In this episode of the Fresh & Fit Podcast, we are joined by Brandon Carter and the panel, and we talk about a variety of topics. We also talk about the new Rumble and Kick streaming service, and how we are going to be streaming only on Rumble & Kick starting next week.
00:06:24.000it but again on your channel right uh yeah on both all right yeah freshman see you go check it out yep um and then uh guys just y'all know we're gonna stop streaming on youtube yes okay we're streaming on youtube right now but starting next week we're not gonna stream on here no more it doesn't make it i mean the end of era man um so we're not gonna be streaming on there i mean we might come back in like october or november but for now depending on how it goes but for now doesn't make any sense Could get us banned, right?
00:06:52.000And we have to censor ourselves anyway.
00:06:54.000So honestly, guys, it's going to make for better content anyway.
00:06:57.000So we're going to go ahead and stream only on Rumble and Kick.
00:07:00.000And we can just say what we want to say from the beginning.
00:07:02.000We don't have to c to censor ourselves and hurt the quality of the content and or get ourselves banned so we'll be able to uh really be able to be ourselves so starting next week guys we are going to be streaming only on rumble and kick uh we're going to change the banner and everything else like that put out announcements and everything but this week obviously is a segue week yeah so you know we'll be on here for a little bit but get ready guys it's going to be rumble and kick only bro because honestly it doesn't make sense to stream on youtube anymore at all um what else anything else updates for uh wednesday show No,
00:07:36.000And then as far as my political show, guys, the debrief, I'll be going ahead and still doing that, but I'm going to be c cutting that off earlier too, because that one I really have to censor myself when we talk about certain things.
00:17:38.000I mean, you came from New York, but like, most of these Florida employees don't do shit, man.
00:17:41.000Yeah, and some tenants don't want to leave.
00:17:43.000Yeah, but also you're dealing with an oversaturated market.
00:17:46.000Working doing Section eight housing, you're gonna have to hop over a bunch of leaps and, you know, ponds before you get to the right place to do that kind of industry.
00:17:56.000So if you're just starting out, it makes sense that you're a good job.
00:17:59.000That's why people don't need her to get you all help.
00:18:03.000No, but the problem is that what I'm saying is like the office moves very slowly and they're not very helpful.
00:18:08.000Because they got a million, they got a million people coming in trying to, the landlords trying to raise rent on people.
00:18:14.000And it's like the problem is that since the property value was going up, the rent was going up and they couldn't keep up with all the people.
00:18:19.000All the high real estate markets here, Austin, et cetera.
00:27:20.000I actually feel like birth control is very dangerous for our bodies.
00:27:23.000And so for me personally, like, even if I was having sex with anyone, which I'm not, I feel like it's better to be safe without taking that kind of medication.
00:28:55.000yeah of course like three months ago yo brandon you're right though he's having a hard time what did you say he's having a hard time trying to know who she was she was like you been here before yeah i said hi with the black or white girl she's like yeah you're like no you've been here before i remember man it's been like a month of august 12th crazy all right um and then racial background is black or um Yeah, Haitian black.
00:33:23.000And then what about for him 38 all right that's really good idea and then we'll go guess for you that's a good guess um i would say maybe like 36 all right 37 and then um 34 35 all right what about for you since you asked well 42 right here yeah but i'm i'm gonna assume probably 39 and 36 for y'all all right But I was hoping for body count.
00:36:01.000You know, man, when I tell all guys how you get girls, I'd just be like, yo, I just became a 1,80 m multimillionaire with single digit body fat.
00:36:32.000And like I told you guys before, we are going to be streaming exclusively on Rumble starting next week guys.
00:36:37.000We are not going to be streaming on YouTube anyway.
00:36:39.000So the home base will be Rumble as it always has been and Kick.
00:36:42.000So if you guys don't have access to Rumble wherever you're at, I know a lot of you guys are like in France or Europe and you still have to get access to Rumble.
00:36:48.000You guys can watch on kick kick dot com slash fresh of it rumble dot com slash fresh of it.
00:36:57.000All right, Ken Kito just got a new monthly last week and now I'm consistently at a recurring revenue of over a thousand a month just plus more clients prospects and a counter booked.
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00:40:08.000According to HUD data, over 75% of Section A voucher holders are female head of households with single mothers making up the majority.
00:40:15.000Why do women so disproportionately represent Section A households compared to men?
00:40:18.000And what social economic or policy factors contribute to this imbalance?
00:40:22.000That's actually a very interesting question given who we have on the panel.
00:40:26.000Does that line up with what you, I mean, I'm sure you obviously have it just for Miami demographics, but does that line up from what you see?
