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00:10:17.000Well, she would know at her age, she'd been around from the very beginning.
00:10:19.000Well, it started off as house and techno between Chicago and Detroit and New York and London and everything, X, Y, Z. But what you guys know of today, like the Rufus of Soul and all that stuff, that's new.
00:10:33.000Well, I mean, I guess it's debatable, but in modern day times, people pretty much say, when they say house, whether it's house, trance, dubstep, whatever, it all falls under EDM. It's under the same house umbrella.
00:19:04.000Okay, so they don't mind that you do that.
00:19:09.000They shouldn't, and if they do, that's their problem.
00:19:12.000Well, I mean, wouldn't it be fair to say that if they employ you, they reserve the right to also terminate you if you don't adhere to, you know, business codes and rules?
00:19:20.000No, I think that with my personal life and my body, I could do whatever I want.
00:20:08.000You think you're a businesswoman because you have an OnlyFans, but if you were just some Starbucks employee and look like this, a billionaire would pick you up.
00:20:19.000For the rest of your life, no one will marry you because they're going to find a girl that looks like you that's not naked online and they're going to go to her!
00:20:26.000You forgot the fact that I'm not naked online?
00:21:10.000They can make whatever contract they want.
00:21:12.000If you want to work for them, you've got to give them what they expect from you.
00:21:15.000So if they don't want you, then you can't be mad.
00:21:19.000But my question is, how would anybody know?
00:21:28.000If someone sees your account and either reports it to HR or somebody of importance and then they say, hey, we talked to you in the office and they say, hey, you got to leave or stop.
00:31:01.000I feel like it's the guise of being intelligent in a way that, oh, I'm going to have this career that's really intelligent, and it's like, that's a lot of hard work.
00:31:08.000But also, think about this generation.
00:32:24.000John fucking Zerka, I'm a new on paper millionaire because of Fresh and Myron, obviously these guys boomed me into the mainstream, but we give Sneeko the referral fee.
00:42:20.000I guess both educated women here can relate to that.
00:42:23.000In undergrad, we were together and we both kind of decided to call it off.
00:42:29.000Be honest and say mostly him, but like why would I want to be with somebody that doesn't want to be with me?
00:42:33.000So I just have to go with it and agree.
00:42:35.000Did he give you specific reasons as to why he...
00:42:37.000We both kind of came to the conclusion that like he was a year older than me so he was graduating and he didn't know what he wanted to do or where he wanted to be and it was just best to kind of figure out what we wanted to do as two separate people.
00:42:49.000Again, this was an undergraduate so we were both like super young.
00:46:11.000Are you saying like he didn't listen to your feelings at all like if you talk to him you just be like shut up I don't want to hear this not shut up I want to hear but he would get defensive so like most men do they can't really handle it because they don't know how to avoid my feelings if the guy's not paying bills What do you think?
00:51:21.000It amazes me how women reinforce bad behavior in their counterparts and don't tell them the truth about that was a big mistake.
00:51:29.000A hiring individual that does well, pays the majority of the bills, has masculine tendencies, and is chasing success, tells you, come with me, Obviously you guys want a long time.
00:51:40.000Shut the fuck up everybody, I'm talking.
00:51:55.000You know what type of small minority of men make that kind of money, and an even smaller minority of men are okay with taking care of a woman and being the predominant leader and breadwinner.
00:52:04.000And the fact that all of you guys reaffirmed her decision...
00:55:22.000I will say though, you say soulmates, and soulmates, the definition of a soulmate is somebody who comes back to you no matter what trials and tribulations you have.
00:55:29.000Even after you get fucking black by 30 other dudes, get the fuck out of here!
00:55:33.000If you're my soulmate, I don't want to sleep in a year.
00:56:22.000Let me go ahead and rekindle this flame and get some sexual access.
00:56:24.000But the reality is, is that you left him when he needed you the most.
00:56:29.000So you've disqualified yourself for any type of real serious relationship.
00:56:32.000Because if you can't stand it with him when he needs you the most, why the hell is he going to commit to you now?
00:56:36.000And the other thing too is, we've got to be honest, you've gotten older, you've had more experiences, you've hooked up with other men, and he knows about it.
00:56:43.000I'm going to be brutally honest with you.
00:57:32.000They're never going to be like me or him or high value.
00:57:49.000Men have a problem that women don't they deal with despair and suicide when you abandoned him and he's all depressed and shit Is your outcome, the outcome you're getting, you're not getting the big, dick, rich, black guy, is this outcome something you deserve?
01:01:45.000So ultimately, there's trust and there's respect.
01:01:49.000Now, most men of that value or that level will have a girlfriend like that that follows them around for the most part or follows their command or their lead.
01:03:43.000I mean, you can do what you want to do, but what I am telling you is that you're not going to get the ring, so it's up to you how you want to move, because when you had the chance to get the ring, you weren't there.
01:03:51.000Now, it's probably a test on his end to see what you would do.
01:04:09.000Layla, in simple, just shut the fuck up, woman, who's talking?
01:04:12.000Yo, Layla, right, you're cute, but check this out, in simple terms, you agree with their 90% statistic, take this, we're gonna play Russian roulette, 90% chance, you're gonna blow your fucking brains out, he's never, ever, ever coming back to you,
01:06:03.000Okay, I mean, I totally understand what you're saying, but if she wants this man to provide for her, protect her, provide that manly status that we had back in the day, then she has to provide that same contract of, okay, you make that formal contract of,
01:06:19.000okay, you're going to provide for me, you're going to pay my bills, you're going to do this, I'm going to protect the house for you, I'm going to cook for you, I'm going That's a conversation that you have.
