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00:16:01.000And then there's some schools, like I remember Northeastern, you could do your four-year, and then you do another two years on top of it to shave a year off.
00:16:06.000All in one shot, you get both your degrees.
00:17:32.000So we got Cam Two Times goes, ladies, if monetizing your sexuality became illegal tomorrow, would you be able to survive with your current lifestyle?
00:17:39.000So if you weren't able to go on free dates, maybe use OnlyFans, maybe finesse guys for money, whatever, would you still be able to live the lifestyle that you currently live right now?
00:25:32.000Blackest Panther goes, before everyone calls themselves a 10, ladies, name a celebrity you look like, you look, I think it means look like, admire that you would rate a 10 in looks only.
00:25:41.000Now, rate yourself from a scale of 1 to 10.
00:25:42.000How do you compare it to this perfect person you look up to?
00:25:47.000Okay, I think I see what he's doing here.
00:32:53.000Guys in RP will have an issue with a girl advertising, but plenty of these RP leaders and their friends that they bring on to educate people are doing the same thing.
00:33:00.000They tell us not to let our girlfriend do.
00:33:03.000He's saying that girls, like, we're saying girls shouldn't be advertising themselves on the internet, but guys that are in this space advertise themselves to girls.
00:33:10.000But my argument is men and women aren't the same, loser.
00:33:21.000You guys always cloned on clowning on certain types of women based on their looks and age and modern.
00:33:28.000No disrespect will be the same one sliding in knockoff self-plastic Barbie DM? I think he's talking about the fucking xenomorph queen that was on the channel.
00:36:54.000Chris Brown goes, ladies, based off the vibes so far, which girl on the panel would you want as your daughter-in-law, and which two would you not?
00:43:04.000Prince J goes, Half of the things you tell men to avoid, RP guys surround themselves with high body counts, mask and boss babe, 304, clothes, over 30, only fans, single mother, open on both ends.
00:43:14.000Some even have girlfriends with those traits.
00:50:57.000You guys got to watch when the girls introduce themselves because I'm going to make jokes about where they're from and shit throughout the show.
00:51:16.000Dante's Picos, my girl of five years checks all the boxes I require, but we're both 26 and I still want to grow financially and I feel that once I'm ready for kids, I've pushed her clock too far.
00:51:24.000Is it a bad move to push for kids in our early 30s?
00:52:48.000I said, coming here from Tokyo, coming from Japan and like watching how pathetic the average American guy is like, I'm gonna pay your right bill.
00:54:26.000And then afterwards, he took me to this restaurant and rented out, not rented, reserved this private, like, it was like, first it was an expensive ass restaurant.
00:56:38.000Simplest thing you guys ever done for you.
00:56:41.000I got in a car accident in February and I was upset that I only have liability insurance on my car so they don't pay for the damage and I just like sent a text complaining about it and then I dinged a text from Zelle and he sent me $3,500.
00:57:46.000Basically, a great give of value without you necessarily reciprocating it or having zero intention of reciprocating that effort from his perspective.
00:57:54.000For example, your boyfriend that you're with, right?
00:57:56.000Let's say he takes you on a nice-ass dinner.
00:58:22.000This ex of mine, who I had zero intention of getting back with, and I was single at the time, he lived up in Clearwater, so that was a good, solid four-hour drive from where I was at.
01:00:43.000So I must have just, like, spoke to him for, like, two minutes, and he went and bought, like, everything off of my wish list for me later on, like, a few weeks later, and I never saw him again.
01:11:11.000But I'm asking, do you think in general, do you think women give each other good or bad advice when it comes to dealing with opposite gender in general?
01:13:36.000And I don't want my family or my friend hates the man because he always want to be in touch with me and my kids because he's the father of my kids.
01:13:43.000So, I don't want to say, like, he's able or he's the bad because I'm responsible for my own acts.
01:17:48.000Yeah, but it was like one of those things where at first it was just hooking up and then we eventually started communicating about how we wanted it to be serious and no more fucking around with other people.
01:19:50.000Because more than likely, if you've seen you four times a week for the better part of a year, you did something to fuck it up significantly.
01:23:46.000You just proved that his ex was better than you.
01:23:49.000Because here's the thing, if he goes back to his ex after he was with you, then you've effectively proven that you were not better than the ex.
01:23:54.000Guys can also have a tendency to have a placeholder.
01:23:58.000I'm going to fuck around with you until I'm ready to get back with my ex.
01:25:13.000She finally left her boyfriend and I'm telling her, good, let's take some time to be to yourself and heal because nobody's going to want to put up with all your fucking damage from that.
01:25:25.000And everyone else is like, no, fill up the roster.
01:28:11.000Or when they're always like, post really sexy bikini photos, making jealous, post old dinner photos so it looks like you're on a date with someone else.
01:29:39.000You're open to threesomes now with a guy that you've been with for two months, but the guy that you were with for five months, you weren't open to threesomes with him.
01:29:59.000The point I'm trying to make here is that you're making rules for your ex, but you're not necessarily making those same rules for this guy.
01:30:06.000I mean, I told my ex that we could do a threesome if it was filmed for OnlyFans.
01:30:31.000It would just be when we were arguing.
01:30:34.000What did you argue about that made him call you stupid?
01:30:38.000I think I left a bag on the counter, on the stove top, and he got mad because he thought the cats would jump up and somehow turn the knob on to start the stove.
01:31:19.000And you didn't want a threesome with a guy that you've been with longer than the guy that you're with now that you're considering a threesome.
01:32:29.000If he got into a relationship with her knowing that she was an OnlyFans, if he knows that that's her job and how she makes money, then he has to accept that.
01:32:36.000He cannot use that against her once he's in a relationship.
01:32:38.000Or if he didn't want to be in videos on the OnlyFans...
01:32:57.000Yeah, but I'm just saying it's so comical that girls come and they paint this picture of, oh, I'm just selling pictures of this and that and I'm with women and I'm not doing men on there.
01:33:07.000I'm sorry, but when you're on OnlyFans, you're telling men, oh, I would fuck you, I want to suck your dick, this and that.
01:34:08.000It's never okay for a guy when you're a sex worker.
01:34:11.000The only reason men typically tolerate sex workers is because they don't have the options to get a girl that isn't necessarily a sex worker or they have to kind of concede on boundaries.
01:34:18.000There are some men that are security themselves that really do not mind.
01:34:22.000But clearly he wasn't security because he's going and looking for other options.
01:34:30.000What women need to understand is that if you're involved, whether you're a stripper, OnlyFans, pornography, you do any type of sex work in general, what's going to happen is you're...
01:34:42.000It's a stigma that's going to significantly limit your ability to find a suitable candidate that you would actually be attracted to.
01:34:48.000So when you find yourself in a certain profession, automatically you're going to be invisible to a majority of men that you like in the first place.
01:34:54.000The Prince Charmings that you want, the guy that has the money, the status, etc., that has options to have other women, he's not going to pick you seriously.
01:35:00.000He'll pick you for a night, maybe a week, two weeks.
01:35:04.000But what I'm saying is that when women are involved in that profession, they need to kind of make concessions on their end as well and understand sometimes that...
01:35:13.000You're not gonna get the cream of the crop, men.
01:35:47.000Women that are involved in certain professions need to line up their wants and their desires with what's actually really practical for where they stand in the dating marketplace.
01:36:00.000For example, If I live with my mom and I'm a fat piece of shit and I eat Cheetos every day playing video games and I don't aspire to make more money or get in better shape, I don't necessarily deserve a bad bitch, do I? So my thing is I look at it like effectively women that are in sex work are the equivalent right from a female perspective of a homeless dude and what I mean
01:36:30.000by this is that that man doesn't have status he doesn't have certain things in place he's not attractive That's how men feel about women that are sex workers.
