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00:03:51.000Without further ado, ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, if you want to, of course.
00:16:20.000Is it a hard course you would say to do?
00:16:23.000Yes, like the first two years is kind of chill, but then when you get to your junior year, you go through all the weaving courses, I forgot what it's called.
00:16:38.000NOVA is a good school for, they have a very good kinesiology program.
00:16:41.000They do a lot of the studies that Menno was talking about when we had them on, they do a lot of exercise research there with people figuring out how much protein intake and all this other bullshit when they do the tests.
00:16:52.000Alright, so no, okay, and you said you're a computer science full-time student.
00:21:31.000Being a high earner is relative, but if I'm going to speak, because obviously everyone is different and looks at money differently, but if I'm going to speak generally for the general masses, I mean a woman that's making 100k plus a year is doing pretty good for herself.
00:23:32.000I thought you were not supposed to see her.
00:23:33.000She's wearing the job and everything like that.
00:23:35.000No, you can meet her, but the rule is you've got to meet her with someone from her family, like a male present, and you guys can talk and stuff.
00:24:15.000And I think if I can grow with that person, if they're doing well, because I won't get married to somebody who is not doing as good as I am or is trying to excel.
00:24:23.000She's not trying to pay no child support in alimony.
00:34:08.000I just saw your videos on your little reels on Instagram and what you guys talked about.
00:34:14.000And I was a little bit nervous because I saw a video of you guys asking, or you guys were telling this girl something, and every time she tried to talk, you guys would interrupt her with a sound effect or something.
00:34:49.000Yeah, because we try not to bring on, like, we've noticed that bringing on, you know, lesbian and girls aren't really good for the conversation.
00:36:04.000Okay, because what happens a lot of times is like, girls will watch us with their boyfriend, or their boyfriend say, watch this, and then the girl will be like, what the fuck is this bullshit?
00:36:11.000And then eventually we'll grow on them.
00:36:13.000And they'll be like, oh, we watch you guys together.
00:36:14.000I used to hate you guys at first, but like...
00:38:58.000Um, I think, you know, I'm Cuban, so I was raised to be very, like, the man is very, like, machista, they're very, like, they have, like, the manly, so my mentality is very similar to some of the things you guys talk about, so I wasn't very, like, I wasn't worried about it.
00:39:12.000Alright, so you believe in gender roles, then?
00:47:09.000Like my, the last, I don't know, 10 years, I feel like I've wanted to just live like a life of freedom and being able to do whatever I want and try new experiences.
00:47:20.000Were you like in a long-term relationship?
00:50:47.000What he's asking is like, so were you able to, before you got in a relationship with your guy and you got locked down with him, did you have a taste of like traveling, doing what you wanted, etc.?
00:50:57.000Then you got locked down and you said, damn, I missed this.
00:52:16.000Especially, like, about the ham things.
00:52:18.000That's where all the, like, What we're asking is, if you're saying that you hadn't dated rich guys before your boyfriend, then how did you get inside of a Lambo or Rolls Royce or anything?
00:52:29.000That's what we're trying to figure out.
00:52:31.000Rolls Royce was in, I was visiting, taking a Europe trip, and I was in Monaco, and I think someone was just letting people ride in their Rolls Royce, and then Ferraris, I feel like everyone's uncles and dads have Ferraris.
00:54:20.000Wouldn't a component of loyalty be being loyal to him, and if someone asks you what's your relationship status, you would say, I'm seeing someone, or I'm taking him?
00:54:45.000But can someone make the argument that by definition neither of you is loyal because of your profession where you have to show yourselves off to other men?
00:55:28.000But a lot of these girls are on Instagram showing their body for absolutely free.
00:55:32.000So what's the difference in me going and taking five to six hours of my day to go make some money to provide for my life instead of going out and posting for free on Instagram and having a dude who wants to smash me and provide for free.
00:57:57.000When somebody is sitting in a circle and I'm with a person and they start speaking on that person, either I'm going to defend that person's name or I'm going to walk away in a situation where my person is in trouble.
00:58:08.000I'm going to do everything in my power to steer clear from the trouble.
