Fresh & Fit - Should Men and Women Live Together in 2026?

00:25:32.000 And we are live.

00:25:33.000 Welcome back to the show, guys.

00:25:34.000 It's me and Chris today.

00:25:35.000 Myron's a little bit underweather.

00:25:37.000 He was debating in cold weather, actually.

00:25:40.000 So guys, tune in to this episode.

00:25:41.000 We're going to cover today.

00:25:42.000 Should men and women live together 2026. 0.91

00:25:45.000 Let's go!

00:26:08.000 Let our voices rise.

00:26:10.000 Let them reach the skies.

00:26:25.000 and we're back.

00:26:27.000 Okay, guys, just some updates real quick.

00:26:30.000 Right now, we have an issue with how to issue with locals.

00:26:32.000 It's going to be fixed on Monday, right?

00:26:34.000 We're going to have a big guest on Monday and Wednesday.

00:26:36.000 Cool.

00:26:37.000 Can't say who it is yet, Chris. 0.99

00:26:38.000 Damn. 0.99

00:26:39.000 I might say I ended the show. 0.99

00:26:41.000 But you guys are going to love it.

00:26:42.000 But guys, we're going to do a pre-show on Monday for you guys on locals.

00:26:45.000 If you're on Castle Club, don't worry, guys.

00:26:47.000 We got you.

00:26:48.000 Pre-show with a guest on Monday and Wednesday.

00:26:51.000 And Chris, any updates?

00:26:52.000 Yeah, guys.

00:26:53.000 Follow me at my, you know, onlyfans.com fetch Aaron Poxon.

00:26:56.000 You know, content there.

00:26:57.000 I do feed pics and everything.

00:26:58.000 And it's been going late so far.

00:27:00.000 No, I'm talking, ladies. 1.00

00:27:01.000 I don't do on fans.

00:27:02.000 But follow me on my Twitch, Aaron Poxon.

00:27:05.000 And yeah, we're here.

00:27:06.000 You know, Marines wants to get under the weather.

00:27:07.000 It's me and Fresh holding it down.

00:27:09.000 I'm not 100% fresh, not 100%.

00:27:11.000 But, you know, it's all good.

00:27:12.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:27:13.000 But we know we're here for you guys.

00:27:14.000 So, you know, either cancel the show or just have a show with us.

00:27:18.000 But this year, boots on that.

00:27:19.000 We don't stop it.

00:27:20.000 Yeah, boots on next, man.

00:27:20.000 Let's go.

00:27:21.000 Let's get a mail.

00:27:22.000 Thank you for waiting.

00:27:23.000 If you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what we do for a living, dating status.

00:27:27.000 But if you want to, of course.

00:27:28.000 Your body count.

00:27:29.000 We'll start right there.

00:27:31.000 Hi.

00:27:32.000 Okay.

00:27:33.000 My name is Aisha.

00:27:34.000 Aisha with an A or? 0.99

00:27:36.000 Yeah, Aisha with an A. 1.00

00:27:38.000 And I'm 19.

00:27:40.000 Okay.

00:27:41.000 What do you mean for?

00:27:42.000 Well, I just recently got fired.

00:27:45.000 Actually, I was working as a concierge at a luxury apartment building.

00:27:48.000 Wait, Gables.

00:27:49.000 How'd you get fired from being concierge?

00:27:52.000 Hi.

00:27:54.000 Yeah.

00:27:55.000 Aisha.

00:27:56.000 Yeah.

00:27:57.000 Yeah, nah.

00:27:58.000 I feel like they were just racist.

00:27:59.000 They were just like...

00:28:00.000 To you?

00:28:01.000 Yeah.

00:28:01.000 Yeah, nah.

00:28:01.000 They said, like, I didn't feel their ideal image, like, for the building and shit, and they were like...

00:28:07.000 Is it because you're here? 0.98

00:28:08.000 Oh.

00:28:09.000 Or your nails?

00:28:10.000 I'm brown.

00:28:12.000 Look at me. 1.00

00:28:13.000 What the fuck? 1.00

00:28:14.000 I mean, okay, were they white? 1.00

00:28:16.000 Were they Hispanic? 1.00

00:28:17.000 Nah, they were white as fuck. 1.00

00:28:18.000 Okay, yeah, yeah, you're right. 1.00

00:28:19.000 Nah, Coral Gables, luxury building.

00:28:22.000 Oh, okay.

00:28:23.000 But who hired you, though?

00:28:24.000 I mean, that's the hireman department fault.

00:28:26.000 Yeah, that's the hiring department's fault.

00:28:28.000 I hired over like some um wait, I had like a friend of friend and they were like, all right, let's get you in.

00:28:35.000 Okay, that's what happened.

00:28:36.000 And then six months later they did a favor yeah, so what are you gonna do now then?

00:28:41.000 Um, right now I'm trying to work as like a jewelry manager and stuff.

00:28:45.000 So I don't know well guys, if you're, if you're hiring, she's actually available.

00:28:49.000 So if you guys need some assistance, she's 19 and ready to work right yes, and what's your background?

00:28:55.000 Well, I am Bengali actually, so I'm basically Indian.

00:28:59.000 You're Indian almost, come again, almost almost Indian, y'all. 0.98

00:29:04.000 Okay, question, you ever been with a black guy?

00:29:07.000 Uh yes, I have been with blank white guy yes, but yes, she's 19, though Fresh. 0.98

00:29:15.000 I got everyone bitch, everyone you know, like Danos, the Sones and and the six months. 0.99

00:29:24.000 What about? 0.98

00:29:26.000 What about Asian?

00:29:28.000 Yes, I have Asian too.

00:29:33.000 Yo, that's crazy.

00:29:34.000 Okay okay, we're in Asia.

00:29:35.000 I don't want to know, I don't own it anymore, it's all right.

00:29:38.000 Um okay uh, dating status, um, I'm single, single and you're Indian? 1.00

00:29:43.000 Okay, makes sense. 0.99

00:29:44.000 Oh, I'm kidding, I'm kidding, damn relax. 0.97

00:29:48.000 Okay um, highest education level, um, I'm studying mechanical engineering at FIU right now. 0.99

00:29:54.000 I'm second second year okay so, so completed, second year completed.

00:30:00.000 Yes okay, that's fine.

00:30:04.000 Okay, all right.

00:30:05.000 Parents together or no yes, my parents are together.

00:30:08.000 Good stuff uh, birth control.

00:30:10.000 Uh no, all right.

00:30:12.000 Chris uh, you have any kids?

00:30:14.000 No, all right.

00:30:15.000 So you're 19, right?

00:30:16.000 Yeah, what's your body count?

00:30:18.000 Uh, I was just like, we'll say 12, we'll say 12.

00:30:24.000 i'm 19.

00:30:25.000 So 2026, you're gonna try to beat your uh, your age?

00:30:29.000 Um sure okay, I mean, she's honest with it, you know, is it wait?

00:30:32.000 Is it over 20 or 20?

00:30:34.000 No no, we're.

00:30:35.000 We're at 12 12 no, it's definitely over 12, but she's the one tell the full truth for this year, okay 14 babe 14 okay no okay, all right, what about you?

00:30:47.000 Me like okay, what's your name?

00:30:49.000 Hey, y'all.

00:30:50.000 My name, Nessa hey y'all.

00:30:54.000 Yeah, I got it.

00:30:54.000 You got this out.

00:30:55.000 Um, how old are you?

00:30:57.000 22 22 oh, she a queen.

00:30:59.000 Uh, what's your background?

00:31:00.000 I'm a cosmetologist, model and entrepreneur overall no like uh, black city, oh, i'm talking about i'm Cherokee and I'm black okay, so you're okay cool, got you all right um, and you said you're entrepreneur cosmetologist model, creative director okay uh, dating status, all right um, who's up with single?

00:31:25.000 Yeah, okay.

00:31:26.000 Well like, why the hesitation right there?

00:31:29.000 No, I'm single okay, it's just like the raspy.

00:31:33.000 Oh okay, you smoke weed, okay.

00:31:39.000 Highest education level, you completed high school? 0.99

00:31:42.000 Okay cool uh, parents together, hell fuck no, that makes sense hey, y'all. 0.99

00:31:49.000 And then birth control, hell no, okay. 0.99

00:31:53.000 You have kids? 1.00

00:31:53.000 Hell no okay damn okay, not y'all though, but fuck them kids, okay. 1.00

00:32:01.000 And then um Chris, take it away. 1.00

00:32:02.000 Your body count over 10, 22?

00:32:07.000 Yeah, it's probably a little higher, but all right cool, at least she's honest.

00:32:11.000 I mean, so far we'll say, all right, thank you.

00:32:13.000 What about you?

00:32:14.000 My name is Ashley, i'm 19.

00:32:17.000 Okay.

00:32:18.000 I'm currently in school, so the highest degree right now is an associates in arts for journalism, and I'm studying public relations and doing law.

00:32:25.000 Period.

00:32:25.000 Okay, journalism.

00:32:27.000 Okay.

00:32:27.000 Girl, you.

00:32:28.000 What's your background, actually?

00:32:30.000 I'm Cuban.

00:32:31.000 Okay, Cuban.

00:32:32.000 You came off a boat or you were born here?

00:32:34.000 I was born here.

00:32:34.000 No, I didn't come off a boat.

00:32:35.000 Okay, there you go.

00:32:37.000 Well, apparently, you were born in a what?

00:32:39.000 In a lab?

00:32:40.000 Yeah, in the lab.

00:32:40.000 I'm an IVF baby.

00:32:41.000 So I was lab created.

00:32:43.000 You got your lab created.

00:32:44.000 Yeah, they created me in a lab.

00:32:45.000 What?

00:32:46.000 Yeah.

00:32:46.000 Are you serious?

00:32:47.000 Hell yeah.

00:32:48.000 They created me.

00:32:49.000 The colon time roll, man.

00:32:50.000 I'm like AI.

00:32:51.000 That's why she's pretty. 1.00

00:32:53.000 She's saying I'm like AI.

00:32:54.000 I sound like a robot.

00:32:55.000 Real life AI.

00:32:56.000 I sound like a robot.

00:32:57.000 Yeah.

00:32:58.000 Yeah.

00:32:58.000 Wait.

00:32:59.000 Are you like or are you like serious? 1.00

00:33:01.000 I'm dead ass. 1.00

00:33:02.000 I was born in a lab. 1.00

00:33:03.000 Like, I was made in a lab.

00:33:04.000 So your parents didn't conceive you somebody else.

00:33:08.000 No, no, no.

00:33:08.000 My mom conceived me, but she couldn't, like, they couldn't have me like naturally.

00:33:11.000 They tried for 17 years and then they did IVF.

00:33:14.000 So.

00:33:15.000 Okay, you came up pretty okay, I guess.

00:33:17.000 Thank you.

00:33:18.000 Okay, dating status.

00:33:19.000 I'm single.

00:33:20.000 All right, great.

00:33:22.000 Parents together or no?

00:33:24.000 No, my dad is dead, so.

00:33:26.000 Technically speaking, no.

00:33:29.000 It's good.

00:33:30.000 It's good.

00:33:31.000 Yo, at least we still together.

00:33:33.000 They're together, technically.

00:33:34.000 Sorry for your loss.

00:33:35.000 It's okay.

00:33:39.000 Chat for pop.

00:33:40.000 Okay.

00:33:42.000 You said.

00:33:43.000 Yeah, associates.

00:33:44.000 Okay, parents are not together.

00:33:45.000 You said fresh.

00:33:47.000 Yeah, that relates.

00:33:48.000 He's dead, so.

00:33:49.000 Birth control?

00:33:49.000 Oh, no.

00:33:50.000 Chris?

00:33:51.000 Okay.

00:33:52.000 So you're 19, right?

00:33:53.000 Yeah.

00:33:53.000 What's body count?

00:33:54.000 What dumb lips? 1.00

00:33:54.000 Two. 1.00

00:33:55.000 Two.

00:33:56.000 I don't know.

00:33:57.000 You probably got more.

00:33:58.000 No.

00:33:59.000 No.

00:34:00.000 I mean, she takes her lips, right?

00:34:01.000 I thought you can't see.

00:34:02.000 You know, I mean, I know his lips, though. 0.99

00:34:05.000 So tell me, how many dicks you saw? 0.99

00:34:08.000 I don't know who. 0.99

00:34:09.000 You see?

00:34:10.000 I told you. 1.00

00:34:10.000 Dumb lips? 1.00

00:34:11.000 I don't know. 0.99

00:34:13.000 She lost count, man.

00:34:14.000 No, I didn't lose count.

00:34:15.000 So you don't know?

00:34:16.000 Like three or four?

00:34:17.000 I don't know.

00:34:17.000 Or five or six.

00:34:19.000 Nah, I don't go around doing that with random men. 0.84

00:34:21.000 Oh, okay.

00:34:22.000 Yes.

00:34:23.000 Yeah, kick the headphones.

00:34:24.000 So we have a big headphones.

00:34:25.000 Yes.

00:34:25.000 Oh.

00:34:27.000 Okay, Mo, we need you over here. 1.00

00:34:29.000 What's that guy?

00:34:30.000 You're still good, though.

00:34:30.000 I'm good.

00:34:31.000 Oh, you can hear me?

00:34:32.000 Oh, okay.

00:34:35.000 All right.

00:34:35.000 Last but not least.

00:34:37.000 Hey, my name is Yuni.

00:34:39.000 I'm 35.

00:34:41.000 You said Julie?

00:34:42.000 Yuni?

00:34:42.000 Yuni.

00:34:43.000 Y-U-N-I. 1.00

00:34:44.000 Okay.

00:34:44.000 We're 35?

00:34:45.000 Yeah, I'm 35.

00:34:47.000 Yes.

00:34:48.000 Okay.

00:34:50.000 What's your background?

00:34:51.000 Cuban.

00:34:53.000 Okay.

00:34:55.000 And then dating status?

00:34:57.000 I am in a committed relationship.

00:35:00.000 How'd you guys meet?

00:35:00.000 Nice.

00:35:02.000 We met in Wynwood, actually.

00:35:03.000 Doing what, though?

00:35:04.000 Partying?

00:35:06.000 I was out just walking around.

00:35:09.000 I walked into a smoke shop and we met that way.

00:35:14.000 Yeah.

00:35:14.000 Okay.

00:35:15.000 So you smoke?

00:35:16.000 I vape.

00:35:17.000 Oh, you vape? 0.92

00:35:18.000 I went to get a vape and then he just so happened to be there.

00:35:21.000 Wait, wait.

00:35:22.000 What did he say to you?

00:35:23.000 Just like, hey, so it was like a very natural interaction.

00:35:26.000 He just said hi to me.

00:35:28.000 I looked at him.

00:35:29.000 I was like, hey.

00:35:30.000 And then we just started a conversation from there.

00:35:32.000 I'm happy for you.

00:35:33.000 That's great.

00:35:34.000 Wait, but for how long you've been in my hand, though?

00:35:34.000 That's a true story.

00:35:36.000 Almost a year.

00:35:37.000 Okay.

00:35:39.000 Is he Cuban, black?

00:35:40.000 He is black. 0.99

00:35:41.000 I know he's black, bro. 1.00

00:35:43.000 I know he's black, bro. 0.99

00:35:44.000 I know he's black, man. 1.00

00:35:45.000 You're black niggas, bro. 1.00

00:35:47.000 Shit up, bro. 1.00

00:35:48.000 Hold on. 1.00

00:35:49.000 I know you're black, bro. 0.95

00:35:50.000 I like my things. 1.00

00:35:51.000 Big and curse.

00:35:54.000 Don't holidays. 1.00

00:35:55.000 He'd be warm as fuck. 1.00

00:35:57.000 He's like a little heater. 1.00

00:35:59.000 Wait, I mean.

00:36:00.000 Is he big?

00:36:03.000 Yes.

00:36:04.000 Okay.

00:36:05.000 Wait, like his body, like, he's just like a warm heater.

00:36:08.000 You know what I like?

00:36:09.000 When someone's confident in their own skin and they match your energy.

00:36:13.000 Absolutely.

00:36:13.000 You know what?

00:36:14.000 What's your favorite sex potential?

00:36:17.000 You're saying Chris?

00:36:17.000 What?

00:36:19.000 It's my favorite.

00:36:20.000 I don't know. 0.75

00:36:20.000 Yeah, sex. 0.75

00:36:21.000 Missionary, is it doggy style? 0.99

00:36:22.000 With him?

00:36:23.000 Yeah, because you know, if all of them.

00:36:25.000 If y'all big, you know what I'm saying?

00:36:26.000 I'm saying, like, how does that work?

00:36:28.000 It, so he's actually a very fit man.

00:36:32.000 And then I'm, of course, like a thicker girl.

00:36:35.000 Okay.

00:36:36.000 So, but I like all positions with him to be.

00:36:39.000 Wait, is he Jamaican?

00:36:40.000 He is not Jamaican.

00:36:42.000 He's African American.

00:36:43.000 Okay.

00:36:44.000 Yeah. 0.90

00:36:45.000 You know, usually Jamaicans are Africans to muscle. 1.00

00:36:47.000 You're not curvy.

00:36:47.000 Right.

00:36:48.000 I mean, I like Kirby too, but you know, as you get older, I mean, right, right, right.

00:36:53.000 It's fine.

00:36:54.000 Okay.

00:36:55.000 Highest education level completed?

00:36:57.000 Highest education level completed is high school.

00:37:00.000 Okay.

00:37:01.000 What do you do for it?

00:37:02.000 I am a publicist.

00:37:04.000 Oh, yo, we need to get a lot of fun. 1.00

00:37:05.000 Oh, shit. 0.99

00:37:06.000 Yo, yo, we need one of those like today. 1.00

00:37:09.000 I am a publicist and an artist manager.

00:37:11.000 What?

00:37:12.000 Music.

00:37:13.000 Who do you manage?

00:37:14.000 I manage Tiali.

00:37:16.000 She's an upcoming artist from Miami, Florida.

00:37:16.000 Who is that?

00:37:19.000 Is she black? 1.00

00:37:20.000 Good stuff. 0.97

00:37:20.000 She is black. 0.97

00:37:21.000 Okay. 0.72

00:37:23.000 I'm trying to get a cheese on. 0.91

00:37:24.000 She likes black people. 0.83

00:37:26.000 I love black people.

00:37:28.000 Yeah, we can tell.

00:37:30.000 Parents together or no?

00:37:31.000 My parents are not together.

00:37:33.000 Okay.

00:37:34.000 Birth control?

00:37:35.000 No birth control.

00:37:37.000 Okay.

