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00:03:39.000And, girls, send me a DM on RNC Parks on IG. Make sure that if you're all coming to Miami and, you know, vacationing and whatever, just fly through Fresh Fate Podcast, you know?
00:07:35.000It's that I'm very honest about things that typically tend to be pretty factual.
00:07:40.000I mean, in general, women that are involved in OnlyFans or pornography or anything in the sex industry have a difficult time getting in relationships.
00:08:14.000So wouldn't it be, if you can only speak for yourself, but I'm telling you in general, most women that are involved in sex work have a difficult time getting into and staying in relationships.
00:08:21.000Well, as somebody who's actually in the industry, I can tell you that that is false because I know a lot of women that do it and are in very happy relationships.
00:08:29.000Okay, just because you know some doesn't necessarily mean that a majority.
00:09:22.000Why is it that you guys are okay with agreeing with the general fact when it puts the man in a bad situation with finding a girl because he's not, you know, financially adept, versus I tell you on the other side, well, a woman that tends to have a sexual history or be promiscuous, she's going to have a difficult time finding a man.
00:09:37.000A woman that's involved in a certain industry is the same as a man that's a bum.
00:09:42.000But you guys have no issues when I bring it the other way around.
00:09:48.000My point is that a woman that's involved in sex work is going to have a lot of the same difficulties that a man that doesn't have his money together finding a mate.
00:14:03.000I mean, I think instead of people talk, always talk about happiness, but I think they're searching for like contentment and I think happiness is fleeting.
00:14:13.000So when you do the hard work to create like that foundation of being content, then I think happiness can follow.
00:16:16.000Well, women are able to get all the same rights and privileges as men, while simultaneously still be able to be treated like ladies and enjoy the benefits of chivalry.
00:16:26.000So, they're able to kind of burn the candle at both ends.
00:16:46.000And not just that, Myron, but you have women that come here every single night and say the same thing and it's not like you're going to be like, yeah, you're right.
00:16:54.000You're going to disagree because it's part of your narrative.
00:17:36.000I'm not saying that I'm pissed off about it or whatever, but I acknowledge the facts and I acknowledge the truth that men must work for their value.
00:18:00.000What I personally want, just because I say I want a girl to bring value doesn't necessarily mean that every girl brings value to every man.
00:18:40.000The point is that she's at the house, which means she attracted him, which means she successfully seduced him to some degree where she's there at the house.
00:20:45.000When I state things that are objective fact, I get responses like, that's your opinion, or that's not a fact, in general isn't an opinion, blah, blah, blah.
00:20:53.000And then, literally, you proved my point.
00:20:55.000I said, women lack critical thinking skills.
00:20:57.000I logically went down the line why it's harder for men, why life is harder for men, why women are more selective in the reproductive process, etc., using biology, and you guys are still trying to sit here and argue with me.
00:23:42.000But that does not disqualify what I said.
00:23:44.000In general, that women live easier lives than men.
00:23:47.000I literally laid out the reasons why, from a biological standpoint, from a productivity standpoint, from a mindset standpoint, men must bring value and men are only loved unless they bring value in the world, period.
00:23:59.000Did you grow up with two parents in your home?
00:24:38.000Men, on the other hand, if he's a loser and he's just handsome, eh, he might bang a girl here or there, but most chicks aren't going to respect him.
00:24:46.000He's not going to be able to keep a girl long term.
00:24:47.000His dating prospects are going to go down and no one's going to respect him.
00:24:50.000Because at the end of the day, when two men meet, they shake hands and say, what do you do for work?
00:27:55.000Listen, let me tell you something from someone who's dated someone with a child.
00:28:01.000I'm a very, very, very respectful person.
00:28:03.000Like, I'm going to get to know the baby mama and we're going to be friends and we're going to have a...
00:28:07.000Because at the end of the day, if there's kids involved, then yeah, no, I'm going to have that relationship with that woman as well because I have to have the respect at least for her.
00:28:17.000So she may not like me at first, but you're going to love me in the end.
00:28:21.000I will just say jealousy and the fact that her kids could turn her against you, so you never know.
00:28:25.000But you say you could deal with it, so there you go.
00:28:29.000I wouldn't say, like, subtract, but if I would give general advice, I would say that they should, single moms should date single dads just because, like, statistically, like, abuse goes up and just, like,
00:29:37.000It's how you carry yourself, how that person was raised, and all that.