00:42:34.000But I also feel like that depends on the mother and the structure that she has in the household.
00:42:38.000But just coming in as another authority figure or just an addition to that family, you guys set the rules for that child, especially if you're planning on being in that child's life.
00:43:28.000beat him with a sandal yeah you can do that see i'm just kidding so who's not your dad i'm just saying for most men it's probably an ideal thing to do because you're raising someone someone else's skin isn't really normally in your benefit so But what about women?
00:43:42.000We're supposed to date men with multiple kids.
00:44:25.000So how you but also it's how the person who has those children learns to treat those children and learns to treat the relationship.
00:44:33.000Because if you want a solid relationship, that person should already know their boundaries and their expectations, and they should control their children first.
00:46:27.000I think that, like, how they behave is based on a society that they were, like, born into and raised in.
00:46:32.000They might not have a dad in their home and they think that it's okay not to have a husband or a father figure.
00:46:38.000For me personally, if I'm going to have kids, if I'm going to have kids, that man is going to be in my life forever and that's going to be my partner for life.
00:47:54.000Listen, you're in timeout, this and that.
00:47:55.000If you do that as a guy that's not the real father, it's kind of like, oh, you did too hard.
00:48:02.000too it's too harsh like stop this is normal so you'll be okay dating a single mom so long as they allow you to be the disciplinarian no no no no no, no, no.
00:48:11.000I'm saying, I mean, this one's part of the equation.
00:48:26.000Most men, like, most men, like, most men, like, if most men, yeah, if most men wouldn't get with women with children and they wouldn't marry them, then how are there so many single mothers who end up with men that are not the child's father?
00:50:45.000I mean, it's all loud well i'm gonna go pee back then i didn't have a lot of tape i just i was just doing back then that's why i'm like crazy can you uh watch junior tonight uh for a couple hours i'm gonna go hang with the homies yeah i got you yeah yeah we just shopping today we just window shopping okay no worse no worse no worse no but this yeah i'm gonna make it official one day at some point i just gotta stop doing this yeah who's watching junior Dream that
00:51:15.000girl you met the other day Wow that's also another part of dancing a mom's big daddy's always there bro anytime make a phone call and oh yeah for sure Oh, no.
00:51:43.000Because you guys like brought up, because you mentioned something about single moms being problematic, and then you guys were like, what about a single dad bringing kids in, right?
00:51:59.000I would argue a single mother, like a dude coming into a single mother's situation is way more detrimental than a woman coming into a single father's situation.
00:52:23.000Like that is the most traumatic factor of that.
00:52:27.000But the reason why it's worse for a man to come into a relationship.
00:52:31.000as a single as a step dad versus a mother coming in as a as a woman coming in as a step mom is because whether the woman wants to admit it or not that guy's going to be beholden to that kid to some And they're holding to that kid to some degree where he has to provide protection for that kid, et cetera.
00:52:43.000And that kid can always basically write him off and say, though you're supposed to be a disciplinarian, you don't have the right to discipline me.
00:52:51.000Versus, like, when a woman comes in, right, and she's assisting, women are not looked at to have the same level of financial and duty obligations to that kid from the man's perspective.
00:53:02.000You're saying, like, oh yeah, well, I could date with a single, a single dad.
00:53:06.000I think a woman going into a situation dating a guy who's a single father is going to be way better for her than a man dealing with a woman that's a single mom.
00:53:15.000Because the thing is with a guy is like, if he had, if he's a single mom, he's a single d father and he has custody of the kids, he's probably a stand up guy because for you to get custody of your kids as a man is very difficult.
00:53:31.000So if a dude is a single father and he has custody of his kid, I'm pretty sure that he's going to be, unless the woman's a complete shitback, the guy's going to have his stuff together to some degree.
00:53:39.000But with women, it doesn't always go that way because women get children by default.
00:53:45.000So that's why I think for men, a woman coming into a situation dealing with a guy that has a kid is way better than a dude coming into a situation dealing with a woman.
00:53:52.000Because the other thing too with single dads, we don't, we're not going to expect you to ever come in financially.
00:54:35.000Because there's no real, I mean, if we're going to be honest here, there's no financial.
00:54:39.000burden of performance on women ever when you're dealing with a guy.
00:54:41.000Unless the guy is like of lower status, but then that's on you.
00:54:44.000But in general, most guys, especially if they have a kid, they're not going to depend on you financially.
00:54:48.000But if the other way around, at some point, even the one that says I'm independent, you don't have to pay for my son, you're going to have to foot the bill at some point if that relationship continues.
