On this episode of the Fagrant Podcast, the boys are back after a week long break. The boys talk about the new collabs, Akash Singh, and more. Also, the girls are back!
00:36:31.000So when you do your, I guess, your quote for someone's insurance, like if they have security cameras, that obviously lowers their monthly payment?
00:41:44.000You pretty much just keep reaching out to people through like LinkedIn, like social media, like Facebook, just to get new, I guess, depending on what you're selling.
00:41:53.000Basically, he spammed her on all platforms if possible.
00:41:57.000Yeah, he was actually dating someone too at the time.
00:41:59.000And he just always was reaching out to me, just trying to get me out.
00:42:03.000And then at the time, I just was like, I'm just graduating school.
00:49:48.000So with, so now I make more money off social media with less liability than I did off of my gay bar in Key West that's featured on CNN every New Year's Eve.
00:50:21.000Well, it's where my sons would go during spring break and they'd pick up all the girls because they got to be the cool person during spring break at a drag show, buying everybody shots for free on mom and dad's tab.
00:50:33.000And because what's, there's no competition.
00:57:17.000My grandmother told me when I was at my grandson's graduation, my granddaughter says, Gigi, because I did not want to be called a grandmother.
00:57:59.000So if you are gonna, within a certain age range, you haven't had kids, you haven't been married, certain things can come back to nip you in the ass later.
01:06:40.000Bigger betrayal, I would say, with him not protecting me.
01:06:43.000Because I know at the end of the day, a man can still have respect for you and still love you, and yet he's still out there doing something else.
01:06:50.000Yo, today's like Vindication Day for me.
01:06:52.000Like, everything that I've said is like coming to fruition.
01:06:57.000She's saying what I've been saying forever: that, you know, a guy cheating on a woman sexually is not the big a deal, but him not protecting her physically is the bigger deal.
01:08:43.000Well, yeah, a lot of them are Protestant, right?
01:08:44.000I thought Roman Catholic mostly, but no, the Irish comes from my dad's side, which and he was Catholic, and then my mom's side was Protestant.
01:11:51.000Because why is it that it's you expect a woman to pay half of a bill, half of this, half of that?
01:12:00.000I grew up, I raised my kids, where cooked, cleaned, had dinner ready every day at six, coached soccer, volunteered at the school, and helped run multiple businesses.
01:13:04.000Yeah, personally, because of the fact that in that relationship that I was in, that did happen, and I was the one that was really taking care of everything money-wise.
01:13:13.000I would want the next relationship to be monogamous.
01:14:41.000I feel like when you catch a man doing something that they're not supposed to do, the first thing they do is lie in order to like make it better instead of just being honest.
01:14:51.000I feel like if you're honest and from the beginning, I'm more likely to forgive you than you just lie.
01:14:56.000But do you really want to hear the truth from a man, though?
01:15:20.000Okay, when you say they set high expectations, what do you mean when like if a man's coming to see you or like taking you out or getting you stuff right the first few weeks or whatever?
01:16:18.000You don't expect follow-through when you're in the courting stage or the dating stage.
01:16:22.000It's following through with the obligations because I follow through with everything I say I'm gonna do, but not everybody does consistency, maybe consistency follow through.
01:16:34.000Is it because maybe your actions you think or just the person themselves, like men and themselves?
01:16:39.000Um, I think in general, because everybody says they're ADD this day, everybody's scrolling on screens, you don't focus, and people don't communicate.
01:16:52.000People tend to say in this era what they think what you want to hear instead of reality.
01:17:28.000And I, yeah, can you tell me one example of a maybe simpy?
01:17:31.000Because that's actually a very good uh response.
01:17:33.000But uh, I think, especially if they're brokey, I will say they're more simpy, and so they'll simply kind of like a guy that just flows over you, like he's always like he's in his feminine, like love.
01:17:49.000No, no, no, it's for example, you know, like OnlyFans, you're you're you're uh, your subs, they'll simp over you like whatever you want, be able, give it to you, whatever.
01:17:56.000Kind of like that, even though you don't know who they are, actually.
01:18:07.000So, you were explaining how guys simp when they're broke.
01:18:09.000Oh, yeah, especially because they're brokey.
