Fresh & Fit - Should Women Go On Girls Trips w- A Man At Home? Heated Debate!

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00:00:43.000 What's up, guys?

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00:00:44.000 After our edition, we are joined with five lovely ladies. 0.99

00:00:47.000 Let's get into it.

00:00:47.000 Let's go.

00:01:03.000 Let's get into it.

00:01:08.000 Nobody cares, bro.

00:01:09.000 Get out.

00:01:20.000 Put your shoes on outside.

00:01:21.000 You don't got to put them on in here.

00:01:35.000 We're good to go.

00:01:52.000 Yeah, Tuesday.

00:01:53.000 So, yeah, you know, but the show goes on, man.

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00:01:58.000 As you guys can see here, if you haven't watched the show in a bit, we've switched some things up, man, as you guys know.

00:02:03.000 Yeah, man, we do a lot.

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00:02:52.000 We just came back from Timcast.

00:02:53.000 How was that?

00:02:54.000 Last week.

00:02:54.000 It was good.

00:02:55.000 So you guys were playing poker?

00:02:56.000 Yeah, we were playing poker.

00:02:58.000 I lost, so I suck.

00:02:59.000 He taught me how to play, but I suck.

00:03:01.000 And then what else?

00:03:02.000 We talked about politics.

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00:03:04.000 We talked about modern dating versus traditional conservatism.

00:03:07.000 All this crap.

00:03:08.000 So it was a good time up there at TimCast, man.

00:03:10.000 Did two podcasts with him.

00:03:12.000 And what else?

00:03:13.000 I'm trying to think.

00:03:14.000 Oh.

00:03:15.000 Okay, so we got to go through the rest of the announcements.

00:03:17.000 What else?

00:03:17.000 Yeah, I mean, it's a banner's up?

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00:04:04.000 I see you guys doing big things.

00:04:06.000 I watch videos, and I'm like, damn, you guys are really going crazy.

00:04:09.000 And I think they met up in Columbia recently.

00:04:11.000 Yes.

00:04:12.000 So that shit was lit.

00:04:12.000 Yeah, when we were out there.

00:04:13.000 And, yeah, guys, and ladies, just, if you want to come on to our show, just DM me Nancy Parkson.

00:04:18.000 If you flake, I will ban you.

00:04:20.000 Simple as that.

00:04:21.000 And, once again, we don't do emails, all right?

00:04:24.000 So I got, like, five emails.

00:04:26.000 I don't know if you guys been getting it.

00:04:28.000 Some guy scamming.

00:04:29.000 Yeah, even guys like, yo, Chris, man, you know, I'm coming on to the show on August.

00:04:34.000 I'm like, nigga, who are you?

00:04:35.000 And it's like, once again, we don't pay guests to come on to the show.

00:04:40.000 Girls, especially girls. 0.99

00:04:41.000 We don't pay girls because they serve less. 1.00

00:04:44.000 Damn!

00:04:45.000 You want a reaction so bad.

00:04:48.000 Hey, not yet, not yet.

00:04:49.000 And then what else was I going to say?

00:04:51.000 Yeah, that's pretty much it for the announcements, guys.

00:04:55.000 So yeah, let's go ahead and introduce the lovely ladies on the panel. 1.00

00:04:59.000 Yeah, ladies, what's the name, age, profession, dating status, and your... 0.99

00:05:05.000 Your body count.

00:05:05.000 There you go.

00:05:06.000 So starting with...

00:05:08.000 Okay.

00:05:09.000 My name is Diana.

00:05:11.000 I'm 23.

00:05:12.000 I'm a social worker.

00:05:14.000 Okay.

00:05:15.000 And I don't think I'm going to answer that lesson.

00:05:19.000 Where are you from originally?

00:05:20.000 Oh, I'm from Philadelphia.

00:05:21.000 Okay.

00:05:23.000 Do you live here now or are you just visiting?

00:05:25.000 No, I'm just visiting.

00:05:26.000 Okay.

00:05:26.000 And you said you're a social worker?

00:05:27.000 I am.

00:05:28.000 Okay.

00:05:28.000 For like kids or adults?

00:05:30.000 For kids.

00:05:30.000 Okay, cool.

00:05:31.000 And then highest education level completed?

00:05:32.000 I got my bachelor's in criminology.

00:05:34.000 Okay.

00:05:35.000 Where'd you get it from?

00:05:35.000 Albright College.

00:05:36.000 Okay.

00:05:37.000 What was that?

00:05:38.000 It's in Redding, Pennsylvania.

00:05:40.000 Oh, sorry I heard that.

00:05:41.000 Yeah, me too.

00:05:42.000 What's your relationship status?

00:05:43.000 Married, single?

00:05:44.000 I am single.

00:05:45.000 Alright, cool.

00:05:47.000 What about you?

00:05:48.000 I'm Karina.

00:05:49.000 I'm 22 years old.

00:05:50.000 I'm also from Philly.

00:05:52.000 Professionally, I'm a marketing assistant at a pharmaceutical company.

00:05:56.000 And I'm single.

00:05:57.000 What was the other question?

00:05:59.000 You said for pharmaceuticals?

00:06:00.000 Yeah.

00:06:00.000 Okay.

00:06:01.000 And did you guys, I'm assuming you guys came together from Philly?

00:06:04.000 Yeah.

00:06:04.000 Okay.

00:06:04.000 Are you guys actually from Philly or are you guys from like Drexel Hills?

00:06:07.000 No, outside Philly.

00:06:09.000 Northeast?

00:06:09.000 Yeah.

00:06:10.000 The hood?

00:06:11.000 Yeah.

00:06:24.000 I'm assuming all three of you guys are just here visiting.

00:06:29.000 What's your highest education level completed?

00:06:31.000 I got a degree in marketing from Westchester.

00:06:36.000 Relationship status?

00:06:37.000 I'm single.

00:06:40.000 And that's a BA, I'm guessing, right?

00:06:41.000 Mm-hmm.

00:06:42.000 Okay.

00:06:42.000 What about you?

00:06:43.000 My name is Carly.

00:06:45.000 I'm from the same place they're from.

00:06:47.000 How old are you?

00:06:49.000 Oh, I'm 23 today.

00:06:51.000 23?

00:06:51.000 Happy birthday.

00:06:52.000 Yes, thank you so much.

00:06:53.000 Thank you.

00:06:53.000 And you guys are all from Northeast Philadelphia?

00:06:57.000 Yes.

00:06:57.000 Okay.

00:06:58.000 And then what do you do for it?

00:06:59.000 I work in a hospital and I'm currently in nursing school.

00:07:02.000 Wait, nurse? 0.80

00:07:03.000 Nurse! 0.96

00:07:04.000 Does someone need me?

00:07:06.000 Are you like a CNA right now or a philobotomist?

00:07:08.000 No, not a foot.

00:07:09.000 CNA? Yeah, sure.

00:07:11.000 And you're pursuing...

00:07:11.000 Nursing school, yes.

00:07:13.000 Thank you.

00:07:14.000 So you don't have your BA yet?

00:07:16.000 Not yet.

00:07:16.000 Not in nursing.

00:07:18.000 At least.

00:07:19.000 Do you have a BA in something else?

00:07:20.000 Child and Family Studies, yes.

00:07:22.000 So you're getting your second bachelor's right now?

00:07:23.000 Yes.

00:07:24.000 So you have a BA in Child and Family Studies, you said?

00:07:28.000 Yes.

00:07:29.000 But you're going back to get a...

00:07:31.000 Okay, relationship status?

00:07:32.000 Single.

00:07:33.000 Alright.

00:07:34.000 What about you?

00:07:36.000 Hi, I'm Jillian.

00:07:37.000 Welcome back.

00:07:38.000 Hi, I'm from Puerto Rico.

00:07:40.000 How old are you?

00:07:41.000 I'm 22.

00:07:42.000 Okay, and you're from PR? Yes, San Juan.

00:07:45.000 San Juan, okay.

00:07:46.000 Bless you.

00:07:49.000 Amen.

00:07:52.000 I thought you were sneezing, I guess.

00:07:53.000 San Juan.

00:07:54.000 San Juan.

00:07:57.000 What do you do for her?

00:07:59.000 Well, I'm a model, and I also do OnlyFans.

00:08:02.000 Oh, shit.

00:08:03.000 Plug it in.

00:08:06.000 JillianMarie.xo What's your highest education level completed?

00:08:12.000 I did two months of assistive veterinarian.

00:08:17.000 That's about it.

00:08:18.000 Okay, so high school.

00:08:19.000 And then what's your relationship status?

00:08:23.000 Single...

00:08:24.000 Saying it reluctantly.

00:08:25.000 Is there somebody out there in the wind or something?

00:08:28.000 Situationship.

00:08:28.000 I feel like everybody has a situationship if they're single, you know?

00:08:32.000 Like what?

00:08:32.000 So, you just fucking?

00:08:33.000 Or sex?

00:08:34.000 No, fucking, but you know, you need attention. 0.90

00:08:38.000 What?

00:08:39.000 I mean, how long have you been, you know?

00:08:42.000 Like a month.

00:08:43.000 Oh, yeah.

00:08:43.000 Yeah, so it's not a relationship.

00:08:44.000 I can't call it a relationship.

00:08:46.000 Yeah, you're fucking.

00:08:47.000 So, typically when you're in a situation like that, one party wants to commit while the other one doesn't.

00:08:51.000 In this situation, who's the party that doesn't want to commit?

00:08:54.000 We both want to commit.

00:08:55.000 We're just taking our time.

00:08:57.000 I feel like you don't want to rush into a relationship, especially nowadays.

00:09:01.000 Nah, because she's actually trying to claim him after a month, so I think he doesn't want to commit.

00:09:07.000 Oh, he has my name tattooed, so...

00:09:10.000 Oh, he's kidding.

00:09:11.000 That girl! 1.00

00:09:13.000 I mean, it's a God God 3000 that good?

00:09:19.000 No comment.

00:09:21.000 How long have y'all known each other?

00:09:26.000 A month.

00:09:26.000 No, not dated.

00:09:28.000 Oh, a month.

00:09:29.000 We started dating like the first four days that we met each other.

00:09:33.000 And he tattooed your name on him?

00:09:34.000 Yeah.

00:09:34.000 Bro, who's this guy, man?

00:09:35.000 Did y'all go to the shop together?

00:09:38.000 To the shop?

00:09:39.000 Yeah, like y'all went to the tattoo shop together?

00:09:40.000 I was in Puerto Rico at the time when he did it.

00:09:42.000 Damn, he missed you.

00:09:44.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

00:09:46.000 Stop the show.

00:09:47.000 So, you guys meet, how'd y'all meet?

00:09:50.000 At my work.

00:09:52.000 On OnlyFans?

00:09:54.000 No, I dance at booby traps sometimes.

00:09:57.000 Okay, so you do off and you also dance at booby traps.

00:10:00.000 For the people that are wondering, that is a...

00:10:01.000 Strip club.

00:10:02.000 Yes, I was gonna say a place where they throw denominations.

00:10:06.000 Okay, so you met him there, and then you guys started hanging out, seeing each other, and then for four days you guys decided, hey, let's make this somewhat kind of maybe exclusive?

00:10:16.000 Yeah, I like him a lot and he treats me nice.

00:10:19.000 He's a respectful man.

00:10:20.000 And then you went to Puerto Rico for like a week or something?

00:10:22.000 Yeah, I was there visiting my mom.

00:10:24.000 And then you come back and he has your name tattooed on him.

00:10:26.000 He called me on FaceTime to show me.

00:10:28.000 Wait, tell me, how much money did he spend the first night when he met you?

00:10:31.000 Wait, why does it have to be on my money though?

00:10:33.000 Tell me, what made you like him?

00:10:36.000 He's funny.

00:10:38.000 I like funny guys.

00:10:39.000 How much funny money is?

00:10:43.000 Is he black?

00:10:45.000 Is he white?

00:10:47.000 He's white.

00:10:48.000 Is he one of them boys?

00:10:54.000 What do you mean one of them boys?

00:10:55.000 Is he Caucasian or is he like, you know? 0.97

00:10:57.000 He's a mixture.

00:10:59.000 He's like half Italian.

00:11:02.000 How old is he?

00:11:03.000 24.

00:11:05.000 Alright.

00:11:06.000 It's early.

00:11:07.000 Okay, so I just have so many questions.

00:11:09.000 Okay, so he gets a tattoo and calls you on FaceTime.

00:11:13.000 Where'd he get it?

00:11:13.000 Like on his arm or some shit?

00:11:14.000 Yeah, on his arm.

00:11:16.000 And it has your name just written there?

00:11:18.000 Yeah.

00:11:19.000 Like my signature.

00:11:20.000 He told me to write down my signature on a paper.

00:11:22.000 Is it crossed out by other names?

00:11:25.000 I hope not.

00:11:28.000 Did you see it in person?

00:11:31.000 Yeah!

00:11:31.000 Oh, I thought it was photoshopped.

00:11:33.000 No, it wasn't photoshopped.

00:11:35.000 Yeah, it's not a troll.

00:11:35.000 He really did it.

00:11:37.000 Okay.

00:11:37.000 Damn!

00:11:38.000 What does a dude do for a living?

00:11:40.000 I love you, baby.

00:11:41.000 What does he do for a living?

00:11:45.000 FBI, open up!

00:11:46.000 I don't know if he does that.

00:11:47.000 I don't know what he does for work.

00:11:50.000 I don't ask those questions.

00:11:54.000 He has money, man.

00:11:56.000 Wouldn't it be important, though, to kind of know what your partner's involved in?

00:11:58.000 I can't see.

00:11:59.000 I'm blind.

00:12:01.000 She don't care, man.

00:12:03.000 She just knows that the money's coming in, so she doesn't care how it comes in. 0.99

00:12:06.000 She don't care.

00:12:07.000 Wow.

00:12:07.000 Okay.

00:12:08.000 That's a first.

00:12:10.000 Getting a tattoo of a girl four days after meeting her.

00:12:12.000 Yes, money to take it off.

00:12:14.000 Lazer stars where you could just burn it off.

00:12:15.000 Or you can just cover it up, you know?

00:12:17.000 There's a lot of options.

00:12:19.000 But I'm hoping he doesn't.

00:12:20.000 How much money did he throw that night at the club the first time y'all met?

00:12:23.000 I'm curious.

00:12:24.000 Just curious.

00:12:25.000 I didn't keep count, but he just kept hanging.

00:12:27.000 Was it over 10k?

00:12:28.000 Nah.

00:12:29.000 No?

00:12:30.000 No.

00:12:30.000 Was it over 5k?

00:12:31.000 Probably like five.

00:12:32.000 Around five?

00:12:33.000 Yeah.

00:12:34.000 Damn.

00:12:34.000 Okay.

00:12:35.000 Wow.

00:12:36.000 Okay.

00:12:37.000 All right.

00:12:41.000 If he's Italian.

00:12:42.000 Forget about it.

00:12:43.000 All right.

00:12:43.000 What about you?

00:12:44.000 Forget about it.

00:12:45.000 My name is Valli Latini.

00:12:46.000 What is it?

00:12:47.000 Valli?

00:12:47.000 Valli Latini.

00:12:48.000 Like the valley.

00:12:49.000 Okay.

00:12:50.000 How old are you?

00:12:52.000 I'm 29.

00:12:53.000 Okay.

00:12:53.000 Where are you from?

00:12:57.000 I'm from Bogota, Colombia.

00:12:59.000 Okay.

00:13:00.000 Alright.

00:13:01.000 Did you go to high school here or back in Colombia?

00:13:03.000 I went to high school in Chattanooga, Tennessee.

00:13:06.000 Okay.

00:13:07.000 So I would say, alright, so you're from, family's from Bogota, but you grew up in Chattanooga, Tennessee.

00:13:10.000 That's right.

00:13:11.000 Okay.

00:13:11.000 Because you don't really have an accent.

00:13:12.000 I grew up in Colombia, actually.

00:13:15.000 You went to high school in Columbia or here?

00:13:16.000 So I grew up, I stayed in Columbia until I was 12, and then I immigrated to the United States when I was 12, and I did high school here.

00:13:25.000 Okay, I'd consider you from Tennessee then.

00:13:27.000 To me, I look at it like wherever you go to high school, typically that's like your formative years, but that's fine either way.

00:13:33.000 So we'll put both.

00:13:34.000 And then what do you do for work?

00:13:36.000 I'm a musician.

00:13:37.000 Okay.

00:13:38.000 What kind of music do you make?

00:13:39.000 I do dark pop, electronic.

00:13:41.000 Wait, dark pop?

00:13:42.000 What is dark pop?

00:13:43.000 Dark pop is like pop, but like dark.

00:13:45.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:13:59.000 No, it's a little more sensual, more sexy.

00:14:05.000 No blood yet.

00:14:08.000 Maybe sometime.

00:14:10.000 Because Chastainer, you're a vampire. 1.00

00:14:12.000 Yeah?

00:14:14.000 Do I look like a vampire to you?

00:14:16.000 I mean, more or less.

00:14:18.000 Cool.

00:14:19.000 No, I'm joking.

00:14:22.000 Fantastic!

00:14:23.000 She would probably be wearing that cross.

00:14:24.000 She would probably burn alive.

00:14:26.000 So, dark pop, you learn something new every day.

00:14:28.000 And what other genres?

00:14:30.000 Electronic.

00:14:31.000 Okay, EDM? It's more like electronic music.

00:14:35.000 I don't define my music by any genre.

00:14:39.000 I think you just gotta...

00:14:40.000 I mean, EDM stands for electronic dance music.

00:14:43.000 I guess it is EDM, but when you listen to it, most people wouldn't describe it as EDM. Damn, I need my sunboard, man.

00:14:49.000 Okay.

00:14:51.000 Alright, and then, what's your highest education level completed?

00:14:55.000 Some college.

00:14:56.000 Alright, some college.

00:14:57.000 Alright, do you got your associates, or...?

00:14:59.000 I didn't get my associates, but I just dropped out of school.

00:15:03.000 Alright, so highest completed is high school and then relationship status?

00:15:06.000 I'm single.

00:15:07.000 Cool.

00:15:08.000 Alright.

00:15:10.000 So, you want to hit off with the first question?

00:15:13.000 Ladies, any questions?

00:15:14.000 And guys, real quick, for those of you guys that are wondering, as you guys know, we got demonetized on YouTube.

00:15:18.000 So if you want to super chat into the show and ask a question, all you got to do is click that Streamlabs link.

00:15:21.000 That is the new way to super chat.

00:15:23.000 It actually goes a long way towards supporting the show a lot more than the super chats before with YouTube because they took their cut.

00:15:27.000 So go ahead and hit us over there if you guys got questions.

00:15:29.000 I see a bunch of them already came in, so we'll go ahead and read them, but you wanted to hit the first thing?

00:15:34.000 Girls, do you have any questions to ask us first before we go into the topic?

00:15:37.000 Any questions, concerns?

00:15:39.000 I have a question.

00:15:41.000 What made you want to start this podcast?

00:15:44.000 You want to go first?

00:15:45.000 No, go ahead.

00:15:46.000 You started it.

00:15:46.000 No, you started it, man.

00:15:49.000 Well, I mean, I'm going to give you the condensed version.

00:15:52.000 I had a fitness business.

00:15:53.000 I was helping guys get in shape.

00:15:54.000 And then I realized that guys were asking the same questions over and over about women and how to be attractive.

00:15:59.000 And I realized, like, you know what?

00:16:00.000 A lot of guys are dealing with the same issues.

00:16:02.000 And I realized that it was a lot of times from incompetence and not having their stuff together that they were failing women. 1.00

00:16:06.000 So I was like, you know what?

00:16:07.000 Let's just start a podcast where we help guys who are becoming better.

00:16:09.000 And then as a byproduct of becoming better, their dating life is going to be better.

00:16:12.000 I have a question.

00:16:13.000 Is this your first book that you wrote?

00:16:16.000 Yes.

00:16:18.000 Do I like being an author?

00:16:19.000 Do I like it?

00:16:20.000 Yeah.

00:16:21.000 How is it writing it?

00:16:21.000 It's cool.

00:16:22.000 It's an interesting title because you could say that you're an author and you actually wrote a book.

00:16:26.000 But yeah, I mean, it's cool.

00:16:28.000 I like it.

00:16:29.000 What are the benefits of reading your book?

00:16:31.000 What are the benefits?

00:16:31.000 Oh, shit.

00:16:33.000 Men or women? 0.78

00:16:34.000 I want to know for everybody.

00:16:35.000 Just in general.

00:16:36.000 Should I read your book?

00:16:38.000 Yeah, like is it a girl book?

00:16:39.000 Is it a guy book?

00:16:41.000 Don't worry, Myron.

00:16:41.000 I got you.

00:16:45.000 The book covers a lot of things.

00:16:48.000 It covers how the dating marketplace has changed significantly, how we went from a society where men and women were different and that polarity kind of complemented the two, versus now where feminism has kind of taken hold and changed the way we view each other from a romantic standpoint.

00:17:05.000 But the problem is that Men and women are not equal, but we live in a society where we tell men and women that they're equal, and it's kind of caused issues with dating.

00:17:13.000 I'm sure you guys have probably dealt with men that will go on a first date with you and tell you, oh, let's split the check, or guys don't want to be leaders anymore, or guys don't really have their stuff together, and I think this is all a byproduct of feminism. 1.00

00:17:23.000 But I go into a lot more detail in the book, but I talk about the differences between the two genders from feminism and how women have changed significantly over the past years, and guys have to kind of change and adapt their strategy.

00:17:34.000 I mean, do anyone here think men and women are equal?

00:17:38.000 I don't think they're equal, but I think we should be treated equally.

00:17:41.000 In what sense?

00:17:43.000 Like, in terms of, like, in general, like, you know, if I see you, you see me, and we're living together, do you think we should be treated the same, have the same benefits, same everything?

00:17:51.000 Benefits is in what pay like pay like just in general and dating are we equal?

00:17:57.000 Absolutely not I think men are definitely physically stronger than women, you know, so they should do the yard work. 1.00

00:18:07.000 Yeah, they should be taking out Fixing my car changing the oil Okay, well are you okay with making sandwiches and giving them sex whenever he wants?

00:18:18.000 Sex is crazy.

00:18:19.000 I'm not sure.

00:18:20.000 I'd be making really bad sandwiches.

00:18:23.000 So he's got to stick to his duties, but you don't have to necessarily fulfill yours.

00:18:27.000 That's right.

00:18:29.000 That's why I wrote the book.

00:18:30.000 That's why I wrote the book, guys.

00:18:39.000 So, tell me this.

00:18:40.000 If he's doing all this, right, what do you bring to the table?

00:18:44.000 Like, what do you bring to the household?

00:18:45.000 What am I bringing to the table?

00:18:47.000 I'm bringing in emotional support.

00:18:49.000 Emotional support.

00:18:50.000 Yes.

00:18:50.000 Unlimited sex.

00:18:51.000 Unlimited sex.

00:18:52.000 Unlimited sex.

00:18:52.000 A shoulder to cry on.

00:18:54.000 A cry on.

00:18:54.000 Lots of scratches.

00:18:55.000 So, emotional sex.

00:18:56.000 Okay, what else?

00:18:57.000 Wait, I think is the man we have, is he making us, do we have to work?

00:19:01.000 Because I think it's different.

00:19:02.000 Your responsibility is if you have to work or if you don't have to work.

00:19:06.000 What do you bring other than, you know, like to table?

00:19:08.000 I mean, that means we're basically home all day if we want to be.

00:19:11.000 I mean, keeping the house clean, the kids.

00:19:13.000 I mean, if he's doing everything, I don't mind like being a housewife.

00:19:18.000 Yeah, for sure.

00:19:19.000 Would you quit OnlyFans?

00:19:21.000 Are you gonna pay me the same?

00:19:23.000 Yeah, sure.

00:19:25.000 I'm ready to stop doing OnlyFans.

00:19:28.000 Yeah.

00:19:28.000 Are you ready?

00:19:30.000 My nigga, you heard that right?

00:19:33.000 But yeah, that's why I wrote the book.

00:19:35.000 I mean, it's kind of funny that she proved my point.

00:19:37.000 The reason why is because a lot of women think Not to pick on you or anything, but they feel as though they're entitled to a traditional man that's going to take care of them, provide for them, provision for them, but they don't have to necessarily bring back that feminine nature and bring back their female duties. 1.00

00:19:50.000 Like, well, you should take care of me and everything, but I don't necessarily have to give you sex whenever you want to make a sandwich. 1.00

00:19:54.000 I can pick and choose when I want to be a lady. 1.00

00:19:56.000 So my thing is I teach guys to not tolerate that.

00:19:58.000 No offense.

00:20:00.000 No offense taken.

00:20:01.000 If you're supposed to be a traditional guy at all times and be masculine and take care of your chick, well, she's supposed to be a lady at all times. 0.76

00:20:06.000 That's the only way it's a fair deal.

00:20:07.000 I just have a question.

00:20:08.000 How many guys do you know that actually do all that stuff?

00:20:11.000 There's not a lot of guys that do that.

00:20:13.000 I mean, 100% you're correct that masculinity is something that is quickly dwindling in the West, but I think a big part of that is because guys actually believe in the lie that men and women are the same.

00:20:23.000 So I have a point.

00:20:25.000 I think a lot of men who are actually real provider men.

00:20:29.000 Yeah.

00:20:30.000 I think of ourselves like cats, you know, like and like a lot like let's say you have a cute Pomeranian, right?

00:20:37.000 Yeah.

00:20:39.000 The owner of the Pomeranian doesn't expect the Pomeranian to do anything just to be cute and pet them, you know, and then He just wants a Pomeranian to be happy and comfortable.

00:20:51.000 And I feel like that's the role I would play with a very...

00:20:56.000 His joy would be to make me happy and comfortable and stress-free.

00:21:03.000 And I feel like a lot of men out there, provider men, would be more than satisfied with that.

00:21:08.000 So you don't have to necessarily do too much, is what you're saying.

00:21:10.000 Exactly.

00:21:11.000 Okay, well, let me ask you this then.

00:21:12.000 Let's have fun with this, right?

00:21:13.000 If you're going to go down that road.

00:21:14.000 Would you be okay with him having multiple cats then?

00:21:17.000 Depends on the arrangement and the honesty in the relationship because What I've realized is that when girls like are kind of with a guy and he's taking care of her But they don't really offer too much in return That guy more than likely because he has the resources to do so will have multiple I feel like a lot of cats in this case a lot of provider men are definitely like Entitled to that when whenever they provide to you for you.

00:21:37.000 They're like well I can basically get to do whatever I want You know, and I definitely don't think that's right.

00:21:43.000 I definitely think, you know...

00:21:45.000 I mean, if the man is clear, you know, with that, you know, from the start, he shouldn't be like, okay, well, you know, me and you're dating...

00:21:51.000 Well, as long as the boundaries are clear and you're like, this is what I'm expecting and this is what I expect from you.

00:21:57.000 And as long as there's some type of agreement, I don't see what the problem is.

00:22:01.000 But is it a relationship at that point or is it like some weird sugar baby arrangement?

00:22:05.000 It's not a sugar baby arrangement.

00:22:07.000 I feel like it's an arrangement because if you're complying to other women being in the relationship then you're not in a relationship sentimentally wise.

00:22:14.000 You're monetarily wise with that person.

00:22:16.000 Plus isn't marriage an arrangement anyways?

00:22:19.000 I mean, yeah, but you get married with a person because you love them.

00:22:23.000 You know, you don't get in an arrangement with a person because you love them.

00:22:26.000 You get in an arrangement with somebody because you need something from them.

00:22:29.000 He needs sex.

00:22:30.000 You need money.

00:22:32.000 Oh, I need sex in the family, yeah. 0.99

00:22:34.000 Or he needs something else.

00:22:36.000 Companionship, support, or just a pretty girl.

00:22:38.000 Pretty girl to be on the other side. 0.56

00:22:40.000 So you're okay with sharing as long as you're provided for and he tells you up front?

00:22:44.000 Exactly.

00:22:45.000 And are you going to be monogamous to him?

00:22:48.000 Absolutely not.

00:22:49.000 Oh, wow.

00:22:49.000 Oh, shit.

00:22:50.000 Absolutely not.

00:22:51.000 That's going to be a deal breaker for 99% of men then.

00:22:54.000 That's fine.

00:22:55.000 There's the 1%, you know? 0.90

00:22:57.000 I mean, guys typically don't become successful and make that kind of money to take care of you and then have you go ahead and deal with other men.

00:23:05.000 They're just going to break up with you.

00:23:07.000 That is true.

00:23:07.000 Right.

00:23:08.000 I mean, that sounds great on paper, but men don't become successful a lot of the times to get cheated on by a chick. 1.00

00:23:16.000 And if they do, they'll tolerate it to a degree and then they'll eventually get rid of you.

00:23:19.000 Even, you know, people like, even like Will Smith, people like that, I guarantee you, he's probably not taking Jaden that serious anymore.

00:23:26.000 But anyway, anything else?

00:23:28.000 Before we, for Chris to ask this question, do you have something else?

00:23:31.000 I have another question for you.

00:23:34.000 What about you, when you were training these men, what was it about your energy that made these men, what do you think made these men want to come to you for advice?

00:23:45.000 That's actually a pretty good question.

00:23:47.000 Well, men are a lot different than women in the regard that for men to listen and take you seriously, they need to feel as though you're an actual capable leader and they can learn from you. 0.95

00:23:55.000 So, you know, your accomplishments speak for themselves and then guys will go ahead and decide if they want to fall in line.

00:24:01.000 So, with me, right, luckily I got into YouTube when I was already like an adult after I had a career in law enforcement for a while.

00:24:07.000 So, you know, and then I had been training in the gym, lifetime natural athlete, you know, entrepreneur, all this other stuff.

