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00:02:35.000Ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, and we'll start right here.
00:09:02.000It didn't end it, but this show definitely showed me a lot about...
00:09:05.000It gave me a much better understanding about relationships, male and female dynamics, and exactly what those roles are and how they need to be fulfilled.
00:09:13.000And I definitely did the best to do my part in.
00:11:14.000What kind of law are you looking to get into?
00:11:16.000I plan on going into entertainment and sports, specifically talent representation, more so in music, but eventually across all areas, like sports, TV, film, music, influencers, all that type of stuff.
00:14:10.000So, guys, what we'll do is we got 12,000 of y'all in here, so what I'll do is I'm going to read the chats that came in from before, but from this point forward, we'll go 50 and up.
00:14:50.000Would you guys date a man that said he would never live with you, but instead wanted to live with all of his boys instead?
00:14:56.000Damn, long term, but he tells you, I'm never going to live with you, you can have sleepovers and stuff, but we're never going to live together.
00:15:01.000But he's like a cool guy otherwise, I'm just curious.
00:15:03.000I have a follow-up question after we go answer this one.
00:16:16.000It depends on the definition of dating, but me personally, I had a bad experience living with a guy that I was dating, so I personally would not do it again.
00:19:35.000Well, so there wasn't one that was okay with that, but the living with high-value man thing, which you were kind of insinuating is gay, that men want to live with other men.
00:20:55.000Because you didn't ask for more detail.
00:20:56.000But that would be the strategy in that situation where like if you have a family and it's serious, yes, you have a house for her and the children.
00:21:02.000You come in periodically and do what you need to do.
00:21:04.000You obviously support the family because I think the man should be the breadwinner.
00:21:07.000But you have another address that you actually stay at because I think living with a woman does make you soft as a man.
00:21:12.000But when you're gonna get to your other address, you're gonna like, it's sketchy, it's weird.
00:21:18.000Well, there's a couple of reasons for that, and I'd be happy to go into it if you guys want me to, but before I do, did you guys have anything on that situation with the whole penis licking and...
00:22:21.000If you could pick and choose when to spend time, that means that the time you spend together is going to be ultra quality because you want to show your best self.
00:22:39.000Why would you give up the honeymoon phase?
00:22:41.000You should try to upkeep that as much as possible.
00:22:43.000If you can upkeep that 30 years down the line, that's going to be a happier marriage than two people who are just annoyed by their presence.
00:22:49.000I think you necessarily have to be annoyed with the person.
00:22:53.000I was in a relationship for eight years, and six years I was living with my men.
00:22:58.000And sometimes, yeah, we were all of each other's faces, and it was annoying, but most of the times we get to know each other, like our default, like...
00:23:24.000But when you live with somebody, like you said, like outside of all the flashy cologne and the dresses and everything, you can see who the person really is.
00:23:30.000And if you want to fall in love with somebody, But here's the thing, you are living with her for a period of time, it's just that it's segmented.
00:23:35.000It's like, okay, three days I spent with her, boom, now I'm going to go home and have my space.
00:23:39.000You are living with her and seeing that side, it might take you, you know, you would have been able to find maybe certain things in, you know, two months that you would have taken you maybe seven or eight months living together every single day, but you still find these straights out and still get to know the person.
00:23:49.000But the main reason why I say guys need to live in a separate location isn't necessarily for the woman, it's for the guy.
00:23:56.000Yeah, but when I find a woman that, like, synergizes with you, that can help you, that can build you up, but you guys work as a partner, as a team, and she's going to drag you down.
00:24:06.000You guys can do health stuff together, you can do meals together, you can go out and have fun together, you can watch TV shows together, you can work on projects together.
00:24:29.000So, because you guys keep looking at it from a female perspective, right?
00:24:33.000Of like, hey, I get to be on my man, etc.
00:24:35.000And you guys are looking at it from there.
00:24:36.000But the reason why I'm saying, and I'm advising men, by the way, why they shouldn't do it is because men typically become lazy when they live with their girl.
00:24:43.000And what I mean by that is they don't have the same sharpness that they used to have when they attracted the girl in the first place.
00:24:48.000They're not as diligent about the gym a lot of the times.
00:25:04.000Let's watch a movie, blah, blah, blah.
00:25:05.000So I don't want guys, right, to live in an environment that's too comfortable, right, aka their girl, and get soft.
00:25:12.000I want guys to stay sharp, to be the man that she fell in love with in the first place.
00:25:15.000And you're going to maintain that edge and that sharpness by not living with her.
00:25:19.000Not only would I disagree, I would actually use a stat earlier, actually, that I think actually contradicts that.
00:25:23.000I think in some ways women can keep men sharper.
00:25:25.000One of the things you brought up that was only one of the points that was true about men doing worse after divorce is that when men get married through all facets of life, they tend to commit less crime.
00:25:34.000And as soon as a man gets divorced, the likelihood for him to do more crime starts to increase again because he doesn't have anybody like a stable environment holding him down.
00:25:40.000That's why you should have good friends around you.
00:25:50.000Now, if you're dating a man, it might be like that.
00:25:52.000But the relationship that you have, the relationship that you have with a woman when you're dating a woman is different than the relationship you have with your bros when you're with bros.
00:25:58.000Your woman should be arguably more invested with you and in you than any of your guy friends are because they don't have They're not building a life with you.
00:26:37.000Once you're married and you have children and you're building a family dynamic, do I want my husband going in and out my kids' lives because he needs space for three days?
00:27:37.000You don't tell them he lives in a separate house.
00:27:38.000Why would you lie to your kids about your dad having to leave the house because he just needs three days of space for mom every week?
00:27:44.000I mean, if your kids are four years old and they hear you upstairs, you know, doing what adults do, are you going to tell them, oh, yeah, we were fucking.
00:27:59.000Like if your guy's leaving for three or four days at a time and then he comes back and sees you, like, I can't see any long term relationship ever working out that way.
00:28:07.000You're looking at it in a monogamous sense.
00:28:08.000This is the best way that a man is going to be able to upkeep his masculinity.
00:28:29.000Okay, but they agree with your relationship ideas, but they don't agree with you.
00:28:31.000Number two, the way you guys describe things is like doing fun things to do significant others, being feminine, is like, again, the gayest shit I've ever heard in my life.
00:28:38.000Why would spending time with your girlfriend or wife be feminine?
00:28:42.000You can spend time with, but I want to do things that are actually fun to me.
00:31:17.000You can be together in a house and not be crowding each other all the time.
00:31:20.000There are a lot of times where Mel is at her corner of the house and I'm at my corner of the house doing emails, doing work, and she's working on her fucking Instagram and shit.
