Fresh & Fit - February 19, 2024


​⁠Pearl Gets In HEATED Debate On Domestic Abuse And Frank Castle Appears!

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Myron Gaines Walter Weekes
Mentioned
Pearl Myron Sunny Thera Kizomba Rihanna Nigga Troy Francis Mauritius Drake Denalva Hannah Pearl Davis Network Worldwide Oprah Winfrey Richard Derrick James Bond Morocco Crisps Jerome Darius Robin and 53 more
Tristan Tate Interview Season 9 Placements. The Road To Champion!

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On this episode of the Fresh Fit Podcast, we are joined by Pearl, Troy, and Tatiana. We talk about their backgrounds, what they do for a living, and how they got their start in the music industry. We also get to hear from Kizomba, a UK R&B MC, about his music career and what it's like to grow up in the UK in the late 90s and early 00s. We hope you enjoy this episode and stay tuned for the next episode! Fresh Fit is a production of Native Creative Podcasts. Produced in London, UK, brought to you by FreshFit and Rumblerantin. If you like what you hear here, please HIT SUBSCRIBE and become a supporter of the show. We are always looking for new guests to come on the show and give us feedback and ask any questions you have about the show or anything related to the show! Thank you so much for being a part of this community and supporting the show, we really appreciate it. FreshFit is a community of like minded people who are willing to give us a listen and share the love, support, and support the show with their support. We can't wait to bring more like this to more people like you, and we'll see you next week! - The FreshFit Podcast! We'll be back in Miami next week with a new episode of FreshFit! Stay tuned in for another episode next Tuesday! xoxo. - EJ & Troy & Tanaya - P.S. & P.B. . - OJ xo - - RUMBLE Podcast - M.A. ( ) (featuring: P. ( ) - R. (A. ( ) ( ) ( ( ) (S. ( ). (V) ( ) . (P. ( ), P. & TAYO ( )( ) ( ), ( . , P.Y ( ) and P.J. ( . ) ( ). ( ) & B. (C) ( , ( ), ( ) , . ( ) AND P. , ( ) ! ( , ) - & A. ( , ) , D. ( ] ( ) // P.E. (?) ( ) ) - S. ()

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00:00:00.000 Welcome to Freshly Podcast all the way from London, aka the great UK, the United Kingdom.
00:00:05.000 We're here with a bunch of lovely ladies and Pearl and Troy.
00:00:08.000 Let's get into it, guys.
00:00:08.000 Let's go!
00:00:10.000 An intro?
00:00:14.000 Let's get into it.
00:00:31.000 Nobody cares, bro.
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00:01:02.000 And we are live.
00:01:03.000 What's up, guys?
00:01:03.000 Welcome to the Fresh Fit Podcast, man.
00:01:05.000 We are here in London, man.
00:01:06.000 It's a great time to be here, man.
00:01:08.000 It's cold as hell, and I want to get back to Miami, but that's fine.
00:01:11.000 Guys, rumble.com slash freshfit.
00:01:12.000 As you guys know, that is the home base for us.
00:01:13.000 Also, check us out on fnfsuperchat.com or rumblerantin if you guys got questions or you want to engage with the panel.
00:01:19.000 I know it's been a bit since we've been off air for a while.
00:01:21.000 We just came from Romania.
00:01:22.000 We were with the Tate Brothers.
00:01:23.000 I was lit.
00:01:24.000 We got into London like maybe two days ago?
00:01:26.000 Yeah.
00:01:27.000 Yeah.
00:01:28.000 We've been here for about maybe a little over 24 hours.
00:01:30.000 And we're ready to go back home, bro.
00:01:32.000 Yeah, we're ready to go back.
00:01:32.000 Holy!
00:01:33.000 We're ready to go back, man.
00:01:34.000 But yeah, other than that, sorry guys for the delay.
00:01:37.000 Obviously, we're in a new setup.
00:01:38.000 Shout out to Pearl for, you know, hooking us up and, you know, being so gracious to allow us to use her studio.
00:01:45.000 Yeah, we got a packed house in here, man.
00:01:48.000 So yeah, those are websites, guys.
00:01:49.000 Rumble.com slash FreshFit.
00:01:50.000 That is the home base for us.
00:01:52.000 EvanFSuperChat.com if you guys want to super chat in and get involved in the show.
00:01:55.000 We got you either way.
00:01:56.000 FNF Super Chat's a little bit easier, especially since we're on the road because we got Mo in the back.
00:02:00.000 Back in Miami, monitoring it for us so that we can read them for you guys.
00:02:03.000 But yeah, I guess, Fresh, anything else?
00:02:06.000 Ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, your body count. 0.96
00:02:13.000 We'll start right here.
00:02:15.000 Welcome to the show.
00:02:16.000 Okay.
00:02:19.000 My name is Tatiana.
00:02:20.000 I'm 25.
00:02:21.000 I'm a musician.
00:02:23.000 Where are you from originally?
00:02:24.000 I'm Angolan and Portuguese.
00:02:27.000 Okay.
00:02:27.000 Like, were you born there?
00:02:29.000 Wasn't born there.
00:02:29.000 Wasn't born there.
00:02:30.000 No, I was actually born here.
00:02:31.000 Okay, that's your descent.
00:02:32.000 Yeah, outside of South East.
00:02:33.000 Okay.
00:02:34.000 So, but you're from London originally?
00:02:36.000 Yeah, pretty much.
00:02:37.000 Okay.
00:02:38.000 Okay, and then you said you are a...
00:02:41.000 You're from London.
00:02:42.000 All right.
00:02:43.000 London, the city, or like another part of the UK? No, so it's outside of South East, so it's not really London.
00:02:49.000 What's the name of the town?
00:02:50.000 Kent.
00:02:51.000 Let's just say Kent.
00:02:51.000 Okay.
00:02:52.000 Is that a safe area?
00:02:59.000 And then you said you're a musician, right?
00:03:02.000 Yeah, I'm a musician.
00:03:03.000 What type of music do you make?
00:03:04.000 Kizomba.
00:03:05.000 Kizomba makes with R&B. You can sing?
00:03:07.000 What is Kizomba?
00:03:08.000 And I rap as well.
00:03:09.000 It's been a real quick bar for us.
00:03:10.000 Wait, what is Kizomba?
00:03:13.000 Kizomba?
00:03:13.000 We're gonna hear it right now.
00:03:14.000 Have you ever heard of Kalema?
00:03:16.000 No.
00:03:17.000 Yeah, Nelson Freitas.
00:03:19.000 It's like Portuguese music, I guess?
00:03:21.000 Angolan.
00:03:22.000 Angolan is a different, different places.
00:03:24.000 It's not just Angola.
00:03:25.000 Okay.
00:03:26.000 You've got Portuguese artists, you've got Guilherme Fradianos, you've got different people.
00:03:30.000 Bless you.
00:03:30.000 Thank you.
00:03:32.000 We're waiting.
00:03:33.000 Waiting for?
00:03:34.000 A verse.
00:03:35.000 Oh no, not today.
00:03:39.000 What do you mean?
00:03:43.000 Yo, all my days.
00:03:45.000 Nah, we'll see.
00:03:46.000 We'll see you next time, next time.
00:03:47.000 We could freestyle together.
00:03:51.000 I'm a rapper, too, so I get it.
00:03:54.000 Okay, okay.
00:03:56.000 I'm down.
00:03:58.000 Dating status?
00:03:59.000 No, well, highest education level completed.
00:04:02.000 Yeah, for you.
00:04:02.000 Highest education level completed?
00:04:04.000 Oh, uni.
00:04:04.000 High school, college.
00:04:05.000 Okay, uni.
00:04:06.000 So, four-year degree, that means, right?
00:04:09.000 Do we really need to go into that?
00:04:11.000 We go into it.
00:04:11.000 Yeah, we go into it.
00:04:12.000 Okay, I'm not going to lie.
00:04:13.000 I dropped out of uni.
00:04:14.000 I learned more outside than I did way more outside of uni than I did within it.
00:04:19.000 That's fine.
00:04:19.000 We always say college is scammed.
00:04:21.000 So, it's different here, I noticed.
00:04:22.000 I didn't realize that you guys call it We call it uni, you guys call it college.
00:04:27.000 Or university too, but you guys differentiate.
00:04:31.000 College for you guys, because you guys finish what we call high school at 16, right?
00:04:35.000 What do you guys call it?
00:04:36.000 Secondary school?
00:04:38.000 Yeah.
00:04:39.000 Secondary school.
00:04:40.000 And then what's after that?
00:04:42.000 College.
00:04:43.000 Or sixth form.
00:04:44.000 Okay, and what is that the equivalent?
00:04:46.000 Is that the equivalent to an associate's degree, maybe?
00:04:48.000 Well, college is more like 16 to 18.
00:04:50.000 It's like the thing that you do before you then go to university.
00:04:53.000 Before university.
00:04:53.000 And university here is four years?
00:04:55.000 Usually three, sometimes four.
00:04:56.000 Three to four, maybe five, depending on what course that you take. 1.00
00:04:59.000 Oh, shit, they scam me all over here. 1.00
00:05:01.000 No, 100%. 1.00
00:05:02.000 Yeah, they do, they do.
00:05:03.000 Because here, high school is four years, then you go to university for four years, you get a bachelor's degree.
00:05:07.000 Or you can do an associate's.
00:05:08.000 Or you can go a master's and all that.
00:05:10.000 Okay, all right, so, okay.
00:05:13.000 And then relationship status?
00:05:15.000 Single.
00:05:16.000 And keeping it that way.
00:05:17.000 Okay.
00:05:18.000 Who hurt you?
00:05:20.000 Are your parents still together?
00:05:22.000 Hmm?
00:05:23.000 Are your parents still together?
00:05:24.000 You like to get personal.
00:05:25.000 Yes.
00:05:26.000 No, my parents are not together.
00:05:28.000 Divorced?
00:05:29.000 They were never married.
00:05:30.000 Oh, okay.
00:05:32.000 Alright, and then fresh, your favorite question.
00:05:34.000 Birth control?
00:05:36.000 Yes.
00:05:37.000 So you're on birth control.
00:05:39.000 Alright, cool.
00:05:39.000 Body count?
00:05:40.000 Low.
00:05:43.000 I thought she was going to say loads then.
00:05:49.000 What about you?
00:05:54.000 What's your name?
00:05:55.000 Hi, I'm Sakena.
00:05:59.000 How old are you?
00:06:01.000 I'm 29.
00:06:02.000 I just turned 29.
00:06:03.000 Where are you from, Rosie?
00:06:06.000 Originally, I'm Moroccan.
00:06:08.000 Do you speak Arabic?
00:06:09.000 I speak Arabic.
00:06:13.000 Okay, what do you do for work?
00:06:14.000 Bless you.
00:06:15.000 I'm an entertainment showbiz journalist and presenter.
00:06:19.000 Okay, journalist?
00:06:20.000 Yeah, a presenter.
00:06:21.000 And a presenter.
00:06:22.000 When you say presenter, what do you mean?
00:06:24.000 Like host.
00:06:25.000 Okay, like on a news show or something?
00:06:27.000 Yeah.
00:06:28.000 Okay.
00:06:28.000 Like an anchor?
00:06:30.000 Yeah, entertainment news, e-news style kind of thing.
00:06:34.000 Okay.
00:06:35.000 Highest education level completed?
00:06:36.000 Bachelor's degree.
00:06:38.000 That's the 16 to 18 thing?
00:06:41.000 No, that's university.
00:06:42.000 Oh, university degree.
00:06:43.000 Okay.
00:06:44.000 What did you major in?
00:06:45.000 Journalism.
00:06:46.000 Okay.
00:06:47.000 And that's four years or five years?
00:06:50.000 Three years.
00:06:51.000 Okay.
00:06:52.000 So the bachelor degree for you guys is three years?
00:06:55.000 It's three years, usually.
00:06:56.000 Okay.
00:06:59.000 Relationship status?
00:07:00.000 Single and protecting my peace.
00:07:03.000 Wait, that's new.
00:07:05.000 Yeah, I got an update for you.
00:07:07.000 Yeah, well, we'll have to chat.
00:07:09.000 But I'm single, newly single, yeah.
00:07:11.000 Question, who bought those Van Cleese bracelets for you?
00:07:14.000 No, I bought these.
00:07:15.000 All for yourself?
00:07:16.000 Yeah.
00:07:17.000 How much piece?
00:07:19.000 How much a piece?
00:07:20.000 How much it costs?
00:07:21.000 I don't know.
00:07:21.000 I just get it from my jeweler.
00:07:23.000 My Lebanese jeweler.
00:07:25.000 You don't know the cost of it?
00:07:26.000 Yeah, they're not expensive.
00:07:28.000 They're not like Van Cleef.
00:07:29.000 They're like 18 karat gold designed in Van Cleef.
00:07:32.000 Okay.
00:07:33.000 So I don't go to the Van Cleef shop.
00:07:34.000 I just get gold.
00:07:36.000 Got it.
00:07:36.000 Okay.
00:07:37.000 All right.
00:07:38.000 He's a jewelry guy, as you can tell.
00:07:39.000 Are your parents together?
00:07:41.000 Yeah.
00:07:42.000 Yeah?
00:07:43.000 Okay.
00:07:43.000 How long?
00:07:45.000 30 years, probably?
00:07:46.000 Yeah, it was about 30 years, yeah.
00:07:49.000 And then, are you on birth control?
00:07:55.000 Come on, man!
00:07:56.000 Come on! 0.61
00:07:57.000 Tell us, man!
00:07:59.000 Come on! 0.61
00:07:59.000 No, not engaging in anything. 0.61
00:08:02.000 Okay.
00:08:03.000 So, keeping it natural.
00:08:05.000 Waiting for marriage.
00:08:10.000 Alright, what about you?
00:08:11.000 What's your name?
00:08:12.000 My name's Rihanna.
00:08:14.000 Okay.
00:08:14.000 Okay.
00:08:15.000 How old are you?
00:08:16.000 I'm 26.
00:08:17.000 Where are you from?
00:08:19.000 Northwest London.
00:08:20.000 Okay.
00:08:21.000 Is that a good area?
00:08:23.000 A little bit dangerous, a bit of pee-pee sometimes.
00:08:27.000 Gotcha.
00:08:28.000 Oh wait, question for you.
00:08:29.000 Are you actually from Morocco or did you grow up in London?
00:08:33.000 I was born in Spain and grew up in London.
00:08:35.000 Okay, but you're Moroccan descent but you grew up here.
00:08:37.000 Yeah, my parents.
00:08:38.000 Okay.
00:08:39.000 What about you?
00:08:40.000 What's your like background, like ethnic background?
00:08:42.000 Ghana, West Africa.
00:08:43.000 Okay.
00:08:44.000 But you grew up in London?
00:08:45.000 Yes, I did.
00:08:46.000 Okay.
00:08:48.000 See, people here are like...
00:08:50.000 The people here...
00:08:50.000 Are you first generation or second generation?
00:08:52.000 I am...
00:08:53.000 My dad was born here.
00:08:54.000 My mom wasn't.
00:08:55.000 So I don't know what that makes me.
00:08:57.000 Second?
00:08:57.000 Second generation?
00:08:59.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:08:59.000 See, people know their roots here.
00:09:01.000 First, like, in America, it's like, oh, I'm just a nigga, bro.
00:09:04.000 By the way, there's only one Rihanna, by the way. 0.79
00:09:07.000 Who's that?
00:09:07.000 She's from Barbados.
00:09:08.000 But continue.
00:09:10.000 I believe her name's Robin.
00:09:13.000 We know her as Rihanna. 1.00
00:09:15.000 Rihanna's on my birth certificate.
00:09:17.000 Come on.
00:09:18.000 Come on.
00:09:20.000 Her real name is Robin, right?
00:09:22.000 Yeah. 1.00
00:09:23.000 Oh, shit. 1.00
00:09:24.000 Why the hell did she take the Rihanna name then? 1.00
00:09:25.000 It's better.
00:09:26.000 All right.
00:09:27.000 What do you do for work?
00:09:28.000 I'm a cardiac physiologist.
00:09:30.000 Oh, okay.
00:09:31.000 All right.
00:09:33.000 What does that entail?
00:09:35.000 Do you do the duties?
00:09:38.000 So, we work with patients with known or suspected heart disease.
00:09:41.000 We do things like program pacemakers, exercise treadmill tests on Premier League footballers.
00:09:46.000 We put stents in coronary arteries, like people who've presented with heart attacks, and yeah, just like that.
00:09:53.000 So, like, do, just so I understand, like, so they go see a doctor or a cardiologist, whatever it may be, follow-up care, et cetera, you guys handle that?
00:10:03.000 And monitoring?
00:10:04.000 It's the other way.
00:10:05.000 So, they may go see their general practitioner.
00:10:08.000 They say the patient presents with two weeks worth of chest pain.
00:10:11.000 The general practitioner will then triage them to cardiology.
00:10:15.000 Then the cardiac physiologist, so they'll see a cardiologist just for the general rundown of their medical history.
00:10:22.000 Then they'll refer them to cardiac physiologists who do all the diagnostic imaging tests, like ultrasounds of the heart.
00:10:29.000 Gotcha.
00:10:29.000 And all of that.
00:10:30.000 Can they prescribe anything?
00:10:31.000 We cannot.
00:10:32.000 Okay.
00:10:33.000 All right.
00:10:33.000 Because I was trying to figure out the reason why I asked that.
00:10:36.000 Because in America, we have a profession that's blown up called the physician's assistant.
00:10:39.000 To replace doctors.
00:10:41.000 I don't know if that's a thing here in the UK. I was going to apply for that, yes, I'm aware.
00:10:44.000 So you guys do have that here too?
00:10:45.000 Very new, yes, compared to America. 0.99
00:10:48.000 Profession exploding because it's too expensive to hire goddamn doctors. 0.99
00:10:51.000 Is that people who can prescribe medication but they're not an actual doctor? 0.99
00:10:54.000 Yes.
00:10:54.000 Yeah, they are starting to do that, aren't they now?
00:10:56.000 Yeah, it's more common.
00:10:57.000 But they're facing a lot of backlash from the actual junior doctors because here the junior doctors, or the doctors in general, they go through at least six years worth of education.
00:11:07.000 Right.
00:11:07.000 And as a physician's associate, you do your undergraduate degree, and then you could branch into that in two years.
00:11:15.000 It's basically a mass degree.
00:11:17.000 It's like a shortcut.
00:11:17.000 And a lot of schools have it, because my school had it, where you literally, it's an accelerated program.
00:11:23.000 You could be done in five and a half, six years, and you'll get out with your bachelor's and with your PA. One shot.
00:11:28.000 You just hit the worst field.
00:11:29.000 So I can see why that would piss.
00:11:31.000 Imagine you go to med school in America, which costs hundreds of thousands of dollars, and this guy's over here prescribing people medicine and stuff like that, just like you would do, and they would have half the schooling you do.
00:11:41.000 But they do a lot of the doctors, we say, kind of like dirty work.
00:11:46.000 Oh, you guys do?
00:11:48.000 Or you mean physicians?
00:11:49.000 Physicians.
00:11:50.000 The physician associates, yeah.
00:11:52.000 So they do all the paperwork and the hard stuff, basically.
00:11:55.000 Nurse and anesthetist, same thing.
00:11:57.000 They do a lot of the work for the anesthesiologist, but they make the big money.
00:12:00.000 Okay, all right.
00:12:01.000 So you guys do the follow-up care from whatever the cardiologist suggests?
00:12:05.000 Yeah, the diagnostic care, and then we refer them to whatever they need to write reports to the doctor, and the doctor then does the diagnosis.
00:12:13.000 All right, cool, cool.
00:12:15.000 And then highest education?
00:12:16.000 Bachelor of Science.
00:12:17.000 Okay.
00:12:19.000 Um, and then relationship status?
00:12:21.000 Single!
00:12:22.000 Alright.
00:12:23.000 Fantastic.
00:12:23.000 Are your parents still together?
00:12:24.000 Um, they split up 2019, but they were married for 30 years, yeah.
00:12:29.000 Oh, recently?
00:12:29.000 30 years.
00:12:29.000 Yeah.
00:12:30.000 Okay.
00:12:31.000 So you were, they, okay, they were together your whole adolescence and childhood?
00:12:36.000 Uh-huh, yeah.
00:12:36.000 So they got out in your adult life?
00:12:38.000 Yeah, exactly.
00:12:39.000 They were very present, both of them, in my, um, household growing up.
00:12:42.000 Okay.
00:12:43.000 Uh, birth control?
00:12:44.000 Nope.
00:12:44.000 Alright.
00:12:45.000 What about you?
00:12:47.000 They're natural, bro.
00:12:48.000 Yeah.
00:12:49.000 What about you?
00:12:49.000 What's your name?
00:12:50.000 My name is Anna.
00:12:52.000 Okay.
00:12:53.000 How old are you, Anna?
00:12:54.000 I'm 33.
00:12:55.000 Okay.
00:12:56.000 Where are you from?
00:12:57.000 I'm from Riga in Latvia and also Moscow, Russia.
00:13:01.000 Okay.
00:13:02.000 Did you grow up there?
00:13:04.000 In Moscow and I moved to London when I was 17 to study.
00:13:10.000 Okay.
00:13:10.000 So you did high school.
00:13:12.000 Did you do high school in Russia?
00:13:13.000 Yes.
00:13:14.000 Okay.
00:13:14.000 And then you came here for university maybe?
00:13:17.000 Yeah.
00:13:17.000 Okay, but you said Moscow?
00:13:20.000 Yeah.
00:13:21.000 Do you have a Russian and a Latvian passport?
00:13:25.000 Both?
00:13:25.000 No, just Latvian because they don't allow to have a dual one with Russia.
00:13:30.000 Really?
00:13:31.000 Okay, alright.
00:13:33.000 I chose to keep the European one.
00:13:36.000 Yeah, you wanted to keep the European one.
00:13:37.000 Okay, Latvia has a European Union passport.
00:13:40.000 Yeah.
00:13:40.000 Okay, that makes sense.
00:13:43.000 What do you do for work?
00:13:45.000 I'm a contemporary artist and curator, but mostly artist.
00:13:50.000 Okay, so what kind of art do you do?
00:13:53.000 Abstract expressionism.
00:13:55.000 I have synesthesia, so I paint a lot of sound stuff.
00:14:00.000 It's painting, but I use sound.
00:14:02.000 Sometimes I do performances.
00:14:04.000 Do you get paid for your art?
00:14:06.000 Yeah.
00:14:07.000 Good money?
00:14:08.000 Not yet.
00:14:10.000 Okay.
00:14:11.000 And then what was the other thing you said?
00:14:12.000 You said you're an artist, and you mentioned something else.
00:14:14.000 I curate exhibitions as well, but mainly...
00:14:18.000 Curate, I'm sorry, what?
00:14:19.000 Like, organize exhibitions.
00:14:21.000 I still run the art show, basically, or hosted.
00:14:23.000 Oh, okay.
00:14:24.000 Our exhibitions.
00:14:25.000 Yeah.
00:14:25.000 Okay.
00:14:26.000 Yeah.
00:14:26.000 Okay.
00:14:27.000 So if there's a gallery or something, people want to exhibit their work, you'll organize it?
00:14:32.000 Yeah.
00:14:33.000 Okay.
00:14:34.000 Highest education level completed?
00:14:36.000 Masters, Fine Art.
00:14:37.000 And you did that here?
00:14:40.000 Yeah.
00:14:40.000 Where'd you get your degree from?
00:14:42.000 Central St.
00:14:43.000 Martins.
00:14:45.000 Wait, Central St.
00:14:46.000 Martins?
00:14:46.000 Yeah.
00:14:48.000 Isn't that an island?
00:14:50.000 Yeah, I was gonna say, isn't that an island?
00:14:51.000 Isn't that a Caribbean island?
00:14:53.000 No, Central Saint Martins.
00:14:55.000 It's here in London?
00:14:56.000 It's a famous art school actually.
00:14:58.000 It's a famous art school here in London?
00:14:59.000 Yeah, it's well known like art school.
00:15:04.000 That's why I'm asking these questions because obviously it's a different culture here.
00:15:08.000 You guys use different terms for professions and stuff so definitely want to make sure I know and the audience knows.
00:15:12.000 It's probably one of the top schools isn't it actually?
00:15:14.000 Yeah, but nowhere near as cool as RCA, Royal College of Art, but it used to be really good anyway back when I went.
00:15:24.000 At least you're certified.
00:15:26.000 Is that six years in school for that master's I'm guessing?
00:15:28.000 Or four or five since it's less time here?
00:15:31.000 Three years BA and two years MA. Relationship status?
00:15:37.000 Single.
00:15:39.000 I die alone.
00:15:42.000 Are your parents still together?
00:15:45.000 Sorry?
00:15:46.000 Are your parents still together?
00:15:47.000 No.
00:15:48.000 No?
00:15:48.000 Okay.
00:15:49.000 Birth control?
00:15:51.000 I tried it in the past, but it really fucked with my mental health and stuff, so I, like, you know, condoms are good. 0.84
00:15:58.000 Alright, fair enough. 0.99
00:15:59.000 I break you.
00:16:00.000 Okay.
00:16:04.000 But you grew up in Russia though, right?
00:16:08.000 Yes.
00:16:08.000 Is that where you grew up?
00:16:09.000 I am actually Russian.
00:16:11.000 Okay, so you are ethnically Russian.
00:16:13.000 Okay, fair enough.
00:16:14.000 And you speak, obviously, fluent.
00:16:16.000 Okay, both.
00:16:16.000 Alright, what about you?
00:16:17.000 What's your name?
00:16:18.000 Hi Myron, I'm Jennifer.
00:16:20.000 Okay, how old are you?
00:16:22.000 Thirty.
00:16:23.000 Okay, where are you from?
00:16:25.000 London.
00:16:26.000 Okay, what do you do for work?
00:16:27.000 Work in marketing.
00:16:29.000 I'm sorry, marketing.
00:16:30.000 Okay.
00:16:33.000 Social media?
00:16:35.000 What kind of marketing?
00:16:36.000 Kind of, yeah.
00:16:37.000 I work for a private client, so I market for her.
00:16:42.000 Her company, Finance Events.
00:16:45.000 It's like a finance events network.
00:16:47.000 Okay.
00:16:48.000 All right.
00:16:49.000 Highest education level completed?
00:16:52.000 A diploma.
00:16:53.000 Okay, so that would be the secondary school?
00:16:57.000 I went to fashion school.
00:17:00.000 So that would be, what was that term you guys use again?
00:17:03.000 College.
00:17:03.000 Yeah.
00:17:05.000 And that's the 16-18 one, right?
00:17:09.000 Yeah.
00:17:10.000 If I'm not mistaken.
00:17:12.000 To go to uni.
00:17:14.000 It's before uni.
00:17:15.000 It's right before uni.
00:17:16.000 Okay.
00:17:18.000 So, and then relationship status?
00:17:19.000 Angle.
00:17:20.000 Okay.
00:17:21.000 Are your parents still together?
00:17:22.000 No. 0.99
00:17:24.000 Okay, so that's really sad, god damn. 0.99
00:17:26.000 No! 0.99
00:17:27.000 No sir!
00:17:28.000 Are they divorced, I'm guessing?
00:17:29.000 Yes.
00:17:30.000 Okay.
00:17:31.000 And then, are you birth control?
00:17:32.000 No.
00:17:33.000 Okay.
00:17:35.000 Wait, am I the only one that's on birth control?
00:17:37.000 I don't even take it like that, but I'm trying.
00:17:40.000 We just ask.
00:17:41.000 It's just what we, yeah.
00:17:43.000 Okay, what about you?
00:17:46.000 Oh, sorry.
00:17:47.000 Oh, hi.
00:17:48.000 What's your name?
00:17:49.000 My name is Dinalva.
00:17:50.000 D-I-N-A-L-V-A. Din Alva. 1.00
00:17:54.000 Din Alva.
00:17:55.000 That's right.
00:17:56.000 Okay.
00:17:59.000 How old are you?
00:18:00.000 31.
00:18:01.000 31.
00:18:02.000 Oh, real quick.
00:18:03.000 What's your ethnic background?
00:18:04.000 My mom is Spanish.
00:18:05.000 My dad is English.
00:18:07.000 Spain?
00:18:07.000 Like Spain, Spain?
00:18:08.000 Yeah.
00:18:08.000 Okay.
00:18:09.000 And then English.
00:18:10.000 All right.
00:18:11.000 And then you, we know you're Russian.
00:18:13.000 Okay, Ghana and West Africa, right?
00:18:14.000 Yeah.
00:18:15.000 Okay, sorry.
00:18:15.000 What about you?
00:18:16.000 You said you're 31.
00:18:17.000 Where are you from originally?
00:18:18.000 I am also Angolan-Portuguese.
00:18:21.000 Are you guys friends?
00:18:24.000 You guys grew up in London together?
00:18:25.000 No, I don't know.
00:18:26.000 We've never met.
00:18:28.000 I don't know this bird.
00:18:31.000 Did you grow up in London or in Angola?
00:18:35.000 I grew up in Portugal.
00:18:36.000 In Portugal, okay.
00:18:38.000 Yeah.
00:18:38.000 Came to England when I was 12.
00:18:40.000 Okay.
00:18:41.000 But you went to high school and everything, well, sorry, secondary school and everything here.
00:18:44.000 Yeah, half there and then the rest here.
00:18:47.000 And then the rest of my education has been here as well.
00:18:48.000 Okay, so you probably speak at least, what, three languages, two?
00:18:52.000 I speak four.
00:18:53.000 Okay, Portuguese, English, Spanish and French.
00:18:56.000 And French, okay. 0.80
00:18:59.000 Because Portuguese is very similar to Spanish, right?
00:19:01.000 Latin roots.
00:19:02.000 Okay.
00:19:04.000 What do you do for it?
00:19:06.000 I am a behavior management educator.
00:19:09.000 I'm a community empowerment consultant and I also work in production and media with concept development.
00:19:17.000 Sounds fancy.
00:19:19.000 So your main gig is behavior management?
00:19:24.000 Yeah.
00:19:25.000 Kids, adults?
00:19:26.000 Young children, yeah, high school level.
00:19:28.000 When they're having issues, emotional issues, social issues, they come to me and I equip them with emotional management tools and autonomous learning.
00:19:36.000 Are we talking like teenage kids like in secondary school?
00:19:39.000 Yeah, from year 7 to year 11.
00:19:42.000 They go to you for emotional management.
00:19:44.000 Listen, let me tell you something very interesting.
00:19:47.000 You know something I don't.
00:19:52.000 I thought it.
00:19:54.000 But let me explain something that's so funny.
00:19:56.000 Do you know why they come to me for emotional composure or emotional, you know, regulation?
00:20:01.000 Because how many of the super chats hate on me and what do I do?
00:20:04.000 I sit down and I smile.
00:20:05.000 I've got the best composure here emotionally, but we'll test that after.
00:20:08.000 True, true.
00:20:09.000 Okay.
00:20:09.000 I'm better than you, mate.
00:20:10.000 Let's see, mate.
00:20:12.000 I'll put you to the test, lovely.
00:20:15.000 So real quick, so I make sure I have this.
00:20:16.000 You've been kicked out before.
00:20:18.000 Oh, but that was because King Richard has no...
00:20:20.000 Wait, let me explain.
00:20:22.000 The composure.
00:20:23.000 The composure there was on him.
00:20:26.000 He was upset with me, so he started to like get riled up and then he said, get out.
00:20:30.000 I said, okay.
00:20:31.000 And then he called me an op.
00:20:32.000 I said, you're an op too.
00:20:33.000 And then that's it.
00:20:34.000 So I was composed.
00:20:35.000 He was not.
00:20:36.000 He called you a what?
00:20:37.000 An op.
00:20:37.000 An op?
00:20:39.000 She's the op, man.
00:20:40.000 Opposition.
00:20:40.000 No, I know that, but that's normally like killing words, right?
00:20:45.000 Like you shoot your ops. 0.68
00:20:46.000 He thinks he's bad, that's why.
00:20:46.000 That's normal in London.
00:20:48.000 Or in this case, you guys snap them.
00:20:50.000 No, he thinks he's bad.
00:20:52.000 No, he thinks he's bad, that's why.
00:20:53.000 Okay, so you guys refer...
00:20:54.000 Oh, so, okay. 0.99
00:20:55.000 Because in America, if you say, oh, that's the op, that means we're going to shoot him. 0.99
00:20:57.000 Mm-hmm. 0.94
00:20:58.000 Well, I don't know.
00:20:59.000 Or in this case, you hear you guys stab, but...
00:21:01.000 I don't know.
00:21:02.000 Here it's all talk.
00:21:04.000 Alright, so I guess it's that deep.
00:21:06.000 Alright.
00:21:07.000 Okay, so behavior management.
00:21:08.000 And then you said you do something with production?
00:21:10.000 Yeah, I work in production with concept development.
00:21:13.000 So I come up with ideas for shows.
00:21:14.000 Okay.
00:21:15.000 And then what was the last thing you said?
00:21:17.000 Community empowerment consultations.
00:21:19.000 So anything that has to do with creating bridges of communication between grassroots and organizations.
00:21:24.000 So putting on projects.
00:21:25.000 Advising on policies and things like this to make sure that they're doing things that are productive and actually sustainably successful for the community.
00:21:33.000 Okay.
00:21:33.000 So you link grassroots?
00:21:35.000 Yeah.
00:21:36.000 So I've got three different sectors to what I do.
00:21:39.000 Okay.
00:21:40.000 Good job.
00:21:41.000 Okay.
00:21:41.000 Highest education level completed?
00:21:43.000 I've got a master's degree.
00:21:45.000 Okay.
00:21:46.000 In?
00:21:47.000 United States foreign policy.
00:21:54.000 We could get her advice.
00:21:56.000 And I got it first class, so maybe you should.
00:21:59.000 Did you get it here in the UK? Yeah.
00:22:02.000 They offer?
00:22:03.000 Okay.
00:22:04.000 Yeah, because you have to understand the United States is a superpower, so you have to have interest in understanding their foreign policy to understand what happens in the world.
00:22:11.000 Would you do that?
00:22:12.000 No, I did at University of Warwick.
00:22:14.000 Okay.
00:22:15.000 Okay, question for you.
00:22:16.000 Let's see how much they taught you in school.
00:22:18.000 Who runs America? 0.60
00:22:25.000 This is a dating podcast.
00:22:27.000 Keep it off track here.
00:22:29.000 Listen, remember, this is the thing.
00:22:30.000 It's very dangerous to ask me questions because I went to study U.S. foreign policy because to me they are the ops.
00:22:36.000 I'm Angolan, which means that we have, you know, connection with the Soviet Union from history.
00:22:40.000 So we have communist sort of like sympathies.
00:22:42.000 So I went to study U.S. foreign policy to understand my own history.
00:22:45.000 So I don't really, like, study it because I'm interested in the U.S. It's more to know what did they do to the world.
00:22:51.000 Okay.
00:22:51.000 Interesting.
00:22:52.000 Yeah.
00:22:52.000 Did you watch the Poon interview?
00:22:54.000 Oh, I didn't yet.
00:22:55.000 Oh, you didn't?
00:22:56.000 Come on, man.
00:22:57.000 I mean, listen, there's not much more that they can say that is new.
00:23:01.000 The rhetoric is the same.
00:23:02.000 Things don't change.
00:23:03.000 The only thing that's changing now is maybe, like, the political, you know, influence that is going more towards BRICS rather than the Western influence.
00:23:10.000 But, you know.
00:23:11.000 Let's just wait for another day.
00:23:12.000 That's interesting.
00:23:12.000 U.S. foreign policy.
00:23:14.000 Okay.
00:23:14.000 I might.
00:23:16.000 All right, we're on YouTube, so let's move on.
00:23:19.000 All right.
00:23:20.000 We want to get re-modified.
00:23:22.000 Yeah, yeah, right?
00:23:23.000 I guess.
00:23:23.000 I guess.
00:23:25.000 But we all know.
00:23:27.000 Okay, and then are your parents still together?
00:23:30.000 No, my dad passed away when I was 12.
00:23:32.000 Oh, my condolences.
00:23:33.000 Thank you.
00:23:34.000 And then birth control?
00:23:35.000 No.
00:23:36.000 Okay.
00:23:37.000 So they were together when you passed?
00:23:39.000 Your mom was widowed?
00:23:40.000 Yeah.
00:23:41.000 Okay.
00:23:41.000 Wait, dating status?
00:23:43.000 I don't want to break any hearts, so I can't say it.
00:23:47.000 You kind of have already.
00:23:49.000 I don't know.
00:23:50.000 I just left it ambiguous.
00:23:51.000 You know, create a mystery.
00:23:53.000 But there's some guy watching now who's like, well, where do I stand?
00:23:57.000 And there'll be one watching thinking, oh my god, is she talking about me?
00:24:03.000 There'll be a few.
00:24:04.000 Why don't you hear composure?
00:24:06.000 Just tell us the answer.
00:24:07.000 Be composed.
00:24:08.000 What do you mean?
00:24:10.000 Yes or no?
00:24:11.000 I mean, my composed answer is, I don't want to break any hearts, so I'm not going to go into that.
00:24:15.000 You that is watching, it might be you that is the one, or it might not be you, I don't know.
00:24:20.000 Well, maybe send me a text to find out.
00:24:22.000 How many hearts potentially could be broken?
00:24:24.000 This is the energy I'm trying to have.
00:24:25.000 Donalva, do you want to tell them your plan for what you want to do when you get married?
00:24:30.000 The houses?
00:24:31.000 Well, to be honest, this is what I said.
00:24:33.000 As far as I'm concerned, I don't think that there's a need for a man to be in the house 24-7.
00:24:38.000 In my culture, a successful man that has a successful, you know, family, most of the time he's working internationally anyway.
00:24:46.000 So a woman has her own home and he has his own space. 0.95
00:24:49.000 Not that deep.
00:24:51.000 Yeah, I agree.
00:24:52.000 Yeah.
00:24:52.000 See?
00:24:53.000 Less headaches.
00:24:54.000 Come on, I'm sure many guys would wish that girls would say these things, because then they can play their games alone, have their own space, and not have headaches all the time. 0.78
00:25:01.000 Blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:25:02.000 Okay.
00:25:03.000 Alright, so single.
00:25:04.000 Fantastic.
00:25:06.000 You know what that means, right?
00:25:09.000 I don't want to break any hearts.
00:25:11.000 How many hearts potentially could be broken?
00:25:13.000 Are we talking like one, two, three?
00:25:16.000 Okay, so I have to be very, very honest.
00:25:18.000 Is there a roster?
00:25:19.000 Not a roster.
00:25:20.000 I don't actually entertain men like that, but there's a lot of men that are courting me and they're trying to kind of get me towards that stage.
00:25:26.000 I love that for you.
00:25:27.000 Orbiters.
00:25:28.000 No, but it's annoying at the same time.
00:25:30.000 It's amazing.
00:25:30.000 It's fun, because, you know, I can transition into opportunities.
00:25:32.000 We can just translate the nominees.
00:25:33.000 Yeah, basically, yeah.
00:25:34.000 What did you say?
00:25:35.000 What was your translation?
00:25:36.000 Friendzone.
00:25:37.000 Friendzone.
00:25:38.000 Guys in the friendzone.
00:25:38.000 More like business zone.
00:25:41.000 Single, not virtual.
00:25:42.000 They're paying.
00:25:43.000 Even worse, Business Zone.
00:25:45.000 That's even worse.
00:25:47.000 What about you?
00:25:49.000 What's your name?
00:25:49.000 Troy Francis.
00:25:50.000 Oh no, I was going to say the girl behind you, Troy.
00:25:52.000 Oh, okay.
00:25:53.000 We saved the best for last, man.
00:25:55.000 Y'all two go last.
00:25:56.000 Absolutely.
00:25:56.000 What about you?
00:25:57.000 Yeah, my name is Bebe.
00:25:59.000 Bebe.
00:25:59.000 Okay.
00:25:59.000 How old are you, Bebe?
00:26:01.000 46.
00:26:02.000 Okay.
00:26:03.000 Where are you from originally?
00:26:04.000 I'm originally from Mauritius.
00:26:06.000 I'm sorry?
00:26:07.000 Mauritius.
00:26:07.000 Mauritius?
00:26:08.000 Yeah.
00:26:08.000 Where's that?
00:26:09.000 It's like, yeah, it's like on the east coast of Africa and there's Madagascar in the middle of the Indian Ocean.
00:26:15.000 I like Big.
00:26:17.000 Thank you.
00:26:22.000 Don't spend attention here.
00:26:23.000 Madagascar from the movie.
00:26:24.000 It's next to, yeah, it's next to the Seychelles.
00:26:27.000 Okay.
00:26:27.000 The Seychelles Islands.
00:26:28.000 All right.
00:26:29.000 What do you do for work?
00:26:31.000 So I work with...
00:26:33.000 Young people at risk of exclusion from school.
00:26:37.000 And I also represent up-and-coming artists in the music industry.
00:26:40.000 Okay, so you work with troubled youth, probably in the teen years?
00:26:44.000 Yes.
00:26:45.000 Alright.
00:26:45.000 Who's your top artist right now that you're working with?
00:26:47.000 In the music industry.
00:26:50.000 I work for a record label as well, part-time, and we manage Big Nasty.
00:26:55.000 Okay.
00:26:56.000 Nice.
00:26:58.000 Alright, cool.
00:27:00.000 And then, did you grow up in London?
00:27:02.000 Or in Mauritius.
00:27:05.000 Where'd you go to secondary school?
00:27:07.000 Secondary school, London.
00:27:08.000 Okay.
00:27:10.000 And then...
00:27:10.000 Highest education level completed?
00:27:13.000 I have a teaching qualification from university.
00:27:19.000 Okay.
00:27:19.000 It's just like a qualification to teach up to NVQ level 2.
00:27:23.000 But you got like a degree then?
00:27:25.000 It's like equivalent of half a degree.
00:27:28.000 Okay.
00:27:29.000 Man, the UK is so different.
00:27:30.000 Okay.
00:27:32.000 It's so different with the education system here.
00:27:35.000 It's like they keep them in longer to finesse more money.
00:27:37.000 Do you guys have to pay for college here?
00:27:38.000 No.
00:27:39.000 No.
00:27:39.000 Oh, it's free still.
00:27:40.000 We have to pay the debt of Unibot.
00:27:43.000 No, you pay tuition fees though.
00:27:45.000 I think you pay for books, right?
00:27:47.000 And tuition fees?
00:27:47.000 Pay tuition fees, yeah.
00:27:49.000 For uni and college.
00:27:50.000 It really depends on...
00:27:52.000 But it's cheaper than in the US. Yeah, in uni here, you get student loans that allow you to kind of go to university up until master's level.
00:27:59.000 They have the same system in Barbados as well.
00:28:01.000 Barbados is the same thing.
00:28:02.000 And then you just pay only back maybe £50 after you start making over £25,000 a year.
00:28:07.000 So it's quite nice.
00:28:08.000 It's a good deal.
00:28:09.000 Yeah, like my master's was...
00:28:11.000 Like $15,000?
00:28:13.000 Here.
00:28:13.000 Yeah, compared to like it would be much more.
00:28:16.000 Way more.
00:28:17.000 And mine's more expensive because I'm from the U.S. Yeah, you don't get that in-state tuition thing we get in America.
00:28:25.000 Okay.
00:28:27.000 I did have a small volleyball scholarship, so it might be a little more.
00:28:31.000 They make their money from the international students.
00:28:33.000 They charge a lot more for international students than for U.K. students.
00:28:38.000 Relationship status with you?
00:28:40.000 In a relationship.
00:28:42.000 Okay, how long have you been together?
00:28:44.000 I don't know.
00:28:46.000 I don't know.
00:28:48.000 About 20 years almost.
00:28:52.000 Wait, how old are you?
00:28:54.000 I'm 46.
00:28:56.000 We met when I was 25.
00:28:59.000 Where'd you guys meet?
00:29:02.000 When I came back from America, so here in the UK, in London.
00:29:08.000 Off and on!
00:29:09.000 She was in a relationship since Linkin Park was popular. 1.00
00:29:13.000 What the fuck? 1.00
00:29:15.000 I tried so hard! 1.00
00:29:18.000 In the end, it doesn't even matter!
00:29:22.000 20 years, nothing! 1.00
00:29:23.000 Goddamn! 1.00
00:29:27.000 Okay. 0.99
00:29:27.000 Alright, Guest of Honor. 0.99
00:29:28.000 Britney Spears was still making music, I think. 0.52
00:29:31.000 Oh, this is 2004?
00:29:32.000 Hold on, what's going on?
00:29:33.000 TI just came out!
00:29:34.000 Yo! 1.00
00:29:36.000 Yo, no me.
00:29:37.000 Yeah, man.
00:29:38.000 Back in the day.
00:29:39.000 24s. 1.00
00:29:40.000 Damn. 1.00
00:29:41.000 Okay. 0.99
00:29:41.000 Well, we're at 2024 now. 0.99
00:29:43.000 Guest of Honor.
00:29:44.000 Are your parents still together?
00:29:44.000 Sorry, last one.
00:29:46.000 They're not around.
00:29:47.000 They both passed away.
00:29:48.000 Oh, my condolences.
00:29:50.000 And then birth control?
00:29:52.000 No.
00:29:53.000 Okay.
00:29:54.000 I'm not going to really...
00:29:55.000 Yeah, it's really hard to get pregnant my age.
00:29:57.000 Fair enough.
00:29:58.000 Very hard.
00:29:59.000 Fair enough.
00:30:01.000 Okay.
00:30:01.000 And then the guest of honour?
00:30:03.000 Troy Francis, dating coach, 21 years old.
00:30:09.000 I'm now back with my girl, so I'm in a relationship as we speak.
00:30:15.000 So very, very new.
00:30:17.000 A new one?
00:30:18.000 No, it's from a previous...
00:30:21.000 It's from a while back.
00:30:23.000 Okay.
00:30:23.000 So we've just reunited.
00:30:24.000 So I was out with her before the show.
00:30:25.000 I knew it was going to happen.
00:30:27.000 Yeah, you kind of knew, didn't you?
00:30:28.000 He talked about it once.
00:30:29.000 I think I know.
00:30:29.000 I'm not going to say it on air because I know you like to keep that.
00:30:31.000 Yeah.
00:30:32.000 Yeah, exactly.
00:30:32.000 Yeah.
00:30:33.000 So we just recently kind of reunited.
00:30:36.000 Kind of Valentine's kind of thing, you know.
00:30:37.000 Okay.
00:30:38.000 Yeah.
00:30:38.000 After how long?
00:30:39.000 Three years. 1.00
00:30:40.000 Oh, damn. 1.00
00:30:41.000 Yeah. 1.00
00:30:42.000 Okay.
00:30:42.000 All right.
00:30:42.000 Who reinitiated it?
00:30:43.000 Yeah.
00:30:45.000 I kind of reached out.
00:30:49.000 You put the feelers out.
00:30:50.000 I put the feelers out.
00:30:51.000 I put the feelers out.
00:30:52.000 I sent a little text because it was her birthday.
00:30:53.000 She responded.
00:30:55.000 We started talking and one thing led to another.
00:30:58.000 Of course.
00:30:59.000 In other words, she couldn't find better than you.
00:31:02.000 We know what that means.
