Fresh & Fit - PsycHacks Returns!

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00:14:37.000 What's up, guys?

00:14:38.000 Welcome to First Year Podcast, man.

00:14:39.000 We're here with special guest Psych Hacks.

00:14:40.000 Let's get into it!

00:14:40.000 Let's go!

00:15:30.000 All right.

00:15:31.000 Yo, we are back.

00:15:32.000 What's up, guys?

00:15:32.000 Welcome to the Fresh Fit Podcast, man.

00:15:34.000 Regular edition.

00:15:35.000 It's Friday.

00:15:35.000 We've got a special guest in the house, Psych Hacks.

00:15:37.000 Real quick, guys, two announcements.

00:15:39.000 Actually, three announcements.

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00:15:43.000 That is the home base in case we ever go ahead and get canceled.

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00:16:06.000 We're good to go.

00:16:23.000 And then, yeah, guys, check me out on Twitter, man.

00:16:24.000 Unplugged Fidex.

00:16:25.000 As you guys know, I post on there.

00:16:26.000 I'm going crazy on there, posting a bunch of stuff.

00:16:29.000 We're already at 30K followers.

00:16:31.000 Let's go!

00:16:32.000 Shout out to y'all, man.

00:16:33.000 I've had it for about a week now.

00:16:34.000 So let's go ahead and get that thing to 100K, man, because Twitter definitely, especially now with the election year coming, it's going to be huge.

00:16:40.000 And I cover certain topics on there that I might not necessarily cover on YouTube for obvious reasons.

00:16:45.000 Yeah, one of those is for sure.

00:16:48.000 But yeah, without further ado, guys, we've got a special guest in the house.

00:16:50.000 One of my favorite guests, actually.

00:16:52.000 Welcome back, Psych Hacks.

00:16:54.000 You guys are the best.

00:16:55.000 I'm so happy to be here.

00:16:56.000 Thanks for having me back, guys.

00:16:57.000 We're happy to have you, man.

00:16:58.000 Really happy.

00:16:59.000 So what's new?

00:17:00.000 It's been a while.

00:17:01.000 Yeah, it's been a couple of months.

00:17:02.000 I have been doing lots of things, man.

00:17:05.000 I went to Japan for about a month.

00:17:08.000 That was a blast.

00:17:09.000 I've been working on my book.

00:17:11.000 I'm about two-thirds of the way through it now.

00:17:14.000 I hope to have it finished by the end of the year.

00:17:16.000 Can you tell us what the book is about?

00:17:17.000 It's about relationships through the lens of behavioral economics.

00:17:20.000 So I'm trying to explain why people do the things that they do with as little ideology as possible.

00:17:28.000 Okay.

00:17:28.000 From a strictly, I guess, psychological perspective versus...

00:17:34.000 Well, psychological and behavioral economics.

00:17:36.000 So it's like people are rational.

00:17:38.000 They only see me rational if you put all these other ideological assumptions on how they should be behaving.

00:17:43.000 But when you look at how a lot of people act, like hypergamy on some level is rational, right?

00:17:48.000 We talk about that.

00:17:49.000 Yeah, absolutely.

00:17:51.000 Yeah.

00:18:08.000 Let's talk about Japan, man.

00:18:10.000 You made a video talking about the passport movement, and prior to going to Japan, you had said there tends to be this connotation that if you're a passport bro, you're a loser, your sexual market value is low, you can't attract women in your home country, therefore you have to go abroad and leverage your American passport or Western passport.

00:18:36.000 Sure, yeah.

00:18:38.000 I didn't really get too deeply into the passport movement, but that was my connotation beforehand.

00:18:43.000 I think that's generally just what I picked up.

00:18:45.000 That's what everyone tends to think.

00:18:46.000 Yeah, exactly.

00:18:47.000 And I just sort of uncritically went along with that.

00:18:50.000 I didn't look too deeply into it.

00:18:51.000 And when I went to Japan, I had an eye-opening experience.

00:18:55.000 I mean, the First of all, Japan's a great culture.

00:18:59.000 I think it's one of the more perfect cultures that we have on this planet today.

00:19:03.000 Things work the way that they should in Japan.

00:19:06.000 Like, the streets are smooth.

00:19:08.000 The cities are safe.

00:19:09.000 They don't even lock up their bikes in a major city like Tokyo.

00:19:11.000 It's clean.

00:19:12.000 There's no trash anywhere.

00:19:14.000 The food is fantastic.

00:19:16.000 It's a beautiful place.

00:19:18.000 Virtually no crime.

00:19:20.000 Virtually no crime.

00:19:21.000 It's amazing.

00:19:22.000 It's a shame-based culture, so there's pros and cons to that.

00:19:26.000 Shame works, huh? 1.00

00:19:26.000 Shame does work, man. 1.00

00:19:28.000 There you go.

00:19:28.000 Sure.

00:19:29.000 And it's interesting because we have a good friend.

00:19:32.000 His name is John from Modern Life Dating.

00:19:34.000 He's lived in Tokyo for the better part of a decade now at this point.

00:19:37.000 And he's always raved about being in Japan.

00:19:39.000 He's always talked about how, you know, he comes to the United States every few years, and he's like, what the hell is going on?

00:19:44.000 And he can't wait to get back to Japan.

00:19:47.000 And you're not the first person that's told us about, like, the enormous difference in culture and how kind of far behind Americans are in the West in general.

00:19:56.000 Can you take us through some of the things, I guess, some of the biggest things you noticed and differences between here and there?

00:20:01.000 Sure.

00:20:01.000 I liked it so much, I'm actually going back next week.

00:20:03.000 I love it there.

00:20:03.000 Nice!

00:20:06.000 And I'm going to go and focus on my writing.

00:20:08.000 But a few things that I noticed, especially around the women. 1.00

00:20:11.000 The women are gorgeous in Japan. 1.00

00:20:14.000 I don't think that most Western women could even buy clothes in Japan. 1.00

00:20:19.000 The Japanese woman is slender in life. 0.99

00:20:23.000 I think I saw maybe 20 overweight women in a month, and I think most of them were kind of like the old granny-type women. 1.00

00:20:31.000 I mean, there's almost no overweight women, let alone obese women. 1.00

00:20:36.000 I remember when I took the plane back to LAX and I got off, I was just...

00:20:41.000 You just get used to it, you know, being around it in America all the time.

00:20:46.000 And it was quite a rude awakening.

00:20:48.000 So they're slender, they're lithe, they're very feminine. 0.97

00:20:52.000 The women wear dresses and heels. 0.94

00:20:56.000 They're...

00:20:57.000 They're elegant, like there's a version of femininity there that is celebrated as one thing that a young woman can aspire to.

00:21:08.000 They're very respectful, and there's kind of the opposite of chivalry in Japan.

00:21:14.000 Like, just in all the ways that we kind of take for granted that women kind of come first in the West, men come first in that way in Japan.

00:21:22.000 Mm-hmm.

00:21:46.000 To allow me to disrespect myself in that way by allowing the woman to go ahead of me. 1.00

00:21:52.000 I know.

00:21:52.000 Wow.

00:21:54.000 Culture difference, man.

00:21:55.000 Yo, they really live out why women deserve less out there. 1.00

00:21:57.000 That's great, man.

00:21:58.000 Shout out to Japan.

00:22:00.000 You being a foreigner, being white, did that impact you at all, being in Japan?

00:22:05.000 There's a lot of interesting data about how different races do in the sexual marketplace.

00:22:05.000 I wonder.

00:22:11.000 And you can break it down in the perceptions of different races as well.

00:22:15.000 And across the board, white men tend to fare the best, and across the board for women, Asian women tend to fare the best, like the rated highest by all the different races.

00:22:23.000 So I bet I did have a leg up there, but I don't really have a point of comparison.

00:22:27.000 Okay.

00:22:28.000 Gotcha.

00:22:29.000 Yeah, because I've heard from John about how racism is kind of apparent.

00:22:35.000 They call him gaijin or something like that.

00:22:36.000 Sure.

00:22:37.000 Were you ever refused service or anything like that when you were there?

00:22:39.000 No, everybody was very friendly and nice to me.

00:22:42.000 They went out of their way to make me feel at home.

00:22:45.000 Many people would just chat me up when I was out at restaurants or at bars.

00:22:49.000 It was a very welcoming and warm place.

00:22:51.000 They might have thought it was black.

00:22:53.000 That's probably what it was, bro. 0.89

00:22:57.000 So the obesity, man.

00:23:00.000 And I noticed this too.

00:23:02.000 Last year, right around this time, we were in Romania with the Tate brothers.

00:23:06.000 And don't worry, guys, we'll be back over there.

00:23:08.000 Shout out to Andrew and Tristan. 0.87

00:23:11.000 I didn't see any fat women in Romania, dude. 1.00

00:23:13.000 I was like, what the hell? 0.99

00:23:15.000 And we were looking at the mall. 0.93

00:23:16.000 And we were actually looking.

00:23:17.000 And we were there.

00:23:19.000 We were in Romania for damn near a month. 0.95

00:23:21.000 Dude, I saw maybe three fat women the whole time. 1.00

00:23:23.000 And they were, again, like you said, older women, right? 0.95

00:23:25.000 So this whole obesity thing, it's an American thing, man.

00:23:29.000 It's the food.

00:23:30.000 I mean, you go into the 7-Elevens in Japan, and they don't have any processed food.

00:23:34.000 They don't have candy.

00:23:36.000 They have sushi, and it's not gas station sushi.

00:23:40.000 You could actually eat it.

00:23:41.000 They have healthy snacks, like dried peas.

00:23:44.000 That's what people snack on in Japan.

00:23:47.000 They have much smaller portions.

00:23:49.000 I think they go for taste over quantity, and they don't have a lot of refined sugars.

00:23:54.000 So I think that's a big part of it.

00:23:55.000 Wow.

00:23:56.000 I'm not sure that they're really working off to burn the calories.

00:23:59.000 I'm sure that's becoming more and more popular these days, but I think it starts with the nutrition, as I'm sure you know.

00:24:04.000 Yeah, people just eat less in general in other parts of the world.

00:24:07.000 It's like America, yeah, the portions are wild.

00:24:10.000 Okay, so what is your thoughts now on the Passport Bro Movement?

00:24:15.000 Because we get asked about it all the time, man, and we've been...

00:24:18.000 And again, tell us about passport brawls, blah, blah, blah.

00:24:21.000 And it's, you know, what I've always said in general is that, well, actually, let me hear your take on it, and then I'll give you my perspective.

00:24:26.000 What's your take on it now that you've been over there and you kind of see...

00:24:28.000 Well, I do think that there's probably some truth to it.

00:24:30.000 Like, if you're having some trouble getting a woman or attracting...

00:24:33.000 Good optionality.

00:24:35.000 You can do geo-arbitrage.

00:24:36.000 Just go someplace where you're...

00:24:38.000 Appreciated.

00:24:39.000 Yeah, exactly.

00:24:40.000 Why not?

00:24:41.000 But it's not just for those guys.

00:24:44.000 Who wouldn't want to have a more peaceful, respectful, feminine, easygoing woman?

00:24:49.000 And I think the usual pushback from the women... 1.00

00:24:53.000 Oh, man, I got some very angry...

00:24:56.000 All from women after that episode. 0.97

00:25:00.000 Also from Asian women, interestingly, I got a few that reached out that said that I was pigeonholing the Asian women.

00:25:07.000 And I can see that.

00:25:09.000 I had a conversation with a woman recently about this where there's these positive stereotypes about Asian women.

00:25:15.000 It's like, don't tell everybody that Asian women are just respectful and submissive. 1.00

00:25:19.000 Then they're going to come to expect it.

00:25:21.000 It's like, okay, fair enough.

00:25:22.000 I'm sure not all Asian women are like that, but that's a positive expectation. 1.00

00:25:27.000 You know what I'm saying?

00:25:28.000 Women of different races, they have to work against negative expectations. 1.00

00:25:31.000 You know what I'm saying?

00:25:31.000 So it's like, I get that it might be annoying, or maybe there's a pressure to live up to some certain positive expectations, but it's a good problem to have all things being equal.

00:25:39.000 Like, is it really that bad that people assume that you're good at math?

00:25:42.000 Yeah.

00:25:43.000 I guess if you're not that great at math, it could cause some difficulties, but, you know, she was telling me how she was given a job, she was offered a job as an accountant, just because she thinks that she was an Asian woman.

00:25:56.000 I have a reminder.

00:25:57.000 It's like, the upshot here is that you were offered a job just because of your race.

00:26:01.000 It's like, that's a good problem to have.

00:26:03.000 But I don't want to be an accountant.

00:26:04.000 It's like, I get that.

00:26:06.000 But you got offered a job.

00:26:08.000 Yeah.

00:26:09.000 How many other kinds of women are gone? 1.00

00:26:11.000 Can you imagine?

00:26:11.000 That's wild, bro.

00:26:11.000 Just for being black?

00:26:12.000 Yeah. 0.69

00:26:13.000 That would be amazing.

00:26:14.000 What was that?

00:26:14.000 Fried chicken tester?

00:26:17.000 Purple drink tester?

00:26:18.000 I mean, you got some purple drink right now. 0.98

00:26:20.000 Take the grapes, nigga! 1.00

00:26:21.000 John's a girl of mine, man. 0.98

00:26:22.000 We got some purple drink right now, man.

00:26:23.000 Yeah.

00:26:25.000 Yo, no way.

00:26:26.000 No way.

00:26:27.000 Since it's nigga time. 1.00

00:26:28.000 Oh, yeah.

00:26:29.000 Y'all like that?

00:26:30.000 Oh, yeah.

00:26:30.000 We got the windspinners, too.

00:26:32.000 Grape juice and brushes, man.

00:26:33.000 Grape juice and brushes now, baby.

00:26:35.000 Oh, man.

00:26:37.000 Link is below.

00:26:38.000 What, Mo?

00:26:39.000 Oh, yeah, yeah.

00:26:40.000 RP Strongstream, guys.

00:26:41.000 We're going to do that tonight, by the way, as well.

00:26:43.000 We're going to cover the top 10 or 20 Red Pill songs.

00:26:46.000 After the after hours.

00:26:47.000 After the after hours.

00:26:48.000 So you guys are going to get a three-peat today, man.

00:26:50.000 But the way I see it, to go back to that, which is, I used to think that you would just go to one of these countries like Thailand or Colombia because you couldn't catch fish here in America.

00:27:00.000 But even Master Fisherman...

00:27:03.000 Take their boats to where there's more of the fish that they want to catch, and they can catch it more easily.

00:27:07.000 Just because you can, and I do believe that, you can still find quality women in America, but it's so much easier to find quality women.

00:27:16.000 20 is more over there.

00:27:17.000 Sure.

00:27:17.000 And I wouldn't even consider Japan as a passport, because normally they give a negative connotation to guys that want to travel to get women.

00:27:27.000 But the thing is with Japan, Japan's actually pretty expensive.

00:27:30.000 Tokyo's one of the most expensive cities in the world.

00:27:32.000 Not right now, man.

00:27:32.000 The yen is very weak against the dollar.

00:27:34.000 So if anybody wants to go to Japan, now is an excellent time to go. 0.98

00:27:36.000 Now is a perfect time to go?

00:27:37.000 Okay.

00:27:38.000 Wow.

00:27:38.000 Things have changed, huh?

00:27:40.000 Inflation has been going.

00:27:41.000 But in general, Tokyo's been a very expensive city to be in.

00:27:45.000 Which is good that the yen is down now.

00:27:47.000 Versus Colombia, it's super cheap.

00:27:49.000 Everyone goes there.

00:27:50.000 Because Japan's a first world country versus where everyone else goes typically for passport destinations.

00:27:54.000 Brazil, Eastern Europe, DR, Colombia, etc.

00:27:58.000 Sure, you make $100,000, it's not that big of a deal.

00:28:00.000 Especially in a place like Miami. 1.00

00:28:01.000 Oh my gosh, you're just a schmuck here. 1.00

00:28:05.000 Yeah, the money's worth it, yeah. 1.00

00:28:06.000 But you have $100,000 in Thailand.

00:28:08.000 You're going to be treated like royalty.

00:28:10.000 It's like a millionaire.

00:28:11.000 Pretty much.

00:28:11.000 Yeah, making $100,000 in Thailand is like you can live like a millionaire in the United States.

00:28:15.000 And that's the same thing.

00:28:15.000 It's like the hypergamous instinct is more or less universal, right?

00:28:19.000 So women want a significantly better offer. 1.00

00:28:22.000 And I think a significantly better offer is generally an order of magnitude.

00:28:24.000 So if a woman is making $100,000, you have to be making seven figures. 0.99

00:28:30.000 In this country to represent a significantly better offer for her.

00:28:34.000 And how many men are making six, seven figures a year?

00:28:37.000 Not a lot.

00:28:37.000 Exactly.

00:28:38.000 And not only that, I mean, this is a controversial take.

00:28:40.000 This is my opinion, not everyone else here at the table.

00:28:43.000 But I talked about this when I was at Access Vegas.

00:28:45.000 I said men have to work significantly harder for a worse product of female in 2023. 1.00

00:28:49.000 I mean, you have to earn significantly more money.

00:28:51.000 You have to be significantly more charming.

00:28:52.000 You have to be more handsome.

00:28:53.000 You have to be more...

00:28:58.000 We're good to go.

00:29:14.000 A regular guy can work at a steel mill, make, you know, 20, 30 grand a year, be able to raise a family off that, and be pretty rest assured he could find a woman that would be submissive and dutiful to him.

00:29:22.000 But you can't find that anymore.

00:29:23.000 It's very difficult.

00:29:24.000 One of the great things about my podcast doing well these days is, and I now do consultations with guys from all over the world, Nice.

00:29:30.000 And I was doing a consultation with a guy from, let's say, the Middle East, and he told me that American men are the best men in the world, and we get the worst deal out of any men in the world.

00:29:43.000 More along those lines.

00:29:44.000 He did the geo-arbitrage, but in a very clever way.

00:29:47.000 Okay.

00:29:49.000 He used Instagram as basically a dating app, and he targeted university girls in his home country.

00:29:56.000 He just sort of looked for people who were posting at the university and started to DM them directly.

00:30:03.000 While living in the West?

00:30:05.000 He was living in Portland, Oregon.

00:30:07.000 Listen, I call this years ago.

00:30:09.000 You remember, right, bro?

00:30:10.000 What did I say?

00:30:11.000 What's the biggest date app in the world?

00:30:13.000 Instagram.

00:30:13.000 It's Instagram, 100%.

00:30:14.000 For sure.

00:30:14.000 It really is.

00:30:15.000 It is, bro.

00:30:15.000 You shouldn't get a girl's number anymore.

00:30:16.000 Just get her Instagram account. 0.97

00:30:17.000 I mean, why?

00:30:19.000 Unless you want to FaceTime.

00:30:20.000 Close the date.

00:30:21.000 That's pretty much it.

00:30:22.000 Might want to grab the number?

00:30:22.000 Yeah, I see what you're saying.

00:30:23.000 Yeah, I mean, an Instagram close could be pretty legit.

00:30:25.000 I say get both, but yes.

00:30:27.000 I mean, in today's day and age, yeah.

00:30:29.000 You've got to grab the idea, too.

00:30:31.000 Instagram is great because it allows you to brag with somebody else's mouth.

00:30:34.000 It's like in the old days when you're at a social party, you're talking to two people, you walk off, you want the other person to turn to the girl that you're targeting and be like, did you know who that is?

00:30:45.000 Yeah.

00:30:45.000 You know, he's the...

