Fresh & Fit - She Admits She’ll Cheat On Her Boyfriend But NOT Her Husband?

00:09:54.000 All right, and we're live fellas.

00:09:55.000 Welcome back to the show.

00:09:56.000 Today, yes, no more in today.

00:09:57.000 We got Dom Luker.

00:09:58.000 They both in chalk to you Dom for sure.

00:10:01.000 And we'll get right into it.

00:10:03.000 So, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status.

00:10:07.000 It works, of course.

00:10:08.000 Your body count.

00:10:11.000 My name is Rosé Rax.

00:10:12.000 I'm 27, and I'm an entrepreneur.

00:10:15.000 And dating status, it's quite list three.

00:10:19.000 You say you're entrepreneur?

00:10:20.000 Yes.

00:10:21.000 What does that entail?

00:10:22.000 I mean, there's certain things you don't say, but I used to be a dancer, you know, trapper, whatever scammer, whatever you want to call it.

00:10:29.000 But entrepreneur.

00:10:30.000 So, what's your most, I guess, like, lucrative job title, you say?

00:10:36.000 Um, as of right now, there's certain things that I can't put public, but you know, say no more.

00:10:42.000 We've made money, we can know we're making money.

00:10:46.000 Okay, I dated complicated, yeah, it is, it's a complicated situation.

00:10:50.000 Okay, highest education level: uh, college, some college from college completed.

00:10:55.000 No, I didn't.

00:10:56.000 I had babies, so I had a dropout.

00:10:57.000 How many kids?

00:10:58.000 Three.

00:11:00.000 Good lord.

00:11:02.000 Okay.

00:11:02.000 Parents together or no?

00:11:04.000 Mine?

00:11:04.000 No.

00:11:05.000 Birth control?

00:11:06.000 Uh-huh.

00:11:07.000 Birth control?

00:11:08.000 Yeah, sure.

00:11:09.000 Sure.

00:11:09.000 At this point?

00:11:10.000 Yeah.

00:11:11.000 And then, of course, body count.

00:11:11.000 All right.

00:11:13.000 Oh, five.

00:11:16.000 Five this week or?

00:11:18.000 No, no, no.

00:11:18.000 Five all together.

00:11:20.000 I was with my baby daddy for like 10 years.

00:11:22.000 So that took a lot.

00:11:23.000 27 minus 10.

00:11:24.000 That's 17th.

00:11:25.000 So how many men could I have really rocked up?

00:11:28.000 Why'd you guys break up?

00:11:33.000 It's complicated.

00:11:34.000 Like I said in the beginning, it's complicated.

00:11:35.000 Oh my god.

00:11:37.000 We'll come back to that.

00:11:38.000 All right.

00:11:38.000 That's fine.

00:11:39.000 Welcome back.

00:11:39.000 What about you?

00:11:41.000 Hi, I'm Mara.

00:11:44.000 Mada who? 0.52

00:11:45.000 I'm Mara.

00:11:46.000 Mada who? 0.52

00:11:47.000 What?

00:11:47.000 Mara, what?

00:11:49.000 Your name, Mada who?

00:11:50.000 Just Mara.

00:11:51.000 Okay.

00:11:52.000 Hold you.

00:11:53.000 My name is Mara.

00:11:54.000 I'm 32.

00:11:58.000 I'm from Connecticut.

00:11:59.000 I live here.

00:12:01.000 Why are you laughing?

00:12:04.000 Nope.

00:12:05.000 Why Connecticut is funny?

00:12:05.000 We're listening, you know.

00:12:07.000 No, it's just.

00:12:08.000 But I am married and I have no kids.

00:12:17.000 And my parents are together.

00:12:20.000 What else did you do?

00:12:20.000 I want to be married for.

00:12:21.000 Party count, don't forget.

00:12:23.000 Since the first time I came on.

00:12:24.000 I know, but how long has it been since then?

00:12:27.000 Maybe like three years.

00:12:30.000 Three years?

00:12:31.000 Does he watch this show when you come on or no?

00:12:33.000 Does he watch the show when you come on?

00:12:36.000 No, unless if I'm on it.

00:12:38.000 Yeah.

00:12:40.000 Does he watch it when I come on?

00:12:41.000 Yeah, pretty much.

00:12:42.000 Yeah.

00:12:42.000 Okay.

00:12:42.000 I thought you said when it comes on.

00:12:44.000 Okay.

00:12:45.000 But when I come on, yeah.

00:12:46.000 All right.

00:12:47.000 Prince, you said together, no?

00:12:49.000 Yeah, my parents are together.

00:12:50.000 Together?

00:12:51.000 Birth control?

00:12:52.000 No.

00:12:53.000 Highest education level?

00:12:55.000 Associates.

00:12:56.000 And then, of course, childhood education.

00:12:56.000 All right.

00:13:00.000 You said no kids, right?

00:13:01.000 No.

00:13:02.000 Why no kids?

00:13:02.000 He doesn't want kids.

00:13:03.000 I do want kids, but I don't know.

00:13:06.000 It just hasn't happened yet.

00:13:08.000 Three years is crazy.

00:13:09.000 Yeah.

00:13:10.000 Okay.

00:13:10.000 That might be a hard one there.

00:13:12.000 Also, what's your question?

00:13:13.000 Maybe one of us have to go and see who's the problem, but I don't know.

00:13:17.000 Oh, so you've been trying?

00:13:18.000 We're not in a rush.

00:13:20.000 What do you mean?

00:13:20.000 Okay.

00:13:21.000 But you shot the club up and you didn't get no kids?

00:13:24.000 Oh, okay.

00:13:27.000 But what did you ask?

00:13:29.000 What's your background?

00:13:30.000 I'm Puerto Rican.

00:13:31.000 I know Kansas.

00:13:32.000 Puerto Ricans are. 0.99

00:13:34.000 Yeah, I know.

00:13:34.000 I know Puerto Rican.

00:13:37.000 You know, Puerto Ricans are fertile as well, right? 0.99

00:13:39.000 That's true.

00:13:40.000 Wait, what's your background?

00:13:41.000 Colombian?

00:13:41.000 I'm Colombian.

00:13:42.000 Makes sense.

00:13:43.000 I love Colombia.

00:13:44.000 Columbia's dressed.

00:13:46.000 Like 310.

00:13:47.000 I love it.

00:13:48.000 It's nice, but the girls are a bit crazy. 1.00

00:13:48.000 It's cheap. 1.00

00:13:51.000 Where are you from?

00:13:52.000 Barbados.

00:13:53.000 Thanks.

00:13:53.000 What about you?

00:13:54.000 Hi, I'm Charlene.

00:13:57.000 How old are you?

00:13:57.000 39.

00:14:00.000 I live here in Miami. 0.98

00:14:02.000 I bleach kitties and tighten vaginas for a living. 1.00

00:14:07.000 You bleach? 0.99

00:14:08.000 Yeah.

00:14:10.000 Well, okay, bring it up with me.

00:14:11.000 What does that mean?

00:14:12.000 Bleach.

00:14:13.000 So I offer intimate bleaching for women and men, of course, too. 0.99

00:14:20.000 And we also tighten vaginas. 1.00

00:14:22.000 It's a non-surgical vaginal tightening.

00:14:24.000 Oh, she rejuvenated.

00:14:26.000 At Miami Beauty Spa?

00:14:28.000 Does it actually work though?

00:14:30.000 Yeah, it actually does.

00:14:31.000 I have like so many pictures and like actual, I have received.

00:14:36.000 Yeah, taking the mall off.

00:14:38.000 That's crazy.

00:14:44.000 I'm resetting something.

00:14:45.000 You know what's the worst part?

00:14:46.000 You gotta buy a car, right?

00:14:47.000 It has high mileage.

00:14:48.000 You revert the mouse back to what it was before.

00:14:50.000 You won't even know.

00:14:51.000 That's scary.

00:14:52.000 Yeah.

00:14:53.000 That's scary, actually. 0.99

00:14:55.000 Damn, how many girls come in for that? 1.00

00:14:56.000 Like a lot of girls? 1.00

00:14:57.000 Actually, that's my two top services that I have at my spa.

00:15:04.000 Wow.

00:15:05.000 That's crazy.

00:15:06.000 Yeah.

00:15:06.000 How much it costs to.

00:15:07.000 Actually, I charge $100 for internet bleaching per area, and we charge $250 for each session of vaginal tightening. 1.00

00:15:16.000 How many do you need to get?

00:15:17.000 Three.

00:15:18.000 And you're back snatched?

00:15:20.000 Yeah, period.

00:15:20.000 Okay.

00:15:21.000 Yeah.

00:15:21.000 That's not a good one.

00:15:22.000 This color goes away with three.

00:15:25.000 Four sessions for internal stations.

00:15:27.000 Once a week.

00:15:28.000 How are y'all doing? 1.00

00:15:29.000 Are you using like a vacuum on that motherfucker? 1.00

00:15:33.000 Actually, it's non-invasive. 1.00

00:15:34.000 So it's an ultrasound probe that we put in the girls' vagina, right? 1.00

00:15:38.000 And then it has radio frequency, which reproduces the collagen that they have lost in the vagina. 1.00

00:15:44.000 So it tightens up the elasticity.

00:15:46.000 It helps with the moistness and it helps for all the girls and women who have multiple kids and have urinary incontinence.

00:15:53.000 Do you have one?

00:15:54.000 No, I'm good this far.

00:15:55.000 Thank you.

00:15:58.000 No contains.

00:16:00.000 Three, no worries.

00:16:00.000 There you go.

00:16:02.000 No complaints around here.

00:16:05.000 Okay, highest education level.

00:16:07.000 I'm currently in nursing school right now.

00:16:09.000 So I have nurse? 0.76

00:16:11.000 Yes.

00:16:12.000 Go ahead.

00:16:15.000 I have one more year to go and I'm super excited.

00:16:18.000 And yeah.

00:16:19.000 And I'm currently single, but not looking.

00:16:24.000 I have a few friends.

00:16:25.000 So, you know, and I'm pretty busy and occupied.

00:16:29.000 Friends with benefits or just friends?

00:16:31.000 Well, you know, they give you the benefits.

00:16:37.000 I hate to say it, but I live in Miami and it's not cheap here, you know, so I kind of do need a little bit of help.

00:16:43.000 No, I mean what I mean.

00:16:49.000 You know what's crazy, right?

00:16:50.000 You want to know whenever we're in like a recession or get into a recession?

00:16:53.000 Whenever girls are like, let's slow in the club, except extra money, or like, I need help. 1.00

00:16:58.000 Helps all the time.

00:16:59.000 But it's normal.

00:17:01.000 Okay.

00:17:02.000 Parents together or no?

00:17:03.000 Yes, they are.

00:17:04.000 Birth control?

00:17:06.000 Yes.

00:17:06.000 I actually have an IUD and I use condoms.

00:17:10.000 At 39?

00:17:11.000 I don't want no more kids, but I don't want to use hysterectomy because I don't want to get menopause.

00:17:11.000 Yeah.

00:17:16.000 Okay.

00:17:16.000 You know?

00:17:17.000 How many kids do you have?

00:17:18.000 One?

00:17:18.000 One.

00:17:19.000 Where's it at?

00:17:19.000 Yep.

00:17:20.000 He's active.

00:17:21.000 We're not together, but we're active.

00:17:23.000 My son is in college.

00:17:25.000 He has a scholarship for basketball. 1.00

00:17:27.000 He plays talking shit. 1.00

00:17:29.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:17:31.000 I did my thing.

00:17:33.000 But yeah.

00:17:34.000 All right, cool.

00:17:36.000 And what's your body count? 0.93

00:17:38.000 I would say, damn, don't judge me, but I would say like it could be anywhere from like 15 to 20. 0.98

00:17:44.000 I've had my fun. 0.98

00:17:46.000 Yeah.

00:17:47.000 That's pretty low.

00:17:48.000 For what?

00:17:49.000 Almost.

00:17:49.000 How?

00:17:50.000 How long?

00:17:51.000 I mean, how long?

00:17:52.000 Old are you?

00:17:53.000 Yeah, it's pretty low, I would say.

00:17:53.000 39.

00:17:55.000 Well, thanks.

00:17:55.000 I thought it was a little.

00:17:57.000 If it's true.

00:17:58.000 Yeah.

00:17:58.000 How long were you with your BD?

00:18:00.000 Not long.

00:18:02.000 No, no long young.

00:18:04.000 I was like 17.

00:18:05.000 Yeah, most of my relationships have been long.

00:18:08.000 So that's what has saved me.

00:18:11.000 But lock that.

00:18:11.000 Yeah.

00:18:13.000 I've kind of been like in school a lot.

00:18:15.000 I've been outside, you know, of course.

00:18:17.000 Like you said, it saved you.

00:18:18.000 That's a very funny term.

00:18:20.000 Saved me.

00:18:21.000 What about you?

00:18:23.000 My name is Boss Lady. 1.00

00:18:25.000 Wait, hold on.

00:18:26.000 Your mom named you Boss Lady? 1.00

00:18:27.000 No, my mom didn't name me Boss Lady. 0.92

00:18:29.000 I named myself Boss Lady.

00:18:31.000 But we don't talk government names out here.

00:18:34.000 Are you good friends?

00:18:36.000 We have a podcast together.

00:18:36.000 Yes.

00:18:37.000 We have a podcast together.

00:18:39.000 Boss Baddie, Boss Baddies.

00:18:39.000 What's it called?

00:18:43.000 What are we going to talk about?

00:18:44.000 On Boss Baddies.

00:18:45.000 Just so you know, you know, beforehand, we carry a relationship together.

00:18:50.000 We share the same baby daddy.

00:18:51.000 So backstory. 1.00

00:18:54.000 Back to working on your fucking tall. 1.00

00:18:58.000 Wait, wait, you have the same baby daddy? 0.99

00:19:00.000 Yes, and we are cool and we have a podcast together and we're homies and whatever you want to call it.

00:19:04.000 Exactly.

00:19:05.000 Many years of fighting and sugar and gas tanks.

00:19:08.000 Oh my God, we're still talking about the sugar in the gas.

00:19:11.000 You say you did it, but girl, I did not do it.

00:19:13.000 But we're past that.

00:19:14.000 She did not pass it.

00:19:14.000 We're fighting.

