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00:03:13.000Yeah, I mean, you know, it's what it is.
00:03:14.000But other than that, Chad, let's have a great show.
00:03:17.000And without further ado, ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what we do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, your body count.
00:17:33.000Blackest Panther says, Before the ladies ask about three or four, a woman that can sleep with a man without catching feelings or chasing after that man after sex is the definition of a three or four.
00:17:43.000Basically, if a woman doesn't become clinging to the man she gave her body to, she's considered a three or four.
00:17:54.000So based off of his description, you're sleeping with a guy, you're not clingy, you're kind of like distant to him, it doesn't really matter, no feelings.
00:19:33.000I guess for the purposes of that, can we pull that question up one more time?
00:19:38.000It says here, before the ladies ask about 304, a woman that can sleep with a man without catching feelings or chasing after that man after sex is the definition of a 304.
00:19:49.000Basically, if a woman doesn't become clingy to the man she gave her body to, she has a 304 agree.
00:19:53.000So basically, a woman that's lost attachment to sex, would you guys consider that a girl that's a hoe?
00:19:59.000Because, I mean, that's what 304 literally means.
00:20:01.000If you put it in a calculator and flip it upside down, it says hoe.
00:23:08.000I may meet somebody and we might kick it off.
00:23:11.000Okay, so here's what I do for my work.
00:23:13.000I'm not looking for anything serious, but I'm going to let you know that I do still want to have a friends with benefits type of situation.
00:23:19.000But that also has to come with clear communication.
00:23:20.000I can have detached sex with you and still be able to be your friend or have a normal conversation and not, like, we don't have to be together for me to be able to do that.
00:23:30.000I have a follow-up question after this, but let me just get to everybody.
00:23:32.000So, do you think a girl having detached sex makes her a 304?
00:23:35.000I mean, the word detached sex, you could be desensitized sexually for a million different reasons, but then just having men get their nut off all the time.
00:23:44.000Ladies, ladies, ladies, ladies, stop comparing to men.
00:23:47.000I'm asking this question strictly from the female perspective.
00:23:50.000I'd be happy to entertain the male perspective after the fact.
00:23:52.000No, I was going to follow it up with the female perspective.
00:23:54.000All I was going to say is, the same way a man wants to get their nut, a girl can want to go get her nut.
00:23:58.000There's going to be the time you do lovemaking.
00:24:15.000It just feel like you shouldn't be sleeping around with a lot of people and expecting to have a relationship with a guy and have a guy to take you seriously.
00:24:23.000Because when they do it, you don't like it.
00:24:25.000So why would you want to expect to go sleep with a hundred people and expect him to come back with one body like it ain't going to work that way.
00:25:18.000Because I think it's ignorant to say that a woman has to have emotion to be able to have sex with somebody.
00:25:26.000I think that there are many situations, like she has stated, that somebody could be emotionally detached sexually, which that may not necessarily even be your fault that you react to sex that way.
00:25:38.000It's just that it's hard for you to connect that way in general.
00:25:41.000So when you're having that Do you think a majority of women can have detached sex like that, though?
00:25:50.000I can't speak for the majority because it's very subject to person.
00:25:56.000I mean, if I lined up 100 average women...
00:25:59.000I couldn't tell you how those women live their life every day, so I couldn't tell you what circumstances they've been in that would make them possibly feel like they could have detached sex.
00:26:07.000I could tell you that the majority of women that I meet...
00:26:10.000It is not something that has to be, I have to be sexually, or I have to be emotionally attached to you to be able to provide myself sexually for you.
00:26:17.000So we can say in your profession itself, the women in that category will have sex that is detached because of their land of work, right?
00:27:03.000I'm disagreeing with the statement that it's better to be an undercover hoe.
00:27:06.000That creates a whole lot of more problems with the people that I'm messing around with, as well as that also creates a question for safety.
00:27:27.000Do you think being able to have detached sex as a woman makes you a hoe?
00:27:31.000I wouldn't say it necessarily makes you a hoe.
00:27:33.000I think it just depends on whether you, like, you can start off having sex with somebody and it just be friends, but the more you spend time with each other, like, you could possibly develop feelings or you could not.
00:27:45.000But if you want to fuck them as friends, like someone said, like, that should be a mutual agreement.
00:27:50.000Well, wouldn't it be fair to say that by becoming a friend you're building attachment to some degree?
00:27:54.000I mean, you guys can still be friends, though.
00:27:57.000Like, it's not like there's no expectations, like relationship expectations.
00:28:02.000But there's still some level of investment, though, right?
00:28:18.000Because I feel like we should just look at it based upon the definition of what a hoe is.
00:28:22.000A hoe is having sex with multiple people.
00:28:24.000And if you can have detached sex with multiple people, you are a hoe.
00:28:27.000Now, if you want to make it a positive or a negative, that's on you.
00:28:31.000Some people feel like being a hoe is a positive thing.
00:28:33.000Some people feel like being a hoe is a negative thing.
00:28:35.000But at the end of the day, the definition of a hoe is having sex with multiple people.
00:28:39.000So if you're having sex with multiple people...
00:28:40.000No, let me ask you this, and I'll start this here and then go back around, and then I know you guys want to talk about the male perspective.
00:28:47.000Do you think a woman having detached sex is a learned behavior or a natural behavior?
00:28:53.000I feel like it's a learned behavior just because of the simple fact that females...
00:29:35.000Like, if you get sexually assaulted, you can literally not want to ever do that again in your life because you're so traumatized from the experience.
00:29:44.000But wouldn't the argument be that that would be a learned behavior from a traumatic experience?
00:30:28.000It's not necessarily like it just comes naturally to be able to have sex and not be attached.
00:30:33.000But as well as just because you've been through a traumatic experience and now it affects you a certain way doesn't mean as well that it's a learned thing.
00:30:42.000That is a physical thing in your brain.
00:31:07.000But it's not, because I didn't learn, I didn't say, oh, okay, so because this happened to me, I'm going to start reacting this way to sex, or I'm going to switch my position on how I feel about sex.
00:31:18.000It's more so like, because this has happened to me, I'm now realizing that my feelings and my attachment towards it has changed due to chemical things inside of my brain causing me to react this way to it now.
00:31:30.000And you can learn from those what your triggers are and stuff like that.
00:31:34.000That's a learned behavior from experience.
00:31:49.000Because I feel like that's probably the problem.
00:31:51.000I feel like it's probably how they're asking it is what's making us triggered so much to feel like...
