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00:04:44.000Okay, ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, your body count.
00:15:56.000Okay, so I haven't really been to any Miami places, so I can't give any recommendations, but in the Broward area, Señor Ceviche, hands down.
00:16:08.000And I started eating ceviche when I moved here.
00:16:10.000When I was in Peru, I actually, like fish ceviche.
00:16:13.000I used to have ceviche de pota, which is calamar.
00:22:46.000And I leave because it's like, it does a lot to someone's self-esteem.
00:22:49.000Like a lot of people don't think that guy's...
00:22:51.000Take it hard, you know, are sad about it, but it destroys them.
00:22:56.000They're never the same after it, so I just would always, you know, if it wasn't the right fit, I would just tell them, like, you know, this isn't working, and then end it.
00:23:04.000Like, it doesn't make sense to stay in it when you're not fully in it, right?
00:23:09.000And then it also says something about your character, too.
00:23:11.000That's very mature of you, if that's true.
00:23:25.000Why women don't admit to that when they do?
00:23:27.000Because women cheat, if not more than men.
00:23:30.000I've never even, I've talked to throughout my life, I don't know how many women, and no woman has ever admitted to, hey, I've cheated before.
00:25:11.000But makes effort to see or talk to you.
00:25:14.000Is it never true when a woman says this?
00:25:15.000Straight, what do you think about this?
00:25:16.000So he's asking the question, is it never true when a woman says she has a lot going on in her personal life, but makes effort to see you or talk to you?
00:25:22.000I think he means doesn't make effort to see you.
00:26:27.000Constantly getting drunk, crying in the bathroom, sleeping with multiple guys, lying to me about it, locked herself in the bathroom with a guy.
00:26:44.000No, she got pregnant at 19, had the baby.
00:26:46.000Then the second time she got pregnant six months after the baby was born, she got pregnant again and then got an abortion and then took off and left her baby daddy with the kid and went off and dated other guys and didn't take care of her child.
00:28:19.000I think children need a mother and a father because there's that feminine energy, the nurturing, the masculine energy, providing an example, how to be a man, how to do things, how to build things with your hands.
00:32:36.000I was raised by a single mom, so it's one of those things I think Even if you're an only child or you're raised by a single parent, it's the job of the parent.
00:32:48.000I would say sometimes she's more of a dad as harshness instead of a mom in that sense.
00:32:56.000So I think it's important that single moms of sons don't baby their sons, but also find someone who's a strong male figure to put in their life.
00:33:04.000I think a lot of women that I know that raised sons...
00:34:30.000I was reading How to Retire When You're 40 kind of thing.
00:34:33.000I'm an odd, I'm an anomaly and I recognize that.
00:34:36.000Yeah, but what I'm trying to get at here is that the disciplinarian side is far more important to the child's overall development and becoming successful and being a contributing member to society than them being nurtured.
00:34:47.000I make the argument that I think fathers are the more important parent than the mother.
00:34:51.000Especially in adolescent years and the formative years where that child can start making serious mistakes that fuck them up.
00:35:43.000If your dad can beat the shit out of you, well, you're going to more than likely comply to some degree.
00:35:48.000I think your dad should expose you to the real world.
00:35:50.000He gives you that taste of what the real world really is.
00:35:52.000And there was a study, Roald Tomasi talks about it in his book, shout out to him, that single fathers actually do better with producing children that don't become criminals and degenerates, etc.
00:36:01.000when they compare them to single mothers.
00:38:57.000I look at it like you're simping once it's unreciprocated.
00:39:00.000So if you're giving a girl time and attention and she's not reciprocating and giving you something back in exchange and you're simping because that girl doesn't like you and you're investing too much.
00:39:11.000It's just a guy who lets a woman take advantage of it.
00:39:15.000And just to go further, because you said you think people avoid simping.
00:39:19.000I disagree because, right, okay, it used to be you can give a girl flowers on a first date and you wouldn't get punished for that.
00:39:27.000She would like, you know, you'd be meeting a nice, dutiful, feminine woman that wasn't going to be a scumbag and wouldn't dog you out.
00:39:34.000But nowadays, you can't give a girl flowers, right?
00:39:37.000Because you'd be a simp nowadays and girls don't respect that.
00:39:39.000But back before, guys used to be traditional and they'd give girls flowers and it'd be okay because she would reciprocate to that nice treatment.
00:40:32.000Maybe harder to work with people, and that's unfortunate that you can't do that demonstration, but I think maybe sometimes it works if you're genuine.
