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00:04:21.000We've been talking about bringing it over to Rumble anyway, because now I can show you guys the crazy serial killer pictures and the crime scenes.
00:04:28.000You guys have been wanting to see the real crime scenes and the unfiltered stuff, so guess what?
00:04:31.000Now we're going to go ahead and show you all...
00:29:25.000Sitting down and getting her perspective, will she actually be honest and tell you, oh yeah, I only fuck this guy, I only fuck that guy, blah blah blah, when she knows that she has everything to lose by being honest with the mother of her potential husband?
00:29:38.000For me, it would be less about, oh, did I fuck this guy or this guy?
00:29:41.000It'd be like, I definitely fucked all these guys.
00:29:43.000And now I'm in a different place in my life and your son is super important to me.
00:30:17.000Now real quick, why would you tell your son to walk away?
00:30:21.000Um, I mean, it's really a blow to his image and his pride, especially since, you know, a man's image is pretty important to him.
00:30:32.000So the fact that, you know, he had, you know, this, you know, somewhat innocent fiance or whatever, and then now it's coming out that she's been a hoe with pretty prominent members of the community.
00:31:45.000At that point it's like you're actually screwing these dudes like so it's like it's a bigger picture than like you're not just doing it just because like you're being actual helpful so okay but this was before she was engaged in dating him correct yes yeah so that's what i was gonna ask i mean was it just now recently revealed though Yes.
00:33:28.000And the guy might even be standing in the exact same room as you and not notice, like, the backlashing going on between his mom and the female.
00:35:56.000They're going to try to silence people that might not necessarily align themselves with a certain political ideology, and that's what it is.
00:36:01.000As we told you guys earlier, we got demonetized on YouTube today.
00:36:04.000If we were telling you how to wear masks and take the vaccine and, yo, Biden is great, and let's give him another four years and all this other bullshit, we'd be fine.
00:37:26.000And, you know, we talked a lot about getting what she wants to be, you know, her career in order and everything lined up and go out and explore and have fun.
00:37:39.000And then she has something to fall back onto.
00:39:00.000Pull up that question one more time, Chris, so I make sure I don't misconstrue it.
00:39:03.000Would you tell your daughter to pursue a family at a young age between 21 and 27 or have a lifelong career that she would enjoy?
00:39:11.000Okay, so I come from a family where the second you're around 18 or graduated from high school, you're moving out of the house, and it's like an arranged marriage kind of thing.
00:39:44.000Pretty much it's just a girl doesn't really get to experience life and even herself as a person before she has to marry in to a man and money and that also doesn't give her really any move to like financially grow as a person travel because you're just already submitting yourself to a man because that's how it looks in that so career yeah okay so you go against like the family I believe you should know yourself as a person and experience a
00:41:46.000But no, I think it's super important to have that time for yourself, whatever time it is, whatever age and however long you need, you know, and then you can develop a family.
00:42:03.000The type of person that parties and just fucks off at that time, or the type of person that does inner work and healing travels, does, you know, cultures themselves, broadens their horizons.
00:42:15.000I was trying not to block the titties.
00:42:17.000If we're going to be completely different.
00:42:19.000If we're going to be completely honest and transparent, do you think that most women that go and find themselves actually do the inner work or take that as an opportunity to participate in promiscuity, drug use, experiencing certain things that life offers,
00:42:36.000We talk about that on our show, too, a lot of the inner healing and that it's not super, you know...
00:42:42.000Normalized at this point, but I do think it's getting to the point in society where people are like, hey, we got to really do this because it's just fucking shit out here.
00:45:21.000And because you should choose yourself and do what you want to do and just focus on yourself, get what you had to get done, and then you can focus on whatever comes next.
00:46:16.000And a lot of women do want to have families.
00:46:18.000A lot of women do want to become mothers.
00:46:20.000You know, that is a goal of mine eventually.
00:46:22.000And I believe like as long as it's like, you know, a healthy, you know, loving relationship, you know, for her being 25, 26, 27, then, you know, she definitely can, you know, settle down and have a family.