00:31:56.000They're attacking us, but at the end of the day, a word is a word, a word has a definition, and a learned behavior is not something that you automatically have.
00:32:03.000When you're born as a baby, you don't have this trigger to where, like, if someone...
00:32:08.000I know what's going to happen if somebody rapes me, I'm going to immediately act like this.
00:32:37.000Because you're taking all of the knowledge of everything that you've been through and you're deciding on whether or not you want something.
00:34:52.000Since it's out of necessity, is it a learned behavior from the necessity to do it to help kind of cope with it or is it natural that women can just have sex and be detached?
00:35:01.000Well, maybe it's natural because men are naturally stronger than women, and maybe women naturally have a sexual position that's kind of the yin and the yang, the way to make things equal if men are physically stronger than maybe women have that.
00:35:51.000I feel like it's so situational like some girls like the life they went through made them into hoes some girls have been like just always slutty like some people became sluts later on like it's so like you know hold on there's like the innate whore and there's a learned whore just like with her if they went through experiences and they're able to adapt to it wouldn't that make it mean that it's a learned behavior?
00:36:09.000but what if you were a slut before nothing happened to you but then shit happened to you but you're always a slut do you think a majority of women are naturally sluts?
00:36:16.000no so then wouldn't it be fair to say that most of the time it's a learned behavior?
00:37:22.000I definitely think it's learned, but you could argue nurture versus nature and say that there are some people that are just more hypersexual than others, but at the same time, there's a lot of circumstances and situations and conditions that tend to bring that out in some people more than others.
00:38:20.000If something happened to a girl, I think nine times out of ten, if it's like a traumatic art experience, they're going to want to be with a man that they're comfortable with.
00:39:12.000I'm just gonna be honest with you, man.
00:39:13.000I mean, honestly speaking, if you got r-worded, that sucks.
00:39:16.000It's not cool at all, but it's still a choice.
00:39:18.000And if you decide to be a hoe, that's still on you.
00:39:20.000Yeah, but I don't think it's negative.
00:39:22.000Like, for me, I feel like my hoe experiences have made me feel more comfortable with myself because a lot of my early experiences weren't consensual, so being able to do a bunch of shit that was my choice, me personally...
00:39:44.000Like, you know, and then you have a better experience.
00:40:02.000I guess I'll just address because you guys kept bringing up men and everything and I'll just kind of tie everything together but did you want to say something before I say this?
00:40:13.000Yeah, I wanted to know why exactly did you start having sex after that?
00:40:17.000Like, that second time after you had that experience, why did you decide to have sex and just that detachment sex?
00:40:25.000I feel like, so, it was weird, like, I kind of have to get into it to make sense, like, the first...
00:40:30.000No, well, I want to first say, I do, I'm so sorry that happened to you.
00:40:34.000I really want to say, like, I really feel that that happened to you, but I do want to know.
00:41:16.000It has to do with just how you choose to move forward with the situation.
00:41:20.000Like, I can either let it take me down completely and now, okay, now I'm never going to trust anybody to have sex again unless I build and have all of that effort put into having a good relationship and stuff like that.
00:41:32.000Or I can just surround myself with better people that I know I can trust that won't take advantage of me in that way.
00:41:36.000And then I'm building a connection with them as a friend.
00:42:09.000I was going to say, I feel like also the whole phase of women, it's like a full circle, because I think a lot of guys, like, you know, can I say the type of people in the chat, like...
00:42:18.000That we can't go and fuck like that because we don't get the same satisfaction, which is honestly true.
00:42:23.000So I feel like most women who had an actual hoe phase circle back around to not having a bunch of random sex.
00:43:28.000If sex creates children, and we know that women typically can only bring one child to term, maybe two, or maybe even a triplet if she's lucky, right?
00:43:34.000But a man can bust a bunch of nuts and impregnate a bunch of women.
00:44:21.000So a guy that's not a horned dog is still gonna have sex with more women or majority women, whereas you won't, even though you're a very promiscuous woman.
00:44:28.000So what I'm trying to establish here is that for a woman to have detached sex, it's a learned behavior because women are naturally selective on who they have sex with.
00:46:21.000That's a double standard, though, too.
00:46:22.000Because men expect that, okay, well, I have this bitch that I'm fucking, so because I'm fucking her, I can still go out and fuck whoever I want.
00:46:28.000But you have to stay true to me and loyal to me when, like...
00:49:11.000Like, if baby alien didn't have even the slightest bit of status or they didn't gain anything from baby alien fucking them, you know, those people on the bus or whatever, he would not be getting that pussy.
00:49:22.000That nigga would still be a virgin today.
00:49:27.000But because he's so low on the scale, because he's unattractive, and most girls wouldn't fuck him without him trying real, real, real hard, he had to do no effort to be able to still get pussy.
00:49:36.000The bang bust, they gained something from him fucking them on the camera.
00:49:41.000That's the only reason why he didn't get pussy.
00:49:42.000Right, but he didn't have to put any effort into that.
00:49:45.000Why the fuck he had to get the status?
00:50:20.000Most guys are not going to be like him.
00:50:21.000I think your general man is not selective, but I like to think, or like, a man who has shit going for himself, he should be a little more selective.
00:50:57.000So, the thing is, I love it when women say, men should XYZ, but if I was to tell you, yo, you should lower your standards and get a shorter guy that's fat, that, you know, he might not have the most money, but he'll love you.
00:51:06.000Y'all will look at me like, fuck that shit, I'm not lowering my standards.
00:51:08.000Why is that women want men to lower their standards?
00:51:10.000Well, also, I feel like women, like, if a man's, like, you see with certain rappers, like, they might be, like, ugly as fuck in the face, but you have a certain aura, like, women will fuck with you.
00:51:40.000Oh, they fucked this weirdo that's like on the bank bus, blah, blah, blah.
00:51:42.000But y'all don't see all the work that man had to put in to even put himself in position to attract these women.
00:51:47.000You think it was easy for that rapper to get a record deal, make music, record, have people curve him, have to send his demo tapes everywhere else like that?
00:51:54.000Women look at the end product and think, oh, yeah.
00:51:56.000Yeah, like, yo, you should do X, Y, Z. You don't know what that guy had to go through to even be in that position where you are now attracted to him.
00:52:02.000Because you guys live life on easy mode.
00:52:04.000You exist, 18 years old, you're on a fuckin' yacht.
00:52:06.000But you don't understand that the man had to get the money and the status and the ability to get the fuckin' yacht.
