52.000 There's many other things.

00:33:53.000 Okay, but I'm just saying you're terminology was have babies. 0.99

00:33:57.000 So I'm just saying, how do you value women who can't have babies?

00:34:01.000 They serve their husbands and raise a family through adoption if they want to do it.

00:34:04.000 I don't think, you know, I used to think I've had ovary problems.

00:34:06.000 I used to think I couldn't get pregnant.

00:34:08.000 And the day I stopped taking birth control, I got pregnant this year on January 6th.

00:34:11.000 Here you go.

00:34:12.000 Yeah, so it can happen.

00:34:13.000 Good job.

00:34:13.000 Thank you.

00:34:14.000 And I'm very excited about that.

00:34:16.000 But if you can't have kids, that's obviously heartbreaking and doesn't mean that your legacy or you won't have fulfillment in life.

00:34:21.000 Your fulfillment is through serving your husband.

00:34:24.000 You're still a homemaker.

00:34:25.000 Serving your husband, trust me, I've learned.

00:34:27.000 Serving my husband is a full-time job in itself.

00:34:30.000 And I do do online streaming and stuff at home, but he's always said if that ever interferes with my wifely duties, then that's gone.

00:34:36.000 So that's all you want to be?

00:34:37.000 Yes, that's number one.

00:34:38.000 I have a question.

00:34:41.000 It's a fact that there's more women on this earth than there are men. 0.95

00:34:46.000 So where does that leave?

00:34:48.000 If people follow the righteous laws of marriage and you're supposed to be bound to one person, where does that leave the rest of the women who aren't able to find men? 1.00

00:34:59.000 Because there isn't enough men for everyone.

00:35:01.000 And let's not also forget that some men are D.L., That is true, but you gotta also understand these men are being shared since it's more of us and less of them.

00:35:12.000 So regardless, we always share a nigga, whether you like it or not. 0.89

00:35:17.000 Some people believe in polygamy. 0.95

00:35:20.000 Yeah, polygamy. 0.72

00:35:21.000 I'm not necessarily saying I'm for it because I'm also a very selfish person, but at the same time...

00:35:28.000 That's not selfish.

00:35:28.000 I wouldn't say wanting to be monogamous is selfish.

00:35:31.000 No, yeah, but speaking for, like, based on history, polygamy was something that was practiced, especially in Africa and all that.

00:35:40.000 So, that being said, that is a thing, but what if the goal for some people isn't marriage?

00:35:48.000 Like, that is not end-all, be-all for life.

00:35:51.000 Well, that's fine.

00:35:53.000 That's not your goal, but I will tell you, as someone that used to say, I've always been right-wing, but I was like, I want to focus on my career.

00:35:59.000 I don't want to get married.

00:36:00.000 I don't want to have kids.

00:36:01.000 I just want to live alone and live selfishly.

00:36:03.000 I promise you, especially as a woman, you will find the most fulfillment in finding a man that will settle down with you, protect you, provide for you, and I I'm telling you this.

00:36:12.000 I say it in a harsh way online all the time, but it's honestly for your own good.

00:36:15.000 I really do believe that.

00:36:16.000 And I think that society too much is telling women that you don't need this. 0.56

00:36:19.000 You don't need a man. 0.89

00:36:20.000 Focus on your career.

00:36:21.000 Kids are a setback.

00:36:22.000 This is a trap.

00:36:23.000 Men are oppressing you.

00:36:24.000 And no, women, you want to be oppressed by your husband, not a boss. 1.00

00:36:27.000 Trust me.

00:36:28.000 He loves and cares about you.

00:36:29.000 Your boss doesn't.

00:36:31.000 That's true.

00:36:31.000 I remembered my question.

00:36:33.000 Going back to what you're saying as far as women not having enough men, what I've come to realize, and I think this is very scary, but most women, especially from all the interviews I've done and looking at the studies, if a woman reaches a certain level of socioeconomic class and making money, etc., and there's not a man that's compatible to her,

00:36:49.000 she'd prefer to stay single than be saddled to a lower status guy. 1.00

00:36:52.000 Which I think sets you up for perpetual sadness because women derive most of their pleasure from relationships and building bonds with people, and women are social creatures. 1.00

00:37:00.000 So women aren't able to, I guess, tolerate solitude to the same degree that men are, right?

00:37:06.000 Men are more likely to put themselves in solitude, earn money, increase their status, then get back out there.

00:37:11.000 But for a woman, you guys have a finite amount of time to create and cultivate those relationships, especially when it comes to a man. 0.82

00:37:17.000 Your best years are between 18 and 24, statistically speaking, to get the best guy.

00:37:21.000 So you do have a deep yearning to find that man.

00:37:24.000 But the problem with feminism is they tell women to suppress that innate need and focus on school and education instead, when in reality, all I would say is that focusing on school and education sets you up for perpetual solitude because as you earn more money and gain more status, you're likely to find the man that you want at that level Diminishes with it because that man might not want what you're prioritizing school and education in return. 0.99

00:37:47.000 As a matter of fact, as men earn more money in status, they actually want a woman that's more attractive than them.

00:37:53.000 It's actually funny.

00:37:54.000 There was a study that was done and they found that for every...

00:38:03.000 Thank you.

00:38:18.000 Yeah.

00:38:39.000 So now you have a higher standard of what a man should be.

00:38:41.000 So for the most part, there's more women than men, but most men don't see most men because they're not on their level or not their type, so to speak.

00:38:49.000 I mean, that's a good point, though.

00:38:51.000 You know what I mean?

00:38:52.000 That, like, hey, there's...

00:38:53.000 We shouldn't even out because there's more women than men, but the reality is that if a woman is of certain status, she'd prefer to stay single than be saddled to a loser a lot of the times. 1.00

00:39:02.000 Does that answer your question, though, kind of on, like, world views?

00:39:05.000 That was a very broad thing, but...

00:39:07.000 All right.

00:39:07.000 Yeah.

00:39:08.000 Okay.

00:39:08.000 And then with you.

00:39:09.000 Why are women less? 1.00

00:39:10.000 So the reason why I say why women are less. 1.00

00:39:13.000 So let me ask you a question.

00:39:15.000 The guy that you're currently seeing right now, is he older than you?

00:39:18.000 No.

00:39:19.000 He's older than him.

00:39:19.000 No?

00:39:20.000 By a little bit.

00:39:21.000 Okay.

00:39:22.000 Y'all are both 18?

00:39:23.000 Yeah.

00:39:24.000 Okay.

00:39:26.000 Then you know what?

00:39:27.000 Because you're only 18.

00:39:28.000 If everything was ideal for you, would you prefer a man that was older than you?

00:39:32.000 Taller, yeah.

00:39:33.000 Would you prefer a man that was stronger than you physically?

00:39:35.000 Yeah.

00:39:36.000 Would you prefer a man that had more world experience than yourself?

00:39:39.000 Yeah.

00:39:40.000 Would you prefer a man that earned more money than you? 0.98

00:39:41.000 Yeah.

00:39:42.000 Would you prefer a man that was more confident, more ambitious than yourself?

00:39:45.000 Yeah.

00:39:46.000 Okay.

00:39:47.000 So see how everything that you want is more?

00:39:50.000 That's why I say women are less because women don't want someone on their level. 1.00

00:39:55.000 They prefer someone typically that's superior to them in every way.

00:39:57.000 Now, I'm not saying that to say that women are less as in men are better than women.

00:40:01.000 I'm not saying that.

00:40:01.000 But what I am saying is that women want a superior man.

00:40:04.000 The man needs to be able to lead and he has to have certain levels of competence.

00:40:07.000 So the reason why I say women deserve less is because we live in a day and age now where, quite frankly, a lot of women are entitled and they want a man to That's top 1% a lot of times and they don't necessarily qualify for that, man. 0.90

00:40:20.000 So, you know, it's kind of a funny title, why women deserve less. 1.00

00:40:23.000 And if you look at the title, right, it has money as the L, you know, relationships or like our engagement ring for marriages, social media, and then time.

00:40:32.000 And the reason why I say that is because most guys, when they date women, give up these four things to a ridiculous level to women that don't appreciate them.

00:40:38.000 I'm not saying give women less.

00:40:40.000 I'm saying give women less that don't reciprocate that you give more. 1.00

00:40:44.000 So that's what it is.

00:40:45.000 So you should deserve it.

00:40:47.000 Thank you.

00:40:48.000 And because the thing is, is that, right, it used to be, right, in the days of chivalry, traditional, what we were talking about before, a man can be nice to a woman, be a gentleman, do all these things, give a girl flowers, et cetera, on a first date.

00:40:59.000 And women used to appreciate and respect that. 1.00

00:41:01.000 But in today's day and age, women will look at them and be like, he's boring, he's a pussy. 1.00

00:41:05.000 Like, women don't really respect nice guys like that. 1.00

00:41:07.000 You know, I always say chivalry's dead and women killed it. 1.00

00:41:09.000 Nice guys finish last.

00:41:10.000 Why are these things been lasting for the past?

00:41:13.000 It's actually been like rising as feminism has gotten stronger and stronger because women don't respect nice guys a lot of times, especially when they make their own money, they have their own status, etc. 0.99

00:41:22.000 They need excitement.

00:41:23.000 And unfortunately, guys that are bad boys, guys that are better than them in everything are able to provide that excitement.

00:41:28.000 That's why I say women deserve less. 1.00

00:41:29.000 What's the agenda?

00:41:30.000 Why are you being so nice to me?

00:41:31.000 Yeah.

00:41:32.000 Well, yeah, that's what I was going to say.

00:41:33.000 I feel like every man wants the same thing at the end of the day. 1.00

00:41:37.000 When you first approach a woman, you want pussy. 1.00

00:41:40.000 Because you're not attracted to someone. 1.00

00:41:43.000 You're not going to approach someone you're not attracted to.

00:41:45.000 That's the way of life.

00:41:46.000 That's what we do.

00:41:47.000 We're humans.

00:41:47.000 Okay.

00:41:48.000 So keep it real, you know, is what I'm saying.

00:41:51.000 Don't be manipulative.

00:41:52.000 Don't, like, be fake nice.

00:41:54.000 When, at the end of the day, someone who keeps it real and is straight up and blunt is probably going to have a better chance of having a date rather than someone who's nice and this, then, the, third, whatever.

00:42:06.000 Do you date men?

00:42:08.000 Do I date men?

00:42:09.000 Yeah.

00:42:10.000 Um...

00:42:12.000 I've had a bad experience, so I can't really say I've had a man, but I have a dad, so I know what a man is supposed to be like.

00:42:23.000 So I've dated niggas, but men?

00:42:26.000 No, I can't say that.

00:42:28.000 Wow!

00:42:30.000 Have you dated women as a man?

00:42:35.000 Have I dated women as a man?

00:42:37.000 No.

00:42:38.000 You know what's funny?

00:42:38.000 You said earlier, why can't they be truthful from the very beginning?

00:42:43.000 Yeah.

00:42:43.000 Can I answer your question?

00:42:44.000 Yeah.

00:42:45.000 Let's play a scenario here real quick, right?

00:42:47.000 Let's say you're a woman, and you are.

00:42:51.000 I'm the man.

00:42:51.000 And I tell you, for example, you know what?

00:42:55.000 You're kind of cute, but you're kind of annoying. 1.00

00:42:57.000 I just want to fuck. 1.00

00:42:58.000 How would you respond to that? 1.00

00:42:59.000 Um, depending on my level of attraction to that man, it may or may not work.

00:43:05.000 So notice, right?

00:43:06.000 It may or may not work.

00:43:08.000 Versus, I can tell you what you want to hear and get the box.

00:43:12.000 And then, from there, it's off to the races.

00:43:15.000 So notice, one scenario...

00:43:17.000 Probably won't get anything.

00:43:18.000 Second scenario, say what you want, I get what I want.

00:43:20.000 So as a man, for the most part, they're going to say what they need to say to get a box.

00:43:25.000 Ideally, that would be best, but for the most part, girls, I'm not going to respond to that very well. 1.00

00:43:30.000 Some might, but most won't.

00:43:31.000 But don't you think that's manipulative?

00:43:34.000 In a way, make it this too.

00:43:36.000 Yeah, of course.

00:43:37.000 I'm saying in a sense if some women are wary of men being nice because it could be a tactic.

00:43:45.000 Some people can be nice for a couple months and then get what they want and they can change dramatically.

00:43:50.000 I agree.

00:43:51.000 And I think for most women, what they hate the most is women are inconsistent. 1.00

00:43:55.000 However, once again, if that's your concern, wait it out.

00:43:59.000 See where he's at. 1.00

00:44:00.000 Because I'm telling you right now, he's going to show his colors when he's not getting the pussy. 1.00

00:44:04.000 At some point, he's going to either dip or show his true colors. 1.00

00:44:08.000 That's good advice.

00:44:09.000 I mean, I tell guys all the time to be honest with women and tell them what their intentions are.

00:44:14.000 But what I've come to realize is that there's two problems with this.

00:44:18.000 The first problem is that women typically don't handle the truth well. 1.00

00:44:23.000 And the second problem is that most guys don't have the sexual market value or the attractiveness because you mentioned if he's hot enough, right?

00:44:30.000 Let's be honest here.

00:44:31.000 What percentage of men actually are hot enough to tell you that blunt truth?

00:44:34.000 Probably little to none, right?

00:44:36.000 Maybe like the 1% a guy that's maybe a celebrity, maybe 6'5", perfect teeth, whatever it may be, right?

00:44:43.000 I'm 6'3".

00:44:44.000 I'm not tall enough.

00:44:44.000 Um, so the problem is that most guys don't have the sexual market value or attractiveness to be painfully blunt and honest with women.

00:44:51.000 So most guys have to sell a dream to be able to get their dream, right?

00:44:56.000 Is what it is.

00:44:57.000 So, uh, and then did you find out what that contradiction was?

00:45:01.000 Yeah.

00:45:02.000 So for me, it's the cheating thing.

00:45:04.000 Like I cheating.

00:45:05.000 Okay.

00:45:06.000 Yeah.

00:45:06.000 Like I don't want a man who cheats.

00:45:07.000 Like I don't care how, but I also don't care about men of high status either.

00:45:11.000 So, but my thing is, okay.

00:45:13.000 So you got half the equation, correct then? 0.94

00:45:14.000 So, but my thing is here, though, you say, okay, women only have sex if they, like, when women have sex, it's, like, more of a feeling. 0.86

00:45:25.000 You know what I mean?

00:45:26.000 Like, there's a connection, like a real connection versus guys.

00:45:29.000 It's just, like, literally physical.

00:45:30.000 Yeah.

00:45:31.000 So then if your man is going out and sleeping with a bunch of women, all these women are going to be like, because they're emotionally having sex with him, obsessed with your man. 0.98

00:45:41.000 And that just leads to other things like him leaving you for her just because.

00:45:47.000 Or like you fighting a bunch of girls.

00:45:50.000 I feel like it gets messy that way.

00:45:53.000 That's true, but the evil part of this, and I wish it wasn't this way, is that women respect you when they fight for you. 0.99

00:45:59.000 And I would argue that's when they respect you the most is when they have to fight for you.

00:46:03.000 Because, let's be honest here, I mean, you said it earlier, I love that you said that, a woman's life is significantly easier than a man's.

00:46:10.000 And the hardest part of a woman's life, a lot of the times, is retaining a man. 0.98

00:46:13.000 Attracting the man is easy. 1.00

00:46:14.000 If you're beautiful, don't be a pain in the ass, he'll probably talk to you. 0.99

00:46:17.000 But retaining the man is probably going to be the hardest thing that you do in your life. 0.99

00:46:20.000 And I would say, What's easy is not respected, but what comes hard is almost always respected and treasured. 0.98

00:46:26.000 And a woman is going to treasure a man that she has to fight for, and she's going to respect it a lot more because she's going to say, damn, he picked me. 0.99

00:46:33.000 I better not fuck this up. 0.99

00:46:34.000 Yeah, that's real.

00:46:35.000 If it's too easy, then what's the point?

00:46:38.000 Yeah.

00:46:39.000 And if you know what you bring to the table, you should be confident enough to know that he won't leave you for...

00:46:45.000 Close it to the mic.

00:46:47.000 Move it around if you need to, so if you're talking to her like that, move it there.

00:46:51.000 If you know what you bring to the table, you should be confident enough to know that your man is not going to leave you.

00:46:56.000 Worship him, clean for him, cook for him, and he will stay with you.

00:47:00.000 And no matter how many chicks he have during the night, he will come back home to you, in my opinion.

00:47:07.000 W, Spain!

00:47:08.000 But you did bring up a valid concern.

00:47:11.000 You said, hey, well, I'm not looking for a high-value guy.

00:47:13.000 Cool.

00:47:13.000 That actually solves half the problem because as you deal with more and more average men, the likelihood, I would argue, yeah, the likelihood goes down because their ability to cheat on you goes down.

00:47:23.000 So a lot of the times, more average men or guys that aren't as sexually desirable are monogamous out of necessity.

00:47:31.000 So that's good in your favor because then you go ahead and you start to get leverage in the relationship.

00:47:36.000 But the problem is that typically when women have leverage in the relationship, what happens? 1.00

00:47:40.000 They get bored.

00:47:41.000 But like, I mean, when I say I don't want a high value, I mean, my man is, I don't know.

00:47:46.000 That's fine.

00:47:47.000 That's great that you don't want one.

00:47:48.000 But I don't mean like, I mean, to an extent, like my man, he's like working towards opening up his own business and lawn and like going to school for automotive and stuff like that.

00:47:59.000 But I don't want like a bum either. 1.00

00:48:02.000 Question.

00:48:03.000 So your man can't cheat, right?

00:48:04.000 What do you mean?

00:48:06.000 I mean, he can physically, but am I going to be with him?

00:48:09.000 Would you be cool with that?

00:48:10.000 I mean, I don't know.

00:48:12.000 I mean, you watch the show now, so you should know.

00:48:13.000 I mean, I feel like I'm leaning more towards being okay with it, but I also have, like, a lot of other things and insecurities and stuff, so...

00:48:20.000 I think Homie put that part of the show on about cheating, and she got triggered.

00:48:23.000 So, wait, I'm just a little confused, though.

00:48:25.000 How did I contradict myself by saying men typically cheat?

00:48:27.000 I don't know, it just feels...

00:48:28.000 It was contradictory.

00:48:29.000 Because you're saying it's okay for men to cheat, but then on the other side of women, the women who are also participating in that, I feel like it doesn't make it okay.

00:48:42.000 I'm not saying that it's okay for men to cheat.

00:48:43.000 I'm saying that it should be expected, and if it does happen, it's not that big of a deal.

00:48:49.000 It's not the same treacherous behavior as if a woman cheats.

00:48:54.000 If a woman cheats on a man, the man needs to end the relationship. 0.96

00:48:57.000 It's over. 1.00

00:48:58.000 But I think, from a female perspective, if you have a man that's taking care of you, that's a good boyfriend, that's a dutiful man, etc., and you find a condom in the bedroom or some shit, and you fucked another chick... 1.00

00:49:09.000 For you to break up that relationship would put you at a disadvantage. 0.99

00:49:13.000 Yeah.

00:49:13.000 And that's what I've always told him.

00:49:14.000 Because I'm like, at the end of the day, I'm like in the middle about it.

00:49:17.000 But like, I don't know.

00:49:18.000 Like, I love him.

00:49:19.000 And we've been together for a really long time.

00:49:21.000 Like, I probably would be pissed.

00:49:22.000 And that's why I say, like, if you cheated, I probably would be pissed and mad for a while.

00:49:24.000 But then I feel like I'd be one of those girls who accepts their man back after cheating, which is like, not, it's like frowned upon, you know?

00:49:31.000 You know, it's a cycle.

00:49:32.000 It happens all the time.

00:49:34.000 A girl will be with a guy, right? 1.00

00:49:36.000 And maybe together for like five, ten years, maybe even longer, right?

00:49:40.000 He cheats.

00:49:41.000 Oh, you cheated on me?

00:49:42.000 I'm going to break out with you.

00:49:43.000 She leaves.

00:49:44.000 Guess another guy.

00:49:46.000 Two years from your past, he cheats too. 1.00

00:49:48.000 You're like, damn! 1.00

00:49:49.000 He cheats too as well? 0.99

00:49:50.000 So, for the most part, guys are going to cheat.

00:49:52.000 Now, how you handle that is up to you.

00:49:54.000 But he's saying, in a nutshell, if you leave this current situation, you've got time, connections, energy invested in this for one moment of weakness.

00:50:02.000 I mean, is that worth it?

00:50:03.000 Probably not. 0.99

00:50:04.000 And that's an example of where I say, like, female emotions can, like, come and fuck you up, because at that time, you feel bad, this sucks, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

00:50:11.000 But the reality is how you feel. 0.99

00:50:12.000 I've always said how you feel, what's real are two different things.

00:50:16.000 Does he still love you?

00:50:16.000 Are you the main girl?

00:50:17.000 Do you have the title?

00:50:18.000 Do you have some sense of How do I say?

00:50:22.000 Priority in the relationship.

00:50:23.000 If the answer is yes, you need to put your feelings aside and just accept it. 0.90

00:50:28.000 Again, like I said before, you've already kind of insulated yourself and protected yourself by getting with a guy that isn't like a multi-millionaire, blue check, all this shit.

00:50:35.000 That's cool. 0.98

00:50:35.000 But what I'm saying is that those guys are capable of cheating too. 0.98

00:50:38.000 So, the likelihood it just goes down.

00:50:40.000 Yeah. 0.99

00:50:40.000 And when you hear a secret, if you stick it through, and he's like, damn, you know what? 0.99

00:50:45.000 I'm cheating on her, but, like, she's cool with it. 0.99

00:50:48.000 He's going to stop cheating on you, because, like, damn, I don't want to hurt her no more. 0.99

00:50:51.000 It's kind of reverse psychology, but, like, you being cool with it, and being like, damn, you know what? 0.99

00:50:55.000 I got you, babe. 0.98

00:50:56.000 I'll hold you down. 0.97

00:50:56.000 I was like, damn, I feel bad now. 0.97

00:50:58.000 I don't want to do it no more. 0.98

00:50:59.000 It's crazy.

00:50:59.000 And just make sure you aren't, like, you know, slipping.

00:51:04.000 In terms of, like, further down the years, you aren't, like, letting yourself loose.

00:51:07.000 Because I'll be real with you.

00:51:09.000 If he will cheat less, if, you know, just go outside, do something, you know?

00:51:13.000 Like, make sure you're in the best shape of your life.

00:51:15.000 I'm just putting it in the room.

00:51:17.000 For the record...

00:51:19.000 Hey, listen, the chat was saying it all along.

00:51:24.000 I'm just saying, he will cheat less.

00:51:27.000 Maintaining your sexual attractiveness is also imperative.

00:51:30.000 I mean, that's just the reality.

00:51:31.000 You know what I mean?

00:51:32.000 If, you know, If you're hotter, right? 0.81

00:51:36.000 I mean, granted, he might cheat on you with a girl that's less hotter than you.

00:51:41.000 But here's the thing.

00:51:42.000 If he's like, yo, my girl is hotter than this chick, it will decrease the likelihood of him cheating on you as well when he's like, I got a better chick than her. 1.00

00:51:50.000 So keeping yourself, and also on top of that, he's going to be less likely to leave you because he's like, alright, I cheated and fucked this other bitch, but my girl is way hotter than her. 1.00

00:51:57.000 I'm going back to her. 1.00

00:51:58.000 And just cool as hell?

00:51:59.000 So if we're being honest though like when we got together like I've I've personally experienced it and I think that's what made me start liking guys more I wasn't like this in the beginning like I was 150 pounds like the perfect like slim thick and he like always tells me that but like I got super sick like I have and don't play the sad thing because it's not that but like I just have a lot of like um trauma and like past stuff that contributed to the weight gain so like I have like hypothyroid like disease so it's like It's technically not my fault,

00:52:28.000 but I do work out every day and I'm actually...

00:52:37.000 It's 80% diet, right?

00:52:40.000 80% diet?

00:52:41.000 I mean, here's the thing.

00:52:42.000 I think this is kind of the difference between men and women.

00:52:45.000 With men, you can be painfully honest with them, and I'll be very honest with you.

00:52:50.000 If you're obese, it is your fault.

00:52:51.000 It's not really anyone else's fault.

00:52:53.000 I know you went through some stuff and everything, but it's on you to get over that and then make sure that you exercise.

00:52:58.000 If anything, the exercise is going to help you get over it a little bit faster.

00:53:01.000 That's what I'm doing now, though.

00:53:04.000 She's on the path.

00:53:05.000 Yeah, the exercising, mental health and everything else like that.

00:53:08.000 But if you want to mitigate the risk of Cheating and everything else like that.

00:53:12.000 Obviously, be as attractive as you can.

00:53:14.000 Be the best girl that you can.

00:53:15.000 And if it does happen, well, he's going to stay with you versus these other girls.

00:53:19.000 For the women that really don't want their men to cheat, what I would say is, so my husband and I are Christian, and I always tell him, yeah, I always tell him, you know, I'm so happy that you have to answer to God if you cheat on me.

00:53:30.000 And it's...

00:53:32.000 You have to answer to God.

00:53:32.000 Praise God.

00:53:34.000 It's not just me.

00:53:35.000 So you take that up with God if you're going to cheat on me.

00:53:35.000 It's God.

00:53:37.000 And I think that's a way better security to those that are...

00:53:40.000 It is.

00:53:41.000 But that's contingent upon the man being religious.

00:53:43.000 Absolutely.

00:53:44.000 That's an example of religion being a buffer to sexual promiscuity or whatever. 0.93

00:53:49.000 But let's be honest, in 2023, religion has disintegrated with a lot of people, which is why we kind of live in the crazy loony world that we're in now.

00:53:57.000 You know what I would do?

00:53:58.000 As a man of God, God I messed up.

00:54:01.000 I love you, though.

00:54:02.000 I talk to God, right?

00:54:05.000 I hold myself accountable to God.

00:54:07.000 That's so Catholic to say.

00:54:09.000 And I think also this is kind of the difference between men giving advice versus women.

00:54:14.000 Typically, women tend to give advice that's ideal versus men are forced to give advice that's real. 0.98

00:54:19.000 I tell women, listen, be prepared that if you're with a man that more than likely at some point he'll probably cheat on you and the more attractive he is, the higher the likelihood that he is going to cheat on you.

00:54:27.000 The lower the status, the lower the likelihood because his ability to cheat on you will be diminished or it'll be blunted.

00:54:33.000 But that does not change the fact that he still wants to do it at some point.

00:54:36.000 And if given the opportunity, he will do it.

00:54:38.000 I will say this, if I can leave you guys with like one kind of phrase here.

00:54:41.000 What I've come to realize from dealing with men and women is this.

00:54:46.000 Women are opportunistic with relationships. 1.00

00:54:48.000 Men are opportunistic with sex.

00:54:50.000 What I mean by this is women are opportunistic to find the best guy that they can to take care of them and provide what they want. 1.00

00:54:55.000 Income, status, you know, relationship security, all these things.

00:55:00.000 And men are opportunistic with sex like, oh, it's available?

00:55:02.000 I'll take it.

00:55:03.000 Because it's difficult for women to get a relationship with a man that they truly love and admire and respect.

00:55:07.000 So they have to be opportunistic. 0.54

00:55:08.000 It's difficult for men to get sex, so they have to be opportunistic. 0.98

00:55:11.000 So I think once women understand that and accept that, right?

00:55:15.000 We have to accept that you guys are opportunistic with relationships, right?

00:55:17.000 That you guys want the best and brightest that you can get.

00:55:20.000 Women have to kind of understand that men are opportunistic with sex. 0.85

00:55:23.000 And if it does occur, it is what it is. 1.00

00:55:25.000 Just make sure that you're still the best option and that other girl doesn't have shit on you. 0.99

00:55:29.000 I think if it happens... 0.99

00:55:30.000 To add to your point, it's very simple, ladies.