00:46:33.000College, you can always go to college.
00:46:35.000My, you know, my grandmother got her degree at 60.
00:46:38.000When y'all breathing hard, it's out on the mic.
00:46:53.000And you can always go back to college.
00:46:55.000I mean, I know the same point can be saying that you can always have kids at any point in your life, but it's a lot easier, you know, health wise, you know, relationship wise to have kids when you're younger.
00:47:03.000I'll say I had my oldest son when I was 25 and I love that You kind of get to grow up with them, you know?
00:47:10.000And, like, you're active and you're doing stuff.
00:48:05.000But he was gone and I really at that time I did want a family because I love love so much and you know my parents have been married for 54 years now and they're madly in love with each other and they're always still cuddling when they come over for dinner and so I grew up with this beautiful vision of love and so I chased it.
00:48:24.000Couldn't you leave trouble with him for work?
00:48:31.000Well, I was pregnant, but yeah, and I was modeling in LA. We lived in LA and, you know, doing my career and then got pregnant and he was gone a lot.
00:49:03.000So, a lot of you cited, you know, independence, access to more attractive men, You know, being able to have a backup, men want to fuck around, choose yourself, experience yourself.
00:49:19.000Do you think a woman has more value for finding the man that she wants, or better likely to find the man that she wants when she's younger, 21 to 27, or when she's older after her career?
00:51:17.000Would you say that a woman has a higher likelihood of finding a man when she's younger or older?
00:51:24.000You have to peg the age because you don't know, but would you say you have a better likelihood of finding your dream guy when you're younger or older?
00:53:50.000And so you have to go with the flow and figure some different stuff out.
00:53:55.000But wouldn't it be fair to say that At some point, you have to take a little bit of accountability and responsibility to make yourself the most attractive and seize opportunities given to you.
00:56:26.000I know we're different, but I'm asking you.
00:56:28.000Men, they'd rather have a younger woman because obviously she's less experienced.
00:56:34.000But men are so much more likely to be known as someone that needs to have their share of experience before they settle down and have a family.
00:56:42.000But isn't it funny that women prefer older men that are more mature, that have more experience?
00:57:59.000Not all the time, but in general, people of higher stature within the military typically have more competence, more experience.
00:58:05.000They have something that got them and elevated them to that position which allows them to command authority where a certain title or have a certain title where there's subordinates underneath them.
00:58:15.000Wouldn't it be fair to say that dynamic is very important between men and women?
00:58:45.000He goes, should women prioritize career or a family between 21 to 27?
00:58:51.000Most of you said career, and you guys gave reasons for such as being experienced, loving yourself, understanding yourself, not being childish because you're still a baby, having a backup, being independent.
00:59:26.000Why we all have almost the same thought process?
00:59:29.000For two reasons this is alarming to me.
00:59:31.000Number one, You guys are drastically wrong about what men prefer and women.
00:59:37.000And then the other thing is that it's scary that you guys all think that prioritizing a career is more important than prioritizing a family.
00:59:46.000And I'll tell you why before you guys call me an asshole or a jerk.
00:59:51.000A woman has a certain amount of time to capitalize on the value she's given.
00:59:58.000If I give you a million dollars at 18 years old, and you're not able to multiply that money by the time you're 30, are you stupid?
01:01:11.000If he's less than 1% of the male population, and there's a bunch of beautiful girls that are turning 18 every day that will follow his lead, won't give him a headache, who do you think he's going to go with?
01:01:57.000Would it be fair to say that if we're going to tell young women that they need to prioritize their career, etc., that we also need to tell them the negative side, that if you pursue your career and chase this dream, another dream is probably going to end for you?
01:02:38.000If your daughter, excuse me, if your son was Logan Paul and he was dating that woman and all these pictures were on the internet of her with other men, that sounds to me like experience.
01:04:10.000Very few tigers change their stripes, but some people are living a good-ass time and then they grow up.