00:52:11.000Women think that, oh, men just come like this.
00:52:13.000No, men have to grind to be able to even get the opportunity to take a girl on a date.
00:52:17.000Being broke and getting with a broke man is one thing, but being rich and then getting with a broke man and having to support that broke man is a whole other thing.
00:52:26.000I'm providing already a certain standard and a certain life for myself, and I'm not going to downgrade my life just because I find this dude attractive.
00:52:34.000I'm not knocking you for having standards.
00:52:36.000All I'm simply saying is that women have standards, but you guys forget that the men have to rise to...
00:52:40.000But we're saying men should have standards.
00:52:41.000That's what we're saying is they should be more selective.
00:52:44.000You need to stop interrupting and listen more.
00:52:46.000I'm not knocking women for having standards.
00:52:48.000What I am saying is that you guys are unaware that most men don't rise to your standards, and the men that do are a fraction of the male population.
00:53:14.000To attract and maintain our two different things, though.
00:53:16.000The way about being a woman, we're not supposed to be on the same scale as a man.
00:53:20.000And that is why, that is exactly why, I expect you to be loyal if I go fuck other bitches because I have to bust my ass to get to this position.
00:54:11.000Somebody who has sex with multiple people, right?
00:54:14.000So if a girl is a hoe for having multiple sex with people, a guy is a hoe for having sex with multiple people.
00:54:19.000If a girl cheats on her husband by having sex outside of her relationship, then a guy is a cheater for having sex outside of her relationship.
00:54:31.000So you can't say I'm a hoe if I'm in a relationship or I'm in a marriage and I decide to go out on somebody else and then now you decide to step out on the relationship.
00:54:49.000And on the days that one person has 20, you should be carrying 80.
00:54:52.000We're not doing it based upon what I offer and what you offer.
00:54:55.000As a man, you have your own responsibilities.
00:54:57.000As a woman, I have my own responsibilities, regardless if you feel like it's enough for you and regardless if I feel like you're doing enough for me.
00:55:04.000At the end of the day, you're a man and I'm a woman and I would never regard to what you have and you would never regard to what I have.
00:55:10.000You can't have a baby, so you can't tell me what it feels like to have a child.
00:55:13.000I can't work as hard as you, so I can't tell you how hard you're working.
00:55:16.000But at the end of the day, You're a man, I'm a woman, and we're coming together to build this union.
00:56:11.000So, by your own admission, men and women aren't equal, and then by your own admission, men are supposed to lead the relationship.
00:56:16.000So explain to me, as the leader who has the responsibility now of taking care of you because I'm the leader, you expect to be a partnership.
01:00:09.000So if she's just a mistress, it's fine.
01:00:13.000Before you respond, listen to what I'm saying.
01:00:15.000You gotta listen to what I'm saying because you're just talking a talk now at this point.
01:00:18.000I'm telling you, you going out fucking another guy is like me giving a whole other lifestyle to another chick when you're my wife and you're supposed to get that or dudes break into the house and I don't defend you and I let you die.
01:00:48.000What I was going to say was I was going to bring out the word bastard.
01:00:52.000By you having sex with another woman and bringing out a child, why is that child not as good as the child that you made with the woman that you decided to be with?
01:03:17.000A lot of people in this room don't agree with you, but at the end of the day, you're doing it as right, so why do you feel like you're correct?
01:03:45.000If you want to bring up the fact that, okay, well, the reason why cheating for women is so bad is because you don't know the father or the mother, like, if you're the father of the child, well, then, when you go out and have Yeah.
01:04:18.000Now, agreeing, yes, I will have responsibility for this woman and that child.
01:04:23.000So if you would like to say that it's just as bad, it is just as bad.
01:04:26.000You are now providing for that person as well as you connected with that woman emotionally.
01:04:31.000You just said that the majority of women don't have emotionless sex.
01:04:38.000So if that's the case, then this woman is now emotionally attached to you.
01:04:42.000You are providing her with emotional stability whether you would like to believe it or not.
01:05:03.000But you're saying that the higher form of betrayal with men cheating would be if you were providing for that woman.
01:05:08.000I'm telling you that if you're getting another woman pregnant that you are now required by your own definition of what a man is to provide for that woman.
01:05:18.000So therefore, it is just as equally the wrong betrayal.
01:05:21.000I was giving that as a functional equivalent, but what I'm trying to say is that...
01:08:50.000So, okay, I agree that if that's what, okay, you're a successful man.
01:08:55.000If your standard is, I can take care of you, but I might go fuck another girl, that's fair, and that's what you, you know, can do.
01:09:02.000But I also feel like a lot of things, like the morality of it just goes down to like what relationship boundaries are, because like some woman will hear that and be like, bet.
01:10:34.000You guys cannot sit here and use your world view on sex and how women move and everything to, you know, personify how women move because the majority of women don't think the way you guys do.
01:10:44.000But that's the thing, is what we're explaining is that they do, we just are, make a profit out of it.
01:10:49.000Yo, can I hear it from some of the other girls, please?
01:10:52.000They're not gonna admit, look at all it, like...
01:11:05.000Do you agree with your sentiments here?
01:11:06.000Because I think, honestly speaking, most women think differently, but what do you think?
01:11:09.000So, I really, I think, like, going back to the whole standards thing, I think, like, women and men, especially as a woman, me, like, personally, if you can't, like, provide what you demand, then you need to change your standards and your expectations of your partner.
01:11:27.000If you expect your partner to have all this extra shit, then you should be able to have all that extra shit, too.
01:11:33.000Like, you shouldn't be showing up with nothing but problems, empty-handed, whatever.
01:12:26.000Because our value is held in different spots, right?
01:12:28.000So you are saying that you're supposed to be the provider, right?
01:12:32.000So with that being said, we're supposed to be the one who is making sure that you're okay mentally and our kids are okay mentally and our house is...
01:13:14.000What I'm trying to say is that typically the things that women bring to the table, sex and taking care of kids and all this, all these things can be outsourced.
01:13:20.000You can go get a woman to do all those things, but the thing that a man brings, that masculine essence, protecting, providing for you, giving you that boyfriend energy that women yearn for, having a man because women typically, they're not with a man, they aren't complete.
01:13:30.000The reality is, is that you can't get that Paying for it.
01:13:34.000But we can get everything a woman brings paying for it most of the time.
01:14:55.000So there's three slots on the panel, right?
01:14:58.000Question, why don't you want to be a slut?
