On this episode of the Fresh Air Podcast, the boys are joined by 5 lovely ladies to talk about a variety of topics. They talk about their experience at the airport with Timestamps: 1:00 - What's up guys? 2:30 - Who's the craziest person in the world? 3:40 - What s going on in your life? 4:20 - How do you feel about the recent Trump indictments? 5:15 - What are your thoughts on the latest in pop culture and politics? 6:00 What's the worst thing you've ever done? 7:00 -- What's going on with your life right now? 8:30 -- What are you looking forward to in the future? 9:20 -- How's it going to be like in 2020? 10:15 -- Are you ready for it? 11:40 -- What s next? 12:10 -- Who are you waiting for? 13:15 14:30 15:00 | What s your favorite part of the day? 16:20 17:30 | What do you want to hear from the boys? 18:15 | Who's your favorite celebrity? 19:40 | What's your biggest pet peeve? 21:30 // 22:10 | What is your favorite food? 22:00 // 23:40 24: What s the worst food you ve ever had? 25:00 Is your favorite thing that you ve eaten? 26:10 27:40 // 28: What's next for you? 29:00 / 30: Who do you think is the best thing you ve had in the past week? 31:30 / 32: Is your biggest takeaway from the past day of the week so far? 35:40 / 33:00 Can you have the best friend you ve been to the most recent episode? 36:00/36:30/37:00 Do you have any beef with someone you ve watched on the show so far this week or are you still waiting for the next episode to come back to the show? 37:00 +38:00 & 39:00 Are you going to start a new episode in the next one? 39:30 + 40:00 What s coming in next week or will you be coming back next week with the new episode next Tuesday?
00:10:02.000Yes, I was gonna say a place where they throw denominations.
00:10:06.000Okay, so you met him there, and then you guys started hanging out, seeing each other, and then for four days you guys decided, hey, let's make this somewhat kind of maybe exclusive?
00:10:16.000Yeah, I like him a lot and he treats me nice.
00:16:48.000It covers how the dating marketplace has changed significantly, how we went from a society where men and women were different and that polarity kind of complemented the two, versus now where feminism has kind of taken hold and changed the way we view each other from a romantic standpoint.
00:17:05.000But the problem is that Men and women are not equal, but we live in a society where we tell men and women that they're equal, and it's kind of caused issues with dating.
00:17:13.000I'm sure you guys have probably dealt with men that will go on a first date with you and tell you, oh, let's split the check, or guys don't want to be leaders anymore, or guys don't really have their stuff together, and I think this is all a byproduct of feminism.
00:17:23.000But I go into a lot more detail in the book, but I talk about the differences between the two genders from feminism and how women have changed significantly over the past years, and guys have to kind of change and adapt their strategy.
00:17:34.000I mean, do anyone here think men and women are equal?
00:17:38.000I don't think they're equal, but I think we should be treated equally.
00:17:43.000Like, in terms of, like, in general, like, you know, if I see you, you see me, and we're living together, do you think we should be treated the same, have the same benefits, same everything?
00:17:51.000Benefits is in what pay like pay like just in general and dating are we equal?
00:17:57.000Absolutely not I think men are definitely physically stronger than women, you know, so they should do the yard work.
00:18:07.000Yeah, they should be taking out Fixing my car changing the oil Okay, well are you okay with making sandwiches and giving them sex whenever he wants?
00:19:33.000But yeah, that's why I wrote the book.
00:19:35.000I mean, it's kind of funny that she proved my point.
00:19:37.000The reason why is because a lot of women think Not to pick on you or anything, but they feel as though they're entitled to a traditional man that's going to take care of them, provide for them, provision for them, but they don't have to necessarily bring back that feminine nature and bring back their female duties.
00:19:50.000Like, well, you should take care of me and everything, but I don't necessarily have to give you sex whenever you want to make a sandwich.
00:19:54.000I can pick and choose when I want to be a lady.
00:19:56.000So my thing is I teach guys to not tolerate that.
00:20:01.000If you're supposed to be a traditional guy at all times and be masculine and take care of your chick, well, she's supposed to be a lady at all times.
00:20:08.000How many guys do you know that actually do all that stuff?
00:20:11.000There's not a lot of guys that do that.
00:20:13.000I mean, 100% you're correct that masculinity is something that is quickly dwindling in the West, but I think a big part of that is because guys actually believe in the lie that men and women are the same.
00:20:39.000The owner of the Pomeranian doesn't expect the Pomeranian to do anything just to be cute and pet them, you know, and then He just wants a Pomeranian to be happy and comfortable.
00:20:51.000And I feel like that's the role I would play with a very...
00:20:56.000His joy would be to make me happy and comfortable and stress-free.
00:21:03.000And I feel like a lot of men out there, provider men, would be more than satisfied with that.
00:21:08.000So you don't have to necessarily do too much, is what you're saying.
00:21:14.000Would you be okay with him having multiple cats then?
