On this episode of the Fresh & Fit Podcast, we have two OG's in the house. They have been in the NBA for 15+ years and have been a part of the game for a long time. We talk about their journey and how they got their start in the game. We also talk about the current state of the NBA and how the game has changed over the years. We also discuss the new documentary Game Kings: Part 2 which is out now in theaters and will be in a theater this Saturday in Miami. Game Kings is a documentary about the life and career of Myron Miles, who played for the Los Angeles Lakers and has been a member of the original NBA team, the Golden State Warriors. We will be at the screening of Game Kings Part 2 on Saturday, February 15th in Miami, Florida. Tickets will be sold at the box office in advance of the screening. Tickets start at $19.95 and go up to $29.95 at the movie theater. Tickets go on sale Friday, February 16th at 7 PM EST. Thank you for listening and supporting the podcast! Thank you so much for tuning in and stay tuned for more episodes of The Fresh and Fit Podcast. Stay tuned for Part 2 of GameKings: Part II of the Game Kings Documentary! We are looking forward to seeing you all in theaters this Saturday! Stay tuned to The Fresh + Fit Podcast! and stay tune for the screening! Love ya'll! - The Real Loco Loco (featuring Myron and Myron . and the Real Mr. Loco! (Real Loco!!) , Real Locaro - Real Locao & the Real Locario . . . , , Myron ( ) Real Locio ( ) - , and The Real Mr Locaro ( ) . ( ) ( ) , and , with with , R. Locario ( ) with the Podcast, Myron & Myron, Jr. ( ) and ! ( . & ( , & podcast, ) ( , ) with . , ... ( ) & , We are going to be doing a live show in Miami Podcast, We are doing a Q&A! , we will be doing the screening in Miami on Saturday February 15, 2019. , Miami, Miami, FL!
00:10:58.000If you guys are watching on YouTube, that's fine, but if you guys don't mind, go on rumble.com slash freshandfit, and you can watch us in damn near 4K. Right now we're streaming this on pretty much almost 4K. The only reason we're not doing a full-on 4K is because our switcher doesn't go for it, but it does go up to like 1440, etc.
00:11:16.000So you're going to notice a noticeable difference between the quality on YouTube versus on Rumble, man.
00:11:23.000So open up the tab and watch on Rumble.
00:11:24.000And if you want the best quality, watch from your TV screen itself.
00:11:27.000I'm telling you, the best 4K quality you're going to have is on this current app right now on your TV. Rumble app.
00:11:33.000So, sorry guys, that's why we delayed a little bit.
00:12:03.000But the fact that we're back here and y'all still going.
00:12:10.000I'm just happy that you guys are getting famous.
00:12:14.000Listen, you guys are paying a lot of people's bills on YouTube because you got a lot of content creators that make videos based on what y'all are doing.
00:14:46.000So that means if you get with me, It's not going to be easy street because I need to be satisfied because there ain't no happy wife, happy life bullshit.
00:15:43.000Because if I'm walking down the street and somebody's having trouble with a flat tire, I want them to feel that they can come to me and ask me, hey man, could you help me out with this?
00:15:53.000Because those are the type of things that a man will help out with.
00:15:57.000So I need to look like a man so they can know where to come for help.
00:16:00.000Yeah, it is such a thing as toxic masculinity in the minds of a bitch-ass motherfucker.
00:16:07.000Talk about masculinity, assertiveness, authenticity, transparency.
00:16:12.000How can a guy who's straight up and honest with what he does be toxic?
00:16:16.000If the media can train you to think something bad about it, you hear the word and you want to instantly have a certain reaction.
00:16:48.000That was an invented concept from a weak motherfucker that was like, I'm just tired of this motherfucker trying to...
00:16:56.000Tell me what to do and bully you over me with this bullshit.
00:17:00.000What's going to make you successful is just understanding who you are and getting your mind right and being happy with who you are.
00:17:06.000That is the thing that's going to really make you successful.
00:17:08.000Because after you get all the toys, after you get all these things going on, you've had sex with all the women you want to have sex with, you've traveled all the places, you're still going to be you, and you're going to always come back to you.
00:19:28.000I think what happens is now more than ever, it's going to be harder for guys to attract women if they don't know how to do it.
00:19:40.000Because before, it was kind of like, okay, I could probably get some money.
00:19:44.000I could get my status up, all these different things.
00:19:47.000And that helped a little bit back in the day as far as just attracting a woman.
00:19:51.000Now what happens is because of social media, because of dating apps, all these different things, right?
00:19:57.000It's going to be harder because all the things that you could have got A chick from before, they've already been through it.