00:19:16.000 She put me in gas tanks. 0.99

00:19:18.000 I did not mean to fucked up. 0.99

00:19:19.000 We fought and then I burnt my customer and I came back after my event. 0.99

00:19:25.000 I had to go and drop the tank.

00:19:26.000 I had to go everything.

00:19:28.000 And on the same night that we fought baby daddy, this is what I admitted.

00:19:33.000 I'm not going to lie. 0.99

00:19:33.000 If someone's suggesting your gas tank, that's fucked up. 0.99

00:19:35.000 Listen to me. 0.99

00:19:36.000 If I did it, I'm going to say I did it, but I didn't do it.

00:19:39.000 Trust me.

00:19:39.000 And believe me, I did not do that.

00:19:41.000 Maybe it was one of her people, but they knew where my car was at.

00:19:43.000 It was the same night we had a big pupil who would just pull up to the restaurant.

00:19:47.000 That's a little bit of a baby daddy.

00:19:49.000 Yes.

00:19:50.000 No.

00:19:50.000 Same time?

00:19:51.000 No.

00:19:52.000 I'm the first baby man.

00:19:53.000 Married 10 years ago.

00:19:55.000 10 difference.

00:19:55.000 Is he Hispanic?

00:19:55.000 Yeah.

00:19:56.000 Black? 0.74

00:19:57.000 Dominican Dominican. 0.99

00:19:59.000 He's black. 0.99

00:20:01.000 No, black poppy Dominican. 1.00

00:20:03.000 There you go. 0.95

00:20:04.000 He's actually whiter than the both of us.

00:20:06.000 He's actually whiter than all of us.

00:20:06.000 Right.

00:20:09.000 That's crazy.

00:20:11.000 How old are you?

00:20:12.000 I'm 41.

00:20:12.000 41?

00:20:13.000 Okay.

00:20:14.000 What do you do for work?

00:20:15.000 I do accounting.

00:20:16.000 Accounting?

00:20:17.000 Yeah.

00:20:17.000 Full-time?

00:20:18.000 Yes, I do.

00:20:19.000 Besides, you know, doing the podcast and trying to put a brand out.

00:20:23.000 That's dope. 0.93

00:20:24.000 Highest education level.

00:20:24.000 Yeah.

00:20:25.000 Associate's degree in medical, but I don't currently work medical.

00:20:29.000 I do paralegal work, more criminal law.

00:20:32.000 Are your parents together or no?

00:20:34.000 No.

00:20:34.000 Birth control?

00:20:36.000 No.

00:20:37.000 And you said you have how many kids?

00:20:39.000 One.

00:20:39.000 One kid?

00:20:40.000 One?

00:20:40.000 Yeah, he traumatized me enough.

00:20:42.000 I'm good.

00:20:43.000 Why do you guys break up?

00:20:46.000 For the obvious reasons that we just were not getting along at the moment.

00:20:50.000 Okay.

00:20:51.000 And then he met you after.

00:20:52.000 Yeah, I was after.

00:20:53.000 I was after.

00:20:54.000 He's moving and shaking.

00:20:56.000 How many kids do you have?

00:20:56.000 He's not playing.

00:20:58.000 Me?

00:20:58.000 No, him.

00:20:59.000 He has four.

00:21:00.000 Yeah.

00:21:00.000 One and three.

00:21:01.000 Oh, wow. 0.64

00:21:04.000 He's dropping some bums over there. 0.88

00:21:06.000 Okay.

00:21:07.000 He's a good two baby moms. 1.00

00:21:08.000 Right?

00:21:09.000 It could be worse.

00:21:10.000 I mean, and we got a walker.

00:21:10.000 Right.

00:21:12.000 One of them.

00:21:14.000 One is enough.

00:21:16.000 One is enough.

00:21:18.000 Okay, Dom.

00:21:20.000 All right, Dom.

00:21:21.000 Welcome to the show once again, Dom.

00:21:24.000 You don't know who you are.

00:21:25.000 One of the top journalists in America, I would say, right now.

00:21:28.000 I'm number three.

00:21:29.000 Yeah, well, you can say, depending on who you ask, they would say I'm the best.

00:21:31.000 But number one journalist on X, been dominating social media this year.

00:21:34.000 And most of what you hear and see on the news, at least 40% of it comes from me.

00:21:38.000 Nice.

00:21:39.000 Yo, Dom McCorps and CNN, MSNBC, all of this combined.

00:21:42.000 And Dom, when you drop a news article or news, all that, sorry, news piece, it goes viral.

00:21:47.000 The world reacts to it.

00:21:47.000 Yeah, it does.

00:21:48.000 Trying to control the perception of people's reality.

00:21:48.000 It's crazy.

00:21:51.000 100%.

00:21:52.000 So listen, ladies, we got a full panel here. 1.00

00:21:54.000 Some experience, some not so experience in that sense.

00:21:58.000 Let me ask a question.

00:21:59.000 Most guys dating nowadays, right, aren't the bar.

00:22:02.000 Either they're not tall enough, not secure enough financially.

00:22:06.000 How would you say you would find a good man nowadays?

00:22:08.000 Is it going to be in the club, you know, and supermarket?

00:22:11.000 Where would you find a good man from your opinion?

00:22:15.000 I don't think you just find him.

00:22:16.000 I think it naturally just happens.

00:22:19.000 You can have like the perfect, for me personally, you can find a guy that's perfect, perfect setting, perfect home, perfect career, perfect everything.

00:22:27.000 But internally, he probably has something, some damage to him.

00:22:30.000 So it all depends, you know.

00:22:30.000 Yeah.

00:22:32.000 And why do you think you're single?

00:22:36.000 I mean, who said I was single?

00:22:37.000 Oh, you're not?

00:22:39.000 I mean, there's someone in my life, yes.

00:22:41.000 A main person in your life?

00:22:42.000 Okay.

00:22:42.000 How long have you been together?

00:22:42.000 Yes.

00:22:44.000 For some time now.

00:22:47.000 For some time.

00:22:47.000 Three years, four years?

00:22:48.000 No, it's a year and a half.

00:22:50.000 No, no, no.

00:22:51.000 A year and a half.

00:22:51.000 It's not half an hour.

00:22:52.000 How'd you guys meet?

00:22:54.000 Same area, location of where we hang out.

00:22:56.000 Type, he was always there.

00:22:58.000 I just never paid attention until one day.

00:23:01.000 What made you pay attention that time?

00:23:03.000 Honestly, it was my birthday.

00:23:06.000 My boss had taken me out, you know, and a couple other co-workers for my birthday.

00:23:11.000 He always treats.

00:23:13.000 He treats.

00:23:14.000 He always treats, you know, for my birthday, he always takes me on.

00:23:18.000 I've been working for him for a couple of years.

00:23:19.000 I run his accounting for like four of his friends.

00:23:21.000 So it's not like I'm a nobody to him.

00:23:24.000 So I was out that day and you know, I was again having fun for my birthday.

00:23:30.000 And, you know, you tend to like open up more when you're not less guarded.

00:23:35.000 So that's what happened.

00:23:36.000 I was like having fun and I just saw him like in a different place, I was being less guarded.

00:23:40.000 I was open to speaking to him in a different way.

00:23:42.000 So you found your person randomly.

00:23:42.000 Okay.

00:23:44.000 It wasn't by accident.

00:23:45.000 Right.

00:23:46.000 So it wasn't like that.

00:23:47.000 Like, yeah, it was, it was, like I said, it just happened.

00:23:50.000 What about you?

00:23:50.000 Okay.

00:23:52.000 How'd you find a good man and why are you single?

00:23:57.000 I don't know where to really go to like nice places because I feel like, you know, when you're trying to find someone that's within your caliber, you should go to places, I'm assuming, within your caliber.

00:24:13.000 So if like, if you're looking for, I don't know.

00:24:18.000 Give me a description.

00:24:19.000 Like, what's a nice place to you?

00:24:20.000 Nice restaurant, nice hotel, nice bar.

00:24:23.000 I like restaurants.

00:24:24.000 I'm a restaurant person.

00:24:26.000 So it's like, you know, I like to go to like, I was telling my girls, I like to go to like Mila, Casanel.

00:24:32.000 We love you.

00:24:35.000 Oh my god.

00:24:37.000 So you're equating the caliber you are to the restaurant, right?

00:24:41.000 Yeah, you know, and it's like, I like to dress up.

00:24:43.000 I like to get real pretty.

00:24:45.000 I like to wear long, nice dresses and stuff.

00:24:47.000 So it's like, you know, you can't just wear that anywhere.

00:24:50.000 So it's like, that's the type of things I like to do.

00:24:53.000 So I feel like since that's what I like to do, you know.

00:24:56.000 Tony, right.

00:24:57.000 So how long have you been going to these places?

00:24:58.000 Because I like Casino's as well.

00:24:59.000 But how long have you been going to these places?

00:25:01.000 I would say within like, it's been like two years now.

00:25:05.000 Two years.

00:25:06.000 Yeah.

00:25:07.000 So you're going to these spots to find well, we can find good people, good men.

00:25:10.000 Why are you still single?

00:25:11.000 Well, I've actually ended up finding nice relationships and new friends because I'm like, and even female friends, you know, new acquaintances, you know, people with opportunities and stuff like that where we can help each other grow.

00:25:29.000 So it's like I've been so busy with school and work that I'm so focused on that that I don't feel at this time I have the time to pour and focus into someone else.

00:25:39.000 So it'll be selfish for me to like even try to.

00:25:43.000 So I'm not really like looking.

00:25:45.000 So would you say it's more of like a multiple factor where you have multiple friends that helps you better than one person?

00:25:50.000 Is that better?

00:25:51.000 You would say?

00:25:51.000 Well, I'm not saying I'm just like just friends, like male friends.

00:25:55.000 Like, you know, it's just friends.

00:25:57.000 Friends in general.

00:25:58.000 Right.

00:25:59.000 Associates.

00:26:00.000 I'm talking about like men, though.

00:26:02.000 Not like girls. 1.00

00:26:03.000 Like actual men.

00:26:09.000 I'm not looking for men friends.

00:26:12.000 Like, right.

00:26:14.000 Just, I don't know.

00:26:17.000 Okay.

00:26:18.000 What about you?

00:26:21.000 Obviously, you're married.

00:26:23.000 Yeah, but kind of like both of them, I feel like you do whatever you like to do and you'll find somebody good there.

00:26:36.000 I mean, not always, but like, you know, at least have the same interest.

00:26:39.000 Like somebody who actually should.

00:26:42.000 What if what if you're interested in things that really don't better you?

00:26:45.000 I mean, if that's where you are mentally as a person, aren't you supposed to meet a man that's better?

00:26:49.000 Then you are already on to something that's better.

00:26:51.000 So, it wouldn't necessarily always mean a band that's best for you.

00:26:54.000 It's going to be interesting in something you're interested in, especially if that doesn't serve you.

00:26:58.000 So, how could you know that, say, if you like bowling, you'll find a man of your dreams that's bowling?

00:27:03.000 Maybe he's too busy to bowl.

00:27:05.000 Right.

00:27:06.000 He might not be in the locations that you're in.

00:27:08.000 So, that's true.

00:27:08.000 Right.

00:27:11.000 When they were talking, I was kind of like thinking about that.

00:27:14.000 And it's like, you know what's where, or you know, you know, where to find because, like, I like going to the club.

00:27:23.000 Yeah.

00:27:23.000 I know for a fact there's a thousand people.

00:27:26.000 I think not one of them are like somebody for that has potential for me to take seriously.

00:27:33.000 Yeah.

00:27:33.000 You know what I mean?

00:27:35.000 And I feel like when you have like hobbies, you know what I mean?

00:27:39.000 Like things that actually take up your time.

00:27:43.000 Of course, you're not all of if you like to do, I don't do pottery, but if you like to do pottery, you meet somebody there, they could be nice.

00:27:51.000 And but like you said, they could not have enough time for you or not be the person for you.

00:27:58.000 But at least it's, I don't know, better than just meeting somebody somewhere you're not comfortable.

00:28:06.000 Like if you don't like to go to the club, but somebody comes, you know, you try to talk to them or something and you guys don't have interest.

00:28:12.000 The meeting of the diet has a lot to do with how women feel. 1.00

00:28:15.000 It's like comfortability and what feels right, but that's not really keys to success.

00:28:19.000 You know, it's kind of, I think it's basing your reality on emotions and that in itself leads to failure.

00:28:25.000 Or intuition.

00:28:28.000 I kind of feel like intuition is propaganda for women. 1.00

00:28:31.000 Because if intuition was that successful, they would succeed in more aspects of life than they do.

00:28:35.000 They're just not in tune in too many aspects, you know.

00:28:38.000 There's certain things.

00:28:38.000 And men aren't.

00:28:39.000 Definitely, they rule the world for a reason.

00:28:41.000 But there's certain like levels to it, maybe. 0.98

00:28:43.000 Like as I don't want to like rebuttal you guys, but maybe there's certain levels, but I know for a fact if I don't feel comfortable with a guy, I'm not going no matter what the fuck they got going on. 0.95

00:29:00.000 Or, you know what I mean? 0.85

00:29:01.000 That's fair, but okay, you mentioned you go to the club, right?

00:29:04.000 Does your husband go with you to the club?

00:29:06.000 No.

00:29:07.000 So you go alone?

00:29:08.000 For the most part.

00:29:09.000 Sometimes whenever he feels like going, but he's not really like a, he don't really like to go out.

00:29:15.000 You going alone to club?

00:29:15.000 He's cool.

00:29:16.000 I don't go by myself.

00:29:17.000 I go out with friends.

00:29:19.000 Other girls? 0.99

00:29:19.000 Yeah. 0.99

00:29:20.000 Oh, this nigga. 1.00

00:29:22.000 Well, what's wrong with you? 1.00

00:29:23.000 Yeah, what's wrong with you?

00:29:25.000 Was I supposed to go out with guys?

00:29:27.000 I've seen him before in Miami.

00:29:28.000 You've seen me out?

00:29:29.000 Yeah, I've seen him before.

00:29:30.000 I've been to him a couple times.

00:29:32.000 Why they didn't say hi.

00:29:33.000 He were your friends.

00:29:38.000 Girlfriend, bro.

00:29:41.000 Should I see the club?

00:29:42.000 I'm like, bro, I could not do that.