00:55:33.000 If you know what your man wants and you become that, you win.

00:55:36.000 And as a guy, if you know what your girl wants, you become that, you win.

00:55:40.000 So ultimately, it's knowing what the other party wants and becoming the best version of yourself to give that.

00:55:44.000 That's it.

00:55:45.000 Does that answer your thing, though?

00:55:46.000 I don't think it was contradictory, but I guess that was more of a question on cheating. 0.98

00:55:50.000 Like, it's fucked up, right? 0.97

00:55:51.000 But does that answer it? 0.99

00:55:52.000 You said you're trying, right?

00:55:55.000 Someone said you're not trying hard enough. 1.00

00:55:56.000 What the fuck, man? 1.00

00:55:57.000 Y'all niggas wildin', bro. 1.00

00:55:58.000 Yeah, y'all fucked up, man. 1.00

00:55:59.000 But this is the thing. 0.99

00:56:00.000 Self-love is the most important thing ever because if someone...

00:56:04.000 I think it's dangerous.

00:56:05.000 No, it's not.

00:56:06.000 And I know that for a fact because...

00:56:08.000 It depends where it leads you.

00:56:09.000 To reach your...

00:56:10.000 I believe that we're all here on this earth to become our best possible self.

00:56:15.000 So if you are not loving yourself, then you're not following the right path.

00:56:22.000 When you love yourself, you're going to attract people that love you too.

00:56:26.000 Point blank period.

00:56:27.000 If someone were to do some sheisty stuff like cheating, you should love yourself enough to that point where that shouldn't even affect you in a way. 0.54

00:56:37.000 What does love yourself mean though?

00:56:38.000 Like what does loving yourself look like?

00:56:39.000 Knowing that you are the best thing ever. 1.00

00:56:43.000 Like knowing that you're the shit basically. 1.00

00:56:45.000 You're a queen. 1.00

00:56:45.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:56:46.000 No one is the best thing ever.

00:56:48.000 I believe I am.

00:56:49.000 Go queen. 0.99

00:56:50.000 You got a queen.

00:56:51.000 I believe I am.

00:56:52.000 I got it titled on me.

00:56:53.000 Self love.

00:56:53.000 Come on honey baby.

00:56:54.000 Self love I think is so treacherous to society. 1.00

00:56:56.000 I think people should always be trying to improve and stop thinking that they're the shit. 0.99

00:57:00.000 I don't think people say... 0.99

00:57:03.000 Are you basically making a demarcation?

00:57:05.000 There's a difference between loving yourself versus narcissism.

00:57:08.000 Yes.

00:57:10.000 I think we should strive to be better instead of constantly being like, you're so amazing.

00:57:14.000 You see it with the body positivity movement.

00:57:16.000 Of course.

00:57:18.000 Everybody loves themselves differently.

00:57:20.000 We can all be better.

00:57:22.000 When you love yourself, life is a constant thing.

00:57:26.000 It's always changing.

00:57:27.000 So yeah, loving yourself means that you're going to always be changing and upgrading every situation.

00:57:33.000 I'm just so confused what loving yourself means. 0.99

00:57:35.000 It means that when you look into the mirror, you know that you are the shit and that no one else can tell you anything else. 1.00

00:57:42.000 When someone cheats on you, that is... 1.00

00:57:44.000 Hurtful.

00:57:45.000 It makes you feel less of yourself, right?

00:57:47.000 If that were to happen, wouldn't you not feel less of yourself?

00:57:49.000 You love yourself enough that that would not affect you.

00:57:53.000 So if someone cheating on you would upset you, but you're willing to take them back, that's on you.

00:57:59.000 But them cheating is not really like...

00:58:03.000 Has anything to do with your inside.

00:58:05.000 That's, you know, what I'm saying.

00:58:07.000 It has to do with them, not really you.

00:58:09.000 But I think she's saying in a nutshell.

00:58:10.000 And if you love yourself enough, and you don't want to be cheated on, you wouldn't be with someone that would do that anyway.

00:58:18.000 Okay, so I think I understand where you're coming from, but I think she's interpreting it as narcissism, which I agree that your interpretation, because that's what I thought to myself too, because I do think that women, modern day women, have a very high level of narcissism, 0.91

00:58:33.000 and I think it's because we don't Critique women enough.

00:58:37.000 I think that we don't tell women the truth about maybe their body weight, their image, how they behave, being masculine, being annoying. 1.00

00:58:45.000 We don't really tell women character flaws because, let's be honest, your guys want to fuck them, so they're not going to critique them. 1.00

00:58:51.000 And I think that's kind of led to... 0.99

00:58:52.000 And then you highlight it with Instagram, social media, all the validation that women get from the opposite gender. 0.82

00:58:58.000 I think we live in kind of a selfie narcissism world where a lot of women are narcissists, if I'm going to be honest. 1.00

00:59:03.000 I know.

00:59:03.000 I'm sure you guys have noticed it.

00:59:05.000 All of you have that girlfriend that she walks by and she can't stop looking at herself.

00:59:09.000 All of you guys know probably a few females like that. 1.00

00:59:12.000 I think that's more common than it should be.

00:59:16.000 That is also true.

00:59:18.000 I'm one of them people that always look at themselves in the mirror.

00:59:21.000 I love myself.

00:59:22.000 Wouldn't want to be anybody else.

00:59:25.000 Braces right now.

00:59:26.000 I'm 22 years old.

00:59:27.000 I've had braces when I was in middle school and I have them again. 0.98

00:59:30.000 I'm like, yo, I fucking hate my smile. 0.96

00:59:32.000 I love myself enough. 0.99

00:59:33.000 I'm going to fix that.

00:59:34.000 Things like that.

00:59:36.000 Always changing yourself.

00:59:37.000 Never being too complacent.

00:59:39.000 I guess I'm just being picky on the words.

00:59:40.000 I just hate the love yourself terminology.

00:59:42.000 To touch on what you said about women need to hear the truth and stuff.

00:59:46.000 This happened a couple days ago.

00:59:48.000 I posted an Instagram video on my bathing suit.

00:59:52.000 I Full-blown body, whatever.

00:59:56.000 So why did you post that?

00:59:57.000 Because I wanted to.

00:59:59.000 Really no ifs, ands, or buts about it.

01:00:01.000 My dad's seen my story.

01:00:03.000 Oh, no.

01:00:03.000 And he told me I need a BBL. My own dad told me that.

01:00:09.000 And, like, I love my dad.

01:00:10.000 Like, I told you we're tight.

01:00:11.000 But hear me out.

01:00:13.000 No, he, like, he says, okay, you need to do squats, eat more, gain weight, whatever.

01:00:17.000 But he said, maybe try that, you know.

01:00:20.000 Okay.

01:00:20.000 So...

01:00:21.000 He told you to exercise or get a BBL or something.

01:00:23.000 Yeah.

01:00:24.000 He didn't tell you don't post your body online?

01:00:26.000 My dad?

01:00:27.000 No.

01:00:28.000 He supports me.

01:00:29.000 That's sad.

01:00:30.000 Why do you think that?

01:00:31.000 I just think it's sad to see a father figure in today's society thinking it's commendable for a woman to post her body online.

01:00:37.000 In a bathing suit?

01:00:38.000 Yeah.

01:00:38.000 I mean, what are you posting a bathing suit picture for?

01:00:40.000 I want to ask you this question.

01:00:41.000 I'll finish your point and then you can ask.

01:00:43.000 I mean, I'm just asking, what are you posting a bathing suit picture for?

01:00:46.000 It's obviously to attract attention.

01:00:47.000 You want the male validation online.

01:00:50.000 Um, maybe that is true.

01:00:52.000 But at the same time, um, I don't really think that deep into it.

01:00:57.000 I mean, everything you post is for a reason.

01:00:59.000 Yeah, that's true.

01:01:00.000 And there's times where I go like a couple of days without postings.

01:01:02.000 I don't want no one to talk to me.

01:01:04.000 So yeah, that is true.

01:01:06.000 So why do you post the bikini photo?

01:01:08.000 Because she wants people to talk to her.

01:01:10.000 Yeah, maybe I want to get my hose up. 0.80

01:01:11.000 You know, I'm single.

01:01:12.000 I'm 22 years old.

01:01:14.000 Like we have completely different mindsets and that's we can agree to disagree.

01:01:18.000 I personally don't really judge anybody because I'm always about me.

01:01:23.000 It's how everybody should live their life.

01:01:25.000 It really shouldn't affect what the next person does to the next person unless it's affecting your pockets or personally affecting you.

01:01:33.000 Whatever the next person does, it really shouldn't matter.

01:01:36.000 But, back to what I was saying about my dad, he told me, like, he's a black man and I've had bad, like, relationships with black men. 1.00

01:01:44.000 You know, I have no ass. 1.00

01:01:45.000 Like, that shit, like, it doesn't... 1.00

01:01:46.000 Maybe you're attracting the wrong men. 1.00

01:01:47.000 Yeah, maybe that is true.

01:01:49.000 That is true.

01:01:49.000 Maybe the bikini photos attract the wrong men.

01:01:51.000 So you're saying that you hate niggas?

01:01:52.000 No, I don't. 0.95

01:01:53.000 Are you racist?

01:01:54.000 No, I don't.

01:01:58.000 But my dad always like you I'm only saying referencing my dad you told me like women don't like to hear the hard truth but it depends on how you're really raised some people can hear that let me ask you a photo we fast-forward five years right and it's a dream scenario you're walking down the aisle And at the end of the aisle,

01:02:24.000 you're walking down with your father.

01:02:25.000 At the end of the aisle is the man of your dreams, right?

01:02:28.000 Takes care of you, everything that you want.

01:02:31.000 And during the marriage ceremony, they take photos from your Instagram and play them in a highlight reel.

01:02:37.000 Would you be proud of that photo being shown on the highlight reel along with all of your other Instagram photos that are currently there?

01:02:42.000 Yeah, because I don't post.

01:02:44.000 Would you be proud of that photo and the other photos on your Instagram reel being highlighted at your wedding in front of the man of your dreams?

01:02:51.000 Would you be happy?

01:02:53.000 Yeah, I've always told myself, like, yeah, I want a husband one day, whatever.

01:02:57.000 So I'm particular about what I post.

01:02:59.000 Okay.

01:03:00.000 I hear what she's saying.

01:03:03.000 Okay, so you'd be okay with it.

01:03:05.000 Now I want to ask you the real magical question.

01:03:07.000 Do you think the man would be okay with it?

01:03:10.000 Like I said, someone needs to be in alignment with you.

01:03:16.000 There shouldn't really be like a judge zone.

01:03:19.000 Everybody's different.

01:03:20.000 What someone may like may not be what the next person wants.

01:03:23.000 Let me ask you a question.

01:03:25.000 You said earlier that you would sleep with a guy, right?

01:03:30.000 Bluntly, if he was blunt with you, if he was attractive enough.

01:03:32.000 Well, hear me out. 0.97

01:03:33.000 Women need sex just as much as men. 1.00

01:03:35.000 No, that's fake. 0.99

01:03:36.000 I'm not going there.

01:03:38.000 I'm just saying, because you're saying people shouldn't be judgmental.

01:03:40.000 But I would argue that everything a woman does when she selects a man is judgmental. 0.98

01:03:45.000 He has to be a certain height, a certain look, a certain income bracket, a certain status, a certain confidence, a certain ambition, etc.

01:03:51.000 So I would argue that women are far more judgmental than men are when it comes to picking a man. 0.95

01:03:56.000 So my question is this.

01:03:58.000 Men don't ask much for women. 1.00

01:04:00.000 And I would argue that If that guy was sitting at the aisle, there's probably a 97% chance that he would not be comfortable with his wife who's walking down the aisle that he's about to take a commitment to, to protect and provide it through death and through, you know, poorness.

01:04:15.000 Take that vow to a woman that is so happy with having that photo up on her thing. 0.90

01:04:20.000 He put her Instagram up.

01:04:23.000 What photo exactly do you mean? 1.00

01:04:25.000 Damn, she got no ass. 1.00

01:04:25.000 Is it that bikini photo right there? 1.00

01:04:30.000 No, it was a story.

01:04:32.000 It was a story.

01:04:34.000 Again, Chris, the reason why I say that is because I get it that you're saying that you're okay with it and you wouldn't mind it at your wedding.

01:04:42.000 What I'm saying is that the man that's at the end of the aisle waiting for you probably will have a problem with it.

01:04:46.000 So, I think women really need to be able, and this is where I say, this is a controversial take of mine, I say that women really lack empathy when it comes to the male experience, because what men look for in women is far different than what women look for in men. 0.62

01:04:58.000 Just because you're okay with it, and you like it, doesn't mean that the man will.

01:05:02.000 I don't think it's fair that I have to be taller than you and be better than you in every regard to attract you, but I have to accept this reality to attract you.

01:05:08.000 Why is that women don't want to accept the realities of what men want to attract them? 1.00

01:05:12.000 So what type of characteristics are the best?

01:05:17.000 Like, not the best, but what do they look for?

01:05:19.000 Because I honestly don't know.

01:05:21.000 So remember what I said earlier.

01:05:22.000 It's simple.

01:05:23.000 If you can figure out what your man wants, you win.

01:05:26.000 If he figures out what you want, you win as well.

01:05:29.000 So in retrospect, let's say you're dating a guy, right?

01:05:32.000 You're really into him.

01:05:34.000 Ask questions.

01:05:35.000 Look at his lifestyle.

01:05:36.000 Business-wise, what he does for a living, maybe who he's around, what he's about.

01:05:40.000 And you're going to figure out things about him that you say, you know what? 0.98

01:05:42.000 Damn, I can add value in this way. 0.96

01:05:44.000 And that alone makes you stand out. 0.99

01:05:47.000 But what do most women do? 1.00

01:05:48.000 Oh, he should like this about me or that about me.

01:05:50.000 And you think he should.

01:05:52.000 Take me for who I am.

01:05:53.000 Exactly.

01:05:53.000 But what is he actually like?

01:05:55.000 Do you know?

01:05:55.000 Probably not.

01:05:56.000 Thank you.

01:05:57.000 That's the biggest issue that I see with dating.

01:05:59.000 And women don't care about men. 1.00

01:06:00.000 Exactly.

01:06:01.000 They just don't care.

01:06:02.000 But it's all about communication, though.

01:06:04.000 I feel like the best way to have a great relationship is to communicate and ask those tough questions.

01:06:08.000 But let's be honest, most people don't.

01:06:10.000 Most people don't.

01:06:11.000 And I feel like that's a maturity level.

01:06:13.000 But I say people start getting the mindset where it's like, I understand people don't really value men's opinions, how they feel.

01:06:19.000 But I say for me, it's like, I want to know what affects you.

01:06:22.000 I want to know what I do that bothers you because you're a person, you have feelings.

01:06:26.000 So it's not just about me.

01:06:28.000 It's about us.

01:06:29.000 We're growing together.

01:06:30.000 You're mature, but most people aren't.

01:06:32.000 And even with that, it's just someone constantly asking you 24-7.

01:06:38.000 It's just better if they just pick up on it.

01:06:41.000 You should be able to pick up what your person is doing, their actions.

01:06:45.000 We're not mind readers.

01:06:46.000 But you can react.

01:06:47.000 You can react and see how they react, and then you change that.

01:06:51.000 Of course, you can pick up on cues.

01:06:52.000 I'm not fronting that.

01:06:53.000 You can pick up on cues. 0.95

01:06:55.000 To be ignorant on cues is just your selfish need.

01:06:57.000 But I'm saying in a sense, with the partner, when you're building marriage and stuff, you have to talk about the hard things.

01:07:04.000 That's how relationships work.

01:07:07.000 But you won't get there if you're posting bikini photos.

01:07:09.000 That's the point.

01:07:09.000 That's not true.

01:07:10.000 You can see a lot of people that are married that do post bikini pictures.

01:07:14.000 I understand you're very religious, but religion is different to everyone.

01:07:18.000 Not everyone is religious.

01:07:19.000 I'm actually a baby Christian.

01:07:19.000 I was saved last year.

01:07:21.000 I felt the same way when I was a atheist.

01:07:22.000 I'm saying there's plenty of women that are married that post bikini pictures. 1.00

01:07:27.000 You can't say that you're not going to get married.

01:07:29.000 But that shows disrespect towards their man.

01:07:31.000 But that is a personal view.

01:07:33.000 Yeah, literally.

01:07:34.000 Some men can support that.

01:07:37.000 So I think it's very important that women take into account what men want and behave accordingly.

01:07:43.000 The thing is that this is what I mean.

01:07:44.000 When I say that, a lot of time women lack empathy. 1.00

01:07:47.000 Women do what they want and expect the society and men that they want to attract to accept them the way that they come. 0.99

01:07:53.000 What she's arguing is that if you behave in a certain manner and you put yourself out in a certain way, you will quite effectively disqualify yourself from that man in the first place and you won't even get a chance.

01:08:05.000 I always say that men, right, women have to curve men overtly. 1.00

01:08:08.000 Hey, I'm not interested.

01:08:09.000 I have a boyfriend.

01:08:11.000 I'm a lesbian.

01:08:12.000 They have to tell a guy overtly that they're not interested.

01:08:14.000 Men, however, curve you Covertly.

01:08:17.000 They just won't say anything.

01:08:18.000 They won't call you back.

01:08:19.000 They'll ghost you or they'll just never talk to you.

01:08:21.000 So if you put yourself out in a certain light, men are going to judge a book by its cover.

01:08:25.000 And you also got to remember, ladies, men value purity. 0.99

01:08:28.000 So if you put yourself out to look like a whore, even though you're not a whore, guys are going to assume you're a whore. 1.00

01:08:33.000 If I put myself out, right, and I'm a fat piece of shit, right, and I'm not confident and I stutter when I talk and I'm not... 1.00

01:08:41.000 Charismatic. 0.99

01:08:41.000 I'm not charming. 0.99

01:08:42.000 You won't give me a chance if I try to come up to you. 0.99

01:08:44.000 You might not know that I'm rich and famous and all this other shit, but you're like, you're kind of weird. 0.99

01:08:48.000 I'm just going to judge a book by its cover. 0.97

01:08:49.000 I'm not interested.

01:08:50.000 That's how men move with women, too. 0.92

01:08:51.000 The difference is that men curve women silently, and you won't even know that you missed a chance sometimes.

01:08:58.000 No, I understand that.

01:08:59.000 Like I said, I believe that men's opinion matters.

01:09:01.000 I want to know exactly how they feel.

01:09:04.000 But I won't lie and say that if you're at the beach and a man picks you up and sees you in a bikini, am I not supposed to wear a bikini anymore?

01:09:11.000 No one's saying you can't wear a bikini to the beach.

01:09:13.000 We're just saying posting it online is for male validation specifically.

01:09:16.000 But I want to say posting online has started with Facebook.

01:09:19.000 That's how I grew up.

01:09:21.000 And I remember us posting just not for anything.

01:09:24.000 I believe Instagram became more of a monetary gain for people.

01:09:27.000 And when they realized they were getting more...

01:09:29.000 I'll put it like this though.

01:09:30.000 Facebook is where you can accept Friends and family.

01:09:33.000 And it's up to you if you want to have random people on your Facebook.

01:09:37.000 Now, this is the question I've been trying to ask for the longest.

01:09:40.000 Do you guys even know how deep is the internet?

01:09:43.000 It's worldwide.

01:09:44.000 You're not just posting for your friends and family.

01:09:47.000 You're posting for the whole entire world to see. 1.00

01:09:50.000 A man in Australia or fucking in the UK could see your shit and like it. 1.00

01:09:55.000 You understand what I'm saying? 1.00

01:09:56.000 And a lot of people, and I feel like a lot of girls are ignorant to this fact that it's worldwide.

01:10:01.000 Wide.

01:10:02.000 What you're posting, everybody's going to see it.

01:10:04.000 Somebody's going to screenshot that.

01:10:07.000 Let's say you post your husband down the line and you used to do OnlyFans or whatever the case might be. 1.00

01:10:12.000 They're going to send him, you sucking dick, to his DMs. 1.00

01:10:16.000 Like, look, this is your wife. 1.00

01:10:17.000 Ha ha.

01:10:18.000 And how you think he's going to feel at that point?

01:10:20.000 Well, that has to be...

01:10:22.000 I'm just saying an example.

01:10:24.000 I'm not really...

01:10:25.000 It's not a general type of thing, but I'm just saying...

01:10:29.000 In retrospect, when you post that bikini picture, you're posting it for the whole entire world.

01:10:35.000 And I think a lot of women don't truly understand what the whole world is. 1.00

01:10:40.000 You understand?

01:10:40.000 Because we're just so used to just being here with our friends and families.

01:10:44.000 But it's like you literally have random people knowing or looking at you or being obsessed of you without even knowing it.

01:10:52.000 Yeah, that is scary.

01:10:53.000 To your point, I get what you're saying because there's a couple out there that actually have a good relationship that are in that scenario.

01:10:58.000 The girl's posing pictures in a bikini.

01:11:00.000 However, you don't see the underlying issues that may come up from her doing that.

01:11:04.000 Of course.

01:11:04.000 For example, random DMs, you know, getting offers.

01:11:07.000 Her husband may fall short here and there.

01:11:09.000 And you know what?

01:11:10.000 This guy's that 10.

01:11:11.000 Not like a man anymore. 0.82

01:11:12.000 I'm going to try this opportunity.

01:11:13.000 So it does lead to certain, I want to say, underlying issues.

01:11:16.000 But ultimately, it can work.

01:11:18.000 But is it going to have its hiccups?

01:11:19.000 Probably it might.

01:11:21.000 Yeah, of course.

01:11:21.000 But I work with data, so I understand the digital footprint.

01:11:24.000 But your digital footprint is in everything you do.

01:11:28.000 On Instagram it is.

01:11:29.000 No, I'm saying it's in everything you do.

01:11:31.000 I'm saying with texting, where you go, putting your address and maps, your digital footprint is everywhere.

01:11:36.000 Whatever you put online, it is there.

01:11:38.000 So I'm not trying to find a way I understand that.

01:11:41.000 If you're out there doing something and you marry someone, they're going to find out.

01:11:45.000 But I'm just saying, in a sense, it's like...

01:11:47.000 It was more towards her bikini picture thing.

01:11:49.000 The whole bikini pics and all that thing, like I said, I'm 22 years old.

01:11:56.000 I'm not looking to settle down right now.

01:11:58.000 Maybe I could be looked bad upon for that, but I'm just not.

01:12:02.000 I've been in a long relationship.

01:12:04.000 I know how relationships can be toxic, even though how much you love someone.

01:12:09.000 I know how much you need to grow as a person before you even get into a serious relationship.

01:12:12.000 So, my whole thing is, like you said, Instagram is a game.

01:12:16.000 As a woman, you gotta get it how you live in. 1.00

01:12:19.000 So, by my page, the way I carry myself, I'm not OnlyFans.

01:12:25.000 I'm not, like, whatever.

01:12:27.000 I'm not out there like that at all, in my opinion.

01:12:29.000 I have a question for you.

01:12:31.000 My Instagram gives me opportunities.

01:12:33.000 Okay, what are those opportunities?

01:12:35.000 Like somebody taking you out on a date, modeling gigs, going on a yacht?

01:12:40.000 Yeah, stuff like that.

01:12:41.000 Fun stuff.

01:12:42.000 Yeah, but not even the date part, just like being around celebrities, all that.

01:12:47.000 I'm not saying that's like what I do for my life, but mind you, I'm a working woman.

01:12:51.000 I'm a working woman, so my Instagram allows, is my game.

01:12:56.000 Literally, that's what it is for me.

01:12:58.000 The thing is, Myron and Fresh always say this.

01:13:01.000 That's our advantage as a woman. 0.99

01:13:03.000 We're capable of being anywhere.

01:13:05.000 We just have to be invited.

01:13:07.000 Now, for the guys, the guys had to work and be at a certain level to have that status, to have that vote, to have those things in order for you guys to enjoy it.

01:13:16.000 Does that make sense?

01:13:17.000 And I feel like, again, a lot of women don't really see that or cater to the thought of it. 0.96

01:13:22.000 You know what I'm saying?

01:13:23.000 They just...

01:13:23.000 Oh, I'm a guy.

01:13:25.000 I'm drunk as fuck. 0.99

01:13:26.000 You know, like on some... 1.00

01:13:27.000 New background for a bikini photo.

01:13:29.000 You know what I'm saying?

01:13:30.000 Only fans, like, at the end of the day, it comes to a point where it's just like, I don't know, to me, it's just getting disgusting.

01:13:37.000 It's like, why would you post that?

01:13:38.000 I mean, that's fine.

01:13:39.000 I get it.

01:13:40.000 You're using your Instagram to create opportunities for yourself and everything else like that.

01:13:44.000 And that's fine.

01:13:44.000 You know what I mean?

01:13:45.000 I just want you to understand that, like, there are We're good to go.

01:14:11.000 Partying all the time on boats and exclusive parties around celebrities in certain social situations of exclusivity and luxury.

01:14:20.000 He's going to assume she's promiscuous and not take her seriously.

01:14:23.000 He's going to think, okay, this is that type of girl.

01:14:25.000 He's going to put her in that box.

01:14:27.000 And here's the thing. 0.99

01:14:28.000 I met plenty of girls that do that type of shit and aren't necessarily hoes. 1.00

01:14:31.000 They're just teasers. 0.99

01:14:32.000 They like to have fun, etc.

01:14:34.000 But the problem is that you're going to get put in a box with all those girls and they're going to assume that you're behaving that way.

01:14:41.000 Which is what sucks because... 0.95

01:14:43.000 Girls really do. 1.00

01:14:44.000 The thing is, y'all get judged, but you guys don't even know you're getting judged because you're getting silently curved by a lot of guys.

01:14:48.000 And if you're okay with that and you are okay with the fact that you're going to potentially limit options for yourself in the future that will take you seriously, that's fine.

01:14:56.000 But I just want women to understand that what you do, especially on the internet, definitely has consequences that can come back to haunt you.

01:15:02.000 I mean, we've had girls on this show that used to be city girls and OnlyFans or maybe have some kind of sex work, and they deeply regret the decisions they made.

01:15:11.000 When they were younger.

01:15:12.000 Icy can tell you about this from experience.

01:15:15.000 I'm 28.

01:15:16.000 I used to be a dancer.

01:15:17.000 When did you stop?

01:15:19.000 A year and a half ago.

01:15:22.000 Yeah, a year and a half ago.

01:15:23.000 So you just came to this realization, really?

01:15:26.000 It was more or less because of my son and survival, you know, and then I came across this podcast randomly.

01:15:33.000 And yeah.

01:15:36.000 Aaron, you know what?

01:15:37.000 I never gave this man his real credit.

01:15:39.000 Shout out to Aaron to actually believing in me. 0.99

01:15:41.000 Because shit, if it wasn't for him, I wouldn't be here and I would have never changed my life the way it did. 0.99

01:15:45.000 Well, to be fair, he used to be a teacher. 1.00

01:15:48.000 He saw the light in you, Icy.

01:15:50.000 Saw the light in me?

01:15:52.000 Icy, do you want to... 1.00

01:15:53.000 I mean, it's up to you if you want to talk about this.

01:15:54.000 I was going to mention this later, but I guess that's why the topic...

01:15:57.000 I mean, do you want to tell her kind of...

01:15:59.000 Because you were in her shoes four or five years ago easily, right?

01:16:02.000 What's my shoes exactly?

01:16:04.000 I mean, you're posting a bikini picture compared to me just being on a strip pole dancing and going crazy and being on ceilings.

01:16:12.000 You know, I was crazy party lifestyle promoter.

