Fresh & Fit - RATCHET "Black Queen" & Delusional Feminist Debate Myron! RATCHET KICKED OFF POD!

00:00:00.000 Alright, what's up guys?

00:00:00.000 Welcome to the Fresh Fit Podcast After Hours Edition.

00:00:02.000 We're joining a bunch of love ladies. 1.00

00:00:03.000 Let's get into it.

00:00:04.000 Let's go!

00:00:21.000 Nobody cares bro, get out!

00:00:35.000 Put your shoes on outside.

00:00:37.000 You don't got to put them on in here.

00:00:54.000 All right, and we are back.

00:00:56.000 What's up, guys?

00:00:56.000 Welcome to the Fresh Shirt Podcast.

00:00:57.000 After Hours, this is your man.

00:00:58.000 It's Monday, and you guys know we are on our second episode of The Night, man, giving you all this content.

00:01:02.000 So a quick announcement for getting to show.

00:01:03.000 Number one, rumble.com slash freshandfit.

00:01:07.000 We're probably going to get canceled any day now, especially with this book coming out.

00:01:10.000 So go ahead and check us out on Rumble if YouTube decides to take us down or one of these other mainstream media platforms.

00:01:15.000 All our content is going to be there.

00:01:16.000 Also, we're going to be uploading all of the Andrew Tate videos that we had done on Rumble, all the interviews that we did, because YouTube is being lame, bro.

00:01:23.000 They were hitting us with...

00:01:33.000 We're good to go.

00:01:49.000 So, also, guys, check us out on freshfit.locals.com.

00:01:52.000 As you guys know, behind-the-scenes content there, all the Patreon questions that you guys asked us before, all those videos are there.

00:01:57.000 Mo did a great job of putting them there.

00:01:58.000 So, yeah, over there, freshfit.locals.com.

00:02:03.000 Also, check us out on Megaphone, guys.

00:02:05.000 We are there.

00:02:05.000 If you want to listen to us, audio version only, just make sure you wear headphones if you're listening to us at a place of employment because you don't want to get called in by some Karen with short hair and get fired from your job.

00:02:14.000 All right?

00:02:14.000 And then also, guys, get the merch.

00:02:16.000 Let's see.

00:02:17.000 Chris don't got it ready.

00:02:18.000 Chris, let's show them the new shirt that came out.

00:02:20.000 Guys, frustratedpodcaststore.com.

00:02:22.000 You guys get all the merch.

00:02:23.000 Hoodies, t-shirts, new designs.

00:02:25.000 I'm still waiting.

00:02:26.000 What happened to, for example, Ninja Watchers?

00:02:29.000 Fiverr.

00:02:30.000 I'm getting it soon.

00:02:30.000 You're getting the designs?

00:02:32.000 Okay.

00:02:32.000 The new shirt is out, guys.

00:02:34.000 Chris is a bum, as y'all can see right here.

00:02:36.000 It's Fiverr Chris, by the way. 0.87

00:02:39.000 Because Chris doesn't even show up to his job here.

00:02:41.000 So you guys got to check out this shirt. 0.98

00:02:43.000 Chris is a bum.

00:02:44.000 Would you even win a shirt yourself? 0.94

00:02:46.000 Depends.

00:02:47.000 Nah, you know.

00:02:49.000 His feelings are hurt.

00:02:52.000 The meme is alive, guys, so go ahead and get the shirt, man. 0.99

00:02:54.000 Chris is a bum.

00:02:55.000 $44.99 to keep all the bums from buying it. 0.95

00:02:57.000 Also, check us out on...

00:03:00.000 Fresh Fit Clips, guys, our other YouTube channel.

00:03:01.000 Can you just click it real quick?

00:03:03.000 Guys, Fresh Fit Clips is our channel where we drop six videos per day and four shorts, okay?

00:03:07.000 We are literally uploading 10 videos a day on this channel, man.

00:03:10.000 It's growing at a great rate.

00:03:12.000 Almost at 40 million views for the month.

00:03:14.000 But here's the thing.

00:03:15.000 About 77% of you guys that watch this channel are not subscribed.

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00:03:21.000 Help us get a million sign, get another golden plaque, and flex on all the haters.

00:03:25.000 All right?

00:03:26.000 And then what else do we got here?

00:03:27.000 Fresh, do you want to talk about your vlog?

00:03:28.000 Yes, guys.

00:03:28.000 Vlog channel is up.

00:03:29.000 We did a vlog of the car show on Saturday.

00:03:31.000 It's pretty dope.

00:03:32.000 Messing millionaires, billionaires over there as well.

00:03:34.000 Good for networking.

00:03:35.000 We did also as well a zoo date.

00:03:37.000 That was pretty dope.

00:03:38.000 But more importantly, we're going to do some vlogs in Dubai when we go on Thursday.

00:03:42.000 So check it out.

00:03:42.000 Coming soon.

00:03:43.000 200K on the way.

00:03:44.000 Let's go.

00:03:45.000 Yeah, we're going to collab with a bunch of...

00:03:47.000 UAE YouTubers, guys.

00:03:49.000 And then also on top of that, we got a very important mission.

00:03:52.000 We got to clear our boy Andrew's name.

00:03:53.000 Yeah, we got to.

00:03:54.000 We got to bring out some facts.

00:03:57.000 And then here's my channel, guys.

00:03:58.000 The last episode I did actually was right here explaining the wrath of Jodi Arias.

00:04:06.000 As you guys know, this girl stabbed her boyfriend 27 times and killed him.

00:04:09.000 After they had banged and took it to themselves doing so when he was in the shower.

00:04:12.000 So if you guys want to go ahead and check that out, timestamps are there.

00:04:14.000 As you guys can see, I go into detail about the case.

00:04:16.000 We react to the documentary, go over the evidence, the interviews, psychological breakdown of all her craziness.

00:04:20.000 She was doing headstands in an interview.

00:04:22.000 Really weird when she was getting interrogated for murder one.

00:04:24.000 Strange individual.

00:04:25.000 And I'll shout out to your co-host.

00:04:27.000 Shout out to Angie. 0.98

00:04:28.000 She was helping me out.

00:04:28.000 She actually was the one that suggested Jodi Arias, and people really enjoyed it.

00:04:31.000 And then I'm dropping another video on another crazy chick, Dahlia DePolito. 1.00

00:04:36.000 If you guys are here from Florida, approximately, what, almost 13, 12 years ago now, back in 2009, she went ahead and she was an escort. 0.96

00:04:45.000 She got married to her husband, who was rich, and then she hired a hitman to kill him. 1.00

00:04:49.000 Damn. 1.00

00:04:49.000 Did he actually die? 1.00

00:04:50.000 No, no, no, no, no.

00:04:51.000 But they ended up, they played it out like they hired the hitman and they caught her in the line.

00:04:55.000 She like fake cried and everything when they're like, your husband's dead.

00:04:57.000 Yeah, it's lit.

00:04:58.000 It's hilarious.

00:04:59.000 Yeah, you heard about that?

00:05:00.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:05:00.000 The police got her good, bro.

00:05:02.000 So that drops on Thursday, guys, if you guys want to see that one.

00:05:05.000 But in the meantime, watch the Jody Arias one.

00:05:06.000 I cover all types of different cases.

00:05:08.000 Serial killers, murder for hire, bank robberies, you know, all types of true crime stuff you guys like.

00:05:13.000 So subscribe to FEDA1811. But anyway, Chris, it's on you.

00:05:16.000 Yes, ladies. 1.00

00:05:18.000 It's M&DM and RC Poxon on IG. Make sure if you come on to our show, you know, dress on time.

00:05:25.000 I mean, be on time.

00:05:26.000 Dressed apart.

00:05:28.000 And yeah, send a DM and shout out to the girls for showing up on the panel. 1.00

00:05:32.000 Happy Valentine's Day.

00:05:34.000 I know some of the three or fours are getting dogged out.

00:05:36.000 You can say Valentine's Day.

00:05:41.000 Valentine's Day.

00:05:42.000 You're my Valentine.

00:05:43.000 All right.

00:05:45.000 Welcome, ladies. 0.97

00:05:46.000 So give us your name, your age, what we do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, the body count.

00:05:53.000 We'll start right here.

00:05:56.000 Okay, so my name is Natalie.

00:06:01.000 People call me not, or not Ray.

00:06:03.000 I'm 22.

00:06:05.000 I'm a social worker.

00:06:07.000 Okay.

00:06:08.000 What was the other question?

00:06:09.000 Dating status.

00:06:10.000 Dating status.

00:06:10.000 I'm single.

00:06:11.000 Okay.

00:06:12.000 Where are you from?

00:06:13.000 I'm from here.

00:06:14.000 Born and raised in Miami.

00:06:15.000 Cool.

00:06:15.000 Wait, you said it was Megan?

00:06:17.000 Sorry, I'm writing it down now.

00:06:18.000 Nat.

00:06:19.000 Nat, okay.

00:06:19.000 Nat, and then how old are you?

00:06:21.000 22.

00:06:22.000 You said for Miami?

00:06:23.000 Yes, sir.

00:06:24.000 Okay, and then you said social worker for profession?

00:06:26.000 Uh, yeah.

00:06:27.000 Okay, and then what's your dating status?

00:06:29.000 Single.

00:06:29.000 Okay.

00:06:30.000 Single, yeah.

00:06:30.000 And then high education completed?

00:06:32.000 Every night.

00:06:33.000 Highest education?

00:06:34.000 Bachelors.

00:06:35.000 Okay.

00:06:35.000 From where?

00:06:36.000 FIU. In what?

00:06:38.000 Social work?

00:06:40.000 In psychology and women's and gender studies.

00:06:43.000 Oh boy.

00:06:45.000 Okay, cool.

00:06:46.000 She came ready.

00:06:46.000 Oh yeah, she came ready.

00:06:47.000 Yes, sir.

00:06:48.000 Alright, what about you?

00:06:49.000 My name is Devine, but they call me Didi.

00:06:53.000 I'm a security guard right now.

00:06:55.000 How old are you?

00:06:56.000 I'm 21.

00:06:57.000 Okay, where are you from originally?

00:06:58.000 Yeah, I'm a Class D security guard.

00:07:00.000 Stop the gap.

00:07:02.000 Alright, where are you originally from?

00:07:05.000 Originally, I'm from Boston, but I've been down here for like 12 years.

00:07:09.000 Where'd you go to high school?

00:07:11.000 Plantation.

00:07:11.000 Okay, so I'll consider you from Florida.

00:07:13.000 Yeah.

00:07:13.000 Wait, you're really security?

00:07:15.000 Yes.

00:07:15.000 Who are you going to protect?

00:07:17.000 Oh, somebody.

00:07:20.000 Yo! 1.00

00:07:22.000 Okay.

00:07:22.000 Status?

00:07:23.000 Single, relationship, sugar daddy?

00:07:25.000 I am single.

00:07:26.000 Single?

00:07:26.000 Yeah.

00:07:28.000 And then, what's your highest education level completed?

00:07:30.000 High school.

00:07:31.000 High school?

00:07:32.000 Yeah.

00:07:32.000 Alright.

00:07:33.000 Cool.

00:07:33.000 Welcome.

00:07:34.000 Thank you.

00:07:34.000 What about you?

00:07:35.000 What's good?

00:07:36.000 I'm Rashida.

00:07:38.000 I'm 25. 0.99

00:07:40.000 Damn. 0.99

00:07:40.000 Okay. 0.99

00:07:42.000 That's all downhill from here.

00:07:44.000 Where are you from?

00:07:45.000 Philadelphia.

00:07:46.000 Philly all day.

00:07:47.000 Born and raised.

00:07:48.000 Like actually from Philadelphia or Drexel Hill?

00:07:50.000 Born and raised Philly.

00:07:51.000 Y'all already know.

00:07:51.000 Y'all see my face.

00:07:52.000 Y'all know it.

00:07:53.000 Did we pat her down, Zena? 0.98

00:07:54.000 I got these hands.

00:07:56.000 They the weapon.

00:07:57.000 You can't take these from me.

00:07:59.000 What part of Philadelphia are you from?

00:08:00.000 South Philly.

00:08:01.000 Oh, with the Italians? 1.00

00:08:02.000 Born and raised.

00:08:03.000 No, 23rd Street.

00:08:04.000 Oh, okay.

00:08:05.000 I guess not Italian.

00:08:06.000 Alright, let's see.

00:08:07.000 What do you do for it?

00:08:08.000 So right now I'm transitioning over into the Airbnb and I'm into my holistic medicine.

00:08:14.000 I have a holistic medicine line called Rashida's Moss.

00:08:18.000 That's my first name.

00:08:19.000 That's a really creative way to say you're unemployed.

00:08:20.000 Okay.

00:08:21.000 No, I'm not unemployed.

00:08:22.000 I'm actually doing really good in business, brother.

00:08:25.000 I'm a strong black woman.

00:08:27.000 I don't really play games.

00:08:28.000 And I'm empowering and I'm into holistic medicine when it comes to...

00:08:33.000 Like we don't clap, so you snap.

00:08:36.000 I'm all about bringing everybody back to their natural essence, mentally, physically, spiritually.

00:08:41.000 I come from the trenches.

00:08:43.000 I started off crazy.

00:08:45.000 And now I'm finding myself.

00:08:46.000 So I want everybody to do the same.

00:08:48.000 So you said, what is it?

00:08:49.000 You said it's beauty products?

00:08:51.000 No, holistic medicine, sea moss, herbs, moringa seeds, bladder rag, just helping people get their body.

00:08:58.000 Back to the earth.

00:08:58.000 Okay.

00:08:59.000 All right.

00:08:59.000 And then what's your status?

00:09:01.000 Single as fuck. 1.00

00:09:05.000 That's my violin time right there. 1.00

00:09:07.000 I want y'all to know that.

00:09:08.000 Shout out to Jazzy.

00:09:09.000 Okay.

00:09:10.000 Are you bisexual?

00:09:12.000 You can say that.

00:09:13.000 Okay.

00:09:14.000 No, you're not.

00:09:15.000 And then what's your highest education level completed?

00:09:17.000 Some college.

00:09:18.000 Okay, so I'll put high school.

00:09:20.000 Or do you have an associate's?

00:09:21.000 No, I didn't finish.

00:09:23.000 No, I skipped a semester.

00:09:24.000 All right.

00:09:25.000 What about you?

00:09:25.000 Hey, so my name's Ari.

00:09:28.000 I'm 22.

00:09:29.000 I'm born and raised in Florida, particularly in Sarasota.

00:09:34.000 Okay.

00:09:34.000 Oh, sorry.

00:09:37.000 What did it work?

00:09:38.000 So right now, I'm actually a senior in college.

00:09:41.000 I go to USF. Okay.

00:09:44.000 I'm a content intern for the athletics program over there.

00:09:48.000 Okay, so you post all the sports stuff on the page?

00:09:52.000 Yeah, I'm a social media coordinator for them over there.

00:09:55.000 Okay, so you run all the athletic pages and everything like that?

00:09:58.000 Yeah, pretty much.

00:09:58.000 The advertising, hey, we got a game, check it out.

00:10:01.000 Okay, and then you said USF, what do you major there?

00:10:04.000 Mass communications and production.

00:10:07.000 That's lit.

00:10:08.000 Thank you.

00:10:09.000 And then what's your...

00:10:10.000 And then you're in college, so you're a senior right now.

00:10:12.000 And then what's your relationship status?

00:10:14.000 I'm in a relationship.

00:10:16.000 We're definitely working towards something.

00:10:17.000 Nice.

00:10:18.000 How long y'all been together?

00:10:20.000 I would say it's pretty fresh.

00:10:22.000 We used to kind of talk...

00:10:23.000 No, no, no.

00:10:24.000 Stop it.

00:10:25.000 Stop it.

00:10:26.000 Oh, sorry.

00:10:28.000 We used to kind of talk when we were kids.

00:10:31.000 I want to say, like, we were, like, freshly, like, 18, 19.

00:10:33.000 And I don't know.

00:10:34.000 We just kind of grew.

00:10:35.000 And now we just kind of found our way back to one another.

00:10:38.000 So it's been pretty cool.

00:10:39.000 Who initiated contact again?

00:10:41.000 He did, actually.

00:10:42.000 Did you have friends on him in the beginning?

00:10:44.000 Um...

00:10:46.000 Yep.

00:10:47.000 Or did he friendzone you?

00:10:48.000 I would say it's pretty mutual.

00:10:50.000 We were both pretty toxic to one another.

00:10:51.000 There's no such thing as mutual.

00:10:53.000 Someone friendzoned the other.

00:10:54.000 Someone did.

00:10:55.000 Someone had the leverage.

00:10:56.000 In every relationship, there's someone that cares a little bit more than the other.

00:10:58.000 I definitely agree with that.

00:11:00.000 Me too.

00:11:00.000 So who cared less?

00:11:01.000 You or him?

00:11:02.000 I think in the beginning, it was definitely me who cared less.

00:11:06.000 I think...

00:11:06.000 Dang.

00:11:09.000 Okay.

00:11:10.000 We didn't even start yet.

00:11:11.000 That's what I'm saying.

00:11:13.000 But I would say second round, I think he's falling for me a little bit more.

00:11:18.000 We'll see.

00:11:18.000 Out of curiosity, what made you give him a chance now versus you didn't give him a chance before?

00:11:25.000 It's not that I didn't give him a chance before.

00:11:27.000 I just think that our mindsets just weren't really in the right place.

00:11:32.000 What?

00:11:34.000 What do you mean?

00:11:34.000 I love how girls dress up rejection.

00:11:36.000 You know what I mean?

00:11:37.000 He did something clearly that was unattractive and then he reconciled or fixed it that made you attracted to him the second time.

00:11:43.000 He was broke, huh?

00:11:44.000 That's why he was in a friend zone in the first place.

00:11:46.000 No, he's definitely not broke.

00:11:46.000 No.

00:11:47.000 I just...

00:11:47.000 If we're going to be...

00:11:48.000 Well, he said was.

00:11:49.000 Was, was.

00:11:50.000 Oh, no.

00:11:51.000 No, no, no.

00:11:52.000 I would say I was definitely...

00:11:56.000 I think before that relationship with him, I was kind of...

00:12:01.000 I don't want to say maybe...

00:12:01.000 She belongs to the streets!

00:12:03.000 Yo! 1.00

00:12:05.000 Keep going.

00:12:06.000 Keep it real, baby.

00:12:07.000 Keep it real, baby.

00:12:08.000 Who did that? 0.91

00:12:14.000 I don't know.

00:12:15.000 I mean, I was freshly 18.

00:12:17.000 I had just gotten out of like a pretty toxic relationship and then I kind of like rushed into things with him and I don't know.

00:12:22.000 You wanted to explore some options.

00:12:24.000 It's okay.

00:12:25.000 It's okay.

00:12:27.000 In that moment, sure.

00:12:30.000 But I would say now we're definitely in a better place.

00:12:34.000 We get along.

00:12:35.000 We are very grounded with one another, I guess.

00:12:38.000 That's, I guess, a nice way to put it.

00:12:40.000 At least you got to me.

00:12:42.000 No, for real.

00:12:43.000 This is amazing.

00:12:46.000 This podcast is very important for y'all, man.

00:12:48.000 Girls will say things in a certain way and kind of dress it up in a certain way. 1.00

00:12:51.000 The reality is she wanted to live her best life.

00:12:53.000 He didn't measure up at that point for her to giving up living that best life.

00:12:57.000 Hence, later on, she was like, okay, you've improved now.

00:12:59.000 Or maybe I'm ready to settle down now.

00:13:01.000 And then she took him.

00:13:02.000 That's what happens a lot of times, which is cool.

00:13:03.000 But that's the narrative most of the time when guys get friend zoned.

00:13:07.000 We know what you want to say.

00:13:09.000 All right.

00:13:09.000 What about you?

00:13:11.000 What's your name?

00:13:12.000 My name is Selena, as known as Lena Blue of Lena Blue TV. And I'm 27.

00:13:19.000 Okay.

00:13:19.000 Where are you from?

00:13:20.000 Palm Beach, Florida.

00:13:22.000 Okay.

00:13:22.000 Uh-oh.

00:13:23.000 Palm Beach?

00:13:25.000 Are you...

00:13:26.000 Some college.

00:13:27.000 Okay.

00:13:28.000 Some college and I got a certificate in film.

00:13:30.000 Okay.

00:13:31.000 What do you do for work?

00:13:32.000 I'm a documentarian.

00:13:34.000 Okay.

00:13:34.000 What kind of documentaries do you make?

00:13:36.000 Man on people, on their lives.

00:13:38.000 Okay.

00:13:40.000 And then you said you didn't complete school but you got a certain film?

00:13:45.000 A certificate in film.

00:13:46.000 Okay.

00:13:47.000 And then...

00:13:48.000 I'm single.

00:13:49.000 Single.

00:13:49.000 All right.

00:13:51.000 I think that's it.

00:13:52.000 All right.

00:13:52.000 What about you?

00:13:53.000 Welcome.

00:13:54.000 Hey, y'all.

00:13:56.000 Hey, y'all.

00:13:57.000 Hey.

00:13:59.000 My name is Jasmine.

00:14:00.000 I'm 21 years old.

00:14:02.000 I just recently got accepted into a modeling agency, so now I'm a model, but I work from home and I'm also a security license, security officer.

00:14:12.000 Were you in security too?

00:14:13.000 Yeah.

00:14:14.000 Were you from originally?

00:14:16.000 I was born in Hawaii, city of Honolulu, but I was raised in Florida, Broward County.

00:14:20.000 Broward?

00:14:21.000 Okay.

00:14:22.000 I just gotta know, if someone breaks into that establishment, you gonna say, you know what?

00:14:26.000 Stop stairs, sir!

00:14:27.000 It's not what you think it is.

00:14:28.000 It's really not what you think it is.

00:14:30.000 So I work at Lone Depot Park, so like the Marlins Park, the baseball park.

00:14:34.000 Basically, it's wherever they station me.

00:14:36.000 So if they station me at the gate, all I have to do is just like...

00:14:38.000 Oh, you stand there.

00:14:39.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:14:40.000 You just stand there.

00:14:41.000 Are you single?

00:14:48.000 I'm a college graduate.

00:14:51.000 I graduated from a technical college.

00:14:53.000 So you have your associate's degree?

00:14:55.000 Yeah.

00:14:57.000 Cosmetology.

00:14:59.000 Ladies, let's do one more round back this way, real quick. 1.00

00:15:05.000 Do you have a Valentine's Day person for tomorrow?

00:15:07.000 Well, person.

00:15:08.000 Yeah, she's right here.

00:15:09.000 Her.

00:15:10.000 No, no.

00:15:10.000 Seriously.

00:15:11.000 I'm serious.

00:15:12.000 It's her.

00:15:12.000 So tomorrow, you guys going out tomorrow?

00:15:14.000 Co-op is real.

00:15:15.000 Yes.

00:15:16.000 Okay.

00:15:16.000 Do you have one?

00:15:17.000 Mm-mm.

00:15:18.000 Why not?

00:15:19.000 I just don't.

00:15:20.000 I can't tell you why.

00:15:23.000 Okay.

00:15:23.000 What about you?

00:15:25.000 Yeah, I do.

00:15:26.000 You're a guy, right?

00:15:26.000 You're a new, fresh guy?

00:15:28.000 Yeah.

00:15:28.000 Okay.

00:15:29.000 When did y'all pick up and actually become together?

00:15:33.000 I want to say it was maybe like a month and a half ago.

00:15:36.000 We're taking it slow.

00:15:37.000 Just before Valentine's Day.

00:15:39.000 Interesting.

00:15:41.000 They got all the tunes for you.

00:15:44.000 And of course, you're going to say her, right?

00:15:46.000 Of course, Jazzy.

00:15:49.000 How'd you guys meet?

00:15:50.000 Today.

00:15:51.000 We met today.

00:15:53.000 Don't hate.

00:15:55.000 The sauce came just that serious.

00:15:56.000 She was saying she didn't have a valentine, so I was just like, I'll be around.

00:16:01.000 It has to be concrete from before today.

00:16:04.000 So that means you guys are not valentines.

00:16:05.000 We are.

00:16:06.000 But we are, though.

00:16:07.000 I'm taking her out tomorrow.

00:16:08.000 But you're not, though.

00:16:10.000 This is not real, though.

00:16:11.000 It is real.

00:16:13.000 Hold my hand.

00:16:14.000 It's very real.

00:16:16.000 What about you?

00:16:19.000 I don't.

00:16:21.000 Why not?

00:16:22.000 I would say personal reasons.

00:16:24.000 Huh?

00:16:25.000 Personal reasons.

00:16:27.000 Okay, give me one reason why you don't have one.

00:16:30.000 I would say because of me.

00:16:32.000 Oh, yeah.

00:16:33.000 Okay, so you messed it up.

00:16:34.000 Yeah.

00:16:35.000 Okay.

00:16:36.000 Alright, you know what?

00:16:37.000 Since you're on this accountability wave, name one thing you did wrong in the relationship to mess it up while you don't have a Valentine's and one thing he did wrong to mess it up.

00:16:45.000 Let's hear it.

00:16:46.000 Miss Security. 1.00

00:16:49.000 I would say I have to overthink your problem.

00:16:52.000 Oh, sorry.

00:16:53.000 My finger slipped.

00:16:53.000 What was that?

00:16:54.000 I have to overthink your problem.

00:16:56.000 Okay, so you thought like he was cheating or something like that and you kept accusing him of things that weren't going on?

00:17:00.000 Yeah, because he went without a couple hours of talking to me.

00:17:03.000 Wait, a couple hours?

00:17:05.000 Wait, wait, wait. 0.99

00:17:07.000 What, is this nigga sleeping? 1.00

00:17:08.000 What? 0.99

00:17:10.000 God forbid a couple hours.

00:17:12.000 Wait, how long was it?

00:17:13.000 Three hours?

00:17:14.000 Seven.

00:17:15.000 Oh, no.

00:17:16.000 That's OD. Was it overnight or during the day?

00:17:19.000 Because seven during the day is you up to something.

00:17:21.000 You ain't supposed to be at work.

00:17:24.000 That's what I'm saying.

00:17:25.000 If he was at work, then that's different.

00:17:26.000 Hold on.

00:17:27.000 You're supposed to be focusing on security. 0.99

00:17:28.000 Not your nigga for seven hours. 1.00

00:17:30.000 What if he fell asleep? 0.98

00:17:32.000 He was definitely on the game or at home.

00:17:36.000 Not doing anything.

00:17:37.000 I'd rather my dude on the game than out in the streets.

00:17:39.000 Wait, wait.

00:17:40.000 So is that a bad thing?

00:17:41.000 That's not a bad thing, but you can hit me up like reassurance to me is key.

00:17:46.000 As someone who works in security, this is probably one of the most insecure things I've ever heard.

00:17:49.000 Yeah, trust issues.

00:17:49.000 This is incredible.

00:17:50.000 Trust issues.

00:17:51.000 You can't make this stuff up, guys.

00:17:53.000 Bro.

00:17:54.000 She'll get through it. 1.00

00:17:55.000 Okay, and then so you, I guess, wanted more attention and you didn't get it for seven hours and you're like, fuck this. 0.99

00:18:00.000 And then what did he do wrong, I guess? 0.99

00:18:02.000 Besides fall asleep.

00:18:03.000 Somebody said, don't reassure me.

00:18:07.000 So you want reassurance every three hours, four hours?

00:18:13.000 At least, yeah, every three hours.

00:18:16.000 It's like a security cycle.

00:18:17.000 Every hour or so to go around this certain part of the building. 0.99

00:18:21.000 Goddamn, that's crazy. 0.99

00:18:22.000 What about you? 0.99

00:18:23.000 I do not.

00:18:25.000 You don't?

00:18:25.000 Why not?

00:18:27.000 I don't like anyone.

00:18:28.000 You want to be me and her? 0.98

00:18:30.000 Okay!

00:18:32.000 Emotional! 0.99

00:18:33.000 Damn it! 0.99

00:18:34.000 She's coming at home with me! 1.00

00:18:36.000 Okay!

00:18:37.000 Fantastic!

00:18:39.000 Just being honest.

00:18:41.000 No, it's the truth.

00:18:42.000 I've actually...

00:18:44.000 I'll get into that later on.

00:18:45.000 Hold on, we're not done yet.

00:18:46.000 Chris!

00:18:47.000 What's up?

00:18:47.000 Do you have a Valentine's?

00:18:49.000 Uh, hell no, man.

00:18:50.000 Keep it single.

00:18:52.000 From, man, me?

00:18:53.000 Flowers?

00:18:54.000 Chocolate?

00:18:55.000 Why do you have a Valentine's, Chris? 1.00

00:18:56.000 I don't do that shit, man. 1.00

00:18:58.000 Come on, man. 1.00

00:18:59.000 Do you have a Valentine's?

00:19:02.000 Nope.

00:19:03.000 Why not?

00:19:04.000 Because I'm working on the audible version of Why Women Deserve Less. 1.00

00:19:09.000 Yeah, that's what we're talking about, baby!

00:19:12.000 The book is out right now.

00:19:14.000 Paperback, guys.

00:19:15.000 And it's coming out on Audible.

00:19:16.000 It's out right now on Kindle as well, man.

00:19:18.000 And in the book, I actually go into detail that most women don't like most men.

00:19:22.000 Wow, women deserve less. 1.00

00:19:24.000 Yes.

00:19:25.000 You want to explain that, brother?

00:19:28.000 Because you are sitting in front of some queens right here.

00:19:31.000 Let us know, King, if that's who you are.

00:19:36.000 What type of women deserve less? 1.00

00:19:38.000 Women or what you mean? 1.00

00:19:41.000 King?

00:19:42.000 Read the book.

00:19:43.000 Yeah, read the book.

00:19:44.000 I go into, I explain how most women deserve less because most women don't like most men. 1.00

00:19:50.000 And that is exemplified from her answer.

00:19:52.000 And I go into more detail about how feminism and everything else changed the dating landscape and how most guys can't afford to be simps in 2020.

00:19:58.000 Are you referring to like new wave feminism or in the book at least?

00:20:02.000 Or...

00:20:03.000 I address all waves of feminism. 0.84

00:20:04.000 How it changed the dating landscape.

00:20:06.000 I respect your perspective.

00:20:08.000 What?

00:20:08.000 You wrote that book?

00:20:09.000 Yes.

00:20:09.000 Okay.

00:20:10.000 Good to know.

00:20:11.000 I'm pretty interested now.

00:20:12.000 No, for real.

00:20:13.000 I think I'm going to read that.

00:20:14.000 I think I'm going to read that.

00:20:15.000 Me too.

00:20:16.000 Well, if y'all want to see why you guys deserve less, feel free to pick it up.

00:20:22.000 Okay, real quick, I'll hit the chats.

00:20:23.000 Or no, didn't you have another question?

00:20:25.000 Yeah.

00:20:25.000 You're so funny.

00:20:26.000 Do you have one?

00:20:27.000 Valentine's?

00:20:28.000 No.

00:20:29.000 Why not?

00:20:29.000 Because it's going to cause me problems.

00:20:31.000 Because you got too many bitches on your line, don't you? 1.00

00:20:33.000 Everybody trying to be a Valentine. 1.00

00:20:35.000 No, no, no, no.

00:20:36.000 So you won't act like you don't got one, but all the time you got a whole bunch.

00:20:39.000 Tell the truth.

00:20:40.000 Look at me.

00:20:41.000 How is it going to cause you problems to look at me for me?

00:20:43.000 Okay, anyway.

00:20:44.000 Okay.

00:20:45.000 Continue on here.

00:20:46.000 Some chats here.

00:20:46.000 All right.

00:20:47.000 Do you have one for us?

00:20:48.000 That'd be Chris.

00:20:50.000 We're going to reverse.

00:20:53.000 I actually do, man.

00:20:54.000 And you know, this is the first time in my life I've had a Valentine's that I care about.

00:20:58.000 That's actually really awesome.

00:20:59.000 I can't wait to enjoy tomorrow, man.

00:21:00.000 Because you know what I'm saying, bro?

00:21:01.000 I've been doing this player life for too long.

00:21:06.000 So let me ask you.

00:21:08.000 As a man of God, I found...

00:21:10.000 Wow.

00:21:12.000 Let me ask you.

00:21:14.000 Huh?

00:21:14.000 So, what you got planned for your shorty?

00:21:17.000 The shorty.

00:21:19.000 You don't got a shorty?

00:21:20.000 Listen, man.

00:21:21.000 TMI. Alright, let's go.

00:21:23.000 Alright, ladies. 1.00

00:21:24.000 Your son F's your best friend.

00:21:26.000 What you doing? 1.00

00:21:27.000 Your son fucks your best friend. 1.00

00:21:29.000 My best friend is gay. 1.00

00:21:30.000 I mean, if you go both routes.

00:21:32.000 Yeah, I guess we could start here and there.

00:21:33.000 One at a time.

00:21:35.000 Come on, man.

00:21:36.000 Come on, bro.

00:21:38.000 That's weird.

00:21:38.000 That's close to incest, bro.

00:21:40.000 Moe, how do you have money to go to Vegas but none for your auntie in Haiti? 1.00

00:21:43.000 I'm too old to keep carrying this fruit basket on my head every day. 1.00

00:21:46.000 What the fuck, bro? 1.00

00:21:46.000 That's the most Haitian super chat I've ever seen in my life. 1.00

00:21:49.000 Oh, man. 0.98

00:21:49.000 What the hell? 0.98

00:21:50.000 Okay. 0.80

00:21:52.000 BlackWolfInkos, what's good, fellas? 0.99

00:21:54.000 To the gals, do you have guy friends? 1.00

00:21:56.000 Do you honestly believe he is your friend?

00:21:58.000 Let's say he asks you to help him hook up with a chick he likes. 1.00

00:22:00.000 How would you help him score? 0.92

00:22:02.000 By the way, mine's a beast.

00:22:03.000 Alright, so I guess we can...

00:22:05.000 Do you have guy friends and how would you help him get girls?

00:22:09.000 You want to...

00:22:10.000 That's a good question.

00:22:11.000 He has that every show, but that's fine.

00:22:13.000 Alright, we can ask it and then we can start right here.

00:22:15.000 Go ahead.

00:22:16.000 Keep the question up.

00:22:17.000 So the question is, do you have guy friends and honestly speaking, if you ask me to help him get a chick, could you help him?

00:22:23.000 I gotta go first again?

00:22:24.000 Okay, so...

00:22:25.000 Well, actually, she did start last time, right?

00:22:27.000 So we go this way.

00:22:29.000 Sure.

00:22:30.000 Thank you.

00:22:32.000 I have a couple of guy friends, yeah.

00:22:35.000 Um...

00:22:37.000 Do I believe they're my friend?

00:22:39.000 Yeah, I do.

00:22:40.000 So they don't want to smash?

00:22:42.000 Hell no.

00:22:43.000 I let that be known.

00:22:44.000 You might know that, but do they know that?

00:22:47.000 I let them know that, so they know that they don't have a chance.

00:22:52.000 But they might still want to.

00:22:53.000 Then they cut off.

00:22:55.000 Period.

00:22:58.000 Would I help them get with a guy, with one of my female friends? 0.93

00:23:01.000 I mean, depending if my female friend is single, yeah, and if he gives or not, I mean, regardless, I'm going to try to help him the best way I can, but if he don't give, he just don't give.

00:23:13.000 Only so much you can do.

00:23:14.000 Yeah, it's only so much.

00:23:15.000 How would you help them get that girl?

00:23:16.000 What would you do?

00:23:17.000 So, basically, what I would do, I would send them, like, I would send my homegirls their Instagram, and they just go based off that.

00:23:25.000 If they like what they see, they like what they see, and I take it from there.

00:23:28.000 Okay.

00:23:29.000 So, indirectly, just, here's Instagram.

00:23:32.000 Yeah, like, I'll show them them, and if they like what they see, I'll take it from there.

00:23:36.000 Basically.

00:23:37.000 That sounds like a good plan.

00:23:41.000 Yeah, I got male friends, but one in particular, yeah, I would help him.

00:23:45.000 Yeah, definitely.

00:23:46.000 If he likes somebody.

00:23:49.000 How?

00:23:49.000 I would help them just see what they're talking about and, you know, ask him, hey, what are you guys saying?

00:23:56.000 What are you guys talking about?

00:23:56.000 Send me screenshots, whatever.

00:23:59.000 And, you know, I'll let him know.

00:24:01.000 Even before he's talking to her, how would you help him get to the point where they're talking together?

00:24:08.000 I'd probably tell him, give him some pointers, tell him what to say, but I ain't gonna be all up in this game room and giving him everything.

00:24:15.000 You know, he just gotta be yourself.

00:24:16.000 I can't speak for him.

00:24:18.000 I can't speak for him.

00:24:20.000 I thought you would do a documentary.

00:24:21.000 Alright, what about you?

00:24:24.000 Honestly, no.

00:24:26.000 I feel that I'm sorry.

00:24:30.000 Unpopular opinion.

00:24:32.000 That's fine.

00:24:33.000 I definitely don't have guy friends anymore.

00:24:35.000 I feel that guys definitely, if it's not there in that moment, I mean, they will wait years, months, eternities to literally just, you know, get what they want.

00:24:48.000 I mean, I've been in a position where a guy has pretty much fronted to be one of my really good friends and he caught me in a very vulnerable moment and Not a friendship anymore.

00:25:01.000 You know what I mean?

00:25:02.000 Wow.

00:25:02.000 So he waited all that time?

00:25:03.000 It was almost like 10 years.

00:25:04.000 Yeah.

00:25:05.000 Like, met my family.

00:25:06.000 Like, we were really close friends.

00:25:07.000 Sounds familiar.

00:25:09.000 No, we hate it all the time.

00:25:11.000 Oh, well, yeah.

00:25:13.000 It was honestly, like, it was really, I don't want to say traumatizing.

00:25:15.000 I don't want to take it to that extreme, but it definitely changed my outlook on how I approach those kind of situations.

00:25:20.000 And me personally now stepping into a relationship, I mean, I wouldn't really want my man to have a lot of girlfriends.

00:25:27.000 Respectfully?

00:25:28.000 Yeah.

00:25:28.000 Okay.

00:25:29.000 I think it's a respect thing.

00:25:30.000 Maybe she can learn from you.

00:25:31.000 Do you think it's worse if a man has female friends or if a woman has female friends? 0.96

00:25:36.000 Both.

00:25:37.000 It depends.

00:25:39.000 Well, if you had to pick one, which one do you think is more counterproductive for the relationship?

00:25:43.000 Both.

00:25:44.000 I honestly think it's both.

00:25:46.000 Because it could go either way.

00:25:47.000 Yeah, it could go either way.

00:25:49.000 Can I say that?

00:25:50.000 Okay, so you can.

00:25:51.000 So you guys would say, okay, if you think it's equally as destructive for both genders, does that mean that you think cheating is the same between both genders?

00:25:58.000 Cheating is cheating at the end of the day.

00:26:00.000 So it's 50-50?

00:26:01.000 Yeah.

00:26:01.000 It's energy you exchange it.

00:26:03.000 So you guys think a woman cheating on her man is the equivalent to a man cheating on his girl?

00:26:06.000 Yes.

00:26:08.000 Okay, hear me out.

00:26:11.000 It has its differences because men, they will go to an extreme to ask, what position were you in?

00:26:16.000 Did you moan?

00:26:17.000 Did you do this?

00:26:18.000 Did you do that?

00:26:19.000 But at the end of the day, cheating is cheating.

00:26:21.000 You know what I mean?

00:26:22.000 Like, regardless.

00:26:23.000 Men really do that. 0.99

00:26:24.000 They be like, how he fucked you? 1.00

00:26:25.000 What you mean? 0.99

00:26:26.000 Come here and pause.

00:26:28.000 But you really think it is equal then?

00:26:29.000 That a woman cheating is just as bad as a man cheating? 1.00

00:26:31.000 Yes.

00:26:32.000 Depending on how strong that bond is and what y'all have together.

00:26:35.000 But depending on how they gonna take it, I think that dude gonna take it harder.

00:26:42.000 Do you think it's equal too?

00:26:44.000 A man is going to take it harder.

00:26:46.000 Do you agree with them?

00:26:48.000 I feel like I'm going to be the antagonist in this podcast.

00:26:51.000 I can't lie to you.

00:26:52.000 I really don't think it's the same.

00:26:54.000 Which one is worse? 0.73

00:26:56.000 I really feel that women cheating is a lot worse than men because, I mean, us as women, we're not really built to have just casual sex. 0.96

00:27:05.000 There is a type of intimacy that goes into that. 0.90

00:27:08.000 An emotional attachment.

00:27:09.000 There is an emotional attachment and there is a type of energy exchange between that.

00:27:13.000 Men don't have that. 1.00

00:27:14.000 Men can genuinely just have casual sex. 0.98

00:27:16.000 The way you connect with a man is through his head.

00:27:19.000 Now, which one you want to connect to, that's up to you.

00:27:21.000 But I'm just saying, with women, you can't... 1.00

00:27:25.000 In order to really protect your peace, I really feel like you can't just go out and genuinely just have casual sex and, you know, cheat on your man.

00:27:32.000 I do feel that it's something different.

00:27:34.000 Right.

00:27:35.000 As a female, like, I feel like...

00:27:36.000 Oh, you're changing now?

00:27:37.000 No, no, no, no, no.

00:27:38.000 I'm not changing.

00:27:39.000 I'm just saying, like, to add more to her, like, as a female, you... 1.00

00:27:43.000 Females just don't go out and fuck anybody. 1.00

00:27:45.000 I mean, there is some females like that. 1.00

00:27:46.000 There is some females like that. 1.00

00:27:48.000 But there is some females, if they're going to cheat on their dude, they're going to build a bond with that dude before they cheat on their dude. 1.00

00:27:54.000 You know what I mean?

00:27:55.000 Yeah, you're kind of contradicting yourself now.

00:27:57.000 I'ma keep it real. 1.00

00:27:57.000 It's just levels to this shit. 1.00

00:27:58.000 It all depends on how you cheat because you can be in love with somebody and when you go fuck, it's fireworks. 1.00

00:28:04.000 Then you go fuck somebody else and it's just the fuck. 1.00

00:28:06.000 It ain't no spark, no nothing. 1.00

00:28:08.000 You barely getting your nut off.

00:28:10.000 Real rap. 1.00

00:28:11.000 So at the end of the day, real shit. 1.00

00:28:13.000 Like... 1.00

00:28:15.000 Wait, how do you know that? 0.99

00:28:15.000 You can go because I done been in a long relationship where shit got rocky and I tried to make my nigga mad. 0.99

00:28:21.000 Like, I'm going to go fuck with another nigga. 1.00

00:28:23.000 I ended up telling the other nigga, like, look, I still love my other nigga. 1.00

00:28:26.000 So I'm going to have to see you later. 0.96

00:28:28.000 Like, because the sex wasn't the same as Spark.

00:28:31.000 But hold on, you a queen! 1.00

00:28:33.000 What you mean?

00:28:34.000 I am a queen, but I'm still straight and I'm from the hood.

00:28:37.000 Like, I'm from the trenches, bottom line.

00:28:39.000 But I'm still an evolving queen and I know who I am.

00:28:42.000 I guess I will ask you, don't you think that that mindset though is a little detrimental to your own personal growth?

00:28:47.000 Me personally, I grew from that already.

00:28:49.000 I will never ever try to move on Fast.

00:28:53.000 For any immature reasons.

00:28:55.000 When I know that's not going to help me move on.

00:28:58.000 So I just...

00:29:00.000 But that's when I was like 18. 1.00

00:29:01.000 You know, immature shit. 1.00

00:29:02.000 You trying to do little shit to make the person mad. 1.00

00:29:05.000 Trying to move on. 1.00

00:29:07.000 Help your own feelings. 1.00

00:29:08.000 The whole time you got to sit with your shit. 1.00

00:29:09.000 So you didn't even really want to do it. 1.00

00:29:10.000 You did it more for...

00:29:12.000 Revenge purposes.

00:29:13.000 No, I did it for me.

00:29:15.000 Personally, I don't know how much information I need to be putting out here.

00:29:18.000 What was the reason you did it for you, though?

00:29:20.000 It sounds to me like it was in spite of him.

00:29:21.000 I'll be honest.

00:29:23.000 I had a miscarriage. 0.94

00:29:25.000 My nigga ended up dipping, low-key.

00:29:27.000 We broke up for a month.

00:29:29.000 I moved on, got like three jobs.

00:29:31.000 Really focused on me, because once I lost my baby and everything, that meant a lot to me. 0.86

00:29:35.000 And then the main nigga dipped. 1.00

00:29:38.000 I moved on.

00:29:39.000 And then after working three jobs, I got bored and was like, I'm going to hang out with somebody. 0.55

00:29:42.000 So I picked a nigga that was a chosen one in my eyes. 1.00

00:29:45.000 But you were single at this point, though.

00:29:47.000 So is it really cheating? 0.96

00:29:48.000 It was when that nigga came back. 1.00

00:29:51.000 He was cheating. 0.89

00:29:52.000 If he left you and then you went and found another guy, is it really cheating?

00:29:55.000 But a lot of times, you know, logistics don't matter all the time when feelings involve. 0.99

00:30:00.000 You can be logical as fuck, but... 0.98

00:30:03.000 It's how I feel. 1.00

00:30:04.000 That's what the fuck matter. 0.99

00:30:05.000 And it's vice versa. 0.99

00:30:06.000 So you can be logical, but it's love.

00:30:08.000 You know what? 0.81

00:30:09.000 You a strong black queen. 0.95

00:30:10.000 Okay. 0.96

00:30:10.000 All right. 0.96

00:30:12.000 So you guys still think it's equivalent.

00:30:14.000 Well, you three think it's equivalent where a woman cheating on a man is the same as a man cheating on a woman.

00:30:19.000 I guess it depends on the context.

00:30:20.000 And then you think it's not the same.

00:30:22.000 And then what about y'all?

00:30:23.000 And then we'll go back to the original question.

00:30:25.000 You think it's the same between a woman cheating and a man cheating or is one worse? 0.74

00:30:28.000 I feel like cheating is cheating.

00:30:30.000 You think it's equal as well?

00:30:30.000 Yeah.

00:30:31.000 Okay.

00:30:31.000 What about you?

00:30:33.000 I think cheating is cheating, you know, same thing, but I just think it kind of like the extent of it just kind of like affects us differently.

00:30:40.000 Like women, I feel they feel like it's cheating, cheating when it's like emotions involved versus like men are like, you know, Let's say, like, I don't know, like, a woman's, like, looking at some dude, like, 1.00

00:30:56.000 whatever, like, I don't know, like, that sort of thing.

00:30:59.000 It's, like, whatever, but if it's, like, if you go all the way with a guy, like, I feel like that really affects the guy.

00:31:05.000 You're so right, like, I thought that was, like...

00:31:07.000 I mean, but, okay, so do you still think it's 50-50 then?

00:31:10.000 I mean...

00:31:10.000 I mean, cheating is cheating, yeah.

00:31:12.000 Like, you know, if the girl cheats, if the guy cheats, like, whatever.