00:24:13.000 Guys, I'm able to...

00:24:14.000 I'm in a position a little bit older now, 33, where I'm able to dispense advice from a wisdom standpoint, and guys really like that.

00:24:20.000 And I'm able to give a very...

00:24:22.000 How do I say this?

00:24:23.000 An unfiltered...

00:24:26.000 Examination of how the world really works because, you know, we live in this politically correct world nowadays where no one wants to tell men the truth of what it really takes.

00:24:32.000 You know, I tell guys all the time, you are not a woman that can sell feet pictures for 10k a month on OnlyFans. 1.00

00:24:37.000 You can't do that.

00:24:38.000 So you have to get out there and work.

00:24:40.000 But, you know, a lot of people are scared to say stuff like that because that's considered misogynistic or sexist.

00:24:45.000 But with men, you have to be very honest with them and be competent for them to take you seriously.

00:24:49.000 So, very fortunate to have a good amount of supporters.

00:24:52.000 I just have one last question.

00:24:53.000 Are you single?

00:25:00.000 The way I do it is I have multiple chicks. 1.00

00:25:04.000 How many?

00:25:06.000 What about you?

00:25:08.000 Are they all treated equally?

00:25:10.000 I'm fucking.

00:25:13.000 Myron, are they all treated equally?

00:25:14.000 Like if you buy a girl a purse, do you buy the same girl the same purse? 0.51

00:25:18.000 Or what do you do?

00:25:19.000 Just buy four of everything?

00:25:19.000 Well, it depends, right?

00:25:20.000 Like you guys share the same purse.

00:25:22.000 No, because every girl is different and not all girls want the same thing.

00:25:26.000 But if she's a main girl, she gets certain privileges that other girls aren't going to get.

00:25:32.000 So what makes her the main girl from all the girls if they're all offering the same thing?

00:25:37.000 Magic.

00:25:38.000 Sorry.

00:25:39.000 Wait, what?

00:25:41.000 Well, I mean, it depends.

00:25:42.000 Every guy has different criteria, right?

00:25:43.000 Some guys are very strict on look.

00:25:46.000 Some guys are very strict on her past.

00:25:47.000 Whatever.

00:25:48.000 Every guy has different criteria.

00:25:49.000 But for me, I mean, there's a whole bunch of things.

00:25:52.000 I mean, I don't know if you want to go into all that.

00:25:53.000 What's your criteria for a woman? 1.00

00:25:55.000 Yeah, I kind of do.

00:25:57.000 Wait, who's relaxing?

00:25:58.000 She asks.

00:25:59.000 Her?

00:26:00.000 What are y'all's criteria for a woman that would be worthy to, like, lock down? 0.99

00:26:05.000 Don't be a hoe. 1.00

00:26:07.000 What qualifies you as a hoe? 1.00

00:26:09.000 For example, if I was dating you, I would not let you go on a girls trip to your friends. 0.74

00:26:17.000 Yeah, you're crazy.

00:26:18.000 It would never last.

00:26:19.000 Why?

00:26:21.000 What do you think we're doing on these girls trips? 1.00

00:26:24.000 Because I fuck girls like you who come here in Miami for girls trips. 1.00

00:26:27.000 You don't fuck girls like me. 1.00

00:26:28.000 I don't think so.

00:26:31.000 Let me ask you this, just so we can get, because I'll get the read on the room, then you can ask your question.

00:26:35.000 How many of you think it's appropriate for you to go on a girls trip to a foreign location when you have a boyfriend at home?

00:26:41.000 Raise your hands if you think it's okay.

00:26:43.000 Everybody needs their break.

00:26:45.000 Okay, go ahead, ask your question.

00:26:46.000 They all think it's appropriate.

00:26:48.000 Also ask, how many guys have we slept with on our trip and we've been here for five days, or four days, or haven't many?

00:26:52.000 None.

00:26:53.000 We haven't hooked up with anyone.

00:26:54.000 We haven't texted anyone.

00:26:56.000 In my experience, I'm born and raised in a county date.

00:26:59.000 I'm 35 years old.

00:27:00.000 I've seen a lot, even to a point where, I shouldn't say this, but I was like 25, and it was like a bachelorette party, and damn, shuts it on camera?

00:27:11.000 Nah.

00:27:11.000 Go ahead, man.

00:27:12.000 You already started.

00:27:14.000 Alright, so if you're watching, nigga, like your girl isn't faithful. 1.00

00:27:20.000 So, yeah, so...

00:27:21.000 I fucked the bride, man. 1.00

00:27:23.000 It was like 10 years ago.

00:27:27.000 They forgot about that already.

00:27:29.000 I see girls do many things. 1.00

00:27:31.000 They would get a guy's number and then they'd say, hey, listen, I'm going to...

00:27:35.000 Two years ago, I had a girl.

00:27:38.000 She left her friends from the club to come stay with me for like three days.

00:27:45.000 Her sister, actually, and her sister's boyfriend, they left her.

00:27:50.000 And they flew back up north and she was with me for like two extra days.

00:27:53.000 So I see it all.

00:27:55.000 But you know, I'm looking around right now.

00:27:59.000 It's like, listen, I see red flags.

00:28:02.000 You got piercings like this.

00:28:04.000 I mean, honestly.

00:28:07.000 But that's just my personality.

00:28:09.000 It fits me.

00:28:10.000 No, it's fine.

00:28:10.000 But I love girls like that because they're very spicy.

00:28:14.000 There's a reason for it.

00:28:15.000 There's a reason.

00:28:16.000 That's fine.

00:28:16.000 I don't care about the reason.

00:28:17.000 I'm still fucking.

00:28:18.000 Not me, you.

00:28:19.000 But girls like that, I see. 1.00

00:28:21.000 So it's like...

00:28:21.000 I feel like it's appropriate for you to take breaks, you know, to go on a trip with your girls.

00:28:26.000 I feel like you need to open that door.

00:28:28.000 If you're with your man all the time, you're going to get worn out and you're going to fight all the time.

00:28:32.000 You need space to miss somebody.

00:28:34.000 Why do you need to go?

00:28:36.000 How about this?

00:28:38.000 Would you guys go on a trip?

00:28:39.000 No, hold on.

00:28:40.000 No, because with women, you got to kind of use analogies. 1.00

00:28:42.000 So let's go into a dream role real fast, right?

00:28:44.000 Thank you.

00:28:46.000 Let's say, right...

00:28:48.000 Me and you are in a relationship hypothetically, right?

00:28:50.000 And I'm going to go to the nightclub and hang out.

00:28:53.000 However, at this nightclub, there's going to be women that are more attractive than you. 1.00

00:28:58.000 They're going to be in an abundance.

00:28:59.000 They're going to be offering me free drinks.

00:29:01.000 They're going to be bringing me to their section.

00:29:02.000 They're going to be offering to fly me around and give me money and hook up with me, right?

00:29:06.000 For nothing more than the fact that I'm there and I'm attractive.

00:29:10.000 It's what you do in that situation.

00:29:11.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

00:29:12.000 I have a response for that.

00:29:13.000 Hold on, hold on.

00:29:14.000 As soon as I go into this scenario, I'm going to have all these options of women that are better looking than you, that have more money than you, that have more status than you, that can offer me certain things that you might not be able to offer, right? 1.00

00:29:26.000 Would you genuinely want me to go to this environment that could be destructive to our relationship, yes or no?

00:29:30.000 Yes.

00:29:31.000 One at a time, yes or no?

00:29:35.000 Realistically, having an honest conversation with yourself, do you think, would you feel okay with me going to this location knowing that there's gonna be better looking women that are gonna give me money, that are gonna fly me out, give me free liquor and want to fuck me? 1.00

00:29:46.000 Would you be okay with me going?

00:29:47.000 So like basic answer?

00:29:49.000 No.

00:29:50.000 Okay, hold on.

00:29:51.000 Yes.

00:29:51.000 Because it depends on what you do in this situation.

00:29:53.000 And you're basing our relationship on the fact that you're physically attracted to me, and that's it.

00:29:58.000 So you're saying that these bitches are... 1.00

00:29:59.000 Sorry.

00:30:00.000 No, you're fine.

00:30:01.000 That these girls are more attractive or whatever.

00:30:03.000 So is that all you want?

00:30:04.000 Like, we're only together?

00:30:05.000 I'll give you a chance to explain.

00:30:06.000 But you're saying you'd be okay with it.

00:30:07.000 Yeah.

00:30:08.000 Knowing that.

00:30:08.000 Okay, what about you?

00:30:09.000 I'd be okay with that.

00:30:09.000 You're okay with it.

00:30:10.000 Interesting.

00:30:11.000 Yeah, you're going to open the door for a person to fail if they want to fail that decision.

00:30:15.000 Yeah, please.

00:30:15.000 That shows me a lot.

00:30:17.000 Yeah, that's where loyalty comes from.

00:30:19.000 I'd be definitely okay with it.

00:30:20.000 A relationship is all about trust, you know?

00:30:22.000 And if I don't got it like that, then go find better.

00:30:25.000 Okay.

00:30:26.000 Let me ask you this.

00:30:27.000 If you, you know, worked really hard, saved up $200,000 and you bought a Lamborghini, okay?

00:30:32.000 Vroom, vroom.

00:30:34.000 Would you feel comfortable parking it in the hood?

00:30:37.000 Yes or no?

00:30:40.000 Would I feel comfortable?

00:30:41.000 Depends if I need to be in the hood, then I would take my chances.

00:30:45.000 I have insurance.

00:30:45.000 No, you don't need to be there, but you're parking there anyway.

00:30:49.000 Would you feel okay with that?

00:30:52.000 Would I feel okay to park my Lamborghini in the hood?

00:30:56.000 Yeah.

00:30:56.000 I mean...

00:30:57.000 Yes or no question?

00:30:58.000 No.

00:30:59.000 Okay.

00:30:59.000 What about you?

00:31:00.000 Yeah, I got insurance.

00:31:02.000 And if I have money till I get a Lambo, I'll just buy another one. 1.00

00:31:04.000 Okay.

00:31:05.000 Yes.

00:31:06.000 Yeah.

00:31:07.000 You'd be okay with parking your Lambo there? 1.00

00:31:09.000 Yeah, it's very situational.

00:31:10.000 Why am I there?

00:31:11.000 If you have no choice, you're gonna...

00:31:12.000 I gotta go to Philly for something.

00:31:14.000 My friend lives in Philly, I'm gonna go to my friend's house.

00:31:16.000 Your answers are very interesting, ladies.

00:31:19.000 And I know why they're giving these answers, but we'll get into that in a second.

00:31:21.000 Alright, what about you?

00:31:22.000 Would you feel comfortable parking your Lambo in the hood? 0.85

00:31:24.000 Well, respectfully, yeah.

00:31:24.000 I got a Kia and I live in Philly.

00:31:26.000 I'm already at risk all the time.

00:31:30.000 I'm already in danger.

00:31:32.000 You're not safe just because you live in a nice neighborhood.

00:31:34.000 That doesn't make you safer.

00:31:37.000 Not really.

00:31:38.000 If anything, you're more of a target.

00:31:41.000 This is a very...

00:31:43.000 This is a really good example of privilege is invisible to those that have it.

00:31:47.000 So women don't have to work for their value to attract the opposite gender, but men do. 1.00

00:31:50.000 So it's easy for you guys to speak from a privileged position of never really having to build yourself up.

00:31:55.000 You know, you don't have to worry about building up your looks, building up your status, building up your money, and working really hard to achieve a certain level before the opposite gender recognizes you. 0.98

00:32:04.000 Men, we have to build our value.

00:32:05.000 Women are giving their value. 1.00

00:32:06.000 So for you guys, you're speaking from a position of privilege where it's like, oh yeah, I got insurance on it.

00:32:10.000 I'll get another one, blah, blah, blah.

00:32:12.000 Not knowing how hard it is to get a Lamborghini in the first place.

00:32:14.000 So in other words, it's not easy for a guy to get a girlfriend.

00:32:17.000 It's not easy for a man to get a hot girl. 0.99

00:32:19.000 So if he gets her, he's going to be territorial to some degree with that woman.

00:32:23.000 But for you guys, you don't look at it that way because women don't necessarily earn their value with attracting the opposite gender.

00:32:28.000 So it's easy for you guys to say, oh, I let them go.

00:32:31.000 Trust.

00:32:31.000 Yeah, all this other stuff.

00:32:32.000 Because you don't have any skin in the game.

00:32:32.000 Do it.

00:32:34.000 But once you have skin in the game, I promise you, your mindset would change a lot.

00:32:37.000 But again, your answers are very indicative of female answers that don't understand the struggle of the male experience. 0.63

00:32:42.000 Well, I have a point to make to you.

00:32:44.000 Didn't you say that society is backwards and that basically all this shit, like feminism and all this stuff, technically since our society is now women have to stand up more and now they're providing for their men. 0.95

00:32:58.000 Technically now we do have to prove our value because in society now things are kind of more balanced.

00:33:05.000 But do you guys fail to realize you guys give us our value?

00:33:08.000 Right, and you guys are the reason why we are the way we are.

00:33:10.000 And how much work we even put into that value quote-unquote like what are you saying my looks like we came here all dolled up?

00:33:15.000 Exactly and also like our appearance like taking care of ourselves is expensive.

00:33:20.000 I understand that, but what I'm trying to explain is that when a woman turns 18 years old, right, and she's attractive, she effectively has the world at her fingertips.

00:33:27.000 It's up to her how she wants to move with that, right?

00:33:29.000 Some girls are smart and they get married young to a successful guy and they're able to build a family and, you know, they were able to cash out their chips while they were up and then other women kind of want to play the game and stay in the casino a little bit longer. 1.00

00:33:39.000 And then they wait till they're in their 30s and then they're not able to get the same caliber of guy that they were able to get 10 years prior.

00:33:43.000 So it's up to the girl to kind of spend her money the way she wants.

00:33:46.000 But I always kind of liken it to women being trust fund babies and men are self-made millionaires. 0.92

00:33:51.000 So women get their money up front. 1.00

00:33:53.000 Right.

00:33:53.000 But I would also say 18 me, 18 year old, 18 years old me looks completely different than what I look like now.

00:33:58.000 Right.

00:34:00.000 That's kind of how I built myself up over the years.

00:34:03.000 I wasn't like, oh, 18, beauty queen.

00:34:06.000 There's biological indicators that just make a woman inherently attractive between 18 and 24. 1.00

00:34:13.000 I know some girls say, well, I'm more hot at 27 because you're looking at other things, but men and women are very different.

00:34:19.000 What men find beautiful and what men are most attracted to might not necessarily align with what women find attractive.

00:34:24.000 Does that make sense?

00:34:24.000 But I think you're talking about physical appearance again, and even my mindset shifting from 18 to But physical appearance is the predominant category.

00:34:33.000 But that's your opinion.

00:34:36.000 I wouldn't want to marry a guy who wants to marry an 18 year old. 0.99

00:34:41.000 You know what I mean?

00:34:45.000 Hold on.

00:34:46.000 That's not an opinion.

00:34:48.000 That's a fact.

00:34:49.000 Men universally prefer women between 18 and 24.

00:34:51.000 That's disgusting.

00:34:52.000 I disagree.

00:34:53.000 Ladies, actually, that was my question of the night.

00:34:57.000 So, ladies, do you think women over 35 should be taken seriously for a long-term relationship? 0.99

00:35:01.000 Absolutely.

00:35:02.000 How old are you?

00:35:05.000 You girls are what? 1.00

00:35:07.000 I'm almost 30 years old.

00:35:09.000 So, 29 and you're...

00:35:10.000 22.

00:35:11.000 23.

00:35:12.000 22.

00:35:12.000 23.

00:35:13.000 So should a guy take it seriously if you're single and then you're 35?

00:35:17.000 Men do take me seriously.

00:35:19.000 A high value guy.

00:35:20.000 A high value fucking man.

00:35:22.000 I know many high value men who would actually think it's disgusting to date such a girl whose brain is not even developed yet.

00:35:29.000 Stop the cap! 0.99

00:35:30.000 Okay.

00:35:30.000 How about you?

00:35:31.000 I feel like it all has to come with, like, comparison to mindset.

00:35:36.000 You know, if you feel like you're compatible with a 19-year-old, go ahead, marry her.

00:35:41.000 But if you feel like you're not compatible, like, mentally-wise, like, goal-wise, or family-oriented-wise, then don't.

00:35:48.000 Honestly, some girls, okay, yeah, they marry at 19, what, to be separated or divorced at, what, 25, 26? 0.99

00:35:55.000 And now you just, like, lost value because you were already married and divorced.

00:36:00.000 You know, so it all depends.

00:36:02.000 I'd argue a woman that got married young and gets divorced later on has more value than a girl that's been single that entire time.

00:36:07.000 Wait, what makes a girl valuable? 1.00

00:36:10.000 I was saying that comment because I've lived through it that I've seen women marry this person from the ground where they have nothing and then that person gets successful and then they leave her for a younger girl. 0.92

00:36:29.000 Hold on.

00:36:29.000 Let me ask you all a question, because this is going to really...

00:36:31.000 These answers you guys are giving is very telling.

00:36:34.000 So, who do you think has more value in the dating marketplace?

00:36:36.000 A girl that was married at, let's say, 18 and gets divorced at 25 and was with that guy the whole time, or a girl that's 25 years old that was single those seven years?

00:36:44.000 So you're saying value is the fact that she's... 0.55

00:36:46.000 Hold on, hold on.

00:36:47.000 Please answer the question.

00:36:48.000 I don't view the dating scene as marketplace.

00:36:51.000 That's where...

00:36:52.000 Okay, anyway.

00:36:53.000 It's not a shopping spree.

00:36:55.000 It is.

00:36:55.000 We are all here competing to a degree.

00:36:58.000 That's just how it is.

00:36:58.000 Because if you want a man, especially a guy that's more attractive, that by definition means you're taking him from another female, which means you're in competition, whether you want to accept it or not.

00:37:06.000 There's not enough good-looking, attractive men that have their shit together to go around.

00:37:09.000 That is true.

00:37:10.000 There's always going to be competition.

00:37:12.000 So if you have one, by definition, you took him from someone else.

00:37:15.000 So let's go back to what I was saying.

00:37:17.000 Who do you think has more value in the dating marketplace, okay?

00:37:19.000 A 25-year-old woman that was single those 7 years from 18 to 25 or a woman that was married those years and got divorced at 25? 0.71

00:37:25.000 Who do you think is going to be more attractive to the man? 0.99

00:37:27.000 I don't care about your opinion.

00:37:28.000 Does she have kids or no?

00:37:29.000 No kids.

00:37:30.000 We'll start here.

00:37:31.000 Or work our way around.

00:37:32.000 I think the single one.

00:37:33.000 The single one?

00:37:34.000 Okay.

00:37:34.000 What about you?

00:37:35.000 Same.

00:37:35.000 Single one.

00:37:36.000 Wow.

00:37:36.000 The one who's never been with someone.

00:37:38.000 Yeah.

00:37:39.000 The one that was single the whole time?

00:37:40.000 Yes.

00:37:40.000 What about you?

00:37:41.000 Single.

00:37:42.000 What about you?

00:37:43.000 They're a single girl.

00:37:44.000 Wow, you guys are all dead wrong.

00:37:48.000 I've said this before and I'm gonna say it again.

00:37:52.000 Most women don't really know what men want. 1.00

00:38:00.000 Here's the thing though, here's the thing.

00:38:01.000 Like men, right?

00:38:05.000 This is the thing, right?

00:38:06.000 If a man doesn't understand what women want, there's a consequence.

00:38:10.000 You're not attractive.

00:38:11.000 Girls don't take you seriously. 1.00

00:38:12.000 They don't want to date you.

00:38:13.000 You're basically involuntary celibate.

00:38:15.000 Women, on the other hand, they might not understand men, but it doesn't matter because guys are going to come up to them anyway. 1.00

00:38:21.000 Ladies, if I was to ask most guys, they would prefer to be with a girl that was married at one point and got divorced and doesn't have kids versus a girl that was single all those years. 0.88

00:38:30.000 Because we know if she was married all that time, she probably wasn't around being promiscuous. 1.00

00:38:36.000 The likelihood of her being promiscuous goes down. 0.95

00:38:38.000 See, but I thought of it more as if you were...

00:38:42.000 A girl that's been single for seven years is a huge red flag versus a girl that was married for a prolonged period of time and ended up divorcing the guy.

00:38:50.000 What about if it's a girl that's been in relationships and is not willing to settle for this person, you know?

00:38:57.000 Well, knowing the way that modern-day women date, a lot of the times, you know, there'll be flings here, there'll be a relationship here, maybe a one-night-stand here, girls trips here, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

00:39:05.000 In that seven year span, she probably had more interactions with the opposite gender than the woman that was married to the guy. 0.98

00:39:12.000 So, a better candidate that men would preferably pick is probably the woman that was married for seven years that wasn't single and on the market for all that time. 0.99

00:39:19.000 But that's your concern, is that she was sleeping around during those seven years, but that was prior to you.

00:39:24.000 Yeah, why does that matter?

00:39:25.000 I mean, and again, we're implying that she was... 0.85

00:39:28.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

00:39:30.000 Because I wasn't...

00:39:30.000 Hold on, hold on.

00:39:31.000 You gotta finish your point.

00:39:32.000 Yeah, I'm gonna finish my point.

00:39:33.000 Because you're assuming that she's going around sleeping with people, but like, as someone who is single, the last time I hooked up with a guy was months ago. 1.00

00:39:41.000 Stop the cap. 0.94

00:39:47.000 I take care of myself.

00:39:51.000 When you're young, you want to build yourself up to get these high value men because if I'm taking care of myself, I'll be able to attract somebody who is the same way.

00:40:00.000 So I'm not going around.

00:40:01.000 Even in Miami, that wasn't our concern.

00:40:03.000 We were in the club.

00:40:04.000 We were hanging out with each other.

00:40:05.000 You can ask Charlie.

00:40:06.000 He's back around.

00:40:08.000 The three of us were just in our own little world, in our own little bubble.

00:40:11.000 Not with men.

00:40:12.000 Not talking to guys.

00:40:13.000 Not trying to fuck someone.

00:40:15.000 Am I bi?

00:40:16.000 No.

00:40:16.000 Okay, so this is a perfect example of solipsism, which means the world kind of revolves around me.

00:40:23.000 Do you think other women are exercising that discipline that you're exercising? 1.00

00:40:27.000 But you're thinking that women are all the same.

00:40:30.000 I'm not saying that, but you think most women that are doing the things that we described are not having sex?

00:40:35.000 Are you able to speak for most women? 0.99

00:40:37.000 Do you have a statistic somewhere that says most women go to the club and fuck someone? 1.00

00:40:40.000 The world operates on generalities, typically.

00:40:43.000 So what I'm asking you simply is that, do you think most women that live that kind of lifestyle are as disciplined as you? 0.79

00:40:49.000 I don't know.

00:40:49.000 I can't speak for most women.

00:40:51.000 Okay.

00:40:51.000 Well, the answer is no, which is why you're flexing it right now.

00:40:54.000 How do you know?

00:40:55.000 That's my question.

00:40:56.000 How do you know?

00:40:56.000 Because when a girl, right?

00:40:58.000 It's just numbers.

00:41:00.000 If a girl's going out all the time, she's around men all the time, she's partying, she's doing things, blah, blah, blah, the likelihood of her getting into sexual interactions with men goes up significantly based on the interactions that she has with men.

00:41:11.000 It's just simple numbers.

00:41:12.000 So I know what you're saying.

00:41:13.000 Well, I'm disciplined.

00:41:14.000 I'm not necessarily hooking up with the guys that I meet at the club, blah, blah.

00:41:16.000 Cool.

00:41:16.000 That might be you.

00:41:17.000 Yeah, that's her choice.

00:41:19.000 Fantastic, but let me tell you this.

00:41:20.000 Just because you guys don't, doesn't mean most girls that come to Miami aren't.

00:41:24.000 We're also not speaking for those girls either.

00:41:26.000 This is us talking.

00:41:27.000 Yeah, I get that, but you've got to understand that your personal experience might not necessarily be indicative of how things go.

00:41:32.000 Right, but then their personal experience isn't indicative of ours either.

00:41:35.000 But you can't compare us just because of them.

00:41:37.000 But also, I think girls would rather hook up with the same person over and over and over than get new bodies. 1.00

00:41:45.000 Your biggest concern should be the girl going back to the same guy rather than the girl going to other people. 0.96

00:41:50.000 But that does not change the fact that girls go on girls trips and do certain things to open themselves up to other potential mates that might be of higher status or whatever.

00:41:58.000 Girls like to go to travel, go to different places because they're kind of able to. 1.00

00:42:02.000 We wouldn't have to do that if you guys were doing your job.

00:42:06.000 Like, there's guys in Philly.

00:42:07.000 I don't have to go to a new city to find someone to hook up.

00:42:10.000 Just because I have a relationship, I need to be locked up?

00:42:12.000 Ladies, ladies, ladies, ladies.

00:42:13.000 When we're having conversations, we're talking about generalities.

00:42:16.000 Just because you guys might not do something doesn't mean that other women aren't.

00:42:19.000 Most girls that come to Miami on a girls' trip are coming here to get fucked. 1.00

00:42:23.000 Just because you guys aren't does not necessarily mean that other girls aren't.

00:42:25.000 I think you're projecting.

00:42:27.000 Can you please stop interrupting?

00:42:29.000 But that does not necessarily mean just because you're not doing it doesn't mean that a majority of women aren't coming here to do it. 0.75

00:42:34.000 Yeah.

00:42:34.000 But how do you know that, is my question.

00:42:37.000 Where are you getting that from?

00:42:38.000 It's giving that social media.

00:42:41.000 Majority of women that are coming to Miami are coming here to get fucked. 1.00

00:42:44.000 I don't think so.

00:42:45.000 You don't think so?

00:42:45.000 Is it Miami specifically, you think?

00:42:47.000 Or is it just girls' trip in general?

00:42:48.000 Like, what if we were going to...

00:42:50.000 Typically when girls go on girls' trips to Miami, Las Vegas, Nashville, any of these party cities... 0.71

00:42:56.000 Right?

00:42:56.000 In a group.

00:42:57.000 It's a party city.

00:42:57.000 They're there to party and have a good time.

00:43:00.000 And sex is a component of that.

00:43:01.000 Now, just because you guys might not do that doesn't necessarily mean that other girls won't.

00:43:05.000 Let's say ten girls go on girls trips, right? 0.78

00:43:06.000 In different groups.

00:43:07.000 Your group might not do it, but the other seven or eight probably will be doing it.

00:43:11.000 So, as a guy, you're going into a club, how do you know which girl is or isn't?

00:43:15.000 I mean, just talking to them.

00:43:17.000 Can you see it in your eyes?

00:43:19.000 So going back to what you were saying, Chris, sorry to interrupt, is you were looking around the room when you were seeing the red flags, so looking at us three, and what I just told you, you wouldn't have known that by looking at us, would you?

00:43:29.000 So you're saying that's what it takes, is the conversation?

00:43:32.000 I'm in a club, right?

00:43:33.000 And I see you, like, you're three, right?

00:43:34.000 And I see you, like, a bunch of girls, right?

00:43:36.000 Talk to the girls. 0.98

00:43:37.000 Like, you know, I've built my fly you up, whatever.

00:43:40.000 She mentioned that, you know, most girls want to fuck one guy or a high fly you guy. 1.00

00:43:44.000 So it's like, guys will see signs, right?

00:43:47.000 Say, hey, what's your number?

00:43:48.000 What's going on?

00:43:49.000 And guys would hit up every girl, every girl.

00:43:52.000 Hey, what are you up to?

00:43:52.000 What are you up to?

00:43:53.000 What are you up to?

00:43:54.000 And then whoever bites, like a fisherman.

00:43:56.000 Like, if I'm throwing a cast, then whoever bites, like, we're fucking.

00:44:00.000 And, you know, lo and behold, like, I've had to, you know, Double book.

00:44:04.000 And hey, Chris, where are you?

00:44:06.000 I had a girl over.

00:44:08.000 And that's what happens.

00:44:09.000 But I've worked hard to get to a certain point where I can double book, more or less.

00:44:13.000 Because there was one point where I was not fucking Miami for at least two years.

00:44:16.000 So question for you.

00:44:17.000 Do you think more often than not, women do bite? 1.00

00:44:20.000 So everybody that you meet at the club?

00:44:21.000 Oh yeah, because at the end of the day, if you're in a club with the girls, and then you don't want to be booed at the club. 1.00

00:44:27.000 Because if I had a section, and I see you, and then I'm trying to Talk to you or what not.

00:44:33.000 And you're like, nah, yeah, whatever.

00:44:35.000 Bitch, get out my section. 1.00

00:44:36.000 You know what I'm saying?

00:44:38.000 So, more or less, you would definitely fall into the guy who's trying to talk to you.

00:44:44.000 And here's the other thing, too.

00:44:45.000 I get it.

00:44:46.000 You guys are saying, well, not every girl that comes to Miami wants to...

00:44:48.000 Here's the thing.

00:44:50.000 Let's just use common sense here.

00:44:52.000 If you're drinking alcohol, you're around your friends.

00:44:54.000 Maybe there's drugs involved.

00:44:56.000 You're around guys that have money on status, right?

00:44:57.000 And these guys are looking to smash.

00:44:59.000 And you know that, okay, if we don't give it up, they're probably going to kick us out their section or I won't be allowed to have certain experiences.

00:45:06.000 That happens a lot of times because a lot of guys that come here are on some type of timing.

00:45:10.000 So if you don't want to do it and you're not interested, you might get kicked out of the section.

