Fresh & Fit - OLD Women ADMIT They Don't Like Their Husband!😭w-How To Beast

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00:02:12.000 And check me out, guys, on FedReacts.

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00:02:39.000 So yeah, go ahead and get the book, Why Women Deserve Less. 1.00

00:02:42.000 And other than that, Chris, it's your goal.

00:02:44.000 Yeah, girls, get me an Aaron C. Parkson on IG. Make sure your page is not private.

00:02:49.000 I need photos.

00:02:50.000 And yeah, I mean, just show me some images, girls. 0.99

00:02:53.000 Don't give me a paragraph, an essay, a biography. 1.00

00:02:56.000 I don't want to see that shit. 1.00

00:02:57.000 I don't want to read it. 1.00

00:02:58.000 Just show me some titties. 1.00

00:02:59.000 Let's get it. 0.98

00:03:00.000 What?

00:03:01.000 Okay.

00:03:03.000 I mean, not nudes, but, you know, cleavage here and there, you know, don't like your face. 0.66

00:03:03.000 Alright. 0.66

00:03:07.000 Don't show me, hey, Chris, here's a paragraph about me and my backstory and blah, blah, blah.

00:03:13.000 I really don't want to hear it.

00:03:14.000 Just show me your image and let's make that awkward.

00:03:17.000 Yes, sir.

00:03:19.000 Ladies on the panel, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what we do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course. 0.76

00:03:26.000 Your body count.

00:03:26.000 And we'll start right here.

00:03:28.000 Welcome back.

00:03:29.000 Thank you.

00:03:30.000 My name is Mariola.

00:03:31.000 I'm 24.

00:03:33.000 I'm currently working at Takeover Reynolds and as a vet tech.

00:03:37.000 High school education is my highest degree.

00:03:40.000 Where are you from?

00:03:42.000 Puerto Rico.

00:03:43.000 Ponce.

00:03:43.000 Okay.

00:03:44.000 And then you said you're a vet tech and what else?

00:03:47.000 Takeover Reynolds.

00:03:48.000 Okay.

00:03:49.000 And what's your relationships?

00:03:52.000 Highest education level completed?

00:03:53.000 High school.

00:03:54.000 Oh my god, Miami Laws.

00:03:56.000 And then relationship status?

00:03:57.000 Single.

00:03:57.000 Alright.

00:03:59.000 Cool.

00:04:00.000 Still?

00:04:01.000 Still. 1.00

00:04:02.000 Damn. 1.00

00:04:03.000 You messed up. 1.00

00:04:04.000 And body count?

00:04:06.000 Who said that?

00:04:08.000 What about you?

00:04:12.000 What's your name?

00:04:13.000 Hi, I am Francisca.

00:04:15.000 I'm from Quito, Ecuador.

00:04:17.000 Francesca, you said?

00:04:18.000 Yeah, Francesca is in a Spanish name from Francesca.

00:04:21.000 Oh wow.

00:04:22.000 Yeah.

00:04:23.000 Okay, how old are you?

00:04:24.000 I don't like to say my age.

00:04:26.000 Well, you have to as a part of the rules.

00:04:29.000 Okay, I'm 40.

00:04:31.000 Wait, 40?

00:04:32.000 You look amazing!

00:04:34.000 And you said you're from Ecuador?

00:04:35.000 Because if I say 30, everybody believe me, so that's it.

00:04:39.000 So you're from Ecuador?

00:04:41.000 Yeah.

00:04:41.000 How long have you been in Miami?

00:04:42.000 I've been in Miami four years.

00:04:45.000 Four years, okay.

00:04:46.000 Yes, and I am a fashion designer.

00:04:48.000 Okay.

00:04:48.000 And yeah, I have a degree, university degree.

00:04:53.000 Okay.

00:04:53.000 And I'm married.

00:04:55.000 Okay.

00:04:56.000 So you have a, what do you have your degree in?

00:04:59.000 For teaching elementary school.

00:05:02.000 Okay.

00:05:02.000 Did you get it here in America or did you get it in Ecuador?

00:05:05.000 In Ecuador.

00:05:05.000 Okay.

00:05:06.000 Yes.

00:05:06.000 So were you a teacher over there?

00:05:07.000 No, I no work on that.

00:05:09.000 I'm working on fashion designer.

00:05:11.000 So I'm going to study another institute for fashion designers.

00:05:15.000 Okay.

00:05:16.000 So you have elementary education, but you were never a teacher?

00:05:19.000 No.

00:05:20.000 I finished the university, but I always loved the design.

00:05:25.000 Okay.

00:05:25.000 And how long have you been married?

00:05:27.000 15 years.

00:05:29.000 How many tattoos do you have?

00:05:33.000 Like 42.

00:05:36.000 And Chaz asks what gang you're in.

00:05:46.000 Just the hood, ain't it?

00:05:47.000 Chris, just the hood, ain't it?

00:05:49.000 What about you?

00:05:50.000 Hi, guys.

00:05:51.000 I'm Crystal.

00:05:52.000 I'm from Detroit and I live in Houston.

00:05:54.000 I'm 26.

00:05:56.000 You said you're originally from Detroit?

00:05:58.000 Yeah.

00:05:58.000 Okay, cool.

00:05:59.000 Payroll journey.

00:06:00.000 What are you doing for work?

00:06:01.000 Payroll work party.

00:06:03.000 I'm a flight attendant.

00:06:04.000 I dropped out of college and I am in flight school.

00:06:07.000 Okay, cool.

00:06:09.000 So flight attendant, highest education level complete is high school.

00:06:13.000 And then...

00:06:14.000 Dating status?

00:06:15.000 And your status, yeah.

00:06:15.000 I am currently single.

00:06:17.000 Cool.

00:06:17.000 Yep.

00:06:18.000 All right.

00:06:19.000 What about you?

00:06:20.000 Welcome back.

00:06:20.000 Thanks.

00:06:21.000 I'm Sarah.

00:06:22.000 I'm 25.

00:06:23.000 I am from Toledo, Ohio.

00:06:25.000 I live in Miami now.

00:06:26.000 I'm a social media manager and a UGC content creator.

00:06:30.000 So if you need a social media manager for your small business, please DM me on Instagram.

00:06:35.000 And I have a bachelor's degree.

00:06:38.000 I'm single.

00:06:40.000 That's it.

00:06:41.000 All right.

00:06:42.000 What about you?

00:06:43.000 My name's Mary.

00:06:44.000 Welcome back.

00:06:46.000 I'm 29 years old and I work for Takeover T Rentals.

00:06:50.000 Where are you originally from?

00:06:52.000 Cuban.

00:06:53.000 But you're from Miami originally, right?

00:06:54.000 Oh yeah.

00:06:54.000 Went to high school here.

00:06:55.000 Okay.

00:06:56.000 And then you...

00:06:58.000 What's Takeover Rentals?

00:06:59.000 You rent out what, specifically?

00:07:02.000 ATVs and they also do things for the ocean.

00:07:05.000 For the ocean?

00:07:06.000 Yeah, like jet skis.

00:07:08.000 Okay.

00:07:11.000 Wait, because you said it's not about rentals too.

00:07:13.000 Do y'all both do it?

00:07:13.000 Yeah.

00:07:14.000 Okay.

00:07:15.000 And then highest education level completed?

00:07:17.000 High school.

00:07:18.000 Alright.

00:07:18.000 And then relationship status?

00:07:20.000 Single.

00:07:21.000 Alright.

00:07:22.000 Cool.

00:07:23.000 What about you?

00:07:25.000 Hi.

00:07:25.000 I'm Alana.

00:07:27.000 I am 26 years old.

00:07:29.000 Highest education level bachelor's degree.

00:07:31.000 I am a teacher.

00:07:33.000 I was born in New York.

00:07:34.000 You're a teacher?

00:07:35.000 Yes.

00:07:35.000 Just like Chris.

00:07:36.000 Are you originally from New York?

00:07:38.000 Yeah.

00:07:39.000 Yes, that's where I was born.

00:07:40.000 The city or?

00:07:41.000 Yonkers, wherever that is.

00:07:43.000 Okay, yeah, Yonkers is a little, okay.

00:07:45.000 So, and why?

00:07:46.000 And then you said you're a teacher, right?

00:07:48.000 Yes.

00:07:49.000 What grade do you teach?

00:07:50.000 Sixth grade. 1.00

00:07:51.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:07:53.000 Some of the worst kids. 1.00

00:07:54.000 They're little angels with horns.

00:07:57.000 So you teach here in Miami or back up north?

00:08:00.000 An hour north of here.

00:08:02.000 Okay, all right.

00:08:02.000 So like Broward County probably, or West Palm Beach.

00:08:05.000 And you said you have a BA. Where'd you get your BA from?

00:08:09.000 FAU. Okay.

00:08:10.000 In education or?

00:08:12.000 No, I actually got my BA in psychology and then I got a temporary, whatchamacallit.

00:08:17.000 I don't know what the whatchamacallit is.

00:08:19.000 It's like a temporary teaching certificate.

00:08:21.000 Okay, okay.

00:08:21.000 Because I was going to say, don't you need a master's degree nowadays to be a teacher?

00:08:25.000 I think because of the shortage on teachers, they're just kind of making some adjustments.

00:08:29.000 Okay, cool.

00:08:30.000 And then relationship status?

00:08:31.000 I said, I almost said single.

00:08:33.000 I'm in a relationship.

00:08:41.000 Three months.

00:08:43.000 Is he a teacher too?

00:08:46.000 No.

00:08:47.000 He works in finance.

00:08:49.000 Please don't ask me exactly what he does.

00:08:51.000 You don't know?

00:08:52.000 I know it's in finance.

00:08:53.000 I don't do numbers.

00:08:54.000 I do people.

00:08:57.000 What about you?

00:09:00.000 My name is Chiara.

00:09:03.000 I'm from Italy.

00:09:04.000 I'm 37 years old.

00:09:07.000 What part of Italy are you from?

00:09:10.000 Bologna, North Italy.

00:09:11.000 Bless you.

00:09:12.000 Bologna?

00:09:13.000 Bologna, yes.

00:09:14.000 I have a bachelor degree in science education.

00:09:23.000 What do you do for work?

00:09:26.000 I try to open my model agency now.

00:09:28.000 I'm working on that.

00:09:30.000 At 37?

00:09:32.000 Sorry.

00:09:33.000 Never mind.

00:09:34.000 And then what is your relationship status?

00:09:37.000 Married.

00:09:38.000 How long have you been married for?

00:09:40.000 Five years.

00:09:41.000 Is he from Italy too?

00:09:43.000 No, he's American-Colombian.

00:09:46.000 Do you live in Miami now?

00:09:48.000 I live in Colorado Springs.

00:09:49.000 How long have you been here in South Florida?

00:09:53.000 Six years.

00:09:54.000 Is that how you get your papers?

00:09:58.000 I'm an American citizen.

00:09:59.000 Okay, cool.

00:10:01.000 Hey, whatever works, whatever works.

00:10:06.000 You said it was Chiara, right?

00:10:07.000 Yes.

00:10:08.000 Okay, cool.

00:10:08.000 What about you?

00:10:09.000 My name is Alexandra.

00:10:11.000 I'm here.

00:10:12.000 I'm from here, Miami.

00:10:13.000 How old are you?

00:10:13.000 And I'm 27.

00:10:15.000 Okay.

00:10:16.000 And I... What do you do for work?

00:10:18.000 I am a server, but I guess I'm trying to upgrade to be like a bottle girl. 1.00

00:10:22.000 Okay.

00:10:24.000 You're like 4'1 though.

00:10:25.000 Oh, I'm 4'9.

00:10:26.000 You're 4'9.

00:10:27.000 4'9?

00:10:28.000 Yes, 4'9.

00:10:29.000 Wait, can't you get like a handicap sticker for that?

00:10:32.000 People tell me that all the time.

00:10:41.000 You can go ahead and...

00:10:44.000 I'd get a handicap sticker for sure.

00:10:49.000 I want one that makes life way easier for me.

00:10:51.000 $200.

00:10:52.000 Free parking.

00:10:54.000 Fresh got a handicap sticker.

00:10:56.000 I was in accidents.

00:11:01.000 I have one.

00:11:02.000 You have one too? 1.00

00:11:03.000 Goddamn. 1.00

00:11:04.000 Oh wait. 1.00

00:11:05.000 That's fugazi!

00:11:06.000 That's fugazi!

00:11:08.000 Okay, Server, what's your highest education level completed?

00:11:11.000 I'm an associate in psychology.

00:11:13.000 Okay.

00:11:14.000 And what is your relationship status?

00:11:16.000 Well, I guess it's single.

00:11:18.000 I was in a relationship for like 10 years.

00:11:25.000 10 years?

00:11:26.000 Yeah.

00:11:28.000 It's very complicated.

00:11:30.000 So like I still talk to him.

00:11:32.000 You know when your life intertwines like that, you just have so many things. 0.99

00:11:40.000 So just blowjobs? 0.98

00:11:45.000 Were you guys living together and stuff? 0.99

00:11:47.000 Yeah.

00:11:48.000 Do y'all still live together?

00:11:50.000 No, I just moved out.

00:11:51.000 Kids?

00:11:52.000 No, we don't have kids.

00:11:53.000 Who broke up with who?

00:11:56.000 It was just like outside forces, honestly.

00:12:00.000 Translation, I broke up with him.

00:12:02.000 He broke up with me.

00:12:05.000 What did you do?

00:12:06.000 I upset his mom.

00:12:09.000 Yeah.

00:12:10.000 Yeah, because his mom is kind of involved in the relationship at times way too much. 0.72

00:12:17.000 How did the mom get involved? 0.99

00:12:18.000 What did she do? 1.00

00:12:19.000 Stop being a ho, bitch! 1.00

00:12:21.000 I mean, she'll just like, you know, she'll live with us. 1.00

00:12:24.000 Oh, she was living with y'all?

00:12:25.000 Yeah.

00:12:26.000 Oh, hell no.

00:12:27.000 So then, like, I don't know, we clash sometimes.

00:12:29.000 So then, like, things started happening and then he started taking his mom's side more.

00:12:33.000 And I'm like, come on, like, let's get our own place.

00:12:37.000 Let's go, like, live somewhere else.

00:12:39.000 I also feel bad for her because she's going to be by herself.

00:12:42.000 Oh, okay.

00:12:43.000 Like, she's not married or anything?

00:12:44.000 She's single? 1.00

00:12:45.000 The mom?

00:12:47.000 Hey man, she's a grown woman, bro.

00:12:48.000 Come on, man.

00:12:50.000 It is what it is.

00:12:51.000 So, did she live with y'all or did you guys live with her?

00:12:54.000 I guess she lived with us.

00:12:56.000 Okay, so like your boyfriend or ex was paying all the bills?

00:12:59.000 Yeah, we're like both of us.

00:13:00.000 We're like helping.

00:13:01.000 And she also helps too.

00:13:03.000 She helps too?

00:13:03.000 Yeah.

00:13:04.000 Question, is that a Naruto?

00:13:06.000 Yeah, it's like Naruto, Hinata.

00:13:08.000 Oh, that's cute.

00:13:09.000 Naruto tattoo?

00:13:10.000 I used to watch it all the time.

00:13:12.000 Now I've like grown out of it, but...

00:13:13.000 Yeah, but it's still there, so...

00:13:15.000 Okay, all right, fantastic.

00:13:17.000 Last but not least, guest of honor.

00:13:19.000 What's your guest in the house?

00:13:21.000 Thank y'all.

00:13:23.000 Thank y'all for having me on again, man.

00:13:24.000 Good to be here.

00:13:25.000 Name age.

00:13:28.000 Body count.

00:13:30.000 No, I was dead serious.

00:13:33.000 I'm just kidding, bro.

00:13:34.000 Cricket.

00:13:35.000 No, just like a quick intro.

00:13:38.000 I mean, what's the podcast we just did, bro?

00:13:41.000 I don't know.

00:13:42.000 What if we don't know?

00:13:43.000 Yeah, guys, just so you know, we're going to have to make this show two hours because Dave's a little tired, guys.

00:13:49.000 We got to respect him.

00:13:50.000 We did a three-peat today.

00:13:51.000 This is my fourth pod today.

00:13:53.000 Oh, wow.

00:13:55.000 So we did one with you, and then you did three with us.

00:13:58.000 Oh, yeah. 1.00

00:13:59.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:14:01.000 Okay, fair enough. 1.00

00:14:01.000 We got you, bro. 1.00

00:14:02.000 Okay, so guys, don't shit on Fresh Too Bad today because... 0.99

00:14:06.000 It wasn't me. 0.98

00:14:07.000 Yeah, it wasn't Freshers' Fall.

00:14:08.000 You guys could go ahead and blame Dave.

00:14:10.000 And by the way, we missed an NBA game.

00:14:13.000 The Heat are about to lose right now.

00:14:16.000 The Heat are about to lose.

00:14:17.000 No way.

00:14:19.000 It's not over yet, but they're down like 15 in the fourth.

00:14:22.000 Come on, Jimmy.

00:14:24.000 Come on, man.

00:14:26.000 Hey, if you're watching right now, you could be anywhere else.

00:14:28.000 You could be watching the Heat lose, but you're here with us.

00:14:30.000 Thank you very much.

00:14:31.000 Okay, so this is what we're going to do.

00:14:32.000 I'm going to go ahead and read.

00:14:33.000 Actually, no, no, no.

00:14:34.000 Sorry.

00:14:34.000 Hit us with your question, my friend.

00:14:36.000 Question for the girls. 0.99

00:14:37.000 Okay, so what is something that a guy does or something about a guy that would make you submit to him and follow his lead in a relationship versus maybe the standard path these days of kind of like fighting him for the lead?

00:14:51.000 That's a good question.

00:14:52.000 We can start right here on Mr.

00:14:53.000 Naruto.

00:14:54.000 What would make you...

00:14:55.000 No, let me rephrase it.

00:14:56.000 What would make you immediately submit to a man? 0.91

00:14:59.000 Oh, immediately?

00:15:00.000 That's pretty much it.

00:15:01.000 Is it immediately or...

00:15:02.000 I don't know about immediately, but in general, if you were to start dating him more than just hooking up with him, what's something about him or something he does?

00:15:09.000 I guess take him serious then.

00:15:11.000 Have full respect for him and allow him to make the decisions without fighting him around the way.

00:15:15.000 We'll go with that.

00:15:16.000 I guess if he's just headstrong and he makes his decisions and I don't have to really do that because I feel like In a lot of relationships, women have to kind of take lead and be like, I want to do this and I want this and that. 0.99

00:15:29.000 And if they do that first and you don't have to ask for it, then I'm kind of like, okay.

00:15:34.000 So you used a very interesting word.

00:15:37.000 You said headstrong.

00:15:38.000 Typically, being called headstrong means you're not agreeing.

00:15:43.000 You're being not agreeable to someone else's will.

00:15:45.000 Would you say that it's important that he stays headstrong even if the girl has a conflicting view?

00:15:54.000 I mean, I kind of sometimes enjoy if someone just kind of sticks with their opinion and if they're...

00:16:01.000 Regardless of your opinion.

00:16:02.000 Yeah.

00:16:03.000 Yeah, this is most important when you guys don't agree on something, right? 0.98

00:16:07.000 Obviously, if you guys agree on shit, it doesn't really matter. 0.98

00:16:10.000 Yeah, I mean, that's okay. 0.99

00:16:11.000 You don't have to confirm to my opinion.

00:16:14.000 So I like that.

00:16:14.000 Just stay with your opinion and I like you better like that.

00:16:18.000 Was your ex more like changing his opinion on things and taking his mom's side more than your side?

00:16:25.000 Yeah, it was kind of like taking his mom's side on things and, like, I was trying to make him view, like, hey, like, I kind of have, um, I kind of, I felt like I was, like, mostly right in, like, most of the arguments that we would have, but he wouldn't see it that way, so.

00:16:39.000 By what, though?

00:16:39.000 Like, they should tell you to come home earlier, or?

00:16:42.000 Um, I guess it's just, like, just being in the house sometimes and then, uh, my things were also there and I just felt that she would kind of, like, move things around and I just wouldn't like that and I, Like, hey, I have my space and she has her space.

00:16:57.000 Can, like, she not be in my space? 1.00

00:16:58.000 That's all I want.

00:17:00.000 And, like, he was like, hey, she could just do that.

00:17:03.000 It's her house, too.

00:17:04.000 I'm like, okay.

00:17:05.000 And sometimes I'll let it go, but then it'll annoy me sometimes.

00:17:10.000 And I'll, like, kind of start a problem.

00:17:12.000 Okay.

00:17:13.000 So headstrong and being decisive.

00:17:15.000 All right.

00:17:15.000 What about you?

00:17:23.000 What is something that a guy does or something about a guy that will allow you to submit to him and follow his lead?

00:17:32.000 With his lips?

00:17:34.000 No, to allow him to make the decisions in the relationship.

00:17:48.000 Okay, first of all, I don't like to be submitted to a man. 1.00

00:17:51.000 What?

00:17:52.000 I don't like to be submitted to a man. 1.00

00:17:54.000 So you don't want to submit to a man? 0.99

00:17:56.000 No.

00:17:57.000 How come?

00:17:58.000 What made you submit to your husband?

00:18:02.000 Like, we take a decision together.

00:18:05.000 Like, when he's a gentleman, like, he's nice with me, respect, like, I like it.

00:18:11.000 Okay, so you're in charge?

00:18:16.000 Who's the leader in your relationship?

00:18:18.000 You or your man?

00:18:21.000 Both.

00:18:24.000 Yes, we are in the same level.

00:18:27.000 There always has to be one final decision maker.

00:18:32.000 He's making a final decision maker.

00:18:34.000 Okay, so he's the leader then.

00:18:37.000 She doesn't want to accept the label.

00:18:39.000 No, I don't accept that.

00:18:42.000 Okay, I think like the woman make believe the man, he's the leader. 0.97

00:18:48.000 But the woman are the leader. 1.00

00:18:52.000 So you allow her to lead.

00:18:54.000 Yes, like he's saying, he's making decisions, but...

00:18:57.000 It's really you.

00:18:58.000 Yeah.

00:18:59.000 Okay.

00:19:00.000 So you don't submit to that.

00:19:01.000 Okay.

00:19:01.000 So you don't submit to your husband then?

00:19:03.000 No.

00:19:04.000 Never.

00:19:04.000 What the?

00:19:05.000 Go Queen. 0.99

00:19:06.000 Okay.

00:19:06.000 All right.

00:19:07.000 Fair enough.

00:19:08.000 At least it's honest.

00:19:09.000 At least it's honest.

00:19:09.000 What about you?

00:19:12.000 So, what would make me submit to a man is him being able to admit his shortcomings, admit that, you know, maybe he's not always right.

00:19:21.000 Vulnerability, you know, like, sharing in, like, his struggles with me.

00:19:24.000 Aw, I lost my job today.

00:19:28.000 Yeah, exactly.

00:19:29.000 Give me all that later on.

00:19:31.000 Really?

