00:22:58.000Um, but yeah, other than that, uh, let's have a great show.1.00
00:23:02.000Cool, our ladies, if you don't mind, uh, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want, of course, your body count.1.00
00:25:09.000Unfortunately, well, not unfortunately.1.00
00:25:11.000Fortunately, I have Cuban parents and they are strict.1.00
00:25:14.000So I did have like a boyfriend when I was like a lot older.1.00
00:25:17.000You know, I just wonder because if you're this, I guess, defensive about if a man tells you to shut up, being a virgin and then meeting one person, that's crazy, by the way.1.00
00:30:39.000Well, why you think I would never mind I'm not gonna get oh wait what you then you would date a black guy Oh See I don't want to talk about them, but them that's crazy like black guys like I feel like they do not treat black women like queens Wow, how dare you I'm offended right now.0.99
00:31:43.000I'm saying you're a baddie, but the perception of baddies nowadays, especially, but at the end of the day, if you know what I know, what I'm doing, I know you know what you're doing.
00:31:53.000You can think so horribly of me, but you don't know my education, you don't know what I've done.
00:31:57.000Your education is a post on your IG, yes, it is.
00:32:00.000Why don't you scroll down a little bit?
00:43:43.000Because we, where to like New York, nothing crazy, you know.
00:43:49.000So, so, real quick, just for my like, I guess, personal uh, question in here, if someone flies you out, don't they expect to like they expect it, but um, I'm not gonna give it just because, and like, just because you're flying me out doesn't mean you deserve to get, but shouldn't you tell them, hey, listen, you know, just so you're clear, so we're clear here, we're both understanding adults here, it may not happen.
00:45:55.000And it's like she's in Miami, bro.1.00
00:45:56.000She's like she's in South Florida.1.00
00:45:58.000She's Asian, so guys, guys, see, oh my God, I want a fucking Asian girl.0.98
00:46:03.000By the way, fellas, whenever you have a situation like this for dating somebody, you want to fly them out, you know what you should do?0.99
00:48:28.000What were they that they, you know, I saw potential there?
00:48:31.000Obviously, I thought they were going to be my husband, but then it got to a point where I was like, you're not my husband.
00:48:38.000So you said yes, yes, and then you found ways to break it off.
00:48:44.000No, yeah, because you said that you broke it off, right?
00:48:46.000So then after you said yes to them, that means you obviously wanted to be with them long term, and then one day you was like, nah, I don't want anymore, I don't feel like doing it.
00:48:55.000No, like I said, you get to a point where you're like, okay, this is not my husband.
00:49:53.000Because the thing is, it's like, you know, you said yes to the engagement and all of a sudden now you're like looking even harder at the man, apparently.
00:51:03.000No, but like, no, you're still saying, you're still implying that I'm still gonna break up with this nigga because I did nothing wrong.0.99
00:51:09.000I never said I didn't do anything.0.99
00:51:11.000Okay, so then one thing you did wrong.
00:51:12.000One thing, if I was to ask him, hey, what's one thing that pissed you off or one thing you didn't like about her?
00:51:22.000I mean, he'll still marry me to this day.
01:00:58.000All right, W. Joe Eric 007 says If a woman wants her own money, so she doesn't depend on a man financially, is it consistent for a man to want another sexual partner so he doesn't depend on his girlfriend for intimacy?
01:01:23.000So, once again, if a woman wants her own money so she doesn't depend on her man financially, is it consistent for a man to want another sexual partner so he doesn't depend on his girlfriend for intimacy?
01:03:10.000I feel like when a woman makes more money, it makes men that don't make as much money.0.85
01:03:15.000So for example, if you were with a girl that makes 10 times more money than you, I feel like you're going to be less secure in the relationship because she's the breadwinner.0.62
01:05:08.000Okay, to make it more simple, right, ladies?
01:05:10.000He's basically saying if a woman wants her own money so she can be independent, a guy wants to have multiple options to not depend on his girlfriend.
01:05:18.000Yeah, but wouldn't guys love for a woman to have her own money so then she doesn't have to rely on them?
01:05:24.000No, Well, I would argue the modern man today wants that because it's less stressful, it's more convenient, but a real man that wants to take care of the family doesn't want that at all.
01:05:35.000The man that you actually want wouldn't want that.
01:05:37.000I just think the two don't have anything to really.
01:06:55.000Voluntarily smelling them musty coconut soles, marinated in spoiled coconut milk, fermented mango juice, and enough trap for foot sweat to start a whole new ecosystem between them toes.
