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00:14:37.000I flew special ops for five years and I did counterintelligence for two.
00:14:41.000I host a bunch of charity events with influencers in Los Angeles and Las Vegas and here in Miami.
00:14:46.000We're doing an animal rescue on Saturday.
00:14:48.000And then I'm also the creator of the Men of Action mentoring course.
00:14:52.000It's a performance coaching course for men.
00:14:55.000And then Rolo and I host a show together called Access Vegas, which is a show basically about statistics, socioeconomics, and evolutionary psychology.
00:15:54.000Well, the book basically, I mean, there's a line there, but if I'm going to summarize it, it's basically guys not simping on women that don't reciprocate.
00:17:32.000If the economy, if the porn economy, let's say men stop paying money, it would go down like this because women don't typically pay for pornography.
00:17:40.000Let's talk about all your OnlyFans ladies that you manage, right?
00:17:45.000What percentage of the clientele is men versus women?
00:18:09.000Exactly, so a man is going to pay for footage that I would pay Steph, but if you did that, then you would be the girl that would get more attention.
00:18:18.000You would not be one of the women who deserve less.
00:18:40.000It makes me curious to want to know why you have a title like that.
00:18:43.000The reality is that most women do deserve less when they deal with men because most women typically use guys for other things outside of romance, if we're going to be honest here.
00:18:52.000There's an entire economy predicated on women leveraging their sexuality towards men for money.
00:19:01.000And the guy doesn't really get anything in return.
00:19:03.000The girl's getting all the money and everything else like that for the imagination or the illusion, but the reality is they don't get anything.
00:19:09.000So women are winning the battle when it comes to that.
00:19:11.000By the way, we're not blaming women for winning the battle.
00:19:13.000We're telling men to stop losing the battle.
00:19:19.000Yeah, I really do believe men have an upper power of it, like relationship-wise.
00:19:25.000Because in a day, women do everything for men too, just like men do it for women.
00:19:28.000Stephanie, I bet you if we went to Walmart and you saw the guy stocking shelves and I asked you who's fucking him, you'd be like, oh, wait a second, nobody.
00:19:36.000There's like maybe 35% of men right now under the age of 30 have zero sexual partners.
00:19:43.000And now OnlyFans is a multi-billion dollar company.
00:19:51.000The point is, these are socioeconomic truths that are indicative of a problem where there's a few men having a lot of sex and a lot of men having none.
00:20:00.000And that number of men having none is increasing.
00:20:02.000And part of the reason why it's increasing is because of the sedation, which includes OnlyFans.
00:23:18.000With volume and having to talk to a lot of girls.
00:23:20.000Yeah, I mean, Ideal Girl is a girl that's quiet, submissive, friendly, in shape, not difficult to be around, not obnoxious, follows my lead.
00:23:29.000I respectfully disagree, but that's fine.
00:28:28.000As a photographer and as a makeup artist, I work with all kinds of women all the time, professionally.
00:28:34.000And I can take anybody that's a five and put good hair, makeup, clothes that fit their body style right and take flattering pictures of them and connect with them in a way that I can bring out their inner nine and make that to where everybody else can see it.
00:28:50.000So it's sort of like that whole range because we're these morphable creatures.
00:28:55.000That, you know, there's a lot of flexibility in that, and it's about pulling out that beauty.
00:29:26.000But I think all kinds of women, if they're at least five, because if they're lower than five, if they view themselves as less than a five, if I photograph them and paint them with beautiful everything, they'll never see themselves as anything other than bottom of the barrel.
00:29:39.000And they won't even come to me because they couldn't imagine they'd be mortified of getting sexy pictures taken of them.
00:29:44.000So, one out of ten, what do you rate yourself?
00:29:47.000Well, I'm amazing inside, so I could rate myself a little higher.
00:37:30.000So what is it about marriage you want to, if you want to like remove the state and all of that, like I'm a libertarian enough, I understand the interest in that and not paying child support, which is a point you brought up, which is strange because you don't seem like a guy who would want to have kids and not pay for them.
00:37:50.000But you singled out child support, which I thought was strange because you just seem like somebody that, like, if it was earned, that you would do your fair share.
00:37:59.000And so that seemed like a strange point to single out.
00:38:02.000For me, it's more like, I don't mind taking care of my kid if I have one, but being told to do it is different.
00:38:07.000You mean with the full power of the state, which I understand why you wouldn't want a knife to your throat.
00:38:42.000When you brought up thinking that Colombia was more fair about the terms, what was it you thought was more fair about the terms of marriage somewhere that wasn't America, specifically Colombia, just because you picked that?
00:38:54.000It's just freedom because obviously here in the West, especially America, we're held to the state and their regulations and Colombia is more relaxed.
00:39:02.000You could do what you want pretty much and you're not held to any standards pretty much other than...
00:41:35.000Let me go ahead and I should probably preface this for the ladies.
00:41:37.000A high value guy will just, and I think we've all come to this agreement here.
00:41:41.000It's a guy who earns, we'll say, $100,000 a year, bare minimum, right?
00:41:46.000And he's respected by his peers, well-respected, has a network of other individuals that are also high-value, has a skill set, and he's competent.
00:41:56.000And he's useful to society and he garners respect.
00:41:58.000That's what a high-value guy would be.
