On this episode of the Fresh & Fit Podcast, we have Chris in the house and we talk about the Chris Brown concert. We also have a new guest on the show and we introduce a new co-host!
00:32:40.000You know what I don't know, Mr. Can I go to the bathroom?
00:32:45.000Crack open a beer In the classroom legally No you can't That's illegal On campus That's illegal Legally I mean That's about like age You know what I mean Right I said on Friday They could go to happy hour with me, but they don't.
00:40:49.000Here's the thing about female athletes.
00:40:52.000Female athletes, you guys are cooked because the only guys that you guys can really deal with on college campuses are other athletes a lot of the times.
00:40:59.000So what ends up happening is they have a lot more.
00:41:01.000It's a very strange dynamic on college campuses.
00:41:04.000Male athletes have a lot of leverage because all the regular girls want them and then also female athletes want them.
00:41:09.000But the problem with female athletes is they think they're better than everybody.
00:41:11.000So they don't want to date regular guys.
00:41:13.000So they get stuck with the male athletes who are womanizing.
00:41:16.000It's actually one of the few times where men actually have a little bit of power in a dating dynamic and it's a college thing.
00:50:06.000And then that's when I made the claim that females are not as good at sports as guys are because realistically speaking, professional athletes lose to high school boys all the time, as demonstrated here.
00:50:18.000So we're talking about the pinnacle of female soccer getting beat by teenagers.
00:50:24.000And that goes to my point, which again, you guys don't like to hear it, but women suck at everything when compared to men, physically speaking, even when the physicality isn't even a component, like chess or Formula One.
00:50:34.000So they're better than you guys at tennis, football, basketball, everything.
00:52:02.000Are you aware of the fact that the reason why human beings have been able to last as long as we've had is because women depend on men for protection and provisioning?
00:52:10.000And then the man goes out, hunts, kills the animal, brings it back for the woman and her children.
00:52:16.000This is why men are supposed to be protectors and providers.
00:52:18.000It's how we've survived for thousands of years as human beings.
00:52:23.000But since we live in a civilized world with electricity and technology, women tend to forget that the only reason why you live in a safe, comfortable first world experience is because men allow that to happen.
00:52:36.000But if we're to turn off the power and the water, you would need a man immediately to protect you from the elements.
00:52:48.000And just to give you guys more proof as to how much women need men to survive, because it's funny that you said that when it's actually the other way around, they did bear grills, right?
00:52:57.000Survivor show, where they had men on an island and women on an island.
00:54:00.000The professional girls actually was in their career, but they couldn't do it because it's like, okay, this girl was bitching about killing the pig because it was so cute.
00:54:33.000And yes, what you're saying is true because biologically speaking, men were created to lead.
00:54:38.000They were created to protect and provide, like you said, and women were created for different aspects, right?
00:54:44.000Like nurturing, taking care of a home, making a meal, whatever the man provides, the woman multiplies, right?
00:54:52.000So I believe that, yes, what you're saying is absolutely true, but you can't compare one with the other because we both have different roles.
00:55:08.000We gotta category with because, ladies, are you aware of the fact that like all of human infrastructure, lights, energy, everything else, it's run by men.
00:55:16.00090% of the infrastructure of the first world is run by men.
00:55:19.000Women don't go into these jobs of sanitation, electricity.
00:55:49.000Comes from the book, The Rational Male Religion, where he basically breaks this down.
00:55:54.000Single fathers end up producing more, what's the word, productive children that don't become criminals, drug addicts, and all the other degenerate stuff.
00:56:02.000Most single fathers are right now, they were raised without a father.
00:56:05.000They might not get the same love, but they absolutely end up becoming better members of society.
00:56:09.000Well, yes, I mean, having a father is absolutely important because a father is what gives a child identity.
01:01:00.000You'll still have sexual opportunities with the opposite gender.
01:01:02.000But if a man quits his sport and loses that status, it affects his ability to get sexual access.
01:01:07.000So what I'm trying to say here is that a woman's status or income or a title means nothing, but a man's income and status means everything.
01:01:24.000And then the fact that she's an OnlyFans and is able to build a career on it, and I'm not saying that to shit on her.