00:20:04.000So meaning, because I heard even a lot of guys say it's hard on dating apps now.
00:20:07.000It's like they can't even get a date on dating apps.
00:20:08.000The reason why it's hard on dating apps now is because all the girls that you're trying to smash already got smashed by all the guys that they want to get smashed by.
00:20:17.000So now you're trying to smash, and she's like, I'm tired of that.
00:20:19.000I don't want a guy that cares about me.
00:20:21.000You know, all the girls that you're trying to make something happen with, another guy came before and gave her the money you was going to give her.
00:20:27.000They was going to give her the clout you was going to give her.
00:20:29.000They had the better status than you had.
00:20:32.000All those things that you thought can get you the girl, you can't use that anymore.
00:21:04.000and and to and to add to what he's saying as far as in not understanding how to be like yourself and how to enhance what self is right I'll say another thing that's that's stopping men is that is the single parent mother household okay now now listen I'm not even gonna get into females and all that other shit but But here's the thing.
00:21:28.000Psychologically, the young man, because he had no father in the house to kind of prove himself to, he's always been proving himself to a woman.
00:21:40.000So what happens is, with all the difficulties that LaCarrie just talked about, about the dating game and this and that and this, even when you get enough courage to go talk to a woman, Even that instance of going up to talk to her, it's like, in that man's mind, he's trying to prove himself to the woman.
00:24:23.000What happens is, and what Miles is saying is this, a lot of guys, what they do is they see a girl and they're attracted to the girl, so they're trying to get the girl to like them, right?
00:24:32.000I don't give a fuck about a girl liking me.
00:24:34.000What happens is when you have game, what you're saying is, is I already know I'm likable.
00:25:12.000So this is why it's so hard for a lot of guys to understand this because a lot of guys see us and they're like, man, Lucario and Miles be talking all that nonsense.
00:25:27.000But what happens is the reason why I was able to basically sleep with hundreds of girls, like I stopped counting after damn it 300, the reason why I was able to have a wife and a girlfriend, the reason why I was able to do all these things when it comes to the dating game is because I had 100% confidence in who I am.
00:25:45.000So meaning that I'm good with or without a woman.
00:25:49.000Most guys are only good or feel good when they're with a woman.
00:26:25.000The problem is the world has told you you're not good enough unless you have this amount of money.
00:26:29.000You're not good enough unless you look like this.
00:26:31.000You're not good enough unless you have that.
00:26:33.000So what happens is that once you stop listening to that nonsense and then you start only giving a fuck about what you want and what you're about, then that's when things start to happen for you.
00:26:45.000Whenever I'm talking to a woman, I'm only looking for her to reflect who I am.
00:26:50.000So what happens is the confidence comes in when, for example, if I'm talking to a girl and she's begging to see me, she's texting me.
00:27:01.000Everything she's saying is everything I've said to myself a million times.
00:27:05.000So what happens is that I already recognize that I'm that guy because everything I do, everything I touch, everything that's happening in my life is a reflection of me.
00:27:15.000So a lot of times what happens is most guys, their reflection is people shitting on them, people telling them they're not enough, people telling them that they don't mean anything.
00:27:23.000And what happens is that that reflection is correct right now because that's how they feel about themselves.
00:27:29.000So Everybody in your life is telling you something about you.
00:27:35.000But when you have confidence, when you understand who the fuck you are, all of those things when you're dealing with women, you only deal with women who reflect you.
00:27:42.000So if I talk to a girl today, I walk up to her and I say, hey, how you doing?
00:27:45.000And she gives me a dirty look or she sucks her teeth and she don't want to talk to me.
00:27:49.000That's the end of the conversation, because obviously she doesn't recognize value.
00:28:09.000I think it's really important that you address something there that I think a lot of guys don't understand.
00:28:15.000You said as soon as the girl shows some type of, you know, behavior that is not conducive to your success, you cut her right away.
00:28:21.000I think a lot of guys kind of come in and say, oh, I hope she likes me, and they'll try to build attraction with a very low-interest girl, which It's absolutely possible, right?
00:28:36.000But I think a lot of guys kind of had this idea where I'm just going to chase after, chase after, chase after.
00:28:42.000I'm going to do all this sucker shit, and I'll eventually get her.
00:28:46.000But Even if you do get her, you got her under the wrong pretenses.
00:28:49.000So, can you talk to the guys a little bit about dealing with women and having the skill set to be able to identify girls that have low interest in moving on versus trying to make something work with that girl?
00:29:03.000Well, again, it has to do with what you think of yourself.
00:29:07.000The real problem with what you're talking about as far as seeing a girl that doesn't have a certain amount of interest but still trying to go for her...