00:21:17.000Depends on the arrangement and the honesty in the relationship because What I've realized is that when girls like are kind of with a guy and he's taking care of her But they don't really offer too much in return That guy more than likely because he has the resources to do so will have multiple I feel like a lot of cats in this case a lot of provider men are definitely like Entitled to that when whenever they provide to you for you.
00:21:37.000They're like well I can basically get to do whatever I want You know, and I definitely don't think that's right.
00:21:45.000I mean, if the man is clear, you know, with that, you know, from the start, he shouldn't be like, okay, well, you know, me and you're dating...
00:21:51.000Well, as long as the boundaries are clear and you're like, this is what I'm expecting and this is what I expect from you.
00:21:57.000And as long as there's some type of agreement, I don't see what the problem is.
00:22:01.000But is it a relationship at that point or is it like some weird sugar baby arrangement?
00:22:07.000I feel like it's an arrangement because if you're complying to other women being in the relationship then you're not in a relationship sentimentally wise.
00:22:14.000You're monetarily wise with that person.
00:22:16.000Plus isn't marriage an arrangement anyways?
00:22:19.000I mean, yeah, but you get married with a person because you love them.
00:22:23.000You know, you don't get in an arrangement with a person because you love them.
00:22:26.000You get in an arrangement with somebody because you need something from them.
00:22:57.000I mean, guys typically don't become successful and make that kind of money to take care of you and then have you go ahead and deal with other men.
00:23:05.000They're just going to break up with you.
00:23:34.000What about you, when you were training these men, what was it about your energy that made these men, what do you think made these men want to come to you for advice?
00:23:45.000That's actually a pretty good question.
00:23:47.000Well, men are a lot different than women in the regard that for men to listen and take you seriously, they need to feel as though you're an actual capable leader and they can learn from you.
00:23:55.000So, you know, your accomplishments speak for themselves and then guys will go ahead and decide if they want to fall in line.
00:24:01.000So, with me, right, luckily I got into YouTube when I was already like an adult after I had a career in law enforcement for a while.
00:24:07.000So, you know, and then I had been training in the gym, lifetime natural athlete, you know, entrepreneur, all this other stuff.
00:24:26.000Examination of how the world really works because, you know, we live in this politically correct world nowadays where no one wants to tell men the truth of what it really takes.
00:24:32.000You know, I tell guys all the time, you are not a woman that can sell feet pictures for 10k a month on OnlyFans.
00:27:00.000I've seen a lot, even to a point where, I shouldn't say this, but I was like 25, and it was like a bachelorette party, and damn, shuts it on camera?
00:29:14.000As soon as I go into this scenario, I'm going to have all these options of women that are better looking than you, that have more money than you, that have more status than you, that can offer me certain things that you might not be able to offer, right?
00:29:26.000Would you genuinely want me to go to this environment that could be destructive to our relationship, yes or no?
00:29:35.000Realistically, having an honest conversation with yourself, do you think, would you feel okay with me going to this location knowing that there's gonna be better looking women that are gonna give me money, that are gonna fly me out, give me free liquor and want to fuck me?
00:31:43.000This is a really good example of privilege is invisible to those that have it.
00:31:47.000So women don't have to work for their value to attract the opposite gender, but men do.
00:31:50.000So it's easy for you guys to speak from a privileged position of never really having to build yourself up.
00:31:55.000You know, you don't have to worry about building up your looks, building up your status, building up your money, and working really hard to achieve a certain level before the opposite gender recognizes you.
00:32:44.000Didn't you say that society is backwards and that basically all this shit, like feminism and all this stuff, technically since our society is now women have to stand up more and now they're providing for their men.
00:32:58.000Technically now we do have to prove our value because in society now things are kind of more balanced.
00:33:05.000But do you guys fail to realize you guys give us our value?
00:33:08.000Right, and you guys are the reason why we are the way we are.
00:33:10.000And how much work we even put into that value quote-unquote like what are you saying my looks like we came here all dolled up?
00:33:15.000Exactly and also like our appearance like taking care of ourselves is expensive.
00:33:20.000I understand that, but what I'm trying to explain is that when a woman turns 18 years old, right, and she's attractive, she effectively has the world at her fingertips.
00:33:27.000It's up to her how she wants to move with that, right?
00:33:29.000Some girls are smart and they get married young to a successful guy and they're able to build a family and, you know, they were able to cash out their chips while they were up and then other women kind of want to play the game and stay in the casino a little bit longer.
00:33:39.000And then they wait till they're in their 30s and then they're not able to get the same caliber of guy that they were able to get 10 years prior.
00:33:43.000So it's up to the girl to kind of spend her money the way she wants.
00:33:46.000But I always kind of liken it to women being trust fund babies and men are self-made millionaires.
00:34:24.000But I think you're talking about physical appearance again, and even my mindset shifting from 18 to But physical appearance is the predominant category.
00:36:10.000I was saying that comment because I've lived through it that I've seen women marry this person from the ground where they have nothing and then that person gets successful and then they leave her for a younger girl.
