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00:04:43.000We're going to raffle it off, so if you guys aren't a part of Castle Club, join Castle Club now, because we're going to raffle off three tickets to the yacht party, man.
00:20:55.000Well, I was in Colombia and I was studying my dream career and I met him online and he booked a flight to come see me and meet me in person and yeah.
00:21:04.000Wait, he met you on Instagram, dating app?
00:21:06.000Yeah, on Facebook, dating market, the dating app.
00:24:11.000Y'all already know you're going to ask about my education.
00:24:13.000I have an associate's degree in information systems, which I did while I was serving in the United States Air Force for 11 and a half years.
00:27:18.000So my thing is, y'all don't understand.
00:27:20.000When y'all talk to a vet, if they have some combat, that is a very sensitive subject.
00:27:24.000So yes, I have and I've been through a lot of things and I've lost a lot of people.
00:27:28.000Through combat, and so yes, it's very sensitive to me, and I don't want to get emotional with y'all, so I didn't want to get too deep into it, but yes, I experienced the worst, I experienced the best, and I experienced the unexpected while serving my 11 and a half years in the United States Air Force.
00:30:44.000But still, if you want to get into the dynamics of who I am, I did go get a blood test and I know who I am, so I answered.
00:30:51.000I mean, if I called you over, you're a nigga, man.
00:30:53.000I mean, you can call me a nigga if you want to.
00:30:55.000African-American, European, and then Jewish to the Mexicans, so you want to call me a nigga, you can be disrespectful all you want, but I don't care.
00:31:35.000So just want to ask, so when you're saying that you don't like him using that term, are you talking about in terms of the manner in which he's using it, or are you talking about just being identifying as black?
00:31:46.000Um, so for me, if you say I'm a nigga, that doesn't mean I identify as black.
00:31:50.000So I feel as when they say that they're just using it is like when I say ignorance is the lack of knowledge.
00:31:55.000So I don't mean it in no disrespectful way.
00:31:57.000So I feel like they're just using an ignorant manner.
00:32:00.000So, just to rephrase, so your issue is that it's used in a derogatory sense?
00:32:04.000Yes, I feel like they're using it in a derogatory sense, then using it in somewhere where they turn out.
00:32:10.000You mentioned you were black, and then you mentioned quite a few different other ethnicities.
00:32:17.000Explain, like, how are your other ethnicities?
00:32:20.000Um, so me and my sister were always curious of who we were because the stories we got from my father and from my mother, because me and my father, my father looks one way and my mother looks completely the other.
00:33:21.000So the problem with that is, is you're basically, and so this is why I have an issue, right?
00:33:26.000Because you're basically, when they asked for, like, what you are, rather than saying you're black, you went to your, like, DNA test and you were like, oh, I'm 13% this, like, 5% this, 2% this, whatever.
00:33:35.000I kept asking all the people prior to me, well, how much percentage, how much is this on my mind?
00:34:53.000So as I saw the questions going prior before me, I just wanted to prepare myself so I could see more pleasing to their crowd.
00:35:01.000And yes, did I... Belittle myself or make it seem like I'm not proud to be black.
00:35:05.000I don't know, but that was not my intentions.
00:35:07.000My intentions was to be more accepting to their audience and to answer the questions the way they were already answering it.
00:35:15.000So I might have took that wrong and maybe I overthought it as a Virgo, which I tend to do many times, but I'm proud to be African American.
00:35:27.000No, but isn't that a problem that basically based on one experience that you've had on this show...
00:35:43.000You wanted to be accepted by their audience, in your mind, and due to the fact that you wanted to be accepted by their audience, you were like, I'm 5% this, 7% this, 9%.
00:35:52.000It's just like, it's not right, right?
00:35:57.000I just thought that the questioning was going to be different since the whole change of the podcast from prior when I came and the whole new setup.
00:36:05.000I thought things were going to be different.
00:36:06.000I didn't think things were going to be the same, to be honest with you.
00:36:09.000So I was expecting something a little bit different, a little bit more lighter.
00:36:33.000I wouldn't call y'all niggas like that.
00:36:35.000Now, if I see you in the street and I seen you doing some stuff that I felt like wasn't respectable as an African-American man, then yeah, I'm gonna call you a nigga.
00:36:45.000But right now, you haven't gave me no reason to call y'all a nigga, so I don't wanna call nobody else a nigga on the platform.
00:37:13.000The problem with what you're saying is it's probably worse because what you're saying is you describe someone as a n***a If they have negative black fits, right?
00:37:50.000So just to rephrase what I'm saying, so according to what you just said now, if someone does not act respectable for you, then it's appropriate and acceptable to call them a nigger, right?