00:40:43.000And that's my point, is that it used to be if you went out on a date in the 1950s and you brought a girl flowers and you opened a door, chivalry was respected back then.
00:42:26.000But you knew that of those 8 or 9 dates, or sorry, those 10 dates, 8 or 9 of the girls are not going to receive those flowers properly.
00:42:33.000Would you actually go to this extent and buy the flowers for every single one of those dates, knowing that you have a 10 to 20% probability of success?
00:43:21.000Obviously, you wouldn't do that all the time, right?
00:43:24.000But, like, what if you saw somebody and you guys had a super connection and you stared into each other's eyes and you had a sparkle and you just felt like, yo, like, me and you, I feel some type of way about you.
00:43:35.000You're the one for me and I want to bring you flowers out of anybody else, right?
00:43:39.000So, like, that would be the moment I'll bring somebody flowers.
00:43:43.000Obviously, you don't want to, like, go around all day bringing How about this?
00:45:00.000Have all of you been on a date before with a guy that you didn't really like that much, but you just were like, fuck it, I'll give it a chance?
00:45:09.000Girls clearly go out on dates with guys that they don't like like that.
00:45:13.000So, me as a guy, I know that women are prone to do this because they like attention, free meals, whatever it may be.
00:45:18.000I'd be an idiot, knowing how women really move in 2023, to spend money and get flowers and increase my investment to a girl that hasn't invested back in me.
00:45:37.000We're the ones that have to actually go there and attract you guys.
00:45:39.000And women tend to look at things typically like you're already attracted to the guy.
00:45:43.000But the reality is if I come and bring you flowers before anything else, I've not had you invest anything, you're not going to respect me, unfortunately.
00:45:54.000If it worked, dudes would be out here buying flowers.
00:45:56.000But sometimes it does, don't you think?
00:45:58.000I feel like some girls go on a date with a guy where maybe they're not sure about him and they give it a chance, and then sometimes that chance turns into something that they actually really like.
00:46:09.000You have a situation that some women, and not all, not even most, there are a few women that actually love flowers.
00:46:17.000That may click for a woman like that, that type of gesture.
00:50:34.000Y'all making it seem like y'all want the women to do this and do that first.
00:50:37.000No, we would like you to come in providing value the same way that we do, but just do it in your way and not waiting for me to do something.
00:50:45.000And then if you do something, then I'm going to do something.
00:51:10.000So if your boyfriend or whatever is taking care of you or taking you to dinner and you can't make a sandwich for him, even if you're not the best sandwich maker, it's kind of messed up because even if you don't like doing it or whatever, you do it because it makes him happy.
00:51:23.000No, no, but for the first time, for the first encounter, we're just saying, look, flowers, we get it.
00:51:29.000Some girls might like it, some girls might not like it.
00:51:30.000We're just saying, as a general rule here, for a guy, you come up with flowers from the first encounter, it could be taken as bad or good.
00:51:36.000So to avoid that, we just come into it and we see, from that point of view, the value up front.
00:51:41.000But again, you're saying, do it rationally, but we might get turned down.
00:53:26.000I'm just gonna keep it a thousand with y'all.
00:53:28.000Since most women are useless hoes that don't appreciate chivalry and don't appreciate gentlemen, I need to make sure that you're not a useless ho.
00:53:34.000You have to make sure that you're willing to add value and you're a good female before I give you any type of good treatment.
00:53:40.000But just because I decline someone don't mean I would be like, oh, you're useless.
00:53:46.000Just because I'm not interested in talking to them, I'm not going to put them into the category like, oh, you're useless.
00:53:56.000If you come into any situation and you don't provide value, you're useless.
00:54:01.000Like, just because I'm not interested in someone or maybe I don't feel something with someone or I don't want to talk to them, I would not, like, put them in the category of, like, they don't have value or, like, say that they're useless.
00:54:14.000Actually, when a woman declines a man, what she's effectively saying is, your genes are not worthy to be replicated amongst me and continue a lineage.
00:54:48.000And then you guys have the audacity to sit there and want me to give you the benefit of the doubt and show up with flowers, knowing that most of you girls are useless hoes.
00:55:16.000But then I come in and I say, you know what?
00:55:18.000Since most women are selective, but they don't necessarily bring the same value and a lot of them are useless hoes, I'm gonna reserve the right to not be a gentleman off rips so I don't get used and abused by these chicks.