00:31:04.000 Well, he messaged her.
00:31:05.000 Maybe you couldn't find better than her then.
00:31:07.000 Yeah, but girls are stubborn. 1.00
00:31:08.000 They're not going to message you a lot of the times.
00:31:10.000 And then did you break up with her?
00:31:13.000 It was, well, ancient history, man.
00:31:16.000 It was kind of, I did some things that maybe she wasn't too happy about.
00:31:20.000 She left Joey.
00:31:22.000 She couldn't take him having other women. 1.00
00:31:26.000 Okay.
00:31:27.000 I mean, he's a Chad.
00:31:28.000 James Bond.
00:31:30.000 And Pearl.
00:31:31.000 Hello!
00:31:32.000 Hey! 0.99
00:31:33.000 Wait, try your own birth control?
00:31:35.000 As little as possible.
00:31:37.000 Alright, cool.
00:31:38.000 Just wanted to check and keep it quality, sorry.
00:31:40.000 Okay, alright.
00:31:42.000 Is there even birth control for guys, really?
00:31:45.000 There is now.
00:31:46.000 I know there's a pill that they're working on.
00:31:48.000 I guess you could say, do you like to use...
00:31:50.000 Condoms?
00:31:51.000 Yeah.
00:31:51.000 Yeah.
00:31:52.000 No.
00:31:55.000 Fair enough.
00:31:56.000 So this is a long time coming.
00:31:58.000 Yeah.
00:31:58.000 We've been off of the camera together for, what, almost two, three years now?
00:32:03.000 So this is Welcome Back, Pearl.
00:32:05.000 Yeah, thanks.
00:32:06.000 Thanks for having me.
00:32:07.000 Yeah.
00:32:07.000 Thank you for opening up your studio for us.
00:32:09.000 We appreciate that greatly.
00:32:11.000 Yeah.
00:32:11.000 Do you want to introduce yourself to the people for those that might not know who you are?
00:32:15.000 I think they know who you are.
00:32:16.000 Yeah, so my name's Pearl.
00:32:17.000 I'm 27.
00:32:19.000 I play volleyball here in the UK. Other than that, I'm unemployed because I'm demonetized.
00:32:27.000 What were the other questions?
00:32:29.000 Dating status?
00:32:29.000 Yeah, yeah.
00:32:30.000 I just started dating someone.
00:32:35.000 You have to tell us.
00:32:38.000 Is he a member of the BBC gang?
00:32:40.000 Is he?
00:32:41.000 Definitely.
00:32:46.000 You can't keep it to yourself. 0.98
00:32:47.000 Just say it, nigga! 1.00
00:32:49.000 No, no. 1.00
00:32:50.000 He's not black? 0.98
00:32:51.000 No, he's not black.
00:32:52.000 Is he English?
00:32:55.000 Is he taller than you?
00:32:56.000 I don't want the internet to stop.
00:32:58.000 Is he taller than you?
00:32:59.000 I don't want to answer a ton of questions just because I don't want the...
00:33:03.000 And it's new.
00:33:03.000 The internet will harass them.
00:33:06.000 So he's a regular guy?
00:33:07.000 Yeah, he's a normal guy.
00:33:08.000 And taller than you or what?
00:33:09.000 We're the same height.
00:33:11.000 Well, at least...
00:33:12.000 Does he get angry?
00:33:17.000 Do you want to speak on that, or no?
00:33:19.000 It's up to you.
00:33:21.000 What?
00:33:23.000 This dude made the reference to angry, you know what that means.
00:33:26.000 Yeah, like, what do I want to talk about?
00:33:29.000 I don't know.
00:33:29.000 Okay, never mind.
00:33:30.000 Y'all haven't been together in years, right?
00:33:32.000 Yeah, no, that was like years ago, so...
00:33:35.000 Move on, move on.
00:33:37.000 Okay, anyway.
00:33:40.000 Yeah, what was that?
00:33:41.000 Birth control.
00:33:42.000 Birth control.
00:33:43.000 No, no birth control.
00:33:43.000 And then your body count.
00:33:47.000 Y'all got some beavers on?
00:33:49.000 Like you two?
00:33:50.000 No, no, no.
00:33:51.000 We love to hate each other.
00:33:54.000 We hate to love each other.
00:33:55.000 Born again virgin, so zero.
00:33:58.000 Alright, cool.
00:34:02.000 And obviously you have a YouTube channel as well.
00:34:05.000 And so do you, Troy.
00:34:06.000 So guys, go check them out on YouTube as well.
00:34:08.000 Troy Francis and Pearl.
00:34:10.000 Yeah, I've got a channel called The Dating Game with Troy Francis that I'm doing with Pearl as well.
00:34:14.000 Okay, sweet.
00:34:15.000 Good, good, good.
00:34:16.000 You guys, obviously you guys are here in London so I might as well work it out.
00:34:19.000 Cool, so I'll turn it over to actually, we got a question first or I can read the chats?
00:34:25.000 We can read the chats.
00:34:25.000 The chats?
00:34:26.000 Okay, so I'll read some of these chats and then I think, Pearl, do you have the first one or was it with Troy?
00:34:30.000 I know one of y'all had it.
00:34:32.000 Do you want to ask a question first?
00:34:33.000 Yeah, I'll ask a question first.
00:34:34.000 Okay, you had something?
00:34:35.000 Okay, if not then I could do it but That's like a standard thing over here.
00:34:40.000 We always give the guests the first right of refusal for a question.
00:34:43.000 Okay, why do I gotta read them?
00:34:46.000 You know why.
00:34:47.000 Bro, come on, man.
00:34:48.000 Okay, alright.
00:34:50.000 Them boys?
00:34:51.000 Oh, WFNF as always, but quick question.
00:34:53.000 Why y'all bring this grifter pro on? 1.00
00:34:54.000 Oh, shit. 1.00
00:34:55.000 She made a hit piece on y'all when you guys were at your lowest. 1.00
00:34:58.000 We didn't forget she tried bullying y'all. 1.00
00:35:00.000 Fuck... 1.00
00:35:02.000 Bro, goddamn Dembo, you have anything you want to say that obviously is from Rumble? 1.00
00:35:05.000 No, I mean, I was wrong. 0.99
00:35:07.000 I apologized.
00:35:07.000 So I will say live on air that I'm sorry for that.
00:35:11.000 You know, I was wrong.
00:35:12.000 And guys, we spoke.
00:35:15.000 She definitely, you know, she's apologized for the better part of year plus, man.
00:35:19.000 And here's the thing.
00:35:20.000 I think once it happened to her, too.
00:35:22.000 Myron hung up on me the first time.
00:35:25.000 She called me.
00:35:26.000 I saw this new camera.
00:35:27.000 I was like, who's this?
00:35:29.000 And then she was like, oh yeah, it's Pearl.
00:35:30.000 I just hung up.
00:35:32.000 But, hey man, like I said, you guys have been asking for it forever, right?
00:35:36.000 And you guys are like, yo, like, collab with Pearl, blah, blah, blah.
00:35:38.000 Like, you know, you guys are on the same team, blah, blah, blah.
00:35:41.000 And, you know, she is doing good.
00:35:42.000 She's helping a lot of people out.
00:35:43.000 You're really working on it. 1.00
00:35:44.000 Oh, shit. 0.99
00:35:45.000 I don't know if I should say it out loud. 1.00
00:35:47.000 You're working on something.
00:35:48.000 Divorce documentary?
00:35:49.000 Okay, yes.
00:35:50.000 I've talked about that.
00:35:51.000 Okay.
00:35:51.000 Do you want to say something about that real quick?
00:35:53.000 Well, it's not out yet.
00:35:54.000 We're working on it.
00:35:55.000 Okay.
00:35:56.000 But, like, what does it cover?
00:35:57.000 Oh, basically just...
00:36:00.000 I don't know.
00:36:00.000 When I started this thing and I came on your show three years ago, I didn't understand why men didn't want to get married.
00:36:06.000 You know, my parents have been married 30 years.
00:36:08.000 They built a business together.
00:36:09.000 I really didn't understand it.
00:36:12.000 And it's just me like researching why that is and like telling stories of men that have really been negatively affected by the court system.
00:36:20.000 And it's really sad.
00:36:22.000 You can't hear these stories and not have it change your point of view.
00:36:25.000 Yeah.
00:36:26.000 And yeah, I will say Yeah, being put in you guys' shoes, oh my gosh. 0.99
00:36:32.000 Yeah, because everyone turned on you over some bullshit, too, after doing an interview. 0.97
00:36:37.000 Well, and I used to think you guys were really harsh, but it is so hard to control a room. 0.98
00:36:42.000 I used to not understand why you didn't say things nicer, and then I was in your shoes, and I'm like, oh my gosh, this is impossible.
00:36:49.000 Yeah, it's something that very few people will ever understand or grasp, like when you're running a podcast with a bunch of people that aren't creators themselves and don't have mic etiquette, it's a different world, but I mean, I get it.
00:36:59.000 And there's a bunch of other things, too, that Pearl's been helping us out with behind the scenes.
00:37:02.000 So, hey, man, it is what it is.
00:37:04.000 She apologized, guys.
00:37:05.000 So, it is what it is. 0.99
00:37:07.000 Oh, damn. 1.00
00:37:08.000 ThreeDiglas says, fuck, Pearl. 1.00
00:37:09.000 Well, goddamn, nigga. 1.00
00:37:10.000 What the fuck? 1.00
00:37:12.000 Wait, what did they say? 1.00
00:37:13.000 He said, fuck, Pearl. 1.00
00:37:14.000 Them niggas go in there. 1.00
00:37:15.000 Oh, that's why you don't want me to read this.
00:37:17.000 That's why you don't want me to read this.
00:37:17.000 No, it's okay.
00:37:18.000 They can.
00:37:19.000 I don't get offended.
00:37:20.000 For everybody that says, like, F, Pearl, it's funny, because, like, I'd have, like, five or ten people, why did you guys collab?
00:37:26.000 Blah, blah, blah.
00:37:27.000 Well, I'll tell you this.
00:37:28.000 Right now, she's helping us a lot.
00:37:29.000 This is a big help.
00:37:30.000 Facts.
00:37:31.000 Also, I see Pearl and FNF hash things out.
00:37:33.000 Absolutely, guys.
00:37:34.000 Actually, I'll tell you guys this.
00:37:36.000 I buried the hatchet with someone else that you guys may or may not know, so we'll see something coming very soon for y'all.
00:37:42.000 I'm confused.
00:37:43.000 Why are you collabing with Pearl?
00:37:44.000 Help me understand.
00:37:45.000 Like I said before, she's on the same team, guys. 0.99
00:37:47.000 All loser UK podcast bitches on today. 1.00
00:37:49.000 Goddamn, man. 1.00
00:37:50.000 They talk shit about y'all. 1.00
00:37:52.000 Sunny Thera goes, I'm glad the Ghanaian girl didn't get circumcised. 1.00
00:38:00.000 Sunny Thera again goes, our student means whore in England. 1.00
00:38:03.000 What the fuck, bro? 1.00
00:38:05.000 SussgodFBS goes, yeah, our audience is different, man. 1.00
00:38:08.000 Don't worry, they make fun of us, too.
00:38:10.000 Sussgod goes, how did y'all find a panel full of ladies just as mid as Pearl? 1.00
00:38:14.000 I love Pearl.
00:38:17.000 Danava, you're an old crusty horde that overestimates her intelligence, unlike the Ghanaian girl. 1.00
00:38:22.000 I do wish you were circumcised. 1.00
00:38:23.000 What the fuck, bro? 1.00
00:38:24.000 What does he mean by circumcised? 1.00
00:38:28.000 It's Sunny Thera.
00:38:29.000 Do you know who Sunny Thera is?
00:38:30.000 I don't know who Sunny Thera is, but I'll tell you something, honey.
00:38:33.000 I speak different languages.
00:38:34.000 I can teach you to speak English too, darling. 0.99
00:38:38.000 Durek Meyer goes, let's fucking go. 0.96
00:38:40.000 About time for FNF and just probably things in it. 1.00
00:38:42.000 Meyer going to be taking the piss on these Muppets.
00:38:45.000 Love you, Pearl. 0.99
00:38:45.000 Keep going bonkers on these whales. 0.99
00:38:47.000 In it.
00:38:47.000 Yeah, man.
00:38:48.000 Same team, same fight, bro.
00:38:49.000 Sometimes we got to put our egos aside. 1.00
00:38:51.000 Jay May goes, it's nice to see the women are just as horrible across the pond just with a shitty accent. 1.00
00:38:56.000 Okay. 0.99
00:38:57.000 And then various layers go, CEO Network, let's go. 1.00
00:38:58.000 And this is why your country is always going through bare shit. 1.00
00:39:00.000 Tell them. 1.00
00:39:01.000 I swear to God.
00:39:02.000 Tell them myself.
00:39:03.000 We don't ever go through what you guys go through and look how you guys treat other people and speak to people. 0.95
00:39:07.000 Horrible people.
00:39:08.000 Nah, for real.
00:39:09.000 What is this attitude?
00:39:10.000 Be kind.
00:39:11.000 You mean America?
00:39:12.000 Yeah.
00:39:12.000 Oh, Americans are mean, you mean?
00:39:13.000 Coming on violence. 0.83
00:39:14.000 I mean, I've met many Americans and I've loved them.
00:39:17.000 Oh, okay.
00:39:17.000 And they're real cool.
00:39:18.000 These comments, I'm just like, they're not even going that hard.
00:39:23.000 Y'all already getting triggered.
00:39:24.000 This is awesome.
00:39:25.000 You guys should see what they say about us, man.
00:39:28.000 They say it way worse.
00:39:28.000 Super Chats as well from FNF. It says, Kim Sheldon says, CEO Network Worldwide.
00:39:33.000 Shout out to you, bro.
00:39:33.000 Oh, that was just Rumble Rants.
00:39:34.000 Shout out to y'all.
00:39:48.000 Hold on, before we ask that, Troy, do you guys want to hit a question first?
00:39:52.000 Oh, we can start with that.
00:39:53.000 You want to start with that?
00:39:54.000 You guys sure?
00:39:54.000 Yeah, that's fine.
00:39:55.000 Okay.
00:39:55.000 All right.
00:39:55.000 So, long story short, this has been going viral on Twitter because I've been lurking at Twitter quite a bit.
00:40:00.000 Check me out on there, Unplugged Fidex.
00:40:02.000 And also check Pearl out on there, too.
00:40:03.000 She gets a lot.
00:40:03.000 She'd be going crazy on Twitter.
00:40:04.000 Yeah.
00:40:05.000 So, and it's just pearly things on there.
00:40:08.000 It's pearly things with a Z. Did you change your username?
00:40:14.000 No, they just didn't have the one I wanted.
00:40:16.000 They didn't have just pearly things, so I just put a Z on the end.
00:40:19.000 I was going to make a joke.
00:40:24.000 In England, they do authorize.
00:40:25.000 It annoys me. 0.99
00:40:25.000 Okay, I'm going to fucking say it. 0.99
00:40:26.000 You guys spell authorize and stuff like that here in England with an S instead of a Z. Yeah, yeah. 1.00
00:40:31.000 And I was like, what the fuck, man? 0.99
00:40:33.000 Authorised people? 1.00
00:40:35.000 I'm like, what the hell?
00:40:36.000 They spell things different.
00:40:37.000 Or flavour.
00:40:38.000 You guys spell flavour differently, too.
00:40:39.000 Colour.
00:40:40.000 Colour as well.
00:40:42.000 They also have toilets.
00:40:43.000 I'm like, bro, it's a bathroom.
00:40:45.000 What's toilets? 0.59
00:40:46.000 And they're called chips.
00:40:48.000 Crisps.
00:40:48.000 Crisps.
00:40:49.000 Yeah, that's right.
00:40:51.000 Fries called chips.
00:40:52.000 Yeah. 0.99
00:40:53.000 It's fucking weird, man. 0.99
00:40:55.000 And then you guys call pants, trousers. 0.99
00:40:58.000 And then you guys call sweaters or hoodies, jumpers.
00:41:01.000 And you guys call knickers and stuff, but you guys say pants.
00:41:08.000 The worst one is knickers. 0.98
00:41:14.000 The worst one was when I first got here.
00:41:20.000 People would come up to me and say, are you all right?
00:41:22.000 And I'm like, yeah, I'm not sick.
00:41:24.000 That's like, how are you here?
00:41:26.000 Are you all right?
00:41:27.000 You just don't reply.
00:41:28.000 It's like, you're right.
00:41:29.000 Are you all right?
00:41:31.000 And so I was really confused when I first got here because I'm like, do I look sick?
00:41:37.000 What's your name again?
00:41:38.000 Rihanna.
00:41:39.000 They'd be like, yo, Rihanna's a painting, you know?
00:41:43.000 So yeah, so it's been going viral on Twitter.
00:41:49.000 This guy basically divorced his wife because they were together for two years.
00:41:53.000 No, they didn't have sex for two years.
00:41:54.000 I think they were together for a total of five, if I'm not mistaken.
00:41:57.000 But either way, she hadn't given him sex for two years, and what she was doing was when she did offer him sex, he would have to complete chores to do it.
00:42:04.000 So in other words, she would, you know, You know, you need to pass my compliance test to get sex. 1.00
00:42:10.000 And then he divorced her for that.
00:42:12.000 Who's in the right and who's in the wrong here?
00:42:14.000 He's well within his right.
00:42:14.000 He is in the right.
00:42:15.000 Let's start here.
00:42:16.000 What are your thoughts on this?
00:42:17.000 I think he's in the right.
00:42:19.000 Unless you're both asexual people and you're not really someone that cares about physical touch and all that, then cool, understandable. 0.87
00:42:26.000 But if a man has got a need just as a woman's got need, and if it's not getting met, you have every right to leave that.
00:42:31.000 So knowing that, how should he solve the issue without leaving?
00:42:35.000 Like, how does he get the girl to...
00:42:37.000 Oh, they could have come to an agreement.
00:42:39.000 Why not be in an open relationship or have a polyamorous kind of thing and then let him do his thing.
00:42:44.000 If you don't want to lose him but you're not giving the man what he needs, then maybe change the way.
00:42:50.000 I think he cheated on her too.
00:42:51.000 For full transparency, I think he cheated on her as well.
00:42:54.000 If I'm not mistaken.
00:42:55.000 Is that why she withdrew sex? 0.99
00:42:56.000 Might have been. 0.88
00:42:57.000 I'm not sure.
00:42:58.000 Because that plays a factor.
00:42:59.000 There's always a reason.
00:43:00.000 That plays a factor.
00:43:02.000 But what if she's just an asexual? 0.82
00:43:04.000 What if she's an asexual or whatever and she's never really like said anything and before you know it. 0.77
00:43:08.000 I mean twice in two years.
00:43:09.000 What would be a good reason?
00:43:11.000 In two years?
00:43:13.000 She's cheating on him for sure. 1.00
00:43:14.000 She had a headache for two years.
00:43:17.000 Unless she could.
00:43:19.000 I don't know.
00:43:20.000 Even if he was cheating, okay, leave or get over it.
00:43:26.000 If you do the math, right?
00:43:27.000 That's 730 days.
00:43:29.000 Only two days he had sex out of two years.
00:43:31.000 That's crazy.
00:43:32.000 And he had to do chores, right?
00:43:33.000 Yeah.
00:43:34.000 That's like blackmail.
00:43:35.000 She hated him.
00:43:36.000 That's like she hates him.
00:43:37.000 730 days is insane.
00:43:39.000 What about you?
00:43:40.000 He's in the right, wrong.
00:43:41.000 What do you think?
00:43:43.000 Yeah, he's in the right.
00:43:46.000 I don't really know what's going on there.
00:43:48.000 Even if you cheat on her?
00:43:50.000 Yeah, because they shouldn't be in a relationship anyway.
00:43:53.000 Okay.
00:43:54.000 So even if you cheated on her, he's still on the right?
00:43:56.000 Yeah.
00:43:56.000 Okay.
00:43:56.000 Do you agree with that too?
00:43:58.000 I don't agree about cheating, no.
00:44:01.000 I feel like...
00:44:02.000 So she's on the right.
00:44:03.000 Just be honest with your person.
00:44:05.000 If you really want to step out and just be honest with your person.
00:44:08.000 I don't agree with cheating because there's always...
00:44:10.000 You can always communicate.
00:44:12.000 So she's on the right.
00:44:15.000 I mean, I would leave a person too if you're giving me twice.
00:44:18.000 But she stayed with him.
00:44:20.000 But I feel like she was probably doing something in the background.
00:44:23.000 What about you?
00:44:25.000 Who's on the right here?
00:44:26.000 Her or him?
00:44:27.000 Probably like Lickbacks. 1.00
00:44:31.000 So, what's Lickbacks? 0.52
00:44:34.000 What's Lickbacks? 1.00
00:44:37.000 He's cheated on her, so he's cheated on her first and ultimately she struggled to be intimate with him. 0.94
00:44:44.000 And she was making him do chores to get sex. 1.00
00:44:48.000 Well I think ultimately in a marriage, marriage is a contract basically, you either agree to abide by it or you don't.
00:44:56.000 So who's in the right and wrong here?
00:44:59.000 He's in the right.
00:45:00.000 He's in the right?
00:45:00.000 Yeah.
00:45:02.000 Alright, what about you?
00:45:05.000 Well, it depends what happened first, so...
00:45:09.000 You cheat on her.
00:45:10.000 Yeah, but as in, why did he cheat on her?
00:45:14.000 In the sense, was she always cold, maybe detached, and maybe not giving him enough attention and love also?
00:45:22.000 If that's the case, still not a reason to cheat, but at least, you know, you can kind of justify, kind of.
00:45:29.000 But I agree with everyone else as well that it's better just to communicate and be like, just break out.
00:45:34.000 So who's not right in this situation?
00:45:36.000 Nobody.
00:45:37.000 Well, if you had to pick one, who's more right?
00:45:41.000 Him leaving or her trying to leverage the sex? 0.83
00:45:46.000 Him leaving.
00:45:48.000 Well, cheating is horrible in general, so I think then in that case...
00:45:52.000 She's in the right.
00:45:52.000 Well, he's in the wrong more, I guess.
00:45:55.000 What about you?
00:45:56.000 What do you think?
00:45:57.000 I don't even know why they're together.
00:45:59.000 Why are these people together?
00:46:02.000 So I guess you think the man is right because he ended it?
00:46:05.000 They shouldn't be together.
00:46:06.000 This is like so dysfunctional on every level beyond.
00:46:10.000 They're together now.
00:46:11.000 What should they do?
00:46:13.000 Should he...
00:46:13.000 Well, he left already.
00:46:14.000 Well, in your opinion...
00:46:16.000 Because I guess he had no choice, right?
00:46:19.000 I mean, he had a choice.
00:46:20.000 I guess he just didn't like it.
00:46:22.000 Yeah, wait.
00:46:23.000 Wait, let me catch up.
00:46:24.000 So she made him do chores, yeah?
00:46:27.000 Who made who do chores? 1.00
00:46:28.000 Yeah, she made him do chores.
00:46:29.000 Yeah, see, so...
00:46:30.000 Again, going back to the dysfunctional...
00:46:34.000 Okay.
00:46:34.000 Are you high?
00:46:37.000 I just gotta ask.
00:46:38.000 Hey man, I had to ask.
00:46:39.000 I had to ask.
00:46:40.000 Okay.
00:46:40.000 She's tired.
00:46:41.000 Yeah.
00:46:41.000 Alright.
00:46:41.000 What about you?
00:46:44.000 I think that...
00:46:47.000 Should you've kept her composure?
00:46:49.000 Wait.
00:46:50.000 Well, I haven't even said anything.
00:46:52.000 Do you see what I mean?
00:46:52.000 These people come for me.
00:46:53.000 I can't even talk.
00:46:54.000 I'm not coming for your people. 1.00
00:46:55.000 Listen, I think that...
00:46:57.000 So he cheated.
00:46:58.000 Her way of dealing with it without having to say we're over is...
00:47:02.000 I don't give you sex and whenever you want it, you do chores. 0.99
00:47:05.000 He couldn't handle any left.
00:47:07.000 If we go by, you know, what I heard Pearl saying, the Catholic values of marriage, he should not have left.
00:47:13.000 He should have endured not having sex with his wife, try and communicate through the process because divorce is bad on either side, correct?
00:47:20.000 So he's wrong.
00:47:21.000 And I guess, you know, they could have figured it out another way.
00:47:23.000 She tried to communicate her problems to him through not having sex.
00:47:26.000 So, I mean, I guess he could have done something before he got to two years without sex or however long it was.
00:47:33.000 Okay, so...
00:47:34.000 Is it a fact that he cheated or is that just like...
00:47:37.000 I think he admitted to cheating on her before and that kind of hurt the relationship a bit.
00:47:42.000 Oh, then that's understandable.
00:47:44.000 So it's on...
00:47:46.000 Okay, so you think that he's more in the wrong...
00:47:47.000 You think he's in the wrong too?
00:47:49.000 Well, yeah.
00:47:50.000 Okay.
00:47:50.000 I mean, they're both in the wrong, and they're just as bad as each other.
00:47:52.000 Just one is holding back, and the other one went and did when they've been trifling.
00:47:57.000 All right.
00:47:57.000 What about you?
00:47:57.000 What do you think?
00:47:58.000 I think, well, if he cheated first, and then his actions caused her to have that reaction like that, to not want to be intimate with him, so I think he should be more understanding to her.
00:48:13.000 Okay.
00:48:13.000 Like, he's the reason why she's like that.
00:48:15.000 She doesn't want to.
00:48:17.000 All right, Troy, what do you guys think?
00:48:19.000 I think he was right to leave.
00:48:21.000 I think he was within his rights to leave.
00:48:22.000 I mean, I'm not saying he was right to cheat, but the fact is he cheated and then she continued the relationship, but then it seems like she was holding it over him as a kind of a leverage.
00:48:33.000 So under those circumstances, I think he was within his rights to leave.
00:48:38.000 I just think if you're gonna, okay, if you get cheated on, it's an L, all right?
00:48:41.000 It is an L. But, I mean, you can either take it and fix it or leave. 0.53
00:48:46.000 So it's like, why is she staying in the relationship and then holding it over?
00:48:50.000 And then punishing him.
00:48:51.000 Yeah, like, that's just spiteful.
00:48:53.000 For what?
00:48:55.000 Twice in two years?
00:48:56.000 That's crazy.
00:48:57.000 Yeah, what I think he probably did, well, actually, I know he did just by the outcome.
00:49:00.000 It's amazing how you can, like, see what the outcome is and then know how it got there.
00:49:03.000 So, like, it's very obvious that he got caught cheating.
00:49:06.000 Probably groveled back.
00:49:07.000 Please don't leave me.
00:49:08.000 I'll do anything.
00:49:09.000 And she goes, anything?
00:49:11.000 And then whenever you...
00:49:12.000 You know what I'm saying? 0.98
00:49:14.000 And this is why I tell guys all the time, if you get caught cheating, don't ever fucking apologize. 0.85
00:49:18.000 I know some of you guys might think that's toxic or whatever. 0.85
00:49:21.000 No, no, no. 1.00
00:49:21.000 You need to take accountability and responsibility with the shit that you do. 1.00
00:49:24.000 Let me finish my point. 0.99
00:49:25.000 Let me finish my point before you guys become, you know, all triggered.
00:49:30.000 Don't apologize.
00:49:31.000 And the reason why you don't apologize is because when you apologize, it gives the woman leverage. 1.00
00:49:35.000 And then now you're like, oh, I'll do anything to keep you.
00:49:38.000 And then automatically the power shifts from you, if you had it, to her.
00:49:42.000 And then she's going to start to dictate things. 1.00
00:49:44.000 And here's the problem.
00:49:45.000 Women are emotional. 1.00
00:49:46.000 So when they're emotional, they're going to make your life a living hell.
00:49:48.000 They're going to want to know where you are all the time. 1.00
00:49:50.000 They're going to be raging bitches. 1.00
00:49:52.000 They're going to be annoying. 1.00
00:49:53.000 They're going to be crass.
00:49:54.000 They're going to lose respect for you. 1.00
00:49:54.000 They're going to talk to you crazy. 1.00
00:49:56.000 They're going to think that they can belittle you.
00:49:57.000 So what ends up happening when you apologize...
00:49:59.000 Is you lose the leverage.
00:50:01.000 And once you lose the leverage, you lose the respect. 0.82
00:50:02.000 Once you lose the respect, then that's when you start losing sex anyway like this guy did.
00:50:06.000 And then you start losing everything else that comes with it.
00:50:08.000 You lose frame when you do that.
00:50:09.000 So if you get caught cheating, the worst thing you can do is sit there and say, please don't leave me and cry and beg for her back.
00:50:15.000 Just say, hey, it is what it is.
00:50:17.000 Take it or leave it.
00:50:17.000 And that's how you gotta approach it.
00:50:18.000 And women never leave anyway. 1.00
00:50:20.000 That was the biggest red pill.
00:50:21.000 I swear.
00:50:22.000 I swear because you guys, I don't remember what you guys said when I came on your show, but I don't remember the exact conversation, but I couldn't believe in my year of interviewing people, I would always ask girls if after they caught their boyfriend cheating or their husband cheating,
00:50:38.000 whatever, if they stayed, and it was like 90% of the time, they said, yeah, they never leave.
00:50:43.000 Can I ask a question?
00:50:45.000 If a girl cheats, should she apologize? 0.99
00:50:47.000 Yes.
00:50:50.000 And then here's the thing, you know what makes it even funnier?
00:50:54.000 She should apologize, but then you don't accept it and you walk away anyway.
00:50:57.000 You know what the crazy thing is?
00:50:59.000 You say men have the power but what I've noticed in our culture as well is women actually tend to have more power but you always respect your man and there's always a respect between two people and that is something healthy and I feel like the power should be split equally so sometimes a woman has to take 80 the man gives 20. 0.52
00:51:19.000 Sometimes the man is the one that gives 80 and the woman gives 20. 0.61
00:51:23.000 If the roles can reverse But as long as you've got something healthy I feel like it should always be an equal thing, but what I've noticed is women always tend to have more power. 1.00
00:51:34.000 A woman can look at her man and he will know straight up. 0.87
00:51:36.000 Let me stop talking.
00:51:37.000 In what sense do you mean?
00:51:38.000 Let me stop drinking too much because I'm drinking too much.
00:51:43.000 What I've seen, especially in my family, in my culture, the women have the most power, but we will respect our man and we make sure we take care of our man. 1.00
00:51:52.000 As long as you are respectful to us and you're taking care of us, we take care of you.
00:51:57.000 But the one that rules the house, the bills and everything like that, it's always a woman because we don't spend recklessly. 1.00
00:52:04.000 I've noticed that in Asian households as well.
00:52:06.000 The woman is always the boss. 1.00
00:52:07.000 Is that though because the guys feel that they haven't got options to, you know, they feel that they're beholden to that woman because they don't have any options?
00:52:14.000 No, it's not that.
00:52:16.000 They just feel like the woman is the head of the house. 0.96
00:52:18.000 She's got her head screwed on so she controls. 1.00
00:52:21.000 And when a man actually looks at his woman, that's my queen. 1.00
00:52:25.000 That's my rock.
00:52:27.000 They're going to treat that woman that way. 1.00
00:52:29.000 And they're not going to do anything to put her in a position of jeopardizing their relationship.
00:52:33.000 So therefore, she holds a certain power to an extent and vice versa.
00:52:38.000 But the woman tends to take care of her. 1.00
00:52:41.000 But that's because the woman, especially the Portuguese woman, and even the Angola woman, they're very kind of subservient to their men in the sense of, They'll do anything. 1.00
00:52:50.000 They'll cook.
00:52:51.000 They'll take care of him.
00:52:52.000 It's honey, honey, honey.
00:52:53.000 Especially the Portuguese woman, which means that as the man, you are so comfortable and so attached to that woman that actually you will respect her.
00:53:00.000 Anything that she says, she'll have.
00:53:01.000 And that's how it is.
00:53:02.000 So that's what she means in terms of power.
00:53:04.000 And in terms of like managing the house, the woman is kind of like the one that sorts everything. 1.00
00:53:08.000 The man just puts the money on the table and she sorts it out.
00:53:10.000 Excuse me?
00:53:11.000 Y'all been drinking?
00:53:12.000 What power are you talking about?
00:53:14.000 What power?
00:53:14.000 I'm referring to the power in terms of whatever she's talking about, in terms of having, like, control within the household.
00:53:20.000 So, Portuguese women, especially, they're quite strong. 0.99
00:53:23.000 And it doesn't mean that they belittle their man.
00:53:26.000 It just simply means that the man is very happy to just let her do her own thing.
00:53:29.000 Because he knows that she's not going to go out there being trifling.
00:53:34.000 And if a man ends up being travelling, ooh, us Angolan and Portuguese women, we switch. 0.98
00:53:40.000 That's interesting.
00:53:41.000 It's very different in Ghanaian culture.
00:53:43.000 And it's very different in Arabic culture as well.
00:53:45.000 Like the man's always the boss.
00:53:47.000 Yeah, yeah.
00:53:47.000 So like in Ghana, like we, I'm probably the same in Nigeria, like We expect men to cheat.
00:53:55.000 And I think it's a bit of a toxic trait because they could get away with a lot.
00:53:59.000 So West African women, African women in general, are quite subservient, cooked clean, were trained in how to look after men. 1.00
00:54:06.000 We're taught also that men have needs.
00:54:09.000 They look elsewhere, et cetera, et cetera.
00:54:11.000 The man, if there's a mutual respect, then a lot of women come to the conclusion that he's going to cheat anyway. 0.98
00:54:17.000 So just stay quiet and you know, they live happy lives.
00:54:20.000 In African culture? 0.90
00:54:20.000 Yes. 0.90
00:54:21.000 Well, you have some women here saying that they're not going to accept that. 1.00
00:54:23.000 I said Portuguese.
00:54:26.000 I'm from Ghana.
00:54:27.000 So Ghana, Nigeria. 0.87
00:54:28.000 What do you think is the more conducive?
00:54:31.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on.
00:54:36.000 What do you think is the more conducive strategy to keep a man? 0.99
00:54:39.000 Their strategy of flipping out if you get cheated on?
00:54:42.000 Or yours where it's like, well not yours, but like your culture where they kind of just accept it and kind of know what comes with the territory?
00:54:49.000 In Ghanaian culture, marriage is held very highly.
00:54:52.000 So if you're not married after a certain age, it gets embarrassing.
00:54:56.000 What's that age?
00:54:58.000 Now it's changing because we're conforming to the West a little bit more.
00:55:03.000 30?
00:55:04.000 I would have said 30, but now people are trying to copy American values a lot, especially the Ghanaian, Nigerians. 1.00
00:55:12.000 So right now you would say it's maybe around 30?
00:55:14.000 I'd say it's around 30.
00:55:16.000 Okay.
00:55:16.000 They'll be asking questions.
00:55:18.000 They'll start looking at you crazy if you're single at 30.
00:55:20.000 Yeah.
00:55:20.000 Okay.
00:55:21.000 What do you think is more conducive to a successful relationship though?
00:55:23.000 Which strategy?
00:55:24.000 Flipping out on your man and getting caught?
00:55:27.000 Staying quiet.
00:55:27.000 Staying quiet you think is better?
00:55:29.000 I don't think it's better.
00:55:30.000 Raise of hands.
00:55:31.000 Who agrees with her?
00:55:32.000 I don't think it's better, but this is just what I know.
00:55:35.000 For the relationship to last?
00:55:36.000 For the relationship to last, yeah.
00:55:37.000 Who agrees with her?
00:55:38.000 Nobody.
00:55:40.000 Wow.
00:55:40.000 Interesting.
00:55:41.000 Yeah, because there's ways of cheating as well.
00:55:44.000 Yeah, so I think it's the way the man cheats as well.
00:55:47.000 So, if he's doing it, respect.
00:55:49.000 I don't believe there's a respectful way of cheating.
00:55:52.000 But if he's doing it quietly, not showing his mistress around, you know, not taking her...
00:55:57.000 I would say it depends on the man.
00:55:59.000 Are you saying it's better to do that or it's not?
00:56:01.000 I'm not saying it's better.
00:56:02.000 I'm just saying what's in Ghanaian culture.
00:56:05.000 But he's asking what's better to keep a man and stay in a marriage.
00:56:10.000 And that's what I believe is better to stay in a marriage. 0.95
00:56:15.000 Do you think it's foolish?
00:56:19.000 I feel like I'm kind of with you but it depends on the man.
00:56:25.000 It's not what I would do.
00:56:27.000 It's not what I've done.
00:56:28.000 I would leave.
00:56:29.000 I've done that in the past.
00:56:31.000 This is just what's gone in.
00:56:33.000 Because I can't mentally handle it.
00:56:35.000 So Pearl was saying, you either accept it or don't.
00:56:38.000 And I know I'm the sort of person that I keep replaying it in my mind.
00:56:42.000 So it's better for both of us to go our separate ways and just live our lives.
00:56:47.000 I'm not going to make him suffer.
00:56:48.000 I did it before where I listened to family members.
00:56:52.000 I was married.
00:56:53.000 Oh, you were married?
00:56:53.000 Yes, yes.
00:56:54.000 So I listened to family members.
00:56:55.000 Oh, he's a man.
00:56:56.000 He's gonna, you know, blah, blah, blah.
00:56:58.000 But it got to the point where I was holding a grudge.
00:57:01.000 I was angry, you know, and it also did continue.
00:57:04.000 So second time I was just like, You know, I've gotta go.
00:57:08.000 Real quick, how old was he?
00:57:11.000 25.
00:57:11.000 We got married pretty young.
00:57:13.000 And how old were you?
00:57:14.000 Yeah, 24 and 25.
00:57:16.000 Okay, what did he do for a living?
00:57:18.000 I don't want to say too much.
00:57:20.000 He was in the military.
00:57:24.000 British military?
00:57:24.000 Yes.
00:57:25.000 High ranking?
00:57:26.000 No.
00:57:27.000 Working his way up?
00:57:28.000 Yeah.
00:57:30.000 Okay.
00:57:31.000 I'm not familiar with how British military works.
00:57:36.000 Would it be the equivalent maybe to being an officer?
00:57:39.000 Like higher up?
00:57:40.000 No, no.
00:57:42.000 He enlisted or did he go to college first?
00:57:44.000 He enlisted.
00:57:46.000 He wasn't in the military for very long.
00:57:49.000 But yeah, I knew the kind of person I am.
00:57:53.000 I wouldn't be able to handle it.
00:57:53.000 Was he tall?
00:57:55.000 Yeah.
00:57:55.000 How tall was he?
00:57:57.000 6'1"?
00:57:58.000 Okay, 6'1".
00:57:59.000 Yeah, I'm 4'11", so it's a big...
00:58:01.000 Okay, how much was he earning back then, roughly?
00:58:04.000 I didn't ask him this.
00:58:06.000 It's military, so it's going to be standardized.
00:58:08.000 Yeah, I don't know.
00:58:09.000 I didn't ask him.
00:58:10.000 You didn't know what your husband was earning? 1.00
00:58:11.000 I didn't ask him.
00:58:12.000 I think it's not...
00:58:13.000 I didn't want to ask him, no.
00:58:15.000 She probably makes more than him, that's why.
00:58:18.000 I've never asked a guy what they earn.
00:58:19.000 No, I don't.
00:58:20.000 But you have to have an idea.
00:58:22.000 You have to have an idea.
00:58:23.000 I earned more than him, yes.
00:58:24.000 You earned more than him.
00:58:26.000 Okay, interesting.
00:58:27.000 That's why you don't ask.
00:58:30.000 Don't ask because I don't want you to know, baby, that I know I earn more than you.
00:58:34.000 Now, let me ask you this, though.
00:58:35.000 Right now, I don't know if it's been a while.
00:58:37.000 It's been, yeah, a few years.
00:58:39.000 Has he earned more than you now?
00:58:41.000 I don't know.
00:58:42.000 I don't think so.
00:58:44.000 Okay.
00:58:45.000 Yeah.
00:58:45.000 All right.
00:58:45.000 Was he, like, a good-looking guy?
00:58:47.000 Yeah, I'd say so.
00:58:48.000 I chose him, so it has to be.
00:58:50.000 Yeah.
00:58:50.000 Okay.
00:58:51.000 All right.
00:58:51.000 Interesting.
00:58:52.000 Someone else had something that they wanted to say?
00:58:55.000 So none of you would accept, obviously all of you disagree with the whole...
00:58:59.000 I do have something to say.
00:59:01.000 I would say it really depends on kind of where you are in life.
00:59:05.000 So for example, in African culture, right?
00:59:09.000 You can have like 10 children with the same woman, but then it gets to a point where the woman, number one, she's tired, she's taking care of the kids, she's busy, she's doing her own thing, that's your wife, right? 0.96
00:59:18.000 So you, as a high-value man, especially because I'm talking from the perspective of successful men, okay?
00:59:23.000 You can go outside, you're doing your business meeting, you're doing all this.
00:59:27.000 Girls are part of the entertainment. 1.00
00:59:28.000 And the thing is, and what I've noticed from observing this sort of situation is that the respect comes from the fact that the woman remains the queen and the it.
00:59:38.000 That's it.
00:59:39.000 You don't disrespect.
00:59:40.000 The girlfriend could never come chat to the wife, ever in her life. 1.00
00:59:44.000 And he would never, ever even leave a whiff of the fact that he's got maybe a girlfriend or a girl that entains him through these things.
00:59:52.000 Now, I say that and I know that to be the case because I have like...
00:59:58.000 Ten siblings.
00:59:59.000 Out of my mum, we're only four.
01:00:01.000 And there's different baby mothers.
01:00:02.000 Because I understand how men just will move on, especially as their women get older and older.
01:00:07.000 And not only that, African men have got hot blood. 1.00
01:00:10.000 So they can't contain it. 0.94
01:00:11.000 And then clearly they just haven't got good...
01:00:13.000 Manah, listen, Angolan men, let me tell you. 1.00
01:00:18.000 Manah, listen, Angolan men is a very known... 0.97
01:00:22.000 They're trifling!
01:00:23.000 That's why you don't go for Angolan men. 1.00
01:00:25.000 You leave it out.
01:00:26.000 And that is mostly in most African cultures because it's something that's been perpetuated.
01:00:32.000 And that's what I think is wrong.
01:00:34.000 See, now kids are growing up thinking, oh yeah, in my African culture, it's okay for me to do this at some point to my baby mum or to my wife because she's tired or whatever and I'm out here still.
01:00:49.000 That's not okay and that's one thing that needs to really be decoded from these generations.
01:00:56.000 No matter what culture you're in, no matter what it is, if it's not part of your...
01:01:01.000 I know that there's a culture where men have multiple wives. 1.00
01:01:04.000 I can't remember which one it is.
01:01:05.000 Middle Eastern, yeah.
01:01:08.000 But I just think if you're in a relationship, be loyal.
01:01:12.000 If you don't want to be in a relationship, Don't be in a relationship.
01:01:15.000 Do you see what I'm saying? 0.98
01:01:16.000 If you want to go out and have your fun, go and have your fun, but don't be having someone else in the back you're committed to, and they're thinking, and they're being 100% loyal to you, and you're out here being a trash. 0.98
01:01:28.000 Absolutely. 0.95
01:01:29.000 I'm disrespecting.
01:01:31.000 Okay, so to me, just so I make sure I understand everyone's stances here.
01:01:34.000 So you understand it.
01:01:35.000 You don't agree with it.
01:01:36.000 You don't agree with it at all.
01:01:37.000 You're saying that you understand that men are going to do it if they have money.
01:01:41.000 Even men with money have respect.
01:01:46.000 Especially men with money are the ones.
01:01:47.000 Because men with money are the ones, like I said, men with money are usually the ones that are out of the home.
01:01:53.000 Because they're doing their own things.
01:01:55.000 They're mostly also amongst men.
01:01:57.000 And then when men are all men, nobody wants a sausage fest. 0.67
01:02:00.000 There's a girl to entertain. 0.99
01:02:01.000 Do you know what I mean?
01:02:02.000 And it just happens like that sometimes, I think.
01:02:04.000 But not every man.
01:02:05.000 So would you accept that from a higher status guy?
01:02:07.000 You.
01:02:08.000 This is the thing.
01:02:10.000 I'm not looking for that type of man.
01:02:12.000 I'm looking for a different type of man.
01:02:14.000 I like...
01:02:15.000 Guys that you say I don't want to break hearts of?
01:02:20.000 No.
01:02:23.000 The person that I will end up with will be a very quiet person.
01:02:28.000 That's it.
01:02:30.000 Interesting.
01:02:31.000 Composed.
01:02:32.000 Because it's like she's almost setting it up where it's like, yeah, the person I will end up with, which is like she's already pre-setting like, I need to get my fun now before I go with the boring guy.
01:02:40.000 No, no, no, it's not that.
01:02:41.000 I actually like quiet people.
01:02:44.000 This is the thing.
01:02:45.000 So why aren't you with them now?
01:02:46.000 What's stopping you from being with them now?
01:02:48.000 Because you don't rush these things.
01:02:50.000 You do not like quiet people.
01:02:52.000 I met your friend group.
01:02:54.000 No, listen, this is the thing.
01:02:56.000 My friend group is not my man, is it?
01:02:58.000 If I wanted to date my friends, I'd be with them.
01:03:01.000 I think you want someone who grounds you.
01:03:03.000 Yeah, I want the opposite of me because I'm quite talkative.
01:03:07.000 I want somebody that's quiet, that's not bothered by me being able to just have a light on me all the time.
01:03:12.000 Are you looking for somebody who's going to be submissive to you?
01:03:14.000 No, I'm just looking for somebody that's so comfortable that he doesn't even need to talk.
01:03:18.000 To be honest, opposites do work really well together.
01:03:21.000 So it sounds like you're done all the talking, he's just sitting there...
01:03:23.000 No, I just...
01:03:24.000 I'll explain to you what I mean, okay?
01:03:29.000 The type of man that I like is the type of man that can walk down the street and every single man will look at him and be like, yeah, that's the guy.
01:03:36.000 He doesn't have to talk.
01:03:37.000 That's the type of man that I like.
01:03:38.000 But he's also incredibly submissive in a relationship.
01:03:42.000 No, that doesn't mean submissive in a relationship.
01:03:44.000 That means that you're quiet enough, even me.
01:03:46.000 If every guy, you're walking down the street and you need to talk and everybody can recognize your power, how am I, as a woman, not going to recognize him?
01:03:53.000 That's what I mean.
01:03:53.000 I want a man that is able, with just his presence and his energy, to not even have to talk just to set his masculinity, just by being there.
01:04:00.000 There's guys that can do that.
01:04:01.000 Okay, so you do understand.
01:04:04.000 You made a very interesting point.
01:04:06.000 Do all of you agree with you?
01:04:07.000 You want a guy that other men respect like that? 0.98
01:04:09.000 Yeah.
01:04:09.000 Okay, so you guys understand that the metric that men use to respect each other is far different than what you guys use to respect each other, correct?
01:04:16.000 Yeah.
01:04:17.000 Because women respect each other based on beauty. 1.00
01:04:20.000 Right?
01:04:20.000 Oh, and status and all of the...