00:31:25.000There are times when we're working on different things.
00:32:00.000A woman's imagination is your best friend.
00:32:02.000Being too available, her being able to see what you're doing all the time, it makes you less attractive to her because men and women are different.
00:32:09.000Let me just finish that point real quick.
00:32:10.000Like women need to feel like they're getting the best man that they can get and they can't have them all the time.
00:32:14.000It sucks, but that's a necessary component for women to be attracted and aroused by you.
00:32:18.000So again, I get where you guys are saying like, hey, for the relationship, what the girl wants, blah, blah, blah.
00:32:22.000But I'm speaking from the male perspective, how you maintain attraction in the relationship is to not always be available.
00:32:27.000And that's the other biggest thing too, is when she doesn't know where you're at all the time, it has her mind racing, which is to your benefit.
00:32:32.000You say that, and I think in some really weird hyper red pill world that might be true with some women, but the reality is, listen, you thought you were a fucking federal investigator?
00:32:41.000A woman that is suspicious is the most keen, crazy fucking investigator of the world.
00:32:45.000She's going to be driving outside your apartment.
00:32:46.000She's going to have a second cell phone with a SIM card.
00:32:49.000Why the fuck would you want a relationship like that?
00:33:07.000When women are chasing your validation and they're stalking you and you're making all these investments, that means they, number one, love you.
00:33:13.000And number three, they're less likely to do bullshit and go off with another guy because she's too busy chasing your validation.
00:33:17.000Yeah, but then you're going to be like DJing in the lobby with a girl and hitting another girl like, hey, Matt, you're talking to somebody.
00:40:24.000Okay, so I get what you guys are saying definitely makes sense.
00:40:27.000Like, when you separate with someone, when you're in the heat of an argument, then that can diffuse things, and it can also cause you to not pedestalize your woman.
00:40:34.000But should we really be doing that and making these ridiculous...
00:40:38.000We need to live separately versus just learning how to personally develop ourselves to have these conversations in our relationships and actually work through these hardships and difficult times versus needing to literally vacate and go to a whole separate place just to diffuse the tension.
00:40:53.000Isn't this something that we can learn intrinsically just one-on-one in relationships?
00:40:57.000A lot of those conversations are just for the women.
00:41:00.000It's for women to talk it out because she's feeling emotional so that you can bring the man down to an emotional level.
00:41:31.000I want to be able to talk to my woman, but a lot of those conversations that you're talking about where you need to get to know them all the time, you want to see the good and the bad.
00:43:15.000Sometimes you develop self-sabotaging behavior and you become aware of it and you try to heal and grow and learn.
00:43:23.000So now the next time that she comes into a serious relationship, she'll be more aware of those things that trigger her and she'll be able to better move through those feelings.
00:43:50.000The bottom line is that I will have my dating preferences and I will have my standards and I will have my expectations.
00:43:56.000And the girl next to me might have completely different ones.
00:43:58.000You might have completely different ones.
00:44:00.000We don't need to compare and contrast.
00:44:02.000I'm going to look for somebody that aligns with my sets.
00:44:05.000Whatever they are, you're going to look for somebody that aligns with yours, and we're both going to live full, happy lives.
00:44:12.000The debate and the argument of you trying to get people to agree, what we're trying to agree on is not going to ever be agreeable because we're all different people.
00:44:22.000So it's like you're applying universal thinking to different people.
00:44:25.000Yeah, but there are things that women are universally attracted to and not being available is definitely one of them.
00:44:30.000There is a difference, real quick, there is a difference between like when you open a relationship versus like when you're married, right?
00:44:37.000Like if you're, for instance, if you're like just getting to know a girl, even all agree that there are certain things you could keep in mind.
00:44:41.000So for instance, not responding to her text immediately or some shit like that.
00:44:44.000There are some games you could play that might be understandable to make it so more desirable.
00:44:47.000But at this point, like if I text my wife or she texts me, we have to respond instantly.
00:44:50.000Why the fuck are we playing games with each other?
00:44:53.000You gotta keep playing the game even when you're in the relationship with a girl because the thing with women is that they're emotional creatures.
00:45:08.000You gotta constantly stimulate their emotions.
00:45:57.000What I'm trying to say is that Women want the game, so you have to play the game.
00:46:01.000So the thing is that you've got to play the game better than them.
00:46:03.000And the big part to play the game is to maintain and leverage, make sure she likes you more than you like her, and make sure that you stay attractive.
00:46:08.000But staying attractive a lot of times comes in from not always being available.
00:46:11.000Okay, can I ask one question and I'll give you all the floor.
00:46:31.000I've never heard somebody say, yeah, like, my boyfriend, he didn't text me back for like three days, and that was just like the best thing.
00:47:44.000If you respect somebody, it doesn't matter how crazy you get, you get in your emotions, you aren't going to just pull up to their fucking house unannounced without their permission because you're going to know he's not going to tolerate that.
00:49:41.000Oh, well, you're in a relationship, etc.
00:49:43.000You still have to play the game when you're with your wife.
00:49:44.000I think the goal is that if you're with a person, you enjoy giving them the time, the attention, the resources, because it makes both of you happy.
00:49:50.000But if you give it to them in an abundant fashion, they don't respect it anymore.
00:49:53.000And here's the thing, dude, I wish it wasn't like that, but women don't respect you when they have leverage.
00:49:57.000I think when you're selecting for crazy women like this, maybe, but for most women, I think they want you to want to spend time and attention and resources on it.
00:50:03.000To get the best out of your girl, where she's super loyal to you, she's not doing anything else on the side, she fucking only loves and mirrors, respects you, there's no fuck shit, and she stays loyal to you, you must have the leverage as the man.
00:50:14.000She must have the fear of God that if you leave her, her life is going to suck significantly more.
00:51:00.000I'm genuinely curious, Myron, because I saw a little clip of yours that went through, and I'm wondering if maybe where it's getting tripped up is that we're talking about normal people's perception of dating versus you guys are trying to instill the high-value perspective, right?
00:51:14.000One of the clips I saw you basically said that you should never actually fall in love with your woman.
00:51:32.000She's your everything where you give everything away to her because then you end up living with her for eight years and then she talks about triggering and trauma and she'll end the relationship for no reason.
00:51:40.000You can invest everything into a relationship but that's not inherently what women want.
00:51:45.000Women want to constantly try to chase your validation.
00:52:11.000Alright, so I think she asked me, but it's okay.
00:52:15.000My thing is, I say, you don't fall in love with a woman, you have love for a woman.
00:52:18.000And the reason why I say you don't fall in love is because when a man falls in love, what ends up happening is the rational thought is gone.