00:37:38.000 Any kids?

00:37:39.000 Yes.

00:37:40.000 How many kids?

00:37:40.000 One.

00:37:42.000 Who's the father?

00:37:43.000 The father is not involved, unfortunately. 0.83

00:37:46.000 Is he black? 0.84

00:37:47.000 He is.

00:37:47.000 Yeah, I'll figure it out.

00:37:49.000 Oh, my God.

00:37:50.000 I mean, she's a pretty bomb. 1.00

00:37:52.000 She pronounced stereotypes at all.

00:37:54.000 Niggas not a page. 1.00

00:37:55.000 He's black. 0.99

00:37:56.000 You know, she likes black guys. 0.87

00:37:58.000 You know, I mean, like, my dad's not involved in my life.

00:38:01.000 I think he's like, unfortunately. 0.90

00:38:01.000 He's black. 0.90

00:38:03.000 That's a good mix, though.

00:38:04.000 Keep it up.

00:38:04.000 No, no, it's a good mix.

00:38:05.000 It's a good mix.

00:38:06.000 And he's actually Jamaican.

00:38:07.000 So, Cuban, Jamaican.

00:38:09.000 Oh, that's an amazing mix.

00:38:10.000 Oh, wow.

00:38:11.000 Boom, book, wow.

00:38:14.000 And then, um, Chris, take it away.

00:38:16.000 Oh, your body count.

00:38:18.000 My body count is I am negative with all SCDs.

00:38:23.000 Thank God.

00:38:24.000 That's good.

00:38:25.000 Yep.

00:38:25.000 Okay.

00:38:26.000 Okay.

00:38:27.000 Negative.

00:38:28.000 So what is it?

00:38:29.000 You know what?

00:38:30.000 You know what?

00:38:31.000 You actually have a man, so I ain't trying to ruin it online for you.

00:38:33.000 So I want you to get engaged one day.

00:38:35.000 Thank you, you know.

00:38:36.000 So I don't want to butcher business out there, but you hesitating, so I know it's a lot.

00:38:40.000 It's also okay.

00:38:41.000 It's more than 10.

00:38:42.000 It's more than 10.

00:38:43.000 That's okay.

00:38:43.000 I mean, I try to give you out here.

00:38:44.000 You ain't still said that anyway.

00:38:45.000 So it's fine.

00:38:46.000 It's fine.

00:38:48.000 All right.

00:38:50.000 All right.

00:38:50.000 So we're almost done with the headphones here, right?

00:38:53.000 Well, this man, do we want to?

00:38:55.000 Guys, I can't hear anything with this.

00:38:56.000 These hells right now.

00:38:57.000 But nonetheless, we're going to do the first question.

00:39:01.000 Oh, sorry, on the side.

00:39:03.000 Do we have any chats to read?

00:39:04.000 No.

00:39:05.000 Oh, we don't.

00:39:05.000 We got to.

00:39:07.000 Gases.

00:39:07.000 Okay.

00:39:08.000 Question for the bitches. 1.00

00:39:11.000 Describe the average guy and why you deserve better. 1.00

00:39:14.000 Bruh, if you're so black, you sweat crude oil. 1.00

00:39:16.000 Trump is going to be coming for you, nigga. 1.00

00:39:17.000 Be careful. 0.99

00:39:18.000 Oh, you're funny, bro.

00:39:19.000 Yo, that's funny.

00:39:20.000 You know what?

00:39:21.000 I love Garros.

00:39:23.000 Shout out to you guys.

00:39:24.000 He's a man at Network.

00:39:25.000 Shout out to him. 0.99

00:39:27.000 Question for the bitches. 1.00

00:39:28.000 Describe the average guy and what you deserve better. 0.99

00:39:30.000 We'll start.

00:39:30.000 Okay.

00:39:31.000 Over there.

00:39:32.000 Average guy, and obviously, average guy and why you deserve better.

00:39:32.000 Here.

00:39:37.000 The average man, I feel like deals with a lot of internal battles, and it's not necessarily their fault.

00:39:47.000 I mean, men, since they're children, they're told to not feel, you know, like feelings are not common.

00:39:53.000 Feelings are gay, this, that, and the other, which I don't think is fair for young boys, young men, men in general. 1.00

00:40:01.000 So I think the average man comes with, you know, his own internal battles that as a woman, you should be supportive of.

00:40:08.000 Let's put it in terms of tangibles.

00:40:10.000 Like, for example, high income.

00:40:13.000 Oh, high-income.

00:40:14.000 Okay, so height six feet and above.

00:40:18.000 Average man.

00:40:19.000 Oh, average.

00:40:20.000 Oh.

00:40:20.000 Average?

00:40:22.000 5'8, 5'9, 5'8 ⁇ , 5'9.

00:40:22.000 Like 5'8?

00:40:25.000 That's good.

00:40:26.000 Okay.

00:40:27.000 Why we deserve better?

00:40:28.000 No, no, so how much money he makes per year?

00:40:30.000 The average guy.

00:40:31.000 How much money he makes per year?

00:40:33.000 At least 90K per year.

00:40:35.000 Yeah, average guy.

00:40:36.000 Okay.

00:40:37.000 90K per year would be a good average.

00:40:40.000 And why you deserve better?

00:40:42.000 Like, we women deserve better? 1.00

00:40:43.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:40:46.000 Well, I would say that all men and women deserve the best.

00:40:49.000 No, but do you want better or are you okay with the average guy?

00:40:53.000 I'm okay with the average guy because it all depends on his character, to be honest.

00:40:58.000 Like, is he treating me correctly?

00:41:00.000 Is he treating the people he loves correctly?

00:41:02.000 So on and so forth.

00:41:03.000 Like, I think that's what's most important.

00:41:05.000 Question, is your man average?

00:41:07.000 You could be honest.

00:41:09.000 I would say he's average above average kind of realm.

00:41:12.000 Is he paying a rent for you?

00:41:14.000 Do you two live together?

00:41:15.000 Okay.

00:41:15.000 Yes.

00:41:16.000 He's taking care of his responsibilities.

00:41:16.000 Is he paying rent for you?

00:41:18.000 So he's 5'8, 90k a year.

00:41:20.000 He's 6 feet.

00:41:21.000 My man is 6 feet.

00:41:23.000 But the average man is about 5'8, 5'9.

00:41:28.000 I do think it's important for average or not average to just be a good charactered man, you know?

00:41:35.000 Now, what does that entail?

00:41:37.000 How does he treat his mother?

00:41:39.000 How does he treat his family?

00:41:40.000 How does he treat, you know, if he has children?

00:41:43.000 How does he treat them?

00:41:44.000 So on and so forth.

00:41:45.000 So was your baby daddy an average man?

00:41:49.000 He was a below average man, I would say.

00:41:51.000 Why is that?

00:41:53.000 At the time we met.

00:41:56.000 How tall is he?

00:41:57.000 He's about 5'8, 5'9.

00:42:00.000 Okay.

00:42:01.000 How much year he made roughly?

00:42:04.000 During the time we met, he was in college still.

00:42:07.000 Okay, so he was playing football.

00:42:09.000 So did you think dating him, you could have done better at the time?

00:42:12.000 Absolutely.

00:42:13.000 That's fine.

00:42:13.000 Absolutely.

00:42:14.000 All right.

00:42:15.000 What about you?

00:42:16.000 Average man, and why do you think women deserve better? 1.00

00:42:18.000 I mean, I don't think necessarily that there's something wrong with the average man.

00:42:22.000 I feel like, honestly, it's more about character and who he is as a person.

00:42:27.000 I don't think that looks and height should be that big of a deal.

00:42:30.000 If that's a deal breaker for you, I don't think you're grown enough.

00:42:32.000 Like, I feel like that's something that kids do when they're in middle school.

00:42:35.000 Okay, what's the lowest height you would date?

00:42:38.000 What's your height?

00:42:38.000 My height.

00:42:39.000 I'm like 5'5, 5'6.

00:42:41.000 What he's 5'3?

00:42:42.000 If he's a good person, then yeah.

00:42:43.000 No, he won't.

00:42:44.000 I won't.

00:42:45.000 5'3 guy?

00:42:47.000 I've dated a guy that's like 5'4 shorter than me.

00:42:49.000 For how long?

00:42:49.000 Dated?

00:42:50.000 Like talk to, not dated.

00:42:51.000 For how long, though?

00:42:52.000 Like a couple months. 1.00

00:42:53.000 But you fucked him? 1.00

00:42:54.000 No. 1.00

00:42:55.000 Okay. 1.00

00:42:56.000 I don't fuck anyone. 1.00

00:42:58.000 Oh, you fucked two guys already. 1.00

00:42:59.000 And now you suck their family. 1.00

00:43:00.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:43:01.000 No, I was a virgin until I met my ex-boyfriend.

00:43:04.000 Yeah, but the guy you dated, you wasn't a virgin then, right?

00:43:06.000 I was a virgin.

00:43:07.000 You was a virgin then?

00:43:08.000 Yes, I was.

00:43:09.000 Okay, I mean, all right.

00:43:10.000 I get what you do.

00:43:11.000 It has nothing to do with that. 0.99

00:43:12.000 But if he was taller, you probably would have sucked the person. 0.99

00:43:14.000 No. 1.00

00:43:16.000 Okay, so the first guy you fucked, how tall was he? 0.99

00:43:20.000 He was like six feet tall. 0.99

00:43:22.000 Exactly.

00:43:23.000 But he was my boyfriend.

00:43:24.000 Because he was six feet tall.

00:43:26.000 No, it was because he treated me with respect and dignity.

00:43:29.000 And he would give him a chance more than the other guys.

00:43:33.000 I mean, he wasn't my typical type, and he wasn't like the guy that I would go for.

00:43:37.000 It was more because of his personality.

00:43:39.000 your type though?

00:43:40.000 I feel like...

00:43:41.000 Merch.

00:43:42.000 Come on, Ashley. 1.00

00:43:43.000 What's your type, man?

00:43:44.000 Attraction-wise, I just wasn't attracted to him, but like my type just varies.

00:43:47.000 If you're hot, you're hot.

00:43:48.000 Like, that's how I think about it.

00:43:49.000 If you're attractive, you're attractive.

00:43:50.000 And being hot is...

00:43:51.000 Hold on.

00:43:52.000 Give me an actual type.

00:43:54.000 If he was walking in the room right now, you'd be like, you know what?

00:43:56.000 This is a guy I like.

00:43:57.000 He's a Cuban.

00:43:58.000 Is he black?

00:43:58.000 Is he tall?

00:43:59.000 Colombian.

00:44:00.000 Okay, Colombian.

00:44:00.000 I love Colombian men for some reason, I fear.

00:44:03.000 And probably like wavy, curly, dark hair, and a little tan.

00:44:07.000 How tall?

00:44:08.000 I don't really care, like, 5'9, 5'10.

00:44:11.000 Okay.

00:44:13.000 Like his height.

00:44:14.000 Does money matter to you or no?

00:44:15.000 Not really.

00:44:16.000 As long as he's able to succeed in life and create and achieve his goals, then I think that's the most important part of people who grind.

00:44:22.000 Yeah, when you get older, that's going to change.

00:44:23.000 But okay.

00:44:24.000 Yeah.

00:44:25.000 What about you, Miss Nessa? 0.73

00:44:27.000 I prefer a black king at this point. 0.95

00:44:31.000 Okay. 0.52

00:44:32.000 Only because only because they actually could value me. 0.99

00:44:37.000 But I'm open to dating any type shit. 1.00

00:44:41.000 Type shit. 1.00

00:44:43.000 And then define the average man for you. 1.00

00:44:46.000 Average man is a man who respects me as a woman.

00:44:50.000 Height, income, looks.

00:44:52.000 Height.

00:44:53.000 I'm 5'7, but on heels, I'm 5' It's really your confidence.

00:44:58.000 It's about man confidence because I've dated short people and I don't care.

00:45:03.000 Where are they now?

00:45:04.000 They're gone.

00:45:05.000 He doesn't respect me, so he gotta go.

00:45:08.000 You feel me? 1.00

00:45:08.000 Like, he's more of a bitch than me. 1.00

00:45:10.000 I don't like that. 1.00

00:45:10.000 You feel me? 1.00

00:45:11.000 Like, that was the shit. 1.00

00:45:12.000 Wait, but how is your bitch, though? 1.00

00:45:14.000 Because, like, he was mad because I lost a pair of his cartiers. 0.99

00:45:18.000 Oh, so you have money.

00:45:19.000 I mean, I'm probably mad too.

00:45:21.000 He fake had money.

00:45:22.000 No, no, no, no.

00:45:22.000 His levels.

00:45:23.000 It was passed down for him.

00:45:24.000 So was it really money?

00:45:26.000 And then I lost those, right?

00:45:28.000 And then he got a new pair and it was fake.

00:45:30.000 And I accidentally lost those.

00:45:32.000 And he kept mentioning it.

00:45:34.000 I'm like, I'll get you some new ones for Christmas. 1.00

00:45:36.000 He like, fuck that. 1.00

00:45:37.000 He's mad about his. 1.00

00:45:38.000 Because he felt like, you feel me?

00:45:40.000 But I feel like I'm non-materialistic.

00:45:41.000 So why you worry about some cards?

00:45:43.000 Well, I mean, it's a principle that he gave you his glasses, his shades, and someone gave it to him, apparently.

00:45:49.000 And he has, he uses them.

00:45:51.000 No, for sure.

00:45:51.000 Well, he lost them.

00:45:52.000 But what if you gave your man some hair and he lost it?

00:45:56.000 No, listen.

00:45:57.000 I'm non-materialistic.

00:45:58.000 So therefore, okay, I'm mad for a day.

00:46:00.000 But when you proceed to carry it on longer than two weeks, it's like, do you want me to just like, what do you need from me now?

00:46:09.000 Oh, he was dragging it.

00:46:10.000 He was dragging it.

00:46:11.000 And you still want to deal with me.

00:46:12.000 Oh, see, you wanted short kings, so there you go. 1.00

00:46:14.000 Type shit. 1.00

00:46:16.000 I'm kidding, by the way. 1.00

00:46:17.000 What about you?

00:46:17.000 Short views.

00:46:18.000 Average guy?

00:46:19.000 And then what's your type?

00:46:20.000 Honestly, to me, since I'm a college student, my average guy would be literally the average college student.

00:46:26.000 But they don't make money.

00:46:28.000 They don't work.

00:46:29.000 I don't really feel much to the money aspect since I'm going into engineering.

00:46:34.000 I'll make my own money.

00:46:35.000 It doesn't really matter what he makes.

00:46:37.000 Honestly, it's just if he bothers me, then he's got to go.

00:46:41.000 What does bother you mean?

00:46:43.000 It's like invading my space, overstepping my boundaries, not letting me do the things that I need to maintain myself as a person.

00:46:51.000 Because I'm also somebody who needs to stay on my own routine to be able to maintain myself, of course.

00:46:58.000 And I have a lot of responsibilities.

00:47:00.000 If a man comes into my life and then he ends up, you know, being like, hey, babe, can we do this?

00:47:05.000 Can we do that?

00:47:06.000 And then I end up going away from my responsibilities so I can go and serve him.

00:47:11.000 But honestly, I have my own things to take care of.

00:47:14.000 So for me.

00:47:15.000 So you want to put yourself first and him last?

00:47:17.000 Yeah, honestly.

00:47:19.000 Not last.

00:47:20.000 So go ahead.

00:47:20.000 Wait, wait, wait.

00:47:22.000 You have a lot of responsibilities, right?

00:47:24.000 Yeah.

00:47:25.000 Thanks all your hobbies, whatever.

00:47:26.000 You're 19, no job.

00:47:28.000 Do you live with your parents?

00:47:30.000 By yourself?

00:47:30.000 No, no.

00:47:32.000 Or roommate?

00:47:34.000 Alright, so what do you do day per day?

00:47:37.000 Like a daily responsibility?

00:47:39.000 Day per day, I like just recently got fired like this week.

00:47:43.000 But day per day, I work, I go to class, I come home, I do my homework, I sit with my two friends that live with me.

00:47:43.000 Okay.

00:47:51.000 Okay.

00:47:51.000 And I talk with them and we go to sleep.

00:47:53.000 That's it?

00:47:54.000 Yeah.

00:47:55.000 So you're getting busy?

00:47:56.000 Yeah, actually.

00:47:56.000 It's a very peaceful life.

00:47:58.000 I found a lot of peace with it, actually.

00:48:00.000 Okay, so you want to be bothered?

00:48:01.000 I mean, like, to yourself, then?

00:48:03.000 Yeah.

00:48:04.000 All right.

00:48:04.000 Okay.

00:48:06.000 So Charlie Gas for the super chat, man.

00:48:06.000 All right.

00:48:09.000 Listen, average guy is around 5'7, making 40, 50K max, not 90k.

00:48:16.000 Per year, yeah, per year.

00:48:17.000 Now, mind you, with AI coming, how it is right now, it might even be less.

00:48:22.000 And I argue, and I wager because of AI coming, we're gonna have four people living together that they want to be together more so than ever before.

00:48:30.000 So it's gonna be insane.

00:48:31.000 All right, what's the next one?

00:48:32.000 No, shout out to AI, man.

00:48:34.000 Shout out to AI. 1.00

00:48:35.000 That shit's crazy. 1.00

00:48:35.000 Fuck AI, bro. 1.00

00:48:37.000 Eastside Dumbbell says, Y'all, yo, bro, I'm on YouTube, bro. 1.00

00:48:42.000 What's up with y'all niggas, man? 1.00

00:48:44.000 We're on YouTube still.

00:48:46.000 You know what?

00:48:46.000 Okay, okay.

00:48:48.000 Okay, I'm gonna say the word, but I don't mean what they mean, okay?

00:48:51.000 I'm just gonna say what I think they mean.

00:48:53.000 All right, dunk truck next to Fresh probably only masters the Walrus Tussle position. 0.51

00:49:01.000 Also, let's get an Adam's apple check for the panel.

00:49:05.000 You want to respond to him?

00:49:08.000 I'm not doing too much, but I'm gonna see Adam's apples.

00:49:13.000 She's straight.

00:49:14.000 She's straight.

00:49:17.000 She's engineered.

00:49:19.000 She's great.

00:49:19.000 Okay, so guys, no Adam Bapples.

00:49:21.000 I think we're good.

00:49:23.000 Call me this kid.

00:49:24.000 Yeah.

00:49:24.000 All right.

00:49:24.000 Just a walrus.

00:49:25.000 Nikki Monroe says, Chris looking fine next to the red-haired girl.