00:30:47.000 It's like, oh...

00:30:50.000 It's always more impressive when someone else brags about you.

00:30:53.000 And that's what Instagram does.

00:30:55.000 You can brag about yourself, but it looks like someone else is doing.

00:30:58.000 It's a very curated peephole into your life.

00:31:00.000 And so it allows you to show people the impressive things about you without being overtly...

00:31:05.000 I look at, as a real estate guy, right?

00:31:09.000 You know, it's all about getting passive income, you know, not necessarily working for your money.

00:31:12.000 Instagram, if you set it up correctly, can give you passive demonstrations of higher value.

00:31:16.000 Passive DHV, right?

00:31:17.000 Just like money coming in without you trying, your Instagram profile will increase your value without you trying.

00:31:23.000 Because it's there, girls are able to look at it. 0.97

00:31:25.000 On their own time, and then boom, your profile demonstrates higher value for you, and then you're able to create social proof.

00:31:30.000 And then if she follows you, if she looks at your stories, you're able to consistently show social proof without being try-hard or showing it to her directly.

00:31:36.000 And you made a good point, because think about it.

00:31:38.000 Back in the day, like you mentioned, you want someone to talk about you to that woman.

00:31:42.000 However, nowadays, it's kind of like the actual Instagram itself talks for you, and as well, it buffers you, because once again, if she doesn't like you, she won't respond.

00:31:50.000 So you know, if Rip, hey, you're not that guy that she wants to actually take out or be with.

00:31:54.000 You guys are absolutely right.

00:31:57.000 One of the things that men do poorly with respect to women, it's like that little knowledge is a dangerous thing. 0.55

00:32:03.000 They learn, oh, women like high-value men.

00:32:05.000 So all I need to do is demonstrate on the date that I have a lot of money, that I have a lot of status.

00:32:11.000 And so they talk a lot, and they bore the woman, and he just comes off as try-hard or douchey.

00:32:17.000 Good point.

00:32:17.000 What I always say to guys, it's like good literature.

00:32:21.000 Show, don't tell.

00:32:22.000 And if possible, allow her to discover the impressive things about you.

00:32:28.000 So it's always more impressive if someone finds out that you have a Porsche.

00:32:32.000 It's like, do you know anybody who's run a marathon who hasn't told anybody that they were running a marathon?

00:32:36.000 I think it might be physically impossible for someone to do that.

00:32:39.000 But if that were true, it would seem so much more valuable.

00:32:44.000 Yeah.

00:32:45.000 No, I mean, we've said it, shout out to our guy Donovan Sharp, discovery always trumps disclosure.

00:32:50.000 Absolutely.

00:32:51.000 Every single time, especially with women. 0.99

00:32:53.000 And yeah, it's a very delicate balance of like, Getting your shit together and being higher value, higher status, but not necessarily bragging about it and having someone else or having something else do it for you so that you can kind of find it on your own. 0.57

00:33:06.000 I can't tell you how many girls have the issue where a guy would be like, oh my god, you know what I do for a living. 1.00

00:33:10.000 I'm successful.

00:33:11.000 Look at my cars.

00:33:11.000 It's like, bro, you just ruined it.

00:33:13.000 Totally.

00:33:14.000 Versus your Instagram page, oh wow, is that his car?

00:33:16.000 No way.

00:33:17.000 And if you see that after the fact, you win.

00:33:19.000 And if you're lucky enough to have a Porsche, I tell guys that the best place for it is in the background.

00:33:24.000 Yeah.

00:33:24.000 Because what's more impressive, they have a Porsche or that you're so rich that your Porsche is just your car and it doesn't have to be the focus of the picture?

00:33:33.000 Because I guarantee they're going to notice that there's a Porsche in the picture or a Ferrari, whatever you happen to have.

00:33:37.000 Yeah, that's a good point.

00:33:39.000 You can leave little breadcrumbs for women to kind of follow back to the impressive things, but you should always allow them to discover those things. 0.94

00:33:45.000 I have a new thing that I do now.

00:33:47.000 So, for example, let's say I have her phone number, right?

00:33:50.000 I don't have her Instagram.

00:33:51.000 I'll say, hey, you know what?

00:33:52.000 I'm going to pick you up in a Toyota Corolla.

00:33:54.000 It'll be black, of course. 1.00

00:33:55.000 I pull up in black, but it's actually a G-Wagon.

00:33:57.000 It's hilarious because does he already respond to it?

00:33:59.000 It's funny as hell, bro.

00:34:00.000 It's funny.

00:34:01.000 Um...

00:34:01.000 Did you get your cars back, by the way?

00:34:04.000 Last time I was here, you said that Walter had to sell most of his cars.

00:34:09.000 Did you get any of your cars back?

00:34:10.000 Oh, he was trying.

00:34:10.000 He was trying.

00:34:11.000 He was trying, man.

00:34:13.000 Actually, I'm getting a new one tomorrow.

00:34:15.000 Oh, yeah?

00:34:15.000 You want to spill?

00:34:16.000 No.

00:34:17.000 You'll see it on Instagram.

00:34:18.000 There you go.

00:34:20.000 But yeah, so your opinion has changed on the Passport Bro movement in general, I guess.

00:34:25.000 Or you've kind of seen why they're doing what they're doing?

00:34:28.000 I think I've just accommodated myself to American women so much over the last, you know, 10 years, 20 years.

00:34:34.000 And I just, it's like, okay, you know, there's ways of making do.

00:34:39.000 You know, there are quality women out there, and you have to learn how to vet and filter for them. 1.00

00:34:43.000 But it was great to be in a place where it was respectful, lovely, feminine, elegant women.

00:34:51.000 I mean, it was a treat.

00:34:53.000 Yeah. 0.99

00:34:53.000 Yeah, and I think, because we get asked so many times, like, yo, what are your thoughts on Password Bros, blah, blah, blah, and I've always said, like, dude, if you want to go abroad and find a girl, you can do that, but understand that American women don't give a fuck. 0.99

00:35:05.000 I don't know why you guys want us to talk so much about Password Bros as if American women care, because, like, The funny part is that, like, I say, oh, I'm going abroad. 1.00

00:35:12.000 Fuck this shit. 1.00

00:35:13.000 Fuck America. 1.00

00:35:13.000 Fuck the West. 1.00

00:35:14.000 I'm going to go find girls abroad. 1.00

00:35:15.000 Do it.

00:35:16.000 But understand that American women, number one, are not going to change.

00:35:19.000 And then, number two, they really don't care, guys.

00:35:21.000 Like, when they ask that question on the Super Chat, I'll be like, you know what?

00:35:25.000 Raise your hands.

00:35:25.000 How many of you guys know about Passport Bros?

00:35:27.000 Like, maybe one girl on the show might know.

00:35:29.000 Zero, one.

00:35:30.000 But in general, most girls have zero concept of this idea of men leaving the West to go find women.

00:35:35.000 Most women don't know what it is. 1.00

00:35:36.000 But when they learn about it, they generally are very antagonistic to the idea.

00:35:39.000 And if they do find about it, exactly.

00:35:40.000 They'll lose even more respect for men that do it.

00:35:43.000 They might laugh about it or roast you, but that's about it.

00:35:46.000 Because they don't understand that quite literally, yes, there's a cesspool in the dating market for men here in the United States where it's like you've got to work really hard for virtually nothing.

00:35:53.000 So it makes sense a lot of times to go abroad.

00:35:55.000 But even if you mention that, like in her eyes, in Western women's eyes, they're going to look at it like, oh, well, you have to do that because you're of lower sexual market value. 1.00

00:36:02.000 I think the only way they'll actually feel the pain is if the guy that they actually want is the one doing it.

00:36:06.000 Guys that they don't care about, oh, you can leave.

00:36:08.000 I don't really care.

00:36:09.000 But all the guys that they cared about, six foot, successful, went abroad, then they would care.

00:36:14.000 So they have to. 0.99

00:36:15.000 Yeah, but women in general really don't give a fuck about what men think and what we're doing or what we're experiencing. 1.00

00:36:19.000 And I think men need to just understand that they really don't care and stop asking, what do women think about the Passport Bros movement? 0.98

00:36:25.000 Most of them have zero clue.

00:36:28.000 Well, I'm not surprised by the reaction because there's really only three ways that women have game. 1.00

00:36:33.000 I should probably make an episode about this, but why not?

00:36:37.000 Historically, they can only do three things. 0.96

00:36:38.000 One is they can throw sex at you. 0.97

00:36:40.000 And they say that a... 0.99

00:36:42.000 Way to a man's heart is through his stomach.

00:36:44.000 No, it's a little bit lower. 0.96

00:36:45.000 And if women can be crazy in the bedroom and they can do things that that man has never done with another woman, didn't even know it was possible to do with that anatomy, it's going to melt his brain. 0.99

00:36:57.000 He's not going to be able to think straight. 0.95

00:36:59.000 And if she plays her cards right, she's going to be able to lock him into a commitment before he even knows what's what.

00:37:05.000 The second way is through shame.

00:37:08.000 And they have their own version of Dread Game, which is that they shame men into doing what they want. 0.98

00:37:14.000 You have to man up.

00:37:15.000 A real man would step up and take responsibility. 1.00

00:37:20.000 These passport bros are just losers. 1.00

00:37:22.000 I mean, it reminds me of... 0.99

00:37:24.000 The women who would go around in the teens and shame publicly the men who didn't sign up for the draft to go fight in the war. 0.55

00:37:33.000 They would tie these, I think, yellow ribbons around them to show that they were cowards.

00:37:39.000 Though who knows why they weren't allowed to fight.

00:37:41.000 I'm sure that they didn't all simply not want to go.

00:37:45.000 We can't forget as well the age.

00:37:46.000 Oh, you like dating younger women? 0.99

00:37:48.000 You're a weirdo. 0.66

00:37:50.000 Yeah, but those young women like dating older men. 1.00

00:37:52.000 I mean, that's the truth, is that in no culture on the planet today and historically has the average age of a woman been older than the average age of a man at first marriage.

00:38:03.000 So it's like men date younger women because, in part, women like older men.

00:38:08.000 Because older men are more established, they're more successful, they're emotionally regulated. 0.99

00:38:13.000 There was that, did we talk about this last time, about that study, I think it was based on Tinder, that based on the actual swiping behavior of women, apparently the most attractive age for a man, they reach their peak sexual marketplace value at 50.

00:38:28.000 Yes, yes, I think we had some mention of that, yeah.

00:38:30.000 Yeah, that makes sense.

00:38:31.000 Yeah.

00:38:32.000 Patrick Dempsey, do you know who that is?

00:38:34.000 I've heard the name before.

00:38:35.000 He was just named people's sexiest man in the world.

00:38:39.000 I saw it, he's 57.

00:38:40.000 Yeah.

00:38:41.000 I believe it.

00:38:42.000 I mean, for men, I mean, if you do the work, you can actually really, you can maintain, if not actually even potentially increase your sexual market value as a man, you know what I mean?

00:38:51.000 Girls like the greys. 1.00

00:38:52.000 Wasn't it that guy, the actor, George Clooney, wasn't he also an icon too as well?

00:38:56.000 Yeah.

00:38:56.000 Idris Elba.

00:38:57.000 Yeah, Idris Elba.

00:38:58.000 All these dudes are older.

00:38:59.000 You know what I mean?

00:39:00.000 Like, The Rock.

00:39:01.000 You know what I mean?

00:39:01.000 Like, all these guys are significantly older.

00:39:03.000 If you look at them now versus, you know, 20, 30 years ago when they were younger, like, they get more women now, you know?

00:39:09.000 Sorry, so you were saying, and then what was the third way that they had the game?

00:39:12.000 The third way is actually in conjunction with the first two.

00:39:14.000 The third way is the takeaway, which is that, you know, and if they do things right, they either...

00:39:19.000 Throw the sex at you, and then they threaten to take it away. 0.89

00:39:23.000 Gotcha. 0.94

00:39:24.000 So it's like you either have to put a ring on the finger by this or we're done. 0.66

00:39:27.000 That's basically how they get killed.

00:39:29.000 The second one you mentioned, which is shaming men, and I think that's really important because a lot of guys don't even know that they're being shamed sometimes because it's so inclusive and popular American Western culture to say things to men like, grow up.

00:39:42.000 I remember one girl vividly said, oh, men are Peter Pan boys.

00:39:45.000 They don't want to grow up, etc.

00:39:46.000 Or, the most famous one is, you're having a midlife crisis, right?

00:39:50.000 And you made an entire video on this.

00:39:52.000 Can you break down this whole concept of midlife crisis that we say about men and why guys need to go in with their eyes wide open when they hear that insult?

00:40:03.000 Yeah, it's really interesting because it doesn't seem to affect everyone equally.

00:40:10.000 Clearly, not all men have midlife crises, and it seems very clear that more men seem to have midlife crises than women, and that's kind of strange.

00:40:18.000 I mean, if midlife crises are just about a growing awareness of our own mortality and how little time we may have left, it seems like that should affect women equally than men.

00:40:27.000 True.

00:40:27.000 Right?

00:40:27.000 Yeah.

00:40:28.000 So I do think that there's some component to that, is that it gets to be about 40 to 50.

00:40:33.000 You might have your first real brush with mortality.

00:40:35.000 Maybe you had your first real illness.

00:40:38.000 Maybe your parents are ill or they've passed on.

00:40:41.000 And you realize, wow, my grandparents are gone.

00:40:44.000 My parents are gone.

00:40:44.000 I'm actually next on the chopping block.

00:40:46.000 Who knows how much time I have left.

00:40:49.000 And when people...

00:40:51.000 I learned this when I worked with cancer patients for a couple years.

00:40:54.000 When people actually are facing...

00:40:57.000 I think?

00:41:15.000 All of your fake problems tend to disappear very, very quickly.

00:41:19.000 And neurosis is mistaking a fake problem for a real problem.

00:41:23.000 That's my definition of it.

00:41:24.000 Which causes real suffering, by the way.

00:41:28.000 So, the reason why I think certain men are subject to the midlife crisis is It tends to afflict guys who are more rule following, who are sacrificial, who have stepped up and done the right thing for most of their lives.

00:41:45.000 And I think they get to this point where they realize, oh, how much time do I have left?

00:41:49.000 And they think, my whole life I've been doing what other people have told me to do.

00:41:54.000 I've done what I should have done.

00:41:56.000 I've been a good boy.

00:41:57.000 You know, I've gone to school and I did what my teacher said.

00:42:00.000 I've gone to work and I've done what my employer said.

00:42:03.000 And then I've served my wife and my children dutifully for sometimes 10, 20 years.

00:42:09.000 And I think, well, what about me?

00:42:12.000 When do I get to live my life?

00:42:14.000 When do I get to benefit from the good and the value that I'm generating for all these people around me?

00:42:20.000 I want a cut of my own pie, too.

00:42:23.000 And it looks like a midlife crisis because potentially the last time these guys were allowed to think for themselves, to be selfish, was when they were teenagers, before they were more or less forced to assume responsibility, sometimes very early.

00:42:36.000 And so that's why I think a lot of male midlife crises look like teenage fantasies.

00:42:40.000 It's because they're kind of out of practice being selfish.

00:42:43.000 So it's like fast cars and hot women. 1.00

00:42:45.000 Nothing wrong with that, of course.

00:42:46.000 But one of the points that I made is that I think it's useful for guys to ask, what about me sooner?

00:42:55.000 Yes.

00:42:55.000 Earlier in their lives.

00:42:56.000 So it doesn't have to, like, explode in an orgy of adolescent, let's say, selfishness.

00:43:02.000 At 45.

00:43:03.000 I think it's good to be selfish.

00:43:05.000 Like, selfish is baked into the individual organism.

00:43:08.000 It's connected to our survival instincts.

00:43:10.000 I think trying to override our natural predilection for selfishness is probably going to cause more problems than it's going to solve, actually.

00:43:17.000 And I do think that the reason why men tend to have more midlife crises than women do is that women aren't out of practice asking, well, what about me?

00:43:26.000 This is something that they ask throughout their lives.

00:43:29.000 So I think if...

00:43:31.000 It's interesting.

00:43:32.000 The key here is to, I call it creative selfishness.

00:43:36.000 And that's kind of what makes the world go round.

00:43:39.000 Like, we're all in it for myself.

00:43:41.000 Like, Myron, can I just have some money?

00:43:43.000 Would you mind?

00:43:43.000 You have enough money, man.

00:43:44.000 Just give me some money.

00:43:45.000 I want to have some of your money.

00:43:46.000 Is that going to work?

00:43:48.000 Probably not.

00:43:48.000 Probably not, right?

00:43:50.000 Though he could spare it, I'm sure.

00:43:51.000 So I've got to be creative.

00:43:52.000 I've got to show up and provide something of value to be able to do business and transact with the world.

00:43:59.000 Because they're all out for themselves too, and they're gonna try to get what they need and want from me.

00:44:03.000 And so creative selfishness is how can I get what I want by being of value to other people?

00:44:10.000 That's like, how do I fit into the world among everybody, kind of the dog-eat-dog world of everybody all out for themselves?

00:44:19.000 I think you're right because in order for you to be selfless, you have to be selfish first.

00:44:23.000 Because how can you appreciate it if you were never the opposite?

00:44:25.000 So I think that's a good point.

00:44:29.000 There's also, we can appreciate that the self, the concept of the self continues to evolve.

00:44:35.000 Like Jordan Peterson talks about this, is that on higher and higher levels, you can conceive of the self as encompassing more and more of society.

00:44:45.000 Like in the beginning, selfishness is just you.

00:44:48.000 But then selfishness might be, like, your family.

00:44:51.000 Like, you wouldn't necessarily throw your family on the bus just to save yourself, right?

00:44:55.000 And so now there's some folks who might be more important or as important than you.

00:44:59.000 And then it might be their community.

00:45:01.000 Because what is the good of living in a house if the rest of your community is a war zone and it's unsafe and there's crime everywhere? 0.98

00:45:09.000 It's like, that's no way to live.

00:45:11.000 And so then you begin to take and assume kind of a greater conceptualization of self.

00:45:15.000 At the highest levels, we...

00:45:17.000 What's good for the individual is what is ultimately good for the greatest number of people.

00:45:25.000 We all have to get there together, eventually.

00:45:27.000 That was well said.

00:45:29.000 We're a long way off, but we all have to get there together.

00:45:31.000 Add on to that midlife crisis thing, because I've seen women use this a lot, right? 1.00

00:45:35.000 And they typically use it for guys that are kind of...

00:45:40.000 Having some fun because you mentioned something earlier that a lot of them end up where they're making a lot of sacrifice early on in their life to end up creating a certain platform for themselves to be able to be successful in their 30s or 40s, etc.

00:45:52.000 A lot of times they have to give up their 20s.

00:45:53.000 And this is what I did, honestly, to be honest.

00:45:56.000 Some girls tell me sometimes, oh, you're going through a midlife crisis, blah, blah, blah.

00:46:00.000 And in my head, I'm like...

00:46:02.000 I don't think it's a midlife crisis.

00:46:03.000 I look at it like more along the lines of I'm finally realizing my worth and I have the ability to do things that I wanted to do that I wasn't able to do before and it's always interesting because whenever women say oh you're going through a midlife crisis nine out of ten times they're saying that but They were the ones that had fun in their 20s.

00:46:19.000 They were able to do certain things They're able to experience certain things in life without necessarily having to sacrifice whereas the man you can't experience these things unless you sacrifice so If you tell an 18-year-old girl, 19-year-old girl, 20-year-old girl, whatever it is, hey, you should settle down and find a guy.