01:01:29.000I'm just saying that she's able to have that.
01:01:31.000The fact that she's in that industry proves my point that a woman's primary agency is her sexuality and they're even able to monetize on it.
01:01:49.000Realistically speaking, realistically speaking, I would never be able to monetize my sexuality to the same degree as an average-looking girl.
01:01:56.000Men are not able to monetize their sexuality to the same level.
01:02:17.000But the point I'm trying to make is that from a female perspective, your main agency is sexuality because that's what men are interested in.
01:02:22.000Of course, a gay guy who cares about sex is going to be looking at dudes.
01:02:27.000But it doesn't change the fact that a woman's main agency is her sexuality.
01:06:01.000And when this started happening in front of her, I said, I can't do this because I don't want my daughter to be raised in a home where she sees her father screaming at her mom.
01:06:29.000He wouldn't help with like the child rearing?
01:06:31.000Yeah, so it was just all he would do is go to work and go to the gym and then come home and everything needed to be done, which it was done.
01:15:32.000Now it's different because if it's a post, okay, but if it's like the story and then you heart in the story or you reacting to the story, that goes so deeply.
01:18:09.000Translation: it's easier to manipulate and get what you want out of guys versus other women.
01:18:14.000Because what I've realized with girls that say they're bisexual, most of the time they say that because they know it makes them more attractive to men.
01:18:20.000But realistically speaking, if it weren't for a man, you wouldn't pursue a woman on your own.
01:19:42.000So, what do you think the chances are that you'll find another guy that you're actually attracted to that would take care of you and let you stay unemployed?
01:21:47.000But what I what I am saying is that I think this conversation kind of highlights a bigger problem.
01:21:54.000Obviously, we're kind of picking on her a little bit, but this highlights a bigger problem, which I've been saying for years, that women are just too damn arrogant.
01:22:08.000Let me be very blunt about this with all the ladies here at the table.
01:22:12.000Ladies, if you find a guy that's a six-figure earner, that's attractive, there's a high likelihood at some point in your relationship, he will entertain another female.
01:22:23.000So I tell girls, giving them good advice, if you leave him, you're a dumb bitch.
01:22:30.000And the reason why you're a dumb bitch is because you are letting your ego take control of you leaving a good situation for something that isn't as serious.
01:24:45.000Okay, yeah, but um, nonetheless, he um, he cheated on me, it was really bad, and then and then it didn't stop, and it was, it was like this, and the girl was in my house, so oh no, yeah, so no, I feel like once she would allow it, but then when I, when I got me a little friend, me and him ain't even do nothing, you know, he was, oh Lord, he was hurt, girl.
01:25:06.000He was like, get out, where you going?
01:25:09.000That's too different things all like this, you know what I'm saying?
01:25:11.000Like, you know, you don't want to cheat on your guy that you actually love and respect, right?
01:25:15.000But we just want to, hey, listen, we just want to dick suck, you know what I'm saying?
01:25:17.000And sometimes, you know, you sucking a dick the same thing over and over again.
01:27:54.000So we were together for 17 years total.
01:27:58.000I got married on my seventh year of dating him or being his girlfriend.
01:28:02.000And then we were married for 10 years.
01:28:05.000So what did I do to, I mean, this is someone that was emotionally immature, did not know how to control his emotions, didn't know how to control his anger, and would just have rage fits.
01:28:17.000If he didn't hear the right thing that he wanted to hear, he would just blow up.
01:28:22.000And with another person that was maybe emotionally mature or knew how to handle their emotions, the situation would have been handled in a different way.
01:29:21.000My thing is I'm always skeptical when women give their side because they always admit facts that led to them getting into altercation.
01:29:30.000They'll say he wasn't emotionally mature or some bullshit like that and he was abusive.
01:29:35.000But then they won't tell you that they would talk shit to him or they would parade him or they would nag him or they would do or they would like you know be at him.
01:40:56.000Realistically speaking, at 37, do you think you're going to be as able to have the same leverage on a dating market now as you would have 17 years ago at 20?
01:41:05.000I mean, as long as they're not verbally and emotionally abusive.
01:41:47.000Don't you think you would have tried, if he thought that you were like maybe the woman of his dreams, you would have made it work somehow, though?