01:15:01.000I've never been the type of person to, like, you can do whatever you want, have sex with whoever you want, do what you want, but me personally, I have never been the type, I cannot have sex with someone who I'm not emotionally attracted to.
01:16:42.000I try to be completely faithful to me while I'm going out doing my job because at the end of the day, I can...
01:16:48.000By the way, a trick, a guy that spoils you, that's not really your type, a guy that's a nerd, a weirdo, whatever, is not what you ideally want.
01:16:56.000I used to feel like when I first started OnlyFans, the whole idea, which is true, it doesn't matter in the dating pool.
01:17:02.000Everyone's allowed to have their own standards and boundaries.
01:17:04.000I wouldn't want to date who's naked on the internet.
01:17:07.000But I feel like, for me, that narrowing the dating pool has made me, like, men who are attracted to me genuinely are sexually deviant the same way I am.
01:17:15.000So it's like, I end up in a situation that's happier for me because I am sexually deviant.
01:17:19.000When I used to lie to myself about it and try to pretend I don't have these desires, it made me sad.
01:17:25.000No, no, but again, for long-term stability and having a family, that doesn't work.
01:17:31.000But then also, when you guys say 18 is the right time, you can get the 18 to early 20s is one that's most likely to get wifed up, whatever, right?
01:18:25.000Generally speaking, though, like, you guys' opinions, I get it, but bro, the general population of women are not like you guys.
01:18:30.000But I don't want, the same way, like, the general population of women aren't like us, I don't, like, want to appeal to the general population of men.
01:18:36.000I want to appeal to a very niche type of man who really gets it.
01:18:39.000Because, can you guys acknowledge, there are men who love sluts.
01:19:02.000If you're a regular hoe, nobody gives a fuck.
01:21:02.000The traditional men that typically women want that are chivalrous and gentlemen or whatever, they're not going to want a girl that's promiscuous in return.
01:21:13.000But just note, when you get older and you have to make that choice of finding that husband to be with long-term, on some level, it might be the kind of you actually want.
01:21:22.000If as a woman, your number one goal and what you really want is to be a stay-at-home mom or da-da-da-da, then it probably isn't a good decision to go be a stripper or OnlyFans girl.
01:21:29.000But if men are de-centered as the main focus in your life and you're like, I'm okay with being single the rest of my life as long as I'm happy and can take care of myself, then it's like...
01:22:49.000They're depressed and they hate their lifestyle.
01:22:52.000Do you think, how many men are married to a woman that's wife material and goes cheats with sex workers and hookers and fuck strippers in the back and all these things behind her back because he pretends to be happy with a wholesome woman but deep down craves a slut.
01:23:04.000Like that whole like, what's it called?
01:23:06.000Yeah, but who has the title in the home?
01:23:45.000So when you end up being a porn star, doing sex work, being a stripper, etc., you limit your ability to find a man that's going to take you serious, that can give you that.
01:23:53.000There's a reason why girls since childhood want to walk down an aisle in a white dress and have a bunch of their peers watching as they get married.
01:23:59.000It's because it's a big experience and women know deep down that their values derive from the caliber of man that they can attract.
01:24:15.000Do you think the smart thing for a woman to do when she's young is if she meets a young successful man or older successful man who can take care of her would be to settle down and do the smart thing while you're still young?
01:24:24.000Yes, because that's when a woman has the most...
01:24:26.000Hold on, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
01:24:27.000You asked me a question, I'm answering it.
01:24:31.000It's a yes because that's when you have the most negotiating power.
01:24:34.000But I would also say, in a way though, isn't that more wrong and manipulative and ho-like to pretend to like a man so you can marry him for his resources than be more direct with the transactionalness of it?
01:25:00.000But I feel like men think there's just so many amazing, chivalrous men with so much money that when you're 19, you're going to come, usually they're weirdos.
01:25:22.000I mean, okay, well, okay, by your own argument, it's a minority of men, right?
01:25:27.000So, if that's a minority of men, and you already know that, and you're young and you're at your prime, why do you think being a sex worker and getting older is going to increase your likelihood?
01:25:35.000I just think I'll find, like, if I was to settle down with a man or a woman, it's going to be someone who really understands me.
01:25:40.000I would rather not be settled down with men who would be grossed out by my sexual history than...
01:28:53.000I don't think that's weird because I'm literally 20 years old and I'm a virgin like I can men can be attracted to me simply because of that fact but also just because of the type of person I I am.
01:29:06.000And the fact that I've never been touched.
01:31:10.000Okay, Derek the Trader, question for ladies, and you name three things you are willing to give up to obtain and retain the man of your dreams?
01:34:57.000Yeah, the average man can't a lot of the times provide for the average women.
01:35:01.000Which is why he's saying our selection is so low.
01:35:04.000Because already people can't do that, and then with us doing what we're doing, we're narrowing our selection even more with the people who are supposed to be able to provide that.
01:35:48.000And you know that you've been doing that.
01:35:49.000I don't know if you're just trying to get a rise or whatever, but in the process of doing so, you made yourself look like you have lower IQ than you might have.
01:37:56.000But why are you going to fuck somebody that you think is disgusting?
01:37:58.000I feel like women are disconnected from their sexuality, even the way the world teaches us, you know, in the same way men are, just in different ways.
01:38:07.000Okay, the way you guys got to where you are in life, I assume, is discipline, right?
01:38:12.000Isn't it weird to be able to have all these different things, you know, maybe lose sleep for goals, you know, skip meals while you're down bad, trying to focus on a goal, but then you have no sexual discipline.
01:38:21.000A woman you love so much, you can't even, you have to hurt her because you need your nut?
01:38:33.000I'm just saying is, like, kind of going back to the whole thing, like, men can have multiple partners, et cetera, et cetera.
01:38:39.000Yeah, it's, yeah, why is it, oh, just okay to be sexually undisciplined?
01:38:43.000Like, you can have all these other different types of discipline.
01:38:45.000So I didn't work my ass off to get to where I'm at for you to tell me what to do as a man.
01:38:49.000Would you tell a woman that that's the expectation?
01:38:51.000Because for me, I don't even think it's wrong.
01:38:52.000At the very beginning, if they know the truth, why am I going to lie about it?
01:38:56.000Then I think that, because that's what I said to him earlier, I feel like it's like, it's one thing to deceive a woman, like you're the only one, and then cheat because you make money, and versus, I can pay the bills, but just know I'm going to do this, and I don't want you to do anything.
01:40:30.000Men that you didn't really have success or whatever, but they're gone now because you didn't really see the benefit in them long term, right?