01:04:23.000 No, you guys respect each other on beauty. 0.98
01:04:25.000 You guys don't give a fuck about status. 0.97
01:04:26.000 Like, for example, if Oprah Winfrey walked into a room with a bunch of Instagram models, no one gives a... 0.98
01:04:31.000 They might be like, oh, cool, Oprah Winfrey's in here.
01:04:34.000 But at the end of the day, the most attractive woman understands that I'm the most attractive and she has the most status in that room because... 1.00
01:04:40.000 We don't like from a sexual market value standpoint, right?
01:04:43.000 So like you mentioned that you want a guy that like he could walk into him and other men respect them, right?
01:04:48.000 Well, men respect competence and meritocracy.
01:04:50.000 We don't respect the same things that you guys do and a lot of that comes down to your ability to earn money.
01:04:55.000 Yeah So if you want a guy that could command the respect of other men, that means he has to be extremely accomplished, and he's probably a high earner, which means he's gonna come with other women, too.
01:05:03.000 Okay, can I tell you something?
01:05:04.000 So, for example, me, a lot of the men that I do know, they are extremely respected, especially in their community, and not because they're rich, because they're real men.
01:05:12.000 And why aren't you with them?
01:05:15.000 Okay, what did I say about my relationship status?
01:05:18.000 Did I tell you I was single?
01:05:20.000 Did I tell you I was dating one?
01:05:21.000 I left it ambiguous for a reason.
01:05:23.000 You don't like him enough to just say, no, I'm taken.
01:05:27.000 Listen, you're talking smoke without actually even asking me the right questions.
01:05:31.000 Because if you ask me the right questions, you would know the answer to all of this.
01:05:33.000 If you really like him, why would you want to leave it ambiguous?
01:05:37.000 Yeah, that's true.
01:05:38.000 Because you have to take time to get to know someone.
01:05:40.000 You can like someone and then boom.
01:05:42.000 Before you know it, they might move wrong, they might do something wrong, whether you're together or not.
01:05:45.000 Why are you not married to the guy that you're dating? 0.99
01:05:47.000 That small thing, you're doing that before we're even together. 1.00
01:05:50.000 That means when we're together, you're going to do some shit. 0.99
01:05:52.000 Wait, Pearl, Pearl, why are you only dating him? 1.00
01:05:55.000 Why are you not married to him?
01:05:56.000 Are you not Catholic?
01:06:00.000 You're taking too long already.
01:06:02.000 It's pretty soon.
01:06:03.000 Should I require marriage already? 0.90
01:06:05.000 Well, you should, isn't it?
01:06:06.000 I think you should.
01:06:07.000 If you do, I'll do my...
01:06:09.000 I mean, what would the tricode say?
01:06:10.000 If you marry, I'll commit. 0.99
01:06:12.000 No, well, my question, because like I said, you said you want a guy that can command respect from other men, and a big component of being able to command respect from other men a lot of times, well, not even a big, it's the main thing, it's competence, and a lot of times your competence is shown through your ability to earn resources and currency, right?
01:06:26.000 Not just that.
01:06:27.000 It's a big component.
01:06:28.000 I know, but also it comes down to physical abilities.
01:06:32.000 If you're a guy that is very dangerous, most guys will respect you even out of fear.
01:06:36.000 To a degree, yes.
01:06:37.000 Listen, I'm going to tell you something, right?
01:06:39.000 My dad was a very powerful man and very, very dangerous.
01:06:44.000 Okay?
01:06:45.000 So what I think...
01:06:46.000 So would you be with a broke MMA fighter?
01:06:49.000 You wouldn't be broke, especially not being with me.
01:06:51.000 So money does matter to you then?
01:06:52.000 No.
01:06:54.000 He wouldn't be broke.
01:06:55.000 Do you really think that if you're going to be my man, I'm going to let you be broke.
01:06:59.000 You're going to be next to me.
01:07:01.000 He's going to change, right?
01:07:04.000 Listen, it's not about me not wanting a broke man, but I think this is a mentality that you guys...
01:07:11.000 She said money didn't matter that she said I don't want a broke man. 0.99
01:07:13.000 No, I said he's not going to be broke.
01:07:15.000 And I'll tell you why.
01:07:16.000 This is why I say Myron has the patience of a saint.
01:07:20.000 But you kind of said before that you weren't looking for a high-value man, and then you describe a high-value man.
01:07:24.000 Now, what for you?
01:07:25.000 Every time I try to speak, you cut me off, and you interrupt me.
01:07:27.000 Well, not really.
01:07:28.000 Well, you're doing it now.
01:07:32.000 Right?
01:07:33.000 Basically, what I'm saying is, this is the kind of behavior that you guys kind of show on these cameras and then it corrupts women. 1.00
01:07:39.000 Because as a woman, it shouldn't matter how much money your man's got right now. 1.00
01:07:43.000 You should be looking at his mentality because you could start with somebody who has nothing and tomorrow it could be somebody.
01:07:48.000 So I don't think about money when I go for somebody.
01:07:50.000 I look at how competent they can be.
01:07:53.000 I look at their mindset.
01:07:55.000 That's the exception, not the rule.
01:08:00.000 When someone has ambition, someone has goals, someone has a drive, they're not broke.
01:08:05.000 Broke is all in the mindset.
01:08:06.000 I've met people that are rich, but they've got a broke mindset.
01:08:10.000 But you don't want to be Barbara the Builder, though.
01:08:12.000 No, of course not.
01:08:13.000 A lot of men, they leave once they get to the point they want.
01:08:17.000 Audience, pay attention to this.
01:08:17.000 I want the audience to really pay attention to this.
01:08:20.000 Audience, pay attention to this.
01:08:22.000 Go ahead, continue on, ladies. 1.00
01:08:23.000 I'll let you out.
01:08:23.000 And then I'm going to break down what's going on here.
01:08:26.000 Because this is literally like a fucking experiment in female psychology right now. 1.00
01:08:29.000 What's going on? 1.00
01:08:30.000 Continue.
01:08:30.000 So you're saying...
01:08:31.000 You don't want to be Barbara the Builder because men are very clear about what they want.
01:08:36.000 They're very clean cut.
01:08:37.000 Women are more like, oh, you know, I love him. 1.00
01:08:40.000 I'll stay with him.
01:08:41.000 Oh God, all these memories.
01:08:42.000 We accept potential and we should be taking people for who they are.
01:08:46.000 When a man is done, he's done.
01:08:49.000 When he gets to that...
01:08:51.000 So, basically, we, as you said, date for potential.
01:08:54.000 Like, men... 1.00
01:08:55.000 They see shit they don't even see within themselves. 1.00
01:08:57.000 Exactly. 1.00
01:08:57.000 When they get to the point they want to get, they have access to the ladies that they wanted when they were broke, but couldn't get them. 1.00
01:09:03.000 And then they ditch their women.
01:09:05.000 It happens so many times, over and over again.
01:09:07.000 And you see examples in the sports world...
01:09:09.000 And then after they're crawling back to that woman, and they're like, I'm so sorry.
01:09:12.000 After the new woman's rinsed all the money. 1.00
01:09:14.000 Can she finish your point?
01:09:16.000 Yeah, sorry about that. 1.00
01:09:17.000 God damn, nigga! 1.00
01:09:19.000 No worries. 1.00
01:09:19.000 No, I appreciate the input, but yeah, no. 1.00
01:09:22.000 That's literally all I wanted to say.
01:09:24.000 Don't be Barbara the Builder.
01:09:26.000 Don't date for potentials.
01:09:27.000 Let me ask real quick, we're on the panel on this one.
01:09:29.000 If you're with a man in a serious relationship, would you want to pay the majority of the bills, yes or no?
01:09:37.000 Just a very simple question.
01:09:38.000 Just say no.
01:09:40.000 It's okay to say no if you want to say no.
01:09:42.000 No, because my mind goes two sides to this.
01:09:46.000 You want to be 50-50? 1.00
01:09:47.000 One side of me is that I don't mind going 50-50, but at the end of the day, I like a man that actually takes care of shit. 0.98
01:09:53.000 And I just like top it up and I make sure that everything is nice. 0.77
01:09:57.000 So you don't want to go 50-50.
01:09:58.000 Fantastic.
01:09:58.000 No, not really.
01:09:59.000 Okay, what about you?
01:10:00.000 Absolutely not.
01:10:01.000 Okay, what about you?
01:10:03.000 Half and half.
01:10:05.000 You'll go 50-50?
01:10:06.000 Yeah, half and half.
01:10:07.000 You go 50-50 with your ex-husband?
01:10:09.000 I've done both in relationship.
01:10:11.000 I was a housewife.
01:10:12.000 I've had experience being everything paid for.
01:10:15.000 I didn't work for a while.
01:10:17.000 And then I've had experience with contributing...
01:10:21.000 Both failed.
01:10:24.000 Well, I'm sat here saying I'm single.
01:10:26.000 Fantastic.
01:10:27.000 Which one was better for you?
01:10:29.000 The 50-50 or relaxing?
01:10:31.000 It's complicated because when I was cooking, cleaning, fine, I'm happy to do that.
01:10:37.000 When I didn't have any money to contribute, the power dynamics change.
01:10:42.000 It's not saying I should have more power because I'm a woman, he should have more power because he's a man.
01:10:46.000 There needs to be an equilibrium.
01:10:48.000 And when I assumed the role of not having it, well, the complete traditional housewife, the equilibrium shifted to him.
01:10:58.000 But he gave you money when you wanted it, right?
01:11:00.000 Well, it got to a point where I had to beg him for simple things.
01:11:04.000 Such as?
01:11:05.000 Just to do my nails.
01:11:06.000 Do my nails.
01:11:07.000 Get certain things that I needed.
01:11:10.000 It got to a point where it was like...
01:11:13.000 Please sir, can I have some more?
01:11:15.000 Did he just not have it like that?
01:11:18.000 So yeah, they abuse it sometimes.
01:11:20.000 He didn't have it like that?
01:11:21.000 Say again?
01:11:21.000 He didn't have it like that or he was just a cheapskate?
01:11:24.000 He was quite a resourceful man.
01:11:26.000 He had plans to save a certain amount a month.
01:11:29.000 I'm not a high-maintenance person.
01:11:33.000 I don't do my nails, don't do much.
01:11:36.000 I wasn't asking for much, let's just say.
01:11:38.000 What about you?
01:11:39.000 Would you want to pay a majority of the bills when you're dealing with a man?
01:11:42.000 No.
01:11:43.000 No?
01:11:43.000 50-50?
01:11:44.000 No?
01:11:46.000 so maybe a bit less than I would want to pay a bit less also because yeah because this is hilarious you ask a russian woman a question like this she'll know what to say yeah wait what 50 50 what is that i break him yeah what about you no no you would not do it what about you would you go 50 50 or no would you want to pay a majority of the bills If it's temporary, 0.57
01:12:10.000 I don't mind.
01:12:10.000 Okay, so not long term?
01:12:12.000 No, not long term.
01:12:14.000 Would you even be okay with 50-50?
01:12:18.000 Depends.
01:12:18.000 It's temporarily as well because remember in life as a woman you have different moments where you're not able to contribute.
01:12:23.000 So you have to be able to go up and down and adapt.
01:12:25.000 So temporarily, okay.
01:12:26.000 What about you?
01:12:27.000 Which is a no?
01:12:29.000 No.
01:12:29.000 Okay.
01:12:30.000 So, you know, this perfectly proves what I said because a lot of you guys were saying, like, I look for ambition, I look for that, blah, blah, blah.
01:12:37.000 But when I asked you guys would you be okay, right, with paying a majority of the bills, all of you said, no, I want the man to do that.
01:12:42.000 Most of you don't even want to go 50-50.
01:12:44.000 And I say this quote, a lot of girls get mad when I say it, but I say it all the time.
01:12:47.000 All women are gold diggers. 1.00
01:12:48.000 Some are just better at hiding the shovel. 0.93
01:12:49.000 And what I mean by that is they'll dress it up in terms like, broke mindset.
01:12:54.000 I don't want to be a Bob the Builder woman. 1.00
01:12:56.000 I want to have ambition, whatever.
01:12:58.000 The reality is, the bottom line is, it all comes down to their ability to create resources either now or in the near future.
01:13:04.000 That's why you said temporary.
01:13:05.000 Ambition.
01:13:05.000 Yes.
01:13:06.000 So, whether you guys want to admit it or not, women like to dress up finances in other terms to not come off as gold diggerish, but all women are gold diggers to a degree. 1.00
01:13:15.000 Somebody's better at hiding this shit. 0.99
01:13:16.000 Why is that a problem, though? 1.00
01:13:17.000 No, but that's not really being a gold digger.
01:13:19.000 I never said it was a problem.
01:13:20.000 That's not a problem.
01:13:21.000 The problem lies in this.
01:13:23.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on.
01:13:24.000 The problem, the problem...
01:13:26.000 The problem isn't that women are gold diggers. 1.00
01:13:28.000 I understand your guys' nature.
01:13:29.000 The problem is that you guys deceive and lie to make it seem as you are not gold diggers.
01:13:33.000 That's like me saying...
01:13:34.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on.
01:13:36.000 Let me give you the functional equivalent.
01:13:37.000 Let me give you the functional equivalent.
01:13:39.000 That is the functional equivalent to me saying, I'm your friend.
01:13:42.000 I'm okay with being friends with you.
01:13:44.000 But then as soon as I get a chance, I try to sleep with you.
01:13:46.000 That's annoying, isn't it?
01:13:47.000 How many of you have had a guy that tried to sleep with you that was in a friend zone?
01:13:50.000 Probably all the time, right?
01:13:51.000 No, not really.
01:13:52.000 I have a lot of male friends.
01:13:53.000 I think my friends are scared.
01:13:55.000 I have an applause.
01:13:55.000 They're probably scared.
01:13:56.000 The point is that once they make that move, right, and they hide it, you lose respect for them because they hid their dick. 0.99
01:14:02.000 They weren't straight up about it, right? 1.00
01:14:04.000 So my thing is, women try to sit there and hide the fact that they are hypergamous. 1.00
01:14:08.000 They do care about money.
01:14:09.000 They are gold diggers to a degree.
01:14:11.000 To a degree, yes.
01:14:12.000 Right?
01:14:12.000 To a degree.
01:14:13.000 But they'll dress it up and say some bullshit like ambition or I want them with a good mindset or I want to be a go-getter. 0.97
01:14:18.000 It all comes back to money at the end of the day. 0.98
01:14:20.000 Which is fine!
01:14:21.000 It's an innate quality of a woman to be looked after. 1.00
01:14:24.000 A man should want that in a woman as well. 0.97
01:14:25.000 Hold on, hold on. 0.98
01:14:26.000 No, we don't give a fuck about your money. 0.99
01:14:27.000 That's a lie. 0.98
01:14:28.000 No, but a man should want a woman that is ambitious. 0.99
01:14:30.000 You want a woman that's ambitious. 0.57
01:14:31.000 Women are not direct with what it is. 1.00
01:14:33.000 They say dumb shit like that instead of saying, I just want a motherfucker to take care of me. 1.00
01:14:37.000 You guys don't want to admit it. 1.00
01:14:38.000 But when I asked y'all, do you want to pay a majority of the bills?
01:14:41.000 All of you said no.
01:14:41.000 Most of y'all don't even want to do 50-50.
01:14:43.000 Byron, I'm curious.
01:14:45.000 Do you think... 0.96
01:14:47.000 Because we keep seeing women with all these useless jobs that pay a ton of money. 1.00
01:14:52.000 So do you think in the future it's going to be...
01:14:55.000 Do you think it's going to increase the amount of women who are paying the majority of the bills? 1.00
01:15:00.000 Because I was looking at...
01:15:01.000 I don't know if you saw that thing on Twitter the other day where it was like, Women are earning men. 1.00
01:15:06.000 So how do you see that?
01:15:09.000 What do you think is going to happen in the sexual marketplace? 1.00
01:15:12.000 I think it's going to get worse.
01:15:14.000 What I think is that more women are going to be single and they're going to just recreationally have sex like they're doing now but at a higher level. 0.99
01:15:23.000 We're changing roles.
01:15:24.000 You men are becoming more masculine.
01:15:27.000 Women are so happy being alone these days because we don't need to settle. 1.00
01:15:32.000 We don't need to settle.
01:15:34.000 They're proving my point right now.
01:15:37.000 No, but here's the problem.
01:15:41.000 We have all these useless jobs that are overpaid, so we think we're more competent than we are.
01:15:45.000 We're really not.
01:15:46.000 Like, I'll give you an example.
01:15:48.000 A diversity and inclusion officer is paid $15 to $17 an hour.
01:15:52.000 Let's just be honest.
01:15:53.000 A woman typically has that role. 1.00
01:15:55.000 I mean, come on.
01:15:55.000 And a firefighter is paid the same amount of money.
01:15:58.000 Which one's more useful?
01:16:00.000 Yeah, but they're paid the same.
01:16:01.000 So women think, we think we're more important than we are. 1.00
01:16:03.000 You know what's going to happen though?
01:16:04.000 What's going to happen is there's going to be a greater increase between the haves and the have-nots in the sexual marketplace. 0.57
01:16:10.000 That's what's going to happen.
01:16:11.000 So what's going to happen is the elite are going to be getting a larger slice of the pie and everybody else is going to be getting less.
01:16:18.000 Because women are not going to Settle. 1.00
01:16:21.000 They said it a second ago.
01:16:22.000 Exactly.
01:16:24.000 You can say the role is shifting and women are earning more, so therefore it's going to shift and women are going to be the higher rate. 1.00
01:16:29.000 But women aren't going to respect a dude, like, ultimately long-term, who is earning less, okay? 0.65
01:16:34.000 So in the end, what it means is that it's going to be the guys who are earning more, the guys at the top level, who are going to be getting a bigger slice of the pie.
01:16:41.000 That's what I mean.
01:16:42.000 So when they talk about cheating, like, do you understand what the world is going to look like in 10 years?
01:16:46.000 50% of women between the ages of 25 and 45 are going to be single and childless.
01:16:52.000 Like, I mean, think about it.
01:16:53.000 If you're married, there's going to be so many women throwing themselves at your husband if he's a half good looking, decent earning guy. 1.00
01:17:01.000 And over a certain age, women accept being a side chick. 0.99
01:17:08.000 I mean, they won't publicly say that.
01:17:10.000 But over a certain age, I mean, women, I think it's around like 35. 0.96
01:17:16.000 They'll accept being a side chick because they would rather be with the top guy than be with the guy they don't like.
01:17:20.000 It's just younger.
01:17:22.000 We won't say it, but I mean, who here's been in a situationship?
01:17:25.000 Yeah.
01:17:26.000 Okay, she hasn't, but it's common, right?
01:17:31.000 She just didn't know.
01:17:32.000 She wasn't one.
01:17:33.000 What is the situation, Chip?
01:17:34.000 I mean, it's a side check.
01:17:36.000 It's like, we're together, but we're not together.
01:17:42.000 Myron and Fresh are one of the few guys that are actually honest about what's going on, because so many guys cap about this stuff.
01:17:53.000 So many guys cap.
01:17:54.000 I'm monogamous.
01:17:55.000 You were trying to say something?
01:17:57.000 Yeah, I was gonna say that for me, I don't necessarily agree on the money thing.
01:18:02.000 Actually, money doesn't bother me much.
01:18:04.000 What I want...
01:18:04.000 Hold on, hold on.
01:18:06.000 Why is it that I can't finish speaking before you guys even say anything?
01:18:10.000 I didn't say a word.
01:18:11.000 No, because you need to understand that when you think like I do, you have an introduction, a middle, and an end.
01:18:16.000 So let me give you my introduction, then give you my middle, then give you my end.
01:18:19.000 Just give us the cliff notes.
01:18:20.000 So, I beg.
01:18:23.000 I want just simply for a man, for the man that I choose to be with, to be superior to me.
01:18:28.000 So that I can respect him.
01:18:29.000 And that means intellectually, physically...
01:18:33.000 Emotionally, you know?
01:18:34.000 Emotionally, it's okay.
01:18:35.000 It's okay.
01:18:36.000 I can be more emotionally intelligent than him.
01:18:38.000 Financially too.
01:18:39.000 And financially, this is the reason why, wait, I haven't finished.
01:18:43.000 And financially, the reason why I actually don't care whether or not you have got money right there and then is because if you are intellectually superior to me, and politically superior to me, but this is the thing.
01:18:55.000 If you treat me nice, if you treat me nice and they need to hit these boxes, I don't care if you got money because at some point we're going to make it.
01:19:01.000 I would rather, I'm not going to lie to you.
01:19:03.000 I've experienced- You know that so many guys don't make it.
01:19:05.000 Not everybody makes it.
01:19:06.000 Listen, that's okay.
01:19:08.000 That's okay.
01:19:08.000 And that's the pessimism that will get people to not actually go for men that are really nice, but unfortunately they may have hit a bump on the road and you're judging them because they ain't got thousands in their pocket, but tomorrow they could.
01:19:20.000 But Denelva, we already covered this.
01:19:21.000 Myron's already talked about potential.
01:19:23.000 You're just describing potential.
01:19:25.000 You're describing a guy who will at some point hopefully make it.
01:19:28.000 And he treats me good, so I don't mind.
01:19:29.000 Okay.
01:19:30.000 What if he never makes it?
01:19:32.000 So that means that money does matter.
01:19:35.000 No, it simply means that I don't really care if you make it or not.
01:19:39.000 First and foremost, what I care about is, are you nice to me?
01:19:42.000 Do you treat me nice?
01:19:43.000 And the reason why I care about this is because someone was very not nice to me, so I want the opposite of that.
01:19:48.000 And I want somebody that is also very- Wait, wait, wait, Denalva, Denalva, how long were you with him?
01:19:51.000 Five years, bro.
01:19:53.000 By your own admission, you're saying you don't care about money, right?
01:19:57.000 No, initially I don't really care.
01:19:58.000 But then you're also saying if there's potential and ambition, then one day he's going to get there, right?
01:20:03.000 Yeah, he's going to get there.
01:20:05.000 So on some level, you're saying the same thing.
01:20:07.000 It's the same thing.
01:20:08.000 Okay, that's fine.
01:20:09.000 But the potential, that's you're talking about financial potential.
01:20:12.000 I don't care about the financial potential as much because there's such That's the things that I actually prioritize beyond financial.
01:20:18.000 Because let me tell you something.
01:20:19.000 Let me tell you.
01:20:20.000 I work hard!
01:20:21.000 Which means I can actually give myself things.
01:20:23.000 So I'm very fortunate to be able to prioritize other things before finances.
01:20:29.000 Like how well do you treat me?
01:20:31.000 How intelligent can you be?
01:20:32.000 With all due respect, this is why we don't respect women's opinions. 1.00
01:20:36.000 Because, and I'm going to be very honest here.
01:20:38.000 You're an educated woman too.
01:20:39.000 You don't make sense.
01:20:41.000 You're contradicting yourself all over the place.
01:20:43.000 On one hand, we asked you, does money matter?
01:20:45.000 Then you go and say no.
01:20:46.000 And we're like, oh!
01:20:47.000 Then you go ahead and perfectly describe the traits and potential to make money in the future.
01:20:54.000 So, money does matter, but what you're doing is what a lot of women do. 1.00
01:20:57.000 You're dressing up something that is unflattering to hear, I care about money, and you're trying to conceal it in the cloak of potential, which is what a lot of women do. 1.00
01:21:06.000 But this is what I mean when I say females in general have an issue with being direct and saying what is really on their minds or what they really want, because if women were honest and said what's really on their mind or what they really want, you would look like shit. 1.00
01:21:17.000 You would look like shit. 0.99
01:21:19.000 If you said, I want a guy If women were honest about what they really wanted in men, 1.00
01:21:36.000 which everything I just described is what women want, we wouldn't fucking respect y'all, which is why, hold on, which is why you guys can't be honest because the things that women are Actually aroused by and attracted to, don't sound good when said out loud.
01:21:49.000 Matter of fact, when I described all these things, all of you were uncomfortable. 0.96
01:21:52.000 Because you guys know deep down I'm fucking right. 0.92
01:21:54.000 But men are very direct about what they want in women. 1.00
01:21:57.000 Yes, because you guys are dumb. 1.00
01:21:59.000 In terms of looks, we don't want anyone's fat. 1.00
01:22:05.000 We're direct.
01:22:06.000 The reason why, and we're directing you guys, still don't get it.
01:22:09.000 Or actually, you know what?
01:22:11.000 Let me stop.
01:22:12.000 Let me stop.
01:22:12.000 Let me stop.
01:22:13.000 Men are direct.
01:22:14.000 Men are direct with other men, but they can't afford to be direct with women because your guys' feelings get in the way. 0.76
01:22:21.000 So they're not direct with women.
01:22:21.000 You guys play a lot of games as well.
01:22:23.000 You guys do this thing.
01:22:25.000 Yeah. 0.94
01:22:25.000 Where you'll play a game and all that shit, but really, you just wanted that one thing. 0.94
01:22:30.000 And more time, you could have just been honest. 0.99
01:22:32.000 There are some females out here that you can literally just be directed with. 1.00
01:22:36.000 I'm not going to lie, I just want a Lincoln thing.
01:22:38.000 But they're scared.
01:22:39.000 And then, at the end of the day, you will get way more respect. 0.99
01:22:43.000 Are you fucking a guy that comes up to you and says, look, I have zero intention of actually having a relationship recording you. 1.00
01:22:48.000 I just want to have sex with you. 1.00
01:22:49.000 Fuck him. 1.00
01:22:51.000 No, because... 1.00
01:22:52.000 Okay, okay.
01:22:53.000 Would you?
01:22:53.000 That's not my intention.
01:22:54.000 Absolutely not.
01:22:55.000 But it's not my motive.
01:22:57.000 What about you?
01:22:58.000 Guy comes up to you.
01:22:59.000 Depends. 1.00
01:22:59.000 I just want to have sex with you. 1.00
01:23:01.000 I'm not going to court you or take you on a date. 1.00
01:23:03.000 I just want to fuck, come over at six. 1.00
01:23:05.000 Are you going? 1.00
01:23:06.000 Depends how he goes about it.
01:23:07.000 But yes, if I'm not looking for him...
01:23:09.000 If I'm not looking for something...
01:23:10.000 Hold on, hold on.
01:23:11.000 Relax, relax.
01:23:13.000 If I'm not looking for a relationship with that person, I could still have fun.
01:23:15.000 Okay, what's the chances of you saying yes?
01:23:20.000 20%, 50%, 90%?
01:23:21.000 Sometimes you want to have fun as well, you know?
01:23:23.000 Okay, give me a percentage of this sometimes.
01:23:26.000 I mean, also 50-50.
01:23:28.000 Okay, 50-50.
01:23:29.000 Would it be fair to say that that 50-50 is very contingent upon his physical looks and his ability to convey it in a certain way?
01:23:35.000 He's got to be attractive.
01:23:36.000 He's got to be that type of guy for you to do it, right?
01:23:38.000 Personality as well.
01:23:39.000 Hold on.
01:23:40.000 She's answering.
01:23:40.000 Well, it's looks, personality, intellect.
01:23:43.000 He's got to be good looking.
01:23:45.000 Well, yeah.
01:23:46.000 Okay, interesting.
01:23:47.000 That's a minority of men.
01:23:47.000 What about you?
01:23:48.000 No. 0.99
01:23:49.000 You're not fucking him, right? 0.99
01:23:50.000 What about you? 1.00
01:23:51.000 Are you mad?
01:23:51.000 Of course not.
01:23:52.000 No.
01:23:52.000 Okay, what about you?
01:23:54.000 So a majority of you said no.
01:23:56.000 Congratulations, that's most women. 1.00
01:23:57.000 So we can't be honest.
01:23:58.000 One second, this is why I said, let me give you an example.
01:24:02.000 I will respect you all if you just told me what it was.
01:24:05.000 Can I give the example?
01:24:08.000 Can I actually give it?
01:24:09.000 And this is actually something that I've been through.
01:24:11.000 This is actually something that I've been through and it's legit. 0.98
01:24:14.000 But then you guys complain about low body counts, but then you want women to sleep with you for free. 0.94
01:24:19.000 Hold up.
01:24:19.000 Hold up.
01:24:20.000 Shut up for a second. 1.00
01:24:21.000 Hold up. 1.00
01:24:21.000 Wait a minute. 1.00
01:24:22.000 Wait a minute.
01:24:23.000 Sorry.
01:24:23.000 Hold on.
01:24:24.000 Hold on.
01:24:24.000 Hold on.
01:24:25.000 I've actually been with someone.
01:24:27.000 You gotta chill out for two seconds.
01:24:28.000 You gotta chill out real quick.
01:24:28.000 I'm chilled.
01:24:29.000 No, you weren't chilled to her.
01:24:30.000 Yeah, don't tell her to shut up. 1.00
01:24:32.000 Oh, sorry.
01:24:33.000 Yeah. 1.00
01:24:34.000 What the fuck? 1.00
01:24:36.000 It's her studio. 1.00
01:24:37.000 Yeah, what the fuck, man? 1.00
01:24:38.000 No, I wasn't. 1.00
01:24:39.000 So, okay.
01:24:40.000 You can go ahead and make your point, and then you can make your point after.
01:24:43.000 Because you had something, right, Miss Morocco?
01:24:45.000 All right, so, go ahead.
01:24:46.000 What were you going to say?
01:24:48.000 So I've actually been with someone and we straight up just said to each other, we've known each other for time and we was like, look, we don't want anything serious.
01:24:56.000 Like it's just a linking.
01:24:57.000 So we do our bits, but we're respectful. 0.66
01:25:00.000 We had like a nice little arrangement to it and all that shit and we kept it calm. 0.81
01:25:03.000 We kept it stepping. 0.91
01:25:04.000 If any of us got with anyone else, we was very honest with each other.
01:25:08.000 Now that is when two mindsets actually collide.
01:25:11.000 Repeat what you said.
01:25:12.000 The first sentence you said.
01:25:13.000 Repeat the first sentence you said.
01:25:14.000 I've known you for a while.
01:25:16.000 Exactly.
01:25:17.000 Yo, so chat, I want y'all to see this.
01:25:19.000 Hold on, hold on, stop one second.
01:25:20.000 This is what I mean when I say like...
01:25:21.000 But you wouldn't do that with a stranger.
01:25:23.000 You wouldn't... 0.97
01:25:23.000 Nigga, we said that at the very beginning. 0.97
01:25:26.000 You met for the first time.
01:25:28.000 Incredible.
01:25:29.000 Sorry, my bad, I didn't hear that.
01:25:30.000 Yo, we're in the UK, bro. 1.00
01:25:31.000 And it's still the same shit, nigga. 1.00
01:25:33.000 Bro! 1.00
01:25:42.000 And the thing is London is such an international city so you get girls from Italy, you get girls from Brazil, you get girls from all over the world, it's the same. 1.00
01:25:51.000 You guys are actually kind of gassed because you're talking shit like that. 0.91
01:25:55.000 But when you are telling me about a man being broke, I simply told you I don't care about money and I don't really expect you to put me in those categories. 0.99
01:26:03.000 I'm telling you right now, I am the daughter of a woman that raised four daughters on her own, which means that I was taught to not give a damn about money from men.
01:26:11.000 And I was provided for by a man.
01:26:14.000 I actually don't need a man to give me money.
01:26:17.000 So when I'm looking for a man, I actually don't care about money.
01:26:19.000 I get what you're saying.
01:26:21.000 You just said a second ago, you literally just said you don't want to pay a majority of the bills and you don't want to go 50-50.
01:26:30.000 What's required for you to not go 50-50?
01:26:33.000 What's required for you to not go 50-50?
01:26:35.000 Let me tell you why I said that because I made sure I added this at the end because as a woman my life will have to adapt and go through different moments because for example women you have children which means that you're not going to be in a position to pay bills 50-50 Because you may be off work,
01:26:51.000 especially if, let's say, you have three, four kids in a row.
01:26:53.000 You cannot help, so you cannot do 50.
01:26:55.000 That doesn't refute the bottom line that you're going to have kids.
01:26:57.000 It also tells you, listen, listen, listen.
01:27:01.000 Wait, wait, wait.
01:27:03.000 No, you're going about kids, but I'm telling you why I said that I would only temporarily do something.
01:27:07.000 Yo, look, look.
01:27:08.000 Do you not understand, when you're making, when you're arguing or whatever, like, Or making a point.
01:27:13.000 The why is irrelevant.
01:27:14.000 I'm still correct.
01:27:16.000 You're saying, well, I'm going to have a kid.
01:27:18.000 That's why I don't want to pay 50-50.
01:27:20.000 Fantastic.
01:27:20.000 That's cool.
01:27:21.000 We understand that that comes with the situation.
01:27:23.000 But that doesn't refute what I said.
01:27:25.000 That you don't want to pay 50-50, so that means that money does matter.
01:27:28.000 Listen, okay.
01:27:29.000 Hold on.
01:27:29.000 Wait, wait, wait.
01:27:31.000 Let me separate it.
01:27:33.000 I don't care whether you're rich or you're well-off.
01:27:35.000 I simply care about the fact that we can live a comfortable life because...
01:27:40.000 My G, you live a comfortable life by going to work.
01:27:44.000 You can work in McDonald's and live a good life.
01:27:46.000 I don't care about being rich.
01:27:48.000 If I cared about being rich, I would have been doing something different.
01:27:52.000 We're gonna move on.
01:27:53.000 Miss Russia, save us. 0.88
01:27:54.000 Morocco has something first.
01:27:55.000 I wanted to quickly say something.
01:27:59.000 Just quickly.
01:28:00.000 I know what she said. 0.61
01:28:01.000 She mentioned something about you don't want girls with high body counts, but you're talking about having sex with the guy early on, is what she was saying. 0.99
01:28:07.000 Okay.
01:28:08.000 Well, we'll address that in a second.
01:28:09.000 Yeah.
01:28:09.000 Go ahead.
01:28:10.000 You were going to say something?
01:28:11.000 I think, you know, when guys call us things like gold diggers and things like that, that's where kind of the problem also is because not all women are gold diggers. 1.00
01:28:21.000 Yeah, they are.
01:28:23.000 Yeah, they are.
01:28:25.000 Why?
01:28:25.000 Why do you think so?
01:28:26.000 I just went around the panel here and asked all of you if you would be okay with going 50-50 or and or the man paying the majority of the bills and all of you said yes.
01:28:33.000 That's a difference between...
01:28:35.000 You expect us to provide all the emotional stuff for you, right?
01:28:39.000 Okay, let me ask you a question.
01:28:40.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on. 0.99
01:28:42.000 Holy crap. 1.00
01:28:43.000 If I kill one person or if I kill a hundred people, am I still a murderer? 1.00
01:28:48.000 Yeah.
01:28:49.000 Okay, so if you want to pay a minority of the bills, or maybe 50-50, or whatever it is, you still want a man that makes more money, so you're still a gold digger to a degree.
01:28:59.000 There's a difference between wanting to be comfortable and looked after. 0.75
01:29:02.000 You just don't like the word, but you're still a killer if you kill 100 or one. 0.99
01:29:06.000 You're still a killer, right? 0.98
01:29:07.000 You're going to extremes, that's the thing. 0.99
01:29:09.000 That's how I have to bring it so you guys understand logic.
01:29:11.000 No, so there's a difference between wanting a roof over your head, stability, and wanting to run someone's pockets.
01:29:18.000 It's completely different.
01:29:19.000 And at the end of the day, that woman needs money. 1.00
01:29:22.000 You need more than stability in London.
01:29:24.000 You're gonna need someone who's at least on 100k.
01:29:27.000 You guys are more triggered.
01:29:30.000 You guys are triggered by the term gold digger.
01:29:39.000 That's why I was very specific and said all women are gold diggers to a degree. 1.00
01:29:42.000 You might not be a huge gold digger.
01:29:44.000 However, and just so y'all know, I'm not roasting you guys for being that way.
01:29:48.000 It's in a woman's natural tendency to be gold diggers. 1.00
01:29:50.000 That's fine.
01:29:51.000 But you guys are trying to sit here and dress it up as something else.
01:29:53.000 And that's where we had the point of contention.
01:29:54.000 The word gold digger implies that the person is only out for financial gain.
01:30:03.000 That is the cornerstone.
01:30:05.000 You wouldn't be in it if you didn't think he could make money.
01:30:08.000 It doesn't mean right now, but at some point when you have a kid, who's going to be paying the bills?
01:30:14.000 But the word gold digger is an extreme.
01:30:18.000 Just because you don't like how it sounds, it doesn't make it not true.
01:30:24.000 What's the definition of gold digger then?
01:30:26.000 What is the better word to use then?
01:30:29.000 For you.
01:30:30.000 Someone who wants to be comfortable and protected.
01:30:33.000 Live the basic life.
01:30:35.000 The basic pyramid of needs.
01:30:37.000 A basic digger.
01:30:37.000 A woman who wants to be provided for.
01:30:40.000 The word digger implies that there's an ulterior motive, guys.
01:30:45.000 It implies being sneaky.
01:30:47.000 This is why I retired.
01:30:48.000 But do you not understand what I'm saying?
01:30:50.000 No, honestly.
01:30:51.000 Look, look, look.
01:30:52.000 I got this right now.
01:30:53.000 Look, look, look.
01:30:54.000 Do you not understand that when you're digging, that is by definition for what?
01:30:59.000 Potential!
01:31:00.000 Oh! 0.60
01:31:01.000 And what the hell you've been about to say a second ago?
01:31:03.000 Potential!
01:31:04.000 You're digging because there's a potential to find gold.
01:31:06.000 And that's what women are looking for. 1.00
01:31:09.000 It's in the term!
01:31:10.000 Everyone likes money.
01:31:13.000 Men also like money.
01:31:14.000 Everyone likes money.
01:31:14.000 Everyone likes money.
01:31:15.000 A man is not going to date a woman if she hasn't got any goals or she's not working and she's just being bummy. 1.00
01:31:21.000 Are you going to date a woman? 0.98
01:31:22.000 Not true.
01:31:22.000 Not true.
01:31:24.000 Really?
01:31:24.000 So you're telling me if you met a girl, yeah, and she worked like what?
01:31:28.000 Burger King. 1.00
01:31:29.000 One day a week?
01:31:30.000 Yes.
01:31:30.000 No, no, no.
01:31:31.000 Men don't care about that. 1.00
01:31:32.000 And the rest of the days, all she did was just lay in bed and just chill with stuff.
01:31:35.000 Are you really going to love her?
01:31:36.000 Are you really going to take care of her?
01:31:38.000 Yeah, yeah.
01:31:39.000 Absolutely.
01:31:39.000 They would.
01:31:40.000 They absolutely would.
01:31:42.000 They'll help her.
01:31:43.000 I have a question.
01:31:45.000 How hard is she? 0.99
01:31:49.000 No, they absolutely...
01:31:50.000 No, they don't care about that.
01:31:51.000 If she's an eight or higher, she's good.
01:31:53.000 They absolutely would love the McDonald's girl.
01:31:57.000 I take your point.
01:31:58.000 I think it's about semantics.
01:31:59.000 The issue you've got is with the term, right?
01:32:01.000 But Myra's already said there's a spectrum to this, right?
01:32:04.000 So you get the girl who's at the boat party with Drake and she's just after the cash. 0.99
01:32:08.000 She's after the Louis bag and all that shit, right? 0.98
01:32:11.000 You've got that. 1.00
01:32:11.000 And then you've got women who they're just looking for the comfortable... 1.00
01:32:15.000 Basic pyramid of needs.
01:32:16.000 Basic human needs.
01:32:17.000 But what I would also say is, and Myron, I don't know what you guys take on this, it seems to be like the dating market is getting increasingly transactional anyway. 0.94
01:32:25.000 And I don't think that's a fucking bad thing.
01:32:28.000 It's not. 0.94
01:32:28.000 Really. 0.94
01:32:28.000 I think the issue is, like, because we can be honest about this, and we can say that is part of what a guy brings to the party. 0.94
01:32:35.000 Like, the financial support, etc.
01:32:37.000 And I don't think that's really a bad thing, but the issue is more the obfuscation of, you know, like, trying to cover over it, right?
01:32:42.000 They don't like I want to point out, this is how women control speech. 1.00
01:32:47.000 Because men will say something really direct and then women will say, well, it's how you say it. 0.98
01:32:52.000 Even though we're communicating the same thing, it's just, it's like...
01:32:56.000 Well, you're not actually, because when you actually pay attention to the definitions of words, they actually make a huge difference.
01:33:02.000 You have to be careful with what you're saying.
01:33:03.000 Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
01:33:04.000 What's the actual definition of gold digger?
01:33:06.000 Okay, okay.
01:33:07.000 Do you look for a man that can provide in any way in the long term?
01:33:10.000 Of course.
01:33:11.000 You want to have food.
01:33:12.000 That's it.
01:33:13.000 That's it.
01:33:13.000 That's it.
01:33:13.000 But that sounds much nicer than saying that you're a gold digger.
01:33:16.000 You don't like how it sounds.
01:33:18.000 But what is the definition of gold digger?
01:33:19.000 Men are gold diggers as well because they want a woman that can take care of the house and provide to a certain extent. 0.99
01:33:26.000 He wants a woman that can come home and actually emotionally support him and all that shit. 0.99
01:33:29.000 To an extent, men are gold diggers too. 0.99
01:33:32.000 Guys are gold diggers as well.
01:33:34.000 Guys are gold diggers as well.
01:33:34.000 Guys are gold diggers as well.
01:33:35.000 Since it's a spectrum.
01:33:36.000 There's nothing wrong with that though.
01:33:37.000 There's nothing wrong.
01:33:38.000 Guys, one mic at a time.
01:33:40.000 One mic at a time.
01:33:41.000 Women give ourselves way too much credit. 1.00
01:33:43.000 Pearl, is your man rich?
01:33:44.000 Come on now.
01:33:45.000 We need to emotionally...
01:33:47.000 Pearl, is your average man rich?
01:33:49.000 We need to get emotional support from men.
01:33:53.000 I don't really think men need emotional support from us.
01:33:56.000 Women just like taking credit. 1.00
01:33:58.000 Okay, so is your average man rich?
01:34:00.000 My question, is your average man rich?
01:34:04.000 And they do need emotion.
01:34:05.000 Everyone needs emotional support once in a while.
01:34:07.000 It doesn't matter if it's a man or a female. 0.74
01:34:09.000 We all need a partner, someone that we can rely on as a comfort to.
01:34:14.000 You'd be like, you know what?
01:34:15.000 I'm feeling some type of way right now.
01:34:17.000 I need to unwind.
01:34:19.000 But men don't look to us for that.
01:34:23.000 Men can't because women... 1.00
01:34:24.000 No, no, no.
01:34:27.000 Because women use that emotion against men later. 0.87
01:34:31.000 I've heard this from so many guys.
01:34:33.000 Men do that too. 1.00
01:34:34.000 Where men open up to us and then we use it against them. 0.52
01:34:40.000 So many guys have said this.
01:34:41.000 Men do it too. 0.60
01:34:41.000 I'm sorry. 0.60
01:34:42.000 I've experienced firsthand a man using every single thing he asked me to open up because I'm very closed off.
01:34:50.000 And then before you know it, he's using it for my face.
01:34:55.000 Gaslighting me, manipulating, blackmailing.
01:34:58.000 So at the end of the day, at the end of the day, men do the same thing as women do. 0.95
01:35:04.000 So we can't say that it's just one gender and keep putting it on the women and say that women are gold diggers, but men are not gold diggers.
01:35:11.000 You haven't answered my question, Pearl.
01:35:14.000 How rich is your average man, Pearl?
01:35:17.000 That doesn't have to do with the...
01:35:19.000 It kind of does.
01:35:20.000 We're talking about golf.
01:35:20.000 So it's nature and nurture.
01:35:22.000 I think it's nature and nurture.
01:35:23.000 What you grow up with the values that you grow up learning.
01:35:26.000 Do women find vulnerability in men sexy? 0.85
01:35:29.000 Do women find vulnerability in men sexy? 0.85
01:35:31.000 I do, yes.
01:35:33.000 I do.
01:35:34.000 I want to hear from you.
01:35:36.000 What specifically happened where this guy used your vulnerability against you?
01:35:40.000 I want to hear the story.
01:35:41.000 I'm not going into that because at the end of that...
01:35:43.000 Okay, because it's not true.
01:35:44.000 It's not true.
01:35:46.000 She just wants to keep it personal. 1.00
01:35:47.000 No, I like to keep my shit personal because that shit ended up being domestic. 1.00
01:35:51.000 So not only did he fucking abuse me mentally, yes I did actually, ABH. I have all the photos, I have all the proof and I was supposed to take him to court but I dropped the charges because of his little girl. 0.99
01:36:03.000 Thank you very much. 0.82
01:36:05.000 So don't try to come to me when I can actually get all the proof and I can get all the emails up and I can get every single fucking thing up. 0.90
01:36:21.000 I'm not about to take a father away from a child. 0.97
01:36:25.000 This little girl was special.
01:36:27.000 What if he hits her? 1.00
01:36:29.000 This is why it's so full of shit. 1.00
01:36:31.000 I did think that, but there are so many things that are behind it that I'm not going to go I'm not going into it. 1.00
01:36:37.000 There's so many things behind it.
01:36:38.000 I'm not going into it.
01:36:39.000 There's a lot of personal stuff back.
01:36:41.000 And I do not need to explain myself to you.
01:36:43.000 I don't really care.
01:36:46.000 So why are you digging at me?
01:36:48.000 Why are you trying to come at me and say that it's not true?
01:36:50.000 Was you the one that got beaten?
01:36:52.000 Was you the one with a broken jaw?
01:36:54.000 Was you the one with a broken jaw?
01:36:57.000 Was it you?
01:36:59.000 No, but this is why, because if he really was this dangerous, evil guy, you would have pressed charge.
01:37:05.000 No, no, no.
01:37:06.000 Pearl, there's several levels to an abusive relationship.
01:37:10.000 And if you've not been in one, you can't comment on it.
01:37:14.000 It's a very sensitive...
01:37:15.000 A hundred percent.
01:37:15.000 A hundred percent.
01:37:16.000 You're acting as if you know up on something that you haven't been through.
01:37:19.000 I've done this for you.
01:37:21.000 You know comments a bit, right?
01:37:22.000 Have you been in an abusive relationship?
01:37:26.000 Have you been in one?
01:37:28.000 Hold on, hold on.
01:37:29.000 Okay.
01:37:29.000 Ladies, ladies, all right.
01:37:31.000 Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey. 0.99
01:37:34.000 Everybody shut the fuck up for two seconds, okay? 0.99
01:37:37.000 Let's go, yeah, because you guys talk too goddamn much and it's hurting my ears and the audience. 0.99
01:37:41.000 I'll just objectively say this and then you guys can go back to saying what you're saying. 0.93
01:37:46.000 But studies have shown this, that typically when there's abusive relationships, nine out of 10 times, it's both parties are beating on each other.
01:37:53.000 And if there's one party beating on the other, right?
01:37:56.000 Most of the time, not saying this is your situation, so don't get triggered, but most of the time when there's one party beating on the other, it's typically the woman beating on the man, not the other way around, contrary to popular belief.
01:38:07.000 A lot of people think it's the man beating on the woman, but nine out of ten times if the man's beating on the woman, it's the woman also beating on him.
01:38:12.000 Can I say something?
01:38:14.000 It's both.