01:16:16.000 I was doing everything nightlife.

01:16:18.000 I was making my money.

01:16:19.000 And at the end of the day, I was not doing sex work.

01:16:23.000 I would like to make that very clear.

01:16:24.000 It was more or less on the lines of finessing.

01:16:26.000 I like to finesse.

01:16:27.000 I like playing the teasing and like, oh yeah! 1.00

01:16:30.000 You think you got some pussy? 1.00

01:16:31.000 No, you're not. 1.00

01:16:32.000 But at the end of the day, it gets to a point where it's like, it's all fun and games.

01:16:38.000 But look where I'm at right now.

01:16:40.000 I had a child out of wedlock.

01:16:42.000 You know what I'm saying?

01:16:43.000 I don't have a man that is secure by my side right now with my child.

01:16:47.000 And as I'm raising my child, I'm seeing how badly... 1.00

01:16:51.000 Fuck, I feel like this girl. 1.00

01:16:55.000 Stop! 1.00

01:16:56.000 Stop! 1.00

01:16:56.000 I don't want to do it. 1.00

01:16:57.000 I'm not going to cry on camera.

01:16:59.000 I refuse.

01:17:00.000 I think they need to hear this.

01:17:02.000 Go ahead. 1.00

01:17:02.000 I mean, Chris, don't be a fucking moron. 1.00

01:17:04.000 Let her speak, please. 1.00

01:17:05.000 At the end of the day, it's important to have a man in your life. 1.00

01:17:10.000 Fuck. 1.00

01:17:11.000 It's really important because of the simple fact that just seeing my son raised without a son, like a father, it hurts. 1.00

01:17:18.000 It really does.

01:17:20.000 And you know what?

01:17:21.000 I'm happy for you because it's like...

01:17:23.000 When you have that situation, you realize that it's like, this is my man.

01:17:29.000 I'm going to worship him.

01:17:30.000 And this is the family I'm going to create.

01:17:31.000 When I'm a grandma and I have the whole entire room filled with my grandchildren, that is your real value.

01:17:38.000 And no women really talk about that. 1.00

01:17:40.000 Andrew Tate spoke about it here in the podcast.

01:17:42.000 And that's something that he said that I will always hold to me because of my son, you know?

01:17:47.000 So at the end of the day... 0.99

01:17:49.000 A man plays an important role in our lives, and we always want to sit there, oh, they ain't shit, they ain't shit, just because they're cheating. 0.99

01:17:54.000 What's a real thing that a man does besides cheating that hurts you? 0.96

01:18:00.000 Can y'all answer that question?

01:18:04.000 Lying, deceit.

01:18:06.000 But that's selling the dream.

01:18:07.000 Let's take that out of the thing. 0.58

01:18:10.000 If a man... 1.00

01:18:10.000 No, fuck that. 1.00

01:18:11.000 I'm going to take that back in. 1.00

01:18:12.000 If a man lies to you, but yet he's providing everything for you...

01:18:17.000 I will put it like this.

01:18:18.000 You should take it with a grain of salt. 0.96

01:18:19.000 Because if he tells you the truth, he does not give two fucks about you. 0.57

01:18:24.000 Why should I accept that? 0.95

01:18:27.000 Why not play the dance?

01:18:28.000 But why should I accept that?

01:18:29.000 Because he's doing his job as a man.

01:18:32.000 But that's what you value as a man.

01:18:34.000 I feel like everything is a perception of yourself.

01:18:37.000 That's all I can say.

01:18:39.000 So what do you value?

01:18:40.000 What I value?

01:18:41.000 I value morals.

01:18:42.000 From your man.

01:18:42.000 For my man, honesty, integrity, to make sure if he wants to support, that's fine.

01:18:48.000 I mean, I hope that we can be a great household that, you know, unites, but I do want him to be a leader.

01:18:53.000 I mean, I want to be able to lean on my man, but I don't need him to cheat on me and then just accept it because he helps provide.

01:19:01.000 So in that sense, he could be broke?

01:19:04.000 No, but I don't need a man that's like making millions of dollars.

01:19:08.000 If I'm making a great income, if he's making a great income as well, why can't we just survive?

01:19:13.000 Well, that just goes into what they say when a woman isn't making a certain amount of money, her mindset changes and you're at a point where you can no longer be submissive to a man. 0.98

01:19:22.000 But no, I'm definitely submissive to my mind.

01:19:24.000 But to a certain level, you can't be fully submissive because of the amount of money you're making.

01:19:30.000 Because you have that mindset that I'm making X amount of money.

01:19:33.000 I can do that for myself, so I don't need him to provide for me.

01:19:36.000 So I'm not going to accept that from him.

01:19:38.000 But that's not my mindset.

01:19:39.000 But that's exactly what you just said.

01:19:40.000 My mindset, in a sense, is like, I don't think I can survive him.

01:19:44.000 You said you've been in a relationship for a year.

01:19:46.000 You and your guy are equal?

01:19:47.000 No.

01:19:48.000 Is he better than you?

01:19:49.000 Does he make more money than you?

01:19:50.000 Does he have more status than you?

01:19:51.000 Is he older than you?

01:19:51.000 More experienced than you?

01:19:52.000 No, he's older than me.

01:19:53.000 More experienced than me.

01:19:54.000 So you guys are not equal?

01:19:55.000 Yeah, we're not equal.

01:19:56.000 So you submit to him because he's better than you.

01:19:59.000 That's their point, pretty much.

01:20:00.000 No, in a sense, I submit to him the way he treats me.

01:20:03.000 I'm very...

01:20:04.000 The way I was raised is not in a sense of, oh, someone has to provide and make sure that this is that and this is that.

01:20:10.000 The way he treats you, he's a leader in the relationship, his masculinity, etc.

01:20:13.000 All these things are what make you submit, is what she's trying to say.

01:20:16.000 Like a woman, it's very difficult for a woman to submit to a man who is lesser than herself. 0.99

01:20:21.000 Not in a sense.

01:20:21.000 For me, my thing is communication.

01:20:25.000 The reason why I submit to the man I'm with now is because he listens to me.

01:20:29.000 No, I'm so serious.

01:20:32.000 I'm saying in a sense, I talk to people who've made a lot of money, but they don't respect me as a person.

01:20:40.000 Yeah.

01:20:41.000 And I want to be able to say, hey, something bothers me and someone actually listen.

01:20:44.000 They don't have to say like, oh, well, you got to deal with it.

01:20:47.000 Well, I just want to be like, okay, well, I understand where you came from.

01:20:49.000 This is what I'm going to continue doing.

01:20:51.000 I just want to let you know.

01:20:51.000 I think the bottom line here is that the man has to exercise some level of competence.

01:20:57.000 Yeah, emotional maturity.

01:20:59.000 For you to be able to submit to him, which is what they're trying to establish.

01:21:04.000 And they're saying...

01:21:05.000 For you to find a guy like that, it's not easy. 0.98

01:21:08.000 So if he fucks another girl, it ain't that serious. 0.59

01:21:10.000 But I think just because we kind of went off on a tangent there with that. 0.95

01:21:14.000 Icy, do you have anything else that you want to say as far as like, as far as like mistakes that girls make when they're... 1.00

01:21:19.000 I mean, again...

01:21:20.000 I mean, it's just having...

01:21:22.000 Our opportunities are spinning plates.

01:21:24.000 And what I mean by spinning plates is having as many options of guys as you want.

01:21:28.000 And the thing is, you have to learn how to vet correctly in order to be in a great situation. 0.97

01:21:34.000 Now, if you just go by life and just live through it and not give a fuck, and it's always a party, it's always this, it's always like... 0.97

01:21:42.000 The same insane routine, but it's getting you nowhere. 0.98

01:21:45.000 It's not worth it, man.

01:21:47.000 Honestly.

01:21:48.000 Do you have anything you want to respond to that?

01:21:49.000 I feel like...

01:21:50.000 She's basically kind of lived the life that you're living now to a degree.

01:21:53.000 Maybe even more so.

01:21:54.000 And she's kind of warning you.

01:21:56.000 And I mean, it's up to you how you want to adapt.

01:21:57.000 And this is what I'm saying.

01:21:58.000 There's a balance, I believe.

01:22:00.000 And I don't know.

01:22:02.000 Do you guys believe in soulmates?

01:22:03.000 Yeah.

01:22:04.000 Like finding a soulmate?

01:22:05.000 No.

01:22:06.000 No?

01:22:06.000 No.

01:22:07.000 I believe that.

01:22:10.000 You can have multiple soulmates in your life at different periods of time that can always teach you different things and elevate you to learn to the next level.

01:22:18.000 Like I said, we're here to experience and to reach our highest point of enlightenment.

01:22:22.000 You believe in reincarnation? 0.99

01:22:25.000 Only if you haven't finished your job here, and I mean that to a certain extent, like, you would have to come back here and do that shit over again. 0.99

01:22:34.000 I see your problem. 0.99

01:22:35.000 That could be your opinion.

01:22:36.000 Get some help.

01:22:38.000 I'm not an Aries. 0.99

01:22:43.000 I'm an Aquarius.

01:22:44.000 So these soulmates, right, when you find them, do they go away?

01:22:48.000 No, not.

01:22:49.000 They don't ever go away.

01:22:52.000 I found one soulmate before.

01:22:55.000 How'd you know?

01:22:56.000 He was a soulmate.

01:22:57.000 How'd you know?

01:22:57.000 Because the experience that I've had with him shaped me into the person that I am now.

01:23:03.000 Wouldn't you say that most people you meet are going to shape you in a good or bad way?

01:23:07.000 Soulmate or not?

01:23:07.000 Yeah.

01:23:08.000 Yeah, of course.

01:23:09.000 Everyone you meet is a reflection of you.

01:23:11.000 So that means they're all your soulmates?

01:23:12.000 Yeah.

01:23:13.000 No, but when you find that one person that you guys, it's...

01:23:18.000 I think you mean soul ties is where you're trying to get at.

01:23:22.000 Not really so much as soul mates.

01:23:24.000 She didn't mean soul mates, but I'm trying to understand what's the difference between that and someone regular.

01:23:30.000 What's the difference between that and someone regular?

01:23:32.000 Because there's no friction.

01:23:33.000 There's no question about it.

01:23:35.000 There's no what someone did on Instagram 10 years ago coming to play.

01:23:39.000 There's no what someone does with their money, what career they have. 1.00

01:23:43.000 That shit doesn't really matter. 0.99

01:23:45.000 What you're trying to fit... 1.00

01:23:46.000 Come on.

01:24:07.000 If someone's judging you and willing to leave you and this and the third discard you, then they are not the person for you.

01:24:14.000 No if, ands, or what's about it.

01:24:15.000 I think the wording of soulmate should be changed with compatible because your example of it is not a soulmate.

01:24:21.000 A soulmate is someone in a dictionary, I would say, is someone that actually is meant for you no matter what.

01:24:27.000 But if they leave, then they weren't really meant for you.

01:24:30.000 So I think the word compatible is more the word you want to use just because the context is different.

01:24:35.000 Sure.

01:24:36.000 But like I was saying, you do have to meet certain people in your life to experience what you do like and what you do need.

01:24:43.000 So like I said, I've had one really serious relationship and that was enough for me.

01:24:48.000 I'm literally only 22.

01:24:50.000 That may be old to some people.

01:24:52.000 Some people have kids in high school.

01:24:54.000 It's them the third.

01:24:54.000 Like that's not me.

01:24:55.000 That's not the life I want to live.

01:24:57.000 So let me ask you a question.

01:25:00.000 What's a higher likelihood of success?

01:25:02.000 Something that's possible or something that's probable?

01:25:06.000 For me, something possible.

01:25:08.000 And I know that because I'm successful now.

01:25:10.000 Okay.

01:25:11.000 Statistically speaking, right?

01:25:13.000 What would you rather go with?

01:25:14.000 If it was life or death, would you want to go with something that was probable versus something that was possible?

01:25:20.000 Probable.

01:25:21.000 Okay.

01:25:21.000 Why probable?

01:25:23.000 Because the likelihood but like sometimes like okay good Because you're mentioning something about soulmate and someone compatible and there's someone out there and I've noticed that with women They tend to lean on the side of possible and men typically have to operate on the side of probable See, 0.98

01:25:40.000 men don't have the privilege of saying, I'm going to find a soulmate.

01:25:43.000 For a man, it's got to be a soulmate.

01:25:45.000 What I mean by that is I got to make myself a girl's dream soulmate.

01:25:49.000 I got to get out there, make money, become successful, go to the gym, become competent, etc.

01:25:55.000 Men don't believe in this heebie-jeebie, it's possible soulmate stuff.

01:25:58.000 I got to make myself the soulmate that a girl would want, right? 0.96

01:26:03.000 And then women have the privilege of finding the guy and be like, that's my soulmate. 1.00

01:26:05.000 What she doesn't realize is that guy had to suffer for years, if not decades, to become that soulmate for her.

01:26:11.000 Now, what I'm saying is on the female side, imagine if woman preserved their value, stayed feminine, went to the gym, took care of herself, didn't abstain from certain behaviors that might lower her value, lower her purity. 1.00

01:26:25.000 I would argue her chances, the probability of finding the man that she wants goes up.

01:26:32.000 Just like the man working on himself, the probability goes up.

01:26:34.000 Because what you're saying about finding a guy that will like you as you come, though it is possible, is it probable?

01:26:40.000 No.

01:26:41.000 Because what women don't realize is The very man that you want has options, is attractive, has money, has status, etc. 1.00

01:26:50.000 To a degree.

01:26:51.000 It doesn't have to be a multi-millionaire, but the man that you want, that dream man, that Christian Grey that women want, Other women want him, too.

01:26:57.000 So how are you going to set yourself apart?

01:26:59.000 If you want that guy, you're going to have to work on yourself, too, because he damn sure worked on himself.

01:27:03.000 Yeah, of course.

01:27:04.000 If you're doing what every other girl is doing, partying, living life, being single, young, wild, and free, how do you really set yourself up from all the other girls when this guy worked to set himself apart?

01:27:15.000 I can't speak.

01:27:16.000 Your probability of attracting that guy comes down.

01:27:20.000 Yeah, sure.

01:27:21.000 Like, yeah.

01:27:22.000 But like I just said, you have to go through experiences in life as a woman to also know what you like to, because... 0.77

01:27:28.000 I disagree.

01:27:29.000 I would say that lowers your value to a man, the more experienced.

01:27:32.000 Like, what do you mean by experience?

01:27:33.000 I mean, meeting people.

01:27:34.000 It doesn't have to be sexual.

01:27:35.000 I've been in relationships with people where we never had sex before.

01:27:40.000 No, I'm being surreal.

01:27:43.000 I've liked certain things about people before I've had sex with them, but then before they even took a tad spot, there were certain things that I know I didn't like about them, which would make me not want to have sex with them. 0.50

01:27:57.000 That's an experience.

01:27:58.000 So seeing what this person brought to the table versus what they didn't bring is going to make me more experienced to find what I do like.

01:28:06.000 Because I do not want to be an unhappy marriage.

01:28:09.000 That experience that you're talking about getting comes at a cost.

01:28:09.000 I don't want to.

01:28:13.000 As you gain more experience, you lose value.

01:28:15.000 As a man gains more experience, he gains value because men are... 0.99

01:28:36.000 What does the man want?

01:28:44.000 What does the man want? 0.98

01:28:45.000 If a guy's going to bust his ass for decades and become a somebody, typically he's going to want to go ahead and get a girl that hasn't been with that many bodies. 0.99

01:28:52.000 That's just how it is. 0.99

01:28:53.000 That's how men may select.

01:28:55.000 Just like it's deep in your ingrained brain that you want a guy to solve and you make more money, you need more status.

01:29:00.000 Men is deep in our brain.

01:29:02.000 We want a girl that doesn't have experience. 1.00

01:29:04.000 Doesn't make money, doesn't have status? 0.99

01:29:06.000 No, I'm saying you want that.

01:29:07.000 I'm asking for, speaking for men, is that what men want? 0.87

01:29:11.000 It's not as important to us as it is for you.

01:29:14.000 If I was to give it an equivalent, if I had an amazing sneaker collection, would you really care about that, realistically speaking?

01:29:24.000 That's how men feel about your career and your education.

01:29:27.000 Same love, love, eh, that benefits you, but it doesn't benefit me.

01:29:31.000 I believe every man wants a modest woman, a woman that doesn't twerk around, that doesn't drink, that doesn't party, that stays home, that cleans for them, and that cooks, that worships them. 0.95

01:29:44.000 And if you show yourself as a party girl, no man will want you. 0.99

01:29:47.000 Maybe for one night stand, but that's not wifey material. 0.98

01:29:50.000 And I promise you, you want to be wifey material. 0.94

01:29:52.000 And we can all have a past and you can go through there and you can build yourself to be wifey material. 0.99

01:29:58.000 That's how you're going to find the happiness when you're a wife and when you're raising your sons and they are proud of you and not ashamed.

01:30:04.000 And I'm sure with these bikini pictures, they are going to be ashamed.

01:30:08.000 Wow.

01:30:09.000 You can go back to my Instagram.

01:30:11.000 There's no bikini pictures.

01:30:12.000 I feel like that has drawn way too much out of context.

01:30:15.000 It's not the pictures.

01:30:16.000 It's literally drawn way too much out of context.

01:30:21.000 You've got to understand that men are visual creatures.

01:30:23.000 So if you have that, they're going to insinuate certain things.

01:30:26.000 And just remember, I'll put it this way.

01:30:29.000 So it's simple.

01:30:29.000 So you guys kind of have a cheat code.

01:30:31.000 Men and women are opposites, right? 0.99

01:30:33.000 So women value men that can attract other women and have experience. 0.85

01:30:38.000 Men value women that don't attract other men and are pure.

01:30:42.000 Women want guys that are tall and strong.

01:30:44.000 Men want women that are feminine and docile. 1.00

01:30:46.000 Women want a guy that's strong and masculine. 0.99

01:30:49.000 It's just how it is.

01:30:51.000 We're opposites.

01:30:52.000 So whenever you ask yourself, what does a man want?

01:30:54.000 What do I want?

01:30:55.000 And then put the opposite of that, there's a high likelihood you're going to be correct.

01:30:58.000 But I think what women make the mistake of is they think that men want the same things in them that they want in a man.

01:31:04.000 And the reality is that's not true.

01:31:05.000 I mean, look at your relationship.

01:31:06.000 I guarantee you, right?

01:31:08.000 Her man's a breadwinner.

01:31:09.000 He's a leader.

01:31:10.000 He's a decision maker.

01:31:11.000 He's the authority in the household.

01:31:13.000 She's the submissive. 0.85

01:31:14.000 She takes care of the household, etc.

01:31:16.000 Men and women shine when we lean into our characteristics that make us different.

01:31:22.000 But when women try to be men, and men try to be women, that's when we end up in the clown world that we're in now. 0.87

01:31:28.000 It just doesn't work.

01:31:29.000 To be fair, your pitch isn't that bad.

01:31:32.000 Yeah, it's not terrible.

01:31:32.000 I know they're not.

01:31:33.000 But the principle, it's what you're trying to establish.

01:31:35.000 I hear the principle, and trust me, I know it.

01:31:38.000 My parents were married.

01:31:40.000 My mom, TMI, whatever the comms are going to say, my mom used to be a dancer. 1.00

01:31:44.000 My dad was married with her throughout that whole entire time, regardless of whether or not they're married now.

01:31:50.000 But...

01:31:51.000 What I'm saying is he accepted her and they love each other still to this day, whether they're not married now, but I have both of my parents in my life and they're the strongest people I have.

01:32:01.000 Their relationship is just as tight as it once was, even though they're not married.

01:32:05.000 That is a soulmate, in my opinion, soul tie.

01:32:08.000 Like we are still a family.

01:32:09.000 How long did the marriage last?

01:32:11.000 At least 15 years.

01:32:13.000 15 years.

01:32:15.000 It was toxic, I'm not gonna lie.

01:32:18.000 It wasn't the best situation.

01:32:21.000 My dad wasn't the breadwinner throughout the entire relationship.

01:32:33.000 So that's why the marriage didn't work. 0.95

01:32:35.000 So I don't think my dad was fucking hoes on the side. 1.00

01:32:38.000 Let's reiterate that. 0.97

01:32:40.000 So your mom was the breadwinner?

01:32:43.000 They both did carry their part, but there was times where she was above him.

01:32:47.000 Okay.

01:32:48.000 And that's just how life works sometimes.

01:32:50.000 It's not gonna be black and white how we want it to be.

01:32:55.000 It's just not.

01:32:55.000 I get that, but why not?

01:32:57.000 Here's the thing.

01:32:57.000 I get that, you know, you can't control life or whatever, but there are certain things that you are in control of to make yourself a more attractive, make sure that you have more options.

01:33:04.000 I'm just telling you, as a woman, the game to be the most attractive, to get more options, isn't what mainstream media tells you.

01:33:12.000 Mainstream media tells you, live your life.

01:33:14.000 Go out there. 1.00

01:33:15.000 Fuck men. 1.00

01:33:16.000 You know, get your degree. 1.00

01:33:18.000 Earn money.

01:33:19.000 You deserve the best still.

01:33:20.000 Like, what I'm saying is that this is going to set you up for failure a lot of times and destruction.

01:33:24.000 I mean, I hate to use IC as an example, but she quite literally is telling you, yo, I believed and did exactly what you're doing six years ago, and look at me now.

01:33:32.000 I made a lot of mistakes.

01:33:34.000 And it set me up for...

01:33:36.000 I mean, she was about...

01:33:36.000 No offense, I don't mean to pick on you, but she was about to cry about it, talking about it.

01:33:39.000 So, I mean...

01:33:41.000 Again, you can do the lifestyle that you want.

01:33:43.000 It's cool.

01:33:43.000 I'm not bashing you for it.

01:33:44.000 But what I am saying is that I want you to understand that it's going to come with consequences.

01:33:47.000 That's all.

01:33:48.000 Did you have something?

01:33:50.000 I don't really think so.

01:33:52.000 Someone wanted to say something.

01:33:53.000 I want to say something.

01:33:55.000 You were saying that everyone has a past, right?

01:33:58.000 Yeah, they do.

01:33:59.000 Wouldn't you want to look back to this moment in your life and be like, I wasn't like everyone.

01:34:03.000 I don't have a past.

01:34:05.000 I wasn't partying around.

01:34:06.000 I wasn't fucking around.

01:34:07.000 I don't have a past like everybody. 0.92

01:34:08.000 Why would you want to be like everybody?

01:34:11.000 Wait, what?

01:34:12.000 I think it's more of a cope.

01:34:13.000 You're saying it should be better for a woman to want to basically say they haven't done all that, basically. 0.98

01:34:20.000 Yeah, like you said, everyone has a past.

01:34:23.000 Why would you want to be like everybody?

01:34:25.000 Why would you want to say, yeah, I had to party, I had to do all that to learn.

01:34:29.000 Why can't you learn?

01:34:30.000 Icy's selling you her story. 0.93

01:34:31.000 Why can't you learn from someone else going through it?

01:34:34.000 I don't have her life.

01:34:37.000 Her life is different than mine.

01:34:39.000 We are never going to live that same path.

01:34:42.000 Everyone has a past, meaning when you meet the person that you're supposed to be with, there was a past before that.

01:34:49.000 You've lived a life.

01:34:51.000 I can't speak on her situation.

01:34:54.000 I've seen my cousin struggle with having two sons.

01:34:57.000 That's part of the reason why I would never put myself in that position.

01:35:01.000 You do when you have sex, though.

01:35:03.000 Who said I was having sex? 0.61

01:35:05.000 Well, you said I haven't had sex with everyone I've been with. 0.51

01:35:07.000 We went from bikini pictures to sex out of nowhere. 0.74

01:35:09.000 Let's not attack her for sexual assault. 1.00

01:35:12.000 To be fair, she didn't say she's having sex.

01:35:16.000 That's true.

01:35:17.000 And you know why I believe her? 0.99

01:35:18.000 Niggas take on a date, niggas say no ass, they can wait. 1.00

01:35:22.000 Oh my god! 0.99

01:35:24.000 Sure, whatever you're saying.

01:35:26.000 I meant your long-term relationship. 0.95

01:35:27.000 I wasn't saying that you're just having sex with a bunch of people.

01:35:30.000 What about it? 0.97

01:35:31.000 I'm saying that you probably had sex with your long-term boyfriend.

01:35:35.000 That's what I'm saying. 1.00

01:35:36.000 You could maybe get a child through having sex. 0.93

01:35:39.000 Yeah, but I'm careful because, like I said, I live my life differently than y'all. 0.60

01:35:43.000 So I know when I'm ovulating.

01:35:46.000 I keep track of my hormones.

01:35:48.000 I know all of that.

01:35:49.000 So I would never put myself in that position to get pregnant out of wedlock. 0.71

01:35:55.000 And honestly, the whole idea of marriage, I... Not too big on it because financially it's not smart to get married in today's time.

01:36:06.000 Yeah, I want a wedding ceremony, a ring and all that, but to be married on a paper is not for me because I am actually trying to break away from everything that the government has.

01:36:17.000 Yeah, I feel you.

01:36:18.000 We're not married under the law.

01:36:21.000 Our church married us.

01:36:22.000 Yeah, so we're not married under the law.

01:36:24.000 I didn't even...

01:36:25.000 This is his, it's like a family heirloom this ring.

01:36:28.000 Yeah, I'm like the same way.

01:36:30.000 I'm against weddings though.

01:36:31.000 And you have two years on me too.

01:36:33.000 Yeah, no, and I, listen, I used to not want to get married and listen, I think weddings, off topic, huge scam.

01:36:39.000 I don't want to pay for a bunch of people to go to dinner.

01:36:41.000 So many women are like the biggest, the bigger the ring, that's how much my fiance loves me. 0.72

01:36:46.000 It's such a waste of money to show for everyone else.

01:36:48.000 So I think weddings are a huge scam and yeah, when the government gets involved, that's not good.

01:36:53.000 So we're only married before God.

01:36:54.000 That's what matters to me.

01:36:55.000 Yeah.

01:36:56.000 Fair enough.

01:36:58.000 We'll hit some of these chats real quick.

01:37:00.000 Mo, you have the best ones, right?

01:37:02.000 Alright, question for ladies. 1.00

01:37:04.000 What is the most romantic thing a man can do for a woman and what's the most romantic thing a woman can do for a man? 0.75

01:37:09.000 Oh my god.

01:37:09.000 That's pretty good.

01:37:10.000 That's a good question.

01:37:10.000 I think the most romantic thing a woman can do for a man is acts of service.

01:37:15.000 Make sure the man is pleased.

01:37:17.000 Make sure the man has everything he needs.

01:37:19.000 You listen to him.

01:37:20.000 You support him emotionally.

01:37:25.000 I like when my man makes me feel safe, when he provides for me, when he makes sure I have a house, I have food, and I have a safe environment.

01:37:35.000 That's good.

01:37:36.000 For you?

01:37:41.000 The most romantic thing a man can do?

01:37:44.000 Yeah, or you could say something maybe your boyfriend did for you since you're in a relationship.

01:37:47.000 If he did any.

01:37:49.000 I'm sure he did if they're in a relationship still.

01:37:51.000 Maybe not.

01:37:55.000 I mean, I don't know.

01:37:57.000 He's just...

01:37:59.000 All the same things.

01:38:00.000 I mean, he provides for me.

01:38:02.000 He gives me money.

01:38:03.000 It's funny because I actually call him my sugar daddy, jokingly.

01:38:07.000 But, like, to girls I'm around because most...

01:38:10.000 How old are my 19-year-olds don't have other, you know, man who actually...

01:38:15.000 Who's 21, who actually, like, gives money and doesn't, you know...

01:38:19.000 So he provides for you, so that's the most romantic thing for you.