01:36:36.000They'll hang out with them maybe for a night or whatever, but they won't be seen in public with them.
01:36:40.000Just like you might give a homeless guy a dollar because you feel sorry for him.
01:36:43.000Well, you might fuck a sex worker because you want to get your dick wet and you feel sorry for her to a degree.
01:36:47.000Yeah, she might be hot, but you're not going to take her seriously.
01:36:52.000There's no one right answer, and I feel like people who are involved in this stuff are going to have to make peace with certain realities, like you said.
01:39:41.000No, so the thing, like, again, where I'm getting at with this is that, so you broke up with the one guy off of things that weren't that big of a deal.
01:39:48.000You could have moved to Vegas with him because you have a digital business.
01:39:51.000He didn't want me to move with him, though.
01:39:53.000Did you ever ask yourself why he didn't want you to move?
01:40:33.000I think, right, you had two relationships that probably could have potentially went somewhere, but your friends got involved and fucked it up for you.
01:40:39.000Especially the older guy that had his money together.
01:40:41.000I mean, he wasn't rich, maybe, but he was comfortable.
01:40:43.000And he took some of your best years from you, and now you're 30 years old and single.
01:40:46.000I mean, well, with a threesome guy for two months, I think.
01:40:51.000So wouldn't it be fair to say that your girlfriends kind of actually hurt you, gave you destructive advice for a relationship that could have been salvaged?
01:40:57.000No, because the first guy, the older guy, I mean, I wasn't really that into him anymore anyway.
01:41:51.000I think I think your friends gave you destructive advice just like cuz this is the thing girls typically what I've realized is they receive advice from friends and even though it's terrible advice they think oh this is good advice because it's the easy way out your example is Oh, just don't talk to him anymore.
01:42:20.000Instead of saying, oh, he didn't ask me to come to Vegas, you should ask yourself, why didn't he ask me to go to Vegas?
01:42:24.000Maybe I'm not being the best girlfriend.
01:42:25.000Maybe I could do something better, etc.
01:42:27.000Maybe I should leave OnlyFans because this guy might be worth it.
01:42:29.000Like, I don't think girls do what's hard or what's required to keep the man a lot of the times.
01:42:34.000They go with the shitty advice that their friends give.
01:42:37.000Because, you know, let's be honest here, it's easier to be a hoe than to be a good girlfriend.
01:42:41.000Not saying you guys are hoes, but I'm saying it's easier to do single girl shit than to stay in a relationship.
01:42:47.000Relationships are hard and nobody wants it.
01:42:49.000You start to get into a relationship and then when things are hard and you have to make decisions and what's going to be best, it's like nobody wants to take what's actually going to be beneficial to them.
01:43:02.000And the other thing, too, also that women don't want to admit, but I say it all the time, it's on the woman to keep the relationship going.
01:44:00.000And most of the time, there's nothing more stimulating for a guy to get out there and work than being single and getting his girl to bring up with him.
01:44:08.000Do you think that the situation changes when the guy also does OnlyFans, though?
01:44:13.000Or if he's doing OnlyFans with you, filming videos with you?
01:44:16.000A man that fucks girls is not the same as a woman that fucks men.
01:44:19.000And unfortunately, even if you're on OnlyFans, not fucking guys, and you just have maybe some pornography, whatever, it's always going to be shunned, unfortunately.
01:44:26.000It's a stigma that's behind it, unfortunately.
01:44:29.000It doesn't matter if you're just posting bikini photos on there.
01:44:33.000People are going to think they hear OnlyFans and they think porn.
01:44:37.000It's the stigma behind the thing and your value when you do it.
01:44:41.000And I understand the industry and you can make really great money and whatever.
01:44:45.000I don't knock people for doing it, but I just think that a lot of women don't understand.
01:44:49.000They think, oh, I'm going to be this bad boss bitch, and I'm going to make all this money, and I'm going to pay for myself for everything.
01:44:55.000But it's like, then these same women wonder why no man will take them seriously, and they can't settle down.
01:45:01.000And yeah, you guys are saying like, Oh, well, a man just has to accept that.
01:45:05.000Okay, well, you have to understand that the man that's going to accept that is probably going to be some bottom-of-the-barrel loser that you're not going to be happy with, but that's the life that you chose, and now that's on the internet, and it's forever, and you put yourself out there, and you decided to do that.
01:45:18.000So, like, you have to accept that that's the path that you took.
01:45:34.000I don't care what anyone thinks, but to me, the risk is not worth the reward.
01:45:40.000I don't care if I could be making 10k a month.
01:45:42.000I will fucking struggle until I find the man that's going to take care of me and I'm going to bust my ass working the right way and making money in the small business that I made for myself the right way until I find someone who I love and loves me that's going to take care of me and he will provide for me and I will provide for him.
01:46:00.000But because I decided not to make that choice and hold myself at a certain value, I will have high value people that will take me seriously.
01:46:06.000But you take yourself out of a category.
01:46:54.000What's the worst piece of advice you got then?
01:46:56.000Well, I was with a high-value man, and girls would be jealous of that and try and tell me to get me to get away from them and stuff like that.
01:47:38.000But they have to rationalize it somehow.
01:47:40.000Like, if we were to get into an argument, and if it was something I'd say, they'd just automatically be like, oh, you should just leave him, or I can't wait for you to leave him, or something like that, because, like, a lot of girls, whenever a problem arises, they like to run from it.
01:47:51.000Me, I don't mind sticking it out and figuring it out, because I'm a problem solver.
01:54:07.000The opportunities that are presented to you, do you think your boyfriend can also, or your ex in this case, do you think he would also get those same opportunities as a man?
01:56:28.000So if you add alcohol to that, club atmosphere, your girlfriends, being out, etc., it's very easy to see that all these things together can easily lead to something happening, whether it's you being intoxicated if someone assaults you or you cheating on him.
01:56:43.000So I would say, why are you mad at him for trying to put his Rolex in a fucking safe?
01:56:49.000Like, if I'm not trying to control him, or like call him 30,000 times a day, or if I'm not limiting him who he's gonna go out with and everything...
01:56:57.000The more valuable the watch, the more vigilant you have to be to protect it.
01:56:59.000Meaning I don't care about him, you know?
01:57:33.000You have to put that watch in a fucking safe.
01:57:34.000You don't want it out there and about for other people to see and or steal it from you.
01:57:39.000And on top of that, you add in alcohol, you add in your ho friends, you add in nightlife, you add in women being emotional, women being spontaneous, all these other things.
01:58:36.000The things that we tell women is appropriate in modern day society, going out with your girlfriends, drinking alcohol, hanging out with men that aren't necessarily...
01:58:43.000But I was also starting to agree with what you were saying there.
01:58:45.000That's why I'm trying to figure out, was he always controlling?
01:58:52.000His boundaries have to align with this girl's behavior.
01:58:55.000The reason why he was behaving the way that he was, which she might think is controlling and excessive, is because what she was doing was not girlfriend behavior.
01:59:26.000Because if he didn't like you, he'd be like, alright, just like fucking, who cares, let's go for you.
01:59:31.000This is coming from someone who had an extremely toxic, overbearing, controlling partner where even if you're not going out with your girlfriends or whatever, he's still flipping the fuck out.
01:59:45.000If you're in a relationship with a man, why the fuck are you in a club?
02:00:31.000And I'm saying, guys, don't be the fucking gambler.
02:00:33.000Just because a woman goes out doesn't mean she's trying to gamble.
02:00:36.000She may just be enjoying her life with her friends.
02:00:39.000Statistically speaking, it's just like a low ROI activity regardless.
02:00:44.000Like, bitch, you really gotta go out and get drunk with your friends.
