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00:13:09.000You know, and that's a very valid critique.
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00:13:20.000You know, if anything, it'll be an audible book.
00:13:22.000So I'm like, all right, I'm gonna make it short so they can, like, read it real quick, get it done in a day, listen to it in a day.
00:13:57.000Yeah, or now, if you guys have something now.
00:13:59.000A question, disagreement, maybe a point of contention, or maybe what you thought about before you came on the show, what you were told prior to coming on the show, whatever discussion topic, so that way they don't say that we're assholes and we don't let the girls talk.
00:14:13.000I actually have something because the other day I was, I guess, getting a little into like the whole rabbit hole of the internet and I saw that.
00:14:24.000I saw something saying like, oh, monogamy was made by men because it was invented by men because of the lower class men wanted to be able to have a fair chance at having a woman.
00:14:39.000Yeah, I mean, I think monogamy definitely stabilizes society because what it allows is it allows men of all levels to basically have sexual access to a woman.
00:14:50.000And then that keeps them stabilized from being able to have sex.
00:14:54.000And then it keeps them motivated to go out and work and earn a living for themselves and for a family.
00:14:59.000So it works in all aspects because we know the nuclear family is what the cornerstone of society is built upon.
00:15:04.000And then you have guys that are motivated in the right way, right?
00:15:07.000Because there's a bunch of studies that show that when a man has a family, etc.
00:15:11.000Yeah, the testosterone goes down a bit, but it makes them more incentivized to go out there and work and create excess resources for their family.
00:15:33.000Even marriage, like, it helps regulate the marketplace because, once again, one man, one woman is a family unit.
00:15:38.000Imagine if there's no marriage or no monogamy, it'd be all chaos on some level because you take all the girls, then it's like, who's left for me?
00:16:40.000No, and in the book, actually, I think it highlights the worst version of a modern woman, but a lot of men still want that commitment and do want marriage, so what would your advice be on giving a guy advice on how to find a gem woman?
00:16:59.000I mean, people aren't gonna like it, me saying this, but, like, you might have to leave the States, man.
00:17:33.000The point is that most girls are probably higher body count, more experiences, and for the most part, a guy wants to have purity and chastity, which is hard to find out.
00:17:40.000I think even though it goes beyond the purity and chastity, and someone who's soft, someone who brings peace, cooking, someone who would be...
00:18:16.000But the likelihood of her having a fucked up mindset is going to be higher.
00:18:20.000Yeah, and even there are, I'm not gonna lie, I am myself, I've been a single mother, but I've been a single mother to a son of the man I was with.
00:18:32.000He was the only man I had sex with for years.
00:18:55.000And then as time went on, he became abusive.
00:18:58.000But as I'm saying, it's basically as nice of a woman as you can be and whatever, it still is also the chance of even a not-so-nice male can, you know, approach or come to within the situation.
00:19:12.000So it's not just only, oh, we're in America.
00:19:15.000Okay, maybe it's not like the perfect woman, but maybe I am.
00:19:19.000And then it's still also the chance of maybe not Maybe a perfect woman, but not a perfect man.
00:19:26.000So you're saying that he could be a perfect woman, but the man could be coming in and be changed?
00:19:32.000No, and the man can come in and not him himself cannot also be a great male figure himself.
00:19:39.000But you chose to let him impregnate you.
00:19:41.000Well, I'm just saying, at the time, he was showing signs of a respectful or probable or valuable partner at the time.
00:19:54.000So I'm just saying, just as much as, oh, you want to say, oh, women are not virgins, this and that, whatever.
00:19:59.000You can have women who don't have as many sexual partners, and then you can still have an abusive or not-so-great male figure, too.
00:20:17.000Yeah, so see, and I think that's why it's so important, because a lot of times your dad, right, will be one of the first people to assess your boyfriend and be like, this guy's a fucking loser or not.
00:22:11.000The big reason why is because, like, if a dude acts like a guy, they're gonna say, oh, you're toxically masculine or you're a bigot or you're an asshole or you're...
00:22:19.000So a lot of dudes will sit there and they'll be quiet and they'll be like, oh, yeah, I'm a feminist and all this other shit, but in the back of their minds, they're like, this is some bullshit.
00:22:32.000This content has been exploding in the past few years because it's like, damn, finally someone is saying what the fuck we think when it comes to how we view the world.
00:22:39.000But being a man in 2023 is considered toxic.
00:23:09.000I just thought, I just didn't know if you were asking me if I had a specific question or if we were all going in a circle of No, just whatever.