00:36:29.000Let me ask you all a question, because this is going to really...
00:36:31.000These answers you guys are giving is very telling.
00:36:34.000So, who do you think has more value in the dating marketplace?
00:36:36.000A girl that was married at, let's say, 18 and gets divorced at 25 and was with that guy the whole time, or a girl that's 25 years old that was single those seven years?
00:36:44.000So you're saying value is the fact that she's...
00:36:58.000Because if you want a man, especially a guy that's more attractive, that by definition means you're taking him from another female, which means you're in competition, whether you want to accept it or not.
00:37:06.000There's not enough good-looking, attractive men that have their shit together to go around.
00:38:15.000Women, on the other hand, they might not understand men, but it doesn't matter because guys are going to come up to them anyway.
00:38:21.000Ladies, if I was to ask most guys, they would prefer to be with a girl that was married at one point and got divorced and doesn't have kids versus a girl that was single all those years.
00:38:30.000Because we know if she was married all that time, she probably wasn't around being promiscuous.
00:38:36.000The likelihood of her being promiscuous goes down.
00:38:38.000See, but I thought of it more as if you were...
00:38:42.000A girl that's been single for seven years is a huge red flag versus a girl that was married for a prolonged period of time and ended up divorcing the guy.
00:38:50.000What about if it's a girl that's been in relationships and is not willing to settle for this person, you know?
00:38:57.000Well, knowing the way that modern-day women date, a lot of the times, you know, there'll be flings here, there'll be a relationship here, maybe a one-night-stand here, girls trips here, blah, blah, blah.
00:39:05.000In that seven year span, she probably had more interactions with the opposite gender than the woman that was married to the guy.
00:39:12.000So, a better candidate that men would preferably pick is probably the woman that was married for seven years that wasn't single and on the market for all that time.
00:39:19.000But that's your concern, is that she was sleeping around during those seven years, but that was prior to you.
00:39:33.000Because you're assuming that she's going around sleeping with people, but like, as someone who is single, the last time I hooked up with a guy was months ago.
00:39:51.000When you're young, you want to build yourself up to get these high value men because if I'm taking care of myself, I'll be able to attract somebody who is the same way.
00:41:00.000If a girl's going out all the time, she's around men all the time, she's partying, she's doing things, blah, blah, blah, the likelihood of her getting into sexual interactions with men goes up significantly based on the interactions that she has with men.
00:41:27.000Yeah, I get that, but you've got to understand that your personal experience might not necessarily be indicative of how things go.
00:41:32.000Right, but then their personal experience isn't indicative of ours either.
00:41:35.000But you can't compare us just because of them.
00:41:37.000But also, I think girls would rather hook up with the same person over and over and over than get new bodies.
00:41:45.000Your biggest concern should be the girl going back to the same guy rather than the girl going to other people.
00:41:50.000But that does not change the fact that girls go on girls trips and do certain things to open themselves up to other potential mates that might be of higher status or whatever.
00:41:58.000Girls like to go to travel, go to different places because they're kind of able to.
00:42:02.000We wouldn't have to do that if you guys were doing your job.
00:43:19.000So going back to what you were saying, Chris, sorry to interrupt, is you were looking around the room when you were seeing the red flags, so looking at us three, and what I just told you, you wouldn't have known that by looking at us, would you?
00:43:29.000So you're saying that's what it takes, is the conversation?
00:44:59.000And you know that, okay, if we don't give it up, they're probably going to kick us out their section or I won't be allowed to have certain experiences.
00:45:06.000That happens a lot of times because a lot of guys that come here are on some type of timing.
00:45:10.000So if you don't want to do it and you're not interested, you might get kicked out of the section.
00:45:13.000So a lot of girls will be like, you know what, man, we're here to have fun, etc.
00:45:30.000I mean, just because y'all don't do it doesn't mean that a majority of girls aren't.
00:45:33.000So these guys that are at the clubs and they're buying these sections purposely to get women into them, are these those high-value guys that you're talking about?
00:45:40.000Like, would a high-value man go to a club just to fill it with, like, 15 bitches that he might...
00:45:47.000Some guys might want to come down here on vacation.
00:45:49.000What's your definition of a high-value man?
00:45:51.000High-value man versus high-value woman.
00:45:53.000Because in my head, if I want to date a high-value man, it would not be a guy that I met through a club because he's trying to fill it up with a bunch of girls.
00:46:01.000A man that I would consider high-value would not do that.
00:47:47.000The things that you guys are conveniently trying to avoid that we're describing.
00:47:52.000For example, I just gave you guys the girl that was married, right, from 18 to 25, right, versus the girl that was single from 18 to 25.
00:47:59.000The woman that was married during that period of time is going to be more attractive to a majority of men because it was predictable what she was doing in that span of time.
00:48:32.000So if a girl can't keep a boyfriend, that's very indicative of her ability to be a good mother, be a good girlfriend, maybe potentially be a good wife.
00:48:39.000So if she can't keep a guy, that's a big red flag to me.