00:46:33.000 They'll look at you with three heads like, no, I'm not going to do that.

00:46:35.000 I'm going to live my life.

00:46:37.000 I'm going to do what I want to do.

00:46:38.000 But if a woman asks a guy in his 30s or his 40s, hey, why aren't you No, I'm going to live my life and do what I want to do.

00:46:45.000 And they're looking at them, oh, you're going through a midlife crisis.

00:46:47.000 No, I'm not going through a midlife crisis.

00:46:48.000 I just finally realized what my value is. 0.99

00:46:50.000 And it's not going ahead and committing to women that, quite frankly, decided to have their fun in their 20s and be whores. 0.83

00:46:55.000 While I had to go ahead and sacrifice, I want to go ahead and get her a girl when she's at her peak, when I'm at my peak. 0.94

00:47:00.000 And I think that's the best way for it to go.

00:47:01.000 But I think...

00:47:03.000 When women say the term, because it's typically females that say you're going through a midlife crisis, not really men. 0.98

00:47:08.000 If it's men, it's loser guys that are more beta. 0.95

00:47:10.000 And it's not out of concern. 0.97

00:47:11.000 A crisis sounds like a bad thing.

00:47:13.000 Are you okay?

00:47:15.000 It's definitely a pejorative term.

00:47:17.000 Yeah, 100% it is.

00:47:18.000 It's not actually concerned about the person's mental health.

00:47:23.000 It's a pejorative term to shame them into growing up.

00:47:27.000 You know, Peter Pan syndrome, I remember one girl said, a lot of guys have Peter Pan syndrome, blah, blah, blah.

00:47:31.000 Oh, how old are you again?

00:47:32.000 Oh, I'm 29.

00:47:33.000 Oh, yeah, now you want to go ahead and say that guys have Peter Pan syndrome.

00:47:36.000 You weren't calling people Peter Pan syndrome when you were 19 or 20. 0.84

00:47:40.000 You were having sex with those guys, and you were happy that they were willing to take you in a Ferrari and show you around and everything.

00:47:45.000 You loved the Peter Pans when you were at your peak, but now as you're getting older and you're trying to get some stability, now they're Peter Pans. 0.98

00:47:50.000 Now they're commitment phobes.

00:47:51.000 Now they're having midlife crises.

00:47:53.000 Now they're immature. 1.00

00:47:54.000 Now they're fuckboys, right? 0.98

00:47:55.000 But when the women are at their peak, none of this vocabulary is used when they're at their peak. 1.00

00:47:59.000 And typically, when you hear male crisis, you hear a guy that's around 40 plus at Hooters or Twin Peaks with a Corvette that's just drinking beer, watching sports, hitting on the girls that work there.

00:48:10.000 That's what you hear normally.

00:48:11.000 But on the other hand, women that call guys that, what are they doing? 0.99

00:48:15.000 Shaming them to go back to their family and stay in order.

00:48:18.000 So you're right, man.

00:48:19.000 Very good point.

00:48:19.000 It's just like the passport bros.

00:48:20.000 They think that that is a pathetic man. 1.00

00:48:22.000 Yes. 0.75

00:48:23.000 And what's really interesting about the grow-up talk is that you never, in every instance that it is utilized against men, and I think it's actually been used against me more often by other men, to be honest.

00:48:37.000 And there's a lot of men out there who are white knights who are looking out for the...

00:48:40.000 Yeah, I was going to say, they're typically simps that use that term.

00:48:42.000 It's women and simps. 1.00

00:48:44.000 But, like, every time it's been leveled against me, it's been a veiled attempt to...

00:48:44.000 But, sorry, continue, please.

00:48:51.000 Do what is best for the woman in question.

00:48:53.000 Like, no one ever pulled me aside and said, Orion, you know, man, you really need to be true to yourself.

00:49:00.000 And you need to spend the time to figure out what it is that makes you happy and to chase that with reckless abandon.

00:49:05.000 You need to man up and do that.

00:49:07.000 Or you need to man up and start that business that you've been talking about for 10 years.

00:49:10.000 You need to man up and leave that woman because you clearly don't have that genuine burning desire for her anymore. 0.96

00:49:16.000 She's not good for you, man.

00:49:17.000 Man up and just end it.

00:49:18.000 You never hear talk like that.

00:49:20.000 It's always put the ring on her.

00:49:23.000 Do the right thing.

00:49:25.000 Which is always do the right thing for the woman in question.

00:49:28.000 But they never say that to the women.

00:49:29.000 They say do the right thing for you.

00:49:31.000 That's the biggest difference.

00:49:32.000 Whenever advice is dispensed to females versus men.

00:49:34.000 It's only selfish if it doesn't benefit them.

00:49:35.000 By the way, Twitch, come to YouTube and rumble because we've said this too many times.

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00:50:27.000 And someone asks, what are you wearing, bro?

00:50:27.000 What do we got here?

00:50:28.000 I'll explain later.

00:50:29.000 It's coming, it's coming.

00:50:30.000 Yeah, coming with today's episode, which we're going to talk about the Diddy situation as well, guys.

00:50:34.000 Just wanted to catch up.

00:50:35.000 Can you read some of these chats real quick? 1.00

00:50:37.000 GreaseJunkiesDIY says, Fuck Bad Boys, it's a style record label, and it's a motherfucking crew. 1.00

00:50:42.000 And if you want to be done with Bad Boy, then fuck you too. 1.00

00:50:44.000 Chino XL, RP2PAC, West Coast. 1.00

00:50:48.000 There you go.

00:50:49.000 We got here, Derek the Trader says, Y'all know what time it is.

00:50:53.000 Fresh, you so ugly when you threw a boomerang, it didn't come back.

00:50:56.000 Ha ha ha! 0.95

00:50:59.000 That's pretty funny, bro. 0.99

00:51:00.000 He says as well, Fresh so ugly, when you were born, the doctor slapped your parents. 1.00

00:51:11.000 Okay, nigga. 1.00

00:51:12.000 Again, Derek says, Fresh, you're so ugly, because we gave you a Red Bull. 1.00

00:51:20.000 You're funny, man. 0.96

00:51:21.000 Okay, cool.

00:51:22.000 What's next?

00:51:24.000 How did I invite the ops on the podcast?

00:51:41.000 I mean, if I invite somebody on, I'll talk to Myron first, so I don't know what you're trying to say.

00:51:49.000 RizalRealm, shout out to you for subbing to Twitch.

00:51:51.000 Appreciate it.

00:51:53.000 RopalSane says, WMyron, best example for males to follow.

00:51:56.000 Honorable, always stick to his word.

00:51:58.000 Y'all kick on fire, maybe stream on there.

00:52:07.000 We're not leaving Rumble, man.

00:52:12.000 This is the home base, like I said, free speech.

00:52:15.000 You know, the president of Rumble is actually a good friend of ours.

00:52:19.000 We rock with him.

00:52:20.000 Like, we're not leaving.

00:52:21.000 So it is what it is, man.

00:52:22.000 We're here till the ship.

00:52:25.000 We went even, baby.

00:52:26.000 When we were down, and people hit on us, and we were, uh, there you go.

00:52:32.000 We were canceled.

00:52:33.000 Who had our back?

00:52:34.000 Rumble.

00:52:36.000 Shout out to Rumble, man.

00:52:38.000 So, yeah, man.

00:52:39.000 I know Kik is like the young guy's streaming platform, but Rumble's better, bro.

00:52:39.000 I get it.

00:52:45.000 No hate on Kik, but Rumble's better.

00:52:47.000 What else do we got here?

00:52:48.000 Blackest Panther.

00:52:49.000 Oh, Blackest Panther or Cam Two Times.

00:52:50.000 I pulled a woman from Thailand, and this BBC is up. 1.00

00:52:50.000 Okay. 1.00

00:52:53.000 I've never been with an Asian woman before.

00:52:55.000 I was thinking, what are y'all thoughts on black and Asian relationships, specifically black men and Asian women?

00:52:59.000 Dude, if you're happy, do it, bro.

00:53:01.000 Yeah, they could go create a Tiger Woods.

00:53:02.000 Black is back there. 1.00

00:53:03.000 I know Chaz says not to bring streamers or influencers on the pod, but it's 100% needed. 0.96

00:53:07.000 Their audience is why we have an OF pandemic of simps and men that have no self-respect. 0.63

00:53:10.000 Their audiences need RP content the most.

00:53:12.000 FNF will continue to change lives.

00:53:13.000 Yeah, guys, I mean, you know, like I said, I don't have a problem with Jack.

00:53:17.000 I don't have a problem with Neon, any of these young guys that are, you know, trying to make it with the streaming and doing the IRL thing.

00:53:21.000 Obviously, they have a younger audience that might need some guidance down the road, and, you know, we could collab and...

00:53:26.000 Audience is great.

00:53:26.000 Sure.

00:53:28.000 You know, we don't have a problem with Jack.

00:53:29.000 So, you know, it is what it is.

00:53:32.000 Tyler25, thanks for the value, guys.

00:53:34.000 Continue to deliver.

00:53:35.000 Keep y'all foot on the pedal.

00:53:36.000 2024, all gas, no brakes.

00:53:37.000 FNF and fam to the effin' mood.

00:53:39.000 Yeah, man.

00:53:40.000 I appreciate that, Tyler.

00:53:40.000 Shout out to you, bro.

00:53:41.000 He's been M.A. for a minute.

00:53:42.000 Appreciate that, my friend.

00:53:42.000 Shut the pedal on, man.

00:53:43.000 OG in his face.

00:53:47.000 Shout out to you, my friend.

00:53:49.000 I appreciate that.

00:53:49.000 What does that mean?

00:53:51.000 Shout out to you, bro.

00:53:54.000 Like he's going super same like that?

00:53:55.000 Yeah, he's going super same.

00:53:56.000 His workout's, by the way, on Instagram.

00:53:58.000 He's really in shape.

00:53:59.000 It's over 9,000!

00:54:02.000 The senior, should I hard reset my life and move back in with my parents?

00:54:05.000 I have children whose lives I'm very active in, but due to child support and random debt, I'm drowning.

00:54:09.000 I was making 80K at the beginning of the year and had to take a demotion.

00:54:12.000 Now I'm at 55.

00:54:13.000 Ooh.

00:54:14.000 Hey, bro, nothing wrong with doing that if you need to, man.

00:54:16.000 If you need to reset and go back with your family for a bit, it is what it is, man.

00:54:20.000 Make it happen.

00:54:21.000 You just need to focus on making more money, especially since you have family.

00:54:24.000 Shout out to y'all.

00:54:24.000 So this is Castle Club.

00:54:25.000 PsychHack's one of the most swagged-out white boys I know. 0.99

00:54:27.000 Dude is a fucking badass. 0.99

00:54:28.000 Love you and your channel, homie. 0.99

00:54:29.000 Come out to Vegas.

00:54:29.000 I'll have some...

00:54:30.000 Bad hoes waiting for you out here. 1.00

00:54:32.000 All right, Avenger.

00:54:33.000 He has no problems right now.

00:54:34.000 He's good.

00:54:35.000 Yeah, he's doing pretty well.

00:54:36.000 50s old, and he probably got a Japanese girlfriend now at this point, too.

00:54:39.000 50s old and no problem getting women. 1.00

00:54:41.000 Problem was maintaining frame and LTRs.

00:54:43.000 You helped with this.

00:54:43.000 I asked Rolo about dating if no interest in casual sex.

00:54:46.000 Myron, you instead told me to go watch H3 Podcast.

00:54:48.000 Not all supporters have the same problems, so just be kind to the supporters who ask genuine questions.

00:54:51.000 Wait, you helped with this.

00:54:52.000 I asked Rolo about dating if no interest in casual sex.

00:54:55.000 Myron, you said go to...

00:54:59.000 All right, man. 0.77

00:55:00.000 I mean, like I said before, because a lot of people are critical of me of, like, when I say, yo, you need to have had sex with 50 women before you actually think about, like, you know, taking marriage seriously, and you go, oh, bro, you're promoting the genesis, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. 0.79

00:55:00.000 Okay, bro. 0.79

00:55:13.000 Look, man, I'm telling guys to be able to understand female nature and put yourself in a position where you're sexually experienced where a girl can't manipulate you.

00:55:20.000 I'm not saying 50 bodies is the...

00:55:23.000 End-all, be-all number, but it'll put you in a position where you should be able to understand female nature to a degree. 1.00

00:55:28.000 What are your thoughts on that, brother?

00:55:30.000 As far as, like, you know, people don't like that stance that I say, like, hey, you need to be 35, make 100K per year, six months of savings, be in shape, and hooked up with 50 chicks.

00:55:39.000 Do you think that's a bad, I guess, strategy to move before getting married?

00:55:43.000 No, we talked about that last time.

00:55:45.000 I tell guys they shouldn't seriously consider getting into a long-term committed relationship headed towards marriage until at least 35.

00:55:52.000 And I think that's for a number of good reasons.

00:55:54.000 One of the main reasons is that around 30 is the time when an average man's sexual marketplace value exceeds the average woman's sexual marketplace value for the very first time. 0.55

00:56:05.000 And until that happens, all through the 20s, a woman is going to be outclassing a guy left and right. 1.00

00:56:12.000 Yeah.

00:56:13.000 An average 22-year-old woman is going to have so much better options. 1.00

00:56:17.000 It's not even close.

00:56:18.000 It's not even close.

00:56:19.000 She's beating celebrities. 1.00

00:56:19.000 She smokes you. 1.00

00:56:20.000 She can't.

00:56:22.000 She's literally getting more attention than celebrities, man. 1.00

00:56:24.000 Well, being a really hot 23-year-old is basically the equivalent of being a billionaire scion, like an heir to a fortune, like a trust funder.

00:56:34.000 The world, you live in a bubble.

00:56:34.000 Yeah.

00:56:36.000 The world is just very different for you.

00:56:38.000 But even if you're not super hot, at least you're 23.

00:56:40.000 And the 23-year-olds, they're getting hit on by the 23-year-olds.

00:56:43.000 They're getting hit on by the 23-year-old's fathers.

00:56:46.000 They're getting hit on by the 23-year-old's grandfathers.

00:56:48.000 I mean, they got the pick of the litter, right?

00:56:49.000 In general, the person who has more options has more power.

00:56:55.000 And if you have more power, you have more leverage in dictating the terms of the relationship.

00:56:59.000 I mean, we've seen even recently, Cassie was 19.

00:57:03.000 Did he hit on her?

00:57:04.000 Yeah.

00:57:04.000 Multi-millionaire, power, successful.

00:57:07.000 Good point.

00:57:07.000 Can I have any girl in the world?

00:57:09.000 Yep.

00:57:09.000 19-year-old.

00:57:10.000 That's true, man.

00:57:11.000 Brother love!

00:57:12.000 And real quick, I got to ask you about this from a psychology perspective.

00:57:19.000 In a relationship, who do you think should have the leverage and what are the social ramifications of each if one party holds it?

00:57:29.000 Well, I think one of the reasons why we have yet to have a World War III is because of the nuclear bomb and that more than one country has it.

00:57:39.000 Like, if only the Americans developed the bomb, we probably would have become even more tyrannical than we have in the last 70 years.

00:57:47.000 But the fact that at the beginning just the USSR did, it created some deterrence between those two superpowers. 0.54

00:57:53.000 Yeah.

00:57:53.000 And I do think that it's important for men to develop optionality so that they can combat the passive optionality that a woman has just by being a woman.

00:58:03.000 And that kind of levels the playing field.

00:58:07.000 You don't necessarily have to be spinning plates, though that's one way to do it.

00:58:12.000 The best thing for a man to be is visibly competent.

00:58:17.000 Women, in order to increase their optionality, they want to be visibly attractive. 1.00

00:58:21.000 That's why they're on Instagram with the booty pics, right?

00:58:23.000 They're using their body as bait.

00:58:25.000 Men can't really do that.

00:58:26.000 A lot of guys, some guys can if they're really, you know, yoked.

00:58:30.000 I'll tell you from example, when you post shirtless photos, you get more attention from men.

00:58:33.000 So it doesn't help you as a guy.

00:58:35.000 Yeah, you get more.

00:58:35.000 Interesting.

00:58:36.000 Pause.

00:58:37.000 But when you're a guy and you're in really great shape, some girls will admire it, but to be honest with you, and ask any guy that's a fitness influencer, they'll tell you.

00:58:44.000 You get more attention from men.

00:58:45.000 Bro, how'd you get your biceps like that, et cetera, than women? 1.00

00:58:48.000 I got that about my car.

00:58:49.000 I thought I was going to be a chick magnet.

00:58:50.000 It turned out to be a dude magnet.

00:58:52.000 Dude.

00:58:53.000 Yeah, man.

00:58:53.000 Guys like, oh, fresh.

00:58:55.000 You bought Lama for girls.

00:58:56.000 No, dude.

00:58:57.000 It's older men that love cars and young kids, oh my god, that's my dream car.

00:59:00.000 Girls are like, is that a Ferrari? 1.00

00:59:02.000 Yeah, they don't even know, bro.

00:59:03.000 They don't know.

00:59:04.000 I got flagged out by a guy who was going the other direction.

00:59:06.000 He was like, stop, stop.

00:59:07.000 That was my dream car.

00:59:08.000 He made me pop the hood.

00:59:09.000 I mean, it was cute, but it was like- What car was it?

00:59:11.000 I have a Z4, a BMW Z4. Okay.

00:59:14.000 I really like that car.

00:59:16.000 It is.

00:59:16.000 Convertible?

00:59:17.000 It's a hardtop convertible.

00:59:18.000 Ooh.

00:59:18.000 Nice.

00:59:19.000 I see how he's doing, man.

00:59:19.000 Right in the back.

00:59:21.000 Midlife crisis?

00:59:23.000 Okay.

00:59:23.000 Midlife success, baby.

00:59:25.000 There you go.

00:59:25.000 But sorry, continue on.

00:59:26.000 So you were talking about the...

00:59:27.000 So men have to be visibly competent. 0.99

00:59:30.000 Yeah.

00:59:31.000 If you do something well, you want to make sure the world knows about it.

00:59:34.000 Yeah.

00:59:34.000 So, to be honest, I think that...

00:59:39.000 Clearly, there are things about being a high-value man, having high net worth, taking care of your body, but I think more than anything else, the magic sauce with women is fame. 1.00

00:59:50.000 Is to be, to have some...

00:59:52.000 Talked about that.

00:59:53.000 We called it years ago, bro!

00:59:55.000 Yeah.

00:59:55.000 Let him finish his thought, then we'll talk about our...

00:59:58.000 And why is that?

00:59:59.000 Because I think that, like, you have to understand, I'm sure you guys already know, but for the audience at home, that... 0.96

01:00:07.000 Attention for a woman is the equivalent of sex for a man. 0.99

01:00:10.000 Yes.

01:00:11.000 It's that reinforcing.

01:00:12.000 And if you are a man who can command an audience, whether it's a stage at your local theatrical production or it's on YouTube or on social media or what have you, and there are eyeballs looking at you, and there are men who respect you, and there are other women looking at you in admiration, like,

01:00:28.000 women are going to find a way to get around you because then they can vicariously bask in the attention that you are receiving. 1.00

01:00:35.000 And women know subconsciously that as a man, if you have an audience or you have some level of notoriety or fame, you're doing something right because it's significantly harder for men to build an audience or get into the music industry or become an entertainer than it is for a female.

01:00:35.000 Yeah.

01:00:50.000 So they know deep down, they're like, alright, you're providing some kind of value if you're big.