00:25:55.000On a scale of 1 to 10, let's say 10 is like entrepreneur, boss, babe, like you can't tell me nothing versus one is like extremely feminine, docile, won't even yell.
00:26:05.000Where do you find yourself on that scale?
00:26:07.000I'd say I'm a seven and a half, eight, because I feel like if I'm not going to be with a specific man forever and I have to pay my own bills, do all my stuff by myself, I have to have, I can't be 100% feminine.
00:26:18.000So you agree that feminine women have a better chance of getting a dream man, but you admit that you're more on the seven to eight scale.
00:26:25.000No, not 7 to 8 on a masculine scale on a feminine scale.
00:27:36.000Okay, then with that said, would you say that you being feminine like that hurts your ability to be as aggressive with your people that you manage?
00:32:57.000Alright, so would you be fair to say that when you go to law school and you actually become a lawyer, what kind of law do you want to practice?
00:34:24.000So would it be fair to say when you make a lot of that money, does it make you, since you have to put in, or you're saying you only work 30 minutes?
00:35:05.000Because I don't have like the best relationship with my parents so I have had to like be more independent growing up and moving here by myself.
00:35:19.000I have to provide for everything that I need.
00:35:23.000Did like Miami force you to grow up quick?
00:38:00.000Okay, so he's probably an assistant district attorney, ADA. I don't want to, like, share too much of his job.
00:38:05.000No, no, that's fine, that's fine, that's fine.
00:38:07.000But he wants to open up his own firm one day, so, I mean, technically, his earning capacity far outweighs mine.
00:38:12.000No, I mean, yeah, I mean, a lot of guys, like, get there, because you get a lot of, like, litigation experience being in ADA. Like, you try everything, because you're, like, in the court all the time arguing, so it's a very good stepping stone.
00:40:58.000And you've never heard it before either?
00:41:00.000In Russia, there's no such thing as pick me, because all the girls are just girls, right?
00:41:04.000But pick me is a girl that, like, kind of, like, says, oh, yeah, like, I agree with, like, what the men think, I think that men are right when it comes to this, blah, blah, blah.
00:43:33.000Somebody else had something over here I saw?
00:43:35.000I think it depends on the context you put it in because I've seen girls be called pick-me's for how they act in front of their friends in front of the guys.
00:43:54.000But is it putting a girl down if you're holding accountable for bad decisions?
00:43:57.000Not if you're holding them accountable.
00:43:58.000If you're calling them out on purpose to make yourself look better, maybe.
00:44:02.000But if you're just discussing the points and that's just how it is, then no.
00:44:05.000Because we've had girls on the show and they've made some very valid points, but girls on the panel will call them pick me for saying that.
00:44:11.000If it's them exaggerating, trying to make the girl look bad so they look better, that's pick me.
00:44:15.000But if that's just how it is, if you have a whole bunch of bodies and I say that, that's not being pick me.
00:44:25.000Pick Me is kind of weaponized by women to insult other girls that kind of understand the male experience or understand how men kind of view the world.
00:47:33.000So, like, you don't shame a guy, right, if he's good with girls.
00:47:35.000A lot of guys look at that and be like, oh, I respect that because not many men are good with women, right?
00:47:39.000So it's like, damn, okay, I want to learn from this guy.
00:47:41.000You might get jealous or you'll say, I want to learn from this guy.
00:47:43.000But simps aren't respected because, and you shame men that are simps because, rightfully so, the girl doesn't like you back like that.
00:47:50.000You're not a simp if you're with a chick that actually likes, admires, and respects you, and you're giving her attention and it's reciprocated.
00:47:55.000But simps 9 out of 10 times are giving all this attention and validation and you're not getting it back.
00:48:00.000What I'm trying to say is that sometimes in certain circumstances, when you are having the equal balance, men like to shame their homeboys and say, oh, you're a simp because you attend to your relationship.
00:48:15.000Yeah, well, let's be honest a lot of times when guys it's because they prioritize their girl over their friends Yeah, that's what a lot of guys do when they're in relationships or they're ostracize their friends and that yeah, I agree that you are a simp because they spend time with their girl because they're scared of the consequence that will come from not spending time with their girl over their friends or that she may cheat or leave Yeah,
00:48:33.000so a lot of guys like put their girl over their friend.
00:48:35.000That's why a lot of people be like you're fucking simp To be honest if you got a chick If you got a girl, your friend should not feel the difference.
00:49:07.000Can I add something to the conversation?
00:49:10.000So I guess what I've noticed is a lot of women who are heterosexual always say, I want that masculine man who's going to lead the relationship, make the date, make the reservation, so on and so forth.