00:48:41.000So you're saying a woman that's dressed nicely is equal as a woman that's dressed really bad.
00:48:47.000So when you see a girl at a club, you see a girl really nicely well-dressed with her jewels on, and then you see another girl dress off...
00:50:04.000So now that we've figured out what men actually want, Do you think that there's more women that have these traits or more men that have the other traits that I explained?
00:50:12.000There's obviously more women that have the traits that I was talking about.
00:50:14.000So therefore, there's less men to go around.
00:50:16.000Which means the men have the leverage.
00:50:18.000So what I'm saying is that if you got a guy that's a winner, it's your job to keep him.
00:50:21.000Because there's more beautiful women than there are higher status men that are attractive.
00:50:28.000That's why I look at a girl, if she's not able to keep a guy, she's effectively a failure.
00:50:33.000So a high value man can go into a club and be high value and have a night with his boys and he can be high value but a girl that's just dancing with her friends is not high value just because she's at the club.
00:50:49.000A component that men find attractive in women is chastity, okay?
00:52:48.000I mean, like, because I was saying, you're saying business, like, the value of a woman comes with, you know, the chastity and stuff like that.
00:53:04.000Because if I had a woman that made half a million dollars a year, but she was on OnlyFans or maybe she had a promiscuous past and everything else like that, right?
00:53:12.000But she made half a million dollars a year and she had a business versus I got a girl that's at McDonald's that's a virgin.
00:53:49.000How am I supposed to take care of myself?
00:53:50.000How many women are actually sex workers?
00:53:52.000The point I'm trying to make is, you take that girl that's making half a million dollars a year, that's an entrepreneur, that's successful, and then you take a girl working at McDonald's that's 21, that's a virgin.
00:55:22.000So, since women are not built for casual sex, that's why men have an issue with women that have a lot of casual sex, because we know that y'all are not built for it.
00:55:38.000Men are way more sexually selective than men are.
00:55:40.000So when a girl is promiscuous or a slut, guys don't like that.
00:55:43.000That's why I'm telling you, if a girl makes half a million dollars a year, and she's super successful, but she has a shady past, a man's gonna go for that 21-year-old that works at McDonald's that's a bum but a virgin.
00:57:25.000It's incredible to me how I'm telling you, I'm telling women what men want, and then they're sitting here telling me like, oh, it shouldn't be that way.
00:57:34.000You know what the podcast is for, though, to share our viewpoints.
00:57:55.000I think as a girl, if a guy tells you...
00:57:58.000I mean, we were kind of talking about this earlier, but I think as a guy, if he says that he slept around with all these women, to me, that's also unattractive.
00:58:05.000Yeah, but most girls won't break up with him, though.
00:58:34.000That's where this fallacy is coming from.
00:58:36.000I wouldn't want a man who slept around with a bunch of bitches the same way you wouldn't want a woman who slept around with a bunch of men.
01:00:37.000So that's why it's easy for us to go on a girl's trip is because we recognize that value in a guy where I'm like, if you're coming up to me at a club and you're the 17th guy and I'm just going to keep saying, no, I got it.
01:01:09.000It's not that, but out of those men, there's going to be a percentage of them that are attractive and if you just do simple math, there's going to be a chance.
01:01:16.000It's not about your physical attraction.
01:01:18.000I'm not just going to be like, oh yeah, I might keep fucking this guy just because...
01:05:01.000I just find it incredible that men have to understand women and do things to become attractive to women, but women are not willing to do what's required to be attractive to men.
01:05:12.000It's like, I'm gonna date on my timeline, which is cool.
01:05:14.000You could date on your timeline, but just understand your first choice might not want you back in return.
01:07:17.000I'm sorry, just going back on what you were saying, you think that I should live with my parents until I find my high value man to pay for my wife?
01:07:24.000Men will find that more attractive, yeah.
01:07:34.000You're saying that that might be more attractive to a man, but I could not, I love my parents to death, but I could not, as a 23-year-old, live with my parents.
01:09:23.000Art, like the community that you build around you, like the people that you can reach and the lives that you can change.
01:09:32.000It's not all about sex or family or marriage in the society anymore.
01:09:36.000That might be for you, but I would argue most women would get most of their fulfillment from children in a family, not career and accomplishment.
01:09:42.000I understand that and I respect those women.
01:10:18.000Well, it's because in your bird brain, in your hind brain, you still are attracted to these things.
01:10:26.000So even though you have all these modern conveniences that take care of security, provisioning, etc., you still want a man to have these things.
01:10:32.000So I always say biology overrides social norms.
01:10:37.000Yeah, we are animals at the end of the day.
01:10:39.000We all gotta get our own significant other at some point or another.
01:10:44.000But I'm saying that in this society, it's not a priority for a lot of women.
01:10:51.000I'm not talking about me because I'm really like a sentimental person.
01:10:56.000So I really want to have somebody that I can share my thoughts and my ideas and my life with.
01:11:01.000But some women don't prioritize that and say, I'm just going to be alone for the rest of my life.