01:06:27.000If they agree on that, then yeah, do that.
01:06:29.000If she's saying that she doesn't want that and she wants to be by herself and work for herself, make her own bills, then she can't ask this dude to give her that because she wants to do it herself.
01:06:39.000Now, if they both want to do it and they want to work together, that's fine.
01:06:41.000But that conversation needs to be had.
01:06:43.000You can't expect a man to provide everything for you or a woman to bring everything to the table for you.
01:06:49.000If I'm bringing everything to the table and this man's not paying my bills, this man's not providing me, he's not giving me what I need, why am I bringing everything to the table?
01:06:56.000Roles reverse, if a man's bringing everything to the table and you're not bringing shit to the table, why is he going to provide for you all the time?
01:07:03.000Alright, did you have something that you want to say?
01:08:32.000What he means by that is when you go into the nightclub, the nightclub is one of the best illustrations of the primitive mating nature of human beings.
01:08:41.000You look at the women where they all concentrate.
01:08:43.000They all concentrate in the VIP section with the men that have the highest perceived status in that social situation.
01:08:49.000If you take that and extrapolate that into the real world, that's how it works.
01:08:53.000Women typically congregate around the highest status men.
01:08:55.000A majority of them are looking for a small minority of men.
01:08:57.000Higher earners, respect, Accolades, etc.
01:09:01.000And hold on, before we go on, you and you, like he said, perceives, and you're like, perceives, mama, like some Migos shit, why do they keep doing ad-libs when you're talking?
01:10:18.000And then when we talking about being married, and we talking about marriage, and I won't marry you, and blah, like, you gotta, like, let's be serious.
01:10:26.000What I'm in really looking, so you, so again, you either want to be a trick, or you want to be in love.
01:10:32.000Like, Your point is a bit disconjointed.
01:10:38.000I'm trying to figure out what your exact point and question is here.
01:10:45.000Because I guess bouncing off what you were saying is like, you know, he won't marry her, he's high status, now he wants a little bimbo that comes and follows him around.
01:11:02.000Myron said the next girl's gonna be low, you fucking retard.
01:11:05.000Anyways, the question is, why is it that women can't have their own and still, like, why is it that she's wrong for her to go off and say, I want to do my own career.
01:12:13.000Well, I think women need to understand, right, that you can go ahead and chase your career, be a high earner, become successful, do everything that you want to do.
01:12:20.000But understand that when you find the man that you want, You've got to make a choice.
01:12:25.000It's either going to be your career or him.
01:12:27.000If you pursue your career, a lot of the times that's not going to align with his mission.
01:12:31.000I would argue a lot of times it puts a widget in between you two because you chasing your career and success is going to contradict you being a dutiful girlfriend and eventually a wife.
01:12:41.000So I think that's one of the issues that women have to deal with is, am I going to put my career first or my man first?
01:13:22.000A lot of the times, her job is going to give her counterproductive instructions To the positive outlook of the relationship and or the positive treatment of her man.
01:13:36.000If she has another boss telling her what to do, she effectively can't follow everything her man wants her to do.
01:13:40.000So men, this is why men want submissive women, because when a girl has her own career and her own business, etc., A lot of times that's not going to align with his objectives.
01:13:55.000When women make more money than their men, when women are in leadership roles, they end up being terrible people to their boyfriend and or husband.
01:14:56.000A woman's career does not necessarily align with the man's career a lot of the times.
01:15:00.000If a man succeeds, the woman is going to go ahead and be successful alongside it because men are designed to provide and protect for their women.
01:15:05.000Women, however, are not designed to provide and protect for a man.
01:15:08.000If a woman out earns her man or acquires more status, she starts to look for other men.
01:15:13.000That's why it doesn't make sense for a woman to go in and chase her career, because when she goes up in status, she looks for another man.
01:15:19.000When a man goes up in status, he treats his woman better.
01:15:21.000Women benefit from their men's success, not the other way around.
01:17:36.000We were talking before about how the fact that he shows a better path and that he was not gonna go back to her because he would actually after having the status he would go for a younger woman because she wasn't there but then you're talking about the men wanting to provide and the men providing and the men actually you just said that the men when he gets to the status he actually goes and provides for the woman that's a lie Every single man that gets to the status,
01:18:00.000they go for a younger woman like you just said in the beginning.
01:18:04.000So you just contradicted yourself because you said one thing first and then another one.
01:18:58.000But then, at the same time, you were saying that because she didn't, which is a freaking mistake, because she did the same thing that he did, then he was going to go and choose a younger woman that would actually follow him.
01:19:10.000But then you said, right now, a couple minutes ago, then when a man basically goes to that status, he goes and provides for the woman.
01:19:44.000The reason why the man needs to be in a leadership role is because when a man leads and he makes more money than his girl, he is more apt to take care of his girl.
01:20:37.000But regardless, the guy did something right to be able to get sex.
01:20:40.000What I'm trying to say, though, in her situation, okay, where she had a provider, a leader, a protector, etc., they were together for five years.
01:20:47.000He takes a job where he's making more money, moves to another city.
01:21:44.000I don't need to see what anybody sees.
01:21:45.000I don't need to see what anybody sees.
01:21:48.000The thing is, these guys can get these younger 21-year-olds, but if you lose one too many brain cells dealing with, you know, no offense, but some girls are really not that bright.
01:22:00.000Then you get tired of that, and then you're seeking intelligence.