00:42:00.000He walks into a room and his reputation precedes him in a positive light.
00:42:02.000And men want to be him, and women want him.
00:43:37.000So there are a lot of girls that are attractive and there's a lot of girls that have a job.
00:43:41.000Do you understand how that wouldn't necessarily make you, just not to insult you, it's just comparative to, you know, the average of the population.
00:44:18.000Because it's always good to have a person that's going to like balance you out in a way that you can be you can buy yourself everything you can get everything okay that's great that it balances out but why do you deserve him is the point because I'm a high valuable woman what makes you a high valuable woman The way I am,
00:44:38.000my personality, the way I think, I'm very knowledgeable.
00:44:41.000Can you be a little bit more descriptive?
00:49:13.000I have to be inspired to do anything and a relationship requires so much from you every day to just keep choosing the same person.
00:49:21.000And if he's somebody I can admire and fix my eyes upon and feel like they're some sort of guiding light that leads me into being the kind of person I want to be, that's the person I want.
00:49:33.000Yeah, I understand that, what you want, but that's not what I asked.
00:49:36.000What I asked is what makes you qualify for one of these guys?
00:49:39.000Okay, I didn't think it was unfair to establish what that was to me.
00:49:44.000Because of my willingness to do that and seek that out and recognize that in another person makes me deserving of it.
00:49:52.000And also the long-term commitment that that requires, that makes me deserving of it.
00:49:57.000And also I am a person that continues to learn every day and keep growing and pushing myself, which is why I want somebody that leads me like that.
00:50:05.000So willingness to recognize value, is that correct?
00:50:09.000Willingness to recognize those strengths and characteristics in that person because most people won't even recognize that in somebody.
00:54:09.000So it's very interesting because a lot of you guys gave very similar, you know, accolades here as to why you deserve a high value guy.
00:54:17.000And my thing is, if all of you are offering the same thing, what really makes you deserve a high-value guy when clearly he's diversified himself from the other men?
00:54:25.000There's definitely girls that don't deserve one.
00:54:52.000Actually, no, I think Natasha had the best answer to be fair.
00:54:55.000Natasha does make mid-six figures and then didn't try to use that to say that she gets a high value man because she makes more money than most men do.
00:55:04.000She didn't try to say that that was the case.
00:56:53.000Is there anything that for a woman who has, I guess you called it be naked for everybody to see, is there anything women can do to redeem themselves to high value men or for transcending insight?
00:57:07.000Can I say in yours, it's a little different context because you are an actual playmate.
00:57:11.000That's different than doing OnlyFans where you're doing guy-girl content with multiple different dudes.
00:57:16.000By the way, I'm not trying to be judgmental, but when you do guy-girl content with multiple different dudes, you did a centerfold.
00:57:22.000When you do guy-girl content with multiple different dudes, it's going to narrow the pool of men that you have to choose from because there's nothing, and I discussed this the other day on my IG page, We went into a debate.
00:57:33.000There's nothing insecure about a man not wanting to see the future mother of his children being fucked by other men.
00:57:41.000And it also takes a very high, confident man not to cut you off.
00:57:44.000I just want to say, to be a girl, that does only fan.
00:57:48.000Right, Steph, but do you understand what I'm saying?
00:57:50.000Your personal self-worth, you're probably mid-seven figures at some point because of all the people you manage and what you do on OF. I'm not denying that.
00:57:58.000The point I'm trying to make is, you understand there's a certain group of men, and this is the debate that I've had before.
00:58:03.000These guys are going to be a little bit more judgmental.
00:58:05.000I'm trying to have this argument with no moral judgment whatsoever, just a statistical argument.
00:58:09.000The number of men that you're going to be able to choose from that are high, six feet tall, six pack abs, make six figures a year.
00:58:16.000The number of men that you have to choose from already, that number that I just said is 0.38% of men, according to the U.S. Census.
00:58:22.000Now it gets even smaller because, Steph, now what that guy has to do is compete with all the other men who have put their penis inside of you on camera.
00:59:09.000The problem was the question of you wanting a high-value man, but I think you're conflating your personal self-worth, like the fact that you're an entrepreneur versus your sexual market value.
00:59:19.000And then the other thing I think you're conflating is your ability to have sex or at least to attract a man of high net worth and then your ability to keep him.
00:59:33.000And a lot of times a woman will have sex with an NBA power forward and then confuse that for being, I deserve to now marry an NBA power forward who isn't going to cheat on me.
00:59:41.000And those two things don't necessarily happen.
00:59:42.000In other words, ladies, it's not a flex to fuck a famous guy.
00:59:55.000It's a way to look out for you, too, because like, what if you miss your fertile years and then later you're like dying alone because you had this delusion that you were going to get this man that never came?
01:00:19.000Well, first off, what he was saying between comparing...
01:00:23.000Most women will conflate their sexual market value with their personal worth.
01:00:27.000And the reason they do that is because from about 18 to about 28 years old, that's when women are at their peak sexual market value agency.
01:01:09.000Their sexual market value and their agency during that time with their personal worth.
01:01:15.000So once they get to the end, when they get to be about 29, 30, 31 years old, and they're kind of sliding out of their competitive years, that's when they're wondering, well, where's my worth?
01:01:28.000Where's the guy that's supposed to marry me and take me into the promised land, right?
