Fresh & Fit - RATCHET HOES Kicked Off After HEATED Debate On Rape Culture Being A Myth!

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00:03:26.000 Now, we didn't forget.

00:03:27.000 Ladies on the panel, give us your name, your age, what we do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, your body count. 1.00

00:03:34.000 And we'll start right here.

00:03:35.000 Welcome back.

00:03:36.000 Hi.

00:03:37.000 How are you?

00:03:38.000 My name is Annette.

00:03:39.000 Trippie Little Missy.

00:03:41.000 Shout out Carol City, West P. Ryan.

00:03:43.000 I'm 25. 0.99

00:03:44.000 Goddamn! 0.99

00:03:44.000 Carol City? 0.99

00:03:47.000 Y'all checked out on the win, right?

00:03:49.000 AK now known as Miami Gardens.

00:03:51.000 Real estate, cryptocurrency, dog breeding.

00:03:56.000 I had my first litter.

00:03:57.000 That was fun.

00:03:58.000 That was an experience.

00:03:59.000 Hold on.

00:03:59.000 One more time.

00:04:00.000 Okay.

00:04:00.000 What's your first name?

00:04:01.000 Annette.

00:04:02.000 A-N-N-E-T-T-E. Okay. 1.00

00:04:04.000 Social.

00:04:04.000 And how old are you?

00:04:05.000 25.

00:04:06.000 Okay.

00:04:07.000 And you said you're from, well, I'll just put, yeah, Carroll City, Miami Gardens.

00:04:10.000 And you said you sell dogs?

00:04:11.000 You breed dogs?

00:04:12.000 French Bulldogs.

00:04:14.000 Okay.

00:04:15.000 Okay.

00:04:16.000 Cryptocurrency.

00:04:16.000 And?

00:04:17.000 Real estate.

00:04:18.000 I have my real estate license.

00:04:19.000 Okay.

00:04:20.000 I just started Twitch.

00:04:21.000 Okay.

00:04:22.000 I play RuneScape on there.

00:04:23.000 I want to do GTA role-playing.

00:04:24.000 Okay.

00:04:25.000 Like T-Grizzly server, maybe Kodak Black server.

00:04:28.000 Okay.

00:04:30.000 And status, single, sugar daddy, married, gauged.

00:04:36.000 I feel like if I disclose my relationship status, it kind of, like, affects my career.

00:04:42.000 Alright.

00:04:45.000 Go ahead.

00:04:48.000 What is it?

00:04:49.000 Can I be anonymous?

00:04:51.000 Can I say, like, a pass?

00:04:53.000 I mean, we already know already.

00:04:55.000 Everybody knows.

00:04:56.000 Yeah, he did a bad job.

00:04:57.000 From last time.

00:04:58.000 No, me what?

00:04:59.000 Get some muscle, too.

00:05:01.000 All right, Kristen, go ahead.

00:05:02.000 What is it?

00:05:03.000 No, no, no.

00:05:03.000 What's she saying?

00:05:04.000 Does it matter?

00:05:05.000 Okay, I'm single.

00:05:07.000 Translation.

00:05:08.000 She got to do this again.

00:05:09.000 Okay.

00:05:10.000 But she still needs the sims.

00:05:11.000 Okay, cool.

00:05:12.000 Fair enough.

00:05:13.000 What about you?

00:05:14.000 Hi, I'm Melanie.

00:05:15.000 I am from Des Moines, Iowa.

00:05:18.000 I'm Melanie from Des Moines, Iowa.

00:05:20.000 35.

00:05:21.000 Wait, 35?

00:05:21.000 Yes.

00:05:23.000 Yep, I was waiting for that.

00:05:25.000 I'm in business technology sales.

00:05:28.000 And was there anything else?

00:05:30.000 Oh, I'm single.

00:05:31.000 Highest education level completed?

00:05:34.000 Some college.

00:05:36.000 So, highest level completed high school.

00:05:38.000 Okay.

00:05:39.000 And what about you?

00:05:40.000 What's your highest education level completed, Annette?

00:05:43.000 High school.

00:05:44.000 My real estate license.

00:05:46.000 Okay.

00:05:47.000 What about you?

00:05:48.000 Hi, I'm Khaleesi.

00:05:50.000 Hey y'all!

00:05:53.000 I do a little bit of everything.

00:05:54.000 I'm an artist, audio engineer, producer, singer, songwriter.

00:05:58.000 I rap.

00:06:00.000 During the day, I do finances.

00:06:03.000 You need a house, you need a car, you need some money.

00:06:06.000 You work for a bank like you lend?

00:06:08.000 No.

00:06:09.000 I work for a tax agency and, you know, I kind of partner with him.

00:06:14.000 But I'm mainly into music.

00:06:15.000 Okay.

00:06:16.000 You do a lot.

00:06:17.000 How old are you?

00:06:18.000 I'm 28.

00:06:19.000 Okay.

00:06:19.000 Where are you from?

00:06:21.000 I was born in New York.

00:06:22.000 I was raised in Miami.

00:06:23.000 Okay.

00:06:24.000 So I read both.

00:06:25.000 All right.

00:06:25.000 Cool.

00:06:25.000 I have my bachelor's degree.

00:06:27.000 Okay.

00:06:27.000 And what?

00:06:28.000 Recording arts, computer science.

00:06:30.000 Where'd you get it from?

00:06:31.000 Full Sail.

00:06:32.000 Where?

00:06:33.000 Full Sail University in Orlando.

00:06:35.000 And then, single relationship.

00:06:35.000 Okay.

00:06:41.000 Single couple, sugar daddies.

00:06:43.000 Okay.

00:06:44.000 Whatever works, bro.

00:06:46.000 That's the game.

00:06:47.000 At least you're being honest about it.

00:06:48.000 A lot of girls have sugar daddies, bro. 1.00

00:06:49.000 That's a new thing.

00:06:50.000 She raps, though.

00:06:53.000 Chris, man.

00:06:54.000 Alright, nah.

00:06:55.000 We can skip it this time, man.

00:06:58.000 She did too much, man. 0.95

00:06:59.000 She did too much.

00:07:01.000 Hi, my name is Victoria.

00:07:03.000 I'm 26.

00:07:04.000 I'm from Long Island, New York.

00:07:06.000 I manage a cosmetics counter at a department store.

00:07:09.000 My highest education level, I have a bachelor's degree in history and political science, and I'm single.

00:07:15.000 Cool.

00:07:16.000 Welcome.

00:07:17.000 Where'd you get your bachelor's from?

00:07:19.000 Stony Brook University.

00:07:20.000 Okay.

00:07:21.000 And then you said single, right?

00:07:23.000 Okay, cool.

00:07:23.000 Yes.

00:07:25.000 What about you?

00:07:27.000 Hi, I'm Asia Sky.

00:07:30.000 I think we were asking what we did.

00:07:31.000 I'm a singer and a pianist, and I also...

00:07:34.000 Oh, sorry.

00:07:35.000 I'm a singer and a pianist, and also I produce a lot of the music.

00:07:40.000 Actually, I'm vice president of a record label, Blue Jury Music Group.

00:07:46.000 How old are you?

00:07:47.000 I want you to guess, right?

00:07:49.000 No, I'll tell you.

00:07:49.000 Just kidding.

00:07:50.000 I'll be honest.

00:07:51.000 I'm 30.

00:07:52.000 30!

00:07:53.000 And where are you originally from?

00:07:54.000 I grew up in the UK. You went to high school in the UK? I did.

00:08:00.000 My dad was Air Force, so I grew up in the UK and both the United States as well.

00:08:05.000 Did you go to like an American school in England?

00:08:05.000 Okay.

00:08:08.000 Yeah, a little bit American, but also I did a lot of stuff in Mildenhall as well.

00:08:14.000 So where were you when you were in the UK? Were you in London?

00:08:18.000 Were you in Birmingham?

00:08:19.000 So if you know Cambridge, it's 30 minutes away.

00:08:22.000 Okay.

00:08:24.000 Excuse me.

00:08:25.000 I'm so sorry.

00:08:26.000 Can you hear me better now?

00:08:27.000 Yeah.

00:08:28.000 And then relationship status?

00:08:28.000 Okay.

00:08:31.000 I'm single.

00:08:33.000 Okay.

00:08:34.000 And your highest education level completed?

00:08:36.000 I have an associate's degree.

00:08:38.000 And what?

00:08:38.000 Okay.

00:08:39.000 Humanities.

00:08:40.000 Okay. 0.73

00:08:42.000 That's a waste.

00:08:43.000 I know, but it was a good experience.

00:08:46.000 I'm sure I was.

00:08:47.000 Yeah, I learned a lot, but yeah, you're right.

00:08:50.000 Fair enough.

00:08:51.000 I'm sure you did.

00:08:52.000 What about you?

00:08:53.000 Hi, I'm Leanne.

00:08:54.000 I am 25.

00:08:55.000 I'm actually from Seattle, so I'm out here on vacay.

00:08:59.000 Red flag.

00:09:00.000 Seattle?

00:09:00.000 Yeah.

00:09:01.000 Really?

00:09:02.000 Why?

00:09:02.000 You don't want to know.

00:09:04.000 Oh.

00:09:04.000 Okay.

00:09:08.000 What do you do for work?

00:09:09.000 I do online marketing and I create content.

00:09:12.000 I also do public speaking.

00:09:13.000 Okay.

00:09:14.000 Online marketing, and then you said you create content.

00:09:17.000 What kind of content specifically?

00:09:19.000 Motivational content, usually.

00:09:20.000 Okay.

00:09:22.000 What's your audience like?

00:09:23.000 I'm assuming women? 1.00

00:09:24.000 Yeah, women. 1.00

00:09:26.000 And then what's your highest education level completed?

00:09:29.000 Some university.

00:09:31.000 Okay.

00:09:32.000 Well, I just put high school.

00:09:34.000 And then, relationship status?

00:09:36.000 Happily taken.

00:09:37.000 Okay.

00:09:37.000 How long have you been with him?

00:09:39.000 Eight years.

00:09:40.000 Nice! 0.94

00:09:40.000 Good job! 0.94

00:09:41.000 Wait, y'all ain't married yet?

00:09:43.000 We will soon.

00:09:44.000 Not yet.

00:09:47.000 Not officially. 0.96

00:09:50.000 My nigga winning. 0.97

00:09:52.000 All right. 0.99

00:09:53.000 Fantastic.

00:09:55.000 What about you?

00:09:56.000 I'm Chloe.

00:09:57.000 I'm 19.

00:09:59.000 I'm a student.

00:10:01.000 I currently switched my major.

00:10:04.000 I was going to school originally for dermatology.

00:10:07.000 And I was like, I also braid hair.

00:10:10.000 So I switched my major to business administration.

00:10:14.000 And I was like, I was thinking of opening my own salon and like...

00:10:21.000 Having people, like, braid with me, if they either, like, either want to have, like, their own station, or I want to kind of make it different.

00:10:29.000 I want to add a few.

00:10:31.000 I'm still thinking about it.

00:10:32.000 Kind of make it different.

00:10:33.000 We can tell.

00:10:34.000 So I'm assuming, okay, so you're in college right now, undergrad, I'm assuming you're either a freshman or a sophomore at this point, a 19?

00:10:38.000 Yes.

00:10:39.000 Okay, and highest education level, obviously high school.

00:10:42.000 Mm-hmm.

00:10:44.000 Uh, relationship status?

00:10:45.000 Taken.

00:10:46.000 Okay.

00:10:46.000 How long have I been together?

00:10:47.000 Uh, seven months.

00:10:49.000 Oh.

00:10:49.000 So fresh.

00:10:50.000 Brand new.

00:10:50.000 Yeah.

00:10:50.000 Cool.

00:10:51.000 And then, where are you originally from?

00:10:54.000 I'm Cuban, too.

00:10:54.000 I'm from here.

00:10:55.000 Miami?

00:10:56.000 Okay.

00:10:56.000 Yeah.

00:10:57.000 All right.

00:10:57.000 Red flag.

00:10:58.000 What about you?

00:11:00.000 Hi, my name is Jillian.

00:11:02.000 I'm 20 years old.

00:11:04.000 I'm from Canada.

00:11:06.000 The highest level of education completed was high school.

00:11:11.000 I decided not to go to college.

00:11:13.000 And I said I'm single, right?

00:11:18.000 Just one more time.

00:11:21.000 And then what do you do for work?

00:11:23.000 I'm a writer.

00:11:24.000 Okay.

00:11:26.000 Serious writers.

00:11:27.000 She doesn't want to tell us what she writes.

00:11:29.000 It's not for Vice, though, right?

00:11:30.000 No, no.

00:11:31.000 I saw that in the comments. 1.00

00:11:33.000 Fuck Vice. 1.00

00:11:34.000 Okay. 1.00

00:11:34.000 What about you? 1.00

00:11:36.000 Hi, my name is Hollywood.

00:11:38.000 I am a certified tax advisor.

00:11:42.000 I specialize in credit.

00:11:45.000 Oh my gosh.

00:11:48.000 Credit acceptance.

00:11:50.000 Credit acceptance.

00:11:52.000 Credit restoration.

00:11:54.000 I love it, guys.

00:11:55.000 I also specialize in getting approvals for apartments.

00:11:59.000 Oh, really?

00:12:00.000 Yes, and I'm also 22 years old.

00:12:02.000 Wow!

00:12:03.000 And what else?

00:12:03.000 Yes!

00:12:06.000 Certified!

00:12:07.000 Certified!

00:12:08.000 Go Queen! 1.00

00:12:09.000 And I'm actually 22 years old from Miramar, Florida! 1.00

00:12:15.000 Miramar, oh shit! 1.00

00:12:17.000 Yes! 1.00

00:12:18.000 What the fuck is going on right now? 1.00

00:12:27.000 Um... 1.00

00:12:31.000 In a relationship! 1.00

00:12:33.000 Oh shit! 1.00

00:12:36.000 Is he in jail? 1.00

00:12:38.000 Is he in jail?

00:12:38.000 I'm sorry?

00:12:39.000 No!

00:12:40.000 Okay.

00:12:41.000 How long y'all been together?

00:12:43.000 Two, like two years going on three and a half.

00:12:46.000 Does he know?

00:12:47.000 Huh?

00:12:48.000 Does he know?

00:12:50.000 I'm sure he knows.

00:12:52.000 Right now he doesn't, but right now, you know what I mean?

00:12:54.000 Are you always this loud?

00:12:56.000 Is it loud?

00:12:57.000 A little bit.

00:12:59.000 Alright.

00:13:02.000 Fantastic.

00:13:03.000 Yeah, man.

00:13:04.000 Thank God.

00:13:06.000 No, we needed that.

00:13:08.000 I don't know when she was off when I got off, man.

00:13:12.000 Okay.

00:13:13.000 Snigger Chris, man.

00:13:15.000 Get on purpose.

00:13:16.000 All right.

00:13:17.000 Here we go.

00:13:20.000 Okay, just so y'all know, guys, it's Friday, which means we're going to go ahead and take your guys' questions.

00:13:24.000 We got a critique yesterday, earlier today, actually, and they were like, hey, y'all need to spice up the after hours, blah, blah, blah.

00:13:30.000 So, hey, man, y'all go ahead and ask some thought-provoking questions and let's get into it, all right?

00:13:34.000 And then I got some pretty good question ideas for next week.

00:13:37.000 But anyway, Wyatt goes, ladies, please name three countries fresh, no hints. 1.00

00:13:42.000 So, uh, You want to give them the spiel on this, and then we're going to start hearing the work away.

00:13:47.000 So, number one, you can't name USA, Canada, or Mexico, and also as well, whatever she says, you can't repeat.

00:13:55.000 So, you get to go first.

00:13:56.000 You gotta go!

00:13:59.000 Two countries.

00:14:03.000 Wakanda.

00:14:03.000 Africa.

00:14:04.000 Oh, there we go.

00:14:05.000 Two more, two more.

00:14:06.000 There we go.

00:14:07.000 Europe.

00:14:08.000 There we go.

00:14:08.000 Okay.

00:14:09.000 One more, one more.

00:14:10.000 Yes, sir.

00:14:11.000 Oh, I'm trying to say it.

00:14:13.000 One more.

00:14:15.000 You got this.

00:14:16.000 Vacations.

00:14:17.000 Where you want to go?

00:14:18.000 Come on, Antarctica.

00:14:20.000 Wait.

00:14:21.000 You got this.

00:14:22.000 One more.

00:14:22.000 That's it.

00:14:23.000 Egypt.

00:14:28.000 Can you name three countries this?

00:14:47.000 Oh no!

00:14:55.000 I guess it's laughing time.

00:14:57.000 Alright, what about you?

00:15:00.000 Eswatini, Tonga, and Chad, which I personally think should conquer the Virgin Islands. 0.99

00:15:06.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:15:06.000 She's flexing. 1.00

00:15:08.000 Alright, what about you?

00:15:11.000 Denmark, Albania, Dominica, Chile, Argentina, and Brazil.

00:15:24.000 Are you Hispanic yourself?

00:15:26.000 You're creative.

00:15:29.000 Belgium, Luxembourg, Ireland.

00:15:33.000 Vietnam, Cambodia, and Laos.

00:15:37.000 Are you a South Asian specification? 1.00

00:15:39.000 Okay, you're just like, fuck it. 1.00

00:15:40.000 Go poor Asian countries. 1.00

00:15:42.000 All right, what about you?

00:15:43.000 Tunisia.

00:15:44.000 Uh-huh.

00:15:46.000 Uh, Turkey.

00:15:47.000 Um, Pakistan. 0.96

00:15:49.000 Okay.

00:15:50.000 You Muslim or something?

00:15:51.000 No.

00:15:52.000 Okay.

00:15:54.000 All them countries, you know what I'm saying?

00:15:55.000 All right, what about you?

00:15:57.000 Germany, Italy, France.

00:15:58.000 Okay, simple enough.

00:16:00.000 Himalayas.

00:16:01.000 What?

00:16:02.000 Okay.

00:16:04.000 All right.

00:16:05.000 Is that a country?

00:16:08.000 Two more.

00:16:09.000 Bali.

00:16:12.000 One more.

00:16:12.000 Okay.

00:16:17.000 Just one more.

00:16:18.000 Antarctica.

00:16:40.000 I see someone in the chat use the Ana emoji from Overwatch.

00:16:48.000 I used to play her too. 0.67

00:16:49.000 But anyway, Ken Kareem, that is incredible.

00:16:56.000 I'm curious.

00:17:01.000 What's the capital of Africa?

00:17:02.000 What's the capital of Africa?

00:17:04.000 Wow.

00:17:07.000 What?

00:17:08.000 Hang around for a minute! 1.00

00:17:10.000 What the fuck did you just say? 1.00

00:17:12.000 You said Wall of Wall? 1.00

00:17:14.000 Nigeria.

00:17:16.000 I can't, I can't, I can't.

00:17:18.000 What's the capital of Antarctica?

00:17:20.000 Antarctica.

00:17:22.000 I couldn't tell you.

00:17:25.000 Where Santa Claus lives?

00:17:26.000 No, it's Iceberg.

00:17:27.000 North Pole!

00:17:29.000 That's the capital, right?

00:17:30.000 Iceberg.

00:17:30.000 Isn't it?

00:17:31.000 North Pole!

00:17:31.000 Isn't it?

00:17:40.000 All right. 0.99

00:17:41.000 For those of you who have male friends, what qualities did they have for them to get that pathetic position? 0.89

00:17:46.000 Why did you see them as smash material? 0.59

00:17:48.000 That's actually a pretty good question from King Kareem.

00:17:48.000 Good question.

00:17:51.000 So we'll go ahead and start right here.

00:17:52.000 You have guy friends.

00:17:54.000 Why are they friends and not lovers?

00:17:56.000 Yeah.

00:17:58.000 Okay.

00:17:59.000 The reason why they're friends and not lovers is the fact that I don't find them sexually attractive.

00:18:04.000 I don't like their personality.

00:18:07.000 They probably don't have the same values as me, the same morals as me.

00:18:11.000 But if you don't like their personality, why would you be friends with them?

00:18:15.000 Well, I mean, you know, we can hang out and be cool.

00:18:19.000 As a relationship, I don't like their personality as a relationship-wise, I feel like.

00:18:24.000 You know what I mean?

00:18:25.000 You can tolerate them, but you don't want to be like, be with them.

00:18:27.000 Correct.

00:18:28.000 You know what I mean?

00:18:29.000 Can you tell us what that personality is, to be specific?

00:18:36.000 I'm thinking of, I guess, my gay best friend, Omar.

00:18:41.000 Hey, y'all!

00:18:42.000 Yeah, I don't know. 0.94

00:18:44.000 But he's gay. 0.71

00:18:46.000 Okay, like this, well, I have this friend who's my best friend.

00:18:50.000 His name is, I'm not gonna say his name actually, but he's bisexual, so that's another reason, right? 1.00

00:18:56.000 I don't know.

00:18:56.000 I can't, honestly, I guess I don't have a lot of guy friends.

00:18:59.000 But they don't like you either, though.

00:19:01.000 We're talking about guy friends that like...

00:19:03.000 No, if they're my guy friend, they don't like me.

00:19:06.000 That's number one. 0.95

00:19:07.000 So are all your guy friends gay?

00:19:09.000 Or bisexual? 0.78

00:19:11.000 No, no, no.

00:19:12.000 They're not?

00:19:12.000 I wouldn't say.

00:19:13.000 So the ones that are heterosexual, why did you say no to them? 0.52

00:19:15.000 Because I guess I can't think of them at the top of my head because all of the ones that I do consider clothes are... 0.97

00:19:21.000 Gay. 0.98

00:19:22.000 Is his name Destiny? 0.97

00:19:22.000 Yeah. 0.97

00:19:22.000 Okay. 0.97

00:19:26.000 Nevermind.

00:19:27.000 Okay.

00:19:28.000 I was like, wait, what?

00:19:29.000 Okay.

00:19:30.000 So at this point in my life, I would say I don't really have many male friends.

00:19:35.000 When I was younger, I did.

00:19:37.000 And the reason that it never progressed to a relationship was either because I knew it would be toxic and not a good relationship, but keeping them as friends just, I don't know, it filled some purpose at that time.

00:19:49.000 Yeah.

00:19:51.000 How would it be toxic specifically?

00:19:52.000 Women use that word interchangeably, and it's not very specific.

00:19:56.000 Well, the one person in particular that I'm thinking of, I watched him go through a bunch of different relationships with his girlfriends, so I could see that he wasn't relationship material, but as a friend it didn't matter because we would just party together or whatever. 0.99

00:20:10.000 Was he not relationship material because he was promiscuous, or was it because he just didn't have his shit together? 0.99

00:20:15.000 He didn't have his shit together and because he just was jealous and abusive towards his girlfriends. 1.00

00:20:23.000 And my young immature self didn't really care about that because they weren't my friends. 0.99

00:20:28.000 It was him that was my friend.

00:20:30.000 So I just knew that I would never take it there with him.

00:20:34.000 So you had guy friends around before because they offered some kind of like value to you, I guess.

00:20:39.000 Yeah, like smoking weed with them or whatever back when I did that.

00:20:42.000 I mean, in my younger years, I've progressed past that.

00:20:45.000 I was married for four years, so...

00:20:47.000 Oh, you cut them off after that?

00:20:48.000 Yeah, of course.

00:20:49.000 I wasn't having male friends when I was married or in a relationship.

00:20:52.000 So he was like an F-boy, basically.

00:20:52.000 Okay.

00:20:54.000 But...

00:20:55.000 But without effing.

00:20:57.000 But he didn't smash?

00:20:58.000 No.

00:20:59.000 Never.

00:20:59.000 Never even kissed him.

00:21:00.000 Okay.

00:21:01.000 And there was one other one that I was friends with for a number of years and it was actually the opposite reason because he was too nice and he was too eager beaver and like would do anything for me and just didn't have- But the F boy never tried to smash you.

00:21:14.000 He didn't?

00:21:15.000 No, because he was good looking.

00:21:16.000 He had a bunch of girls. 0.93

00:21:18.000 Now I knew that he would.

00:21:21.000 That makes sense.

00:21:22.000 In a way, I knew he would, but he never tried.

00:21:26.000 Okay. 0.96

00:21:27.000 If he had money, what have you thought about him as a more serious prospect if he had to shit together financially and had a stable life? 0.97

00:21:35.000 I think the answer is yes. 0.93

00:21:36.000 Probably, but I just don't, I can't even see him in that way because he still doesn't to this day.

00:21:41.000 So, I mean, yeah.

00:21:44.000 Good point.

00:21:44.000 Fair enough.

00:21:45.000 What about you?

00:21:46.000 Why are the guys in your life that are friend-zoned, why are they friend-zoned and never elevated to some type of intimacy? 1.00

00:21:52.000 They're taken, and I'm a respectful-ass bitch. 0.98

00:21:56.000 So if they made a move at you, you would take it? 0.99

00:21:59.000 No, because they're taken.

00:22:00.000 No, but I'm saying, let's say they became single and made a move at you. 0.80

00:22:05.000 It depends.

00:22:06.000 It depends on where the friendship is. 1.00

00:22:10.000 If we're too close, I'm not gonna fuck you. 0.99

00:22:13.000 Because I don't want to cross that border. 0.99

00:22:17.000 But I'm asking, like, for your guy friends now, you're saying all of them, the reason why you're not, none of them are getting elevated to something more is because they have girlfriends.

00:22:25.000 Right?

00:22:25.000 So that's the condition under which Why are you friends?

00:22:29.000 So I'm saying that condition's gone.

00:22:30.000 He's single now and he's hitting on you. 0.52

00:22:32.000 It's also a combination of the fact that I really don't want a relationship right now.

00:22:37.000 Okay, let's say they try to smash them.

00:22:40.000 So it's not the fact that they have girls, it's something else.

00:22:46.000 Yeah, I mean, it's me, honestly.

00:22:49.000 It's me.

00:22:49.000 It's you.

00:22:51.000 But are you not talking to any guys right now or something like that?

00:22:54.000 I got a couple that I'm talking to that I have fun with, but I just don't have...

00:22:59.000 So you don't want to have fun with your friends.

00:23:04.000 You want to keep them in that friend zone role.

00:23:06.000 Yeah, they're taken.

00:23:07.000 But I'm saying if they're not taken, what is it that's holding you back?

00:23:11.000 Because clearly you're cool other guys.

00:23:13.000 So we want to know why these guys can't do it.

00:23:17.000 It's a certain line to me. 1.00

00:23:19.000 If I look at you and I know you and I find out that you're close to my kin and you're too close for comfort, I'm not gonna fuck you. 1.00

00:23:27.000 Because that's like me. 1.00

00:23:28.000 Are they friends with like your family members?

00:23:30.000 That's why?

00:23:30.000 Yeah.

00:23:31.000 Okay, why don't you just say that?

00:23:32.000 Well, you didn't ask.

00:23:33.000 No, I didn't ask.

00:23:35.000 I just had to ask a million times for you to say that.

00:23:38.000 I guess.

00:23:38.000 Yeah.

00:23:39.000 Okay.

00:23:39.000 All right.

00:23:40.000 So the real reason they're never going to get elevated is because they're friends with people close to you family-wise.

00:23:47.000 That's not it, though.

00:23:49.000 Quite literally said kin.

00:23:50.000 It's like, that's a point.

00:23:53.000 But the whole thing is that if I have a relationship with you, if I have a working relationship with you, right?

00:23:58.000 That's my working relationship with you.

00:24:00.000 I'm not going to cross those boundaries.

00:24:01.000 If I have a friendship with you, right?

00:24:03.000 That's a friendship.

00:24:04.000 I'm not going to cross those boundaries.

00:24:06.000 Because who's going to fuck it up? 0.99

00:24:07.000 I'm going to fuck it up. 0.99

00:24:09.000 I don't care about you. 0.99

00:24:10.000 You cannot catch feelings or whatever the case is.

00:24:12.000 You've never smashed a co-worker or a friend before?

00:24:15.000 Ever?

00:24:15.000 I don't do that.

00:24:16.000 I really try not to mix.

00:24:21.000 I have before and that's how I know it's messy.

00:24:23.000 Okay, perfect.

00:24:24.000 Why did you go ahead and do it with that person?

00:24:26.000 What made you say, you know what?

00:24:27.000 I'm going to drop all my rules.

00:24:29.000 I'm going to just try it.

00:24:31.000 Alcohol.

00:24:32.000 Okay.

00:24:35.000 All the guys that you have friendzoned, why were they never elevated to anything more?

00:24:45.000 I don't have male friends.

00:24:46.000 Oh, you just don't have any at all?

00:24:47.000 No.

00:24:48.000 Never?

00:24:49.000 No. 1.00

00:24:49.000 Damn. 1.00

00:24:50.000 No. 0.99

00:24:50.000 Why? 0.99

00:24:52.000 Why?

00:24:52.000 I just don't believe they can't really, you know, I don't believe in platonic male friendships.

00:24:58.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:24:59.000 Okay. 1.00

00:24:59.000 Alright. 1.00

00:25:00.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:25:01.000 Alright. 1.00

00:25:01.000 Beast. 1.00

00:25:02.000 Alright.

00:25:02.000 What about you?

00:25:03.000 Why did all your guy friends never be elevated from friend to So, you know what's interesting, like, I'm kind of like the queen of, like, platonic relationships, like, with guys.

00:25:13.000 I'm sure no, I'm keeping it all the way thousand, like, you know, like, like, I'm friends with guys, and they're like my brothers, like, you know.

00:25:21.000 The question is, why did you not never elevate any of these brothers?

00:25:25.000 Because if I like a guy, I'm going to let him know the first five minutes.

00:25:29.000 It's not like any way this, that or the fourth.

00:25:32.000 However, I still vibe with people.

00:25:34.000 I still connect with people.

00:25:35.000 We still all benefit each other in some sort of way. 1.00

00:25:38.000 I don't have to fuck you. 1.00

00:25:39.000 You know, we can just, you know, we can make shit happen. 1.00

00:25:43.000 How do you benefit guys? 0.95

00:25:44.000 How do I benefit guys?

00:25:45.000 Well, I'm pretty organized. 0.95

00:25:47.000 A lot of men in general have problems organizing their thoughts, getting their shit together sometimes. 0.78

00:25:55.000 I know, you ain't talking about organizing thoughts. 0.94

00:25:57.000 We asked a very direct question and you can't even answer it.

00:26:01.000 Okay.

00:26:01.000 The question was...

00:26:04.000 What specifically is the reason that you did not elevate the guys that are in the friend zone?

00:26:08.000 It can be they don't look good.

00:26:10.000 They're boring.

00:26:11.000 They're too nice. 0.96

00:26:12.000 They're lame.

00:26:13.000 Well, because, yeah, I'm more of a vibe, but I got to be attracted to you in all kind of ways.

00:26:21.000 There's like a checkbox of things.

00:26:23.000 Give us the checkbox.

00:26:24.000 Typically, obviously, like the person's got to be a good vibe, you know, not too freaking wild.

00:26:29.000 A little wild is fine, but, you know, too much is too much.

00:26:32.000 Yeah.

00:26:34.000 You know, at least, I would like to find someone that I would find attractive, you know, personally.

00:26:40.000 Someone that at least takes care of themselves, that says a lot about the guy.

00:26:44.000 So would it be fair to say that the guys that you have, this is so hard for the girls to answer.

00:26:49.000 Would it be fair to say that the guys that you have friend-zoned aren't attractive to you and they don't have the vibe that you just described?

00:26:55.000 I mean, they might not be attracted to me, but to be honest with you, like most guys, I just, you know, you have to be connected with me mentally for me to, like, you know.

00:27:03.000 So are you going to say pro-sexual?

00:27:06.000 I mean, I wouldn't say this.

00:27:08.000 I don't want to put myself in a box, you know, but I could be, you know.

00:27:17.000 Chris, don't steal my thumbnail, bro.

00:27:22.000 You know, it's just...

00:27:26.000 As far as attraction goes, a lot has changed over the past years, I would say. 1.00

00:27:31.000 Why are the guys that are friend-zoned from you, why can't they not fuck you, bro? 1.00

00:27:34.000 That's what it is. 1.00

00:27:35.000 Because, yeah, I'm not attracted to them. 0.53

00:27:36.000 They're ugly? 0.97

00:27:37.000 Yeah, they're ugly? 0.95

00:27:39.000 I mean...

00:27:40.000 I don't want to say they're ugly, they're just not for me.

00:27:43.000 They're not for me, okay? 0.99

00:27:45.000 Nobody's ugly in this bitch, they're just not for me. 1.00

00:27:47.000 Yeah, what are you all right now? 0.99

00:27:49.000 It's okay, nothing.

00:27:50.000 Just a little bit of tequila is fine.

00:27:51.000 Okay.

00:27:52.000 Jesus.

00:27:54.000 Alright, what about you?

00:27:55.000 I don't really have guy friends.

00:27:57.000 You don't?

00:27:57.000 None at all?

00:27:59.000 If they're my friends, they're usually because they're in business with me.

00:28:03.000 Is it because of your man or you just chose not to have friends?

00:28:07.000 Yeah, most of them are like his friends that I would be friends with.

00:28:09.000 Okay.

00:28:12.000 Did he tell you not to have guy friends or you just kind of took that?

00:28:12.000 Alright.

00:28:16.000 I just like having girlfriends.

00:28:18.000 Fair enough.

00:28:19.000 What about you?

00:28:21.000 Any of the guy friends that I have now are usually from like childhood, like up until middle school.

00:28:26.000 And like, they're all in college now.

00:28:28.000 Why are they stuck in a friend zone?

00:28:31.000 Childhood, family, just family ties.

00:28:34.000 So you're like her?

00:28:36.000 Yeah, basically.

00:28:37.000 But also because I'm in a relationship, too.

00:28:40.000 So that never went any further.

00:28:43.000 I mean, prior to your relationship, it's only been seven months.

00:28:45.000 But the main thing is the family ties?

00:28:47.000 The main thing is family ties, yeah.

00:28:48.000 And then after that, I just never got into it.

00:28:53.000 What about you?

00:28:54.000 I don't have many guy friends, but the ones that I do have, it's either because they're effeminate or we just don't have the same values, so we'd be totally incompatible if we dated.

00:29:07.000 Okay.

00:29:08.000 When you say they don't have the same values, what specifically?

00:29:11.000 Well, they don't want the same things.

00:29:13.000 Like, I want to live in the countryside.

00:29:15.000 I'm looking to settle down.

00:29:18.000 For me, like, outlooks matter very much.

00:29:21.000 So I couldn't be with somebody where philosophically we're totally different.

00:29:25.000 Okay.

00:29:27.000 Yeah.

00:29:27.000 Alright.

00:29:28.000 So they're effeminate and they don't have the same, I guess, ambitions that you do relationship-wise.

00:29:28.000 Fair enough.

00:29:33.000 Yeah, but I also just don't have many guy friends.

00:29:36.000 Okay.

00:29:36.000 Like, I have, like, maybe one or two.

00:29:38.000 Alright, what about you?

00:29:39.000 Alright, can you reiterate the question?

00:29:42.000 Alright, the question is, the guy friends that you have, the guys that are stuck in the friend zone that you have, think of them. 1.00

00:29:42.000 Stupid! 1.00

00:29:48.000 Alright, now that you have them, why are they there and why did they never be elevated to something sexual? 1.00

00:29:53.000 Okay.

00:29:53.000 They're not elevated for something sexual because if we're friends, I have a lot of fun with you.

00:30:00.000 So, meaning that, like, I don't want to have that type of fun.

00:30:04.000 If I wanted that type of fun, it would have been initiated on the first, like, altercation, like, the first instance we met.

00:30:10.000 Okay, I understand what she's saying.

00:30:12.000 She sucks at saying it, but what she means is fun for her, not fun for the guy. 0.85

00:30:16.000 She enjoys their company because maybe they pay for a table or whatever the hell it may be or they're showing her an experience and she's having fun and she don't want to get rid of that by making it asexual and losing that opportunity. 0.97

00:30:26.000 Is that what you're trying to say?

00:30:28.000 A little bit somewhat, but me personally, like when it comes to like the using of men, like I only like, you know what I mean?