01:38:14.000 That's a fact, by the way.
01:38:15.000 Because this happened to me.
01:38:16.000 I've been doing this for a year, a year now, okay?
01:38:19.000 I stopped in November.
01:38:21.000 And I'll tell you what, I'll tell you what.
01:38:24.000 i i couldn't believe women never file police reports in these evil abusive men if they're so abusive file a police report why would you want an evil abusive man out there he could hit but why didn't you press charges i don't know i don't know you personally so i maybe you're the exception doubt it but it's like but it's like okay literally you can go to the cops and they can put these guys in jail if they're abusive why don't you go do it they never do Well,
01:38:52.000 unfortunately, we're emotional creatures, isn't it?
01:38:54.000 But I wanted to ask you, Pearl, did your demonetization mean that you ended up with an average man?
01:38:59.000 Did it open up your pool?
01:39:01.000 I'm unemployed, so it's like anyone makes more.
01:39:07.000 It's like when you're in the negative.
01:39:10.000 A big reason why a lot of them don't go to the police is because they're both attacking each other.
01:39:16.000 It wasn't that.
01:39:18.000 My reason...
01:39:20.000 You don't have to explain yourself.
01:39:20.000 You said that earlier, right?
01:39:21.000 That's fine.
01:39:22.000 You don't have to.
01:39:22.000 I'm just telling you the overall situation.
01:39:25.000 My reason was completely different to that.
01:39:25.000 I know that, yes, both parties kind of end up being violent and everything like that.
01:39:30.000 Most of the time.
01:39:31.000 And I've seen it.
01:39:33.000 I know those that have been in domestic relationships themselves.
01:39:37.000 But when it ended up happening to me, I was shocked because it happened out of nowhere.
01:39:42.000 When it comes to the mental and the emotional, that was already hard enough as it is, and I was trying to break away, and I was trying to get myself away from that person.
01:39:51.000 But there is so many things behind the scenes that I don't want to go into, and I won't go into, that played a massive factor.
01:39:59.000 But then why would you bring it up if you don't want to go into it?
01:40:01.000 I don't understand.
01:40:03.000 Why would you bring stuff up you don't want to go into?
01:40:04.000 I'm trying to let you know that there are men out there.
01:40:07.000 I just wouldn't bring something up I didn't want to go into.
01:40:09.000 Because I don't have to go into the rest of it.
01:40:11.000 You're just trying to dig, dig, dig, dig.
01:40:14.000 And you've never experienced it yourself.
01:40:39.000 You know, the domestic violence and stuff like that.
01:40:42.000 Up until as of recent, only the things, you could only go to the police, like when it got violent.
01:40:47.000 But now, domestic abuse is the mental...
01:40:50.000 When did the law change?
01:40:51.000 Hold on, hold on.
01:40:52.000 What year did the law change?
01:40:54.000 Hold on, you're talking to a professional.
01:40:56.000 Relax.
01:40:56.000 Cohersive control, the abuse, all that.
01:40:58.000 Cohersive control is bullshit. 1.00
01:41:00.000 Can you relax? 1.00
01:41:01.000 Can you relax? 0.99
01:41:02.000 No, because it doesn't matter if they're professionals, if they don't know shit, because the problem Feminists get into these institutions and they change the definition of word. 1.00
01:41:19.000 So abusive used to be one-sided. 0.99
01:41:21.000 One person's hitting the other.
01:41:22.000 That's it.
01:41:22.000 That's what abuse is supposed to be.
01:41:24.000 Abuse is so I'm sorry that Pearl has been doing this for a year and therefore she knows that what you're talking about.
01:41:43.000 Can she finish her sentence please? 0.98
01:41:55.000 It's not always just physical.
01:41:56.000 It's mental.
01:41:57.000 It's coercive control.
01:41:58.000 But it's only as of recent, we've been taught that these things are abuse.
01:42:02.000 Before it was, oh, it's just, did he hit you?
01:42:05.000 It's not about just, did he hit you physically?
01:42:08.000 It's everything that leads to that point.
01:42:10.000 Can I go now?
01:42:10.000 It's everything that leads to that part.
01:42:12.000 So also, we don't want to condone violence, of course, and what happened to you sucks. 0.87
01:42:17.000 But that's dangerous because now we're saying it could be mental. 0.75
01:42:20.000 And verbal?
01:42:21.000 That is crazy, my guy. 1.00
01:42:23.000 But without you knowing, you're stuck somewhere, and you don't know what the fuck is going on. 0.99
01:42:29.000 It all contributes. 0.97
01:42:31.000 You know you want to leave, but you can't.
01:42:37.000 It's mad.
01:42:38.000 No, because feminists got into these institutions, and they switched the definition. 1.00
01:42:42.000 So it used to, and it is.
01:42:43.000 Real abuse is really one person's hitting the other, the other's not hitting them.
01:42:47.000 No, that's not just abuse.
01:42:48.000 That's emotional abuse as well.
01:42:51.000 It's my turn.
01:42:53.000 It's my turn.
01:42:55.000 It's my turn.
01:42:56.000 It's my turn.
01:42:58.000 I understood that.
01:43:00.000 And so what they did was they expanded the definition and what they did in the family court system was they made it a balance of probability.
01:43:11.000 So meaning one judge can go in there and say if it's more likely that she was abused than not more likely.
01:43:18.000 Basically, that the guy is guilty.
01:43:20.000 And so what they'll do is financial abuse.
01:43:23.000 Oh, he didn't let you spend whatever you want on your credit card.
01:43:25.000 Oh, you've been abused.
01:43:26.000 Oh, come on. 0.87
01:43:27.000 No, no, this is true.
01:43:28.000 I've done, I've done, I've interviewed the guys.
01:43:30.000 I've seen the court documents.
01:43:32.000 Have you ever tried to interview and get to know the women and what's going on with them? 0.98
01:43:37.000 And how much it But this is the problem.
01:43:41.000 Women are so used to being able to falsely accuse men that if they're ever called out on it, they just get mad. 1.00
01:43:51.000 It's really to the point where I just...
01:43:53.000 I can't wait to see what your relationship ends like, though.
01:43:56.000 I can't wait.
01:43:58.000 Because you seem to have a lot of the answers.
01:44:01.000 We're talking about abuse.
01:44:02.000 No, I'm talking about just things in general.
01:44:04.000 Because you talk with such certainty that you don't even know.
01:44:10.000 Guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys.
01:44:14.000 I'm telling you, you listen.
01:44:15.000 Guys, guys, guys, guys, guys.
01:44:24.000 Man, wait a minute.
01:44:39.000 What's more dangerous is you talking like this, same thing as Pearl is saying, because now you're taking the voices away from people that actually need it.
01:44:46.000 Wait, wait, it's my turn.
01:44:47.000 It's my turn.
01:44:48.000 It's my turn.
01:44:49.000 I'll let you go.
01:44:49.000 I'll let you go.
01:44:50.000 Thank you.
01:44:50.000 But only if I can go after.
01:44:52.000 It's my turn.
01:44:53.000 It's my turn.
01:44:53.000 It's my turn.
01:44:54.000 What I find very interesting is that, for example, Pearl, you have a lot of experience sitting here for one year speaking to so many different men, but you've probably only had like one or two relationships that probably were not that serious.
01:45:04.000 When it comes to the emotional connection with a man, that experience of yours might just be limited.
01:45:10.000 Because I haven't finished.
01:45:12.000 I still haven't finished.
01:45:13.000 You're getting triggered.
01:45:14.000 Pearl is getting triggered.
01:45:15.000 You have to attack the argument and not the person.
01:45:18.000 No, I'm attacking.
01:45:19.000 No, listen.
01:45:20.000 No, but the thing is, she's devaluing what someone's gone through.
01:45:24.000 Do you see what I'm saying? 0.99
01:45:26.000 You didn't go through that as if you were fucking there. 1.00
01:45:29.000 As if you're the one that ended up with the bruises and all that shit in your body. 1.00
01:45:32.000 Relax, man. 1.00
01:45:33.000 Relax.
01:45:33.000 Relax.
01:45:53.000 Do you know why I can't do that?
01:45:55.000 You don't have to be a mathematician to say one plus one is two.
01:45:57.000 I know, but can I tell you why I said that? 1.00
01:45:59.000 Because it's the same way that you can't attack and discredit a person because she is a woman, because women are stupid, or because women shouldn't vote, or because women shouldn't, because women are more emotional. 1.00
01:46:07.000 No one did that. 1.00
01:46:08.000 No, but in general, you are generalizing.
01:46:10.000 So when you generalize to discredit women that are talking about abuse because women are more emotional, then I'll discredit somebody that's saying the same thing but doesn't even have the experience that she should have. 1.00
01:46:29.000 Shut the fuck up! 1.00
01:46:30.000 Holy shit! 1.00
01:46:31.000 When I'm fucking talking, shut the fuck up! 1.00
01:46:34.000 I don't know what you guys think this is, but I gotta fucking put my foot down because you guys are hurting the crowd of the show and just fucking yelling a bunch of nonsense. 1.00
01:46:40.000 That was sexy. 0.99
01:46:49.000 That was the most red pill moment of the whole show!
01:46:53.000 Because the thing is that you guys are trying to twist what she's saying.
01:46:57.000 She's simply saying that the term abuse has been changed and bastardized to basically fit and mold female emotions, right?
01:47:08.000 So that it can hit a wider net of men.
01:47:10.000 For example, it used to be, I'm just attacking, right?
01:47:13.000 Which, obviously, we don't condone that.
01:47:15.000 It's terrible.
01:47:15.000 However, now it's morphed into, he's not giving me a credit card.
01:47:18.000 Oh, it's emotional abuse, et cetera.
01:47:20.000 How can you sit there of court of law and define emotional abuse?
01:47:24.000 What's the litmus test for that?
01:47:26.000 What is the barometer?
01:47:27.000 How do you identify it?
01:47:28.000 The same way that racial discrimination has evolved because you learn more.
01:47:31.000 The more you know, the more you evolve.
01:47:34.000 Can we please...
01:47:36.000 All she's saying...
01:47:38.000 You're fantastic at trying to transition an argument.
01:47:41.000 All she's saying is that the term abuse has morphed Thanks to the family court to destroy more men.
01:47:47.000 That's all she's saying, which is true.
01:47:49.000 I just think people are more knowledgeable to notice that it's not just physical.
01:47:54.000 It's not just physical now.
01:47:55.000 Because you're talking about if it's against a man, it's not against a man.
01:47:59.000 That is something to protect everybody.
01:48:01.000 It's psychological.
01:48:01.000 It's a psychological thing.
01:48:02.000 The legal terms.
01:48:04.000 Wait, wait, wait.
01:48:04.000 Then why don't men do it?
01:48:07.000 Why are you cutting me off before I finish, bro?
01:48:08.000 Because men are embarrassed to tell people that their woman beats them.
01:48:13.000 What man is going to go and say, by the way, my woman doesn't let me spend my money. 1.00
01:48:30.000 My woman calls me names and I cry sometimes.
01:48:32.000 Or my woman does this to me. 1.00
01:48:34.000 My woman treats me like a bitch. 1.00
01:48:35.000 Most men will never say that. 1.00
01:48:38.000 And those things are in place so that both men and women can take advantage of it.
01:48:42.000 The important point is how do you define coercive control?
01:48:46.000 The important point is not what her dating relationship status is or any of that.
01:48:50.000 The important point is how do you define coercive control?
01:48:53.000 I don't know.
01:48:53.000 I guess you'll have to experience it.
01:48:54.000 How do you define it?
01:48:56.000 Because that's the important point.
01:48:57.000 Because if the definition has been...
01:49:00.000 You start seeing that this person is more and more isolating you into the point that you've got no one else but that one.
01:49:10.000 And it's disgusting because I've gone through it, but I've also had guy mates that have opened up to me and they've gone through it.
01:49:19.000 And I'm like, this is crazy because I didn't think it would happen like that to men as well.
01:49:24.000 But like, that's what I'm saying.
01:49:25.000 It's not just the reason why abuse has been opened up is because more knowledge has been noticed.
01:49:31.000 I'm like, you know what?
01:49:31.000 This is not just physical.
01:49:33.000 It's like with parents and kids.
01:49:35.000 It's like when you raise little children.
01:49:36.000 You guys just go on for like a million minutes.
01:49:38.000 So I'm going to cut you.
01:49:39.000 I'm going to, yeah, yeah.
01:49:40.000 No, I pay for this whole studio.
01:49:41.000 So shh.
01:49:43.000 Because you're wrong.
01:49:44.000 Because you're wrong and you don't like the fact that you're getting corrected on the thing that you're wrong because you did one year.
01:49:51.000 You did one year and now you know something that someone else has wrong for what it's like.
01:49:55.000 Real quick, Pearl, you're going next, but we're going to go to Rumble, guys.
01:49:58.000 YouTube is going to be shut off.
01:50:00.000 Let's go to Rumble.
01:50:01.000 Rumble, guys.
01:50:01.000 Let's go over to Rumble.
01:50:02.000 Thank you.
01:50:02.000 We need a break.
01:50:03.000 Okay.
01:50:04.000 Yeah.
01:50:04.000 No, no.
01:50:05.000 A break, no?
01:50:08.000 No, no.
01:50:09.000 It's not a break.
01:50:09.000 It's just going to go.
01:50:10.000 Yeah.
01:50:11.000 Now here's the problem.
01:50:13.000 Women used to be able to take L's and just take them and move on. 1.00
01:50:16.000 But now women want to legally pursue L's. 1.00
01:50:20.000 And I think our grandmothers, our great grandmothers, they would take an L and say that was an L and move on.
01:50:25.000 But the problem is with Oh, okay.
01:50:30.000 It's okay.
01:50:30.000 But the problem is with our generation of women, we want to legally, okay, a guy's controlling everything you do, and maybe something happened you didn't like.
01:50:40.000 Now you want to take it to court, take his kids away, take half his shit, and then go around on the internet and call him abusive. 0.95
01:50:45.000 If that's what I wanted to do, why did I take the charges off? 0.99
01:50:49.000 I don't know who you are.
01:50:51.000 I don't know who you are.
01:50:52.000 I don't really care. 1.00
01:50:53.000 I'm not chatting out of my ass. 0.98
01:50:58.000 What research have you done? 1.00
01:51:02.000 It's alright for men to get away with things.
01:51:05.000 They can do all of this.
01:51:06.000 Men don't speak up upon women.
01:51:10.000 Women do all this. 1.00
01:51:22.000 Okay, okay.
01:51:25.000 Let's speak English.
01:51:27.000 We're speaking English here.
01:51:29.000 English viewers.
01:51:31.000 Okay, go, bro.
01:51:32.000 No, look it, look it.
01:51:33.000 Now, here's the thing.
01:51:34.000 We used to take out...
01:51:36.000 There she goes.
01:51:40.000 There she goes.
01:51:41.000 It is not a fault you are not equipped with another language like this one. 1.00
01:51:45.000 I'm joking.
01:51:46.000 I'm joking.
01:51:47.000 I'm joking.
01:51:47.000 I love the languages.
01:51:48.000 I'm really impressed.
01:51:50.000 But the problem is, the problem is, women used to take our L's and just move on. 1.00
01:51:53.000 You know, we would take an L, maybe something happened in a relationship we didn't like, but now we go to the court system and take away his kids and half his assets.
01:52:01.000 So my question is, what do you know about family law?
01:52:04.000 What do you know about the court system?
01:52:06.000 I know quite a bit still, due to the fact that my auntie is a lawyer.
01:52:09.000 Thank you very much.
01:52:11.000 But I don't need to...
01:52:11.000 No, no, no, what do you know?
01:52:13.000 It should be easy.
01:52:14.000 It should be so easy to talk about.
01:52:17.000 I'm so shocked.
01:52:18.000 So women can take all their L's and everything because men don't do that. 1.00
01:52:22.000 Men don't do that. 0.99
01:52:23.000 Do you know how many men go through what they go through and everything and they don't say nothing? 0.99
01:52:26.000 It's the same fucking thing. 0.99
01:52:27.000 Abuse is abuse. 1.00
01:52:28.000 Doesn't matter.
01:52:29.000 What is abuse?
01:52:30.000 What is abuse?
01:52:31.000 What is abuse?
01:52:33.000 What is abuse?
01:52:33.000 What is abuse?
01:52:34.000 There's different levels.
01:52:35.000 There's mental.
01:52:37.000 There's a gaslight in which you can do it.
01:52:38.000 What's the definition?
01:52:40.000 What's the definition?
01:52:41.000 What is the definition?
01:52:45.000 What is the definition?
01:52:47.000 Oh, because you don't know, but that's the problem.
01:52:49.000 And this is the problem.
01:52:51.000 I don't know why.
01:52:51.000 I don't know how you so confidently talk about something you know nothing about.
01:52:54.000 You know nothing about it.
01:52:57.000 Okay, I'll give you an example.
01:53:00.000 I'll give you an example.
01:53:03.000 I'll give you an example.
01:53:05.000 I can give you an example.
01:53:06.000 One thing that most women don't know is that in family court, it's actually all determined by a judge and it's not based on evidence. 1.00
01:53:15.000 It's based on a balance of probabilities, meaning it's more likely that he did it than not.
01:53:19.000 Not based on evidence.
01:53:21.000 So meaning a woman can go cry on a stand and a judge can just say, well, she's crying.
01:53:27.000 A man can do the same thing.
01:53:27.000 But then why?
01:53:29.000 If it was so effective for men, then why don't they do it? 0.99
01:53:36.000 What percent of custody is given to men?
01:53:38.000 What percent of alimony is given to men?
01:53:40.000 None of it.
01:53:41.000 None of it.
01:53:42.000 Now she's googling because she doesn't know. 0.93
01:53:44.000 I could tell you off the top of my head.
01:53:46.000 This is the funny thing.
01:53:48.000 I just don't know.
01:53:49.000 I don't know why.
01:53:50.000 I told you before the show.
01:53:52.000 I told you before the show, no phones.
01:53:54.000 Pearl, do you know what's crazy, right?
01:53:57.000 I'll tell you for sure.
01:53:58.000 A lot of the reasons why...
01:54:01.000 Oh yeah, yeah.
01:54:04.000 Big old, yeah, yeah, yeah, you know.
01:54:07.000 You two can have a fight after, I beg.
01:54:09.000 Relax now.
01:54:10.000 I mean, I'm pretty big.
01:54:12.000 I don't think she'd want that.
01:54:13.000 Don't worry, because she's that golden, yeah?
01:54:15.000 I'm an athlete, you know what I mean?
01:54:17.000 Don't worry, be careful.
01:54:18.000 We are Africans too, so be careful.
01:54:21.000 Anyways, man, you seem pleasant.
01:54:24.000 Okay, step away for two seconds. 0.75
01:54:28.000 Yeah, I mean, again, you guys are very emotional right now.
01:54:32.000 All she's simply saying is that Abuse in general, from a legal standpoint, has morphed over the years to fit an agenda.
01:54:39.000 No, that's not all she's saying.
01:54:41.000 It's certainly more subjective.
01:54:44.000 That's the foundation of what she's been saying.
01:54:45.000 It's certainly more subjective.
01:54:47.000 Thank you, Myron.
01:54:47.000 Thank you.
01:54:48.000 Could you agree it's more subjective, though?
01:54:50.000 Could you at least agree it's more subjective in these emotional cases?
01:54:54.000 Because that's where the problem lies, isn't it?
01:54:55.000 It's defining it.
01:54:57.000 It's not just emotional though.
01:55:00.000 Law is subjective in nature anyways.
01:55:03.000 And the thing is that men go through it a lot but they just don't own up to it and that's the maddest thing.
01:55:08.000 It's crazy.
01:55:09.000 A lot of guys go through this the most as well when it's emotional and mental and they won't think it's abusive or anything like that.
01:55:16.000 Controversial take.
01:55:16.000 Maybe it's not that pertinent.
01:55:17.000 Do you see what I'm saying?
01:55:18.000 They just take it.
01:55:19.000 Maybe it's not pertinent.
01:55:34.000 I'll give you an example.
01:55:40.000 It's not because they don't talk about it.
01:55:41.000 I'll give you an example.
01:55:43.000 One man that I interviewed that I would not be surprised if he...
01:55:50.000 I would not be surprised if he took his own life because the mother of his kid said he touched the child and she never took him to criminal court.
01:56:00.000 She destroyed his reputation.
01:56:03.000 And then why didn't she go to criminal court? 0.97
01:56:07.000 And because criminal court, you guys don't know the difference.
01:56:09.000 That's what I'm saying.
01:56:10.000 She doesn't know anything.
01:56:11.000 That's the problem.
01:56:12.000 Family court is not based on evidence.
01:56:15.000 It doesn't put someone in jail.
01:56:16.000 It's only to get resources from men. 0.98
01:56:18.000 I didn't have to go to court.
01:56:20.000 I'm not talking about you, but Denalva was saying that these men kill themselves in divorce court because they're not opening up about their feelings.
01:56:28.000 No, it's because women are financially ruining them. 1.00
01:56:32.000 They're taking off their shit. 1.00
01:56:33.000 They're taking their kids and they're ruining their reputation. 1.00
01:56:34.000 I've interviewed men that are homeless.
01:56:36.000 It can happen.
01:56:38.000 I do agree.
01:56:39.000 It definitely can happen.
01:56:41.000 My ex made me homeless.
01:56:43.000 That's a crazy thing.
01:56:44.000 That's a crazy thing.
01:56:45.000 So you're going on about it and picking up about it. 0.99
01:57:01.000 What she's saying she's speaking in general which means she's not talking about you she's simply telling you hold on be quiet be quiet man holy fuck bro she's not talking about you she's speaking generally And also understand, 0.98
01:57:17.000 ladies, because that's another thing too, a good point. 1.00
01:57:20.000 Family court and criminal court are two different things.
01:57:22.000 In criminal court, there's a way higher burden of proof, right?
01:57:26.000 I don't know what it is in the UK, but in America, I'm assuming in the UK, it's very similar, right?
01:57:31.000 Beyond a reasonable doubt.
01:57:32.000 And you're judged by a jury of your peers.
01:57:34.000 I know.
01:57:34.000 But in family court, a woman can sit there and be like, oh, he touched my daughter.
01:57:39.000 What proof do you have?
01:57:40.000 I have, like, this one thing here.
01:57:42.000 And they can use that and effectively destroy that guy.
01:57:45.000 Because the burner proof is way lower.
01:57:48.000 And GL, this is like a white people conversation.
01:57:50.000 Because in my community, where I come from, actually, what you're saying is a truth.
01:57:55.000 It's a white people thing, I'm not gonna lie. 0.88
01:57:59.000 I've interviewed Pakistan.
01:58:01.000 It's a white people thing, trust me. 0.99
01:58:04.000 I just want to say that it was quite an interesting point.
01:58:09.000 I didn't know that and I definitely do believe that there are women who play the system to their needs. 1.00
01:58:15.000 Men ultimately do suffer because the default reaction of many judges and people in power are to believe People who they perceive as less powerful, which in this case are women, but that doesn't take away from the fact that there's a multitude of factors that constitute to abuse and lead up.
01:58:33.000 If you're saying the physical part of it is what is abuse, there are loads of different factors that then ultimately contribute to that final event.
01:58:41.000 I want to ask you a question.
01:58:42.000 What constitutes that someone abused someone?
01:58:46.000 What would you base it off of?
01:58:48.000 I would base it off of the lead-up, the series of events that led to the final event.
01:58:52.000 But how would you know they happened?
01:58:54.000 You would need what?
01:58:55.000 You'd need evidence.
01:58:56.000 Okay, and you only get that in what?
01:58:58.000 Doctor's reports, police reports.
01:58:59.000 Okay, but where do you, what court do you get that in?
01:59:01.000 The criminal court.
01:59:02.000 Okay, so why don't women go to it? 1.00
01:59:04.000 Women do, but they do. 1.00
01:59:07.000 It's the majority of women don't. 0.97
01:59:09.000 The majority of police reports that are filed when it comes to rape, SA, all of that stuff, they're not pursued, meaning they don't have enough what?
01:59:20.000 Evidence.
01:59:20.000 Because women are emotional, which is the point that we've all been trying to make, more times than not, women are emotionally, you know, if you've had the man's kids, you've known him since you were 17, you've grown up together, you are afraid to take that step and ultimately see him go down for that.
01:59:36.000 Like she was saying, it's the woman's fault. 1.00
01:59:40.000 Fine, but it shouldn't have happened in the first place.
01:59:45.000 I'll tell you, but the problem we have in this society is we automatically believe women when women's nature is very deceptive. 0.99
01:59:53.000 I understand that.
01:59:53.000 And so naturally, I don't think we should believe women.
01:59:56.000 I actually think we shouldn't believe women. 1.00
01:59:58.000 Because the thing is, if I really believe that someone was abusive, a criminal, all of this stuff, why wouldn't I go to a criminal court or lock him up?
02:00:05.000 We take into account that, listen, relationships are multifaceted.
02:00:10.000 They're not as clear-cut as we are making it out to be.
02:00:12.000 There's so many factors at play.
02:00:15.000 But that leads into what I'm talking about, the subjectivity.
02:00:20.000 When we're talking about these other forms of abuse, like coercive control, and I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but how do you define that?
02:00:25.000 And how do you know it's not a subjective opinion?
02:00:27.000 Versus it being an objective fact.
02:00:28.000 That's the issue.
02:00:29.000 But then we look at the series of events that led up to the event.
02:00:34.000 But what would the series of events be?
02:00:37.000 I just want to hear from her, guys.
02:00:41.000 No problem.
02:00:41.000 Woman gets pregnant.
02:00:43.000 Now she's on maternity leave. 1.00
02:00:46.000 She doesn't have the finances to support herself. 0.96
02:00:49.000 Man gets...
02:00:49.000 Sorry, but then why did she make the decision to get pregnant if she can't afford it?
02:00:54.000 Thank you.
02:00:54.000 It's her fault.
02:00:55.000 No, things happen in relationships.
02:00:57.000 And if you're Catholic, you know, I'm Catholic too.
02:01:00.000 A lot of Catholics do not believe in abortion.
02:01:02.000 Accidents happen.
02:01:03.000 I don't believe in abortion, right?
02:01:05.000 If you are in a union...
02:01:07.000 Or having sex with a guy that you're not married to.
02:01:08.000 Yeah, but let's assume these things happen in marriages as well. 1.00
02:01:12.000 I have an opinion.
02:01:17.000 I have an opinion that I don't know if you guys would agree with.
02:01:20.000 I think women should really pay for their own kids, okay? 1.00
02:01:22.000 Because I'll tell you what.
02:01:24.000 It's like, okay, the average woman gets married at 30, has one, maybe two kids.
02:01:28.000 You've had a decade to save money.
02:01:30.000 Why can't you pay for it?
02:01:32.000 No, no, seriously, seriously.
02:01:33.000 You have a decade.
02:01:34.000 You have a decade to save money.
02:01:36.000 Listen, pal, we have biological clocks.
02:01:39.000 We have biological clocks.
02:01:41.000 No, no, no, no, I'm serious.
02:01:41.000 But women, right now, right now, women are choosing.
02:01:44.000 We're choosing.
02:01:45.000 I'm not saying it's bad or good.
02:01:46.000 I'm just saying this is what we're doing to wait till 30 to have a child.
02:01:50.000 To get married and have kids.
02:01:52.000 We're waiting, okay?
02:01:53.000 Fine, fine.
02:01:54.000 But you've had a decade to save money and get in a financial position to pay for it.
02:01:58.000 I agree.
02:01:58.000 It's just like we want both.
02:02:00.000 We want the traditional treatment, but also to wait.
02:02:02.000 I don't care what you want.
02:02:04.000 It's fine.
02:02:04.000 But then pay for it.
02:02:05.000 Yeah, but the man also makes the kid. 0.99
02:02:07.000 It takes a semen. 0.97
02:02:09.000 She's not in the bedroom on her own. 0.99
02:02:11.000 And the eggs.
02:02:11.000 And sometimes go 50-50.
02:02:13.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on.
02:02:16.000 But they don't have 50-50 choice.
02:02:19.000 Of what?
02:02:19.000 Correct.
02:02:20.000 Okay, if you get pregnant tomorrow, who decides if the kid lives or not? 0.98
02:02:23.000 You do.
02:02:24.000 My body.
02:02:25.000 Okay.
02:02:26.000 Your body, your choice, right?
02:02:27.000 Yeah.
02:02:27.000 Okay, so you have the authority to make that decision, right?
02:02:30.000 Yes.
02:02:30.000 What comes with authority?
02:02:32.000 Power.
02:02:33.000 Okay, well, I was going to say responsibility.
02:02:34.000 Oh.
02:02:35.000 Yeah, women tend to forget that part. 1.00
02:02:37.000 They tend to forget that part.
02:02:39.000 They like the power and the authority, but they don't want to deal with the responsibility.
02:02:41.000 Yeah, the responsibility is there.
02:02:42.000 So if you have unilateral control of who gets born or not, and you decide, I'm going to have this child against the whims of the man, you should pay for it.
02:02:49.000 Okay, then that's the same reason why women get most custody and then get full alimony, isn't it? 0.98
02:02:53.000 No, that's not true.
02:02:54.000 Women get custody because the court system favors them. 1.00
02:03:00.000 And I'll tell you what, men are punished for being traditional in this country.
02:03:06.000 They are.
02:03:07.000 Because the way the court system, and see this, I'm going to talk about this because I know things.
02:03:11.000 I'm like, this one over here, no offense.
02:03:17.000 I don't really care if you went through it.
02:03:19.000 You don't know anything about the legal code.
02:03:21.000 I'll tell you why.
02:03:24.000 I already know you don't.
02:03:26.000 It's easy to file restraining orders.
02:03:31.000 I know.
02:03:32.000 You don't really need any evidence.
02:03:33.000 So again, this means nothing to me.
02:03:35.000 I went there and then he looked at my whole body.
02:03:48.000 I don't really know what your situation was.
02:03:51.000 So again, I'm talking in general.
02:03:56.000 You're talking in general, but you came at me.
02:03:59.000 You penalized it at me, unlike this one that doesn't know what she's on about.
02:04:02.000 We need to be respectful of people's experiences.
02:04:08.000 I'll tell you, the reason I said that is because I asked you specifically.
02:04:13.000 The reason I said that...
02:04:18.000 I asked you really specific questions earlier to see if you knew what you're talking about and it was just clear you didn't.
02:04:25.000 Don't know about your situation.
02:04:26.000 Maybe you were right.
02:04:27.000 Maybe you're wrong.
02:04:28.000 Don't really care.
02:04:30.000 I'm done.
02:04:31.000 Make your point, Pearl, and then stop prodding her, please.
02:04:35.000 Go ahead.
02:04:35.000 Okay, okay.
02:04:36.000 So, but I actually forgot the point I was going to make.
02:04:39.000 I'll remind you.
02:04:42.000 So the point was, you're trying to explain why women actually are the ones that get cussed in most of the allegory.
02:04:48.000 Oh, yeah, yeah.
02:04:48.000 Actually, I do remember.
02:04:49.000 Okay, because the way the code is written, it's basically the person that spends the most time with the child.
02:04:55.000 Well, if a man wants to protect and provide for his family, who does that punish?
02:05:00.000 The guy for doing the right thing.
02:05:02.000 But the children spend more time with the mothers.
02:05:04.000 Sometimes men are not as involved.
02:05:07.000 It's because they're at work though.
02:05:11.000 Let's talk about what's in the best interest of the child.
02:05:15.000 When you look at single father homes, they fare very similar to two-parent households.
02:05:20.000 When you look at single mother homes, they become criminals, drug dealers, school shooters. 1.00
02:05:25.000 Every problem that you can look at in society comes from single mother homes. 1.00
02:05:30.000 Single father homes, not the same. 1.00
02:05:32.000 What's the name of the Jeff Dahmer, whatever his name was, and his mom and his dad kind of together, and then he ended up with his dad?
02:05:38.000 There's exceptions, but it doesn't make the rule.
02:05:45.000 Single father homes fare very similar to single mother homes. 0.91
02:05:49.000 Yeah, and his mom was also a drug addict. 0.99
02:05:52.000 Well, isn't that a fool for going for a drug addict and getting pregnant? 1.00
02:05:56.000 Yeah, choosing the wrong partner and held accountable for his choices. 0.99
02:06:02.000 You're great at just strawmanning a random point that has nothing to do with it to try to make a point, but that doesn't make sense.
02:06:10.000 Well, you just mentioned his mom being a drug addict and I just mentioned the father chose a drug addict.
02:06:13.000 Yeah, but that doesn't change the fact that single father households fare way better than single mother households.
02:06:18.000 Well, I made a point that shows you that there's an exception to that rule. 0.98
02:06:21.000 You just used an example of a serial killer from the fucking 1970s. 0.97
02:06:25.000 Because he committed his first murder, I think, in 1975. 0.99
02:06:28.000 He used that as an example to say that single...
02:06:31.000 What?
02:06:31.000 The same way you guys use basis and out of context statistics from studies that you pull out of Google.
02:06:37.000 Like, come on.
02:06:37.000 As an educated woman, I do know that all the stats that you guys repeat a million times are copied from Kevin Samuels, so I'm just saying.
02:06:45.000 You literally just used an exception to the rule.
02:06:47.000 And like I said before, his mom... 0.99
02:06:49.000 His mom was a drug addict and that fucked up his life, too. 0.99
02:06:53.000 Listen, listen. 0.99
02:06:55.000 I'm bringing it up simply because I think it's ridiculous what you're saying. 0.95
02:06:59.000 His mom was a degenerate, not his dad. 0.96
02:07:01.000 I'll give you an example.
02:07:02.000 I come from a home where there's only a mother.
02:07:05.000 And again, I'll give you another example and I'm a living one.
02:07:08.000 My mom is a single mother, really, a widowed mother, really, who raised her kids from when we were 12 and some of us were even two.
02:07:16.000 And we're cool.
02:07:17.000 We're not drug dealers, not criminals.
02:07:18.000 Well, congrats, congrats!
02:07:20.000 Thank you!
02:07:21.000 A lot of the women on the panel, I've noticed this trend. 1.00
02:07:24.000 I mean, this is the same shit in Miami. 1.00
02:07:25.000 It's amazing. 1.00
02:07:25.000 You go over the pond, nothing changes. 1.00
02:07:27.000 We'll make an objective argument about a generality on how the world works.
02:07:32.000 You guys will hear that, internalize it, and say, well, that doesn't apply to me!
02:07:37.000 And then go ahead and yap about how you're different.
02:07:39.000 Fantastic!
02:07:40.000 But in general, what we're saying is true.
02:07:42.000 The court system does favor women over men. 1.00
02:07:45.000 They win most of the custody battles, even though they might not necessarily be a better parent on paper.
02:07:49.000 She literally just told y'all the woman is going to get custody most of the time because she spent more time with the child and the child rearing years, but that might not necessarily make her a better mother because the man was doing his job, which is protecting and providing, which is what y'all all want, by the way.
02:08:00.000 So the court system is heavily in favor of women. 1.00
02:08:04.000 And then men, 90% of alimony is paid for men to women. 0.98
02:08:06.000 So it is absolutely true that everyone knows that the court systems in the West in general are fucked and geared towards females, which it is what it is. 1.00
02:08:13.000 That's a fact, ladies. 0.98
02:08:13.000 But a lot of the time, men don't want involvement with their children. 0.98
02:08:16.000 Well, I'm not sure that's true.
02:08:18.000 A majority do.
02:08:21.000 It's just that there's a bunch of roadblocks in the way, whether it's the woman not allowing the man to be involved, right? 0.97
02:08:28.000 Because she wants to hurt him.
02:08:28.000 She'll make lies up about him.
02:08:30.000 Lawyers a lot of times will advise men, hey, it's not worth it to go to court.
02:08:33.000 You're going to lose.
02:08:33.000 So they don't even bother fighting it.
02:08:35.000 It's an uphill battle.
02:08:36.000 So there's a bunch of things that get in.
02:08:38.000 But most men, of course, there's deadbeat fathers.
02:08:40.000 Absolutely.
02:08:41.000 But most men, I would say, definitely want to see their kids just that they don't have the opportunity to. 0.99
02:08:45.000 Because a lot of women use kids as a weapon and weaponize them against the man to get compliance or just hurt them because they're mad about some shit. 1.00
02:08:54.000 So again, you guys got really emotional about this abuse thing, but everything we've said is fact. 0.98
02:08:58.000 They have changed the definition of abuse for a while.
02:09:01.000 Fresh, can I ask you a question?
02:09:03.000 Sure.
02:09:05.000 Did you grow up with both parents at home?
02:09:07.000 No. 0.87
02:09:08.000 Are you a drug dealer? 0.51
02:09:09.000 I was. 0.96
02:09:10.000 Okay.
02:09:11.000 That's good then.
02:09:15.000 I just wanted to make sure, you know what I'm saying?
02:09:18.000 To be fair, I was a road man.
02:09:20.000 You were a road man.
02:09:20.000 I was a road man.
02:09:21.000 You were trapping.
02:09:22.000 Trap star.
02:09:23.000 Okay, you were trapping.
02:09:24.000 And so would you say your mum's a bad mum because she was a single mum? 0.97
02:09:28.000 I would say my opinion is relevant.
02:09:30.000 No, I'm just asking.
02:09:31.000 Because it's a general statement.
02:09:32.000 No, I do understand.
02:09:33.000 But like, for example, if I can say that my mom's a good mom and she was on her own, you can say the same thing.
02:09:38.000 Perhaps this actually may not be the majority.
02:09:39.000 This is the thing.
02:09:40.000 I really think that...
02:09:41.000 We are in a small room.
02:09:43.000 Us two.
02:09:44.000 Sample size is not enough.
02:09:45.000 Well, let me tell you, a lot of these studies that these people pick up on are simple sizes of a hundred, or a thousand, when there's billions of people in the world.
02:09:52.000 And they'll pick also demographics.
02:10:00.000 You're really excited.
02:10:02.000 I do understand.
02:10:03.000 Obviously, it's your place and everything, but relax.
02:10:07.000 I just want you to keep talking about these studies.
02:10:10.000 Name one.
02:10:11.000 The basic nature of studies is that you take a pool of people.
02:10:15.000 It doesn't matter.
02:10:16.000 Any study.
02:10:17.000 By who?
02:10:19.000 Any study that you do, whether it's the UN, whether it's the council, the government, anything.
02:10:24.000 It's a pool of people. 0.97
02:10:25.000 If you go into prison and you look at the inmates, if you look at drug addicts, if you look at homeless people, if you look at degenerates in general, alcoholics, all the fucking vagrants of society, most of them come from single mother households where there wasn't a father there. 0.99
02:10:38.000 This is irrefutable fact. 0.98
02:10:40.000 Okay, can I then tell you something?
02:10:41.000 In America, I generally believe that it might be, correct me if I'm wrong, but the majority of the population that's incarcerated is black men, isn't it?
02:10:49.000 Well, what does that say about black men if that's a stat? 0.98
02:10:53.000 They commit a majority of the violent crime. 0.97
02:10:55.000 But what else does that say?
02:10:56.000 Because you guys are trying to say that women use the court system to, you know, manipulate men. 0.99
02:11:02.000 And what you're trying to do is to create this whole idea that because women are the ones that have the children most of the time, most of the time, if the woman is getting divorced, then women must be just assholes the same way that black men must, the majority of black men in comparison to the West. 0.99
02:11:16.000 You mentioned earlier. 0.99
02:11:18.000 What the hell is that argument?
02:11:19.000 I'm just explaining to you the parallels.
02:11:23.000 I'm just explaining to you how you can use numbers to paint anything and that's why it's important for you to not use the context.
02:11:29.000 Give me a study!
02:11:29.000 Give me one!
02:11:30.000 Hold on, you said earlier women have power, right? 1.00
02:11:33.000 Well, in the core system they have power.
02:11:35.000 It's simple.
02:11:36.000 I didn't say that.
02:11:37.000 Who said that?
02:11:39.000 They were talking about it earlier, wasn't they?
02:11:41.000 Regardless, that's without their power anyway.
02:11:43.000 What is your argument precisely?
02:11:45.000 Well, my argument precisely is simply to say, it doesn't matter what studies you're talking about because they don't actually reflect the real reality because studies and all these statistics are based on a limited pool on a normally limited demographic.
02:11:59.000 That does not represent what happens.
02:12:00.000 So you disagree?
02:12:01.000 And the reason why I say that...
02:12:02.000 Name a study!
02:12:04.000 Any study!
02:12:05.000 I can pick any study!
02:12:06.000 Pick one!
02:12:07.000 Who made it?
02:12:08.000 Any study.
02:12:10.000 One.
02:12:10.000 Just one.
02:12:10.000 One study.
02:12:11.000 No, no, no, no, no.
02:12:12.000 You're criticizing the studies.
02:12:13.000 Name a study.
02:12:14.000 Name one.
02:12:15.000 None.
02:12:15.000 Any study.
02:12:15.000 Even studies.
02:12:17.000 Any study.
02:12:18.000 Hold on, hold on.
02:12:19.000 Let me get this right.
02:12:20.000 Let me just get this right.
02:12:22.000 So are you saying that... 1.00
02:12:24.000 Because the argument is single mother households lead to fucked up children which then end up growing up into fucked up adults. 1.00
02:12:33.000 Cool. 1.00
02:12:33.000 You don't agree with that? 1.00
02:12:34.000 I don't agree with that.
02:12:37.000 With the plethora of studies, meta-analysis, which combine other studies that show that single mother households absolutely contribute to the degradation of society. 1.00
02:12:48.000 You don't agree with that?
02:12:48.000 Okay, and can I explain to you why I don't agree with that?
02:12:52.000 Go ahead.
02:12:52.000 Because I think that's important.
02:12:54.000 Okay.
02:12:54.000 Do you agree with one plus one is two?
02:12:57.000 Yes.
02:12:57.000 Okay.
02:12:58.000 Kind of.
02:12:58.000 It also depends.
02:13:00.000 Incredible.
02:13:01.000 Well, in China, they do say that once you add one drop of water to another drop of water, it becomes a bigger drop, not two.
02:13:08.000 That's not what I asked.
02:13:09.000 It's numbers!
02:13:11.000 That's water! 0.77
02:13:11.000 I'm just saying, I'm saying, but that's still two quantities going into one. 0.77
02:13:15.000 I'm just saying.
02:13:16.000 It depends on how you look at it.
02:13:17.000 And the whole point is that when you look at numbers, it all depends on how you're looking at it and what you're choosing those numbers. 0.97
02:13:22.000 You are mad. 1.00
02:13:23.000 You are crazy. 1.00
02:13:24.000 I'm just saying. 1.00
02:13:25.000 I gave you a very straightforward question. 0.99
02:13:27.000 And you just conflated it into a Chinese proverb or some shit. 0.97
02:13:31.000 This is what I'm trying to say. 0.95
02:13:32.000 This is why y'all can't be in leadership roles.
02:13:35.000 You asked me about 1 plus 1 when you're asking me about a contest and I said, can I explain?
02:13:41.000 And you didn't let me.
02:13:41.000 So I just gave you a funny answer.
02:13:43.000 This is insanity.
02:13:44.000 So let me ask you a question.
02:13:45.000 Because what you're objectively telling me right now is you don't agree with facts.
02:13:49.000 Okay, can I explain something?
02:13:51.000 You don't agree with facts.
02:13:51.000 I don't agree with those because facts, especially when it comes to statistics, they're also subjective.
02:13:56.000 And I'll explain to you why.
02:13:57.000 They're not all subjective.
02:13:58.000 You can't write off all studies.
02:14:01.000 How are stats calculated, guys?
02:14:05.000 Okay, so I'll explain to you.
02:14:06.000 For example, I'll give you a very non-gendery study.
02:14:11.000 Please, just give me the example.
02:14:13.000 Can you make it simple?
02:14:15.000 Let me talk, Ben, since you told people to shush to tell you to shush.
02:14:19.000 So, you have a statistic.
02:14:21.000 You take a pool of 1,000 people.
02:14:24.000 With those 1,000 people, you will test a few things, and then you'll see 50% of these people said this, and 50% of these people said this.
02:14:32.000 Based on this limited pool of information that we have got, of this limited pool of people, we can assume that 50% in general of people in general in the world do this.
02:14:42.000 That's how people use stats, and that is not true.
02:14:44.000 Because when you actually analyze real life and demographic of things, there's way too many variables that will completely destroy every statistic that you use, depending on the context that you put it in.
02:14:53.000 That's why I don't need to listen to you tell me statistics and say nine out of 10 and this out of 10, because depending on the context, it does not make sense.
02:15:00.000 Then explain to me, right?
02:15:02.000 Because this is objective.
02:15:04.000 Explain to me how most prisoners, most drug addicts, most losers in society, most degenerates come from single mother households when polled. 0.98
02:15:12.000 Well, it depends on the pool that you use for, first of all, the prison.
02:15:17.000 It depends also on the circumstances of the single motherhood.
02:15:22.000 It depends on where they grew up.
02:15:25.000 It depends on a million different things.
02:15:26.000 Father was absent.
02:15:27.000 That's okay, but it doesn't mean that that's the reason why they went into that.
02:15:30.000 So what are the chances that all these people end up in prison and they all don't have dads?
02:15:34.000 What are the chances?
02:15:35.000 Or they're bums on the street? 1.00
02:15:36.000 Or they're homeless?
02:15:37.000 Or they're broke?
02:15:38.000 There are a lot of people that come from families where they have the father who is also a drug dealer or whatever and they also go into that road despite having two parents.
02:15:46.000 So all I'm telling you is you need to actually analyze the pool of information that you're checking before you start saying all these big words like they're facts because they're not facts.
02:15:54.000 They're facts depending on what you're looking at.
02:15:57.000 But you're basically saying all studies are flawed.
02:16:00.000 Not every single study has got a thousand participants.
02:16:06.000 There's a plethora of studies that demonstrate this.
02:16:14.000 We're not talking about one study with a thousand people.
02:16:16.000 It's irrefutable that two-parent households, like the degradation of the nuclear family is what's led to the decline of civilization.
02:16:22.000 This is a fact.
02:16:23.000 This is not like...
02:16:24.000 Oh, I don't agree with it.
02:16:25.000 Well, I don't know what to tell you, but the reality is when you look at every degenerate in society, from prison all the way to homeless people, drug addicts, everything, most of them come from single mother households. 1.00
02:16:36.000 I think the degeneration of society comes really more to the weakening of men.
02:16:42.000 That's it.
02:16:42.000 Regardless, the father isn't present is my point.
02:16:46.000 That's the bottom line.
02:16:47.000 Can I please get any study?
02:16:49.000 Okay, so then let me entertain that one.
02:16:51.000 So then if the father is not present, then obviously clearly it must be the mother that is the problem because father's not being present.
02:16:56.000 I never said that.
02:16:57.000 No, I'm just putting down the table now so we can transition.
02:17:00.000 No, like you just, dude, like this is insanity, man.
02:17:04.000 Not really.
02:17:04.000 It is because I'm telling you objective truth and fact.
02:17:07.000 You're not.
02:17:08.000 You're telling me the truth that is based on your context.
02:17:10.000 So look, It's not my context.
02:17:12.000 It's done by scientists that are more educated than you, by the way.