00:49:19.000But they fail to realize you have to be a certain type of woman to get that man.
00:49:43.000Because, I mean, the guys that are actually going to sit there and plan dates and be gentlemen while being attractive but not necessarily be simps, etc., have boundaries, a lot of times they're not going to pick the girls that are headaches that say dumb shit like you're a pick me or don't want to follow or loud, obnoxious, interrupt all the time or don't want to fucking listen to what they say because it's like,
00:49:59.000bro, I don't want to deal with this shit.
00:50:01.000Guys don't become successful to the point where they can plan a date and set shit up to deal with rambunctious and annoying women.
00:50:08.000That's the unfortunate thing is what it is.
00:50:16.000Blackest panther goes, ladies, men that is above average work to become better than most men should not have to settle for an average man's compensation slash monogamy.
00:50:24.000That was created for average men and women only.
00:50:44.000And I date to marry, so these are the conversations that he and I have had really early on in our relationship, even though we've only been together for several months.
00:50:52.000So he isn't interested in a non-monogamous lifestyle.
00:50:58.000I understand that when you're in a relationship for 30, 40, 50 years, sometimes something can happen.
00:57:51.000So just so you know, before we show this, okay, this goes off of the 2020 U.S. Census Bureau and the National Center for Health Statistics.
00:57:58.000So this is the most accurate assessment of men in the United States.
01:05:23.000Do you think if a guy reaches a certain level, he should be monogamous?
01:05:28.000If he wants to be monogamous, like, cool.
01:05:30.000But I think he, like, I wouldn't leave my man if he was, like, taking care of me and had a lot of money and wanted to be with other people.
01:06:17.000If you're like, man, if you're some nice ass, smooth ass, charming ass, Johnny Bravo ass, nigga...
01:06:28.000If you're a cool ass dude and you make me enjoy every...
01:06:32.000If you make me enjoy life to a point that every moment feels like amazing or every moment feels like a dream...
01:06:41.000Man, if you fuck one bitch or two bitches, three bitches, I don't give a fuck.
01:06:45.000If you fuck another bitch, but you make my life feel like something like a video game or a movie, why would I care about that moment that you have with that other person?
01:06:53.000Because the moment that you give me is more than exceptional.
01:07:00.000I know I'm going to be more emotional about those things.
01:07:03.000Maybe those special moments with you, you probably still feel as special, but I know it's going to be 10 times more for me.
01:07:09.000Why would I get mad if you had a little, like, you know, um, let's say shallow or, um, yeah, let's say shallow, superficial moment with another woman that's only about sex.
01:11:33.000Cam two times goes, ladies, if you say you're a model or an IG model and you've never been in Vogue or on a magazine or a runway, you ain't no real model.
01:18:05.000Don't feel offended by this because I'm bad with weight and guessing, but okay, so your cousin said she's like 115, so you're like 107 or something?
01:24:00.000Cigarman85 says, Ladies who told you exactly that being a 304 sex worker or being over-sexualized on the internet will get you the man of your dreams?
01:25:23.000I would definitely say me just because where my great-grandparents are from is super foreign and it's like almost where they're Albanian okay so like back in like the day you could like sell your kids for money you know you could sell your daughter you could that's what they did It's very common in that culture.
01:32:51.000I don't think guys would prefer to have ugly women as friends because I think most guys that have women friends aren't always just friends.
01:38:35.000King Endow goes, Hey, Martin, did you know, during World War II, Lucky and Genovese's family worked with Mayor Lansky and the U.S. Navy to protect New York ports.
01:38:42.000Lucky was awarded a Purple Heart, but it was kept secret.
01:38:46.000I will probably do an episode with Ryan Dawson about the Italian mafia and how they were involved with them boys and the intelligence agencies and how they were involved in John F. Kennedy's murder as well, guys.
01:42:38.000So if you're a woman who's marriage-minded and you're on a man's hinge and you see more than two party pictures, immediately X. If you are a woman and you see what he does as an entrepreneur and he...
01:42:49.000Definitely is not an entrepreneur next because he actually doesn't have a job and he's just unemployed.
01:42:57.000If he has group pictures, try to make sure there's some diversity there because diversity of friends has diversity of mindset and you don't want someone who's stagnant.
01:43:07.000So if he's only hanging out with niggas, don't hang out with him.
01:43:10.000Yeah, like if he only hangs out with the same exact people who look like him, that's an issue.
01:43:32.000So, a lot of women, especially like my colleagues, I guess, are women who are kind of like myself, they are very masculine in their education, very masculine in their career, and it worked out for them.