01:00:54.000 I've always said, and I hate to say this, A guy that has like 10k followers on Instagram is like the equivalent to like a girl that has like 250k on Instagram.

01:01:02.000 10,000 on Instagram is tough. 0.98

01:01:03.000 As a dude, you got 10k on Instagram, girls are going to be like, oh, this guy's fucking doing something. 1.00

01:01:07.000 That's a benchmark. 0.91

01:01:08.000 You know, that's like a benchmark where, because let's be honest, a regular bimbo can have 100,000 on Instagram with like no pictures up because men are that thirsty. 1.00

01:01:15.000 But as a dude, if you're going to have that kind of following, you're doing something right.

01:01:18.000 It's kind of depressing.

01:01:19.000 They can just do a little dance and put on makeup and some music and they have a million followers.

01:01:24.000 Dude. 1.00

01:01:26.000 There's girls I know on TikTok that literally just make videos about, I'm tall, and they make a bunch of fucking money. 1.00

01:01:32.000 But fame is really, really important. 0.97

01:01:34.000 A lot of guys don't believe this.

01:01:35.000 We'll leave aside this recent celebrity that I've established, but it was so much easier for me to attract women when I was a broke actor living in New York City than as a rich doctor in my 30s.

01:01:49.000 And I think it's because I had my stage, and the lights were on me, and people were looking up, and there was the reviews.

01:01:53.000 Ah, the social status.

01:01:54.000 Exactly.

01:01:55.000 You know, you're the contextual alpha.

01:01:56.000 Being a leading man on a stage, even if it's not a Broadway show, people are going to be waiting at the stage door.

01:02:02.000 You know, you mentioned the contextual alpha.

01:02:05.000 That is so goddamn important, because I've told people this before, that if you're at the right place at the right time with this right situation and context...

01:02:13.000 You can be that guy. 0.86

01:02:14.000 Absolutely.

01:02:15.000 You don't have to necessarily be the most attractive guy or the most physically capable guy, whatever, but if you are the top guy in your certain social niche or circle, you'll be fine.

01:02:24.000 This is why, like, when I used to work in, you know, regular jobs, right, when I was, you guys know I worked at McDonald's, got fired from that, and then I worked in loss prevention at Macy's, et cetera, the girls were hooking up with, like, the managers or the bosses, et cetera, and these guys were relatively lower value, right? 0.93

01:02:39.000 I don't know, some fucking, you know, that's a whole other thing. 0.99

01:02:43.000 Some crazy bitches hit me up, guys. 1.00

01:02:44.000 Sorry. 1.00

01:02:45.000 What the hell? 0.99

01:02:46.000 What the heck? 1.00

01:02:46.000 Just block that whore, man. 1.00

01:02:47.000 I don't even know who she is. 1.00

01:02:49.000 Anyway.

01:02:50.000 I swear to God, bro.

01:02:51.000 I don't know who this chick is. 1.00

01:02:52.000 Best of Asian chick, bro. 0.97

01:02:53.000 What's going on, nigga? 1.00

01:02:55.000 Bro.

01:02:58.000 Yeah, man.

01:02:58.000 Why'd she look Asian, too?

01:03:01.000 Yeah.

01:03:01.000 She did?

01:03:02.000 She did, man.

01:03:03.000 I watched her video and said I'm going to hit up...

01:03:05.000 No, I'm just kidding.

01:03:06.000 Ball jokes aside.

01:03:07.000 Bro, I'm telling y'all niggas, I don't know who it is. 1.00

01:03:07.000 Ball jokes aside. 1.00

01:03:11.000 Turn that off before you go live?

01:03:13.000 Yeah, sorry.

01:03:14.000 Bro, what?

01:03:17.000 Bro.

01:03:20.000 We're talking about, oh yeah, Contextual Alphas.

01:03:22.000 Yes.

01:03:23.000 So they were hooking up with the managers and stuff, and if you look at these guys on paper, they're lower value.

01:03:27.000 I mean, the guys making, I remember back then, we were making like 8, 9, 10 bucks an hour.

01:03:31.000 He was making like an 11, but he was getting a bunch of the girls. 1.00

01:03:33.000 Because in that situation, he was getting a lot of the cases.

01:03:33.000 But why?

01:03:37.000 The management loved him.

01:03:38.000 He was one of the better, we call them story detectives, right?

01:03:41.000 Catching people that are shoplifting.

01:03:43.000 He was getting chicks. 0.94

01:03:43.000 The guy had done a DUI and stuff and whatever, but he was getting women. 0.94

01:03:46.000 How?

01:03:46.000 Because in that case, in that scenario, he was a contextual alpha, so he was able to hook up with a bunch of girls that worked at Macy's at the time.

01:03:52.000 So I think that's also very important, especially since most men meet women through social circle game.

01:03:57.000 Most guys aren't out here cold approaching and doing all this other shit to the same degree that we talk about here in RP. Most guys are literally meeting women through social circle, contextual alphas work, etc.

01:04:07.000 Apps, maybe.

01:04:08.000 That's the furthest they'll get into meeting someone that's different or completely out of their social circle.

01:04:14.000 But yeah, that's very important.

01:04:15.000 But yeah, you're talking about your acting thing.

01:04:16.000 And just to add to your point as well, this is why they will take you dating other women as well.

01:04:21.000 Because they see you as the guy that gets other girls.

01:04:24.000 But if you're an average guy, I'm not sharing an average guy.

01:04:26.000 Why would I do that?

01:04:27.000 Best way to get a woman is to have a woman. 1.00

01:04:29.000 Exactly.

01:04:29.000 Women want what other women want.

01:04:31.000 You're married?

01:04:32.000 You got girls around you?

01:04:33.000 Nothing works better than marriage, because what it does is it kind of makes you safe.

01:04:40.000 Because women actually kind of want to be nicer to guys, but guys, no one's ever nice to them, and so they can't decide whether this woman is just being friendly or she's flirting with him. 0.97

01:04:51.000 That's why they tend to fall in love with the barista who smiles at them, because he's the only person who fucking smiles at him all day. 0.54

01:04:56.000 It's the only, like, actual positive... 0.92

01:04:58.000 Here's your treat, Chad!

01:04:58.000 Hey, Chad!

01:04:59.000 So true, bro.

01:05:00.000 She's my wife.

01:05:01.000 Kinda.

01:05:02.000 Right?

01:05:02.000 But if you're married, it's like, oh, this can't lead to anything, so I'm going to touch you, I'm going to get close to you, I can open up to you.

01:05:08.000 I applaud with my ability.

01:05:09.000 Also, at least one other woman has vetted you and said that you were the best that she could do.

01:05:14.000 Yeah.

01:05:15.000 And it's actually, I mean, it's just like recruiting.

01:05:17.000 It's always easier to steal somebody else's man than to get your own, because it's just 1v1 versus maybe like 1v100, you know what I'm saying?

01:05:25.000 Yeah.

01:05:26.000 That's a good point.

01:05:26.000 No, no, so true, man.

01:05:28.000 Give me some more chats here.

01:05:28.000 Yeah, I'll go back to it.

01:05:31.000 Oh, in a relationship, is it better to be loved or feared?

01:05:35.000 Ooh.

01:05:36.000 I think feared.

01:05:37.000 Because she will love you after that.

01:05:39.000 But obviously not from a violent standpoint.

01:05:41.000 It's more of a losing you standpoint.

01:05:43.000 What do you think?

01:05:44.000 I think fear is the basis of respect.

01:05:46.000 And if a woman doesn't respect you, she can't love you. 0.99

01:05:49.000 There you go.

01:05:49.000 So she shouldn't be like...

01:05:53.000 She shouldn't be, like, actually fearful for her safety or security, but I like that.

01:05:59.000 I mean, King Solomon said that the basis of wisdom is the fear of the Lord.

01:06:03.000 You know, it's like when we live in holy terror, we can kind of get our lives together and live in a better way.

01:06:11.000 Also, look at love itself.

01:06:12.000 It's a feeling that's there, but the moment you do something that she doesn't love, it can fade away.

01:06:18.000 It's conditional.

01:06:19.000 And I've always said, if you're gonna look at, the example I give for guys is, if you look at love as like a tree, the seed of the love of tree is literally fear.

01:06:19.000 Yeah.

01:06:30.000 Because fear is a necessary requirement for respect, right?

01:06:35.000 So, in order for a woman to respect you, she has to fear you, and the only way she fears you is by fear of loss, of you walking away.

01:06:41.000 That's when you're able to get her admiration because, like, okay, I had to work to earn this guy's affection, and I respect him, and I fear losing him.

01:06:48.000 That's how you get women attached. 1.00

01:06:50.000 But the problem is that a lot of guys, like, have girls that don't give a fuck if they lose them. 0.99

01:06:53.000 And that's why you get the disrespect, you get the ridiculousness, she calls you out your name. 0.99

01:06:57.000 And, you know, there's a bunch of y'all probably watch this podcast right now. 1.00

01:07:00.000 Your girl be nagging you and talking shit to you. 1.00

01:07:02.000 You know, embarrassing you in public, etc. 1.00

01:07:04.000 She's just with you because you're a placeholder boyfriend.

01:07:06.000 And I don't think enough guys can identify this situation that she's only with me and tolerating me because I'm the best that she could do now.

01:07:13.000 But if she finds another guy or maybe she might even be cheating on me or whatever, I'm just some level of comfort.

01:07:17.000 Or maybe she's with me out of necessity because I pay bills or whatever.

01:07:20.000 But this is why guys need to understand that you need to get respect from your girl first.

01:07:24.000 That's so important, man.

01:07:25.000 Yeah.

01:07:26.000 But that comes from fear.

01:07:27.000 What else do we got here?

01:07:30.000 25-year-old electrician, $70,000 a year, saving to FHA Triplex, which go for $150,000, $300,000 in my rural area.

01:07:35.000 To maximize my savings, I move back with my family.

01:07:38.000 My issue is that, let me get home at this age, demoralize me, and makes me feel like a failure for not having my life together on my own feet, even knowing I'm saving towards something greater, especially when I have to tell women.

01:07:46.000 Any advice to keep my head above water during this, and how much do you recommend I save before buying?

01:07:51.000 Bro, yo, dude, you're 25 years old, man.

01:07:56.000 See, here's the problem, right?

01:07:57.000 He's putting women into his plan already. 0.99

01:08:00.000 You're not where you want to be yet.

01:08:02.000 So, honestly speaking, right now, if you have women to your factor of your current status right now, it will never work out anyway. 1.00

01:08:07.000 So, put yourself first.

01:08:08.000 Be selfish a little bit.

01:08:09.000 So, you know what?

01:08:10.000 All right. 1.00

01:08:10.000 Damn. 1.00

01:08:11.000 I got to buckle down, be with my family for a little bit. 0.99

01:08:13.000 But when it's finished and I'm done, I'll be set.

01:08:16.000 Yeah.

01:08:17.000 Delayed gratification, my man.

01:08:18.000 You just gotta, you know, suck it up and keep going.

01:08:21.000 Like, you know, instead of thinking to yourself, like, oh my god, I gotta go back and live with my family, think, oh, I get to go back and live with my family.

01:08:28.000 Instead of saying, oh my god, I gotta save this money, say, I get to save this money.

01:08:32.000 Instead of saying, oh my god, I gotta buy this house, blah, blah.

01:08:34.000 No, say, I get to buy this house, which will eventually create wealth for me and passive income, and then I'll be able to go in and get women. 1.00

01:08:39.000 Stop being a fucking bitch, man. 1.00

01:08:40.000 That's some NLP shit there, man. 1.00

01:08:42.000 That's good. 0.99

01:08:42.000 You just gotta be able to do that, yeah. 0.99

01:08:44.000 You gotta reframe the situation and realize how blessed you really are to even be able to do that.

01:08:50.000 He's an electrician at 25.

01:08:51.000 It means he probably doesn't have debt.

01:08:53.000 He went into the trades.

01:08:55.000 He's ahead of most 25-year-olds who are coming out of college.

01:08:58.000 Yeah, he'll be making $100,000 very soon if he keeps going, you know what I mean?

01:09:01.000 So, yeah, dude, take this time to work really hard. 0.99

01:09:03.000 And if you've got extra time, get another fucking job, man. 0.99

01:09:07.000 Red Pill Life, WFNF for checking that dork, Jack, and OF304. All right, man. 1.00

01:09:11.000 My boy Fresh rocking the Uncle Elroy from Friday Drip today.

01:09:15.000 Spell Versace, okay?

01:09:17.000 S-O-S-A-C-H-E. No, you missed the whole point, my friend. 0.99

01:09:30.000 The whole point was, you talk shit about Myron, he's not here. 0.99

01:09:33.000 Again, like, this is my co-host here on the panel. 0.99

01:09:37.000 It's someone talking shit and he's not here. 1.00

01:09:39.000 That's fucked up. 1.00

01:09:40.000 Now, granted as well, he was heated from the previous debacle with his girl. 0.99

01:09:45.000 And I'm like, alright bro, it's funny whatever when he's not here, but say it when he's here.

01:09:50.000 You can't.

01:09:51.000 Oh, it's a joke now.

01:09:52.000 Alright, cool.

01:09:53.000 But it's what it is.

01:09:54.000 Appreciate that, my friend.

01:09:55.000 Yeah, of course.

01:09:55.000 Stick it up for me.

01:09:56.000 What else do we got here? 0.98

01:09:58.000 I just wonder, if you had a friend or associate, and some talk shit about them behind their back, what would you do as a watcher? 0.98

01:10:06.000 Are you going to sit there and be like, oh, that was funny? 0.98

01:10:08.000 Some of you guys are weird, man.

01:10:10.000 Honestly speaking, bro. 0.97

01:10:11.000 Weirdos, bro.

01:10:12.000 Honor's not even a real thing anymore.

01:10:14.000 Nah, it's not, man.

01:10:15.000 Guys, what are your thoughts about the book called 48 Laws of Power?

01:10:18.000 Good book.

01:10:19.000 Good book.

01:10:20.000 60 Minute Man.

01:10:21.000 To Psych Hacks, how can a man attain attraction from his girl after losing a fight or is it a lost cause?

01:10:25.000 Ooh, a good one.

01:10:27.000 A fight with a man?

01:10:28.000 I'm thinking he's meaning a physical confrontation where he gets beat up.

01:10:31.000 Yeah.

01:10:32.000 Let's say a boxing match or even in real life.

01:10:34.000 Well, did he put up a good fight?

01:10:35.000 I mean, it's like, if you can take one on the chin, even if you don't win, at least you can kind of...

01:10:39.000 You scraped for it.

01:10:42.000 I think that that's respectable.

01:10:44.000 I've never had to be in that situation, so I'm not really sure.

01:10:47.000 Because there's been cases where guys will have a fight, like an actual legit fight, and they lose, and the girl's like, wow, this guy's not who I thought he was going to be, and then they leave.

01:10:57.000 Sure, that's very like...

01:10:59.000 Yeah.

01:11:16.000 I'll never forget there was this girl, she was dating this MMA guy, and she watched her boyfriend get beat up in the cage.

01:11:22.000 You know, obviously it's a fight, but it's a, you know, a sport-sanctioned bout, whatever.

01:11:27.000 But I guess, you know, going back to what you were saying, like the mammalian side, right, because we're animals and mammals at the end of the day, she lost attraction from him and she broke up with him after that fight.

01:11:36.000 And it's like, I think women watching their guy get beat up by another man does something in their head where they just lose attraction from a primal standpoint because he's effectively displayed...

01:11:45.000 Oh, I can't protect you.

01:11:46.000 Even though he's a world-class fighter, could beat up 99% of men in her eyes, right?

01:11:50.000 It's just not a good look.

01:11:51.000 So it's like, it's the same reason why I tell guys not to cry in front of girls.

01:11:54.000 You don't necessarily want to fight in front of your girl, you know, if you're going to lose.

01:11:58.000 Like, these are all things that can, like, set you back big time because the problem with women is that they're emotional and erratic lovers. 1.00

01:12:03.000 So it's like, they can change like that if they can get turned off so quickly.

01:12:07.000 And they tend to get bored with men faster than men get bored with them. 1.00

01:12:09.000 So it's like, yeah.

01:12:10.000 Anyway, what else do we got here?

01:12:13.000 Um...

01:12:14.000 How can...

01:12:15.000 Have you heard an academic song about Selena Powell?

01:12:15.000 Okay.

01:12:17.000 It's called Selena... 0.99

01:12:18.000 No, I haven't heard it.

01:12:20.000 DripCon, I've heard Psych Hacks on the last show mention that Hollywood version of romance is false, but don't go into much detail.

01:12:24.000 Could you explain what he meant by that?

01:12:25.000 I don't know if we have time for that.

01:12:28.000 Boys, if you haven't already listened to Drake's new song, If The Shoe Fits, it's gotta be a Top 10 Red Pill song because it speaks on girls right now. 0.98

01:12:35.000 Shit's funny because it's okay if he says it. 0.98

01:12:37.000 Yeah, he mentioned, basically, he saw a girl's Instagram. 0.99

01:12:42.000 Shorty's so fine. 1.00

01:12:43.000 Click the link tree on her sucking dick. 1.00

01:12:46.000 Gotta be out of her mind. 1.00

01:12:47.000 Yeah, that is what it is, man.

01:12:49.000 Yeah, he has some bars in that one. 1.00

01:12:50.000 That shit was lit. 1.00

01:12:50.000 She was lit. 1.00

01:12:51.000 That shit was hard, man. 1.00

01:12:53.000 Shut a drink, man. 1.00

01:12:54.000 That was pretty hard.

01:12:54.000 Yeah, thanks.

01:12:55.000 What else do we got here?

01:12:56.000 Fuentes, Psych Hacks is one of my favorite FNF episodes.

01:12:59.000 I became RP aware this year.

01:13:00.000 Thanks to FNF after a bad experience.

01:13:02.000 Do you believe in order to be RP aware you must go through the bad first?

01:13:04.000 No.

01:13:06.000 Fortunately for me, I didn't really get destroyed by a chick to become RP aware, but I watched my friends get destroyed. 0.99

01:13:11.000 So you don't necessarily need to go through it, but you will be way more receptive if you are the one that is the one getting destroyed.

01:13:18.000 Jaylex goes, thoughts on Leslie Jones' comment on men not smashing her right and Corey Holcomb roasting her about it?

01:13:23.000 Also, Corey Holcomb will be a great guest for the show.

01:13:25.000 I'm unaware of who any of these people are.

01:13:27.000 Is that a comedian?

01:13:29.000 Oh.

01:13:29.000 Yes.

01:13:30.000 Okay. 1.00

01:13:31.000 Fuck kicking those gambling scumbags, ruining lives daily. 1.00

01:13:33.000 Don't gamble unless you have to have one, a miserable life. 1.00

01:13:35.000 Yeah, bro.

01:13:35.000 That's why I'm not for the gambling.

01:13:37.000 Yeah, at all.

01:13:38.000 Anything else?

01:13:40.000 Guys, from this point forward, we're going to go 50 and up because we still got to cover the topic with Diddy.

01:13:43.000 So, I work at Canadian Oil Patch, making 200 G's a year, working on getting fit and growing passive income. 0.90

01:13:49.000 I can only pull fat girls and don't enjoy sleeping with them. 1.00

01:13:52.000 So now I'm in a statistic of one third of sexless men thinking about being a passport, bro. 0.97

01:13:58.000 If you can only pull fat chicks, bro, it's one of two things. 0.99

01:14:00.000 Either A, your sexual market value is low, or B, you're just awkward and weird and women don't find you attractive. 0.99

01:14:06.000 You know what's crazy? 0.99

01:14:07.000 Like, I don't guys give a bad rap to, like, fat chicks. 1.00

01:14:11.000 Bro, they're actually helping you.

