Single Mom Walks Off Crying After THIS…. And Annoying Indian Feminist Gets KICKED OFF
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And if you DM me saying you're in Miami and you come around tonight and you leave and you don't show up, then you're banned.
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She's like, hey, Miami, I'm coming on a show tonight.
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And then she was scheduled saying that something about Tampa or some bullshit.
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You scheduled that you're going to come on and say, oh, no, I changed your plan.
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This isn't like some fucking, no, I just pick and choose when I want to come my fuck out of here, man.
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There's opportunity if you don't want to come on.
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Okay, ladies, if you don't mind, welcome to the show.
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Give us your name, your age, what we do for a living.
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I can be put on the spot whenever I want cause I don't give a fuck No, no, no, no No, no I'm on Fresh and Fit That's the motherfucking podcast Yeah, yeah Sponsored by it.
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Do you live in Miami now or are you just visiting?
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They were arranged, so it's like that type of situation.
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How do you feel when you go to 7-Eleven and then they say, they could come again?
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What do your parents think about your career decision?
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So they wanted you to go to school and go to traditional?
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Yeah, they wanted me to be a doctor, literally.
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Are you a full-time student or do you have a job?
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And I've transitioned into the e-commerce business, so I'm doing dropshipping.
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My mom is Puerto Rican and my dad is Venezuelan.
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I would want to say that, but the track record?
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Would it be fair to say that you're single right now and you're just seeking your options?
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Well, in English it will be Mabel, but it's actually Mabel.
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I'm Dominican, grew up in Spain, 13 years in New York, and now almost three years here in Miami.
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What part of New York did you live in when you were there?
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Are your parents still in a DR? No, my mom is here.
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Okay, so you came here in 2007, and then I'm guessing you either have a green card or you're a citizen by now?
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When I came to this country, my dad was already a citizen, so I got the citizen right away.
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So he was an actualized citizen and then you were able to get a derivative from him.
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I have a passport from Spain and from here, too.
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I was born in the Dominican Republic when I was five.
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So you got the Spanish citizenship while you were there?
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And then you already had the U.S. citizenship in place because of your father?
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No, she's Dominican, but she's a Spanish citizen.
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Because you said no first, and then she's Spanish.
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But she basically became a naturalized Spanish citizen?
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Yeah, because it's not, like, easy to get, like...
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That's why I was like, wait, hold on one second.
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Yeah, you live here now, or are you just visiting?
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It's very, but it's worth it in a time where I am in my life right now.
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I've been trying to do some internships, though.
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I found out that I was pregnant after we broke up.
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And then I found out literally like, the week that I left.
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The next week, I found out that I was pregnant.
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Well, he's a little younger than me, so he's not ready.
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But, yeah, so I found out I was pregnant after we had broke up.
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If you look at my baby and look at him, it's his kid.
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Did you contact him after and say, hey, I'm pregnant?
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I'm Jamaican blood, so I don't play that cheating.
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So you couldn't take it anymore, but you gave him a kid?
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So, alright, the relationship was a little rocky.
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But, obviously, I got pregnant literally my birthday weekend.
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So, I mean, not that it's an excuse, but I was having fun, you know what I mean?
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But I got the best thing out of that quote-unquote accident.
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Well, it took a long time to get to this point, but yeah, he is involved.
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So he's literally, that's why I'm down here right now is because she's with her dad.
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Alright, so, that's a real great question to ask.
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The reason being is, I have, from the beginning, I was the one who was like, come get your kid, come get your kid, come get your kid.
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And he was kind of, he would always make an excuse.
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But, I think he started realizing a little bit down the line.
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He started seeing stuff like that that he's not witnessing because things were in the way.
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It's just that there has been a lot of stuff that has gone into that which has made it kind of rocky for me and him because the business was getting in the way of him coming to see his kid or coming.
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But you need to at least make a few hours for your child at least once during that week.
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By the way, to make sure that question about him being the daddy, there was a DNA test.
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Yeah, I mean, okay, so I guess, so once he saw the kids start to grow up a bit, he got more involved, and then he has his business, it looks like it's doing a lot better now than it was before.
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I can't complain, but it is hard when, I mean, if you're a single parent, period, and you're doing it, you know, most of the time by yourself, whether you're a woman or a man, it is hard, and postpartum depression hit me real hard.
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First of all, I didn't know I was pregnant first.
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If you're not coming home until 10 o'clock in the morning, what is outside for you at 10 o'clock in the morning?
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And if you don't want to be with me, that's fine.
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He was dumb, and he didn't change his password or shit.
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Maybe not new dick yet, but maybe in the near future, yeah.
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Just a different change from Broward, you know?
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I had wanted to go to UCF, and I had been waitlisted.
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By the time that I got off the waitlist, I already paid for my dorming at FGCU, and I didn't want to lose my money.
00:21:06.000
She said, fuck it, I'm going to stay in Fort Myers?
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No, I don't go to UCF. I had to reject UCF, but I had wanted to go to UCF. I'd rather be in Orlando than fucking Fort Myers.
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But wasn't Fort Myers where you went to go to UCF? No, no.
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She's saying that the school in Orlando didn't take her.
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So you go to Florida Gulf Coast University now.
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So that's why you're in Fort Myers because you go to school there.
00:21:53.000
You gave acronyms as if we would know or whatever.
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Right now, I'm a server at a kava restaurant, and I'm going to start that in a couple weeks.
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Oh yeah, it's like a type of mushroom drink or something like that?
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And I'm starting that in like two or three weeks, and then right now I also work at a club in Fort Myers.
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And then, also, right now, also, a hostess at a restaurant.
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I believe in him, and I genuinely hope he gets his...
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She never met the dude, but it's actually her boyfriend, and it's like, bro...
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Can I tell you a story about my dumbness, and then, like, it'll be valid?
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In a nutshell, she was dating this guy, he cheated on her, right?
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And this random guy On Instagram, DMed her, sent her, basically receipts of him cheating, saying, you can do better than him, I'll be the one for you, blah, blah, blah.
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She's like, oh, this guy's weird, but he's telling me the truth, so I like him.
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And now that they're together, and she's never seen him before, ever.
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That's why he stole that information from her ex.
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But why is it complicated if you don't even know him?
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Are you looking at me while I'm looking at you?
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I'm gonna label it as complicated, but technically I would like to say that I'm...
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I don't want to be like a grown woman being like, oh yeah, I have a boyfriend and not know what he looks like, not know his actual name.
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That kind of shit matters, you know what I mean?
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Not even a dick pic, and I'm not a thirsty motherfucker, but I'm like, can I just please see a picture of your penis?
00:26:13.000
I talked to him on the phone, but he uses a voice changer.
00:26:49.000
No, I did have a guy follow me around one time and I was like...
00:27:06.000
He can't even hack in a different account and send it to you?
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In any case, you're single or you need a lot of help.
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I'm like a grown woman and my dad took away my phone for like an entire day He was like what the fuck is wrong with you like this shit's fake He even went out of his way to send me this thing online of this lady from Miami and she got arrested for catfishing.
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And he was like, I don't care if you're a grown woman.
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And he took my phone the whole day and just talked to me.
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So literally a seven-minute conversation changed your mind.
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I'm not ashamed of it though, but it's personal.
00:29:05.000
Oh, physically in person, over 40, online, probably like a lot.
00:29:10.000
I had an OnlyFans for a little bit, and I was on Pornhub.
00:29:50.000
So 40 body count, and then you said virtual, maybe over 100.
00:30:01.000
So like, I do like coders, like you were mentioning Anonymous.
00:30:06.000
I wouldn't say I'm in that shit, but I do admire that shit from afar.
00:30:33.000
There's some guys here at the table that probably got a pretty body count.
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I know some of y'all here at the table got 40, if not more.
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First of all, some of us are in double-digit ages.
00:31:09.000
Part of the reason he took away my phone and I had to delete the corn hub.
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And then he was like, your little brother is 12.
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I mean, sometimes if you ration it out, it doesn't sound that bad.
00:32:03.000
And I was just at a point in my life where I was really immature and not valuing myself.
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And now that I'm 21, I can look back and be honest and be like, I really wasn't respecting myself and just doing whatever and not valuing myself as a woman and being in my divine feminine and all that.
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When I look back at it, my whole face can be deleted.
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My first year of college, I unleashed my deals.
00:32:45.000
That's a lot of girls their first year of college, to be honest with you.
00:32:53.000
Did you, like, was that parties or did you get, like, how did it happen?
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I mean, it was just sporadically, like, you know, like, I don't know.
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I'm, like, I don't know about the rest of you guys, but if I, like, click with someone and, like, in the moment, I'm, like, okay, like, you know, I, like, like you, I mess with you, like, stuff like that.
00:34:23.000
Okay, so I've noticed that the going price for pussy is $300 and that's a ridiculous amount.
00:34:57.000
A lot of girls charge for sex, though, in Miami.
00:35:16.000
Oh, niggas in the chat want to know, what do you charge?
00:35:27.000
Send me the cash hack and I'll reply from that.
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A man's first display of vulnerability is when he approaches a woman for the first time.
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He's putting himself out there knowing he will probably get rejected.
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Why do women turn down men lacking confidence if vulnerability was attractive, as women say?
00:35:47.000
Blackest Panther, bro, you've got to ask these questions in more succinct and easier for the girls to understand.
00:35:53.000
A lot of girls run around and say, oh, vulnerability is so important to me.
00:35:56.000
But then a guy comes up to you and you decline him and he showed some vulnerability.
00:36:04.000
It don't matter how vulnerable you are with me.
00:36:07.000
You gotta like him for him to be vulnerable, right?
00:36:13.000
I didn't know that woman liked vulnerability in a guy.
00:36:20.000
You know, so if you're confident and, you know, you, like, approach me appropriately and respectfully, then, and I think you're attractive, then, you know, I might give you a chance.
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They're approaching you like they don't know you.
00:36:42.000
They're just coming up to you and, like, showing themselves vulnerable because they're, well, hey, nice to meet you.
00:36:50.000
No, but he's saying, why do women decline men knowing that they're vulnerable when they say they want vulnerable men?
00:37:12.000
I have a lot of guys that come to me very vulnerable, and I try to explain them.
00:37:16.000
The thing is, the more you say no, the more they get attached.
00:37:28.000
No, because if I don't like you, I don't like you.
00:37:41.000
You've never been out with a guy that you didn't like and you went on a date with him and he took you to dinner?
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It's like, because you have to give the opportunity to know that person.
00:38:00.000
But did you pay for the dinners where the guys took you and you didn't like them?
00:38:07.000
Well, it's free dinner, but that's not what I meant.
00:38:11.000
And you can tell when you meet a guy if you like him or not.
00:38:14.000
You can tell from the very beginning when you meet a guy if you like him or not.
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Like, even if we go out not even for a dinner, like, we go for a drink, like, I don't mind to have the first round, second round, whatever.
00:38:36.000
Like, because I don't like people be paying, like, for my shit all the time because I don't got, like, to give them the right to then come to me, like, throwing me shit on the face.
00:38:49.000
So it's like, you're taking me out because you want, not because I need it.
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Because I used to be like her, but now I'm like, no, take me out.
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Because I feel like it's showing your authentic you.
00:39:25.000
You go through life to figure things out, don't you?
00:39:28.000
But why be vulnerable when it's gonna not work out anyway?
00:39:36.000
At the end of the day, it just didn't work out.
00:39:42.000
I didn't cheat, but I guess it would be cheating to someone.
00:39:49.000
Like, texting one of my exes, but it wasn't even on, like, I was trying to meet up with him or nothing.
00:39:54.000
We literally were cool, but my baby father didn't like me talking.
00:40:00.000
I'm not gonna say controlling, but he just thought it was a respect thing to not talk to another, like, one of my exes.