00:45:13.000 So a lot of girls will be like, you know what, man, we're here to have fun, etc. 1.00

00:45:16.000 We're going to make it happen.

00:45:17.000 So does every group of girls come here just to get smashed? 1.00

00:45:20.000 No.

00:45:21.000 But I would argue a staggering majority definitely do come here too much.

00:45:24.000 Be able to have fun without discretion, without being judged or whatever.

00:45:29.000 And it is what it is.

00:45:30.000 I mean, just because y'all don't do it doesn't mean that a majority of girls aren't.

00:45:33.000 So these guys that are at the clubs and they're buying these sections purposely to get women into them, are these those high-value guys that you're talking about?

00:45:40.000 Like, would a high-value man go to a club just to fill it with, like, 15 bitches that he might... 1.00

00:45:45.000 Fuck, maybe one or two or three.

00:45:47.000 Some guys might want to come down here on vacation.

00:45:49.000 What's your definition of a high-value man?

00:45:51.000 High-value man versus high-value woman. 0.95

00:45:53.000 Because in my head, if I want to date a high-value man, it would not be a guy that I met through a club because he's trying to fill it up with a bunch of girls.

00:46:01.000 A man that I would consider high-value would not do that.

00:46:04.000 To have fun with the girls.

00:46:08.000 That's nothing to do with the place.

00:46:11.000 Would a high-value man be in the club?

00:46:13.000 Hell yeah, to fuck bitches. 1.00

00:46:15.000 A high value man would not care about fucking a bunch of bitches. 1.00

00:46:20.000 Well, another thing too, you gotta remember, is that there's no such thing as a high value woman on her own. 0.92

00:46:24.000 A high value woman is deemed high value from being with a high value man. 0.99

00:46:28.000 That's insanity.

00:46:30.000 It's insanity?

00:46:31.000 You say a woman who can get stuff on her own. 1.00

00:46:35.000 Finish your sentence, please.

00:46:36.000 So you're saying a high value woman, that's not a thing. 1.00

00:46:38.000 There's no such thing as a high value woman unless she's attached to a high value man. 1.00

00:46:42.000 Right.

00:46:42.000 And the reason for that is because all women have value, but not all men have value.

00:46:47.000 Women are giving their value up front, so therefore a high value woman only exists if she's with a high value guy. 1.00

00:46:51.000 There's a reason why a woman wants to get married and take a man's last name and not the other way around. 1.00

00:46:54.000 Wait, you're very avoidant of the question.

00:46:56.000 What is a high value woman? 1.00

00:46:57.000 Yeah.

00:46:58.000 I just told you, a woman that can lock down a high-value man. 1.00

00:47:00.000 What is a high-value man?

00:47:01.000 Yeah, I need, yeah, description characteristics.

00:47:04.000 Of what?

00:47:05.000 It's just a high-value woman is just someone who can lock down a high-value man. 1.00

00:47:09.000 A high-value woman is a woman that is locked down by a high-value man. 1.00

00:47:13.000 So you're telling me that I can't be a high-value woman because I'm single?

00:47:17.000 Yeah, no.

00:47:18.000 Not at all.

00:47:19.000 Not even if that girl has my own business. 0.98

00:47:22.000 Men don't care about a woman's accolades and ability to create resources. 1.00

00:47:27.000 Men don't care about that. 1.00

00:47:28.000 Let's be honest here.

00:47:29.000 I take care of myself.

00:47:31.000 I feel like it should matter to a certain point.

00:47:34.000 Do we operate on should, could, or what is?

00:47:37.000 You're saying hypotheticals here.

00:47:39.000 If you have a girl that takes care of her own business, her own education. 1.00

00:47:43.000 Men don't care about that. 1.00

00:47:46.000 So what do men care about?

00:47:47.000 The things that you guys are conveniently trying to avoid that we're describing.

00:47:52.000 For example, I just gave you guys the girl that was married, right, from 18 to 25, right, versus the girl that was single from 18 to 25.

00:47:59.000 The woman that was married during that period of time is going to be more attractive to a majority of men because it was predictable what she was doing in that span of time. 0.52

00:48:06.000 Who knows?

00:48:07.000 Maybe she was being a hoe on the side and they didn't know. 1.00

00:48:11.000 But on paper, she's more attractive than the woman that was single for seven years.

00:48:16.000 Because we know how women tend to operate when they're single for a prolonged period of time. 1.00

00:48:20.000 And I look at it as a red flag.

00:48:21.000 Wait, hold on.

00:48:22.000 You're pretty and you've been single for seven years.

00:48:24.000 You weren't able to get a guy to commit to you?

00:48:25.000 What's wrong with you?

00:48:26.000 Because a woman's job... 1.00

00:48:27.000 Who hurt you?

00:48:28.000 Here's the thing.

00:48:29.000 A man's job is to attain the girl. 1.00

00:48:31.000 The girl's job is to retain the man. 1.00

00:48:32.000 So if a girl can't keep a boyfriend, that's very indicative of her ability to be a good mother, be a good girlfriend, maybe potentially be a good wife. 1.00

00:48:39.000 So if she can't keep a guy, that's a big red flag to me. 1.00

00:48:41.000 So you're saying a woman that's dressed nicely is equal as a woman that's dressed really bad. 0.99

00:48:47.000 So when you see a girl at a club, you see a girl really nicely well-dressed with her jewels on, and then you see another girl dress off... 0.76

00:48:56.000 Let me address her thing before her.

00:48:58.000 You don't think it's a woman's job to keep the guy? 1.00

00:49:01.000 No.

00:49:02.000 I think it's an equal thing.

00:49:04.000 Let me ask you this.

00:49:09.000 Are there more attractive women? 1.00

00:49:11.000 Or attractive men?

00:49:12.000 Attractive women. 1.00

00:49:13.000 For sure there's more attractive women than attractive men. 0.98

00:49:20.000 So obviously, if you look at the law of supply and demand, that means that the man is in demand because there's less of him, correct?

00:49:27.000 So therefore, who has the leverage?

00:49:29.000 It's not about that though.

00:49:31.000 See, this is what I mean when I say women lack logic. 1.00

00:49:34.000 No, no, no, no.

00:49:35.000 Hold on, hold on.

00:49:36.000 If there are more beautiful women than attractive men...

00:49:39.000 But why is beauty what you're going after?

00:49:41.000 I mean, it's the first thing that you see from a person, though.

00:49:44.000 I mean, it's the first thing that you see from a person.

00:49:46.000 God fucking damn it.

00:49:47.000 It has beauty.

00:49:48.000 Men and women are not the same. 0.99

00:49:50.000 Men value beauty.

00:49:51.000 Women value competence and confidence and ambition. 0.97

00:49:53.000 We're not the same.

00:49:54.000 Men don't give a shit about a woman's ability to earn money, her status, her resources. 0.98

00:49:58.000 Men typically don't care about this. 0.99

00:49:59.000 What comes first is her femininity and her beauty and her youth and her chastity. 0.91

00:50:03.000 That's what men care about.

00:50:04.000 So now that we've figured out what men actually want, Do you think that there's more women that have these traits or more men that have the other traits that I explained?

00:50:12.000 There's obviously more women that have the traits that I was talking about. 1.00

00:50:14.000 So therefore, there's less men to go around.

00:50:16.000 Which means the men have the leverage.

00:50:18.000 So what I'm saying is that if you got a guy that's a winner, it's your job to keep him.

00:50:21.000 Because there's more beautiful women than there are higher status men that are attractive.

00:50:25.000 So the man has the leverage.

00:50:27.000 So it's your job to keep the guy.

00:50:28.000 That's why I look at a girl, if she's not able to keep a guy, she's effectively a failure. 1.00

00:50:33.000 So a high value man can go into a club and be high value and have a night with his boys and he can be high value but a girl that's just dancing with her friends is not high value just because she's at the club.

00:50:49.000 A component that men find attractive in women is chastity, okay? 0.99

00:50:53.000 And her image.

00:50:55.000 A girl going to the club and hanging out and twerking with her friends or doing whatever she does, it'll hurt her image. 1.00

00:51:01.000 Wait, wait, wait, wait, sorry, pause.

00:51:04.000 Why can't you do that with your girls at home? 1.00

00:51:06.000 I do that at home.

00:51:10.000 I have dance parties at my house, but sometimes being at home, it's like, you can't stay at home because it'll be...

00:51:26.000 It'll feel claustrophobic.

00:51:29.000 And sometimes us girls want to see new music, support our friends.

00:51:33.000 Sometimes I just want to be called pretty.

00:51:34.000 No, what if our friends are artists?

00:51:35.000 Like me as a musician, for example, I have friends who play DJ sets and I just want to support.

00:51:40.000 Yeah, yeah, but it's not about you though.

00:51:42.000 Like most girls, like for example, right? 0.99

00:51:44.000 I just want to go out to a club, you know, dance with my girls, you know, boom, boom, boom.

00:51:47.000 Like why can't you do that shit at home?

00:51:49.000 Let me tell you, most girls don't go out. 1.00

00:51:51.000 In Hialeah, these girls, they stay at home. 0.99

00:51:54.000 They go in the backyard, and they chill, and they stay at home, and if you notice, they stay together with their man.

00:52:01.000 But most girls, especially in South Beach, they be in clubs, and they got a man at home. 1.00

00:52:05.000 And I see them just leave the club with club promoters.

00:52:05.000 Why is that?

00:52:09.000 They leave with blue tech artists.

00:52:11.000 It must not be a dream at home, because if they were happy at home, then they would stay at home with their man.

00:52:17.000 Why isn't their man taking them out?

00:52:19.000 The thing is, they're happy at home, but the man isn't taking them out because the nigga has to work. 1.00

00:52:24.000 Like, think about it, right?

00:52:25.000 Come on, man.

00:52:26.000 He's paying your bills and shit.

00:52:26.000 He's working.

00:52:27.000 Oh, baby, can I come?

00:52:28.000 It's Monday night.

00:52:29.000 Let's go out to a club.

00:52:30.000 This nigga's tired, man. 1.00

00:52:31.000 Well, I feel like, you know, if you're dating a high-value man and it's a Monday night, you would be considerate of his schedule.

00:52:37.000 You know what I mean?

00:52:39.000 You were trying to say something before.

00:52:41.000 I want to make sure you get your piece in.

00:52:43.000 No, no, no, her. 0.83

00:52:45.000 Yeah, you were saying something about business, accolades, something like that.

00:52:45.000 Me?

00:52:48.000 I mean, like, because I was saying, you're saying business, like, the value of a woman comes with, you know, the chastity and stuff like that.

00:52:57.000 Yeah.

00:52:57.000 Whatever.

00:52:58.000 So if a girl has her own business, has her own thing going on, you said that it didn't matter.

00:53:02.000 Why doesn't it matter?

00:53:04.000 Because if I had a woman that made half a million dollars a year, but she was on OnlyFans or maybe she had a promiscuous past and everything else like that, right? 1.00

00:53:12.000 But she made half a million dollars a year and she had a business versus I got a girl that's at McDonald's that's a virgin. 1.00

00:53:17.000 I'm taking a virgin every single day.

00:53:19.000 Okay, so you're gonna take that, but...

00:53:22.000 At the same time...

00:53:22.000 Hold on, hold on.

00:53:23.000 No, at the same time, women... 1.00

00:53:25.000 Let that sink in.

00:53:25.000 Hold on.

00:53:26.000 Let that sink in.

00:53:27.000 A woman that's an entrepreneur, making half a million dollars a year, that's on OnlyFans, that might... 1.00

00:53:32.000 Why OnlyFans? 0.70

00:53:33.000 Why is that the only way a woman can make money? 1.00

00:53:35.000 Yeah, why can't you be a business?

00:53:36.000 What if I own a I have a boutique.

00:53:40.000 I sell these little t-shirts.

00:53:43.000 Alright, whatever it is.

00:53:44.000 A boutique, OnlyFans, it could be sex work, it could be entrepreneurs. 0.99

00:53:47.000 No, no, no.

00:53:49.000 How am I supposed to take care of myself?

00:53:50.000 How many women are actually sex workers? 1.00

00:53:52.000 The point I'm trying to make is, you take that girl that's making half a million dollars a year, that's an entrepreneur, that's successful, and then you take a girl working at McDonald's that's 21, that's a virgin. 0.69

00:53:52.000 It doesn't matter. 0.69

00:54:01.000 Most guys are going to opt for the girl that works at McDonald's. 1.00

00:54:03.000 That's insane.

00:54:04.000 Not most guys, honestly.

00:54:06.000 Forget the only guys.

00:54:08.000 Because she's a virgin.

00:54:11.000 Okay, not most guys because I feel like some guys are gonna be like, oh, I don't want like a broke bitch. 1.00

00:54:18.000 Why?

00:54:19.000 Because you're about your money.

00:54:21.000 Because you said earlier, you said, oh, what if a bitch, you know, I'm a boss bitch, I have this going on. 1.00

00:54:26.000 And a guy knows that.

00:54:27.000 No, no, no, no.

00:54:28.000 I did not say that sentence.

00:54:29.000 Well, guys, the same vibe you have, right?

00:54:33.000 Guys know that shit.

00:54:34.000 You know what?

00:54:34.000 She's a boss, bitch.

00:54:35.000 I'm going to say what I'm going to say just to fuck you. 1.00

00:54:38.000 And then they fuck you and they fucking leave you afterwards.

00:54:41.000 They pump and dump you.

00:54:41.000 So what makes you think that I don't want to fuck them and dump them also?

00:54:45.000 I mean...

00:54:46.000 I can't have casual sex just like you guys do?

00:54:49.000 Listen, if we stop fucking, I win.

00:54:53.000 We're both getting an orgasm, though.

00:54:55.000 Women can't sport fuck like men can. 1.00

00:54:58.000 I get what you're saying, but women are not built to sport fuck like men can. 1.00

00:55:05.000 You might be able to have casual sex here and there, but you can't do it to the same level as a man without having emotional attachment.

00:55:11.000 Sex is very emotional for most women, and they have issues with it.

00:55:14.000 So you can say, oh, well, I can have casual sex, too.

00:55:17.000 That's fantastic, but you can't do it at the same level as a guy.

00:55:19.000 I have heard that before.

00:55:20.000 Okay.

00:55:21.000 Alright.

00:55:22.000 So, since women are not built for casual sex, that's why men have an issue with women that have a lot of casual sex, because we know that y'all are not built for it. 0.83

00:55:30.000 You're not.

00:55:30.000 It goes against your very nature.

00:55:32.000 You can bring one kid to term per year.

00:55:33.000 I could bring many kids.

00:55:34.000 I could bust nuts everywhere, but you can only bring one kid to term per year.

00:55:37.000 Everywhere.

00:55:38.000 Men are way more sexually selective than men are.

00:55:40.000 So when a girl is promiscuous or a slut, guys don't like that. 0.99

00:55:43.000 That's why I'm telling you, if a girl makes half a million dollars a year, and she's super successful, but she has a shady past, a man's gonna go for that 21-year-old that works at McDonald's that's a bum but a virgin. 1.00

00:55:53.000 Because men value purity in women. 1.00

00:55:55.000 Wait, but I just want to say, I think we're stepping into a generation of guys who expect girls to have money and pay for them.

00:56:02.000 It's not the same anymore.

00:56:04.000 And do you want those guys?

00:56:04.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

00:56:06.000 Did you not say earlier that those guys aren't attractive?

00:56:09.000 Okay then.

00:56:09.000 Correct.

00:56:10.000 So who cares?

00:56:12.000 The men that you guys want, the guys that you think are super masculine, dominant, attractive, assertive, etc.

00:56:17.000 Those guys want girls that aren't hoes. 1.00

00:56:18.000 Yeah.

00:56:19.000 Okay, sure.

00:56:20.000 But you keep saying that, for your analogy, it's either a McDonald's worker who's, what, 21 years old and is a virgin?

00:56:20.000 I agree.

00:56:26.000 But every time you go to the other option, you add in that noting that, like, she sleeps around or she has a shady past. 0.99

00:56:33.000 She may.

00:56:34.000 She may.

00:56:35.000 You're right.

00:56:36.000 It's very hypothetical.

00:56:37.000 It's definitely red flags, though.

00:56:38.000 It's red flags, more or less.

00:56:39.000 So if you're going to make a hypothetical scenario like that, it has to be either a 21-year-old McDonald's worker who's a virgin.

00:56:46.000 I'm using extremes to demonstrate the point.

00:56:48.000 But what's the extreme on the other side?

00:56:50.000 The extreme is to show you that men don't care about a woman's ability to provide security and resources.

00:56:55.000 That's why I'm using that example.

00:56:57.000 Is what you're saying?

00:56:58.000 Out of that scenario?

00:56:59.000 The scenario I'm giving is to display men's lack of care for a woman's ability to create resources.

00:57:05.000 So you would choose a girl that's sleeping in her car than a girl that has her own apartment and, you know, her own... 0.99

00:57:10.000 If the girl is... 1.00

00:57:11.000 A man will go ahead and deal with a girl that's absolutely broke if she has a clean past. 1.00

00:57:15.000 My point is you keep saying that the other...

00:57:17.000 How are you going to disagree with what men want?

00:57:18.000 Why would you even approach it?

00:57:20.000 I think it doesn't make sense.

00:57:21.000 Are you a dude?

00:57:22.000 Maybe I was.

00:57:22.000 Are you a man?

00:57:25.000 It's incredible to me how I'm telling you, I'm telling women what men want, and then they're sitting here telling me like, oh, it shouldn't be that way.

00:57:34.000 You know what the podcast is for, though, to share our viewpoints.

00:57:38.000 But your viewpoints are incorrect.

00:57:42.000 No, but that's what...

00:57:43.000 But you can't say that.

00:57:44.000 I mean, yours are correct in your mind, but ours are correct in your mind.

00:57:47.000 But he asked earlier, like, would you fuck a certain type of guy?

00:57:50.000 And then you was like, no.

00:57:52.000 So he knows you better than you know yourself.

00:57:54.000 Disagree.

00:57:55.000 But I also...

00:57:55.000 I think as a girl, if a guy tells you...

00:57:58.000 I mean, we were kind of talking about this earlier, but I think as a guy, if he says that he slept around with all these women, to me, that's also unattractive.

00:58:05.000 Yeah, but most girls won't break up with him, though. 1.00

00:58:08.000 Won't break up with him?

00:58:09.000 I won't even start the relationship to begin with.

00:58:11.000 You told me you have all these bodies in the past couple of years.

00:58:14.000 So when you're in a club around...

00:58:17.000 Do you think a woman that has sex with a bunch of men is the same as a man who has sex with a bunch of women? 0.67

00:58:17.000 So wait, hold on. 0.67

00:58:21.000 Well, you just said in your analogy, you're saying that...

00:58:23.000 I'm asking you, do you think it's the same?

00:58:24.000 Say that one more time.

00:58:25.000 Do you think a woman that has had sex with a lot of men is the equivalent to a man that's had sex with a lot of women?

00:58:30.000 Yeah.

00:58:31.000 It's unattractive on both ends.

00:58:33.000 Yeah, there you go.

00:58:34.000 That's where this fallacy is coming from.

00:58:36.000 I wouldn't want a man who slept around with a bunch of bitches the same way you wouldn't want a woman who slept around with a bunch of men. 1.00

00:58:41.000 For you specifically.

00:58:42.000 To other people, that might not matter.

00:58:44.000 Because I know people who are like, I don't care about that.

00:58:46.000 This is incredible.

00:58:48.000 They really are unaware.

00:58:49.000 Yeah, I know.

00:58:50.000 This is wild.

00:58:51.000 I know.

00:58:51.000 This is why.

00:58:52.000 I mean, it all comes from preference.

00:58:53.000 You do realize that for a man to have sex with a lot of women, he's got to have value, correct?

00:58:58.000 Okay, but for a woman to have sex with a lot of men? 0.90

00:58:58.000 Yeah. 0.90

00:59:00.000 It takes no skill.

00:59:01.000 No value?

00:59:02.000 No skill.

00:59:03.000 Nah, I do agree.

00:59:03.000 You can literally go into a club.

00:59:04.000 Like, come on, man.

00:59:05.000 It's way easier for us to get laid.

00:59:07.000 Ladies, ladies, what's your feelings from the conversation?

00:59:10.000 Let's have a real conversation here.

00:59:12.000 Think about it.

00:59:13.000 Let's use logic and common sense.

00:59:14.000 Why are hoes admonished? 1.00

00:59:17.000 Because it's easy for them to have sex and they don't exercise any discretion.

00:59:20.000 However, why are men that have sex with a lot of women respected?

00:59:23.000 Because it's difficult to attract women and have sex with them as a man.

00:59:27.000 Men have to provide value to be attractive to get the girl. 0.93

00:59:30.000 Women just exist and they get the guy. 1.00

00:59:32.000 So women that exercise sexual temperance are considered high value, or excuse me, are considered valuable to men.

00:59:37.000 And men that can have sex with a lot of women are considered valuable in society because it's not easy for men to get laid.

00:59:42.000 You guys can go into a club right now, all of y'all.

00:59:45.000 And some dude will still talk to you. 1.00

00:59:46.000 If I go into a club and go, I'm going to get arrested.

00:59:49.000 So it's like, you cannot sit there and conflate female sexuality to male sexuality.

00:59:55.000 If a man's having sex with a lot of women, he's doing something right by definition. 0.94

00:59:58.000 If a woman's having sex with a bunch of dudes, she's doing something wrong by definition. 1.00

01:00:01.000 Correct.

01:00:01.000 So, but don't you say that there's more attractive men to women ratio and there's more women than men, period.

01:00:08.000 He said women.

01:00:08.000 No, there's more attractive women to men.

01:00:09.000 More attractive women. 1.00

01:00:10.000 Sorry.

01:00:11.000 More attractive women to men, but you say that we just pretty much get it all the time, right? 0.98

01:00:17.000 So, technically, we have more options.

01:00:20.000 Yeah, but those options are fleeting because it's not the men that you want.

01:00:24.000 I mean, how many guys come up to you and talk to you that you reject?

01:00:24.000 Okay.

01:00:27.000 Probably 90% plus?

01:00:31.000 So therefore, you have more options, but how many real viable options do you have?

01:00:35.000 Not many.

01:00:36.000 You're right.

01:00:37.000 So that's why it's easy for us to go on a girl's trip is because we recognize that value in a guy where I'm like, if you're coming up to me at a club and you're the 17th guy and I'm just going to keep saying, no, I got it.

01:00:45.000 We're used to turning men down.

01:00:47.000 Yeah, it's so easy for us to turn someone down if we're just...

01:00:50.000 Yeah, but...

01:00:51.000 Where men are seeking. 0.63

01:00:52.000 At some point, you're gonna get hit on enough.

01:00:54.000 If your girls... 0.96

01:00:55.000 I mean, we can do the math.

01:00:56.000 If your girl gets hit on 10 times a day via Instagram, out and about, etc.

01:01:01.000 10 times 365.

01:01:01.000 Yeah, very much.

01:01:01.000 10 times...

01:01:03.000 Do the math.

01:01:03.000 What is that?

01:01:03.000 360,000 times a year?

01:01:05.000 You think just because you're the 11th guy that hit on me that day, I'd be like, am I fine?

01:01:08.000 I give up!

01:01:09.000 It's not that, but out of those men, there's going to be a percentage of them that are attractive and if you just do simple math, there's going to be a chance.

01:01:16.000 It's not about your physical attraction.

01:01:18.000 I'm not just going to be like, oh yeah, I might keep fucking this guy just because...

01:01:23.000 You know, it's not that.

01:01:25.000 It doesn't matter how...

01:01:25.000 Because you keep everything that I talk about, you keep bringing back to yourself.

01:01:30.000 Because I'm just thinking from my own personal opinion.

01:01:32.000 I mean, that's all we can really think of about that.

01:01:35.000 I can't speak for every single girl here because we might have different personalities.

01:01:39.000 So I want to be fair to say then that your rebuttals are limited to your own personal experience?

01:01:44.000 Yeah, because I can only speak onto my experience.

01:01:46.000 Okay, well, the world doesn't revolve around you.

01:01:49.000 You're speaking about men in general, too.

01:01:53.000 Because men are very simple and we think the same.

01:01:55.000 And women are complicated. 1.00

01:01:57.000 Like, men are very, very simple and easy to understand.

01:02:01.000 Do you think women are complicated? 1.00

01:02:02.000 And what?

01:02:03.000 Do you think women are complicated? 1.00

01:02:05.000 Not really.

01:02:06.000 They pretend to be, but they're not.

01:02:07.000 I mean, I've been able to predict everything you guys were going to say throughout the course of this conversation.

01:02:11.000 Well, because you've interviewed 25,000 girls. 0.90

01:02:14.000 Because a lot of women have the same traits that you guys are displaying right now, an inability to have critical thinking skills. 1.00

01:02:20.000 And is that so bad?

01:02:21.000 An inability to view the world from outside your own two eyes.

01:02:25.000 A limited experience.

01:02:26.000 So, question.

01:02:27.000 Raise your hand if you want to be married.

01:02:31.000 Hop up high.

01:02:32.000 Married?

01:02:33.000 So, four out of five?

01:02:35.000 So, okay.

01:02:36.000 So, raise your hand if you're single.

01:02:39.000 So, why are you single?

01:02:41.000 I'm still in school and I'd rather just focus on myself.

01:02:43.000 Okay.

01:02:44.000 Same reason.

01:02:45.000 I work a lot.

01:02:47.000 I haven't met anybody that I would like to be with.

01:02:51.000 I'm scared of betrayal.

01:02:53.000 I have too many boyfriends.

01:03:11.000 Alright, so just out of curiosity, you guys said that you're focusing on your career and school and stuff like that.

01:03:17.000 Do you guys think you're more attractive now or when you're done with your career and school and older?

01:03:23.000 Does that change?

01:03:24.000 I don't know what I'll be like.

01:03:26.000 I'll never be done with my career.

01:03:27.000 No, no, but do you think you're more attractive right now or in two to three years when you're done with your career and making money?

01:03:33.000 I don't think I've reached my peak yet.

01:03:34.000 I don't think so either.

01:03:35.000 Wait, you're what, 23?

01:03:37.000 23, yes.

01:03:38.000 You're at your peak right now.

01:03:38.000 Yeah, you are.

01:03:39.000 To you, but not to me.

01:03:41.000 I feel like I haven't reached my peak.

01:03:42.000 You guys, boys, might feel differently.

01:03:44.000 That's fine.

01:03:45.000 How about this?

01:03:46.000 Wouldn't it be fair to say that if you want to attract a man, you should know what men want, typically?

01:03:50.000 Yeah.

01:03:50.000 Sure, yes.

01:03:51.000 Okay, so like, for example, I want to play video games, and I just want to eat Cheetos and chill, right?

01:03:56.000 I don't want to fucking go to work and do all this shit.

01:03:58.000 Is that high value, though?

01:03:58.000 What is your...

01:03:59.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

01:04:00.000 Notice, if I want to go ahead and be attractive to women, I have to play the game about what women find attractive, right? 0.99

01:04:06.000 Yeah, you do.

01:04:06.000 Playing Cheetos and eating Cheetos and playing video games all day and whacking off, that's not necessarily attractive.

01:04:11.000 So I have to realign the way I do things if I want to be attractive to the opposite gender. 0.90

01:04:15.000 But you guys are saying it as if I said I want to be married right now.

01:04:18.000 So when I want to be married, I will focus on what I need to do to attract a man.

01:04:22.000 But as of right now, because that's not my goal, I don't care what attracts a man.

01:04:25.000 By that time, you're like, you're so old, man.

01:04:28.000 Don't care.

01:04:29.000 I guarantee you I'll still find someone.

01:04:30.000 Olders in two years.

01:04:31.000 Don't know, but I guarantee you.

01:04:32.000 You won't find a guy that you want, actually.

01:04:35.000 Because, for example, right now you're 23, you know...

01:04:37.000 You're hot, you know, more or less.

01:04:39.000 So if you was to find a guy, you have all the leverage right now at 23.

01:04:44.000 Because in his head, he's thinking like, oh shit, she's 23, so I have to have time to really work with her.

01:04:49.000 But a lot of you girls who are over 30, they're a pain in that to deal with. 1.00

01:04:53.000 So if I'm doing something right now to attract a man...

01:04:59.000 Hold on.

01:05:00.000 I had a point where I was going.

01:05:01.000 I just find it incredible that men have to understand women and do things to become attractive to women, but women are not willing to do what's required to be attractive to men. 0.99

01:05:12.000 It's like, I'm gonna date on my timeline, which is cool.

01:05:14.000 You could date on your timeline, but just understand your first choice might not want you back in return.

01:05:18.000 Can I ask you a question?

01:05:19.000 What is required for you, for a woman to be attractive? 1.00

01:05:22.000 So you're saying we're not doing what we should be to attract a man.

01:05:26.000 What is that?

01:05:26.000 What do you think I should be doing on my day to day?

01:05:29.000 Not going to work as much as I do?

01:05:31.000 I'm asking you.

01:05:32.000 I'm not saying that, but what I am saying is that women tend to prioritize things that aren't necessarily important to men. 0.70

01:05:37.000 So what should I not prioritize in my life?

01:05:39.000 Like, I just told you everything about me that you know.

01:05:41.000 Your education.

01:05:42.000 I should not be prioritizing my education?

01:05:43.000 Your education and your education, your income, etc.

01:05:46.000 These are not things that men typically care about.

01:05:48.000 So what am I supposed to take care of myself?

01:05:50.000 What are we supposed to do if you leave us?

01:05:52.000 How am I supposed to take care of myself?

01:05:52.000 If men leave you?

01:05:53.000 Yeah, like, what are we supposed to do then?

01:05:54.000 If we have no education?

01:05:55.000 Are you aware that women disproportionately initiate most breakups and divorces in America?