00:31:15.000 Cheating is cheating.

00:31:16.000 But it's just, like, I feel like we have different...

00:31:19.000 Men and women have different definitions of cheating, if that makes sense.

00:31:22.000 That's true.

00:31:23.000 Like, always, I think to myself, like, it's gonna work that way, but never works that way.

00:31:27.000 Like...

00:31:27.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:31:28.000 I'm saying.

00:31:29.000 It depends on, like...

00:31:32.000 Okay, very interesting.

00:31:34.000 So most of you think that cheating is equivalent between the genders.

00:31:37.000 Only one of you thinks that it's worse for the woman, which is very interesting.

00:31:43.000 What do you think?

00:31:47.000 Go ahead.

00:31:49.000 Well, we should answer the first question before I go into that.

00:31:51.000 The Black Wolfings question originally. 0.76

00:31:53.000 So she was talking about men and women being friends.

00:31:55.000 Alright, so the question is, do you honestly believe...

00:31:59.000 If he's your friend?

00:32:01.000 Yeah, do you have guy friends?

00:32:02.000 And then do you believe he is your friend?

00:32:03.000 I have guy friends.

00:32:05.000 I'm really strict with them because like you have been through things with, you know, trusting somebody as a friend next thing you know.

00:32:12.000 They backdooring you. 0.95

00:32:13.000 Okay, so backdooring like trying to have sex? 1.00

00:32:16.000 Trying to fuck. 1.00

00:32:17.000 They just catch you and just... 1.00

00:32:18.000 So by her answer, she doesn't believe that they're just a friend.

00:32:21.000 I keep it really real with my homeboys. 0.98

00:32:22.000 I let them even know, listen, if you try to come on to me, I'm going to play the shit out to you because I'm telling you right now, don't go outside boundaries. 1.00

00:32:29.000 If I'm telling you all I want is a friendship and I look at you as a brother and a king, don't show me you ignorant and stupid and think I'm any fling. 1.00

00:32:37.000 All right, let's say he likes a girl. 1.00

00:32:39.000 How would you help him hook up with her?

00:32:41.000 You know, a lot of people...

00:32:43.000 I got a nice demeanor about me where I attract beautiful women. 1.00

00:32:47.000 So I would just stand next to him.

00:32:49.000 Period.

00:32:50.000 Oh, wait.

00:32:51.000 If he liked the female. 0.66

00:32:52.000 Oh, I would probably get to know her as like, oh, let's go out and catch her vibes and see what type of vibe she would link with him. 0.83

00:33:01.000 And then I would...

00:33:02.000 And then I would have everybody come together.

00:33:05.000 We would all go out together.

00:33:06.000 And I would kind of have my own person with me and then let them vibe and talk and ease in.

00:33:11.000 So you would try to set up a group date?

00:33:13.000 Yeah.

00:33:15.000 Okay.

00:33:16.000 I mean, would it be fair to say that women behave differently when they're talking to women versus when they're talking to men?

00:33:20.000 Absolutely.

00:33:21.000 Yeah.

00:33:22.000 So would that be a real good gauge of her personality with you hanging out with her versus your guy trying to hang out with her?

00:33:28.000 I mean, it all depends on the situation.

00:33:31.000 And I'm trying to think of my own scenario.

00:33:33.000 So, like, yeah, that's the best way I would do it.

00:33:36.000 Because if he don't got his own game, and you looking for my game, you got to go with my flow.

00:33:42.000 It's not up to you no more.

00:33:43.000 You don't have your own game.

00:33:46.000 Okay.

00:33:47.000 What about you?

00:33:48.000 What would you do?

00:33:48.000 Do you have guy friends?

00:33:49.000 And do you think that they're actually your friends?

00:33:52.000 I'm not gonna lie.

00:33:53.000 I have certain guy friends that tries to, like she said, backdoor, like, try to maneuver and get, like, sneak their way into doing stuff.

00:34:01.000 Yeah.

00:34:02.000 I have other guy friends I also understand, like, it's not gonna be that, so.

00:34:06.000 So, no, are they really your friends?

00:34:09.000 No.

00:34:10.000 No.

00:34:10.000 I believe if a dude who say he your friend and you be like, yo, he like, yo, I look at you like a sister.

00:34:16.000 If you come to, I think at one point, if you be like, I'm trying to fuck, he might smash. 0.96

00:34:21.000 That's just facts on facts. 0.86

00:34:22.000 So that means he's never really your friend.

00:34:24.000 No, he could be a friend.

00:34:26.000 No, he could be a friend, but then again, I don't know, like, maybe... 1.00

00:34:30.000 He could be a friend with the shit. 1.00

00:34:31.000 No, no, think about it. 1.00

00:34:32.000 Logically speaking, what is a friend?

00:34:34.000 It's platonic, right?

00:34:36.000 So if he has any inclination of wanting to smash you, he's not really your friend.

00:34:40.000 I just did my friend, his name, the Keenan system.

00:34:43.000 He gets like millions of views.

00:34:44.000 He asked me a question.

00:34:45.000 Do you think guys and girls can have platonic relationships?

00:34:49.000 And one thing that stood out was as a single woman and him being a single man, we are friends and we know we'll never cross those boundaries.

00:34:56.000 But I think once you're in a relationship and you're trying to have other outside platonic relationships, You know what I'm saying?

00:35:03.000 It's like, what can that girl do for you that I can't?

00:35:05.000 Why are you stepping outside of boundaries and stepping into the...

00:35:09.000 Who is this girl? 0.99

00:35:10.000 She need to be my friend.

00:35:11.000 That's how I'm moving.

00:35:12.000 Because if I'm moving with you, you're supposed to be my husband in the future.

00:35:15.000 Bottom line. 0.94

00:35:16.000 Would it be fair to say that a guy having a female friend is fairly useless when he has a girl? 0.99

00:35:20.000 It depends on the situation.

00:35:22.000 Who's the girl? 0.74

00:35:23.000 What's her mindset?

00:35:24.000 How's she moving?

00:35:25.000 You just said that if your guy has a girl that's in her life, why does she need him?

00:35:31.000 No, no, but you're contradicting yourself.

00:35:33.000 You said, why does he need her when he has you?

00:35:36.000 Yes.

00:35:36.000 That's a good point.

00:35:37.000 But I'm also thinking about the industry, too, because when you're working in the industry...

00:35:41.000 But we're speaking in general. 0.98

00:35:42.000 If he has a girl, would it be fair to say that women are useless as friends? 1.00

00:35:47.000 When a man has a woman? 1.00

00:35:49.000 Yeah.

00:35:50.000 Yes.

00:35:52.000 Thank you.

00:35:54.000 That's going to go feed into my point that I make here in a second.

00:35:57.000 But, okay.

00:35:58.000 What about you? 0.98

00:35:59.000 Nigga, please. 1.00

00:36:00.000 With, like, how I'm gonna help him?

00:36:03.000 Yes.

00:36:04.000 Yeah, get a girl. 1.00

00:36:04.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:36:05.000 I would say, I would tell him, like, be yourself.

00:36:08.000 Like, don't do too much.

00:36:09.000 Like, I would say, observe her energy.

00:36:12.000 Okay.

00:36:12.000 The more you around her, the more, like, you'll realize, like, how she carries herself.

00:36:17.000 So I would say, just do that.

00:36:19.000 Okay, would it be fair to say that women put on a front when they meet a man? 0.97

00:36:22.000 I'm not gonna lie, yeah.

00:36:23.000 There are certain women that tend to, like, not show their true colors when they first meet a man. 0.99

00:36:29.000 Would it be fair to say that most men are socially retarded and can't detect that? 1.00

00:36:34.000 So is your advice really practical? 0.92

00:36:36.000 Just be yourself and figure out if she's useless when most guys don't have the social aptitude to do that?

00:36:41.000 I'm not gonna lie, I'm like a 50-50 type of person, so it's like...

00:36:46.000 Someone paid $20 for a question.

00:36:49.000 Yeah, that 50-50 thing.

00:36:51.000 Okay.

00:36:52.000 I thought she was gonna say close the gap.

00:36:53.000 Yeah, what about you?

00:36:56.000 The question was, it was like three questions.

00:36:59.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:36:59.000 Basically, do you have guy friends and are they really your friends?

00:37:02.000 I do have guy friends.

00:37:03.000 I actually think I have some more guy friends than girlfriends.

00:37:06.000 Yeah, absolutely.

00:37:08.000 And like, you know, they're boys.

00:37:10.000 And would I help them get a girl that they liked?

00:37:14.000 Absolutely.

00:37:14.000 I have in the past.

00:37:15.000 What would you do?

00:37:17.000 Depends on the scenario, like how they know the girl, whatever.

00:37:20.000 Like if we're at a function or something like...

00:37:21.000 I might, like, hype them up or something like that, like, a little bit with the girl. 0.85

00:37:26.000 Like, I also, like, gotta check her energy, too, like, a little bit, because, like, that's my friend at the end of the day.

00:37:30.000 So, like, I just want to make sure that, you know, they click, you know what I mean?

00:37:33.000 Why do you prefer to hang out with men over women? 1.00

00:37:35.000 I don't think it's necessarily a preference.

00:37:38.000 Like, it just kind of happens.

00:37:38.000 You said you have more guy friends.

00:37:39.000 Yeah, but it just kind of happened.

00:37:41.000 It's not necessarily a preference.

00:37:43.000 I mean, your actions dictate that it's a preference.

00:37:45.000 My actions, they kind of, I mean, it kind of just happened sort of thing.

00:37:49.000 Like I don't go out looking for guy friends.

00:37:51.000 It just kind of happened.

00:37:52.000 But I'm saying like, okay, so why do you have mostly guy friends, not female friends?

00:38:00.000 Okay, to be 100% honest, so in college, I was in...

00:38:03.000 I already know the answer, but it's fine.

00:38:04.000 Continue.

00:38:05.000 Do you?

00:38:05.000 Yeah.

00:38:06.000 Okay, we'll see about that.

00:38:07.000 So in college, I was in Greek life, and whatever, I was in a sorority.

00:38:12.000 I was close with some guys in a frat or whatever.

00:38:17.000 And what was that?

00:38:19.000 What was that all about?

00:38:20.000 Okay, so anyways.

00:38:22.000 No, I just like...

00:38:24.000 Like, friends in my sorority kind of just, like, came and went sort of thing.

00:38:27.000 But, like, you know, I guess, like, my friends in the frat were kind of just, like, consistent, like, the whole time, like, throughout my whole time in college.

00:38:35.000 And, like, it just kind of played out like that.

00:38:38.000 It's really not...

00:38:39.000 You know what I think when you say sorority?

00:38:41.000 Choo-choo! 1.00

00:38:46.000 Like...

00:38:46.000 Went right over my head.

00:38:48.000 Yeah.

00:38:49.000 Yeah, I'm sure it did.

00:38:51.000 All right.

00:38:52.000 Um...

00:38:54.000 Anyway, so continue on.

00:38:55.000 So you said that they just were more consistent with offering value throughout your life versus your sorority sisters.

00:39:03.000 I wouldn't say all sorority sisters, but yeah.

00:39:07.000 Comparatively speaking, the men offered you more value than the women. 0.85

00:39:10.000 Hence why you kept the relationship going with them versus the girls.

00:39:13.000 Define value.

00:39:14.000 What do you mean by value?

00:39:15.000 You said they were consistent.

00:39:16.000 Well, they were consistent.

00:39:18.000 They were authentic with me.

00:39:20.000 Do you just mean maybe they provided a different perspective?

00:39:24.000 Um...

00:39:27.000 Maybe.

00:39:27.000 I feel like it's just like, I guess, Greek life and gender.

00:39:30.000 Okay, let's look at this more objectively because you're using your feelings too much.

00:39:33.000 When people are friends with each other, it's a value exchange.

00:39:35.000 Period.

00:39:36.000 When you want to admit it or not.

00:39:37.000 They give you something, you get something in return.

00:39:39.000 It could be laughs, it could be good relationships, it could be good conversation, whatever it is.

00:39:43.000 There's always a value exchange.

00:39:44.000 Otherwise, there's no need to be at the trading post between the two parties.

00:39:48.000 So essentially, by your actions, what you're saying is the men offered more utility and value to you versus the women and they were more consistent in doing so.

00:39:55.000 Hence why you maintain those relationships and not the others.

00:39:58.000 Sure.

00:39:58.000 Okay, so back to that utility that we're talking about, you said they were more authentic.

00:40:03.000 Authentic in what regard? 0.98

00:40:06.000 Authentic, like, I don't know, like, if I met someone and, like, they didn't fuck with me like that, like, that's fine. 0.60

00:40:12.000 Like, they made it, like, I guess not, like, obvious or, like, whatever, but, like, it was known, you know what I mean?

00:40:18.000 I feel like, at least from my personal experience, like, not all sororities are like this.

00:40:22.000 Like, I guess I met some girls that, like, weren't, like, they guess, like, I don't know, they had, like, some sort of ulterior motive.

00:40:28.000 How long have you been out of college?

00:40:29.000 A year?

00:40:30.000 A little over a year.

00:40:31.000 And you still maintain contact with the frat brothers, right?

00:40:35.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:40:36.000 Some of them are in my close friend group.

00:40:38.000 Okay, real quick.

00:40:39.000 Who else here prefers male friends over female friends? 0.53

00:40:42.000 Okay, so half the table prefers male friends.

00:40:45.000 Okay.

00:40:46.000 Interesting.

00:40:47.000 All right.

00:40:48.000 And then, sorry, were you saying something else?

00:40:50.000 No, not really.

00:40:52.000 That was awesome.

00:40:53.000 Good job.

00:40:54.000 Here's my take on female friends. 1.00

00:40:57.000 Women don't offer much value, I'll be honest with y'all, from a friendship perspective. 1.00

00:41:00.000 And the reason why men typically tolerate being your friend is for some desire and hope for sexual access in the future.

00:41:07.000 That's the reality. 1.00

00:41:09.000 My brothers tell me that shit too. 1.00

00:41:11.000 Because the reality is, as you said it already for me, women don't offer much value outside of a relationship. 1.00

00:41:16.000 So if you have a girlfriend, having female friends a lot of times is not beneficial to you at all.

00:41:21.000 But women benefit a lot from keeping guy friends around because you get... 1.00

00:41:25.000 Masculine energy, good leadership to a degree.

00:41:29.000 Sometimes they'll even pay for hangout sessions.

00:41:31.000 They'll give you rational advice. 0.99

00:41:32.000 You can be yourself and not to worry about feelings and all this other bullshit.

00:41:36.000 So I've noticed that a good amount of women prefer to have guy friends, but that's because when men deal with each other, well, when men deal with each other or when they deal with women, they understand they must bring value versus when you deal with another woman, women are used to not bringing any value, to be honest with y'all. 0.79

00:41:48.000 And I would argue that most women bring value, but most of their value to the man that they love, admire, and respect. 0.64

00:41:54.000 Versus a guy that's in a friend zone.

00:41:56.000 To get the best out of a girl, she's got to be your girlfriend. 1.00

00:41:59.000 Damn, that was deep. 0.99

00:42:00.000 Do you disagree? 0.99

00:42:01.000 Kind of, a little bit.

00:42:04.000 What do you disagree with?

00:42:05.000 Um...

00:42:08.000 I mean, I guess the part where, like, women are, um, what was the word you used? 0.95

00:42:13.000 Useless? 0.99

00:42:14.000 That, like, female-female friendships, like, are kind of, like, useless? 0.98

00:42:17.000 Like, that sort of thing that they don't, like, provide any value? 0.99

00:42:19.000 Women are useless to men in a friendship context. 1.00

00:42:21.000 Oh, in a friendship context. 1.00

00:42:22.000 Okay.

00:42:22.000 Yeah.

00:42:23.000 Like, I guarantee you, I don't want to sound like an asshole, the guys probably offer you more value than you offer them in return. 1.00

00:42:29.000 I'm willing to bet my left testicle because men are okay with being friends with women, right? 1.00

00:42:34.000 Men are okay with being friends with women because maybe in the back of their mind is like, I can get laid with this girl at some point. 0.98

00:42:40.000 It's hardwired into us where we want to protect and provide for women, even if they're in a platonic situation. 0.69

00:42:44.000 Like guys are just designed to want to protect and provide for girls. 0.61

00:42:48.000 So they bring value off it when they deal with women. 0.98

00:42:51.000 This might backfire on me later, but I'm gonna keep it real.

00:42:55.000 I'm not every woman.

00:42:57.000 So, and I know a lot of women can't really offer anything because some women mindsets, you know, a lot of us not, I'm going to talk about the minority. 0.99

00:43:04.000 A lot of us not really raised around good influences, right?

00:43:08.000 So a lot of women, especially from my hood where I grew up for real, you know, they focused on niggas with money. 1.00

00:43:14.000 I need a nigga with money. 1.00

00:43:15.000 All I got to do is look bad. 0.91

00:43:18.000 But they don't really realize that's not really making you bad.

00:43:21.000 That's not making you a beautiful woman.

00:43:23.000 It's about being independent.

00:43:24.000 It's about adding, not only to yourself, but putting into others.

00:43:29.000 It's not just about looking beautiful, bad and bougie, and knowing the little slings here and there and knowing the songs that's out. 0.99

00:43:35.000 Like, honestly, I don't respect that when I hear a man say, woman really is useless because you just messing with useless women. 1.00

00:43:43.000 You more intimidated of a woman who's strong, who can really go get it on her own, who really got the muscle. 0.99

00:43:53.000 See, all the women that got the muscle is looked at as alphas, who's looked at as the man who is alphas, look at the other alpha females as, oh, you don't need nobody? 1.00

00:44:03.000 Fuck you, them bitch. 1.00

00:44:04.000 You got it on your own. 1.00

00:44:04.000 So then y'all gonna get them air-hit ass bitches y'all talking about. 1.00

00:44:08.000 The women that actually deserve less. 1.00

00:44:10.000 Not the queens. 0.83

00:44:12.000 You feel what I'm saying?

00:44:13.000 So, y'all talking real reckless, but y'all ain't giving y'all props to the real woman.

00:44:17.000 That actually can help market your brand.

00:44:21.000 Who actually can help put food in your mouth.

00:44:23.000 Who actually is going to remember, let me get him these cute-ass boxes and briefs that look really good on him.

00:44:29.000 Who going to actually come take care of you.

00:44:30.000 Who going to actually make sure you good.

00:44:32.000 How was your day?

00:44:34.000 What happened at work? 1.00

00:44:35.000 Let me help you add something to the fucking pot. 1.00

00:44:37.000 But is a woman that's a platonic friend with a man going to really do all that? 0.99

00:44:42.000 Honestly, I'm a real one.

00:44:44.000 And I go hard for everybody I love.

00:44:46.000 And at the end of the day, if the other person that I'm with, family, friend, is jealous, they're going to have to take that L because I'm pure.

00:44:53.000 So if I know I can offer you something to help elevate you, I'm going to do that.

00:44:57.000 Bottom line.

00:44:58.000 So if you insecure...

00:45:00.000 Miss your blessing.

00:45:02.000 That's it.

00:45:03.000 You said at the top of that speech that this is a minority, correct?

00:45:09.000 You said at the beginning...

00:45:10.000 My statement, brother.

00:45:11.000 Yeah, it knows your speech.

00:45:13.000 Whatever it was.

00:45:15.000 Don't let him throw you off.

00:45:17.000 Just vibe.

00:45:19.000 You need to tone it down a little bit.

00:45:22.000 I'm speaking facts.

00:45:23.000 Okay, that's cool.

00:45:24.000 But what I'm saying is that at the beginning of your speech or statement or whatever you want to call it, you went in to say this is a minority.

00:45:33.000 Okay?

00:45:33.000 And by you saying that this is a minority...

00:45:35.000 I was talking...

00:45:36.000 I was targeting...

00:45:38.000 Mainly because I see myself as a black woman.

00:45:40.000 I'm diverse.

00:45:41.000 I'm half Asian and black.

00:45:43.000 But when I speak on minority, I mean people that I see.

00:45:46.000 You said minority of women are like this. 1.00

00:45:48.000 Then you went on to say...

00:45:49.000 I said I'm speaking about minority.

00:45:50.000 Did you specify it was race?

00:45:53.000 I don't remember you saying race.

00:45:54.000 You just said this is a minority.

00:45:55.000 Minority as in people that wasn't really given a golden spoon.

00:46:00.000 Knowledge.

00:46:02.000 What I mean is influence.

00:46:03.000 A good role model.

00:46:05.000 I ain't really here to be I'm a real one.

00:46:08.000 That's all I'm gonna say.

00:46:09.000 Okay.

00:46:09.000 Let's say you are a real one.

00:46:11.000 Let's say that you are different.

00:46:12.000 What I say is what I mean.

00:46:14.000 Okay, that's cool.

00:46:14.000 You feel what I'm saying?

00:46:15.000 But here's the point.

00:46:17.000 Most girls aren't like that. 1.00

00:46:19.000 Most girls don't add value. 1.00

00:46:20.000 Most girls don't do the things that you're saying that you do. 1.00

00:46:23.000 And I agree.

00:46:24.000 Do you know most girls?

00:46:24.000 Bro, I'm not excited from what you're saying.

00:46:27.000 I'm just saying there are other women. 1.00

00:46:28.000 I'm speaking about the other women.

00:46:30.000 But you're talking about a minority of women that is statistically insignificant. 1.00

00:46:33.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:46:34.000 Damn, that's fucked up. 1.00

00:46:35.000 We all deserve it. 1.00

00:46:36.000 What?

00:46:37.000 We all deserve it.

00:46:38.000 Just because they're not given the opportunity to really learn what being a real woman is like, they can learn.

00:46:44.000 Most don't want to.

00:46:45.000 Do they want to learn?

00:46:46.000 That's on them.

00:46:48.000 Well, okay, let's not operate on what we think or what we feel.

00:46:51.000 Let's operate on what's real.

00:46:52.000 Most women don't care to be good platonic friends with guys because there's no... 1.00

00:46:56.000 Why should they if they're getting what they want anyway without having to work for it?

00:46:59.000 Facts.

00:46:59.000 Most girls get everything on a platter, especially if they're attractive.

00:47:02.000 So why the hell are they going to work for something they don't have to?

00:47:05.000 Human beings are lazy creatures inherently. 1.00

00:47:07.000 So they're going to do whatever they need to do to get whatever they want and do the bare minimum.

00:47:12.000 So somebody else has something?

00:47:15.000 That was a great speech.

00:47:16.000 That was a great speech, too.

00:47:19.000 I mean, it had nothing to do with the conversation.

00:47:21.000 I'm not disagreeing what you said.

00:47:23.000 I was just putting on my perspective as well.

00:47:26.000 Adding on to it, because I'm never going to discredit you, but how I feel is how I feel.

00:47:30.000 Yeah, you got to remember that.

00:47:31.000 How you feel versus what's real are two different things.

00:47:34.000 It's real, because that's my world.

00:47:35.000 Okay, but we got to operate on how the real world goes, not just off of your personal experience, right?

00:47:40.000 Because if you go off of just your personal experience, well, unfortunately, that's a very nuanced and specific experience that might not reflect the reality of the world.

00:47:48.000 You're saying, well, I'll do this for my guy friends, I'll do that.

00:47:50.000 But I can say that about you.

00:47:50.000 Most girls won't.

00:47:51.000 What?

00:47:52.000 I can say that about what you're saying too, though.

00:47:54.000 I'm being fairly objective, though.

00:47:55.000 That's the difference.

00:47:56.000 I'm speaking in generality.

00:47:58.000 I'm more empowering when it comes to empowering.

00:48:04.000 I'm more empowering.

00:48:05.000 Yes, I am.

00:48:07.000 Yeah, but you're speaking about a very specific instance of a minority.

00:48:11.000 I'm speaking in general.

00:48:13.000 I'm not speaking from my own specific experience because speaking from your own specific experience Right?

00:48:19.000 It's not a good move, especially when you're a minority, which is why I don't attribute how the world works to my personal experience. 0.95

00:48:25.000 I'll give you an example.

00:48:26.000 I'm not going to sit here and say, world hunger doesn't exist just because I never have to worry about that.

00:48:31.000 It does exist regardless of my socioeconomic income in the United States.

00:48:35.000 Because I'd be foolish to say, well, world hunger doesn't exist because I don't experience it.

00:48:39.000 That's quite what you're saying right now.

00:48:41.000 I felt like you was just forgetting about the woman that actually worked hard out here and actually can put something to the table. 0.99

00:48:48.000 It's a minority.

00:48:49.000 No, you trying to flip what I was saying and use it to your own advantage.

00:48:52.000 You literally said it was a minority.

00:48:53.000 You trying to flip what I was saying and trying to use it to your own advantage.

00:48:56.000 So you're not trying to let me explain what I was saying, so I'm going to let you run the show.

00:49:00.000 Go ahead.

00:49:01.000 I don't need the attitude, man.

00:49:04.000 I'm really keeping it real because you're trying to...

00:49:06.000 If I'm speaking on the minority...

00:49:09.000 Hold on.

00:49:10.000 It's okay to speak on the minority, but keep it respectful.

00:49:14.000 I warned you before the show, right?

00:49:15.000 You called her brother three times.

00:49:15.000 I'm speaking respectfully.

00:49:17.000 He's not your brother, right?

00:49:18.000 He's a host of the show.

00:49:19.000 So keep it respectful.

00:49:20.000 And they're talking about women who are dessert. 0.97

00:49:22.000 I know.

00:49:23.000 I know.

00:49:23.000 Just relax.

00:49:24.000 I told you to take a deep breath.

00:49:25.000 Just relax.

00:49:27.000 Just relax.

00:49:28.000 See, the difference is that I can back up why I'm saying why women deserve less. 1.00

00:49:32.000 It's in my book and I go into excruciating detail about different things as to why most women deserve less. 0.99

00:49:37.000 I'm not using my personal experiences, which is a minority, and try to say, oh, this is how the world works. 0.97

00:49:44.000 That's ridiculous. 0.96

00:49:44.000 That's a solipsistic view. 0.96

00:49:46.000 Because that's not what I'm saying, but I'm going to still let you say it because that's it.

00:49:46.000 That's crazy.

00:49:46.000 I know it's crazy.

00:49:50.000 I'm not going to re-explain when y'all keep switching up what I'm saying.

00:49:54.000 We were listening very close to what you said.

00:49:55.000 You started it off with, not all girls are like this, and this is a minority, XYZ. Because you guys are talking about women who are just for looks, can't bring nothing to the table in platonic relationships, and how women are useful in platonic relationships, 0.99

00:50:11.000 how they can only get what they want from the relationship.

00:50:15.000 And all I'm saying is that just made me think of a woman who's just full of looks and thinks she's just deserving because of how she looks, not what she can actually bring and provide to the table. 0.82

00:50:22.000 What is the modern woman today? 1.00

00:50:23.000 Instagram.

00:50:24.000 That is a modern woman today. 0.85

00:50:25.000 You actually even said it yourself earlier.

00:50:27.000 A modern woman? 0.98

00:50:28.000 You literally said it earlier.

00:50:29.000 Why is he going to a girl when I'm here? 0.99

00:50:31.000 She can't offer nothing that I don't offer.

00:50:32.000 Why are you friends with chicks? 1.00

00:50:33.000 You said it yourself.

00:50:34.000 But what if you're single, though, and you have other friends?

00:50:37.000 Like, come on.

00:50:41.000 I don't know what you're saying right now.

00:50:43.000 I'm confused.

00:50:43.000 It's fine.

00:50:44.000 We'll move on.

00:50:46.000 I just think if you take your personal emotions and your personal experience out of the equation, you'll start to kind of see it from a more broader perspective.

00:50:55.000 I could see that because I don't want to talk down on all women saying they just can't bring that to the table. 0.99

00:51:00.000 We're being realistic.

00:51:01.000 That's how you feel.

00:51:02.000 Oh, I don't want to talk about other women. 1.00

00:51:03.000 The reality is most women, like modern, are like that. 1.00

00:51:06.000 I'm not saying all women.

00:51:07.000 Most, most, most.

00:51:08.000 We said most.

00:51:08.000 We didn't say all.

00:51:09.000 No.

00:51:10.000 Yeah, we're very specific in saying most.

00:51:11.000 Most.

00:51:12.000 And we date women daily, so it was like, bro.

00:51:15.000 Yo, woman power all day. 1.00

00:51:16.000 I love y'all.

00:51:16.000 Ain't you in a relationship?

00:51:18.000 You date women daily?

00:51:18.000 I love you, ladies.

00:51:19.000 Listen, man.

00:51:20.000 In spirit.

00:51:21.000 I'm not a man.

00:51:22.000 As a man of God, I'm doing spirit.

00:51:23.000 I don't want you.

00:51:24.000 Wait, wait, wait.

00:51:25.000 Sorry.

00:51:25.000 Wait, wait, wait, wait.

00:51:27.000 Cut cameras.

00:51:28.000 Cut cameras.

00:51:28.000 What you just said?

00:51:29.000 Say what you just said again.

00:51:32.000 What'd you just ask him?

00:51:35.000 He in a relationship.

00:51:37.000 He said he date women every day.

00:51:39.000 And what did you just say?

00:51:40.000 With God.

00:51:41.000 Relationship with God.

00:51:42.000 Nah.

00:51:42.000 What'd you say?

00:51:43.000 I'm a man of God.

00:51:44.000 I told you that.

00:51:45.000 That's not what you said, though.

00:51:45.000 Exactly.

00:51:46.000 But they stuck on what I said.

00:51:47.000 Now you contradicting yourself.

00:51:50.000 How?

00:51:52.000 Because you didn't really answer her question.

00:51:55.000 Of course.

00:51:55.000 Because this is their show.

00:51:56.000 You feel me?

00:51:58.000 They controlling it.

00:52:01.000 Anyway.

00:52:02.000 Okay.

00:52:02.000 I'm confused.

00:52:03.000 Okay.

00:52:03.000 We'll go to a slide for Larry.

00:52:05.000 W Fresh.

00:52:06.000 Okay.

00:52:07.000 Fresh Jones.

00:52:08.000 Question for ladies. 1.00

00:52:08.000 What does it mean to be a woman? 1.00

00:52:09.000 Oh, God.

00:52:10.000 No, we're not going to get into this conversation.

00:52:12.000 No, why don't we?

00:52:13.000 Are we going to get a woman here? 1.00

00:52:14.000 No.

00:52:15.000 We're going to go down.

00:52:15.000 No.

00:52:16.000 Moving along.

00:52:18.000 What was that?

00:52:19.000 Somebody said something about what?

00:52:20.000 Against women? 0.89

00:52:21.000 Are we against what?

00:52:22.000 I'm going to say it calm because I was clearly hype early.

00:52:24.000 Are we against women over here? 0.62

00:52:26.000 Let's do that.

00:52:27.000 I think that's a great question.

00:52:28.000 You know, because I'm a woman.

00:52:30.000 I can't really sit here.

00:52:31.000 If I get kicked out for standing up for women, all right, y'all. 0.98

00:52:34.000 I love y'all.

00:52:35.000 Women power. 1.00

00:52:36.000 Here's the thing.

00:52:37.000 This isn't about being against women.

00:52:39.000 It's about acknowledging that there's biological differences between the two genders, and the difference is that we go ahead and highlight the biological differences in men that are negative, which is cool, the unflattering, but we never highlight the unflattering realities of biological differences between women. 0.68

00:52:54.000 For example, what I said before, most women are useless from a friendship utility sense because most of the time the guy's the one offering the value. 1.00

00:53:01.000 The girl doesn't offer any value, but the guy sits there and tolerates that because they want some sexual access in the future. 1.00

00:53:06.000 And a couple of girls agreed with me on that.

00:53:08.000 And by their own actions, you might not like what I'm saying, but your actions reflect what I'm saying is true.

00:53:13.000 No, it's not that I don't like it.

00:53:14.000 Sorry, I didn't mean to cut you off.

00:53:15.000 It's not that I don't like it, I just happen to disagree.

00:53:17.000 But go on.

00:53:18.000 Your actions are literally doing what I just described.

00:53:20.000 You prefer to hang out with men because they offer you more utility and value by your own words than the women do. 1.00

00:53:26.000 No, but I'm disagreeing with the point that you're making about that women are useless to men in platonic relationships. 0.97

00:53:33.000 They are. 0.98

00:53:34.000 Okay, well, I would disagree.

00:53:36.000 But why do you think that?

00:53:37.000 No, no, no.

00:53:37.000 Quick question.

00:53:37.000 What value did they add to that guy?

00:53:39.000 What value do I add to our friendship?

00:53:42.000 That sort of thing?

00:53:45.000 I mean...

00:53:47.000 I'm gonna wait.

00:53:48.000 You can crick it all you want.

00:53:51.000 I can bring the authenticity.

00:53:52.000 I bring the laughs.

00:53:55.000 I bring the good times.

00:53:58.000 I'm always a good time.

00:53:59.000 I always go out with the homies. 0.99

00:54:01.000 And I just like Like, I don't know, like I keep the vibes going.

00:54:05.000 Something tangible?

00:54:06.000 Notice how nothing you mentioned is something that another guy can't provide.

00:54:09.000 Okay, define tangible then.

00:54:12.000 For example, right?

00:54:13.000 Let's say you're out with a guy.

00:54:15.000 Security.

00:54:15.000 If you're walking around, someone's talking to you, he's next to you, that's tangible security.

00:54:20.000 I'm just saying, for example, everything is up in the air.

00:54:23.000 And it could be replaced by a guy.

00:54:25.000 So what we tell guys is don't be friends with girls. 1.00

00:54:27.000 Have male friends.

00:54:28.000 It's better for you as a man versus having a female friend. 1.00

00:54:30.000 Female friends really don't help you like that. 1.00

00:54:32.000 And let's say, for example, I take what you said seriously.

00:54:34.000 Why not do it with my girl? 1.00

00:54:36.000 That way we can have great times, great experiences, and fuck. 1.00

00:54:40.000 Mm-hmm. 1.00

00:54:42.000 The reason why we incentivize men to be platonic friends with women is because we live in a society now where we put women up on a pedestal and we put men down.

00:54:48.000 But what I'm saying is that it's not in your best interest as a man to be platonic friends with a woman. 0.96

00:54:52.000 And a couple of you guys agree with me, and your actions reflect that.

00:54:55.000 So I don't know what the issue is.

00:54:57.000 It's just that you might not like the way I'm saying it or you might not like the, you know, cold hard undertones of why it's useless to have female friends. 0.73

00:55:04.000 But the reality is your actions reflect what I'm saying.

00:55:07.000 I don't know what about me is indicating that I don't like it, but it's not that I don't like it.

00:55:11.000 It's just that I disagree based off my personal experience.

00:55:13.000 But you can't refute my point.

00:55:14.000 And your point is that I don't bring anything like tangible.

00:55:17.000 You want to talk about something tangible?

00:55:19.000 I get my friends free drinks.

00:55:20.000 I'm not saying you personally.

00:55:21.000 I'm saying in general, women don't offer men much utility in friendships that they can't otherwise get from a male. 0.75

00:55:31.000 I feel like we could bring emotional sensitivity.

00:55:36.000 That sort of thing.

00:55:36.000 Guys don't know how to be emotional.

00:55:38.000 I don't think so.

00:55:41.000 I talk to my friends about what they're going through all the time that they don't want to talk to their guy friends.

00:55:45.000 And that's something for them.

00:55:47.000 That's not something that everybody can find.

00:55:48.000 So you're a therapist?

00:55:50.000 I mean, that's what I'm studying to do.

00:55:52.000 Okay.

00:55:53.000 Okay.

00:55:54.000 I think it's a mistake for men to be vulnerable around women, but that's my personal take on it.

00:55:57.000 You're allowed to have that take?

00:55:59.000 Huh?

00:55:59.000 You're allowed to have that take?

00:56:00.000 Yeah.

00:56:01.000 I mean, there's a bunch of reasons why, but women typically don't treat men that are emotional very well.

00:56:07.000 That's a lie.

00:56:08.000 Can I ask you a question?

00:56:09.000 That's not even right.

00:56:10.000 Can I ask you a question?

00:56:12.000 Do you have female friends?

00:56:13.000 No, it's a waste of time.

00:56:15.000 But, like, the girls that work here, like, are they your friends?

00:56:19.000 They work.

00:56:20.000 Yeah, they work.

00:56:21.000 No, I'm talking to him.

00:56:22.000 Are they your friends?

00:56:24.000 Well, they work for us.

00:56:24.000 They're associates, yeah.

00:56:25.000 Business associates.

00:56:26.000 But that's not, like, a friend.

00:56:27.000 I wouldn't consider them.

00:56:28.000 So what do they bring to the table?

00:56:29.000 They bring drinks, Hennessy, vodka.

00:56:33.000 That's business.

00:56:34.000 Well, it's a business relationship, so it's mutual.

00:56:36.000 There's a mutual benefit.

00:56:37.000 So, like, really, like, what's the difference between, like, a business relationship and, like, a friendship?

00:56:43.000 What?

00:56:43.000 Well, a friendship, you'll hang out with them and say, hey, I'm going to go see the movies, you should come with me, blah, blah, blah.

00:56:48.000 So you guys don't do that?

00:56:50.000 You guys don't go out and have, you know, like, business parties?

00:56:54.000 No.

00:56:54.000 Not really.

00:56:55.000 Hang out?

00:56:56.000 Even if we do, it's still a business fun show.

00:56:57.000 If it's a team meeting for business, yeah, but other than that, no.

00:57:00.000 It's not that much of a difference in my eyes.

00:57:02.000 What do you mean?

00:57:03.000 It's not.

00:57:04.000 A friend you go with randomly, hey, let's go to the bar or whatever. 0.90

00:57:07.000 Nigga, we're going to do work. 1.00

00:57:09.000 It's under the context of business relations for the business.

00:57:13.000 Can I say something?

00:57:13.000 I'm sorry there's not women in your life that makes you think otherwise.

00:57:18.000 Yeah, man, who hurt you, man?

00:57:19.000 Yeah, like, I'm sorry there's not women in your life that makes you really believe in women and the power that we hold within ourselves. 1.00

00:57:25.000 I'm sorry you ran into a lot of people who's lost and who's still trying to find themselves to the point where they can't even put into you.

00:57:32.000 Can you tell me what this power is that you speak of?

00:57:34.000 Power?

00:57:36.000 What?

00:57:37.000 I'm asking you, can you define what this power is that you speak of?

00:57:40.000 I mean, who asked for your opinion anyway?

00:57:42.000 Power?

00:57:43.000 Yeah, the power that you referred to.

00:57:44.000 You said, I'm sorry that you didn't get to experience the power that women provide. 1.00

00:57:47.000 Meaning everything that you're saying, we lack in from the majority of women that you've met because it's all off your experience.

00:57:57.000 Well, actually, I'm basing it anecdotally on literally talking to thousands of men that have been friend zoned by women and not got anything in return.

00:58:04.000 Well, that's the difference. 0.99

00:58:05.000 I'm not just speaking out of my ass here. 0.98

00:58:07.000 I've spoken to thousands of men and we talk about this, how most of the time when guys are in a friend zone, they want something more, but they never get it. 0.99

00:58:13.000 Meanwhile, they're offering all this value to the girls and not getting reciprocation.

00:58:17.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:58:19.000 I don't give a fuck, nigga. 1.00

00:58:20.000 Next. 1.00

00:58:21.000 It's gotten to a point now where women are able to monetize on men that are friends with women. 1.00

00:58:27.000 If you look at OnlyFans, strip clubs, the sex industry, everything, women have basically been able to sell the allure of sex or intimacy and monetize it to a really profitable margin. 1.00

00:58:39.000 Billions of dollars.

00:58:40.000 And that's the next level when it comes to girls' friendzoning guys. 1.00

00:58:43.000 But in general, most women don't like most men and it's an opportunity for them to make quite a bit of money. 0.96

00:58:47.000 A girl just being friends with a guy and putting him in the friend zone is a microcosm of the bigger problem. 0.87

00:58:52.000 Women leverage sex for resources, and they've been doing it for a long time, and they're getting away with it. 1.00

00:58:56.000 I'm just calling it out. 1.00

00:58:57.000 Hey, most women are useless from a friendship standpoint. 1.00

00:59:00.000 Stop being a simp. 0.99

00:59:01.000 Because all the things that a woman provides, this power that you speak of, can be met with a guy that can have a better identity with your struggles as a man, can actually offer you more utility, give you sound advice, and they understand the male experience.

00:59:11.000 Men and women live different experiences.

00:59:13.000 Completely.

00:59:13.000 Men have to be in reality.

00:59:15.000 Women get the privilege of being delusional. 1.00

00:59:17.000 No offense.

00:59:21.000 I love how you looked at me.

00:59:22.000 I mean, I was just looking around because...

00:59:25.000 I'm here for you, though.

00:59:27.000 Let me give you an example of how women are grounded in reality. 1.00

00:59:31.000 Earlier.

00:59:32.000 Your actions literally personify what I just described.

00:59:35.000 Yet, when I described it in detail, right, and it didn't sound a certain way, your immediate response was, I disagree with that.

00:59:43.000 Then I said, refute what I said.

00:59:45.000 And you couldn't because your own actions, right, align with what I said.

00:59:49.000 Women don't offer much utility as friends. 1.00

00:59:51.000 Therefore, I have more guy friends, which is exactly what I said.

00:59:54.000 But, hold on.

00:59:55.000 Okay, go ahead.

00:59:55.000 But, what I said and how I said it, you didn't like it and you said, I disagree.

01:00:02.000 But it makes no logical sense because what I described is literally your life.

01:00:06.000 But the thing is that, like, you see it as, like, what I bring to the table, like, I guess, like, when it comes to female-male friendships, I see it as valuable.

01:00:17.000 A lot of people can see it as valuable.

01:00:18.000 You don't.

01:00:19.000 You don't see it as, like, a utility.

01:00:21.000 You don't see it as something useful.

01:00:22.000 Maybe that's something you don't need, but, you know, not every guy is like that.

01:00:25.000 Like, if you don't value what I have to offer, that's fine.

01:00:27.000 Don't worry about it.

01:00:29.000 But someone else will.

01:00:30.000 The problem is that you keep bringing it to yourself.

01:00:33.000 I'm speaking in general.

01:00:34.000 Because I can never speak for all women. 1.00

01:00:37.000 All women are different. 1.00

01:00:38.000 I'm not going to generalize.

01:00:40.000 That's how the world works, is generalizations.

01:00:44.000 The world works based off statistics and that kind of stuff.

01:00:48.000 I wouldn't necessarily say generalize.

01:00:50.000 Well, if you want to talk about generalizations, then you can talk about stereotypes.

01:00:53.000 And then they say that stereotyping is bad.

01:00:55.000 Stereotypes are rooted in reality.

01:00:59.000 Stereotypes exist for a reason.

01:01:01.000 They're there because it's pretty much there's established behaviors that have been attributed to a certain group or class of people that have been done a million times.

01:01:10.000 So therefore, it's a trend and people use stereotypes and attribute it to a certain class of people.

01:01:13.000 And that's how it is.

01:01:15.000 We're human beings.

01:01:16.000 We don't have time to get to know everybody.

01:01:17.000 What's your life like?

01:01:18.000 Etc.

01:01:18.000 They just judge a book by its cover.

01:01:20.000 So why do we generalize it?

01:01:21.000 Yeah, absolutely.

01:01:21.000 That's a heuristic.

01:01:22.000 That's what it is.

01:01:23.000 So stereotyping is rooted in reality.

01:01:26.000 It might be rooted in some reality.

01:01:30.000 It's like how you said, anecdotal kind of stuff.

01:01:33.000 You make stereotypes based off anecdotes or whatever your experience is with different people, but that's all it is.

01:01:41.000 Anecdotes.

01:01:41.000 And at the end of the day, if you look at statistics, anecdotal evidence, or just science in general, anecdotal evidence isn't enough to make a statistic or to make something true.

01:01:53.000 It's just not.

01:01:55.000 True, but then you have a bunch of data that you can use and that will stop.

01:02:00.000 The point I'm trying to make is that generalizations and stereotypes exist for a reason.

01:02:03.000 They're typically rooted in reality.

01:02:06.000 Because you're saying, you're generalizing!

01:02:07.000 Well, generalization is how the world works.

01:02:11.000 For example, if you go on a computer, most mouses are for the right hand, correct?

01:02:15.000 Why is that?

01:02:18.000 Well, one is because, yeah, a lot of people, most people, I think, like, I mean, correct me if I'm wrong.

01:02:23.000 Most people in the world are right-handed.

01:02:25.000 Hold on, stop.

01:02:27.000 Correct me if I'm wrong.

01:02:27.000 You're trying to be politically correct.

01:02:29.000 The reality is most people are right-handed.

01:02:31.000 Left-handed people don't represent enough of a majority of the society to make a change.

01:02:35.000 That's how the world works.

01:02:36.000 We go off of what is the majority.

01:02:39.000 Most people are right-handed.

01:02:40.000 Therefore, most mouses are right-handed.

01:02:42.000 Most guns are designed for right-handed people because most people are right-handed.

01:02:45.000 That's the way the world works.

01:02:46.000 I was gonna get to my second point.

01:02:48.000 One part is because, yeah, like, a lot more, I think more people are right-handed.

01:02:52.000 And I said, correct me if I'm wrong, because I don't know the actual statistic, and I'm not gonna sit here and spew, like, lies and label them statistics, you know what I mean?

01:02:59.000 They are.

01:02:59.000 It's the truth.

01:03:00.000 That's a fact.

01:03:01.000 But another fact is the fact that, like, Throughout history, people that have been left-handed have been forced to write right-handed because it's seen as a bad thing, like a bad omen, a bad thing, like whatever it is, depending on the culture.

01:03:15.000 So they force them to use their right hand.

01:03:18.000 So at the end of the day, it's about, I guess, society, how we see things.

01:03:23.000 We're not talking about the why, we're talking about the what.

01:03:25.000 Most people are right-handed, that's a fact.

01:03:27.000 It's a relevant why.

01:03:30.000 Okay, sure.

01:03:30.000 I can agree with that.

01:03:32.000 Absolutely.

01:03:32.000 But that's part of it, too.

01:03:33.000 You're moving the goalpost here.

01:03:34.000 We're talking about what is a fact.

01:03:36.000 We're not talking about the why.

01:03:37.000 What, not why.

01:03:39.000 Okay.

01:03:39.000 Word.

01:03:40.000 I hear you on that.

01:03:42.000 Okay.

01:03:42.000 Does anyone else have something?

01:03:44.000 I would say move off facts, not personal opinion.

01:03:49.000 And that's where I'm noticing that everything that we say, you guys immediately attribute to yourself, right?

01:03:55.000 Personally, which is fine.

01:03:56.000 It's a very common female trait. 1.00

01:03:58.000 It's everything that said you attribute it to yourself because women are inherently more narcissistic than men are. 0.98

01:04:02.000 And this has been proven through studies and facts.

01:04:04.000 But the reality is we're not talking about you.

01:04:07.000 We're talking about women in general. 0.99

01:04:08.000 This is how it goes.