00:40:15.000
How would you like if he kept his ex in his phone?
00:40:16.000
But he has and I've seen it and I didn't care as long as I feel comfortable that you're not speaking or you're fucking her.
00:40:24.000
I'm not like one of those people that are just like, oh, you can't have this friend.
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They're like, oh, you can't have a girl best friend.
00:40:32.000
Out of curiosity, do you think men and women are the same?
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Do you think cheating between men and women is the same?
00:40:41.000
Do you think sex is easier for men to acquire or for women?
00:40:48.000
So since sex is easier to acquire for women, would you say that the threshold for a woman to cheat is easier since it's easier for women to get sex?
00:40:57.000
So wouldn't talking to an ex constitute as cheating since the threshold to break is easier?
00:41:01.000
But that's why I'm acknowledging that I did something wrong in his...
00:41:07.000
But I know for sure when it came to him that it was wrong in his mind.
00:41:11.000
That's why I'm taking accountability for me doing my wrong.
00:41:17.000
I would equate a man having sex with another woman as a woman talking to her ex.
00:41:21.000
And the reason for that is because it's much easier for a woman to cheat.
00:41:27.000
Your baby daddy had to put in work to get these other women to some degree.
00:41:35.000
Because if women really put themselves in a man's shoe, right?
00:41:45.000
And if I get, you know, turned down, it is what it is.
00:41:55.000
This year is different because I haven't gone out.
00:42:03.000
I was in a relationship and then I got pregnant.
00:42:07.000
You know what would happen if a guy made zero approaches?
00:42:13.000
Women have the privilege of not having an approach.
00:42:16.000
And that's why I'm saying if a woman puts themselves in a man, if roles were reversed and I turned into a man, you turned into a woman right now.
00:42:26.000
That's why I'm saying women don't realize that you guys are putting in more work to be able to even just get to know, just be in somebody's presence.
00:42:36.000
Like, I feel like everybody should, like, come out, like, women should learn that you're not entitled.
00:42:45.000
I mean, a lot of girls would hate you for saying that.
00:42:48.000
But the reality is, is that, you know, it ain't never going to happen because you could thank Instagram and social media for that.
00:42:57.000
I just wonder in what world is it okay to text your ex when you got a man?
00:43:01.000
Because obviously speaking, he will smash you in a heartbeat.
00:43:09.000
I started texting my ex, quote-unquote, when he started not coming home.
00:43:14.000
And that was one of the ex I'm talking about is somebody that I was very close to.
00:43:18.000
Like, when I tell you very close to, like, near-death experience, close to.
00:43:25.000
You guys got, like, in a car accident together?
00:43:30.000
But when it comes to dating women especially, there's always somebody in the picture, either an ex or the guy that made an imprint that will always be there, no matter who you are as a person to her.
00:43:40.000
If you're the best guy you've ever met, he's always there in the pocket that she can talk to.
00:43:44.000
So, I mean, it's there, but respectfully, if you've got a man, man, you've got to cut that shit, Coulter.
00:43:48.000
Yeah, because realistically speaking, if you said let's smash, you would smash.
00:43:52.000
I agree, and that's why I learned from my mistake.
00:43:55.000
Because this is the thing, I'm very much so learning from every journey that I go through in life.
00:44:06.000
And I'm not going to lie, after having a kid, that really put me into perspective of like, I have the next person I deal with.
00:44:18.000
Like, yeah, you gotta pay the bills, but you also gotta...
00:44:28.000
Is that fair to that man to have to come pay for this man's kid and you now?
00:44:37.000
If you're living in the house with me, yeah, we're gonna split bills.
00:44:45.000
I don't need any other man to take care of my kid.
00:44:52.000
Both my parents got married three times, divorced three times.
00:44:57.000
That kind of fucks you up as a kid when you keep seeing different people come in your life.
00:45:03.000
Why don't you just get back with the baby daddy then?
00:45:10.000
I think it was dumb that you left him for him fucking another bitch.
00:45:19.000
I'm not about to sit here and just let you talk down to me and degrade me like I'm nothing.
00:45:24.000
I'm not saying he did all of that at once, but it was very much so he was trying to control me.
00:45:30.000
I couldn't go hang out with my homegirl sometimes.
00:45:34.000
Do you think a new man will ever respect you the same way as your baby daddy?
00:45:43.000
But what y'all not understanding is that y'all not in my shoes.
00:45:46.000
Y'all haven't seen what I've gone through with my baby father.
00:45:51.000
But I also can't predict the next person either.
00:45:57.000
But I would hope and pray that God will shine me in the right light.
00:46:04.000
Yeah, all the girls are nodding along with you.
00:46:06.000
Yo, man, I think the best move is to stay with the baby daddy and work it out with him because any other guy that comes in, number one, they're not going to want to step up and be a stepdad.
00:46:17.000
And then number two, well, not the guy that she's going to want back.
00:46:20.000
And then the other thing, too, is that he's probably on his way, doing better, making money.
00:46:27.000
I think to end the relationship because of infidelity...
00:46:33.000
I'm giving you little pieces, but I'm not about to sit here and talk for two hours about that.
00:46:38.000
But that's the main thing you mentioned was infidelity.
00:46:42.000
No, because that's what got to the point that just pissed me off.
00:46:48.000
I had already been dealing with stuff prior to, and it got to that point, and I just got tired, and I just wanted to go back home.
00:46:57.000
You know, there was other shit that happened during that time.
00:47:01.000
But I don't want to talk bad about my baby father because he is doing what he's supposed to be doing right now.
00:47:08.000
I think because you're older, you were nagging the fuck out of him.
00:47:16.000
So he had boundaries and you didn't want to listen to him because he was younger than you.
00:47:25.000
But how is it okay for him to go out with his friends and not come home until 10 o'clock in the morning, but I'm home at 3, ready to get in bed with my man at that time.
00:47:35.000
But I don't give a fuck, because what you're not going to do is come home at 10 o'clock.
00:47:39.000
In my mind, I'm going to never go into your fucking the next bitch if you're not coming home at 10 o'clock.
00:47:50.000
You even admitted this earlier when I asked you, so we don't play by the same set of rules.
00:47:54.000
Him coming home late at night or in the next morning is not the same as you coming home late at night.
00:48:22.000
Yeah, I mean, y'all are not the same, and you even admitted it, so him going out with his friends is not the same as you going out with your friends.
00:48:29.000
And he probably didn't like your friends because they were probably thoughts.
00:48:33.000
I was saying, I feel like a man cheating ruins the entire stability of the household.
00:48:38.000
Yeah, because if you guys are supposed to lead and be an example, what kind of fucking example is that?
00:48:45.000
Let me ask you this, what hurts the stability of the relationship more, the man cheating or the woman cheating?
00:48:50.000
Yeah, because both parties are supposed to be loyal.
00:48:54.000
We're both supposed to be working towards this.
00:48:56.000
Do we show our love the same way, men and women?
00:49:02.000
Do men show love to women the same way that women show love to men, in general?
00:49:07.000
I feel like men show their love through the things they could provide for women, things they could do for women.
00:49:21.000
Yeah, but I'm asking specifically how does she show it?
00:49:24.000
You're pretty descriptive with the man he's providing.
00:49:29.000
Where does that peace of mind come from and that stability?
00:49:32.000
So you don't want to admit it, but it's sexual fidelity is where it gives men peace of mind.
00:49:44.000
That's what gives the man the peace of mind, not just sex.
00:49:48.000
But that also gives her a piece of stability, too, knowing that he's not doing the same thing.
00:49:54.000
Like, a man could have sex with another woman and still love his chick.
00:50:01.000
Do you run around and have sex with men indiscriminately?
00:50:06.000
Okay, but do you think that you could have a boyfriend and really love and respect him and go fuck another dude?
00:50:18.000
The argument is that men and women are not the same.
00:50:20.000
I was making the argument that men can do it, but women can't.
00:50:25.000
Both shouldn't in a healthy household, in a healthy dynamic.
00:50:36.000
I mean, if that's how you want to describe it, it's more along the lines of biology.
00:50:40.000
No, it's more along the lines of biology that men don't have the same attachment emotionally to sex that women do.
00:50:44.000
Well, men get the excuses to act on their infidelity and stuff, and women have to not.
00:50:51.000
I'm just saying men are more prone to do it in a way where it won't destroy the relationship like a woman.
00:50:55.000
It will, because a woman won't trust you after that.
00:51:04.000
By your own admission, they could provide and protect.
00:51:10.000
Can I fuck other bitches and provide and protect and still do my job?
00:51:14.000
Are you going to find a woman that's going to be okay with that?
00:51:29.000
Okay, whether she knows about it or not is another thing.
00:51:32.000
But what I'm trying to say, my simple argument is that if a guy goes out and has sex with a woman, it's not the same as a woman going to have sex with another man.
00:51:52.000
And they're in a loving relationship with their man, 95 of them probably will not want to have sex with someone else.
00:51:58.000
Maybe there's five weirdos that would, but 95 of them wouldn't.
00:52:01.000
But if I line up 100 dudes and I said, yo, you can have sex with other girls and you won't get caught and you won't get a headache from your bitch, they would all do it.
00:52:13.000
Well, if they're not getting any negative consequences from their woman, then they would do it.
00:52:23.000
A big reason why guys don't cheat is because they don't want to deal with headaches from their woman.
00:52:31.000
Do you not think there's a big reason why they do?
00:52:36.000
If you go out and you fuck another bitch, like...
00:52:46.000
You come back here, you fuck me, and then I'm the one like, What if you just give me a...
00:53:03.000
There's literally women out here who are okay with it though.
00:53:05.000
It's not only about the fact that you can give me an STD. The thing is like, you're disrespecting me.
00:53:13.000
But you can go out there, fuck somebody else, and then come back to me, yes, I love you.
00:53:20.000
I just did that favor to that girl, but I come back to you because I love you.
00:53:24.000
Because if you mind, you're not doing that shit, period.
00:53:27.000
But there's women out here that are okay with...
00:53:30.000
If you want to be like fucking different bitches, then stay single.
00:53:34.000
But there's women out there that are okay with it, though.
00:53:36.000
Like, I'm the type of girl that I prefer that you come to me like, listen, I just want to fuck with you.
00:53:48.000
I can handle that because I easily can forgive my man if he comes to me like, listen, this and this happened and I just did it.
00:54:00.000
I prefer he comes to me with the confidence and tells me in my face I did it, that I know from somebody else or I prove that he shit on me and then I come to him like, were you with this girl?
00:54:14.000
So you would take him back if he was honest with you?
00:54:23.000
Because she said cheating was the same five minutes ago.
00:54:26.000
The thing is like, the thing with me personally.
00:54:30.000
Like, if I fuck with somebody else, being in a relationship, that means I don't really love you.
00:54:38.000
You literally said about seven minutes ago that cheating is the same.
00:54:47.000
And then you're just now admitting that it's not the same.
00:54:50.000
Because when I talk from the outside, I'm talking on my personal life, me, the person I am, I cannot cheat on my man because if I fuck with somebody else, it's because I just don't love him.
00:55:06.000
Most of you are like that when you're with a man that you love and admire and respect.
00:55:13.000
You ladies do realize that women are way more alike than you guys try to sound.
00:55:19.000
It's just that you guys walk around and say that I'm special and I'm different.
00:55:30.000
You wouldn't want to cheat on your guy if you were in a relationship.
00:55:48.000
A man can go fuck another chick and love his chick, but you can't fuck another guy and love your man.
00:55:58.000
Some men are so in love with their girl, they would never in their entire existence because they know the value that a woman brings to his life.
00:56:03.000
But if he did, it wouldn't ruin the relationship like a woman.
00:56:06.000
It may ruin that relationship because that woman is not going to feel as honored.