01:05:59.000 Doesn't matter.

01:05:59.000 What if you leave me?

01:06:00.000 What am I supposed to do with myself?

01:06:02.000 Okay, so you said it doesn't matter, but how am I going to be able to get rid of my car?

01:06:06.000 You want me to be living with my mom, taking the bus, riding a bike?

01:06:11.000 Men aren't the ones initiating breakups, so realistically speaking, what do you mean it doesn't matter?

01:06:17.000 That absolutely matters.

01:06:18.000 But not every relationship has the girl broken up with the man.

01:06:24.000 Men don't leave, but they will definitely sheet before they leave. 0.98

01:06:28.000 Women initiate 80% plus of breakups and divorces. 1.00

01:06:31.000 That's fine, but what about the 20%? 0.99

01:06:33.000 What am I supposed to do with myself?

01:06:34.000 What if I'm a part of that 20% where I didn't initiate the breakup?

01:06:38.000 What am I supposed to do with myself if I did not build myself?

01:06:40.000 He's going to say that it's your fault that he broke up with you or something.

01:06:41.000 Yeah, that's your problem.

01:06:42.000 If a guy breaks up with you, you fucked up, to be honest.

01:06:45.000 Men rarely break up with girls.

01:06:46.000 So you have a very narrow mindset.

01:06:47.000 Hold on.

01:06:49.000 It's not a narrow mindset.

01:06:51.000 It's looking at the numbers.

01:06:53.000 Figuring it out.

01:06:53.000 If women are disproportionately ending relationships and marriages, etc., then that means that women have some kind of issue.

01:07:00.000 It's not men ending it, it's women ending it. 0.99

01:07:02.000 Well, maybe women don't really care about relationship nowadays. 1.00

01:07:05.000 Maybe women want to thrive in their own way. 1.00

01:07:08.000 For at least a little while.

01:07:09.000 I don't think I want to be thriving on my own way, but I would rather build myself up so that I can pay rent, so that I can keep working.

01:07:15.000 Yeah, that's fine.

01:07:17.000 I'm sorry, just going back on what you were saying, you think that I should live with my parents until I find my high value man to pay for my wife? 0.60

01:07:24.000 Men will find that more attractive, yeah. 1.00

01:07:25.000 To live with my parents at 23?

01:07:27.000 Wait, wait, wait, hold on.

01:07:30.000 You guys are clueless.

01:07:31.000 Wait, I'm sorry.

01:07:32.000 Hold on, just one second.

01:07:34.000 You're saying that that might be more attractive to a man, but I could not, I love my parents to death, but I could not, as a 23-year-old, live with my parents.

01:07:43.000 Yeah.

01:07:43.000 I have such a rigid schedule.

01:07:44.000 I stick to a certain diet.

01:07:46.000 I like to shop where I shop.

01:07:47.000 I have my own schedule that doesn't match with my parents.

01:07:51.000 So I live pretty far away from...

01:07:54.000 I mean, 45 minutes is not super far, but I like my distance.

01:07:57.000 It makes me feel more dull.

01:07:58.000 It forces me to grow up, to build myself up.

01:08:02.000 I would rather live on my own, but in order for me to do that, I have to build myself up.

01:08:06.000 I have to work as much as I work.

01:08:08.000 Men don't care about these things, though. 0.79

01:08:10.000 But how many men are going to take care of themselves? 1.00

01:08:13.000 I get it that you're saying I have to build myself up and all this other stuff, but men don't care about that.

01:08:17.000 Maybe we don't care what men think. 1.00

01:08:19.000 No, no, it's not that.

01:08:20.000 If you want to lock one down, you should care what they think.

01:08:22.000 Maybe I don't want to lock one down.

01:08:23.000 Maybe I just want to thrive in my own.

01:08:27.000 Maybe the streets are not so bad after all.

01:08:30.000 If you're not concerned with what men want, then just be content with the fact that you're not going to be able to lock a guy down.

01:08:38.000 And that's totally fine.

01:08:40.000 Because not all about life is relationships and sex.

01:08:43.000 Maybe there's some conversation.

01:08:45.000 You're 29.

01:08:46.000 I'm not worried.

01:08:47.000 You should be worried, is what I'm saying.

01:08:49.000 Well, but I'm not, because that's not all that matters to me.

01:08:52.000 Because I have other goals besides getting dick and being married and having a family.

01:08:57.000 Well, we know...

01:08:58.000 Self-actualization.

01:08:59.000 ...that women typically are fulfilled through relationships with a man and a family, not through career and accomplishments.

01:09:05.000 Sometimes self-actualization is more fulfilling than having a family.

01:09:09.000 There's other ways to leave a legacy in the world without having children or a husband. 0.56

01:09:14.000 How would you leave that legacy, then?

01:09:15.000 Through beautiful...

01:09:17.000 Music?

01:09:18.000 Music.

01:09:19.000 Yeah, music.

01:09:20.000 People get inspired by music.

01:09:22.000 Whatever...

01:09:23.000 Art, like the community that you build around you, like the people that you can reach and the lives that you can change.

01:09:32.000 It's not all about sex or family or marriage in the society anymore.

01:09:36.000 That might be for you, but I would argue most women would get most of their fulfillment from children in a family, not career and accomplishment. 1.00

01:09:42.000 I understand that and I respect those women. 0.98

01:09:45.000 That's the majority.

01:09:47.000 But again, you say society is changing now and a lot of women now don't really care about that stuff now. 1.00

01:09:52.000 And they're single?

01:09:54.000 Yeah, social norms don't adhere to biological reality.

01:09:57.000 So, for example, let's be honest here, right?

01:09:59.000 So, we live in a world where there's police out there, you have the welfare state, you have all these things to take care of you, etc.

01:10:06.000 So, why do women still want a guy that's taller than them? 1.00

01:10:09.000 Why do women still want a guy that's stronger than them? 1.00

01:10:11.000 Why do they want a guy that's still confident and ambitious and muscular?

01:10:14.000 Why do they want a guy that's, you know...

01:10:17.000 It has competence.

01:10:18.000 Well, it's because in your bird brain, in your hind brain, you still are attracted to these things.

01:10:26.000 So even though you have all these modern conveniences that take care of security, provisioning, etc., you still want a man to have these things.

01:10:32.000 So I always say biology overrides social norms.

01:10:37.000 Yeah, we are animals at the end of the day.

01:10:39.000 We all gotta get our own significant other at some point or another.

01:10:44.000 But I'm saying that in this society, it's not a priority for a lot of women. 1.00

01:10:51.000 I'm not talking about me because I'm really like a sentimental person.

01:10:56.000 So I really want to have somebody that I can share my thoughts and my ideas and my life with.

01:11:01.000 But some women don't prioritize that and say, I'm just going to be alone for the rest of my life. 1.00

01:11:06.000 Well, those women think they can push their, you know, their age to a certain extent. 1.00

01:11:12.000 Like, for example, you three of me want to be boss mates, right?

01:11:15.000 Now, all of a sudden, you're 35, and then you're like, you know what?

01:11:18.000 Now I want a man.

01:11:19.000 We've had women on this panel that cried. 1.00

01:11:21.000 You know what?

01:11:22.000 If I was 22, 23, 24, I would take everything, you know, I did backwards just to actually improve to be a better wife, a future wife.

01:11:31.000 Because at the end of the day, like, You girls are like, you know what? 0.87

01:11:35.000 I'm going to be a boss babe and then look for a man. 1.00

01:11:38.000 You girls should be in training right now to look for a man. 1.00

01:11:41.000 Because a guy sees you and says, alright, cool.

01:11:44.000 Why should I hire you to be my wife? 1.00

01:11:46.000 Why should I choose you to be my wife? 1.00

01:11:49.000 You're like, fuck, I don't care, you know, fuck that!

01:11:51.000 I'm in a club where girls trip, you know, three of us out here tripping.

01:11:55.000 Then he sees you, he's like, you know what?

01:11:57.000 I'm gonna fuck her, but she has little qualities to be a wife. 1.00

01:12:01.000 I mean, to a certain extent, I will sometimes think about going back and changing some of the things I've done in the past, but those things that I've gone through made me mold myself into the person I am today and actually realize what I'm doing right or what I'm doing wrong.

01:12:16.000 You know, some women be like, oh, I wish I could go back. 1.00

01:12:18.000 Yeah, but most girls... 1.00

01:12:19.000 But why would you go back?

01:12:20.000 You already did it.

01:12:22.000 Yeah, but most girls aren't as young as you right now. 1.00

01:12:25.000 Right now, you're 22, right?

01:12:26.000 Like, you still...

01:12:28.000 And, you know, you're attractive, more or less.

01:12:30.000 But it's one of...

01:12:31.000 Excuse me?

01:12:31.000 Yeah, more or less.

01:12:32.000 But it's one of those things where the more you talk, you know, it's like, I hear you.

01:12:36.000 I'm like, all right, cool.

01:12:37.000 I'm talking.

01:12:38.000 But it's like, you know, it's one of those things where you have to realize, start young.

01:12:43.000 Like, don't wait till you're 30 and then all of a sudden, you know, like, biology is kicking you in the fucking womb, right?

01:12:49.000 I mean, not everybody grows in the same pace.

01:12:53.000 I feel like so.

01:12:54.000 Listen, if I have a daughter, I'm like, yo, you have to fucking do this shit.

01:12:59.000 Like, be a wife early. 1.00

01:13:01.000 Like, train for this shit.

01:13:02.000 I will put her through the Olympics.

01:13:04.000 Not everybody has that paternal figure, though.

01:13:07.000 That's what I'm saying.

01:13:08.000 It's like, you know, just my advice to give most women is to do that. 0.97

01:13:12.000 You three want to be boss babes, like, that's cool and everything, but, like, why even go towards that route if guys don't give a fuck, like what he said. 0.97

01:13:21.000 Like, I don't care if they're boss babes. 1.00

01:13:22.000 Alright, let's make this simple for the ladies so they can understand it. 1.00

01:13:24.000 Did you have something before I go into this?

01:13:26.000 I did, yeah.

01:13:26.000 Yeah, go ahead, please.

01:13:27.000 So, like, then why are we starting...

01:13:28.000 So, your analogy that you used earlier, like, why are we starting at 18?

01:13:31.000 Like, I'm still...

01:13:33.000 No matter that I'm legal now, I still have a very girl mindset.

01:13:36.000 That's when you're just finishing school, everything.

01:13:38.000 You haven't even tried to be a woman yet, necessarily.

01:13:42.000 You haven't gone out into the world.

01:13:43.000 You don't know what it's like yet.

01:13:44.000 I feel like right now, where I'm at 23, I feel like this is the most...

01:13:48.000 Obviously, because it is the most grown I've been, but I feel the most grown that I've been.

01:13:52.000 At 18, my mindset was not marriage, this, that, and the third.

01:13:55.000 It's, oh my god, I just graduated high school.

01:13:57.000 Congrats to me.

01:13:58.000 But now I'm out of college, I'm working.

01:14:00.000 It's like, okay, now I can look for these things.

01:14:03.000 Just using your specific analogy, at this age, I think this would be my best age to possibly do what you're saying.

01:14:09.000 And as an 18-year-old, who are you supposed to be dating?

01:14:12.000 Guys that are older?

01:14:13.000 I was using extreme to illustrate a point, but we'll continue.

01:14:17.000 Am I supposed to be dating people as an 18-year-old?

01:14:20.000 Are you supposed to be dating somebody that's older?

01:14:22.000 Because how many high-value guys do you know that are 18 years old?

01:14:25.000 Seven to ten years above you, yeah.

01:14:27.000 But all you really know, if you're thinking about 18 years old, that's high school.

01:14:30.000 All you know is high schoolers.

01:14:32.000 How am I supposed to go out as an 18-year-old and meet a guy who's, I don't know, 20-something, who's at high value?

01:14:37.000 That's a black slate, you know what I'm saying?

01:14:38.000 I used to be a teacher, I taught high school, and the high school girls who are 18 right now, like, both of you girls think the same.

01:14:45.000 You guys are reading way too much into the 18.

01:14:48.000 We're doing this to display an extreme example, but the point I'm trying to make here is not necessarily the age, it's that men value innocence.

01:14:53.000 You understand?

01:14:54.000 Yeah.

01:14:54.000 Men are youth and innocence.

01:14:56.000 Sure.

01:14:56.000 Okay.

01:14:57.000 Well, I wouldn't say groom.

01:14:58.000 I would say coach her to be...

01:14:59.000 You got to train her to be a good girlfriend. 0.98

01:15:01.000 That's grooming.

01:15:01.000 What's your definition of innocence?

01:15:04.000 No bodies.

01:15:05.000 Not having trauma.

01:15:06.000 Literally zero bodies.

01:15:07.000 Like having less bodies, having less trauma.

01:15:10.000 I mean...

01:15:11.000 Emotional damage!

01:15:12.000 If you guys want to call it grooming, you can call it grooming.

01:15:14.000 But I consider it training because I think for a girl to be the best girlfriend to you, you have to train her to be the best woman that she could be.

01:15:19.000 Women need leadership. 1.00

01:15:21.000 A woman without instruction is headed for destruction. 1.00

01:15:23.000 So what's the difference between training and grooming, in your opinion, then?

01:15:26.000 Well, training, there's a purpose at the end, right?

01:15:29.000 If I told you, hey, you're going to go ahead and compete in this sporting event in six months from now, you would be training every day for that event, correct?

01:15:37.000 To be at your best for that event, correct?

01:15:39.000 I think looking at it the same way for a woman.

01:15:41.000 She needs to train to be her best for that man.

01:15:43.000 You know, I find it absolutely ludicrous that women are willing to go to a job and train for a job or train at the gym or train for all these other things, institutions that don't necessarily give a fuck about her. 0.99

01:15:53.000 But if I say, hey, you should be training for your man, they look at me like I'm crazy and that's misogynistic.

01:15:57.000 No.

01:15:58.000 The man is probably going to be the most important component in your life because that's going to lead you to a family.

01:16:02.000 That's going to lead you to overall happiness.

01:16:04.000 That's going to lead you to overall satisfaction.

01:16:06.000 Women don't derive satisfaction from success and money. 1.00

01:16:09.000 They derive it through family and children.

01:16:11.000 When two men meet, they shake hands and share, what is your career?

01:16:13.000 When two women meet, they hug and say, do you have a family?

01:16:16.000 Do you have kids?

01:16:17.000 So men and women are not the same. 0.66

01:16:19.000 So I look at it like that's what women should be prioritizing because you have a finite amount of time. 1.00

01:16:24.000 And I'm going to ask you guys this.

01:16:25.000 Let's say you have a 21-year-old woman and a 21-year-old man.

01:16:28.000 Both parties make $100,000 per year.

01:16:29.000 Who has more power in the sexual marketplace or the dating marketplace? 1.00

01:16:32.000 The man or the woman? 0.99

01:16:33.000 The woman.

01:16:33.000 21 years old.

01:16:34.000 The woman.

01:16:35.000 Cool.

01:16:35.000 25 years old.

01:16:36.000 Both make $100,000 per year.

01:16:38.000 Who has more power in the dating marketplace? 0.98

01:16:40.000 The man or the woman? 0.99

01:16:41.000 The woman.

01:16:42.000 Okay.

01:16:43.000 What are you shaking?

01:16:43.000 I have no idea.

01:16:45.000 I'm going to say the man.

01:16:46.000 I was going to say the man.

01:16:48.000 We can think the man at any age.

01:16:50.000 Well, it's arguable that it could be both, but okay.

01:16:54.000 30 years old, both of them make $100,000 per year.

01:16:56.000 Who has more value in the dating marketplace, the man or the woman? 0.84

01:16:57.000 The woman.

01:16:59.000 You think the man now?

01:17:00.000 I think man.

01:17:00.000 Okay, 35 years old, both making $100,000 per year.

01:17:05.000 Who has more command in the dating marketplace at this point?

01:17:07.000 The man or the woman? 0.99

01:17:08.000 As long as the woman makes the same amount as a man, she will always have more power than... 1.00

01:17:15.000 Okay, anyway.

01:17:16.000 So the rest of you think it's the man, right?

01:17:17.000 Okay, now 40 years old.

01:17:19.000 40 years old making $100,000 per year both.

01:17:21.000 Who has more power in the dating game? 1.00

01:17:23.000 The man or the woman? 0.99

01:17:24.000 I'm always gonna stick with the man.

01:17:25.000 The man, right?

01:17:26.000 Okay.

01:17:27.000 As I go up in five-year increments, will the woman ever overtake the man? 1.00

01:17:31.000 I would say no.

01:17:33.000 No, right?

01:17:33.000 So wouldn't it be fair to say that you have a finite amount of time to find the best guy that you can?

01:17:37.000 About a 10-year window.

01:17:39.000 Based on what we just talked about.

01:17:40.000 So what's that window?

01:17:41.000 Between 20 to 30?

01:17:42.000 Yes.

01:17:43.000 And you guys just literally agreed with me.

01:17:44.000 Well, that should be when...

01:17:45.000 Shout out to Kevin Samuels.

01:17:46.000 That should be when girls are going to get married. 1.00

01:17:48.000 I literally just proved it just now.

01:17:50.000 In every scenario, the woman has the leverage in her 20s, and then as you get to 30, the man starts to get the leverage, and it never comes back to the female.

01:17:57.000 But I think that's fine when we start increasing the age, but you guys, as guys, have to give us that time to build ourselves, is what I'm saying.

01:18:04.000 Like, you're making it from 18 to 22, but I think we should be focusing on ourselves at that point, and then once we get older...

01:18:10.000 But this isn't my opinion.

01:18:11.000 They pulled men from 18 to 60 years old, and they found that men universally regardless of culture...

01:18:14.000 I'm just saying what I think it should be, is what I'm saying.

01:18:16.000 Who cares what you think it should be?

01:18:18.000 I'm telling you what is.

01:18:19.000 Like, this is...

01:18:19.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

01:18:20.000 This is a terrible thing that women typically do. 1.00

01:18:22.000 Oh, I don't like these rules.

01:18:24.000 I'm going to change them.

01:18:26.000 It should be like this.

01:18:27.000 Let's do it.

01:18:27.000 You know what?

01:18:27.000 How about this?

01:18:28.000 Y'all should go ahead and date homeless guys that are 5'2".

01:18:31.000 Go ahead.

01:18:31.000 That's how it should be.

01:18:32.000 They should get a chance, too.

01:18:33.000 Go, do it.

01:18:33.000 Come on, man.

01:18:34.000 Go.

01:18:34.000 Give it a chance.

01:18:35.000 It sounds like you want to date the homeless woman.

01:18:38.000 No, no, no, no, no, no.

01:18:39.000 Wait, you said it.

01:18:40.000 No, no, no, no.

01:18:42.000 Because I'm literally just using your analogy.

01:18:44.000 You're saying, oh, it shouldn't be that way.

01:18:46.000 But by the same accord, I can say, y'all should go ahead and give short guys a chance.

01:18:49.000 Y'all should give broke guys a chance.

01:18:51.000 Y'all should give all these guys that aren't necessarily the most attractive a chance.

01:18:53.000 But you don't, though.

01:18:54.000 But we do, though.

01:18:55.000 Not really.

01:18:57.000 You're single.

01:18:58.000 Yes.

01:18:59.000 So I find it incredible how girls don't like the rules and then they think that society should bend to their whim on what they want. 1.00

01:19:05.000 And I'm telling you, you guys would never do that for us.

01:19:08.000 Would you date a homeless woman? 0.98

01:19:10.000 Men and women aren't the same. 0.98

01:19:13.000 I'm just asking a question.

01:19:16.000 I don't want you to get frustrated.

01:19:17.000 Both of y'all can answer.

01:19:19.000 Would you date a homeless person?

01:19:21.000 If she's homeless and I'm making money, just be my home. 1.00

01:19:25.000 There's no way.

01:19:26.000 Why is she homeless? 1.00

01:19:29.000 What's her background?

01:19:31.000 What's her background?

01:19:32.000 You know what?

01:19:35.000 It's rare to meet a woman who's homeless nowadays. 0.70

01:19:38.000 It's rare.

01:19:38.000 You like that?

01:19:40.000 No, it's not rare.

01:19:42.000 Actually, there's a lot of homeless people.

01:19:46.000 There's a reason why a man that's a king can marry a peasant and turn her into a queen and doesn't work the other way around.

01:19:51.000 Like, if the girl's attractive and not a whore, like, yeah, that guy will take her in probably. 1.00

01:19:56.000 But it won't work the other way around.

01:19:57.000 That's my point.

01:19:57.000 How is she attractive if she's...

01:19:59.000 I mean, she doesn't have the abilities that... 1.00

01:20:01.000 What?

01:20:02.000 Huh?

01:20:02.000 How is a homeless person who doesn't have the ability to take care of herself?

01:20:07.000 I mean, it is very extreme.

01:20:08.000 It's very hypothetical.

01:20:09.000 The point I'm trying to illustrate is that men don't care about women's resources in general.

01:20:13.000 That's all I'm trying to highlight.

01:20:14.000 I mean, but why is it extreme when we ask for it, but it's not extreme when you ask if we would date a homeless man?

01:20:19.000 Because y'all would...

01:20:20.000 I'm trying to illustrate that her situation was wild because she said, well, it shouldn't be that way that men prefer younger women.

01:20:26.000 And then I countered with saying, well, it shouldn't be that way that women want shorter guys. 0.99

01:20:29.000 They want taller guys. 0.88

01:20:31.000 So, like, I can't sit around and change the rules on what women want. 1.00

01:20:35.000 Like, so why is it that women think that they could change the rules on what men want? 1.00

01:20:37.000 I don't think we can change the rules.

01:20:39.000 It's just what we would prefer.

01:20:40.000 So then why are you saying should?

01:20:41.000 Because I have an opinion just like everybody else.

01:20:43.000 Well, it's not going to change, though.

01:20:44.000 That's fine.

01:20:45.000 I didn't say, let's change it right now.

01:20:46.000 I just said what I... It's never going to change.

01:20:48.000 That's okay.

01:20:49.000 You're not hearing me.

01:20:50.000 I'm just saying what I would prefer.

01:20:53.000 If you're giving hypotheticals, I think she was just trying to give another hypothetical.

01:20:57.000 A hypothetical that is not based in reality whatsoever.

01:21:00.000 But going back...

01:21:00.000 Okay, so forget the should.

01:21:02.000 You're right.

01:21:02.000 If you're whole...

01:21:03.000 Hold on.

01:21:04.000 Hold on.

01:21:05.000 It raised a free mind.

01:21:06.000 Okay.

01:21:07.000 So your whole niche, right, is that you're trying to teach these guys that are watching your podcast and everything how they should...

01:21:13.000 Go back to what you were saying.

01:21:14.000 Your purpose, really, is that you're trying to teach guys how to be these high-value men so that they can...

01:21:21.000 I need to form my thought here.

01:21:24.000 That's for the daytime show.

01:21:26.000 The nighttime show just goes to illustrate how delusional females are. 1.00

01:21:29.000 You guys have done a fantastic job.

01:21:31.000 I just have one question and I have nothing else to say about it.

01:21:33.000 Do you guys consider yourself high-value men?

01:21:39.000 I mean, what do you think?

01:21:40.000 No, no, no.

01:21:40.000 I'm asking you.

01:21:42.000 See, here's the thing.

01:21:44.000 You don't call yourself that.

01:21:45.000 It's just how people view you.

01:21:47.000 If you view me that way, that's one thing.

01:21:49.000 If you don't, then that's fine.

01:21:50.000 So answer for each other.

01:21:51.000 Do you think he is a high-value man and vice versa?

01:21:53.000 It's fine.

01:21:54.000 We don't even...

01:21:55.000 It's the perception.

01:22:01.000 You're supposed to display the characteristics and it's on the people to assume or not assume that you fit a certain metric.

01:22:08.000 Saying that I'm an alpha male, blah blah blah.

01:22:11.000 No, you don't categorize yourself in that category.

01:22:14.000 People do it for you based on how they perceive you.

01:22:16.000 How about it's the way you feel about yourself that matters?

01:22:19.000 I'm just giving an example.

01:22:20.000 Wait, so you're not gonna answer the question?

01:22:22.000 Do you consider yourself high-value?

01:22:24.000 That's just a simple question.

01:22:25.000 Do you have those characteristics that you would think...

01:22:26.000 Once again, like the people, because at the end of the day, if someone views you as high-value, then it's...

01:22:32.000 Okay, so do most people consider you high-value?

01:22:34.000 If you had to imagine your characteristics in somebody else...

01:22:38.000 From what you've heard, do most people consider you?

01:22:41.000 It's not deflection, it's just a curiosity.

01:22:43.000 Like, do you find yourself high-valued?

01:22:44.000 Say yes or no.

01:22:45.000 That's not on me to answer.

01:22:46.000 So what you've heard about yourself, do you consider...

01:22:49.000 Do most people consider you...

01:22:51.000 It's on them to pick.

01:22:52.000 But you've heard what people have said about you, so do you consider yourself high-value based off of what other people have said?

01:22:57.000 It depends on the individual.

01:22:58.000 Somebody who knows you well, would you think they would consider you a high-value man?

01:23:04.000 That depends on them.

01:23:05.000 It depends on who you ask.

01:23:06.000 Who knows them real good?

01:23:08.000 I can answer that for you.

01:23:08.000 It depends on who you ask.

01:23:09.000 Okay, I'm asking Chris.

01:23:11.000 Hey, Chris.

01:23:13.000 Listen, Martin does well, man.

01:23:16.000 That's all I can say.

01:23:17.000 So yes.

01:23:18.000 Does men what?

01:23:18.000 Does well financially?

01:23:19.000 I mean, we're kind of diverting from the topic at hand.

01:23:23.000 You were going to ask the question, and you were saying like, hey, you teach guys how to get their shit together, whatever.

01:23:29.000 Yeah, that's during the daytime shows.

01:23:30.000 The nighttime shows, honestly, are to show men that women are fairly delusional with their worldviews. 1.00

01:23:35.000 Yeah.

01:23:36.000 And you go to sleep peacefully at night thinking that.

01:23:39.000 I mean, there's been a pattern shown that a lot of women lack critical thinking skills. 1.00

01:23:45.000 I mean, I'm telling you guys things that are objectively true with how men view women and dating and relationships, and you guys, instead of saying, oh, you know what, I can understand that perspective, it's Well, I don't think it should be that way, or I disagree.

01:23:57.000 And I've been saying things that are objectively fact in general, and you guys disagree with it.

01:24:02.000 I'm kind of like, okay.

01:24:03.000 Can I add something?

01:24:04.000 You say, I agree men and women are not the same. 0.99

01:24:07.000 Yeah.

01:24:08.000 So, maybe, maybe, some of us may not be completely rational, or not rational, but completely...

01:24:18.000 Logical or critical thinking, but I think that's been self-explanatory.

01:24:21.000 I think a lot of men are not very emotionally intelligent.

01:24:25.000 And that's something that women actually have. 1.00

01:24:27.000 Define emotional intelligence.

01:24:28.000 You know, like, in tune with people's empathy, you know?

01:24:33.000 And, for example, like, I think an emotionally intelligent person wouldn't say some offensive stuff to women.

01:24:40.000 Like, say, like, she's a hole or something. 0.88

01:24:43.000 Honestly, if I'm going to be all the way honest, and it's kind of been proven during the course of this podcast, I think women lack empathy. 1.00

01:24:49.000 I have a question.

01:24:51.000 Are you insecure at all?

01:24:53.000 Oh, fantastic.

01:24:55.000 This is literally like boom, right off the script.

01:25:00.000 How is stating uncomfortable truths and facts between the two genders insecure? 0.74

01:25:07.000 What?

01:25:08.000 I don't know what you just asked.

01:25:09.000 So you asked a question you didn't even...

01:25:11.000 I asked you if you were insecure.

01:25:13.000 Okay, that was the end of my question.

01:25:14.000 No, you're answering a question with another question, though.

01:25:17.000 Yeah, because I'm trying to get her to think here.

01:25:19.000 How is...

01:25:20.000 Well, you know what?

01:25:21.000 I'll answer your thing in a second here.

01:25:23.000 Back to you with empathy.

01:25:24.000 I think women lack empathy and this conversation has kind of proven that throughout the thing. 1.00

01:25:28.000 And why do you think women lack empathy nowadays? 1.00

01:25:32.000 Well, define empathy real fast for me.

01:25:34.000 Empathy is the ability to feel for other people and, you know, relate to others.

01:25:40.000 Okay.

01:25:41.000 So, during, of course, this conversation, I've expressed to you guys the male situation with how we view women, what we want, etc.

01:25:47.000 And instead of saying, you know what?

01:25:48.000 That's right.

01:25:48.000 That makes sense.

01:25:49.000 You know, I see your perspective.

01:25:51.000 It's, well, it shouldn't be that way.

01:25:53.000 I'm a woman and I think men should want that.

01:25:53.000 I disagree.

01:25:56.000 That is one of the biggest examples of a lack of empathy.

01:25:59.000 I think women have sympathy, which means they can feel sorry for you and kind of see that perspective. 1.00

01:26:04.000 But empathy is the ability to put yourself in the shoes of the individual that's talking about a situation.

01:26:08.000 And what I've realized through this conversation, which a lot of women, is they lack empathy. 0.99

01:26:12.000 They're not able to put themselves in a male perspective and understand the male experience because women live a very different life than men do.

01:26:17.000 Which is fine.

01:26:18.000 I'm not knocking that.

01:26:19.000 But here's the difference between men and women.

01:26:20.000 Men have to have empathy to understand women to be attractive because if I'm going to take a girl on a date and get laid, I know that I got to smell good, have my shit together, carry a conversation, take her somewhere fairly nice, have my apartment nice and clean when we come back.