00:29:45.000 No hopes in the club is like, why get there without your mans?

00:29:48.000 But the thing is that there's absolutely not a second where I have a chance of where he has a chance of thinking that I'm not coming straight home.

00:30:01.000 You know what I mean?

00:30:02.000 Yeah, but you could do a stop somewhere.

00:30:04.000 You could do a bus stop.

00:30:05.000 You just never know.

00:30:06.000 I don't pay a quick stop.

00:30:07.000 And you think that's going to be worth ruining who you have at home.

00:30:12.000 Okay, so you would never cheat?

00:30:14.000 No.

00:30:15.000 Okay.

00:30:16.000 What do you think?

00:30:17.000 I think if I have a wife or girlfriend and she wants to go to club alone. 1.00

00:30:20.000 Boyfriends I cheat on.

00:30:22.000 If I had a boyfriend, I definitely cheat.

00:30:25.000 But it's a husband.

00:30:27.000 But that leads you to question, did that nigga get cheated on before he came to the ring? 1.00

00:30:32.000 Damn. 1.00

00:30:33.000 That sounds like insane. 1.00

00:30:35.000 I'm a failure.

00:30:36.000 He didn't get cheated on because I felt really good about him.

00:30:39.000 Like, I don't know.

00:30:40.000 It was just something that made me not want to do that, you know?

00:30:45.000 So he was the one that was lucky out of all the ones that didn't get cheated on.

00:30:49.000 Apparently, everybody else got cheated on.

00:30:51.000 So, so let me get it straight.

00:30:53.000 You won't cheat if it's your husband, but if it's a boyfriend, you might cheat.

00:30:56.000 It's fair.

00:30:57.000 You be honest to some extent.

00:30:59.000 Now, let's just be fair here.

00:31:00.000 Dom, if that was you, how would you react?

00:31:03.000 Because remember, this is your wife.

00:31:05.000 She says she won't cheat on husband, but boyfriend. 0.96

00:31:09.000 I would know like I got cheated on. 0.86

00:31:10.000 Nigga, I'm blowing her back out before we got everything. 1.00

00:31:13.000 That's what it is.

00:31:14.000 I mean, what it is.

00:31:16.000 So, that means when he was a boyfriend at one point, you cheat on him.

00:31:20.000 No, I just said when I met him, I just felt like I didn't want to do that.

00:31:27.000 You know what I mean?

00:31:28.000 So, he changed your whole, I want to say, outlook on like perspective.

00:31:31.000 Yeah, okay.

00:31:32.000 Like, and not really changed it.

00:31:34.000 I just always felt like I would find like I was that your was that your intuition that you just knew? 1.00

00:31:42.000 Shut the fuck up. 1.00

00:31:44.000 Like, I always, I used to smoke. 1.00

00:31:46.000 I used to smoke cigarettes.

00:31:47.000 Gross, but I always said, I always said, like, if I ever had kids, I would never smoke again.

00:31:55.000 Like, I just don't want that around my kids.

00:31:57.000 Right?

00:31:57.000 Yeah.

00:31:58.000 So, it's like when you know, you know.

00:32:01.000 And I had a brain aneurysm, so I stopped smoking a long time ago.

00:32:06.000 But it's just like, I knew I didn't always want to, like, cheat on her, but I would just be having fun.

00:32:15.000 And I know they're having fun too.

00:32:17.000 So, I'm going to have my fun.

00:32:18.000 You know what I mean?

00:32:20.000 We're not like making seriously.

00:32:22.000 Does your husband cheat?

00:32:23.000 Huh?

00:32:24.000 Does your husband cheat?

00:32:25.000 Does he cheat now?

00:32:26.000 Yeah.

00:32:27.000 No.

00:32:28.000 He's like never outside.

00:32:30.000 He doesn't do anything.

00:32:31.000 In the past?

00:32:32.000 I don't know.

00:32:33.000 Is he white, black, Asian?

00:32:35.000 Black. 0.93

00:32:36.000 Interesting.

00:32:38.000 He doesn't cheat at all.

00:32:39.000 Successful guy.

00:32:41.000 Trinidadian.

00:32:42.000 Yeah.

00:32:43.000 You get cheated on this. 1.00

00:32:49.000 Oh, you're crazy. 1.00

00:32:50.000 While I'm here, he's locking me with his mistress, right? 1.00

00:32:54.000 I'm telling you, them niggas are horny, man. 1.00

00:32:56.000 They'll horn you so quickly. 0.99

00:32:58.000 Okay, we'll move on though.

00:32:59.000 What about you?

00:33:00.000 Where can you find a good man?

00:33:01.000 And then why are you single, you think?

00:33:04.000 Well, I never said I was single.

00:33:05.000 I said it's complicated.

00:33:07.000 And if I was single, I want to find my man in church because I want a God-fearing man.

00:33:11.000 I'm tired of these straight men.

00:33:13.000 I'm tired of these trapping men.

00:33:15.000 And that's why you got in Miami.

00:33:17.000 So that's what it is.

00:33:18.000 And I don't want to talk about that.

00:33:24.000 Do you go to church to find him?

00:33:26.000 I want my man in church.

00:33:28.000 Do you go to church to find him?

00:33:29.000 No, but if I wanted, if I wasn't, if I was single, if I was single, you don't want to church.

00:33:39.000 But you want to find your man in church.

00:33:40.000 But I am not single, so I don't have to go to church, baby.

00:33:43.000 But if I were, that's a word of advice to the ladies because I'm tired of these trappers. 1.00

00:33:47.000 I'm tired of these scammers.

00:33:49.000 And you need to find you, a God-fearing man.

00:33:52.000 And now you have my man, period.

00:33:54.000 So, so I have a question.

00:33:57.000 When I got at home, pay the bills.

00:33:58.000 And that's all that matters.

00:34:01.000 Wow.

00:34:03.000 Yeah, come on. 0.77

00:34:04.000 Stop the show.

00:34:05.000 But I'm not single, so I don't got to go to church.

00:34:07.000 For everybody in the back that didn't hear me, I don't got to go to church.

00:34:09.000 But he's asking for a word of advice, and I'm giving the advice to everybody.

00:34:13.000 So she's saying in a nutshell, it should be single again. 0.97

00:34:16.000 She goes to church, find her man.

00:34:17.000 Dom, be honest, though.

00:34:19.000 The church, I mean, no, what I'm trying to figure out is, did you, were you initially looking for the church going man when you were trying to find me?

00:34:27.000 No, but if I were, I'm going to go to church, is what I'm trying to tell you.

00:34:30.000 No, I'm saying initially through your love life.

00:34:32.000 No, but my love life has been one person consistent for about 11 years.

00:34:35.000 So I'm not looking and it's complicated.

00:34:38.000 But if I were to get back on the market, you're saying that you initially weren't looking for a church going man in the past.

00:34:45.000 But you guys asked, where would you look for a man?

00:34:48.000 And I know, but I'm just saying there's a question, so it would be now, but it wasn't then.

00:34:52.000 So, when you were looking for a baby father, etc., you wasn't looking for a man that would have been a little bit more.

00:34:56.000 No, my baby father is perfect, so let's not even take it there.

00:34:59.000 But if I were to look for a man, I'm just saying the only reason I'm saying that is because it's typically, it seems like it just seems like to me that a lot of the good guys get overlooked until the women become baby mothers, and then they probably have to be aware of that.

00:35:13.000 That's a question because you guys are asking where would you guys find a good woman?

00:35:17.000 How about that?

00:35:18.000 Oh, no, honestly, um, it's not really where you find them, it's really more so-your influence makes the woman you think.

00:35:26.000 So, I know, so that's complicated.

00:35:29.000 Because if you meet, I'm not gonna say older because it could be a younger and it could be an older woman. 0.60

00:35:33.000 If you meet a woman that's already set in her mind, and let's say she's a stripper or you know, it's a nightlife or night work, you know what I'm saying?

00:35:42.000 So, it's like, how would you change somebody?

00:35:44.000 But you like her, so it's not the influence.

00:35:47.000 Well, that necessarily don't go for those, but you can try.

00:35:50.000 Okay, so that's why I'm in church.

00:35:52.000 Thank you.

00:35:52.000 If I go, if I look for a man, I'm gonna go to church.

00:35:55.000 You know, you asked the question: where do you find a good woman, right? 0.99

00:35:59.000 Before, and in Miami, obviously, it's a high, I want to say, activity-paced place like New York or Vegas or LA.

00:36:08.000 But I think dating here is kind of cooked in a way because it's very transactional, you know?

00:36:12.000 I had a call with a dating coach actually today, he's very famous, and he's quitting his services of giving people dating advice.

00:36:12.000 It is.

00:36:19.000 I was like, Why are you gonna quit, bro?

00:36:20.000 Like, you're you're you're top tier, top-rated.

00:36:23.000 He said, In general, nowadays transactional, there's no real meaning to like learn game and really become a better man.

00:36:31.000 Because think about it, long term, what's the angle?

00:36:34.000 Rich, poor.

00:36:36.000 What do women need? 1.00

00:36:36.000 Security, and the security they look for men with money. 1.00

00:36:39.000 So, ultimately, looks are definitely part of it, but long-term, money's the actual factor, not necessarily.

00:36:45.000 So, hold on, hold on.

00:36:46.000 You mentioned before, times get hard, right?

00:36:48.000 You need help sometimes, right?

00:36:50.000 Survival brings about people's true and biology, uh, biological nature, which means, by example, they're gonna want to have security at the very end of the day, which means the bottom line is money is very important.

00:37:00.000 So, ultimately, in Miami, most women want money as a factor of living here long term. 1.00

00:37:05.000 So, my thing is, like, good women nowadays are hard to find because they want money up front for the most part. 1.00

00:37:10.000 Not every woman, of course, but like most of them here in Miami, especially in Berkeley. 0.90

00:37:15.000 What's crazy is that my parents have been together for like almost 40 years, and my dad has always been a provider.

00:37:26.000 So, everybody talking about nowadays women look at money, it's not looking at money, it's looking at providing. 1.00

00:37:35.000 And certain women will go for a lower-class man because they don't need that much, you know what I mean? 0.86

00:37:41.000 Like she said, you date in your category, you date in your tier, whatever, right?

00:37:45.000 Your caliber, whatever she said.

00:37:47.000 So, if I'm working at McDonald's and I'm living on a couch, clearly, I'm not looking for a, but he could still provide for what I need, which is not much, you know what I mean?

00:38:04.000 But I feel like women always look for providers no matter what level you're looking for. 0.99

00:38:10.000 I do agree that some women are asking for more than what the fuck they're worth nowadays because I feel like every bitch feels like you can't take me to Cheesecake Factory on a first date. 1.00

00:38:21.000 But I literally just got done talking about that today. 0.99

00:38:24.000 I disagree, yeah.

00:38:25.000 No, I get what you're saying, but I feel like on a first date, not Cheesecake Factory, but you could take me there after.

00:38:30.000 But the first date, you should be trying to impress me.

00:38:32.000 The first date, you should care about what I think.

00:38:34.000 So, you're saying all that, right?

00:38:35.000 But, like, let's be honest here, though.

00:38:36.000 Uh, what do we have today?

00:38:38.000 TikTok, Instagram, everything's inflated.

00:38:40.000 So, they're gonna see, yeah, my parents were in love together.

00:38:44.000 That was taking care of households, but now it is like, yo, working bag, travel. 0.99

00:38:48.000 I could do this shit too, even though you're four or five, which is hilarious. 1.00

00:38:51.000 But it's like there's levels of the shit. 1.00

00:38:53.000 So, Gary's saying, but what do we see in society? 1.00

00:38:55.000 People want more than they actually deserve, especially women. 1.00

00:38:58.000 That's what I just said that, right?

00:39:01.000 I just said, like, women think they're worth more than yeah, but then you're also defending women that damn the point is that, like, I think nowadays, especially that dating is definitely more transactional.

00:39:11.000 And at the end of the day, yes, you can say some women are going to go for lower-tier men, but ultimately, what do they all want? 0.88

00:39:17.000 High-tier men.

00:39:18.000 So, but don't, what do you think, bro?

00:39:20.000 I don't necessarily agree, honestly.

00:39:23.000 Without due respect, I don't necessarily agree because when you're saying, as far as a provider, um, initially, everybody always randomly thinks a provider, it has to do with money.

00:39:33.000 I mean, there's a lot of women nowadays that are making their own money that they don't need you to provide them an income, they need you to provide them something more that they can't give themselves with the money. 1.00

00:39:43.000 So, like, just the other day, I asked a question at the event, um, and I was asking to pick in between the two: would you prefer to be with a loyal and a broke person or a rich and toxic person?

00:39:58.000 And after the poll that I did, the majority of the people chose loyal and broke.

00:40:04.000 So, hold on, hold on, hold on.

00:40:07.000 You get a rule, yeah.

00:40:11.000 So, in reality, so like we're like, in reality, you want to say that everybody wants a provider financially, but no, it's not.

00:40:20.000 Like, like initially, they want someone they can make them feel good inside.

00:40:25.000 I think that beats more the money than anything because the women nowadays are making their money, yeah. 1.00

00:40:29.000 But women, the women that make more money than men, they all stress that they have a hard time respecting them. 1.00

00:40:34.000 I agree, not true.

00:40:34.000 Not true.

00:40:36.000 I mean, not necessarily respecting them, but unfortunately, there's going to be a conflict that would not exist if he was making more money than her.

00:40:45.000 Hold on, does your man agreed more money than you?

00:40:47.000 Does he make more money than me?

00:40:47.000 Your man?

00:40:49.000 Um, no, we make the same amount of money, same amount, yeah.

00:40:53.000 I would say, do you respect him as an equal?

00:40:55.000 Uh, yes, I do.

00:40:57.000 See, that's that's better.

00:41:00.000 You have to respect him as an equal, yeah.

00:41:02.000 Okay, but a lot of people want 50-50 these days.

00:41:05.000 I'm not, I'm, I'm not.

00:41:08.000 Unfortunately, I'm that person.

00:41:09.000 If they want 50, I like to.

00:41:11.000 I'm I've always been that person throughout my whole life.

00:41:15.000 Like, you know, even when I was in my baby Zad, even when I was with my ex that, I was with him for seven years.

00:41:19.000 I've always been a 50-50.