00:52:30.000Men need to be in a rational mindset at all times, even when dealing with their girl.
00:52:33.000Because the thing is that when you're with a girl and she does stupid shit or pisses you off or she disobeys you or whatever, you need to be in the rational frame to be like, that wasn't acceptable behavior.
00:55:05.000Can I just, on that note, I think it's this ideology that if you live with your woman, you suddenly have no other outside life and your lives just completely merged together.
00:55:14.000Both parties should still be independent.
00:55:37.000When you live together with a partner, unless you're literally in New York City in a box with each other, you have different parts of the house you hang out in.
00:55:45.000Just because you're living together doesn't mean you spend every waking moment together.
00:56:30.000But I mean, I see you're saying we're failing to understand something and other women are just disagreeing and expressing that we're attracted to other things and maybe we fall in this exception.
00:56:42.000What women say they're attracted to and what they're aroused by two different things women typically get politically correct answers when it comes to what they're attracted to They will never say the truth about I like you to spank me and you know pull my hair.
00:56:51.000I want you to choke me Oh, I want you to take Normie.
00:56:54.000I want you to have other women so that I feel like I'm the one being picked versus that.
00:56:57.000Women will never actually admit what they're really attracted to and what they're aroused by.
00:57:01.000You can say that, but you're never going to find women outside of these very hyper-niche red pill spaces that are like, oh yeah, I found a really good guy.
00:57:07.000He leaves like half the week every week.
00:58:01.000Psychologically, what I'm saying doesn't make sense because it's a big difference between my man wants to go somewhere for a week because he's got responsibilities or whatever versus I'm putting four days of space between us because I've decided that's what I need to do to make you like me.
00:59:40.000And if a man can't handle that, that's tough.
00:59:43.000You see the way you're entering the relationship is like, oh, if you're a bitch about it, then I'm like, okay, but it's going to be harder for you to fall in line and be in a relationship than it is for a submissive woman.
01:02:11.000Having that male camaraderie around you is how a man stays on his tip-top shape, and that's in his happiest place.
01:02:17.000I know that you're trying to call it effeminate and gay, that men want to live together, but having that around you, having that male space around you is extremely important.
01:02:24.000Also, why are there so many sexist marriages, ladies?
01:02:45.000Well, y'all have sex a lot, but the reality is a lot of y'all can't even last long or actually have sex more than two to three times because your dicks get sore or sensitive.
01:07:35.000We don't want to have you telling us what to do and you don't want to be the one telling us what to do.
01:07:38.000It's better to hear that advice from other guys who are on the same level.
01:07:41.000If you are the one that's going to have to tell me the relationship is going to fail, you're going to become unattracted, it's going to be losery.
01:07:46.000Imagine you telling me, do 10 push-ups.
01:07:49.000And you're screaming at me, do 10 push-ups.
01:07:50.000But you know, in a relationship, sometimes you do stuff that you don't want to do because that's compromise.
01:08:23.000There are some things in life that you take a step back from because denying yourself certain pleasures, part of that journey of being a virtuous person is saying, I don't need everything in life.
01:08:31.000And sometimes there's a little bit of like growth in the struggle.
01:08:33.000Couldn't you argue the same thing exists in relationships?
01:08:35.000There is some compromise of love, but the reason why you compromise is because ultimately you're building something that's better than what you would have had, just chasing, I guess, girls on your own.
01:08:41.000If you want to bring the Quran up, the Quran really values the differences between masculinity and femininity.
01:10:39.000Okay, but this is why like all these women today don't want to date these men is because they believe shit like this.
01:10:44.000Like most people aren't looking to be...
01:10:48.000When you're talking to women that are getting degrees and are fucking lawyers and shit, they're not out here looking for a guy to lead them around like their fucking dad.
01:10:56.000They become leaders because they can't find leaders.
01:10:58.000Explain this to me, that if women really want partners, why is that no matter how much money a woman makes, she still wants a guy to make 56% more than her?
01:11:04.000She does, but that number has been decreasing for the past 20 years.
01:11:06.000It used to be like 24% of women would be okay with a guy out-earning her, or her out-earning a guy, and that number's gotten increased over time.
01:11:34.000If you go to old money areas where there are wealthy people, they all go to the same schools together, they're in the same clubs together, they're in the same fucking apartment complex here, they live in the same neighbors, and they have the same family friends.
01:11:41.000There are not rich guys in old money areas that are going to fucking Starbucks to pick up a woman.
01:12:06.000The point is, we don't care how women earn their money.
01:12:08.000Of course, they're in those circles because they come from wealthy families.
01:12:10.000New money people don't, but if you're part of a decent family that's doing well, and you're a well-off guy, and you're going to fucking Harvard or some shit, and you bring home a random woman that you met who's just like some fucking whatever, your family's going to look down at you for that.
01:12:21.000None of your family's going to be like, oh, that's really cool.
01:12:23.000Because you're mentioning, here's the thing.
01:12:25.000You have outside influencers getting into the relationship, but if the guy was left to his own devices, which you're seeing now in modern day, they will go ahead and marry down.
01:12:32.000Guys are never left to their own devices.
01:13:53.000But also you want women to be dependent on you.
01:13:56.000What I'm saying is that most people, most men that are of actual status and have actual background and come from these types of families are not looking to date any random woman.
01:14:03.000They're looking to date other people that are of similar levels of education and class.
01:14:06.000But they're going on dates with girls that don't have a title?
01:14:51.000But Destiny, if there's been more millionaires created in the last five years and it's going to continue to do so, then there's going to be more new money than there is old money.
01:14:57.000So doesn't that make sense that ultimately the culture can change over time and this perception can change over time?
01:15:03.000I mean, it might change over time, but it hasn't yet.
01:15:05.000Do you feel like it hasn't changed at all, even a little bit?
01:15:31.000Well, there's so many people, at least what we see online, right?
01:15:34.000Well, what you see online, but of course they're the most visible people.
01:15:36.000But there's not that many crypto millionaires.
01:15:37.000Okay, crypto millionaires was a bad example, but there's so many people who are making a lot more money than ever before, especially in the online space with the increases in technology.
01:15:45.000And so what I'm saying is with that, maybe this perception might be changing.
01:15:48.000It might change, but even in those spaces, my guess is those people are still probably going to tend to date those people.
01:15:52.000Look how many Twitch streamers date each other.
01:15:53.000Look how many YouTubers date each other.
01:15:54.000Look how many people that work in crypto people even to fucking date each other.
01:18:07.000But then again, I will retreat back to the stats that if you look, people in the top quintile tend to marry people in the top quintile, people in the top...