01:26:34.000 I need to make her feel comfortable.

01:26:35.000 I need to make her feel safe.

01:26:36.000 So I have to understand women to get them. 1.00

01:26:38.000 But women, on the other hand, just show up. 1.00

01:26:39.000 They don't have to understand men.

01:26:41.000 Which, during the course of this conversation, has been pretty well proven that a lot of you guys don't necessarily understand men.

01:26:45.000 So I think women lack empathy. 1.00

01:26:47.000 What you're describing as our lack of empathy is our opinion, which is not always the same as yours.

01:26:54.000 Just because we have different opinions doesn't mean we're lack of empathetic for you.

01:26:58.000 If something really bad happened to you, regardless of our different opinions, I would feel sorry.

01:27:07.000 Emotional damage!

01:27:11.000 I think that's just an opinion.

01:27:22.000 That doesn't define empathy to me.

01:27:26.000 We just illustrated that empathy is the ability to put yourself in someone else's shoes and understand their experience.

01:27:33.000 And during this conversation, it's been proven that you haven't been able to do that.

01:27:36.000 No, I can understand you and feel you and totally validate your opinion.

01:27:42.000 But just because we have different opinions doesn't mean that we lack empathy.

01:27:46.000 It's an objective fact that things that I've said have been pretty factual.

01:27:50.000 Factual to you.

01:27:52.000 That's your opinion.

01:27:53.000 That doesn't mean it's fact.

01:27:55.000 Do you know the difference between a fact and an opinion?

01:27:57.000 Absolutely.

01:27:57.000 Tell me what a fact is.

01:27:58.000 Fact is something that's proven.

01:28:00.000 Opinion is something that you think about uniquely.

01:28:03.000 Alright, so what's an opinion that I've stated?

01:28:04.000 An opinion that you stated is, for example, that women shouldn't go to the club because that makes them low value, whereas some other man that doesn't have the same background that you have, the same values that you have as a man, may think differently, may think, oh no, it's totally okay for her to have a girls night.

01:28:21.000 I said that most men, if asked honestly, would not like it if their girl went to the nightclub.

01:28:27.000 Yeah.

01:28:28.000 If I lined up 100 dudes and I said, hey, bro, your girl can either stay home with you or go to the nightclub, most guys would elect to have the woman stay at home. 1.00

01:28:35.000 Sure, but I can empathize with you and be like, oh, sure, honey, like, I totally get it that you're feeling insecure about this.

01:28:42.000 So, okay, so what about that was an opinion?

01:28:44.000 That was just a fact what I said.

01:28:46.000 Most men would prefer their girl stay at home. 0.98

01:28:47.000 Is that proven?

01:28:48.000 Where's the statistics showing me that?

01:28:51.000 Do I need statistics to tell you that the sky's blue?

01:28:53.000 I mean, if you're telling me that's a fact...

01:28:55.000 That most men don't like their women out?

01:28:58.000 Where's the statistics?

01:28:59.000 Where's the actual facts?

01:29:01.000 I need, like, scientific proof.

01:29:04.000 Do you need a study to tell you 1 plus 1 is 2?

01:29:06.000 Yeah, because otherwise, mathematics, they're actually, like, scientific.

01:29:12.000 I mean, can we ask the chat?

01:29:15.000 I think we should definitely ask the chat.

01:29:17.000 We got how many?

01:29:18.000 20,000 plus watching?

01:29:19.000 Yeah, go ahead and throw up the Rumble chat too, just so they can see, because we're live on everything.

01:29:23.000 Guys, give us a one in the chat if you prefer your girl to stay at home, or give us a two in the chat if you prefer her to go to the club. 1.00

01:29:29.000 Let's see, because this is incredible here.

01:29:31.000 Let's see.

01:29:32.000 I already know what's going to happen, honestly.

01:29:34.000 We got 20,000 plus guys watching.

01:29:36.000 Let's see.

01:29:37.000 A bunch of ones on this side and a bunch of ones on that side.

01:29:40.000 What's one mean?

01:29:41.000 And these are meant from all over the world.

01:29:43.000 This is a biased pool.

01:29:44.000 I don't see people who are watching you because they admire your opinion.

01:29:47.000 They admire your number one.

01:29:48.000 We have a lot of haters.

01:29:56.000 I mean, these people that are watching you, they know what they're coming to watch.

01:30:01.000 They know your ideas on these things.

01:30:03.000 They come here because they agree with you.

01:30:06.000 So asking a biased poll is not exactly scientific method.

01:30:09.000 It's not a biased poll.

01:30:10.000 You're actually asking a poll where guys can be honest because men can't tell women the truth because they have frustrating conversations like we're having now where women don't want to accept the truth. 0.90

01:30:17.000 This is not frustrating, it's entertaining.

01:30:20.000 I'm actually not frustrated at all.

01:30:22.000 No, we're fine, but guys who aren't getting laid are frustrated.

01:30:27.000 Are you guys frustrated?

01:30:28.000 Yes, because they aren't getting laid. 0.99

01:30:30.000 Because they're focusing too much on getting laid. 0.93

01:30:31.000 Why don't they get fulfilled in other activities?

01:30:35.000 Like scuba diving.

01:30:36.000 I think I've proven my empathy thing.

01:30:37.000 Okay, now your question is something about insecurity?

01:30:40.000 You had something about insecurity?

01:30:41.000 I just asked if you were insecure.

01:30:42.000 Did you consider yourself insecure or not?

01:30:45.000 Okay.

01:30:46.000 Well, let me ask you this.

01:30:48.000 Do you think, who's more insecure?

01:30:51.000 The person who tells you what it really is and doesn't care what you think, or the person that's scared of what you're going to say and doesn't tell you the truth?

01:30:56.000 Who's more insecure?

01:30:57.000 The second one.

01:30:59.000 Okay, I'll say that one more time.

01:31:02.000 Who do you think is more insecure?

01:31:03.000 The individual that tells you the truth and doesn't necessarily care what you think, okay?

01:31:08.000 Or the person that's scared of what you're going to say and lies to you.

01:31:11.000 Who's more insecure?

01:31:12.000 The person that lies is more insecure.

01:31:14.000 Fantastic.

01:31:14.000 So what have I been doing the entire podcast with y'all?

01:31:16.000 Lying.

01:31:19.000 I've been telling the truth.

01:31:21.000 It's your truth.

01:31:22.000 There is no my truth.

01:31:23.000 It's the truth.

01:31:25.000 But don't you think during the entire podcast there have been moments where we're like, okay, yeah, we do agree with that.

01:31:31.000 It's just another commentary or something.

01:31:32.000 There have been moments where...

01:31:34.000 Give me an example.

01:31:35.000 We're like, okay, so you said...

01:31:37.000 I mean, I don't know.

01:31:38.000 We should have to start taking notes.

01:31:39.000 I agree with men and women are not equal. 1.00

01:31:41.000 We can agree on that.

01:31:43.000 That money statistic that she said with five years older and then the increase in money.

01:31:47.000 Even the attraction.

01:31:48.000 There have been moments that you said so.

01:31:51.000 We've been like, okay, I get that.

01:31:53.000 I wouldn't say that we necessarily lack empathy because we are hearing you out.

01:31:57.000 But at the same time, we are giving you our opinions.

01:32:00.000 Like you said, we are coming from a self-view because it is our opinion, but at the same time, we've heard you out, we've heard your general statements and everything, and that's okay and everything, but we still are hearing you out saying, okay, I get that, but for me personally, and that's what you pointed out, we're speaking from a personal perspective,

01:32:17.000 which is okay, but we have heard out the generality as well.

01:32:20.000 But a general conversation speaking from a personal perspective, by definition, limits you.

01:32:24.000 Yeah, but I'm saying like we've heard you out and said yeah, I agree and then you know We're here to give an opinion as well.

01:32:29.000 So this is our opinion, but we have agreed with you Okay, you can give an opinion, but what place is higher opinions or facts?

01:32:34.000 Well, I didn't say it was less.

01:32:36.000 I just said we've showed empathy towards what you've said.

01:32:39.000 We've heard you out.

01:32:41.000 Every time I stated an objective fact about what men find attractive in women your response was well it shouldn't be Isn't that the point of a conversation?

01:32:54.000 There's points that we've heard you on and been like, oh, okay, I get that.

01:32:57.000 And then the whole point of the conversation, like she was just saying, is opinion as well.

01:33:01.000 Like, oh, but here's our perspective.

01:33:02.000 But we heard out your generality and said I agree with that.

01:33:04.000 But opinions are irrelevant in the face of factual data.

01:33:06.000 Okay, but let's say we all are agreeing on the same thing.

01:33:08.000 Where is the conversation?

01:33:09.000 If we're all like, oh, yeah.

01:33:12.000 That's really just admitted that you're arguing to argue.

01:33:16.000 No, that's not what I'm saying.

01:33:17.000 But if we all agree, then there's no conversation.

01:33:22.000 But if you don't want to hear our opinion, then what do we say?

01:33:25.000 We do, but what we're saying is, hey, listen, you say one thing, but you do the next thing.

01:33:30.000 So you said you've had 25,000 women on the show. 0.90

01:33:33.000 About 2,500.

01:33:37.000 That's a little crazy.

01:33:38.000 I got my number skewed, my bad.

01:33:39.000 So you've had all these women on the show, and generally all of us have had similar...

01:33:43.000 I mean, you kind of even see with this group how you have...

01:33:46.000 It's a little bit divided.

01:33:47.000 You see one opinion, you see another.

01:33:48.000 But generally you're saying that all the women that you've had on the show have had the same idea.

01:33:52.000 Yes.

01:33:52.000 So isn't that the purpose?

01:33:53.000 You're showing your male perspective versus the female.

01:33:56.000 I mean, am I too far from the mic?

01:33:59.000 But then you're also saying that we're personalizing things, yet all the women you've had have had the same thing.

01:34:04.000 So how personalizing is it if we're all saying the same thing?

01:34:09.000 It proves what I've said before.

01:34:11.000 Women are naturally solipsistic, narcissistic, and tends to view the world from their own purview only, and are unable, a lot of the times, to put themselves in someone else's shoes, empathy, and understand that the world doesn't necessarily work according to their world perspective. 1.00

01:34:25.000 Is that women or people in general? 1.00

01:34:27.000 I think people in general are just focusing on themselves.

01:34:29.000 How am I going to get to work?

01:34:30.000 How am I going to make money?

01:34:31.000 How am I going to eat today?

01:34:32.000 How am I going to self-sustain?

01:34:33.000 It's not women or men. 0.77

01:34:35.000 It's people in general.

01:34:35.000 But women are far more guilty of being solipsistic than men are.

01:34:40.000 And the reason for that is because men live a much harder life than women do. 0.99

01:34:43.000 I don't think so because women are... 1.00

01:34:45.000 You're growing up as a woman thinking like, I'm going to have to have kids one day to take care of. 1.00

01:34:48.000 I'm going to have to have...

01:34:49.000 So you are like...

01:34:51.000 So you think in 2023 women live a harder life than men do? 0.92

01:34:54.000 No, it's not harder because we both have different goals to reach to be actually valuable to the opposite sex.

01:35:02.000 You say you have to be successful.

01:35:04.000 Okay, you have to be successful, but us women, we have to be attractive. 1.00

01:35:07.000 So there's different types of priority as women that we have to take and as you as men have to take.

01:35:12.000 I would argue being attractive is a lot easier than being successful.

01:35:15.000 I mean, to a certain extent, but not really because, okay, attractive.

01:35:18.000 What do you consider attractive?

01:35:20.000 A girl with big lips.

01:35:20.000 Okay, let me get filler.

01:35:21.000 Let me get long hairs.

01:35:22.000 Let me get extensions.

01:35:23.000 A girl with a big ass. 1.00

01:35:24.000 Let me get a BBL. An average-looking woman can pull a man three to four points above her, but it's not going to work the other way around. 1.00

01:35:32.000 So in other words, average women have access to top-tier guys, but it's not the other way around.

01:35:37.000 Are the top-tier guys attracted to these average women?

01:35:40.000 Or do you think...

01:35:41.000 Attracted to a relationship?

01:35:44.000 Or attracted to a white next to a family with them? 0.77

01:35:46.000 There's been times where they even get married.

01:35:47.000 But what I'm trying to say, though, is that women are able to easily bat three to four leagues above them, but men can't do that.

01:35:52.000 Can I ask you a question?

01:35:53.000 Because women date up, men date down. 1.00

01:35:56.000 Okay, so do you think that high-value men, their goal is to also get married, to start a family, to provide for a woman?

01:36:03.000 Is that something that a high-value man seeks?

01:36:05.000 I mean, every guy has different wants and needs.

01:36:08.000 Okay, but women don't? 1.00

01:36:10.000 But now you're speaking personalizing, but...

01:36:12.000 I think you were saying that you prefer the fact that you said you were, what, with three, four different women?

01:36:17.000 But Chris, do you think your end goal is to, if you see yourself as a high-value man, do you think your end goal is to have a family, to raise kids with a wife, to provide for them?

01:36:27.000 Is that the end goal for men, or is that just for women? 0.99

01:36:30.000 Most men don't want to be monogamous.

01:36:32.000 It's true.

01:36:33.000 I'm sure.

01:36:34.000 Honestly, just speaking from experience, but I'm asking you guys because I feel like you couldn't answer my question, but obviously- I just answered it.

01:36:42.000 No, no.

01:36:42.000 Hold on.

01:36:43.000 You couldn't answer our question when we asked if you think you are high value, but I think that you internally do see yourself as that.

01:36:50.000 So is your end goal to have a family, to provide for them, to make sure they have a high value?

01:36:56.000 If the girl is like, you know, hey, listen, I'll fuck with you, and then I vet her out. 0.99

01:37:00.000 And once again, I live in Miami, in Brickell.

01:37:03.000 You know what I'm saying?

01:37:04.000 So long story short is I know what it takes to live in a certain area.

01:37:08.000 If I'm dealing with girls and, hey, listen, I'll fuck with you, boom, boom, boom. 1.00

01:37:12.000 I personally have rules.

01:37:14.000 If she can't follow the rules, then it's like, I can't fuck with her.

01:37:17.000 If she does follow them.

01:37:19.000 What are your rules?

01:37:20.000 I want to know your rules.

01:37:21.000 Wait, wait, wait.

01:37:22.000 I want you to answer my question.

01:37:24.000 She embodies what you want.

01:37:26.000 She follows those rules.

01:37:27.000 Let's say you've dated for this amount of time, and she comes up to you, and she goes, you know what, Chris?

01:37:32.000 I don't want you to hook up to other women. 1.00

01:37:32.000 I want to tie down. 1.00

01:37:35.000 If I have plenty of girls that actually came to me, hey, I want to be a girlfriend.

01:37:38.000 That's not answering my question.

01:37:40.000 Stop yawning.

01:37:42.000 That hurt me.

01:37:43.000 If this woman embodies everything that you want, do you see yourself settling down with one woman for the rest of your life? 0.86

01:37:50.000 No, because I've worked hard to actually provide a whole lifestyle for who I love.

01:37:56.000 For example, if I'm dating you, right?

01:37:58.000 Are you happy?

01:37:58.000 Alright, cool.

01:37:59.000 So you were telling me...

01:38:00.000 Are you happy with me, right?

01:38:01.000 Am I happy?

01:38:02.000 If you're providing everything that I could...

01:38:04.000 Happy, right?

01:38:05.000 Sure, we're happy.

01:38:05.000 The house, the food...

01:38:07.000 The love, the caring, the loyalty, everything.

01:38:09.000 And then have a whole other girl, right?

01:38:12.000 That would make me unhappy.

01:38:13.000 You're hooking on my best friend! 1.00

01:38:18.000 I've been there, done that.

01:38:19.000 But anyways, what I'm saying is this, hey listen, I've been in, you know, like girls aren't gonna break up with a guy just because he's fucking around with some other girl.

01:38:30.000 I'm so sorry.

01:38:31.000 Most girls. 0.98

01:38:31.000 No, no, no. 0.98

01:38:32.000 I'm so sorry.

01:38:33.000 Girls prefer the loyalty. 0.99

01:38:36.000 Prefer the one...

01:38:37.000 Yeah, but they're not going to break up with a guy just because of that. 1.00

01:38:40.000 I'm sorry.

01:38:41.000 Everybody in this room, can we answer that question?

01:38:43.000 Because I would 1,000% break up with a guy.

01:38:45.000 All right, ladies. 0.98

01:38:46.000 Raise your hand.

01:38:47.000 If a guy was taking care of you, right?

01:38:49.000 He paid for your bills.

01:38:51.000 He took care of you, right?

01:38:52.000 You know, like your safety.

01:38:54.000 He's ripped.

01:38:55.000 Whatever.

01:38:55.000 He's fit.

01:38:56.000 Your ideal man, right?

01:38:57.000 If he was to fuck a girl, right? 0.99

01:39:00.000 Would you break up with him?

01:39:02.000 That you wouldn't be my ideal man if you were doing that.

01:39:04.000 You're stupid!

01:39:06.000 If you want to fuck somebody else, why are you with me?

01:39:10.000 I would allow it.

01:39:13.000 Ladies, a guy can still love you and still bust a nut down the street. 1.00

01:39:18.000 Why?

01:39:18.000 Why didn't you just do that with me then?

01:39:20.000 Why do you have to go down the street?

01:39:21.000 Because, like Fresh said, right?

01:39:23.000 Damn.

01:39:24.000 The best pussy? 1.00

01:39:27.000 Y'all are just clueless.

01:39:28.000 As we continue on with the conversation...

01:39:31.000 Wait, wait, wait.

01:39:34.000 Ladies, and then... 1.00

01:39:35.000 Wait, wait, wait.

01:39:37.000 The best pussy is a new pussy. 1.00

01:39:40.000 I can still love you.

01:39:42.000 It's my girl, man.

01:39:43.000 She's the best.

01:39:44.000 Jay-Z, she with Beyonce, but she ain't going nowhere, man.

01:39:48.000 But they have things that tie them down.

01:39:48.000 You know?

01:39:49.000 Like, they have families they probably have.

01:39:51.000 Listen, Jay-Z makes more money than her, right?

01:39:54.000 But at the end of the day, it's like, listen...

01:39:55.000 Does he?

01:39:55.000 Yes, he does.

01:39:56.000 He's a billionaire.

01:39:57.000 She's like, whatever.

01:39:58.000 Anyways, long story show, ladies. 1.00

01:40:01.000 Like, I can still love you and still bust a nut down the street and still come home to you and still love you.

01:40:05.000 I agree.

01:40:06.000 But you can't do the same.

01:40:08.000 You can't fuck another... 0.87

01:40:10.000 Once you fuck another guy... 0.98

01:40:10.000 I disagree. 0.98

01:40:35.000 Do they think about it versus do they act on it is different If I see a hot guy on the street and I am in a relationship, I'm not going to go talk to him.

01:40:43.000 I'm not going to interact in any way.

01:40:45.000 But you glance because it's natural.

01:40:49.000 I'm not going to sit there and stare at him just because I think he's hot.

01:40:52.000 I'm going to go on my day and never think about him again.

01:40:55.000 Yeah, but your need to have sex with him is probably very little if you are super attracted to your guy, but men are not the same.

01:41:01.000 But what about, like, emotional attachment?

01:41:03.000 Like, if I'm with a guy and he's telling me, like, new pussy is better pussy, like, I'm supposed to be like, alright, I'm so sorry, go ahead, there's some bitches down the street? 1.00

01:41:10.000 Like, that would make me so unhappy.

01:41:12.000 What about our, like, happiness at the end of the day?

01:41:14.000 Like, I'm supposed to just be like, alright, you know what?

01:41:16.000 What if it makes him happy to have multiple women?

01:41:18.000 Then that's just not my guy.

01:41:19.000 So your happiness overrides his?

01:41:22.000 Sorry?

01:41:23.000 So your happiness overrides his?

01:41:24.000 I don't think his happiness overrides mine.

01:41:27.000 I think it's genuinely a balance.

01:41:29.000 And if a guy thinks that he should be with multiple women, that's fine with me.

01:41:34.000 Hold on.

01:41:35.000 Happy king, happy kingdom.

01:41:37.000 No, it's happy wife, happy life! 0.71

01:41:42.000 That's one of the biggest lies we tell people is that happy wife, happy life. 0.96

01:41:48.000 The reality is there's no such thing as happy wife, happy life because it's very difficult to please women. 0.99

01:41:54.000 Who do you think are easier to please in general, men or women?

01:42:01.000 You guys, you just said that men, all they need is sex, new pussy. 1.00

01:42:05.000 Dating men is easy.

01:42:07.000 So therefore, what I've realized is that the best relationships are typically when the man has the leverage and the guy is happy and then the girl is happy as a byproduct of that.

01:42:15.000 But when it's the other way around and the woman holds all the cards, it doesn't work. 1.00

01:42:18.000 But what makes a guy happy?

01:42:19.000 Sleeping with other women? 0.80

01:42:20.000 That's what makes sense to me.

01:42:22.000 That's what I'm asking is why?

01:42:24.000 Because I don't think I could be with a guy who sleeps with other women. 0.99

01:42:27.000 So does that mean I'm never going to get a high value man?

01:42:29.000 Probably not.

01:42:30.000 Because I don't want him to sleep with other women. 1.00

01:42:32.000 That's what comes from the territory.

01:42:33.000 But you're also talking about traditional relationship values.

01:42:38.000 You know, there are many types of different relationships.

01:42:41.000 Traditionally, men that have resources and access to certain situations have always had a multitude of women.

01:42:46.000 That's how it's been.

01:42:47.000 Right.

01:42:48.000 But at the same time...

01:42:49.000 Should I do the candy store analogy here?

01:42:52.000 Wait, what is that?

01:42:53.000 I feel like nowadays, like you said, society has switched around.

01:42:58.000 And there are many types of different relationships.

01:43:01.000 It's not just monogamy.

01:43:02.000 Did you say earlier that biological hardwiring overrides society norms?

01:43:06.000 I mean, it just depends on evolution.

01:43:10.000 There's something out there for everybody.

01:43:11.000 Chad, do you want the candy store analogy?

01:43:14.000 I think that's the best way to illustrate this so they kind of understand.

01:43:17.000 But we do have chats to read, though.

01:43:18.000 We do have chats to read.

01:43:19.000 Yeah, we have a lot of chats to read.

01:43:20.000 All right.

01:43:20.000 Let's go ahead and read them.

01:43:23.000 Mo?

01:43:23.000 Okay, so what do we got here?

01:43:27.000 And Rumble rants and stuff like that.

01:43:28.000 So guys, from this point forward, we've got 20,000 of y'all watching between YouTube and Rumble, so we're going to go 50 and up, but I'll read these ones that came from before.

01:43:37.000 Yeah, they want the candy store analogy.

01:43:38.000 Alright, I'll use it to describe.

01:43:40.000 I mean, hopefully they understand.

01:43:42.000 Alright, where we at here?

01:43:45.000 Alright, three diglets.

01:43:46.000 Ma'am, next to Chris, can you motorboat Chris' face for a special day?

01:43:49.000 It's his birthday today.

01:43:50.000 Happy birthday, bro.

01:43:54.000 Shout out to IRS for holding these 304s accountable since them ass ninjas they deal with won't. 1.00

01:44:07.000 WFIRST, WMRW, Chris, WMOW, Bill.

01:44:09.000 Hey guys, do me a favor.

01:44:10.000 Come on over to YouTube or Rumble.

01:44:11.000 Let's kill the Twitter, Twitch, and...

01:44:13.000 Let's kill all those streams. 1.00

01:44:14.000 Facebook.

01:44:15.000 So come on over to YouTube, guys.

01:44:16.000 Right now.

01:44:17.000 Come on over to YouTube.

01:44:19.000 Or Rumble.

01:44:19.000 One of the two.

01:44:20.000 We're gonna kill the other streams. 0.97

01:44:23.000 Facebook killed.

01:44:24.000 Twitch gone.

01:44:25.000 Twitch gone.

01:44:25.000 Twitter gone.

01:44:26.000 Twitter.

01:44:26.000 And then Facebook?

01:44:27.000 Yeah, Facebook's gone, too.

01:44:28.000 Cool.

01:44:29.000 Alright, guys.

01:44:29.000 We're live on YouTube and on Rumble now, so come on over.

01:44:32.000 Who's up next?

01:44:34.000 Jacob goes, women flex on each other with their wedding rings, so by that logic alone, you're less valuable compared to any married woman. 1.00

01:44:43.000 Goku says, hey Myron, when you move into the new studio, you should change the theme song.

01:44:48.000 Torture by the Jacks at least instrumental, the guitar is awesome, has 80s Miami style vibes.

01:44:52.000 No.

01:44:52.000 We're gonna keep it what we got.

01:44:54.000 Waylo goes, Chris, I roasted you a couple weeks ago.

01:44:56.000 However, you're better on the panel.

01:44:57.000 WJokes keep working on your speech, though.

01:44:59.000 Thanks, bro.

01:44:59.000 Okay, Waylo.

01:45:00.000 Appreciate that.

01:45:01.000 Where are Columbia's eyebrows?

01:45:03.000 You have anything you want to say back to them?

01:45:04.000 You said you don't have eyebrows.

01:45:04.000 I hate eyebrows on myself.

01:45:07.000 They bother me.

01:45:08.000 I don't like to do anything, so I bleached them.

01:45:12.000 Fantastic.

01:45:13.000 And Gath, what's the fuck?

01:45:14.000 Okay.

01:45:14.000 That's right.

01:45:15.000 Here we go.

01:45:17.000 I was wishing he was on the keys right now for the sound effects.

01:45:20.000 Facts.

01:45:20.000 Baller.

01:45:22.000 We got here, Micelle goes, Bogota looking like Doja Cat with them John Cena eyebrows.

01:45:26.000 Thank you.

01:45:27.000 I love her.

01:45:27.000 Here come the jokes.

01:45:29.000 Jouette coach, man, Chris, a classic.

01:45:31.000 Okay.

01:45:32.000 We got here, Dr.

01:45:33.000 Evil.

01:45:33.000 We talking about women, bro.

01:45:34.000 Shout out Big Mo.

01:45:35.000 Shout out Discord. 0.97

01:45:36.000 We talking about women, bro.

01:45:37.000 Yeah, thanks.

01:45:38.000 Quality, the vampire in Blue's face is blinding me.

01:45:40.000 You have anything you want to say back to him?

01:45:42.000 The vampire?

01:45:44.000 And Blue's face is blinding me?

01:45:48.000 Well, I don't even know what that means, honestly.

01:45:51.000 Like, what?

01:45:52.000 Okay, fair enough.

01:45:54.000 I think he's trying to say you look like you have a dead soul.

01:45:56.000 Shmeebles, Chris, story about getting with the bride to be on her hens night.

01:45:59.000 I've done that, too.

01:45:59.000 Was in a different state for work and went to a club.

01:46:01.000 And 25 minutes later in my hotel, even morning after, too.

01:46:04.000 Goddamn.

01:46:04.000 Yeah, it's horrible, man.

01:46:05.000 Yeah.

01:46:12.000 All right, fair enough.

01:46:14.000 All right, fair enough.

01:46:15.000 All right.

01:46:22.000 All right.

01:46:23.000 Pride of Southside.

01:46:24.000 Man, I miss Fresh.

01:46:25.000 Okay.

01:46:27.000 DeVorey Darkins goes, the one thing I noticed these women who come onto the show is that they are absolutely ignorant of what men want and how we think. 1.00

01:46:33.000 The things we don't understand are the things we struggle with.

01:46:37.000 Anybody have anything to say back to that?

01:46:42.000 But...

01:46:42.000 Period.

01:46:43.000 Alright.

01:46:43.000 Period.

01:46:44.000 Okay, King.

01:46:50.000 Pray to whatever God you believe in because America is doomed.

01:46:52.000 Fair enough.

01:46:54.000 Meekly goes, there was a young lady on this show in the past that said she was here looking for a good time in MIA. What Myron's saying is fact.

01:47:01.000 If somebody could find that episode, that would be nice.

01:47:03.000 FNF. And that's all the time, bro.

01:47:05.000 When girl's coming on vacation. 1.00

01:47:06.000 My balls was hot, okay?

01:47:08.000 So I'm going to get Chris' soundboard.

01:47:09.000 He looks stressed without it.

01:47:12.000 We got here, Charlie954.

01:47:14.000 The wonderful ladies on the panel are simply fibbing because they are so thrilled to engage in some delightful whole activities in secrecy. 1.00

01:47:20.000 That's not what this trip is about.

01:47:23.000 Charlie954.

01:47:23.000 Period.

01:47:24.000 So what was the purpose of the trip?

01:47:25.000 My birthday.

01:47:25.000 Her birthday.

01:47:26.000 Cool.

01:47:26.000 There's just better restaurants and stuff in Miami than there is in Philly.

01:47:30.000 We just go on trips for each of our birthdays.

01:47:32.000 We don't do presents.

01:47:34.000 We get experiences.

01:47:35.000 It's all about the experience for us.

01:47:37.000 Experience?

01:47:37.000 Like what?

01:47:38.000 We go to new restaurants.

01:47:39.000 We go to Carbone.

01:47:40.000 We go to Mila.

01:47:41.000 Where was the new place that we just went?

01:47:43.000 Taking pictures.

01:47:44.000 New outfits.

01:47:45.000 Doing my hair different.

01:47:46.000 We're here because we're literally from Philly.

01:47:48.000 Oh my god.

01:47:48.000 Nobody wants to stay there.

01:47:49.000 This is a vacation to us.

01:47:51.000 There's a beach.

01:47:52.000 We like a vacation.

01:47:53.000 You want us to go hang out at Kensington Beach.