00:29:17.000It is the product of a man who thinks he deserves that type of treatment.
00:31:00.000And that's what I'm going to be focused on.
00:31:01.000So you were talking about having the skill set to deal with women and to know when a woman is treating me a certain way as opposed to know when a woman is treating me correctly.
00:31:11.000That has everything to do with how I treat myself.
00:31:14.000Because it is the lifestyle that I create for myself that teaches me how someone else should be treating me.
00:31:22.000So if I spend all my time thinking good, positive thoughts about me, and then I come across a person that somehow has a negative thought or treats me negatively, it's like I can instantly see I'm not supposed to be talking to this person.
00:32:19.000When you treat yourself a certain way, you understand?
00:32:22.000When you dress a certain way, you groom yourself a certain way, you speak a certain way, you have a certain mindset, that will attract the type of women that will treat you the way you're supposed to be treated.
00:32:33.000Because they're gonna see all that shit on you.
00:32:51.000If you go on a date with a girl, first date, and you want to have sex with her, and you express that you want to have sex with her, and she tells you, let's wait, you should drop her immediately.
00:33:00.000Because this is what you got to understand.
00:33:32.000Now, why did the sexless marriage happen?
00:33:34.000The sexless marriage occurred because when you first wanted to have sex with her, she denied you, which means she doesn't really like you.
00:33:41.000So she married you based on the fact that you're consistent, but when y'all got into the relationship, she was never sexually attracted to you like that because if she was really sexually attracted to you, she would have had sex with you on the first date when you said you wanted to have sex.
00:33:54.000So now you're like, oh, how come I'm in this marriage and my wife doesn't want to have sex?
00:33:57.000Your wife never wanted to have sex with you.
00:33:59.000And that's because you were chasing a woman who wasn't really sexually attracted to you.
00:34:04.000And the reason why you were chasing a woman that wasn't really sexually attracted to you is because you didn't love yourself enough.
00:34:12.000To only deal with women on your terms.
00:34:15.000To only deal with women who do what you want to do when you want to do it.
00:34:18.000Because if you did that, you would have dropped that girl on the first date when she wasn't doing what you wanted her to do.
00:34:24.000See, this is why a lot of guys are in sexist marriages.
00:34:45.000Look, let me tell y'all something, man.
00:34:48.000I had a guy on a call the other day, and shout out to him if he's listening.
00:34:52.000But, you know, he asked me, you know, how do you know how many times, like, for example, you know, how often you should have sex with your girl?
00:35:24.000And he was like, well, you know, I don't know.
00:35:26.000And see, it's just an example of how these guys have been trained to think with this society and the things that's going on in society.
00:35:32.000I said to him, I said, bro, this is how much of a leader you have to be.
00:35:37.000You are the one who dictates how often you have sex in your relationship.
00:35:41.000Because once, you don't want to ever be with a woman.
00:35:45.000Who's not always ready to have sex with you.
00:35:48.000Your woman should always be ready to have, unless it's that time of the month, or there's some actual health issue, or the doctor's like, listen, Myron, for two weeks, no strenuous activity, no sex.
00:36:02.000And then you look at the doctor, you're like, yeah, right, doc, I'm fucking it tonight.
00:36:05.000But the bottom line is what I'm saying.
00:36:07.000Unless there's an actual reason, like a health, physical reason, you should be with a woman that understands that you entering her is a part of It's a part of you being together.
00:37:22.000We're not saying, like, consent is important.
00:37:25.000The problem is, is that if you're in a relationship and you feel like you have to ask your woman for consent, that means that you're dealing with a woman who don't like you.
00:38:03.000I think men are really comfortable with being with a girl that doesn't like them that much.
00:38:07.000And I don't think men understand how it's kind of like a cancer, a tumor.
00:38:12.000Like, if you get with a girl, right, and she just tolerates you, or she's in a relationship with you for some other necessity, maybe you bring a lot of money.
00:39:54.000So, what's happening here, guys, is that right now, Silky's talking to this chick, and out of the corner of the room, so mentions Duke Dennis.
00:40:04.000If you don't know who that is, he's a popular streamer, friends with Kai Sanat, and he's a good-looking dude, pause, right?
00:41:21.000They put them on, yeah, whacking off the chicks, whatever it may be.
00:41:23.000Like, there's this entire ecosystem, right, of huge influencers that are guys, a lot of them in their teens, by the way, or 20s, that don't understand themselves.
00:41:34.000They're around some attractive women, but they're simple for these girls not knowing their own value that you actually carry way more value than these fucking girls that you're platforming.