00:56:09.000
She's not going to feel like she's being taken care of, like she's being provided for.
00:56:12.000
How she feels and what's real are two different things.
00:56:15.000
He's really not giving a fuck about her if he's going out and cheating on her.
00:56:18.000
You could definitely care and love about his mother's girl.
00:56:32.000
No, no, you're assuming of actions, but you don't know deep down how men really move.
00:56:36.000
He just told you, man can fuck a girl, I still love you.
00:56:40.000
When I speak from a woman's perspective of she could do the same thing, why am I not speaking fast?
00:56:45.000
You just confirmed what she said, and he said that you're all similar.
00:56:59.000
He's telling you, the bad side of men, the truth.
00:57:05.000
No, no, but from the point of view of cheating, that's what I'm trying to say.
00:57:09.000
But you're saying women like to fuck other guys when they have a man that they love, and it's not true.
00:57:15.000
Let's say 100 women, maybe like five of them, but not 95.
00:57:22.000
Because I know some ears out there, and that's not a real statistic.
00:57:30.000
We've interviewed almost 3,000 girls on this show.
00:57:36.000
When a girl's in a relationship with a guy that she actually loves, admires, and respects, all other men in general are invisible to her.
00:57:43.000
But most women don't see other men when they're in love with their man.
00:57:49.000
But with men, if we're in a loving relationship, we definitely see other bitches and we want to have sex with them.
00:57:54.000
So are you in a loving relationship or are you in love with your girl?
00:58:02.000
Being in a loving relationship, you're enjoying the benefits of being with a loving girl.
00:58:14.000
Because you guys are looking at it from a very feminine perspective versus I'm looking at it, okay, that's the problem.
00:58:26.000
You said out of a hundred women, five of them would cheat on me.
00:58:43.000
When you were in love with him and things were good, did you even look at other men?
00:59:03.000
But when he wasn't locked up, did you cheat on him?
00:59:39.000
Typically, when they're with a man that they love and mind and respect, they don't behave like hoes because the guy checks off all the boxes.
00:59:43.000
And guys are just naturally hoes all the time, no matter what situation, ever.
00:59:57.000
It doesn't change the overall bottom line that when women are in a relationship with a man that they respect.
01:00:04.000
Let me finish my points before because you guys just interrupt with nonsensical arguments that don't make sense or pertain to the argument.
01:00:13.000
I'm just trying to make a point here because you guys tried to make an argument on something what I'm saying when I didn't finish my point and you don't know what you're talking about.
01:00:21.000
That women, when they're in love with a man, it's much less likely that they're going to cheat on that man because women typically tie their sexual fidelity to love.
01:00:32.000
Men, on the other hand, though, well, we have to understand women to get them.
01:00:36.000
You don't have to understand men to get them, but we have to understand women to get them.
01:00:40.000
You just exist, and men come up to you and talk to you.
01:00:46.000
Well, if you did, you shut the hell up and listen.
01:00:49.000
With the men, on the other hand, we can be with a woman that we love, admire, and respect, but we're still going to want to have sex with other women.
01:00:55.000
Because men have a biological inclination to have sex with as many women as possible.
01:01:00.000
Yeah, but the thing is like, you're talking about that we are emotional.
01:01:05.000
But when you notice that your girl cheat on you, you don't take it the same as you expecting a woman said that, oh, my man cheat on me.
01:01:17.000
That's normal that you're mainly cheating on you.
01:01:18.000
But when a woman is the one cheating on the man, she's already a hoe.
01:01:27.000
You're a hoe because you're not designed to be a hoe.
01:01:49.000
That's why we don't have the same emotional tie to sex that you guys do.
01:01:58.000
So since your investment is higher, you have more standards that the man must check off.
01:02:02.000
But I mean, don't you care about your offspring?
01:02:04.000
Don't you want to be with a solid woman for your children as well?
01:02:10.000
Yeah, that's why you don't want to wife up a whore.
01:02:29.000
Like, guys that are about their word, that know their values and their principles.
01:02:48.000
Are you aware of the fact that women find men that have other women attractive?
01:02:56.000
Are you aware of the fact that men that have other women are more attractive?
01:03:02.000
I mean, for me, I don't feel like that's attractive to me.
01:03:05.000
If you're entertaining a lot of females, you're for everybody.
01:03:21.000
We're the creators of the space that you enjoy and that you call home.
01:03:27.000
I don't know what that has to do with me saying that women men are the homemakers.
01:03:31.000
What is you saying that we all are the homemakers have to do with anything either?
01:03:35.000
Because you're trying to say that men having sex with...
01:03:39.000
It doesn't make a home when you're out here being infidel.
01:03:47.000
Infidelity, I think, is what you were trying to say.
01:03:50.000
I was trying to do an Indian accent for all the Curry speakers in the chat right now.
01:03:58.000
Yeah, so anyway, are you aware that men that have other women are more attractive?
01:04:20.000
Attractive guy, handsome, very well-spoken, is your type, right?
01:05:14.000
After you get your one drink and your, I guess, plate of food, are you staying or are you leaving?
01:05:20.000
Since the beginning that he invited me, I wouldn't go.
01:05:23.000
Well, let's say you went because you found him attractive.
01:05:43.000
If my girl is not going to stay, I'm not staying by myself.
01:06:14.000
As a female, being like 50 dudes, unless you're a saucy girl and you're like, you know what, me and my girls, we're gonna take this down.
01:06:50.000
Yeah, but this is also based off the guy that invited me.
01:06:57.000
Are you staying or leaving now that there's more women at this party?
01:07:01.000
You're 70-20, but he obviously invited you and wanted to talk to you.
01:07:31.000
Okay, which scenario do you feel more comfortable in than of the two?
01:07:35.000
Out of the two scenarios, more women, for sure.
01:07:41.000
Assuming you like the guy and he's there to talk to you.
01:07:44.000
Well, I'll be, like, literally there for a few minutes.
01:07:47.000
If he's just, like, enjoying with the rest of the girls, I'm like, I'm out.
01:08:06.000
Yes, there's food in both scenarios and drinks.
01:08:17.000
Can I just say, if I actually hit it off with the guy at the mall and he's actually about his shit and he invited me to this party and he was telling me this is what he does and blah blah blah, I would honestly go and stay for the support no matter if there's guys or girls.
01:08:31.000
Which scenario would you feel more comfortable with?
01:08:36.000
And if I know that he likes me, I'm pretty much going to be focused on him.
01:08:39.000
Which scenario would you feel more comfortable though?
01:08:42.000
Because when I asked you the question in the beginning, you said you're leaving.
01:08:45.000
I am, because if my girls don't feel comfortable...
01:08:47.000
When you ask the question, I'm assuming, like, I don't know this guy.
01:08:54.000
I prefer to be in a place where there's more men than women.
01:09:05.000
It's interesting when you ask them off what their answer is, then now they're trying to justify whatever it is.
01:09:10.000
I asked that question to simply display that you felt more comfortable when there were women there and you were more likely to stay because there were other women there.
01:09:16.000
It makes the man more attractive when he has the ability to have other women at his party.
01:09:21.000
I mean, it's attractive that you invited me and you liked me.
01:09:37.000
No, I'm saying, that's why I said either scenario, it's cool, like, with me.
01:09:40.000
Because if you're the guy that threw the party, then...
01:09:43.000
You were more comfortable with the girls there.
01:09:45.000
I'm not gonna lie, because I had to think about the context more.
01:09:49.000
The reality is, when I asked you at face value, give me an answer, yes or no, which one are you doing at this...
01:09:55.000
Oh, well, say for those other women there, instead of other bunch of dudes, because that'll be weird.
01:09:58.000
Because I'm going off the fact that I don't know him.
01:10:02.000
Yeah, but having other women there puts you at ease, correct?
01:10:10.000
A man that has the ability to have social proof and have other women there disarms you and doesn't make you feel as unsafe because he's able to attract other women to come to his party.
01:10:24.000
So you feel more comfortable because he does what?
01:10:26.000
He's able to bring other women into a social situation.
01:10:29.000
That was my point when I made the argument saying...
01:10:32.000
That men that have the ability to attract other women and have other women are more attractive.
01:10:48.000
I was saying in that scenario specifically, I'm only staying for the party because the girls make me feel comfortable.
01:10:57.000
I'm not staying because of the guy because I think the guy is attractive.
01:11:05.000
I just said it's because other girls make you feel comfortable and men that have other women are attractive.
01:11:12.000
The situation that he put together made it attractive.
01:11:25.000
Because he gets the opportunity to talk to you longer so he can build attraction.
01:11:28.000
Whereas in the first scenario, you would have left immediately.
01:11:35.000
We're just diving further into knowing the context better.
01:11:37.000
You said earlier, women don't know shit about getting girls, right?
01:11:44.000
Women don't understand that for a guy to even get a fucking chance at a date sometimes, you gotta be charismatic, charming, etc.
01:11:50.000
Invited to the party, you gotta make sure the ratio's on point to a certain degree so you don't look like a weirdo, etc.
01:11:53.000
You don't even see all these things that he's doing behind the scenes.
01:11:55.000
No, because if you did, you wouldn't have said that nonsense argument a second ago.
01:12:00.000
No, I wouldn't care because it would be for him.
01:12:02.000
But actually, no, it's more attractive because there's other girls here.
01:12:10.000
It's for me comfortable in his whatever the fuck he created.
01:12:14.000
Yes, he created an attractive environment, which in turn makes him more attractive so he gets the opportunity to talk to you.
01:12:20.000
But if he created that environment with a lot of guys and I was there, if he makes that experience worth it for me, then I'm going to stay.
01:12:34.000
For me, like you said, incident in VIP. That means we're in a public place, let's say in a club.
01:12:39.000
I would prefer to go to the one with more men than girls.
01:12:43.000
But now you're telling me, we're going to a house party or whatever.
01:12:49.000
And then I get there with five girls and there's a bunch of kids.
01:12:53.000
I'm sorry, but I'm in a place where I don't feel secure and I don't know all these men.
01:13:00.000
Especially if you're not talking to me and all these men.
01:13:01.000
But if we're in a public place, Boy, I'm going with the men's.
01:13:30.000
I just think that everybody keeps putting emotion way too much into it.
01:13:42.000
He was just trying to explain something and you guys keep putting emotion into it.
01:13:49.000
It had everything to do with the way he was explaining it.
01:13:56.000
Us as women, we feel more comfortable if we see women.
01:14:00.000
What he's saying is, automatically, if I see that there's 50 dudes in a party, and this one dude invited me, I'm automatically going to think that something's off with him.
01:14:14.000
When you bring in women to the equation, now I'm looking at him like he's more quote-unquote normal, if that makes sense.
01:14:31.000
What I'm saying, attractiveness comes in different forms.
01:14:43.000
Yeah, the vibes, the energy, who he has around him.
01:14:52.000
Like, if we in a room with 50 dudes, why he don't have no women around him?
01:14:59.000
Y'all are literally looking at it completely wrong.
01:15:02.000
Like, he's literally saying, if you're in a room...
01:15:06.000
If you're in a room with 50 men, and the man that brought you there is with 50 other men, why does he not have women around him?
01:15:16.000
I think he's not attractive in either scenario.
01:15:25.000
Did you not listen to the scenario where I said he was your type, he was attractive, he met you at the mall, he rizzed you up, and you were interested in going to the party?
01:15:42.000
Attraction was assumed from the beginning, right?
01:15:49.000
And then I gave you same controls, just different variables with the females there.
01:15:55.000
Most of you said you would stay when there were other women there, which proves my fucking point, that a man being able to have other women there shows social awareness, having social proof, that makes him more attractive.
01:16:13.000
And chimpanzees are closest to human beings that there is.
01:16:15.000
So, if you guys want to understand the scenario, I don't know what to tell you.
