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00:01:16.000Also, we're going to be uploading all of the Andrew Tate videos that we had done on Rumble, all the interviews that we did, because YouTube is being lame, bro.
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00:14:02.000I just recently got accepted into a modeling agency, so now I'm a model, but I work from home and I'm also a security license, security officer.
00:16:37.000Since you're on this accountability wave, name one thing you did wrong in the relationship to mess it up while you don't have a Valentine's and one thing he did wrong to mess it up.
00:19:44.000I go into, I explain how most women deserve less because most women don't like most men.
00:19:50.000And that is exemplified from her answer.
00:19:52.000And I go into more detail about how feminism and everything else changed the dating landscape and how most guys can't afford to be simps in 2020.
00:19:58.000Are you referring to like new wave feminism or in the book at least?
00:22:58.000Would I help them get with a guy, with one of my female friends?
00:23:01.000I mean, depending if my female friend is single, yeah, and if he gives or not, I mean, regardless, I'm going to try to help him the best way I can, but if he don't give, he just don't give.
00:24:01.000Even before he's talking to her, how would you help him get to the point where they're talking together?
00:24:08.000I'd probably tell him, give him some pointers, tell him what to say, but I ain't gonna be all up in this game room and giving him everything.
00:24:33.000I definitely don't have guy friends anymore.
00:24:35.000I feel that guys definitely, if it's not there in that moment, I mean, they will wait years, months, eternities to literally just, you know, get what they want.
00:24:48.000I mean, I've been in a position where a guy has pretty much fronted to be one of my really good friends and he caught me in a very vulnerable moment and Not a friendship anymore.
00:25:51.000So you guys would say, okay, if you think it's equally as destructive for both genders, does that mean that you think cheating is the same between both genders?
00:25:58.000Cheating is cheating at the end of the day.
00:27:14.000Men can genuinely just have casual sex.
00:27:16.000The way you connect with a man is through his head.
00:27:19.000Now, which one you want to connect to, that's up to you.
00:27:21.000But I'm just saying, with women, you can't...
00:27:25.000In order to really protect your peace, I really feel like you can't just go out and genuinely just have casual sex and, you know, cheat on your man.
00:27:32.000I do feel that it's something different.
00:27:48.000But there is some females, if they're going to cheat on their dude, they're going to build a bond with that dude before they cheat on their dude.
00:30:33.000I think cheating is cheating, you know, same thing, but I just think it kind of like the extent of it just kind of like affects us differently.
00:30:40.000Like women, I feel they feel like it's cheating, cheating when it's like emotions involved versus like men are like, you know, Let's say, like, I don't know, like, a woman's, like, looking at some dude, like,
00:30:56.000whatever, like, I don't know, like, that sort of thing.
00:30:59.000It's, like, whatever, but if it's, like, if you go all the way with a guy, like, I feel like that really affects the guy.
00:31:05.000You're so right, like, I thought that was, like...
00:31:07.000I mean, but, okay, so do you still think it's 50-50 then?
00:32:18.000So by her answer, she doesn't believe that they're just a friend.
00:32:21.000I keep it really real with my homeboys.
00:32:22.000I let them even know, listen, if you try to come on to me, I'm going to play the shit out to you because I'm telling you right now, don't go outside boundaries.
00:32:29.000If I'm telling you all I want is a friendship and I look at you as a brother and a king, don't show me you ignorant and stupid and think I'm any fling.
00:34:45.000Do you think guys and girls can have platonic relationships?
00:34:49.000And one thing that stood out was as a single woman and him being a single man, we are friends and we know we'll never cross those boundaries.
00:34:56.000But I think once you're in a relationship and you're trying to have other outside platonic relationships, You know what I'm saying?
00:35:03.000It's like, what can that girl do for you that I can't?
00:35:05.000Why are you stepping outside of boundaries and stepping into the...
00:38:24.000Like, friends in my sorority kind of just, like, came and went sort of thing.
00:38:27.000But, like, you know, I guess, like, my friends in the frat were kind of just, like, consistent, like, the whole time, like, throughout my whole time in college.
00:38:35.000And, like, it just kind of played out like that.
00:39:44.000Otherwise, there's no need to be at the trading post between the two parties.
00:39:48.000So essentially, by your actions, what you're saying is the men offered more utility and value to you versus the women and they were more consistent in doing so.
00:39:55.000Hence why you maintain those relationships and not the others.
00:41:32.000You can be yourself and not to worry about feelings and all this other bullshit.
00:41:36.000So I've noticed that a good amount of women prefer to have guy friends, but that's because when men deal with each other, well, when men deal with each other or when they deal with women, they understand they must bring value versus when you deal with another woman, women are used to not bringing any value, to be honest with y'all.
00:41:48.000And I would argue that most women bring value, but most of their value to the man that they love, admire, and respect.
00:42:57.000So, and I know a lot of women can't really offer anything because some women mindsets, you know, a lot of us not, I'm going to talk about the minority.
00:43:04.000A lot of us not really raised around good influences, right?
00:43:08.000So a lot of women, especially from my hood where I grew up for real, you know, they focused on niggas with money.
00:43:24.000It's about adding, not only to yourself, but putting into others.
00:43:29.000It's not just about looking beautiful, bad and bougie, and knowing the little slings here and there and knowing the songs that's out.
00:43:35.000Like, honestly, I don't respect that when I hear a man say, woman really is useless because you just messing with useless women.
00:43:43.000You more intimidated of a woman who's strong, who can really go get it on her own, who really got the muscle.
00:43:53.000See, all the women that got the muscle is looked at as alphas, who's looked at as the man who is alphas, look at the other alpha females as, oh, you don't need nobody?
00:44:46.000And at the end of the day, if the other person that I'm with, family, friend, is jealous, they're going to have to take that L because I'm pure.
00:44:53.000So if I know I can offer you something to help elevate you, I'm going to do that.
00:45:24.000But what I'm saying is that at the beginning of your speech or statement or whatever you want to call it, you went in to say this is a minority.
00:47:35.000Okay, but we got to operate on how the real world goes, not just off of your personal experience, right?