01:01:31.000Where are we going to go in the long term?
01:01:33.000So when you have spent We're good to go.
01:01:59.000You're an insecure dude if you have a problem with me advertising myself even after we're married on Instagram because that's just how I am and that's how I make my money and it's becoming even more difficult right now for women to sort of separate that their sexual market value from their personal worth which they will have to but it's made more difficult because of that digital footprint and so guys see that And they go,
01:02:22.000hmm, do I want to get involved with that?
01:02:24.000Or do I want to find a girl who is younger who doesn't have quite the same digital footprint?
01:02:38.000If you're involved in any type of sex work, whether it's doing something like softcore porn all the way up to being a playmate or whatever, that is always going to follow you.
01:02:47.000You're always going to be labeled a sex worker to some degree.
01:02:49.000You're always going to be sexualized and your future husband is probably going to have a point of potential with that.
01:02:53.000And your future kids are going to see it and your future grandchildren are going to see it.
01:02:57.000It is always going to impact your ability to find a man to take you seriously.
01:03:00.000And I tell girls all the time, if you're going to get into anything where you're monetizing off your body, Be prepared to potentially stay single for a long period of time because men value these things and they look at it.
01:03:10.000No one wants to walk into a room and have every guy there know who his girl is and seen her naked.
01:03:15.000Would a high value guy, would he be the kind of guy who would be okay with that?
01:04:33.000Are any of those attorney generals naked on the internet at any point?
01:04:36.000Well, no, but they do care what I say.
01:04:38.000So like I'm involved in these conversations.
01:04:40.000So maybe they're not going to marry me.
01:04:41.000But what if I totally transcend what I've done like that?
01:04:46.000It's always going to be a dark cloud over your head, and it's always going to be, oh, you got this opportunity because you were involved in certain types of...
01:04:53.000You're never going to get the full respect.
01:04:55.000And this is the thing I talked about on the podcast before.
01:04:57.000One thing about being a pretty girl that sucks is that you're never going to be valued on your actual meritocracy of your skill set or your brain.
01:05:03.000You're always going to be valued on the way that you look, which sucks for smart girls that are hot.
01:05:07.000So would you advise me to be anonymous on the internet and go have serious conversations if I want to engage in serious conversations?
01:05:17.000Well, but if I don't use my name, why would they be able to do that?
01:05:19.000If you impersonated yourself, if you went and made a new account, if you made a social media account where you pretended to be male, do you think you would have the same effect on the leaders of state and everything?
01:06:34.000Well, so you think that there's absolutely nothing.
01:06:37.000There's nothing in this world I could do or achieve for people to forget conservative-minded, high-value men to put it in the rearview mirror that I post for Playboy?
01:06:51.000Okay, you do realize that there's probably another girl that looks just like you, doesn't have a Playboy background, younger, conservative as well.
01:07:14.000I don't think women understand that the math doesn't math for you guys a lot of the times when it comes to getting a higher status guy.
01:07:18.000You're stripping out all the personal chemistry that happens and things where the unique experiences you bond together over dates, all these things.
01:07:27.000You're stripping the humanity out of dating at all.
01:07:30.000Why is it that women want to use humanity and my personality and all this other stuff, but if a guy was ugly, you would never give him a chance.
01:07:37.000I would happily be with somebody that was unattractive to the mainstream society.
01:07:41.000I do not care at all what you look like.
01:07:54.000Women get the privilege of a man coming up to them and they're able to openly reject them right there and you see your suitors come to you.
01:07:59.000On the other hand though, women don't see all the times that they get rejected.
01:08:02.000You might get rejected because you're being too loud at a club.
01:08:04.000You might get rejected because your internet profile sucks.
01:08:07.000But you guys don't see the hundreds if not thousands of men that disqualified you immediately.
01:08:11.000So women don't understand a lot of the times that they're getting rejected covertly.
01:08:15.000They're not even significant data to me because they're not a match.
01:08:19.000So I'm talking about people that are a match to me that do approach me that are fine with my digital footprint.
01:08:26.000And I'm telling you, most higher status guys are always going to have a point of contention with that digital footprint.
01:08:32.000I think the way to meet it in the middle, like when we had the Destiny debate before, it's a percentage.
01:08:38.000Would you at least admit that it does push the percentage out towards the fat tail?
01:09:20.000So why would a guy take you seriously when he has another girl that's 10 years younger that doesn't have that background?
01:09:25.000It's going to go with the younger girl.
01:09:26.000I guess it matters what you've done with that 10 years as far as your personal development and your personal conduct with them and the maturity that you bring.
01:09:33.000Okay, so Jess, so here's the thing, right?
01:09:35.000So my girlfriend graduated from high school early because she's really smart.
01:09:51.000Well, and how many thousands of women have, just like everybody at this table, how many thousands of women did you have to meet and go through to find somebody like her?
01:09:59.000I agree, she's an anomaly, and you did amazing.
01:10:43.000Because of the things that I love about her that are, you know, she's funny, she makes a lot of money, all this thing, and she's a great person to have a conversation with.
01:10:48.000Those things don't necessarily equate to the femininity, the loyalty, and the fact that she brings me peace.
01:11:09.000Ladies and gentlemen, let me make this extremely clear, because I don't think women understand this, so I'm going to just go ahead and say it.