01:38:21.000 And then what do you do?

01:38:21.000 What's the most romantic thing you do for him?

01:38:26.000 Um...

01:38:28.000 That's rude.

01:38:30.000 Anyways...

01:38:30.000 Dang, fresh?

01:38:32.000 I couldn't help it, sorry.

01:38:33.000 Also, to add back to earlier, what's one thing before this show that I knew was going to happen?

01:38:38.000 I knew everybody was going to call me away.

01:38:39.000 I knew they were going to make fun of me for being fat.

01:38:41.000 Like, I already knew that was going to happen.

01:38:43.000 But anyways...

01:38:45.000 Alright, cool.

01:38:46.000 What's the most romantic thing you've done for your guy?

01:38:48.000 I cook and clean and do everything else in the house.

01:38:53.000 Cool.

01:38:53.000 Alright.

01:38:56.000 Um, kind of the same thing that they said.

01:38:59.000 Nah, we need something new.

01:39:00.000 Come on.

01:39:01.000 New York?

01:39:02.000 We need something new in New York.

01:39:04.000 Come on, ping pong.

01:39:06.000 Romantic.

01:39:07.000 Think of a novella.

01:39:09.000 A chapter.

01:39:10.000 A date.

01:39:11.000 A trip.

01:39:12.000 Okay.

01:39:13.000 On whose end?

01:39:14.000 On whose end?

01:39:14.000 The man or woman?

01:39:15.000 On the man.

01:39:16.000 So the man taking you on a trip?

01:39:18.000 Half and half.

01:39:19.000 Wait, your dude don't take you on dates?

01:39:21.000 Nah, man.

01:39:22.000 Yeah.

01:39:23.000 Where?

01:39:23.000 To the hood?

01:39:24.000 They're both 18.

01:39:25.000 The Bronx, BX. Alright, dates.

01:39:28.000 And then what's the most romantic thing a woman can do? 1.00

01:39:31.000 Yeah, cook and clean and provide. 1.00

01:39:34.000 Do you do that?

01:39:34.000 Cardi B? Do I do that?

01:39:37.000 No, not right now.

01:39:37.000 I'm in a talking stage.

01:39:39.000 Alright.

01:39:40.000 I guess he's not dating you because y'all are in a talking stage.

01:39:43.000 Alright.

01:39:43.000 He's not taking you on dates.

01:39:44.000 What about you?

01:39:45.000 What's the most romantic thing a woman can do in a relationship and a man? 1.00

01:39:49.000 I think quality time.

01:39:51.000 I don't think people realize how.

01:39:52.000 On whose part?

01:39:53.000 On both sides.

01:39:54.000 Time is very precious.

01:39:55.000 Okay.

01:39:56.000 So I just think if someone takes time out their day to think and spend time with me, then that's something.

01:40:02.000 Because you could be doing anything else in the world, but you want to spend time with me.

01:40:05.000 That's powerful.

01:40:06.000 Right.

01:40:06.000 That's powerful.

01:40:07.000 Okay.

01:40:07.000 Well, give us one sex specific for the two genders.

01:40:10.000 So it's...

01:40:11.000 In specific, I would say like...

01:40:16.000 For a man, I would still say quality time, even if it's just sitting down and watching a show that we don't really care for.

01:40:22.000 But as a woman, I would say the nurturing aspect and paying attention to what your man needs, it's not even just like, because a lot of men don't buy things that they actually need for themselves and taking care of themselves, but noticing that and then just having it there, I think they really appreciate that.

01:40:38.000 Powerful.

01:40:39.000 What about you?

01:40:40.000 Okay, so I'd say the most romantic thing...

01:40:42.000 I'll just use my own marriage, for instance.

01:40:44.000 Obviously, for a woman, being able to cook and clean, but I'll give some more specific examples, like what I do. 0.96

01:40:49.000 I wake my husband up with a massage and coffee every single morning, and every single night, I'm scratching his...

01:40:55.000 Scalp and giving him a back massage until he falls asleep.

01:40:58.000 It's important that he falls asleep first.

01:41:00.000 And I would say something that's romantic that he does for me.

01:41:03.000 Well, since I do all the cooking, it's nice when he takes me out for dinner because it's like a little break and it's just special.

01:41:08.000 And then also even just while we're here in Miami, he's kind of like my little bodyguard, like making sure if there's any men walking by, he just puts his arm around me and just making sure that I'm protected.

01:41:18.000 That's what it's really romantic.

01:41:19.000 And that's something that a woman could never do for a man. 1.00

01:41:22.000 W. Wow.

01:41:24.000 Fantastic.

01:41:25.000 Wow.

01:41:25.000 Okay.

01:41:26.000 I like it.

01:41:27.000 You are blessed.

01:41:28.000 What about you?

01:41:29.000 Holy.

01:41:31.000 I want to say like...

01:41:36.000 Just say that you don't know.

01:41:37.000 No.

01:41:38.000 On both sides, like, just being able to talk about, like, your deepest thoughts is very important.

01:41:47.000 That's how you get to know someone.

01:41:48.000 I think that's the most romantic-est thing you can do.

01:41:51.000 Now give us sex-specific ones, yeah.

01:41:51.000 Okay.

01:41:53.000 Well, sex-specific.

01:41:55.000 Well, gender-specific.

01:41:56.000 But let me tell you, like, it's very important that a man makes a woman come first. 1.00

01:42:01.000 If that happens...

01:42:03.000 Literary?

01:42:03.000 You mean literally or figuratively?

01:42:05.000 C-U-M or C-O-M-E? C-U-M. Because... 0.85

01:42:09.000 Okay.

01:42:09.000 That alleviates a lot of problems.

01:42:12.000 Like I said, sex is very important to women. 1.00

01:42:14.000 It may be in different importance to men and women, but it's very important to women.

01:42:19.000 For me, at least.

01:42:20.000 Or speaking from what I know, that can alleviate a lot of issues, attitudes, and all that.

01:42:25.000 So if you're caring in the bedroom, then that just makes a woman want to do so much more for you. 0.97

01:42:31.000 And then what makes a woman, I guess, romantic for her man? 0.65

01:42:36.000 The romantic thing she does.

01:42:38.000 Basically letting him be vulnerable.

01:42:42.000 Some men are not able to do that because they haven't found someone they can be vulnerable with, but that's very important because men have feelings.

01:42:51.000 I'll ask you a question.

01:42:52.000 Do you want a crybaby?

01:42:53.000 I'm not a crybaby, but I want someone who's genuine and able to break down to me.

01:42:58.000 Let me ask you this.

01:43:00.000 For a relationship to last and long-term, whose sexual satisfaction you think is more important The woman. 1.00

01:43:09.000 You think the woman's? 0.95

01:43:09.000 Yeah, I do. 0.95

01:43:11.000 Would you say women get into relationships with men for sex first?

01:43:16.000 No.

01:43:17.000 So how is it the most important thing?

01:43:20.000 Because on the flip side, why do men deal with women? 0.83

01:43:24.000 Sex first. 0.92

01:43:25.000 Yeah, sure. 0.89

01:43:26.000 I guess.

01:43:27.000 I don't know.

01:43:28.000 I can't really speak for men.

01:43:29.000 I can only speak for me as a woman.

01:43:32.000 But I know that...

01:43:33.000 What is the number one reason why men talk to and court women? 1.00

01:43:36.000 Well, yeah, for sex.

01:43:38.000 Fantastic.

01:43:38.000 Now, what is the number one reason why women deal with men?

01:43:41.000 So...

01:43:41.000 It's not sex.

01:43:43.000 Yeah, okay, yeah, but this is what I'm saying.

01:43:45.000 See how the logic is kind of...

01:43:46.000 No, hear me out.

01:43:47.000 All right, sure, go ahead.

01:43:48.000 So...

01:43:49.000 As a man, you want to be catered to, like, point blank, period.

01:43:54.000 A woman needs to have her satisfactions filled so she can literally give her all to a man. 1.00

01:44:00.000 If the man is not able to fulfill those because of whatever reasons, it could be selfish reasons, I don't know, it won't work.

01:44:09.000 Like, that's my opinion.

01:44:12.000 For men, right? 0.92

01:44:13.000 Who has more requirements?

01:44:14.000 Sexual requirements?

01:44:16.000 No, who has more requirements of the other partner?

01:44:18.000 Do women have more requirements of men, or do men have more requirements of women? 1.00

01:44:23.000 Men?

01:44:24.000 Women have more requirements for men. 1.00

01:44:26.000 Fair enough.

01:44:26.000 That being said, If he can meet those requirements, the woman should be able to do the cook, clean, whatever, all that housewife stuff, and be emotional catering to him.

01:44:37.000 But as long as he's fulfilling, you know, the basics and the sexual part...

01:44:44.000 Let me get this straight. 0.97

01:44:45.000 So he has to fulfill all those requirements and make you cum, when for him, all he needs is really to cum and you just not be annoying? 0.95

01:44:53.000 Is that a fair deal? 0.97

01:44:54.000 Or is that a fair trade for the man, realistically speaking?

01:44:56.000 Okay.

01:44:57.000 But you're contradicting yourself in a way.

01:45:00.000 How so?

01:45:01.000 Because what is the woman supposed to bring to the table then? 1.00

01:45:05.000 The catering stuff, right? 0.72

01:45:07.000 Her main agency is her sexual agency.

01:45:10.000 No, no.

01:45:12.000 That's important for women, I said. 1.00

01:45:14.000 For men, men can get sex anywhere, right?

01:45:17.000 We've just been talking about that the whole time. 0.95

01:45:20.000 And they will cheat if they want to.

01:45:23.000 Well, actually, it's not that simple.

01:45:26.000 Because remember, you're kind of going here in circles.

01:45:29.000 You're not really addressing the main point here.

01:45:32.000 You're saying that a woman's sexual satisfaction is extremely important to a relationship.

01:45:36.000 It is.

01:45:37.000 You can make that argument.

01:45:38.000 But what I'm saying is that, and then I asked you, Whose sexual satisfaction is more important for the relationship to last?

01:45:45.000 And then you said the woman's.

01:45:46.000 Think about it.

01:45:47.000 I respectfully disagree.

01:45:48.000 Isn't it?

01:45:48.000 You literally just sat here and said if a woman cheats, the man needs to leave her automatically.

01:45:53.000 Yes.

01:45:53.000 So why would a woman cheat on a man?

01:45:57.000 For a multitude of reasons.

01:45:58.000 For emotional reasons, typically.

01:46:00.000 She doesn't respect him?

01:46:01.000 Yeah.

01:46:01.000 She doesn't respect him?

01:46:03.000 She's not getting her emotional...

01:46:05.000 I know what you're gonna say.

01:46:05.000 You're gonna say because she's not satisfied.

01:46:07.000 Especially in the bedroom.

01:46:08.000 She's not satisfied that way.

01:46:11.000 And he also may not be doing the other thing also.

01:46:14.000 But a woman needs to be satisfied so she can give her all to the man. 1.00

01:46:19.000 So I agree with you on the part where you gotta make your girl cum. 1.00

01:46:22.000 I think that's mandatory. 0.99

01:46:24.000 I mean, we could say you don't have to, but you probably should just because you're fulfilling all her sexual needs.

01:46:29.000 However, at the same time, if I'm giving her the provision, the quality time, and protecting her, and giving her sex, I mean, that's a lot on my plate as a man.

01:46:41.000 So what are you giving to me after all that?

01:46:44.000 Other than We just talked about how men don't like women that actually bring stuff to the table.

01:46:51.000 They don't care about education, job, career. 1.00

01:46:54.000 That's bullshit to them. 0.99

01:46:55.000 But for me, that would never be the case. 0.99

01:46:59.000 So I'm going to bring what I can to the table.

01:47:01.000 You need to provide for me so that I can actually have the energy to give back to you and want to give back to you.

01:47:07.000 The energy?

01:47:08.000 The energy, the want, the need, the encouragement.

01:47:12.000 If you can't satisfy me in that specific way, I'm not saying that's the only thing, but if...

01:47:20.000 Listen, hear me out.

01:47:21.000 If you're doing it with your partner and it's not...

01:47:24.000 It's selfish in a way where it feels like it's more about him, then it doesn't make the woman, or for me, want to do anything.

01:47:33.000 So you're saying I have to do all of that and then put you...

01:47:38.000 I believe that you can...

01:47:40.000 A woman should bring stuff to the table other than just cooking and cleaning. 1.00

01:47:43.000 Like what?

01:47:45.000 She can have her own hustle. 1.00

01:47:48.000 She can have her own ability to actually take care of herself.

01:47:51.000 I'm not saying that that is what's supposed to happen.

01:47:54.000 But women shouldn't be helpless. 1.00

01:47:57.000 You're not paying the bills for the man.

01:47:59.000 I'm just saying we can give to him personally.

01:48:01.000 That's tangible.

01:48:03.000 Your own hustle.

01:48:04.000 That's not our hustle.

01:48:05.000 For him tangibly. 0.96

01:48:07.000 What can you give to him other than sex? 0.63

01:48:10.000 Emotional support. 0.65

01:48:12.000 Tangible means like Something you can touch.

01:48:15.000 Can't touch emotions.

01:48:18.000 So there's not much.

01:48:19.000 Okay, so I think the biggest...

01:48:23.000 I'll just make it very simple.

01:48:25.000 I simply asked who needs to be sexually satisfied in a relationship for it to last.

01:48:31.000 And what I'm arguing is that the man needs to be fulfilled because that is the predominant thing we care about when we deal with you.

01:48:39.000 If a man can protect you, you're not going to take him seriously because that's the predominant thing that you care about when we get with you.

01:48:45.000 So in other words, me protecting you is my duty.

01:48:48.000 I need to do that. 0.98

01:48:50.000 Your duty as a woman is to sexually satisfy your man. 1.00

01:48:53.000 It's the main reason we get with you. 0.93

01:48:55.000 The main reason you get with us is for security.

01:48:57.000 The main reason we get with you is sex, if we're going to keep it all the way 1000.

01:49:00.000 So, with all due respect, your sexual satisfaction is kind of at the bottom of the totem pole because I have to bring all these other things to the table to even get a date.

01:49:09.000 Men have to bring a lot more to the table We're good to go. 0.99

01:49:15.000 We're good to go.

01:49:27.000 So your own life experiences validate what I'm telling you.

01:49:29.000 A woman's primary agency is her sexual agency. 1.00

01:49:32.000 That's it.

01:49:33.000 A man's primary agency is success, status, security, etc. 1.00

01:49:37.000 So how can a woman's sexual satisfaction be at the top of the totem pole when men have to bring way more to the relationship and men look at you from a sexual standpoint?

01:49:46.000 Yeah, you're right, you're right, you're right.

01:49:47.000 But my whole thing is for a woman to just, you know, shut up and do as told, that needs to be something that makes her want to do that. 1.00

01:49:56.000 You just gotta pick the right guy.

01:49:57.000 If it's not the guy that's worth doing that for, then it's not necessary and you don't have to be that way.

01:50:04.000 But if you run into the guy that you like and you want it to last, that's how it should be.

01:50:10.000 But it's more of an emotional thing.

01:50:13.000 I want to highlight this real fast.

01:50:15.000 Just to show you the power of female beauty and sexuality. 0.97

01:50:19.000 I could be the most handsome man in the world.

01:50:22.000 Best looking guy.

01:50:23.000 I'm not going to get invited on a yacht by a bunch of chicks. 1.00

01:50:26.000 It's not happening. 0.99

01:50:27.000 It's not fucking happening. 0.97

01:50:29.000 I could be a celebrity with a blue check and some money. 0.98

01:50:31.000 Girls still aren't going to invite me on their yacht. 1.00

01:50:34.000 A woman, though, that's a nobody, can get invited on a yacht by a bunch of millionaires, celebrities, etc. 1.00

01:50:39.000 That is the power of female sexuality. 1.00

01:50:42.000 It creates opportunities for you, which you admitted yourself...

01:50:45.000 Right?

01:50:46.000 That a man would never be able to have.

01:50:48.000 So how is it that a woman's sexual satisfaction is at the top of the list? 1.00

01:50:53.000 That's ludicrous. 0.93

01:50:54.000 Because it's the entire reason why we deal with you in the first place. 0.74

01:50:56.000 When you get older, you're going to understand what we're saying here.

01:50:59.000 I think she gets it now.

01:51:00.000 I think she gets it when I use the example of that you can move worlds and get in situations that I would never be able to get into.

01:51:06.000 Even me as a...

01:51:07.000 I'll be honest with you.

01:51:08.000 You're fairly average, 22 years old.

01:51:10.000 You're going through life, whatever.

01:51:13.000 You have more pull than myself and I'm an international celebrity.

01:51:17.000 Think about that.

01:51:18.000 Literally let that sink in as a woman. 1.00

01:51:20.000 You're able to get into rooms that I have to bust my ass and become somebody to get into just by being a female. 1.00

01:51:26.000 If that's not power of sexuality, I don't know what else proves it. 0.99

01:51:29.000 Especially when the booty Don't ignore that last part. 0.62

01:51:35.000 You see where I'm going with that though?

01:51:36.000 And it's a great power.

01:51:39.000 I understand what you're saying 100%.

01:51:42.000 I just wanted to emphasize the fact that as much as sex is important to guys, it's also important to women.

01:51:47.000 That's understandable.

01:51:51.000 I just think it's not as important in the hierarchy for this successful relationship because men really value it.

01:51:56.000 Women don't value it as much. 1.00

01:51:58.000 That's why women are able to say crazy shit like I'm a sapiosexual. 1.00

01:52:01.000 Have you ever been a guy that said I'm a sapiosexual? 1.00

01:52:04.000 I actually have.

01:52:05.000 Just so you know, right?

01:52:06.000 I want to support.

01:52:07.000 I could buy a dog.

01:52:10.000 I'm not saying that a female's sexual needs aren't important. 0.79

01:52:16.000 They definitely are.

01:52:17.000 I'm just saying it's not the same priority as a man.

01:52:19.000 And I understand what you're saying.

01:52:21.000 I get 100%.

01:52:22.000 But like I said, you know, I've I see my parents being married and stuff.

01:52:25.000 I've seen my mom carry a lot of the weight that men should carry. 1.00

01:52:29.000 So my perspective on life is a little bit different.

01:52:32.000 Like, I don't believe that it should always be the man.

01:52:36.000 I just don't believe that.

01:52:38.000 I honestly believe, as a woman, there's nothing more satisfying than giving pleasure to your men.

01:52:43.000 Of course!

01:52:44.000 Yeah, I agree with you.

01:52:45.000 Can you say it one more time?

01:52:47.000 Can you say it a little slower?

01:52:49.000 Yeah, yeah.

01:52:49.000 One more time?

01:52:50.000 And look right into the camera, okay?

01:52:51.000 Over here.

01:52:51.000 Where's the camera?

01:52:52.000 Okay.

01:52:53.000 No, no, no.

01:52:54.000 That one?

01:52:54.000 Here?

01:52:54.000 Okay.

01:52:55.000 No, no, no.

01:52:55.000 As a woman, I believe...

01:52:56.000 No?

01:52:57.000 That one.

01:52:57.000 Okay.

01:52:59.000 As a woman, I believe there's nothing more satisfying...

01:53:02.000 Okay, that camera again.

01:53:04.000 Okay.

01:53:04.000 As a woman, I believe there's nothing more satisfying than giving pleasure to your man.

01:53:10.000 Ooh la la.

01:53:11.000 That was a commercial right there.

01:53:14.000 Awesome.

01:53:15.000 That was French.

01:53:16.000 Oh yeah, you're right.

01:53:17.000 It's true, no?

01:53:18.000 What do you think, woman? 0.99

01:53:19.000 Yeah, I mean, I'll be honest.

01:53:21.000 A lot of women admit that they actually get off on getting their guy off. 1.00

01:53:24.000 And I make that argument because women understand that their sexuality is their primary power. 1.00

01:53:30.000 But it has to be the right man, though. 1.00

01:53:32.000 If it's a loser, then you're going to be like, you need to make me come, you suck. 1.00

01:53:32.000 Of course. 1.00

01:53:35.000 Yo, chat, calm down.

01:53:38.000 I think...

01:53:39.000 One romantic thing for a man and one for a woman. 0.99

01:53:45.000 I mean, if you want me to be honest with you, Myron, everybody already stated what a woman should do and what a man... 0.78

01:53:55.000 Act of service, is that what you want to say?

01:53:56.000 Yes, act of service.

01:53:58.000 And then what about for a guy for you?

01:54:03.000 Provide, give me a crib, make sure me and my baby are straight, and give me another baby. 0.99

01:54:09.000 Just out of curiosity, what would you have thought was romantic six years ago when you were living life, versus now?

01:54:16.000 Well, like, how my ex used to do.

01:54:18.000 He used to just spoil me and buy me everything.

01:54:21.000 And, like, you know?

01:54:22.000 So you thought that was romantic, like, material things?

01:54:24.000 Yeah, in a sense, yeah.

01:54:26.000 Like, you know?

01:54:27.000 And we used to be little stoners, too, so he'll get creative with the blunts.

01:54:31.000 And that's, to me, he used to be like, aww! 1.00

01:54:34.000 What the fuck? 0.99

01:54:35.000 No, like, you know how... 1.00

01:54:37.000 I'm not gonna talk about this on the internet.

01:54:39.000 No, but it's just...

01:54:41.000 I ain't gonna talk about it.

01:54:42.000 I get it.

01:54:43.000 What about you, Kim?

01:54:45.000 On the woman's side, I mean, making sure your man doesn't have to worry about what he's gonna eat for breakfast. 0.99

01:54:50.000 He knows you're gonna get up, make him breakfast, make him lunch, make him dinner, something he likes.

01:54:55.000 Making sure he doesn't have to worry about the house being clean and his laundry being done.

01:55:00.000 Making sure he's sexually satisfied.

01:55:03.000 For the man...

01:55:05.000 Planning dates and keeping his hygiene good.

01:55:08.000 Can I add one that women can do for men? 0.99

01:55:11.000 When a man comes home from work, making the house as pleasant and being as pleasant to him as possible and being there to serve him because he just had a long, hard day at work and your job is to make it as attractive and great for him to come home to.

01:55:11.000 Sure, go ahead.

01:55:24.000 Make him excited to come home to you.

01:55:26.000 What do you do?

01:55:27.000 I mean, I'm cooking dinner.

01:55:29.000 I'm making sure the house is clean.

01:55:31.000 Like, things like making sure that your dishes are done before they get home so it's not, like, loud for them, you know?

01:55:36.000 Just making it fun and cozy and making sure that everything's set up to do whatever he wants to do.

01:55:40.000 And she adds massages.

01:55:42.000 Yes, massages.

01:55:43.000 Can be that.

01:55:44.000 And scratches.

01:55:45.000 I think a lot of women should really take heed to what you're saying. 0.99

01:55:49.000 That's really, really, really great stuff.

01:55:51.000 Both you guys.

01:55:51.000 Some very good points.

01:55:52.000 Yeah.

01:55:53.000 Realistically, though, I would do all those things, but I still have to work.

01:55:58.000 Did you say it?

01:55:59.000 Oh, my God.

01:56:01.000 He does.

01:56:02.000 Not 100%.

01:56:03.000 I mean, he's 21.

01:56:04.000 He only...

01:56:05.000 Okay.

01:56:06.000 Wait.

01:56:07.000 Whose fault is that?

01:56:08.000 You two is that man, though.

01:56:10.000 Just saying.

01:56:12.000 Just saying.

01:56:15.000 I'm messing with you.

01:56:16.000 I'm on your head top.

01:56:17.000 I'm on your head top.

01:56:19.000 We got some chats here.

01:56:20.000 He has potential though.

01:56:22.000 You said he's like in mechanic school and opening a business, right?

01:56:25.000 Yeah.

01:56:25.000 Cool.

01:56:25.000 He's on the way up.

01:56:27.000 That's great for 21.

01:56:29.000 That's really good.

01:56:30.000 He got his head on straight, which is fantastic.

01:56:33.000 Ladies, why do you think women are permitted to use hormones in pregnancy as an excuse for poor, abusive, and destructive behavior, but men are not permitted to use hormones as an excuse for their behaviors, i.e.

01:56:42.000 aggression?

01:56:44.000 He's talking about the...

01:56:44.000 You mean testosterone?

01:56:46.000 I believe a woman should not have an abusive...

01:56:49.000 How like a woman can say, oh, I'm a period, like it's fine, and a man can't do that. 0.98

01:56:54.000 Yeah, pretty much.

01:56:57.000 Yes, it's a little bit of a disjointed question.

01:57:01.000 I guess, okay, basically, alright, so why is it that women are allowed to blame their period, my hormones, you know, I know I'm emotionally erratic, etc., and be really bad, like, abusive to men, right?

01:57:14.000 But men are not allowed to use their hormones as an excuse.

01:57:17.000 You mean the testosterone?

01:57:19.000 I guess you can use that as an aglas.

01:57:23.000 Is this more of a rhetorical question?

01:57:24.000 Because, I mean, we don't really have the type of like...

01:57:27.000 I mean, I don't think the...

01:57:29.000 I think the point is, bro, is that you gotta understand that men are expected to be men at all times.

01:57:33.000 Yeah, we don't have that.

01:57:34.000 That's the mask and burner performance, bro.

01:57:36.000 Control your emotions.

01:57:37.000 That's a big one.

01:57:38.000 IRS, if y'all ladies are smart, you will save your return for the next filing year. 1.00

01:57:44.000 Instead of wasting it, doing nonsensical things, just reuse them umbrellas.

01:57:48.000 What is the most important thing to keep a healthy relationship?

01:57:50.000 Okay.

01:57:51.000 You know what?

01:57:52.000 Let me ask the married woman. 1.00

01:57:53.000 What is the most important thing to keep a relationship, in your opinion?

01:57:57.000 I would say just knowing that my job right now for myself is to serve my husband and understanding that and being, you know, obedient to him.

01:58:03.000 And I have a very strong personality.

01:58:06.000 So there's obviously been some like times where he's like, no, you promised, you vowed to me that you would be obedient.

01:58:11.000 So that means that you're going to be obedient even when you disagree with me.

01:58:15.000 So that's something that I've had to learn, but everything is just so much more smoothly.

01:58:19.000 I'm so indecisive.

01:58:20.000 As a woman, we're so indecisive.

01:58:21.000 I make a decision, and then I'm immediately second-guessing it, and he just makes the decision.

01:58:26.000 So it keeps all that responsibility out of my hands and just trusting your husband.

01:58:31.000 He's always like, do you trust me?

01:58:32.000 Yes.

01:58:33.000 Okay, so stop bitching about the decision I made.

01:58:35.000 And I just listen to him.

01:58:37.000 So I honestly think listening and trusting your man.

01:58:39.000 That's a good point, though.

01:58:40.000 I love that.

01:58:40.000 I saw that you were making some faces.

01:58:42.000 Go ahead.

01:58:42.000 You disagree.

01:58:43.000 I'll open it up to you.

01:58:44.000 Do you disagree?

01:58:45.000 Go, queen. 0.99

01:58:46.000 Honestly, the way you're referring to yourself sounds like a dog. 0.90

01:58:52.000 I'm so sorry. 1.00

01:58:53.000 I am a bitch. 0.95

01:58:53.000 I'm so sorry. 0.95

01:58:54.000 I am a bitch. 0.99

01:58:55.000 No, no. 1.00

01:58:55.000 I would never call you a dog. 1.00

01:58:56.000 I mean, that is a female dog. 1.00

01:58:58.000 In definition.

01:59:00.000 I'm saying that you're obedient and, like, Probably obedience.

01:59:04.000 Yeah, of course.

01:59:05.000 But you also have to remember, too, she did say she got married under a church.

01:59:09.000 Not by papers, but under the church.

01:59:11.000 And in church, they do vow to each other certain things.