00:47:40.000Because if you go off of just your personal experience, well, unfortunately, that's a very nuanced and specific experience that might not reflect the reality of the world.
00:47:48.000You're saying, well, I'll do this for my guy friends, I'll do that.
00:49:50.000I'm not going to re-explain when y'all keep switching up what I'm saying.
00:49:54.000We were listening very close to what you said.
00:49:55.000You started it off with, not all girls are like this, and this is a minority, XYZ. Because you guys are talking about women who are just for looks, can't bring nothing to the table in platonic relationships, and how women are useful in platonic relationships,
00:50:11.000how they can only get what they want from the relationship.
00:50:15.000And all I'm saying is that just made me think of a woman who's just full of looks and thinks she's just deserving because of how she looks, not what she can actually bring and provide to the table.
00:50:46.000I just think if you take your personal emotions and your personal experience out of the equation, you'll start to kind of see it from a more broader perspective.
00:50:55.000I could see that because I don't want to talk down on all women saying they just can't bring that to the table.
00:52:39.000It's about acknowledging that there's biological differences between the two genders, and the difference is that we go ahead and highlight the biological differences in men that are negative, which is cool, the unflattering, but we never highlight the unflattering realities of biological differences between women.
00:52:54.000For example, what I said before, most women are useless from a friendship utility sense because most of the time the guy's the one offering the value.
00:53:01.000The girl doesn't offer any value, but the guy sits there and tolerates that because they want some sexual access in the future.
00:53:06.000And a couple of girls agreed with me on that.
00:53:08.000And by their own actions, you might not like what I'm saying, but your actions reflect what I'm saying is true.
00:54:42.000The reason why we incentivize men to be platonic friends with women is because we live in a society now where we put women up on a pedestal and we put men down.
00:54:48.000But what I'm saying is that it's not in your best interest as a man to be platonic friends with a woman.
00:54:52.000And a couple of you guys agree with me, and your actions reflect that.
00:54:57.000It's just that you might not like the way I'm saying it or you might not like the, you know, cold hard undertones of why it's useless to have female friends.
00:55:04.000But the reality is your actions reflect what I'm saying.
00:55:07.000I don't know what about me is indicating that I don't like it, but it's not that I don't like it.
00:55:11.000It's just that I disagree based off my personal experience.
00:57:19.000Yeah, like, I'm sorry there's not women in your life that makes you really believe in women and the power that we hold within ourselves.
00:57:25.000I'm sorry you ran into a lot of people who's lost and who's still trying to find themselves to the point where they can't even put into you.
00:57:32.000Can you tell me what this power is that you speak of?
00:57:44.000You said, I'm sorry that you didn't get to experience the power that women provide.
00:57:47.000Meaning everything that you're saying, we lack in from the majority of women that you've met because it's all off your experience.
00:57:57.000Well, actually, I'm basing it anecdotally on literally talking to thousands of men that have been friend zoned by women and not got anything in return.
00:58:05.000I'm not just speaking out of my ass here.
00:58:07.000I've spoken to thousands of men and we talk about this, how most of the time when guys are in a friend zone, they want something more, but they never get it.
00:58:13.000Meanwhile, they're offering all this value to the girls and not getting reciprocation.
00:58:21.000It's gotten to a point now where women are able to monetize on men that are friends with women.
00:58:27.000If you look at OnlyFans, strip clubs, the sex industry, everything, women have basically been able to sell the allure of sex or intimacy and monetize it to a really profitable margin.
00:59:01.000Because all the things that a woman provides, this power that you speak of, can be met with a guy that can have a better identity with your struggles as a man, can actually offer you more utility, give you sound advice, and they understand the male experience.
00:59:11.000Men and women live different experiences.
00:59:55.000But, what I said and how I said it, you didn't like it and you said, I disagree.
01:00:02.000But it makes no logical sense because what I described is literally your life.
01:00:06.000But the thing is that, like, you see it as, like, what I bring to the table, like, I guess, like, when it comes to female-male friendships, I see it as valuable.
01:00:17.000A lot of people can see it as valuable.
01:01:01.000They're there because it's pretty much there's established behaviors that have been attributed to a certain group or class of people that have been done a million times.
01:01:10.000So therefore, it's a trend and people use stereotypes and attribute it to a certain class of people.
01:01:41.000And at the end of the day, if you look at statistics, anecdotal evidence, or just science in general, anecdotal evidence isn't enough to make a statistic or to make something true.
01:02:48.000One part is because, yeah, like, a lot more, I think more people are right-handed.
01:02:52.000And I said, correct me if I'm wrong, because I don't know the actual statistic, and I'm not gonna sit here and spew, like, lies and label them statistics, you know what I mean?
01:03:01.000But another fact is the fact that, like, Throughout history, people that have been left-handed have been forced to write right-handed because it's seen as a bad thing, like a bad omen, a bad thing, like whatever it is, depending on the culture.
01:03:15.000So they force them to use their right hand.
01:03:18.000So at the end of the day, it's about, I guess, society, how we see things.
01:03:23.000We're not talking about the why, we're talking about the what.
01:03:25.000Most people are right-handed, that's a fact.
01:08:02.000And the reason why is because women dominate college attendance right now, yet they still major in all the stupid majors that don't make money and all the jobs that don't promote society growth.
01:08:12.000Plumbers, pipefitters, streamfitters, electricians, carpenters, auto mechanics, supervisors of construction and extraction workers, construction laborers, firefighters, industrial mechanics, aircraft mechanics, and machinists.
01:08:22.000This is all dominated by men at about 95% more.
01:08:33.000Preschool and kindergarten teachers, executive secretaries, childcare workers, regular secretaries, dental assistants, medical records specialists, receptionists, information clerks, medical assistants, dietician, nutritionists, hairdressers, and cosmetologists.
01:11:37.000I adapt and accept it versus it shouldn't be this way.
01:11:40.000We don't operate on what should could or would we operate on what is What you stated, I mean, 5%, I mean, most girls are not going to accept the guy who want to be a stay-at-home mom.