00:49:29.000 Okay, Chris, you got the admirer.

00:49:30.000 Shout out to Nikki. 1.00

00:49:32.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:49:34.000 Hey, yo. 1.00

00:49:35.000 We need the soundbite.

00:49:39.000 My son is off.

00:49:40.000 Yo, yo, how much you weigh?

00:49:42.000 Me?

00:49:42.000 Yeah.

00:49:43.000 $250.

00:49:44.000 Oh, they said $400.

00:49:45.000 Y'all niggas off, bro. 1.00

00:49:46.000 Don't ever be real.

00:49:47.000 Y'all niggas are. 1.00

00:49:48.000 Yo, these niggas are funny, bro. 1.00

00:49:51.000 Okay, okay.

00:49:52.000 We got Dark Shadow 65 says, I'm 5'5, making 60k from 34K salary in shape.

00:49:57.000 I'm Mexican. 0.79

00:49:58.000 I don't need anything, these women, an average college student for that girl is a black dude. 1.00

00:50:03.000 I don't need anything. 0.99

00:50:04.000 These women, I think, from these women, an average college student for that black girl is a black dude. 1.00

00:50:10.000 Which girl, bro? 0.84

00:50:11.000 Her?

00:50:12.000 Yeah.

00:50:12.000 Wait, what?

00:50:16.000 Her, normal.

00:50:17.000 You need to eat it all together.

00:50:18.000 That's what I'm saying.

00:50:18.000 Chris Grandma has a little thing spelled.

00:50:20.000 Yeah.

00:50:20.000 All right.

00:50:21.000 What's next one?

00:50:22.000 Cool, awesome.

00:50:23.000 All right.

00:50:24.000 So, ladies, real quick. 1.00

00:50:25.000 So, I mentioned before AI, right?

00:50:26.000 What's happening with people living together?

00:50:28.000 Jobs are being lost.

00:50:30.000 Times are harder.

00:50:31.000 Now, mind you, at the same time, I get living together is an issue because people get upset.

00:50:36.000 You know, they want to be together sometimes.

00:50:38.000 But does living together reinforce or challenge traditional gender roles?

00:50:42.000 So, for example, is it really good to live together, men and women?

00:50:46.000 We'll start here.

00:50:47.000 I would say that it is very important for a man and a woman to live together, to get to know each other, get to know what they like or don't like about each other.

00:50:57.000 It is a more traditional perspective, but I think it is a very important perspective, especially before you choose to marry.

00:51:06.000 And it is a way to bond more, even though it's important for men and women to have their own space as well.

00:51:14.000 Question: Before marriage or after marriage?

00:51:16.000 I would say beef.

00:51:17.000 So, if it's very traditional, it would be after marriage.

00:51:20.000 But if you're not as traditional, then I would say do it before marriage.

00:51:24.000 You live with your man right now?

00:51:26.000 I do.

00:51:27.000 And your kid?

00:51:28.000 Yes.

00:51:30.000 Okay.

00:51:31.000 We'll come back to you.

00:51:32.000 Wait, so Fresh, should I split rent or how does that work?

00:51:36.000 We'll come back to that.

00:51:37.000 Okay.

00:51:38.000 Should men and women live together? 1.00

00:51:40.000 Men and women should live together, especially when they're dating.

00:51:43.000 I think it's a very important part of the relationship.

00:51:45.000 You can't get married if you know if you can't live with somebody 24-7 because marriage, you're going to sleep next to the same person every day.

00:51:51.000 So I feel like it's something that you need to test run, and that's a really important part of a relationship, obviously, when you get to that aspect of your relationship.

00:51:57.000 So you're saying you need to test your car first before you buy the car?

00:52:01.000 Yeah, you can't.

00:52:02.000 You can't fully drive.

00:52:04.000 You can't fully marry someone if you don't even know what it's like to live with them or to be with them constantly.

00:52:09.000 Some people are messy.

00:52:09.000 Maybe you don't like someone who's messy and maybe they're not willing to compromise on that.

00:52:12.000 So it's a little easier to go.

00:52:14.000 Me?

00:52:15.000 Not really.

00:52:15.000 Yeah.

00:52:16.000 I just, I like my things clean and organized, but I'll clean.

00:52:19.000 You like your Columbians.

00:52:20.000 Okay, gotcha.

00:52:21.000 What about you?

00:52:22.000 I don't think so.

00:52:23.000 Why?

00:52:24.000 I don't even say that because I feel like traditional wise, marriage-wise, it happens after marriage.

00:52:31.000 You know, I feel like you, 2026-wise, when you really love somebody, you jump into it.

00:52:37.000 So y'all be together all the time.

00:52:38.000 You don't know if y'all nigga miss me off a week being with him. 0.69

00:52:41.000 And then like you're a woman, so you'll clean it up. 1.00

00:52:44.000 And you feel me?

00:52:45.000 So when I marry my man, I know my man do or not.

00:52:49.000 And even if he is messy, that's my man.

00:52:50.000 I'm going to fix it and he's going to learn how to, he's going to adapt to me because I'm a woman.

00:52:54.000 You know what I mean?

00:52:54.000 Like certain things.

00:52:55.000 Men are only messy when they don't have someone to after them because they have so much going on. 1.00

00:53:01.000 You feel me?

00:53:01.000 Right.

00:53:02.000 And busy man.

00:53:03.000 You feel me?

00:53:04.000 And I'm a busy woman.

00:53:06.000 So I clean up as I go because I do have OCD.

00:53:09.000 So you're saying better to do it after marriage.

00:53:11.000 I wouldn't even say after.

00:53:12.000 I just feel like naturally, when you attract to somebody, y'all be together all the time.

00:53:15.000 Okay.

00:53:15.000 So it's not really after you just see it when it goes along.

00:53:19.000 And I feel like if you know yourself, you're going to want your own space in general.

00:53:19.000 Yeah.

00:53:23.000 But yeah.

00:53:25.000 What about you?

00:53:26.000 I kind of agree with her.

00:53:28.000 Honestly, it depends on the type of person that you are.

00:53:30.000 If you feel like you genuinely can spend time with this person and their mannerisms and actions aren't proving to you something that would be bothersome in your own life or wouldn't take away from your life, honestly, go ahead and live with them.

00:53:44.000 Go ahead and get the help that you need from somebody else living with you in your life.

00:53:49.000 But I have never personally been in any experience where I have lived with somebody and I have felt that they are, you know, adding anything into my life or even I feel like they take you live with your parents or you live on campus.

00:54:03.000 No, I live right off campus on my own apartment.

00:54:07.000 Okay.

00:54:08.000 So Chris, let me ask you this.

00:54:09.000 So I lived with a girl before.

00:54:11.000 I'm sure you have as well.

00:54:13.000 And I think for most men, I can say this for a fact, it's annoying.

00:54:18.000 Like you have to put up with a lot of stuff.

00:54:20.000 I'm sure she does too as well.

00:54:21.000 But it's kind of like you have an anchor that's nagging you sometimes. 1.00

00:54:25.000 It's like, you just want to work, you know, fuck a bitch here and there. 1.00

00:54:29.000 Come back home and just chill. 1.00

00:54:31.000 And she's like, nagging.

00:54:32.000 But Chris, let me ask this question.

00:54:34.000 You're how old again?

00:54:35.000 37.

00:54:36.000 37.

00:54:37.000 If you could choose not to live with a girl or be single and live by yourself, what would you choose?

00:54:41.000 I'll be by myself.

00:54:42.000 Like having a girl living with you is really no benefits. 0.99

00:54:45.000 Like the only benefit you have is like sex on band, barely, if a girl feels like it. 0.95

00:54:50.000 But you know, other than that, they nag. 1.00

00:54:53.000 They're just sick.

00:54:53.000 They eat all the food.

00:54:55.000 You know, they don't want their hair done. 0.98

00:54:57.000 Then there's done.

00:54:59.000 And it's like, okay, if they're paying for you, that's cool. 0.93

00:55:01.000 But personally, it's like, and then they get more and more bitchy the more you live with them because they just find things to bitch about. 1.00

00:55:06.000 Because men are very simple.

00:55:08.000 Also, I'm sure guys in the chat know as well.

00:55:10.000 Like, you ever had an experience where you live with a chick and you're like, you know what? 0.99

00:55:13.000 Why did I do this?

00:55:14.000 Now let me ask this question to you guys as well.

00:55:17.000 From your point standpoint, living with a guy, who's paying the bills and what's the role split for you?

00:55:25.000 And we'll start here.

00:55:27.000 Is your man paying the bills?

00:55:28.000 Are you splitting the bills?

00:55:29.000 And then what are the roles for your man and roles for you?

00:55:33.000 I mean, I'll be honest, all the times that I was living with a man, it was honestly him just living off me.

00:55:38.000 I was the one who was.

00:55:39.000 Wait, wait, hold on, hold on, wait, hold on.

00:55:41.000 You should have used that name.

00:55:41.000 Hold on, Chris.

00:55:44.000 You live with a man. 0.92

00:55:45.000 No, but I did live with one for two weeks just recently.

00:55:49.000 And I just literally lived with a billionaire.

00:55:54.000 You just got to us.

00:55:55.000 You never lived with a man.

00:55:56.000 You don't never have experience.

00:55:57.000 What are you talking about?

00:55:58.000 No, no.

00:55:58.000 There's levels to it.

00:55:59.000 It's levels to a man. 0.71

00:56:00.000 I mean, two weeks isn't a real experience.

00:56:02.000 Exactly.

00:56:03.000 No, but I also have lived with somebody else.

00:56:04.000 Yo, yo, Chris, she's a little freak, bro. 1.00

00:56:06.000 Chris, she's a little freak, bro. 0.98

00:56:07.000 I know she's a little frick. 0.99

00:56:08.000 I know she's a little frickin' bird right here, man. 0.97

00:56:11.000 Where? 0.81

00:56:11.000 Like, her leg tattoos? 0.81

00:56:13.000 It's like Satan Marks.

00:56:14.000 Oh, she's a nice New Delhi Lawyer.

00:56:16.000 New Delhi, bro.

00:56:18.000 No, Satan.

00:56:18.000 I'm not actually Indian, y'all.

00:56:20.000 Misgendering.

00:56:22.000 Okay, so question, question.

00:56:23.000 What was it like living with that person?

00:56:25.000 And then for you, what were the roles?

00:56:29.000 Honestly, I was always the one cooking.

00:56:31.000 I was always the one cleaning after him.

00:56:33.000 He would make a mess everywhere and he would just leave stuff everywhere.

00:56:37.000 And I would always clean after him.

00:56:38.000 And honestly, I never said anything about it.

00:56:41.000 I never said anything about it until I kicked him out.

00:56:43.000 I was like, okay.

00:56:44.000 Guys, no headphones for right now because I think it's a little bit jammed up.

00:56:48.000 The headphones off.

00:56:49.000 We have to go.

00:56:50.000 So, okay, so you paid the bills.

00:56:52.000 Yeah, I paid the bills.

00:56:53.000 He made a mess.

00:56:54.000 He made the mess and I was cleaning after.

00:56:56.000 So then, what did he do for you then?

00:56:58.000 He was barely doing anything for me.

00:57:00.000 That's why he got kicked out. 0.99

00:57:01.000 Was it the dick? 0.99

00:57:03.000 I mean, honestly, the dick was good, but that doesn't constitute anything. 1.00

00:57:07.000 So, two weeks ago. 0.99

00:57:10.000 You can transform your life.

00:57:12.000 He got kicked out in two weeks.

00:57:14.000 But hold on, hold on, hold on.

00:57:15.000 You got to maintain, though.

00:57:16.000 You can't be messy. 1.00

00:57:16.000 You can't do a dumb shit. 1.00

00:57:18.000 You can't play Xbox. 1.00

00:57:19.000 You got to get the dick service and make sure she's happy. 1.00

00:57:22.000 Okay, so good theme, man, goes a long way. 0.98

00:57:24.000 All right.

00:57:25.000 What about you?

00:57:26.000 I mean, but for her, though, it's only two weeks, so.

00:57:28.000 Yeah, but the point is...

00:57:29.000 I lived with a man for six months, and he was bad.

00:57:32.000 Six months?

00:57:33.000 Yeah, I live with someone.

00:57:34.000 You just said earlier you didn't live with no man.

00:57:36.000 It was two different men.

00:57:37.000 It's like onions fresh.

00:57:38.000 The more you pull up layers, you get more and more.

00:57:41.000 Okay, what about you?

00:57:43.000 I grew up with my dad. 0.98

00:57:45.000 That don't count, nigga. 1.00

00:57:47.000 It gotta be like a boyfriend, like a man. 0.99

00:57:49.000 You gotta finish.

00:57:49.000 Or like a boss.

00:57:50.000 I finished.

00:57:51.000 Okay, sorry, god.

00:57:52.000 I grew up with my dad.

00:57:54.000 When he did too much, I ended up going with a dude 14 to 18.

00:57:59.000 I'm 22.

00:58:01.000 I grew up with bro.

00:58:02.000 We was like best friends, but hell no, you feel me?

00:58:05.000 It took him to actually try to, you feel me, for me to get out.

00:58:08.000 And then I just recently was trying to date someone who's off the rail.

00:58:14.000 So let me pill back a little bit here.

00:58:16.000 So you were 14, you moved out with this guy until 18.

00:58:20.000 And at that point, you didn't smash at all.

00:58:22.000 No, no, we were together.

00:58:24.000 I was in a relationship between 14 and 18.

00:58:26.000 Oh, high school.

00:58:26.000 How old was he?

00:58:28.000 A year older than me.

00:58:28.000 Same age as me.

00:58:30.000 Okay.

00:58:30.000 His mother tended to take me in because my parents, you know what I mean?

00:58:32.000 Personal, personal.

00:58:33.000 Okay, so yeah, gotcha.

00:58:34.000 So it was like a...

00:58:35.000 It was God.

00:58:35.000 It was rough.

00:58:36.000 Okay.

00:58:36.000 Gotcha.

00:58:37.000 And then you left him at 18 to go.

00:58:40.000 Nowhere between my dad, with my dad.

00:58:42.000 But it was too rocky.

00:58:44.000 And now recently, this last week or two, I've tried to date a man and be in his presence.

00:58:49.000 Hold on.

00:58:49.000 Let me stop you right there.

00:58:51.000 I know where this is going.

00:58:53.000 No, Miami fellas, right?

00:58:54.000 Hold on.

00:58:55.000 Hey, Miami, fellas, this is the thing called pressure play.

00:58:59.000 What does this mean?

00:59:01.000 It means a guy has a business, brings a girl in, and if she don't want to, like, I guess, do some favors, he'll send her back.

00:59:11.000 Is that true?

00:59:12.000 I'm telling you.

00:59:12.000 Especially in Miami.

00:59:13.000 You said Miami wanted to.

00:59:15.000 You know, niggas? 1.00

00:59:15.000 Miami, man. 1.00

00:59:16.000 Yeah, come work for me.

00:59:17.000 He said, be my secretary.

00:59:18.000 Yo, but they want to smash.

00:59:20.000 But he wants to smash.

00:59:20.000 All the ones that smash.

00:59:21.000 They're like, yeah, come live with me.

00:59:23.000 Bro, this is why I don't. 0.97

00:59:24.000 Nigga, I don't want a daughter, bro. 1.00

00:59:26.000 I will kill somebody, bro. 1.00

00:59:27.000 Yo, I'm sorry. 1.00

00:59:29.000 Allegedly.

00:59:30.000 Imagine your daughter is being told by a guy, come to Miami, I'll take care of you. 1.00

00:59:34.000 I got you.

00:59:35.000 Come work for me.

00:59:36.000 She pulls up.

00:59:37.000 You know what he wants to do?

00:59:38.000 Just smash, bro. 0.90

00:59:39.000 And then like, all right, I smash. 0.97

00:59:40.000 You're gone.

00:59:41.000 So it happens all the time, bro.

00:59:43.000 Okay, but in your case, what happened?

00:59:44.000 Literally, but he has split personalities.

00:59:51.000 The guy that I've been trying to fake date.

00:59:53.000 Oh.

00:59:54.000 Because I want to be a secret.

00:59:55.000 I'm really a helper.

00:59:56.000 You feel me? 0.99

00:59:57.000 Yo, you helped this dick at all. 0.99

00:59:58.000 Nope. 0.99

00:59:59.000 No, but I never gave him the dad.

01:00:01.000 She for real the secret.

01:00:02.000 That's what she was.

01:00:02.000 So yeah, so that's why he was mad.

01:00:04.000 I gotta drag it out.

01:00:06.000 Okay, okay.

01:00:07.000 So, so, so.

01:00:08.000 But if I would have given the coochie, then what?

01:00:09.000 I still gotta get out.

01:00:11.000 Yeah, you know what I'm saying?

01:00:12.000 Because I wasn't gonna be doing this and it all.

01:00:13.000 That's a question for you.

01:00:14.000 Knowing what you went through now, would you still live with a man? 1.00

01:00:16.000 Fuck no. 1.00

01:00:17.000 I never was, right? 0.99

01:00:19.000 But because I came to Miami to chase my dream and I found someone who a part of my, who sounds like my dream is part of his dream, I'm thinking, hell yeah, I could do this secretary shit I love unconditionally. 1.00

01:00:29.000 Fuck no. 1.00

01:00:31.000 That nigga wanted to get me. 1.00

01:00:32.000 Yeah, of course. 0.91

01:00:33.000 And it's like, it's cool.

01:00:34.000 Ladies, news flash. 1.00

01:00:35.000 If anything says you come to my crib, live with me, he's going to try to smash.

01:00:39.000 Come on.

01:00:40.000 Yeah, yes.

01:00:40.000 It's common sense, man.

01:00:41.000 And that's understandable, but like, you have to still make my coochie wet, though. 1.00

01:00:46.000 You feel me?

01:00:46.000 If you're trying to give me this and that, make the coochie wetter.

01:00:48.000 Hold on.

01:00:49.000 Question for you.

01:00:50.000 If someone flies you out to come see them, what do they expect?

01:00:54.000 Coochie.

01:00:55.000 Okay, so hold on, hold on.

01:00:56.000 Same logic here.

01:00:57.000 If someone invites you to their house to live with them, what do they expect? 0.99

01:01:00.000 Type shit, but like, I understand that. 0.97

01:01:02.000 And that's why I say I dated him because like I wouldn't have minded giving him the coochie when he wanted to because he provided for me as a man and he helped me get into my feminine era. 0.99

01:01:11.000 You feel me?

01:01:12.000 But hold on, hold on.