01:41:51.000Well, yeah, I mean, he asked me to go with him, but I have a five-year-old daughter that I'm not going to leave behind.
01:42:57.000I know you're not going to get with a guy that's younger than you, realistically speaking.
01:43:00.000Like this demographic background, you're just not going to get with a guy that's younger than you.
01:43:04.000He's going to have to be, if he's going to be younger than you, he's going to have to be worth quite a bit of money, be extremely mature, etc.
01:43:10.000And that guy's probably going to want a younger woman.
01:43:12.000So like just realistically speaking, like a young guy that you're going to find attractive that you want to settle down with, realistically speaking, come on.
01:43:29.000Yeah, but I think it's important to differentiate, because this is an important distinction, options, aka men, that are saying, let's go on a date, versus viable, actual candidates that can be real potential suitors.
01:43:44.000What I've noticed with women is you guys conflate the two as if they're both the same and they're not.
01:43:48.000Guys that want to have sex with you or court you for a little bit are not the same as guys that want to get down on a knee and propose to you and take you seriously.
01:43:56.000But for some odd reason, women like to, well, I know why you guys do it.
01:43:58.000You do it to make it yourself feel better, That you have more options, but realistically speaking, you know, you have high standards, right?
01:44:51.000So, like, it's like, you got to pick one.
01:44:53.000It's like, you're either, if you're picky, which means you're selective, which means you have high standards, then you're no longer the prize if you find your man.
01:46:24.000That's the one overriding thing that I've realized after doing five years of this show is that women have been a gross, gross, whether educated, not educated, porn star, not porn star.
01:46:36.000We've been doing this show now, going on five years.
01:46:39.000And the one thing that I will say without a shadow of a doubt, regardless of background, culture, whatever it is, the majority of women, like 90% of you guys, have an over-inflated sense of self-worth.
01:52:50.000You have more than enough money to buy whatever you want on the fucking McDonald's menu, but y'all go to the top steakhouse with $50 in your pocket.
01:54:11.000This is going to summarize everything because I know some of you guys might not be familiar, so I'll play this video and then let you guys, we'll get your guys' comments.
01:54:19.000No more unk vibes at the worldwide leader in sports.
01:54:22.000ESPN has cut ties with former NFL tight intern media personality Shannon Sharp after the Hall of Famer settled a $50 million lawsuit accusing him of sexual assault.
01:54:33.000Settlement was announced by the accuser's attorney, Tony Busby, earlier in July.
01:54:38.000Sharp strongly denied the allegations and stepped away from his role at ESPN, where he was featured on the daytime sports talk show First Take.
01:54:47.000He hasn't been seen on the network since April.
01:54:50.000This is a breaking news story, and we'll have more updates when more details are made available.
01:55:27.000And basically what she did was she recorded some of the phone calls saying, you know, very suspect phone calls about him being too forceful when they had sex, right?
01:55:37.000So she ends up suing him in this lawsuit for $50 million.
01:55:42.000He had given her and offered her $10 million to shut the fuck up and not go to the press.
01:55:46.000She decided to hire one of the biggest cloud chasing attorneys, a guy named Tony Busby or whatever his name is, who's represented a bunch of cloud chasing females and diddy, Jay-Z, et cetera.
01:55:55.000And she hired him and there was a big press release on this, et cetera.
01:55:59.000The first day of court, from what I understand, her lawyer didn't show up and they ended up settling quickly after that.
01:56:06.000They're alleging that he settled for about $23 million with her to just basically get rid of the lawsuit.
01:56:14.000Now, mind you, when she dropped this lawsuit, he was in the middle of a big deal, a big deal with Which one?
01:57:41.000Because he made a bunch of the money, probably the majority of his money, after leaving football, with being on the SPN, doing the podcast.
01:58:27.000So she basically settled for more money than he made during his entire NFL career, being a professional athlete.
01:58:34.000And to add insult to injury, she makes that post on Instagram.
01:58:37.000And not only that, now he's got to deal with the consequences of getting fired from ESPN because I guess by settling in court, that might imply that he might have done it.
01:58:49.000And I do think it's important to note that she never went to the police, at least to my knowledge.