01:12:49.000If you look at the United States in the 1950s and the 60s, right, before feminism came, where you had the traditional nuclear family where they were able to have one income, support the entire family, while the economy was at its strongest.
01:14:58.000The reason why you think that is because you're still young and you don't understand that, yo, as I get older, my chance of finding a guy and having children come down with it.
01:15:05.000So they found, right, they've looked at studies on female happiness and overall satisfaction.
01:15:10.000As feminism has gotten stronger and stronger, female happiness has went down and down.
01:20:41.000This is why women typically pick older guys.
01:20:43.000So, What if I told you that you're dumb, you're short, and you're broke because you want to date guys that are older and make more money than you?
01:20:56.000What if I told you that you were dumb, short, and broke because you wanted to date a guy that was taller and made more money than you and worked better in every standing?
01:33:11.000Because of the fact that they don't bring that much value.
01:33:14.000So they have to sit there and pursue more into the woman than the woman should with the men.
01:33:19.000So you think men don't have to bring that much value?
01:33:23.000I feel like they usually don't, but in the sense of trying to pursue a woman, like, committed to them, yeah.
01:33:28.000They have to actually, like, throw their self out there to make sure that, like, the woman understand that they want them and just them only.
01:33:35.000Do you think that's attractive, so a majority of women?
01:34:44.000Because I don't know what you would consider my type, like who I am, but like if I like you and you ain't really step up, I'm gonna tell you I want you to be my Valentine's.
01:34:54.000Which one is more productive for the relationship?
01:35:25.000But you think the guys, right, have to do it more?
01:35:31.000Yeah, it's enjoyable, but I wouldn't mind doing it either, being like, I want you to be my Valentine, because I want my men to feel special too.
01:36:27.000I think it just depends on the relationship that those two individuals have.
01:36:30.000I mean, I can't lie to you, this Valentine's Day coming up, I mean, we both kind of asked each other, but, like, I'm not afraid to, like, go out of the way, like, do the most for my man.
01:37:12.000I just feel that if that's an expectation that you want out of another person, then I feel that that's your responsibility to go out and I guess find that for yourself.
01:38:39.000Well, I only used that earlier to get them to say an answer.
01:38:45.000Like, when I was saying, like, which one needs, because I kept saying 50-50, well, which one needs to be, I'm saying, but in general now, for the Valentine.
01:38:50.000Did you ask the question one more time?
01:39:10.000That shouldn't determine because, like, if I'm feeling you in the beginning of a relationship and I'm doing all of this stuff for you, I mean, like, why wouldn't you come back and, you know, supply and provide and things like that?
01:39:23.000If you had to assume a position, who would it be?
01:39:43.000Who do you think it's more on to secure the valentine, the man or the woman?
01:39:48.000If I'm being honest, I'm gonna tell from my personal experience in the real world, for me, it's 50-50.
01:39:58.000Like, for me, no, no, no, realistically speaking, realistically speaking, like, I would ask my dude, if I had a dude, would he be my valentine?
01:44:34.000I feel like I'm thinking about me personally, because I know we think about, like, we supposed to speak on everybody, but me personally, I feel like when it comes to a man showing his vulnerability, Like, you need a prize for that.
01:44:47.000Like, you showing how much you love me and everything.
01:44:51.000And it's hard for men to do that because a lot of men are scared of rejection or getting played because it's a lot of it fuck with your manhood more than it fuck with your womanhood when we play.
01:45:01.000They more so like, damn, my manhood fucked up.
01:45:03.000So for Valentine's Day, you know, if he deserving after showing me, you know, his vulnerability and all that and that he not afraid to love me, I'm going all out for my man.
01:45:57.000Because of the fact that there are not much men out here that are vulnerable.
01:46:00.000They feel as though they're vulnerable to a woman, they're weak.
01:46:02.000They're weak-minded, they're crybabies, all that type of stuff.
01:46:06.000So I feel like men are more so going out their way to pursue women and show them other stuff that they never showed any other woman in their life.
01:46:35.000I think it's definitely like pending on that relationship dynamic because I've been in relationships where I'm pulling all the weight and I feel like you know I probably like deserve more like I'm putting in the work I'm like you know doing all this kind of like stuff and then my man's just like sitting around all day playing league.
01:49:08.000But no, you guys said that it's on the guy, right?
01:49:12.000To secure the valentine, I would argue it's on the woman because the girl is supposed to show why she's worthy of being a valentine and being a girlfriend.
01:49:19.000But the problem is that we live in a crazy world now where women don't think they have to put in work or they think it could be 50-50, etc.
01:49:24.000There is no 50-50 because the man that you want isn't 50-50.
01:49:28.000You want a man who's superior to you in every way, whether he's taller than you, stronger than you, makes more money than you, more dominant than you, more decisive than you.
01:49:42.000And I would argue the most productive relationships are the one where the guy's in the leadership role, the girl knows he's a leader, and she loves and reminds and respects him.
01:49:50.000And she chases him more than he chases her.
01:50:17.000So, while the female is the breadwinner at home, you know, waiting for her man to become successful in his dreams, whatever he has aligned, you know, stocks, things like that, you know, once she's the breadwinner, do you think she's deserving of him pursuing her as his Valentine?
01:51:39.000You know what I'm saying is the truth that women are not good long-term provisioners.
01:51:43.000However, you don't like the way it makes you feel, so you say, I disagree.
01:51:46.000Then I ask you, explain why you disagree.
01:51:48.000You're not necessarily able to refute the point besides the fact that I might have said it in a way that you didn't like, but that doesn't change the fact that it's biologically true.
01:51:55.000Women don't provide for men in general.
01:51:58.000And if they do, there's studies that show this, when a woman out-earns her man, the likelihood of divorce or breakup are significantly higher.
01:52:44.000Like, You asked me why I disagree on that point, and I'm telling you why I disagree.
01:52:51.000I said I agree with you, and the point that you had said that in relationships where women are the breadwinners, they tend to end up in divorce more often than how it is the other way around, like traditional, conventional standards, right?
01:55:54.000If that were the case, there'd be women in the workforce and no men because men could actually get...