00:30:38.000 But like when it comes to the using of men, I only allow.

00:30:40.000 I'm just using the table as an example so the audience can understand.

00:30:43.000 I only allow what they allow.

00:30:46.000 So it's like, you know what I mean?

00:30:46.000 Okay.

00:30:49.000 No, it's fine.

00:30:50.000 But you know what I mean?

00:30:51.000 When it comes to the men, it's like, you know what I mean?

00:30:53.000 It's cut and dry.

00:30:54.000 Like you can know exactly what they want as soon as it's mostly just mostly like, you know, just an example of using men. 0.89

00:31:00.000 Well, using men.

00:31:01.000 Well, I used to say, I am not a practitioner of using men.

00:31:06.000 I'm not a practitioner of using men.

00:31:07.000 She goes as far as they're willing to allow her.

00:31:09.000 So let's say he gets a table, she'll join in. 0.94

00:31:12.000 Yes.

00:31:12.000 Because he's already doing it.

00:31:13.000 If he invites me, then, you know what I mean?

00:31:14.000 Like, you want me at your table, you know what I mean?

00:31:17.000 But like, when it goes to as far as, you know, like...

00:31:19.000 What if he says, yo, after this shorty laugh, I'm feeling you, let's go back to the crib.

00:31:23.000 What are you going to do?

00:31:24.000 It's up to my interpretation, I feel.

00:31:26.000 Like, if I am attracted to that person, then maybe I do want to go.

00:31:26.000 You know what I mean?

00:31:30.000 But sometimes I don't get that attraction, and then you do become a friend.

00:31:33.000 Okay.

00:31:34.000 So the guys that you have in the friend zone, they offer you some kind of benefit, and you don't want to lose that benefit by making it sexual with them.

00:31:40.000 No benefit.

00:31:41.000 For my friends, my friends are purely for fun.

00:31:45.000 My friends are purely for fun.

00:31:47.000 You know what I mean?

00:31:48.000 Which is a benefit.

00:31:49.000 Yeah, that is a benefit, but that's the only benefit I use them for.

00:31:53.000 You know what I mean?

00:31:54.000 Just for fun.

00:31:55.000 So not dates, not dinner dates, nothing like that.

00:31:58.000 Why would we go on dates if we're friends?

00:32:00.000 So she wants to have a good time.

00:32:02.000 But she's the one having the good time.

00:32:04.000 Because women think that their presence alone is fun and it's not. 1.00

00:32:08.000 And she gave a very female answer, which is cool.

00:32:11.000 Hey, like I said before, typically for one gender to get what they want, the other one has to concede on what they want. 0.65

00:32:16.000 If a man wants to get sex with a girl, she has to concede a bit and not necessarily get a relationship and vice versa.

00:32:22.000 My thing is that most of the time, girls are winning way more. 1.00

00:32:25.000 They're getting the attention, they're getting the resources, they're getting the experience, whatever it may be.

00:32:29.000 Security as well?

00:32:29.000 And this is maybe some sort of security.

00:32:31.000 While the guy, a lot of times, doesn't even get sex.

00:32:33.000 Or if he does, maybe it's starfish.

00:32:34.000 So, what she's saying is, I'm not willing to give up my fun, translation.

00:32:38.000 I'm not willing to give up certain experiences, right, with this guy and make it sexual. 0.99

00:32:42.000 Because, you know, once you fuck a guy, everything changes, right? 1.00

00:32:45.000 Yes. 1.00

00:32:45.000 That's what she's trying to say. 1.00

00:32:46.000 You just suck at articulating yourself, but it's okay. 0.99

00:32:48.000 We got you. 0.99

00:32:49.000 Period.

00:32:51.000 Yeah.

00:32:52.000 I don't know if y'all noticed.

00:32:53.000 That experiment was very difficult for the girls to say.

00:32:57.000 I'll just keep it a thousand.

00:32:57.000 Because...

00:32:59.000 If you guys say what we want y'all to say, not what we want y'all to say, but what you really think directly, it'll make you look really bad.

00:33:07.000 Which that experiment kind of just displayed that. 0.96

00:33:09.000 If you had said the real reason why you don't want to fuck with the guys, some of y'all were honest, like her, he's effeminate, they don't have the same thing. 0.97

00:33:17.000 Someone said something along the lines of maybe family or whatever, but y'all were being around the bush a lot, bro. 0.97

00:33:21.000 It was very interesting to see that.

00:33:23.000 But you said that he was too nice, which is a good point as well.

00:33:26.000 He was too pleasing.

00:33:28.000 I think there's a reason behind that.

00:33:33.000 That's actually another good point as well.

00:33:34.000 You said he was so nice that you didn't think it was real.

00:33:36.000 I didn't feel he was real with me.

00:33:38.000 It was just to win over my affection or my admiration for him.

00:33:44.000 When you're too nice, it backfires on you.

00:33:46.000 Instead of just being himself, if he was just himself and just let me saw him and see him as he was, really.

00:33:52.000 For who he is.

00:33:52.000 Yeah.

00:33:53.000 Well, this is exactly why, guys. 0.99

00:33:55.000 I think I can't remember how to say this shit. 1.00

00:33:56.000 This is why women deserve less. 1.00

00:33:57.000 And the reason why is because when you pedestalize girls and you're too nice and you give them this bullshit, they don't respect you. 0.99

00:34:03.000 You know? 0.99

00:34:04.000 That's so mean.

00:34:04.000 That's the reality, huh?

00:34:05.000 That's so mean.

00:34:06.000 What does that mean?

00:34:07.000 Why women deserve less? 1.00

00:34:08.000 I mean, you know, I feel like if you're not a good person, you know, I understand if you mess up, but however, you know.

00:34:15.000 Well, the reason why women deserve less is quite literally because of your answer before. 0.98

00:34:19.000 Oh, I didn't find them attractive, whatever.

00:34:20.000 It really wasn't that.

00:34:21.000 It's just more so not about the attraction.

00:34:24.000 Me, when I meet people, I don't even necessarily look at them as a sexual type of thing in general.

00:34:30.000 I'm just like meeting people. 0.99

00:34:32.000 It's not like I'm trying to fuck them because obviously, you know, it's just... 0.99

00:34:36.000 Okay, well, here's the problem. 0.99

00:34:37.000 I love how you looked at it only through your lens.

00:34:40.000 Okay.

00:34:41.000 I'm telling you, you got to look at it through the men's lens.

00:34:44.000 When they deal with you, they're looking always at sex. 0.99

00:34:46.000 Men only talk to women for sex, bro. 0.99

00:34:47.000 So what I'm saying is that if you're looking for sex, you're trying to get laid. 1.00

00:34:52.000 Women typically deserve less. 1.00

00:34:53.000 They treat you better when you give them less.

00:34:54.000 This is why nice guys finish last.

00:34:55.000 Bad boys don't do well.

00:34:57.000 So if your goal is to be good with women... 0.94

00:35:01.000 You need to give them less for them to actually respect you.

00:35:03.000 And then they must earn everything else.

00:35:05.000 But a lot of guys give women more up front and they don't respect it. 1.00

00:35:08.000 And also, if you don't care about being with men like that, just bite a dog and die alone. 1.00

00:35:12.000 Rest in peace, Cass. 1.00

00:35:15.000 So, do you have something?

00:35:16.000 Yes, I was just going to say that you're basically just saying to men by saying women deserve less.

00:35:21.000 Kind of like how girls tell their girlfriends, like, if he's going to treat you like that, just move on.

00:35:25.000 Like, don't give him the time of day.

00:35:27.000 Don't give him your energy.

00:35:28.000 You're basically just saying the same thing to guys.

00:35:30.000 If she's not interested in you, don't try to keep winning her over by being fake and doing all these things.

00:35:36.000 Just move on.

00:35:37.000 She doesn't deserve to keep giving her all these things if she's not interested in what you're interested in.

00:35:42.000 I'll be very wrong.

00:35:43.000 Why don't you guys?

00:35:44.000 It's because when you pedestalize women, they become terrible people. 1.00

00:35:46.000 Well...

00:35:47.000 But anytime a woman's with a man that she feels she's superior than, that pedestalizes her, she starts to disrespect that man, she starts to treat him poorly, she starts to abuse him.

00:35:55.000 So for a man, he must be on top of the girl as far as, like, hierarchy. 0.83

00:36:00.000 She needs to respect him more than he respects her.

00:36:02.000 She must like him more than he likes her.

00:36:04.000 Because women, when they're in a leadership role and they feel like they're being pedestalized by their man, that inherently makes them think, I'm better than this guy. 1.00

00:36:09.000 When a woman feels like she's better than her guy, she don't want to take him seriously. 1.00

00:36:12.000 Women only want men that are at their level, but preferably better than them. 1.00

00:36:16.000 I see you shaking your head.

00:36:17.000 I think it's your upbringing.

00:36:19.000 Because at the end of the day...

00:36:21.000 Who's upbringing specifically?

00:36:22.000 It's...

00:36:24.000 Based off of you yourself.

00:36:26.000 Your experience yourself.

00:36:28.000 The man or the woman? 0.99

00:36:29.000 Each to each, right?

00:36:31.000 As a female, my family's from Jamaica and India, right?

00:36:35.000 Boop, boop. 1.00

00:36:38.000 Listen, I cook, I clean, I nurture, I do all of these things.

00:36:43.000 I can help you double your money.

00:36:44.000 I'm good around the house.

00:36:46.000 I'm good everywhere else.

00:36:47.000 Listen, right?

00:36:48.000 But if my man treats me like a queen and he's putting me on a pedestal, I'm only going to treat him like a king five times as more.

00:36:57.000 And that's what makes me a simp.

00:37:00.000 That's why I'm single right now.

00:37:02.000 Because I know how much I give to the man when I love him.

00:37:06.000 I'm very, very selective.

00:37:08.000 Stop the show.

00:37:09.000 You're telling me you cook and clean for your sugar daddy?

00:37:11.000 I do.

00:37:12.000 You do?

00:37:12.000 I do.

00:37:13.000 You have sex with him? 1.00

00:37:13.000 I do. 1.00

00:37:14.000 Okay.

00:37:14.000 You give him everything he wants?

00:37:16.000 I do.

00:37:17.000 Okay.

00:37:18.000 But you're seeing other men.

00:37:19.000 And he knows.

00:37:22.000 And he knows.

00:37:23.000 Do you think he likes that?

00:37:25.000 No. 1.00

00:37:26.000 If he didn't like it, he wouldn't fuck with me. 0.99

00:37:29.000 Because the thing is, men that have money like that, they have options. 0.99

00:37:33.000 Right?

00:37:33.000 But here's the problem.

00:37:34.000 This is a perfect example of what I mean when I say women deserve less. 1.00

00:37:37.000 If he gave you less and told you, yo, I don't deal with girls that go out and fuck other guys while I'm dealing with them, you would respect them more and you would stay inside and not do that. 1.00

00:37:47.000 But the fact that he gives you all these options is quite literally against what he wants. 0.99

00:37:51.000 It's just that he doesn't have the balls to tell you that. 0.92

00:37:53.000 My situation is quite different though. 0.96

00:37:55.000 My situation is different because the type of person that I am, I'm very open.

00:38:00.000 I'm very blunt.

00:38:00.000 I'm very honest, right?

00:38:01.000 When I start fucking with somebody, I need you to know exactly who I am, where I come from, and where I'm going. 0.99

00:38:06.000 And I want to know all of that shit about you too. 1.00

00:38:08.000 And I feel like the niggas that I fuck with respect that. 1.00

00:38:10.000 There's only two of them. 0.99

00:38:11.000 And they both know about each other.

00:38:13.000 No one else is entering that circle.

00:38:15.000 Nothing is coming out.

00:38:16.000 At the end of the day, I respect them and they respect me.

00:38:20.000 But the thing is, I don't I don't associate myself with people who believe in shooting down women.

00:38:25.000 You know, it wasn't fun being a woman until recently.

00:38:29.000 It wasn't fun.

00:38:29.000 It wasn't fun being a woman until recently.

00:38:31.000 And to be honest, I don't really agree with a lot of the things that feminists put out there, right? 1.00

00:38:36.000 But at the end of the day, we wasn't really women back then.

00:38:39.000 So we deserve a little bit of glory.

00:38:42.000 I agree.

00:38:42.000 If you give them too much, some females take that inch for the mile, but it depends on your upbringing.

00:38:49.000 Me, when I see you giving me less, I look at you and I say, what's wrong, baby?

00:38:53.000 You need some more nurturing?

00:38:55.000 I need to take a titty out.

00:38:56.000 It gets different.

00:38:58.000 Here's the thing.

00:38:59.000 Women must invest first. 1.00

00:39:00.000 The problem is that guys invest in girls first, and girls don't respect that, and they think that they're better than the guys. 1.00

00:39:05.000 So what I'm saying, I'm not saying that you treat women like shit. 0.99

00:39:08.000 What I am saying is that you need to have the girl invest in you first before you invest in her. 0.99

00:39:12.000 The problem is that guys come in, I'll buy you a bag, I'll take you here, I'll take you there. 1.00

00:39:16.000 And women don't respect you when you do that shit. 1.00

00:39:17.000 I agree with you. 1.00

00:39:18.000 So that's why I say white women deserve less. 1.00

00:39:20.000 So guys need to stop simping. 0.98

00:39:23.000 So imagine a celebrity, right?

00:39:25.000 That's fans.

00:39:26.000 They'll do whatever they can for a celebrity.

00:39:27.000 He's like, all right, this person's a fan.

00:39:29.000 That's it.

00:39:29.000 Same thing with girls.

00:39:30.000 You treat them like a celebrity?

00:39:32.000 Don't you treat them like a fan?

00:39:32.000 So we're just saying, look, on some level, if she's into you, obviously you can do things for her.

00:39:37.000 But if that is even on a table, then what's the point?

00:39:40.000 To be honest, though, here's the thing.

00:39:43.000 I feel like a lot of people, I'm Caribbean, so I was taught these morals from young, right?

00:39:47.000 Sorry, Twitch.

00:39:49.000 You...

00:39:49.000 What happened?

00:39:52.000 Who said it?

00:39:53.000 Keep going, keep going.

00:39:54.000 It's fine.

00:39:56.000 So, I'm Caribbean.

00:39:59.000 You're Caribbean, you're taught your morals. 1.00

00:40:01.000 So, basically... 1.00

00:40:02.000 Fucking two guys. 1.00

00:40:03.000 My bad. 1.00

00:40:07.000 My whole thing is, I have the understanding of it, right?

00:40:13.000 There's no disrespect, right?

00:40:15.000 I understand where you guys are coming from, where you give women, right?

00:40:21.000 You give them too much.

00:40:22.000 And sometimes it's misunderstood, right?

00:40:25.000 But from where I come from, right?

00:40:28.000 You deserve what I want from you.

00:40:31.000 It's the golden rule.

00:40:32.000 So at the end of the day, I'm going to show you.

00:40:35.000 I'm going to show you who I am.

00:40:37.000 I'm going to show you that I can do these things, right?

00:40:39.000 And I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt so you see what you're looking at and you can decide how you're going to treat me.

00:40:45.000 If you treat me wrongly, I don't mess with you.

00:40:47.000 If you treat me rightly, I know that there's something good.

00:40:50.000 There's potential in this because I showed you my best.

00:40:53.000 Okay, you mentioned morals in the Caribbean, right?

00:40:55.000 I'm from the Caribbean as well, Barbados.

00:40:57.000 However, you being sugar daddies isn't moral at all. 0.73

00:41:00.000 So that on premise right there is faulty.

00:41:02.000 I didn't say I follow all of them.

00:41:04.000 All right, so you know what?

00:41:06.000 How about this?

00:41:07.000 Since you're going to pick and choose when you want to go ahead and exercise morals, I'm going to pick and choose when women deserve less. 1.00

00:41:11.000 And most women deserve less. 1.00

00:41:13.000 That's the reality.

00:41:14.000 Because modern day women are no longer traditional. 0.99

00:41:17.000 They make their own money.

00:41:18.000 They have their own jobs.

00:41:19.000 They have their own careers.

00:41:20.000 And a lot of them, by the time you...

00:41:23.000 A regular 25-year-old girl, she has bodies. 1.00

00:41:26.000 It comes with the culture, truthfully.

00:41:29.000 What comes with the culture?

00:41:30.000 Like, just in general, like, you know, how you say women deserve less.

00:41:35.000 Modern-day women deserve less. 1.00

00:41:35.000 Yes. 1.00

00:41:36.000 Now, here's the deal.

00:41:37.000 It depends on the type of woman. 1.00

00:41:39.000 Because if she's giving out less, if she's talking to you, and she's not giving you a whole lot, obviously, you're not going to give back.

00:41:48.000 But if she's like, hey, I'm mom- But the problem is that guys give too much.

00:41:51.000 Okay, I understand.

00:41:52.000 But the thing is, if you're meeting them and they're not putting out enough and at least showing you the same kind of energy that you're giving back to them, don't waste your time.

00:42:05.000 However, if this woman has a lot of skills, a lot of capabilities, a lot of talents, a lot of things that she cooks, she does things that are high value for the man as far as him living, that would be good. 0.68

00:42:18.000 And that's where the culture comes from.

00:42:19.000 Are you a man dating women?

00:42:19.000 Let me ask you a question.

00:42:22.000 My man dating women? 0.99

00:42:24.000 Yeah.

00:42:24.000 What?

00:42:25.000 It's a rhetorical question.

00:42:26.000 It's no.

00:42:26.000 And what I'm telling you is that most modern women are not going to do what you just stated.

00:42:30.000 They're just not.

00:42:31.000 That's what I was...

00:42:32.000 I agree.

00:42:33.000 I agree.

00:42:33.000 There's something wrong with this culture.

00:42:35.000 And it starts with how we think about each other, how we think about men, how we think about women.

00:42:41.000 Yeah, most women don't respect most men. 0.98

00:42:43.000 That's the only way it's going to change.

00:42:44.000 The reality is most women don't respect men. 0.67

00:42:46.000 They shouldn't look at a man just for money.

00:42:48.000 That's so wrong.

00:42:49.000 Okay, so since most women don't respect men... 1.00

00:42:51.000 I'm telling guys, in general, women deserve less. 1.00

00:42:54.000 That's why the title of the book is that way, because most girls don't respect men. 0.72

00:42:58.000 An undesirable woman deserves less. 1.00

00:43:00.000 I'm so sorry for interrupting you, but undesirable woman deserves less. 1.00

00:43:07.000 Okay, but guess what?

00:43:08.000 That's a majority of modern day women today. 1.00

00:43:11.000 A majority of modern women today are undesirable to men in general because they don't have feminine traits and they're not traditional. 0.99

00:43:19.000 They want you as a man to be a provider, to be a leader, to be strong, to be masculine, etc.

00:43:24.000 What do we get in return for that? 1.00

00:43:25.000 Well, we get a girl that's used up, a whore, masculine as hell, fat, bitchy, rude, abrasive, etc. 1.00

00:43:33.000 That is the modern day woman. 1.00

00:43:34.000 And she doesn't respect you because she thinks she's equal to you because of feminism. 1.00

00:43:38.000 So my thing is, I'm not going to be a traditional man to a typical modern day woman because she's not traditional. 0.99

00:43:43.000 That's a bad trade for me.

00:43:45.000 Well, am I going to go ahead and trade in my success, my masculinity, my protection, my provisioning for a girl that quite frankly doesn't give me that femininity in return?

00:43:52.000 It's a misinterpretation.

00:43:54.000 It's not a good trade.

00:43:56.000 I'm telling you that most of those women don't exist in the West. 1.00

00:43:59.000 I think is where you look.

00:44:00.000 I think is where you look.

00:44:02.000 It's a misinterpretation and it's where you look, right?

00:44:05.000 Maturity doesn't necessarily go by age, right?

00:44:08.000 But it goes with your mental, what you do, how you act, how you move, right?

00:44:11.000 It depends on where you look. 0.99

00:44:12.000 If you're looking in the right places, you're going to find some ratchet bitches, right? 1.00

00:44:17.000 If you look in the other right places, you're going to find some well-spoken, professional, young women. 1.00

00:44:24.000 You have a point.

00:44:25.000 Back in the day, I would say you're correct.

00:44:26.000 Because of social media, the current TikTok pandemic, you could be anywhere in the world.

00:44:31.000 It could affect you.

00:44:33.000 Most women are not wife material, dude. 1.00

00:44:35.000 I'm just going to be extremely blunt about that. 0.81

00:44:37.000 Most women are not wife material. 1.00

00:44:39.000 Most women are not worthy of a long-term relationship. 1.00

00:44:42.000 Most women, quite frankly, want you to pay full sticker price for a used-up vehicle. 1.00

00:44:45.000 And I don't mean to compare you guys to cars, but it's a very simple analogy.

00:44:48.000 High mileage, yet they want you to pay full price.

00:44:51.000 And I'm telling guys not to do that.

00:44:52.000 The car, the dealer, and women deserve less. 1.00

00:44:55.000 Because if I'm going to go ahead and trade in my resources and time for something that's used up, I'm not going to go all the way.

00:45:01.000 How much less?

00:45:02.000 Good men are scarce too, nowadays.

00:45:05.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

00:45:08.000 No, no, no, no.

00:45:09.000 Let me correct you.

00:45:10.000 There's plenty of good men out there.

00:45:12.000 The problem is that they're too nice.

00:45:14.000 They're not tall enough.

00:45:15.000 They don't make enough money.

00:45:16.000 They're not attractive enough.

00:45:17.000 They're not ambitious enough.

00:45:19.000 There's plenty of nice guys out there that would love to date you and take you seriously and make you their main girl.

00:45:23.000 But the problem is that most women want a guy that's in the top 2%. 0.99

00:45:27.000 Social media...

00:45:28.000 But hold on, hold on.

00:45:29.000 You said earlier, right?

00:45:30.000 They're out there, good women. 0.74

00:45:32.000 Please tell us where they are.

00:45:33.000 The good women? 1.00

00:45:34.000 Yeah, please tell us.

00:45:45.000 Manifest it!

00:45:46.000 Manifest it!

00:45:48.000 Manifest it?

00:45:49.000 Manifest it?

00:45:50.000 Manifest it?

00:45:54.000 Only women get to say nonsensical things, like manifest it. 1.00

00:45:54.000 Manifest it? 1.00

00:45:59.000 You think I'm going to sit here and be like, I'm going to manifest that I'm going to be rich and famous?

00:46:04.000 What is manifestation?

00:46:05.000 Listen, listen, listen.

00:46:08.000 There's a difference between men and women. 0.51

00:46:10.000 Men must actually take action to get to where the hell they want to go because success, performance, it's our burden.

00:46:17.000 Okay?

00:46:17.000 Y'all can live in a Disney fairy tale and say, I'm going to manifest it.

00:46:20.000 The science, astrology, blah, blah, blah.

00:46:22.000 All this other stuff.

00:46:23.000 We got to live in reality, man.

00:46:24.000 Listen, I've had to make real money. 0.99

00:46:28.000 Had to get up off of my ass. 0.99

00:46:29.000 I had to pray. 0.99

00:46:30.000 Been in situations that was terrible.

00:46:32.000 That was hectic.

00:46:33.000 That was crazy.

00:46:34.000 And my manifestation is the reason why I'm here today.

00:46:34.000 Right?

00:46:37.000 I manifested two sugar daddies, a few businesses, a whole lot of money.

00:46:37.000 Yeah, you manifested too.

00:46:42.000 Hold on, hold on.

00:46:42.000 You missed the point.

00:46:43.000 You missed the point.

00:46:44.000 You had the ability to get saved by two men that have resources.

00:46:48.000 We don't get that privilege as men.

00:46:49.000 No one's saving us.

00:46:50.000 You guys can have cougars.

00:46:52.000 No one's stopping you from having the good jobs.

00:46:54.000 So we're genuinely asking where you can find quality women. 0.82

00:46:56.000 I've never heard of her.

00:46:57.000 Men have become more feminine and women have become more masculine. 0.78

00:47:00.000 An average woman can easily find a sim to pay her bills. 1.00

00:47:04.000 An average man has no fucking chance. 0.98

00:47:05.000 Even a model guy, he ain't gonna get no cougar to pay his bills. 1.00

00:47:08.000 She might fuck him because he's like a chad, but she ain't gonna sit there and pay his bills and support him. 1.00

00:47:12.000 It's the proper approach. 1.00

00:47:14.000 It's the way that you speak.

00:47:15.000 You can get anything by the way that you approach and the way that you speak. 1.00

00:47:19.000 You could be a short ass. 1.00

00:47:21.000 You could be four foot two. 1.00

00:47:23.000 You could have no money.

00:47:24.000 Stop the show.

00:47:25.000 Would you support an air connection?

00:47:26.000 Would you support a man financially? 0.61

00:47:28.000 Yes or no?

00:47:29.000 No.

00:47:30.000 Would you support a man financially? 0.61

00:47:32.000 No.

00:47:34.000 Temporarily.

00:47:35.000 Well, I think, yeah, temporarily.

00:47:37.000 Would you support a man financially long-term?

00:47:37.000 Okay.

00:47:39.000 To help out, but overall, we have, you know, it's a team.

00:47:43.000 Yeah.

00:47:44.000 Would you support a man financially long-term?

00:47:46.000 My husband or...

00:47:48.000 A guy that you're with at.

00:47:49.000 No.

00:47:50.000 No?

00:47:50.000 Would you?

00:47:53.000 Okay.

00:47:53.000 Temporarily.

00:47:54.000 Not long-term.

00:47:54.000 Would you?

00:47:55.000 Okay.

00:47:56.000 All the girls here on the panel.

00:47:57.000 You didn't ask me.

00:47:58.000 Well, I'm showing to prove you.

00:48:01.000 If you would have given me the chance to answer, I would have told you that I have.

00:48:05.000 Twice.

00:48:06.000 Three years.

00:48:06.000 And I've been and I've been.

00:48:09.000 Where are those men now?

00:48:10.000 That's why I don't do that no more.

00:48:12.000 That's why I don't do that no more. 0.98

00:48:14.000 What the fuck are you arguing? 0.95

00:48:14.000 What I'm arguing is the fact that I tried. 0.95

00:48:16.000 I tried to be with somebody and it didn't work.

00:48:19.000 It clearly doesn't work.

00:48:20.000 What are you arguing?

00:48:21.000 You're defeating your...

00:48:21.000 We're on the same page.

00:48:23.000 No.

00:48:23.000 Yo.

00:48:24.000 You literally said, I said, men can't get saved.

00:48:27.000 You respond, get a cougar.

00:48:29.000 I'm telling you.

00:48:29.000 You want to know why he didn't get saved?

00:48:31.000 Stop interrupting.

00:48:31.000 That's the problem.

00:48:32.000 You're not listening to understand.

00:48:33.000 You're listening to respond.

00:48:36.000 I said, men can't get saved by women. 1.00

00:48:38.000 You responded, a cougar can save you.

00:48:40.000 So I said, how many of you would take care of a man? 0.69

00:48:43.000 All of them said no.

00:48:44.000 Even you! 0.76

00:48:45.000 I did, but then I got rid of them because I was supporting a man. 0.99

00:48:48.000 Thank you for proving my fucking point. 1.00

00:48:50.000 Women don't provide security for men long term. 1.00

00:48:52.000 So we can't manifest this bullshit that you're talking about. 1.00

00:48:55.000 We gotta go out there and perform. 1.00

00:48:56.000 We can't guess two sugar daddies. 1.00

00:48:58.000 If you didn't approach the situation properly, you don't get what you want.

00:49:02.000 The reason why those men were able to get two to three years out of me helping them out is because the dream that they pitched was actually something I believed in.

00:49:12.000 I was like, you know what?

00:49:13.000 We can do this.

00:49:13.000 But guess what he did?

00:49:15.000 He went and fucked around on other people. 1.00

00:49:18.000 If I'm paying for all of your shit, that's what happened. 1.00

00:49:21.000 So all that did was teach me not to do that. 1.00

00:49:25.000 So tell this to all the short guys out there that have a good speech and a good plan to these women, but they say, oh, sweetheart, if only you were taller. 0.99

00:49:36.000 Tell it to all the guys that are fat, out of shape, and they're like, yo, nigga, you're too fat. 1.00

00:49:39.000 Listen, I get what you're saying, but it makes no sense. 0.99

00:49:42.000 You're looking in the wrong place.

00:49:43.000 No, where should we look?

00:49:45.000 Because the guys, I think where they're looking, they're looking at social media.

00:49:45.000 Please tell us.

00:49:49.000 They're looking at, damn, I want a bitch that looks like this. 1.00

00:49:52.000 I want this, this, and that. 1.00

00:49:53.000 So they're reaching for females that aren't even giving themselves to the public. 0.60

00:49:58.000 Where should we look?

00:49:59.000 Please, let them know.

00:49:59.000 Why do you look like you?

00:50:02.000 You just be talking to talk, bro.

00:50:06.000 You literally just be talking to talk.

00:50:09.000 Can we actually tell you?

00:50:11.000 Can we ask, like, where people think?

00:50:12.000 Yo, somebody sent me a meme about my position that's so good.

00:50:15.000 I can't find it on my phone, though.

00:50:16.000 I mean, if you have some... 0.99

00:50:16.000 Damn it. 0.99

00:50:17.000 Go ahead, shoot. 1.00

00:50:18.000 Go ahead. 0.96

00:50:18.000 I'm curious to where people think that you can find good women. 0.96

00:50:22.000 Yeah.

00:50:22.000 It depends.

00:50:23.000 Do any of the girls know? 0.56

00:50:24.000 Any of the girls want to say?

00:50:26.000 I know!

00:50:26.000 There's the problem.

00:50:27.000 I would start by saying...

00:50:29.000 We'll start here and then we'll work our way.

00:50:30.000 Go ahead.

00:50:30.000 Yes.

00:50:31.000 If you do not look like you have... 1.00

00:50:36.000 You need to look like you deserve a bad bitch. 1.00

00:50:39.000 If you don't look like you deserve a bad bitch, you need to go look for somebody in your category. 1.00

00:50:45.000 Nobody needs to overextend... 1.00

00:50:48.000 What was the question?

00:50:49.000 That wasn't a question.

00:50:50.000 What about you?

00:50:55.000 I mean, I don't leave the house that much, but when I do, I listen to live jazz music.

00:51:05.000 I play sports on the beach.

00:51:07.000 I play a lot of sports, so maybe.

00:51:09.000 I go to the farmer's market on Sundays.

00:51:12.000 I go to church.

00:51:13.000 Don't give too much info.

00:51:14.000 She's telling you where to find them.

00:51:16.000 I really don't know where to find them.

00:51:19.000 What about you?

00:51:23.000 Where can you find good quality women? 1.00

00:51:29.000 I think yeah I think what she just said right now um also if you're well educated I think if you come from a good family I think like a stable family I think if you have a stable family you kind of have a good example of a good relationship um But how are you gonna find a girl from a stable family? 1.00

00:51:48.000 Well, it depends who you know.

00:51:50.000 Like, if you don't know them, then oh well, you don't know them.

00:51:53.000 Interesting.

00:51:53.000 They're mutual?

00:51:55.000 It's whether you know, I guess.

00:51:56.000 Okay.

00:51:57.000 You asked the question, so go ahead.

00:51:58.000 Your turn.

00:51:59.000 Oh, I was just gonna say a bookstore.

00:52:00.000 Like, somebody who's, like, developing themselves.

00:52:02.000 Yeah.

00:52:02.000 Barnes& Noble?

00:52:03.000 Yeah.

00:52:04.000 Those are going extinct.

00:52:05.000 Borders?

00:52:06.000 Is that over?

00:52:07.000 I don't even know if they're still around.

00:52:08.000 I know, is that over?

00:52:08.000 Yeah, I think they would've gone too.

00:52:10.000 What about you?

00:52:12.000 Well, I guess guys are going to start off with Tinder first.

00:52:15.000 So if you want to, if you do, look, I know what you're going to do.

00:52:20.000 So if you're going to get on Tinder, I want you to have a respectable Tinder profile. 0.97

00:52:25.000 I don't want to see any bullshit. 0.85

00:52:27.000 I don't want to see your Instagram because if you have your Instagram in the bio, you're for the streets to keep it a thousand. 0.98

00:52:34.000 I want to see that you're at least trying to do something.

00:52:37.000 But also, you know, you're working on yourself and you're working hard.

00:52:39.000 At least something.

00:52:40.000 Because even with women, men want to see that we're working as well.

00:52:44.000 Do you know what the question is?

00:52:45.000 You're saying where we're going to find the women.

00:52:45.000 Yeah.

00:52:48.000 You're saying Tinder?

00:52:49.000 Yeah.

00:52:49.000 You can find them on Tinder.

00:52:51.000 You can go to church.

00:52:52.000 You can go wherever.

00:52:54.000 Yeah, just try it out.

00:52:55.000 Everybody's like, no, I'm anti-choice.

00:52:57.000 Well, just try it out.

00:52:58.000 Have you ever tried it out?

00:52:59.000 Try it out.

00:53:01.000 You know, it might be lit.

00:53:02.000 You know, or, look, Eventbrite has, like, a lot of events.

00:53:06.000 You can just go out, check out new events, and just make the eye contact.

00:53:08.000 It's all about the eye contact.

00:53:10.000 You know?

00:53:11.000 You're trying to pick up a girl, look at him. 0.99

00:53:11.000 Anywhere about the club, basically. 0.99

00:53:13.000 Look at him, like, with those eyes.

00:53:15.000 Do you think, as a man, you can pick up girls?

00:53:18.000 Me?

00:53:19.000 I mean, yeah.

00:53:19.000 Yeah.

00:53:20.000 If I was a dude, heck yeah.

00:53:23.000 I can pick up some chicks. 1.00

00:53:24.000 I'm sure you can.

00:53:25.000 On Tinder, of course.

00:53:27.000 Where should guys go to find girls? 0.97

00:53:31.000 Wholesome women. 1.00

00:53:32.000 Good women? 1.00

00:53:33.000 Yeah.

00:53:35.000 Community events.

00:53:36.000 I feel like the list of where to find bad women is much longer.

00:53:46.000 Outdoor concerts.

00:53:48.000 Outdoor concerts?

00:53:49.000 I don't think of country concerts.

00:53:51.000 That's a terrible place to meet them, but okay.

00:53:54.000 Alright, what about you?

00:53:56.000 I'm going to say it again.

00:53:57.000 Well, you didn't even know when we asked earlier, so what about you?

00:53:59.000 The word of the...

00:54:00.000 I'm sorry, darling.

00:54:01.000 No, go ahead.

00:54:01.000 The power of the tongue is so important.

00:54:04.000 And people who are not spiritual won't be able to feel it.

00:54:07.000 But at the end of the day, I've spoken everything into my life.

00:54:07.000 Right?

00:54:09.000 When I wanted a man, I prayed. 0.99

00:54:11.000 I was like, please send me somebody who's not dumb. 0.93

00:54:14.000 Please send me somebody who's not going to take all my money. 0.91

00:54:18.000 Amen.

00:54:18.000 Please send me somebody good.

00:54:20.000 And he did.

00:54:21.000 For the time.

00:54:26.000 All right.

00:54:27.000 What about you?

00:54:28.000 I would say, first and foremost, people just need to get back out into the world again, like these ladies were saying, out from behind the computer and the game consoles and just go places. 1.00

00:54:38.000 I think the more important thing, not where, but how to vet the women, because you can find a good woman anywhere. 1.00

00:54:45.000 You just need to know how to identify that woman as a good woman.

00:54:49.000 Or how would you vet her then?

00:54:52.000 Respect.

00:54:53.000 If she respects you and if she is giving you the attention and energy back that you're giving her.

00:54:59.000 But if she's kind of blowing you off and just not giving you the time of day, don't continue to pursue her.

00:55:04.000 But if she seems shy or interested or whatever...

00:55:08.000 I mean, that's the very beginning stage of it, but then it just builds from there as it gets more serious, you know, if you're able to call her out on her disrespect and if she's able to correct herself and appreciate your perspective.