01:18:12.000The 20%, 20%, 20%, they all date each other.
01:19:22.000The male lawyer is going to command more sexual attention because women care about a man's title, socioeconomic status, earning capacity, etc.
01:19:28.000Her, right, being a lawyer is not going to carry the same value as a man being a lawyer.
01:19:32.000And it depends on the types of guys she's looking for.
01:19:34.000Not the guys that are just looking for a 20-year-old fuckable bang mate, sure.
01:19:37.000But, like, if she's, like, at a fucking law firm somewhere, she's probably going to be hit on, like, a fuck dog because it's going to be 90% lawyers there.
01:19:42.000Yeah, they'll hit on her and they'll hit on another girl that works at Starbucks that's 19.
01:19:45.000Sure they will, but they'd rather marry her.
01:20:09.000Like, for instance, like, do you think a computer programming woman has high sexual value?
01:20:13.000You can say no, but put her in a college where it's 99% men or women in the army, right?
01:20:17.000By the time you graduate from college with your law degree, et cetera, let's say you've got a 30-year-old male lawyer, you've got a 30-year-old female lawyer.
01:20:23.000The 30-year-old male lawyer is going to be much more attractive than that 30-year-old female lawyer.
01:20:28.000And the reason why is because that man has more options than that woman.
01:20:48.000If a woman is a lawyer at 30, and there are some guys that don't want to date her because she's a lawyer, she would never want to be with those guys.
01:21:59.000Aside that, since Destiny befriended Sneeko, influenced him enough to have a bad take on this low IQ take, Sneeko needs to stop hanging out with Destiny.
01:24:16.000It's not that I have a preference, but the basic ideology of it that I think of it as is that I still want to marry a man that is able to still provide the life that I'm accustomed to, and that's able to provide that for my children.
01:24:32.000So if I have kids, I would want the option to not work anymore, and I would be with the man that could provide that opportunity to me.
01:24:39.000That's essentially what happened with my parents.
01:28:01.000I could be wrong, but I think the sperm count will decrease, but I don't think that if you inseminate, I don't think it's actually different.
01:28:07.000I mean, honestly speaking, I came out fine.
01:28:29.000I'm sorry, I'll try to be more of my feminine energy.
01:28:36.000Scott Aragon, I don't understand how Destiny is on here when he has no merit to try and tell other men how to become better when he takes the D. He's out of shape.
01:28:43.000His own wife doesn't even respect him.
01:28:44.000No man is trying to better themselves would listen to this.
01:28:48.000I'm pretty sure if you polled 99% of women, they would agree with most of what I say.
01:28:52.000If you're talking shit like if you go to a college campus or anywhere in the United States and you're like, would you not want to live with your man because he's trying to stay away from you to drive your desire up for him?
01:29:01.00095% of women would be like, fuck that.
01:29:03.000And not only would they say that, if they were in those relationships, they would quit after a month or two.
01:30:08.000Most women, if you ask most women, even if you ask a lot of, unless you're talking about being a billionaire or something, most women would not share a high value.
01:30:15.000But they want a minute, but by default, when they meet the guy, you know what?
01:30:32.000Would you be okay with your guy stepping out from time to time and having sex with another girl if he provided for you, he was wealthy and attractive and checked all your boxes?
01:31:22.000The point is that, you know, then we don't even have to add or vote.
01:31:24.000Four girls here at the table, I would argue that 50%, if not more, of women would accept the guy and accept him having other women if he took care of everything else and his value was high enough.
01:31:41.000As in, if she's like a brokie that you're saving from the fucking slums or some shit, and you're taking her to Beverly Hills or something, maybe, sure.
01:31:48.000But if you find another girl in Beverly Hills, she's not going to do it.
01:31:50.000I don't think that's what it is, because oftentimes these guys end up cheating, and so they're not having this direct conversation like, hey, I'm going to go and do this, but oftentimes the woman ends up forgiving because they love and respect that man.
01:32:01.000And so oftentimes it's not a conversation beforehand, but this is what ends up happening in a lot of relationships.
01:36:43.000He goes, Destiny is literally a crypto-Jesuit with brainlit-tier arguments and got dominated by Ryan Dawson so hard, he literally cries every time he's mentioned.
01:39:23.000A girl that's getting it from somebody else, her attention and her focus isn't going to be solely on that guy, and that's ways to tell, too.
01:39:29.000She's not going to be as bothered if he's like, oh, I'm going to spend time with you, not spending time with you.
01:39:33.000You're going to be stressed because you're focused solely on that guy, versus if he's saying that and then he's not delivering, you're just going to be like, whatever, I'll get it from this guy.
01:39:41.000Yeah, but you're not even going to know if she feels that way because you're not around her half the time anyway.
01:39:44.000No, she's going to be hitting you all up.
01:39:46.000Is that, like, do you really want that relationship where a girl's hitting you up all the time because she's so desperate for your attention?
01:41:17.000The arguments you've made a lot of the time, like, oh no, you should be with your girl, blah, blah, blah, all these things.
01:41:20.000Like, these are things that you exercise in your relationship, right?
01:41:23.000Which is fine, because you're okay with the outcome of your relationship.
01:41:26.000But what I'm saying is that what most guys want is an outcome of your relationship where their girl is open.
01:41:31.000That's why I disagree with a lot of your points.
01:41:33.000Yeah, but my perspective isn't coming from, this is what you should do to have an open relationship.
01:41:37.000My perspective is that in a healthy relationship, two people can live together, love each other, and also give each other space in the same house.
01:41:41.000But I would argue that it's not healthy to allow your woman to hook up with other guys.
01:42:12.000I mean, we can poll women, but I'm very confident that more women would be okay being in a double-sided open relationship than a single-sided.
01:42:18.000How come you don't advocate towards open relationships?
01:42:20.000You say that your relationship method is not for most people.
01:43:06.000So you would not be okay with, like, let's say she decided, like, let's say you guys got together and she said, okay, I'm going to be monogamous to you and you can go ahead and have other women.
01:43:13.000You wouldn't have been okay with that?
01:43:16.000Because I don't think there's respect in that level of asymmetry in a relationship.
01:43:19.000And I think it would be, I know that there would be conflict if I'm, like, telling my wife, like, she's like, oh, do you want to do something for an end?
01:43:24.000I was like, oh, no, no, no, sorry, like, you can hang out at home, but I'm gonna go fuck somebody else.
01:43:47.000I wouldn't want to be in a relationship where there's a mutual understanding where I can step in on my girl and she couldn't do the same for me.
01:43:58.000So that nobody, like, feels like, I guess, left out or whatever, yeah.