01:22:21.000The higher a woman's IQ, the less likely she has to be married.
01:22:24.000But the higher a man's IQ, the far more likely she has to be married.
01:22:27.000So that tells you that men really don't value female competence like that.
01:22:30.000However, women value male competence a lot.
01:22:34.000So that's why I'm trying to explain to you that for her being successful, entrepreneur, higher earning, her pool of candidates is like this.
01:22:41.000For the man being successful, competent, higher earning, his pool of candidates is like this.
01:24:33.000I was going to say, with both sides, yes, it is ideal, even biologically, that, like, we would prefer the man to be the provider, the leader, the strong one.
01:24:43.000But I will always think it's smart for the female to still have her own assets, just in case.
01:24:50.000You have something back up, you guys, you know?
01:25:15.000Okay, so if I'm sitting here, like, back to the basic point at hand, you're saying that a man provides for a woman and a woman provides at home in a basic, you know, contract.
01:25:30.000But if you have a man who wants that and you're telling him you're going to give him that and you don't give it to him and then you're complaining that he's not giving you back what you want, you have to meet him halfway.
01:26:30.000No one can compete at that level of status with Jay.
01:26:34.000So Beyonce's success, she's a victim of it.
01:26:37.000And I'm stealing this from Myron, but he never uses this example anymore.
01:26:41.000Beyonce being at the top of the pyramid made her, she's stuck with Jay-Z. She can only have him or downgrade immensely, which women don't downgrade, right?
01:26:50.000If they have a tall guy, they're never going short again.
01:26:52.000Muscular guy, they don't, you know what I mean?
01:26:54.000Now Jay-Z can go for a little broke backup dance or some good pussy and no one's gonna say shit.
01:27:01.000We can actually, cause you know, we date down, like you guys are retarded, you guys date up.
01:27:06.000You want a man with equal height or more.
01:31:21.000If he's going to come in and be better than you, you can't expect equality.
01:31:24.000Men and women are not equal, and I would argue the most attractive relationships where women really like their guy, the guy's better than her in every regard.
01:32:56.000I find it interesting that women say they want equality in a relationship, but when they look for a mate, they want a man who's superior to them.
01:33:02.000Please explain to me why I have to go through my trials and tribulations, make more money than you, be more competent than you, increase my status, do all these things, then get in a relationship and you expect me to treat you as an equal?
01:33:13.000No, but I'm trying to explain to you, like, from the male perspective, the masculine perspective, we have to go out there and conquer, be attractive, I understand that.
01:33:20.000And then you expect a man to treat you as an equal.
01:33:51.000I mean, I'm not going through much because I don't waste my time nowadays with men.
01:33:54.000I'm just trying to get my bag and focus on myself.
01:33:57.000That's fantastic, but you do understand that a woman at 18 years old can go ahead and command a man that went through trials and tribulations to become wildly successful.
01:38:03.000But anyway, no, the point is that after a while, you realize that height, sometimes the blood doesn't seem to reach the brain, and it's not always...
01:38:25.000Okay, I just like to say that one, like, you guys are having a tough time.
01:38:29.000Like, you two right here are having this conversation.
01:38:31.000You guys, on a fundamental level, like, you can try to understand each other's sides, but you guys, genuinely, your brain chemistry is different.
01:38:37.000You think differently, and she thinks differently because you're different sexes.
01:38:40.000Men and women have different ideals and feel things differently.
01:38:42.000Yeah, men think rationally and logically.
01:39:18.000She wasn't loyal, and she's fucked now!
01:39:20.000She's gonna go home and cry tonight, and don't get my pillow wet!
01:39:25.000Now, you just said that she made an emotional argument, I made a logic argument.
01:39:30.000I didn't say that, I'm saying that genuinely, women and men, as species, it's genuinely, as sexes, not species, as sexes, think genuinely different.
01:39:38.000Your brain chemistry is driven in the way that you process things, emotions, and subjects is different.
01:39:49.000Somebody who can think emotionally and think critically because you can put in critical thinking and also talk about other people's emotions.
01:39:54.000Facts don't care about your feelings, Jewish lady.
01:40:01.000Okay, so you're saying that, I mean, but if you have to pick one, who's going to be the more capable leader?
01:40:06.000The person who makes emotionally charged decisions or someone who's more logically sound?
01:40:11.000Okay, but this question is going towards what towards the topic at hand?
01:40:14.000Because that's about a leader question, not about what we were talking about.
01:40:17.000If we're talking about a government leader or a person who is trying to lead me in something, whether it's female or male...
01:40:22.000We're talking about male and female intersexual dynamics.
01:40:25.000He's not talking about Bernie Sanders, bro!
01:40:27.000I understand that, but I'm saying that It depends on what the subject is.
01:40:31.000If I'm talking about something that I need a problem fixed, yeah, I'd rather somebody with critical thinking skills than emotional thinking skills.
01:40:37.000If I'm trying to have somebody tend to what I'm feeling and what I'm thinking and try to make me feel better, then I want somebody with an emotional capacity to understand what I'm feeling.
01:41:51.000But I'm an intellectual, capable female who is very, like, I am a very smart human being, but at the same time, I am agreeing with the topic that you're saying, that men and women think differently.
01:42:00.000Not all women have this same exact viewpoint of that.
01:42:02.000Isn't that the point of traditional roles, though, that God made man with certain characteristics?
01:44:17.000Because a lot of you guys have made really bad faith arguments that are based on emotion and not necessarily fact, or you try to say something that we said as an opinion.