00:55:20.000 Give us three traits that make a girl immediately unwifable, since you're talking about vetting. 0.98

00:55:26.000 Unwifable, I would say someone that's not willing to see your perspective or take it seriously and see your perspective as valid or thinks she's always right.

00:55:39.000 Okay.

00:55:39.000 Two more?

00:55:41.000 Someone that's not willing to...

00:55:43.000 I actually agree with you guys that a woman should be sexually available whenever her man wants that.

00:55:49.000 So if she's not willing to do that, and then I would say...

00:55:54.000 Someone that won't follow your lead, period.

00:55:57.000 I mean, if she wants to be the leader of the show and run the show, I would say it's not going to work out long term.

00:56:05.000 And I would say I made a lot of those mistakes in my marriage.

00:56:08.000 And that's one of the things that helped me paradigm shift was because it was very painful for me to go through that.

00:56:16.000 And I wanted to do whatever it took to make sure that I fixed the issues that were in me that caused it.

00:56:21.000 Accountability?

00:56:22.000 Love that. 1.00

00:56:23.000 Oh shit. 0.99

00:56:24.000 Do you think feminism kind of told you to take a more leadership role in your marriage and relationship and that's what caused it? 1.00

00:56:30.000 Subconsciously.

00:56:31.000 It's the culture.

00:56:32.000 I think it's brainwashing women and I think that we don't even realize it. 1.00

00:56:37.000 We don't even realize that we're like that.

00:56:42.000 Because culture tells us that they're basically like You can do more.

00:56:47.000 Yeah, like that we need to.

00:56:49.000 We don't need to compete with our man.

00:56:51.000 We don't need to be anything you can do, I can do better.

00:56:53.000 We don't need to do that because we don't, we're not the same.

00:56:57.000 That's why women deserve less. 1.00

00:56:59.000 Or, yeah, yeah.

00:57:01.000 This is out of the book.

00:57:03.000 Would y'all prefer to be alone?

00:57:05.000 Like, if y'all, we deserve less, I mean, you can just be alone, that's fine.

00:57:13.000 Did you not hear what she was saying?

00:57:16.000 It's called Why Women Deserve Less. 1.00

00:57:19.000 You should put why most.

00:57:25.000 That's probably what you mean too, right?

00:57:28.000 Remember, it's a book cover.

00:57:30.000 And to be honest, if I line up 100 women today and I go talk to them, like 95 of them are going to deserve less because a lot of them are on a pedestal. 1.00

00:57:40.000 A lot of them have Instagrams.

00:57:41.000 A lot of them have their DMs going up.

00:57:43.000 A lot of them have their egos in the sky, think that they deserve more than they really do.

00:57:47.000 And they think that they're better than you.

00:57:48.000 The average woman nowadays does not respect the average man. 0.99

00:57:51.000 If a guy makes 50k per year, 5'8", has a blue collar job, most women would never give him the time of day. 0.95

00:57:57.000 I'm not really sure who would be a role model for someone to be the ideal woman.

00:58:03.000 Who would I look at right now?

00:58:06.000 Who's your ideal?

00:58:07.000 Who do you think is a female role model? 1.00

00:58:09.000 That will tell me a lot about you.

00:58:10.000 A female role model for me? 1.00

00:58:12.000 Give me a female role model, yeah, that you think is one. 1.00

00:58:14.000 I would say Beyonce.

00:58:15.000 Incredible.

00:58:16.000 I would have to.

00:58:17.000 Because, you know, that's the person that I strive to be is somebody that's discreet.

00:58:22.000 And also, you know what I mean?

00:58:24.000 See, here's the thing with Beyonce, because I talked about this in my book in a chapter. 0.93

00:58:28.000 She is probably one of the biggest con women ever. 1.00

00:58:31.000 She tells y'all strong and independent. 0.92

00:58:33.000 She tells you guys, all the single ladies, she tells you guys, I can have another you in a minute, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

00:58:38.000 But guess what happened?

00:58:40.000 She went ahead and married Jay-Z, who has a higher net worth than her, okay? 0.95

00:58:44.000 When he cheated on her, she ain't going fucking nowhere, right? 1.00

00:58:47.000 And she's still with him. 1.00

00:58:48.000 So she tells you and sells you the lie of feminism and being single and you can replace and all this other bullshit. 1.00

00:58:54.000 Meanwhile, when it actually happened to her, she folded. 0.98

00:58:59.000 So Beyonce is not a good role model. 0.91

00:59:00.000 If you're gonna follow her like mantra.

00:59:02.000 If you follow her actions, maybe that's one thing.

00:59:04.000 But what she sells y'all versus what she does are two different things.

00:59:08.000 I believe 75% of men cheat.

00:59:11.000 Along with Cardi B. I don't cook, don't clean. 1.00

00:59:13.000 Offset has recording her dumb ass cooking and cleaning. 1.00

00:59:16.000 Right? 1.00

00:59:16.000 City girls. 1.00

00:59:17.000 Nicki Minaj.

00:59:18.000 Terrible example.

00:59:19.000 City girl.

00:59:19.000 Kim Kardashian.

00:59:21.000 She's paying right now the consequences for being a hoe having sex on camera back in 2006. 1.00

00:59:25.000 She got the fame, but it came at a cost.

00:59:27.000 And I predict that we're going to have a bunch of other women that are going to be in that predicament thanks to OnlyFans. 1.00

00:59:31.000 OnlyFans, girls. 0.99

00:59:32.000 You know what I mean?

00:59:33.000 So, hey, man.

00:59:35.000 I'm not saying that... 0.99

00:59:37.000 Women are terrible people, etc. 1.00

00:59:38.000 But what I am saying is that your guys' decisions have very strong consequences. 0.98

00:59:42.000 True.

00:59:43.000 Well, you don't have to be completely naked on OnlyFans to make money on OnlyFans.

00:59:47.000 That's not the point.

00:59:49.000 It's the stigma, though. 0.98

00:59:50.000 If a guy has OnlyFans is like, damn, she a hoe. 1.00

00:59:53.000 Also smashed up. 0.98

00:59:54.000 Maybe not.

00:59:57.000 Here's the thing, that fast money comes with slow problems and that slow problem is going to be that men are going to objectify you for the rest of your life and not take you seriously because you're always going to be on the internet naked and you're always going to be looked at as a sexual object versus to be looked at as Annette.

01:00:10.000 Absolutely.

01:00:11.000 That's the difference.

01:00:12.000 I'm still curious, though.

01:00:13.000 Where do you find good women? 1.00

01:00:14.000 You said Tinder. 1.00

01:00:17.000 That shit's trash, bro. 1.00

01:00:19.000 That was the worst thing. 1.00

01:00:21.000 Your church?

01:00:23.000 I don't know.

01:00:25.000 What about you?

01:00:27.000 Where can a guy find a good woman? 1.00

01:00:29.000 That's cool.

01:00:31.000 Botanical Garden.

01:00:46.000 Put it this way.

01:00:48.000 I will finish this part and then we'll go on to the rest of the chats.

01:00:52.000 The reason why I say modern day women deserve less is because modern day women today have the easiest existences that they've ever had. 1.00

01:00:59.000 They have all the same rights and privileges as men and they also have rights and privileges that men don't have. 0.91

01:01:05.000 Okay?

01:01:06.000 So, you guys have the...

01:01:07.000 And I get it.

01:01:08.000 It's over-correcting with feminism. 1.00

01:01:10.000 And that's fine.

01:01:11.000 But that's why I tell guys to approach the dating game nowadays where you have to give the girl less for her to respect you.

01:01:17.000 The days of being a gentleman up front and getting good treatment for it, it doesn't work.

01:01:21.000 If a guy goes on a first date now and gives a girl flowers, she's gonna laugh at him, put it in the group chat, and not take him seriously.

01:01:29.000 Don't do too much.

01:01:30.000 At least do something, but not too much.

01:01:36.000 Stop talking for two seconds.

01:01:38.000 The fact that you even had to say, don't do too much, goes to show the dating mindset that we're in now.

01:01:44.000 It used to be a gentleman would come pick you up, open your car for you, give you flowers, etc.

01:01:49.000 And women used to respect that. 1.00

01:01:51.000 They don't anymore.

01:01:52.000 That's why I'm saying women deserve less. 1.00

01:01:55.000 Because if you give them that treatment, which you're calling too much, but it used to be the norm, and then girls come back and cry, why are there no nice guys anymore?

01:02:03.000 Where'd all the good men go?

01:02:04.000 Where all the gentlemen go? 1.00

01:02:05.000 Y'all killed them off! 0.55

01:02:06.000 Well, you can still do nice things, but not too much.

01:02:09.000 What you mean to say is, if you're into the guy already, and you've proven his worth, then if he does things, it's different.

01:02:15.000 But if you didn't invest at all, he's doing it for you off-rip.

01:02:18.000 It's weird.

01:02:19.000 What I described used to be the norm, but now girls look at it like too much. 0.75

01:02:23.000 So since girls are saying that's too much, I'm saying women deserve less. 1.00

01:02:27.000 So thank you for proving my point.

01:02:29.000 As long as you're devaluing isn't like To the point where it's disrespectful and it's for the duration of the relationship.

01:02:39.000 I didn't say that.

01:02:41.000 I said as long as it doesn't do that.

01:02:44.000 Nobody said that.

01:02:45.000 I know.

01:02:45.000 I just said as long as.

01:02:46.000 See, here's the thing.

01:02:48.000 I said that and she automatically assumed that's what it was and that's how she felt.

01:02:51.000 I did. 1.00

01:02:52.000 Well, fuck your feelings. 1.00

01:02:53.000 I never said that. 1.00

01:02:54.000 But how you feel versus what's real are two different things. 1.00

01:02:59.000 Nowhere did I say abuse women, treat them like shit, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

01:03:02.000 I just said women deserve less. 1.00

01:03:04.000 You interpret it that way.

01:03:05.000 Who spoils that? 0.94

01:03:06.000 It's the way, it's your approach and how you say it.

01:03:09.000 Hold on, hold on.

01:03:09.000 Who spoils it for interpreting it that way?

01:03:12.000 So anybody else here, the way that he speaks, does he come as though he is trying to tell you that women deserve less because of how they are making men devalue?

01:03:22.000 Or does it feel like it's coming from a personal space?

01:03:25.000 Here's a problem.

01:03:26.000 You kept saying feel, feel, feel.

01:03:28.000 All right?

01:03:29.000 I conveyed something.

01:03:31.000 Instead of listening to what was said, you cared about how it was said.

01:03:34.000 That's the difference between men and women. 1.00

01:03:35.000 We communicate directly.

01:03:37.000 I say this.

01:03:38.000 You interpret it that way because it was said in a certain way.

01:03:40.000 How I say it is irrelevant.

01:03:42.000 What is said is what's relevant.

01:03:43.000 Me understanding you and you taking a chance to understand me is just communicating.

01:03:48.000 And that is the issue that causes a lot of issues between men and females.

01:03:53.000 Absolutely.

01:03:54.000 At the end of the day, if I respected your opinion and I sit down to listen to it, I'm going to feel you out.

01:03:58.000 A lot of females don't do that. 1.00

01:04:00.000 I feel like your approach, instead of saying women deserve less, how about trying to find a way to teach women men's value because they don't see it?

01:04:06.000 And it's not our fault.

01:04:07.000 It's what's been pushed into our faces. 1.00

01:04:09.000 Literally, as a child, you grow up seeing this shit the way you see it. 0.99

01:04:13.000 You cannot fault the population for that. 0.99

01:04:15.000 All you can do is try to be the example and spread the word.

01:04:18.000 Right.

01:04:18.000 Here's the problem.

01:04:19.000 We can't change a millennia of what's been going on with this feminist movement over one episode. 1.00

01:04:24.000 What we can do is tell you what we can do actively right now to kind of combat that.

01:04:28.000 That's what we can do right now.

01:04:29.000 So I get what you're saying.

01:04:30.000 Here's the difference.

01:04:32.000 You're listening to respond.

01:04:34.000 I'm listening to understand.

01:04:35.000 The reason why I'm able to refute every single point that you've made is because I listen I understand.

01:04:39.000 And I'm able to come back.

01:04:40.000 You're more concerned with how I say something versus what is said.

01:04:44.000 What's important is what is said, not how it's said.

01:04:46.000 But you being a woman and interpreting everything through your emotions, like normal, which is why the show is so entertaining, is you immediately reacted like, you're devaluing women, blah, blah, blah. 0.98

01:04:54.000 Nowhere did we ever say that.

01:04:55.000 But you automatically assume women deserve less. 1.00

01:04:58.000 That means abuse.

01:04:58.000 No, it just means you can't pedestalize them anymore.

01:05:00.000 You asked me about my opinion.

01:05:02.000 You asked me about my opinion.

01:05:03.000 Your opinion is incorrect.

01:05:04.000 And the thing is, you said you refute He said he refuted.

01:05:08.000 All I did was present a suggestion.

01:05:11.000 Well, your opinion is incorrect.

01:05:13.000 Opinions can't be wrong.

01:05:14.000 They absolutely can be wrong.

01:05:16.000 If I say my opinion is that one plus one is three, that's your opinion.

01:05:20.000 A fact is wrong.

01:05:21.000 A fact is wrong.

01:05:22.000 An opinion is an opinion.

01:05:24.000 They teach you that in school.

01:05:25.000 An opinion cannot be wrong because it's what happens inside of your head.

01:05:30.000 You're from the island?

01:05:31.000 I'm ashamed.

01:05:33.000 What I'm saying is that a fact Listen, a fact can be true or wrong.

01:05:40.000 An opinion is perspective.

01:05:44.000 You know why?

01:05:45.000 Now I see why this isn't making sense.

01:05:47.000 You don't live in reality.

01:05:48.000 A fact is real.

01:05:51.000 That's what...

01:05:52.000 Both of y'all, I guess, aren't living in life.

01:05:54.000 Now it makes sense why you're arguing with me when I'm saying things that are true and you're like, blah, blah, blah.

01:05:59.000 We're not even operating on the same frequency.

01:06:03.000 A fact is a fact.

01:06:04.000 An opinion can be wrong.

01:06:06.000 I think she's trying to say perspective, not opinion.

01:06:11.000 Everybody has their own perspective, but...

01:06:13.000 But a perspective can be incorrect.

01:06:14.000 Correct.

01:06:15.000 Right.

01:06:15.000 Yes.

01:06:16.000 But what I was going to say too about the title of the book, it's a catchy title.

01:06:22.000 You are coaching men.

01:06:23.000 You are not here to coach women. 1.00

01:06:25.000 You're using the women on your panel to help coach men on how to be better men. 0.91

01:06:29.000 It could also be titled...

01:06:30.000 Women don't listen too. 1.00

01:06:31.000 That's another reason too why we specifically don't really like coaching women because they think they know it all and they don't want to hear the male's perspective, which is why this podcast is so entertaining because... 0.99

01:06:40.000 Very rarely do men tell women the truth about how the world really works because they want to have sex with them and they don't say anything. 0.98

01:06:45.000 So guys rarely tell girls, no, this is how it really goes or you're wrong or whatever or telling a girl her opinion is wrong.

01:06:50.000 That's why girls come in here like, no, no, no, you're wrong, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

01:06:53.000 No, an opinion can absolutely be wrong.

01:06:55.000 But the message coming from a woman to other women is better taken because they're not as offended by what... 0.64

01:07:03.000 But women aren't honest with each other. 1.00

01:07:05.000 Which is why we have that problem right now.

01:07:07.000 That's why I want to try to help change it too because your book could also be called Make Her Earn It. 0.92

01:07:12.000 It could be called Make Her Earn It. 1.00

01:07:14.000 Instead of just giving her everything, trying to earn her, how about you make her earn the things you give her by the respect that she shows you? 0.89

01:07:22.000 It's the same thing that you're saying by saying...

01:07:25.000 Women deserve less. 1.00

01:07:26.000 It's just when women hear that, they're immediately, because their feelings, because we are emotional beings, their feelings get triggered by that because they're thinking of it in a derogatory way, like they don't matter or like they're never going to get it.

01:07:38.000 Let me ask you a question.

01:07:39.000 Yeah, you guys are putting women down instead of lifting men up. 0.99

01:07:41.000 Let me ask you this.

01:07:42.000 Who controls their feelings?

01:07:45.000 We should.

01:07:45.000 Well, everyone.

01:07:46.000 But men can help with that. 0.98

01:07:46.000 Okay. 0.98

01:07:47.000 So if you can't control your feelings, who's fault is that?

01:07:50.000 Well, I'm not saying it's not.

01:07:53.000 I'm not saying you, but you're taking the accountability off women like, oh, their feelings and their emotions. 0.99

01:07:57.000 No, I'm just saying the message that you're trying to give women is better taken coming from a woman.

01:08:02.000 But you're not here to teach the women. 0.99

01:08:03.000 You're here to teach the men.

01:08:05.000 Well, because like I said, a lot of women don't live in reality. 1.00

01:08:09.000 So I'd rather it's better for me to just teach men because men are the leaders anyway.

01:08:12.000 Right, exactly.

01:08:13.000 And they have the power.

01:08:14.000 They have all the power.

01:08:15.000 If they are a competent leader, they can lead a woman out of disrespect by how he treats her and how he will not accept it.

01:08:21.000 Stifler's mom.

01:08:22.000 Stifler's mom.

01:08:23.000 Oh my gosh, I've heard that before.

01:08:25.000 That's funny.

01:08:25.000 Positive reinforcement.

01:08:27.000 You mentioned the book cover.

01:08:28.000 Make her earn it, right?

01:08:30.000 I feel like you're devaluing women by saying they don't deserve it up front.

01:08:30.000 Yes.

01:08:35.000 What's wrong with you?

01:08:36.000 I mean, nobody just deserves something.

01:08:40.000 The title already does that.

01:08:43.000 Everyone's going to be mad.

01:08:44.000 The moment you put a title on a book, They can put it anywhere they want to.

01:08:49.000 So his title could be bad or good.

01:08:51.000 At least try to make a connection.

01:08:52.000 His perspective on how they take it.

01:08:54.000 But honestly speaking, the facts are the facts.

01:08:56.000 And somebody said you got to put women down or whatever. 0.76

01:08:58.000 Yes, in today's day and age, you have to put women down to get them to respect you. 1.00

01:09:01.000 Sorry.

01:09:01.000 No.

01:09:02.000 But isn't your book for men?

01:09:03.000 Hold on.

01:09:04.000 But the thing is that for modern day women to respect modern day men, men have to put them down to a degree because women's egos are up in the sky. 0.94

01:09:04.000 It's for men. 0.94

01:09:14.000 You guys don't understand this because you don't date women as men.

01:09:17.000 Most men are virtually invisible to women.

01:09:20.000 Most girls don't respect most men. 1.00

01:09:22.000 So you gotta knock her down a couple pegs to bring her back to reality and let her know.

01:09:25.000 I'm really sorry you feel that way about a lot of women.

01:09:28.000 Truthfully.

01:09:30.000 I know it's reality.

01:09:32.000 I'm sorry that you feel that.

01:09:34.000 Listen, listen, listen.

01:09:37.000 How I feel...

01:09:38.000 Versus what's real are two different things.

01:09:40.000 I wish it wasn't that way, but that's how it is.

01:09:42.000 I've met a lot of really good women, truthfully, that are... 1.00

01:09:45.000 What does that have to do with the conversation?

01:09:47.000 You're saying modern day women are that. 1.00

01:09:50.000 And I agree.

01:09:51.000 You're so right.

01:09:52.000 However, I've met a lot of modern day women that actually have husbands that they care about and they have families and they're actually dedicated. 0.98

01:09:59.000 Like, truthfully, I can call them...

01:10:01.000 That's a minority.

01:10:01.000 They're wiped up already.

01:10:02.000 I mean...

01:10:02.000 That's a minority.

01:10:03.000 You know...

01:10:04.000 Most marriages end in divorce.

01:10:05.000 Do you want to know why?

01:10:06.000 Can I keep it a thousand with you?

01:10:08.000 Like, the people that I know that have stayed, like, married, like, is truthfully, like, I'm just going to keep all the way, like, they, like, grew up pretty religious, like, truthfully, like, you know, they went to church, they made it, and they understood the role, like, I'm just going to just keep it transparent.

01:10:22.000 There's roles in the Bible, and I'm just teaching you, because this is what they taught me.

01:10:26.000 And the Bible is saying women deserve less, too! 1.00

01:10:28.000 I didn't grow up.

01:10:29.000 Every religious text has said women deserve less. 0.97

01:10:34.000 They need to submit to their husbands. 1.00

01:10:36.000 There's a role between the man and the woman. 0.88

01:10:36.000 That's the problem. 0.88

01:10:39.000 The man should have his own role.

01:10:41.000 The woman should have her own. 0.98

01:10:42.000 It's a guide.

01:10:43.000 You don't have to follow the Bible.

01:10:44.000 I don't.

01:10:45.000 But I'm just saying, it's just the guide.

01:10:48.000 I keep it in perception.

01:10:50.000 So I would just say, try it out.

01:10:53.000 People don't really actively try to do anything like that.

01:10:57.000 People want to do their own thing. 0.99

01:10:58.000 People just want to fuck around. 1.00

01:11:00.000 This is what it is in this society. 0.99

01:11:03.000 What I'm saying is there are good women out there, but I'm just saying the women that I know that have stayed in long relationships... 0.99

01:11:03.000 What's your argument here? 0.99

01:11:10.000 But that's a minority.

01:11:11.000 Okay, well, they're a minority, but I'm telling you, that works for that particular group of people.

01:11:15.000 Okay, so we're not making arguments for the minority here when we're having conversations about general public.

01:11:20.000 Okay, so for the majority, we do need a culture change between the women. 1.00

01:11:22.000 It's sad how the women are. 1.00

01:11:23.000 That's what I'm saying.

01:11:24.000 It breaks my heart how the women are. 1.00

01:11:26.000 It breaks my heart how the men are.

01:11:27.000 So if most women are being pedestalized, if most girls think that they're better than most guys, if most girls have egos up in the stratosphere, it would be irresponsible for me to say, oh, well, there's a couple good ones out there.

01:11:37.000 No, tell guys, you need to prepare yourself for the majority.

01:11:40.000 And the reality is, you have to put women down to a degree. 0.95

01:11:43.000 You don't want to date the majority, though, truthfully.

01:11:50.000 You saying that?

01:11:52.000 I'm confused because most guys are going to meet the majority.

01:11:54.000 The minority you're talking about...

01:11:56.000 Look, if you're a man of high value, you have to conserve yourself.

01:11:59.000 You do have to look for a woman that also looks like... 1.00

01:12:02.000 How are you going to tell a man how to conserve himself?

01:12:03.000 A woman, a good woman, and a good woman.

01:12:06.000 There's not that many high value guys.

01:12:08.000 That's a minority.

01:12:09.000 I'm talking about the general masses of men.

01:12:11.000 The guy that's 5'8 that makes 50k per year.

01:12:13.000 Okay.

01:12:13.000 Okay?

01:12:14.000 See, you don't even think about that.

01:12:16.000 The average guy.

01:12:16.000 That doesn't even come into your mind because that dude is invisible to you.

01:12:20.000 Not at all.

01:12:21.000 Well, not at all.

01:12:21.000 When I stated that, you were like, wait, what?

01:12:23.000 Oh.

01:12:23.000 Well, I might have been thinking in my own way, but I don't believe that person's invisible at all.

01:12:27.000 I think they should just try to vibe out and just try to be friends with somebody first before they, you know, at least invest that much time and money. 0.81

01:12:35.000 I know couples that have stayed together for years and they're maybe off the shits together.

01:12:44.000 Like, if you know what I'm saying, I don't know if I can say it on air, right? 0.80

01:12:48.000 But they be lit together, and they stay together for the full duration until somebody dies, right? 0.99

01:12:54.000 It's toxic as fuck, right? 0.99

01:12:56.000 To the outside eye. 1.00

01:12:57.000 But would you say that that man found a good woman?

01:13:00.000 No.

01:13:01.000 Okay.

01:13:02.000 I mean, just because he's staying there doesn't mean she's good for him, and vice versa.

01:13:06.000 Okay.

01:13:08.000 Listen, man.

01:13:09.000 Let's just put my chat here, because this is crazy, bro.

01:13:12.000 Um...

01:13:13.000 Freshly BBC. Y'all asking them to name three countries.

01:13:16.000 What you should be asking is three ways they could satisfy you in the bedroom because most times they put in no work.

01:13:21.000 Trust me, I would know.

01:13:22.000 Freshly educate you three or fours on how it's done, bro.

01:13:26.000 That's weird.

01:13:27.000 Don't trust that girl from Canada in a red dress. 1.00

01:13:29.000 Something's off, bro.

01:13:31.000 No, but someone else said she's the most feminine woman out there, and that's what she comes off as to me, as the epitome of femininity. 1.00

01:13:38.000 He's saying that she's so perfect, something has to be off.

01:13:41.000 Oh, okay.

01:13:42.000 Do you want to respond to that?

01:13:44.000 I think that's a compliment, so thank you.

01:13:48.000 Possibly.

01:13:49.000 Max says, question to ladies. 0.85

01:13:51.000 What is one thing that will make you respect a man and follow his lead before the doubt?

01:13:54.000 Be honest, please.

01:13:55.000 Okay, very good question.

01:13:56.000 So ladies, the one thing you would look for in a guy and say, you know what? 1.00

01:14:00.000 I respect this guy after what he's done or what he's accomplished.

01:14:03.000 What'd you say?

01:14:04.000 I like intelligence.

01:14:06.000 What?

01:14:07.000 Oh.

01:14:08.000 Let's start here because you started last time.

01:14:12.000 Definitely protective, I feel like.

01:14:14.000 So if he can protect you, you'll respect him?

01:14:16.000 Nurturing, yeah.

01:14:18.000 How would he show that, though?

01:14:19.000 There's no danger.

01:14:19.000 How would he show that he's protective?

01:14:21.000 Because he's big or in shape?

01:14:22.000 Simple things, like, for example, making sure you're on the right side of the sidewalk and not the left side of the sidewalk.

01:14:28.000 He holds your hand across the street.

01:14:29.000 He's, like, guarding you.

01:14:31.000 Yes, guarding you.

01:14:32.000 Okay, like, oh, I see this guy's looking at you.

01:14:34.000 We're, like, you know, just protective, nurturing.

01:14:37.000 Okay.

01:14:38.000 So protecting you is going to make you respect him.

01:14:40.000 What about you?

01:14:40.000 Got it.

01:14:41.000 I would say just him demanding his respect will make him respect me. 0.99

01:14:45.000 For example, I dated a guy once that would not take any of my bullshit. 0.97

01:14:51.000 And if something I did or said or I rolled my eyes at something he said, he called me out right in that moment. 0.98

01:14:56.000 And he said, I don't like what you just did right there.

01:14:57.000 That was disrespectful.

01:14:59.000 And I was like, whoa.

01:15:00.000 At first I was kind of like, but I liked it.

01:15:02.000 Because I think as women, we actually crave that.

01:15:05.000 We want a man to- You crave being put down. 0.99

01:15:08.000 That's not being put down.

01:15:09.000 That's not being put down in my opinion.

01:15:11.000 Being put down is calling you names or being mean to you.

01:15:14.000 That's not being mean.

01:15:15.000 That's just him stepping up in his masculinity and demanding respect.

01:15:19.000 That's what my point was.

01:15:20.000 I never got to say.

01:15:21.000 Women have become more masculine because men have become more feminine. 0.96

01:15:25.000 True.

01:15:27.000 That's the culture.

01:15:29.000 That's the culture that's made everything backwards because men are more like women and women are more like men and everything is backwards. 0.85

01:15:35.000 Let me ask you a question.

01:15:36.000 When he told you don't do that, He was the authority figure doing that, right?

01:15:40.000 Yeah.

01:15:41.000 A lot of modern day women don't respond well to authority. 1.00

01:15:41.000 Okay. 1.00

01:15:43.000 They look at it like you're putting me down.

01:15:45.000 So you might look at it like I'm saying that's putting a girl down.

01:15:49.000 You're saying, no, it's not.

01:15:50.000 No, it's not.

01:15:50.000 A lot of modern day women will look at that as being put down because the man is speaking from an authority.

01:15:54.000 I am the leader here.

01:15:56.000 A lot of girls think that they're equal to men. 1.00

01:15:57.000 So they look at that as being put down.

01:15:59.000 So that's why I'm saying...

01:16:02.000 Because here's the thing.

01:16:02.000 You understand that as a guy asserting his masculinity, a lot of modern day women will look at that as he's putting me down.

01:16:07.000 And that's the problem.

01:16:07.000 Right.

01:16:09.000 That is the problem.

01:16:10.000 Hence why I say tell guys, yes, you got to put it down sometimes because a lot of girls have egos up. 1.00

01:16:15.000 I hope you make the message clear though that that's a distinct difference.

01:16:18.000 I hope that it's clear because putting someone down in my view is being mean to them, calling them names, doing things that are just outright not right.

01:16:26.000 But when you correct a woman and you demand your respect as a man, I think that's actually helping her. 1.00

01:16:31.000 Well, you gotta knock her off her pedestal, which is, by definition, knocking her down, putting her down. 1.00

01:16:36.000 They don't like how you're saying it.

01:16:37.000 You guys are more concerned with how I'm saying it versus what it is.

01:16:41.000 But if you look at it quite literally, depedestalizing her is putting her down.

01:16:47.000 Now I understand what you're saying and that's the difference between men and women. 0.97

01:16:50.000 That opinion causes a problem because you took that, like, people will take that same opinion and then they'll take it and then they're not understanding it.

01:16:59.000 What's my opinion?

01:17:00.000 Tell me what my opinion is specifically.

01:17:02.000 Like, if you're saying that, like, if you're saying that something that, like, oh, I'm going to tell you, like, I don't like, if my hair is pink, I'm going to tell you that I don't like your hair that is pink.

01:17:10.000 You know what I mean?

01:17:11.000 Like, I'm putting you down like that. 1.00

01:17:12.000 I feel like you beat a bitch down. 1.00

01:17:14.000 Yeah, you know what I mean? 1.00

01:17:15.000 I feel like you beat a bitch down. 1.00

01:17:16.000 I feel like if she came to you and she was angry, I feel like you would just, what are you wearing? 1.00

01:17:20.000 Yeah, I see.

01:17:21.000 I see it.

01:17:22.000 Okay, I think the difference here...

01:17:24.000 First off, number one, I never put my hand on her girl.

01:17:24.000 No.

01:17:27.000 Ever.

01:17:28.000 Number two, I'm very honest.

01:17:30.000 If I don't like her hair, I will tell her, the hair is terrible.

01:17:32.000 It looks awful.

01:17:33.000 If my girl gains weight, I'll tell her, go to the gym. 1.00

01:17:35.000 You're fat. 0.96

01:17:36.000 See, the problem is this. 1.00

01:17:37.000 Women don't like boundaries. 1.00

01:17:39.000 Also, women don't like being told the truth if it makes them feel bad. 1.00

01:17:43.000 Mmm.

01:17:44.000 But my thing is, I have a certain image to keep.

01:17:47.000 My last name means something. 1.00

01:17:48.000 You want to be seen with me, you can't look like shit. 1.00

01:17:50.000 Period. 1.00

01:17:51.000 I'm not going to go to the gym and bust my ass to be around some chick that's fat as fuck. 1.00

01:17:54.000 That's unacceptable. 1.00

01:17:56.000 Alright?

01:17:57.000 I just have to ask that because you look like you might. 0.98

01:18:00.000 No, I just don't tolerate fuckery. 0.99

01:18:02.000 A lot of girls come with fuckery and I dislike fuckery and I tell them that's some bullshit and I don't like it. 1.00

01:18:07.000 But, that's what you have to do as a man. 1.00

01:18:09.000 You've got to depenestylize these girls because they literally think that they're better than you. 1.00

01:18:12.000 Women crave that, actually. 1.00

01:18:14.000 They don't even know they crave it.

01:18:15.000 They don't even know it.

01:18:16.000 I think it's because, like you're saying, depedalize them when the problem is that you don't want to take them off the pedestal.

01:18:25.000 You should leave them on the pedestal.

01:18:27.000 The problem is that they're probably falling off of it, doing something wrong, or they're getting fat or whatever you're saying, and they're falling off of it themselves, and you should correct them and put them back on the pedestal where they should be.

01:18:37.000 I like that.

01:18:38.000 I love it.

01:18:40.000 Here's the thing.

01:18:41.000 That sounds good on paper, but so does communism.

01:18:44.000 And we know that doesn't work.

01:18:46.000 Women cannot respect or be with a man that is not better than them. 1.00

01:18:51.000 Yeah.

01:18:52.000 So by default, you can't pedestalize women. 0.82

01:18:56.000 Celebrity and fan.

01:18:57.000 Do you mean like only the ones on the pedestal and the guys here?

01:18:59.000 Or do you mean like we're all on a pedestal?

01:19:01.000 Like he's a king, she's a queen, we're on a pedestal.

01:19:03.000 Most guys put a girl like this.

01:19:04.000 You're my savior.

01:19:05.000 Whatever you want, girl.

01:19:07.000 That right there, you're a fan.

01:19:09.000 That never works.

01:19:11.000 I agree.

01:19:12.000 Pedestalizing women makes you unattractive, period. 1.00

01:19:16.000 You must be on the pedestal as the man, not the other way around.

01:19:19.000 Can we both be on pedestals?

01:19:20.000 You guys can be higher.

01:19:20.000 No.

01:19:21.000 By the way, we got Eric.

01:19:24.000 $500 says, this one's for Big Mo.

01:19:26.000 I'm psyched that he's involved with Roger Tomarso.

01:19:30.000 Ryan Stone making fun of Rolo.

01:19:31.000 I need the ladies on the panel to define what winning as a man means and what winning as a woman means. 1.00

01:19:37.000 Health and wealth to you and all those you care about.

01:19:39.000 And by the way, another one on Rumble. 0.99

01:19:41.000 Eric Fisher, he's W. Goddamn. 0.97

01:19:44.000 Appreciate it. 0.99

01:19:45.000 Second one for Big Mo.

01:19:47.000 Alright, so Mo, anything you want to say to him?

01:19:49.000 Somebody winning.

01:19:50.000 Yo, thank you very much, Eric.

01:19:52.000 Yo, big shout-out to you.

01:19:53.000 I seen you when I was in that episode of Roll Zero.

01:19:56.000 So, big ups to you.

01:19:57.000 Why the hate we create, buy real estate, we lose weight.

01:20:00.000 And Mo, how do you say the last part?

01:20:01.000 Tamarzo?

01:20:02.000 It was making fun of...

01:20:03.000 Tamarasi?

01:20:04.000 Yeah, making fun of Rollo.

01:20:06.000 Okay.

01:20:07.000 Shout-out to Eric, man.

01:20:09.000 Cool.

01:20:11.000 You had a point?

01:20:11.000 That's actually a good question.

01:20:12.000 Oh, this one?

01:20:13.000 Yeah, but sorry, we'll let them finish their points.

01:20:16.000 So, to answer your question, what will make me follow him is if he keeps to his word.

01:20:23.000 If you show me the proof in the pudding, I have so much to follow because I know you're actually going to do it.

01:20:28.000 You say it, you mean it.

01:20:29.000 So being a real man, which means, for example, if he says something, he's going to do it.

01:20:33.000 Okay.

01:20:35.000 That's respect for you.

01:20:36.000 I'm sorry, would you?

01:20:37.000 So the question was, name one thing a man can do or say or be about.

01:20:42.000 I'll make you respect him.

01:20:43.000 One thing.

01:20:44.000 One thing I can think of is them not being afraid of being chivalrous.

01:20:50.000 I mean, the man that I'm dating now, he picked me up at my house, brought flowers.

01:20:57.000 Really?

01:20:57.000 Yes.

01:20:58.000 Question for you.

01:20:59.000 When he did that act, right?

01:21:02.000 Did you like him beforehand or you liked him after the fact?

01:21:05.000 Before he came to your house, he's hot, attractive, I like him.

01:21:08.000 I liked him even more after.

01:21:10.000 Okay, so you liked him from the very beginning.

01:21:14.000 Yes, that was the first time I'd seen him in person.