01:47:57.000 Sunshine.

01:47:58.000 The East Coast is so gloomy.

01:48:00.000 Yeah, exactly.

01:48:01.000 Alright, next thing.

01:48:04.000 Wait, wait, wait.

01:48:05.000 So if you tell me, right, if you met like a celebrity in a club, right?

01:48:09.000 You know, it's your birthday.

01:48:10.000 I come to the penthouse.

01:48:12.000 You know, I'm not the right person to ask.

01:48:17.000 I'm very scary.

01:48:18.000 I have so much anxiety.

01:48:20.000 That's not even my celebrity.

01:48:22.000 I'm going to be honest.

01:48:23.000 I'm not the right person to ask that question.

01:48:25.000 We were talking about that earlier.

01:48:26.000 What were we joking about?

01:48:27.000 We saw Drake.

01:48:28.000 We'd ask him real ass questions.

01:48:30.000 Drake!

01:48:33.000 I wouldn't think to be like, I want to go fuck Drake.

01:48:35.000 I'd be like, what do you do in your day to day?

01:48:37.000 Why are you here?

01:48:39.000 You know what?

01:48:40.000 You all three come to the penthouse, you know, have a good time.

01:48:43.000 So fuck them?

01:48:44.000 Like, I don't care.

01:48:45.000 No, no, no, no, no, no.

01:48:46.000 Like, he just said.

01:48:47.000 Like a friendly vibe.

01:48:48.000 Yeah, friendly vibe.

01:48:49.000 Drake, if it's Drake.

01:48:51.000 Drake?

01:48:51.000 I don't care about it.

01:48:52.000 If my girls could come with me.

01:48:54.000 Yeah, sure, sure.

01:48:56.000 They can come with you, all right?

01:48:57.000 Yeah.

01:48:58.000 Honestly, if it's the wrong vibe, I'm not going.

01:49:01.000 I don't care if you're Drake or the richest man in the world.

01:49:07.000 How old are you?

01:49:11.000 Are you 35?

01:49:12.000 Wait, I do want to know that.

01:49:16.000 Ladies, if I got kicked out of 109 different bars, am I the problem or the bars? 0.98

01:49:24.000 You're the problem.

01:49:25.000 I'm the problem?

01:49:26.000 You're the fucking problem.

01:49:27.000 Alright, we'll just end it there.

01:49:28.000 Let's keep going.

01:49:30.000 Benny, bio, CR, holy, these women are dumb. 1.00

01:49:33.000 Prove the world wrong and name three countries.

01:49:35.000 Alright, we can go around the table here.

01:49:37.000 America.

01:49:40.000 Name three countries.

01:49:45.000 You can't name Canada, the United States, or Mexico.

01:49:47.000 We'll start right here and then work our way.

01:49:49.000 Name three countries.

01:49:49.000 Go ahead.

01:49:50.000 I lied to you now, I'm not by name three countries for Benny Boy.

01:49:54.000 What?

01:49:54.000 It's a thing that we do a lot on the show.

01:49:56.000 So name three countries, go ahead.

01:49:58.000 I don't want to name three countries.

01:49:59.000 We can't repeat them too?

01:50:00.000 Oh yeah, you can't use what the person before you said.

01:50:03.000 Afghanistan.

01:50:04.000 Hold on, hold on.

01:50:04.000 We're starting here.

01:50:05.000 Go ahead, please.

01:50:06.000 Start.

01:50:06.000 You kick it off.

01:50:07.000 I don't want to do it.

01:50:09.000 What do you mean you don't want to do it?

01:50:09.000 I don't want to do it.

01:50:10.000 Like, I don't want to name three countries for Benny Blake.

01:50:12.000 He called me dumb.

01:50:14.000 I know, like, this would be me proving him wrong that I'm not dumb, but I don't.

01:50:17.000 But it's a segment that we run on this all the time, so it's not just...

01:50:20.000 Can they just do it?

01:50:20.000 I mean, you're on the podcast as a guest, so...

01:50:22.000 I understand that.

01:50:23.000 Just go ahead.

01:50:23.000 Name three countries.

01:50:26.000 Yeah, I can't.

01:50:27.000 Wow.

01:50:28.000 You really can't?

01:50:29.000 I just can't.

01:50:31.000 Alright.

01:50:32.000 What about you?

01:50:34.000 Russia, Finland, Argentina.

01:50:36.000 Cool.

01:50:37.000 What about you?

01:50:38.000 Thank you.

01:50:38.000 I'm gonna go with France.

01:50:41.000 I'm gonna go with Afghanistan. 1.00

01:50:42.000 And I'm gonna go with...

01:50:44.000 Let's go with...

01:50:48.000 What'd you say?

01:50:50.000 Argentina?

01:50:51.000 I'm gonna go to Chile.

01:50:53.000 Chile?

01:50:53.000 Yeah.

01:50:54.000 Okay.

01:50:55.000 These women are delusional check-in. 1.00

01:50:56.000 Blue has a reflective forehead.

01:50:58.000 Shit.

01:50:58.000 Alright, we'll read that back.

01:50:59.000 I'll read it.

01:51:00.000 Alright, what about you?

01:51:01.000 Mars, Saturn, and Uranus.

01:51:05.000 It's three countries, not three planets.

01:51:07.000 Oh, sorry.

01:51:10.000 Sorry.

01:51:10.000 Three countries, go ahead.

01:51:12.000 I don't know.

01:51:13.000 I mean, name one.

01:51:14.000 I don't know.

01:51:15.000 No idea, papi.

01:51:16.000 I don't know picky English.

01:51:17.000 Oh, papi.

01:51:18.000 Okay, so then...

01:51:19.000 No picky English.

01:51:21.000 I mean, name some Spanish countries.

01:51:23.000 Dígame tres países.

01:51:28.000 Yeah, can you name three countries, please?

01:51:32.000 I don't.

01:51:32.000 I don't know.

01:51:33.000 Try.

01:51:36.000 Two.

01:51:37.000 Wisconsin.

01:51:38.000 That's a state.

01:51:39.000 Wisconsin.

01:51:41.000 I'm totally doing this on purpose though.

01:51:44.000 I don't know.

01:51:45.000 And it goes to show you, a guy is willing to tattoo his name on your arm when you're this fucking dense.

01:51:52.000 I'm not picking English.

01:51:54.000 I'm so sorry.

01:51:54.000 What are you talking about?

01:51:55.000 I think I'm just like, why would I need to prove my intelligence to many boys CR? I mean, for the chat.

01:52:05.000 Do we make money off of this chat?

01:52:07.000 Will you tell us if we name three countries?

01:52:10.000 We do this every show we ask this question.

01:52:13.000 So, I mean, just please don't follow the stereotype and fail.

01:52:16.000 Just name three countries.

01:52:18.000 I'm part of the stereotype.

01:52:20.000 I'll probably fail.

01:52:22.000 Sorry.

01:52:23.000 Shout out to Wisconsin. 0.98

01:52:24.000 I apologize.

01:52:26.000 Go ahead.

01:52:27.000 I just say Stream Valley Latini.

01:52:29.000 What?

01:52:30.000 Stream Valley Latini.

01:52:32.000 What is that?

01:52:33.000 That's my Spotify.

01:52:35.000 Alright, look, ladies. 1.00

01:52:37.000 Let me make this perfectly clear.

01:52:39.000 You're here as a guest, okay?

01:52:41.000 This is an opportunity for you, not the other way around.

01:52:43.000 If we ask you a question, please respect the platform and answer the question.

01:52:47.000 We're simply asking you to name three countries.

01:52:49.000 Please name three countries.

01:52:50.000 Do you want three more?

01:52:52.000 Go ahead.

01:52:52.000 We'll start here and then we'll work our way back around.

01:52:54.000 Go ahead.

01:52:55.000 Fine.

01:52:56.000 Mexico.

01:52:57.000 We said you can't name Mexico.

01:52:59.000 Why?

01:53:00.000 I said at the beginning, Canada, US, and Mexico can't be named.

01:53:03.000 How about Italy?

01:53:06.000 Japan.

01:53:08.000 And Colombia.

01:53:09.000 Cool.

01:53:10.000 Alright, what about you?

01:53:11.000 Cuba, Peru.

01:53:13.000 You already said Colombia.

01:53:17.000 Let me see.

01:53:18.000 Asia?

01:53:19.000 Asia.

01:53:20.000 Facts.

01:53:20.000 Fantastic.

01:53:21.000 What's the capital of Asia?

01:53:22.000 Hey, hey, hey.

01:53:24.000 I don't know, sushi.

01:53:25.000 What was that?

01:53:26.000 I don't know, man.

01:53:28.000 I don't know.

01:53:29.000 I honestly don't know.

01:53:31.000 Alright, and then going back to you, Ms.

01:53:32.000 Philly.

01:53:32.000 I'm not a high-value woman, I'm so sorry.

01:53:36.000 I believe her.

01:53:47.000 And then Ms. 1.00

01:53:48.000 Philly, can you name three?

01:53:50.000 Ukraine.

01:53:51.000 Yep.

01:53:53.000 Argentina.

01:53:54.000 Someone named Argentina?

01:53:55.000 Yeah.

01:53:56.000 Someone said Argentina.

01:53:57.000 I don't remember what we all named.

01:53:59.000 It's fine.

01:54:00.000 We'll tell you if someone named it.

01:54:02.000 Is Iceland?

01:54:04.000 Okay.

01:54:08.000 I don't think I have a third, to be honest.

01:54:10.000 I mean, it's like 100.

01:54:11.000 There's 160 some.

01:54:13.000 You only got like 150 left.

01:54:16.000 I'm sorry.

01:54:16.000 I keep thinking what they're saying.

01:54:18.000 I mean, it's barely, what, six?

01:54:20.000 Sex?

01:54:21.000 No, six out of these four.

01:54:24.000 All right.

01:54:25.000 Okay.

01:54:27.000 That was...

01:54:27.000 Yeah, that's fine.

01:54:28.000 Okay.

01:54:31.000 Florida.

01:54:35.000 Department of Hoes Insecurities. 0.99

01:54:37.000 These delusional ladies are whack-mearing. 1.00

01:54:39.000 Tig old bitties doesn't understand that girly, innocent, sweet girl is who we want. 1.00

01:54:43.000 She's all about you.

01:54:45.000 Makes the best wife to accomplish the man. 1.00

01:54:47.000 Hoo-yah, Navy.

01:54:48.000 Okay.

01:54:48.000 What did I do?

01:54:51.000 All right, we're caught up.

01:54:52.000 We're on the rants.

01:54:54.000 And then...

01:54:55.000 Shout out to Simpin Ain't Pimpin' for $500.

01:54:58.000 Yeah, shout out to you, bro.

01:54:58.000 I appreciate that.

01:55:00.000 Thanks for that, my friend.

01:55:02.000 I appreciate that greatly.

01:55:04.000 He says, these women are delusional. 1.00

01:55:08.000 Chicken Blue has a reflective forehead and keeps licking her lips. 0.95

01:55:13.000 I digress.

01:55:15.000 Thanks for all the value y'all consistently bring.

01:55:17.000 Subscribe and like the FM video.

01:55:19.000 Do you have anything you want to say back to him?

01:55:20.000 Absolutely.

01:55:21.000 It's not reflective.

01:55:22.000 I just have the glow.

01:55:24.000 And no eyebrows.

01:55:26.000 Exactly.

01:55:27.000 And I'm totally fine with that.

01:55:28.000 No, it's fine.

01:55:29.000 I'm not offended.

01:55:30.000 No, it's fine.

01:55:30.000 It's saying no hair and it's porous.

01:55:33.000 She actually does have hair. 1.00

01:55:35.000 They're just blonde. 1.00

01:55:36.000 You can't see them because I bleached them.

01:55:38.000 But you can see them.

01:55:39.000 But she actually has eyebrows.

01:55:40.000 I have eyebrows.

01:55:41.000 I just choose to not have them.

01:55:44.000 Or not let them be seen.

01:55:47.000 You don't want people to know what your emotions are at the moment?

01:55:54.000 Um...

01:55:54.000 I just think it's a look.

01:56:01.000 I mean, that's what she likes.

01:56:03.000 Doja has, like, wet-ass shit going on. 1.00

01:56:07.000 It's a look, you know?

01:56:09.000 Before we were reading the chats, we were talking about monogamy, right?

01:56:16.000 You were talking about monogamy.

01:56:17.000 You were just telling me that I have no hope Because...

01:56:21.000 I'm gonna have to end up with some dork that doesn't fuck other bitches but me. 1.00

01:56:25.000 You're so young, but it's like your mindset is fucked up. 0.95

01:56:29.000 No, I just don't want somebody that fucks other girls, period. 1.00

01:56:31.000 That's it.

01:56:33.000 So what do you guys think?

01:56:35.000 Do you guys think some of us have hope?

01:56:38.000 You're also young.

01:56:39.000 No, she doesn't.

01:56:40.000 But, like, you four, you know, like, you know, and then you two, more or less.

01:56:44.000 Like, if you're so young, just as women. 0.95

01:56:47.000 Because, once again...

01:56:48.000 Why she doesn't, though?

01:56:49.000 Because of her age?

01:56:51.000 That's really mean, actually.

01:56:52.000 Because of her age or her mentality?

01:56:53.000 Because I feel like mentality can change.

01:56:55.000 It's both.

01:56:57.000 Don't you grow every day?

01:57:00.000 She's agreeing with me!

01:57:01.000 Why are you defending her and she's agreeing with me?

01:57:04.000 No, I'm not defending her.

01:57:04.000 I'm just asking a valid question.

01:57:06.000 She's 29 and her mindset is...

01:57:09.000 It's hard to say.

01:57:10.000 I've dated older women. 1.00

01:57:12.000 That's not older, honey.

01:57:14.000 30 is not old.

01:57:16.000 If not, then you're aging yourself.

01:57:21.000 Okay.

01:57:21.000 I've dated women who are, you know, 30, 40-plus, you know, hot girls, like Latinas, whatever, and I just, like, they're setting their ways.

01:57:31.000 And it's like, at the end of the day, your ovaries, you know, have a certain expiration date or whatnot, and guys see that shit, and say, alright, cool.

01:57:39.000 Can I build a future with a woman who's, like, setting her ways? 1.00

01:57:42.000 I feel like that's an insecure man.

01:57:44.000 Why?

01:57:45.000 Because if you can't handle a 30-year-old, then you clearly have some type of insecurity.

01:57:50.000 And you want a girl that's easily manipulated. 0.90

01:57:53.000 Let me ask you this.

01:57:55.000 What if you dated a guy that was working in front of 7-Eleven asking for change?

01:58:00.000 Would you date him?

01:58:01.000 Depends on if we vibe and if we click and we have the same perspective.

01:58:05.000 Would you actually date him and take him seriously?

01:58:07.000 I'm so sorry, baby.

01:58:08.000 You're not gonna do that.

01:58:09.000 You know, let's be realistic here.

01:58:12.000 A 7-Eleven guy?

01:58:13.000 Yeah, he's panhandling in front of a 7-Eleven.

01:58:15.000 He's panhandling in front of a 7-Eleven.

01:58:17.000 If he's a sweet fucking guy and he loves me and we vibe and he has Good relationship to me.

01:58:25.000 He's homeless.

01:58:27.000 I would date a man that I really fucking...

01:58:29.000 Alright, that's your opinion.

01:58:32.000 What you think.

01:58:33.000 And that's what you wouldn't do.

01:58:35.000 Stop the cow! 1.00

01:58:36.000 I wouldn't date a homeless man.

01:58:38.000 But what if he's not homeless?

01:58:41.000 But you're going to date a homeless woman. 0.98

01:58:42.000 She's just arguing to argue. 0.52

01:58:44.000 The reality is she wouldn't date him.

01:58:46.000 Didn't you say earlier that you would reject 95% plus of men that talked to you?

01:58:49.000 No, I didn't say that.

01:58:50.000 It was society.

01:58:51.000 No, no, no.

01:58:52.000 I asked her, do you reject most men that come up to you?

01:58:54.000 And she literally said yes.

01:58:55.000 She said yes.

01:58:55.000 And I said like over 90%.

01:58:56.000 And I remember asking her specifically that.

01:58:58.000 So realistically speaking, that guy's probably going to get rejected too.

01:59:01.000 Would it be fair for me to call you insecure for wanting to date a guy that has a shit together?

01:59:08.000 I don't know.

01:59:09.000 That's your preference, right?

01:59:11.000 I just think, again, preference is all about...

01:59:15.000 Preference is all about chemistry.

01:59:19.000 I mean, in this society, do you have to be self-sufficient as a man?

01:59:28.000 At the top of the show, you quite literally said you wanted a guy that's traditional that could take care of you and provision for you.

01:59:33.000 Correct.

01:59:34.000 Yes or no?

01:59:35.000 I said most women want. 1.00

01:59:37.000 You did.

01:59:38.000 And you said it yourself that that's what you want.

01:59:40.000 As a matter of fact, take it a step further, you said you'd be okay with that guy even having other women if he took care of you.

01:59:45.000 Totally.

01:59:46.000 If the vibe is right, but if the guy's a total douche and I don't like him...

01:59:50.000 The vibe being right is contingent upon him making money and taking care of you.

01:59:53.000 So let's call a spade a spade.

01:59:54.000 Yeah, but if I hate the guy and I don't enjoy his company, then I wouldn't date him.

01:59:58.000 The point I'm trying to make is that you're saying he's insecure for wanting a younger woman, but if I went ahead and said you're insecure for wanting a guy that has his money together, wouldn't that be ridiculous for me to say that's insecure for you to want a guy that makes money?

02:00:10.000 Well, I've dated all type of men.

02:00:12.000 Men who have no money and men who have a lot of money.

02:00:16.000 So, I don't think it has nothing to do with finances at the end of the day.

02:00:21.000 Sure, would I ideally like a man that has shit together?

02:00:23.000 I think most women, most people would like to date somebody with their shit together. 1.00

02:00:27.000 See, the difference here is that what he wants is considered discrimination, what you want is considered preferences.

02:00:31.000 Do you not see the disconnect here?

02:00:33.000 But what do you want, exactly?

02:00:35.000 He just said it.

02:00:36.000 Innocence?

02:00:37.000 Men typically want younger women, and then you said that's insecure.

02:00:39.000 But if I turn around and said, you want a guy that makes more money than you, you're insecure, you'd look at me like I'm crazy, because that's just a preference.

02:00:44.000 But if I said that I want a guy who's younger than me, is that not weird?

02:00:47.000 I mean...

02:00:48.000 Well, it would be strange because most women don't want that. 1.00

02:00:50.000 No.

02:00:51.000 So why...

02:00:51.000 But you're saying that guys want...

02:00:53.000 Like, you're making it about finance versus age.

02:00:56.000 That's not a similar comparison.

02:00:57.000 Because the two genders... 1.00

02:00:58.000 So here's the thing.

02:00:59.000 You've got to understand.

02:01:00.000 Men and women want different things, correct? 0.56

02:01:02.000 Mm-hmm.

02:01:02.000 So therefore, what men want isn't necessarily what women want, correct?

02:01:06.000 So I have to get functional equivalents.

02:01:08.000 But that's not really equivalent, don't you think?

02:01:10.000 Money?

02:01:10.000 How much money you make versus age?

02:01:12.000 Yes.

02:01:13.000 I want somebody who is self-sufficient.

02:01:14.000 You're right.

02:01:15.000 Yes.

02:01:16.000 But how do you become self-sufficient?

02:01:17.000 Experience, age, time, right?

02:01:20.000 Yep.

02:01:20.000 It takes time to...

02:01:21.000 The things that make a man attractive take time to acquire.

02:01:23.000 Yeah.

02:01:24.000 The things that make a woman attractive don't take time to acquire. 0.97

02:01:26.000 It's but it's like it's so limiting because you're saying that it's my age It's something I can't control versus you can go out and you can make more money You can get your ass up and you can work.

02:01:35.000 Yeah, but that requires work.

02:01:36.000 Yeah, you're right you work But I can't change time like I can't be like I'm gonna stop aging because men prefer me younger Oh, no, but didn't we say that before that women have a finite amount of time to find a guy, right?

02:01:47.000 So what about a woman who's ugly? 1.00

02:01:48.000 So at some point Even a woman that's below average can still get a guy three to four points above her. 0.96

02:02:01.000 It's easier for women to be attractive. 1.00

02:02:05.000 Makeup does wonders.

02:02:06.000 Slow Wednesdays.

02:02:08.000 You know, if you're a girl, slow Wednesdays, we still fuck. 1.00

02:02:11.000 Yeah, but you were saying something?

02:02:13.000 What was that?

02:02:14.000 That's all I was saying is that you can't say...

02:02:16.000 I mean, you're trying to make the point that men and women want different things, but I feel like it's not fair to compare the fact that men want somebody that's younger versus women that want somebody that make more money.

02:02:26.000 Does that make sense?

02:02:27.000 It's absolutely fair because it's the functional equivalent.

02:02:29.000 Men value youth, beauty, chastity, right?

02:02:34.000 Women value success, competence and status. 0.79

02:02:36.000 Stuff that is in your control.

02:02:39.000 Okay.

02:02:39.000 Who can make more money?

02:02:40.000 We can't change our...

02:02:42.000 But, but, you get your value up front.

02:02:46.000 With my age?

02:02:47.000 Like, I have to start again and it all sounds valuable.

02:02:50.000 Okay.

02:02:51.000 As soon as a girl turns 18 and she's attractive, she's effectively won the lottery. 0.99

02:02:55.000 She gets a million dollars given to her. 0.88

02:02:57.000 It's up to her how she spends that money. 1.00

02:02:59.000 The man, however, has to earn that million dollars.

02:03:01.000 From an analogy standpoint.

02:03:03.000 So at least you get it up front and you're able to spend it the way that you want.

02:03:06.000 Men have to work to make that money and there's no guarantee they'll get it. 1.00

02:03:08.000 At least as a female, you're guaranteed that upfront lump sum and it's up to you how you want to spend it. 1.00

02:03:13.000 Actually, take it to the candy shop.

02:03:15.000 This is what I mean when I say women live life on easy mode because you guys get your value up front. 1.00

02:03:19.000 Men have to earn their value. 0.97

02:03:20.000 I just feel like women have different struggles than men.

02:03:23.000 You know, like, we all struggle differently.

02:03:26.000 You have to struggle to prove yourself and be successful.

02:03:29.000 Women have to struggle with different things that most men won't understand. 0.56

02:03:33.000 Yo, what's violent, man?

02:03:35.000 Look, man, in 2023, the female experience is way easier than the male experience.

02:03:39.000 That's not even a question.

02:03:40.000 Name one right or privilege that men have that women don't. 0.67

02:03:44.000 Besides being able to have sex with a bunch of people and not be judged.

02:03:47.000 Not getting pregnant?

02:03:49.000 But you choose that, though.

02:03:51.000 Better salaries?

02:03:53.000 The reason why men make more is because men deserve to make more a lot of the times.

02:03:58.000 Women earn less because they deserve less in a lot of situations, but that's a whole other conversation. 1.00

02:04:03.000 Let's have that conversation.

02:04:04.000 Why do women deserve less? 1.00

02:04:06.000 From a payment standpoint?

02:04:07.000 Because that's the name of your book, right?

02:04:09.000 Yeah.

02:04:10.000 So let's talk about that.

02:04:12.000 There's a multitude of reasons why women earn less money than money. 1.00

02:04:14.000 So can you name some?

02:04:16.000 Before we go into that, what was the...

02:04:19.000 Someone was saying something here about...

02:04:21.000 Shit.

02:04:24.000 What, Chris?

02:04:24.000 What's going on?

02:04:25.000 No, no, no.

02:04:26.000 Someone had something here about...

02:04:27.000 I want to make sure that everyone gets their point before I go into this, because that's all of the topic.

02:04:31.000 I think we're good.

02:04:32.000 I don't know.

02:04:32.000 Less?

02:04:33.000 Earn less?

02:04:34.000 Okay.

02:04:35.000 I said that, yeah.

02:04:36.000 Well, that's the topic.

02:04:36.000 Yeah, you said that what...

02:04:39.000 Okay, something better that...

02:04:42.000 Oh, yeah, yeah.

02:04:43.000 Women earn less because they deserve less from a financial standpoint? 1.00

02:04:45.000 Yeah.

02:04:46.000 But before I go into that, because that's a whole thing, was there something else that someone was trying to say?

02:04:49.000 I could have sworn I heard a voice here.

02:04:51.000 Okay.

02:04:52.000 Yeah, there's a bunch of reasons why women earn less money than men. 1.00

02:04:55.000 A lot of it is choice, not necessarily biology.

02:04:57.000 You said outside of finance, though, that women generally deserve less? 1.00

02:05:00.000 Yeah, why do women deserve less? 1.00

02:05:02.000 I would like to hear your opinion.

02:05:03.000 Well, she brought up the finances, and I said women make less because they generally deserve less. 1.00

02:05:08.000 But isn't that the name of your book?

02:05:11.000 Yes, but there's a bunch of reasons for that title.

02:05:14.000 But when it comes to why women earn less money than men, there's a very sound logic and reason behind why women earn less than men in general. 0.99

02:05:26.000 And what is one of them?

02:05:27.000 Wait, sorry.

02:05:28.000 What?

02:05:44.000 The reason why women earn less money than men is because women typically work less hours, they take more vacation, they go into jobs that don't necessarily pay as much, they're more interested in being involved in social work versus being in STEM, science, technology, engineering, and math. 0.60

02:05:57.000 But that's just a choice that doesn't have anything to do with deserving.

02:06:02.000 Thank you for proving my point.

02:06:04.000 But you said we deserve less.

02:06:06.000 Because they make choices that earn them less.

02:06:10.000 Outside of earning, sorry, because you're right, women do get paid less, whatever, but outside of finances, you said generally... 0.99

02:06:16.000 But I want to be clear that the reason why women earn less isn't because of their gender. 1.00

02:06:19.000 They earn less because of personal choices.

02:06:21.000 Sure.

02:06:21.000 Okay.

02:06:22.000 Again, outside of finances, you said women generally deserve less. 1.00

02:06:27.000 Why?

02:06:30.000 Well, if a woman is given everything just because she exists, right? 1.00

02:06:35.000 She's given attention, time, resources, you know, guys hitting her up, etc.

02:06:40.000 The only way that you're going to stand out as a man is that you can't put her on a pedestal.

02:06:43.000 You think that's what I thrive off of is attention?

02:06:45.000 But basically you're saying women deserve more. 0.94

02:06:47.000 I'm not talking about you in particular.

02:06:48.000 I'm talking about women in general. 1.00

02:06:50.000 I can only speak for myself.

02:06:51.000 I'm sorry.

02:06:51.000 Somebody else can chime in.

02:06:52.000 But based on what you said that women's lives are easier, you're telling me that in society actually women are... 1.00

02:06:58.000 Getting more and deserving of more.

02:07:01.000 But your book says women deserve less. 1.00

02:07:03.000 So that kind of contradicts a little bit.

02:07:06.000 And I'm a little confused by your statement where you say, oh, women have an easier. 0.99

02:07:12.000 Yes, they do.

02:07:14.000 Right.

02:07:15.000 So isn't that naturally that they're already automatically deserving more?

02:07:21.000 And if you don't believe me, name one right or privilege that men have that women don't. 0.85

02:07:25.000 I don't disagree with you.

02:07:26.000 Okay, so then what are you arguing?

02:07:27.000 I'm just saying that you're saying women deserve less, but then you're saying that women get more.

02:07:35.000 They do.

02:07:36.000 So, to me, that doesn't make a lot of sense.

02:07:39.000 But they don't earn it a lot of the times.

02:07:40.000 Yeah.

02:07:40.000 But that means we deserve more, even if we don't have to earn anything.

02:07:44.000 Because we don't have to work that much.

02:07:47.000 Okay.

02:07:48.000 Therefore, we already have that birthright of deserving more.

02:07:55.000 You know, we were born into privilege.

02:07:58.000 No, no, no, no.

02:08:01.000 Leave me out of here. 0.61

02:08:03.000 No, I can't team up against her.

02:08:07.000 She's a girl, so...

02:08:09.000 Everyone has their opinions, you know.

02:08:13.000 But I'm not gonna say...

02:08:14.000 We definitely said that we were gonna have our own opinions on this show.

02:08:17.000 We all have our own opinions.

02:08:19.000 So, do you four...

02:08:21.000 Agree with her.

02:08:21.000 There was a lot.

02:08:22.000 Don't be pinning anybody against nobody.

02:08:24.000 I don't mind if people disagree with me.

02:08:27.000 This person may point that we're all different and we all think differently.

02:08:31.000 Yeah, but women have the privilege of being dumb and no one really cares. 1.00

02:08:35.000 I disagree.

02:08:36.000 Women are not dumb. 1.00

02:08:37.000 You just literally made a dumb statement just now.

02:08:38.000 More women are in college than men right now. 1.00

02:08:41.000 And you will not have an issue finding a date even though you've proven throughout the course of this podcast.

02:08:44.000 Maybe I don't want to find a date.

02:08:46.000 Maybe I'm fulfilled with my self-actualization.

02:08:48.000 That's my point.

02:08:49.000 You have the privilege of being able to not be competent but still find a mate versus men don't have that privilege.

02:08:55.000 That's my point.

02:08:56.000 Okay, so if I have that privilege, I'm born into that privilege just because I have a vagina, you know? 1.00

02:09:05.000 Men will overlook your lack of knowledge and intelligence because you're a female. 1.00

02:09:15.000 So therefore I deserve more just because I'm a female.

02:09:18.000 No, you deserve less.

02:09:20.000 No, I deserve more because women are dumb, according to you, but men still give us whatever we want. 1.00

02:09:28.000 Yeah, but who are you going to respect more?