01:40:37.000I mean, it was a lot of different things.
01:40:39.000I can deal with almost anything because everyone has their own faults.
01:42:52.000You guys are trying to say that being a hoe for a woman is the same as being promiscuous as a man, and we're trying to say that it's not the same.
01:43:39.000I came from an extremely healthy household.
01:43:41.000But the teaching of don't be a slut, don't be a slut.
01:43:43.000The number one thing is don't be a slut so that a man will want you.
01:43:47.000It kind of instills you to act the opposite way.
01:43:50.000Do you want to say something before I say something?
01:43:51.000I was like, I'm going to go off topic a little bit.
01:43:54.000You saying how don't be a slut so a man can want you.
01:43:59.000You were saying how don't be a slut so a man can want you.
01:44:02.000Well, that's what you were saying, the Bible says.
01:44:05.000Not that you believe it, but that was a statement that came out of your mouth, is what she's saying.
01:44:09.000So, like, if you want to go back a little bit in slavery, like, these women's getting raped all the time, but their husband wanted them just for them.
01:44:18.000They didn't need to be no this and that, no loyal.
01:44:21.000They were still getting raped, but their husband wanted them because they're them.
01:44:48.000When I was saying that, I wasn't saying that's my specific instance, but yes, I feel like as a woman, if you want a very specific type of man who's traditionally masculine and has traditional values, then it doesn't make sense to go be a sex worker, like, you know, pick your side kind of thing.
01:45:39.000Men are naturally sexually desensitized.
01:45:42.000Like, kind of a harsh example, but like, you know, the way...
01:45:44.000Wait, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.
01:45:45.000You guys do realize that your own industries prove that men are sexually desensitized.
01:45:49.000You guys make money off of shooting pornography.
01:45:53.000There's a bunch of dudes whacking off to you guys having sex.
01:45:57.000If I was to flip it the other way and make women the consumers of porn, you guys would be bankrupt tomorrow because women don't have the same natural proclivity to large sexual access.
01:46:06.000Women are way more selective on who they want to see have sex.
01:46:12.000Like, men have a natural tendency to want to be promiscuous and are physically more attracted to things and proclivity to promiscuity, etc.
01:46:32.000Your friends are not the majority of girls.
01:46:33.000If you relied, if you guys right now as sex workers relied on the female dollar to keep the porn industry up, you guys will be bankrupt tomorrow.
01:46:40.000Well, girls don't spend on it because, like you said, it's way more easily accessible.
01:47:02.000It's not even me having a bunch of bodies as much as the accessibility to look at it.
01:47:07.000You guys can be promiscuous, but what I'm saying is that you gotta understand that men and women are not the same, and a promiscuous woman is not the same as a promiscuous man.
01:47:16.000It's ridiculous to me that you guys are even trying to make this argument.
01:47:19.000Like, for a man, it's not learned to be promiscuous.
01:47:21.000I think our argument isn't about men or women being promiscuous.
01:47:38.000I gave it from a biological perspective that you can only have one child per year, but I can literally have thousands upon thousands.
01:47:43.000I was gonna say, it just comes down to whether, like...
01:47:45.000You do extreme paternity, like being a man and you just out here shooting in women or like you being a woman and it is two different things.
01:47:54.000There was not also as many STDs back when we have so many, we have new STDs coming out.
01:47:59.000MGen, there's a new one that they put on the testing panel.
01:48:01.000I was like, you know, so maybe it was more natural back in the day.
01:48:04.000We're more underpopulated for men to go impregnate a bunch of women with a woman at home.
01:48:07.000But like now you can risk bringing some stuff back.
01:48:10.000You can fuck her with a condom and she can give it to you through her throat.
01:48:14.000You completely missed the point that I tried to make.
01:48:18.000I mean, because you're saying it's not wrong.
01:48:21.000I'm just trying to come from a different perspective why it's wrong.
01:48:23.000Maybe if it's not wrong for the sex itself, it's wrong for the health.
01:48:26.000What I'm saying is that a promiscuous man is not the same as a promiscuous woman.
01:48:31.000A man that can have sex with a bunch of women is respected and valued.
01:48:34.000A woman that has sex with a bunch of dudes is not respected and valued.
01:48:36.000It's not the same because men have to earn the ability to fuck a bunch of girls, but you don't have to earn the ability to fuck a bunch of dudes.
01:50:10.000They couldn't say anything to that response.
01:50:12.000If a woman was a serial killer for five years, if a man, okay, if a male was a serial killer for five years, can he say, I'm not a murderer anymore?
01:50:26.000You can have like realizations like you could be like doing like certain stuff like that are considered like whole activities and then like you can be like oh like I don't feel like having like meaningless like encounters like it's just not fulfilling and then you can like change yourself accordingly.
01:51:09.000If you were with a guy for like a year and you loved him and he was great and you guys were in a relationship, but you found out that he was gay in the past, would you stay with him?
01:54:20.000Why do y'all think y'all raising your voice and shaming a man would make you win a lot more intelligent to win an argument?
01:54:26.000Okay, I do have an argument with that.
01:54:28.000Me raising my voice is definitely not in, like, a way of, like, trying to be dominant or anything like that, but when I'm getting talked over, that's, like, I'm not necessarily trying to pull, like, I don't mean it to be in a way that I'm trying to pull control or anything like that.
01:54:41.000It's like, I'm talking, and then if I get talked over, I feel like I have to talk over them to be able to...
01:54:48.000It's more so like feeling, like wanting to be, yeah, felt heard, like rather than like, I'm trying to shut you down.
01:54:56.000That's so true, but at the same time, that is a control, like thing, like you're trying to control the situation.
01:55:00.000It definitely can come off of that, absolutely, but that also has to do with perception.
01:55:04.000Wait, wait, wait, wait, so tell me, as a teacher, right, if you're talking to one of your students, right, if one of your students yell at you or they're louder than you, what would you tell them?
01:55:18.000What would you tell your student, right, if you were talking to him or her and he was getting louder, what would you tell your student?
01:55:25.000It depends on if he's being disrespectful.
01:55:27.000Because if you're being loud in a way of being negative rather than being passionate about what you're talking about, you can have emotions with what you're talking about and it'd still be okay.
01:55:38.000But if you're yelling at me to try to shut me down in some way, that's when it's not okay.
01:55:42.000And that's what I just explained is when I'm...
01:56:32.000That's the difference between men and women is that women are controlled by their emotions because I might be saying that's something that's factually correct but you don't want to hear it because it hurts your feelings or you don't like the way it's being said.