00:29:42.000But as an individual, that extra, I don't call it baggage, but extra work and effort into someone else's kid, isn't that going to drain on you?
00:29:51.000Well, how much do you want to be with this person?
00:29:53.000So if you want to be with this person, they come with this.
00:29:56.000So that means you just don't love that person.
00:29:58.000Because if you're already thinking it's baggage, just leave.
00:30:10.000If you love this person, you're going to take it in.
00:30:13.000But it's not really all about love when blending families.
00:30:18.000There could be drama with the other person.
00:30:22.000If it's a man who has the kids, drama with the woman he was married to and then And also the kids, they may not see you as a parent ever, mom or dad.
00:30:32.000So you just have to think about these things.
00:30:34.000Not saying that, oh, if you find a good person, you shouldn't marry them.
00:30:38.000But I think you should be conscientious of future complications that could come up.
00:31:40.000I don't think single mothers should subtract themselves.
00:31:43.000I feel like date who you want to date, but I feel like mothers with children and then men with children, they kind of understand each other better.
00:31:53.000So maybe it would be better if you dated somebody with a child.
00:31:57.000So I don't think they should subtract themselves.
00:31:59.000Would you date a guy with kids being single with no kids?
00:32:19.000Isn't it amazing how, like, girls dress up certain things and, like, they use womanese to dress up, like, what it really is?
00:32:24.000Like, what she really wants to say is, if he's financially successful, he's able to stable, and he has the children and we're good, then yeah, I could do it.
00:32:51.000It has to be A lot more that you could provide than just money because, believe it or not, women nowadays are making just as much money, sometimes even more than a lot of these guys.
00:33:03.000And you know what happens when women make money?
00:37:39.000This is a problem that you guys don't realize.
00:37:44.000Just because you know a dude that's a bum that's with a girl doesn't necessarily mean that guys that have low socioeconomic status are out here winning.
00:37:52.000Like, most guys struggle with women that don't have kids.
00:37:55.000Most guys that are average can't even get a date or get a girl to call them back.
00:37:59.000One in three men is either a virgin, hasn't had sex in a year.
00:38:02.000But you guys don't know this because you're females and you live life on easy mode.
00:38:05.000But the difference is, me as a man, not only do I need to know the male experience, but for me to be attractive to women, I have to know the female experience too.
00:38:12.000Because I'm the one that's responsible for planning the day.
00:38:14.000I'm the one responsible for spinning game.
00:38:16.000I'm the one responsible for dressing a certain way, having my shit together, being charming, being charismatic, etc.
00:38:21.000Because if I go on a date with a girl, even if she's a boring-ass bimbo and the date sucks, she's going to still blame me and say, that date sucked.
00:43:55.000I think single mothers are recreational use only.
00:43:57.000And the reason for that is because as a man, you don't really get much benefit dating a single mother, but you get a lot of responsibility, especially if something serious were to come of that relationship.
00:44:09.000Basically, you have a bunch of responsibility for a child that isn't yours with zero authority.
00:44:15.000If Junior decides to be disrespectful or whatever, I can't discipline him the way that I want.
00:44:25.000I can't discipline him the way that I want because he does have a father and or the mother might have an issue with me disciplining him a certain way.
00:46:46.000You're responsible for something, but zero authority over it.
00:46:49.000So you feel like you're working and you compare it to slavery.
00:46:57.000If you're supposed to love this woman and you're taking care of her kids and you feel like you can't discipline her kids, you compare it to slavery?
00:47:03.000Yes, because I am responsible for taking care of this child.
00:48:28.000Don't do it if it's not something you're willing to do.
00:48:30.000Ladies, during the course of this podcast, you cannot use your own personal experiences or I know this and I know that to speak about generalities of how the world works.
00:49:08.000I would sound absolutely stupid, wouldn't I? That is exactly what you guys do every single time I say a general fact and you say, but I know this!
00:49:49.000Ladies, if you believe chivalry is dead, it's because y'all killed it, and if y'all really want it back, all y'all gotta do as a whole is show appreciation and say, thank you.
00:49:57.000Appreciation goes a long way with men.
00:55:08.000Well, I'll explain, like, my background.
00:55:10.000I come from a Catholic African household.