01:21:19.000 So, I'm just curious because what if you didn't like him at all and he did that for you?

01:21:24.000 Would you still feel the same way?

01:21:27.000 If I didn't like him at all, why would I say yes to a date?

01:21:29.000 Some girls do. 1.00

01:21:31.000 Free food.

01:21:32.000 Good times.

01:21:33.000 It's on the house.

01:21:35.000 I wouldn't want to waste a man's time like that. 0.89

01:21:37.000 Okay.

01:21:38.000 Maybe a little bit different.

01:21:39.000 Interesting.

01:21:40.000 I mean, let's be honest here.

01:21:41.000 How many of you guys have been on a date with someone that you had zero intention of having sex with?

01:21:44.000 Raise your hands. 0.99

01:21:46.000 Well, so y'all fucked everybody you went on a date with? 1.00

01:21:48.000 Damn! 1.00

01:21:48.000 Y'all fucked everybody you went on a date with? 1.00

01:21:50.000 No, that wasn't the question. 0.99

01:21:56.000 Yeah.

01:21:57.000 No, the question is...

01:21:58.000 Because a lot of...

01:21:59.000 The point we're trying to make here is that girls go on pointless dates with guys that they don't like all the time.

01:22:02.000 Yeah.

01:22:05.000 I don't think so.

01:22:06.000 Honestly, I feel like I'm 22.

01:22:08.000 At 22, that's scary.

01:22:11.000 Going on a date that you know you have no intention of talking to that person.

01:22:18.000 What if I told you those guys that you have in the friend zone probably thought that it was a date and then you friend zoned them.

01:22:23.000 How about that?

01:22:24.000 I don't tend to do that.

01:22:25.000 I honestly feel like that's scary.

01:22:28.000 You can go on a date and then they accidentally find out that you're not playing them.

01:22:32.000 They can have a neurological pump in their brain and now I'm gone somewhere.

01:22:40.000 I don't like to play with people's emotions.

01:22:43.000 The crazy part is we don't know what you mean.

01:22:45.000 I'm saying like, basically if I go on a date and they're like, because you can obviously tell unless you're like, you know what I mean?

01:22:51.000 Like at a certain level, you can obviously tell if somebody doesn't like you.

01:22:55.000 So it's like, if you're somewhere like, you're like, oh yeah, I'm like, you know, I'm going to eat your food.

01:23:01.000 You know, you obviously know when somebody doesn't like you.

01:23:01.000 Like, you know what I mean?

01:23:14.000 I wouldn't go on a date with a guy I'm not interested in, but I don't I don't have sex outside of marriage. 0.51

01:23:20.000 I wasn't gonna have sex with him. 0.96

01:23:22.000 You're a virgin? 0.98

01:23:23.000 I just wanted to clarify that.

01:23:28.000 You're a virgin?

01:23:29.000 Yeah, I'm a virgin, yeah.

01:23:30.000 That's what your buddy pointed out on the thing and we couldn't figure out.

01:23:33.000 She's a wholesome woman.

01:23:35.000 Yo, yo, yo, yo, chat.

01:23:36.000 We need a test, bro.

01:23:37.000 Who's gonna do it?

01:23:38.000 What?

01:23:39.000 Oh my God.

01:23:41.000 It's okay, love.

01:23:42.000 That's dope. 0.93

01:23:44.000 If you are, that's really dope.

01:23:46.000 I'm proud of you if you want.

01:23:49.000 We've got two tonight actually.

01:23:52.000 I made sure to get her okay before I said that.

01:23:57.000 Oh yeah, no worries.

01:23:58.000 It was going to come out at some point.

01:24:00.000 Hold on.

01:24:00.000 That picked you up.

01:24:02.000 How long have you guys been talking?

01:24:03.000 A month.

01:24:05.000 So you don't want to smash?

01:24:06.000 He knew I was waiting until marriage before the first date.

01:24:14.000 Well, that explains her not having guy friends.

01:24:18.000 See, the dots are starting to connect to her.

01:24:21.000 The chivalry means something to her.

01:24:24.000 Because she's a virgin. 0.99

01:24:26.000 Goddamn, bro, see? 1.00

01:24:28.000 Girls appreciate men when they're not sluts. 1.00

01:24:32.000 When you do flowers, you give them certain things, and you treat them like a gentleman. 0.97

01:24:37.000 And they appreciate it back.

01:24:37.000 And she appreciated it back.

01:24:39.000 Because it didn't make her not like him.

01:24:41.000 I don't know what girls y'all think will get flowers and not appreciate it. 1.00

01:24:45.000 What are you talking about?

01:24:46.000 Yo, you don't get girls as a guy. 0.99

01:24:48.000 I'm telling you, there's niggas out there that go with this all the time, Tinder especially, Hinge. 1.00

01:24:52.000 Oh, she's cute. 1.00

01:24:53.000 She's awesome. 0.83

01:24:53.000 You know what? 0.83

01:24:54.000 I want to make a big impression on her.

01:24:56.000 I'll pick her up, give her flowers. 0.98

01:24:57.000 She's like, nigga, I'm just trying to smash. 1.00

01:24:59.000 What the fuck are you doing? 1.00

01:25:00.000 I don't think women understand that you don't ask the fish how to fish. 1.00

01:25:06.000 You ask the fishermen. 0.99

01:25:08.000 You guys don't know what it takes to be attractive to women as a man because you are not a man dealing with female fuckery when you're in the dating game. 0.99

01:25:15.000 Okay? 0.98

01:25:16.000 So therefore, no offense, the advice you guys have dispensed so far has been terrible.

01:25:21.000 If any guy followed what you said, oh, be friends, just catch a vibe, I'll be stuck in a friend zone.

01:25:26.000 It doesn't work.

01:25:27.000 All right?

01:25:28.000 Well, it should start there.

01:25:29.000 That's what I'm saying.

01:25:30.000 No, it should not.

01:25:32.000 Absolutely not.

01:25:33.000 You should be clear on attention.

01:25:34.000 You know what's funny?

01:25:35.000 You're eating your own words right now because you quite literally said earlier at the top of the show, I know right away if I like the guy.

01:25:40.000 So why the hell is he going to be a friend?

01:25:41.000 It's not like that.

01:25:43.000 It's more so...

01:25:44.000 It's contradicting yourself.

01:25:44.000 Pull the L, bro.

01:25:45.000 Like, yo.

01:25:47.000 You said to yourself earlier, like, yo, I know right away when I like the guy.

01:25:50.000 So if you know right away you like the guy, why are you going to be friends?

01:25:55.000 I mean, as far as a connection goes, that's what I mean.

01:26:01.000 As soon as you set eyes on somebody, you should know if you like them or not.

01:26:04.000 Obviously, you're going to see a man.

01:26:06.000 If you look at a man, you're not going to be attracted to a man.

01:26:11.000 So it's more than one thing, obviously, working at one time.

01:26:15.000 But obviously, you're looking at another dude.

01:26:17.000 You're not going to be attracted to another dude.

01:26:18.000 Obviously, because that's not your preference.

01:26:21.000 But obviously, like, women, we're just designing this way to, like, you know, men. 0.97

01:26:25.000 Here's the difference, bro.

01:26:27.000 You guys want to know why you're so clueless?

01:26:29.000 I'm going to break it down for you guys. 1.00

01:26:30.000 You could call me an asshole, sexist, whatever it is. 0.99

01:26:32.000 The reason why you guys are so clueless, right, is because women have the privilege of not having to understand men to be attractive to them. 1.00

01:26:40.000 One more time.

01:26:41.000 Ah!

01:26:44.000 The reason why you guys are clueless is because women have the privilege of not having to understand men to be attractive to them.

01:26:52.000 You exist.

01:26:53.000 Men come up to you. 0.94

01:26:55.000 You exist.

01:26:55.000 Men email you.

01:26:56.000 You exist.

01:26:59.000 Men match with you on Tinder.

01:27:00.000 Also, on the other hand, not only do we have to understand you guys, we have to be attractive.

01:27:05.000 We have to be charismatic.

01:27:06.000 We have to be charming.

01:27:07.000 We have to be chivalrous.

01:27:08.000 We have to understand women to get laid. 1.00

01:27:11.000 We have to have our apartment clean when you come in.

01:27:13.000 We have to make you feel comfortable.

01:27:14.000 We have to plan a date.

01:27:15.000 We have to know, okay, is she going to like this?

01:27:18.000 Is she going to like that?

01:27:18.000 I have to touch her away, etc.

01:27:20.000 Men must understand women to get laid. 1.00

01:27:22.000 However, women don't have to understand men to get laid. 1.00

01:27:24.000 So that is why your advice is pointless because I don't know anything.

01:27:28.000 No offense.

01:27:29.000 All of those things that you just named, when you're trying to get a woman of a certain caliber, yes.

01:27:35.000 A thousand percent.

01:27:36.000 All of those things that you just named.

01:27:38.000 However, if a man was going after...

01:27:41.000 Just sex?

01:27:43.000 No. 0.98

01:27:43.000 Chisha off the street, right? 0.98

01:27:45.000 And Chisha off the street is down if you got a bed to sleep in. 1.00

01:27:48.000 She down if you got some food.

01:27:50.000 Chisha gonna make sure that you're lit.

01:27:52.000 She's gonna make sure that you have a good relationship together. 1.00

01:27:54.000 You didn't have to buy her flowers.

01:27:57.000 She was happy with your smile.

01:27:58.000 You didn't have to put food in the cabinet because she was happy with that. 1.00

01:28:02.000 And this goes to show how little women really know. 1.00

01:28:07.000 No offense. 0.99

01:28:08.000 You do realize that even the biggest hoes want something in exchange for sex? 1.00

01:28:13.000 I'm not. 0.99

01:28:13.000 Oh, burger? 0.99

01:28:14.000 No, no, no.

01:28:15.000 Okay, cool. 0.98

01:28:15.000 So let me, let me, because you're trying to, you're trying to insinuate that a girl that's a big ass hoe, it's that easy. 0.98

01:28:20.000 No, the guy still has to go over there and talk to her. 0.96

01:28:22.000 I'm sorry.

01:28:22.000 He still has to have some game.

01:28:22.000 No, no, no.

01:28:23.000 I'm not talking about a hoe. 1.00

01:28:24.000 What I'm talking about, I'm trying, because I'm trying to, like, censor what I'm saying.

01:28:28.000 I don't know what I can and can't say.

01:28:30.000 Say what you're saying.

01:28:30.000 I'm talking about...

01:28:31.000 It's fine.

01:28:31.000 Okay.

01:28:32.000 A bitch that saw some real drugs. 1.00

01:28:34.000 I don't know if y'all have ever been around a bitch that saw some real drugs. 1.00

01:28:36.000 No, no. 1.00

01:28:38.000 Not homeless girls.

01:28:39.000 College girls.

01:28:40.000 I don't know where you will find these girls, right?

01:28:42.000 These girls are normally your tree-huggers. 1.00

01:28:45.000 These girls are the ones that will subdue to you. 1.00

01:28:47.000 You tell them what to do.

01:28:49.000 It's not that hard.

01:28:50.000 You don't have to have money.

01:28:51.000 You don't have to have certain things.

01:28:53.000 I'm listening to what you guys are saying.

01:28:55.000 You have a lot of points, right?

01:28:56.000 But what I'm correlating it to...

01:28:59.000 Is the type of woman that you're talking to. 1.00

01:29:03.000 So the thing is, what I think you're telling is men, the short men, the men that can't get the females, right? 0.99

01:29:08.000 If you want to get this bad bitch, this is what you got to do. 1.00

01:29:11.000 It's what you were saying earlier. 1.00

01:29:13.000 It's go and look in your area. 1.00

01:29:15.000 If you're ugly, you have to stay ugly. 0.99

01:29:19.000 You should be the best version of yourself. 1.00

01:29:21.000 Be the best version of yourself.

01:29:24.000 That's the only way you can get a girl. 1.00

01:29:26.000 Truthfully. 0.99

01:29:27.000 You're saying, okay, just go get a promiscuous girl that does drugs. 1.00

01:29:30.000 Let's go with that. 0.99

01:29:32.000 These promiscuous girls that want drugs. 1.00

01:29:34.000 You still have to go buy the drugs. 0.99

01:29:36.000 Smoose her over. 1.00

01:29:38.000 Hey, want to come back to my place?

01:29:40.000 I got some weed.

01:29:43.000 You're trying to take it to the extreme.

01:29:45.000 The point I'm trying to make is the man still has to understand the woman to a degree. 0.68

01:29:48.000 He has to find out that she likes weed. 1.00

01:29:50.000 Go buy the fucking weed. 1.00

01:29:51.000 Come back. 1.00

01:29:52.000 Talk it to her.

01:29:53.000 Hey, you want to smoke pot about my place?

01:29:55.000 I got Netflix and be charming to a degree.

01:29:57.000 He still has to put work in.

01:29:58.000 Versus a girl, all she has to do is exist. 1.00

01:30:01.000 A girl can walk into a nightclub and go... 1.00

01:30:04.000 Someone's still gonna wanna fuck her, bro. 1.00

01:30:06.000 It's like you want the word hi, the word hi to be let me put my dick in you. 1.00

01:30:10.000 Instead of saying hi, let me see what you feel like. 1.00

01:30:13.000 But that's what I'm trying to say.

01:30:14.000 Men, that's the difference.

01:30:16.000 Like, men have to understand women to get laid. 1.00

01:30:18.000 Women don't have to understand men to get laid. 1.00

01:30:20.000 It's a small, it's not.

01:30:25.000 Are you a man?

01:30:28.000 I'm not a man.

01:30:32.000 So how would you know if it's easier or not?

01:30:32.000 I have male tendencies.

01:30:35.000 But what I'm saying is when I talk to females... 1.00

01:30:38.000 Talk to another woman. 0.98

01:30:38.000 You're a woman. 0.98

01:30:39.000 You don't know shit, bro. 1.00

01:30:40.000 Now that I don't know shit from a man's perspective... 1.00

01:30:44.000 Then why are you talking? 0.98

01:30:45.000 Why are you talking about it?

01:30:46.000 Your opinion is wrong.

01:30:48.000 Your opinion is wrong.

01:30:49.000 It's perspective.

01:30:51.000 It's how you view something.

01:30:53.000 You cannot tell me my opinion is wrong.

01:30:54.000 It is absolutely wrong.

01:30:56.000 I'm sorry.

01:30:57.000 That's your opinion.

01:30:58.000 That my opinion is wrong.

01:30:59.000 Your opinion is that my opinion is wrong.

01:31:01.000 Myron.

01:31:03.000 Here's the thing.

01:31:04.000 Look, look, look.

01:31:05.000 An opinion can be incorrect.

01:31:08.000 The crazy thing is that we live in this world where everyone thinks their opinion is valid.

01:31:11.000 No, your opinion isn't always valid. 1.00

01:31:13.000 We need to go back to telling people that they're stupid when they say stupid shit. 1.00

01:31:16.000 That was a very stupid comment. 1.00

01:31:18.000 One in three men right now doesn't get laid. 1.00

01:31:20.000 What are you talking about?

01:31:20.000 It's a virgin.

01:31:21.000 It's easy to get laid. 0.89

01:31:22.000 I didn't say that.

01:31:25.000 I said it's easy.

01:31:26.000 I said what was easy.

01:31:27.000 What I said that was easy.

01:31:29.000 It doesn't take that hard to understand a woman. 0.60

01:31:32.000 I walk in, right?

01:31:33.000 And I see you.

01:31:34.000 I'm not being weird, right?

01:31:36.000 But I'm looking at you.

01:31:37.000 I'm like, she's quiet.

01:31:38.000 She's reserved.

01:31:40.000 I'm going to go and I'm going to talk to you.

01:31:42.000 I'm going to see what things you're into.

01:31:44.000 And I'm going to try to make a relation in my head.

01:31:48.000 We're going to go in.

01:31:49.000 Let's go to Rumble.

01:31:50.000 She said a fact isn't real and opinions can't be wrong.

01:31:55.000 I said facts are the only things that can be wrong or right.

01:31:58.000 Opinions cannot be wrong.

01:32:00.000 Your opinion cannot be wrong.

01:32:00.000 That's what I said.

01:32:01.000 A fact is wrong or right.

01:32:02.000 A fact cannot be wrong.

01:32:03.000 No, a fact can be wrong or right.

01:32:05.000 An opinion is not wrong or right.

01:32:07.000 Your opinion is what goes on in your head.

01:32:09.000 It's you subjective as a person.

01:32:10.000 It's your actual perception of what's going on.

01:32:12.000 A fact is what I can look up on XL. What is it called?

01:32:15.000 Encyclopedia, Wikipedia, whatever that shit is called. 0.98

01:32:17.000 I can go and look it up and see. 0.98

01:32:18.000 This is a fact.

01:32:19.000 This is what happened in 1943. 1.00

01:32:20.000 Proof, bitch. 1.00

01:32:21.000 You're wrong. 1.00

01:32:22.000 Proof.

01:32:22.000 Okay, that's a fact that it's wrong or right.

01:32:24.000 My opinion is that I look good in my outfit today. 1.00

01:32:27.000 You could be like, damn, this bitch look dusty. 1.00

01:32:29.000 But I look good! 1.00

01:32:31.000 My opinion is my opinion.

01:32:31.000 And guess what?

01:32:33.000 I don't care what you think.

01:32:35.000 Delusion.

01:32:35.000 You know what you call that?

01:32:36.000 That's delusion right there.

01:32:37.000 A fact is something that can be independently verifiable through multiple sources and it is true and correct.

01:32:47.000 It cannot be wrong, as you stated.

01:32:49.000 That's number one.

01:32:50.000 That's a fact.

01:32:52.000 An opinion can be right or wrong.

01:32:55.000 You can give an opinion that is true, or you can give an opinion that is incorrect and not true.

01:33:00.000 I actually want to Google it.

01:33:03.000 The fact that we have to even Google it tells me volumes of you don't even know what you're saying.

01:33:08.000 Because I trust that you believe very strongly in what you feel, and I respect that.

01:33:12.000 It's not what I feel.

01:33:13.000 The difference is you trust in what you feel.

01:33:15.000 I trust in what I know that is true.

01:33:16.000 I trust in what I know too, but you don't know that I know what I know.

01:33:19.000 So what I'm saying is for me to know what you know, can we look it up on Google?

01:33:22.000 That's why people are delusional.

01:33:23.000 Let me get it straight.

01:33:28.000 Come on over to Rumble, guys.

01:33:29.000 Rumble.com.

01:33:29.000 Come on over to Rumble.

01:33:31.000 I'm about to go in, bro.

01:33:32.000 So you understand, right, how it is to date women as a man, right?

01:33:36.000 Can you say you know what we're talking about?

01:33:37.000 No, I don't date women. 1.00

01:33:39.000 Oh, so what are you arguing?

01:33:41.000 I said I've been with women. 0.92

01:33:43.000 I don't date women. 1.00

01:33:44.000 So how can you tell us how to get women? 0.95

01:33:46.000 I didn't tell you that I know how to get women. 1.00

01:33:48.000 You just did!

01:33:49.000 I was giving you an opinion.

01:33:50.000 No, no!

01:33:51.000 But that opinion that you said is backed by what?

01:33:54.000 And this is what I'm trying to say to you.

01:33:56.000 If you go on Google right now and look up opinion, you're going to see what the definition of an opinion is.

01:34:03.000 I'm asking you personally, how does your opinion help guys achieve their goal if it's not true?

01:34:08.000 My opinion...

01:34:09.000 Perfect.

01:34:10.000 What I said is that it's not hard to try to understand a woman.

01:34:14.000 What I was trying to do is show you how in three seconds I could break down what I think she would like, right?

01:34:21.000 And it would get me into a conversation with her.

01:34:23.000 I didn't have to buy her no flowers.

01:34:25.000 I didn't have to buy her no whip. 1.00

01:34:28.000 We didn't have to go out on no date.

01:34:30.000 Are you a man?

01:34:31.000 I'm sure as hell talking like one.

01:34:34.000 Listen, it's not about...

01:34:38.000 I'm not discrediting men.

01:34:40.000 I love men.

01:34:41.000 And I do feel like...

01:34:42.000 I know you are.

01:34:43.000 I do feel like men do get downplayed.

01:34:45.000 Bro, we're gonna move on.

01:34:46.000 You're gonna move on.

01:34:48.000 You're not even operating in reality here.

01:34:50.000 He didn't give you a chance to.

01:34:51.000 So your book says women deserve less. 1.00

01:34:54.000 Why women deserve less. 1.00

01:34:55.000 Why women deserve less. 1.00

01:34:56.000 However, you know, you were just finished saying that you guys have...

01:35:00.000 Men have to figure out...

01:35:02.000 They have to clean their apartment.

01:35:03.000 They have to make sure the woman's comfortable. 1.00

01:35:04.000 They have to this.

01:35:05.000 They have to that.

01:35:06.000 So, it kind of is confusing when you say...

01:35:10.000 And you're here trying to ask us, like, how does a man get a woman?

01:35:14.000 But...

01:35:15.000 And you're saying women deserve less. 0.99

01:35:16.000 However, in the same sentence, you're saying that men need to do this for women and men need to do that and men need to do this.

01:35:22.000 Like, it's harder for you guys, which I understand.

01:35:24.000 But it's kind of taking away from...

01:35:28.000 White women deserve less, right? 1.00

01:35:29.000 I'm a little confused. 0.87

01:35:30.000 That's why I just wanted more clarification on it.

01:35:35.000 Privilege isn't visible to those that have it.

01:35:37.000 And what I'm saying here is that men have to understand fundamental rules with intersexual dynamics to be able to get women.

01:35:44.000 Right?

01:35:45.000 So, outside of these fundamentals, I'm telling guys not to go out and beyond.

01:35:50.000 But you wouldn't understand that because you've never had to be a man to attract a woman.

01:35:54.000 It takes a lot of work.

01:35:55.000 Even though she's trying to say it's easy, what she doesn't realize is she said, oh, I'm going to find out three things about you, I'm going to start a conversation, blah, blah, blah.

01:36:01.000 Easier said than done.

01:36:02.000 You've got to actually figure it out, have the conversation, be entertaining to a degree, have charisma, have charming.

01:36:08.000 Well, here's the thing.

01:36:09.000 That's what I'm trying to say.

01:36:11.000 That is still difficult, but guys will go above that even.

01:36:17.000 We have to get our hair done.

01:36:19.000 We have to get our nails done.

01:36:20.000 We have to get our toes done.

01:36:21.000 But you don't have to.

01:36:22.000 But you don't have to.

01:36:26.000 The point is that you don't have to do that to attract the opposite gender versus you can exist and the opposite gender will approach you.

01:36:35.000 If we don't do that...

01:36:36.000 I'm sorry.

01:36:37.000 Go ahead.

01:36:37.000 I'm sorry.

01:36:37.000 However, for men, we have to approach the girl, be charming, be charismatic, have all these things in place to even get a chance.

01:36:44.000 That's a lie.

01:36:44.000 That you faking is a lie.

01:36:46.000 Be yourself.

01:36:47.000 If the girl can't crack her hair, dude. 1.00

01:36:49.000 Be yourself doesn't work. 0.97

01:36:49.000 If you're, like, smelly... 0.97

01:36:50.000 You know what the average guy's gonna do?

01:36:52.000 He's gonna walk up to you.

01:36:53.000 Have you noticed a lot of men in Miami smell?

01:36:57.000 If a guy walks up to you and tells you, yeah, I like to play video games.

01:37:00.000 I like to watch sports.

01:37:02.000 Let's talk about Halo or Call of Duty. 1.00

01:37:04.000 The average girl is going to be like, what the fuck? 1.00

01:37:06.000 You're boring. 1.00

01:37:07.000 Guys have to be very well-versed in different things.

01:37:10.000 I think a good man has to appeal to all the senses.

01:37:13.000 Smell, all of that.

01:37:14.000 I think just somebody that's just well put together.

01:37:18.000 Anybody that's well put together, it doesn't matter who you are, is always going to get what they want.

01:37:23.000 I was told before I came here to smell good.

01:37:27.000 I want to tell you something.

01:37:30.000 My issue with dating in Miami, to keep it real with you, 95% of y'all, breaths stink. 1.00

01:37:36.000 When y'all try to talk to me in the club, it fucking stinks. 0.99

01:37:47.000 That answered my question. 0.99

01:37:51.000 When you said that you have to go above, then above and beyond.

01:37:54.000 Because you guys already feel like you go above and beyond, is what you're saying.

01:37:57.000 The point I'm trying to make is that the courting process for men is significantly harder than it is for women.

01:38:01.000 I don't know why you guys just don't understand this.

01:38:04.000 It's very, very simple.

01:38:06.000 Men must become, women just are. 1.00

01:38:08.000 Guys have to go out there and learn how to be attractive.

01:38:10.000 Women don't have to learn how to be attractive. 1.00

01:38:11.000 You can accentuate your attractiveness by getting your hair and nails done.

01:38:16.000 But look at her. 0.96

01:38:16.000 She has no makeup on. 0.96

01:38:17.000 She's 100% natural.

01:38:19.000 She's the most attractive girl on the panel.

01:38:21.000 Well, here's the thing.

01:38:24.000 Most guys will take an average girl. 1.00

01:38:26.000 What is an average girl? 1.00

01:38:28.000 No makeup.

01:38:30.000 Go ahead.

01:38:33.000 Okay, so I think the problem is that this culture and this society has taught women that men are looking for the wrong things.

01:38:39.000 Like you're saying, like nails, makeup, all these things are not what you guys require.

01:38:44.000 And you're basically just trying to tell women what it is That men want. 0.74

01:38:48.000 Yeah, pretty much.

01:38:49.000 Exactly.

01:38:50.000 And so, but where does that conditioning come from?

01:38:52.000 I think if we take it a step further, it's a much deeper level.

01:38:55.000 Like, women want to be attractive to the opposite sex. 1.00

01:38:58.000 And why are we conditioned to believe it's in our nails and our hair and our makeup and our ass and, you know... 0.99

01:39:04.000 Because the TV shows, the movies, social media... 0.98

01:39:06.000 Now you want to know the truth?

01:39:07.000 True. 1.00

01:39:07.000 Because women don't give a fuck what men want. 1.00

01:39:09.000 Yeah. 0.99

01:39:09.000 But I don't think that's necessarily true. 0.99

01:39:11.000 That's not true.

01:39:12.000 Well, maybe it is true.

01:39:13.000 How many times have we been telling y'all how it really works and they've been arguing with us when we're like, what the hell?

01:39:18.000 I think that that's the problem is that women are so quick to get defensive without even really knowing what they're arguing about because they don't even really know truly what they want. 1.00

01:39:29.000 They don't even know what they want.

01:39:30.000 Like, I've seen your show a lot and a lot of women don't even... 1.00

01:39:33.000 Like, when you say...

01:39:36.000 Yeah.

01:39:51.000 It doesn't get shown to us anymore because we're taught that everybody goes to college, gets a job, becomes successful, becomes rich, men and women.

01:39:59.000 We're taught that we should be competing with men when really we have our place and our role.

01:40:03.000 And if every one of us got true with ourselves and got in touch with our feminine selves and our hearts, do you think that maybe a lot more of us would actually want that and we don't even know that we want it?

01:40:13.000 So, you know what's scary?

01:40:15.000 We do this show night after night, and we tell a woman, listen, here's what guys want. 0.81

01:40:20.000 Laid out, strict facts, no bullcrap.

01:40:22.000 This is the honest truth, right?

01:40:23.000 You know what they do?

01:40:25.000 Oh, you think you know what we want?

01:40:28.000 No, no, no.

01:40:28.000 I know what men want.

01:40:29.000 And as a result, they come up with this fabrication of, oh, you know what?

01:40:32.000 If I have money, if I do my hair and nails and all that stuff, I'm going to get the guy they want.

01:40:35.000 For arguing, niggas. 1.00

01:40:36.000 And we're like, yo, just take a step back.

01:40:39.000 Listen to what we're saying.

01:40:40.000 And so you know what?

01:40:41.000 Try and see if it works. 0.99

01:40:42.000 Then when I try it, like, damn, you guys are right. 0.99

01:40:45.000 Other men are so arrogant and above the pay grid and on a pedestal. 1.00

01:40:48.000 It's like, oh, shit. 1.00

01:40:50.000 This shit doesn't work, but I'm going to keep living in a lie and delusion. 1.00

01:40:52.000 That's the problem. 1.00

01:40:53.000 If you say, you know what?

01:40:54.000 Let me take a step back home and say, you know what?

01:40:56.000 This might work.

01:40:57.000 I'm going to give it a try.

01:40:58.000 That's it.

01:40:58.000 That's all we're saying.

01:40:59.000 Give it a try.

01:41:00.000 And I bet a lot of them go home and actually think about what you said and maybe it hits them different when they're not Triggered.

01:41:06.000 I mean, that's the word triggered when you're in the amygdala hijack and your brain is like taking over and you don't even really know why you're fighting. 1.00

01:41:12.000 Nobody here voted for that women working shit. 1.00

01:41:16.000 We would all be fine. 1.00

01:41:18.000 Nobody here voted for that shit. 1.00

01:41:21.000 So we just a product of our environment at this point, because I would much more rather to be that woman. 1.00

01:41:26.000 But I live in 2023.

01:41:28.000 So it's hard because it's just like finding the balance of being a woman and also, you know, being what we're supposed to be taught as being a strong woman as well.

01:41:41.000 So it just comes with that.

01:41:42.000 And it's just our problem.

01:41:44.000 We're broken as women because of that.

01:41:46.000 So I definitely feel like a man.

01:41:49.000 Should at least like lay out just sensible things that women could at least follow as a guideline and that's where I believe it'll start to change. 0.99

01:41:58.000 I really think that like there was a point in time like when I was like 20 years old like I used to go out and with my friends and like a knickers would cater like we would be able to drink we'd be able to smoke as much as we wanted go like as many places as we wanted and it would be no problem.

01:42:15.000 But when I turned 21, men were really mean. 0.99

01:42:18.000 Like, oh, I don't want to pay for this unless you're fucking... 0.98

01:42:21.000 I don't want to do this. 0.98

01:42:22.000 I don't want to go to the club.

01:42:23.000 Like, all that stuff was, like, men inflicted.

01:42:25.000 But it was mostly because you're mad because you were overusing your resources at the time that you were.

01:42:31.000 Like, why are you mad that you overused your resources and you're taking it out on me?

01:42:35.000 I just used it.

01:42:36.000 You know what I mean?

01:42:36.000 Like, I just took you up on your offer.

01:42:39.000 Okay, and now they pulled the offer away.

01:42:41.000 Why are you mad?

01:42:42.000 I'm not mad.

01:42:42.000 Now there are a whole bunch of niggas in the club in this section with just niggas in the club.

01:42:46.000 Yes, I'm not mad. 0.82

01:42:47.000 I'm bored. 0.99

01:42:47.000 You're looking around and it's just dicks. 0.99

01:42:49.000 I'm bored. 0.99

01:42:50.000 I don't want to see any more hoes. 1.00

01:42:52.000 I'm a hoe.

01:42:54.000 I don't want to see any more hoes. 1.00

01:42:55.000 Oh my gosh.

01:42:58.000 Beyonce would never say that.

01:43:01.000 No, like, not as a ho, as in, like, you know, derogatory, as in, like, I'm a female.

01:43:06.000 Like, you know what I mean?

01:43:07.000 Like, I don't want to see any more, I don't want to see more me's. 1.00

01:43:10.000 Like, I want to see men.

01:43:11.000 Like, I don't see any more men anymore.

01:43:13.000 You know what I mean?

01:43:13.000 It's just like...

01:43:14.000 I do not want to see more you.

01:43:15.000 I want a hookah. 0.89

01:43:15.000 I don't want a hookah with you. 0.89

01:43:17.000 What?

01:43:19.000 I don't understand.

01:43:20.000 What was the point of that comment?

01:43:22.000 What, the hookah thing?

01:43:23.000 Was it just to say basically that men no longer want to share their resources?

01:43:27.000 Was that the point of it, what you're saying?

01:43:28.000 No, it's like when you go on the conversation of like, women deserve less. 0.95

01:43:33.000 Yeah.

01:43:34.000 It's like, you can't like, that all, it's like, it still boils down to like, how you, like, men started that.

01:43:42.000 Like, I'm mad because of the resources I'm overusing.

01:43:47.000 Women never had a problem. 1.00

01:43:48.000 We were still women at the end of the day.

01:43:49.000 We were women yesterday and women today.

01:43:53.000 And you're mad because we were women.

01:43:55.000 Have you ever had a dream?

01:43:56.000 You said a lot without saying anything.

01:43:58.000 You made zero points.

01:44:00.000 The only thing I got from what you just said was that guys no longer want to share their resources in the club.

01:44:06.000 That's the only thing you said, basically.

01:44:08.000 So it's men's fault is what you're saying.

01:44:11.000 No, it's not men's fault.

01:44:12.000 I'm just saying, like, the problem, if you want to know where the problem lies, like, women don't have a problem. 1.00

01:44:20.000 It's like, you know what I mean?

01:44:22.000 It's not a fault.

01:44:23.000 It's like, you know what I mean?

01:44:24.000 Like, it's not a fault.

01:44:25.000 Let me make this very clear.

01:44:26.000 If you want to fix a problem, you have to find out where the reason is.

01:44:29.000 Stop talking.

01:44:30.000 I'm going to make this very clear.

01:44:31.000 Man, you're not entitled to a man's resources. 0.99

01:44:33.000 If you want to go ahead and sit in a section and pop bottles with a guy, and he expects to fuck, and you're like, I'm not fucking, he has every right to say, get the fuck out of my section. 0.99

01:44:40.000 Simple. 1.00

01:44:41.000 That's how it goes.

01:44:42.000 You want to live a certain experience?

01:44:44.000 A lot of times, guys are going to want something in exchange for that.

01:44:46.000 And if you're not willing to deliver it, they're going to kick you out the section and find a girl that is. 1.00

01:44:50.000 Sorry.

01:44:51.000 Anyway, that's what you quite literally were complaining about.

01:44:54.000 I'm not complaining though.

01:44:56.000 That's not my problem.

01:44:59.000 You were saying that we usually can't tell girls the truth and they get really defensive and things like that.

01:45:05.000 But I feel like a lot of women appreciate honesty and being truthful because I feel like it helps benefit a woman.

01:45:13.000 Really? 0.70

01:45:14.000 Yeah, like, oh, your hair looks like Crap, I'm going to fix my hair and you're going to help me out by doing that. 0.93

01:45:19.000 So I feel like women do appreciate honesty from men. 0.98

01:45:22.000 Hold on, stop the show. 1.00

01:45:24.000 I want to have sex with other girls while you stay at home and be loyal to me. 1.00

01:45:28.000 You can't talk to other guys. 1.00

01:45:29.000 I don't want you showing your ass on the internet. 1.00

01:45:30.000 I want you to stay at home, be a dutiful girlfriend. 1.00

01:45:32.000 Don't embarrass me.

01:45:33.000 But I'm going to go out and do what I want to do and you simultaneously stay loyal to me.

01:45:37.000 Also, I expect food all the time.

01:45:38.000 House clean.

01:45:39.000 Be my girlfriend. 1.00

01:45:41.000 Can I fuck them too? 1.00

01:45:43.000 What's your thoughts on that? 1.00

01:45:44.000 If they're honest and they're laying it out on the table, then that's awesome.

01:45:49.000 The choice is mine then.

01:45:50.000 Yeah, but you're missing the point that a lot of girls are not willing to hear that and they don't want to know that. 1.00

01:45:57.000 Hence, women can't handle the truth in general. 1.00

01:46:00.000 They were taught to be strong and a lot of them took that way to heart, took that way too far to the point where they're now men. 0.99

01:46:06.000 I don't give a fuck about the why. 0.98

01:46:08.000 I'm telling you women can't handle the truth. 1.00

01:46:09.000 I'm just telling you though.

01:46:12.000 That's irrelevant.

01:46:13.000 She said, oh, men should be honest.