01:44:01.000See, but the only reason I disagree with that, I mean, hey, it's your relationship, but I'm saying for other guys is that that implies that you and her are equal.
01:44:09.000I mean, that's how I view relationships.
01:44:10.000To some extent, I am equal with my partner.
01:44:11.000You also admit that men and women are not equal.
01:47:11.000So you're going to fantasize about another girl and fuck another girl and I'm going to fantasize about another guy and like restrain myself?
01:47:17.000No, if you cannot respect me, I'm going to- Also, also, wait, hold on.
01:47:20.000All the girls here, I don't remember if it was you two or what, that's talking about like, I wouldn't be able to buy a guy because of diseases or whatever.
01:47:25.000Who are talking about you want your guy going out fucking random girl all the time?
01:47:28.000What happened to the STD? You don't get HIV from a girl.
01:48:42.000I will argue that most women will be okay with having a man that will just fuck with whoever he wants, as long as he doesn't commit to another person emotionally.
01:49:25.000There is actually a whole study that will say women will get mad if a man commits emotionally to another woman because if they fuck another woman, they will ask like, oh, but did you buy her flowers?
01:50:05.000She's more concerned with the emotional connection if that woman could replace her.
01:50:09.000But if a man finds out his girl cheated on him, he's going to be more concerned with the physicality.
01:50:13.000That's why for a guy, if he sees his girl cheating or if he knows her body count or anything like that and it's not to his acceptable parameters, he's going to be turned off by that.
01:50:21.000Women can get mindfucked seeing pictures of an ex.
01:50:24.000She's like larger boobs than the woman.
01:50:25.000How are you telling me that a woman is not going to get...
01:50:27.000If a woman sees you dated like two girls in a row that had big old fucking double D's and she's like an A cup, that type of shit is going to fuck with your man.
01:50:33.000How are you going to tell me that a girl seeing you go and fuck another girl that's younger, that's Asian, that has a bigger booty, bigger boobs, isn't going to start to get that shit in her head too?
01:51:03.000It's not something that they're growing up with.
01:51:04.000No, what happens is that they're not going to learn that frame and then you're going to be in this world where 45% of women are like, oh, I don't need no man.
01:51:09.000And you're going to be on your podcast and be like, oh, it's so bullshit that women want to accept these blah, blah, blah.
01:51:12.000We're advocating for relationships that they never want to be in.
01:51:14.000No, you're not going to complain about it.
01:51:47.000If you're finding a woman and the only thing she has to offer the world are looks and age, then yeah, you could probably juggle a lot of them.
01:51:54.000But if they have anything else to offer the world, they're probably going to find a guy that's a little bit different than that.
01:51:57.000That's not doing the one-ended open relationship thing.
01:51:58.000So you're saying like education and other things?
01:52:00.000Sure, it could be education, family, background, class.
01:52:39.000We're talking about in a relationship, not you and the working I'm talking about women are attracted to masculine traits, which inherently means that you are not equal because you are dominant.
01:52:50.000You can say that, but I think most women today, I don't know about a hundred years ago, but today would rather have a man that listens to them, takes their feedback into account and makes decisions as a team.
01:53:03.000A woman wants to be able to have her opinion heard, but she wants you to be the final decision maker.
01:53:07.000So I respectfully disagree with you on that, Destiny.
01:53:09.000A girl wants to hear her opinion, but at the end of the day, she wants a man that can tell her, shut up, that's stupid, we're gonna do this instead.
01:53:14.000A girl wants to be able to be put in her place by her man at any time.
01:53:17.000And I think that if you're talking with a woman that is like an educated woman past a certain point, she's not ever gonna want to be put in her place.
01:53:21.000That's gonna be like, I'm out of here.
01:53:23.000These feminists that you're talking about, these educated women, they want it the most!
01:53:26.000Because they're surrounded by a bunch of liberal guys that are like, oh, your opinion matters!
01:53:49.000There's a difference between having the final say in something, but also still being receptive and able to treat your partner as an equal and have feedback and everything and make decisions.
01:54:05.000They're still going to listen to their partners, but ultimately they need to have trust that the man is the one who is the leader of the relationship and can ultimately make those calls.
01:54:14.000It's not going to dismiss their opinion entirely.
01:54:16.000I think what's going to happen is in a good partnership, you defer to the person with the most experience on the decision that you're making.
01:54:21.000So if you need to move somewhere for somebody's job or for somebody's whatever, depending on whose job it is or whatever, that would be the person making the decision.
01:57:03.000Calculate the amount of time that most men spend commuting, work, eat, gym, sleep, compared to the time they freely spend at home with their relationships.
01:58:17.000Like, I think King Solomon didn't, like, God say, I'm fucking splitting your kingdom in half and you're gonna get fucked by the invaders or whatever for being...
01:58:22.000Well, that story was about him falling from grace because he took in too many women and he followed their religion.
01:58:30.000The actual act itself wasn't frowned upon.
01:58:33.000It's just that he took people from a different, I want to say, area, and their God was not the God of his people.
01:58:52.000When it comes to making decisions about loans or making major financial decisions, it says that you should have a contract signed and then two men should be present.
01:58:59.000But if two men are not able to be present, you have one man and then two women.
01:59:03.000So basically when it comes to decision making the Quran, there's two women, their decision is equal to one man because just in case the women messes up, basically they're countering their One woman's logic is going to back it up.
01:59:15.000Yeah, women are inconsistent, they get emotional, and so they're taking account for that.
01:59:18.000If one of the women fails, then the other woman is there to check it.
01:59:20.000So two women's opinion is equal to one man's opinion in the Quran.
01:59:43.000I genuinely think that one man's vote should equal two women's vote when it comes to electing the president.
01:59:49.000And before you guys get mad at me for saying that, the reason why I say that is because men have to sign up for selective service.
01:59:58.000So if men have the responsibility of having to potentially be drafted for war and defend their country and die, their vote should have more weight than a woman's because women don't have the same risks.
02:01:19.000So, last draft was like decades ago, okay?
02:01:22.000So, I don't think that the fact that we have to sign up for selective service, which is, what is it, from like 19 to 25 or something, or 18 to 25?
02:02:01.000That's what you guys like to say all the time, right?
02:02:03.000Just because life's not fair doesn't mean that somebody should theoretically have a different vote, right?
02:02:06.000If you've never actually been drafted, why should the fact that you stand up for selective service means that you have more of a say in running society than the other half of the people that live here and are affected by it?
02:02:13.000No, the reason why is because you take on more risk as a man.
02:04:09.000To be clear, too, the thing you point about black women being fat more often, that is true, but a lot of that is not just because black women choose to be fucking fat.
02:04:17.000But it also has to do with your generational wealth.