00:58:12.000Loyalty comes from more than monogamy.
00:58:16.000The question was framed from a relationship standpoint within the confinements of a relationship between a man and a woman, not a friendship like you're trying to argue right now.
00:58:59.000However, if I flip it the other way and she is sexually only dealing with me monogamously and not showing her body off, but someone talks shit about me and she stays silent, I'll take that over a girl that defends me but cheats on me.
01:02:56.000I feel like there are men who will accept it.
01:03:01.000And remember, this is a guy that has it all already, right?
01:03:04.000So he's in a position where he can have options.
01:03:06.000Most men that have options and are attractive are typically going to demand something in return for being an exceptional man.
01:03:12.000They're going to want a girl that has some semblance of being a decent girl, not being a whore, being in certain professions that are more respectable, etc.
01:03:20.000And unfortunately, what I'm trying to say is, if you're a stripper, By definition of your job, you cannot be loyal because you must sell a dream of sexuality to strange random men for monetary compensation, and that is the antithesis of being loyal.
01:04:05.000Honestly, you're saying all this, and I did have a conversation with somebody the other day about stereotypes, and yeah, okay, I'm putting a certain stereotype, and it sucks, because I'm not like that as a person.
01:04:18.000I mean, I'm just saying, a component of loyalty as a woman is you not only just fucking other guys, but showing your body off to other guys.
01:04:27.000Isn't that for both, for men and women?
01:04:30.000Well, the thing is, is that women don't flirt like men do.
01:06:47.000That's why I consider it cheating when a girl dresses provocatively, because I know women don't approach men, but if they make themselves approachable and dress a certain way, put themselves in certain situations, etc., that's cheating.
01:06:58.000For example, she didn't come down here from New York, sell her home, come down here, etc., just to hang out.
01:07:06.000She understands, okay, I want to live my life, etc., I've got to put myself in a position, and I'm in a city now, a major city, that has a lot of affluent guys, more attractive guys, and I have some money, etc., This is how I'm going to kind of flirt.
01:07:17.000Girls flirt by putting themselves in position to be around higher status men.
01:07:21.000Men flirt by becoming higher status than talking to them.
01:07:47.000So, like, the other day, I was, like, walking by a tattoo shop, and, like, that's my type.
01:07:53.000And so I saw this guy from the window who was working there, and I walked right into the tattoo shop, like, right past the receptionist, went up to him, and I was like, hey, I don't know if you're single or interested, but I want your number.
01:08:05.000How many times have you done that in your lifetime?
01:08:31.000Yeah, but my thing is is that cool you might have approached a good amount of guys in your lifetime, but most girls don't they don't they don't approach and and I guarantee you you've been approached probably a hundred times more than you've approached a guy For sure.
01:08:47.000Even you, being as forward as you are, I guarantee you, you've been approached more by men than you've approached men.
01:10:18.000I went to college, but it just wasn't for me.
01:10:19.000Now it's either I go to the Air Force and continue my degree there, or I move out and try to start a business and disappoint my whole family until money is made help.
01:16:37.000No, I was gonna say, okay, so now that I'm like, I don't know, I grew up a little bit in life, I'm not gonna lie, for the past year, I haven't really, like, mingled like that.
01:25:18.000I would say women, if I'm being completely honest.
01:25:21.000I think men are raised to, like, taught from when they're young that they're going to have to provide for a family and provide for a wife and provide for kids.
01:25:31.000Regardless of what the wife does, you have to make enough money for the both of you and the family.
01:29:12.000For example, you could probably go out with a guy that's wildly successful and they wouldn't give a shit about what's going on with your situation.
01:29:19.000But for men, it's like, if we told that story, they'd be like, no, thank you.
01:31:25.000If you met a woman that said, let's hang out, let's go to the club, close to my house, let's drink, and she secretly wants your man, is she your friend?
01:31:33.000Let them respond before going to my second message.
01:31:36.000If she did all that, is she your friend?
01:31:39.000So she had like an ulterior motive to like inviting you out, I guess.
01:32:06.000Ladies, if you met a man that said, let's hang out, let's go to the club, come to my house, party, let's go drink, and he secretly wants you, is he really your friend?