00:41:21.000 We equals.

00:41:22.000 I don't like, I've just asked me personally.

00:41:24.000 I don't like the levels of that you're, you know, you could feel that you're better than me.

00:41:28.000 And then that comes with different treatments.

00:41:31.000 So, that I'm not, I'm, I don't agree with you.

00:41:33.000 You don't want the man to feel reality.

00:41:35.000 No, what reality?

00:41:36.000 What is what is the reality?

00:41:37.000 That he is better than you.

00:41:38.000 The man is supposed to be the leader.

00:41:38.000 How is he better?

00:41:40.000 I mean, he could lead always a hundred percent.

00:41:42.000 So, a leader, how is a leader not better than his followers?

00:41:44.000 They follow for a reason.

00:41:46.000 What am I following?

00:41:47.000 You're following a leader.

00:41:48.000 A leader has to follow.

00:41:49.000 What am I following, though?

00:41:49.000 You have to tell me what I'm following, though.

00:41:51.000 You can't just say I'm a leader and not tell me what am I leading.

00:41:53.000 They want to lead you to what you're what's what is better, what you're missing out on.

00:41:57.000 But I'm not missing out on with him.

00:41:57.000 What aspects of that?

00:41:59.000 What is it?

00:42:00.000 I'm not missing out if I'm with him.

00:42:01.000 It doesn't make any sense.

00:42:02.000 If you're with the leader to follow his advice, he could see some things that you might be lacking, could see some things you're not with.

00:42:07.000 Yeah, I wouldn't listen to him because he's a man.

00:42:09.000 I would say, because he's a man, yes.

00:42:10.000 But if you're listening to him, he has to be better.

00:42:12.000 You can't listen to a man that's lesser, right?

00:42:15.000 So, the woman you're with, you want so then necessarily. 0.97

00:42:18.000 To submit, yes, when he told you to do that, that is God's intended way.

00:42:23.000 You see, the problem is that modern society has made it feel like submission is a punishment.

00:42:27.000 Submission is a gift.

00:42:28.000 No, it's not.

00:42:29.000 Submission is a gift because a submission puts a woman in her feminine energy. 1.00

00:42:32.000 As soon as a woman don't feel like she's in a submissive position, she becomes masculine. 0.99

00:42:36.000 That's not her natural sense.

00:42:36.000 Correct.

00:42:38.000 Who wants a manly bitch? 1.00

00:42:40.000 No nigga. 1.00

00:42:41.000 No nigga. 1.00

00:42:41.000 Nobody. 1.00

00:42:43.000 Who beg to differ? 1.00

00:42:44.000 They're fun to fuck and they're fun to talk with. 1.00

00:42:46.000 And they're fun to be homeboys. 1.00

00:42:48.000 I don't exactly.

00:42:49.000 I mean, my situations, they could complain about how aggressive or how masculine, however you guys want to say it, I've been.

00:42:58.000 But, you know, I wasn't with a guy for one day.

00:43:02.000 My relationship have all been long-term.

00:43:04.000 Yeah, but hold on.

00:43:05.000 They can be.

00:43:06.000 But they ended, right?

00:43:07.000 No, they're not.

00:43:08.000 They have never been.

00:43:08.000 There was 10, 7, and we're going on a year and a half.

00:43:11.000 So clearly, the dominance in me is not that bad.

00:43:15.000 But they ended though, right?

00:43:16.000 They ended, of course.

00:43:17.000 By her account, though.

00:43:18.000 Of course.

00:43:19.000 No, it doesn't even matter by what account.

00:43:20.000 Because at the end of the day, two different people are able to see things in different ways at some point or another.

00:43:26.000 That's called growth.

00:43:26.000 But it also shows like he could grow, I can grow.

00:43:29.000 Every man that you've talked to, you're saying they won't.

00:43:30.000 They agree with the 50-50 relationship.

00:43:32.000 No, no, no, no.

00:43:33.000 I didn't say that.

00:43:34.000 I said I choose that.

00:43:36.000 I never said what they were.

00:43:37.000 Are they accepting it?

00:43:38.000 I mean, whatever they want to do is on them. 1.00

00:43:41.000 If they've accepted it, that makes sense why you've had success in a dumb relationship because they're too submissive, they damn shelf. 0.99

00:43:46.000 So, I mean, that itself says the men that you're targeting aren't the ones that put you in your position you're supposed to be in. 0.99

00:43:51.000 Yeah.

00:43:51.000 Which is what?

00:43:53.000 Submission.

00:43:53.000 You shouldn't be saying that you're masculine or any of those things.

00:43:56.000 That's just not your natural sense.

00:43:57.000 I mean, I mean, for me, I mean, you only become masculine as a woman through care. 0.92

00:44:02.000 Every type of person, me personally, has a different upbringing and a different lifestyle.

00:44:06.000 Some are able to be more feminine than others.

00:44:10.000 And unfortunately, that comes with life.

00:44:12.000 A female's masculinity is a survival tactic. 1.00

00:44:14.000 Yeah.

00:44:15.000 Right.

00:44:15.000 And depending on how you how you're up.

00:44:17.000 But the point is that you were put in the position to feel like you need to survive because a man wasn't there to protect you.

00:44:21.000 My father was not in my life.

00:44:23.000 Understandable.

00:44:23.000 So, okay.

00:44:24.000 So if you had a strong leader, a man with a position you're supposed to play, you wouldn't even have these problems.

00:44:29.000 If a man that initially was supposed to be in life played his role, was a leader, you wouldn't have those issues.

00:44:34.000 But I didn't get that upbringing from my father, from the leader.

00:44:37.000 I got it from a woman. 0.97

00:44:38.000 So then I guess naturally it continues.

00:44:40.000 And it's a circle of life.

00:44:40.000 Yes.

00:44:41.000 It's a cycle. 1.00

00:44:42.000 Now, no, dumb. 1.00

00:44:42.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:44:43.000 If she had a father in her life that was there for her, to give her instructions, say, daughter, listen, go this path.

00:44:48.000 You're doing this for me.

00:44:49.000 Maybe it would have been different.

00:44:50.000 Because she didn't have that.

00:44:50.000 It would have been different.

00:44:51.000 However, he's saying, no, move forward.

00:44:53.000 You're adult.

00:44:54.000 You're older.

00:44:54.000 There's some trauma in the past.

00:44:56.000 A new man that comes in your life is going to say, you know what?

00:44:58.000 I don't know.

00:44:59.000 It's to me.

00:45:00.000 Is that you?

00:45:02.000 It's probably not you.

00:45:03.000 But what does he want?

00:45:04.000 Right.

00:45:05.000 You know, like, that's very important.

00:45:07.000 Some guys, I guess, like a more, um, you know, I wouldn't even say dominant because I hate that word, like the whole masculine thing.

00:45:14.000 It's just those men are looking for the men.

00:45:16.000 You're talking about a woman that knows what she wants. 1.00

00:45:19.000 A woman that just doesn't need guidance from somebody. 1.00

00:45:21.000 They're looking for a mother. 0.99

00:45:22.000 I guess so.

00:45:23.000 That's you.

00:45:24.000 I guess so.

00:45:25.000 I guess I have to have my mom rose. 1.00

00:45:27.000 And that's why ants.

00:45:28.000 And then that's a cycle of their lives.

00:45:28.000 Yeah.

00:45:30.000 And I guess they were leaders.

00:45:31.000 What about your mother?

00:45:32.000 Because I guess, you know, so then it is.

00:45:34.000 What about your cycle, though?

00:45:35.000 How did you know?

00:45:36.000 How do they leaders not to lead us because they're men?

00:45:38.000 But they were looking for mothers.

00:45:40.000 So but you have too many people in love.

00:45:42.000 So I'm going to be listening to somebody that just needed a mother.

00:45:44.000 It doesn't make any sense.

00:45:45.000 But there's two people in love playing outside their role.

00:45:47.000 He's too submissive.

00:45:47.000 You're too dominant.

00:45:48.000 Correct.

00:45:48.000 It just doesn't work.

00:45:50.000 But what you're agreeing to me on the fact of that that's not the natural state of a woman. 1.00

00:45:54.000 Yes, and a woman typically is only at that point because they've been forced there. 0.92

00:45:57.000 So what's wrong with the man saying that a woman should submit? 0.87

00:45:57.000 Correct. 0.87

00:46:00.000 Because a man can't just say it.

00:46:02.000 He has to have a woman. 1.00

00:46:04.000 He has to be able to be able to put those guards down when she's had them up for so long.

00:46:08.000 Yeah, that's easy for a man to do.

00:46:09.000 You can do that in a week if you're a good man.

00:46:11.000 No, no, no.

00:46:11.000 That's not a problem.

00:46:12.000 We're not talking about dropping the panties.

00:46:14.000 I'm not talking about dropping the body.

00:46:15.000 I'm talking about submitting a week.

00:46:16.000 To understand and know that they're safe and they're secure.

00:46:18.000 They're trying to be submissive.

00:46:19.000 Knowing they're safe and secure because it only takes a man a week for a woman to know that he could air my kids if I need him to.

00:46:23.000 So you feel that every man can make a woman do that?

00:46:26.000 If the man is good, if he's genuine and intentional and truly wants to be so then, every man can't lead then.

00:46:32.000 No, hell no. 0.99

00:46:33.000 There's a lot of submissive ass niggas. 1.00

00:46:35.000 But I said a man in his natural state, they are a leader. 1.00

00:46:37.000 A natural man is better than a natural woman in every way. 1.00

00:46:42.000 I won't argue with that.

00:46:43.000 Good point.

00:46:45.000 Okay.

00:46:46.000 So I'm glad you brought up this topic because it's actually a very good topic.

00:46:49.000 Got a video here to play.

00:46:50.000 I actually demonstrate this thing full-time.

00:46:53.000 A lady talking about her struggles with dating.

00:46:56.000 And what's happening is she's definitely masculine, definitely been through a couple guys, but she understands now that dating is just a change that's cooked.

00:47:10.000 And funny, you posted this video actually. 0.99

00:47:11.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:47:14.000 Oh, this is right. 1.00

00:47:15.000 Here we go.

00:47:15.000 Yeah.

00:47:16.000 Oh, I've seen this. 1.00

00:47:17.000 Yeah, this shit's crazy. 1.00

00:47:19.000 You want me to be honest? 1.00

00:47:19.000 All right. 1.00

00:47:20.000 I'm angry.

00:47:22.000 I'm mad.

00:47:25.000 I'm fuming.

00:47:28.000 I'm on fire.

00:47:32.000 I'm mad because I care more about you than you care about me. 0.99

00:47:37.000 And that's how it's always fucking God. 0.99

00:47:39.000 Oh, my God. 0.99

00:47:40.000 I'm tired of it.

00:47:43.000 I'm mad.

00:47:44.000 I'm angry.

00:47:45.000 I'm tired of feeling so much.

00:47:48.000 I'm tired of being in my head.

00:47:51.000 I hate it.

00:47:54.000 angry i'm angry i'm angry how much i try to let go of it and give it to god it's still so heavy I feel hopeless.

00:48:13.000 I feel humiliated.

00:48:15.000 That's why I'm embarrassed.

00:48:16.000 She's going through it.

00:48:19.000 I'm confused.

00:48:22.000 We see that.

00:48:23.000 And I can't ask for help.

00:48:28.000 I'm over it, bro.

00:48:30.000 Was this really both?

00:48:31.000 Yes.

00:48:32.000 Oh, my gosh.

00:48:33.000 I'm sick of this.

00:48:34.000 I'm sick of this.

00:48:35.000 Think of this.

00:48:36.000 I don't want to feel anymore.

00:48:41.000 Feeling is what's supposed to make somebody a person.

00:48:44.000 And I don't even.

00:48:45.000 Yeah, so women are frustrated across the board. 1.00

00:48:51.000 Dating definitely is a lot harder.

00:48:53.000 And as you can see, women are going through it every single day by themselves, of course.

00:48:58.000 They're crying.

00:48:59.000 They're depressed.

00:49:00.000 But again, the question was: what does your man actually want from you?

00:49:04.000 And if you know what that is, could you tell me?

00:49:06.000 We'll start here.

00:49:08.000 Well, and my situation is to be a mother and to be a wife and take care of the house like I do. 0.93

00:49:14.000 So I have no complaints and I have no problems.

00:49:17.000 My life is good.

00:49:19.000 Has that ever happened to you?

00:49:19.000 Be honest.

00:49:20.000 You in a car by yourself?

00:49:23.000 If it did happen to me, I wouldn't have posted it.

00:49:25.000 Number one.

00:49:26.000 And number two, no, I have never felt that level of frustration to scream on a phone.

00:49:26.000 Fair.

00:49:34.000 So I cannot relate.

00:49:36.000 Okay.

00:49:37.000 What about you?

00:49:38.000 Same.

00:49:39.000 I absolutely could not relate.

00:49:43.000 But I feel like I haven't felt like that since I was in my first relationship.

00:49:51.000 You know?

00:49:52.000 Right.

00:49:52.000 Yeah.

00:49:53.000 Like, of course, I feel like every girl, and you're lying if you didn't go through it, but the first time you ever felt like you were in love, like you went through it.

00:50:00.000 Yeah, you went.

00:50:00.000 But the thing is that as you grow, you learn, right?

00:50:04.000 And you don't make the same mistake you're not supposed to.

00:50:07.000 And you just find better.

00:50:10.000 Like, I honestly, I can't say that any of my exes were like terrible, maybe one, terrible men, though.

00:50:18.000 Like, you know, I don't feel, I feel like I do good picking men.

00:50:22.000 Like, I don't know.

00:50:24.000 I feel like I do a good job picking men.

00:50:26.000 Well, you got one now, but I mean takes a while.

00:50:30.000 And for you?

00:50:33.000 I haven't screamed out of phone like that, but I have been like in a situation where I have felt maybe I think she feels more still like her, played with, confused, you know, because sometimes not just men, but women do the same thing and like play games with the opposite sex as well.

00:50:54.000 But it's like it was a point where I was talking to someone and I will always think it was gonna like go somewhere because of the way like he would treat me.

00:51:02.000 But then it was like, then when I wasn't there and I would say like little things that would insinuate more exclusivity, then it's like, oh no, then we're just friends.

00:51:12.000 And I'm like, okay.

00:51:14.000 Okay.