01:04:10.000 Sorry if you got offended.

01:04:11.000 Alright, we got some more chats here.

01:04:13.000 Oh man.

01:04:15.000 Where we at here?

01:04:17.000 To the African brush, your bottom lip, Draymond Green. 1.00

01:04:20.000 What the fuck? 1.00

01:04:21.000 Oh, I'm working on T. Bible study tomorrow night, ladies, and that's from Pastor Fresh. 1.00

01:04:26.000 Venom goes, Aunt Jemima looking thick in the thumbnail. 1.00

01:04:29.000 Yo, what the fuck? 1.00

01:04:31.000 Yo! 1.00

01:04:32.000 Oh man.

01:04:34.000 Question for ladies. 1.00

01:04:35.000 In honor of earlier episode, what is your credit score?

01:04:38.000 I don't know if they want to drop that, but okay.

01:04:40.000 What's your credit score?

01:04:41.000 You want to start here?

01:04:42.000 What's your credit score?

01:04:44.000 Let me see.

01:04:45.000 Last time I checked, it was like 721, around there.

01:04:51.000 I think so.

01:04:52.000 That's very good.

01:04:52.000 I was working up from bad credit, so I'm proud of that.

01:04:56.000 All right.

01:04:58.000 I'm not going to lie.

01:04:58.000 Mine's just average in the 600s right now.

01:05:01.000 Alright.

01:05:03.000 Mine's a 655.

01:05:04.000 I'm working to get it up to seven goals.

01:05:07.000 Yeah, you're a queen, right?

01:05:08.000 Alright.

01:05:10.000 I want to say like 650, 675 range.

01:05:13.000 I'm not really sure.

01:05:14.000 Sorry.

01:05:15.000 Alright.

01:05:15.000 Cool.

01:05:16.000 That's good.

01:05:17.000 Mine is six something.

01:05:18.000 Okay.

01:05:19.000 Last time I checked, it was like 7-10-ish.

01:05:22.000 7-10.

01:05:23.000 Oh, 7-10.

01:05:24.000 Okay.

01:05:25.000 She said 17.

01:05:25.000 Okay.

01:05:26.000 I was going to say, what the hell?

01:05:27.000 I'm sorry.

01:05:29.000 I would not be right here.

01:05:30.000 I know.

01:05:31.000 How if the guy's actually working on his finances, he's going to know what his score is.

01:05:34.000 Girls just, oh, something wrong here. 1.00

01:05:36.000 I don't even know.

01:05:37.000 Because I don't really check it like that.

01:05:38.000 I'll check it, but I don't check it like that.

01:05:42.000 Unless you need it.

01:05:45.000 Not necessarily if I need it, but if I know I use my credit card, obviously I'm going to check it.

01:05:50.000 I'm going to check it right after I use my credit card to see.

01:05:53.000 Really?

01:05:53.000 Yeah.

01:05:54.000 I don't know.

01:05:54.000 I'm just weird like that.

01:05:56.000 I'll check it immediately after I use a credit card just to see.

01:06:01.000 How often do you use your credit card?

01:06:02.000 Not often.

01:06:05.000 So you use a debit card?

01:06:08.000 Yeah.

01:06:09.000 Okay.

01:06:10.000 Let's move forward.

01:06:12.000 Where are you trying to get at? 0.99

01:06:13.000 Women are terrible at money in general. 1.00

01:06:15.000 Well, in order to build credit, you have to have a credit card. 0.96

01:06:19.000 I have a credit card, but I don't really use it.

01:06:21.000 I'll use it for gas and groceries, but how often do I need to do that?

01:06:24.000 You know what I mean?

01:06:25.000 You said you check your credit score after every credit card use.

01:06:28.000 Yeah, so every time I buy groceries or buy gas.

01:06:32.000 Check your credit score?

01:06:33.000 Yeah.

01:06:35.000 Women hold three quarters of the debt and are 80% of the consumer base. 0.99

01:06:38.000 So in general, like women aren't that great with debt because y'all hold most of it. 0.99

01:06:41.000 And I actually go into this in detail in the book, how women contribute way less to society than men do as far as socioeconomically. 0.99

01:06:49.000 They did a study in New Zealand and they found that the average woman is negative $140,000 when it comes to creating GDP for the economy. 0.99

01:06:56.000 Damn! 0.99

01:06:57.000 Yeah. 0.99

01:06:58.000 That's a fact. 0.99

01:06:59.000 That's not me just talking shit. 0.99

01:07:00.000 That's the truth. 0.99

01:07:00.000 Shout out to all the queens. 0.99

01:07:01.000 Shout out to all the queens, though. 0.99

01:07:02.000 That's unfortunate.

01:07:04.000 Like, dang.

01:07:05.000 Well, the reason why is because women go into professions a lot of times that don't create infrastructure. 1.00

01:07:11.000 They go into useless jobs and careers, to be honest. 0.98

01:07:13.000 No offense. 0.84

01:07:14.000 What would you say, I guess, is defined as a useless job or career?

01:07:19.000 Okay.

01:07:19.000 Well, how about this?

01:07:20.000 We'll look at the book real fast and actually have the 10 careers that women dominate. 1.00

01:07:24.000 Oh, so you listed it out.

01:07:25.000 Okay.

01:07:25.000 Oh, yeah.

01:07:25.000 I'm not fucking around.

01:07:26.000 I don't think I'm saying women deserve less just to be funny. 0.99

01:07:30.000 Like, no, man.

01:07:31.000 Like, legit.

01:07:31.000 Like, they don't provide much to society when it comes to what they provide.

01:07:35.000 But do you think that's a man's fault for trying to, when it comes to equality and all that?

01:07:40.000 Like, you know, over time, we had to fight for certain positions ourselves as women. 1.00

01:07:46.000 But then you men always been hard workers.

01:07:48.000 You guys always got it out the mud.

01:07:50.000 So it's like that's because men have a natural proclivity to create, whereas women don't. 1.00

01:07:54.000 Women are lazier than men in general when it comes to creating resources. 1.00

01:07:56.000 Do you think times is changing where hardworking women are evolving? 1.00

01:08:00.000 I would say no. 0.99

01:08:02.000 And the reason why is because women dominate college attendance right now, yet they still major in all the stupid majors that don't make money and all the jobs that don't promote society growth. 1.00

01:08:10.000 I'll give you an example. 0.99

01:08:11.000 The top 10 jobs for men.

01:08:12.000 Plumbers, pipefitters, streamfitters, electricians, carpenters, auto mechanics, supervisors of construction and extraction workers, construction laborers, firefighters, industrial mechanics, aircraft mechanics, and machinists.

01:08:22.000 This is all dominated by men at about 95% more. 0.96

01:08:25.000 So manual labor. 1.00

01:08:26.000 Damn. 1.00

01:08:26.000 Okay? 1.00

01:08:27.000 The things that create infrastructure in the society.

01:08:29.000 However, top 10 jobs for women. 1.00

01:08:30.000 And this is all from the Department of Labor, by the way.

01:08:32.000 These are facts.

01:08:33.000 Preschool and kindergarten teachers, executive secretaries, childcare workers, regular secretaries, dental assistants, medical records specialists, receptionists, information clerks, medical assistants, dietician, nutritionists, hairdressers, and cosmetologists.

01:08:46.000 So top 10 jobs for women. 1.00

01:08:49.000 I'll be honest, man.

01:08:50.000 Outside of, like, maybe kindergarten and preschool, not much infrastructure for society.

01:08:55.000 And nursing? 0.53

01:08:56.000 Wait, nurse? 0.80

01:08:56.000 Big ups to the traveling nurses, though. 0.80

01:08:59.000 But the top ten for men, these are all required for society to run. 0.98

01:09:04.000 There you have it.

01:09:05.000 Okay.

01:09:06.000 Mars.

01:09:06.000 Alright.

01:09:09.000 Somebody helps.

01:09:09.000 Someone was trying to say something before I said it, before I read.

01:09:13.000 I think it was you.

01:09:15.000 Oh, because you were saying that women go into those... 1.00

01:09:18.000 I would argue that girls have more choice now than ever before. 1.00

01:09:21.000 They just don't want to do those jobs.

01:09:23.000 Like, most women don't want to be air traffic controller. 1.00

01:09:26.000 Most girls don't want to get into law enforcement. 1.00

01:09:28.000 Most girls don't want to be firefighters. 1.00

01:09:29.000 Most girls don't want to do construction. 1.00

01:09:30.000 They don't want to do manual labor. 0.97

01:09:32.000 Would you be a stay-at-home father? 1.00

01:09:34.000 Damn. 1.00

01:09:35.000 That was a great question. 1.00

01:09:36.000 Like...

01:09:38.000 The answer is no, but here's the problem.

01:09:42.000 If I say I want to be a stay-at-home father, my chances of mating drop significantly.

01:09:47.000 Why do you say that?

01:09:48.000 Because women will not tolerate a man that wants to be a stay-at-home father. 1.00

01:09:51.000 It's some women out here that will like that. 1.00

01:09:53.000 You said some.

01:09:56.000 You're making an argument for the minority. 0.91

01:09:58.000 Most women, if I lined up 100 women, they would not be okay with a man being a stay-at-home father. 1.00

01:10:02.000 They would prefer the man to be in the breadwinner spot.

01:10:05.000 True.

01:10:06.000 I believe both partners should be breadwinners.

01:10:09.000 I mean, it would be nice to have one, but do I want that?

01:10:12.000 So you're making an argument for something you don't even want.

01:10:15.000 I'm not making an argument.

01:10:16.000 I'm just saying, like, it's just some women out here that I like. 0.98

01:10:18.000 It's a minority that's statistically insignificant.

01:10:20.000 It's not important.

01:10:21.000 If I line up 100 girls, 95 of them are going to want a guy that's a breadwinner. 1.00

01:10:24.000 True.

01:10:25.000 So why are we caring about the 5%? 1.00

01:10:27.000 But I'm just stating a fact.

01:10:29.000 It don't matter.

01:10:29.000 It's an irrelevant fact.

01:10:31.000 It's statistically insignificant.

01:10:33.000 The whole point of the podcast is to state opinions and facts.

01:10:37.000 I was going to say that earlier, but I knew it was going to be around me.

01:10:40.000 For example, your point is valid, but no one cares.

01:10:44.000 It's a minority.

01:10:46.000 So I have a question.

01:10:48.000 I got a question.

01:10:50.000 Exceptions don't make the rule, ladies. 1.00

01:10:51.000 See, here's the thing.

01:10:52.000 You can't make an argument or debate for an exception or a minority.

01:10:56.000 That's not how the world works.

01:10:58.000 Like I said before, there's a reason why most mouses are right-handed and not left-handed.

01:11:02.000 There's a reason why most guns are right-handed and not left-handed. 0.97

01:11:05.000 And that sucks. 0.95

01:11:06.000 Make them left-handed straps, man. 0.98

01:11:08.000 No, because it doesn't make financial sense to do so because most people aren't left-handed.

01:11:11.000 Because when I'm shooting, they fall right out.

01:11:13.000 Next thing you know, I'm shot.

01:11:16.000 Okay, here's the thing.

01:11:18.000 I'm left-handed and I even acknowledge this.

01:11:21.000 I'm left-handed.

01:11:21.000 I understand the world doesn't revolve around me.

01:11:23.000 It's gonna be difficult for me to find things that are left-handed, but I accept this.

01:11:26.000 It is what it is.

01:11:27.000 Can't make an argument for the minority just because I feel like it like I could go ahead. 0.97

01:11:31.000 This is not fair.

01:11:32.000 Most mouses are right-handed. 1.00

01:11:33.000 This is fucked up. 0.99

01:11:34.000 No, I understand reality. 1.00

01:11:36.000 I acclimate to reality.

01:11:37.000 I adapt and accept it versus it shouldn't be this way.

01:11:40.000 We don't operate on what should could or would we operate on what is What you stated, I mean, 5%, I mean, most girls are not going to accept the guy who want to be a stay-at-home mom.

01:11:50.000 Sorry, stay-at-home dad.

01:11:52.000 Regardless of how much money she makes, we found actually the more money a woman makes, the less tolerant she is of a dude that's broke. 0.95

01:12:00.000 That's a question?

01:12:01.000 I mean, it's a fact.

01:12:03.000 It's a statement.

01:12:04.000 For example, if a man makes more money, he's okay with having his woman stay at home. 0.88

01:12:07.000 If a woman makes more money, she's not okay with her man staying home. 1.00

01:12:11.000 In general.

01:12:12.000 That is true.

01:12:13.000 Yeah.

01:12:15.000 So, anybody else has something?

01:12:17.000 I was just gonna ask you, like, do you prefer a stay-at-home woman?

01:12:22.000 Or do you prefer a woman to be a breadwinner? 0.98

01:12:24.000 Excuse me, a breadwinner as well?

01:12:26.000 No, I would want her to stay home. 0.51

01:12:27.000 Why is that?

01:12:30.000 Because queer women don't make good mothers a lot of the time. 1.00

01:12:33.000 I'm sorry, repeat that? 0.98

01:12:34.000 That calls for nannies. 1.00

01:12:35.000 Career women don't make good mothers most of the time. 1.00

01:12:41.000 I mean, statistically speaking, two-parent households do way better than single-parent households.

01:12:48.000 I agree.

01:12:49.000 If you look at the United States in the 1950s and the 60s, right, before feminism came, where you had the traditional nuclear family where they were able to have one income, support the entire family, while the economy was at its strongest.

01:13:00.000 I think?

01:13:23.000 In reality, we know that the economy is strongest when there's one breadwinner and a nuclear family. 0.91

01:13:30.000 The nuclear families are dying now. 1.00

01:13:32.000 There's more single mothers now than ever before. 1.00

01:13:35.000 And single mothers are the leading cause of all the degenerates in society. 1.00

01:13:39.000 I don't think any woman dreams of work, honestly. 1.00

01:13:43.000 I think every...

01:13:45.000 It depends.

01:13:46.000 You think?

01:13:47.000 Yeah, like me, what I do for work, I model.

01:13:51.000 I want to do that.

01:13:53.000 So I think it depends on the job.

01:13:55.000 Forever?

01:13:55.000 Yeah.

01:13:56.000 So you're 50?

01:13:56.000 See, I was scared to speak on personal feelings just now.

01:13:59.000 Or are we speaking for everybody?

01:14:01.000 Because I agree with you.

01:14:03.000 I'm speaking for me, specifically.

01:14:05.000 I want to work.

01:14:07.000 I love to model.

01:14:08.000 I want to do that.

01:14:09.000 So I think it depends on the job.

01:14:11.000 The passion.

01:14:12.000 What's the passion?

01:14:13.000 Well, my whole thing is I'm saying I definitely think that you can have goals and aspirations like for yourself as a woman.

01:14:19.000 But if a man came to you and was like, hey, I would love for you to stay at home and just be a stay at home mom. 0.92

01:14:24.000 I feel like that would be a little I don't know.

01:14:27.000 I feel like that would be kind of I don't see a lot of women turning that opportunity down. 1.00

01:14:33.000 And I don't want you to view that through a perspective of they're saying, no, you can't have goals, you can't have aspirations.

01:14:40.000 But I just, I don't know.

01:14:43.000 I don't know if I agree with that.

01:14:44.000 You're being too nice about it.

01:14:45.000 Career women fail in every regard. 1.00

01:14:47.000 I'm just going to say it.

01:14:48.000 Here's what's happened.

01:14:50.000 I don't want to discredit women who are deep in their craft. 1.00

01:14:53.000 But here's the reality.

01:14:54.000 Most women derive their pleasure and happiness from a family and children, not from a career and making money. 1.00

01:14:58.000 Yeah.

01:14:58.000 The reason why you think that is because you're still young and you don't understand that, yo, as I get older, my chance of finding a guy and having children come down with it.

01:15:05.000 So they found, right, they've looked at studies on female happiness and overall satisfaction.

01:15:10.000 As feminism has gotten stronger and stronger, female happiness has went down and down. 1.00

01:15:14.000 Well, why is that?

01:15:15.000 They're making more money and they have more careers and they're being more successful than ever before.

01:15:19.000 They're more independent than ever before, but why are they not happy?

01:15:21.000 They're straying away from their power.

01:15:22.000 Women are social creatures. 1.00

01:15:24.000 They like to be around the people that they love and being caretakers.

01:15:27.000 Women don't have the same proclivity to go out there and make money and become successful and dominate the world that men do. 1.00

01:15:33.000 Okay?

01:15:33.000 And we actually brought a girl on the show, what, like last week?

01:15:37.000 The Russian girl? 0.76

01:15:37.000 Attractive Russian girl. 0.76

01:15:38.000 She chased the dream.

01:15:39.000 She got chased the bag.

01:15:40.000 She went ahead and made all this money in New York being an entrepreneur. 1.00

01:15:43.000 And at 33, she's like, damn, like, I fucked up. 0.99

01:15:45.000 I wish I started a family because now it's going to be way harder for me, number one, to have kids because I'm older. 0.99

01:15:50.000 And number two, to find a guy that I want because I make money. 0.74

01:15:53.000 I want a guy making $100,000 plus a year.

01:15:55.000 Well, these guys, why am I going to pick a 23-year-old?

01:15:58.000 Sorry, a 33-year-old.

01:15:59.000 Why am I going to pick a 33-year-old?

01:16:01.000 23-year-old?

01:16:02.000 23.

01:16:02.000 Why would I pick a 33-year-old when I could pick a 23-year-old?

01:16:05.000 Men always go for younger, more attractive girls. 1.00

01:16:07.000 That's just how it is.

01:16:09.000 So if they have the option to, they're going to do that.

01:16:10.000 So you could chase a career, but there's a consequence.

01:16:14.000 So I have a question for you.

01:16:17.000 So speaking on when you said men usually go for young women, do you feel like younger women are more so impressionable?

01:16:24.000 Yes.

01:16:25.000 And that's a big reason why they're more attractive.

01:16:28.000 When you say impressionable, do you mean easier to manipulate?

01:16:33.000 They come with less baggage.

01:16:38.000 They're more cooperative.

01:16:41.000 Well, that's where the guy's got to be a strong leader.

01:16:45.000 But they're more cooperative.

01:16:46.000 Women that are older tend to be stuck in their ways and not as submissive and provide headaches a lot of times. 1.00

01:16:53.000 I'm going to keep it real.

01:16:54.000 Most of them, yes.

01:16:56.000 Can I say something?

01:16:57.000 I feel those relationships don't last long, though.

01:17:00.000 You know what I'm saying?

01:17:00.000 Like, it's manipulation.

01:17:01.000 That's when the narcissistic shit starts coming in and you think you can just take over a young woman's mind. 1.00

01:17:07.000 Yes, they are full of life, you know, young, you know, just fresh out into the world. 1.00

01:17:12.000 Like, hey, you know, that stress, that heartbreak, they ain't got that yet.

01:17:15.000 But don't worry, it's going to be there.

01:17:17.000 And are you going to be able to take it once you get there?

01:17:19.000 So you think it's manipulation when an older guy gets with a younger girl?

01:17:22.000 I'm not speaking for every single relationship because I ain't gonna lie, I like my oldies.

01:17:27.000 Okay, so do you think in general it's manipulation?

01:17:31.000 Majority at the time.

01:17:32.000 Majority, yes.

01:17:33.000 And I feel like, why are you not really trying?

01:17:35.000 Because more so is for looks.

01:17:37.000 She's a sex symbol for real. 1.00

01:17:39.000 She's a young, plump, voluptuous, young, fresh out the oven shorty. 1.00

01:17:43.000 You feel me?

01:17:44.000 He's looking more at that than he's looking at.

01:17:45.000 Oh, she's adorable. 0.97

01:17:47.000 Oh, she's smart.

01:17:48.000 She do got some dreams. 1.00

01:17:49.000 But that pussy is what he's really looking at. 1.00

01:17:51.000 That young shit. 1.00

01:17:52.000 Alright, let me ask you a question. 1.00

01:17:54.000 You.

01:17:54.000 Do you want a guy that's taller than you?

01:17:56.000 Taller than me?

01:17:57.000 Yeah.

01:17:57.000 Do you want a guy that's smarter than you?

01:17:59.000 Of course.

01:18:00.000 Do you want a guy that makes more money than you? 1.00

01:18:03.000 No.

01:18:05.000 I don't know.

01:18:06.000 Stop the cap, bro.

01:18:07.000 You want me to be honest with you?

01:18:09.000 Yeah, do you want a guy that makes more money than you? 1.00

01:18:11.000 I'm not gonna lie to you.

01:18:12.000 I've been with guys that make less money than me.

01:18:15.000 They didn't make any money at all.

01:18:16.000 And where are they at now?

01:18:16.000 Gone.

01:18:25.000 I want to make money with you and all that shit. 1.00

01:18:30.000 I'm trying to run a bag up. 0.98

01:18:32.000 I want us to both be doing good.

01:18:34.000 That's it.

01:18:36.000 Period.

01:18:38.000 I just feel like we should kind of go back to the point.

01:18:40.000 Hold on, let me finish this, because they're saying that a man that wants a younger woman is manipulation most of the time.

01:18:45.000 Not all the time, but most of the time, in general.

01:18:46.000 You gotta say the specifics with him or he gonna get you.

01:18:49.000 He gonna write it down.

01:18:50.000 See, here's the difference, ladies. 1.00

01:18:52.000 I'm listening to understand.

01:18:54.000 The only reason I'm...

01:18:55.000 The difference is I'm listening to understand.

01:18:57.000 That's why I'm able to refute your points.

01:18:58.000 I'm not just talking to talk.

01:18:59.000 I listen, understand, and then I refute your point.

01:19:02.000 So you're saying men in general want younger women so they can manipulate in general.

01:19:07.000 At times, man.

01:19:08.000 Oh, now you're dropping it down. 0.99

01:19:09.000 Because you is a savage. 0.98

01:19:11.000 Like, it really is. 1.00

01:19:12.000 You gotta really say the right shit. 0.99

01:19:13.000 Or he gonna be like, you said right at this. 0.99

01:19:16.000 So what is it then?

01:19:17.000 So go ahead.

01:19:18.000 Please clarify for us.

01:19:19.000 What is it exactly when men want younger women?

01:19:21.000 What is it?

01:19:23.000 Should I do this?

01:19:24.000 I know y'all just... 1.00

01:19:26.000 Alright, fuck it. 1.00

01:19:27.000 Shark Tank. 1.00

01:19:27.000 So listen, at the end of the day, I've dated older guys and I feel like at first they probably was just in my looks. 1.00

01:19:34.000 Let me ask you a question.

01:19:34.000 Why'd you date those older men?

01:19:35.000 I was attracted.

01:19:37.000 I wanted what I wanted.

01:19:38.000 They wasn't old men, but they were older than me.

01:19:41.000 Specify what was attractive.

01:19:44.000 Just as soon as I took that first look and said, that's going to be mine.

01:19:47.000 That's it.

01:19:49.000 Okay, since you don't want to say it, I'll say it for you.

01:19:52.000 Was it his experience?

01:19:53.000 No, it was really the look like...

01:19:55.000 It don't be the experience.

01:19:57.000 No, no, no.

01:19:58.000 His experience in life being an older, more mature man. 0.99

01:20:02.000 I think I was more so in the eye contact type shit, like that type of love. 0.97

01:20:07.000 I'm a cancer, so I'm really like... 0.99

01:20:09.000 I'm a lover.

01:20:10.000 I don't know.

01:20:11.000 It was more so the attraction, like the look in the eyes.

01:20:13.000 It wasn't like...

01:20:15.000 Women don't even know why they're attracted to men. 1.00

01:20:17.000 Let me go ahead and spell it out for you guys in English.

01:20:19.000 That's not true.

01:20:19.000 I'm not letting him say that right now.

01:20:21.000 I don't agree with that.

01:20:22.000 I mean, he can say that, but I don't feel that way.

01:20:25.000 I guarantee, to some degree, what I'm going to describe is why you're attracted to this guy, even though you can't spell it out.

01:20:30.000 I'll agree.

01:20:30.000 Maybe he was taller.

01:20:31.000 Maybe he made more money.

01:20:33.000 Maybe he was attractive.

01:20:33.000 Maybe he has charisma.

01:20:34.000 Maybe he had charm.

01:20:35.000 He had some look about it where this guy was seasoned.

01:20:38.000 He had done his work, right?

01:20:40.000 He had become somebody.

01:20:41.000 This is why women typically pick older guys. 0.99

01:20:43.000 So, What if I told you that you're dumb, you're short, and you're broke because you want to date guys that are older and make more money than you? 0.99

01:20:52.000 How'd that make you feel? 1.00

01:20:53.000 Well, I'm not even looking at...

01:20:54.000 Hold on, hold on.

01:20:55.000 Please answer the question. 0.99

01:20:56.000 What if I told you that you were dumb, short, and broke because you wanted to date a guy that was taller and made more money than you and worked better in every standing? 0.99

01:21:07.000 It sounds foolish, doesn't it? 1.00

01:21:08.000 It does. 0.99

01:21:09.000 Hold on.

01:21:10.000 So why is it okay for you to say that men that want to date younger women want to manipulate them? 1.00

01:21:15.000 Damn. 1.00

01:21:16.000 Body shot. 1.00

01:21:17.000 No, because I'm about to do an uppercut.

01:21:19.000 Hold on.

01:21:19.000 I want you to really let that sink in.

01:21:21.000 Like, for real.

01:21:22.000 I want you to let that sink in.

01:21:23.000 Notice how what you wanted wasn't demonized, but what men want is demonized.

01:21:28.000 When a guy wants a younger girl, it's manipulation.

01:21:30.000 When a woman wants an older man that's more seasoned, it's okay. 0.99

01:21:33.000 She knows her worth.

01:21:34.000 Of course.

01:21:35.000 She's a queen. 0.97

01:21:36.000 So...

01:21:37.000 Younger women are easier to manipulate. 1.00

01:21:39.000 No, no, you just missed the whole point.

01:21:40.000 Did you not just catch what we did here?

01:21:43.000 I said I wasn't really speaking.

01:21:45.000 I definitely did.

01:21:47.000 You're asking if it's wrong for...

01:21:51.000 Why is it wrong for a man to like a younger woman, but it's okay for a younger woman to like an older man? 0.92

01:21:58.000 That sort of thing.

01:21:59.000 Yeah, but you missed the fine points in that.

01:22:02.000 Run it by me again.

01:22:03.000 What are the fine points?

01:22:04.000 Okay.

01:22:04.000 Women want men that are taller, stronger, older, more mature, charismatic, charming, etc.

01:22:09.000 A whole bunch of things.

01:22:10.000 Sure. 1.00

01:22:11.000 Now, what if I said that you are stupid, short, not strong, incompetent because you want a man that has all these qualities? 1.00

01:22:18.000 That would sound foolish for me to say that, right? 1.00

01:22:21.000 Because these are your hardwired attraction triggers that you like.

01:22:24.000 But why is it okay for you to turn around and say men want younger women because it's manipulative?

01:22:29.000 I'm sorry.

01:22:30.000 Notice how we took what men want and we made it negative versus what women want is not negative.

01:22:36.000 I'm sorry I said that.

01:22:38.000 Walking past y'all.

01:22:39.000 I'm sorry I said that.

01:22:40.000 Essentially he's trying to say like why is it okay for women to have preference but men can't.

01:22:44.000 Right.

01:22:45.000 What we like is discrimination.

01:22:47.000 What you like is a preference.

01:22:48.000 What men like is demonized but what women like it's almost just accepted.

01:22:53.000 I agree.

01:22:55.000 See, and here's the thing.

01:22:57.000 The fact that I had to say it like that for y'all and spell it out XYZ123 goes to show the indoctrination that so many modern women have. 0.84

01:23:04.000 It went over your head.

01:23:07.000 You're still confused.

01:23:08.000 I'm not necessarily confused.

01:23:10.000 I'm just thinking about it.

01:23:11.000 I'm just letting it marinate.

01:23:12.000 I'm not going to open my mouth without fully forming a coherent thought.

01:23:23.000 I'm thinking about what you guys said.

01:23:25.000 Seeing if there's a double standard.

01:23:27.000 And this is why men can't be honest with women. 0.99

01:23:30.000 Because if a guy was to be honest and say, I want a young girl that's not a whore, that has chast, comes from a good family, etc. 0.99

01:23:36.000 Not fat. 0.99

01:23:37.000 They're going to say, oh, that's misogynistic.

01:23:40.000 Not really.

01:23:40.000 It's realistic.

01:23:41.000 But we don't tell women, yo, you want a guy that's taller than you, makes more money than you, etc. 1.00

01:23:45.000 You're misandricistic.

01:23:46.000 But we don't even know what misandry means. 0.92

01:23:48.000 That's the hatred of women. 1.00

01:23:50.000 Or sorry, the hatred of men.

01:23:52.000 So what I'm saying is that Men can't be honest about their standards, but women can be honest about theirs.

01:23:57.000 And as a matter of fact, we applaud women for sticking to those standards and not settling. 0.99

01:24:01.000 Versus a man that doesn't settle is considered fucked up. 0.99

01:24:05.000 If I say I don't like fat girls, they're going to try to cancel me. 1.00

01:24:08.000 If you say I don't like short men, no one's going to care.

01:24:12.000 Versus a fat girl can control her weight, but a man can't control his height. 1.00

01:24:16.000 Bars. 0.86

01:24:18.000 Correct.

01:24:19.000 You're different, bro.

01:24:20.000 You're different.

01:24:21.000 Amen.

01:24:21.000 Two chains.

01:24:22.000 White women deserve less. 1.00

01:24:23.000 Book is going to be live in five minutes, man. 0.99

01:24:25.000 All right.

01:24:25.000 I go into detail about this stuff.

01:24:27.000 All right, guys.

01:24:28.000 B-Day.

01:24:29.000 All right.

01:24:29.000 So, Fresh, can you hit these questions?

01:24:31.000 Actually, ladies, this is... 1.00

01:24:33.000 You know what's funny?

01:24:33.000 That book?

01:24:34.000 Ladies, if you're watching the show right now, the five of you, buy your man that book.

01:24:37.000 He'll love you.

01:24:38.000 Okay, cool.

01:24:39.000 So much extra, Chris?

01:24:40.000 Yep.

01:24:42.000 Ajabic says, ladies, let's say you met a guy that made good money and was willing to provide and take care of you.

01:24:47.000 How much would that cost him per month?

01:24:50.000 I would say, boring bills.

01:24:51.000 I mean, here, makeup, shopping.

01:24:52.000 Okay, this is a very good question.

01:24:53.000 Ladies, for your lifestyle, right? 1.00

01:24:55.000 You met a man as your dream guy, willing to take care of you.

01:24:58.000 How much would I be a month?

01:25:01.000 Oh, man, that's a lot of math.

01:25:02.000 That's a lot of maintenance, a lot of money, a lot of math.

01:25:04.000 Just think about your current expenses that you go through monthly.

01:25:07.000 If the guy was coming to your life and said, you know what?

01:25:09.000 I got you, baby.

01:25:10.000 What would I be a month for him?

01:25:15.000 I haven't thought about all the math before.

01:25:17.000 I just do it.

01:25:18.000 Car payment.

01:25:19.000 I don't know.

01:25:20.000 For example, major bills, rent.

01:25:22.000 I was going to say, are we including like major bills?

01:25:24.000 Major bills.

01:25:25.000 Okay.

01:25:25.000 Lifestyle, it affects you directly.

01:25:27.000 Oh, we're including major bills?

01:25:29.000 Definitely like at least over a thousand.

01:25:32.000 That's real.

01:25:34.000 I mean, I'm not coming up with the math on the spot right now, but at least a thousand.

01:25:39.000 That's what I have to pay in my credit cards.

01:25:41.000 It's a outside world bill, so not bills included.

01:25:47.000 It's major bills, though.

01:25:48.000 Major bills.

01:25:52.000 So, carno, rent...

01:25:55.000 To maintain your current lifestyle, actually major bills in your life, what would that be?

01:26:00.000 A month.

01:26:01.000 A month.

01:26:03.000 Remember, he's taking care of you.

01:26:05.000 So major bills, he's going to pay for you.

01:26:07.000 Yeah, he means hair, makeup, shopping.

01:26:10.000 Hair, makeup, shopping.

01:26:12.000 That's your whole lifestyle.

01:26:13.000 Hair, hair is expensive.

01:26:16.000 I was just like $400.

01:26:17.000 Hair, rent, you know.

01:26:19.000 Oh, rent too?

01:26:21.000 I would say let's be realistic.

01:26:23.000 If we're including rent, car note, nails, hair, lashes.

01:26:28.000 $5,000 to $10,000 a month.

01:26:30.000 And I'm bringing that in myself.

01:26:32.000 We need her answer.

01:26:33.000 For me, like $1,000 to $2,000 for my current expenses.

01:26:37.000 So $2,000?

01:26:38.000 Yeah.

01:26:38.000 A month.

01:26:39.000 Okay.

01:26:40.000 For you?

01:26:41.000 Me?

01:26:42.000 Oh, okay.

01:26:43.000 I would say over $1,000 as well.

01:26:46.000 That's it?

01:26:47.000 Yeah.

01:26:48.000 Yeah.

01:26:48.000 It's all cheap.

01:26:49.000 You're bringing in bills, right?

01:26:51.000 Yeah.

01:26:51.000 Rent $2,500, bottom line.

01:26:53.000 So I'm going to need like $5,000.

01:26:55.000 Literally.

01:26:56.000 Okay.

01:26:57.000 Okay.

01:26:57.000 And does that include hair and nails too?

01:27:00.000 Karen knows.

01:27:00.000 I mean, like, if he's willing to make that decision of, like, you know what I'm saying?

01:27:05.000 Yes.

01:27:05.000 $5,000.

01:27:06.000 Okay.

01:27:07.000 And I'm gonna feed the homeless, too.

01:27:09.000 There you go.

01:27:11.000 Um, I'd say with the lifestyle I'm living now, I don't know, maybe like $3,500, including like rent, carno.

01:27:19.000 No, no, no boring bills, ladies. 1.00

01:27:21.000 Oh, no boring bills, I'm sorry.

01:27:22.000 Just hair and makeup, and you have no hair.

01:27:24.000 That's going to be too low, Chris, if you take that out.

01:27:28.000 It's going to be too low.

01:27:29.000 So no, include it.

01:27:29.000 So $3,500, right?

01:27:31.000 Yeah, sure.

01:27:32.000 I'll say that.

01:27:32.000 I don't know why, but the first number that came to mind was $10,000.

01:27:36.000 Period.

01:27:38.000 Because he got it like that, but I would say 3k at least.

01:27:43.000 That's a big jump though.

01:27:44.000 Why the difference?

01:27:46.000 That's, I'm telling you, that's the first number that came to mind.

01:27:49.000 10k?

01:27:50.000 But why?

01:27:51.000 So I can, you know, stash a little bit, pay what I got.

01:27:54.000 Oh, okay.

01:27:55.000 So you want more than what you actually would need it for?

01:27:58.000 Because I don't need a lot.

01:27:59.000 I don't be going shopping and getting my nails done and hair and all that extra stuff.

01:28:02.000 So the real number is 3k?

01:28:04.000 Yeah, yeah.

01:28:04.000 Okay.

01:28:05.000 For you?

01:28:06.000 What was the question?

01:28:09.000 I think she was in the bathroom. 0.98

01:28:10.000 That's why.

01:28:12.000 It was how much to maintain her, right?

01:28:14.000 Yeah, basically.

01:28:15.000 For example, here, makeup, shopping, but let's include as well a major bill.

01:28:21.000 When you say a major bill, like what?

01:28:22.000 Rent?

01:28:23.000 Phone bill?

01:28:23.000 Like what?

01:28:24.000 Anything?

01:28:24.000 I mean, if I'm being honest, I pay for my own hair, my own nails.

01:28:29.000 I don't really get my makeup done.

01:28:31.000 I did this because it's a photo shoot today.

01:28:32.000 So I would say the most I want my man to do is buy me food or just give me things because he knows I would like it.

01:28:40.000 What would that number amount to be?

01:28:41.000 I would say like...

01:28:42.000 Remember, he's taking care of you.

01:28:43.000 Yeah.

01:28:44.000 Monthly.

01:28:45.000 I don't know.

01:28:49.000 I don't know.

01:28:49.000 It's kind of hard.

01:28:50.000 I'm going to just say 3K. I'm just throwing them out there because I really don't know.

01:28:53.000 Fuck it. 1.00

01:28:54.000 3K. Okay. 1.00

01:28:55.000 Fuck it. 1.00

01:28:56.000 All right. 1.00

01:28:57.000 Next one.

01:28:57.000 Yep.

01:28:58.000 Blade Brown.

01:28:59.000 FNF crew should be getting hazard pay.

01:29:00.000 God forbid we go through another quarantine.

01:29:02.000 Y'all are mission essential.

01:29:03.000 Lost a great amend in 2022.

01:29:05.000 It's three or four.

01:29:06.000 Stay up, y'all.

01:29:06.000 Okay.

01:29:07.000 I got a question for the ladies real quick. 1.00

01:29:08.000 When's the last time you had a Valentine?

01:29:10.000 We'll start here.

01:29:11.000 Me?

01:29:11.000 Yeah.

01:29:14.000 Freshman year.

01:29:15.000 Freshman year?

01:29:16.000 Okay.

01:29:17.000 Okay.

01:29:18.000 What about you?

01:29:18.000 Mine had to be like sophomore high school.

01:29:21.000 Okay.

01:29:22.000 So freshman and...

01:29:24.000 Wait.

01:29:24.000 You said freshman year in college or high school?

01:29:27.000 High school.

01:29:27.000 In high school.

01:29:28.000 Okay.

01:29:28.000 And then yours was...

01:29:30.000 Like sophomore high school.

01:29:32.000 Okay.

01:29:34.000 Alright.

01:29:34.000 What about you?

01:29:35.000 Well, now, right?

01:29:36.000 Oh, yeah.

01:29:37.000 Now.

01:29:38.000 But honestly, this is like my first time really ever like celebrating...

01:29:41.000 Oh, I'm sorry.

01:29:41.000 Celebrating Valentine's Day?

01:29:43.000 Yeah.

01:29:43.000 I mean, I've never had one.

01:29:44.000 Sorry.

01:29:44.000 Mine was last year.

01:29:45.000 Sorry.

01:29:45.000 Last year.

01:29:46.000 Okay.

01:29:46.000 Oh, you forgot?

01:29:48.000 It was that bad?

01:29:50.000 No, it wasn't that bad.

01:29:52.000 Okay.

01:29:53.000 What about you?

01:29:54.000 I would say the year 2021.

01:29:56.000 That was my first one as well.

01:29:58.000 Was it the seven hour guy that you got rid of?

01:30:01.000 No.

01:30:01.000 That's recent.

01:30:03.000 Okay, so last year you said?

01:30:04.000 Yeah.

01:30:05.000 Okay, what about you?

01:30:07.000 Oh, so last year.

01:30:08.000 Last year?

01:30:09.000 Okay.

01:30:10.000 Now, my second question is whose job is it to get picked on Valentine's?

01:30:16.000 The man or the woman's? 0.98

01:30:17.000 What do you mean, get picked?

01:30:19.000 Like, ask?

01:30:20.000 Well, whose job is it to get picked?

01:30:22.000 What do you mean, ask the person?

01:30:24.000 Do you mean, like, go above and beyond, like, get a hotel decorated and stuff like that?

01:30:29.000 Are you talking about like that?

01:30:30.000 No.

01:30:30.000 I mean, as in, who is it on to secure a valentine?

01:30:36.000 The man or the woman? 0.99

01:30:38.000 You're talking about in regards to asking, right?

01:30:40.000 Like, ask the person, like...

01:30:41.000 No.

01:30:42.000 Just securing it, making it happen in the first place.

01:30:45.000 Okay.

01:30:45.000 What, getting a date?

01:30:47.000 Like getting a boyfriend?

01:30:48.000 Getting the valentine.

01:30:49.000 Is it...

01:30:50.000 Okay, let me... 1.00

01:30:50.000 Holy shit. 1.00

01:30:52.000 This is a tough panel. 0.99

01:30:55.000 So, whose job is it to secure the valentine?

01:30:59.000 Is it the woman by being a good lady and showing that she's worth it?

01:31:03.000 Or is it the man by asking her and doing all these extravagant things?

01:31:09.000 That's what I'm asking.

01:31:12.000 Statistically speaking, men, I would say...

01:31:15.000 Hold on, hold on.

01:31:15.000 We'll start right here and then work our way.

01:31:19.000 Who is it on to get the Valentines? 0.94

01:31:22.000 The man or the woman? 0.99

01:31:25.000 Are you asking for my personal opinion?

01:31:28.000 Or just what is the reality of it?

01:31:31.000 You can give us both if you want.

01:31:36.000 My personal opinion, I don't know, anybody can do it.

01:31:40.000 Like, if a girl likes a guy, why not?

01:31:42.000 Go for it.

01:31:44.000 But for me, my personal preference, I prefer when a guy does it.

01:31:49.000 I'd rather him ask me.

01:31:51.000 Okay, but what leads to him asking you?

01:31:54.000 What leads to him asking me?

01:31:57.000 I mean, he's gotta like me.

01:32:00.000 Like, that sort of thing.

01:32:01.000 What would make him like you?

01:32:03.000 My qualities, my attributes.

01:32:04.000 What are those attributes?

01:32:08.000 I don't know.

01:32:09.000 I'm stable.

01:32:10.000 I'm consistent.

01:32:10.000 I'm loving.

01:32:12.000 I'm hardworking.

01:32:13.000 I make money.

01:32:16.000 Do you think men care about a woman's money? 1.00

01:32:19.000 Depends on the kind of man you are. 0.99

01:32:22.000 Some men are bums. 0.99

01:32:24.000 Okay. 0.99

01:32:24.000 The men that you want to pick you as a valentine, do you think they care about your money? 0.99

01:32:29.000 I would hope not.

01:32:31.000 So why would you list that off as something that you bring to the table if they don't care?

01:32:35.000 Because then I'm not a freeloader either.

01:32:37.000 I got my own money.

01:32:39.000 If you have your own money, awesome.

01:32:41.000 Treat me.

01:32:42.000 Let's do stuff together.

01:32:43.000 But I'm not solely dependent on that.

01:32:47.000 I make my own money.

01:32:48.000 I can take you out too sometimes.

01:32:50.000 It's not all just him.

01:32:53.000 So you think it's on the guy to get a valentine?

01:32:57.000 To initiate?

01:32:58.000 Yeah, for sure.

01:33:00.000 For me.

01:33:01.000 Honestly, she's definitely the one you should look up to.

01:33:04.000 What about you?

01:33:04.000 Whose responsibility is it to get the valentine, the man or the woman's?

01:33:08.000 Statistically speaking, I would say the men.

01:33:10.000 Why?

01:33:11.000 Because of the fact that they don't bring that much value.

01:33:14.000 So they have to sit there and pursue more into the woman than the woman should with the men. 1.00

01:33:19.000 So you think men don't have to bring that much value?

01:33:23.000 I feel like they usually don't, but in the sense of trying to pursue a woman, like, committed to them, yeah.

01:33:28.000 They have to actually, like, throw their self out there to make sure that, like, the woman understand that they want them and just them only. 1.00

01:33:35.000 Do you think that's attractive, so a majority of women? 0.98

01:33:38.000 Yeah.

01:33:39.000 So, like, cat and mouse?

01:33:40.000 Not speaking for every woman, but there are women out here that looks at men that goes out their way for a woman, like, being attractive. 1.00

01:33:47.000 What do you think is a healthier relationship?

01:33:49.000 The relationship where the woman chases the man or the man chases the woman? 0.74

01:33:52.000 I would say both.

01:33:54.000 There's no such thing as 50-50 when it comes to that regard.

01:33:56.000 Every single relationship, whether it's business, marriage, friendship, etc., one party needs the other one more. 0.55

01:34:03.000 That's how the world works.

01:34:04.000 There's no such thing as 50-50.

01:34:05.000 This is some whimsical, you know, femme-centric mindset. 1.00

01:34:10.000 There's no such thing as 50-50 in anything in life, especially relationships.

01:34:14.000 So one has to care less than the other.

01:34:16.000 What was your question again?

01:34:17.000 I'm sorry.

01:34:18.000 Okay.

01:34:18.000 The question is, who has to like the other party more for the relationship to work?

01:34:23.000 The men.

01:34:24.000 So you think the guy has to chase the girl more?

01:34:26.000 Yes.

01:34:27.000 Hence why you think that the valentine is on the guy?

01:34:31.000 Okay.

01:34:32.000 What about you?

01:34:33.000 Whose responsibility is it to get a valentine's?

01:34:37.000 The man or the woman? 0.99

01:34:40.000 Whoever wanted more.

01:34:42.000 I like that answer.

01:34:44.000 Because I don't know what you would consider my type, like who I am, but like if I like you and you ain't really step up, I'm gonna tell you I want you to be my Valentine's.

01:34:54.000 Which one is more productive for the relationship?

01:34:59.000 You think the man's got to do it?

01:35:01.000 A female wants her knight in shining armor to come in and soup up. 1.00

01:35:05.000 We want to feel like the only one.

01:35:08.000 We always make y'all feel like the only one.

01:35:10.000 We love hard to the point even when y'all want us. 1.00

01:35:12.000 We be like, fuck that shit. 1.00

01:35:15.000 Now we in jail. 1.00

01:35:16.000 I disagree.

01:35:17.000 I think men love way harder than women do. 1.00

01:35:19.000 Really?

01:35:19.000 Yeah.

01:35:20.000 But we'll continue on.

01:35:22.000 I'll break it down here in a second.

01:35:25.000 But you think the guys, right, have to do it more?

01:35:31.000 Yeah, it's enjoyable, but I wouldn't mind doing it either, being like, I want you to be my Valentine, because I want my men to feel special too.

01:35:39.000 Okay.

01:35:40.000 He wants...

01:35:41.000 He needs to want the woman more, is what your words were. 0.99

01:35:44.000 It depends.

01:35:45.000 I don't know, guys.

01:35:46.000 That's what you just said.

01:35:47.000 Like, I wouldn't mind if my dude came about and was like, yo, I want you to be my Valentine's and stuff.

01:35:51.000 You wouldn't mind it, but what's more productive for the relationship, is the question.

01:35:55.000 Okay.

01:35:57.000 Yes.

01:35:57.000 It would be the man, the final answer.

01:35:59.000 Okay.

01:35:59.000 Alright.

01:36:00.000 What about you?

01:36:02.000 Who do you think it's incumbent upon to get the Valentine, the man or the woman?

01:36:06.000 Chris, can you keep the chat open?

01:36:08.000 Um...

01:36:12.000 I would say it just depends on that relationship.

01:36:18.000 I mean...

01:36:19.000 Tilt the mic towards you.

01:36:21.000 Like, flip it.

01:36:22.000 Yeah, like, there you go.

01:36:23.000 There you go.

01:36:24.000 Thanks.

01:36:24.000 And then...

01:36:25.000 Okay.

01:36:26.000 Okay, you were saying...