01:04:21.000It comes back to the situation I gave before.
01:04:27.000Men value women that are inexperienced, women that are impressionable, women that can be molded, women that want to follow their lead because men are expected to be leaders.
01:04:34.000If I am responsible for a platoon of soldiers, right, I want soldiers that are going to follow my lead.
01:04:40.000Hey, we need to go this, do this, I need you to do that.
01:04:42.000They don't want no talkback or whatever because if they don't, the mission doesn't get accomplished, people can die.
01:05:11.000Guys like us don't really care about women's careers and income.
01:05:14.000Granted, we're not saying you can't work a job.
01:05:16.000We're just saying when it comes to the choice of having a family, what's more important to you?
01:05:20.000And at the same time, finding a man that's going to be a leader for you isn't easy either.
01:05:25.000But when you do find that man, would you give it your career for that man?
01:05:28.000I think we can tell women to go and chase a career.
01:05:31.000I'm never against women going and making money and chasing a career, but I don't like that we don't tell young women that that comes with consequences.
01:05:37.000How do you feel about traditional roles in this generation, though?
01:05:41.000Because I feel like it's not always how it used to be.
01:05:46.000But men are so feminized, like I said on the last podcast, and I just think things are changing now where women feel they need to take on that dominant role.
01:05:57.000But a lot of it's out of necessity, too, because we've been in abusive relationships and we got financially fucked over and had to start from scratch.
01:07:41.000So did he change or was that person you think?
01:07:45.000He was not the same person I married, no.
01:07:48.000When we first got together, he was very much a leader, very masculine per se, very strong, very dominant.
01:07:56.000And then as I grew my business, because I also run a childcare service as well, as I grew into my business and whatnot, which I did for us, because a big thing about soldiers is that they struggle with finances.
01:08:07.000So my goal was I wanted to create this business so he could become the best soldier he could be.
01:12:24.000It seems like your answer shows a little bit different that you know that younger women have a better chance.
01:12:29.000Would it be fair to say that we should tell younger women, hey, pursue a family while you're young and attractive and get the best guy that you can.
01:12:35.000Vet them, obviously, for a bit before you guys get married and ensure that you get certain things in your name or whatever it may be and set yourself up for success and get the best guy that you can versus, hey, chase a career and then find a guy in your mid-30s.
01:13:13.000As they make more money, they acquire status.
01:13:15.000As they acquire more status, they have higher standards.
01:13:18.000As they have higher standards, the man needs to go ahead.
01:13:21.000Yeah, the pool comes down alongside it.
01:13:23.000And then on top of that, the scariest part for y'all is the man that you want, that you think you deserve because you make this much money.
01:15:45.000I really think it depends on the person.
01:15:47.000Career-oriented women tend to have certain characteristics.
01:15:51.000I think if you prioritize your career more over finding a family or settling down, then you are less attractive to a man, potentially.
01:16:04.000But what I'm trying to say is that you can't...
01:16:06.000We talk all the time about a woman can have a career and still have a family and everything, but the most successful women just aren't going to settle.
01:16:13.000If you look at millionaires, if you look at people that are wildly successful, it's not a mistake that they all have the same mindsets and traits.
01:16:27.000So it's like, I don't know, I think we just need to educate women more, because it's alarming the answers that you guys gave.
01:16:33.000Like, all the answers you guys gave were like a thousand percent wrong.
01:16:35.000I think deep down y'all know that they're wrong, but you've been indoctrinated by feminism in modern day society to say, what I want matters more than what men want, and men should accept me how I come.
01:16:45.000But I think that's a ludicrous concept because if I watched porn and did whatever I wanted, women would never accept me the way that I come.
01:16:50.000I have to improve and become the man that a woman wants, right?
01:16:54.000I have to earn the privilege for women to be attracted to me.
01:16:57.000But women don't feel like they have to earn the privilege for a man to be attracted to them.
01:17:00.000Because all of our lives we've walked out the door and men have done all kinds of things to show us that we don't have to do shit and that they are just perfectly happy to just, you know?