01:44:24.000I mean, most of the things that we've said here are pretty factual when it comes to men and women.
01:44:28.000So I want you to really think before you speak, or you make a point, or something like that, because let's be a million here.
01:44:37.000I want a guy that's equal to me or whatever, but honestly speaking, you would prefer a man that's better than you in the things I mentioned.
01:44:58.000But that's a fair statement to make that she's not in the dating scene because she doesn't know.
01:45:01.000At least she's willing to do that where other people are in the dating scene when they're not ready and they tell you you're ready for something.
01:46:07.000Ladies that are single, are you single-single, mad at him single, or he's in jail single, or are you with someone until he marries you single?
01:46:50.000So why is it that I say, men like this and they get angry at me and say, oh, well, it shouldn't be that way.
01:46:56.000I don't run around and tell y'all you should like a short, broke, fat loser that has dirty teeth.
01:47:00.000So why do you tell me I should like a woman that's strong, intelligent, and independent?
01:47:07.000I said you gotta like what you gotta like, but not all people like the same thing, and I understand that that's what you want, but there's also a lot of bum dudes out there who will take whatever they can get.
01:47:16.000There's also a lot of bum girls out there who will take whatever they can get.
01:52:46.000That literally means not only were you intelligent, you knew at that age you have the most value, you know, lock it in, but it also means you were really good sex.
01:53:56.000All these girls are gonna be fucked by simps.
01:53:58.000I genuinely think if a lot of the girls here on the panel don't change their mindsets and don't understand that the man comes first, you need to put your career on the back burner, you need to understand that the guy is typically the prize in the relationship and you don't value him, you're gonna end up with a guy that isn't your first choice.
01:54:13.000But Myron, how's that good advice if...
01:55:06.000Feminism, what it basically did was it gave all the power to a small minority of men that now control the sexual marketplace because all the women that are high earners, that are successful, that bought the lie of get a career and make money, become successful, guess what?
01:55:18.000Now they've outpriced themselves out of the dating marketplace and the only guys that do it for them are the guys that make more money than the more successful them, etc.
01:57:37.000You said that there's a war against women and what else were you saying?
01:57:39.000No, I said that it's been that way and the world is out of balance.
01:57:43.000So because of that, you're feeding a lot of men that work on their ego and have no emotional intelligence whatsoever or spiritual or no intelligence whatsoever but ego-wise.
01:57:55.000So basically that's all you're feeding.
01:57:57.000More men that tell you they send you 500 for making a first move.
02:00:42.000That's cool, but what I'm saying, the question was, going back to the question, if women are truly oppressed, name one right or privilege that men have that women don't.
02:01:17.000Are you saying that the right that is taken from you guys is the fact that you can't choose for the baby's life or the fact that you can't take a contraceptive pill?
02:01:25.000We can't save the baby from you, Moloch, worshipping demons.
02:01:28.000We have zero reproductive rights in the United States.
02:01:31.000Yeah, but I'm genuinely asking your point in particular.
02:01:33.000Are you saying that the right that she's saying that she's taking away is the fact that you can't choose if the baby lives or dies or if you can't take contraceptive pills to stop that from happening in general?
02:02:02.000You will not get arrested for going to another state where abortion is legal.
02:02:08.000Guys, actually, now that we're talking about it, abortion pills are free, and you just literally need to go on a website.
02:02:12.000But regardless, you guys, here's the thing.
02:02:14.000Going back to the main argument here, and this is what I mean when I'm saying women lack critical thinking skills, I'm literally asking you a question.
02:02:21.000If women are truly oppressed like you guys are trying to say, name one right or privilege that men enjoy that women don't, and none of you can name anything.
02:02:30.000This probably falls into the category of what you were saying earlier about how men have to be, like, you keep saying tall for some reason.
02:03:02.000And the intelligence, and then everything's good.
02:03:05.000But if we ask them to provide us money and a protection and services of the...
02:03:09.000And I'm sorry, but we ask men to provide protection, money, a healthy home, a protection over your family, their last name...
02:03:18.000And if I can't provide for you, one, and it's kind of almost egotistical, but if I can't provide looks, a happy home, children for you, food on the table, a clean home, then I'm not providing what they're bringing to the table as well.
02:03:32.000But cooking and providing for your home and your family is bare minimum as a woman.
02:04:30.000Before we continue, she said earlier that the world is built for men.
02:04:35.000Since you guys got liberated since the sexual revolution in the 60s, despair, anxiety, and depression skyrocketed for young men, and we're seeing an all-time high in committing suicide.
02:04:56.000I mean, it's just that, like, again, women like to say that they're oppressed or whatever, but I would argue that women have an easier existence now than they've ever had, and I would argue that women live an easier life than men do in 2023.
02:05:06.000I think this is the easiest life women have lived.
02:07:47.000A lot of women aren't gonna like the fact that I'm saying this, but realistically, the fact is in that 2023, women have a Fucking made compared to women.
02:07:58.000And the reality is, honestly, and it's messed up that I have to say this, we should be thankful for the fact that we have the life that we live.
02:08:39.000So if I have a man who's giving me everything, that means that I'm providing everything he needs to make me feel fulfilled in my life.
02:08:44.000But don't you understand that as a woman, even if you give him 100%, because you're dating up and he's dating down, and you agreed to that, your 100% is still not even like 1%.
02:08:59.000Even if you're his slave and he's cracking a whip, you're still not giving enough because you're opening your legs for someone who's better than you.