00:39:04.000Y'all say the N-word because you're Hispanic, and it's not an issue because I really don't care, but people say it as, oh, they're not black, so this is an N-word?
00:39:15.000So let me answer that because I kind of disagree.
00:39:18.000And the reason why I asked that question is because I don't agree with your definition because I feel like, again, your definition of what you said is probably worse than what he did, right?
00:40:05.000So when they become the minority, you're seeing now almost any comment you make is like anti-white.
00:40:10.000Even though I'm not anti-white, but you would see them saying it all the time.
00:40:14.000So in reality, what that has demonstrated to me is that it doesn't matter if you're white, it doesn't matter if you're black or Asian or Arab or wherever it may be.
00:40:22.000Most people are sensitive to anyone demeaning them.
00:40:26.000So for example, using the N-word would be an example of when people think they're being demeaned.
00:40:31.000Or for example, if I say a white chick, right?
00:40:34.000White people will be like, oh, Suleiman's anti-white, Suleiman's anti-white.
00:40:36.000So, in reality, what happens is, we get used to using certain terminology, being in certain areas.
00:40:43.000But when we look at it holistically, yeah, I do think that it's not just a word.
00:41:38.000I'm just saying if it's going to hurt somebody's feelings in that way and they want to retaliate, then you saying the word means you're going to receive whatever they want to give to you.
00:41:45.000I'm just saying in this context here, all my niggas.
00:41:49.000Question for you because you said that we said something about like black people or whatever.
00:41:52.000What was it last time that you think that we said?
00:41:58.000Yeah, because you said something about us saying something about the show puts down dark skinned black people.
00:42:03.000Well, I'm just talking about prior before when I came on the show years ago, I witnessed, I felt like from my personal perspective, Y'all didn't really like dark-skinned girls too much on the show.
00:42:17.000And y'all would like call them out more so than the light-skinned or the Spanish girls on the show.
00:42:22.000You asked me a question, so I answered it.
00:42:24.000Put you to my last video with my black queen.
00:42:26.000And then, like, the whole situation when I saw Asian Doll up here and how uncomfortable she was, that really...
00:42:43.000And then I felt like after y'all went through the situation with YouTube and everything, I just felt like it was just going to be different.
00:42:59.000And YouTube closed y'all down for a little bit for disrespect and all that stuff and how y'all was treating everybody on y'all podcast for whatever reason.
00:43:05.000No, we're on YouTube right now, matter of fact.
00:43:28.000Okay, so you said that we got, why do you think we got turned off by YouTube?
00:43:32.000It was just a lot going on, and the way I saw when you guys had special guests, because it used to be at one point y'all had special guests each time, like how you guys have this young man here.
00:43:41.000Every time y'all had like a dark skin, Special guest, it just didn't seem like it would go too well as if you had somebody else in a seat.
00:43:50.000So I just didn't feel like y'all was team dark skin and y'all was team, you know, whatever.
00:43:54.000I feel like y'all was very offensive to us.
00:43:57.000So like when you keep calling me nigga, I do take offensive to that because of that.
00:44:01.000And I feel like you guys have all this ready for us to say this so you know you have something.
00:45:36.000But I don't think you are the definition of a racist.
00:45:40.000I just think y'all pick and choose what ladies y'all want to go on court.
00:45:43.000So what do you think happened with Asian Doll?
00:45:45.000Tell me again, what do you think happened with her?
00:45:48.000My sister's not here to defend herself.
00:45:50.000I'm not about to bring up what she had to go through traumatically.
00:45:54.000Y'all already know what y'all put her through and all the viewers saw what y'all put her through and I'm not going to let y'all put me in a spot just to speak upon it.
00:46:02.000You asked me a question and I answered it.
00:46:04.000I feel as though y'all treated dark-skinned women differently than the light-skinned women on your show.
00:49:23.000I don't think none of my behavior was inappropriate.
00:49:27.000I do apologize if y'all failed as though I called y'all racist, because that was not my intention.
00:49:32.000Okay, look, if you tell someone, right, hey, you shot three people and they died, right, what you're effectively saying is that I'm a murderer.
00:49:40.000You might have not called me a murderer, but the behaviors I exhibited make me a murderer by definition.
00:49:45.000Okay, but what I'm trying to do right now is apologize for you.
00:49:48.000But you've got to understand that if you're going to use the English language and use certain words or whatever it may be, they have a meaning.
00:51:04.000Let's just get past it because we're going to go in a circle.
00:51:07.000I don't know what else they want for me.
00:51:08.000I apologize many times for it, so I do apologize.
00:51:11.000I was not trying to disrespect y'all on y'all podcast.