00:51:15.000 So it's like I did have to like obviously come to my stanzas and understand like he doesn't see me how I see him.

00:51:23.000 But I ain't, I didn't scream at myself like that.

00:51:26.000 But what I just did was like, you know, I'm like, is either two things? 0.97

00:51:30.000 Either I keep being dumb or just cut ties. 0.96

00:51:34.000 And I cut ties and that's that. 0.99

00:51:37.000 And but you know, it can happen.

00:51:40.000 Like I'm sure men be screaming at themselves in the car too, the same way women scream at them. 0.96

00:51:44.000 I'm sure people live in the car too.

00:51:45.000 I'm not sure if you're a video of a man screaming.

00:51:47.000 You know, so it's like, but yeah, but it's a big difference though.

00:51:49.000 Because if a woman does it, it's okay. 1.00

00:51:51.000 If a guy does it, he's a loser. 0.99

00:51:52.000 He's there. 0.98

00:51:54.000 I don't see society. 0.99

00:51:55.000 I think she's a loser for posting it. 1.00

00:51:57.000 I agree. 0.99

00:51:57.000 Okay. 0.99

00:51:58.000 That's fair.

00:51:58.000 I agree.

00:51:59.000 For posting it.

00:52:00.000 I feel like anybody that cries on social media over like real situations, I feel like it's really a cry for help, though.

00:52:09.000 Some could be like, send it to your personal family.

00:52:13.000 Send it to your Facebook friends separately, the ones that care.

00:52:16.000 Like, I'm looking at it and I don't have different mindsets.

00:52:20.000 You know, I just feel bad for her because she did say she did say one statement that said, I don't have anyone to say this to.

00:52:31.000 Or I think she said, I don't have no one who to talk to.

00:52:34.000 So maybe that was her form of venting because she has, which I still, I don't know.

00:52:40.000 I'm not, I'm no one to judge, but I just feel like maybe she just don't have nobody to talk to in general.

00:52:47.000 Some people just don't have nobody to like talk to.

00:52:50.000 I don't know.

00:52:51.000 What do you think, Don?

00:52:52.000 What do you think?

00:52:53.000 Well, I guess my response really would be a question.

00:52:54.000 So the woman, the video was actually talking about how the woman can't find love and she's struggling to find a partner.

00:52:59.000 But so I would have a question for all the women on the board. 0.97

00:53:02.000 How many of you have been invited to at least a VIP table, some type of VIP event from a guy or maybe a group of friends?

00:53:08.000 That happens right here.

00:53:08.000 We're in Miami.

00:53:10.000 So you've experienced it.

00:53:11.000 When you go to these events, have you ever like gone back and told your friends like any dudes that you saw was attractive or you know, you had some good connections?

00:53:11.000 Right.

00:53:19.000 Do you ever like go back?

00:53:20.000 Like just regular conversation.

00:53:21.000 I had a good time last night.

00:53:23.000 For the already I have with my best friend that I have.

00:53:23.000 Yeah.

00:53:26.000 Now, when you talk about the men, is it typically the men, maybe I don't know if it's strip club or is it the men that's throwing money?

00:53:32.000 Is it the men that look like they have status?

00:53:33.000 Or is it the men that's in the VIP section with you that you go back and talk about? 1.00

00:53:37.000 Because what I normally notice with women, they don't notice the janitor that was in that motherfucker. 1.00

00:53:41.000 They don't know the bartender. 1.00

00:53:42.000 They don't notice the dude at the door.

00:53:44.000 Do you notice the janitor? 1.00

00:53:45.000 I'm a nigga. 0.99

00:53:45.000 I do. 0.99

00:53:46.000 Because I was broke as fuck, too. 0.99

00:53:47.000 Oh, okay. 1.00

00:53:48.000 So of course I'm going to notice him.

00:53:49.000 I understand his reality.

00:53:50.000 No, no, I'm saying a woman janitor. 1.00

00:53:51.000 Would you notice the woman janitor? 1.00

00:53:53.000 Niggas are fucking anything. 1.00

00:53:54.000 Yeah, of course. 1.00

00:53:55.000 Exactly.

00:53:56.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:53:57.000 Oh, my God.

00:53:58.000 Ronaldo. 0.99

00:53:59.000 One of the greatest fucking football players of all time. 0.99

00:54:03.000 Ronaldo, this girl that he met was it, what she worked for Louis Buffon. 0.99

00:54:07.000 Yeah, something like Guccia store.

00:54:07.000 Yeah, Gucci.

00:54:09.000 So yeah, man, it don't matter.

00:54:10.000 So that's that's not unique.

00:54:10.000 They date down.

00:54:12.000 Yeah, don't notice the janitor.

00:54:13.000 Because dudes, they get a sense of pride from changing a janitor to a supermodel or whatever, because they can say they did that.

00:54:18.000 So we're in a different reality.

00:54:20.000 But a lot of women, they might miss their husband, who's a janitor, that will become the boss one day. 1.00

00:54:24.000 Because I've never been, I wasn't always the boss.

00:54:26.000 I was one time the mom, but I was overlooked many, many, many times simply because I just wasn't of a status.

00:54:32.000 That's understandable because a woman is looking for security, not a janitor. 1.00

00:54:36.000 But at the same time, how do you know the janitor isn't your security?

00:54:39.000 That's what I said.

00:54:40.000 So it's like I see women like that that's complaining, and a lot of times they're overlooking the men that if they gave them the chance, if they got to know them and found out they had the potential, they were going to give them the world forever. 1.00

00:54:50.000 Give them kids and never look back.

00:54:52.000 Because one thing about a man, if you believe in them, when they're chasing their dreams, no matter how much of a dog they might be, they'll never give up on you.

00:54:58.000 Yeah, that's one thing I can account.

00:54:59.000 I mean, there's some of the sorriest niggas. 1.00

00:55:00.000 They won't give up on the one that believed in them.

00:55:03.000 You know what's funny about this video?

00:55:03.000 Good point.

00:55:04.000 I guarantee she's like 30 friends in the friend zone.

00:55:06.000 30 guys in the friend zone.

00:55:08.000 Guys she looked over in the past from school.

00:55:10.000 Good guys that said, you know what?

00:55:11.000 I don't know why you up.

00:55:12.000 She said no to them.

00:55:13.000 She's not by looking, by the way.

00:55:14.000 But my issues are like attention is getting on the internet.

00:55:17.000 It's crazy.

00:55:18.000 You're crying on camera for attention.

00:55:20.000 Now, mind you, all the guys in the past that she looked over, where are they now?

00:55:25.000 And they would have been probably good candidates for her.

00:55:26.000 You said before.

00:55:27.000 So to me, it's kind of like this video here encompasses and shows that a lot of men are passing about good guys because they don't feel like the guys good to them are going to be good for them long term.

00:55:36.000 Intuition is there, but it's not really there because that could happen to a lot of women. 1.00

00:55:41.000 So, but yeah, so going back this way one more time.

00:55:45.000 Let's say, right, you found a dream, you're a dream guy, which you kind of found a guy ready.

00:55:51.000 What would you bring to him on to the table?

00:55:53.000 Like, would you give him like loyalty?

00:55:55.000 Would you give him like kids?

00:55:56.000 What do you give to him?

00:55:58.000 I mean, I can only speak on the situation I'm in unless we're speaking about hypothetical situations.

00:56:04.000 In general, yeah.

00:56:04.000 Okay.

00:56:05.000 What I would bring is if I really love the guy that I'm with, I would bring loyalty.

00:56:10.000 I would be, you know, if we have kids, I would be a mother like I am.

00:56:13.000 I would hold down the house like I do.

00:56:15.000 I would go, you know, we have Airbnbs together.

00:56:18.000 We have upcoming businesses coming up, construction companies that we are building up together.

00:56:23.000 So, you know, it just depends who you can build with.

00:56:27.000 You can't just get with somebody and be a dead end.

00:56:29.000 You know, I'm not saying my relationship is perfect, but we're trying and we have things that we are building up.

00:56:33.000 Is it cool?

00:56:33.000 You having three kids?

00:56:35.000 Oh, oh, hypothetically.

00:56:36.000 Yeah.

00:56:37.000 I mean, I have dealt with men that are cool with it and do want to step up to the plate.

00:56:43.000 So three kids has never stopped anything, baby.

00:56:46.000 So, so he has to take on the thing.

00:56:52.000 They want to.

00:56:53.000 Whoa.

00:56:54.000 Okay, so he works his ass off, gets to a certain point, successful, and that's to take care of your kids as well.

00:57:00.000 No, because I can take care of my own kids. 0.98

00:57:02.000 And they have a father.

00:57:03.000 He don't got to pay that.

00:57:04.000 But if he does want to, like, situationships I have had in the past, they do step up to the plate and they do want to.

00:57:12.000 I find that very short-term, though.

00:57:17.000 That's where I'm good where I'm at.

00:57:18.000 So, you know.

00:57:20.000 Okay.

00:57:21.000 And for you?

00:57:26.000 Me what?

00:57:27.000 Your husband, what does he want from you?

00:57:30.000 Um, eventually, at some point, kids.

00:57:35.000 Of course.

00:57:37.000 I, um, we both want me to be a stay at home.

00:57:46.000 But I like to, I like, so I'm not really like pushing my business.

00:57:51.000 Everybody be like, like, how's your business going?

00:57:53.000 And like, it's not going as good as it could or should.

00:57:56.000 But it's because I don't really promote it because I don't want to do it no more.

00:57:59.000 I've had it for like eight years.

00:58:01.000 And I do want to stay home, but I don't have any kids.

00:58:07.000 I'm going to be bored over there.

00:58:08.000 You know?

00:58:10.000 You seem confused.

00:58:12.000 What do you mean?

00:58:13.000 I've had my business for eight years.

00:58:15.000 Yeah.

00:58:16.000 I have loyal clients, like clients that I don't want to like give up on.

00:58:16.000 Okay.

00:58:22.000 I do want to.

00:58:24.000 Wait, hold on.

00:58:24.000 So your husband wants you to quit your job and stay at home mom.

00:58:27.000 He doesn't want me to, but yeah, that's the end goal.

00:58:31.000 When I am a mom, like I'm not a mom right now, and I like to have my own money, and he still, of course, provides for whatever I need, like you know, but I like to have my own too.

00:58:44.000 Good though, well, I mean, I mean, it makes sense, especially if the husband approves. 0.95

00:58:48.000 I mean, shit, having a kid, I feel like this, man. 0.98

00:58:50.000 It's too many people that's rushing to have kids on emotion. 1.00

00:58:53.000 If you're doing it intentional, and I can't deny that, man, I can't even declip for him. 1.00

00:58:58.000 Like, I can't help but fuck with that because I don't have kids because a pussy is good. 1.00

00:59:01.000 Yeah, that too, but a kid is like it's just permanent. 1.00

00:59:04.000 So, I think a lot of mothers that when they become understood, they wish they could wait their time.

00:59:07.000 So, if you take your time with it, I can't disagree with that. 1.00

00:59:09.000 But I would say a shit with women, it's unfortunate, man. 1.00

00:59:12.000 I didn't make the rules. 1.00

00:59:13.000 The older y'all get, it's better off to have a kid because of health issues or whatnot.

00:59:16.000 That's beyond being emotional, but you know, I'm sure you already know that.

00:59:19.000 Yeah, but outside of that, I understand.

00:59:22.000 Like I said, like now, you know, I'm at a point where, yeah, we do want to have kids, but it's not like anything that's like being rushed.

00:59:29.000 Maybe I'm like by 35, I'll be like, you know what?

00:59:33.000 Let's think that scares me.

00:59:34.000 Even that, yeah, and even that's your reaching point.

00:59:38.000 I don't want to be having a blast.

00:59:42.000 Like, I've traveled so much, I have such a good time, and I know I'll be able to do that with a kid, but it's just like you know, what worries me?

00:59:51.000 I'm 31, I don't have a kid yet.

00:59:52.000 I've turned 32 on the 23rd of this month, and I've been thinking to myself for the first time. 0.97

00:59:56.000 It's like, nigga, if I wait till I'm 40, that little nigga gonna be dead. 1.00

00:59:59.000 Like, I'm not missing my grandkids. 1.00

01:00:01.000 Like, this shit gets real the older we get. 0.99

01:00:02.000 Yeah, I say that. 1.00

01:00:03.000 And it's like, is anyone else thinking that way?

01:00:05.000 Like, honest to God, if you have that kid at 40, 50, I'm gonna miss out a lot of their life.

01:00:10.000 Yeah, I think my parents feel like that because I don't have any grandkids.

01:00:13.000 We're racing the clock.

01:00:14.000 We won't ever see our great grands, etc.

01:00:15.000 Like, it'd have been a lot easier if we had them at 20s.

01:00:18.000 But the older we get, there's that's guaranteeing that you're gonna miss more and more of their life.

01:00:24.000 And when you have kids, that becomes your entire life.

01:00:26.000 So, there's, I don't know, it's like, is it really worth it to experience the quote-unquote life without kids?

01:00:31.000 Because everyone has kids, it becomes their world. 0.94

01:00:33.000 I used to be a teacher.

01:00:33.000 I want kids.

01:00:35.000 So, my degree is in early childhood education.

01:00:38.000 Just like Chris.

01:00:39.000 Yeah.

01:00:40.000 Early childhood education.

01:00:41.000 I used to be a teacher and I love kids.

01:00:44.000 Like, but I like to give them back too. 0.99

01:00:49.000 I go home and I do whatever the fuck I want. 0.98

01:00:52.000 You know? 0.99

01:00:52.000 Yeah. 0.99

01:00:53.000 Like, but I do want kids because I love kids.

01:00:57.000 Like, it's not like anything I'm against at all.

01:01:00.000 I love kids.

01:01:01.000 Babysit, everything.

01:01:03.000 Like, cool.

01:01:04.000 I love kids.

01:01:05.000 And kids love me, you know?

01:01:08.000 But I just feel like I'm still having fun.

01:01:12.000 But also, you know, I wouldn't be mad if it happened right now.

01:01:16.000 You know what I mean?

01:01:17.000 Like, I'm not, I'm not.

01:01:19.000 I'm already at the age where it's okay if I do get pregnant.

01:01:22.000 You know, whatever happens, happens.

01:01:24.000 But I'm not like.