01:16:45.000
JBS says, ladies, if you were a guy and you saw you walking down the street, what would be your opening line when approaching?
01:16:57.000
So what's your opening line to yourself when you get approached?
01:17:24.000
Let's see her act it out because she has the most to say about what women are attracted to us and stuff.
01:17:49.000
So you're hitting on her, but pretending to be you.
01:18:03.000
And this is based off the ways guys have approached me.
01:18:08.000
I'm going to give you the rules on how you do this.
01:18:12.000
Should we be at the club, and then we take a shot together?
01:18:17.000
So, you're gonna pick the scenario under which you want to meet the girl.
01:18:26.000
So, Fresh is gonna be the girl, and I want you to be the guy, and I want you to approach him how you would do it as a guy.
01:18:55.000
Yes, you're standing and you're going to actually, I want you to, body language and everything, you're going to go up to him as if you're a dude and you're going to approach him.
01:19:09.000
He's going to say the same shit that girls say.
01:19:13.000
I want to see how you handle it and how are you able to riz her up.
01:19:35.000
I'm going to give her the platform to spit her game.
01:19:46.000
But we are going to do it like the way we like to be approached or just how normally they do it?
01:20:15.000
He's going to be a regular-ass girl at a fucking supermarket.
01:20:23.000
So, we know how girls behave and how they act when guys approach them that they don't know.
01:20:31.000
A lot of the things he's going to do, you've probably done to guys that came up to you.
01:20:37.000
So, Fresh, I want you to be looking at, I don't know, something in the aisle.
01:20:42.000
Now, I want you to approach him like a dude would that you think would be attractive.
01:20:47.000
How you would do it if you were a man and you wanted to get a girl.
01:20:56.000
Don't say anything so that they can go ahead and just have their conversation.
01:22:55.000
When she tried to walk away, you got in the way.
01:23:04.000
Don't break it to the end because someone else may make the same mistake.
01:23:12.000
Women don't know fucking shit about attracting women at all.
01:23:47.000
Well, I'm just picking up some groceries for my friends at their apartment.
01:23:58.000
I'm actually new in town, so I'm trying to expand my network.
01:24:28.000
Okay, you should give me a follow on Instagram if you're really wishing.
01:25:11.000
The chance to follow them and never follow you back and then block you if you talk too much or bother them.
01:25:18.000
I feel like you're a real standoffish girl, bro.
01:25:28.000
Have any of you guys done what he did to guys before?
01:25:37.000
Because we're men, we have to understand women, so we know all the bullshit that you guys do that we have to deal with to get girls.
01:25:44.000
But women don't understand men, which is why she had zero clue of what the fuck to do.
01:25:54.000
We get rejected way more than you could think of.
01:26:06.000
If you had tried, you would have been quiet when I was explaining it.
01:26:12.000
Well, this exercise proved my point every single time.
01:26:14.000
Women have zero idea what it takes to be attractive as a man.
01:26:17.000
You guys don't know how hard men have to struggle to just get a date.
01:26:23.000
He brings all the girls to the place, makes a cool environment so that you can feel more comfortable so he can talk to you.
01:26:28.000
That's why most of you guys would leave if there were 50 niggas there, right?
01:26:32.000
Like if a girl invited me to a party, there was a bunch of dudes there, but the girl invited me.
01:26:36.000
I can go talk to her, but it wouldn't work the other way around women.
01:26:56.000
India is not the most disgusting coach on the planet, bro.
01:27:11.000
I'm already fucking tired of these chicks, bro.
01:27:13.000
I know you're over me, but are you going to give me a full chance?
01:27:36.000
But like, the rest of y'all, I'm like, what the hell's going on?
01:27:49.000
So what's the scenario that you want to talk to him about?
01:28:20.000
We're both in line together at the gas station.
01:28:27.000
No, she hasn't paid yet because I want to be able to interrupt.
01:28:45.000
Hi, my name is Shay, and I just want to say that you look amazing.
01:28:58.000
Just a snack real quick before I head on my road trip.
01:29:02.000
Because I just feel like I want to provide and protect for you, and I would love to get you that fruit roll-up.
01:29:13.000
But for Sheena, I would love to offer you that fruit roll-up.
01:29:27.000
I would like to call you, maybe take you out sometime.
01:30:20.000
Okay, can we fill up the car and the fruit roll-up?
01:30:53.000
Has a guy ever paid for your fruit roll-up at a gas station and you went out with him?
01:31:29.000
Okay, so off rip, I'm going to give you two scenarios.
01:31:31.000
If I was a girl, I would have said, okay, this thing is kind of weird.
01:31:44.000
But that's my L. If she took it, she didn't want my number.
01:31:58.000
Because you give me stuff for free, I don't even know you.
01:32:03.000
Yeah, most girls in that scenario would take the fruit roll up and the free gas and just leave.
01:32:21.000
Okay, but the goal was to get the number and go on a date.
01:32:27.000
No, the original question was your goal is to get the number and go on the date.
01:32:31.000
But is it a real date when the girl doesn't really like you?
01:32:37.000
My whole point of my scenario is I kept asking if it was okay because at any point you could have said no.
01:32:45.000
You said the goal was to get the number and go on a date.
01:33:07.000
Most girls are not going to respond favorably to that.
01:33:09.000
Would any of y'all go for that Riz at a gas station?
01:33:20.000
There's a lot of men that approach to women just like the way she did.
01:33:28.000
Because I hate when men just come to me trying to buy me.
01:33:31.000
Like, no, that's not how you're going to get me.
01:33:51.000
It's the same thing when you're in a club and they already want to send drinks.
01:33:56.000
You approach me in a way and a manner where you set the stage to be tricked on.
01:34:02.000
So now, I see you as an option to either take care of me for money, or just to finesse.
01:34:08.000
Versus, you approach me, you actually have actual game, you get to know me better on a personal level, alright, now I'll let this dude because he's cool.
01:34:14.000
I called that she was gonna do that trick bullshit.
01:34:17.000
She's like, oh, I'm from Atlanta, oh yeah, money, money, blah blah blah.
01:34:20.000
As soon as she said that, I was like, okay, she's gonna do some dumb shit that some nigga tried on her.
01:34:25.000
And then the problem with tricking like that is that a lot of girls will either A, just decline you outright because it's weird, or B, they'll be like, oh, this dude's a fucking sucker.
01:34:35.000
Let me go ahead and get a free tank of gas off of him.
01:34:40.000
Yo, yo, by the way, typically that's their response though.
01:34:45.000
Yeah, spend money on a girl that you don't know.
01:34:46.000
Like, yo, that will set you up for failure like 99% of the time.
01:34:51.000
How many free dates have you been on in your life?
01:35:00.000
Yeah, so how many times have you been out with guys on free dinner dates that you don't like?
01:35:04.000
The scenario was getting her number and going on a date.
01:35:09.000
You took my number, I took your number, and you agreed.
01:35:20.000
Wait, you admitted earlier that you've been on dates with guys that were free and you didn't fuck them right?
01:35:34.000
But if a man's goal is to go on a date, he didn't say his goal was to fuck.
01:35:39.000
Why do niggas talk to women in the first place?
01:35:45.000
You think dudes literally go ahead and go through the trouble of spending money on a dinner date to just hang out with you?
01:35:56.000
That's why these bitches be left at the fucking airport when they be trying to go out of town thinking that a nigga was going to spend some money on them.
01:36:08.000
Getting food out and going out to dinner is two different things.
01:36:11.000
It's not just the scenario that he is talking about.
01:36:17.000
At the end of the day, if you're tricking off, if you are a trick in a woman's mind, that's all she's gonna go for you for, is money.
01:36:37.000
No, I understand, though, because at the end of the day...
01:36:40.000
When a woman meets a man, she puts him in two boxes.
01:36:44.000
But if you're saying, oh, I'll spend money on you, she'll be like, all right, cool.
01:36:50.000
I'm not attracted to you, but I'll see how long I can take this and what I can get out of it.
01:36:58.000
You do realize that the world doesn't revolve around you, right?
01:37:02.000
By the way, that's why this category is for women.
01:37:07.000
Some girls, and I said this, some girls will have you in that I'm not attracted to them box, but I can get something out of this, and they'll go ahead and play the game, go out on dates with them without fucking them, hanging out with guys that they don't like.
01:37:17.000
You've been on dates with guys you didn't fuck, right?
01:37:20.000
You have been on dates with women you didn't fuck.
01:37:29.000
There's no other point to go out with women if there's no sex.
01:37:40.000
If I'm gonna talk about life or experiences or whatever, or business, I'm gonna talk with a nigga, not a girl, because women and men don't live the same experience.
01:37:48.000
Women live a far easier, far more comfortable, far more plush life than men do.
01:37:55.000
I'm gonna talk to other men that have had to deal with the bullshit and endure and everything else over a woman.
01:38:00.000
Men only go out with women for sexual access Period.
01:38:06.000
When there's a connection, of course, then it's good too.
01:38:09.000
When there's a connection with a girl, then it's different as well.
01:38:15.000
But that's why I was saying, that's why I was bringing up the point of when niggas fly girls out, right?
01:38:22.000
The man pay for your flight, he pay for your food, he pay for everything.
01:38:26.000
And then all of a sudden, when we get back to the hotel, you not trying to throw no ass.
01:38:35.000
First impression and first actual date, he's trying to smash.
01:38:45.000
And then when the day comes where he thinks he's going to fuck.
01:38:48.000
But what I'm saying is that you're delusional if you think men are hanging out with you for your presence.
01:38:53.000
The dudes that took you out on dinner dates, they want to fuck.
01:38:57.000
Let me use this lust against them, get a free dinner out of it, hang out with them, maybe get some gifts.
01:39:05.000
You can't just take me out and I'm ready to fuck.
01:39:12.000
Okay, but the point is that you wouldn't give a fuck if he cared to build an attraction or not.
01:39:16.000
Maybe he might put a little effort in, but if he didn't, you still get a W out of it, right?
01:39:21.000
He, on the other hand, is out of money, out of time.
01:39:26.000
That's where y'all want to be alpha male, provide and protect.
01:39:36.000
I mean, you ain't fucking, so why should he provide for you if you ain't fucking?
01:39:41.000
All I'm saying is that you came in from a provider frame, as you would say, a lot of girls will use that against you and try to get free dinners, free experiences off of you, which you've done yourself in your own experiences, which I'm trying to say here, that's what girls do.
01:39:57.000
You've never been on a date with a guy you don't like?
01:40:01.000
I don't go out on dates with guys I don't like, bro.
01:40:07.000
Have you ever hung out with a guy that you didn't see like that?
01:40:14.000
It could be go getting a club, hanging out, talking.
01:40:17.000
Yeah, and you don't like him, but you're hanging out with him.
01:40:40.000
What I'm trying to say is that men hang out with women.
01:40:43.000
There's no possibility that it would be a joke.
01:40:52.000
Will you approach a woman and just tell her, like, listen, I think you are beautiful.
01:41:08.000
I would prefer to be with a man that just comes to me straight up.
01:41:20.000
So there's no scenario where a guy would value a woman's presence for anything other than sexual value.
01:41:32.000
But at the very beginning, we're just trying to figure out each other at the very beginning.
01:41:41.000
But the fundamental is the guys want sex no matter what.
01:41:47.000
I don't think you ladies really grasp this, okay?
01:41:49.000
When men hang out with women, we have a bottom line.
01:42:03.000
It doesn't matter, but women can get a lot of things through men.
01:42:06.000
We really can't get much through you guys because most of you guys are useless.
01:42:10.000
But to be honest, it's technically sexual access that men are looking for.
01:42:14.000
Versus women are looking for a multitude of things.
01:42:16.000
It could be money, attention, resources, whatever it is.