00:42:10.000I could show you a million from Twitch, Kick, whatever, with these very influential young guys that do stupid shit or emasculate themselves or get embarrassed by women and people completely accept it.
00:42:38.000And how young men will watch this and think, oh yeah, it's normal to just have women completely berate me and disrespect me and speak to me like, nigga.
00:43:25.000There's so many different things at play and I want to get your guys' take on this.
00:43:29.000Because I've like thought about this, like why the fuck are we having the problems that we're having?
00:43:34.000So on one end, you have women that are utilizing social media, dating apps, etc., what you were saying before.
00:43:42.000They're able to now experience and acquire things that are no longer novel that used to be novel via the internet.
00:43:50.000They've been able to outsource their feminine needs through men through the internet, getting attention on social media, getting likes, etc.
00:43:57.000It used to be a chick has to present herself, go outside, and actually speak to fucking people.
00:44:01.000Now she's able to get that attention which is what women want via the internet.
00:44:05.000Then on the opposing side with the men, we got a generation of young men who are highly influential that are on the internet with hundreds of thousands of people watching them that have never actually built themselves up or gotten themselves to a point where they've suffered enough to appreciate the success that they're currently experiencing.
00:44:25.000And then you compound that with the fact that they're bringing on regular ass bitches on their streams Simping for them, thinking that that woman holds more value than they do because they haven't accomplished anything at 22 years old.
00:44:36.000So they're like, damn, this girl's bad.
00:44:38.000I need to qualify to her, unbeknownst to them that this woman actually has significantly less value than them.
00:44:43.000And that's from her being on social media all day thinking that she's the fucking shit.
00:44:47.000So it's like we have this fucking dangerous storm where we're seeing...
00:44:52.000Super privileged and cocky arrogant females Alongside men that don't understand their fucking value simple for these women and that this is being seen to by millions of young men and they think oh It's appropriate behavior for me to sit here and listen to and accept and tolerate Poor behavior for women that don't respect my authority, right?
00:45:10.000And that is why we have the fucking problem We have now in society where young men don't know what the fuck they're doing That's what you're truly thinking.
00:45:17.000I just see this shit as a cancer in society.
00:46:27.000When we first came to the Fresh and Fit show, when y'all, you know, the first, first, I think it was like maybe the first second show when it was like probably 500 people watching or whatever.
00:46:35.000And I remember I came into your studio and I had this thought and I was like, God damn.
00:46:40.000Myron and Fresh got their shit fire, right?
00:46:42.000And the first thing that popped in my head was I said, Myron and Fresh are doing this better than me.
00:46:48.000And then what happened is, I remember I called you and I said, yo, Myron, what's the thing you're using for your mixer, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:46:53.000So then after that, and you guys can check this on YouTube, after that, I got better cameras, I got better equipment, and then I started, right.
00:47:00.000But the reason why that happened was because you guys put yourselves in a position for me to notice that, to say, oh, that's better than what I'm doing, so I got upgraded mentally based on your position.
00:47:13.000So that's how men have to do when they're dealing with women.
00:47:16.000Your position as men is important because a woman has to look up to you and say, man, he's doing life this way, and I want to be a part of this, and he's teaching me things.
00:47:52.000If you knew you were the shit, right, and some girl said some disrespectful shit like that, do you need to flip a fucking chair or a table?
00:49:05.000The point being is that women naturally want this.
00:49:08.000So if you go ahead and you act like this, you disbehavior, because it's really important that you mention, your behavior dictates your value, not you just saying it.
00:49:15.000Him to flip in a chair and all this other shit implies that she has more value than him because he's scared to lose her.
00:50:00.000Whether it's for clicks or views or whatever, I don't think they understand that the long-standing effect of this is you're telling young men all over the place to put women on a pedestal, to express your emotions and frustrations through slamming shit, and most importantly, that it's acceptable for you to tolerate that fuckery from females.
00:52:45.000It's the dumbest thing and it's little things like that.
00:52:48.000powerful right again so that then add in this partner thing then you add in streams like this that's what you add in this whole culture that we have where women are supposed to be bosses then we have this other thing where it's socially acceptable be friends with females like when you look it's guys we haven't got to this position where guys are in a fucked up situation overnight This has been decades of paper cut here, paper cut there, paper cut there, programming.
00:53:14.000It's been decades of programming and propaganda.
00:53:25.000Half the people watching this podcast right now, y'all might not even know that what I analyzed when I looked at that clip, I was like, holy shit, this is a fucking problem.
00:53:32.000A normal person would be like, wow, that's really entertaining.
00:53:35.000I'm looking at this and I'm like, holy fuck, this guy has a bunch of influence behaving like this.