01:11:14.000Men don't give a fuck about how much money you make, your status, your title, what you do for a living, what you've done.
01:11:19.000Like, guys don't care about that shit.
01:11:21.000They care about a girl that's going to be submissive, attractive, fit, not embarrassing in public, hot, not a hoe.
01:11:54.000So why is a man going to come in and deal with an independent woman that doesn't need them when you can go and get a girl that's younger, hotter, that is going to be dependent on them because at the end of the day, men do want to provide for a woman.
01:12:18.000You've ever heard the phrase, the squeaky door gets the oil?
01:12:21.000If you see someone able-bodied walking down the street with a bunch of grocery bags and they're in shape and they're doing it on their own, We're good to go.
01:12:42.000That's masculine energy that a lot of guys don't care about.
01:12:44.000Let me throw something out here right quick, because I just had a conversation about this earlier this afternoon today.
01:12:52.000When I say, when I draw out women, they say, you know, I don't need a man, but I want a man.
01:12:58.000I hear that constantly on every single one of these shows on Access Vegas.
01:13:41.000We have been saying that since the 1970s, since Betty Friedan and Gloria Steinem and militant feminism all the way back there.
01:13:49.000And we're still talking about it today.
01:13:51.000Half the girls at this table wouldn't even be able to tell you where they heard that from because it's been so endemic across four or five generations up to this point.
01:13:59.000When I say men need women and women need men, It's not just like, oh, well, we need them to build roads or anything.
01:14:06.000No, it's because we are complements to each other.
01:14:09.000We are better together than we are apart.
01:14:11.000But when you say, I don't need a man, I want a man, what that says to me is that you're just this androgynous thing that doesn't have any needs outside of yourself, and you're just this self-fulfilling entity.
01:14:23.000What guy wants to get with a woman who doesn't?
01:14:27.000Does that sound like loyalty comes along with it?
01:16:39.000Before you answer this question, real quick, I just want to say, just to finish this point with needing and wanting a man, whenever a girl says, I want a man, you already lost because that tells me that you want a guy just to be there to fulfill some kind of thing.
01:16:50.000When you need a man, you're going to behave better.
01:16:52.000You're going to do everything in your power to keep that man.
01:16:53.000But when girls say, I want a guy, it's kind of just a novelty thing.
01:16:56.000And that's why I always say girls typically, they don't...
01:16:59.000They want to get married, but they don't necessarily want to be a wife.
01:17:01.000They want the ceremony, but they don't want to go ahead and take the actual plunge and do what they're supposed to do to be a wife.
01:17:31.000I love it when girls say dumb shit, like I'll provide for a guy, I make the money.
01:17:40.000You guys want to know why men don't give a fuck about how much money you make?
01:17:44.000Because it doesn't matter how much money you make because you're never going to support me Anyway, that's why no one cares about your money because you will not provide for me from a long-term standpoint.
01:19:37.000Would it make sense for me to never shower, never cut my hair, move on with my parents, start smoking weed all day, and eat Cheetos all the time and gain weight?
01:19:56.000My point is, if I'm doing all these things that make me less attractive, wouldn't I be stupid to try to go ahead and attract women when I'm doing everything in my power to not be attractive?
01:21:37.000Why should a man have to go out to the world, earn a living, get beat up every single day by society, then come and have to handle his woman?
01:22:27.000Women have all the same rights and privileges as men, if not more.
01:22:30.000And on top of that, women are able to dig into the point that they're a lady and be treated like a lady, which is preferential treatment in itself.
01:22:36.000What if I want to be treated with respect?
01:22:39.000If you look ugly, they don't treat you with respect.
01:23:45.000Women live a way easier life because you guys are able to still enjoy the same rights and privileges as men while simultaneously being able to be treated like a lady, which is an inherent disadvantage to men.
01:24:49.000So I understand your point, because I've talked about this with my guy friends, and it really surprises me how little you care about how much a woman makes, her profession, her status.
01:25:01.000And you were talking about wanting to be needed.
01:25:16.000A woman's only a gold digger if she doesn't reciprocate value.
01:25:20.000So if you're providing for her and giving her this certain lifestyle, she needs to reciprocate and give you back some type of value in exchange, right?
01:28:23.000Do you think at any point that these things would come because of culture, because the people in the West are this way, or the people in the East are this way, or do you think it's completely genetic and it would be across all homo sapiens that men would care more about body count than women?
01:28:36.000Do you think it's a cultural thing or do you think it's genetic?
01:29:40.000Listen, so the thing is, the point that you're trying to make is, my point is, in every society throughout history, men have cared more about body accounts than women.
01:29:48.000And the reason why is not because of some insecurity that men have, that for some reason the men that you talk to don't have it.
01:29:54.000It is because throughout history, we have the burden of paternity uncertainty, and women do not.
01:29:59.000When the baby comes out of you, you always know it's yours, and we don't always know it's ours.
01:30:04.000And so because of that, that's why the majority of men are going to care more about the number of men you've been with than the number of women we've been with.
01:30:12.000Because in this situation, one of the things that happens is the likelihood, and there are studies that show this, if you've been with more men before you were married, the likelihood of you cheating on me is higher, and then my paternity uncertainty is higher.
01:30:30.000But do you understand what you're saying?