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01:21:18.000Lack of intimacy, and like sometimes when you have a wife that has kids, sometimes her body changes and then they stop liking the body.0.93
01:21:34.000I feel like, I mean, if they're in a long relationship, maybe they got tired or their relationship is just not, like, their girl's not doing enough for them.
01:22:54.000Just like if he's not doing her right and not taking care of her, she's going to go and look for something else, somebody else that can take care of her.
01:23:01.000When she does not have that ring, She can go and do what she wants.
01:23:05.000So, is it more the wedding and marriage, or is it more the marriage?
01:26:01.000Because a man is going to do what he wants to do.1.00
01:26:03.000If they want to get their dick wet, then that's it.0.99
01:26:05.000Like, no matter how much, as a woman, I'm not saying in my relationship, from past relationships, no matter how much you give to a man, just because you're giving it to them doesn't mean that they're going to respect you.0.99
01:26:17.000Most of the time, they're just using you.
01:26:19.000Now, does everyone agree with that sentiment there?
01:26:21.000That if, you know, you can't stop your man from cheating?
01:27:14.000Because I wouldn't, I don't know, I just don't see that in my future husband or like, you know, that's just not somebody I want to be with, especially if I know like you're willing to like, you know, like betray my trust.
01:27:47.000I always feel like, This though, like if you're instead of cheating, why don't you just have an agreement with your person and be poly or be poly or have an agreement or have an open relationship?
01:27:57.000But cheating is not an accident, you knew what you was going to do, you did the action, and you committed to it.
01:28:12.000If you're committed to one person, you should just be committed to one person, not because obviously if you're gonna cheat, then you're looking for something else.
01:30:46.000Would you ever cheat at that point or leave?
01:30:48.000When I first, like, I don't want to out my boyfriend like that, but when I first got with my boyfriend, he didn't have a job or any income, so no.
01:34:15.000Like she said, I'm not going to out my boyfriend, but, yeah, like, basically, like, this whole year I've been with him, he hasn't had a job.
01:35:39.000Are you gonna have a divorce because of that when you have a family and like just give everything up because you don't get to have sex?1.00
01:38:40.000So, ladies, here's a question from the video.
01:38:43.000If your woman says to you, it's been three kids later, I'm a sexual, I don't want no more sex, is a man okay justified to cheat in this scenario?
01:42:12.000He should make an agreement with her, like I said, the agreement, poly, come up with an open relationship, figure it out, talk to your partner.
01:43:08.000I think you should have talked prior to cheating, but I feel like, as a woman, if you're not, yeah, like giving it, like he's definitely going to find it elsewhere, and you shouldn't be surprised that cheating has come into play, especially if you talked about it first.
01:46:12.000Well, if he's saying that he can't leave, right, because they have the businesses and whatnot, I'm pretty sure that there is a way for him to leave.
01:46:19.000With that much money, there's lawyers.
01:48:18.000I mean, honestly, I feel like if you're that worried about all your shit being gone from the divorce, I feel like you should just jerk off and call it a day.0.99
01:50:39.000Hey, yo, niggas don't like, don't stand for that shit.1.00
01:50:41.000Yo, I'd rather stay in a one bedroom studio, you know, free and happy doing my own shit than rather be in a mansion with a bitch like this.1.00
01:50:53.000Fellas, just so you understand, Marriage is like the death sentence.0.83
01:50:56.000That's just like you might be good at the very beginning, things happen, and kids do play a part in people, you know, going long term sex wise.
01:51:06.000So, yeah, man, I would just say marriage is definitely a L for most men, and Ethan is no savior himself, which he claimed to be earlier, you know, earlier in other podcasts a couple years ago.
01:52:47.000But he can make an income that way and survive.
01:52:49.000However, when it comes to alimony, child support, and spousal support for his wife, ex wife, Bro, that's going to be the issue because that's expensive as hell.
01:53:54.000I think men should get married, but, like, if you already have something established before you get married, or if you're, like, Having yours and want to keep yours, you should probably like get some paperwork so you can make sure that you're covered.
01:54:08.000If you're establishing something before you met somebody, if he had his, I don't know, I don't know how, if he was already established before.
01:54:15.000By the way, just add to your point, Ethan and his wife made his business together.
01:56:28.000No, but like, seeing the facts and data, there's Just now, you know, of the I mean, being married, you know, being married, and the courts are not on men's favors.
01:57:39.000If you got good money, get you a good lawyer where it's still like iron steel and make sure you got your stuff covered for everything that's going to be the correct thing.
01:58:22.000And y'all have an agreement that, okay, after this certain amount of time or after this certain amount of dollar or just come up with something that'll make it like make sense to the both of you.
01:58:32.000It don't always have to be one side gets this, one side gets that.