02:00:47.000No, but if the man really is, for example, that high-value guy that you like, you're going to address what he's saying.
02:00:53.000So, for example, if the guy was value enough, more valuable than you are to him, for example, like, let's say that guy you're talking to is the guy that you actually want to be with.
02:01:00.000He says to you, you know what, babe, I don't like this.
02:01:03.000Because you want to stay with him, you can actually do those things.
02:01:06.000Because, for example, maybe he wasn't that much value for you at that point.
02:01:10.000What about the guys that are super insecure, that were traumatized from a former relationship, are now projecting their insecurities onto you?
02:01:45.000So I would argue the guy that has boundaries and tells you his standards and tells you what he likes versus what he doesn't like is very secure.
02:01:51.000It's not insecure when a guy tells you, this is not behavior that I'm willing to accept.
02:01:54.000I would argue the guy that doesn't tell a girl, I don't like this and I don't like that, is insecure when...
02:02:02.00099% of men, this is why women don't know this, because men aren't honest with women.
02:02:06.00099% of men, if they're out dating a woman, they would prefer for her to be inside, not be at the club, not hanging out with their single-ass friends that are more than likely promiscuous hoes, and doing things that are conducive to a girl being single.
02:02:17.000But most men don't have the balls to tell their girl that because they're going to respond with what you just said.
02:02:22.000No, I would argue a man's very secure when he tells a woman, this is what I accept, this is what I don't accept.
02:02:27.000If you're going to engage in these types of behaviors, you're effectively single.
02:02:30.000So if you're in a relationship and you guys are both being 100% with each other, you guys are not doing anything, so you're saying you can never go out and have a guy's night and she can never go out and have a girl's night?
02:03:16.000I can't spend my entire life sitting inside waiting for you to come home or taking care of your baby or cooking or cleaning for you while you go out and make experiences and memories throughout your entire life.
02:04:10.000The only double standards that I could think of that actually benefits a man is that men can have sex and be promiscuous without really, you know, being judged.
02:04:50.000Women have all the same rights and privileges that men do, while simultaneously still being able to enjoy privileges that only women can enjoy.
02:04:57.000So in other words, if you compete with a man for the same job, especially if it's the same job that is male-dominated, you're going to get that job over that man.
02:05:32.000We muddy the waters to let women give women opportunity because women are inferior in a lot of things, unfortunately, from a physicality standpoint.
02:05:57.000I agree with that, but I always point out.
02:05:59.000So one of the ones that you don't like is that a man going out and doing certain things is not the same as a woman going out and doing certain things.
02:06:06.000I'm not a gold diamond Rolex like a woman is a lot of the times, especially an attractive one.
02:07:28.000Now you have 3 million, but I gambled all my money away.
02:07:31.000I spent it at the casino, some cocaine, hookers, living that fast life, right?
02:07:37.000We meet at a high school reunion, and I tell you, hey, let me give you some financial advice, and I go and talk to you about cryptocurrency and all this shit that I used to do, whatever.
02:09:13.000Women, on the other hand, as soon as you turn 18, you basically get an endowment.
02:09:18.000So you can't tell us how to spend our money when you were given it from the beginning.
02:09:21.000And it's funny, too, because when you become a successful guy, and your name starts getting out before you, and you're like, wait a minute, why are all these bitches treating me differently?
02:12:08.000That's why a girl that's 18 years old can come down to Miami and have the time of her life because men don't care about the things that you guys care about.
02:15:28.000So he's like, do you mind if we celebrate Valentine's, like, one week before?
02:15:32.000In my city, you're going with your lover, fucker, hooker, one week before.
02:15:38.000Because actually, on Valentine's Day, you are with your wife.
02:15:41.000So he told me that day, and he gave me the back I wanted.
02:15:44.000So on Valentine's, I spent alone in my house.
02:15:49.000Crying because he was in Las Vegas having fun with his male friends and I was alone at my house and I can tell you, like, my birthday is here.
02:17:09.000So you do realize that with higher status men that are able to take care of you, that are traveling, whatever, what comes with that a lot of times is you might not see them all the time.
02:17:17.000That is the thing where I say I'm not part of the 5% of the things that women want somebody to take care of it.
02:17:22.000Because I got in the points, like, I got in meetings and people asked me, and I'm Mexican, you know?
02:17:28.000You were married with them for 12 years, you said?
02:18:22.000I always get bored because I'm Mexican and we were in a meeting with people, the important people that you are the husband of, you are the husband of, you are the wife of.
02:18:33.000And I really want to be somebody for my own, you know?
02:18:36.000I didn't want to, oh, you are the wife.
02:18:53.000She's saying the title of having a husband is important in those contexts.
02:18:58.000I thought she said it wasn't important.
02:19:00.000She was saying that it was embarrassing because she was like, I was at this place and she's like, oh, I'm the wife of XYZ. I'm the wife of XYZ. And she has to sit here and be like, I'm divorced.
02:19:56.000Just because it's possible doesn't mean it's probable.
02:19:59.000This is the delusion that females have.
02:20:00.000Women think just because it's possible, it's probable.
02:20:03.000No, it's not probable because the men that she's vying for that make the kind of money that her husband made before, those guys are chasing after 21-year-olds, not 32-year-olds.
02:20:13.000In general, I would say yes, most are, but you can't say that everyone is like that.
02:20:19.000When a man reaches a certain status and income level, they want to demand the best women that they can get.
02:20:24.000Men overwhelmingly prefer women that are young, beautiful, and youthful, and attractive.
02:22:04.000The reason why she felt comfortable to leave is because now she has these training wheels on of being able to be supported by the guy without having to...
02:22:11.000And you said earlier you give good advice.
02:23:10.000And I submit to my man, but I'm not going to submit to a man just because he can pay for the lifestyle that I want because I can give myself the lifestyle that I want.
02:23:24.000An old lady walking down the street struggling with her groceries or an able-bodied man walking down the street that obviously it's no big deal?
02:23:34.000So why is a rich man that's successful, that has this shit together, going to pick you over a girl that might need him, and she's going to be younger, and she's not going to have...
02:24:07.000Like, the thing is that the things that you bring to the table, like these assets that you're talking about, Men don't give a fuck about that stuff.
02:24:13.000What are these assets that you bring to the table?
02:31:32.000They're like, okay, we'll come clean up tiger shit.
02:31:34.000All these volunteer programs, PETA, all the fucking woke activism because they have no man to love and build.
02:31:43.000When a woman has no man to love and build, she, by default, in American culture, just joins the fucking leftist fucking mafia.
02:31:54.000So I just think that with the whole context of American relationships kind of falling apart, and it's like, I think a lot of single people in America can agree that dating is just a complete nightmare for the average person.
02:32:12.000And a big reason because of that is because like women have been brainwashed into thinking like, oh, find a man, start a family, you know, support him.
02:32:23.000Like find a man, start a family, like, you know, start something you can like love and appreciate into your old age.
02:32:29.000No, they've swapped that out for consumerism.
02:32:32.000Yeah, for leftist, woke ideologies, the feminists have ruined everything for women.
02:32:38.000Like, when we were on the podcast the other day with fucking the fucking xenomorph queen, the fucking Placitentiary girl, she's saying like, I don't need a fucking man because I got a Birkin bag.
02:32:49.000I'm like, okay, like, gonna go home and hold that Birkin bag at night as you cry yourself to sleep.
02:32:54.000You know, like, it doesn't work like that.
02:32:56.000Like, men and women, okay, so in America, men's standards are non-existent.
02:33:02.000Women's standards are way too fucking high.
02:34:06.000Did you have something that you wanted to say?
02:34:08.000No, that's what I was going to say is that I agree with that.
02:34:11.000What I look for in a man is that someone that genuinely loves me, not someone that has to take care of me but wants to take care of me because I can take care of myself.