00:55:12.000And so, like, since, like, 2018-19 and people start talking about dating and stuff, like, obviously the goal, just because how I was raised and kind of, like, the logic behind it, I would idealistically like to wait until marriage, but it's kind of,
00:55:29.000people here in America like both the men and women kind of like put down not just like waiting until marriage but like just like the stuff around it like learning the person more and like not really focusing on like the sex aspect and stuff so yeah I would say it's hard from both men and women.
01:00:15.000If my friend, if it's somebody that's close to me and I see that it's a problem health-wise, yeah, I absolutely feel like you should be able to tell them like, hey, listen, I love you, but lay off the crackers a little bit.
01:01:20.000But, nah, yeah, you should say things to people with respect, because at the end of the day, you should have some sort of respect for people.
01:01:29.000But I do agree with the fact that, yeah, people are a little, very sensitive.
01:01:36.000When you're in the military, right, and you're about to go to war, does a drill sergeant say, hey, you know, I think you should do these push-ups.
01:01:43.000You know, I think you should crawl into this.
01:01:44.000No, they say, hey, you fucking maggot, go do this, blah, blah, blah.
01:02:30.000I've coached Thousands of men, hundreds of women.
01:02:33.000And what I've realized is, this is why I personally don't like to coach women, because when you coach women, you have to speak to them a certain way.
01:02:38.000They're more concerned with how the information is conveyed versus the quality of information conveyed.
01:02:43.000Men, on the other hand, is they don't care about how the information is conveyed if they're looking to you for guidance.
01:02:48.000They care more about the information that is conveyed.
01:02:50.000So the problem with women a lot of times is they're emotional.
01:02:53.000And since they're emotional, even though the quality of the information is high, they're not going to take it in appropriately.
01:02:58.000So with women, you have to watch how you say things.
01:02:59.000But the problem is that sometimes you have to say things in a way so it gets through to them because it's a dire situation, but they will disqualify the information and stay up to be a fat piece of shit instead of doing what they're supposed to do.
01:03:09.000Which is why when you look at obesity, there's more fat women than there are fat men.
01:03:12.000Because women can't handle the truth a lot of times, unfortunately.
01:04:01.000Like earlier when you were saying how women live life on easy mode with OnlyFans and basically capitalizing on their sexuality and everything.
01:04:12.000Well, I think those specific examples that you detailed, it doesn't really lead to long-term fulfillment and stuff.
01:04:20.000You mentioned the fat woman experience.
01:04:22.000Getting laid easier than the fat man and stuff women don't really like place as much emphasis on that like compared to men so it's kind of like from the male mating perspective I guess because that's what they value but for like women and their mating strategies it it's just not what we prioritize if that makes sense.
01:04:49.000As far as for men, we don't prioritize looks in men.
01:04:52.000Or we don't prioritize like because because you talked about I addressed that I said if you're fat as a guy you better have money No, I'm talking about like when you were saying a woman live life on ismo because they can capitalize off of looks to get sex or like capitalize,
01:05:09.000like use OnlyFans basically to like get sex or the fat woman can get sex.
01:05:14.000It's like, yeah, it's just mostly around that.
01:05:16.000And women, yeah, obviously we value that, but not as much as kind of like the long term fulfillment.
01:05:22.000So my argument is that from a man, from the outside, it looks like, oh yeah, women are winning because they get more, you know, sexual access because that's what they value.
01:05:31.000But for women, because we value a more stable, like, long-term relationship, like, stability, the goal is not met.
01:05:41.000So, like, it's not on easy mode because our goal isn't fulfilled.
01:05:46.000Yeah, but if you're a woman, right, you're going to get approached, correct?
01:08:55.000We know that the Saudi Arabians, the US government, neocons, Israel, and Al-Qaeda were involved in 9-11, and we did a whole series exposing it.
01:09:06.000And we said some uncomfortable truths about all these components that were involved.
01:09:29.000But I went through a whole series exposing it.
01:09:31.000So if I acknowledge that they were involved in some type of activity that might have not been favorable or not that great, does that mean that I hate them?
01:09:41.000So if I get on a podcast and I talk about the negatives of female nature and how men need to prepare themselves and not be simps and adapt to the new normal, does that mean I hate women?
01:11:18.000I think I'm actually containing myself very well emotionally, despite the fact that I'm talking about people that just don't understand common logic and common sense and factual statements when it comes to biology and intersexual dynamics between the genders.
01:11:31.000And just because I acknowledge these things, right, point them out, help the guys understand this stuff, doesn't mean I hate women.
01:13:25.000Okay, you said last time when I pointed out the fact that you're a little emotional.