00:53:39.000Because I'm looking at it from the future.
00:53:41.000And then I also know, if I compound this problem with the social media problem we have with women, and how they have an overinflated sense of self-worth without earning anything, I'm like, fuck, we're on a path to fucking disaster in the next 20 to 30 years.
00:53:53.000Marriage rates are plummeting, divorces are high.
00:53:56.000Guys are having an issue with finding and dating women and then some of the guys that are struggling the most with females are young guys in this fucking age group because they think it's appropriate to behave that way with women and they don't understand the concept that you just gave.
00:54:29.000There's no respect for the patriarchy anymore.
00:54:32.000Now, you get these stupid bitches running around saying, the patriarchy is bad.
00:54:37.000Bitch, the patriarchy gave you the ability to talk on this mic and say the stupid shit that you're saying right now, bitch.
00:54:42.000If we had women in positions of power and we had to rely on them for human endeavors and fulfillment, we would literally still be fucking rubbing sticks together in the Stone Age.
00:55:14.000Like, how's your woman gonna respect you, coming home every day, and you're sitting there on the fucking TV, oh yeah, dinner's ready, I cleaned up the house.
00:56:19.000But what I was basically saying is this.
00:56:21.000Anytime a woman does not like you, like she doesn't really like you, You have to compensate for what she doesn't like.
00:56:29.000So, for example, if I meet a woman and she's into me 100%, I don't have to do anything but just be there, exist, and be me and do what I do.
00:56:40.000If I meet a woman and she likes me, let's say, 70%, then there's 30% missing.
00:56:46.000And that 30% is, I gotta take her out on a bunch of dates.
00:56:52.000So anytime a woman is demanding any type of money from you or expecting money from you, that means that she doesn't really like you and you have to compensate by giving her money.
00:57:02.000Because what she's essentially saying is...
00:57:04.000I don't really like you that much, so it's going to only be worth my while to deal with you if you give me money so that I can feel like this is worth my time.
00:57:14.000But the reason why you need to give her money and do all these other extra things is because she's not really into you.
00:57:20.000And it doesn't even necessarily mean to be just money.
00:57:22.000It could be like spending more time with her on the phone or hanging out with her and talking with her.
00:57:27.000But it's basically anything where a woman is demanding something of you, that means she's not fully, fully interested in you, which is why you've got to pay, which is why you've got to spend more time, which is why you've got to do all this other extra stuff.
00:57:39.000So a lot of guys, they think it's normal.
00:57:42.000They think it's been normalized to say, well, you're a man, so you've got to give her this.
00:57:46.000And so they don't even think nothing of it.
00:57:49.000Women are going to take advantage of you if they don't like you, because they say, well, I know you want this vagina, and in order to get to the vagina, we're going to have to pay up.
00:58:01.000And I think it's very important that the audience kind of understand this situation, because when you were explaining it before, I was like, oh, wow, this makes perfect sense, because as you guys know, I say, hey, you need to be the protector, the provider, etc., that you are the leader, so that means you have responsibilities.
00:58:14.000But I think it's also very important for men to understand just because you're capable of being a protector and provider doesn't mean you need to give it to every female.
00:58:38.000They'll go ahead, because like you said before, and I love that you said that, If a girl doesn't like you, there's a deficiency in your sexual market value.
00:58:44.000Let's say you have money, but you're fat, right?
00:58:47.000Well, she's not sexually aroused by you.
00:58:49.000So now you have to compensate for her lack of arousal in you or your lower sexual market value by paying for everything.
00:58:56.000That's how you end up with these sugar baby, sugar daddy relationships where he has to pay to basically get something that should be for free because she likes him.
00:59:05.000So I think it is important where that's a great test to employ or to deploy.
00:59:11.000Whenever you're with a girl and you suspect that...
00:59:13.000Well, I mean, you should already fucking know.
00:59:15.000Some guys need to get smacked in the face sometimes.
00:59:17.000That's a great test to deploy to see if she likes you.
00:59:19.000If you say, oh, let's go half and half here, and she bucks or any of that other shit, then you know that she doesn't like you like that.
00:59:25.000She's only dealing with you for a financial necessity to some degree.
00:59:37.000And for guys that maybe are newer to the game or just kind of getting in, and they're not familiar with how women are able to extract resources for men so effortlessly, you might have to go ahead and apply that in the beginning.
01:00:13.000You know, like some of the pookies at Ray Ray's, fresh out of jail, As soon as he gets home, he got access to the Benz, the house, the bank account, everything.
01:01:49.000You got women here, especially in Miami, right, living in these expensive apartments, and you're like, wait, you work at Wendy's, you work at Target.