02:34:20.000So when I look for a man, I'm literally looking for how he treats his mom, how he treats people around him, how big his heart is.
02:34:53.000When a woman doesn't need a man, she's not going to do what's required to keep that man because she always feels like I can go ahead and do it myself.
02:35:25.000They're invisible to you because you're successful.
02:35:27.000So now you basically ostracize yourself from a majority of men And you only want a very specific small percentage of men that are at your level.
02:37:29.000We'll take the girl that works at Dairy Queen, no offense to y'all, any day if she treats us better and gives us more respect and acts like she needs us versus the entrepreneur that only wants us.
02:37:37.000Honestly, I was going to say, what's funny to me is you in this situation, a lot of you on the panel, girls on other panels that I've seen, you guys try and tell and argue the point that You know what men in the category,
02:37:55.000like you're arguing with men in the category that are in what you want and telling them like, no, this is what they want.
02:38:02.000When these are three multi-millionaire men telling you we would absolutely never accept this.
02:39:08.000You can't literally respond that that's not what I want every time.
02:39:11.000No, because you're trying to say that I have to dedicate my entire life to basically doing and saying whatever a man wants just because he takes care of me.
02:39:43.000Your attitude won't even present the opportunity to meet that guy that you're talking to.
02:39:47.000This attitude right now is because we're having a group discussion, but this is not the attitude that I have when I'm on a date with a guy.
02:39:52.000The dudes are far more simpier than you, Myron.
02:40:56.000I've heard dudes that are like, no, I don't fucking want bitches that just want to fucking take me for my money and all this shit depend on me.
02:41:06.000What I'm wondering is, I'm listening to you guys and you're saying that you would prefer to have a younger woman who maybe doesn't have her whole shit together.
02:41:15.000Maybe she's not as argumentative or as you'd say.
02:41:25.000Meanwhile, I've seen the complete opposite.
02:41:28.000I've heard a lot of motherfuckers be like, these bitches just want me for my money, they depend on me way too much, and so I'm wondering where you're coming from, because I've actually seen the complete opposite.
02:41:38.000Who wants somebody that's just so dependent on you?
02:41:41.000Who wants to answer this question that you just proposed?
02:42:04.000Okay, so with the full context of your question, please go.
02:42:08.000Okay, my question is, why would you rather have a young, inexperienced, possibly naive and immature young woman who has not really accomplished anything?
02:44:09.000Not how much you can throw it down on him fucking doggy style or how much you can fucking throw that ass back or your BBL or your fucking 1900 lip injections.
02:44:35.000But everything else, which you compensate for saying, I'm a wise woman, all you're telling me is you're old and other dudes have fucked you.
02:47:06.000You asked the question of what guys are looking for.
02:47:10.000You're contextualizing like, oh, I'm wise and I'm X. When you tell you're wise, you're like, okay, you just fucked a bunch of guys you fucking regret.
02:47:20.000Why are there literal dudes out there who will literally dump a girl because she, like, because she is too dependent on them?
02:47:27.000If you're saying that this is what guys want, they need to be needed, da-da-da, then why are there dudes who will literally be like, I don't fuck it, like, you're way too dependent on them.
02:47:36.000You're creating contextual-based data with nothing.
02:47:39.000No, it's like, this is for my legitimate, my actual experience in real life.
02:47:42.000That's It's anecdotal evidence, which means it's your evidence from your perspective, and that falls into confirmation bias.
02:48:37.000Even the girls that have been dumped by kind of high standards still dump the guy way more.
02:48:43.000And all the other girls here, clearly you've never been dumped, so that means you dumped the guy.
02:48:46.000So, going back to what I'm saying right now with your, because you're trying to make the argument, oh, guys break up with girls because they depend on them too much.
02:49:12.000Your own experience isn't necessarily reflective of how the world really works a lot of the times because by just what I did now, right, with small sample size, hey, how many of you guys have been broken up with?
02:49:23.000And even the girls I have been broken up with, you broke up with way more guys.
02:49:26.000So your example of, well, I've seen guys get broken up with because they're tired of girls, but depending on them, eh, So even if they haven't been dumped, I mean, they know guys who don't want to have to take care of a girl.
02:49:38.000There's a lot of dudes out there who are totally against having to take care of a woman.
02:50:16.000You asked him the question in particular because you said he was more sensible.
02:50:19.000Can you tell us why we're less sensible?
02:50:21.000You guys seem just a little bit more hell-bent against women, I guess.
02:50:29.000Yeah, you guys are more like men of the prize type.
02:50:33.000Just a really quick example was the nightclub or bar thing.
02:50:37.000You're saying that a woman should absolutely be in the house.
02:50:40.000A man can go out and do whatever he wants, but she can absolutely not go out and have the opposite roles.
02:50:46.000Me and my relationship, There's some nights that I don't want to go out, but my boyfriend does.
02:50:51.000And so he'll go out and he'll have a great time.
02:50:53.000And because I trust him, I feel like it all comes down to trust and respect.
02:50:57.000Because I trust him, I can sleep, rest my head at night because I know he's out there, he's having a good time, and I know that he's not betraying me.
02:51:10.000You said you'd sleep well at night, him going to the club, whatever.
02:51:13.000Would you sleep as well at night if you knew that there were women that were way hotter than you offering him free alcohol, that wanted to sleep with him, that were offering him trips to the Maldives and Dubai, etc.?
02:51:23.000Would you be as comfortable and sleep as tight?
02:51:37.000Would it be fair to say that you would just trust him to be a man and he would probably fuck those other girls or take one of those opportunities, especially hundreds of women that were more attractive than you had gave him opportunities that he would not be able to get with you?
02:51:59.000Okay, so knowing that, do you really think that your guy would be faithful to you if he had better chicks than you offering in the world, and he was going to a nightclub that had this in abundance?
02:52:16.000No, but this hypothetical is extremely important because you're trying to go ahead and say, him going to the club is the same as you going to the club.
02:52:21.000You're trying to conflate the two as if it's the same, and I'm arguing it's not.
02:55:19.000So number one, so you mentioned the thing about the island and then you said your guy going out is not the same like oh Yeah, what I was saying was...
02:55:57.000He's cool to hang out with the dogs and let me go hang out with my girls.
02:55:59.000Why is it that when I ask him then, without you being involved or anyone else being involved, I ask him, hey, would you prefer your girl to be home or go to the club?
02:56:07.000Because he wants me to hang out with them, but he's also okay if I make my own choices and say, hey, baby, I'm going to go hang out with my girls.
02:56:32.000I argue that it's actually unhealthy for you to go to the club, hang out with a bunch of dudes, drink alcohol with dudes that are trying to sleep with you.
02:56:40.000Who said I was drinking alcohol with dudes that are trying to sleep with me?
03:00:16.000What was the example I just gave you guys literally, what, like maybe 45 minutes to an hour ago where you have the trust one baby and then you got the self-made millionaire?
03:00:23.000Self-made millionaire has more value and is the prize because he has to work for it.
03:00:27.000Women do not have to work for it, so men are the prize because it's much harder to be attractive as a man than it is as a woman.
03:00:33.000Every single one of you can walk into a club and get a guy to buy you drinks, have a guy take you on an expensive date, etc.
03:00:40.000I can't do that unless I become the guy that's willing to go on the expensive date.
03:01:20.000If life is easier for you, then I need to put barriers and parameters to keep you from doing things that are going to fuck up the relationship because you have so many opportunities.
03:01:33.000Look, women have a lot of power and with great power comes great responsibility.
03:01:37.000A lot of the times that responsibility needs to come from a man because women a lot of times when they have the power do things that fuck themselves up long term.
03:01:44.000I have all I'm going to use it to my benefit.