00:19:37.000 Financial and emotional stability and maturity, especially the maturity.

00:19:42.000 And then compatibility and us sharing goals.

00:19:45.000 Obviously, like if he has his business, whatever he wants to do, needs my help, doesn't need my help, that's his business.

00:19:51.000 But for us to have a shared goal of what we want our life to look like.

00:19:56.000 So he could be broke.

00:19:58.000 I mean, I would live under a bridge with my man if it came to it.

00:20:01.000 Stop the cap! 0.99

00:20:02.000 So, would you want your guy to admit his shortcomings to you or just deal with them by himself and then come back better?

00:20:11.000 I think it depends on the nature of the shortcoming.

00:20:14.000 Obviously, if we're getting into a heated debate or a discussion, I would like for him to be able to admit that he was wrong about something or that he misunderstood something.

00:20:24.000 So you're just saying taking responsibility if a decision he makes goes wrong?

00:20:27.000 If a decision that he makes, a perspective he had, like, whatever it is, just taking responsibility and being like, oh, I misunderstood that.

00:20:35.000 Or, oh, I wish you had communicated this to me.

00:20:37.000 But just admitting that, like, not just sticking to one point for the sake of sticking to it, you know?

00:20:44.000 I just feel like maybe that's not conducive to a healthy relationship.

00:20:48.000 Okay, so you're saying admitting if they're wrong.

00:20:50.000 Right.

00:20:51.000 Keyword, if they're wrong.

00:20:52.000 Yeah, if.

00:20:54.000 Okay.

00:20:55.000 And then you said admit struggles and vulnerability?

00:20:59.000 Maybe not admit all his struggles.

00:21:01.000 Like, I know that sometimes men like to deal with things on their own.

00:21:03.000 And, like, if it's something that I know nothing about, then maybe I don't need to get involved.

00:21:07.000 Maybe you don't.

00:21:09.000 Okay.

00:21:10.000 That's okay.

00:21:10.000 We can have opinions, right?

00:21:12.000 Okay.

00:21:13.000 So vulnerability is, like...

00:21:15.000 I like for my man to, like, have, like, maybe a certain image that he portrays to, like, the people around him.

00:21:23.000 But then, like, with me, he's, like, you know, a little bit softer, you know, just, like, certain things that, of course, I would never make public or, you know, kind of, like, express to people that are close to him, people that are close to me, or really to anybody, because those are private things, like, between us.

00:21:38.000 So that's what I mean by vulnerability, is, like, certain private, intimate moments in whatever capacity that we can...

00:21:44.000 So blackmail. 0.92

00:21:46.000 Oh, my boyfriend is black, yes. 0.99

00:21:48.000 No, no, I said black male. 0.76

00:21:51.000 He's a black male. 0.96

00:21:52.000 Get it? 0.98

00:21:52.000 Black male? 0.98

00:21:53.000 Black male? 0.87

00:21:54.000 No. 0.99

00:21:56.000 No, that's evil.

00:21:57.000 Let me ask the ladies a question here on the panel. 1.00

00:21:59.000 What's more attractive?

00:22:00.000 Your guy comes to you with a problem or he solves a problem and you never heard of it?

00:22:05.000 Solves it.

00:22:05.000 Solves it, for sure.

00:22:07.000 So is it really better for him to be, you know, open and vulnerable with you about his problems or shortcomings as you claim?

00:22:13.000 That depends on who you ask.

00:22:14.000 Would that actually make you want to submit to him, which is the question we asked in the first place?

00:22:18.000 Yeah, absolutely.

00:22:18.000 Because it means that he's not always focused on everybody else's problem.

00:22:23.000 He recognizes that he's a human being and that he also has shortcomings or, you know, that he's just a person.

00:22:29.000 Um, so if you can admit to me, you know, like you're beloved, that you have, you know, things that you're unsure about or whatever it is, then that makes me want to submit to you because you are self-aware and you're emotionally mature.

00:22:44.000 He's a human being.

00:22:45.000 What's the number one thing that women look for in a man? 1.00

00:22:48.000 Are you asking me?

00:22:49.000 Yes.

00:22:49.000 How am I supposed to know?

00:22:50.000 I'm just one girl.

00:22:51.000 What do you look like?

00:22:52.000 What's the number one thing you look like?

00:22:53.000 I don't know.

00:22:55.000 If I had to put it into like one umbrella term.

00:22:58.000 That's the best answer possible.

00:22:59.000 Nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah.

00:23:01.000 Me don't know.

00:23:02.000 I'm just kidding.

00:23:03.000 Me don't know?

00:23:03.000 If I had to put it in like an umbrella term.

00:23:05.000 Would you agree that most women look for security? 0.90

00:23:09.000 That is the one most important thing.

00:23:11.000 What kind of security?

00:23:12.000 Financial, physical, emotional.

00:23:15.000 Financial, physical, emotional.

00:23:16.000 So we're using security as an umbrella term for all these different...

00:23:19.000 Most women, if I line up 100, prefer security. 1.00

00:23:23.000 It's the most important factor.

00:23:25.000 Well, emotional availability as well. 0.98

00:23:30.000 Y'all are going to give a fuck about their emotional availability unless they meet the security first. 0.99

00:23:34.000 Whoa. 0.99

00:23:35.000 I don't know.

00:23:35.000 Not necessarily.

00:23:36.000 Whoa.

00:23:37.000 Whoa.

00:23:37.000 Emotionally available?

00:23:38.000 Nah.

00:23:39.000 Yeah, that's a big one.

00:23:40.000 But I don't know if I could condense it into just one simple term.

00:23:44.000 I feel like it's more complex than just being able to narrow it down to just a one-word answer.

00:23:49.000 But I do think security is important.

00:23:54.000 Especially emotional security.

00:23:56.000 I can't do an emotionally immature dude.

00:24:00.000 I just can't do it.

00:24:01.000 So wouldn't it be fair to say that being emotionally mature is controlling your emotions?

00:24:05.000 I think the word control is thrown around too loosely.

00:24:09.000 I think emotions are things that are felt in your body that we then put labels on.

00:24:14.000 So like, you know, your heart starts to be fast, you're afraid or you're excited.

00:24:18.000 Or, you know, like your body starts to shake, you're angry because people forget that anger is an emotion.

00:24:23.000 So I don't think it's a matter of controlling your emotions.

00:24:25.000 I think it's a matter of being able to appropriately express them.

00:24:29.000 Airplane.

00:24:30.000 Period.

00:24:31.000 What do I mean?

00:24:32.000 Sorry, go ahead.

00:24:33.000 I'm not disturbed.

00:24:36.000 I'm the no.

00:24:37.000 You contradicted yourself in a bunch of the things you just said, but it's fine.

00:24:40.000 We'll move on because I don't want to I want you to continue on with your question and then I'll because I'm sure you probably have a follow-up, right?

00:24:46.000 Yeah.

00:24:46.000 Well, let's yeah.

00:24:47.000 What about you?

00:24:48.000 Yeah, let's keep moving.

00:24:49.000 Yeah, the question is what would make you submit to a man? 0.81

00:24:54.000 Nothing.

00:24:56.000 Nothing.

00:24:57.000 So you don't want to submit to a man? 0.99

00:25:00.000 I come with a big package.

00:25:02.000 What's the package?

00:25:03.000 Oh, two.

00:25:05.000 Wait, two kids?

00:25:06.000 Wait, hold on.

00:25:08.000 Who hurt you?

00:25:09.000 My baby daddy. 1.00

00:25:11.000 Damn! 1.00

00:25:12.000 But what would it take for you to submit to a man then? 1.00

00:25:15.000 So wait, your baby daddy, so you're not with him anymore?

00:25:20.000 So did you submit to him?

00:25:23.000 Yeah.

00:25:23.000 And that went badly for you?

00:25:25.000 Yeah.

00:25:27.000 Really bad.

00:25:28.000 So you chose the wrong man.

00:25:30.000 Emotional damage!

00:25:32.000 How would you know?

00:25:33.000 How would I know?

00:25:35.000 Years down the road I went and I knew.

00:25:37.000 I found out.

00:25:39.000 Was there an indicator up front that you see now?

00:25:43.000 What was it?

00:25:45.000 All he cared about was money.

00:25:49.000 That's not bad.

00:25:50.000 That's not bad.

00:25:51.000 No, he cared about taking my money.

00:25:53.000 Oh, you see.

00:25:55.000 But then be specific.

00:25:57.000 You gotta be specific.

00:25:59.000 He took your money?

00:26:01.000 You mean like he spent your money on things?

00:26:03.000 Yeah.

00:26:04.000 So was he not making his own money?

00:26:05.000 No. 1.00

00:26:06.000 He's a bum ass name. 1.00

00:26:07.000 Oh no, so you wouldn't maintain him. 1.00

00:26:09.000 Yeah.

00:26:10.000 Alright, so what would it take for you to submit to a man then, is the question.

00:26:13.000 Or is it for you as well?

00:26:14.000 You're like Miss Italy, you'll never submit.

00:26:15.000 No.

00:26:16.000 I mean, I would.

00:26:17.000 I just need to see that I have to feel comfortable.

00:26:23.000 What would it take for you to be comfortable, specifically?

00:26:25.000 That's what he's asking.

00:26:27.000 I don't know.

00:26:28.000 I would have to see that you're really a man.

00:26:29.000 I won't be able to comment.

00:26:33.000 Wow.

00:26:35.000 I don't know how to answer that question.

00:26:37.000 I can't commit.

00:26:38.000 It makes sense you'd have issues maybe trusting a guy after that.

00:26:42.000 And pretty much everybody in Miami is the same nowadays.

00:26:45.000 So it's really hard.

00:26:47.000 So I'd rather be alone than be with somebody.

00:26:49.000 Go through it all over again.

00:26:53.000 That's right.

00:26:54.000 She's been badly bruised, you know?

00:26:56.000 I want to see that they have like husband and fatherly like qualities that they're gonna be a good person to start a family with that I can raise my children with.

00:27:10.000 What's that?

00:27:10.000 What are those qualities?

00:27:12.000 That they are caring and loving when I see how he interacts with groups, even just like his friends, you know, when he has guests over at the house, like how does he treat people?

00:27:21.000 Does he welcome people into his home?

00:27:23.000 I want to see that he's a hard worker.

00:27:26.000 I want to see that he is very focused.

00:27:29.000 He takes care of himself.

00:27:30.000 He takes care of those around him because I think that men are supposed to take care of and provide and protect.

00:27:37.000 So I want to see that.

00:27:39.000 Making sure that when we're out and about, that I'm being respected by others that are around.

00:27:45.000 He's making sure that I'm safe.

00:27:48.000 Can you give an example of that?

00:27:50.000 Because I know that's something a lot of guys, they don't know if they should overreact to situations or not do anything.

00:27:55.000 So what's an example of something that would happen when you're out and about?

00:27:59.000 Um, so if I went out with my man, I guess whether we were in like a normal casual situation or if we went to like a restaurant or we went to a club or something together.

00:28:08.000 If, you know, men were trying to approach me and talk to me, him to kind of step in and be like, hey, she's okay.

00:28:14.000 She's with me.

00:28:14.000 And like, that'd be that.

00:28:16.000 Like, I don't want to have to be the one that says like...

00:28:18.000 No, I'm okay.

00:28:20.000 I'm with my man.

00:28:21.000 Stop talking to me.

00:28:22.000 Because a lot of times, men, I feel like they don't...

00:28:25.000 Even when you say, I'm here with my boyfriend, or I'm here with my husband, whatever, they don't care.

00:28:30.000 Because there's been times that people have approached me that are creepy and weird, and I tell them I'm married.

00:28:35.000 Because in my head, I'm like, okay, well, maybe they'll walk away.

00:28:37.000 But they still keep going sometimes, you know?

00:28:40.000 So...

00:28:41.000 For me to not be the one that has to speak up in that situation, for him to automatically set that boundary and be like, no, this is my woman.

00:28:48.000 Like, she's okay.

00:28:49.000 So I guess those things, just knowing that it's someone, also making me feel like, you know, like, say, someone that I can go to with, you know, my problems, if I'm sad, if I'm scared, if I'm stressed, like, I want to be able to go to him with my problems and him help me find an answer and solve it or just,

00:29:06.000 like, give me a hug or a shoulder to cry on, like, being there for me.

00:29:10.000 Yeah, she wants to look like a leader, I guess. 1.00

00:29:13.000 Yeah.

00:29:13.000 She wants to feel safe.

00:29:14.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:29:15.000 Someone in charge.

00:29:16.000 Anyway, we're going to building LBG! Long Beach Griffey announced, she's right, all these women are right.

00:29:24.000 The women are always right. 1.00

00:29:26.000 Women are never wrong, and you were saying before, women are the prize. 1.00

00:29:29.000 Long Beach, shout out to you, bro.

00:29:30.000 Shout out to Long Beach Griffey.

00:29:32.000 What about you?

00:29:33.000 What would it take for you to submit to a man? 0.79

00:29:35.000 So the type of woman that I am, I love to spoil my men and I love to show them like, you know, like acts of service, physical touch and stuff like that.

00:29:43.000 So I would love that energy reciprocated.

00:29:46.000 Like I need somebody that's willing to go on my little crazy adventures yet still give me my freedom.

00:29:51.000 So somebody that's willing, you know, that's down, that's, you know, my partner in crime slash, you know, I'm curious.

00:29:59.000 You know, my partner.

00:30:00.000 What is your freedom?

00:30:00.000 What are you talking about?

00:30:01.000 Like, allow me to, you know, if I want to just book a flight somewhere, allow me my space to do that, or be with my family.

00:30:09.000 Wait, wait, wait, wait.

00:30:09.000 Just like...

00:30:10.000 Yeah, I'm a solo traveler.

00:30:14.000 I like to travel by myself and, you know, with my friends.

00:30:20.000 No, but really, like, somebody that's going to be down to do whatever, like...

00:30:26.000 Supportive.

00:30:26.000 You like China?

00:30:28.000 I've never been to China.

00:30:29.000 Red flag parade.

00:30:31.000 Legit.

00:30:32.000 Really?

00:30:33.000 Have you been? 1.00

00:30:34.000 No, I'm talking shit. 1.00

00:30:37.000 So for you to submit, he would have to give you freedom. 1.00

00:30:41.000 Is that what it is?

00:30:42.000 You know, personal space to still do me and still, like, be myself.

00:30:47.000 You know, I don't want to sacrifice my freedom 100%.

00:30:50.000 I still want time for me, you know, self-care, self-love, like, things that I do before my relationship, I still want to be able to have that, yet still get that respect.

00:31:00.000 So you want to still be able to behave like you're single even though you're not?

00:31:04.000 Not exactly, because I know the boundaries and I respect, you know, the relationship that we have.

00:31:09.000 Would you say that traveling alone is single girl behavior? 0.88

00:31:12.000 Not necessarily.

00:31:12.000 I'm not going to meet up with nobody.

00:31:14.000 You know, if you look on my page.

00:31:16.000 No, if you look on my Instagram, you can see I went to Dubai.

00:31:19.000 How come you wouldn't want to travel with your guy there?

00:31:21.000 I would love to.

00:31:22.000 Absolutely.

00:31:22.000 That's why I say I need somebody willing to go on my little crazy adventure.

00:31:25.000 It sounded like you wanted to travel on your own.

00:31:27.000 I do that too.

00:31:28.000 And you wanted your guy to let you travel on your own.

00:31:31.000 I mean, sure, why not? 0.95

00:31:32.000 But can you admit, when you travel alone, things do happen either, for example, you meet people that may take you around or like, you know, you get drunk one night and then you fall into some dick. 0.96

00:31:41.000 No, absolutely not.

00:31:44.000 No, I'm not interested in, you know.

00:31:47.000 I don't think, I think you think a lot more, okay, I can't speak for anyone.

00:31:50.000 A lot of girls do, but I've never, ever, ever, ever, ever went on a trip anywhere, even before I moved to Miami, all the times I came to Miami and hooked up with a random person, ever.

00:32:00.000 That might be you, but I don't know.

00:32:02.000 But that might be her too.

00:32:03.000 Or her.

00:32:04.000 Again, we live in Miami.

00:32:07.000 This is true.

00:32:07.000 That's why I said I can't speak for everyone.

00:32:09.000 I can't speak for everyone, but I just...

00:32:13.000 I don't know.

00:32:15.000 I just took a trip by myself to Los Angeles.

00:32:18.000 And I went to...

00:32:20.000 But you're single now.

00:32:21.000 Well, yeah, but...

00:32:22.000 But that's a huge difference.

00:32:24.000 This is what we're talking about.

00:32:25.000 But, like, I don't know.

00:32:26.000 I left and then I didn't...

00:32:26.000 I just...

00:32:28.000 I went to, like, clubs and stuff and then I just talked to other girls there and, like, kind of, like, made friends with them.

00:32:33.000 And then I was kind of...

00:32:34.000 By the end of the night, I wasn't alone, but I was, like, with another girl just, like, getting drunk.

00:32:38.000 So I wasn't like finding a hookup.

00:32:40.000 One time I did a solo trip to Miami and I talked to no one.

00:32:43.000 I didn't even leave my hotel.

00:32:44.000 It was really fun.

00:32:45.000 Let me tell you about it though.

00:32:47.000 So when I went on my solo trip, like I literally was the only, of course, black woman around.

00:32:52.000 Anyway, so I met these girls and they were all from London.

00:32:56.000 So what happened was I ended up going to Dubai and it was really, really fun.

00:32:58.000 By by yourself?

00:32:59.000 I did.

00:33:00.000 And I met these beautiful women at Cove Beach, right? 0.91

00:33:04.000 And I was just sitting with my hookah. 0.99

00:33:05.000 We all hooked up, like, you know, talk shit a little bit. 0.97

00:33:07.000 And I ended up going to London and hanging out with them again. 0.98

00:33:09.000 So I kind of built that bond a little bit.

00:33:12.000 So it was kind of cool.

00:33:13.000 And we, like, real tight.

00:33:14.000 So, you know, it's a beautiful experience.

00:33:17.000 See, that's what I mean.

00:33:17.000 Like, you don't meet just guys.

00:33:19.000 You meet, like, girls, too.

00:33:20.000 Yeah, but there's single behavior.

00:33:22.000 That's not...

00:33:22.000 It's a bit odd.

00:33:24.000 I don't understand why you...

00:33:24.000 I mean, I'm not doing anything inappropriate.

00:33:26.000 It's just, you know...

00:33:28.000 I totally get where you're coming from.

00:33:31.000 I'd be concerned if my girls asked me to take a trip by myself.

00:33:33.000 I wouldn't want to if I was in a relationship.

00:33:36.000 To his point though, if your man was not cool with it, would that stop you?

00:33:40.000 It just depends.

00:33:41.000 I mean, I would definitely ask how he felt about it and if he wanted to come.

00:33:46.000 But I just wouldn't just leave him if he felt insecure about it.

00:33:49.000 Insecure?

00:33:50.000 Yeah, like, if you can't allow me to do what I want to do, it's just because...

00:33:53.000 So if you can't do what you want to do, that means you're guys insecure?

00:33:56.000 I mean, it could be from insecurity, yeah, or trust issues.

00:34:00.000 But if you don't trust me, why are we together?

00:34:02.000 Yeah.

00:34:04.000 Typical argument.

00:34:05.000 You know, it's funny about this whole scenario here, right?

00:34:07.000 Those same things that you want to do alone, just do it with him.

00:34:10.000 Absolutely.

00:34:11.000 I'm down for it.

00:34:12.000 So then why go alone?

00:34:13.000 I don't have to.

00:34:14.000 But, you know, I'm currently single, like I said.

00:34:17.000 So when I went to Dubai, I was single.

00:34:19.000 You know?

00:34:20.000 Port-a-potty.

00:34:22.000 Okay, cool.

00:34:22.000 Keep moving.

00:34:23.000 What about you?

00:34:25.000 The question is, when and how would you submit to your man or why would you submit to your man?

00:34:32.000 I mean, men love God more than a woman. 0.99

00:34:36.000 Then it's the perfect man that I can submit.

00:34:38.000 So if he loves God, you're going to submit to him?

00:34:40.000 Yeah, because it is for sure he's going to be a good man.

00:34:46.000 He's guided by God.

00:34:48.000 Yeah. 0.99

00:34:49.000 Well, there's a bunch of losers that love God. 0.97

00:34:52.000 Are you going to submit to that guy that loves God? 1.00

00:34:54.000 No, the man loves God more than a woman. 0.97

00:35:01.000 How do you judge that?

00:35:05.000 How do you know?

00:35:10.000 You can see if a man loves more God than you, because he's a very good person, he obeys every...

00:35:21.000 So a man who has religious values?

00:35:24.000 Yeah, the values.

00:35:26.000 So what if y'all don't have the same perspective on religion or spirituality?

00:35:32.000 How does that work for you?

00:35:35.000 She's asking if he's Muslim and you're Christian, how does that work?

00:35:39.000 Make sense or no?

00:35:40.000 Yeah, I'm Christian.

00:35:43.000 But what if he's Muslim? 1.00

00:35:45.000 And if you're from another religion, how do you know? 0.94

00:35:51.000 Do you understand?

00:35:52.000 Yes, I understand.

00:35:54.000 I don't think so work.

00:35:56.000 Yeah, I mean...

00:35:57.000 That if you're from another religion, you're from another religion. 0.69

00:36:04.000 I think it's not working.

00:36:05.000 Because you have to be in the same spirit.

00:36:09.000 God is only one, so it doesn't matter.

00:36:13.000 Not for spirituality.

00:36:16.000 There's a lot of differences when you go between.

00:36:19.000 It's different and it's not the same for everybody.

00:36:22.000 And faith is something that people can argue about regularly if they're not on the same page.

00:36:27.000 Yeah, exactly.

00:36:28.000 I have two friends.

00:36:29.000 One was Muslim and one was Christian.

00:36:31.000 And they wanted to get married and they wouldn't because it wouldn't work.

00:36:35.000 Because each one wanted to raise their kids and their own religion.

00:36:37.000 And it just becomes an issue.

00:36:38.000 So it's something that you can't agree with it or be okay with it on the same page.

00:36:42.000 It's pretty hard because my husband, he don't believe in God.

00:36:45.000 And I'm very...

00:36:46.000 How does that work?

00:36:48.000 I'm confused.

00:36:49.000 Wait, this is the most important thing to you.

00:36:51.000 Yeah, I said, but it's not in my case.

00:36:55.000 Bruh!

00:36:56.000 Bruh is right.

00:36:57.000 So you think that that...

00:36:58.000 So it's very hard for me.

00:36:59.000 It's very hard to be on that.

00:37:02.000 But it's been 15 years, right?

00:37:04.000 Yeah, but I met spirituality seven years ago.

00:37:08.000 So before, we are the same.

00:37:11.000 But then I found spirituality, and then I started going to church, everything.

00:37:17.000 And yeah, he respects everything, but he don't like too much.

00:37:20.000 And I'm happy with that.

00:37:22.000 So that's like new for you then, is having that value.