01:46:16.000 I just said what most men want in general. 0.99

01:46:18.000 Multiple girls, you stay loyal to him, don't sexualize yourself, don't be a whore, obey what I say, and we'll be good. 0.99

01:46:24.000 But most modern women are not willing to accept that and they don't want to hear that. 0.98

01:46:28.000 So most guys sell their dream. 0.98

01:46:30.000 Yeah, if they don't like, you know, if they want to be a whore and still have a relationship, how is that going to work? 1.00

01:46:36.000 How is that going to work if she lives that lifestyle? 1.00

01:46:39.000 It's not going to work out.

01:46:41.000 She has to make a sacrifice.

01:46:43.000 He has to make a sacrifice to make the relationship.

01:46:46.000 Okay, did you not just hear what I said?

01:46:47.000 No, I heard what you said.

01:46:48.000 What did I say?

01:46:49.000 You're just saying, how do you make it work?

01:46:52.000 No, that's not what I said.

01:46:54.000 What did I say?

01:46:56.000 Go ahead.

01:46:57.000 So you don't even know what you responded to?

01:46:58.000 No, I'm just saying, why I'm saying this.

01:47:03.000 What did I say to what you responded?

01:47:06.000 Because you responded to something that has no relevancy to what I just said.

01:47:11.000 Thank you.

01:47:11.000 You're talking to talk.

01:47:12.000 Anyway, going back to you.

01:47:14.000 Most women can't handle the truth. 1.00

01:47:15.000 I just told you the truth.

01:47:16.000 Most girls are not going to take that. 1.00

01:47:18.000 So men can't be honest with women. 1.00

01:47:19.000 So they should lie even though that's what they want?

01:47:22.000 I'm sorry. 1.00

01:47:23.000 But you also said that I'm going to tell my woman when her hair looks like shit. 0.99

01:47:29.000 I'm going to tell them when she needs to go to the gym because she looks fat. 1.00

01:47:31.000 You said that too, right?

01:47:32.000 Yeah, but most girls can't handle that. 1.00

01:47:33.000 Okay, but you said you would still do it.

01:47:35.000 I would.

01:47:36.000 One majority of men won't.

01:47:37.000 Most men won't do it.

01:47:38.000 Let us lie to you.

01:47:39.000 Oh, baby.

01:47:40.000 So either you tell me the truth.

01:47:42.000 If most men were like me, we would not have body positivity. 0.99

01:47:45.000 If most men were like me, women would not be the raging bitches that they are a lot of the times to men for no reason. 1.00

01:47:50.000 If men were like me, girls would be in line and operate and be with good men. 0.99

01:47:54.000 And the women would be happier too.

01:47:56.000 So are you saying that your book that says why women deserve less basically means tell them the truth?

01:48:03.000 To a degree, yes.

01:48:05.000 To a degree.

01:48:05.000 That's a part of it.

01:48:06.000 But most of them can't handle the truth.

01:48:08.000 What do you suggest from all of this?

01:48:12.000 You say we can't take the truth.

01:48:15.000 What do you feel, in your opinion, is the perfect setup?

01:48:19.000 What do you mean?

01:48:20.000 As far as men go?

01:48:21.000 From what perspective?

01:48:22.000 As far as men and women go.

01:48:24.000 You know what I'm saying?

01:48:25.000 So, you're saying that women, we deserve less. 1.00

01:48:29.000 Out the gate.

01:48:30.000 Which is telling the truth.

01:48:34.000 How should we act?

01:48:37.000 How should people act?

01:48:38.000 How should the woman and man act to make it work? 1.00

01:48:41.000 True.

01:48:42.000 The man has to be in a leadership role.

01:48:44.000 The woman follows him.

01:48:45.000 She's submissive.

01:48:46.000 And the woman has to like the guy more than he likes her.

01:48:48.000 That's how it goes.

01:48:50.000 That's the only way a girl is truly going to respect her man is if she feels that she's got the best deal that she can get. 1.00

01:48:54.000 The problem is love is a feeling that fades.

01:48:57.000 Respect means the foundation is built.

01:48:59.000 If you love somebody, today you love them, tomorrow you don't.

01:49:02.000 Respect though, you know what?

01:49:03.000 My man won't like that.

01:49:04.000 He might leave.

01:49:05.000 I'm going to think twice before going on a ghost trip.

01:49:05.000 You know what?

01:49:07.000 And also, I'll give you proof right now that women can't handle the truth. 1.00

01:49:10.000 We don't tell women that they're fat.

01:49:12.000 We say body positivity, love your curves, girl. 0.99

01:49:14.000 You're special no matter what.

01:49:16.000 But we don't tell men that, do we?

01:49:18.000 Advertisers, they target women. 0.99

01:49:19.000 They lie in the ads.

01:49:21.000 Oh, take this per shake and you'll lose 30 pounds in 30 days. 0.97

01:49:24.000 Even advertisers understand that lying is more profitable than telling the truth.

01:49:29.000 So we've been lying to women for decades. 0.97

01:49:31.000 Feminism is a lie. 1.00

01:49:32.000 She just told you that in a second ago. 0.99

01:49:34.000 It hurt her marriage.

01:49:35.000 So we've been lying to women for decades because it's more profitable to lie to women than tell them the truth. 0.96

01:49:40.000 If you had a woman, right? 0.97

01:49:42.000 I'm just going to give you a scenario.

01:49:42.000 Two women, right?

01:49:44.000 I do.

01:49:45.000 One female, right? 0.96

01:49:47.000 That was kind of in a household.

01:49:49.000 She didn't have to pay for anything.

01:49:51.000 She was coddled almost, right?

01:49:53.000 And you have a female that you know has been taken advantage of in many different ways, if you know what I mean.

01:50:00.000 So she paid bills and took care of men? 1.00

01:50:01.000 No, no, no, no.

01:50:02.000 Taken advantage of without me saying.

01:50:04.000 We're on the rumble, you can say it. 0.99

01:50:06.000 Oh, for someone who's been raped, right? 0.98

01:50:08.000 Somebody who's been taken advantage of, right?

01:50:10.000 Would you, with your book, Women Deserve Less, would you treat the both of those women first, first glance, first... 0.86

01:50:18.000 First interaction, the same.

01:50:21.000 The woman who's been abused, right?

01:50:23.000 The woman who probably is a virgin, right? 0.97

01:50:25.000 The woman who probably is so, she has no self-confidence because she's been broken down from so many different places versus the woman who, you actually, right, does deserve the, you deserve less treatment because she has been given everything from the beginning.

01:50:38.000 You're going to give both of them the same treatment?

01:50:41.000 See, this is why it's very important as a man to understand women and you have to vet them for a year before you take anything seriously. 0.97

01:50:47.000 And I get what you're saying here.

01:50:48.000 The woman that has issues of being, like, you know, affected mentally, physically, his problem. 0.99

01:50:54.000 I do give her the most in the world.

01:50:56.000 She can't appreciate it.

01:50:57.000 She doesn't know what it feels like.

01:50:59.000 So each person has their scenario, but at the same time, the baseline is, hey, respect is on the table no matter what. 1.00

01:51:05.000 Society already kisses women's asses. 1.00

01:51:08.000 Her man's not supposed to do that. 1.00

01:51:09.000 That's the point I'm trying to make.

01:51:10.000 I'm so happy that you just said what you did, though.

01:51:13.000 Not to cut you, Myron.

01:51:15.000 Because whether you know it or not, right?

01:51:18.000 Three out of four women, that's her. 1.00

01:51:22.000 Three out of four women. 0.99

01:51:22.000 Three out of four women? 0.99

01:51:24.000 Hold on, where'd you get those stats from?

01:51:25.000 Three out of four women. 0.99

01:51:26.000 I'm talking about, it's not nothing that you can find out of there.

01:51:29.000 This is based off of me.

01:51:31.000 Three out of four women have been either raped, have been sexually molested by someone, either someone in their family, someone in their...

01:51:42.000 It's more like one in ten, one in seven.

01:51:44.000 In my world, it's three out of four.

01:51:47.000 I'm giving you my perspective.

01:51:50.000 And from what I've seen, these are people, we're women that I've spoken to.

01:51:53.000 To be honest, I feel like that's why it's a little difficult for me to relate.

01:51:58.000 Like, in certain situations, I'm one of them.

01:52:00.000 So that's why it's difficult.

01:52:02.000 All right, look.

01:52:05.000 Emotional damage!

01:52:07.000 All right.

01:52:26.000 We're good to go.

01:52:35.000 That would be considered sexual assault. 0.89

01:52:37.000 So, a lot of these stats about rape and sexual assault in the United States were done improperly.

01:52:43.000 But when you look at the official Department of Justice statistics, it's much less.

01:52:47.000 My statistics are coming from 2007.

01:52:52.000 I'm sorry.

01:52:53.000 My statistics come from when I was 11 years old.

01:52:55.000 When I was 11 years old?

01:52:57.000 That's an experience.

01:52:59.000 It was probably about 8 females.

01:53:03.000 It's a real problem.

01:53:04.000 We understand it's a real problem.

01:53:06.000 Listen, you cannot attribute your own personal experience To reality.

01:53:11.000 Okay?

01:53:12.000 Like, something might happen to you, that does not necessarily mean that's a reflection of what's going on in the greater society.

01:53:19.000 But you said opinions are wrong.

01:53:21.000 And if something happened to me, if something happened to me, and I have an opinion, like, men are bad because they hurt me.

01:53:28.000 That's my opinion.

01:53:29.000 But he just told me my opinion was wrong.

01:53:32.000 But that doesn't mean men are bad.

01:53:35.000 My opinion of me hurting so bad because a man hurt me could be wrong because he doesn't know my experience. 0.99

01:53:42.000 That's fucked up. 0.99

01:53:43.000 What? 0.99

01:53:44.000 That's fucked up. 1.00

01:53:45.000 What are you talking about? 1.00

01:53:47.000 You don't want to acknowledge the fact that if I just said that I was hurt.

01:53:51.000 No, we get it.

01:53:52.000 We get it.

01:53:53.000 We're just saying your experience may not be her experience.

01:53:56.000 So we're just saying, generally speaking, the stats have to prove the majority of what people think.

01:54:00.000 And also, your experience is not necessarily reflective of what's going on.

01:54:04.000 You said three and four women is sexually assaulted or raped.

01:54:07.000 Well, that's not true.

01:54:08.000 That's factually not true.

01:54:10.000 And then she said, in my reality.

01:54:13.000 The thing is, what you guys don't understand is that This is so sensitive.

01:54:18.000 It's not talked about.

01:54:19.000 No, it is.

01:54:20.000 Hold on, hold on.

01:54:21.000 Let me tell you something.

01:54:22.000 You guys talk about it.

01:54:23.000 You guys talk about it.

01:54:24.000 What I'm saying to you is that the female that has been taken advantage of, sometimes she don't talk about it.

01:54:31.000 So sometimes she goes around and nobody knows that that happened to Shorty.

01:54:35.000 Yes.

01:54:35.000 So, my thing is, your statistics are great.

01:54:38.000 But what I'm saying is, from real life, like real suicidal situations where I had to come up off of my own and talk to other women and actually realize how many other- Ms. 0.83

01:54:48.000 Jamaica, in general, reality, okay?

01:54:52.000 Listen, what I'm saying, in general, reality, I'm saying- Ms.

01:54:55.000 Boomaclots, okay?

01:54:56.000 Ms.

01:54:57.000 Boomaclots! 0.95

01:54:57.000 Ms. 0.95

01:54:57.000 Boomaclots, okay? 0.95

01:54:58.000 You're not hyping me up, bro.

01:54:59.000 Why are you hyping me up?

01:55:02.000 Like, the world doesn't revolve around you.

01:55:04.000 I get it that you had your experience, and I'm sorry that you had that, but your experience does not reflect what's going on in the greater world.

01:55:10.000 The problem is that you're extremely solipsistic in everything that we talk about.

01:55:13.000 You attribute right back to yourself thinking that the entire world is, everyone is operating and living the same way that you are.

01:55:20.000 It doesn't go that way.

01:55:21.000 It's so funny because I'm looking at everybody's eyes and everybody's eyes is looking at the female next to them.

01:55:27.000 They're like, yo, this girl is weird.

01:55:29.000 Why does she keep talking about herself?

01:55:31.000 We're thinking about what you're saying, bro.

01:55:32.000 No, because you keep attributing everything we're saying when it's a general conversation about what's really going on back to yourself.

01:55:38.000 That is solipsistic. 0.84

01:55:39.000 That's narcissistic.

01:55:40.000 And quite frankly, it's a weird way to live your life.

01:55:42.000 Y'all think I'm a narcissist?

01:55:44.000 I really don't.

01:55:44.000 100%.

01:55:45.000 Me personally?

01:55:45.000 100%.

01:55:47.000 I have no issue.

01:55:48.000 You're an alcoholic, so no one cares what you're saying. 0.50

01:55:50.000 I have no issue. 0.98

01:55:55.000 You're on something, bro.

01:55:57.000 You're on something.

01:56:01.000 Does anyone else have anything?

01:56:02.000 Any other opinions here?

01:56:03.000 I don't know how we just turned into that conversation, but rape culture is a myth. 1.00

01:56:07.000 It's been debunked a million times.

01:56:09.000 It's one of five girls getting assaulted. 0.89

01:56:11.000 It's because you've never been raped, so you don't know what it feels like.

01:56:14.000 You know who hurts the most? 0.96

01:56:16.000 The women are actually being raped. 0.98

01:56:18.000 Yeah. 0.99

01:56:18.000 Because those women don't talk a lot. 0.99

01:56:21.000 Wait, are you telling me?

01:56:22.000 The whole thing is, I would have been dead right now.

01:56:25.000 The whole thing is, this conversation is not.

01:56:28.000 But the thing is, there's other females that are in my situation. 1.00

01:56:31.000 I just had three females look at me and tell me that the same shit happened to me and you talking about one to seven is mine. 1.00

01:56:36.000 I just picked out two. 0.98

01:56:38.000 We don't have 14 people here.

01:56:40.000 This is not about you.

01:56:42.000 And for you to say you're not a victim so you don't know, that's a terrible argument.

01:56:46.000 Girl, you just told me I'm not a man so I can't tell you about dating advice. 0.93

01:56:49.000 You've never been raped so you can't tell me about rape advice, okay? 0.96

01:56:52.000 Actually, men are raped more than women are.

01:56:53.000 Have you been though?

01:56:55.000 No, I haven't.

01:56:56.000 Okay, so don't talk to me about that.

01:56:57.000 Because I've been raped more than once and I have a real situation with that.

01:57:01.000 So please don't go there. 0.72

01:57:02.000 Look, look, look.

01:57:03.000 You're the one that brought it up.

01:57:05.000 Emotional! 1.00

01:57:06.000 I'm the fuck! 1.00

01:57:08.000 Yo, stop yelling. 1.00

01:57:09.000 You started it.

01:57:09.000 I'm gonna finish it.

01:57:10.000 I'm telling you that rape culture is a myth. 0.98

01:57:12.000 I've studied this extensively.

01:57:14.000 It's a myth?

01:57:14.000 It's a myth.

01:57:15.000 You don't think people get raped?

01:57:16.000 I said rape culture is a myth, which is what you're trying to perpetuate. 1.00

01:57:19.000 That all girls are getting sexually assaulted and raped out here. 0.97

01:57:22.000 You literally said three out of four. 0.99

01:57:24.000 Three out of four.

01:57:26.000 I think this is too...

01:57:27.000 This is not right.

01:57:29.000 She brought it up.

01:57:32.000 You're invalidating women by saying that.

01:57:34.000 You're invalidating.

01:57:35.000 You say women deserve less, but... 1.00

01:57:37.000 Rape culture is a myth. 1.00

01:57:41.000 It's a myth.

01:57:42.000 It's not as prevalent as people want to say it is.

01:57:45.000 I think a lot of, I think a lot of just issues, like you said, okay, that's, that's a whole, that's a whole other story.

01:57:50.000 The problem is that you guys are arguing with feelings versus facts.

01:57:53.000 I'm arguing with facts. 1.00

01:57:54.000 Fuck both y'all feelings. 1.00

01:57:55.000 I don't care. 1.00

01:57:56.000 Hey, hey, hey.

01:57:57.000 How is it even relevant?

01:57:58.000 How is that even relevant?

01:57:59.000 If this hurts the girl's feelings or whatever, y'all can leave.

01:58:02.000 You want to leave because of feelings?

01:58:03.000 Yeah, then you guys can leave.

01:58:06.000 She's the one that brought up the conversation.

01:58:07.000 I'm gonna correct you.

01:58:09.000 It happens.

01:58:10.000 Respectfully, if she's been just a bad experience, then she's feeling it because of my memories.

01:58:15.000 However, at the same time, arguing that seeing 405 is ridiculous.

01:58:19.000 That's not true.

01:58:20.000 I don't think it's even relevant to the meme.

01:58:21.000 We had to.

01:58:23.000 It had nothing to do with the conversation, but she wanted to bring it up, wanted to be the victim.

01:58:27.000 She wanted us to sit here and feel bad for her. 1.00

01:58:28.000 We're not gonna do that.

01:58:29.000 It's PTSD. Some people have had a hard time.

01:58:35.000 No, but it's not...

01:58:36.000 The conversation...

01:58:37.000 But the thing about it...

01:58:42.000 This is incredible.

01:58:44.000 Like you said, women deserve less. 1.00

01:58:46.000 Isn't that an example?

01:58:48.000 Is that what you mean?

01:58:49.000 That's where it comes from.

01:58:51.000 Let me make this extremely clear.

01:58:52.000 None of your guys' feelings.

01:58:55.000 I'm telling you, rape culture is a myth. 0.99

01:58:56.000 That's a fact.

01:58:57.000 I've debunked it a million times.

01:58:59.000 It's not as common as you guys want to say. 0.92

01:59:00.000 You cannot attribute your personal experience and say, oh, yo, I've been raped. 0.95

01:59:05.000 I get that. 0.96

01:59:06.000 You have.

01:59:07.000 And I'm not trying to invalidate that, but I'm saying it's not as common as people think.

01:59:10.000 Your personal experience doesn't reflect reality. 0.99

01:59:13.000 And if this conversation is too hard, you get the fuck out of here. 0.98

01:59:16.000 This is not a conversation about feelings. 0.98

01:59:18.000 Period.

01:59:20.000 Stop.

01:59:21.000 So if anybody feels uncomfortable and wants to get up and leave, you can leave right now.

01:59:26.000 Here's your chance.

01:59:28.000 Okay.

01:59:29.000 Don't bring up a conversation that you know nothing about and try to bring your personal experiences into it.

01:59:35.000 Rape culture is a myth. 1.00

01:59:35.000 Because you've been raped before. 1.00

01:59:37.000 It doesn't matter. 0.98

01:59:37.000 Rape culture is a myth. 0.98

01:59:38.000 I've broken this down a million times.

01:59:40.000 Do you know anyone who's been raped?

01:59:42.000 Because I've never been raped before? 0.74

01:59:43.000 Just because you got raped doesn't mean that a majority of women are getting raped. 1.00

01:59:46.000 Okay? 0.98

01:59:47.000 Okay, but why are you telling me?

01:59:47.000 I don't know what I'm talking about.

01:59:49.000 You don't know about rape culture because you're trying to say it's common out there and it's not. 0.99

01:59:55.000 What I'm trying to say to you, you can't fathom because you can't go and look it up.

01:59:59.000 I didn't say that.

01:59:59.000 I'm not saying you're not a victim.

02:00:01.000 I said what I'm trying to tell you, you cannot fathom because you cannot go and look it up online.

02:00:06.000 There's statistics on this.

02:00:07.000 Your statistics are great.

02:00:08.000 There's meticulous statistics on this.

02:00:09.000 What I'm saying is that every female, you just said a female that's been taken advantage of isn't going to speak.

02:00:15.000 What I'm saying to you is...

02:00:16.000 You have to ask his prior job though and ask him what he did before.

02:00:19.000 His experience is going to explain what he knows is a myth.

02:00:23.000 Okay, I will ask him that.

02:00:24.000 But what I'm saying to you is that I'm not discrediting what he's saying.

02:00:28.000 All I'm saying is that you can go and look up whatever you look up online.

02:00:32.000 I'm saying that based on who I've spoken to in my life, right, it's helped me to see that other women have been raped.

02:00:41.000 Because it allowed for me to pull myself out of a selfish state of mind thinking, I was raped.

02:00:47.000 This only happened to me.

02:00:48.000 That's not the topic.

02:00:49.000 So the whole thing is, I'm trying to say, based off of the women that I know, the most women that I know have been raped.

02:00:56.000 Okay, because you probably went to a trauma center where all other girls were victims. 1.00

02:01:00.000 I never went to a trauma center.

02:01:02.000 I'm Jamaican, so what are you saying? 0.89

02:01:04.000 You're saying all Jamaicans have been raped? 0.96

02:01:06.000 I did not say that at all. 1.00

02:01:08.000 Are you fucking retarded? 1.00

02:01:09.000 Seriously, get the fuck off the show, bro. 1.00

02:01:12.000 Get the fuck off the show. 1.00

02:01:13.000 You're retarded. 1.00

02:01:13.000 Get the fuck out of here. 1.00

02:01:15.000 Get the fuck out of here. 1.00

02:01:17.000 Get the fuck out of here. 1.00

02:01:17.000 You're stupid as fuck. 1.00

02:01:18.000 Get the fuck out of here, bro. 1.00

02:01:22.000 Dumbass bitch making a show about her. 1.00

02:01:23.000 You don't know what the fuck you're talking about. 1.00

02:01:25.000 You're fucking dumb. 1.00

02:01:26.000 It's my reality. 1.00

02:01:27.000 You're retarded. 1.00

02:01:28.000 Get the fuck off my shit. 1.00

02:01:31.000 I'm not making fun of nobody. 1.00

02:01:32.000 I'm making fun of you. 1.00

02:01:33.000 You're fucking dumb. 1.00

02:01:42.000 She's traumatized. 1.00

02:01:44.000 Well, you know, women, like I said, we're broken. 1.00

02:01:50.000 Like, you know, some women, like their backgrounds, all kinds of things happen, and it makes them react. 1.00

02:01:58.000 That's what I meant by being triggered.

02:01:59.000 Women get triggered by stuff and then they can't hear the message. 1.00

02:02:03.000 Yeah, it's hard because when people do get triggered, it's hard for them to hear.

02:02:08.000 Myron, can we answer the question that we weren't able to...

02:02:13.000 Which one?

02:02:14.000 That was a long time ago, but it's something about what you see in Guy.

02:02:19.000 It's about winning.

02:02:20.000 What allows you to let a man lead? 1.00

02:02:23.000 We can switch. 1.00

02:02:24.000 That dumb bitch wanted to bring in about some dumb shit about her, and it's like, I'm not going to let her sit here and get misinformation and attribute everything back to her experience. 1.00

02:02:31.000 Like, bro, no one gives a fuck. 1.00

02:02:33.000 Like, you got raped? 1.00

02:02:33.000 Cool. 1.00

02:02:34.000 But that doesn't mean every girl's out here getting raped. 1.00

02:02:37.000 Like, what the fuck? 0.99

02:02:38.000 It's a very sensitive topic, and we don't know what people have been through, but at the same time, that was definitely not going up either. 0.99

02:02:46.000 There's no sensitivity in the topic at all. 0.98

02:02:49.000 I don't need to put sensitivity in shit. 0.99

02:02:51.000 I'm talking facts. 0.98

02:02:52.000 What did I say at the beginning of the podcast?

02:02:53.000 What did I say at the beginning of the podcast?

02:02:56.000 I said facts over feelings.

02:02:59.000 I'm not here to feel sorry for y'all.

02:03:01.000 Like, I'm not.

02:03:01.000 You don't have to, but cool.

02:03:03.000 Okay, you've been raped. 1.00

02:03:04.000 Cool. 1.00

02:03:04.000 I feel like that's... 1.00

02:03:05.000 Because she kept making it about herself versus what the actual topic was.

02:03:10.000 I'm just saying that's what you would probably mean. 0.99

02:03:12.000 I don't have to be sensitive to shit. 1.00

02:03:14.000 If you don't like it, you get the fuck out of here too. 1.00

02:03:15.000 I'm not being sensitive to shit. 1.00

02:03:17.000 This is my shit. 1.00

02:03:18.000 We talk facts over here. 1.00

02:03:19.000 This ain't a female podcast. 1.00

02:03:20.000 We don't go fuck about you guys. 1.00

02:03:22.000 Oh my god, I'm crying. 1.00

02:03:22.000 My feelings. 1.00

02:03:23.000 I'm telling you, rape culture is a mess. 1.00

02:03:25.000 I studied this extensively.

02:03:27.000 It's not making sense.

02:03:29.000 Rape culture is a mess. 1.00

02:03:30.000 Rape culture is a mess. 1.00

02:03:34.000 Get the fuck off my shit, too. 1.00

02:03:36.000 Get the fuck out of here. 1.00

02:03:39.000 Get the fuck off my shit, bro. 1.00

02:03:43.000 Get the fuck out of here, bro. 1.00

02:03:48.000 You look crazy. 1.00

02:03:49.000 You look like a Teletubby. 1.00

02:03:51.000 You got pig hair. 0.99

02:03:52.000 You got a wig on. 0.97

02:03:53.000 You look wild. 1.00

02:03:57.000 Your weave smell too, bitch. 1.00

02:03:59.000 Get the fuck out of here. 1.00

02:04:00.000 Or your wig or whatever the fuck that is, that hair hat you got on. 1.00

02:04:03.000 You look wild. 0.99

02:04:10.000 Incredible. 1.00

02:04:11.000 Always the black girls making everybody look crazy, bro. 1.00

02:04:12.000 Always. 1.00

02:04:20.000 Fucking embarrassment, man. 0.99

02:04:23.000 I think people have a lot of trauma. 1.00

02:04:26.000 Because they're hoes, that's why. 1.00

02:04:29.000 I guarantee you those are the two most promiscuous girls on the fucking panel too. 1.00

02:04:34.000 Guaranteed. 1.00

02:04:37.000 Yo, get her the fuck out of here, bro. 1.00

02:04:40.000 Let's get right back into this shit. 1.00

02:04:42.000 That was so cute. 1.00

02:04:43.000 I thought we were gonna have a boy.

02:04:46.000 Put your shoes on outside, bro! 1.00

02:04:49.000 Get the fuck out of here, man! 1.00

02:04:50.000 Why are you still in here? 1.00

02:04:52.000 The fuck out of here, bruh! 1.00

02:04:55.000 Put your shoes on outside, you fucking bitch. 1.00

02:04:58.000 What the fuck? 1.00

02:04:59.000 You yell for no reason, man, with your hair hat. 1.00

02:05:02.000 You look wild. 1.00

02:05:04.000 Get the fuck out of here, man. 1.00

02:05:06.000 Get the fuck out the spot, bro. 1.00

02:05:08.000 You a fucking clown. 1.00

02:05:13.000 She's awesome. 1.00

02:05:15.000 She's awesome. 0.83

02:05:16.000 She's on that Zaza, bro. 0.97

02:05:18.000 I wonder how many times the neighbors have heard that.

02:05:21.000 It's definitely not weed.

02:05:22.000 I think she drank and she makes whatever she took with her drink. 0.58

02:05:27.000 That's not just alcohol.

02:05:29.000 An elementary school teacher.

02:05:30.000 An elementary school teacher. 1.00

02:05:33.000 She roasting your ass, nigga. 1.00

02:05:37.000 Okay. 1.00

02:05:41.000 Ladies, okay, we're going to go back to normal. 0.98

02:05:43.000 What just happened earlier.

02:05:45.000 That was a little bit intense.

02:05:46.000 I'm not going to lie.

02:05:46.000 Hold you.

02:05:47.000 For no reason?

02:05:49.000 Like, it just...

02:05:49.000 Yeah.

02:05:50.000 I don't know why she brought that up, you know?

02:05:52.000 That powerful...

02:05:53.000 I... Yeah, like...

02:05:53.000 You know what?

02:05:55.000 She was... 0.97

02:05:55.000 It was a lot. 0.97

02:05:56.000 She was projecting.

02:05:57.000 You know, people projected I just think personally, you know, her experience is traumatizing. 0.99

02:06:06.000 She did that because she knew we were making her look stupid on the show, refuting her argument. 1.00

02:06:15.000 She's saying facts aren't real, this other shit. 0.99

02:06:17.000 So she's like, okay, let me talk about something where they're going to feel sorry for me that I can get some, like, validation. 0.97

02:06:22.000 And then when I said, I didn't want to give her that validation, I told her what you said is incorrect, blah, blah, blah.

02:06:26.000 She didn't expect that.

02:06:28.000 She tried to argue with emotion.

02:06:29.000 I was like, no, we're going to keep it factual.

02:06:31.000 That's why she mad. 1.00

02:06:33.000 It is what it is.

02:06:34.000 We got some chat.

02:06:35.000 I'll hold the mic's down.

02:06:37.000 We got more room, ladies. 1.00

02:06:38.000 Y'all can...

02:06:40.000 Okay, so let's do no more grape talk.

02:06:42.000 Wow.

02:06:44.000 Big Mo's auntie says, ladies, you're on a dating show of two doors. 1.00

02:06:50.000 Door one guy is 200k a year, will take care of you every way.

02:06:54.000 Door two, 75k a year, expects you to grind every day.

02:06:57.000 You choose door one only to discover he's five foot Even?

02:07:01.000 Do you regret your choice?

02:07:02.000 Why or why not?

02:07:03.000 I mean, it's pretty obvious, Big Mo's auntie.

02:07:06.000 Christopher Vives says, Yo, man, FNF, I want your advice.

02:07:09.000 I'm living with my parents while I'm in college, working full-time, saving money, so I'm not struggling when I move up after graduating.

02:07:14.000 Should I focus on dating now or leaving home?

02:07:16.000 Leaving home, bro.

02:07:17.000 I mean, that's paramount, bro.

02:07:19.000 Dude, getting girls at home is an L, okay? 0.97

02:07:22.000 Yeah. 0.71

02:07:23.000 Then we have here, Freshers' Balls.

02:07:27.000 Yeah, fresh read it.

02:07:30.000 Unacceptable, Chris.

02:07:31.000 We only want baddies. 1.00

02:07:32.000 What the hell are you... 0.99

02:07:33.000 What the hell are we meant to do with Captain Caveman next to us? 1.00

02:07:37.000 What the fuck? 0.99

02:07:39.000 I think you meant the girl that just left. 1.00

02:07:41.000 No, no, no.

02:07:42.000 You, Fresh.

02:07:43.000 The girl with the pig toast.

02:07:47.000 Is that good?

02:07:48.000 Nah, bro.

02:07:48.000 Moving on.

02:07:49.000 Moving on.

02:07:50.000 And then Robert Val Francois says, that girl red behind Chris is gorgeous.

02:07:56.000 10 out of 10.

02:07:57.000 If I ever see her in real life, I'll capture her, have my way with her in my basement. 1.00

02:08:02.000 Joke.

02:08:03.000 Put the camera on her and have her melt my soul with that beautiful smile of hers. 0.99

02:08:06.000 What the...

02:08:11.000 You wanted to say something, didn't you?

02:08:18.000 I don't know what that's supposed to be.

02:08:20.000 I'm speechless now.

02:08:22.000 That's so sweet.

02:08:23.000 They love you.

02:08:24.000 Okay.

02:08:25.000 That was creepy.

02:08:27.000 That's kind of weird, guys.

02:08:28.000 Jesse Benton says, do you think there's a lack of women's empowerment and equality?

02:08:32.000 And, or do you think women and men have equality?

02:08:34.000 Bro.

02:08:36.000 There's so much women empowerment now that, like, men think masculine or anything...

02:08:40.000 Bringing men up is pushed down.

02:08:41.000 So it's just crazy.

02:08:42.000 Travel Tribe Raw says, dropping by to show some support, fellas.

02:08:45.000 Myron, I'm currently traveling the world with my three of my women.

02:08:47.000 We're polygamous.

02:08:49.000 My buddy has mentioned you're poly, too.

02:08:51.000 Could you have your ladies on a show give an example of quality women? 1.00

02:08:58.000 I think he's gonna bring them on a show, bro.

02:09:00.000 At least not all of them.

02:09:02.000 Yeah, this is Eric again.

02:09:03.000 Cool.

02:09:04.000 And Rumble Rants?

02:09:06.000 Yeah, give me a second.

02:09:08.000 Yo, so this guy was like, yo, I'm polygamous too.

02:09:10.000 You should bring your girls on for a show. 1.00

02:09:12.000 All your girls to talk about being polygamous. 1.00

02:09:14.000 I was like, bro, he wants to bring all your girls on to talk about being polygamous.

02:09:18.000 Because he has it too.

02:09:19.000 He's traveling with girls. 0.96

02:09:22.000 Okay.

02:09:23.000 I don't know why that was a good idea.

02:09:25.000 Alright, so what topic were we on before?

02:09:28.000 The great question.

02:09:29.000 No, no, no, no.

02:09:30.000 We didn't talk about that.

02:09:31.000 The guy said something about winning or something.

02:09:32.000 It was about...

02:09:34.000 That was a good question, actually.

02:09:36.000 Okay, what's winning for women versus what's winning for men?

02:09:39.000 Yeah.

02:09:40.000 I want to ask a question about one thing a guy can do.

02:09:42.000 She really wanted to answer it.

02:09:44.000 Okay, so who was last?

02:09:46.000 She didn't go yet.

02:09:47.000 Oh, yeah.

02:09:48.000 So one thing a guy can have or do or say to make you respect him and be with him?

02:09:53.000 Well, I would just say that it starts with him knowing himself, his talents.

02:10:01.000 I think just really knowing himself.

02:10:02.000 I think that's really key to me even being attracted to him.

02:10:07.000 Because at least that lets me know where I would fit in with his life as far as what he wants, his goals, things like that.

02:10:16.000 And I could just find out if he needed my help, I would be able to help him in that way.

02:10:21.000 So, him knowing who he is as a person kind of grounds you.

02:10:24.000 Okay, that's good.

02:10:25.000 What about you?

02:10:25.000 I think mine's kind of similar.

02:10:26.000 I think vision.

02:10:28.000 So, like, a man who has, like, a vision for his life.

02:10:30.000 Yeah, ambition, vision for something, like, something bigger, but also with, like, the action.

02:10:35.000 The action behind it.

02:10:35.000 Yeah.

02:10:36.000 Does your current man have vision for you and himself?

02:10:39.000 Okay, that's good.

02:10:39.000 Mm-hmm.

02:10:41.000 What about you?

02:10:44.000 Same thing?

02:10:44.000 Yeah.

02:10:45.000 Okay.

02:10:46.000 For you?

02:10:47.000 I would want someone assertive, but the main thing that I look for is somebody that is free, and not in a way where they do whatever they want, but in a sense where they're not enslaved to any desires, in a sense like,

02:11:02.000 I don't want somebody that has a substance problem.

02:11:05.000 I don't want somebody that...

02:11:07.000 That's in debt.

02:11:08.000 Yeah, that's in debt or that is enslaved to their desires of very easily fooled by women. 0.98

02:11:17.000 I'd want somebody whose judgment is very clear.

02:11:20.000 So you want a monk?

02:11:22.000 Someone in control of themselves.

02:11:24.000 Someone in control of themselves.

02:11:25.000 Someone in control of themselves.

02:11:27.000 Someone well-adjusted.

02:11:28.000 All right.

02:11:29.000 Awesome.

02:11:29.000 You won a month.

02:11:30.000 All right.

02:11:31.000 And the next question is winning.

02:11:33.000 Does that remember the question directly?

02:11:34.000 Yeah, it was what defines women winning versus and what defines men winning?

02:11:38.000 So we could go ahead and take it from here and work this way.

02:11:40.000 So what is winning for a woman versus what is winning for a man? 1.00

02:11:42.000 Basically, like in life.

02:11:43.000 Yeah.

02:11:44.000 How can she be winning?

02:11:45.000 What does that mean?

02:11:45.000 You think for a woman?

02:11:47.000 And I guess that might be different for every woman in general, but maybe career, kids, life, traveling. 1.00

02:11:52.000 What makes a woman win? 1.00

02:11:53.000 I would say I would want to find a long-term relationship, a husband, and have children, and explore my passions, like my hobbies, as well as really take pride in having a garden and that sort of thing.