01:14:12.000 I'll tell you why.

01:14:13.000 You're still getting...

01:14:14.000 No, hold on.

01:14:14.000 You're still getting laid, even though you shouldn't be getting laid at all.

01:14:18.000 You're getting some access.

01:14:19.000 So while you work on yourself, you can become better.

01:14:21.000 You can cut it off. 0.91

01:14:23.000 Slay the grunts and get your level up? 0.99

01:14:24.000 Exactly.

01:14:26.000 So imagine...

01:14:27.000 You had no sex whatsoever during a period of time. 0.97

01:14:30.000 You'd be going crazy, bro. 0.98

01:14:32.000 At least to give you a service.

01:14:34.000 Might not be the best service, but it's a warm place to rest your head until you wake up to the next mission.

01:14:41.000 I'm deadass, bro.

01:14:42.000 It's true. 0.97

01:14:42.000 Sex does keep you in a non-hungry state, which allows you to... 0.97

01:14:45.000 To be indifferent with respect to pursuing better options, like you cannot go from being single to dating a nine. 1.00

01:14:52.000 That's just that cannot happen.

01:14:53.000 It's very difficult.

01:14:54.000 So I talk to guys about spinning plates.

01:14:55.000 It's like, first you got to get three fives.

01:14:57.000 And then once you got those, you don't need another five.

01:15:00.000 So you just go after a six.

01:15:01.000 She's better, but she's not that better.

01:15:03.000 So it's not going to be so scary.

01:15:04.000 And then you pull her and then you're like, okay, well, which of these fives are going to go?

01:15:08.000 Or can I squeeze her in?

01:15:10.000 And then before you know it, you got three sixes and you build up from there.

01:15:13.000 Yeah.

01:15:13.000 You gotta have that non-hungry state.

01:15:15.000 A starving person only thinks about food.

01:15:17.000 Exactly.

01:15:18.000 That's the other reason why I think guys need to get 50 chicks, man. 1.00

01:15:21.000 Bro, if you've never banged a girl before or you're sexually inexperienced, well, girls will sell you a dream and you'll believe it because you're stupid. 1.00

01:15:28.000 I'll tell you this, man. 1.00

01:15:29.000 I appreciate all the BBWs I had.

01:15:31.000 They were harder for the cheese, man, because they know what's up.

01:15:34.000 Hey, listen, bro.

01:15:35.000 Oh, man. 0.99

01:15:36.000 If you're a nigga like me, you understand. 0.98

01:15:39.000 Fresh is taking down some biggies. 0.96

01:15:41.000 I'm just going to say it, man.

01:15:42.000 It was tough at the beginning, bro.

01:15:44.000 We're here now.

01:15:45.000 Talk your shit, Fresh. 1.00

01:15:47.000 Talk your shit, Fresh. 1.00

01:15:48.000 I've done it before. 1.00

01:15:49.000 I ain't gonna lie and tell y'all, but man, I can't do it no more.

01:15:52.000 I preferred older women when I was starting out as opposed to the bigger women. 1.00

01:15:56.000 Dude, so my actual beginning body count was older foreign women that were either divorced or looking for fun in islands. 1.00

01:16:06.000 That was my predominant, I want to say, type.

01:16:10.000 And then obviously what I can get is some bigger chicks, of course. 1.00

01:16:13.000 But that experience and learning, for example, dealing with those women, I was like, damn. 0.98

01:16:18.000 Now that I'm equipped with these grunts, so to speak, I can level up and then go further. 0.98

01:16:24.000 Sure.

01:16:24.000 You cut your teeth.

01:16:25.000 Yeah.

01:16:27.000 Man, I was like, what the fuck? 1.00

01:16:28.000 No, no, no. 1.00

01:16:28.000 I get it, man. 1.00

01:16:29.000 I get it.

01:16:30.000 I'm not going to sit here and be like, I've never done it.

01:16:31.000 No, I have. 1.00

01:16:32.000 I just fucked that shit, man. 1.00

01:16:33.000 I can't do it. 1.00

01:16:34.000 Not anymore.

01:16:35.000 You don't have to anymore.

01:16:36.000 Yeah, I've done it before.

01:16:36.000 I try it out.

01:16:37.000 I'm like, nah, the same for me.

01:16:38.000 Midlife Crisis is just a man breaking out from being an NPC and trying to become a player.

01:16:42.000 It's shamed to keep trapped.

01:16:44.000 Psych Hacks, you cookin'. 0.88

01:16:45.000 Solution selling is the best way to do business.

01:16:47.000 Absolutely, man.

01:16:49.000 Alright, so we're gonna go ahead, guys.

01:16:50.000 Again, from this point, we're only 50 and up, but we're gonna go ahead and hit the topic at hand.

01:16:54.000 As you guys know, we talked about...

01:16:56.000 Well, actually, this news broke what, like yesterday?

01:16:58.000 Literally, this morning I believe.

01:17:00.000 Within the past 24 to 36 hours, this news broke about Diddy.

01:17:04.000 If you guys don't know who Diddy is, can we pull up his wiki real fast?

01:17:07.000 The young people might not know.

01:17:09.000 Brother Love, Love, aka P. Diddy, aka the Booty Bandit.

01:17:15.000 What?

01:17:16.000 I'm just kidding.

01:17:17.000 That's what they say on live.

01:17:18.000 Hey, Diddy's that guy though.

01:17:20.000 Diddy's that guy.

01:17:22.000 He's a legend, though.

01:17:23.000 In industry, music.

01:17:23.000 Yeah, for New Gen Zers, you guys might not know.

01:17:25.000 He's before a lot of y'all times.

01:17:27.000 But yeah, it used to be Puff Daddy.

01:17:29.000 That's how old I am.

01:17:30.000 I remember it was Puff Daddy.

01:17:31.000 But Sean Love Combs, 1969. 0.99

01:17:34.000 God damn! 1.00

01:17:35.000 God. 1.00

01:17:36.000 Okay.

01:17:36.000 Also known by...

01:17:37.000 It looks good for his age, though.

01:17:38.000 Pause.

01:17:39.000 Yo, men age like why, baby? 0.97

01:17:40.000 Yo.

01:17:41.000 Yo, born in 69? 1.00

01:17:42.000 God damn! 1.00

01:17:44.000 Yo, I'm not gonna lie, bro. 1.00

01:17:46.000 I've seen him a couple times.

01:17:47.000 Dude, he was running around the Zodiac Killer was killing people.

01:17:48.000 Dude, he looks like he's like 30.

01:17:51.000 Real talk.

01:17:52.000 He moves like he's 32.

01:17:53.000 Yeah.

01:17:54.000 Anyway, also known by his stage names Pup Daddy P, Diddy, and Diddy, is an American rapper, singer, record producer, record executive, and actor.

01:18:01.000 Born in Harlem, Combs worked as a talent director at Uptown Records before founding his own record label, Bad Boy, 1993.

01:18:08.000 Combs has produced and cultivated artists such as The Notorious B.I.G., Mary J. Blige, and Usher.

01:18:13.000 And Cassie.

01:18:15.000 Yeah, they didn't put her on there, did they?

01:18:18.000 Oh, Lord!

01:18:19.000 Oh, man!

01:18:20.000 Yeah, his debut album, No Way Out 97, has a certified seven times platinum.

01:18:25.000 The album was followed with Forever 99.

01:18:27.000 The side continues at Press Play 2006.

01:18:30.000 In 2009, Combs formed the musical group Diddy Dirty Money with singers Kalina Harper and Don Richard.

01:18:35.000 They released their collaborative album, Last Train of Paris.

01:18:37.000 In September 2023, Combs released his fifth studio album, The Love Album, Off the Grid.

01:18:42.000 You know, it's interesting because...

01:18:44.000 I remember when he had that show, Making a Band.

01:18:47.000 And he did like part two and all that. 1.00

01:18:49.000 That shit was crazy as fuck. 1.00

01:18:50.000 It was on MTV back in the day. 1.00

01:18:51.000 Bro, I love that shit. 1.00

01:18:51.000 Y'all remember that? 1.00

01:18:52.000 The band, Making a Band? 1.00

01:18:53.000 I love that shit. 0.99

01:18:53.000 I don't know where any of them guys are now. 0.99

01:18:55.000 What?

01:18:56.000 Nowhere, unfortunately.

01:18:57.000 Yeah, they're nowhere.

01:18:58.000 Of course, I was watching the R&B one, bro.

01:19:01.000 Y'all already know.

01:19:02.000 Of course.

01:19:02.000 What?

01:19:03.000 Day 26 was fire, flames, bro.

01:19:05.000 This guy, Moe, man.

01:19:07.000 Anyway...

01:19:09.000 Zesty Mo in the house. 0.62

01:19:11.000 So now that we know who Didya is, we should pull up Cassie too.

01:19:15.000 Let's pull up Cassie real fast.

01:19:17.000 And then we got the lawsuit here.

01:19:19.000 In the meantime, obviously people know Didya as the guy in the music industry.

01:19:23.000 He's pretty much the guy at the very top of the food chain.

01:19:26.000 He brought Biggie to the mainstream, made him who he is today.

01:19:31.000 Obviously, rest in peace to him.

01:19:33.000 But, you know, amongst the accolades of Diddy and his well-being and his, you know, current wealthy status, there's a lot of allegations around his, like, sex life, what he does behind the scenes.

01:19:45.000 And it's crazy because on some level...

01:19:48.000 You haven't really heard a full story on him to give you that, like, okay, this is 100% true.

01:19:54.000 We've heard little tidbits here and there of people saying this and that, you know, kind of like hush-hush.

01:19:59.000 But recently, we've seen Cassie come out, which is his, like, longtime lover, girlfriend, aka more so than that, saying that he did multiple deplorable acts.

01:20:12.000 And it's crazy because this is the first time ever...

01:20:16.000 It's been this public to this level where someone that close to him brought it up.

01:20:20.000 And I think for most people, they're like, wow, maybe it is true what they heard about Diddy from the past and all the other allegations.

01:20:27.000 Because on some level, you would think him at his level, oh, that's not true, you know, he'll never do that.

01:20:33.000 But to hear someone this close to him say these things, I mean, dude, is it true?

01:20:37.000 Is it not?

01:20:39.000 We're going to find out eventually.

01:20:40.000 So, have you guys here?

01:20:43.000 Yeah, read this chat.

01:20:44.000 Or she could be mad that he cut her off, too.

01:20:47.000 I mean, who knows, man?

01:20:48.000 Who knows?

01:20:49.000 Okay, Derek Trader says, question for the panel.

01:20:52.000 How bad of a long-term effect will OnlyFans have on the data market?

01:20:55.000 A working finance and a company is growing at an incredible rate.

01:20:58.000 For example, payment to creators in 2022 was a staggering $5.6 billion source of Bloomberg.

01:21:05.000 I want to get Orion's opinion on this.

01:21:09.000 Real quick, do we have Cassie's thing?

01:21:10.000 We do, but...

01:21:11.000 Okay, let's get your take on it.

01:21:13.000 Because we've talked about OnlyFans at Nauseam.

01:21:15.000 What do you think the impact will be on this OnlyFans economy that we have long term?

01:21:21.000 It's only going to grow.

01:21:22.000 It's only going to get bigger.

01:21:24.000 It's actually just using technology to leverage something that women have been doing for centuries. 1.00

01:21:29.000 Good point.

01:21:29.000 Well said.

01:21:30.000 So, in general, men exchange resources for sexual opportunity and women exchange sexual opportunity for resources.

01:21:37.000 And if either party can get what they want more cheaply, more safely, or more easily than in relationships in real life, they will do so.

01:21:46.000 Yes.

01:21:47.000 That's just true.

01:21:48.000 And so what a woman can now do is she can leverage her one sexual opportunity, whereas in the past it was tied more or less to one or maybe just a few men.

01:21:56.000 Using technology, she can leverage that one opportunity to literally millions of men. 1.00

01:22:01.000 And it's completely safe to her because she has, you know, a screen between him and her.

01:22:08.000 I remember I watched a TikTok just recently where a woman seems to be flying in first class.

01:22:14.000 You know, who knows if this is real?

01:22:15.000 But the caption says, I just realized, how am I going to pay for this flight?

01:22:20.000 And it cuts to her in the bathroom and she's kind of like putting her shirt back on.

01:22:23.000 So the idea is she did some sort of like quick OnlyFans streams in the bathroom of the airplane to get the kind of money that she needs to just fund the airplane.

01:22:31.000 And whereas before, if a woman needed something, she would just go like hit up her husband. 1.00

01:22:36.000 You know what I'm saying?

01:22:36.000 Hey, you know, I got to powder my nose.

01:22:38.000 We need an extra hundred bucks for this.

01:22:40.000 Now she just has men in general that she can go to for money. 1.00

01:22:44.000 And she just gives a little sugar, and the guys will throw dollars on the virtual stage. 1.00

01:22:50.000 And so on some level, it's going to be harder and harder for women to resist that pull.

01:22:56.000 Because it allows them access, well, kind of.

01:23:02.000 I talk about in my book that there are captains and passengers.

01:23:06.000 And those are actually gender-neutral roles.

01:23:09.000 Like, women in today's day and age are actually encouraged and supported to be captains, right?

01:23:13.000 But because they're women, they're going to go about their captaincy in different ways. 1.00

01:23:18.000 And on some level...

01:23:20.000 What we see as a female captain is how can I load as many passengers onto my boat by leveraging my sexual opportunity? 1.00

01:23:28.000 So these TikTok stars, these OnlyFans stars, they're kind of like female captains. 1.00

01:23:33.000 They're like, just like a male captain is like, I want to get as many women on my boat as possible. 1.00

01:23:38.000 Because I'm going to use my status and resources.

01:23:40.000 Well, women are selling their sex for money, and they can do so on a grand scale now. 1.00

01:23:46.000 And I think that's going to lure more and more, especially young women, into that, and it's going to be very hard for them further down the road.

01:23:52.000 Well, I'll take it a step further.

01:23:54.000 So I was talking to this girl, and her friend is a nurse and necessitist, making easily somewhere between $100,000 to $200,000 per year.

01:24:04.000 Still, on a sugar site, that's why I tell y'all a lot of the times, sugar sites are good for meeting different types of girls. 1.00

01:24:10.000 Of course, you guys say, oh, you guys go sugar babies, blah, blah.

01:24:13.000 We use sugar sites to date, right?

01:24:14.000 And you can actually meet a lot of successful women. 0.81

01:24:16.000 As a matter of fact, it's a lot of lawyers, doctors, etc.

01:24:19.000 They're on those sites to screen out brokies, right? 1.00

01:24:22.000 So you can actually, if you're one of these guys that wants a girl that isn't necessarily a brokie or a girl that you can... 1.00

01:24:28.000 Converse about certain topics, whatever the fuck it is. 0.89

01:24:30.000 You'll find them on that site, right? 0.92

01:24:31.000 A lot of times their profile's private and they'll contact you.

01:24:34.000 Whole other conversation.

01:24:35.000 Point I'm trying to make is this.

01:24:36.000 She's a professional making a significant amount of money. 0.99

01:24:39.000 But what does she do? 1.00

01:24:40.000 She's still on there looking for guys to pay her rent, looking for guys to buy her bags, still exploiting, right, her sexuality for some type of benefit. 1.00

01:24:50.000 And what I've realized is that regardless of a woman's income, status, etc., A lot of them will still find a way or regress back to sexualizing themselves to get something out of men. 0.99

01:25:03.000 And if they can do it without having to necessarily give up the box, they will do it.

01:25:07.000 This girl had a boyfriend the whole time that she was doing it, man. 1.00

01:25:10.000 And with the internet, women are basically able to scale their sexuality now at an unprecedented level. 1.00

01:25:15.000 And they're able to do it safely now.

01:25:17.000 It used to be you had to be at a strip club and deal with weirdos touching you. 0.98

01:25:20.000 It used to be in the Wild West during the gold rush, you had to be a prostitute and risk chlamydia and syphilis to have sex with, you know, Westerners that were, you know... 0.99

01:25:30.000 Going to the West during the gold rush and, you know, risk getting killed by Native Americans, Comanches, and all this other bullshit. 1.00

01:25:35.000 But now, women are able to do it through the safety of the internet and home, and you had a key word there, sexual opportunity. 1.00

01:25:42.000 AKA, it doesn't actually have to happen.

01:25:44.000 Just the guise of potentially happening or the fantasy is enough.

01:25:48.000 That's how webcam succeeds.

01:25:49.000 That's why if you look at OnlyFans creators, half these chicks that make a lot of money, They have a boyfriend or they have a dude that they're with, but they don't show that because it's going to significantly affect their ability to collect revenue. 1.00

01:26:01.000 I'd also like to add as well that these girls are only fans pretty much. 1.00

01:26:06.000 They want love too.

01:26:07.000 Just that on some level, they have attention at their beck and call and it kind of like has a placebo effect because it kind of gives them that like, you know what, I'm getting all this attention, but they're missing the love aspect.

01:26:19.000 But the problem is, once you go down this path of only fans, The guys that they actually want, don't want them.

01:26:25.000 It's a cycle of meeting guys, getting smashed, getting tossed back to the dating pool.

01:26:30.000 And I can only imagine how depressed they're going to be when they get older.

01:26:35.000 Because it's going to be even harder.

01:26:36.000 Yeah, I gave a prediction, and I'd love to get your take on this.

01:26:41.000 I have a prediction that we're going to have... 0.99

01:26:43.000 We already have a multitude of women suffering from mental illnesses of anxiety and, you know, depression and withdrawals, whatever the fuck it is. 0.99

01:26:49.000 Nearly every woman I personally know is on psychiatric medication. 0.99

01:26:52.000 Wow!

01:26:53.000 That's crazy!

01:26:54.000 Wow.

01:26:55.000 I predict...

01:26:57.000 And I said this on another episode, but I'm going to say it one more time.

01:27:00.000 In the next 20 to 30 years, when these Gen Zers are older and past the wall, because they're really the ones that are on the forefront of this stuff. 0.97

01:27:08.000 People in our age group in our 30s, we still remember what it was like to not have social media and growing up on iPads.

01:27:13.000 But these Gen Zers, born in the late 90s and early 2000s, dude, them especially... 1.00

01:27:18.000 In the next 30 to 40 years, you're going to see a mass spike in mental medication prescriptions.

01:27:27.000 Because it used to be...

01:27:29.000 Look at Britney Spears right now. 1.00

01:27:31.000 Britney Spears is off her fucking rocker. 1.00

01:27:33.000 If you guys look at her on Twitter, she's dancing around with knives and going crazy, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

01:27:37.000 And she was famous back in the 90s at a crazy level.

01:27:41.000 This was before social media.

01:27:42.000 That's what I call real fame. 1.00

01:27:43.000 She was famous as fuck. 1.00

01:27:45.000 Now you have regular chicks. 1.00

01:27:48.000 Regular ass girls that have huge audiences, enormous amounts of attention. 1.00

01:27:52.000 They're cutting, contacting on the internet all the time. 0.98

01:27:54.000 They're almost like pseudo-celebrities, right?

01:27:56.000 Maybe not to the level of Britney Spears, but they're getting damn near the same amount of attention that she got 20 years ago.

