Fresh & Fit - Should Women Choose Career or Family? Debate

00:06:52.000 And we are live.

00:06:53.000 What's up, guys?

00:06:53.000 Welcome to Friendship Podcast.

00:06:54.000 After hours this year, we're joined with six lovely ladies.

00:06:56.000 Let's get into it.

00:06:57.000 Let's go!

00:07:08.000 Let's get into it.

00:07:17.000 Come on in here, bro.

00:07:17.000 Get out.

00:07:28.000 F*** out.

00:07:28.000 Put your shoes on outside.

00:07:29.000 You don't gotta put them on in here.

00:07:47.000 Alright, and we are live.

00:07:48.000 What's up, guys?

00:07:49.000 Welcome to Fresh Fit Podcast.

00:07:50.000 After our edition, we're joining some girls.

00:07:51.000 And guys, quick announcement when we get into the show.

00:07:54.000 Number one, rumble.com slash freshfit.

00:07:55.000 As you guys know, that is the home base for us.

00:07:57.000 Also, cowsclub.tv, that is how we're able to make the content despite being banned and demonetized everywhere.

00:08:02.000 Banned again.

00:08:03.000 Yeah, cowsclub.tv.

00:08:04.000 Yeah, we got suspended on Twitch yesterday.

00:08:07.000 So we'll see what happens.

00:08:08.000 You know, sometimes when you're too real, they suspend you.

00:08:11.000 But, uh, me and Fresh got a wager on what got his band.

00:08:14.000 We'll see what happens.

00:08:15.000 Was it me or was it him?

00:08:16.000 Was it me or was it him?

00:08:16.000 We're gonna find out soon.

00:08:17.000 Um, which word it was that got his band.

00:08:20.000 But, uh, you...

00:08:22.000 My money's on Fresh, man.

00:08:23.000 Your money's on Fresh?

00:08:24.000 Okay.

00:08:24.000 Which is rare, right?

00:08:25.000 Because he's not the one that normally gets...

00:08:26.000 I know, right?

00:08:27.000 Um, but anyway...

00:08:29.000 What else?

00:08:30.000 Oh, guys, we just completed doing a great interview with Phil.

00:08:34.000 We talked about the USS Liberty, man.

00:08:36.000 Obviously, the interview, we had to put the majority of it on Rumble.

00:08:39.000 It's up on Rumble right now.

00:08:40.000 Timestamps are actually in right now as we speak, so make sure to go check out that interview.

00:08:45.000 Probably the most censored...

00:08:55.000 Chris, go ahead.

00:09:05.000 Yo, cheers to Bills, man.

00:09:07.000 Henny Bills.

00:09:08.000 Henny Bills, long week.

00:09:10.000 We lit.

00:09:13.000 It's Friday night, man.

00:09:14.000 We're here to chat with the girls, man.

00:09:16.000 You know, it's Friday night.

00:09:17.000 Let's go.

00:09:18.000 On the panel for now.

00:09:23.000 Shout out to you guys.

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00:09:30.000 Other than that...

00:09:32.000 Let's have a great show.

00:09:33.000 And we have a Zoom call Sunday, Castle Club at 8pm.

00:09:36.000 So we got you guys with a link coming up at 7.45 on Sunday.

00:09:40.000 Stay tuned for that.

00:09:40.000 But without further ado, ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, we'll start right here.

00:09:49.000 Welcome back to the show.

00:09:50.000 I'm Vanilla Baby.

00:09:51.000 I'm 26.

00:09:52.000 I do reality TV. I'm single.

00:09:56.000 And not high.

00:09:57.000 Yeah, I'm not high today.

00:09:59.000 Where you were here last time?

00:10:00.000 Yeah.

00:10:00.000 Oh.

00:10:01.000 Shouldn't say much.

00:10:02.000 That makes sense.

00:10:03.000 Where are you from originally?

00:10:05.000 Originally I'm from Colorado.

00:10:07.000 Alright.

00:10:08.000 But you live in LA, right?

00:10:09.000 Yes.

00:10:09.000 And then you said reality TV? Yes.

00:10:12.000 Highest education level completed?

00:10:13.000 High school.

00:10:14.000 Okay.

00:10:15.000 Relationship status?

00:10:16.000 Single.

00:10:16.000 Still?

00:10:17.000 Yeah.

00:10:18.000 That was quick.

00:10:19.000 Alright.

00:10:19.000 Parents still together?

00:10:20.000 No.

00:10:21.000 Okay.

00:10:22.000 And then your favorite question?

00:10:23.000 Breath control?

00:10:25.000 Arm implant.

00:10:26.000 Oh yeah, I remember.

00:10:28.000 Hey y'all!

00:10:29.000 She belongs to the streets!

00:10:30.000 And then ethnic background is black, white, something else?

00:10:33.000 And Hispanic.

00:10:34.000 Alright.

00:10:36.000 Which is Hispanic?

00:10:37.000 Alright.

00:10:38.000 Hey y'all.

00:10:39.000 My name is Martasia.

00:10:41.000 I'm 24.

00:10:42.000 I act.

00:10:43.000 I do music, amongst other things.

00:10:46.000 I'm a creative.

00:10:47.000 And I'm from Miami.

00:10:49.000 I'm single and I'm young.

00:10:52.000 I mean, barely.

00:10:54.000 Wait, what did you say barely?

00:10:55.000 I mean, 24 is like almost to her age, the peak at 25.

00:10:59.000 Damn, you're right though.

00:11:00.000 So yeah, so...

00:11:01.000 Wait, you said it was Martasia?

00:11:03.000 Yes, Martasia.

00:11:04.000 Okay.

00:11:05.000 And then you said you're from Miami, actress and singer?

00:11:08.000 Yeah.

00:11:09.000 Okay.

00:11:09.000 Highest education level completed?

00:11:11.000 I have a bachelor's.

00:11:13.000 Okay.

00:11:13.000 Where'd you get it in?

00:11:14.000 Health sciences at UCF. Okay.

00:11:17.000 Cool.

00:11:18.000 Alright.

00:11:19.000 Relationship status?

00:11:20.000 Single.

00:11:22.000 Birth control?

00:11:23.000 No.

00:11:24.000 Any kids?

00:11:25.000 No.

00:11:25.000 Alright.

00:11:26.000 Are your parents together?

00:11:27.000 No.

00:11:28.000 Okay, and you said UCF, so, okay, Orlando, right?

00:11:31.000 Okay.

00:11:32.000 What about you?

00:11:33.000 Wait, hold on, body count?

00:11:37.000 Wait, what?

00:11:38.000 Body count?

00:11:39.000 Oh, body count.

00:11:39.000 He's asking you that.

00:11:40.000 You better not lie.

00:11:41.000 Oh, my body count is what it is for me, girl.

00:11:47.000 What it is for me, that's an interesting number.

00:11:50.000 All right, and what's your athletic background, Black?

00:11:55.000 Yeah.

00:11:56.000 Okay.

00:11:57.000 As black as I look.

00:11:58.000 She's one of us.

00:11:59.000 I wasn't sure if it was Haitian or Jamaican.

00:12:00.000 Oh, yes, I am Haitian.

00:12:01.000 Yes, sir!

00:12:03.000 I gotta ask a question.

00:12:06.000 No, mute your mic, Fred.

00:12:08.000 So, hold on, hold on.

00:12:11.000 What?

00:12:12.000 No, bro.

00:12:13.000 You heard what's happening, and then he was right.

00:12:17.000 What do you think about that?

00:12:21.000 Is it true?

00:12:22.000 Is it not true?

00:12:23.000 Is it real?

00:12:23.000 What do you think?

00:12:24.000 I'm not sure.

00:12:24.000 I have to talk to my goddad because he lives there.

00:12:26.000 And then they had the whole issue with like pirates and the overthrow of the government.

00:12:30.000 Pirates?

00:12:31.000 Yeah, my dad has a shipping boat out there.

00:12:33.000 So they still got to like recover all that stuff.

00:12:34.000 Wait, pirates like Donnie Depp?

00:12:36.000 Wait, in Haiti you mean?

00:12:37.000 There was pirates.

00:12:38.000 Pirates from that island took over my dad's ship.

00:12:41.000 And they kind of like might have hurt the crew.

00:12:44.000 What?

00:12:45.000 My uncle actually died from that similar story.

00:12:48.000 So, yeah, Haiti.

00:12:52.000 Yeah.

00:12:54.000 Wait, so you're telling me there's cats, dogs, and no pirates?

00:12:58.000 There's a cat's dog issue, a pirate's issue, a government issue, just a lot of issues.

00:13:03.000 Damn.

00:13:05.000 Yo, hate it going through it, bro.

00:13:06.000 Just a lot of issues.

00:13:08.000 Okay.

00:13:08.000 All right.

00:13:10.000 Okay.

00:13:11.000 Well, so you're Haitian, because we know there's certain groups of people that would not consider her black, oddly enough.

00:13:17.000 What?

00:13:17.000 Yeah, there's a whole...

00:13:18.000 I know.

00:13:18.000 There's a whole group of people that would not consider you black.

00:13:21.000 She's black as day.

00:13:22.000 I mean, I've been told by other people I looked Indian.

00:13:26.000 I've been told.

00:13:26.000 No, no, no.

00:13:27.000 You look Indian?

00:13:27.000 No, no.

00:13:28.000 That's what I've been told.

00:13:28.000 Well, I'm white then.

00:13:29.000 I'm white.

00:13:30.000 I don't want to give this too much attention, but what I'll say is that there's some people in the United States that look at it and say, if you're not the descendant of a slave, you're not black.

00:13:38.000 American.

00:13:39.000 Oh, yeah.

00:13:40.000 Yeah, I know.

00:13:41.000 It's foolish.

00:13:41.000 It's ridiculous.

00:13:42.000 If you're from the Caribbean or you're from Africa or whatever, they don't consider you black.

00:13:47.000 I know.

00:13:48.000 It's weird.

00:13:49.000 Trust me.

00:13:49.000 We get it.

00:13:50.000 We say the same thing.

00:13:51.000 They call themselves foundationally black Americans.

00:13:54.000 FBAs.

00:13:54.000 Yeah.

00:13:55.000 Anyway.

00:13:56.000 What about you?

00:13:57.000 What's your name?

00:13:57.000 My name is Faith.

00:13:58.000 I'm from Columbus, Ohio.

00:14:00.000 Okay.

00:14:01.000 I'm 23 and I'm an esthetician.

00:14:04.000 Okay.

00:14:05.000 Columbus, Ohio?

00:14:06.000 Mm-hmm.

00:14:06.000 Are you just visiting or?

00:14:07.000 Yeah.

00:14:08.000 I'm actually on vacation with one of my best friends.

00:14:10.000 She belongs to the streets.

00:14:11.000 Columbus, Ohio.

00:14:12.000 Yes.

00:14:14.000 Oh, okay.

00:14:16.000 And you said you're an esthetician?

00:14:18.000 Yes, sir.

00:14:19.000 Okay.

00:14:19.000 Oh, yes, sir.

00:14:19.000 Okay.

00:14:21.000 What do you...

00:14:22.000 Oh, highest education level completed?

00:14:23.000 I did a trade, so the esthetician.

00:14:26.000 Okay.

00:14:26.000 But I completed high school, too.

00:14:28.000 Okay.

00:14:29.000 So you went to trade school.

00:14:29.000 How long is trade school to be an esthetician?

00:14:31.000 Two years?

00:14:31.000 No, it's like six or seven months.

00:14:34.000 Okay.

00:14:34.000 Yeah.

00:14:35.000 And when you say esthetician, is that like skin care, hair?

00:14:38.000 Yeah, I specialize in like brows and facials.

00:14:42.000 Okay.

00:14:43.000 Relationship status?

00:14:44.000 I'm single.

00:14:45.000 Alright.

00:14:46.000 Are your parents still together?

00:14:47.000 No.

00:14:49.000 Okay.

00:14:49.000 Birth control for you?

00:14:50.000 No.

00:14:51.000 Okay.

00:14:52.000 And then, oh, I forgot to ask.

00:14:53.000 Do any of you guys have kids?

00:14:54.000 No kids?

00:14:55.000 I do.

00:14:55.000 You have?

00:14:56.000 Okay.

00:14:57.000 Where's the daddy?

00:14:59.000 He's involved.

00:14:59.000 She's a mother.

00:15:02.000 Where's your kids?

00:15:04.000 Huh?

00:15:05.000 Back home?

00:15:06.000 Where your kids are.

00:15:06.000 Oh, they're back home.

00:15:07.000 He's back home with his dad.

00:15:09.000 There you go.

00:15:09.000 Okay.

00:15:09.000 She belongs to the street.

00:15:10.000 I'm assuming, right?

00:15:11.000 Or Colorado.

00:15:12.000 Okay.

00:15:13.000 Alright.

00:15:13.000 What about you?

00:15:14.000 What's your name?

00:15:15.000 I'm Jules.

00:15:16.000 Jules?

00:15:17.000 Okay.

00:15:18.000 Sorry.

00:15:19.000 Sorry.

00:15:19.000 My hat slipped.

00:15:20.000 What?

00:15:22.000 How old are you?

00:15:23.000 I'm 26.

00:15:24.000 Where are you from?

00:15:26.000 Day County.

00:15:28.000 Like Miami or?

00:15:30.000 Uh oh.

00:15:31.000 This the hood ain't it?

00:15:33.000 So Miami then?

00:15:35.000 Yes.

00:15:36.000 Okay.

00:15:37.000 Yeah.

00:15:39.000 What do you do for work?

00:15:41.000 Get money.

00:15:42.000 I sell water bottles if I got to.

00:15:46.000 You're a hustler.

00:15:46.000 That's what it means.

00:15:47.000 You're a hustler.

00:15:49.000 Yeah.

00:15:49.000 Okay.

00:15:50.000 Okay, but can you tell us like what specifically?

00:15:52.000 One of your hustles.

00:15:53.000 Yeah, one of your hustles.

00:15:54.000 Like me one.

00:15:57.000 You don't even know!

00:15:58.000 That's a lot.

00:15:59.000 What do you want to hear?

00:16:01.000 What's the main one?

00:16:02.000 What is the predominant source of your income?

00:16:04.000 The biggest one.

00:16:04.000 Legal.

00:16:04.000 I'm an adult entertainer.

00:16:06.000 Okay.

00:16:07.000 She belongs to the streets.

00:16:08.000 I entertain the adults.

00:16:10.000 Oh, she sucks deck for a living.

00:16:12.000 Shit, if it costs.

00:16:13.000 Okay.

00:16:14.000 Okay.

00:16:15.000 Like OnlyFans, I guess?

00:16:18.000 I let that go when I had my baby.

00:16:20.000 Okay.

00:16:21.000 Real good?

00:16:22.000 Yeah.

00:16:22.000 You can't even tell.

00:16:23.000 I have two.

00:16:25.000 Two?

00:16:26.000 I know, right?

00:16:27.000 So, hold on.

00:16:28.000 Okay, so are you still an adult entertainer or did you leave?

00:16:31.000 I entertain some adults.

00:16:35.000 Wait, are you still doing it?

00:16:38.000 To an extent.

00:16:40.000 To an extent?

00:16:41.000 Yeah.

00:16:41.000 Okay.

00:16:43.000 Alright, that's different.

00:16:44.000 Man, she walking on ice, man.

00:16:46.000 It's different.

00:16:46.000 Okay.

00:16:47.000 Yeah, I'm walking on life.

00:16:49.000 Fuck ice.

00:16:51.000 Alright.

00:16:52.000 And you said you got two kids, right?

00:16:54.000 Yeah.

00:16:54.000 Oh, what's your ethnic background?

00:16:56.000 White?

00:16:56.000 Yeah, I'm just white.

00:16:57.000 Okay.

00:16:58.000 Basic bitch.

00:16:59.000 Damn.

00:17:00.000 Chris.

00:17:00.000 That's white.

00:17:01.000 White is basic, right?

00:17:02.000 I'm just going on this.

00:17:03.000 Do you know him?

00:17:04.000 No.

00:17:05.000 He's coming out of your heart.

00:17:06.000 Damn.

00:17:07.000 And you're black, right?

00:17:08.000 I'm black and jerky.

00:17:11.000 Not Haitian or Jamaican or anything like that?

00:17:13.000 No.

00:17:14.000 Alright, so you said you're an adult entertainer.

00:17:17.000 Highest education level completed?

00:17:19.000 College and high school and some college, no.

00:17:24.000 Did you get your associates?

00:17:24.000 I kind of let it go, yeah.

00:17:26.000 You got your associates?

00:17:27.000 No.

00:17:28.000 Oh, okay, so high school then.

00:17:29.000 Alright, relationship status?

00:17:32.000 I'm single.

00:17:33.000 Alright.

00:17:34.000 Where's the daddies?

00:17:36.000 In the streets.

00:17:37.000 In the streets?

00:17:38.000 Okay.

00:17:40.000 Alright.

00:17:41.000 Are your parents still together?

00:17:43.000 Shit, I ain't gonna hold you.

00:17:45.000 I don't even know who my old boy is, boy.

00:17:47.000 Makes sense.

00:17:49.000 You don't know who your dad is?

00:17:50.000 Yeah.

00:17:51.000 Yeah, she black brush.

00:17:53.000 Okay.

00:17:54.000 Are you on birth control?

00:17:55.000 What does that even mean?

00:17:56.000 I'm black.

00:17:57.000 I control the birth.

00:18:01.000 Wait, wait, wait.

00:18:03.000 What does that mean?

00:18:03.000 I control the birth.

00:18:06.000 Wow.

00:18:06.000 So...

00:18:07.000 She has to control, man.

00:18:08.000 Okay, yeah, no, you are in control.

00:18:09.000 Yeah, you're right.

00:18:10.000 Yeah, of course, but like, are you getting assistance with controlling the birth?

00:18:14.000 There we go.

00:18:14.000 Through a pill?

00:18:15.000 No.

00:18:16.000 Or an IED? No.

00:18:17.000 Or a...

00:18:18.000 Okay.

00:18:19.000 Okay.

00:18:19.000 So, no.

00:18:19.000 Alright, body count.

00:18:23.000 Come on.

00:18:25.000 They flaming her in the chat.

00:18:27.000 150.

00:18:28.000 Come on, you know your body.

00:18:29.000 Are you talking about my body count, what, this year?

00:18:31.000 Yeah, this year, yeah.

00:18:32.000 This year, like, three.

00:18:33.000 This year?

00:18:33.000 100.

00:18:34.000 Three.

00:18:35.000 Alright, man.

00:18:37.000 I mean, you're not people you killed.

00:18:38.000 I mean...

00:18:39.000 Yeah, like three.

00:18:40.000 What the fuck?

00:18:41.000 What's your stage name?

00:18:42.000 Jules.

00:18:43.000 Jules?

00:18:46.000 Jules, like...

00:18:47.000 Like jewelry.

00:18:48.000 Oh, jewelry.

00:18:49.000 Yeah.

00:18:50.000 Okay.

00:18:50.000 Jewels.

00:18:51.000 Jewels.

00:18:52.000 Got it.

00:18:53.000 Because I don't...

00:18:54.000 There's gem jewels, but you're just jewels.

00:18:55.000 Jewels.

00:18:56.000 Okay.

00:18:57.000 And you said you got two kids, different dads, I'm guessing?

00:19:00.000 Yeah.

00:19:00.000 Okay.

00:19:01.000 Alright.

00:19:02.000 And black.

00:19:02.000 Alright, what about you?

00:19:03.000 What's your name?

00:19:04.000 I'm Via.