01:17:08.000I think someone's gonna come up with you.
01:17:10.000That's why I came out with the book, Why Women Deserve Less.
01:17:33.000Respect is a leader, the man of the household, etc.
01:17:35.000So, like, naturally, she's going to have to, you know, change her way somewhat to, you know, for lack of a better word, conform or submit to But the problem is that women don't want to conform or submit.
01:19:02.000Like, yeah, they might have a guard up, but it's not to the same degree here in America.
01:19:06.000So, like, women are more naturally feminine in other places.
01:19:09.000So, it's not necessarily, oh, it's my guard.
01:19:10.000It's just a westernized female mindset to just be masculine at all times.
01:19:15.000And then when the right guy comes along.
01:19:17.000But what I'm arguing is that The right guy might not come along because you're purporting yourself to be a masculine female from the rip.
01:19:24.000Like, if I walked around in a dress all the time, would a girl even give me the chance to come out on my masculine side?
01:19:29.000Like, honestly, really, I want you guys, because I'm just taking your logic and spinning it the other way around so you can see what I mean here.
01:19:35.000If I walked around in a dress and act like a female, most of the time, And then I came across the right girl.
01:20:06.000There's a beautiful balance that you can do that.
01:20:10.000But again, it's kind of like you want to find a man that's your dream man, but your whole demeanor, your whole energy is giving, I'm a boss, babe.
01:21:02.000And to branch off of your point and trying to tie into what I think you were saying is that...
01:21:10.000Like, for instance, I know you said, Myron, that a lot of business-oriented females, and correct me if I'm not recapping this correctly, who have strong business backgrounds or whatever may not be as attractive to men per se,
01:21:26.000but And then from what she said that, you know, you can have, you know, a less feminine front or feminine front on one side and then, you know, a less, you know, a masculine front or whatever.
01:21:37.000I think it's just, I think what she's saying is that you can, you know, present yourself as feminine and then, you know, for someone like you're interested in or for the right man, you know, you can, you know, submit to, you know, conform to his...
01:22:33.000If you want a man that's hyper-masculine and dominant, the guy that you want that can tell you shut up and is attractive and is going to handle all the bills, etc., he's not going to tolerate a woman that tries to question him.
01:23:04.000Because I don't think women are on the same level as men when it comes to decision-making skills, when it comes to rationality, when it comes to an ability to assess the real world for what the fuck it really is because men live a vastly different reality than women do.
01:23:15.000Are there some women that are aware of it to some degree?
01:23:17.000Yes, maybe women in the military that might be aware of the brutality and the savaginess of the real world.
01:23:23.000But in general, a lot of women are coddled from real world situations to a degree.
01:23:28.000And I'm talking about the real world where the threat of violence is very real from random people, etc.
01:23:35.000And for all the women out there, oh no, women are victims of violence too.
01:23:37.000Men are like five times as likely to be victims of violence than women are.
01:23:56.000But I think it's interesting how girls say, on one end, I want to chase a career, I want to be successful, I want a man, I want to be my partner, but this guy has more money than you, has more status than you, has more competency than you, stronger than you, is stronger than you, Oh, look, he's all the way up here,
01:24:11.000but he's supposed to treat this as an equal partnership?
01:24:38.000So since most women will take that, I can argue that there's a natural proclivity for women to want to be in a subordinate position to a man.
01:27:35.000It's when I'm taking care of someone, also leading to why I'm a medic.
01:27:39.000You know, taking care of someone and nurturing someone and seeing that person go from, you know, here to here, you know, and knowing that, hey, like, you know, I got to be a part of that.
01:28:52.000I think that's the only way a relationship is going to last is when the woman is chasing the man's validation and never works the other way around.
01:29:13.000I'm gonna just say, women are like cats.
01:29:16.000What I mean by that is, if you take a ball of yarn, right?
01:29:20.000You take a ball of yarn and you give it to a cat, the cat will play with the ball of yarn.