00:55:28.000And you guys look at me like I'm an asshole, but you guys reject 99% of guys and basically tell them, nah, your gene pool ain't good enough, nigga.
00:57:29.000I was just gonna say, it's one of those things like, I think flowers should be reserved for someone that maybe like the third date and like you can actually see it going somewhere.
00:57:36.000But like, unfortunately, guys do get used for a lot of first dates and I actually do feel bad for guys.
00:58:03.000Have you ever been approached by a guy and you're like, this is too fast?
00:58:06.000You like him, potentially, but you need to, like, test the water.
00:58:10.000Yeah, but it was kind of a different situation with me for that.
00:58:13.000But I would say, for most guys that do approach women, it is one of those things, like, if a guy comes off a little too forward, you're naturally going to push back because it is a lot soon.
00:58:24.000And anything, any niceness today is like...
00:58:33.000That came to mind because back in the 50s and 60s, he would show up to your front doorstep, knock on the door with flowers, put your jacket on, put you in the car.
00:58:40.000But now it's like, okay, with, let's say, all these dating apps, it's like you don't know who's on there for what.
00:58:47.000It's not like you met Sally at church in your hometown and there's only a couple hot girls, so you're going to pick Sally.
00:58:55.000And give Sally the flowers, and Sally doesn't have, like, you know, your options are more limited, so you have a higher chance of success in pulling Sally in and, you know, making her your wife or whatever.
00:59:05.000So I think also society, being in a big city, also Miami, dating is probably horrible, thank God I'm not in that situation now.
00:59:12.000I don't know, big city, New York, Milan, it's just, it's a mess because there's a lot of people, a lot of demand, and people aren't getting what they want, and they're being picky.
01:08:44.000I think, one, yes, because they don't want to get caught, but two, I think some men lie about things, they omit truth, but women view that as lying, and it's just because they want to keep the peace in a relationship, and they're like, I don't want to, like, I'm not going to start a fire in my house, kind of thing.
01:08:57.000What is the biggest truth that's omitted, in your opinion?
01:09:02.000Maybe, like, A female co-worker invited him to lunch at work or something like that.
01:10:53.000Alright, for me, it's maybe deflecting or turning it back on you and being like, oh, well, you're just being paranoid.
01:11:00.000I mean, I've never had, like, maybe when I was 18, I had my first boyfriend, he probably lied about a few things, but I don't have that experience of, like, suspecting that my boyfriend's lying.
01:11:42.000I feel like they have to get warmed up to the situation and certain ones will be able to accept it and others won't because they just want to deny it.
01:13:43.000Nah, I said, I don't care what I want to hear.
01:13:49.000Tell me what I need to hear, which is the truth.
01:13:54.000Being on OnlyFans is going to significantly reduce your ability to find a man to take you seriously for some type of long-term relationship and your chances of getting a marriage with a man that you will actually be attracted to and aroused by simultaneously have been diminished.
01:15:43.000So, last podcast, we mentioned how guys should, like, approach girls, for example, of cheating or, for example, just telling them what it is.
01:15:50.000And I mentioned before that I don't really say what I do.
01:22:43.000And then I said to myself, I said, dang, I see why men be doing this.
01:22:47.000I get what y'all trying to say, but I feel like when it comes to relationships and you emotionally attached to somebody, you're not going to do, like, you're not going to, oh, let me try this, let me try this.
01:26:19.000It's like you dig it hard like 50 times a day when you're 26 years old.
01:26:24.000I got a better way to describe this for them because the women here are a little, no offense, you guys are kind of dense when it comes to this because you guys are not men.
01:31:19.000I got money, then I got rings for marriage, then I got social media, and then I got time.
01:31:25.000And the reason why I say that is because, and I talk about it in general, women have changed significantly, and most girls don't deserve the things that you used to give to women 50, 60, 70 years ago.
01:31:35.000Since women are independent, they behave in a different way because of feminism, and I tell guys, hey, you need to pick the right girl, not just any girl.
01:32:44.000Fast money comes with slow problems, and one of those is that if you decide to go into certain professions, you might not deserve a certain caliber of guy.
01:35:14.000So look, ladies, if there's a guy, right, and he's like a player, he's community dick or whatever y'all call it, do you think he deserves a good, loyal woman?
01:36:15.000I feel like everybody deserves that, but at the same time, if you out here just giving it up, you can't expect somebody to be just willing to give it up like that.
01:37:47.000Okay, so by your logic then, because a community guy doesn't deserve a good woman, then a community woman doesn't deserve a good man, right?