01:13:31.000You stated last time that the reason why he's emotional about this topic is because there's a lot of simps out there that need help and he's passionate about helping them.
01:16:59.000And this podcast proves that every night.
01:17:01.000We talk about on the daytime show, girls come in, reaffirm what I've said a million times, lack critical thinking skills, emotional, erratic, don't necessarily have logically sound arguments.
01:17:13.000No, I don't agree because my experience is this.
01:20:52.000Bender the Offender goes, ladies, if your family disowned you completely after you lost your virginity before marriage, would you go back in time and save your virginity?
01:22:22.000I'll be honest, a lot of guys are what I call placeholder boyfriends.
01:22:25.000The girl doesn't really like you like that.
01:22:27.000She's just with you because she just doesn't want to be alone and you're like the best option.
01:22:29.000But once something better comes along, you're fucking done.
01:22:31.000And you can always tell because, once again, if you give her some instructions, hey, this is what I don't like, this is what I like, and she does the opposite, she ain't fucking with you like that, bro.
01:24:23.000At the top of the show, I literally said it is harder for a woman to date when she's involved in pornography, the sex industry, blah, blah, blah.
01:25:36.000So whenever I see a girl, and she's not overtly proud of her man, or isn't shouting to the fucking rooftops that she's with him, 9 out of 10 times, he's just good enough, she has a guy, he accomplishes some things okay, but doesn't accomplish other things, checks some boxes, but not others, and if something better comes along,
01:29:11.000The way he went about doing the music and everything else like that with the hyper-feminized, emotional-type music, I think it's hurt men in general.
01:29:19.000I think it's a big reason why masculinity is dying in the West.
01:29:21.000Because if you look, when did men start getting pussified?
01:29:24.000When Drake rose to prominence in the early 2010s.
01:29:26.000You know what's crazy about that whole thing you just said?
01:29:52.000What do you think of a wife who asked for help from an old friend, I guess friend, about a problem that only the ex-boyfriend can help with?
01:30:04.000So, Myron, how would you define frame?
01:30:06.000And Myron and Fresh and girls, what do you think of a wife who asked for help from an old, I guess friend here, about a problem that only the ex-boyfriend can help with?
01:30:45.000And for a relationship to work really with a girl where she's like literally attracted and aroused you by you, etc., you have to always have frame in a relationship, bro.
01:30:53.000I've told you guys this a million times.
01:35:46.000We absolutely encourage women to be, you know, you go girl and you grow power and you do what you want and we have a culture of OnlyFans and girls being their own pornography agencies.
01:35:56.000So, I mean, nowadays, like, women are empowered to be promiscuous.
01:36:58.000As a matter of fact, if a guy calls a girl a whore, he's probably going to lose his job by HR. He's going to get, oh, whoa, you're a sexist!
01:45:50.000Girl in the middle clearly trying to cloud chase and use this as a funnel to her OF. In the first five minutes of the show, she tried to call Myron rude and a woman hater for simply asking questions.
01:57:20.000But what I'm trying to explain is that You don't have the leverage here and quite frankly he has more value in a dating marketplace than you do.
01:57:37.000I'm not agreeing with you, and I'm not disagreeing with you, but I'm just saying if a person just wants to entertain you, whether if they're broke or witch, they're gonna fucking shoot on you anyways, because that's the day and age we live in.
02:03:06.000But there are things that I just feel like...
02:03:07.000Would it be fair to say that you heard it, but you didn't necessarily listen, which is why you can't actually respond and tell me what I said that you disagree with or what is not factual?
02:05:35.000It is important, but it's not something that is like, oh, I'm going to date that guy over this guy who's not making money because he has money.
02:05:43.000Do you realize that you immediately followed that up by then saying, well, men have been providing for women for years.
02:06:46.000Why were men, like, busting their asses and being willing to provide security, etc., like you said, and worked hard to get women back then?
02:06:53.000Because they had the upper hand in everything.
02:07:28.000The reason why men worked harder back then and why men courted women back then is because they would be able to be rest assured that their wife was a virgin.
02:07:36.000Would be dutiful in the household, be able to give him children, wasn't promiscuous, wasn't being annoying, would be loyal.
02:07:43.000She would be able to raise his children well, and he'd be able to not have to worry about getting divorced.
02:07:48.000So the reason why men did this back then is because they were able to, rest assured, to get a high-quality woman with a regular factory job.