01:42:22.000
That's why girls will hang out with guys they don't fucking like.
01:42:28.000
And you just said that you hang out with them as friends, right?
01:42:40.000
But what I'm trying to say is, he's hanging out with you because he wants to fuck.
01:42:44.000
You're hanging out because you like the company, the attention.
01:42:46.000
So he can never hang out with me because he likes my company and my attention.
01:43:04.000
I don't understand you guys from my perspective.
01:43:07.000
Because see, with that whole situation there, you failed.
01:43:15.000
I don't even know how to If I just approach myself, that don't mean I don't know guys.
01:43:19.000
That just means I don't know myself with women.
01:43:28.000
You don't think the dudes that you hang out with are trying to smash?
01:43:46.000
I don't hang out with guys that give that intention so fully.
01:43:53.000
Because they know that you'll drop them if they tell you straight up.
01:43:58.000
And she said he would never try to get with me.
01:44:02.000
They've been in the same bed, had sleepovers, never touched her.
01:44:06.000
She called them on the phone live on air and said, you know what?
01:44:22.000
So, I get what you're saying, but to be honest with you, they'll wait forever.
01:44:26.000
That shit happened, I swear that shit happened to me.
01:44:29.000
But when I say I hold out to this, I'm the issue, and I'm using people for money.
01:44:37.000
Because men have to give value to be friends with girls.
01:44:39.000
Girls don't have to be value to be friends with guys.
01:44:45.000
You guys can call me an asshole or whatever the fuck you want to say.
01:44:48.000
Men don't get value from women unless they're fucking them.
01:44:54.000
If you're not fucking him, you're not going to do everything in your power to keep him.
01:44:58.000
You get the best out of a female when she's having sex with you and she actually likes you.
01:45:03.000
Women are fairly useless in a friendship situation.
01:45:06.000
I'd rather be friends with fucking guys that can identify with my problems.
01:45:09.000
Because masculine problems versus feminine problems are two different things.
01:45:12.000
Women live life on easy mode, especially in 2023.
01:45:15.000
What the fuck do I look like asking a female for her opinion or how she views the world or whatever?
01:45:19.000
Because she may have the experience that you may need to understand.
01:45:29.000
What do you mean building my career, building my life?
01:45:36.000
Who's it harder to build a career than in the music industry?
01:45:44.000
That's why I'm gonna go fuck about your opinion.
01:45:46.000
The male's experience is way harder to build up in a career.
01:45:49.000
I'm gonna talk to another male musician, not a female musician, who has it way easier than I do.
01:45:53.000
And that's with everything in life, not just music.
01:45:55.000
Everything that men do is way harder than females, in general.
01:46:00.000
So what the fuck do I look like talking to a girl and sharing life experience when I can't benefit from it?
01:46:06.000
Your experience is hard, but mine is too though.
01:46:13.000
You might have met some celebrity rappers as a female musician.
01:46:18.000
As a male musician, you ain't meeting nobody unless you got a single out.
01:46:22.000
And you know what's funny about this too as well?
01:46:24.000
They'll meet you, but then they want to smash too.
01:46:29.000
As a male musician, you ain't getting in no fucking rooms unless you're somebody.
01:46:39.000
I didn't listen to one of your music and you still here.
01:46:50.000
But you got that opportunity because you're a female is the point.
01:46:51.000
As a guy, you would have to be somebody to get on this podcast.
01:46:54.000
You would have to have millions of followers and have a big platform.
01:46:57.000
Meanwhile, you're a female, no platform, and you're here.
01:46:59.000
That's a perfect example of women live life on easy mode.
01:47:02.000
I'm not saying that to be an asshole, but I'm telling y'all the truth.
01:47:19.000
I'm not trying to shit on your life experience, but the reality is that no 24...
01:47:35.000
Do you think if you were a guy you would have had the same opportunities that you have now as a female?
01:47:45.000
There's more doors open for women than there are men.
01:47:48.000
But what I'm saying is that a woman's friendship and camaraderie doesn't compare to a man's who's experienced the same shit that I have.
01:48:21.000
So it's like, I'm going to be, like, bright and bubbly.
01:48:28.000
You have the ability to over-talk and to say dumb shit that you've been saying all night.
01:48:35.000
If you were a dude, I would have decked you in the face by now.
01:48:39.000
So you don't get physical consequences for your fuck-ups.
01:48:43.000
But if you were a dude and you talked to me like this, you'd be knocked out by now.
01:48:47.000
If you were a guy talking to me like this, I would have been knocked you out.
01:48:49.000
But what I'm trying to say, though, is that as a female, you get certain privileges, right?
01:48:56.000
But men also get privileges that women don't get.
01:48:59.000
Like being taken seriously, their word taken seriously in a room full of other men?
01:49:05.000
No, their word is only taken seriously if they're a fucking somebody.
01:49:08.000
If they're married matches up to their word, right?
01:49:11.000
Right, but for us, we apparently just walk in a room and they're just only looking at our physicalities.
01:49:15.000
What we have to say doesn't have any value to a man.
01:49:19.000
Because most women don't bring any real value outside their beauty.
01:49:32.000
Most women are not respected by most men because most women don't do respectable things, to be honest with you.
01:49:37.000
They're not working as hard as guys in many different fields.
01:49:42.000
If they do, they do get the respect, but it's earned.
01:49:46.000
They expect it, but the reality is that respect is earned.
01:49:51.000
They don't work hard, so they don't get respect back.
01:49:54.000
You have to be a somebody when you walk into a room for them to respect you.
01:49:58.000
You know how difficult sometimes for a woman to earn that respect?
01:50:04.000
Men's been judging all women like they the same shape.
01:50:10.000
You just go, very professional, to take care of a client, of our guests, or anything, and then they look at you like, oh, this is another hole.
01:50:28.000
I mean, yeah, you're a cocktail server, so most of your clients are going to be guys.
01:50:33.000
You're probably dressed in a certain way to get more tips.
01:50:36.000
No, I dress decently because I work in a resort.
01:50:42.000
Well, you're still going to have to market yourself to some degree so that you can get a tip.
01:50:50.000
I don't have to dress sexy or anything like that because I'm just doing my job professionally.
01:50:56.000
But there's a lot of guests that go to my job and look at me like, I'm just looking to get some extra and look at me in a disrespectful way and make me some offers that I'm not.
01:51:19.000
That's just how men are going to move towards you.
01:51:25.000
If you're a bartender, or if you're a bottle girl, or if you're involved in the service industry where there's alcohol involved, where niggas are giving you tips, they're going to want to hit on you, and they're going to want to try to make a move.
01:51:39.000
Of course they can hit on me, but in a respectful way.
01:51:41.000
But the thing is, like, there's a lot of men that do it in a way like...
01:51:45.000
You don't think that you sometimes play with their actions as well?
01:52:27.000
No, they're saying that you're sexualized right there.
01:52:31.000
It's sexualized because I put a picture in the kitchen.
01:52:34.000
Yeah, because your titties is out and stuff like that.
01:53:06.000
Mabel, you posted that shit on your account, man.
01:53:19.000
All these models that are been posing for a bikini staff like...
01:53:27.000
No, but what are you going to tell me about people that there's a word for Victoria's Secret.
01:53:41.000
According to him, he said that all men are going to want to fuck anyway, so it doesn't matter what you post.
01:53:46.000
That means all my posts needs to be super covered.
01:53:54.000
Let me make this very clear to all the ladies here.
01:53:56.000
If you sexualize yourself, men will not fucking respect you.
01:54:01.000
If you sexualize yourself as a female, men are not going to fucking respect you.
01:54:08.000
So, if you have that shit on your Instagram, you can't sit there and complain, men Don't take me serious!
01:54:13.000
Why the hell are they going to treat you professionally when you dress like that on the internet?
01:54:21.000
Then all the girls in the beach are sexualizing the sun.
01:54:27.000
I'm going to go to the beach covering all my stuff, everything.
01:54:57.000
Yo, with all due respect, you're a cocktail waitress, so yeah, men aren't going to respect you.
01:55:02.000
If I met a dude that was a cocktail waiter, I wouldn't respect him either.
01:55:13.000
I'm telling you, if I met a man that was a cocktail waiter...
01:55:16.000
If I met a man that was a cocktail waiter, I would laugh at him.
01:55:19.000
I would respect him even less than a female cocktail waitress.
01:55:24.000
But being a cocktail server is not something wrong.
01:55:31.000
The dress that I wear in my job is literally covering all this, everything.
01:55:37.000
It's not a high skill set job, so therefore you don't deserve the respect that you're claiming, that you're trying to get.
01:55:46.000
If I met a man, I wouldn't respect him that was a cocktail waiter.
01:55:59.000
That means a woman that works in an office, sitting in an office, has more respect than one that is a waitress?
01:56:32.000
I was explaining earlier, when men are in a room, the guy who is the most accomplished, etc., will automatically get respect from the men there because men are based on hierarchy.
01:56:42.000
We don't have this bullshit mindset that you guys have.
01:56:50.000
If I bust my ass to be a multi-fucking millionaire, I'm going to behave that way and people are going to respect it.
01:56:54.000
If you don't want to work as hard and you want to be a fucking cocktail server or whatever, you're not on the same level and you don't deserve as much respect as I do because I put in way more work.
01:57:07.000
That's the difference between how men think and how women think.
01:57:09.000
So if this server gave you the best service you've ever gotten in your entire life, she wouldn't earn your respect?
01:57:15.000
She's not gonna earn the same level of respect of someone that is successful, period.
01:57:19.000
I don't know why you ladies can't understand this shit.
01:57:47.000
Alright, then what are you talking about everyone deserves respect?
01:57:49.000
I'm talking about in the context of men and women.
01:58:08.000
You are judging a woman just because of what she's working or what she's posting.
01:58:22.000
I respect a stay-at-home mother that's married with kids and she has a man.
01:58:27.000
I respect her more than a cocktail waitress because men and women have different accomplishments.
01:58:41.000
But men on the other hand, hey, do you make money?
01:58:44.000
Do you have a girl that loves and respects you?
01:58:54.000
Why isn't a woman only respected because she can take care of a child and she can do this and that?
01:58:58.000
That's just the reality of how the world works.
01:59:01.000
So what about a bossy woman who has something to stand for?
01:59:08.000
Bossy woman, when they turn 30 or 35, they come back to the show and say, Oh, I wish I would have found a man when I was 21.
01:59:15.000
So catch me in 10 years and let me know if you think the same way.
01:59:35.000
We don't give a shit about how much money a woman makes.
02:00:19.000
Not necessarily as intelligent as I thought you would be.
02:00:21.000
And you argue to argue, even in the face of irrefutable fact.
02:00:31.000
It's about if you're going to argue, argue in good faith and have a real structured argument behind it.
02:00:37.000
I had a little faltering moments, but I got my point across for the most part.
02:00:45.000
That women and men are pretty much kind of the same.
02:01:02.000
You cannot use North America and U.S. territories.
02:01:12.000
Bebe, WBigMo, WChris, Snow Bunny Hunter, WFresh.
02:01:33.000
To give it simple, we'll just do two countries.
02:03:44.000
If she twerks around the clock, then she belongs to the whole block.
02:03:46.000
Female hypergamy has no equality, boundaries, or sympathy.
02:03:50.000
So clap the cheeks violently and make the whole shit rapidly.
02:04:15.000
What qualities do you think are good for a strong family?
02:04:41.000
Just because I'm light, doesn't mean I'm not black.
02:04:52.000
And I can't call you a nigga because you're Jamaican.
02:04:54.000
Well, Chris, because she's mixed, she can be considered black.
02:04:58.000
If you have an eighth of black in you, you're considered black.
02:05:03.000
Okay, Iris says, what's one thing you would say that makes you distinctive from other women?