01:38:29.000I think everyone deserves love, but I'll say you get what you give.
01:38:32.000And it's very interesting to see the women's answers on this one, because we have two girls on the panel that are involved in sex work, so they're gonna give pussy answers.
01:39:41.000There's always somebody who's going to bust it open.
01:39:45.000What if I told you that women are pretty similar in what they look for in guys, and if a guy struggles with one girl, there's probably a good chance that he might struggle with five, then he might struggle with ten, might struggle with a bunch.
01:39:54.000There's going to be somebody that give it to him.
01:39:56.000It might not be the girl he want, but somebody...
01:41:11.000The world operates on generalities, okay?
01:41:14.000For example, when you go to the bathroom, even though they're trying to be crazy about it, there's typically a men's bathroom and a women's bathroom, right?
01:41:21.000Because in general, there's two genders, right?
01:41:24.000Despite clown world or whatever they're trying to say, there's two genders.
01:41:28.000In general, most people have two legs and walk, right?
01:41:30.000So we have stairs for people to be there.
01:41:32.000There's handicapped every now and then, but that's not the general, so we don't have handicapped railings, everything.
01:41:37.000So the world operates on generalities, right?
01:41:40.000There's umbrella everywhere because most people can see, correct?
01:41:43.000So I get that you're like, this is offensive because this is a general conversation, but the world works on generalities.
01:45:47.000No matter the profession, as a human, as a person, if this girl wants to say that she wants to go find a man that loves her and whatever she wants, she does deserve that.
01:45:56.000And if a nigga, I don't know if I say that, but if a man wants that and he does that, he can do the same.
01:46:01.000It's just there are people and everybody deserves love.
01:46:03.000Do you think that people who are not doing good things deserve the right to damage people?
01:47:20.000I know, but don't you think the way that we're having conversation at this table and you're putting certain things on them is emotionally damaging?
01:50:08.000But I'm just saying, for sure at that moment when you're doing it and you're making money off of it, no, I don't think any guy would be okay with that.
01:50:29.000I'm saying like another person living their life, I shouldn't get to tell them why they get to be happy or not if it's not affecting someone else.
01:50:51.000No, I'm saying that if I see someone maybe not doing something that I understand or that I agree with, that I get to tell them that they don't deserve happiness.
01:55:03.000I'd rather more people in the world wake up and be happy and not bother me than people wake up and be mad and I have to fucking talk to them or bump into them in the street and it's a problem for me.
01:55:12.000I don't understand it either, but I do know some people who that's how they view their life and I admire that.
01:55:17.000I don't want to tell anyone why they do or don't get to be happy.
01:55:21.000All I want to worry about is how to be the best happy I can.
01:55:28.000Everyone has a right to live their own life, and if you choose to do that route, that is your choice.
01:55:33.000You're in a country where you have the blessing that you can do that, make your money, do your thing.
01:55:38.000It's just saying be mindful that there might be consequences of most men are not going to like that.
01:55:44.000And if you can say that and say, okay, that's going to impact my selection of who a future mate is, and maybe you don't want a future mate, and that's perfectly fine, too.
01:55:53.000It's just saying be mindful of the fact that there are things out there.
01:55:56.000The things that are hard in life are the things that are respected.
01:56:08.000I would argue a lot of young, especially young people because of TikTok and all these different social medias, it's easy to make money and they don't think about the future.
01:56:16.000I think a lot of people are in the industry that you're trying to remind them of the consequences are very aware of that and that's something they deal with every day.
01:57:55.000Yeah, like, yo, like, ladies, just so y'all know, you can't just, like, walk off the show and think it's gonna be all good and shit like that.
01:58:01.000Like, if your feelings are triggered or whatever...
01:59:29.000But if you want to come back on and Chris giving you the privilege, because I'll be honest with y'all, normally I'll be like, get the fuck out of here.
01:59:34.000We don't give a fuck what y'all say because we already got a platform.
01:59:37.000It's an opportunity for you to be here, right?
02:04:38.000So bro you just got to really to get girls to submit you got to be able to put your foot down to tell them like this is not your house this is not how this shit goes and the thing is especially with girls like that like you really got to be on your P's and Q's man.
02:05:21.000I would like to say that I hope I offer a different perspective or opinion, and I know my opinion doesn't mean shit on this podcast, to be honest, and I'm okay with that, too.
02:05:38.000But it's also one of those things, like...