01:36:27.000 I think it just depends on the relationship that those two individuals have.

01:36:30.000 I mean, I can't lie to you, this Valentine's Day coming up, I mean, we both kind of asked each other, but, like, I'm not afraid to, like, go out of the way, like, do the most for my man.

01:36:40.000 Like, I'm not afraid to...

01:36:41.000 Okay, which one is more productive, though?

01:36:43.000 The man doing it or the woman? 0.98

01:36:46.000 More productive?

01:36:47.000 Yeah, for the relationship success.

01:36:50.000 Um...

01:36:54.000 Personally, I don't know.

01:36:55.000 I don't really, I don't know.

01:36:57.000 This is kind of like my first time really engaging in that.

01:37:01.000 Okay, whose responsibility is to get the Valentine then?

01:37:03.000 The men or the women's? 0.94

01:37:04.000 I would say the woman.

01:37:05.000 Like if you want somebody to treat you, then...

01:37:08.000 Okay, so you're saying something a little bit different than the girls.

01:37:10.000 Why do you say the woman?

01:37:12.000 I just feel that if that's an expectation that you want out of another person, then I feel that that's your responsibility to go out and I guess find that for yourself.

01:37:22.000 And how would she do that? 0.53

01:37:24.000 Finding somebody that matches her same energy and or values.

01:37:29.000 Okay, describe that explicitly.

01:37:31.000 Um...

01:37:36.000 I don't know.

01:37:37.000 I just feel like if she wants...

01:37:38.000 I don't know.

01:37:39.000 I guess I just don't really know what it is you're trying to ask.

01:37:41.000 I guess I don't really know what you're trying to get at.

01:37:43.000 What's more important when it comes to Valentine's Day?

01:37:47.000 A man coming to you or you as a woman going to a man? 0.99

01:37:51.000 What's more significant in that relationship?

01:37:54.000 What makes the relationship more significant?

01:37:56.000 Who's responsible for getting the Valentine?

01:37:57.000 The man or the woman? 0.99

01:37:58.000 You're saying the woman, but you're saying matching energy and some other ambiguous terms that don't make sense.

01:38:02.000 No offense.

01:38:03.000 Sorry.

01:38:04.000 Yeah.

01:38:04.000 Okay, I guess in that terms, I'm asking you to explicitly outline it.

01:38:08.000 What does she need to do? 1.00

01:38:09.000 I would say the male then.

01:38:11.000 I'll switch my answer.

01:38:11.000 Okay, fantastic.

01:38:13.000 Why the man?

01:38:15.000 I don't know.

01:38:18.000 I guess that's just how it's always been, and that's just what women want. 1.00

01:38:23.000 All right, what about you?

01:38:26.000 Whose responsibility is it to secure the Valentine, the man or the woman's? 0.69

01:38:31.000 I don't think that determines, like, the productivity of the relationship.

01:38:37.000 Okay.

01:38:39.000 Well, I only used that earlier to get them to say an answer.

01:38:45.000 Like, when I was saying, like, which one needs, because I kept saying 50-50, well, which one needs to be, I'm saying, but in general now, for the Valentine.

01:38:50.000 Did you ask the question one more time?

01:38:51.000 Okay.

01:38:52.000 Whose responsibility is it to secure the Valentine, the man or the woman's? 0.69

01:38:55.000 And if you're going to say 50-50, then I'm saying which one is more productive to the relationship?

01:38:58.000 Since you're going to say that, which is exactly what I hedged against, which one is more productive to the overall relationship?

01:39:04.000 The man securing it or the woman securing it?

01:39:07.000 It shouldn't determine.

01:39:08.000 Like, that's my answer.

01:39:10.000 That shouldn't determine because, like, if I'm feeling you in the beginning of a relationship and I'm doing all of this stuff for you, I mean, like, why wouldn't you come back and, you know, supply and provide and things like that?

01:39:23.000 If you had to assume a position, who would it be?

01:39:24.000 I can't assume.

01:39:25.000 I can't.

01:39:26.000 You do realize you just answered your own question, right?

01:39:28.000 With what you just stated a second ago.

01:39:30.000 Okay.

01:39:31.000 Do you remember what you stated a second ago?

01:39:33.000 Yeah.

01:39:34.000 Okay, what was it?

01:39:35.000 So what's your point?

01:39:36.000 What was it that you said?

01:39:38.000 What's your point?

01:39:41.000 Okay, all right, what about you?

01:39:43.000 Who do you think it's more on to secure the valentine, the man or the woman?

01:39:48.000 If I'm being honest, I'm gonna tell from my personal experience in the real world, for me, it's 50-50.

01:39:58.000 Like, for me, no, no, no, realistically speaking, realistically speaking, like, I would ask my dude, if I had a dude, would he be my valentine? 1.00

01:40:05.000 Bro, stop the fucking shit. 1.00

01:40:07.000 None of you want a 50-50 relationship. 1.00

01:40:10.000 That is the biggest fucking lie ever. 0.99

01:40:13.000 Y'all are done talking at this point. 0.99

01:40:16.000 Let's establish some ground rules in reality, biological reality.

01:40:20.000 Women want men that are taller than them. 1.00

01:40:21.000 Women want men that are stronger than them. 1.00

01:40:23.000 Women want men that are more competent than them, that are more charismatic, more charming, etc. 0.93

01:40:27.000 You guys want a man that's better than you in almost every single metric of human existence.

01:40:32.000 You telling us?

01:40:32.000 I don't care about that.

01:40:33.000 That is what women want in general. 1.00

01:40:34.000 Can I tell you what I want?

01:40:35.000 You want a man that's better than yourself?

01:40:36.000 Let me tell you what I want.

01:40:38.000 You don't want a 50-50. 0.97

01:40:39.000 That's a lie.

01:40:40.000 You speaking for yourself?

01:40:41.000 He is.

01:40:43.000 You don't know what I like.

01:40:45.000 Remember, it's in general, ladies. 1.00

01:40:47.000 It's in general.

01:40:48.000 Okay, in general.

01:40:49.000 In general.

01:40:50.000 But let's be honest here.

01:40:51.000 Most of you want that anyway.

01:40:53.000 In general, speaking for me, I want a 50-50 relationship.

01:40:58.000 That's not cap.

01:40:59.000 That's max.

01:41:01.000 That's facts.

01:41:01.000 Have you ever had one?

01:41:02.000 A 50-50 relationship?

01:41:04.000 No, I haven't.

01:41:05.000 But what does that have to do with the question?

01:41:07.000 It's because I always put in more into a man than a man would ever put into me.

01:41:11.000 Oh, so what does that mean?

01:41:13.000 I'm a simp.

01:41:14.000 No.

01:41:14.000 It's never 50-50.

01:41:17.000 That's right, but that's...

01:41:19.000 You're right.

01:41:21.000 You're absolutely right, but I'm telling you what I want.

01:41:24.000 But it doesn't work, though.

01:41:25.000 Sorry, Twitch.

01:41:25.000 But that's not true, because...

01:41:26.000 You just said it yourself.

01:41:27.000 It doesn't work.

01:41:28.000 It doesn't work.

01:41:28.000 What I have experienced has not worked.

01:41:32.000 But who's to say in the future that won't happen?

01:41:35.000 So you're hoping.

01:41:36.000 I'm not hoping.

01:41:37.000 So tell me one...

01:41:39.000 Be honest here.

01:41:40.000 One relationship that you know is like that that works.

01:41:43.000 Just tell me one.

01:41:44.000 A 50-50 relationship?

01:41:45.000 One person, you know.

01:41:47.000 I don't know, because I don't know.

01:41:49.000 Bro, it doesn't work.

01:41:51.000 You're saying it doesn't work, but how do you know it don't work?

01:41:54.000 Have you experienced that?

01:41:55.000 I don't know.

01:41:56.000 How do you know, Fresh?

01:41:57.000 In the universe, right?

01:41:58.000 Let's say celebrities, non-celebrities, people on average, right?

01:42:01.000 If that was even possible to happen, maybe it's a small percentage, but it's not realistic.

01:42:05.000 You're right.

01:42:07.000 I'm not disagreeing with you guys at all.

01:42:10.000 That's not what I'm doing.

01:42:11.000 I'm just telling you what I want from my point of view.

01:42:13.000 I want a 50-50 relationship.

01:42:15.000 My dude shouldn't have to always get everything for me.

01:42:18.000 I should be able to provide for my dude as well.

01:42:20.000 I'm trying to take you out to dinner.

01:42:23.000 It's not always about the dude.

01:42:26.000 I'm capable of doing that, but I would rather a guy...

01:42:32.000 That provides.

01:42:33.000 But that's the case, though.

01:42:35.000 Everybody's different.

01:42:35.000 Hold on.

01:42:35.000 Who here is the man right now?

01:42:37.000 Only you, right?

01:42:39.000 Yo.

01:42:39.000 Question for you.

01:42:41.000 Do you want that?

01:42:43.000 Do I want what?

01:42:45.000 I don't want that, but I could provide that, sure.

01:42:49.000 Okay.

01:42:49.000 But no, I don't want.

01:42:50.000 So notice, right?

01:42:51.000 Everyone wants 50-50? 0.95

01:42:52.000 What are you right now?

01:42:54.000 I'm single because I choose to be single.

01:42:57.000 I'm single because...

01:42:58.000 I'm done.

01:43:00.000 I just can't take everything. 1.00

01:43:01.000 You're single because you want to be, and I'm watching this porno to see if the fucking plumber is going to fix the leak. 1.00

01:43:05.000 Bro, stop lying to yourself. 1.00

01:43:07.000 Women don't want to be single. 1.00

01:43:09.000 They want to have the best man that they can have and be with that dude. 0.98

01:43:12.000 Girls say, I'm single by choice.

01:43:15.000 That's like me being an incel, haven't had sex in three years, saying, yo... 0.99

01:43:18.000 I don't want to have sex with these girls. 1.00

01:43:20.000 My choice. 0.99

01:43:22.000 Girls want a man at the end of the day. 1.00

01:43:24.000 I want a man.

01:43:25.000 I'm not saying I don't want a man.

01:43:27.000 Honestly, I want a man.

01:43:28.000 Sling me around, daddy.

01:43:31.000 You know what?

01:43:32.000 Hold on.

01:43:32.000 I got you.

01:43:33.000 I got you.

01:43:34.000 Real quick, ladies on the panel. 1.00

01:43:36.000 So I had a discussion today.

01:43:37.000 Actually, today, that being said, it went today, right?

01:43:41.000 The question was basically, who deserves a gift more on V-Day?

01:43:45.000 The man or the woman and why?

01:43:47.000 Real quick.

01:43:48.000 You're asking me first?

01:43:49.000 Yeah, who deserves to get a gift more? 0.80

01:43:51.000 The man or woman, and why?

01:43:52.000 On V-Day.

01:43:54.000 I don't know how to answer that question.

01:43:55.000 I genuinely don't know how to answer that question.

01:43:57.000 Can it be a middle answer?

01:43:59.000 So, you don't know how to answer that, right?

01:43:59.000 No, no.

01:44:01.000 I don't know how to answer that.

01:44:02.000 Perfect.

01:44:02.000 What about you?

01:44:03.000 The nigga, because he do more. 1.00

01:44:06.000 Wow. 0.99

01:44:07.000 What about you?

01:44:07.000 I would say my man.

01:44:09.000 Why?

01:44:10.000 Because he not only provides some type of financial stability for me, but just a different kind of perspective.

01:44:17.000 It's a different type of Just...

01:44:20.000 everything.

01:44:21.000 For you, who deserves to give more?

01:44:23.000 Man or the woman? 0.99

01:44:24.000 On V-Day?

01:44:25.000 The man.

01:44:26.000 Why?

01:44:27.000 I just feel like...

01:44:28.000 Merch? 0.84

01:44:30.000 Merch? 0.84

01:44:30.000 Huh? 0.84

01:44:31.000 I'm sorry.

01:44:33.000 Ignore him.

01:44:34.000 Go ahead.

01:44:34.000 I feel like I'm thinking about me personally, because I know we think about, like, we supposed to speak on everybody, but me personally, I feel like when it comes to a man showing his vulnerability, Like, you need a prize for that.

01:44:47.000 Like, you showing how much you love me and everything. 0.99

01:44:51.000 And it's hard for men to do that because a lot of men are scared of rejection or getting played because it's a lot of it fuck with your manhood more than it fuck with your womanhood when we play. 0.99

01:44:59.000 We more so gonna go fight for it. 1.00

01:45:01.000 They more so like, damn, my manhood fucked up. 0.99

01:45:03.000 So for Valentine's Day, you know, if he deserving after showing me, you know, his vulnerability and all that and that he not afraid to love me, I'm going all out for my man. 0.99

01:45:12.000 He getting everything.

01:45:13.000 I got you.

01:45:14.000 What about you?

01:45:16.000 Y'all may beat me up for this, but I would say women and men.

01:45:19.000 Like, I'm 50-50.

01:45:20.000 No, no, no.

01:45:21.000 If you could have chosen one, who would it be?

01:45:22.000 I can't.

01:45:23.000 No, no, no.

01:45:24.000 You can.

01:45:25.000 You know what you want to say, but you don't want to say it.

01:45:26.000 What if it was children?

01:45:27.000 What do I want to say then?

01:45:28.000 Since you know.

01:45:29.000 No, no.

01:45:29.000 I want you to say it.

01:45:31.000 Remember, once again, who deserves it more?

01:45:33.000 Men or women? 0.78

01:45:34.000 On V-Day.

01:45:35.000 I can't answer that.

01:45:37.000 If you had to choose one person, who do you think would deserve it more?

01:45:40.000 In your personal life, think about it.

01:45:41.000 You or him?

01:45:42.000 Okay.

01:45:43.000 And this isn't him saying that, like, you don't deserve X, Y, and Z, but, like, how do you feel about that topic?

01:45:50.000 You would say personally speaking, right?

01:45:52.000 Yeah, personally, yeah.

01:45:53.000 Go ahead.

01:45:53.000 Personally.

01:45:54.000 I would say men.

01:45:56.000 Why?

01:45:57.000 Because of the fact that there are not much men out here that are vulnerable.

01:46:00.000 They feel as though they're vulnerable to a woman, they're weak. 0.99

01:46:02.000 They're weak-minded, they're crybabies, all that type of stuff. 0.85

01:46:06.000 So I feel like men are more so going out their way to pursue women and show them other stuff that they never showed any other woman in their life. 0.98

01:46:15.000 Understood.

01:46:15.000 What about you?

01:46:17.000 I just want to get the question clear.

01:46:19.000 The question is, who deserves a gift more?

01:46:21.000 On Valentine's Day.

01:46:23.000 I think it's kind of a weird question.

01:46:24.000 On purpose.

01:46:26.000 It is, but it's just weird.

01:46:27.000 Why don't we both get gifts?

01:46:30.000 I'm going to chill.

01:46:32.000 I'm going to chill.

01:46:32.000 I'm going to calm down.

01:46:33.000 Take a deep breath.

01:46:35.000 I think it's definitely like pending on that relationship dynamic because I've been in relationships where I'm pulling all the weight and I feel like you know I probably like deserve more like I'm putting in the work I'm like you know doing all this kind of like stuff and then my man's just like sitting around all day playing league.

01:46:52.000 You were making the money and stuff?

01:46:53.000 Doing nothing.

01:46:56.000 At the time, I wasn't making money.

01:46:58.000 I was in college, but I was working two internships, doing a lot of stuff in school.

01:47:02.000 Meanwhile, he had all his free time and he spent it watching Anime and playing League.

01:47:08.000 League of Legends?

01:47:09.000 Yeah.

01:47:10.000 Shout out to League, man.

01:47:12.000 And it was a lot of love for him.

01:47:16.000 No hate against him, but it really drove me crazy.

01:47:20.000 I was like, why aren't I getting more?

01:47:22.000 Why aren't you also pulling your own weight?

01:47:24.000 That sort of thing.

01:47:25.000 I feel like it's very pending on the relationship dynamic.

01:47:27.000 I want to do the same thing as you.

01:47:29.000 In general, who deserves to give more?

01:47:33.000 In general, the person putting in the most work.

01:47:37.000 In most relationships, who's putting in the most work then?

01:47:43.000 Generally.

01:47:44.000 Women. 0.81

01:47:45.000 Generally.

01:47:46.000 You think women? 1.00

01:47:46.000 Women. 1.00

01:47:47.000 No, no, no.

01:47:47.000 Let her ask you this.

01:47:48.000 I definitely...

01:47:49.000 That's kind of like a difficult question because define work.

01:47:53.000 I feel like women provide things that men can't provide and vice versa. 1.00

01:47:59.000 Like, for example, men grow up, you know...

01:48:02.000 Just answer the question, please.

01:48:03.000 Who puts in the most work?

01:48:04.000 Let's look at it from the totality of the circumstances.

01:48:06.000 Simple.

01:48:07.000 Everything.

01:48:08.000 Tangible and intangible.

01:48:11.000 Who deserves it more?

01:48:12.000 Yeah, I'm like, I mean, I don't even know how to answer that.

01:48:14.000 It really is depending on the relationship dynamic.

01:48:18.000 I really couldn't tell you.

01:48:19.000 I couldn't tell you.

01:48:20.000 Here's the last question, right?

01:48:22.000 You said what earlier?

01:48:23.000 50-50?

01:48:24.000 Yeah.

01:48:25.000 What did everyone want me to say here on the panel for the most part?

01:48:27.000 Men.

01:48:28.000 Put in the most work.

01:48:29.000 So it's never 50-50.

01:48:31.000 One party always puts more than the other.

01:48:33.000 It's usually the man.

01:48:34.000 Now, in your case, I get it.

01:48:35.000 By default, it's the man.

01:48:37.000 Yeah, but just be heard on panel.

01:48:39.000 Who puts in the most work?

01:48:40.000 Men.

01:48:41.000 So it can't be 50-50 ever.

01:48:42.000 It can't be.

01:48:44.000 And then also, you guys said earlier, and then it's kind of funny because that contradicts what I asked you earlier.

01:48:50.000 Who is more responsible for securing the Valentine?

01:48:53.000 You guys all said the guy.

01:48:54.000 It's actually the girl.

01:48:55.000 And the reason why it's the girl is because women want commitment. 1.00

01:48:59.000 I said the girl.

01:49:00.000 Yeah, you were the only one that said the girl.

01:49:01.000 No, you changed your answer to guy.

01:49:02.000 Oh, I did.

01:49:04.000 Nice try.

01:49:07.000 So, see, I'm writing everything down.

01:49:08.000 But no, you guys said that it's on the guy, right?

01:49:12.000 To secure the valentine, I would argue it's on the woman because the girl is supposed to show why she's worthy of being a valentine and being a girlfriend. 0.99

01:49:19.000 But the problem is that we live in a crazy world now where women don't think they have to put in work or they think it could be 50-50, etc.

01:49:24.000 There is no 50-50 because the man that you want isn't 50-50. 0.78

01:49:28.000 You want a man who's superior to you in every way, whether he's taller than you, stronger than you, makes more money than you, more dominant than you, more decisive than you.

01:49:34.000 He's better than you in some regards.

01:49:35.000 So how can you expect to be with a guy that's superior to you and expect a 50-50 relationship?

01:49:40.000 It doesn't work that way.

01:49:41.000 Period.

01:49:42.000 And I would argue the most productive relationships are the one where the guy's in the leadership role, the girl knows he's a leader, and she loves and reminds and respects him.

01:49:50.000 And she chases him more than he chases her.

01:49:52.000 That's the only way it works.

01:49:53.000 It never works when a man's chasing a girl. 0.99

01:49:55.000 And she allows him to lead.

01:49:58.000 Yes.

01:49:59.000 Well, it's not even she allows, it's that if she doesn't let him lead, she gets kicked to the curb.

01:50:04.000 So would you call...

01:50:05.000 Can I ask you a question?

01:50:06.000 Yeah, sure.

01:50:07.000 Would you call a female who puts in the work, is the breadwinner at home, while she's, you know... 1.00

01:50:15.000 I'm sorry, guys.

01:50:17.000 So, while the female is the breadwinner at home, you know, waiting for her man to become successful in his dreams, whatever he has aligned, you know, stocks, things like that, you know, once she's the breadwinner, do you think she's deserving of him pursuing her as his Valentine?

01:50:34.000 Or do you still think it's like...

01:50:36.000 No, that girl is... 1.00

01:50:37.000 You stupid! 1.00

01:50:38.000 What are you doing? 1.00

01:50:39.000 Why are you supporting a man?

01:50:40.000 Literally.

01:50:42.000 Why are you supporting a man? 1.00

01:50:44.000 That's very foolish. 1.00

01:50:45.000 It's stupid. 1.00

01:50:45.000 It doesn't work. 1.00

01:50:46.000 Women are terrible long-term providers. 1.00

01:50:49.000 Women don't provision well. 1.00

01:50:50.000 They don't provide.

01:50:51.000 Oh, you don't agree?

01:50:53.000 Oh, really?

01:50:53.000 Hold on.

01:50:54.000 Here's the difference.

01:50:55.000 You don't agree?

01:50:55.000 Hold on.

01:50:57.000 Here's the difference.

01:50:57.000 When a man makes money, he says, I can have a family be dependent upon me.

01:51:01.000 When a woman makes money, she says, I'm strong and independent. 0.82

01:51:03.000 Queen.

01:51:04.000 That's the difference.

01:51:05.000 Men and women don't look at money and success the same way.

01:51:07.000 If a guy is providing for a woman, he can do it long-term. 0.95

01:51:10.000 We're designed for it.

01:51:11.000 Women, on the other hand, are not designed to provide for men long-term. 0.82

01:51:17.000 I don't know if you've noticed this, but I've been watching you very closely.

01:51:20.000 And I'll say something, you'll nod in acknowledgement, but then you'll say, I disagree.

01:51:25.000 Because, like, you know, I'll nod and acknowledge, man.

01:51:29.000 You caught that too, right, Chris?

01:51:30.000 Yeah, I caught it.

01:51:31.000 I mean, what can I say?

01:51:32.000 It's just how I am.

01:51:33.000 Like, I'm acknowledging your point.

01:51:35.000 You know, you're talking.

01:51:35.000 I'm acknowledging you.

01:51:36.000 Like, that's just respect.

01:51:38.000 No, but body language says a lot.

01:51:39.000 You know what I'm saying is the truth that women are not good long-term provisioners. 1.00

01:51:43.000 However, you don't like the way it makes you feel, so you say, I disagree.

01:51:46.000 Then I ask you, explain why you disagree.

01:51:48.000 You're not necessarily able to refute the point besides the fact that I might have said it in a way that you didn't like, but that doesn't change the fact that it's biologically true.

01:51:55.000 Women don't provide for men in general. 1.00

01:51:57.000 They just don't.

01:51:58.000 And if they do, there's studies that show this, when a woman out-earns her man, the likelihood of divorce or breakup are significantly higher. 0.61

01:52:04.000 Absolutely.

01:52:05.000 I agree.

01:52:06.000 So that proves my point, that women are good long-term provisioners. 1.00

01:52:08.000 Because the reasoning is different.

01:52:11.000 It's not that they're not good because they can't, and I've seen it happen.

01:52:15.000 It's the fact that society isn't built that way either.

01:52:19.000 Okay, this is another perfect example of you moving the goalposts.

01:52:22.000 I said what is, and you're saying why.

01:52:24.000 I don't care why.

01:52:25.000 Women just aren't good at it, period. 1.00

01:52:27.000 They can't do it. 0.97

01:52:28.000 You might say, oh, well, they can't do it.

01:52:30.000 The why is this.

01:52:31.000 No one cares about the why.

01:52:33.000 The reality is women are not good long-term provisioners. 1.00

01:52:35.000 The why is irrelevant.

01:52:36.000 You care about the why because you asked me why.

01:52:39.000 Because men always want to be the breadwinner. 0.99

01:52:41.000 Men always want to be the breadwinner. 0.97

01:52:43.000 When did I say why?

01:52:44.000 Like, You asked me why I disagree on that point, and I'm telling you why I disagree.

01:52:51.000 I said I agree with you, and the point that you had said that in relationships where women are the breadwinners, they tend to end up in divorce more often than how it is the other way around, like traditional, conventional standards, right? 0.61

01:53:04.000 Yes.

01:53:05.000 And I agree with that point.

01:53:06.000 Why?

01:53:06.000 Because, I mean, in society, it's built so that men make more money than women.

01:53:13.000 Incorrect.

01:53:14.000 That's not incorrect.

01:53:15.000 You can look at the UN. There's a wage gap.

01:53:17.000 There's a gendered wage gap. 1.00

01:53:19.000 Really?

01:53:19.000 Yes.

01:53:19.000 Is it true?

01:53:20.000 Yes, it is.

01:53:22.000 You can look it up on the UN. If you look at every single country in the world, there's a gendered wage gap everywhere. 1.00

01:53:30.000 And not one of them is having women on top making more money than men. 0.99

01:53:35.000 You triggered my trap card!

01:53:37.000 The reason why women make less is because, quite frankly, women deserve less. 1.00

01:53:40.000 And the reason why women deserve less is, let's hit some numbers here. 1.00

01:53:43.000 Women on average work, we already went over the jobs that they work that get paid less in general. 1.00

01:53:47.000 Women work less hours than men in general.

01:53:49.000 Women work less dangerous jobs. 1.00

01:53:51.000 They take more time off vacation.

01:53:52.000 They take more paternity leave. 0.68

01:53:54.000 They are less likely to take risks.

01:53:56.000 They're more likely to leave the workforce.

01:53:58.000 And women are more agreeable, hence they don't argue for higher wages. 0.99

01:54:01.000 There's a multitude of reasons why women get paid less, and all of it is based on choice, not gender. 1.00

01:54:07.000 The reason why women get paid less is because they choose to not make more money. 1.00

01:54:11.000 They choose to not work hard.

01:54:13.000 Women make less because they deserve less. 1.00

01:54:15.000 Men work harder than women, period, point blank, period. 1.00

01:54:17.000 In every metric of labor, men work harder than women. 0.99

01:54:22.000 You can say that, but...

01:54:23.000 Oh, and one more thing.

01:54:25.000 Here's another crazy part.

01:54:26.000 Women dominate university attendance, and they still make less. 1.00

01:54:30.000 Yeah, you had said that earlier.

01:54:32.000 It's the degree that they get, right?

01:54:35.000 Yeah, but they should be making more.

01:54:37.000 If they dominate university attendance and higher education, why is it that they still make less?

01:54:42.000 Well, because they go into useless professions a lot of the time.

01:54:45.000 Not necessarily.

01:54:46.000 It's not always the case.

01:54:46.000 There's such a thing as companies preventing wage transparency amongst co-workers and that kind of stuff.

01:54:53.000 Like not being able to talk about wages, how much they're making.

01:54:56.000 They discourage.

01:54:57.000 It's illegal.

01:54:57.000 But there's a lot of companies that discourage.

01:54:59.000 No, it's illegal to pay a woman less for the same job as a man. 1.00

01:55:02.000 Yes.

01:55:04.000 It's illegal, but not many people know that they're being gypped when it comes to like their labor.

01:55:11.000 Why?

01:55:11.000 Because companies tend to encourage or no, sorry, discourage wage transparency between coworkers.

01:55:18.000 OK, let's use your logic.

01:55:19.000 Let's say I could actually get away with paying women less than men. 0.69

01:55:22.000 Why would I hire men? 0.99

01:55:24.000 Why would you hire a man? 0.89

01:55:25.000 Yeah.

01:55:27.000 Think about that.

01:55:28.000 No, no, no.

01:55:28.000 Hold on, hold on.

01:55:29.000 Let that sink in, Marinate. 0.67

01:55:30.000 If I could actually get away as an employer paying women less than men, why the hell would I hire men?

01:55:36.000 Because you said it.

01:55:37.000 Because you want diversity.

01:55:37.000 Why wouldn't you want diversity?

01:55:38.000 Maybe you want their strength.

01:55:39.000 Do you want all females? 0.99

01:55:40.000 Do you want all males? 0.81

01:55:41.000 It depends on the industry, too.

01:55:43.000 Is that just over your head, what I just asked?

01:55:45.000 It's not enough women, like you said. 1.00

01:55:48.000 Because men are going to get the job done. 0.98

01:55:50.000 Ladies, it was a rhetorical question. 0.98

01:55:53.000 You can't.

01:55:54.000 If that were the case, there'd be women in the workforce and no men because men could actually get... 1.00

01:55:59.000 Most entrepreneurs will hire women because they can get away with paying them less. 1.00

01:56:01.000 But the reality is women get paid less because they work less and they go into professions that quite frankly aren't needed by society as much. 1.00

01:56:08.000 I just read the top professions by men versus the top professions for women.

01:56:12.000 Women have very little interest in creating infrastructure for society. 1.00

01:56:16.000 That might be true, but I'm not talking about men and women having different career choices.

01:56:22.000 I'm talking about men and women in the same position getting paid different amounts.

01:56:29.000 A woman typically... 1.00

01:56:30.000 I can't speak for the whole...

01:56:32.000 There's a study that they did.

01:56:35.000 Actually, when you equate Okay, here's...

01:56:38.000 When you equate education, experience, profession, where they're working, etc., the wage gap almost disappears.

01:56:45.000 And a matter of fact, in some cases, the woman makes more.

01:56:47.000 They did this at Google.

01:56:48.000 Yeah.

01:56:49.000 Okay.

01:56:50.000 Well, the statistic I was giving you was from the United Nations.

01:56:53.000 So, I don't know what to tell you.

01:56:56.000 The UN is just quite frankly wrong because, again...

01:57:00.000 The UN's wrong?

01:57:01.000 Yes, the UN is wrong because they don't take...

01:57:02.000 Because anyone, any economist with half a brain would know if that were truly the case that you can get away with paying women less, it would be only women in the workforce. 1.00

01:57:11.000 They would not hire men. 1.00

01:57:12.000 It would be stupid for you to hire men. 0.99

01:57:14.000 You would just hire women because you could pay them less if you could actually get away with it. 1.00

01:57:17.000 Well, no, because men and women have different abilities.

01:57:20.000 Men tend to be more logical, so you want logical workers. 1.00

01:57:23.000 But you also want women that are more emotionally in tune, customer service, that kind of stuff. 1.00

01:57:29.000 They tend to be better at customer service.

01:57:30.000 So you kind of want both, depending on the industry.

01:57:32.000 So you want both.

01:57:33.000 But it's in you, like the employer, in your best interest to, I guess, pay women less just because, I don't know, it's...

01:57:41.000 That's what I'm trying to explain to you.

01:57:41.000 They don't, though.

01:57:42.000 They don't pay them less. 0.51

01:57:43.000 The reason why women get paid less on average is because they work less and they deserve less. 1.00

01:57:48.000 But I'm also not talking about minimum wage jobs, like you're working at Burger King, like whatever.

01:57:53.000 Everybody there is making $15 an hour, like that sort of thing.

01:57:55.000 I'm talking about when you start moving up in positions and that kind of stuff, women tend to be held back for promotions. 1.00

01:58:02.000 No, they're not.

01:58:02.000 Women are promoted more than men, and they're given job positions even if they're not qualified because of affirmative action.

01:58:07.000 That's tokenism.

01:58:09.000 You gotta have, like, a token woman or, like, whatever, a token person to, like, certify and show the whole world that, like, yeah, we're a diverse team and, like, whatever, but you just have that person there.

01:58:19.000 There are job postings right now for police departments and law enforcement agencies and STEM, etc., that are female only.

01:58:24.000 Could you imagine if we had job postings that are men only?

01:58:28.000 Why do you think that?

01:58:30.000 Sexism inherently benefits women. 1.00

01:58:32.000 It does not benefit men whatsoever.

01:58:36.000 I want to give a shout out to my friend.

01:58:38.000 She's a female performer in Philly. 1.00

01:58:41.000 That's great, but she's probably one of... 1.00

01:58:43.000 A few.

01:58:44.000 You know, speaking of plumbers, you know what?

01:58:47.000 Funny story.

01:58:48.000 We had a female plumber come on the show that was in trade school. 1.00

01:58:51.000 This was about a year ago.

01:58:53.000 Guess what?

01:58:53.000 She went through the plumber test.

01:58:55.000 She couldn't squeeze the wrench.

01:58:56.000 They have like a test where they're supposed to show grip strength and being able to open a pipe or whatever.

01:59:01.000 She failed the test.

01:59:02.000 They still hired her though.

01:59:04.000 Why?

01:59:04.000 Because they need women that bad.

01:59:06.000 In the United Kingdom, you can become a firefighter as a female by failing the test.

01:59:10.000 So, I think sexism only benefits women. 1.00

01:59:13.000 If we didn't have sexism, there would be no WNBA. There'd be no female sports. 1.00

01:59:17.000 We would have just one standard, and women would have to acclimate. 1.00

01:59:19.000 There'd be no military or law enforcement, etc.

01:59:22.000 One standard.

01:59:25.000 I agree with you on that point, but sexism doesn't only benefit women either. 1.00

01:59:31.000 How does sexism benefit men?

01:59:34.000 I mean, the sex industry.

01:59:35.000 Men objectify women all the time.

01:59:38.000 PIMs, sex trafficking, that kind of stuff.

01:59:40.000 Who makes the majority of the money in the sex industry? 1.00

01:59:42.000 Who makes, I mean, pimps?

01:59:45.000 I mean, it depends, like, where you're looking at.

01:59:47.000 Female porn stars get far more than men for the same scene. 1.00

01:59:47.000 It's the women, overwhelmingly. 1.00

01:59:51.000 And I know this from experience, because one of my good friends was a former porn star.

01:59:54.000 Okay, well, I wasn't necessarily...

01:59:55.000 Okay, yeah, I said, like, sex industry is, like, a broad term.

01:59:58.000 I wasn't talking about, like, porn specifically.

01:59:59.000 I was talking about, like, strip clubs.

02:00:00.000 I'm talking about women that get... 1.00

02:00:02.000 Women get paid more, too. 1.00

02:00:03.000 They might get paid more.

02:00:04.000 See, you guys complain about sexism when it doesn't benefit you. 0.99

02:00:07.000 The only thing that I could think of that women benefit from, that men benefit from sexism is we can fuck a bunch of girls and not get discriminated against by it. 1.00

02:00:13.000 But everything else, women get a benefit from sexism. 1.00

02:00:19.000 Can you name one that women benefit from besides, or sorry, that men benefit from what I just mentioned besides being promiscuous? 0.97

02:00:25.000 Tell us more.

02:00:26.000 I mean, like what I said, the, you know, like the sex industry and stuff, like I'm not talking about, yeah, but I'm not talking about porn, I'm talking about, um, sex trafficking, for example, like women, um, yeah.

02:00:40.000 So an illicit trade that is illegal?

02:00:42.000 That is your argument?

02:00:44.000 Well, yeah, it's not...

02:00:46.000 Okay, yes, it's illegal, but it doesn't mean that it's not happening.

02:00:49.000 And it's sexism at work, and it works in men's favor. 0.97

02:00:53.000 Men take vulnerable women off the streets. 0.89

02:00:55.000 A lot of people think sex trafficking is like, oh, like some girl on the street, you see her in a parking lot, you abduct her, and you take her.

02:01:01.000 It's not like that.

02:01:02.000 They take these vulnerable women that come from tough backgrounds, no father at home, or like... 0.63

02:01:11.000 Mom, whoever was also in the sex industry, maybe also a drug addict, one or both parents are absent.

02:01:18.000 Any combination of those things, and they're vulnerable, and they're looking for love, and they're looking for someone to be there in their life to, you know, like, give them some stability because they don't know stability.

02:01:27.000 That's an illegal trade.

02:01:28.000 It's illicit.

02:01:29.000 It's not legal anywhere, so you can't use that.

02:01:33.000 I'm asking, where is there sexism that benefits men?

02:01:39.000 Just because it's illegal doesn't mean that it doesn't exist, though.

02:01:43.000 I'm not denying that it exists.

02:01:44.000 And it's a huge industry, too.

02:01:46.000 Hold on, no.

02:01:46.000 I'm not denying that.

02:01:47.000 Well, actually, it's not that huge, because I actually used to investigate human trafficking and sex trafficking.

02:01:51.000 Most of it was just prostitution.

02:01:52.000 So, nice try.

02:01:53.000 But the reality is that there is no industry that I could think of that men benefit from sexism.

02:02:00.000 Women get all the benefits from sexism. 1.00

02:02:01.000 Because they step into their sexiness.

02:02:04.000 There's men right now that I see making their little OnlyFans and doing their thing.

02:02:09.000 Do they make as much as women though? 1.00

02:02:10.000 The OnlyFans.

02:02:12.000 See, everything you guys are mentioning, the women benefit. 0.99

02:02:15.000 The OnlyFans.

02:02:16.000 You guys can't even name one industry where sexism benefits men and doesn't benefit women.

02:02:22.000 You guys can't name anything.

02:02:23.000 I'm telling y'all, sexism inherently benefits women. 1.00

02:02:26.000 It creates a double standard so women can compete. 1.00

02:02:28.000 Because the reality is if y'all had to compete with us with one standard, you guys would not be able to compete.

02:02:32.000 Imagine one NBA, women have to, hey, you gotta measure up. 1.00

02:02:36.000 There'd be no chicks in there. 1.00

02:02:37.000 Imagine we had one soccer league.

02:02:38.000 Women would not be able to join. 1.00

02:02:41.000 Female sports would be obliterated. 1.00

02:02:43.000 Women would not be able to join labor-intensive jobs, etc. 0.99

02:02:46.000 So you could say that the wage gap exists.

02:02:49.000 It actually doesn't.

02:02:50.000 When you compare degrees, education, experience, time at the job, etc., the wage gap evaporates.

02:02:59.000 And I would argue that women have more opportunity to make more money. 1.00

02:03:02.000 They just choose not to.

02:03:04.000 They don't want to go into the trades that make more money.

02:03:06.000 And they don't want to go into the career fields that make more money.

02:03:09.000 They don't want to go into science, technology, engineering, or math.

02:03:11.000 They're more interested in social sciences, being a model, cosmetology, holistic healing.

02:03:17.000 If we don't do it, who gonna do it?

02:03:19.000 I might actually help heal, though.

02:03:22.000 Who's going to do it if we don't do it?

02:03:23.000 I'm for the people.

02:03:25.000 The points I'm trying to make is that money typically is a personification of value.

02:03:30.000 The reason why men get paid more for these jobs is because there's not enough people that want to do them. 0.99

02:03:34.000 They're hard to do and they create infrastructure for society.

02:03:38.000 Everyone does holistic healing or cosmetology or is a model or does psychology.

02:03:43.000 Hence why you guys get paid less.

02:03:46.000 Who gets paid less?

02:03:48.000 The professions I quite just named.

02:03:51.000 Versus an Alaska fisherman is going to make more than a sociologist because most people don't want to do that job.

02:03:56.000 It's very difficult and labor intensive.

02:03:59.000 But they get paid more because they take more risk and not many people want to do it.

02:04:03.000 So women get paid less because they choose to get paid less. 1.00

02:04:06.000 And if you want to take it a step further, you go to Scandinavian countries where men and women are the most equal in anywhere else in the world and women still get paid less and they go into career fields that are more involved with people.

02:04:16.000 Men go into career fields that are more involved with things.

02:04:18.000 So let me ask you, you think I get paid less because I'm a model?

02:04:23.000 I think the whole argument just flew over your head.

02:04:26.000 I'm just asking.

02:04:26.000 I said women go into career fields that pay less because of their personal choices, not because they're being discriminated against because they're a woman.

02:04:35.000 As a matter of fact, female models get paid more than male models if we want to talk about sexism. 0.99

02:04:39.000 There you go.

02:04:45.000 Sexism benefits women and you still can't name anything where a man benefits from sexism. 0.99

02:04:49.000 The only one that I could think of is him being able to have sex with a bunch of chicks and not get judged for it. 0.99

02:04:55.000 So the wage gap is a myth. 0.76

02:04:56.000 It doesn't exist.

02:04:57.000 I just debunked it.

02:04:58.000 And sexism benefits women. 0.75

02:04:59.000 You did not debunk it.

02:05:00.000 You can look up the UN statistic right now.

02:05:02.000 You can have your own statistic, and I'm going to have mine, but that's from the UN, and I believe that.

02:05:06.000 Is the UN always right?

02:05:07.000 They've been wrong multiple times.

02:05:09.000 Yeah, and then someone actually proved them wrong.

02:05:11.000 Okay, that's just one statistic that I'm talking about.

02:05:14.000 That's from something that I had written.

02:05:16.000 That's a statistic that I remember that stuck with me forever that I had studied in college and whatnot.

02:05:21.000 I think Tyson Beckford was the only one that paid the same as the female models. 0.99

02:05:25.000 We also got to remember that we're talking about the United States here specifically.

02:05:28.000 The United Nations probably extrapolates data from all over the world.

02:05:31.000 That's kind of irrelevant to the conversation at hand.

02:05:34.000 In first world, modern English-speaking countries like the United States, the United Kingdom, Australia, New Zealand, etc., Canada, the wage gap does not exist because women dominate men in college attendance, yet they still go into professions that pay less because of choice. 0.77

02:05:49.000 Women get paid less not because they're women, but because of their personal choices into what they want to go into when it comes to a profession. 1.00

02:05:55.000 And I quite literally just named it.

02:05:57.000 I got some other stats, too, that men contribute for about 30 years of their life while women contribute only about 18 years of their life. 0.69

02:06:03.000 Men stay in the workforce longer than women. 0.98

02:06:06.000 Women are a net negative $140,000 per year versus men, as shown in New Zealand.

02:06:11.000 So by every metric, men just work harder and longer than women do. 0.99

02:06:15.000 It's a fact.

02:06:15.000 Just hold it, Elle.

02:06:17.000 Women get paid less because they deserve less. 1.00

02:06:19.000 It's been proven statistically several times.

02:06:25.000 By the way, the UN was wrong about the bear bug.

02:06:28.000 About what?

02:06:28.000 The bear bug.

02:06:30.000 I don't want to say what it was, but you know, the jab.

02:06:33.000 Anyhow, it's fine.

02:06:34.000 Alright, where are we at here?

02:06:37.000 Did anyone else have something?

02:06:40.000 You were going to say something?

02:06:40.000 No.

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02:07:06.000 Marchman, $20.

02:07:07.000 Leprecoon, to the feminine... 0.96

02:07:11.000 Feminine.

02:07:11.000 You're not special with that fake major and Rashida ain't from South Philly.

02:07:14.000 She looks like K&A. What the fuck is K&A? Who's Feminine? 1.00

02:07:18.000 Is that me?

02:07:19.000 What is K&A? I don't know.

02:07:24.000 Am I Feminine?

02:07:24.000 Who's Feminine?

02:07:26.000 He's talking about that fake major.

02:07:28.000 He's probably talking about me.

02:07:28.000 Okay.

02:07:31.000 Oh, okay.

02:07:32.000 He called you feminine because of blonde hair. 0.99

02:07:36.000 Instead of Eminem.

02:07:36.000 Oh, it's you?

02:07:37.000 Oh, instead of Eminem.

02:07:38.000 Okay, I get what you're saying.

02:07:40.000 Oh, they're grinding us up.

02:07:43.000 So, because you guys were saying before, going back to the original conversation, that men, you know, it's fine.

02:07:50.000 Let's move on.

02:07:50.000 It's fine.

02:07:51.000 Okay.

02:07:52.000 I think I've already established that women have to pursue the guy more for the relationship to work. 0.98

02:07:58.000 Versus if the guy pursues the girl, she's going to think he's a loser.

02:08:01.000 Was that Kensington and Allegheny?

02:08:04.000 Oh, don't ever play with me. 1.00

02:08:05.000 I will shoot you up. 1.00

02:08:07.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

02:08:08.000 I don't know what's going on here. 1.00

02:08:12.000 I'm from Philly.

02:08:14.000 We know what we're talking about.

02:08:15.000 Watch your mouth.

02:08:17.000 Just got the book looking forward to telling the world why women deserve less. 1.00

02:08:21.000 Yeah, I mean, Alright, let's keep going.

02:08:27.000 Link is below, guys, if y'all want to get the book.

02:08:29.000 I go into detail.

02:08:30.000 That is so racist. 0.64

02:08:31.000 Y'all not even cool.

02:08:34.000 And y'all spent $20.

02:08:36.000 That's what I'm saying.

02:08:36.000 You spent 19 dollars.

02:08:40.000 Why y'all snapping on them?

02:08:42.000 They didn't even pass, are you smarter than the 5th grader?

02:09:00.000 I want to thank y'all for everything.

02:09:02.000 I'm now 5'11", 21 years old, black, making 10k a month, working on buying my first apartment right now.

02:09:07.000 By the way, would any girl on the panel date someone of these metrics?

02:09:10.000 Bro, why are you following these chicks, bro?

02:09:12.000 Yeah, bro. 0.85

02:09:13.000 What the hell's wrong with you? 0.87

02:09:13.000 For what? 0.87

02:09:15.000 You want to explain that, brother?

02:09:16.000 Got to go to the soundboard, okay?

02:09:20.000 Paper perk goes, in 20 years, I'm 20 years old and make $80,000 to $100,000 a year as a sales manager.

02:09:27.000 I work from 8 a.m.

02:09:28.000 to 8 p.m., but only on weekdays.

02:09:31.000 What's a good side hustle I can implement on my weekends to keep productivity up to 100%?

02:09:35.000 Start an online business, bro.

02:09:36.000 Yeah.

02:09:37.000 That's going to be the move.

02:09:38.000 And then, guys, we got 14,000 of y'all watching right now, and I think another 10,000 plus on Rumble.

02:09:43.000 So we got almost 30,000 of you guys watching live.

02:09:45.000 So do me a favor.

02:09:46.000 Like the video.

02:09:47.000 Okay, we got 26,000 of y'all watching between the two platforms.

02:09:52.000 Guys, like the video.

02:09:53.000 Subscribe to the channel on YouTube.

02:09:54.000 Also, go ahead and subscribe to the channel on Rumble.

02:09:58.000 Where else we at? 1.00

02:10:00.000 Oh, girl wants her man to check in every three hours is going to be the next Jodi Arias, toxic as fuck. 1.00

02:10:04.000 You have anything you want to say back to him? 0.99

02:10:06.000 Facts. 0.82

02:10:07.000 Remember earlier you made the comment how your dude didn't hit you up and like it was fucking with your trust issues. 0.88

02:10:12.000 He was trying to throw shade. 0.86

02:10:13.000 Into the mic.

02:10:13.000 Check him.

02:10:14.000 He said what?

02:10:15.000 Check him once.

02:10:17.000 Every three hours.

02:10:18.000 First of all, I would never be no Jodie Arish. 0.99

02:10:20.000 She stabbed her nigga 27 times. 1.00

02:10:23.000 It wouldn't be that. 1.00

02:10:23.000 You'd only stab him seven, right? 1.00

02:10:25.000 No, I would stab him zero. 0.99

02:10:27.000 I'll leave him alone. 0.99

02:10:29.000 Stop the gap.

02:10:31.000 Excalibur goes, ladies, there's been this misconception that women mature faster than men.