01:55:59.000Most entrepreneurs will hire women because they can get away with paying them less.
01:56:01.000But the reality is women get paid less because they work less and they go into professions that quite frankly aren't needed by society as much.
01:56:08.000I just read the top professions by men versus the top professions for women.
01:56:12.000Women have very little interest in creating infrastructure for society.
01:56:16.000That might be true, but I'm not talking about men and women having different career choices.
01:56:22.000I'm talking about men and women in the same position getting paid different amounts.
01:57:01.000Yes, the UN is wrong because they don't take...
01:57:02.000Because anyone, any economist with half a brain would know if that were truly the case that you can get away with paying women less, it would be only women in the workforce.
01:58:09.000You gotta have, like, a token woman or, like, whatever, a token person to, like, certify and show the whole world that, like, yeah, we're a diverse team and, like, whatever, but you just have that person there.
01:58:19.000There are job postings right now for police departments and law enforcement agencies and STEM, etc., that are female only.
01:58:24.000Could you imagine if we had job postings that are men only?
02:00:04.000See, you guys complain about sexism when it doesn't benefit you.
02:00:07.000The only thing that I could think of that women benefit from, that men benefit from sexism is we can fuck a bunch of girls and not get discriminated against by it.
02:00:13.000But everything else, women get a benefit from sexism.
02:00:19.000Can you name one that women benefit from besides, or sorry, that men benefit from what I just mentioned besides being promiscuous?
02:00:26.000I mean, like what I said, the, you know, like the sex industry and stuff, like I'm not talking about, yeah, but I'm not talking about porn, I'm talking about, um, sex trafficking, for example, like women, um, yeah.
02:00:46.000Okay, yes, it's illegal, but it doesn't mean that it's not happening.
02:00:49.000And it's sexism at work, and it works in men's favor.
02:00:53.000Men take vulnerable women off the streets.
02:00:55.000A lot of people think sex trafficking is like, oh, like some girl on the street, you see her in a parking lot, you abduct her, and you take her.
02:01:02.000They take these vulnerable women that come from tough backgrounds, no father at home, or like...
02:01:11.000Mom, whoever was also in the sex industry, maybe also a drug addict, one or both parents are absent.
02:01:18.000Any combination of those things, and they're vulnerable, and they're looking for love, and they're looking for someone to be there in their life to, you know, like, give them some stability because they don't know stability.
02:03:51.000Versus an Alaska fisherman is going to make more than a sociologist because most people don't want to do that job.
02:03:56.000It's very difficult and labor intensive.
02:03:59.000But they get paid more because they take more risk and not many people want to do it.
02:04:03.000So women get paid less because they choose to get paid less.
02:04:06.000And if you want to take it a step further, you go to Scandinavian countries where men and women are the most equal in anywhere else in the world and women still get paid less and they go into career fields that are more involved with people.
02:04:16.000Men go into career fields that are more involved with things.
02:04:18.000So let me ask you, you think I get paid less because I'm a model?
02:04:23.000I think the whole argument just flew over your head.
02:04:26.000I said women go into career fields that pay less because of their personal choices, not because they're being discriminated against because they're a woman.
02:04:35.000As a matter of fact, female models get paid more than male models if we want to talk about sexism.
02:05:09.000Yeah, and then someone actually proved them wrong.
02:05:11.000Okay, that's just one statistic that I'm talking about.
02:05:14.000That's from something that I had written.
02:05:16.000That's a statistic that I remember that stuck with me forever that I had studied in college and whatnot.
02:05:21.000I think Tyson Beckford was the only one that paid the same as the female models.
02:05:25.000We also got to remember that we're talking about the United States here specifically.
02:05:28.000The United Nations probably extrapolates data from all over the world.
02:05:31.000That's kind of irrelevant to the conversation at hand.
02:05:34.000In first world, modern English-speaking countries like the United States, the United Kingdom, Australia, New Zealand, etc., Canada, the wage gap does not exist because women dominate men in college attendance, yet they still go into professions that pay less because of choice.
02:05:49.000Women get paid less not because they're women, but because of their personal choices into what they want to go into when it comes to a profession.
02:05:57.000I got some other stats, too, that men contribute for about 30 years of their life while women contribute only about 18 years of their life.
02:06:03.000Men stay in the workforce longer than women.
02:06:06.000Women are a net negative $140,000 per year versus men, as shown in New Zealand.
02:06:11.000So by every metric, men just work harder and longer than women do.
02:06:53.000Hey, Mario, working around 60 hours a week, looking to bring in another income, thinking of getting any real estate license, but not sure what to do.
02:06:58.000Do you like the online courses to get the license?
02:07:00.000Bro, you don't need to have a real estate license to be an investor.
02:07:04.000Do that only if you want to, but it's not required.
02:12:31.000You know, a lot of men are baby growing up.
02:12:34.000And it's no size, but a lot of mothers baby their sons more and keep them in a tuck more because they're more prone to walking outside and getting shot type shit.
02:12:44.000So, you know, they don't really experience the shit that the females do.
02:12:48.000We get kicked out at 16 once we start growing through our hormones and our parents yelling out a lot.
02:20:39.000And if you guys don't believe me, look at a prison that's filled with emotional guys that couldn't control their emotions as a critical component and does something stupid and hurts somebody.
02:20:46.000So, when men are emotional, there's dire consequences.
02:20:49.000The reason why women can be emotional is because, I'll be honest with y'all, you guys rarely face physical consequences for your emotions.
02:20:55.000If you talk to a guy crazy, a lot of times they're not going to talk, shampunch you.
02:21:00.000But when a man does that, if you come in, there might be physical consequences.
02:21:05.000I don't mean to be rude, but I'll use you as an example.
02:21:07.000At the beginning of this podcast, you were fairly disrespectful in the beginning.
02:21:26.000So, but what I'm saying is that, and I'm just using this as an example, the reason why you were able to do that is because you're a woman and you're not going to bear the same physical consequences as if you were a man.
02:21:36.000Very rarely do men meet each other that don't know each other and speak to each other in a kind of way because there's always that potential for physical consequences.