00:19:05.000 I'm sorry, VIA? VIA, yeah.

00:19:07.000 Okay.

00:19:08.000 How old are you, VIA? 26.

00:19:09.000 Where are you from?

00:19:10.000 LA. Okay.

00:19:12.000 You live here now or are you just visiting?

00:19:13.000 No, I live here.

00:19:14.000 Okay.

00:19:15.000 When did you move out here?

00:19:17.000 About four months ago.

00:19:18.000 Okay.

00:19:19.000 What do you do for work?

00:19:20.000 I'm a day trader.

00:19:22.000 Okay.

00:19:23.000 That's cool.

00:19:24.000 That's not something you see every day from a female.

00:19:26.000 I know.

00:19:27.000 Highest education level completed?

00:19:29.000 High school.

00:19:29.000 All right.

00:19:31.000 Relationship status?

00:19:32.000 Single.

00:19:34.000 All right.

00:19:35.000 Are your parents still together?

00:19:36.000 Nope.

00:19:37.000 Birth control for you?

00:19:38.000 No comment.

00:19:39.000 I'm not going to comment on any of those questions.

00:19:41.000 You're on birth control or not?

00:19:43.000 We are answering.

00:19:44.000 That's a simple question.

00:19:46.000 I'm just not going to answer.

00:19:48.000 If you don't want to say it, it's probably a yes.

00:19:50.000 Yeah, it's a yes, yeah.

00:19:51.000 Because most girls will deny it.

00:19:52.000 She telling that nigga no.

00:19:57.000 Okay, you said you're single, and what's your ethnic background?

00:20:01.000 I'm Mexican.

00:20:02.000 Of course she is.

00:20:02.000 She's in LA. I don't want to be stereotypical.

00:20:06.000 It's all good.

00:20:08.000 And how long have you been day training for?

00:20:10.000 About four years.

00:20:12.000 Okay.

00:20:13.000 Do that full-time, I'm guessing?

00:20:14.000 Yeah.

00:20:14.000 No other jobs?

00:20:15.000 Mm-mm.

00:20:33.000 What's your name?

00:20:39.000 Hello, I'm Gabby.

00:20:40.000 How old are you Gabby?

00:20:41.000 32.

00:20:43.000 Where are you from?

00:20:43.000 Damn!

00:20:44.000 Brazil.

00:20:45.000 Part of Brazil?

00:20:46.000 The capital, Brasília.

00:20:48.000 Okay.

00:20:49.000 How old are you?

00:20:50.000 I'm sorry, high education level completed?

00:20:52.000 I went to college for physical education.

00:20:55.000 So you got like a four-year degree in Brazil?

00:20:58.000 Yes.

00:20:59.000 Okay.

00:21:00.000 In PT, physical education.

00:21:02.000 And then, what do you do for work?

00:21:05.000 Nowadays, I'm a birth and death doula, so I help families, especially with postpartum, and also I teach people about conscious dying.

00:21:17.000 Conscious dying?

00:21:18.000 Yes, like I teach people about sustainable ways of dying and why you should write a last wishes letter.

00:21:29.000 Yo, I like him.

00:21:32.000 It's kind of interesting because she said conscious dying, but you're not going to be conscious, and sustaining means quite literally you're not sustaining when you're dead anymore.

00:21:40.000 Wait, wait, hold on.

00:21:41.000 Can you go into more detail?

00:21:42.000 It doesn't make sense.

00:21:44.000 I don't want to die.

00:21:46.000 You're right, we're all dying, right?

00:21:47.000 Conscious dying meaning that you wouldn't be afraid of death.

00:21:50.000 You embrace it as we are all born and we all die, so...

00:21:55.000 When you embrace the fact that you die, like the stoics say, memento mori.

00:22:00.000 When you embrace that, you live life more fully.

00:22:04.000 Because some people are afraid of everything, so they don't realize that the fear is holding them back from life.

00:22:12.000 So I help people awaken.

00:22:14.000 Our time here is limited, and it's a beautiful but short trip, and we never know when you're gonna lose someone that you love, so really live today like...

00:22:25.000 It could be a last.

00:22:26.000 Yeah, leave nothing behind, you know, because you never know.

00:22:30.000 Where do you live?

00:22:31.000 You said you're from Brazil.

00:22:32.000 Where do you live?

00:22:32.000 Do you live in Miami?

00:22:33.000 Yes, I live in Wynwood.

00:22:35.000 Okay.

00:22:36.000 I see her too many times.

00:22:37.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:22:38.000 I work around here with the babies.

00:22:41.000 Here.

00:22:42.000 He's walking the dog, I'm walking the babies.

00:22:45.000 That's my baby.

00:22:46.000 Yeah, that's his baby.

00:22:47.000 I guess he's single too.

00:22:49.000 Single dad.

00:22:50.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:22:51.000 I'm single.

00:22:52.000 Yeah, that's correct.

00:22:53.000 For now he is, yeah.

00:22:54.000 Relationship status for you?

00:22:55.000 Single.

00:22:56.000 Okay.

00:22:57.000 Still?

00:22:58.000 Yeah.

00:22:59.000 See this?

00:23:00.000 Podcast is not bringing...

00:23:03.000 Man, they're afraid of you.

00:23:05.000 They don't want to die.

00:23:07.000 Don't blame us for your parents that are going to switch.

00:23:09.000 Yes, they are.

00:23:10.000 What?

00:23:11.000 Birth control for you.

00:23:12.000 What did you say, Chris?

00:23:13.000 I used this ring, my precious.

00:23:17.000 Oral ring?

00:23:18.000 It has like a...

00:23:20.000 It has like a natural cycle thing, so it measures my temperature.

00:23:25.000 What?

00:23:26.000 For birth control?

00:23:27.000 It tracks everything?

00:23:27.000 Yeah, so it tracks my body temperature and it can tell when I'm ovulating.

00:23:32.000 Oh, so you just avoid sex?

00:23:33.000 But you don't have birth control though?

00:23:35.000 No, no pills.

00:23:37.000 That's the first.

00:23:38.000 Ovulation?

00:23:39.000 32 years old.

00:23:40.000 The ovulation is going to be soon.

00:23:42.000 Just say it.

00:23:46.000 And then you said you're Brazil, right?

00:23:49.000 Yes.

00:23:50.000 Full Brazilian.

00:23:51.000 Okay.

00:23:52.000 So what I can do is, guys, is it Friday?

00:23:55.000 Yeah, it's Friday.

00:23:56.000 We can read some of your guys' questions that you guys got for the ladies.

00:23:58.000 It's Friday.

00:23:59.000 We do have a topic at hand for us.

00:24:00.000 You want to hit them with the first question or do you want to read chats first?

00:24:02.000 We can do chats for supporters first.

00:24:04.000 Give me 30 seconds to...

00:24:05.000 Alright, Bill needs to get it organized.

00:24:07.000 So, we'll do the first question then.

00:24:08.000 Go ahead.

00:24:09.000 Ladies on the panel, we know it's tough dating nowadays.

00:24:11.000 You're all single here.

00:24:13.000 And for the most part, we've all been in situations where dating people, they suck because they are either bad people for us or they're not what we want.

00:24:22.000 But we're in these scenarios.

00:24:24.000 How's dating for you in Miami or where you're from?

00:24:27.000 Is it good or is it bad?

00:24:28.000 Tell us the real deal on dating for you.

00:24:29.000 We'll start here.

00:24:31.000 Okay, so where I am from, Brazil...

00:24:34.000 I feel that people are not very loyal.

00:24:38.000 Well, I mean, probably more Miami, right?

00:24:40.000 You live in Miami now, so you can talk about Miami.

00:24:42.000 Yeah, so in Miami, I feel like I got to go on some first dates, but I couldn't really connect with the guys here.

00:24:51.000 Why is that?

00:24:53.000 I felt that oftentimes they were just like, oh, I'm the founder or the CEO of this thing and that's it.

00:24:59.000 And then what else do you bring to the table?

00:25:01.000 Like, oh, you're a cool guy.

00:25:03.000 Are you kind?

00:25:04.000 And I felt like that's not there.

00:25:06.000 A lot of it is just showing what they have professionally.

00:25:10.000 That's a lot of shit though, man.

00:25:11.000 It's nice that you were successful in that way, but you gotta also be a cool person and bring something to the table.

00:25:19.000 So the vibe was in there?

00:25:21.000 Yeah.

00:25:21.000 Okay, I gotcha.

00:25:22.000 I feel that's common in Miami though, so I'm curious to see what the other girls are gonna say.

00:25:26.000 Yeah.

00:25:27.000 What about you?

00:25:28.000 I don't know yet, because I just got here four months ago, but I don't really go out or anything, so it's hard for me to meet people.

00:25:36.000 I just live in my home, that's it.

00:25:38.000 But you have Instagram, right?

00:25:39.000 Yeah, but I mean, come on, I'm not going to answer to a guy in my DMs over Instagram.

00:25:44.000 You never have?

00:25:45.000 Come on.

00:25:46.000 Come on now.

00:25:47.000 On a date?

00:25:47.000 No.

00:25:49.000 Bruh, we're in Miami, the age of social media.

00:25:52.000 You never went on a date before, ever?

00:25:54.000 Mm-mm.

00:25:57.000 What about, for example, dating apps?

00:25:59.000 I'm on the dating apps, but I feel like Hinge is the best one, right?

00:26:04.000 I don't know, in my opinion.

00:26:06.000 But you'll probably get like 300 likes and maybe go on a date with one guy, two guys maybe.

00:26:11.000 Okay, how was that experience for you on those dates for guys?

00:26:13.000 It was good, yeah.

00:26:15.000 It was good, it just didn't work out.

00:26:17.000 No, but why didn't it work out?

00:26:20.000 Honestly, I don't really know.

00:26:21.000 I mean, the guys I've been on dates with weren't interesting or one guy that I did see it going somewhere.

00:26:30.000 We got in an argument and we just didn't see eye to eye and that was that.

00:26:34.000 About what though?

00:26:35.000 Yeah, I'm just curious.

00:26:35.000 What is it about that turned you off with the argument?

00:26:39.000 So I don't like when people say something like, what are you doing?

00:26:47.000 But they are hoping that you say something else.

00:26:50.000 Like where you have to read between the lines.

00:26:52.000 Does that make sense?

00:26:53.000 Just be straight up.

00:26:54.000 Just tell me.

00:26:55.000 You know what I mean?

00:26:56.000 I don't like those little games.

00:26:57.000 So I said that and it really pissed him off.

00:27:00.000 He's like, oh, you're so like...

00:27:01.000 Your mood just changed.

00:27:02.000 And I was like, no, I'm not here to play games.

00:27:04.000 Just say what you want.

00:27:05.000 That's it.

00:27:06.000 And he got upset.

00:27:07.000 And then I was like, okay, let's forget about it.

00:27:08.000 Whatever.

00:27:09.000 And then, yeah.

00:27:11.000 And he didn't forget about it.

00:27:12.000 He got really mad that I said that.

00:27:14.000 If he said what he want, you would dump him on the spot.

00:27:17.000 He wants sex.

00:27:19.000 You know, that's not for me.

00:27:29.000 Okay, what was the context of the inquiry that he gave you?

00:27:33.000 What did he ask, specifically?

00:27:36.000 So we were supposed to hang out that night, and he asked me, what are you doing later?

00:27:41.000 Like, you know what I'm doing later, right?

00:27:44.000 He wants a fight.

00:27:45.000 Wait, what?

00:27:46.000 Wait, wait.

00:27:47.000 So hold on, you guys already had a planned date to hang out, and then he asked you, what are you doing later?

00:27:51.000 Yeah, thank you.

00:27:52.000 That's what I said, and then I told him, like...

00:27:54.000 Like, did he mean, like, doing later as, like, and this is before you guys met up?

00:27:58.000 Well, we were already seeing each other.

00:28:00.000 No, no, no, no, no.

00:28:01.000 Oh, like for the day.

00:28:02.000 Okay.

00:28:02.000 So let's say you guys had your date planned for 7 or 8 p.m.

00:28:05.000 Did he message you at like 2 saying, what are you doing later, knowing he was going to meet you at 8?

00:28:09.000 Or were you guys already out together and he asked you why you guys were out in person, what are you doing later?

00:28:14.000 No, the first one.

00:28:15.000 Okay.

00:28:16.000 Okay.

00:28:17.000 See, that context matters.

00:28:18.000 So, he was gonna see you later.

00:28:20.000 That doesn't make sense for him to ask that then.

00:28:22.000 He wanted to fuck.

00:28:23.000 So that's why I said, I was like, you mean hanging out, right?

00:28:25.000 And he's like, oh, I'm just confirming.

00:28:27.000 I'm like, what do you mean?

00:28:28.000 What?

00:28:29.000 So he did a weird confirmation.

00:28:31.000 A very weird confirmation.

00:28:31.000 Yeah, that's kind of weird.

00:28:32.000 That's so weird.

00:28:33.000 What are you doing?

00:28:33.000 Instead of saying, are we good for later or something.

00:28:36.000 Or I'll see you at eight, right?

00:28:37.000 Well, here's the thing.

00:28:38.000 That's what I would've preferred.

00:28:39.000 Girls are really flaky in Miami.

00:28:40.000 That's probably why he did that.

00:28:41.000 Yeah.

00:28:42.000 Facts.

00:28:42.000 Girls are flaky.

00:28:43.000 I mean, in general.

00:28:45.000 But he's assuming the flake before he even confirms.

00:28:48.000 It's a shitty way to do it.

00:28:50.000 I just didn't like it, so I said something and he didn't like that I said something.

00:28:54.000 How long were you guys hanging out when this happened?

00:28:57.000 A little under two months.

00:29:01.000 Damn!

00:29:01.000 And you were just okay with saying, fuck it, I'm not gonna talk to this guy again?

00:29:04.000 Well, no, because if you don't want to have an adult conversation already, and we're already just two months in, that tells me that later down the road you're not going to want to have harder conversations.

00:29:14.000 So, I don't want to deal with that.

00:29:16.000 So you just want him to say, I want to fuck?

00:29:19.000 Come on, let's Netflix and fuck.

00:29:21.000 I mean, yeah.

00:29:23.000 You rather that?

00:29:23.000 I don't really care, as long as you're honest and straight up about it.

00:29:26.000 I respect that.

00:29:29.000 Interesting.

00:29:30.000 Yeah.

00:29:31.000 Alright.

00:29:31.000 There's probably some more things there we're missing, but...

00:29:33.000 Yeah, yeah, definitely not messing.

00:29:35.000 Alright.

00:29:35.000 What about you?

00:29:36.000 How's dating for you?

00:29:37.000 Oh, we know.

00:29:38.000 I ain't gonna hold you.

00:29:39.000 I don't date.

00:29:40.000 She fucks.

00:29:41.000 Shit, if this motherfucker paying me, shit, I never will.

00:29:45.000 Well, to an extent, but nah, I ain't gonna hold you.

00:29:47.000 I don't date.

00:29:48.000 Because if you want to be realistic in this time of era...

00:29:51.000 Right.

00:29:53.000 Even if you date, niggas gonna do what they wanna do.

00:29:56.000 Niggas are going to...

00:29:58.000 They're going to still cheat.

00:30:01.000 They're going to still trick on Paulina.

00:30:05.000 And you at home cooking his meal while he just let it go with Paulina and not coming home to you.

00:30:11.000 I don't do all that.

00:30:12.000 I'd rather understanding than a title.

00:30:17.000 Okay.

00:30:18.000 Let me ask you this, though.

00:30:20.000 I guess you're child fathers.

00:30:22.000 Didn't you date them at the beginning?

00:30:24.000 Yeah.

00:30:25.000 And what caused, I guess, I just wanted them to break it off with you or vice versa?

00:30:29.000 Okay, see, my first BD... I had my first baby when I was like 15, so...

00:30:34.000 My first BD, he was a grown man, you feel me?

00:30:39.000 FBI, open up!

00:30:41.000 Type shit.

00:30:43.000 So...

00:30:43.000 Okay, you know what, let's go the second BD. The one's more of age.

00:30:47.000 When you're older.

00:30:48.000 The second one, I ain't gonna hold you.

00:30:51.000 It was all gravy, but...

00:30:54.000 It was unexpected.

00:30:58.000 The baby.

00:31:00.000 The baby was unexpected.

00:31:02.000 Really?

00:31:03.000 So you didn't know you were pregnant?

00:31:06.000 No, he knew.

00:31:07.000 From when I knew, he knew.

00:31:11.000 Type shit.

00:31:12.000 It was just unexpected.

00:31:14.000 When you're dealing with somebody, you don't just...

00:31:17.000 Be, you know, doing the do, and then, oh, I'm gonna get pregnant.

00:31:20.000 I mean, I don't know.

00:31:21.000 I just didn't see that I was able to have another child at the time being.

00:31:27.000 And I... Kept it?

00:31:29.000 ...had a baby, randomly.

00:31:32.000 So you don't want to be with him, like, I guess, because he's the father of your kid?

00:31:36.000 Or you just feel like it's not worth it?

00:31:37.000 He's a crab.

00:31:40.000 Like Mr.

00:31:41.000 Krabs?

00:31:41.000 What?

00:31:42.000 Like...

00:31:42.000 Arr, baby.

00:31:44.000 Put that shit down.

00:31:45.000 He's a crab.

00:31:50.000 I'm confused.

00:31:51.000 Yeah, I've never heard that slang term before.

00:31:54.000 She's basically saying he's not shit.

00:31:55.000 Oh!

00:31:56.000 Okay.

00:31:57.000 And then, being the fact that I had my first baby at 15, come on, I got pregnant again, you think I'm gonna kill my baby?

00:32:05.000 No.

00:32:06.000 Oh, did he want you to get an abortion?

00:32:08.000 He ain't say shit about that.

00:32:11.000 Because I asked.

00:32:12.000 So what did he say when you said, do you want to keep it?

00:32:15.000 What did he say?

00:32:15.000 Nothing.

00:32:16.000 Part left.

00:32:18.000 He left it flat.

00:32:19.000 So you told him I'm pregnant and he just ran?

00:32:22.000 I mean, no, not really.

00:32:24.000 It just was like a dull moment.

00:32:26.000 How long were you guys together when this happened?

00:32:28.000 I mean, I've been fucking with him for about six months.

00:32:31.000 Okay, so...

00:32:32.000 There's some chemistry there, but...

00:32:34.000 So you told him and he was just silent?

00:32:37.000 I guess he didn't believe me until I started getting bigger.

00:32:41.000 Oh, shit.

00:32:41.000 And then what did he do at that point?

00:32:45.000 Kind of got down.

00:32:50.000 Alright.

00:32:50.000 So you don't date anymore because...

00:32:54.000 I don't date.

00:32:55.000 I don't date period.

00:32:58.000 Wait, so niggas gotta pay?

00:33:01.000 I mean...

00:33:02.000 Yep.

00:33:04.000 Alright.

00:33:05.000 Wait, hold on.

00:33:06.000 You made your baby daddy pay?

00:33:09.000 Okay, there you go.

00:33:11.000 He had me.

00:33:12.000 Okay, good.

00:33:13.000 It was the eyes.

00:33:16.000 Okay, we can move on.

00:33:17.000 What about you?

00:33:19.000 I don't know if you know this.

00:33:21.000 I feel like your relationship is going to be as good as you are with yourself.

00:33:27.000 I mean, that's a big factor.

00:33:30.000 I also have a relationship with God, so that's a big factor for me too, personally.

00:33:37.000 So, let's say your last person you were talking to.

00:33:39.000 Okay.

00:33:40.000 How'd you meet them and why did it end?

