00:19:28.000Well, we've been talking for five months, but he asked me to be his girlfriend this weekend in Times Square on a billboard, so it was really cute.
00:20:54.000You still up in Booming as usual or no?
00:20:56.000Nah, Atlantic City, it's like a fever dream living there.
00:20:59.000When I tell people I grew up there, they usually don't think people actually live there.
00:21:03.000Yeah, well, I could see, because it's like the Vegas of, it's where everyone goes to get their gambling fixed from the Northeast when they can't afford to go to Vegas or they don't want to go to Vegas.
00:24:07.000Crime in North Philadelphia is heavily concentrated, with some areas such as Nicetown, Tioga, Fairhill, and Allegheny West reporting violent crime rates up to three times the city average and seven times the national average.
00:24:16.000However, citywide violent crimes and homicides have significantly decreased.
00:33:30.000So, ladies, there's been a debate online when people have girlfriends and travel to Miami, New York, Vegas, LA, and they say they're going on girl trips, right?
00:33:42.000There's going to be an upcoming tour with Chris Brown and, you know, Usher and people are upset.
00:36:26.000I don't really travel like that, but since I've been traveling, like, this is my first time in Miami, so.
00:36:31.000Is it because, um, because every girl, like, whenever I talk to girls and they travel alone, nine out of 10 times it's because they've done girl strips before and they hate it because other girls, like, Come with no money or they flake or they, you know, don't contribute.
00:36:45.000So, like, they just say, No, I don't even want to deal with this.
00:38:16.000It's like stereotypical, basically, but like a lot of girls come here to have fun.
00:38:20.000But like some girls come here looking for like sugar daddies.
00:38:23.000And like, because like realistically, when you come here, like you are basically getting everything paid for, like as a girl.
00:38:29.000Like if you're pretty and you're not fat and you're like, you know, you know how to like portray yourself, then guys are gonna like obviously keep their eyes on you and they're gonna wanna pay for you and they're gonna wanna make you feel good, take you shopping, go to these nice dinners and stuff like that.
00:38:43.000And then that obviously leads to another thing.
00:38:46.000And that's what I think Miami is all about is just people coming here to obviously enjoy.
00:40:54.000And your boyfriend's like, he's not mad at you about like this being in your house.
00:40:57.000Oh, I would like use the guys and buy my boyfriend clothes too, like, because I like dress like this is like a guy's shirt, so like, I wear like stock pull or stock okay, okay, yeah, yeah, I don't know what that.
00:45:21.000Yeah, yeah, okay, yeah, like to the point where you guys like actively plan to go out with them, or it's like I'm just gonna do my own thing.
00:45:27.000Oh, like always going out, like I need to be with my girls.
00:46:03.000Let's say you have somebody that you know does Girls Nights Out, right?
00:46:08.000What's your worst story you ever heard about Girls Nights Out, and do they cheat?
00:46:13.000I'm sure it would be full of temptation.
00:46:15.000If there's like groups, if there's girls in the group that are single and there's girls in the group that are taken, there's definitely going to be temptation from the girls that are single because they're not outside worrying about a significant other.
00:46:45.000It also depends where you are, like where you're going.
00:46:48.000Like for Miami, for example, like I've seen girls like completely cheat on their boyfriend with like streamers and stuff.
00:46:54.000Like, no way, yeah, bro, on stream, yeah, no way, yeah, like it's crazy.
00:47:00.000I can't believe that, yeah, clout in Miami, yeah, no, nah, nah, nah, nah, no, but like obviously, yeah, like that's just like the stereotype, like not stereotype, but like a lot of girls go and do that.
00:47:09.000But like for me, like when I don't really go out without my boyfriend, like because like he does like social media.
00:47:25.000But he, like, does social media as well.
00:47:29.000So, that's, like, why, like, everything works out perfectly between us because, like, I do OnlyFans and then he does, like, streaming with, like, girls and, like, he goes with other girls and stuff like that.
00:47:38.000So, it's, like, it completely, like, it's a parallel that, like, it makes sense.
00:47:41.000So, it's, like, when people are, like, oh, her boyfriend must fucking hate her because she does OnlyFans.
00:47:46.000And I'm, like, okay, well, what about the perspective of, like, Oh, his girlfriend must hate him because he's always with other girls, rizzing them up and shit like that.
00:50:48.000It's just like their eyes are cheating.
00:50:50.000Like they look at ass and they're like, ah, and then they look at boobs and they see them jumping up and down and they're like, ah, and then they just like take one thing and then they just go with it.