02:21:44.000We call it, you know, when it comes to, think of like nuclear weapons, mutually assured destruction.
02:21:48.000The reason why we don't shoot nukes at Russia and why they don't shoot nukes at us is because we're going to shoot them at each other and both kill each other.
02:21:53.000Men understand this silent agreement that you're going to respect me because there's physical consequence.
02:21:58.000Women, however, are allowed the privilege of acting ridiculous, being loud, being disrespectful, because quite frankly, y'all don't get punched in the face.
02:22:06.000And I'm not advocating for that, but what I am saying is that women know deep down a man isn't going to punch them, which is why they act the way that they do.
02:22:12.000However, when it grows around other women a lot of times, they might check that a bit because there's that potential for physical consequence.
02:22:20.000That's for your own shit because that ain't even who I am.
02:22:23.000I'm going to just keep it real, but I respect what you're saying.
02:22:26.000What I'm saying is that if you had acted the way you acted as a man, there would possibly be some physical consequences, yet a woman can get away with behaving that way.
02:22:36.000I don't even know when I felt like I was...
02:22:38.000Maybe when y'all was telling me to chill, so if that's what y'all saying when I was disrespectful, all right?
02:22:42.000But I think the same way, like, I know my place.
02:22:44.000I didn't even feel like I was arguing with you because I would have said, I know my place as a woman.
02:22:48.000You a man, and if I was a nigga, I would have knocked you on your shit.
02:24:24.000Well, I quite literally said it a second ago.
02:24:25.000I'm not advocating for violence against women.
02:24:28.000I'm just like, I'm asking you because I want to say I saw something on Instagram and it was something about like, A woman, like her unfiltered mouth in an argument equates to, you know, a man pretty much putting his hands on her.
02:25:05.000And for men, right, a lot of times they can't retaliate because, you know, well, number one, you don't want to get down to her level and be emotional as well, which a lot of guys do.
02:25:13.000They end up being emotional because there's no other recourse.
02:25:16.000At least with a man, you could punch him in the face.
02:25:31.000They know that even if the guy does something to them, there's going to be some consequences on that guy.
02:25:36.000So I think a big reason why so many women are more emotional and disrespect a lot of men is because they can get away with it, simply put, without consequences.
02:25:52.000That's why I tell girls, like, don't act crazy because there are dudes out there that are waiting to world star you.
02:25:57.000That's why I let you stay strapped always because sometimes these niggas is pussy and you got to put them in their place because they don't know that...
02:26:06.000And they better not talk crazy neither.
02:26:09.000But it's men out here that would talk crazy like that because they know that a female won't put their hands on them because they're so masculine.
02:26:15.000They know they're stronger than a female.
02:26:17.000I would say it's women that antagonize a lot of the time.
02:26:23.000You can't argue with this because I've been in an abusive relationship.
02:26:41.000Your personal experience doesn't reflect reality.
02:26:43.000It doesn't, but you're speaking on like every woman.
02:26:45.000Because if you're saying that, then the people that you done made votes with, theirs don't count neither.
02:26:52.000Like when you got a tally or whatever, you said 100 men then voted this, you could say the same about her because that could have been her vote.
02:27:06.000What I'm saying is that women get away with berating and antagonizing men and talking to them any kind of way most of the time because men can't give them physical consequences.
02:28:42.000To solidify my stance that women can berate men with less consequences than men berating women.
02:28:47.000I'm not saying it doesn't occur, but what I am saying is that men are more likely to face consequences for berating a woman publicly than a woman berating a man.
02:30:39.000And then he tried to undermine her experience.
02:30:42.000No, just because it's insignificant to the overall picture of what we're talking about.
02:30:46.000I don't feel that he was intentionally trying to disregard what you've been through personally, but I think he's genuinely speaking on the generalization of...
02:30:58.000I don't know if y'all just noticed this, but this is what I mean when I say women are inherently more narcissistic.
02:31:02.000Like, I'm saying an objective fact, and from my objective fact, you extrapolate your personal experience and say, this happened to me, so this is what I think happened, how it really goes.
02:31:11.000And I'm like, that's cool, but your experience is insignificant to the overall conversation.
02:31:15.000I'm keeping it objective, you're making it subjective.
02:31:18.000Ladies, notice every time we speak, it's not how we feel.
02:31:37.000Yeah, but this podcast has displayed that when we've made logical arguments, you guys responded with emotion or your own personal experience, which is insignificant to the conversation at hand.
02:33:58.000I think the point of the question was to illustrate the I guess, level of reciprocation that women typically don't give back to men in relationships.
02:35:25.000To the girl in the red, you won't get kicked off the podcast for empowering women, but you will get kicked out for being loud and obnoxious.
02:35:30.000You can share your opinion, but don't be disrespectful.
02:35:53.000I used to be, and you know, since our questions are nonsense, take this time to come up with a good question, and we'd be happy to answer one of yours.
02:38:10.000Men have to do most of the pursuing, most of the work, and invest.
02:38:13.000So what I'm saying is that he should recuperate that lost time, get the sex he was trying to get before she picked somebody else, and fight fire with fire.
02:38:23.000Well, that's easy for you to say when you haven't invested any time or money into the relationship, but for men, we always have to invest time or money.
02:38:30.000Who's to say I didn't invest time and money in the relationship?
02:39:12.000But the reality is when a woman makes more money than a guy or she's significantly financially better off than him, she doesn't even give him a chance.
02:39:47.000You know how you said that if a woman was to take a man out on a date, well, if I was to go out on a date and she pays for her meal for everything first, most likely it's not going to be a second date.
02:41:42.000I can honestly say, like, When a man wants to take a female on a date and he's the one that's bringing it up like, hey, I'm going to take you on a date, he's obligated to pay because when you bring it up, you want to take me out.
02:42:34.000I just want to know where this is going.
02:42:36.000I'm just asking questions based on his answers.
02:42:39.000Yeah, they ask him like, Women don't pay for first dates, and if they do, there's a high likelihood that you will never get a second date, period.