02:09:30.000 The guy that you have to earn affection from or the guy that just gives it to you?

02:09:34.000 Um, the guy who just gives it to me.

02:09:37.000 Okay.

02:09:39.000 Fantastic.

02:09:42.000 I don't agree with your point because I respect a guy that takes their time to actually show their true colors because if you're gonna be that easy with me, so you're probably treating me like you treat everybody else.

02:09:58.000 Someone's thinking.

02:09:59.000 I mean, but she's actually claimed the guy who actually had her name Ted on.

02:10:05.000 No, but why are you pinning that against me when I'm actually making a valid point?

02:10:08.000 You know, I didn't put a girl to the side and be like, talk to my name.

02:10:12.000 No, but what I'm saying is, you're saying one thing, but then you're doing the next thing.

02:10:16.000 You know what I'm saying?

02:10:17.000 So it's like, girls are like, yeah, yeah.

02:10:20.000 And all of a sudden, I see the same girls.

02:10:22.000 I gave her three months, she'll be done with it. 0.98

02:10:23.000 Yeah, yeah, three months.

02:10:24.000 I mean, but I'm not saying I'm going to break up with her.

02:10:25.000 I'm saying I appreciate it when a guy takes their time.

02:10:30.000 I know you do.

02:10:32.000 I give it three hours.

02:10:35.000 That's better than most.

02:10:36.000 Girls appreciate the nice gesture, but for how long though? 0.98

02:10:41.000 How long were you dating?

02:10:43.000 How long God tells our time is up.

02:10:49.000 As soon as he got that tattoo of her, that dude was on borrowed time, bro.

02:10:52.000 No, he's not!

02:10:55.000 When he got her name tatted on his arm, she dried up.

02:11:01.000 Then you were like, oh shit.

02:11:03.000 Actually, no.

02:11:04.000 That shit went...

02:11:05.000 Stop the cow. 1.00

02:11:09.000 Alright.

02:11:10.000 Someone else had something?

02:11:13.000 I don't think so.

02:11:14.000 Oh, okay.

02:11:16.000 Okay, so we'll go back to this situation here.

02:11:19.000 Where we at here?

02:11:20.000 Rumble their hands?

02:11:21.000 Okay.

02:11:22.000 Myron, I gotta know.

02:11:22.000 Did Tim Pool smoke you in poker?

02:11:24.000 Yes, he did.

02:11:25.000 I don't know how to play poker, man.

02:11:28.000 And then Magic Mike goes, these conversations consistently prove an epiphany I had about the truth.

02:11:32.000 Not your, my, or someone else's truth.

02:11:34.000 If you punish the truth, you're asking to be lied to.

02:11:36.000 Uncomfortable truth, MM. Shout out to you, bro.

02:11:38.000 Yeah, I mean, I think...

02:11:41.000 You know, some of these concepts haven't been explained to women, which is why they have an issue with them. 1.00

02:11:46.000 Like, for example, you said you want a high-value guy, but you wanted to be monogamous to you.

02:11:49.000 Well, that's just not realistic.

02:11:51.000 Ever?

02:11:52.000 Never, ever?

02:11:52.000 Like, you're just genuinely telling me I have no hope.

02:11:54.000 I'm not saying never, ever.

02:11:55.000 I do agree with that.

02:11:56.000 What I am saying is that men don't bust their ass to become successful and make money to only have sex with you.

02:12:03.000 Yeah, I mean, if you want to date a guy who's average, you know?

02:12:07.000 You know what?

02:12:08.000 He's average.

02:12:08.000 He makes, like, what?

02:12:10.000 50k a year?

02:12:11.000 It's simple.

02:12:12.000 We talked about supply and demand.

02:12:13.000 If there's not enough of these guys to go around and all the women want them, do you really think he's only going to hook up with you?

02:12:19.000 It's just not something I would budge on.

02:12:21.000 It doesn't matter.

02:12:22.000 Then you're gone.

02:12:23.000 Then that's your friend here.

02:12:24.000 Then it's her.

02:12:25.000 That's fine.

02:12:26.000 I mean, if you want monogamy, were you willing to drop your standards a bit then?

02:12:30.000 Yeah, just do it.

02:12:31.000 Drop my standards?

02:12:32.000 Yeah.

02:12:32.000 That is my standards.

02:12:33.000 Is that I wouldn't want a guy who's hooking up with other people.

02:12:36.000 That's what I'm saying.

02:12:36.000 So would you be okay with getting a loyal guy?

02:12:38.000 Would I drop that specific?

02:12:40.000 No.

02:12:41.000 Like, I would...

02:12:41.000 It would have to be...

02:12:42.000 Mind, uh...

02:12:43.000 You're saying that it's not super...

02:12:47.000 Like, you just said it yourself that it's not unheard of or impossible.

02:12:49.000 It's just...

02:12:50.000 It's rare.

02:12:51.000 But it's possible.

02:12:53.000 If I told you to jump out of a plane and you got a less than 1% chance that your parachute is going to deploy, would you jump out of the plane?

02:13:00.000 You're saying that my chance of finding a guy who is loyal to me and me only...

02:13:04.000 And a high earner.

02:13:05.000 High earner?

02:13:07.000 What's high earner?

02:13:08.000 He's making like...

02:13:10.000 Six figures a month?

02:13:11.000 What's your high earner?

02:13:13.000 If he's making six figures a month, he's definitely gonna fuck other girls. 0.54

02:13:16.000 I would want it to be financially comfortable.

02:13:20.000 So it can be a little over six figures a year.

02:13:23.000 Pump the calculator!

02:13:25.000 It doesn't have to be a millionaire billionaire, but it's like...

02:13:30.000 We're gonna pull up a calculator for you.

02:13:34.000 We actually went ahead and did the work for you.

02:13:36.000 So we're gonna find out your chances of finding this dream guy.

02:13:39.000 On our show right now.

02:13:41.000 We got a...

02:13:42.000 We got a build-a-man calculator.

02:13:46.000 Well, according to you, I have no chances.

02:13:48.000 I know.

02:13:49.000 No, it's very slim.

02:13:49.000 No chance.

02:13:50.000 That's what you got.

02:13:52.000 That's what you said.

02:13:53.000 You know what?

02:13:54.000 I'm not too offended.

02:13:56.000 You got a couple things going against you.

02:13:58.000 I know.

02:13:58.000 That's why you go sport.

02:13:59.000 That's fine.

02:14:01.000 You can have your opinion.

02:14:02.000 I'll have mine.

02:14:08.000 Give me a second.

02:14:10.000 You guys don't have it?

02:14:11.000 Not yet.

02:14:11.000 No, it's top right.

02:14:13.000 Chris has it saved.

02:14:14.000 Yeah, it's saved.

02:14:14.000 Top right.

02:14:15.000 The link is saved.

02:14:16.000 The new one?

02:14:17.000 Yeah.

02:14:19.000 The final new one is fine.

02:14:20.000 Yeah, we got a calculator here.

02:14:22.000 Basically, we're going to put in the guy's height, income.

02:14:24.000 Well, actually, you know what?

02:14:24.000 How much money has he got to make a year for you, bare minimum?

02:14:28.000 I'd say 200.

02:14:30.000 All right.

02:14:31.000 Height.

02:14:33.000 How much money?

02:14:34.000 200k.

02:14:34.000 200.

02:14:35.000 Height?

02:14:36.000 I like this question.

02:14:37.000 Wait, is this a new one?

02:14:38.000 Build a man! 0.99

02:14:40.000 Is this a website?

02:14:43.000 I like this.

02:14:43.000 What's this link?

02:14:44.000 Can I use it?

02:14:50.000 200k.

02:14:50.000 How much?

02:14:51.000 Sorry, height?

02:14:51.000 6 feet.

02:14:52.000 Okay.

02:14:53.000 Race?

02:14:55.000 Black? 0.74

02:14:56.000 I don't really have a preference.

02:14:57.000 No preference?

02:14:58.000 Would you date Asian? 0.99

02:14:59.000 Asian?

02:14:59.000 Maybe not.

02:15:00.000 Okay, so maybe I might have a preference.

02:15:01.000 Okay, so not Asian. 0.89

02:15:02.000 Alright, well, Indian? 1.00

02:15:04.000 No.

02:15:04.000 Okay, so either black or white or Hispanic?

02:15:06.000 Sure.

02:15:07.000 Okay.

02:15:09.000 Education level?

02:15:11.000 I would rather, yeah, more like higher education, so college.

02:15:14.000 What's the bare minimum you would accept?

02:15:15.000 Master's?

02:15:16.000 College, like a BA, yeah.

02:15:18.000 A BA? Bachelor's, yeah.

02:15:22.000 Okay.

02:15:22.000 Do you care if he rents or owns?

02:15:25.000 I would prefer...

02:15:29.000 I mean, with that salary, I prefer own.

02:15:32.000 Okay.

02:15:32.000 What's the bare minimum age range?

02:15:35.000 Minimum.

02:15:35.000 Minimum to oldest.

02:15:38.000 Oldest would probably be...

02:15:40.000 I don't know.

02:15:43.000 Minimum would have to be somebody who's maybe like 25, 24.

02:15:46.000 25 to what?

02:15:47.000 25 to 35.

02:15:49.000 Okay.

02:15:50.000 Alright, so here it is right here.

02:15:52.000 Can you enlarge the screen on our end, guys?

02:15:54.000 Okay, so we're going to go ahead.

02:15:56.000 So age, guys, is 22 to 35.

02:16:00.000 Okay.

02:16:01.000 22 to 35.

02:16:02.000 Oh, 22.

02:16:03.000 No, I'm sorry, 25 to 35.

02:16:05.000 I'm sorry, 25 to 35.

02:16:06.000 Minimum height is 6 feet.

02:16:08.000 Races check off white, black, and Hispanic.

02:16:10.000 Wait, where do you get all this data from?

02:16:11.000 I'm going to tell you here in a second.

02:16:13.000 And then education is bare minimum bachelor's degree.

02:16:17.000 And then income is $200,000.

02:16:21.000 And then, do you care if he's married or not?

02:16:24.000 No, yeah.

02:16:25.000 Okay, so exclude married men.

02:16:26.000 And then, do you care if he's obese?

02:16:28.000 Yeah.

02:16:29.000 He can't be obese.

02:16:29.000 No.

02:16:30.000 Okay, so exclude both.

02:16:31.000 So, just before we get into this, this comes from the National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey and the U.S. Census Bureau.

02:16:38.000 Does it come too far?

02:16:39.000 Make it 150.

02:16:42.000 Okay, 150.

02:16:43.000 And ladies, this is the most accurate assessment of men in the United States because it's based off of census data and the National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey.

02:16:51.000 This is fun.

02:16:52.000 So this is going to give you the most accurate assessment of men in states.

02:16:55.000 So let's go ahead and see how common this guy is.

02:16:58.000 He's going to be like, two guys.

02:17:02.000 Where's the Addy of him?

02:17:05.000 Alright, so she scored a perfect...

02:17:08.000 So, less than 1% of men meet this criteria.

02:17:20.000 So, realistically speaking...

02:17:23.000 If you find this guy, do you think he's really going to be monogamous to just you?

02:17:27.000 Now that you know the raw numbers?

02:17:29.000 Yeah.

02:17:29.000 Well, can you do this the other way around?

02:17:31.000 Like, well, whatever.

02:17:32.000 Sure, yeah.

02:17:34.000 Okay, if we did it the other way around, let me guess.

02:17:36.000 You would name your age and how much money you make and stuff?

02:17:38.000 Yeah, like, if you ask, like, a guy to do this for girls, like, is that possible?

02:17:41.000 Like, you two guys have, like, a...

02:17:42.000 Well, I guess you don't care how much money she makes, apparently. 1.00

02:17:44.000 She could be homeless. 0.87

02:17:45.000 And a guy that makes that kind of money...

02:17:46.000 Well, here's the thing.

02:17:47.000 A guy that makes that kind of money is going to care even less about how much money you make.

02:17:50.000 Okay.

02:17:51.000 But I feel like I wouldn't be able, but again, now I'm going back to myself, but I feel like that's forbidden here.

02:17:57.000 I feel like I would have to work no matter what the guy makes.

02:18:01.000 Does that make sense?

02:18:02.000 For my own sanity, just to be able to do what I like, what I care about, I would rather have my job than he has his.

02:18:08.000 But you still want him to be the predominant breadwinner and pay the majority of the bills, correct?

02:18:12.000 But I also wouldn't mind in that situation to come home and cook and clean and take care of the kids.

02:18:16.000 If he provides more than I do, necessarily financially, I'd be able to compensate in other ways.

02:18:21.000 Okay, so you still expect him to be the predominant breadwinner.

02:18:23.000 You still want to be in the workforce, but you're not the predominant breadwinner.

02:18:26.000 Yeah.

02:18:26.000 Okay, so...

02:18:28.000 So you're telling me that if I want that, that's impossible?

02:18:31.000 I only have a...

02:18:31.000 No, I'm not saying that.

02:18:32.000 It just proves my point that the more money a man makes, the less he cares about how much money you make, because men understand fundamentally that they're going to be expected to be the primary breadwinner.

02:18:41.000 Yeah.

02:18:41.000 But it's not about how much money...

02:18:42.000 Like, you're saying...

02:18:43.000 Hold on.

02:18:44.000 I mean, his money is our money, and then your money is your money.

02:18:49.000 So it would be separate?

02:18:50.000 No.

02:18:51.000 Is that what you're saying?

02:18:51.000 No.

02:18:52.000 No, he would still be the one providing for everything.

02:18:54.000 Yeah.

02:18:55.000 Yes.

02:18:56.000 Okay.

02:18:56.000 The reason why men don't care about how much money a girl makes is because you said, oh, well, let's reverse it.

02:19:00.000 Let's put my stats in.

02:19:01.000 Well, it's irrelevant because men don't care about your money. 1.00

02:19:04.000 Right.

02:19:04.000 I said that.

02:19:05.000 I said, never mind.

02:19:06.000 I backtracked.

02:19:07.000 I was like, never mind because they could be homeless.

02:19:08.000 The things that you're mentioning, they're all masculine traits.

02:19:11.000 I make money.

02:19:12.000 I'm a go-getter.

02:19:12.000 Blah, blah, blah.

02:19:13.000 Fantastic.

02:19:14.000 Men don't care. 1.00

02:19:14.000 What if I told you I had an extensive wallet collection? 1.00

02:19:16.000 Would you care?

02:19:17.000 Wallet collection?

02:19:18.000 Yeah.

02:19:19.000 Gucci.

02:19:20.000 Louis Vuitton.

02:19:21.000 Louis.

02:19:21.000 I got a bunch of Jordans that are rare.

02:19:22.000 Would you care?

02:19:23.000 Not really.

02:19:24.000 Fantastic.

02:19:25.000 That's how men feel about your career and money.

02:19:27.000 But I don't do my career money for men.

02:19:29.000 I work for myself.

02:19:30.000 Exactly.

02:19:31.000 I don't get the wallets and Jordans for women. 1.00

02:19:32.000 I do it for myself.

02:19:33.000 Okay, right.

02:19:34.000 And that's fine.

02:19:34.000 I'm not sure what the point is.

02:19:36.000 That's fine for you to have those wallets.

02:19:37.000 Remember how I talked about functional equivalents?

02:19:39.000 A woman that has a career is a functional equivalent of a guy that's really into fashion. 1.00

02:19:42.000 Your money doesn't benefit me.

02:19:44.000 My fashion doesn't benefit you.

02:19:45.000 So you don't care.

02:19:46.000 Again, but we don't do it for each other.

02:19:47.000 You don't get all your wallets and your Jordans for women. 1.00

02:19:49.000 Same way I don't go to work for you.

02:19:51.000 Yeah, but you're trying to use it as a metric of why men should be attracted to you.

02:19:56.000 My money?

02:19:57.000 Yeah, you quite literally said, could we reverse it on the female side? 0.95

02:19:59.000 And I was like, well...

02:20:00.000 No, I literally said, never mind, because it doesn't matter how much women make. 1.00

02:20:03.000 Did I not say that?

02:20:04.000 You're learning, finally.

02:20:05.000 Thank God.

02:20:06.000 Look at me, I've been harassing something, guys.

02:20:09.000 Are you ready to lower your standards now that you realize that you scored a perfect 5 out of 5 catbacks?

02:20:14.000 Absolutely not.

02:20:14.000 Yeah, hell no.

02:20:15.000 No, definitely not.

02:20:16.000 No shot.

02:20:17.000 It's not something I could budge on.

02:20:19.000 Personally, I just wouldn't want somebody who's sleeping with other women. 1.00

02:20:22.000 Even out of a sanitary thing, too.

02:20:24.000 Why are you fucking other women? 1.00

02:20:26.000 I don't know.

02:20:27.000 You hear crazy stories.

02:20:29.000 I don't know.

02:20:31.000 We hear crazy stories, but why are you still traveling on girls' night trips? 1.00

02:20:36.000 We just already answered that.

02:20:38.000 We go on trips for ourselves.

02:20:40.000 We leave our city.

02:20:42.000 Let me ask you this.

02:20:43.000 If you actually met this guy, would you still go on girls' trips and stuff, too?

02:20:46.000 If I met the guy?

02:20:47.000 If you actually found this guy, would you go on girls' trips and everything else?

02:20:49.000 And I honestly will tell you, too.

02:20:50.000 You said yes?

02:20:51.000 Yes.

02:20:52.000 We would go on our girls' trip.

02:20:53.000 I run the guy to take care of the girls' trip. 0.97

02:20:55.000 Hold on.

02:20:56.000 We told you.

02:20:57.000 No, got it.

02:21:01.000 Because we explained to you what the purpose of our girl trip was.

02:21:04.000 I told you how we were at the clubs.

02:21:06.000 I told you what we did on our trip.

02:21:08.000 I told you we went to all these restaurants.

02:21:09.000 You can tell me whatever you want to tell me, right?

02:21:12.000 I'm this, but it only takes 20 minutes for you to get piped down someplace else.

02:21:18.000 I've seen it before in the clubs.

02:21:19.000 But I'm telling you that's not what I'm doing.

02:21:22.000 No, but not you.

02:21:23.000 But he's asking if I dated this less than 1% guy, would I still go on these trips?

02:21:28.000 He's going to want a lot in return.

02:21:31.000 I think that's fine.

02:21:33.000 That's what I'm saying.

02:21:33.000 If you provide for me, I'll provide back.

02:21:36.000 Provide what back?

02:21:37.000 In the beginning, we have different needs.

02:21:41.000 If you give me what I need, which is my girls' trip, my alone time, my job, my this, my that, you're providing for the house, you're doing this, I will give you back what you want.

02:21:50.000 Let me ask you this.

02:21:51.000 Do you think you're in a position to negotiate with a man of that caliber?

02:21:53.000 You think I'm not in a position to negotiate?

02:21:56.000 Yeah, you're not.

02:21:56.000 You don't think it's a negotiation?

02:21:57.000 No.

02:21:57.000 You don't think I can say, this is what I expect out of my relationship with you?

02:22:00.000 This is what women don't understand. 1.00

02:22:01.000 Yeah.

02:22:01.000 As you go up the tonal pole of men, you have less and less leverage of what you can dictate.

02:22:06.000 Yeah, you don't.

02:22:07.000 You're genuinely telling me I have no hope in a relationship right now.

02:22:10.000 No.

02:22:10.000 It's less than 1%.

02:22:11.000 I can't negotiate in my boundaries.

02:22:13.000 What I'm telling you is that as you go up the tonal pole of men, you have less and less leverage to try to negotiate with him.

02:22:17.000 It's my way or the highway.

02:22:19.000 Guys that are successful like that, they have a very A-type personality, they're not going to sit there and negotiate with you.

02:22:23.000 It's like, oh, you want to go on a girl's trip when we're in a committed relationship?

02:22:27.000 Cool!

02:22:28.000 There's another girl that will sit her ass at home and not go out there and do that because, unfortunately, even though you might not go to the club and fuck guys, That's not necessarily wifey behavior. 1.00

02:22:37.000 Yeah, it's not.

02:22:38.000 Don't you think it comes down to the guy trusting me enough to be like, I know she's not going to get fucked by some guy. 0.88

02:22:42.000 He could trust you to be a woman, which is emotionally erratic, heavily dictated by what your friends do, potentially susceptible to alcohol, and they're not going to like that.

02:22:49.000 And they're also going to know that there's going to be a bunch of dudes trying to fuck you at the club, and he doesn't want that. 0.98

02:22:53.000 It happens, sure, but we were drinking, we were smoking, we were at the clubs, not once that I think, ooh, I should be fucking this random guy.

02:22:58.000 It happens, true?

02:23:00.000 So you were drinking, you were smoking, We were at the club, and not once did I think, I'm gonna fuck this random guy who's gonna approach me next.

02:23:06.000 Not you, but most girls do that shit. 1.00

02:23:08.000 You're saying, you're going back to my hypothetical scenario.

02:23:10.000 You can't say no, because you're talking about every single woman.

02:23:15.000 Are you girls men here? 0.81

02:23:17.000 Are you a woman?

02:23:19.000 Are you men?

02:23:20.000 No, I'm not a man.

02:23:22.000 Alright, cool.

02:23:22.000 So, as a man, in a club, girls who smoke, girls who drink, they're fucked up.

02:23:29.000 Fucked up?

02:23:29.000 Yeah, they're fucked up.

02:23:30.000 Like, they fuck men.

02:23:31.000 They're intoxicated.

02:23:32.000 I did not do that.

02:23:33.000 I wasn't black out.

02:23:34.000 I wasn't somebody.

02:23:35.000 But that's what I'm saying.

02:23:36.000 Listen.

02:23:38.000 Go ahead.

02:23:39.000 Ten girls.

02:23:40.000 Seven girls out of ten will fuck guys if they're drunk or hot. 1.00

02:23:44.000 Alright, here's a three then.

02:23:45.000 Then the other seven will fuck guys. 1.00

02:23:49.000 It still doesn't change the fact that it's not a good look.

02:23:51.000 So, but if you're asking if I personally was dating that less than 1% guy, and if I still were to go on a girls trip, yes, because we're that three that he just said out of ten, would not fuck a guy, would not be stumbling out of the club.

02:24:01.000 We were functional.

02:24:02.000 I've seen it before.

02:24:03.000 You've seen it.

02:24:04.000 It's just not impossible.

02:24:06.000 It's not super rigid.

02:24:07.000 I find it interesting how you would find an exceptional guy and still think that your current behavior would be acceptable to him.

02:24:14.000 I think it comes down to what he finds acceptable as well.

02:24:17.000 Most men would not find that acceptable.

02:24:18.000 That's what I'm trying to explain to you.

02:24:20.000 Men that are on that caliber have standards.

02:24:22.000 Just like you have standards, right?

02:24:24.000 You want the guy to have competence and everything else like that?

02:24:26.000 Guys have standards on how their women should behave. 1.00

02:24:29.000 I think in a relationship, if you're genuinely happy, if you're getting what you want, if this was an ideal guy that I wanted, there's going to have to be some, you said not negotiation, but I'm going to have to give some.

02:24:38.000 So if he really genuinely looked at me and he was like, I don't feel comfortable with you going to Miami, honestly, maybe I wouldn't go to Miami.

02:24:44.000 But if I was like, if I wouldn't go, I would be able to sit down and be like, okay, if you don't feel comfortable with me going there, I would not go.

02:24:49.000 But I would go rebuttal and I'd be like, but me and my girls do want to go somewhere.

02:24:52.000 Let me ask you a question.

02:24:53.000 Let me ask you a question.

02:24:55.000 Let's say you're out at a club with your man.

02:24:57.000 And some dude fucking grabs your ass and then takes your purse and runs off with it. 1.00

02:25:01.000 Right?

02:25:02.000 What's more attractive?

02:25:03.000 Him chasing that guy down, beating his ass and bringing it back for you?

02:25:06.000 Or are you having to tell him, babe, go chase after him.

02:25:09.000 What are you doing?

02:25:09.000 Which one's more attractive?

02:25:10.000 It's him acting.

02:25:12.000 So why is that he has to tell you to not go to the fucking club?

02:25:15.000 Because I don't think...

02:25:16.000 Hold on, hold on.

02:25:16.000 Let that sink in.

02:25:17.000 Why does he have to...

02:25:19.000 Some critical thinking skills.

02:25:22.000 It's more attractive for the guy to just do what he's supposed to do, act like a protector and go back and get your purse for you.

02:25:29.000 You shouldn't have to tell him.

02:25:30.000 So why is it that a man has to tell you to be a lady?

02:25:33.000 I don't think everybody would care about us going to Miami, but I'm telling you if that less than 1% that we keep hypothetically talking about said, I don't feel comfortable with you going to all these parties.

02:25:42.000 But why should he communicate that to you?

02:25:43.000 Because that's how a relationship works.

02:25:45.000 You communicate.

02:25:46.000 No, because when that guy steals your purse, he just defaulted to his male instinct and beat that guy's ass and brought it back to you because that's his job as a man.

02:25:53.000 So I want to be fair to say, as a woman, it's your job to protect your innocence, protect your purity, not put yourself in compromising situations.

02:26:01.000 Why is it that men have to tell women how to be women, but you guys would never accept it if you told men how to be men?

02:26:07.000 You don't have to tell me how to be a woman. 0.92

02:26:08.000 I don't think it's written in a book where it's like you cannot go.

02:26:10.000 That's quite effectively what he's doing by telling you not to go to the club.

02:26:12.000 You're saying I can't go on girls trips.

02:26:14.000 He shouldn't have to tell you is my point.

02:26:16.000 Why is it girls trip in particular? 1.00

02:26:19.000 It's because you're generalizing again.

02:26:22.000 Back to her thing, does it matter where the girls trip is? 1.00

02:26:26.000 Yes.

02:26:27.000 Look, man.

02:26:29.000 Do you guys not see the lunacy in what you're trying to say?

02:26:33.000 You're saying that I should naturally know not to go with my girls on a girl trip because I should naturally know that my man doesn't like that.

02:26:41.000 You should know, in general, that's behavior that's unacceptable to a majority of men and isn't necessarily wifey material.

02:26:48.000 Just like me, letting you get your purse stolen and your ass grab and not doing anything about it is bitch-made non-masculine behavior. 1.00

02:26:54.000 I'm supposed to act and be the protector and provider for you in situations that arise.

02:26:59.000 You are supposed to be my girlfriend and not embarrass me and put yourself in compromising situations without me being there.

02:27:05.000 Does that embarrass you if I take a trip with my friends?

02:27:08.000 Not necessarily to a club.

02:27:09.000 So going back to what I was saying earlier, you didn't really answer.

02:27:12.000 If you came up to me and you were like, fine, you don't come up to me.

02:27:17.000 Are you aware of the fact that a woman's behavior can absolutely destroy her man's legacy? 1.00

02:27:23.000 A woman's behavior destroys a man's legacy. 1.00

02:27:25.000 Can it destroy a man's legacy?

02:27:26.000 Yes.

02:27:26.000 Okay, sure.

02:27:27.000 Look at Jada Pinkett Smith. 0.91

02:27:29.000 What did she do? 0.80

02:27:29.000 Oh, I fucked another guy and told him that at the red table. 0.80

02:27:33.000 Will Smith now, getting made fun of, laughing stopped.

02:27:35.000 He's been embarrassed everywhere.

02:27:37.000 No one remembers Independence Day.

02:27:38.000 No one remembers Seven Pounds.

02:27:39.000 No one remembers Ali.

02:27:40.000 No one remembers Fresh Prince of Bel-Air.

02:27:42.000 All they remember is him sitting at a red table with his whore wife and with red eyes and her talking about fucking another guy. 0.99

02:27:49.000 So, I don't think women understand that your woman is a reflection of you. 0.72

02:27:53.000 If my girl's going to the club and girls' nights trips, that effectively shows that I don't have control Of the relationship.

02:28:01.000 It's not about controlling the woman.

02:28:03.000 It's about being in control of the relationship.

02:28:06.000 So I just find it crazy how women expect men to act without being told what to do. 1.00

02:28:11.000 But women need to be told what to do to act like a lady. 1.00

02:28:14.000 Isn't that kind of wild?

02:28:15.000 Not necessarily told what to do, but I think you would just know based on the guy's personality.

02:28:18.000 Like, okay, he would not like me going to Miami.

02:28:20.000 So going back to what I was saying.

02:28:21.000 Most men wouldn't like it.

02:28:22.000 Okay, sure.

02:28:23.000 Most men.

02:28:23.000 Those most men that would not like me going to Miami.

02:28:26.000 Yes.

02:28:26.000 Is there somewhere that I could, like, negotiate with you?

02:28:29.000 We're like, okay, well, can I go somewhere with my girls?

02:28:31.000 Like, can we do something that's outside of Philly, outside of the boundaries that we live here?

02:28:35.000 We do everything here.

02:28:36.000 I already know all the restaurants.

02:28:37.000 I know everything.

02:28:37.000 Like, I want to take a trip with my girls.

02:28:40.000 I mean, going to a restaurant with your girlfriends is not the same as taking a trip to a vacation destination where promiscuity is almost promised.

02:28:46.000 It's just a city that we've never been to.

02:28:47.000 Like we said, we've just gone to a bunch of different cities.

02:28:49.000 And you know that that's what we do for our birthdays.

02:28:51.000 So if I came up to you and I was like, look, me and my girls want to take a trip for Diana or Carly's birthday, there would not be a single location, like a monastery.

02:29:00.000 Is that where we're allowed to go?

02:29:01.000 There's nothing you would budge on ever?

02:29:03.000 It's not that.

02:29:04.000 I'm just saying it's very interesting to me how women expect to do what they want to do, but you guys would never give men the same leeway.

02:29:13.000 Not true.