01:59:14.000 And obedience is one of them.

01:59:15.000 I'm a Roman Catholic, so I do not know.

01:59:17.000 I mean, if you're being a Roman Catholic, how can you say it's being treated as a dog if you're supposed to be this way? 0.97

01:59:23.000 I'm saying the way she sounds.

01:59:25.000 I do know all the seven vows.

01:59:28.000 I do know them.

01:59:29.000 But I'm just saying in a sense, I would never refer to myself as obedient to my...

01:59:33.000 It's supposed to be a team.

01:59:35.000 Why don't we ask the men here?

01:59:38.000 Why not be obedient to the man that you want to be with?

01:59:41.000 That doesn't make any sense to me.

01:59:44.000 Because I'm not his child.

01:59:46.000 Or property.

01:59:47.000 But if he's going to take responsibility and provide everything and be...

01:59:52.000 I will let him lead.

01:59:53.000 You won't let him?

01:59:55.000 You won't let him?

01:59:55.000 You're supposed to let him lead.

01:59:57.000 You're supposed to have him lead.

01:59:58.000 But I'm not saying I'm not going to be obedient.

02:00:00.000 I'm saying in a sense, in a sense...

02:00:02.000 But why not be obedient to your leader?

02:00:04.000 I got this.

02:00:04.000 Hold on, hold on.

02:00:05.000 Pastor Fredstappen in here.

02:00:06.000 So you're counting, right?

02:00:09.000 So do you read your Bible?

02:00:10.000 Yes.

02:00:11.000 What does your Bible say about marriage?

02:00:13.000 Marriage is a vow. 0.64

02:00:14.000 Under what?

02:00:15.000 It's a sacred vow.

02:00:16.000 Under what?

02:00:17.000 I don't know.

02:00:18.000 The Lord, yeah.

02:00:20.000 The Lord's understanding.

02:00:23.000 And what does that mean?

02:00:25.000 God, man, woman, kids.

02:00:28.000 Okay.

02:00:29.000 So, by default, she's saying what the Bible says.

02:00:32.000 You're saying, oh, you know what?

02:00:34.000 I'm making my own rules, so I don't have to be a dog.

02:00:36.000 I'm not saying that.

02:00:37.000 I'm saying the way she sounded.

02:00:38.000 I can interpret her the way she sounded.

02:00:41.000 Also, how she said it.

02:00:42.000 How she said it.

02:00:42.000 I'm saying it sounded like if you're going to say that, I'm saying if you're going to say that, that's what the Bible sounds.

02:00:52.000 Yeah.

02:00:53.000 You're not supposed to interpret the Bible literally.

02:00:56.000 It's not sexy.

02:00:56.000 You just sound like the way you're hearing it, but it doesn't change the fact that it's true.

02:01:01.000 You guys aren't even letting me speak.

02:01:04.000 Let me finish my opinion.

02:01:08.000 But I'm just saying in a sense, like, I will let my man lead.

02:01:11.000 That's not like, let him.

02:01:12.000 I'm saying I would want him to lead.

02:01:13.000 I want to follow his path.

02:01:14.000 I want to depend on him.

02:01:15.000 But I'm saying I want him to also listen when I say like, hey, like, you know, I don't really feel too great about this.

02:01:20.000 I want him to tell him to be shut up and just listen.

02:01:22.000 I want him to be like, hey, this is what we're doing for a reason.

02:01:25.000 I want mutual respect.

02:01:27.000 I respect him as someone to make decisions, to do things and everything.

02:01:31.000 But I do not want to be disrespected in a sense where it's like, you don't know anything. 0.97

02:01:35.000 So just shut up and do it.

02:01:37.000 I would hardly say the way she phrased it kind of sounded like that, but at the end of the day, y'all literally just said the same thing. 0.99

02:01:44.000 If you want me to be honest with you, y'all just said the same thing.

02:01:47.000 You just danced around it, but she was just off point. 1.00

02:01:50.000 You understand?

02:01:52.000 It's not.

02:01:56.000 You want to be able to question your man and not feel like You don't have to say so.

02:02:01.000 But in reality speaking, she's saying, you know what?

02:02:03.000 I may question it, but I made a choice to make him the leader.

02:02:06.000 So if he made a choice for me and my family, you know what?

02:02:09.000 I'm not like it in the moment, but he may have a, I want to say, general idea more than I do.

02:02:14.000 And I would say this too.

02:02:15.000 Dogs can't disagree, but still choose to obey.

02:02:19.000 But I'm saying in a sense, with your husband, if you're an admin on something you don't like, do you just give up?

02:02:26.000 I have to.

02:02:28.000 For instance, I'm a big picky eater.

02:02:31.000 I'm a big picky eater.

02:02:32.000 He'll be like, eat that just to break me from it. 0.99

02:02:35.000 And it sucks. 1.00

02:02:36.000 It sucks. 1.00

02:02:36.000 I don't like it. 1.00

02:02:37.000 But it's a big thing of just trusting your husband.

02:02:39.000 I can tell him if I, trust me, one of his biggest complaints about me is I'm a big complainer.

02:02:45.000 And, you know, I give my opinions too much.

02:02:46.000 That's an honest fault of mine.

02:02:48.000 But I can say what I want to say.

02:02:50.000 And then he's going to make the decision.

02:02:52.000 And since I vowed to him that I'm going to be trusting him and be obedient to him, that I will be happy.

02:02:56.000 And I will not just obey, but put a smile on my face.

02:03:00.000 Well, that's another thing is I have to make I'm not going to be miserable during the entire time we're doing something just because I don't want to do it.

02:03:05.000 It's I chose to be obedient and I'm trusting him.

02:03:08.000 And every time I do this, guess what?

02:03:10.000 I'm always happy with what we're doing.

02:03:11.000 It's never bad.

02:03:12.000 I swear.

02:03:13.000 He knows better than me.

02:03:14.000 A man, he does know better than me.

02:03:15.000 I wanted to marry him because he knows better than I do.

02:03:18.000 I guess we just disagree on that aspect.

02:03:20.000 But I respect how you go about your marriage.

02:03:23.000 I'm not going to deny that.

02:03:24.000 I'm just saying in a sense, if I don't like something, I want my significant other to appreciate that.

02:03:30.000 I wouldn't want to be like, oh, I don't want to eat this.

02:03:33.000 And he'd be like, eat it.

02:03:34.000 And I'd do it.

02:03:35.000 Like, that's just absurd to me.

02:03:37.000 Like, I get it.

02:03:38.000 That's how it works for you, and I appreciate that for you.

02:03:40.000 I love that for you.

02:03:40.000 I'm just saying, in a sense, I want my own voice.

02:03:42.000 The eating part, I got good to you.

02:03:44.000 That's kind of like, yo, but I get it.

02:03:48.000 I get it. 0.99

02:03:48.000 Eat that, nigga! 0.99

02:03:49.000 Put a smile on your face! 0.95

02:03:55.000 Was the food that he was telling you to eat, was it healthier for you and better than what you had prior?

02:03:59.000 Yes.

02:03:59.000 I mean, for example, I've been vegetarian since I was like eight.

02:04:03.000 I'm pregnant now.

02:04:04.000 And, you know, I'm not a high protein diet.

02:04:06.000 It's better for me to eat meat.

02:04:07.000 Now, eating to me dead flesh sounds the most disgusting thing ever because I haven't had it since I was eight years old.

02:04:12.000 But it's healthy for the baby.

02:04:14.000 So he's, you know, made me eat chicken.

02:04:16.000 Yeah.

02:04:17.000 So you ask another question and you get the real answer.

02:04:19.000 He's doing that.

02:04:20.000 Why?

02:04:20.000 Not just for her betterment, but for the betterment of the child.

02:04:23.000 And this is why, since the beginning of time, men have typically been in leadership and that's why patriarchies work.

02:04:29.000 And I get it that you're saying, oh, well, that's not fair or whatever.

02:04:31.000 But let me ask you a question.

02:04:33.000 Let's go into a dream world real fast.

02:04:37.000 This is specifically for you.

02:04:39.000 Let's say you ran a Fortune 500 company, right?

02:04:44.000 But, you know, you were responsible for all the W's and L's, but you couldn't make all the decisions.

02:04:52.000 And one day, you take a 10% loss.

02:04:56.000 Then another day, you take a 15% loss.

02:04:59.000 Then another day, you take a 20% loss.

02:05:01.000 How'd you feel, the fact that you're taking all the responsibility for the L's, but you don't get to make all the decisions? 0.94

02:05:12.000 I kind of...

02:05:13.000 Can you repeat the last part?

02:05:16.000 So you're responsible for this company, right?

02:05:19.000 So all the W's and L's come your way, but you can't make all the decisions.

02:05:24.000 So when W's come, fantastic.

02:05:27.000 I didn't have to make all the decisions.

02:05:28.000 But when L's come, it hurts because you're taking 10% losses, 50% losses.

02:05:33.000 People are complaining.

02:05:34.000 People are threatening to sue, etc.

02:05:36.000 But you're not the one making all the decisions.

02:05:38.000 How'd that make you feel?

02:05:40.000 Obviously it makes me feel like, you know, I need to do better.

02:05:43.000 But I feel like it's more like...

02:05:44.000 How can you do better when you're not making all the decisions and you don't have 100% authority?

02:05:48.000 You only have 70% authority, 50% authority.

02:05:51.000 But that's where you provide analytical facts.

02:05:54.000 I'm very...

02:05:55.000 What do you mean by analytical facts?

02:05:57.000 In a sense, it's like, why did you fail?

02:05:58.000 You may not have made the decisions, but you can come up with a...

02:06:01.000 But it's out of your control.

02:06:02.000 Someone else made the decisions.

02:06:03.000 But you can come with the explanation, can you not?

02:06:06.000 No, you can't because you're only making 50% of the decisions.

02:06:08.000 So you're virtually operating blind.

02:06:10.000 I'm saying the L's has happened, right? 1.00

02:06:14.000 But we all have to look into why things happen.

02:06:16.000 That's how we learn in life.

02:06:17.000 But you can't reflect.

02:06:19.000 You can't reflect unless you have a clear image of what the hell to reflect on.

02:06:19.000 Hold on.

02:06:23.000 You only have 50% of the image.

02:06:25.000 That's my point.

02:06:26.000 So if a decision is made, you only saw 50% of why the decision was made?

02:06:31.000 Yes, but you're responsible for all the L's. 0.54

02:06:34.000 But you're also responsible for the W's as well.

02:06:36.000 Yes, but the W's are far between because you're not making all the best decisions because you can't make them.

02:06:42.000 But how does that relate in a sense of...

02:06:43.000 Because you don't have full control.

02:06:45.000 When a man doesn't have full control, right, what ends up happening is he still has 100% responsibility.

02:06:53.000 Because if...

02:06:54.000 Here's the thing.

02:06:55.000 If you go on a date with a guy, let's say he wasn't the most interesting guy, or maybe he picked a bland place or whatever, but the reality is you were just boring yourself, and you didn't really contribute to the conversation.

02:07:06.000 Let's keep it all the way to 1,000 here.

02:07:08.000 When a girl goes on a bad first date, does she say... 1.00

02:07:12.000 You know, I was a boring, uncharismatic bitch. 1.00

02:07:15.000 No, she blames the man every time. 1.00

02:07:17.000 It was boring.

02:07:18.000 He wasn't charismatic.

02:07:20.000 He wasn't funny.

02:07:21.000 He wasn't charming.

02:07:22.000 Women go on a first date a lot of the times expecting to be entertained, correct? 1.00

02:07:25.000 Let's be honest here.

02:07:26.000 It's a man's job, correct? 1.00

02:07:27.000 I don't think so.

02:07:29.000 Let's keep it a thousand.

02:07:30.000 This is me.

02:07:31.000 This is me.

02:07:32.000 I'm just saying.

02:07:32.000 But what about most women?

02:07:35.000 Most women... 1.00

02:07:36.000 I don't date women, so I just don't... 1.00

02:07:38.000 I don't know.

02:07:38.000 Well, let me...

02:07:39.000 And that's the problem.

02:07:40.000 Let me aware you.

02:07:41.000 Most women would look at it as the man's failure. 0.98

02:07:43.000 Even if she was an objective failure during date, it didn't contribute anything.

02:07:49.000 Men...

02:07:50.000 In the reality, have to bear all the responsibility for wins and losses.

02:07:56.000 And here's the thing. 0.99

02:07:57.000 If I have to bear the responsibility for the outcome, I better have the fucking authority to make the decisions. 0.97

02:08:02.000 So when it comes to a relationship, if the relationship fails, 9 out of 10 times, it was the guy's fault. 0.98

02:08:08.000 It was the guy's fault because he lacked leadership skills.

02:08:11.000 So he had to do what?

02:08:13.000 Relinquish some of that authority to the woman because she 100% didn't trust him.

02:08:18.000 That's my point.

02:08:19.000 Women, for the longest, women are not good decision makers. 1.00

02:08:22.000 They're not leaders, etc.

02:08:23.000 And we have an entire humanity to prove that.

02:08:26.000 Name one matriarchy that stood the test of time. 1.00

02:08:29.000 Doesn't work.

02:08:30.000 Women are not born leaders. 1.00

02:08:31.000 Are there some that could do it?

02:08:32.000 Maybe you might be a leader.

02:08:33.000 I don't know.

02:08:34.000 You might be an exception to the rule.

02:08:36.000 But the reality is, most women are not good leaders. 1.00

02:08:39.000 And most women don't want to lead a relationship with a man. 1.00

02:08:41.000 They don't.

02:08:42.000 It's stressful.

02:08:44.000 And I would argue, women say they want a 50-50 relationship, but the reality is, y'all don't want a 50-50 relationship.

02:08:50.000 Because if something fucks up, the guy's going to be 100% responsible anyway.

02:08:53.000 But I never said I wanted a 50-50% relationship.

02:08:56.000 I've never stated that.

02:08:57.000 I'm just saying I want to be valued and understood.

02:09:01.000 I'm not saying that I need to tell him what to do.

02:09:03.000 He wants to be heard.

02:09:05.000 That's cool you want to be heard, but you also have to be able to understand that Men typically make their decisions based on rationale, logic, deductive problem solving.

02:09:16.000 Women lack in these skills from a biological level. 1.00

02:09:19.000 Like women just lack in these skills because women are ruled by their emotions. 1.00

02:09:22.000 They're not deductive problem solvers the same level as men.

02:09:25.000 And it's funny too.

02:09:28.000 Let's go over the example just now.

02:09:29.000 She mentioned her husband telling her he needs to eat certain food.

02:09:33.000 How did all of you respond?

02:09:34.000 Whoa! 0.71

02:09:35.000 That's crazy!

02:09:36.000 I'm not a dog!

02:09:36.000 What's going on here?

02:09:37.000 I'm not a dog!

02:09:38.000 Obedient, etc.

02:09:39.000 But it wasn't until I peeled the layer back.

02:09:40.000 Hold on.

02:09:41.000 What did he tell you to eat specifically?

02:09:43.000 Oh, he wanted you to eat a meal with meat, etc.

02:09:45.000 Why?

02:09:46.000 Oh, because she's carrying his child. 0.99

02:09:48.000 So he doesn't give a fuck about her feelings. 0.96

02:09:50.000 He's doing what's best for her and the child long term. 0.98

02:09:54.000 Men typically have to think this way.

02:09:55.000 Women think about the now and how I feel. 1.00

02:09:57.000 Men have to think about the future and what's going to lead to this successful outcome.

02:10:02.000 This is why men have built society. 0.75

02:10:03.000 Men, by nature and by...

02:10:06.000 Existence have to be long-term thinkers.

02:10:08.000 It's why we enjoy all the modern conveniences we have now.

02:10:11.000 This is why women are not inventors. 1.00

02:10:12.000 This is why women are not innovators. 1.00

02:10:13.000 This is why women are not risk takers in general. 0.99

02:10:16.000 You might be.

02:10:17.000 Hey, you might be an exception to the rule, but most women are not. 1.00

02:10:20.000 Just like your men in leadership roles and men in inventing things, I just realized you have to look at history and realize why women couldn't do that. 0.95

02:10:30.000 I'm not trying to front that, but women couldn't do anything. 1.00

02:10:34.000 I just don't want to take that as into it now.

02:10:37.000 That's all I want to say.

02:10:39.000 Men have to take responsibility. 0.98

02:10:42.000 If things fail, it's their fault.

02:10:44.000 That's how people view things.

02:10:45.000 No one blames women for anything. 1.00

02:10:48.000 It's a selfish way.

02:10:50.000 You said women didn't have these things. 1.00

02:10:52.000 Fair enough.

02:10:53.000 We can make the argument that women were oppressed to a degree. 0.86

02:10:55.000 But I would argue in today's day and age, women aren't oppressed at all. 1.00

02:10:58.000 I would argue women have more rights and privileges than ever before and they're more educated. 1.00

02:11:01.000 So why is it that women still don't dominate certain fields that create infrastructure that keep the world running? 1.00

02:11:06.000 But have we had the time to really...

02:11:08.000 You go all the time in the world.

02:11:10.000 About 70 years.

02:11:10.000 But in a sense, if you look at the, you know, if you look at boards, right?

02:11:14.000 Just the boards of companies.

02:11:16.000 The majority is white males.

02:11:18.000 But that's, in a sense, it's like they've been with the company for 25, 26 plus years.

02:11:22.000 That's just how it's been.

02:11:24.000 But in a sense, it's like you're saying, like, women have the opportunity, but it's not yet.

02:11:29.000 You know what I mean?

02:11:29.000 There's still things like women are the first to do something.

02:11:32.000 Men control the wealth and men are on boards.

02:11:33.000 Well, let's also talk about men also die at higher rates.

02:11:37.000 They do.

02:11:37.000 Men also are the majority of poor people.

02:11:39.000 Men are also the majority of mentally retarded people. 1.00

02:11:42.000 Men are also the majority of degenerates, alcoholics, criminals, etc. 0.97

02:11:46.000 So if you're going to look at the good side, right? 0.99

02:11:48.000 Fantastic.

02:11:49.000 We can look at the good side of the top performing men.

02:11:51.000 We also have to look at the bad side.

02:11:52.000 Men also suffer way more than women do in general.

02:11:55.000 But the problem is that women tend to look at the successful men that are the 1%. 0.68

02:11:59.000 They don't look at all the other guys that are at the bottom that are the ones that are suffering.

02:12:04.000 I agree with you wholeheartedly.

02:12:06.000 I know men typically commit suicide more than women.

02:12:11.000 It's a hard world for men.

02:12:12.000 There are so many things that they challenge and they face and they have to live up to these certain societal standards.

02:12:17.000 And also female choice as well. 0.52

02:12:19.000 Women choose to not go into certain career fields and women choose to not work as many hours and work as many if they take more vacation. 0.92

02:12:26.000 This is all statistically proven too why women earn less in general and why women Aren't in positions of power a lot of times. 1.00

02:12:32.000 I would argue if women really tried hard and wanted to get in positions of power, they would have a higher likelihood of doing so than men. 1.00

02:12:38.000 Thanks to affirmative action, thanks to the kind of centric society that we're in nowadays, like women have more opportunities than men do nowadays. 0.62

02:12:45.000 So, you knowing this, why do you want to be like a man so bad?

02:12:48.000 I don't.

02:12:49.000 So then why are you arguing for this point?

02:12:51.000 I'm just saying, in a sense, it's like...

02:12:53.000 I'm just saying, in a sense, it's like...

02:12:57.000 The only thing that bothered me when he said was that women aren't competitive as men, but I'm just saying, in our history, it's always been a patriarchy. 0.98

02:13:05.000 I mean, men have always had complete control.

02:13:08.000 There used to be times where women could... 1.00

02:13:09.000 Well, patriarchies have existed, but what happened?

02:13:11.000 But I'm saying, in a sense, it was like 50, 57 years ago when a woman could have a bank account.

02:13:17.000 So I'm just saying in a sense, that's my main fact.

02:13:20.000 How does that affect women now? 1.00

02:13:22.000 But I'm saying he's saying there's no women in power. 0.98

02:13:24.000 There's not a woman in power. 1.00

02:13:25.000 I mean, we have Kabbalah who got ahead by giving head. 0.98

02:13:27.000 I mean, that's your honest opinion.

02:13:30.000 No, that's a fact.

02:13:31.000 But I'm just saying in a sense with where your statement said, that's why I was like, you know, like women have been oppressed.

02:13:38.000 Yeah, they've been oppressed, but I'm saying nowadays, women don't have those chains on them, and I would argue that we've overcorrected where women have more opportunities, rights, and privileges than men do, and they enjoy more of them because women are able to be treated as equal citizens while simultaneously enjoying the benefits of being a lady.

02:13:53.000 And they get female privileges that men don't get, but Going back to what you're saying, I think, you know, we always talk about successful men, guys run the boards, the top wealth is controlled by men, blah, blah, blah.

02:14:03.000 But we also want to talk about all the guys at the bottom that are degenerates, bums, etc., that are visible.

02:14:08.000 So the good comes with the bad. 0.88

02:14:10.000 You're always going to have, like, men, right?

02:14:11.000 We typically tend to operate on, like, the ends of the bell curves.

02:14:14.000 Like, the most geniuses, exceptional people, they're men.

02:14:18.000 But all the losers are also majority men.

02:14:20.000 But can I say something?

02:14:21.000 Because I've taken a lot of technical database classes, SQL classes.

02:14:25.000 I was always the only woman in that class.

02:14:28.000 In a sense, it's like, okay, this has not been a thing.

02:14:31.000 So you chose to be there, right?

02:14:34.000 Yeah, of course.

02:14:34.000 Where are your female peers?

02:14:36.000 They chose to not be there.

02:14:37.000 It's a choice.

02:14:38.000 Can I, like, finish?

02:14:39.000 But I gotta make that distinction, though.

02:14:41.000 No, no, of course, of course.

02:14:42.000 But I'm saying, in a sense, it's a male-dominated field.

02:14:44.000 In a sense, where my, like, there's a company now that has women in STEM. That's been a big thing.

02:14:50.000 Was this in college, by the way?

02:14:50.000 Yeah, it was in college.

02:14:51.000 But I'm saying, I had to go to, like, not conventions, but it's, like, empowerment of women.

02:14:56.000 Not in just STEM, but in anything.

02:14:58.000 Well, let me ask you a question.

02:14:59.000 Are you aware that three quarters of college students nowadays are female and most graduates are female?

02:15:04.000 Yeah, but they've been announced.

02:15:06.000 It's not just a hold on.

02:15:07.000 That's a very important fact.

02:15:09.000 Explain to me how women dominate college attendance, yet they're the minority in the job fields that are important for infrastructure. 1.00

02:15:15.000 Did you know that when most women go to a job interview, they're offered less while a man is offered more?

02:15:20.000 There's a lot of reasons for that.

02:15:22.000 I'm just saying, men will bargain a price, but I'm just saying in a sense, as a woman who had to do it, this is just my own personal experience, going into a field where it's mostly male-dominated, you are not respected.

02:15:35.000 Like, nobody takes you seriously.

02:15:37.000 So that's, congrats.

02:15:38.000 But I'm just saying, that's my own personal experience.

02:15:41.000 Welcome to being a man. 0.99

02:15:43.000 Because when you're a man and you get into a job brand new, you're going to get bullied, you're going to get made fun of, you're going to get shit on, you're going to get hazed, etc. 0.99

02:15:51.000 Until? 0.97

02:15:51.000 So yeah, you might not get respected as a lady to a degree because you're a woman, so you've got to prove yourself. 0.97

02:15:56.000 But men have to as well.

02:15:57.000 And men get hazed way harder than women do.

02:16:00.000 Excellent.

02:16:00.000 Of course.

02:16:01.000 I feel like you're not understanding my point.

02:16:04.000 No, I'm not understanding your point completely.

02:16:06.000 But what I'm saying is that how is it that women dominate college attendance, women graduate at a higher rate, yet they're still a minority in higher education when it comes to certain fields?

02:16:17.000 My argument isn't that women are oppressed. 0.99

02:16:19.000 My argument is that women simply don't want to do these jobs and choose not to do them. 1.00

02:16:23.000 Because They're hard, and they don't go to female strengths, which is what? 1.00

02:16:27.000 Deductive problem solving.

02:16:29.000 You gotta remember, just because you do it, doesn't necessarily mean...

02:16:31.000 Doesn't mean everyone else does it.

02:16:32.000 Yeah.

02:16:33.000 And I understand that.

02:16:34.000 You're clearly an exception to the rule.

02:16:36.000 But I'm just saying, my thing is, like, we go out and we try to, like, educate that it's just not for men.

02:16:41.000 You know what I mean?

02:16:42.000 Because I feel like those fields have always been like, oh, this is what, like, you know, you go into nursing.

02:16:45.000 Because when I was a kid, Everyone's like, you know, you go into nursing, you go into, you know, what women do. 1.00

02:16:51.000 Yeah, I mean, because when you grow up, you're like, women like pink, men like blue.

02:16:55.000 So in a sense, it's like that was kind of ingrained in me and growing in society.

02:16:58.000 But I'm saying as I got older, and I opened my mind more, it's like, hey, like, you know, I can do this.

02:17:03.000 This is not something that I need to lift or anything.

02:17:06.000 But it's just something it's a coding language, you're learning it.

02:17:08.000 It's ultimately choice.

02:17:10.000 You know what I mean?

02:17:10.000 Men are hairdressers today.

02:17:12.000 They do women's hair because they made a choice. 0.98

02:17:14.000 So ultimately, it's a choice.

02:17:15.000 And as well, you know what's happening to you?

02:17:17.000 Victim mindset.

02:17:18.000 You're saying, oh, I'm a woman.

02:17:21.000 They should treat me this way.

02:17:22.000 No.

02:17:22.000 You've got to prove yourself.

02:17:24.000 Yeah, of course.

02:17:24.000 You have to prove yourself anyways.

02:17:26.000 I'm not saying, and I'm saying in a sense, I feel like for me, I'm saying for my personal experience, it was kind of an intimidation factor to walk into a class of, what, 70, 80 people and you're the only girl?

02:17:38.000 It's intimidating.

02:17:39.000 Is that in your mind or is that...

02:17:41.000 But I'm saying this is my personal experience.

02:17:42.000 So that is my mind.

02:17:44.000 Right.

02:17:44.000 But I'm just saying in a sense where I joined like, you know, organizations where you have like CEOs, you have CIOs going to talk to people and be like, hey, this is something that everyone should be welcome to do.

02:17:54.000 I said how you feel versus what's real are two different things.

02:17:59.000 Just because you walk into a room and you feel intimidated doesn't necessarily mean that you're about to be oppressed.

02:18:03.000 Of course.

02:18:04.000 I'm not saying that I was.

02:18:05.000 I did tech, right?

02:18:06.000 We did computer science.

02:18:07.000 There's only one black girl in that group, right? 1.00

02:18:10.000 She said to herself, you know what? 1.00

02:18:11.000 Damn. 0.99

02:18:12.000 I'm the only girl in here. 1.00

02:18:13.000 I'm going to own it.

02:18:14.000 She came up to the class, first raised her hand, always made sure that she was heard in that class.

02:18:19.000 Because you know what?

02:18:20.000 She knows as a woman, she had to prove a point.

02:18:22.000 So you took it the other way.

02:18:24.000 No, I'm not saying that I didn't go and do that.

02:18:26.000 I'm saying when you first walk in, especially this is like my freshman year of school, it's first class.

02:18:30.000 You walk in, you're so used to having mixed classes, and then you sit there and you're like, okay, well, you know, it's shocking. 1.00

02:18:35.000 But it's like, I had a female teacher in that class. 1.00

02:18:38.000 So it was like, okay, like, I'm going to do it.

02:18:40.000 I'm going to show, like, I can do what I need to do and be great at it.