01:18:11.000Honestly, I think a lot of guys that are in that type of um level there, I think that they try to go for women that are way outskirts out of their league that already have the guy that had the money, or they have grew up with money to trust fund babies, or they try to go for the girls that are like already kind of pretty fixed up, and then they try to simp over them, trying to meet all these expectations for them.
01:18:34.000But then, through time, the girl leaves, anyways, because they're not meeting those expectations for them.
01:18:39.000So, you start off hot, and then again, yeah, like what I said-that's like the biggest issue.
01:19:02.000Uh, no comment on this one, not at all, no.
01:19:05.000So, men can't improve for you in any form or fashion, it can't improve.
01:19:08.000I mean, obviously, men can improve, but it really guesses it depends on like the individual itself.
01:19:13.000So, generally speaking, you have no issues with men at all, not necessarily in that sense.
01:19:17.000I would say probably maybe like accountability, I would say, or at least coming authentically.
01:19:20.000It's like if they have we'll make it simple: the last three guys you dated, what made you rule them out?
01:19:25.000The last two guys I've dated, yeah, not the two that we you want a long-term relationship, but like I'm sure you had other maybe guys you spoke to or whatever could have been one date here, two dates here, three dates here, someone you maybe texted with were the things that disqualified them.
01:19:36.000Um, that you can recall, I would say, probably just them not showing up as they probably make themselves appear, like just holding themselves accountable.
01:19:45.000Like, they same thing, well, hold on, are we talking about they court you really hard in the beginning and then they don't court you the same way, or what are we talking about here specifically?
01:19:54.000It'd be more of like being upfront about your intentions if you're expecting one thing and then coming off like she said, coming off one way, yeah.
01:20:01.000Okay, yeah, I was gonna say something along these lines that don't have an identity crisis when you're meeting somebody, make sure you know what you want, you know, don't waste somebody's time, be sure of who you are as a man.
01:20:14.000And if you're still figuring that out, can you go into more detail without the identity crisis thing?
01:20:18.000Okay, I mean by identity crisis is like so I was dating somebody that when I met him, he was Muslim, but his family had came from Witchcock.
01:27:31.000No, not a problem I have, but at least from what I see from social media, especially with like the younger generations or at least girls in their 20s, I'd say at least that's what I'm noticing on social media.
01:27:54.000I would let her know that if you're picking this man, he obviously has your best interest.
01:27:58.000And if he has your best interest, if he's telling you that he doesn't want you wearing something or he doesn't want you going out, it's not because it's controlling.
01:28:04.000It's because as a man, his mindset is he knows how other men are thinking, regardless of what your situation is.
01:28:09.000If you're going out to the club with your friends, he knows that even though that's your intentions, the men there, if that's not their intentions with you.
01:29:26.000I would say that when your husband, boyfriend gets home from work, that you don't sit there and tell him how horrible your day has been with the kids or with this or that.
01:29:38.000You all eat, sit there because you don't know what he's dealt with at work.
01:29:43.000Because this is what I've noticed when I moved to the mainland.
01:29:46.000You have the women who complain about how horrible they all sit there in groups discussing how horrible their husbands are, where their kids are with the nannies and stuff.
01:29:57.000And my opinion is that you don't know what your husband dealt with at work.
01:30:03.000So if you cook, you have him fed with the kids with that.
01:30:07.000And then, you know, you discuss how his day was, and then you tell him how your day was.
01:30:14.000Because my ex, who I have the kids with, we would sit there and have our discussions and how to raise the kids, what our goals were in business and in life.
01:30:48.000So I think sometimes as girls, we don't realize that they kind of need to process things a little bit differently and that they do, you know, want to cry like us, but they can't because society doesn't let them.
01:33:37.000Like, I feel like sometimes women do react more on emotions than men.
01:33:41.000So, like, making sure that when you're having a conversation, you're not screaming or yelling, crying, like, just try to have a mature conversation about whatever you're talking about.
01:33:50.000I feel like compromise is like the biggest thing.
01:33:52.000If you're having a problem with somebody, you should be able to compromise during that.
01:33:59.000So, a couple of you ladies said you had problems with lying or guys not following through or whatever, which I guess you could say is lying.
01:34:27.000And to my understanding, I would rather view my man one way rather than knowing that he's out.