02:17:14.000 Listen, there's a lot of scientists that are more educated than me, that do a lot of rubbish, and because everybody is so educated than me, the world is so perfect.
02:17:22.000 And they went out in the streets and they went ahead and polled these people.
02:17:25.000 Scientists, the same people that made the vaccines for COVID. Scientists have been scaring people and using those sorts of techniques.
02:17:30.000 Stop talking.
02:17:30.000 Stop talking.
02:17:31.000 Stop talking.
02:17:32.000 Stop talking.
02:17:32.000 Okay?
02:17:33.000 What are the chances...
02:17:36.000 What are the chances that all these people polled that are degenerates come from single mother households? 0.98
02:17:40.000 That's not a coincidence.
02:17:41.000 Okay, I'll have to look at that study and I'll definitely have a check and I'll check the demographics.
02:17:47.000 So how do you as the educated person determine the facts then?
02:17:52.000 How do you do it?
02:17:53.000 I determine the facts based on actual lived experience and research.
02:17:59.000 I don't listen to...
02:17:59.000 Oh, lived?
02:18:00.000 Yes, and I'll tell you why.
02:18:01.000 So your experience is better than everyone else's?
02:18:03.000 No, it's not that my experience is better than everyone else's, but I don't need to accept your facts because you think them.
02:18:08.000 There's alternative facts.
02:18:09.000 Listen, listen, as in...
02:18:10.000 It is not our facts.
02:18:11.000 Listen, let me tell you something.
02:18:12.000 It is the facts of the world.
02:18:13.000 I know, I know, but you know what?
02:18:14.000 Because I've learned a lot to how to, you know, do research, primary research especially, okay?
02:18:20.000 So I am the sort of person...
02:18:21.000 Why can't you name any studies?
02:18:21.000 I beg, stop.
02:18:25.000 See, and people say, oh, we want educated women on the panel. 1.00
02:18:28.000 You got a master, right?
02:18:29.000 You got a master.
02:18:30.000 And that's why you need to kind of like, let me finish.
02:18:32.000 Like I told you.
02:18:33.000 No, no, no, but this is what I'm trying to say.
02:18:34.000 You've been talking the whole time.
02:18:35.000 Education doesn't change anything.
02:18:36.000 You have.
02:18:37.000 You know what?
02:18:37.000 You know, real quick.
02:18:38.000 People get mad when, oh, bring educated women on. 1.00
02:18:40.000 This is what y'all get.
02:18:41.000 Real quick.
02:18:41.000 How do you feel about this over here?
02:18:43.000 You didn't say anything because they were talking the whole time.
02:18:44.000 How do you feel about this?
02:18:45.000 Okay, so basically...
02:18:48.000 What this lovely lady is saying over here is, she's not dispute, like, she's like, okay, look, Myron, Pearl, you have the facts, yeah?
02:18:57.000 The data that you're pulling up from the studies.
02:18:59.000 Pearl's like, quote me, quote me, the data.
02:19:03.000 Any data.
02:19:04.000 Right?
02:19:05.000 What she's basically trying to break down is that life is full of variables, right?
02:19:13.000 But what scientists don't analyze, I suppose, when they're putting the data together is people's life experiences.
02:19:21.000 It's very black and white.
02:19:23.000 Yeah.
02:19:24.000 Yeah.
02:19:26.000 But not necessarily, because the problem is we're talking about studies that we're not even looking at specific studies here, but if he's saying in general terms, if there's an absent father in the household, that leads to degeneracy, criminality, etc., etc., what is the common thread?
02:19:41.000 But it's not just a view, is it?
02:19:42.000 This has been demonstrated in multiple, a plethora of studies, right?
02:19:48.000 If that is the common thread, then that has substance, right?
02:19:52.000 That means something, right?
02:19:53.000 I don't even think women are more nurturing than men.
02:19:56.000 I'll tell you what. 0.96
02:19:57.000 Because they're more likely to abuse children and the elderly. 0.68
02:20:01.000 I don't even think women are more nurturing. 1.00
02:20:03.000 I think that's made up stuff that women do or say to make themselves feel better. 1.00
02:20:10.000 Infanticide or whatever, which is when a kid's killed in the first year, it's primarily done by women. 1.00
02:20:15.000 It's rare that a man ever does it.
02:20:16.000 I'm in general quite interested in the statistics.
02:20:20.000 What's the percentage of men Who go to jail for violent crimes or crimes against children, pedophilia, all of that, in comparison to women.
02:20:29.000 Okay, so I actually, I think that women are more violent than men. 1.00
02:20:32.000 But not what you think.
02:20:33.000 I'm talking about stats.
02:20:34.000 I'm gonna get to it.
02:20:36.000 I have stats on some of these chicks. 1.00
02:20:40.000 So when you look at violent crime, it is mostly done by men, but I think that's kind of unfair.
02:20:48.000 Women can't do violent crime the same way that men do. 1.00
02:20:51.000 I mean, if you're an American, you have guns.
02:20:55.000 So what do I look at?
02:20:57.000 When women have power, women are more likely to wage war. 1.00
02:21:01.000 They looked at queens the last 500 years.
02:21:03.000 They said, who's more likely to wage war, kings or queens?
02:21:05.000 Queens.
02:21:06.000 And then they also looked at women. 1.00
02:21:08.000 They're more likely to kill infants. 0.98
02:21:10.000 They're more likely to kill the elderly.
02:21:11.000 When we get power, we're just not very good with it.
02:21:15.000 But then what are the statistics?
02:21:17.000 I asked for the statistics.
02:21:18.000 Well, I know.
02:21:19.000 So I'll give you an example.
02:21:22.000 So infanticide, which is when babies are killed in the first year.
02:21:25.000 It's basically unknown that it's very rare for men to ever do it.
02:21:30.000 But what are the statistics?
02:21:32.000 What are the numbers?
02:21:33.000 Give us some numbers then.
02:21:35.000 Well, all I know, all I know...
02:21:37.000 Give us the statistics that these chicks don't got. 1.00
02:21:39.000 All I know, all I know...
02:21:39.000 I mean, I don't know them.
02:21:40.000 All I know, and I'll tell you what, I googled it because I was curious the other day, and it just said that police rarely ever find a male person that killed a baby within the first year.
02:21:51.000 But I'm asking for the statistics, the numbers.
02:21:54.000 The numbers.
02:21:54.000 Not what you read, the numbers.
02:21:56.000 What's the percentage?
02:21:57.000 Okay, it's 99% female. 1.00
02:21:59.000 Are you happy?
02:22:00.000 Are you sure?
02:22:00.000 Yes.
02:22:01.000 Okay, we'll have to check that.
02:22:02.000 I'll take your word for it.
02:22:04.000 I'll take your word for it.
02:22:05.000 I mean, to back up what you said about women being more violent, lesbian relationships have the highest rates of domestic violence by far, way, than everybody else. 0.81
02:22:14.000 Okay, but that's the dynamic between two women. 1.00
02:22:17.000 But that's what she's trying to explain, is that women actually are more prone to violence. 1.00
02:22:21.000 It may be in a dynamic between two women, but... 1.00
02:22:24.000 When men commit crimes, it's for a reason. 0.83
02:22:30.000 I'm not saying it's a good reason, right?
02:22:32.000 Like, for example, one reason that I've heard is respect.
02:22:35.000 Like, you know, they'll fight each other for respect or whatever.
02:22:38.000 But I think you can really see, you know, who's more violent?
02:22:41.000 Who kills the innocent? 0.87
02:22:42.000 I mean, one out of three women's had an abortion. 0.99
02:22:44.000 One out of three women kill their own child. 1.00
02:22:47.000 Yeah, I agree, yeah.
02:22:49.000 Yeah, and then you look at even after the kid's born, within the first year, women do it primarily. 1.00
02:22:54.000 So who kills the innocent?
02:22:56.000 There's a lot of men that kill their girlfriends, you know. 1.00
02:22:59.000 You know, but if women could and had the same physical force, I would argue that they would do it more. 1.00
02:23:04.000 Well, it's not that much.
02:23:05.000 You know, some men actually force you. 0.96
02:23:07.000 You know, some men actually force you to get an abortion. 0.97
02:23:09.000 I'm sure, I'm sure.
02:23:11.000 To the point that you lose the child.
02:23:12.000 You know there are some men like that.
02:23:14.000 Or they will hit you.
02:23:15.000 Or do anything.
02:23:16.000 I don't know what men you guys are dating.
02:23:19.000 All the statistics are not there because not everything gets spiraled in everyone's life.
02:23:25.000 What's your argument?
02:23:26.000 Some men, they will actually push you and make you get the abortion. 0.99
02:23:30.000 You might want to keep the child, but they'll be like, no, you have to fucking get the child. 0.99
02:23:33.000 I won't be there, you know. 0.99
02:23:36.000 There are some men that will get violent.
02:23:41.000 They might hit you, find out you're pregnant before you know it. 1.00
02:23:43.000 They want to hit you or all that shit in order for you to lose a baby. 1.00
02:23:47.000 Or they will stress you like a motherfucker because stress also kills the child. 1.00
02:23:51.000 But who makes the decision, though? 0.99
02:23:52.000 I'm not going to lie.
02:23:53.000 If a man threatened to kill me, I probably would keep the baby.
02:23:55.000 Okay, but who makes the decision?
02:23:56.000 Okay, see, there you go.
02:23:57.000 She just answered it.
02:23:58.000 The women make the final decision, right? 1.00
02:24:00.000 Yeah, but men still have a play to part.
02:24:02.000 And that's part of the coercive control.
02:24:05.000 I'm ready.
02:24:06.000 My response is that why would you get pregnant by a guy? 0.86
02:24:14.000 Why would you get pregnant by a guy that doesn't want to be a father? 1.00
02:24:18.000 I mean, we have, what, five?
02:24:20.000 Let's go five days a month.
02:24:22.000 We ovulate.
02:24:23.000 We have birth control.
02:24:25.000 We have condoms.
02:24:27.000 Wait, wait, wait.
02:24:28.000 Can we shh?
02:24:29.000 Okay.
02:24:29.000 So you can get an IUD. You can get on birth control.
02:24:33.000 You can get that patch.
02:24:34.000 You can take the pill.
02:24:35.000 You can wear a condom.
02:24:36.000 You can take a Plan B. There's so many options.
02:24:38.000 It's like men invent all of these options for us to just not be retarded. 0.96
02:24:43.000 They're like, take a pill every single day so you don't get pregnant. 1.00
02:24:46.000 We can't do that.
02:24:49.000 They're like, here's an IUD. Here's an IUD so you don't get pregnant. 1.00
02:24:53.000 We invented this for you.
02:24:54.000 We can't do that.
02:24:55.000 It's like, okay, okay.
02:24:57.000 After that, here's an abortion. 1.00
02:24:59.000 We'll do that for you.
02:25:00.000 Then we can't do that.
02:25:01.000 Oh, here's child support alimony.
02:25:03.000 So if women are so irresponsible, why can't men just... 1.00
02:25:11.000 Why do men impregnate women that don't want to be loved? 0.85
02:25:19.000 Why don't the women require the men they sleep with to wear condoms? 1.00
02:25:26.000 I get what you're saying.
02:25:27.000 I want to talk about all the choices.
02:25:31.000 We have so many choices.
02:25:33.000 It's crazy.
02:25:34.000 You could wait till marriage.
02:25:36.000 Most people don't do that.
02:25:38.000 Fine.
02:25:39.000 You can only sleep with non-abusive men you want to have children with.
02:25:44.000 Okay, there's an, I know, crazy.
02:25:46.000 So then, on top of that, you could require the men you date to wear condoms.
02:25:50.000 Crazy, I know.
02:25:51.000 On top of that, you could get an IUD. Crazy.
02:25:53.000 On top of that, you can take a pill once a day.
02:25:56.000 On top of that, there's the patch.
02:25:58.000 On top of that, there's plan B. On top of that, there's abortion.
02:26:01.000 That doesn't sound iconic of you.
02:26:04.000 Look at my morality.
02:26:06.000 I'm saying the choices that are available.
02:26:08.000 I'm not saying what I think is moral.
02:26:09.000 It doesn't matter.
02:26:10.000 I get what you're saying.
02:26:11.000 So my point is why is this so hard?
02:26:14.000 I get what you're saying.
02:26:15.000 I think a lot of the time women do make the wrong choices in terms of Picking men, but we also have to account for the fact that by nature, women innately want to have families. 0.98
02:26:27.000 They want successful marriages.
02:26:29.000 I don't think so.
02:26:33.000 Innately, women do. 1.00
02:26:34.000 No, seriously, I'll tell you why I don't think so.
02:26:36.000 Now I know this is crazy.
02:26:38.000 I think a little differently.
02:26:40.000 I don't know.
02:26:41.000 But I think if women, we wanted to have families. 0.96
02:26:43.000 Why is it that when we got the choice, we didn't have them?
02:26:47.000 Because basically they gave us birth control in the 60s.
02:26:53.000 So now we have the choice to do whatever we want and none of us really chose children.
02:26:59.000 So I actually think also on top of that the men are better parents and they're more nurturing.
02:27:03.000 I know, I know.
02:27:05.000 This is just what I think, so don't put this on that.
02:27:12.000 Just to finish my point, can I just...
02:27:14.000 It's like if we wanted to, we would, but we don't.
02:27:17.000 Can I just finish my point?
02:27:20.000 Sorry.
02:27:20.000 We also...
02:27:21.000 I get that.
02:27:22.000 There are women who do make terrible choices. 1.00
02:27:25.000 You know, they want a bad man. 0.79
02:27:26.000 They want a gun shooter. 0.99
02:27:27.000 They think that's the aesthetic.
02:27:29.000 They like it.
02:27:30.000 But we also have to account for the fact that women... 1.00
02:27:33.000 A lot of women get into relationships very hopeful. 1.00
02:27:37.000 They don't envision themselves 10 years down the line to be a single mum, raising their kids alone, struggling to make ends meet.
02:27:44.000 Women want families. 1.00
02:27:46.000 I can't remember what I was going to say.
02:27:48.000 So pick it!
02:27:51.000 I remember now, so sometimes people change in the span of a year.
02:27:56.000 Someone can change drastically depending on financial circumstance, you know, mental health change, physical health change.
02:28:02.000 We as women and as men, we can't predict, we can't preempt what someone's going to do to us in 10 years time based on the facts that we have now.
02:28:10.000 The man may be the most responsible, loving person as he is right now, but I can't then Travel 10 years down the line into the future and decide, oh, you know, how's he going to treat me?
02:28:22.000 Is he going to divorce me?
02:28:23.000 If I know that he's going to divorce me, if I know that he's going to be a deadbeat dad, obviously I'm not going to jump into that relationship.
02:28:30.000 Who divorces who? 1.00
02:28:31.000 But okay, who divorces who? 0.99
02:28:33.000 Women divorce men at higher rates, yes.
02:28:35.000 Okay, so women are the ones divorcing men. 1.00
02:28:37.000 Yeah, but why?
02:28:39.000 Okay, so why? 1.00
02:28:41.000 It's stupid reasons, actually. 1.00
02:28:43.000 And what would you define as stupid reasons? 1.00
02:28:45.000 It's all subjective, isn't it? 0.99
02:28:46.000 I want to define myself. 1.00
02:28:48.000 That's stupid, yeah. 1.00
02:28:49.000 I've heard I've outgrew him. 1.00
02:28:51.000 I've heard that so much.
02:28:51.000 I got bored.
02:28:53.000 But in most cases, those aren't...
02:28:55.000 It's the rule, it's not the exception.
02:28:57.000 I'll tell you what, I've done this for a year.
02:28:59.000 Wow, that's so long.
02:29:01.000 That's not a long time.
02:29:01.000 It's a thousand people, that's a long time.
02:29:03.000 Wow, that's a thousand people.
02:29:05.000 Look, look, look, look.
02:29:06.000 Did I not say this stuff?
02:29:07.000 Is that one thousand people?
02:29:08.000 I get what you're saying, but women are in marriages longer than... 1.00
02:29:14.000 We've been alive.
02:29:15.000 We're under 30.
02:29:17.000 Things happen.
02:29:18.000 You can't just go into something.
02:29:21.000 I think that women project things onto men. 1.00
02:29:23.000 I have unpopular opinions.
02:29:25.000 No, I get it.
02:29:26.000 I respect it.
02:29:27.000 I actually think that women... 1.00
02:29:30.000 We say, oh no, men change.
02:29:33.000 Women are the ones that change. 1.00
02:29:34.000 They're the ones that stop.
02:29:35.000 We do change.
02:29:36.000 I think men are generally the same.
02:29:38.000 No, they become complacent for sure.
02:29:41.000 How many times have you dated a guy and all your friends said there was a red flag your parents said it was a red flag they said no don't do it don't do it don't do it i've done that i've done that yeah correct correct yeah so he was the same but you tried to change it typically that's typically what happens and i'm not i'm not saying i'm any better than any woman i'm not saying i've never done that like okay okay but i'm just saying that's what we do men men they just want us to stay the same They just want us to not change.
02:30:08.000 Don't get fat.
02:30:08.000 Then 80% of women gain 20 plus pounds in the first five years of marriage.
02:30:14.000 They just want us to keep sleeping with them. 0.56
02:30:16.000 I mean, you know, there's some factors that are uncontrollable.
02:30:18.000 I've seen a lot.
02:30:19.000 I've seen not a lot.
02:30:20.000 I can't lie.
02:30:20.000 I'm not gonna lie.
02:30:21.000 So I've seen some cases where women have gotten sick. 1.00
02:30:25.000 They've had terminal illnesses.
02:30:27.000 Can we stick to the rule?
02:30:28.000 Not the exception.
02:30:29.000 Okay.
02:30:30.000 So what are the rules?
02:30:31.000 The rules are women just like to eat more. 1.00
02:30:37.000 So I've noticed in your line of defense, you know, women don't want to go to the police because of, you know, they've known them for a while and their feelings or they're getting into relationships because they're hoping for better or they're hoping the man can change in the future.
02:30:52.000 All of your rebuttals really take accountability away from women. 0.98
02:30:56.000 At the end of the day, like, and this is why, you know, arranged marriages were a thing for so long. 0.99
02:31:00.000 Women suck at picking their partners. 1.00
02:31:02.000 They really do. 0.99
02:31:03.000 All of you guys are almost in your 30s and single.
02:31:07.000 We go back 50, 70 years, 80 years.
02:31:09.000 Most women your age would be married and have a couple kids by now. 1.00
02:31:12.000 So what does that effectively tell me?
02:31:13.000 Women are putting up with less now because we have... 1.00
02:31:16.000 Hold on.
02:31:17.000 That's fine.
02:31:18.000 But what I'm trying to say is that women now, right, have basically... 1.00
02:31:25.000 It's crazy to me because you guys are so selective now and you want the best guy and you're like, we don't need to tolerate XYZ blah blah blah and then you meet that guy because he's exceptional, he's attractive because you want the best and then you get mad when he fucks another bitch. 1.00
02:31:38.000 You gotta figure it out. 0.99
02:31:40.000 You take accountability from yourselves every single time.
02:31:44.000 Can I ask you a question?
02:31:45.000 At the end of the day, you pick the man, right?
02:31:47.000 Yeah, but I cannot Okay, listen, this is what I said in the beginning. 0.95
02:31:52.000 What I said was, there are cases where women do pick trashy men. 1.00
02:31:59.000 We've done it.
02:32:00.000 So who's fault then?
02:32:02.000 It's the women's fault, fine. 1.00
02:32:03.000 Okay, so why do you keep making excuses for why they get bad behaviour after when they pick shitting men? 0.98
02:32:08.000 In that scenario, yes, the woman has to take accountability. 1.00
02:32:13.000 You've picked a bad man, you've picked a gun shooter, you've picked a road man, you've picked a drug dealer, just an aesthetic.
02:32:18.000 If you then get pregnant by him and he... 0.94
02:32:21.000 If someone gets arrested, that's on you.
02:32:22.000 But there are cases where women get with men with good intentions in the beginning and men change.
02:32:29.000 So, you know, you can't blame a woman for, you know, a divorce.
02:32:33.000 How about they never change?
02:32:34.000 They were that man the whole time and you just didn't realize.
02:32:36.000 And this is why.
02:32:38.000 The magic term is deception.
02:32:40.000 People lie.
02:32:41.000 People cheat.
02:32:44.000 How can we handle the truth if someone's not telling it?
02:32:48.000 Because that's why they lie.
02:32:50.000 Most of them can't handle cheating.
02:32:52.000 Most of them can't handle what men really think and what we really want. 1.00
02:32:55.000 So guys, lie to women. 1.00
02:32:55.000 That's what it is. 1.00
02:32:56.000 So whose fault is that?
02:32:58.000 That's the man's fault for lying.
02:33:00.000 And also, can I tell you something? 1.00
02:33:04.000 Holy shit. 1.00
02:33:05.000 Hold on, hold on. 0.99
02:33:06.000 Just to finish the thing here.
02:33:07.000 I just noticed that every rebuttal you made to her, when she tells you an objective fact, you say, well, how about this and that?
02:33:13.000 And it's all, at the end of the day, women are the ones making their choices. 1.00
02:33:15.000 So it's one of the two.
02:33:16.000 It's either you guys want, hold on.
02:33:19.000 Yeah, but women are the ones picking. 1.00
02:33:20.000 So you have a choice to make. 0.88
02:33:22.000 It's either A, women are bumbling retards that don't deserve rights and shouldn't be able to pick their partners and men step in and do it like before and arrange marriages, or you guys can go ahead and continue to pick your partners and then stay single into your 30s like we have now. 1.00
02:33:34.000 But I swear it's the man that picks who he marries. 0.97
02:33:36.000 Men are gatekeepers of relationships. 0.86
02:33:38.000 Women are gatekeepers of sex. 1.00
02:33:40.000 They pick their women as well. 0.91
02:33:42.000 But you, he has to have someone to commit to, so you have to pick him from- You have to pick each other.
02:33:48.000 It's a two-way street.
02:33:50.000 Why is it just the woman? 0.98
02:33:51.000 It's your job to attract them.
02:33:53.000 No, he's attracted to you really.
02:33:55.000 No, what comes first in general in 2024?
02:33:59.000 Sex or relationships?
02:34:00.000 It depends on who you're asking. 0.94
02:34:02.000 Okay, so who gets to have sex? 0.96
02:34:04.000 Men and women. 0.93
02:34:05.000 No, it's the men that women select. 1.00
02:34:09.000 Yep.
02:34:10.000 So women are the initial gatekeepers, right? 1.00
02:34:13.000 So that's what we're saying.
02:34:14.000 Because guys don't get a relationship. 0.98
02:34:17.000 But the guy's not going to get into a relationship unless he's been sexually selected by women, and women are the ones who do sex. 1.00
02:34:22.000 And this actually proves my point earlier, which she alluded to, because she was saying, like, just be honest and I'll give you sex if you say what it is.
02:34:28.000 And then I asked, okay, when she gave an example, and I said, repeat that sentence, and then she said, oh, I've known this guy for a while.
02:34:34.000 And women tend to always disqualify all the work men have to put in to attract them. 1.00
02:34:40.000 How long did he know you?
02:34:43.000 We had been cool for at least like, what, a year or so?
02:34:47.000 Okay, so we spent a year...
02:34:48.000 No, but we didn't spend like a year like together or spending time like that, no.
02:34:54.000 It's like we had spent time with each other briefly, and then life, we didn't see each other, and then before you know it, when we reconnected, it was like, okay, cool, but we just laid out on the table like, look, I ain't looking for anything because I just got out of this.
02:35:08.000 Okay.
02:35:08.000 What did he do when he was gone during that time?
02:35:11.000 I don't know. 0.99
02:35:12.000 I don't give a fuck what he did. 0.99
02:35:13.000 Well, I was living my life. 1.00
02:35:14.000 Well, you clearly did because you hooked up with him, so he had to have told you what he was doing.
02:35:18.000 You have to have probably been curious.
02:35:19.000 Yeah, but that's like, I'm not going to say his business.
02:35:21.000 You see what I'm saying?
02:35:21.000 We were friends.
02:35:22.000 Would it be fair to say it leveled up?
02:35:25.000 What do you mean?
02:35:26.000 He leveled up.
02:35:26.000 He was probably more attractive when he came back the second time.
02:35:29.000 That guy has always been attractive.
02:35:33.000 Okay.
02:35:33.000 So if he's always been attractive, he probably did something to level up in that time period.
02:35:40.000 But what I'm trying to say is that girls tend to look at the finish line. 0.99
02:35:42.000 They don't look at the entire race.
02:35:44.000 The man had to put in work to some degree to be able to get the sex from you that frankly. 0.98
02:35:49.000 But when I asked you, oh, I'm going to proposition you for sex right away. 0.97
02:35:52.000 You think we just wake up like this? 0.99
02:35:54.000 Some guys are really easy.
02:35:55.000 You can just We're like, yeah, look, pull up then.
02:35:57.000 And before you know it, my man's pulled up.
02:35:58.000 How often does that happen, though?
02:36:00.000 I mean...
02:36:01.000 How attractive does a man have to be to be able to get sex on command like that? 0.93
02:36:05.000 He has to have sauce. 0.69
02:36:07.000 He's got to be attractive.
02:36:08.000 He has to have what?
02:36:09.000 Sauce.
02:36:10.000 Okay.
02:36:10.000 So, okay.
02:36:11.000 So, it's not easy, then.
02:36:13.000 Yeah, the same way that it's not easy for just any girl to get sex as well, you know?
02:36:16.000 And I'll explain to you why.
02:36:21.000 Because girls don't just step out looking like anything. 1.00
02:36:26.000 They also put in a lot of effort.
02:36:28.000 Do you realize that you can go outside?
02:36:28.000 Hold on, hold on.
02:36:29.000 Stop, man.
02:36:29.000 This is what I'm trying to say.
02:36:30.000 You guys don't live in reality. 1.00
02:36:32.000 You can step outside right now and go, and the dude starts with sex with you. 1.00
02:36:45.000 You being able to get sex and a man being able to get sex don't even come close like It's not the same and and again, it's hard for men to get sex So it's like when girls say this like oh just be honest if I tell you I just want to fucking don't want to give your relationship 99% of the time I'm not gonna get it and then you even in your example Well, 0.98
02:37:01.000 we kind of had an understanding and you know we just fucked but he had to know you for a year and be extremely Of course he was hot So he had to reach 0.94
02:37:31.000 a certain baseline. 0.96
02:37:32.000 But then life just got in the way.
02:37:36.000 Distance.
02:37:36.000 I think at some point I even left London.
02:37:39.000 And then came back.
02:37:40.000 Why are you guys upset that women want child from a man?
02:37:43.000 And then, yeah, we just like, what?
02:37:44.000 A conversation just like, you know, it just popped up.
02:37:47.000 And then before, you know, it's like, you know what?
02:37:48.000 Yeah, pull up.
02:37:49.000 And then it was just like that.
02:37:51.000 Just pull up then.
02:37:52.000 And then boom, it happened.
02:37:54.000 And then that's when we was like, okay, cool. 0.99
02:37:55.000 Yeah, but if you said come over and we're going to fuck right now, you wouldn't have went over there. 1.00
02:38:00.000 No, but I've done that to a guy before. 0.99
02:38:01.000 I've been like, look, pull up.
02:38:02.000 This is what it is.
02:38:04.000 A man that says that is a bit like...
02:38:08.000 That's a bit scary.
02:38:11.000 That's a bit scary, yo.
02:38:13.000 Women live life on easy mode when it comes to dating so much that you guys are completely unaware of how it... 1.00
02:38:19.000 You guys live life on such an easy mode that you guys are completely unaware of all the work that men have to put in.
02:38:25.000 To be able to get laid.
02:38:26.000 We have to put in way more work than you guys.
02:38:28.000 Way more!
02:38:31.000 Do you find most men attractive?
02:38:42.000 Do you find most men attractive?
02:38:44.000 Do you find most men attractive?
02:38:46.000 Okay, you.
02:38:48.000 You.
02:38:49.000 You.
02:38:51.000 I only find myself attractive.
02:38:52.000 Fantastic.
02:38:54.000 No, I don't.
02:38:54.000 Can I just say something?
02:38:55.000 Okay, so that proves my point, man.
02:38:57.000 Do you find most women attractive? 1.00
02:38:59.000 I think it's hard. 1.00
02:39:00.000 Yeah, most women are average, which is fuckable. 1.00
02:39:03.000 It's harder out here for men because guys have to look good. 0.99
02:39:11.000 Some women can go out with no money and there'll be a guy at the bar who will buy them a drink. 1.00
02:39:20.000 A man can't go out with no money.
02:39:22.000 And expect him to get drinks from a girl, a woman that thinks he's good looking.
02:39:27.000 So I know a lot of people, especially because I'm older, I know a lot of people like my age, guys who are single.
02:39:33.000 They're single.
02:39:35.000 I've got one friend that he has been single for 20 years almost.
02:39:39.000 I don't know if he's had links or anything, but as far as I know, he hasn't had a girlfriend.
02:39:43.000 But this guy has a good job, lots of money in the bank, drives a car, He just doesn't have the look.
02:39:51.000 Women don't look at him. 1.00
02:39:52.000 He's not good looking.
02:39:54.000 He's not good looking.
02:39:56.000 Yeah, but us women can learn to love. 1.00
02:40:00.000 But they don't give him a chance.
02:40:01.000 They don't give him a look.
02:40:02.000 They don't even look at him.
02:40:03.000 They don't even look at him.
02:40:06.000 They're not interested.
02:40:07.000 He's the guy that the women walk past.
02:40:09.000 When I meet up with the girls and we see them in the group...
02:40:11.000 What's his riz like?
02:40:12.000 Has he got some riz?
02:40:13.000 Has he got some good banter?
02:40:15.000 Does he dress nice?
02:40:16.000 Does he smell good? 1.00
02:40:18.000 No, there's ugly men with money and they've got girls. 1.00
02:40:21.000 When they did that college study, when they got interviews to go out, they got male interviews to go out on a college campus and say to a bunch of women, 0.99
02:40:39.000 Will you have sex with me, right? 0.92
02:40:41.000 And then they've got women to go out and do the same thing. 1.00
02:40:44.000 And the percentage of women that said yes to the request, 0%.
02:40:48.000 The percentage of men who said yes to the request from women, 75%.
02:40:52.000 So that's the problem, right?
02:40:54.000 Because what he's saying is correct.
02:40:56.000 Men are easy.
02:40:57.000 No, women have it on easy mode, right? 1.00
02:40:59.000 Because all the women in here now... 1.00
02:41:00.000 Because you guys don't make it easy.
02:41:01.000 No, no, but all the women in here now could potentially go out... 1.00
02:41:04.000 Y'all just pull up.
02:41:05.000 What I've got to do is send a little meme.
02:41:07.000 Exactly, exactly.
02:41:08.000 But that's the point.
02:41:09.000 But no, that's the point.
02:41:11.000 That's the point.
02:41:12.000 That's the problem in the dating marketplace, right?
02:41:13.000 This is why we've got this, you know, the rich are getting richer, the poor are getting poorer in terms of dating.
02:41:17.000 And I don't just mean financially.
02:41:18.000 It's just the top guys are getting more of the action.
02:41:20.000 The guys who are perceived as low are getting less of the action.
02:41:23.000 That's increasing.
02:41:24.000 You know, and it's all doubt.
02:41:25.000 It's driven by social media.
02:41:26.000 It's driven by Instagram, the global dating marketplace, etc.
02:41:29.000 It's just like, and here's the thing, man.
02:41:32.000 I don't expect them to understand, but girls are never going to get it that it's way harder for men to get attention, even attention from females. 0.99
02:41:40.000 No, that's facts.
02:41:41.000 No, we do get it.
02:41:42.000 You guys deal with rejection and things like that.
02:41:44.000 We do get that.
02:41:45.000 Yeah, but here's the thing.
02:41:47.000 You don't understand.
02:41:48.000 Not only do you not...
02:41:49.000 Okay, you understand.
02:41:50.000 Not only that, but you don't even know.
02:41:51.000 When you meet an attractive guy, you don't even know all the work you had to put in to be that package that you're currently enjoying.
02:41:59.000 So for example, you go to a pizza spot, right?
02:42:01.000 Your favorite pizza spot.
02:42:03.000 You don't know that they had to get the cheese imported from Italy.
02:42:07.000 You don't know that they had to get the dough at a certain temperature to make it taste a certain way.
02:42:11.000 You don't know that they imported the sauce from a certain place to have a distinct taste.
02:42:15.000 You don't know that the oven that they got was thousands upon thousands of dollars to fry it, to cook it just right.
02:42:21.000 You just enjoy the end product, but you don't know the process that it took to create that pizza.
02:42:26.000 When you see an attractive man, when you see an attractive man, that man has spent a lot of the times, years if not decades, to create that package that you're currently enjoying.
02:42:34.000 But you don't understand what goes into it because women don't have to build themselves up at all. 1.00
02:42:38.000 You guys just exist, 18 years old, invited on a fucking yacht. 0.99
02:42:42.000 But who paid for the yacht? 1.00
02:42:43.000 You pay for yachts?
02:43:01.000 No, most men actually are not born with the sauce.
02:43:03.000 They have to learn the sauce.
02:43:06.000 There's some naturals, but most guys have to learn.
02:43:08.000 Yeah, that's not a bad thing.
02:43:10.000 But men also have, like, status when they're around beautiful women.
02:43:14.000 So it works.
02:43:15.000 It's like a transactional thing.
02:43:17.000 But they have to work.
02:43:17.000 They have to work to earn the status.
02:43:19.000 Even though they're successful, it doesn't matter.
02:43:19.000 No one cares.
02:43:20.000 But he needs to walk in with a beautiful woman.
02:43:22.000 Then people will really respect him.
02:43:24.000 Once again, perfect example of what I mean by just looking at the finish line, not looking at the race.
02:43:27.000 How do you acquire status? 0.99
02:43:30.000 That's what I mean when I say y'all are retarded sometimes. 1.00
02:43:32.000 No offense. 0.98
02:43:32.000 With all due respect. 0.98
02:43:33.000 No, no, no.
02:43:34.000 I'm not following. 0.99
02:43:36.000 Women lack critical thinking skills. 1.00
02:43:38.000 You guys just look at the end product. 0.97
02:43:40.000 This pizza's good!
02:43:42.000 But you don't know what it took to make the good pizza.
02:43:44.000 So what do you think a woman has in her life? 1.00
02:43:46.000 Like you see a guy with 10 girls.
02:43:49.000 He has status.
02:43:49.000 That's awesome.
02:43:50.000 But you don't know what it took for the man to acquire the status.
02:43:53.000 What do you think a girl goes through? 1.00
02:43:56.000 She's pretty and she gets invited on a yacht. 1.00
02:43:58.000 Not every girl is pretty, you know, especially growing up. 0.81
02:44:01.000 Do you know why?
02:44:02.000 Average girls have more marketability than celebrity men.
02:44:06.000 That's what you think.
02:44:07.000 No, it's true.
02:44:08.000 No, that's what you think.
02:44:09.000 Because you know what?
02:44:09.000 Let me tell you something, okay?
02:44:11.000 I'm just going to explain to you the difference between...
02:44:13.000 Stop one second.
02:44:13.000 Go on.
02:44:14.000 Because you don't know what you're fucking talking about. 1.00
02:44:15.000 I know what I'm talking about. 0.99
02:44:17.000 I'll tell you why, because I'm a woman and I know the work it takes for a woman to get to a stage where she can even be attractive to a man. 1.00
02:44:23.000 Don't think that women don't do anything, they don't just wake up and go by the bed, you know? 0.99
02:44:27.000 They don't do shit. 1.00
02:44:28.000 And not only that we have more emotional work than you guys. 0.99
02:44:31.000 We go to the gym, we gotta make sure.
02:44:34.000 Be quiet, hold on. 1.00
02:44:36.000 There's completely average women that we know that have come on our fucking show and had sex with A-list celebrities off of our show. 1.00
02:44:45.000 But that proves my point. 1.00
02:44:47.000 They are easy. 1.00
02:44:48.000 They just want to get their dick wet. 1.00
02:44:49.000 Oh my god, you're not refuting my point. 1.00
02:44:50.000 That women, average chicks, have access to exceptional men. 0.98
02:44:57.000 However, average men cannot attract exceptional women.
02:45:01.000 Do you understand that?
02:45:02.000 Okay, yeah.
02:45:04.000 So therefore, hold on.
02:45:07.000 So since average women are able to attract exceptional men, by definition that means women have dating on easy mode.
02:45:16.000 No.
02:45:16.000 Because their burn of performance is lower.
02:45:18.000 Look.
02:45:19.000 This is what I mean.
02:45:19.000 You just agree with everything I'm saying.
02:45:23.000 Women have on easy mode. 1.00
02:45:27.000 Not dating.
02:45:28.000 Serious relationships.
02:45:29.000 We don't have commitment on easy mode.
02:45:33.000 We don't have marriage on easy mode.
02:45:36.000 You're able...
02:45:37.000 Hold on.
02:45:37.000 This is what I'm trying to say.
02:45:39.000 No, no, no, no, no. 1.00
02:45:40.000 And if you don't get wiped, it's your fucking fault. 0.99
02:45:42.000 It comes back to women not having accountability. 1.00
02:45:44.000 You can at least get in the room with Future.
02:45:46.000 You can at least get in the room with Drake. 0.99
02:45:48.000 You can at least get in the room with a fucking NBA player and show yourself there. 0.99
02:45:52.000 I'm not getting a chance with Rihanna ever, no matter how much status I get. 0.99
02:45:56.000 I'm not getting a chance. 0.99
02:45:57.000 I have to build myself up to be in that room with those bad bitches. 1.00
02:46:00.000 You guys don't. 1.00
02:46:00.000 That's the difference. 1.00
02:46:01.000 And you could be an average fucking girl. 1.00
02:46:03.000 I know average girls that have no future hanging out with Future right fucking now. 1.00
02:46:08.000 That's the difference. 0.99
02:46:08.000 So you cannot sit there and tell me that, oh, women have it hard. 0.99
02:46:13.000 No, you fucking don't, man. 1.00
02:46:14.000 No, you don't. 1.00
02:46:15.000 Women have it easy in every facet of life. 1.00
02:46:20.000 And the problem is we've had women's empowerment content telling us we've had it so hard.
02:46:25.000 But the truth of the matter is we get into college easier.
02:46:28.000 We get jobs easier.
02:46:29.000 We can get into relationships easier.
02:46:31.000 There's no part of life that is not easier for a woman.
02:46:36.000 People are just nicer to us because we're women. 1.00
02:46:39.000 And then we go out and we think we're so oppressed, but we're really not.
02:46:44.000 If you take a man's life in 2024 and a woman's life in 2024, women objectively have it easier. 0.99
02:46:50.000 And again, you have the privilege of saying something ridiculous. 0.99
02:46:54.000 No offense, with all due respect, but I'm using this as an example to show how women lack critical thinking skills. 1.00
02:47:00.000 You have the privilege of saying, oh, just have some status and you'll have women.
02:47:03.000 What does it take to get status?
02:47:07.000 It's because it's so much easier for women to get status than men. 1.00
02:47:11.000 It's so much easier for us to get followers.
02:47:12.000 You guys are born with status. 1.00
02:47:14.000 If you're attractive, how many useless fucking bitches are on Instagram right now? 1.00
02:47:18.000 The keyword is if you are attractive. 1.00
02:47:21.000 Thank you.
02:47:21.000 It's not hard to be attractive as a female.
02:47:24.000 It is actually.
02:47:24.000 You can get surgery.
02:47:25.000 You can do filters.
02:47:26.000 That's easy.
02:47:27.000 You can do that too.
02:47:28.000 You have access to money.
02:47:29.000 Really?
02:47:29.000 You risk your life for beauty?
02:47:32.000 That's dead.
02:47:33.000 Hold on.
02:47:33.000 If you really want to grow up, you can.
02:47:35.000 But you can be average, put filters on your shit, and be attractive. 1.00
02:47:38.000 There's regular girls, bro, that get DMs from top-tier guys. 1.00
02:47:43.000 They have access to these men.
02:47:49.000 Myron, what was that thing you retweeted earlier when the guy did like 11,000 swipes or something on dating?
02:47:55.000 What did you get, 70 dates at the end or something?
02:47:58.000 Like 17 dates, I swiped the right, yeah, like 11,000 times.
02:48:01.000 Average guy.
02:48:02.000 Average guy.
02:48:04.000 Yeah, exactly.
02:48:05.000 And the bar for women, like he said, the reality is the bar for women to be considered attractive, not hot, not super beautiful, whatever, but attractive enough is significantly lower than it is for men, right?
02:48:16.000 You know, a girl, as long as she's kind of slim, she's kind of pretty, she's in the room. 1.00
02:48:20.000 Right?
02:48:20.000 She's in the room with Drake.
02:48:21.000 You know, she can put some makeup on. 1.00
02:48:23.000 She can do a bit of, you know, whatever. 0.99
02:48:24.000 She's on the yacht with Drake.
02:48:25.000 It's not actually that hard.
02:48:26.000 That's different from marriage material, though.
02:48:28.000 Well, that is, that's a different matter.
02:48:31.000 But like Myron said, but the reality is at least you're in the ballpark then.
02:48:36.000 I get it, yeah.
02:48:36.000 So then you've got the opportunity.
02:48:37.000 You get the opportunity.
02:48:38.000 Fair enough.
02:48:39.000 And this is why I don't respect, like, when you guys sit here and say, oh, I want to do this or whatever, like, women don't have to earn their value. 1.00
02:48:45.000 Like, if you meet a top-tier guy and he doesn't commit to you, you suck! 0.99
02:48:49.000 Why can't we call women losers? 1.00
02:48:51.000 Why can't we tell them you just suck, like you're not attractive? 1.00
02:48:53.000 Because if you go on a date with a guy, right, and you have good girlfriend traits, you're not annoying, you're not a fucking bimbo, you're not stupid as fuck, you're not fat, you're not crass, you're not obnoxious, you're not... 1.00
02:49:04.000 Like, a guy will probably wife you, bro. 0.99
02:49:07.000 So my thing is, like, if you can't get wife, that's your fault as the woman. 0.87
02:49:10.000 But at least you get the opportunity to meet the man.
02:49:13.000 That's what I'm trying to say.
02:49:14.000 Y'all get to take the shot at least. 0.99
02:49:17.000 We don't even get to take the shot unless we pay to get the fucking basketball. 1.00
02:49:21.000 I don't think women get that shit. 1.00
02:49:23.000 You guys get the shot. 1.00
02:49:24.000 We don't.
02:49:24.000 We have to be exceptional to even get an opportunity.
02:49:27.000 I feel sad for the kind of men that you know you guys are because you surround yourself with a lot of race girls. 1.00
02:49:34.000 I have to say.
02:49:35.000 My girls don't act like that. 1.00
02:49:37.000 I have to say.
02:49:38.000 No, you've not met my girls, actually.
02:49:42.000 You've met people that I chose to bring on your podcast, actually.
02:49:47.000 You've not met my friends, Pearl.
02:49:49.000 I'll tell you that much.
02:49:50.000 You know some people that I know.
02:49:53.000 I want to speak on this.
02:49:59.000 Hey, you can leave.
02:50:01.000 Hey, we just have a rule.
02:50:02.000 We take your IG off.
02:50:03.000 It's cool, though.
02:50:04.000 If you gotta leave, you gotta leave.
02:50:05.000 I totally understand that.
02:50:07.000 That's totally fine.
02:50:08.000 You can go.
02:50:09.000 You can go.
02:50:09.000 You can go.
02:50:10.000 It's all right.
02:50:11.000 That's fine.
02:50:12.000 No, because that was something that I thought when I first came on the podcast was that, you know, not all women are like this. 0.93
02:50:19.000 And I just kind of thought that Myron and Fresh were just interviewing Miami girls until I moved to London across the pond and I got the same responses from women from Africa, from Italy, from literally all over the world that they get in Miami.
02:50:36.000 You know, women are women. 1.00
02:50:37.000 We just have nature.
02:50:39.000 What was that nature, sorry?
02:50:40.000 Being delusional.
02:50:41.000 Yeah.
02:50:42.000 Okay.
02:50:42.000 Being delusional.
02:50:43.000 Same as men. 0.94
02:50:43.000 You just tried to argue with me that a woman's dating life is similar in difficulty to a man's, and that's just not true at all. 0.94
02:50:51.000 Bro, I'll tell you why.
02:50:52.000 Wait, bro, hold on, bro, hold one second.
02:50:55.000 He addressed me.
02:50:56.000 Let me tell you something.
02:50:56.000 For example, okay?
02:50:58.000 Me...
02:51:00.000 I'm single, I'm stepping out.
02:51:01.000 Me, I decide to be open-minded and give men opportunities to speak to them.
02:51:05.000 And what I find...
02:51:06.000 Sorry, sorry, sorry.
02:51:10.000 My bad, my bad.
02:51:11.000 Okay.
02:51:11.000 And I'm telling you for facts in modern day, the same way you guys can complain about women is the same way we complain about men.
02:51:19.000 For me, I find it to be, I actually find it very difficult to even speak to men.
02:51:23.000 Not just because of what I look like, it's also because of the fact that a lot of the time men will be thinking, okay, she thinks like, you know, she's comfortable, she's very much, you know, established in herself and they tend to challenge me for no reason.
02:51:34.000 They're not even nice to me.
02:51:35.000 So me, I'm not going to lie to you.
02:51:37.000 The same way you complain about women, I complain about men. 0.95
02:51:39.000 Yeah, it will be easier for me if I want to have sex with a man, but it will be much harder for me to be able to respect a man to a point where I will say, yeah, I would marry you.
02:51:47.000 Oh yeah, I would give the opportunity to even get close to me that way.
02:51:50.000 Because a lot of men are letting themselves down And what it even means to be a basic man.
02:51:54.000 So it's the guy's fault?
02:51:55.000 No, I'm just saying.
02:51:56.000 I'm not saying it's the guy's fault.
02:51:58.000 I'm talking from my perspective.
02:51:59.000 The same way you guys can complain is the same way I complain.
02:52:01.000 You guys find it difficult.
02:52:03.000 I find it difficult.
02:52:04.000 But you're not refusing to get any of his points.
02:52:05.000 I'm not saying that.
02:52:06.000 I'm just adding my point.
02:52:07.000 I also find it difficult.
02:52:09.000 So I don't think it's okay.
02:52:10.000 Useless points.
02:52:10.000 Useless points.
02:52:10.000 For you, but it's my experience.
02:52:12.000 Let's be objective here.
02:52:13.000 Let's be objective here.
02:52:15.000 Let's do a little bit of accountability.
02:52:17.000 You're 31 years old.
02:52:18.000 You're a fairly masculine woman. 0.93
02:52:20.000 So you say.
02:52:21.000 You are.
02:52:22.000 Well, I don't know.
02:52:23.000 A lot of people tell me I'm not.
02:52:24.000 They say that it's dependent on the man.
02:52:26.000 If you find me masculine, maybe you're not masculine enough.
02:52:28.000 No, no, no, no.
02:52:30.000 You're not agreeable, right?
02:52:32.000 Not with you.
02:52:33.000 You're just not agreeable, which is a masculine trait. 1.00
02:52:35.000 You pursued higher education.
02:52:36.000 You work in the professional world.