00:50:58.000You know, you give someone an inch and then they go a mile and it's like, all right, fuck you.
00:51:26.000I don't want to say a whore, but I would say.
00:51:30.000I think he's trying to show the hypocrisy that you're saying guys cheat with their eyes or whatever, but you're involved in the industry that does that, and you have a boyfriend.
00:58:38.000So you see a pattern here where they may cheat.
00:58:40.000So you still leave after that, just knowing that most men cheat.
00:58:44.000Yeah, but it's like, you know, you can't really just have that negative outlook upon like relationships because not everybody's the same.
00:58:49.000Like, just because you went through trauma doesn't mean you're going to go through it again.
00:58:52.000Not everybody's the same exact person.
00:58:54.000Like, you know, like love is always going to be unconditional and like you can find it in so many ways, but you can't be like going into a relationship and being like, oh my God, this guy's going to cheat on this shit.
01:00:12.000When a girl's dealing with a guy, her top and most important attraction trigger is not the guy being loyal to her sexually, it's strength, competence, income.
01:00:24.000You know, all these, you know, is he strong?
01:00:27.000These are the things that women look for.
01:00:28.000So, like, when a guy deals with you, though, we don't care about your strength and your income or whatever.
01:02:17.000If I was hypothetically her and then she saw me with you, she might get mad, but she's going to respect me and actually have more attraction for me after that.
01:05:18.000And it comes back to this, you know, biology thing, this biology instinct.
01:05:22.000Since women are the more vulnerable sex and they can't like exert physical force the same way a man can, you guys have to rely on other things.
01:05:29.000To determine a man's social value and his competency to be a partner.
01:06:33.000But also, then again, like when it comes to like dating, though, like how would you express that?
01:06:38.000Because I know I've been into some situations where the guy I was with or talking to or like trying to look forward to a relationship, he was like, Oh, my friends don't approve of you because you're a fucking slut.
01:06:49.000And I'm like, Okay, well, I'm not a slut.
01:06:51.000You know, I'm not a slut because, because like I'm like, I'm with you.
01:08:21.000Yeah, yeah, when it comes to getting a part uh relationship, if you just want to get dates and meet men and you know have a fun time, no, that doesn't matter at all.
01:08:31.000But if you want to get wifed up, then absolutely, like your past and what you do for work actually does matter.
01:08:37.000You asked a very good question here, and actually, I have an example for you live.
01:08:41.000This was actually recorded um recently on a real talk show, and the craziest part is that like go to OnlyFans for a long time, and her actual uh guy couldn't handle it after a while, so uh.
01:08:54.000Here, Bills, I got a video in TakeOver.
01:10:00.000I don't know if I told you, but the guy that I have been seeing recently, who we're not seeing each other anymore, he had a huge problem with OnlyFans.
01:12:00.000Look, she just said in the video that she feels like most men say they're okay with OnlyFans, then they say, I don't want to see you again.
01:16:23.000I think from a biological sense, I think if a guy's with a woman and they like lose a child, of course, I don't have studies for this, but like I think from an evolutionary biology perspective, that guy might be like, I need to leave and get out of here so I can find a more fertile and young person to have children with.
01:17:25.000Because I'm thinking here, like in my childhood, like I remember my aunt and my uncle, one of their kids, they had the first kid, he came out fine.
01:17:33.000And then the second one, you know, she had a miscarriage, and it really strained their relationship.
01:17:37.000But they stayed together, you know, obviously cultural differences or whatever.
01:17:41.000But obviously they had a kid already that was healthy before, and then they tried again and had another child later.
01:17:46.000But I think if it's the first child, You know, that's probably a huge blow to the relationship.
01:17:52.000It really is because you're not only new parents now, you have this whole thing, and it's so cliche, and everyone's like, your life changes, you know, when you have a child, but it really does.
01:18:03.000So we just made that shift from like young, happy couple to now young parents and having a household.
01:20:16.000Because the girl obviously is complaining that being on OnlyFans is like made a lot of men kind of like just throw it to the side, despite the fact they say, I'm okay with it, but they still don't call her back.
01:20:25.000So, yeah, basically, I think the question you're trying to ask is how does doing any type of sex work affect your ability to have relationships?
01:20:45.000And like you were saying, honestly, anything that's like industry, I feel like it could make it a little bit more difficult just because it's like if somebody has like a solid career, it's like they're not really trying to go for that.
01:20:54.000And then it's with OnlyFans, it's just anything like that.
01:20:57.000It kind of makes it a little bit worse.
01:21:00.000So, but it's really up to the person and the individual.