01:11:06.000Well, those women think they can push their, you know, their age to a certain extent.
01:11:12.000Like, for example, you three of me want to be boss mates, right?
01:11:15.000Now, all of a sudden, you're 35, and then you're like, you know what?
01:11:46.000Why should I choose you to be my wife?
01:11:49.000You're like, fuck, I don't care, you know, fuck that!
01:11:51.000I'm in a club where girls trip, you know, three of us out here tripping.
01:11:55.000Then he sees you, he's like, you know what?
01:11:57.000I'm gonna fuck her, but she has little qualities to be a wife.
01:12:01.000I mean, to a certain extent, I will sometimes think about going back and changing some of the things I've done in the past, but those things that I've gone through made me mold myself into the person I am today and actually realize what I'm doing right or what I'm doing wrong.
01:12:16.000You know, some women be like, oh, I wish I could go back.
01:13:08.000It's like, you know, just my advice to give most women is to do that.
01:13:12.000You three want to be boss babes, like, that's cool and everything, but, like, why even go towards that route if guys don't give a fuck, like what he said.
01:13:21.000Like, I don't care if they're boss babes.
01:13:22.000Alright, let's make this simple for the ladies so they can understand it.
01:13:24.000Did you have something before I go into this?
01:14:32.000How am I supposed to go out as an 18-year-old and meet a guy who's, I don't know, 20-something, who's at high value?
01:14:37.000That's a black slate, you know what I'm saying?
01:14:38.000I used to be a teacher, I taught high school, and the high school girls who are 18 right now, like, both of you girls think the same.
01:14:45.000You guys are reading way too much into the 18.
01:14:48.000We're doing this to display an extreme example, but the point I'm trying to make here is not necessarily the age, it's that men value innocence.
01:15:12.000If you guys want to call it grooming, you can call it grooming.
01:15:14.000But I consider it training because I think for a girl to be the best girlfriend to you, you have to train her to be the best woman that she could be.
01:15:21.000A woman without instruction is headed for destruction.
01:15:23.000So what's the difference between training and grooming, in your opinion, then?
01:15:26.000Well, training, there's a purpose at the end, right?
01:15:29.000If I told you, hey, you're going to go ahead and compete in this sporting event in six months from now, you would be training every day for that event, correct?
01:15:37.000To be at your best for that event, correct?
01:15:39.000I think looking at it the same way for a woman.
01:15:41.000She needs to train to be her best for that man.
01:15:43.000You know, I find it absolutely ludicrous that women are willing to go to a job and train for a job or train at the gym or train for all these other things, institutions that don't necessarily give a fuck about her.
01:15:53.000But if I say, hey, you should be training for your man, they look at me like I'm crazy and that's misogynistic.
01:17:50.000In every scenario, the woman has the leverage in her 20s, and then as you get to 30, the man starts to get the leverage, and it never comes back to the female.
01:17:57.000But I think that's fine when we start increasing the age, but you guys, as guys, have to give us that time to build ourselves, is what I'm saying.
01:18:04.000Like, you're making it from 18 to 22, but I think we should be focusing on ourselves at that point, and then once we get older...
01:23:36.000And you go to sleep peacefully at night thinking that.
01:23:39.000I mean, there's been a pattern shown that a lot of women lack critical thinking skills.
01:23:45.000I mean, I'm telling you guys things that are objectively true with how men view women and dating and relationships, and you guys, instead of saying, oh, you know what, I can understand that perspective, it's Well, I don't think it should be that way, or I disagree.
01:23:57.000And I've been saying things that are objectively fact in general, and you guys disagree with it.
01:24:28.000You know, like, in tune with people's empathy, you know?
01:24:33.000And, for example, like, I think an emotionally intelligent person wouldn't say some offensive stuff to women.
01:24:40.000Like, say, like, she's a hole or something.
01:24:43.000Honestly, if I'm going to be all the way honest, and it's kind of been proven during the course of this podcast, I think women lack empathy.
01:25:56.000That is one of the biggest examples of a lack of empathy.
01:25:59.000I think women have sympathy, which means they can feel sorry for you and kind of see that perspective.
01:26:04.000But empathy is the ability to put yourself in the shoes of the individual that's talking about a situation.
01:26:08.000And what I've realized through this conversation, which a lot of women, is they lack empathy.
01:26:12.000They're not able to put themselves in a male perspective and understand the male experience because women live a very different life than men do.
01:26:19.000But here's the difference between men and women.
01:26:20.000Men have to have empathy to understand women to be attractive because if I'm going to take a girl on a date and get laid, I know that I got to smell good, have my shit together, carry a conversation, take her somewhere fairly nice, have my apartment nice and clean when we come back.
01:28:00.000Opinion is something that you think about uniquely.
01:28:03.000Alright, so what's an opinion that I've stated?
01:28:04.000An opinion that you stated is, for example, that women shouldn't go to the club because that makes them low value, whereas some other man that doesn't have the same background that you have, the same values that you have as a man, may think differently, may think, oh no, it's totally okay for her to have a girls night.