02:52:38.000 I'm a teacher, so that's a feminine profession, really, isn't it? 1.00
02:52:42.000 Are you a teacher?
02:52:43.000 You said that you counsel people.
02:52:44.000 Yes.
02:52:44.000 Behavior management.
02:52:46.000 I work with children.
02:52:47.000 I help them.
02:52:48.000 Okay.
02:52:48.000 Again, you don't have children, right?
02:52:50.000 And you don't have a man.
02:52:51.000 No.
02:52:52.000 Okay, so you're pursuing career?
02:52:54.000 No, I'm not pursuing a career.
02:52:55.000 I'm just living my life because I have bills to pay.
02:52:59.000 Okay.
02:53:00.000 Look, whether you want to accept it or not, right?
02:53:02.000 And women get really mad when I say this. 1.00
02:53:04.000 No, that's fine.
02:53:05.000 But the fact that you have bills to pay means you have to step into your masculine to work, to not be agreeable. 0.98
02:53:13.000 I'm not trying to shit on you, but working and pursuing higher education, et cetera, inevitably masculinizes you as a female. 1.00
02:53:20.000 Well, I believe that, for me, higher education gave me the opportunity to be around men of value. 0.96
02:53:27.000 Let's go back to the original point that I was trying to make here.
02:53:29.000 And it does add value to me.
02:53:30.000 In Africa, women being educated is a good thing. 1.00
02:53:33.000 Okay, look, again, that's great.
02:53:35.000 But all I'm simply trying to say here is because you're saying, oh, well, I can complain about men too, blah, blah, blah, all this other stuff.
02:53:41.000 Mm-hmm.
02:53:42.000 You do understand that at 31 years old, being a fairly masculine woman and having a higher education, etc, actually hurts you when it comes to finding a man, right?
02:53:49.000 Well, I'm not gonna lie to you.
02:53:52.000 What I'm doing right here is I'm talking to you, somebody that I don't necessarily agree with, but I don't surround myself with people like you.
02:53:58.000 So the people that I am around, that are more like the people that are my type, we don't need to disagree.
02:54:04.000 In fact, I don't have this experience with other men, I only have it with men that come on this podcast.
02:54:09.000 So really, I'm not going to sit here and act like I'm the problem.
02:54:11.000 Maybe I'm looking at you guys and think that you probably just don't understand.
02:54:14.000 Okay, let me be objective about this.
02:54:16.000 If you're 31 years old as a woman and you haven't been able to find a guy to take you seriously that you actually respect and admire...
02:54:21.000 That's not why I'm single.
02:54:21.000 Hold on, stop.
02:54:22.000 If you're in your 30s and you haven't found a man that you love, admire, and respect and that's going to take you serious and reciprocate, you failed as a female with the plethora of options that women have nowadays. 0.65
02:54:32.000 Well, to be honest, I'm not going to lie.
02:54:34.000 For example, I'll quote this.
02:54:36.000 Jordan B. Peterson said that the higher intellect or the higher IQ a woman has, the more likely it is for her to find it more difficult to find a partner because of hypergamy. 0.99
02:54:45.000 So, listen, I'm not going to lie to you.
02:54:49.000 I am not an average woman.
02:54:51.000 So that means that for me, it's much harder to find a man.
02:54:54.000 So I'm not going to rush and be with just anybody that doesn't suit me because then we get together and it's going to be chaos.
02:54:59.000 So I'm not going to be with a man that finds me masculine because he's too weak.
02:55:02.000 Because a real man does not find me masculine.
02:55:04.000 A real man thinks I'm actually cute and they make me feel sick and I actually sit down with him and I'm quite feminine.
02:55:09.000 It's interesting. 0.84
02:55:10.000 Anytime, and I found this very interesting, anytime a woman prefaces a statement with a real man, it's always followed with him lowering his standards or dealing with some fuckery. 0.87
02:55:20.000 For example, you're saying a real man would be able to tolerate me, etc. 0.96
02:55:25.000 Let me tell you something.
02:55:25.000 I'll be very candid with you.
02:55:27.000 I'm multi-millionaire.
02:55:29.000 A lot of my friends are multi-millionaires.
02:55:30.000 Successful, etc. 1.00
02:55:31.000 We don't fucking like women like you. 1.00
02:55:33.000 No offense. 1.00
02:55:33.000 With all due respect. 1.00
02:55:34.000 Hold on, stop.
02:55:35.000 Let me finish. 0.79
02:55:36.000 Because we don't want to go out and conquer the world and come back and deal with females like you. 1.00
02:55:39.000 Because you guys are annoying. 0.99
02:55:41.000 Masculine women don't attract masculine men. 1.00
02:55:44.000 If I wore heels on fucking Saturday, you would never accept me. 1.00
02:55:48.000 So why is it appropriate for you to be arguing and be masculine? 1.00
02:55:51.000 Because you are a masculine woman. 1.00
02:55:52.000 Trust me, you can't hide that shit. 1.00
02:55:53.000 You are. 1.00
02:55:54.000 Fine.
02:55:54.000 It's okay.
02:55:55.000 You are a masculine woman. 1.00
02:55:56.000 I'm a strong woman.
02:55:56.000 Fantastic.
02:55:56.000 Which means you're masculine.
02:55:57.000 That's fine.
02:55:59.000 But masculine men want feminine women that don't argue with them. 1.00
02:56:02.000 Period.
02:56:03.000 Okay.
02:56:03.000 I argue with you because you're not my man.
02:56:05.000 If you're my man, you'll be different.
02:56:07.000 And I find it interesting how every single one of my successful friends think the same.
02:56:13.000 And here's the other thing.
02:56:14.000 You know what?
02:56:15.000 Regular guys think the same too.
02:56:16.000 You know what the difference is?
02:56:18.000 We don't have to tolerate masculine women once you reach a certain level. 1.00
02:56:20.000 Then let me tell you something.
02:56:21.000 Tell your average and successful men to leave me alone because they won't.
02:56:25.000 That's it.
02:56:26.000 Tell them to leave me alone.
02:56:27.000 What they don't want to commit to you then.
02:56:28.000 No, I don't want to commit to them because as much as they love me, I don't want them because they don't suit me.
02:56:34.000 That's why I said I'm going to keep this whole relationship thing quiet because I don't want to break anybody's heart.
02:56:39.000 But I don't want to confirm anything either.
02:56:41.000 Keep it very ambiguous.
02:56:42.000 Because there's a lot of people that don't leave me alone.
02:56:45.000 The man that you want doesn't want you back.
02:56:48.000 That's what this comes down to.
02:56:49.000 Because if he did want you back, you would be married right now.
02:56:52.000 That's not true. 0.94
02:56:52.000 Because you and I both know, at 31 years old, as a female, not being married, you're an objective failure. 0.94
02:56:58.000 Not really.
02:56:59.000 Yes, you are.
02:57:00.000 That's down to you. 1.00
02:57:00.000 You're an objective failure. 1.00
02:57:01.000 Let me tell you.
02:57:02.000 And this is the reason why I also don't believe in statistics because you are making an assumption.
02:57:07.000 I'm not using a statistic off of this.
02:57:08.000 I beg, I beg.
02:57:09.000 I haven't finished.
02:57:10.000 I haven't finished.
02:57:11.000 I haven't finished.
02:57:11.000 You're using your general perception of what you've met of people to make a conclusion about me when you don't know me.
02:57:17.000 I'm sitting in a podcast, Fresh and Fit podcast, as a woman.
02:57:20.000 Of course I'm going to speak to you like this because as far as I'm concerned, this is a debate.
02:57:24.000 And I know how to debate very well when I want to.
02:57:27.000 You actually don't.
02:57:27.000 Yeah, I do actually.
02:57:28.000 The only difference is that you guys are here shouting and every time I try to speak you cut me off.
02:57:33.000 That's it.
02:57:34.000 Literally.
02:57:35.000 Because you ramble on and you make arguments that don't have to do with the point of discussion.
02:57:40.000 The arguments are simply parallels to show you that your logic doesn't necessarily make sense.
02:57:44.000 It's not a correct and exact science.
02:57:46.000 We were talking about the term abuse being changed and then you tried to link that to racism in prison.
02:57:52.000 No, I explained to you how terms within legal terms, they change.
02:57:57.000 They evolve through time.
02:57:58.000 And then you went back to racism.
02:57:59.000 Justice and the legal system, they evolve through time.
02:58:02.000 What was the law 10 years ago is not the same law now.
02:58:05.000 Everything evolves.
02:58:07.000 Everything evolves.
02:58:08.000 Even the way people...
02:58:09.000 Listen, the fact that we have policies for equality and diversity tells you everything.
02:58:14.000 The fact that we have anti-racist laws tells you everything.
02:58:19.000 There's a lot.
02:58:20.000 Guys, guys, guys, guys, guys.
02:58:21.000 Look.
02:58:22.000 The reason why I said if a woman's 30 plus and doesn't have a man and she's an objective, the reason why I say this is because we know that women derive pleasure, right, from family and children. 0.81
02:58:32.000 And you kind of gave yourself away a second ago.
02:58:34.000 You didn't say, I'm not chasing a career, I'm just chasing happiness, right?
02:58:37.000 Or I'm just living my life, right?
02:58:39.000 And working is a means to an end.
02:58:41.000 Right?
02:58:42.000 I have to pay bills.
02:58:43.000 Okay.
02:58:44.000 But if you had the opportunity, actually, you actually said this earlier.
02:58:46.000 That's why I love writing things down.
02:58:47.000 You would prefer a man to pay a majority of the bills if you could get it, right? 1.00
02:58:52.000 Now you don't.
02:58:53.000 So you're working just as a means to an end, which is cool.
02:58:55.000 I accept that.
02:58:56.000 That's actually why most women work as a means to an end. 1.00
02:58:59.000 But if women had the opportunity, they would prefer to be with a man that they love and respect, they could take care of them.
02:59:04.000 But that's not easy to find.
02:59:06.000 And that's a minority of men that can actually provide that.
02:59:08.000 So if a minority of men can actually provide...
02:59:11.000 Yes, that's a minority of men.
02:59:12.000 Because you would have had one by now if it was a majority.
02:59:14.000 Well, no, that's not why I would also just have a man by now.
02:59:17.000 There's also context to behind the scenes.
02:59:19.000 You don't know my story.
02:59:20.000 Fantastic, which makes you even more selective.
02:59:23.000 Yeah, a little bit.
02:59:24.000 Which makes the man even rarer.
02:59:25.000 Which proves my point once again.
02:59:26.000 And also as well.
02:59:27.000 Like, see, you do realize the more you talk, the more you hang yourself.
02:59:30.000 No, I'm not trying to hang myself.
02:59:32.000 I'm just saying.
02:59:32.000 It's not, it's nothing.
02:59:34.000 You're picky as hell.
02:59:35.000 But you're 31 years old.
02:59:37.000 Listen.
02:59:38.000 Look.
02:59:38.000 I am picky.
02:59:39.000 Why am I going to pick a girl that's 31, that's argumentative and masculine? 0.99
02:59:43.000 Why am I going to pick you?
02:59:43.000 Stop, stop, stop, stop, stop.
02:59:44.000 You don't want to Stop.
02:59:45.000 Stop.
02:59:46.000 Ultimately, I'm going to make the decision, correct?
02:59:48.000 I'm speaking generally here.
02:59:50.000 I'm not talking about me, myself, as Mario Gates.
02:59:51.000 I'm saying, why would a man that's attractive, that's at the top of his game, get with a 31-year-old woman who's lost her value, no offense, because we value age and youth and beauty.
03:00:01.000 Why would he get with an older woman? 0.99
03:00:02.000 Would he get with a younger woman that's more attractive and in her prime?
03:00:05.000 There's many reasons.
03:00:07.000 But to be fair as well, when you described the kind of man that you wanted, you basically exactly described the archetypal high-value man.
03:00:18.000 No, it doesn't.
03:00:19.000 Which is what he's talking about.
03:00:20.000 No, it doesn't.
03:00:20.000 So the question stands, would that guy that you described want to get...
03:00:26.000 One of the things I said first was, I don't give a damn if the guy's got money or not, as long as he's not an absolute idiot and he's able to want to build himself to a point where he can help me as the partner that he's meant to be when, for example, we have children, when things happen, when life happens.
03:00:41.000 Simple. 0.98
03:00:41.000 We need to have stability. 0.98
03:00:43.000 Simple.
03:00:43.000 I don't need a man to be rich.
03:00:45.000 I need a man to give me stability and to make me wear when I need it just by looking at me.
03:00:49.000 Simple.
03:00:50.000 He doesn't need to talk.
03:00:51.000 Look, what you're demanding, you no longer qualify for.
03:00:55.000 Well, that's what you think.
03:00:57.000 It's the truth.
03:00:59.000 It's been proven literally by what's going on right now.
03:01:01.000 You're single.
03:01:02.000 You're objectively proving it for me.
03:01:04.000 It's okay.
03:01:05.000 The way you're trying to present it is as if I'm single because my value is lower and people are not picking me.
03:01:11.000 That is not the truth.
03:01:12.000 I am single for many reasons that I don't need to go into right here because they're personal.
03:01:16.000 But I've got a million options.
03:01:17.000 If I want to tomorrow, I will.
03:01:18.000 You don't want them though.
03:01:21.000 They're not real options.
03:01:22.000 No, they are options.
03:01:23.000 No, they're not.
03:01:24.000 Because you don't want them. 0.99
03:01:25.000 See, this is what I'm trying to say when I say y'all are retarded, bro. 1.00
03:01:29.000 Dudes that you don't like or don't respect and don't want to be with are not fucking options. 0.99
03:01:33.000 They're guys that give you attention. 0.97
03:01:34.000 They're guys that give you attention that you don't like.
03:01:37.000 Because if you did, you would have been with them.
03:01:39.000 Listen, there's men that give me attention that I don't like.
03:01:41.000 There are men that give me attention that I think, oh, you're okay.
03:01:43.000 And there are men that give me attention that I think, actually, you're a great candidate.
03:01:46.000 And also, our standards have gone higher.
03:01:49.000 And you don't get with them.
03:01:50.000 Which means they're lacking in something.
03:01:51.000 No, I don't get with them because I'm not going to get with every guy that is supposedly good.
03:01:55.000 So I have to take my time because I'm not loose.
03:01:57.000 But then you're not getting with any guy.
03:01:59.000 How does that make sense?
03:02:00.000 And your value is rapidly declining in the process.
03:02:03.000 I don't care.
03:02:04.000 I don't care because I'm somebody that trusts a lot of people.
03:02:07.000 If I trust a lot of people, I'm not going to pick the first one that comes to me.
03:02:10.000 How many people have you tried?
03:02:12.000 Listen, I don't need to try people because I'm not doing that.
03:02:15.000 Also, women's standards have gone really high as well. 0.65
03:02:18.000 Just wanted to add to that.
03:02:19.000 That's probably why then she's not picking. 1.00
03:02:21.000 My standards have to be high. 0.97
03:02:22.000 Unfortunately, if you're a man, because if my standards are not high, I will destroy that man.
03:02:25.000 You're high standards. 0.95
03:02:27.000 You're high standards.
03:02:28.000 See, this is what I'm trying to say, bro.
03:02:29.000 Like, you can't have these high standards no more.
03:02:31.000 You're 31.
03:02:32.000 You're 31, bro.
03:02:34.000 You're 31.
03:02:35.000 Like, yo, we need to bring you back.
03:02:36.000 I can't say that to her.
03:02:37.000 It's the truth.
03:02:38.000 This is what, yo!
03:02:41.000 She's choosing to be single. 1.00
03:02:43.000 Shut the fuck up. 1.00
03:02:44.000 Everybody shut up for two seconds. 1.00
03:02:46.000 Because this is crazy. 0.56
03:02:47.000 What if I said, yo, I play video games every day.
03:02:51.000 I'm 300 pounds.
03:02:52.000 I made $10,000 last year. 1.00
03:02:54.000 I want a bad bitch. 1.00
03:02:55.000 What would you guys say to me? 1.00
03:02:56.000 There's niggas that are doing that still. 1.00
03:02:58.000 She had one.
03:03:00.000 Am I delusional? 1.00
03:03:01.000 Am I a dumbass for thinking that? 1.00
03:03:03.000 I am. 0.99
03:03:04.000 That's delusional because I don't qualify for what I want.
03:03:08.000 I'm a brokeie. 0.99
03:03:08.000 I'm a loser. 0.99
03:03:10.000 And here's the thing. 0.99
03:03:10.000 Reality is going to let me know. 0.99
03:03:12.000 Ain't no bad bitch is going to want me. 1.00
03:03:13.000 Okay? 0.99
03:03:14.000 I got to get out there and become that guy to be attractive.
03:03:18.000 Why is that women think, I'm not going to change. 1.00
03:03:20.000 I'm going to get older.
03:03:21.000 I'm going to wait it out.
03:03:22.000 And I still want a top tier guy to pick me.
03:03:24.000 It's not happening, bro.
03:03:25.000 It's not happening.
03:03:26.000 Trust me.
03:03:27.000 If you're single at 31, chances are you're going to stay single past 31.
03:03:31.000 And this is statistically proven too.
03:03:33.000 That's okay, that's okay.
03:03:34.000 Myron, they become side chicks at 35. 0.57
03:03:37.000 Yeah, like bro, this is crazy.
03:03:39.000 Don't worry.
03:03:39.000 This is crazy.
03:03:40.000 My reality, you've never met a woman like me.
03:03:41.000 My reality is quite different.
03:03:43.000 I've met any woman like you.
03:03:44.000 You wish, girl.
03:03:44.000 I meet them all the time.
03:03:45.000 You really wish.
03:03:46.000 That's why you don't want it now though.
03:03:47.000 I really do.
03:03:47.000 That's why I'm the only girl that comes here as often as I do.
03:03:52.000 You are as crazy as you are. 0.99
03:03:54.000 You are on time. 1.00
03:03:55.000 I do appreciate that.
03:03:57.000 Punctuality is masculine trait.
03:04:00.000 Listen, as much as you're talking and saying all of this, you're the person that says the reason why you come here is because you don't complain.
03:04:05.000 You come, you do.
03:04:06.000 I don't complain.
03:04:09.000 I'm not saying you have no positive qualities.
03:04:14.000 I could list them right now.
03:04:15.000 You don't even know me, but I'm just telling you.
03:04:18.000 I've known you for like a year.
03:04:20.000 I know your name is Hannah Paul Davis.
03:04:27.000 What's my surname even?
03:04:28.000 See, that's a masculine trait. 1.00
03:04:30.000 Interjecting, not being agreeable.
03:04:31.000 We all did it.
03:04:32.000 But you the most, by far.
03:04:35.000 You and this other girl right here.
03:04:37.000 Yo, we're going in circles, man.
03:04:38.000 I haven't spiked the whole night, so...
03:04:41.000 You can say something.
03:04:43.000 What do you want to say?
03:04:47.000 Moroccan, why are you single?
03:04:48.000 We've given you opportunities to talk, and you just said, no, I don't want to say anything.
03:04:51.000 I am newly single, and I have been single for three months, and I chose to leave the man.
03:04:58.000 I was going to get married.
03:05:00.000 He was perfect on paper, but I walked away.
03:05:03.000 Why? 1.00
03:05:04.000 Stupid. 1.00
03:05:05.000 Because I am very... 1.00
03:05:07.000 And this is why, like, yo, this is why I'm trying to say it.
03:05:09.000 Arranged marriages are a thing because women make bad decisions. 1.00
03:05:13.000 No, because I'm like you.
03:05:15.000 I'm very picky and I know what I want.
03:05:17.000 And it's like, although someone's maybe perfect for me on paper and, yeah, he treats me like a princess and things like that, there's things that I need.
03:05:25.000 And if that person doesn't have it...
03:05:26.000 You're 29.
03:05:27.000 Yes, sir.
03:05:28.000 A lot of women value their happiness. 1.00
03:05:30.000 Can you tell us what the things were?
03:05:32.000 I mean, I know it's, like, personal.
03:05:34.000 Can you be a bit specific, just out of interest?
03:05:40.000 The person was a people pleaser.
03:05:43.000 Not just with me, but with the family, his friends.
03:05:48.000 It was like the people around him, he was just...
03:05:50.000 He's a nice guy.
03:05:51.000 He's a really nice guy.
03:06:00.000 I have a question for you guys.
03:06:05.000 Can I ask a question?
03:06:07.000 I was very happy with him.
03:06:08.000 I did not leave him for that reason.
03:06:10.000 He made some very rash decisions. 1.00
03:06:13.000 He did something really stupid at one point. 1.00
03:06:15.000 We're supposed to be getting engaged and married this year. 1.00
03:06:18.000 And he suddenly goes and invests so much money into some random business just because his friends convinced him to.
03:06:25.000 I was not okay with that.
03:06:26.000 Oh, I want that for the ring instead.
03:06:29.000 Did you talk to your parents about this? 0.99
03:06:34.000 Or your brother or some shit? 0.99
03:06:35.000 Yeah, my family met him, yeah. 0.95
03:06:37.000 And what did they tell you when you said, I'm going to leave?
03:06:40.000 Was he Arab himself?
03:06:42.000 He was Pakistani.
03:06:45.000 My brother is in support of me leaving him.
03:06:49.000 But my mum is kind of like, oh my god, you're 29, you need to get married.
03:06:53.000 No, your mum sees what it is.
03:06:54.000 She's panicking, but my brother's like, no, you need someone better.
03:06:59.000 Well, your brother knows his friend, I guess.
03:07:01.000 My brother's 17 and he...
03:07:03.000 He's a kid! 1.00
03:07:05.000 His balls haven't even dropped yet, he don't know shit! 1.00
03:07:08.000 You're 30 years old! 1.00
03:07:09.000 Nigga! 1.00
03:07:10.000 She went up a teenager! 0.99
03:07:13.000 Nigga can't even drink alcohol! 1.00
03:07:15.000 She listened to a minor about her life! 1.00
03:07:17.000 Oh shit, I'm gonna crush the car! 1.00
03:07:20.000 Shout out to my brother. 1.00
03:07:21.000 That's crazy!
03:07:23.000 I know what I'm doing.
03:07:25.000 I know what I'm doing.
03:07:29.000 He wasn't my husband.
03:07:30.000 I know what I'm doing.
03:07:31.000 And she values her happiness over that.
03:07:33.000 I value myself so much.
03:07:34.000 I have so much respect for myself.
03:07:35.000 I bring so much to the station.
03:07:37.000 And I will meet my husband.
03:07:38.000 How long has you been together?
03:07:39.000 He wasn't that person.
03:07:40.000 How long has you been together?
03:07:42.000 I knew you were going to dump him.
03:07:44.000 I just want you to know the past year I knew you were going to dump him.
03:07:46.000 Really?
03:07:46.000 Yeah, based on how you spoke about him, I know.
03:07:49.000 I already know.
03:07:50.000 Yeah, it was because you valued, I could tell you liked his resources more than him by the way you spoke about him. 0.99
03:07:57.000 Damn. 1.00
03:07:58.000 Damn! 1.00
03:07:59.000 I could tell he was like a rich guy. 1.00
03:08:00.000 So you are a gold digger.
03:08:02.000 So you are a gold digger.
03:08:04.000 You got a good heart there.
03:08:05.000 I could tell, no, sorry, that sounded really harsh.
03:08:08.000 I didn't mean it to be, but it sounded like when I heard you talk about him, I guessed Richard Dork.
03:08:14.000 That's what I guessed.
03:08:15.000 You know what it is?
03:08:16.000 It wasn't even that.
03:08:17.000 I don't know.
03:08:17.000 Maybe I'm off.
03:08:18.000 Maybe I'm off.
03:08:18.000 So I don't know.
03:08:19.000 But that was just based on how you talked about him.
03:08:21.000 It was more so like he just lacked boundaries.
03:08:24.000 And that's very important for me.
03:08:26.000 But the thing is boundaries are boundaries. 0.89
03:08:27.000 Yeah, you need a guy to tell you to shut up. 1.00
03:08:29.000 Bro, put the camera on you, man. 1.00
03:08:33.000 That's why I tell you motherfuckers, bro. 1.00
03:08:35.000 Women deserve less booking stores right now. 1.00
03:08:36.000 I tell you guys this shit all the time. 1.00
03:08:39.000 They don't know what the fuck they want. 1.00
03:08:40.000 You're a nice guy. 1.00
03:08:42.000 You're a fuck. 1.00
03:08:42.000 Be quiet. 1.00
03:08:43.000 You're a nice guy.
03:08:44.000 You make money.
03:08:45.000 You're successful. 0.99
03:08:46.000 Oh, I'm going to give you the world, all this other shit. 0.97
03:08:48.000 You go ahead and you invest to make more money for the relationship, by the way. 0.99
03:08:52.000 And girls get mad. 0.97
03:08:53.000 Like, that got to be my engagement.
03:08:54.000 And they break up with you.
03:08:55.000 Bro, that's what I tell y'all, man. 1.00
03:08:57.000 Be fucking... 1.00
03:08:59.000 I have the frame, man. 1.00
03:09:05.000 Boundaries are for guys you don't really like.
03:09:09.000 What do you even mean by he didn't have boundaries though?
03:09:11.000 He didn't have rules on her. 0.57
03:09:12.000 She did whatever she wanted.
03:09:14.000 Is that how you mean it?
03:09:15.000 No.
03:09:16.000 So he would never ever express He would never say, these are the rules.
03:09:22.000 I don't want you doing this.
03:09:23.000 When I would go and do something, he would hold it against me. 1.00
03:09:28.000 Fuck it, the red pills are dropping. 1.00
03:09:29.000 The red pills are dropping from the sky, man. 1.00
03:09:31.000 He would bottle it up, and then one day what he would do is he would try and get revenge on me.
03:09:38.000 So for example...
03:09:39.000 Passive aggressive?
03:09:39.000 Yeah, passive aggressive.
03:09:40.000 So for example, I went to a place called Tramp here in London.
03:09:44.000 Oh my God.
03:09:44.000 Red flag.
03:09:45.000 You can't make this up!
03:09:46.000 You can't make this up!
03:09:48.000 Hold on a second.
03:09:49.000 For dinner.
03:09:49.000 I went there for dinner.
03:09:50.000 I did not go to party.
03:09:52.000 I went with my friend for dinner.
03:09:53.000 And I... And I went to the trap house to get medicine.
03:09:57.000 He knew I was out.
03:09:58.000 I was speaking to him the whole night.
03:10:00.000 I even sent him pictures of my lobster pasta, you know.
03:10:03.000 And he was like, oh yeah, enjoy yourself, blah, blah, blah.
03:10:05.000 Anyway, a few weeks later, like, I didn't say that I went to trap.
03:10:09.000 Who paid for that dinner? 0.99
03:10:09.000 My friend was on the phone to me and he... 0.99
03:10:11.000 Who paid for the dinner?
03:10:12.000 Sorry?
03:10:12.000 Who paid for that dinner?
03:10:14.000 I paid for myself.
03:10:15.000 My friend paid for herself.
03:10:16.000 Just with you and your girlfriend?
03:10:17.000 Me and my girl, yeah.
03:10:18.000 And he knew.
03:10:19.000 He knows that friend because she always drops me home and he knows I'm okay with her.
03:10:24.000 So why did it become an issue then?
03:10:26.000 So...
03:10:27.000 Because I didn't say that I was specifically at Trump.
03:10:31.000 So he had a problem with that for some reason.
03:10:33.000 He was like, why didn't you say he was in Trump?
03:10:35.000 A week later, he decided to go to Paris randomly with his friends.
03:10:39.000 Didn't tell me.
03:10:40.000 Acted like he was in a country.
03:10:42.000 And I'm like, things like that.
03:10:43.000 You're just playing games.
03:10:44.000 I don't mess with things like that.
03:10:45.000 Be a man and say it with your chest. 0.75
03:10:48.000 In the start, tell me I'm not okay with you going to these places.
03:10:52.000 Don't come to me two weeks later and then suddenly try and, you know, This is actually a really good learning moment for the audience out there. 0.99
03:11:10.000 This is an example of having money but still being a bitch and you lose your girl. 1.00
03:11:14.000 She only tolerated him because he had money. 1.00
03:11:15.000 That's the only reason she tolerated him.
03:11:17.000 That's not true.
03:11:18.000 I cared about him and he was an amazing person and we were gonna get married this year.
03:11:23.000 Unfortunately, too many things...
03:11:25.000 If you didn't have the money, you wouldn't have been with him.
03:11:26.000 You wouldn't give him a chance.
03:11:27.000 So many things kept coming up and I was like, I can't marry this person.
03:11:30.000 If you didn't have the money, you wouldn't have let it last as long as it did, bro.
03:11:33.000 Like, come on, man.
03:11:33.000 But it is an important learning moment.
03:11:36.000 It is an important learning moment.
03:11:37.000 Of course.
03:11:38.000 Of course.
03:11:38.000 Just quickly.
03:11:39.000 It's an important learning moment.
03:11:40.000 For guys out there to learn.
03:11:41.000 Because guys, there are guys out there.
03:11:43.000 Some guys think it's all about looks, right?
03:11:45.000 But there's a big contingent of guys who think it's all about money.
03:11:47.000 It's like, if you've got money, that's it.
03:11:48.000 You're sorted.
03:11:49.000 And it's not true.
03:11:51.000 It's not true.
03:11:51.000 It's not true.
03:11:51.000 That's what I was saying.
03:11:52.000 Because you need the...
03:11:53.000 She'll tolerate you.
03:11:55.000 Yeah.
03:11:55.000 And then if you spend that money for the engagement, she'll break up with you.
03:11:58.000 But you've got to have the...
03:11:59.000 You've got to have the reasons.
03:12:00.000 You've got to have the edge.
03:12:01.000 You've got to have everything.
03:12:02.000 You've got to have everything.
03:12:03.000 Exactly.
03:12:03.000 And notice she's following her path, not his path.
03:12:06.000 Yes.
03:12:06.000 You know what?
03:12:06.000 The money that was supposed to be on the wedding.
03:12:08.000 You know what? 1.00
03:12:08.000 Fuck that. 1.00
03:12:09.000 We're putting it towards our future for an investment. 1.00
03:12:11.000 She said, you know what? 1.00
03:12:11.000 Fuck that. 1.00
03:12:12.000 It should be towards the wedding. 1.00
03:12:13.000 Yeah.
03:12:13.000 So ultimately, it was your path, not his path.
03:12:15.000 I don't want to be an asshole, but I said this in my book. 0.99
03:12:16.000 Most women want to get married, but they don't want to be wives. 1.00
03:12:19.000 No, how about you say that that's showing me that he's perhaps not making mature decisions and being quite reckless and maybe putting my life at risk.
03:12:28.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on.
03:12:28.000 He's putting my life at risk.
03:12:30.000 Stop, stop, stop.
03:12:30.000 With all due respect, the guy had money when you met him, right?
03:12:33.000 Yeah. 0.99
03:12:33.000 So who the fuck are you to tell him how to invest? 0.99
03:12:35.000 Exactly. 0.99
03:12:36.000 Exactly!
03:12:37.000 Like, bro, get out of here, man!
03:12:39.000 There is a huge difference.
03:12:42.000 I've spoken to guys who also agreed with me.
03:12:45.000 They're like, yeah, it's the wrong timing.
03:12:47.000 No, no, no, no, no. 0.91
03:12:50.000 Dudes that got money, a lot of the times, like, even the biggest simps will have some money somewhere else that you don't fucking know about. 0.62
03:12:56.000 He might have had some money somewhere else. 0.99
03:12:58.000 Maybe some crypto shit, whatever. 0.98
03:13:01.000 If he made an investment like that and he made the money in the first place, trust me, he probably knew what he was doing. 0.99
03:13:06.000 And I find it amazing how he has more money than you, more competent than you, more successful than you, but you're trying to dictate how we invest the money that he worked for and say, that was the good decision.
03:13:16.000 When the reality is women are 80% of the consumer base and you guys control three quarters of debt. 1.00
03:13:20.000 Y'all don't know how to spend no fucking money. 1.00
03:13:22.000 Y'all are retards with money. 1.00
03:13:23.000 No offense. 0.99
03:13:24.000 It was the truth.
03:13:25.000 Objectively speaking.
03:13:26.000 I got the numbers to show me.
03:13:27.000 I can agree with that one.
03:13:27.000 But you over here trying to tell a rich nigga how to invest his money.
03:13:31.000 And you mad because he didn't spend it on a fucking wedding. 1.00
03:13:33.000 At Trump as well. 1.00
03:13:36.000 Come on.
03:13:37.000 Yo, I'm going to keep it a thousand.
03:13:38.000 I'm going to keep it a thousand.
03:13:39.000 You might want to get back with him, man.
03:13:42.000 He wants me back, and I did say to him...
03:13:44.000 If he's watching now, have you got a...
03:13:45.000 No, no, no.
03:13:46.000 What I will say is, when we broke up, he was distraught, and I did say to him, if it's meant to be, we will actually find our way back.
03:13:54.000 You're controlling the problem.
03:13:57.000 That's your...
03:13:57.000 No offense.
03:13:58.000 I'm not saying I'm perfectly good.
03:13:59.000 I wouldn't go back to him.
03:14:00.000 You're not going to respect him.
03:14:01.000 You can't.
03:14:02.000 And that's worse.
03:14:02.000 You might end up appeasing him.
03:14:03.000 You're never going to like guys you can control.
03:14:04.000 Because I know he's a good guy and he has amazing qualities.
03:14:07.000 I'm not blind to that.
03:14:08.000 You know what it is?
03:14:09.000 He can't tell her no.
03:14:11.000 So the problem is she's leading the whole interaction.
03:14:12.000 And if she doesn't get her way, oh, you know what? 1.00
03:14:15.000 Fuck this guy. 1.00
03:14:15.000 And here's the other thing too. 1.00
03:14:16.000 If you knew breaking up with him, he would be like, fuck this bitch. 1.00
03:14:20.000 I'm blocking her. 1.00
03:14:21.000 I'm never talking to her again.
03:14:21.000 You wouldn't have left him.
03:14:23.000 You know, you're leaving him because you're like, yo, I could probably do better.
03:14:27.000 Because, like, right now you're like, okay.
03:14:28.000 You know what she did?
03:14:30.000 This is what she did.
03:14:31.000 She basically left the casino up and she was like, you know what?
03:14:35.000 I could make a little more.
03:14:36.000 Okay, I'm going back in.
03:14:37.000 And she went back in the casino, but she don't realize the casino's going to close in about an hour.
03:14:41.000 I have a question.
03:14:42.000 No, because I had better before him, and I chose him because I wanted something different.
03:14:45.000 Wait, wait, you said before.
03:14:46.000 What also was going on before?
03:14:48.000 Because I had so many options before him, and I didn't choose those people.
03:14:51.000 What happened before, though?
03:14:52.000 What do you mean?
03:14:52.000 Like, you said before, that's a key word.
03:14:55.000 Like, before I met him.
03:14:57.000 The other guys?
03:14:58.000 No, you were younger back then.
03:15:00.000 You were younger.
03:15:01.000 Yeah, but you were younger.
03:15:02.000 What, two years ago?
03:15:04.000 Yeah.
03:15:05.000 Are you saying like guys with money or something like this?
03:15:08.000 I had many options.
03:15:09.000 And I chose him because he was loyal, he was honest, he had all these amazing qualities.
03:15:14.000 But it was when he started behaving like this and switching up and doing things like this, I was like, I can't marry this guy, this is scary.
03:15:21.000 I want to tell you something I noticed.
03:15:23.000 Whenever women use the traits that you just said, like loyal, like the stuff that you just said, they always dump them. 1.00
03:15:30.000 Like I've just noticed that the past couple of years.
03:15:32.000 But the intention was not to dump him.
03:15:33.000 You sound like you pity him.
03:15:37.000 It doesn't matter what your intention, like men don't care about your intentions.
03:15:42.000 They don't care.
03:15:42.000 They look at what you do.
03:15:44.000 And so if you're listing, like, he's loyal, he's honest, he's this, men are going to hear that and say, oh, well, if I'm loyal and honest and this to her, then she's going to dump me too.
03:15:53.000 I mean, they're kind of not, with all due respect, they're kind of anti-seductive qualities in a sense.
03:15:58.000 Because if you think about the archetypal bad boy that women supposedly want, right, the James Bond, you know, the Daniel Craig, you know, is he loyal?
03:16:05.000 Is he nurturing?
03:16:06.000 Is he all those things?
03:16:06.000 But I chose him because he didn't have those things.
03:16:08.000 Right, but what gives you the tingles?
03:16:11.000 Was there a cheater before?
03:16:12.000 I feel like there was a cheater before him.
03:16:15.000 You know what's funny?
03:16:17.000 Troy, she had fun with the guys that were fun, exciting, bad boys.
03:16:25.000 So you know what?
03:16:26.000 I'm getting older.
03:16:26.000 Time to settle down.
03:16:27.000 I'm going to find that guy's loyal.
03:16:29.000 He's got to take care of me.
03:16:31.000 And he's somewhat nice to me.
03:16:32.000 Because he chose this guy.
03:16:33.000 Unfortunately, a nice guy with money doesn't mean frame.
03:16:36.000 So by default, he stayed in the game for a little bit.
03:16:38.000 Oh, you know what?
03:16:39.000 He's choosing money and business over me.
03:16:43.000 We're happier with a guy that cheats than a guy that's safe.
03:16:46.000 I don't know.
03:16:47.000 Maybe you can say no, and I get it.
03:16:50.000 I used to say no, that's not true.
03:16:51.000 But I just look at what we do.
03:16:54.000 I think it's more in the middle.
03:16:55.000 I feel like it's just the way someone behaves.
03:16:58.000 I want someone who's just a short.
03:17:01.000 Women don't respect loyal men. 1.00
03:17:07.000 They don't. 0.99
03:17:08.000 Because when I'm loyal to you, especially sexually, what that basically says is I can only get sex from you and therefore I am victim to whatever you want.
03:17:15.000 Just like the guy that was sexless.
03:17:17.000 You need to know that you could be replaced at any time.
03:17:18.000 That's the only thing women respect. 1.00
03:17:20.000 So would you cheat on your spouse then?
03:17:21.000 Yes.
03:17:22.000 100%.
03:17:22.000 I don't know.
03:17:24.000 You know what? 1.00
03:17:25.000 Yo, you think I'm going to rise up and do all this shit to fuck one bitch? 1.00
03:17:30.000 Are y'all crazy? 1.00
03:17:31.000 And I want to tell you something. 0.99
03:17:32.000 Would you get married then?
03:17:34.000 Huh?
03:17:34.000 Would you get married then?
03:17:36.000 Marriage is a scam. 0.60
03:17:37.000 If I was to get married, I wouldn't do it with the state.
03:17:39.000 If I was to get married, I wouldn't do it with the state.
03:17:45.000 I'd do it religiously only.
03:17:46.000 I wouldn't do it with the state involved.
03:17:49.000 I mean, that's a whole other conversation.
03:17:50.000 But I respect guys like you who can just outright say that this is what I'm about.
03:17:55.000 But it's the men that don't say it, that's the problem.
03:17:58.000 But you should have common sense to know that's how they're going to move anyway.
03:18:03.000 Your culture has common sense enough to know that men are going to do it.
03:18:08.000 Yes.
03:18:09.000 And it's been that way for centuries.
03:18:10.000 So why do you think men are going to change now?
03:18:13.000 Yeah, but then the men in my culture, they're not dishonest about it.
03:18:18.000 In a lot of cases, they're not dishonest about it.
03:18:21.000 Whether they're dishonest about it or not is irrelevant if you know it's going to happen, right?
03:18:26.000 If I tell you it's raining outside and I give you an umbrella, but it doesn't rain and it's sunshine, fantastic!
03:18:33.000 But isn't it good to have that umbrella so you can put it out when the rain comes?
03:18:35.000 Because you know it's going to come?
03:18:36.000 That doesn't make any sense.
03:18:38.000 What's that got to do with the situation?
03:18:42.000 If I tell you that all men are going to cheat in general, most men are going to cheat in general, your culture actually braced you for this.
03:18:50.000 Why are you talking about umbrellas?
03:18:52.000 Rihanna, get it. 1.00
03:18:54.000 Rihanna, bro!
03:18:55.000 Umbrella.
03:18:58.000 That makes sense.
03:18:59.000 See, Fresh, you're smart.
03:19:00.000 Thank you.
03:19:01.000 Thank you.
03:19:02.000 Do you understand an analogy? 0.99
03:19:05.000 Oh, the same way I try to do analogies and you call me stupid. 0.99
03:19:08.000 Sorry, my bad. 0.99
03:19:09.000 I forgot.
03:19:09.000 You didn't make an analogy.
03:19:10.000 I did make various analogies.
03:19:12.000 You didn't make any analogies.
03:19:13.000 That made sense.
03:19:14.000 So, what I'm saying is that your own culture told you what I just said.
03:19:18.000 If most men in a balance of probabilities are going to cheat, you should probably just accept it. 0.98
03:19:22.000 And you even said it yourself.
03:19:24.000 Do you think that's the right thing to do, though?
03:19:26.000 Yes.
03:19:26.000 And I absolutely think...
03:19:28.000 So your risk of spreading STIs, causing emotional damage in multiple households...
03:19:32.000 Okay, women always use the STI argument. 1.00
03:19:34.000 Having kids out of wedlock and all of that, you know.
03:19:36.000 Condoms pretty much destroy that, right? 1.00
03:19:38.000 Guys shouldn't be idiots. 1.00
03:19:39.000 Like, obviously, don't fucking... 1.00
03:19:40.000 You know, you should get tested and everything else like that. 1.00
03:19:42.000 Or have sex with your girl with condom. 1.00
03:19:44.000 How about that? 1.00
03:19:44.000 That works too, actually. 1.00
03:19:46.000 So, no one wants to do that, but you could do that as well.
03:19:48.000 Girls always want to use the STI example, which is a retarded example. 1.00
03:19:50.000 What I'm saying is this. 1.00
03:19:51.000 I don't want more women to do, because with all due respect, what you did was very dumb. 1.00
03:19:54.000 You're with a successful guy that has money, that loved you, and treated you well, and you broke up with him over... 0.99
03:20:01.000 Him not spending money or engagement, which is ridiculous to me. 0.93
03:20:04.000 But the problem is that women are delusional, right? 1.00
03:20:06.000 What I mean by it, they'll have a good guy in front of them and they'll think, I could do better.
03:20:09.000 The grass green on the other side.
03:20:11.000 Or, oh, I want this guy that's six foot five that's attractive and makes money.
03:20:15.000 He's only going to be loyal to me.
03:20:16.000 Men think like that too, though.
03:20:17.000 How?
03:20:20.000 We can't be delusional like y'all.
03:20:22.000 We can't.
03:20:23.000 Remember the example I gave you earlier? 1.00
03:20:24.000 I'm a fucking loser. 1.00
03:20:25.000 I don't make no money. 1.00
03:20:26.000 I'm fat. 0.99
03:20:27.000 I'm not gonna get no bitches. 1.00
03:20:29.000 But you could be fat and retarded as a female and still get invited on a yacht. 1.00
03:20:32.000 And I want to say what he was saying about men not being loyal. 0.98
03:20:35.000 I'll tell you, like three years ago again, I thought they were crazy, because I was like, what are you talking about?
03:20:40.000 But the thing is, I do this show, and I'll interview guys that'll argue with me, like, vehemently.
03:20:47.000 They'll say, like, cheating is so wrong.
03:20:49.000 Cheating is so wrong.
03:20:50.000 It is so wrong.
03:20:51.000 It is so wrong.
03:20:51.000 And they all cheat.
03:20:53.000 Even the guys that'll get on these podcasts and argue so vehemently that it is wrong, they always have something.
03:21:05.000 If there's one thing you ladies are going to take from this podcast for me, because I probably triggered you and you don't like it, that's fine. 0.99
03:21:10.000 I'll give you one thing. 1.00
03:21:11.000 If you're with a guy that you like and mind and respect, and he does everything else right, and he fucks a bitch every now and then, and you leave him, you're a fucking dumbass. 1.00
03:21:18.000 You're a real big dumbass. 1.00
03:21:20.000 Especially if you're picky. 1.00
03:21:21.000 Because chances are you're not going to find that guy again.
03:21:23.000 Exactly. 0.99
03:21:24.000 And then, let's say you find another guy, you gotta do the same shit! 0.99
03:21:28.000 I think, you know what I said about cheating respectfully and disrespectfully? 0.99
03:21:32.000 I think that also comes into play.
03:21:34.000 If you've got the woman there, you do it every now and again. 0.99
03:21:38.000 She doesn't come into contact with the wife, not trying to cause havoc in a relationship. 0.99
03:21:42.000 You know what you guys should do?
03:21:43.000 Not fine, but I get it.
03:21:44.000 You guys should be intelligent.
03:21:45.000 My chick, she's smart. 1.00
03:21:47.000 She gets it.
03:21:48.000 So you're in a relationship?
03:21:49.000 Yes, open on my end only.
03:21:52.000 Open up my end only.
03:21:53.000 That's the only way it goes, baby.
03:21:54.000 That's how it is.
03:21:54.000 Okay.
03:21:55.000 You know, men lead, women follow. 0.99
03:21:57.000 But you said you were rich, so you kind of, you give her...
03:22:00.000 That's not just this.
03:22:01.000 She just was a rich dude. 1.00
03:22:01.000 He was a bitch. 1.00
03:22:02.000 So, like, no offense. 1.00
03:22:04.000 No, he was not.
03:22:05.000 That's not fair.
03:22:05.000 You just said he couldn't stand on boundaries.
03:22:08.000 Can I ask you a question, sir? 1.00
03:22:08.000 That's the definition of being a bitch. 1.00
03:22:10.000 If you're not rich, can we just... 1.00
03:22:12.000 If you're not rich, could you have made that mess up your goal?
03:22:14.000 It's not just about having money, because if I just had money, she'd walk all over me. 1.00
03:22:18.000 It's about saying, this is how it is.
03:22:20.000 You want to be with me?
03:22:21.000 This is how it is.
03:22:21.000 I guarantee she's not okay with it.
03:22:23.000 Deep down, she's not okay with it.
03:22:24.000 No, she accepts it because she knows this is what comes to the territory.
03:22:27.000 That's it.
03:22:28.000 If I was just rich, she would be like, she would probably have some rules for me. 1.00
03:22:31.000 No, because you're rich.
03:22:32.000 That's a component.
03:22:33.000 I'm not going to sit here and be delusional.
03:22:34.000 That's absolutely a component.
03:22:37.000 So basically, you're saying that men will cheat. 0.99
03:22:38.000 If you're talking to an average man that doesn't necessarily provide enough to even blind his girl, then he's fucked. 0.99
03:22:44.000 And it's kind of irresponsible to kind of say these things. 0.99
03:22:47.000 99% of men...
03:22:48.000 Okay, look, look, look.
03:22:49.000 99% of men...
03:22:51.000 Want to have multiple women, it's just that they don't have the sexual market value to do it, and sexual market value encompasses many things. 1.00
03:22:56.000 There's rich guys that can barely pull it off.
03:22:59.000 Or they gotta pay escorts or they gotta sneak around. 1.00
03:23:01.000 I'm not sneaking around in my own fucking house. 0.99
03:23:04.000 My girl don't talk back to me. 1.00
03:23:07.000 This whole situation, there's no arguments.