01:01:13.000 Somebody got it for a day or less.

01:01:16.000 He had to go through all that just to smash.

01:01:18.000 And he's providing for you.

01:01:19.000 That's not really true, though.

01:01:21.000 So I'm just hitting the base.

01:01:22.000 You know what I mean?

01:01:23.000 Okay.

01:01:23.000 Because it's more to it, but I don't got to get into that.

01:01:25.000 Okay.

01:01:26.000 But it's just that the simple fact that even if I was to be everything a man want, he never satisfied.

01:01:31.000 So I got to have my own just in case he flip out on me and tell me to get out off the street because he has his own issues.

01:01:36.000 So that's why I say a man can't live with a woman. 1.00

01:01:38.000 A woman can't live with a man because y'all need y'all's space. 1.00

01:01:41.000 No, we do near our space for sure.

01:01:41.000 Regardless.

01:01:43.000 Everybody need their space. 0.98

01:01:44.000 Also, if you're not smashing, nigga, be gone. 1.00

01:01:46.000 Because it's another bitch that's going to smash off the street with a sill of a dream. 1.00

01:01:51.000 Niggas still dream. 1.00

01:01:52.000 That was bars just though.

01:01:53.000 But niggas still dreams every day in Miami for sure. 1.00

01:01:56.000 But I'm from Milwaukee.

01:01:56.000 Yeah.

01:01:57.000 They do that shit. 1.00

01:01:58.000 This is Dream Capital. 1.00

01:01:59.000 And play with y'all apps.

01:02:02.000 Well, I get what happened to you.

01:02:04.000 It makes a lot of sense.

01:02:05.000 What about you?

01:02:06.000 Can you repeat the question?

01:02:06.000 Because we've been going off topic a lot.

01:02:08.000 Yeah.

01:02:09.000 So again, you ever lived with a guy?

01:02:12.000 And what were the roles you guys played in that situation?

01:02:15.000 So I've never lived with anybody before.

01:02:17.000 So I wouldn't know personally.

01:02:19.000 But in my opinion, if I were to live with someone, I feel like I'm good with going 50-50 on things.

01:02:24.000 Like if he doesn't like cooking, I'll cook.

01:02:26.000 And if I don't want to wash the dishes, if he's willing to do that, then he can wash the dishes.

01:02:31.000 If he doesn't like to do laundry, I'll do the laundry.

01:02:33.000 Like, it's just 50-50.

01:02:34.000 Let me get it straight.

01:02:35.000 You're going to pay half the bills?

01:02:36.000 Hell yeah.

01:02:38.000 I pay my own bills.

01:02:39.000 You get respected more.

01:02:40.000 You got a life on here that's willing to pay the bill.

01:02:42.000 Listen, Shorty.

01:02:42.000 Shorty.

01:02:43.000 I pay my own bills.

01:02:44.000 I promise you, when you get older, that's going to be a thing of the past.

01:02:47.000 So you're telling me you beat a Columbian guy, six foot, in shape, makes good money, you pay half the bills?

01:02:53.000 Because I want to have my own things and I want the lease to be on both of our names and I want to pay half of it because I don't want to be left in the dust just in case he decides to dip on me.

01:02:53.000 Yeah.

01:03:00.000 No, no, you want control.

01:03:01.000 That's what you want.

01:03:02.000 I don't want control.

01:03:03.000 I want respect.

01:03:04.000 I want respect and I want everything to be equal.

01:03:06.000 Bro, a man's to put you in the middle of the money.

01:03:07.000 Hold on, but if a man loves and cares about you, it comes naturally.

01:03:10.000 Well, you got to force it.

01:03:11.000 I'm not forcing it.

01:03:12.000 I'm just stating that I would pay half of the rent because I feel like as I'm also like part of the relationship when we're both living together, I feel like it's necessary.

01:03:19.000 I'm going to comment on that after, but I'm going to let her hair go.

01:03:21.000 Wait, wait, so if he's paying half the rent, will you make all the food or most of the majority of the food?

01:03:26.000 Yeah, I don't mind cooking.

01:03:27.000 If he doesn't like to cook, I'll bake for him and I'll cook.

01:03:29.000 That's my love language.

01:03:30.000 I love like giving.

01:03:31.000 So if I have to give to my partner, like it's for me, it's not like I have to.

01:03:34.000 It's like I want to give it a natural thing.

01:03:36.000 So it comes naturally.

01:03:37.000 I love cooking.

01:03:37.000 Coexist.

01:03:38.000 So if he wants to cook with me, if he doesn't feel like cooking one day because he got off work and he's having a bad day, then like, yeah, for sure.

01:03:43.000 Because the majority of the women, right? 1.00

01:03:43.000 Because you know why? 1.00

01:03:45.000 If they pay 50-50, right? 1.00

01:03:46.000 Then somehow, I don't know what it is with your girls, but you turn into bitches. 1.00

01:03:50.000 You know what I'm saying? 1.00

01:03:52.000 The more you see him sitting down relaxing, why are you relaxing?

01:03:54.000 Let's do something.

01:03:55.000 Let's do this.

01:03:56.000 Wash the dishes.

01:03:57.000 That's so hot.

01:03:58.000 That's why, for the most part, It could be 60-20, 50%.

01:04:02.000 On his part?

01:04:03.000 Or 60% on his part?

01:04:04.000 Like, no, it could be, it's dependent.

01:04:06.000 Like, some days, like, maybe I don't want to do anything and he wants to cook for me.

01:04:09.000 Maybe some days he doesn't want to do anything else to sit on the couch and check.

01:04:12.000 That's where it begins.

01:04:13.000 Where it's like, okay, now you want to be lazy.

01:04:15.000 And it's like, okay, 50-50, what?

01:04:17.000 Because eventually you want a family, right?

01:04:19.000 Yeah.

01:04:19.000 So then, are you still going to pay 50-50 with him if you want kids?

01:04:23.000 Yeah, of course.

01:04:25.000 If he wants me to be a stay-at-home wife and he's able to support me financially, I'm 100% down to a stay-at-home wife.

01:04:30.000 If not, then in this economy, unfortunately, that's really unlikely unless I date a billionaire and I'm not looking for someone with money.

01:04:36.000 I'm just looking for citizenship.

01:04:37.000 Or fresh when she gets older, you know, like her.

01:04:39.000 Yeah, for sure.

01:04:41.000 Here's the issue, right, ladies. 0.55

01:04:42.000 When you do half an hour with a guy, Bob said a family, you're taking away from the family's nurturing and guidance.

01:04:49.000 And as a woman, the kids need that. 1.00

01:04:51.000 So I get you want to be, you know, respectful and have that level of, I guess, equality, but like the family matters more than equality.

01:04:59.000 Okay.

01:04:59.000 Yeah.

01:05:00.000 That's not true.

01:05:01.000 Family is important, but when it gets to that point.

01:05:03.000 You have to have quality to have a family.

01:05:05.000 That's just why people begin to do that.

01:05:06.000 But the roles work for a reason, though, back in the day.

01:05:08.000 Back in the day, it's 256.

01:05:10.000 I ain't back there no more.

01:05:11.000 Whoa, you're still single?

01:05:13.000 You're still single.

01:05:14.000 She's still single.

01:05:16.000 I'm going to be married.

01:05:17.000 That's going to happen for me.

01:05:18.000 My man going to love me.

01:05:19.000 You have a man, right?

01:05:20.000 Yes.

01:05:20.000 And he pays the majority of the bills?

01:05:22.000 Yes.

01:05:23.000 And then let's hear her thoughts on this.

01:05:25.000 Yeah.

01:05:28.000 Pardon me.

01:05:29.000 What is the question in particular?

01:05:30.000 So, once again, you live with your man right now.

01:05:32.000 What are his roles and who's paying half and half or who's paying full?

01:05:32.000 Yes.

01:05:36.000 Okay.

01:05:37.000 So we okay, so he pays the rent.

01:05:42.000 I pay the car.

01:05:44.000 We take turns on the bills that we pay kind of thing.

01:05:47.000 It's not necessarily 50-50.

01:05:49.000 I would say it's more like 80-20.

01:05:52.000 Is it his car or your car?

01:05:53.000 My.

01:05:54.000 It's under my name.

01:05:56.000 But we both use it.

01:05:58.000 He has his own mode of transportation, which is a motorcycle.

01:06:02.000 That's his preference.

01:06:03.000 And I support it because that's like a hobby, a leisure for him.

01:06:08.000 And it's like a way for him to, it's like therapeutics.

01:06:11.000 So I support it.

01:06:13.000 He could die, though. 0.97

01:06:16.000 God forbid.

01:06:19.000 He's very safe about when he rides.

01:06:22.000 He's very safe about when he rides and how he rides and stuff like that.

01:06:25.000 So I do support him because he's very smart about when he rides and stuff like that.

01:06:30.000 Yes.

01:06:32.000 But we are very like fair when it comes to like our bills.

01:06:36.000 Like we help each other out.

01:06:37.000 It's very like teamwork kind of thing.

01:06:40.000 Does he pay for your child as well?

01:06:44.000 So when it comes to like certain necessities like food and stuff like that, it's like a family effort.

01:06:51.000 Like he'll go ahead and pay for us.

01:06:53.000 But when it comes to like schooling and things like that, I take care of that because it's my responsibility as my child's mother.

01:06:59.000 Wow.

01:07:00.000 That's actually pretty good.

01:07:01.000 So he only has to pay for, like, car and, I guess, like...

01:07:01.000 Yeah.

01:07:05.000 Well, I pay for the car, he pays for the rent.

01:07:07.000 Sorry, the rent and then that's pretty much it.

01:07:11.000 Yeah, pretty much.

01:07:12.000 And then, like, if we have outings, roughly about $1,200.

01:07:17.000 And the car is like...

01:07:18.000 That's good.

01:07:19.000 That ain't nothing gonna be.

01:07:20.000 And the car's like.

01:07:20.000 Hi, Aliyah.

01:07:21.000 $1,200.

01:07:22.000 And the car is like $100.

01:07:22.000 The cars between car insurance and car note, it's about $800.

01:07:27.000 It's not too far off.

01:07:28.000 Right.

01:07:28.000 That's actually pretty fair.

01:07:30.000 So, but question.

01:07:30.000 Let's say there's a choice we made in a household.

01:07:33.000 Who gets like the last say?

01:07:34.000 You or him?

01:07:35.000 Him.

01:07:36.000 Okay.

01:07:37.000 You sure about my life?

01:07:38.000 yes see because usually i'm i'm uh pardon me fresh um I'm quite a submissive woman when it comes to the roles that we play.

01:07:49.000 Now, I believe that the man is the head, the woman is the neck. 1.00

01:07:54.000 Depending on the type of household that you're trying to build.

01:07:57.000 But the man is the head, the woman is the neck. 1.00

01:07:59.000 I'm there to support and to encourage, and then he's there to lead.

01:08:04.000 So, like, if there is a moment where I feel like he needs some guidance, that's where the neck comes into support, and I guide, you know, and then we speak about it back and forth, kind of thing.

01:08:18.000 How old's your kid, your son?

01:08:19.000 Uh, he's six.

01:08:20.000 Can he uh discipline your son?

01:08:22.000 Can he say like every son do something bad? 0.99

01:08:24.000 Can he say, hey, little nigga, relax? 1.00

01:08:26.000 He said, He doesn't say it in those words, but yes, yes, he does discipline him because he is a father figure to my son. 0.93

01:08:34.000 Okay, he does discipline him.

01:08:36.000 But is a real father okay with that?

01:08:39.000 Well, unfortunately, as I said previously, the father is not involved at all, so I am the sole parent and I'm able to raise my son as I choose with now his father figure being in his life as well.

01:08:55.000 I'll say this: uh, for a single mom, not with somebody, that that is some good terms.

01:09:00.000 I would say it's pretty favorable for the guy, um, but still, I still argue that like being by yourself is better just because, yes, you do have less responsibility, but as a man at least, survive and thrive, being alone is better.

01:09:16.000 But in your case, I see why it works because at least you make kiddos his free man.

01:09:19.000 That's good.

01:09:20.000 All right, um, we'll come back to the questions here. 0.71

01:09:23.000 Uh, Dark Shadow says, Dealing with the average man, having sex with a famous dude in Miami, are two different things.

01:09:29.000 What's he talking about? 0.86

01:09:30.000 What he said, dealing with the average man, have sex with a famous dude in Miami, are two different things. 0.99

01:09:36.000 Somebody fucking somebody's famous. 0.99

01:09:38.000 I think he's saying, like, either deal with an average man to have sex or deal with a famous thing to have sex. 1.00

01:09:42.000 Or he's saying something in general. 0.64

01:09:43.000 Dealing with an average is probably saying that. 0.57

01:09:46.000 Famous with an average man and having sex with a famous dude in Miami are two different things.

01:09:50.000 When did we mention famous dudes?

01:09:52.000 We haven't mentioned famous dudes.

01:09:54.000 Are you actually so famous?

01:09:55.000 Well, I think because, like, why business is that, like, in Miami, you could just be like living your regular day.

01:10:01.000 I mean, somebody that's famous, or you may get a DM.

01:10:04.000 It's like randomly to yell, like, right, we knew it tonight. 0.99

01:10:07.000 And then you know, at some club or restaurant, and then it's like, oh, shit. 1.00

01:10:10.000 Famous. 0.99

01:10:10.000 And then all of a sudden, it's two different things. 0.99

01:10:13.000 I'd rather roll with a rock star roll with these average niggas. 1.00

01:10:16.000 Only because I'm from Milwaukee.

01:10:17.000 Right.

01:10:18.000 So, so, Miami niggas, hold on. 1.00

01:10:20.000 It's in Milwaukee.

01:10:21.000 Imagine, right?

01:10:21.000 You're new to Miami.

01:10:22.000 Right.

01:10:22.000 There's Swaley.

01:10:23.000 There's Future.

01:10:25.000 There's.

01:10:25.000 well Drake's not coming here there's like oh it's here right I'm like yo Yo, like, pop up with us.

01:10:30.000 Y'all can say no.

01:10:31.000 Right. 1.00

01:10:32.000 So I say better because I literally got picked by sexy rentourage to go type shit. 1.00

01:10:37.000 They picked me. 0.99

01:10:38.000 You can look like a little bit.

01:10:39.000 Exactly.

01:10:40.000 That's why I got picked. 0.99

01:10:41.000 And because I miss my shit being paid. 1.00

01:10:44.000 I go with a regular ass nigga. 1.00

01:10:45.000 They might take me on my money and everything because they broke the whole time. 1.00

01:10:48.000 Right.

01:10:49.000 Waste my time.

01:10:50.000 When I just had a rockstar night and I got money for it.

01:10:53.000 It's like, why?

01:10:53.000 Hold on, hold on.

01:10:54.000 A rockstar night over a rockstar lifestyle.

01:10:56.000 No, rock star night.

01:10:57.000 You're never going to have a rockstar lifestyle unless you make it.

01:11:00.000 A rockstar night over actual good lifetime.

01:11:03.000 Because one night is fine.

01:11:05.000 These regular niggas will treat you like, you know what I mean? 1.00

01:11:10.000 Niggas don't. 1.00

01:11:10.000 Nowadays, niggas don't be who they want to be to you until you proved yourself to them. 1.00

01:11:16.000 Honestly, that's how it is because everybody.

01:11:17.000 But is that a bad thing though?

01:11:18.000 No.

01:11:19.000 No.

01:11:20.000 Because I'm one of them people who has brothers.

01:11:23.000 I grew up with all boys.

01:11:25.000 So I've seen firsthand how women can treat men and it's crazy. 1.00

01:11:29.000 So I have both sides.

01:11:30.000 I pay both sides respectfully because that's what I got.

01:11:34.000 So that's why my opinion is different.

01:11:35.000 But no, I would rather be with someone who has the means to make my life a movie than to make it something regular.

01:11:41.000 And now you're just an experience.

01:11:42.000 And now I got to be cautious.

01:11:44.000 Wait, so you want your life to be a movie?

01:11:47.000 It is the movie already.

01:11:48.000 I mean, but if you want to deal with a guy who's like, wants to build a future, but you guys don't want that.

01:11:54.000 No, there's a difference, though.

01:11:56.000 That's what I'm saying. 0.98

01:11:57.000 They said either a regular nigga. 0.82

01:11:58.000 Yeah, or a rock star or something.

01:12:00.000 Exactly.

01:12:00.000 So my first pick would be a rock star.

01:12:03.000 Only on the sense because I have some say-so just as much as he has some say-so.

01:12:09.000 No, because, but, but rock stars just want to have that fast life. 0.99

01:12:12.000 Just want to fuck many girls, wants to, you know, do their own thing. 1.00

01:12:14.000 It's a one-on-one, though. 1.00

01:12:16.000 So that's what I'm saying.

01:12:17.000 But once again, it's we know guys like that, all right?

01:12:21.000 They see you, a girl like you, they think of you for a fun time, right?

01:12:25.000 A week, a month.

01:12:26.000 Right.

01:12:26.000 It depends on what kind of value that girl brings.

01:12:29.000 So eventually you want a guy who actually average or grounded who also wants you for you.

01:12:33.000 Like, not for like the whole fast life, because it's many girls out there. 1.00

01:12:36.000 Right, but so it's okay, but it's my role, right?

01:12:40.000 I'm a fast life girl.

01:12:41.000 So therefore, what I've experienced is whether I have a regular nigga or a rich nigga, they have to catch up with me. 0.53

01:12:47.000 No.

01:12:48.000 Trust me, like, like, you're telling you, like, I've literally single, though.

01:12:52.000 That's what I'm saying.

01:12:54.000 Guys like us, guys like you, for now, we'll lie to you. 1.00

01:12:57.000 We'll say, you know what, girl, yeah, yeah, we want you, we want you until we fuck you a couple times, and then we'll just leave you hanging by the road. 1.00

01:13:04.000 But that's with a rich nigga or a bum. 1.00

01:13:07.000 No, but would you rather recover a rich nigga or a bum? 1.00

01:13:09.000 A rich nigga, but most likely. 1.00

01:13:12.000 All right, well, can you share a rich nigga? 1.00

01:13:14.000 Hell yeah. 0.98

01:13:15.000 Okay, so if you think Mariah, it's like hey, listen, if you want to share a rich nigga, then that could work for you. 1.00

01:13:21.000 Type shit. 1.00

01:13:22.000 Yeah, I'm fine. 1.00

01:13:23.000 But that's my lifestyle right now because I'm 22.

01:13:25.000 But until my real man, whether he's rich or not, finds me, that's that.