01:34:32.000I feel like what men need, and correct me if I'm wrong, when they're looking for a woman, they're looking for a woman who can relieve them of things that they don't want to deal with.
01:35:58.000Wait, hear me out, because I seen a video the other day on Instagram, and it was basically a woman saying that, okay, cool, typically they say that men smash what they can versus women smash what they want.
01:36:13.000Men choose who they want to be monogamous with versus women.
01:36:26.000But you have to choose whether or not you want to be monogamous or you want to be my man and you want to claim me and you want to be with me.
01:38:01.000Because you actually give a shit about them.
01:38:04.000A father-daughter relationship if they're not sick weirdos.
01:38:07.000It's the most genuine love out of anything else.
01:38:13.000That's why I tell girls, get dating advice or have your brother or your father Assess your boyfriend or your serious counterpart because they're gonna look for real value in that man because they have a self-interest in you succeeding and finding the best man.
01:42:11.000I didn't know he was going to be a doctor when we first met.
01:42:14.000I was making money, more money than he was.
01:42:16.000That's fine, but you found out shortly after the fact, and you were like, okay, I can see a future with this guy, which is why when he proposed, you were like, okay, I can see something here.
01:42:22.000But he was living in my apartment, driving my car, without any money into his account.
01:42:27.000Because you knew that he was going to make more than you.
01:44:34.000I'm saying you can't get the best out of a woman unless you're having sex with her because for her to have sex with you, she's got to respect you to a degree and admire you, right?
01:49:00.000Well, if you don't like them, then by definition you're categorizing them because you're putting them in a category of people I don't like.
01:49:33.000I don't go about my day-to-day categorizing people like, oh, this person is this, this person is that, when I see somebody and what they demonstrate is how I see them.
01:49:43.000But I wouldn't say, okay, well, if that's what you want to name it, that's fine.
01:49:50.000I mean, you have to categorize men when you meet them, right?
01:49:52.000Like, okay, this guy's a suitable bachelor, this guy isn't, this guy's ugly, this guy's attractive, this guy has money, this guy doesn't, this guy's weird, this guy's lame, this guy's creepy.
01:55:10.000I picked up my phone this morning to search up a question, and as soon as I went into Safari, I forgot what it was, and went straight to TikTok and saw a video saying we leave an attention economy, or live in an attention economy, and how everything we use is made to get our attention, especially social media.
01:55:24.000My question to Myron and Fresh is that, is it intentional to do this to men and women to keep us subdued?
01:55:29.000P.S. I now no longer have Instagram, Snapchat, YouTube, and TikTok.
01:55:35.000I mean, our culture is based off of what we see and what we hear, so you're going to be exposed to certain things on social media, which will put you in a mindset to want to live your life on your best terms, like our friend over here.
01:56:25.000Mostly it's probably hurting women, but I think that if you're on the right side, it puts standards, it has so much competition on looks and makes you feel bad about yourself, all that stuff.
01:56:35.000But if you use it, like, wisely, you can motivate yourself and know that you can do better, you know.
01:56:54.000Um, I would definitely say her in general.
01:56:57.000Um, I think the pressure that women feel, um, they see life, they see this glamour and they see this great, you know, images or experiences and they don't know what's behind that.
01:57:08.000You know, a lot of people even like for me, like I'm not an influencer or anything like that, but they'll see my pictures and they'll just come up with their own conclusions.
01:57:14.000I'm like, half the time I'm traveling for work and I have a little bit of free time.
01:57:17.000I'll take a picture in Croatia and they're like, oh, she's on a yacht with a guy.
01:58:55.000Do you think making a considerable amount more money when you were towards the end of the relationship kind of influenced you saying, you know what, I can do better?
01:59:04.000No, no, not I can do better because he's doing very well.
01:59:38.000I mean, I think he was just working a lot, and he didn't have the time, and he was focused on different things, like he was opening a business, and just the time and the effort just wasn't there, even just for simple things.
01:59:49.000So, if you really love them, can you understand and say, you know what, my man's working, I understand what it is, rather than say, you know what, I'm out of here.