00:54:56.000Okay, so let's go into a hypothetical real quick.
00:54:59.000If you were dating a woman or okay, say we went to war, God forbid, but if we went to war and all the men, you know, were deceased and you were only with single women, who are you dating?
00:55:27.000You all may not live in that world, but a lot of your audience do, where the only options for them are ugly, I'm sorry.
00:55:34.000Let me not be horrible, but let, so, okay, if your options are terrible, ugly, horrible women without resources and they're just living, you know, in a one bedroom with their five kids, or your option is a girl with two kids and she has a nice house and she has all her stuff together and she has a good job.
00:55:53.000I mean, let me make sure I understand'm understanding.
00:55:55.000I mean, you use a crazy analogy, but I see what you mean here.
00:55:57.000You're trying to say that if all the women you know weren't around and there were only single moms, AK lower status women or less desirable women, you guys you would have to choose for that, right?
00:56:07.000And you're saying that this is where most guys stand where they don't have as many options, right?
00:56:22.000Like what is your end goal is for these women not to have children or for these men not to date women with children and who do they date afterwards?
00:56:51.000What would be your advice to these men on the internet?
00:56:53.000They get pornography, they sign up for OnlyFans, they get pressure clubs, they get shade clubs, they get shade clubs, or they end up getting a girl that might be less attractive.
00:57:05.000A lot of guys struggle with women, but the thing is that, you know, all the women are fighting for a small minority of men., realistically speaking.
00:57:21.000That's one of the ways that guys have to go out of the world and find some other options or what do you think?
00:57:26.000So that's one of the ways that men have dealt with this reproductive problem in the modern society, but another one is like solving problems.
00:57:48.000But, uh, but yeah., going back, I just think if you're going to go ahead and deal with a single parent, I think a woman dealing with a single father.
00:58:02.000So you're going to come in and at some point you're going to be financially obligated to that kid versus for the woman coming in most of the time when they got a kid and they got custody, they're financially well off.
00:58:25.000So if you marry a woman for with two children and you know that you love her and blase blase, you're about to take care of her and her two children, say she divorces you, she's still going to take a good percentage of your money to raise those children that you didn't give, like you had no money.
00:58:54.000I think that's western mentality though, because I don't think you I don't think you'll really grasp the understanding of what it's like in other countries.
00:59:01.000Because if you leave a woman, even if she had children with another man, her family might stone you to death.
00:59:20.000But if you can complain about these issues as a Western, but I feel like you don't really have a good grasp of what it would be for you to live in Romania, Russia or Japan, China.
00:59:35.000Okay, but have you married a woman with children there?
00:59:41.000I I don't really know what your argument is.
00:59:45.000The issue is that in Western soci society feminism is so strong that we've built up an entire infrastructure to protect women from bad decisions.
00:59:53.000And a lot of times the guys have to foot the bill for that.
01:00:21.000And then also, you have to remember, we live in like America in the West where we tell women that their personal happiness overshadows a family.
01:00:31.000And because it'll give them more options financially.
01:00:34.000So if they see that their marriage might not be failing, but that their man is not making the money they want him to, they can leave him and take half of his income for the next eighteen years and all this, that and the other.
01:00:54.000You'd have to reform the family courts and you'd have to actually make women accountable for their bad making decisions, but we will never do that.
01:01:03.000Well, that's emotional versus going into the court system.
01:01:07.000You can't say, Oh, this woman acted like this.
01:01:10.000It has to be, there has to be laws written for us to get there.
01:01:17.000Yeah, reform, yeah, reform the family courts.
01:01:19.000But the problem is that the family courts are geared in a way to ensure that women win because it financially benefits them to go after the man.
01:02:25.000Yeah, the way I tell guys is the family, of course, needs to be reformed, but let's be honest here, that's not going to happen.
01:02:30.000So the only way that you can really deal with this issue is that guys have to be far more selective with women and don't get married with the state involved.
01:02:37.000You got to remove any incentive she has to financially destroy you.
01:02:40.000You can't get into a business deal, as you would say, with someone who's incentivized to break it.
01:02:44.000So I think men getting married with the state involved is a big mistake.
01:02:49.000You got to have a priest or with a imam and just with your witnesses get it done religiously and then from there never bring it into the state.
01:02:57.000But the problem is that if you cohabitate or this other stuff, yeah, yeah, common law is law can kick in.
01:03:01.000So you got to figure out your state and find a way.
01:03:03.000But the bottom line is you got to avoid the state being involved.
01:03:42.000She's entitled to divorce you and whatever.