01:13:29.000 But I'm not looking for no man.

01:13:30.000 Finds you or will you find him?

01:13:32.000 Because like you know, he has to find me.

01:13:34.000 Like, do you know what it takes to actually be a wife to a person?

01:13:38.000 Yes.

01:13:39.000 So a man?

01:13:40.000 Top three things.

01:13:42.000 Love myself.

01:13:44.000 Love God.

01:13:45.000 And love yourself.

01:13:47.000 And love the space that I'm in.

01:13:52.000 It seems like it's just you, you, you, you.

01:13:54.000 Okay.

01:13:54.000 How could what the top three things that could benefit him?

01:13:58.000 Me pretending I am as a woman.

01:14:01.000 If I say, hey, listen, why should I propose to you?

01:14:01.000 Okay.

01:14:04.000 Top three things.

01:14:06.000 I can.

01:14:07.000 Like, I bring peace.

01:14:09.000 Okay, you bring peace to the household, right?

01:14:11.000 To you.

01:14:13.000 Could I jump in?

01:14:14.000 Go ahead.

01:14:15.000 Nah, yeah.

01:14:16.000 When somebody proposes to you, it's because they feel like that you bring out the best in them and that you are able to encourage them to do what is better in terms of like actions and whatnot.

01:14:27.000 Top three things.

01:14:28.000 So like best in me, like as in what though?

01:14:31.000 No, because if somebody is around you, and they're bringing out the best in you, like they're giving a good influence.

01:14:38.000 If you're a guy making six figures a year, you're you know, you're doing your thing, you're in shape, you're already a top 1%.

01:14:44.000 So how can you bring out that bottom 1%?

01:14:47.000 Like what's like what makes a difference between you, who, you, who you?

01:14:52.000 It's literally what feeds your soul.

01:14:54.000 No, it's not.

01:14:55.000 Like it's what you feel. 0.99

01:14:56.000 Like a lot of men get married off of energy, not what a bitch specifically. 1.00

01:15:00.000 No, we don't get married. 0.98

01:15:01.000 No, no, we know what it takes for, you know, what, for a man to drop down on one.

01:15:06.000 Right, so what do you mean?

01:15:07.000 That's what I'm saying. 1.00

01:15:07.000 Type shit. 1.00

01:15:08.000 But you should know. 1.00

01:15:09.000 No, every man are different.

01:15:11.000 I'm not trying to get with you, but I would only know what you're saying.

01:15:13.000 Well, when you said peace, because if me and you were getting married, you know, and then I bring you to my household, yeah, peace is a major factor.

01:15:19.000 Like, don't argue with me if I go home on late, don't, don't question me.

01:15:22.000 I'm going to tell you where I'm going now.

01:15:23.000 I'm going to tell you what time I come home.

01:15:24.000 You know, stuff like that.

01:15:25.000 That, like, you know, if I'm saying one thing, don't be like, okay, whoa, you know, that's peace.

01:15:30.000 And then what's number two?

01:15:32.000 What's something like that?

01:15:33.000 Because don't say, oh, you got, I bring out the best in you.

01:15:35.000 Anyone could do that.

01:15:36.000 No.

01:15:37.000 Anyone could do that.

01:15:38.000 No.

01:15:39.000 These women nowadays, it'd be fake facade. 1.00

01:15:42.000 Bitches will gash your head up and literally put whatever you do. 1.00

01:15:48.000 It's levels to it. 0.99

01:15:49.000 What I mean, what I mean is what I say.

01:15:51.000 Whatever you need me to do for you, I better do that without me telling you.

01:15:56.000 It should be a natural thing.

01:15:57.000 Is the energy based me.

01:15:59.000 Okay, well, what do you guys look for in women? 1.00

01:16:03.000 Well, me, my top three.

01:16:05.000 Let's see.

01:16:06.000 Be sexy.

01:16:07.000 Okay.

01:16:07.000 All right.

01:16:08.000 So if you don't take care of yourself, you know, for example, if you're just, you know, because once again, women's major components be, you know, woman in the household, husband, wife, whatever, a mother. 1.00

01:16:20.000 It's a take care of body.

01:16:22.000 You're going to give birth.

01:16:23.000 You're going to be, you know, if you're not healthy, the birth is going to suck for you.

01:16:28.000 You know what I'm saying? 0.98

01:16:29.000 And then if I'm walking down, you know, I want to see you butt naked as cities out looking nice.

01:16:34.000 You know, because that's what I care about. 1.00

01:16:36.000 That's what makes my dick hard. 1.00

01:16:37.000 Okay, but you see, every man is different because no, most men want a sexy ass lady. 1.00

01:16:42.000 Men settle for whatever they get because they can't get anything else. 0.99

01:16:47.000 So you say that a man would value your looks over anything else you can provide them?

01:16:51.000 That's a major component.

01:16:52.000 It is.

01:16:53.000 I feel like it gets you in the door.

01:16:54.000 Looks definitely do matter because it gets you in the door.

01:16:57.000 Now, your personality, how you handle things, of course, you're actually modesty as well.

01:17:01.000 And if you're not a hoe, it goes a long way. 1.00

01:17:03.000 So all this doesn't matter to a guy, but I'll say this.

01:17:06.000 Living with a guy is different because now that's like your girl. 0.99

01:17:09.000 So if that's your girl, you gotta act right.

01:17:12.000 If you're not right, you're nagging, you're annoying. 1.00

01:17:14.000 Why live with you?

01:17:15.000 I agree.

01:17:15.000 So looks, peace.

01:17:16.000 Okay, that's one thing too.

01:17:18.000 Like those two major things right there can get you far.

01:17:20.000 Okay.

01:17:20.000 Can get you to a guy to actually bend a knee down to you, okay?

01:17:24.000 What if a woman like uplifts you and encourages you to become a better person? 0.94

01:17:26.000 Sure, that's peace.

01:17:27.000 You can do that.

01:17:28.000 Hey, you know, you know, whatever, you know.

01:17:30.000 No, but someone who's like, who's like the yin to your yang that is constantly supporting you and like wanting you to become better?

01:17:36.000 That's peace.

01:17:37.000 That's what's more than peace.

01:17:37.000 That's involved.

01:17:38.000 That's good.

01:17:39.000 That's good.

01:17:40.000 I mean, I don't think that's goodness.

01:17:41.000 I feel like that's more.

01:17:42.000 You see, like, I'm telling you what peace means to me.

01:17:46.000 And you're like, I don't think that's peace.

01:17:47.000 Like, she mentioned that.

01:17:48.000 If that's peace to you, that's perfectly fine.

01:17:50.000 What?

01:17:50.000 But okay, what does that mean to you?

01:17:52.000 Like, yin and yang?

01:17:53.000 You mean like to help you become better?

01:17:54.000 Yeah, but becoming a better person and uplifting you as a man the same way he would uplift me as a woman, just uplifting each other and making ourselves the better, the best version of the world.

01:18:03.000 How would you uplift him?

01:18:04.000 Supporting him with whatever he needs.

01:18:05.000 Like for example, again, I'm a student, for example.

01:18:08.000 So when I was dating my ex, he's also a student.

01:18:10.000 I would make sure to help him if he needed help with his schoolwork or he needed help with something regarding college.

01:18:14.000 If he was really stressed out, I would focus on that and help uplift him in that way because I knew that's what he needed at the time.

01:18:19.000 So things of that sorts.

01:18:20.000 But obviously when you go into a more mature relationship, it becomes more mature adult things.

01:18:24.000 Why did it end?

01:18:26.000 I broke up with him.

01:18:28.000 Why is that?

01:18:29.000 So you're uplifting him.

01:18:30.000 I didn't.

01:18:31.000 And they ended it.

01:18:32.000 I ended it because he didn't have, we didn't have the same values anymore.

01:18:37.000 He wanted to choose the party life.

01:18:39.000 So hold on.

01:18:39.000 Oh, Chris.

01:18:40.000 I can get uplifting.

01:18:41.000 I can get a nice help with my schoolwork.

01:18:45.000 But the moment I'm not aligned, it's over.

01:18:47.000 Yeah, the moment you party too much, it's over, Chris.

01:18:49.000 I just don't want to be with somebody who's constantly partying, drinking, doing things that aren't beneficial to him.

01:18:54.000 He was hurting.

01:18:54.000 You picked him.

01:18:55.000 I didn't pick him when he was partying.

01:18:57.000 That happened later on in the relationship.

01:18:59.000 And then also a little bit of cheating, which I don't like disloyalty.

01:19:02.000 Yeah.

01:19:02.000 He cheated on you?

01:19:03.000 No way.

01:19:04.000 Yeah.

01:19:05.000 A man would never do that.

01:19:06.000 Yeah, a man would always do that to a woman.

01:19:09.000 These niggas need that Gucci when they want that Gucci. 1.00

01:19:11.000 They're going to get that Gucci.

01:19:12.000 I don't care how good you are.

01:19:14.000 Cheating is going to happen no matter what.

01:19:16.000 It doesn't matter how good of a woman you are. 1.00

01:19:17.000 So question real quick.

01:19:19.000 How would you handle living with a guy come cheating on you?

01:19:22.000 What would you do?

01:19:23.000 If you're a man cheating on you, you live with him.

01:19:25.000 What would you do?

01:19:26.000 It is over.

01:19:27.000 Really?

01:19:28.000 1,000%.

01:19:29.000 Okay, okay.

01:19:30.000 Question.

01:19:31.000 You made a mistake.

01:19:32.000 It won't happen again. 1.00

01:19:35.000 When you put cheating and mistake in the same sentence, it just sounds like an oxymoron because you don't just fall into some pussy. 0.99

01:19:45.000 You know, it's a conscious decision. 0.99

01:19:45.000 Yeah. 0.99

01:19:47.000 Tell me.

01:19:48.000 I mean, we're a man.

01:19:50.000 You wake up, you go to the club. 1.00

01:19:52.000 It's feeling that shit. 1.00

01:19:52.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:19:53.000 That was amazing. 1.00

01:19:54.000 Oh, you're right.

01:19:55.000 So, yes, in a sense, yes.

01:19:57.000 The rockstar life.

01:19:58.000 Just just in a sense, yes.

01:20:00.000 And I mean, there are like 10 to 12 women per man. 1.00

01:20:04.000 So, I understand that.

01:20:06.000 Like, there's billions of humans, and there's like 10 to 12 women per man. 1.00

01:20:09.000 Like, I get that.

01:20:11.000 But if you cheat on me consciously without any previous conversation of like, hey, let's have something together or so on and so forth.

01:20:24.000 So, you want to throw some with him though?

01:20:27.000 It's not that I want one, but I would be open to that conversation if my man, if that's what my man would want.

01:20:34.000 Because, because you're dating for a year, right?

01:20:36.000 Yes.

01:20:37.000 So, if eventually he's going to want to step out, I'm going to say it right now.

01:20:41.000 No, eventually.

01:20:42.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:20:42.000 Wait, hold on, hold on, hold on.

01:20:43.000 Come on.

01:20:44.000 Wait, so you're trying to marry me now.

01:20:45.000 Hold on, you're married right now.

01:20:46.000 If he cheats on you, you're done.

01:20:48.000 If he cheats on me without us planning anything together kind of thing, I'm done.

01:20:48.000 Yes.

01:20:56.000 Yeah, because I'm not.

01:20:58.000 I'll explain, pardon me, I'll explain why I'm done and why.

01:21:02.000 Because in my previous relationship that I had, I tolerated a lot of cheating and there was never any change.

01:21:10.000 And I tolerated and tolerated, and I was understanding and all of that.

01:21:14.000 And there was never any change.

01:21:15.000 So that's why I can no longer tolerate that.

01:21:18.000 But question for you.

01:21:19.000 I get what you're saying because it's not fair.

01:21:21.000 You feel like you're being lied to.

01:21:22.000 I understand that.

01:21:23.000 Here's the issue, though.

01:21:25.000 What if every man's going to do that to you? 0.98

01:21:28.000 You know, it's funny that you say that because I had the closest man in my life pretty much tell me that all men cheat, which is my father.

01:21:37.000 He was very real.

01:21:38.000 Wise man.

01:21:39.000 Wise man.

01:21:40.000 Wise man, right?

01:21:40.000 He's a Pisces.

01:21:41.000 Yeah.

01:21:42.000 He was like, hey, it's okay to have a wife and a girlfriend.

01:21:42.000 Okay.

01:21:47.000 And I'm like, I looked at him and I'm like, can you give me some hope?

01:21:51.000 No, it's not hope.

01:21:52.000 He's being realistic.

01:21:53.000 And he's being right.

01:21:54.000 He was being real.

01:21:55.000 I mean, hold on.

01:21:55.000 But.

01:21:56.000 Think about it from a logical standpoint.

01:21:58.000 Guy to guide me.

01:21:59.000 Right, right.

01:22:00.000 Guide a woman. 1.00

01:22:01.000 If you get rid of this guy, you have a kid.

01:22:04.000 Right.

01:22:04.000 So in the paradigm of dating, especially nowadays, people are very picky.

01:22:08.000 So if you have a kid plus your plus, I mean, it's going to be harder for you to actually get what you want.

01:22:15.000 So you got to settle for something. 0.99

01:22:16.000 Whether it's cheating or just dealing with the bullshit. 1.00

01:22:18.000 Because I'll tell you this. 1.00

01:22:19.000 If you don't settle for it, you may end up losing because I get it.

01:22:23.000 Things happen. 1.00

01:22:24.000 Men do dumb shit. 1.00

01:22:26.000 But to leave that for another one is going to do the same thing. 1.00

01:22:29.000 Not smart.

01:22:30.000 Yep.

01:22:31.000 Personally, I feel like once again, let's respond.

01:22:33.000 I understand your perspective and it is a valid one.

01:22:37.000 But I value myself too much to put up with that kind of behavior over and over again.

01:22:42.000 So I wouldn't worry about me finding someone else or so on and so forth because that other person will come if that's the case.

01:22:53.000 It may not be in a day or week or whatever, but they will come.

01:22:56.000 You're 35.

01:22:57.000 Right.

01:22:58.000 You have a kid.

01:22:59.000 Right.

01:23:01.000 It's hard.

01:23:02.000 It's really hard.

01:23:02.000 Like, you feel blessed to find and win with it.

01:23:05.000 Thank you.

01:23:05.000 Yeah.

01:23:07.000 But that's not easy though.

01:23:08.000 And you're right.

01:23:09.000 It's not easy, but nothing in life is easy.

01:23:11.000 And you have to be, it's all about mentality.

01:23:14.000 So if I have the mentality that I'm never going to meet anyone again, of course I won't because I'm blocking myself off to that.

01:23:20.000 Okay.

01:23:20.000 But if I remain open, I work on myself.

01:23:24.000 I let go of weight.

01:23:25.000 So on and so forth, of course I'll find somebody else.

01:23:27.000 Go to Rumble.

01:23:29.000 Guys, okay, guys, put a link in the chat if you don't mind.

01:23:32.000 YouTube.

01:23:32.000 Let's close YouTube off because I'm telling the truth right now.

01:23:34.000 Because listen, listen, listen.

01:23:36.000 Tell me.

01:23:36.000 I love that you're open ear.

01:23:39.000 You want to believe in manifestation.

01:23:42.000 Do better.

01:23:43.000 Think smart.

01:23:44.000 Think logically.

01:23:45.000 But the problem is that, like, you know, at the same time, things got to change.

01:23:51.000 And even I had to change.

01:23:53.000 Changing my vocabulary, changed my mindset.

01:23:57.000 If it didn't, I would have stayed the same in the same box.

01:24:00.000 But for you, I'm just saying, like, yes.

01:24:02.000 How old are you?

01:24:03.000 33?

01:24:03.000 35.

01:24:04.000 I'm 35.

01:24:04.000 No, you.

01:24:05.000 33.

01:24:07.000 And I'm 33.

01:24:08.000 But here's the point: you can get whatever you want for sure.

01:24:13.000 Yes.

01:24:13.000 I'm not whatever you want.

01:24:14.000 But hold on, but not how you want it.

01:24:16.000 If that makes sense.

01:24:17.000 And I see your point.

01:24:18.000 I see your perspective there.

01:24:20.000 Yes.

01:24:20.000 Okay.

01:24:21.000 We'll come back to you, though.

01:24:22.000 Yeah.

01:24:22.000 You live with a guy he cheats on you.

01:24:24.000 What are you doing?

01:24:25.000 Come out.

01:24:26.000 Real men don't cheat.

01:24:28.000 A real man won't cheat.

01:24:29.000 What?

01:24:30.000 A real man won't cheat.

01:24:30.000 Halfway.

01:24:32.000 Sorry.

01:24:33.000 So, Digletts.

01:24:34.000 Shout out to you, bro, for supporting the show.

01:24:36.000 Hold on, hold on.

01:24:37.000 So you're going to just leave.

01:24:40.000 Like, why are you cheating?

01:24:42.000 Why would you find yourself? 1.00

01:24:43.000 Well, no pussy. 1.00

01:24:44.000 No pussy is always great. 1.00

01:24:46.000 What if he told you, hey, babe, you know, just be honest with you. 0.99

01:24:49.000 Like, this happened to me.

01:24:51.000 You know, this happened.

01:24:53.000 I'm sorry.

01:24:54.000 If he's unhappy and unsatisfied in our relationship, he should be telling me that.

01:24:58.000 Wave is just super excited.

01:24:59.000 He's happy.

01:25:00.000 Just, you know, he wanted something new.

01:25:02.000 He should have told me that and communicated with me. 1.00

01:25:05.000 Because if I did it, then I would be a whore and a slut. 1.00

01:25:08.000 But question, do you want to do it though? 1.00

01:25:09.000 No.

01:25:10.000 I don't find it.

01:25:11.000 Men want to do it. 0.85

01:25:12.000 Like, men actually would just want to procreate and just like meet different girls.

01:25:15.000 Okay, but you can procreate.

01:25:17.000 Isn't it supposed to be a man and a woman procreating together? 1.00

01:25:20.000 So why do you need to procreate with like 20 other bitches? 1.00

01:25:22.000 Because we have sperm for generations to come. 1.00

01:25:25.000 But if you look at traditional values, it's supposed to be you're supposed to be married to a woman, have a wife. 0.98

01:25:30.000 Traditional values, many men have different women.

01:25:33.000 Well, that's depending on the culture that you're in.

01:25:34.000 But culturally, Western culture is propaganda, bro.

01:25:38.000 Man, if you can marry a girl. 1.00

01:25:40.000 That's what most people reference when they say they want a traditional family.