00:37:25.000 It wasn't always like that for you.

00:37:26.000 It's my dream.

00:37:28.000 My husband also came, but it's not.

00:37:31.000 It's not for everybody.

00:37:32.000 Okay.

00:37:33.000 What about you?

00:37:36.000 I feel like...

00:37:37.000 Merch.

00:37:39.000 I can't.

00:37:40.000 It's very hard for me to submit to a man. 0.98

00:37:44.000 I'm very picky.

00:37:46.000 I like my man to be very family-oriented.

00:37:53.000 Travels.

00:37:56.000 I don't know.

00:37:58.000 I don't know what will make me submit to a man.

00:38:01.000 Have you submitted to...

00:38:04.000 Have you had a boyfriend in the past that you've submitted to?

00:38:07.000 I have.

00:38:08.000 Yeah.

00:38:08.000 For about a year and a couple.

00:38:11.000 But you're in a relationship with him.

00:38:12.000 Right.

00:38:12.000 But you're following his lead.

00:38:14.000 Nah.

00:38:15.000 How would you know, bud?

00:38:17.000 I can just tell, man.

00:38:18.000 Puerto Rico is in trouble, bro.

00:38:20.000 Yeah, you had a Puerto Rican before.

00:38:22.000 No comment.

00:38:24.000 So you just were with him just to be with him, I guess?

00:38:26.000 No, I mean, we had our differences.

00:38:29.000 We had our good times and our bad times.

00:38:31.000 But...

00:38:34.000 Do you want to be in a relationship where you follow Ben's leaders?

00:38:37.000 That's not your ideal relationship?

00:38:39.000 I don't.

00:38:40.000 I do like for him to take initiative and, you know, make the plans.

00:38:45.000 And I'll just go along with it.

00:38:46.000 But not me make other plans.

00:38:50.000 So basically, your last thing you were in charge, making plans for him? 0.99

00:38:54.000 Fuck no. 1.00

00:38:55.000 Never. 1.00

00:38:55.000 Like, you don't want him to tell you what to do. 1.00

00:38:56.000 Exactly.

00:38:57.000 I don't like being demanding.

00:38:59.000 I'm confused.

00:39:00.000 Yeah, I'm confused too, man.

00:39:02.000 So what she wants is for him to plan the dates and plan the trips and what they're going to eat for dinner and those things.

00:39:09.000 But she doesn't want him to say, no, I don't like you.

00:39:12.000 You wear that.

00:39:13.000 No, I don't want you going on a girl's night. 1.00

00:39:15.000 No, he can have his opinions.

00:39:16.000 But will you listen to it?

00:39:18.000 At times.

00:39:19.000 At times, I will.

00:39:21.000 It all depends.

00:39:21.000 I don't know.

00:39:22.000 I'm very indecisive.

00:39:26.000 Oh, man.

00:39:28.000 I do listen, but...

00:39:30.000 You are chaos.

00:39:31.000 I hope you guys see the panel here.

00:39:36.000 They all gave contradictory answers.

00:39:38.000 They say one thing but then do another.

00:39:40.000 They say they want this but then they do another.

00:39:42.000 This is why you need to be the leader in a relationship.

00:39:44.000 Women literally live in chaos. 1.00

00:39:46.000 They don't know what the fuck is going on. 1.00

00:39:48.000 A lot of them, only women have the privilege of being stupid, and to be honest, a lot of them are dumb and don't make sense. 1.00

00:39:53.000 No offense, ladies. 1.00

00:39:54.000 Y'all said a lot of stupid shit earlier. 1.00

00:39:56.000 Like, for example, you said being vulnerable and, you know, being emotionally available and showing his issues, his shortcomings. 1.00

00:40:04.000 Bro, if a guy's supposed to be the one that's the leader in the relationship, he's supposed to be the one leading you, you're depending on this guy for security.

00:40:10.000 Him showing you his shortcomings and being vulnerable is the worst thing they can do.

00:40:13.000 That's 100% counterproductive to gaining your respect.

00:40:16.000 You said you can't submit to a man because of your baby daddy, which is crazy.

00:40:19.000 You, I want to be able to take trips and be free even though I'm in a relationship. 1.00

00:40:22.000 What the fuck is that? 1.00

00:40:24.000 And then you, I want a guy that believes in God, but your guy's an atheist. 1.00

00:40:27.000 What the fuck is going on? 0.99

00:40:29.000 And then you, oh, I wanted to be able to make decisions and stuff, but not tell me what to do. 0.99

00:40:32.000 Or he could have his opinion.

00:40:34.000 Yeah, bro.

00:40:35.000 Like, bro.

00:40:35.000 Yeah, bro.

00:40:36.000 My brain hurts. 1.00

00:40:37.000 Yo, women are literally retarded. 1.00

00:40:38.000 Oh, my God. 1.00

00:40:40.000 Goddamn! 0.99

00:40:40.000 Listen, we're undecisive. 0.99

00:40:42.000 We're very undecisive. 1.00

00:40:43.000 You cannot make it through life as a man, like, being a moron like that. 1.00

00:40:46.000 No offense. 1.00

00:40:47.000 But like, yo, but women could go all day, contradict themselves, don't make sense, say one thing, do another. 1.00

00:40:52.000 As a guy, you'll never be able to make it.

00:40:54.000 So imagine following their program. 1.00

00:40:55.000 Bro, this is why I tell y'all, you cannot let women lead shit. 1.00

00:40:59.000 They don't even know what they want in a guy. 1.00

00:41:01.000 Leave it to eat, bro.

00:41:02.000 Oh, no.

00:41:02.000 We'll have to make the decision to eat.

00:41:04.000 What the hell? 0.69

00:41:05.000 As soon as I smoke my joint, I will know what to eat. 0.95

00:41:09.000 If we're eating at home, I will make the decision.

00:41:11.000 Unless you want something specific.

00:41:13.000 Your guys' answers has to be stressed.

00:41:14.000 I'm losing hair. 0.99

00:41:15.000 I'm like, what the fuck? 0.99

00:41:16.000 Actions speak a lot of the words, right? 0.99

00:41:17.000 Actions speak a lot of the words.

00:41:19.000 Bro.

00:41:20.000 Holy!

00:41:21.000 Alright, you got another one then?

00:41:22.000 Sorry.

00:41:24.000 I got another quick one.

00:41:25.000 Yeah, please.

00:41:26.000 Go ahead.

00:41:26.000 So, at the last part, we went over a lot of red flags of women, yeah?

00:41:29.000 Yeah.

00:41:29.000 I'm curious for them, what's their biggest red flag in a guy?

00:41:33.000 We'll start with Miss Puerto Rico. 0.95

00:41:36.000 What is my biggest red flag?

00:41:37.000 You're the first one that comes to mind.

00:41:38.000 There's one red flag in a guy. 1.00

00:41:40.000 Man whore. 1.00

00:41:42.000 Friendly. 1.00

00:41:44.000 Too friendly?

00:41:45.000 Too friendly, yeah.

00:41:46.000 Like she said, I would like to be different.

00:41:52.000 I would like to get treated different than any other random.

00:41:57.000 Also, hostile to other people, but friendly to you.

00:41:59.000 Only.

00:42:00.000 Like, if that's my man, yes.

00:42:02.000 If that's my man, yes.

00:42:04.000 What's the red flag?

00:42:05.000 If it's too friendly, if it's too nice.

00:42:07.000 Is that what you mean?

00:42:10.000 Too nice to other girls? 0.50

00:42:11.000 You're right.

00:42:13.000 So he's very friendly with other girls.

00:42:14.000 Okay, okay.

00:42:15.000 I don't like friendly people.

00:42:17.000 Friendly guys, just friends.

00:42:19.000 Even though you are, which is hilarious?

00:42:21.000 Uh, no.

00:42:22.000 You're very friendly.

00:42:23.000 I'm single.

00:42:24.000 I could be.

00:42:26.000 I'm confused, man.

00:42:27.000 Okay.

00:42:27.000 What about you?

00:42:28.000 I thought it was a simple question.

00:42:32.000 Yeah, it was.

00:42:33.000 I tried to dumb down the second question.

00:42:35.000 So the question is...

00:42:37.000 What is a red flag, rojo...

00:42:39.000 What is a flag in Spanish?

00:42:40.000 Rojo, yeah.

00:42:42.000 Rojo flag in a man.

00:42:46.000 Jealous.

00:42:47.000 When it's jealous.

00:42:48.000 Jealous.

00:42:49.000 Oh, jealous.

00:42:50.000 What about you?

00:42:51.000 I say bad hygiene.

00:42:53.000 Could you define that for us?

00:42:55.000 What is bad hygiene?

00:42:56.000 If you... 0.99

00:42:57.000 First of all, if you're ugly and you got on this... 0.98

00:43:00.000 Sorry for... 0.98

00:43:01.000 First of all...

00:43:06.000 Just recently, I seen a guy, whatever, walk past me.

00:43:10.000 He smelled really good, but his face didn't match the cologne that he was wearing.

00:43:14.000 I was immediately turned off.

00:43:18.000 I was like, uh-uh, you smell real good, but your face don't match the cologne.

00:43:22.000 What does that mean?

00:43:23.000 That means if you look good and you smell good, it's a green flag.

00:43:27.000 But if you're ugly and you smell good, it's like, uh, I don't know. 0.98

00:43:30.000 Her red flag is ugly, guys. 0.99

00:43:32.000 So her red flags if they're ugly. 0.99

00:43:40.000 I would say my biggest red flag in a guy is overly emotional or too nice.

00:43:54.000 Like, I don't want that.

00:43:58.000 So like lack of emotional control.

00:44:00.000 He doesn't stay calm. 0.99

00:44:03.000 If you're a crybaby, that's disgusting. 1.00

00:44:06.000 If you whine or complain, it's disgusting. 1.00

00:44:10.000 Or if they get overly angry and show that they're overly angry and are throwing stuff or punch the wall.

00:44:18.000 You have anger issues.

00:44:20.000 You have no control of your emotions. 0.77

00:44:22.000 Immature. 0.95

00:44:24.000 Yeah.

00:44:26.000 Okay.

00:44:29.000 Toxic or controlling?

00:44:32.000 What is toxic?

00:44:33.000 Define toxic.

00:44:35.000 Like your baby daddy?

00:44:37.000 Let's not mention that.

00:44:39.000 Or if they don't have a job.

00:44:41.000 I think controlling.

00:44:43.000 What does controlling mean to you?

00:44:46.000 When like you can't be yourself like you have to I don't know I would like to be in a relationship that I could be myself.

00:44:54.000 You know, like a guy that tries to control you, your every move, every second, doesn't trust you, that's a huge red flag to me.

00:45:01.000 I would argue he cares about you a lot because he wants to make sure that you're good.

00:45:04.000 And for the most part, if he's going to want, for example, let's say you were something crazy, like more sexy, more like, I guess, like more sexual, you go outside, what's going to happen?

00:45:14.000 First of all, if I'm with a man, I'm not going to do that because I have to respect you.

00:45:17.000 All right, so define controlling that.

00:45:18.000 Yeah, give us an example.

00:45:20.000 Hmm.

00:45:20.000 Okay.

00:45:21.000 Because women throw that term around all the time and don't even know what it means. 1.00

00:45:26.000 Like?

00:45:27.000 Like right now.

00:45:29.000 Okay, listen.

00:45:30.000 For example, I don't know.

00:45:33.000 Like, let's say, look, for my birthday, we want to know y'all.

00:45:35.000 You can't make this up, bro.

00:45:37.000 For our birthday, we want to know y'all, and then it's my birthday.

00:45:40.000 Like, obviously, I want to get drunk.

00:45:41.000 It's my birthday.

00:45:42.000 I want to celebrate.

00:45:43.000 You got to sit there.

00:45:43.000 No, you can't dance.

00:45:44.000 What the fuck? 1.00

00:45:47.000 What did I get on the yacht for? 1.00

00:45:48.000 Why am I here with my friends?

00:45:50.000 Was he there?

00:45:51.000 Of course.

00:45:52.000 So he doesn't want you dancing on your birthday?

00:45:54.000 With my friends.

00:45:55.000 With our girls.

00:45:56.000 It's kind of weird.

00:45:58.000 Yes.

00:45:58.000 It's an odd one.

00:45:59.000 No, I wasn't allowed to do anything.

00:46:01.000 I can't talk to a guy.

00:46:02.000 I got in trouble and yelled at because I was talking to a guy that was with his girlfriend there.

00:46:07.000 And we were talking about food.

00:46:08.000 It doesn't matter.

00:46:09.000 So what?

00:46:11.000 It doesn't matter.

00:46:12.000 What kind of dance? 0.96

00:46:12.000 Are we talking about twerking and shit like that? 0.96

00:46:14.000 No! 1.00

00:46:14.000 You know girls when they dance with their friends, they want to twerk and do crazy shit. 1.00

00:46:17.000 No, I don't do that. 1.00

00:46:17.000 That looks dirty. 1.00

00:46:19.000 What?

00:46:20.000 See, but on a boat?

00:46:21.000 I grind with my friends.

00:46:23.000 They were doing ballet.

00:46:26.000 Even worse.

00:46:32.000 I'm not a stripper.

00:46:33.000 So he didn't want you dancing with your friends and potentially embarrassing yourself if it gets clipped.

00:46:39.000 Okay, fair enough.

00:46:39.000 That's controlling.

00:46:41.000 All right, anything else?

00:46:43.000 Turn off.

00:46:45.000 I said toxic, but you could go to her.

00:46:46.000 What do you find toxic?

00:46:48.000 Because that's another term that girls throw around all the time. 1.00

00:46:53.000 Everything in Miami is toxic.

00:46:58.000 I want two hours sleep.

00:47:01.000 We can't tell.

00:47:03.000 All right, what about you?

00:47:04.000 Okay, so do I have to narrow it down to one?

00:47:07.000 I can name like a few things, right?

00:47:09.000 Okay, so disrespecting his mom, any man who is disrespectful to his mom, I cut to 25 years later, that's going to be me, so I'm good.

00:47:18.000 The way that he treats people in general, you know, like...

00:47:22.000 Janitorial staff, wait staff, anybody that he doesn't really need, the way that he addresses those people.

00:47:28.000 And then if he treats them poorly, that's a red flag.

00:47:31.000 If he leads a dishonest lifestyle, if he's a scammer and he's scamming people out of their money, getting money from them, and then turning around and he's fine.

00:47:42.000 And then if something happens to that person, he doesn't care about it, also cuts into the way that he treats people.

00:47:47.000 Yeah, that stuff is a red flag to me.

00:47:48.000 Would you say leaving a nice tip is caring for people as well?

00:47:52.000 Yeah, I like that.

00:47:54.000 Yeah, I find that to be a green flag.

00:47:58.000 Okay.

00:47:58.000 Thank you for being specific.

00:48:00.000 Finally.

00:48:02.000 What about you, Miss Italy, right?

00:48:04.000 Yes, Italy.

00:48:05.000 For me, when he's toxic too, and when he loves money more than you. 0.99

00:48:11.000 Toxic and loves money.

00:48:13.000 No, when he loves money more than the people.

00:48:17.000 Or you.

00:48:19.000 So when he cares more for money than you.

00:48:24.000 It's like there is no humanity.

00:48:26.000 It's like if you get sick, for example, and you need to go to the hospital, you have to pay your bills.

00:48:33.000 You need money?

00:48:35.000 No.

00:48:36.000 Maybe they don't give you money to pay the bills.

00:48:39.000 So being broke?

00:48:42.000 I'm not being broke.

00:48:43.000 Like he's stingy with his money, he doesn't want to share it with you.

00:48:47.000 Sorry?

00:48:48.000 Like he's stingy with his money and doesn't want to share it with you?

00:48:51.000 Because I'm confused with your point.

00:48:55.000 I met a few people, like a guy, like the woman needs to see the doctor and there was some bills to pay, like not too much.

00:49:06.000 He prefers to pay the bills to bring her to the show.

00:49:10.000 Oh, so he's cheap.

00:49:11.000 He just doesn't want to spend money on things that money should be spent on?

00:49:16.000 Sorry?

00:49:17.000 Like he doesn't want to spend money?

00:49:19.000 Don't want to spend...

00:49:21.000 No, yes, for important things.

00:49:29.000 Oh, okay, so she's saying...

00:49:30.000 For your health, for your health.

00:49:32.000 Like, this means he love you.

00:49:35.000 Oh, it's agreed.

00:49:36.000 So she's saying in a nutshell that he's making money a priority when it comes to your well-being.

00:49:41.000 He doesn't care about you.

00:49:43.000 Yes, it's your needs, you know?

00:49:45.000 That makes sense, like over health.

00:49:48.000 So her thing is, it's just a cheapskate is what it really came out of. 0.58

00:49:51.000 Yeah.

00:49:51.000 It's not about he cares about money too much as that he's a cheapskate and won't spend money on things that are important.

00:49:56.000 Yeah.

00:49:56.000 Okay.

00:49:57.000 And then what's the other thing?

00:49:58.000 You said toxic?

00:49:58.000 Yes.

00:49:59.000 What do you mean by toxic?

00:50:01.000 Don't give you, like, a space or, yes, control you all the time.

00:50:06.000 And I had a bad experience about that and this history and these studies.

00:50:11.000 Control how?

00:50:14.000 Like, where are you going?

00:50:18.000 Don't go there.

00:50:19.000 Stay home.

00:50:19.000 Don't go there, yes.

00:50:21.000 Why are you wearing these dress or something like that?

00:50:24.000 Do you think that's controlling though?

00:50:25.000 Or call you all the times. 1.00

00:50:28.000 Where you at, bitch? 1.00

00:50:31.000 Do you think that's controlling or a man that cares about you? 1.00

00:50:36.000 No.

00:50:37.000 Controlling.

00:50:37.000 Like, cares about you?

00:50:39.000 You can call me, like, two times a day.

00:50:39.000 Yes.

00:50:43.000 This is, like, care about me.

00:50:45.000 But not 50 times.

00:50:46.000 I guess it could be two sides, because I don't mind if someone calls me all the time.

00:50:49.000 Like, I enjoy that.

00:50:51.000 I will say, like, as a woman, I'm hearing all the, like, I want space from my man is a little mind-boggling and confusing to me.

00:51:00.000 And I'll say that because, like, All I want is their undivided time and attention.

00:51:07.000 And I know when they're a busy person, I can't have that.

00:51:09.000 And that's very hard for me because all I want to do is be with them 24-7.

00:51:15.000 Yeah, that's why I'm not a thingy type like that.

00:51:17.000 Like, I want to be able to, like, have our own lives and whatever.

00:51:20.000 You want to go out with your friends and enjoy yourself with your friends.

00:51:21.000 Like, that's cool, whatever.

00:51:22.000 But, like...

00:51:23.000 I want you to come home and crawl in bed with me and I want to be there and I want to cook for you.

00:51:28.000 If you're asking me where I'm going because I'm leaving and what I'm doing and you don't want me to leave and you want me there with you, I want to stay inside. 0.99

00:51:36.000 Shut up, Chris. 0.99

00:51:38.000 You know that's true. 1.00

00:51:40.000 So for you, it's being cheap and toxic as in they bother you too much.

00:51:47.000 They call you 50 times a day or whatever.

00:51:49.000 Yes, I think there is a balance.

00:51:52.000 Don't call you a lot.

00:51:53.000 That's fine.

00:51:56.000 But I disagree with you on like, you know, dressing a certain way.

00:52:00.000 I think if a woman is with a man, she shouldn't be dressing provocatively unless that man is there. 1.00

00:52:05.000 And she shouldn't be going to nightclubs or going to Places where alcohol is served and there's a bunch of men trying to talk to her without him there. 0.99

00:52:13.000 Yes, agreed.

00:52:14.000 I don't think a woman should be going to clubs or bars or any of these places without her man. 1.00

00:52:18.000 Or traveling.

00:52:19.000 You disagree?

00:52:20.000 Or traveling alone.

00:52:21.000 I mean, it's not that wrong with traveling alone if you're single.

00:52:24.000 You have to trust your woman.

00:52:26.000 Yes.

00:52:27.000 Like, if you don't trust your woman, it's going to be a relationship.

00:52:32.000 Okay, but would you trust your man if he goes alone on a trip?

00:52:34.000 Yes, I do.

00:52:35.000 Because if I don't trust him, I cannot stay with him.

00:52:39.000 Because it's not good.

00:52:41.000 I'm not happy.

00:52:42.000 I worry all the time about where he goes, who is with him.

00:52:48.000 No, it's not like a healthy relationship for me.

00:52:52.000 What's worse, if a man cheats or if a woman cheats?

00:52:56.000 Which one is worse for the relationship?

00:52:58.000 I'm asking her.

00:53:00.000 I think one the man Cheating usually is stay with a woman. 0.98

00:53:08.000 He's like just for have fun when the woman cheating is more dangerous because much of the time he decide he leave the man and go with the Cheating so cheating for women is worse, right?

00:53:20.000 Okay.

00:53:21.000 Okay, so bars nightclubs Isn't it easier for women to cheat? 1.00

00:53:26.000 No.

00:53:27.000 You don't think it's easier for women to cheat than men? 0.65

00:53:29.000 No, because if somebody want to cheat a partner, he can go to the supermarket.

00:53:34.000 He can go out like five minutes and he can cheat.

00:53:38.000 It's a really good place to pick up women, actually. 1.00

00:53:40.000 You can find somebody everywhere.

00:53:42.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

00:53:43.000 Let's say you and your husband went to a nightclub.

00:53:45.000 Who do you think is going to have an easier time meeting the opposite gender? 1.00

00:53:49.000 Women. 0.81

00:53:50.000 Women, of course. 0.99

00:53:51.000 So it's easier for you to cheat, right?

00:53:54.000 I have more opportunity to cheat if I want.

00:53:57.000 So that means it's easier, right?

00:53:58.000 Yes.

00:53:59.000 So, since it's easier for you to cheat, doesn't that mean that you have to work a little bit harder to avoid cheating?

00:54:06.000 Since it's so much easier for you to cheat?

00:54:08.000 It's just common logic.

00:54:10.000 I don't know, because like...

00:54:12.000 No, I agree, because it's not...

00:54:15.000 I have more opportunity, but I grow up, like, I don't feel I need to cheat my man.

00:54:21.000 Like, I can have, like, 100 men under me, but I love him.

00:54:28.000 I love him, so I don't have this temptation to cheating him.

00:54:34.000 Like...

00:54:35.000 I don't see them.

00:54:36.000 I don't see the other ones.

00:54:37.000 I see just my partner, my husband.

00:54:40.000 That's when you're in love with a person.

00:54:42.000 When a woman is in love with somebody, they don't look at another person.

00:54:45.000 I think the chat sees what I'm seeing.

00:54:49.000 I get what you're saying because if a woman loves a man, she doesn't want to cheat.

00:54:55.000 However, she also would say, you know what?

00:54:57.000 This environment is unhealthy for me to be in.

00:55:00.000 As a result, if I love my man, I don't want to be here.