01:28:21.000I said that most men, if asked honestly, would not like it if their girl went to the nightclub.
01:28:28.000If I lined up 100 dudes and I said, hey, bro, your girl can either stay home with you or go to the nightclub, most guys would elect to have the woman stay at home.
01:28:35.000Sure, but I can empathize with you and be like, oh, sure, honey, like, I totally get it that you're feeling insecure about this.
01:28:42.000So, okay, so what about that was an opinion?
01:30:10.000You're actually asking a poll where guys can be honest because men can't tell women the truth because they have frustrating conversations like we're having now where women don't want to accept the truth.
01:30:17.000This is not frustrating, it's entertaining.
01:30:51.000The person who tells you what it really is and doesn't care what you think, or the person that's scared of what you're going to say and doesn't tell you the truth?
01:31:53.000I wouldn't say that we necessarily lack empathy because we are hearing you out.
01:31:57.000But at the same time, we are giving you our opinions.
01:32:00.000Like you said, we are coming from a self-view because it is our opinion, but at the same time, we've heard you out, we've heard your general statements and everything, and that's okay and everything, but we still are hearing you out saying, okay, I get that, but for me personally, and that's what you pointed out, we're speaking from a personal perspective,
01:32:17.000which is okay, but we have heard out the generality as well.
01:32:20.000But a general conversation speaking from a personal perspective, by definition, limits you.
01:32:24.000Yeah, but I'm saying like we've heard you out and said yeah, I agree and then you know We're here to give an opinion as well.
01:32:29.000So this is our opinion, but we have agreed with you Okay, you can give an opinion, but what place is higher opinions or facts?
01:32:41.000Every time I stated an objective fact about what men find attractive in women your response was well it shouldn't be Isn't that the point of a conversation?
01:32:54.000There's points that we've heard you on and been like, oh, okay, I get that.
01:32:57.000And then the whole point of the conversation, like she was just saying, is opinion as well.
01:34:11.000Women are naturally solipsistic, narcissistic, and tends to view the world from their own purview only, and are unable, a lot of the times, to put themselves in someone else's shoes, empathy, and understand that the world doesn't necessarily work according to their world perspective.
01:36:10.000But now you're speaking personalizing, but...
01:36:12.000I think you were saying that you prefer the fact that you said you were, what, with three, four different women?
01:36:17.000But Chris, do you think your end goal is to, if you see yourself as a high-value man, do you think your end goal is to have a family, to raise kids with a wife, to provide for them?
01:36:27.000Is that the end goal for men, or is that just for women?
01:36:34.000Honestly, just speaking from experience, but I'm asking you guys because I feel like you couldn't answer my question, but obviously- I just answered it.
01:38:19.000But anyways, what I'm saying is this, hey listen, I've been in, you know, like girls aren't gonna break up with a guy just because he's fucking around with some other girl.
01:40:35.000Do they think about it versus do they act on it is different If I see a hot guy on the street and I am in a relationship, I'm not going to go talk to him.
01:40:49.000I'm not going to sit there and stare at him just because I think he's hot.
01:40:52.000I'm going to go on my day and never think about him again.
01:40:55.000Yeah, but your need to have sex with him is probably very little if you are super attracted to your guy, but men are not the same.
01:41:01.000But what about, like, emotional attachment?
01:41:03.000Like, if I'm with a guy and he's telling me, like, new pussy is better pussy, like, I'm supposed to be like, alright, I'm so sorry, go ahead, there's some bitches down the street?
01:42:07.000So therefore, what I've realized is that the best relationships are typically when the man has the leverage and the guy is happy and then the girl is happy as a byproduct of that.
01:42:15.000But when it's the other way around and the woman holds all the cards, it doesn't work.
01:43:28.000So guys, from this point forward, we've got 20,000 of y'all watching between YouTube and Rumble, so we're going to go 50 and up, but I'll read these ones that came from before.
01:43:37.000Yeah, they want the candy store analogy.
01:46:27.000DeVorey Darkins goes, the one thing I noticed these women who come onto the show is that they are absolutely ignorant of what men want and how we think.
01:46:33.000The things we don't understand are the things we struggle with.
01:46:37.000Anybody have anything to say back to that?
01:46:54.000Meekly goes, there was a young lady on this show in the past that said she was here looking for a good time in MIA. What Myron's saying is fact.
01:47:01.000If somebody could find that episode, that would be nice.
01:47:14.000The wonderful ladies on the panel are simply fibbing because they are so thrilled to engage in some delightful whole activities in secrecy.
01:57:21.000I've dated women who are, you know, 30, 40-plus, you know, hot girls, like Latinas, whatever, and I just, like, they're setting their ways.
01:57:31.000And it's like, at the end of the day, your ovaries, you know, have a certain expiration date or whatnot, and guys see that shit, and say, alright, cool.
01:57:39.000Can I build a future with a woman who's, like, setting her ways?