01:30:31.000What I'm saying is, often what we'll get, the argument we'll get back is, these men shouldn't care that I have sex with multiple other partners on OnlyFans and sell it.
01:30:39.000And the reason why they care is because they're insecure.
01:30:42.000There's nothing insecure about a man not wanting you to have videos of you having sex with another man.
01:31:56.000That's not icing on the cake, but that's not the primary reason that guys are attracted to you.
01:32:01.000So a high-value guy, for whatever definition that ends up being, will be just as happy with a girl who's the sandwich artist at Subway as she is with a girl who makes, you know, half a million dollars a year, as long as she passes the boner test, as long as she is attractive,
01:32:16.000as long as she has those qualities, feminine qualities.
01:32:19.000The problem that I think that women, when they get into, like, I don't know.
01:32:46.000So what I think we're teaching women today is that the things that make you more masculine, which is I got to get the bag, I have to basically be the man that I want to marry because I don't know if I'm ever going to find that guy because we live in uncertain times and nobody can trust these guys.
01:33:02.000Right now, you're betting on the guy that you're with, even.
01:33:05.000He doesn't make as much money as you, but you're investing in him.
01:33:09.000You're wondering why these guys don't find the fact that you have an education, you have money, you have done all these things to ensure your long-term security.
01:33:18.000You don't understand why that's not as attractive as, say, more feminine qualities.
01:33:23.000It's because those qualities that you find attractive in a guy...
01:34:32.000That would make a man very attractive, but it doesn't make a woman very attractive because you've invested in more masculine traits as opposed to getting in touch with your feminine traits.
01:34:40.000And that's the problem that I run into when women say, Rolo, where's my man?
01:34:50.000How come I'm not at the top of my game right now?
01:34:54.000It's because you've turned yourself into the man that you want to marry.
01:34:57.000The guys who would want to get with you, who have something that you would consider equal to you, they're not looking for you.
01:35:03.000They're looking for the 24-year-old or the 23-year-old because she has less baggage, I guess, in that respect.
01:35:12.000So when I'm asked this, they'll say, so what do I have to do?
01:35:16.000And I will say, get in touch with your feminine, find some way to sort of emphasize those feminine traits.
01:35:21.000And that sounds like dumbing yourself down because you spent pretty much most of your life trying to build your accomplishments that you find valuable, but they're not attraction traits for a guy.
01:35:34.000Why do you think more women don't recognize that modern feminism was a sabotage of their life?
01:35:39.000Because they're too busy fucking being told how hot and awesome they are right now.
01:35:43.000Because it's easy and empowering, I think.
01:36:28.000They're targeting women, even though their consumer base is men, which is foolish, but they do that because they know women are easier to trick to purchase things.
01:36:36.000And women don't really do well with the truth.
01:36:38.000Have I told every single one of you guys, none of you are a 10.
01:36:40.000All you ladies over 30 are going to have a significantly harder time finding a man.
01:36:50.000You guys are all going to look at me and call me an angry misogynist and hate me.
01:36:53.000But we lie to women because there's more money in lying to women than telling them the truth.
01:36:57.000What do you think about, thanks to democracy, that all the women that you won't marry are selling you into chains?
01:37:10.000The only reason women need the state to step in and support them is because men stop supporting them and that's the natural deterioration of what happened with the dissolution of marriage.
01:37:26.000Like, don't you want to tell women, yes, there are things you can do to redeem yourself because they might get a mid-level man that at least then you can stay free.
01:38:56.000Since 1971, when women, well, women already have the right to vote, but when they started getting more and more into the workforce between 1965 and 1975, you can see when women enter the workforce and they get after Title IX right around 1971 was a really hell of a year.
01:39:12.000But if you look at the stats for mean wages, they flatline.
01:39:16.000But productivity skyrockets right then.
01:39:19.000So it's like basically free labor and free money for people.
01:39:24.000Controversial take because you mentioned voting and all this other stuff.
01:39:26.000I think a woman's vote should be two women for one guy's vote.
01:39:43.000Women overwhelmingly vote Democrat and they vote for communitarian-type laws.
01:39:47.000So, if anything, I would say the reason why two women's votes should count is one is because, number one, women don't enter the Selective Service.
01:39:54.000So you guys have no military burden like men do.
01:39:56.000So you think that we should have twice the power to vote you into war to go, John?
01:40:13.000I'm sorry, but I feel like harder work is seeming to make men a little bit dumber because they're using their bodies so much they're not using their brains.
01:40:43.000All the infrastructure that you enjoy in the first world, whether it's sewage, power, the roads, etc., that was all built and created by men.
01:42:07.000You have an issue where you want to get involved in the conversation, which I applaud that, but if you're going You need to actually break something of substance and make a point versus going off a random tangent that doesn't make sense that's incorrect 99% of the time.
01:53:36.000To be honest, I didn't even think about it, and then people started bringing it up, and then she was beating herself up so much about it that Angie here and then Rolo talked her out of it or whatever.
01:54:14.000You should see what he says to fresh, bro.
01:54:18.000Michael Adkins goes, so Jessica Vaughn's question, maybe a Christian man might, but even a Christian who would be able to look past her past, would she consider him high value?
01:54:28.000Oh, you're saying the argument here is if the guy can look past her past.