02:05:08.000
Real quick, how do you stand out from other women?
02:05:11.000
Um, I may not be like the hottest, but I definitely am like really funny.
02:05:17.000
Like you could see like a 10 out of 10 on the street.
02:05:38.000
Like I'm gonna fucking hop on your dick and like fucking like...
02:06:27.000
Even though you don't cheat my mind, I still understand and respect.
02:07:00.000
I think that most women don't have empathy to the male experience.
02:07:11.000
Anyway, with women not having empathy, I'm saying towards the male experience, women don't understand how difficult it is to be a man and most importantly to be attractive to women.
02:07:31.000
I sometimes been told that I think like a freaking man.
02:07:38.000
So if you think like a man, don't you think that showing your titties and having them out all the time would make men not take you seriously?
02:07:49.000
I'm sure at your uniform, probably, you got to show a little bit of cleavage to get an extra tip.
02:08:01.000
So for you, a woman needs to be covered with a tuttleneck all the time.
02:08:11.000
I think women should be covered up when they're not with their man.
02:08:17.000
I think that they should be covered up when they're not with their man.
02:08:20.000
I don't think they should be having provocative photos of themselves on the internet.
02:08:33.000
By them sexualizing themselves, making them open to men.
02:08:43.000
So I think a woman cheats when she seeks attention from the opposite gender.
02:08:47.000
Okay, so the fact that I wear something a little bit sexy.
02:08:56.000
I'm single, but the fact that I wear something a little bit sexy, because I know like...
02:09:17.000
And I can show you because then all the men are going to be looking at me sexually.
02:09:20.000
So then, don't get mad at men for hitting on you.
02:09:34.000
When they disrespect me and the way they hit at me, that's what gets me mad.
02:09:51.000
When you're no woman, you just think like, oh, all the men go to her because she got big titties because she's such a...
02:10:01.000
You're a cocktail waitress and you got big boobs.
02:10:11.000
Bro, you make no points at all, but okay, fine.
02:10:21.000
You said, I'm worth 10K. I'm worth 10K. I mean...
02:10:27.000
Do you think you could demand top dollar at 38 years old?
02:10:34.000
Did you command top dollar when you were 28 years old?
02:10:38.000
Has your worth went down or up in the past 10 years?
02:10:46.000
You got BBL? I don't have a BBL. This is all natural.
02:10:51.000
Okay, so what makes you, you said 10 years later, you said wiser and what else?
02:12:08.000
Is feminine energy something that you acquire over time?
02:12:12.000
Well, if you're a woman, obviously you're a female, which is going to make you feminine.
02:12:18.000
But to truly learn the art of it, the art of seduction, the art of being a woman, no, that's learned over time.
02:12:25.000
Here's something very interesting that I've noticed from talking with American girls versus foreign girls.
02:12:29.000
You know foreign women never say this dumb shit about feminine energy?
02:12:34.000
When we're in Colombia, did one girl say feminine energy?
02:12:41.000
They don't say no dumb shit about my feminine energy.
02:12:45.000
What if I walked around and said, yeah, my masculine energy.
02:12:52.000
Well, unfortunately, in the society that we live in, where women work, and women do, you know, the same as every, you know, we have to find our feminine energy later in life.
02:13:02.000
Is it better for me as a man to find a woman that's 38 years old that figured out her feminine energy, or just a girl that automatically came feminine at 21 that's, you know, younger?
02:13:19.000
And I'm not saying that's a dig, but what I'm saying is that this is why men universally prefer younger women because they have less experiences, they're able to mold the girl.
02:13:29.000
Well, we've established that because you want a guy that has money, which is fine.
02:13:31.000
We have a certain standard of life that guys need to be able to match for you to even give them a chance, correct?
02:13:40.000
And you're more than likely not going to change your standards, correct?
02:13:44.000
Okay, and you have habits that you've built up over a period of time that you're not going to change, right?
02:13:51.000
I want a girl that I can mold into being my girlfriend the way I want her to be.
02:14:03.000
So you want a woman that is going to be what you want her to be?
02:14:18.000
Do you want a man that's a leader and dominant?
02:14:32.000
So, if the man is a leader, then you gotta follow his programming, right?
02:14:42.000
Because I'll be honest with you, guys that have their shit together, we're not gonna sit here and argue with you and tell you, oh, I need you to do this and do that.
02:15:00.000
Women want a guy that can literally put them in their place, is a leader.
02:15:07.000
So if y'all doing wrong and we call you out for doing wrong, that's bad for us?
02:15:20.000
Like, if you say, hey babe, I'm going to go walk into the fire right now.
02:15:23.000
Well, obviously, if it's going to be detrimental, we want to hear your opinion.
02:15:28.000
I mean, if the guy has his shit together and he's successful, I mean, he's obviously probably walked through the fire before, right?
02:15:33.000
But most men are successful because of the woman.
02:15:35.000
What if the woman also has her shit together and has all her shit and all that, yet in the same position?
02:15:56.000
I don't give a shit about a girl being successful.
02:16:06.000
I don't want to sit here and argue with my girl.
02:16:10.000
I already got to go out to work and kill it in the world.
02:16:13.000
I don't want to come home and deal with a girl that's going to talk back to me or argue with me.
02:16:31.000
Yeah, because both of you, you too, are hyper...
02:16:34.000
You two are hyper-masculine, and with all due respect, you guys are annoying as fuck.
02:16:38.000
So I can't imagine a guy being in a relationship with you guys.
02:16:43.000
He'd have to be up on his masculinity to get you in line.
02:16:47.000
Well, we've got to be that masculine guy so that we can submit to our feminine.
02:16:50.000
If a guy leads properly, then I'm going to hold back.
02:17:09.000
I'm not going to base that based on him wearing dresses on Saturdays.
02:17:13.000
He could be a man-man but want to wear dresses on Saturdays, right?
02:17:16.000
Yeah, so you'd be with him, I guess, in this situation?
02:17:19.000
If he's a leader, if he about his shit, hell yeah, and he could wear his dresses.
02:17:22.000
Okay, but what if he told you, though, that, yo, you know, I'm going to be masculine only if you're, like, feminine.
02:17:32.000
To specifically say that, yeah, because if you're naturally masculine, I'm going to naturally be feminine.
02:17:40.000
So why the fuck am I going to sit here and be super masculine when you're masculine and hope that you change?
02:17:44.000
If I have to be masculine, that means you're not living up to your masculinity.
02:17:51.000
Because in the scenario, you're picking and choosing when you want to be feminine.
02:17:55.000
And that's like me picking and choosing when I want to be masculine.
02:18:03.000
In the context that this guy that wants to wear dresses is masculine, he is a leader, and he is a provider, right?
02:18:10.000
He's saying in general, why are you picking and choosing when you're being...
02:18:18.000
You want him to be masculine all the time, right?
02:18:25.000
But then we can go back to the first question of the night, which was why do we reject men that are vulnerable?
02:18:31.000
Being feminist doesn't mean to be submissive all the time.
02:18:35.000
That is a cornerstone of being feminine is being submissive.
02:18:38.000
Wouldn't you want a woman to stand up for herself if she's in a scenario where she's being disrespected?
02:18:54.000
But, okay, I think, like, if I can do something that you say, like, no, because you're the woman and you're supposed to stay home, like, no, why?
02:19:04.000
Like, this doesn't mean that I'm not, of course I'm going to take care of my house, of course I'm going to take care of my family, but that doesn't mean that you have to provide me everything.
02:19:12.000
What, the day that you decide to leave me, I'm going to be on the show?
02:19:16.000
Because you decide to leave me and I was just depending on you?
02:19:24.000
So the day that you decide to leave, you can tell to me, like, oh, everything you have is because of me.
02:19:29.000
I'm sorry, but I'm not allowing that to nobody.
02:19:32.000
Or the day that you decide, oh, I can't, I don't got it today, bae.
02:19:39.000
Like, the day that you can provide for me, I'll provide for you.
02:20:08.000
Because when you are machista, you don't respect when the women talk.
02:20:21.000
We don't really give a fuck what you guys think.
02:20:23.000
Being very honest with y'all, the reason why men in general don't give a fuck about what women gotta say or what they think is because we have different experiences.
02:20:31.000
You guys don't care about a lot of the shit that we say.
02:20:36.000
Some girls might be interested, but most don't.
02:20:47.000
Like, when I say I don't give a fuck what a woman thinks, everyone's like, that's so fucked up!
02:20:52.000
If I start talking about real estate right now, you'd be like, what the fuck?
02:20:57.000
But most of them don't is what I'm trying to say.
02:21:00.000
And there's nothing wrong with saying, I don't give a fuck what the other gender thinks because we're different and that's okay.
02:21:05.000
But women think, oh, my opinion matters, blah, blah, blah.
02:21:08.000
Look, it does matter to a degree if we're in a relationship.
02:21:10.000
But at the end of the day, I make the final decision.
02:21:12.000
No woman's going to tell me what the fuck to do.
02:21:27.000
But then you want your opinion to matter more than his.
02:21:33.000
It's just to give me the right to express myself.
02:21:41.000
I'm not saying that it has to be like, no, because you're the one leading, right?
02:21:52.000
Go express it to your friends, because I don't care.
02:21:58.000
You don't accept when a woman has also right, and she's right.
02:22:04.000
Whatever she's talking about, whatever she's saying.
02:22:06.000
Whatever you're talking about, whatever you're arguing, you cannot accept when she's right.
02:22:22.000
I tell her this is what it is, and she's like, okay.
02:22:26.000
Like, I don't know what you women think this is.
02:22:33.000
Like, I'm gonna argue with my man, and you guys are like, flexing that shit.
02:22:39.000
Like, there's a reason why you're 31 and single, and you're an attractive female.
02:22:49.000
You want to sit here and argue with niggas and I don't know my feelings.
02:22:53.000
If you were quiet more, I promise you, you would have a guy that you found attractive and arousing taking you seriously.
02:23:01.000
Your mouth has probably gotten you in a lot of trouble with men.
02:23:03.000
No, actually, I'm not the type of woman that's being arrogant because I don't like drama.
02:23:14.000
You must have your point hurt and defended against your man.
02:23:19.000
And let me tell you, successful guys, we don't negotiate with y'all.
02:23:25.000
What the fuck do I look like arguing with a female when I go get another one?
02:24:06.000
You guys just said that it's so hard to get women and rah, rah, rah.
02:24:19.000
Because all the women are chasing a small percentage of men.
02:24:46.000
Are there more attractive men or more attractive women?
02:25:43.000
It's someone that understands these dynamics and realizes, ooh, I'm with a winner.
02:25:47.000
I'd better shut the hell up and do what he says, or else I'm gonna have to go and deal with a more normal guy who's not gonna give me what I want, and I'm gonna be having to tell him to get to work, and I don't know if we're gonna be able to make the bills, and I gotta go 50-50 with him.
02:26:02.000
So the reality is getting a provisioner and an attractive man all in one package is very difficult.
02:26:07.000
So if you find one, you should shut the fuck up and listen to him.
02:26:11.000
Or you can sit there, you can do what she does, argue with them and shit, then they'll just have sex with you and never take you seriously.
02:26:17.000
But if you guys actually listen to what I said, I'm trying to help you guys with finding an attractive guy and actually keeping him.
02:26:30.000
But if they want to take the game, that's cool.
02:26:32.000
But like, in a relationship, I would never sit there and like, Oh, I need you to do this.
02:26:45.000
We just, birthers and breeders at this point, shake my head.
02:26:52.000
Othon says, ladies, you're sitting in the table of two successful high-status and high-net-worth men, not to mention thousands watching live.
02:26:58.000
Let's see how you, I guess, compete or comport yourself.
02:27:09.000
Ladies, who's on the table is white material and why?