01:21:05.000If you were a man, would you do OnlyFans girl or porn star?
01:28:36.000So, basically, I don't think it really affects me as much, but like, If I was a guy, I would not date a girl.
01:28:44.000Like, if I was a regular guy that didn't do social media, didn't know about the content side of the world, like, content world and everything, like, just a normal human being, like, walking the streets, and I didn't know about everything behind that, I would absolutely never go anywhere close to anyone like that.
01:29:00.000But that's why the only reason, the only person I would be dating would be someone who's like in social media.
01:37:57.000Because it's one thing if you do OF as a guy, it's another thing for your girl to do it.
01:38:02.000Because this happens all the time with girls that have big social media followings or do that kind of work.
01:38:08.000She's not Mia Khalifa, but that's an example.
01:38:10.000Mia Khalifa, for example, anytime she would get with a guy, people would just like, Relentlessly harass her boyfriend or the guy that she was seeing and just like make fun of him, call him a loser, send them videos of her hooking up, whatever.
01:38:22.000So, like, you know, whenever girls do this type of work, bro, it's just a matter of time until the guy gets fed up.
01:38:27.000Because at first they're cool with it.
01:38:28.000The type passes, they get DMs, oh, you're a cop.
01:41:18.000Statistically speaking, every time I've ever seen a relationship dynamic like this where the girl does spicy content and is a bigger earner than the guy, it just never works out, unfortunately.
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02:09:25.000We might as well go through everybody's Instagram, yeah, might as well because so everybody gets uh, all right, so wifey or not fair treatment, yeah, okay, uh, no, all right, guys, uh, you want to go, you want to ask the chat, is that what you wanted to do?
02:09:35.000Yeah, chat, uh, we should be wifey or not.
02:09:37.000Give me a one if you had wife or two if you would not, one if you had wife or two if you would not.
02:09:41.000This goes for Miss Security Guard, one if you had wife, two if you would not, and then we'll go back to the OF chick after that, let's see what they vote.
02:14:53.000Yeah, but I think the important thing to take here is that I would argue a lot of girls don't understand how much their Instagram actually hurts them for relationship purposes.
02:15:15.000I don't think girls understand like how important of like a personal business card your Instagram is when it comes to a guy potentially taking you serious for courtship.
02:15:22.000That's why you meet someone IRL and then you just block them on social media.
02:15:28.000Yeah, but like they'll still see it or whatever.
02:15:31.000Or what'll happen is like they might meet you in person and then look you up after the fact and be like, ah, I can't take this girl seriously.
02:15:37.000They might have met you in person and be like, oh, she's really cool.
02:15:49.000Like, I think what girls like, you guys, the thing that sucks for you guys the most is like for men, if a girl rejects us, we know right away.
02:15:57.000Like, she says, Oh, I have a boyfriend.
02:16:49.000I mean, um, like there's average guys that like, sorry, well, there's like very average women that like have access to like NBA players and shit.
02:16:56.000They're like just randomly fly random chicks out that got like 500 followers, bro.
02:17:00.000Like that's just kind of how it goes with Instagram.
02:25:29.000He's probably going to have something else.
02:25:30.000Like, so, and I don't want to be an asshole when I say this.
02:25:33.000This is why I never take women seriously when I ask them what they like in men, because the default setting, whenever I ask a girl, what do you like in men?
02:25:41.000The man that you're describing to me, you already assume attraction to.
02:25:44.000Then you add in all the qualities after.
02:25:55.000Like, we're not talking about an average dude here when I'm asking you, what do you want in a guy?
02:26:00.000You're already assuming I'm physically attracted to the guy.
02:26:03.000And since women's standards from physicality, a lot of the times, is kind of high, most women find, I think some study came out, women find like 90% plus of men is unattractive physically.
02:26:20.000And I've realized that women never make that distinction that, like, oh, by the way, as I describe these characteristics of this guy for you, he needs to have all these other things physically for it to work.
02:27:14.000So, yeah, he's got to be doing something.
02:27:16.000Like, they got to be there at least mentally, physically, and emotionally to, like, you know, that's the guy I would sleep on the floor with if he didn't have any.
02:29:12.000I was just trying to make an example of like the girls here probably would not find her boyfriend physically attractive, but he was able to pull her because he has other things.
02:29:19.000He's a streamer, he's an entertainer, whatever.
02:29:21.000He's aligned with her on certain things.
02:29:30.000Well, like, when it comes to like me wanting something, like in a relationship, especially from a guy, like, sometimes I become dependent upon them.
02:37:15.000It's more of a question of like, if we're going to actually wipe you up, what's going to be in your past?