01:03:44.000So it really depends on where you live.
01:03:46.000so I think milk your house before you know it it's like just leave man it's like no she she wants I don't I told her to wait and she just...
01:07:12.000I feel like they also have a lot of baggage.
01:07:14.000Like financially they're obligated already to those children.
01:07:18.000And also the emotional, like the financial baggage and also the emotional baggage of them like running away from their responsibilities is.
01:07:27.000But you got to remember that some bitches, I'm sorry, women, we don't remember that.
01:07:35.000Nah, but some, some, man, some chicks don't make it easy for you to see your kids, man.
01:07:40.000It ain't motherfuckers just running away, man.
01:09:23.000He was like a criminal so it doesn't matter oh man for me oh you got to do credit checks even with the section eight people you got to do credit checks man you can't you don't have to no section eight doesn't do it but as a landlord you can still do it yeah no no i mean we should do it yeah like even if you do section eight we so if you are a landlord that chooses to participate as a landlord in section eight we leave literally everything to you yeah just really in charge of So I'm proving how much the rent is and stuff like that.
01:09:52.000Like you guys having issues with your Section 8 tenants, that might just be a screening.
01:09:58.000It can be mitigated some with the screening.
01:11:55.000You sitting in a room with three black multimillionaires and still say stupid like systemic racism yeah i think systemic racism is scam too yeah um average asian joe uh w you don't agree you don't think black uh systemic racism is real?
01:13:44.000So you were saying, so you think systemic racism is a problem or you think it's real and you think that it's still around, but it's not as overt.
01:13:51.000But you think that it's still better now than it was before.
01:13:54.000I do think that there are certain things that are a lot better than there were before.
01:13:57.000Like I said earlier, as far as like opportunities, being able to go and get educated, being able to put yourself in positions that you can become multimillionaires as people of color and things of that nature.
01:14:08.000However, there are still a lot of systems put in place that work against us.
01:14:12.000And then the systems that were put in place to, I don't want to say, I would say help us, give us an opportunity.
01:14:19.000A lot of people see those things as unfair.
01:14:23.000like taking away affirmative action, DI and all those things.
01:14:26.000Like I understand what the people who are not benefiting from those things can see looking into those programs and why they were implemented.
01:14:34.000However, they were implemented within reason.
01:14:36.000There's a reason why they were put in place because of this disproportionate things that were happening.
01:14:42.000But I do still think that there's a lot more opportunity for us nowadays.
01:14:50.000It's a lie to make black people feel sorry for themselves and not take accountability for poor behavior and reparations, reparations, stuff like that.
01:14:57.000Because my thing is, I look at it like.
01:15:00.000Black people actually did better when they were the most oppressed during the Jim Crow era.
01:15:26.000When things were the worst and black people were the most oppressed and the laws were the most racist, black people actually did better financially.
01:15:34.000And the reason why is because they But then guess what?
01:15:43.000They get more liberty, get more freedom.
01:15:44.000They're more free now than ever than ever before.
01:15:50.000And I would argue that racism is no longer a barrier to success, yet they're doing worse than they did when there was a bunch of racism that held them from opportunity before.
01:15:57.000So I don't think it's really a race problem, rather I think it's a mindset and behavior problem.
01:16:01.000Okay, so what about Black Wall Street?
01:16:03.000You're talking about the nuclear family and you're talking about the Jim Crow area.
01:16:08.000So tell me your perspective on Black Wall Street and the burning of that.
01:16:13.000Or tell me your perspective on the bombings of Philadelphia, the only time in US history where they bombed a group of people during the Black Panthers rise where they created free meals for children and they took care of their communities.
01:16:29.000So you're saying that black people should just like fall in line or what do you what is your suggestion that not my suggestion at all.
01:16:37.000I'm saying that racism is no longer a valid excuse or systemic racism as you're saying is no longer a valid excuse for black people to use as to why they're not ahead.
01:16:46.000Right, but what I'm saying is that when they were the most oppressed and systemic racism was real during Jim Crow era, they did better than now.
01:16:56.000So you think that black Wall Street, when they were burned to the ground, you think that they did better.
01:17:01.000I said nothing about black Wall Street.
01:17:04.000I think what she's trying to argue is saying, and forgive me if I'm not going to go ahead.
01:17:09.000But I think what she's trying to argue is that yes, the black families were doing way better back then, but as women, we could, we couldn't, what money were we making?
01:17:17.000We had to be married to feed the family.
01:17:47.000And wait, she's making a completely disconnected argument on this.
01:17:51.000No, I was trying to say, like, as far as the women, like, we were married more.