03:01:50.000Fuck a bunch of dudes, date indiscriminately, do whatever the fuck they want to do, chase a career in education, then they're 32, 33 years old later down the road and figure out, fuck, I'm not able to command and get the guy That I want him from the first place and get this guy to take me seriously.
03:02:04.000So what I'm saying is that as the man, it's your job to come in as the leader and guide the woman to a fruitful relationship because the things that women come programmed with in modern day society a lot of times are not conducive to a good long term relationship.
03:02:17.000There's no reason for a woman to be at a club or a bar or any type of situation where there's an opposite gender there.
03:02:22.000Looking to fuck when she has a man at home.
03:03:31.000And then, you know what's funny about this, right?
03:03:33.000This whole topic right now, if the man is of high value to that woman, whatever may be an option where, like, for example, she might get caught up or, like, lose him, she won't even do it, bro.
03:03:41.000So this whole conversation is mute, bro, because at this point, if the man is of value, she won't do this dumb shit.
03:04:25.000He's trying to give you his ultimate power, which is commitment, and you refused it.
03:04:30.000That tells me quite effectively that you have to leverage in a relationship.
03:04:33.000It takes nearly a decade to really know somebody.
03:04:35.000I'm just trying to not make a mistake.
03:04:39.000Someone who was in a relationship with someone for eight years and didn't find out who they really were for eight years, it does take a long time.
03:04:45.000Were you the one that gave her that advice to wait and No, man, I came with that advice before she even knew me.
03:05:01.000I genuinely believe that you need to see somebody in every single state, every single emotion, every single state, when they're broke, when they're sick, when they're depressed, when they're fucking traumatized.
03:05:12.000You sound like you're trying to, like, fucking...
03:05:14.000No, I'm trying to only be married once.
03:06:30.000I don't know if you understand this, but you hold the leverage in the relationship, you dictate the terms of the relationship, and you're in the leadership role of the relationship.
03:06:37.000Then why is he also able to call the shots, and I respect the shot of that, too.
03:07:10.000We respect the fuck out of each other.
03:07:11.000When I see a girl speak about her man in a certain way, and I know certain things, a woman is a spinning image of her man and his masculinity.
03:07:19.000The fact that you are willing to take a bet and say, I'm not ready to commit right now, that tells me that you know in the back of your mind.
03:07:41.000That's why you're saying, oh, I need to know this, this, this translation.
03:07:45.000He's not the guy, right, that I would ideally want, so let me see if he could qualify to me for a longer period of time until I'm satisfied.
03:07:54.000Versus if you had the right guy, you wouldn't be waiting around because you don't know if you'd stick around.
03:07:58.000That's the truth, and every girl here knows that.
03:08:38.000No offense to you, but that's a red flag.
03:08:40.000And then thirdly, this guy that you're talking to right now, like you said earlier, if he was the man that you actually wanted to be with, you wouldn't even wait for him.
03:10:12.000How is that supposed to make the guy feel?
03:10:14.000Honestly, I think it means even more if they respect the fact that you really want to wait to make sure that you two are really genuinely going to get through this crazy thing called life.
03:10:22.000Alright, let's ask the most important question.
03:13:56.000Why else would you be like, hmm, I want to wait until next year when I'm older and my eggs are more fucking dry and I have more bullshit to deal with.
03:14:06.000Why would you delay Starting a family and be with the guys.
03:17:11.000Just because you guys don't believe it doesn't mean that it isn't going on in society.
03:17:16.000Women in general dream of the day that they walk down the aisle in a white dress with their father and a man waiting at the end that's going to love them for the rest of their life.
03:17:25.000Men, on the other hand, they dream of playboy whacking off, looking at porn.
03:18:08.000So why even get married if you're going to get divorced in four or five years and they're going to leave you with two kids?
03:18:12.000Why not just enjoy your time together, build what you have, and then when the relationship's up, because men ultimately want something new and fresher and younger, why even commit to get divorced to do it again with multiple people?
03:18:34.000But what I'm trying to tell you is that when a woman checks every fucking box, the guy will do whatever it takes to keep that woman around.
03:18:48.000So you're saying that men don't want fresher and newer, but then you're talking about how men are chasing out the youngest ones.
03:18:56.000How do I know that my boyfriend in two years...
03:19:08.000Okay, when a guy is looking at a potential sample size of women that can come into his kingdom and help him build, he's like, all right, all the old bitches go to the back and all the fucking young bitches come to front.
03:19:26.000And they want to deal with the young candidates.
03:19:29.000Because biologically speaking, we don't want fucking retarded babies.
03:19:33.000Like, if you just really want to TLDR it, that's the bottom line.
03:19:37.000We want a young girl who's gonna be fucking down for our system who's like, well, I dated this NBA player and he wasn't fucking, you know, invested in real estate like you.
03:20:54.000You know, marriage, like a family, have kids together, goals, life, perspective change.
03:21:00.000But I don't see how people say, like, I don't want to marriage because of the paper, but I really have, like, a dynamic as a wife, husband, marriage, same house.
03:21:09.000How do you think the paper is going to change?
03:21:17.000They're like, okay, I gotta let up on this fucking dude now.
03:21:20.000It's just the title on paper for the government, but if you're already in a committed relationship and living together, getting married and signing that paper doesn't change anything.
03:21:27.000You're already basically doing the same thing.
03:21:29.000It's just that now you have rings and you have a piece of paper.
03:21:32.000In my life, in my culture, call me old-fashioned, call me old people, I couldn't leave my mom's house if it wasn't marriage.
03:21:41.000I couldn't come to the States if I wasn't Call it ring, call it paper.
03:21:47.000I couldn't do a life with a man if I was.
03:23:38.000Women do not contribute to society from an infrastructural standpoint.
03:23:41.000So you're saying that if women could not do that and they're saying there's never been islands of women where there's just been a lot of women?
03:23:49.000Name one matriarchy that stood the test of time.
03:24:09.000So the men who climb up on these fucking poles to like go and like, you know, route all the electricity, the guys that are doing right now are pretty old.
03:24:29.000So, like, in America, our fucking power grid is at risk right now because you got all these pussies that don't want to fucking get up there and do the work.
03:26:54.000If you were with a hundred other women on a fucking island, would you be able to create the infrastructure and the society that you enjoy today?
03:31:09.000We really are like a thousand percent fueled by our desire for women.
03:31:17.000Like me, Fresh, Myron, everything we do at the backbone of it all.
03:31:22.000Like, yeah, part of it's like, yeah, be successful, whatever.
03:31:24.000But another part is like, women might like this.
03:31:28.000And that's like these guys do these crazy jobs that drill to the fucking center of the earth and shake the hands with the fucking devil.
03:31:37.000It's because they know I'm going to go home and my wife's going to make me a sandwich and pat me on the head and be like, hey, you're my hero.
03:31:43.000The kids are going to come home and be like, dad's great.
03:31:46.000And that's what's been kind of stripped away from...
03:31:50.000The average man these days is just like the ability of a woman to come in and just like appreciate the guy.
03:34:06.000They're over here taking a fucking vote, figuring out if they want to do it because of their feelings.
03:34:09.000That's because that's a man's natural.
03:34:10.000This is why I say men need to be in leadership roles because women, their emotions clout their ability to make decisions that might impede how they feel.
03:34:50.000We're going to have John Zerka on Wednesday, so he'll talk about Flat Earth.
03:34:55.000Baller0970 goes, since the girls keep asking an example of high-value women, you should show them like Vanessa Bryant or Grant Cardone's wife.
03:35:38.000We have the girls go ahead and try to pick up a girl, and we pretend to be the girl, and we give actual objections that girls would typically give, and the girls typically don't know how to deal with it.
03:35:46.000I'll say, oh, yeah, I'm here with my friends, and the girl's like, ugh.