02:27:12.000
Yeah, we got 20,000 of y'all in here right now.
02:27:17.000
I got my virgin high-value wife thanks to y'all's advice.
02:27:29.000
It's like men have universal things that they find attractive.
02:27:32.000
Like, you guys are over here and she's talking about being a businesswoman and you're talking about being, I'm wiser.
02:27:51.000
Anyways, ready for these eight tacklers from Fresh.
02:28:14.000
They're trying to come for me because I'm a little bigger than I usually am.
02:28:25.000
Yeah, but I also had a heart attack, so let's make that clear.
02:28:39.000
No, I'm not going to the gym right now, but it's okay.
02:28:49.000
Casey says, damn, I didn't know Mike Tyson had a sex change until he's aged 38.
02:29:03.000
Hard on Thought says, shorty next to Myron needs to do herself and her family a favor and stop talking.
02:29:43.000
Marian, you've been very nice the last couple weeks.
02:30:01.000
Even though I'm giving them timeless advice that would help them land and keep a millionaire, they don't fucking give a shit.
02:30:36.000
It's 20 bucks for you guys, so let's all laugh.
02:30:40.000
The girl next to my arm definitely gets off her rocker and smokes a Zaza daily.
02:30:43.000
If I was the father, I would have shoved my size to a boot straight up your ass and slapped the taste so far out of your mouth, you'll never get it back in the sewing you get therapy.
02:30:56.000
The girl two seats down from my arm's titties look like they milk duds.
02:31:00.000
This Indian 304 gives off feminist social justice warrior vibes.
02:31:03.000
Chasha Checker, Crazy 304, Interrupting Loud and Stupid.
02:31:30.000
It's definitely growing back slowly after these shows.
02:31:33.000
Having a dude in the friend zone is the equivalent to getting premier tier content with an expired trial membership.
02:31:41.000
Says, feminism has taught these women that they can be anything, which is all well and good.
02:31:45.000
What it failed to tell them is that they can have everything.
02:31:51.000
You can definitely be anything, but having everything...
02:31:56.000
Know Your Value says a woman can only weaponize sex if she believes she's in her man's...
02:32:08.000
Do you think you can get an amazing career and get a guy and a family?
02:32:25.000
No, I don't have kids, but I know that a woman can have everything and be everything.
02:32:39.000
Okay, but you don't have a family, so you have to give up something, right?
02:32:43.000
What do you mean that I have to give up something?
02:32:51.000
I haven't found a person who I think is right to have a kid.
02:33:11.000
You do realize that most of your eggs are gone, right?
02:33:15.000
From a biological sense, you already have a high-risk pregnancy right now.
02:33:44.000
But that doesn't mean that they're fertile to have kids.
02:33:47.000
You do realize that women have like a window...
02:34:06.000
So we're just stats saying that 31 is a good age for women to have kids.
02:34:20.000
Bro, you know how many times she probably had to try?
02:34:29.000
And then as you get older, it just gets harder and harder.
02:34:34.000
If she meets a man that wants to have children, why is he going to have kids with her when he can go get with a younger girl?
02:34:41.000
Yo, this is what I mean when I say women give each other terrible advice.
02:34:44.000
If she wanted to have kids, she needs to find somebody right now and get pregnant.
02:34:52.000
You do realize at 35 years old, it's a high-risk pregnancy and doctors advocate that it could fuck you and the kid up.
02:34:58.000
There's plenty of healthy babies that came out of older women, bro.
02:35:02.000
But what he's saying, though, is that you are right.
02:35:10.000
How the fuck do I know more about your bodies than you guys do?
02:35:13.000
Yeah, you don't know more about our bodies than we do, bro.
02:35:24.000
Because there's been women way older than me that have get pregnant and give healthy...
02:35:52.000
You're saying that I don't have a family because I'm working hard and I'm getting money.
02:35:56.000
But no, I don't have a family right now because I haven't decided to have any kids.
02:36:07.000
Because I haven't gotten in a relationship with somebody because I don't want to?
02:36:13.000
Would you prefer to be single right now than at 31?
02:36:19.000
I prefer to be single to be with a freaking motherfucker that is going to be abusing of me and not have to do all the shit that he thinks and accepting disrespecting shit from him.
02:36:30.000
And if I have to stay single for the rest of my life, I stay single.
02:36:33.000
But if you could be with your dream man, you would.
02:36:35.000
But if you could be with the man that you find attractive, you would.
02:36:46.000
But that I have a kid is not that I'm like, oh my God, I'm sacrificing.
02:36:57.000
So clearly, you have a career that you like, and you make money, and you're able to make your own money, but that came at a cost, okay?
02:37:04.000
You don't have a man and you don't have a family.
02:37:05.000
So that means something was sacrificed whether you want to admit it or not.
02:37:09.000
You can't have it all is what we're trying to say is that if you're going to pick a career, a lot of the times you're going to have to give up a family for it.
02:37:18.000
Her making money don't have nothing to do with her not finding the right guy for her.
02:37:37.000
Ten years from now, you're not going to give a fuck about that cocktail waitress job.
02:37:45.000
Because when we get their pleasure, stop interrupting me.
02:37:49.000
Men get pleasure from success and having admiration and respect from their peers.
02:37:53.000
Women get respect and get happy from having a children, family, and other people wanting to emulate, oh my god, you got a family.
02:38:02.000
When women meet, they hug each other and they say, oh, do you have a family?
02:38:21.000
You clearly haven't been told that much in your life.
02:38:26.000
It's annoying as hell with your little ad-libs.
02:38:36.000
If you're going to chase a career as a female, you might have to give up a family.
02:38:38.000
It is a sacrifice whether you want to accept it or not.
02:38:41.000
Because your ability to get a high status man, an attractive man that you like at 31, is not the same as when you were 21.
02:38:48.000
And your ability to have children at 31 versus 21 is not the same.
02:38:53.000
If you don't want to admit it to yourself, that's fine.
02:39:24.000
You're gonna make people from the hood really mad, bro.
02:39:32.000
Before I come in that studio, I knock her whore ass out.
02:39:46.000
You guys should know the stats, but I also have morals, and I don't want to lose it in a one-night stand.
02:39:52.000
Should I try to lose it now or become high-status?
02:39:55.000
Goal estimate 100k a month, but it might take longer.
02:39:57.000
So he's a 21-year-old virgin, wants to lose his V-card, but he has morals.
02:40:03.000
Bro, you gotta throw that moral shit to the side, man.
02:40:06.000
These girls are gonna use and abuse you if you're making $100,000 a month and you're a fucking sucker and you don't understand females, man.
02:40:19.000
He's weird and awkward and shy and timid and stuff.
02:40:23.000
Okay, a woman can only weaponize sex if she believes she's her man's only source of sex.
02:40:35.000
Men get your value high enough so you don't have to put up with women that are masculine...
02:40:57.000
Well, that's the big part of being a single mom.
02:41:07.000
I'm not trying to be on here fucking crying and shit.
02:41:15.000
Hey, man, I don't want to be an asshole, but this is why men need to be leaders, bro.
02:41:21.000
And y'all don't take care of us when we're in our emotions.
02:41:33.000
I'm just gonna take it for what it is, and maybe that'll be my motivation.
02:41:38.000
Okay, but y'all like to tell me that I'm beautiful, but I know where I could be.
02:41:50.000
A year ago when I was on the show, go look at that shit.
02:41:55.000
I'm hard on myself, which is the reason why I walked off and started crying.
02:41:58.000
Because I know I should be at a point where you said, well, it's been almost a year.
02:42:20.000
Honestly, if you can't afford a gym, a trainer, a babysitter to go work out, eat right, that shit just doesn't naturally fall off.
02:42:38.000
See, when it comes to fat loss and stuff like that, I'm not going to have y'all sit here and sob a story for her or whatever.
02:42:47.000
I'm not going to sit here and be like, oh no, it's okay, baby girl.
02:42:54.000
Eat in a calorie deficit, train, you'll lose weight, make better decisions, and that's it.
02:43:00.000
If I was a fat nigga, y'all would be laughing at me.
02:43:01.000
Y'all would be, fuck, if I came in here crying, I don't know, man, I just had a kid.
02:43:06.000
Bro, I've seen so many women bounce back from postpartum.
02:43:13.000
So you don't think there's not a hormonal imbalance that makes it harder to...
02:43:19.000
Women say that dumb shit to each other to make themselves feel better.
02:43:21.000
Y'all eat too much goddamn donuts, watch too much goddamn TV, and y'all don't go hard in the gym, and you gotta stop being lazy.
02:43:28.000
We give women way too many excuses for being fat.
02:43:30.000
We give women way too many excuses for being fat.
02:43:32.000
Have you had a newborn on your tit for 16 hours a day and then go to the gym?
02:43:38.000
Please tell me about your experience doing that.
02:43:41.000
It's about control your calories because humans are humans.
02:43:49.000
So you're not going to feel hungry to eat more to produce milk to feed your baby is what you're telling me.
02:44:08.000
How many times have you went to the gym the past year?
02:44:21.000
I didn't go to the gym one time this past year.
02:44:40.000
You can show me, but you are not counting every single calorie correctly.
02:44:45.000
You ain't eating no 1800 calories to be that big.
02:44:48.000
Y'all are not going to sit here and lie to me about this shit.
02:44:51.000
Bro, we are not about to shame a lady that had a baby, bro.
02:45:00.000
She won't bounce back the way she's supposed to, the way God intended, bro.
02:45:09.000
You don't know what you're talking about in regards to women.
02:45:13.000
Whether male or female, control your calories, exercise, and you'll be fine.
02:45:22.000
Yeah, but like she said, hormones are different.
02:45:24.000
There's so many different factors to take into consideration when you bounce back from pushing a human baby out.
02:45:36.000
Regardless, whether you eat too many calories or too little calories, you're going to lose and gain weight based off caloric intake, period.
02:45:43.000
Everybody's on their journey in terms of self-discipline and getting themselves back on track, bro.
02:45:52.000
Women, mothers need their space, man, to recover.
02:46:00.000
If you want to talk about statistics and facts, That actually, it is a traumatic experience to have a baby.
02:46:13.000
Not being able to walk up a set of stairs without being in breath?
02:46:28.000
No, I'm talking about the trauma after, like being obese after the fact.
02:46:37.000
Look, man, I'd want to be there for my kid after I had him.
02:46:39.000
I'd want to make sure I lived a healthy ass life.
02:46:41.000
What's the proper time to bounce back after a child?
02:46:47.000
So as soon as you get out of the hospital, go to the gym.
02:46:50.000
Obviously, take like a month or two to recover, but a year?
02:46:57.000
What if she was the same exact weight, but her body looked different?
02:47:06.000
I love how you guys just give each other excuses.
02:47:10.000
Women don't shoot straight with each other ever.
02:47:12.000
All you guys fucking do is make excuses for your inadequacies.
02:47:19.000
You would probably give her more value if you told her, you know what?
02:47:28.000
Instead of saying a bunch of bullshit fucking lies.
02:47:30.000
But that's the difference between men and women.
02:47:32.000
We understand that there's hierarchies to this shit.
02:47:40.000
You didn't say shit about her weight the whole time.
02:47:42.000
The whole time we said that everyone's on their different journey.
02:47:48.000
She's going to take her time to get her body right.
02:47:56.000
God's not coming down from earth telling her she need to do that shit, bro.
02:48:00.000
Shut the fuck up for two seconds and this is the reality.
02:48:53.000
Obese is 30 pounds over your BMI. She's well over that.
02:49:02.000
Y'all are literally experiencing why so many women don't lose weight, why so many women are fat as fuck and they don't improve.
02:49:11.000
Because you got chicks like this coming in here saying, you're beautiful the way you are.