02:10:35.000 If so, why do most women live in a parallel universe clouded by delusion? 1.00

02:10:38.000 What factors makes you mature faster and why?

02:10:41.000 Okay, do you think women mature faster than men?

02:10:52.000 Yeah.

02:10:53.000 Why?

02:10:57.000 Why?

02:10:59.000 I don't know, I guess.

02:11:01.000 I mean, I couldn't tell you why.

02:11:03.000 That's just something that I know that I had learned.

02:11:08.000 What was that?

02:11:08.000 I said, if you're mature, you'll be able to tell us why.

02:11:12.000 If it's mature?

02:11:13.000 Okay.

02:11:15.000 Why do women mature faster? 1.00

02:11:17.000 I suppose it has something to do with hormones like that.

02:11:22.000 I can't tell you why exactly.

02:11:24.000 So you think physically?

02:11:26.000 Physically?

02:11:27.000 Yeah, sure.

02:11:28.000 You think they mature more mentally as well?

02:11:32.000 Mentally?

02:11:35.000 Could be.

02:11:36.000 I think so.

02:11:38.000 In a lot of cases, women tend to want older men too because it matches their level. 0.96

02:11:47.000 That sort of thing of maturity, of mentality, or that sort of thing.

02:11:52.000 Do you think it's them being mature or just wanting a guy that is better than themselves for security purposes?

02:11:59.000 Could be both.

02:12:01.000 Why not both?

02:12:03.000 Interesting.

02:12:03.000 Okay.

02:12:04.000 What about you?

02:12:05.000 Who do you think matures faster, men or women? 0.82

02:12:09.000 I would say men.

02:12:10.000 Men?

02:12:10.000 Why?

02:12:11.000 Because of the fact that they are known to be the breadwinners.

02:12:16.000 They're known to be strong.

02:12:17.000 They're not known to come off as vulnerable or weak.

02:12:21.000 Let me just say vulnerable.

02:12:22.000 I would say weak-minded or whatever.

02:12:23.000 So they have to learn from young.

02:12:26.000 Alright.

02:12:26.000 What about you?

02:12:27.000 Do you think men or women mature faster?

02:12:29.000 I believe women do. 0.93

02:12:30.000 Why?

02:12:31.000 You know, a lot of men are baby growing up. 0.99

02:12:34.000 And it's no size, but a lot of mothers baby their sons more and keep them in a tuck more because they're more prone to walking outside and getting shot type shit. 0.99

02:12:44.000 So, you know, they don't really experience the shit that the females do. 1.00

02:12:48.000 We get kicked out at 16 once we start growing through our hormones and our parents yelling out a lot. 0.99

02:12:53.000 So I think women mature faster. 1.00

02:12:55.000 And I do think, you know, for the lucky men that are out there, they do get baby and protect them more just because of the way society is.

02:13:02.000 Okay.

02:13:02.000 Do you think men or women live a harder life in general then?

02:13:08.000 Fuck. 1.00

02:13:14.000 Men. 1.00

02:13:15.000 Yeah.

02:13:17.000 So, wouldn't that kind of refute what you just said?

02:13:19.000 Kind of, but not really.

02:13:21.000 I'm only thinking about personal stuff.

02:13:25.000 I'm not really thinking about in general.

02:13:27.000 I'm thinking about the way I see my brother.

02:13:29.000 I had it easy growing up, but he didn't really have it growing up. 0.77

02:13:32.000 He had to really be in the streets more than me and really hustle and shit like that. 0.75

02:13:36.000 But I don't know if maturity came with that or just the streets. 0.88

02:13:40.000 I don't know.

02:13:41.000 I don't know.

02:13:42.000 I can't see.

02:13:43.000 Wouldn't it be fair to say that if you live a harder life that you have to mature faster?

02:13:46.000 Yes, that's it.

02:13:48.000 So is it really true that women mature faster? 0.64

02:13:50.000 That's in direct contradiction of what you just said.

02:13:56.000 Me, personally, I feel like I mature faster than the men I've met in my life.

02:14:01.000 I can't speak for everybody else.

02:14:03.000 We'll ask the question in general.

02:14:04.000 And then when it comes to safety, if men or women who's not safer, I feel like men aren't really safe when it comes to that.

02:14:13.000 Women kind of are taken care of. 1.00

02:14:16.000 I didn't ask that, but okay.

02:14:18.000 Okay.

02:14:19.000 What about you?

02:14:20.000 Who do you think matures faster, men or women? 0.82

02:14:23.000 Um, I would say men mature faster because they pretty much come into this life with the idea that they have to provide and protect.

02:14:32.000 So, I guess that would be...

02:14:35.000 Alright, so you think men?

02:14:37.000 Alright, who do you think matures faster, men or women?

02:14:40.000 Based on what y'all was talking about, I think it depends on circumstances.

02:14:44.000 Okay.

02:14:44.000 In general, what do you think?

02:14:46.000 If we line up 100 women versus 100 men, who do you think is going to be more mature?

02:14:49.000 Both of them are, let's say, 25 years old.

02:14:51.000 Or sorry, both parties are all 25 years old.

02:14:53.000 I mean, I grew up learning that it's women, but I can't necessarily agree with that because I haven't looked it up myself.

02:15:01.000 Or known at trials and tribulations.

02:15:03.000 Others went there.

02:15:04.000 Okay.

02:15:05.000 Well, who do you think has a harder life, men or women?

02:15:09.000 Again, it depends.

02:15:10.000 In general?

02:15:15.000 It depends.

02:15:18.000 What's coming up in my head is men.

02:15:21.000 Because, you know, I don't know.

02:15:24.000 I don't know.

02:15:25.000 I just feel that they don't necessarily have it as easy as women, at least for me. 1.00

02:15:31.000 You know, like my brothers, they were expected to just grow up a little bit faster because they're men.

02:15:37.000 So would it be fair to say then by that extension that men have to mature faster because they live a harder life?

02:15:42.000 I would assume so, but only some.

02:15:44.000 What about you?

02:15:46.000 I think women. 1.00

02:15:48.000 Okay, why do you say women? 0.97

02:15:49.000 Because a man isn't considered a mature man until he's the age 21 and older.

02:15:56.000 At least that's what I was raised until.

02:15:58.000 A woman is considered a mature woman at the age of 18 because women are emotionally intelligent.

02:16:05.000 We think with our emotions and everything...

02:16:08.000 Can you define what emotionally intelligent is?

02:16:11.000 I can't define that right now.

02:16:15.000 So you just used a word that you don't know the definition of?

02:16:17.000 I didn't say I didn't know the definition.

02:16:18.000 I just can't define it right now.

02:16:22.000 What?

02:16:22.000 That means you don't know.

02:16:23.000 That means you don't know what the word means.

02:16:24.000 It don't matter.

02:16:24.000 I just think women mature faster than men.

02:16:27.000 That's just how I was raised and taught.

02:16:29.000 Yes, Mari.

02:16:30.000 But you said it's because of emotional intelligence.

02:16:33.000 Yeah, because women do act off emotions a lot. 1.00

02:16:37.000 Okay, let me ask you a question then.

02:16:41.000 You said women act off emotions. 1.00

02:16:43.000 Would it be fair to say that your emotions are always changing?

02:16:45.000 Yes.

02:16:46.000 And they're erratic?

02:16:48.000 No, depends.

02:16:49.000 Well, you could be sad one man, then happy another, etc.

02:16:52.000 Yeah.

02:16:53.000 Right?

02:16:53.000 Yeah.

02:16:53.000 Okay, so wouldn't it be fair to say that maturity, a component of maturity is being able to control your emotions?

02:17:01.000 Logic, in a sense.

02:17:03.000 Okay, who's better at controlling their emotions, men or women?

02:17:06.000 Women. 0.81

02:17:06.000 Really? 0.81

02:17:08.000 He's contradicting us.

02:17:09.000 Sorry.

02:17:10.000 Y'all are contradicting yourselves.

02:17:11.000 I'm just asking questions.

02:17:13.000 I'm just asking questions.

02:17:14.000 You guys make zero sense. 0.99

02:17:15.000 You're like an alligator in the water. 0.99

02:17:19.000 It's like, yo, I'm just saying. 0.73

02:17:21.000 Here's the thing.

02:17:23.000 The reason why...

02:17:27.000 Welcome to Fresh Fit, ladies, where we challenge you on your thought process. 1.00

02:17:30.000 The reason why women don't think critically like this a lot of times is because men rarely challenge women under delusional takes.

02:17:35.000 You literally said we're more emotionally intelligent.

02:17:38.000 I said define that.

02:17:39.000 You can't define it.

02:17:40.000 Then you're like, well, women are more emotional. 1.00

02:17:41.000 Okay, well, being more emotional doesn't mean you're more erratic.

02:17:43.000 Yes, it does.

02:17:44.000 Well, who's better at controlling their emotions?

02:17:45.000 You said women.

02:17:46.000 No, that's not true at all.

02:17:47.000 Men are better at controlling their emotions.

02:17:49.000 As a matter of fact, a tenement of masculinity is controlling your emotions.

02:17:53.000 I think men are... 0.99

02:17:54.000 I think men think logical for the most part.

02:17:57.000 And women are very emotional. 1.00

02:17:59.000 I agree to that because I have a lot of homeboys and brothers.

02:18:02.000 Which is a component of maturity.

02:18:03.000 Not really because sometimes y'all use logic.

02:18:06.000 I'm loud.

02:18:07.000 Sometimes y'all...

02:18:08.000 Right, right, right.

02:18:09.000 I'm sorry.

02:18:11.000 Sometimes you guys use logic a lot for times where logic isn't needed and it's time for emotion.

02:18:17.000 Like to really feel and push it out there.

02:18:19.000 When is emotion really necessary?

02:18:21.000 It's never necessary.

02:18:22.000 No, no, no.

02:18:23.000 I'm not scared of it.

02:18:23.000 When is it necessary?

02:18:25.000 Let me keep checking what they're saying because they shouldn't have gave us these drinks.

02:18:30.000 Whoa, whoa, whoa.

02:18:32.000 We purposely tell y'all not to drink before the show.

02:18:35.000 No, I'm telling you.

02:18:36.000 It was a joke, y'all.

02:18:37.000 It wasn't even...

02:18:38.000 That's not a funny joke.

02:18:40.000 Alright, I ain't going to say the joke.

02:18:42.000 Alright, so what were you going to say?

02:18:44.000 What did you say?

02:18:45.000 You said you were questioning...

02:18:46.000 He was asking...

02:18:46.000 You asked her...

02:18:47.000 When is it necessary to be emotional?

02:18:49.000 Yeah.

02:18:50.000 I mean, during times where it's not clear, during times it needs clarity.

02:18:56.000 You know what I'm saying?

02:18:57.000 A lot of times I feel like men move really logical when they see a woman that's emotional. 0.79

02:19:02.000 When they see a woman that's emotional and say I'm coming to my dude emotional and we got some things we got to talk about. 0.90

02:19:09.000 And it involves having emotion and feeling and talking about, you know, why y'all even together?

02:19:15.000 Okay, give us an example.

02:19:16.000 How would you come at him emotionally?

02:19:17.000 Give me an example.

02:19:18.000 How would you come at him emotionally?

02:19:19.000 So if something happened, I would ask to talk.

02:19:22.000 I'd be like, hey, can we talk?

02:19:23.000 Like, can we sit down and talk about it?

02:19:25.000 Like, you know, I'm feeling a certain way.

02:19:27.000 Things not right.

02:19:28.000 So I would want to sit and talk about it.

02:19:30.000 Would you come crying?

02:19:30.000 Would you come angry?

02:19:31.000 You said emotional.

02:19:32.000 So what is the emotion here?

02:19:32.000 The emotion is just saying how you truly feel.

02:19:36.000 Fuck you, nigga! 1.00

02:19:39.000 So you come in emotionally. 1.00

02:19:42.000 Do you think that's productive for him to also come in emotionally as well?

02:19:46.000 I mean, once it comes time for that, yes.

02:19:48.000 I mean, not saying be an emotional rollercoaster on both ends.

02:19:52.000 Like, ah, full of emotion.

02:19:53.000 But when it comes to, you know, I'm unsure of something.

02:19:57.000 I'm sorry.

02:19:57.000 I'm unsure of something.

02:19:59.000 I need clarity.

02:20:00.000 It involves...

02:20:01.000 I'm curious.

02:20:03.000 Wouldn't you want a sound, chill, relaxed person to say, you know what?

02:20:07.000 You know what, baby?

02:20:07.000 Don't worry about that.

02:20:08.000 How about try this?

02:20:09.000 How about try this?

02:20:10.000 Isn't that better than being emotional?

02:20:12.000 I mean, I don't mean you gotta cry, y'all.

02:20:15.000 I mean, just show that you care.

02:20:18.000 Yeah, he cares because he's giving you either a listening ear or a solution.

02:20:21.000 I don't want no man that's gonna throw a ruler down and say count the numbers and figure it out yourself.

02:20:25.000 But that's not what happens.

02:20:28.000 Yeah, that's his emotions, though.

02:20:29.000 He listens to you, takes it in.

02:20:31.000 Alright, baby.

02:20:32.000 Here's what you can do if you want to change it.

02:20:33.000 If not, I'm just here to listen.

02:20:34.000 That's it.

02:20:35.000 That's being logical.

02:20:37.000 Here's the thing.

02:20:38.000 Being emotional rarely is ever good. 0.99

02:20:39.000 And if you guys don't believe me, look at a prison that's filled with emotional guys that couldn't control their emotions as a critical component and does something stupid and hurts somebody. 0.99

02:20:46.000 So, when men are emotional, there's dire consequences. 0.95

02:20:49.000 The reason why women can be emotional is because, I'll be honest with y'all, you guys rarely face physical consequences for your emotions. 0.86

02:20:55.000 If you talk to a guy crazy, a lot of times they're not going to talk, shampunch you.

02:21:00.000 But when a man does that, if you come in, there might be physical consequences. 0.56

02:21:05.000 I don't mean to be rude, but I'll use you as an example.

02:21:07.000 At the beginning of this podcast, you were fairly disrespectful in the beginning. 0.99

02:21:09.000 Damn. 0.99

02:21:10.000 But had you been a man, you would have probably got punched. 1.00

02:21:13.000 But you're a woman. 0.97

02:21:13.000 You were able to use that to your advantage and act in a disrespectful manner to a degree. 0.97

02:21:17.000 How was I disrespectful?

02:21:18.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

02:21:19.000 Let me finish my point.

02:21:20.000 You definitely were.

02:21:21.000 You were being disrespectful, but it's fine because you were.

02:21:24.000 You were.

02:21:25.000 Objectively speaking, you were.

02:21:26.000 So, but what I'm saying is that, and I'm just using this as an example, the reason why you were able to do that is because you're a woman and you're not going to bear the same physical consequences as if you were a man.

02:21:36.000 Very rarely do men meet each other that don't know each other and speak to each other in a kind of way because there's always that potential for physical consequences.

02:21:43.000 Okay?

02:21:44.000 We call it, you know, when it comes to, think of like nuclear weapons, mutually assured destruction. 0.98

02:21:48.000 The reason why we don't shoot nukes at Russia and why they don't shoot nukes at us is because we're going to shoot them at each other and both kill each other. 0.99

02:21:53.000 Men understand this silent agreement that you're going to respect me because there's physical consequence. 0.98

02:21:58.000 Women, however, are allowed the privilege of acting ridiculous, being loud, being disrespectful, because quite frankly, y'all don't get punched in the face. 1.00

02:22:04.000 That's the truth. 0.99

02:22:05.000 Okay?

02:22:06.000 And I'm not advocating for that, but what I am saying is that women know deep down a man isn't going to punch them, which is why they act the way that they do. 0.87

02:22:12.000 However, when it grows around other women a lot of times, they might check that a bit because there's that potential for physical consequence. 1.00

02:22:18.000 I have a question. 0.99

02:22:20.000 That's for your own shit because that ain't even who I am. 0.99

02:22:23.000 I'm going to just keep it real, but I respect what you're saying. 0.99

02:22:26.000 What I'm saying is that if you had acted the way you acted as a man, there would possibly be some physical consequences, yet a woman can get away with behaving that way. 1.00

02:22:36.000 I don't even know when I felt like I was...

02:22:38.000 Maybe when y'all was telling me to chill, so if that's what y'all saying when I was disrespectful, all right?

02:22:42.000 But I think the same way, like, I know my place.

02:22:44.000 I didn't even feel like I was arguing with you because I would have said, I know my place as a woman. 1.00

02:22:48.000 You a man, and if I was a nigga, I would have knocked you on your shit. 1.00

02:22:52.000 So we touche. 1.00

02:22:54.000 What?

02:22:55.000 You probably thought you wasn't disrespectful.

02:22:57.000 I wasn't disrespectful to y'all.

02:23:00.000 I was more so putting my feeling into the conversation.

02:23:03.000 And y'all took it personal.

02:23:05.000 We were actually very calm and responded accordingly.

02:23:08.000 Imagine if we were actually emotional like you.

02:23:12.000 I wasn't even talking to y'all.

02:23:14.000 See, here's the difference.

02:23:15.000 When you were acting that way, we stayed calm and said, hey, relax.

02:23:21.000 I don't know if you noticed it.

02:23:21.000 We gave a very unemotional response to your emotional.

02:23:24.000 And I'm using this to display the importance of emotional constraint as a man. 1.00

02:23:30.000 We're not going to turn up with you and be like, yo, shut up, bitch, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

02:23:34.000 We're not going to do that. 1.00

02:23:34.000 We're just like, yo, chill. 1.00

02:23:36.000 And it was diffused versus when you were acting emotional, we weren't like acting crazy because you never match emotion with emotion.

02:23:43.000 It's not productive.

02:23:45.000 But as I was going to say, it's not what you say, it's how you say it.

02:23:48.000 At least that's how I was taught.

02:23:49.000 So you probably thought you wasn't disrespectful.

02:23:52.000 They probably took it as that because of how you were saying it.

02:23:55.000 But my passion went that deep into my statement.

02:23:57.000 It was nothing towards you two kings at all.

02:24:00.000 So I'm sorry y'all even took it that way.

02:24:03.000 That's why you're still here.

02:24:05.000 Well, thank you.

02:24:05.000 Thank you, guys.

02:24:06.000 I feel like I calmed down.

02:24:07.000 That's why I'm still here.

02:24:11.000 You were trying to say something?

02:24:13.000 I was just going to ask you, so would you say that a woman's unfiltered mouth in an argument equates to a man physically harming her?

02:24:22.000 Right.

02:24:22.000 That's an interesting question.

02:24:24.000 Well, I quite literally said it a second ago.

02:24:25.000 I'm not advocating for violence against women.

02:24:28.000 I'm just like, I'm asking you because I want to say I saw something on Instagram and it was something about like, A woman, like her unfiltered mouth in an argument equates to, you know, a man pretty much putting his hands on her.

02:24:28.000 No, no, no.

02:24:42.000 I'm not gonna lie.

02:24:43.000 We don't advocate that.

02:24:44.000 I'm not gonna lie.

02:24:45.000 No, I'm not saying you advocate it.

02:24:47.000 She's poorly stating it, but what she's saying is that it's the functional equivalent.

02:24:51.000 Like, her berating him and being disrespectful is a functional equivalent to him putting hands on her.

02:24:56.000 Okay.

02:24:56.000 I was more so asking your opinion on that.

02:24:58.000 Like, do you agree with that statement?

02:24:59.000 Do you think that that equates to...

02:25:03.000 I mean, it's extremely disrespectful.

02:25:05.000 And for men, right, a lot of times they can't retaliate because, you know, well, number one, you don't want to get down to her level and be emotional as well, which a lot of guys do.

02:25:13.000 They end up being emotional because there's no other recourse. 0.76

02:25:16.000 At least with a man, you could punch him in the face. 0.98

02:25:18.000 Right? 0.98

02:25:19.000 But with a woman, you can't do that. 1.00

02:25:20.000 That's crazy.

02:25:21.000 So you can't do that, which is why men don't speak to each other crazy that they don't know.

02:25:25.000 But women all the time speak crazy to men that they don't know because they know there's no real physical consequence. 1.00

02:25:30.000 There's people around.

02:25:31.000 They know that even if the guy does something to them, there's going to be some consequences on that guy.

02:25:36.000 So I think a big reason why so many women are more emotional and disrespect a lot of men is because they can get away with it, simply put, without consequences. 0.98

02:25:44.000 Okay.

02:25:45.000 I told them you're the wrong man.

02:25:46.000 Yeah. 0.99

02:25:47.000 I mean, there's some weirdos out there that are always looking to fucking hit a girl with the... 0.99

02:25:50.000 You know what I'm saying? 0.99

02:25:52.000 That's why I tell girls, like, don't act crazy because there are dudes out there that are waiting to world star you. 1.00

02:25:57.000 That's why I let you stay strapped always because sometimes these niggas is pussy and you got to put them in their place because they don't know that... 1.00

02:26:05.000 Or just don't talk to them crazy. 1.00

02:26:06.000 And they better not talk crazy neither. 0.96

02:26:09.000 But it's men out here that would talk crazy like that because they know that a female won't put their hands on them because they're so masculine. 0.75

02:26:15.000 They know they're stronger than a female. 0.99

02:26:17.000 I would say it's women that antagonize a lot of the time. 1.00

02:26:23.000 You can't argue with this because I've been in an abusive relationship.

02:26:27.000 So let's talk about it.

02:26:28.000 You've been in a relationship?

02:26:29.000 Yes.

02:26:30.000 So that's your standpoint?

02:26:32.000 That's not my standpoint, but I'm saying you can't argue with me with that.

02:26:36.000 Like, I've been in an abusive relationship.

02:26:38.000 Okay, what did we say earlier?

02:26:40.000 Generally.

02:26:41.000 Your personal experience doesn't reflect reality.

02:26:43.000 It doesn't, but you're speaking on like every woman.

02:26:45.000 Because if you're saying that, then the people that you done made votes with, theirs don't count neither.

02:26:52.000 Like when you got a tally or whatever, you said 100 men then voted this, you could say the same about her because that could have been her vote.

02:26:59.000 Yeah, but it don't matter.

02:27:00.000 I don't see the connection there.

02:27:03.000 I'm confused.

02:27:06.000 What I'm saying is that women get away with berating and antagonizing men and talking to them any kind of way most of the time because men can't give them physical consequences.

02:27:16.000 That's what I'm saying.

02:27:19.000 Berating women? 0.52

02:27:20.000 Yeah.

02:27:21.000 Yeah.

02:27:22.000 Man can talk crazy to a female because he knows that that female most likely is not going to put her hands on him because he's masculine. 0.97

02:27:28.000 You know, interesting that you mention that because they actually did.

02:27:30.000 Hold on.

02:27:31.000 I disagree with you and I'll tell you why.

02:27:33.000 They did an experiment with this.

02:27:33.000 Yeah.

02:27:34.000 They had two couples.

02:27:37.000 See, this is why your personal experience doesn't matter.

02:27:39.000 No offense.

02:27:40.000 So they took a couple, right?

02:27:42.000 And the woman was braiding the man. 1.00

02:27:44.000 Even hitting him.

02:27:45.000 No one called the police.

02:27:46.000 However, they flipped it.

02:27:48.000 The guy was braiding her in public. 0.51

02:27:50.000 Just screaming at her.

02:27:51.000 They called the police immediately and people stepped in.

02:27:53.000 So please tell me again how women aren't necessarily antagonized all the time. 0.91

02:27:58.000 This is a biased statement.

02:27:59.000 This is very biased.

02:28:01.000 How is it biased?

02:28:04.000 It was literally an experiment that they conducted.

02:28:06.000 No, I agree with you, but I'm saying that's just certain situations.

02:28:11.000 That's certain situations.

02:28:13.000 That's like a vote again.

02:28:15.000 Okay.

02:28:16.000 The conclusion was that I came to was women are able to break men with less consequence. 0.74

02:28:21.000 Okay?

02:28:22.000 Then she says, that's not true because I've been berated.

02:28:24.000 Then I said, okay, your personal experience doesn't reflect reality.

02:28:28.000 And then I used the experiment where they did two different situations.

02:28:31.000 Man berates woman, police called immediately, people step in to separate them. 0.90

02:28:35.000 Woman berates man, even assaults man, no one does anything. 0.98

02:28:39.000 So I gave that experiment.

02:28:42.000 To solidify my stance that women can berate men with less consequences than men berating women.

02:28:47.000 I'm not saying it doesn't occur, but what I am saying is that men are more likely to face consequences for berating a woman publicly than a woman berating a man.

02:28:55.000 Okay.

02:28:56.000 Which is true.

02:28:57.000 Okay.

02:28:57.000 Yeah.

02:28:58.000 So therefore, your point is incorrect.

02:29:00.000 No, it's not.

02:29:01.000 No, it's not, baby.

02:29:02.000 You might have experienced, but that does not reflect the general consensus in reality.

02:29:05.000 It does, though, because it's females out here that experience that, too.

02:29:09.000 Yeah, but the majority don't.

02:29:10.000 We're not normalizing the women that go do that on a daily basis. 1.00

02:29:14.000 See, you're making this an emotional argument.

02:29:16.000 I'm not making it emotional.

02:29:17.000 I'm just asking.

02:29:18.000 You're attributing it right back to yourself.

02:29:20.000 I'm not attributing it.

02:29:21.000 I'm genuinely asking the question.

02:29:23.000 I'm telling you that.

02:29:24.000 What's the question?

02:29:25.000 Like, how do y'all know?

02:29:27.000 I just told you.

02:29:28.000 When the experiment was done, men were stopped immediately.

02:29:32.000 But you're saying it don't matter.

02:29:34.000 How do you know it don't matter?

02:29:36.000 What?

02:29:37.000 You're saying her personal point doesn't matter.

02:29:40.000 Whatever she went through, it doesn't matter because of the social experiment.

02:29:44.000 Just because my personal experience is...

02:29:47.000 Take yourself out of your own experience for one moment and say, okay, cool.

02:29:50.000 Generally speaking, if this happens in public, what's going to happen?

02:29:53.000 They didn't experiment.

02:29:54.000 You saw the results.

02:29:55.000 So your experience, while it may be valid for you, is valid for every other girl.

02:29:59.000 We're just saying, matter of fact, public experiment showed.

02:30:02.000 Generally speaking, here's how things play out.

02:30:03.000 And I'm not disagreeing with that.

02:30:05.000 I'm not disagreeing with that at all.

02:30:07.000 But I'm just saying, like, don't sit here and say that women can antagonize men and do all this other stuff, but men can't do it, too.

02:30:14.000 Because men can do it, too.

02:30:16.000 Excluding their actions.

02:30:17.000 We never said that they can't do it.

02:30:17.000 They're more likely to be held accountable for doing it, though.

02:30:20.000 Yeah.

02:30:22.000 Right.

02:30:22.000 I agree with you.

02:30:23.000 So what are we arguing here?

02:30:24.000 There's no argument.

02:30:25.000 Thank you.

02:30:26.000 Who said we're arguing?

02:30:27.000 Okay, I don't know what...

02:30:28.000 What was that, bro?

02:30:31.000 What she was doing was trying to validify that it occurred to her and she felt like we were undermining her experience.

02:30:35.000 I wasn't trying to validify it.

02:30:36.000 I was just saying.

02:30:39.000 And then he tried to undermine her experience.

02:30:42.000 No, just because it's insignificant to the overall picture of what we're talking about.

02:30:46.000 I don't feel that he was intentionally trying to disregard what you've been through personally, but I think he's genuinely speaking on the generalization of...

02:30:56.000 I know that.

02:30:57.000 See, this is what I mean. 0.94

02:30:58.000 I don't know if y'all just noticed this, but this is what I mean when I say women are inherently more narcissistic. 1.00

02:31:02.000 Like, I'm saying an objective fact, and from my objective fact, you extrapolate your personal experience and say, this happened to me, so this is what I think happened, how it really goes.

02:31:11.000 And I'm like, that's cool, but your experience is insignificant to the overall conversation.

02:31:15.000 I'm keeping it objective, you're making it subjective.

02:31:18.000 Ladies, notice every time we speak, it's not how we feel.

02:31:20.000 It's like, you know what?

02:31:21.000 Here's reality.

02:31:22.000 Here's how it is. 1.00

02:31:23.000 Women don't like it, but Fuck it. 1.00

02:31:24.000 It's the difference between how men think and how women think. 1.00

02:31:26.000 Y'all are responding with your emotions right now, which proves what I say.

02:31:29.000 Men are logically and rationally sound.

02:31:31.000 Women are emotionally sound. 1.00

02:31:32.000 I said you guys are logic earlier.

02:31:34.000 Remember?

02:31:34.000 Well, I said a lot.

02:31:36.000 Okay.

02:31:36.000 Logic.

02:31:37.000 Yeah, but this podcast has displayed that when we've made logical arguments, you guys responded with emotion or your own personal experience, which is insignificant to the conversation at hand.

02:31:45.000 Yo, let's go to Rumble. 0.99

02:31:46.000 I'm about to go in, nigga. 1.00

02:31:47.000 We got some more chats here. 0.88

02:31:49.000 Okay.

02:31:50.000 So, Jody off the block, 50 bucks.

02:31:50.000 All right.

02:31:53.000 Chris, if you don't get to gas and Tasha from the back...

02:31:55.000 Yardigans?

02:31:56.000 Yardigans.

02:31:58.000 Who do you mean?

02:31:59.000 I'm unaware.

02:32:01.000 King Nelly, the panel is set up from Myron, Marsha, P. Johnson, Aunt Jemima, G.I. Jane, She-Hulk, Cumbrella, Kim Possible, and Fresh.

02:32:11.000 I'll take G.I. Jane. 0.98

02:32:12.000 I'll take Kim Possible.

02:32:14.000 Kim Possible.

02:32:16.000 Because I love Kim Possible.

02:32:20.000 All right, so he's calling you Marsha P. Johnson.

02:32:22.000 Who's that?

02:32:23.000 Aunt Jemima.

02:32:23.000 No, but like, who's that?

02:32:24.000 I don't know.

02:32:25.000 I don't know.

02:32:26.000 Aunt Jemima.

02:32:26.000 Aunt Jemima, that's funny.

02:32:27.000 G-I-J, bro.

02:32:28.000 G-I-J. G-I-J. They called you G-I-J. They called you G-I-J. They called you Cumbrella because of your eyelashes.

02:32:36.000 And they called you Kim Possible.

02:32:38.000 I do lift weights.

02:32:39.000 Yeah, she's impossible.

02:32:40.000 I got long lashes without the lashes.

02:32:42.000 I'm not denying it.

02:32:48.000 It is a little hard to understand her points, but it's fine.

02:32:54.000 Every one of your sentences is like, like, like, like, and I'm just like, okay.

02:33:00.000 You want me to take out all the likes and just give you the skinny?

02:33:04.000 It would be a lot easier to understand you if you did, yes.

02:33:06.000 Well, sometimes you kind of just throw these kind of nonsensical questions so it kind of takes some time to formulate an answer.

02:33:12.000 What question specifically was nonsensical?

02:33:16.000 Why are you asking who deserves a gift more?

02:33:19.000 That doesn't make any sense to me.

02:33:21.000 Who cares about that?

02:33:22.000 For me, who cares about that?

02:33:24.000 Let's both get each other gifts.

02:33:27.000 It is not about you, ma'am. 0.82

02:33:33.000 Generally speaking, a man on Valentine's Day is not the same as a woman on Valentine's Day. 0.96

02:33:38.000 Obviously speaking, who's the day for?

02:33:40.000 Mainly for women.

02:33:41.000 However, if I ask you personally speaking, what do you think?

02:33:44.000 Oh, you know what?

02:33:45.000 My man does a lot for me.

02:33:46.000 I think he deserves a gift.

02:33:47.000 That's your own personal opinion, which I appreciate.

02:33:50.000 We're just saying, generally speaking, who deserves the day more?

02:33:52.000 Women. 0.81

02:33:53.000 But if men put in the work, then give your man a gift.

02:33:56.000 This is a question.

02:33:57.000 Okay.

02:33:58.000 I think the point of the question was to illustrate the I guess, level of reciprocation that women typically don't give back to men in relationships.

02:34:08.000 Pretty much.

02:34:09.000 It was to illustrate that.

02:34:11.000 Got it.

02:34:11.000 And a lot of times to illustrate that, we got to get an answer from you guys first, get a sample, and then respond accordingly.

02:34:17.000 That is the reason why.

02:34:19.000 So it made perfect sense.

02:34:19.000 Okay.

02:34:20.000 That's fine.

02:34:21.000 I just didn't think there was a reason to ask it.

02:34:24.000 Well, I just established why.

02:34:26.000 Hey, well, I don't think there is a reason to answer it.

02:34:28.000 It's a podcast.

02:34:29.000 I mean, it's to get a sample size.

02:34:29.000 You know, answer the question.

02:34:32.000 You did really good.

02:34:32.000 Yeah, it's fine.

02:34:33.000 You did good this podcast, though.

02:34:34.000 You did good.

02:34:34.000 Waylander!

02:34:35.000 Don't let her, man.

02:34:36.000 I don't think it's a reason to answer the question.

02:34:39.000 What's she lying to?

02:34:40.000 She's lying to you! 1.00

02:34:43.000 Alright, guys, come on over to Rumble.

02:34:44.000 Rumble.com slash Fresh and Fit, man. 0.96

02:34:46.000 You're getting terrible, nigga! 1.00

02:34:48.000 Guys, come on over. 0.99

02:34:49.000 Rumble.com slash Fresh and Fit, alright?

02:34:51.000 And then I'll finish reading these chats over there. 0.96

02:34:53.000 I'm about to go in, nigga. 1.00

02:34:54.000 Okay, we got Minnesota Liz here. 1.00

02:34:55.000 As a psychologist slash custody evaluator, I promise you that fresh and fit are correct.

02:35:01.000 You cannot fight nature.

02:35:02.000 You will be happier and safer with making your man happy.

02:35:05.000 Oh, that's coming from a woman, too. 1.00

02:35:06.000 There you go.

02:35:07.000 And a psychologist.

02:35:09.000 Shout out to you.

02:35:11.000 Hey, Marin.

02:35:11.000 Hypothetically speaking, if I were to sell rugs, how much money would it be for the IRS to catch us?

02:35:17.000 Catch on.

02:35:18.000 Yeah, bro, you don't want that.

02:35:20.000 Them 21 USC charges are no joke, my friend.

02:35:23.000 Angel Cardenas, 50 bucks.

02:35:25.000 To the girl in the red, you won't get kicked off the podcast for empowering women, but you will get kicked out for being loud and obnoxious. 0.99

02:35:30.000 You can share your opinion, but don't be disrespectful.

02:35:32.000 Just take a deep breath.

02:35:33.000 You'll be all right.

02:35:35.000 LOL. Thank you.

02:35:36.000 I'm going to take it.

02:35:37.000 IRS. Oh, okay. 0.99

02:35:38.000 Y'all chicks know when Valentine's Day is, but do y'all know when you have to run me my money? 1.00

02:35:44.000 You better pay what you owe or I'm coming for you.

02:35:46.000 Okay, IRS guys.

02:35:52.000 Dilemma.

02:35:53.000 I used to be, and you know, since our questions are nonsense, take this time to come up with a good question, and we'd be happy to answer one of yours.

02:35:59.000 How about that?

02:36:00.000 That's fair.

02:36:01.000 Think about it.

02:36:02.000 Thank you for the opportunity, though.

02:36:04.000 Well, we always turn into ladies to ask at the end. 1.00

02:36:06.000 In case our questions are nonsensical.

02:36:08.000 Hey, I want a lot of you. 1.00

02:36:08.000 You're a pain in ass to deal with, man. 1.00

02:36:10.000 What? 1.00

02:36:11.000 No, it's growing a red hair, man. 1.00

02:36:13.000 Goddamn. 0.99

02:36:13.000 Red hair? 0.99

02:36:14.000 Yes.

02:36:15.000 Why?

02:36:16.000 Because, bro, her questioning, her demeanor, bro, I know why she's single-minded. 1.00

02:36:21.000 Goddamn. 0.99

02:36:23.000 And your girlfriend is where? 1.00

02:36:25.000 Yes.

02:36:26.000 You have a Valentine where?

02:36:28.000 Where's your Valentine?

02:36:30.000 Where is where?

02:36:31.000 He ain't glad.

02:36:33.000 He gonna be crying tomorrow. 1.00

02:36:34.000 Shut up. 0.99

02:36:36.000 Raise your hand if you're with someone right now. 1.00

02:36:40.000 I can be.

02:36:41.000 One girl?

02:36:41.000 I have a Valentine.

02:36:42.000 Who, who, who?

02:36:44.000 Who what?

02:36:46.000 I used to heavily talk to this girl, but she switched up and chose another guy. 1.00

02:36:56.000 That didn't work out, so now she's back.

02:36:58.000 Most certainly not taking her serious after that, but I should play the game and get what I want or just walk away?

02:37:03.000 Just walk away.

02:37:03.000 It depends on you, bro.

02:37:04.000 But honestly speaking, there's two sites here.

02:37:07.000 Myron was going to say just walk away.

02:37:08.000 I'm going to say get what you want, bro. 1.00

02:37:10.000 No, use her for sex and just throw it to the curb. 1.00

02:37:11.000 That's what you do. 1.00

02:37:12.000 Men in society today, that's what I do.

02:37:17.000 Hold on.

02:37:19.000 Whoa, whoa, whoa.

02:37:20.000 Did you guys read the first part of the question?

02:37:23.000 He said he heavily talks to a girl, but she switched up and chose another guy.

02:37:27.000 Okay, so there's action, correct?

02:37:30.000 Correct.

02:37:31.000 So for every action, there's a reaction, correct?

02:37:33.000 Just walk away.

02:37:33.000 There's consequences, aren't there?

02:37:35.000 Mm-hmm.

02:37:35.000 Okay, so in my eyes, she deserves less, and she gets what's coming to her.

02:37:39.000 So just walk away.

02:37:40.000 Okay, so that's how you feel.

02:37:41.000 So how does that make you any better than her, though?

02:37:43.000 How would that make you any better than her?

02:37:46.000 So, okay, she went and chose another guy, and now she's back. 1.00

02:37:49.000 You've accepted her back into your life, and now you're just going to use her for sex. 1.00

02:37:54.000 Well, okay, that's a very female. 0.99

02:37:55.000 I'm not disagreeing with what I am.

02:37:56.000 Well, I'll tell you why you're incorrect here in a second.

02:37:59.000 What you just gave is a very female perspective. 1.00

02:38:01.000 Women rarely, if ever, contribute to the relationships from a financial and, how do I say, time standpoint. 1.00

02:38:07.000 Especially in the courtship process in the beginning.

02:38:09.000 Men have to do all the work. 1.00

02:38:10.000 Men have to do most of the pursuing, most of the work, and invest. 0.81

02:38:13.000 So what I'm saying is that he should recuperate that lost time, get the sex he was trying to get before she picked somebody else, and fight fire with fire.

02:38:21.000 Why not just walk away?

02:38:23.000 Well, that's easy for you to say when you haven't invested any time or money into the relationship, but for men, we always have to invest time or money.

02:38:30.000 Who's to say I didn't invest time and money in the relationship?

02:38:32.000 Y'all don't want the woman to. 1.00

02:38:33.000 And that's ungrateful.

02:38:34.000 Y'all don't want the woman to, though. 1.00

02:38:37.000 Really?

02:38:37.000 Yes, because it's a threat.

02:38:38.000 Most of the time, men tend to want a stay-at-home woman. 1.00

02:38:40.000 They don't want her to go out in the field and then, like, ask her.

02:38:43.000 Here's the reality.

02:38:44.000 If a girl pays for a first date, there's a high likelihood that you're not going to see her for a second one. 1.00

02:38:48.000 That's messed up. 0.99

02:38:51.000 If a woman making too much, she getting treated like shit because now the man is insecure. 0.99

02:38:56.000 Can I ask why? 1.00

02:38:57.000 No, no, no.

02:38:58.000 That's incorrect because A thousand percent.

02:39:01.000 Men feel emosculated when a woman makes more. 0.99

02:39:04.000 I'm telling you.

02:39:05.000 They get threatened. 1.00

02:39:06.000 Now they try to talk to other bitches that don't even matter to try to build their manhood back up. 1.00

02:39:10.000 You guys say this? 1.00

02:39:11.000 Appreciate me, motherfucker. 0.99

02:39:12.000 But the reality is when a woman makes more money than a guy or she's significantly financially better off than him, she doesn't even give him a chance. 0.99

02:39:20.000 Or if she does, it doesn't last.

02:39:21.000 Women don't do well when they're in a breadwinner position with a man. 1.00

02:39:24.000 Because then the man starts doing insecure things because he feels like, oh damn, I can't reach. 0.98

02:39:29.000 I'm saying he doesn't even get the chance is what I'm trying to say. 0.96

02:39:32.000 And also that man.

02:39:32.000 But what if you treat him like a king?

02:39:34.000 He can't respect you because you know why?

02:39:36.000 You're leading him.

02:39:38.000 And women don't build. 1.00

02:39:39.000 They move in.

02:39:39.000 Like you guys are saying all these like situations where I'm in and blah, blah, blah.

02:39:43.000 Women typically don't pick men that are bums. 1.00

02:39:45.000 And if they do, it never lasts. 0.97

02:39:46.000 Let me ask you.

02:39:47.000 You know how you said that if a woman was to take a man out on a date, well, if I was to go out on a date and she pays for her meal for everything first, most likely it's not going to be a second date. 0.90

02:39:57.000 Why is that?

02:39:58.000 If you were to go out on a date with a girl and she paid for the date, you're not going out with her again for a second date?

02:40:07.000 It's not up to the man.

02:40:07.000 What I'm saying is that if the woman pays for the first date, she more than likely won't go out with him again.

02:40:12.000 Okay.

02:40:13.000 Let's be honest here.

02:40:14.000 Like, I mean, are we gonna...

02:40:16.000 It depends.

02:40:17.000 No, honestly, let me...

02:40:19.000 If it's the girl asking...

02:40:21.000 See, she's even saying it, bro.

02:40:22.000 If we line up 100 chicks...

02:40:24.000 Yeah.

02:40:25.000 95 of them are going to feel some type of way if she's got to pay for the first day and probably won't go out with them again. 0.92

02:40:30.000 I'm serious.

02:40:32.000 Women rarely ever invest in men in the beginning. 1.00

02:40:35.000 Women don't do that. 1.00

02:40:36.000 So what I'm saying, going back to answering her question, why would you do that?

02:40:39.000 Why not just walk away?

02:40:40.000 It's easy for women to say that because most of the time women invest little to nothing in the beginning of relationships. 1.00

02:40:46.000 Men invest everything.

02:40:48.000 So what I'm saying is that recoup what you lost. 1.00

02:40:50.000 Fuck her and toss her to the side of the road. 1.00

02:40:52.000 She deserves it. 1.00

02:40:55.000 She threw him to the curb.

02:40:57.000 Yo, why do y'all not want to deal with consequences?

02:41:01.000 See, this is what I'm trying to say.

02:41:04.000 Y'all expect to treat men poorly and then not get treated poorly back.

02:41:08.000 It is crazy to me how women don't understand the concept of consequences. 1.00

02:41:11.000 Y'all men tend to think as revenge.

02:41:14.000 Y'all revengeful.

02:41:15.000 Y'all don't think just to reciprocate the energy.

02:41:17.000 Y'all tend to go outside.

02:41:18.000 Did she reciprocate?

02:41:19.000 Nope.

02:41:21.000 Come on, man.

02:41:22.000 Like, what's going on here, bro? 1.00

02:41:23.000 The only way I'm taking somebody out to eat, I'm not doing it the first date, is once I appreciate you and know you deserve that shit. 0.99

02:41:31.000 I'm taking you to the five star. 1.00

02:41:32.000 They slicing the meat off the joint.

02:41:34.000 We're picking it up right there.

02:41:35.000 But not the first date.

02:41:36.000 But not the first date, because now I'm wearing a strap on.

02:41:40.000 No.

02:41:40.000 That was a whole argument.

02:41:42.000 I can honestly say, like, When a man wants to take a female on a date and he's the one that's bringing it up like, hey, I'm going to take you on a date, he's obligated to pay because when you bring it up, you want to take me out.

02:41:52.000 So obviously you're obligated to pay.

02:41:53.000 That's exactly what we said.

02:41:54.000 But if I'm trying to take you out, I'm going to pay.

02:41:56.000 You didn't necessarily say that.

02:41:57.000 Hold on.

02:41:58.000 You just said you take men out, right?

02:42:01.000 I said if I want to take a man out, yeah. 1.00

02:42:04.000 When is the last time you actually did that?

02:42:06.000 The last time you did that?

02:42:07.000 The last time I was in a relationship.

02:42:09.000 Which was?

02:42:10.000 Well, no, you were in a relationship, but did you take him out on the first date?

02:42:14.000 Don't cap.

02:42:15.000 No.

02:42:16.000 So what are you arguing for?

02:42:17.000 She's just been making a bunch of imaginary arguments.

02:42:22.000 I'm asking questions.

02:42:24.000 I'm genuinely asking you questions.

02:42:25.000 Nobody's arguing.

02:42:27.000 No, I'm asking him a question because he said that. 0.98

02:42:29.000 I fucking forgot what he said. 0.95

02:42:31.000 But I'm just asking questions. 0.99

02:42:32.000 Nobody's arguing.

02:42:33.000 Nobody's arguing.

02:42:34.000 I just want to know where this is going.

02:42:36.000 I'm just asking questions based on his answers.

02:42:39.000 Yeah, they ask him like, Women don't pay for first dates, and if they do, there's a high likelihood that you will never get a second date, period.

02:42:45.000 Because where did that even come from?

02:42:46.000 Like, where did that get birth from?

02:42:48.000 Like, I understand taking your men on a date, but like...

02:42:52.000 I never...

02:42:53.000 This is me truly asking.

02:42:55.000 Like, when has that ever happened?

02:42:57.000 Your actions.

02:42:58.000 Wait, when has whatever happened?

02:42:59.000 Like, a woman taking a man on a first date. 0.96

02:43:01.000 I've never even seen that or even heard it in conversation.

02:43:04.000 It can happen where a woman's successful, very masculine. 1.00

02:43:07.000 Alright, let me ask the panel real quick.

02:43:08.000 I want to see how much they're paying attention.

02:43:09.000 Do you guys even know how we got here?

02:43:12.000 You came out of the canals that we have.

02:43:14.000 No, no.

02:43:15.000 How do we get to this topic just now?

02:43:17.000 Oh.

02:43:21.000 Do y'all know why we're even on this topic right now?

02:43:28.000 We were talking about loving dating from the get, right?

02:43:31.000 No, we were talking about women not coming to terms with accepting consequences. 0.95

02:43:37.000 It was something about the first date.

02:43:39.000 That's what I heard.

02:43:40.000 Let me walk this back real fast.

02:43:44.000 Clearly, you guys weren't paying attention.

02:43:46.000 What happened was, the guy said, should I take this girl back after she curbed me for another man?