00:51:13.000I swear to God, I was not trying to do that.
00:51:16.000We're just correcting you, that's all.
00:51:17.000Cool, let's get back to the body count.
00:51:21.000See, I've come to realize this when I talk to women, is that they use words and they think, I feel like it is, this is the definition, but that's not the definition.
00:51:30.000Like, I feel like it means this, but it doesn't.
00:51:33.000And she said, I feel like you guys were doing this.
00:58:28.000The reason I asked that question was because obviously I've come on the show and I've seen a number of episodes before that and there is basically a significant disproportion of non-white women on the show.
00:58:40.000And so the question becomes like why is it that you have this preponderance of non-white women basically coming on Fresh and Fit?
00:58:48.000Basically I assume that most of these have come from Instagram or various other mediums or did you bring them?
01:01:02.000Girl, you be bitching at me by not tagging you.
01:01:18.000So look here, we've got Smiley here, you know, telling us the facts.
01:01:24.000So coming back to it, the reason I'm saying that is because look, Women, generally speaking, obviously not all women, but generally speaking, they use their appearance, they use their body to sell.
01:01:36.000Now the question becomes, what is the medium that they use to sell?
01:01:39.000So for example, Instagram is probably, or OnlyFans is probably the lowest level of medium because in reality, they're selling their bodies in that way.
01:04:55.000So coming back to the point I'm saying, Okay, so now you've made me switch points, but let me answer your point first and then I'll come to that.
01:05:01.000So, in reality, why it's not a good thing is this, because what that does is, without sounding mean, but actually it's okay to be mean on this, is it destroys society.
01:05:10.000Because just think about all the men who are basically subscribing to OnlyFans, what's happening to them.
01:05:15.000So, in the past, and obviously none of this is acceptable, but I just want you to understand it from psychological perspective.
01:05:30.000In the past, you basically had a scenario where men, when they weren't able to attain women, would pay for sex, right?
01:05:37.000And so they would financially pay money and they'd have sex.
01:05:41.000And it'd be like a half-decent woman, whatever it may be.
01:05:43.000There'll be different categories, right?
01:05:44.000Depending on how much you're going to pay.
01:05:46.000Now the problem in society is those same men are basically paying OnlyFans, paying Instagram, but not even having sex.
01:05:56.000So just think about the mental impact it has on these guys.
01:05:59.000By the way, all of this is wrong, but I'm trying to demonstrate to you from a psychological perspective how impactful this is on these men.
01:06:06.000So you basically have these guys who were able to pay for sex before, right?
01:07:10.000That's what demonstrates why there's a huge problem in the society we have because them same men now have not been with a woman yet paid significant amount of money To basically observe a woman.
01:07:22.000Do you think that man's ever going to get a woman in the future?
01:07:43.000And just coming back to the other point of what I was saying in terms of the different levels.
01:07:49.000So why I was talking about this is because You know, a lot of people think that a woman's value or whatever her makeup is, is just based on her looks.
01:07:58.000It is obviously the primary reason, but then there's other factors.
01:08:01.000There's socio-economic factors, there's your background.
01:08:04.000And so, for that reason, you've got basically people who are basically non-white on this show, generally speaking.
01:08:10.000And there's a reason why you have scenarios where those type of people are more so on OnlyFans.
01:08:16.000And yet, when you look at the other industries, it's again, the disproportionate changes.
01:08:21.000So I just think it's an important point.
01:08:46.000You shouldn't watch porn because the problem is when you watch porn, then what happens is it basically has a scenario where people Men are basically accepting that they're going to be paying, or even not paying, but they're going to be accepting that they're never ever going to get with a woman.
01:09:33.000Like, you guys had more access to sex, all these things, you'll pay for it, you'll get the sex, now you don't, and we have all this OnlyFans.
01:17:16.000Do you think all these incels or all these 80, 90% of men or 70% of men who are basically not even having sex, they think that, oh, we don't want to have sex.
01:17:23.000They want to have sex, but just they don't have that ability to just think, you know what, I'm going to open my legs and I'm going to have sex.
01:19:27.000It's like, no, you're an idiot, and you pick the wrong guy.
01:19:29.000Just like me, if I get finessed by a girl, I deserve to be made fun of, and I think we need to go back to making fun of women when they pick toxic dudes.
01:20:43.000You guys want that excitement with that bad boy and all this other shit?
01:20:45.000Tattoos, Tyrone, all this other dumb shit?
01:20:47.000Tyrone, Jamal, you guys deserve to be Tyrone.