02:07:56.000But those days have changed, haven't they?
02:07:58.000We have women now that make their own money.
02:08:00.000They're more promiscuous than they've ever been.
02:08:01.000They're more masculine than they've ever been.
02:08:19.000How would your society look If you could change everything, if you can make things exactly the way Myron's world should be, how do you think it should be?
02:08:38.000Really don't deserve a good man like that.
02:08:40.000Because most girls are hoes, have a shitty past, have emotional issues, have a lot of trauma, etc., coming in with kids, and they think they deserve a 6'5 millionaire.
02:08:49.000And I'm saying, if you do get that guy, you should thank fucking God that you got him, be the best girlfriend that you could be, not be like all these other girls, and understand that you need to treat him like a fucking king, and you're not that special.
02:09:00.000He has more sexual market value than you.
02:09:02.000The reality is, most girls, okay, Over-inflate their sense of self-worth because of Instagram, social media, dating apps, etc.
02:09:46.000Like, a guy, right, has to make a lot of money to attract a woman that isn't a virgin, might have a kid, has trauma, is going to give him an attitude, probably coming with a career, making her own money.
02:10:28.000Women think they could talk to you like a man and act like a man and all this other stuff and they still deserve a man and the reality is no.
02:11:16.000I mean, there really isn't any meeting in the middle because...
02:11:19.000At the end of the day, men need to become better.
02:11:21.000Women need to lower their standards, but women aren't going to lower their standards because every girl thinks that they're special.
02:11:26.000The same mindset you literally were just fighting for a second ago.
02:11:29.000So then the solution is men just need to be better.
02:11:36.000No, you need to go somewhere where women appreciate you.
02:11:38.000Or find girls that do appreciate you, that come from a two-parent household, that understand the importance of a masculine leader, etc., and not date girls that are hoes.
02:12:08.000Your great-grandfather in the United States was able to work a factory job making $2 an hour and have a wife at home, stay home, not be a whore, have kids, cook and clean, not give them a headache, prepare food, all that shit.
02:13:25.000And that's why so many guys are going to Latin America.
02:13:27.000That's why so many guys are going to the Philippines.
02:13:28.000That's why so many guys are going to Eastern Asia.
02:13:30.000Because a guy that's illegally present in the United States without a job can still get a submissive woman by his side, but you would never get that shit in the United States, even as a top-tier guy.
02:13:39.000That's why so many dudes are fucking pissed off and annoyed with females.
02:14:13.000It's about if you're going to make an assertion, back it up.
02:14:16.000The reason why I say that is because all the inventions that you enjoy in the modern world, whether it's the electricity, the microphone you're speaking on, etc., it was all created and invented by men.
02:19:02.000I would say to my daughter, try to lean more on the logical side, but also don't be afraid of expressing emotions healthily.
02:19:15.000And to know how to make money, like have the skills, but don't like be scared of like letting a man kind of take more of the financial load, like obviously if he's the right guy.
02:19:29.000And then for the son, I would say to work hard on a career, more so than the daughter, but also don't let that take over, you know, your whole life.
02:24:10.000You find another guy, you like him a lot too, but you don't know what he wants.
02:24:14.000But foundationally, generally speaking, There's some common things that a guy wants from his girl.
02:24:19.000And if you don't know that, what's going to happen is, everybody you meet is going to just dump you or play a game and they say, oh, you know what?
02:25:36.000Well, I would try to teach them to have self-discipline, which can mean many things.
02:25:42.000And I would also tell them to try to always put yourself in other people's shoes, which kind of goes along with being kind to others and everything.
02:26:22.000Maybe to their girl, but they want the girl to only, like, dress provocatively when he's around under his authority.
02:26:27.000You know, not showing her body off, not being around random men, like, extreme loyalty.
02:26:31.000Not just with her body, but with her mind, with her spirit, with everything.
02:26:34.000Or go in certain environments where it breeds for things to happen.
02:26:38.000You get drunk, alcohol, nightclubs, you know.
02:26:40.000Me over all your friends, no girls nights, none of that bullshit.
02:26:43.000I was going to say the number one thing is respect, which I think most women don't respect most men in today's day and age.
02:26:48.000I generally don't think most women respect most men.
02:26:51.000And that comes in from Instagram and social media, etc.
02:26:53.000Most women think that they have higher value than their man a lot of the times, even if that man actually does have more value than they do.
02:27:00.000So I would say respect and then admiration.