02:00:52.000But I just wish, guys, I just wish this thing could have waited until Monday because I hate the fact that I'm overshadowing my brother, the first two brothers in the Pro Football Hall of Fame.
02:01:02.000And this is what the headline is going to be for the next couple of days.
02:01:06.000So, bro, again, I know you told me I don't have to apologize, but I'm going to do it one final time tonight, and I won't apologize again.
02:01:14.000I'm sorry that I upstaged you in this manner.
02:01:23.000You've been my role model from as long as I can remember.
02:01:26.000And I apologize, and I thank all my fans for supporting me when I was at ESPN and every place that I've been, be it Club Shea Shea, Nightcap, Undisputed, ESPN.
02:02:34.000So I just feel like when you're getting lawyers and people involved and money's involved, I feel like there should be certain things because I'm a victim of rape.
02:02:46.000And I feel like that is insensitive to people that are victims of that and actually go through it.
02:04:01.000So, and I don't mean to pry and ask you this, but as someone who's actually a real victim that went to the police where they were able to find, not just a probable cause, but find him guilty beyond a reasonable doubt, or he pled guilty.
02:04:13.000How does that, like, does that piss you off to see girls abusing the system like that?
02:04:16.000It do, because I have death threats with my situation.
02:04:20.000I don't know if I'm coming or going some days.
02:07:47.000But there's also people that don't go to the cops and actually do go through the same exact stuff because they're scared or they think it's pointless because they're only going to get the five years, the two years, barely nothing, or just get off and then maybe come and kill them right after.
02:08:08.000I understand how she feels, like, just from being an outside perspective, because we've been in a situation of a friend group where that's happened, and it was hard to believe that person because we found out she was lying.
02:08:32.000Like women lie about this for a multitude of different reasons.
02:08:35.000She lied because she, I guess she was ashamed of the person that, like, which was very stupid because, like, we laugh about like shit like that.
02:08:42.000Like, oh, like, we hook up with this person, but, like, it's for jokes, but just, like, reaching it that far.
02:11:07.000So do you think it was, let me ask you this then.
02:11:10.000Do you think the main problem is attributed to her age or maybe her decision-making skills?
02:11:16.000Because I would make the argument that there's maybe some 19 or 20-year-olds that would have been able to be in that relationship and not have a problem.
02:11:22.000But I think with her, her judgment is fucked.
02:11:59.000So I guess, so is your position basically that if you're an older guy with some money, don't get with a girl that's in her 20s that does OF?
02:13:10.000And honestly, I think, like, I'd be shocked if his legal team didn't try to pursue something after that because clearly she did that to antagonize the situation.
02:13:21.000Which tells me in itself, the fact that she did that shows that it's not genuine.
02:15:11.000I think there was something, Moe, you could double check for me.
02:15:13.000I think there was some infidelity involved, too, that she didn't like.
02:15:17.000And I think, because, dude, this is diabolical.
02:15:20.000Like, she could have got, just so you guys know, she could have got 10M, not had her face all over the place, not been all over the internet.
02:15:27.000Because it's not like she's an actress or anything.
02:15:32.000As someone who's a real victim, I really, you know, you don't have to answer this if you don't want to, but I think it's a very rare situation.
02:15:37.000We have a real victim here to weigh in on this.
02:15:42.000If you were assaulted and you decided to pursue a criminal case as well as a litigation case civilly, and you had the opportunity to get a sizable amount of money, like 10 million, without your name being out there, without being on the internet, what if someone who actually was assaulted, wouldn't they not want to be all over the internet?
02:16:23.000By being a real victim, it made you even less inclined to do that.
02:16:27.000Take the money because it was dirty money.
02:16:29.000It wasn't for so that was a traumatic experience that happened to me.
02:16:34.000And well, I'm going to have money in the account, I'm going to always be just thinking, like, or I basically sold my soul for 10 million because I got raped.
02:16:53.000But if someone is taking money instead of pursuing legal recourse and getting that person put in jail, is it safe to say that more than likely there's a high probability they're lying?
02:18:06.000You had a chance to get 10 million and not be all over the internet and be able to take that, I guess, trauma and deal with it privately, right?