01:56:42.000Men don't really care about how information is presented.
01:56:44.000We care about the content of the information.
01:56:46.000Women are more concerned with how it's presented.
01:57:13.000When you really think about it, if you get an argument with somebody, a man specifically, and you sit down for five minutes, you could be like, damn, he was actually correct.
01:57:21.000I really was just acting off of my emotions because I was upset.
01:57:24.000Yes, you guys have been wrong during the entire course of this conversation.
01:57:29.000Because when we talked about male sexuality versus female sexuality, you guys are trying to equate the two and the two are not equal at all.
01:57:34.000If you look at it from a biological standpoint, a societal standpoint, a religious standpoint, however you want to slice and dice it, Female promiscuity has never been respected or admired in human history, ever.
01:58:01.000It hasn't been admired in the way that it's been socially accepted necessarily, but at the end of the day, sex work is one of the longest...
01:58:18.000No one is arguing that it's a part of society.
01:58:20.000What I am saying is that it's something that is not respected by society from every single walk of life before the advent of communication.
01:59:44.000But that's not true because men are born with that.
01:59:46.000What you just said, going along with what you just said, going back to time when men couldn't sit here and make all the money and everything like that, you guys were still very much inclined to be promiscuous.
02:00:00.000You're missing the point that men have to be able to have a skill set to be promiscuous.
02:00:05.000We can't just exist and have sex with women.
02:00:16.000But you're missing the point that that confident guy had to probably go to the gym, work on his looks, work on his charm, work on his charisma.
02:00:21.000He might just be naturally built a certain way and he's just maybe pretty in the face.
02:09:57.000Iconic Films goes, can a woman who considers herself independent be in a marriage and expect it to be worked since in a marriage they have to learn to be independent of their spouse and not compete about money?
02:11:49.000Hey, Marin, I have a girl, I have a friend who was a fan of your show who broke up with his girlfriend two months ago but still has her pic with him as a profile pic.
02:11:56.000Please talk to him for 20 so I clip and send it to him.
02:12:31.000So she is basically saying supporting your own children and baby mothers is just as bad as taking care of someone else's child and baby mother.
02:16:15.000Why don't we talk about Trisha Paytas and all of the bullshit that she does online, how many times she's gotten canceled and how much people think that she's a piece of shit and she still makes a fucking living.
02:18:18.000Like when we were talking about how men will have multiple sexual partners and that's natural, I said I can agree with that expectation of the woman being loyal and you fucking other people if that's what the woman consented to in the beginning of the relationship.
02:18:28.000Right, like that should be a conversation.
02:18:30.000I feel like that should be, I feel like that used to be mentioned because that's the difference that makes it wrong.
02:18:45.000As long as, like, if your partner's cool with it and they know what's going on and they're able to, like, protect themselves and prepare themselves for what's happening outside of your marital home, like...
02:18:55.000Yeah, like, I feel like any type of sex life is fine if everyone knows what's going on.
02:18:59.000I think it becomes wrong if people don't know what's going on because STDs can kill you.
02:19:03.000You know, STDs, and even if they don't kill you, like, they just...
02:19:06.000You guys talk about STDs so much, bro.
02:19:07.000You guys do realize that, like, it's the women, typically, that, like, transmit the diseases, right?
02:19:12.000A lot of these, a porn star, she's gonna get tested every two weeks.
02:19:16.000Sometimes a girl, she's only been in relationships, but her men were all fucking right behind her back, and so she's had gonorrhea for two years.
02:22:51.000He has way more value than you, and I'm going to be honest about this.
02:22:54.000You should treasure that man, because you've got a 1% guy, and the fact that he's with you and you're in your 30s...
02:23:01.000You should be happy with what you got, because most women struggle to find a guy, and that guy has more value than you do in the dating marketplace, unfortunately.
02:23:15.000But I'm just being, because the thing is, girls tend to think that they're the prize in a relationship, and once you reach a certain threshold of man, you really aren't the prize anymore.
02:23:23.000And the guy that you're with is way rarer than you are.
02:25:25.000I think in general, just being more logical with my reactions towards things, not so emotional.
02:25:33.000I feel like a lot of times when you just react based off emotion, it just makes the situation way bigger than what it's not really that serious.
02:27:03.000You're never going to sexually satisfy a man by yourself, bro.
02:27:06.000That's amazing to me that you ladies actually have the hubris to think that.
02:27:09.000Also, as a woman who's more sexually open and gives the opportunity we can have sex with another girl, I feel like some people get off on the cheating itself.
02:28:38.000I'm trying to take the man's role sometimes.
02:28:41.000Yeah, I've just grown up with everyone, like, everyone's just always told me, like, at the end of the day, you're the one who can only ever have yourself, and no one will ever have your back.
02:28:49.000So at the end of the day, I need to play both roles for myself, and that goes into...
02:30:02.000I feel like back to what Pink was saying like just like the need to control and like just being also just like dominant like so you're masculine too yeah very masculine like I always feel like I was like the breadwinner in a relationship and that's not like a women's a woman's role like what the fuck but I thought you like girls though yeah I do but that doesn't necessarily mean I don't like just because I'm in a relationship with a woman I don't crave that masculine energy What?
02:31:09.000You guys are asking us a question, and then when we answer your question, you're arguing with what our question and what our answer is.
02:31:16.000I think she's just saying, like, when she was in that relationship, regardless of a girl or a guy, she just feels like she was more in her masculine energy.
02:32:29.000So I think like as a woman it's a lot easier to get rid of those masculine traits and get rid of those things like I just from my personal experience when When you do like finally meet someone who takes care right like a real Provider a real man like a real provider.
02:32:52.000They give you the space to fall back in your softness and be feminine So it's a lot easier to be a feminine and submissive woman when you're with someone who gives you the space to do that That's assuming hold on real quick.
02:33:08.000That's assuming they even give you the chance to A lot of times, you act masculine off rip.
02:34:00.000But if a dude said something, logically said, like, yeah, she's too masculine, I'm good, and doesn't give you an opportunity, well, I don't want you anyway!
02:35:46.000When I say things like men in general don't want promiscuous women, or a woman being promiscuous is not the same as a man being promiscuous, that's absolute fact.
02:35:55.000Like I said before, I'm not arguing with that men and women are both promiscuous and that it's more socially acceptable for men to be promiscuous than women.
02:36:04.000That's quite literally what you were arguing.