00:33:41.000 Well, keep in mind, she's not in Miami.

00:33:43.000 She's in Columbus, Ohio.

00:33:44.000 Back home, back home, back home.

00:33:45.000 Yeah.

00:33:45.000 I mean, she might as well be in Miami.

00:33:47.000 We were together for like a year.

00:33:51.000 It was great.

00:33:51.000 It was fine.

00:33:52.000 I think that we just kind of distanced each other because he's busy, I'm busy.

00:33:56.000 It wasn't anything negative.

00:33:58.000 Okay.

00:33:58.000 Yeah.

00:33:59.000 So dating now, how do you find your next mate?

00:34:01.000 Is it in church?

00:34:01.000 Is it like apps, Instagram, money?

00:34:03.000 I'm going to let the universe kind of The universe?

00:34:07.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:34:08.000 So I'm gonna let that kind of pull towards me, you know?

00:34:14.000 The universe is going to pull towards you with a great man like their name is Faith.

00:34:19.000 You never know.

00:34:20.000 Your name is Faith.

00:34:23.000 The irony is shocking.

00:34:25.000 I just learned about manifestation!

00:34:29.000 What is it like, I guess, dating in Columbus, Ohio for you?

00:34:37.000 I mean, for the past five years, I've been in two relationships.

00:34:42.000 They're both long-term?

00:34:43.000 Yes.

00:34:44.000 She must be a good bitch.

00:34:45.000 And how long?

00:34:46.000 Five years, two relationships.

00:34:48.000 How long did those, was one like two years, three years?

00:34:52.000 Yeah, it was two years in the first one, and then the next one was a year.

00:34:55.000 A year?

00:34:56.000 Yeah.

00:34:57.000 So you mean four years?

00:34:58.000 Or no, three years?

00:34:58.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:34:59.000 Not five?

00:35:00.000 Mm-hmm.

00:35:00.000 Okay, so three.

00:35:01.000 You know what I mean.

00:35:02.000 Math is in her, yeah.

00:35:03.000 Okay, that's fine.

00:35:04.000 She has faith.

00:35:06.000 Okay, so why did those relationships end?

00:35:08.000 Like, you said one of them, it was, like, he was busy and you were busy?

00:35:11.000 Yeah.

00:35:11.000 And then what about the second one?

00:35:13.000 No, so the first one, like, we just grew apart.

00:35:17.000 Like, I don't know.

00:35:18.000 I feel like that is like a pattern for me.

00:35:20.000 In relationships, we just kind of grew apart.

00:35:22.000 I don't really like to argue.

00:35:23.000 I don't like to say too much.

00:35:26.000 Okay.

00:35:27.000 Grew apart.

00:35:28.000 Yeah.

00:35:29.000 You know, how did you guys grow apart?

00:35:32.000 It's always interesting when girls say this.

00:35:34.000 Let me guess.

00:35:34.000 He was a bum.

00:35:36.000 I wouldn't say that.

00:35:37.000 I don't really know how to explain it.

00:35:41.000 It's just kind of like life was life.

00:35:43.000 Let me translate it.

00:35:44.000 Your career aspirations didn't match up to his.

00:35:46.000 You guys that were on different life paths, you probably were on a trajectory to earn more and acquire more status and resources than him.

00:35:52.000 And he wasn't on the same path.

00:35:54.000 So you said, you know what, we're growing apart.

00:35:55.000 Yeah.

00:35:56.000 Fucking every time.

00:35:57.000 Yep.

00:35:58.000 Good job, Mark.

00:36:01.000 It's just like, you know, you gotta translate the womanese, man.

00:36:04.000 Yeah.

00:36:05.000 You be tired and over all this shit.

00:36:08.000 Huh?

00:36:08.000 I say it's good, man.

00:36:09.000 You be tired and over all this shit.

00:36:11.000 No, it's just that, like, women are really bad at saying things like they are, is what I've realized.

00:36:15.000 I've interviewed her, like, 3,000 plus.

00:36:17.000 And you guys always find a way to sugarcoat something, saying things like, we grew apart, or he just wasn't the one, or whatever.

00:36:22.000 And it always comes down to, like, the same fucking thing.

00:36:26.000 I'm making more than him or I'm increasing my status.

00:36:29.000 He's not.

00:36:29.000 He's stagnating.

00:36:30.000 I'm progressing.

00:36:31.000 I can't be with a guy that's not progressing.

00:36:33.000 I'm going to go find a guy that's progressing and or doing better than me.

00:36:35.000 Makes sense.

00:36:36.000 Every single time.

00:36:38.000 Which I don't knock you guys for, but I think it's very important for men to understand that women by nature don't want an equal.

00:36:44.000 They want a superior.

00:36:46.000 Which, that's a whole other conversation.

00:36:48.000 So same thing with the other guy?

00:36:50.000 Same thing?

00:36:50.000 You guys grew apart as well?

00:36:51.000 Yeah, he owned a pretty big roofing company where I live.

00:36:55.000 So he was just constantly going and going and going and it really started growing pretty fastly.

00:37:01.000 He didn't really have the time to invest in the relationship and I didn't, you know...

00:37:05.000 Okay, so you guys grew apart because he was so successful.

00:37:07.000 Yeah.

00:37:08.000 So one guy grew apart because he wasn't ambitious enough, the other guy was too ambitious.

00:37:12.000 Yeah.

00:37:13.000 Interesting.

00:37:13.000 I would have sat my ass home.

00:37:15.000 Go take your ass to that roof, bring your ass back.

00:37:19.000 Yeah, I think that's something that women really don't understand is like they want a guy that makes money and is successful, but then it's like...

00:37:26.000 He has to work.

00:37:26.000 Yeah, it's like you want a guy that earns a lot of money, you're not going to see him that much.

00:37:31.000 Facts.

00:37:32.000 What?

00:37:32.000 Because I'm dealing with that.

00:37:34.000 Who?

00:37:35.000 Wait.

00:37:35.000 Who got a lot of money now?

00:37:37.000 You said he's single.

00:37:38.000 I am, but shit.

00:37:40.000 No titles.

00:37:42.000 Just understanding.

00:37:43.000 Understanding.

00:37:45.000 What I need from you is understanding.

00:37:49.000 Alright, what about you?

00:37:50.000 What's dating like for you in...

00:37:51.000 I mean, you're in Miami now.

00:37:53.000 Yeah, I just got back actually, but as far as like the past, it's just been...

00:37:57.000 Where were you at before?

00:37:58.000 Orlando.

00:37:59.000 Okay.

00:38:00.000 As far as the past, it's just been a lot of like me getting...

00:38:04.000 Me getting bored or tired of like the personality of the person usually.

00:38:07.000 That's what turns me off very fast.

00:38:10.000 And then any inconsistencies in the way that they treat me or how they're talking to me, I'll be probably at the door.

00:38:17.000 I'm really good to, like, leave.

00:38:19.000 I probably always got my, like, running shoes.

00:38:22.000 What's the longest you had a relationship for?

00:38:24.000 Longest.

00:38:29.000 She got bored of her hair.

00:38:43.000 What the fuck?

00:38:44.000 What?

00:38:44.000 What does that even have to do with me?

00:38:46.000 Okay, I look like Jaden.

00:38:49.000 Jaden is...

00:38:50.000 So basically, guys nowadays are boring.

00:38:52.000 They don't have a lot of, like...

00:38:53.000 Hot Cheetos?

00:38:54.000 Not necessarily.

00:38:55.000 Like, you don't have to just be boring in order for me to want to, like, dip.

00:39:00.000 You just might...

00:39:01.000 Parts of your personality just might not be for me.

00:39:03.000 Like, you might be too playful for me.

00:39:05.000 Or you might be, like, one of those guys where...

00:39:08.000 You know how they try to roast you?

00:39:09.000 To try to, like, bring you back down?

00:39:11.000 Yeah, like, shit like that.

00:39:13.000 Stuff like that is just not my vibe.

00:39:15.000 It's not my vibe, so that's happened before.

00:39:19.000 Would you say being inconsistent is another one?

00:39:22.000 Yeah, because they'll first start talking to you and everything is great and they're saying everything that you like and then the minute that you go on a date with them, maybe you give them the kiss that they wanted.

00:39:33.000 You give them one thing that they wanted.

00:39:35.000 Now they're kind of like...

00:39:36.000 Trying to do too much and act like they was like all the way up here and they're that guy.

00:39:42.000 And it's like, no, be that guy that you was the first time because I'm the same person.

00:39:47.000 So don't change when you finally get just a piece of what you want.

00:39:51.000 Or even I give you an inkling that you will get it.

00:39:54.000 Right.

00:39:54.000 They'll already start messing up and I'll be like, all right, I ain't going to wait until I can see the new you.

00:39:59.000 I'm out.

00:39:59.000 I mean, when you take off your makeup, you're not the same person though.

00:40:02.000 Oh, when I took off that makeup, I'm still beautiful.

00:40:05.000 I mean, I ain't saying you're not beautiful, but...

00:40:07.000 So let's dead that.

00:40:07.000 Let's dead that.

00:40:10.000 Okay, thank you for that.

00:40:11.000 What about you?

00:40:12.000 Dating for me in LA, it's not good.

00:40:17.000 It's like a pimp epidemic out there.

00:40:19.000 I was just about to say that.

00:40:19.000 Most men out there want to be pimps or they just want to fuck.

00:40:25.000 You mean like they try to pimp you right off the gate?

00:40:28.000 Yeah.

00:40:28.000 Yeah, basically.

00:40:30.000 That's how they come at girls out there.

00:40:32.000 What's that term when you're on the blade?

00:40:34.000 Is that like a term over there?

00:40:36.000 That means like you hoeing.

00:40:37.000 Put that hoe on the strip.

00:40:38.000 That means you're on the street.

00:40:40.000 Thousand dollar night.

00:40:41.000 When you say men are trying to pimp, can you describe that specifically?

00:40:46.000 Are we talking, because obviously it's 2024, times have changed drastically.

00:40:50.000 OnlyFans?

00:40:50.000 Are we talking they're trying to put you on OnlyFans?

00:40:51.000 Are you talking they're trying to put you on Chatterbait?

00:40:53.000 Are you talking about they're trying to put you out on the streets for real?

00:40:55.000 What do we mean by this?

00:40:56.000 I mean, it could vary.

00:40:58.000 It could be from the streets, the club, OnlyFans.

00:41:01.000 They're just trying to get money out of you, basically.

00:41:03.000 Okay.

00:41:04.000 And so I haven't done any relationships since my ex passed away, so I've just kind of been focusing on myself.

00:41:11.000 Is he the baby's father?

00:41:13.000 No.

00:41:14.000 Okay.

00:41:14.000 Is he from Colorado?

00:41:16.000 No.

00:41:16.000 He's from San Diego, California.

00:41:19.000 Okay.

00:41:20.000 There you go.

00:41:22.000 Mexican too?

00:41:23.000 Puerto Rican.

00:41:26.000 Oh yeah, you fucked up.

00:41:28.000 Okay, so...

00:41:31.000 Interesting.

00:41:32.000 So, with LA, everyone is pretty much trying to pimp you.

00:41:37.000 Not me.

00:41:38.000 Men in general is what I mean.

00:41:41.000 Girl, if they trying to pimp you and you turn it down, they tried to pimp you.

00:41:43.000 They ain't got to do all that.

00:41:45.000 It's an epidemic.

00:41:46.000 They ain't trying to pimp me.

00:41:47.000 That's for damn sure.

00:41:48.000 What about the guys that aren't criminals?

00:41:50.000 The guys that aren't criminals, they're more of just trying to fuck, basically.

00:41:56.000 Interesting.

00:41:57.000 Yeah.

00:41:58.000 Is there a big sugar baby culture out there?

00:42:00.000 I would say so, yeah.

00:42:02.000 It's LA. Yeah, same here in Miami.

00:42:04.000 Yeah.

00:42:05.000 Quite similar.

00:42:06.000 Interesting.

00:42:06.000 All right, what's the next question?

00:42:08.000 Or do we just hit chats?

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00:43:52.000 Cool.

00:43:53.000 Yeah, I know.

00:43:56.000 Moe reads it.

00:43:56.000 Moe sucks at reading.

00:43:57.000 Why do you get it on Moe, man?

00:43:58.000 Yeah, they roast him up for that reading.

00:43:59.000 It wasn't that bad.

00:44:01.000 Okay, let's hit some of these chats real quick.

00:44:05.000 Guys, go ahead and get your questions in.

00:44:07.000 Let's see what you guys got to say.

00:44:09.000 FNFSuperChat.com, guys, or Rumble Rant, or Castle Club It In, either or any of those three methods.

00:44:13.000 And we've got a video to play to as well.

00:44:14.000 Big Moe really said...

00:44:17.000 Ovulation.

00:44:18.000 Okay.

00:44:19.000 With the Shrek.

00:44:21.000 CJ Sweat goes, Yo, Myron, Libro, WFNF. I don't know who that is.

00:44:24.000 Who's that?

00:44:25.000 No idea.

00:44:26.000 304s, welcome to the Church of Fresh and Fit.

00:44:27.000 Here are our leaders, Decon Fresh and Pastor Fit, are here to save your souls and help guide your life back on track.

00:44:33.000 Please respect the man of God.

00:44:34.000 Question for you.

00:44:35.000 What's something you never realized about yourself until someone else told you?

00:44:38.000 X, we tell Chris he's a bum.

00:44:40.000 That's actually not a bad question.

00:44:41.000 What's something that you didn't know about yourself, but you realized that after someone noticed and told you, we can start right here with Miss LA. Something that somebody else told me that I didn't realize about myself.

00:44:53.000 Yeah, and then you're like, damn, actually, they're right.

00:44:55.000 Maybe on a TV show?

00:44:56.000 How about this?

00:44:56.000 I'll keep reading the chats.

00:44:57.000 You guys think about it because that is kind of a deeper question.

00:45:00.000 I'll keep reading.

00:45:02.000 But just think of something, ladies.

00:45:04.000 WFNF for bringing on OGs from Cals Club.

00:45:07.000 Dominicano, yep, shout out to him.

00:45:08.000 On the pod, he's our Make-A-Wish kid.

00:45:10.000 Moe, take him out for some Bloody Marys and help the nigga feel rejuvenated.

00:45:13.000 Ladies, the kid is single and ready to have someone teach him about the birds and the bees.

00:45:17.000 Okay.

00:45:18.000 I really am confused.

00:45:18.000 You want to shout him out real quick?

00:45:20.000 Yeah, he's here.

00:45:22.000 Dominicano, you want to come up here?

00:45:23.000 You want to come on, bro?

00:45:25.000 Yes, sir!

00:45:27.000 Yeah, say what's up to the people.

00:45:29.000 Shout out to the OG. Shout out Chicago Castle Club Mafia.

00:45:35.000 Thank you guys for bringing me on.

00:45:37.000 This is great.

00:45:38.000 You low-key looking like that.

00:45:39.000 You love you.

00:45:40.000 You put up.

00:45:42.000 And this is one of the guys in the Castle Club that needed help with heart issues.

00:45:47.000 Yeah.

00:45:47.000 One of our members of the B84. Yeah, one of our guys is a doctor.

00:45:51.000 So, yeah, man, Castle Club, man.

00:45:52.000 Shout out to him, man.

00:45:53.000 Let's go.

00:45:53.000 Shout out to the community.

00:45:54.000 Shout out to Dave.

00:45:55.000 Thank you, Dominicano.

00:45:56.000 Ladies, rate the girl next to you and name one thing she can do to improve her looks.

00:46:00.000 All right, so...

00:46:01.000 Also, you rate her an 8, 9, or 10...

00:46:03.000 Think about this.

00:46:05.000 Alright, so let's answer the first question or this question first?

00:46:07.000 Okay, yeah.

00:46:08.000 So first we'll go with something you didn't realize about yourself.

00:46:11.000 Yeah.

00:46:11.000 So we'll start here on Miss LA now.

00:46:12.000 You got some time.

00:46:13.000 And then we'll go to the next one.

00:46:15.000 That I'm overly giving.

00:46:17.000 Okay.

00:46:18.000 Something negative, man.

00:46:19.000 That's too good.

00:46:20.000 I already knew the girls were going to...

00:46:21.000 Something that was not nice about yourself.

00:46:25.000 I can be a bitch.

00:46:26.000 Oh!

00:46:27.000 Okay.

00:46:27.000 Well, we knew that already, but...

00:46:28.000 Okay.

00:46:29.000 I believe it.

00:46:30.000 For the TV show.

00:46:31.000 Um...

00:46:31.000 I've been told before that I can be pretty prideful.

00:46:34.000 You know?

00:46:35.000 That, like, if someone does cross me, like, I'm not...

00:46:37.000 I'll forgive, but I definitely don't forgive nothing.

00:46:40.000 Ours.

00:46:43.000 Prideful?

00:46:43.000 Yeah.

00:46:44.000 What about you?

00:46:45.000 I feel like I've been told that when I'm having a conversation, it's hard for me to zone in.

00:46:53.000 I zone out.

00:46:54.000 Yeah, we know.

00:46:54.000 I can tell.

00:46:55.000 Yeah, I don't mean to.

00:46:56.000 It's just me.

00:46:58.000 Do you smoke weed?

00:46:59.000 Yes, I do.

00:47:01.000 But not right now.

00:47:02.000 But that might be a side effect of the herbs, you know what I'm saying?

00:47:06.000 I feel like I was like that before, though.

00:47:08.000 And Botox.

00:47:08.000 For real?

00:47:09.000 Oh, that's bad, man.

00:47:10.000 I don't have Botox.

00:47:11.000 I actually have filler.

00:47:12.000 Oh, filler?

00:47:12.000 Chris, leave her alone, man.

00:47:14.000 Yo, I'm ignorant, man.

00:47:14.000 No, Botox.

00:47:15.000 My forehead moves.

00:47:18.000 What about you?

00:47:21.000 What got fillers in?

00:47:22.000 My lips and my cheeks.

00:47:24.000 I thought it was your chin.

00:47:25.000 Wait, hold on.

00:47:26.000 Your cheeks?

00:47:26.000 My cheeks, my lips, and my chin, yes.

00:47:28.000 Can you stand up and do a twirl?

00:47:31.000 Do I have to?

00:47:32.000 I mean, if you want to.

00:47:32.000 Up to you.

00:47:33.000 I'm okay.

00:47:33.000 Okay, fine.

00:47:34.000 Don't worry about it.

00:47:35.000 Thank you.

00:47:35.000 How did you...

00:47:36.000 Shame me in those cheeks, Chris.

00:47:38.000 Shame me in those cheeks.

00:47:39.000 Oh, man.

00:47:39.000 My body's real.

00:47:41.000 She meant like her cheeks.

00:47:42.000 Hey, listen, man.

00:47:43.000 It's like her cheeks just said stand up.

00:47:46.000 I thought it was ass cheeks, man.

00:47:47.000 No, no, no.

00:47:48.000 I thought it was ass cheeks.

00:47:50.000 No, no.

00:47:50.000 You said your ass.

00:47:51.000 Your ass and your cheeks.

00:47:52.000 Then you spanked your ass.

00:47:54.000 No BBL. I thought the same thing, too, Chris.

00:47:56.000 I gym six days a week.

00:47:58.000 Really?

00:47:58.000 Yeah, I lift.

00:47:59.000 See, now I'm intrigued.

00:48:04.000 I was in a gym today, by the way.

00:48:09.000 I did chess, because you know, chess is for the curls.

00:48:12.000 Sorry, chess is for the...

00:48:13.000 whatever.

00:48:15.000 Stupid.