03:23:11.000 This is how it is. 1.00
03:23:12.000 She packs my fucking condoms when I travel. 1.00
03:23:14.000 That's how real it is. 1.00
03:23:15.000 I feel sorry for her.
03:23:16.000 And here's the thing.
03:23:17.000 No, no, no, no, no. 0.99
03:23:18.000 She lives a great fucking life and she's a beautiful girl. 1.00
03:23:20.000 She's hotter than all the girls here, no offense. 1.00
03:23:22.000 But what I'm trying to explain to you ladies is if you got a guy that checks off all the boxes, you got to pay the price. 0.96
03:23:30.000 You got to pay the price for that man checking all those boxes. 1.00
03:23:32.000 He didn't check all those boxes off to just fuck you. 1.00
03:23:35.000 Would you say your girlfriend's a gold digger? 1.00
03:23:36.000 Yeah, she is.
03:23:37.000 They all are to a degree, of course.
03:23:40.000 Can we just...
03:23:42.000 But here's the thing.
03:23:42.000 But she's intelligent enough to understand...
03:23:45.000 If I want to deal with this kind of guy, it comes with these kinds of problems.
03:23:49.000 So what's better?
03:23:50.000 You want to be with a brokie that might cheat on you anyway, or a guy that has money but is a simp and can't enforce boundaries so you're not sexually aroused by him. 1.00
03:23:57.000 Yeah, but then between brokie and rich, there's so much in between. 0.59
03:24:00.000 So I wouldn't want to be with a man like you, for example.
03:24:02.000 Not because you're not good looking.
03:24:04.000 You're very attractive and this and that.
03:24:05.000 And I know you can say that you wouldn't want to be with a woman like me, right?
03:24:08.000 That's fine.
03:24:09.000 You're entitled to your choice.
03:24:10.000 I'm entitled to mine. 1.00
03:24:11.000 I actually think that your success makes you look like an asshole. 1.00
03:24:14.000 And that doesn't look attractive to me. 1.00
03:24:16.000 Whereas, I'm going to then go on the other side.
03:24:18.000 Whereas, Fresh, he's been sitting there being much more...
03:24:22.000 She's rising up Fresh now.
03:24:25.000 No, no.
03:24:25.000 I'm just comparing and contrasting.
03:24:28.000 Listen, I'm just comparing and contrasting.
03:24:31.000 Listen, I'm just comparing and contrasting.
03:24:31.000 What are you doing after the show?
03:24:32.000 Go for it.
03:24:33.000 Do you want it?
03:24:35.000 She could be your first date on The Bachelor.
03:24:36.000 Can I finish?
03:24:37.000 No, I'm just explaining.
03:24:38.000 Listen, and I know that this is nothing personal.
03:24:41.000 I'm just telling you from my impression of you. 1.00
03:24:42.000 The same way you have an impression of me being masculine, I have an impression of you that you come across more like an asshole. 1.00
03:24:47.000 And you're both rich, I'm guessing. 1.00
03:24:50.000 Listen, wait.
03:24:50.000 I know that he's fresh and fit, so both of you make good money.
03:24:54.000 I can see both of your bezels.
03:24:55.000 You're doing all right. 1.00
03:24:56.000 But he doesn't need to be an outspoken asshole just because he's rich. 1.00
03:25:01.000 Whereas you come across as that. 0.99
03:25:02.000 So for example, for me, I can be with a successful man.
03:25:05.000 I just told the truth.
03:25:06.000 No, but that's okay.
03:25:07.000 He can talk the truth as well, but he doesn't need to talk like you.
03:25:09.000 See, you know what's funny?
03:25:11.000 He's telling the truth.
03:25:12.000 You know what I'm gonna do? 1.00
03:25:14.000 Light her ass. 1.00
03:25:16.000 I'm alive from the start to the end. 1.00
03:25:19.000 But you would never know that.
03:25:20.000 He's being honest though.
03:25:21.000 I'm telling you how men think and you don't like it.
03:25:24.000 But that's okay.
03:25:25.000 For me, you can think whatever you think, but I prefer that to that.
03:25:29.000 He thinks just like me!
03:25:30.000 That's okay, but I prefer this attitude to that.
03:25:33.000 The same way that every girl thinks the same and you prefer a girl that's more quiet than me.
03:25:38.000 This is why women can't handle the truth. 1.00
03:25:41.000 Because honestly speaking, they want to be like you.
03:25:43.000 Can we just stop capping?
03:25:54.000 How many guys in your life have you really, really, really liked?
03:25:59.000 Like really, really, really, really liked.
03:26:02.000 Might come across twice a lifetime.
03:26:03.000 Yeah, one, two, maybe, if that.
03:26:07.000 You would have accepted it.
03:26:09.000 I can't even think of one, to be honest.
03:26:10.000 You can't think of one. 1.00
03:26:11.000 Goddamn. 0.99
03:26:12.000 I literally never liked anyone properly. 0.99
03:26:15.000 I think I'm so picky.
03:26:16.000 Seriously?
03:26:17.000 Yeah.
03:26:17.000 So even the...
03:26:19.000 Okay, okay, okay.
03:26:20.000 Okay, okay, dial on, dial on, but everyone else.
03:26:23.000 Wow.
03:26:25.000 I just told you guys.
03:26:26.000 I just gave you guys the formula for success.
03:26:29.000 If you want to be with a super hyper attractive guy that's hyper masculine, etc.
03:26:33.000 You don't have any say.
03:26:35.000 He's going to do what he wants to do.
03:26:36.000 Obviously, you're going to be protected and provided for because that's what guys that are super masculine do, right?
03:26:41.000 But you got to deal with Masculine problems. 0.91
03:26:45.000 Successful guy problems.
03:26:45.000 It is what it is.
03:26:46.000 That's okay.
03:26:47.000 He doesn't need to prove a point.
03:26:48.000 I want to ask a question because I do feel like you guys have a ton of insight.
03:26:53.000 How many women have you interviewed by now? 0.99
03:26:57.000 Over 2,500.
03:26:58.000 We're pushing on 3K now.
03:26:59.000 I think like 2,700, 2,800 last time I checked.
03:27:01.000 Wild.
03:27:03.000 And how many would you say...
03:27:04.000 And you all say the same thing.
03:27:05.000 No offense.
03:27:06.000 And how many would you say high-value men do you know?
03:27:11.000 A lot.
03:27:11.000 Just ballpark it.
03:27:14.000 Like I mean in the grand scheme of men or like we we know a good amount but obviously our own personal uh anecdotal experience is like limited right in the grand thing.
03:27:24.000 I'm just curious like what what can we as women do to be more attractive to high value men? 0.83
03:27:29.000 Oh that's a great question.
03:27:30.000 Well the big one I said because I actually ask all my buddies this behind the scenes.
03:27:35.000 Tate bros, Brandon Carter, all my guys that are super successful, all my friends.
03:27:40.000 And I'll be like, yo man, what is it?
03:27:41.000 And it's universal. 0.99
03:27:43.000 Quiet, not argumentative, not a pain in the ass, et cetera. 0.98
03:27:48.000 Men make money and have to fight the world, especially super successful guys, so the last thing they want to do is come home and fight with their girl. 0.98
03:27:55.000 That's the biggest thing. 1.00
03:27:57.000 Troy, we all think the same about this shit. 0.99
03:28:00.000 It's just that what it really comes down to is your status and your money It determines how hard you can put your foot down on your standards. 0.99
03:28:09.000 Does that make sense?
03:28:09.000 So if you're a brokie, you have these aspirations, but you can't put your foot down on it.
03:28:14.000 And you can't demand it either.
03:28:15.000 Because reality isn't gonna align with that. 1.00
03:28:18.000 However, the more money and status you have, the more you can tell girls to fuck off. 1.00
03:28:21.000 And the more you can tell girls to fuck off, the more attractive they are to you and the more they get in line. 1.00
03:28:25.000 It's actually kind of crazy how it goes. 1.00
03:28:26.000 Oh, you don't agree?
03:28:28.000 I think that both men and women and all the other genders etc should just like be more understanding towards each other so you're not so there's a truth in everything everyone said you know so women should be more understanding of some of some masking qualities and men should be understanding of our qualities and yeah I sound a hippie but you know yeah but the difference is here's the difference men have to understand women to attract them women don't have to understand us to attract us There's
03:28:59.000 basically a lot of unhealed, manipulative, narcissistic women, and they probably traumatize some men, etc. 1.00
03:29:09.000 So I'm not saying they're right.
03:29:12.000 I don't think you're going to win the office of president in Russia.
03:29:15.000 You don't have to be so politically correct.
03:29:17.000 Putin's there, man.
03:29:17.000 He ain't going nowhere.
03:29:18.000 I'm a Londoner 15 years, and I'm a citizen of the galaxy, whatever.
03:29:26.000 Can I answer your question?
03:29:29.000 So I think women as well, you want a high value man, so to speak. 1.00
03:29:32.000 What you should do is understand, life is not about you.
03:29:36.000 Life is about people in general.
03:29:38.000 And if you want something, it's sacrifice.
03:29:40.000 So by default, whether that person or something that you want, want.
03:29:43.000 If you understand that process, what they actually want, then guess what?
03:29:47.000 You can do that with whatever they want and then get it.
03:29:50.000 But if you don't do what they want, How can you ever achieve it?
03:29:52.000 So it's kind of like, you want something, but you don't want to actually change to make that happen.
03:29:57.000 And you say, oh, woe's me.
03:29:59.000 Like, why can't I find a man?
03:30:00.000 You're not changing to get the result.
03:30:02.000 And actually, there's a definition of insanity.
03:30:04.000 Doing the same thing all over again to get a result that doesn't work.
03:30:07.000 And the other thing I would say, the other big thing that girls don't do enough, you got to orbit around your guy. 1.00
03:30:12.000 Like, if you got a guy that's higher status, et cetera, you got to drop everything you're fucking doing for that guy. 0.82
03:30:17.000 Like, cause the thing is that other women want him. 0.68
03:30:20.000 So, if you're not willing to drop everything for him and make concessions, there's a girl that will.
03:30:26.000 And she's gonna take your spot. 1.00
03:30:27.000 And the problem is that too many girls think that they're special. 1.00
03:30:29.000 If you're with a top tier guy, you're not special no more.
03:30:31.000 At all.
03:30:32.000 He's the special one.
03:30:33.000 He's the prize.
03:30:33.000 You gotta treat him that way.
03:30:34.000 Like, again, I hate to use my chick as an example, but she should fucking do a seminar on this shit. 1.00
03:30:40.000 Cause she's actually talked to a couple girls that have the same situation cause they go, Girls be DMing her now. 1.00
03:30:44.000 Oh, how do you deal with a guy like this?
03:30:46.000 Asking her for advice.
03:30:47.000 Like, she just acquiesces to what I do. 1.00
03:30:49.000 Like, for example, we're playing fucking Overwatch, streaming that shit right now. 0.99
03:30:51.000 I was like, yo, I need you to be good at this game so you can stream with us because we need a fucking healer. 1.00
03:30:56.000 And she's been practicing, playing this shit, told her I need you to play this many hours. 0.99
03:31:00.000 Even though that's a mundane task or whatever, she does it enthusiastically. 0.99
03:31:03.000 Yeah, I think it was Psych Hacks who said this on a video recently.
03:31:07.000 He was talking about this and he was saying, so women have the leverage to get in the door. 0.99
03:31:10.000 So they use the sex, basically, sexuality. 0.65
03:31:12.000 They get in the door.
03:31:13.000 Then, what do you do then as a woman? 0.99
03:31:15.000 You're helpful to your man.
03:31:17.000 It's how can you help him?
03:31:18.000 Regardless of how crazy it is.
03:31:19.000 I use a video game example because it's mundane, but it goes to show...
03:31:22.000 Her persistence to make me happy.
03:31:24.000 Exactly, exactly.
03:31:24.000 So that, coupled with the take thing you were talking about, is she quiet?
03:31:29.000 Is she not a pain in the arse? 0.99
03:31:30.000 And also she inserts herself into your life and she's helpful. 0.99
03:31:32.000 Yeah.
03:31:33.000 That's when she becomes a keeper.
03:31:34.000 Yeah.
03:31:35.000 And this is where it comes in like, I tell her, oh, what do I do for this guy?
03:31:38.000 I don't know, he has everything.
03:31:39.000 That's where you have to have the critical thinking skills and be able to come in and be like, what I call like an indispensable component to his life.
03:31:46.000 Yeah, exactly.
03:31:46.000 Yeah, yeah.
03:31:47.000 Like, you gotta come in and be a toolset that he can't...
03:31:49.000 Once you come into a guy's life and you're an indispensable tool, guess what?
03:31:53.000 You ain't going nowhere.
03:31:54.000 Yeah. 1.00
03:31:54.000 Because most girls are useless, if I'm gonna be honest. 1.00
03:31:56.000 That was gonna be my next question. 0.98
03:31:58.000 Like, what are ways that you can make yourself an indisposable tool?
03:32:02.000 Yeah.
03:32:03.000 I mean, I understand it's different for every guy, but just basic ways.
03:32:06.000 You gotta be on the guy.
03:32:08.000 And I use the video example not to like flex. 0.99
03:32:10.000 I use it to show how it's a ridiculous, kind of like on paper, like what the fuck, you want your girl to play video games to play with you? 0.91
03:32:16.000 That doesn't make, but we're like streaming, so we need another person. 0.99
03:32:18.000 Long story.
03:32:19.000 But I said that to show every guy is different and they're gonna need different things from you and you need to be able to rise up to the task.
03:32:25.000 So she's been like playing five hours every day. 0.60
03:32:27.000 I told her, yeah, I need you to play four to five hours. 1.00
03:32:29.000 Get good because you're trash and women suck at video games, right? 1.00
03:32:31.000 And she's in practice. 0.99
03:32:32.000 She's been getting a lot better and she's like, all right, I'll be ready when you get back.
03:32:36.000 So you gotta be able to do whatever's required for the man.
03:32:39.000 That means dropping everything you're doing.
03:32:41.000 Now of course, with that said, the guy's gotta take care of you.
03:32:43.000 I'm a big believer in women shouldn't work. 1.00
03:32:45.000 I'm a big believer in women should work electively and you gotta be the man to protect and provide. 1.00
03:32:50.000 If you wanna go, that's gonna be submissive to you.
03:32:52.000 That comes with the cost of you being that authority, right?
03:32:56.000 But this is where the girls gotta pick the right guy. 1.00
03:32:58.000 That's why I said for you, like you had a guy that was successful, had money, et cetera.
03:33:01.000 It's very tough to come by those guys that are actually nice too. 0.99
03:33:04.000 Most are gonna be assholes like me. 0.99
03:33:09.000 Maybe that's what you want. 1.00
03:33:10.000 I don't know, but...
03:33:11.000 No, I don't.
03:33:11.000 There you go.
03:33:12.000 Can I just add another point?
03:33:15.000 Because you're talking about how, like, you need to drop...
03:33:17.000 The girl basically needs to drop her whole life, her whole schedule. 1.00
03:33:20.000 Yeah.
03:33:21.000 And I have a story...
03:33:22.000 Higher status guy.
03:33:23.000 For a higher status guy, yeah.
03:33:24.000 Yeah, I had an experience recently that was literally like this.
03:33:27.000 I was speaking to someone who was very successful, like, private jet, all of that stuff, and...
03:33:35.000 When we were speaking, he was waiting for me to basically drop everything.
03:33:40.000 And I was explaining to him, like, I'm a journalist, I'm a presenter.
03:33:43.000 My schedule is crazy.
03:33:44.000 I'm always traveling.
03:33:45.000 I'm always at events. 1.00
03:33:46.000 Yeah, but fuck your job. 1.00
03:33:47.000 It makes pennies compared to him. 1.00
03:33:48.000 That's how he looks at it.
03:33:51.000 See, and you laugh because he probably told you that.
03:33:54.000 No.
03:33:54.000 You know what he told me?
03:33:56.000 Do you know what he told me?
03:33:56.000 What'd he say?
03:33:57.000 He was like, he got really angry because he was like, I've been trying to get a date with you.
03:34:02.000 I've been trying to see you and you just keep telling me you're busy.
03:34:04.000 So he did not like it.
03:34:05.000 So he was like, I've got girls flying in from Paris, New York, Miami, just to sit with me for 40 minutes and you don't even want to drop your schedule.
03:34:15.000 Hmm.
03:34:16.000 Do you really think women like men like that?
03:34:19.000 They do.
03:34:19.000 But they're the men that you're trying to describe to me.
03:34:21.000 Hence why they were flying to his table for 40 minutes.
03:34:23.000 He's lying.
03:34:26.000 Where are these women? 1.00
03:34:27.000 And why were they sitting with you for 40 minutes and not one hour, two hours?
03:34:30.000 Why are they not your wives? 1.00
03:34:32.000 Yeah, where are they?
03:34:32.000 Why are you speaking to me?
03:34:34.000 Yes.
03:34:35.000 Well, again...
03:34:37.000 He might have paid them, whatever it may be.
03:34:38.000 I don't know.
03:34:39.000 No, you've got all these women flying in from New York, Miami, Paris to sit with him for 40 minutes. 1.00
03:34:44.000 Alright, I'm going to be honest.
03:34:46.000 Your guys' jobs aren't important, man.
03:34:51.000 Am I lying?
03:34:52.000 They're not.
03:34:54.000 I read the book by Aaron Clary, A World Without Men.
03:34:58.000 It's like objectively most of our jobs society would be fine without.
03:35:02.000 They've done the data on this.
03:35:04.000 To be honest...
03:35:05.000 Somebody expecting me to drop my plans, messaging me last minute on the day, that's unacceptable.
03:35:10.000 I'm sorry.
03:35:11.000 It wouldn't be if you really liked him.
03:35:13.000 I'm sorry.
03:35:14.000 No, I have a lot of...
03:35:17.000 Here's the problem.
03:35:18.000 I already know what's going on.
03:35:19.000 I can read between you guys. 1.00
03:35:20.000 It's a lot of rich, old, ugly niggas hitting her up. 1.00
03:35:23.000 No, he was young, actually. 1.00
03:35:25.000 Very successful Arab guy. 0.93
03:35:28.000 Trust on baby niggas that aren't attractive. 1.00
03:35:30.000 To Pearl's point, if a girl likes a guy, she'll miss work. 1.00
03:35:33.000 Drive four hours, fly across country.
03:35:35.000 You don't like it that much.
03:35:36.000 Was he decent looking?
03:35:37.000 Was he decent looking?
03:35:39.000 Oh no, he was really good looking.
03:35:41.000 I wanted to get to know him, but as soon as he started talking to me like that, I was like, no.
03:35:46.000 Hold on, he turned you off then?
03:35:50.000 I don't care how much money you have, and I don't care if you have a private jet.
03:35:54.000 You have to respect my schedule.
03:35:56.000 And you don't message me last minute being like, hey, are you free today?
03:36:01.000 And expect me to drop and be like, yeah, sure, I'll drop everything.
03:36:04.000 I will.
03:36:05.000 Because at the end of the day, I'm interviewing you to see if you are someone that I want.
03:36:10.000 The real problem is you don't like him.
03:36:17.000 I've been in situations where a guy wants me to drop my schedule.
03:36:22.000 And I don't.
03:36:23.000 And I would rationalize it with myself thinking, oh, it's just because I'm super busy.
03:36:30.000 But the guy I just started dating, it was like...
03:36:35.000 I cleared my schedule and I'm crazy busy.
03:36:39.000 It's like if you like him, it doesn't matter.
03:36:44.000 If he earns that, he didn't get to that point.
03:36:47.000 This was the early stages, he's meant to be impressing me.
03:36:50.000 This is what they lie to us.
03:36:53.000 The men that spend all this time impressing us, we don't like them.
03:36:57.000 If you really like a guy, it's like immediate.
03:36:59.000 It's not...
03:37:01.000 You were going to say something?
03:37:02.000 I just think he's being respectful of someone's, like, time.
03:37:05.000 No, I get that.
03:37:06.000 But another way of looking at it, what Paul said, but maybe another way of looking at it is maybe you wrote him off too quickly.
03:37:13.000 Because if you genuinely did like him, but you're like, hey, he's not respecting my schedule.
03:37:16.000 But listen, I mean, he's a decent-looking guy.
03:37:18.000 He's rich.
03:37:19.000 He's successful.
03:37:20.000 Yeah.
03:37:20.000 He is!
03:37:21.000 If we were sitting here in four years' time and you still haven't found a guy, would you be thinking, oh fuck, maybe I should have actually given that dude a chance? 0.98
03:37:28.000 Do you know what I mean? 0.82
03:37:28.000 At the moment, you've got the luxury of perhaps being able to do that. 0.82
03:37:31.000 Yeah.
03:37:32.000 But how many of these dudes are going to come, not to you personally, but just to women in general, how many of these dudes are going to come along? 0.98
03:37:37.000 You know what I'm saying?
03:37:37.000 That's very true.
03:37:38.000 Oh my god, plenty.
03:37:40.000 I'm sure, I'm sure, I'm sure.
03:37:42.000 But the older you get...
03:37:44.000 Hopefully I'll be married by then.
03:37:46.000 But Tom, but he's right, the older you get, are they going to still be around? 0.99
03:37:55.000 I don't want to be a fucking asshole here, but you're objectively average looking. 0.99
03:38:00.000 You're going to keep it a thousand, okay? 1.00
03:38:01.000 You're objectively average looking.
03:38:03.000 I really don't care.
03:38:04.000 It's not about my looks.
03:38:05.000 It is about your looks, okay?
03:38:08.000 And you have access to these higher status guys, right?
03:38:11.000 And they're hitting you up, which was my point earlier, by the way, which I fantastically made.
03:38:15.000 And you think, right, that your value is on par, if not actually higher than the men's, which is why you're rejecting them and saying, I'm busy.
03:38:23.000 When in reality, they have way more...
03:38:25.000 I just have boundaries.
03:38:26.000 Okay, anyway.
03:38:27.000 They have way more pull and way more status and actually are more attractive than you.
03:38:31.000 However...
03:38:32.000 The fact that you've been getting hit on by all these guys, thanks to the internet or whatever it may be, I've always said a woman's behavior with men is directly tied to her mindset about men or abundance with men.
03:38:43.000 If a woman has a lot of options, she doesn't respect the men as much. 1.00
03:38:47.000 She doesn't respect the options as much.
03:38:49.000 The crazy thing is I would have respected him if he had just been like, okay, you let me know when you're free.
03:38:54.000 You said you had flaked on him a million times.
03:38:56.000 No, no, you said literally earlier you had flaked on him a bunch of times, then he got frustrated and responded with that.
03:39:00.000 Because I was busy.
03:39:01.000 Because I had things.
03:39:02.000 I'm shooting.
03:39:03.000 I'm doing stuff.
03:39:04.000 If you really like him, you're not busy.
03:39:07.000 And he's paying for the flight!
03:39:09.000 And I think sometimes we lie to ourselves.
03:39:14.000 But if you really like him, you're not busy.
03:39:17.000 You make time.
03:39:18.000 It comes back again.
03:39:21.000 No offense. 0.88
03:39:23.000 You're a very pompous female, from what I've seen. 1.00
03:39:26.000 Oh, what? 0.81
03:39:27.000 Pompous.
03:39:28.000 Okay.
03:39:29.000 Uppity, I think.
03:39:30.000 I do have very high standards.
03:39:32.000 Bougie! 0.75
03:39:33.000 And I can tell from the way you speak, your tonality, etc., which is fine.
03:39:37.000 But understand that if you're going to behave that way and you want a certain caliber of guy, That's gonna come with certain things, and you need to humble yourself and understand that you're not as special as you think you are.
03:39:48.000 But, you know, you think that, oh, I have a bunch of rich guys hitting me up, so I'm gonna behave however I want, blah, blah, blah.
03:39:54.000 You know what ends up happening when you do that? 1.00
03:39:55.000 They just fuck you and never take you seriously. 1.00
03:39:57.000 Myron, can I tell you something that I've kind of observed about men quite a lot? 1.00
03:40:02.000 Oh, man.
03:40:04.000 Men seem to find you more attractive and pursue you more the worse you treat them anyway. 0.98
03:40:10.000 Why is that?
03:40:10.000 You know what they do?
03:40:11.000 You know what they do?
03:40:12.000 Well, number one, those are men you don't respect. 1.00
03:40:14.000 And then when they do pursue you like that and you treat them like shit, you know what they do a lot of the times? 1.00
03:40:18.000 They sell you a dream, have sex with you and leave you. 1.00
03:40:20.000 Oh, good thing I don't entertain it, but I'm just saying, treat them in, keep them keen. 0.71
03:40:25.000 And I want to know why, because obviously you say all of these things, but my reality as a woman is so different because you guys are talking from, you're not just being men and amongst your bros, As a woman, what you experience from a man is very different.
03:40:39.000 We see a totally different side to you guys that you're not even honest with each other about.
03:40:45.000 So I'm not going to lie to you.
03:40:46.000 You're telling me that, oh, my value has gone down because I'm old, because I'm this, because I'm that.
03:40:50.000 But my reality is I get much more men on me to even want to wifey me than I ever did in my life. 0.99
03:40:58.000 They're losers though. 0.94
03:41:00.000 No, they're actually not losers. 0.97
03:41:01.000 Then why don't you want them?
03:41:02.000 Because listen, I'll tell you why.
03:41:06.000 You dig yourself a hole every time.
03:41:07.000 I'll tell you why.
03:41:07.000 Do you know why I don't want them?
03:41:08.000 Because I'm taking my time to know because I went through a very traumatic experience, which means I have to be more diligent.
03:41:14.000 It doesn't matter.
03:41:15.000 I have to be more diligent with the people that I end up going for because I'm very aware of the traps that life can set for me.
03:41:21.000 So I'm going to be careful.
03:41:22.000 But that doesn't mean that I don't get, if I want the option to actually go for the way I can.
03:41:26.000 AKA, you don't like them.
03:41:27.000 Period!
03:41:28.000 No, I don't want them just yet.
03:41:30.000 Hold on, hold on.
03:41:30.000 Real quick, let me ask you this.
03:41:32.000 If I whacked off to Pornhub every day and busted a nut watching porn every day and I came in here and said, yo, I got a bunch of options, would you look at me like I'm crazy?
03:41:49.000 Well, I would ask you, what do you mean by options? 0.62
03:41:52.000 I got a bunch of options with girls on there that I could whack off to, man. 0.98
03:41:54.000 I got options.
03:41:55.000 Well, do the girls come to you?
03:41:56.000 Do you spend time with them?
03:41:57.000 Do they want to actually actively spend time with you?
03:41:59.000 No, no.
03:41:59.000 I got options.
03:41:59.000 I'm busting a nut, man.
03:42:00.000 I'm with different types of girls. 1.00
03:42:02.000 Variety, baby.
03:42:03.000 Well, okay.
03:42:05.000 But not physically. 1.00
03:42:06.000 The answer is, no, I'm a fucking idiot. 1.00
03:42:08.000 Well, I don't know your life. 1.00
03:42:10.000 No, no, no.
03:42:11.000 Let's be honest here. 0.99
03:42:12.000 I'm a fucking retard if I say that because it takes no skill for me to whack off and bust a nut to different girls. 1.00
03:42:18.000 It takes no skill for you to have men on you. 1.00
03:42:20.000 Well, it kind of does.
03:42:22.000 The way that they're hunting me, it kind of does, actually.
03:42:24.000 Bruh, you just exist.
03:42:25.000 No, I don't just exist.
03:42:27.000 I built myself to be like this.
03:42:29.000 And that's why men are even attracted to me.
03:42:31.000 From even the way that I dress.
03:42:33.000 From how I even do my hair.
03:42:34.000 From how I do my makeup.
03:42:36.000 How I dress.
03:42:36.000 If I want to really attract men, I know I change the way I dress.
03:42:39.000 I know how to change everything.
03:42:41.000 All the niggas in the chat, all the niggas in the chat, these guys right here, they're shaking their head. 0.99
03:42:45.000 We don't care about that! 0.99
03:42:47.000 You kind of do, because the way that I dress is what's going to show off certain things.
03:42:50.000 For example, today, if I dress like this to go out, I know exactly the attention I'm going to get.
03:42:54.000 They want to smash only!
03:42:56.000 That's okay if they want to smash.
03:42:57.000 Depending on how I dress, I know the ones I want to smash.
03:42:59.000 It does not refute the point.
03:43:00.000 Look, look, once again, you're doing a terrible job of debating your point.
03:43:05.000 What you're arguing is my level of attention increases and decreases based on how much time I spend on my appearance.
03:43:12.000 However, you cannot refute the flack.
03:43:14.000 That's not what I said.
03:43:15.000 Exactly.
03:43:16.000 That's quite literally what you just said.
03:43:18.000 My point is that I get more attention now than I ever did before.
03:43:21.000 My makeup putting myself together directly influences my level of attention.
03:43:25.000 No, it can be impacted.
03:43:27.000 However, it does not reflect, it does not reflect what I said when I said, you simply still have to exist to get the attention.
03:43:33.000 You can amp it up, of course, but if you decided to not amp it up, they're still coming.
03:43:37.000 Okay, then let me add another layer to this.
03:43:40.000 No, you lost!
03:43:42.000 No, I didn't lose.
03:43:42.000 And I'll explain to you why.
03:43:44.000 Because the way that men speak to me, obviously you're only speaking to me like this because you don't know me on your podcast.
03:43:49.000 How many rings?
03:43:51.000 Because you make no sense.
03:43:53.000 How many rings?
03:43:54.000 It makes zero sense.
03:43:55.000 It doesn't make sense.
03:43:56.000 I'll make sense.
03:43:57.000 I'll make sense of it.
03:43:58.000 For example, you're the only person that speaks to me like this.
03:44:02.000 You think talking more helps it.
03:44:04.000 It doesn't.
03:44:05.000 No, it's not about it. 0.99
03:44:06.000 It just continues to make you look crazy. 1.00
03:44:10.000 Men, respect me outside of this space because I'm dealing with you and obviously, like I said, you're a different type of rich asshole that I've not met before, but They wanna fuck you. 1.00
03:44:35.000 Listen, it's up to you what you want to say, bro. 1.00
03:44:38.000 I know the kind of person that I am.
03:44:40.000 Don't be judging me just because I've got nyash and I dress like this and because I'm a woman.
03:44:44.000 I have substance as a person.
03:44:46.000 And that's really important.
03:44:47.000 I like you as a person.
03:44:47.000 I don't care about whether you like me or not.
03:44:48.000 What's your argument right now?
03:44:51.000 It also comes to say, my substance as a woman to be respected and to be spoken to how men speak to me that I don't see them speaking to other women is because I work for myself to be who I am. 1.00
03:45:00.000 And it takes a lot of effort because I'm not the same person as a Becky that goes to the club and gets moved to and a guy has the balls to go up to her and say, I want to fuck you. 1.00
03:45:08.000 God forbid a man would ever say that to me in real life. 0.97
03:45:10.000 Do you remember the original argument that we started this off on?
03:45:12.000 No, what was it? 0.99
03:45:13.000 And fuck incredible. 0.99
03:45:15.000 No, because I'm trying to get you to tell me. 1.00
03:45:16.000 You just realized you went on an entire tirade and you don't know what the fuck you're arguing for. 0.99
03:45:20.000 No, I do know, but I don't know what you're trying to get to. 0.99
03:45:21.000 That is what I'm trying to say. 1.00
03:45:22.000 When I say, like, do you guys see this shit? 1.00
03:45:23.000 Like, yo, you went on an entire tirade and you don't even know what you're arguing for. 1.00
03:45:26.000 Can I just?
03:45:27.000 I do know what I'm arguing for.
03:45:28.000 Okay.
03:45:28.000 Then what is it?
03:45:29.000 What were you arguing?
03:45:31.000 I'm simply telling you that I look for things more than just money.
03:45:34.000 No, that was not what the argument was.
03:45:36.000 What was the argument?
03:45:37.000 I'm simply telling you that there's too many different things and too many different variables for me as a woman, an individual that will actually impact how people go towards me.
03:46:02.000 If you walk into a nightclub, men are going to approach you simply off of you being there.
03:46:10.000 Okay?
03:46:11.000 They're not gonna care about your education.
03:46:12.000 They're not gonna care about, you know, you studying U.S. foreign policy. 0.86
03:46:16.000 They're not gonna care about your thoughts and your substance and all this other crap that you talk about.
03:46:19.000 They're simply gonna approach you and give you the opportunity to talk to you, and that's by you existing. 0.59
03:46:23.000 No, based on what I look like.
03:46:25.000 Existing.
03:46:26.000 What I look like.
03:46:27.000 Existing.
03:46:28.000 What I look like. 0.99
03:46:28.000 If I dress like a butch lesbian, no guy's gonna move to me. 0.99
03:46:32.000 Trust me. 1.00
03:46:32.000 They still will. 1.00
03:46:33.000 No, they won't.
03:46:34.000 It doesn't matter how many copes that we give.
03:46:38.000 Pearl! 0.95
03:46:39.000 Go on, go on.
03:46:39.000 I'll ask you a question after.
03:46:41.000 I'd rather you didn't.
03:46:43.000 It doesn't matter how many copes and how many tirades we go on because reality will slap us in the face sooner or later.
03:46:51.000 And they're the ones telling us the truth.
03:46:54.000 Everyone demonizes them.
03:46:56.000 Speaking of slaps, we got some chats to read because holy... 1.00
03:47:00.000 Alright, shit. 0.99
03:47:01.000 We left that for a while. 1.00
03:47:02.000 This has been quite a show.
03:47:04.000 Alright, we have here first, Jerome says, that London accent is cute for about five minutes. 0.98
03:47:09.000 The country's trash, y'all don't even have the Second Amendment, and y'all have been salty since 76. 0.99
03:47:15.000 Good God. 1.00
03:47:15.000 W-USA. Okay. 1.00
03:47:20.000 This guy says, technically repair says, FNF, I'm new to the Castle Club.
03:47:26.000 I've saved over 85k in profits over the last six months, and I want to start buying rentals.
03:47:31.000 I'll drop in 25%.
03:47:32.000 Where's the best place to find lenders when I have a 680 credit score on a 150k in that house truck CCs?
03:47:39.000 Get your credit score up, man.
03:47:40.000 Over 700, bro.
03:47:41.000 680, nah. 1.00
03:47:42.000 Fuck no. 0.99
03:47:43.000 Jalil says, FNF, would y'all be willing to debate the Daily Wire with Pearl, given the recent comments towards Red Pill from them? 1.00
03:47:50.000 Sure, but they're scared.
03:47:51.000 Yeah, they won't.
03:47:52.000 They don't want to do it.
03:47:52.000 They're scared, I think.
03:47:53.000 Darius says...
03:47:54.000 Yeah, no, I'm trying to...
03:47:56.000 Look, I have pitched Tim Kast and Pierce Morgan.
03:48:00.000 Both said they would host me and Myron against two Daily Wire people.
03:48:04.000 I'm just waiting for the Daily Wire to accept.
03:48:07.000 Put your money where your mouth is, guys.
03:48:10.000 All right.
03:48:11.000 Darius says, Pearl, when will you do a show with the Satan Center?
03:48:15.000 Business mogul Marquette Burton.
03:48:17.000 150k subs on YouTube.
03:48:19.000 He was hilarious on whatever.
03:48:21.000 That was so funny.
03:48:24.000 Yeah, I totally would do a show with him.
03:48:26.000 He's good.
03:48:27.000 Sunny says, I'm English and I speak three languages. 0.98
03:48:29.000 Whores only understand one language. 1.00
03:48:32.000 Okay. 0.99
03:48:34.000 We have here, let's see.
03:48:38.000 Boston Sea Party says, they just add letters to make their words sound fancy.
03:48:41.000 Tell them if they can't beat us in a war. 1.00
03:48:43.000 They can talk as much shit as they want. 1.00
03:48:46.000 WFNF. Oh, that was from the spelling of words, right? 1.00
03:48:48.000 Yeah, earlier, yeah.
03:48:49.000 Okay.
03:48:49.000 Freshers balls on roids.
03:48:53.000 Yo, Myron, just chimed in, but I have been listening religiously to you for like the last two months.
03:49:00.000 I'm tired, bro.
03:49:01.000 Super chats are harder than they think.
03:49:03.000 Yeah, I'm tired, bro.
03:49:04.000 Where were we at?
03:49:06.000 Which one?
03:49:07.000 Jerome, okay.
03:49:09.000 No, no, we read that one.
03:49:10.000 Okay.
03:49:11.000 FNF, I'm new to the cat.
03:49:12.000 No.
03:49:13.000 Read that. 0.97
03:49:13.000 Nigga, where'd you put me? 0.97
03:49:16.000 Goddammit, Fresh? 0.71
03:49:18.000 Uh, sorry.
03:49:20.000 Okay, sorry, audience.
03:49:21.000 Okay, Boston Tea Party.
03:49:22.000 Nope, read that one too.
03:49:23.000 Fresh?
03:49:24.000 Nope, read that one.
03:49:25.000 Rob, hey, my first live, I watched you all from the beginning.
03:49:28.000 Glad everything got squared away between Pearl and FNF. Shout out to y'all.
03:49:32.000 I went from homeless making 25 an hour and 440 credit score 680 on the way up.
03:49:37.000 Good stuff, bro.
03:49:38.000 Keep up the good work, everyone.
03:49:39.000 Yeah, absolutely, bro.
03:49:40.000 That's, yeah.
03:49:41.000 440 credit score is terrible, but you're getting up.
03:49:42.000 Get up to 700 plus, you'll be fine.
03:49:45.000 Jake Kertura goes, also, you guys helped me in my relationship and helped me know my worth.
03:49:50.000 My girl's frickin' alpha mode and drives to keep me in check.
03:49:54.000 I now say, nah, bro, you're wrong.
03:49:56.000 Absolutely, you gotta be able to type, put her in her place, man.
03:49:58.000 Bro, if you don't, like, she just tolerate you for...
03:50:00.000 Man, you guys just saw here.
03:50:01.000 No offense, Ms. 1.00
03:50:02.000 Morocco, but goddamn. 0.99
03:50:03.000 You proved a lot of points here. 1.00
03:50:05.000 Marin, I'm proud of your maturity.
03:50:06.000 I remember Pearl's piece and don't believe she's genuine RP. However, I respect the fact that she invested money in defending you at your lowest.
03:50:12.000 What's RP? Don't worry.
03:50:15.000 Oh.
03:50:16.000 Let's see here.
03:50:17.000 We got...
03:50:18.000 Abraham goes, I'm considering purchasing a house in New Brant, Connecticut.
03:50:21.000 Which cities in Connecticut do you believe are good or bad for buying houses?
03:50:24.000 Additionally, I'm debating whether to buy a house with existing tenants or one for myself to live in and then to passive income.
03:50:30.000 Bro, watch our episode on real estate where I cover all this, but I'll give you a little thing since it's a special episode.
03:50:35.000 Look in West Haven and New Haven.
03:50:36.000 I shouldn't be telling y'all that, but look in those towns.
03:50:38.000 Good deals there.
03:50:39.000 And if you take a house from me, I'll get really mad. 1.00
03:50:41.000 This fat bitch... 1.00
03:50:43.000 What? 1.00
03:50:49.000 Well, the fact that you think I got bigger balls than you is not my fault. 0.99
03:50:59.000 I was born this way. 0.99
03:51:04.000 Tell her to try it.
03:51:16.000 We should do a boxing match.
03:51:19.000 Do you know how strong I am?
03:51:23.000 Do you know how strong I am?
03:51:24.000 I deadlifted like 275 today for six.
03:51:27.000 I hit 850 on a punching machine.
03:51:30.000 Sorry, go ahead.
03:51:33.000 Did you literally just say, what?
03:51:36.000 You know the punching machine?
03:51:39.000 You mean at the arcade?
03:51:41.000 No, the hard hitters.
03:51:43.000 So I'm just using anything.
03:51:44.000 She literally just used that as an example to demonstrate fighting competency. 1.00
03:51:45.000 Exactly, she's deadlifting to say that she can beat me up. 1.00
03:51:48.000 I can use anything, correct?
03:51:50.000 There we go, bro.
03:51:51.000 No, my point is...
03:51:53.000 Yo, you're the definition of arguing in bad grades, man.
03:51:57.000 I'll give you this.
03:51:57.000 It's four in the morning, so we'll give it to you.
03:51:59.000 yeah good uh bk green eyes goes this fatty in the pink needs to shut the up her mom failed and she is the most annoying heifer on the planet castle this cow god damn cow moo all right uh roller provides academic literature on hypergamy and pearl myron and fresh provide the laboratory the rationale is all true thank you guys i see the matrix hey bro you guys see it in 4k every day uh chop top shake goes gents ladies pro good to finally see you collab with fnf apologies except that i gotta say Send the asteroid or allow an EMP. I'mma dress into a trance to knock that gorilla's 0.94
03:52:30.000 mouth? 0.96
03:52:30.000 What are you talking about? 0.96
03:52:31.000 He's gonna become a trance to fight her.
03:52:33.000 Yeah, to fight her?
03:52:34.000 Okay.
03:52:35.000 Remember, just because you're good for your hole doesn't mean they're good for your soul. 1.00
03:52:41.000 Wisdom.
03:52:42.000 Words of wisdom there. 0.99
03:52:43.000 Just because they're good for your whole goddamn. 0.99
03:52:44.000 Okay, good one. 0.99
03:52:45.000 Then he goes again, Troy, you didn't say much today.
03:52:47.000 I like it.
03:52:47.000 Keep it up.
03:52:48.000 This nigga. 1.00
03:52:49.000 That's ridiculous. 1.00
03:52:50.000 See, they talk shit about everybody, bro. 1.00
03:52:52.000 And then, uh, the She-Pam, get off your phone. 1.00
03:52:57.000 Oh, sorry, my bad.
03:52:57.000 I was very clear about that at the beginning of the show.
03:52:59.000 Sorry. 0.99
03:53:00.000 God fucking damn it. 0.99
03:53:01.000 I don't feel embarrassed either. 1.00
03:53:03.000 Well...
03:53:06.000 I'm a troublemaker for a reason, man.
03:53:08.000 I could tell. 1.00
03:53:10.000 All the dudes you dated were pussies, man. 1.00
03:53:12.000 They don't tell you nothing. 1.00
03:53:14.000 You have a problem with authority.
03:53:15.000 You get away with murder.
03:53:16.000 Yeah, you could tell.
03:53:18.000 I can get away with a lawyer, yeah.
03:53:21.000 The sheet man goes, hey guys, I'm in the process of building up my skill set for the next six months.
03:53:25.000 Should I go out at least once a week or fully focus on building my skill and shun social interactions?
03:53:30.000 You should go out a bit, I think.
03:53:31.000 Go out, bro. 0.56
03:53:32.000 Because the fact that you're not going out at all, when you get successful in that arena, you're going to be like a dud.
03:53:36.000 That's why you said before, we need to do it all, don't we? 0.99
03:53:38.000 That's the fucking problem. 0.99
03:53:39.000 Yeah, you do. 1.00
03:53:39.000 Because if you just focus on the money, you'll end up... 1.00
03:53:42.000 Sorry, I hate to use your example.
03:53:43.000 But you'll end up where she's just tolerating you for an engagement. 0.99
03:53:46.000 And then you put that shit into a new coin or something, and she's like, nigga, I'm gone. 0.99
03:53:50.000 See, if I was him, I would not tell her anything, bro. 1.00
03:53:52.000 I would just do what I have to do.
03:53:54.000 Like normal.
03:53:55.000 Yeah.
03:53:55.000 Alright, so what we'll do is we'll turn it to the ladies.
03:53:59.000 Questions, comments?
03:53:59.000 Questions, last points, disagreements, whatever it may be.
03:54:02.000 Last comments.
03:54:02.000 Yeah, if you guys got a question for us or whatever, we'll turn it to...
03:54:05.000 Who wants to go first?
03:54:06.000 We'll start here.
03:54:09.000 Yeah, you didn't say much.
03:54:09.000 No, no, no.
03:54:10.000 Come back to me.
03:54:11.000 Okay.
03:54:11.000 Okay, you know what?
03:54:12.000 How was the show for you?
03:54:13.000 How was the show?
03:54:14.000 It was...
03:54:19.000 I like that.
03:54:20.000 It was alright.
03:54:21.000 I couldn't relate to a lot of stuff, but it was interesting.
03:54:24.000 What couldn't you relate to specifically?
03:54:26.000 Just like different views about certain things because I think maybe because of my age group.
03:54:31.000 Because my age is older, so my beliefs are a little bit different.
03:54:35.000 Okay, who did you agree with more during the course of this show?
03:54:37.000 The men or the women? 0.89
03:54:40.000 Keep it a bean.
03:54:42.000 I want to say a little bit more that the men had some good points.
03:54:46.000 The men had good points going across.
03:54:48.000 And the whole thing about the whole contraceptive stuff, I think it's more like when it comes to the contraception, I don't think it's equally the man's.
03:54:57.000 I think it's more the woman.
03:54:58.000 Because at the end of the day, the woman is with child, is with child for, you know, 18 years or whatever till the child grows and the man will just go, you know, the man doesn't have to be a part.
03:55:09.000 It doesn't have to be this.
03:55:10.000 You have to think for yourself, really.
03:55:12.000 Oh, so she agrees with us.
03:55:14.000 Alright.
03:55:15.000 Based grandma. 0.96
03:55:16.000 Interesting, okay. 1.00
03:55:16.000 Goddamn, nigga. 1.00
03:55:17.000 What about you? 1.00
03:55:19.000 I have a comment.
03:55:21.000 I think it would be very beneficial.
03:55:23.000 Did you have a question for Fresh earlier?
03:55:24.000 Or you asked another one?
03:55:26.000 I thought she had another one.
03:55:27.000 Okay, never mind.
03:55:29.000 I think it would be a good idea for men to drop the actual gym and go to...
03:55:38.000 Boxing gym or learn some martial arts because they'll give you not only exercise but also give you confidence in yourself.
03:55:44.000 So you walk around and you won't even have to talk.
03:55:46.000 It's not bad advice.
03:55:48.000 Guys should do combat sport. 0.89
03:55:50.000 They definitely need to.
03:55:51.000 It makes them less bitchy, you know? 1.00
03:55:54.000 It makes you less scary.
03:55:56.000 It makes you a real protector and capable and competent.
03:55:59.000 And a woman will respect you because she'll know.
03:56:02.000 It's not bad advice because guys should do combat sports.
03:56:05.000 Yeah, they should, but women need to work on being worth being protected. 1.00
03:56:08.000 It's not even for a woman, you know? 0.99
03:56:11.000 I think it's even for themselves.
03:56:12.000 Does every girl deserve protection? 1.00
03:56:14.000 Of course. 1.00
03:56:14.000 Fuck out of here, no! 1.00
03:56:15.000 We're not disagreeing with you. 1.00
03:56:17.000 Not every girl deserves protection. 0.99
03:56:20.000 No, I don't think so.
03:56:22.000 I agree with you on that one.
03:56:23.000 But women must work on being better quality. 1.00
03:56:26.000 That's right.
03:56:27.000 Yes.
03:56:29.000 Right.
03:56:30.000 Like, the protection, like, it's earned.
03:56:33.000 It's not just given, like...