01:17:56.000Okay, right now I'm not going to get into, like, finances as to why men aren't marrying women now or whatever, but the reason is why men don't want to get married right now.
01:18:03.000Okay, we're not going to get into that, but as far as, like, what happened, we were getting married because we had to.
01:19:36.000Like, you got to focus on what you have and do the best you can with what you have and never let what you can't do stop you from doing what you can't do so even if there is even whether there is or not it's systemic racism like you can still come up and you can still you can still no but i i don't want to argue that i want to argue that you can come that you can come up no matter what right now you can't come up but like it's not brushing it's not brushing over it's my dad was adopted okay your father was adopted I was raised by two of my parents you grew up in a you grew up in a healthy household which on
01:20:06.000the south side of Chicago on the south side of Chicago you were able to go to Howard University did you go there with a scholarship a full ride?
01:20:13.000Uh no man I had no not a full ride so somebody paid for you so you're going to get married So your experience as a black man is very different from a lot of other black people's experiences.
01:20:27.000I would suggest everybody, and I just watched it today, which is why it's funny that this is coming up.
01:20:31.000So Amanda Seals did the her versus the 20 black conservatives.
01:20:36.000was all what that was about and i suggest that everybody at this table watch it i have seen that and if you watch it you might have a different opinion you might have the same opinion however it was very telling to to especially listening to him he has a lot of the same ideologies that a lot of the um black conservatives however i'm not i wouldn't say say I'm political,
01:20:57.000however, there are some things that I really don't agree with when it comes to the Conservative Party, but there were a lot of points that the black conservatives made when it comes to systemic racism and just how the world is working right now when it comes to race.
01:21:13.000So I do suggest that if you know what we're talking about, if it's a topic that you want to get more educated on, you can make shit happen.
01:22:33.000I don't care if you're black, Haitian, Puerto Rican.
01:22:35.000You can go to a state school for free.
01:22:40.000In Georgia, there's the HOPE Scholarship.
01:22:44.000I know that because my son lives there, right?
01:22:47.000you need is a 3.0 right you go to any state school for free right you can't do that then there's then there's community college what about the kids who can't even get to school or get to high schools because they don't have money for food they can't okay i'm you know they don't have money to go to school they don't have money for food what about those kids how what about them how do you think is in syria i'm just saying like you know what i'm saying we have a problem look look this is why i dislike communicating with liberals and progressive ideologies because you guys just keep moving the goalpost This
01:24:02.000That has nothing to do with what I'm talking about.
01:24:03.000And I could talk about personal if you want to, but I'm going here overall.
01:24:07.000So the reality is that not only do black people have nothing that keeps them from success nowadays, I would argue they actually did better back when they were the most oppressed during the Jim Crow era because they were forced to work with each other.
01:24:20.000They were forced to create their own businesses.
01:24:21.000They were forced to marry and stay together in their relationships and have a two-parent household.
01:24:25.000So in other words, the nuclear family kept the black community together.
01:24:28.000But as they've gotten more rights and more abilities, what's up happening?
01:24:36.000We have black people that are the most.
01:24:39.000most access to education, most access to wealth, but why are they still being criminals?
01:24:42.000Why are they still doing a bunch of bullshit?
01:24:44.000Why are they still not taking accountability for being poor and committing a majority of the violent crime?
01:24:47.000So I see what you're talking about with the man of seals, but she's a radical black leftist who's basically a communist who thinks, oh, I'm just going to blame the white man for everything.
01:26:15.000So when you say, you're literally saying these are your opinions.
01:26:18.000And when you say that black people were more successful when they were forced, what you're suggesting is that you want us to go back fifty years, a hundred years, so we're in a situation where we have less rights.
01:27:11.000How the hell did you come to that conclusion?
01:27:12.000You just said that black people were more successful when they were forced, when there was a nuclear family, when there were more laws in place is what you just said.
01:27:23.000So what you're suggesting is that you want more laws i'm saying why would you want more laws on american people i never said that so what i'm saying can you please listen like listen i need you to really pay attention here because you're putting words in my mouth i'm listening i'm saying that black people have less restrictions now and are doing worse so you want more restrictions when they had more restrictions in the past so you want more restrictions No.
01:27:49.000How the fuck did you come to the conclusion that you're just saying, I want more restrictions.
01:27:52.000I'm just simply telling you that they did better when they had more restrictions.
01:27:56.000How does that imply that I want more restrictions?
01:29:15.000For you to sit there and imply that I'm saying, oh, we need more restrictive laws and bring back segregation.