02:36:05.000No, what my argument was is that you said that men being more promiscuous is less of an evil than women being promiscuous.
02:36:13.000And your argument was specifically about children.
02:36:18.000Yeah, she did kind of get you with the whole kid thing, because you were saying, well, maybe you can't.
02:36:22.000Because I said the whole thing is that men have to insure paternity, that's why men don't like hoes.
02:36:27.000Right, and then you said that the reason, what the reason would being for you cheating, being so disrespectful and detrimental to the other women, is because if you were providing for the woman that you're cheating on.
02:36:40.000And I explained to you that like you admitted, Y'all can go nut and make a million children in a year.
02:36:48.000By making a child with a woman, especially with the idealistic views that you have already explained, that means that now you are in charge of taking care of that child and along with that requires that you make sure that that woman is okay.
02:37:03.000Because if that woman is not okay, that child is not okay.
02:37:06.000Which means that you are now providing for another woman.
02:37:08.000Let's go off your argument that you're trying to make here.
02:37:10.000If that's really the case, then why has polygamy been accepted in many different religions since the beginning of time?
02:38:46.000But women also, like, by looking past it, a lot of these women are subjecting themselves to a lot of emotional and mental distress because they may not be necessarily okay with it, but they feel like they can't say anything and that they have to put up with it because you are the one providing for them.
02:39:04.000And that has to do with them not having their own shit to provide, which, again, is what we were talking about with...
02:43:21.000Because she really did, like, despite the one issue that we had, which was financial issues, she really did love me a lot, like, despite what everything else, like, there was a true connection there.
02:44:42.000I think that that's a conversation between me and him, but regardless of why it ended, I still think that I, throughout the bad things, still learned very many valuable lessons, and I would never take back any of the good times that we had.
02:44:55.000So, overall, the relationship was successful in the sense that I got what I needed to do out of it.
02:46:08.000I believe, regardless of any relationship, any friendship, or anything like that, no matter how it ends, it's still successful in the way that you still learn things from it.
02:46:18.000I'm not going to say that, oh, because it ended shittily, it was a terrible relationship.
02:46:32.000Yeah, and I personally choose to have open relationships, but that also has to go with boundaries, and that means that you don't get to sit there and make emotional connections with just any and everybody.
02:46:42.000That means if you meet a bitch in the bar and you think she's hot and you want to fuck real quick, then you go ahead and you go do that.
02:52:53.000What are you proud of and what are you disappointed with?
02:52:55.000I feel like I felt very seen and understood in that relationship and so it taught me like you know certain things but also like he just did me wrong then you know like the whole thing until being done wrong was pretty positive.
02:56:07.000I mean, if you're him, can't you fuck her without dating her?
02:56:10.000That's what a lot of guys try to do, but a lot of guys don't have the ability to do so, so they have to wipe up the girl, because the girl ain't gonna fuck him unless she gets some kind of commitment.
02:58:19.000So you're arguing the point that he wasn't when you don't know.
02:58:22.000Honestly, if I'm going to be all the way, I think we need to tell more women that they're dumb because we don't tell women that they're dumb enough.
02:58:27.000We tell men that they're dumb, but we don't tell women that they're dumb at all.
03:00:51.000Being able to understand the emotions that you're feeling, the difference between being irritated and being angry and being sad and being depressed and being able to process those emotions and why you're feeling that way.
03:01:02.000That is emotional intelligence and being able to communicate that, especially with somebody that you care for and plan on at least being with them for a fucking minute.
03:01:10.000Okay, well, you said process your emotions, et cetera.
03:01:13.000Wouldn't it be fair to say that if you're able to process your emotions and have high emotional intelligence as you're arguing, you'd be able to control them?
03:01:21.000That's actually, I'm not going to lie, that's a conversation that we all had earlier.
03:01:25.000And that's where I believe this is going to sound stupid as fuck to you, but that's where I believe everyone can benefit from therapy.
03:01:47.000You are arguing emotional intelligence and one of your rationale for the definition was being able to process your emotions, blah, blah, blah.
03:01:54.000If you're able to understand your emotions, right, and process them, wouldn't it be fair to say that controlling them and suppressing them is the highest level of emotional intelligence?
03:02:01.000Yeah, but you may not have complete emotional intelligence.
03:02:06.000And you may not be able to have the tools.
03:02:08.000So if he's able to suppress his emotions by her own admission saying that he's stoic and he's not emotional, I would argue that's the highest level of emotional intelligence and he has more than her.
03:02:16.000No, because communicating, hey, what you said upset me and I don't like that is one thing, but you shutting the fuck up and letting the bitch just go is not being emotional intelligent.
03:04:06.000Because the thing is that women love to throw this term toxic around in 2023 in modern society and they want to put the blame on men and all this other shit.
03:04:51.000So here's the thing, when girls say, you're toxic, blah, blah, blah, I know nine out of ten times, no, you're just fucking toxic, and you're mad that the guy maybe didn't give you the emotional reaction that you wanted, et cetera, and by your own admission, because here's the thing, I've been listening to y'all writing down notes and shit, you admitted yourself about 45 minutes ago,
03:05:07.000oh yeah, I'm emotionally erratic, that's something I need to work on, and then you go ahead and say your boyfriend is toxic, and then you also admit that he's also stoic, so I know if he's stoic, and you're the emotionally erratic one, you're the toxic one, not him!
03:05:19.000But that's the past, I'm saying like...
03:06:15.000Let's say it's always the guy's fault, but what I've come to realize, it's actually the women that are the main perpetrators when it comes to being toxic and stuff like that.
03:12:08.000That's your fucking problem, and you got to make a choice, and if you make the bad choice, I don't have to sit here and feel sorry for you.
03:18:44.000To clarify, when choosing a man or woman to date, rank the most important to least important what you are looking for to determine what you date that person.
03:19:16.000Prince of Fuego's, if you're a woman and can fuck with no emotion, then that means your stimulus of sex from biological POV has been destroyed.
03:19:23.000Even if you change heart, you'll get bored after two years of same dick.
03:19:26.000Also, blonde and pink dress needs to get spat between her tits.
03:21:32.000Look, man, this is what I'm trying to say when I say that your worldview is skewed because you have a certain worldview that is warped by your own reality.
03:21:40.000Not everyone is a promiscuous porn star like yourself.
03:21:44.000Some women understand that the key to my happiness is getting a family, and that's contingent upon me not being promiscuous.
03:21:49.000So there are women out there that have low body counts and or are virgins when they meet a man.