02:37:21.000And it's going to involve you doing shit like videos online.
02:37:24.000I think she means this is all from a relationship context, right?
02:37:26.000Not hate, actually hate, but rather, why do they hate a relationship with OnlyFans?
02:37:29.000I have a question that I've been wanting to ask for so long.
02:37:34.000Say that you have a girlfriend and then you date her before she started doing OnlyFans and then she does OnlyFans.
02:37:40.000And she's only with you the entire time.
02:37:42.000But yes, I understand the concept that other men are buying to see her body, and other men are jerking off to her, and other men are having this fantasy of talking to her and all this shit to goon.
02:38:17.000So if a girl is on OF, by definition, she's not providing her fidelity.
02:38:26.000Like, in a sense, though, because if you think about it, like, these females will post pictures on Instagram that you could post on OnlyFans and make triple times the amount of money.
02:38:36.000Okay, let me define fidelity for you it's not just sexual fidelity, it's also like your pureness.
02:39:20.000So my definition of cheating for a female doesn't just mean sex.
02:39:26.000It's also you advertising yourself and making yourself available to other men.
02:39:30.000Because since women are not the ones that initiate conversation, by you making yourself open as if you are receptive to conversation and being open, that in itself is cheating.
02:39:46.000Well, yeah, it is because men and women aren't the same.
02:39:48.000The more available a woman makes herself appear, that is cheating.
02:39:53.000So if she has like, you know, an Instagram that has provocative photos, if she is, you know, constantly dressing.
02:40:00.000You know, in a certain manner, if she's maintaining relationships with men, right?
02:40:03.000If she's maintaining relationships with exes, these are all behaviors that are just not conducive to a trustworthy girl that's going to be sexually, that's going to have fidelity to you.
02:40:14.000So I would argue that, like, all these other things also play a role.
02:40:17.000Like, a lot of times when people say, Well, I'm not a whore, I don't have sex with a bunch of guys.
02:41:11.000So, this is why, yeah, Will Smith's an example.
02:41:14.000This is why it's not that men hate girls that do OnlyFans, it's that getting into a relationship with a girl that does OnlyFans puts you in a very bad spot because her fidelity is in question.
02:41:24.000Whether she chooses to exercise and have sex with men or not is irrelevant.
02:41:28.000It's more about the way she purports herself to be out to the outside world.
02:41:31.000But what if you, like, know, like, Her deep down, that like that's just not who she is.
02:41:35.000Like, and like, what if it's just like there's so much to it, but your points are super valid.
02:41:42.000And like, I have a very different like view of it now, but like, still, like, I still have my same standing point where it's like at the end of the day, all right, let me give you an example because you said, What if he has what if she has a nice heart, right?
02:42:38.000Men and women are different, so I have to give you another scenario so you understand.
02:42:41.000Just like you will laugh at that nigga for even trying to talk to you, men are going to laugh at you for you wanting them to take you seriously while you do OnlyFans.
02:42:48.000But the thing is, I don't want several different men.
02:42:50.000Like, I just want one man, and like, he isn't gonna see me differently because he's seen me before I did OnlyFans, he sees me while I do OnlyFans.
02:42:57.000Yeah, but yeah, but see, but here's the thing you want men to give you the benefit of doubt despite your profession, but when the shoe's on the other foot, you're not gonna give the guy the benefit of doubt and see, you know, his nice heart if he doesn't have certain things in place.
02:43:12.000Like, women don't like it when, you know, when the shoe's on the other foot and they get disqualified, right?
02:43:17.000Like, you want us to give you a benefit of doubt, but y'all never do that for us, of course, and I understand that, and you know, that some women are.
02:43:25.000And I will admit, like, I'm very aware that I am like that sometimes.
02:43:28.000But also, then again, I haven't been able to, like, think about, like, another man in, like, a different perspective from, like, searching for another man because I've been with the same guy for five months.
02:48:46.000No, I'm saying, but you're saying, like, the guy, you know, for an average guy, like, a nine to five guy, what kind of guy would you prefer?
02:50:17.000So, yeah, like, because, and I mean, look, RIP, but damn.
02:50:20.000And I'm going to keep it a thousand with you.
02:50:21.000Someone that used to fucking put criminals in jail, they don't let you associate unless you're involved in a criminal activity yourself because that's a liability.
02:50:27.000Like, there's no such thing as, like, oh, I'm good, but all my buddies are criminals.
02:50:32.000Like, you know, if you're hanging out with criminals all the time, you are going to be involved in criminal activity, too, because they're not even going to let you be around.