01:34:34.000If he's sleeping around with somebody else, it's one of those things where I hate to say I want to turn a blind eye to it, but it's like if I am to find out that my view on that's going to change.
01:34:43.000And it's like, if I view my man this one way, and once I know, then my view or my respect value is going to change.
01:35:32.000So, in other words, if he goes and fucks another bitch, it won't be as bad if she knows the truth about it, that the relationship is solid.
01:36:05.000Okay, what if the guy told you, look, I'm going to have other women, you're my main girl, but I'm going to go out and have other women do what I want.
01:36:11.000You're monogamous to me, but I'm not monogamous to you.
01:36:13.000And don't ask me what I'm doing, and I do whatever I want.
01:37:55.000So you even understand that you're the men, the suitable candidates for you that would like your look, be at that age group, be at that income level because you make a lot of money, it's small.
01:38:46.000Because there's a difference between if you're cohabitating and you're in a serious relationship, then you're just starting the dating pool.
01:38:55.000What I'm arguing is that you might not even make it into the serious cohabitation situation if he decides to even do that with you, if you don't have the other stuff in check where you will accept a certain type of behavior and relationship engagement that he wants.
01:39:09.000I could honestly say that any of my exes, if I called them right now, would take me back.
01:41:35.000It's like this fucking wild, like, grass is greener on the other side mindset that women have, but the grass really ain't greener on the other side.
01:53:44.000So like, yes, I do believe that it can be considered rape if it's not your husband by of course, but I'm saying within the confinements of marriage.
01:53:59.000Sex is generally mut sex is generally mutual.
01:54:02.000Yeah, but in the situation where it's marriage and she doesn't want to do it and he does it anyway, do you consider it rape in your opinion or no?
01:54:23.000My personal opinion is no in my own relationships because I enjoy it, but I also don't live in other people's houses to judge what goes on or what their perspective is.
01:55:33.000but what are you just not in the mood well so only one girl here thinks that you shouldn't withhold sex from your all right so what you thinks it's okay to withhold sex Only one?
01:55:55.000Well, I mean, withholding is for an extended period of time.
01:55:58.000If you're just tired that night and you don't want to, I wouldn't say that's withholding it, but withholding, I would say, is extended over a period of time.
01:56:03.000He's saying, if that's the case, you're holding sex.
01:56:08.000Yeah, so yeah, that's what he's saying.
01:56:10.000I just kind of want to see what her mind was at, but yeah.
01:56:12.000If it's okay for a woman to withhold sex from her man and leave a man because she's bored or unhappy, then is it okay if a man leaves a woman because she nags and annoys him and gives him attitude, and when she withholds sex, he can get it from another woman.
02:05:17.000We just have to stay home, apparently.
02:05:19.000Well, to be fair, though, you guys were happier back then than you are now.
02:05:21.000Because you know you're working jobs, you're tired of working, and niggas want to pay half the amount of money for our dinner and also dates.
02:05:28.000So you're happier because you can't pay it for it, and you're happier because you're actually being a woman and being feminine.
02:05:33.000I mean, like, do you like to disagree enough?
02:05:37.000I don't think that tattoos or piercings like define if that's a good woman or not.
02:06:03.000And I remember being five years old at the kitchen table, my dad coming home, because back in Massachusetts, up until I think the year of 2000, exactly 2000, it was banned to have tattoo shops in Massachusetts.
02:06:13.000So I remember my dad coming home with his back tattoo of two dragons.
02:06:23.000I don't exactly know why it was banned in the state of Massachusetts, but you could not open any tattoo shops.
02:06:28.000So when he came home with his back tattoo, like I said, at the kitchen table, I remember seeing it and I told myself, I'm going to be covered like him one day.
02:06:34.000And now me and him have several matching tattoos.
02:10:57.000So, Doug, what women say they're attracted to versus what they actually respond favorably to are two different things.
02:11:04.000That's why I arranged marriages everything.
02:11:05.000I was literally did a whole monologue on this earlier, but basically the reason why I arranged marriages were so popular since the beginning of time is because we pretty much figured out that, you know, from the Adam and Eve story or whatever else you want, that women are not good at mate selecting.
02:11:17.000What ends up happening is when a woman's at her peak between 18 and 25, they pick the guys that stimulate them emotionally, but this might not necessarily be good for them long term financially and provisionally.