00:55:02.000 Well, for a man, it's a red flag if his girl wants to go out to bars and clubs without him because what's the motivation there? 0.98

00:55:08.000 Why is it happening?

00:55:10.000 I think, like, stay with a person doesn't mean, like, just him exists.

00:55:17.000 Like, you have to have friends because it's gonna be a toxic relationship.

00:55:21.000 You have to have your space.

00:55:22.000 No, no.

00:55:23.000 You can have friends, but you don't have to go out to nightclubs.

00:55:25.000 Yeah, friends are important, like, 100%, but...

00:55:28.000 If you're a person, like...

00:55:30.000 Why don't you stay in the house and drink wine?

00:55:32.000 Why don't you guys stay in the house and drink wine?

00:55:34.000 You can wine and canvas, go to dinner, you can do coffee dates.

00:55:38.000 What if you go out with all of your friends that are also in relationships and or married?

00:55:42.000 You want to go out with your friends, you know?

00:55:45.000 And they're all in relationships or married, you know?

00:55:46.000 It's like, oh, let's go out, you know, let's link up or whatever.

00:55:50.000 Or go on a date, like a double date.

00:55:52.000 Yeah, where like your husbands all go to, like, I don't know.

00:55:54.000 I don't want to be in a club without my...

00:55:56.000 If I'm in a relationship, I don't want to be in a club without them.

00:55:59.000 Also because, like I said, when people are coming up to you, you can say I have a boyfriend or I'm married or whatever all you want, but people are, as women, going to repetitively come and hit on us and try to take us home and bother us and saying no all night. 0.95

00:56:12.000 Then it just becomes annoying and then my night is ruined and bothered because I'm not having a good time.

00:56:17.000 I'm telling people to get away from me.

00:56:19.000 Yeah, it's just not enjoyable.

00:56:23.000 Interesting.

00:56:24.000 Alright, so you still want to be able to go to the club and dress however you want with your man there or not?

00:56:24.000 I agree.

00:56:30.000 It's not a dress.

00:56:31.000 It's not a club.

00:56:32.000 It's a person.

00:56:34.000 You decide to cheat somebody.

00:56:36.000 It's not because I'm in the club.

00:56:39.000 So I cheated somebody.

00:56:40.000 So you're saying as an individual, you decide what you want to do.

00:56:42.000 Yes, it's your values.

00:56:43.000 But once again, the environment is not healthy.

00:56:48.000 You don't think so?

00:56:48.000 No?

00:56:49.000 What's unhealthy about the environment?

00:56:51.000 What is the environment?

00:56:55.000 Temptation.

00:56:56.000 Okay, I work like a model in Italy.

00:57:00.000 Oh, you're a model?

00:57:01.000 In Italy, I was a model.

00:57:03.000 You've been in Vogue?

00:57:04.000 No.

00:57:05.000 Then you're not a model.

00:57:06.000 Go ahead.

00:57:07.000 No professional.

00:57:08.000 Like, no high-level model.

00:57:10.000 When you were a model, how long were you a model for?

00:57:13.000 From what ages?

00:57:14.000 What age were you a model?

00:57:15.000 Like 22 years old until I came here, like 31 years old.

00:57:20.000 A while ago.

00:57:20.000 That was a long time ago.

00:57:21.000 Okay, so 22 to 31.

00:57:24.000 And then you met your husband when you were how old were you when you met him?

00:57:28.000 No, I was here.

00:57:29.000 But I was in a relationship when I was in Italy.

00:57:32.000 I was a model.

00:57:33.000 And when you are a model, you met a lot of people.

00:57:36.000 No, I know.

00:57:37.000 A lot of men, but I never cheated my husband.

00:57:39.000 But I'm saying, when did you meet your husband that you have now?

00:57:42.000 When did you meet him?

00:57:44.000 2017.

00:57:46.000 Okay, so you met him when you were like 31?

00:57:48.000 Six years ago.

00:57:49.000 Okay.

00:57:50.000 Alright, so you met him at 31.

00:57:52.000 And then before him, did you have like another boyfriend?

00:57:57.000 I had a boyfriend in Italy before I came here.

00:57:59.000 And why didn't that work out with your boyfriend?

00:58:02.000 Because it was a long relationship.

00:58:04.000 We live in a different city.

00:58:06.000 And I left Italy.

00:58:08.000 I didn't want to live in Italy anymore.

00:58:11.000 And he won't stay in Italy.

00:58:12.000 So we didn't have the same plan for the future.

00:58:15.000 Was he a model too?

00:58:18.000 No, he was an engineer.

00:58:20.000 From 22 to 31?

00:58:24.000 No, I had 22 to 28.

00:58:30.000 Okay.

00:58:31.000 All right.

00:58:32.000 Very interesting.

00:58:33.000 Very.

00:58:34.000 Okay.

00:58:34.000 All right.

00:58:35.000 So you don't want nobody to tell you what to do?

00:58:38.000 No.

00:58:41.000 Fair enough.

00:58:42.000 I see what's going on here.

00:58:44.000 Yeah, I see the pattern here.

00:58:45.000 That's fine.

00:58:46.000 And what about you?

00:58:47.000 What is a red flag for you for ma'am? 1.00

00:58:49.000 Um, I guess, like, a guy that just follows, like, a lot of women on, like, social media, and he's just, like, always liking their pictures and stuff.

00:58:56.000 Like, I think that's a red flag.

00:58:58.000 Yeah, that's a red flag for me.

00:58:59.000 Just, like, liking a bunch of pictures.

00:59:01.000 And, like, I think that's what falls under her umbrella of friendly.

00:59:03.000 Because I feel like that's friendly, like, with women, you know?

00:59:07.000 Like, you gotta, like, hold, like, your girlfriend at a different standard.

00:59:10.000 And, like, I don't know, show them a different type of love.

00:59:15.000 Yeah, and, like...

00:59:16.000 I just don't think it's cool because you kind of put your girlfriend...

00:59:21.000 You embarrass her by doing that.

00:59:23.000 By liking all these pictures and following all these girls because he doesn't care about her.

00:59:28.000 Vice versa though.

00:59:29.000 Guys, if you do the same thing...

00:59:31.000 Vice versa. 1.00

00:59:32.000 Guys, if you be liking guys' pictures, they're going to be on your ass too. 0.99

00:59:35.000 Why are you liking these pictures? 0.99

00:59:38.000 You can't because that makes you a hoe. 1.00

00:59:41.000 Exactly, but we have a title but you guys can do it and you guys don't have a title. 1.00

00:59:45.000 A man fucking a bunch of bitches is not the same as a woman fucking a bunch of dudes. 1.00

00:59:49.000 Not even close. 1.00

00:59:50.000 Okay, but one thing is liking and another thing is fucking. 1.00

00:59:52.000 One thing is liking and another thing is fucking. 1.00

00:59:54.000 Yeah, but any type of behavior done by a woman that could lead to fucking is unacceptable. 1.00

00:59:59.000 Especially if you have a man. 0.99

01:00:01.000 Whether that's going to the club.

01:00:02.000 It's crazy to me how like...

01:00:04.000 One thing about your guys' answers that I've noticed is like...

01:00:08.000 Toxic, controlling, calling me, or whatever there may be. 0.85

01:00:11.000 Like, women gotta understand that if you're gonna be in a relationship with a man, and that man has any set of balls or backbone, he's gonna have standards and regulations and boundaries. 1.00

01:00:21.000 So, if you wanna behave like you're single, then be single.

01:00:25.000 But it's very disrespectful to the man that you behave like you're single when you have a man.

01:00:30.000 Going to the club, dressing provocatively on the internet, dressing provocatively when he's not there, wanting to go out in social situations, drinking with other people that isn't him.

01:00:39.000 I find it crazy how girls want to be able to have a man at home but be able to reserve the right to still do all the things that make them look like they're single. 1.00

01:00:48.000 But what if I'm not doing that and he's doing that then?

01:00:51.000 Men and women aren't the same, too bad. 1.00

01:00:52.000 But like, what do you mean?

01:00:53.000 Too bad.

01:00:53.000 That makes no sense.

01:00:54.000 Yeah, that doesn't...

01:00:55.000 So you have the freedom and we don't?

01:00:57.000 Yeah.

01:00:59.000 So what made you fall in love with me in the first place?

01:01:03.000 If, you know, like... 0.99

01:01:04.000 Why are you not being a whore? 1.00

01:01:05.000 Can I ask a question? 0.99

01:01:06.000 Men and women are not the same. 0.99

01:01:09.000 A guy that can attract a bunch of chicks or a dude that fucks a bunch of girls is attractive. 0.99

01:01:13.000 A girl that fucks a bunch of dudes or puts herself out there for a bunch of dudes is not attractive. 1.00

01:01:17.000 It's not the same at all. 1.00

01:01:19.000 When you go to a nightclub, you go to a VIP section, it's a higher status man with a bunch of bitches. 1.00

01:01:25.000 You are never going to go into a VIP section and see chicks with a bunch of dudes. 1.00

01:01:29.000 It doesn't work the other way around.

01:01:31.000 Women love men that have other women. 0.96

01:01:33.000 And it honestly keeps y'all in check.

01:01:34.000 So it's a good thing.

01:01:35.000 When you have a bunch of dudes, it's unattractive.

01:01:37.000 I don't know why women don't understand. 1.00

01:01:38.000 You guys only like the double standards that benefit you. 0.99

01:01:41.000 Getting into night clothes for free, getting attention, getting validation, getting, you know, worship just because you have a vagina. 0.99

01:01:46.000 For men, life is much harder. 0.97

01:01:48.000 So since life is much harder for us to be attracted to the opposite gender, we get to enjoy the fruits of our labor differently than you guys do. 1.00

01:01:54.000 Y'all don't have to work for shit. 0.99

01:01:56.000 Just go in, be hot and young, good enough. 1.00

01:01:58.000 For us, we have to acquire some status, acquire some confidence, dress well, smell good, etc.

01:02:03.000 You can have everything together.

01:02:04.000 She's still going to reject you. 1.00

01:02:05.000 Just go over here, right?

01:02:06.000 So it's like, yo, as a man, we get certain privileges that y'all don't because you don't earn your value.

01:02:12.000 So I don't know why women don't get this. 1.00

01:02:14.000 I was saying in a relationship, though, because what if I'm at home and I'm not doing any of those things and then you're out in the club and you're doing that?

01:02:22.000 Okay, and?

01:02:22.000 What do you mean?

01:02:23.000 What? 0.99

01:02:23.000 If I busted my ass and I got to a certain point and I'm an attractive man, right? 0.99

01:02:27.000 Why are you in a relationship? 1.00

01:02:29.000 Okay, but then we're in a relationship.

01:02:31.000 Yeah, I think the big caveat here is that these are boundaries that are, like, set, right?

01:02:35.000 Like, obviously, if you're a dude and you're like, I'm going to be monogamous with you, I'm never going to cheat on you, and you do that, I don't think that's good, but I think it's okay. 0.75

01:02:42.000 It's going to be more accepted for a guy who's in this position to be able to set these boundaries and still There's not going to be any dudes that are going to be like, okay, you can fuck as many girls as you want. 0.97

01:02:53.000 That's not going to happen. 0.85

01:02:54.000 But in reality, women with a guy who's built his life up, it can happen in practice, right?

01:03:02.000 A girl will accept a man that has multiple women, but a man almost never will accept a woman that has multiple dudes.

01:03:08.000 And if he does accept it, those are the guys you don't want anyway.

01:03:11.000 But can you agree?

01:03:12.000 Let's say we go to a club, right?

01:03:14.000 I go to a club.

01:03:15.000 It's going to be different from when you go to a club.

01:03:17.000 You may get to go on a table, get free bottles, get free liquor.

01:03:21.000 If I go, I got to pay for a table.

01:03:23.000 Man, hold on, hold on.

01:03:24.000 Let's switch it up. 1.00

01:03:26.000 Because women are retarded with this shit. 1.00

01:03:28.000 Us going to a club are not the same. 1.00

01:03:29.000 Let's say I go to the club and I got a bunch of bad bitches that are going to come up to me that are hotter than you, younger than you, thinner than you, better body than you, more money than you, and they're offering to fly me out, they're offering to give me a bottle, they're offering me a job, they're offering me certain opportunities that you'll never fucking be able to do, 1.00

01:03:45.000 right? 0.99

01:03:46.000 And they're going to pay me 10k.

01:03:47.000 Would you let me go to the club? 0.98

01:03:59.000 Y'all would never allow that shit, but for some odd reason, you guys want us to accept you going to a nightclub where there's going to be a bunch of thirsty dudes giving you a bunch of things, offering you a bunch of shit, guys that might have more money than me, more status than me, etc. 0.99

01:04:10.000 Why the fuck am I going to go ahead and put my Rolex in the hood? 0.99

01:04:14.000 That's essentially what it comes down to. 0.99

01:04:15.000 You're letting your girl, right, which is a prized possession, it should be, if you worked hard to get her, letting her go to a bunch of criminals or hoodlums, leaving it out there.

01:04:22.000 And it could get stolen. 0.99

01:04:24.000 But if we flipped it around, right, I find it crazy to me how if I was gonna go to the club and have the same opportunities y'all had with all the hot girls coming up to me, giving me all these opportunities, y'all would never let that shit fly. 1.00

01:04:35.000 Y'all be like, fuck no, stay your ass at home. 1.00

01:04:37.000 Drink some wine with your friends. 1.00

01:04:38.000 Does that mean that you would do it though?

01:04:40.000 What do you mean?

01:04:41.000 Like, what is a let?

01:04:43.000 Like, are we talking about somebody being uncomfortable with something?

01:04:45.000 Or are we talking about her literally standing in front of the door, blocking the door with her body, and hiding your keys and not letting you go anywhere?

01:04:52.000 No, I'm just giving you an analogy where if the roles were flipped...

01:04:57.000 And I had all the opportunities in the nightclub that a woman enjoys. 1.00

01:05:01.000 As a man, y'all would have a serious issue with me going.

01:05:04.000 But women know subconsciously, when men go to the club, they have to pay their way in. 0.99

01:05:09.000 It's annoying to deal with girls there. 1.00

01:05:11.000 It's not as easy to pick up a chick. 1.00

01:05:12.000 I gotta pay to get a section versus girls get in there for free. 1.00

01:05:15.000 If I had the same opportunities as a man in the nightclub that a woman did, you guys would be a lot more cautious about me going to the club. 0.97

01:05:21.000 If I roll up to the club, I'm not gonna accidentally...

01:05:25.000 Get laid.

01:05:26.000 It's not an accident, right?

01:05:27.000 There's like a series of actions that have to take place.

01:05:29.000 As a woman, you have guys approaching you all night. 0.99

01:05:32.000 If you just are a little bit friendly, all of a sudden now maybe you're sitting next to him in a more exclusive venue and then he's asking you to go back to his place.

01:05:38.000 Like one thing leads to the next.

01:05:39.000 For a guy, that all has to be like calculated maneuvers that happen.

01:05:42.000 But if it's easier for women to cheat, can't that happen anywhere? 1.00

01:05:46.000 Yeah, but at a nightclub, it's a lot more likely to happen than the grocery store.

01:05:50.000 It's a lot easier if you're at a club when people are very close together, you're drinking when you're drinking, you're not thinking, you're doing drugs.

01:05:58.000 It's simple.

01:05:59.000 You got milk, you got a table, two different scenarios.

01:06:02.000 Yeah.

01:06:03.000 Okay, I see what you're saying.

01:06:05.000 Yeah.

01:06:05.000 Is it true that...

01:06:05.000 Because I get where she's going here.

01:06:07.000 Well, I could get hit on anywhere.

01:06:08.000 If I'm wearing sweatpants, guys are going to come up to me anyway.

01:06:10.000 That's true.

01:06:11.000 But it's for the same reason that people want to go and move to a certain place.

01:06:14.000 For example, you said you teach an hour from here, right?

01:06:16.000 Yeah.

01:06:16.000 So people obviously live in that school district, in that area, because it's probably a better school system than here in Miami, right?

01:06:22.000 We have some of the worst school districts here in South Florida.

01:06:26.000 So they go to another location... 0.97

01:06:28.000 Now, is the rate of crime and the school, you know, shitty teachers, etc., is it still possible that you're going to get a shitty teacher where you teach? 0.98

01:06:34.000 Of course. 0.61

01:06:35.000 But the likelihood goes down because you're paying more tax dollars, you're getting better teachers, so the probability goes up that your kid's going to get a higher quality education.

01:06:43.000 Same exact thing.

01:06:44.000 The probability goes down when my girl doesn't go to the club, but it goes up when she goes to the club. 0.97

01:06:48.000 My girl walks to the target. 1.00

01:06:50.000 She's not going to accidentally get picked.

01:06:52.000 Maybe she gets approached by one dude or two dudes.

01:06:54.000 If she goes to the club and she's dressing super sexy, she's going to get approached by 50 news minimum that night. 1.00

01:07:00.000 So, women live life on easy mode. 1.00

01:07:05.000 Real quick, we're going to kill Twitch, Twitter, Facebook, and Rumble and YouTube.

01:07:09.000 Come on over to YouTube guys, YouTube, YouTube, Fresh and Fit, and Rumble, rumble.com slash freshfit.

01:07:13.000 However you want to watch us, go ahead and check us out.

01:07:15.000 Sorry.

01:07:16.000 Dave, you had something or you had something?

01:07:17.000 Yeah.

01:07:20.000 No, I just said what I got.

01:07:21.000 Okay, so, I mean, first of all, if you have a girl and she's going to a club but you're dating and you guys are together, there's no reason why that girl needs to go to the club without you.

01:07:29.000 Yeah, that's our point.

01:07:30.000 That's our point.

01:07:31.000 Like, that's a hole.

01:07:32.000 You're dating a hole. 0.94

01:07:39.000 I don't go to the club and I'm at home, but if my boyfriend is going to a club and he's buying girls drinks, that would really annoy me. 0.66

01:07:47.000 That's disrespectful.

01:07:49.000 Why are you spending money on another girl?

01:07:50.000 What if you're going to the club to do that?

01:07:52.000 To try to pick up girls? 0.99

01:07:54.000 I think it's different.

01:07:55.000 What do you mean that?

01:07:57.000 We could go to the strip club together.

01:07:58.000 Like, you wouldn't like that.

01:08:00.000 I wouldn't want to go to the strip club with my man, though. 0.98

01:08:02.000 I'm telling you right now, you're in a strip club with a guy that you're dating, and you see him get a lap dance, or you're throwing money at a girl, you are going to be pissed the fuck off. 0.93

01:08:09.000 My man gives me the money, and I throw the money on the hoes. 1.00

01:08:12.000 Yeah, I'm not going to the store club.

01:08:15.000 Let's just not go to no store club.

01:08:16.000 Y'all just got to be on the same page.

01:08:18.000 You shouldn't feel uncomfortable.

01:08:20.000 You're going there to have fun and enjoy your time.

01:08:22.000 I'm uncomfortable and insecure now.

01:08:24.000 I don't know what to tell you.

01:08:24.000 Yeah.

01:08:26.000 I'm not too proud to admit it.

01:08:27.000 Women are the ones that control the dating marketplace and sex. 1.00

01:08:31.000 Since women control that, with great power comes great responsibility. 1.00

01:08:36.000 Since you're the girl, you need to take overt steps to protect yourself from being a thot. 1.00

01:08:42.000 Let's just keep it a thousand, man.

01:08:43.000 Half of the game of being a man is keeping your girl in check and correcting bad behaviors that are not conducive to good relationships.

01:08:51.000 The problem is that we live in a world now where girls have a lot of... 1.00

01:08:55.000 The whole behavior is ingrained in them, right?

01:08:57.000 And it's on the guy to get rid of those bad behaviors.

01:09:00.000 Oh, you want to go to the club all the time?

01:09:01.000 You want to do drugs? 1.00

01:09:02.000 You want to be with your girlfriends that are all sluts? 1.00

01:09:03.000 You want to be on boats? 1.00

01:09:04.000 All this other shit? 0.99

01:09:05.000 That's cool. 1.00

01:09:05.000 But you don't deserve a relationship. 1.00

01:09:07.000 And I think if more guys put their foot down and let girls know, this is not acceptable behavior of a girl that I'm going to take seriously, more girls that acclimate. 1.00

01:09:15.000 The problem is that guys don't have the balls to put their foot down and say, no, this isn't acceptable behavior. 0.80

01:09:19.000 And here's the thing. 0.97

01:09:20.000 No one's going to force y'all.

01:09:21.000 You do what you want. 0.97

01:09:22.000 But I'm not going to give you no fucking commitment if you're going to behave like you're single. 1.00

01:09:25.000 I'm a clown for that. 1.00

01:09:27.000 Well, unfortunately, there's not a lot of guys that have balls in Miami. 0.99

01:09:29.000 That's true. 0.97

01:09:30.000 But for example, he's saying you can get a man by your looks, by how you walk, how you dress.

01:09:35.000 But can you really retain that man after a while?

01:09:37.000 Probably not because you're doing these things like traveling alone, wink, wink.

01:09:43.000 Well, guys who have options are going to choose their best options the same way that women with options will choose their best option.

01:09:50.000 But the way a man ranks his options is going to be different than how a woman ranks their options, right? 1.00

01:09:55.000 And a guy who's going to be prioritizing women who he thinks are actually going to be loyal and more feminine and fall into that feminine role if all other things being equal.

01:10:05.000 I think the hardest thing that for women, most women to accept in these scenarios is like, you might be able to get this like really great guy that's really hot and has a lot of money and is very successful and whatever for like a night you can hook up with them or whatever and maybe hook up with them a couple times more.

01:10:19.000 But if you want to keep behaving the way that you're behaving and you don't want to listen, you don't want to follow his lead, you don't want to do these things and kind of stay at home or only go out with him, things like that.

01:10:26.000 He's going to realize you're not going to be an option for him.

01:10:29.000 So you just kind of have to realize if you want a man at that status and that energy to give you those things and provide for you and have this nice life that you want to build with him, then you have to make a sacrifice to keep that.

01:10:41.000 And if you don't want to make that sacrifice, then that's okay.

01:10:43.000 But you have to accept that, you know, You're losing what you want.

01:10:49.000 What if he's cheating on you?

01:10:50.000 Are you still going to accept that?

01:10:52.000 Well, I think now you have to, you have to like kind of remind that because if I'm dating a higher status man, okay, and he has a lot of money and I know that I'm taken care of, okay?

01:11:04.000 He loves me very much.

01:11:05.000 He provides Marie.

01:11:06.000 Everything's great.

01:11:07.000 Everything's cool.

01:11:07.000 We do things together.

01:11:08.000 But sometimes when he travels, you know what?

01:11:11.000 I don't care.

01:11:12.000 And I think that it's easier...

01:11:15.000 I think it's easier when...

01:11:18.000 These scenarios don't work if the man is not high value.

01:11:21.000 If the man is not making a lot of money and if the man is not...

01:11:25.000 If the man is not making a lot of money and the man is not like...