03:24:58.000I feel like the majority of women, though, is like, the reason we feel that way and are so quick to assume men are predators is because I feel like if you ask all the women on this panel, we get catcalled the most at 14 years old.
03:26:02.000Number two, when a woman is catcalled, a lot of times it's because she's dressed provocatively, she's maybe strung herself in a certain way.
03:26:08.000Typically men sexualize women when they sexualize themselves first, okay?
03:26:12.000If a woman dressed modestly and didn't dress provocatively, the chances of her being catcalled go down significantly.
03:26:17.000You think there wasn't rape back in the day?
03:26:19.000You think there wasn't catcalling back in the day?
03:26:20.000We're not talking about rape and catcalling.
03:26:39.000But what you are saying is you're making a broad statement.
03:26:41.000But you're trying to complain the same.
03:26:42.000Because you're making a broad statement that, oh, well, if you're dressed this way for a man to catcall you, then it's okay for him to catcall you.
03:26:48.000I'm expressing to you that if that's your logic...
03:27:16.000You're giving a weird, nuanced example.
03:27:18.000But what I am saying in general, women get catcalled, it's because they dress provocatively and they're putting themselves in a weird situation they shouldn't be in.
03:27:24.000Shouldn't be walking around at night, shouldn't be sexualizing yourself, etc.
03:27:34.000So then can I propose a situation to you?
03:27:37.000So then can we mic me up and then send me out and I'll wear nothing but sweats all the way from head to toe and you can watch how many men still...
03:27:45.000I get in an Uber, I have to walk down the block when my Uber drops me off no matter what I'm wearing because I don't want him to know where I fucking live and he will stand there.
03:27:54.000I said, because again, you have a very bad...
03:27:56.000No, but you're arguing with the way I'm presenting myself, and that's the reason.
03:28:13.000If you walk down Miami Beach, right, and you're dressed from head to toe, that's going to significantly reduce the amount of people that can't call you.
03:28:19.000I'm telling you from my experience, that is not the fucking case.
03:29:29.000I'm 20, which means I had two whole years of being an adult and being able to experience life as a fucking grown woman without having anything to do.
03:29:36.000You have to take some responsibility for your decisions, okay?
03:29:40.000If you sexualize yourself, men are going to sexualize you in return.
03:29:44.000So men need to take responsibility as well.
03:30:11.000Shut the fuck up because you've been talking the whole fucking show!
03:30:14.000There's been so many times when you shut the fuck up.
03:30:15.000No, no, no, because they're smart enough to understand that we're making arguments based in fact and logic and you're making arguments based on emotion.
03:31:54.000Because you are literally crying about being sexualized by men.
03:31:57.000You literally cried about that five minutes ago.
03:32:00.000No, I was arguing with the point of you being well dressed and covered up means that you won't get catcalled as much.
03:32:10.000And I told you from my own experience, before I started porn as well, and as I said, mic me the fuck up and take me out with the fucking camera fully dressed right now in broad daylight even.
03:32:21.000And I can prove you fucking wrong right then and there.
03:32:24.000And it'll still be multiple people that don't know that I'm a fucking porn star that will still be fucking weirdos.
03:32:28.000It's just at the end of the day, there are weirdos in life and you're trying to argue that.
03:32:31.000I'm not saying that there aren't weirdos.
03:32:33.000I simply said that when you sexualize yourself versus not sexualizing yourself, it decreases the chances of you being sexualized by men.
03:32:40.000And I tried to explain to you that maybe that may be some people's experience, but personally, in mind, with how ugly I am, that has not been my experience.
03:32:52.000And I feel like the original point of how we even got talking about catcalling is I was talking about how girls get catcalled more at 14 years old.
03:32:58.000When I was saying that, I was kind of like, I was less attractive at that age.
03:33:10.000This all started because she's mad that I said that guys want girls that aren't promiscuous and men, if they could, would prefer a virgin over a girl that is promiscuous.
03:33:32.000Because saying, okay, I am attracted to a woman who doesn't let herself be out there as much is one thing, but saying to be with a woman she needs to be a virgin, no.
03:33:42.000You can have sex with people and still not be a virgin and your body count still not be high.
03:33:45.000You can have sex with two, three people in your life and be 30 years old and have only had sex two or three times.
03:33:50.000That doesn't mean that you're a whore.
03:33:52.000Did you just say that you can be a virgin and have had sex?
03:34:35.000I've been able to repeat all of your guys' point of views.
03:34:38.000Obviously, that means that I understand it.
03:34:40.000Because if I can repeat what you're saying and reiterate it in a way that I say, not reiterating your words exactly, that means that obviously I have an understanding for what you guys are saying.
03:34:48.000And all you guys are doing is telling me how everything that I'm saying is wrong.
03:34:52.000That means that you don't even have the ability to fuck in.
03:34:54.000That's why any of the girls, you guys, you need to agree.
03:34:57.000She's like, oh my god, get her out of here.
03:35:03.000I have no problem with anything that I've said on this podcast.
03:35:11.000I don't say anything just to say shit.
03:35:27.000So then why aren't there more big porn stars?
03:35:41.000The thing is, man, is that you got Older guys here that are way more well-traveled, way more life experience, and you're trying to sit here and tell us how the world works from your very skewed perception as a sex worker at 20 years old.
03:35:59.000Like, you don't know shit with all due respect.
03:41:15.000I feel like sometimes things got so off the topic.
03:41:19.000It wasn't that I didn't get to talk a lot, but I feel like when I started a point, it got to 80 different points when I wish I got to finish it.
03:43:17.000I don't always agree with everything you guys say, but I do like that you go against what the mainstream media says that guys have to act like.
03:44:06.000I do think that things could have been more effective, and like Jasmine said, I do think people can and should respect each other more, regardless of...
03:44:57.000Like, simple, like, you're in your sentence and you're kind of making it, like, yeah, you're making it logical, but then you say something like name-calling and it kind of makes it personal after that.
03:45:06.000No, like, when you're like, oh, like, you bunch of idiots would be addicted to this shit, blah, blah, blah, and it's like, like, why, like, I just don't, I don't get it.
03:45:15.000I didn't call them idiots, but I just said it's unacceptable to use drugs.
03:47:42.000I'm saying I wish women told each other the truth more, but they don't, which is why y'all kind of operate in the loony reality that you guys have.
03:47:48.000I feel like even though you say my reality is delusional, that was one of the first things I said on here was I feel like women lie a lot to themselves, to men, to each other.