01:28:01.000 You're telling me that that's not going to affect them mentally? 0.94

01:28:03.000 They're not going to be dancing around in a fucking thong with knives and shit like that in the next 20-30 years when they hit the wall and they're no longer able to elicit the same attention they did because now the new younger girls on the block are getting all the attention? 1.00

01:28:13.000 I genuinely think we're going to have a mass increase in... 0.99

01:28:18.000 Psychiatric medication being prescribed to young women or older women now at that point.

01:28:21.000 I agree with everything you guys have just said and I think that we have to be very...

01:28:25.000 Let's go talk a little bit more about what attention is.

01:28:27.000 It's not just eyeballs on you.

01:28:29.000 It is a rush.

01:28:30.000 Like I remember that from my days as an actor.

01:28:33.000 It's like when you walk on stage and the lights are on you and the whole audience, hundreds of people are quiet and they're focused and attentive to whatever you're doing.

01:28:41.000 It is an emotional, exhilarating experience.

01:28:44.000 And I know women who won't, like they're professionals, they're in relationships, they'll keep stripping. 1.00

01:28:52.000 They'll keep doing things on OnlyFan because I think they miss that rush.

01:28:57.000 I miss it sometimes.

01:28:58.000 It's like I don't miss being an actor, but I miss performing because it's really like no other experience in the world.

01:29:04.000 You don't even get it here.

01:29:05.000 Like I know that there's nearly 10,000 people watching us, but They're out there.

01:29:10.000 To have that living, breathing attention, it's not just notoriety.

01:29:16.000 It's an emotional euphoria.

01:29:18.000 We saw recently Joe Smith and his wife, right?

01:29:21.000 And he married her, and she kind of stopped the behavior of the corn scenes and the stripping stuff. 0.95

01:29:29.000 And the moment things slow down, what does she do?

01:29:33.000 Go right back to it.

01:29:34.000 But this time, I'm an OnlyFans.

01:29:35.000 So you're right, man.

01:29:36.000 That rush, that actual, I want to say, level of attention, it's hard to find that anywhere.

01:29:43.000 So it's scary.

01:29:44.000 And I think women getting it at an unprecedented level on a mass scale, right? 0.99

01:29:49.000 Yeah.

01:29:50.000 It's gonna make them go crazy.

01:29:52.000 I mean, there was this one woman, I forget her name, Moe, maybe if you could remind me. 1.00

01:29:55.000 We talked about this with Rollo Tomasi.

01:29:57.000 She was a model. 0.99

01:29:57.000 Model? 0.99

01:29:58.000 Older.

01:29:59.000 She was Playboy, Playmate, whatever.

01:30:00.000 She was dating a rockstar, etc.

01:30:02.000 She's like in her 50s or 60s now, right?

01:30:04.000 And unfortunately, Caucasian women tend to age pretty poorly.

01:30:07.000 She's way beyond her great years.

01:30:10.000 Milk!

01:30:10.000 Yeah, it's spoiled.

01:30:11.000 Definitely.

01:30:12.000 But she was hot back in the day.

01:30:14.000 She's literally, like, posting Instagram posts about, like, oh, I'm invisible now. 0.98

01:30:18.000 This sucks, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

01:30:20.000 And I'm like, welcome to being a fucking guy. 1.00

01:30:22.000 Like, holy shit. 1.00

01:30:24.000 But it's like, she can't, like, handle it. 0.99

01:30:26.000 Like, she's literally posting pictures of herself crying on the thing.

01:30:29.000 Like, I don't know how to handle this, blah, blah, blah.

01:30:30.000 I'm invisible now, blah, blah, blah.

01:30:32.000 And I'm like, wow. 0.99

01:30:32.000 All this other shit. 0.99

01:30:33.000 And this is a girl that experienced a fraction of the attention of And validation that modern women are experiencing now. 0.99

01:30:40.000 And here's the other thing too, I don't know if you guys, there was a documentary that came out like a year or two ago on social media and how they purposely make it to make you addicted to the likes.

01:30:49.000 Even the way they put the graphics on the app when you get a notification or you get a new message or whatever.

01:30:54.000 They design it in a way to keep you coming back.

01:30:57.000 This is why, man, I can't tell you how many times we've seen girls lose their Instagrams or whatever it may be. 0.99

01:31:01.000 They freak out!

01:31:02.000 They literally lose their mind.

01:31:03.000 They don't even make money on it.

01:31:04.000 There's not even a business on there. 0.99

01:31:05.000 But they lose their fucking minds because that addiction, that dopamine hit, when people like your posts or people comment or people send you messages or validate your behavior, it's a real thing. 0.99

01:31:13.000 It's huge for them. 1.00

01:31:14.000 You know what's scary?

01:31:16.000 So there's a guy in L.A. that is kind of like a scammer.

01:31:20.000 And what he'll do is he'll ban the Instagram girl's account that he wants. 1.00

01:31:25.000 And they say, hey, you want this shit back? 1.00

01:31:27.000 You gotta fuck. 1.00

01:31:29.000 Oh god! 1.00

01:31:30.000 And you know what's crazy? 0.99

01:31:31.000 Like, from what I've heard, 9 or 10 times, they fuck for the pageback. 0.99

01:31:36.000 No kidding. 1.00

01:31:37.000 That's crazy. 0.99

01:31:38.000 This guy's hideous, bro. 1.00

01:31:39.000 That nigga going to jail, bro. 1.00

01:31:40.000 For real, bro. 0.99

01:31:41.000 He's going to get busted for that.

01:31:45.000 That level of, I want to say, manipulation won't be worse because they need it back that badly.

01:31:50.000 That's crazy, bro.

01:31:51.000 Here's another thing to keep in mind.

01:31:52.000 That's one of the reasons why the dynamic between women and their mothers is so complicated. 1.00

01:31:57.000 Because there's actually a lot of potential envy in that relationship.

01:32:01.000 You see a woman who's past her prime who sees her daughter getting the attention that she used to have.

01:32:07.000 And I think that's part of what makes mother-daughter relationships really interesting and complex that we don't really have to deal with.

01:32:14.000 Interesting.

01:32:15.000 Okay.

01:32:16.000 So let's pull up Cassie now.

01:32:18.000 So we talked about Diddy Guys, obviously entrepreneur, extremely successful, been around for damn near over 30 years.

01:32:24.000 Yep.

01:32:25.000 Made a bunch of artists.

01:32:28.000 To include her, Cassie Elizabeth, Cassie Ventura, born August 26, 1986. 0.98

01:32:32.000 God damn, she's older than me. 0.98

01:32:33.000 Real quick, man. 1.00

01:32:35.000 We got a panel here, man.

01:32:36.000 Guys on the panel.

01:32:37.000 Who drew her?

01:32:38.000 One out of ten.

01:32:40.000 One out of ten psych hacks.

01:32:41.000 At her peak.

01:32:44.000 In that picture?

01:32:45.000 I mean, she's a very good-looking woman. 1.00

01:32:45.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:32:47.000 I mean, I guess I'd give her an eight in that picture.

01:32:50.000 Okay.

01:32:50.000 What would you rate her?

01:32:51.000 I'd give her a solid eight, man.

01:32:52.000 She's pretty attractive. 1.00

01:32:53.000 Yeah, I'd give her an eight, too.

01:32:55.000 Yeah, 8.5?

01:32:56.000 Eight?

01:32:56.000 I mean, 19, hot, young, bro.

01:32:59.000 Most guys would want that in a heartbeat.

01:32:59.000 Yeah, at her peak, yeah.

01:33:01.000 Yeah.

01:33:02.000 She's an American singer, songwriter, model, actress, and dancer. 0.95

01:33:08.000 Born in New London, Connecticut. 1.00

01:33:09.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:33:09.000 Okay. 1.00

01:33:10.000 I know where that's at.

01:33:12.000 She began her musical career after meeting record producer Ryan Leslie in late 2004, who signed her to his record label, Next Election Lifestyle Group.

01:33:20.000 Two years later, Ventura released her debut, Me and You.

01:33:22.000 Oh, yeah.

01:33:23.000 I remember that song.

01:33:24.000 Me and you.

01:33:25.000 Now, I'll be waiting.

01:33:27.000 Waiting on a phone like you.

01:33:29.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:33:30.000 That's how it goes.

01:33:30.000 Yep.

01:33:32.000 Tell me if you like it.

01:33:35.000 Yo, back in the days, man. 0.79

01:33:36.000 Yo, man, I'm surprised we even know that song, nigga. 1.00

01:33:38.000 You were in Barbados.

01:33:39.000 Coconuts!

01:33:40.000 Hey, man!

01:33:42.000 Coconut time!

01:33:43.000 Let's go!

01:33:43.000 Me and you!

01:33:44.000 Me and you better! 1.00

01:33:46.000 Tell me if you had it! 1.00

01:33:47.000 Yeah, I remember that shit. 1.00

01:33:50.000 Um... 1.00

01:33:53.000 Which was discovered by rapper Sean Diddy Combs.

01:33:55.000 Leslie agreed to partner with his next selection imprint with Combs' Bad Boy Records for the commercial release of her debut album as the song marked her first entry on the Billboard 100.

01:34:04.000 It soon peaked at number three on the chart in July 2006. 0.98

01:34:09.000 Yeah, I remember this shit was a hit. 0.99

01:34:11.000 So, damn, she 37 now? 1.00

01:34:13.000 God damn. 1.00

01:34:14.000 God damn, dude. 1.00

01:34:15.000 Time flies. 1.00

01:34:16.000 Time flies when you're having fun, huh?

01:34:17.000 2006, like, bro, nigga, that's Jim Jones' We Fly High. 0.88

01:34:21.000 Whoa! 1.00

01:34:22.000 That shit came out at that time. 1.00

01:34:24.000 What were you doing in 06? 1.00

01:34:25.000 I was 16 years old.

01:34:27.000 I was in high school.

01:34:29.000 I was junior year.

01:34:33.000 Yeah.

01:34:34.000 What were you doing in 06?

01:34:36.000 I had just graduated college.

01:34:37.000 I was trying to make it as an actor in New York City, so I was going to a lot of parties and putting on shows and touring around.

01:34:45.000 Justin Timberlake could come out with, I think, like, My Love.

01:34:48.000 My love.

01:34:50.000 Oh, no.

01:34:50.000 That song.

01:34:53.000 That's the number one song for selling a girl a dream, by the way. 1.00

01:34:56.000 Lying up bitches on that song. 1.00

01:34:58.000 I can see his holding hands. 1.00

01:34:59.000 I'm gonna beat your toes in his head. 1.00

01:35:01.000 I can see his in the countryside. 0.91

01:35:03.000 That's the number one song.

01:35:05.000 That's how you line a dream.

01:35:06.000 You play that song.

01:35:07.000 Yeah, we're gonna have a future together. 1.00

01:35:08.000 That shit's a fucking lie, bro. 1.00

01:35:09.000 The sell her a dream. 1.00

01:35:11.000 Justin Timberlake.

01:35:12.000 Yeah, my love.

01:35:13.000 That's definitely...

01:35:15.000 He's like, I've done that before.

01:35:17.000 That's hilarious.

01:35:18.000 Future faking, that's what we call that.

01:35:20.000 Future faking.

01:35:21.000 Yeah, that is future faking.

01:35:22.000 It works, though.

01:35:23.000 I'll tell you that.

01:35:23.000 Okay.

01:35:25.000 Woo! 0.99

01:35:26.000 That should be an honorable mention on our Red Pill songs right there. 1.00

01:35:28.000 That shit's a lie. 1.00

01:35:29.000 Finesse. 1.00

01:35:31.000 Yeah, we did it in the Blue Pill songs, kind of, but it's also a Red Pill song if you spin it the other way.

01:35:35.000 If you know, you know.

01:35:37.000 But okay, so yeah, we read it.

01:35:38.000 Okay, so guys, so basically, we have a video to play, right?

01:35:41.000 We have a video to play.

01:35:42.000 Yeah, let's run it real quick and then we'll pull up the lawsuit. 1.00

01:35:44.000 Of what's happening right now.

01:35:45.000 Yo, I'm not gonna lie, man.

01:35:46.000 Like, this is crazy because for the first time in history...

01:35:51.000 He's being exposed by somebody this close to him, it actually hurt his image.

01:35:55.000 Not fully hurt his career, of course, but his image-wise, this is heavy, bro.

01:35:59.000 Yeah, yeah.

01:36:00.000 All right, let's go ahead and run the clip here.

01:36:02.000 We got a news clip, if I'm not mistaken.

01:36:04.000 All right.

01:36:07.000 Also tonight, music mogul Sean Diddy Combs accused of sex trafficking and sexual assault in a lawsuit filed in federal court here in New York.

01:36:16.000 Chloe Malas is here.

01:36:17.000 Chloe, what more do we know about this?

01:36:37.000 That's crazy.

01:36:42.000 Darkness.

01:36:46.000 Now, Combs' lawyer said in a statement in part that his client vehemently denies the allegations, calling them baseless and outrageous, and that Ventura has been demanding $30 million, threatening to write a book about their relationship.

01:37:00.000 Thanks for watching.

01:37:01.000 Stay updated about breaking news and...

01:37:03.000 So, and now let's pull up the lawsuit real quick, and I'll read like the first paragraph, and then we'll go ahead into discussion and get everyone's take on it.

01:37:10.000 We got it, Bills?

01:37:11.000 This is a lawsuit right here, guys.

01:37:12.000 United States District Court, Southern District of New York.

01:37:14.000 And just to let you guys know, this is a civil...

01:37:17.000 Matter, not a criminal matter, which means they have to find beyond the preponderance of the evidence, which is basically 49% to 51%, and he can be held liable, Sean Combs, and more than likely he'll have to pay some money.

01:37:31.000 By the way, I'd like to mention, Cassie has a husband now and two kids, and apparently she was dating her trainer.

01:37:39.000 So, I mean, on this level, she's away from Diddy, and she might need some money.

01:37:44.000 Yeah, that's another thing too.

01:37:45.000 And some of these acts occurred while she was with this guy, right?

01:37:48.000 Yeah, that's crazy though.

01:37:50.000 Alright, so I'll read the first place.

01:37:52.000 Plaintiff Cassandra Ventura, Ms.

01:37:53.000 Ventura, hereby alleges as for and for her complaint against defendant Sean Combs, Mr.

01:37:59.000 Combs, Bad Boy Entertainment, Bad Boy Records, Epic Records, Combs, Enterprise, LLC, and Doe Corporations 1 through 10, corporations together with Mr.

01:38:07.000 Combs' defendants as follows.

01:38:08.000 Preliminary statement.

01:38:09.000 Okay, it says here.

01:38:11.000 Defendi Combs is a rapper and record executive, popularly known by his stage names Pup Daddy, P Diddy, or Diddy.

01:38:17.000 Mr.

01:38:17.000 Combs came to fame in the early 90s with his record label Bad Boy Records.

01:38:20.000 He rose to prominence in the music and entertainment industry over the decades and is regularly referred to as a hip-hop mogul.

01:38:25.000 In 2022, Mr.

01:38:26.000 Combs received a Lifetime Achievement Award at the BET Awards.

01:38:29.000 During his acceptance speech, Mr.

01:38:31.000 Combs stated, and I quote, I have to give a special shout-out to you, a special shout-out, thank you, love, to the people that was really there for me.

01:38:39.000 He named a number of people before adding, And also Cassie for holding me down in the dark times.

01:38:44.000 The dark times.

01:38:44.000 That is definitely a good statement there.

01:38:47.000 It's coming from the dark man fresh himself.

01:38:49.000 The truth, however, is that Cassie, Ms.

01:38:51.000 Cassandra Ventura, was held down by Mr. 0.98

01:38:53.000 Combs and endured over a decade of his violent behavior and disturbed demands.

01:38:57.000 For Ms.

01:38:58.000 Ventura, the dark times were those she spent trapped by Mr.

01:39:01.000 Combs in a cycle of abuse, violence, and sex trafficking, among other violent and unlawful acts, Mr.

01:39:05.000 Combs. 0.85

01:39:06.000 Rape Miss Ventura in her own home after she tried to leave him. 0.98

01:39:09.000 Often punched, beat, kicked, and stomp on Miss Ventura, resulting in bruises, burst lips, black eyes, and bleeding.

01:39:14.000 Blew up a man's car after he learned that he was romantically interested in Miss Ventura.

01:39:18.000 That man is Kit Cuddy, apparently.

01:39:20.000 Okay.

01:39:21.000 I guess day and night.

01:39:23.000 What?

01:39:24.000 Day and night. 0.99

01:39:26.000 Nigga, blowing up my car. 1.00

01:39:27.000 Okay, never mind.

01:39:28.000 Force Ms. 1.00

01:39:28.000 Ventura to engage in sex acts with male sex workers while masturbating and filming the encounters. 1.00

01:39:33.000 Wait, hold on. 1.00

01:39:34.000 Wait, what the...

01:39:35.000 Yeah, bro.

01:39:36.000 That was easy.

01:39:37.000 What's the terminology for that again, of sex acts?

01:39:39.000 You said voyeurism?

01:39:41.000 Is that what we're looking at?

01:39:41.000 That's it, yeah.

01:39:42.000 Basically, that's when you have your woman get fucked by other dudes. 1.00

01:39:48.000 You sit there and watch. 1.00

01:39:50.000 A.K.A. Cucking.

01:39:51.000 And in this part, I think he was dirking it too. 1.00

01:39:55.000 That's disgusting, bro.

01:39:59.000 Demanded that Ms. 0.99

01:40:00.000 Ventura...

01:40:01.000 Okay, so we read the click.

01:40:04.000 Ran out of his apartment with a firearm in pursuit of a rival industry executive whom he learned was nearby.

01:40:09.000 Demanded that Ms. 0.99

01:40:10.000 Ventura to carry his firearm in her purse just to make her uncomfortable and demonstrate how dangerous he is. 0.95

01:40:15.000 And introduced Ms. 0.95

01:40:16.000 Ventura to a lifestyle of excessive alcohol and substance abuse and required her to procure illicit prescriptions to satisfy his own addictions.

01:40:23.000 How did your girl hold your peace?

01:40:25.000 That's not a...

01:40:26.000 That's a stretch, bro.

01:40:26.000 Come on, man.

01:40:27.000 That's a stretch.

01:40:28.000 But basically, guys, those are the basic things.

01:40:32.000 They're going to go into each one probably in more detail as to when it occurred, blah, blah, blah.

01:40:36.000 But scroll up a bit, Bills.

01:40:37.000 But these are basically the allegations that she's making, okay?

01:40:40.000 The grape...

01:40:42.000 Physical abuse, having her hook up with other dudes that he watched, ran out of his apartment to chase a rival industry executive with a gun.

01:40:50.000 I don't know how that affects her.

01:40:51.000 Which is Suge Knight, by the way.

01:40:53.000 It is Suge Knight?

01:40:54.000 Okay.

01:40:54.000 Suge Knight confirmed.

01:40:55.000 Which, to give them a little bit of historical situation here, Suge Knight, guys, was the...

01:41:18.000 Tupac.

01:41:22.000 So, and then there was beef because basically, like, Pac thought that Biggie set him up to get shot in New York City back in the early 90s.

01:41:28.000 And that's how it kind of started. 0.99

01:41:29.000 And then they made a bunch of songs talking shit. 0.99

01:41:31.000 But yeah, you guys can see here, these are the allegations. 0.98

01:41:34.000 I'll turn it to you.

01:41:36.000 I'll get your guys' take on it, what you guys think.

01:41:39.000 You want to take it first, Ryan?

01:41:41.000 We're kind of out of my depth here, man.

01:41:44.000 I mean, you can speak about allegations in general.

01:41:47.000 Well, actually, you know what?

01:41:47.000 No, because we're going to link this to the baseball situation.