01:25:42.000 And then they do the opposite where it's cheat.

01:25:45.000 If you want to get with multiple people, you can do that.

01:25:47.000 But just that's not what I want.

01:25:49.000 So I don't have to be with you.

01:25:50.000 It's fine.

01:25:51.000 You can do whatever you want.

01:25:52.000 It's each their own.

01:25:53.000 Okay.

01:25:54.000 What about you?

01:25:55.000 So when you're man, he cheats.

01:25:57.000 I think like a man.

01:25:57.000 What you doing?

01:25:59.000 Bae, tell me if we open.

01:26:01.000 Tell me when we close.

01:26:03.000 Because if you because.

01:26:04.000 No, no, no.

01:26:05.000 No.

01:26:05.000 He's open.

01:26:06.000 Yeah.

01:26:06.000 You're not.

01:26:07.000 I will never, I will never just be no, because I'm one of them ones.

01:26:07.000 Yeah, no.

01:26:12.000 So if we finna be doing all of them.

01:26:15.000 Let's go. 0.98

01:26:16.000 If we finna be doing open shit, okay, then we open. 0.98

01:26:18.000 And you're not gonna like that because I really am one of them ones, you know what I mean? 0.99

01:26:22.000 And then I have enough research for myself not to overdo it and be a whore and have my man looking dumb. 0.97

01:26:28.000 Because if I chose to marry you publicly, then I'm gonna respect myself publicly. 1.00

01:26:33.000 But if you want to be open and shit and have a little hug, nothing out my little shit. 0.99

01:26:37.000 You feel me? 1.00

01:26:38.000 Like, listen.

01:26:40.000 Listen.

01:26:41.000 It's life.

01:26:41.000 You feel me?

01:26:42.000 Fuck that tea, nigga. 1.00

01:26:43.000 No, but real shit is life. 1.00

01:26:44.000 You feel me? 0.99

01:26:45.000 And like, I understand.

01:26:46.000 Super sad.

01:26:47.000 But no, like, I understand.

01:26:48.000 You feel me?

01:26:49.000 Like, I understand.

01:26:50.000 And my dad is one of them ones who will switch him out quick.

01:26:53.000 So me being raised by my dad, not my mama.

01:26:57.000 I was raving my mama.

01:26:58.000 So you should understand how it is then.

01:26:59.000 That's what I'm saying.

01:27:00.000 That's why I said, babe, if you want to be open, we open then.

01:27:03.000 But do you want to be open?

01:27:04.000 Because if I be open, your homie might want me to be. 0.98

01:27:06.000 So you're going to match the energy. 0.95

01:27:07.000 If your homie wants me, you mad. 0.93

01:27:09.000 Wait, Exactly.

01:27:10.000 So you're going to match the energy and be open too.

01:27:13.000 It's not even like that.

01:27:14.000 But like, I'll match energy to the sense of don't think that you're the only one who can have this cake and eat it too.

01:27:20.000 Yeah, but you don't even want to cheat, though.

01:27:22.000 That's the point.

01:27:22.000 It's not about me cheating.

01:27:24.000 No, but no, because if it was honest, then you then. 1.00

01:27:27.000 Because honestly, if I say, babe, I ain't gonna lie, I want to fuck this nigga right now. 1.00

01:27:30.000 Either you finna watch me fuck him or what? 1.00

01:27:32.000 What? 1.00

01:27:33.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:27:34.000 Now I'm the prop. 1.00

01:27:35.000 But then you tell me, but then you tell me, bae, go get this girl so we can fuck her together. 1.00

01:27:39.000 And I say, no, babe, she don't deserve my pussy. 1.00

01:27:42.000 Now I'm the prop. 1.00

01:27:43.000 No, you are a problem. 1.00

01:27:45.000 No, these bitches be dirty. 1.00

01:27:45.000 You are the problem. 1.00

01:27:47.000 They be having energy.

01:27:48.000 All right, just bring a test.

01:27:52.000 No, it's levels to it.

01:27:53.000 Because I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna protest.

01:27:53.000 No, no, you're not.

01:27:56.000 I'm not gonna protest and use condoms.

01:27:58.000 No, but it's energy.

01:28:00.000 Y'all like say I want to add it's more.

01:28:01.000 It's 2026.

01:28:02.000 Yes, it's just kind of no, it's about energy.

01:28:04.000 All right, blood.

01:28:05.000 I want to add on to what she's saying.

01:28:07.000 Unfortunately, they don't make SCD tests for spirituality.

01:28:11.000 And that's what she's talking about when it comes to energy.

01:28:11.000 Yeah.

01:28:14.000 How long you fucked Raw before? 0.95

01:28:15.000 I know, but back then you wasn't worried about SCD tests back in the day. 0.99

01:28:18.000 Don't sit here at 35 saying no.

01:28:21.000 You're too literal.

01:28:21.000 No, you gotta.

01:28:22.000 No, no. 0.99

01:28:23.000 Because back in the days, you fucked Raw, correct? 0.99

01:28:25.000 Yes or no? 0.99

01:28:26.000 It was literal.

01:28:26.000 For me, back in the day.

01:28:30.000 No, I'm saying you too. 0.99

01:28:32.000 You fucked Raw back in the day. 0.99

01:28:33.000 She's been big on protection. 1.00

01:28:34.000 All you girls.

01:28:36.000 Been big.

01:28:37.000 I've always been big on protection.

01:28:38.000 Come on, man. 1.00

01:28:39.000 Oh, damn, bro. 1.00

01:28:42.000 I have one. 0.99

01:28:43.000 Yeah, but back then, you know, you wasn't, you were handling Condoms.

01:28:47.000 Like, y'all can't.

01:28:49.000 You had a broke guy give you a baby back then.

01:28:52.000 When I was 29 years old, yes.

01:28:54.000 Doesn't matter.

01:28:55.000 Like, I'm sure back then it was one thing, but I was 29.

01:28:58.000 Yeah, so he wasn't, you know, but he was broke, though, right?

01:29:02.000 Right.

01:29:02.000 He was a college football player, yes.

01:29:05.000 So, yeah.

01:29:06.000 Maybe, like, like, once again, no, no, no, this is him, but it's your body.

01:29:10.000 You should know what you're doing in terms of giving birth to a baby. 0.98

01:29:13.000 You shouldn't, you shouldn't be fucking broke niggas and raw, and then all of a sudden you're out here talking about, oh, yeah, well, SCD says all kinds of stuff. 1.00

01:29:20.000 So it is worth it. 0.98

01:29:21.000 I mean, it's not true.

01:29:22.000 I'm just saying that, like, when he can grow in hair more than that.

01:29:25.000 There's the S C D, there's a physical S C D test, and then there is, unfortunately, there isn't an energetic S C D.

01:29:32.000 So, hold on.

01:29:33.000 What she's saying is basically there's a test of like physical realm, and then there's a spiritual realm.

01:29:38.000 So, sex is two parts, like soul, yes, right, right, right, right.

01:29:41.000 However, however, let's be honest here.

01:29:43.000 Does anyone care about spiritual?

01:29:44.000 No, so we're just gonna, bro. 0.99

01:29:46.000 There's some people putting that dick down on purpose. 1.00

01:29:49.000 Yes, so the bitch be crazy. 1.00

01:29:51.000 It makes me crazy. 1.00

01:29:51.000 Okay, hold on. 1.00

01:29:52.000 They're like, oh my god, maybe I'm being crazy.

01:29:53.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

01:29:54.000 I know a guy in Miami.

01:29:56.000 I want to say his name.

01:29:57.000 He is very famous.

01:29:57.000 Okay.

01:29:59.000 Okay.

01:30:00.000 Very wealthy.

01:30:01.000 This might sound crazy, fellas, but just hear me out here.

01:30:04.000 You know what he does?

01:30:05.000 What? 1.00

01:30:06.000 Fucks. 1.00

01:30:06.000 No, he was told by a spirit to fuck bitches, take their energy, and break to the spirit. 1.00

01:30:14.000 I kid you not, bro. 1.00

01:30:16.000 I believe you.

01:30:16.000 I kid you not.

01:30:18.000 He's like a warlock. 1.00

01:30:19.000 And they don't even know they're getting fucked. 1.00

01:30:23.000 Take your energy. 1.00

01:30:24.000 And it's like, bro, this thing is a fucking default, bro. 0.99

01:30:27.000 It's called energy side. 0.98

01:30:29.000 So there are two realms there: physical and spiritual.

01:30:32.000 So I get what you're saying.

01:30:33.000 So it does sound kind of crazy, but it is true to an extent. 0.99

01:30:36.000 And it is a real thing.

01:30:37.000 Okay, what about you, though?

01:30:38.000 Tell us, you live with a guy, he cheats on you.

01:30:41.000 What are you doing?

01:30:42.000 I mean, honestly, I have never been the type of person who would like to worry so much about it.

01:30:52.000 Sorry, go ahead.

01:30:53.000 Warcock.

01:30:55.000 Nah.

01:30:56.000 All right.

01:30:57.000 So if somebody cheats on me, honestly, either.

01:31:00.000 Like, if I actually care about them, then I'm going to leave.

01:31:04.000 Because who are you cheating on me? 1.00

01:31:08.000 But sometimes if I'm most of the time. 1.00

01:31:12.000 But if I'm with them just like for the sake of enjoying their company and whatnot, I'll happily let them have whatever pussy they want. 1.00

01:31:19.000 Because honestly, don't fuck me. 1.00

01:31:21.000 Don't mess with me. 1.00

01:31:22.000 You just hang out with me and we're good.

01:31:24.000 Honestly.

01:31:25.000 You think you're enough for one guy? 0.96

01:31:28.000 Be honest.

01:31:29.000 Yeah.

01:31:30.000 All right, you're cut, man.

01:31:31.000 Thank you.

01:31:32.000 Dickless, shout out to you for supporting the show.

01:31:34.000 I got you.

01:31:35.000 $100 super chat.

01:31:36.000 Shout out to you, bro.

01:31:37.000 He says, women literally always stay. 0.99

01:31:40.000 I bring peace because that's what they think.

01:31:43.000 Women are too volatile to bring any type of peace. 1.00

01:31:46.000 Yeah, I agree with you, man.

01:31:47.000 I feel like people don't know what peace really means to a guy.

01:31:50.000 But they believe I'll give him peace.

01:31:51.000 They nag him. 0.99

01:31:52.000 Like, bro, you're not giving a fuck. 0.99

01:31:53.000 I mean, like, for real, though, like, for real. 0.99

01:31:55.000 I mean, most women don't understand what, like, how to take to actually maintain a guy full term. 1.00

01:32:00.000 Like, she's saying, okay, one year, if he cheats, she's gone.

01:32:03.000 Like, dude, like, dude, takes care of your son properly.

01:32:06.000 Well, correct, right?

01:32:07.000 Like, he's like, he's a good, you know, stepdad.

01:32:09.000 Right.

01:32:09.000 He pays the majority of the bills.

01:32:12.000 Right.

01:32:12.000 And you're 35.

01:32:13.000 Right.

01:32:14.000 And you're overweight.

01:32:15.000 Right.

01:32:15.000 So it's like, you know, like, who do you think is winning from you and him being together?

01:32:20.000 The both of us.

01:32:20.000 What?

01:32:21.000 You asshole, Chris. 1.00

01:32:22.000 No, because I'm being honest right here. 1.00

01:32:25.000 Because in the day, he can easily step out, right?

01:32:27.000 And make his whole family.

01:32:29.000 Like I said, I'm willing to do that.

01:32:30.000 You will lose long term because the older you get.

01:32:32.000 I'm willing to share an experience with him if he talks to me about it previously.

01:32:36.000 Yeah.

01:32:36.000 Oh, yeah, sure.

01:32:37.000 My whole thing is if he does it unsolicited behind my back, that's backstabbing.

01:32:42.000 Yeah, you're right.

01:32:43.000 I wholly agree that he should talk to you.

01:32:45.000 Hey, listen, you know, like, I do want to step out and deal with a girl. 0.99

01:32:50.000 And let's have a conversation about it.

01:32:52.000 You know what I'm saying?

01:32:54.000 So if that happens, then yeah, sure. 1.00

01:32:55.000 But, you know, him going behind your back and sneaking and then fucking other girls. 1.00

01:33:00.000 Right. 1.00

01:33:00.000 For me, it's more of like, can you have a conversation? 1.00

01:33:02.000 Don't be a bitch about it. 1.00

01:33:03.000 Right. 1.00

01:33:04.000 Like, have a conversation with me.

01:33:06.000 Be up front.

01:33:06.000 Like, tell me what you need.

01:33:10.000 Tell me what you need from me, even if it's not from me.

01:33:13.000 Yeah, but the thing is, because he knows if he tells you the truth, right, you'll leave probably the majority of the time.

01:33:18.000 Well, if he, again, if he does it behind my back without having the conversation, if we have a conversation, he wants to have a past, like an experience on his own, that could be a possibility.

01:33:29.000 If he wants to have an experience together, can I do it?

01:33:32.000 No, can he does it?

01:33:34.000 Now, this is the thing.

01:33:36.000 Now we're stepping into it.

01:33:37.000 What, two years?

01:33:38.000 Now we're stepping into polyamory territory.

01:33:41.000 It depends.

01:33:42.000 Like, what type of relationship do we have?

01:33:44.000 Is it monogamous? 0.93

01:33:45.000 Is it polygamous? 0.96

01:33:46.000 On this part.

01:33:48.000 Polygamy in this part.

01:33:49.000 You monogamy. 1.00

01:33:51.000 You can't fuck other guys. 1.00

01:33:52.000 Okay. 1.00

01:33:52.000 So, personally, polygamy on the man's side and monogamy on the woman's side, I think is very one-sided. 1.00

01:34:02.000 How is it one-sided?

01:34:03.000 If we're doing polygamy, it's going to be all the way around. 1.00

01:34:07.000 Like, I have my own.

01:34:09.000 Yes, I have my own whatever I have going on, and you have your own, whatever you have. 1.00

01:34:14.000 Do you want to fuck other guys? 1.00

01:34:16.000 No. 1.00

01:34:16.000 Okay, but he probably does, but he probably do. 1.00

01:34:20.000 You mean like he wants to with other women, other girls.

01:34:25.000 If you want to, men just know.

01:34:26.000 If I tell you the truth, you're going to leave.

01:34:29.000 So they just lie.

01:34:30.000 No, that's some.

01:34:32.000 I'm saying the truth because, once again, we talked to me and France, talk to many, you know, our supporters around the world, right? 1.00

01:34:38.000 To five years on this shit. 0.99

01:34:39.000 You know what I'm saying? 1.00

01:34:40.000 And guys don't want to tell your girls the truth because they're bitches because they're afraid to lose you. 1.00

01:34:44.000 And a guy who isn't afraid to lose you, looks then, I'm going to be with you for a while, but I do want to introduce a girl here and there. 0.98

01:34:52.000 And the guy will still love you.

01:34:53.000 Like, he still loves you.

01:34:54.000 Like, his love is not going to be divided between, you know.

01:34:57.000 I would have so much respect for a man that is up front with me rather than one that goes behind my back.

01:35:03.000 But what he's saying is like, it's like, guys won't say that because you can, so you can leave.

01:35:07.000 So yeah, so you can leave.

01:35:08.000 No, no, no, no.

01:35:09.000 I would only leave if it's something that's done behind my back that feels like betrayal.

01:35:14.000 But if it's you don't want him to do it in the first place.

01:35:16.000 So if he tells you.

01:35:17.000 No, of course, I think any person you don't.

01:35:21.000 I wouldn't want him to, but if he does talk to me about it before he acts on anything, I would be open to him doing something because he was honest with me.

01:35:32.000 Okay, so can he do it right?

01:35:33.000 Like, what is the percentage of him, your current man, right now?

01:35:37.000 Like, if he comes to you right now, like right now or a year from now, saying, hey, baby, I love you.

01:35:42.000 I would say 50-50 right now.

01:35:43.000 Okay, so how about one more year?

01:35:45.000 One actually.

01:35:46.000 One more year, and he's doing all the right things.

01:35:48.000 Yeah, my son's right.

01:35:50.000 More year, um, 75-25 goes higher, yeah.

01:35:54.000 I would say, all right, so what I'm very doing to to lower the chances of him asking that, though, because once again, many women are very complacent, okay, and they don't want to work on their parts. 0.99

01:36:06.000 This is why I gotta step out.

01:36:08.000 Well, I would say that one of the things I need to work on clearly is my weight.

01:36:12.000 Yeah, so that's something that I'm I've started recently.

01:36:18.000 That's something that I've started recently. 1.00

01:36:20.000 You asshole, Fresh, bro. 1.00

01:36:23.000 No, she's that wasn't fresh. 1.00

01:36:24.000 Yeah, yeah, no, no, Bills.

01:36:27.000 Um, that's something that I've recently started my journey on.

01:36:31.000 Um, so yeah, that's something that I could work on personally.

01:36:34.000 Okay, I'm not ashamed of it either.

01:36:36.000 No, it's not like I can hide it.

01:36:39.000 So, other than that, other than that, it's um you know, how am I contributing to his life?

01:36:48.000 How am I contributing to my own?

01:36:49.000 How am I contributing to my son?

01:36:51.000 So on and so forth.

01:36:52.000 Just my natural character overall.

01:36:54.000 And how's the sex life?

01:36:56.000 It's great. 1.00

01:36:58.000 So, like, every time he goes out, the house, do you like, you know, suck his dick? 1.00

01:37:02.000 Do you have fuck him? 1.00

01:37:04.000 We so our sex life is very natural, very positive. 1.00

01:37:08.000 Chris, what you have to tell my nigga, come on, man. 0.66

01:37:10.000 No, but no, because most girls have to hear this. 0.96

01:37:12.000 Because once again, most girls sit there and think that healthy sex life, it's every day, multiple times a day. 1.00

01:37:21.000 Okay, good.

01:37:22.000 Yo, yo, yo, yo, sorry, in the chat. 0.97

01:37:24.000 The nigga's name is Thrid Niglitz. 1.00

01:37:26.000 Yo, nigga, I'm dead, bro. 1.00

01:37:27.000 Yo, I'm dead. 1.00

01:37:28.000 That's fucking hilarious. 0.99

01:37:29.000 That's hilarious. 0.99

01:37:30.000 Sorry.

01:37:31.000 Sex life.

01:37:33.000 Listen, all I'm saying is that if a guy cares about what she loves you, he may cheat.

01:37:38.000 Is it right?

01:37:39.000 No.

01:37:39.000 But it happens.