01:54:33.000Ladies, have you ever done something where you felt like, why is this guy choosing me?
01:54:36.000You've done something fucked up in the past and you're like, why?
01:54:39.000An extreme example, I don't know if you remember Karma Carmen.
01:54:42.000This girl has, you know what Karma Carmen is.
01:54:44.000She's like, fucked all these dudes and she had sex with three dudes the same day she met her husband and then talked about it and the whole time she's like, why is this guy following me around?
01:54:52.000Obviously, that's not what you guys are doing.
01:54:53.000But my point is, have you ever had that feeling, Jessica, where you're like, why is this guy choosing me?
01:55:15.000You've never dated a guy, you gave a guy a chance who you thought was a loser previously, and then while you're dating him, you're like, why is this guy choosing me?
01:55:32.000If AI being the new bubble in finance, someone started an app that scans all these OnlyFans accounts, pictures, maybe just profile, and can find out if the girls you're talking to have been on OnlyFans or other platforms.
01:57:14.000We have here Flatbush6 says, question, if a woman's sexual past doesn't matter and they're so comfortable within their beautiful 304 skin, why is there such a backlash about the new freaking neat documentary coming out?
01:57:27.000They don't want the world to know where they were holes in their 20s.
02:00:47.000No, no, I was just wondering, so you're mother and father, they were born and raised in Mexico, and then are you the only child, or what do you...
02:11:07.000I'm more interested in why you now don't think you want to be in a relationship because you're doing OnlyFans.
02:11:14.000When I was with him, yes it is and personally I myself wouldn't want to date someone who does OnlyFans if they're doing solo content that's fine.
02:17:54.000Now, have you been in relationships that you thought was going to go somewhere?
02:17:58.000Or have you just pretty much played the field up until now and you're like, holy shit, I'm 35?
02:18:03.000How is it different for you now at 35 than it was, say, at 25?
02:18:07.000I've been in multiple long-term relationships, and they were great.
02:18:11.000And so that's the yardstick that I use to compare to the people in the future, the people that I meet in present time.
02:18:17.000So I know what real love and companionship is, and I know me at my best.
02:18:22.000But I have to have admiration for somebody, and a lot of times people are just so out of the habit of that being a fixture of what they do, and they're happy to You know, act like idiots in front of me.
02:18:37.000And that just, like, just degrades all the attraction that I have at present for them.
02:18:42.000And so that's something that I want, even if I have to spend less time with them.
02:18:46.000So maybe I could just see them at their best and their baseline being better than other people.
02:21:00.000I would say when a man has more options, because, you know, for example, he said that he's like a high-value man, so I'm sure he has more options.
02:21:10.000And look, he went and cheated, and that was the end of his relationship.
02:22:37.000Because I'm Michael Sartain's girlfriend.
02:22:44.000Because when a man has options, it's not really, like, it honestly, like, self-conscious, or subconsciously, for a woman, like, when a man has more women around him, it's more attractive.
02:22:55.000Like, if a woman has a lot of men around her, I don't necessarily think any guy finds that attractive.
02:23:04.000What do you think it hurts the relationship more, if a woman has options or a man?
02:23:07.000I think only because I've only ever been a woman.
02:23:10.000I would say it's more problematic if I have more options because I naturally my attention just pulls away and I'm not invested and I know my ability to be like obsessed and fully present is my superpower.
02:23:22.000So it's more of a problem if I have better options.
02:25:16.000The problem is, it's not about you talking too much.
02:25:18.000It's about you talk without listening, which then leads to talking too much because you didn't actually understand what was being asked or said.
02:25:24.000So you asked the question and I didn't pay attention.
02:25:55.000I mean definitely social media and then also I do agree that because women get more attention they tend to think they're more attractive than they are so just generally feeling like you're more attractive than you are.
02:27:24.000If you were in a relationship with a guy that you actually liked and he told you, hey, I don't want you on social media, would it be a problem?
02:27:53.000Well, if they wanted me to stop shooting with guys, I wouldn't even shoot if I was dating someone with guys so they wouldn't have to ask me that.
02:28:42.000As stated by you earlier, you said that women get most of their options by social media.
02:28:46.000So wouldn't it make sense from a guy's perspective to be practical to limit a woman's options and keep the relationship strong that she would need to limit that social media usage?
02:30:47.000I think that men are going to respond to a DM or shoot DMs too.
02:30:50.000So I guess, like, what's the difference?
02:30:52.000Because one we call cheating and one we call advertising.
02:30:56.000Yeah, I mean, are men and women the same to be held by the same standard that you're trying to say right now of, he's got to delete his IG if I delete mine?
02:31:03.000On it being the biggest dating app in the world, I think it does go two ways.
02:31:06.000Do you think men get the same amount of attention on Instagram that women do?
02:31:46.000You need to be like in all scrambled mode right now to try and get a guy.
02:31:50.000Like you shouldn't be adding these caveats.
02:31:52.000I'm just wondering what his formula is about the significance because he's saying they're not equal things.
02:31:57.000No, what I'm saying is that, like, going back to her thing, she's saying, well, can't you trust me?
02:32:01.000And what I'm saying is that I can trust a woman to be a woman, which is erratic, emotional, heavily controlled by what their friends think and influenced by their friends and what society thinks.