02:27:03.000A lot of women don't admire their guy.
02:27:05.000And that's the issue with the guy a lot of times.
02:27:07.000Fat, out of shape, not a leader, pussy, listens to what she's got to say like it matters.
02:27:13.000And the thing is that women love guys that are assholes, guys that know what it really is, guys that aren't agreeable with them, and guys that know what's best for them.
02:27:23.000So, and then also you want a domestic problem solver.
02:28:37.000Women don't look for an equal, they look for a superior.
02:28:40.000So, respect is very important and admiration.
02:28:41.000Yeah, and if you want a bonus, you mentioned earlier adding value.
02:28:45.000So, this is a good thing because, once again, every guy has a program.
02:28:49.000And if you like the guy, you want to be with the guy, you got to go coachable to learn his program.
02:28:53.000And that means, for example, ask questions, see what he does for a living, see how you could fit in, and he's like, damn, she's irreplaceable.
02:30:01.000I know this is sounding fucked up and sexist, but I'll tell you guys why the deep-rooted reason why men don't give a fuck about women's opinions.
02:31:02.000Well, I mean, this is my take on it, but I've noticed this with other higher-earning guys.
02:31:08.000The reason why men don't care about women that have careers and professionalism, etc., in general, I'm not saying I wouldn't date them, but I don't care for it, is because a lot of the times when women come from careers, especially high-earning careers, especially careers that tend to make them more masculine, they're annoying,
02:31:23.000if I'm going to be very candid about this, because...
02:31:49.000She's in her late 20s and 30s at this point.
02:31:51.000For me, I'm like, I don't give a fuck about none of that.
02:31:53.000I'd rather go date a hotter 21-year-old that's not going to give me a headache, that's going to be more compliant, that's going to be more submissive, follow my program, and that's really what I'm more interested in.
02:32:01.000Men typically don't care about a woman's ability to create resources.
02:32:04.000Okay, so you want to date someone that's just begun being...
02:32:23.000What do you do when that woman is not 25 anymore?
02:32:27.000What do you, you just leave her and go for the next 18 years?
02:32:30.000Because the reality, Myron, is that when a woman, when she gets to a certain age, she's going to start looking back at her life like, am I happy here?
02:33:00.000Okay, so let me go ahead and let my girl go to the club with her friends where alcohol is going to be served and then a bunch of horny guys are trying to hit on her.
02:35:06.000So to me, I just feel like to say you only want women that are between 18 and 25 sounds like, yeah, you want something that is easy to manipulate, something that you can mold, which is fine.
02:36:46.000So why is it what women want Isn't considered predatory, or they're not considered stupid, or numbskulls, or gold-digging whores, but we accept it, and we say, you know what?
02:36:55.000Become a better man, get your money up, get in the gym, etc.
02:36:59.000We accept the fact that women want these things in a man.
02:37:01.000But if a man says, hey, I prefer a woman who's younger, more attractive, because she expects me to be a leader, so I better be with a woman that's willing to follow, correct?
02:37:17.000It's a biological trait in a man to want a woman that's younger, more fertile, etc.
02:37:23.000Okay, so that you answered my question.
02:37:25.000But if I take the female standard, I didn't demonize it.
02:37:27.000But if I did demonize it, I would sound stupid, wouldn't I? I can't call you stupid, short, weak, incompetent, and an idiot for wanting a man that's better than you.
02:40:16.000So there is absolutely a societal double standard when it comes to holding one gender accountable versus the other.
02:40:23.000I mean, what I just said, like calling, if I called a woman stupid, short, obnoxious idiot that's trying to find a man, they'd look at me like, I'm crazy.
02:40:32.000But we never tell women, well, why are you going to call men predatory for wanting younger, more youthful women that are going to follow him?
02:40:38.000Like, what the fuck is wrong with you?
02:40:40.000Like, women say that shit all the time.
02:46:39.000Yeah, I've been trying to disagree with the whole predatory thing.
02:46:46.000I think you articulated your argument wrong, but I think many times it can be predatory just because women who are 18, 19, 20, 21, a lot of them aren't really thinking logically in terms of...
02:47:01.000So guys in mass aren't really looking to like 18, 19, 20, 21 year olds to be like, hey, you know, let me love you, take care of you, respect you, respect you.
02:47:12.000You know, they're kind of just viewing them as like, okay, let me sleep with them and then move on to the next, the next.