02:18:43.000 But I'm just saying in a sense where, like, I'm just going off of what that one sentence that you did.

02:18:48.000 Which is what, men are better leaders?

02:18:50.000 Yeah.

02:18:50.000 Yeah, in society.

02:18:52.000 That's a fact.

02:18:52.000 But I'm saying we don't have enough data.

02:18:55.000 We don't have enough time frame where women could have been leaders. 1.00

02:18:58.000 Could have.

02:18:59.000 I mean, if you want to say that, look how modern time is now, right?

02:19:03.000 Women now are being praised, worshipped, and all these things.

02:19:08.000 And in a sense, this woke culture for us being promiscuous, us selling the sexuality through social media, If you kind of look at it, we're low-key destructing.

02:19:21.000 What's the word again? 0.99

02:19:22.000 We're destructing ourselves on accident because we want to do what the fuck we want. 0.99

02:19:27.000 But that's not all women. 0.98

02:19:28.000 I understand that it's not all women, but this is something that's being pushed out to everybody. 0.99

02:19:34.000 Your kids are going to see this.

02:19:36.000 I'm going to pick it up.

02:19:37.000 I ain't worried about it.

02:19:37.000 I'm trying to make my point.

02:19:39.000 But at the end of the day, when it comes down to it, it's like, We're having the freedom to do what the fuck we want and look what we're doing with it. 0.91

02:19:47.000 You understand what I'm saying? 0.98

02:19:48.000 Not all women are doing it, but in general, majority of women are selling their sexuality. 0.99

02:19:53.000 They're promiscuous. 1.00

02:19:55.000 They're just out there and they don't give a fuck. 1.00

02:19:58.000 I have something to say about that. 0.99

02:20:00.000 Living in South Florida, I realize like Promiscuity is really big here.

02:20:06.000 Yeah. 0.94

02:20:06.000 Like, sex sells here, right? 0.94

02:20:08.000 If you go to certain countries, like, not countries, certain states...

02:20:11.000 It's not like that.

02:20:11.000 It's not like that at all.

02:20:12.000 At all.

02:20:13.000 So it's like, I've almost went to school in Iowa, and what they did for fun was go to the barn and, like, kick hay.

02:20:19.000 Like, they did the most...

02:20:20.000 Kick hay?

02:20:20.000 Yeah, I'm so serious.

02:20:22.000 And they did the most basic things.

02:20:24.000 So it's in a sense, it's like, when I came here, being over-sexual was normalized here.

02:20:28.000 Seeing people in thong bikinis, this, that, that was normal here. 0.98

02:20:32.000 So in a sense, it's like if you're surrounded in a society where that's your norm, you're going to only see that.

02:20:37.000 All right, we're digressing here a bit because the whole point was you didn't like that I said that men are better leaders and you didn't really refute my argument.

02:20:43.000 You went into kind of a topic of women are victims and women aren't represented in higher society and in certain jobs. 0.99

02:20:50.000 And my argument was that women aren't built for certain jobs because of their biological makeup. 1.00

02:20:55.000 Men are better deductive problem solvers, which is my men Dominate jobs that create infrastructure, STEM, etc.

02:21:00.000 And that's female choice because women dominate college, yet they choose to not go in it. 1.00

02:21:04.000 I feel like you didn't listen to what I heard.

02:21:06.000 I just said over the years, you only have statistical data of men being in charge for years.

02:21:12.000 That's all I'm saying.

02:21:14.000 In your society, yes, there's so many men.

02:21:16.000 My point is, if things are equal now and it's overcorrected and women have more opportunity now than men do, What is the excuse that women have for not entering STEM in the job fields that you are literally saying women are underrepresented?

02:21:30.000 You're saying there's not enough time.

02:21:32.000 I'm arguing we've overcorrected for time where women are literally hired for jobs, even if they're underqualified just because of affirmative action. 0.86

02:21:42.000 Yeah, but I'm saying the numbers have changed now.

02:21:44.000 Like, the numbers for women in STEM have gone significantly up.

02:21:47.000 They've gone up.

02:21:47.000 Yeah.

02:21:47.000 But it's because we have all these incentives for them, but women still choose to not do it.

02:21:51.000 Like, you gotta get it through your head that women and men are different, and we have different interests, and most women don't want to have anything to do with STEM or certain career fields. 0.95

02:22:02.000 Women are more likely to chase their dream than men are. 0.51

02:22:04.000 And the reason for that is because women, right, I want to do art. 1.00

02:22:08.000 I want to do this.

02:22:09.000 They're not going to face the same heavy penalizations, right, for not pursuing money.

02:22:17.000 If I'm a man and I want to be an artist, but I realize I need to be a doctor because my family's putting pressure on me and I need to earn money because that is my value as a man, is my status and my legacy.

02:22:27.000 We discussed before, I'm more likely to pursue that career even though I don't want to do it.

02:22:32.000 You said earlier that you were pursuing medical school, but you're like, you know what?

02:22:35.000 I'm going to take a pivot real quick because I want to do broadcasting.

02:22:39.000 Well, women have the privilege of doing that because women aren't held to a financial burden of performance or rising a certain socioeconomic class. 1.00

02:22:46.000 Men do.

02:22:48.000 That's why men take more risks.

02:22:49.000 Men are more likely to go into career fields that they hate. 0.99

02:22:51.000 Why is it that there's all these men garbage men? 0.98

02:22:54.000 Why are all these guys doing all these difficult jobs, labor, construction, etc.? 0.98

02:22:58.000 You think they dream of wanting to do that?

02:22:59.000 No.

02:23:00.000 They do it because they understand for me to get a wife, for me to get a family, etc., I have to do things that I don't want to do to earn money because my name is dependent upon my status and my income ability.

02:23:11.000 Women don't have that same burden. 1.00

02:23:12.000 That's why women can go into career fields that don't make money. 1.00

02:23:15.000 Look at the top 10 jobs that don't make money.

02:23:17.000 Women dominate those. 1.00

02:23:18.000 Top 10 jobs that do earn money, especially that are dangerous, dominated by men. 0.99

02:23:22.000 Men are willing to take more risks.

02:23:23.000 This is biological.

02:23:25.000 Because we have a burden of performance.

02:23:26.000 Women don't have that same urgency. 1.00

02:23:27.000 You might, but a lot of women don't. 1.00

02:23:30.000 That's my point.

02:23:31.000 Women can have the safety net of finding a man and being rescued. 0.94

02:23:35.000 Men don't have that. 1.00

02:23:36.000 That plays a big role in our decisions and how we move in life.

02:23:40.000 I guess my circle of people around me are different.

02:23:43.000 So like I said, the people around me, the women around me, they're all...

02:23:47.000 Men and women are different.

02:23:54.000 We know that. 0.81

02:23:55.000 But I've seen a comment saying both of us, the black women, we're the most combative and stuff. 0.99

02:24:03.000 Combative.

02:24:04.000 We have to realize that white women's experiences are going to be different than black women's experiences. 0.98

02:24:12.000 I don't know where her background is, but I'm pretty sure she wanted to get out and start a career so she can make something of herself because maybe she didn't have that security back then. 1.00

02:24:23.000 We have to look at it in a different perspective in a way.

02:24:28.000 I don't understand your argument.

02:24:29.000 I'm trying to say that men and women are different in their experiences.

02:24:35.000 And I hate to say this because I try to live a peaceful life.

02:24:38.000 But there is still a discrepancy between how white people experience the world and how black people experience the world.

02:24:46.000 She read the comment in the chat saying that most two combative people on the panel are black.

02:24:51.000 So she's referring to that.

02:24:53.000 Because I was confused why she... 0.95

02:24:55.000 But that's kind of...

02:24:56.000 That doesn't really have to do with...

02:24:58.000 Yeah, no, I understand what you're saying.

02:24:58.000 I was making a gender argument, not necessarily a race argument, but if you want to make a race argument...

02:25:12.000 I mean, I get it. 0.99

02:25:14.000 We all raise differently, but at the end of the day, we all have vaginas. 1.00

02:25:18.000 And at the end of the day, men are still after our vaginas. 1.00

02:25:20.000 Whether you're white, whether you're black, whether you're purple or blue, you still have a vagina. 1.00

02:25:25.000 I mean, I don't want to use your past experience as an example again, but you have rappers and you've been around celebrities, etc. 0.99

02:25:33.000 You have...

02:25:39.000 Yeah.

02:25:44.000 Agreed.

02:25:45.000 Agreed.

02:25:48.000 Agreed.

02:25:54.000 Which is to answer her point.

02:25:56.000 I'm just going to say it.

02:25:57.000 You might not like me saying this. 0.98

02:25:59.000 Women are naturally lazy. 1.00

02:26:00.000 And what I mean by that is women are naturally lazy when it comes to creating excess resources. 1.00

02:26:04.000 Because there's no proclivity on women to create excess resources. 1.00

02:26:08.000 Because at the end of the day, that's not your primary mission on Earth.

02:26:12.000 Your primary mission on Earth is to have a family and children.

02:26:14.000 That's what we're biologically hardwired to do.

02:26:16.000 Here's the difference.

02:26:17.000 You can mate without being successful.

02:26:20.000 I can't mate unless I'm successful.

02:26:22.000 You do realize human beings are put on earth to mate.

02:26:24.000 That's the number one reason why we're here.

02:26:26.000 That's why you have all these survival mechanisms.

02:26:29.000 When you cut yourself and you bleed, your body starts automatically repairing itself.

02:26:33.000 You get sick.

02:26:33.000 You fight off viruses.

02:26:35.000 Everything is to stay alive so you can create more life.

02:26:39.000 Okay?

02:26:40.000 You can go ahead and mate and have children without being successful.

02:26:45.000 I must provide excess resources to become successful with mating.

02:26:49.000 So therefore, I have a higher natural tendency to go out and create resources.

02:26:53.000 This is why men take more risks than women when it comes to creating resources. 0.97

02:26:56.000 Now I know what you're going to say.

02:26:58.000 My circle isn't like that.

02:26:59.000 The girls I know aren't like that. 1.00

02:27:00.000 I'm not like that.

02:27:01.000 Congratulations.

02:27:02.000 You are an exception to the rule, and your circle of friends are an exception to the rule.

02:27:05.000 But most women, if I gave them the option, you could stay at home and have a man take care of all your bills, or you go out into the workforce and be strong and independent, or maybe have a guy be 50-50. 1.00

02:27:16.000 Most women would elect to stay at home with a man. 1.00

02:27:18.000 That's the majority.

02:27:20.000 And we're biologically hardwired to be that way.

02:27:24.000 This is fact.

02:27:25.000 This isn't just my opinion.

02:27:26.000 Women just don't have the same level of work ethic when it comes to creating excess resources. 1.00

02:27:31.000 That's why men are stronger than men who deduct the problem solvers. 0.96

02:27:34.000 We have more spatial awareness.

02:27:35.000 We're better with directions.

02:27:36.000 We have more dexterity.

02:27:38.000 It's all biological function to work harder than women. 1.00

02:27:41.000 And even when you look at the numbers, men work more hours on average.

02:27:43.000 They work harder jobs on average.

02:27:45.000 They're more willing to take risks.

02:27:47.000 This is all fact.

02:27:48.000 So it's not that women aren't where they want to be because of oppression and all this other stuff. 0.93

02:27:53.000 A lot of it is choice too.

02:27:54.000 And biological constraints.

02:27:58.000 Perfect!

02:27:59.000 I guess we just have to agree to disagree.

02:28:01.000 Yes.

02:28:01.000 No, you're incorrect.

02:28:02.000 With all due respect, you're just simply incorrect.

02:28:04.000 There's no agree to disagree.

02:28:05.000 You are incorrect in your assessment of why men and women are different and why men are in leadership roles and women are not.

02:28:10.000 You're 1,000% incorrect.

02:28:12.000 I literally outlined biological fact why men have a higher proclivity to make money.

02:28:17.000 You're just incorrect.

02:28:17.000 And that's a masculine tendency that you have right there because you don't want to be wrong.

02:28:20.000 No, I just...

02:28:21.000 But you're incorrect in this situation.

02:28:23.000 I feel like you just don't want to...

02:28:24.000 I'm not going to dive deep into it, but I just don't agree.

02:28:27.000 So, when you're engaged, then tell us we're incorrect.

02:28:31.000 Right now, you're still dating.

02:28:33.000 So...

02:28:34.000 Alright, we're going to move on.

02:28:34.000 That wasn't the argument, Chris.

02:28:37.000 I said men are in leadership roles because we're more capable of being in leadership roles.

02:28:41.000 And I literally outlined why.

02:28:43.000 From a biological sense, a human reproductive sense.

02:28:47.000 And you refuse to accept it because you don't feel...

02:28:49.000 No, I said, the main thing that I did not agree with what you said is that there's no proof that men are born leaders, better leaders than women.

02:28:59.000 I'm just saying, in a sense, there's not enough data, in a sense, where men have been leaders for years.

02:29:06.000 For years!

02:29:08.000 That's all I'm saying.

02:29:09.000 In a sense, it's like, for you to be like, women have had this frequent time frame and you're comparing it to years, that's all it is. 0.75

02:29:16.000 That's all I can say.

02:29:17.000 What I'm saying is that even if women get in leadership roles, they're not going to be innovators and creators anyway. 1.00

02:29:21.000 But we have time to tell.

02:29:23.000 I mean, we're seeing it now.

02:29:24.000 We're seeing it now.

02:29:24.000 Social media is destructive.

02:29:25.000 What's going on right now?

02:29:26.000 We're all the female inventors now with all the rights and privileges and accesses that women have. 1.00

02:29:31.000 What's holding women back? 1.00

02:29:32.000 Nothing holds women back, but they choose to still not get in these jobs. 1.00

02:29:36.000 They still choose to not innovate or create.

02:29:38.000 Why do men still dominate all infrastructure jobs, even though women have all the same rights and privileges since the 60s? 1.00

02:29:45.000 But I'm saying in a sense, if you look at history, there's been a lot of things that have been shown that women have created that men took and put their names on.

02:29:53.000 That's just facts.

02:29:54.000 Name one.

02:29:55.000 There's the NASA launch.

02:29:56.000 There was two women that created all the analytical data. 1.00

02:29:59.000 Two?

02:30:00.000 I think it was two or three.

02:30:01.000 I think it was a couple.

02:30:02.000 Actually, it was a couple.

02:30:03.000 They made a whole movie about it.

02:30:04.000 Four.

02:30:05.000 They made a whole movie about it.

02:30:07.000 Six?

02:30:09.000 Of course they made a movie about it.

02:30:12.000 There's literally books.

02:30:14.000 The one time women create something, they make a movie about it. 1.00

02:30:17.000 They make a movie on things that guys create.

02:30:20.000 I'm just saying, in a sense, there's a bunch of books, like, you know, ideas that have been shown that women were the ones who made them, but they had to come under a male name.

02:30:20.000 Graphics.

02:30:30.000 But I'm just saying, in a sense, it's like they weren't able to do those things because in a society where men were the main ones.

02:30:36.000 Women also chose not to do a lot of those things. 1.00

02:30:37.000 Let's talk about voting, for example, which women love to talk about. 1.00

02:30:40.000 Women chose not to vote for a very long time because it came with responsibilities. 1.00

02:30:46.000 I'm saying before when I was talking about the NASA thing and then also talking about books and stuff.

02:30:51.000 If you came out as a woman, no one would read it because women weren't respected. 0.59

02:30:55.000 Women were supposed to read or write. 1.00

02:30:56.000 You would get stoned. 1.00

02:30:58.000 You would get killed. 1.00

02:30:59.000 No one would respect you. 1.00

02:31:00.000 I believe we should have kept it like that because this life sucks. 0.99

02:31:03.000 Honestly.

02:31:04.000 I'm gonna have to like, yeah.

02:31:07.000 The system, the whole way society that we live in, it's wrong.

02:31:10.000 It's been distorted and we shouldn't be living like that.

02:31:13.000 I guess it's been distorted.

02:31:15.000 Let's move on.

02:31:16.000 I think we're in the best time to be alive ever.

02:31:19.000 What a time.

02:31:20.000 Like, I mean, I think there's things that sucks and things aren't fair, but that's just life in general.

02:31:24.000 I think we live in the best time to live ever, and we live in, like, probably one of the best countries to live ever.

02:31:29.000 I think that's just a very unappreciative thing to say, but that's fine.

02:31:29.000 Yeah.

02:31:33.000 I mean, if you think it would be better in the Stone Ages.

02:31:35.000 No, I'm not saying that.

02:31:36.000 I'm just saying, like, you know, our values have changed, so it's different than what it once was.

02:31:43.000 But I would argue our values changed to benefit women significantly.

02:31:46.000 You said that they did change to benefit women?

02:31:49.000 Yeah.

02:31:49.000 Yeah, that is the truth, but at the same time, look at what it's caused to the relationship dynamic in marriage.

02:31:55.000 It's like you said, what we talked about in the beginning, like, That's the cost of feminism. 1.00

02:32:00.000 Yeah, and I don't like feminism. 1.00

02:32:02.000 I'm against that, is what I was saying.

02:32:03.000 Everything you've stated before is very femme-centric, though.

02:32:05.000 How?

02:32:06.000 How so?

02:32:06.000 Because I'm like, I was making narcissistic comments, I guess.

02:32:09.000 Love yourself?

02:32:10.000 Okay, fine.

02:32:11.000 But I still believe that...

02:32:12.000 I mean, you made several comments.

02:32:13.000 I still believe that there's a role that men should play.

02:32:17.000 Such as?

02:32:18.000 The provider role, the strong, all that.

02:32:22.000 What were you just talking about?

02:32:23.000 So you want a man that's traditional? 0.88

02:32:28.000 Yeah.

02:32:29.000 But are you a traditional woman?

02:32:31.000 I guess not, not at the moment.

02:32:32.000 So do you qualify for a traditional man? 0.94

02:32:34.000 I'm not ready for a relationship right now.

02:32:37.000 But I still, but what I'm saying is I've went from my experiences in history, looking at past relationships that I've seen in my family.

02:32:47.000 Emotional damage!

02:32:48.000 Well, you do realize that a part of being a traditional woman, a component of that, isn't necessarily saying, I'm not ready to settle down.

02:32:55.000 Like, you gotta be ready to settle down when you're at your peak value, when men want you the most.

02:32:59.000 Facts.

02:33:00.000 The problem is that you're looking at it through your lens of a female, but what do the men want? 1.00

02:33:04.000 And I think that's a cardinal mistake that so many girls make is they think, what do I want? 1.00

02:33:08.000 Fuck what the guy wants. 1.00

02:33:09.000 He should accept me. 1.00

02:33:10.000 I'm telling you what's going to make you most attractive to the guys so you actually get them.

02:33:13.000 So if you want a traditional man, you should be a traditional woman and a part of being a traditional woman is preserving your value.

02:33:21.000 Men have to create their value. 0.98

02:33:23.000 Women have to preserve their value. 1.00

02:33:24.000 Women are born millionaires. 1.00

02:33:26.000 But girls make the terrible mistake of staying in a casino too long, gambling all their money, waiting until 5am when the casino closes and thinking that they're going to be able to hit it big. 1.00

02:33:35.000 And a lot of the times you don't hit it big.

02:33:37.000 Facts.

02:33:39.000 Facts.

02:33:40.000 Okay.

02:33:42.000 30 minutes.

02:33:43.000 Watch Flower.

02:33:46.000 Ladies, why are women quick to reject a man that lives with his mother or quick to accept a man that lives with his wife? 1.00

02:33:53.000 That's a very good question.

02:33:56.000 Anyone want to answer that one? 0.99

02:33:57.000 I would say the man that lives with his mother doesn't have his shit together because he doesn't have his own crib. 0.99

02:34:03.000 So there's not a spot where there is security. 0.99

02:34:06.000 And the other one, they quick to accept the man with a wife because he already could show that he provides and he has the whole house thing And sometimes certain women, like how they say, we follow each other. 0.93

02:34:19.000 So it's kind of like, oh, you have that?

02:34:20.000 I want that.

02:34:21.000 So certain women are like that, but you know what I'm saying? 0.95

02:34:24.000 Well said.

02:34:25.000 Okay.

02:34:26.000 We have here, Eric Gatlin says, Shout out to Fresh and Fit.

02:34:29.000 Just got promoted.

02:34:30.000 Making $150,000 per year.

02:34:32.000 I'm going to be buying my first property soon because of y'all.

02:34:34.000 Shout out to you.

02:34:35.000 Ladies, Instagram, or marriageable man, and why?

02:34:38.000 That's a very good question.

02:34:40.000 So ladies, you gotta choose for yourself. 1.00

02:34:42.000 Instagram, the app itself, or marriageable man, what'd you choose?

02:34:47.000 The marriageable man.

02:34:48.000 Why?

02:34:50.000 Because social media isn't important to me.

02:34:52.000 I don't care about how, like, keeping people updated on my life.

02:34:55.000 That man's my man.

02:34:56.000 I'm gonna marry him.

02:34:57.000 I have a family.

02:34:58.000 I'm good.

02:34:59.000 Okay.

02:35:00.000 What about you, AC? I'll say man.

02:35:05.000 Why? 1.00

02:35:06.000 I mean, shit. 1.00

02:35:08.000 Whenever that day comes, I'll drop everything, so... 1.00

02:35:11.000 I want that.

02:35:13.000 Well, why though?

02:35:15.000 For my kid, and I want more kids.

02:35:17.000 Got it.

02:35:18.000 What about you?

02:35:19.000 Well, they'll demand...

02:35:20.000 I don't care about social media either that much, and...

02:35:24.000 We can tell.

02:35:24.000 Stop the cow!

02:35:25.000 No, y'all...

02:35:26.000 You guys can think what you want, but...

02:35:28.000 Stop the cow! 1.00

02:35:29.000 That's my answer.

02:35:30.000 Okay.

02:35:31.000 Yeah, marriageable man, obviously.

02:35:33.000 I want my validation from my husband, not from random men online.

02:35:36.000 Ooh! 0.96

02:35:37.000 Deep.

02:35:38.000 What about you?

02:35:39.000 Oh, queen.

02:35:40.000 Marriageable man.

02:35:41.000 What?

02:35:42.000 Instagram is...

02:35:44.000 Data.

02:35:44.000 Data is totally interchangeable.

02:35:47.000 It's not relative.

02:35:49.000 Things will die out.

02:35:50.000 What if Instagram lets you talk back to them?

02:35:54.000 Talk back to who?

02:35:55.000 But the man doesn't.

02:35:56.000 Talk back to who?

02:35:57.000 The man in your DMs.

02:35:59.000 I don't answer DMs.

02:36:01.000 Okay.

02:36:02.000 Stop the cat! 1.00

02:36:03.000 What about you?

02:36:04.000 Marriageable man.

02:36:05.000 Why?

02:36:07.000 Instagram is draining sometimes.

02:36:09.000 Why?

02:36:10.000 How's it draining?

02:36:11.000 I mean...

02:36:14.000 Explain, New York.

02:36:17.000 Just looking at problems every day, people's opinions, everything.

02:36:24.000 Okay.

02:36:25.000 That was insightful.

02:36:28.000 What about you?

02:36:31.000 Definitely a marriageable man.

02:36:33.000 I already, in my relationship, we don't, neither one of us have social media.

02:36:37.000 Like, I downloaded it just so I could talk to you guys.

02:36:40.000 But, like, we don't, I mean, we don't care about it, so.

02:36:43.000 That's dope. 0.93

02:36:44.000 And you?

02:36:45.000 Of course, a man.

02:36:46.000 My definition of success is to build a happy, healthy nuclear family.

02:36:52.000 So I would go for the man.

02:36:53.000 I don't care about Instagram at all.

02:36:56.000 When did you come to this realization that you wanted a family over maybe pursuing being a doctor?

02:37:02.000 Actually, that's one of the reasons why I dropped medicine.

02:37:05.000 Because it's a very dedicated career and I want to be dedicated to my family.

02:37:10.000 So I wasn't imagining myself in 10 years being all day in the hospital and leaving my kids and husband at home.

02:37:16.000 How did you meet your current guy you're talking to now?

02:37:19.000 He was one of my best friends.

02:37:22.000 A long time.

02:37:24.000 Well, hey, I think that's a good decision. 1.00

02:37:26.000 I think a lot of people will talk shit and say, you're stupid, you should go back to school, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

02:37:30.000 But I think... 1.00

02:37:32.000 Your best chance of finding a guy is now when you're younger.

02:37:35.000 And if you want to get that family, you want to maximize, you know, the chances of getting that family, the probability when you're younger, more attractive.

02:37:42.000 Hey, do it, man.

02:37:44.000 That's good.

02:37:45.000 That's fantastic.

02:37:45.000 I think I wish more women had that mindset.

02:37:47.000 I think that'd be good.

02:37:49.000 Good example.

02:37:49.000 Nuclear families is the number one contributing thing to good societies.

02:37:53.000 I think this is the first panel that sent all men over Instagram, too.

02:37:58.000 Yeah.

02:37:58.000 Is this the first?

02:37:59.000 Yeah, this was the first panel.

02:38:00.000 All right.

02:38:02.000 Rick1991 says, Shout out to Fresh and Fit and the Great Tate for pulling me out of my symptom.

02:38:07.000 Because girls think they are smart and begin every sentence with, I feel... 1.00

02:38:11.000 Bring back the stats, girls. 1.00

02:38:13.000 Even with the incomplete stats, at least we know what to debunk other than feelings.

02:38:18.000 Okay?

02:38:19.000 And then Jared Meyer says, Ladies, what was that moment when you knew you were done with your last boyfriend?

02:38:26.000 Love you FNF. Chris, love you roasting us.

02:38:28.000 Chat and Big Mo keep on losing weight.

02:38:30.000 This actually might be very telling for the guys to learn some lessons here.

02:38:34.000 Okay.

02:38:34.000 So at what moment did you know that you were done with your boyfriend?

02:38:37.000 Your ex.

02:38:38.000 Your ex.

02:38:39.000 Start that way.

02:38:43.000 I think it's because I always wanted kids and he did not want kids.

02:38:48.000 When did you find out?

02:38:49.000 That he did not.

02:38:50.000 I was still in the middle of the relationship and I was like, okay, that's not gonna work.

02:38:55.000 But still, I consider him my family.

02:38:57.000 He makes sure I'm safe every time and I keep him close.

02:39:01.000 What about you?

02:39:03.000 My boyfriend is my first boyfriend since my high school sweetheart.

02:39:06.000 What about you?

02:39:09.000 I'm curious.

02:39:11.000 For you to leave him, what would we have to do?

02:39:17.000 Probably not, but if that were the worst thing, then yeah.

02:39:23.000 Understandable.

02:39:24.000 What about you?

02:39:27.000 When my ex moved away from college.

02:39:32.000 You can't do long distance?

02:39:35.000 She said I need you right here.

02:39:36.000 You mean when your ex moved away to college?

02:39:38.000 Yeah, to college.

02:39:39.000 For you?

02:39:42.000 Just explosive tantrums, I guess.

02:39:46.000 Your last boyfriend had tantrums?

02:39:48.000 Like he was... 1.00

02:39:49.000 Like, if I said, like, oh, I think cereal is not that nutritional, I'd be like, you're stupid. 1.00

02:39:54.000 Like, what do you mean? 1.00

02:39:55.000 And I'm like, let me leave!

02:39:57.000 Let me leave you! 1.00

02:39:59.000 Stop questioning everything I do!

02:40:01.000 No, it's just, like, little tiny things, and I'm just like, I don't need to be, like, yelling over cereal.

02:40:07.000 So it was just a loss of emotions or control of emotions.

02:40:11.000 Alright.

02:40:13.000 Okay.

02:40:15.000 So I dated my ex-boyfriend for like three to four years.

02:40:18.000 And it's basically he had no ambition.

02:40:21.000 I was way more ambitious with my career.