02:32:19.000So my thing is, as a guy, sometimes I have to be the authority and protect the woman from herself.
02:32:24.000Having an Instagram as a woman or putting yourself out there Advertising.
02:32:28.000Advertising yourself is not conducive to the relationship.
02:32:31.000Now you're saying, well, you should turn yours off too.
02:32:33.000Well, number one, I'm not going to get as much attention as you.
02:32:35.000And quite frankly, number two, if I were to have sex with another girl, it's not going to have the same negative ramifications as you having sex with another guy.
02:32:41.000I can hook up with another girl and still love this chick, but if a chick hooks up with another guy, it's over.
02:32:47.000Let me throw something out there because I think this tags on to what you're talking about.
02:32:50.000So when you're dating, guys have to sort of be the pitchman.
02:32:55.000They have to say, here's why you should date me.
02:33:16.000So it's like, I'll just have to look good and I have to wait until the pitchmen come to me because my brochure or my advertising is what's drawing them into my store, which is me, so that we can form a relationship in some way.
02:33:27.000So once that relationship has been formed, if that guy is still pitching himself, he's still out there trying to flirt with the waitresses or he's still trying to get with other women, when he's in a relationship with you, we call that cheating.
02:33:42.000The guy's out there, he's two-timing me kind of thing.
02:33:46.000But what we don't say is we don't say, women, okay, for a man, if I am going to stop pitching myself or selling myself on the sexual market, why do we not tell women to stop advertising themselves on the sexual market?
02:33:59.000Because right now we make that very, very easy for women.
02:34:02.000So through Instagram, through dating apps and everything else.
02:34:06.000When a guy says, hey, look, I have a problem with you being on Instagram.
02:34:10.000I have a problem with you advertising yourself.
02:34:12.000And even if it's OnlyFans and you're not having sex, you're just having solo stuff, you're still advertising your sexual availability to other guys.
02:34:21.000So you can say it's purity or whatever, but what it boils down to is that it's closed on my end and it's open on your end because I'm no longer allowed to pitch myself to other women, but you are allowed to advertise yourself to other men.
02:34:34.000Therefore, it is open on your end and it is closed on mine.
02:34:56.000I think to add a little bit of context, because you and I have been friends for 16 years, your social media is private, and you post pictures of your family.
02:36:09.000So my thing is, why not ask how this would help me with my man?
02:36:13.000For example, it's the language, it's the wording.
02:36:15.000You're asking why do I have to do it versus like, how does it make sense for me and my man to become better?
02:36:19.000And my thing is, if Instagram is going to be your, I guess, man or I guess your option, if your man doesn't want it, why is it even a question?
02:37:23.000I just want to point out that, like, you know, because we've talked about this before, because I want to hold men accountable, too.
02:37:28.000If a dude is actually fucking abusive to you, then you can leave behind this shell where a woman is going to overreact in this other direction.
02:37:47.000Again, if you're going to be open and have lots of different female partners be open about it, I don't think you should lie about that either.
02:37:52.000I understand where you're coming from.
02:38:58.000To your point, yeah, I've never been through that, so I can't really speak on that per se, but ultimately speaking, if I love myself all the way, that's going to not even be a factor of me staying.
02:39:21.000Obviously, if somebody put their hands on me, I'm not going to stay in a fucking relationship with them.
02:39:24.000I'm probably going to break their jaw.
02:39:25.000But that's the situation in this stance.
02:39:29.000If we as men have so little integrity that we need to abuse women in order to keep them, yeah, this is the aftermath of what's left behind.
02:41:00.000And it's just not a good situation to be.
02:41:02.000That's why I tell guys all the time, you've got to make more money than your girl.
02:41:03.000You've got to have more status than your girl.
02:41:05.000You've got to be better than your girl in every single way so that she can actually look up to you and be happy to be with you.
02:41:09.000Women in leadership roles, it's terrible.
02:41:11.000You never want to, you know, I'm really big on never pedestalize your girl because when you pedestalize your girl, women don't know how to behave when they have the leverage in a relationship.
02:41:21.000But it's in your nature to be that way because when you're with an adequate man or a man that isn't competent, What do you do?
02:41:27.000You end up being bitchy and annoying and rude and everything because you're angry and frustrated that you're lowering your quality of guy and you're tolerating it in the eye of feminism or equality.
02:42:42.000Are you comfortable with the fact that when he becomes an anesthesiologist and he starts making real money and his status goes up, you're going to have to acquiesce to what he wants.
02:42:51.000He's going to probably at some point tell you, he's going to probably, I hope he does this, he's going to grow a backbone and tell you what he doesn't like and what he does like and he might exercise options and or want to bring other women in because you're never going to sexually satisfy a man by yourself.
02:45:48.000You might not even get a chance with this guy.
02:45:50.000The reason why you've dated these high-status men that you talk about is because they can only tolerate you for sex, if I'm going to be honest.
02:45:57.000They don't want to commit to you and wife you because they'd rather wife or girl that doesn't come with certain characteristics and habits that you have.
02:46:38.000The thing is, where I think the difference is, is that the numbers he's stating is like 99% of men are going to be out of your dating pool.
02:46:51.000We could do the delusional calculator, just kind of show.
02:46:53.000I think a lot of women think it's like 10% of men are left after they do OF. And what you're going to find is it's like 0.03% of men that are left.