01:59:54.000Yeah, but if I hate the guy and I don't enjoy his company, then I wouldn't date him.
01:59:58.000The point I'm trying to make is that you're saying he's insecure for wanting a younger woman, but if I went ahead and said you're insecure for wanting a guy that has his money together, wouldn't that be ridiculous for me to say that's insecure for you to want a guy that makes money?
02:00:37.000Men typically want younger women, and then you said that's insecure.
02:00:39.000But if I turn around and said, you want a guy that makes more money than you, you're insecure, you'd look at me like I'm crazy, because that's just a preference.
02:00:44.000But if I said that I want a guy who's younger than me, is that not weird?
02:01:24.000The things that make a woman attractive don't take time to acquire.
02:01:26.000It's but it's like it's so limiting because you're saying that it's my age It's something I can't control versus you can go out and you can make more money You can get your ass up and you can work.
02:01:36.000Yeah, you're right you work But I can't change time like I can't be like I'm gonna stop aging because men prefer me younger Oh, no, but didn't we say that before that women have a finite amount of time to find a guy, right?
02:02:14.000That's all I was saying is that you can't say...
02:02:16.000I mean, you're trying to make the point that men and women want different things, but I feel like it's not fair to compare the fact that men want somebody that's younger versus women that want somebody that make more money.
02:05:11.000Yes, but there's a bunch of reasons for that title.
02:05:14.000But when it comes to why women earn less money than men, there's a very sound logic and reason behind why women earn less than men in general.
02:05:44.000The reason why women earn less money than men is because women typically work less hours, they take more vacation, they go into jobs that don't necessarily pay as much, they're more interested in being involved in social work versus being in STEM, science, technology, engineering, and math.
02:05:57.000But that's just a choice that doesn't have anything to do with deserving.
02:09:42.000I don't agree with your point because I respect a guy that takes their time to actually show their true colors because if you're gonna be that easy with me, so you're probably treating me like you treat everybody else.
02:12:53.000If I told you to jump out of a plane and you got a less than 1% chance that your parachute is going to deploy, would you jump out of the plane?
02:13:00.000You're saying that my chance of finding a guy who is loyal to me and me only...
02:16:43.000And ladies, this is the most accurate assessment of men in the United States because it's based off of census data and the National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey.
02:18:32.000It just proves my point that the more money a man makes, the less he cares about how much money you make, because men understand fundamentally that they're going to be expected to be the primary breadwinner.
02:21:37.000In the beginning, we have different needs.
02:21:41.000If you give me what I need, which is my girls' trip, my alone time, my job, my this, my that, you're providing for the house, you're doing this, I will give you back what you want.
02:22:28.000There's another girl that will sit her ass at home and not go out there and do that because, unfortunately, even though you might not go to the club and fuck guys, That's not necessarily wifey behavior.
02:22:38.000Don't you think it comes down to the guy trusting me enough to be like, I know she's not going to get fucked by some guy.
02:22:42.000He could trust you to be a woman, which is emotionally erratic, heavily dictated by what your friends do, potentially susceptible to alcohol, and they're not going to like that.
02:22:49.000And they're also going to know that there's going to be a bunch of dudes trying to fuck you at the club, and he doesn't want that.
02:22:53.000It happens, sure, but we were drinking, we were smoking, we were at the clubs, not once that I think, ooh, I should be fucking this random guy.
02:23:00.000So you were drinking, you were smoking, We were at the club, and not once did I think, I'm gonna fuck this random guy who's gonna approach me next.
02:23:49.000It still doesn't change the fact that it's not a good look.
02:23:51.000So, but if you're asking if I personally was dating that less than 1% guy, and if I still were to go on a girls trip, yes, because we're that three that he just said out of ten, would not fuck a guy, would not be stumbling out of the club.
02:24:24.000You want the guy to have competence and everything else like that?
02:24:26.000Guys have standards on how their women should behave.
02:24:29.000I think in a relationship, if you're genuinely happy, if you're getting what you want, if this was an ideal guy that I wanted, there's going to have to be some, you said not negotiation, but I'm going to have to give some.
02:24:38.000So if he really genuinely looked at me and he was like, I don't feel comfortable with you going to Miami, honestly, maybe I wouldn't go to Miami.
02:24:44.000But if I was like, if I wouldn't go, I would be able to sit down and be like, okay, if you don't feel comfortable with me going there, I would not go.
02:24:49.000But I would go rebuttal and I'd be like, but me and my girls do want to go somewhere.
02:25:30.000So why is it that a man has to tell you to be a lady?
02:25:33.000I don't think everybody would care about us going to Miami, but I'm telling you if that less than 1% that we keep hypothetically talking about said, I don't feel comfortable with you going to all these parties.
02:25:42.000But why should he communicate that to you?
02:25:43.000Because that's how a relationship works.
02:25:46.000No, because when that guy steals your purse, he just defaulted to his male instinct and beat that guy's ass and brought it back to you because that's his job as a man.