01:59:57.000Well, um, yeah, I think what happens is my love language is, um, I can be a hundred percent.
02:00:04.000My, my love language is, um, gifts, right?
02:00:09.000It doesn't have to be expensive, but if, bro, if it's my birthday, like you really, like you can't go buy me like something simple, order it on Amazon when you're at work, you know, texting me 500 million times or you've got time.
02:00:20.000You can make the time when you want to make the time.
02:00:22.000Um, going back All I hear is me, I, myself.
02:01:26.000You can either have a very successful man where you get very little attention or you can have a brokie that's going to give you all the attention that you want.
02:03:26.000If he has to work the whole weekend, I wouldn't be out here on the street.
02:03:30.000No, I would drive three hours, stay out of his condo where he was at, To be with him, he would work at night, and then when he would come home, he gets what he wants.
02:03:38.000So I would make an effort, especially in the beginning, for a lot of things.
02:03:42.000But it got to the point after a while that he just thought that was normal.
02:03:47.000He was never like, okay, I'm going to stop working, or let's...
02:05:04.000At that time, I had not even left the country.
02:05:08.000I love how you're kind of dressing this up, but the thing is this, women are able to assess if a guy has money very quickly, the way they speak, their tonality, the way they convey themselves, how they pay for things.
02:05:20.000Girls are able to assess very quickly where you stand from a socioeconomic status, especially women that are a little bit older.
02:05:26.000So you met him when you were about 27, at this point you probably are well versed, you're a higher earner yourself, you understand what guys that make money kinda do and sound and how they talk and how they speak.
02:05:35.000So he said Virgin Islands, it ain't cheap to be there anywhere, whether it's Turks and Caicos, Virgin Islands, Barbados, any of these Caribbean countries a lot of times they're expensive to be.
02:05:44.000You knew this guy was a higher earner and you're smiling right now because you know it's the truth because you wouldn't even have picked him up at the airport if you didn't see potential women, like I said before, or scouts.
02:08:22.000Because women are fucking complex, that's why.
02:08:24.000Because they need emotional stimulation, they need good looks, they need charisma, they need charm.
02:08:28.000In the club, in the moment, you don't need anything but, especially where I be working at, you don't need anything but to watch me dance, literally.
02:10:04.000They need emotional stimulation, good looks, charm, charisma, the ability to speak and convey yourself a certain way, being a leader of men, these certain characteristics that simply can't be displayed by me stripping and taking my clothes off.
02:10:14.000So by definition, by our profession that I'm using as an example, by the way, men are far slipper than women in general.
02:10:22.000Okay, I'm gonna agree with you and disagree in my own head because I know the club that I work at and I know why these men are spending the money they're spending and it's not because they're aroused by the women who are in front of them.
02:11:25.000I see what she's saying here because of the club that she works at, but she's forgetting that those same guys that don't look at you are fucking somebody else in the club that works there.
02:11:44.000If women were as simple as you're trying to say, if women were as simple as men, male strippers would make as much money as female strippers, but they don't.
02:11:53.000Because women are more complex and need more emotional stimulation and arousal to be infatuated with a man.
02:11:59.000That's why women overwhelmingly initiate breakups.
02:16:03.000No, but it's always 20 and up, even with Rumble Rants.
02:16:08.000I'll read these, but guys, after I was always 20 and up.
02:16:10.000Women take an entire nine months to have a child, while men can average thousands of children a year and have the ability to provide for all.
02:16:15.000How do the ladies feel about being inferior?
02:16:20.000Myron, can you say Holy Moly Donut Shop?
02:16:24.000Ladies, if the parents of the man of your dream saw your Instagram and knew everything about your past, would they consider your wife material for their son?
02:19:58.000The thing is, like, when I say average man, like, women think it's like, oh, like, he kind of looks like Tom Cruise, but, like, not all the way.
02:20:04.000No, but for you, like, the average guy doesn't do anything.
02:20:07.000Doesn't go out, just stay home, doesn't, I mean, does he have any hobbies?
02:24:14.000So, my mom would travel from, it's a 35 minute drive, 45 minute drive, and she would drop me off at school, go to work, pick me up and take me home.