01:29:20.000I never said I'm saying that at the worst of racism, at the peak of racism, black people did better because they were forced and they were oppressed to work within each other and create their own communities.
01:30:30.000So what you view and everything I said is fact.
01:30:33.000Okay, so post Jim Crow, how do we get back there in your perspective?
01:30:38.000Well, if the nuclear family was what saved the black community despite times of hard oppression and segregation and racism, clearly we need to bring the nuclear family back when we have more opportunities like now.
01:30:59.000And what we need to do is eliminate feminism.
01:31:00.000I'm going to be happy, honest about it, because feminism is a big part of the problem.
01:31:04.000So while we have the societal issues that we have, where women think that they can do better on their own and they don't really respect or want to have a family a lot of times and they want to take their best years and be promiscuous and be host instead of going ahead and building a family.
01:31:30.000But push the breaks through quickly, because do you feel that your podcast and what you're doing here is bringing us back to a nuclear family?
01:31:38.000Is that what you're offering the world?
01:31:40.000Is that what, like, I mean, you're complaining and you're venting and you're saying all these different things.
01:31:46.000But like, you have, what, a million followers on YouTube?
01:31:48.000You have a few followers on Instagram.
01:31:51.000Is this what you're offering for society to find that betterment?
01:31:54.000that you feel like you view it as the best way to go.
01:31:58.000So is that what you feel you're offering?
01:32:01.000Because otherwise you're just complaining.
01:32:07.000I came here cold without looking at it.
01:32:08.000I came here, I wanted to get to know you as a person and I've lost to know you and I feel like I respect a lot of your opinions, but at the same time all I hear is a lot of complaints.
01:32:17.000You know, people talk about the left and liberals and I'm not a liberal, I'll give you that.
01:35:41.000I went up on the street and came back and I'm talking to you all the time.
01:35:44.000If y'all want to, I'm sorry about him and you all feel like he has an agreeable nature and this everything that he's talking about is agreeable, then that's fine.
01:35:53.000I understand like your perspective is different.
01:36:07.000These women here at the table, I guarantee you are probably more left than I am.
01:36:11.000I'm probably as far right as you can when it comes to my political ideology.
01:36:14.000So for you to sit there and say that they're an echo chamber when I guarantee you these women are far more left than I am, that's ridiculous.
01:39:01.000You also, let me read you on that too.
01:39:01.000You're a fucking nigga on that channel.
01:39:04.000Matter of fact, let me read you on that too, bitch.
01:39:04.000Matter of fact, let me read you on that channel, bitch.
01:39:06.000Because when we fucking started this goddamn stream, there was two women over there who gave everybody fucking instructions and then two niggas came and repeated the goddamn instructions.
01:39:06.000Because when we fucking started this fucking stream, there were two women over there who gave everyone fucking instructions and then two niggas came and repeated the fucking instructions.
01:39:14.000You're gonna wait to pee for one fucking hour and then we're gonna switch to Rumble.
01:39:15.000You're gonna wait to pee for one fucking hour and then we're gonna switch to rumble.
01:39:19.000When we switch to rumble, then you can go use the goddamn bathroom, check your phone, go do whatever the fuck you got to go do.
01:39:19.000When we switch to Rumble, then you can go use the goddamn bathroom, check your phone, go do whatever the fuck you gotta go do.
01:39:24.000But how many goddamn times do they have to tell you that?
01:39:24.000But how many goddamn times do they have to tell you that?
01:39:26.000No, they did not sit here and force you and tell you...
01:39:27.000No, they did not sit here and force you and tell you, piss on yourself.
01:39:33.000If you had to pee so much, when he told you to go fucking do it, you sat there and crashed out for five more fucking minutes.
01:39:34.000If you had to pee so much, when he told you to go fucking do it, you sat there and crashed out for five more fucking minutes you could have been pete and came the fuck back but like really like sometimes y'all are causing it on yourself you don't have to make a fool of yourself right now accountability i like her you know what i mean it's kind of crazy because like girls deal with the bushes that we deal with they get so ridiculous is it because everybody here at the table has been having i'm also in my period i'm electronic and
01:39:39.000You could have been peed and came the fuck back.
01:39:59.000I think it's because everybody here at the table has been having a lot of patience and they just have one and out.
01:40:04.000i know so i didn't get my patience is running out what time is it how long did you spin it in like a couple days bitch yes i'm gonna snap on you but i also said that I didn't want to talk about this show because I absolutely want to have some shit like this.
01:41:01.000I love how y'all have the monkey and I love how you laugh about it.
01:41:04.000Can we make it a point that if somebody is speaking, just allow them to finish what they have to say before you jump on it because this is why we keep going back and forth.