01:37:41.000 Saturday and day to leave him for another guy is not smart because he's going to park into the two as well.

01:37:46.000 So I'm just saying.

01:37:48.000 I wouldn't say fresh for another guy.

01:37:49.000 I would say I would leave him for myself if that were the case.

01:37:52.000 Okay.

01:37:53.000 Leave him for myself.

01:37:54.000 Because then I would have to work on myself, just be the best mother I could be.

01:37:54.000 Why?

01:38:00.000 Period.

01:38:02.000 But no matter what you do, you might get cheating on.

01:38:08.000 No, you're right.

01:38:09.000 You're right.

01:38:10.000 Men are primal.

01:38:11.000 I do agree with that.

01:38:12.000 Men are primal.

01:38:14.000 Not to like talk down on men, but men are primal.

01:38:17.000 So there's a sense of like respect there.

01:38:19.000 Like, okay, I see where you're coming from.

01:38:21.000 I see how you are.

01:38:22.000 But it doesn't mean that you have to continue to be that way.

01:38:25.000 It's also a choice.

01:38:26.000 Me us.

01:38:27.000 Men, yeah.

01:38:28.000 Men and women. 1.00

01:38:29.000 They said they have back tits. 1.00

01:38:31.000 Back. 0.99

01:38:32.000 Fresh.

01:38:34.000 I know, but it's a chat nigga. 1.00

01:38:36.000 You're saying booty shaking shit. 1.00

01:38:38.000 No, but it's like shit. 1.00

01:38:40.000 Yeah, yeah. 1.00

01:38:42.000 No, I could imagine.

01:38:43.000 I mean, the worst they can say and continue saying is about my weight, which is very third grade of them.

01:38:49.000 I mean, no, but like, you know, you seem like a girl who has a very, you know, stable and you know how to be a woman or whatever.

01:38:55.000 But it's like, it's one of those things where it's like, you said men are primal and they have to learn how to control.

01:38:59.000 No, it's like, this is our nature.

01:39:01.000 Like, you know, like, it's like me telling women, oh, stop relying on us. 1.00

01:39:05.000 You know, you have to learn how to be independent.

01:39:07.000 No, I mean, no, I feel like, okay, so what I truly feel when it comes to men and women is like men and women shouldn't compete because we are very, we have similarities as human beings, but we're very different.

01:39:22.000 So there shouldn't be a competition.

01:39:24.000 Yeah, 10 subs for y'all niggas, man, in the chat. 1.00

01:39:27.000 10 subs.

01:39:28.000 Love you guys, man.

01:39:28.000 We should leave competition for sports.

01:39:30.000 Like, and that, you know, that's subjective and objective.

01:39:35.000 But I'm talking.

01:39:40.000 You know, you know, listen, listen, Chris.

01:39:42.000 She's going to leave.

01:39:43.000 They're all going to leave.

01:39:44.000 If someone cheats, it's fine.

01:39:45.000 I ain't leaving.

01:39:46.000 They're going to find out what happens when they leave.

01:39:48.000 I'm going to stay with my man.

01:39:48.000 I'm going to stick with Zion.

01:39:50.000 Put this ring on my finger.

01:39:51.000 We did.

01:39:52.000 So, okay, ladies. 1.00

01:39:54.000 No shade.

01:39:54.000 Look how videos play here that illustrates if a man cheats, I live with a woman, as it works.

01:40:00.000 What happens?

01:40:01.000 We're gonna play it loud enough so that you can hear it in the headphones.

01:40:04.000 Because, yeah, at least for now.

01:40:06.000 Guys, by the way, we're gonna fix Castle Club live stream pre-show for Monday with a special guest.

01:40:12.000 So don't worry, it'll be fixed by then.

01:40:14.000 Not this one, should be the other one.

01:40:17.000 No, not this one.

01:40:18.000 That one, yeah.

01:40:20.000 Cheat on my girlfriend.

01:40:21.000 She trashed my apartment. 1.00

01:40:22.000 There you go.

01:40:23.000 No, you can play it.

01:40:24.000 It's fine.

01:40:25.000 Yeah, I'll just put it on the screen.

01:40:26.000 Got it.

01:40:27.000 So, fellas, you live with a girl. 0.87

01:40:29.000 Not only can she call the cops on you falsely, not only can she obviously trash your spot, but she can destroy your apartment totally because she's upset. 1.00

01:40:38.000 And now, you gotta rebuild by yourself because, hey, she's a champion of Bills, bro.

01:40:42.000 So, here we go. 0.99

01:40:44.000 He say that I'm good enough But think about shit that I should've known So I tell him it's one of me He make me Like that boy is a cat Yeah, he hope that he will be at Think about me because you know that it's fat. 0.99

01:40:58.000 And it been what it been. 0.99

01:41:00.000 Pulling his phone like he'll send me a pen. 0.99

01:41:01.000 Look at my shit because he knows what I want. 0.99

01:41:03.000 But when he hit me, I'm not going to spawn. 1.00

01:41:06.000 He said that I'm good enough.

01:41:08.000 If your man cheated, would you trash his spot?

01:41:10.000 Nope, no, no, no.

01:41:12.000 Run from that, bro.

01:41:13.000 I was just grabbing my stuff.

01:41:13.000 I just leave it.

01:41:15.000 Y'all are mature.

01:41:16.000 Run from that brookie. 1.00

01:41:17.000 Run from that brookie. 1.00

01:41:18.000 But you never know.

01:41:19.000 If you're the only time I'm going to do something is when I want to blow up that phone and make sure you train with me.

01:41:25.000 You got five, ten times, and I ask your phone.

01:41:27.000 Now I'm cool on you.

01:41:28.000 You better ask your mama about me. 0.82

01:41:29.000 Also, we got part two for this video.

01:41:33.000 The first video?

01:41:34.000 The first video?

01:41:35.000 The part two.

01:41:36.000 So this is a video going viral right now.

01:41:38.000 She's so jail. 1.00

01:41:41.000 A video that's going viral should seriously use a heavy hammer to destroy her boyfriend's house after heated arguments. 1.00

01:41:48.000 He got money.

01:41:49.000 It's an argument.

01:41:50.000 Right.

01:41:50.000 It's a viral clip.

01:41:52.000 The woman visibly enraged can be seen smashing windows, breaking furniture, and tearing down household items in a fit of anger. 1.00

01:41:59.000 Neighbors reportedly tried to intervene, but were too afraid to come close.

01:41:59.000 Yeah.

01:42:02.000 And she shouted angrily while leashing her destruction. 1.00

01:42:06.000 Here you go.

01:42:06.000 Yeah, I know.

01:42:07.000 That's not.

01:42:08.000 As a man, how would you react if this happened to you?

01:42:10.000 Did you call the police, walk away, or confront her?

01:42:12.000 Here we go.

01:42:17.000 That's a hammer. 0.98

01:42:17.000 That's a nice ass house. 0.98

01:42:18.000 I know. 0.96

01:42:19.000 I'll sit with my own eyes.

01:42:21.000 I love the windows. 1.00

01:42:23.000 Damn. 0.99

01:42:28.000 She got some ads though. 1.00

01:42:29.000 She has some ass. 1.00

01:42:30.000 I was just gonna say, she gotta be. 1.00

01:42:35.000 I'll be honest, bro. 1.00

01:42:38.000 Net bitch man. 1.00

01:42:39.000 That's most type. 1.00

01:42:42.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:42:44.000 She's strong. 1.00

01:42:46.000 She's trying to hustle a rage room, nigga. 1.00

01:42:48.000 Great times. 0.99

01:42:49.000 What?

01:42:52.000 Okay, so.

01:42:54.000 Chris, that's you.

01:42:55.000 What are you doing, bro?

01:42:56.000 I'm gonna restrain her. 1.00

01:42:57.000 Sorry to say.

01:42:58.000 It's like, no, no woman's on gun my property. 0.56

01:43:01.000 Can't turn on the bills. 1.00

01:43:03.000 And gonna do all that shit. 1.00

01:43:04.000 You know what I'm saying? 1.00

01:43:05.000 Because end of the day, like, that's not from like 060.

01:43:08.000 That's like in steps.

01:43:09.000 You know what I'm saying?

01:43:10.000 Like, this guy is allowing her to, you know, to say certain things, do certain things.

01:43:13.000 That's what I'm saying.

01:43:14.000 Like, if you're a guy, you can't allow your woman to talk a certain way. 1.00

01:43:16.000 Because, like, one minute you meet the first that you meet her, first week, she may try you.

01:43:20.000 And the guy, she got big eyes, so I'm gonna let her say what she wants. 0.99

01:43:24.000 Now, all of a sudden, week month six, she's doing this bullshit. 1.00

01:43:27.000 And it's like, bro, I'm sorry. 1.00

01:43:29.000 I'm stronger than her.

01:43:30.000 If she swings, I'm gonna grab her wrist, restrain her, and then call a cops. 0.99

01:43:33.000 You know, like, what are you gonna do?

01:43:36.000 Two guy me and miss. 1.00

01:43:37.000 And she hits me and shits me. 1.00

01:43:38.000 That's one thing, but she hits you, nigga. 1.00

01:43:41.000 So, anyways, I'm gonna restrain her. 1.00

01:43:41.000 Listen, I ain't no bitch, man. 1.00

01:43:45.000 Because it's like in the day, she's doing this shit right here. 0.99

01:43:45.000 You know what I'm saying? 0.99

01:43:48.000 So fellas, I'm going to be transparent here.

01:43:51.000 I was sitting with a chick for like a week. 0.99

01:43:53.000 I'm not going to hold you, bro.

01:43:55.000 It was tough. 0.91

01:43:57.000 Nigga, it wasn't worth the headache. 1.00

01:43:59.000 And you know what's funny?

01:44:01.000 Like, I thought to myself, maybe fresh, it's time for a girlfriend, bro.

01:44:06.000 Settle down, get out the game, live your life with a girlfriend, travel the world.

01:44:12.000 Kind of just getting her.

01:44:13.000 Well, that last part, but, you know, and I did it for a week. 1.00

01:44:16.000 And I was just like, bro, she's fucking hell on earth, nigga. 1.00

01:44:18.000 Bro, I was so annoyed, bro. 1.00

01:44:21.000 I couldn't breathe.

01:44:23.000 What's she Spanish? 0.99

01:44:24.000 Let a nigga breathe, bro. 1.00

01:44:25.000 She was white Spanish? 1.00

01:44:26.000 She was Swedish.

01:44:28.000 But the police are like, oh.

01:44:30.000 I legit, bro.

01:44:32.000 I think she's super cool, though.

01:44:34.000 But to live for a girl, I can't do it. 1.00

01:44:34.000 Super cool, girl. 1.00

01:44:37.000 I just can't do it.

01:44:38.000 Not to spare her, but like, bro, in essence, what I'm saying is for a guy, for you to thrive and do better in life, you got to have your clear mind and clear, like, living space. 0.99

01:44:48.000 Then after that fact, maybe if you want to the future, but like at the beginning, bro, you can't be doing that shit. 0.66

01:44:53.000 Mind you, though, if I got a girlfriend, though, she's her own apartment. 0.99

01:44:57.000 Because living with a girl, bro, it's a lot. 0.99

01:45:00.000 I mean, do you think it's like more girls in the West?

01:45:03.000 Or, you know, the Eastern girls are like people like girls from the West. 0.74

01:45:07.000 Obviously, so.

01:45:08.000 But I'll say this.

01:45:08.000 Even if it's in the East, bro, you need your space as a man, bro.

01:45:11.000 That is true.

01:45:11.000 Yeah.

01:45:12.000 And I think for a woman too, you need your space too.

01:45:14.000 And then when you want to come together, you come together and make it work.

01:45:14.000 Yeah.

01:45:18.000 So that works for me, but living with a girl, bro, is a headache. 1.00

01:45:20.000 And then all this bullshit might happen. 0.99

01:45:22.000 She might break her stuff, call the cops. 1.00

01:45:23.000 Like, I know a guy is in jail now because his girlfriend lied and said he hit her.

01:45:28.000 He never hit her.

01:45:29.000 He's in jail right now.

01:45:30.000 It's been six months. 1.00

01:45:31.000 My homeboy ex-wife just took his place off his shit. 1.00

01:45:35.000 Oh, gee. 1.00

01:45:36.000 What?

01:45:36.000 My homeboy ex-wife just took his license plate off his car.

01:45:42.000 Mind you, he got a warrant because of the bitch. 1.00

01:45:44.000 Wow. 1.00

01:45:46.000 I swear that that just happened before I came here.

01:45:50.000 But once again, Fresh, that behavior right there, it escalates.

01:45:52.000 And his own way, she woke up and chose violence like that.

01:45:55.000 You know, personally, it's like a guy has to see those signs, those red flags.

01:45:59.000 Yeah.

01:46:00.000 No, no, you're right.

01:46:01.000 It came before.

01:46:02.000 But fellas, if you're single living alone, bro, you're blessed.

01:46:05.000 I'm telling you.

01:46:06.000 There's another video we got here.

01:46:12.000 This one here as well.

01:46:13.000 Woman says she's exposing her boyfriend for being heartless and sensitive because he wants her to give a homeless stray cat a place to live at his house.

01:46:22.000 I made their uncle talks a relationship.

01:46:24.000 That's coming to an end.

01:46:25.000 Thoughts.

01:46:26.000 Play that video, bro.

01:46:27.000 It's just crazy, baby.

01:46:28.000 Not the cat.

01:46:29.000 Bro, I tell her I was leave.

01:46:31.000 She needs a cat. 0.96

01:46:33.000 She gotta go.

01:46:34.000 There we go.

01:46:35.000 Okay.

01:46:36.000 You can't let a nice. 0.96

01:46:38.000 Stop packing stray animals into my house.

01:46:40.000 Oh, okay.

01:46:41.000 A stray animal that came to me and asked me for help.

01:46:44.000 I can't stop bringing straight animals to my house.

01:46:46.000 Okay.

01:46:47.000 Bro in the back yelling.

01:46:50.000 Come on. 1.00

01:46:52.000 If you bring that fucking cat back in, you're going to have some issues, bro. 1.00

01:46:56.000 That cat is an outside cat. 1.00

01:46:58.000 You're not bringing random stray animals to my house. 1.00

01:47:00.000 Bullshit. 1.00

01:47:00.000 Just know. 1.00

01:47:01.000 Real shit. 1.00

01:47:02.000 You bring me back in with us. 1.00

01:47:03.000 Real fucking problem. 0.99

01:47:04.000 Just know that that's messed up. 1.00

01:47:05.000 Real fucking problem. 1.00

01:47:06.000 Okay, you're messed up. 1.00

01:47:07.000 Leave the house, bitch, too. 1.00

01:47:09.000 You go with him. 1.00

01:47:09.000 Puff. 1.00

01:47:11.000 So I met a girl one time, and she was like, do you have any pets?

01:47:14.000 I was like, yeah, my dog Hiro.

01:47:15.000 He's right here.

01:47:16.000 I love my dog.

01:47:17.000 He's amazing.

01:47:18.000 He's like, I have four.

01:47:19.000 I'm like, nigga, what? 0.80

01:47:21.000 Four? 0.66

01:47:22.000 Two cats and two dogs.

01:47:23.000 I'm like, where do they stay?

01:47:24.000 Oh, in my crib.

01:47:25.000 And I thought to myself, I might as well live with her, bro.

01:47:28.000 Oh, my God. 0.99

01:47:28.000 I could barely do with one dog, nigga. 0.99

01:47:30.000 Four? 0.89

01:47:31.000 Bro, please.

01:47:33.000 But getting strays in your crib, bro, that's insane.

01:47:35.000 But let's continue.

01:47:36.000 That's wild.

01:47:37.000 Mind you, he's paying the rent.

01:47:40.000 Yeah, he's at my house, yeah.

01:47:42.000 I know.

01:47:43.000 Look how amazing he is.

01:47:45.000 Oh, my gosh.

01:47:45.000 That voice, man.

01:47:46.000 Tell me crazy. 1.00

01:47:47.000 That motherfucker is crazy. 1.00

01:47:48.000 He's so crazy. 1.00

01:47:49.000 That got crazy. 0.98

01:47:51.000 Both of them crazy. 0.99

01:47:54.000 What the nigga got. 1.00

01:47:55.000 Oh, now that I went outside, but no herbies. 0.98

01:48:00.000 She seems like she's trying to save the cow, like save the world.

01:48:03.000 No, she's trying to save herself.

01:48:05.000 Literally.

01:48:06.000 She asked me.

01:48:06.000 She's shrinking the apartment number.

01:48:08.000 Like, she's wild.

01:48:08.000 That's wild.

01:48:09.000 Recording her. 0.99

01:48:11.000 No, show me what you gotta do because niggas be crazy. 1.00

01:48:11.000 Okay, well, he's not. 1.00

01:48:14.000 Because you will only be here for a day.

01:48:15.000 I will find no.

01:48:17.000 I need him gone. 1.00

01:48:18.000 I don't want a brand new cat in my fucking house. 1.00

01:48:21.000 Look how nice he is. 1.00

01:48:23.000 She's like, that's not peace like that.

01:48:24.000 For a day?

01:48:26.000 That's not my brain.

01:48:28.000 No one's gonna use it.

01:48:29.000 That's not peace.

01:48:30.000 We're not used to it. 0.74

01:48:31.000 We're not a piece of these boars.

01:48:33.000 But, you know, like, you see how nicely she's like talking to him, right?

01:48:37.000 He's saying no.

01:48:38.000 Oh, no, but, baby, yeah, yeah, no, no, no.

01:48:40.000 She keeps on.

01:48:41.000 If ladies, ladies watching, if a guy tells you no, no, ask one more time for sure. 1.00

01:48:46.000 That's fine.

01:48:47.000 Right? 0.99

01:48:48.000 But then if it says no again, just touch the fuck up and walk away, all right? 0.99

01:48:51.000 Yo, tell us in the chat. 0.99

01:48:52.000 If that's your crib, we telling the girl, bro, can you stay? 0.94

01:48:56.000 Because, nigga, she's gone, bro. 1.00

01:48:56.000 Can she leave? 1.00

01:48:58.000 Off my crib, bro.

01:48:59.000 No facts.

01:49:00.000 Yeah.

01:49:00.000 There's no way, bro.

01:49:01.000 No vex.

01:49:02.000 So she's recording, acting like a kid and egging him on to talk more.

01:49:08.000 On camera.

01:49:08.000 Yeah.