01:29:24.000And then if you pull the ball yarn away with the string, the cat will continue to chase and play with the ball yarn.
01:29:29.000However, if the ball yarn stays stagnant, i.e.
01:29:32.000stays at home, doesn't work anymore, stops going to the gym, isn't necessarily staying attractive and having other women approach the ball yarn, what ends up happening?
01:37:49.000Yeah, they have like tribal police and then they have Bureau of Indian Affairs and then the FBI. I've actually always been very careful with my drinking all through my life so that I wouldn't become an addict.
01:38:06.000Ladies, since women receive alimony 80% of the time and divorces and support quality of life, what do you think about the woman having to provide quality of life alimony as well?
01:41:48.000Those are the guys that would treat you very well.
01:41:50.000Those are the guys that built Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, for y'all niggas.
01:42:16.000Plenty of nice guys have probably approached you guys or guys that maybe bought you flowers or were chivalrous and you probably friend zoned them.
01:42:23.000I guarantee every single one he probably has a guy in the friend zone right now as we speak that would probably white knight you to death but he's not attractive enough because he can't tell you to shut up.
01:42:32.000They'd be like, yo, my TV needs to be put up.
01:42:42.000Yes, I always feel like I'm doing that because I appreciate it.
01:42:46.000I don't want to sound an asshole, but there's a reason why I have a theory here.
01:42:51.000Maybe an asshole thing, but I have a theory as to why so many women are single nowadays and struggle with men.
01:42:57.000It's because we don't have father figures and we don't have arranged marriages.
01:43:01.000Typically, what I've realized is that when women are in a position where they're picking the men, they make terrible decisions.
01:43:07.000Because since women are emotionally erratic and dictated by their emotions, they're going to go with the guy that can stimulate their emotions the best.
01:43:14.000Well, what stimulates female emotions?
01:43:17.000It's men that are neurotic, men that have Machiavellian traits, men that are toxic, men that don't...
01:43:22.000That don't necessarily, that have a, excuse me, narcissistic tendencies, sociopaths, etc.
01:43:28.000Women are attracted to these traits because what does this outline?
01:43:31.000The bottom line is the guy doesn't give a fuck about the girl.
01:43:35.000Women are attracted to men that don't give a fuck about them.
01:43:37.000However, the problem is that though this guy arouses you, he's not a good long-term partner.
01:43:43.000The nerd who pedestalizes you and makes you feel like a princess even though you don't deserve to be a princess because you haven't done anything to earn that for that guy, being honest with you, because women only respect what they earn.
01:43:54.000You don't respect that guy because he's pedestalizing you for nothing more than the fact you have a vagina.
01:43:58.000But the fucking toxic guy, he don't respect you at all but you go ahead and you go with that guy because he's not pedestalizing you.
01:44:04.000So it amazes me how what women are aroused by and what they're attracted to does not necessarily always align with what's in their best interest.
01:44:11.000That's why I think generally men need to be involved.
01:44:14.000A brother or a father, someone that's not sexually interested in that woman needs to be involved in the mating process for her.
01:44:20.000Because women are terrible at picking their own partners.
01:44:22.000That's why we have so many women that are divorced, so many women that are single, so many women that don't know how to properly select a man because they're going for the guy that emotionally stimulates them, that gives them that fun ride.
01:44:31.000But that guy isn't going to give them the fun ride long term.
01:44:43.000But how do we get the ride that doesn't end...
01:44:57.000To the woman who said happiness must come first, if you are chasing happiness by definition you don't have it and most likely don't know how to get it.
01:46:03.000If we get hit 2K, that'd be fucking awesome because at the end of the day, Rumble is the last bastion of freedom of speech.
01:46:08.000They're trying to take them down too because they got creators like us, Andrew Tate, Sneeko, Crowder's over here, a bunch of conservative creators, right, on this side of the internet.
01:46:17.000And yeah, bro, they don't want you guys to know the truth, right?
01:46:19.000And if you support a certain candidate that might or might not have been indicted in four different jurisdictions, they're going to get mad at you as well.