02:10:05.000Look, every girl here, all your ex-boyfriends, even if they're losers and stuff, the fact that you guys opened your legs for them and risked a pregnancy, all that, means everyone you girls updated in your past was above you at that time.
02:10:19.000At that time in your life, they were above you.
02:11:20.000But what I will say is that after time and time and time, the more time I spent with them, I came to the realization that he was trying to make of the reality is I am a woman who can do a lot for myself.
02:11:31.000So you do need to provide more than I can give.
02:11:33.000And I do agree with you in that standpoint because I do need you to provide more.
02:12:16.000I'm about to show you the point I made earlier.
02:12:19.000Because women think emotionally, therefore if I have an emotional connection with a bum ass dude who ain't got shit, My emotions overpower my brain.
02:12:27.000Yeah, you shouldn't be in the workforce.
02:14:19.000She has something, she's not gonna answer it.
02:14:22.000You guys are leaving out that sometimes you deal with somebody below you because you're under the influence of tequila or something like that.
02:14:38.000You've never let someone fuck you that you thought was under you.
02:15:26.000You know why men on dates say they keep forgetting what you do for work?
02:15:30.000Men know they cannot have financial access of a woman.
02:15:34.000So if you have a million dollars on an ID that you admire or anyone, we know you're never going to give it because you're thinking of your kids in the long term.
02:15:51.000Okay, so like, what about the fact that I know a lot of men that if I just tell them that I'm going to be in the healthcare industry, they like me 10 times more because that makes them know that I can provide and take care of them.
02:16:54.000Because I used to be fat at one point, and I still didn't have no matter.
02:16:56.000I've never let a woman finish, so go ahead, finish on me.
02:16:59.000Two, the fact is that I know, and this is kind of like my own personal ideal, I know that I can't provide for a man emotionally right now because I'm too busy.
02:17:08.000That's not fair for me to give a man and tell him that I can be with him if I can't.
02:18:49.000Lauren is so fine, but opinionated by the liberal.
02:18:53.000The reality is, and I'll say this real quick.
02:18:56.000Girls might not like this, but I'm going to say it.
02:18:59.000A woman's value is based on the caliber of man that she can attract and retain.
02:19:02.000A man's value is based on the caliber and quantity of women that he can attract.
02:19:08.000If you're a woman, and you're at your peak level, and you don't have your first choice, because a lot of girls sit there and say, oh, yeah, I have a bunch of guys that want to date me.
02:19:15.000That's cool, but how many guys that you actually like back want to date you and give you commitment?
02:19:40.000When you girls were 5, 10 years old, or 17, but yo, check it out.
02:19:45.000When you guys were young, you guys were little Barbies pretending to have a husband.
02:19:49.000Your whole life you were lonely and you're telling me 20 to 25 you're not...
02:19:53.000You're lonely, you cry at night, and you deserve it, and God's laughing at you, and you're gonna burn in a lake of fire, and I think it's not enough.
02:20:01.000Turn up the fucking temperature on these bitches.
02:21:13.000So, y'all really expect us to believe that y'all going to stay committed because you say, okay, yeah, he's got all this, and then we don't accept if we want to be in a relationship or not.
02:21:23.000But most of the time, you guys get bored.
02:22:22.000He comes back to you, but he keeps her on the phone, so you never actually got abandoned.
02:22:27.000Now, when you meet a higher-value male, no, I'm not saying cheating is good, but I'm saying when you meet a higher-value male and you cheat, you never go back to him, even if he has your kids.
02:23:58.000And I would say a smart woman, a smart one, by the way, a really smart one will go ahead and get with a guy, understand that he's gonna have needs and wants and have other women.
02:24:05.000And she just understands that, accepts it and realizes I'm number one.
02:27:33.000Even on the subtext I was talking about, about the money and shit.
02:27:36.000Again, like, when you start talking about I'm a high-status man, I fuck young specific girls, again, we gotta start being realistic and we're talking about tricks now.
02:27:46.000Like, you have turned yourself into a little bit of...
02:28:29.000A girl can go into a nightclub and go, and someone's going to fuck her.
02:28:33.000If I go in there going, I'm going to go to jail.
02:28:35.000No, some of you guys couldn't even agree to that simple fact.
02:28:39.000So with that said, going back to what I was trying to say before, since it's harder for men to get sex than women, a man that can get a lot of sex is respected.
02:28:47.000A woman that gets a lot of sex is admonished.
02:29:44.000It seems, because what you're saying is like, okay, yeah, like, oh, if I'm a man, I gotta do all of this shit, and now I'm gonna respect it because I'm getting so pussy.
02:31:06.000Because I feel like why we gotta break it all the way down.
02:31:09.000Because that's how conversations are had.
02:31:11.000Sure, but because we're not understanding that part and we're asking questions like that.
02:31:18.000Look, man, with all due respect, I don't think you have the IQ to even enter this conversation because you said something earlier saying, I'm not reality or whatever you said.
02:32:23.000And it's amazing to me how women will sit there and say, I'm an individual, and then go ahead and say the same dumb shit the girl next to her said.
02:32:29.000A lot of you guys have agreed a lot of the same points.
02:32:31.000If that doesn't prove that a lot of women are just group thinkers and are not as special as they think they are, I don't know what else proves it.
02:32:52.000Because it doesn't take skill for women to have sex with a lot of dudes.
02:32:54.000You know it's in the Bible, that's for both sides.
02:32:57.000I just answered your question, it's because it doesn't take skill for women to have sex with a lot of men, but it takes a lot of skill for a man to have sex with a lot of women.