01:11:29.000 Providing and taking care of everything?

01:11:31.000 Like, these scenarios don't work. 1.00

01:11:32.000 Because I'll be damned if I'm paying for bills and I'm working and you're out fucking bitches, I will be damned. 1.00

01:11:38.000 Okay? 1.00

01:11:39.000 But if you're taking care of me... 0.99

01:11:40.000 Break all your clothes, burn them. 0.97

01:11:42.000 You're more accepting if he's taking care of you. 0.87

01:11:44.000 But you know that he's cheating on you. 0.99

01:11:46.000 So how does that make you feel knowing that another woman is always going to be around and always, like, she can't take your place because she's going to be a sly bitch, obviously, but... 1.00

01:11:53.000 And that's where it comes. 0.98

01:11:54.000 That's where the difference lies with men and women, okay? 0.95

01:11:56.000 It's because she'll never take my place.

01:11:58.000 I know that I am the loved one.

01:11:59.000 I know that I am his.

01:12:00.000 I know that he loves me and he cares about me because I'm the one he's taking care of.

01:12:05.000 What if y'all are married?

01:12:06.000 He might sleep with one girl for one night.

01:12:09.000 Whatever.

01:12:09.000 Men are men.

01:12:10.000 And...

01:12:12.000 Justin Waller.

01:12:12.000 I just saw a video of Justin Waller the other day.

01:12:14.000 And what he said perfectly, I feel like, explains this.

01:12:18.000 He was like, if I could look at the woman that I love and be truthful when I say I only want to be with you and sleep with you for the rest of my life, I wish it were true, but it's not.

01:12:29.000 Because men don't think like that.

01:12:31.000 I will always, no matter how much I'm in love with my woman, I will look at other women and think you're hot. 1.00

01:12:36.000 I want to fuck you. 1.00

01:12:37.000 And that's just how men think. 1.00

01:12:39.000 Whether you're at this value or this value, like, of status, it doesn't matter.

01:12:44.000 They all think the same.

01:12:46.000 But I think the higher value people have a better chance of doing it because, A, they're probably going to be a little more open about it.

01:12:52.000 And also, like, you're going to be secure, like, financially, emotionally.

01:12:55.000 Like, they're going to be taking care of you.

01:12:56.000 You know what I'm saying? 1.00

01:12:59.000 If we're struggling financially and you're out spending your money on other bitches, now I'll be fucking damned. 1.00

01:13:07.000 It's still emotionally damaging to go through that. 1.00

01:13:10.000 If there's a guy who's a loser and he's not setting these boundaries and he's cheating on you, that's just a weak dude.

01:13:16.000 But if it's a guy who's built up his life to a certain extent and he lets you know up front, hey, from time to time this may happen, That's a completely different story. 0.79

01:13:24.000 Exactly.

01:13:25.000 And knowing about it.

01:13:26.000 It's not like they're sneaking around your back or anything like that, you know, and lying to your face.

01:13:30.000 I think if they're lying to your face about it, that becomes an issue and that's where most damage and trust issues come in.

01:13:35.000 And now, just because I'm okay with this scenario, you might not be.

01:13:39.000 And that's okay.

01:13:40.000 We're all not going to be okay with that scenario and we're all not going to be okay with the same things and that's fine.

01:13:45.000 A lot of women will accept a higher status man that says, hey, you know what? 1.00

01:13:50.000 I love you and I'm going to take care of you, but sometimes I'm going to fuck other bitches, either accept it or don't. 1.00

01:13:54.000 Or, hey, I'm going to have a couple main girls and you guys are going to share me, accept it or don't. 1.00

01:13:59.000 Chris!

01:14:00.000 Question for you.

01:14:02.000 How does that make you feel?

01:14:04.000 This conversation?

01:14:05.000 Yeah.

01:14:06.000 No, I learned a different pattern for you.

01:14:10.000 So would you ever submit to that man?

01:14:14.000 Yes or no?

01:14:15.000 I never submit to a man. 0.78

01:14:16.000 I never submit to a man. 0.78

01:14:17.000 Would you ever submit to that man?

01:14:20.000 You said earlier that you wouldn't.

01:14:22.000 Yes.

01:14:23.000 You're going to ask me and I'm going to say yes.

01:14:26.000 Would you submit to that man?

01:14:28.000 That man who's cheating on me?

01:14:29.000 Well, he's...

01:14:30.000 What's that cheating?

01:14:31.000 I mean, he's not cheating.

01:14:33.000 He's there for you.

01:14:34.000 He loves you.

01:14:35.000 But every now and then, you know, when he travels, he may smash you.

01:14:37.000 Have I gotten to the point where I agreed, where I consent to being cheated on?

01:14:42.000 Well, you're looking at it the wrong way because you're going to know about it.

01:14:45.000 So, okay, so...

01:14:46.000 He's not sticking around.

01:14:48.000 At the end of the day, call it what you want to call it, whether you're being honest about it or not.

01:14:51.000 It's only if you're, like, not aware of it.

01:14:53.000 But if you're aware of it...

01:14:54.000 No, that's a...

01:14:54.000 But that's adultery, though.

01:14:56.000 I would rather not be aware.

01:14:56.000 Like, you're sleeping with somebody.

01:14:58.000 You are forming, like, an intimate sexual, like, covenant with somebody else.

01:15:02.000 We're not married.

01:15:03.000 Huh?

01:15:04.000 We're not married yet.

01:15:04.000 That's an open relationship.

01:15:05.000 So I'm submitting to somebody I'm not married to?

01:15:06.000 Yeah, why not? 0.99

01:15:07.000 Okay, we're not married and you're having sex with other women. 0.97

01:15:10.000 I mean, you're supposed to... 0.75

01:15:11.000 You don't submit to your boyfriend before?

01:15:13.000 I do that under the guise of maybe the delusional belief that he's not having sex with other women.

01:15:19.000 Yeah, delusional because he probably is.

01:15:21.000 So do you go into the relationship with the knowledge of this man could possibly cheat on me and vice versa?

01:15:28.000 Well, yeah.

01:15:29.000 I call that trust.

01:15:32.000 Would you submit to that man?

01:15:33.000 To...

01:15:34.000 Be honest.

01:15:37.000 I couldn't be in a relationship with somebody like that.

01:15:39.000 If you're in love, love will make you do anything.

01:15:41.000 Yes, ma'am.

01:15:42.000 Here's my thing.

01:15:43.000 Think about it this way.

01:15:44.000 That's a dangerous place to be in.

01:15:45.000 Think about it this way.

01:15:46.000 So you have this man, okay?

01:15:47.000 And he's taking care of you.

01:15:48.000 And you love him.

01:15:49.000 And he loves you.

01:15:51.000 But he says, hey, sometimes when I travel, like, you know, he's rich, whatever. 1.00

01:15:55.000 I might fuck another bitch. 1.00

01:15:57.000 Would you leave that to go find another man who's just gonna cheat on you anyways? 1.00

01:16:01.000 Because every man cheats.

01:16:02.000 I'm telling you right now.

01:16:03.000 They all do.

01:16:05.000 They all do. 1.00

01:16:07.000 So whether you know it or whether you don't, your man's fucking another bitch. 1.00

01:16:10.000 Except for Dave. 1.00

01:16:11.000 For sure.

01:16:12.000 Like 99%.

01:16:14.000 He's an honest man.

01:16:15.000 Would you submit to that man?

01:16:18.000 I would still submit.

01:16:19.000 Because if I'm in love with you, and I know, like, in all honesty, it's just what it is.

01:16:25.000 Like you said, all men cheat, which is possibly true. 1.00

01:16:28.000 And women all cheat too. 1.00

01:16:30.000 That's true. 0.95

01:16:31.000 Yes, they do. 1.00

01:16:32.000 Shut up. 1.00

01:16:33.000 They have the potential to. 1.00

01:16:35.000 The potential, but all don't, though.

01:16:37.000 No, they don't.

01:16:38.000 If they're in love and they're taken care of.

01:16:40.000 Absolutely.

01:16:40.000 How little respect do you have to have for yourself to consent to that and allow something like that to happen to you?

01:16:46.000 Allow somebody to tell you to your face that you are literally not worth me sacrificing my own selfish desires?

01:16:52.000 But can you admit though, ultimately speaking, the guy that's going to say to you, oh yeah, I know what you know, I'm only going to be with you.

01:17:00.000 Maybe it'll cross his mind, right?

01:17:02.000 But not everybody who looks at other women who even loves after other women or finds other women desirable, right?

01:17:10.000 Because it's a fallacy to believe that if you're going to be with somebody for three months, three years, 30 years, it's a fallacy to believe that they're not going to be attracted to other people.

01:17:19.000 Sure.

01:17:20.000 Correct. 1.00

01:17:20.000 So I can accept that, you know, especially when I'm like in my 40s and my man is in his 50s, that he's going to look at other women and be like, damn, that's a fine piece of ass. 1.00

01:17:29.000 Okay. 1.00

01:17:29.000 Like, all right. 1.00

01:17:30.000 Like, I can accept that because I'm not ignorant.

01:17:33.000 But for somebody to tell me to my face that I... Because this is the subtitles, right?

01:17:40.000 You're not worth me staying faithful to you even though I love you.

01:17:45.000 For somebody to tell me that to my face, I don't think...

01:17:48.000 Yeah, hold on.

01:17:49.000 Do you want a guy that's taller than you?

01:17:51.000 Huh?

01:17:51.000 Do you want a guy that's taller than you?

01:17:52.000 That's taller than me?

01:17:53.000 Yes.

01:17:56.000 Does he make more money than you?

01:17:58.000 He does.

01:17:59.000 Is he more competent than yourself?

01:18:01.000 In what capacity?

01:18:02.000 Is he, I guess, has a better awareness of the world and how things really work?

01:18:08.000 He's more competent than yourself.

01:18:10.000 He's able to lead and guide you.

01:18:11.000 Well, he's older than me, so yeah, I would expect that.

01:18:13.000 So yes, and you want these things, right?

01:18:15.000 Is he stronger than you physically?

01:18:16.000 Uh, yes.

01:18:17.000 So, how about this?

01:18:19.000 You need to put your selfish desires aside and go ahead and date a guy that makes the same amount of money as you, as tall as you, so y'all can share clothes and get along, and go ahead and get a guy that's at your level of competence.

01:18:28.000 How does that sound?

01:18:30.000 Um, abrasive, but...

01:18:32.000 No, no, no, no, no.

01:18:33.000 How does that sound? 0.96

01:18:34.000 Foolish, doesn't it? 0.90

01:18:36.000 No, it just sounds like you love who you love. 0.99

01:18:38.000 You don't get to choose who you love.

01:18:40.000 Like...

01:18:40.000 You know, sometimes you take people that are as tall as you, or shorter than you, and like, if you love them, then, you know...

01:18:49.000 Look, look, look.

01:18:50.000 Hold on, I was in the middle of what I was saying. 1.00

01:18:51.000 No, because you're a bunch of bullshit. 1.00

01:18:53.000 You're not gonna love the man and actually give a fuck about him unless he meets certain prerequisites. 1.00

01:18:58.000 He's got to be at a point where maybe he's got to be tall enough for you, make enough money for you, have enough confidence for you, have enough ambition for you. 0.94

01:19:04.000 You see a future with him. 0.99

01:19:05.000 Then you've got to go ahead and give a fuck about his personality. 0.99

01:19:08.000 But he's got to meet these requirements first. 0.99

01:19:10.000 No, everybody has standards, though.

01:19:12.000 Everybody has standards, no matter what they are.

01:19:14.000 That's fine.

01:19:14.000 But look, the point I'm trying to make is this.

01:19:18.000 You said that it's selfish for men to want to have sex with other women, right? 0.94

01:19:22.000 But what if I told you that's hardwired- I'm not saying that it's selfish for men to want to have sex with other women. 0.77

01:19:27.000 Wait, let's really say that a second ago.

01:19:28.000 No, I'm saying that it's selfish for them to actually go and do it.

01:19:31.000 If you want to have sex with other women, I can understand that. 1.00

01:19:33.000 Okay, by that logic, then it's selfish for you to want a man that's taller than you, makes more money than you, more confident, more ambitious than you. 0.94

01:19:37.000 But here's the thing.

01:19:38.000 We don't demonize what women want in men.

01:19:40.000 These are hardwired things.

01:19:42.000 You were born that way, where you want the man to have these things in place.

01:19:45.000 I'm the person that I ended up with because I love and care about him.

01:19:50.000 But if you notice, right?

01:19:51.000 You wouldn't have cared and loved him if he did not have these prerequisites first.

01:19:55.000 See, this is what I try to say about women. 1.00

01:19:57.000 No offense. 0.98

01:19:58.000 But women lack critical thinking skills. 1.00

01:20:00.000 He would not qualify and you wouldn't even have given him a chance had he not brought these things to the table first.

01:20:05.000 But I named my red flags already.

01:20:07.000 I'm sorry.

01:20:07.000 Can you listen for two seconds?

01:20:10.000 What I'm saying is that these are your hard-wired preferences.

01:20:13.000 Tall than you, makes more money than you, competent, older than you, more world experience, etc.

01:20:18.000 Fine!

01:20:19.000 You are within your prerogative to want these things, and most women do. 0.99

01:20:22.000 I'm not knocking you for it.

01:20:23.000 But what I'm saying is that, why is it that we don't call women selfish for what they want?

01:20:28.000 Why is it that we don't demonize what women want? 0.99

01:20:30.000 You know what? 1.00

01:20:30.000 Lower your fucking standards. 1.00

01:20:32.000 Just get with a regular guy. 1.00

01:20:33.000 That's your height.

01:20:34.000 Share clothes.

01:20:35.000 Lower it.

01:20:35.000 Settle.

01:20:36.000 We never tell women this fucking bullshit, but we tell men, settle. 1.00

01:20:40.000 Get one girl. 1.00

01:20:41.000 You should be happy with one chick. 0.92

01:20:42.000 Blah, blah, blah. 1.00

01:20:43.000 Why the fuck am I going to bust my ass, go through life as a man, which is way harder than a woman, by the way, make this money, get this status, become the man that I become to fuck one bitch. 1.00

01:20:51.000 Because y'all ain't settling. 1.00

01:20:52.000 Why the fuck should I? It's crazy to me how women will never settle. 1.00

01:20:56.000 They want a guy better than them in every regard.

01:20:58.000 Then they expect that man to treat them like an equal. 1.00

01:21:00.000 Fuck out of here. 1.00

01:21:01.000 If I bust my ass to make this money, become successful, bitch, you're on my program. 1.00

01:21:05.000 I'm gonna fuck other bitches. 1.00

01:21:06.000 I'm gonna do what I want to do because I had to work to get here. 1.00

01:21:09.000 You didn't have to work to get to where you're at because you got me.

01:21:12.000 And I am dating down.

01:21:14.000 That's how it is.

01:21:14.000 This is how all men think.

01:21:15.000 But we sit here somehow and let women have their preferences. 1.00

01:21:19.000 Oh, you're selfish for going out fucking other girls. 1.00

01:21:21.000 But if the tables were turned, yeah, it would never give us a chance if we're a fucking nobody. 1.00

01:21:24.000 You're hype making your money. 0.98

01:21:25.000 I have a question.

01:21:26.000 So why the hell should we go ahead and prioritize what women want, but what the men want is always demonized? 0.99

01:21:31.000 Why do you got to go out there and get other bitches? 1.00

01:21:32.000 Why do you got to go out there and fuck other bitches? 1.00

01:21:34.000 Because I busted my ass and earned this. 1.00

01:21:36.000 Fuck out of here, man. 1.00

01:21:37.000 This is crazy to me. 1.00

01:21:37.000 I mean, but you should... 1.00

01:21:38.000 We are not the same.

01:21:40.000 Women want a superior, so I'm going to behave superior. 1.00

01:21:42.000 I do what the fuck I want to do. 1.00

01:21:44.000 You stay your ass at home. 1.00

01:21:45.000 You don't fuck no other body else. 1.00

01:21:46.000 That's how it goes. 1.00

01:21:47.000 That's how it goes. 1.00

01:21:48.000 My way or the fucking highway. 1.00

01:21:50.000 Go back to the streets and fuck a regular guy if you want. 1.00

01:21:52.000 But once you get a guy's status, this is how it goes. 1.00

01:21:55.000 I do what I want. 1.00

01:21:56.000 Fuck what you think. 1.00

01:21:57.000 So do you date down? 1.00

01:21:58.000 Or like, can you date somebody that's more superior than you?

01:22:02.000 Like a woman that makes more than you, that's more... 1.00

01:22:04.000 Like, no, for real.

01:22:06.000 Can you handle dating a woman that makes more, more, you know... 1.00

01:22:10.000 99% of women don't. 0.99

01:22:12.000 But I'm saying, can you handle that?

01:22:14.000 Are you attracted to that?

01:22:16.000 Can you be with someone like that?

01:22:18.000 Saying, can you handle that?

01:22:20.000 Does that make you insecure?

01:22:22.000 So saying, can you handle that and does that make you insecure is like presupposing a certain set of values on me or on us as men.

01:22:32.000 Men don't find A hyper successful financial woman attractive. 1.00

01:22:38.000 That's not what we're hardwired to find attractive.

01:22:40.000 So it's not that we can't handle it.

01:22:42.000 It's that we don't find it attractive.

01:22:43.000 So you're assuming that like we should find it attractive, but that's not how it works.

01:22:47.000 Do you care about what a woman brings to the table? 1.00

01:22:50.000 Yes, but I'm not looking for a woman to financially support me. 0.99

01:22:53.000 I'm looking for her to bring other things to the table. 0.98

01:22:56.000 Is that dating down then?

01:22:58.000 In the sense of these statistics, yes.

01:23:02.000 Because for a man, a lot of times, like, we all, there's women want men that are attractive.

01:23:05.000 Men want women that are attractive. 1.00

01:23:07.000 But our list of things is more, she's attractive, she's pleasant, she follows Miley, she's loyal.

01:23:11.000 So that's settling then.

01:23:12.000 No, the difference is, like, what we're looking for, like, what's attractive to men and what's attractive to women is two totally different things.

01:23:19.000 Because what's attractive to women are things that tend to be given, right? 1.00

01:23:22.000 Your looks, your youthfulness, your feminine energy.

01:23:25.000 The things that women find attractive to men, they're not given to us. 1.00

01:23:28.000 That shit is years of hard work and experience. 0.99

01:23:31.000 It's a different set of things. 1.00

01:23:33.000 Yeah, it's like...

01:23:34.000 You want a man that's tall and strong and handsome and smells good and provides for you and takes care of you, but is going to stand up for you.

01:23:43.000 Men don't need a woman that's a loud mouth that's going to fight and protect someone. 1.00

01:23:47.000 You know what I'm saying?

01:23:47.000 They want someone that's quiet and soft and feminine, and they don't really care if she works or not.

01:23:52.000 You don't work if you want to, but you don't have to. 1.00

01:23:54.000 He doesn't care if you're a bartender or you are a Stupid. 1.00

01:23:59.000 Lawyer. 1.00

01:24:00.000 I don't know. 0.67

01:24:01.000 I mean, the whole term, handle, I mean, why the hell should I have to handle a woman? 1.00

01:24:07.000 Because last I checked as a man, I already got to go out and handle the world.

01:24:10.000 So why would I want to come home and handle my girl? 0.98

01:24:12.000 Women that make a lot of money a lot of times are fucking annoying if I'm going to be all the way a thousand. 1.00

01:24:16.000 They, very combative, assertive, dominant, non-agreeable. 0.99

01:24:20.000 Oh, my opinion on this? 1.00

01:24:22.000 Fuck your opinion. 1.00

01:24:23.000 Who cares? 1.00

01:24:24.000 Men lead, women follow. 0.99

01:24:25.000 There's a reason why men want sex silence in their sandwiches. 0.88

01:24:29.000 Female opinions really don't matter. 1.00

01:24:30.000 And as a matter of fact, my friends around shut the fuck up even more. 1.00

01:24:32.000 Don't talk. 0.99

01:24:33.000 But the thing is that we don't have these raw, real conversations with women because we let women think that they're equal to men. 0.96

01:24:39.000 The reality is you're not equal. 0.99

01:24:41.000 We don't give a fuck what you think. 1.00

01:24:42.000 Just be hot. 1.00

01:24:42.000 Be pleasant. 1.00

01:24:43.000 Don't be a whore. 1.00

01:24:44.000 Don't embarrass me. 1.00

01:24:45.000 You'll be able to lock a guy down.

01:24:46.000 But men are okay with dating down.

01:24:48.000 So since we're okay with dating down, right?

01:24:50.000 You gotta follow our program.

01:24:51.000 So she can't have a mind for herself? 1.00

01:24:54.000 It sounds like you want to be controlling and manipulative a little bit.

01:25:01.000 The word handle. 0.98

01:25:02.000 Are you an animal? 0.96

01:25:03.000 Why do I want to handle you?

01:25:06.000 I'm just saying, as a couple, I'll handle the bills.

01:25:10.000 I'll handle the hard work and the labor.

01:25:11.000 Just handle the family.

01:25:12.000 That's it.

01:25:13.000 I'll handle the house.

01:25:14.000 That's it.

01:25:15.000 The food.

01:25:15.000 The family?

01:25:16.000 It's a traditional gender role. 1.00

01:25:17.000 Well, but here's the thing.

01:25:18.000 Even the high-earning, successful, high-earning females, they still want to find a guy who's making more than them. 1.00

01:25:25.000 And that's what kind of disproves all this shit. 0.98

01:25:27.000 Yep, that's true. 1.00

01:25:28.000 Yeah, like you're saying, would you date a woman that makes more than you?

01:25:31.000 Realistically speaking, a woman that makes more than me wouldn't care to date me in the first place. 1.00

01:25:35.000 Because women are terrible people when they have leverage. 1.00

01:25:37.000 Women aren't trying to be the provider. 1.00

01:25:39.000 Women that make a lot of money a lot of the times think that they deserve a guy that makes the same amount of money, if not more. 1.00

01:25:45.000 Because women are not like men, where men will go ahead and date down a girl and turn a fucking bum into a princess. 1.00

01:25:52.000 A girl that's a princess or a queen would never look a bum's way. 1.00

01:25:56.000 So, since men can elevate a woman's status, That comes with certain... 1.00

01:26:00.000 The thing is, girls want to be able to get everything and have it all. 1.00

01:26:03.000 That's just not how the world works.

01:26:04.000 If you want a guy that's a winner, you're going to have to deal with winner problems.

01:26:07.000 That's going to be...

01:26:07.000 Other chicks are going to want him.

01:26:09.000 You're not going to have him all the time.

01:26:10.000 He's going to be busy.

01:26:11.000 He's not going to be able to give you all the attention that you want.

01:26:11.000 He's going to be working.

01:26:13.000 If you want all the attention that you want, get a bum. 0.97

01:26:15.000 Well, girls don't want that. 1.00

01:26:17.000 I think you're categorizing women into, like, just one thing because there's some women that, like, actually, like, go by their feelings and they, like, fall in love with people and they don't have, like, any status or, you know, any money or anything.