02:05:40.000Because of the environment that I work in and a lot of things like that, I feel bad for a lot of guys who are the good guy that do bring the flowers.
02:05:53.000And I think more girls need to tell other girls the truth about what they do.
02:05:58.000So, like, you're in your 20s, you're young, you've made the decisions that you have, and you probably make bank for doing it.
02:06:04.000And it's an easy job in that sense, and that is fine.
02:06:07.000But it is, you probably don't have a lot of experiences where you're around people that say, hey, this isn't forever, and you have to be okay with the choices.
02:06:15.000Like, again, I have friends that do it.
02:06:17.000I have friends that are dominatrix- All different types of sex work.
02:06:22.000They're about to hit their 40s, and they're realizing, hey, my life isn't what it was in my 20s.
02:06:27.000Like, someone that I know wants to adopt, and she can't because of her job.
02:11:02.000The more money you have, the more you can afford to be honest with chicks.
02:11:04.000Because then they got to pick and choose like, damn, all right, he's going to go out and fuck other girls, but he takes care of me and he's attractive.
02:12:06.000We're big on like, you should pay for the first date, you gotta be a leader, you gotta have your shit together, you gotta be able to provide for your girl, she should work electively, etc.
02:13:20.000On any one of your past one-night stands, what do two or three things that the man do say or help make you feel for you to let him smash that first night?
02:13:28.000Bro, they ain't gonna admit that shit, nigga.
02:15:20.000Worst Generation says, in middle school, I would get mad at all the girls in relationships because I always wanted a relationship in middle school, but I knew I had no chance.
02:18:16.000Emotional intelligence is when you are in tune with your emotions like you know how to process them you know what emotion you're feeling you can be vulnerable and talk about how you feel openly and yeah I mean that's pretty much emotional intelligence you know you can handle your emotions you know how to process them you can handle other people's emotions okay and last but not least what about you?
02:18:42.000I wouldn't want him sorry I wouldn't want him to marry the girl with the yellow top who left and wouldn't apologize because that's not a good character.
02:19:18.000Yeah, based on what they've been through, you know, people who haven't been damaged typically feel better in relationships, so it'll probably be her or her.
02:19:31.000Yeah, Myron and Chris are here fixing the broken TV. Okay, ICSite2 says, WKingDre, well, he looked like the type of dude who gets offended when you ask him about practice.
02:21:19.000So when y'all say hoe, when you think of a hoe, what do you think of?
02:21:23.000When you say, oh, she's a hoe, what do you think of?
02:21:25.000A woman who sleeps around with no intention of dating a guy or forming a relationship or a woman who sleeps around solely for a financial gain?
02:21:36.000That's my definition too, but also like a woman who can sleep with more than one man at a time.
02:22:50.000So he's asking, for example, 50-50 with an average guy or high-status guy who checks everything, but no girl's trips, no club, no social media, no male friends.
02:23:01.000So for me, I don't, I'm not, I'm more traditional, so 50-50 doesn't make sense for me, so I would be willing to give up the club, whatever, I got that out of my system in my early 20s, girls, trips, I've never taken one in my life.
02:23:16.000So high status man who checks everything?
02:23:18.000Yeah, I mean, male friends, I've never had guy friends because it's never worked.
02:26:13.000I appreciate friendship, and I know that y'all gonna talk shit about it, but I appreciate more friendship because if we get into some sort of relationship or sexual thing, not everybody can handle having sex with someone and still keep a friendship.
02:26:29.000So I'd rather now step there and just keep the beauty of the friendship.
02:26:32.000So you guys have never hooked up, not one time.
02:30:08.000It was a very tricky situation when it first happened, but now it's been like...
02:30:15.000For five years since I broke up, or four years.
02:30:18.000But let me ask you though, so you would, like if you found that guy, it's like he's everything, but it's like, okay, I'm not feeling the male friend shit.
02:30:26.000Like you don't have to just own him and call him and say, hey, never again and shit, but like you can't, you got to cut contact with that.
02:39:31.000If you want to have a man in your life at the same time, you're cheating, basically, because that guy wants to be with you.
02:39:36.000That's the only reason a man is your friend, because it's like, okay, this is all you're going to be, but...
02:39:41.000Y'all don't really, I'm not to, like, sound crazy, but, like, there's really, like, unless you, like, like, I have females that I'm cool with, but we do business.
02:39:51.000Like, I'm a female that do my marketing and stuff like that.
02:39:54.000But, like, to just have a woman, like, there's nothing in common.