03:37:23.000I mean, like I said before, I don't think that's behavior conducive to a...
03:37:28.000Good long-term relationship is just that a lot of times guys don't have the value to tell their girl I don't like you going to the club because they're going to get you're insecure or what's wrong with you or you're controlling or misogynistic but I genuinely believe that you need to protect women from themselves and going to the club is not good behavior for a girlfriend like Common sense.
03:37:49.000Here's the thing, a guy that has options, why is he going to pick you, right, going to the club and partying and shit when you can go get a girl that isn't going to do that shit?
03:37:56.000So do you mean like not partying like at all or just like because like if she goes out and she goes to the club with her friends and she does it like maybe once a month, that's still too much?
03:38:06.000She shouldn't be putting herself in situations where there's other men there and alcohol is being served and those other men have the intention of fucking her.
03:44:54.000The reality is, too, when the average guy asks the average woman about, like, hey, can you give me some dating advice or whatever, she typically just says, oh, just be yourself and be nice and go talk to her and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
03:45:07.000No, there's a lot more to it than that.
03:45:09.000Because I'm telling you, from a perspective of guys who have probably all asked women on the tail end, like, Hey, like, when I was younger, I used to ask them, like, a friend of mine who was, like, married, my friend's mother.
03:45:21.000I was like, you know, what do women want?
03:45:34.000Understanding on a consistency basis how to seduce and attract women and keep them in his life, in his roster, whatever.
03:45:42.000He's going to be far more competent and way more understanding in the techniques, the terminology, everything in attracting women compared to like asking some bitch at Trader Joe's.
03:45:57.000It's just like, hey, can you tell me what does it take to attract a good woman?
03:46:03.000What do you provide to a guy that's a friend that another guy can't provide?
03:46:09.000I was going to say pretty much the same thing she said.
03:46:11.000Unlimited perspective of being caught as a fish?
03:46:19.000That maybe you guys wouldn't have thought of, you know?
03:46:22.000Because like I mean like if you want to go to a guy and ask for advice versus a girl about girls I feel like the girl would provide a much a much more realistic answer and logic answer because she's a girl you know what I mean girl what does that mean because she's a girl?
03:46:42.000You can't give him advice about other girls because you only know about yourself and what attracts you.
03:48:26.000You should go have lunch with a bunch of desperate guys, dressed as a Dressed as a man.
03:48:31.000Because the reason why it's pointless to have female friends is because women are not men and you guys aren't held to the same masculine burden of performance that men are.
03:48:40.000If I tell you about my problems, you're not really in a position to help me because men and women experience different lives.
03:53:06.000No, I'm saying that They may not be your friend just because they secretly want to fuck you, but if you turn around and say, hey, you want to, they most likely aren't going to say no.
03:53:18.000I just don't think that's the sole reason, and I think it's really insulting to say that that is the sole reason, as if we don't have any other value.
03:54:35.000If you're going to make an argument about generalities, especially when I prefaced and said most women, you can't make an argument for yourself.
03:56:55.000Well, the only time I'm with guys is if it's like my friend's girlfriends or maybe they're just like an acquaintance, but like I wouldn't go hang out with them on a one-on-one setting or like text them or call them on the phone.
03:57:03.000Which you're able to get on boats thanks to them, right?
03:57:05.000Because of your friends being with them, correct?
03:57:06.000I mean, I know people with stuff like their acquaintances, but I don't like hang out with them.
04:02:43.000Are you going to still have the same level of respect for that commanding officer, seeing him break down and cry in front of you and not know what to do in a crazy situation?
04:04:03.000If someone that's responsible for you, right, and is supposed to have authority over you, breaks down and shows weakness and not being able to lead you, you're quite effectively going to say, well, this guy can't lead me.
04:04:15.000I got to take matters into my own fucking hands.
04:04:19.000So when a man opens up to a woman and is vulnerable, as you guys say, what is effectively telling that girl is, I'm supposed to be the masculine leader here.
04:04:27.000The cornerstone of masculinity actually is leadership and being able to be stoic.
04:04:53.000If you're in a relationship, a husband and wife, and that's all you guys, you guys are your best friends, you should be able to open up to each other.
04:05:02.000A second ago, not a second ago, at the top of the show, you said you saw your ex-boyfriend, but he looked weaker and skinnier, and his hair loss was there, right?
04:05:09.000I just wasn't attracted to him anymore.
04:07:41.000And we know that by going to our girl, There's probably going to be more negative ROI associated with me like, oh babe, I'm feeling like a loser today.
04:07:51.000Compared to a guy being like, I'm kind of feeling a loser.
04:07:53.000Well, what are you doing to be a loser?
04:08:05.000You guys can say whatever bullshit you want to say about, oh, well, I really find it attractive and cool, blah, blah, blah.
04:08:10.000The reality is when your guy's actually in front of you crying and that's supposed to be the leader in your life and you're dependent upon him for your safety and your living, you're going to be like, damn.
04:08:19.000I don't know if I could be with this fucking guy.
04:09:15.000See, you don't understand this though because you're a woman.
04:09:18.000This is what I'm trying to say when I say women live life on easy mode.
04:09:21.000Y'all live a privileged life because women don't understand these basic tenements because you guys have the ability to have a man take care of you, like as you're doing right now.
04:09:27.000I don't have that privilege, so I have to figure this shit out.
04:10:08.000Emotionally, I'm honestly probably the best because I lead through my heart always.
04:10:12.000But from an emotional standpoint, if a guy were to open up to you and still want a relationship, you're going to more likely be the one to dismiss him.
04:12:00.000We're just saying that we have opinions that in some things...
04:12:08.000I made against you guys earlier that you keep telling them what they want when they keep telling you this is what we want and this is what men want and you guys are too fucking stupid to figure it out!
04:12:21.000And you just keep going and going and going and everyone's fucking bored and nobody cares and you keep going and going and going and going.
04:12:44.000The reason why some of these concepts might seem sound foreign, especially to Miss Serbia, et cetera, is because men aren't honest with women.
04:12:51.000And when they are honest, like your boyfriend displayed before, being on and off with you for six years, calling you, texting you, whatever, when you're doing certain behaviors, what'd you do?
04:15:08.000Most men are not honest with most women, which is why when I say these things, it sounds like a foreign concept to a lot of y'all, because you haven't heard it.
04:15:15.000But if I line up 100 dudes and we're in here talking, just bro-ing it out, locker room talk, We're gonna agree on most things because here's the thing between men and women.
04:15:33.000The only difference between the rich niggas and the poor niggas, the rich niggas can say what the fuck they want to say and not give a fuck what y'all think.
04:15:38.000The poor guys gotta be a little bit more different.
04:15:40.000They gotta, you know, dance around a little bit because they don't want to lose y'all.
04:18:01.000Arab world, Hispanic culture, South America, India, etc.
04:18:06.000How is it that without the advent of technology, cell phones, etc., they all kind of understood that a woman should probably be in a relationship with a guy.
04:20:10.000Okay, but if relationships only last that long, why is it a priority for women to get married and have kids for the same cycle to keep happening?
04:20:42.000I'm asking, why would a woman in this day and time even want to get married if we're just seeing that all relationships only have a certain amount of time?
04:22:59.000The way that you always say that, basically the way you say that you are the prize and women have to be what you want them to be.
04:23:07.000It's almost like you don't want a woman to have her own individual life.
04:23:12.000It's like you want a woman her entire life to rotate around being the woman you want her to be, burying your kids and taking care of your household and riding your coattail.
04:23:22.000I think a woman has a right to have her own entire life and her own experiences alongside a male.
04:23:29.000What about that makes me hate women though?
04:23:31.000If I want to provide or protect a woman, I would argue it's the opposite of hating.