02:29:13.000 Because if I knew that that's something that hurt you, if I knew that we were in a loving relationship, committed relationship, and I knew that it would be uncomfortable for you to see me going to Miami, I would not go.

02:29:24.000 But I'm saying, is there somewhere, like, if you knew that I genuinely needed a trip with my girls...

02:29:29.000 But why?

02:29:30.000 Because we need to get...

02:29:31.000 I just said it.

02:29:32.000 We'd travel to different cities.

02:29:33.000 I've done it.

02:29:33.000 It's our birthday.

02:29:34.000 It's our birthday.

02:29:36.000 We wouldn't go to clubs.

02:29:38.000 Your official family or your girls?

02:29:39.000 I'm sorry?

02:29:40.000 My future family?

02:29:41.000 Or my girls?

02:29:42.000 Yeah, your girls.

02:29:43.000 So you think as soon as you get in a relationship, that's the tunnel you're going under?

02:29:46.000 Forget all my friends.

02:29:47.000 Forget my family.

02:29:48.000 It's just...

02:29:49.000 I mean, you're striving to actually create a whole family.

02:29:53.000 If you're like, you know what?

02:29:56.000 Fuck my kids in the future and fuck my husband. 1.00

02:29:58.000 That's not what you say by going on a trip with your friends.

02:30:01.000 So basically, in order to be a high-value woman, you can't go anywhere. 1.00

02:30:05.000 You're stuck in the house.

02:30:08.000 That's not what we said.

02:30:10.000 Putting yourself in situations where you're around drunk, horny men trying to have sex with you.

02:30:16.000 Okay, forget the clubs.

02:30:17.000 Fine.

02:30:18.000 Answer my question.

02:30:19.000 Alright, so what?

02:30:20.000 Me and you, hypothetically, dating.

02:30:22.000 And Carly's birthday's coming up.

02:30:25.000 We want to go to a new city we've never been in because we've never been to Carbone.

02:30:29.000 You're not going without me.

02:30:30.000 Yeah.

02:30:34.000 It would be us three and you on a trip to Carbone?

02:30:47.000 And we should take care of the bills?

02:30:48.000 For all the girls? 0.73

02:30:50.000 Does she has a husband, a man? 0.99

02:30:52.000 Put your headphones on.

02:30:52.000 Probably, yeah.

02:30:53.000 Like if we're older and we're all dating somebody.

02:30:55.000 Probably?

02:30:55.000 No, yeah.

02:30:56.000 If she has a man, right?

02:30:57.000 So are we doing like, so okay, maybe for a birthday is not a good example because you'd probably want your husband with you on your birthday.

02:31:02.000 Okay, so not a birthday.

02:31:04.000 Forget it.

02:31:04.000 Say I got, I don't know, a promotion at work.

02:31:07.000 It's our anniversary of our friendship.

02:31:09.000 We've been friends since whatever and ever.

02:31:11.000 And we were like, we want to go to a new, like I saw this new restaurant.

02:31:14.000 See, honestly, it was just one thank you seriously.

02:31:16.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:31:18.000 Back and forth with you like, oh, I want to do this.

02:31:20.000 Why?

02:31:21.000 See, here's the thing that women don't get. 1.00

02:31:23.000 When you have this type of behavior and you want to be out with your friends and you want to do whatever, you know what guys are going to do?

02:31:28.000 Silently in the back of their mind, they're going to put you in the, okay, she's for the streets category.

02:31:31.000 Why is that for the streets?

02:31:33.000 Because I told you I want to go to a restaurant I've never been to before.

02:31:35.000 But if you want to go out on girls trips and live like you're single, but you have a guy at home, a lot of guys are going to put you in a box and they're going to put it in the sex-only category. 0.97

02:31:35.000 No, no, no. 0.97

02:31:41.000 They'll never say anything, but what they're going to do is they're going to silently disqualify you from anything serious.

02:31:46.000 The only way I'd be okay with a guy coming on my girl's trip is if he's paying for everything.

02:31:51.000 Well, that's why you are where you are now.

02:31:51.000 Fantastic.

02:31:55.000 Wait, no, no.

02:31:56.000 I mean, I want to care about the peng. 1.00

02:31:59.000 That wasn't my point.

02:32:00.000 You would want to come on a trip that...

02:32:02.000 It's all girls? 1.00

02:32:03.000 It's just us.

02:32:04.000 Us three and you.

02:32:06.000 I don't know.

02:32:08.000 We're all getting ready and doing our makeup.

02:32:10.000 A big part of our girls' trip is the amount of time we spent together and not where we went.

02:32:14.000 To be honest, wanting to go on a girls' trip in the first place is a red flag. 0.96

02:32:17.000 But we told you what our girls trip entails.

02:32:17.000 Yeah.

02:32:20.000 We didn't say go to clubs, shake ass, be naked in the streets.

02:32:24.000 You can say one thing, but I've seen different things.

02:32:27.000 Right, with people that were not us.

02:32:29.000 So you're saying that it happens, and I agree with you. 1.00

02:32:31.000 I've seen people, girls, guys, everybody.

02:32:33.000 I just want to commit to a girl that does that.

02:32:35.000 Yeah.

02:32:36.000 That hangs out with her friends?

02:32:38.000 No, that likes to go on girls' trips and put herself in certain situations. 1.00

02:32:41.000 And I don't care what she says.

02:32:42.000 I can trust a woman to be a woman, which is impulsive, emotionally spontaneous, following her friends. 1.00

02:32:48.000 You know, all it takes is one bad friend to fuck everything up.

02:32:51.000 Wait, wait.

02:32:51.000 So, question.

02:32:52.000 Because I told you three, right?

02:32:55.000 If Drake invited to his penthouse, right?

02:32:57.000 You all three would have went, right?

02:33:00.000 We're all three, also single.

02:33:01.000 No, no, no, but...

02:33:03.000 Oh, so...

02:33:04.000 I think it matters.

02:33:06.000 If I'm in a relationship and Drake is like, come to my penthouse, no I'm not going.

02:33:10.000 But if I'm single...

02:33:11.000 Yeah, well, you're single in Miami.

02:33:13.000 Why are we going to Drake's?

02:33:14.000 This is too unrealistic.

02:33:16.000 Everything we've been talking about.

02:33:18.000 It's too hypothetical.

02:33:19.000 Why are we even going there in the first place?

02:33:21.000 Most girls, they come to Miami, right? 1.00

02:33:23.000 And all of a sudden, they put in, hey, here's scenario A, here's B, then it escalates.

02:33:28.000 And all of a sudden, it's like, you know what?

02:33:30.000 I just slip on Dick.

02:33:32.000 Like, you know what I'm saying?

02:33:33.000 So don't even go to Miami because then it starts to escalate.

02:33:37.000 Initially, you probably don't want to fuck some other guy. 0.76

02:33:39.000 But the more you go down the path, hey, I'm doing this, I'm doing this.

02:33:43.000 Before you know it, you're like waking up in a yacht being fucked by two or three other guys.

02:34:04.000 We just tell guys not to commit to girls that are in certain professions that want to adopt certain lifestyle habits These are just women you don't want to commit to. 1.00

02:34:14.000 I think you're just really rigid.

02:34:16.000 I think you're saying because this group of people, of women, does this on girls trips, you should just not date these types of women. 0.99

02:34:25.000 But then it leaves people like us who genuinely have no intentions of going and fucking two men on a yacht that I don't know about.

02:34:31.000 You have pretty high standards.

02:34:33.000 $200,000 per year, six foot.

02:34:36.000 Yeah, I do have high standards.

02:34:39.000 You're saying I'm rigid.

02:34:40.000 I would argue you're even more rigid in your standards than I am.

02:34:43.000 I mean, I never said I didn't have high standards.

02:34:45.000 Okay, so my thing is, I think all guys should kind of employ the mindset I have where you don't want to commit to certain girls that have certain behaviors because it's going to fuck you up.

02:34:55.000 Okay, but it's the same vice versa, don't you think?

02:34:57.000 Like, I wouldn't want to commit to some guy who has a certain type of behavior, like not being able to stay with one woman.

02:35:03.000 But men have to earn their value. 0.97

02:35:05.000 What are you talking about?

02:35:06.000 I'm telling you, like, my point is, if, going back on this insane hypothetical of girls trips, you're telling me that because I want to spend time with my friends, because I don't get to see them as often, because when you are in a relationship,

02:35:22.000 you do...

02:35:24.000 That doesn't mean we all have our own lives, though.

02:35:26.000 When you are in a relationship, you do want to spend more time with your partner, right?

02:35:31.000 When you're in a relationship, you spend the majority of your time with your partner.

02:35:34.000 So you stop seeing your friends as much.

02:35:36.000 So if I am, like, saying, I need to...

02:35:39.000 Well, if your guy's really successful making money, you're not going to see him that much anyway.

02:35:41.000 He's going to be putting his mission above you.

02:35:43.000 That's why I tell guys never prioritize women. 0.99

02:35:45.000 I just don't understand.

02:35:47.000 So you ain't gonna see him that much anyway.

02:35:49.000 He's gonna be working a lot.

02:35:49.000 So I'm not even seeing my...

02:35:50.000 I'm not hanging out with my partner.

02:35:53.000 I'm not hanging out with my girls.

02:35:54.000 What am I doing?

02:35:55.000 Are you aware that higher earning men, you're not gonna see them that often because they're working?

02:35:59.000 But what's higher earning?

02:36:00.000 $200,000 could be a fucking accountant.

02:36:03.000 Like they work...

02:36:04.000 They have their...

02:36:06.000 What are you...

02:36:07.000 What?

02:36:07.000 Women have no concept of money.

02:36:09.000 This is wild.

02:36:10.000 A CPA? You know what percentage of men make $200,000 a year?

02:36:14.000 An accountant?

02:36:15.000 You don't think an accountant of a certain amount of experience...

02:36:19.000 I think it's what, when they reach a public accountant, when they reach up to like eight years or so, six to eight, if I'm not mistaken.

02:36:25.000 They have to probably own their own firm to make that kind of money.

02:36:26.000 I don't think so.

02:36:27.000 If you work for...

02:36:28.000 Think or no.

02:36:29.000 What percentage of men do you think actually make $200,000 per year? 0.98

02:36:33.000 I don't know.

02:36:34.000 Let's put it in your calculator.

02:36:35.000 Let's just use common sense.

02:36:37.000 You don't think it's a good amount of...

02:36:41.000 It's not a dating pool for me to look through.

02:36:43.000 This is incredible.

02:36:45.000 Why is this incredible?

02:36:47.000 How many guys?

02:36:47.000 Okay, Google it.

02:36:49.000 Someone Google it.

02:36:50.000 See how many men make that amount of money. 0.99

02:36:52.000 200,000 a year.

02:36:53.000 In the U.S. alone.

02:36:55.000 Because at least that way it'll give me like coast to coast of finding my less than 1% match.

02:37:00.000 It's going to be less than like 2% of men that make that kind of money in the United States.

02:37:03.000 Less than 2%.

02:37:04.000 That's not even accounting for height, charm, how he looks.

02:37:08.000 Personality.

02:37:09.000 Like, are you aware that, like, only 15% of the entire U.S. population makes $100,000 per year?

02:37:14.000 Men and women? 0.70

02:37:15.000 How many people live in the U.S.? Men, okay. 1.00

02:37:17.000 How many men live in the U.S.? That's men and women. 0.99

02:37:18.000 Married, unmarried, everybody. 0.97

02:37:20.000 So, 200K per year?

02:37:21.000 2% of all the entire population of the U.S. is still a good amount of people.

02:37:27.000 I don't know how many people live in the US. My bad, I don't have that number off the top of my head, so I can't calculate it for you.

02:37:32.000 But still, 2% of millions and millions of people is still a big ass number.

02:37:38.000 Yeah, but they're rare.

02:37:40.000 But it happens, is what I'm saying.

02:37:42.000 It's possible.

02:37:43.000 It happens, Mara.

02:37:43.000 It happens.

02:37:44.000 Hold on, hold on.

02:37:45.000 Let me live in my whimsical high standards.

02:37:48.000 Are you aware that possible and probable are two different things?

02:37:50.000 Yes.

02:37:51.000 Okay, so just because it's possible...

02:37:52.000 Thank you.

02:37:53.000 What does that mean it's probable?

02:37:55.000 Like, the likelihood is extremely slim, actually, that you'd find this guy.

02:37:58.000 But it's possible.

02:37:59.000 It's possible, Mari.

02:37:59.000 I'll hold on to it.

02:38:00.000 Mari, it's possible.

02:38:01.000 Thank you.

02:38:03.000 Manifest it, Mari.

02:38:04.000 Manifest it.

02:38:05.000 Manifest a queen.

02:38:05.000 I mean, I think that's the difference between many women and women.

02:38:08.000 I just learned about manifestation.

02:38:11.000 Now I'm gonna get so much money.

02:38:13.000 I don't need a job.

02:38:14.000 Why?

02:38:14.000 Turn that off.

02:38:15.000 Girls can kind of just live in a loony world, bro. 1.00

02:38:18.000 I love it here.

02:38:18.000 Am I delusion?

02:38:19.000 I love it here.

02:38:20.000 Delusions.

02:38:21.000 I mean, we literally just showed you how rare your guy is and you're still trying to sit here and tell us, I still want to go on girls trips and shit. 0.56

02:38:27.000 Like, I'm just like...

02:38:27.000 Yeah, it's fine.

02:38:28.000 I mean...

02:38:29.000 Because it's your...

02:38:30.000 Who do you think has the leverage here?

02:38:32.000 There's a lot less of him than there is of you.

02:38:34.000 Girls.

02:38:34.000 It's your concept of girls trips.

02:38:37.000 Guys will lie to you the fuck.

02:38:39.000 At the end of the day, me personally, me and mine are fresh, whatever.

02:38:43.000 If we see a girl, hey, I'm a boss babe, and whatever, girls trips, alright, that's cool, cool, it's fine.

02:38:49.000 But then it's like, we'll deal with you, we'll fuck you, and before you know it, why did he ghost me? 0.63

02:38:55.000 That's a question most girls ask. 0.99

02:38:57.000 Why did a guy I wanted ghost me?

02:39:01.000 And you girls don't even fucking know. 1.00

02:39:03.000 That's the scary part.

02:39:05.000 And we're telling you why the guys ghost you, and you're like...

02:39:08.000 Man, fuck him, bro.

02:39:09.000 That's your opinion.

02:39:10.000 That's your opinion.

02:39:11.000 What the fuck?

02:39:12.000 And they will tell you, like, look at you.

02:39:13.000 Like, you're all thinking, like, damn, this nigga is right. 1.00

02:39:17.000 Because...

02:39:17.000 Nah, they don't give a fuck.

02:39:18.000 I'm thirsty.

02:39:19.000 I want water.

02:39:20.000 That's what I'm thinking.

02:39:21.000 They don't give a fuck, bro.

02:39:23.000 I mean, it, like, girls don't wake up until they're older, bro. 0.99

02:39:26.000 That's what I've realized.

02:39:27.000 Like, girls really don't wake up and realize until they're 30 years old and paying for knowing drinks at the bar that, you know, their best years have passed them.

02:39:34.000 I don't care, man.

02:39:35.000 That's fine.

02:39:36.000 The point of this podcast isn't to, like, educate y'all.

02:39:39.000 It's for the audience to kind of know, like, this is how a lot of women think. 1.00

02:39:42.000 Like, I'm going to do what I want to do.

02:39:43.000 I don't give a fuck what y'all niggas think. 1.00

02:39:44.000 And that's kind of how it is.

02:39:44.000 And that's fine.

02:39:45.000 Yeah, fine.

02:39:45.000 That's fine.

02:39:46.000 So, anyway.

02:39:47.000 What's up, man?

02:39:49.000 We'll get last thoughts.

02:39:50.000 Yeah, sure.

02:39:51.000 Because, uh, I know you had a job that time.

02:39:52.000 Oh, that is, uh, you know, it's, uh, 12.

02:39:55.000 Stream, stream lab chats.

02:39:57.000 Um, shout out to the real Mr.

02:39:59.000 Meatball with a hundred dollars super chat.

02:40:04.000 He said, he just saying.

02:40:05.000 I'm losing my hair follicles here.

02:40:07.000 He's just saying Myron is right.

02:40:08.000 Shoutouts to Kiko Perez with $50.

02:40:11.000 He said, yo, Myron and Fresh, thanks for the content.

02:40:14.000 You have sacrificed your careers and your hair follicles for the greater good of all of us.

02:40:21.000 Hoping that you all rise above any challenge during these tough times.

02:40:24.000 Stay blessed.

02:40:26.000 Shout out to the real Mr.

02:40:28.000 Meatball $100 again.

02:40:30.000 Shout out to bro.

02:40:32.000 He said a man's value is positively correlated with the ability to provide a woman's value is inversely correlated with their promiscuity. 0.92

02:40:42.000 A woman's ability to provide a man's promiscuity play a minimal role. 1.00

02:40:47.000 This scales with the person's value.

02:40:50.000 Do you guys get what he said there?

02:40:51.000 They don't get it.

02:40:53.000 I wasn't listening.

02:40:55.000 Yeah, of course.

02:40:55.000 We know.

02:40:56.000 Yeah, we know.

02:40:57.000 Well, okay.

02:40:58.000 Well, that's why we do the podcast.

02:40:59.000 Guys, we do this podcast so y'all don't sit there and argue with women, bro. 0.97

02:41:02.000 They're like, yo, man.

02:41:04.000 They'll never understand.

02:41:06.000 1230, they're checked out, bro.

02:41:07.000 Yeah, man.

02:41:08.000 It's like, fuck it.

02:41:09.000 Yeah.

02:41:09.000 They're going to go and do what they're going to do.

02:41:11.000 It is what it is.

02:41:12.000 This isn't...

02:41:13.000 All right, girls. 0.90

02:41:14.000 Last thoughts and questions before we close out.

02:41:17.000 Or disagreements or points.

02:41:18.000 Disagreements, points.

02:41:19.000 Let's start with you.

02:41:21.000 What I'm saying is that everybody's opinion tonight is valid.

02:41:26.000 Okay.

02:41:27.000 And I hear you.

02:41:27.000 No, they're not.

02:41:28.000 Okay.

02:41:29.000 An opinion can absolutely be wrong.

02:41:31.000 Well, I'm having my last thoughts.

02:41:32.000 And my last thoughts are I respect people's different opinions.

02:41:37.000 And I had an interesting conversation.

02:41:40.000 And thank you guys for having me on the podcast.

02:41:43.000 Fair.

02:41:44.000 But not all opinions are valid.

02:41:47.000 If I said one plus one is three...

02:41:48.000 Well, that's your opinion.

02:41:49.000 And your opinion is valid, so...

02:41:51.000 Oh, shit.

02:41:51.000 No, it's not.

02:41:53.000 Not everyone's opinion is valid.

02:41:55.000 If it's incorrect, I would argue it's not valid.

02:41:58.000 But that's fine.

02:41:59.000 What about you?

02:42:01.000 Thank you for having me.

02:42:03.000 You didn't say much.

02:42:04.000 She was sloshing. 0.98

02:42:05.000 She was like, I'm tired.

02:42:06.000 I'm thirsty.

02:42:07.000 No, I think my headphones were too loud so my head started hurting.

02:42:11.000 We do a sound check.

02:42:13.000 No, it started right now.

02:42:14.000 Okay, gotcha.

02:42:16.000 Yeah, definitely.

02:42:18.000 But yeah, thank you guys for the good time.

02:42:20.000 Wait, but don't you work in a club though?

02:42:22.000 Is it loud over there?

02:42:23.000 Yeah.

02:42:24.000 So then, yeah.

02:42:25.000 It depends on the topic of conversation.

02:42:28.000 Oh, so you got triggered.

02:42:30.000 Nah, I just haven't eaten anything.

02:42:33.000 Just saying.

02:42:33.000 Maybe I am triggered.

02:42:35.000 Okay, cool.

02:42:35.000 Thank you.

02:42:36.000 Follow me on Instagram.

02:42:40.000 So that coming.

02:42:41.000 Yeah.

02:42:42.000 Totally.

02:42:44.000 Yep.

02:42:46.000 Hey, y'all!

02:42:48.000 Thank you guys for having me.

02:42:51.000 Your guys' thoughts are interesting.

02:42:52.000 I still feel how I feel.

02:42:55.000 Which is?

02:42:56.000 I just like girls and I like the way we think and I hate guys.

02:43:01.000 Oh, shit.

02:43:03.000 Fantastic.

02:43:03.000 That's all I gotta say.

02:43:05.000 Hey, y'all!

02:43:06.000 Hey, man.

02:43:06.000 They really can't handle the truth, man.

02:43:10.000 She hates guys, though.

02:43:11.000 Yeah, she hates guys.

02:43:12.000 Fair enough.

02:43:13.000 You guys are very opinionated.

02:43:16.000 Fuck guys, man.

02:43:17.000 That's what I'm saying.

02:43:18.000 We just told you how men think in general.

02:43:19.000 I mean, if you don't like it, it is what it is.

02:43:22.000 We appreciate it, though.

02:43:23.000 I don't.

02:43:25.000 I appreciate it.

02:43:26.000 I like having different point of views.

02:43:29.000 Doesn't mean I'm going to change my mind.

02:43:31.000 I mean, point of views, like OnlyFans, when you...

02:43:33.000 Never mind.

02:43:34.000 Y'all hit low.

02:43:35.000 You literally said that I haven't talked.

02:43:37.000 So what are you going to say?

02:43:39.000 That's a personal choice she made.

02:43:40.000 Yeah, but why do you have to keep shoving it in her face like that? 0.97

02:43:43.000 Exactly, that's my choice.

02:43:44.000 She made her choice and she's living with it.

02:43:46.000 It's fine.

02:43:48.000 Hold on, hold on.

02:43:51.000 She made a choice.

02:43:54.000 Like if someone shoved in my face, oh, it used to be a fed.

02:43:56.000 I'd be like, yeah, I'm proud of it.

02:43:57.000 Yeah, he's fed.

02:43:59.000 So why are you saying it that way?

02:44:01.000 Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

02:44:02.000 You're saying it to throw shots.

02:44:04.000 It wouldn't be that way.

02:44:05.000 Because sex work is not respected by the majority of people in society.

02:44:08.000 Well, maybe she don't care about sex work. 1.00

02:44:09.000 But sex work is still sex work.

02:44:10.000 And even though it's not respected, it's the thing that has got me out of Puerto Rico and I've been financially independent since I was 19 thanks to sex work.

02:44:18.000 Violin?

02:44:18.000 No, what?

02:44:22.000 He's not throwing it in her face.

02:44:23.000 He's just stating this is the truth.

02:44:25.000 Like, you know, hey, is this going to be respected by society?

02:44:29.000 If someone threw in your face, you're a doctor!

02:44:31.000 You're a doctor!

02:44:32.000 You'd be like, damn right!

02:44:33.000 But if someone says you're on OnlyFans, you're on OnlyFans, well, yeah, you're going to feel some type of way because it's not respected by society, unfortunately.

02:44:40.000 Are you on OnlyFans?

02:44:41.000 Why are you not on OnlyFans?

02:44:43.000 I never had the interest of doing that.

02:44:45.000 Why did you have the interest?

02:44:47.000 Because we all have our own interests.

02:44:49.000 She's not even on Instagram.

02:44:50.000 I'm not a social media person.

02:44:57.000 I didn't say nothing.

02:44:58.000 That was me.

02:45:01.000 You gotta live with your choices, right?

02:45:05.000 It's fine.

02:45:06.000 Hey, get your money.

02:45:08.000 Sometimes I do think about what my life would be if I didn't start OnlyFast, but I'm actually happy that I did it.

02:45:16.000 I know, but earlier I asked you, if you was to find a man who you actually truly love and respected and who would pay for your bills, and would you quit OnlyFans?

02:45:25.000 You said yes.

02:45:26.000 Yeah, I would.

02:45:27.000 Okay.

02:45:27.000 So simple as that.

02:45:29.000 That's the only thing that's sustaining me right now.

02:45:31.000 That's fine.

02:45:34.000 My consensus?

02:45:36.000 This was definitely interesting.

02:45:37.000 I think we...

02:45:37.000 Oh, too far.

02:45:39.000 Yeah.

02:45:39.000 Penis.

02:45:40.000 Coming into it, honestly, I don't think we knew what to expect.

02:45:43.000 Obviously, we've seen clips of the show and whatnot, so...

02:45:46.000 Oh, shit, clips?

02:45:48.000 So if you saw clips, wouldn't it be fair to say you knew what you were getting yourself into then?

02:45:51.000 I looked it up before we came.

02:45:54.000 Before that, it was probably just a TikTok or two that I skipped.

02:45:57.000 I mean, seeing something and actually experience it.

02:45:59.000 Yeah, it's very different.

02:46:00.000 You said it's not necessarily for us, but I can say that I think we will take stuff away from this.

02:46:06.000 Yeah.

02:46:06.000 Because you said it's more for the audience.

02:46:09.000 Are you going to change any of your behavior?

02:46:11.000 Am I going to lower my standards?

02:46:12.000 No.

02:46:12.000 But we know now what you guys think, though.

02:46:15.000 We know more about it.

02:46:16.000 Yeah.

02:46:17.000 But now that you know how men think, are you going to change your behavior realistically?

02:46:20.000 Doesn't matter.

02:46:20.000 She said she took something away from it, though.

02:46:22.000 She didn't say she was going to change who she is.

02:46:23.000 I have to just speak louder than words.

02:46:24.000 So if your behavior isn't going to change, then it doesn't matter.

02:46:26.000 Say the same thing I just said.

02:46:27.000 No, no.

02:46:28.000 See?

02:46:28.000 And that's fine.

02:46:30.000 I'm not telling you to change your behavior.

02:46:31.000 I'm just, like I said before, this podcast just illustrates what we've talked about.

02:46:35.000 Like, women don't give a fuck what men think, and that's cool.

02:46:38.000 But it proves our point.

02:46:39.000 That's not true.

02:46:40.000 I told you.

02:46:41.000 Do I care what the general men group think?

02:46:45.000 No, but if I was in a relationship with someone, that's when you have to start taking into account.

02:46:54.000 That's when you said you would have to consider going on a trip to Miami is unacceptable.

02:46:58.000 So guys that she only care about.

02:47:00.000 But if I'm single, is it wrong of me to go to Miami?

02:47:05.000 If she ain't fucking you, fuck you. 1.00

02:47:08.000 She belongs to the streets! 1.00

02:47:11.000 Fantastic.

02:47:12.000 What about you?

02:47:14.000 Yeah, well, first, thanks for having me.

02:47:16.000 But at the same time, I think throughout this podcast, I definitely listened more than I thought.

02:47:20.000 Yeah, you did.

02:47:21.000 Sorry.

02:47:22.000 That's fine.

02:47:23.000 But based on that, when I made that one argument, the empath thing, I definitely still stand on that.

02:47:28.000 I definitely heard you out.

02:47:29.000 I definitely ended up agreeing with some things you said.

02:47:31.000 Maybe not all of them, but I still did share my own opinion just because, you know, personal, compared to generality.

02:47:38.000 But all in all, I really do think...

02:47:40.000 I think you can sympathize, but I don't think...

02:47:43.000 You're empathetic because you're not a man.

02:47:45.000 So only men can... 0.99

02:47:46.000 Just say okay.

02:47:49.000 Okay.

02:47:51.000 Yeah, I mean, I said my point.

02:47:53.000 I think I empathize with what you said.

02:47:55.000 I think I took it into consideration, actually agreed with you on some points, but at the same time, I still have my own opinion based on myself.

02:48:01.000 All right.

02:48:02.000 But, yeah, thank you.

02:48:05.000 It's an interesting show.

02:48:07.000 No, I mean, from, I saw on the panel, like, they're so young.

02:48:11.000 Yeah.

02:48:11.000 And, you know, they're still in shape.

02:48:14.000 You know, they're so single.

02:48:15.000 Well, you know, well, not young, but you're 29.

02:48:17.000 But, you're four.

02:48:19.000 But, listen, girls, like, just take what you can from tonight's show.

02:48:26.000 Don't give a fuck.

02:48:27.000 Watch it back.

02:48:28.000 Don't give a fuck.

02:48:29.000 Hey, listen, I know, but, you know, like, I don't give a fuck, bro.

02:48:32.000 They're gonna go to the club and keep doing the shit that they were doing before.

02:48:35.000 It don't matter.

02:48:36.000 It's fine.

02:48:37.000 That's right.

02:48:38.000 All right, guys.

02:48:39.000 Welcome to the show.

02:48:40.000 What was that?

02:48:42.000 Oh, LOL donated two bucks.

02:48:46.000 Jillian gotta spell her IG out. 1.00

02:48:49.000 Y-I-L-L-I-A-N-Marie.X-O Bro, she's not gonna give a shit about you following her, man.

02:48:58.000 I do.

02:48:59.000 I actually do.

02:49:01.000 Stop the cap. 0.94

02:49:02.000 All right.

02:49:03.000 Please keep following me.

02:49:04.000 Thank you.

02:49:04.000 Yeah.

02:49:05.000 You're a fan now, man.

02:49:06.000 We love that over here.

02:49:08.000 All right.

02:49:09.000 We'll catch you guys on next episode of Fresh Fit on Wednesday.

02:49:11.000 We're going to have a Womanizer Wednesday. 1.00

02:49:13.000 We'll catch you guys there.

02:49:13.000 Peace.

02:49:15.000 I ran.

02:49:16.000 I ran so far away.

02:49:19.000 I just ran.

02:49:21.000 I ran all night and day.

Fresh & Fit - August 29, 2023

Should Women Go On Girls Trips w- A Man At Home? Heated Debate!

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