02:11:28.000So this is why women say they want equality on one end, but the reality is they don't respond favorably to a guy that actually gives them said equality.
02:13:25.000Do I think they're the one place in that area that I could be in quasi-be safe in comparison to the neighbor neighboring countries since I have traveled around the world?
02:13:38.000So, yeah, you'd be safe in all the Gulf states.
02:13:42.000You'd be safe in Lebanon's half Christian.
02:13:46.000Yes, but there are certain places where you'd be safer in any of these Muslim countries than the United States.
02:13:52.000Oh, no, I just meant if I'm in that region, where would I be safer?
02:13:58.000Just saying, because Qatar, UAE, Oman, Saudi Arabia, Lebanon, some parts of Syria, depending on what it is, all the places that you wouldn't be safe are places that Israel destroyed.
02:14:28.000I didn't want to interrupt what you were saying.
02:14:29.000You were saying, so you're pro-common sense, which is do not, well, not sending money over there or I don't think we should send all the money we do there.
02:14:36.000I don't think we should send the money that we send to a lot of the countries, but it's neither here nor there because the government spends it however they want.
02:14:51.000Why do you think they don't like it then?
02:14:53.000I think it's because of schooling system, the schools, and how they're, I think it's that the that they don't spend enough time getting values from their parents that because the moms have to work so much.
02:15:07.000I volunteered at the schools when my kids were little.
02:15:52.000So you think the schooling system, parents being less their Foreign countries paying what's foreign countries pay our schools if you we've allowed China to donate billions to our school education systems and also to our colleges.
02:16:09.000They've done it to lower and higher education and so has Qatar Okay, what do you what do you think which foreign country do you think is the most pernicious United States?
02:16:20.000Well, I don't think that any person in government should have dual passports to any other country Yeah, but that's not what I asked.
02:16:29.000What country do you think is the most damaging to U.S. national security?
02:16:37.000So it'd be fair to say that you're not pro-Israel then I mean I don't know that's a hard thing to sit there and just only fans is owned by a Jewish so she's got to be careful here.
02:16:52.000Oh, no, I don't give a shit about that.
02:17:47.000I think it's people waking up to what we're doing in Israel and what happened with Gaza.
02:17:51.000A lot of people are, you know, finding out with alternative media that the United States perpetuates a lot of the terrorism that we claim others do on us.
02:20:05.000But for yeah, for the most part, though, it will be a no most of the time.
02:20:07.000And for sales, men are better because.
02:20:10.000And she said earlier, like, you know, even though you might have, you know, very good intentions going out to somewhere, the men that are there don't.
02:22:35.000Was it us talking or was it like girls fighting or something?
02:22:38.000Or what was the when there's been like when you've crossed the boundary, I guess, a little bit of disrespect, they probably disrespected you first.
02:24:03.000Yeah, no, you know, it's, it's, it's incredible.
02:24:06.000Um, literally, uh, because I've been doing like more college debates and shit like that, uh, like going out trying to expand.
02:24:12.000And the girls that watch like my political show or this show or whatever, and they agree every single time, damn near.
02:24:20.000It's either A, they have a strong dad and they're single, or B, they have a boyfriend or a man that they watch a show together with that's you know in their masculine frame.
02:24:30.000So, like, in her situation, her guy, in your situation, your dad.
02:24:34.000So, it's very interesting how that dynamic is.
02:24:37.000I've always thought that was interesting.
02:24:39.000It's like one of the, it's one of those every single time.
02:24:41.000Very rarely have I met a girl that like agrees with us or the third, I forgot this one, they're in sex work.
02:26:28.000I'm glad that, you know, like I said, every time I see a woman that's engaged or in a long-term relationship or whatever and they watch, to me, that's like a flex.
02:26:34.000Because I'm like, yeah, see, we're helping out.
02:29:28.000Yo, we'll get some more chats here, by the way.
02:29:31.000Friendly says, hey, Myron, after seeing that Sing shit earlier, and some of the ladies on the panel, would it be perfect to play Donovan's drive relationship skit?
02:34:18.000But either way, I'm going to go ahead and I won't be here tomorrow, but Wednesday first, gonna give you guys a show with some lovely ladies.