04:23:35.000It's just a crass way of how you come across.
04:23:37.000Because if a woman is not following that playbook, you think it's so fucked up.
04:23:42.000How does his hatred of women factor into this?
04:23:45.000Because if a woman isn't following that exact playbook, you think something's wrong with her and all this shit.
04:23:51.000That doesn't mean he hates women, though.
04:23:58.000Do you girls all miss, like, the whole team of women behind the scenes, like, getting you drinks and helping you get situated before the whole show started?
04:24:10.000You know, like, there's a whole team of women.
04:25:49.000Hell, you guys even said it yourselves.
04:25:51.000You're with a man that makes three to four times as much as you do?
04:25:53.000You want a guy at least on your level, if not better.
04:25:56.000So please explain to me, if I understand these realities that I must be superior to my girl to be attractive, how does that make me an asshole or hate women?
04:26:03.000No, I just accept biological reality that women don't seek their equal.
04:27:25.000I don't think there's every man, you know, you can't put a label on every single person.
04:27:31.000That's Most guys think the way that I do.
04:27:33.000They just don't have the balls to tell you to your face because they're going to get this treatment, getting called a misogynist, you hate women, blah, blah, blah.
04:27:38.000But it's really easy to say that and slap that label on everybody.
04:30:37.000It's not that I'm invalidating your experience.
04:30:40.000What I'm saying is that based on what you told me, I can conclusively say that you're with a lower status man or a guy that doesn't necessarily have frame.
04:31:12.000So the way that you speak about your man and the actions that you've demonstrated and the things that he's demonstrated from what you're telling us tells me that either A, you're the guy that is a little bit less masculine.
04:31:22.000Maybe he doesn't have his money all the way together.
04:34:04.000If your girl is having medical issues, you stay by her side because I guarantee if you were having medical issues, she would stay by yours.
04:36:19.000No, I just think that's very silly on a few different levels.
04:36:24.000Sure, that's my opinion versus your opinion.
04:36:26.000But for me personally, as a man, if I'm going to give a woman the ultimate fucking symbol of you actually give a shit, which is, here's her wedding ring, I love you, and I want to put children inside of you.
04:36:47.000She's allowed to make that decision for herself.
04:36:49.000Sure, the girl who's like, she's allowed to make that, but a girl who's like, damn near head over heels and love you, she's gonna be like, yes.
04:38:50.000Let me tell you something that a lot of American women do that a lot of you girls are not fucking recognizing that you're doing, okay?
04:38:57.000A lot of your girls, like your incessant need to be domineering or controlling of the situation, what you're doing right now, is extremely emasculating.
04:39:08.000And a guy like, I don't want to fucking deal with a girl who's going to have like a counterpoint for every fucking thing I got to say.
04:39:14.000Like, I've already got my shit figured out.
04:39:19.000I don't need you fucking coming in here like a fucking paralegal and like, well, we've noticed a couple flaws here and this plan and this plan and this plan.
04:39:26.000I don't want to hear that because you're going to be able to facilitate A successful relationship with a man by just being blindly loyal to the guy compared to like fucking nagging him.
04:39:38.000And it's like across religious texts, across the fucking cultures.
04:39:51.000And at the same time, when you find a good woman, her value is more than rubies.
04:39:57.000And that's the thing you ladies don't get.
04:39:59.000It's up to you to become the greatest thing in a man's life or the worst fucking thing ever.
04:40:05.000And it's up to you with your decisions and shit.
04:40:08.000So, like, when we're trying to tell you, like, what we want as men, like, you gotta put on your shut up and fucking listen boots and just suit up and be like, okay, I'm here to fucking listen.
04:40:18.000Because at the end of the day, you're the ones crying on TikTok after 30.
04:40:22.000Like, I don't have a fucking man and this shit's happening!
04:40:25.000And dudes are here just like, well, can you just, like...
04:40:29.000Dial back on the ho shit just for a little bit.
04:40:34.000And when you're just like constantly like jumping out the throat to be in control, jumping out the fucking throat to like control this and control that.
04:40:41.000And like, it's like, whoa, one, like, first of all, I'm not gay.
04:40:44.000I don't need this fucking masculine energy from a fucking woman.
04:41:10.000Because, like, at least I can find a woman who's not gonna be, like, At my throat telling me how much I'm fucking incompetent shit honey I am.
04:41:16.000Like every single thing, like anybody, parents, relationship, coworker, how many times have you been with a boss who's just like, you're doing this wrong, you're doing this wrong, you're doing this wrong, or a parent, or a relationship partner, or a father, or a mother, constantly criticizing you, just like, Jesus Christ,
04:42:04.000I realized it like I have to be like basically come from my city to my family here in the States, different language, different environment before everything.
04:42:15.000And he was married before with American.
04:42:19.000So he was expecting the same dynamics.
04:42:21.000We meet the solving problems, meet me, arrange the schedule, be me and my culture.
04:45:33.000Probably, I lose the money, I lose the ability, I lose the social, but I win a lot of things and I've been learning a lot of things.
04:45:41.000But I don't think so he will say all that because I am very open and I always communicate and I always say and now we have a good relationship and it's a lot of like deep stints inside like he doesn't have a dad and I was guiding him to like with my kids and like you know it's deeper because I have three kids And it's when it starts to hurt is when is the family involved and the
04:48:01.000But the reality, I think what Myron is trying to say here is that from a pure objective standpoint, it would have been better for you to communicate with your husband at the time and be like, hey, listen, I feel neglected.
04:48:27.000You're, like, if I get it, you're going to change your success with your friends, but it would be nice if you take us to go to your country.
04:48:35.000We'd be like, okay, we went with your friends on vacation.
04:48:57.000And it's funny because even I think if you weren't getting the big alimony check and child support that you were probably getting from him, you probably would have rethought that divorce.
04:50:14.000I'm saying that do you guys think it's best that even if a woman is not emotionally fulfilled and she's not happy, you're barely seeing each other.
04:50:21.000The kids are asking where their dad's at, but he's paying all the bills.
04:50:24.000You think she should spend the rest of her life sticking around for that?
04:50:46.000The amount of work that I had to fucking do to unfuck myself is incredibly difficult, and the average person would absolutely falter under that pressure.
04:50:57.000That being said, when we're talking about enduring, because I'm getting viral, because all the fucking losers are attacking me right now, because I said that if there was a single instance of domestic violence, I said...
04:51:10.000Try to endure to get over that one instance, right?
04:51:14.000They're trying to spin it saying that, like, that I'm just saying, like, if a guy's, like, repeatedly beating a woman's fucking ass, you should endure.
04:51:24.000And if it keeps on showing up, you gotta handle it, right?
04:51:26.000So, I think I agree with Myron in this perspective that, like, right now, the bedrock of America's civilization is the family unit.
04:51:37.000And It is absolutely being eroded away from under us.
04:51:41.000Because we, as people living in America, we don't understand how fucking privileged we are to just sit around and be like, yeah, I'll just go out here and get this and make this job and have all these opportunities afforded to me when other countries don't fucking have that privilege.
04:51:54.000And the backbone of keeping a country together is the family.
04:51:59.000And then when you have these women in the United States with 78% of all Divorces are initiated by women and you have the government subsidizing single family households via child support,
04:52:16.000alimony, welfare, and all these other programs.
04:52:19.000What the fuck are you expecting to happen?
04:53:02.000And he was absolutely fucking hell growing up.
04:53:07.000So I think what he's trying to say is that when objectively, and I understand your perspective, and I understand your particular situation is individual, and we can't give blanket statement recipes to everybody to fucking save their lives.
04:54:40.000Like you said about your mom, like what I think in my experience, I always see my mom always with us and I had daddy issues and I don't want to cry about it.