02:18:13.000But she chose to go to the internet anyway and go 50 million.
02:18:17.000Knowing, let's be honest, you come out saying you're going to sue somebody for 50 million, there's going to be a lot of people that say this bitch is lying.
02:18:23.000So she had to tolerate probably quite a bit of abuse on her end to get that money too.
02:18:27.000And if she's a real victim, I think that would be unbearable.
02:18:53.000So it's like, all right, so in public or in person, like, it's one of the things where it's still wrong, but it's like, it's kind of weird, though.
02:19:00.000Like, no, no, like how she, like, the, the, the, oh, yeah, like, making it go public.
02:30:27.000Like, red flags to know that, hey, listen, if your man don't want to give you money for a pair of shoes, then why would the fuck you give a fucking child?
02:31:00.000I was just saying, like, if he were to leave you and you didn't work, you would have nothing to support your child.
02:31:06.000That's why I'm assuming you women do work sometimes because, like, if you're left with nothing with your child, like, what are you supposed to do?
02:31:12.000Yeah, I mean, so there are stay-at-home wives, stay-at-home moms, and the men do provide absolutely everything.
02:33:31.000I don't know, but that's because I've kind of realized that women, they get married to a guy hoping that he'll change, and then men get married to a woman hoping they'll never change.
02:36:36.000She thinks she's better off as he's sitting at home with his new girlfriend and their daughter as she's sitting here on a podcast single at 1 a.m.
02:36:44.000Oh, they're spinning up because he has a girlfriend.
02:37:51.000Do you get five years of alimony or does are we talking about strictly what and though you got to tell us no no I'm not going to give you numbers, but I get five years of alimony and child support, but the numbers are different.
02:38:04.000So while I'm getting alimony, the child support is less.
02:38:06.000And then once the alimony is done, the child support is more.
02:40:57.000The point that I'm making is that if you leave a relation, a marriage of 10 years, a relationship of 17 years, and you can jump into another relationship right away, that kind of speaks on the person's character.
02:41:09.000I did not do that because I needed to process what was happening.
02:42:23.000Ladies, you want to talk like men, walk like men, work like men, but when a man talks back to you like a man, you claim verbal slash emotional abuse.
02:47:38.000So that's why guys care about body count.
02:47:40.000So just like you wouldn't want to take that risk and be with that guy knowing that he's going to be a loser, we don't want to be with a girl that was a loser.
02:47:48.000Because a girl with a high body count would be considered a loser for us.
02:48:21.000All right, so let me tell you something, ladies.
02:48:23.000Men are surprisingly loyal, despite the fact that women think that they're not.
02:48:27.000And what I mean by loyal is, he'll fuck the other bitches, but he'll take the bullet for you.
02:48:31.000So I think, well, not even I think, I know this because anytime I've seen a girl like be with a guy from the beginning, let's look at some guys.
02:48:38.000Fat Joe, still with his high school sweetheart.
02:50:43.000And the reason why I said that is what I've realized with women is I have to kind of give you guys the feeling for you guys to really know what I'm saying.
02:50:49.000Because if I just say, yeah, men want variety, you'll be like, that's not good enough.
02:50:53.000So I need to get you guys to feel it because women need to feel things to understand.
02:52:38.000I think, actually, if I'm going to be very honest, the louder and more obnoxious a female is, especially when she's around her guy, the more I know he's a bitch.
02:52:50.000Like, a woman is a direct representation of her man.
02:52:52.000So if a girl's nice and quiet and doesn't say much when she's around the guys, unless and she doesn't speak unless she's spoken to, I know that guy's doing things right.
02:52:59.000But if she's loud and obnoxious or she talks too much, I'm like, bro, what the fuck?
02:53:04.000Like, that's a direct representation on the man.
02:56:31.000Because you're saying in a world where everybody wants to be independent, I don't agree with this premise because it's women that want to be independent.
03:06:22.000Well, like, I think there's, if you guys have been together for six years and you guys are high school sweethearts or whatever, I do think that is a viable concern that he hasn't proposed to you yet.
03:06:33.000And I think that you can probably do more.
03:09:04.000Women want to get married, but they don't want to be wives, right?