00:48:16.000 Okay, one thing about you that you realize that someone told you, that you didn't know a girlfriend before?

00:48:21.000 They be like, I act too much like a nigga.

00:48:23.000 Yeah, you do.

00:48:24.000 I believe her.

00:48:25.000 Yeah, I believe her.

00:48:25.000 On some real shit.

00:48:26.000 I mean, I noticed it, but it's like, I be trying to train you.

00:48:31.000 Like one of the boys.

00:48:32.000 Like one of the boys.

00:48:33.000 What party date you from?

00:48:43.000 Okay, what about you?

00:48:45.000 I was gonna say the same thing that I'm basically like one of the guys.

00:48:48.000 No, you're not.

00:48:49.000 I don't see it.

00:48:50.000 I think it's just because when we go out...

00:48:55.000 Actually, she day trades and she argued with that guy.

00:48:59.000 And I'm mean.

00:49:01.000 Well, I'm honest.

00:49:04.000 I don't sugar cut stuff.

00:49:06.000 Do you like confrontation?

00:49:08.000 Do you like to argue?

00:49:09.000 No, it's not worth it.

00:49:10.000 For what?

00:49:20.000 That I always want to be right.

00:49:24.000 I can see that.

00:49:25.000 My response was that I can think whatever and you can think whatever.

00:49:31.000 Can we agree to disagree?

00:49:33.000 If not, I'll kill you.

00:49:34.000 Yeah.

00:49:36.000 Okay.

00:49:37.000 Hey, she does death shit.

00:49:39.000 She's 32 and single, so I'm not surprised.

00:49:40.000 I'm not trying to be an asshole or whatever.

00:49:42.000 Do you want to get married?

00:49:45.000 Not sure.

00:49:46.000 She's not agreeable.

00:49:48.000 It's actually one of the biggest things for marriages.

00:49:51.000 Like, men want an agreeable woman.

00:49:52.000 It's kind of like a turn-off.

00:49:53.000 Are you married?

00:49:54.000 No, she's not married.

00:49:55.000 She's single.

00:49:56.000 No, I'm not talking about...

00:49:58.000 She's asking me if I'm married.

00:49:59.000 Yeah.

00:50:00.000 You have a girlfriend?

00:50:01.000 Basically.

00:50:03.000 You gotta have one.

00:50:04.000 How are you?

00:50:05.000 Okay.

00:50:06.000 So, the thing is, when girls ask me that, I always find it interesting when they say, are you married or do you have a girlfriend?

00:50:12.000 I don't think, okay, if I was to ask you, hypothetically speaking, right, are you having a bunch of sex right now?

00:50:22.000 Fucking a bunch of dudes.

00:50:24.000 If I was to ask you that, that'd be a weird question for me to ask you, right?

00:50:26.000 But I'm not.

00:50:27.000 Well, but it'd be a weird question for me to ask.

00:50:29.000 Whether you are or not is irrelevant.

00:50:30.000 It's by being realistic.

00:50:32.000 Well, either way, it's not really my place to ask you that question is my point I'm trying to get across here.

00:50:37.000 So, and the reason why is because women who picks, women pick who fucks, right?

00:50:41.000 Yeah.

00:50:42.000 So, if women control sex, who controls relationships?

00:50:47.000 You're not answering my question.

00:50:48.000 I am.

00:50:49.000 I am answering it.

00:50:51.000 I'm trying to explain this to you to see the concept of as to why I come up with this answer.

00:50:55.000 Who controls relationships?

00:50:58.000 Women.

00:51:00.000 Actually, the man.

00:51:01.000 Not really.

00:51:01.000 The man.

00:51:02.000 Yeah.

00:51:03.000 Ain't gonna lie, because y'all could be...

00:51:05.000 Y'all are the only ones that determine whether y'all gonna get tied down or not.

00:51:08.000 Yeah.

00:51:09.000 Because you can say it, but it ain't gonna...

00:51:11.000 So, I would say that you're fairly selective with who you have sex with, right?

00:51:15.000 Depending on how much they pay, according to what you said earlier.

00:51:18.000 Right?

00:51:19.000 To a degree.

00:51:19.000 Good job, Mark.

00:51:20.000 Right?

00:51:20.000 Yes.

00:51:21.000 Okay, so...

00:51:22.000 What the fuck?

00:51:23.000 So, you're selective with who you might have sex with.

00:51:25.000 I'm selective with who I commit to.

00:51:28.000 There you go.

00:51:29.000 So are you in a relationship or no?

00:51:30.000 You didn't respond.

00:51:32.000 Is that even me?

00:51:34.000 That's why he's single.

00:51:36.000 I think I chose who I want to be with.

00:51:37.000 I saw him on him.

00:51:39.000 I saw him on him.

00:51:40.000 She'll argue with you.

00:51:42.000 He didn't say it straight up.

00:51:44.000 She'll argue with you.

00:51:44.000 Who?

00:51:45.000 Who's gonna argue with me?

00:51:46.000 Yeah, she would.

00:51:47.000 What?

00:51:47.000 He didn't say it straight up.

00:51:48.000 No, I'm just saying that like...

00:51:51.000 Whether I have a girlfriend or not is irrelevant, is what I'm trying to say.

00:51:54.000 That's like me asking you.

00:51:55.000 You asked us?

00:51:56.000 He's on Hinge.

00:51:57.000 Yeah, because...

00:51:58.000 He's on Hinge?

00:51:59.000 Wait, wait, wait, wait.

00:52:00.000 I'm actually...

00:52:01.000 I'm not on Hinge.

00:52:02.000 Someone's probably using my profile.

00:52:04.000 I'm banned.

00:52:05.000 So I don't know how.

00:52:06.000 Yeah, I'm banned.

00:52:07.000 I get banned off all the dating apps.

00:52:11.000 I'm banned.

00:52:12.000 So someone's probably using my...

00:52:14.000 They literally ban me all the time.

00:52:17.000 So someone's probably using my pictures.

00:52:21.000 But yeah, like, the reason why I said that was because, like, men control who gets in relationships and women controls who fucks.

00:52:27.000 So it's like, to ask a guy, are you in a relationship or do you have a girlfriend, is kind of like a strange question.

00:52:32.000 Because that's like me asking, like, oh yeah, are you fucking people?

00:52:34.000 You'd be like, uh, I pick who I have sex with.

00:52:36.000 That's not a flex.

00:52:37.000 Right.

00:52:37.000 So, but yes, I do have a girlfriend.

00:52:39.000 It's an open relationship.

00:52:40.000 I, I, I, uh...

00:52:44.000 Finally.

00:52:44.000 We got the yes.

00:52:46.000 He's taken.

00:52:47.000 I'm not actually.

00:52:48.000 He's in an open.

00:52:49.000 It's an open relationship.

00:52:51.000 Well, close on her end.

00:52:52.000 Open on mine.

00:52:54.000 Because I don't believe in monogamy.

00:52:56.000 It's understanding.

00:52:57.000 Hey, well, she's happy right now.

00:52:58.000 It's an understanding.

00:53:00.000 That's all that matters.

00:53:02.000 So yeah, I always find it interesting when girls ask that, like, do you have a girlfriend?

00:53:05.000 It's like, well, it's not really like an insult for men, but it is what it is.

00:53:11.000 But anyway, yeah, a single woman is not the same as a single man.

00:53:14.000 So when I was saying that she's 32 and single, it's because she's being non-agreeable.

00:53:17.000 Like, not to sound like an asshole.

00:53:19.000 I promise I'm not trying to hurt your feelings.

00:53:21.000 But I do genuinely believe if a woman is in her 30s and she's not married and has children, she failed.

00:53:27.000 Facts.

00:53:28.000 What do you think?

00:53:29.000 We can agree to disagree.

00:53:31.000 There you go.

00:53:32.000 There you go.

00:53:33.000 You know what?

00:53:33.000 Let's play a game real quick.

00:53:35.000 One of the supporters asked a question in the chat about rating.

00:53:39.000 So rate your comes apart next to you.

00:53:41.000 One out of ten.

00:53:42.000 And how they can improve their looks directly.

00:53:45.000 We'll start here.

00:53:46.000 You can rate her.

00:53:48.000 And then we'll go around.

00:53:49.000 Yeah, one thing to improve her looks.

00:53:50.000 One out of ten, and then one thing to improve her looks.

00:53:52.000 One out of ten.

00:53:53.000 Alright, let me look at this masterpiece.

00:53:55.000 You can't use eight to ten.

00:53:57.000 That was a good one.

00:53:58.000 Wait, you can't use eight to ten?

00:53:59.000 You cannot use eight to ten.

00:54:01.000 You can't use eight to ten.

00:54:01.000 What?

00:54:02.000 I mean, a ten assumes that they're perfect, ladies.

00:54:04.000 Yeah.

00:54:04.000 So you gotta rate one through seven?

00:54:05.000 Is anyone here perfect?

00:54:06.000 Everybody here is perfect?

00:54:07.000 Yeah, to me.

00:54:08.000 I got a lazy eye.

00:54:09.000 Yes.

00:54:10.000 You catch me at the right clip, I'm gonna be looking like this.

00:54:14.000 No, girl, stop.

00:54:16.000 Everybody's perfect.

00:54:17.000 All right, all right.

00:54:18.000 I'll give her a six and a half.

00:54:23.000 Okay.

00:54:24.000 All right.

00:54:24.000 How can she improve?

00:54:25.000 I think she'll look better without the eyelashes, like natural eyelashes.

00:54:30.000 I think it'll be a hit.

00:54:32.000 Okay.

00:54:33.000 But she's beautiful.

00:54:34.000 Alright.

00:54:35.000 Cool.

00:54:35.000 Now you go ahead and rate her next to you.

00:54:37.000 One to ten.

00:54:38.000 What's up, baby?

00:54:39.000 You can't use ten.

00:54:40.000 I know, so I can't use eight and above, okay?

00:54:42.000 Seven.

00:54:44.000 I think you would look good with darker hair.

00:54:48.000 Like all black, maybe?

00:54:49.000 That'd be nice.

00:54:50.000 It's a shit show.

00:54:52.000 Alright.

00:54:54.000 Let me see.

00:54:54.000 One out of ten.

00:55:03.000 So, what number we can't use?

00:55:05.000 8 and above.

00:55:06.000 And if you want the girls to stand up, you could, ladies, if you want to, like, get it better.

00:55:08.000 Why you ask me to stand up?

00:55:09.000 Because I saw you before.

00:55:11.000 Okay.

00:55:12.000 Stand up.

00:55:13.000 Shit, you don't want to stand for him.

00:55:14.000 Stand for me, baby.

00:55:16.000 Okay.

00:55:17.000 Let's see that shit.

00:55:23.000 Alright, what's the number we can't use?

00:55:26.000 7.

00:55:28.000 I mean, it's why they're single, man.

00:55:30.000 Okay.

00:55:30.000 You say I couldn't use a high.

00:55:32.000 How could she improve?

00:55:34.000 I feel like, ain't gonna lie, I don't fuck with the chin.

00:55:49.000 She beautiful, bro!

00:55:51.000 I think that was the best criticism I've heard.

00:55:53.000 That's the funniest one.

00:55:55.000 Yeah, man.

00:55:56.000 She's like, I don't fucking chin, nigga.

00:55:58.000 All right, Columbus, it's on you.

00:55:59.000 Wear her.

00:56:00.000 Go ahead.

00:56:01.000 One to ten and give her a rating of how she can improve.

00:56:04.000 And then if you want her stand-up, she can stand up, too.

00:56:06.000 Don't go easy on that bitch, either, because I see something right now.

00:56:10.000 You should have let us do left and right, not just left.

00:56:14.000 You should do left and right.

00:56:16.000 Hold up, because ain't nobody asking you nothing.

00:56:18.000 Close your mouth.

00:56:21.000 Nobody asking you nothing.

00:56:23.000 I might close that.

00:56:25.000 I know you would.

00:56:27.000 Shit.

00:56:29.000 I know.

00:56:29.000 This is real life right now.

00:56:33.000 Okay, I think you're a seven.

00:56:37.000 I think you're beautiful.

00:56:38.000 I really do.

00:56:38.000 But you know what?

00:56:39.000 I want to see you in some 30-inch bundles.

00:56:41.000 I want to see you in a bust down.

00:56:43.000 What's a 30-inch bundle?

00:56:44.000 A wig?

00:56:45.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:56:47.000 Remember, we're men.

00:56:48.000 We don't know these terms.

00:56:52.000 I don't think there's anything wrong with you at all.

00:56:55.000 I really don't.

00:56:57.000 Perfect answer.

00:56:59.000 What about you to her?

00:57:00.000 I know.

00:57:01.000 I lay your ass out of here.

00:57:03.000 Wait, you want to chime in?

00:57:09.000 Can we resume?

00:57:11.000 Okay, let's continue.

00:57:14.000 Honestly, I thought you were seven.

00:57:18.000 I thought you were too cute.

00:57:20.000 I think the only thing...

00:57:23.000 Go ahead and say it.

00:57:24.000 Feel free to say what you want.

00:57:27.000 I'm not a fan of veneers or stuff like that.

00:57:30.000 I'm a big fan of real teeth.

00:57:32.000 So that's always something I'm just like, nah.

00:57:34.000 I feel you.

00:57:35.000 It could be Rihanna, and I'm like, nah.

00:57:37.000 Them shits look good because they white.

00:57:38.000 They just big.

00:57:40.000 Yeah, like...

00:57:42.000 They look good.

00:57:46.000 They look good because they white, but they just big.

00:57:50.000 That's because my natural teeth are big.

00:57:51.000 That's why.

00:57:52.000 That's why.

00:57:54.000 Damn.

00:57:55.000 Now you can go ahead and rate her, Ms.

00:57:56.000 Brazil.

00:57:57.000 Go ahead.

00:57:59.000 I'd say a six.

00:58:01.000 I feel like you could change the clothes aesthetic.

00:58:04.000 Like, maybe something that matches more.

00:58:07.000 Damn, bitch.

00:58:09.000 You know what?

00:58:10.000 We being honest right here.

00:58:13.000 You don't want to give me a five because I said your teeth big.

00:58:16.000 No, no.

00:58:17.000 We're being honest here.

00:58:18.000 You know what we should do real quick?

00:58:19.000 Reverse.

00:58:20.000 A free-for-all.

00:58:21.000 Reverse.

00:58:21.000 You start it off.

00:58:23.000 Free-for-all.

00:58:23.000 Reverse this.

00:58:24.000 Whoever you want.

00:58:25.000 Free-for-all.

00:58:25.000 Go ahead.

00:58:26.000 Fuck it.

00:58:26.000 I'm finna lay all you hoes out.

00:58:29.000 Alright.

00:58:30.000 Coco!

00:58:31.000 Punch!

00:58:31.000 You look good.

00:58:32.000 I ain't gonna lie.

00:58:32.000 You giving me like a natural woman.

00:58:40.000 I don't got nothing bad to say about you.

00:58:42.000 I ain't gonna hold you.

00:58:43.000 Okay.

00:58:44.000 I wanna hug you.

00:58:44.000 You right here.

00:58:45.000 Let me see.

00:58:50.000 You scraped, too.

00:58:53.000 Yeah, you scraped.

00:58:55.000 Y'all scraped.

00:59:15.000 I don't have really nothing bad to say.

00:59:17.000 They're really beautiful.

00:59:19.000 Real quick, Chad, do me a favor.

00:59:21.000 Give me ones in the chat if the audio is good.

00:59:23.000 I saw somebody say something about audio.

00:59:24.000 Just give us ones in the chat if the audio is good for all the mics.

00:59:27.000 They caught me a drunk ass bitch.

00:59:29.000 Obviously, we're always trying to make sure quality is the highest level.

00:59:32.000 On YouTube and on Rumble.

00:59:33.000 Real quick, guys.

00:59:36.000 Oh, we'll go back to the chats.

00:59:37.000 Guys, go ahead and get your questions in, and then we'll go into your second question.

00:59:40.000 Right, Fresh?

00:59:40.000 And then we got a video to react, right?

00:59:42.000 We definitely do.

00:59:42.000 Alright, cool.

00:59:44.000 What else we got here?

00:59:47.000 No.

00:59:51.000 Okay, it's good?

00:59:53.000 If they're going to put a 2, tell us what the problem is.

00:59:56.000 Alright, what's up next?

00:59:57.000 Yeah, we did this one.

00:59:59.000 Yeah, yeah, next one.

01:00:00.000 This is how the guest in the back walked in the studio.

01:00:21.000 What is that?

01:00:26.000 What?

01:00:28.000 A letter?

01:00:29.000 I think he means the 20th letter of the alphabet.

01:00:32.000 Z? Right here.

01:00:35.000 Oh, okay.

01:00:36.000 Okay.

01:00:37.000 Yo, V, I ain't going front, but you remind me of the 20 letters of the alphabet.

01:00:39.000 Silly me, it's actually 26 letters of the alphabet.

01:00:41.000 How can I forget the U-R-A-Q-T? And you can get the D later.

01:00:49.000 Oh, and you can get the D later.

01:00:51.000 Oh, good job, dude.

01:00:54.000 Yo, okay.

01:00:57.000 Yo, okay.

01:00:58.000 Alright.

01:00:58.000 Interesting.

01:01:00.000 Funny segway.

01:01:01.000 Alright.

01:01:02.000 Go ahead.

01:01:03.000 They're saying the sound effects are too loud.

01:01:05.000 Well, we can turn it down some other time.

01:01:07.000 Ladies, would you rather be rich but single and childless for life or be the wife of a non-monogamous billionaire?

01:01:14.000 Hell yeah!

01:01:17.000 Give me the billionaire for $200, Bill.

01:01:19.000 But is he giving up the money, is the question.

01:01:21.000 Okay, so the question, ladies, would you rather be rich but single and childless for life, which means you're just going to be an old hag with some money and by yourself, or you're with a billionaire that you're attracted to, but he's going to have other women?

01:01:33.000 We can start here with Miss L.A. Which one would you prefer?

01:01:36.000 And why?

01:01:37.000 It depends if he is taking care of me.

01:01:41.000 That's the question.

01:01:42.000 Well, then he can do what he wants.

01:01:44.000 Okay.

01:01:45.000 And you like him.

01:01:46.000 Yeah.

01:01:46.000 So you'd rather do that than have your own money and be by yourself and childless.

01:01:49.000 I mean, I'm gonna have my own money regardless, but...

01:01:51.000 They won't.

01:01:51.000 Well, in this example, you don't.

01:01:53.000 Okay, in this example, no.

01:01:54.000 I mean, he could do what he wants.

01:01:55.000 Well, technically, she does have money in both scenarios.

01:01:57.000 Well, yeah.

01:01:58.000 You have money in both scenarios.

01:01:59.000 It's just that one, you're by yourself.

01:02:00.000 And no kids.

01:02:01.000 The other one, you have a family.

01:02:02.000 Second choice.

01:02:04.000 Billionaire.

01:02:05.000 Okay.

01:02:05.000 What about you?

01:02:06.000 First choice.

01:02:08.000 By yourself, no kids?

01:02:09.000 Yes.

01:02:10.000 She look like it.

01:02:12.000 Yes.

01:02:14.000 Okay.

01:02:15.000 Alright, what about you?

01:02:17.000 I guess it really just depends on if you believe in monogamy or not, you know?

01:02:21.000 So, I mean, I would go with the first one, I think.

01:02:26.000 Talent money with no kids?

01:02:27.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah, because I feel like it's a lot of pressure being the second, you know?

01:02:31.000 You lost a friend.

01:02:32.000 But just hear me out.