02:04:20.000It has to do with where your family came from.
02:04:21.000It has to do with where you were born.
02:04:22.000It had to do with all these things that in the past were controlled by things that were literally related to your race and the government.
02:04:51.000And guess how much easier life is when you don't ever have to worry about that, right?
02:04:54.000There are people that when you hit the overweight, no, no.
02:04:57.000When you hit the obese section of your BMI range, there is a 2% chance you ever make it back to normal.
02:05:01.000Do you know how much easier you're starting in life if you've got parents who care about diet, nutrition, and shit, and you make it to 18 at a normal BMI than a kid that's fucking overweight when they're five years old?
02:05:32.000For a lot of families of color in the United States, depending on your background, those things are starting off a lot further behind than other types of families.
02:05:38.000That's not an excuse to be a fat loser.
02:05:46.000I'm saying that if you look at a cohort of people, if you take a bunch of people, it's retarded to just say, oh, you need to make better choices.
02:05:51.000The reality is that 99% of people are going to be more or less moving through life in the environment they were born in.
02:05:56.000Very few people can But that and become way better than their environment.
02:05:59.000Okay, so as an adult, is it better to blame your environment or make better choices?
02:06:02.000You should make better choices, but realistically, most people won't.
02:06:27.000My argument is that if y'all have the choice, then y'all have the choice regardless of what your environment is.
02:06:33.000Yeah, if you live with a woman, you're saying that living with a woman is such a toxic environment, it destroys your ability to hold frame.
02:06:38.000But, like, living from 0 to 18 with fucked parents and then suddenly overcoming that, you think that that's possible?
02:06:43.000It doesn't destroy the ability, but it's better to live with men so that that doesn't happen.
02:06:46.000Dude, you're playing such word games right now.
02:06:48.000You said earlier that if you live with a woman, it will make you a worse man.
02:07:58.000There's a lot of social issues that surround it.
02:08:01.000There's a lot of socioeconomic differences that impact that.
02:08:04.000If you want to even start discussing obesity, socioeconomic status directly impacts the access to the quality of food that you're able to eat.
02:08:11.000So a lot of people in the Black community, they struggle with obesity because if you're in a low-income society, You are typically eating a lot of fast food out of necessity because you can't afford to go to the nearest Whole Foods.
02:09:02.000You can go break it down to an individual level, but I'm talking about statistically, and that's what I'm saying.
02:09:06.000That's what exists, and that's what you could Google, and that's what you could research.
02:09:09.000This narrative is why they start pushing towards slavery reparations.
02:09:13.000If you're going to make an argument on the show, you can't sit there and say Google it and then not stand for what you're trying to claim and say, I'm tired.
02:09:19.000No, it's just because I grew up in the hood, low income, and I'm not fat.
02:10:41.000You can simultaneously recognize that it's really hard to overcome your environment while still advocating for making good decisions.
02:10:45.000Like, You guys are supposed to pretend like environment doesn't matter, but you all realize how important environment is.
02:10:49.000That's why even though I was roasting you for it earlier, it is good to live with guys or at least have a network of guys that are pushing you to be better.
02:10:55.000Because left to their own devices, a guy will be fucking lazy.
02:10:57.000You'll sit on the couch, you'll smoke weed, you'll do nothing all day.
02:10:59.000But when you're surrounded by other people that are driving you to do better, then you're going to do better.
02:11:02.000Not necessarily because you're making better decisions, which you are, but because you've got people pushing you.
02:11:06.000And from ages 0 to 18, if you've got somebody pushing your whole life to have a routine, to have discipline, to go to the gym, to eat healthy, when that person turns 19, to pretend like they're making the same choice as another person that turns 19 who was given horrible discipline their whole life, it's just not true.
02:11:19.000One guy basically had his whole roadmap laid out.
02:11:21.000Yeah, but you've got to have the capability of realizing this is a shitty environment and get the hell out of it.
02:11:26.000I understand what you're saying, but what I'm telling you is that a guy that weighs, a guy that's like reasonably fit or whatever, that is 19 years old, that was in an easy family his whole fucking life, that dude might be a worse guy than a guy who's like 240 pounds,
02:11:42.000working on losing weight, you know, who comes from a shittier background.
02:11:46.000But like, if you look at them both, you say, well, the one guy is doing better, so he's a better person, but he's not making harder choices, not making better decisions.
02:12:09.000They've literally done studies with this where they fed people McDonald's every single day and that person ate a calorie deficit exercise and their blood markers still improve and their health improve by eating in a calorie deficit.
02:12:18.000This is the problem, right, when it comes to black men or whatever.
02:12:20.000They always want to point the fucking finger at other people for why they're not where they want to be.
02:12:32.000The black community, a lot of times, has a victim mindset as to why they're not where they want to fucking be, and they blame race for it every single time.
02:12:38.000I would argue black people nowadays have more opportunities than a lot of other races, thanks to affirmative action, etc., You went to a historically black college.
02:12:45.000Is a white person going to get that opportunity?
02:13:14.000Two generations ago, I wouldn't be able to.
02:13:16.000Yeah, but the creation of HBCUs was because of a lack of resources and access to the Black community.
02:13:23.000So these institutions were created for us to be able to receive an education and escape these low-income environments that y'all are talking about.
02:13:41.000And honestly, if we're going to boil it down to it, they get better scholarships at those HBCUs because they're diverse at that institution.
02:13:48.000That's the same thing for minorities at white-dominated schools.
02:13:50.000Yes, and there's nothing wrong with that.
02:13:52.000But what I'm saying is they're not barred entry just because they're white.
02:13:55.000All I'm saying is that when we look at life, okay, you look at how people are doing now, but that's not always fair.
02:14:00.000If you take a working class poor fuck and they come from that family, that person has accomplished just as much in life as a middle class person who came from a middle class family.
02:14:08.000They're both just on their tracks doing the same shit, but you'll give the middle class guy so much more credit, even though he hasn't done shit with his life.
02:14:13.000He just followed the path that was laid out before him.
02:14:14.000But when we see like a poor person or a fat person or whatever that was fat from birth, Like, we just say, like, oh, like, they're making bad shit decisions.
02:14:21.000But, like, the middle class person sits middle class their whole life.
02:15:00.000They want to move up in companies, but they're not getting those opportunities just because of the mere fact that the company doesn't want that base.
02:15:07.000If you're a colored person in the United States now, No, but if you look at it, if you look at it, when black dollars stopped spending money, that one day they decided to move people up in their companies because they had less than about 2% that was anywhere from the first level.
02:15:23.000Because the reality is the reality of the world that we live in.