01:01:26.000 35 is my late, though.

01:01:27.000 35 is very late.

01:01:28.000 I feel like at 35, if it didn't happen, we're doing like in vitro.

01:01:35.000 Like, but I'm carrying, and we're having a kid.

01:01:39.000 And the husband, the husband's older.

01:01:41.000 Older than me.

01:01:42.000 But so coming older.

01:01:46.000 Okay.

01:01:47.000 So if that makes sense.

01:01:48.000 So I'm saying, though, if he has.

01:01:51.000 He's 42.

01:01:52.000 So, okay.

01:01:53.000 He's still not too old.

01:01:55.000 The same thing, too.

01:01:56.000 I mean, the same goes for me that would go for him.

01:01:57.000 That's not old.

01:01:58.000 The longer he waits to have kids.

01:02:00.000 They could still have kids.

01:02:00.000 Men could have kids till like we die a lot quicker than y'all.

01:02:04.000 Yeah, but men's clock is different than women, though. 0.97

01:02:06.000 Women is different. 1.00

01:02:07.000 We own this earth a lot less than y'all.

01:02:08.000 Y'all outlive us.

01:02:10.000 Even when a woman dies.

01:02:13.000 So if a woman, it's proven when a woman, when a spouse dies and it's a female, I mean, all of you probably have seen this yourself. 0.68

01:02:20.000 The man follows right behind the woman. 0.99

01:02:22.000 Women survive, outlive their men, write books and all kinds of shit. 1.00

01:02:26.000 Yes, they do. 1.00

01:02:26.000 It's true. 1.00

01:02:27.000 I mean, that itself shows you.

01:02:28.000 It's proven to say to her.

01:02:30.000 We didn't choose that. 0.73

01:02:30.000 Selfish. 0.73

01:02:32.000 Man died from a broken goddamn heart. 1.00

01:02:34.000 I'm like selfish. 1.00

01:02:36.000 I don't want to do this.

01:02:37.000 It has to be.

01:02:39.000 You should have been stronger.

01:02:42.000 I thought men were better. 1.00

01:02:43.000 That's the crazy thing.

01:02:44.000 So listen, even in death.

01:02:44.000 What happened?

01:02:47.000 Even in death, even in death, even if it's led to our love for them, we're not allowed to be weak.

01:02:52.000 100%.

01:02:53.000 So even the fact that you're not.

01:02:54.000 So be strong and outlive us.

01:02:57.000 It's biology.

01:02:58.000 It's not our fault.

01:02:59.000 Okay, so it's not our fault that we're living longer. 0.92

01:03:01.000 What the hell? 1.00

01:03:02.000 If you die and you're crazy and your husband survives, he's following right behind you, is what I'm saying. 1.00

01:03:09.000 Typically, the husband's father, they die from a heart attack, etc. 0.98

01:03:12.000 Like the same year, less than a year out.

01:03:15.000 You never almost hear that with a woman.

01:03:16.000 You don't hear the oh, she died from a heart attack after her husband died, you know, 60, 7 years old.

01:03:20.000 You only hear that with the husband.

01:03:22.000 Right.

01:03:22.000 I mean, from either side, so I don't know.

01:03:24.000 Shit, I done heard it three times in my own family. 1.00

01:03:26.000 Them niggas drop when their wife is. 1.00

01:03:28.000 They love it.

01:03:30.000 So why is it love?

01:03:31.000 So why can't the woman follow the man? 1.00

01:03:33.000 What's lacking?

01:03:34.000 I feel like if a woman's that in love, they would too.

01:03:36.000 But it doesn't happen.

01:03:37.000 Now we're speaking, not respecting hypothetical attacks.

01:03:39.000 You gotta ask God about that.

01:03:40.000 We're speaking of hypotheticals, no, but I can ask a woman because she's here. 0.84

01:03:43.000 I can't ask him.

01:03:44.000 I can ask him, but he'll probably tell me through you.

01:03:47.000 So the question is, it's like, so why is it that a man, even in death, nigga, they ain't even allowed to die. 1.00

01:03:53.000 It's like, oh, you should have been alive. 0.99

01:03:54.000 Like, damn, that's our whole reality, bro. 0.98

01:03:57.000 So even loving a woman too hard, so you mean to tell me it validates right now that we shouldn't love you too hard. 0.99

01:04:02.000 We shouldn't go too hard. 1.00

01:04:03.000 Because if we die, you're going to say, well, damn, that nigga was too weak to live. 1.00

01:04:06.000 So it's like, man, he always put yourself first. 0.99

01:04:08.000 And you're going to be a little bit more damn good. 0.51

01:04:09.000 No, it's real. 0.95

01:04:10.000 It's real. 1.00

01:04:10.000 Because if a man don't put himself first, he'll be dead off this motherfucker. 1.00

01:04:13.000 And she's going to say, boo-hoo, you should have been stronger to be here. 1.00

01:04:16.000 Everybody put themselves first, first of all.

01:04:19.000 Yeah.

01:04:20.000 You'll consider watching a man get married in the first place then. 0.76

01:04:22.000 Because we're going to lose at the very end.

01:04:24.000 But niggas lose. 1.00

01:04:25.000 You said, why?

01:04:26.000 Losing life and death.

01:04:27.000 So what's the W here for us getting married?

01:04:31.000 You know what's crazy?

01:04:32.000 My parents didn't get married till their 27th anniversary.

01:04:37.000 They did not get married.

01:04:38.000 Like, they were just together.

01:04:40.000 And I swear to God, on everything I love, everything, I've never seen my parents argue.

01:04:48.000 I've never seen them raise their voice at each other.

01:04:48.000 That's good.

01:04:50.000 That's good.

01:04:51.000 I've seen them mad at each other.

01:04:52.000 And I only know they're mad because my mom will serve my dad a plate and just put it down on the table instead of bringing it to him.

01:04:58.000 You know what I mean?

01:04:59.000 But my mom still serves him the plate, no matter what.

01:05:03.000 You know what I mean?

01:05:04.000 Yeah, but we're in a different generation, though.

01:05:05.000 I feel like back then, it was a lot more traditional.

01:05:08.000 No, it's just like you said, were you raised with a dad?

01:05:12.000 You know?

01:05:12.000 Yeah.

01:05:13.000 But what about you?

01:05:14.000 The question: what topic were we back on again?

01:05:17.000 So you found your dream man.

01:05:19.000 What would you give to him to make it work?

01:05:23.000 I agree with a lot of the things that you were saying about the submission to a man because I feel like how can a man be a man by you not being submissive?

01:05:38.000 I am smart and I do work a lot.

01:05:40.000 So I don't just sit here and just have my hand out.

01:05:44.000 Like, my goal is for all of us to be better.

01:05:47.000 Like, at the end of the day, when we retire, I want both of us to be good.

01:05:51.000 Like, and I agree with what he was saying earlier.

01:05:54.000 Like, I feel like I'm good, but I would like to have another man to make me better.

01:06:00.000 So I listen.

01:06:02.000 Uh-huh.

01:06:03.000 You listen?

01:06:04.000 I'm observant.

01:06:05.000 Okay.

01:06:07.000 That's great.

01:06:08.000 Does it?

01:06:09.000 I'm smart.

01:06:10.000 I work hard.

01:06:13.000 And yeah.

01:06:15.000 That's amazing.

01:06:16.000 Imagine, though.

01:06:17.000 I got a 39-year-old that's smart, listens, and observant.

01:06:21.000 This is great.

01:06:22.000 What about you?

01:06:24.000 Your current man, at least.

01:06:27.000 What do I, what does he expect from me?

01:06:30.000 Yeah.

01:06:31.000 What would you say he expects from you?

01:06:34.000 In my current relationship.

01:06:36.000 Because obviously you're the boss, so boss lady. 1.00

01:06:39.000 I mean, I would say to be a bit more less vocal.

01:06:46.000 So are you like nagging him?

01:06:48.000 Annoying him?

01:06:49.000 not nagging i'm just very um are you mad at this What I feel, I say.

01:06:54.000 Opinionated.

01:06:56.000 What I feel, I say.

01:06:57.000 So, and maybe it would be just that, to be less vocal.

01:07:02.000 You know what's crazy?

01:07:04.000 I was wondering, okay, why do marriages stay along and last longer than most people being, right?

01:07:09.000 Why does it last so long?

01:07:10.000 And usually it's because each partner knows the other partner very well.

01:07:13.000 They know their habits.

01:07:14.000 They know their actual like pet peeves, all that stuff.

01:07:17.000 But what's funny is that the nagging part of women to men never goes away. 0.92

01:07:23.000 And even at the lowest, I want to say level, most women will always say, you know what? 0.82

01:07:29.000 I need to speak my mind.

01:07:30.000 But like, why are you doing that?

01:07:31.000 If you know it pisses him off, you know?

01:07:33.000 Why speak your mind if you know it's going to get him upset?

01:07:35.000 Because it's my mind to speak about.

01:07:38.000 Yeah, but you know he doesn't like it, though.

01:07:40.000 But I mean, at the end of the day, me personally, my personal opinion, I'm not living on this earth just to satisfy his needs.

01:07:40.000 Right.

01:07:48.000 She said they're equals.

01:07:50.000 So if he gets to speak, she gets to speak. 0.98

01:07:52.000 But that's a problem, though.

01:07:54.000 That's the issue.

01:07:54.000 If you're equal, that's a problem for you.

01:07:57.000 I'm sure he won't say it.

01:07:59.000 No, I'm sure that he feels that way as well.

01:08:02.000 But again, you're asking me about me.

01:08:04.000 And I can only speak for myself and I can only think for myself and I can only like move for myself.

01:08:10.000 Like I can't control what another person thinks, feels, or anything like that.

01:08:14.000 If you want it to last, he has to be happy too, right?

01:08:17.000 If I want it to last, I'm going to just always keep her, you know, as authentic as I can be to him and to myself.

01:08:24.000 Has that worked in the past, long term?

01:08:26.000 I mean, I had 10 years, seven years.

01:08:29.000 It wasn't that bad.

01:08:31.000 I'm not like the majority of women these days that are just, you know, a new, you know, they're in love with a new guy every three months. 1.00

01:08:37.000 You know, so dumb. 0.99

01:08:39.000 I hear what you're saying. 1.00

01:08:40.000 I understand.

01:08:41.000 But let's say that this is your girl.

01:08:43.000 She says to you how she feels in the moment.

01:08:46.000 It could be a bit annoying, maybe a bit nagging sometimes.

01:08:50.000 Because I know how I respond.

01:08:50.000 How would you respond?

01:08:52.000 I would say it's disrespectful because typically women only do that with a man. 1.00

01:08:56.000 They won't do it in other aspects. 0.98

01:08:57.000 Like we feel all kind of shit about people that we don't say.

01:09:00.000 I speak my mind to everybody. 0.96

01:09:00.000 Oh, no. 0.96

01:09:03.000 I mean, if you know me, you know.

01:09:05.000 I have a very, like, that's just who I am.

01:09:07.000 It's not nothing personal.

01:09:08.000 So you don't have a filter or anything?

01:09:10.000 So, I mean, I do.

01:09:11.000 I have a sense of filter that at times I can control and at times I can't.

01:09:15.000 It all depends how emotional I am at the moment.

01:09:18.000 So you're kind of dictated by your emotions.

01:09:21.000 Not my emotions, by what I feel behind my emotions.

01:09:26.000 Like what gets you to feel like.

01:09:26.000 So that's emotions behind emotions?

01:09:28.000 Because feel an emotional.

01:09:29.000 The thought of the emotion.

01:09:30.000 You know, the thought that brings behind the emotion, if that makes any sense.

01:09:33.000 Like, I'm not going to just get emotional about something just because.

01:09:36.000 But we can think emotionally.

01:09:37.000 I mean, even that thought itself stems from emotion.

01:09:40.000 I don't just think emotionally.

01:09:41.000 It's behind what comes with the emotion.

01:09:44.000 Like what I feel strongly about.

01:09:46.000 What's your biggest pet peeve?

01:09:48.000 Having to repeat myself.

01:09:49.000 Imagine, right?

01:09:50.000 I'm dating you, and I said to you, babe, what'd you say again?

01:09:54.000 Oh, I didn't hear you.

01:09:55.000 My bad.

01:09:56.000 On purpose.

01:09:56.000 How would you feel?

01:09:57.000 I mean, it's something that I would answer.

01:09:57.000 Oh, no.

01:10:00.000 But if you're something that you're doing on purpose, you can tell when somebody does something on purpose.

01:10:06.000 Oh, so I know.

01:10:08.000 If I'm your man.

01:10:09.000 That you speaking your mind is going to piss me off.

01:10:09.000 I mean, me personally.

01:10:11.000 And you still do it.

01:10:12.000 So then that shouldn't be my mind then because me speaking my mind should not be with a person that's experienced.

01:10:20.000 Because the thing is, like.

01:10:22.000 I mean, honestly speaking, if I can't speak my mind, then basically I'm just an object in your life.

01:10:27.000 It's just sitting there.

01:10:28.000 You got a lot of things.

01:10:28.000 So this is the thing.

01:10:30.000 People have a lot of things.

01:10:32.000 The problem is when people that say they speak their mind, they typically speak everything that's on their mind.

01:10:36.000 Like, we all have stuff on our mind, man.

01:10:38.000 But respect from someone else.

01:10:40.000 You can refrain from saying certain things.

01:10:42.000 I try to.

01:10:45.000 I'm being 100%.

01:10:46.000 See, the one thing I can't, I don't.

01:10:48.000 You're working on it.

01:10:49.000 No, 100%.

01:10:51.000 The first step to changing is admitting your faults.

01:10:54.000 And I've done that.

01:10:55.000 And I'm working on it.

01:10:56.000 And that's it.

01:10:57.000 That's all I can do.

01:10:58.000 I can't beat myself up about it.

01:11:00.000 Again, I come from histories of things that I've gone through in life.

01:11:04.000 And I have my past traumas.

01:11:05.000 Has a man ever hit you?

01:11:07.000 Yes.

01:11:09.000 Okay.

01:11:10.000 Please.

01:11:10.000 No, no, no, no.

01:11:13.000 Shut up. 0.99

01:11:13.000 Well, I mean, it started with my father, if you want to know. 0.99

01:11:16.000 So, yes, of course.