02:33:03.000I think she's trying to say it's devaluating.
02:33:09.000Let's say I meet this dude, which has happened, and he's like, oh, I got a body count of over 100.
02:36:16.000But if you was taking your own, if you actually spent a little bit of time in your own world as an individual, then you might know what the fuck you need and who you need to be chasing.
02:36:27.000Because half the fucking time, all these men on this motherfucker always like, oh, I got to be on this big bag and all this, I'm so logical and I got to get all the money.
02:36:57.000Because they think, I'm going to do what I want to do, regardless of what men want, and I'm going to just go ahead and just, I'm going to live my life for me.
02:37:04.000And that's how you attract the man that you're supposed to have.
02:39:22.000Rightfully so, because I'm a fucking loser.
02:39:24.000Wouldn't it be fair to say then, on the other end, that men also have standards, they want women to have certain traits and qualities for them to commit to them and take them seriously?
02:39:32.000Wouldn't it be important for the woman to know these traits and qualities that men look for and maybe adhere to them, just like I shouldn't be playing video games and sitting in my mom's basement?
02:40:14.000You know you just contradicted yourself, because if she's following me, then she's not doing what she wants to do, she's doing what I want to do.
02:40:20.000Come on, she even all of our rules don't get to win tonight.
02:41:00.000Not a lot of women want to do that, but that was the point of what we were talking about earlier.
02:41:04.000A lot of women want to follow and do what they want to do for themselves.
02:41:07.000If a woman wants to go and build her own career and make sure that when a man, when the statistics say that shit fails, and now she's done, then she don't have shit.
02:42:20.000But I feel like if it's that serious, to the point, like, you can't be your own individual to the point where me saying, like, okay, yeah, reality, but like, okay, what I want to do is what I want to do.
02:47:57.000The factor says, I see the work paying off fresh, but ladies, do you believe you deserve a man like your grandfather, but you are nothing like your grandmother?
02:50:04.000Because they have bad stereotypes like what you're purporting right now, right?
02:50:08.000And, you know, a lot of girls like her might get overlooked, etc.
02:50:10.000And it sucks because they have this connotation that black women are loud, obnoxious, not intelligent, rambunctious, say a bunch of shit that don't make sense, which is what you're exemplifying right now.
02:53:10.000All I'm saying is that you're just confirming the stereotypes, and this is why black women have a bad rap, they get a bad reputation, and they have the lowest approval ratings on dating apps.
02:53:36.000Why does a man have to go out to the world, earn an income, fucking fight for everything in his life, then have to come back and handle his woman?
02:54:12.000Do you agree Chinese people cannot drive?
02:54:14.000What's the difference between me and Blue right here?
02:54:16.000See, she'll do it for Chinese, but not her own.
02:54:18.000What's the difference right now between me and her right here, right now?
02:54:21.000Because I feel like it's also a fact that this conversation has also been stated that most men don't handle, let's not say handle, can't be with or can't intelligently be with a black woman that challenges them, that says what they need to do, that don't tolerate, that don't ask bullshit.
02:54:42.000The reason why you're saying that Latin women are loud and they get met is because in most Hispanic cultures, they understand that men are leaders, women are followers.
02:54:51.000You look at Hispanic dancing like salsa, bachata, etc.
02:54:56.000They understand social dynamics between the two.
02:54:58.000But black women tend to not because they don't have fathers a lot of the time, and they don't understand that healthy masculinity.
02:55:03.000And that's a problem in the black community, which is why so many black women don't respect so many men.
02:55:07.000And black men go other places, especially when they have some money, and get other Races.
02:55:11.000Other races also see this, and this is why black women rank the lowest on dating apps.
02:55:15.000That's an absolute fact in everything I just stated.
02:55:18.000Let me say, if you're speaking to somebody, let me reconfirm, and this is an actual fact.
02:55:22.000It's like the tire came off, it's just the rims.
02:55:24.000She's driving away with just the rims.
02:55:26.000You are speaking to somebody who comes from a pool of intelligent black men and a pool of intelligent black women who at the end of the day...
02:55:51.000Because we're going to speak to other side of it too.
02:55:53.000You're speaking to a black intelligent woman who at the end of the day, when it comes to dating other black men or other men in general, whatever, and if honestly, if we start to go there, we talk about white men and Indian men who have way more money than whatever we talk about who go directly for black women,
02:56:12.000You're talking to a woman who is coming directly from black men Who at the end of the day, black women, you have black women who won't sit around and tolerate the bullshit, the fake superiority.
02:56:22.000Yes, we acknowledge and respect the fact that you are a man.
02:56:30.000There are so many black women that cherish that, that honor that.
02:56:33.000And don't even take me back, because if we really go there, a lot of black women will lay on their fucking backs, literally, to protect a black man.
02:57:49.000We have been listening and the problem is that she hasn't made any points.
02:57:52.000She just literally went on a rant about being strong and all this other shit and I have male influences in my life.
02:57:57.000I mean, if you do, you're representing them poorly because you're very loud and obnoxious and rambunctious and you don't make points to what we're actually speaking about.
02:58:04.000You just go on random long tangents about random shit.
02:58:43.000I was born and raised in Cuba and I've been mad quiet.
02:58:45.000Latina women understand, though, to a degree that the man is the leader in this respect male authority.
02:58:51.000In the black community, we don't have that.
02:58:54.000A lot of women in the black community don't have a man and raise a child by themselves telling their kid niggas ain't shit, men ain't shit, blah blah blah, all this other crap.