02:42:45.000Because where did that even come from?
02:44:13.000And then I explained deeply that men typically have to invest the majority of time, resources, and money in the beginning of courtship, which I assume he did, which is why he's not happy about her going to another guy.
02:44:23.000So I said, to respond to that, she fucked you over, now it's time to fuck her and throw her to the side of the road, to which you guys all disagreed with.
02:47:01.000The wage gap evaporates, which is what I was describing before.
02:47:05.000And there's a multitude of reasons why men get paid more.
02:47:08.000So that study that you're talking about is built upon faulty data.
02:47:12.000You cannot compare all working men to all working women because you're not accounting for critical factors that influence how much they get paid.
02:47:21.000My question is, why are we both spewing statistics, and I'm not citing my sources, and you're not citing your sources, but your sources are right and mine are wrong?
02:47:30.000Because the wage gap has been debunked since the 1970s.
02:49:10.000I'm going to read a part of it real quick.
02:49:13.000Women were, on average, only net economic contributors for 15 years of their lives compared to 30 years for men.
02:49:17.000So they required men and generally independent women to pick up the slack through direct income transfers or added taxation.
02:49:22.000As a result, the total of women's net economic contribution was tallied at equaled negative $140,000.
02:49:28.000And that was in New Zealand, another first world country just like the United States, because the study would never work in the United States.
02:49:33.000OK, so basically, OK, men give way more economic value than women do.
02:49:42.000Women are net negative because what I told you before, they go into career fields that don't generate revenue to the same degree.
02:49:46.000They're social science type stuff and they don't create infrastructure and they're not laborious or risk taking.
02:55:57.000I think it's a great thing you're doing, but if you're looking at money standpoint for what's vital to the society, it's okay, but it's not mandatory.
02:56:06.000And you also got to keep in mind, there's a million sociology and psychology majors that are women that want to get into that career field.
02:56:12.000So therefore, it lowers the cost of labor because there's more applicants in the pool versus if you want to be an engineer, you want to be a rocket scientist, whatever.
02:56:22.000Not many people can do that or have the patience to go to school for that long.
02:56:49.000You don't even know where your argument came from that it comes from all working men versus all working women was disingenuous way to look at it.
02:57:16.000If you don't know about something or there's someone else that knows more than you, You're better off being quiet and learning versus trying to make an argument on a moot point that doesn't exist or is incorrect.
02:57:26.000Why did you invite me on the podcast and give me a microphone?
02:57:28.000I'm going to call you out because you said earlier before the show, you came prepared.
02:58:18.000It's that you want me to pull out statistics that are down, like, to a T, as if, like, you want me to whip them out, you want me to pull out the authors, you want me to pull out everything.
02:58:26.000I'm not going to do that for you, because I'm not writing a paper.
02:58:29.000I'm in a podcast, and I'm just telling you what I know.
02:59:11.000See, the difference is I understand your argument to a T. I know this argument because I've heard it a million times from feminists just like you, sitting in that same chair.
02:59:31.000I think you're listening to him, but I don't really think you're hearing him.
02:59:37.000And I think the moment that he used the word useless, it was just kind of like, I can just I don't want to say, yeah, but it was, like, you kind of blocked out any and everything that he was saying.
02:59:47.000I feel like if you actively kind of, like, listen to his perspective, rather than, like, seeing it through, like, an emotional standpoint, I think, like, you would actually kind of, like, see his perspective more.
02:59:57.000The thing is, I don't feel like I'm taking it personally.
03:01:53.000I'll make sure that from this point on, I will only speak on things that I know are absolutely facts and that I know the author.
03:02:04.000Intelligent people typically don't talk on topics that they don't understand or know, or when met with someone that does actually know, try to argue with them in bad faith.
03:02:42.000That women earn less, not because of their gender, but because of their personal choice when it comes to education, what they decide to go into in the workforce.
03:03:10.000Faith Mahad Farad says, Honest truth is, a woman need only to grow up to a level of physical maturity to be accepted by society as grown up.
03:03:17.000A man, however, is ridiculed way after the checkpoint.
03:03:21.000His growing up depends on a whole other set of things to be accepted by society.
03:03:46.000The reason why I said that is because When girls are getting pursued by men and getting options and guys hitting up on Instagram, dating apps, whatever, the world is their oyster.
03:04:10.000I think I deserve this caliber of man, right?
03:04:13.000And typically, it's not until they get older and their options dry up from the opposite gender that reality smacks them and they say, whoa, I should probably find a family now.
03:04:21.000I should probably go ahead and find a guy.
03:04:23.000And maybe this career thing wasn't it.
03:04:26.000And I need to chase a family because it's going to give me the real fulfillment that I want.
03:04:32.000The most mature women I've met are typically women that are kind of at the end of the road when it comes to their looks and beauty in their youth.
03:04:49.000If I'm a fat loser playing video games in the basement, at some point, I'm either going to lose my girlfriend, like her ex, or no girls are going to fuck me, my friends aren't going to respect me, and society will look down upon me and let me know that I'm a Cheeto-eating fat piece of shit.
03:05:07.000Women, however, if she's hot enough, no one will ever tell her, you're a pot-smoking loser and have nothing going on in your life, because she's hot and someone will, at some point, take care of her.
03:05:23.000I disagree with the last statement that you said about women more so if they're attractive they're more so like no one's gonna come at them and tell them like the truth because the fact that they're attractive like their appearance is like out there.
03:06:06.000And the amount of women that are delusional as to how the world really works and making arguments in bad faith or not understanding how things really go, etc.
03:06:14.000And what I've realized is there tends to be a correlation where the more attractive a girl is, the more delusional she tends to be of how the world really works.
03:06:22.000Because her beauty has coddled her from facing harsh realities that the world often has.
03:08:02.000I will bring my own personal experience.
03:08:05.000Even my man, before I came onto the podcast, he was like, it's so crazy because You literally, somebody slid in your DMs and was like, hey, you want to be on this podcast?
03:08:14.000And me as a man, I would have to have a million followers.
03:08:55.000Nearly the same amount of opportunities and privileges, which once again goes back to why the wage gap doesn't exist.