01:41:51.000 Yeah, we can do that.

01:41:52.000 What's his name?

01:41:52.000 Yeah.

01:41:54.000 I'll say this. 0.99

01:41:55.000 If these things are true, what she's stating here in this lawsuit, obviously speaking, bro, I mean, it's messed up because, dude, that is some heinous shit. 0.93

01:42:04.000 Now, mind you, they've been together for like 10 years plus. 0.95

01:42:08.000 He made her at 19 years old.

01:42:10.000 So I just wonder if these allegations are true, why not tell the police or go to somebody sooner?

01:42:17.000 Because, honestly speaking, bro, if I had a daughter, She's being abused. 0.99

01:42:22.000 And her parents definitely knew something was wrong.

01:42:25.000 Why not go to the police and say, hey, this happened to my daughter.

01:42:29.000 What can we do about it?

01:42:30.000 Police probably wouldn't be able to do much without the cooperation of the primary victim, I would think.

01:42:35.000 So if she wasn't on board, I don't think you can get it on her behalf.

01:42:39.000 I don't know.

01:42:40.000 I'm not a legal expert.

01:42:41.000 Yeah, she would have to testify.

01:42:44.000 Why didn't she do it back then? 0.61

01:42:45.000 Why is she doing it now when everything's finished, so to speak?

01:42:49.000 And granted, I feel bad for the actual father of her kids.

01:42:54.000 Could you imagine, right, bro?

01:42:55.000 Oh, yeah. 0.87

01:42:56.000 You wife up this chick that's been apparently ran through by multiple male prostitutes and degraded in ways I can't see on camera and give her two kids and be like, oh, I love her, man. 0.94

01:43:09.000 Yo, I'm in a bad choice here. 1.00

01:43:11.000 I got fucked up! 0.97

01:43:12.000 But again, this is crazy because this is being said against Diddy, and Diddy with all his power, success, and I want to say accolades, bro, we've heard rumors before of some things that happened in the past, and it's like, is it true or not? 0.99

01:43:24.000 Who knows?

01:43:24.000 But is it scary?

01:43:25.000 Because you don't know.

01:43:27.000 Yeah, I can't speak to the allegations in particular.

01:43:28.000 I don't want to comment on that.

01:43:29.000 But we did talk about fear being the basis of respect.

01:43:33.000 But that can definitely spill over into terror.

01:43:35.000 And there are some very unsavory people out there who terrorize young women into doing what they want to do.

01:43:42.000 And I think maybe the reason why they don't go to the authorities sooner is because they're just too afraid.

01:43:48.000 Probably scared.

01:43:48.000 Yeah, obviously because she's a musician too, right?

01:43:51.000 But yeah, so my take on this...

01:43:53.000 So here's the interesting thing or weird thing here.

01:43:56.000 This whole thing about him having her hook up with people...

01:44:02.000 Very interesting.

01:44:03.000 There was a girl I used to see in New York, this was years ago, and she had told me that one of her exes, you know, was a model, you know, like some 6'8 Chad guy, whatever the fuck it is, and he had been tasked, he had gotten a job one time, he was like a male, you know, escort, he had been tasked one time to hook up with a female, 0.69

01:44:21.000 and he didn't know, and there was going to be a guy watching, he didn't know who the fuck it was until he showed up, but he showed up, it was Diddy! 0.99

01:44:27.000 And I was like, what the fuck? 0.99

01:44:29.000 And I heard about this like two years ago, two, three years ago, I was like, what the fuck? 0.99

01:44:32.000 So it's really interesting for it to, you know, resurface now with this situation. 0.98

01:44:36.000 Now, with that said, right, we don't know what the hell's going on here.

01:44:40.000 We know that this was a long-term relationship.

01:44:43.000 You know, is some of the stuff she says potentially true?

01:44:45.000 Of course, we don't know.

01:44:46.000 We'll see when they go to trial or if they settle it out of court, we won't know.

01:44:52.000 But if they go to trial, then obviously she's going to have to present evidence to prove these allegations are true.

01:44:57.000 But just with all the women that are coming forward and going after rich, powerful men and saying, oh, X, Y, Z, blah, blah, blah.

01:45:04.000 If you were with them for so long, why didn't you go to the police?

01:45:07.000 Why are you waiting now to make these accusations?

01:45:11.000 No one forced you to go back with him all these times.

01:45:14.000 You could have...

01:45:14.000 Left him a long time ago.

01:45:16.000 Her argument is she tried to leave multiple times, but his power and status overrid her leaving because, again, his team, people he knew, would always bring her back.

01:45:25.000 Of course she's not saying that, yeah.

01:45:26.000 And remember, she's in the music industry.

01:45:27.000 So her ties are tied with him because, again, he's like her manager, so to speak, in the industry.

01:45:32.000 Not manager, but like, you know, he's on top of her.

01:45:35.000 So you can make some phone calls and say, hey, you know what?

01:45:37.000 Don't let her drop a single album.

01:45:39.000 Of course.

01:45:39.000 You know, cut her off for her funding.

01:45:41.000 So it's kind of crazy because he had her, like, honestly, by the neck.

01:45:44.000 Yeah, yeah.

01:45:45.000 And obviously, this is one of the negatives of the music industry a lot of times.

01:45:50.000 But...

01:45:50.000 Here's something that I'll say.

01:45:51.000 Yeah, please.

01:45:53.000 You hear about the police allegations with the rich and successful guys, but I hear about allegations with not rich and not successful guys.

01:46:03.000 I just did a consultation with a guy two days ago.

01:46:06.000 He was accused of unsavory sexual conduct by a woman in his college, and he was just expelled.

01:46:12.000 Yeah.

01:46:13.000 So it's like...

01:46:15.000 And every single week, I don't think it's hyperbole to say, I deal with a man who has had some sort of administrative violence or relational aggression where his reputation was ruined.

01:46:25.000 Never usually to the point that the police get involved.

01:46:28.000 But it's like you have to be rich in order to get to that stage.

01:46:34.000 Most women will... 1.00

01:46:37.000 I'm treading into dangerous territory here.

01:46:41.000 I feel you, bro.

01:46:42.000 It's like, it's rather, it's not as uncommon as you think.

01:46:46.000 It's not just the rich and famous guys.

01:46:48.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:46:48.000 No, regular guys get accused all the time too.

01:46:50.000 And the thing that sucks is that a lot of times they don't even have the resources to defend themselves.

01:46:54.000 Like, they'll just have to take the L or whatever it is.

01:46:57.000 On campus, college campuses, yeah.

01:46:58.000 They'll just, they're never going to bother, bro.

01:47:00.000 There's no defense.

01:47:01.000 It's just, we heard this, we can't have this.

01:47:03.000 Yeah, you're out.

01:47:04.000 You're gone.

01:47:04.000 And I know this because I had gotten in trouble in my college one time.

01:47:08.000 It was some bullshit, so I ended up getting cleared of it.

01:47:10.000 But, like, it's a kangaroo court when it comes to universities, and they're like, a lot of times it's like a discipline conduct board that does it, which is your peers and students, and guess who runs it? 0.99

01:47:18.000 A lot of times it's feminists. 1.00

01:47:19.000 So, If you get hit with an accusation like this, thankfully for me it wasn't. 1.00

01:47:22.000 It was some other bullshit. 1.00

01:47:24.000 I threw a piss out a window. 1.00

01:47:26.000 That's a whole other thing.

01:47:29.000 That's a whole other thing.

01:47:31.000 That was a really good reason. 0.96

01:47:33.000 That was a good reason, goddammit.

01:47:35.000 It's a whole long story.

01:47:39.000 But yeah, it wasn't nothing like that.

01:47:40.000 But I ended up getting cleared of it.

01:47:42.000 But the point is, goddammit, is that...

01:47:45.000 What are you laughing at the back for? 0.99

01:47:48.000 It's my urine, goddammit! 0.99

01:47:49.000 I said, I believe it. 0.99

01:47:51.000 It's my urine. 1.00

01:47:53.000 What the fuck? 1.00

01:47:55.000 But anyway, like I was saying... 1.00

01:47:57.000 Did they test it?

01:47:58.000 You could have just said it wasn't me.

01:48:01.000 Hey Shaggy, it wasn't me. 0.56

01:48:03.000 Oh man.

01:48:05.000 But what was I gonna say?

01:48:06.000 Listen!

01:48:06.000 Oh yeah, yeah, it's a kangaroo court, man.

01:48:08.000 So it's like, it's some bullshit. 1.00

01:48:09.000 And if you get accused, even if you're innocent, whatever, they're just gonna go ahead and get rid of you just because it's like they don't want to deal with the bullshit. 1.00

01:48:16.000 But you made a good point. 0.98

01:48:16.000 It's not federal, it's civil. 0.98

01:48:18.000 And on some level, I mean like, okay, let's say this is actually gonna go down and it's gonna be somewhat on her terms.

01:48:25.000 Is she actually going to win?

01:48:27.000 I mean, bro, he has lawyers out to Wazoo.

01:48:29.000 It's one of the best in the world.

01:48:31.000 I mean, dude.

01:48:32.000 Oh, this is a very important point as well.

01:48:34.000 So, he offered her, apparently, between 10 to 15K to just pay her off.

01:48:40.000 K? Sorry, a million, right?

01:48:43.000 To, um...

01:48:44.000 Hey, you know what?

01:48:44.000 Go away here.

01:48:45.000 I think on 7M. It was a little bit more.

01:48:48.000 Okay.

01:48:48.000 Yeah.

01:48:49.000 She wanted what?

01:48:49.000 She wanted more though, right?

01:48:50.000 She wanted 30. 1.00

01:48:51.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:48:52.000 So, he could have, I mean, she could have settled for like 10, 15, but she wanted more. 1.00

01:48:56.000 So, I just want to see what's going to happen now because at this level, bro, like, dude, is she going to actually win this?

01:49:01.000 I doubt.

01:49:02.000 Like, how are you going to beat Diddy in court?

01:49:04.000 Yeah.

01:49:05.000 Yeah.

01:49:05.000 I mean, granted, it's a lower standard.

01:49:07.000 It's only 51% preponderance of the evidence.

01:49:10.000 It's a civil case versus a criminal where it's beyond a reasonable doubt where it's going to be like 90 to 10%.

01:49:15.000 Most of these things don't go to court.

01:49:16.000 They get settled before.

01:49:17.000 Yeah.

01:49:18.000 Yeah.

01:49:18.000 Maybe he'll up the price.

01:49:20.000 Because, I mean, this is going to definitely, like, it is a black guy on his reputation. 0.96

01:49:23.000 Yeah.

01:49:24.000 Because, I would say, he's had a pretty fairly positive, you know, I haven't heard anything controversial from him since, like, the 90s when he had the nightclub shooting.

01:49:32.000 But Shine took the drop for that one. 0.98

01:49:34.000 He didn't even go to jail for that.

01:49:36.000 But if you notice, anything... 1.00

01:49:37.000 Well, shit. 0.99

01:49:39.000 Anything around Diddy that's, like, bad gets, like... 1.00

01:49:43.000 Yeah, I mean, he has the money to fight and everything else like that.

01:49:46.000 No, no, I mean, like...

01:49:47.000 Shine took the hit for that.

01:49:48.000 You get, like...

01:49:49.000 Oh.

01:49:50.000 You know what I'm saying?

01:49:51.000 Hey, Diddy, listen, man.

01:49:53.000 I'm my enemy here.

01:49:54.000 I'm just talking about the news, bro.

01:49:56.000 I'm just saying, bro, listen, man.

01:49:58.000 You know, things happen, so...

01:49:59.000 There you go. 0.96

01:50:00.000 Nigga, I live in Miami, bro. 0.98

01:50:02.000 He lives in Miami.

01:50:02.000 No beef, bro.

01:50:03.000 No beef, man.

01:50:04.000 No beef.

01:50:05.000 I've never met these men before in my life.

01:50:07.000 I don't want no problems, Sean.

01:50:09.000 Sean Combs.

01:50:10.000 This guy at first is like, oh, yeah.

01:50:11.000 No problems, bro.

01:50:12.000 Just say it.

01:50:13.000 It's already done. 1.00

01:50:14.000 You already fucking said. 0.99

01:50:15.000 Listen, I've been in the same place as him. 0.99

01:50:18.000 Oh, you're done now, bro.

01:50:19.000 And I'm just like, bro, like, dude, like, hey, man. 0.99

01:50:21.000 I go to your parties, bro, but show it to you, nigga. 1.00

01:50:23.000 Yeah, well.

01:50:24.000 Guys, if you don't see press tomorrow, y'all know what time it is.

01:50:29.000 Diddy gonna send a hit, man.

01:50:30.000 Yeah, take that.

01:50:31.000 Boom, done.

01:50:33.000 That's gone.

01:50:37.000 It's like a... 1.00

01:50:38.000 You gotta be dancing around, spinning this shit after he shoot you. 1.00

01:50:41.000 So one time Academics was here, right? 1.00

01:50:43.000 It was me, Academics, his boy, and some other friends, and some girls.

01:50:47.000 And then he's like, yo, bro, Diddy gonna go to the party, pull up.

01:50:50.000 And I'm like, yo, act.

01:50:52.000 What you want, dog?

01:50:53.000 He's like, bro, from what I heard, man, I'm not sure I want to go.

01:50:57.000 And I heard some things, and I'm like, bro, I'm with you, bro.

01:50:59.000 I don't know if I want to go either.

01:51:00.000 But, I mean, it's allegations.

01:51:02.000 Who knows?

01:51:02.000 Yeah.

01:51:03.000 I think...

01:51:04.000 I'll give my final take on it.

01:51:06.000 I think that some of this probably is being sensationalized, right?

01:51:10.000 To maximize shock value, maximize potential earnings from this situation, draw emotional strings, you know...

01:51:20.000 Garner sympathy.

01:51:21.000 And then also kind of absolve herself of some responsibility as well.

01:51:24.000 Because keep in mind that during a lot of this lawsuit, she was married. 0.79

01:51:27.000 She had a man.

01:51:28.000 So, of course, she's going to have to put Didi in the negative part to not make herself look like as a cheater as well, right?

01:51:37.000 She's going to have to absolve herself of a lot of responsibility here and say, oh, no, it wasn't.

01:51:40.000 I was great.

01:51:41.000 Blah, blah, blah.

01:51:42.000 We don't know if it was actual grape.

01:51:44.000 I mean, they had a long-term relationship. 0.89

01:51:45.000 It could have been consensual, but she doesn't want to say that because she doesn't want to come off as a whore because she was married and had kids at the time. 0.99

01:51:50.000 So there's a huge incentive for her to lie here, right? 0.99

01:51:52.000 So you've got to look at it objectively.

01:51:54.000 I don't know.

01:51:55.000 The only people that I really know are God, her, and Diddy, the truth.

01:52:00.000 But...

01:52:01.000 I'm willing to bet that a lot of this is being sensationalized for maximal output and making the most amount of money.

01:52:07.000 I just gotta say, man, rest in peace to her husband, though.

01:52:09.000 Dig it, that's an L, bro. 0.75

01:52:11.000 Yo, dawg, that's an L. Yo, I promise you, bro, if I spent my entire life working on myself, becoming a man, and I married a chick like this, bro... 0.85

01:52:19.000 You don't think he knew? 0.99

01:52:21.000 He might have known something, but all this shit? 1.00

01:52:23.000 Come on, bro. 1.00

01:52:24.000 He knows now.

01:52:28.000 Okay, as a man of means, do you think that he's going to be mentally stable after hearing all this stuff with his wife?

01:52:36.000 I think it's going to be tough, but I've never met either of these people before.

01:52:40.000 I bet he's going to be the supportive partner and say, you know, they're going to have a little powwow, it's going to get really tough, they're going to be prepared for the backlash, and I suppose if he's going to be interviewed, he's going to be the loyal, devoted, and supportive husband.

01:52:54.000 Yo, bring up Cassie's Instagram real quick, if you don't mind mowing bills.

01:52:57.000 Bro, you gotta see this dude, bro.

01:52:59.000 Is he Blue Pill?

01:53:00.000 I don't know, but bro.

01:53:01.000 Probably is.

01:53:01.000 It might be the right move.

01:53:02.000 What are you gonna do? 0.95

01:53:02.000 Throw your wife under the bus? 0.95

01:53:03.000 I mean, on some level, you gotta double down on your position. 1.00

01:53:06.000 Bro, it was multiple black dudes. 0.70

01:53:08.000 Dude, in the document, it says, Diddy said, find me a black... 1.00

01:53:18.000 Sorry, black men with big dicks. 1.00

01:53:21.000 Wait, what? 1.00

01:53:22.000 Yeah, yeah.

01:53:23.000 Bro, it's in there. 1.00

01:53:24.000 Find me multiple black prostitutes with big dicks. 1.00

01:53:29.000 Bro, that's his wife, dog. 1.00

01:53:30.000 Nigga! 1.00

01:53:31.000 She got red railroaded! 1.00

01:53:33.000 Like...

01:53:33.000 Dude, okay.

01:53:36.000 Be honest, bro.

01:53:37.000 You're white, right? 1.00

01:53:38.000 If you find out your wife is getting banged by 10 black dudes from Africa, like me, what you gonna do? 1.00

01:53:43.000 Like me, he's crazy. 1.00

01:53:44.000 Like me, you from Barbados.

01:53:45.000 You made her, you gave her two kids.

01:53:49.000 He said...

01:53:50.000 Psych hacks!

01:53:52.000 Just so you know, in my class...

01:53:54.000 I have a confession to make. 0.99

01:53:55.000 Yeah, I took a lot of black dicks on camera. 1.00

01:53:59.000 Little men watching me. 0.99

01:54:01.000 Are we still good together?

01:54:02.000 You might hear something about this on the news tomorrow.

01:54:05.000 So I thought I would tell you tonight.

01:54:08.000 There's no... 1.00

01:54:09.000 Yo, if I was white and I heard that, yo, bitch, we're done. 1.00

01:54:13.000 We're done, bitch. 1.00

01:54:14.000 We are done, okay? 1.00

01:54:17.000 That's crazy.

01:54:18.000 Yeah, that's crazy.

01:54:20.000 Let's just hope she wasn't saying stuff like, you're the biggest I've ever had.

01:54:23.000 You're the biggest I've ever had.

01:54:23.000 That too.

01:54:25.000 Yo, bad. 0.98

01:54:26.000 Yeah, if I find out a girl who was dating a black dude before me, I'd break up with her. 1.00

01:54:31.000 Yo, Tyrone, Jamal! 0.98

01:54:33.000 This is unacceptable!

01:54:35.000 Bro, I know I brush like this!

01:54:37.000 No!

01:54:37.000 Come down, come down.

01:54:38.000 Come down.

01:54:40.000 That's him right there.

01:54:41.000 Oh, man!

01:54:42.000 Cowboy slinging!

01:54:48.000 Come on, man.

01:54:49.000 Come on, man.

01:54:51.000 Man, you could've done better, man.

01:54:53.000 You could've done way better.

01:54:54.000 Did he know, though?

01:54:55.000 Did he actually know?

01:54:56.000 I think he knew.

01:54:57.000 I bet she sold him a story.

01:54:59.000 Yeah, that was then.

01:55:00.000 I was really confused.

01:55:01.000 I was young.

01:55:02.000 Could've been true.

01:55:03.000 I got involved with just the wrong people.

01:55:05.000 Maybe she was vague.

01:55:07.000 Okay.

01:55:08.000 Listen, man.