02:15:27.000What I'm saying is that the reason that they seem lazy is not that they're choosing to be that way.
02:15:32.000They're trying to work hard, but they're not getting those opportunities.
02:15:34.000All they can focus on is trying to fix their lives and benefit themselves financially.
02:15:39.000So it's really harder to try to work out when you have to work two to three jobs and you make no time for yourself but sleeping, eating, and working.
02:15:56.000That a lot of you guys keep making the mistake of making.
02:15:59.000When I was an agent and I was on the border and I saw people fucking crawling to come to the United States, being in the back of trucks, dying through heat exhaustion, getting fucking, uh, drowning in the Rio Grande River, etc.
02:16:09.000These people are dying to come to the United States to have the same opportunity that you guys are fucking crying and bitching about right now.
02:16:15.000There is no fucking excuse to be broke, fat, a loser in the United States because there's people that literally die for that opportunity, but you guys want to sit here and talk about Systematic racism!
02:16:24.000HBCUs because of racism, blah blah blah.
02:16:26.000People died to come and get the opportunities that you guys are bitching about right now, which is ridiculous because I've seen children die on their way here to have these opportunities that you guys are whining about right now.
02:16:34.000At the end of the day, the United States is still the best country in the world, whatever you guys want to say.
02:16:37.000And I would say we've cracked a lot of these racism things that you guys are talking about now, and people of color and people that are different have more opportunity than the same white people that oppressed you guys systematically for all these years that you keep bitching about.
02:16:51.000Now, Black people have more opportunities than ever before.
02:16:53.000If you apply for a job, and he applies for a job, you're probably gonna get that job even though you might be less qualified than him because he's a white male.
02:19:06.000Dude, Nigerians in the United States are the highest immigrant group of PhDs.
02:19:09.000More than white people, more than Chinese people, more than anybody else.
02:19:11.000Typically, the people that are immigrating from across the ocean to come to the United States are not the poor fucking people in the villages that we see on fucking commercials.
02:19:23.000Some of your most highly educated groups of people in the United States are people from Kenya, are people from Nigeria, are people from these African countries because they're all the wealthiest people that are coming over with high degrees and a lot of education.
02:19:33.000I don't know what you're talking about.
02:19:35.000You might say, oh yeah, they have money in their country or whatever.
02:20:33.000Just what part of that do you understand?
02:20:34.000If you're an African immigrant coming to the United States, your outcomes in life, the places that you live, the education you have, you're more on par with an upper-class white person than you are with a person who's a descendant of the slave.
02:20:43.000So you're saying the biggest difference is the mindset.
02:20:44.000It's not the circumstances, not the environment.
02:20:47.000Somebody that comes from a family that's driven enough to get their children or themselves to move to the United States from Africa, this is a highly driven family.
02:20:53.000This is a lot different than somebody whose great-grandparents weren't allowed to buy a house in the city because they were redlined out by a bank in the United States.
02:21:10.000No, but I'm saying you're selecting for the people that were inspired enough to come over.
02:21:13.000I mean, typically speaking, people coming over here, it's because they're going through intense hardship and the risk of coming over here is worth more than the pain that they're in, where they're currently coming from, right?
02:21:24.000Well, I was gonna say, like, it's not the people that are suffering the most hardship that are able to make that move.
02:21:28.000That's a really big move coming from Africa to the United States.
02:21:31.000An average poor person that lives in fucking Sub-Saharan Africa is not like, oh, I'm gonna go try my luck in the U.S. I'm not talking about resources.
02:21:38.000Like, somebody literally needs to be like, okay, me doing this and making this crazy move is worth more of a risk than me staying in my current situation, which is obviously very shitty.
02:22:05.000No, I was just going to say, so I think that people come here because, yeah, like he was saying, I do agree.
02:22:10.000Like their family has a different mindset.
02:22:12.000So that mindset that they grow up with pushes them to want to come here and they come here with that mindset.
02:22:18.000And I think that coming to America, there's more opportunity so they can really like flourish because they're coming from a mindset that's like, they're already coming here with that mindset.
02:22:28.000They're not stuck in any like habitual, like routine, like, you know, The lower class people in America who, you know, live in, they're around that every day.
02:22:37.000They're in that environment every day.
02:22:38.000So they don't have the same aspirations as someone who's sent here from a family.
02:22:42.000So therefore they deserve to be poor and fat.
02:23:59.000I mean, obviously, like, to an extent, but, like, me personally, like, say, like, I say, like, oh, I want to go and, like, have a better body, right?
02:24:07.000If I really want to have a better body, and I'm really dedicated to it, I'll do it.
02:24:12.000So, if you want to do something, you're gonna go and do it.
02:24:14.000There's really no excuse, like, especially now, like, in modern days.
02:26:17.000There's no way you would only fantasize about Sneeko while he's out committing haram.
02:26:21.000Also, Sneeko mentioned RP doesn't teach you to be a good dad.
02:26:23.000Don't you think part of being a good dad is being a good husband?
02:26:27.000Yeah, it goes hand in hand, but I don't think marriage is worthwhile in the West anymore, so it's hard to really equate being a good husband.
02:26:44.000She's got a piece of what that guy wants.
02:26:46.000I think this whole single, strong, independent woman narrative of you do what you want and the guy's going to be there at the end of the day, that's not good advice.
02:26:53.000In Japan, all the girls are pick-me's.
02:28:30.000We can use a different term, but when people say pick me, it's an insult.
02:28:33.000That's what they mean when they say Yeah, but I'm saying, like, do the girls here think Pick Me is an insult?
02:28:37.000I think of pick me in the same way that he described it and that therefore I don't think whatever your preferences makes you bad like I said earlier I think we all have different preferences all have different things we want out of life relationships whatever we're all like doing our own thing so I don't think it's bad I do think it's negative to shame other women for their preferences though and I think that goes both ways if you're more a traditional woman shaming a modern woman if you're a modern woman shaming a traditional woman I think that is bad yeah So you disagree with the shaming in general?
02:29:08.000Yeah, I don't think that we should be shaming other women that we disagree with.
02:29:12.000I think we both can live our different lives.
02:29:15.000What the next girl is doing does not impact me and my day-to-day.
02:29:45.000I think it's good if people keep each other in line and shaming is a good tactic for that.
02:29:48.000Like, that's the same reason why I think it's okay to, why it's good to live with other men because if you start being a lazy piece of shit, they're gonna shame you for being a lazy piece of shit.
02:31:50.000They wouldn't have said that, though, because if you bring it up to a whole bunch of things, like fucking kids, for instance, they would say, no, I would shame people about that.
02:32:31.000Guys tell girls what they want, and they tell us we're wrong.