02:40:23.000 And I just never could respect him over it.

02:40:25.000 He let me do whatever I wanted to do.

02:40:28.000 And I, at the time, thought I loved it.

02:40:30.000 But he always would say, I'm going to buy you a ring.

02:40:32.000 And I always would tell him, do not propose to me because I'm not going to say yes.

02:40:36.000 Because I knew I did not see a future with him.

02:40:39.000 I'm going to buy you a ring.

02:40:40.000 Right.

02:40:40.000 And now my husband now, by the way, he told me we're getting married.

02:40:44.000 He did not get down on his knees for me. 0.99

02:40:45.000 He's no bitch. 1.00

02:40:47.000 And I just knew right away feeling comfortable. 0.98

02:40:50.000 And I've never been happier.

02:40:52.000 And back then I would have said, like, I don't want someone controlling me.

02:40:55.000 Like I said, I never was a feminist, but I still thought, like, I knew what's best for me.

02:40:59.000 And, you know, I just never respected him, my ex-boyfriend.

02:41:02.000 And I have so much respect for my husband now because I do value him as the leader of the relationship.

02:41:07.000 And I'm telling, like, women, trust me, you think that you want to have the control, you think that you know what's best, but you don't. 0.99

02:41:13.000 And you're happier when you do submit to a man that's worthy of your submission.

02:41:17.000 Thanks.

02:41:18.000 This is the first time that I've been on the show.

02:41:20.000 And I've always said that women are spitting mirror image of that man's masculinity. 0.99

02:41:24.000 You could tell a lot about the man by the way the woman speaks about him when he's not in the room.

02:41:28.000 This is probably one of the first times where I can see this is a true situation where a woman respects her man.

02:41:33.000 The guy is very masculine.

02:41:36.000 And I can tell that simply by the way she speaks about him.

02:41:39.000 And you can see, the more masculine a man, the more happy the woman is, man. 0.61

02:41:44.000 Normally, right?

02:41:45.000 Is that a close time, Aaron?

02:41:47.000 What is that?

02:41:48.000 Yeah, he's doing the right job.

02:41:53.000 Normally, right, I'm very keen to listen to women talk on the show and agree with our points. 1.00

02:41:59.000 But genuinely, she feels this way about her man and her life.

02:42:02.000 So this is great.

02:42:03.000 So shout out to you.

02:42:04.000 That's great.

02:42:05.000 Does America have hope?

02:42:07.000 Does America have hope?

02:42:08.000 Is there hope for the West?

02:42:09.000 It's not for her to save her, bros.

02:42:11.000 What about you?

02:42:14.000 I was trolling, by the way.

02:42:15.000 I was just kidding.

02:42:17.000 I think, like, there's probably just too much trauma, distrust, and just ended up, I didn't feel that connection anymore, so I had to walk away.

02:42:27.000 So he wasn't your soulmate? 0.99

02:42:28.000 Damn. 0.99

02:42:29.000 Life is tough. 0.99

02:42:30.000 What was, like, what was, like, the, I guess, the straw that broke the camel's back? 1.00

02:42:35.000 What made you say, fuck this shit? 1.00

02:42:36.000 When I couldn't stand to be around him, when I was irritated by him touching me, by his presence, just made my skin crawl. 1.00

02:42:44.000 Okay, what led to that though? 0.99

02:42:45.000 Damn! 0.99

02:42:46.000 Women typically fall out of love with the guy, or you have to get there through something else. 1.00

02:42:51.000 What did he lack that made you say, you don't even want him to touch me no more?

02:42:54.000 I started doing better than him.

02:42:57.000 See, you gotta peel the layers back, baby.

02:42:58.000 It's always the same answers.

02:43:00.000 Yeah.

02:43:00.000 All right.

02:43:00.000 Okay.

02:43:01.000 So he had no ambition.

02:43:02.000 Yeah, pretty much. 0.99

02:43:04.000 Am I a fucking psychic or what? 0.99

02:43:06.000 Why is it the same things over and over and over again with women turning them off? 1.00

02:43:12.000 Alright, what about you?

02:43:13.000 Oh, I think I know what your situation is.

02:43:15.000 Can we do Kim first and then I'll say it?

02:43:17.000 Alright, go ahead.

02:43:18.000 I saw myself building him up and his business and then when it got to talking about a future, kids, marriage and all that, he was just like very hesitant about it so I realized that was just a placeholder for the next woman. 0.97

02:43:53.000 He just cheated on me with another man and I found out That's the right side of the front,

02:44:08.000 Chris.

02:44:09.000 That is not the Marco.

02:44:12.000 Anyways, so...

02:44:16.000 He was getting with Marco.

02:44:19.000 Down with DeMarco?

02:44:23.000 Down with DeMarco?

02:44:25.000 Okay.

02:44:26.000 Yeah, we got the joke, guys.

02:44:29.000 Alright, let's go.

02:44:37.000 Yes, sir!

02:44:42.000 Are you worried that if you don't self-improve, you'll be alone for a long time?

02:44:46.000 Shorty 3 down from Fresh, Netflix, and chill.

02:44:48.000 Fresh's new film, Buster Booty, is out now.

02:44:51.000 You'll see why they call Fresh the booty band.

02:44:54.000 Yes, sir!

02:44:56.000 Yes, sir!

02:44:58.000 Ignore that.

02:44:59.000 Yeah, just...

02:45:00.000 Jungle Echoes, question for the ladies. 0.99

02:45:02.000 When given the opportunity to choose between having a six-figure successful business and having an already successful man to provide for you financially, which do you choose?

02:45:09.000 One catch.

02:45:10.000 Successful business equals you die alone.

02:45:13.000 Successful man, he will have side pieces.

02:45:18.000 It's different.

02:45:20.000 It is significantly different.

02:45:22.000 So, six-figure business, successful, right?

02:45:27.000 But you're going to be by yourself.

02:45:29.000 Or, Financially dependent upon a guy, but he's going to have side chicks.

02:45:34.000 We can start here.

02:45:35.000 I would go with a successful man.

02:45:37.000 Okay.

02:45:38.000 What about you?

02:45:41.000 A successful man, but I don't want to know about the side pieces.

02:45:45.000 Okay.

02:45:46.000 Alright, Mario Winans.

02:45:48.000 What about me?

02:45:50.000 Successful man.

02:45:51.000 Successful man.

02:45:53.000 What about you?

02:45:54.000 Successful business.

02:45:56.000 Okay.

02:45:57.000 Wait, wait.

02:45:57.000 Hold on.

02:45:58.000 You can do with the side pieces?

02:46:01.000 It is what it is.

02:46:04.000 She's Colombian, bro. 0.98

02:46:05.000 If they got enough money, she'll care.

02:46:07.000 A successful man.

02:46:10.000 Okay.

02:46:11.000 You said the business, right?

02:46:13.000 The business.

02:46:15.000 Isn't it funny?

02:46:19.000 Psychic.

02:46:23.000 Chris, I know you're not talking again.

02:46:25.000 I see.

02:46:25.000 Which one?

02:46:27.000 Honestly, if I'm capable of being friends with the side bitches, I would just be better, in a sense. 1.00

02:46:32.000 I want to have my friends. 0.94

02:46:34.000 Like, we could be a group, you know what I'm saying?

02:46:37.000 I mean, hey, listen, when you have a child, it takes a village.

02:46:40.000 So it's like, if you could take care of him for the night, you know what I'm saying?

02:46:44.000 Or like, if I need to, you know, if you're trying to spend time with me, you know, vice versa, help me out.

02:46:49.000 It can work.

02:46:49.000 I'll tell you that, I see.

02:46:50.000 It definitely can work.

02:46:51.000 It's a village at the end of the day.

02:46:53.000 Someone here does it.

02:46:54.000 Hey, yo.

02:46:56.000 So, you want a poly relationship?

02:46:59.000 Huh?

02:47:00.000 You want a poly relationship? 0.89

02:47:01.000 Yeah.

02:47:02.000 In a sense, I will be down for it.

02:47:04.000 I've never experienced it, you know?

02:47:06.000 They've always done it behind my back, and it's kind of like, but why?

02:47:09.000 With men.

02:47:10.000 Well, that was just one.

02:47:13.000 Relax.

02:47:15.000 You better chill, man.

02:47:18.000 Local.

02:47:22.000 The man, as long as I'm one of the main ones.

02:47:27.000 Okay.

02:47:28.000 Question for you guys.

02:47:29.000 Why the business over the man?

02:47:32.000 I just don't tolerate cheating.

02:47:34.000 That's just me.

02:47:36.000 I don't know if it has something to do with the cheating so much, but I don't know.

02:47:44.000 Like...

02:47:46.000 I'm just kind of more secure in myself.

02:47:49.000 I feel like you can call me masculine for this, but I would want to take care of my parents when they're older and I have to rely on someone.

02:47:57.000 So if that comes with me having my own business and I don't have a man to die with, then okay.

02:48:03.000 But I'd rather that than to be unhappy because I don't know for y'all, but if I know a man's cheating on me, that's not going to make me feel good.

02:48:10.000 It's just not.

02:48:12.000 Okay.

02:48:13.000 Same thing with you.

02:48:14.000 You just can't fathom like the And if I can have the option to support myself with my own business, I would damn sure take that route than to be provided for and disrespected in my face.

02:48:28.000 Okay.

02:48:31.000 What's up next here?

02:48:33.000 I saw you're speaking at FX Summit.

02:48:36.000 What's the stutter on stage, bro?

02:48:37.000 Happy to meet you there, flying in from New York.

02:48:41.000 My friend, that is pretty much cured, so good to go.

02:48:45.000 Light purple dress, why did you choose your husband? 1.00

02:48:49.000 What made him stand out from the other men you dated in your life?

02:48:52.000 That's a good one.

02:48:54.000 Just how masculine he was, how much of a leader he is.

02:48:57.000 He's even younger than me, which is weird.

02:48:59.000 We were really good friends for the longest time.

02:49:01.000 We're friends.

02:49:02.000 Yeah, we were friends.

02:49:03.000 Wait, who said that?

02:49:04.000 Chris.

02:49:04.000 Yeah, so we were friends.

02:49:05.000 Actually, I mean, this is kind of a weird story of how I actually, because I never looked at him as romantic because he was younger than me, but we were such good friends and he was with me when I randomly had a seizure and took care of me.

02:49:19.000 So he really protected me and I felt so protected and safe around him that I started to look at him differently.

02:49:24.000 I know it's kind of random, but that's truly what made me feel super protected with him and I just respected him so much.

02:49:32.000 I know.

02:49:32.000 I mean, that's great.

02:49:34.000 People would wish they could say, this is how I met my husband.

02:49:37.000 When a girl says, she has guy friends, be careful, bro. 1.00

02:49:43.000 Just saying.

02:49:44.000 Just saying, bro.

02:49:46.000 Oh, he's just a friend!

02:49:47.000 Oh, right, yeah, no.

02:49:49.000 No, for sure, yeah, no, I don't think that.

02:49:52.000 It'd be weird if I just had a bunch of guy friends now.

02:49:55.000 That's very strange.

02:49:58.000 Well, I mean, he was able to assert his masculinity and she was attracted to him.

02:50:02.000 But notice, right?

02:50:03.000 She had a dude that wasn't the man, but she met the man Well, she's in distress and came to save herself.

02:50:14.000 That's great.

02:50:15.000 I'll tell you this, that's a great story to tell to your girlfriends.

02:50:19.000 They're over here swiping on Tinder and you'll be like, oh yeah, I met my guy getting a seizure.

02:50:22.000 Even for her child.

02:50:24.000 That's great.

02:50:25.000 Alright.

02:50:27.000 Manuel J. Hernandez.

02:50:28.000 Ladies, she may get checked by women. 1.00

02:50:29.000 I see zip the twins.

02:50:31.000 They just, for me only. 0.99

02:50:33.000 I... Why do you have to be such a pervert, bro? 1.00

02:50:37.000 Goddamn, nigga! 1.00

02:50:39.000 Should men get checked by women? 1.00

02:50:41.000 Nah.

02:50:42.000 Mediterranean mailman.

02:50:44.000 Myron, ask Miss Spain if she knows who Isabella Peraza is.

02:50:48.000 If she's really against the woke, she will know who she is.

02:50:52.000 Instagram model?

02:50:53.000 I actually have no idea who she is.

02:50:56.000 I'm the worst at names, though.

02:50:58.000 What does against the woke mean?

02:51:01.000 Against feminism? 1.00

02:51:05.000 Feminism is a component of woke ideology. 1.00

02:51:08.000 Transformers.

02:51:09.000 Transformers, like you were saying earlier.

02:51:11.000 That's a part of being woke.

02:51:13.000 Oh, my definition of woke is different.

02:51:16.000 It's more of a spiritual way.

02:51:18.000 Well, there's spiritual wokeness.

02:51:21.000 There's that.

02:51:22.000 But then there's also...

02:51:23.000 I wanted to take that away.

02:51:26.000 The mainstream definition of woke, how most people understand it, is an ideology of Typically radical leftism of super acceptance for anything, everyone is special, being super politically correct, not saying certain things,

02:51:44.000 you know, caring about people's feelings.

02:51:46.000 And I would say feminism is a component of that to a degree. 1.00

02:51:49.000 Because feminism is kind of what stimulated this and then, you know, it is what it is. 1.00

02:51:54.000 Sorry, this is pretty funny.

02:51:58.000 Red Hood, I guess she seized the opportunity. 0.86

02:52:04.000 Can we get a baboom tis for that? 1.00

02:52:10.000 Oh, CJ! Alright, Manuel J,

02:52:28.000 Hernandez.

02:52:29.000 Black is bound to Chris. 1.00

02:52:31.000 Come on, man.

02:52:32.000 Chris still on Danny.

02:52:34.000 So, love is...

02:52:37.000 Literally.

02:52:38.000 Self-love is literally the cornerstone of narcissism, self-awareness, self-discipline, and self-respect will achieve all the things that you think narcissism self-love gives you without all the attached delusion and irreparable trauma.

02:52:49.000 Good breakdown.

02:52:50.000 You have anything you want to say back to him?

02:52:52.000 Um, no.

02:52:54.000 Fantastic.

02:52:54.000 Tyroid.

02:52:55.000 Oh, God.

02:52:56.000 Oh, God.

02:52:57.000 Why do whales always blame me for everything?

02:53:00.000 I didn't force you to eat 50 pounds of butter and sugar for 30 years.

02:53:04.000 She's 19.

02:53:05.000 You haven't been 150 pounds since second grade.

02:53:07.000 Stop the cap. 0.94

02:53:09.000 What is the point of reading now?

02:53:11.000 You have everything you want to say?

02:53:12.000 Ignore it. 1.00

02:53:12.000 Fuck you. 1.00

02:53:13.000 I don't care. 1.00

02:53:14.000 Yeah, ignore him. 1.00

02:53:14.000 Fuck you. 1.00

02:53:15.000 Or it. 1.00

02:53:16.000 I mean, Danny says, we don't need to fully understand why we're different, but we need to accept that we live entirely different experiences.

02:53:23.000 Yeah, and want different things out of life as well.

02:53:26.000 Not everyone aims and drives for the same thing.

02:53:29.000 But we can say in generalities there's certain things that a majority of women want and a majority of men want.

02:53:36.000 And, you know, I was just saying that typically we operate on generalities.

02:53:39.000 Question, which is more important?

02:53:41.000 Love or contentment?

02:53:44.000 Love or contentment?

02:53:48.000 What's more important?

02:53:50.000 Do you know what contentment means?

02:53:51.000 Yeah, I don't.

02:53:53.000 I would say love.

02:53:59.000 Why?

02:54:01.000 From a woman point of view, you want to love the man you're with.

02:54:04.000 Okay.

02:54:06.000 Love or contentment?

02:54:07.000 Like, what do you mean by that?

02:54:09.000 Love is, for example, a feeling or maybe an action.

02:54:13.000 Contentment means you're content in your scenario.

02:54:15.000 You're satisfied.

02:54:16.000 Yeah, you're happy to be where you're at.

02:54:18.000 You don't need much more.

02:54:22.000 Hm.

02:54:23.000 I don't wanna f- Hm.

02:54:25.000 Hm.

02:54:26.000 Hm.

02:54:27.000 Hm.

02:54:27.000 I will take your, in love, your content, no?

02:54:30.000 I will say the other one, the second one.

02:54:32.000 I will rather, I want to be satisfied.

02:54:35.000 My feelings, put them to the side.

02:54:37.000 Stop the cap! 0.99

02:54:38.000 Got it.

02:54:38.000 But you're a female.

02:54:39.000 I'll try my best.

02:54:40.000 For you?

02:54:41.000 I'm going to say love just because content means you're not striving for anything more.

02:54:46.000 And like I said, that's not what life is about.

02:54:48.000 It's not to be stationary.

02:54:49.000 Can you agree that love can...

02:54:51.000 Make you content?

02:54:53.000 Love can change?

02:54:54.000 Like you can fall out of love and fall in love?

02:54:56.000 Can you agree?

02:54:57.000 I mean, yeah, that's very much true.

02:54:59.000 But the past relationships that I had when I was referencing soul, I do still love them.

02:55:07.000 Where'd they now?

02:55:09.000 Down the road somewhere.

02:55:12.000 Still in my life for, you know, moral support and everything, but they served their purpose for that time and I love them for that.

02:55:18.000 Okay.

02:55:21.000 I think?

02:55:42.000 I don't know, just really appreciating the values that someone else brings to the marriage.

02:55:46.000 I think being content lasts longer than necessarily feeling that gushy, loving feeling.

02:55:52.000 Okay.

02:55:52.000 You have a sister?

02:55:53.000 Yes.

02:55:55.000 Myra would love her.

02:55:56.000 Okay, go ahead.

02:55:58.000 She'd have to be wife number five. 1.00

02:56:00.000 I don't think she'd want that.

02:56:02.000 I would say contentment.

02:56:03.000 Just because a peace of mind is everything.

02:56:06.000 And I think that's the best thing that men want you to be is their peace of mind.

02:56:10.000 Good point.

02:56:11.000 They don't want you to argue.

02:56:13.000 Or tell them that they're serious. 0.99

02:56:14.000 Serial sucks. 0.98

02:56:15.000 So you know the truth then. 0.98

02:56:17.000 I'm saying I want to be my man's piece.

02:56:20.000 She knows the data.

02:56:22.000 She knows the data.

02:56:24.000 What about you?

02:56:25.000 Love?

02:56:27.000 Why?

02:56:28.000 Because, I mean, I grew up on love.

02:56:33.000 You mean money?

02:56:34.000 No, we...

02:56:35.000 I can make my own money.

02:56:40.000 It's good having both.

02:56:42.000 For you?

02:56:47.000 Contentment.

02:56:47.000 I'd rather be, like, I don't want to say satisfied because everybody else said that, but like, I don't know, happy.

02:56:56.000 Secure, I guess you could say.

02:56:58.000 Secure, okay.

02:56:59.000 For you.

02:57:00.000 I would say contentment, even though I don't really understand what it means.

02:57:05.000 Satisfied, calm, relaxed.

02:57:08.000 I mean, love comes and goes and at the end you have unconditional love for your partner.

02:57:13.000 So I prefer to be content with them and just deal with the hard times and continue with them rather than going from love to love.

02:57:21.000 I disagree with some of the ladies. 1.00

02:57:22.000 I think for it to really work, the woman must love the man and the man must be content. 0.99

02:57:28.000 And the reason why I say that is because in order for a relationship to really work on what I've seen, women are most happy when they truly love their man and they like him more than he likes her in return.

02:57:38.000 And for men, we're simple.

02:57:40.000 We can be content in a relationship and be good because men don't need much.

02:57:43.000 But women, on the other hand, they need to love you and the only way they're going to love you is if they respect you. 1.00

02:57:47.000 They're only going to respect you if you achieve all their fucking standards and then some. 0.98

02:57:51.000 So I think for a relationship to work, the woman's got to love you. 0.99

02:57:54.000 You can be content because you can always have another chick. 0.99

02:57:58.000 Be content with her too.

02:57:59.000 So, that's what it is.

02:58:03.000 Dollar cost crypto.

02:58:04.000 Takes more to satisfy a woman. 1.00

02:58:05.000 Dollar cost crypto.

02:58:06.000 Get into the course now.

02:58:08.000 Make the woman in your life financially irrelevant. 0.99

02:58:10.000 W Fresh, W Meyer, W Chris, W Mo, and W Icy.

02:58:14.000 Shout out to you, my friend.

02:58:15.000 I appreciate that.

02:58:18.000 I'll just be honest with y'all, bro.

02:58:20.000 Most women are not going to accept you if you're a brokie. 1.00

02:58:23.000 You need to get in the fucking course. 1.00

02:58:24.000 Stop being a brokie. 1.00

02:58:24.000 Get some money on point. 1.00

02:58:26.000 If your credit sucks, get in there so that you can learn how to invest in crypto. 0.99

02:58:29.000 Get some fucking Ethereum. 1.00

02:58:30.000 Get some Bitcoin. 0.99

02:58:31.000 Get some of these coins that are popping up.

02:58:33.000 You know what I mean?

02:58:33.000 Like I said before, they're going to be watching charts.

02:58:35.000 They'll advise you guys on moves that you can make if you want to be conservative, moves that you can make if you want to be risky. 0.99

02:58:40.000 So get in the fucking course. 1.00

02:58:41.000 Stop being a brokie. 1.00

02:58:42.000 Link is below.

02:58:43.000 Get in there.

02:58:44.000 Get in there. 0.99

02:58:45.000 And they're the only crypto guys that we advocate because they know what the fuck they're doing. 0.99

02:58:50.000 I got a six-figure crypto portfolio off of them and I invested fucking half. 0.97

02:58:54.000 Guys, you can learn what coins to buy, what not to buy, when to sell, when to buy. 0.94

02:58:58.000 That's very important.

02:58:59.000 Having someone to hold your hand through the process is insane value.

02:59:03.000 Hop in there, man.

02:59:03.000 Facts.

02:59:06.000 Cougarslayer91 goes, These two chicks next to the married one prove my point on what I said about feminism pushing to socially accept 304s. 1.00

02:59:12.000 The way to look and discuss at any point married makes LMAO listen to lord, gains, or die alone with cats.

02:59:19.000 You ladies have anything you want to say?

02:59:21.000 Of course.

02:59:21.000 Go ahead, please.

02:59:22.000 I would say I don't disagree with a lot of things she said.

02:59:25.000 I don't like the way she says it, but I do like the way she lives her life.

02:59:29.000 I just don't like the way she explains it.

02:59:31.000 That's my point.

02:59:32.000 Let me ask you a question.

02:59:33.000 Let's say, well, you're a math person, right? 0.97

02:59:36.000 Let's say you're in a math class and the math teacher tells you one day one plus one is two and another day says one plus one is fucking two. 0.97

02:59:36.000 Yeah. 0.97

02:59:43.000 Does it change the fact that it's two?

02:59:47.000 No.

02:59:48.000 I just said that.

02:59:50.000 I said I liked the way she lived.

02:59:52.000 I just didn't like how it came up.

02:59:54.000 But why is delivery so important?

02:59:54.000 It may have come from bad end.

02:59:56.000 Because delivery is how you interpret everything in life.

02:59:59.000 Is it not?

03:00:01.000 It's how your children are impressionable.

03:00:03.000 What you just said right there showed and revealed one of the carnal differences between men and women.

03:00:09.000 Of course, we are different.

03:00:10.000 Men are concerned with, and this is why women are not good leaders. 1.00

03:00:14.000 Women, right, are concerned with how information is conveyed. 1.00

03:00:17.000 Men are concerned with what information is conveyed. 1.00

03:00:21.000 Men don't care about tone or delivery or this fuck shit. 1.00

03:00:25.000 Matter of fact, some of the best coaches for men yell at men. 1.00

03:00:28.000 When I tell guys, yo, you got to get in shape, stop being a fat piece of shit, etc., men respond favorably to that because they don't care about the delivery. 1.00

03:00:35.000 They care more about the message. 1.00

03:00:37.000 Women, on the other hand, care about the delivery. 1.00

03:00:39.000 She quite effectively told you what it takes to get in a successful marriage with a man that you love and respect and be happy and get a traditional relationship, which is what all women want to a degree, yet you have a point of contention with how she conveyed the information.

03:00:55.000 I would disagree because why would men's suicide rates be higher if they just accept anything said to them?

03:01:02.000 It's not that they accept anything said to them, it's that they can't rise to the expectations of what is said to them.

03:01:07.000 Exactly.

03:01:08.000 But I'm saying in a sense, if society is telling you what to do and how to do it, isn't that interpreting?

03:01:13.000 Well, here's the thing.

03:01:14.000 Actually, a matter of fact, there's not enough information for men out there to be masculine, strong men and go through life.

03:01:21.000 A big reason why so many guys, you know, commit suicide is because men don't have guidance.

03:01:26.000 Because we teach them the female way of thinking is what matters. 1.00

03:01:30.000 How you're told information matters.

03:01:32.000 Your feelings matter.

03:01:34.000 But when a man learns the masculine identity, Controlling your feelings, using it to do good versus hurting yourself, that's when change happens.

03:01:43.000 But I think a big reason why we have high suicide rates with men is because we coach them to think like women. 1.00

03:01:48.000 The only reason, with all due respect, the only reason you're able to have a lot of the thought process and world observations you have is because you're female. 0.81

03:01:56.000 A man with your mindset would never be successful, unfortunately.

03:01:59.000 And the reason why is because based on a lot of things that you said, with all due respect, You have a victim mindset. 1.00

03:02:05.000 But if I was talking to a man, I would tell him, you're a fucking bitch. 1.00

03:02:09.000 Thinking like this is not going to get you successful. 1.00

03:02:09.000 You're a pussy. 1.00

03:02:12.000 However, you're able to think that way because you're female and there's certain privileges that are afforded to women that men are not afforded. 1.00

03:02:17.000 For example, you had a point of contention with how she delivered things that were straight, factual.

03:02:22.000 But men don't have these issues that women have. 1.00

03:02:24.000 But isn't it a society where all impressionable?

03:02:26.000 I have a stance on how things are being taught to our kids because it leaves an impression.

03:02:32.000 There's topics in school that kids should not be listening to.

03:02:35.000 That's what I'm saying.

03:02:36.000 Anything someone says, it leaves an impression, no matter how it's delivered.

03:02:39.000 Women are far more impressionable than men. 1.00

03:02:41.000 That's a fact.

03:02:42.000 If you look at advertisers, you look at women, women are group thinkers in general. 0.97

03:02:45.000 Men are more independent thinkers.

03:02:47.000 Women are followers. 0.95

03:02:48.000 Men are leaders.

03:02:49.000 Women are far more impressionable than men are. 1.00

03:02:51.000 But in society, don't you think we do things because it's said in government to do?

03:02:57.000 This is true, but who's more likely to rebel against the government?

03:03:01.000 Well, historically speaking, it's been men.

03:03:04.000 Women. 0.81

03:03:05.000 The name of the war that women led. 1.00

03:03:07.000 Oh, you're talking about wars?

03:03:08.000 I'm thinking you're talking about change and, like, the system.

03:03:11.000 Men are the ones that lead change.

03:03:13.000 Feminism wouldn't even be a thing if it weren't for men pushing feminism in the first place. 1.00

03:03:17.000 We signed on board for that.

03:03:18.000 Some of us.

03:03:19.000 I'm just saying, I know women are more sensitive and more impressionable. 0.99

03:03:22.000 I feel like as a society, we're all impressionable.

03:03:27.000 That's true, but women are far more impressionable, which is why they're not as good of leaders as men. 1.00

03:03:31.000 The fact that she conveyed something very direct, very succinct, and gave the blueprint from it, and you were more concerned with how it was said versus what was said is the difference from men and women and why women are not as capable leaders because they're not able to interpret information But I'll say in a sense,

03:03:50.000 when she said that one comment, and he even said, hey, like, you know, that's a bit out there.