02:47:18.000And I think in that aspect, it can be predatory because these younger women, they don't really have the discernment to tell which guy is trying to sleep with them and then toss them aside versus the guy who wants to take them seriously.
02:49:48.000In the beginning, I would say that you were very triggering, but I understand from listening to how he speaks and how he goes about things.
02:51:15.000I would say that majority of women, depending on, you know, like I said, how they were raised and how they go about their life and stuff, sometimes they don't deserve more.
02:51:33.000So you would agree that a majority of women deserve less?
02:54:57.000Like, if he's with you, and then he knows that you're talking to other guys, and you're doing it to kind of piss him off or whatever, it's one of two things.
02:55:03.000He'll either drop you altogether, or he'll play the game, fuck you a few times, and then drop you.
02:55:54.000So the first two are about like short videos or clips that I've seen.
02:55:59.000So the first one you were talking about how like women desire like promiscuous men or like want to share them and stuff like that.
02:56:07.000Could you first like summarize or clarify your argument so I can like get the full scope of it?
02:56:14.000When I say women desire promiscuous men, what I mean is that women desire men that have the capability of being promiscuous whether they are or not.
02:56:20.000So the thing is that men that are promiscuous have certain traits that are unalienable and arousing.
02:56:32.000They have a bunch of traits that a lot of women would find attractive.
02:56:35.000So when I say women like promiscuous men, they don't have to necessarily be out here fucking bitches, but they have to have traits that a promiscuous man would have.
02:56:43.000So you're not saying that they desire the promiscuity in itself?
02:58:07.000Unless, like, maybe you fucked a friend of hers or some shit like that, and there's some, like, emotional tie, where it's like, you fucked my best friend, blah, blah, blah, that might fuck you up.
02:58:14.000But in general, a man that has a capability of being promiscuous is far more attractive.
02:58:18.000That's why it's better a lot of times for women to not know, but if they find out on their own, it's different.
02:58:23.000So you're saying that the data is not correct?
02:58:57.000But then we pivoted to when I asked you about the promiscuity in and of itself, and you brought up the study with the electrodes and everything.
02:59:05.000And I do agree with you that women do lie about what they're attracted to, but I would argue that this doesn't apply to this specific study.
02:59:11.000They lie about what they're aroused by.
02:59:15.000In this specific study, it kind of aligns in general about how short-term and long-term mating works for men because the whole point of that study was to prove that men have lower criteria in short-term mating than women.
02:59:31.000And so it kind of draws certain connections.
02:59:35.000And you would accept that part and all the different reasons behind that, which is true.
02:59:41.000So I don't know why you wouldn't accept this specific part of that study.
02:59:47.000It's because it's saying that women, right?
02:59:49.000If I understand you correctly, you're trying to say here that women, when they find out that the man is promiscuous, they don't like him for short-term and for long-term?
02:59:58.000Yeah, they find that trait undesirable.
03:00:01.000Well, again, females are typically not honest when it comes to self-reporting.
03:00:05.000Is it flattering for a woman to say, yeah, I find promiscuous men super attractive in short-term and long-term?
03:00:14.000Women typically tend to lean around, when it comes to self-reporting, especially when it comes to sexuality, women are less honest when it comes to reporting things that might make them look socially, you know, wrong.
03:00:26.000You gotta remember that women are communitarian.
03:00:29.000By being communitarian, that means you need the community, right?
03:00:32.000It's only in modern day times that women have been able to survive on their own without the protection and security of numbers of men.
03:00:38.000So, And that's still ingrained in women.
03:00:40.000They still look for a protector, provider, etc.
03:00:44.000When a woman answers surveys like that, and it shows some type of unflattering reality about her sexuality, they're less likely to be honest.
03:01:13.000So, pre-selection is very important when it comes to women.
03:01:16.000So, that's why, like, that part, I'm like, alright, like, that's kind of capped.
03:01:21.000Because we know for a fact, like, I mean, going to nightclub, I think nightclubs are one of the best examples of, like, social dynamics between men and women that's raw, where all the women are concentrated.
03:01:29.000They're concentrated in the section with the guys that have the highest perceived status in that social situation.
03:01:34.000They got the table, they got the girls, they got 20 girls in there, and the women are there.
03:01:38.000So, women say, oh, I don't want a promiscuous guy, etc., but they want a guy that's capable of being promiscuous, whether he is or not.