02:32:34.000Girl next to Fresh just told you what she would accept cheating under circumstances, and you coped and said only red pill girls would say that.
02:34:46.000Aaron Martinez goes, Lawyer Girl is right that fast food is cheaper and more easily accessible, but you still have personal responsibility.
02:34:52.000You can always eat only half the Big Mac and not get the fries.
02:35:08.000No, there becomes a point where like you no longer argue with people that are committed to misunderstanding you.
02:35:14.000So out of the value of all of our time, I'm not going to keep us here all night to go back and forth over something that we clearly disagree on.
02:35:51.000But there's like We're talking about choices.
02:35:55.000There's a choice that we all can make to make sure we're educated and make sure we read up on things.
02:36:01.000We probably all have different areas that we read up on and learn about and want to be knowledgeable of.
02:36:07.000So when I said Google it, it's like, on your time, if you want to learn more about that, which I take that you don't, you can go and read up on these stats.
02:36:15.000But y'all are already committed to misunderstanding what I am saying.
02:36:19.000I'm not going to make you agree with me.
02:39:32.000The liberal cities in America are part of America, whether you like it or not.
02:39:37.000And also, the downsides of socialism really only come out to play when there comes time for mass government control.
02:39:43.000For example, with the incidences of the COVID stuff, Australia isn't exactly like a socialist state, but kind of teeters on the borderline.
02:41:16.000Sure, but I know, but when you look at the state of the United States, you've got to wonder, why are African Americans so funny and retorted?
02:43:28.000My dad was a poor farmer before coming to the U.S. on a student visa and became an accountant father after washing dishes to manual labor jobs to fund his education.
02:43:36.000He experienced a lot of racism in the corporate world.
02:46:24.000It's not a smart move, but sometimes they feel like that's their only option because the other options aren't coming fast enough and they're struggling to pay rent.
02:46:50.000There's a difference between a wealthy white kid that buys weed to smoke versus a black kid in the fucking ghetto that can only make money selling weed.
02:47:04.000And then something else I disagree on is like, I do agree that a woman should be able to be submissive and depend on her man, but however, she should have something for herself also.
02:47:15.000So that if that man decides to leave, she's not left stranded.
02:48:08.000I mean, so the one thing that I can remember from the whole conversation was when you guys were talking about, like, having a separate home for a guy to live in or your husband, whatever.
02:48:22.000I actually agree with that to some degree because...
02:48:26.000I'm a very independent woman, so if you're an independent woman who has been independent your whole life, but I'm still submissive at the same time, so I think it would be healthy.
02:48:36.000I wouldn't want my guy around me all the time.
02:48:40.000You were saying, oh, the girl's going to...
02:48:42.000Separation makes the heart grow fonder.
02:48:53.000I mean, I feel like, okay, so, like, I like my space.
02:48:57.000Like, I wouldn't, like, if I'm in a relationship with a guy, yeah, like, I don't want a guy, like, I'm saying, like, I don't want a guy, like, in my, like, in my shit.
02:49:07.000Like, I want to have my time to go to the gym.
02:49:09.000I want to have my, and I don't really care to do things together.
02:49:11.000Like, I'm not an, like, I'm not an emotional person.
02:49:46.000Um, I honestly didn't think, like, I'd agree, like, so much, especially with this podcast, but, um, like, a lot of things that you guys talk about, it's, like, it's very, like, um...
02:49:57.000Yeah, so, like, for example, when you guys talk about certain things, like, like, simps or, like, stuff like that, it makes sense, or, like, nice guys.
02:50:04.000Because I feel like, as a man, you should provide and, like, be comfortable with your life and also have a woman by your side that supports everything that you do.
02:50:14.000And if you can't have that, then I feel like you're not a high-value man or you just don't feel like...
02:50:21.000Like, give her her needs, you know what I mean?
02:50:24.000And she doesn't give you yours, so I don't know.
02:50:25.000But my point is that, like, this whole podcast just, like, opened my eyes to certain things and I think, like...
02:50:32.000I would watch it more, because I didn't really watch it before, but now I for sure think if I could open up my brain that much.
02:50:39.000I just realized, Destiny, you've kind of been hogging a lot of the air time for somebody who thinks that women's input are equally as important to men.
02:50:46.000I have to balance out the fact that I do women equal in partnerships, but I also hate women at the same time.
02:50:50.000Even when they're talking, you're on your phone, you're over here, you don't really care.
02:50:55.000Are there other opinions really that valid?
02:50:58.000I'm on a show, so of course I'm going to talk a lot.
02:51:14.000Well, for me, I was actually excited to come on because of Destiny.
02:51:18.000I think that it's really important to intentionally seek out opinions that are nuanced or different to yours.
02:51:25.000Because one of two things is going to happen.
02:51:27.000Either you're going to have more nuance or more knowledge in your conversation or more empathy for the situation.
02:51:33.000Or on the other hand, Someone is just going to sound like a total idiot and it's going to strengthen your argument.
02:51:38.000And for me, whenever I listen to Destiny, I at least, even if I totally disagree, it's at least a little something where I'm like, okay, I can kind of see your point.
02:51:45.000And so for me, that's why I was really excited to come on tonight.
02:54:04.000So you having sex with a bunch of dudes is not the same as me fucking a bunch of girls.
02:54:07.000Of course, but I'm just saying if we are in a relationship and we love each other and we own each other loyalty and respect and you go ahead and you fuck with another girl because you just wanted to, if I just want to fuck with a man, I will.
02:55:21.000We tell guys to be honest with girls, but they're not going to be.
02:55:24.000Sure, that's fine, but I'm saying earlier, you tried to ask that return a little bit of like, do you respect a man that can fuck more women?
02:55:44.000I mean, that's okay if it's in your relationship, but don't say...
02:55:47.000See, I wasn't talking about cheating, though.
02:55:48.000See how Destiny just came in and changed the argument completely?
02:55:51.000Well, because you brought that thing up in response to her saying, Because her original point was, I don't agree with the one-sided open relationships.
02:55:57.000And then you kind of went, does society respect a hoe?
02:55:59.000You're a question of nothing to do with her.
02:56:54.000And then we got here, this is mainly for Sneeko and Myron, but this entire discussion is living with your woman and dealing with her in every aspect of life can be solved by following the life of the prophet.
02:58:10.000Yeah, but again, that's what I'm trying to say.
02:58:12.000Guys will talk about like, oh, crazy pussy is the best, crazy girl's the best, and you feel that way until you wake up with a girl with a knife through her fucking throat, right?
02:58:18.000You fantasize about it, but there's an issue in fantasizing and actually doing it in real life.