03:09:01.000Women have more opportunities now because they're able to benefit from the equality, right, while simultaneously being treated like a lady, right, which is a benefit that only women get.
03:09:12.000So y'all can eat at both ends of the spectrum.
03:09:14.000Yeah, for a woman, opportunity has no face, but it doesn't have a dick.
03:10:27.000I don't need to find her because I found myself.
03:10:31.000And since I found myself, my leadership will dictate how she's going to behave because I'm going to train her to be the best girlfriend she can be.
03:11:44.000The difference between what he just said, like all those examples versus training a girl is that an athlete, conditioning at the gym, whatever, those are all personal choices.
03:13:34.000That's the way the world has always worked.
03:13:36.000All of you guys said earlier, not all, but most of you, or most women in general, want a guy that's taller, stronger, more dominant, more confident, more ambitious, etc.
03:13:45.000So you guys want a leader, but you don't want him to lead you?
03:14:07.000Because this is the cold hard truth about modern day women.
03:14:11.000Y'all will dress up in a suit, bring a resume, go to school for six to eight years to pursue a career that doesn't give a fuck about you, jump through hoops and hurdles to get this job, okay?
03:14:23.000Behave, go through training, become the best woman you can for this job, but then your man comes in and says, yo, I need you to do this, I need you to do that.
03:14:31.000Fuck you, nigga, I'm showing an independent.
03:15:04.000It's my way or the highway because that same mindset that made me become successful is the same mindset I'm going to take into the relationship.
03:15:10.000It's my way or the highway because there's other girls that want to work at this corporation, this law firm, whatever it is, because this is a prestigious business.
03:15:17.000And you need to be willing to train and go through the trials and tribulations to become the vice president, a.k.a.
03:15:30.000It's incredible to me how modern day women will sacrifice their years of their life, their prime years, for a job that doesn't give a shit about them, but they won't submit to a man.
03:18:24.000You're extrapolating something from what I said that doesn't exist.
03:18:27.000I simply said that men need to train women.
03:18:30.000But when I gave you guys the example of going to the gym to train, when I talked about training for a job, when I talked about training for being an athlete, none of y'all had anything negative to say about that.
03:18:38.000But when I say, I need to train my girl, y'all are like, whoa, that's not cool!
03:19:42.000Listen, if you're with a man that you love and admire and respect, and he gets down on one knee, he's choosing you and you're going to say yes, hence you're in a relationship with him in the first place.
03:19:50.000Because I'm also actively choosing him every day.
03:22:33.000You guys will go ahead and work a career and get trained for them, but you won't get trained by your man, which is why so many girls stay single.
03:23:13.000No, what I'm saying is that we live in a fatherless society where women, a lot of the times, don't have a natural respect for masculinity, or they might have not had a father figure, a strong brother, strong uncle, whatever.
03:23:25.000And most women in general don't respect most men.
03:23:29.000So, a lot of times, you gotta train bad habits out of girls because it used to be, in the olden days, you got a girl, she came from a strong family, she understood what it was to be a woman, right?
03:23:39.000She had a strong father, she had a mom, she came from a strong family, she understood what being a feminine woman was, and you can marry her.
03:23:46.000But nowadays, a lot of girls are not marital material.
03:23:48.000So you say it determines if that shorty have a dad in her life?
03:23:57.000Because typically, if you come from a good family with a strong father, he will instill certain values in you that will make you a good wife.
03:24:03.000So then you wouldn't have to train her then.
03:24:22.000Our past few minutes have just been fixating on this word and this idea of a man training a woman when essentially we as women train our men to pretty much acclimate to us.
03:24:59.000You have the conscious decision whether or not whether you want to conform to those certain standards or like she said, leave and go find another man.
03:25:07.000If you don't fit in with the standards that he's trying to hold you to, then cool.
03:25:11.000Go find another man and you can go find another woman.
03:25:13.000Like if I'm not good enough for you and it's not even about like not even being good enough or anything like that for each other.
03:25:30.000See, we're talking about dominancy here and submission.
03:25:34.000He wants a lady to submit to him basically all the fucking way.
03:25:39.000It seems that he wants a woman to submit to him, to be loyal to him.
03:25:44.000I don't think necessarily be a robot, but to at least consider his feelings and consider his boundaries and his standards that he has for you as his woman.
03:29:45.000Honestly, I would say you would probably be my daughter-in-law.
03:29:49.000I feel like you really kind of just sit back and I think you take into account sometimes it's better to be seen than heard and you actively kind of listen to everything.
03:30:23.000I just feel that you were leading a lot with your emotions, and I didn't really feel like you were actually kind of taking into consideration.
03:31:06.000Yeah, I did understand where you were coming from.
03:31:08.000I just felt like you didn't really kind of take in the entirety of the question.
03:31:13.000I think a lot of times you were referring back to your own personal experience when in reality we were kind of like trying to I don't think that's a reflection of you or anything like that.
03:31:25.000Are you referring to when we were talking about how women can be so manly towards men?
03:31:31.000No, I think it was just in most of the topics.
03:31:46.000Is that an example of her being emotional, I guess?
03:31:49.000I think I will say in your delivery, I don't necessarily think that I disagree with a lot of things that you say, but your delivery sometimes is just, I think sometimes it comes off as like really passive aggressive or even just like, just not very nice.
03:32:03.000Now, that doesn't mean that it's wrong, but I don't know.
03:32:17.000I feel like I'm not cutting you off, and I'm not, you know, being disrespectful to you, so I just, I don't know.
03:32:21.000I just, I felt like that respect should have been reiterated to me and some of the other girls here, but, I mean, this is your show, so have at it.
03:32:30.000Yeah, I mean, it's facts over feelings over here, and I was very explicit about that in the beginning.
03:33:05.000Even just now, asking you how to describe, why would you not want to have her be your daughter-in-law?
03:33:10.000You guys are dancing around it, saying it nice and sugarcoating it, etc.
03:33:14.000Even when we asked you about your guy, right?