01:20:50.000But to Suleiman's point, with what's happening with OnlyFans, P-Hub, all that stuff, it's creating men to be weak, like what you were saying earlier, and they become docile, and they become feminine.
01:21:01.000But at the same time, if you want masculine men, where are they?
01:21:04.000So just to add to what you're saying, right?
01:21:07.000The problem you've got is society in itself, and she's right, right?
01:21:11.000Because what's happened is society in itself has become feminized.
01:21:14.000Now, the question is, why has society become feminized?
01:21:18.000Obviously, there's a multitude of reasons, but in reality is they worship women.
01:21:21.000Now, it doesn't matter if it's the left.
01:21:26.000So when basically you've got the entirety of society putting women on a pedestal, you're going to have a scenario where someone's at the top.
01:21:34.000And then someone's going to be at the bottom.
01:21:36.000So right now you've got a scenario where men are significantly at the bottom.
01:21:40.000So when you're calling them like bitches or whatever it may be, but that's literally what's happening to men because of all aspects of society.
01:21:47.000There's a reason why you look at it and the suicide in men is four times higher than women.
01:21:53.000There's a reason why men are rough sleepers.
01:21:57.00080% are men compared to 20% are women.
01:22:00.000The reason is because we live in a society which has made the lives of women easier.
01:22:06.000But in addition to that, we've got a scenario where we've got a society where men also have been taught, conditioned, To worship women.
01:22:16.000So you all, he did, Maureen asked you guys all about your family background.
01:22:20.000The vast majority of you said that your parents had broken up.
01:22:23.000You know, there were many issues with your family, wherever it may be.
01:22:26.000Because in reality, what happens is when you have a broken household, generally speaking, you'll have the women bringing up the men.
01:22:32.000And so they become a lot more feminized.
01:22:34.000So there's a multitude of factors for it.
01:22:36.000But in reality, yes, we do live in a society where men are a lot more feminine.
01:31:46.000Listen, when I saw him coming up, I had thoughts of like, damn, you know, like we talk about, oh, like, baby, this empire I'm building, this and that.
01:31:54.000Like, oh, what if like, you know, I have a lot of kids and stuff.
01:33:55.000I think you guys are useless to society.
01:33:57.000If I was a fucking president of the United States, I'd put all of you guys in a concentration camp where you guys can concentrate on diet and exercise.
01:34:03.000I don't like fat people because, quite frankly, you guys are lazy and it manifests itself in physicality.
01:34:08.000Now, as a female and you're fat, that's 20 times worse.
01:36:50.000And then being fat is something which is a bit more low damp, but it's important.
01:36:54.000So in reality, like what is the optimum?
01:36:56.000Why does a man even want to lose weight?
01:36:59.000Possibly lose weight because he wants to get a partner, because he wants to have children.
01:37:03.000So if you look at all of those things, but to get those things, what is it a woman looks for?
01:37:07.000She basically is looking for wealth, power, and actually power more than wealth, ironically.
01:37:13.000So if you look at a woman and she had a choice between a fat guy who was powerful Or a skinny guy who was not powerful or had no money, she would definitely choose the fat guy.
01:40:46.000So there's no excuse to be fat in America, where there's all the education out there, the food labels are there, you can use food trackers, etc.
01:44:10.000You guys will go get your hair done, your nails done, do all this shit, but you guys don't exercise, you're lazy as fuck, you wanna go get a BBL instead of go to the gym, you guys are out of shape, you eat like shit, you don't study calories, you don't do nothing.
01:48:46.000But to be real with you, once you can provide and you're actually like, let that do with some game, looks are kind of like a secondary thing.
01:48:52.000Now granted though, you should be in the best shape of your life, but possibly speaking, for us it don't matter that much.
01:48:57.000But for you, nigga, just keeping it real.
01:52:29.000And as a result of having sponsors, actually having companies that run what they do, they have to be like that because they'll get cancelled and then they lose their branding and their money.
01:52:36.000So, understand when they come on the podcast is because it gives exposure, but it's not to learn from them in that sense, okay?
01:52:42.000So, understand it's for a reason for the podcast, but long-term speaking, it's not to learn from them in that sense of red pill.
01:57:34.000He's still a fat piece of shit though, but he's taking responsibility.
01:57:39.000I ain't gonna lie, I guess that helps, but you know, you telling him- Could you imagine you work every day, walk in and they call you- I ain't gonna lie, Moe is handsome though.
01:57:47.000If he get real slim, he's very handsome.
02:00:21.000Brooklyn goes, ladies, would you consider being in a committed monogamous relationship with Chris Brown for five years, knowing with absolute certainty that you will break up after those five years?
02:00:29.000The only catch is you have to leave your current boyfriend of one year today.