01:01:56.000How are you paying for this apartment?
01:01:57.000You kind of find out, you go to her crib, nicely decked out, all the latest furniture, nice equipment, even Alexa's in there chilling.
01:02:04.000Then you're like, um, how much is rent over here?
01:02:45.000So, I can see, like, it's a good tactic to use if you're, like, out with a girl and you, like, suspect, like, okay, I don't think this girl really fucks with me.
01:04:27.000And that's what guys think when they don't have game because that's not their reality.
01:04:31.000Actually, let's talk about this, because this whole 50-50 thing just took a different turn.
01:04:35.000Because I think when you say 50-50, people assume that means you guys are seated at a place, the bill comes, and it's like, alright, give me half.
01:04:42.000No, you're saying 50-50 in all effort, as in, you need to come to me, you need to put in some effort.
01:05:52.000Most of the people who are watching this, most of the people who are watching the internet, most of the people who are even watching the stuff that we do on our channels, they're not men.
01:06:00.000They want to be men, but they're not men.
01:06:13.000And this is why they get run by women.
01:06:15.000And this is the thing I'm going to say too, because I think this is very important.
01:06:18.000When you're dealing with a woman, because we were talking about earlier, you know, like dealing with a woman who doesn't like you, right?
01:06:24.000Dealing with a woman who doesn't like you is dangerous.
01:06:26.000Because what happens is you start to...
01:06:29.000Deal with women in ways where you have to sort of give them something like money or more time and all this other stuff in order to get the girl.
01:06:37.000So now what happens is when you, for example, run out of money and you can't give her any more money, now she's pissed because now she feels like you cheated her.
01:06:47.000So now, even though you might not have done anything to her, she's gonna feel slighted because you not giving her money is doing something to her.
01:07:02.000And the reason why she's acting like that is because she got so dependent on what you were giving her and that was our relationship.
01:07:08.000So by you not giving it to her, she feels some type of weight and she feels almost like you're using and abusing her because she's like, why am I still dealing with this guy when he's not giving me what I want and I don't like him?
01:07:20.000So now if I don't like you and you touch me, what does that say?
01:07:29.000It's amazing the reception a man gets based on how much the girl likes him.
01:07:34.000If you make a joke, like a sexual joke, if she likes you, she'll say, oh my god, Tommy, stop.
01:07:41.000But if she doesn't like you, she'll say, oh, sexual harassment.
01:07:44.000The action is the same, but what matters is who conducted said action.
01:07:49.000And I think men need to understand that Depending on who you are dictates how the women are going to treat you, right?
01:07:57.000And the other thing, too, that you mentioned, which I think this is something that's very underrated advice, because a lot of guys make this mistake.
01:08:02.000They want to plan a first date or whatever, and they want to meet halfway or go to her.
01:08:11.000Guys complain about women, blah, blah, and then I'll ask some questions, and then I figure out most of the dates that they go on, they go to her!
01:08:18.000Or worse yet, they meet in the middle.
01:08:38.000Yeah, so basically the reason why it's a bad idea is because, like I said, everything is about positioning, right?
01:08:44.000So, if I'm going to you, right, all the way to you, or I'm meeting you halfway, what happens is that, remember I was talking about earlier, a woman has to see you as better, or at least equal.
01:10:59.000Why do you think there's so much debate now about, oh, well, this type of women are men and men and we have to talk about pregnant people and partners and They want to create all this fucking confusion because nature already told us exactly what the fuck it is.
01:11:29.000As a matter of fact, you could get another pawn to the other side of the board and turn that into a fucking queen.
01:11:35.000So, women are absolutely replaceable and the game of chess proves that, right?
01:11:39.000It's one of the best embodiments of human life, etc.
01:11:41.000The other thing I also want to say, too, from what you guys mentioned from, like, you know, the reason why you don't want to go to her is to maintain frame and etc.
01:11:47.000I think the other reason, too, is that The unfortunate reality that men need to understand in 2024 is that women will waste your time if you allow them to.
01:11:55.000And by you going to her, what you're basically doing is you're over-investing.
01:12:00.000You already have to invest enough by planning the date and everything else like that.
01:12:05.000So when you deal with girls, you almost have to mitigate risk and try to cut losses before they can occur.
01:12:10.000Because we know that they're incentivized to waste your fucking time, use you on dates, etc.
01:12:15.000Because that's what they're programmed to do.
01:12:17.000Literally, we have an entire culture where women brag about how many free dates they can go on in a week in New York City.
01:12:28.000You're courage to do this, there's a culture that reinforces this behavior at the cost of men, to the detriment of men.