04:56:09.000Yes, and guys, sorry to say, man, these girls actually have a life, more or less, like quotes, so chat to Mara, chat to the chat, chat to OMD, but guys, it's five hours long, so it's what it is, man.
04:57:24.000And, yeah, go ahead and join in, guys.
04:57:25.000You guys can meet us in person, sign some books, chat with us, everything else if you want to get in the VIP. So, yeah, man, watch a live show.
04:59:12.000That's the type of girls that most guys like.
04:59:14.000It's just that, like I said before, most guys can't be honest about what they want because they're going to get called an asshole or a misogynist.
04:59:20.000Like, men are very similar, ladies, and we haven't changed really much at the beginning of time.
05:05:12.000So a higher status guy, a high value guy, he's going to typically want a traditional woman in return because he's a traditional male a lot of the times.
05:08:10.000So she's been divorced by 25 with two kids and starting over?
05:08:13.000No, because your ability to get the highest status man that you actually want is the highest chances when you're young and when you're at your peak.
05:08:21.000If you want a man at his peak, why should he pick you when you're on your decline when you're older?
05:10:23.000It's about I'm just telling you off of what I've seen and how men typically date, especially men of a higher status, that you particularly want.
05:10:30.000They have boundaries and standards on women.
05:10:32.000Why is that men can't have standards on women?
05:11:17.000I mean, I wouldn't necessarily say I disagree.
05:11:20.000I would say that I do the things that you talk about, so probably, yeah, I kind of disagree, but I don't do it anymore.
05:11:32.000Honestly, when we were talking about single women and how a single mother brings up the serial killer or whatever,
05:11:51.000it just makes me think that women might be better off not rushing into marriage and trying to have kids The problem is that they're having the kids out of wedlock.
05:12:34.000If most men are getting women pregnant and then within 5 or 10, 12 years, whatever, they move on to the next woman and they leave them behind with these kids that they now have to raise, that now have to...
05:13:33.000Even in wedlock, they still get divorced.
05:13:36.000But it's the women that are initiating divorces.
05:13:38.000Women need to stop initiating divorces.
05:13:39.000So you're saying every woman should make prioritizing getting married and having a baby and most likely getting left to then raise the children on their own.
05:15:19.000You're saying that every guy between 5 to 12 years in relationship is irrefutably I wonder if we can look up how long most modern day marriages last.
05:16:20.000But going back to your statement, which you made, you said that majority of guys are inevitably going to leave between the 5 and 12 year mark.
05:17:27.000And the main reason it's a gigantic problem in America is because you have all these women buying all this fucking propaganda, hook, line, and sinker.
05:17:41.000And if you look at women who have elected and voted into power of the woman they respect, it's like Kim Kardashian, who's a literal whore, and Lizzo.
05:19:05.000It was a statement you gave that was going to be taken as factual from the audience and then the audience would be like, Okay, this is potentially advice.
05:19:16.000I'm literally just saying what I've learned tonight is that most relationships, whether it's taken apart by the woman 80% of the time or the man 20% of the time, those relationships are about 7 to 10 years long.
05:19:31.000Why bother having children if it only lasts 7 to 10 years?
05:19:35.000That's what I'm questioning from all the information that I learned.
05:19:56.000That's why women should have kids because that is the centerpiece of their happiness.
05:20:00.000Men acquire happiness from acquiring status and resources so that they can have a family.
05:20:04.000Women acquire happiness from having children and a family.
05:20:07.000And what I'm arguing is the reason why women need to put it at the forefront is because you have a finite amount of time to get a man when you're at your most beautiful.
05:20:15.000Because by the time you're 32, you're not going to have the same options as when you were 22.
05:20:18.000And so at 32, you'll probably be divorced with a kid that you now have to raise by yourself.
05:20:23.000But you at least have children now and you can do what you did.
05:20:26.000But now the child is traumatized and has to go to therapy.
05:21:06.000It's called a geriatric pregnancy after fucking 35.
05:21:10.000I mean, as old as you are, you save the eggs, most probably the kids have like autism, the age, Asperger, like more weakest out of your eggs.
05:23:08.000I feel like that's a root cause of a lot of the problems that we have.
05:23:13.000I will say that you've probably just kind of given me a different perspective and maybe I'll think about things just a little bit differently.
05:23:23.000A little bit differently in some areas.
05:25:19.000And like I said on the first time I came on is I hated you guys when I first found you.
05:25:24.000And then when I listened to your actual opinions and really understood and opened my mind, I changed my perspective a lot.
05:25:29.000So, you know, that's why I could confidently say I'm not a pick me because I actually hated you guys and everything that you did have to say.
05:25:36.000Surely you hated Myron, but I love Myron.
05:25:44.000I'll just say this because I noticed you said before, you know, hey, you're a pick me.
05:25:48.000And I'm not using this to pick on you, but what I've noticed is that women use that term pick me girl to kind of like shame girls that have traits and or belief systems that adhere to what men typically want.
05:25:58.000And I think it's not an intelligent move.
05:26:01.000I think girls, if they want to find a man of some substance that they actually find attractive, you should be a pick me girl.
05:26:07.000Because if you're a pick-me girl, what's going to end up happening?
05:26:09.000All these other girls that want to be rambunctious and say, I don't need no man, blah, blah, blah.
05:26:18.000So I think women need to put their ego to the side and understand that a woman's ego will absolutely hurt you and keep you single versus it's a man that needs to have the ego.
05:26:27.000Because when a man has an ego, he has confidence, he has ambition, he's out there striving for something.
05:26:34.000Male ego, I would say it could be toxic to a degree.
05:26:38.000But that's what women find attractive.
05:26:39.000It also gives a feeling of, it seems like she's come here a few times and she's gotten to know you guys and as you build friendship with people, you tend to agree with them more and back them up more.
05:26:51.000But you've also got to remember that she had the same mindset and ideology that she did.
05:26:56.000She was like, damn, because it wasn't serving what she wanted, which was finding a man to take care of her.
05:27:07.000Yeah, I was like, some of the things that you said about what a man needs, I already knew most of them, but there were certain things that I was like, you know what, I'm going to take that into account when honestly, I'm not really, I'm very much like you, I'm not really looking for dating right now.
05:27:21.000I can't even tell you the last time I let a guy take me on a date.
05:27:26.000Literally, probably like six, eight, six, eight times.
05:27:34.000I can definitely understand her changing, but I also feel like it's definitely a fact of her coming on the show and becoming friends.
05:27:41.000You just always agree with your friends a little bit more, too.
05:27:44.000That's not, because if you would have listened to what I just said, it's I hated them way before I came on the show, and then I started listening to their show and their viewpoints.
05:27:52.000And change that, and then I came on the show.
05:27:55.000So, I already agreed with them the first time they came on the show.
05:27:58.000So, I didn't come on the show arguing with them and not agreeing with their points, and then be like, oh, never mind, and then kept coming back.
05:28:04.000So, you were already in agreement with them before you came on the show.
05:28:09.000I don't know, like 50%, because that skimpy shirt you got on.
05:29:04.000Yo, it's crazy because it's like, you know, as a guy, right, you got to know that women want a guy who's ambitious, got their shit together, whatever.
05:29:10.000Men have to acclimate to what women want or else they don't get laid.
05:29:12.000Women, on the other hand, they can kind of say, nope.
05:29:15.000Bro, the fact that they're here in Miami by themselves says everything.
05:29:36.000Dude, I've come to realize, when girls come to Miami, it's to get a certain experience, which may or may not involve penis, which a lot of times involves penis, let's be honest with you.
05:29:44.000Which is fine, which is cool, if they're single.
05:29:45.000But come on, man, y'all don't act like y'all came here for the beach, bro.
05:29:49.000There's plenty of nice beaches in Jersey!