02:47:02.000It's like, when he's saying it's going to be harder, I think a lot of women, I think when he says it's going to be harder, I think a lot of women think it's going to be 50% harder or even 70% harder.
02:47:12.000And we're trying to tell you it's going to be 99.9% harder.
02:47:24.000The chances of you finding a man that's going to take you seriously, that is your same economic and socioeconomic status is slim to none.
02:47:32.000Guys that have status and money typically want a girl that doesn't have status and money because men look at different things than women do.
02:47:39.000See, the thing I always say, as women become more successful, they become prisoners of their success.
02:47:43.000As men become more successful, they become...
02:48:28.000What I'm saying is that your likelihood of finding a man that's at your level that you're actually going to be attracted to and want to be with long term is going to be significantly slow.
02:50:16.000The thing is, in the end, that isn't what she's going to want because those demasculinized men are not going to be able to lead a woman like that.
02:50:24.000So the thing is, do you remember you're saying, are you going to be alone?
02:50:27.000Do you remember what she said about her boyfriend?
02:50:30.000He wasn't holding up his end of the bargain.
02:50:32.000Eventually, it will get to a point where you will see these men the same way.
02:50:36.000So you will have a pool to choose from of men you eventually don't want, and then you will have a small pool of men you do want who don't want you.
02:50:45.000So the supply and demand curve won't meet anymore, and that's the reason why you're going to have some trouble.
02:51:12.000When you say what is my future and I say there's a 99% chance you won't find your guy, that doesn't mean it's a 100% chance.
02:51:18.000He can't predict your future but what he's saying is statistically it is unviable for you to find the type of guy that you want because you're masculine enough and you make enough money to where you need a man who's so high above that.
02:51:28.000So basically you're trying to say like I shouldn't make the money I make.
02:51:48.000Let's say I decided to eat a bunch of Cheetos, not go to the gym anymore, moved in with my mom, smoked pot every day, played video games, and I stopped working.
02:52:39.000You, as a woman, unfortunately, even though these are great accolades, making money, being successful, it lowers your value to a degree because...
02:53:19.000I mean, everybody said that I would not delete my Instagram unless the guy was making enough money...
02:53:25.000To take care of me before I would even consider doing something like that.
02:53:33.000So it ends up becoming this economic issue.
02:53:35.000I mean, damn near everyone here has said exactly that same thing.
02:53:38.000So what you're saying is, if he made enough money to outclass all the guys who would be a potential boyfriend for me because I'm still advertising my sexuality...
02:53:51.000That guy has to make more money, not only than you, but any potential guy who would see you on Instagram and say, I'm going to get with that girl.
02:53:59.000I feel like if the guy can't take it, he's insecure.
02:55:17.000It's actually what's going on, but you can choose to listen.
02:55:20.000Could it possibly be that all of the positive reinforcement that you get on Instagram and OnlyFans have caused you to believe that your options with men are actually higher than they really are?
02:57:12.000Is it possible all the positive affirmations that you get on Instagram and all the fans that you see on OnlyFans may have changed your view of what type of man you can actually get?
02:58:03.000We're talking about a long-term relationship.
02:58:05.000A guy wanting to fuck versus a guy wanting to wife are two different things.
02:58:08.000It's incredible that you're trying to He even complimented you by saying that you're ambitious and then you make a lot of money.
02:58:14.000But the point we were trying to make is that it makes it more difficult for a man to want to date you because you make more money, because you're involved in sex work on OnlyFans.
02:58:22.000Now, again, I'm not going to be a hypocrite.
02:58:24.000I know a bunch of girls that are on OnlyFans.
02:58:25.000The point that I'm trying to make is I even tell them, you do understand there's going to be consequences for your actions.
02:58:31.000If someone's expressing to you that's consequences for your actions, don't get mad.
03:07:00.000It's worse if the man has more options, but only if there are kids in the picture because the man could replace his girl, leaving the kids in a single mother home, which we know is horrible.
03:07:08.000I think both sides are bad, but I understand what he's saying.
03:07:13.000John says, question for Stephanie, what do you see when you look into a mirror?
03:07:21.000You spent thousands of dollars into making yourself more beautiful, not realizing that you're done.
03:11:55.000I learned that men do not realize that there are literally hundreds of millions of OnlyFans creators and there is more and more every single day.
03:12:04.000So you guys say that men who decide not to be with OnlyFans women, we are lowering our chances of finding a man.
03:12:13.000Those guys who are cutting off OnlyFans girls, they are also lessening their chances because there's so many of us and there's only going to be more.
03:12:20.000It's not a significant portion of the population yet.
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03:17:42.000We really do try to add a socioeconomic statistical...
03:17:47.000Bent or addition to this whole realm by trying to keep it as mathematical as possible and then watching people's reactions because when you ask women how many men, what percentage of men are over six feet tall and they're like 50% of men and it turns out it's 14.
03:17:59.000Those are the reactions that people get when women are like, oh, I didn't realize the average man makes $37,000 a year.
03:18:05.000Women don't realize that or that he's five foot nine or that the average man has like six sexual partners in his entire life or that a third of men have no sexual partners at all.
03:18:13.000Women are always shocked by these numbers and that's the kind of stuff that we talk about on our show.