01:41:04.000Can we make it a point that if someone is speaking, just allow them to, like, finish what they have to say before you jump on it, because this is why we keep going back and forth.
01:47:49.000more life more prosperity uh with the advent of ai communication systems that warm up and book leads for you.
01:47:56.000What are your thoughts on buying leads, particularly in the fitness industry?
01:48:00.000I don't think buying leads is particularly effective, you know.
01:48:04.000I think what I've seen work a lot more, you know, more often is actually just paying for ads, right?
01:48:13.000Then it's kind of, it's like buying leads, but it's not.
01:48:15.000It's like, because when you buy leads, it's like you're paying for like a list.
01:48:19.000And this list can be cold, but if you're doing ads and you pay per lead.
01:48:23.000right you can you can either pay per lead or pay per click and it's just more effective and it can be a lot more targeted and you're in control a little more you can decide how much you want to pay um you know it's it's more scalable if you can like learn to to run ads on Instagram, Facebook, Meta, you know, any social media, TikTok.
01:49:40.000I saw y'all were like looking at me like smiling the whole time.
01:49:44.000She doesn't know how to have a conscious conversation at all or she doesn't know how to listen or process her own freaking thoughts properly.
01:50:55.000Like I feel like whenever everyone talks, like we I know outside of these rooms we probably interrupt people all the time, but we were subconsciously letting people finish their sentences.
01:51:04.000So like she just kept doing it for the whole hour and I was I just tapped her really like slightly tapped.
01:54:22.000But they be dead ass having phones in there.
01:54:24.000all right bro you know how i got in there bro oh man all right clientele right there man he can change in good ways and bad ways yeah yeah like we've seen people we like we've seen people change like remember conor murphy remember he changed i think he's on some other now like you know uh he changed we see we see some other people we probably don't want to mention like we see him change in negative ways you know We see a lot of people change.
01:57:03.000Yeah, his girl, uh, um, Glenn Maxwell, what she would do is she'd, you know, would go to these UN events to save the ocean and she'd meet people in their network and then they'd have rafter parties and then Epson would come and she'd be, she'd be there.
01:57:31.000Do you think men and women are held to the same standards when it comes to lifestyle, AKA dating around, sleeping around, being independent, et cetera?
01:57:44.000Nobody really cares about, like, because I don't know if you guys noticed that she was bragging about how much money she makes and shit like that.
01:58:19.000Yeah, so the unfortunate reality is that typically the older women are, the more they're prone to have bad habits, okay?
01:58:27.000And when they have bad habits, this can be from, you know, maybe living by themselves for too long, maybe as another boyfriend that they had, maybe not having a father figure.
01:58:36.000But the older women get, the more their bad habits tend to be cemented, and it's harder to coach her.
01:58:41.000Now, I know some women might get angry at me saying this, but I do think the best relationships are the relationships where you can teach your girl how to be the right girlfriend for you.
01:58:50.000Because I think women are designed to be, I think the best girls are the ones that are programmable that you can tell your them, okay, this is what I need you to do, et cetera.
01:58:56.000And I think that naturally puts both parties where they're supposed to be.
01:58:59.000The man is in his, you know, dominant and the leader, the woman is following him.
01:59:04.000And it's easier to do that, unfortunately, with younger women.
01:59:08.000And if you look at this from a biological standpoint, men look for youth indicators when they deal with women, long, nice, thick hair, obviously in good shape, the, um, her not being fat, uh, youthful appearance.
01:59:20.000If you look at makeup and the makeup industry in general, what do women try to do with the makeup industry and with the plastic surgery industry?
01:59:26.000It's all to try to pull back the clock.
01:59:27.000If you look at women's be a reason for that.
01:59:35.000This is why, you know, women like a guy that has a little bit of grace sometimes because a little bit of grace means you've gone through life, you have some experience, you have some money, you have some status or you, uh, older women prefer older men because older men tend to have certain things in place that make them more attractive versus for men, uh, men.
02:00:05.000The other two she's going to struggle because it's like she's going to struggle in the dating market, you know, like for a long time term because she's just difficult to deal with, you know.
02:01:35.000If a woman came to the table and she is making the same amount of money as you, independent but willing to submit, yeah, submit, et cetera, et cetera, would you be willing to be with that woman if you guys were the equals in that way?
02:02:16.000So not depending on a man to get where she needs to be, meaning not wanting a man to do this, that, and the third, putting those societal norms that are usually put on men.
02:02:25.000However, when they get into a relationship with a man that meets them, I guess at the same financial level, the same mental level, et cetera, et cetera.