01:26:28.000 They get hurt.

01:26:29.000 They feel bad.

01:26:30.000 A woman loves a guy that doesn't have status, which you're trying to say, blah, blah, blah? 0.54

01:26:33.000 Yeah, like, they just fall in love because they like them.

01:26:33.000 Yeah.

01:26:36.000 Yeah, and then they become raging bitches and annoying, and they nag you. 1.00

01:26:37.000 Get a job! 1.00

01:26:38.000 Oh my god!

01:26:39.000 No, this is facts because that was my old relationship. 1.00

01:26:42.000 Like, yeah, girls can fall in love with a bum, but then they become a raging, nagging, annoying bitch. 1.00

01:26:47.000 Like, it's a terrible existence for the man. 1.00

01:26:49.000 Because the more inadequate the man is, the more the woman has to compensate because he's inadequate, and then she's got to get in her masculine. 1.00

01:26:55.000 Get a job!

01:26:56.000 We're struggling with the bills!

01:26:56.000 What are you doing?

01:26:58.000 Blah, blah, blah.

01:26:59.000 Every girl deep down wants a guy that just has it handled and she can just sit back and be pretty. 1.00

01:27:04.000 But that comes at a cost. 0.99

01:27:05.000 You don't tell me what to fucking do. 0.99

01:27:06.000 The man leads, the woman follows. 1.00

01:27:08.000 But the thing is that no one puts their foot down and tells girls to shut up anymore. 1.00

01:27:11.000 Y'all say a lot of dumb shit. 1.00

01:27:12.000 At the top of the show, y'all contradicted yourselves, said a bunch of retardedness. 1.00

01:27:15.000 Y'all think you can lead a relationship? 1.00

01:27:17.000 Fuck out of here. 1.00

01:27:18.000 Like, y'all don't even know what you want to eat for dinner. 1.00

01:27:20.000 And to your point, you are right.

01:27:23.000 It just happened that way, but let's grow here.

01:27:25.000 That whole dynamic ends pretty fast because it doesn't last long. 0.96

01:27:29.000 So yeah, she may date that guy for a period of time, but he's a bum. 0.97

01:27:31.000 She's gonna be miserable. 0.99

01:27:32.000 She's not gonna respect him. 0.99

01:27:33.000 She's gonna be annoying. 1.00

01:27:35.000 When women are in a breadwinner position, they're terrible people. 1.00

01:27:38.000 They're terrible people, bro. 0.99

01:27:40.000 They're nagging you. 0.99

01:27:41.000 It's hell on earth.

01:27:41.000 They're annoying you.

01:27:43.000 But when a man's in a breadwinner position, the girl's feminine. 0.99

01:27:45.000 She's more submissive.

01:27:46.000 She'll follow your lead.

01:27:47.000 She won't be as annoying.

01:27:49.000 It is what it is.

01:27:50.000 And the thing, too, you guys might not like this.

01:27:52.000 When a guy has multiple girls, women tend to behave a bit more. 1.00

01:27:56.000 They act right. 0.99

01:27:57.000 Because they know, damn, he could replace me tomorrow if I act up. 0.99

01:28:00.000 And that gets girls in line. 1.00

01:28:02.000 That's the only way women really respect you, is you being able to leave them. 1.00

01:28:05.000 And how high would you say the self-worth of that woman is? 1.00

01:28:07.000 What do you mean?

01:28:08.000 Like a woman who's dealing with, or who's, you know... 1.00

01:28:12.000 Who wants to, you know, sign up for something like that and sign up for that kind of treatment?

01:28:16.000 How high would you say her self-worth is?

01:28:18.000 Well, this is where women have to come to reality and understand that you guys are not as special as you think you are. 0.98

01:28:23.000 The reality is the things that make a woman attractive, being beautiful, young, not a pain in the ass, follow my lead, it's pretty common. 0.98

01:28:30.000 It's pretty common. 0.96

01:28:31.000 There's a lot of chicks out there turning 18 every single day that aren't going to be annoying. 1.00

01:28:34.000 However, how many guys are tall enough for you?

01:28:40.000 Make enough money for you?

01:28:41.000 Confident, ambitious, don't stink, look good, etc.

01:28:44.000 Very few, aren't there?

01:28:46.000 But that's not necessarily...

01:28:47.000 I don't know if you're asking me or if you're asking what I think regarding all women.

01:28:51.000 Because women have different values depending on who you ask. 1.00

01:28:55.000 Okay, women are not as special as you think. 1.00

01:28:56.000 They're all chasing a very similar demographic of men. 0.99

01:28:59.000 Well, yeah, that's why the dude who's fucking everybody is fucking everybody. 0.99

01:29:02.000 Exactly. 1.00

01:29:02.000 Because they're fucking all the same girls. 1.00

01:29:05.000 That's a low value, man. 1.00

01:29:06.000 Because what women want is way more linear than you guys think. 1.00

01:29:09.000 You guys think you're special and you're different.

01:29:10.000 Y'all are all very similar.

01:29:12.000 We've interviewed 2200, y'all.

01:29:13.000 Women want pretty much the same things in all guys. 0.88

01:29:15.000 Now, is there variance in maybe a little bit of the way they look, maybe the way they dress, their style?

01:29:20.000 Of course.

01:29:20.000 But in general, women are looking for the same things.

01:29:23.000 Security, provisioning, strength, height.

01:29:26.000 Smelly good to a degree.

01:29:27.000 Charismatic, charming.

01:29:28.000 There's a reason why Fifty Shades of Grey is the most popular book. 1.00

01:29:31.000 Women are looking for the same fucking traits. 1.00

01:29:33.000 It's just that y'all lie and say you're special. 1.00

01:29:34.000 You're not!

01:29:35.000 You guys really are.

01:29:36.000 Men aren't special either.

01:29:38.000 Men aren't special either.

01:29:39.000 That's not my argument, though, is that women are special. 1.00

01:29:41.000 I mean, even though the odds of any of us even being born at this time to the parents that we're born to, looking the way that we look is like one in like 400 billion or whatever.

01:29:48.000 No, but you're arguing, right?

01:29:50.000 You're arguing like, oh, a girl doesn't know her self-worth, blah, blah, blah.

01:29:53.000 What I'm saying is that your self-worth isn't as high as you think it is because what you want in a man is much rarer than what women provide. 1.00

01:30:00.000 The things that men look for are common, so therefore you can be replaced easier.

01:30:05.000 But wouldn't that mean that your standards are lower?

01:30:07.000 If all you're looking for are those good things?

01:30:09.000 Men are simple.

01:30:09.000 Yeah, very simple.

01:30:10.000 Men are simple.

01:30:11.000 Welcome.

01:30:12.000 We don't need much.

01:30:13.000 We don't need much.

01:30:14.000 Who am I going to go with? 0.99

01:30:15.000 Am I going to go with the 27-year-old law student who's annoying as fuck and smart or whatever? 1.00

01:30:21.000 Or am I going to go with the 18-year-old that's young, attractive, not a whore, and not annoying? 1.00

01:30:25.000 I'm going to go probably with the 18-year-old. 0.91

01:30:26.000 Okay, so then I guess in your opinion, then like women don't have anything to offer besides those four things? 1.00

01:30:32.000 No, no, no.

01:30:33.000 I never said that.

01:30:34.000 What I'm saying is that the things that make a man happy are easy to find.

01:30:38.000 Peace.

01:30:39.000 So therefore, women need to understand this and know that you guys are not as special as you think you are.

01:30:44.000 Get on the man's program and if you're with a guy that's a winner, you need to understand that there's way less of him than there is of you. 0.93

01:30:51.000 But isn't, but so there's no, so it's either bum or loser.

01:30:54.000 Is this not a spectrum? 0.71

01:30:56.000 What?

01:30:57.000 That's the same thing.

01:30:59.000 What do you mean?

01:31:00.000 What do you mean by bum?

01:31:01.000 Sorry, bum or winner.

01:31:03.000 These are the only two categories that men are put into. 1.00

01:31:07.000 The bums are going to fuck other bitches too. 1.00

01:31:09.000 You're just not going to know. 1.00

01:31:11.000 The bums are going to fuck other bitches too. 1.00

01:31:13.000 Men typically are only faithfuls or options. 1.00

01:31:15.000 Can I give an example?

01:31:16.000 Because I experienced this.

01:31:18.000 Yeah, sure.

01:31:19.000 Then we gotta hit the charts after this.

01:31:20.000 I did a guy for seven and a half years.

01:31:25.000 Very average.

01:31:26.000 Loved him very much.

01:31:27.000 Was in love.

01:31:28.000 Was the emotions thing.

01:31:29.000 No one else existed to me.

01:31:31.000 That was it.

01:31:31.000 Wanted to marry him, have his kids, blah blah.

01:31:33.000 But he wanted to run around and do whatever he wanted.

01:31:37.000 Gambling.

01:31:38.000 We were struggling to pay for things and he's gambling at the casino, wasting his money on garbage, racking up credit card bills. 0.99

01:31:45.000 That's disgusting. 0.99

01:31:46.000 That's unattractive.

01:31:47.000 So, like, Well, to be fair, I think that a lot of relationships with weaker dudes create a lot of the problems because if a girl is in a relationship with a weaker dude where she has to grind, she has to provide the money.

01:31:59.000 And now I have to guide you and I have to say like...

01:32:01.000 And she's also playing the mom role.

01:32:02.000 Now when she leaves that, even if she meets a high-value guy at first, she has some of these bad habits kind of ingrained because she had to, in the previous relationship, have some of that masculine energy.

01:32:12.000 So to be fair to women, Yeah.

01:32:34.000 Because I had to pick up the slack where he was lacking.

01:32:36.000 I was having to try and pick up and lead when he wasn't because 99% of the time he wasn't leading and it was very hard.

01:32:41.000 And even when I had to walk away from that, I still left him very much.

01:32:44.000 It was hard for me to walk away, but it was just not working.

01:32:46.000 And then I lost a very good high value person that probably would have took care of me for a very long time.

01:32:49.000 But wait, what did you have to nag him about if he's like a high-value guy?

01:32:53.000 No, no, no, no, no.

01:32:54.000 I'm talking about the problem.

01:32:55.000 So I lost the high-value guy because I had all this masculine energy in my head that that's how I thought relationships were supposed to be because that was like my first serious relationship is the one with a weaker guy, right?

01:33:05.000 What didn't he like?

01:33:07.000 What made him go away, if you don't mind?

01:33:09.000 Who?

01:33:09.000 The high value guy?

01:33:10.000 I was argumentative.

01:33:11.000 I was rude.

01:33:12.000 I was demanding of things.

01:33:13.000 I was nagging him all the time, complaining about everything, making his life more difficult.

01:33:18.000 Men want a woman to be their piece, not to give them more stress, especially an entrepreneur, CEO, people that are very high value and deal with a lot of stress in their work environment, in their day-to-day life with other men and money situations.

01:33:31.000 When they come home to you and they're dealing with their woman, they don't want more stress. 0.90

01:33:35.000 So if you're adding stress to their life, like, sayonara.

01:33:38.000 They don't want to deal with it.

01:33:39.000 And they're not going to.

01:33:40.000 I know we could hit the super chats.

01:33:41.000 The only thing I'll add is advice for guys out there is you still need to try it.

01:33:45.000 Because a lot of times girls will come bring this energy up front. 1.00

01:33:48.000 From my experience, if you set strong boundaries, put a girl in their place up front, a lot of girls will do a 180 and then relax more into your masculine energy. 1.00

01:33:55.000 So just because a girl has this energy, like the first or second date, it's not necessarily, if other things seem promising, it's not a reason just to write her off.

01:34:02.000 At least try and set a few boundaries, see how that goes.

01:34:04.000 To your point, you can't turn it around.

01:34:05.000 It might be a headache, but you can.

01:34:07.000 You said it from the very beginning.

01:34:08.000 You've got to craft the relationship.

01:34:10.000 You've got to create it.

01:34:10.000 Yeah, I mean, because you were saying, like, how did that happen or whatever.

01:34:14.000 And this is what I mean when I say a lot of times guys have to deprogram bad habits out of girls.

01:34:17.000 Because, you know, ladies, I feel for you. 1.00

01:34:20.000 There's a lot of guys out there that are not ambitious. 0.99

01:34:22.000 They don't have their shit together. 0.99

01:34:23.000 They try to get you to do things, and they don't even know where the fuck they're going in life. 1.00

01:34:27.000 I understand that there's a lot of losers out there. 0.99

01:34:29.000 That leads you astray.

01:34:30.000 But it's on you as the girl to be able to figure out, okay, this guy's not decisive.

01:34:34.000 I'm making a lot of decisions here.

01:34:35.000 This guy probably isn't the one.

01:34:36.000 And you've got to be smart enough to understand your place as a woman that you shouldn't be leading. 1.00

01:34:40.000 If you're leading, you already lost.

01:34:42.000 What are you doing?

01:34:42.000 You know what I mean?

01:34:43.000 Or if a guy's bumming off you, whatever.

01:34:44.000 Like, girls got to be able to exercise critical thinking skills. 0.99

01:34:47.000 You and the man are not equal.

01:34:48.000 If you're going ahead and making a lot of decisions, you're paying bills, or you're taking care of him, you really need to rethink what the hell you're doing.

01:34:54.000 And God forbid you give him a kid. 1.00

01:35:00.000 Alright, so from this point forward, guys, we're going to read 100 and up, but I'll read all these that came through, so thank you so much.

01:35:05.000 Wyatt goes, ladies, what's the most crazy thing you've been offered or got away with just for being a woman? 1.00

01:35:09.000 Bro, you already know this is going to be a bunch of shit. 0.99

01:35:12.000 Blackish Panther, let's start the show with a classy reality check. 0.99

01:35:15.000 Ladies, name a celeb you consider a 10 and looks only. 1.00

01:35:16.000 Now rate yourself from a scale of 1 to 10.

01:35:18.000 Let me keep going through here.

01:35:21.000 Master Channel goes...

01:35:23.000 Sorry, Master Hansel.

01:35:25.000 Ladies, what does loving yourself mean to you? 0.98

01:35:27.000 I keep hearing women need to have a journey in order to find slash love yourself. 1.00

01:35:32.000 Don't you love yourself automatically?

01:35:34.000 Also, how does loving yourself help you find a man?

01:35:37.000 You got a lot of self-love.

01:35:38.000 Yeah, bro.

01:35:39.000 I mean, dude. 0.99

01:35:41.000 When girls, a lot of times when they say I'm going to go on a healing journey or whatever, that typically means fucking a bunch of dudes. 1.00

01:35:46.000 Saying that a man is insecure for not wanting a woman with a high body count is like a man saying that a woman is insecure for not wanting an abusive man. 0.98

01:35:52.000 If she was secure, an abusive man wouldn't intimidate her.

01:35:55.000 Thoughts?

01:35:56.000 Yeah, I mean, it is what it is.

01:35:58.000 Ladies, do you think women with high body counts respect themselves? 1.00

01:36:01.000 No.

01:36:02.000 Raise your hands if anyone thinks that a girl that does have a high body count respects herself.

01:36:12.000 What do you bring to the table besides you know what?

01:36:16.000 Let me keep going here.

01:36:18.000 Screw naming three countries.

01:36:20.000 Can you name three sports teams?

01:36:22.000 Miami Heat, Dolphins.

01:36:25.000 If you had a dollar for every time Chris is late, I'll be on Money Mondays by now. 0.97

01:36:32.000 Poopy Puppy goes, Myron, I know content is nice, but to progress the final goal, you got to shut down the idiotic thoughts before a total manifestation that leads you to argument semantics versus the root cause. 0.98

01:36:42.000 Myron, women have an issue, bimbo, but men, be the better debater. 1.00

01:36:47.000 That's confusing.

01:36:48.000 Poopy Puppy! 0.81

01:36:50.000 You know what, man?

01:36:50.000 How about this?

01:36:51.000 I'm going to take the fresh route.

01:36:52.000 Start your podcast and go ahead and debate that, man.

01:36:54.000 Let's see how you do it.

01:36:54.000 There you go.

01:36:55.000 Crazy, bro. 0.92

01:36:57.000 Byron got a rock.

01:36:58.000 Just captured Nate with my watermelon drink and fried chicken trap.

01:37:02.000 Got leech in the cage right now.

01:37:03.000 What should I do with him, chat?

01:37:06.000 Shout out to you, my friend.

01:37:07.000 Play Just Dance.

01:37:08.000 Yeah, Play Just Dance on Lady Gaga. 1.00

01:37:10.000 Chris Gannon is back blown out by his master.

01:37:13.000 Ow! 1.00

01:37:14.000 Ow! 1.00

01:37:16.000 Anus and Reach Bloman.

01:37:18.000 Instead of rating 1 to 10, we need to bag or tag.

01:37:20.000 Let's bring back the paper bags for some of these taco hoes. 1.00

01:37:24.000 Shorty got a 5 o'clock shadow with W Fresh to Fit for content.

01:37:27.000 L to the pick of the litter.

01:37:29.000 Shorty with the scruff.

01:37:30.000 What are you talking about?

01:37:32.000 All right.

01:37:33.000 Call me.

01:37:33.000 Scott goes, I landed in Cartagena yesterday.

01:37:36.000 How should I deal with women in a different culture without coming off as a typical angry American? 0.99

01:37:41.000 The Colombians seem pretty chill, but residual RP rage makes it seem like I'm just an asshole without reason. 0.99

01:37:46.000 But really, I'm just maintaining. 0.99

01:37:50.000 Are you mad at Colombian girls? 0.55

01:37:53.000 They're not American girls, by the way.

01:37:54.000 And secondly, bro, you're Colombian.

01:37:56.000 They're super peaceful and feminine.

01:37:58.000 Just relax, bro.

01:37:59.000 It is what it is.

01:38:00.000 And ultimately, bro, what are you there for? 0.98

01:38:02.000 Obviously, you want to smash girls. 1.00

01:38:04.000 Why get mad? 0.98

01:38:05.000 Yeah, bro.

01:38:05.000 Stop getting mad at girls for what they're never going to be to you, which is an idealistic lover.

01:38:09.000 Get this romantic bullshit out of your head. 0.99

01:38:11.000 Girls don't love you for you. 1.00

01:38:12.000 They love you for what you provide.

01:38:13.000 Once you accept that, you're going to be okay.

01:38:15.000 And if you're worried, bro, use Google Translate.

01:38:19.000 Thank you.

01:38:21.000 So yeah, man, you gotta, bro, you can't hate women for what they'll never be to you.

01:38:25.000 We teach you guys this stuff, not so that you get mad at women, you get so that you understand them.

01:38:29.000 You get it?

01:38:30.000 Like girls are opportunistic lovers. 0.99

01:38:31.000 I know some of you ladies might not like me saying that, but women are opportunistic lovers. 1.00

01:38:35.000 The guy has to provide value for you to even give him a chance, right?

01:38:38.000 I know you over here saying like, oh, but I like my guy, but you wouldn't like them if he wasn't in finance, making money taller than you, more competent.

01:38:46.000 You wouldn't even give him a chance.

01:38:47.000 There's plenty of nice homeless guys.

01:38:48.000 Why don't you talk to them?

01:38:50.000 Is that a real question?

01:38:52.000 That's my point.

01:38:53.000 I did have a question for the guys.

01:38:55.000 Because women sit there and say, oh, I like a guy for his personality. 0.94

01:38:58.000 That's a bunch of cap. 1.00

01:38:58.000 He's got to have certain things in place for you to give a fuck about his personality. 1.00

01:39:02.000 Well, we both have the same level of degree. 0.94

01:39:05.000 So that's just something that I can respect.

01:39:08.000 The fact that he's taller than me.

01:39:10.000 But he's still superior to you.

01:39:13.000 In what way?

01:39:14.000 In every way that I describe.

01:39:16.000 He's taller than you, stronger than you, makes more money than you.

01:39:19.000 He's superior to every metric, which is okay.

01:39:21.000 Is he superior to me because he's taller than me and he's a man?

01:39:26.000 Or is every person who's taller than me superior to me?

01:39:28.000 Well, I'm talking about a bunch of things.

01:39:30.000 He's superior to physically, mentally, financially, superior to in every way.

01:39:34.000 From a dating standpoint.

01:39:35.000 Which is okay because that's what women look for. 1.00

01:39:37.000 I'm not knocking you for it.

01:39:38.000 I'm just saying that's how women may select. 1.00

01:39:40.000 They don't look for an equal.

01:39:41.000 They look for a superior.

01:39:41.000 Wait, mentally?

01:39:42.000 What makes you say mentally, though?

01:39:44.000 Because we don't know if she's actually smarter than him.

01:39:47.000 He's more competent than him.

01:39:48.000 He's more competent than her.

01:39:50.000 If someone's made more money, built themselves up more physically, had more experience in life, there's some mental aspect there, right?

01:39:57.000 Yeah, I feel like when it comes to knowing the world, he's probably smarter than me.

01:40:01.000 He's superior to in every way.

01:40:04.000 Here's the thing.

01:40:05.000 Women want a guy who's better than them. 1.00

01:40:07.000 Then they want to be able to sit there and say it's an equal partnership.

01:40:09.000 No!

01:40:10.000 The guy is better than you. 1.00

01:40:11.000 See the fucking lunacy with females? 1.00

01:40:13.000 You want a guy that's better than you in every regard. 1.00

01:40:15.000 Don't sit there and say, no, we're equal.

01:40:17.000 No, you're not.

01:40:18.000 He's better than you in everything, which is okay.

01:40:20.000 That's what women look for. 1.00

01:40:21.000 Women don't look for an equal. 1.00

01:40:23.000 So, that's how I... The thing is this.

01:40:24.000 I'm just vocalizing it.

01:40:25.000 For you, it's like mind-blown.

01:40:26.000 Like, wait, hold on.

01:40:27.000 Are you saying he's better than me and everything?

01:40:29.000 Yes, he is, which is why you're with him in the first place.

01:40:31.000 Women don't look for their equal. 1.00

01:40:33.000 They look for a superior.

01:40:34.000 And my thing is, I'm just saying, if I'm a man and I'm superior to you in every way, and I'm the leader in the relationship, I get certain perks and privileges that you don't because you're just subordinate. 0.99

01:40:42.000 I'm the fucking boss. 0.99

01:40:43.000 You're an employee. 1.00

01:40:44.000 That's just how it goes. 1.00

01:40:45.000 But most guys don't have the balls to tell women this shit. 1.00

01:40:47.000 Well, people commonly say women date up, right? 1.00

01:40:50.000 That's a common thing people say.

01:40:51.000 This is just the full-length explanation of that.

01:40:53.000 Yeah, pretty much.

01:40:55.000 I find it crazy that women will sit there and say, I want an equal partnership. 1.00

01:40:58.000 Get the fuck out of here. 1.00

01:40:59.000 No, you don't. 1.00

01:41:00.000 You want a guy that's better than you in everything.

01:41:02.000 Unless you don't get that equal partnership, it ends.