02:49:17.000
I'm saying you expect her to bounce back in a year.
02:49:22.000
This fat motherfucker behind me lost 130 pounds in a year.
02:49:30.000
Yes, by being a fucking slob who will roast him every fucking day about it.
02:49:34.000
Okay, well, hey, whether a woman or a man, control your calories, go to the gym.
02:49:38.000
We make fun of this fat piece of shit every single fucking day.
02:49:49.000
So she's got to deal with the consequences of it, which means you got to lose weight after the fact.
02:49:52.000
There's a responsibility on you to stay healthy after the fact.
02:49:54.000
I'm not going to make an excuse for fat people ever, alright?
02:49:56.000
You could go ahead and do that shit, but she's probably going to learn more from me telling the truth.
02:50:26.000
When this is done, Google what fat and obesis, you'll see what...
02:50:29.000
30 pounds over what she's supposed to weigh, and she's well over 30 pounds of what she's supposed to weigh.
02:50:45.000
I like sifting through the knowledge so I can speak what I like.
02:50:48.000
Knowledge is about what you like and what you don't like.
02:50:58.000
You might not like it, but fuck what you think.
02:51:03.000
She's dealing with extraneous factors that are different through every woman.
02:51:10.000
If a nigga's a brokie, do you give a fuck if he's a brokie?
02:51:29.000
I mean, no one cares, but, like, from a girl's perspective, like, if you have stretch marks, you have a belly, you have...
02:51:41.000
Nah, I've been single for a while now, but honestly, bodies are bodies, but if you're obese, you're obese.
02:51:50.000
I could be a healthy weight and be 23% BMI, you know what I mean?
02:51:57.000
It's all perspective, too, and that's what body positivity is about nowadays and stuff.
02:52:04.000
I do agree with you that it is bullshit, but if you have big titties and a big ass and a little bit of a belly, there's nothing wrong with that.
02:52:13.000
Or if you're like curvy, there's nothing wrong with that.
02:52:16.000
Or if you're even like a two by four or whatever the fuck you want to call it, there's nothing wrong with that.
02:52:20.000
So you just said body positivity is bullshit, but now you're making an argument for body positivity.
02:52:24.000
Not exactly body positivity, but there's a hundred different type of fucking bodies out there.
02:52:29.000
Before you talk, please think about what you're saying.
02:52:31.000
No, for real, there's a hundred different types of bodies out there.
02:52:46.000
Yo, like, yo, this is probably the most truth bombs these girls have gotten ever.
02:53:02.000
Like, if I had a baby, I'm sure I would not look good.
02:53:04.000
She was making an argument for body positivity.
02:53:06.000
Then you just said body positivity is retarded.
02:53:08.000
I mean, everything is bullshit at the end of the day.
02:53:26.000
It's the number one killer in the United States is fucking heart disease.
02:53:36.000
I don't know if you knew that, but in this country, it's very prevalent.
02:54:19.000
I hope that, because you don't know what she's going through.
02:54:24.000
You don't know what she's going through, and the way you talk to her- There's never an excuse to be fat.
02:54:30.000
Okay, then why are you making an excuse for her?
02:54:32.000
Then why are you making an excuse for her then?
02:54:35.000
The way you talk to her and the way you said it to her...
02:54:41.000
But it doesn't matter how you say things to people.
02:54:52.000
Like, okay, maybe you are a little bit overweight.
02:54:54.000
Like, I'm not going to say, like, whatever you want you trying to say.
02:54:58.000
But the way you said it to her is the reason why a lot of people do crazy shit.
02:55:10.000
I hope that she's a strong woman and she's super intelligent and she's going to do whatever you're saying.
02:55:21.000
If it was just you guys here sitting at the panel talking to her, do you think she would have went to the gym and exercised after the fact?
02:55:29.000
I could have said the same thing that you said to her in a better way.
02:55:36.000
Also, the first step to change is to set yourself.
02:55:41.000
I said that this is not the body that she used to have before she had her kid.
02:56:02.000
When you guys were back there, did you tell her?
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I'm not gonna go to her and tell her what she needs to do when I don't know her.
02:56:20.000
You were with her for longer than I was and you didn't say shit.
02:56:35.000
The amount of, like, hoops that you guys are trying to jump to, like, sit here and tell me that I'm an asshole or I'm wrong or whatever...
02:56:53.000
If you guys don't see something wrong with that, something is wrong with your mind and that's why so many people are fucked up in America.
02:56:59.000
Low IQ, fat, and retarded in the United States and they're fucking broke.
02:57:03.000
People need to get a better mind to understand you need to be in shape.
02:57:07.000
That will help you with having a better mindset with being a clear mind and then being a better human being, period.
02:57:22.000
I don't give a fuck what y'all think about how I said it because it's a fact.
02:57:25.000
If I say one plus one is two or one plus one is fucking two, it doesn't change the fact that it's still two.
02:57:32.000
We warned you guys before the show, put your feelings aside.
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We're going to say things that might be uncomfortable.
02:57:41.000
She's probably going to be motivated to go to the gym now.
02:57:44.000
And none of you motherfuckers would have said that shit to her, but I did.
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So if she loses the weight, you can fucking thank me for it.
02:57:50.000
Because now, she has a strong stimuli to lose the weight.
02:57:56.000
Y'all would have sat here and said, your body's beautiful.
02:58:00.000
She already told us backstage that she was working on that, though.
02:58:05.000
But what if I looked at her and didn't genuinely be like, oh, she's fat?
02:58:13.000
If you can look at her and you don't see that she's objectively obese, you're fucking dumb.
02:58:20.000
Have you actually seen, like, 600-pound life or, like, them TLC shows?
02:58:23.000
You need to shut the fuck up and actually, listen.
02:58:26.000
I literally said, obese is 30 pounds over fucking weight.
02:58:32.000
She's well over 30 pounds over where she should be.
02:58:36.000
You're not going to sit here and make an argument with me with irrefutable facts.
02:58:47.000
What the fuck does it have to do with anything?
02:58:57.000
I'm telling you in black and white what obese is.
02:59:03.000
It doesn't change the fact that it's still obese, period.
02:59:20.000
I guarantee you they wish you weren't sitting here as a struggling-ass musician.
02:59:23.000
You need to go back to your family, live with them, go back to school, and fix your shit.
02:59:28.000
I'm telling you, you're low IQ. Get the fuck out of here.
02:59:33.000
I'm telling you, irrefutable fact, you're sitting here trying to argue with me.
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I didn't mean to get such an emotional reaction.
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And you're just sitting here trying to argue to argue.
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I'm offering you another perspective as a woman.
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Your perspective is fucking wrong and you're dumb.
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Just take your stuff and get the hell out of here.
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I'm going to close out the show here in a second.
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Uh, ladies, have you ever put your boyfriend in a loyalty test without him knowing?
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Mariel, I want to kiss your neck, caress your thighs, take off your clothes, turn your ass over while playing some Jacquees music and penetrate.
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Also, we're finished with our horizontal cardio session.
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As you say, Tooth says, all these ovaries on the panel are definitely on the spectrum.
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This is why women account for 80% of the consumer base because it's easier to sell to a retard.
03:01:12.000
Holy Infused says, these girls be out to the gas station Jose.
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Sipping off rip and never going to get a call back.
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They're just going to turn into simp stories and going to be shared for laughs.
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Matter of fact, those girls came on the show and she named the dude on their phone as Gas Station Jose.
03:01:47.000
Lepra something says, these are the girls that didn't get into Vendome WFNF. Oh my god!
03:01:56.000
Aya Mafi says, Fresh, I care because you have a large male audience.
03:02:01.000
Susie sold an image that contradicts her reality.
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Okay, so he's successful or a musician or something like that.
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I'm not a whore Good thing she's not here, bro.
03:02:51.000
Trump2024 says, my pronouns are find Jesus to these women.
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Again, Trump says, on or off camera, y'all still thoughtzillas.
03:03:06.000
TSMX says, yo man, I bet for Jake Paul to win by first round KO, but my stake betting app stopped working.
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And then SpaceMonkey says, You're completely wrong saying that any of the guests are masculine.
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Put two masculine men together, they get along, and get shit done.
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These women aren't masculine, they're just horrible people.
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I mean, I'm sure they're next people behind the scenes.
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Last one here says, Fast like Bobby says, Ahi, she fat, but I was still hit, but she got to hit the gym for sure.
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Okay, ladies, we're going to do last thoughts on the show after he's here.
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Shannon Brick says, Second time in a row, shaming is coming back.
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It's funny when a man is fat like Mo, but no ladies are defending Mo, and he's working hard for it when he's trying to lose it.
03:04:10.000
Like I said last show, shaming needs to come back and stop being so sensitive.
03:04:27.000
I didn't learn anything that I didn't already know.
03:04:36.000
I thought tonight's episode was a little aggressive.
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Well, I will say we did brief you guys to say that we're going to tell you the truth, even though it may be harsh, but the truth does hurt sometimes.
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It's good to hear other people's point of view.
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So are you going to change your mindset when it comes to dating?
03:05:04.000
But yeah, it's something, I mean, I do radio also for Spanish, so it's like, I know what it is.
03:05:12.000
I just didn't like to be exposed in a way like this, but it doesn't really affect me.
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No girl wants to sit there and be single at 31.
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That's like a dude that's 18 years old that's beating his meat all the time to fucking porn and then saying, oh yeah, I'm just whacking off because I'm happily being a jerker.
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I'm not saying that I don't want a relationship.
03:06:04.000
You know, in my country, they have this expression, like, oh, se te va ir el tren, like, the train is gonna, it's gonna, it's not gonna wait for you.
03:06:21.000
Because men are the ones that, are you gonna get down on a knee and propose to a man?
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Maybe I get so crazy in love like that, I decide to do that.
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Are you going to actually get down on one knee and propose to a man?
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I hope that I don't have to do it and it's the man who does it because I'm very traditional.
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But if I have to do it, if I get crazy in love with a man like that and I have to do it, fuck it.
03:06:50.000
So then the man is the one that's driving the train if he's the one that has to get down on a knee and propose to you.
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Number two, like, I don't know what to tell you, man.
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The men are the ones that pick their relationships.
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You can't get married unless a man gets down on a knee and gives you a ring.
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You're delusional if you think that you're the one that controls the train.
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All my friends that are successful, that have money, date younger girls.
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Because we don't want to sit here and argue with a girl like yourself that thinks they're the conductor of the train, thinks they're their boss, whatever.
03:08:01.000
Because they love to have control of the situation.
03:08:05.000
Yes, but that doesn't mean that he's going to control.
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He can control any situation between us by not changing my personality.
03:08:19.000
You want a leader, but then you don't want him to lead.
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You have to be specific what he's going to lead.
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She's happily single and 18-year-olds are happily whacking off.
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Well, I'm in a happy medium between the 18 and 31.
03:09:09.000
But I thought it was really interesting, you know, different perspectives, you know, different ways of thinking.
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Whenever you talk to, like, different kinds of people, like, you always get, like, you know, like, I think this way, you think that way, and, like, maybe I learned something from you, you learned something from me.
03:09:43.000
Yeah, because I'm trying to figure out this university you go to, what the standards are.
03:09:58.000
So you get a 15 for writing your name, and I got a 17 on the math.
03:10:04.000
So I actually got one math question right out of like almost 200.
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Actually, I got into SDSU, which has a 36% acceptance rate.
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Well, this was a great panel, man, but this is terrible.
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I didn't say much because I agreed with a lot of your perspective on things.
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The girls that typically don't say shit, which a lot of times happens on the show, they tend to be a little bit more sane.
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Hope you guys enjoyed the show because I lost a lot of hair follicles on this one.
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Alright, niggas, we'll see you all on Monday, man.
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I ran, I ran so far away I just ran, I ran all night and day