01:43:44.000But you cannot do the same thing for dating.
01:43:46.000You have to be submissive, let him lead, don't step on his toes, dress a certain way, be soft, be peaceful.
01:43:53.000And they don't do that, a lot of them.
01:45:24.000I think I wasn't getting paid enough for losing five to seven nights a week.
01:45:30.000And it would be dealing with girls who are entitled, they're drunk, they're sloppy, they'll spill stuff, they'll get really aggressive and obnoxious.
01:45:53.000You're going above and beyond making them drinks and shit.
01:45:55.000Well, it depends on the club, because some clubs, like the Bottle Girls, they won't make drinks, or they will when it's slow, and then when the night's picking up, you kind of have to step in.
01:46:26.000Did you feel like they disrespected you more because you were female versus if you had been a male promoter?
01:46:31.000100% because a lot of the male promoters, a lot of the girls that would go out with the male promoters, I would see that if they left me in charge, a lot of the women would ask, where are the guys?
01:46:41.000And it's like they kind of crave their attention.
01:46:44.000For a handful of women, some women do go out just to have fun with their girls, but the guys would leave me in charge of the girls.
01:46:52.000And they would go do something else, let's say.
01:46:54.000And the girls would call it a day and just kind of leave.
01:47:19.000Ratio can come back and bite you in the ass if you have way too many girls and not enough guys because then the girls will get bored if they're not getting attention.
01:47:25.000Yeah, I think being a girl, girls think it's easier to get girls for some certain to a point, but I think most of the guys that bring girls to the clubs flirt with them, kind of lead them on a little just so they do come out more and more.
01:47:44.000So you don't think you got the same respect, I guess, as a male promoter and girls would just be more annoying with you than they would be with them or whatever?
01:47:52.000Yeah, I think I think it was just like I didn't like I didn't like a girl giving me attitude because as a girl like yeah like when the guys when they would give attitude to the guys the guys would be like you know like fuck you like get out of my section like fuck that bitch yeah with me it's like I don't even know you like all I'm doing is like watching out for you and you're like if you give me attitude or treat me some type of way I'm gonna take it differently than a guy would you know yeah for sure makes sense Interesting.
01:51:46.000Entrepreneur goes, ladies, would you rather catch your dad cheating with your best friend or your mom cheating with you on your ex-boyfriend?
01:56:41.000So basically, Shorty That Cried, she went on another podcast and spoke how she did a threesome with a basketball player and the basketball player was also with...
02:03:46.000Because it seems like to me, if I was a man seeing you and you have a tattoo to your chest, I figured, hey, I just want to fuck you, you know?
02:03:53.000Like, hey, you look hot, you got a nice ass, you're wearing something nice and tight.
02:16:31.000I wouldn't say there's one that stands out, but I think when a guy says something funny, like genuinely my sense of humor, I think that makes me more attracted and willing to go on a date with them.
02:16:50.000I'll just give me a line I think it has to be like more personal like they have to understand my sense of humor I don't know like okay give us something that would make you laugh that you'd like I don't know I don't know I think it was vague I don't think I can think of anything specific honestly okay What did your guy say to get you?
02:30:59.000Miguel, again, goes girls constantly chase bad boys and cry that the guy who they chose turns out to be a bad guy like B. Chase the good guy is stupid.
02:32:25.000Alright, Trey goes, uh, if you are dating a guy for a few months, what will be a reason for you to want to just be friends with him out of the blue?
02:35:01.000I really don't know why a girl would do that.
02:35:05.000She's probably not sexually satisfied.
02:35:11.000So, basically, she's saying they were good at the beginning and then, alright, this nigga's not meeting my standards of sexuality, I guess.
02:35:50.000Myron, would you agree that actual definition of a pick-me is basically the equivalent of the guy who clowns his boys in front of females to try to make himself look better?
02:38:37.000Ladies, you meet an attractive, genuine, loyal guy making $60,000 per year who offers you a life of luxury, but you have to move to the Philippines with him.
02:41:59.000Did that book help you as far as like, because I've wrote it mostly for men, but did it help you at all as far as like looking at it from the male perspective or what?
02:42:06.000Yeah, so I kind of with my Instagram, I have a play on words, studying femininity.
02:42:11.000But in studying femininity, you should also study what men want, what masculinity means.
02:44:38.000I think it was a good show and I want to say thank you to my friend DJ Detox who gave me to the show tonight because I just literally landed in Miami airport.
02:44:51.000And I got ready for like 30 minutes and he was like, let's go, let's go, let's go.