02:43:51.000 Right?

02:43:52.000 That's what happened. 1.00

02:43:54.000 Then I said, yes, go ahead and have sex with her and kick her to the curb. 1.00

02:43:59.000 All of you guys responded, typically like females. 1.00

02:44:01.000 Oh my god, that's fucked up! 0.99

02:44:02.000 No, I'm sorry, I agree with you. 0.99

02:44:03.000 I didn't say that.

02:44:04.000 I agree with you.

02:44:04.000 I'm sorry.

02:44:07.000 Grab me up.

02:44:07.000 Do what you gotta do.

02:44:08.000 I agree with y'all.

02:44:09.000 Okay, so I said, kick her to the side of the road. 1.00

02:44:11.000 Then she responds, well, why?

02:44:13.000 And then I explained deeply that men typically have to invest the majority of time, resources, and money in the beginning of courtship, which I assume he did, which is why he's not happy about her going to another guy. 0.99

02:44:23.000 So I said, to respond to that, she fucked you over, now it's time to fuck her and throw her to the side of the road, to which you guys all disagreed with. 0.99

02:44:31.000 I'm sorry. 1.00

02:44:32.000 That's how we arrived here.

02:44:34.000 Too wrong to make a right.

02:44:35.000 You feel me?

02:44:37.000 Because at that point...

02:44:38.000 No consequences to your actions, right?

02:44:39.000 Why would you take a girl back? 1.00

02:44:41.000 Why would you take a female back? 1.00

02:44:42.000 I just explained it.

02:44:44.000 Look, why would you take...

02:44:45.000 Because he invested money in time.

02:44:48.000 That's why he's taking it back to get sex to the side of the road.

02:44:52.000 Young fella, you are a saint.

02:44:54.000 And when you take a female back that chose someone else over you, you know that other relationship she chose over you didn't work. 1.00

02:45:00.000 Because she clearly was a piece of shit. 1.00

02:45:02.000 So you going back to her and trying to what? 1.00

02:45:05.000 Rekindle? 0.81

02:45:06.000 Run through?

02:45:07.000 Run through, homie. 1.00

02:45:08.000 Run through.

02:45:09.000 You're repeating what he's just saying.

02:45:11.000 It's cool.

02:45:12.000 I don't care.

02:45:12.000 I'm agreeing.

02:45:15.000 Who else for your opinion?

02:45:16.000 I'm Rashida.

02:45:18.000 Rashida.

02:45:19.000 This is incredible.

02:45:20.000 I'm a lawnmower.

02:45:25.000 I heard he's a milk dad.

02:45:27.000 I don't know.

02:45:28.000 I have many female friends that work as travel nurses and they all admitted the men blows them out the water with overtime. 0.98

02:45:34.000 Even in my career in container logistics, which is blue collar, the women in my job don't work as much as the men in overtime. 1.00

02:45:40.000 This is for your argument with the wage gap.

02:45:44.000 I mean, men do women overtime. 0.99

02:45:46.000 This isn't even like disputable.

02:45:48.000 Men work more than women do and work harder than women do in every metric of labor. 1.00

02:45:54.000 I wasn't talking about who works harder, who does more.

02:45:57.000 But that's important.

02:45:59.000 Because that directly dictates how much you get paid, which is the whole argument for the wage gap.

02:46:03.000 Well, I wasn't saying, like, how much you get paid, necessarily.

02:46:07.000 I was saying, like, typically, like, the studies say, a woman makes 75 cents for every dollar a man makes.

02:46:16.000 That's the point that I was trying to get at.

02:46:17.000 Now, who works more?

02:46:19.000 I'm telling you, it's incorrect.

02:46:21.000 They say a woman earns 75 cents on every dollar a man makes. 0.94

02:46:23.000 That's not true.

02:46:25.000 Because, again, they don't account for...

02:46:27.000 Okay, let me ask you a question, so I can get your basic knowledge.

02:46:29.000 Do you know where that study comes from?

02:46:32.000 I don't know, so long ago.

02:46:33.000 It was in college.

02:46:35.000 That's the problem.

02:46:36.000 That study is aggregated from all working men versus all working women.

02:46:41.000 It does not account for career, education, length of time worked, experience, or any other professional accolades.

02:46:47.000 It only takes full-time working men versus full-time working women. 0.97

02:46:51.000 That's why the women get paid less, because it's all working people. 1.00

02:46:55.000 But when you actually account for the variables that matter...

02:46:59.000 Education, experience, etc.

02:47:01.000 The wage gap evaporates, which is what I was describing before.

02:47:05.000 And there's a multitude of reasons why men get paid more.

02:47:08.000 So that study that you're talking about is built upon faulty data.

02:47:12.000 You cannot compare all working men to all working women because you're not accounting for critical factors that influence how much they get paid.

02:47:20.000 Make sense?

02:47:21.000 My question is, why are we both spewing statistics, and I'm not citing my sources, and you're not citing your sources, but your sources are right and mine are wrong?

02:47:30.000 Because the wage gap has been debunked since the 1970s.

02:47:33.000 I don't hear any of your sources.

02:47:38.000 You're talking about studies, experiments, whatever.

02:47:40.000 I'm not hearing any authors.

02:47:41.000 I have a book that literally has all the studies here from the Department of Labor.

02:47:46.000 A government website from the United States that accounts for labor from the two genders.

02:47:52.000 And I just quite literally read it for you earlier, the top 10 jobs that men work versus the top 10 jobs that women work.

02:47:56.000 Mm-hmm.

02:47:57.000 That is indisputable.

02:47:59.000 And then also, again, I'm telling you where your study stems from.

02:48:02.000 It comes from all working men, from all working women. 0.99

02:48:06.000 The only reason I'm able to rebut and refute your argument is because I know what your argument is.

02:48:10.000 And I have all my studies here.

02:48:12.000 I have a whole link tree on this.

02:48:13.000 The wage gap has been debunked since the 1970s.

02:48:16.000 It's just common sense.

02:48:18.000 I'll look into it.

02:48:19.000 It's not necessarily common sense because common sense isn't that common.

02:48:22.000 I can see that.

02:48:23.000 Because if you could actually hire women for less, no one would employ men. 0.95

02:48:29.000 It's about profit and businesses.

02:48:31.000 If I was a business owner, I would never hire men if I could actually get away with paying them 80 cents on the dollar.

02:48:36.000 I have a question.

02:48:38.000 No, no more questions.

02:48:39.000 The wage gap does not exist.

02:48:40.000 It's been debunked a million times.

02:48:42.000 Women get paid less because they deserve less. 1.00

02:48:44.000 That is why.

02:48:45.000 That is the truth.

02:48:45.000 They don't work as hard and they don't work jobs that create infrastructure, which are the higher paying jobs.

02:48:51.000 And you're allowed to think that.

02:48:53.000 It's not that I think, this is a fact.

02:48:55.000 From the government?

02:48:57.000 He's one guy, but it's a fact.

02:48:58.000 I'll look into your sources and I'll consider whether it's fact efficient.

02:49:03.000 Yeah, I'll consider it because I'm not going to believe everything that somebody just tells me.

02:49:07.000 I'm like, I haven't read this book.

02:49:08.000 I haven't read any sources.

02:49:10.000 I'm going to read a part of it real quick.

02:49:13.000 Women were, on average, only net economic contributors for 15 years of their lives compared to 30 years for men.

02:49:17.000 So they required men and generally independent women to pick up the slack through direct income transfers or added taxation. 1.00

02:49:22.000 As a result, the total of women's net economic contribution was tallied at equaled negative $140,000.

02:49:28.000 And that was in New Zealand, another first world country just like the United States, because the study would never work in the United States.

02:49:33.000 OK, so basically, OK, men give way more economic value than women do. 0.92

02:49:42.000 Women are net negative because what I told you before, they go into career fields that don't generate revenue to the same degree. 1.00

02:49:46.000 They're social science type stuff and they don't create infrastructure and they're not laborious or risk taking.

02:49:51.000 They're not laborious.

02:49:53.000 Yes, as in difficult to do physically.

02:49:56.000 Women don't go into physical manual labor jobs. 1.00

02:49:59.000 Can't you say the same about men in jobs where you need to have some sort of emotional intelligence?

02:50:05.000 Wouldn't it be harder for them and it's easier for women? 1.00

02:50:09.000 But unfortunately, those aren't the jobs that pay as much.

02:50:13.000 They might not pay as much, but there's still a demand in society nonetheless.

02:50:17.000 Well, you and every other girl wants that job. 1.00

02:50:19.000 Versus no one wants to be an Alaskan fisherman or an offshore driller.

02:50:22.000 You think everybody wants to be a social worker?

02:50:24.000 Yes.

02:50:25.000 That's a lot of paperwork involved.

02:50:27.000 It's overwhelmingly female. 0.98

02:50:29.000 You made the choice.

02:50:30.000 It might be overwhelmingly female, but it's not necessarily like... 1.00

02:50:35.000 Easier are the best thing in the world either. 1.00

02:50:37.000 You deal with a lot of tough shit. 1.00

02:50:38.000 Did someone put a gun to your head and say you got to be a social worker? 1.00

02:50:40.000 And you say, you know what?

02:50:40.000 I want to do this.

02:50:41.000 You go in to help people.

02:50:43.000 Well, yeah, I made a choice.

02:50:45.000 I didn't know exactly what went into social work.

02:50:47.000 I didn't go to college to study social work.

02:50:49.000 Well, you can leave now.

02:50:50.000 Huh?

02:50:50.000 You can leave if you want to, right?

02:50:51.000 It's a choice.

02:50:52.000 I mean, yeah, I could.

02:50:55.000 So I want to look into other jobs for that.

02:50:56.000 Okay, you're missing the biggest point here.

02:50:58.000 Okay.

02:50:58.000 Women aren't lining up to do hard jobs.

02:51:00.000 Period.

02:51:01.000 That's a fact.

02:51:03.000 Not a lot of women, you mean, right? 0.99

02:51:04.000 Not a lot of women. 1.00

02:51:05.000 Not no women. 1.00

02:51:06.000 Because my friend is a plumber.

02:51:07.000 She got her own team and she running it. 0.99

02:51:09.000 She puts together new modern day age.

02:51:12.000 Fantastic.

02:51:13.000 But she is an exception to the rule.

02:51:15.000 Yeah, but let's not exclude her.

02:51:16.000 So that's one woman that you know. 1.00

02:51:18.000 But that's not exclude.

02:51:19.000 No, no, no.

02:51:19.000 But look at all your friends that are women.

02:51:21.000 That's only one.

02:51:22.000 And it's statistically insignificant.

02:51:24.000 I have a woman. 0.75

02:51:25.000 My family are police officers.

02:51:26.000 And don't even talk trash on those cameras because we're a wreck.

02:51:30.000 But bottom line, my family police officers.

02:51:32.000 I got a female cousin. 1.00

02:51:34.000 She's a police officer in New York.

02:51:36.000 I got two family members that have been in the Philadelphia police district over 20 plus years.

02:51:41.000 That's fantastic.

02:51:42.000 You know what I'm saying? 1.00

02:51:42.000 And they doing heavy duty shit. 1.00

02:51:44.000 That's great. 0.99

02:51:44.000 But once again, we make an objective statement. 0.99

02:51:47.000 And what do you do?

02:51:48.000 Attribute it right back to yourself.

02:51:49.000 I know this.

02:51:50.000 I know that.

02:51:50.000 That's cool, but the majority are still overwhelmingly men.

02:51:54.000 Once again, take yourself out of it.

02:51:55.000 Okay, generally speaking, what's happening in the world.

02:51:58.000 So anyway, you were saying?

02:51:59.000 Can I ask a question?

02:52:00.000 At this point, we derailed so much, I don't even know what I was saying.

02:52:03.000 What was I responding to exactly?

02:52:05.000 See, that proves my point that you're arguing to argue.

02:52:07.000 I did that as a test.

02:52:08.000 I'm not arguing to argue.

02:52:09.000 Yeah, you are.

02:52:10.000 Because you just don't want to be wrong.

02:52:13.000 The wage gap is a myth.

02:52:16.000 The wage gap is a myth.

02:52:17.000 It does not exist.

02:52:19.000 Women get paid less because of their choices, not because they're inherently women. 1.00

02:52:24.000 Just hold it up.

02:52:25.000 I'll give it to you.

02:52:27.000 You do realize that you don't even know where your arguments stem from.

02:52:32.000 You didn't even know that that study, women get 80 cents on the dollar, is from a faulty background. 1.00

02:52:38.000 You didn't even know that.

02:52:39.000 Because why would I be taught faulty information for a degree that I paid for?

02:52:44.000 Do you think they're going to teach me fake stuff like in college and that kind of stuff?

02:52:47.000 Yes.

02:52:49.000 Listen, I have a college degree myself.

02:52:52.000 I was in a professional world.

02:52:53.000 I was a special agent before this with the government.

02:52:55.000 Okay?

02:52:57.000 I'm a college-educated guy as well.

02:52:59.000 But I'm sitting here letting you know that college did not teach me a lot of the things that I know now that made me a multimillionaire.

02:53:04.000 Everything after I left college and the workforce.

02:53:07.000 They don't teach you how to invest.

02:53:09.000 They don't teach you about how taxes really work.

02:53:11.000 They don't teach you how to save a bunch of money by buying real estate.

02:53:15.000 They don't teach you how to properly invest.

02:53:17.000 They tell you to put a bunch of money into a 401k, which doesn't pay you back, and then hope to retire on $200,000 a year.

02:53:22.000 Sorry, $200,000 forever on a fixed interest rate.

02:53:27.000 Colleges perpetually underprepare people for real life. 1.00

02:53:31.000 Facts.

02:53:32.000 Facts.

02:53:34.000 Rockefeller said it himself.

02:53:35.000 He wanted a world full of workers, not thinkers.

02:53:38.000 No, yeah.

02:53:39.000 A thousand percent.

02:53:40.000 We're being trained to be exploited.

02:53:42.000 A thousand percent.

02:53:43.000 So why would you believe college indoctrination over I'm telling you how the world really works?

02:53:47.000 See, college sets up women to feel like victims, but the reality is y'all aren't victims.

02:53:51.000 You just make poor decisions when it comes to career choice and education. 0.97

02:53:54.000 And then you get paid less, deservedly so, because you guys go into dumb career fields. 1.00

02:53:58.000 No offense, but if you look at all the majors that are useless, dominated by women. 1.00

02:54:03.000 Women's studies, psychology, unless you have a PhD, it's a useless degree. 1.00

02:54:09.000 Political science. 0.97

02:54:11.000 Useless majors. 0.96

02:54:11.000 They're not going to get you a job. 0.96

02:54:12.000 Why not accounting?

02:54:14.000 But they're not going to get you a job?

02:54:16.000 Are you serious?

02:54:17.000 With a bachelor's degree, no.

02:54:19.000 I literally have a job with two of those majors.

02:54:23.000 Okay, you got one, but do most people go ahead and get a job with those majors in their career field?

02:54:29.000 Overwhelmingly, no.

02:54:31.000 It's sad, but...

02:54:32.000 You have to get higher education a lot of times.

02:54:33.000 You want to major in psychology, you need to become a psychologist, get a PhD.

02:54:36.000 Yeah, to make more money, but it's not necessarily impossible.

02:54:40.000 You could be a clinical coordinator, you could be a case manager like me, like, you can do all that kind of stuff with just a bachelor's.

02:54:47.000 So I'm not sure what you're trying to say with that.

02:54:48.000 That's cool, but most people can't get a job with just a bachelor's.

02:54:50.000 They have to go into higher education to be able to secure a job in that career field when it comes to the social sciences.

02:54:54.000 That's true, but don't tell me that it's not, that it's useless either, is what I'm saying. 0.90

02:54:59.000 In general, it's useless.

02:55:00.000 Just because you are successful at it doesn't mean that other people are going to be successful at it.

02:55:05.000 I have a criminal justice degree. 0.64

02:55:06.000 I am happy to say it's a useless degree.

02:55:08.000 But it was a means to an end for me to get the job that I wanted.

02:55:10.000 But I can't sit here and say, well, you can't tell me it's useless because it worked for me. 0.98

02:55:14.000 That's a ridiculous and narcissistic point of view. 0.98

02:55:16.000 It works for a lot of people. 0.99

02:55:18.000 How do you know?

02:55:20.000 My coworkers all did the same thing as me.

02:55:22.000 They all studied the same thing as me.

02:55:24.000 They all make the same much as me. 1.00

02:55:25.000 Oh, so I made dumb choices? 1.00

02:55:27.000 Stand your ground, baby. 1.00

02:55:28.000 Stand your ground.

02:55:29.000 What do you mean?

02:55:31.000 You just said it, right?

02:55:32.000 You do social work.

02:55:33.000 Yes.

02:55:34.000 I think that's great.

02:55:35.000 Once again, does it pay a lot?

02:55:36.000 No.

02:55:37.000 But that was your choice, right? 0.90

02:55:38.000 But you're going to tell me that it's useless, too?

02:55:39.000 No, I'm just saying... 0.99

02:55:41.000 Y'all called it a useless job. 0.92

02:55:42.000 I'm saying... 0.77

02:55:43.000 What he's saying is it doesn't pay a lot.

02:55:45.000 Yeah, you made a choice of what I'm not feeling.

02:55:46.000 And when it comes to overall society, it's not as important.

02:55:49.000 It doesn't create infrastructure.

02:55:51.000 It's not as vital as the other professions that we discussed.

02:55:56.000 It's respectable.

02:55:57.000 I think it's a great thing you're doing, but if you're looking at money standpoint for what's vital to the society, it's okay, but it's not mandatory.

02:56:06.000 And you also got to keep in mind, there's a million sociology and psychology majors that are women that want to get into that career field. 1.00

02:56:12.000 So therefore, it lowers the cost of labor because there's more applicants in the pool versus if you want to be an engineer, you want to be a rocket scientist, whatever.

02:56:22.000 Not many people can do that or have the patience to go to school for that long.

02:56:25.000 Therefore, they're paid more.

02:56:26.000 Okay, so what feminism has done is it's cut wages because now you have double the workforce so I can pay them less. 1.00

02:56:32.000 Yeah.

02:56:34.000 Okay.

02:56:34.000 I mean, do you not?

02:56:36.000 Okay, sure.

02:56:39.000 Lost souls.

02:56:40.000 Either way.

02:56:41.000 I mean, you're just wrong.

02:56:43.000 I'm sorry.

02:56:43.000 I just got to say it.

02:56:44.000 Sometimes you got to tell people they're wrong.

02:56:45.000 You're just wrong.

02:56:45.000 There is no wage gap.

02:56:46.000 It's a myth.

02:56:47.000 I just debunked it systematically.

02:56:49.000 Wrong.

02:56:49.000 You don't even know where your argument came from that it comes from all working men versus all working women was disingenuous way to look at it.

02:56:55.000 Wrong.

02:56:55.000 And women earn less because they deserve less.

02:56:57.000 Because the difference between you and me is that you came today prepared with all these facts and stuff.

02:57:01.000 I just came today, invited to a podcast.

02:57:03.000 I hardly knew what the topic was even about.

02:57:05.000 I'm just speaking about what I know, my experience, my education.

02:57:09.000 I'm not even just speaking from experience because y'all don't want to hear about experiences here.

02:57:12.000 Y'all don't want to hear about personal feelings.

02:57:14.000 I'm talking about what I've learned.

02:57:15.000 The key is to...

02:57:16.000 Here's the thing.

02:57:16.000 If you don't know about something or there's someone else that knows more than you, You're better off being quiet and learning versus trying to make an argument on a moot point that doesn't exist or is incorrect.

02:57:26.000 Why did you invite me on the podcast and give me a microphone?

02:57:28.000 I'm going to call you out because you said earlier before the show, you came prepared.

02:57:31.000 Do you not hear that on the show?

02:57:33.000 You said it yourself.

02:57:34.000 You came prepared because of your career.

02:57:36.000 I heard it earlier.

02:57:37.000 I failed terribly.

02:57:40.000 I feel like this panel would beg to differ.

02:57:43.000 Bro, I'm prepared for this.

02:57:46.000 He has a good career.

02:57:47.000 I wasn't even hyping it up that much.

02:57:49.000 I was saying that I know stuff about the subject, but I'm not saying...

02:57:52.000 Ignorance isn't an excuse.

02:57:53.000 If I decide to sell drugs and then I get caught by the police and say, yo, bro, I didn't know cocaine was illegal.

02:57:59.000 My bad. 1.00

02:57:59.000 They're going to look at me like, stupid. 1.00

02:58:01.000 And I'm going to do 20 years in jail. 1.00

02:58:03.000 Ignorance is never an excuse.

02:58:04.000 If you don't know, then just don't say anything.

02:58:06.000 It's cool.

02:58:06.000 We get it.

02:58:07.000 But to make an argument in bad faith, knowing that you're wrong, right?

02:58:10.000 And then even in the face of statistics and facts, that your own argument comes from a faulty detail.

02:58:15.000 I mean, bruh, like, it is what it is.

02:58:18.000 It's that you want me to pull out statistics that are down, like, to a T, as if, like, you want me to whip them out, you want me to pull out the authors, you want me to pull out everything.

02:58:26.000 I'm not going to do that for you, because I'm not writing a paper.

02:58:29.000 I'm in a podcast, and I'm just telling you what I know.

02:58:31.000 So you're just talking to talk, then?

02:58:33.000 You're not able to actually back up your arguments.

02:58:37.000 Did you want me to come to this show just to sit and not speak?

02:58:42.000 No, no, no, you can speak, but you've got to be able to entertain a fact when you're wrong.

02:58:46.000 And you are incorrect in this case.

02:58:47.000 I've accepted certain things that I'm like, or not necessarily wrong in, but I've agreed. 0.91

02:58:53.000 No, you're wrong.

02:58:54.000 But throughout this podcast, I've agreed with you on a lot of things.

02:58:59.000 I'm talking about this wage gap thing right now.

02:59:00.000 Because this is an argument that a lot of feminists make that is incorrect. 1.00

02:59:05.000 I guess we just have different sources.

02:59:08.000 That's just what it is.

02:59:09.000 Your sources are incorrect.

02:59:09.000 I just told you where they came from.

02:59:11.000 See, the difference is I understand your argument to a T. I know this argument because I've heard it a million times from feminists just like you, sitting in that same chair. 1.00

02:59:18.000 Oh, wage gap, 80 cents on the dollar!

02:59:21.000 I actually went and looked at it.

02:59:22.000 It comes from all working men versus all working women. 0.99

02:59:25.000 You didn't even know that, but I did.

02:59:26.000 Okay, then I'll take another look at the statistics.

02:59:28.000 No, just take that out.

02:59:29.000 What about you?

02:59:31.000 I think you're listening to him, but I don't really think you're hearing him.

02:59:37.000 And I think the moment that he used the word useless, it was just kind of like, I can just I don't want to say, yeah, but it was, like, you kind of blocked out any and everything that he was saying.

02:59:47.000 I feel like if you actively kind of, like, listen to his perspective, rather than, like, seeing it through, like, an emotional standpoint, I think, like, you would actually kind of, like, see his perspective more.

02:59:57.000 The thing is, I don't feel like I'm taking it personally.

03:00:01.000 Like, I don't feel triggered.

03:00:02.000 Like, I'm not sitting here crying.

03:00:03.000 I'm not raising my voice.

03:00:04.000 I'm not doing any of that.

03:00:06.000 Like, I'm just here, like, listening, and I'm giving my point of view.

03:00:10.000 But I'm not here telling, like, The difference between him and I, I'm not here and I'm not being like, you're wrong.

03:00:15.000 Well, this is wrong because this is not on the other.

03:00:18.000 You can have a certain set of information.

03:00:20.000 I can have a certain set of information.

03:00:22.000 Two people can run two studies that are almost identical and produce different results.

03:00:27.000 And that's where literature reviews come from and stuff like that.

03:00:30.000 You've got to compile different...

03:00:32.000 But your study's incorrect and I already proved that.

03:00:34.000 I know your study at the point.

03:00:36.000 He knows your study.

03:00:38.000 Oh my god, dude.

03:00:39.000 It was like an example study that I just remembered from years ago.

03:00:43.000 I didn't come here equipped with statistics.

03:00:46.000 Wait, pause.

03:00:47.000 Hit the live, Chris.

03:00:48.000 What?

03:00:49.000 The live chat.

03:00:50.000 Oh, actually, no.

03:00:51.000 My bad.

03:00:52.000 My bad.

03:00:52.000 Sorry, go ahead.

03:00:53.000 Sorry, go ahead.

03:00:54.000 No, go ahead, Chris.

03:00:54.000 No, but what he's saying is he knows your study and he knows it better than you because you said years ago, yeah, I knew my study.

03:01:01.000 But he said, oh yeah, I know your study because many girls came on with the same study. 0.98

03:01:05.000 So here's what you're trying to say.

03:01:06.000 Here's what I know about your study.

03:01:08.000 And I know it to a T because I've actually done research on your study.

03:01:11.000 And you're saying, oh yeah, it's been years ago.

03:01:13.000 So he's trying to help you out.

03:01:14.000 So if you don't know the study, just come back next time with your research.

03:01:19.000 See, the difference is I listen to understand.

03:01:22.000 I'm listening to you.

03:01:23.000 You're just hearing me.

03:01:24.000 Because I listen, understand, comprehend.

03:01:27.000 That's how I'm able to systematically debunk your argument.

03:01:30.000 You, on the other hand, you're just hearing me and responding because how you feel.

03:01:33.000 And I'm telling you what's real.

03:01:35.000 I don't know.

03:01:36.000 I don't feel any type of way.

03:01:39.000 I don't know what feeling you guys are picking up on.

03:01:41.000 I don't feel any type of way.

03:01:42.000 I'm just telling you what I know.

03:01:45.000 You don't feel like it's...

03:01:46.000 You feel like you're saying it's wrong?

03:01:47.000 It is wrong.

03:01:48.000 It's wrong.

03:01:48.000 Okay, fine.

03:01:48.000 Fuck it.

03:01:49.000 It is wrong. 1.00

03:01:50.000 It's not that I feel that it is wrong.

03:01:52.000 Okay, sure thing.

03:01:53.000 I'll make sure that from this point on, I will only speak on things that I know are absolutely facts and that I know the author.

03:02:04.000 Intelligent people typically don't talk on topics that they don't understand or know, or when met with someone that does actually know, try to argue with them in bad faith.

03:02:12.000 Facts.

03:02:13.000 That's why I stay quiet.

03:02:14.000 That's facts.

03:02:15.000 That's some things.

03:02:17.000 I literally wrote a book on this, so you're not going to win.

03:02:19.000 I know for a fact how the wage gap goes.

03:02:22.000 I'm not going to be able to make a book that said women deserve less and not be able to back up my stats very tightly. 1.00

03:02:28.000 So because you wrote a book you know more?

03:02:31.000 Yes, because I actually had to study it, unlike you.

03:02:33.000 Research.

03:02:34.000 And I know it's going to face a lot of scrutiny, so I had to make it in a way where it would be able to stand scrutiny.

03:02:40.000 With peer-reviewed studies, etc.

03:02:42.000 That women earn less, not because of their gender, but because of their personal choice when it comes to education, what they decide to go into in the workforce. 0.76

03:02:49.000 Just hold it up, man.

03:02:49.000 I'm trying to go home.

03:02:53.000 Somebody else was trying to say something.

03:02:57.000 No?

03:02:57.000 Okay.

03:02:58.000 I mean, I had a question.

03:02:59.000 Alright, go ahead and hit the question.

03:03:00.000 Go ahead.

03:03:01.000 It was nothing important.

03:03:02.000 I just wanted to know if, like, y'all got a snack or something in my stomach over here.

03:03:06.000 For real?

03:03:06.000 Okay, let's end the...

03:03:07.000 We're trying to end it.

03:03:08.000 You can ask questions.

03:03:10.000 Faith Mahad Farad says, Honest truth is, a woman need only to grow up to a level of physical maturity to be accepted by society as grown up.

03:03:17.000 A man, however, is ridiculed way after the checkpoint.

03:03:21.000 His growing up depends on a whole other set of things to be accepted by society.

03:03:24.000 Hmm.

03:03:25.000 That's a good point.

03:03:26.000 I'll add to that.

03:03:28.000 It was 50.

03:03:29.000 I think women don't mature until they stop getting sexual attention. 1.00

03:03:33.000 More of a controversial take.

03:03:34.000 Say that again, Brock.

03:03:36.000 I said women don't mature until they stop getting sexual attention from the opposite gender. 1.00

03:03:43.000 Why do you believe that? 0.99

03:03:44.000 Women don't mature. 1.00

03:03:45.000 I'll back up why I said that.

03:03:46.000 The reason why I said that is because When girls are getting pursued by men and getting options and guys hitting up on Instagram, dating apps, whatever, the world is their oyster.

03:03:56.000 It's awesome.

03:03:57.000 I got a bunch of guys pursuing me.

03:03:58.000 I get the privilege of being kind of in a Delusional fantasy world where I think I deserve a man that's a millionaire, six foot plus, etc.

03:04:07.000 Because I've dated a few.

03:04:08.000 Maybe I hooked up with one here.

03:04:09.000 Maybe I kissed one here.

03:04:10.000 I think I deserve this caliber of man, right?

03:04:13.000 And typically, it's not until they get older and their options dry up from the opposite gender that reality smacks them and they say, whoa, I should probably find a family now. 0.99

03:04:21.000 I should probably go ahead and find a guy.

03:04:23.000 And maybe this career thing wasn't it.

03:04:26.000 And I need to chase a family because it's going to give me the real fulfillment that I want.

03:04:30.000 That's what I've noticed.

03:04:32.000 The most mature women I've met are typically women that are kind of at the end of the road when it comes to their looks and beauty in their youth. 1.00

03:04:37.000 Yes, it does.

03:04:41.000 Well, here's the difference with men.

03:04:42.000 Men face immediate negative reinforcement for bad decisions.

03:04:47.000 I'll give you an example. 1.00

03:04:49.000 If I'm a fat loser playing video games in the basement, at some point, I'm either going to lose my girlfriend, like her ex, or no girls are going to fuck me, my friends aren't going to respect me, and society will look down upon me and let me know that I'm a Cheeto-eating fat piece of shit. 1.00

03:05:05.000 Rightfully so. 1.00

03:05:07.000 Women, however, if she's hot enough, no one will ever tell her, you're a pot-smoking loser and have nothing going on in your life, because she's hot and someone will, at some point, take care of her. 1.00

03:05:19.000 I tend to disagree. 0.98

03:05:20.000 You disagree?

03:05:21.000 Yeah.

03:05:22.000 What do you disagree with?

03:05:23.000 I disagree with the last statement that you said about women more so if they're attractive they're more so like no one's gonna come at them and tell them like the truth because the fact that they're attractive like their appearance is like out there.

03:05:37.000 Excuses them from their actions.

03:05:39.000 I feel like there are certain people out here that tends to tell women like what's going on with them.

03:05:45.000 And who's that?

03:05:47.000 I'm speaking for certain people.

03:05:49.000 I'm not speaking for everybody.

03:05:50.000 I don't know if you're speaking for everybody out here in the world, but I'm speaking for certain women, certain men out here.

03:05:56.000 Okay.

03:05:57.000 What if I told you I've spoken to almost 2,000 women from different age groups and different backgrounds on this podcast?

03:06:05.000 That's interesting.

03:06:06.000 And the amount of women that are delusional as to how the world really works and making arguments in bad faith or not understanding how things really go, etc. 0.99

03:06:13.000 is alarming.

03:06:14.000 And what I've realized is there tends to be a correlation where the more attractive a girl is, the more delusional she tends to be of how the world really works. 0.89

03:06:22.000 Because her beauty has coddled her from facing harsh realities that the world often has.

03:06:26.000 Men don't get that privilege. 1.00

03:06:28.000 Pretty privilege is real and women get to experience it. 1.00

03:06:30.000 So women aren't held accountable for their poor decisions to the same degree that men are. 0.59

03:06:34.000 So now you agree.

03:06:35.000 I agree with the pretty privilege.

03:06:37.000 But we also get tested because we pretty.

03:06:40.000 They try to test that.

03:06:40.000 You feel what I'm saying?

03:06:42.000 Are you just looks?

03:06:43.000 Nope.

03:06:43.000 Barely.

03:06:45.000 Yeah, barely.

03:06:45.000 Not barely.

03:06:46.000 Maybe in Miami.

03:06:48.000 I don't know if y'all notices.

03:06:49.000 You feel me?

03:06:49.000 It's just eye candy here.

03:06:50.000 Hold on, hold on.

03:06:51.000 This podcast is a perfect example of that.

03:06:52.000 This has been a very uncomfortable conversation.

03:06:54.000 I can see it in all of you, right?

03:06:56.000 But why is it an uncomfortable conversation?

03:06:57.000 Because you were savage.

03:06:58.000 No, because no one tells women the truth anymore. 0.99

03:07:00.000 I mean, it's not uncomfortable to me.

03:07:02.000 Oh, no, I've noticed that a lot of you guys are uncomfortable, which is cool.

03:07:04.000 I don't mind.

03:07:05.000 But the reason why...

03:07:06.000 Uncomfortable with what exactly?

03:07:07.000 Getting your views challenged, you know, a lot of moments of silence, etc.

03:07:11.000 And the reason why is because men rarely, if ever, tell women the truth. 0.84

03:07:15.000 And I'm telling y'all the truth.

03:07:17.000 And you guys don't like it.

03:07:18.000 Oh, I don't like this.

03:07:19.000 I don't agree with it.

03:07:19.000 Blah, blah, blah.

03:07:20.000 But it's the truth. 1.00

03:07:21.000 Men rarely tell women how it really is because they want to fuck them. 1.00

03:07:24.000 I agree with your point. 1.00

03:07:25.000 That's the only reason why I'm quiet.

03:07:26.000 I'm not going to go against your point if I know I don't have actual facts on it or I disagree with it.

03:07:33.000 That's the only reason why I'm being quiet.

03:07:34.000 Well, my argument in this case is that women don't mature because they don't have to, typically. 1.00

03:07:41.000 They're still going to get all the benefits regardless of how they behave if they're hot enough. 1.00

03:07:46.000 Damn. 0.99

03:07:46.000 You could be on a boat tomorrow with a celebrity. 0.99

03:07:48.000 I can't.

03:07:50.000 You can get invited to a party with some high-level guys.

03:07:53.000 I can't.

03:07:53.000 You're so right about that.

03:07:55.000 You go on OnlyFans, sell fee pictures, make $10,000 a month.

03:07:57.000 I can't.

03:07:58.000 I can't even lie.

03:08:02.000 I will bring my own personal experience.

03:08:05.000 Even my man, before I came onto the podcast, he was like, it's so crazy because You literally, somebody slid in your DMs and was like, hey, you want to be on this podcast?

03:08:14.000 And me as a man, I would have to have a million followers.

03:08:17.000 I would have to have so much clout.

03:08:18.000 I would have all X, Y, and Z to even be considered for a position in this seat.

03:08:23.000 I agree with her with that.

03:08:25.000 All I had to do was essentially just answer a DM. And here's the other thing.

03:08:30.000 I don't know if you noticed this.

03:08:31.000 I've always said a privilege is invisible to those that have it.

03:08:34.000 You didn't even notice it.

03:08:35.000 Your man had to call it out for you.

03:08:37.000 Well, no, it wasn't even that.

03:08:38.000 It just came up in conversation.

03:08:40.000 Yeah, but he acknowledged it.

03:08:42.000 Oh, yeah, definitely.

03:08:43.000 Yeah, that's what I'm trying to say.

03:08:44.000 Women don't even understand the privileges they have because privilege is invisible to those that have it. 1.00

03:08:49.000 But he was able to immediately acknowledge, wow, that's a crazy opportunity.

03:08:53.000 Why?

03:08:53.000 Because men don't get...

03:08:55.000 Nearly the same amount of opportunities and privileges, which once again goes back to why the wage gap doesn't exist.

03:09:01.000 Women have more opportunities now because they're able to benefit from the equality, right, while simultaneously being treated like a lady, right, which is a benefit that only women get. 1.00

03:09:12.000 So y'all can eat at both ends of the spectrum. 0.99

03:09:14.000 Yeah, for a woman, opportunity has no face, but it doesn't have a dick. 1.00

03:09:18.000 Okay, moving on. 0.99

03:09:19.000 Let me ask you a question.

03:09:22.000 So, considering your mindset, right?

03:09:25.000 I am hungry.

03:09:26.000 I am really hungry.

03:09:28.000 So, considering your mindset and everything, right?

03:09:35.000 Do you genuinely believe that you'll be able to go out there and find you a wife that perfectly fits for you?

03:09:41.000 Wow, that was deep.

03:09:44.000 Don't answer that logistically.

03:09:46.000 Can you do that with it?

03:09:47.000 Like, feeling?

03:09:48.000 Like, for real?

03:09:49.000 What are we trying to ask?

03:09:55.000 I'm just asking him a question.

03:09:57.000 Considering his mindset, we all know his mindset.

03:10:01.000 What is my mindset?

03:10:04.000 Don't let him throw you off.

03:10:06.000 No, no, no.

03:10:06.000 What is my mindset?

03:10:08.000 No, no, no.

03:10:09.000 What is my mindset?

03:10:11.000 Don't forget the questions.

03:10:12.000 Do you genuinely believe that you can find you a girl that best fits you?

03:10:20.000 Well, here's the thing.

03:10:21.000 As a wife.

03:10:22.000 Yeah, as a wife. 1.00

03:10:25.000 Here's the thing, ladies. 0.99

03:10:27.000 You married?

03:10:27.000 I don't need to find her because I found myself.

03:10:31.000 And since I found myself, my leadership will dictate how she's going to behave because I'm going to train her to be the best girlfriend she can be. 0.91

03:10:37.000 Train?

03:10:39.000 Listen, that's what I do.

03:10:40.000 You see yourself getting married?

03:10:41.000 You see yourself getting married?

03:10:42.000 He said he needs to train.

03:10:43.000 Hold on, hold on.

03:10:43.000 Stop the show.

03:10:44.000 Cut it out.

03:10:45.000 Wait, wait.

03:10:46.000 Come on, come on, come on. 0.97

03:10:46.000 If you take a professional athlete, what are they doing in the off-season? 0.97

03:10:51.000 Training.

03:10:52.000 Okay.

03:10:52.000 When you go to the gym, what are you doing?

03:10:55.000 Work it out.

03:10:55.000 Okay.

03:10:56.000 Training.

03:10:56.000 Yeah.

03:10:57.000 If you want to be the best at something, what do you have to do?

03:10:57.000 Okay.

03:11:00.000 You condition yourself.

03:11:01.000 Ah.

03:11:02.000 So, wouldn't it be fair to say that if I want my girlfriend to be the best girlfriend that she can be, I have to train her? 0.92

03:11:07.000 Okay, but...

03:11:07.000 Answer the question.

03:11:11.000 Wait, wait.

03:11:11.000 Wouldn't it be fair to say...

03:11:12.000 You asked me, didn't you?

03:11:13.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

03:11:13.000 Okay, so wouldn't it be fair to say that if I want her to be the girlfriend slash wife I want her to be, I have to train her...

03:11:20.000 Is she a dog? 0.62

03:11:22.000 Please answer the question, yes or no.

03:11:25.000 Wait, wait.

03:11:28.000 Instead of saying train her, can you use a different logic?

03:11:33.000 Instead of saying train?

03:11:34.000 Because that's showing why that book...

03:11:36.000 Because you can teach.

03:11:37.000 You can teach her.

03:11:38.000 Yeah.

03:11:39.000 But why are you training her?

03:11:40.000 She's not a dog. 0.99

03:11:41.000 That's what I'm trying to say.

03:11:42.000 That's what I'm trying to say.

03:11:43.000 You can teach her.

03:11:44.000 The difference between what he just said, like all those examples versus training a girl is that an athlete, conditioning at the gym, whatever, those are all personal choices.

03:11:54.000 We train because we want to.

03:11:55.000 You're talking about training somebody else.

03:11:57.000 Who's already conditioned to their own ways.

03:11:59.000 Yeah.

03:11:59.000 Why are you training somebody else?

03:12:01.000 Because, hold on.

03:12:02.000 Let me ask you a question.

03:12:05.000 If you want to work, let me ask you since you want to ask this.

03:12:09.000 Let's say you want to work at a prestigious job.

03:12:12.000 Let's say a prestigious law firm.

03:12:14.000 Wouldn't it be fair to say that you have to...

03:12:16.000 I have to learn.

03:12:17.000 You have to learn.

03:12:18.000 And don't you have to come to the job, dress a certain way with a resume and a certain type of experience?

03:12:22.000 Yeah.

03:12:22.000 Okay.

03:12:23.000 And wouldn't it be fair to say that this prestigious law firm also has a lot of applicants?

03:12:28.000 Oh, you're shivering.

03:12:29.000 Okay.

03:12:30.000 Yeah, she's cold.

03:12:30.000 Can we give her the blanket real quick?

03:12:33.000 Yeah, she's shivering.

03:12:36.000 Yeah, so anyway.

03:12:37.000 All right.

03:12:41.000 It's really cold in here, guys.

03:12:42.000 We keep it cold.

03:12:44.000 So wouldn't it be fair to say that if you want to work at this prestigious law firm, there's a lot of other applicants.

03:12:48.000 So you have to prepare yourself and train for the position?

03:12:51.000 Yes.

03:12:52.000 Okay, so what's the difference between a girlfriend and a prestigious law firm? 1.00

03:12:56.000 I never said it was a...

03:12:57.000 I'm just saying, like, your choice of words.

03:13:00.000 I don't care what you think about the words.

03:13:01.000 You must train the girl to be the best girlfriend for it.

03:13:04.000 You guys don't like the words, but the reality is I'm training her.

03:13:06.000 I'm teaching her, hey, this is what's acceptable.

03:13:08.000 This is what's not acceptable.

03:13:10.000 And if you want to be with me, this is what it is.

03:13:12.000 The problem is this.

03:13:13.000 Stop, stop, stop.

03:13:15.000 And that's one of them.

03:13:16.000 Which is why you deal with more impressionable younger women. 1.00

03:13:19.000 Thank you for making that argument for me.

03:13:20.000 Wait, what she said?

03:13:21.000 You can't teach your old dog new tricks.

03:13:23.000 Which is why you deal with younger women because they're more impressionable and more open to the coaching and the training. 0.99

03:13:28.000 You can't tell him to change his words if that's who he is.

03:13:31.000 Listen, ladies. 1.00

03:13:33.000 Men are leaders.

03:13:34.000 Women are followers. 0.95

03:13:34.000 That's the way the world has always worked. 0.95

03:13:36.000 All of you guys said earlier, not all, but most of you, or most women in general, want a guy that's taller, stronger, more dominant, more confident, more ambitious, etc.

03:13:45.000 So you guys want a leader, but you don't want him to lead you?

03:13:47.000 Tell me how that makes sense. 0.97

03:13:50.000 You want to be with a guy that's successful, that has his shit together, but you don't want to comply with the regulations and standards? 0.98

03:13:56.000 You want to become vice president of this company? 0.99

03:13:58.000 You want to be vice president of this company?

03:14:00.000 But you don't want to go ahead and do the work to move up the ranks?

03:14:03.000 Bars. 0.86

03:14:06.000 See, here's the thing.

03:14:06.000 No, no, no, no, no.

03:14:07.000 Real talk.

03:14:07.000 Because this is the cold hard truth about modern day women.

03:14:11.000 Y'all will dress up in a suit, bring a resume, go to school for six to eight years to pursue a career that doesn't give a fuck about you, jump through hoops and hurdles to get this job, okay?

03:14:23.000 Behave, go through training, become the best woman you can for this job, but then your man comes in and says, yo, I need you to do this, I need you to do that. 1.00

03:14:31.000 Fuck you, nigga, I'm showing an independent. 1.00

03:14:34.000 I'm finishing my point. 1.00

03:14:39.000 What I'm trying to say is that women will gladly submit to their boss and their job, but they will not submit to their man. 0.97

03:14:46.000 And that is why so many modern day women can't keep a man. 1.00

03:14:49.000 That's the reality.

03:14:50.000 I'm telling you guys how successful men think.

03:14:52.000 I'm a multi-millionaire. 1.00

03:14:52.000 I'm not tolerating no bullshit from a woman. 1.00

03:14:54.000 Period. 1.00

03:14:55.000 I busted my ass to get to this point. 0.99

03:14:56.000 This is how it is. 0.99

03:14:57.000 And all guys that are successful think this way.

03:14:59.000 Whether they make $100,000, $200,000, a million dollars a year.

03:15:03.000 We all think this way.

03:15:04.000 It's my way or the highway because that same mindset that made me become successful is the same mindset I'm going to take into the relationship.

03:15:10.000 It's my way or the highway because there's other girls that want to work at this corporation, this law firm, whatever it is, because this is a prestigious business. 1.00

03:15:17.000 And you need to be willing to train and go through the trials and tribulations to become the vice president, a.k.a.

03:15:23.000 my girl.

03:15:23.000 That's how it goes.

03:15:24.000 You don't just get a handout here.

03:15:27.000 So women will go ahead. 1.00

03:15:30.000 It's incredible to me how modern day women will sacrifice their years of their life, their prime years, for a job that doesn't give a shit about them, but they won't submit to a man. 0.99

03:15:38.000 Facts. 0.99

03:15:39.000 And you want a family?

03:15:40.000 You want a family?

03:15:41.000 What a joke. 0.96

03:15:42.000 Crazy. 0.99

03:15:43.000 You're looking at me like I'm crazy. 0.99

03:15:44.000 You disagree with something?

03:15:45.000 It was just the word training.

03:15:46.000 Like you right, but like it was just that dominancy of not really having true respect for women.

03:15:52.000 And what we have to bring to the table is like train like we ain't nothing.

03:15:55.000 Like we only there at y'all feet for when y'all call.

03:15:58.000 And that's what I said earlier.

03:15:59.000 Like we more than just that.

03:16:01.000 And if I get into a relationship with that word training, I want to really I want to touch base on that word training.

03:16:08.000 If I get in a relationship and I connect with somebody, we connecting off of who we are. 0.99

03:16:13.000 If I don't fuck with you, I'm not going to try to train you into being something you're not. 0.99

03:16:17.000 It's like you can't teach old dogs new tricks. 1.00

03:16:21.000 Which is why you get younger women. 1.00

03:16:22.000 But then you still lost because you're still going to end up chasing younger women.

03:16:26.000 You're going to keep the same route.

03:16:28.000 You ain't really happy, so keep it up.

03:16:30.000 We don't chase young girls, man. 0.90

03:16:34.000 That's what they all say, but I know the truth.

03:16:36.000 You're not a man, so I don't know where you're coming from.

03:16:39.000 Do you think if he used a different word besides train that this conversation just would have gone a completely different direction?

03:16:46.000 Ultimately, he was really just trying to say that...

03:16:52.000 Yo, see, here's the difference between men and women. 1.00

03:16:54.000 You guys are more concerned with a word and how it's delivered versus the message that was delivered.