01:11:19.000 Yeah, my father was a person in my life that would hit me.

01:11:23.000 So yes, of course.

01:11:26.000 Well, that's definitely trauma for sure.

01:11:28.000 Of course.

01:11:29.000 So that's why I say you never know what somebody's been through that makes them that way.

01:11:34.000 You know?

01:11:35.000 Did you like talk back to him?

01:11:37.000 To my dad?

01:11:38.000 No.

01:11:40.000 No.

01:11:41.000 I didn't.

01:11:43.000 He was just, as you guys would call, a leader.

01:11:47.000 And that's how he led.

01:11:50.000 I mean, I wouldn't say that bigger than anything else.

01:11:51.000 And that's how he led.

01:11:52.000 Hold on.

01:11:53.000 Forgive me here.

01:11:54.000 This is the truth.

01:11:55.000 This is the honest truth.

01:11:56.000 This might be a bit extreme.

01:11:57.000 Okay.

01:11:58.000 Hear me out here, right?

01:11:59.000 So what I'm getting is: if a man hits you, you won't talk back.

01:11:59.000 Okay.

01:12:05.000 That was my dad.

01:12:06.000 I was a child.

01:12:07.000 And as a child, you should respect your parents and you shouldn't be talking back to your parents.

01:12:11.000 Okay, so you respect your father, but not your man.

01:12:13.000 Who said that I talked back to my man?

01:12:15.000 I just state my opinions.

01:12:16.000 That's not talking back.

01:12:17.000 Oh, now, so now you go post.

01:12:20.000 You changed the definition.

01:12:21.000 No, you guys are changing it.

01:12:22.000 You redefining it because you said that.

01:12:23.000 So you're redefining it, but it's okay.

01:12:25.000 Because you said it.

01:12:29.000 Okay, my brain hurts.

01:12:29.000 Say it again.

01:12:31.000 Say it again.

01:12:31.000 Here's my point.

01:12:32.000 Okay.

01:12:33.000 You mentioned before that if well, back in the day, your dad obviously hit you.

01:12:39.000 You didn't talk back.

01:12:41.000 So I said the statement is basically for him to hit me.

01:12:43.000 I didn't.

01:12:44.000 And that's terrible, by the way.

01:12:45.000 It's what I said.

01:12:46.000 That's right.

01:12:47.000 When he hit me, it wasn't because I talked back.

01:12:49.000 He said you because he won't hit you?

01:12:51.000 Yes.

01:12:51.000 Okay.

01:12:53.000 But you respect your father.

01:12:55.000 100%.

01:12:55.000 I don't respect him.

01:12:58.000 Okay, you said earlier.

01:13:00.000 She was a kid.

01:13:01.000 My point is, is that if you respect somebody, you don't do things to hurt them or want to affect them emotionally or physically, right?

01:13:09.000 We try not to, of course.

01:13:11.000 So back to what I was saying before about your actual guy, he's like, you're talking your mind sometimes.

01:13:16.000 Why don't you stop it?

01:13:17.000 I try to.

01:13:19.000 And it all depends on, again, the type of conversation that we're having.

01:13:23.000 Every conversation shouldn't be an aggressive conversation or stating your opinion shouldn't always come from an argument.

01:13:31.000 It could be any type of conversation you're having.

01:13:33.000 I mean, that's every conversation shouldn't be an argument just because we're stating different sources of opinions.

01:13:41.000 Let's take a short break here, do some chats, because definitely I can see some trauma that's coming down the path here.

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01:15:27.000 Cool.

01:15:28.000 So we're going to do this real quick.

01:15:31.000 So Dong, what level of school did you finish?

01:15:35.000 That's not to read.

01:15:36.000 It's a lot to read.

01:15:38.000 It's love to read.

01:15:41.000 Do that one.

01:15:42.000 You're funny.

01:15:42.000 What do you say is the biggest issue with dating now, from your opinion?

01:15:50.000 I would say expectations.

01:15:51.000 Most likely will probably be the most basic one.

01:15:54.000 But outside of that, I would just say people's perception of what a relationship is supposed to be, even at this panel.

01:16:02.000 I just think the main problem is that it's been too many bad guys that a lot of women run into.

01:16:07.000 And so their expectations of what a man specifically is and a man's expectation of what a woman is supposed to be is kind of miscured to the point that we're seeing all these conflict and these issues.

01:16:16.000 Like a woman feels like submission is a negative trait to have because they feel like it puts them in a vulnerable position to be hurt. 0.92

01:16:23.000 And that's only because they've been hurt before. 0.99

01:16:25.000 And a man feels like to provide for a woman, it makes him a simp because he's been played before and a bitch took his money and ran off. 0.99

01:16:32.000 So I just think that bad experiences, man, is the main problem with relationship. 0.97

01:16:36.000 If we actually were good people to each other initially, we wouldn't have this constant trauma.

01:16:42.000 Agreed.

01:16:43.000 So I think we're all really responsible. 1.00

01:16:44.000 We've all been fuck niggas and cheated on people and shit through our lives most of the time. 0.99

01:16:47.000 And I think it's really stems from the people that's complaining. 1.00

01:16:50.000 Right.

01:16:52.000 All right.

01:16:52.000 Triple 6G says, Freshman boy, sorry to set out from the episode today.

01:16:56.000 When are we going to have another car episode?

01:16:58.000 I'm in a bit of a car pickle.

01:17:00.000 Cars falling apart, but I'm definitely not trying to buy a new car in this market.

01:17:04.000 Neither expertise, my guy.

01:17:05.000 Thanks.

01:17:06.000 We did one for Money Monday.

01:17:08.000 Actually, this dropped on Tuesday.

01:17:10.000 But next one could do one next week as well.

01:17:12.000 What's your car pickle though?

01:17:14.000 Falling apart.

01:17:16.000 Guys, just buy used cars, man.

01:17:18.000 Buy a new car is an L. You're going to get hits on depreciation.

01:17:22.000 Also, as well, it's going to cost a lot of money for no reason. 1.00

01:17:24.000 And it's the same shit, bro. 0.98

01:17:25.000 Honestly, just buy a used car three to five years down from the previous, sort of, from the current year goes a long way. 1.00

01:17:31.000 And get it checked by a mechanic before you buy it.

01:17:33.000 And buy used, bro, because buying a new car is an L. Also, not worth it.

01:17:40.000 Gas says, ladies, why do you deserve your ideal guy? 1.00

01:17:43.000 Why should he pick you?

01:17:44.000 Also, at what level of guy will you accept cheating, PS?

01:17:48.000 You need to take away Chris Mike for real.

01:17:50.000 He's not here today, but it's fine.

01:17:52.000 So ladies, why do you deserve your ideal guy? 1.00

01:17:55.000 And why should he pick you?

01:17:58.000 Ladies, why do you deserve your ideal guy? 1.00

01:18:01.000 Why should he pick you?

01:18:04.000 I mean, me personally, I can only speak for myself.

01:18:08.000 I bring a lot to the table.

01:18:11.000 I'm not just a woman that just, you know, sits there and just takes, You know, house duties, but I also have gone to school.

01:18:23.000 I'm knowledgeable, it's just a lot that comes with me.

01:18:26.000 I mean, the good comes, the good outweighs the bad, that's for sure.

01:18:30.000 The bad has provided me a lot of experiences that have made me smarter and have pushed me to be where I'm at today.

01:18:36.000 Okay, would you say that, like, you are at the table?

01:18:39.000 I'm sorry, so you know how women say I'm the table? 1.00

01:18:45.000 That I am the table.

01:18:47.000 Would I say that I am the table?

01:18:49.000 Yeah, I mean, a table is nothing without chairs.

01:18:53.000 So, so your man's the chairs.

01:18:55.000 That's the kids.

01:18:57.000 I would say we all play a part in the chair and the table.

01:19:01.000 It all comes together.

01:19:02.000 Okay.

01:19:03.000 What about you?

01:19:06.000 What I deserve.

01:19:09.000 Your ideal guy.

01:19:11.000 Why should she pick you? 1.00

01:19:14.000 Well, I don't know.

01:19:16.000 An ideal guy is someone who why should he pick me?

01:19:24.000 Them lips.

01:19:30.000 I'm just saying I was just helping you out, man.

01:19:32.000 Helping you out.

01:19:32.000 Come on.

01:19:33.000 I am very submissive.

01:19:35.000 Okay, submissive.

01:19:37.000 You observe, you think?

01:19:38.000 No, I am observant, and I do think.

01:19:41.000 And I am always willing to change and learn new things.

01:19:45.000 Like, I'm not just like to be taken care of, but I do take care of my man as well, too.

01:19:52.000 Like, you know, it's like how they say, you know, he pays the mortgage, I'll take care of the bills.

01:19:58.000 Like, you know, it's like, I do want two Benzes in my driveway than having to settle for two Hondas in our driveway.

01:20:09.000 So it's like, you know, I do want us to be better and progress.

01:20:14.000 So it's not just that I'm coming to be like gimme, gimme, gimme.

01:20:18.000 Like, I'm here to also help you and whatever I can to make us better.

01:20:24.000 Right.

01:20:25.000 That's not too bad.

01:20:26.000 Benz's are pretty affordable.

01:20:27.000 So affordable cars.

01:20:30.000 So, so I'll take a Honda.

01:20:32.000 They're good too, you know.

01:20:33.000 But you know what I mean?

01:20:35.000 Like, you know, if we can make ourselves better, live better, be more comfortable, that'll be great.

01:20:40.000 So it's like, whatever I do have to do for this relationship, I will do it the same way I would expect him to do the same.

01:20:46.000 Exactly.

01:20:47.000 Sounds good.

01:20:48.000 For you?

01:20:53.000 Why should he pick me?

01:20:55.000 I mean, he already did, but right.

01:20:57.000 Why do you think he picked you out of all the girls to get it picked? 0.96

01:21:00.000 Because I'm very, one, I'm very catering, like, very, very catering.

01:21:07.000 I'm like motherly, but not in that sense that you said he's looking for a mother.

01:21:12.000 Motherly, like, I'll cook for you every day. 0.99

01:21:15.000 You know, like, right.

01:21:16.000 I'm very motherly.

01:21:17.000 Like, something hurts.

01:21:20.000 I got you.

01:21:20.000 You know, band-aid, like, whatever.

01:21:23.000 And that's definitely one of the main first reasons why.

01:21:29.000 So you're not drinking.

01:21:30.000 Like, huh?

01:21:31.000 Nurturing, yeah, like that.

01:21:37.000 And why do I deserve my ideal guy?

01:21:40.000 Because of that, right?

01:21:41.000 Okay.

01:21:41.000 And then for you?

01:21:43.000 I just feel like you my answers be different.

01:21:48.000 Like, nobody added a cigarette when she said that.

01:21:50.000 Like, hold on.

01:21:53.000 I'm going to get what I deserve regardless.

01:21:54.000 So don't nobody have to pick me because I'm already chosen.

01:21:57.000 So it is what it is.

01:21:58.000 Thank you.

01:22:00.000 I love options.

01:22:02.000 Okay.

01:22:03.000 No, but I gotta get hold of them.

01:22:09.000 I'm good.

01:22:10.000 What's your last thoughts here on the show?

01:22:12.000 And then I've done closed out.

01:22:14.000 So, thoughts on the show?

01:22:15.000 Close it for you.

01:22:15.000 Hit love it.

01:22:16.000 What'd you learn?

01:22:17.000 If anything at all?

01:22:19.000 Well, after this podcast, I definitely feel like men do think they're superior.

01:22:26.000 Here we go.

01:22:28.000 I mean, I'm not saying that it's not, but I don't know.

01:22:32.000 I just feel like men and women have different roles in this world and nobody's better than anybody.

01:22:37.000 You know, and that's just the way it goes.

01:22:39.000 What positions outside of birth does a woman exceed outside of a man? 1.00

01:22:42.000 Okay, so I was waiting for somebody to ask me now.

01:22:46.000 So with that being said, a woman holds the household down. 1.00

01:22:49.000 A woman takes care of children, love. 1.00

01:22:52.000 You know, there's many roles that a woman plays that men cannot.

01:22:55.000 You guys can be the leaders, the superior, the providers, but without love in the household, you guys really have.

01:23:00.000 All of that sounds like assistance, right?

01:23:02.000 I never said that I'm better than you, though.

01:23:05.000 You said that better than that.

01:23:07.000 But I never said men are superior, but either a woman.

01:23:10.000 You get what I'm saying?

01:23:10.000 I'm not saying nobody's better.

01:23:11.000 No, no, but men are superior. 0.89

01:23:13.000 And I will never agree to that.

01:23:14.000 You don't have to agree to it.

01:23:16.000 The thing is, so if I have a basketball team in LeBron James, let's say in his heyday, he was a starter team.

01:23:23.000 It's undeniable.

01:23:24.000 Niggas don't have to accept it or not. 1.00

01:23:26.000 Six men isn't as valuable as LeBron James.

01:23:29.000 It's not about being emotional. 0.99

01:23:31.000 It's about admitting that this motherfucker does more than everyone else on the team. 0.99

01:23:35.000 But not everybody's a LeBron James. 0.99

01:23:36.000 That's another thing.

01:23:37.000 Not everyone's a LeBron James, but LeBron James is a leader on the team.

01:23:41.000 And that's what we're talking about.

01:23:42.000 We're talking about LeBron on his team.

01:23:44.000 So a man in your household, he is supposed to be LeBron James.

01:23:47.000 If he is the LeBron James in your household, he is better, whether you like it or not.

01:23:51.000 And if he is LeBron James of your team in your household, it's just a man being a man.

01:23:55.000 So if a man is being what he's, his God-given right, he's better than you.

01:23:58.000 He's superior than you.

01:23:59.000 The only man that's not superior to you are bad men, which you shouldn't be wasting your time with, of course.

01:24:04.000 But if you're around a man that's genuine man, he is your superior.

01:24:07.000 There's nothing you can do about that.

01:24:08.000 There's nothing, there's nowhere you can show me where a man doesn't excel in a woman that we didn't even give you the position to even attempt.

01:24:16.000 I mean, we gave you the right to vote.

01:24:17.000 We gave you the right to leave schools.

01:24:18.000 Did you women even know that before we gave y'all the right to be teachers, that the education system was much better? 1.00

01:24:25.000 No, this is not misogynistic propaganda.