01:12:35.000So you need to almost run game where it's like, all right, let me make sure I can screen this girl out if she's a time waster or not.
01:12:41.000I would actually argue that's probably one of the most important skills is vetting out Time wasters, which we talked about before with low-interest women.
01:12:50.000A lot of guys will sit there and like, oh, let me build interest with this girl, build interest with this girl.
01:12:53.000So try to build a house on a faulty foundation because she don't like you that much.
01:12:56.000The analogy you gave where you marry her and then she don't want to fuck you no more.
01:13:00.000But you fucked up when you first met her because she didn't like you like that.
01:13:22.000- We're done, we're good. - And you go talk to another girl that has higher interest versus trying to build the time and rapport for some bitch that doesn't like you.
01:13:29.000And the thing too is, and this is exactly why, when you deal with women, you have to, have to, have to test women.
01:13:37.000So I know a lot of times what happens is, I know you guys heard pickup artists and stuff, and you probably heard it before where they say, you know, a woman will shit test you.
01:13:45.000See, a woman shit testing you is actually disrespect.
01:13:48.000A woman should actually not be shit testing you.
01:13:50.000Because how is the student testing the teacher?
01:14:35.000But you have to test women at all times.
01:14:37.000Because when you test women, what you're essentially saying is, you're saying, I have to test you to see if you're worth being here.
01:14:45.000So, for example, when I brought up the other thing about, you want to date with a girl, you want to have sex with her, you tell her, hey, let's go back to my place.
01:14:50.000And she says, oh, let's wait, I don't want to do that and everything.
01:14:54.000Because now that I see she's not willing to follow me from jump, that means I should get rid of her now.
01:15:00.000Because basically she failed the test.
01:15:02.000Because if she passed the test, what that would mean is she's doing what I say, which means that I would continue to deal with her as long as she's doing what I say.
01:15:12.000And then what happens is that if she does what I say consistently, then I will upgrade her to girlfriend, which means now she actually can be a girlfriend to a man.
01:15:26.000that um good looking girl and she had a boy a guy she was talking to back and forth lived in orlando she lived i think i think she lived in Miami and she brought up the question that he asked her and the question was hey babe i need some money can you send me 30 bucks now the first time she did it she said 30 bucks and it was great with the long still talking he asked again hey babe something came up i need 15 bucks and Believe it or not, you know what she said in her head?
01:15:53.000She said, I don't know about this one.
01:16:51.000The issue really is that in those situations, you know, a woman, again, if she sees you as that guy, then she's gonna follow through regardless.
01:17:03.000Now, this is what sometimes will happen with women is that if a woman has a question, this is how women who have game will deal with you.
01:17:11.000If I say to a woman, go downstairs and pass me, give me that hammer, she might be thinking, what does he need the hammer for?
01:17:19.000But what she's going to do is, she's going to go downstairs, hand me the hammer, then she'll ask the question.
01:17:26.000So, she does what I say, and if she's inquiring, then she will ask the question.
01:17:31.000So, with that guy, he says, hey, give me $15.
01:17:33.000She should give him the $15, and she'd be like, hey, by the way, you know, so what do you need all this money for?
01:17:38.000That's fine, because you're doing what I say first, and then you're following up asking questions later.
01:17:43.000Because you may not understand why I'm doing what I'm doing, and what I'm doing, because I'm doing it my way.
01:17:49.000So, of course, you're probably not going to know unless I already taught you.
01:17:52.000So there are times when those are teachable moments for me to teach you why I'm doing what I'm doing.
01:17:56.000But first, you need to listen and do what I say.
01:21:24.000But yeah, I think it's important to test your girl because at some point, she has to show that she's actually for you and not for you at some point.
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01:25:13.000I'll never forget when Miles told the girl the only reason we're in the same room is because this show was one of the realest shit I ever heard.
01:25:18.000Shout out to miles and look That be sure reminds me the older FF what's your guys opinion on chicks letting you smash on the first day?
01:25:28.000She had three affordes that mean you did a great job showing her a good time and building that attraction regular question No, that that means that she's sexually attracted to you highly if you're a guy who has games So if a woman's never wanted to have sex with you ever, I mean if you've never had a woman want to have sex with you and then all of a sudden out the blue this bad joint wanted to smash, then she's a hoe.
01:25:49.000Now, if you're the type of guy who always gets sex easily and it's easy for you to make it happen, then that's because you're that guy.
01:25:56.000So, you gotta understand, if you're that guy, women are gonna wanna have sex with you quickly.
01:28:28.000So the 10, you know, you want to go to the rooftop parties, go to the yacht parties, go to the different places and meet these women, right?