03:02:02.000So my second question was about how you were talking about, it was a clip you were saying how like women are like, they just say like stupid stuff on the podcast and everything and you were saying how like If you're a beautiful woman,
03:02:23.000Or if they do, it's because of your beauty.
03:02:25.000They'll tolerate what you have to say.
03:02:27.000And then if you're an ugly woman, men don't really want to care about what you have to say because they don't find you attractive.
03:02:36.000So my question is, what type of women What type of woman do men, like, listen to or value their intellectual, I guess, like, intellectual thoughts or,
03:02:52.000like, I don't want to say, well, yeah, I would say opinion that's, like, based in logic.
03:02:57.000And if it's none, then, you know, that would be an honest answer.
03:03:00.000But I just want to know, like, the type.
03:03:01.000So when it comes to female opinions, women have to earn the right for their opinion to be valid.
03:03:06.000And what I mean by that is like, unfortunately for women, one of the things that sucks is the prettier you are as a female, the harder you're going to have to work to be taken seriously.
03:03:14.000And I'm sure a lot of you guys may know that if you try to go into the professional world as an attractive woman, they're going to assume you're stupid, they're going to assume you're incompetent, and they're going to kind of touch you.
03:03:22.000You're going to play with you with kid gloves, right?
03:03:24.000Unless you have a female boss and she's going to hate on you.
03:03:26.000But a lot of times that's one of the negatives for females when it comes to your opinion, right?
03:03:30.000You have to earn the right to have your opinion taken seriously to some degree.
03:03:34.000Now, when it comes to stupid girls, what I've realized is this is the graph, the correlation.
03:03:40.000The harder the girl is, the more insufferable she can afford to be.
03:03:46.000But the hotter she is, the more insufferable she can afford to be.
03:03:49.000But you get to a point where the man is going to be at his boiling point depending on how thirsty he is for sex and how many options he has.
03:03:56.000The more attractive the man, typically the less patience they have.
03:04:00.000So, a girl that's insufferable but hot will be able to last longer with a guy that's thirstier and doesn't have as many options.
03:04:07.000But if she's hot but insufferable and the guy has options and he's attractive, he's going to probably tell her to shut up.
03:04:13.000And then she's probably going to get turned on by that.
03:04:27.000And then my third question is for both hosts, if you had to choose which ways more than the other, would you want a woman to need you more than she wants or desires you,
03:04:43.000or wants and desires you more than she needs you?
03:05:21.000We tell women, fuck men, you don't need men, etc.
03:05:23.000The only way as a man you're really going to be able to make sure you hold the leverage and have the girl attracted and aroused by you is you need to maintain that leverage.
03:05:31.000You maintain that leverage by her needing you.
03:05:33.000Obviously, I'm not telling you to be a fucking tyrant or be an asshole, etc.
03:05:36.000But when she feels like she needs you, you're going to get the best out of her.
03:05:40.000When she only wants you, she's not going to do everything required to keep you.
03:05:43.000Because women get very lazy in relationships a lot of the times, unless she's really with a guy that she loves in my respects.
03:05:49.000But if she's with a guy and she's like, I got this nigga, man.
03:05:52.000She's going to start not giving a fuck, talking to other guys, going to a club.
03:05:54.000She's going to do a bunch of fuck shit.
03:05:56.000But when she needs you, she's going to be on her best behavior.
03:05:58.000And I think that's where women need to be with a man.
03:06:01.000That's why I always say the girl needs to like you more than you like her.
03:06:05.000When you like the girl more, that's when disrespect happens.
03:06:08.000That's when she starts doing whatever she wants.
03:06:10.000That's when she starts to wear the pants in a relationship and she loses attraction.
03:06:13.000I know a lot of girls get mad at me for saying this, but the reality is men have to have a relationship.
03:06:18.000When women have leverage, they're terrible people.
03:06:21.000So, that's why I think she needs to need you.
03:06:23.000If she only wants you, it'll work for a period of time, but she needs to basically feel like she can't live without you.
03:06:30.000That's when you get the best treatment.
03:07:16.000Her wanting you sexually as well is going to have a great effect because once again, the sexual, I want to say, attention is there along with the actual need for you as the guy for an experience and that combines a good atmosphere and I think that alone,
03:07:33.000those two parameters will give you the best outcome.
03:08:41.000Live the rest of your life with a good man, two children, and a yearly salary of $50,000 per year, or two, live the rest of your life with $10 million to your name, but you're by yourself.