01:55:09.000 Mudsharks all the way. 1.00

01:55:12.000 Yo, what the fuck, man? 1.00

01:55:14.000 What's that? 1.00

01:55:14.000 I've never heard that. 1.00

01:55:18.000 I'm too pure for this, man. 1.00

01:55:23.000 Goddamn. 0.99

01:55:24.000 But yeah, I mean, we'll see what happens, man. 0.97

01:55:27.000 I mean, this is definitely going to be an interesting thing.

01:55:29.000 Do y'all think this is going to go to trial or do you think he's going to settle?

01:55:31.000 Nah.

01:55:32.000 Honestly?

01:55:33.000 You think he'll up the money and just pay her and tell her to shut up? 1.00

01:55:34.000 You probably won't disclose, but these things very rarely get to trial.

01:55:39.000 That's what was so interesting about the Depp-Herd situation, is it actually went to court.

01:55:43.000 Yeah.

01:55:43.000 Yo, pull up Diddy's net worth.

01:55:44.000 I think he's a billionaire, if I'm not mistaken.

01:55:46.000 Honestly, if I'm Diddy, here's how I move, right? 0.99

01:55:50.000 Bitch, you tried me. 1.00

01:55:51.000 I'll feed a 15, 10 mil. 1.00

01:55:52.000 You didn't want to take it?

01:55:53.000 Alright, bet.

01:55:54.000 You want to see what's big dog now?

01:55:55.000 I'm playing this game. 1.00

01:55:56.000 I'm going to go to court with you, fight it all the way, and I'm going to bleed your lawyer money out and still beat your ass. 1.00

01:56:03.000 That would be the move, yeah. 1.00

01:56:04.000 Just because, you know what?

01:56:05.000 He has the money to delay and bleed her out.

01:56:07.000 Not only did you try me.

01:56:08.000 But my image is now tarnished.

01:56:10.000 Because now, it's on the news, bro.

01:56:12.000 It's everywhere.

01:56:12.000 That would be a countersuit, most likely.

01:56:13.000 Because, dude, his image, his career is forever set in stone.

01:56:18.000 But his image is definitely tarnished now, bro.

01:56:21.000 Yeah, so he's pretty much a billionaire.

01:56:23.000 900 million, wow.

01:56:24.000 Yeah, he's worth 900. 0.98

01:56:26.000 Mind you, I think personally speaking, bro, some of this shit may actually be true. 0.90

01:56:30.000 I don't know myself, but it might be true. 0.96

01:56:32.000 But if it's true, bro.

01:56:33.000 I've heard the...

01:56:35.000 The cuck story.

01:56:36.000 I've heard that before.

01:56:37.000 I got stories too, but I'm not going to say that.

01:56:38.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:56:39.000 But regardless, he is a legend from a music standpoint.

01:56:43.000 And we'll see, man.

01:56:44.000 I mean, again, I think some of this is sensationalized.

01:56:47.000 And he's done a lot of good as well.

01:56:48.000 Yeah.

01:56:48.000 I don't know if it's like, kind of bumps his back, because he did it recently too as well, a lot of good stuff, like Brother Love.

01:56:53.000 I mean, shit. 0.96

01:56:54.000 He was saying that back in the day, but seeing it now. 0.99

01:56:56.000 Well, yeah, I didn't even know about this Brother Love.

01:56:58.000 What is that?

01:56:59.000 So, basically, he preaches love, respect, harmony, randomly out of nowhere.

01:57:04.000 I'm like, bro, what's your name, Diddy?

01:57:07.000 So, I call himself love, brother love, but it's like, why are you doing this right before this came up?

01:57:13.000 You feel me?

01:57:13.000 Like, you've been preparing for this for a minute, or this is in your soul from the very beginning?

01:57:17.000 I don't know which one it is, but...

01:57:18.000 Tomato joke incoming.

01:57:21.000 Diddy, or diddy not do it?

01:57:23.000 Oh! 0.60

01:57:26.000 Get out of there, bro!

01:57:27.000 Get out of there! 0.65

01:57:29.000 Chris, I know you ain't talking, man.

01:57:30.000 You say way worse jokes.

01:57:32.000 I know you ain't talking, bro.

01:57:35.000 Real quick, I want to get your take on the Dodgers pitcher that got in trouble.

01:57:42.000 We were talking about that before the show.

01:57:45.000 Trevor Bauer.

01:57:46.000 Trevor Bauer, yes.

01:57:47.000 What's your take on that situation and false allegations in general?

01:58:00.000 Oh, they did settle?

01:58:06.000 Yeah.

01:58:07.000 Yes, there was a settlement.

01:58:08.000 It wasn't for money, apparently, but they did reach some sort of agreement.

01:58:12.000 And part of the terms of the agreement was that he was allowed to go public with the evidence to exonerate his name, which, you know, thank God for that.

01:58:20.000 Part of that were text messages between the woman in question and some of her friends who were just sort of like treating him as a meal ticket, I think.

01:58:29.000 He's worth $50 million, I remember.

01:58:31.000 Hey, girl, who are you going to hunt? 0.70

01:58:33.000 There was some predatory language in there.

01:58:35.000 She's taking videos of herself, sleeping next to me in the bed.

01:58:38.000 And it was the day in question where she was beat.

01:58:41.000 Yeah.

01:58:42.000 Yeah.

01:58:42.000 I mean, very concerning.

01:58:44.000 I guess there's more than one way to skin a cat.

01:58:45.000 So if you can't get the money one way, you can find a way to get it another way.

01:58:49.000 I think he was immediately suspended and let go from the L.A. Dodgers.

01:58:53.000 I mean, that's what we were talking about earlier is that this is what we might call administrative violence.

01:59:15.000 That's crazy.

01:59:21.000 I think in these situations you are definitely guilty until you're proven innocent, and you really only get a chance to tell your side of the story if it goes to trial, which it generally doesn't.

01:59:30.000 So, I mean, I think...

01:59:33.000 I don't know the guy personally, but he seems like he...

01:59:36.000 And the damage is done.

01:59:36.000 Like, he lost the money, he's labeled, you know, a sexual deviant by society, and then it's interesting because, like...

01:59:42.000 When the guy finally is able to come out with the information and exonerate themselves...

01:59:46.000 Nobody cares.

01:59:46.000 Nobody cares!

01:59:47.000 The soccer player that was vindicated...

01:59:49.000 Nobody cares.

01:59:49.000 I thought it was really...

01:59:50.000 No, no, no.

01:59:50.000 We do.

01:59:51.000 We do.

01:59:51.000 The masses...

01:59:52.000 But the general public doesn't care.

01:59:53.000 They care less.

01:59:54.000 Well, how do I say this?

01:59:57.000 When he gets accused, it doesn't get the same press coverage as when they're exonerated.

02:00:01.000 On purpose, by the way.

02:00:02.000 What I didn't love is that the woman was doing press junkets. 1.00

02:00:05.000 She was on interviews, which I think is basically like giving a news platform to a school shooter.

02:00:10.000 Why would you do that?

02:00:11.000 Yeah.

02:00:12.000 Yeah.

02:00:13.000 And it's because we live in a gynocentric social order, man. 0.99

02:00:17.000 You know, we live in this world where it's Believe All Women, etc. 1.00

02:00:20.000 You know, I think the more of these...

02:00:22.000 I mean, and honestly, the Amber Heard-Johnny Depp situation, I'm really glad it happened.

02:00:27.000 I thank God that he recorded those conversations because that was... 0.98

02:00:31.000 I would say the beginning of being able to shift that this Me Too thing is fucking being weaponized by women. 1.00

02:00:38.000 And the problem with the Me Too situation, it's not that it's the false accusers that are the problem. 0.97

02:00:42.000 It hurts the women that are actually real victims. 1.00

02:00:45.000 And there's plenty of them.

02:00:46.000 You know what I mean?

02:00:47.000 And it makes them less likely to go to the police.

02:00:49.000 It makes them more scared to come forward.

02:00:52.000 And it fucks it up for everybody.

02:00:54.000 Just opportunistic women that want to go ahead and leverage the Me Too situation for their own personal gain, make some money, maybe sometimes just absolve themselves of responsibility because they cheat on their guy, the guy found out he's trying to break up with them. 1.00

02:01:06.000 No, I was great!

02:01:08.000 You know what I mean?

02:01:10.000 It's a trump card that every woman has in their repertoire that they can use to absolutely destroy a man. 1.00

02:01:16.000 And the thing that sucks is that when the news comes out that it was a lie, nobody cares by then.

02:01:19.000 And this is premeditated. 0.62

02:01:20.000 The image is done.

02:01:21.000 From the very beginning to get money out of him, which is crazy.

02:01:24.000 I wonder if a team is going to be brave enough to sign him back.

02:01:27.000 I think he's been playing overseas for the last couple years.

02:01:29.000 Yeah.

02:01:30.000 I mean, who knows?

02:01:31.000 Isn't that crazy that we have to say that?

02:01:32.000 I wonder if there's a team that's brave enough to bring him back.

02:01:35.000 He's an innocent man.

02:01:36.000 Isn't that crazy?

02:01:38.000 And here's the other thing, too.

02:01:40.000 We're red pill aware. 1.00

02:01:41.000 Most guys are fucking blue pill idiots. 1.00

02:01:43.000 They don't understand anything about female nature, conniving practices that women run a lot of times to have the advantage. 1.00

02:01:52.000 Most guys are completely sleepwalking when it comes to intersexual dynamics and have zero clue of female manipulation tactics.

02:01:59.000 And they'll call guys like us misanders. 0.99

02:02:00.000 So it's like, we're like, damn, I hope he gets signed. 0.94

02:02:03.000 But everyone else is probably like, well, you know what? 0.99

02:02:05.000 You were accused, so you don't deserve a chance.

02:02:08.000 Welcome to the real world.

02:02:09.000 Wild, dude.

02:02:10.000 Wild.

02:02:11.000 All right.

02:02:12.000 Hey, shout out to you, Louis.

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02:02:26.000 I better see Soldier by Destiny's Child on the Red Pill song stream.

02:02:29.000 That was the last tiny woman said they needed a man. 1.00

02:02:32.000 Ooh.

02:02:32.000 That's not a Red Pill song.

02:02:34.000 That's not a Red Pill song, but that's the job in line with these women. 1.00

02:02:37.000 BGBuild, W1811, I learn things every day.

02:02:40.000 Thanks to FNF, WTates.

02:02:41.000 Oh, thanks, man.

02:02:42.000 I appreciate that.

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02:02:44.000 Anything else?

02:02:45.000 No, that's all.

02:02:45.000 All right, cool.

02:02:46.000 PsyCax, where can I find your brother?

02:02:48.000 Oh, I'm on YouTube, mostly.

02:02:50.000 The channel's called PsyCax.

02:02:52.000 My name's Orion Taraban.

02:02:53.000 I'm a psychologist in private practice.

02:02:55.000 I do consultations.

02:02:58.000 But my YouTube channel is generally where you can find me.

02:03:00.000 When does the book drop, officially?

02:03:02.000 I think I can finish writing a working draft by the end of January, and it's probably going to take a month or two to get it edited and put it into shape, so I hope to have it by the end of Q1 or beginning of Q2 next year.

02:03:12.000 I still don't have a title, but I'm working on it.

02:03:14.000 It's going really well.

02:03:16.000 It's a little bit more highbrow than some of the stuff I put out there, so I hope I don't alienate the audience base, but I'm really proud with the way things are done.

02:03:23.000 When it comes out, we definitely got to talk about it.

02:03:24.000 Yes.

02:03:25.000 Wait, is everybody here?

02:03:27.000 They are?

02:03:28.000 Yeah.

02:03:28.000 Okay.

02:03:29.000 Damn it. 0.99

02:03:30.000 I wanted to ask one more question. 0.99

02:03:31.000 Go ahead.

02:03:32.000 Let's do it.

02:03:32.000 Okay.

02:03:33.000 And before we close out, I'm sorry.

02:03:35.000 I just have to ask this because you made a...

02:03:37.000 And we talked about this a little bit last time, but I really want the audience to understand this concept.

02:03:42.000 You made a video about the adored and the adoree, right?

02:03:47.000 Between men and women. 0.99

02:03:48.000 The adored and the adorer.

02:03:49.000 Yes, sorry.

02:03:51.000 Can you talk about that a little bit and why men need to understand that being the adored is where you need to be as the man?

02:04:01.000 Sure.

02:04:02.000 It's actually pretty easy to understand.

02:04:04.000 I call it the balance of attraction.

02:04:06.000 The fundamental axiom is that it's not possible for two people to like each other exactly the same amount.

02:04:11.000 It's not possible.

02:04:12.000 That means that in any relationship, one person likes the other person more and the other person likes the other person less.

02:04:17.000 This is the adored, this is the adored.

02:04:19.000 There are pros and cons to each.

02:04:21.000 But in general, most people, men and women, want to be the adorer because the adorer gets to be with the one they love.

02:04:28.000 And that's where all the feels come.

02:04:30.000 That's supposed to be like the most profound, beautiful, ecstatic experience that you can have in life is the opportunity to be with the one you love.

02:04:38.000 Mm-hmm.

02:04:58.000 And in general, boredom is going to drive women out of a relationship sooner than men. 0.91

02:05:04.000 And so it's been said that you can make a woman feel anything except bored, and there's some truth to that. 1.00

02:05:10.000 And the longer she's in the position of being the adored, she's on that pedestal and you're looking up to her, the less she's having an emotional experience and the more she might be looking for the door.

02:05:20.000 Also, if you're looking up at her, she's looking down at you.

02:05:23.000 And a woman wants to look up to her man and think, man, I'm lucky to be with this guy. 0.93

02:05:28.000 He is tall, he is strong, he is rich, he is competent.

02:05:32.000 How can she do that to the guy who's staring up at her with puppy dog eyes?

02:05:37.000 So what I tell guys, especially guys in their 20s, a lot of nice guys, you know, they're well-meaning men, they're doing what they think they're supposed to do vis-a-vis women, is that they have to make a voluntary sacrifice of being the adorer so that the woman can be in that role for the stability of the relationship. 0.95

02:05:57.000 Because the longer the woman is up here and she's not having the emotional experience and she's looking down at the man, the days of that relationship are numbered.

02:06:04.000 So I understand you like to do nice things for the woman.

02:06:08.000 You like to praise her.

02:06:09.000 You like to put her up on that shelf.

02:06:11.000 But if you do that, you're basically kind of adoring her out of the relationship.

02:06:16.000 Well said.

02:06:17.000 Yeah.

02:06:17.000 And I wanted you guys to hear that from him because so many men make that mistake where they adore the woman too much and you rob her of the emotional stimuli of being the adorer.

02:06:28.000 That's right.

02:06:29.000 The women need to be in that position where they feel in love, et cetera, because they respond more favorably with their emotions. 1.00

02:06:33.000 As a guy, you like your girl.

02:06:35.000 That's good enough for you.

02:06:36.000 But for your woman, she needs to literally love you and adore you for you to get the best out of her. 0.67

02:06:40.000 Like is great.

02:06:41.000 I mean, Patrice O'Neill talked about that.

02:06:42.000 He said the best situation was the woman loved the man and the man liked the woman. 0.79

02:06:47.000 You know what I realized, too, about this?

02:06:49.000 On a deeper level, if she is adoring you, she'll let you have other women.

02:06:55.000 So for example, if she's adoring you, she will say, you know what, alright, he's the other woman, I understand because he's that guy.

02:07:02.000 Versus the opposite, if you're adoring her, hold on, you're giving me time, attention, and resources, I don't want to share that with other women. 0.98

02:07:10.000 As a result, I've noticed that men care way more about a woman's sexual fidelity and women care more about a man's, let's say, emotional fidelity.

02:07:19.000 A lot of women, they just sort of want to feel... 1.00

02:07:21.000 They don't love it when a guy maybe steps out of the relationship or sees other women.

02:07:26.000 They might roll their eyes, but a lot of them will tolerate it, especially if they feel like there's something special about that relationship.

02:07:34.000 That you're doing something with her that you don't do with those other women.

02:07:37.000 Yeah, no, I could say that from experience.

02:07:40.000 As you guys know, I'm not monogamous. 1.00

02:07:42.000 That's stupid. 0.98

02:07:43.000 But what I will say is that one of the complaints is, oh, well, because girls are always going to find something. 1.00

02:07:49.000 They'll be okay with it, but it's going to come up.

02:07:52.000 This girl did this, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

02:07:54.000 It could be something as simple as like, They use the shower. 1.00

02:07:57.000 That's fucked up. 1.00

02:07:58.000 Blah, blah, blah. 1.00

02:07:59.000 Oh, yeah.

02:07:59.000 Like, little things like that.

02:08:00.000 It's like taking the girl to your Italian restaurant. 0.54

02:08:03.000 Yeah.

02:08:04.000 That's what's going to cause the whole thing to fall apart.

02:08:06.000 They want to feel special.

02:08:07.000 Exactly.

02:08:08.000 That's what it really comes down to.

02:08:09.000 We went to Orlando to Halloween Horror Nights.

02:08:11.000 Yeah.

02:08:12.000 I brought a chick. 1.00

02:08:13.000 Oh, yeah.

02:08:13.000 Right?

02:08:14.000 That was our horror night.

02:08:16.000 She's like, wait.

02:08:17.000 Why didn't you bring me?

02:08:19.000 You were busy?

02:08:20.000 But that was special.

02:08:21.000 But again, they want to feel like they're over the other chicks.

02:08:24.000 So it's just different.

02:08:25.000 Yeah.

02:08:27.000 And that's the thing.

02:08:27.000 Any guy here, you want to have multiple women, et cetera, be prepared for that conversation.

02:08:31.000 It's going to come up every single time.

02:08:32.000 I don't care how high status you are, how much your girl likes you, blah, blah, blah.

02:08:36.000 It's going to come up.

02:08:37.000 Well, wait, this girl does that, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

02:08:39.000 It's going to come up because they want to feel special, man.

02:08:41.000 Yeah.

02:08:42.000 That's what it comes down to.

02:08:43.000 Some sounds for you guys.

02:08:43.000 Yeah.

02:08:44.000 All right.

02:08:44.000 Cool.

02:08:45.000 Is that it?

02:08:45.000 I could do this all night.

02:08:47.000 Yeah, dude. 1.00

02:08:47.000 I mean, fuck. 1.00

02:08:49.000 Well, hey, maybe we'll do another show tomorrow. 1.00

02:08:50.000 Who knows for y'all?

02:08:51.000 I don't know.

02:08:52.000 Maybe.

02:08:52.000 Maybe we'll do another one for y'all.

02:08:53.000 I'm in town for the weekend.

02:08:54.000 Yeah, he's here for the weekend, man.

02:08:56.000 So if you guys want another one, we'll see.

02:08:57.000 Maybe we'll give it to y'all.

02:08:59.000 But guys, he is PsychX, man.

02:09:00.000 Check him out, man.

02:09:01.000 Really great channel. 0.98

02:09:01.000 I watch it myself, so you guys already know that it's fucking awesome. 0.98

02:09:05.000 A lot of great psychological breakdowns on why men and women do the things that they do. 0.91

02:09:11.000 So if you want to be able to figure out your girl more from a psychological perspective, man, check him out, man.

02:09:15.000 His channel is linked in the title, man.

02:09:17.000 Check him out.

02:09:18.000 We'll catch you guys back here with some lovely ladies and a special guest. 1.00

02:09:21.000 Peace.

02:09:22.000 I ran, I ran so far away.

02:09:27.000 I just ran, I ran all night and day.

Fresh & Fit - November 17, 2023

PsycHacks Returns!

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