02:02:34.000And then they choose to be able to submit to certain things.
02:02:39.000Would you be willing to be with that woman?
02:02:45.000So let's say you're walking down the street and like um a very able-bodied man is carrying like 10 grocery bags he only wants to do one trip right like brandon he's walking around with 10 grocery bags no problem would you stop to try to help him me personally yeah i absolutely would no would you like stop if he's walking fine not struggling would you tell him oh hey do you need help with those bags would you stop me yeah would you yeah would you stop brandon and be like oh i would i'd be like do you want some help Okay, I'm you.
02:03:54.000This is kind of, and it's very important that I bring this up because what ends up happening is women just end up wanting men versus needing them.
02:04:01.000And if you only want a man you're not going to do everything required to keep the man because you're always going to think i'm independent and that's why i asked you that question um independent of whom only women say this crazy concept of i'm independent of men technically we're independent too but we don't say that Like, they just expect me to be independent.
02:05:15.000Like when I say, oh, I get manicures and pedicures, that doesn't really benefit you.
02:05:18.000you does that make sense like oh yeah i do this it's good for me right my cleanliness and my cuticles look great but it doesn't really benefit you as the woman if anything it's a bit feminine just like you i'm independent that doesn't really benefit me that much if anything women that tend to be independent tend to come with like some attitude pain in the ass i don't need you this entire sense of entitlement so again If women are independent, ask yourself, of who?
02:06:36.000But yeah, like we, we, I. We I call it we have unfettered hypergamy, which is basically like you got girls that are like average just shooting for the stars, right?
02:06:48.000It used to be like average women would kind of be like, Oh, well, I'm average, average guy.
02:06:54.000But now that with the internet and access and everything, dating apps, et cetera, women are able to bat way out of their fucking league.
02:07:02.000And then the guys are willing to take it.
02:07:03.000So what ends up happening is like a minority of the men have a majority of the women because we have open hypergamy now where women are encouraged to do the best they can.
02:07:11.000And even dating a guy on their level is like frowned upon.
02:07:16.000But yeah, that's the problem with age.
02:07:17.000It's not that older women are bad, it's just that older women tend to become what bad habits not conducive to a long term relationship, if that makes sense.
02:07:25.000And a lot of times they don't want to change or whatever, they don't want to assimilate to the guy that they're with.
02:07:30.000And then coming in with the mindset of I'm independent, I think is already kind of one foot out the door, because you're going to be less likely to make things work if you have other options because another thing too going on with your hypergamy.
02:07:41.000Since women are hypergamous, I think women need to understand like the way women may select is based on doubt.
02:09:38.000An average girl can be in a room with a celebrity easily.
02:09:41.000She can go ahead and DM a celebrity and get a response.
02:09:43.000So what ends up happening is that I kind of, you know, I don't want to say like infects their mindset but it gives them this ideology of like oh I could do better like I got blue checks responding to me I've met Chris Brown before I got invited to this yacht party like that girl for example in the corner I guarantee you she's probably dealt with some celebrities before that's why she behaves that way so you know that's one of the problems with a super interconnected world I think it's hurt women quite a lot is that they think that they could get this level of guy but realistically you can get him but can you keep him but then they got to come to the reality of what can I
02:10:13.000actually get to keep then it's way less than what they think they can And it always hits the girls hardest that like do what she does, right?
02:10:21.000That are insufferable, think they're smart.
02:10:24.000I'll tell y'all right now, she's probably not going to get married.
02:10:27.000they cry alone in the bed but no i'm so because you gotta think girls like women typically only date up like only guys guys you know i got a chicken number who's working at mcdonald's once you know what i'm saying but like like girls she had that problem was a real story yeah but girls only only date up really you know it's typically so she's making a lot of money but she's doing what she's doing to make the money the kind of guy she want it's not really gonna want to with her you know what i'm saying on her You know.
02:10:53.000So it's like it puts her, it kind of paints her, she's kind of painted herself in a corner.
02:11:13.000So, you know, just drawing off experience.
02:11:15.000So it really depends on where she is at that time.
02:11:17.000But what I've noticed is like with women, typically the more, the younger they are, the more attractive they are, the more they're trying to get the highest status guy that they can.
02:12:29.000Like the girl who broke up with her boyfriend, like you can see all that, like the fancy rose rose, all that shit, like but is she capable of that capacity of what that's a fantastic question.
02:16:17.000Talk about it for a reason because that's usually where when people are not educated on the topic but have strong opinions that's where the conversations go So that's why I did ask that out of fun.
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