01:28:39.000But you still got to run your program.
01:28:42.000When I say your game, run your program, meaning do things the way you do them.
01:28:48.000I know if you might go to a place where there's bottles flowing and there's yachts and there's a lot of money flowing and then you tell a chick, meet me for drinks.
01:28:57.000She's going to look at you like, oh, well, I only go on dinner dates and da-da-da-da.
01:29:01.000You're looking for the woman that is, no matter what you said, she wants to go.
01:29:06.000So you said, oh, meet me so we can watch paint dry at my house.
01:30:09.000So that's what causes the 10 not to want to fuck with you because she's like, this guy's a loser because you're acting like a loser in front of the girl you think is a 10.
01:30:16.000So if you would treat the 10 like a 6 or the 5 or whatever and treat all of them the same, you'd be fine.
01:30:23.000And all you do is talk to those girls that you are physically attracted to, that you think are a 10, you holler at them, and then you will find the 10 that is attracted to you.
01:30:30.000But you gotta make sure that you are not...
01:30:33.000Getting tricked in your own mind to treat her differently because you think she's a 10.
01:32:15.000Experience is a hell of a thing, too, because a lot of guys will try to disprove what you have to say, and it's sad that they try to disprove what you have to say.
01:32:28.000Because they don't have any proof otherwise.
01:33:26.000You know, guys, once you actually get a girl that's infatuated with you and will follow your lead and does what you say and is obedient and dutiful, trust me, you will not be able to tolerate fuckery from women again.
01:35:10.000So I want all of you guys to have the same mindset that I have, where if a girl isn't complying, you're just basically saying goodbye.
01:35:16.000But a lot of guys have never experienced burning genuine desire, so they look at you and they'll say, you're lying, or that's cap, or I'm blackpilled, looks matter for everything.
01:35:23.000And it's like, no, man, if you're that guy and a girl really likes you, It is absolutely possible for every other guy to be invisible to her.
01:35:31.000But guys have never built that up because their sexual market value is low, they don't have gain, whatever it may be, and they have to compensate for low said sexual market value by doing other things.
01:35:41.000A lot of the times financial compensation.
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01:36:25.000So what you're going to get is that you're going to get a two-hour documentary on manhood, because it's called Game King's The Definition of Man.
01:36:31.000So you're getting a two-hour documentary on manhood, and guys, I'm telling you, you need this documentary because it's going to teach you the things your father never taught you.
01:37:33.000And yeah, man, we hope to see you out there.
01:37:35.000Think of the best conversation you've ever seen your uncles have and you as just a little kid, like a fly on the wall, listening to some grown men speak some real shit about life and manhood and what being a man actually is.
01:37:48.000That's what you're going to get from this documentary.
01:37:50.000And you're going to have some of the guys from the documentary in the room and at the end of it...
01:37:56.000Like Licario said, we're doing a question and answer.
01:38:38.000Yeah, again, hit me up on Instagram at RealMrLocario.
01:38:43.000Also go to BadBoyMembership.com because on BadBoyMembership.com, it's a membership program that teaches you step-by-step how to navigate in the dating game, and it's 45-90 minute audio and video dating advice tutorials.
01:38:56.000So all you got to do is join it, watch the videos, take notes, and then implement the stuff.
01:39:02.000Literally, you could do that that day.
01:39:04.000Everything that's on there, you just listen to it, learn it, and go out there and attract women.
01:39:08.000So go to badboymembership.com right now to join the Bad Boy membership.
01:39:12.000Yep, and he's got programs on there about vetting women, how to use dating apps, how to talk to women, get them back to your place, how to approach women in groups.
01:39:20.000All of that shit that you have in trouble with right now, he tells you step by step what to do.
01:39:25.000How to take pictures on the dating app to get you laid.
01:39:28.000Like literally how to pose, what type of pictures to take.
01:39:47.000In this membership, what you're going to get is videos on gratitude, appreciation, consistency, and what it means to develop yourself as a man, your own identity.
01:40:02.000And not only that, you get a library of videos that tell you Core principles on what it takes to develop your masculine identity.
01:40:10.000And I also do nightly Zoom calls, Monday through Saturday, where it's a community of guys and we chop up a lot of games.
01:40:17.000And y'all know, like, it's something about that kind of late night time where your brain just works a little different, where you see things.
01:40:23.000You go through your entire day and you see things for what they really are.
01:40:27.000And we get on the call together, guys, and we chop up a lot of game.
01:40:30.000So we do a Zoom call every night, Monday through Saturday.
01:40:33.000So you get a library of information and you get constant support on the Zoom calls where we all exchange ideas.