03:16:59.000 It's almost like you have to read between the lines of what you were trying to say.

03:17:03.000 It's not what you say, it's how you say it.

03:17:09.000 And that's exactly what happened to me earlier, y'all.

03:17:11.000 No, you're just disruptive and constantly interrupt.

03:17:14.000 That's why you were being rude.

03:17:15.000 Okay, and then saying brother and all these other condescending terms.

03:17:18.000 When y'all mention it, when y'all showing that a woman's worth is nothing but at your feet and bedside.

03:17:18.000 There's a difference.

03:17:24.000 You came to that conclusion.

03:17:25.000 That's what you were saying though, basically.

03:17:27.000 Did I say any of those words you just mentioned?

03:17:29.000 At your feet, begging at your side.

03:17:30.000 None of that.

03:17:31.000 It's like you don't even really care for females for real.

03:17:34.000 It's more so like you just like nosh and lie. 0.72

03:17:37.000 What led you to say that specifically?

03:17:38.000 Because you don't give us the debit.

03:17:41.000 You don't give us the debit we deserve. 1.00

03:17:41.000 Fuck credit. 1.00

03:17:43.000 Like it's just all females don't deserve this. 1.00

03:17:45.000 Females not this. 1.00

03:17:46.000 Females this that. 1.00

03:17:46.000 Females that. 1.00

03:17:47.000 Damn. 1.00

03:17:48.000 What specifically made you come to that conclusion? 1.00

03:17:53.000 I'm going to just shut up.

03:17:54.000 I think I'm about to get kicked off and y'all are scared of me.

03:17:54.000 I'm sorry.

03:17:57.000 I can't even say what I want.

03:17:59.000 I'm saying, if you're going to make an argument and say that, oh, y'all saying this and that, blah, blah, blah.

03:17:59.000 Here's the thing.

03:18:03.000 What's wrong with the term training?

03:18:05.000 Go ahead.

03:18:05.000 Tell me.

03:18:06.000 I said it earlier already.

03:18:07.000 What was wrong with the word?

03:18:08.000 You said that we're saying that women need to be on their feet, whatever. 0.99

03:18:11.000 Not one of those words were used.

03:18:12.000 I can't re-explain because then it's re-contradicted and I'm not about to do that.

03:18:15.000 What is re-contradicted?

03:18:16.000 What?

03:18:16.000 I meant you're going to try to contradict what I'm saying and I'm not about to just look at it.

03:18:20.000 You make the words on a fly. 0.93

03:18:20.000 Yeah, because you alligator. 0.93

03:18:23.000 The difference is this.

03:18:24.000 You're extrapolating something from what I said that doesn't exist.

03:18:27.000 I simply said that men need to train women. 1.00

03:18:30.000 But when I gave you guys the example of going to the gym to train, when I talked about training for a job, when I talked about training for being an athlete, none of y'all had anything negative to say about that.

03:18:38.000 But when I say, I need to train my girl, y'all are like, whoa, that's not cool!

03:18:43.000 Growth.

03:18:45.000 Unity.

03:18:46.000 What is an independent decision?

03:18:48.000 You make a decision to be an athlete.

03:18:50.000 You make a decision to go to the gym and you do that for yourself.

03:18:53.000 Somebody training someone else?

03:18:54.000 You have a coach.

03:18:55.000 You don't do that by yourself.

03:18:57.000 Wait, hold on.

03:18:58.000 Let me ask you this.

03:19:00.000 Who controls who gets relationships? 1.00

03:19:03.000 Excuse me?

03:19:04.000 Who controls who gets relationships? 1.00

03:19:06.000 So like who secured a bag?

03:19:07.000 No.

03:19:09.000 Who...

03:19:12.000 Who gets relationships?

03:19:13.000 Who controls who gets relationships? 1.00

03:19:15.000 Both parties.

03:19:17.000 Really?

03:19:17.000 Are you getting down on any of proposing to a man?

03:19:20.000 No.

03:19:21.000 Okay, so who does that?

03:19:22.000 The man, but I can very well say no.

03:19:24.000 Oh, hold on, stop, stop.

03:19:25.000 So, by default, men controls who gets relationships, correct?

03:19:29.000 No, because at the end of the day, his word isn't end-all be-all.

03:19:34.000 He might want to.

03:19:35.000 He might make that decision to propose, absolutely.

03:19:38.000 But that doesn't mean I'm going to say yes.

03:19:40.000 Just because he wants to.

03:19:42.000 Listen, if you're with a man that you love and admire and respect, and he gets down on one knee, he's choosing you and you're going to say yes, hence you're in a relationship with him in the first place.

03:19:50.000 Because I'm also actively choosing him every day.

03:19:52.000 Okay.

03:19:53.000 But he's the one that gives you the title of wife, right?

03:19:58.000 The answer is yes.

03:20:00.000 He's the one that is getting down on the knee and proposing to you, making you his wife.

03:20:04.000 So wouldn't it be fair to say that if you want to be a wife, you have to do wife duties for the job? 1.00

03:20:08.000 You might have to do wife duties, but what I'm not understanding is why you have to train someone. 0.99

03:20:12.000 Why can't you just meet someone where they're at, if that makes sense?

03:20:17.000 Hear me out.

03:20:19.000 Meet them where they're at in the sense of if they meet your expectations, you won't have to train them, and you can just hop on board.

03:20:26.000 Why do you have to train somebody?

03:20:27.000 Why don't you just drop them?

03:20:30.000 When you meet somebody for the first time, do you know everything about them?

03:20:32.000 No, you learn about them.

03:20:34.000 Exactly.

03:20:35.000 So how do you learn from that person?

03:20:36.000 Experience, right?

03:20:37.000 Getting to know them better.

03:20:38.000 Going through tribulations.

03:20:40.000 And what?

03:20:41.000 Training yourself to learn who they really are.

03:20:43.000 Same thing with him.

03:20:44.000 He's just training you to understand.

03:20:46.000 And if I'm going to keep it a thousand, modern day women have a bunch of bad habits that need to be trained out of them. 1.00

03:20:49.000 Wanting to go to the club, wanting to shake their ass, wanting to have guy friends, wanting to do a bunch of ho shit. 1.00

03:20:55.000 Like, you got to train a lot of bad habits out of chicks to make them the best girlfriend they can be. 1.00

03:20:59.000 So you don't agree with a girl having guy friends in a relationship?

03:21:02.000 Absolutely not.

03:21:02.000 It's unacceptable.

03:21:03.000 I agree, too. 0.99

03:21:04.000 That sucks for you, then. 0.96

03:21:05.000 I agree with that, too. 1.00

03:21:07.000 Like I said, those guys want to have sex with you. 1.00

03:21:11.000 I'm not dumb. 1.00

03:21:11.000 I understand how men think. 1.00

03:21:13.000 So, again, the thing is, you guys want a winner, but you guys are not prepared to do the work to get a winner.

03:21:19.000 Which is fine.

03:21:20.000 Y'all don't want to get trained.

03:21:21.000 Get a regular guy.

03:21:22.000 5'8", 36K to 50K per year.

03:21:25.000 But y'all all want...

03:21:26.000 What?

03:21:27.000 Nothing.

03:21:27.000 I was singing a song.

03:21:28.000 Go ahead.

03:21:31.000 Why are you still here, man?

03:21:33.000 Just go, man.

03:21:34.000 I'm listening to what he's saying.

03:21:35.000 Yeah, but you're rude, thinking of a song, you're hungry.

03:21:37.000 I'm not singing in a mic, though.

03:21:39.000 How is that being rude if I'm listening to what he's saying, but I'm just moving?

03:21:43.000 It makes you just look weird.

03:21:44.000 That's what it is. 1.00

03:21:45.000 If you watch the show back, you're going to look at yourself and be like, what the fuck? 0.99

03:21:49.000 It just makes you look weird. 1.00

03:21:50.000 She was looking in the camera.

03:21:52.000 Does her looking weird affect you in any kind of way?

03:21:55.000 As a woman? 1.00

03:21:56.000 I mean, this is going to make her look foolish and immature. 1.00

03:21:58.000 Did I bother you when I did that? 0.98

03:21:58.000 Okay, then let her do that and that's the image that she wants to present? 0.98

03:22:02.000 Alright, but are you training her how to be now? 1.00

03:22:05.000 I told her she was a pain in the ass. 1.00

03:22:07.000 I told her she was a pain in the ass. 1.00

03:22:14.000 I'm not denying it. 1.00

03:22:16.000 I'm not denying it.

03:22:17.000 And that's a whole lot of words just to say that you don't get played.

03:22:19.000 Look, I've seen Instagram. 1.00

03:22:20.000 I'm sure you get played every fucking day. 0.99

03:22:22.000 Three times a day, all right? 1.00

03:22:25.000 I'm surprised. 1.00

03:22:25.000 Shut up with a blazer. 1.00

03:22:27.000 Fuck that shit, man. 1.00

03:22:28.000 Fuck that shit, man. 1.00

03:22:29.000 You guys have an issue with the term train. 1.00

03:22:32.000 That's fine.

03:22:33.000 You guys will go ahead and work a career and get trained for them, but you won't get trained by your man, which is why so many girls stay single. 1.00

03:22:38.000 That's true forever.

03:22:39.000 You're not going to have a winner and not go through the trials and tribulations of training.

03:22:43.000 That's just how it goes.

03:22:44.000 He's going to train you to be a better girlfriend, and if you don't want to submit to that, cool.

03:22:47.000 Stay single.

03:22:47.000 So his ability, right?

03:22:48.000 To have the way he wants her to accommodate with him, right?

03:22:52.000 Yes.

03:22:53.000 Okay.

03:22:54.000 Every man is different and has different needs and requirements.

03:22:56.000 He's got to train his girl to be the best girl.

03:22:58.000 But that's the thing.

03:23:00.000 Why do you have to train them?

03:23:01.000 Why can't you just find someone that's already like that?

03:23:03.000 And why go through all that work yourself?

03:23:05.000 Why train somebody?

03:23:06.000 You want to know why?

03:23:06.000 Okay.

03:23:07.000 Because most women don't have fathers nowadays that are supposed to train them these things from the beginning. 1.00

03:23:11.000 Oh, so you're her father.

03:23:13.000 No, what I'm saying is that we live in a fatherless society where women, a lot of the times, don't have a natural respect for masculinity, or they might have not had a father figure, a strong brother, strong uncle, whatever.

03:23:25.000 And most women in general don't respect most men.

03:23:28.000 That's how it is.

03:23:29.000 So, a lot of times, you gotta train bad habits out of girls because it used to be, in the olden days, you got a girl, she came from a strong family, she understood what it was to be a woman, right? 0.82

03:23:39.000 She had a strong father, she had a mom, she came from a strong family, she understood what being a feminine woman was, and you can marry her. 0.96

03:23:46.000 But nowadays, a lot of girls are not marital material. 1.00

03:23:48.000 So you say it determines if that shorty have a dad in her life? 1.00

03:23:51.000 No, I'm just saying it's an element.

03:23:54.000 Element, yeah.

03:23:55.000 Okay.

03:23:55.000 You're training to be his wife.

03:23:57.000 Because typically, if you come from a good family with a strong father, he will instill certain values in you that will make you a good wife.

03:24:03.000 So then you wouldn't have to train her then.

03:24:06.000 Well, it's not the system.

03:24:10.000 It's poor decisions from the daddies.

03:24:12.000 I just feel like we keep fixating on this word training, training, training.

03:24:16.000 Who's referring back to training?

03:24:18.000 When are we going to ask some questions?

03:24:19.000 I've got to ask some questions.

03:24:22.000 Our past few minutes have just been fixating on this word and this idea of a man training a woman when essentially we as women train our men to pretty much acclimate to us.

03:24:38.000 You said it earlier.

03:24:39.000 I would expect my man to check up on me every three hours.

03:24:42.000 That is you training him to conform to your certain standards and your standards of life, your standards of a relationship.

03:24:50.000 So when he says...

03:24:52.000 I'm training my woman to, you know, abide by these standards that I have for her. 0.96

03:24:57.000 You have the you have.

03:24:59.000 Oh, I'm sorry.

03:24:59.000 You have the conscious decision whether or not whether you want to conform to those certain standards or like she said, leave and go find another man.

03:25:07.000 If you don't fit in with the standards that he's trying to hold you to, then cool.

03:25:11.000 Go find another man and you can go find another woman. 1.00

03:25:13.000 Like if I'm not good enough for you and it's not even about like not even being good enough or anything like that for each other.

03:25:13.000 Right.

03:25:19.000 If you're not even happy with who I am as a person and that doesn't make you happy, I don't know.

03:25:26.000 I just don't.

03:25:27.000 Some women want a real dominant man. 1.00

03:25:30.000 See, we're talking about dominancy here and submission. 1.00

03:25:34.000 He wants a lady to submit to him basically all the fucking way. 1.00

03:25:39.000 It seems that he wants a woman to submit to him, to be loyal to him. 0.99

03:25:44.000 I don't think necessarily be a robot, but to at least consider his feelings and consider his boundaries and his standards that he has for you as his woman.

03:25:52.000 That's respectful.

03:25:53.000 I agree with that.

03:25:55.000 Okay, we got some more chats here.

03:25:55.000 Thank you.

03:25:56.000 Did you get offended?

03:25:58.000 We got...

03:25:58.000 No, this is one already, Chris.

03:26:02.000 So Tisc917 says, my simple question, not hypothetically, ladies, which girl on the panel do you want as a daughter-in-law? 1.00

03:26:08.000 Which girl do you not want? 1.00

03:26:10.000 Second runner-up to spice it up.

03:26:12.000 Okay, so if you had to put someone on the panel to be a daughter-in-law, who would it be?

03:26:16.000 Who would it not be?

03:26:22.000 My valentine with my daughter-in-law.

03:26:25.000 Who would not be?

03:26:27.000 Based off of what you know now.

03:26:29.000 What I know now?

03:26:31.000 Who would not be?

03:26:35.000 I mean...

03:26:36.000 I feel like I'm discriminating. 1.00

03:26:37.000 Fuck. 1.00

03:26:40.000 I guess you're not hungry. 1.00

03:26:44.000 Aw, damn. 0.99

03:26:46.000 Um... 1.00

03:26:49.000 Amber Rose, I guess.

03:26:51.000 Amber Rose.

03:26:52.000 That's fine.

03:26:53.000 It's nothing personal, girl.

03:26:54.000 If I could choose, I would pick all y'all as my daughter-in-laws, but...

03:26:57.000 No, you're good.

03:26:58.000 Okay.

03:26:58.000 Yeah, girl.

03:26:59.000 What about you?

03:27:00.000 Wait, why would she not be the daughter-in-law?

03:27:04.000 She's being too honest, huh?

03:27:05.000 I'm just picking.

03:27:05.000 I don't know.

03:27:06.000 I mean, can you explain why?

03:27:09.000 I don't have a reason why.

03:27:10.000 Well, was it something I said?

03:27:12.000 No, there's nothing you said or anything.

03:27:15.000 Well, we need you to pick somebody and be able to give us an actual reason why.

03:27:18.000 Well, y'all didn't say that.

03:27:18.000 Y'all just said it.

03:27:19.000 Well, yes.

03:27:20.000 I mean, I don't know if you guys have noticed, but on this podcast, we typically ask you to explain your reasoning for why you say things.

03:27:25.000 Okay. 1.00

03:27:27.000 Fuck. 1.00

03:27:27.000 Well, if I had... 1.00

03:27:30.000 Okay, well, let me redo it then. 1.00

03:27:31.000 Motherfucker. 1.00

03:27:32.000 I would pick her to be my daughter-in-law because she's more logical. 1.00

03:27:39.000 And who would you not pick and why?

03:27:46.000 Oh, you know who it is.

03:27:47.000 You just don't want to say it.

03:27:48.000 Who I think it is.

03:27:49.000 I don't know.

03:27:50.000 Since you know.

03:27:50.000 You tell us.

03:27:51.000 You tell me.

03:27:52.000 You know.

03:27:52.000 It's your answer.

03:27:53.000 Yeah.

03:27:53.000 But you know.

03:27:54.000 No, honestly, we're not taking it personal, right?

03:27:56.000 Like, pick.

03:27:57.000 No, seriously.

03:27:58.000 Yeah, pick.

03:27:58.000 Just say it.

03:28:00.000 Yeah, pick.

03:28:00.000 Yeah.

03:28:01.000 Okay, so you would be the daughter-in-law.

03:28:02.000 Oh, I'm the daughter-in-law now.

03:28:04.000 Yeah.

03:28:04.000 Okay.

03:28:04.000 Because he said I have to have a reason.

03:28:06.000 Okay.

03:28:07.000 So you're logical.

03:28:08.000 Okay.

03:28:09.000 Who would be?

03:28:10.000 I guess you.

03:28:12.000 Why?

03:28:13.000 I don't have anything bad to say, but I'm gonna come up with something.

03:28:16.000 I guess because you always have a comeback.

03:28:18.000 Okay, I hear you.

03:28:19.000 I'm not denying it.

03:28:21.000 Technically, you do always have a comeback.

03:28:24.000 I'm owning it.

03:28:25.000 Do you think argumentative women are attractive to men? 0.99

03:28:30.000 No.

03:28:31.000 Not really, no.

03:28:32.000 It depends on the man.

03:28:33.000 Yeah, some men like fire.

03:28:35.000 You feel me?

03:28:40.000 Some men do like that.

03:28:41.000 Come here, girl. 0.83

03:28:42.000 Who you talking to?

03:28:43.000 What percentage of men do you think actually like argumentative women in a long-term relationship? 1.00

03:28:50.000 In a long-term relationship?

03:28:52.000 10%.

03:28:55.000 So wouldn't it be fair to say that's a minority?

03:29:00.000 I guess, yeah.

03:29:01.000 Okay.

03:29:02.000 So.

03:29:03.000 But most don't.

03:29:05.000 Yeah, we don't.

03:29:06.000 No.

03:29:06.000 It's only some men that really like that.

03:29:08.000 A minority. 0.57

03:29:09.000 Yeah, a minority.

03:29:10.000 Alright.

03:29:11.000 Who's up next?

03:29:13.000 Alright.

03:29:13.000 Who would be your stepdaughter and why?

03:29:15.000 And who would not be on why?

03:29:16.000 My daughter-in-law?

03:29:18.000 If I was to choose two, I would say her and her.

03:29:23.000 Because they have their own...

03:29:24.000 Who would be the daughter-in-law and who would not be?

03:29:27.000 Yeah, so both of them and who not...

03:29:31.000 I ain't really hear you say a lot, so I'll say it.

03:29:34.000 That's fine.

03:29:36.000 So the girl that said less is... 0.79

03:29:37.000 Okay, alright, interesting.

03:29:38.000 What about you?

03:29:39.000 Who would be your daughter-in-law and who would not be?

03:29:41.000 And why?

03:29:45.000 Honestly, I would say you would probably be my daughter-in-law.

03:29:49.000 I feel like you really kind of just sit back and I think you take into account sometimes it's better to be seen than heard and you actively kind of listen to everything.

03:30:01.000 Alright, and then who not and why?

03:30:08.000 For not...

03:30:08.000 Keep it a hundred.

03:30:09.000 It's okay, you can say me.

03:30:11.000 I think it's me.

03:30:12.000 No, honestly, I wouldn't say you.

03:30:14.000 If I'm being kind of honest, I would kind of say you.

03:30:17.000 I feel like... 1.00

03:30:18.000 She on your ass. 1.00

03:30:22.000 Well, no, I wouldn't say that. 1.00

03:30:23.000 I just feel that you were leading a lot with your emotions, and I didn't really feel like you were actually kind of taking into consideration.

03:30:30.000 Who was leading with their emotions?

03:30:32.000 See, you all cut off just now.

03:30:34.000 No, no, I'm asking a question.

03:30:36.000 Like, when did I respond with my emotions besides the fact that I was in an abusive relationship?

03:30:41.000 I just feel like if you would have let me finish.

03:30:43.000 I'm sorry.

03:30:45.000 I'm just curious. 0.99

03:30:48.000 What the fuck, Chris? 0.99

03:30:51.000 I felt like you were listening to the conversation, but you weren't really hearing what was said. 1.00

03:30:55.000 No, she was hearing.

03:30:56.000 She wasn't listening.

03:30:57.000 Yeah.

03:30:59.000 You were listening to what was being said, but you weren't really hearing what was being said, shall I say.

03:31:05.000 I understand you though.

03:31:06.000 Yeah, I did understand where you were coming from.

03:31:08.000 I just felt like you didn't really kind of take in the entirety of the question.

03:31:13.000 I think a lot of times you were referring back to your own personal experience when in reality we were kind of like trying to I don't think that's a reflection of you or anything like that.

03:31:25.000 Are you referring to when we were talking about how women can be so manly towards men?

03:31:31.000 No, I think it was just in most of the topics.

03:31:36.000 Training, for example.

03:31:37.000 You were more fixated on the word training versus the overall message that a man has got to make his girl into the best girl she can be.

03:31:44.000 Okay.

03:31:46.000 Is that an example of her being emotional, I guess?

03:31:49.000 I think I will say in your delivery, I don't necessarily think that I disagree with a lot of things that you say, but your delivery sometimes is just, I think sometimes it comes off as like really passive aggressive or even just like, just not very nice.

03:32:03.000 Now, that doesn't mean that it's wrong, but I don't know.

03:32:07.000 Let me ask you a question. 0.68

03:32:08.000 If I say one plus one is two or one plus one is fucking two, does it change the fact that it's two? 0.96

03:32:12.000 No, but I think... 0.97

03:32:13.000 Okay, then.

03:32:14.000 Exactly.

03:32:15.000 That's it.

03:32:16.000 Facts are facts, not feelings.

03:32:17.000 I feel like I'm not cutting you off, and I'm not, you know, being disrespectful to you, so I just, I don't know.

03:32:21.000 I just, I felt like that respect should have been reiterated to me and some of the other girls here, but, I mean, this is your show, so have at it.

03:32:30.000 Yeah, I mean, it's facts over feelings over here, and I was very explicit about that in the beginning.

03:32:35.000 But you can still be considerate.

03:32:37.000 Considerate of what?

03:32:38.000 Your feelings?

03:32:39.000 No, you can still be considerate of what you say and how you say it sometimes.

03:32:42.000 I think there are better ways to say it.

03:32:45.000 Nope.

03:32:47.000 Why was that necessary?

03:32:48.000 I was trying to be... 1.00

03:32:51.000 Because I said at the beginning, fuck your feelings. 1.00

03:32:54.000 This is a Facts Over Feelings podcast. 1.00

03:32:57.000 The difference between how men communicate versus how women communicate is men communicate overtly. 0.64

03:33:01.000 We say what it is and it is what it is.

03:33:03.000 Women, however... 1.00

03:33:05.000 Even just now, asking you how to describe, why would you not want to have her be your daughter-in-law?

03:33:10.000 You guys are dancing around it, saying it nice and sugarcoating it, etc.

03:33:14.000 Even when we asked you about your guy, right?

03:33:17.000 How you friendzoned him at first or whatever, and you didn't want to admit that you kind of wanted to live your life for a little bit and then get with him.

03:33:22.000 Women just dress up things, and a lot of the times the message gets lost in you guys trying to be too polite. 1.00

03:33:28.000 We're speaking very direct, very honestly, and concisely.

03:33:32.000 Okay.

03:33:32.000 And women don't do well with that type of communication.

03:33:36.000 I mean, if you guys don't believe me, we can watch back the show.

03:33:39.000 Y'all did not respond very favorably to concise, direct points.

03:33:43.000 I mean, like she said, I barely responded half of the time.

03:33:46.000 I barely responded either.

03:33:47.000 Like, I made a few key points.

03:33:49.000 Well, it's not key points to y'all, but to me it is.

03:33:52.000 Yeah, no, to you.

03:33:54.000 Overall, they weren't key points, to be honest.

03:33:55.000 They were emotionally sound arguments based on your personal experience.

03:33:59.000 That's fine.

03:34:00.000 That's fine.

03:34:02.000 But objectively speaking...

03:34:05.000 I'm next.

03:34:06.000 I'm waiting.

03:34:07.000 Oh, are you waiting this time?

03:34:09.000 Oh, bro.

03:34:10.000 I'm in.

03:34:11.000 Fresh.

03:34:11.000 No, no.

03:34:12.000 That was Chris.

03:34:13.000 Yeah.

03:34:14.000 Alright, y'all.

03:34:16.000 Go ahead.

03:34:18.000 So basically...

03:34:19.000 Daughter-in-law?

03:34:20.000 Not daughter-in-law.

03:34:22.000 My daughter-in-law would be jazzy. 1.00

03:34:25.000 Okay.

03:34:25.000 Because I understood with like...

03:34:28.000 I understood what you were saying, but I didn't really catch that from you.

03:34:32.000 Like being passive-progressive, right?

03:34:34.000 I don't think I was being that.

03:34:35.000 It's okay, but I seen where you did get emotional over the abusiveness with your boyfriend, and that's fine because we females, and I was analyzing everybody, so you cool with that.

03:34:44.000 So you would be my daughter-in-law.

03:34:46.000 As for not being my daughter-in-law, I don't want my man dating nobody that's going to snap on them because they ain't responding in a couple hours.

03:34:52.000 Yeah.

03:34:53.000 It would be you. 1.00

03:34:53.000 Because honestly, then that shows that you might be on some crazy shit. 1.00

03:34:57.000 Now we got to get the family on watching shit because you might pop up some shit. 1.00

03:35:02.000 Alright. 1.00

03:35:04.000 What about you?

03:35:05.000 Who would be your daughter-in-law? 1.00

03:35:06.000 Who would not be and why?

03:35:09.000 We know.

03:35:11.000 I mean, I'll admit it, but That's why you gotta train your girl. 0.97

03:35:14.000 Train the crazy out of them.

03:35:16.000 Love. 0.86

03:35:16.000 Or run. 0.86

03:35:17.000 Love works.

03:35:18.000 Real love.

03:35:19.000 Unconditional.

03:35:20.000 What's love got to do with it?

03:35:22.000 Who loves you more?

03:35:23.000 The parent that enables your bad behavior or the parent that disciplines your bad behavior?

03:35:29.000 I'm asking.

03:35:30.000 The one that enables?

03:35:32.000 So that you can be a detriment to society and go to jail?

03:35:35.000 Say that again?

03:35:36.000 I don't know.

03:35:37.000 To me, honestly, I would say the one that enables it, they tend to...

03:35:42.000 The question was, who loves you more?

03:35:44.000 The parent that enables your bad behavior or the parent that disciplines your bad behavior?

03:35:48.000 Rush.

03:35:50.000 Philly, I was...

03:35:51.000 I'm sorry.

03:35:53.000 Which parent loves you more?

03:35:55.000 The parent that enables your bad behavior or the parent that disciplines your bad behavior?

03:35:58.000 Discipline.

03:36:00.000 There you go.

03:36:03.000 Yes. 0.77

03:36:03.000 That's why you gotta train the crazy outro girl. 0.77

03:36:06.000 If you can't, just run.

03:36:08.000 Sometimes you gotta walk away from them because sometimes you can't help everybody.

03:36:11.000 Or you walk away from them.

03:36:13.000 That helps too.

03:36:14.000 They sit alone. 1.00

03:36:15.000 Oh my god, what the fuck? 1.00

03:36:16.000 They gonna learn something. 1.00

03:36:17.000 The point I'm trying to make is that modern day women have a lot of bad habits that need to be deprogrammed from them. 1.00

03:36:25.000 A lot of women don't want to submit. 1.00

03:36:26.000 And if they don't want to submit, then there's no relationship.

03:36:33.000 It's fine, we're about to leave soon anyway.

03:36:35.000 I don't know.

03:36:36.000 Two more hours.

03:36:37.000 Alright, go ahead.

03:36:40.000 You said daughter-in-law?

03:36:42.000 Yeah.

03:36:42.000 You said daughter-in-law?

03:36:43.000 I would say her because of that, like, she...

03:36:47.000 I would say, like, state her opinion.

03:36:49.000 Like, she just keep it real.

03:36:51.000 Do you think men like opinion in women?

03:37:01.000 Have you ever heard the phrase, women are to be seen and not be heard? 0.98

03:37:05.000 No.

03:37:07.000 I've heard it.

03:37:08.000 I don't agree with it.

03:37:10.000 But if you want someone like that, go find someone like that.

03:37:12.000 Have you heard the phrase, correct?

03:37:14.000 That goes for both parties.

03:37:16.000 And it's a common saying, why?

03:37:19.000 They actually have it in Spanish, too.

03:37:21.000 It's commonly said in Spanish as well.

03:37:24.000 Okay, the reason why it's a common phrase is because it's kind of how things have worked for a long time.

03:37:32.000 Opinionate women in general typically aren't the most attractive to most men. 0.96

03:37:35.000 Yeah, because they don't look like an alpha woman. 1.00

03:37:38.000 And an alpha woman is low-key the breadwinner, too. 1.00

03:37:40.000 So when you run into a breadwinner, you know it's insecurity.

03:37:43.000 I mean, trying to break it down and show off with other women the whole time, you can't appreciate what's in his face.

03:37:47.000 An inherently masculine term.

03:37:49.000 So when you say alpha, all you're basically saying is masculine woman.

03:37:54.000 Yeah, basically.

03:37:55.000 Yeah, opinion women as well. 0.99

03:37:57.000 We don't want to date men.

03:37:59.000 Okay, but an opinion, yeah.

03:38:01.000 I mean, being disagreeable is a masculine trait.

03:38:03.000 Mm-hmm.

03:38:04.000 Now, let me ask you, do you think men like masculine women? 0.98

03:38:08.000 No.

03:38:09.000 Some do.

03:38:10.000 The answer is most don't.

03:38:13.000 Well, let me ask you, would you date a guy that wore heels on Saturdays?

03:38:16.000 Maybe.

03:38:17.000 Me, personally, no.

03:38:19.000 I know a lot of people would.

03:38:20.000 Okay, so why do you expect a man to like a masculine woman if you don't like a feminine man? 1.00

03:38:24.000 What do you consider a masculine woman? 0.98

03:38:26.000 Because there's such a thing as the Kinsey scale and sexuality is fluid and there's some men that like more masculine women and there's some women that like more feminine men.

03:38:39.000 Let's say the most desirable men that are the most masculine, do you think they want masculine women? 0.99

03:38:44.000 It depends on what they like.

03:38:45.000 Do you think the most masculine men that women typically find the most attractive want masculine women in return?

03:38:51.000 No.

03:38:52.000 Typically, no.

03:38:53.000 Okay.

03:38:53.000 So, wouldn't it be fair to say that if you want to get the best guy that you can get, you're more than likely going to have to be feminine to a degree and get rid of that masculinity?

03:39:02.000 So the best guy is the most masculine guy, is what you're saying?

03:39:05.000 No, you can continue to be who you are, but you've got to deal with the consequence of being who you are.

03:39:08.000 You will probably more than likely not get an assertive, dominant, attractive male that's traditionally masculine, if you're a masculine woman.

03:39:15.000 That doesn't really matter if that's not what you like to begin with.

03:39:18.000 Some women like feminine men. 1.00

03:39:21.000 To them, a masculine man is like, okay, whatever.

03:39:26.000 You see it as the grand prize, but to them it's like nothing because they're just not into that.

03:39:31.000 That's a lie.

03:39:31.000 Women overwhelmingly prefer a more masculine, dominant man.

03:39:35.000 And if you don't believe me, what is the most popular book amongst women? 0.91

03:39:38.000 Fifty Shades of Grey.

03:39:39.000 What does that book exemplify?

03:39:41.000 A man that is attractive, tall, income, dominant, etc.

03:39:46.000 He has all the traits that women traditionally look for in men.

03:39:50.000 Now, are there some weird exceptions of women that like feminine men?

03:39:53.000 Absolutely.

03:39:54.000 There's always going to be anomalies.

03:39:55.000 But again, exceptions don't make the rule.

03:39:58.000 If I line up 100 women, they're going to want a traditionally masculine man. 1.00

03:40:01.000 95 of them.

03:40:03.000 Okay, that's fine.

03:40:04.000 But I'm just saying, you know, you're generalizing and I'm just saying, well, I have no cases otherwise.

03:40:08.000 We went over this.

03:40:09.000 The generalities is how the world works.

03:40:10.000 I'm not going to talk about that.

03:40:12.000 Yes, exactly.

03:40:13.000 But, I mean, you asked and I answered.

03:40:15.000 That's it.

03:40:15.000 You asked me why and that's it.

03:40:17.000 What I'm saying is that masculine women are not attractive just like feminine men are not. 0.98

03:40:23.000 Disagreeableness and being alpha is not attractive to a majority of men.

03:40:26.000 That's all I'm saying.

03:40:29.000 Okay, you had started saying that they're not attractive, period.

03:40:31.000 I was just saying it depends who the attraction is for.

03:40:35.000 To a majority of men, it's not attractive.

03:40:37.000 To a majority of men, alpha women, as you guys like to say, which is nothing more than a masculine woman, is not attractive.

03:40:43.000 Yeah, typically.

03:40:45.000 I'm not disagreeing with you on that, but I'm just saying the Kinsey scale exists and there's some women that like feminine men and vice versa.

03:40:55.000 That's all I was trying to say.

03:40:56.000 I wasn't trying to make up this whole thing.

03:40:58.000 Stand on what you're saying with confidence.

03:41:01.000 Bottom line.

03:41:02.000 Stand on what you're saying because they're going to eat us up regardless.

03:41:06.000 That's kind of the whole point of the show.

03:41:08.000 I mean, again, that scale only highlights a minority.

03:41:14.000 Okay.

03:41:15.000 Just because someone is a minority doesn't negate its existence.

03:41:21.000 And the minority is a lot bigger than you think.

03:41:23.000 You see it's a minority, but given how many people are actually on the planet, like 10% or whatever percent that seems negligible, yes, in comparison to the majority, absolutely.

03:41:34.000 But they make up a pretty significant population.

03:41:39.000 By default, they're insignificant because they're a minority. 1.00

03:41:44.000 That made no sense, your argument.

03:41:46.000 You're trying to be all-inclusive, which is a very noble thing, I guess, but the reality is that it's not statistically insignificant.

03:41:54.000 It's a minority.

03:41:56.000 Okay, what I'm trying to say is that 100 people out of 1,000 people is, yes, those 100 people are the minority, but when you look at it, it's still 100 people, and they can still make some sort of impact, if that makes sense.

03:42:10.000 Versus 900 people.

03:42:14.000 Yes, actually.

03:42:16.000 Still a minority.

03:42:23.000 It's just amazing to me how women will make arguments for the minority or statistically insignificant situations. 0.89

03:42:33.000 But again, masculine women aren't attractive. 1.00

03:42:36.000 It's just a fact. 0.99

03:42:37.000 Masculine women are not attractive. 1.00

03:42:38.000 It's because women are also a marginalized group and they tend to speak for most marginalized groups. 1.00

03:42:43.000 Men, straight white men, they're not the marginalized group.

03:42:47.000 Everybody else will typically speak for marginalized groups.

03:42:50.000 Because men are hierarchy-based.

03:42:52.000 Well, here's the thing.

03:42:53.000 Men are hierarchy-based and production-based.

03:42:56.000 Men typically tend to be less communitarian than women are. 0.89

03:42:59.000 That's why women overwhelmingly vote Democrat and they vote for government programs that give handouts versus men. 1.00

03:43:04.000 It's, hey, you did the best.

03:43:06.000 We're going to go off of merit versus what we feel.

03:43:09.000 Because there's never been a need for men to communicate because they've always just gotten what they wanted by force.

03:43:15.000 Wait, what?

03:43:15.000 What?

03:43:16.000 There's no need for men to communicate and have, like, these...

03:43:19.000 You're saying that, like, they don't have those, you know, communication skills that you had just mentioned.

03:43:24.000 Is that what you had just said about communication, the hierarchy?

03:43:28.000 No, what I said is that women are socially superior to men. 1.00

03:43:32.000 No, what you had just said now, that men are hierarchical and something about being communicative is not what you had just said.

03:43:38.000 No, women are more communitarian. 1.00

03:43:41.000 Communitarian.

03:43:41.000 I mean, women.

03:43:44.000 What are you saying right now?

03:43:46.000 I'm trying to make sense of what you're saying.

03:43:49.000 What I said is, because you said women care about marginalized groups. 1.00

03:43:54.000 What I'm saying is that men care about what really matters and are more merit-based, not communitarian.

03:43:59.000 Women are communitarian, which means, oh, let's help everybody out. 1.00

03:44:02.000 Men understand a lot of the times that's not a reality.

03:44:07.000 Sorry, I'm cold.

03:44:08.000 That's not, I guess, like a reality, but okay.

03:44:12.000 Like, for example, it's...

03:44:13.000 Capitalism is an inherently masculine form of government. 0.90

03:44:16.000 Yeah.

03:44:18.000 But it works.

03:44:20.000 To an extent.

03:44:21.000 It works for those who make it.

03:44:22.000 Are you not the best country in the world right now?

03:44:24.000 I wouldn't.

03:44:26.000 I'm not going to say yes and I'm not going to say no.

03:44:29.000 There's a lot of countries that are worse.

03:44:34.000 You're just being disagreeable.

03:44:36.000 You are the best country in the world.

03:44:39.000 Disagreeable.

03:44:40.000 What defines fast is fast.

03:44:45.000 We're the number one world power right now.

03:44:48.000 We're the number one world power.

03:44:49.000 So it is a fact that the United States is the number one country.

03:44:52.000 Yeah, but Russia definitely on a hit.

03:44:56.000 What? 1.00

03:44:56.000 You know, they still running shit too. 1.00

03:44:58.000 Russia? 1.00

03:44:59.000 Yes.

03:44:59.000 Over the U.S.? No, I'm saying they're all in sync.

03:45:02.000 They're all moving.

03:45:04.000 Going back to what you were saying.

03:45:06.000 You were saying something about communitarianism?

03:45:08.000 No, I misunderstood what you had said.

03:45:10.000 I heard communicative.

03:45:11.000 Communitarian.

03:45:12.000 Yeah, I misheard you.

03:45:14.000 Okay.

03:45:15.000 She's being honest.

03:45:18.000 So...

03:45:18.000 Daughter-in-law?

03:45:21.000 No daughter-in-law.

03:45:22.000 Who'd you pick?

03:45:23.000 Daughter-in-law?

03:45:26.000 Daughter-in-law.

03:45:28.000 Um...

03:45:30.000 Daughter-in-law?

03:45:31.000 I mean, she's not here right now, but one of you two.

03:45:34.000 Either of you two.

03:45:35.000 Just because you guys kind of throughout this podcast, you guys have spoken up when you feel like there's something to speak up about.

03:45:48.000 You know what I mean?

03:45:49.000 And you have your own stance, your own opinion, that sort of thing.

03:45:53.000 Neutral.

03:45:54.000 God forbid people have an opinion, or that women have an opinion. 1.00

03:45:56.000 No, you can have an opinion, it just is wrong sometimes.

03:45:59.000 You would know.

03:46:01.000 Who I wouldn't want as like a mother-in-law.

03:46:05.000 I mean, a daughter-in-law sort of thing.

03:46:08.000 I'm not gonna lie.

03:46:09.000 It might be. 1.00

03:46:10.000 Listen, listen, I fuck with you. 1.00

03:46:12.000 I fuck with you. 1.00

03:46:12.000 But either one of either one of you guys, simply because, yeah, the whole, I'm sorry, the whole texting thing after three hours, like, I'm sorry, that's a bit much for me. 1.00

03:46:22.000 You got to have a little bit of trust and a little bit of security.

03:46:24.000 For that, but it takes time to develop, you know what I mean?

03:46:26.000 So I'm not shitting on you for that, but that's just not what I would want if I had a son.

03:46:32.000 And sometimes you get a little combative. 0.85

03:46:34.000 A little bit.

03:46:34.000 I'm gonna take that one.

03:46:36.000 A little bit.

03:46:36.000 Your passion comes off as combative sometimes, and it doesn't read right.

03:46:40.000 Sometimes it's not well received.

03:46:41.000 Wait, you gonna take that from her?

03:46:43.000 Don't take that from her.

03:46:44.000 If I was you, I wouldn't take that.

03:46:46.000 I kind of was because I said I was earlier.

03:46:49.000 Why are you trying to make us fight?

03:46:51.000 Listen, sister, don't get out from her. 1.00

03:46:55.000 Don't do that.

03:46:55.000 Okay, now he's just...

03:46:56.000 You're just stirring shit up. 0.99

03:46:57.000 You just want us to fight. 0.99

03:46:59.000 You just want us to have a cat fight right here. 1.00

03:47:01.000 Bro.

03:47:01.000 You just want us to fight.

03:47:02.000 Why would you do that?

03:47:03.000 Literally, I said that in the most respectful way possible, I think.

03:47:06.000 No, but I'm not going to lie.

03:47:07.000 I know where my fashion was coming from, but see...

03:47:09.000 Seeing how you guys took it, I'm like, alright, let me reanalyze my expression.

03:47:15.000 Let me reanalyze my expression.

03:47:17.000 Because I wasn't even trying to be threatening or, you know, but that's how strong I was going for what we was talking about.

03:47:24.000 So I'm definitely going to work on it.

03:47:26.000 I mean, you're just a very masculine woman, to be honest with you. 0.98

03:47:30.000 But that's how I was raised, though.

03:47:32.000 You wouldn't date her because she's masculine? 1.00

03:47:35.000 Let me ask you a question.

03:47:37.000 Would you date a guy that wears heels?

03:47:39.000 No, I'm sorry.

03:47:40.000 Okay, so you can't expect a guy to date a girl that's masculine.

03:47:43.000 Yeah.

03:47:43.000 That was the answer to your question.

03:47:46.000 I'm not going to really...

03:47:47.000 She's not wearing a jockstrap or anything right now, so I don't know why you're talking about heels. 0.67

03:47:50.000 No, I understand what he says.

03:47:51.000 I understand what he says.

03:47:52.000 I get the point of what he's saying, but the comparisons aren't there for me.

03:47:57.000 So it's cool.

03:47:59.000 It's cool. 0.98

03:47:59.000 They fuck with the rules. 0.98

03:48:00.000 This also went over your head last time when I talked about female standards being praised versus male standards being demonized. 0.99

03:48:06.000 If a man is masculine, it is not acceptable. 0.99

03:48:10.000 But if a woman is masculine, it is acceptable. 0.92

03:48:12.000 As a matter of fact, in our society, we encourage women to be strong and independent.

03:48:16.000 And I'm telling you that these traits are not desirable and not attractive.

03:48:19.000 And I'm not even opposed to what you're saying, honestly, because I know that men do want women that's feminine.

03:48:25.000 But where I come from, I'm a survivor.

03:48:27.000 And this is who I am.

03:48:28.000 I'm a survivor.

03:48:31.000 I'm not the lover.

03:48:39.000 For nobody.

03:48:41.000 I love all y'all for who y'all are.

03:48:45.000 Feminine, masculine, whatever it is.

03:48:47.000 I respect it.

03:48:48.000 Let me ask you a question real fast.

03:48:51.000 Let's say I wanted to sit down in my basement, watch porn, smoke weed every day, not get a job. 1.00

03:48:59.000 Do I deserve a bad bitch? 1.00

03:49:00.000 No. 1.00

03:49:02.000 Honestly, no. 1.00

03:49:03.000 What if I told you guys, I deserve a bad bitch, man, and I'm not going to settle, I'm not going to change until I get that bad bitch. 1.00

03:49:09.000 You go king! 1.00

03:49:10.000 You go king!

03:49:11.000 I'm a getter!

03:49:11.000 I'm a getter?

03:49:12.000 Yeah, fuck yeah, Chris, do I deserve one? 1.00

03:49:14.000 Chris? 1.00

03:49:15.000 No?

03:49:15.000 I deserve one?

03:49:16.000 Yeah, king!

03:49:16.000 Alright, cool.

03:49:17.000 I deserve a bad bitch. 1.00

03:49:18.000 I'm not changing. 1.00

03:49:20.000 I'm not changing.

03:49:22.000 Hold on, hold on, stop the show. 1.00

03:49:24.000 Yo, yo, how stupid did I sound just now? 1.00

03:49:27.000 You sound obnoxious. 1.00

03:49:28.000 Real bad. 0.94

03:49:29.000 Like, you needed a dip.

03:49:30.000 Cool.

03:49:30.000 So, let me ask you a question.

03:49:33.000 Why do you think it's acceptable for you to continue behaving the way that you're behaving to get a high-status guy, but me being a loser and saying I deserve a bad bitch is ridiculous? 0.99

03:49:41.000 I'm sorry. 0.99

03:49:42.000 Like, I'm the way I am like this, but, like, it's like I do...

03:49:45.000 It's like once a man sees, like, yo, she go everything on her own. 1.00

03:49:48.000 She her own soldier type shit. 0.99

03:49:50.000 Like, I'm not like this with the dude I like. 1.00

03:49:53.000 Like, you see how I'm like this with my nigga?

03:49:54.000 I be like, hey, hey.

03:49:55.000 Like, I really...

03:49:56.000 It's like he pulled that out of me, but everybody else see the...

03:49:58.000 Yeah, so you're conditionally feminine. 0.99

03:50:00.000 But with my dude, I'm very...

03:50:02.000 I'm very submissive.

03:50:04.000 Like, I'm very...

03:50:05.000 Well, you know what?

03:50:06.000 Let's use that logic.

03:50:07.000 You know what?

03:50:08.000 I'm conditionally masculine.

03:50:10.000 I protect you some of the time.

03:50:13.000 What?

03:50:15.000 I'm not letting it fly over my head.

03:50:17.000 What?

03:50:17.000 You said, basically by your own, what you just said, you're conditionally submissive for the guy, right?

03:50:23.000 No, that's what happens to me.

03:50:25.000 When I fall in love with somebody, I just turn...

03:50:28.000 Please pay attention.

03:50:30.000 You said, by what you just said, that you're conditionally feminine. 0.93

03:50:33.000 For the right guy.

03:50:35.000 You're feminine for the right guy. 1.00

03:50:37.000 Not on purpose.

03:50:38.000 He unlocks...

03:50:39.000 No, no, no.

03:50:40.000 What he's trying to say is you'll be feminine for the right guy.

03:50:45.000 Yes.

03:50:46.000 By default means you're conditionally feminine. 0.95

03:50:49.000 Because it's under the condition you meet the guy.

03:50:51.000 Yeah, but I'm...

03:50:52.000 Okay, so with that said, I'm saying I'm going to be conditionally masculine.

03:50:56.000 I'm going to protect you some at a time.

03:50:58.000 How does that sound?

03:50:59.000 But I got to be masculine to protect myself.

03:51:01.000 No, no, no, no, no.

03:51:02.000 You're missing the point. 0.98

03:51:03.000 I sound ridiculous by saying that. 0.99

03:51:06.000 And I'm saying, it's just as ludicrous as a woman saying, I'm conditionally feminine. 1.00

03:51:10.000 Just like I said before, I deserve a bad bitch and I'm not changing. 1.00

03:51:13.000 That's ridiculous, like you saying, you are not going to change and there's a guy out there for you. 1.00

03:51:18.000 No. 0.98

03:51:19.000 People are not going to accept you the way you come.