02:59:04.000So there's a negative connotation with men in the black community in general.
02:59:08.000They grow up fatherless most of the time and that's why a lot of them end up becoming criminals and degenerates.
02:59:11.000And can I ask Ryan, why is this such a true?
02:59:14.000They say about my Albanian people, all we do is work as bouncers.
03:00:13.000You made a statement earlier, saying that women are oppressed, and we live in a world that's set up for women to fail and men to succeed, blah, blah, blah.
03:00:20.000I directly listened to what you said, understood it, and asked you a question.
03:00:25.000I've been listening to understand you the entire time, which is why I've been able to refute your arguments.
03:09:26.000The more you insist on equality, the more you have to talk things over and do that kind of democratic vote instead of him be the authoritarian and just lead.
03:09:33.000So when you guys want equality, it means you want to talk.
03:09:36.000No man wants to talk to you, especially when he comes home from work.
03:11:02.000Why didn't any of y'all, like, when they were, like, being annoying and hurting your brain and everything else like that and making nonsensical arguments, I just, out of curiosity, why didn't you say anything?
03:13:42.000But if she wants to represent herself that way and she believes what she's saying, I'm going to let her represent herself that way just as she lets me represent myself however the fuck I will.
03:13:49.000Yeah, but you're going to do that for your kid, someone you care about.
03:14:36.000And I was like, you quite literally said it.
03:14:38.000That's one of the telltale signs, a little tip for you guys.
03:14:40.000If you know someone's just yapping and yapping, not saying anything, say something they said back, but rephrase it in another way.
03:14:46.000And if they're not able to reiterate it back or agree to what you just said, which they literally said, then you know they're just talking a talk.
03:15:19.000You have to have attractive traits that take work to achieve.
03:15:25.000Then, you know, you earn your partner.
03:15:26.000And I think we live in this crazy ass world where women think they deserve their partner.
03:15:30.000No, you have to earn them just like men have to earn women.
03:15:33.000But women think I'm just going to be the way I am.
03:15:36.000The guy should accept me the way I come.
03:15:37.000And I argue, well, you would never accept the man the way he comes.
03:15:40.000Weak, broke, loser, not confident and ambitious.
03:15:43.000So I just find it interesting how women give each other destructive advice saying, you deserve the man of your dreams without putting in the work in.
03:15:49.000And the bad women give destructive advice to women and the good ones do nothing.
03:15:53.000You stand by and let her get kicked off.
03:16:04.000And here's the other thing, too, why it pisses me off, because y'all were very cordial and polite and, you know, very feminine and quiet, etc.
03:16:12.000And a woman like that comes on and she gives a bad look and she reaffirms the stereotype about black women.
03:16:19.000And it's like, fuck, like, not all black women behave like that, but it just reaffirms that stereotype because it only takes one to fuck it up for a hundred.
03:16:26.000There are three other black women at this table and we're not behaving that way.
03:20:07.000How old are these men that we're talking about?
03:20:09.000Well, there's the famous saying that I said before, women are to be seen and not be heard.
03:20:13.000And the reason why men say that or feel that way is because, in general, thanks to chivalry and everything else, women live a much easier life experience than men do.
03:20:23.000So if someone lives an easier life than you do, are you going to take their points or their perception of reality seriously?
03:25:23.000He doesn't call them little dates and shit, do you?
03:25:26.000I mean, I'll hang out with them and stuff, but the reason, going back to what I was saying, is that men and women typically don't have similar worldviews.
03:25:32.000They typically don't have the same interests and hobbies as at least a very masculine man and a very feminine woman, which is what the genders are most attracted to.
03:25:41.000And, I mean, yeah, I don't think it's good to be around your girl too much.
03:25:45.000I don't think it's good to cohabitate with a female because women will make you weaker and feebler and softer and fag you up.
03:25:51.000That's why Wall Street guys who conquer the world, it's just men, men, men, men, men.
03:26:35.000This is what I've noticed the most, which is why I always laugh at women like that chick before that said, oh yeah, just do what you want to do, boo-boo.
03:26:40.000I think that's destructive advice because what I've found is that the most fulfilled and happiest women typically have a family and children.
03:26:49.000And when we sit here and we tell young women that are at their peak, chase a career, chase a bag, be married to the game, blah, blah, blah, we set them up for failure.
03:26:57.000Because by the time they're 32 and they've accomplished everything that they needed to with their career and everything, their ability to find the top tier guy goes down.
03:27:04.000Because at 32 years old, you're now 22 and men value beauty and youth.
03:27:08.000So my thing is, I think women need to be honest with themselves.
03:27:11.000I'm not telling you don't chase a career, but what I'm saying is going back to what you're saying is that when you find that man, be prepared to drop everything for him because if he acquires status and money, you're going to benefit.
03:27:23.000But it doesn't work the other way around.
03:27:24.000And men don't care about your career and your income.
03:27:27.000But see, that ended when you were younger?
03:27:54.000He calls you every day for the same reason he calls other girls.
03:27:57.000All I'm saying is that I think women need to take more seriously finding a man because finding a man is going to be the door that opens a family which will give you the long-term fulfillment.
03:28:53.000You guys are saying it's stupid to not look for a relationship and stuff like that, but some people, some women might be fine with not wanting to go through that pain again.
03:29:04.000But then you have to go into despair and being 40 years old and alone.
03:29:09.000Yeah, I guarantee you being single in your 30s to 40s without a man and children is going to be way more painful.