03:33:17.000How you friendzoned him at first or whatever, and you didn't want to admit that you kind of wanted to live your life for a little bit and then get with him.
03:33:22.000Women just dress up things, and a lot of the times the message gets lost in you guys trying to be too polite.
03:33:28.000We're speaking very direct, very honestly, and concisely.
03:34:35.000It's okay, but I seen where you did get emotional over the abusiveness with your boyfriend, and that's fine because we females, and I was analyzing everybody, so you cool with that.
03:34:46.000As for not being my daughter-in-law, I don't want my man dating nobody that's going to snap on them because they ain't responding in a couple hours.
03:38:20.000Okay, so why do you expect a man to like a masculine woman if you don't like a feminine man?
03:38:24.000What do you consider a masculine woman?
03:38:26.000Because there's such a thing as the Kinsey scale and sexuality is fluid and there's some men that like more masculine women and there's some women that like more feminine men.
03:38:39.000Let's say the most desirable men that are the most masculine, do you think they want masculine women?
03:38:53.000So, wouldn't it be fair to say that if you want to get the best guy that you can get, you're more than likely going to have to be feminine to a degree and get rid of that masculinity?
03:39:02.000So the best guy is the most masculine guy, is what you're saying?
03:39:05.000No, you can continue to be who you are, but you've got to deal with the consequence of being who you are.
03:39:08.000You will probably more than likely not get an assertive, dominant, attractive male that's traditionally masculine, if you're a masculine woman.
03:39:15.000That doesn't really matter if that's not what you like to begin with.
03:40:45.000I'm not disagreeing with you on that, but I'm just saying the Kinsey scale exists and there's some women that like feminine men and vice versa.
03:41:15.000Just because someone is a minority doesn't negate its existence.
03:41:21.000And the minority is a lot bigger than you think.
03:41:23.000You see it's a minority, but given how many people are actually on the planet, like 10% or whatever percent that seems negligible, yes, in comparison to the majority, absolutely.
03:41:34.000But they make up a pretty significant population.
03:41:39.000By default, they're insignificant because they're a minority.
03:41:56.000Okay, what I'm trying to say is that 100 people out of 1,000 people is, yes, those 100 people are the minority, but when you look at it, it's still 100 people, and they can still make some sort of impact, if that makes sense.
03:46:12.000But either one of either one of you guys, simply because, yeah, the whole, I'm sorry, the whole texting thing after three hours, like, I'm sorry, that's a bit much for me.
03:46:22.000You got to have a little bit of trust and a little bit of security.
03:46:24.000For that, but it takes time to develop, you know what I mean?
03:46:26.000So I'm not shitting on you for that, but that's just not what I would want if I had a son.
03:46:32.000And sometimes you get a little combative.
03:49:33.000Why do you think it's acceptable for you to continue behaving the way that you're behaving to get a high-status guy, but me being a loser and saying I deserve a bad bitch is ridiculous?
03:53:39.000And she just said, men would tell you to change 20 times and all this other stuff, and you could change your hairstyle and men are still the same.
03:55:35.000Even my closest girlfriends be like, yo, like, when I'm not in a relationship, they be like, I want to see how you really act with a dude you like, because the dude you meet just out in the street, you brothering them up and all this other stuff.
03:55:44.000And then one day she's seen and she was just like, damn.
03:55:49.000The point I'm trying to make is that It's interesting that you don't feel like you have the need to change to attract the man that you want, but men actively almost always have to change and adapt who they are to become the most attractive man to women.
03:56:02.000And what I'm saying is that if there is a man that rises to that level that has a bunch of attractive girls that want him, why would he pick you when he can go get another girl that's less masculine?
03:56:11.000I'm not even looking at looks because it's what I feel on the inside.
03:56:17.000There's a lot of people who's based off looks like, oh my gosh, she looks better than me.
03:57:06.000Just like, bro, could you imagine if men walked around saying, like, auto-compete, there's no competition, all this other stuff, and, like, actually, like, thought that way?
03:57:53.000Love you, FNF. Please tell my boy, Monty, to stop paying for expensive dinners for these girls who don't give any attention and only want his Monty.
04:04:34.000I didn't think it was racist, but I don't know, but it had some sort of like, yeah, like connotation, like ratchet, like, you know what I mean?
04:04:41.000Like rah, rah, ratchet, like all this stuff.
04:04:44.000And then you're trying to say, like, what are you trying to say that section eight people aren't capable of having any class?
04:04:50.000There's a lot of people in Section 8 that end up there having come from wealthy backgrounds and stuff like that.
04:13:52.000Like, I'm saying, like, certain conversations that we had on to men and women, you're statistically speaking on things that's going on in your opinion, like, every day, but you're not speaking on...
04:14:02.000If it's statistically sound, then it's not my opinion, it's a fact.
04:14:05.000No, but there are things that are going on outside of your fact.
04:14:10.000Like when we were speaking how women tend to sit there and go out their way for a man, but you feel as though men more so go out their way for women more.
04:17:22.000I genuinely believe that Women simp as well as men simp.
04:17:29.000Because outside of that sex orientation, females will go out their way to put more effort into a male than a male would do a female.
04:17:41.000If women will put so much into men, tell me why there's an explosion of YouTube channels that teach men how to get women, but not necessarily teaching women how to get men.
04:17:52.000Tell me why there's a billion dollar industry that profits off of men's lust for women.
04:17:57.000Tell me why there are more girls that go out on dates nowadays to get a free dinner or lunch than actually wanted to get to know the guy.
04:18:04.000Why is there a whole sugar baby culture right now where women are able to extract resources, money, and time and attention from men without giving anything in return?
04:18:13.000Oh, they gotta give something in return.
04:18:15.000Well, there's some girls out there that honestly don't fuck sometimes.
04:19:45.000Just because you might have simped over one or two guys doesn't mean that there haven't probably been 50 to 100 guys that haven't simped on you.
04:20:44.000Guys, book is out, Why Women Deserve Less.
04:20:48.000I go into detail why the wage gap doesn't exist with a bunch of studies to include her faulty study as well about 80 cents on the dollar or whatever.