03:51:21.000 You must change if you want the best that you can get.

03:51:23.000 That's how the world works.

03:51:24.000 You have to work for it and not think people are going to accept you the way you come.

03:51:27.000 But with feminine and masculinity, not like being positive and being negative, like who the person is, you know what I'm saying?

03:51:34.000 What if the man of your dreams was watching right now on TV or YouTube, right?

03:51:39.000 He'd say, you know what? 0.97

03:51:39.000 Damn, she's hot, but like, bro, her attitude is different. 0.97

03:51:42.000 Like, it's too masculine for me. 1.00

03:51:44.000 You just turn them off. 0.99

03:51:45.000 But if you're feminine, the whole time I was like, damn, shorty's beautiful. 0.98

03:51:49.000 She's feminine. 0.98

03:51:50.000 You know what?

03:51:50.000 After the show, I'm going to hit her up.

03:51:51.000 You just turn them off because you're out there right now.

03:51:54.000 Honestly, and that's fine because...

03:51:56.000 It's not fine.

03:51:57.000 No, it is fine because I'm still going to be me.

03:52:01.000 All right, so you're not changing.

03:52:02.000 No, it's not that I don't want to change.

03:52:04.000 It's just that...

03:52:04.000 She's staying true to herself.

03:52:06.000 That's who I am right now.

03:52:07.000 If you want to unlock...

03:52:08.000 Listen, the way I am how I am because I'm protective.

03:52:12.000 And I'm stern.

03:52:13.000 I grew up around all my brothers and stuff.

03:52:16.000 That's what it is.

03:52:17.000 But when I meet a man that I'm in love with, I don't purposely just be like, that's just what happens.

03:52:22.000 And then he sees that side, but...

03:52:25.000 I'm out here.

03:52:25.000 I'm protecting myself at the end of the day.

03:52:27.000 So if I am a little too masculine and, you know, how I am is really what I've done.

03:52:32.000 So if that expression is expressing to you that I'm masculine, I'm a strong black woman. 0.93

03:52:38.000 Alright, well, most guys don't like strong black women. 1.00

03:52:41.000 Sorry. 0.97

03:52:41.000 And this has been proven by statistically speaking. 0.97

03:52:44.000 And that is okay.

03:52:45.000 But my thing is, like, it's amazing to me how women think, I don't have to change.

03:52:51.000 I'm going to continue to do what I've been doing and expect a different result.

03:52:55.000 That is, by definition, the definition of insanity.

03:52:58.000 Whoa, whoa.

03:52:58.000 I want to know it's men to never change.

03:53:01.000 Men never change.

03:53:01.000 Men will tell you to change 20 times.

03:53:03.000 You will change 20 times. 0.99

03:53:04.000 And even your hairstyles, and they still are fucking same. 0.99

03:53:07.000 I'm not even listening to none of that. 0.99

03:53:09.000 You better go to your homeboys and talk about that in the dark, in the closet, because y'all is talking ludicrous in R. Kelly right now. 0.72

03:53:15.000 I'm going to tell you why.

03:53:17.000 What does that have to do with what I just said? 0.98

03:53:18.000 Because you're talking ludicrous. 0.89

03:53:20.000 What did I say that was ludicrous in particular? 0.96

03:53:22.000 I just explained it.

03:53:23.000 What did I say?

03:53:24.000 I just said it.

03:53:25.000 Everything. 0.80

03:53:25.000 What did I say that was ludicrous? 0.80

03:53:27.000 What you said was... 0.95

03:53:30.000 As women, we act this way and don't expect a change, but we expect more from men.

03:53:37.000 Basically what you just said.

03:53:38.000 But normally y'all don't change.

03:53:39.000 And she just said, men would tell you to change 20 times and all this other stuff, and you could change your hairstyle and men are still the same.

03:53:46.000 Change your ways, your hairstyles.

03:53:48.000 That's basically what she said.

03:53:48.000 You change exactly what they're saying and somehow you still end up, you still gotta change.

03:53:52.000 You guys are wrong.

03:53:53.000 Check.

03:53:53.000 And the reason why you guys are wrong is because men, by default, have to change.

03:53:58.000 They have to go to the gym.

03:53:59.000 They have to get a job.

03:54:00.000 They have to climb up the social ranks.

03:54:02.000 Men have to self-improve to get women. 1.00

03:54:04.000 Women, however, think, I'm going to behave however I want, act however I want, and still get a guy. 1.00

03:54:09.000 This is scary, man.

03:54:10.000 Who said that?

03:54:11.000 Look, she's not even listening. 0.88

03:54:12.000 Who's acting like that?

03:54:13.000 I don't know a single woman that acts like that. 1.00

03:54:15.000 Like, this is your topic.

03:54:16.000 I'm literally repeating what you said, and you're not even paying attention.

03:54:19.000 I'm sorry, I grabbed it.

03:54:22.000 It was something that wasn't even supposed to be talked about right now.

03:54:26.000 It was just a quick...

03:54:27.000 You brought it up.

03:54:30.000 Y'all talked about my masculinity and I said what I said.

03:54:36.000 Hence...

03:54:36.000 Because y'all brought up me trying not to change from being masculine.

03:54:40.000 Like, I'm not purposely like, yo, bro.

03:54:42.000 If that's who I am and you don't respect it, oh, well.

03:54:45.000 What do you mean you're not purposely saying, yo, bro?

03:54:47.000 I mean...

03:54:48.000 Like, she's not trying to act muscular.

03:54:50.000 She's just naturally... 0.94

03:54:51.000 And you're saying, like, I won't change.

03:54:53.000 It's like...

03:54:54.000 Is she not in control of what she says and how she behaves? 0.98

03:54:57.000 Is she not a sentient human being?

03:54:59.000 No, no, no.

03:55:00.000 What she's saying is she's not purposely doing it.

03:55:04.000 She's not trying to do it just to really be like that.

03:55:07.000 Like, yeah, I'm masculine. 1.00

03:55:08.000 Don't fuck with me. 1.00

03:55:09.000 That's just how she is. 1.00

03:55:10.000 That's what she's trying to say.

03:55:12.000 But it's still a purposeful choice.

03:55:14.000 But that went into the conversation of changing for your man.

03:55:19.000 Like a man don't want no masculine woman. 0.96

03:55:22.000 Would you change and all that stuff?

03:55:24.000 And I'm saying how I am right now. 1.00

03:55:26.000 Any nigga I ever fucked with. 1.00

03:55:28.000 Respect my sturdiness, but he also only see, he only see, but real rep, he only see my soft side. 0.99

03:55:34.000 Right.

03:55:35.000 Even my closest girlfriends be like, yo, like, when I'm not in a relationship, they be like, I want to see how you really act with a dude you like, because the dude you meet just out in the street, you brothering them up and all this other stuff. 0.98

03:55:44.000 And then one day she's seen and she was just like, damn. 0.96

03:55:48.000 It's just how it is. 0.94

03:55:49.000 The point I'm trying to make is that It's interesting that you don't feel like you have the need to change to attract the man that you want, but men actively almost always have to change and adapt who they are to become the most attractive man to women.

03:56:02.000 And what I'm saying is that if there is a man that rises to that level that has a bunch of attractive girls that want him, why would he pick you when he can go get another girl that's less masculine?

03:56:11.000 I'm not even looking at looks because it's what I feel on the inside.

03:56:17.000 There's a lot of people who's based off looks like, oh my gosh, she looks better than me.

03:56:20.000 I'm a woman of soul.

03:56:23.000 You're missing the whole point.

03:56:24.000 This has nothing to do with you.

03:56:26.000 There is competition.

03:56:28.000 Not in my world.

03:56:29.000 We're all here to compete.

03:56:32.000 Sorry.

03:56:33.000 I'm in my own lane.

03:56:34.000 Like, for real, I want everybody to win.

03:56:37.000 This is what I mean when I say women get the privilege of being delusional. 1.00

03:56:39.000 With all due respect, what you said is not true.

03:56:42.000 We are all here to compete for a mate.

03:56:44.000 We all are, whether you want to accept it or not.

03:56:46.000 We're all here to procreate and mate, and by default, to mate, you must compete with other women for the best men. 0.99

03:56:53.000 If anything, women compete at the highest level because you guys are all chasing a small percentage of men.

03:56:57.000 So whether you want to acknowledge that you're competing or not, you are.

03:57:01.000 I see what you're saying.

03:57:03.000 Like, you be hooked up.

03:57:05.000 Okay.

03:57:06.000 Just like, bro, could you imagine if men walked around saying, like, auto-compete, there's no competition, all this other stuff, and, like, actually, like, thought that way?

03:57:13.000 It's like, no.

03:57:14.000 Men compete all day.

03:57:15.000 Men have to become the best version of themselves to get girls. 0.98

03:57:18.000 But women don't think they have to be the best version of themselves to get a man. 1.00

03:57:21.000 Because y'all forget that real true love exists.

03:57:23.000 For who?

03:57:24.000 Let me finish.

03:57:25.000 Both, please.

03:57:30.000 Girls, sorry, Myron.

03:57:32.000 We have four hours.

03:57:33.000 Four hours?

03:57:35.000 We've been in four hours.

03:57:37.000 The girls are tired. 1.00

03:57:39.000 We literally have to push through this.

03:57:43.000 Is it 2.30 in the morning?

03:57:45.000 I'm sorry, yes.

03:57:47.000 Time flies when you're being triggered.

03:57:49.000 Shout out to the Henny.

03:57:51.000 Shout out to Fresh and Fit Podcast.

03:57:53.000 Love you, FNF. Please tell my boy, Monty, to stop paying for expensive dinners for these girls who don't give any attention and only want his Monty.

03:58:01.000 He's being a...

03:58:02.000 I need to be told live.

03:58:05.000 Love y'all.

03:58:05.000 Time to get my book, Why Women Deserve Less.

03:58:07.000 I talk about why simping in 2023 is absolutely unacceptable.

03:58:11.000 And I go into detail, guys, with the sex industry... 0.99

03:58:14.000 Um, you know, all this shit where girls are basically monetizing your lust for them, uh, against you. 1.00

03:58:21.000 Uh, HK goes, oh, I didn't know you started getting men on the show. 0.99

03:58:26.000 Short hair guy.

03:58:27.000 Okay.

03:58:27.000 Um, why women deserve less by my own gains.

03:58:30.000 Number one, bestseller in feminist theory.

03:58:32.000 Number two in feminist criticism, 11 in spiritual self-help and bestsellers rank 31 on Amazon. 0.99

03:58:37.000 Oh shit. 0.99

03:58:37.000 Okay. 0.99

03:58:37.000 We're already up. 0.99

03:58:38.000 All right.

03:58:39.000 Uh, for the girls getting no gift.

03:58:41.000 Don't worry.

03:58:41.000 I'll give you some, uh, I'll give you some poppy chow.

03:58:45.000 On top of that, I'll rip up the fallopian tubes of the girl two down from iron and shoelaces it because she's hideous. 1.00

03:58:51.000 Goddamn, nigga! 1.00

03:58:52.000 Wait, two... 1.00

03:58:54.000 You must come from a broken home.

03:58:56.000 We sending bad energy away and we sending energy for you to fall down the steps.

03:59:00.000 I'll kick the sports.

03:59:01.000 On behalf of all the Asian community, we kindly decline the girl and the red association with us and kindly pass her on to the Russians. 1.00

03:59:08.000 Wait, wait, wait.

03:59:11.000 Go back.

03:59:11.000 I didn't see that.

03:59:12.000 I was talking shit. 1.00

03:59:13.000 What happened? 0.99

03:59:14.000 On behalf of all Asian community, I'm Blasian.

03:59:16.000 I'm Black and Asian, first of all.

03:59:18.000 So throw respect on my name, Morfa. 0.99

03:59:19.000 I throw you in the dirt.

03:59:21.000 Well, that's what he was saying. 0.73

03:59:23.000 I'm not gonna lie. 1.00

03:59:23.000 You're more a nigga than Asian, bro. 1.00

03:59:25.000 My mother's black. 1.00

03:59:26.000 A black queen. 0.93

03:59:27.000 Rashida. 0.62

03:59:28.000 Play with it. 1.00

03:59:30.000 You're more a nigga than Asian, nigga. 1.00

03:59:31.000 It don't matter, nigga. 1.00

03:59:33.000 Yo, chill, bro. 0.98

03:59:34.000 What is wrong with you?

03:59:37.000 We're not your homeboys.

03:59:38.000 Stop talking to us like that.

03:59:39.000 It don't matter.

03:59:40.000 It does matter.

03:59:43.000 I'm gonna respond, bro.

03:59:44.000 Okay, but you talking to him now?

03:59:46.000 I was talking to that.

03:59:47.000 What is you talking about?

03:59:48.000 You were responding to Fresh. 1.00

03:59:49.000 I'm talking my shit because they talking shit. 1.00

03:59:51.000 Like, what are you talking about? 1.00

03:59:53.000 Bro, let me make this very clear.

03:59:55.000 I'm not one of your boyfriends or some dude that's gonna... 0.99

03:59:58.000 They talking shit and I can't... 0.99

04:00:02.000 It's fun and you just made it for real. 1.00

04:00:05.000 No, because you've been doing this for the better part of the show, just being extremely...

04:00:09.000 I'mma keep it real. 1.00

04:00:12.000 They was talking shit. 1.00

04:00:13.000 I can't talk my shit back, so that's it. 1.00

04:00:15.000 You can, but... 1.00

04:00:17.000 I was just saying I'm gonna throw you in the dirt.

04:00:20.000 You were responding to him when you said that other stuff.

04:00:24.000 Do you even know what you're saying right now?

04:00:25.000 Bro, I know exactly what I'm saying.

04:00:27.000 What'd you say?

04:00:29.000 What I'm saying right now.

04:00:30.000 Very clearly.

04:00:31.000 It ain't nothing slurred coming out of my mouth.

04:00:34.000 I don't think you know what's going on.

04:00:38.000 We go finish reading the theme or what?

04:00:40.000 Yeah.

04:00:41.000 That's what I'm talking about. 1.00

04:00:41.000 Shit, are you good? 1.00

04:00:42.000 I've seen something that was amusing to me. 1.00

04:00:47.000 Alright.

04:00:48.000 I'm talking about the comments that was up there. 0.99

04:00:51.000 Yeah, it's like if I can't talk my shit back, bro. 0.99

04:00:53.000 Alright. 0.99

04:00:54.000 You were talking to me before.

04:00:56.000 It's fine, but listen.

04:00:57.000 Why are you standing up?

04:00:58.000 Because I'm about to walk.

04:00:59.000 I'm walking off.

04:01:01.000 Alright, walk off then.

04:01:02.000 Walk off.

04:01:03.000 Please walk off.

04:01:04.000 You're fine.

04:01:05.000 Just walk off.

04:01:09.000 Incredible.

04:01:13.000 Just please get your stuff.

04:01:14.000 You can put your shoes on outside.

04:01:16.000 You can put your shoes on outside so we can get the show going so we don't want to delay this even more.

04:01:23.000 I love you, Valentine.

04:01:31.000 You will be missed.

04:01:33.000 Alright, just speed it up, guys, so we can get back.

04:01:40.000 I have a serious question.

04:01:42.000 Do you have snacks?

04:01:44.000 I'm genuinely hungry.

04:01:46.000 Bro, do we look like a homeless shelter or something?

04:01:49.000 I'm just asking for it.

04:01:50.000 So you're just going to have guests for like four or five hours and like not...

04:01:54.000 You're free to leave at any time you want.

04:01:55.000 It was just a question.

04:01:56.000 No, for real.

04:01:58.000 That's just hospitality.

04:01:59.000 Like...

04:02:00.000 If y'all can offer us drinks, you can offer a bag of chips.

04:02:02.000 What's your sign?

04:02:03.000 I'm so sorry.

04:02:04.000 What's your sign?

04:02:04.000 If y'all are hungry and you guys want to leave, you guys are more than welcome to go.

04:02:07.000 I'm curious.

04:02:08.000 What's your sign?

04:02:09.000 But this isn't like some charity organization.

04:02:12.000 No, I understand, but...

04:02:13.000 You should've ate before you came.

04:02:16.000 I did.

04:02:17.000 I was here for four hours.

04:02:19.000 You offered us drinks.

04:02:20.000 So, obviously, we're obviously going to get hungry.

04:02:23.000 Okay, well, I mean, we're wrapping up, but your friend decided to cause a spectacle for no reason.

04:02:28.000 Your Valentine.

04:02:29.000 Well, is she okay?

04:02:31.000 Incredible.

04:02:33.000 Yo, guys, just, like, get her out so we can get this thing going. 1.00

04:02:36.000 Like, she's over here just being annoying. 1.00

04:02:40.000 Oh, no, I'm not going to do no weird shit. 0.97

04:02:42.000 Like, the way I took it was, like, why don't you invite me? 0.95

04:02:45.000 Alright, yo.

04:02:46.000 Can you just please take your shoes and go outside and put them on so we can get this thing going?

04:02:52.000 You need to chill out.

04:02:54.000 You need to chill out.

04:02:55.000 Because you're delaying the show now.

04:02:56.000 You're delaying the show.

04:02:58.000 Oh, now you're mad for real.

04:03:01.000 You're the one getting kicked out.

04:03:04.000 Incredible.

04:03:09.000 She's really tight.

04:03:11.000 And she's still talking.

04:03:13.000 Incredible.

04:03:16.000 She ain't gonna get a reaction out of me. 1.00

04:03:17.000 She just looks foolish. 0.99

04:03:22.000 That was really Section 8 behavior right there. 0.99

04:03:27.000 Anyway, guys, book in stores.

04:03:29.000 Why Women Deserve Less. 1.00

04:03:31.000 That's so racist.

04:03:34.000 How's that racist?

04:03:35.000 Section 8 behavior?

04:03:36.000 What is that supposed to mean?

04:03:38.000 Section 8 is open to all races.

04:03:40.000 How's that racist?

04:03:41.000 No, but what do you mean by Section 8 behavior?

04:03:43.000 That was low-class, low-value behavior.

04:03:45.000 Which is typical of people of lower socioeconomic status.

04:03:49.000 You made it racist with your comment.

04:03:52.000 I absolutely didn't.

04:03:53.000 Section 8 is absolutely available to all races.

04:03:55.000 I'm aware of that.

04:03:56.000 Okay, so what made it racist?

04:03:58.000 Because you're saying rah-rah, ratchet, like, you know what I mean?

04:04:02.000 Are other races not capable of saying rah-rah and being ratchet? 1.00

04:04:05.000 Yeah, they are.

04:04:06.000 So you came to that conclusion on your own.

04:04:08.000 I didn't say anything about black people.

04:04:09.000 I have a question in regards to that.

04:04:11.000 So when you hear someone...

04:04:13.000 Listen, how you guys feel about what I said is irrelevant to what was actually said.

04:04:17.000 If you come back with it saying, that was racist.

04:04:20.000 Not really.

04:04:21.000 She's acting in a behavior, in a manner that is indicative of someone of a lower socioeconomic class.

04:04:29.000 Okay, so you're saying that I didn't think it was racist.

04:04:32.000 I'm black too.

04:04:33.000 So what is it?

04:04:34.000 I didn't think it was racist, but I don't know, but it had some sort of like, yeah, like connotation, like ratchet, like, you know what I mean?

04:04:41.000 Like rah, rah, ratchet, like all this stuff.

04:04:44.000 And then you're trying to say, like, what are you trying to say that section eight people aren't capable of having any class?

04:04:50.000 There's a lot of people in Section 8 that end up there having come from wealthy backgrounds and stuff like that.

04:04:56.000 There's all kinds of people.

04:04:57.000 Wait, what?

04:04:58.000 People that came from wealthy backgrounds and went to Section 8?

04:05:02.000 Yes, people can go bankrupt.

04:05:05.000 Where are they gonna go?

04:05:07.000 You think those people don't have the capacity to go homeless?

04:05:15.000 You're standing up for Section 8.

04:05:18.000 Congrats.

04:05:19.000 You're saving the world.

04:05:20.000 Congrats.

04:05:20.000 That makes no sense.

04:05:22.000 Oh my god, forgive me for speaking up.

04:05:23.000 I forgot y'all invite girls here to not talk. 0.78

04:05:26.000 No, no, it's not about that.

04:05:27.000 If you're gonna talk, please make sense.

04:05:29.000 You said they were rich and now they're on Section 8?

04:05:31.000 That can happen.

04:05:33.000 I'm saying that can happen.

04:05:34.000 But you're saying it's like lower middle class, lower socioeconomic class behavior.

04:05:38.000 The majority of Section 8 is not from wealth to Section 8.

04:05:40.000 No, no, no.

04:05:40.000 I know that, but I'm saying that.

04:05:42.000 I'm just saying. 0.54

04:05:43.000 It's not all dumb choices, though. 0.95

04:05:45.000 Oh, really? 0.95

04:05:46.000 Some people don't have choices.

04:05:48.000 This is where you're wrong.

04:05:50.000 We own property.

04:05:51.000 We have Section 8 tenants.

04:05:52.000 They tend to be some of the most problematic tenants.

04:05:55.000 Yeah.

04:05:55.000 Okay?

04:05:55.000 Regardless of race.

04:05:57.000 I deal with Section 8 tenants as well.

04:05:59.000 Oh, do you own property?

04:05:59.000 Good.

04:06:00.000 No, I don't own property.

04:06:02.000 Then you can stop talking because you don't understand dealing with them.

04:06:06.000 It's one thing to be a landlord over them versus working with them.

04:06:08.000 I... I see them.

04:06:10.000 I'm their case manager.

04:06:11.000 I have to work with them.

04:06:12.000 They own property. 1.00

04:06:13.000 They have to deal with shit, alright? 1.00

04:06:15.000 Listen. 1.00

04:06:15.000 And I don't. 1.00

04:06:16.000 I said that was Section 8 behavior.

04:06:18.000 Section 8 is open to all races.

04:06:20.000 You immediately attributed to it.

04:06:22.000 That was racist.

04:06:23.000 That was racist. 0.97

04:06:23.000 As in trying to say that I'm being racist towards black people. 0.97

04:06:25.000 I'm black myself.

04:06:26.000 Behavior is not indicative of a race.

04:06:30.000 It's indicative of the person. 0.94

04:06:31.000 Race is black. 0.98

04:06:33.000 She just happened to be black. 1.00

04:06:34.000 Pretty obvious.

04:06:35.000 I feel like it had to do with that.

04:06:37.000 It had to do with her behavior.

04:06:39.000 Yeah.

04:06:40.000 Ratchet behavior.

04:06:41.000 Come on, man.

04:06:41.000 You didn't have to call it Section 8 behavior, though.

04:06:44.000 I call it what I want.

04:06:44.000 He just did.

04:06:46.000 You can't call it what you want, but I'm just saying you don't...

04:06:48.000 No, he's like a huge instigator.

04:06:49.000 Are you kidding me?

04:06:50.000 But he just...

04:06:51.000 He didn't have to say that.

04:06:53.000 He could absolutely say that.

04:06:55.000 He absolutely can.

04:06:56.000 He has...

04:06:56.000 You know, he can say whatever he wants.

04:06:58.000 But...

04:06:58.000 Is it right?

04:07:00.000 No, not necessarily.

04:07:01.000 I don't think it was right to call it Section 8 behavior. 1.00

04:07:02.000 She was about to beat your ass. 1.00

04:07:04.000 Who was about to beat your ass? 1.00

04:07:05.000 No, you wanted to beat her ass. 1.00

04:07:08.000 That was ratchet, wasn't it? 1.00

04:07:09.000 Who was going to be who-ass? 0.79

04:07:11.000 Listen, bruh.

04:07:12.000 No, you were the one instigating the whole argument with her and I. Section 8 behavior is telling her, oh, you're going to take that?

04:07:21.000 You're going to take that?

04:07:24.000 That's Section 8 behavior.

04:07:26.000 So, don't start with me.

04:07:28.000 Don't start with her, folks.

04:07:28.000 If you want to start with that.

04:07:29.000 Shout the fuck with them. 1.00

04:07:31.000 Well, either way, that was Section 8 Behavior. 1.00

04:07:35.000 Spook is out. 0.99

04:07:36.000 White women deserve less, bro, because that was some ratchet-ass behavior right there, man. 1.00

04:07:39.000 Holy. 1.00

04:07:40.000 I don't care what race she is. 1.00

04:07:41.000 That was some bullshit. 1.00

04:07:42.000 Terrible. 1.00

04:07:43.000 Girl in red, just shut up. 1.00

04:07:44.000 Damn, you annoying. 1.00

04:07:45.000 Girl next to fresh, no brain cells at all. 1.00

04:07:47.000 Black girl, one from Myron.

04:07:48.000 You get a 10K with voodoo. 0.96

04:07:49.000 Girl, we gap.

04:07:50.000 You from a horror movie. 1.00

04:07:51.000 Goddamn. 1.00

04:07:52.000 You from a horror movie too, baby. 1.00

04:07:53.000 It's fine.

04:07:54.000 HK, short hair girl is the most rational. 1.00

04:07:56.000 What the fuck is wrong with the rest of the panel? 1.00

04:07:58.000 Goddamn, stupid, slow, can't think of shit, ignorant, hell nah, Big W Martin. 1.00

04:08:01.000 Alright. 1.00

04:08:02.000 It's Kupasana.

04:08:03.000 One thing I've noticed with most women is they lack humility. 1.00

04:08:05.000 One of the main character building traits in human beings.

04:08:07.000 I can tell men don't tell you the truth ever.

04:08:09.000 Y'all lacking character big time.

04:08:11.000 It happens, bro. 0.99

04:08:12.000 You get no bitches. 1.00

04:08:16.000 How does that hurt him? 0.99

04:08:18.000 He paid $10 just to say something that's so irrelevant.

04:08:23.000 You can tell by his profile picture, he don't got no shorties.

04:08:28.000 Yo, man.

04:08:29.000 Yo, tap back, bro.

04:08:31.000 Checked up on Redhead's UN stats.

04:08:32.000 She's misrepresenting the data.

04:08:34.000 UN uses the entire world for pay gap for women. 1.00

04:08:36.000 It actually shows percentage in women's favor in the US per international labor organization. 0.99

04:08:41.000 Damn. 1.00

04:08:41.000 Oh, damn. 1.00

04:08:44.000 Good for him, I guess. 1.00

04:08:46.000 Good for him, I guess.

04:08:46.000 He had to go out of his way and research it and have to make a comment about it.

04:08:50.000 It's fantastic.

04:08:51.000 Maybe you should have done that.

04:08:51.000 I mean, yeah, maybe you should have done that.

04:08:53.000 Before you say it, on live television.

04:08:56.000 I didn't even know what this podcast was.

04:08:58.000 I wasn't going to come equipped with all this stuff.

04:08:59.000 You said you kept prepared.

04:09:01.000 I'm ready for this.

04:09:02.000 Okay, let me ask you a question.

04:09:03.000 I felt ready for this.

04:09:04.000 If you go somewhere and you're unprepared, whose fault is it that you're unprepared?

04:09:08.000 My own?

04:09:11.000 So you gotta take some accountability. 1.00

04:09:16.000 No one can make you look stupid except for yourself, which you did a great job of doing today. 1.00

04:09:20.000 All right. 1.00

04:09:22.000 Who else?

04:09:22.000 This is Kim Possible being impossible.

04:09:25.000 Zero females. 0.74

04:09:26.000 Zero females ever want to work at the oil refinery I work at. 1.00

04:09:29.000 I make $150,000 per year.

04:09:32.000 Female trainees wash out at three to six months. 1.00

04:09:34.000 And 50, 60 hour work weeks never agree with them.

04:09:36.000 They prefer to work less with 34 to 40k per year jobs.

04:09:41.000 Tate Manners Master-ism.

04:09:43.000 Sending prayers to Andrew and Tristan Tate.

04:09:45.000 FreeTopG.com.

04:09:46.000 Definitely free the bros.

04:09:48.000 We're going to be in Dubai.

04:09:50.000 We're going to expose some of the lies that have been perpetrated against them, guys.

04:09:54.000 This was a great show.

04:09:57.000 You can find everyone's Instagram on Instagram.

04:10:00.000 I just want to say...

04:10:01.000 Go ahead. 0.99

04:10:03.000 All the people that's talking shit in the comments and paying all that. 0.99

04:10:06.000 Y'all doing all that and y'all following me and y'all DMing me. 0.99

04:10:11.000 Be for real. 0.99

04:10:13.000 So if y'all go talk shit, at least stand on what you say in the comments and not be in my DMs. 1.00

04:10:19.000 It's the people that are insulting you that are the ones in your DMs. 1.00

04:10:22.000 We have like 30,000 watching.

04:10:24.000 I'm looking at it.

04:10:25.000 So the people that made fun of you or someone's DMing you right now?

04:10:29.000 I just said I'm looking at it, right?

04:10:31.000 Can you name one of them?

04:10:32.000 Yeah, I got you right now. 1.00

04:10:33.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

04:10:35.000 Call him out. 1.00

04:10:36.000 One of the people that made fun of you.

04:10:39.000 And you know what?

04:10:39.000 Send me a screenshot.

04:10:40.000 I will put it on the screen. 1.00

04:10:41.000 Fuck it. 1.00

04:10:42.000 Yeah, because remember, we got like 30k watching right now. 1.00

04:10:44.000 Alright, bet.

04:10:45.000 Well, now, maybe 20-something?

04:10:48.000 Niggas commenting J the King Hard Eyes. 1.00

04:10:53.000 So, J the King, your simp. 0.56

04:10:55.000 Next.

04:10:57.000 Where is that?

04:10:59.000 She's skipping all the ones where they make fun of her.

04:11:01.000 No, I'm not.

04:11:02.000 We should do a segment where we take all the DMs.

04:11:05.000 I'm getting a lot of notifications.

04:11:06.000 It's kind of hard.

04:11:08.000 Let them out.

04:11:09.000 Alright, we'll move on.

04:11:11.000 Cool.

04:11:12.000 Alright, so guys, we got a show on Wednesday, right?

04:11:14.000 Yeah.

04:11:14.000 You don't want to get last thoughts?

04:11:15.000 Yeah.

04:11:16.000 Come on, man.

04:11:17.000 Alright, go ahead.

04:11:18.000 Give your last thoughts on the show.

04:11:19.000 Hate it, love it.

04:11:20.000 How's the show for you?

04:11:21.000 I can honestly say I was pretty chill with this podcast.

04:11:25.000 You know?

04:11:28.000 So, it was a pretty chill podcast for me, at least.

04:11:32.000 Like, y'all funny.

04:11:33.000 Besides a couple of emotional outbursts, but it's okay.

04:11:36.000 And you're cold.

04:11:37.000 Yeah, I was cold.

04:11:40.000 Yeah.

04:11:40.000 I'll come back, though, again.

04:11:42.000 Yeah.

04:11:44.000 If y'all have me.

04:11:46.000 Like, yeah.

04:11:47.000 Most likely, y'all won't.

04:11:48.000 For sure, like, you got this, like...

04:11:50.000 No, you're fine.

04:11:51.000 You're fine.

04:11:52.000 You're good, like...

04:11:52.000 We got you.

04:11:53.000 Like...

04:11:54.000 What were you, like...

04:11:55.000 It was cool, intense.

04:11:57.000 I learned a lot.

04:11:59.000 Like what?

04:12:01.000 Shout out to you for coming.

04:12:03.000 What'd you learn?

04:12:04.000 Chris wanted to know.

04:12:05.000 You sure?

04:12:06.000 You want to know?

04:12:07.000 Sure.

04:12:07.000 Go ahead.

04:12:08.000 Chris obviously wants to know.

04:12:10.000 Well, you know that everybody is entitled to their own opinion, for one.

04:12:16.000 Okay.

04:12:16.000 And two, you know, when you're in an argument, now your facts, I guess.

04:12:24.000 Facts.

04:12:25.000 Do you like syrup?

04:12:27.000 I like syrup.

04:12:29.000 That's cool.

04:12:30.000 Thank you.

04:12:31.000 What?

04:12:32.000 I do like syrup.

04:12:33.000 What was the point of that question?

04:12:34.000 Aunt Jemima.

04:12:37.000 Now fresh.

04:12:38.000 Now fresh.

04:12:41.000 No, it was a cool experience.

04:12:42.000 I appreciate it.

04:12:43.000 Definitely.

04:12:44.000 Thank you for coming.

04:12:45.000 Thank you.

04:12:46.000 You have very good insight on these topics.

04:12:48.000 You didn't tell me thank you.

04:12:49.000 Thank you.

04:12:50.000 We didn't contribute much to the show, to be honest.

04:12:52.000 No, goodbye.

04:12:54.000 I'm just kidding.

04:12:54.000 Besides saying I'm hungry and making a false Valentine's...

04:12:58.000 It's cold in the years.

04:12:58.000 I mean...

04:12:59.000 No, it is cold in the years.

04:13:00.000 I heard a song and...

04:13:01.000 And like mouthing a song to yourself while we're making a point.

04:13:04.000 I don't know.

04:13:05.000 But that's fine.

04:13:06.000 I mean...

04:13:06.000 You weren't terrible.

04:13:07.000 You were okay.

04:13:08.000 I was chilling.

04:13:09.000 It's got pretty privilege.

04:13:10.000 You were okay.

04:13:11.000 What about you?

04:13:13.000 Honestly, it was a chill experience.

04:13:16.000 I mean, I'm not gonna lie.

04:13:17.000 You had a lot of, like, valid points, but I don't agree to everything that you said.

04:13:22.000 What you don't agree with.

04:13:26.000 Please don't.

04:13:27.000 I want to go home.

04:13:27.000 Please don't.

04:13:28.000 Please don't.

04:13:29.000 No, it's not that.

04:13:30.000 It's just that you guys are disagreeing because of how you feel versus what's real.

04:13:33.000 I mean, I wasn't really speaking on emotions.

04:13:36.000 Like, she said, I wasn't really speaking that much.

04:13:38.000 I was just saying my feedback here and there.

04:13:40.000 But I wasn't agreeing to, like, the men and women conversation.

04:13:44.000 Like, you're speaking on statistics, but you're not actually normalizing certain things that's going on right now, in my opinion.

04:13:51.000 Wait, what?

04:13:52.000 Like, I'm saying, like, certain conversations that we had on to men and women, you're statistically speaking on things that's going on in your opinion, like, every day, but you're not speaking on...

04:14:02.000 If it's statistically sound, then it's not my opinion, it's a fact.

04:14:05.000 No, but there are things that are going on outside of your fact.

04:14:09.000 Like?

04:14:10.000 Like when we were speaking how women tend to sit there and go out their way for a man, but you feel as though men more so go out their way for women more.

04:14:22.000 Did we not speak about that?

04:14:25.000 Are there more female sims or more male sims? 0.99

04:14:29.000 Oh my fucking god. 0.99

04:14:29.000 There's more female sims. 0.99

04:14:31.000 Are there more female sims or male sims?

04:14:33.000 Female.

04:14:33.000 Really?

04:14:34.000 Yes.

04:14:34.000 Is there an entire industry made up off of female sims?

04:14:39.000 Okay, let's go off your opinion then.

04:14:42.000 Is there an entire billion dollar industry made off of female sims? 1.00

04:14:45.000 No, there's not.

04:14:47.000 But there's an entire industry built off of male simps, isn't there?

04:14:50.000 There is.

04:14:51.000 Okay, so factually speaking, were there more simps, men or women?

04:14:56.000 Stick to your answer.

04:14:59.000 It's like you can't do that over here.

04:15:02.000 You can't do that.

04:15:03.000 No, you mean like speak facts and tell you when you're wrong?

04:15:06.000 I just feel like we came over here to also speak our opinion if we don't actually have the facts.

04:15:11.000 Yeah, we could learn.

04:15:12.000 But an opinion can be wrong though, correct?

04:15:15.000 Yeah, but it's our opinion.

04:15:16.000 That's how we feel.

04:15:16.000 But it's wrong.

04:15:17.000 Is this how you were born?

04:15:18.000 You do realize that an opinion can be wrong and your opinion is not valid all the time.

04:15:24.000 You're right.

04:15:25.000 But that's why we came here to voice it.

04:15:27.000 It's not about being right or wrong.

04:15:29.000 It's just how we go.

04:15:30.000 In my opinion.

04:15:32.000 Don't be saying it.

04:15:34.000 Yo, only women. 1.00

04:15:36.000 This is crazy.

04:15:41.000 Even in the face of facts, it's like, but my opinion!

04:15:45.000 Your opinion's wrong.

04:15:46.000 I gave you your leeway, though.

04:15:49.000 Leeway?

04:15:49.000 Not leeway, excuse me.

04:15:51.000 It's called facts.

04:15:52.000 Okay.

04:15:53.000 I give you your point.

04:15:54.000 I said, like, you made some valid points.

04:15:57.000 And then I asked you, what did you agree with?

04:15:59.000 Yeah.

04:16:00.000 Or disagree with?

04:16:01.000 Yeah.

04:16:01.000 And then you tried to state it now, and that was just wrong.

04:16:04.000 It wasn't wrong. 0.96

04:16:05.000 She even said that we spoke about that topic earlier.

04:16:09.000 Was she?

04:16:10.000 I'm sorry, what's your name?

04:16:12.000 Ari.

04:16:13.000 Okay, here's what you tried to say.

04:16:15.000 You tried to come up with a faulty conclusion that women pursue men more than men pursue women.

04:16:19.000 And I said that's not true.

04:16:20.000 Because there are more male simps than female simps.

04:16:23.000 A simp is someone that chases someone with unreciprocated value.

04:16:27.000 And that's what women do nowadays. 1.00

04:16:29.000 Okay, but there are more male simps. 0.97

04:16:32.000 As shown earlier with the billion-dollar industry, I quite literally just described to you.

04:16:36.000 With the definition that you just threw out, though, there's more so men out here.

04:16:40.000 The definition that you just threw out, you said- Of a simp?

04:16:43.000 Yes.

04:16:44.000 There's more so men? 0.70

04:16:45.000 Yes.

04:16:46.000 Okay.

04:16:47.000 I disagree.

04:16:49.000 You disagree.

04:16:50.000 Facts.

04:16:51.000 Is there a billion-dollar industry that women contribute to- Don't ask me that. 1.00

04:16:55.000 She already gave you the answer, but- I genuinely don't believe that it's more men simp out here.

04:17:02.000 And I say that because if you take it from out of the sexual world, I'm not talking about OnlyFans.

04:17:09.000 I'm not talking about porn.

04:17:10.000 I'm not talking about strip clubs, clubs, none of that, none of that. 0.99

04:17:13.000 You're a model!

04:17:14.000 Who looks at you?

04:17:15.000 It doesn't...

04:17:16.000 First of all, don't cut me off.

04:17:17.000 You're a model.

04:17:17.000 I'm talking.

04:17:18.000 I am a model, but hear me out.

04:17:22.000 I genuinely believe that Women simp as well as men simp. 1.00

04:17:29.000 Because outside of that sex orientation, females will go out their way to put more effort into a male than a male would do a female. 1.00

04:17:41.000 If women will put so much into men, tell me why there's an explosion of YouTube channels that teach men how to get women, but not necessarily teaching women how to get men. 0.98

04:17:51.000 Thank you.

04:17:52.000 Tell me why there's a billion dollar industry that profits off of men's lust for women.

04:17:57.000 Tell me why there are more girls that go out on dates nowadays to get a free dinner or lunch than actually wanted to get to know the guy. 1.00

04:18:04.000 Why is there a whole sugar baby culture right now where women are able to extract resources, money, and time and attention from men without giving anything in return? 1.00

04:18:13.000 Oh, they gotta give something in return. 1.00

04:18:15.000 Well, there's some girls out there that honestly don't fuck sometimes. 1.00

04:18:18.000 Not all the time, but still. 0.99

04:18:20.000 But regardless, they're having sex and they're getting all this in exchange.

04:18:24.000 So what I'm trying to say is that there's way more male sims than female sims. 0.91

04:18:27.000 Look at your phone right now blowing up.

04:18:29.000 Yeah.

04:18:30.000 On Instagram.

04:18:30.000 Look at that.

04:18:31.000 You're a regular chick. 1.00

04:18:32.000 You're not famous or anything, yet you're getting a whole bunch of attention.

04:18:35.000 They're probably doing it because she's on air.

04:18:36.000 But my point is that a woman, right, that has zero status gets more attention than a guy that has a lot of status.

04:18:44.000 Because there's more male simps.

04:18:44.000 Facts.

04:18:46.000 I can't believe that we're even trying to debate this right now.

04:18:46.000 Yeah.

04:18:50.000 But you're not even in vogue.

04:18:51.000 You're not looking at it from...

04:18:55.000 Our perspective.

04:18:56.000 Like, I'm genuinely trying to tell you.

04:18:58.000 We have many times on the show.

04:19:00.000 No, you haven't.

04:19:00.000 2,000 women we've spoken to.

04:19:02.000 And right now, it's like, what, 3 in the morning?

04:19:04.000 You're still arguing this?

04:19:06.000 Nobody's arguing.

04:19:06.000 Were you born this way?

04:19:08.000 Was I born?

04:19:09.000 What do you mean, was I born this way?

04:19:10.000 What does that mean? 1.00

04:19:11.000 This dumb. 0.99

04:19:12.000 Anyhow, how about you? 0.99

04:19:15.000 Bro, you're trying to make an argument that there's more female simps when all the data shows that there's more men.

04:19:19.000 But nobody's arguing.

04:19:20.000 We're not arguing.

04:19:21.000 We're just talking.

04:19:22.000 What are you talking about?

04:19:23.000 You just said that there's more female simps and I said you're wrong. 0.88

04:19:26.000 No, there's not.

04:19:26.000 I didn't say there's more female simps.

04:19:28.000 I said it's 50-50.

04:19:30.000 Females can sip as much as men. 0.70

04:19:32.000 I said female can sip more as men. 1.00

04:19:34.000 That's what I said.

04:19:35.000 Why are you getting loud?

04:19:37.000 Because y'all not listening to me.

04:19:39.000 It doesn't even come close.

04:19:40.000 It doesn't even come close with men simping versus women simping. 0.51

04:19:44.000 It's a disingenuous argument.

04:19:45.000 Just because you might have simped over one or two guys doesn't mean that there haven't probably been 50 to 100 guys that haven't simped on you.

04:19:51.000 So I have a question.

04:19:52.000 Y'all never simped over a woman before?

04:19:54.000 Alright, next.

04:19:54.000 Of course we have, which is why we're able to say this.

04:19:56.000 It's an actual question.

04:19:58.000 Yeah, of course we have.

04:19:58.000 Every guy simped over a girl before.

04:20:01.000 You know what I mean?

04:20:01.000 Versus a girl might go through her whole life and never simp for a man.

04:20:04.000 Facts.

04:20:05.000 Alright.

04:20:12.000 What was the question again?

04:20:13.000 My thoughts on the show?

04:20:16.000 Let's keep it short and sweet.

04:20:18.000 I'm going to say it was definitely unique and intense.

04:20:23.000 I love that.

04:20:25.000 Do you still believe in the wage gap?

04:20:29.000 No comment.

04:20:30.000 Not until I do my own personal research.

04:20:36.000 Denied!

04:20:37.000 She just doesn't want to admit she's wrong, which is great.

04:20:40.000 Even in the face of irrefutable statistical fact, doesn't want her to admit she's wrong.

04:20:44.000 That's fine.

04:20:44.000 Guys, book is out, Why Women Deserve Less.

04:20:48.000 I go into detail why the wage gap doesn't exist with a bunch of studies to include her faulty study as well about 80 cents on the dollar or whatever. 0.99

04:20:57.000 Yeah, man.

04:20:58.000 Eight chapters, 86 pages because, of course, women deserve less. 1.00

04:21:01.000 And I break down why you should not simp and what you really need to focus on.

04:21:05.000 You don't think men deserve less?

04:21:07.000 Well, men have to work for everything they get. 1.00

04:21:10.000 Women don't. 1.00

04:21:10.000 Men deserve more right now. 1.00

04:21:12.000 Why you think men deserve more? 1.00

04:21:14.000 That's rich.

04:21:14.000 Hold on.

04:21:16.000 Men have to work for everything they get. 0.99

04:21:16.000 Well, no. 0.99

04:21:18.000 What do men deserve?

04:21:19.000 Not all men. 0.61

04:21:20.000 Here's the thing.

04:21:21.000 A man...

04:21:22.000 I mean, I can't believe we're even having this discussion.

04:21:24.000 No, I'm not disagreeing with you, but what do men deserve?

04:21:26.000 Nobody's disagreeing.

04:21:26.000 I'm just asking a simple question.

04:21:28.000 Well, men have to earn everything they have versus girls don't. 1.00

04:21:31.000 What do men deserve?

04:21:32.000 What do you mean men deserve?

04:21:35.000 What do men deserve?

04:21:36.000 They don't deserve anything.

04:21:37.000 They got to work for it.

04:21:38.000 Yeah.

04:21:39.000 They earn everything.

04:21:41.000 That's the difference between female entitlement and men. 1.00

04:21:44.000 Men don't get anything given to them. 1.00

04:21:47.000 They have to earn their status.

04:21:48.000 They have to earn their money.

04:21:48.000 They have to earn their ability to be attractive to women.

04:21:50.000 Everything with a man is earned versus y'all. 0.99

04:21:52.000 They're just given.

04:21:55.000 You guys can all be on a yacht tomorrow with a celebrity.

04:21:57.000 I can't.

04:21:58.000 I gotta buy the yacht.

04:21:59.000 Or a podcast.

04:22:00.000 What was that?

04:22:01.000 I said I can't.

04:22:02.000 So we don't deserve?

04:22:04.000 We don't deserve?

04:22:05.000 Or we just deserve less?

04:22:06.000 Women deserve less because they get too much, in my opinion. 1.00

04:22:10.000 Well, not even my opinion.

04:22:10.000 It's factual at this point.

04:22:12.000 Girls get a lot given to them, and they don't have to necessarily earn it. 1.00

04:22:17.000 Facts.

04:22:17.000 I mean, being a gentleman in today's day and age is not that well-serving.

04:22:23.000 Hmm.

04:22:25.000 Y'all would bring this up at the end.

04:22:26.000 Oh, I gotta ask you a question.

04:22:27.000 Where you from?

04:22:28.000 Where you from?

04:22:31.000 We can answer that one off air, I guess.

04:22:34.000 Alright, guys, we'll catch you on the next one.

04:22:35.000 Fresh wants to go home.

04:22:36.000 Some of the ladies are tired. 1.00

04:22:37.000 Four hours long, man.

04:22:39.000 Yeah, alright.

04:22:40.000 We'll catch you guys on Wednesday, man.

04:22:42.000 Womanizer Wednesday.

04:22:42.000 Peace.

Fresh & Fit - February 14, 2023

RATCHET "Black Queen" & Delusional Feminist Debate Myron! RATCHET KICKED OFF POD!

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