02:12:13.000 Is it hard in the current dating market to find a guy that doesn't want to smash right away?

02:12:18.000 Is it hard for you?

02:12:19.000 Yeah, so I guess what I have is, like, guys like that I'm a virgin, but they don't want to wait until marriage, which is kind of a problem.

02:12:29.000 So, yeah.

02:12:29.000 Yeah.

02:12:30.000 Yeah. 0.99

02:12:31.000 You would have been good back in 1950, but you kind of fucked in 2023. 0.98

02:12:36.000 You know, because, and it goes both ways, right? 0.97

02:12:39.000 Kind of like, you know, you got traditional girls that are, like, want to wait or whatever, but, like, the guys are, like, because here's the thing. 0.65

02:12:47.000 There's no way that you're going to find a guy that's like a...

02:12:49.000 Well, I mean, the guys that are virgins, you don't want them anyway. 1.00

02:12:52.000 The days of a guy being able to be a virgin and still be attractive and find a virgin wife, those days are done.

02:12:57.000 Because guys understand that if I'm a virgin as a guy, I'm not going to be as attractive to women.

02:13:01.000 No girl wants a virgin guy. 1.00

02:13:03.000 You know what I mean?

02:13:04.000 Unfortunately.

02:13:05.000 We'll take virgin girls, but no girl wants a virgin guy. 0.97

02:13:07.000 Yeah, and I know now that, like, I mean, I don't need to have a virgin guy, and I know the society we live in, and the chances are that he's probably not.

02:13:17.000 Would you prefer a virgin guy, out of curiosity?

02:13:19.000 Yes.

02:13:21.000 I mean, ideally, I know statistically it will make for the best outcomes in marriage, but it's not a requirement. 0.98

02:13:30.000 You can imagine trying to figure shit out. 1.00

02:13:33.000 Oh shit! 1.00

02:13:34.000 Where's the hole? 1.00

02:13:35.000 That'll be fine.

02:13:36.000 But he said, would you prefer that though?

02:13:38.000 Not statistically, just yourself.

02:13:41.000 I mean, I think it would be really beautiful to have with my future husband for us to only know each other like that.

02:13:49.000 But I mean, it's okay to want that girl.

02:13:51.000 It's okay. 1.00

02:13:53.000 Is it idiot? 1.00

02:13:55.000 Yeah, I think she's living in reality, though. 1.00

02:13:56.000 She wants it, but it's like, all right, it's probably more than likely not going to happen.

02:14:00.000 And luckily for you as a woman, you know, men don't, I guess, suffer from the same debilitations from a high body count that women do. 0.99

02:14:08.000 Like when a woman has a higher body count, the rates of divorce go up significantly.

02:14:11.000 But if a guy has a higher body count... 0.98

02:14:13.000 Obviously, there is a point where it starts to fuck with them, too, as far as divorce. 0.98

02:14:16.000 Yeah. 0.96

02:14:16.000 But, you know, the number is much higher. 0.96

02:14:18.000 It's much harder.

02:14:19.000 Men rarely initiate divorce in the first place.

02:14:20.000 Would you like a guy that could teach you certain things, probably?

02:14:23.000 Oh, yeah, of course.

02:14:24.000 Okay.

02:14:25.000 So, a little experience wouldn't be bad.

02:14:27.000 Fair enough.

02:14:27.000 Yeah.

02:14:27.000 All right.

02:14:28.000 But to what you were saying, there was actually a study that said...

02:14:31.000 Because men are naturally more they want to sow their seed. 0.98

02:14:36.000 There was a certain amount of bodies that he had where if he, let's just say, had like 10, he's actually more likely to be monogamous within marriage because he knows that women are more or less the same.

02:14:51.000 Well said.

02:14:52.000 Yes, I also read that.

02:14:53.000 W Canada.

02:14:54.000 Sexual experience helps men, but it hurts women, typically. 0.81

02:14:57.000 They're going to wonder, like, wait, what about her?

02:14:58.000 What about her? 1.00

02:14:59.000 So you're saying you never gave a blowjob before? 1.00

02:15:02.000 Or a handjob? 0.99

02:15:03.000 No. 1.00

02:15:04.000 I think Chris would ask that shit. 1.00

02:15:06.000 I mean... 1.00

02:15:07.000 He's got a know-how version you are.

02:15:10.000 No diamond, no diamond, yeah.

02:15:12.000 No, but okay.

02:15:12.000 No, I mean, yeah.

02:15:13.000 But yeah, sex affects the genders very differently, but girls think that they can sport fuck like guys, and I'm like, well, you can if you want, but it's going to cause you issues later. 1.00

02:15:20.000 Some bad issues later. 0.99

02:15:21.000 Yeah.

02:15:21.000 What about you?

02:15:22.000 One thing...

02:15:23.000 I guess you could say winning in life for a woman. 0.99

02:15:25.000 What does that mean?

02:15:28.000 Winning in life for women, at least... 1.00

02:15:30.000 Well, aside from having your shit together, you can... 1.00

02:15:36.000 Define having your shit together. 1.00

02:15:38.000 Okay. 1.00

02:15:42.000 You're not getting...

02:15:43.000 Okay.

02:15:44.000 I guess...

02:15:45.000 Not taking things the wrong way.

02:15:47.000 I think that's one thing that...

02:15:49.000 Okay.

02:15:50.000 I wouldn't...

02:15:51.000 I have a bad time articulating.

02:15:55.000 Got you.

02:15:57.000 Have you ever had a dream that...

02:16:00.000 Are you saying that they're more focused on what they want in life?

02:16:03.000 Is that what you're saying? 1.00

02:16:05.000 I think if you are, that's when you have your shit together. 0.99

02:16:09.000 If you don't get distracted by... 0.99

02:16:15.000 Have you ever had a dream that...

02:16:18.000 We'll move on.

02:16:18.000 Yeah.

02:16:19.000 I think she's a little bit...

02:16:20.000 Okay, so it's...

02:16:22.000 The question is, what defines winning for you?

02:16:26.000 As a woman.

02:16:27.000 Oh, as a woman.

02:16:28.000 I think definitely just being happy.

02:16:31.000 So, having a family, living in a nice house, a nice lawn.

02:16:36.000 Like, literally, I mean, every woman's gonna... 1.00

02:16:37.000 Something else is gonna make her happy.

02:16:39.000 So, whatever that is, having her man, like, provide that.

02:16:42.000 And, you know, living in love like that.

02:16:44.000 Are you happy right now?

02:16:46.000 Let me ask you this.

02:16:47.000 Your happiness, is it internal or is it depending on what your man does for you?

02:16:51.000 It's internal, but it's both.

02:16:53.000 I have my own happiness and he adds to it.

02:16:56.000 Okay.

02:17:00.000 Winning as a woman.

02:17:01.000 Winning as a woman.

02:17:02.000 What does that mean for you?

02:17:03.000 I think just as a woman, it's hard to battle our own minds.

02:17:07.000 So if we're able to conquer our own minds, our own emotions, that's a big win for us.

02:17:13.000 Shatterwake.

02:17:14.000 Right.

02:17:14.000 But also, we're all born.

02:17:16.000 Right?

02:17:17.000 Chris, what'd you say?

02:17:19.000 Shatterwake.

02:17:20.000 Yeah.

02:17:21.000 Shatterwake.

02:17:21.000 Adrian.

02:17:23.000 Adrian.

02:17:24.000 Alright, go ahead.

02:17:25.000 I think we're all born with special abilities, special talents.

02:17:29.000 So, if we can...

02:17:30.000 I'm psychic.

02:17:31.000 You are?

02:17:31.000 Oh, wow.

02:17:32.000 Yeah.

02:17:34.000 Move it.

02:17:35.000 Oh, right now?

02:17:36.000 Yeah.

02:17:36.000 Who said that?

02:17:37.000 She did.

02:17:37.000 I did.

02:17:38.000 I'm just curious.

02:17:39.000 Divorce.

02:17:39.000 We can.

02:17:47.000 Like I said, somebody that really follows their passions with their talents, their abilities and just can kind of keep up with it, that's really special.

02:17:57.000 As opposed to following what everybody else sees on Instagram, wherever they look at stuff.

02:18:03.000 Just someone that just really knows themselves and then can be emotionally intelligent and conquer their mind.

02:18:09.000 What does emotional intelligence mean?

02:18:11.000 Emotional intelligence means that you are aware of your emotions.

02:18:14.000 However, you know, the proper way to act, there's a right way to act and a wrong way to act.

02:18:20.000 And we do get triggered, but you can't always react when you're triggered.

02:18:25.000 You know, sometimes you have to, you know, bite it.

02:18:27.000 It's fine because if you don't bite it, imagine the greater reaction.

02:18:32.000 It'll bite you.

02:18:33.000 True. 1.00

02:18:34.000 Why are you in the ass, right? 0.99

02:18:36.000 You know, you don't want to set yourself up. 1.00

02:18:39.000 People make fun of my laugh, right?

02:18:39.000 Yeah, I know.

02:18:41.000 I like it.

02:18:43.000 I appreciate that.

02:18:45.000 Actually, I had a brain injury, so I'm actually coming back to normal.

02:18:48.000 Oh, wow.

02:18:49.000 But I'm fine.

02:18:49.000 Yeah, I did.

02:18:52.000 Emotional damage.

02:18:53.000 Yeah, I know.

02:18:54.000 So the funny, yeah, right?

02:18:56.000 So that's exactly what I mean, though.

02:18:58.000 Just being able to conquer your mind because going through that concussion and just dealing with that, I actually broke my tooth, too, like in the whole thing.

02:19:05.000 It was tough.

02:19:07.000 But, you know, you just can't focus on the things that really bring you down.

02:19:12.000 And just try not to.

02:19:13.000 It's hard, but just try not to.

02:19:15.000 I'm glad you're still here.

02:19:16.000 Thank you.

02:19:19.000 But never mind.

02:19:23.000 Winning for a woman.

02:19:27.000 Security.

02:19:29.000 Not self-produced.

02:19:33.000 I think it's important to feel that security from the man that you're with, both emotionally, financially, physically.

02:19:40.000 I would say that's winning for any woman. 1.00

02:19:43.000 Mm-hmm.

02:19:44.000 Alright. 1.00

02:19:44.000 Damn. 1.00

02:19:45.000 I was actually going to say the exact same thing. 0.99

02:19:47.000 Safety and security for a woman to feel safe in her relationship.

02:19:51.000 Okay.

02:19:54.000 And just the freedom to be able to focus on her passions and what makes her more feminine.

02:20:00.000 Because I believe that's how you become more feminine.

02:20:02.000 What about you?

02:20:03.000 I feel like winning is honestly being able to be truly feminine and not have to bring out your masculinity.

02:20:12.000 How do you get that?

02:20:14.000 Through a man.

02:20:15.000 He gives security and stability.

02:20:19.000 And winning for a man I guess would be Well, I guess I can't speak for that, honestly.

02:20:24.000 But I know that was a part of the question.

02:20:27.000 Yeah.

02:20:28.000 Well, you know, I'd like to get their...

02:20:29.000 Let's get their takes on it to see if they know.

02:20:31.000 I don't think they do it, but okay.

02:20:32.000 What's winning for a man? 1.00

02:20:32.000 Yeah. 1.00

02:20:33.000 Go ahead. 0.99

02:20:34.000 Shoot. 0.97

02:20:35.000 I feel like for them it would be financial stability and freedom to do whatever they want, whenever they want. 0.96

02:20:41.000 That's what I feel like is winning for a man.

02:20:44.000 I feel like winning for a man is feeling respected and admired and feeling like he respects and admires himself as well and proud of his accomplishments and proud of his ability to make his family secure.

02:20:57.000 Interesting.

02:20:59.000 Options.

02:21:00.000 A man being of a status of a certain degree where he can choose whatever he would like.

02:21:08.000 Okay.

02:21:09.000 Cool.

02:21:10.000 I'd say definitely a man just being comfortable with himself and whatever it took for him to get there, that's what he would need to do.

02:21:18.000 Okay.

02:21:18.000 Comfort?

02:21:19.000 I think a man winning would be financially successful, emotionally successful, successful relationship, basically just like check all the boxes of like top tier.

02:21:29.000 Top G. Pre-take.

02:21:29.000 Interesting.

02:21:33.000 Pre-take.

02:21:35.000 Um, to care with himself, kind of a little bit similar to hers, where...

02:21:39.000 Oh, sorry.

02:21:41.000 Um...

02:21:42.000 Secure with himself, financially, every single way.

02:21:45.000 And also having a relationship where he can...

02:21:50.000 Where he doesn't feel like he can...

02:21:55.000 Where he has to, like, go the extra mile, I guess?

02:21:58.000 Is your man, that person you just described?

02:22:01.000 Is he fully secure, successful?

02:22:03.000 Or is he on the way up?

02:22:04.000 On the way up.

02:22:05.000 Yeah.

02:22:05.000 I figured.

02:22:07.000 That's good.

02:22:08.000 What about you?

02:22:09.000 What's winning for a man, in your opinion? 0.94

02:22:11.000 Somebody that's respected, prosperity, and someone with a strong, loyal support system.

02:22:21.000 You know, it's very interesting because when we asked the girls what's winning for a woman, it was typically contingent upon an outside resource, another human being, because women tend to be interested in people. 0.99

02:22:30.000 But when we asked them what is winning for a man, it was external.

02:22:33.000 It was being successful, making money, etc.

02:22:36.000 And I would add to that that, like, Guys want to make money, be successful, have respect, and have a bunch of chicks.

02:22:44.000 No guy wants to be monogamous.

02:22:45.000 Most men are monogamous out of necessity, not necessarily out of wants.

02:22:49.000 So let me ask the two girls here that want a long-term relationship that are virgins. 1.00

02:22:53.000 Would you be okay with your guy being...

02:22:55.000 You know, we go around the table on this one.

02:22:57.000 We'll make it fun.

02:22:58.000 My bad.

02:22:58.000 Would you be...

02:22:59.000 Would you be okay with your guy having options, having other women? 0.99

02:23:02.000 Or would you expect them to be monogamous to you? 0.99

02:23:08.000 It would depend on the guy.

02:23:12.000 If he had everything I was looking for, but there would have to be rules around it.

02:23:17.000 If I was married, I wouldn't want to get any distance.

02:23:22.000 I wouldn't want to see or hear from them.

02:23:26.000 I did this before, but it didn't work because it just caused so many problems.

02:23:31.000 Not within me, but just externally.

02:23:34.000 I don't know if I With the other girl?

02:23:37.000 Yeah, with the other girl.

02:23:38.000 Oh, she got mad.

02:23:39.000 It was a situation, yeah, because, like, I'm not going to go in detail on it here, but it was a situation where I had a lot of responsibilities that I would have to fulfill, and because of the age at the time, it just wasn't good.

02:23:55.000 So, I was like, okay, and because I'm a virgin waiting for marriage, I was like, okay, maybe you can have sex with me.

02:24:18.000 What about you? 0.99

02:24:19.000 Would you be okay with your guy having other girls?

02:24:23.000 Honestly, no, but...

02:24:26.000 No.

02:24:27.000 Like, no.

02:24:28.000 I wouldn't be okay with it.

02:24:28.000 You'd be okay with it?

02:24:29.000 Oh, you would not be okay?

02:24:30.000 No, I would not be okay with it.

02:24:31.000 You would not?

02:24:31.000 Okay.

02:24:33.000 Okay, your guy's monogamous to you?

02:24:34.000 Or so you think?

02:24:36.000 I know.

02:24:37.000 You know?

02:24:37.000 Okay.

02:24:38.000 What about you?

02:24:39.000 There's just always an imbalance.

02:24:41.000 So polygamy, it just, the idea is lit, I guess, for a lot of people, but it doesn't work out.

02:24:46.000 And truthfully, there's always somebody going to be more jealous.

02:24:49.000 Somebody's going to get mad.

02:24:50.000 You didn't bang me more.

02:24:52.000 You didn't hang out with me more.

02:24:53.000 You bought this for her.

02:24:56.000 It's always something.

02:24:57.000 I just try to keep it as much simple as possible.

02:25:00.000 If I can just be in a monogamous relationship where we both trust, I don't care if he hangs out with other girls.

02:25:05.000 I don't care. 1.00

02:25:06.000 Just don't fuck him. 1.00

02:25:07.000 That's it. 1.00

02:25:08.000 But wouldn't it be fair to say that that chaos that you're talking about and polygamy actually makes the women more attracted to the man? 0.71

02:25:14.000 I'm not attracted to a dude in polygamy, me personally.

02:25:17.000 Now, other girls, they might. 0.70

02:25:19.000 They might think that's cool.

02:25:20.000 For me, it's not going to work for me.

02:25:22.000 You might say that, but the reality is that you're attracted to men that can be polygamous.

02:25:27.000 Not really.

02:25:28.000 Really?

02:25:29.000 True.

02:25:29.000 You're not?

02:25:30.000 I'm not.

02:25:30.000 It's not in my opinion.

02:25:31.000 You don't like guys that are tall?

02:25:32.000 If a guy tells me he's polygamous, I'm like, I have a good day. 1.00

02:25:36.000 No, he's not going to tell you that.

02:25:37.000 But I'm saying you're attracted to men that are capable of being polygamous is my point. 0.85

02:25:40.000 Anybody can be polygamous.

02:25:42.000 No, absolutely not.

02:25:43.000 Only a minority of men can actually pull it off.

02:25:46.000 Well, I don't know.

02:25:48.000 Maybe that's just me because I don't really look at a guy as, oh, this dude can be polygamous or not.

02:25:53.000 It's just not going in my brain.

02:25:56.000 Because you're looking at it through a female lens. 1.00

02:25:58.000 Like I said before, women have the privilege of not having to understand men to attract them. 0.99

02:26:01.000 But men have to understand women to attract them. 0.99

02:26:04.000 So What you don't realize is that the guy that you're attracted to, I promise you, he's probably attractive to a bunch of other girls too.

02:26:12.000 Because the things that make a man attractive are hard to come by.

02:26:15.000 Tall, handsome, money, status, you know, charisma, charm, etc.

02:26:20.000 It's not even all of that.

02:26:22.000 For me, it's not all of that.

02:26:23.000 But for women, I guess, the modern woman, I guess you're right. 0.67

02:26:27.000 So you don't like any of the traits I just mentioned?

02:26:29.000 I mean, they're cool.

02:26:30.000 They're not everything, though.

02:26:31.000 Yeah, but I'm saying that women are typically chasing the same archetype of man. 1.00

02:26:36.000 Do they get them?

02:26:37.000 No.

02:26:37.000 But they still want it.

02:26:39.000 It's biologically hardwired in you.

02:26:41.000 Like, you're not that special.

02:26:42.000 Just like men are biologically hardwired to like certain things in women, women are biologically hardwired to look for certain things in men.

02:26:42.000 No offense.

02:26:48.000 Sorry, what were you saying?

02:26:48.000 I was just wondering what the point was.

02:26:50.000 The point of what?

02:26:51.000 Of what you were saying.

02:26:52.000 Because she's saying, I don't want a guy that's polygamous.

02:26:54.000 And what I'm saying is that the men that are attractive have the capability of being polygamous. 0.79

02:26:57.000 She said she would want her man to be polygamous. 1.00

02:26:59.000 Yeah, because for me personally, I haven't been in a relationship for a long time, but when I do, eventually, I want to be my best Version of myself.

02:27:09.000 But also, I want to be the best woman possible that I can be for him.

02:27:13.000 Whether, you know, I connect with him.

02:27:15.000 Let's say you get with a guy.

02:27:16.000 Whether I give him the time that he needs.

02:27:17.000 Whatever he needs.

02:27:19.000 That's why I feel like...

02:27:20.000 Okay, he needs another chick. 1.00

02:27:21.000 Why would he need another chick, though? 0.95

02:27:23.000 Is it his ego?

02:27:25.000 Because you guys are not as special as you think you are.

02:27:25.000 What is it?

02:27:28.000 Men always want other girls. 0.98

02:27:30.000 So we could say the same thing about men.

02:27:33.000 No, because women typically want to share security with one man. 0.99

02:27:36.000 All of you guys said, I want a relationship with a guy, marriage, and children.

02:27:40.000 Men don't think that way.

02:27:42.000 We want a main girl, but we always want other girls.

02:27:44.000 And what is it about the other girls that y'all need?

02:27:47.000 What are you missing?

02:27:48.000 Men like variety.

02:27:49.000 They like variety.

02:27:50.000 Yeah.

02:27:51.000 Men like variety, period.

02:27:52.000 You will never...

02:27:53.000 Ladies, I want y'all to know this.

02:27:55.000 Especially you miss a long-term relationship because it's going to come down the line for you as well.

02:27:58.000 I promise you it will.

02:28:00.000 You will never sexually satisfy your man by yourself.

02:28:03.000 I promise you.

02:28:04.000 You guys are going to have that tough talk eventually where he's going to say, I want to have other girls or you catch him cheating.

02:28:08.000 One of the two is going to happen.

02:28:11.000 I mean, he hasn't married you yet.

02:28:12.000 Y'all been together for eight years.

02:28:13.000 So something's up.

02:28:14.000 I'm not ready to get married.

02:28:17.000 That's cute.

02:28:17.000 There's certain things that we know that's right and wrong, you know, sometimes.

02:28:21.000 And, you know, we want to do wrong.

02:28:23.000 It's a lot, but we don't have to do wrong.

02:28:26.000 Okay.

02:28:26.000 It's not about that.

02:28:27.000 Haven't you heard about like...

02:28:28.000 Sure.

02:28:30.000 Monogamous is like not...

02:28:32.000 Sorry.

02:28:33.000 Monogamy? 0.79

02:28:34.000 Polyamorous, whatever it is.

02:28:36.000 Polygamy? 0.54

02:28:36.000 Polygamy. 0.54

02:28:38.000 There was like a study done that shows that if everyone was...

02:28:42.000 Probably then, like, the society wouldn't sustain itself.

02:28:45.000 Yeah, well here's the thing.

02:28:47.000 Countries that practice polygamy tend to be less stable, that is true, but that does not change the fact that from a biological human evolutionary standpoint, women are wired to be in a polygamous relationship because women are willing to share higher status men.

02:29:05.000 Most women would prefer to have a high status man and share him than to have a loser to herself. 1.00

02:29:12.000 You think so? 0.95

02:29:13.000 I think so.

02:29:14.000 This is the way it's been since the beginning of time.

02:29:16.000 If you look at, like, kings, sultans, powerful men.

02:29:20.000 I guess most women. 1.00

02:29:21.000 Yeah, powerful men have always had a multitude of women.

02:29:24.000 But that's where the brokenness is.

02:29:26.000 And not every woman is broken.

02:29:27.000 No, I call that intelligent, actually.

02:29:29.000 But I just don't think a high-quality woman would. 1.00

02:29:32.000 Okay, for example, Nick Cannon has a lot of kids.

02:29:38.000 He's obviously had a bunch of babies from a lot of women. 0.84

02:29:41.000 The problem with that, it's cool to be fruitful and multiply.

02:29:45.000 However, those children are the ones that's going to be suffering at the end of the day.

02:29:49.000 Their father might come or call every six months.

02:29:53.000 That takes a lot from someone growing up.

02:29:56.000 So that's why it's important for men and women to be in harmony with each other so that we can create better families.

02:30:02.000 And it starts with us making the right decisions and fighting against the things that we know are wrong and right.

02:30:07.000 Well, here's the thing.

02:30:08.000 A man doesn't have to be in his child's life every single day.

02:30:10.000 That's a mom's job. 1.00

02:30:11.000 Yeah, he doesn't.

02:30:12.000 But if he doesn't hear it from six months, that's a problem.

02:30:16.000 If he's providing, he sees his kids all the time.

02:30:19.000 They're all living the same.

02:30:20.000 He sees his kids all the time.

02:30:21.000 The other thing, too, is that he's providing the resources, taking care of the kids, giving them a stable home.

02:30:26.000 The dad doesn't have to be there every day.

02:30:27.000 So that's one thing.

02:30:31.000 He doesn't have to be, but everybody's different.

02:30:34.000 They might need that support.

02:30:36.000 Akon doesn't want to go to his children's recitals or whatever.

02:30:41.000 That kid, that might mean a lot to them.

02:30:43.000 Somebody showing up, being there for them, that means a lot to people.

02:30:47.000 It does.

02:30:48.000 Well, here's the thing.

02:30:49.000 That's tough.

02:30:51.000 You're not always going to get what you want.

02:30:52.000 The mom can be there.

02:30:53.000 The dad might not be there all the time, but that's fine.

02:30:55.000 No, but you want to try to do the right thing as much as possible.

02:30:58.000 Here's the thing.

02:30:58.000 You don't think it'll affect the kids at all?

02:31:01.000 Kids need to suffer.

02:31:03.000 You want your women to suffer? 1.00

02:31:04.000 I thought that was the whole thing is that you don't want your women to go through trauma.

02:31:07.000 Boys need to... 0.60

02:31:09.000 If a man doesn't make it to every single recital, every single game, that's not the end of the world.

02:31:13.000 And if a son doesn't get every single thing he wants from his father, I think obviously the daughter's got to get everything to a degree, of course.

02:31:21.000 But sons...

02:31:23.000 He's gotta suffer.

02:31:24.000 Men need to suffer to become. 1.00

02:31:25.000 Yeah, I get that.

02:31:26.000 But I'm just talking about, like, let's say he has girls.

02:31:28.000 You know what I'm saying?

02:31:29.000 What do you mean a girl?

02:31:30.000 Oh, as in girls? 0.99

02:31:31.000 As kids.

02:31:32.000 You're saying that it wouldn't matter if the father's out there?

02:31:34.000 Yeah, go as much as you can.

02:31:35.000 But like, he's, realistically speaking, a man that's out there making money, being successful.

02:31:39.000 He's not going to be able to be there all the time.

02:31:41.000 I think we're also forgetting as well, if the dad is a good role model and he's actually putting food on the table for the family, him being a role model does a lot by itself.

02:31:51.000 But wouldn't it be better if both of the parents were together and they avoided all of that?

02:31:55.000 It's ideal, but let's be real here.

02:31:57.000 In the real world, nothing really ideal.

02:31:59.000 I get what you're saying.

02:32:00.000 It doesn't make sense, but I'm just saying most people are not going to be in that scenario.

02:32:04.000 And just to be real with you, They're probably going to break up anyway.

02:32:07.000 So ideally, the guy's a good role model.

02:32:09.000 He's doing what he needs to do and visits periodically.

02:32:12.000 It's going to work regardless.

02:32:13.000 Now, but going back to the whole monogamy thing, you know, men are typically only are as faithful as their options.

02:32:21.000 So a guy that's like in demand, that's attractive, that has things going for him, he's going to want to exercise options.

02:32:26.000 So I tell girls just get in front of it and accept that at some point you might catch a guy cheating or he's going to want to have that talk like, yo, I want to have other girls.

02:32:34.000 Men always want variety.

02:32:35.000 We don't look for security like you guys do.

02:32:37.000 We provide it.

02:32:38.000 Well, then now you're going to make women just boss up themselves and start becoming masculine because they just want a guy who's going to love them a lot and not cheat on them. 0.88

02:32:46.000 Okay, how about this?

02:32:47.000 If I tell you it's raining outside and here's an umbrella and you choose to go outside and get hit with water, whose fault is that?

02:32:52.000 What does that do then?

02:32:53.000 I don't know where you're comparing the analogy to.

02:32:56.000 The analogy is I'm telling you that men are only as faithful as their options.

02:32:59.000 So in other words, there's a high likelihood that your man will go ahead and exercise those options, especially if he's attractive.

02:33:06.000 But just because you want to bang somebody doesn't mean you should.

02:33:09.000 So I'm telling you, here's an umbrella.

02:33:09.000 Can you stop interrupting?

02:33:12.000 It's raining outside so that you can prepare yourself.

02:33:14.000 Whose fault is it if you don't take the umbrella and get wet? 0.99

02:33:17.000 No, I'm just saying that women are going to go get their own fucking umbrella and become masculine and not have to worry about guys cheating on her. 1.00

02:33:22.000 And that's the problem, right? 0.99

02:33:24.000 Too many masculine women, not enough feminine women that the guys are looking for. 0.98

02:33:26.000 Here's the thing, they can go ahead and make their own money, as you would say, but that doesn't fix the problem at all.

02:33:32.000 Yeah, they'll go find a loyal guy.

02:33:34.000 They'll just play a bigger role.

02:33:35.000 I'm telling you, men are naturally not loyal.

02:33:38.000 It's not in our DNA to be loyal to one woman. 0.99

02:33:40.000 No guy wants to sit there and say, I'm going to have sex with you for the rest of my life. 0.92

02:33:43.000 No. 0.96

02:33:44.000 I think there are.

02:33:45.000 There are.

02:33:46.000 Really?

02:33:47.000 Yeah, there are.

02:33:47.000 You think so?

02:33:48.000 If I lined up 100 dudes, 95 of them would prefer to have more than one girl. 1.00

02:33:48.000 Yes. 1.00

02:33:53.000 It's because social media and porn.

02:33:55.000 But I'm telling you, with the right girl, with the right girl, with the right wife, the man will be faithful.

02:34:00.000 No, he won't.

02:34:02.000 If you told your man...

02:34:03.000 If you told your man, right, yo, babe, you know what?

02:34:06.000 I respect you.

02:34:08.000 I love you.

02:34:08.000 I care about you.

02:34:09.000 You can have any girl you want and me.

02:34:11.000 You know what I'm going to say?

02:34:12.000 Yes!

02:34:12.000 That's what I really want.

02:34:13.000 However, however, because he respects you, he doesn't want to challenge you, but you know what?

02:34:17.000 I love only you.

02:34:18.000 I guarantee you, a hot chick down the street, nine or ten, he's going to go for it. 1.00

02:34:22.000 It's not a safe lifestyle.

02:34:23.000 See how you guys are fighting against what I'm telling you?

02:34:26.000 But it's just not safe.

02:34:27.000 That's why we're just saying it's not a good idea.

02:34:30.000 You know?

02:34:30.000 Look, look, look.

02:34:31.000 Look.

02:34:31.000 Because if you have babies by the woman, all kinds of things.

02:34:34.000 Look, look.

02:34:34.000 Look, look, look.

02:34:35.000 This is the perfect quintessential example of what I mean when I say women can't handle the truth. 1.00

02:34:40.000 I'm telling you guys, bold face, biological fact.

02:34:43.000 Men are quantitative in their mating process, are quantity based in their mating process.

02:34:48.000 Women are quality based. 0.97

02:34:50.000 Men want other girls. 0.99

02:34:51.000 You guys are sitting here trying to fight me on it, and I'm telling you, society wouldn't sustain itself, so how would it be biologically that way?

02:34:58.000 What do you mean by society?

02:35:00.000 Society couldn't sustain itself if all of the guys just got to be Whatever, Polly.

02:35:05.000 But most men can't be Polly's my point.

02:35:07.000 Most men don't have the status, income, ability, frame, etc. 0.99

02:35:10.000 So then why does it bother you guys that we don't want a guy who would cheat on us?

02:35:14.000 No, we're just saying expect what may come.

02:35:17.000 But you're saying most guys don't do that anyways.

02:35:19.000 They can't, but they want to.

02:35:20.000 They want to.

02:35:20.000 So if they get the chance, they're going to do it.

02:35:22.000 Oh wait, fresh.

02:35:22.000 They're going to do it.

02:35:24.000 So you've been with your man for eight years, right?

02:35:28.000 You might want to rob a bank.

02:35:30.000 Eight years, yeah.

02:35:31.000 So are you married?

02:35:33.000 Not yet.

02:35:34.000 Because I want an extravagant wedding.

02:35:34.000 Why not?

02:35:38.000 I mean, is he trying to marry you or did he tell you?

02:35:46.000 I just said that I don't want to get married because I want to have an extravagant wedding.

02:35:51.000 That's on him.

02:35:53.000 If you really wanted to, he'd find a way to do it.

02:35:55.000 You borrow some money, you do a favor.

02:35:58.000 Fiancee?

02:35:59.000 I don't think you guys understand what I want in life.

02:36:02.000 You want a wedding?

02:36:03.000 You want him?

02:36:04.000 I want a massive wedding.

02:36:05.000 No, you want him.

02:36:06.000 I could go get a lope if we really wanted to, but we don't care.

02:36:09.000 I don't care that much about marriage to get married because I already know I have a solid relationship.

02:36:13.000 You care enough to have an expensive wedding though?

02:36:14.000 Yeah, I want to have a big party someday to celebrate how long we've been together and how we're going to be together forever.

02:36:19.000 A big party doesn't cost that much money if you plan for it in advance.

02:36:23.000 So I'll invite you to my wedding in like five years when I'm ready for it.

02:36:27.000 But eight years, you should, come on.

02:36:29.000 Eight years, come on.

02:36:29.000 Do you know how old I am?

02:36:30.000 I'm 25.

02:36:31.000 What do you mean, eight years?

02:36:31.000 You want me to start planning for my wedding when I was 17 years old?

02:36:34.000 Really?

02:36:34.000 You're at your pick right now.

02:36:35.000 If that's what you want, with your guy, yeah, why not?

02:36:37.000 It's your dream wedding.

02:36:37.000 Yeah.

02:36:38.000 Dreams come through over a period of time.

02:36:40.000 Okay, so I've been working on it.

02:36:42.000 He's been working on it.

02:36:43.000 My extravagant wedding will come when I'm ready.

02:36:43.000 What do you mean?

02:36:46.000 Be honest, is he broke?

02:36:48.000 No.

02:36:49.000 So he has money, right?

02:36:49.000 Yeah.

02:36:50.000 So why is he not doing a wedding?

02:36:52.000 It's not what I want yet.

02:36:53.000 What?

02:36:55.000 He doesn't have enough money to pay for hundreds of thousands of dollars of a wedding that I want, but he will soon.

02:37:02.000 Why would you want to do that to your man?

02:37:04.000 What do you mean, why would I want to do that to my man?

02:37:05.000 That's for me.

02:37:06.000 It's a celebration for me.

02:37:07.000 You think he wants to spend that?

02:37:08.000 I have my own money too.

02:37:10.000 Yeah, but do you think he wants to spend that on the wedding?

02:37:12.000 No, he doesn't.

02:37:12.000 It doesn't matter.

02:37:14.000 So you're prioritizing what you want over what he wants?

02:37:17.000 In a wedding, yeah.

02:37:19.000 That's messed up.

02:37:20.000 Have you ever heard of bridezilla?

02:37:20.000 What do you mean?

02:37:22.000 It's common.

02:37:22.000 The guy is there to get married, but I don't think the guy cares that much about the actual wedding itself.

02:37:27.000 The money you spend on a wedding could go towards your kids, your future, a vacation.

02:37:29.000 And I'm going to have a lot of money to go through all of those things, because that's my point.

02:37:34.000 Yo, man.

02:37:35.000 Yo, real talk.

02:37:36.000 She wants to get married. 0.98

02:37:38.000 She don't want to be a wife. 1.00

02:37:39.000 That's what it is.

02:37:40.000 She's already a wife. 1.00

02:37:41.000 Bro.

02:37:42.000 If you were a wife, you would have wifed you up by now. 1.00

02:37:45.000 A guy doesn't date a girl for eight years and not wife it up?

02:37:45.000 Yeah, you would.

02:37:48.000 That's a huge red flag.

02:37:50.000 Niggas will literally sell their watches, chain their soul for their girl if they really want them. 1.00

02:37:50.000 I'm telling you. 1.00

02:37:56.000 And then to get married?

02:37:57.000 To find out a price?

02:37:58.000 But he doesn't have to.

02:37:59.000 I'm not telling him to.

02:38:00.000 Come on.

02:38:01.000 If I was like, I'm desperate to get married and he wants to get married, yeah, we would go get married.

02:38:06.000 But I'm not desperate to have a wedding yet.

02:38:07.000 Like, it doesn't matter to me that much.

02:38:09.000 So they don't have a wedding then?

02:38:10.000 Yeah.

02:38:11.000 But I do want to have a wedding eventually.