01:46:25.000So guys, support Rumble, last bastion of free speech.
01:50:33.000I mean, it's going to come out at some point, but I mean, if you can, like, suppress the...
01:50:36.000I mean, especially when you're with a guy in, like, in the early stages, like, you don't want to, like, be trying to compete with him and shit.
01:51:51.000I honestly wanted to say something but not like anything bad but I wanted to say thank you in a way because you kind of changed my perspective on the like guard thing because I was just in a relationship and one thing that I was told was You seem to know how to do everything.
01:53:00.000As a byproduct of the way that you were raised, the environment that you were raised in, being in the rap profession, which you're around a lot of masculine men that are probably thirsty as fuck trying to smash.
01:53:09.000So you have to develop this hard exterior to kind of get rid of lower value men that you don't deem attractive to you, right?
01:53:16.000And then you might show that femininity to the right guy.
01:53:18.000But in the process of you getting rid of all these guys, that masculine exterior comes out.
01:53:22.000So what I'm saying is that The masculine guy that you want, that's successful, that has a lot to lose, that has options, etc.
01:53:54.000There's a reason why in Spanish, the woman that's more silent is more attractive.
01:54:00.000There's a saying, women are to be seen and not be heard.
01:54:03.000Quiet females are just more attractive because Okay, I'm just going to say it.
01:54:07.000Men really don't give a fuck about female opinions if I want to be a thousand.
01:54:09.000And the reason why stems from what I said before that the male experience is very different than the female experience.
01:54:14.000So there's very little that a woman can tell a guy, right, that has the shit together that he's going to, like, take seriously.
01:54:23.000And this is the uncomfortable reality I have to tell you.
01:54:25.000If you're with a guy that's actually that dude that you are attracted to, there's not much that you can say That is going to influence him, really.
01:54:33.000Why would we want to influence him if he's already got his shit together, though?
01:55:00.000I do this every night with a bunch of y'all at the same time.
01:55:04.000We're just saying less is more, and ultimately, if you want to spend time with a guy, quality time, that does involve speaking, but it also involves asking the question, alright, what is going to be a fruitful conversation between both of us?
01:55:18.000Arguing about a topic, or planning maybe the future, doing things that are productive, but honestly speaking, let's just talk it's better.
01:55:24.000Talking about stuff is fine, but giving your opinion on things and thinking that guys really care a lot of the times is like, bro, we don't care.
01:57:05.000Okay, so yeah, I mean once a guy tells you like that because men are rarely honest with women But no, I took it, and I understand that I'm not the most submissive person.
01:57:15.000Yeah, but did you break up with him for that?
02:02:37.000It is, but also, I believe that men get bored with that.
02:02:43.000I think if a woman can have that hot, crazy value, that sweet in between, the balance.
02:02:53.000I just want to shout out that I said that for the jump.
02:03:12.000I'll answer your question with a simple quote that's been pretty famous.
02:03:18.000Men marry women hoping they will never change, whereas women marry men hoping they will change.
02:03:23.000And the reason why the man marries a woman hoping she will never change is because he, in his mind, he wants her to preserve that value that he married her at, right, to some degree, whether her chastity, her youth, or beauty.
02:03:35.000Typically, they want to marry them at their peak, right?
02:03:37.000Women, on the other hand, if the guy did it right, hopes they're going to change and be A little bit more agreeable, a little bit nicer, a little bit more time for me, etc.
02:03:46.000And they hope that that guy's going to change.
02:03:48.000But the reality is when the man changes, the woman will lose respect for him.
02:03:52.000The man's not supposed to change and the woman needs to stay the same woman that married him.
02:05:36.000I'm going to walk around with a stiffery everywhere, okay, and expect people to accept my boner all over the place and me being always horny and right.
02:07:49.000So male beauty is not that important to women because men offer value in a multitude of other ways that I would argue looks are not the predominant thing for most women.
02:07:58.000Status and income is, and then looks can be third.