02:40:41.000But on the female side, though, I will say this.
02:40:43.000For a female, you're playing your cards right.
02:40:45.000Like, having a guy friend, you get boyfriend energy, you get a provider for a degree, you get a protector, somebody gives a shit about you, like, he would come pick you up if you needed it, you know what I mean?
02:40:54.000He was getting ready to pay for her Uber.
02:41:03.000Okay, but the point is that you have...
02:41:06.000A lot of people would, but I do pay my own.
02:41:08.000The point we're trying to make here is that you have a masculine presence that you don't have to give sex to or give some type of reciprocal romantic energy to, but you're getting the benefits of boyfriend energy.
02:41:20.000You got a man without having to do anything.
02:44:35.000You do realize that any guy that you get that has any type of masculine presence is going to have a serious issue with you having a guy friend, right?
02:44:46.000I've already been in a relationship where I made it clear that I was not going to get rid of any type of friendship or anything that makes me happy to accommodate my relationship, and I got married to the person.
02:45:00.000I mean, I'm not going to get there, but either way.
02:45:28.000She didn't even have to let me finish.
02:45:30.000Would you be okay if he can go and confide in this woman and, you know, she cooked for him from time to time when he's lonely or need an ear to vent to?
02:48:54.000Because I was the only question that they had after...
02:48:58.000I mean, I didn't want to talk about this because I haven't really talked about this since it happened, and I really don't care about changing people's perspective because I know that he's going around giving a story that I haven't really given time to change it.
02:51:32.000Well, then those type of men shouldn't get into a relationship.
02:51:35.000If you aren't able to communicate, then that's one of the main things in a relationship.
02:51:39.000Yeah, but a lot of guys don't want to share their feelings with women because women don't Women don't respond favorably to emotional men, unfortunately.
02:51:47.000Especially if those feelings don't serve you.
02:51:50.000So it's best for a lot of men, because a lot of these relationships, there's no room for me to have a problem, for me to feel an ill way about you.
02:51:59.000So a lot of men are just like, fuck it.
02:52:47.000Now, I ain't talking about he curse you out like a dog and all that shit, but it's like, oh, well, you didn't do it right or you didn't say it right or it's not the right way, so there's nothing.
02:54:48.000Me not saying shit about it and just fixing a problem of my own and then taking on vacation to get the benefits of it or me crying about it?
02:54:53.000I think it's more attractive to fix it.
02:54:56.000You can mention, by the way, I lost my job.
02:56:26.000Both individuals are men, but here's the problem.
02:56:28.000The female's perception changes when she sees her man cry the first time.
02:56:31.000And see, the thing is, is that you guys can't tell me anything right now because it's easy for you to sit here on a podcast in 2020 and be like, man, I wouldn't leave my man for crying.
02:56:39.000Oh, let's see, the light's not being paid.
03:00:22.000So, I mean, like I said, like I said, all of you guys agreed that the guy that doesn't cry and just fixes the problem is more attractive.
03:00:31.000And the guy that doesn't show weakness and just, even if shit's crumbling all around him and he doesn't show it and he's still, you don't know about the problems and it looks like he's going to figure it out, that's more attractive.
03:00:42.000Women say they want a vulnerable man until they meet a vulnerable man and they're with that guy and they have to picture a future with that guy.
03:04:53.000You know, because you want to be treated like a king, you got to act like a king.
03:04:58.000You don't see the president, whoever the president may be, he can't be like, oh, I'm scared, and oh, I don't know what we're going to do, because we're not going to trust him.
03:07:12.000Alright, the fact that she would even put her male best friend on blast like this and toy with his emotions live on the air just proves that she don't deserve anything but the streets.
03:09:42.000I like the honesty, so I appreciate it, and I think you guys are good at giving everyone a platform to debate their opinion, so I appreciate that.
03:09:49.000Are you going to let your future guy cheat?
03:14:21.000I see them sometimes when they're over, but it's not like he lets me know, hey, I have someone over.
03:14:26.000He can have whoever the fuck he wants over.
03:14:28.000Have you ever had a situation to where one of his chicks that he was dealing with had a problem with you?
03:14:35.000Actually, my best friend at the beginning, she was, when we were in best friends, obviously, because I met her through him.
03:14:42.000But at the beginning, she was honest with me.
03:14:46.000One time we had a conversation and she told me that she felt kind of like a little out of place because she would see how close we are and like, we are very like, you know, like this.