02:25:53.000So I want to be fair to say, as a woman, it's your job to protect your innocence, protect your purity, not put yourself in compromising situations.
02:26:01.000Why is it that men have to tell women how to be women, but you guys would never accept it if you told men how to be men?
02:26:07.000You don't have to tell me how to be a woman.
02:26:08.000I don't think it's written in a book where it's like you cannot go.
02:26:10.000That's quite effectively what he's doing by telling you not to go to the club.
02:26:12.000You're saying I can't go on girls trips.
02:26:14.000He shouldn't have to tell you is my point.
02:26:29.000Do you guys not see the lunacy in what you're trying to say?
02:26:33.000You're saying that I should naturally know not to go with my girls on a girl trip because I should naturally know that my man doesn't like that.
02:26:41.000You should know, in general, that's behavior that's unacceptable to a majority of men and isn't necessarily wifey material.
02:26:48.000Just like me, letting you get your purse stolen and your ass grab and not doing anything about it is bitch-made non-masculine behavior.
02:26:54.000I'm supposed to act and be the protector and provider for you in situations that arise.
02:26:59.000You are supposed to be my girlfriend and not embarrass me and put yourself in compromising situations without me being there.
02:27:05.000Does that embarrass you if I take a trip with my friends?
02:28:37.000Like, I want to take a trip with my girls.
02:28:40.000I mean, going to a restaurant with your girlfriends is not the same as taking a trip to a vacation destination where promiscuity is almost promised.
02:28:46.000It's just a city that we've never been to.
02:28:47.000Like we said, we've just gone to a bunch of different cities.
02:28:49.000And you know that that's what we do for our birthdays.
02:28:51.000So if I came up to you and I was like, look, me and my girls want to take a trip for Diana or Carly's birthday, there would not be a single location, like a monastery.
02:29:04.000I'm just saying it's very interesting to me how women expect to do what they want to do, but you guys would never give men the same leeway.
02:29:13.000Because if I knew that that's something that hurt you, if I knew that we were in a loving relationship, committed relationship, and I knew that it would be uncomfortable for you to see me going to Miami, I would not go.
02:29:24.000But I'm saying, is there somewhere, like, if you knew that I genuinely needed a trip with my girls...
02:30:57.000So are we doing like, so okay, maybe for a birthday is not a good example because you'd probably want your husband with you on your birthday.
02:31:21.000See, here's the thing that women don't get.
02:31:23.000When you have this type of behavior and you want to be out with your friends and you want to do whatever, you know what guys are going to do?
02:31:28.000Silently in the back of their mind, they're going to put you in the, okay, she's for the streets category.
02:31:33.000Because I told you I want to go to a restaurant I've never been to before.
02:31:35.000But if you want to go out on girls trips and live like you're single, but you have a guy at home, a lot of guys are going to put you in a box and they're going to put it in the sex-only category.
02:33:33.000So don't even go to Miami because then it starts to escalate.
02:33:37.000Initially, you probably don't want to fuck some other guy.
02:33:39.000But the more you go down the path, hey, I'm doing this, I'm doing this.
02:33:43.000Before you know it, you're like waking up in a yacht being fucked by two or three other guys.
02:34:04.000We just tell guys not to commit to girls that are in certain professions that want to adopt certain lifestyle habits These are just women you don't want to commit to.
02:34:40.000I would argue you're even more rigid in your standards than I am.
02:34:43.000I mean, I never said I didn't have high standards.
02:34:45.000Okay, so my thing is, I think all guys should kind of employ the mindset I have where you don't want to commit to certain girls that have certain behaviors because it's going to fuck you up.
02:34:55.000Okay, but it's the same vice versa, don't you think?
02:34:57.000Like, I wouldn't want to commit to some guy who has a certain type of behavior, like not being able to stay with one woman.
02:35:06.000I'm telling you, like, my point is, if, going back on this insane hypothetical of girls trips, you're telling me that because I want to spend time with my friends, because I don't get to see them as often, because when you are in a relationship,
02:38:21.000I mean, we literally just showed you how rare your guy is and you're still trying to sit here and tell us, I still want to go on girls trips and shit.
02:39:27.000Like, girls really don't wake up and realize until they're 30 years old and paying for knowing drinks at the bar that, you know, their best years have passed them.
02:44:10.000And even though it's not respected, it's the thing that has got me out of Puerto Rico and I've been financially independent since I was 19 thanks to sex work.
02:44:33.000But if someone says you're on OnlyFans, you're on OnlyFans, well, yeah, you're going to feel some type of way because it's not respected by society, unfortunately.
02:45:08.000Sometimes I do think about what my life would be if I didn't start OnlyFast, but I'm actually happy that I did it.
02:45:16.000I know, but earlier I asked you, if you was to find a man who you actually truly love and respected and who would pay for your bills, and would you quit OnlyFans?
02:47:53.000I think I empathize with what you said.
02:47:55.000I think I took it into consideration, actually agreed with you on some points, but at the same time, I still have my own opinion based on myself.