02:38:13.000 Which is why I'm waiting.

02:38:14.000 That he has to pay for it.

02:38:15.000 And not you.

02:38:16.000 We'll both pay for it.

02:38:18.000 Nah, he's paying.

02:38:19.000 He's paying the majority.

02:38:22.000 That's why it's taking a while.

02:38:23.000 All right, man.

02:38:24.000 Yo, man.

02:38:25.000 Yo.

02:38:26.000 So you guys have nothing to say, but it's fine.

02:38:27.000 No, no, no.

02:38:28.000 We know.

02:38:30.000 We're dudes.

02:38:31.000 We know.

02:38:32.000 Eight years with a chick.

02:38:34.000 And here's the other thing, too.

02:38:35.000 You got to remember, you're at your peak now.

02:38:38.000 You're at your peak now.

02:38:39.000 So typically, you want to leave the casino when the cash is up.

02:38:43.000 You don't want to leave the casino when the chips are down.

02:38:46.000 In five years, you're going to be 30 years old.

02:38:47.000 Most of your ex are going to be gone.

02:38:49.000 The ability to bring a child to term is going to be significantly diminished.

02:38:53.000 So, if he's not going to marry you now at your peak, what makes you think he's going to ask you?

02:38:53.000 Yeah.

02:38:57.000 He is going to marry me now.

02:38:58.000 Pretty much already married.

02:38:58.000 When?

02:39:00.000 I don't understand.

02:39:01.000 No, you're not.

02:39:01.000 You guys don't get about that.

02:39:02.000 You have a ring on your finger?

02:39:04.000 You married legally?

02:39:04.000 Huh?

02:39:05.000 Actually, in some states, there's like the year...

02:39:07.000 If you've been together, common love.

02:39:09.000 Yeah, we basically have that.

02:39:10.000 So then, why have a big wedding then?

02:39:11.000 Huh?

02:39:12.000 Because I want to have a party and celebrate.

02:39:13.000 No, you do, but does he want to have a party?

02:39:16.000 I'm sure he'd love it, but he doesn't care that much.

02:39:18.000 But he cares about making me happy, so of course he's going to do it.

02:39:21.000 That's selfish, though.

02:39:22.000 You know why that's selfish?

02:39:24.000 How is it selfish?

02:39:25.000 He's about to spend maybe $100,000 on one day, right?

02:39:29.000 When, realistically speaking, what does Matt want to do?

02:39:31.000 Make sure you're happy and the kid's happy and the family's happy, right?

02:39:33.000 But that one day you're spending all that money for is for what?

02:39:36.000 Oh, I got married!

02:39:38.000 Wait, wait, I'm fresh.

02:39:39.000 Well, eventually it's not going to be that much money.

02:39:41.000 That's the goal.

02:39:41.000 Wait, so question.

02:39:42.000 Do you have kids?

02:39:43.000 No.

02:39:44.000 With him?

02:39:44.000 No.

02:39:45.000 So why the fuck you spend that much money on a wedding, on a party, when you spend it on the kids? 1.00

02:39:49.000 I don't have kids. 1.00

02:39:50.000 No, but with him.

02:39:51.000 You stay prepared for the future.

02:39:53.000 I will.

02:39:53.000 I'm going to have enough money for all of it.

02:39:55.000 You?

02:39:56.000 Yes, both of us. 1.00

02:39:57.000 So, use that money and spend it on a fucking wedding and just make it happen! 1.00

02:40:01.000 I will! 1.00

02:40:03.000 I don't understand!

02:40:05.000 Do you get what we're saying here?

02:40:07.000 We're saying, for example, in this case...

02:40:08.000 Yeah, it's crazy because we should have gotten married and we could have already gotten, and if he wanted it, then we would have, but it doesn't matter that much to both of us because we're already committed and we know we're going to get married eventually.

02:40:17.000 Yeah.

02:40:18.000 That's what he's telling you, bro.

02:40:21.000 That's what he's telling her, bro.

02:40:22.000 Yo, eight years, no ring, red flag.

02:40:27.000 Remember we said earlier on the show...

02:40:28.000 Who has the red flag, though?

02:40:30.000 Do I have a red flag?

02:40:33.000 Who's the red flag? 0.58

02:40:34.000 If he didn't commit to you yet, and he's been with you for eight years, you're not his fiancée.

02:40:38.000 Y'all just kind of live together and cohabitate, and you're saying, I want a big, expensive wedding, and I'm waiting.

02:40:45.000 Like...

02:40:46.000 I want to be surprised if he's like having second thoughts or something like that because I'll keep it a thousand.

02:40:49.000 When a girl tells me I want a big extravagant wedding, she's more interested in getting married than being a wife. 1.00

02:40:55.000 And I'm telling you how men think.

02:40:56.000 But that also means that I don't care that much because I haven't done it yet.

02:41:00.000 No, no, but you still want to do it.

02:41:01.000 Yeah, eventually someday when we have a lot of money.

02:41:03.000 But I'm not pressuring him to get married right now.

02:41:05.000 What if he never gets a lot of money?

02:41:06.000 What if he stays the same?

02:41:07.000 What are you going to do?

02:41:08.000 He will.

02:41:09.000 And so will I. No, no, but how do you know that?

02:41:11.000 Because I have vision and I have work.

02:41:13.000 And the other thing too, you got to understand is that you're 25 now.

02:41:16.000 You're literally at your peak fertility, your peak value as a woman. 0.71

02:41:20.000 No offense.

02:41:21.000 Okay.

02:41:21.000 From a biological standpoint.

02:41:22.000 Y'all are talking as if I won't get engaged fucking tomorrow. 1.00

02:41:25.000 After this, you probably will. 1.00

02:41:26.000 I know.

02:41:26.000 I already know that I will, but I'm just like, it's crazy that we're having this conversation because you guys are just tripping over eight years.

02:41:31.000 And I'm only saying that because he's going to watch it and then probably feel like he has to.

02:41:33.000 No, it'll be funny.

02:41:34.000 It'll be funny.

02:41:34.000 No, because she's going to pressure him now.

02:41:36.000 Yeah.

02:41:36.000 After she has this conversation with him, she'll be like, why am I not engaged with you?

02:41:40.000 Yo, Jenna Ortega.

02:41:41.000 Shout out to Wednesday.

02:41:42.000 Yeah.

02:41:44.000 The ironic thing is he's the one that watches your show and brought her here.

02:41:49.000 Is he?

02:41:50.000 Yeah.

02:41:51.000 He knows what he's doing.

02:41:54.000 He's pretty smart.

02:41:56.000 Remember, we can't handle the truth.

02:41:58.000 He actually told me I should go on the show because I give good opinions with things.

02:42:04.000 He'll be watching your guys' show and then he'll ask me my opinion because he's like, wow, your opinion's pretty different than mine. 0.99

02:42:08.000 I'm going to give you the best advice you're going to get because all your friends probably are too scared to tell you this shit. 0.99

02:42:12.000 Don't worry about the extravagant wedding. 1.00

02:42:14.000 Get married to the man.

02:42:15.000 Have children.

02:42:16.000 Focus on that. 0.99

02:42:17.000 You could do the party and all the other bullshit later on because you're at your peak now. 0.96

02:42:21.000 Get out the casino while you can when your chips are up. 0.98

02:42:24.000 Because your value is only going down as you age.

02:42:26.000 But why would I... I don't understand why I would need to get married right this second.

02:42:30.000 I could still have kids, create a house, do all of these things, and then have my extravagant wedding later.

02:42:37.000 What's wrong with that?

02:42:39.000 I'm trying to give you the advantage here, but okay.

02:42:41.000 You want to have kids out of wedlock and not be married? 1.00

02:42:43.000 I'm not saying I will.

02:42:45.000 You're saying you can have kids right now and you're not married.

02:42:47.000 I'm just saying I could.

02:42:50.000 That's not optimal in your situation.

02:42:52.000 I'm giving you the game right now.

02:42:53.000 That actually puts him at a disadvantage of what I just told you.

02:42:56.000 We're already going to get married and we're going to have kids.

02:42:59.000 You assume that.

02:43:02.000 Ten years later.

02:43:03.000 Okay.

02:43:05.000 This is what I mean when I say women can't handle the truth, man. 1.00

02:43:08.000 No offense.

02:43:08.000 I'm telling you, bro.

02:43:09.000 Eight years.

02:43:11.000 No marriage. 0.79

02:43:11.000 Crazy. 0.79

02:43:12.000 Bro, eight years?

02:43:13.000 Monogamy? 0.79

02:43:14.000 Guys always want other girls. 0.73

02:43:14.000 Eh. 0.73

02:43:15.000 Everyone's just jealous that they don't have someone for eight years.

02:43:18.000 Trust me.

02:43:19.000 I'm happy it's all right now.

02:43:22.000 Guys want quantity.

02:43:24.000 You guys look for security in a bunch of...

02:43:27.000 Men want quantity, so... 0.68

02:43:30.000 Lele Zero.

02:43:30.000 What?

02:43:31.000 Ladies.

02:43:32.000 Spit, swallow, cream, fire, facial. 1.00

02:43:33.000 That's a nigga, bro. 1.00

02:43:35.000 Leaio. 0.98

02:43:36.000 Leaio.

02:43:36.000 We'll just move on.

02:43:37.000 Yeah, yeah.

02:43:38.000 That was from before.

02:43:39.000 By the way.

02:43:41.000 What did I have her say?

02:43:44.000 Yeah, Paris.

02:43:45.000 To the woman, he said, I will surely multiply your pain in childbearing. 1.00

02:43:49.000 In pain you shall bring forth children.

02:43:51.000 Your desire shall be contrary to your husband, but ye shall rule over you. 0.86

02:43:57.000 Is that for her?

02:43:59.000 Yeah, pretty much.

02:44:00.000 $500?

02:44:01.000 What is that?

02:44:02.000 So basically, it wasn't for you at first, but you could apply it to you.

02:44:07.000 So, he shall rule over you.

02:44:10.000 You're demanding him to give you a big-ass wedding. 0.99

02:44:12.000 I'm not demanding him. 0.81

02:44:14.000 I think that's what I want.

02:44:15.000 He said that chat much earlier.

02:44:17.000 But what does he want?

02:44:19.000 What does he want?

02:44:20.000 Do you know?

02:44:21.000 I know what he wants out of me.

02:44:23.000 He doesn't care about a big wedding.

02:44:24.000 That's the whole point.

02:44:26.000 Okay.

02:44:27.000 He shall rule over you.

02:44:28.000 So do what he wants. 0.94

02:44:31.000 Which is probably not a big ass wedding.

02:44:34.000 Why can't I get what I want also?

02:44:37.000 Alright, nevermind.

02:44:38.000 Let's just move on, man.

02:44:39.000 I don't get it.

02:44:40.000 No, I'm just saying, right?

02:44:42.000 This big, extravagant wedding that you want, it's gonna cost some money.

02:44:46.000 The money that you guys are gonna spend on that, I get it, it's your decision, you can do whatever you want, but from a holistic standpoint, why blow on one day, you can spread out over a period of time?

02:44:55.000 I'm a multi-millionaire. 0.95

02:44:56.000 I would never spend fucking even $20,000 on a wedding. 0.99

02:45:00.000 Yeah. 0.99

02:45:01.000 Just to give you a little bit of perspective.

02:45:02.000 Well, then I don't think you're looking at high value women who have high expectations. 1.00

02:45:06.000 No, because I'm looking for a wife. 0.96

02:45:07.000 I'm not looking for a girl that wants to get married. 1.00

02:45:09.000 There's a difference.

02:45:11.000 You want to get married.

02:45:13.000 I'm looking for a wife. 0.92

02:45:14.000 I literally just said that I don't care about getting married.

02:45:16.000 That's the funny part.

02:45:17.000 You quite literally do.

02:45:19.000 I said I want to have a big wedding and I think that would be exciting.

02:45:22.000 That is the contingency.

02:45:23.000 But you want to get married.

02:45:24.000 You want to get married.

02:45:25.000 You want a wedding.

02:45:26.000 You don't necessarily want to be a wife. 0.98

02:45:27.000 That's what I'm trying to say.

02:45:28.000 I'm already a wife.

02:45:29.000 And I'll eventually have a big wedding.

02:45:31.000 You're living as husband and wife without the paper.

02:45:34.000 So basically, yeah.

02:45:35.000 So one day we'll have a big celebration.

02:45:37.000 Until then, it's fine.

02:45:40.000 We wish you the best, by the way.

02:45:46.000 Thank you.

02:45:48.000 You guys can have him on the show someday. 0.83

02:45:50.000 Chris, you brought on a literal retard. 1.00

02:45:52.000 Well, she left. 0.98

02:45:53.000 Both of them. 1.00

02:45:55.000 Yeah, those bitches are stupid. 1.00

02:45:56.000 Okay. 1.00

02:45:56.000 Xena the Witch. 1.00

02:45:57.000 That's cool and all, but what the fuck is she wearing? 0.99

02:46:00.000 Gloves? 0.99

02:46:01.000 Four.

02:46:02.000 Please answer that.

02:46:03.000 Also, Whitler in this bed.

02:46:04.000 Yeah, 24 W Misogany.

02:46:06.000 Okay.

02:46:06.000 Why are you wearing gloves?

02:46:07.000 She was on the show before it wasn't.

02:46:11.000 Because I can do that.

02:46:13.000 I'm a little chilly.

02:46:14.000 I like to keep my hands warm.

02:46:15.000 Okay.

02:46:17.000 It's Asia. 0.90

02:46:18.000 My name is Asia.

02:46:19.000 But your fingers are exposed and it's lace.

02:46:22.000 Does it really keep you warm?

02:46:23.000 It does, actually.

02:46:25.000 It's a cute accessory.

02:46:26.000 Thank you.

02:46:28.000 Okay. 1.00

02:46:28.000 Her sugar daddies must have manifested a bitch with low IQ and high pH and got a two-for-one deal. 1.00

02:46:35.000 Sanitize her secrets. 1.00

02:46:37.000 Wow.

02:46:39.000 That right there was a violation.

02:46:41.000 Okay.

02:46:41.000 Dreamer says, ladies, which girl on the panel would you choose as your daughter-in-law?

02:46:44.000 Which one do you choose to tell your son to stay away from?

02:46:48.000 We can start here.

02:46:50.000 When you would choose for daughter-in-law and what to stay away from.

02:46:53.000 You can pick the two chicks that got kicked out to if you wanted. 1.00

02:46:56.000 Daughter-in-law?

02:46:57.000 You can use them in this example is what I'm saying.

02:47:00.000 Daughter-in-law?

02:47:03.000 The one that was sitting in this corner.

02:47:08.000 Why did you pick her?

02:47:09.000 Give it raw.

02:47:10.000 She ain't here.

02:47:13.000 The way she just composed herself.

02:47:15.000 She was over-talking everyone. 0.94

02:47:19.000 She wouldn't let other people say what they had to say.

02:47:21.000 She just obviously wanted the center of attention. 0.99

02:47:25.000 That right there, I just feel like... 0.98

02:47:28.000 And she said she fucks on two sugar daddies at the same time. 1.00

02:47:32.000 I just... 0.99

02:47:34.000 Okay.

02:47:34.000 Save your chest.

02:47:35.000 What about you?

02:47:35.000 Yeah.

02:47:36.000 I would pick Julian for the daughter-in-law because she's very feminine and beautiful.

02:47:44.000 Victoria.

02:47:45.000 Victoria, because you also are sweet and feminine. 0.96

02:47:47.000 Thank you.

02:47:48.000 Not saying everybody else isn't, but I mean, we have to choose.

02:47:51.000 And then...

02:47:52.000 Cap! 0.95

02:47:52.000 Dr. 0.95

02:47:53.000 No, I'm serious.

02:47:54.000 I would say her because she's got trauma, and just with trauma comes that emotional...

02:48:00.000 Emotional damage!

02:48:02.000 Fair enough.

02:48:03.000 For you?

02:48:03.000 That's fair.

02:48:06.000 Myself?

02:48:07.000 I would say myself or Jillian, for sure, as a daughter-in-law.

02:48:11.000 As someone I would not want as my daughter-in-law, the woman that was next to me.

02:48:16.000 New York.

02:48:18.000 What was that?

02:48:19.000 The accent.

02:48:20.000 We love it.

02:48:22.000 But, I mean, someone promiscuous enough to have several sugar daddies, I would never want for my son to be married to. 1.00

02:48:32.000 Absolutely not.

02:48:33.000 Well said.

02:48:36.000 I think she's actually the perfect role model for a lot of women. 1.00

02:48:40.000 You know, I think guys secretly do want a girl that's more pure, that's less out there.

02:48:45.000 It's not a secret, that's what we want.

02:48:47.000 Well, some of them do want hoes. 1.00

02:48:49.000 They're like, hey, I'm ready to get the hoes. 1.00

02:48:50.000 You don't like the smash.

02:48:51.000 The smash.

02:48:52.000 The sex only category.

02:48:54.000 Yeah, but to actually wife up, yeah, they want a girl that's not out there catching bodies, out there partying every day, you know, somebody that kind of knows themselves. 1.00

02:48:54.000 True. 1.00

02:49:04.000 So she would definitely be the perfect, you know, daughter-in-law for anybody.

02:49:07.000 Who would you not pick then?

02:49:08.000 I mean, she was traumatized and it was bad because it was just like it was projecting.

02:49:13.000 And, you know, if somebody can't, you know, has been traumatized that bad to the point where they can't Maintain it in a public setting.

02:49:24.000 She just needs some more counseling, some more work. 0.98

02:49:27.000 So that wouldn't be what I would want if I had a son because I would want somebody that's more stable.

02:49:36.000 Yeah, trauma ruins women, man. 1.00

02:49:39.000 It makes me mad, but it ruins women. 1.00

02:49:41.000 What about you?

02:49:43.000 For my son, yeah.

02:49:45.000 That girl was... 1.00

02:49:46.000 I don't know, but this other girl, she was on drugs, so I don't know. 0.61

02:49:49.000 I don't know what's worse.

02:49:52.000 And then, honestly, for my son, myself, or one of these two lovely women here.

02:49:58.000 Okay.

02:50:00.000 For you?

02:50:03.000 Oh, I choose Jillian. 0.95

02:50:05.000 She's really sweet.

02:50:07.000 But she seems like she has no bad intentions.

02:50:10.000 She seems like she would live a virtuous life.

02:50:15.000 Alright.

02:50:15.000 Who not?

02:50:17.000 For trauma reasons.

02:50:20.000 Yikes.

02:50:21.000 Typical.

02:50:23.000 Jillian, what about you?

02:50:25.000 See, even girls know women are to be seen and not heard. 1.00

02:50:28.000 Says it all.

02:50:29.000 Alright, sorry.

02:50:30.000 Go ahead.

02:50:31.000 I would choose Melanie or Victoria for the daughter-in-law, and then probably the girl in the corner that left.

02:50:41.000 She's just very combative. 1.00

02:50:43.000 That's an understatement.

02:50:45.000 Yeah, very combative. 1.00

02:50:47.000 Fighting with fists too, goddamn. 1.00

02:50:48.000 Yeah. 1.00

02:50:56.000 I was gonna ask real quick because we're Would you be okay with your future guy be having other chicks? 1.00

02:51:08.000 Would you expect them to be monogamous to you? 1.00

02:51:09.000 I believe the only men really capable of Having multiple women like that, or the top 10, top 5% of men, that percentage wouldn't be looking for... 0.98

02:51:21.000 Okay.

02:51:22.000 You'd be settling down with a more average guy?

02:51:25.000 Yeah.

02:51:25.000 Yes.

02:51:26.000 But those men, the top 5, top 10, they wouldn't look for someone like me anyway.

02:51:30.000 Okay.

02:51:31.000 How about if your more average guy says, hey, I want to have other women, or you catch him cheating, let's say. 1.00

02:51:36.000 Would you break it up, or would you stay with him?

02:51:39.000 Is he my husband?

02:51:41.000 Yeah.

02:51:43.000 Is it a pattern?

02:51:45.000 Well, let's say you catch them cheating once.

02:51:47.000 Yeah.

02:51:48.000 Oh, that...

02:51:50.000 If we're married...

02:51:51.000 You stay?

02:51:52.000 Smart.

02:51:52.000 Yes.

02:51:53.000 Then you catch them cheating again, would you stay?

02:51:57.000 Do we have children together?

02:51:59.000 Yeah.

02:51:59.000 Let's say yeah.

02:52:01.000 For the statistical benefit of my children, I would stay.

02:52:05.000 Okay.

02:52:05.000 Let's see you catch them again.

02:52:07.000 I would want to keep the family under one home.

02:52:09.000 Let's see you catch them again, though.

02:52:12.000 Third time.

02:52:14.000 Let's say it is a pattern.

02:52:15.000 Do I have children?

02:52:16.000 Yes.

02:52:17.000 I'm going to put them first.

02:52:17.000 Okay.

02:52:18.000 Okay.

02:52:19.000 All right.

02:52:20.000 My answer would be pretty much identical to hers.

02:52:23.000 I would have to know that he's bringing everything else to the table for me to be...

02:52:29.000 I don't think...

02:52:30.000 I don't know.

02:52:30.000 I believe a lot in polarity, and I believe that when the polarity is balanced, as it should be between the masculine and feminine, I believe that causes the two people to be really attracted to each other.

02:52:41.000 And so...

02:52:43.000 I don't know.

02:52:44.000 One of the fundamental tenements of masculinity is having multiple women, though. 1.00

02:52:47.000 It's literally put in our DNA. Like, guys are literally programmed to want to have sex all the time.

02:52:53.000 I'm part of a group that's a relationship group, and the men in there I respect, I trust, and I look up to them, and they just have a different opinion.

02:53:02.000 I would like to share the group with you, actually.

02:53:04.000 They're telling you that.

02:53:05.000 But deep down?

02:53:06.000 Is that a choice to make?

02:53:08.000 I don't believe they're lying men.

02:53:10.000 Huh?

02:53:12.000 I don't know how to answer that without being in the position because like she said, I don't believe that the top percentage of men that are able to do that would be who I'm going to be married to.

02:53:23.000 So I would have to feel secure in every other way and I would want him to be honest because honesty is a big thing for me.

02:53:30.000 So then I could cope with it how I needed to cope with it.

02:53:33.000 I could talk to him about things openly instead of it being a hiding dark secret.

02:53:38.000 So are you okay with a man making maybe 50k per year, 5'7"?

02:53:41.000 Oh, if you only knew, yes.

02:53:43.000 My ex, yeah.

02:53:46.000 But you left him, though.

02:53:48.000 Well, I didn't, that wasn't my husband that I'm talking about, because my husband was taller.

02:53:56.000 And, yeah, this is so complicated.

02:53:58.000 I was hoping this didn't get this deep into it.

02:54:00.000 Was he black?

02:54:01.000 Every man I've ever dated.

02:54:04.000 Every man I've ever dated.

02:54:05.000 She's from Iowa, Chris.

02:54:06.000 Oh, there's lots of culture in Iowa, but diversity.

02:54:09.000 Was he black?

02:54:13.000 Sorry, continue on. 0.70

02:54:14.000 What was I even saying?

02:54:15.000 Oh, every man that I've ever dated, other than my husband, did not make...

02:54:19.000 I made more than money.

02:54:21.000 And they were all my same height.

02:54:23.000 And I'm saying all, like there's a bunch of them, like two.

02:54:26.000 But yeah, they were my height.

02:54:28.000 How tall are you?

02:54:29.000 5'6".

02:54:30.000 But my husband was taller than me.

02:54:32.000 He is taller than me.

02:54:33.000 I mean, he's still alive and everything.

02:54:35.000 But I don't blame him for our divorce.

02:54:39.000 And I don't blame me.

02:54:40.000 I blame the situation that has a lot to do with me being masculine in the sense of trying to fix things all the time.

02:54:48.000 I believe men are the fixers. 1.00

02:54:50.000 You were the breadwinner in that one, right?

02:54:52.000 It's a very complicated situation because he comes from a very well-to-do family, so he didn't have to work.

02:55:00.000 I call this a trust fund syndrome, where the guy has money, but he didn't develop the character and the attractive traits from making said money.

02:55:10.000 Therefore, he's able to provision, but he's not masculine because he hasn't went through the making.

02:55:16.000 He hasn't become the man to make that kind of money.

02:55:19.000 But he's still a very good man and has a lot like the qualities that I would look for.

02:55:23.000 It's just that dynamic of me going to work every day and me being the masculine one of trying to fix our problems because the men are supposed to be the ones fixing it.

02:55:32.000 I kept trying to solve the problems.

02:55:35.000 He didn't suffer enough to be able to understand that he's got to be the leader.

02:55:39.000 This is why men need to... 1.00

02:55:41.000 When I have my kids, my sons, I'll put them with my fucking parents. 1.00

02:55:45.000 They're going to live poor. 1.00

02:55:46.000 Fuck that shit. 1.00

02:55:46.000 And I grew up in poverty, so we came from very different backgrounds. 1.00

02:55:51.000 You got it out the mud while he got it out the fucking kitchen. 0.99

02:55:55.000 He's a good man. 0.99

02:55:55.000 But he's still... 0.99

02:55:57.000 I'm sure he is.

02:55:58.000 He also doesn't like the fact that he didn't experience that strife.

02:56:01.000 He wishes he had more hardship in life in a way, you know?

02:56:05.000 Alright, cool.

02:56:05.000 And you still left him?

02:56:06.000 Well, I didn't necessarily leave him.

02:56:09.000 It was more of a mutual divorce because we were living in a toxic environment.

02:56:14.000 A mutual?

02:56:14.000 Yeah.

02:56:15.000 Yeah, you left him.

02:56:16.000 Okay.

02:56:17.000 She left him, yeah.

02:56:18.000 It's fine.

02:56:19.000 You're the more masculine one. 1.00

02:56:20.000 He couldn't take that shit. 1.00

02:56:21.000 But that caused my whole paradigm shift. 1.00

02:56:23.000 So I'm grateful for the experience because that's the only reason that I opened my eyes.

02:56:29.000 Okay.

02:56:29.000 Because I got involved in these groups.

02:56:31.000 So you want monogamy though? 0.99

02:56:34.000 That's so hard to answer for me.

02:56:35.000 It's very hard to answer because I want to say yes, I do.

02:56:38.000 But in a certain situation, if he came to me honestly, like my needs aren't getting met.

02:56:44.000 And if I'm with a man where all I want to do is meet his needs, you know, I would be willing to sacrifice if it was the right situation.

02:56:52.000 Comes back to what I've said.

02:56:53.000 If the guy's value is high enough, man, she's going to accept it.

02:56:56.000 All right, cool.

02:56:57.000 What about you?

02:56:58.000 If I'm okay with my man being polyamorous?

02:57:01.000 Yeah, or polygamous or having other girls. 0.99

02:57:05.000 Honestly, I'm pretty...

02:57:07.000 I guess I have jealousy, so...

02:57:10.000 No?

02:57:11.000 What if you didn't know about it?

02:57:13.000 Like, you knew he was doing it, but he didn't show you the chicks.

02:57:16.000 I mean, if I knew about it, I honestly don't know if I could...

02:57:22.000 Stay?

02:57:23.000 Yeah.

02:57:24.000 How much money do you want your guy to make per year?

02:57:24.000 Okay.

02:57:29.000 At least over 100.

02:57:31.000 Okay.

02:57:32.000 How tall do you want him to be?

02:57:36.000 At least taller than me.

02:57:37.000 Which is?

02:57:38.000 At least over two inches taller than me.

02:57:40.000 Okay, give us that height.

02:57:41.000 Oh, I'm 5'4".

02:57:42.000 Okay, so you want the guy to be 5'6"?

02:57:44.000 Or above.

02:57:46.000 Okay, give us the bare minimum.

02:57:47.000 We'll keep it real.

02:57:48.000 Six feet?

02:57:49.000 5'10"?

02:57:50.000 Yeah, yeah.

02:57:50.000 5'8"?

02:57:51.000 Six feet, yeah.

02:57:52.000 Six feet, yeah.

02:57:53.000 Okay.

02:57:55.000 Does he have to be handsome?

02:57:57.000 No.

02:57:58.000 Looks is not everything. 0.92

02:57:59.000 So you can be ugly? 0.98

02:58:00.000 Yes. 0.98

02:58:02.000 So 6 feet, 100 gram per year.

02:58:05.000 You know what percentage of men fit that?

02:58:08.000 No.

02:58:09.000 Take a guess.

02:58:12.000 30%?

02:58:14.000 Interesting.

02:58:15.000 Is that your final answer?

02:58:17.000 15%.

02:58:18.000 Is that your final answer?

02:58:19.000 Yes.

02:58:23.000 The answer actually is more around 2-3% of guys meet that requirement.

02:58:28.000 100,000?

02:58:29.000 Well, remember, only 15% of men are 6 feet tall or above, and only 15% of the U.S. population makes about $100,000 or more.

02:58:38.000 That's men and women. 0.88

02:58:40.000 So, if you cut that in half, right, let's say 7%, and then you go ahead and add in the fact that you're the filter of 6 feet.

02:58:47.000 We're talking about the top 2-3% of men.

02:58:50.000 That would be ideally, but I... So let me ask you a question.

02:58:52.000 Let's say you get that guy.

02:58:54.000 Are there more beautiful women? 1.00

02:58:55.000 Are there more guys that meet his numbers, metrics?

02:59:04.000 That's a good question.

02:59:06.000 Who's more common, you or him?

02:59:09.000 I feel like I would be more common than...

02:59:12.000 So if you're more common, who has the leverage?

02:59:15.000 He does.

02:59:16.000 So who really picks if they're going to be monogamous or not? 1.00

02:59:19.000 He would.

02:59:21.000 So, would it be intelligent for you to leave that guy and find another guy that wants to do the same exact thing?

02:59:29.000 I'm not going to put up with that.

02:59:32.000 You've got to be making millions for me to accept Polly app. 0.98

02:59:37.000 Even better.

02:59:38.000 Do you know what percentage of men make a million dollars a year?

02:59:41.000 Six feet tall, too?

02:59:43.000 Less than 1%.

02:59:44.000 Way less.

02:59:45.000 Like 0.3.

02:59:46.000 Top 1% makes 400k a year.

02:59:49.000 You want a dude that makes a million and that's when they can accept the cheating? 1.00

02:59:55.000 See how ridiculous you sound now?

02:59:56.000 I'm just saying, me knowing myself, I would just be jealous and it would be toxic and I don't want to, you know... 0.80

03:00:02.000 Instead of trying to bend reality, why don't you just work on that and become more accepting of reality.

03:00:11.000 Like work on my jealousy?

03:00:13.000 I guess I would have to be put in that situation in order to work on it and hope that that person has the patience to deal with that jealousy.

03:00:21.000 What if I tell you in five years you're going to get punched in the stomach?

03:00:24.000 Would you go to the gym every day and do sit-ups and go train in the boxing gym and be prepared to get punched?

03:00:28.000 Or would you just sit there and say, I'll deal with it when I get punched?

03:00:33.000 I guess I'd rather train up for that.

03:00:35.000 Exactly.

03:00:36.000 So I'm telling you right now, if you meet that man, there's way less of him than there is of you.

03:00:40.000 So why not be prepared now and accept the fact that it probably will come with the type of guy that you're looking for.

03:00:46.000 You may miss your chance.

03:00:47.000 Waiting for it to happen.

03:00:49.000 Thanks.

03:00:51.000 I feel like I could build that man.

03:00:53.000 What?

03:00:54.000 Right?

03:00:55.000 Like anyone you can help.

03:00:56.000 Nah.

03:00:57.000 Let me explain something to you.

03:00:59.000 Guys that make a lot of money are never built by women. 1.00

03:01:02.000 So you don't feel like women have value?

03:01:05.000 What?

03:01:06.000 Women have value. 1.00

03:01:07.000 Women can bring value to the table. 1.00

03:01:09.000 Stupid. 1.00

03:01:10.000 He makes a million dollars. 1.00

03:01:11.000 Do you make a million dollars?

03:01:11.000 High-earning men?

03:01:13.000 Mm-hmm.

03:01:14.000 Don't need women to become high-earning men. 1.00

03:01:16.000 Do you not understand that it's intrinsic?

03:01:18.000 It's in their mind.

03:01:19.000 They're go-getters regardless of their situation.

03:01:22.000 So they don't need you.

03:01:23.000 That's what I'm trying to tell you.

03:01:24.000 Not every man is a go-getter.

03:01:27.000 The man that you want is a go-getter.

03:01:29.000 Okay.

03:01:30.000 So what I'm telling you is that he's self-made.

03:01:32.000 He doesn't need you.

03:01:35.000 So since he doesn't need you, you're replaceable.

03:01:37.000 Since you're replaceable, you need to act as if you're replaceable and understand that you're not special and get on his program.

03:01:43.000 But women don't like hearing this, that they're not special. 1.00

03:01:46.000 When you're with a guy that's attractive, there's way less of him than you.

03:01:50.000 There's beautiful girls turning 18 every day.

03:01:55.000 Be the main girl and be happy with that.

03:01:59.000 But women don't like hearing this. 1.00

03:02:01.000 Freshly 18?

03:02:02.000 Is that what you just said?

03:02:03.000 Yes.

03:02:03.000 There's new girls starting 18 every day.

03:02:05.000 So, for example, the man wants to be in a polygamous relationship.

03:02:13.000 Typically women were designed not to want to be in a polyamorous relationship. 1.00

03:02:22.000 I disagree.

03:02:23.000 You're designed to want to be in a polygamous relationship. 1.00

03:02:25.000 Maybe me.

03:02:25.000 I don't know.

03:02:26.000 Maybe not me.

03:02:27.000 But yeah, I guess...

03:02:29.000 Since the beginning of time, women have shared higher status men. 0.99

03:02:32.000 It's a survival tactic. 1.00

03:02:34.000 The only reason that women are able to say stupid shit like you guys are saying now, saying I want monogamy and all this other stuff, is because of feminism. 1.00

03:02:41.000 Feminism has told women that you can make your own money. 1.00

03:02:43.000 You can do your own thing.

03:02:44.000 You don't need a man. 0.89

03:02:45.000 Well, since you don't need a man... 0.88

03:02:47.000 We need each other, but...

03:02:49.000 You know society tells you don't need a man. 0.92

03:02:51.000 Okay, I think we do.

03:02:53.000 Okay, that's fine But society tells women in general they don't need a man So girls take this indoctrination say I don't need a man and they say I'm equal to a man I will not accept the man. 1.00

03:03:01.000 That's not monogamous to me What I'm saying is that before feminism before industrialization women needed men So since women needed men they had to deal with what men brought to the table and a lot of the time that was infidelity because the man was providing for her so girls understood that Well, am I going to survive and be with this man who takes care of me, 0.99

03:03:17.000 he loves me, but he fucks bitches from time to time? 1.00

03:03:19.000 Or am I going to go ahead and break up with him and be out on the streets or have to go back to my family? 1.00

03:03:24.000 Most women chose the former. 0.92

03:03:26.000 It's a survival tactic.

03:03:28.000 When a woman got conquered by Genghis Khan and his people, what did she have to do? 1.00

03:03:31.000 She had to acclimate to the new people.

03:03:34.000 This whole new concept of I'm equal to a man, monogamy, and all this other crap, it's a modern concept that, quite frankly, isn't how the world was built.

03:03:40.000 Sorry, guys, I'm...

03:03:41.000 Well, I was going to ask if you think the survival thing is why a lot of men aren't becoming that higher quality man because everybody's too comfortable just across the board.

03:03:51.000 I guess I'm kind of changing the subject.

03:03:53.000 I was going to say this a whole other way.

03:03:55.000 I was talking about women need men for survival, which is why polygamy is more natural for women. 1.00

03:04:02.000 Women are okay sharing their guy if he's high status enough. 1.00

03:04:06.000 But men are never okay sharing their girl.