01:24:27.000 No.

01:24:28.000 We genuinely lost a lot of our education once you were able to start teaching.

01:24:33.000 Or even our voting rights.

01:24:34.000 So it went from liberal to conservative.

01:24:36.000 You know, that liberals wouldn't win an election at all if women weren't able to vote. 1.00

01:24:40.000 And they target women because they're targeting you through emotion because they know you don't understand policy.

01:24:45.000 You don't have time to think about it.

01:24:46.000 It doesn't feel good to learn policy.

01:24:47.000 So you don't.

01:24:48.000 Men, because we're superior, we're willing to do the things that's hard.

01:24:51.000 That's not fun. 1.00

01:24:52.000 You think we enjoy this political shit? 1.00

01:24:54.000 No. 1.00

01:24:55.000 But we do it because we're superior.

01:24:56.000 We know it's necessary and we know society is based on it.

01:24:59.000 It isn't because it doesn't feel good.

01:25:01.000 It's because we're better and we know what it takes to be good.

01:25:04.000 It's not about how we feel.

01:25:06.000 That's what makes us superior because we don't do things from what we feel we do because it's demanded.

01:25:10.000 And that's okay.

01:25:11.000 That's not your position to do that.

01:25:12.000 That's why you're supposed to assist.

01:25:14.000 But no assistant should ever think they're superior.

01:25:17.000 The student should never think he's better than the teacher.

01:25:20.000 So what would you do without that assistance?

01:25:23.000 What would you do without the assistance?

01:25:25.000 You can still excel.

01:25:26.000 Men will just be empty. 0.81

01:25:27.000 Oh, is that really what you think?

01:25:31.000 How can you say this when a woman gave birth to you? 0.75

01:25:33.000 That's kind of crazy.

01:25:34.000 This is the thing.

01:25:35.000 So you're saying, and that's exactly crazy.

01:25:37.000 That's typically where it is.

01:25:39.000 That's their last position.

01:25:40.000 What did I start this off with?

01:25:41.000 I said it's beside birth.

01:25:42.000 Beside birth.

01:25:42.000 Because that's, you know what?

01:25:43.000 Every time I start speaking at man shit, that's what you women always revert to. 1.00

01:25:47.000 Your basic nature of giving birth. 1.00

01:25:48.000 That's your one-up on us.

01:25:50.000 And that's your only one-up because it's your only position.

01:25:52.000 That's what makes you special.

01:25:55.000 You're here to give air to our children.

01:25:56.000 I mean, I'm not going to get into it, but I'm not saying that men are better and women are better, but I just don't feel like men are the superior ones.

01:26:02.000 I feel like everybody has an equal view.

01:26:03.000 And I'm always going to stick to that.

01:26:05.000 And that's fine.

01:26:06.000 You can fit this.

01:26:06.000 You can stick that.

01:26:07.000 People stick to delusions every day.

01:26:08.000 It wouldn't make you no different from the average American.

01:26:10.000 But nonetheless, man came here first.

01:26:12.000 You came from our rib, not the other way around.

01:26:13.000 You are our assistants.

01:26:15.000 You're here to assist us.

01:26:16.000 The only reason that you feel that's conflicting, you haven't found a man good enough to assist.

01:26:20.000 And you haven't found a good, a good woman enough either. 1.00

01:26:22.000 You can say that.

01:26:23.000 You haven't found a woman clearly to put you and put me in with you in the scenario that you could feel like women are women and men, not equal, but we play a big role.

01:26:31.000 I'm never, and I'm sorry for you.

01:26:34.000 When I was broke, when I was broke and I was looking for a way when I was still a boy trying to be a man, I found a lot of equals, but they didn't respect me the way they should have.

01:26:43.000 Maybe y'all weren't good.

01:26:45.000 There's no trauma behind this.

01:26:46.000 There's no trauma whatsoever.

01:26:47.000 Maybe y'all weren't good enough for Earth by the way.

01:26:49.000 There's no trauma. 0.99

01:26:50.000 I don't hate bitches. 1.00

01:26:51.000 We had to come. 1.00

01:26:52.000 And he had to make us out of your rib. 0.57

01:26:55.000 Yeah, there's no trauma whatsoever.

01:26:57.000 You guys weren't good enough. 0.99

01:26:58.000 I mean, my trauma, but God was like, we didn't put bitches on this earth. 1.00

01:27:03.000 You don't understand that y'all have no substance without us. 0.97

01:27:05.000 You wouldn't exist unless we had to rip together. 0.98

01:27:08.000 And I like that too.

01:27:08.000 You got that.

01:27:09.000 You could have.

01:27:11.000 He could have left it all men on this earth. 0.99

01:27:14.000 And he could have.

01:27:15.000 But the thing is, he gave Adam an assistant.

01:27:17.000 He didn't give Adam a leader.

01:27:19.000 From your very start, you were here to help.

01:27:22.000 Whether you like it or not.

01:27:24.000 That's like a man arguing with opposition against God.

01:27:26.000 Every man will tell you God leads the household.

01:27:28.000 I go first, the woman, second, and the kids. 0.93

01:27:31.000 Bro, men don't argue their position.

01:27:32.000 Why are women so argumentative over their position on earth? 1.00

01:27:36.000 Eve did the same thing, and look where we ended up. 0.72

01:27:38.000 That's why y'all bleed every morning.

01:27:39.000 I know my position, but I still like to hear everybody's like point of view.

01:27:43.000 You know what I mean?

01:27:44.000 I know my, like I said, my parents have been saying, I've never seen them argue.

01:27:47.000 Why do I not see them argue?

01:27:48.000 Because my mom don't, my mom's not the woman to be bickering back and forth with him. 0.99

01:27:53.000 You know what I mean?

01:27:54.000 And my mom respects.

01:27:56.000 They respect each other, really. 0.99

01:27:57.000 But it seems like to me, the woman here at the table that has the parents with the longest marriage is the woman that's doing what the fuck she's supposed to do. 0.97

01:28:03.000 Now, that thing, that's also odd. 0.98

01:28:04.000 Your mom seems like she's less argumentative.

01:28:07.000 Isn't that conflicting?

01:28:09.000 And she makes. 0.92

01:28:10.000 And you're saying you think I am?

01:28:11.000 No.

01:28:11.000 I'm simply stating that I am that your mom is being a woman.

01:28:14.000 He's being a man.

01:28:15.000 And that's why it's able to last so long.

01:28:17.000 Yeah.

01:28:19.000 And I think that's the thing.

01:28:19.000 Like I said, I said, I know my part, but I just like to hear everybody's thing because I saw a meme literally like two days ago and it spoke about that.

01:28:28.000 It was like, we came from their rib, but maybe it was because they couldn't last without women. 1.00

01:28:34.000 If a man doesn't feel that he's superior, he will never secure his woman. 0.99

01:28:38.000 If a man breaks into the house and we're married and a nigga breaks through our door and I say, baby, the shotgun in the closet, could you please go get and handle that nigga? 1.00

01:28:47.000 But I'm the type of girl that's going to grab the shotgun. 0.97

01:28:48.000 Don't know it. 1.00

01:28:49.000 You're going to lay that nigga down. 1.00

01:28:50.000 With you. 1.00

01:28:50.000 And I respect the girl. 1.00

01:28:52.000 No, no, no, baby girl.

01:28:53.000 I said, I need you to grab the shotgun.

01:28:55.000 No, no, no, no.

01:28:56.000 I need to go run in the closet.

01:28:57.000 I need you to get the gun and kidnapping him out of here.

01:28:59.000 Oh, no, baby.

01:29:00.000 We ain't going to get it.

01:29:01.000 But I'm not superior.

01:29:02.000 Hold on.

01:29:03.000 Get him when he's in your closet.

01:29:05.000 If you don't feel like a man is supposed to be superior, why can't you take that role?

01:29:08.000 What's the problem with you being the superior in that moment of life and death?

01:29:11.000 But what's wrong with me wanting to grab the gun and be right next to you?

01:29:14.000 No, I don't need you to be next to me.

01:29:15.000 I need you to leave.

01:29:15.000 We're equal.

01:29:16.000 You're my superior. 1.00

01:29:17.000 So go kill that nigga. 1.00

01:29:19.000 So why you can't go to the bathroom? 1.00

01:29:19.000 Okay. 1.00

01:29:20.000 You know what?

01:29:21.000 You got that.

01:29:22.000 So that's their natural position.

01:29:24.000 A man is superior. 1.00

01:29:25.000 And if he's not superior, you're going to have complaints when he isn't acting like a superior.

01:29:29.000 Yeah.

01:29:29.000 100%.

01:29:31.000 Thoughts in the show?

01:29:31.000 Okay.

01:29:32.000 Hey, I love it.

01:29:34.000 Thank you for having me.

01:29:35.000 It was fun.

01:29:36.000 I appreciate it.

01:29:37.000 Everyone's.

01:29:39.000 We were all interesting.

01:29:42.000 And if you want your kitties beached, holla at me. 1.00

01:29:47.000 Yeah, get it. 1.00

01:29:48.000 Get that shit. 1.00

01:29:49.000 Reset. 1.00

01:29:50.000 Get that shit reset. 1.00

01:29:51.000 So, who's superior? 1.00

01:29:52.000 Who's superior?

01:29:52.000 Men or women?

01:29:54.000 Men.

01:29:55.000 Yeah.

01:29:55.000 Okay.

01:29:55.000 What you learned today?

01:29:57.000 What about you?

01:29:58.000 What's the question?

01:29:59.000 My thoughts on the show?

01:30:01.000 Last thoughts?

01:30:02.000 The show.

01:30:03.000 Thank you for having me.

01:30:04.000 Thank you for everybody sharing their opinions.

01:30:07.000 Like I said earlier, we're all different people, whether we're men, women, everybody has a different mindset.

01:30:14.000 Yes, I have learned where you guys come from with your opinions on the leadership facts.

01:30:19.000 And again, it's not about that.

01:30:21.000 Women don't know their roles. 1.00

01:30:24.000 It's just some women have been pushed to carry on a different role. 1.00

01:30:28.000 It's more so my opinion.

01:30:31.000 So, yes, and don't forget we got Boss Patty's podcast coming through.

01:30:36.000 Thank you guys for having us and seeing more of our story, our growth.

01:30:42.000 Two baby mamas. 0.96

01:30:43.000 You know, women a lot of days don't like to support women. 1.00

01:30:46.000 So girls, one cup. 0.79

01:30:48.000 Cheers.

01:30:50.000 Why not get freaky like that?

01:30:53.000 It's not that type of party.

01:30:55.000 Sorry, right?

01:30:56.000 But anyhow, women don't like to support women these days, I find.

01:31:00.000 So I'm very glad in trying to, you know, along with other women, putting that out there and pushing us to grow and be, you know, more better.

01:31:11.000 Well, I will say that having the same baby daddy is not that strange, but doing a podcast together is definitely strange.

01:31:17.000 Right, especially coming from our history and you know, the problems that we've been through in the tank, right?

01:31:21.000 Yeah.

01:31:22.000 Well, I mean, oh God, it wasn't me.

01:31:24.000 I've done more than that, but not that.

01:31:27.000 How did we make them?

01:31:28.000 That you're going to have to see it on our podcast.

01:31:30.000 Okay.

01:31:30.000 I'm going to just let y'all know we did live together.

01:31:33.000 Yeah, we moved in together afterwards.

01:31:37.000 While my daughter was big, wait, wait, two y'all into Timos himself?

01:31:41.000 Yes.

01:31:41.000 Yeah.

01:31:42.000 Yeah. 0.93

01:31:42.000 That nigga was living a life, low-key, though. 0.93

01:31:44.000 No, not living the life, but he did find himself in a more peaceful state of mind.

01:31:49.000 That's for sure.

01:31:50.000 Sister wives. 0.73

01:31:51.000 I'm just saying a man. 1.00

01:31:52.000 Sister wives are fucking the same dude. 1.00

01:31:55.000 That's not that type of party. 1.00

01:31:56.000 Well, he was blessed because you can't never really have bigger life.

01:31:59.000 And he was more happy for the peace.

01:32:01.000 How many men can say that?

01:32:03.000 You know, so I mean, we winning already.

01:32:06.000 All right, Dom.

01:32:06.000 Where can it find you, bro?

01:32:07.000 YouTube and Twitter, Instagram, all social media.

01:32:10.000 Can you bring up Dom's YouTube real quick on the screen?

01:32:13.000 So it's crazy because at the same time, I've met Dom for a year now?

01:32:18.000 Yeah, yeah, it's been over.

01:32:19.000 Dom's are you doing YouTube?

01:32:21.000 How long now?

01:32:22.000 Really?

01:32:22.000 It started like last year when I first created the channel and stuff.

01:32:26.000 And just started.

01:32:26.000 You get a lot of views now, bro.

01:32:27.000 Yeah, man.

01:32:28.000 It's crazy.

01:32:28.000 It's kicking off.

01:32:29.000 That's what's up.

01:32:30.000 Shout out to Dom.

01:32:31.000 And then, Dom, what's coming up next for you, bro?

01:32:33.000 Right now, I'm interviewing Tori Lane's father.

01:32:35.000 That should be next month.

01:32:37.000 So we're going to do an exclusive drop-in on Jason.

01:32:39.000 Let's go.

01:32:41.000 So that should be really good.

01:32:42.000 Outside of that, I have, I don't forget, I got like two different, two different other interviews I'm supposed to be setting up.

01:32:48.000 Going to the White House again sometime before the end of this month.

01:32:52.000 Nice.

01:32:52.000 And I think I'm skipping CPAC because that's up in Texas.

01:32:56.000 I'm supposed to be leaving like tonight.

01:32:58.000 But outside of that, man, you see me at some political events, and whatnot.

01:33:02.000 That's nice.

01:33:03.000 Here's Dom's YouTube right here, guys.

01:33:04.000 Go stuff to him.

01:33:05.000 Go support him.

01:33:06.000 And we'll be doing a show on Friday with Tommy Robinson coming into town with some girls.

01:33:09.000 It will be lit.

01:33:11.000 So to stay through for that on Friday, we're out of here.

01:33:13.000 Peace.

Fresh & Fit - March 11, 2026

She Admits She’ll Cheat On Her Boyfriend But NOT Her Husband?

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