01:02:33.000 I feel like it's just a lot of pressure trying to be that for somebody.

01:02:36.000 I mean, most men aren't monogamous, though.

01:02:38.000 They're going to sneak into it.

01:02:39.000 Where I'm from, though, monogamy is popular.

01:02:42.000 So it's like, I'm not really used to that.

01:02:43.000 Ohio?

01:02:44.000 Yeah, of course it is.

01:02:45.000 Yeah, I'm not really used to the Miami scene at all.

01:02:49.000 Wait, are you guys friends?

01:02:51.000 Shit, we just met today, hoes connect.

01:02:53.000 We just met today, but she's cool.

01:02:54.000 She's cool.

01:02:55.000 Yeah, you heard that.

01:02:56.000 Yeah.

01:02:56.000 Okay.

01:02:57.000 I'll come back to that.

01:02:58.000 What about you?

01:02:58.000 Are you taking a billionaire in a family or a childless with your own money?

01:03:02.000 And no man.

01:03:03.000 Shit, I'll do the monogamous.

01:03:05.000 I ain't gonna lie, cause I love hoes.

01:03:07.000 Okay, so you'll do the billionaire too.

01:03:08.000 Alright, what about you?

01:03:10.000 We can have our own money in both scenarios, right?

01:03:13.000 Alright, boss bitch, right?

01:03:15.000 Well, yeah, I mean, the billionaire, let's assume he gives you an allowance for some shit to live on.

01:03:19.000 No, no, no, no, no.

01:03:20.000 Like, I can have my own company and make my own money, but...

01:03:24.000 Come on, man.

01:03:25.000 Let's be real here, man.

01:03:25.000 It's like the relationship is non-monogamous.

01:03:28.000 Yes, on his end only.

01:03:30.000 That's fine.

01:03:31.000 Which means it's monogamous for you, but not for him.

01:03:34.000 That's fine, but I can have my own money also.

01:03:36.000 Well, yes, you would get your money through.

01:03:38.000 Yeah, and you'd have a family.

01:03:39.000 No, no, not through him.

01:03:39.000 Like, my own stuff.

01:03:41.000 That wasn't a question.

01:03:42.000 No, no, I just want to make sure so I can answer.

01:03:44.000 You're adding to it, but...

01:03:45.000 You want to go with the money?

01:03:47.000 Cheeks of Mexicans?

01:03:47.000 Look, it's family.

01:03:49.000 Basically, you have a billionaire boyfriend or husband or whatever, and you have a family, and you don't have to worry about money, because it doesn't really make sense to work.

01:03:56.000 Or, you have your own money, but you have no family and no children.

01:04:01.000 And tacos.

01:04:02.000 Huh?

01:04:03.000 The second one.

01:04:04.000 Oh, no children, no family.

01:04:05.000 No, no.

01:04:05.000 I'm sorry.

01:04:06.000 Oh, the billionaire.

01:04:06.000 With the family.

01:04:07.000 Okay.

01:04:07.000 Alright.

01:04:08.000 What about you?

01:04:09.000 I'm not into poly, so I'll do the first one because of the money, but I would be jealous about that situation.

01:04:18.000 Oh, wow.

01:04:19.000 Okay, so if I'm not mistaken, we got, what, three girls here that would be childless?

01:04:23.000 One, two, and three?

01:04:25.000 Mm-hmm.

01:04:25.000 Okay.

01:04:26.000 Do you guys think that you're going to find overall satisfaction as a woman through career and pursuit of success?

01:04:34.000 I think I could definitely reach a certain satisfaction that would leave me happy enough to understand.

01:04:41.000 But do you think you're going to get that satisfaction through a career and success is what I'm asking you.

01:04:48.000 Do you think you're going to get that life fulfillment satisfaction as a woman?

01:04:54.000 I'll come back to you.

01:04:55.000 Do you think you're going to get that satisfaction and life fulfillment through a career?

01:04:58.000 If you're fulfilled within yourself, yeah, I do.

01:05:01.000 Interesting.

01:05:02.000 Mm-hmm.

01:05:03.000 What about you?

01:05:04.000 Do you think you're going to get it through a career instead of a family?

01:05:08.000 Well, I said it was not about the money.

01:05:10.000 It was mostly because I would be uncomfortable with the guy being fragmented.

01:05:15.000 I would like to be with someone who's grounded.

01:05:18.000 And all in.

01:05:20.000 I respect who's into poly, but it's just not for me.

01:05:23.000 So you would rather face the despair of not having a family than just dealing with him cheating on you every now and then?

01:05:29.000 It would be a despair to be with someone who's poly.

01:05:33.000 That would be a worse despair.

01:05:35.000 Say it, girl.

01:05:35.000 Hold on, but you've got to compare the two, right?

01:05:38.000 So both sides suck, right?

01:05:40.000 But on one side, you have no kids, no lineage, no one to look after you in your old years.

01:05:45.000 But on the other hand, yeah, it sucks, he fucks other bitches, but he comes back to you and you're his wife and you have kids.

01:05:51.000 Which one hurts more?

01:05:52.000 You were born alone and you die alone.

01:05:54.000 Oh my god!

01:05:56.000 Just for you three, I guess, you didn't get to answer it.

01:06:05.000 So do you think chasing a career and the pursuit of success is going to fulfill you as a female?

01:06:10.000 I think it definitely can fulfill you as a person, being that...

01:06:14.000 But as a woman?

01:06:15.000 Yes, because a lot of the times your dreams are something that can fill you up.

01:06:19.000 It can definitely give you hope and aspiration to see a new day.

01:06:23.000 So if there's something in your life that you're chasing and you actually do accomplish that, that can fill you up and give you just as much happiness as a man or a child would.

01:06:31.000 Because at the end of the day, for a lot of women, kids are not the end-all be-all of the world.

01:06:36.000 And that's just period.

01:06:37.000 Do you agree with that?

01:06:38.000 Yeah.

01:06:38.000 Do you also agree with that?

01:06:41.000 Yes.

01:06:42.000 Well, you guys are wrong, and I'll tell you why.

01:06:46.000 And this is kind of why, and I'll go into a little bit more detail here.

01:06:50.000 Feminism, I think, has lied to women and told you guys that pursuing a career and education, just chill for two seconds.

01:06:56.000 Clap.

01:06:57.000 Chasing a career and education and these masculine things is going to fulfill you.

01:07:03.000 But the reality is that's what fulfills men.

01:07:06.000 We're chasing after success and building up our name and our status because that increases our ability to find a mate, right?

01:07:13.000 But for you guys, you chase career and success and money.

01:07:16.000 That doesn't really help you find a mate.

01:07:18.000 If anything, it makes it harder for you to find a mate because as you make more money and become richer and you have more status, Your standards go up with your status.

01:07:26.000 But with men, we could become multi-millionaires and still date a girl that works at McDonald's, hypothetically speaking, of course.

01:07:31.000 So we're able to use our success to go ahead and attract women.

01:07:36.000 You guys can't really use your success to attract men because we don't care about that stuff.

01:07:40.000 So I think women derive their fulfillment and their pleasure from having a family and children because women are social creatures.

01:07:46.000 You guys, versus men, we're like more...

01:07:48.000 We understand that if we don't go out there and be successful, we're going to be losers.

01:07:52.000 No one's going to respect us, and we deal with consequences.

01:07:54.000 But for you guys, you can choose if you want to be successful or not.

01:07:57.000 It doesn't make or break you.

01:07:58.000 So I don't think women get the same fulfillment from chasing a career.

01:08:01.000 And we've had plenty of girls come on that earn six figures a year.

01:08:04.000 Older.

01:08:05.000 Make a bunch of money.

01:08:06.000 They get into the professional world.

01:08:07.000 Then they have kids and guess what they do?

01:08:09.000 They cut the hours back.

01:08:10.000 They say, fuck this.

01:08:11.000 Maybe they quit their job altogether because they realize kids is what I want to do.

01:08:15.000 Versus for men, they have a kid.

01:08:18.000 Oh, I need to work more hours.

01:08:18.000 I need to earn more.

01:08:19.000 I need to really become successful to take care of my kids.

01:08:22.000 So when we have children, we look at things way differently.

01:08:36.000 Facts.

01:08:37.000 So, I don't know if you want to respond to that, but...

01:08:39.000 I feel like, again, womanhood is for a woman to stay what she does and doesn't want.

01:08:45.000 Period.

01:08:45.000 It's the scope of what we want in our lives.

01:08:47.000 Because at the end of the day, a man is the maker, he is the seer, the doer, and the everything in his universe.

01:08:53.000 And for a woman, outside of what a man can give me or what he brings to my life, I need to be the way maker, the doer, the achiever, the everything for myself before I can even include another man in that.

01:09:06.000 You must be whole.

01:09:07.000 And if chasing a career and chasing things that mean something to me is how I feel that fulfillment before I get a man or kids, or if I ever even choose to do that, that's my business.

01:09:17.000 No, for sure.

01:09:18.000 But what I'm telling you is that you've been indoctrinated to think that way from 60, 70 years of feminist propaganda and programming telling you to go out there and chase a career, earn money.

01:09:30.000 You need to be whole to find a man.

01:09:32.000 That's not...

01:09:33.000 We had a guy in here earlier, right?

01:09:34.000 He was born in the 40s.

01:09:36.000 And he was saying...

01:09:37.000 Yeah, 40s?

01:09:38.000 Yeah, he was 77.

01:09:39.000 He was a survivor on the USS Liberty.

01:09:41.000 But I asked him, hey, was divorce really a thing back in the 60s, 50s?

01:09:45.000 He said no.

01:09:46.000 But they were getting married way younger, right?

01:09:48.000 And the women were happier.

01:09:50.000 So I find it interesting how women have more money now than ever before.

01:09:53.000 They're more successful, more educated.

01:09:55.000 But they're the least happy they've ever been.

01:09:58.000 I also feel like that is the aspect of social media.

01:10:01.000 I think social media allows us to feel that the glass is always half empty.

01:10:04.000 But this has been a problem since the 70s before social media is what I'm trying to say.

01:10:07.000 I understand, but you're saying too that there's a difference in the amount of happy women that there are even though there's more money.

01:10:13.000 I still believe that a lot of concepts and ideals are spewed out to us so much to the point where we don't even know what we're thinking or what we even choose to believe.

01:10:23.000 Versus what Instagram or a podcast or what have you has.

01:10:27.000 There's so much information regurgitated at you that I feel like a lot of the time people don't step back in order to decipher what they believe, what they think, versus what they see.

01:10:37.000 So I think that's what it is.

01:10:38.000 A lot of the time people are just comparing their lives to what's already out there.

01:10:42.000 Well, that's a direct result of feminism.

01:10:44.000 That's literally the propaganda I was just telling you about.

01:10:46.000 Why do we have to settle?

01:10:48.000 It's been lying to you guys for decades.

01:10:50.000 What are you saying?

01:10:51.000 Why do we have to settle for a guy who is a cheater?

01:10:54.000 Well, this is just one example, but you can find a guy that won't cheat on you, but he just won't be that attractive.

01:11:01.000 What?

01:11:02.000 Tell me about it.

01:11:04.000 Oh, am I speaking of porn lately?

01:11:06.000 What's she gonna be geeked out?

01:11:08.000 Okay, hold on, hold on.

01:11:09.000 Ladies, you do understand that the more attractive your man is, the less likely he's gonna be faithful to you, right?

01:11:15.000 Facts.

01:11:15.000 Okay, so, you don't agree with that?

01:11:18.000 No.

01:11:19.000 Who said no?

01:11:20.000 Why is that?

01:11:20.000 Me.

01:11:21.000 I believe there's attractive men who are definitely faithful.

01:11:25.000 Who?

01:11:25.000 Just not in Miami.

01:11:27.000 They're everywhere.

01:11:28.000 There's billions of people on this planet.

01:11:30.000 So then why are you single?

01:11:31.000 Because, I told you already, it was a personality thing.

01:11:34.000 It had nothing to do with actual loyalty.

01:11:39.000 So let me get this straight.

01:11:41.000 You believe that your career, your self-independence will take you through life, you'll be happy, right?

01:11:47.000 But what if you find out later on that you're not happy?

01:11:52.000 Because your whole agenda or your whole setup is what men should be doing.

01:11:57.000 So for example, let's say you still have your career, but you have a man at home to take care of you, and you work because you want to work, because you have to work.

01:12:03.000 That pressure on you every single day is not natural.

01:12:05.000 As a woman, you have enough pressure on being independent, it's not natural.

01:12:08.000 Back in the day, you'd be a stay-at-home wife, and she might have some hobbies or whatever, but it was normal.

01:12:12.000 It's her feminine energy that was there.

01:12:14.000 You being masculine energy is like, it doesn't work.

01:12:19.000 That's why you say that.

01:12:20.000 So you prefer traditional values?

01:12:23.000 That's what it should be.

01:12:24.000 Yeah.

01:12:24.000 Because even though social media and these new endeavors, still we are biologically made to be men and women, which means men provide, women are caretakers.

01:12:31.000 I feel like it's not fair, though, sometimes, just because I feel like, especially social media, if you're a woman that doesn't want to work, then you're just lazy.

01:12:39.000 Well, that's only idiots that say that.

01:12:40.000 But who's saying that?

01:12:41.000 Who's saying that, though?

01:12:42.000 You're right.

01:12:42.000 Other women say that.

01:12:43.000 Exactly.

01:12:44.000 But men say that as well.

01:12:44.000 I've heard men say that as well.

01:12:46.000 Who?

01:12:46.000 I've heard men say that as well.

01:12:47.000 Like top-notch men, CEOs, founders.

01:12:50.000 I've heard it.

01:12:52.000 And then look and see who they're dating or who they're with.

01:12:55.000 They're with the receptionist or they're with a woman that works a bullshit job.

01:12:59.000 I asked the question, why are they saying that though?

01:13:00.000 Because if you peel it back a layer, why are they saying that?

01:13:03.000 It's because they want to tell you what you want to hear.

01:13:05.000 In reality, who are you actually dating or smashing?

01:13:07.000 The receptionist.

01:13:08.000 For example, the one two down from Myron.

01:13:11.000 She's a boss babe, and guys know she's not lazy.

01:13:16.000 Well, Chris?

01:13:17.000 She's a boss babe, right?

01:13:19.000 So guys know the one in the white, right?

01:13:22.000 Oh, okay.

01:13:23.000 So guys know she's not lazy, so she say, yeah, whatever, I'm not lazy, blah, blah, blah.

01:13:27.000 So guys will lie to you to fuck you, and that's why you are where you are.

01:13:32.000 You're single, and you're fucking niggas, man.

01:13:34.000 Yep.

01:13:35.000 Chris, how the...

01:13:46.000 To respond to what you were saying, because she was the one that made that assertion.

01:13:49.000 Hey, CEOs, I've heard them say that I don't want a lazy woman or whatever.

01:13:53.000 When men talk to you, they're looking, okay, how do I get laid talking to this woman?

01:14:01.000 Right?

01:14:01.000 So if you say something like, oh, I'm an esthetician.

01:14:04.000 Let's use your example.

01:14:05.000 I'm an esthetician.

01:14:07.000 Oh, really?

01:14:08.000 Cool.

01:14:08.000 He's collecting information, so she's employed.

01:14:11.000 Alright.

01:14:12.000 Tell us about your past relationships.

01:14:14.000 Oh yeah, I had a guy, but you know, we grew apart.

01:14:18.000 Right?

01:14:19.000 Translation.

01:14:19.000 His ambition wasn't like mine.

01:14:21.000 I had better aspirations.

01:14:22.000 He wasn't doing anything.

01:14:23.000 Boom.

01:14:24.000 So he knows, okay, this girl is a career-oriented woman.

01:14:28.000 So what's he going to say?

01:14:30.000 Let me appeal to her ego investment.

01:14:33.000 She's invested in building a career, making money, so I'm gonna say something along the lines of, I'm a businessman, and I want a girl that works.

01:14:39.000 But let's switch around, right?

01:14:40.000 Let's stop and switch the scenario.

01:14:41.000 Let's say you said, I'm unemployed, and I'm learning to sew.

01:14:46.000 You know what he would say?

01:14:47.000 Yeah, I think homemakers is something that's rare and we need it back in society.

01:14:52.000 Right?

01:14:52.000 So I think women need to become better critical thinkers when talking with men and understand that men are going to tell you what you want to hear based on what you tell them because their goal is to get sex.

01:15:03.000 And for them to get sex, a lot of times they have to sell you a dream, they have to lie about certain things, conceal certain things.

01:15:08.000 Most men truly can't be honest with women about what they want to do.

01:15:12.000 For how they feel about things.

01:15:13.000 And let me add one more alert to what you're saying right now.

01:15:15.000 Imagine a guy that's successful, making good money, living the lifestyle.

01:15:19.000 You're a businesswoman.

01:15:20.000 You're busy as well, right?

01:15:21.000 So, by default, you're going to be busy working as well.

01:15:25.000 What does that mean for him?

01:15:26.000 Well, guess what?

01:15:27.000 When you're busy working, what can I do?

01:15:29.000 See how the girls.

01:15:31.000 So now this is perfect.

01:15:32.000 I'll tell you what you want to hear.

01:15:33.000 Keep in the loop.

01:15:34.000 I'm telling you a dream and then doing what I want on the side.

01:15:36.000 So see how it works out for men to tell you what you want to hear.

01:15:40.000 And see how I will still take option one.

01:15:43.000 Yo, French, we know about you.

01:15:44.000 It's the reality, bro.

01:15:45.000 Yeah, another thing too, you gotta, because you're young, you're what, only 24, right?

01:15:48.000 I promise your mind's gonna change when you get closer to 30.

01:15:50.000 What?

01:15:51.000 Yeah, but we know.

01:16:03.000 Are you her?

01:16:04.000 Are you her?

01:16:09.000 Listen, she is cool, but like everyone else, she is in the paradigm of dating.

01:16:14.000 I want to know.

01:16:15.000 Do you?

01:16:16.000 Do you regret any of your decisions?

01:16:18.000 Not at all.

01:16:19.000 Not at all.

01:16:20.000 I'm leaving my life.

01:16:21.000 And let the church say amen.

01:16:23.000 All right, man.

01:16:23.000 See, that's destructive advice.

01:16:25.000 See, we haven't seen the defects of this current paradigm in full effect.

01:16:31.000 I mean, we've seen some women on depressants, and they're actually saying they're depressed, but some of you are still young.

01:16:36.000 When you get older, though, it's going to hit you face on.

01:16:38.000 Because here's the thing.

01:16:39.000 If she really didn't care, then why go on dates with these businessmen that you were talking about?

01:16:42.000 Facts.

01:16:43.000 I never said I want to be single.

01:16:45.000 The question was, oh, nothing, so I had to choose that.

01:16:49.000 Monogamous.

01:16:49.000 But you're going out with men that are a high socioeconomic status.

01:16:53.000 They're the most prone to cheat.

01:16:55.000 That's true.

01:16:55.000 Explain that to me.

01:16:56.000 That doesn't make sense.

01:16:57.000 And her job is doing what it takes.

01:16:58.000 See, that's why I don't believe anything you guys say.

01:17:00.000 You guys are all full of shit.

01:17:01.000 Because...

01:17:03.000 This is the thing.

01:17:04.000 I'm literally a professional female translator.

01:17:07.000 So on one end she's saying, I'm happy and I'm single and I'm 32 years old, yet you're going out with men that are of high socioeconomic status that you know are more than likely going to cheat on you if given the opportunity.

01:17:16.000 So why go out with these men if they're the most likely to cheat?