01:49:09.000 Yeah, she's purpose. 1.00

01:49:10.000 Yeah, she's fucked up. 1.00

01:49:11.000 It's red flat, crimson. 1.00

01:49:12.000 Yeah, recording it is kind of just trying to weapons.

01:49:14.000 She's wearing her birthday.

01:49:16.000 She's just trying to make him look like a bad person, and she's recording him in like a moment of stress when he's in his.

01:49:20.000 Hold on, ladies. 1.00

01:49:21.000 You know what happens?

01:49:22.000 But everything's fighting and dandy.

01:49:23.000 You're happy with the guy.

01:49:24.000 You never do this to a guy.

01:49:25.000 Right.

01:49:26.000 When you're upset, you're emotional. 1.00

01:49:28.000 Fuck this nigga. 1.00

01:49:28.000 I'm about to expose him and blow the spot up. 1.00

01:49:30.000 It happens all the time.

01:49:31.000 That's a certain type of women. 1.00

01:49:33.000 That's not all women. 1.00

01:49:35.000 I'm used to the 70% of them.

01:49:38.000 I'm the 30%.

01:49:39.000 I'm the 30s liar. 1.00

01:49:44.000 70% of them bitches is like that. 1.00

01:49:46.000 Them dumbass bitches. 1.00

01:49:48.000 The bitch didn't even come right here. 1.00

01:49:50.000 The bitch did it in your birthday. 1.00

01:49:52.000 How she let her get in. 1.00

01:49:54.000 And she ain't even brushed her ass. 0.99

01:49:56.000 She ain't even trying to take the pet to the thing. 1.00

01:49:59.000 If the bitch wanted a pet, she should have said, Hey, babe, can we get a pet? 1.00

01:50:02.000 Let's pick out a pet. 1.00

01:50:03.000 Bitch trying to get astray. 1.00

01:50:05.000 We got one more question. 1.00

01:50:08.000 All right, so we'll stop it here.

01:50:09.000 Okay, so fellas, this one here, we played it on Thriller Fight Podcast yesterday.

01:50:14.000 But ladies, watch this video. 1.00

01:50:17.000 You tell me your honest god truth about this.

01:50:19.000 Not Jews. 1.00

01:50:20.000 Jewski? 0.99

01:50:21.000 This is bad.

01:50:22.000 Oh my gosh.

01:50:22.000 Really bad.

01:50:23.000 Let's play it.

01:50:24.000 I've been sitting in this car.

01:50:25.000 Can you hear it?

01:50:28.000 My headphones are good.

01:50:29.000 Just put it close to like.

01:50:30.000 Yeah.

01:50:31.000 Hers.

01:50:31.000 Yeah.

01:50:34.000 Bro, I've been sitting in this car for about two hours now.

01:50:38.000 Because I refuse to go inside and be with my wife.

01:50:42.000 Like, I hate her that much.

01:50:44.000 The only reason why I'm with her is because I'm broke and I don't have nowhere else to go.

01:50:49.000 Like, I can't afford to rent on my own.

01:50:51.000 And she makes more money than me. 1.00

01:50:53.000 So, I mean, if I was to get a good job tomorrow, I'd be gone just like that.

01:50:59.000 All you gotta do is the woman I really want. 0.99

01:51:02.000 But I can't afford the woman I want, so I gotta settle for her. 1.00

01:51:05.000 Literally.

01:51:07.000 If we're being honest, I think I'm doing her a favor.

01:51:10.000 Because she got low self-esteem anyway, and she's bad built. 1.00

01:51:13.000 So she's been lucky that I'm with her, if that makes sense.

01:51:18.000 So I don't feel guilty about it, but I mean, you know, some gotta give because I can't keep doing this.

01:51:25.000 Like, I could be with somebody I really want, but I refuse to do more, you know?

01:51:30.000 I'm kind of comfortable with being nothing.

01:51:32.000 He has to be charged.

01:51:33.000 Bro, no, most guys actually do that.

01:51:36.000 That's how they treat me.

01:51:37.000 He's gotta be charged.

01:51:38.000 Most guys do that.

01:51:39.000 He left for it, still in his car.

01:51:42.000 He dropped my drink and doesn't want to.

01:51:44.000 That's right.

01:51:46.000 Because of he hates his wife. 1.00

01:51:48.000 Because he's a little gay. 1.00

01:51:49.000 No, he's broke. 0.97

01:51:51.000 Let's start here.

01:51:52.000 What's his issue?

01:51:54.000 What can he do?

01:51:56.000 Oh, no.

01:51:58.000 I mean, he stated his issue.

01:52:00.000 He said it was financial.

01:52:01.000 So, what can he do?

01:52:02.000 He needs to get a better job and strive for a life that he actually wants.

01:52:08.000 Love himself better.

01:52:09.000 Yeah, love himself more.

01:52:11.000 And that's loving himself more would be get a better job.

01:52:14.000 Get a better beach.

01:52:15.000 Would you ever date a man like this?

01:52:17.000 No, that's all I get.

01:52:19.000 No.

01:52:19.000 That's all I get.

01:52:20.000 It's crazy.

01:52:20.000 That's crazy.

01:52:21.000 Tired.

01:52:22.000 But you have in the past, all right?

01:52:24.000 Yeah.

01:52:25.000 In the past.

01:52:26.000 Yeah, a guy who makes a million die.

01:52:29.000 I mean, my baby daddy, he was an exception at that time.

01:52:34.000 Like, I was younger.

01:52:36.000 I wasn't a logical, as logical thinker.

01:52:39.000 Yeah.

01:52:41.000 How old was you when you was in him?

01:52:42.000 29.

01:52:43.000 Oh, okay.

01:52:43.000 29, you know.

01:52:44.000 I know.

01:52:44.000 That's still grown.

01:52:45.000 That's still grown.

01:52:46.000 But out 29 was.

01:52:48.000 It's just a Gen Z thing.

01:52:49.000 I'm 22, so that's why I'm like, wait, no.

01:52:52.000 I do.

01:52:52.000 I was.

01:52:53.000 I'm a millennial.

01:52:54.000 I'm cool.

01:52:55.000 But I mean, I do.

01:52:57.000 We do have the right to change our minds and like make better choices as we get.

01:53:04.000 You made a better choice.

01:53:05.000 You got you a man now.

01:53:06.000 So baby daddy.

01:53:08.000 And then new man now.

01:53:09.000 Yes.

01:53:10.000 But you're happier now.

01:53:12.000 Oh, most definitely.

01:53:13.000 But that's because I've made changes within myself.

01:53:16.000 Yeah.

01:53:16.000 Okay.

01:53:17.000 So, okay, ladies, that man you see on the screen, you won't date him, right?

01:53:21.000 No.

01:53:22.000 But you've all dated men that were not up to par at some point.

01:53:25.000 Yeah.

01:53:26.000 Now, obviously, you learn from your mistakes.

01:53:28.000 You move forward.

01:53:29.000 But you know what's crazy?

01:53:30.000 He's married to somebody and he's stuck.

01:53:32.000 Right.

01:53:32.000 Fellas.

01:53:33.000 Oh, that could be you.

01:53:34.000 He's married.

01:53:35.000 He's married to the woman, yeah.

01:53:36.000 So the issues that, like, when you marry somebody and you're not financially well and you're not stable, this could be you.

01:53:36.000 Right.

01:53:43.000 Because remember, now you're under her.

01:53:45.000 Because remember, she's making more money than you. 1.00

01:53:47.000 That's a boss.

01:53:48.000 It's 50-50.

01:53:49.000 But on his end, it's like 40-60.

01:53:52.000 It's emotionally emotionally more than physically.

01:53:56.000 Because he can't be a man, bro. 1.00

01:53:57.000 He has no balls. 1.00

01:53:58.000 Because he's stuck there. 1.00

01:53:59.000 Emotionally, he's fucked up. 1.00

01:54:02.000 Fresh, would you say he's stuck or he feels stuck? 1.00

01:54:05.000 He's stuck mentally.

01:54:05.000 No, no.

01:54:07.000 Right.

01:54:07.000 Yeah.

01:54:08.000 He's frustrated.

01:54:09.000 He's making the video.

01:54:10.000 But my point is, he can make a change today if he wanted to.

01:54:13.000 But when he says in the video, he doesn't want to make a change.

01:54:15.000 You know.

01:54:16.000 He's doing some stuff.

01:54:17.000 He doesn't want to improve.

01:54:18.000 No ambition.

01:54:20.000 That's bad because as a guy, with no ambition and drive, what do you really have?

01:54:23.000 Nothing.

01:54:23.000 Right.

01:54:24.000 So he's stuck with this chick.

01:54:24.000 Yeah.

01:54:26.000 He doesn't like in a house, he doesn't like going to work in a job. 1.00

01:54:30.000 Yeah, light as fuck, bro. 0.99

01:54:30.000 He doesn't like. 0.99

01:54:32.000 So, as a man, you got to make the choice to say, you know what? 1.00

01:54:34.000 I'm tired of this bullshit. 0.99

01:54:35.000 I want to change how to make it happen? 1.00

01:54:37.000 My first job here was Chick-fil-a.

01:54:38.000 Think about it, 12 years ago, Chick-fil-a I was working at.

01:54:42.000 From there to here is impossible right yeah, but I want to make a change.

01:54:46.000 You made it happen.

01:54:47.000 So I see, like most guys nowadays, they don't see there's a light in a tunnel, but there is.

01:54:52.000 No matter how you want to look at it, you can make a way out.

01:54:55.000 Um okay, we got my chat, by the way.

01:54:58.000 So, ladies, real quick, we'll do last thoughts and questions for me or Chris.

01:55:02.000 Anybody?

01:55:04.000 Yeah, what?

01:55:06.000 And can you show the screen, please, Phil?

01:55:08.000 What?

01:55:09.000 By the way, guys, Chris is sick.

01:55:11.000 We still made a show.

01:55:11.000 I'm sick as well.

01:55:12.000 The ladies came as well. 0.89

01:55:13.000 Shout out to Lady Devil. 1.00

01:55:13.000 We do drink tea. 1.00

01:55:15.000 Yeah, we got some tea on the way.

01:55:16.000 Yeah.

01:55:17.000 I have a vertical, vertical.

01:55:20.000 What's this one?

01:55:22.000 Oh, cool.

01:55:23.000 But you know, it just stopped because, like, that guy in the video, bro, it's like, that's a lot.

01:55:28.000 Guys, know it is, bro.

01:55:28.000 It's different.

01:55:29.000 Sexy marriage.

01:55:30.000 Tired.

01:55:32.000 You see, like, what, like, you know, like, most guys don't know how to get out of that lifestyle because like all they know is like poverty, you know, like the lower cap, the lower class.

01:55:40.000 Like, I grew up in the hood.

01:55:41.000 You know, like, lots of people think like that.

01:55:43.000 And they think it's average.

01:55:45.000 So, but once I went out of that lifestyle, then I started to pay around myself while people actually make money successful and stuff like that.

01:55:52.000 I've gotten better in my lifestyle too.

01:55:54.000 So, you know, sometimes guys like him see things as average.

01:55:57.000 It's cool, but before you know it, you end up in Brickle, social media. 0.99

01:56:02.000 It's one of those things where it's like, damn, that's crazy. 0.99

01:56:05.000 So. 0.99

01:56:06.000 All right, we got here Eastside Dumbbell, like that name.

01:56:09.000 Rating from the Extra Dark Knight.

01:56:10.000 Thank you, brother.

01:56:11.000 Gorlock, negative one.

01:56:15.000 Loud Grown Arby's Roast Beef Sandwich 3. 1.00

01:56:18.000 God damn. 1.00

01:56:19.000 Damn. 1.00

01:56:20.000 Is it because I'm death? 0.99

01:56:22.000 Definite Adam's Apple Surgery Negative One.

01:56:25.000 What that post to me, right?

01:56:27.000 Your man.

01:56:28.000 Permanent onions and curry surgery.

01:56:28.000 Yeah, mom's.

01:56:30.000 Your mom's two. 0.55

01:56:32.000 No, Jay.

01:56:32.000 You smell like curry?

01:56:33.000 No, because I'm thinking of it.

01:56:34.000 You want to sniff me?

01:56:36.000 I think it's his mama.

01:56:37.000 They look like a man. 0.73

01:56:39.000 Some people sneak curry fresh.

01:56:40.000 Or maybe he never had a dad.

01:56:42.000 It's never that deep.

01:56:45.000 That should have been on camera.

01:56:46.000 She smelled out of curry.

01:56:48.000 I missed you.

01:56:49.000 I mean, it's off-camera right now.

01:56:50.000 It's off-camera.

01:56:52.000 Oh, my.

01:56:56.000 Show them leg tattoos, fresh.

01:56:58.000 It smells like...

01:56:59.000 it smells like...

01:57:00.000 It smells like curry.

01:57:01.000 It's not curry, it's...

01:57:01.000 It smells like roti.

01:57:04.000 What?

01:57:05.000 Niggas are just rotating. 1.00

01:57:10.000 By the way, come again.

01:57:11.000 No, but honestly, guys, like, I'll say this.

01:57:14.000 It smells good.

01:57:16.000 But nonetheless, though, man, permanent onions of curry is crazy, bro.

01:57:20.000 All right, cool.

01:57:21.000 What's the next one?

01:57:22.000 Flash chat?

01:57:23.000 All right.

01:57:23.000 We'll start here.

01:57:24.000 Thoughts on the show?

01:57:25.000 Hit it, love it.

01:57:26.000 And any questions at all?

01:57:30.000 Okay, I loved this episode.

01:57:33.000 Let's go.

01:57:34.000 I felt like...

01:57:35.000 Yes, I felt comfortable.

01:57:37.000 It was...

01:57:38.000 It was great to give my own opinions and to hear other women's opinions as well.

01:57:43.000 And your opinions as well.

01:57:46.000 Fresh and Chris.

01:57:47.000 So thank you for having me.

01:57:48.000 I just had an idea.

01:57:49.000 What if we did a vlog date, Miss India, for Korean rotis? 0.76

01:57:55.000 It's Miss Korean rotis. 0.99

01:57:56.000 See, I like that.

01:57:59.000 Okay, we might do one of those streams.

01:58:01.000 I might do a stream for that.

01:58:02.000 Okay.

01:58:02.000 Chat, new name.

01:58:03.000 Cheese on bread.

01:58:04.000 What about you?

01:58:06.000 I enjoyed it.

01:58:06.000 I feel like we all were pretty much as respectful as we could possibly be.

01:58:10.000 I feel like, you know, it's jokes. 0.99

01:58:12.000 It's all for shits and gigs. 0.98

01:58:14.000 Like, it's not that serious. 0.99

01:58:15.000 Should it be taken that serious?

01:58:17.000 But I feel like a lot of things that were talked about are like topics that are ongoing.

01:58:20.000 And I feel like the chat also has their opinions.

01:58:22.000 So they're funny.

01:58:24.000 I'm not going to give them that.

01:58:25.000 They're funny.

01:58:25.000 Listen, the chat's undefeated.

01:58:27.000 They roast me.

01:58:27.000 They roast Chris.

01:58:28.000 There was everybody.

01:58:29.000 But you know what it is?

01:58:30.000 They're funny, though. 0.97

01:58:31.000 They have good ass comebacks. 1.00

01:58:32.000 I'll give them that. 0.84

01:58:33.000 I think, even if I look at it from the standpoint of bad, it's good because, dude, they support us.

01:58:39.000 Yeah, they're supporting you.

01:58:40.000 They watch the show and, like, we can't stop, bro.

01:58:43.000 Them niggas are like family. 0.98

01:58:44.000 We can't stop.

01:58:44.000 So, like, you know what I'm saying?

01:58:47.000 But I love you, chat.

01:58:48.000 Awesome.

01:58:48.000 What about you?

01:58:49.000 Yeah, it is.

01:58:50.000 It's rapture voice. 1.00

01:58:51.000 This real shit. 1.00

01:58:52.000 What's gone? 1.00

01:58:54.000 Not for this. 1.00

01:58:57.000 We'll beat his ass after the show. 1.00

01:58:58.000 Beat his ass. 1.00

01:58:59.000 No, that's how he's set up. 1.00

01:59:01.000 But that's, I feel like I fuck with it. 0.99

01:59:03.000 You feel me? 0.99

01:59:04.000 Like, as long as it's real, as long as y'all not fake kicking it, as long as y'all rage baiting us, y'all just being who y'all is, we as women supposed to adapt to the situation regardless.

01:59:13.000 You feel me?

01:59:13.000 And I feel like a lot of times with this type of podcast, women get out their body because they get triggered.

01:59:19.000 Yeah.

01:59:20.000 When all time I'm a trigger, so what y'all really, you know what I mean?

01:59:22.000 I mean, we got some understanding here, so you did a good job.

01:59:26.000 What about you?

01:59:27.000 Honestly, I think this is chill. 1.00

01:59:29.000 From the freshman shit that I've seen beforehand, y'all be raging, raging them women. 1.00

01:59:35.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:59:35.000 I mean, tell them the facts, tell them they don't like it, and they get in their emotional stuff. 1.00

01:59:43.000 Hey, listen, I went crazy.

01:59:46.000 Well, he's sick, so you know what I'm saying?

01:59:47.000 I'm sick too, but either way, we had a good time.

01:59:49.000 Oh, because y'all sick we didn't cry tonight.

01:59:51.000 No, no, no, no.

01:59:52.000 Today's a chill song.

01:59:53.000 Today we'll take a show.

01:59:54.000 Next.

01:59:56.000 With the two guests we got next week, guys, it's going to be insane.

01:59:59.000 We got some big guests next week.

02:00:00.000 I mean, Chris knows.

02:00:01.000 I know.

02:00:02.000 You want to tell them right now?

02:00:03.000 Because it's wordless.

02:00:08.000 Nah.

02:00:09.000 I can't say it right now.

02:00:10.000 Oh, don't say it right now.

02:00:12.000 Fellas.

02:00:12.000 Just be here Monday, ready to go for Castle Club pre-stream.

02:00:17.000 You're going to be surprised. 0.99

02:00:18.000 I'm telling you, you're going to be happy as fuck. 0.96

02:00:21.000 It's going to be a W stream, a lot of views. 0.99

02:00:23.000 Viral again.

02:00:24.000 It's going to be insane.

02:00:25.000 This year we're taking over.

02:00:27.000 And last but not least, man, shout out to Icy, Melissa, Bills, and Mo for coming through on Friday.

02:00:33.000 Have a have a good weekend.

02:00:34.000 And happy New Year, guys.

02:00:35.000 Once again, we're out.

Fresh & Fit - January 17, 2026

Should Men and Women Live Together in 2026?

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