01:41:06.000 Yeah, women never seek their equal. 1.00

01:41:08.000 I have a question for the guys.

01:41:09.000 When do you know when you are in love with a woman?

01:41:12.000 What is it?

01:41:14.000 What's the...

01:41:16.000 How do you know when you're in love with her?

01:41:18.000 What is it?

01:41:19.000 I can't speak for every man, but I don't know that's how most men think.

01:41:25.000 I think a healthy way that at least happened in my relationship was just slowly investing more and more as things seem more and more promising across multiple fronts.

01:41:35.000 So I don't know.

01:41:36.000 The concept of falling in love is an abstract one, so it's hard to give a concrete answer to that.

01:42:01.000 I don't think men should ever fall in love with women Obviously, love your girl, right?

01:42:03.000 But being in love with her is a problem because now you lose deductive problems, zombie skills.

01:42:07.000 You're more concerned with how you feel versus what's real. 1.00

01:42:09.000 And when you love a girl, a lot of times that's when guys do stupid shit. 1.00

01:42:13.000 I think when that girl has a desire for you that's healthy, sexual, that's one. 1.00

01:42:19.000 And then two, she's following your program.

01:42:21.000 She's coachable.

01:42:22.000 All right, my man wants this.

01:42:24.000 I think the effort along with the desire goes a long way.

01:42:24.000 I'm going to do this.

01:42:28.000 And over a period of time, you have love for that girl.

01:42:31.000 The girl has to love the man way more than he loves her.

01:42:33.000 I was just about to ask you that.

01:42:35.000 Do you think in order for the relationship to work, does the woman have to love the man more or does the man have to love the woman more?

01:42:40.000 The woman absolutely has to love the man more and the reason why is because women constantly want to upgrade. 1.00

01:42:46.000 They want to get the best man that they can get.

01:42:47.000 The only way that a girl is going to be truly satisfied in a relationship is when she's chasing her man, not the other way around. 1.00

01:42:55.000 Yes.

01:42:55.000 Chasing him?

01:42:57.000 Or are pursuing him.

01:42:58.000 You want to ensure he doesn't go.

01:43:00.000 When the woman feels like she has the best guy that she can get, everyone else is invisible to her.

01:43:04.000 Yes.

01:43:04.000 But, if she's in a relationship where she's kind of just settling, right, Then other guys are still visible and she is looking to upgrade to a degree.

01:43:13.000 She might not enact on it, but the eye is going to be going around.

01:43:16.000 So for a woman to be the most loyal, she has to feel like she has the best option that she can get.

01:43:22.000 And the only way for that to happen is she has to like him more.

01:43:24.000 In other words, the man's got to be pedestalized, not the girl.

01:43:27.000 When a girl is pedestalized, she thinks that she's better than the man. 0.51

01:43:30.000 And when a woman feels that she's better than her man, that's when the terrible things happen. 0.99

01:43:33.000 Yeah.

01:43:34.000 Here's an example.

01:43:35.000 Let's say you're dating a guy, right?

01:43:36.000 And all you can think about is him.

01:43:39.000 Where's he at?

01:43:39.000 What's he doing?

01:43:41.000 Oh my God, is he going to call me?

01:43:42.000 That's like your focus on him.

01:43:44.000 Versus he's calling me all the time. 1.00

01:43:45.000 Damn, this nigga annoying. 1.00

01:43:47.000 I can't wait to get rid of this nigga. 1.00

01:43:48.000 It's kind of like that and I'm right there. 1.00

01:43:50.000 Think about it.

01:43:51.000 So you want to chase him.

01:43:51.000 You would love him.

01:43:53.000 We'll keep it simple.

01:43:54.000 Who do you think during the course of their life gets more gifts?

01:43:58.000 Men or women? 0.78

01:43:59.000 Women. 0.81

01:44:01.000 Okay.

01:44:01.000 During the course of their life, who do you think gets more compliments?

01:44:03.000 Men or women? 0.78

01:44:04.000 Women. 0.81

01:44:05.000 Okay.

01:44:06.000 During the course of their life, who do you think gets more appreciation just for being their gender?

01:44:10.000 Women. 0.81

01:44:10.000 Hey, y'all! 0.81

01:44:11.000 Women, right? 1.00

01:44:11.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:44:12.000 So would it be fair to say that a girl that's attractive gets all of these things in abundance and doesn't value it to the same degree? 0.54

01:44:19.000 Right?

01:44:19.000 It happens all the time, so it's like, ah, another Tuesday, right?

01:44:22.000 Yeah.

01:44:22.000 Okay.

01:44:23.000 See, this is why women can't be in a leadership role, because women don't appreciate things that are given to them. 1.00

01:44:28.000 So when guys simp on them, pedestalize them, etc., women's natural response is, I get this all the time, I don't appreciate it. 1.00

01:44:34.000 However, when a man is being simped on, being treated well, etc., he actually grows to appreciate it.

01:44:39.000 A guy might go through his entire life, 30 years old, been complimented three times.

01:44:44.000 If that, or maybe never by a woman.

01:44:46.000 Some guys get to 30 and they're a virgin.

01:44:48.000 So men tend to operate a lot better when they get validation and appreciation for women.

01:44:53.000 But women a lot of times, especially if she's bad, they get it all the time. 1.00

01:44:56.000 They don't appreciate it.

01:44:57.000 This is why the man's got to be in the leadership role.

01:44:59.000 We know how to appreciate genuine care, desire, etc.

01:45:02.000 because women don't. 1.00

01:45:04.000 Y'all need a guy to be an asshole to you guys. 1.00

01:45:06.000 That's why women love assholes so much. 1.00

01:45:07.000 When I'm an asshole, it takes you off your pedestal. 1.00

01:45:10.000 I'm not valuing you to the same degree that simps do. 1.00

01:45:13.000 Women only value when you don't value them to the same degree. 1.00

01:45:16.000 That's how it goes. 0.99

01:45:17.000 It sucks, but that's female nature. 1.00

01:45:22.000 That's why bad boys win, right? 1.00

01:45:23.000 Bad boys are no fun.

01:45:26.000 They're the best.

01:45:28.000 They are the best.

01:45:30.000 I don't want to hear it.

01:45:36.000 Alejandro Esteban goes, hi bros, I'm Cuban, got my business, own my rental, down 20 pounds of too much.

01:45:42.000 Shout out to you guys.

01:45:43.000 Shout out to you, my friend.

01:45:44.000 Yeah, being fed is unacceptable.

01:45:45.000 First super chair after watching for a year now and liking every video from a year and watching older clips.

01:45:50.000 Flight attendants are known to be thoughts like nurses because they literally get around. 0.99

01:45:53.000 Do you have anything you want to say back to them?

01:45:54.000 Hell yeah. 1.00

01:45:55.000 Fuck you because that's not true. 1.00

01:45:57.000 I just know a couple thoughts but you know they girls the girls you know. 1.00

01:46:05.000 I'm curious to see how you take notes.

01:46:07.000 Can we see your notebook?

01:46:08.000 Man, you can't even read those notes. 0.99

01:46:10.000 Yeah, it's kind of fucked up handwriting, bro. 0.98

01:46:11.000 Yeah, we don't know what he's saying, bro. 0.97

01:46:13.000 Okay, when you guys say, don't be vulnerable, this is what they mean.

01:46:15.000 We got pulled over, my lady was scared, and got emotional afterwards. 0.98

01:46:18.000 Regardless of if I was scared or not, I'm not allowed to be, nor should I show I was in that moment.

01:46:24.000 Yep, fair enough.

01:46:25.000 Rams goes, I do this and I believe if it does, ask the ladies if when a man is honest and straightforward from the very start, is it respectful or disrespectful?

01:46:34.000 Respectful.

01:46:34.000 Oh, really?

01:46:35.000 We want that. 1.00

01:46:36.000 Hey, just so you know, I want to only have sex with you. 0.99

01:46:38.000 I don't want to take you seriously. 0.99

01:46:39.000 I'm going to have other girls on the rotation. 0.94

01:46:40.000 Are you okay with that?

01:46:41.000 Thank you, next.

01:46:43.000 See, that's why guys aren't honest.

01:46:44.000 No.

01:46:45.000 But that's not every woman, though. 1.00

01:46:46.000 But then you're going to get a bad reaction.

01:46:48.000 But this is why guys aren't honest with girls.

01:46:50.000 What if a girl wanted to do the same thing with you? 1.00

01:46:52.000 I would appreciate it. 1.00

01:46:54.000 So you're going to go out and fuck a bunch of dudes? 1.00

01:46:57.000 No. 1.00

01:46:58.000 So it's not the same?

01:46:59.000 No, but let's say you want that guy and you don't want a serious relationship right now at the moment and you only want to have sex with that person and that person wants to only have sex with you and you don't want to be boyfriend and girlfriend.

01:47:10.000 Check this, right?

01:47:10.000 What's wrong with that?

01:47:11.000 Ten girls in a room. 1.00

01:47:13.000 He says that to ten girls.

01:47:14.000 How many are actually going to go for it?

01:47:17.000 One or two maybe?

01:47:18.000 Yeah.

01:47:19.000 So why not just like get all ten? 0.99

01:47:35.000 If I'm going to significantly reduce my ability to fuck girls by being honest, why would I be honest? 0.99

01:47:43.000 I mean, that's up to you and whatever you believe your maker is. 0.99

01:47:46.000 How about this?

01:47:47.000 You don't wear makeup for two months.

01:47:48.000 Let's see what happens.

01:47:49.000 Would you be okay with that?

01:47:50.000 Yeah.

01:47:51.000 I do it every day.

01:47:52.000 I mean, sure.

01:47:53.000 I don't wear makeup on a day-to-day.

01:47:55.000 Man.

01:47:56.000 Y'all lie to yourselves and you be lying to us.

01:47:58.000 That's why y'all wear makeup every day. 0.91

01:47:59.000 No!

01:48:00.000 That's true.

01:48:01.000 That's bad for your skin. 0.97

01:48:03.000 Question slash statement for the ladies. 0.95

01:48:05.000 Most women say they'll be submissive for the right guy, but what if the right guy is waiting to be the right guy for the woman that's submissive? 0.99

01:48:12.000 So he's saying in a nutshell, most women are masculine on certain points, and then they say, oh, I want a man that's going to be a leader. 0.90

01:48:18.000 But that man as leader is like, yo, if you're masculine, I don't want you.

01:48:21.000 So why not just be submissive all the time?

01:48:24.000 Danger.

01:48:25.000 There you go.

01:48:26.000 She's building herself.

01:48:27.000 So that consists of a little masculine energy.

01:48:29.000 Like when you starting a business or trying to apply for a job, you got to like hustle.

01:48:35.000 You know what I'm saying?

01:48:35.000 You don't want to not be a bum, you know, and not be able to take care of yourself.

01:48:39.000 So I feel like that does consist of a little masculine energy, which could be healthy for the relationship.

01:48:43.000 Because even though you're the breadwinner, I could bring bread to the table too, you know, but not as much.

01:48:48.000 But you know what I'm saying?

01:48:49.000 Okay, but why?

01:48:49.000 Okay, real talk.

01:48:50.000 Do you really believe that?

01:48:52.000 Because what's going to happen is, you're going to pay half the bills?

01:48:55.000 I've done that before, but I felt like it was a roommate situation and I didn't like that, no.

01:49:00.000 That's the whole point.

01:49:01.000 Okay, I mean, I see what you're saying, but like, you know, if I can help contribute, why wouldn't I want to do that?

01:49:06.000 Because you don't want to.

01:49:07.000 I don't mind, though.

01:49:08.000 You literally said two seconds ago, I did do it, and I didn't like it.

01:49:11.000 You don't mind, but you prefer not to.

01:49:13.000 You know, I wouldn't mind doing it.

01:49:15.000 It's just like... 0.97

01:49:16.000 That is exactly why we don't give a fuck how much money y'all make, because when you guys make money, it doesn't matter. 0.99

01:49:24.000 We don't benefit. 0.99

01:49:25.000 Yep.

01:49:25.000 Y'all don't want to share your resources anyway.

01:49:27.000 So if I'm going to deal with a girl, right, that doesn't want to share her money anyway, I might as well go ahead and get a bad trick that's not going to give me a headache. 0.99

01:49:35.000 Because y'all don't want to share money anyway.

01:49:36.000 Why am I going to deal with a girl? 1.00

01:49:37.000 Oh, I make 100k a year, but I'm going to be a raging bitch and pay half the bills but annoy you all the time. 1.00

01:49:42.000 I'd rather just take care of a girl that's not going to give me a headache if I have the money. 1.00

01:49:42.000 Fuck that shit. 1.00

01:49:46.000 A lot of guys deal with masculine-ass women because they don't have the choice. 1.00

01:49:49.000 Mm-hmm. 1.00

01:49:49.000 They have to deal with that shit because they gotta go half and half on bills. 1.00

01:49:52.000 Like, they can't afford to live by themselves or they can't afford to support their girl. 0.99

01:49:55.000 So, hey, babe, sorry, you gotta work.

01:49:57.000 But if you gave every guy a chance, hey, bro, if you made enough money and your girl didn't have to work, would you take it and she could just stay at home? 1.00

01:50:03.000 They prefer that shit. 1.00

01:50:04.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:50:05.000 Because then she's not gonna be as annoying. 0.94

01:50:07.000 Girls that work are annoying. 1.00

01:50:09.000 I like to be a little busy. 0.98

01:50:10.000 You're annoying.

01:50:13.000 Okay, all right.

01:50:15.000 Go ahead.

01:50:16.000 Or at least girls that work like a serious career are annoying. 1.00

01:50:18.000 There you go.

01:50:20.000 Broward County Firefighter goes, pleasure meeting you guys at your live show.

01:50:23.000 Looking forward to the next one, ladies. 1.00

01:50:24.000 At what age do you think is a good age to settle down with the man you want?

01:50:27.000 What values would you bring to that man?

01:50:29.000 Okay, you know what?

01:50:30.000 We'll just go around the table real quick.

01:50:31.000 Age, and then we'll have the other chat safe.

01:50:33.000 Age, you should settle down with the guy.

01:50:34.000 The woman's age or the man's age? 0.97

01:50:36.000 I think...

01:50:37.000 The woman's age, I think.

01:50:38.000 I think the woman's.

01:50:39.000 Yeah, with the man you want.

01:50:44.000 Late 30s?

01:50:50.000 As a woman? 1.00

01:50:50.000 Goddamn. 1.00

01:50:51.000 No, no. 1.00

01:50:52.000 That's okay.

01:50:53.000 What about you?

01:50:54.000 What about you?

01:50:56.000 At what age you can get married?

01:50:58.000 Yeah, what age should you settle down?

01:51:00.000 Yeah, pretty much.

01:51:02.000 Yeah, I think maybe 30.

01:51:06.000 Okay.

01:51:07.000 Okay.

01:51:08.000 That's kind of hard to answer.

01:51:11.000 My mom didn't have me until she was in her 30s, so I would say 30s as well.

01:51:16.000 But then again, I feel like now would be a good time, but I'm not ready for that commitment.

01:51:21.000 I'm about to be 26 next month, and I wish that I was already married.

01:51:25.000 Like, I wish I would have started looking for something...

01:51:27.000 Well, I mean, I was in a serious relationship when I was 23, I guess.

01:51:30.000 But I wish I would have, like, settled down with the right person then.

01:51:33.000 I get married when I was 26, and it's a good age.

01:51:36.000 It's good?

01:51:37.000 Yeah.

01:51:37.000 Like, okay.

01:51:39.000 Honestly, I don't think there's such a number.

01:51:42.000 I think it depends on the...

01:51:43.000 I think it depends on the person, on the guy that you meet.

01:51:46.000 I don't think there's such a thing with a number.

01:51:48.000 An age.

01:51:49.000 What about you?

01:51:49.000 Yeah.

01:51:51.000 What age do you think is optimal for a girl to settle down? 1.00

01:51:54.000 I'd probably say like mid-20s.

01:51:56.000 Mid-20s?

01:51:57.000 What about you?

01:51:57.000 Okay.

01:51:58.000 I'd say around 30.

01:52:00.000 Okay.

01:52:00.000 Around 30?

01:52:02.000 Yeah, like 24, 25, honestly.

01:52:04.000 I would have already been settled.

01:52:05.000 Like, I would want to also be married, too.

01:52:07.000 I'm not going to lie.

01:52:08.000 Now, let me ask you guys a question.

01:52:09.000 What age do you think men want a girl? 1.00

01:52:12.000 Young.

01:52:14.000 I mean, you keep saying 18, so I'm assuming 18, 19, 20, right?

01:52:18.000 Don't worry about me.

01:52:19.000 No, what do you think?

01:52:20.000 What do you think?

01:52:21.000 That's what I'm assuming.

01:52:22.000 That's what I've been, like, looking online on the internet.

01:52:24.000 You always see, like, guys want younger girls.

01:52:26.000 Okay.

01:52:27.000 What about you, Miss Italy?

01:52:28.000 I think from 18 to 25.

01:52:30.000 Okay.

01:52:31.000 What about you?

01:52:32.000 I'd probably say early 20s, like, you know, between like 21 to 23.

01:52:36.000 Okay.

01:52:37.000 So before 25, what about you?

01:52:38.000 Me too.

01:52:39.000 21 and 23.

01:52:40.000 Okay.

01:52:41.000 Young 20s, like 21, 23.

01:52:41.000 What about you?

01:52:43.000 What do you think men prefer? 1.00

01:52:44.000 I still don't know what age, but I feel like when a guy is able to provide is when he might be ready to settle.

01:52:50.000 No, but I'm asking at what age would he want the girl to be when he's at that age?

01:52:53.000 Oh, most likely in her 20s.

01:52:56.000 Okay.

01:52:56.000 What about you?

01:53:00.000 In the thirties?

01:53:01.000 I don't understand the question.

01:53:03.000 I'm sorry.

01:53:05.000 At what age do you think?

01:53:07.000 A que edad está lista para...

01:53:09.000 Como un hombre quiere casarse con una mujer. 0.99

01:53:12.000 Como que en que edad ellos quieren una mujer. 0.96

01:53:16.000 Pero para casarse.

01:53:17.000 Sí, para casarse.

01:53:18.000 Para estar con una mujer. 0.99

01:53:20.000 Pero no para novio.

01:53:23.000 No para casarse.

01:53:24.000 Como que edad quiere la mujer. 0.91

01:53:32.000 It's not that hard.

01:53:33.000 At what age would a guy...

01:53:35.000 30.

01:53:36.000 Yes.

01:53:36.000 She said 30?

01:53:37.000 What about you?

01:53:38.000 Mid-20s.

01:53:39.000 Mid-20s.

01:53:40.000 25.

01:53:41.000 Okay.

01:53:42.000 So why the hell did you guys give the retarded answers you guys gave earlier when significantly younger than you guys said? 0.97

01:53:48.000 What? 0.97

01:53:50.000 All of you guys gave an age, which was a lot older.

01:53:55.000 I said, when do you think a woman should settle down? 1.00

01:53:57.000 Then I asked, when do you think a man wants a woman to settle down? 1.00

01:53:59.000 All of you guys gave an age that's a lot younger than what you said before.

01:54:03.000 I said the same age.

01:54:04.000 I said 21 to 23.

01:54:07.000 I said I wish I would have been married by 23.

01:54:09.000 Except for you.

01:54:10.000 But the rest of y'all gave significantly older ages.

01:54:12.000 I mean, I want to have fun.

01:54:14.000 I want to enjoy my life.

01:54:15.000 I want to travel before I have kids, before I get married.

01:54:18.000 Once you have kids...

01:54:19.000 I want to smoke weed and eat Cheetos!

01:54:23.000 Well, you see, I can smoke weed and still be active.

01:54:26.000 That's the thing.

01:54:26.000 No, no, no, no.

01:54:27.000 But, like, I'm going to smoke weed and eat Cheetos and get a bad bitch. 1.00

01:54:30.000 I deserve it, don't I? I don't know. 1.00

01:54:36.000 Like, no, you know, I just want to have fun.

01:54:38.000 I'm going to play video games, eat some Cheetos.

01:54:41.000 But that's not fun.

01:54:42.000 Listen, I wouldn't want to travel with my man, though, like, because they're going to pay for it.

01:54:46.000 You want to pay for your own trip?

01:54:46.000 I don't want to pay for my own trip.

01:54:47.000 I mean, no, you guys missed the point here.

01:54:50.000 Yeah, yeah.

01:54:50.000 What I'm saying is that I have to build myself up, right, to get the guy, to get the girl that I want.

01:54:55.000 Right.

01:54:56.000 Right? 1.00

01:54:56.000 I can't demand a bad bitch and be a bum. 1.00

01:54:58.000 So why is that you want to go and have your fun and get older and expect the man to settle down with you? 1.00

01:55:03.000 But you want to do the same thing.

01:55:05.000 Men and women don't age the same. 0.97

01:55:07.000 You lose value as you get older.

01:55:08.000 Facts.

01:55:09.000 Men get hotter as they get older.

01:55:11.000 I don't look for men in their 20s.

01:55:13.000 Mid-30s to late 30s.

01:55:14.000 They're hotter.

01:55:15.000 So the answer here is that ultimately, you don't care what men want. 0.99

01:55:15.000 I hate them. 0.99

01:55:19.000 You just care about what you want.

01:55:20.000 Yeah.

01:55:20.000 Just that exercise literally.

01:55:23.000 Like, we asked them first.

01:55:24.000 Man, y'all are easy.

01:55:25.000 Yo, we asked y'all.

01:55:26.000 Come on.

01:55:27.000 What age do you think women should settle? 1.00

01:55:28.000 You guys all gave these old ass answers. 0.98

01:55:30.000 Then we asked, what age do you think the man wants? 0.99

01:55:31.000 All of you gave way younger answers. 0.99

01:55:34.000 And then instead of saying, damn, wait, hold on, they got me. 0.98

01:55:36.000 I should probably go what the men want. 1.00

01:55:39.000 Y'all are like, nah, I want to have my fun and shit. 0.99

01:55:41.000 Do you realize that by having your fun, you're going to probably fuck yourself up and not get the man that you want? 0.99

01:55:47.000 How do you know he's the man, though? 0.98

01:55:49.000 You make the wrong choice.

01:55:53.000 Look, you have your preferences.

01:55:54.000 Just be aware.

01:55:57.000 I'm confused here because I'm literally saying, like, I'm asking them, like, wouldn't you want to have your fun, like, with your man?

01:56:03.000 And you're like, what?

01:56:05.000 Like, I'm crazy over here.

01:56:06.000 Here's the thing.

01:56:07.000 You're 25, but you weren't thinking that way at 20.

01:56:09.000 Yeah.

01:56:09.000 At 19?

01:56:10.000 You weren't thinking that way.

01:56:11.000 I was in a serious relationship at 20.

01:56:13.000 I didn't go out without my man when I was then.

01:56:15.000 From 17...

01:56:16.000 I get that.

01:56:16.000 To 24, I was in a relationship.