03:56:35.000 Of course. 1.00
03:56:36.000 Like, why am I gonna lie my life on the line for some fucking chick that isn't even sucking my dick and following my lead? 1.00
03:56:43.000 Like, hell no, that's crazy. 1.00
03:56:44.000 That's stupid. 1.00
03:56:45.000 Why would I do that? 1.00
03:56:46.000 No, do it for yourself.
03:56:47.000 Because as a man amongst men...
03:56:49.000 You also build your status through having physical competence.
03:56:53.000 But what comes first, would you think? 1.00
03:56:55.000 Sucking the dick or the protection? 1.00
03:56:59.000 Yeah, I mean, she's gotta suck the dick first. 1.00
03:57:02.000 Why? 1.00
03:57:02.000 Why would I protect the girl that I'm not getting sexual access to? 1.00
03:57:05.000 Why would I suck the dick of someone who is not protecting me? 1.00
03:57:08.000 You gotta suck the dick to get the protection first. 1.00
03:57:10.000 That makes sense, actually. 1.00
03:57:14.000 It's true, isn't it? 1.00
03:57:16.000 Why are you gonna be sucking the dick of a man dying and protecting you? 0.99
03:57:18.000 Because if you want to tell women to be better women, you shouldn't say, don't do those things unless a man is doing the right things. 1.00
03:57:24.000 That 50% of the time that you fuck those guys that we were talking about earlier, do them niggas protect you? 1.00
03:57:28.000 Oh, I'll wait. 1.00
03:57:30.000 Which guys?
03:57:31.000 Oh, she forgot already.
03:57:33.000 Remember you said, oh, if he's hot enough, I will do it.
03:57:36.000 Remember that?
03:57:37.000 It's a mutual- Are those guys protecting you?
03:57:39.000 Huff and huff. 0.71
03:57:40.000 Yeah, are those guys protecting you?
03:57:41.000 For the evening, yes.
03:57:42.000 He ain't protecting you.
03:57:44.000 I was having as much fun. 1.00
03:57:45.000 So I'm not even getting my dick sucked and I gotta protect you? 1.00
03:57:47.000 But he got his dick sucked and he didn't protect you? 1.00
03:57:49.000 Maybe he wasn't in a position where he had to. 1.00
03:57:51.000 Not every time that you need to protect somebody.
03:57:53.000 Sometimes I protect the guy.
03:57:54.000 Do you not see the lack of logic here?
03:57:56.000 What do you mean?
03:57:58.000 I guess there should be a desire from a man to protect a woman in the first place, but we all protect each other in general, by the way.
03:58:04.000 Women can't protect anything. 1.00
03:58:05.000 Right, so if I can protect, then you have to protect me, then if I can't protect...
03:58:10.000 But that's earned, though.
03:58:12.000 But that's earned, though.
03:58:13.000 What is earned?
03:58:14.000 Protection from a man.
03:58:16.000 Yeah, it should just be a natural thing, in my opinion. 1.00
03:58:20.000 Okay, so you know what, by that argument, then it should just be a natural thing that we just get our dick sucked. 0.99
03:58:24.000 Well, if both was equal, then yes. 0.99
03:58:26.000 Yeah, if you showed that investment, then you'll get your investment. 0.99
03:58:30.000 No, there's plenty of dudes that protect chicks and don't get their dicks hooked all the time. 1.00
03:58:33.000 Dudes be caping for girls and they don't even like them. 1.00
03:58:35.000 That's because people don't really know their roles anymore.
03:58:37.000 And also there comes the fact that there's generosity too.
03:58:40.000 Come on.
03:58:41.000 That's him taking the role to the next level.
03:58:43.000 Myron, would you not stop if a man... 0.86
03:58:46.000 You guys make zero sense.
03:58:47.000 Can I ask you a question, Myron?
03:58:48.000 Would you not stop and protect a woman if she was being absolutely harassed by someone else?
03:58:52.000 Truly. 1.00
03:58:53.000 You wouldn't actually step in because that's not the woman that's sucking your dick. 1.00
03:58:56.000 I don't know. 0.99
03:58:57.000 I think that there's a lot of men that have almost like an innate kind of urge to protect a woman because that's meant to be a natural role as a man anyway.
03:59:05.000 Masculine men don't need to protect only the woman they sleep with.
03:59:08.000 They protect the villages of women sometimes. 0.92
03:59:10.000 Here's the thing.
03:59:10.000 I would do it, but it's not intelligent.
03:59:12.000 Stupid. 1.00
03:59:13.000 Yeah, maybe that's what it is. 1.00
03:59:14.000 I would personally do it because of who I am, and I used to work in law enforcement, so I'm not a good person to ask on this. 0.98
03:59:19.000 But, however, it is stupid for men to sit there and protect women that they don't know. 1.00
03:59:25.000 It's dumb. 1.00
03:59:27.000 Hey, you guys wanted equality, right? 0.99
03:59:31.000 Protect yourself. 0.98
03:59:32.000 You're entitled to say that it's stupid, but I'm just saying there's a lot of people, there's men that are generous with that kind of attitude. 0.99
03:59:37.000 In fact, there's men that even go into pimping because they were trying to protect the woman to begin with. 0.99
03:59:42.000 I know quite a few of those, you know?
03:59:44.000 Okay, let's let her talk. 0.96
03:59:45.000 I don't know what you're saying right now.
03:59:47.000 What about you?
03:59:48.000 I don't know what you're saying right now.
03:59:49.000 What about you?
03:59:50.000 Pimps meant to protect women.
03:59:52.000 We're going to move to the next person. 0.98
03:59:54.000 Okay, I want you to watch back this show and see how crazy you sound.
04:00:00.000 I'm just saying, is it a lie? 0.84
04:00:03.000 My thing.
04:00:04.000 Okay, go on.
04:00:06.000 Wow.
04:00:09.000 Interesting.
04:00:11.000 Did you just take a Xanny before the show?
04:00:13.000 No.
04:00:16.000 That's the most of the charisma you've shown the entire show now.
04:00:19.000 How do you know Myron?
04:00:24.000 I don't, as in I've watched your content.
04:00:27.000 Okay, cool.
04:00:28.000 We did introduce ourselves before too.
04:00:30.000 She can't say, Myron, Myron, Myron, Myron.
04:00:33.000 As in because he's like, did you take something before the show?
04:00:36.000 No.
04:00:37.000 So you're just always like this?
04:00:40.000 I'm just chill, but I am really tired.
04:00:42.000 I'm not gonna lie.
04:00:43.000 It's like 4am, guys.
04:00:45.000 Alright, man.
04:00:45.000 I don't believe that.
04:00:46.000 I think this is just how you are in time, man.
04:00:48.000 What about you, Ms.
04:00:50.000 Russia? 0.61
04:00:50.000 Who, me? 0.61
04:00:51.000 How was the show for you?
04:00:52.000 Comments, questions?
04:00:53.000 Very stressful.
04:00:54.000 You didn't say nothing.
04:00:56.000 Because everyone was shouting, I got really agitated and, you know, I couldn't, like, I froze a little bit.
04:01:03.000 And also a few times I tried to speak and people were just speaking on top of me.
04:01:07.000 You didn't go to war?
04:01:09.000 What do you mean?
04:01:10.000 You haven't been in a war before?
04:01:12.000 No.
04:01:12.000 Oh, never mind.
04:01:14.000 Russia, Ukraine, okay, never mind. 0.62
04:01:17.000 I'm a Londoner for 15 years.
04:01:18.000 I've been saying this the whole time.
04:01:20.000 I'm kidding, I'm kidding, I'm kidding, I'm kidding.
04:01:22.000 I don't have much connection anymore with, you know.
04:01:25.000 Understood.
04:01:25.000 Well, if you didn't get much time to speak, is there any final point you want to make then?
04:01:29.000 Yeah, this is your chance right now, and you're just like...
04:01:31.000 Well, I think that...
04:01:38.000 That's good, she said I think.
04:01:39.000 Instead of I feel like.
04:01:41.000 This is why she hasn't spoken.
04:01:43.000 See, like I can't, you know, because all you want to do is just intimidate everyone.
04:01:48.000 That's how I think or feel or whichever way it is, because anything like I or someone else says, like just twist everything around and, you know.
04:01:58.000 How do I twist that around?
04:02:00.000 I was giving you a compliment.
04:02:02.000 Because I can't think otherwise or what do you mean?
04:02:06.000 Well, I don't know if you've noticed but almost every girl before they made a point said I feel before they made their point.
04:02:12.000 Yeah, but feeling is not lesser than thinking.
04:02:18.000 There's an emotional intelligence which you should probably read about as well.
04:02:22.000 What is emotional intelligence?
04:02:27.000 Define it for me.
04:02:29.000 I'm not a dictionary, you have to go.
04:02:30.000 So wait, you just told me to have emotional touch, but you don't know what it means?
04:02:34.000 Well, it's a feeling as well.
04:02:36.000 Emotionally intelligence is the ability to understand feelings and emotions.
04:02:40.000 I'm not a dictionary, I'm sorry, I'm not like a book smart.
04:02:44.000 So you just used a term that you don't know the definition of?
04:02:47.000 Well, I understand it more visually.
04:02:49.000 You have a massive degree.
04:02:52.000 You guys, do you know what?
04:02:53.000 That's actually really mean.
04:02:55.000 I'm very offensive.
04:02:57.000 I'm super neurodiverse.
04:02:58.000 Thank you very much.
04:02:59.000 And I'm not going to be bullied either.
04:03:01.000 We're not bullying you.
04:03:02.000 You said you need to have more emotional intelligence.
04:03:05.000 And I said, okay, what is emotional intelligence?
04:03:07.000 You couldn't define it.
04:03:08.000 Yeah, because you don't have to define it like that.
04:03:10.000 Not everybody can express themselves or explain things.
04:03:13.000 That's why she went quiet when you guys attacked her.
04:03:15.000 You said earlier, words are important, right?
04:03:17.000 You should know what the meanings are.
04:03:18.000 You said that!
04:03:18.000 You said that!
04:03:19.000 You said that!
04:03:20.000 You said that!
04:03:20.000 Those are my standards.
04:03:22.000 That's what I stand for.
04:03:23.000 That's why when you ask emotional intelligence, I had a definition.
04:03:26.000 Did I know?
04:03:26.000 Why can't you just laugh at yourself?
04:03:28.000 I have a definition. 1.00
04:03:29.000 Sometimes you do dumb shit. 1.00
04:03:29.000 It's okay. 1.00
04:03:41.000 This means we've been up almost 24 hours to accommodate you actually, so it's not very nice that you say that.
04:03:46.000 That's another excuse.
04:03:47.000 We also work.
04:03:49.000 Listen, I get up in 20 minutes.
04:03:53.000 I've been up from 5 a.m.
04:03:55.000 until now, so it's not very nice to say that to her.
04:03:58.000 No, that's okay.
04:03:58.000 You told me, but it doesn't matter if you told me.
04:04:00.000 My time is also pressured, you know?
04:04:04.000 Sorry, you asked.
04:04:07.000 No, I just find this very funny. 0.98
04:04:12.000 Because she was the one answering the question, but you just did most of the talking, which is ridiculous.
04:04:16.000 I don't like people picking on people and I watch it and I don't think it's okay.
04:04:19.000 I didn't like what you said to her either.
04:04:21.000 See, she has to defend me like you have to step into your masculinity. 0.99
04:04:24.000 I'm sorry, but I didn't like that.
04:04:27.000 I understand why.
04:04:28.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on.
04:04:29.000 I would never allow anyone to speak to somebody like that.
04:04:31.000 When a man doesn't protect you, another woman has to protect you. 1.00
04:04:36.000 Do you know what she said?
04:04:39.000 No.
04:04:40.000 Do you even know what she said?
04:04:41.000 About what?
04:04:42.000 She said a lot of things.
04:04:43.000 Okay.
04:04:43.000 What did she say that you have an issue with?
04:04:46.000 I didn't have an issue with her.
04:04:48.000 No, no.
04:04:48.000 I had an issue with what you said to her.
04:04:49.000 Which was what?
04:04:50.000 You're basically mocking her for the fact that she first said, you said that she said, I think, and then you even went on to then talk about her accent.
04:04:57.000 And in fact, the three of you have been talking about her accent or picking on her along the show.
04:05:02.000 That's discrimination, by the way.
04:05:02.000 So when it gets to this point, and she even explained that she felt to go on to speak.
04:05:06.000 You weren't mocking my accent.
04:05:06.000 She felt overwhelmed to speak because you guys keep cutting off the moment that she speaks.
04:05:10.000 And when you do, you do things like stereotypical that you'll jump on the fact that she's Russian or whatever.
04:05:15.000 And this time she's even Latvia.
04:05:16.000 So it's actually not nice.
04:05:17.000 You're being unwelcoming on your show when somebody came to even give you views because you're shouting ahead saying all the things that she's still there.
04:05:23.000 Since you didn't address it at all.
04:05:27.000 She said, And I said, oh great, you think, instead of I feel, because a lot of you have said, I feel, which was a compliment.
04:05:35.000 Then, right?
04:05:36.000 She goes, oh, you need to learn emotional intelligence.
04:05:38.000 And I'm like, okay, define emotional intelligence.
04:05:40.000 That's not what she said.
04:05:41.000 She said before that, she said, you need to learn some emotional intelligence.
04:05:44.000 She said, what's wrong with me thinking?
04:05:45.000 She said, well, because other people said feel.
04:05:46.000 She said, it's okay to feel.
04:05:47.000 Feel is no lesser than thinking.
04:05:50.000 She said you need to get some emotional intelligence and I said define emotional intelligence.
04:05:55.000 I think it's a misunderstanding.
04:05:57.000 And she couldn't define emotional intelligence and we burst out into laughter because how are you going to tell someone?
04:06:02.000 It's not that she doesn't know it.
04:06:03.000 She's feeling overwhelmed.
04:06:04.000 Not everybody is as public speaker.
04:06:05.000 I can speak constantly.
04:06:06.000 She can't.
04:06:07.000 You talk too much.
04:06:09.000 Of course I do. 1.00
04:06:10.000 Shut the fuck up for two seconds. 1.00
04:06:12.000 You shut the fuck up. 1.00
04:06:12.000 Yeah, who the fuck are you talking to? 1.00
04:06:14.000 Who are you talking to? 1.00
04:06:15.000 Bitch, get the fuck off my shit, man. 1.00
04:06:16.000 Bitch, get the fuck off my shit. 1.00
04:06:19.000 Shut up. 1.00
04:06:19.000 You're a fucking loser. 1.00
04:06:20.000 Get the fuck up out of here, bro. 1.00
04:06:20.000 Get the fuck up out of here. 1.00
04:06:22.000 You're very rude. 1.00
04:06:23.000 You shut the fuck up. 1.00
04:06:24.000 Get the fuck up out of here, bro. 1.00
04:06:27.000 Get the fuck up out of here, bro. 1.00
04:06:29.000 You look like a fucking Teletub you talking shit over here, man. 1.00
04:06:32.000 You look like a fucking knob. 1.00
04:06:33.000 What the fuck about here, bro? 1.00
04:06:35.000 You look like an idiot. 1.00
04:06:36.000 That's why you swear so much at women that gave their time to be here with you. 1.00
04:06:39.000 I sweat the fat off.
04:06:40.000 Something you need to do. 1.00
04:06:41.000 You're a fucking loser. 1.00
04:06:41.000 I sweat the fat off. 1.00
04:06:42.000 Something you need to do. 1.00
04:06:43.000 I don't give a shit, man. 0.99
04:06:44.000 Yeah, well. 1.00
04:06:45.000 I can swear as much as you can.
04:06:46.000 Okay.
04:06:47.000 That doesn't make you a lady, though. 0.99
04:06:48.000 Doesn't matter.
04:06:49.000 Doesn't make you a man, either.
04:06:51.000 A man doesn't act like this.
04:06:52.000 Real men don't act like this.
04:06:54.000 Real men know how to respect women which you don't know. 0.82
04:06:56.000 That's why you swear from the moment you even broke me.
04:06:57.000 Respect is earned.
04:06:58.000 And you have not earned it.
04:07:01.000 Why are you still talking?
04:07:02.000 Just leave.
04:07:03.000 Just leave. 0.98
04:07:03.000 Get the fuck up out of here. 0.98
04:07:05.000 Just leave. 0.99
04:07:05.000 Fresh, you did earn my respect. 0.99
04:07:06.000 You're cool. 0.63
04:07:06.000 This guy's a freak. 0.63
04:07:08.000 Okay. 0.57
04:07:08.000 Oh, hold on, hold on, hold on. 0.57
04:07:10.000 Listen, we did a show together.
04:07:11.000 Yo.
04:07:12.000 Respectfully.
04:07:13.000 It's crazy, though.
04:07:14.000 I don't even care.
04:07:15.000 I said what I said. 1.00
04:07:15.000 You're built like a fridge and you're talking crazy shit. 1.00
04:07:17.000 I don't give a shit. 1.00
04:07:18.000 A fridge don't have curves like this, nigga. 1.00
04:07:19.000 What curves? 1.00
04:07:22.000 It's disgusting.
04:07:23.000 Bro, you're weighing almost 200 pounds.
04:07:25.000 I'm weighing almost 200 pounds.
04:07:27.000 I don't think I can accept this. 0.97
04:07:30.000 You can get the f**k about here too. 0.98
04:07:32.000 Go back to your guy. 0.99
04:07:33.000 Go back to him. 0.99
04:07:35.000 You guys get the f**k about here. 0.99
04:07:37.000 This is a fresh affair. 1.00
04:07:37.000 We don't give a f**k, man. 1.00
04:07:38.000 Get the f**k about here. 0.99
04:07:39.000 Yeah. 0.99
04:07:40.000 Yeah, okay.
04:07:41.000 You can leave too. 0.99
04:07:42.000 You guys can't deal with f**king the truth, man. 0.98
04:07:46.000 Yeah, this is fantastic. 0.96
04:07:48.000 Yo, you know what's funny about... 1.00
04:07:49.000 No, I'm telling you, shut the fuck up. 1.00
04:07:52.000 Yo, you know what's funny about all three girls, bro? 1.00
04:07:55.000 Bro, she ain't gonna do nothing, man. 0.89
04:07:57.000 She ain't got no hands, bro. 1.00
04:07:59.000 That's why I don't give a fuck. 1.00
04:08:02.000 When we can't fight, who gives a shit what the fuck they gotta say? 0.99
04:08:06.000 You know what's funny about all three girls? 1.00
04:08:07.000 Just leave, bro.
04:08:07.000 Why y'all still like...
04:08:08.000 Yo, they got no ass. 1.00
04:08:25.000 It's crazy to me. 0.99
04:08:27.000 You should have some emotional intelligence.
04:08:28.000 Define emotional intelligence.
04:08:29.000 You don't even know.
04:08:31.000 I have EI. What is EI? What is that?
04:08:34.000 I don't know. 1.00
04:08:35.000 Like, what the fuck? 1.00
04:08:36.000 These chicks got mass degrees too. 1.00
04:08:37.000 That's the crazy part.
04:08:38.000 For all your niggas watching the show. 1.00
04:08:40.000 Yo, bring smarter girls out there educated. 1.00
04:08:41.000 This is what you get with educated girls. 1.00
04:08:43.000 Two mass degrees.
04:08:45.000 Master retards is what they are. 1.00
04:08:47.000 Master fucking retards, bruh. 1.00
04:08:49.000 I got a headache, man. 1.00
04:08:50.000 Guys, guys, shut up. 0.99
04:08:51.000 Kane, get them out of here. 1.00
04:08:52.000 You guys have to shut up. 1.00
04:08:54.000 God damn, they're still here. 1.00
04:08:56.000 What about you? 1.00
04:08:57.000 Hey, if you sweat as much as me, you'd be thinner.
04:08:58.000 Move out of the door.
04:08:59.000 Get them out.
04:09:00.000 You guys, you have to be quiet.
04:09:02.000 Thank you.
04:09:02.000 Sweating indicates good health, actually.
04:09:05.000 If she sweat more, she wouldn't be so fat.
04:09:07.000 Oh god.
04:09:08.000 What?
04:09:09.000 What about you?
04:09:10.000 Lost on the show, I hate the lovely comments.
04:09:13.000 Oh my god.
04:09:16.000 You're in shock right now?
04:09:18.000 I'm just chilling.
04:09:21.000 Yo, this is comedy.
04:09:23.000 See you.
04:09:27.000 Okay, I know, I know.
04:09:29.000 See you.
04:09:31.000 Okay.
04:09:32.000 Troy, you good?
04:09:34.000 I'm good.
04:09:34.000 I'm good, man.
04:09:35.000 He's like, oh shit! 0.99
04:09:37.000 I'm gonna say 90 kilos. 1.00
04:09:39.000 I don't know, nigga. 1.00
04:09:40.000 I'm gonna say 90 kilos. 0.97
04:09:41.000 I don't know, man.
04:09:41.000 90 kilos, man.
04:09:43.000 Listen, I wish her the best.
04:09:43.000 She's a buck 80 at least.
04:09:45.000 At least.
04:09:47.000 What are your thoughts on the show?
04:09:48.000 Go ahead.
04:09:49.000 Thanks for the show.
04:09:49.000 Thank you for having me on.
04:09:51.000 I've appreciated it a lot.
04:09:52.000 A new experience.
04:09:53.000 I've been on other shows, but none quite like this.
04:09:56.000 Took some valuable points from the lads.
04:10:00.000 Also...
04:10:01.000 A lot of information that I didn't actually know.
04:10:03.000 I think there's a lot that women can draw from this. 1.00
04:10:06.000 But I do think that there's things that both men and women can do to help make courtship and relationships easier.
04:10:14.000 We can help ourselves, we can help each other.
04:10:17.000 But yeah, thank you.
04:10:17.000 W, Black Queen.
04:10:18.000 W. I think what the lady here was saying, she was kind of saying like, oh, we should understand each other more.
04:10:28.000 We should learn.
04:10:29.000 And that's absolutely right.
04:10:30.000 But the problem is, you've got to live in reality, haven't you?
04:10:34.000 Because it's like, I could say, well, women should understand me as a guy, they should understand my needs, I should understand women better, and so on and so forth.
04:10:40.000 And yeah, absolutely, in a utopian world, for sure.
04:10:43.000 But unfortunately, we don't live in that world, you know, so we have to sort of look at the reality as it is.
04:10:48.000 Yeah, no, I appreciate the guys for telling us the truth.
04:10:51.000 Sometimes, I do believe that women can be emotional creatures. 1.00
04:10:55.000 You just saw it.
04:10:57.000 We do see things through rose-tinted glasses sometimes.
04:11:01.000 There are things on our side that we feel like we could teach men.
04:11:04.000 You know what's hilarious?
04:11:05.000 Like, she said, words matter, you need to know the definition.
04:11:08.000 Yeah, she's the one that said it.
04:11:09.000 Then this girl goes ahead and doesn't know the definition, and then she goes ahead and defends a point that she literally disagreed with earlier.
04:11:16.000 I think she didn't quite understand that you were trying to compliment her, and then it just...
04:11:19.000 No, no, but it got even funnier, because he called her out like, yo, did you say words matter earlier?
04:11:24.000 She did!
04:11:25.000 And then she goes, and you stand on that, and she's like, yeah, I did, but I didn't like the X, Y, Z. So you're sitting here arguing a point that you don't even agree with.
04:11:32.000 The girl don't even know what emotional intelligence is. 1.00
04:11:34.000 I remember, no composure.
04:11:36.000 No composure.
04:11:37.000 Yeah, man, she said she had it.
04:11:38.000 I don't see it.
04:11:39.000 Yo! 1.00
04:11:39.000 Anyhow. 1.00
04:11:40.000 Yo, this was fucking funny. 0.98
04:11:41.000 Guys, this was a great show. 0.95
04:11:42.000 Listen, Pearl and Troy, where can they find you guys?
04:11:46.000 Get us out of here! 0.98
04:11:48.000 Yo, this is comedy.
04:11:49.000 You can follow my YouTube channel, which is called The Data Game with Troy Francis.
04:11:53.000 So look that up on YouTube.
04:11:54.000 Follow me on there.
04:11:55.000 And on social media, like Twitter, Instagram, at RealTroyFrancis.
04:11:58.000 The only other thing I wanted to say was, I thought there's a really interesting Red Pill moments in this.
04:12:02.000 And actually, what's the lady?
04:12:05.000 Sarkana.
04:12:06.000 Yeah, Sakina.
04:12:07.000 She was talking about the guy that she was dating and the reason she split up with him.
04:12:11.000 And I thought that was actually really interesting because, like, you know, he's a rich dude.
04:12:14.000 So many, yeah.
04:12:14.000 Yeah, exactly.
04:12:15.000 And on paper, he was kind of...
04:12:17.000 For all the rich simps out there?
04:12:18.000 Yeah.
04:12:19.000 That's what awaits you.
04:12:20.000 Yeah.
04:12:20.000 Yeah.
04:12:21.000 So that was...
04:12:21.000 I thought that was, like, really, really interesting.
04:12:23.000 Yo, I don't want to be an asshole, but, I mean, I told her to her face or whatever. 0.99
04:12:26.000 I'll say it again. 0.99
04:12:27.000 Bro, she's mid. 1.00
04:12:28.000 And look at how fucking cocky she was. 1.00
04:12:30.000 Bro, she got no ass. 1.00
04:12:31.000 Super cocky. 1.00
04:12:32.000 Holy. 1.00
04:12:33.000 Fucking mid. 1.00
04:12:34.000 Yo, we're doomed. 1.00
04:12:35.000 If girls like, mid-girls like that, yup, I think if a mid-girl acts like that, you're fucking doomed for the rest of y'all, man. 1.00
04:12:41.000 She's curving niggas? 1.00
04:12:42.000 She's curving niggas? 1.00
04:12:43.000 Goddamn, bro. 0.99
04:12:44.000 She's talking about the billionaire dude or the guy with the private jets, and then she's, you know, swerving him because he's asking her to give up the time and stuff like that. 0.99
04:12:51.000 Completely average.
04:12:52.000 And this is why guys, like you said, like guys need to have everything.
04:12:56.000 Or at least we need to be working on everything. 0.64
04:12:58.000 The fat chick tried to argue with me. 1.00
04:13:00.000 I was like, yo, chicks, we literally have had girls on our show that are average as hell that have went out with Future. 1.00
04:13:05.000 We know.
04:13:07.000 And he's smashing everything. 0.97
04:13:08.000 And it's like, average-ass chick. 1.00
04:13:10.000 Look at this girl. 1.00
04:13:11.000 Dude had Jets and all this other shit. 0.99
04:13:12.000 Hand her up. 1.00
04:13:13.000 Oh, I'm gonna cover them because I want to.
04:13:15.000 Like, bro, I'm telling you guys, average women have options like that. 1.00
04:13:18.000 That's why they don't respect most men.
04:13:20.000 That's why they behave the way they do.
04:13:21.000 That's why they're entitled to like, oh, I got options.
04:13:23.000 It's like, I mean, it's not viable options, but That's what, like, for the guys, like, yo, this is a world, we're in fucking London, we're across the country, across the pond, and it's the same prevailing issues that I've talked about forever.
04:13:37.000 I would have dropped everything if Future invited me out.
04:13:40.000 See?
04:13:40.000 I don't have a life!
04:13:41.000 Yeah, but what I'm trying to say is that, like, because I tell guys all the time, you've got to get your money on your point, become the best version of yourself, because Average chicks have access to exceptional men. 0.99
04:13:52.000 And the thing is, is that they think that they're better than you now.
04:13:54.000 This chick thought she was better than a multi-millionaire and she put her time above his. 1.00
04:13:58.000 This bitch had the audacity to say, well, my time is valuable. 1.00
04:14:01.000 Bitch, you're on a podcast with million plus subscribers. 1.00
04:14:03.000 This is a fucking... 1.00
04:14:04.000 You're lucky to get this kind of exposure, but she put herself on the same level as us. 1.00
04:14:08.000 That's crazy the entitlement women have nowadays. 1.00
04:14:11.000 It's just such a lack of humility in our generation.
04:14:14.000 It baffles me when you call women average how insulted they are.
04:14:20.000 Because it's like average, most people are average.
04:14:22.000 Most people are average.
04:14:24.000 I don't even think that's an insult.
04:14:26.000 By definition, that is a majority of people.
04:14:28.000 They probably just feel so embarrassed, like they can't take it.
04:14:32.000 You know what I've noticed though?
04:14:34.000 Dudes are way, way more okay with, if I say, bro, you're an average dude.
04:14:37.000 Yeah, I'm an average dude.
04:14:38.000 Men are totally okay with being called average, but like women have issues. 1.00
04:14:42.000 Some people aren't as thick-skinned.
04:14:43.000 I don't know.
04:14:44.000 I had nine siblings.
04:14:48.000 We just bullied each other.
04:14:51.000 Some of you have never been bullied in a show.
04:14:53.000 Bullying is good, man. 0.98
04:14:55.000 I think it's needed more, and I think, not to be an asshole, I think we need to be more honest with women, and women need to be bullied even more. 0.98
04:15:02.000 This is why girls need brothers. 1.00
04:15:03.000 Your brother bullies you, but from a point of love, and he tells you he was never going to get with you, you're fucking delusional, you're stupid, that was dumb, and girls need that shit. 1.00
04:15:13.000 They need that... 1.00
04:15:15.000 Constant reinforcement.
04:15:16.000 Constant negative reinforcement for bad behaviors.
04:15:19.000 Like, bro, this chick literally said, oh yeah, I left him because my 17-year-old brother told me.
04:15:24.000 What?
04:15:26.000 You don't listen to kids.
04:15:27.000 I knew she was, because she's been coming on for a while now, and I just knew he was, I don't know why, you could tell too, King, right?
04:15:34.000 Yeah, yeah.
04:15:34.000 We could just tell it.
04:15:36.000 Yo, you're staffing by the seat.
04:15:37.000 The thing is just like, man.
04:15:39.000 No, it's funny.
04:15:40.000 It's hilarious.
04:15:41.000 Yeah, because King's produced and so is Blessing.
04:15:44.000 So they've just seen so many people come in and out.
04:15:47.000 And London's so unique because we literally get people from all over the world.
04:15:52.000 So I've had people from Africa.
04:15:54.000 I've had people from Eastern Europe, Asia.
04:15:57.000 I can't even think of a part of the world we really haven't had people from.
04:16:01.000 I'm critical of mass immigration in other podcasts. 0.99
04:16:04.000 But in this case, it works out because I don't want to hear no more complaining from you motherfuckers. 1.00
04:16:08.000 People, yo, you just bring on Miami bimbos, bro! 1.00
04:16:11.000 Bring girls on from other places! 1.00
04:16:13.000 Okay, nigga, we're in another continent on the other side of the world, and girls are saying the same dumb shit. 1.00
04:16:17.000 I mean, we were in Colombia. 1.00
04:16:19.000 They said the same shit, too. 1.00
04:16:20.000 Yeah. 1.00
04:16:20.000 But, Sakina, you felt that she just didn't respect the guy. 1.00
04:16:24.000 She just lost respect for the dude.
04:16:25.000 Is that kind of what it came down to?
04:16:26.000 She didn't like him.
04:16:27.000 Yeah, you saw it coming from a while ago?
04:16:29.000 Oh, yeah, yeah, because I could just...
04:16:33.000 i don't know like what i notice when girls describe the guy they're with if they start with like what he does and like his resources i've noticed that's like why they're with him but if they start with something else it tends to be or like if it's like a sigh like oh yeah it's like she if she's not beaming when asked about you Yeah,
04:16:55.000 she missed a big opportunity there.
04:16:57.000 And I also think that girls that flex their guy as a status symbol tend to not really like them that much.
04:17:04.000 They more like the status of being in a relationship.
04:17:07.000 Because if you have a guy you really like, why would you want to flex him? 0.99
04:17:09.000 Then other bitches are going to try to sleep with him. 1.00
04:17:11.000 Don't advertise him. 1.00
04:17:12.000 Well, they do though.
04:17:13.000 What I've noticed is that's kind of how girls compete. 1.00
04:17:20.000 Intersexual competition.
04:17:23.000 I'll give you an example. 0.72
04:17:24.000 If a chick is super successful and graduated from Harvard and shit, she has a good paying job, but another chick is married to a dude that did all that, the girl that's married to that dude, she might have zero accomplishments, but she's going to be more respected Like, by other women for having that guy as her husband versus the girl that got her on her own, 1.00
04:17:42.000 if that makes sense. 0.63
04:17:43.000 Like, even though women will never admit that, but like, oh, you have a family?
04:17:47.000 Oh, that's your husband? 1.00
04:17:48.000 Oh, shit, that's your boyfriend? 1.00
04:17:50.000 Oh, wow. 1.00
04:17:51.000 And then you're single and you have all the same accolades, but it's like, women don't respect that shit. 1.00
04:17:55.000 I saw a woman on the subway the other day and she had like a massive engagement ring on, like real big spark, like diamond. 0.99
04:18:01.000 And it just occurred to me, it's an obvious point, but it just occurred to me, it's like this is so much about display, isn't it?
04:18:06.000 And it's so much about display to other women. 0.72
04:18:07.000 It's like, look at this one, you know, I've got him, you know?
04:18:09.000 Yeah, I tattooed mine on and it's still there.
04:18:12.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
04:18:13.000 You know, it's just like, I think, I mean, of course men do it too, right?
04:18:17.000 You got the whole term, like trophy wife or whatever, but like, but like men is like, oh, let me show off her beauty. 1.00
04:18:22.000 Like women are like, let me show off this man's status and success. 1.00
04:18:25.000 Yeah.
04:18:25.000 And it's harder to get.
04:18:27.000 So it's like, you can get a hot girl.
04:18:28.000 Like there's plenty of hot girls, but like, are there many attractive high status guys that also can like keep you in your place? 0.92
04:18:34.000 No, you know what I mean?
04:18:36.000 So, okay.
04:18:37.000 Pearl, what about you? 1.00
04:18:38.000 Damn nigga, why you always trying to... 1.00
04:18:39.000 Come on, man. 1.00
04:18:41.000 Nigga, it's 4 in the morning. 1.00
04:18:42.000 They gotta go home.
04:18:43.000 5 in the morning.
04:18:44.000 Dude, they been chilling, man.
04:18:45.000 Yeah, I can't lie.
04:18:47.000 Hold on, hold on.
04:18:48.000 I've got to be at work in an hour and a half, guys.
04:18:50.000 They've been here for us for almost 5 hours, bro.
04:18:52.000 That's not fair to them.
04:18:54.000 Might as well keep the party going now.
04:18:55.000 I mean, you might as well.
04:18:58.000 It's fine.
04:18:58.000 Okay, okay.
04:18:59.000 If they gotta go, they gotta go.
04:19:00.000 If y'all gotta go, I mean, look.
04:19:02.000 I ain't gonna take y'all off, bro. 1.00
04:19:03.000 If y'all wanna go, I'm gonna kick those other bitches off. 1.00
04:19:06.000 But if y'all wanna get off, go. 0.99
04:19:08.000 That's totally cool.
04:19:08.000 I know you guys gotta work.
04:19:09.000 But I know the people probably want some more fresh.
04:19:12.000 If the girls gotta go, y'all gotta go. 1.00
04:19:14.000 It's cool.
04:19:14.000 I ain't gonna hold it against you.
04:19:16.000 Like, you guys, the last three, cool.
04:19:18.000 I'm gonna keep y'all on. 1.00
04:19:19.000 But these other chicks, fuck them. 1.00
04:19:22.000 Up to you. 1.00
04:19:23.000 I mean, are we finishing soon?
04:19:26.000 What's the time estimate?
04:19:27.000 Are we getting some pizza?
04:19:31.000 It's fine, it's fine, it's fine.
04:19:34.000 Pro, go ahead.
04:19:35.000 Take us away.
04:19:37.000 What's the question?
04:19:39.000 Where can they find you?
04:19:40.000 Oh, where can they find me?
04:19:41.000 Okay.
04:19:42.000 I have a YouTube channel called Just Pearly Things, and I'm on Instagram, Just Pearly Things 1, and on Twitter, Pearly Things with a Z. I was on TikTok, but I was banned like seven times, so now I'm not on TikTok.
04:19:55.000 TikTok is so lame.
04:19:57.000 Yeah, this is my second Instagram too.
04:19:59.000 And yeah, I'm trying to get to 2 million subscribers soon.
04:20:02.000 I'm kind of close, so feel free to go sub. 0.99
04:20:04.000 I didn't get a chance to ask the fucking fat girl who runs the United States. 1.00
04:20:08.000 That was the question I wanted to ask her and see what she was going to say. 0.91
04:20:10.000 What did you guys think of my song?
04:20:13.000 Rao.
04:20:15.000 We're on Rumble now, aren't we?
04:20:18.000 I thought it was hilarious.
04:20:20.000 I thought it was hilarious.
04:20:21.000 You know what's so funny?
04:20:23.000 Pierce tried to grill you on it.
04:20:24.000 Yeah, I didn't really think it was that deep, but I guess it was just a freestyle.
04:20:28.000 You opened up a can of worms there.
04:20:31.000 Yeah.
04:20:31.000 Well, anyway, guys, we'll be back in Miami, I think, this week sometime.
04:20:37.000 Probably by, we'll have a show for y'all on Friday. 0.89
04:20:39.000 We're probably not going to do a show on Wednesday, because that's when we're traveling and shit.
04:20:42.000 We'll do Overwatch.
04:20:43.000 But Friday, we'll do, yeah, maybe we'll do a stream on Wednesday overnight.
04:20:47.000 Well, sorry, Overwatch.
04:20:48.000 Thursday or Wednesday, yeah.
04:20:49.000 Yeah, Thursday or Wednesday, depending on how late we get in, and then we'll do a show for y'all on Friday.
04:20:53.000 Guys, check out Troy and check out Pearlman.
04:20:56.000 They've been in the game for a bit.
04:20:57.000 Check them out.
04:20:58.000 We might have Troy again with a special guest in the future.
04:21:00.000 We're talking some things out.
04:21:02.000 You guys are going to be really happy with the guests that we're going to get on with Troy.
04:21:07.000 And next time you guys come to London, you'll be our red pill bachelors.
04:21:11.000 We'll have women compete today. 1.00
04:21:13.000 Oh really?
04:21:14.000 That'll be hilarious.
04:21:15.000 You can hand out like roses every round.
04:21:17.000 That's actually a good idea.
04:21:18.000 What do you think, Myron, just on that point before I was saying about the transactional nature of dating, do you guys think it's getting, from Miami, do you think it's getting more transactional?
04:21:26.000 Do you think it's increasing year on year?
04:21:29.000 100%.
04:21:29.000 What I've noticed is the more hot the girl, the more transactional it is.
04:21:33.000 Yeah.
04:21:34.000 Yeah.
04:21:35.000 Absolutely.
04:21:35.000 Because the hottest girls almost always monetize their beauty.
04:21:40.000 There's almost like a glass ceiling.
04:21:41.000 I'll tell you this, bro.
04:21:42.000 I have friends from all over, successful guys.
04:21:45.000 They DM chicks. 0.98
04:21:46.000 Even me recently as well.
04:21:48.000 And then it's like, oh, I'm coming to your town.
04:21:50.000 Like, let's hang out.
04:21:51.000 And then, oh yeah, I'll meet you, babe.
04:21:53.000 And it's like, hold on.
04:21:55.000 Here's a, here's a issue though.
04:21:57.000 She's like, yeah, I'll meet you, but, um, you pay for my time. 0.98
04:22:00.000 I'm like, bitch, who are you talking to? 1.00
04:22:02.000 I'm not paying for shit. 1.00
04:22:03.000 But again, that's a lot of hot girls on Instagram. 1.00
04:22:06.000 So imagine how much is happening behind the scenes in your city.
04:22:09.000 People are critical of OnlyFans, but there's a lot of girls that are like sugar babies on the low. 1.00
04:22:13.000 There's a lot of girls that sell pussy on the low. 1.00
04:22:14.000 By the way, not OnlyFans, Instagram. 1.00
04:22:17.000 It seems like the sugaring thing is almost seeping into other platforms now.
04:22:21.000 You know what I'm saying?
04:22:22.000 Snapchat.
04:22:24.000 TikTok, Instagram?
04:22:25.000 It's very difficult for you to find a girl that's attractive that doesn't monetize her beauty to some degree.
04:22:31.000 Like, it's very difficult. 0.96
04:22:32.000 Whether she's a bottle girl or a stripper or on OnlyFans or puts her fucking cash app on her fucking Instagram profile, like, very rarely do you not see a girl that doesn't monetize her beauty. 1.00
04:22:43.000 very rarely is what i've noticed especially and then you compound that with like being in an expensive city like a miami in la a london a dubai etc anytime you have hot girls in a major expensive city they're always not always but 90 percent of the time they're monetizing their beauty yeah well it's i've been blown away by how many girls i've met the last I feel like I was so sheltered before I did this show. 0.96
04:23:06.000 And how many girls I've met that are low-key on OnlyFans, doing cam work, sugar. 1.00
04:23:12.000 It's crazy.
04:23:14.000 And I was thinking in the next 10 years, I think sex work is just gonna be out in the open.
04:23:19.000 It's not taboo anymore.
04:23:20.000 It's gonna be normal.
04:23:21.000 People just shrug at it.
04:23:22.000 It's gonna be the new normal. 0.99
04:23:25.000 We brought a bunch of girls on our show that were former teachers and shit, lost their jobs. 1.00
04:23:30.000 There was a fucking bimbo lawyer that comes on our show. 1.00
04:23:33.000 She fucking quit being a lawyer, right? 1.00
04:23:36.000 I don't know if she was actually ever a lawyer, but whatever. 0.99
04:23:38.000 The point is that she quit a respectable profession to do this because They make more money, and it's easier. 1.00
04:23:45.000 You know what else I think?
04:23:46.000 I don't think having a strong father is a guarantee either, because I think it helps.
04:23:52.000 It helps, yeah.
04:23:53.000 But I don't know.
04:23:54.000 I've seen kids that are with multiple siblings, and they just turn out completely different.
04:24:00.000 I don't know.
04:24:01.000 Because that's what...
04:24:03.000 But I agree.
04:24:04.000 I think 100%, Troy, where we're headed, my future, and I will close this thing out, my prediction is I think it is going to become more transactional.
04:24:13.000 The guys that aren't going to have a transaction are the top-tier guys that are not only physically attractive, but they have their money on point, and they have framed.
04:24:19.000 They could put these women in their place, and they have what I call... 1.00
04:24:24.000 Forget the guy's name. 0.99
04:24:25.000 I want to give him credit, but he calls it being a dark gentleman, which is you have the provider traits, the chivalry traits that women like and are attracted to, but you also have the domineering, Machiavellian, asshole traits that women are aroused by. 0.89
04:24:40.000 So you're able to kind of burn the candle from both ends and keep her Yeah, and that's probably what that guy did. 0.96
04:24:47.000 That's what that girl 100% needs. 1.00
04:24:49.000 She needs a guy to tell her, like, shut the fuck up and sit home, you dumb bitch. 1.00
04:24:52.000 That's what she needs. 1.00
04:24:53.000 I mean, the other girl, I literally said, shut the fuck up. 1.00
04:24:56.000 And she was like, oh, that's hot. 1.00
04:24:57.000 That's number one.
04:24:58.000 Like, I hate that. 1.00
04:25:00.000 I wish I could be a fucking nice guy, but you can't with these girls. 1.00
04:25:03.000 You have to put your foot down. 0.99
04:25:04.000 She literally said, he doesn't have boundaries.
04:25:06.000 Translation, he lets me walk all over him.
04:25:08.000 I really like nice guys, though.
04:25:11.000 LOL. I do.
04:25:12.000 I like nice guys.
04:25:13.000 Have you tasted them?
04:25:15.000 I have.
04:25:16.000 Why are they now?
04:25:17.000 They're not there because they took advantage of the fact that I like nice guys.
04:25:20.000 Oh, so they weren't so nice after all.
04:25:22.000 Oh, fair enough.
04:25:23.000 So what I think is, it's going to be transactional for a majority of men, except for the top guys that have everything else in check.
04:25:30.000 And I agree, bro, good point.
04:25:32.000 I think sex work is going to explode even more.
04:25:34.000 So it's going to be normal.
04:25:35.000 We're going to get to a point, I think within the next 50 years, probably sooner, but where it's going to be common for a guy to say, Oh yeah, I have an OnlyFans account on the side or I do some type of XYZ professional on the side selling my sexuality and it's going to be totally socially acceptable.
04:25:50.000 Tusk was telling me something about girls billing guys for their time. 0.98
04:25:53.000 You know, they turn up on the day and if she doesn't like him then she's like sending him a bill and some of these guys are actually paying the fucking bill. 0.99
04:25:58.000 Yeah. 1.00
04:25:59.000 Shit like that, you know? 1.00
04:26:00.000 They're so lazy. 1.00
04:26:02.000 I was brought up in a family where you just worked hard.
04:26:07.000 Didn't matter man or woman, you work hard at things and you're passionate about it and that's what you're supposed to do.
04:26:12.000 But it's like these chicks, they just don't want to do anything. 1.00
04:26:16.000 There's greed as well.
04:26:17.000 I don't know.
04:26:19.000 It's the easy way out in a sense, OnlyFans.
04:26:21.000 You're independent.
04:26:22.000 You make money.
04:26:23.000 You make your own schedule.
04:26:25.000 I don't have to go to work. 1.00
04:26:26.000 Fuck it. 1.00
04:26:26.000 Just do it. 1.00
04:26:27.000 You know, also, I've noticed, because you mentioned something good about working hard or whatever. 0.99
04:26:32.000 If girls don't play sports or some kind of activity in their teenage years, I've also noticed that they also do dumb shit and become hoes. 1.00
04:26:42.000 If they weren't, like, if they didn't play it and, like, take it seriously. 0.98
04:26:44.000 Yeah.
04:26:45.000 Like, you know, obviously, you know, athlete chicks be hoes as well. 1.00
04:26:49.000 But it kind of... 0.99
04:26:51.000 It limits it a bit when they've had, like, something to occupy them from doing dumb shit in their formative years. 0.96
04:26:57.000 Yeah. 0.97
04:26:58.000 Man, it all holds, man.
04:27:02.000 Majority are.
04:27:02.000 Majority are.
04:27:03.000 There's some good girls out there, but majority are. 1.00
04:27:05.000 Good.
04:27:05.000 I'm gonna bounce.
04:27:06.000 Yeah!
04:27:06.000 Is that all right?
04:27:07.000 Yeah, we're gonna close out.
04:27:08.000 Shout me on reetqri__tq on my Instagram.
04:27:13.000 But thank you, guys.
04:27:15.000 Cool.
04:27:15.000 No worries.
04:27:15.000 Thanks for coming.
04:27:16.000 You're really cool.
04:27:17.000 Thank you.
04:27:17.000 And you guys, thanks.
04:27:18.000 Thanks a lot.
04:27:18.000 Well, nobody else has anything, right?
04:27:19.000 Appreciate it.
04:27:20.000 Alright, we'll just close it out, man.
04:27:22.000 Guys, check out everybody below and we'll catch you guys on Friday's episode, maybe Overwatch.
04:27:27.000 We love y'all.
04:27:28.000 I know this was a long one.
04:27:29.000 Hope you guys enjoyed it.
04:27:29.000 Peace!