01:17:18.000 Because you're 32 years old and you understand I need security now.

01:17:21.000 I need a man that makes money.

01:17:22.000 I need a man that can take care of me and protect me and provide for me long term.

01:17:25.000 I'm tired of fucking working.

01:17:26.000 You might not admit this on a podcast, which is cool.

01:17:28.000 Fine.

01:17:28.000 Be single, independent.

01:17:30.000 But at some point, you don't want to be independent anymore.

01:17:32.000 Right?

01:17:33.000 It gets tiring working in the work field for a long time.

01:17:35.000 It's a burden.

01:17:35.000 I think nobody wants to be around an idiot.

01:17:39.000 And even about friendships, you want to be surrounded by people who are inspiring you.

01:17:43.000 So that's why I go on dates with those kind of guys.

01:17:46.000 To get inspired?

01:17:49.000 What?

01:17:49.000 To get inspired?

01:17:50.000 But money?

01:17:50.000 I want to go out with someone that I admire because why would I surround myself with someone that doesn't add up?

01:17:58.000 That's what I was saying from the beginning.

01:18:00.000 Ms.

01:18:00.000 Brazil, because it sounds to me like you have very high standards.

01:18:03.000 You're going out with these guys that are very successful, started businesses, and they're still boring to you, right?

01:18:07.000 There's no connection.

01:18:08.000 Yeah.

01:18:09.000 Okay.

01:18:11.000 And you said your biggest thing that you have an issue with is clearly infidelity because you're willing to stay single to avoid infidelity, correct?

01:18:18.000 Yeah.

01:18:19.000 Okay.

01:18:19.000 Yep.

01:18:20.000 So let me get this straight.

01:18:22.000 You've met guys that make a bunch of money and are successful and they're not good enough.

01:18:26.000 So let's say you do find a guy that makes enough money and he is interesting and charming.

01:18:30.000 They were superficial.

01:18:31.000 They were superficial.

01:18:32.000 Yeah, yeah.

01:18:32.000 Let's say you find a guy that's more deep.

01:18:34.000 You don't want to talk about football Sunday?

01:18:34.000 I'm like, we have more to talk about.

01:18:36.000 Okay.

01:18:36.000 Let's say you find this guy that makes the money, successful, and he's deep.

01:18:40.000 He's cool.

01:18:41.000 He's interesting.

01:18:41.000 And you have a vibe.

01:18:42.000 You think he's only going to fuck you?

01:18:44.000 We'll find out soon.

01:18:46.000 I'll let you know.

01:18:47.000 We're in Miami.

01:18:48.000 Come on, man.

01:18:49.000 Fucking delusional.

01:18:50.000 I'm moving to it realistic.

01:18:52.000 And it's even worse.

01:18:54.000 And it's even worse, actually.

01:18:58.000 I have to go to Ohio.

01:19:00.000 You would love it.

01:19:01.000 I have to go to Boston.

01:19:04.000 It would be realistic if somebody...

01:19:06.000 I don't know about Boston either, man.

01:19:07.000 I don't think women are realistic about...

01:19:10.000 Once you get into a certain caliber of guy, you just kiss monogamy goodbye.

01:19:15.000 You know what I think it is?

01:19:17.000 Can you tell me three perks of being polyamorous?

01:19:23.000 For me?

01:19:24.000 Yes.

01:19:25.000 Wait, for you as a woman or for him?

01:19:26.000 For you.

01:19:27.000 Oh, polygamous, because she said polyamorous.

01:19:29.000 Because you said you want an open relationship, so that's something that you practice in your life.

01:19:33.000 So what are the three perks and...

01:19:36.000 For me?

01:19:37.000 Yeah.

01:19:38.000 I mean, well, for one, I can do what I want.

01:19:41.000 I don't have to sneak around or do no weird shit.

01:19:43.000 Oh shit.

01:19:45.000 And that's really what it is.

01:19:47.000 That's the biggest thing.

01:19:47.000 I don't have to always be, oh my god, I gotta hide my phone.

01:19:51.000 I'm a fucking man.

01:19:52.000 I'll never...

01:19:53.000 Sound fucked up.

01:19:55.000 I don't listen to women ever.

01:19:56.000 I don't think that we're equal.

01:19:58.000 How dare you!

01:19:59.000 I'm the leader, I'm the provider, I'm the protector.

01:20:02.000 So why am I gonna listen to a female?

01:20:05.000 That's real.

01:20:06.000 It doesn't make sense.

01:20:08.000 I'm supposed to be the leader, so what the fuck am I doing listening to you?

01:20:10.000 I too.

01:20:11.000 So, I'm not gonna sit here and be like, oh man, I better not get caught cheating on my girl.

01:20:17.000 Like, that's pussy shit.

01:20:18.000 I'm telling her, look, I love you, but I have other women.

01:20:20.000 That's what I'm gonna do.

01:20:22.000 Bitch.

01:20:22.000 I'm not gonna fucking lie.

01:20:23.000 He's being honest, though.

01:20:25.000 I don't bust my ass to, like, make this money and go to the gym and everything to fuck one girl.

01:20:28.000 It's stupid.

01:20:29.000 And only fuck on you?

01:20:30.000 No!

01:20:31.000 Now, here's the thing.

01:20:33.000 Like, most guys think the way I do, though.

01:20:36.000 They really do think this way.

01:20:37.000 It's just that they'll never actually, like, vocalize it.

01:20:39.000 Because, like, it's considered, like, crass and rude.

01:20:42.000 Oh, my God, my feelings.

01:20:43.000 But most men, especially guys that, like, have, you know, grinded, put themselves in a certain position, they're not going to sit there and have sex with just one girl, dude.

01:20:50.000 So I look at it like this.

01:20:52.000 You can either A, get the guy that's gonna lie to you, be like, yo, I love you, you're the only one.

01:20:56.000 He's gonna fuck a bunch of other girls.

01:20:58.000 Or B, deal with the guy that's like, yo, I love you, you're my main girl, but I'm gonna have other women.

01:21:02.000 I think the best way to go is option two.

01:21:04.000 I'm big with understanding.

01:21:06.000 That's why I say understanding.

01:21:09.000 Because you ride here trying to lock a nigga up is...

01:21:12.000 Outrageous.

01:21:12.000 Or, the other option is, for some of you ladies that want monogamy, you're gonna have to lower your standards significantly.

01:21:17.000 5'6", 50k per year, maybe not the most attractive guy, but he's nice, he treats you well, right?

01:21:24.000 Well, see, you guys are fucking laughing at me!

01:21:26.000 That's them bums on the side of the road.

01:21:29.000 See?

01:21:30.000 Like, yo, this is crazy, I'm telling you, okay, you guys want monogamy, this is the best chances, and you guys are laughing at an average guy.

01:21:35.000 They want what they want.

01:21:36.000 Wait, wait.

01:21:37.000 Blaze your head if you're married!

01:21:38.000 They got hope.

01:21:42.000 Exactly!

01:21:42.000 No, you're going to aren't married, alright?

01:21:45.000 So, alright.

01:21:47.000 That's fine.

01:21:48.000 But, the taller the guy, the more the money he makes, the less likely he's going to be monogamous to you, man.

01:21:54.000 See, women want to understand men to literally get what they want.

01:22:00.000 But you don't want to assign us to get what we want.

01:22:03.000 That's the problem.

01:22:04.000 If you know what we want, then you would move accordingly.

01:22:07.000 Yo, Brazil.

01:22:08.000 What are the top three things that would keep...

01:22:11.000 Top three things for you, man.

01:22:14.000 For what?

01:22:14.000 For you, like, why would a guy stay with you?

01:22:17.000 Top three things.

01:22:18.000 Why would a guy stay with me?

01:22:19.000 Yeah, top three things.

01:22:21.000 He's trying to say, damn, Chris, you suck at talking.

01:22:23.000 Yo, look at that lip, man!

01:22:24.000 Fuck this panel, man!

01:22:26.000 I'm sorry to say it, man.

01:22:28.000 The top three redeeming traits that you have that would keep a guy around.

01:22:31.000 The top three traits.

01:22:32.000 Top three.

01:22:33.000 That would keep a guy around.

01:22:35.000 I'll be a great mother.

01:22:37.000 That's the cap.

01:22:39.000 Because he knows that.

01:22:40.000 No, she takes good kids for a living, bro.

01:22:42.000 She'd be a great mom.

01:22:43.000 Oh, yeah, you're right.

01:22:44.000 Well, assuming you can bring a child.

01:22:45.000 The fact that y'all said cap, she looks like a lover.

01:22:48.000 I love cooking.

01:22:51.000 So I cook organic, fresh meals.

01:22:54.000 Overeats.

01:22:56.000 And I take care of myself.

01:22:58.000 I go to the gym every day.

01:22:59.000 I do yoga.

01:23:00.000 I dance.

01:23:01.000 I meditate.

01:23:03.000 I really do my best to be a good human, so I think that it'll be winning, you know?

01:23:08.000 Okay.

01:23:08.000 Wait, can I say something real quick?

01:23:10.000 That's cool.

01:23:11.000 That's beautiful.

01:23:11.000 Now I have a question for that.

01:23:13.000 But there's a lot of other women that have those qualities.

01:23:21.000 I didn't say I'm the only one.

01:23:29.000 You last one.

01:23:30.000 I didn't say the only one with these qualities.

01:23:33.000 I said that these are my qualities that I feel that are great and they are authentic.

01:23:39.000 Like, I wouldn't be making effort to take care of a kid or cook a meal.

01:23:45.000 It's natural to me.

01:23:46.000 The word is full of people.

01:23:52.000 The word is full of people.

01:23:54.000 I think you're missing the point.

01:23:56.000 Like, you're 32 years old and you bring these traits to the table that other women can bring.

01:24:00.000 Why wouldn't I just get a younger woman that isn't going to argue with me?

01:24:02.000 You admit it yourself.

01:24:03.000 You need to be right all the time.

01:24:04.000 So why not get with a younger girl that's not going to argue?

01:24:06.000 I said we can agree to disagree.

01:24:09.000 I didn't say I'm right all the time.

01:24:11.000 This is fantastic.

01:24:15.000 Do you watch a podcast?

01:24:16.000 No, she doesn't, bro.

01:24:17.000 No!

01:24:18.000 She's a date trader, so she has some logic.

01:24:21.000 Okay.

01:24:21.000 Oh, yeah, she does.

01:24:22.000 Yeah.

01:24:22.000 All right.

01:24:24.000 Wait.

01:24:25.000 We've got a video to play.

01:24:26.000 Yeah, a video?

01:24:27.000 Before we do this...

01:24:27.000 Did you have another question to it?

01:24:28.000 I do, actually.

01:24:29.000 The lady is on the panel.

01:24:30.000 You got our opinion on dating, so to speak.

01:24:33.000 But let me ask you this.

01:24:34.000 You're a man that you actually want your dream man.

01:24:37.000 What standards do you have for that man?

01:24:39.000 Let's see you meet him today.

01:24:41.000 Could you point him out if you meet him today?

01:24:42.000 What would it be, your standards?

01:24:44.000 Let's say two to three things that you would look for in a guy to date seriously.

01:24:48.000 My standards is to have clear communication.

01:24:53.000 Okay.

01:24:55.000 Straightforward, very straightforward.

01:24:57.000 Like him?

01:24:58.000 I want to have other women.

01:24:59.000 What's your response to that?

01:25:01.000 Okay, daddy.

01:25:03.000 You wanna bring her home?

01:25:04.000 He's being honest, right?

01:25:05.000 He's being honest.

01:25:05.000 Yeah.

01:25:06.000 So I'll say that this doesn't work for me.

01:25:09.000 I'm 33.

01:25:11.000 Okay.

01:25:11.000 Yeah.

01:25:12.000 Communication.

01:25:13.000 What else?

01:25:14.000 Straightforward.

01:25:14.000 And then...

01:25:15.000 And that he would...

01:25:17.000 Be good at keeping the intimacy good.

01:25:20.000 Like, be creative.

01:25:22.000 Romance.

01:25:23.000 Man, you're a starfish, man.

01:25:25.000 Man, she's a starfish, bro.

01:25:26.000 Because I feel like sometimes that goes into being poly is that you're not taking the time to make this good because you are everywhere.

01:25:35.000 So I would like someone who is committed to having the dates and intimacy and...

01:25:42.000 He just mentioned there's guys that will follow all those things that are not that high level as a guy.

01:25:49.000 They may make less.

01:25:50.000 Why don't you date one of them?

01:25:52.000 What?

01:25:54.000 Yo, hot guys doing everything.

01:25:55.000 Holy shit.

01:25:56.000 Like a 5-6 guy?

01:25:57.000 5-6, 50k a year.

01:25:58.000 Make the money.

01:25:59.000 He'll do all those things for you.

01:26:00.000 Communication.

01:26:00.000 Everything.

01:26:01.000 What's wrong with him?

01:26:02.000 Why couldn't the billionaire do it?

01:26:05.000 He just told you why.

01:26:07.000 Because with that level of pursuit of success, he's gonna be like, why are they following one girl?

01:26:13.000 Because the billionaire's gonna go for the 21-year-old that won't argue with him.

01:26:16.000 And she's not gonna care if he brings five bitches to the house.

01:26:23.000 That's why.

01:26:24.000 Alright, baby.

01:26:24.000 And he's gonna tell you what you wanna hear, too.

01:26:26.000 And then do it behind your back, regardless.

01:26:28.000 So...

01:26:29.000 Yeah.

01:26:29.000 Cause I'm that bitch, he gon' take over you.

01:26:32.000 The more money a man has, the less he gives a fuck about what you think.

01:26:36.000 Like, he's just gonna...

01:26:38.000 The more honest he can be.

01:26:40.000 You know?

01:26:40.000 I'm looking for the unicorn, you know?

01:26:43.000 Like...

01:26:43.000 Oh, don't worry!

01:26:47.000 Alright.

01:26:49.000 Main standards, you're looking for a guy long-term.

01:26:54.000 Yo, you're in a fairytale right now.

01:26:59.000 Hey, what you drinking on over there?

01:27:03.000 Let me get some.

01:27:05.000 I'm fine, dog.

01:27:08.000 What about you?

01:27:10.000 Unicorn.

01:27:17.000 So you said, what traits do you mean to that guy?

01:27:19.000 Top three.

01:27:20.000 What about you?

01:27:20.000 So she said clear comms and keep them to miss you up.

01:27:23.000 What about you?

01:27:24.000 A guy that's ambitious.

01:27:26.000 Alright.

01:27:27.000 Takes control and is honest.

01:27:29.000 Alright, man.

01:27:30.000 So when you try to argue with him, he tells you shut up?

01:27:32.000 That's fine.

01:27:35.000 Be honest about it.

01:27:36.000 Look, I don't get, like, my feelings hurt.

01:27:38.000 None of that stuff.

01:27:39.000 Just say it like it is.

01:27:40.000 That's cool.

01:27:41.000 Okay.

01:27:42.000 What about you?

01:27:44.000 What's that?

01:27:45.000 So, looking for your dream guy.

01:27:47.000 Your standards for that guy.

01:27:48.000 Talk two to three.

01:27:50.000 Alright, let me close my eyes so I can picture it.

01:27:52.000 Yeah, what do you look like?

01:27:57.000 Sexy man.

01:27:58.000 Chocolate, vanilla?

01:27:59.000 I don't care.

01:28:02.000 How tall?

01:28:03.000 I don't care.

01:28:05.000 As long as it ain't a midget, I can't get jiggy with that shit.

01:28:08.000 Okay, but realistically, three things you can look for in a guy.

01:28:12.000 Communication.

01:28:13.000 I want a leader.

01:28:15.000 Okay.

01:28:20.000 You would say a provider, but sometimes, you know, the role gets flipped.

01:28:27.000 So I would say someone who communicates, a leader, and someone that respects me, well, my mind.

01:28:36.000 All right.

01:28:36.000 What about you, Ohio?

01:28:37.000 I feel like if we're on the same level, like you respect me, I respect you.

01:28:43.000 When you say, yeah, explain this whole same level, what do you mean by that?

01:28:47.000 So, like, before we even, like, get to a relationship, obviously we're gonna come to an understanding of, like, hey, hey, I like this, or, like, I'm, like, you poly, or I'm monogamous, you know, so, like, you know what you're going into when you get in it.

01:28:59.000 So, it's like, if you respect that...

01:29:01.000 But wouldn't you argue that you're not on the same level if he's polygamous and you're monogamous?

01:29:06.000 Yeah, then we just went and get it, it wouldn't happen.

01:29:11.000 Like the relationship wouldn't happen.

01:29:13.000 If that was the case.

01:29:14.000 So you're saying lay the cards out and then you're going to decide what you want to do.

01:29:17.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:29:19.000 Okay, okay.

01:29:20.000 Because I got confused by your whole same level thing.

01:29:22.000 Oh, I'm sorry.

01:29:23.000 Well, question then.

01:29:24.000 Okay, so you want a man on your level?

01:29:27.000 No, no, not necessarily.

01:29:29.000 But I'm just saying like, if you respect my values, I respect yours.

01:29:33.000 That's all I'm saying.

01:29:35.000 Okay.

01:29:37.000 Do you want a guy that's like a leader though and stuff?

01:29:39.000 Absolutely.

01:29:41.000 And you guys want a guy that's like a protector, provider, earns more than you and everything?

01:29:45.000 For sure.

01:29:45.000 So by definition...

01:29:48.000 But I know it comes with that.

01:29:49.000 Big nose.

01:29:49.000 Okay.

01:29:50.000 So then, by definition, you guys aren't on the same level then?

01:29:54.000 Yeah, no, I'm not saying that I want to be on the same level with that.

01:29:57.000 I'm just talking about, like, respect.

01:29:59.000 That's all.

01:30:01.000 You mean likes and dislikes?

01:30:03.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:30:05.000 Okay.

01:30:05.000 Yeah, but do you think the respect is the same between the two genders?

01:30:09.000 No.

01:30:11.000 So then why would you say that?

01:30:13.000 I'm bad at explaining how I feel.

01:30:16.000 I've never done nothing like this before.

01:30:18.000 I keep my opinions to myself 99% of the time.

01:30:24.000 That's okay.

01:30:26.000 I get it.

01:30:28.000 You have an issue with articulating yourself.

01:30:31.000 I'm just trying to figure out here.

01:30:33.000 The three things you want is you kind of want the guy to come to the table and I guess give his position on where he stands on certain things.

01:30:40.000 Mm-hmm.

01:30:41.000 Just be upfront.

01:30:43.000 Okay.

01:30:43.000 But you're saying that you wouldn't accept certain things.

01:30:46.000 So you want them to be honest?

01:30:47.000 I don't think anyone would, you know?

01:30:48.000 Yeah.

01:30:49.000 I think the smart women accept certain things.

01:30:51.000 For sure, under certain conditions.

01:30:53.000 Okay.

01:30:55.000 Okay, so what else traits?

01:30:56.000 You want them to be honest, I guess, and upfront.

01:30:58.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:30:59.000 What else?

01:31:00.000 A, they called you an expensive escort.

01:31:04.000 And I can see it.

01:31:05.000 Oh!

01:31:07.000 She's been on everybody here all night.

01:31:11.000 They said that in the chat?

01:31:13.000 Tell me the chat.

01:31:14.000 Tell me the chat, bro.

01:31:15.000 Alright, honest up front, and then what's the last one?

01:31:19.000 Yo, she ain't lying, though.

01:31:21.000 Chris.

01:31:23.000 Finally, somebody being real in the motherfucking chats.

01:31:25.000 Where Chris at?