03:29:25.000There are some people that are living to 100 years old, some women that are single, but they have their community, they have their family, they're laughing, they're eating food that's healthy and everything.
03:30:55.000If you adopt the position of, I will be a second-class citizen to my husband, if you, every time the equality thing pops up in your head, right?
03:31:07.000If you immediately just submit to him for everything, even when you're in the wrong, You'll be married like that.
03:32:05.000But that's why you date at the age of our age.
03:32:07.000You know what you like and you don't like.
03:32:09.000When you guys have that instinct of, I hate him, the TV told me to hate him, like you guys hate Fresh Mind and me, that's the ones you want to marry.
03:32:16.000You're not going to marry us, but the guys you want to marry are going to sound like us.
03:34:27.000LOL, these girls out here asking, how would my boss find out I'm on OnlyFans while they are on a public podcast saying they're on OnlyFans?
03:35:10.000If you suffer insubordination from a woman, her mindset won't allow her to accept good gestures without being disagreeable or rambunctious from then on.
03:38:16.000He just doesn't even want to hear them talk.
03:38:18.000I like hitting it from the back because if I squint my eyes, she kind of looks like her sister.
03:38:25.000That trick in the back where red hair needs to stop with the eye rolls, the constant death stares, and just the general disrespect she has towards you guys, so let her quit that shit.
03:38:31.000Don't worry, my friend, we handled that already.
03:38:34.000Okay, so let's get last thoughts and our questions or disagreements from the ladies.
03:38:38.000We can start here with the fake lawyer.
03:40:49.000You're going to be like, what a fucking pussy.
03:40:51.000He won't even make eye contact with red pill guys.
03:40:54.000She doesn't know this, but when I used to be back on the job and I would interview suspects or whatever and I would ask them questions and make an assertion and it was true even though they might have said earlier in the interview it wasn't true.
03:41:10.000And a lot of the times, you would go ahead and you'd say something, and you know, I know you fucking did this, but I'm going to kind of casually weave it in there, right after you had lied to me earlier in the interview, and you watched the body language and were like...
03:41:21.000And it's kind of like just human nature.
03:41:23.000And when I was saying things about, you know, men and women being different, women want a superior, taller, stronger, blah, blah, blah, she nodded her head like this.
03:41:29.000But then when I asked her directly, hey, you know, you really want an equal guy?
03:43:16.000Literally, the only thing that would be a problem is that it's okay for him to let me go fuck Sari down the street or something and then come back to you.
03:43:26.000Yeah, you guys are saying, oh, it's acceptable.
03:43:29.000But I know deep down I would not be okay.
03:45:23.000Since you guys are not bringing much and the high-value meal has a million DMs of girls just like you, he's bringing financial security, he's bringing emotional security, and he's bringing physical security in case he has to get into a fight.
03:45:34.000You're not bringing shit and you look just like every other girl in his DMs?
03:45:38.000You guys just said you don't want that, though.
03:45:40.000I'm saying if he cheats, it's not the end of the world.
03:50:17.000Just think of what's very important for you.
03:50:20.000You know, everything that we've talked about tonight is not one size fits all.
03:50:24.000There is the status quo, there are the stats and everything, but there...
03:50:27.000You know, when you're evolved to a certain level mentally and everything like that, and when you've lived life and you're at a certain standard, then...
03:50:44.000You're trying to get men to kill each other.
03:50:45.000What do you mean by that specifically?
03:50:46.000What I mean by that is, like, you say that, I don't know, I don't want to start a whole long conversation, but, you know, that older guys may want younger women and stuff.
03:51:28.000The truth is, if you guys were CEOs and you don't want to get fired, you want to feed your kids, you would hire people based on Maren's fucking stats.
03:51:36.000You just don't want to do it here because you want to look politically correct so you can look like a good little woman.
03:51:56.000Yeah, I mean, I get what you're saying.
03:51:59.000One size doesn't fit all, but we got to operate on how the world generally works and how the world generally works is in the study men between 18 to 60 years old, while women between 18 to 24 years old.
03:52:11.000And the thing is that, yeah, we can stick it out with the high earner guy and have the house, the kids, the cars, the this, the that, and the other, but be dying in that whole situation.
03:52:24.000It looks good on the outside, on paper.
03:52:35.000That was a quintessential example of what I mean when I say women don't give a fuck.
03:52:39.000I literally told you, this is what men want in general.
03:52:43.000And then you went ahead, and instead of dressing that, you said, well, the status and everything isn't all that it's cracked up to be, whatever.
03:54:16.000And sometimes men just give in because they don't want to hear a woman talk about it.
03:54:20.000And sometimes a woman just gives in because she doesn't want to hear a man talk about it.
03:54:23.000Whose opinion is more valid in your take?
03:54:25.000Honestly, I think that if anybody has something that's bothering them to say, that it's important, whoever they're trying to get that point across to, it's important if it affects you.
03:54:33.000Whose perspective is more important, in your opinion?
03:54:46.000Like, truly, because if that's the case, and if I'm the person who's sitting at home not making any decisions on our finances, our plan, our house, our mortgage, then him, because he's in charge of all that.
03:54:56.000But if I'm providing, and I'm paying all the bills with my salary, and I'm also contributing 50 or higher percent while raising the kids, then no.
03:55:04.000You're not providing for me, but I also don't think that I'd personally choose a man like that.
03:57:09.000One, I personally think that Lauren did.
03:57:11.000Second, I personally think that I did because the reality of the situations that one, I've personally gone through and two, other people have gone through.
03:57:19.000But again, these are all personally my opinions on things.