03:09:06.000And, you know, it's very rare that someone tells them what it is, but you should literally, especially the fact that you don't work and he supports you 100%, you should literally be at his beck and fucking call.
03:10:54.000But the thing is, is that girls, because women don't want to feel like they're beneath their man, or they don't want to feel like, oh, I'm just being a slave.
03:11:02.000But I think a girl that really wants to be, like, get married and be taken, like, literally be the priority, you basically have to become like your man's right-hand assistant.
03:11:11.000Like, you got, you got to be, like, any weakling, any weak points in his life, like, you come in and you fix those problems.
03:11:19.000Like, a good girlfriend really is like a good parent.
03:11:22.000She kind of comes in and just like, whatever he doesn't have, like, for example, let's say, let's assume you know that he can't go to work without having a coffee.
03:11:29.000When he wakes up, there's a coffee right there on the fucking kitchen table.
03:12:11.000And like she ends up becoming a liability.
03:12:12.000That's the problem with most women, if I'm going to be honest with y'all.
03:12:14.000A lot of you guys are a liability and you guys don't add the same amount of value back.
03:12:17.000And I would say like as a girl, if you don't work, bro, you need to be up under your fucking guy's armpit all the time asking him what he needs.
03:12:25.000I don't mean literally in his armpit, but like you should be constantly asking him, what do you need?
03:13:16.000I'm telling you guys how men that have money think.
03:13:17.000You can either go ahead and listen to what I got to say or listen to your dumbass friends that sit there and say, no, girl, yeah, you got to take that and fucking keep dating fucking black guys that make 30K a year.
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03:18:54.000Like, all right, so, like, on your end, I understand.
03:18:57.000Hey, listen, like, I mean, my mom wouldn't even, like, she would, like, if, if, hypothetically, let's say me, I was the one that needed a bath, right?
03:24:35.000And I, and she's, I think it was something along the lines of like, she got with a guy that, you know, she was doing pretty well financially and had a good career, but they didn't have nothing to lose and it put her in a weird spot.
03:24:46.000So she said, from this point forward, I need to date a guy that has something to lose.
03:31:40.000You know, I've done a couple of podcasts talking about the myth of rape culture.
03:31:46.000And I've been very critical on women that do false accusations and stuff like that.
03:31:50.000And to actually have a rape survivor here, I commend you.
03:31:53.000And I really appreciate you telling me that story because I do think it's important for people to hear from a real victim versus all the bullshit that's going on.
03:32:00.000And I really do hope that this Me Too era kind of ends because it takes away credence from real victims here like yourself.
03:32:06.000So thank you so much for sharing that.
03:35:20.000I had a theory about people getting big money for it.
03:35:25.000What if it's like maybe people are having like legal issues in the back, and then they like spot like these issues, these like say, hey, this happened to me or something?
03:35:33.000And then they're getting the money from them on the back end.
03:35:35.000So that way it's not in their accounts or, you know, maybe offshore or something.
03:35:39.000I just have a theory about that because it's happening too often.
03:35:42.000And then some people aren't necessarily doing as well as we do.
03:35:45.000Did you go to like therapy after and like talk with other victims?
03:35:58.000And you don't have to answer if you don't want to.
03:36:00.000Would it be fair to say that if a woman comes forward and she's looking for monetary compensation and didn't go to the police, there's like a 90% chance that it's a lie?
03:36:12.000Yeah, because I feel like in that situation, something was taken from me.
03:36:35.000So my son was one at the time and I was freaking out shaking trying to, because I'm like, bro, if somebody did this to my son, I would fucking kill them.
03:39:23.000That's just, there's some, you got to just cross.
03:39:26.000You got to draw the line in this end somewhere.
03:39:28.000Like, it's like, is it, is it, is it going to make my soul happy to know?
03:39:32.000That's going to always be in the back of my mind.
03:39:33.000Like, this is money from somebody paying me to forget a traumatic experience that not only just traumatized me and traumatized like my family.
03:40:07.000And I apologize for any convenience telling that story might have told, but I do think that that is a huge and powerful teaching factor for a lot of people to kind of, and maybe there's a woman here that's watching that is a victim that, you know.