01:31:28.000 Last one.

01:31:29.000 Just like what she said later, you know.

01:31:32.000 That's, I don't know.

01:31:33.000 Okay.

01:31:34.000 Yeah.

01:31:35.000 So what if the leader came in and told you, hey, what you think is right is actually stupid.

01:31:40.000 You need to do it this way.

01:31:41.000 I respect your opinion.

01:31:42.000 Everybody has them.

01:31:43.000 Would you take it?

01:31:44.000 Chris Cameron Angle.

01:31:45.000 A guy comes in and tells you, look, you know, this isn't what it is.

01:31:50.000 You want a guy of this certain caliber.

01:31:51.000 This is what it is.

01:31:52.000 You got to deal with.

01:31:53.000 These are the parameters of this relationship.

01:31:55.000 I mean, I'm not going to sit there and argue with you.

01:31:57.000 I would just respect your opinion.

01:32:00.000 Okay, alright.

01:32:01.000 What about you?

01:32:03.000 I would say like them, honesty.

01:32:06.000 I like someone who's like just warm and sweet.

01:32:09.000 I really, really, really like someone who's very nice in general.

01:32:14.000 Have the guys that you've met before been nice?

01:32:16.000 Nope.

01:32:17.000 Yes, but I'm saying like with the consistency though, they're always, because nice I feel like it's very situational, but maybe I'll say kind.

01:32:24.000 Kind is throughout, like it's a very very like consistent thing.

01:32:29.000 So I would say a kind guy, someone honest, someone ambitious, who definitely has like some plans or some goals that he just tries to actively strive towards.

01:32:41.000 Cap.

01:32:42.000 Alright, what about you?

01:32:43.000 Honesty, communication, and make your own bread.

01:32:48.000 What's the third thing?

01:32:50.000 That was three things, are you still?

01:32:51.000 Make your own money.

01:32:52.000 Shit, I hear you.

01:32:52.000 Bitch, you said communication and make your own bread.

01:32:54.000 That's two.

01:32:55.000 Yeah, two, yeah.

01:32:56.000 No, she said honesty, communication, and money.

01:32:57.000 Communication and make your own bread.

01:32:58.000 She said honesty, communication, and money.

01:33:01.000 You know...

01:33:04.000 Did you want to play the video and then I can...

01:33:06.000 Yes.

01:33:06.000 Because it has to do with this?

01:33:07.000 Yeah.

01:33:07.000 Yeah, I'll respond.

01:33:09.000 Because...

01:33:09.000 But you know what's crazy?

01:33:10.000 This is very interesting.

01:33:11.000 It is.

01:33:12.000 Every time we do this exercise with questions about what women want in men, it is so vague and so, like, not direct that I don't think you guys even know what you want.

01:33:21.000 Ambiguous.

01:33:22.000 Most women don't.

01:33:23.000 They don't know what they want.

01:33:24.000 It's the A word, guys.

01:33:25.000 Which is scary, by the way.

01:33:26.000 Okay.

01:33:28.000 That's a fad.

01:33:29.000 So you know how Kamala appeals to emotion?

01:33:32.000 Yes, she does.

01:33:32.000 Imagine a smart guy that wants to get laid.

01:33:34.000 That's all he has to do.

01:33:36.000 And he's in your pants.

01:33:37.000 He might even give you a kid.

01:33:39.000 Before you know it, you're stuck with a deadbeat.

01:33:41.000 Anyhow, let's go ahead.

01:33:44.000 Dates are reserved for a man you are dating.

01:33:47.000 If you want to get to know a man, you should meet for coffee, a drink, meet in a park, take a walk, have a conversation.

01:33:54.000 There should be no exchange of money to get to know a man.

01:33:57.000 Do not take anything from him.

01:33:59.000 Get to know him.

01:34:00.000 Ask questions.

01:34:01.000 Find out if you have a future together.

01:34:03.000 If you are intentional about dating, stop expecting men to court you before they get to know you.

01:34:14.000 Dates are reserved.

01:34:15.000 Okay.

01:34:18.000 What do you guys think on that?

01:34:21.000 For one, a bitch with a nose like that can't tell me shit.

01:34:40.000 For a man you are dating if you want to Get to know a man.

01:34:45.000 You should meet for coffee, a drink, meet in a park, take a walk, have a conversation.

01:34:50.000 There should be no exchange of money to get to know a man.

01:34:53.000 Do not take anything from him.

01:34:55.000 Get to know him.

01:34:56.000 Ask questions.

01:34:57.000 Find out if you have a future together.

01:34:59.000 If you are intentional about dating, stop expecting men to court you before they get to know you.

01:35:11.000 Okay.

01:35:12.000 So we'll start here.

01:35:13.000 Basically, you should know what you want in your man.

01:35:15.000 So you ask questions, get to know them better before they start paying for your, I want to say, needs and wants.

01:35:20.000 What would you say?

01:35:22.000 I disagree with that.

01:35:24.000 Why?

01:35:25.000 I feel like if someone invites me out for a first date and they're like, oh, let's go, whatever, get coffee.

01:35:33.000 So you are inviting me out of my house to do this thing with you, so you pay for it.

01:35:40.000 I think that's pretty fine.

01:35:43.000 But does it have to be really big and extravagant?

01:35:45.000 No.

01:35:46.000 So coffee's fine, right?

01:35:47.000 Yeah.

01:35:48.000 Matcha, coffee, tea, açaí, bowls, Pura Vida.

01:35:52.000 So you agree?

01:35:53.000 That's a hint, guys.

01:35:55.000 So you agree then?

01:35:56.000 I 100% agree with what she said.

01:35:58.000 I feel that it's nice that they will take care of it.

01:36:02.000 It doesn't have to be Casa Dona.

01:36:05.000 It could be Pura Vida.

01:36:07.000 The first day, but then the second we can upgrade if it's nice.

01:36:12.000 To what, though?

01:36:13.000 For the audience, Pirabita's a really fancy, overpriced, healthy food place in Miami.

01:36:21.000 Yeah, overpriced.

01:36:23.000 Chipotle's better.

01:36:24.000 What?

01:36:25.000 I won't be going to Chipotle with you.

01:36:27.000 Yeah, but you're 32, so you can't pick and choose.

01:36:29.000 Oh, shoot!

01:36:30.000 I disagree.

01:36:44.000 The expectations that you set from the beginning is how a man's gonna treat you from there on.

01:36:54.000 Yeah, I get the whole coffee thing and stuff, but for me personally, I take my time very valuable, so I'm gonna ask all those questions before the first day.

01:37:03.000 I don't need to get to know you before the first day.

01:37:06.000 Really?

01:37:06.000 I should already be asking the questions, whether it be through text, phone, FaceTime, because then if you're actually getting the privilege to go on a date with me, that's a big step.

01:37:17.000 What about him?

01:37:19.000 Facts.

01:37:20.000 Both.

01:37:20.000 I mean, I see it as both.

01:37:22.000 The privilege?

01:37:23.000 The privilege?

01:37:24.000 The privilege?

01:37:25.000 The privilege?

01:37:26.000 Alright, out of curiosity, um...

01:37:28.000 Yo, get her, man.

01:37:30.000 You're picky, right?

01:37:32.000 You're picky with the men that you date?

01:37:34.000 Alright, there it goes.

01:37:35.000 You're picky with the men that you date?

01:37:36.000 Okay.

01:37:37.000 Do they gotta be taller than you?

01:37:41.000 I mean, I'm 5'5", so yeah.

01:37:43.000 Okay, do they gotta earn more than you?

01:37:45.000 Short.

01:37:45.000 Of course.

01:37:46.000 Be more intelligent or competent than yourself?

01:37:49.000 Of course.

01:37:50.000 Dumb.

01:37:51.000 Okay.

01:37:52.000 So the man that you're looking for more than likely is kind of rare.

01:37:55.000 Would you say most men are unattractive to you?

01:37:58.000 But we didn't talk about attractiveness.

01:38:01.000 You said tall and...

01:38:03.000 That's a component of him being attractive.

01:38:05.000 Okay.

01:38:06.000 No, he doesn't have to be a 10, honestly.

01:38:08.000 No, of course not.

01:38:08.000 But I'm saying like a majority of men, do they meet your standards?

01:38:12.000 No.

01:38:13.000 So, yeah, so by definition you're selective and you're picky?

01:38:16.000 Correct.

01:38:17.000 Okay.

01:38:17.000 Now, do you think the man that you're gonna go out with more than likely is as selective as you?

01:38:21.000 Yeah, I would think so.

01:38:23.000 No, they're not.

01:38:25.000 Well...

01:38:26.000 They're not.

01:38:26.000 Men are not nearly as picky as women.

01:38:29.000 So who really has the privilege?

01:38:30.000 Facts.

01:38:31.000 Ooh.

01:38:32.000 Gotcha, bitch!

01:38:33.000 Because I don't think women understand that, like, you guys are very replaceable.

01:38:36.000 You even said it yourself when she gave her own traits.

01:38:38.000 Hey, there's another girl that can do that.

01:38:40.000 Well, you're very right, because the threshold for us to be attractive to a woman is very low.

01:38:44.000 Be attractive, don't be a pain in the ass, don't be a whore.

01:38:46.000 We'll go out with you.

01:38:47.000 But you guys, on the other hand, I need to be tall.

01:38:49.000 I need to be charming.

01:38:50.000 I need to be cool.

01:38:51.000 She went with some millionaires and she said they're not interesting.

01:38:54.000 They don't have a vibe.

01:38:55.000 So it's very hard to please women.

01:38:57.000 So the reality is if you're going out on a date with a guy, that means he's been vetted to some degree.

01:39:02.000 It's really your privilege to go out with him.

01:39:04.000 Gotcha, bitch!

01:39:05.000 Okay.

01:39:07.000 But I always find it interesting how girls kind of look at it like I'm the prize.

01:39:11.000 Not really.

01:39:12.000 I don't think so.

01:39:13.000 You're not.

01:39:13.000 What?

01:39:14.000 Bruh.

01:39:15.000 I was just having this conversation with somebody.

01:39:17.000 They was like, women, they go all around the world.

01:39:20.000 They fix their self up.

01:39:22.000 They do all these things to find a man or to get this one guy.

01:39:27.000 So in reality, who's the prize?

01:39:29.000 If you're doing all this stuff, you're getting BBLs.

01:39:31.000 You're getting your teeth done.

01:39:32.000 You're getting all this shit done.

01:39:34.000 You're out here walking around fancy to get this guy attention.

01:39:37.000 So who actually is the prize?

01:39:38.000 Hmm.

01:39:39.000 Well, the point is that I'll make it even funnier.

01:39:43.000 The girl don't even gotta do all that bullshit.

01:39:45.000 Tell me about it.

01:39:47.000 You know what I mean?

01:39:48.000 So, here's the thing.

01:39:49.000 Since women are more selective, right?

01:39:52.000 And they have higher standards, that means by definition the man that they're dealing with is rare.

01:39:57.000 Right?

01:39:58.000 So if demand is rare, who's really the prize?

01:40:01.000 Who's easier to replace?

01:40:03.000 Supply and demand.

01:40:04.000 Attractive men are low in supply.

01:40:06.000 Demand goes up.

01:40:08.000 Attractive women are in crazy supply.

01:40:10.000 There's a bunch of them.

01:40:11.000 So are they really in demand?

01:40:13.000 I don't know.

01:40:14.000 I don't think so.

01:40:15.000 I mean, there's a reason why you go on a music video shoot.

01:40:17.000 There's two or three rappers, but there's 30 girls.

01:40:21.000 You go to nightclub, there's one or two dudes in a section, but 50 girls.

01:40:25.000 Yup.

01:40:26.000 Right?

01:40:28.000 For men, we want quantity.

01:40:29.000 For you guys, you want quality.

01:40:31.000 Why is it that I can have multiple girlfriends with girls knowing that I have other girls and it's fine, but it would never work the other way around?

01:40:39.000 Nick?

01:40:41.000 Women are okay with sharing men, and women understand kind of deep down that like, men of value have options and you guys really don't have as many options you guys think you do.

01:40:49.000 You guys actually have less options than you guys think you do.

01:40:51.000 How dare you?

01:40:52.000 Just because a guy hits you up on Instagram and says, hey baby girl, you hot.

01:40:55.000 Or some dude hits you up on, what was that, Hinge, or whatever.

01:40:59.000 How many of them are real candidates?

01:41:01.000 Not many.

01:41:02.000 A majority of them are not.

01:41:04.000 Look, how long you been in Miami yourself?

01:41:07.000 I literally got here yesterday.

01:41:09.000 Okay.

01:41:09.000 Did you go to the club yesterday?

01:41:10.000 You went out?

01:41:11.000 Yeah.

01:41:12.000 How many men approached you?

01:41:13.000 A lot.

01:41:14.000 Yeah, a lot.

01:41:15.000 Okay.

01:41:15.000 How many of them did you even entertain or talk to?

01:41:18.000 Maybe one or two?

01:41:19.000 No, they were not kind of in the caliber that I was looking for, so...

01:41:24.000 Rich?

01:41:25.000 No.

01:41:26.000 I was at Wynwood.

01:41:28.000 I was at Dirty Rabbit.

01:41:34.000 I've never been there before my friends took me.

01:41:36.000 I don't mean to pick on you, but I'm just using that as a raw example.

01:41:41.000 You get a girl here, right?

01:41:42.000 She comes in from Ohio, and she's out and about, and then all these guys go up to her, and she's giving a majority of them no time of day.

01:41:51.000 So it's like, that means most men are not attractive to most women.

01:41:55.000 And I guarantee for all of you guys probably experienced that.

01:41:57.000 A bunch of guys might come up to you, talk to you or whatever, and you reject most of them.

01:42:01.000 Yeah.

01:42:01.000 So if a guy does come along that's attractive, who's really the prize, ladies?

01:42:07.000 I know that's like a different way to look at mindset.

01:42:09.000 Like, okay, I actually like this guy and he's not a piece of shit.

01:42:11.000 Let me work to keep him.

01:42:13.000 Let me be in longer relationships and be able to keep the guy around.

01:42:15.000 But I think women kind of come in with this whole thing like, I'm the prize.

01:42:19.000 It's a privilege that you're hanging out with me.

01:42:20.000 The guy reads on that and he's like, eh, fuck this bitch.

01:42:23.000 I'm gonna just have sex with her.

01:42:24.000 I'm not gonna take her seriously.

01:42:25.000 Kicks it to the curb.

01:42:27.000 Because most girls don't really do enough to keep guys around.

01:42:29.000 You guys really don't.

01:42:30.000 You guys think I'm the prize.

01:42:31.000 He needs to fucking do this.

01:42:32.000 Play hard to get.

01:42:33.000 Work for me.

01:42:34.000 Whatever.

01:42:34.000 Do you guys really think that's gonna work for a dude that has like five, ten other girls he's talking to?

01:42:37.000 Nope!

01:42:39.000 You said something earlier that kind of alarmed me.

01:42:41.000 I didn't want to bring it up.

01:42:43.000 But...

01:42:43.000 Oh, shit!

01:42:45.000 She flexed that shit?

01:42:47.000 You said something earlier with your guy.

01:42:49.000 So...

01:42:50.000 This guy, right, that you were talking to for like two months, right?

01:42:54.000 You guys had a little argument, right, on a disagreement, and then you were just okay with cutting it off and ending it.

01:43:02.000 Who do you think lost out on that?

01:43:09.000 I guess he did.

01:43:11.000 No, you did.

01:43:11.000 You're aging.

01:43:13.000 You probably more than likely had sex with this guy.

01:43:15.000 He can get back out on the market and get another girl.

01:43:18.000 Clearly, there's a proof of concept there that works because you're hard to get, right?

01:43:21.000 So, he did something right.

01:43:23.000 And he's going to just go back on the market and get another girl.

01:43:26.000 You, on the other hand, you're back in the market and it's going to be harder for you to find a guy because your standards are higher.

01:43:31.000 You make quite a bit of money, probably day trading.

01:43:32.000 You're probably successful.

01:43:33.000 You don't sound like a retard to me.

01:43:35.000 So, by definition, you're going to need a higher caliber guy.

01:43:38.000 Yep.

01:43:39.000 So who really lost out there?

01:43:40.000 And I find it interesting how you're willing to throw that two months away because of a disagreement.

01:43:46.000 But this is what I mean when I say modern women are terrible at keeping men around.

01:43:49.000 Well, no, no.

01:43:49.000 I only threw it away because...

01:43:56.000 It wasn't just a disagreement.

01:43:58.000 He blew it out of proportion.

01:44:00.000 So we had a disagreement and then for two weeks, we were not talking the same and so forth.

01:44:07.000 Why didn't you apologize?

01:44:08.000 I did.

01:44:09.000 And I said, it's not even worth keep talking about it.

01:44:12.000 Like, let's just move on.

01:44:13.000 It's fine.

01:44:14.000 But he kept that in the back of his mind.

01:44:17.000 That's not apologizing.

01:44:18.000 That's not, bro.

01:44:18.000 Okay.

01:44:19.000 It's not apologizing at all.

01:44:20.000 If anything, you're trying to minimize his concern.

01:44:23.000 Facts.

01:44:23.000 And this is a common tactic that women do.

01:44:25.000 You minimize the problem.

01:44:26.000 So try to trivialize it.

01:44:27.000 Make them look stupid.

01:44:29.000 Like, why do you care about this?

01:44:30.000 You're being emotional.

01:44:31.000 When in reality, he might have probably took it as a form of disrespect.

01:44:34.000 Like, what the fuck?

01:44:35.000 And the thing is, is that, like, with certain levels of guys, like, you need to apologize.

01:44:40.000 And you need to, like, understand your place and know that, like...

01:44:43.000 Look...

01:44:45.000 The level of disrespect that men are gonna tolerate is almost always attributed to their level of success.

01:44:49.000 So the more successful the guy, the more attractive he is, the less tolerance he has for disrespect.

01:44:54.000 So, you not acknowledging your mistake and kind of playing this game like, I'm the prize, I'm gonna apologize to you, right?

01:45:00.000 Which you might not have said that overtly, but you probably might have thought it, right?

01:45:04.000 He's gonna look at it like, man, fuck this bitch.

01:45:06.000 I could go get another girl just like her.

01:45:07.000 Facts.

01:45:09.000 That's not gonna argue with me.

01:45:11.000 Not give me a headache or like take my concerns seriously.

01:45:13.000 So I think if women came in with the mindset of let me try to keep this guy versus let this guy keep me, I think you guys would be able to like keep guys longer term.

01:45:21.000 Because I find it alarming that you were with this guy for like two months.

01:45:24.000 You guys, it seemed like you guys were doing good.

01:45:25.000 You guys fucked and everything.

01:45:26.000 Why would you just throw that away?

01:45:29.000 Why?

01:45:31.000 I'll tell you this, am I on me?

01:45:33.000 You on the other hand, like you too, like you said, oh yeah, I'm quick to like end relationships.

01:45:37.000 Like, why?

01:45:38.000 They weren't even real.

01:45:40.000 I don't feel like they were real.

01:45:41.000 But ask yourself, why weren't they real?

01:45:43.000 Because they were just for short periods of time.

01:45:46.000 We're still getting to...

01:45:47.000 But why was it a short period of time?

01:45:49.000 It was a short period of time because I saw things that I didn't like.

01:45:52.000 So instead of staying, I'd rather just leave.

01:45:55.000 So that way you find more time with a woman who loves everything.

01:45:59.000 And I find more time with a guy who loves...

01:46:00.000 So you were looking for a reason to disqualify him.