01:56:19.000 I get that.

01:56:19.000 But like a lot of girls that are younger, they'll be like, I want to have my fun.

01:56:22.000 I want to go out there and experience.

01:56:23.000 I want to do certain things.

01:56:24.000 And that's girls. 1.00

01:56:25.000 That's fine.

01:56:26.000 But, you know, I just find it amazing how like girls prioritize what they want out of life. 1.00

01:56:31.000 And then they think a guy's going to be sitting there at the finish line waiting for them.

01:56:34.000 I don't know.

01:56:35.000 It's kind of funny because it's like, If I decided to be a bum and not work on myself, y'all would never accept me. 0.94

01:56:41.000 But y'all think being a hoe and living your life and doing all this extra shit, living your life, right, as they say, like, I'm going to be there waiting for you. 1.00

01:56:48.000 Not a chance. 0.99

01:56:49.000 Well, now I settled down, like, when I was, like, what, like, 19?

01:56:52.000 I was in a serious relationship, and then now I'm, like, 27.

01:56:56.000 And...

01:56:57.000 Yeah, you're old. 0.99

01:56:58.000 Yeah, and now it sucks. 0.99

01:56:59.000 Now it ended. 0.98

01:57:01.000 Exactly, at 27.

01:57:02.000 And I started early.

01:57:04.000 So, it's like, what about, like, what happens to others?

01:57:07.000 How about this?

01:57:08.000 Let's say I won the lottery, right?

01:57:09.000 I won $10 million.

01:57:11.000 And I spent all that money, and then eight years later, I'm broke.

01:57:15.000 Yours.

01:57:15.000 Whose fault is it?

01:57:17.000 It's your fault.

01:57:18.000 Yeah.

01:57:19.000 Congratulations.

01:57:20.000 As a woman, by the time you turn 18, you literally have the lottery. 0.92

01:57:23.000 You have a million dollars to your name.

01:57:24.000 It's up to you to invest that money properly.

01:57:27.000 If you get to 30 and the casino closes, it's on you and you're down.

01:57:31.000 I don't think women understand that. 1.00

01:57:32.000 You guys have a certain amount of time to get the best guy that you can get.

01:57:36.000 And as you get older, yeah, some of y'all, the casino's already closed.

01:57:39.000 He got two doors?

01:57:41.000 Two doors left?

01:57:42.000 Or...

01:57:43.000 You can go to the casino down the street where you're not going to make as much money.

01:57:47.000 You might have to pay half and half.

01:57:50.000 You know what I mean?

01:57:50.000 When you take your winnings.

01:57:51.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:57:52.000 You know? 1.00

01:57:53.000 Okay.

01:57:53.000 IRS. Where are you at here?

01:57:55.000 Official IRS ratings.

01:57:57.000 Mariola, five.

01:57:59.000 Francesca, five.

01:58:00.000 Crystal, five.

01:58:01.000 Sarah, six.

01:58:03.000 Mary, six.

01:58:04.000 Alana, 6.5.

01:58:05.000 I like the way you gripped that pen.

01:58:08.000 Have you written anything with that pen?

01:58:10.000 Yeah, I have.

01:58:11.000 Okay, what'd you write on there? 0.91

01:58:13.000 No, I'm not that ignorant. 0.97

01:58:13.000 Misogamy. 0.97

01:58:16.000 Just a few notes so that I wouldn't forget my answers to the questions.

01:58:19.000 Okay.

01:58:20.000 Nice.

01:58:21.000 Sierra, four.

01:58:22.000 Alexandra, four.

01:58:23.000 Don't blink too fast with those...

01:58:25.000 Anybody disagree with those ratings?

01:58:32.000 No.

01:58:35.000 I'm definitely not a 5.

01:58:37.000 What do you rate yourself out of 10 then?

01:58:39.000 Out of 10, I would say 8 because there's still room for improvement.

01:58:43.000 Period.

01:58:44.000 8 out of 10 too?

01:58:49.000 Bro, an 8?

01:58:51.000 You're Puerto Rican.

01:58:52.000 But I'm not perfect.

01:58:55.000 Yeah, thanks.

01:58:56.000 So I can't be a 10.

01:58:57.000 Just from perspective, like an 8 is like a chick on a... 0.53

01:59:00.000 Like you're almost perfect.

01:59:01.000 Yeah, you're a model.

01:59:02.000 Like you're on a magazine somewhere.

01:59:04.000 Okay, so we're 5.

01:59:05.000 I'm good with 5.

01:59:06.000 Yeah, like 5 is average, 6 is attractive.

01:59:09.000 Everybody's average.

01:59:09.000 7 is hot.

01:59:10.000 8 is like really fucking hot. 0.97

01:59:12.000 9 is like damn near doesn't exist and the 10 is like doesn't exist. 0.88

01:59:16.000 People like using the 5 to 10 scale instead of the full 1 to 10 scale.

01:59:20.000 Yeah.

01:59:22.000 What would you rate us? 1.00

01:59:24.000 Oh shit. 1.00

01:59:25.000 Do you want me to do that? 1.00

01:59:26.000 Yes.

01:59:27.000 Absolutely.

01:59:28.000 You know what?

01:59:29.000 Based off intelligence, physical attraction.

01:59:31.000 He's a very man and successful.

01:59:33.000 You got it, David.

01:59:34.000 Yeah, Dave, you're ready.

01:59:35.000 And then we'll rate y'all, and then I'll go after.

01:59:37.000 Yeah, David. 1.00

01:59:38.000 You're like, fuck, man. 1.00

01:59:39.000 Fuck. 1.00

01:59:40.000 Damn. 1.00

01:59:40.000 Get me out of here. 1.00

01:59:43.000 I give...

01:59:44.000 Okay, so we'll just go through it.

01:59:47.000 6.5...

01:59:48.000 5...

01:59:49.000 5...

01:59:50.000 7...

01:59:55.000 6.5, 6.5, 5, 6.

01:59:58.000 Okay, that's fair.

02:00:00.000 Wait, her 5?

02:00:01.000 Me?

02:00:02.000 Yeah, you go first.

02:00:03.000 No, you.

02:00:03.000 He was more than a 5 to 10 scale, Chris.

02:00:05.000 5 to 10.

02:00:06.000 Yeah.

02:00:07.000 You go first.

02:00:08.000 Oh, man.

02:00:10.000 Okay.

02:00:11.000 I'll give you a smooth 6.5.

02:00:16.000 A what?

02:00:17.000 Okay.

02:00:17.000 6.5.

02:00:36.000 Should we have the girl stand up so the audience knows? 1.00

02:00:40.000 No.

02:00:42.000 I'll give you a 6.

02:00:46.000 I'll give you a five.

02:00:48.000 I'll give you a six.

02:00:49.000 Fair.

02:00:51.000 Go on, bro.

02:00:52.000 Okay, so...

02:00:53.000 Everybody has six.

02:00:54.000 Don't try to sneak your way out of that one.

02:00:56.000 I'm going to rate you guys 1 to 10, just so you guys know. 1.00

02:00:59.000 1 is a fucking garden gnome. 1.00

02:01:02.000 2 is ugly. 1.00

02:01:03.000 3 is terrible.

02:01:05.000 4 is okay.

02:01:06.000 Whatever.

02:01:07.000 Maybe somewhat average.

02:01:08.000 5 is average.

02:01:09.000 6 is above average.

02:01:10.000 7 is attractive.

02:01:12.000 8 is hot. 0.98

02:01:14.000 9 is really fucking hot. 0.95

02:01:16.000 Then 10 is like perfection. 0.98

02:01:18.000 Understand that my scale is very honest.

02:01:21.000 We'll start with you.

02:01:22.000 I'll give you A five.

02:01:25.000 Give you...

02:01:26.000 a four.

02:01:27.000 I'll give you...

02:01:29.000 a three.

02:01:30.000 Okay, Simon.

02:01:32.000 Okay.

02:01:32.000 Hey, man.

02:01:33.000 I'll give you...

02:01:34.000 a six.

02:01:36.000 Six.

02:01:38.000 Five.

02:01:40.000 Four.

02:01:42.000 Three.

02:01:43.000 I'll give her a five. 0.99

02:01:47.000 Cool.

02:01:47.000 So yeah, just being honest.

02:01:49.000 And I'm going strictly off looks, not your personalities, etc.

02:01:51.000 That's fair.

02:01:52.000 Yeah, I mean, again, five is average, man.

02:01:55.000 No wrong with being average, ladies. 1.00

02:01:56.000 Most women are average. 1.00

02:01:57.000 They just don't want to admit that shit. 1.00

02:01:58.000 They don't want to say it. 1.00

02:01:58.000 And then six is above average, and then seven is higher. 1.00

02:02:01.000 I admit it.

02:02:01.000 I am average.

02:02:03.000 Man, women don't admit when they're average, bro. 1.00

02:02:05.000 They never do.

02:02:05.000 Every girl's a queen or a princess.

02:02:07.000 No, that's not true.

02:02:10.000 You have things to work on.

02:02:11.000 Nobody's perfect.

02:02:12.000 Bro, you should watch the show more.

02:02:14.000 Everyone that comes on here and says they're a 10.

02:02:16.000 Well, that's them.

02:02:17.000 Okay.

02:02:17.000 I mean, Chad, you want me to go?

02:02:18.000 Because you guys are saying that, but if not, I'll...

02:02:20.000 No, no.

02:02:20.000 Chris might care about your opinion.

02:02:22.000 You always want to be in the videos.

02:02:23.000 Yeah, bro.

02:02:24.000 Always be in the back.

02:02:25.000 Yeah.

02:02:27.000 Hot dog, hot.

02:02:28.000 So you're like, worse than Diddy, bro.

02:02:30.000 Salute to the entire FNF fam.

02:02:31.000 Highest quality and most consistent content in the game, and it ain't even close.

02:02:34.000 We got your back.

02:02:35.000 Appreciate that, bro. 1.00

02:02:36.000 Give y'all a bunch more guys than those fucking losers. 0.99

02:02:39.000 Yeah, he really is Dame Dash. 1.00

02:02:40.000 And your likes getting two paws.

02:02:41.000 Get the likes up, blubber lovers.

02:02:43.000 And that's right.

02:02:45.000 Call me G.S. Scott goes, ladies, call it when you want, but the fact is, whether you know about it or not, men do not cheat.

02:02:52.000 They simply enjoy the options they've worked long and hard to have.

02:02:56.000 G. Scott, okay.

02:02:57.000 He's basically saying men don't cheat, they just exercise options.

02:03:01.000 I just feel like cheat is the easiest word to use because that's what every woman is going to call it. 0.83

02:03:08.000 So I feel like when you're talking about it, that's what they're going to talk about.

02:03:11.000 We got two girls out here that are married. 1.00

02:03:13.000 If your guy cheated on you, would you leave him? 1.00

02:03:15.000 If he fucked another girl? 1.00

02:03:18.000 No. 1.00

02:03:22.000 You wouldn't leave?

02:03:23.000 Why not?

02:03:45.000 Do you think you'll still be able to find another man to take you seriously at 40?

02:04:01.000 I'm a businesswoman, so I don't need a man to pay for me.

02:04:05.000 We all need a man no matter what.

02:04:07.000 Yeah, but I for sure because I'm I know for sure some because not Right now, a lot of boys come to me because I'm in the fashion industry and I always go with Evans, Runways,

02:04:23.000 and I have to say, no, I'm married, so I know for sure if I get separated, somebody can come with me.

02:04:29.000 Yeah, but would those romantic men want you for you or would they just want to have sex? 0.99

02:04:38.000 No, for sure it's about not just for sex. 0.70

02:04:43.000 For sure it's not about that. 0.96

02:04:47.000 Alright, female delusion once again. 1.00

02:04:49.000 Okay, what about you?

02:04:50.000 Would you leave your guy if he cheated on you? 0.99

02:04:54.000 Yes.

02:04:54.000 You will leave?

02:04:55.000 Yes.

02:04:56.000 Do you think you'll still be able to find another man to take you seriously at 37?

02:05:00.000 Yes.

02:05:01.000 Stop the cow! 1.00

02:05:02.000 Wow.

02:05:02.000 Yeah, for sure he is.

02:05:03.000 Why not? 1.00

02:05:05.000 Shit, I feel like the doors are closing on me. 1.00

02:05:07.000 I'm about to turn 30. 0.99

02:05:07.000 Dude, I'm gonna be 26. 0.99

02:05:09.000 I feel like I'm out of time.

02:05:11.000 I never hear about him before.

02:05:13.000 Y'all don't like your husbands that much, bro.

02:05:18.000 She gave a little smirk. 0.99

02:05:20.000 Y'all don't like your husbands that much. 0.94

02:05:21.000 You guys don't.

02:05:23.000 It's very obvious.

02:05:24.000 He can't tell me what to do.

02:05:26.000 He's got to love God, but he doesn't, so I'm still with him anyway.

02:05:30.000 Y'all, uh, they have placeholder husbands, man.

02:05:33.000 Guys, this is how you don't want your girl to be.

02:05:36.000 No, you want them to, like, fiercely have your back when you're not around.

02:05:40.000 Exactly.

02:05:41.000 Like, y'all kind of, you guys can tell her in Spanish, she don't like her man that much, and it's very obvious.

02:05:54.000 They don't care.

02:05:55.000 Yeah, but you know I have three kids with my husband, so that is the reason why we get well together.

02:06:03.000 For the kids.

02:06:06.000 I can respect that for the kids. 0.94

02:06:07.000 No, but I'm just like, bro, we don't fucking miss! 0.90

02:06:10.000 Yeah. 0.93

02:06:10.000 We don't miss, bro. 0.93

02:06:12.000 But that foundation is only the kids.

02:06:14.000 It's not only about that.

02:06:16.000 But when I get married, I decide to be with my husband till my kids are 18 years.

02:06:25.000 Then you're gone.

02:06:25.000 For sure.

02:06:26.000 So I have to... 0.99

02:06:27.000 Three more years, nigga. 1.00

02:06:28.000 Yeah. 0.97

02:06:31.000 You're going to wait till your kids are older and then you can't find a guy because you were there to be with your husband. 1.00

02:06:36.000 Maybe I can't even stay with my husband.

02:06:39.000 Maybe, maybe.

02:06:40.000 No, because you don't understand what I mean.

02:06:43.000 I have two kids.

02:06:44.000 I have two kids.

02:06:45.000 Let her say it in Spanish.

02:06:46.000 Go ahead and say it in Spanish and translate it.

02:06:47.000 Go ahead and say it in Spanish.

02:06:50.000 Okay, mira, les digo que no...

02:06:53.000 A ver, cuando yo me casé, yo decidí y mi esposo decidimos que vamos a estar juntos hasta que mis hijos sean grandes porque queremos darles un hogar con padres porque nosotros no tuvimos ese hogar.

02:07:07.000 Y cuando nos juntamos, para mí era muy triste no tener a mi padre cerca y a él también.

02:07:12.000 Entonces decidimos ser fuertes y enfocarnos en estar juntos. 0.99

02:07:16.000 What the fuck? 0.99

02:07:19.000 Exactly what you said. 1.00

02:07:20.000 She had kids and they both agreed upon when they got old enough, like 18 years old, that then they were separated.

02:07:27.000 They didn't want to be with each other.

02:07:28.000 But at least their kids grew up with them having a family.

02:07:31.000 I don't understand that.

02:07:32.000 No, no, no.

02:07:32.000 I mean, that's great that she prioritized duty.

02:07:34.000 But what I'm saying is that Clearly, and here's the thing. 0.99

02:07:37.000 I knew this at the beginning of the fucking show. 1.00

02:07:39.000 A woman is a mirror image of her man. 1.00

02:07:42.000 When a girl's with a guy that she really loves, admires, respects, when she talks about him, she's excited.

02:07:46.000 She's happy. 1.00

02:07:47.000 My man's a fucking boss. 1.00

02:07:49.000 I don't do nothing. 1.00

02:07:49.000 Like, I just blah, blah, blah. 1.00

02:07:51.000 Like, no offense to you, two ladies, but y'all don't really like your husbands that much. 1.00

02:07:54.000 You, declining model career.

02:07:54.000 It's very obvious.

02:07:56.000 He's gonna marry me.

02:07:57.000 Alright, it is what it is.

02:07:58.000 She still goes out and looks for other dudes. 1.00

02:08:00.000 And then her... 0.96

02:08:01.000 Eh, I gotta make it work with the kids.

02:08:03.000 It's cool.

02:08:04.000 You know, it is what it is. 0.84

02:08:05.000 But this is what happens when guys don't have their shit together and they don't keep their attraction levels high. 0.99

02:08:10.000 Your girl just tolerates you, bro. 0.99

02:08:11.000 I'll never submit.

02:08:12.000 Yeah, I'll never submit.

02:08:13.000 But that means that you're not happy.

02:08:15.000 I want to be happy.

02:08:16.000 Happy with doing what?

02:08:17.000 With, like, the men that I'm with.

02:08:19.000 Like, why would I be with you just because I have kids?

02:08:21.000 Well, that's you, but that's not them.

02:08:22.000 Yeah.

02:08:23.000 And you're not married yet.

02:08:25.000 I don't want to be ever married.

02:08:27.000 I don't ever want to get married. 1.00

02:08:38.000 This nigga. 1.00

02:08:39.000 Where do you put Fresh to BBC? You put Fresh to BBC in the peanut hole. 0.99

02:08:42.000 For demonstration purposes, Fresh will show you what we mean after the show.

02:08:45.000 You know what to do, big homie. 0.99

02:08:46.000 Yes, sir!

02:08:47.000 Get him fresh!

02:08:47.000 Do you have anything you want to say back to Fresh to Balls?

02:08:50.000 No, no.

02:08:51.000 Get him fresh!

02:08:51.000 What does that mean?

02:08:55.000 I think he means big black cock. 1.00

02:09:09.000 I think you guys need to bust out the calculator for this one. 1.00

02:09:11.000 We need to knock down some of that female delusion. 1.00

02:09:19.000 You can't do the sound effects right, man.

02:09:22.000 Shout out to you, my friend.

02:09:24.000 I mean, Daniel goes, crazy how the lady seems to have no clue how men think and what men want. 1.00

02:09:28.000 Do y'all know what the man you want wants?

02:09:32.000 Well, I think you know that already.

02:09:33.000 Have you ever asked yourselves that question?

02:09:35.000 If no, why?

02:09:39.000 Yo, I think if anything, this show's proven that time and time again, they prioritize what they want and then you need to accept it.

02:09:45.000 Correct.

02:09:46.000 They might care at 30 years old, maybe.

02:09:48.000 I do, I do, I do.

02:09:50.000 I learned that today.

02:09:51.000 Long live game, this podcast proves that women just talk a lot without actually saying anything. 1.00

02:09:56.000 Repeal the 19th. 0.57

02:10:00.000 I think that a woman's vote should only count as half of a man's vote. 1.00

02:10:00.000 Controversial take. 1.00

02:10:04.000 And the reason why I say that is because women don't enter selective service. 0.97

02:10:08.000 So, since y'all don't enter selective service, I don't think y'all vote should matter the full way, but hey, it is what it is.

02:10:14.000 Taco Man ATG, get the likes up. 0.86

02:10:16.000 Love y'all.

02:10:16.000 No pause.

02:10:17.000 Xena, I love the curls.

02:10:18.000 Icy looking elegant too.

02:10:19.000 Shout out to everybody.

02:10:20.000 Shout out to you, my friends.

02:10:22.000 Peace, do you have anything else, man?

02:10:27.000 Yeah.

02:10:27.000 Oh, me?

02:10:28.000 Oh, Beast.

02:10:29.000 Oh, yeah.

02:10:29.000 Or David.

02:10:31.000 Beast is alright.

02:10:32.000 Nah, man.

02:10:33.000 When can I find you, bro?

02:10:35.000 How to Beast, YouTube, Instagram, TikTok, not Twitter.

02:10:39.000 I never created a Twitter.

02:10:41.000 Yeah, it's tough, bro.

02:10:42.000 Before we close, I want to give the ladies an opportunity real fast. 1.00

02:10:45.000 Hey, guys, I know...

02:10:46.000 It's a little short, but I'll turn it to ladies here in a second. 0.98

02:10:49.000 Dave's dying.

02:10:50.000 You know, we got to respect the guest's time.

02:10:52.000 So that's the only reason why.

02:10:54.000 So don't jump on Fresh too much.

02:10:55.000 Just jump on Dave instead.

02:10:57.000 Any ladies have any questions or last thoughts on the show or anything that they wanted to bring up or disagreements on what we talked about today? 0.94

02:11:05.000 No.

02:11:06.000 I did want to give a shout out to Detox for bringing me on the show.

02:11:09.000 Detox in the building?

02:11:10.000 Oh, I wanted to give a shout out to...

02:11:12.000 I met him today in my friend's lobby.

02:11:15.000 He was like, hey, you want to go on a podcast?

02:11:16.000 I said, we're on a podcast.

02:11:17.000 He goes Fresh and Fit.

02:11:18.000 And I was like, I've already been on it four times.

02:11:19.000 Sweet.

02:11:20.000 Shout him.

02:11:20.000 WA here says, ladies, don't listen to these bums.

02:11:22.000 You're strong and independent.

02:11:23.000 Thank you, FNF. My chewing investment has been booming.

02:11:27.000 Second chick next to Myron looks like Mr. 1.00

02:11:29.000 Bean. 1.00

02:11:30.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

02:11:31.000 Come on, bro. 1.00

02:11:33.000 Goddamn. 0.99

02:11:35.000 That is messed up. 0.98

02:11:37.000 Guys, all the ladies' Instagrams are below. 1.00

02:11:39.000 Go ahead and send them a dick pic. 1.00

02:11:40.000 I'm sure they'd really appreciate it. 0.99

02:11:42.000 Go ahead and check out Dave's social guys below on YouTube and Instagram.

02:11:46.000 Check them out.

02:11:47.000 When are you going to drop that interview with us?

02:11:49.000 Oh man, perhaps.

02:11:51.000 Probably a week, maybe?

02:11:52.000 Yeah, probably next Thursday, I think.

02:11:54.000 Next Thursday.

02:11:55.000 Next Thursday, if not the Thursday after, guys.

02:11:57.000 Great interview.

02:11:58.000 So yeah, guys, we'll catch you on the next episode of Fresh and Fit on Friday.

02:12:01.000 We got Ryan Dawson.

02:12:02.000 We're going to talk about 9-11. 0.99

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02:12:04.000 Part two. 0.99

02:12:05.000 We're going to be talking about them boys.

02:12:07.000 So hopefully we don't get canceled.

02:12:10.000 Guys, don't forget to like the video, subscribe to the channel.

02:12:11.000 Catch you guys on the next one.

02:12:12.000 Love you guys.

02:12:13.000 Peace!

02:12:16.000 I'm far away.

02:12:18.000 I just ran.

02:12:20.000 I ran for an island day.

Fresh & Fit - June 08, 2023

OLD Women ADMIT They Don't Like Their Husband!😭w-How To Beast

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