03:03:55.000 It wasn't until you asked this follow up question that we got the understanding of what she meant.

03:04:00.000 Well, with all due respect, I'm a very logically sound guy, so that's why I asked that question.

03:04:04.000 But I'm just saying, in a sense, like, I'm just saying, you even said the thought, like, telling her what to eat, you were like, oh, wow, that's a bit excessive, until he asked a follow-up question.

03:04:13.000 So I'm just saying, I'm not trying to be like, oh, what she's doing is wrong.

03:04:16.000 I'm just saying, the way she came off certain things, I was like, whoa, that seems very, like, to the point.

03:04:22.000 I don't think you realize, he did it for comedic relief.

03:04:25.000 Y'all did it because, whoa, that's controlling.

03:04:28.000 I'm laughing at it because it's funny.

03:04:30.000 That's not how it came off to me.

03:04:32.000 That's what I'm saying.

03:04:33.000 In actual fact, you know what's funny?

03:04:35.000 Y'all didn't laugh. 0.99

03:04:36.000 Y'all were legitimately like, what the fuck? 0.99

03:04:38.000 Y'all were concerned. 0.99

03:04:39.000 He laughed about it.

03:04:40.000 There's a difference.

03:04:41.000 Context definitely matters.

03:04:42.000 And you're arguing for what she's saying.

03:04:45.000 It doesn't sound right.

03:04:47.000 But the logic behind it makes sense.

03:04:50.000 So we're just saying, look, if that's going to be your argument, we understand that.

03:04:53.000 But she's saying the truth. 0.64

03:04:56.000 So whether you like it or not, it's the truth.

03:04:58.000 But I'm referring to the question.

03:04:59.000 They make it seem like I was disagreeing with everything or I was negative to what thing.

03:05:04.000 It's just how it was interpreted to me.

03:05:06.000 You do realize you're proving our point even further.

03:05:08.000 You agree with the information.

03:05:10.000 You didn't like the way it was conveyed.

03:05:11.000 That's the difference between men and women. 1.00

03:05:13.000 I'm just answering the question.

03:05:16.000 But that shows the quintessential difference between men and women. 0.85

03:05:20.000 We interpret information differently.

03:05:22.000 You interpreted it through your feelings.

03:05:24.000 It didn't make you feel good.

03:05:25.000 You rejected it to a degree.

03:05:30.000 Men are different.

03:05:31.000 When you go to basic training in the military for infantry, they're not sitting there like, soldier?

03:05:39.000 Target.

03:05:39.000 Move left to right.

03:05:41.000 I want to see how you feel when you do it, by the way.

03:05:43.000 Okay?

03:05:43.000 Sensitivity training.

03:05:44.000 I'm going to convey this to you in a certain way.

03:05:46.000 No! 1.00

03:05:46.000 Hey, bitch! 1.00

03:05:47.000 Grab the fucking rifle! 1.00

03:05:49.000 If you don't, you're going to fucking die, you pussy! 1.00

03:05:49.000 Shoot! 1.00

03:05:52.000 That's how men communicate with each other. 1.00

03:05:54.000 We don't care about tone and all this other pussy shit. 1.00

03:05:57.000 Women do. 1.00

03:05:58.000 But that's the problem.

03:05:59.000 That's why women are not good leaders because they're more concerned with how they feel when information comes to them versus what needs to be done on the real. 1.00

03:06:06.000 Could you imagine how many wars would be starting?

03:06:07.000 You approved it right now with your response.

03:06:09.000 Your female emotional hardwiring overtakes logic and rationale. 1.00

03:06:15.000 And everyone is seeing it in 4K right now.

03:06:17.000 Only you can't see it because you're feeling a bunch of emotions right now because I've got to call you out.

03:06:22.000 If you had a female president and she took information, we'd be nuking everybody by tomorrow. 1.00

03:06:28.000 And they've proven this.

03:06:29.000 Female leaders are actually far more prone to getting into wars and conflict than men are. 1.00

03:06:32.000 It's proven this.

03:06:34.000 Alright, we've got some more chats here.

03:06:38.000 Concretta.

03:06:39.000 Girls in the green listen to the wifey in between y'all. 1.00

03:06:41.000 If you want to get somewhere in life, otherwise, enjoy your cats.

03:06:44.000 I think they are comfortable with that.

03:06:46.000 Yeah, bro.

03:06:47.000 They're going to get a dog, bro.

03:06:48.000 It's okay.

03:06:50.000 Man Man says, you always ask them to name countries.

03:06:53.000 Ask them if they can name three elements on the periodic table.

03:06:56.000 Like what?

03:07:00.000 Do those swaggings. 1.00

03:07:02.000 FNF doing God's work. 0.87

03:07:03.000 The two black women chose the business. 0.99

03:07:05.000 This is why 80% of black children are from single parent households.

03:07:09.000 The refusal to accept males for who they are is a downfall of that community.

03:07:13.000 That's not good. 1.00

03:07:14.000 Damn. 0.99

03:07:14.000 You have anything you want to say back to that? 0.99

03:07:15.000 Go back to it.

03:07:16.000 Okay. 0.98

03:07:18.000 The refusal to accept males for who they are is the downfall of the community, but I was the one that's sitting here and said that men need to be emotionally catered to, and then you said you want to bitch, so I'm not understanding. 0.70

03:07:33.000 Well, you prioritize emotional catering versus you didn't mention anything about not being a hoe, your purity, being feminine, submissive. 0.98

03:07:42.000 You mentioned catering.

03:07:43.000 That's great.

03:07:45.000 And what's more important?

03:07:47.000 A girl that's pure.

03:07:48.000 Your priorities are kind of incorrect.

03:07:52.000 Also, emotional support is great, but I can buy a dog, like I said earlier.

03:07:57.000 And a lot of women can provide emotional support, to be honest. 0.94

03:07:59.000 Yeah.

03:08:01.000 I wouldn't want a man that, like, demands emotional support, to be honest.

03:08:05.000 Get a caller.

03:08:06.000 Emotional support.

03:08:07.000 I mean, I'm just speaking from my own experience where I've been not, I haven't played my part in the emotional support that a man actually does need, whether we want to believe it or not, and that's probably why.

03:08:19.000 So I've learned through my experience that men do need that, and that's okay.

03:08:25.000 Were you attracted to those men, though?

03:08:26.000 That needed emotional support.

03:08:29.000 Yeah, but here's the thing.

03:08:31.000 If you're attracted to that, you would still be with them.

03:08:36.000 Let's sink in.

03:08:37.000 Ooh.

03:08:37.000 Women lose respect for a man when he needs that emotional support and they show weakness.

03:08:41.000 That's just a fact.

03:08:42.000 And that's biologically driven or innate within us, so...

03:08:47.000 Well, I also like to point out earlier, remember you said that cringing feeling that you got from your last relationship?

03:08:52.000 Because I was going better than him.

03:08:54.000 Exactly. 0.99

03:08:54.000 So that also is another fine line of like, if a man is too emotional, with time, However you stay with him, it will turn you the fuck off. 0.99

03:09:05.000 If he's a fucking crybaby, if he's a bitch-ass nigga, if he's always coming to you, oh, why are you doing this? 1.00

03:09:10.000 Or why are you going to talk to me like that? 1.00

03:09:13.000 Like, you don't want to fucking hear that from a man. 0.94

03:09:15.000 Yeah, I agree, but I'm saying, like, I want to know about their trauma, basically, and I want to... 0.97

03:09:21.000 Getting to know them and their past, that's completely fine if they want to open that door with you.

03:09:27.000 But if you want me to be real with you, with a man, you shouldn't be looking into his closet.

03:09:32.000 You should see the future versus what he had.

03:09:35.000 He's going to automatically show you how he is and what character traits he has to provide for you. 0.97

03:09:41.000 You don't need to dig up some old shit or know what he did in the past. 0.98

03:09:46.000 Like, look forward, not backwards. 0.99

03:09:48.000 You feel me?

03:09:50.000 Crypto AI. Divorced my wife a few months ago.

03:09:56.000 Reasons...

03:09:59.000 Okay, he goes, reasons being, acting too macho, disrespectful, lazy, wanted to go cuddling with her whole sister and friends. 1.00

03:10:06.000 Months later after divorce, she doesn't stop calling.

03:10:08.000 By the way, I lost 40 pounds, fixed myself up, and now seeing many women.

03:10:15.000 Controversial take, but what do I always say?

03:10:17.000 Women only respect you when you can replace them. 1.00

03:10:19.000 That's just a game, bro.

03:10:20.000 That's how it is, my friend.

03:10:22.000 And then JN, modern men have to work five times harder than their grandfathers.

03:10:28.000 For women 20 times worse than what their grandmothers were. 1.00

03:10:31.000 What are your thoughts on Hoflation?

03:10:34.000 Anybody have any comments on this?

03:10:36.000 That's why we need to bring traditional values back.

03:10:39.000 It's so important.

03:10:40.000 This generation is so lost.

03:10:42.000 It's never happening though, unfortunately.

03:10:44.000 I think feminism and modern age society is afforded women so many benefits and privileges that traditional relationships no longer afford them that they're like, dude, you're telling me I can have my cake and eat it too? 1.00

03:10:53.000 Why the fuck am I going to be a housewife? 1.00

03:10:54.000 Fuck that shit. 1.00

03:10:55.000 The floodgates are open. 1.00

03:10:57.000 So sad.

03:10:59.000 Anybody have a comment on this?

03:11:01.000 I thought you would have a comment on it.

03:11:03.000 You were outspoken about the OnlyFans girls. 0.81

03:11:05.000 Yeah, I mean, feminism, women ruin everything. 1.00

03:11:08.000 Feminism has ruined everything for women, too. 1.00

03:11:10.000 They think that they're fighting for women, but it's actually hurting women the most, and that's the sad thing.

03:11:15.000 And too many women are just hearing, become an OnlyFans girl, make your bread, be a boss, babe. 1.00

03:11:20.000 And it's honestly a trap.

03:11:22.000 It's leading them down to a lifelong...

03:11:24.000 Life worth of misery.

03:11:26.000 And before they know it, they will be too old to have kids and no man will want them because the older they get, the more experiences they have, their value goes down.

03:11:33.000 And that's why I try to speak up about it because I feel like not enough young women are hearing this side of things.

03:11:38.000 And I actually got into a Twitter fight recently with Iggy Azalea because her failed rapping career led her to do OnlyFans. 0.99

03:11:45.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

03:11:46.000 She actually asked my husband for a dick pic too on Twitter. 1.00

03:11:48.000 It was a very strange, very strange, sad situation. 0.99

03:11:51.000 What?

03:11:51.000 Yeah, she's...

03:11:53.000 Oh, the mighty have fallen.

03:11:53.000 She's wild, but she tells young girls to start OnlyFans and she's promoting it.

03:11:58.000 And it's just like, I think it's very different if a girl used to do OnlyFans and kind of speaks down upon it and says this is not right for women.

03:12:04.000 But it's a difference when you see these women.

03:12:07.000 And like you guys have said, women by nature are followers. 0.99

03:12:09.000 So they will follow all these girls that they idolize.

03:12:12.000 And so many young women think it's okay to do OnlyFans, not knowing the consequences that are inevitable.

03:12:18.000 Like not being able to find a high value husband.

03:12:20.000 So that's why I like to speak out against it.

03:12:23.000 Twitter sounds lit, bro.

03:12:25.000 You gotta pick and choose what you want to fight with.

03:12:28.000 See, I made Twitter. 1.00

03:12:29.000 I tweet some random shit. 0.99

03:12:30.000 No, you're supposed to retweet, quote, and talk shit to the people that are saying controversy stuff. 0.99

03:12:36.000 And that's how everything is like... 0.98

03:12:38.000 I post on my dog.

03:12:41.000 It's not Instagram. 1.00

03:12:44.000 You don't just post shit just to post shit. 1.00

03:12:46.000 You want shit to talk shit. 1.00

03:12:48.000 Oh, for real? 1.00

03:12:51.000 I guess we'll turn it over to the ladies. 1.00

03:12:52.000 Yes, last part of the show, ladies. 1.00

03:12:54.000 Best part for me.

03:12:55.000 Questions, comments, statements, or last thoughts on the show?

03:12:59.000 How's the show for you?

03:13:01.000 Thank you for having me again.

03:13:01.000 We'll start.

03:13:05.000 It was a great show, like always.

03:13:06.000 Welcome back.

03:13:07.000 She's also polite, man.

03:13:08.000 So sweet.

03:13:09.000 I love her.

03:13:10.000 What about you?

03:13:11.000 Guys, go ahead and follow my Twitch for the behind-the-scenes content for Fresh and Fit.

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03:13:21.000 OnlyFans?

03:13:23.000 Chris?

03:13:24.000 Reach up, Mike, Chris.

03:13:25.000 Anyways.

03:13:28.000 Let me see.

03:13:29.000 It was great.

03:13:30.000 It was great conversations.

03:13:30.000 I loved it.

03:13:31.000 I actually liked this panel.

03:13:33.000 Shout out to this panel. 0.55

03:13:33.000 It was a very good panel. 0.55

03:13:34.000 I know some of you guys might not like some of the things I told you, but I think it was a great, fruitful discussion.

03:13:38.000 Yeah, I just don't understand what I go through here.

03:13:41.000 That's all I'm going to say.

03:13:42.000 And then, honestly, this is my last thought for the chat for what happened on Monday.

03:13:46.000 I just want to say I'm sorry.

03:13:48.000 I felt bad.

03:13:49.000 That wasn't me.

03:13:52.000 But she brought the bad side out of me, and I just want to apologize to you guys.

03:13:57.000 I'm just saying, you know, it's on locals, but I genuinely felt bad over that situation.

03:14:04.000 I wish I could have executed that a little bit better.

03:14:07.000 I told you already, it was self-defense.

03:14:09.000 I know, but I genuinely still feel bad.

03:14:12.000 It's just my heart.

03:14:14.000 Why did you even get into my face? 0.82

03:14:16.000 You ain't had to do that.

03:14:18.000 I see.

03:14:18.000 She deserved it.

03:14:20.000 Well, I gotta be honest, though.

03:14:22.000 If anyone's gonna fight you, I think logically, she wasn't thinking logically.

03:14:26.000 Because they're gonna lose.

03:14:28.000 I don't know.

03:14:28.000 Just saying.

03:14:29.000 But it's on Locals, though. 1.00

03:14:30.000 I don't know what she was thinking, but for the chat, I really genuinely want to say this, because a lot of people were saying a whole bunch of shit. 0.99

03:14:30.000 It's on Locals. 0.99

03:14:36.000 You know, I watch everything, so I just wanted to clear that up.

03:14:39.000 Like, I did not want to do that, genuinely.

03:14:41.000 Like, I felt bad for her. 1.00

03:14:43.000 Fuck the shit, Togriff, man. 1.00

03:14:44.000 Fuck the shit. 1.00

03:14:45.000 What'd you say? 1.00

03:14:46.000 Letting them shit talkers! 1.00

03:14:47.000 Fuck them shit talkers! 1.00

03:14:49.000 Fuck them niggas! 1.00

03:14:51.000 Yeah, I put W Henny Chris in the chat right now, because, hey. 1.00

03:14:54.000 What the?

03:14:54.000 The boys is coming for Icee.

03:14:55.000 No, they're not.

03:14:56.000 They better not.

03:14:57.000 What about you?

03:14:58.000 Oh, um, yeah, thank you guys for having me.

03:15:01.000 I'm always willing to open my mind and experience new things.

03:15:06.000 So I'm happy about the information that everyone was willing to share.

03:15:12.000 Definitely on the path to... 1.00

03:15:15.000 She's like, fuck y'all. 1.00

03:15:15.000 That was fine. 1.00

03:15:22.000 Well, thank you for having me, as everyone is going to say.

03:15:25.000 And, you know, I know the things I say can be offensive to a lot of women, but I'm honestly trying to help you.

03:15:30.000 And I know I can come off a little harsh.

03:15:32.000 That's just my delivery.

03:15:33.000 I enjoy being harsh.

03:15:35.000 Keep doing it, man. 1.00

03:15:36.000 Women need to hear this shit. 1.00

03:15:37.000 They need to hear from a female and they need to hear it. 1.00

03:15:38.000 Stop being dumb hoes. 1.00

03:15:39.000 Yes. 1.00

03:15:40.000 Thank you.

03:15:40.000 And if you want to see more of it, Twitter at Isabella Riley US. But yeah, thank you guys for having me on.

03:15:44.000 It was a lot of fun.

03:15:45.000 I bet you're hungry.

03:15:47.000 Your child is hungry.

03:15:48.000 What about you?

03:15:49.000 This was definitely an interesting experience.

03:15:52.000 I didn't expect to be here at all, guys.

03:15:54.000 So it was definitely nice to hear everyone's opinions.

03:15:56.000 I do value and appreciate them all.

03:15:58.000 But thank you.

03:15:59.000 Glad you made it.

03:16:00.000 I'm happy you stayed.

03:16:01.000 She literally asked me, she was like, I have dinner at 10.30.

03:16:05.000 And I literally looked at her and I was like, it's up to you if you want to capitalize on this opportunity.

03:16:09.000 I told this was going to be 30 minutes.

03:16:10.000 It's like, I'm literally on the street.

03:16:13.000 I'm so serious.

03:16:15.000 Omar, shout out to you, man.

03:16:16.000 It's space time, because it's three hours now.

03:16:18.000 Sorry.

03:16:18.000 Shout out to Omar, man.

03:16:19.000 He's been putting the work.

03:16:21.000 So shout out to you.

03:16:22.000 He saw you.

03:16:23.000 No reputable podcast that's halfway decent.

03:16:26.000 I had no clue.

03:16:27.000 He just said, hey, we're missing two girls. 0.94

03:16:30.000 Y'all want to go?

03:16:31.000 We're like, oh, we got dinner.

03:16:32.000 And he's like, yeah, yeah, y'all make it.

03:16:33.000 Y'all make it. 1.00

03:16:34.000 Shut up. 1.00

03:16:35.000 Shut up. 1.00

03:16:36.000 Shut up. 1.00

03:16:41.000 I want you to watch back the show and let me know your thoughts. 0.99

03:16:45.000 I'd be interested to watch it back with your guy too, especially.

03:16:49.000 What about you?

03:16:50.000 Thank you guys for having me.

03:16:52.000 Thank you, Kim, for inviting me.

03:16:55.000 You know what?

03:16:56.000 I was actually I'm a very outspoken person, but I wanted to stay quiet today.

03:17:02.000 And I said that before I came here.

03:17:03.000 I really wanted to stay quiet because I really want to seek in The first question I asked you, why women are less? 0.91

03:17:11.000 Okay.

03:17:11.000 And I got the answer.

03:17:14.000 And I'm really happy.

03:17:15.000 And I'm really happy all of you guys told me.

03:17:16.000 That's not less than your value.

03:17:18.000 I want to make that very clear.

03:17:19.000 That doesn't mean that women are less than their value. 1.00

03:17:22.000 It's just that women demand more, so therefore they have to be less than their men. 1.00

03:17:25.000 And I agree because at the end of the day, you guys have more experience than me.

03:17:29.000 I'm only 18.

03:17:30.000 Facts.

03:17:30.000 So, I really appreciate all of you guys.

03:17:33.000 That was so sweet.

03:17:34.000 Alright, shout out to the queens. 1.00

03:17:36.000 No, I'm just kidding.

03:17:36.000 With that mindset, you'll go far.

03:17:38.000 Yeah.

03:17:41.000 Thank you for having me.

03:17:43.000 I have learned a lot, and I'm still learning a lot, because I'm going to be honest, I was very masculine.

03:17:49.000 And surprisingly enough, I was raised with both parents, and my dad taught me not to trust men.

03:17:55.000 Which, it's super crazy, but he also used to tell me other...

03:18:01.000 My boyfriend now, when we were first dating before he made us break up, I told my boyfriend, I was like, I want you to control me.

03:18:07.000 I don't know what the context was, but I said that and he was like, you don't ever tell a man you want him to control you.

03:18:12.000 That's the worst thing you can ever do.

03:18:14.000 It's taken a lot of training to break all these bad habits.

03:18:18.000 Listening to other people and Seeing people like...

03:18:22.000 What's your name?

03:18:23.000 Isabella.

03:18:25.000 That actually have successful relationships and things of that sort is really nice.

03:18:29.000 I just wish, like she said, people would speak out more about this.

03:18:32.000 Because when I told people I was coming here and they were like, well, what's a podcast about?

03:18:35.000 And I told them, they were like, oh, well, I don't agree with that.

03:18:38.000 That's weird.

03:18:38.000 And people just judged 100%.

03:18:40.000 I don't know.

03:18:42.000 So we need to know.

03:18:44.000 What?

03:18:44.000 Now, there's info.

03:18:47.000 Mm-hmm. 0.99

03:18:47.000 Can that nigga cheat? 0.99

03:18:49.000 Come on now. 0.99

03:18:50.000 I mean, not my nigga.

03:18:53.000 We tried, bro.

03:18:55.000 Get your values and she'll accept it. 0.99

03:18:56.000 Get that mechanic shit going and everything and she won't have a choice. 1.00

03:19:00.000 I mean, I told him, like, I'm starting to, like, just be, like, whatever. 0.99

03:19:03.000 Because I'm just...

03:19:04.000 Wait, Tarsa, what the what?

03:19:06.000 You gonna let it rock?

03:19:08.000 I mean, I guess it's whatever.

03:19:11.000 You know what's my advice to you?

03:19:14.000 As long as it's not disrespectful and like overtly in your face, then you're great, sweetie.

03:19:22.000 No.

03:19:23.000 I already know what you're going to say.

03:19:26.000 You know what I'm saying?

03:19:27.000 If it's behind closed doors and like, you know what I'm saying?

03:19:31.000 Sorry, I see.

03:19:32.000 Your man sent you here for a reason.

03:19:34.000 He didn't send me here.

03:19:36.000 Chris, Chris, Chris.

03:19:39.000 Okay.

03:19:40.000 Of course, thank you very much for having me.

03:19:43.000 And as Isabella, I'm trying to bring traditional values back.

03:19:47.000 So if you want to follow me on my Twitter, it's Ada LLUCH. Good job, ladies. 1.00

03:19:54.000 All right.

03:19:55.000 Yeah, ladies. 1.00

03:19:56.000 So, guys, all the girls' Instagrams are going to be below. 0.99

03:19:58.000 Make sure to go ahead and send them a dick pic. 1.00

03:20:00.000 I'm sure they'd appreciate it. 0.99

03:20:01.000 Maybe not the marriage girl, but the rest of them will love it, I'm sure.

03:20:05.000 W Show, man.

03:20:06.000 Yeah, W Show.

03:20:07.000 Great panel with ladies. 1.00

03:20:08.000 I like y'all, even though some of you guys disagree with our points, but that's cool.

03:20:10.000 I think that's important to have these conversations.

03:20:12.000 And, guys, don't forget to like the video.

03:20:13.000 Oh, Rumble Rants.

03:20:14.000 Oh, Chris, producer.

03:20:16.000 Ephesians 5.22.

03:20:20.000 824 says, 22 wives, obey your husbands as you obey the Lord.

03:20:26.000 24 wives should obey their husbands in everything. 1.00

03:20:30.000 Just as church people obey Christ.

03:20:32.000 Common Catholic L. 24 wives? 0.93

03:20:35.000 I think it's like the verse 24.

03:20:37.000 You have anything you want to say back to him?

03:20:39.000 You want to say...

03:20:42.000 No, no, I'm just saying, if you take the Bible literally, it's literally, like, been...

03:20:47.000 How else is it to take it, though, if you don't take it?

03:20:49.000 It's God's word.

03:20:51.000 Okay.

03:20:52.000 I'm not going to debate my religion.

03:20:55.000 I've been going to, like, private Catholic school my whole life, so I will take it out. 1.00

03:21:00.000 I want to.

03:21:01.000 So it's open to interpretation.

03:21:02.000 Okay.

03:21:02.000 Yeah, religion is how you take it.

03:21:04.000 Religion is faith.

03:21:05.000 No, it's not.

03:21:06.000 Yeah, okay.

03:21:07.000 If that was the case, I could say the sky is blue because I think it's really...

03:21:12.000 And it's really blue.

03:21:13.000 But you can't tell me how I should serve my Lord.

03:21:17.000 No, no, but it's black and white.

03:21:19.000 You could have said, yes, I can.

03:21:21.000 No, but I'm just saying...

03:21:23.000 But is there black and white for you to read?

03:21:24.000 No, but when you go to class and they give you a scripture to read, they ask you to interpret it in your own words.

03:21:30.000 Not by your own understanding, but who's understanding?

03:21:32.000 The Holy Ghost.

03:21:34.000 But I'm saying, when you go, because I've taken religion classes my whole life, when you go and you read things, they want you to understand and talk about how did that make you feel?

03:21:42.000 What did you take into this consideration?

03:21:44.000 Remember, everything you've been taught as a child is from perception of what people told you to think.

03:21:50.000 So you can't really say, oh, I'm going to interpret it because you don't even know where it's coming from.

03:21:54.000 Your belief system is built off of what people tell you.

03:21:56.000 So, when you read the word, it is literal.

03:21:59.000 Now, Things can be said in parables, or for example, it can be analogies, but for the most part, it is literal.

03:22:04.000 But the Bible is written in someone else's word.

03:22:07.000 Exactly.

03:22:08.000 Inspired by the Holy Ghost.

03:22:10.000 So it takes faith to read the Bible and understand it for what it really is.

03:22:14.000 So you can't just say, oh, I'm going to interpret it this way, that way.

03:22:16.000 It doesn't make any sense.

03:22:16.000 And I went to Catholic school my whole life, too.

03:22:18.000 And the entire time I was in Catholic school, I was a hardcore atheist.

03:22:23.000 A lot of Catholic school is traditions and just really focusing on the church traditions rather than focusing on the literal word of God.

03:22:31.000 That's another thing, though.

03:22:32.000 They live to sin rather than sin to live.

03:22:36.000 I know some of the most godliest people who claim to be, but actually are the...

03:22:41.000 Catholics? 0.92

03:22:43.000 I'm just saying that my religion is...

03:22:45.000 It's very interesting when you guys have these religious...

03:22:47.000 Look at the Pope, bro.

03:22:48.000 Look at the Pope.

03:22:49.000 Look at the Pope, bro.

03:22:51.000 Biggest L ever.

03:22:52.000 Any L? Sorry.

03:22:54.000 Okay, girl too down for my heart.

03:22:55.000 Looks like she could taste food by touching it. 0.99

03:22:58.000 That is so good.

03:23:00.000 You have anything you want to say back to Lepracud?

03:23:02.000 No.

03:23:03.000 All right.

03:23:04.000 All right.

03:23:05.000 Guys, all the girls' Instagrams are below. 0.99

03:23:07.000 Like I said before, I'm sure they'd love some dick pics. 1.00

03:23:09.000 And besides the married girl, maybe. 0.99

03:23:11.000 What does that mean?

03:23:12.000 What does what mean?

03:23:13.000 You can taste food without touching it.

03:23:15.000 They're making fun of me because I'm fat.

03:23:18.000 Oh. 0.99

03:23:19.000 No, you're just big bones. 0.96

03:23:20.000 Let's just end the show. 0.97

03:23:21.000 Let's just end the show.

03:23:23.000 Let's just end the show.

03:23:24.000 End the show.

03:23:25.000 Peace, guys.

03:23:29.000 I'm so far away.

03:23:31.000 I just ran.

03:23:34.000 I ran for night and day.

Fresh & Fit - April 29, 2023

Married TradCon Woman Debates Independent Black Queens!

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