01:46:03.000 No, I wasn't looking for a reason.

01:46:05.000 I was just living life and I saw the reasons presented themselves.

01:46:09.000 Interesting.

01:46:10.000 Yes, very.

01:46:11.000 Wait, what's living life?

01:46:14.000 Living life is us talking and communicating, if we're texting, if we're calling, if we're seeing each other in person.

01:46:20.000 You say or do something that I'm not really resonating with and I tell you about it, you continue to do it, why would I stay?

01:46:26.000 This whole living life thing that girls use, it's probably one of the most destructive phrases I've heard women use.

01:46:33.000 Just living life.

01:46:34.000 There's so many definitions.

01:46:35.000 You guys understand that, right?

01:46:37.000 You have a finite amount of time where you're at your peak to find the best guy that you can find, right?

01:46:42.000 You guys understand this concept that women absolutely have a do-by date?

01:46:47.000 Like you guys, your attractiveness is perishable to a degree?

01:46:52.000 So you're shaking your head, you disagree with that?

01:46:54.000 Jess, I feel like we're people and you're kind of making us sound like bananas.

01:46:58.000 We don't ripe, we don't turn old.

01:47:00.000 We're human.

01:47:02.000 Don't dim us like that.

01:47:03.000 So you don't get old?

01:47:04.000 Men get old too and them balls get saggy.

01:47:07.000 They get to the floor.

01:47:09.000 Let's keep it up being.

01:47:10.000 Who gets older first though?

01:47:11.000 Naturally.

01:47:12.000 Huh?

01:47:12.000 Who gets older first naturally?

01:47:14.000 Whose eggs dry up naturally?

01:47:15.000 Women.

01:47:16.000 So it is expired because...

01:47:18.000 Look, I'm going to defeat her whole argument right now.

01:47:20.000 You're an esthetician, right?

01:47:22.000 Your job is to help women stay beautiful, right?

01:47:24.000 Right.

01:47:24.000 Would it be fair to say that every single aesthetic procedure that you do has some kind of component with making a woman look more youthful?

01:47:31.000 Mm-hmm.

01:47:32.000 So wouldn't it be fair to say off of that concept that the cornerstone of beauty for a female is youthfulness?

01:47:38.000 No.

01:47:39.000 Why not?

01:47:40.000 Well, you know what?

01:47:43.000 Yeah, for sure.

01:47:44.000 Getting rid of wrinkles, getting rid of blemishes, etc.

01:47:46.000 These signs of aging.

01:47:47.000 The whole aesthetic industry, matter of fact, makeup, it's all designed to preserve youth and women.

01:47:54.000 So, you're saying, oh, why are we being treated like bananas?

01:47:59.000 I'm just trying to help you get picked before you fucking go brown, and you're over here arguing with me.

01:48:02.000 I understand that, but some of that is societal programming.

01:48:05.000 Well, I love you.

01:48:05.000 Yes, well, societal programming is reality.

01:48:09.000 Just like women want a provider and a protector and a leader.

01:48:11.000 I don't sit there and say, Man, I'm not like some fucking shelf, like, what do you mean I gotta provide and be stable and shit?

01:48:18.000 Like, no, like, men just have to, you either do it or you don't.

01:48:21.000 You either are a provider or you're not.

01:48:22.000 If you're not a provider, you deal with the consequences.

01:48:25.000 Women don't respect you, your peers don't respect you, you get made fun of, etc.

01:48:28.000 You deal with your lack of ambition, etc.

01:48:31.000 Every single one of you ladies here at the table said you want a guy that's ambitious.

01:48:34.000 What if I sat there and said, well that's fucked up, why do I gotta be ambitious?

01:48:38.000 Wouldn't that sound stupid?

01:48:40.000 Yes.

01:48:41.000 So, societal standards are societal standards, but it's based in biology.

01:48:45.000 Women's value, a lot of times, is determined by their youth.

01:48:48.000 So I'm telling you, if your value is determined by youth, it would behoove you to operate in your youth and get the best guy that you can cash out while you're at your highest.

01:48:57.000 Why are you going to leave the casino when your chips are down, when you can leave the casino when your chips are up?

01:49:02.000 I've never understood this with women.

01:49:04.000 You motherfuckers want to stay in the fucking casino gambling.

01:49:07.000 Yeah, I'm just going to get it.

01:49:08.000 I'm going to keep going.

01:49:09.000 I'm going to keep going.

01:49:09.000 Yeah.

01:49:09.000 And then you'll fucking end up bankrupt.

01:49:11.000 You got to know when to hold and when to fold.

01:49:14.000 Yeah.

01:49:16.000 And the problem is that women keep holding thinking that they can get a better hand and you're not.

01:49:20.000 As you age, like her right now, she's playing Russian roulette.

01:49:24.000 She got the last bullet type shit.

01:49:25.000 You are beautiful.

01:49:27.000 You are beautiful.

01:49:28.000 Wow.

01:49:29.000 Horrible advice.

01:49:30.000 I'm good.

01:49:31.000 I'm good.

01:49:32.000 See, hold on, hold on, look.

01:49:33.000 See, I love how I said something that was realistic, and what'd you do?

01:49:36.000 You're beautiful!

01:49:37.000 You guys love each other!

01:49:39.000 That's all y'all do!

01:49:40.000 That's all y'all do!

01:49:42.000 Bro, if she was my little sister, I'd be like, what the fuck are you doing?

01:49:45.000 How are you 32?

01:49:46.000 So look, here, I'll give you guys a real story.

01:49:49.000 Go back to like 2017, right?

01:49:52.000 My sister was about to go to med school.

01:49:54.000 She's trying to be a doctor.

01:49:56.000 I had a very serious talk with her.

01:49:58.000 I'll never forget this show.

01:49:58.000 I was in the car.

01:49:59.000 We're in Brooklyn, New York.

01:50:00.000 And I looked at her and I said, you stupid bitch.

01:50:02.000 Find a guy now.

01:50:03.000 Really?

01:50:04.000 Before you become old.

01:50:05.000 Yes.

01:50:05.000 I told her that straight up.

01:50:08.000 She don't like it.

01:50:08.000 She got angry at me.

01:50:10.000 Oh, why do you gotta talk like that?

01:50:12.000 Right?

01:50:13.000 I was like, no, you're gonna be 30 soon, right?

01:50:15.000 She's about two years younger than me.

01:50:16.000 You need to fucking find a guy now because you're gonna become a doctor, you're gonna make money, and then you're gonna need another doctor, and it's gonna be harder for you to find a man once you become a doctor.

01:50:24.000 She took that advice seriously.

01:50:26.000 She found an anesthesiologist together now, etc.

01:50:30.000 But I had to kick her in the ass and let her know, bitch, you're gonna get ugly.

01:50:32.000 And you're gonna get old.

01:50:33.000 And ain't nobody gonna want you.

01:50:35.000 Because, unfortunately for you, no one gives a fuck that you're a doctor as a female.

01:50:39.000 Nobody cares.

01:50:40.000 That shit only is attractive if you're a dude.

01:50:42.000 No one goes, man, my dick is hard.

01:50:44.000 She's a doctor.

01:50:45.000 No dude ever says that shit.

01:50:47.000 Nobody gives a fuck.

01:50:48.000 So I told her, find a guy while you're still young and beautiful.

01:50:50.000 And she found a guy, fortunately.

01:50:53.000 But, I had to have that very real talk with her, and now sugarcoat it and say, you're beautiful, it's fine!

01:50:58.000 No!

01:50:59.000 No!

01:51:00.000 Yo!

01:51:00.000 Find a guy now!

01:51:01.000 As you get older, it just becomes harder and harder.

01:51:05.000 That's real, though.

01:51:07.000 You want the real, or you want that bullshit?

01:51:09.000 It seem like you hoes in here love that bullshit.

01:51:12.000 And that's why I ain't gonna lie, I gotta fuck with this podcast, cause they be letting you hoes know what's real.

01:51:18.000 It's a fantasy world and it's the real world.

01:51:21.000 I will say though that there is an aspect of like, women like being lied to, but at what point do you want to be told the truth?

01:51:28.000 Because most people don't tell you the truth anyway.

01:51:31.000 And me!

01:51:34.000 So...

01:51:34.000 Alright, um...

01:51:35.000 Another question or chats?

01:51:36.000 No, we're not finished here.

01:51:37.000 Thoughts on the video.

01:51:39.000 Oh yeah.

01:51:39.000 What's up?

01:51:41.000 We got on that video.

01:51:42.000 Oh yeah, she made part of her nose.

01:51:44.000 Yeah, I forgot the shit.

01:51:45.000 You said that she has a nose and she can't give you advice.

01:51:49.000 Yeah.

01:51:51.000 Who made?

01:51:52.000 Did you?

01:51:54.000 Yes.

01:51:55.000 Just to recap, she's saying, basically, when you go on dates with guys, don't have to pay for a shopping date.

01:52:03.000 Just go on dates.

01:52:03.000 At a certain extent, it's all of what you want.

01:52:05.000 Like, what you looking for in life.

01:52:07.000 Like, if you want a husband, I ain't gonna lie, no man should turn down providing for you.

01:52:15.000 So, it's all of what you want.

01:52:18.000 Like, Bitch, I don't know.

01:52:21.000 I ain't known to all that shit.

01:52:24.000 To be real.

01:52:26.000 Alright.

01:52:26.000 That was definitely a lot.

01:52:27.000 What about you?

01:52:28.000 Barely.

01:52:30.000 Keep it...

01:52:31.000 Come on, Ohio.

01:52:33.000 What is that?

01:52:34.000 No, no, no, no, no, no.

01:52:35.000 That's a question.

01:52:38.000 Can you repeat the question?

01:52:39.000 Yeah.

01:52:39.000 Because I forgot the video, too.

01:52:41.000 Got you.

01:52:41.000 Stupid.

01:52:42.000 It's business time.

01:52:43.000 No, that's fine.

01:52:45.000 The video basically was her saying that you should be using, not going on dates, but instead you guys meet in some kind of, I guess, less pressured situation where you talk and get to know each other before he courts you.

01:52:56.000 That bitch at a park is giving pedophile a park.

01:53:01.000 On a first date?

01:53:02.000 What did I get?

01:53:04.000 Okay.

01:53:05.000 Yeah.

01:53:07.000 Does that make sense?

01:53:08.000 Or no?

01:53:08.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:53:09.000 I feel like, I mean, you're gonna know if you like the person you're talking to in the first three text messages.

01:53:15.000 You know?

01:53:16.000 That's me.

01:53:16.000 I mean, for me at least.

01:53:17.000 Or like a phone call, you know?

01:53:18.000 You know the vibes instantly.

01:53:20.000 So...

01:53:21.000 I mean...

01:53:24.000 So you're cool with the video?

01:53:26.000 Yeah.

01:53:29.000 Alright.

01:53:31.000 What about you?

01:53:32.000 I feel like I agreed with what she said earlier.

01:53:34.000 If you're initially taking somebody outside of their house, then I definitely think that you should pay.

01:53:39.000 And no, I don't believe that you have to go to an expensive restaurant in order just to spend time with someone or try to, you know, just impress them and show them that, hey, I don't mind spending a quick little buck on you.

01:53:49.000 I don't mind showing you that I can go out of pocket for you and, you know, try and do something to impress you.

01:53:55.000 I don't think there's nothing wrong with that.

01:53:57.000 But using that example from what you do normally, you're going to leave them anyway.

01:54:00.000 Yeah, man.

01:54:01.000 So I'm gonna go do that all out for you just to show you a quick buck.

01:54:03.000 And you're gonna be like, ah, you're boring.

01:54:05.000 I'm out as fuck, man.

01:54:06.000 I never said nothing about boring.

01:54:08.000 Yes, you did, man.

01:54:09.000 Y'all keep throwing that buzzword.

01:54:11.000 Come on, you're boring.

01:54:12.000 I'm sorry.

01:54:12.000 Freaking buzzword.

01:54:14.000 No.

01:54:15.000 Buzzword?

01:54:16.000 Buzzcut?

01:54:16.000 It's just...

01:54:17.000 Sorry.

01:54:18.000 Chris, come on.

01:54:19.000 Anyways, it's just the fact that if you were taking somebody outside their house, to me, I believe that, yes, you should be open to paying for them.

01:54:28.000 And that doesn't mean that you have to go out of pocket or go beyond your means.

01:54:31.000 If you know, nah, I'm going to cap this date at $50, $100, even $25.

01:54:36.000 You take the girl for an ice cream at the park.

01:54:40.000 Are you going to be cool with that, though?

01:54:41.000 Yes!

01:54:42.000 I've done stuff like that before!

01:54:44.000 She won't, bro.

01:54:45.000 Yes, I have.

01:54:46.000 You do not know me.

01:54:47.000 I'll take your word for it.

01:54:48.000 What about you?

01:54:49.000 I feel like a date is a date, whether we go to the beach, go to the movies, whatever.

01:54:53.000 It doesn't matter the amount you spend.

01:54:55.000 As long as you feed me.

01:54:56.000 Okay.

01:54:58.000 I just think that, like, we did a question beforehand where we asked you guys what you want from your partner, three, you know, options and three standards, and your ultimate answer is basically saying, okay, here's my standards, and you kind of don't know what you want in a guy.

01:55:13.000 So my thing is, when you go on these dates, for example, when this video said, if you go on these dates...

01:55:18.000 You're gonna get to know the guy better to see what you actually want.

01:55:21.000 So my thing is, like, it doesn't matter if it's expensive or not.

01:55:23.000 And you're saying, like, it doesn't matter.

01:55:25.000 Well, you're saying it doesn't matter.

01:55:26.000 No, it doesn't.

01:55:27.000 Okay.

01:55:28.000 I don't know, man.

01:55:29.000 I think girls want the nice extravagant dates or the effort.

01:55:32.000 They want to see effort.

01:55:33.000 But to what avail?

01:55:35.000 It depends on the guy.

01:55:37.000 Yeah, like, a bitch ain't gonna go to motherfucking Chick-fil-A with a little baby.

01:55:41.000 A bitch, I don't want no Chick-fil-A with a little baby.

01:55:43.000 Bitch, you better take me to Poppy Steak.

01:55:58.000 I think the way a woman treats a guy is directly proportional to how much she's attracted to him.

01:56:11.000 So, what I mean by that is, the more attracted she is to the man, the less she's going to demand.

01:56:16.000 But the less attracted she is, the more she's going to demand.

01:56:19.000 I'll give you an example.

01:56:21.000 You mentioned something about little baby and forcing him to take you to a steakhouse.

01:56:25.000 I don't know.

01:56:25.000 I think...

01:56:26.000 Not saying little baby.

01:56:27.000 I'm just saying the status of a man will determine what that woman going to want from him.

01:56:32.000 Yeah, but status and attraction are two different things.

01:56:34.000 I think if the woman is very attracted to him, he can say, yo, we're going to go to McDonald's.

01:56:38.000 You should be okay with that.

01:56:40.000 You're right.

01:56:41.000 But if she's not attracted to him, she's going to be like, alright, I need to get an experience out of this motherfucker if I'm going to go out with him.

01:56:45.000 I need to go to a steakhouse or somewhere fancy.

01:56:48.000 Yeah, I think to your point, though, if the guys have that status, but you don't like him, you've got to work for me, nigga.

01:56:56.000 Yeah, if he has money and status, but you don't like him, you're going to make him work.

01:56:59.000 But if he's attractive, you're just going to go with wherever he tells you because you don't want to miss the opportunity.

01:57:05.000 Yeah.

01:57:05.000 I ain't gonna lie, you right, cause my baby daddy got me like that with them eyes.

01:57:10.000 He got me like that.

01:57:11.000 Wait, he's a celebrity?

01:57:14.000 I don't wanna talk about it.

01:57:17.000 I don't wanna talk about it.

01:57:23.000 Hold on, I'm finna give y'all a hint.

01:57:25.000 Put the cameras on me.

01:57:26.000 Y'all ready?

01:57:27.000 Ay, y'all seen Tia Podcast?

01:57:30.000 Nah, but tell us.

01:57:32.000 He was like this.

01:57:35.000 Who?

01:57:37.000 He was slinging dick.

01:57:39.000 He was slinging dick on the show.

01:57:40.000 His eyes.

01:57:43.000 He was slinging dick on the show.

01:57:45.000 Your baby daddy?

01:57:46.000 One of them.

01:57:47.000 Yeah, the new one.

01:57:49.000 Does the gentleman know who it is?

01:57:51.000 He was slinging dick.

01:57:53.000 Put that shit on.

01:57:55.000 Put that shit on.

01:57:57.000 Put that shit on.

01:58:00.000 Put that shit on.

01:58:01.000 She means AD. Antonio Brown.

01:58:04.000 My car still was running.

01:58:05.000 Walked out your bitch life.

01:58:06.000 He damn sure did.

01:58:08.000 Like he walked off the field this summer.

01:58:10.000 Stankin' bitch.

01:58:12.000 One of your baby fathers is Antonio Brown?

01:58:15.000 The football player?

01:58:16.000 Unfortunately.

01:58:18.000 My baby's nine months.

01:58:21.000 So it's Shannon Sharpe.

01:58:24.000 Shannon Sharpe is crazy.

01:58:30.000 Okay, so...

01:58:32.000 AB. And the baby's how old?

01:58:36.000 Nine months?

01:58:37.000 Yeah.

01:58:38.000 Her name's Legacy.

01:58:39.000 She's so cute.

01:58:41.000 She has his eyes.

01:58:42.000 Oh my God, I wish I could show you guys.

01:58:44.000 No.

01:58:45.000 I'm not going to show you this shit.

01:58:47.000 And I cannot make this shit up.

01:58:48.000 Now mind you, this is the first time I ever sat and really talked about it.

01:58:52.000 I had interviews before.

01:58:53.000 From Fresh and Fit.

01:58:55.000 A bitch got outside today.

01:58:59.000 A bitch got outside.

01:59:01.000 I done turned down wine, sipping wine.

01:59:04.000 All type of interviews.

01:59:06.000 I was bored.

01:59:07.000 I said, fuck it!

01:59:08.000 Let's go outside.

01:59:10.000 What the fuck?

01:59:11.000 And we outside.

01:59:12.000 This is crazy.

01:59:14.000 Trying to say cap.

01:59:16.000 They're saying cap?

01:59:16.000 Chats say cap.

01:59:18.000 Okay, you bitches.

01:59:19.000 Sit and watch.

01:59:20.000 Sit and watch me.

01:59:23.000 He from Liberty City.

01:59:26.000 Sit and watch.

01:59:28.000 He from Liberty City.

01:59:29.000 We should continue this conversation on Cows Club.

01:59:32.000 Yeah, we should actually.

01:59:33.000 Because I'm going into more detail.

01:59:35.000 Okay, we're going to come on over to Cows Club.

01:59:37.000 I got a question or two on this.

01:59:39.000 Actually, I read through some of the girls' questions here.

01:59:41.000 We actually got a political question too.

01:59:43.000 I'm going to text them right now.

01:59:44.000 Text the stinking bitch.

01:59:46.000 Oh, shit.

01:59:47.000 Come on now.

01:59:47.000 Come on, man.

01:59:49.000 Tell him, tell him, Jewel's on your podcast right now, and you know what he's gonna say?

01:59:52.000 That ain't cool.

01:59:53.000 He's gonna be like, fuck that bitch.

01:59:55.000 Castle Club, guys, come on over.

01:59:57.000 CastleClub.tv.

01:59:59.000 Yeah, CastleClub.tv.

Fresh & Fit - September 14, 2024

Should Women Choose Career or Family? Debate

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