03:04:08.000 I see what you're saying. 1.00

03:04:09.000 That's why when she said that shit about those two sugar daddies and they know each other, I know that they're pussies. 1.00

03:04:14.000 No guy that's worth his weight is ever gonna allow his girl to fuck another girl. 1.00

03:04:18.000 Or they don't care about her. 1.00

03:04:19.000 Which I think it's actually they don't give a fuck about her. 1.00

03:04:21.000 And then she's like, ah, this is some random bitch that we fuck. 1.00

03:04:23.000 That's more likely what it is. 1.00

03:04:25.000 But once a man starts to actually put boundaries on you, here's some game for you ladies. 1.00

03:04:29.000 Once a guy says, I don't like you going to a club.

03:04:32.000 Hey, I don't like these pictures.

03:04:33.000 Or, hey, you shouldn't leave the house dressed like that. 0.99

03:04:35.000 It means he gives a fuck about you. 0.99

03:04:36.000 You should be happy. 0.99

03:04:38.000 Instead of saying, no, I'm gonna dress the way I want. 0.99

03:04:40.000 Okay, I ain't taking this bitch serious. 1.00

03:04:41.000 I agree. 0.99

03:04:42.000 You're right.

03:04:43.000 When a man starts to pull boundaries on you, that's when he actually cares.

03:04:46.000 When he doesn't pull boundaries on you, he doesn't care.

03:04:47.000 So that's why it's one of the two things. 1.00

03:04:49.000 Those sugar daddies either are simps and they're suckers, or, which I think, she's just a hoe that they're fucking. 1.00

03:04:56.000 And that's how they look at her. 1.00

03:04:58.000 You turn, huh?

03:05:00.000 Alright, we'll do the last thoughts.

03:05:00.000 She's not contributing to anything in the conversation anyway, so it's fine.

03:05:07.000 But ladies, does that make sense? 0.81

03:05:09.000 I get it.

03:05:12.000 I just don't think it's a safe lifestyle for me personally.

03:05:16.000 That's why I wouldn't want to go with it.

03:05:18.000 If you're having sex with a bunch of girls, you can get a lot of them pregnant, you can catch ACDs, y'all can get drunk, all kinds of stuff.

03:05:28.000 What if it breaks?

03:05:29.000 All kinds of things can happen.

03:05:30.000 99%.

03:05:31.000 What if something happens?

03:05:35.000 Like what?

03:05:36.000 There's all kinds of things.

03:05:37.000 You know what I love?

03:05:38.000 Girls always use the safety excuse for why they want to accept polygamy, but that's not the real reason. 1.00

03:05:43.000 Your ego can't handle him fucking another bitch. 1.00

03:05:45.000 That's the reality. 1.00

03:05:46.000 Yep.

03:05:47.000 Okay, so what if he gave me something?

03:05:50.000 I would be pretty upset about that. 0.99

03:05:51.000 Y'all be fucking niggas raw anyway. 1.00

03:05:53.000 Yeah, y'all be fucking niggas raw anyway. 1.00

03:05:56.000 Girls always cite diseases as the reason why they want to accept polygamy. 1.00

03:06:02.000 The reality is y'all can't fathom him having sex with another girl because you can't fathom having sex with another man if you're in a relationship.

03:06:09.000 But we are not the same. 0.65

03:06:11.000 We can have sex with other girls and love our chick the same. 1.00

03:06:13.000 Your guy that's been with you for years can go fuck a hooker, come back to you, and love you the same. 1.00

03:06:17.000 But you, on the other hand, can't go fuck another guy and love him the same. 1.00

03:06:20.000 If you fuck another guy, you're checked out. 1.00

03:06:22.000 Bars. 1.00

03:06:25.000 Your argument was, oh, you're not special.

03:06:28.000 You're replaceable.

03:06:29.000 The guy is not replaceable.

03:06:31.000 Once you reach a certain level of guy, it's hard to replace him.

03:06:35.000 The man you described is hard to find.

03:06:38.000 But that doesn't mean that just because he's a high-status man that he's not loyal.

03:06:44.000 They wish you the best, honestly.

03:06:47.000 If you don't make that connection.

03:06:50.000 I feel like when you're doing that with multiple women, you're looking for something in multiple women because one woman doesn't have everything that you want. 0.59

03:06:58.000 No, it's just sex.

03:06:59.000 And that's it? 0.98

03:07:00.000 Like, it's just because we're just that carnal.

03:07:03.000 We're that animalistic. 0.99

03:07:04.000 Does every pussy feel different or something? 1.00

03:07:07.000 Men just want to have sex with different girls. 1.00

03:07:09.000 Like, I mean... 0.88

03:07:10.000 Like, I just, you know, they can just get that out of their way before they get in a relationship.

03:07:14.000 You know what?

03:07:14.000 I'm going to do the candy store analogy.

03:07:16.000 Oh, you know what?

03:07:17.000 Go ahead.

03:07:17.000 I thought somebody said that after, like, 10 girls, the guy said to 10 girls, like, he's done.

03:07:22.000 No, it's not that he's done.

03:07:23.000 It's just that you can...

03:07:24.000 Yeah, it's harder to build a connection.

03:07:25.000 Divorce rates go down or something like that.

03:07:27.000 Because, you know, it messes with the women, too. 1.00

03:07:28.000 Like...

03:07:30.000 You know what, ladies? 1.00

03:07:31.000 How about this?

03:07:32.000 How about this?

03:07:34.000 I'm gonna give you guys an analogy. 0.98

03:07:35.000 If you don't understand this, I fucking give up. 0.96

03:07:37.000 Alright? 0.99

03:07:38.000 There's a candy store.

03:07:40.000 Alright?

03:07:42.000 This candy store is highly desired.

03:07:44.000 Everyone wants to go.

03:07:46.000 But, the women are allowed in at 18 years old. 0.99

03:07:49.000 The men, however, can't go into this candy store until they're 35, have $100,000 saved up, and been going to the gym consistently for 5 years.

03:07:58.000 Right?

03:07:59.000 So, as you can see, the women go in, 18 years old, no line. 1.00

03:08:04.000 On the guy's side, there's a line around the fucking corner. 0.99

03:08:06.000 Right? 0.99

03:08:08.000 So the guys...

03:08:10.000 Every now and then, two or three guys hits that number, 35 years old, $100,000 saved, the gym, etc. 0.99

03:08:15.000 They let them into the fucking candy store, right? 0.98

03:08:19.000 You've been in there chilling, figuring out, oh, I like this aisle. 1.00

03:08:22.000 I like chocolate.

03:08:23.000 Some of y'all figure out you like chocolate.

03:08:24.000 Some of you guys like white chocolate. 0.67

03:08:25.000 Some of you guys like Tootsie Rolls, which are disgusting, but whatever.

03:08:28.000 Some of you guys figure out you don't like candy corn.

03:08:29.000 Some of you guys do like candy corn.

03:08:31.000 But at some point, you start to stick in the aisle that you like.

03:08:33.000 You figure out what candy you like.

03:08:34.000 You've been there for a bit.

03:08:35.000 You know the candy store very well, right?

03:08:36.000 You know what aisles to stay away from, which aisles to go to.

03:08:39.000 The five guys are let in.

03:08:40.000 Bang! 1.00

03:08:41.000 They go crazy! 1.00

03:08:42.000 They're swinging on the fucking rafters. 1.00

03:08:44.000 They're eating all the candy. 1.00

03:08:45.000 They're eating Tootsie Rolls that you guys left there five years ago because you realize this shit is disgusting. 1.00

03:08:50.000 And then on top of that, dudes are outside screaming, yeah, eat that candy! 1.00

03:08:54.000 Woo! 0.99

03:08:55.000 Cheering for them.

03:08:56.000 They're going nuts!

03:08:57.000 Right?

03:08:58.000 You, on the other hand, you've been there for ten plus years. 0.99

03:09:00.000 You're like, what the fuck is wrong with these guys? 0.97

03:09:02.000 So you're pulling these guys aside, like, yo! 0.99

03:09:03.000 Woo! 0.99

03:09:04.000 What's wrong with you, bro?

03:09:05.000 Like, why are you eating all this candy? 1.00

03:09:07.000 And the guy looks you in the face and says, you don't have to bust your ass to get in here. 1.00

03:09:11.000 Shut up. 1.00

03:09:12.000 I'm going to have as many pieces of candy as I want. 1.00

03:09:14.000 And that's what women don't understand. 1.00

03:09:16.000 Men have to bust their ass to get into the candy store. 1.00

03:09:18.000 You don't. 0.99

03:09:20.000 So how are you going to tell them how many pieces of candy you can eat?

03:09:25.000 What is the candy store, though?

03:09:27.000 What?

03:09:27.000 I'm sorry, like...

03:09:28.000 The candy is the women. 1.00

03:09:29.000 Bro, you can't be that dense.

03:09:30.000 Oh, the women? 0.99

03:09:31.000 It's an analogy for life.

03:09:33.000 Oh my God, bro.

03:09:34.000 Did you come up with that yourself?

03:09:35.000 It comes with self-control.

03:09:36.000 Self-control is a really good thing to have.

03:09:38.000 How are you going to tell him to self-control when you didn't have to control yourself?

03:09:41.000 You can't eat all.

03:09:41.000 You're in a candy store.

03:09:42.000 You can get diabetes from all that sugar.

03:09:44.000 Stop.

03:09:45.000 You didn't have to work to get into the candy store.

03:09:47.000 How are you going to tell him how many pieces of candy you can eat?

03:09:51.000 Well, that's what I'm saying.

03:09:52.000 I'm not telling him what he can, but I'm just saying it's not a good idea to eat all that candy.

03:09:57.000 And I'm telling you, the guys are going to eat the candy anyway, so what do you want to do about it?

03:10:00.000 You've got to prepare for them coming in.

03:10:02.000 You've just got to make sure you're the favorite candy.

03:10:05.000 But the women don't want to do the work and become the favorite candy. 1.00

03:10:07.000 I want to be able to exist and act like, no, just like me because I'm candy.

03:10:11.000 No, there's a bunch of Tootsie Rolls in here that are just like you.

03:10:14.000 What do you cheat on me? 1.00

03:10:16.000 What do you cheat on me? 1.00

03:10:17.000 Oh my God.

03:10:18.000 I agree.

03:10:18.000 Women should work on themselves.

03:10:20.000 They got to be their best version.

03:10:21.000 True.

03:10:22.000 Everybody.

03:10:23.000 But most women don't feel like they have to work on themselves. 1.00

03:10:26.000 They should, though.

03:10:27.000 Most don't feel like they have to.

03:10:28.000 But they won't.

03:10:29.000 I'm special.

03:10:29.000 Body positivity.

03:10:30.000 Accept me as I am, nigga.

03:10:32.000 That's how most girls think. 1.00

03:10:33.000 The two bitches that were in here, that's how they think. 1.00

03:10:37.000 I think they'll be happier. 0.99

03:10:39.000 If you work on yourself, you'll be much happier with yourself and in a relationship, for sure.

03:10:44.000 Once again, the moral of the story is this.

03:10:46.000 You didn't have to work to get into the candy store.

03:10:48.000 You can't tell the guys that had to work to get into the candy store how much candy they can eat.

03:10:52.000 You have some?

03:10:53.000 Please.

03:10:53.000 Yeah.

03:10:54.000 So, I think, I don't know, I could be inferring But I think what he's trying to say is it may not be moral, and it may not be moral in the eyes of God, but it's going to happen because they're innately going to do that.

03:11:10.000 So, I mean, it is what it is.

03:11:13.000 And if you want monogamy, be the best version of yourself.

03:11:19.000 Work towards it.

03:11:21.000 That won't even save you, though.

03:11:25.000 Try and be irreplaceable.

03:11:27.000 Just be the main girl. 0.97

03:11:28.000 Be hard to replace.

03:11:30.000 Be the main girl. 0.77

03:11:30.000 That was sweet. 0.77

03:11:32.000 But he's always going to want new pussy. 1.00

03:11:32.000 That was nice. 1.00

03:11:33.000 Make the best connection with them for sure. 1.00

03:11:35.000 But he's still going to want new pussy. 1.00

03:11:36.000 Yeah, that won't help either. 1.00

03:11:39.000 Why can't y'all just accept it, bro?

03:11:41.000 Why can't y'all just accept it?

03:11:43.000 I don't know.

03:11:44.000 I would just rather not deal with it at all.

03:11:46.000 Completely.

03:11:47.000 I don't want to deal with it at all.

03:11:48.000 I've been single.

03:11:49.000 I've been single.

03:11:49.000 Yeah, it's fine.

03:11:50.000 I don't want to deal with that lifestyle.

03:11:54.000 Truthfully.

03:11:55.000 It's okay.

03:11:55.000 This one's saving him.

03:11:56.000 Alright. 0.94

03:11:58.000 I call the cast of the black dude in bra. 1.00

03:12:01.000 W. Big balls. 1.00

03:12:03.000 Alright. 1.00

03:12:04.000 Amorsk, they don't from fresh and the one in pink are low-key dumb as fuck. 1.00

03:12:07.000 The pink hair keeps cheering the morons on. 1.00

03:12:09.000 Kick them off. 1.00

03:12:10.000 Fucking annoying, bro. 1.00

03:12:12.000 Yeah, they're gone, bro. 1.00

03:12:14.000 Dreamer says, blame my society?

03:12:15.000 If I was raised in a rough environment, taught to sell drugs, and they got in trouble for selling the drugs, who's to blame?

03:12:20.000 Society or my decisions?

03:12:21.000 That's going back to that girl, because she kept saying, I'm a product of my environment, which is a typical naked thing to say.

03:12:26.000 Like, oh, yo, I'm a product of my environment, bro.

03:12:29.000 Sorry, I'm a criminal.

03:12:30.000 Like, no, you can do better. 1.00

03:12:31.000 The fuck? 1.00

03:12:32.000 Thing says, I just have to donate for Miss Canada. 1.00

03:12:35.000 She's representing us in the North flawlessly.

03:12:37.000 More like her on the panel in the future, she gives us hope.

03:12:39.000 Yeah, bro, don't...

03:12:41.000 Hope is, uh...

03:12:43.000 Yeah, we've interviewed...

03:12:44.000 You know what?

03:12:45.000 We've interviewed how many girls on this show? 1.00

03:12:47.000 Almost?

03:12:47.000 1900?

03:12:48.000 1900, but there's two versions right here.

03:12:49.000 I think we've only...

03:12:51.000 I think we've had less than 10 versions on this show.

03:12:52.000 Yeah, less than 10.

03:12:53.000 So that should give you guys...

03:12:54.000 Yeah, that should live. 0.98

03:12:55.000 And then two on one night is fucking crazy. 0.97

03:12:58.000 Breaking records here, girl. 0.99

03:13:00.000 It's Kuma says...

03:13:01.000 Kuma-san says, yo, Kelsey, go see a therapist. 0.80

03:13:05.000 Stop being a headache. 0.95

03:13:06.000 Walk around the world broken as hell. 1.00

03:13:07.000 Get your shit together. 1.00

03:13:09.000 I think that was the... 1.00

03:13:10.000 Oh, the Jamaican girl. 1.00

03:13:12.000 Yeah, yeah.

03:13:13.000 And then modern tradition says, trauma should have humbled women. 1.00

03:13:17.000 Instead, it made her a pain in the ass and a headache to deal with. 1.00

03:13:19.000 Humbled women. 1.00

03:13:21.000 Bro.

03:13:22.000 Somebody paid $10 to say bro.

03:13:25.000 It was probably when that chick was wilding out. 1.00

03:13:28.000 She got kicked out.

03:13:29.000 She got kicked out? 0.99

03:13:30.000 Oh yeah, because she wouldn't fucking leave. 0.99

03:13:32.000 Yo guys, do me a quick favor. 0.98

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03:13:57.000 Yeah, what the hell?

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03:14:06.000 Go ahead, Fresh, your favorite part, right?

03:14:07.000 Okay.

03:14:08.000 Well, I mean, you want to do another hour?

03:14:11.000 I'm always down.

03:14:12.000 I'm always down.

03:14:13.000 Well, we should turn to ladies to ask a question if they want. 1.00

03:14:15.000 Okay, ladies. 1.00

03:14:16.000 Questions, comments, or a lot of thoughts on the show?

03:14:18.000 We'll start right here.

03:14:21.000 Not right now.

03:14:21.000 Not that I can think of.

03:14:23.000 You can accept cheating now that you know the numbers?

03:14:27.000 Are you going to accept cheating now that you know the numbers that your guy is?

03:14:30.000 I'll work on my jealousy.

03:14:32.000 Okay.

03:14:32.000 That's all we ask for.

03:14:34.000 There you go.

03:14:34.000 I would just like to say that I do not believe there's any such thing as toxic masculinity.

03:14:39.000 Oh, cool.

03:14:40.000 People are just who they are.

03:14:42.000 There's masculine men, there's masculine women, there's feminine men, there's feminine women, and there's toxic people. 1.00

03:14:50.000 But there's no such thing as toxic masculinity.

03:14:53.000 I like that.

03:14:55.000 Well said.

03:14:56.000 Hezka.

03:14:56.000 Yeah, and I don't think there's toxic femininity either.

03:14:58.000 I just think there's toxic people.

03:14:59.000 Yeah, bad people are everywhere.

03:15:01.000 Yeah, trying to say something is toxic.

03:15:03.000 I mean, yeah, whatever. 1.00

03:15:04.000 It's stupid. 1.00

03:15:05.000 What about you? 1.00

03:15:06.000 You said last thoughts.

03:15:09.000 Thank you so much for having me.

03:15:11.000 I've been watching this podcast for a little over a year now.

03:15:14.000 I think I was silent for the most part because I agree with most of what you two gentlemen say.

03:15:22.000 Continue to preserve your value.

03:15:24.000 Thank you.

03:15:25.000 Shout out to y'all, man.

03:15:28.000 Make it virgins cool again.

03:15:31.000 And here's the other thing too I want to say. 0.99

03:15:33.000 Don't let no other girl fucking try to shame you and tell you, nah, whatever. 1.00

03:15:36.000 Women be sabotaging each other. 1.00

03:15:38.000 That just means they're jealous.

03:15:39.000 You did a good job.

03:15:40.000 Thank you very much.

03:15:42.000 So, I appreciate being here.

03:15:44.000 It was great.

03:15:45.000 It was fun.

03:15:46.000 I think just kind of Oh, sorry.

03:15:48.000 I just think a kind of a lot of it comes from just maybe it was just my perspective, but I do appreciate hearing everybody else, you know, what they know, what they've experienced.

03:15:57.000 But what I found in the past is, you know, sex does complicate a lot of things.

03:16:05.000 When you have sex with somebody, it just is what it is.

03:16:07.000 You can't go around it.

03:16:08.000 So that's where I come from when I say I want monogamy, you know, and I do want to be realistic at the same time.

03:16:16.000 I want to be able to try to cater to whenever I do get into a relationship to my man's needs.

03:16:22.000 So I'll definitely put it into perspective.

03:16:24.000 However, me personally, with what I know, people, when it comes to sex, they're not very educated on what it is, what it does.

03:16:32.000 And I just think from there, that's where things can start to, you know, be better.

03:16:38.000 You know, amended between men and women when we understand what we're doing.

03:16:42.000 You know, if we're just banging people senselessly, we just get lost in the sauce.

03:16:46.000 Yes, girl, yes. 0.78

03:16:48.000 Banging people senselessly. 1.00

03:16:50.000 Banging them senselessly. 0.98

03:16:51.000 Yeah, and it's just like, okay, I've got another appointment.

03:16:54.000 You know, there's a lot to deal with.

03:16:57.000 I would rather just do something, you know, just more creative with my brain, truthfully.

03:17:00.000 Because, like, sex energy...

03:17:02.000 It's the energy.

03:17:03.000 You can convert that into better things.

03:17:05.000 Sometimes you have to tell yourself, hey, I don't have to do this.

03:17:09.000 It's okay.

03:17:10.000 I'm going to do something better.

03:17:11.000 It's fine.

03:17:12.000 Yeah, that's what you want, though.

03:17:13.000 I know.

03:17:14.000 I'm speaking for myself.

03:17:15.000 Yeah, but I'll definitely keep that in consideration.

03:17:18.000 But the man doesn't want that.

03:17:19.000 Well, some of them.

03:17:20.000 Some of them. 1.00

03:17:21.000 Most guys want to fuck girls, bro. 1.00

03:17:23.000 I agree. 1.00

03:17:24.000 Get this through your head.

03:17:25.000 I get it.

03:17:26.000 That's what I'm saying.

03:17:28.000 Yo, if you argue like this with your men...

03:17:30.000 Here's the other thing, too.

03:17:30.000 I'm not.

03:17:31.000 You're 30 years old.

03:17:32.000 You ain't getting no younger. 0.99

03:17:34.000 You out here with these demands and shit like that? 1.00

03:17:37.000 I just don't want to have sex with somebody that's having sex with a bunch of people. 1.00

03:17:37.000 I don't have demands. 1.00

03:17:41.000 That's it.

03:17:42.000 He can hang out with her.

03:17:42.000 I mean...

03:17:43.000 They can hug.

03:17:44.000 I don't care.

03:17:45.000 It's not a big deal.

03:17:46.000 I mean, 30 years old, brain damage.

03:17:47.000 If you were 21 making these demands, it'd be different.

03:17:52.000 But bro, you 30.

03:17:53.000 You got to take what you can get at this point.

03:17:55.000 Yeah, thanks.

03:17:56.000 The casino's about to close soon for you.

03:17:57.000 You're funny.

03:17:58.000 You're funny.

03:17:59.000 Adrian.

03:18:00.000 You're hilarious.

03:18:01.000 I'm being honest.

03:18:02.000 You're funny.

03:18:03.000 Adrian.

03:18:19.000 Men overwhelmingly prefer women between 18 and 24.

03:18:23.000 It's cute.

03:18:24.000 It's the truth.

03:18:25.000 I get it, but you know You're not winning this battle.

03:18:28.000 We don't have to talk about this.

03:18:31.000 And this is another reason why guys don't like older women. 0.97

03:18:34.000 Because y'all are stuck in your ways.

03:18:36.000 I'm telling you factual things and you're saying, well, I think so.

03:18:40.000 I get it.

03:18:41.000 Look, I told you that, hey, I'm going to keep an open mind about men if they want to be polygraphic. 0.65

03:18:48.000 That's it.

03:18:49.000 That's all I said.

03:18:50.000 Keep an open mind.

03:18:52.000 Okay.

03:18:52.000 I just don't agree with it, but I mean, I'll keep an open mind.

03:18:55.000 I swear to God, but you talk a lot, n***a. 1.00

03:18:58.000 I don't know if it's funny. 0.98

03:19:02.000 It's funny.

03:19:09.000 It's Rumble.

03:19:14.000 Tell us your thoughts.

03:19:15.000 Tell us your thoughts.

03:19:17.000 I was just going to say that I liked his little candy shop analogy.

03:19:22.000 Take it to the candy shop.

03:19:23.000 But I also would think that it would be interesting to think of it in a way like the girls that you guys are looking for, maybe if you only allowed those to enter the candy store, then maybe it would be even.

03:19:38.000 We can't control the candy store.

03:19:40.000 I know what I'm saying.

03:19:41.000 I'm saying there would be less options for you if you were focused on what actually tasted good, essentially.

03:19:46.000 The kind of girls that you guys are looking for, right?

03:19:49.000 You guys are looking for women who haven't slept around, right? 0.95

03:19:51.000 So that's going to eliminate candy in the store, right?

03:19:54.000 Okay, you're literally going immediately off.

03:19:57.000 You're taking the analogy a bit too literally.

03:20:00.000 But since you want to go that route...

03:20:01.000 No, I'm just curious.

03:20:03.000 The point is that the women are allowed into the candy store at 18. 1.00

03:20:07.000 Nothing else.

03:20:08.000 So they're just allowed in.

03:20:09.000 So whether the woman is aware...

03:20:12.000 Hey, she might go in a candy store and not eat a piece, but she's still in there. 1.00

03:20:15.000 And she's able to see what's going on.

03:20:17.000 That's why a regular 18-year-old girl that does nothing can get invited on a yacht with millionaires. 0.99

03:20:23.000 A regular 18-year-old guy will never get invited on a yacht with millionaires.

03:20:27.000 That's the difference.

03:20:28.000 Okay.

03:20:29.000 I thought you guys were talking about when it comes to being monogamous.

03:20:33.000 As a guy in the candy shop, it's going to be...

03:20:38.000 You're going to have all these options, right?

03:20:40.000 If you have all these women.

03:20:41.000 But I think that the women that the guys are looking for, if I'm thinking of it in the candy shop store, if they have a wide variety of women who haven't slept around, haven't done all these things, haven't been on these yachts, have been very raised correctly, then there's a lot less options.

03:20:58.000 And I think the men would be Loyal.

03:21:00.000 The candy is the women. 1.00

03:21:02.000 The candy represents the women. 0.97

03:21:06.000 So there's a lot less candy that you guys actually want.

03:21:09.000 No, you want to try every candy because you just got in there.

03:21:12.000 And you've been waiting for 17 years to get inside.

03:21:15.000 Oh, ultimately it's like eight years.

03:21:16.000 Yeah, eight years.

03:21:17.000 Well, no, I said, well, her boyfriend. 0.99

03:21:21.000 But yeah, the point of the analogy is that men have to bust their ass to get in the candy store, which is a dating marketplace versus women don't have to. 0.96

03:21:28.000 So, of course, you guys aren't going to appreciate it to the same degree and you would think, yo, I want a guy to be a monogamous to me, but you can say that. 0.97

03:21:34.000 That sounds great, but you don't have to work to get in a candy store.

03:21:39.000 We had to work on something.

03:21:41.000 I'm talking about the girls that you guys actually want, right?

03:21:43.000 As wives. 0.99

03:21:45.000 Not just to have sex with. 0.64

03:21:48.000 When a man is attractive enough to be able to get a girl or girls, they're going to want to explore and have those girls.

03:21:57.000 So they don't care about body count?

03:21:59.000 No.

03:22:00.000 They're going to wife up the best one, but they're going to want to have other girls. 1.00

03:22:04.000 But do you think the one that they wife up is going to accept that?

03:22:09.000 Most women... 1.00

03:22:09.000 Because I'm talking to the girl, like we just interviewed the girls who haven't had sex with people, right? 1.00

03:22:12.000 You know what, let me ask you a question.

03:22:13.000 You're with your man right now, right?

03:22:15.000 Let's say you guys went on vacation and he decided to propose to you, right?

03:22:21.000 But before he proposed to you, you knew it was coming because he took you to the place that you guys met, right?

03:22:27.000 Before he proposed to you, you find out that he used to be a porn star and he did a gangbang with 10 girls. 0.91

03:22:33.000 He banged all of them. 0.98

03:22:34.000 He was the only guy who knows 10 chicks.

03:22:37.000 And he said, hey, I got the money for the wedding.

03:22:39.000 We're going to get married.

03:22:41.000 Would you break up with him?

03:22:43.000 When did he gangbang these girls?

03:22:45.000 I'm asking you.

03:22:46.000 10 years ago.

03:22:47.000 Oh, I wouldn't care.

03:22:48.000 Because it was before me.

03:22:48.000 You wouldn't care.

03:22:51.000 You triggered my trap card!

03:22:53.000 Because a woman's past... 1.00

03:22:53.000 Duh! 1.00

03:22:55.000 Well, women don't... 1.00

03:22:56.000 Sorry, excuse me.

03:22:56.000 Because a woman doesn't care about a man's past.

03:22:58.000 Let's reverse it, though.

03:22:59.000 Yeah, I'm talking about interrelationship.

03:23:00.000 Hold on.

03:23:01.000 Let's reverse it.

03:23:02.000 I guarantee you, if he was going to propose to you and he saw a video of you getting banged by ten guys, he would call off the wedding.

03:23:09.000 Okay.

03:23:10.000 I'm talking about interrelationship, though.

03:23:11.000 Not, like, before or after.

03:23:15.000 Like, these girls just said that they would most likely, they would rather have a guy who was loyal to them only.

03:23:21.000 So that's what the girls that you guys want to wife up are looking for. 1.00

03:23:24.000 Does that not interest you to know that?

03:23:26.000 No, because women don't, you quite literally proved my point a second ago. 1.00

03:23:30.000 Ladies, do you not see what, like, I asked you, he fucked a bunch of girls ten years ago on camera. 1.00

03:23:34.000 You don't care. 0.99

03:23:35.000 You're still doing the wedding.

03:23:36.000 Because women don't care about a man's past when it comes to sexuality. 1.00

03:23:39.000 They care about the future.

03:23:40.000 Exactly.

03:23:41.000 So, but a man, on the other hand, cares a lot about a woman's past.

03:23:45.000 So, women, you could say, oh, well, girls want the guy to be loyal, blah, blah, blah. 0.99

03:23:48.000 It doesn't matter if he was loyal before or if he had sex with a bunch of girls. 0.60

03:23:53.000 I'm talking about in the future relationship.

03:23:57.000 You're trying to get with girls who have a low body count. 1.00

03:24:00.000 You're trying to get with girls who have a low body count, right? 1.00

03:24:03.000 And there's not going to be a lot of them.

03:24:05.000 And the ones that are that way are looking for men.

03:24:10.000 She's saying that if there was another shop full of creme brulee and the most immaculate desserts that are not just candy, but completely above candy.

03:24:18.000 That's what she's trying to say.

03:24:19.000 We understand what she's saying, but she's not understanding the foundation.

03:24:23.000 Those women aren't looking for the guys who are going to sleep around. 1.00

03:24:26.000 They don't want the men in the candy store, is what she's saying.

03:24:29.000 They don't want the men that are going to be checking on them.

03:24:30.000 Hold on, hold on.

03:24:31.000 Here's the thing.

03:24:33.000 The men...

03:24:33.000 They didn't save themselves this entire long just so that they could get a relationship with the guy who's gonna cheat on them.

03:24:37.000 You just heard her say, experience is good.

03:24:39.000 She said that she doesn't...

03:24:41.000 I'm not talking about the past.

03:24:43.000 I'm talking about in the future.

03:24:44.000 She does not want to have a guy who's sleeping around while he's with her. 0.99

03:24:46.000 She didn't know what hurt her.

03:24:48.000 Oh my god.

03:24:48.000 Yo, like, do you not understand?

03:24:51.000 Like, you're saying, I don't want a guy that's sleeping around, blah, blah, blah.

03:24:53.000 Mm-hmm.

03:24:54.000 The most attractive men sleep around.

03:24:56.000 Yeah.

03:24:59.000 The most attractive men sleep around.

03:25:00.000 For the guy to be attractive to you, he probably was attractive to her and to her and to her and to her.

03:25:05.000 The most attractive men are playboys.

03:25:08.000 Playboys are attractive because they have attractive traits to a multitude of different women and their ability to attract and have sex with other women is what makes them attractive in the first place.

03:25:16.000 I'm just giving you a tip on what girls who have low body counts are looking for and it's not that. 1.00

03:25:22.000 Even if they are attractive.

03:25:23.000 Yes.

03:25:24.000 I just asked you a second ago. 0.98

03:25:25.000 You found out your husband fucked 10 girls 10 years ago on camera and you said you would still do the wedding. 0.99

03:25:30.000 Yeah. 0.99

03:25:30.000 Thank you for contradicting yourself. 0.99

03:25:32.000 I have a low body.

03:25:34.000 How does that contradict myself?

03:25:36.000 Watch this back with your guy and then you can understand. 0.99

03:25:38.000 Yo, chat, what the fuck is going on right now? 0.97

03:25:40.000 You're talking about the past and she's talking about being cheated on in the relationship. 0.99

03:25:40.000 I don't know, bro. 0.99

03:25:45.000 I'm not talking about this.

03:25:46.000 I'm talking about a current relationship.

03:25:49.000 Women with low body counts from the past and the current relationship are going to be looking for a man who hasn't slept around. 1.00

03:25:55.000 Let's say you guys have your wedding and then you find out they had sex with two girls after the wedding.

03:26:03.000 Would you realistically leave him? 0.67

03:26:05.000 Yeah, most likely.

03:26:06.000 You wouldn't leave him.

03:26:07.000 You would not leave him.

03:26:09.000 At that point, you would be 27 years old.

03:26:11.000 You guys would have been married.

03:26:12.000 You guys have been together for 10 years.

03:26:14.000 You would leave him?

03:26:16.000 Most likely.

03:26:17.000 The answer is no.

03:26:19.000 Someone said, no, I know why she's still not married. 1.00

03:26:27.000 You're saying that you would leave him, but you wouldn't. 0.99

03:26:29.000 Because when you proposed to him and you found out, or when he proposed to you and he had 10 girls that he fucked on camera, you didn't care then. 0.99

03:26:36.000 I promise you, you would not leave him if you found out he cheated on you. 0.97

03:26:39.000 And if you did, you ain't like him that much. 0.98

03:26:42.000 Which might be why you're trying to get him to pay for an expensive ass wedding. 1.00

03:26:45.000 You guys can bring up the expensive wedding. 1.00

03:26:47.000 Listen, man, when a woman truly loves, admires, and respects you and desires you, she don't give a fuck. 0.99

03:26:52.000 She just wants to get, like, tie you down immediately. 1.00

03:26:55.000 Hey, man, we wish you the best.

03:26:56.000 Yeah.

03:26:56.000 My son's off here.

03:26:57.000 Son's off.

03:26:58.000 Something's off.

03:26:59.000 What about you?

03:27:00.000 I kind of understood what everyone was saying, and I understood the message.

03:27:06.000 What was the message?

03:27:11.000 Basically, I'm saying in general about the whole podcast.

03:27:14.000 I didn't know what to expect.

03:27:16.000 I wasn't really talking that much.

03:27:17.000 Misogony!

03:27:18.000 You were shaken up by the whole grape song.

03:27:20.000 Misogony!

03:27:21.000 Whatever.

03:27:23.000 Good show?

03:27:24.000 Yeah, good show.

03:27:24.000 I mean, you just have to be quick with your words, too.

03:27:27.000 What was the message?

03:27:29.000 Pause.

03:27:30.000 Let me talk.

03:27:31.000 You weren't saying nothing.

03:27:33.000 I'm saying how was it overall?

03:27:36.000 It was good.

03:27:38.000 What was the best part?

03:27:40.000 Probably once you walked out.

03:27:42.000 Alright, what was the message?

03:27:45.000 Overall?

03:27:47.000 The message overall?

03:27:49.000 We talked about a lot of things.

03:27:57.000 Okay, what we were speaking on right now was if you would be okay with...

03:28:03.000 Jesus! 1.00

03:28:05.000 You stupid. 1.00

03:28:07.000 Good. 1.00

03:28:08.000 Thank you for having me.

03:28:10.000 Good night, everyone.

03:28:11.000 Thank you.

03:28:12.000 Thank you.

03:28:13.000 First one, I go to the club, guys.

03:28:15.000 No, I got to play the catch.

03:28:18.000 Rumble, guys.

03:28:19.000 Yeah, rumble.com slash freshfit.

03:28:21.000 Yo, help us hit 100k.

03:28:22.000 Where are we at now?

03:28:23.000 99.3?

03:28:25.000 Yeah.

03:28:26.000 Yep.

03:28:26.000 Yo, there's $22,000 in here, man.

03:28:29.000 Come on, bro. 1.00

03:28:30.000 Subscribe to the goddamn channel. 1.00

03:28:31.000 That's what we asked for. 1.00

03:28:31.000 Yeah, subscribe. 1.00

03:28:32.000 All right, guys.

03:28:33.000 I hope you guys enjoyed that show. 0.97

03:28:34.000 Pray for my hair, because those two girls fucking definitely made me lose some more hair for all of this. 1.00

03:28:38.000 Yeah, fucking Ratchet's name. 1.00

03:28:41.000 Shut up, Chris. 1.00

03:28:42.000 You're a part of those fucking harlots. 1.00

03:28:44.000 All right, guys. 1.00

03:28:45.000 We'll catch you guys on Money Monday next week, probably around 7.30 or 8 when this nigga get back. 1.00

03:28:51.000 All right, guys.

03:28:51.000 Hope you guys enjoyed that one.

03:28:52.000 Peace.

03:28:55.000 I'm so far away I just run I run all night and day

Fresh & Fit - January 21, 2023

RATCHET HOES Kicked Off After HEATED Debate On Rape Culture Being A Myth!

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