01:58:36.000People come up, and then if you're with someone and you feel like they have ambition to make themselves better, then be with them and they're gonna be ambitious with you, and y'all gonna build together.
01:58:45.000Obviously, they saw something in each other where they felt like they could build together.
01:58:49.000They got there together just because he's the face of it doesn't mean she wasn't in the background doing stuff or trying to build him up.
01:58:56.000She just stopped having sex with him and he didn't like it.
01:58:59.000So they should just come up with something where both of them can agree to and then they can go their separate ways.
01:59:04.000You make sure you take care of the kids this amount of days.
02:03:10.000From a guy's mentality, personally, if I'm putting myself into a guy's shoes, right, I would want to marry a woman because that is a legal binding contract saying that that woman.
02:03:34.000I don't, I mean, I can understand where you're coming from, but I've never, like, from me at least being 18 years old, my 18 years of living, I've never seen a man more than a woman be like, I want to marry this woman.
02:03:44.000Like I just want to put a ring on her finger and claim that she's mine.
02:03:47.000That's not something that they're like, like, you know, gung ho for.
02:03:50.000Like, oh, like, no, marriage is my goal.
02:11:53.000I know that once you get married and you start filling that out on your resumes, like jobs, you say you're married, the man gets paid a little bit more than the women.0.84
02:12:04.000And then the women Who told you that?0.71
02:12:09.000I don't think in 2026 it applies, but I know back in the day when you would do it on paper, the woman would lose a lot of rights because they now were claimed by the man.0.81
02:12:19.000Because the man used to be the provider.0.62
02:12:46.000But I know you think about in divorce that you think you're going to get taken.0.94
02:12:52.000But my parents had a divorce and my mom makes a lot of money.
02:12:55.000So she ended up keeping her money, and my dad ended up keeping his money, and they didn't lose anything.
02:13:01.000I think if you have a cordial situation, you talk about it when you want to have the divorce, and you're cordial with each other, then you can have a cordial divorce.
02:19:19.000To the lady in the corner, Tamara, to the whole audience, in front of everybody, and Ethan, she said that when Tamara comes to the house with the boys, she what?
02:21:55.000I don't want you to feel like I'm a bad person for saying that.
02:22:01.000I just got like really heated, like trim in a certain way, so but I just don't want you to think I'm like a bad person or hate you or something, because I get that this is a show.
02:25:58.000But nonetheless, though, I mean, guys, listen, that whole thing that happened with Ethan, man, it sucks because you lose your family, but like, bro, I'm just saying, that's.
02:26:05.000So, Ethan and her have three boys, right?
02:27:02.000Knowingly, but I feel like some girls out here probably didn't mess with some dudes and didn't know, yeah, they was gay, you know, like Atlanta.
02:27:09.000I didn't want to say it, but yeah, like Atlanta.
02:27:33.000Um, I was watching, so they're asking if.
02:27:36.000Whether or not they'll deal with the gay nigga, yeah, yeah, I said no, yeah, you said no, he said the past does his past matter, yes, that's why I meant all right, cool, like, what do you think?1.00
02:27:49.000Same boat as her, literally, come on, man, come on, like, stop copying and pasting, man, just like, answer your own shit.1.00
02:27:54.000It's gonna be, I mean, we're two birds that flock together, all right, so, so, like, that's what you said, dude, you don't have uh, threesomes, okay, cool, so, okay, then, yeah, no, I don't think, yes.0.99
02:28:10.000So, the question is if the guy's gay in the past, would you date him now?0.56
02:33:18.000Okay, so the question is Do men really want independent women, or do they just like the idea of them?
02:33:25.000So, again, do they really want independent women, or like the idea of them in general?0.94
02:33:30.000I mean, if you're independent, independent of you know, I'm saying like me personally, if you can like go down the street, eat by yourself, pay your own like basic shit, food, your phone bill, yeah, it's fine, it's cool.0.63
02:33:43.000If we're first not dating, but if I'm your husband or your man down the long run, says, Hey, listen, I'm going to take care of you, make sure you're good, but don't be annoying with it.
02:33:53.000Like, Lex, you know what I'm saying?1.00
02:33:55.000Like, you don't have to yell that shit out because, at the end of the day, like, once you give birth to a kid or two, like, you're gonna want a man to take care of you and, like, let the nigga be a man.1.00
02:49:14.000You're very passive aggressive, and it's like that's not sex, it's a man.
02:49:19.000And I know you'll say, I don't care, but you're 35 years old, girl.0.99
02:49:22.000Like, you're like, your body will fail eventually, and you know, and you're looking, it's saying, don't they say black don't crack, though?0.99